Pearl - “Woman EXPOSES Her Date in a Private Group After Just 4 Dates” @JustPearlyThings

00:00:00.000 i already gave up the dating apps but this just let this be a warning to everyone out there who's

00:00:04.960 still on them don't trust anybody i know that sounds crazy and a little cynical a lot cynical

00:00:12.560 but i've now had way too many experiences where i just think it's too easy to be this ideal person

00:00:19.520 on those apps and so many women get caught in these kind of traps where you're already

00:00:26.000 five six dates they're two colors and it's not what you signed up for so i did a guy okay that's

00:00:32.720 women though women men are kind of what they signed up that's the thing everything women say

00:00:37.280 about men is projection it's projection you know last november and i really liked him

00:00:44.400 he was coming out of he was engaged um like six months prior and that's when it well they broke

00:00:50.560 off their engagement like six months before we started dating so he'd had some time to kind of

00:00:55.120 like heal and reflect and he told me he was in therapy now still they did it for a long time so

00:01:00.160 i kind of was like proceeding with caution because i knew okay there's no way this man is just fully

00:01:05.920 healed and ready for a serious relationship again which is what i'm looking for but we got along

00:01:11.200 really well he was super funny really cute he we just had so much in common he was so chivalrous

00:01:20.240 i don't know he just did everything right but in the back of my head i was kind of like okay

00:01:24.560 this is going almost too well you know what's the catch so i had doubts but not really any

00:01:31.920 proof to back it up we went on four dates and do you guys want to hear a story i could just feel

00:01:37.200 he was a little bit more distant and i saw that he was still on all the apps and like i mean all

00:01:44.240 the apps he was on like four different dating apps so i just told him hey you know it's been

00:01:49.040 really nice getting to know you i think we're looking for different things here and i'm just

00:01:52.800 just gonna take a step back and he just didn't respond i sent like a nice message but i just

00:01:58.780 like i i wasn't getting what i needed back a few months later i see okay ladies so he was dating

00:02:06.260 other people we date other people all the time it's just him on raya or he sees me on raya and

00:02:12.440 he messages me and it's like hey i'm so sorry about the way things ended blah blah i wasn't

00:02:17.000 in a great place hope you're doing well kind of hinting that he wanted to see me and i was just

00:02:21.520 like wish you the best i'm so sorry you were going through a hard time and i hope it's better now

00:02:26.380 but you know don't bring me into your mess i had posted him in this group i won't reveal the group 0.91

00:02:31.860 oh no bitch so let me get this straight this is a horror story for you and you aired him out get 1.00

00:02:37.460 the fuck out of here but the girls that know know um it's a confidential group of women that you can 1.00

00:02:43.360 post somebody and see if anyone's had negative dating experiences it's mostly for like you know 0.96

00:02:49.880 dangerous guys or like guys with girlfriends those kind all right so then she posted him 1.00

00:02:56.820 in the group and it was hell on earth women just made up shit 1.00

Pearl - October 01, 2026