Pearl - September 28, 2026


“Woman Reads the BRUTAL List of Everything Her Ex Gave Up for Her” @JustPearlyThings

“The ‘Traditional’ 1950s Housewife Wasn’t So Traditional After All” @JustPearlyThings Women Having MELTDOWNS Over Completely Normal Dates

Episode Stats


Length

2 minutes

Words per minute

186.37

Word count

534

Sentence count

8

Harmful content

Misogyny

6

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Toxicity

3

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Transcript

Transcript generated with Whisper (turbo).
Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Toxicity classifications generated with s-nlp/roberta_toxicity_classifier .
00:00:00.000 sent me a list of things he had to give up in order to be in a relationship with me during our
00:00:05.680 divorce and i would like to read them to you today uh with my current husband listening because he
00:00:12.780 has not seen this list okay i've given up that number one every woman that i could have slept
00:00:19.840 with since you and i got together oh this is a tara chad number two i gave up my free time during 1.00
00:00:25.560 the during the week to work a nine to five so we can get ahead financially i bet she was just
00:00:30.240 nagging him about everything so then he gave her a list as if women would respond to logic but 1.00
00:00:35.880 we're not very logical so we'll she'll just use the list and throw it against you aka getting a 1.00
00:00:41.340 job i gave up staying out as late as i wanted several times because you wanted to get home
00:00:47.960 we would be out until like midnight and I was pregnant and I wanted to go home I gave up 0.95
00:00:55.320 regular conversations with many women just so that you could have the certainty that I wasn't 1.00
00:01:00.960 going to even get close to cheating on you it wasn't just regular conversations it was
00:01:05.920 conversations about sleeping with them I gave up whatever I wanted uh many times to watch what you
00:01:13.120 wanted to watch not true he made us watch civil war documentaries almost every night i've given
00:01:20.140 up a lot of my time driving back and forth to see you throughout our entire relationship
00:01:24.200 entire relationship is a stretch because you know we lived together while we were married
00:01:28.200 but while we were dating we did live an hour apart sacrifice miles on my car that's what it
00:01:35.040 that's what driving is actually had a car crap out on me while driving back from your place 0.74
00:01:40.480 that was about um i bet he was always the one coming to see her and she did nothing maybe a
00:01:45.560 month or two in he had a really old car and it just gave up on him but that was my fault number
00:01:51.580 nine money i could have spent on myself love i could have let myself for others let's read that
00:01:59.380 again love i could have let myself for others or others i don't know what that means what 11 time
00:02:06.220 I'm doing whatever I wanted just to be with you.
00:02:08.740 Giving up secrecy and told you everything.
00:02:11.440 That's actually not true.
00:02:12.380 You didn't tell me a lot of stuff until after I got pregnant and I found out that you should be in prison.
00:02:17.960 Number 13, giving up my pride to be honest and open with you.
00:02:23.520 Typical man not wanting to open up about how he's feeling. 0.99
00:02:26.960 Number 14, gave up acting like a jerk to be humble and studious to your family rather than prideful. 0.98
00:02:34.060 15 i've given my whole life to you on our wedding day given up feeling good about myself and my life just because you said i wasn't doing good enough i asked him to stop watching corn and flirting with other women and doing so you know 0.98