Pearl - May 15, 2026


WOMEN BRING DRAMA NOT PEACE ⧹ these ladies are lying


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Length

10 minutes

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164.75671

Word count

1,754

Sentence count

50

Harmful content

Misogyny

11

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Toxicity

15

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Hate speech

20

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In this episode, I talk about the dumbest idea I've ever heard about women bringing peace to a man's life and why it's actually the opposite. I also talk about how women bring drama to men's lives and why they should stop doing it.

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00:00:00.160 What up guys? Welcome to my coffee talks. Today I have water. This is my second coffee talk because I had one earlier but I had no point. So now I'm going to do number two.
00:00:10.040 So I wanted to talk about how there's like this idea that women bring a man peace. 0.98
00:00:18.740 And I think this is the dumbest idea I've ever heard. 0.89
00:00:21.780 um back when you know I started my show I interviewed a thousand people um I think it's 0.98
00:00:27.600 difficult for women to really bring value to a man's life in 2026 um now hear me out I'm gonna
00:00:33.180 go so um I used to ask women what do you bring to the table or what do you bring to a relationship 0.99
00:00:39.600 and um in 2026 I think it's very difficult for a high performing man to really add value to his
00:00:46.840 life because most high-performing men um they already can cook they already can clean up after
00:00:52.600 themselves they already if anything like you helping them annoys them because they have their
00:00:59.000 routine and men hate they hate messing with their routine men are creatures of habit they tend to do
00:01:07.300 the same things like messing with a guy's routine is annoying to him so him allowing you to help him
00:01:14.380 is actually like um it's more of a hindrance to him but men will do it because they're really
00:01:20.920 nice right but women don't a lot of times realize that even when they're cooking and cleaning if
00:01:26.620 the guy's been um it's one thing if you met young but if he's like a certain age you're probably
00:01:31.300 just doing it in a way that annoys him like just you know but he allows you to do it because he
00:01:37.820 wants you to feel needed right men understand that inherently but there is this answer that 0.69
00:01:43.840 I would get from women and they would say oh I I'm his piece I make a house a home and I would 0.99
00:01:50.300 just think what the fuck does that even mean like like and you know I would get this from the red 0.99
00:01:56.960 pill guys too um or red pill like more conservative leaning guys you know like what do you want a 0.99
00:02:02.720 woman to do and they would say like cook and clean and I don't know um that just isn't really what 0.51
00:02:11.420 I've seen in real life um men maybe appreciate it they like that you're doing the nice thing for
00:02:16.960 them but in terms of like again most guys over a certain age they have their food like they have 1.00
00:02:26.980 that taken care of they have a system and because women tend to be inconsistent they would almost 0.94
00:02:33.600 just rather do it like you know because even if you're a consistent woman they don't know if the 1.00
00:02:39.820 relationship's going to work out. They would rather just have no variables and just have it 1.00
00:02:44.260 figured out and not have to quit. Like men don't want to make any extra decisions or like watch to
00:02:50.300 make sure she does it right. He'd rather just get it done and do it himself. And that's just kind of
00:02:54.000 the male like thought path. So it's funny because when I started in the red pill space, I grew up
00:02:59.400 really heavily in travel sports. So I didn't really have
00:03:04.860 when I first started I really didn't know how to cook and clean I didn't know how
00:03:11.960 like five years ago but I actually took the time to learn
00:03:17.420 I was thinking about this and I'm like I actually took the time to learn to cook and clean I really
00:03:24.980 did I spent so many hours learning how to cook and I'm actually a pretty good cook now
00:03:30.920 and I thought about it and I'm like you know what 0.97
00:03:33.800 I did it just to find out that men don't really need it like
00:03:40.560 if I'm dating a guy like generally speaking anyways I was just thinking but going back to
00:03:47.700 this be his piece I think I'm more self-aware than a lot of women and even I will say that
00:03:55.140 all women me included we bring drama to men's life and it's in every facet even if you're 0.99
00:04:01.540 well-intentioned like it's just over time you're bound to talk about some stupid drama with your 0.95
00:04:06.940 friends you're bound to like watch a tv like i was talking about this last coffee talk i know 0.98
00:04:14.120 who claviculars girlfriends are like why do i care about who claviculars girlfriends are
00:04:23.680 like i'm in with the drama i'm like i know um violet was the less cute one but she was kind
00:04:32.420 of more ride or die and now he's got this new hot girl who seems to love him a lot there's like
00:04:37.840 like there's two hot women that he's dating now and one just seems so chill but i don't think
00:04:44.560 she likes him as much because she's not as emotionally riled when he does anything the
00:04:48.740 other girl likes him a lot, but you know, that causes her to, uh, to crash out a little bit more.
00:04:54.720 Anyways, here's my point. I shouldn't know any of that. Um, and the things that, um, men bring
00:05:04.480 into a woman's life, I would really say are invaluable or, um, I don't know if that's the
00:05:08.980 right word, but they're impeccable. It's amazing. Men help you with your social media addiction.
00:05:14.900 most women um if you're born in 2026 you have some addiction to social media no men it's not
00:05:21.580 the same uh attention addictions um we tend to leave things all around the house like we
00:05:28.880 we tend to amazon addictions um my i was taught how to uh cook i didn't know how to cook um
00:05:38.680 being neater and men love teaching so they bring all of this stability order and structure into 0.65
00:05:47.880 your life okay women you cannot bring anything like the only thing you can bring to a man 0.68
00:05:58.020 is listening to him that's it i was i was literally thinking about this because he has to teach you 0.99
00:06:05.560 And I do think that's a problem. Like, I was watching Clavicular and his girlfriend. And he was saying that she doesn't make breakfast. And she's like, well, I don't know what to what breakfast do you want? And I'm thinking like, yeah, you got to give the girl instruction. But I think men get frustrated because they don't they want you to want to they don't want to have to tell you. But guys, it's 2026. You got to you got to tell the woman what her role is.
00:06:29.160 or what you want, because yeah, we're not going to know.
00:06:38.400 But back to the word, like be his peace, make a house a home. I find that the women that say
00:06:45.120 that just have big egos where they think they're more important than they are. And 1.00
00:06:50.900 the most obedient woman I've ever met in my life was a woman that I grew up near and I talk about
00:07:00.100 her a lot she had two boys and really she had a really really strong Catholic faith and a lot of
00:07:09.000 the mothers where I was growing up would kind of criticize her because her husband had a lot of
00:07:14.400 rules and she would listen to them. Right. And, um, I remember growing up, uh, like hearing things 1.00
00:07:20.500 that I can't remember what they said exactly, but it was something along the lines of like
00:07:24.780 him being controlling, you know, the typical female shaming. And then I got older and I was
00:07:29.500 like, Oh, but she's still married and she respects her husband. Um, but even her and her house is
00:07:36.540 spotless. She makes all the food from scratch. It's amazing. She even still brings drama because 0.99
00:07:43.900 she never shuts up I never shut up either you know what I mean like it's like even her like
00:07:50.420 even though she objectively brings value like objectively objectively I I can't even and I
00:07:57.480 don't want this to sound um critical because um she's a far better woman than me in every way
00:08:04.120 there would still be more peace if she left for two weeks than her there does that make sense
00:08:11.200 and that's just our nature. Our nature is chaos. I think we got demons in us. Like I think we just
00:08:21.980 struggle. I think we just struggle with these demons inside of us and
00:08:26.900 women that claim to make a house a home, I think what they really mean is to buy useless shit that 1.00
00:08:38.500 you don't need to decorate it like excessively because even the way that men decorate they 1.00
00:08:45.340 create everything to be useful they don't care about the way things look and so when they put
00:08:51.600 I saw this guy who built like a barn dominium and it was the coolest thing I ever seen there
00:08:55.860 weren't all these rooms that you don't need there weren't all these like extra uh like
00:09:02.800 gadgets, fluff pillow. It was, it was like just the most basic. Um, it was a giant space,
00:09:10.620 but it was so versatile and useful. Um, that when you put men in charge of stuff, like
00:09:15.680 they just make things in a way that's efficient. So I find that women that say they want to make 1.00
00:09:20.940 a house a home, they mean buy useless shit and, um, signal status to other people that doesn't 1.00
00:09:28.560 matter. Then you have, um, I want to be his peace. I don't know where these women are that make a 0.99
00:09:38.360 man's life peaceful. I don't, I haven't met any. Our inherent nature is chaos. So you can learn to 1.00
00:09:51.480 be peaceful from him. And I think there's like a, a spectrum based on how coachable and messed up
00:09:57.500 you start so all the women like let's just say we're these we're these sucky empty like this 1.00
00:10:03.480 water bottle's empty right and um over time if the man trains you you can become less sucky and 0.98
00:10:10.260 terrible maybe if you have like a a good father but the problem is even dads nowadays most of them
00:10:17.880 are simps so they never tell their daughters no so even if there's like a quote-unquote good
00:10:24.160 father on paper I mean usually he's just afraid of the women in his house so anyways when you
00:10:33.620 hear those phrases what do you guys think of let me know in the comments like the video and
00:10:37.040 subscribe and I'll see you next time