Pearl - May 29, 2025


Women Giving Up Their Children After Realizing Being A Mom IS NOT For Them! ｜ Pearl Reacts


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10 minutes

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19

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In this episode we discuss modern women giving up their kids. Is it a good thing or a bad thing? What does it mean for a woman to send her kids off with their biological father? What is the best thing a woman can do for her kids?

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00:00:00.000 what up guys welcome to my reaction series today we're talking about modern women giving up their
00:00:05.000 kids so modern women you know we we have a tendency to say we want things without thinking 0.81
00:00:10.440 about it you know we say oh i want the degree we didn't we didn't think about it um we say we want
00:00:15.400 a wedding but i didn't really think about what it takes to be a wife and then we think about having
00:00:20.960 kids but we don't think about what it's going to take to be a mother we're just like oh kid cute i
00:00:27.240 want one so now we're seeing more women uh mothers giving their kids away either to the kid's father 1.00
00:00:35.820 to the family so let's take a look at women giving up their kids bro oh man so i'm gonna be the first 0.99
00:00:44.760 to tell y'all i have made the consecutive decision to send my son off with his daddy now before y'all
00:00:51.980 start before y'all start no i am not just overwhelmed as a parent and need a break and
00:00:56.760 send him off so i can live my life my son is 10 years old he just turned 10 years old this year
00:01:03.220 i actually think it's better once the boys get to a certain age that they're with the dad so
00:01:09.880 maybe maybe it was for a good reason maybe and he is already showing signs of puberty and all this
00:01:19.780 good stuff basically doing the preteen thing right i do feel like it is best if he is with his father
00:01:29.440 while he's going through this transition because his father is the one who has to teach him hey that's
00:01:34.940 actually a good reason that's actually that's a i i can't believe i'm saying this but that's a good
00:01:44.460 reason how to go from boyhood into manhood right i realize my limitations as a woman and a mother
00:01:53.680 and i know especially in my family that is taboo my mama and my grandma gonna see this and they go 0.98
00:02:01.360 i'm gonna get cussed out i'm gonna get cussed out and they don't think i'm all type of stupid 0.90
00:02:06.720 nonetheless i have to give my son his best shot at life and i realized that as a single mother with no 0.99
00:02:15.380 male in the household my son has no type of male influence he has picked up a lot on my behaviors
00:02:23.700 my mannerisms and my family is full of women single unmarried women so he has not seen how a man
00:02:33.800 should act in certain situations or respond to certain situations or how to handle his emotions
00:02:40.420 so yeah y'all it was a very tough decision because i love my baby that was my very first baby
00:02:46.700 i don't want my baby to leave me at all i don't want to give up that like no i can't believe a woman 0.99
00:02:54.240 is making a selfless decision there has to be an underlying reason sorry no that that was actually a
00:03:01.780 good that was a good uh i i do think the boys over a certain age they gotta be with dad
00:03:07.680 but it's in his best interest any other mothers ever made that decision some women just believe
00:03:16.900 that they can raise a young boy into a young young man but i don't believe that i can teach my son how
00:03:25.280 to be a man let's see let's see what the comments say there's nothing wrong with this i wish my
00:03:30.640 stepson's mother could understand this he's a boy i think it's a good choice he sounds like a great mom
00:03:36.760 to me all right let's see who's next five children yeah whatever she gave up her five kids to social 1.00
00:03:46.120 services because her baby daddy refused to help her that spite she gave up the kids to get back at the 1.00
00:03:52.620 dad i'm 27 prior to me giving them up i already had that thought in my head a year prior i didn't have
00:04:01.380 nobody to watch the kids so when i reached out to um when i reached out to the girl's dad now mind you
00:04:06.760 i ain't thought about laying with this man my my daughter's about to be three you know about to be 1.00
00:04:11.480 three in november i don't want this man so he i call him i'm like you know can you help me i need
00:04:16.520 can you watch the girls or whatever he's like oh well don't you got me on child support don't you got
00:04:21.020 me on child support no yes i do have him on so translation i picked a man that didn't want to be
00:04:30.880 a father or he used to want to be a father but i made his life so hell that he doesn't care anymore 0.56
00:04:37.740 that he's letting me have these kids excuse me i have hiccups so um chronic hiccups is what i mean
00:04:44.300 but anyway um so when i put him on child support a year after my daughter's was born he didn't start
00:04:50.000 paying until this year so and he's only he was only required to pay 196 a month for both my
00:04:56.560 daughters and he's like you know that's taking all my money and then he's like well you're not getting
00:05:01.120 anything outside of that and it's like he's like if you take me off of child support um i could do
00:05:05.820 more for them and i'm like nigga i know for a fact that's a lie because the whole year before i put 0.83
00:05:09.820 you on child support you didn't no diapers no wipes no not a day translation i made his life hell 0.50
00:05:15.920 instead of saying please i threatened custom out i mean i i ruined his reputation and then
00:05:22.980 now and then i wondered why he wasn't nice to me something you even if you didn't provide any of 0.97
00:05:28.980 that shit you didn't even pick him up so i could go to work and you know get i put him i put you on 0.98
00:05:34.120 child support and now you have to work more and i can't come and now i say that you don't have time 1.00
00:05:39.420 for the kids all that shit you know i could do it by my damn self if you watch him you know 0.98
00:05:43.280 so it was like you know so i know you're lying and shit like that but anyway he proceeds to tell 0.99
00:05:47.680 me shit that don't matter is that he got another girl and she's pregnant they about to have another 0.97
00:05:51.600 baby and it was just like okay so he's pretty much telling me that he's not going to translation 0.99
00:05:56.160 i was actually spiteful because the woman was younger and hotter and i was jealous so in order
00:06:02.320 to get back at the dad i gave the kids to cps they'll help me with my daughters because he's moved
00:06:07.420 annoying and i'm like you can move on that's fine i don't want to be with you but you still have
00:06:12.160 daughters you know yeah i got no sympathy let's see what the comments do they have sympathy
00:06:16.660 thank goodness she didn't hard them no one should judge
00:06:20.480 i'll judge yeah i will i would not do that why are y'all not interviewing the dads why do you keep
00:06:28.440 attacking her well they they should let him say his side uh okay let's see the next one 0.82
00:06:35.160 how old were you when you had your third kid
00:06:38.100 oh maybe maybe 20 oh this is the same woman yeah and see this is the reward right so you know she 1.00
00:06:47.260 had a bad choice she had kids she couldn't take care of um with a guy who didn't want them 1.00
00:06:52.620 and now what does she get rewarded with podcast tour women yeah i mean we just get rewarded for bad 0.99
00:06:59.400 behavior one 21 i'm trying to yeah it's so hard i know but so after having two kids i'm sure you
00:07:06.720 knew it was hard to have kids right um because i have one kid and i know it's hard yeah it was hard
00:07:13.040 so why would you have a third kid to be honest i'm not going to lie i don't know
00:07:19.960 to be honest honestly i think it was just me just living life i was in love with somebody who i
00:07:26.860 shouldn't have been in love with um and he's actually he's actually a birth control baby too
00:07:34.200 and i think about it but yeah he's also a birth control baby like when you get pregnant on birth 0.79
00:07:38.700 control so okay doubt it but this time i didn't i didn't fuck myself up like how i did with my 0.78
00:07:46.000 daughters so this one was like actually like a natural i don't know how i can explain it because
00:07:52.440 i don't know is okay yeah so now she's trying to rationalize a bad decision more let's see the last
00:08:00.260 ones um she gave up one of her kids so does that mean she kept the other ones she had like a least 1.00
00:08:07.800 favorite so everybody knows by now that i'm a total overshare okay and so this message right here
00:08:14.980 is for my family so if you're not a member of my family you can keep scrolling
00:08:19.480 okay so to my family you guys have known for the last two years that i have been struggling
00:08:30.120 and stuck in my grief anxiety and depression all while trying to raise steven's kids you guys have
00:08:38.940 known that the kids have serious behavioral problems trauma and grief on top of my grief
00:08:46.140 right that i've had to deal with and you know what not one of you guys has stepped up to help me
00:08:52.560 to offer any help with the kids so i made a decision to surrender one of the kids and now you guys have
00:09:01.740 an opinion like dude shut up call what a lady all right next 1.00
00:09:11.840 ah well bad moms of tick tock that's a hashtag you're seeing this you've made it maybe now you're 0.97
00:09:24.080 one of us we wear messy hair we let our kids have phones and play video games they hate us at least
00:09:32.880 once a week oh wow
00:09:35.260 all right welcome
00:09:41.460 oh my gosh so they're just showing them being bad mothers 1.00
00:09:49.740 oh my god these people are crazy 1.00
00:09:59.840 oh so this kid says oh shit french fries and chicken nuggets 1.00
00:10:15.760 oh my god oh this is so bad 1.00
00:10:23.060 they watch like the guy goes to court
00:10:27.620 and shows this to cps
00:10:30.840 look please let me have custody my wife is 1.00
00:10:34.920 bragging about being a bad mother 0.99
00:10:36.960 please please you know anyways guys let me know what you think in the comments and let me know if
00:10:42.660 you've ever heard of a woman um giving up her children 0.99
00:10:45.800 um anyways like the video on your way out subscribe to the channel and i'll see you next time