Pearl - September 24, 2026


“Women Ignore Every RED FLAG When the Guy Is HOT” @JustPearlyThings

“Christian Women Keep REJECTING Good Men and Wonder Why They’re Single” @JustPearlyThings “31 Year Old Woman Almost Got Her FIRST Boyfriend” @JustPearlyThings

Episode Stats


Length

1 minute

Words per minute

192.05

Word count

377

Sentence count

13

Harmful content

Misogyny

3

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Toxicity

2

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Hate speech

1

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Transcript

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00:00:00.000 like after you're done eating like a really bad meal you're like why did i just do that to myself
00:00:03.520 and i feel like sometimes with dates it's like why did i just talk to that guy for a couple weeks like
00:00:07.360 yeah that was a total he's a total waste of my time because he was kind of gross because he
00:00:11.440 wasn't attractive look the overwhelming majority of what makes a woman feel things about a man
00:00:19.280 has to do with attractiveness they're framing it as spirituality they're framing it as though it
00:00:24.960 It is a deep seated, uh, Holy spirit driven, godly protective instinct, right? This is the
00:00:32.460 Holy spirit speaking to you all the time. Whatever your feelings are about the man, that is, that is
00:00:36.960 God directing and guiding and speaking to you. So you got to listen to those feelings. That's
00:00:40.760 other framing it. So if you don't feel it, if you feel the ick from the guy, you got to listen to
00:00:46.300 that ick and you got to, got to get away from this guy. The overwhelming majority of those
00:00:50.860 feelings are just attraction. 90%. Yeah. His status is attractiveness. Yeah. How often do
00:00:57.780 these guys, do these gals go on dates with guys that they're super attracted to and they feel
00:01:04.020 those weird red flags, those weird, I don't know about this guy kind of things. I haven't seen that
00:01:12.040 play out very often. Usually if they're really attracted to a guy, they feel really, really good
00:01:17.920 about him regardless of what you know you know the the actual christian guys at the church are
00:01:25.160 looking at this guy going why is she with him i'm all of the things that she said she wanted 0.95
00:01:30.180 and now she's going out with this absolute fart stain of a human what what the heck is that but 0.98
00:01:37.300 but she feels great about that guy yeah because we lie and we lie to everybody including ourselves 0.80
00:01:42.140 we're not honest about who we're attracted to
00:01:44.500 right because he's attractive
00:01:46.200 attractiveness is bleach on red flags
00:01:49.060 that's such a good point 1.00
00:01:50.020 that is so true
00:01:50.940 that's exactly what it is
00:01:52.200 is yeah the attractiveness 0.99
00:01:53.680 totally changes the way that she sees
00:01:56.260 the guy's qualities 0.68