Pearl - Women Of the Past Had Canon Events Sooner

00:00:00.560 What up, guys? Welcome to my coffee talks. Today, I don't have coffee, but I'll give

00:00:07.280 you an update if anyone cares. I just switched to a high-protein diet where I just try to

00:00:12.080 get 150 grams of protein a day. And it's actually been life-changing. I've probably said this

00:00:18.500 before. I don't know. I forget. But I always used to struggle with hunger cravings. And

00:00:27.480 And yeah, it's actually been life-changing.

00:00:31.320 So anyways, all right.

00:00:32.900 So I kind of wanted to talk about a concept maybe

00:00:37.640 that people just, how do I put it?

00:00:41.400 People have this idea that in the past, women were better.

00:00:46.280 And I don't believe that, right? 0.99

00:00:48.440 I do not believe that women in the past

00:00:51.320 were of this superior quality.

00:00:52.900 The reason I don't believe this is because when I was 16,

00:00:57.180 I threw a party at my parents' house, all right? I actually was mostly a good, I think I was 17.

00:01:03.300 It was, okay, sorry. It was my senior year of high school. I was a year young, so I think I was 17.

00:01:08.740 I threw a party at my parents' house. I was mostly a good kid, but, you know, my parents,

00:01:13.980 they would leave me home for a month every summer in, like, this giant, I'm obviously going to

00:01:18.540 blame them. It's the woman in me, in this giant house. And so the first summer, I did nothing. 0.87

00:01:24.300 and the second summer I did throw a small party. If you ask my parents, it was Project X, but it

00:01:29.680 was like 20 people. All right. Anyways, so I threw this party, um, and I got grounded because I got

00:01:35.160 caught. Um, and you know what's crazy? I'll tell you the reason I got caught wasn't because anything

00:01:41.420 happened at the party. It was because my asshole friends knew that I was joining my parents on 0.99

00:01:45.760 vacation after, and they came back and threw another party and didn't clean up. These ninjas, 1.00

00:01:52.920 you know what I mean so anyways um then I end up going um

00:02:00.600 sorry there's like noises in my house sometimes all right so I end up getting shipped to my

00:02:08.020 grandma's house in Wisconsin um and this is like middle of nowhere and her husband had passed away

00:02:14.060 and I um I like was her designated driver so she went out to like karaoke and I'm like driving her

00:02:19.560 karaoke right and I'm like with all her friends and they're talking about the boys they're dating

00:02:24.440 and I remember thinking at 16 17 ish I don't know 16 or 17 that my grandma and her friends

00:02:33.300 sounded like my friends so this idea that like the women were different in the past I just never

00:02:40.900 bought it um I never you know because there's this idea that in the past it was just different 0.89

00:02:48.320 and I'm like no I think the incentives were different and I think women had a shorter time

00:02:54.820 frame um to whore out and get that done you know and I think there's canon events that women have 0.81

00:03:01.500 in life um that cause us to mature based on how we react most women um get humbled take that L 0.80

00:03:08.340 and become worse and bitter people but it can humble you and it does cause women to get married

00:03:12.160 like um i knew a playboy pua guy right and he just had no remorse about any of the like um

00:03:20.520 women he pumped and dumped because the way he saw it is like women humbled him and made him

00:03:27.020 have to accept women's nature um he was humbling a lot of women into finding their husbands and i

00:03:34.420 remember thinking that's definitely true like how many women get pumped and dumped and then

00:03:39.260 fine prince charming after because you know so i wrote out a few of women's canon events in life 0.87

00:03:44.900 um and what i think happened is in the past like women just had to have these canon events

00:03:52.020 earlier um like i would say my first relationship was um i think i was 24 23 um and my first like

00:04:03.440 you know guy I was in love with who didn't love me back was when I was like 20 19 right

00:04:11.000 the women of the past experienced that when they were like 13 14 they were getting right too they

00:04:16.700 didn't have time to waste you know what I mean so um canon events for women finding out where

00:04:22.260 you're at on the look scale so this is when um as a mid right most women are mids watching the guy 1.00

00:04:29.880 you like fall head over heels for a hot girl and it's like you'll kiss the ground he walks on 1.00

00:04:36.680 he does not care that hot girl is gonna have to do nothing men looks do matter right

00:04:43.880 um and men they always come back and say it's not all about looks and i'm like yeah but that's a 0.91

00:04:49.080 lesson you have to learn and in order for a mid to get the same treatment that a hot girl has

00:04:54.340 i can say this because i'm a woman right it's so it's it's kind of like when women tell you guys

00:04:59.860 that height doesn't matter or blah blah blah and you're like you have no idea you're amazing like 0.94

00:05:06.060 that's how I feel when men say it's not about looks it's like yeah but the mid had to go through 0.97

00:05:12.800 like a year of bullshit before she got taken serious the hot girl was just given that spot 0.86

00:05:18.320 off the jump you know what I mean liking a guy that doesn't like you back watching a guy you 1.00

00:05:24.120 like get dog walked by a hotter chick uh watching women that have really good looks opportunities

00:05:30.400 so you'll see like a woman who gets all of this attention and just squanders it and it's like

00:05:36.340 like I know a girl that literally has partied with celebrities um

00:05:41.260 and now I would say our looks level is like the same like I stayed consistent you know what I mean

00:05:49.060 like mids don't fall off that hard but like watching a woman fall go from dating celebrities 1.00

00:05:55.620 to now dating the same type of guy I would say that's a canon event watching whores get married 1.00

00:06:03.280 is a canon event um you know thinking that a whore will never have a good outcome watching 0.99

00:06:08.100 her get married anyway um especially when you know not to say that especially when you believe 1.00

00:06:18.860 that you behaved in a better way canon event right um watching how little work attractive 0.76

00:06:25.080 women have to do things watching a few consequences there are for attractive women being honest about

00:06:30.080 your past having the guy run run the hell away and when you're young i'll tell you young guys

00:06:34.720 they're like one body oh my god you know nowadays the men are like under five under five that's a

00:06:41.160 virgin you know what i mean um realizing your mom is not your friend and never was okay all

00:06:48.540 canon events for women I think in the past women just did those sooner because you know at one 0.51

00:06:55.700 point you were getting married at like 21 and if you weren't married um everybody was

00:07:02.280 kind of looking at you funny so you know they they kind of got right to it like I kind of 0.77

00:07:08.240 actually believe the rise in sexlessness a young among young women uh partially because they're 0.98

00:07:13.720 fat right nobody's really asking no one worthwhile is really asking you know what I mean

00:07:18.060 and two um 1.00

00:07:21.120 I see women filling up their time with useless stuff you know what I mean I would say I was 1.00

00:07:31.600 one of them but I would just say in general young women brunch with the girls um big events schedule 1.00

00:07:37.200 sometimes it's a yacht if they're hot sometimes it's not um useless hobbies like horseback riding 0.92

00:07:45.100 mine was volleyball that don't make you any money um and I just think that the women of the past like 0.99

00:07:53.560 they had to get all that done either before marriage or after but you just can't convince 0.84

00:08:02.520 me that like women were different back then because it's like how do I put it I have an 0.99

00:08:09.540 English bulldog you know and the equivalent of that is saying even though I do think English 0.73

00:08:14.300 Bulldogs um I know they were breeded they used to be more aggressive and it was breeded out but

00:08:19.620 it was breeded out okay that's a different species or whatever but I have a little

00:08:24.780 oh my god I have say hello to my little friend see her oh anyways it's like imagine if I put

00:08:37.680 same DNA same type of you know breed and I she was born in the 1600s and they're saying oh she's

00:08:45.300 not going to be like bulldogs are really goofy and they beg for food and they're like kind of

00:08:49.640 stubborn it's like you're saying oh the women are going to be different I'm like I don't think so

00:08:54.380 I think the opportunity was there and it kind of matches up with what I've seen and you can put in

00:08:58.320 the comments if you've seen different things but like before my grandma died I asked her um

00:09:03.140 why like because uh I forgot what year she would have been born but my mom was born in either I

00:09:10.220 think 70 so she would have been born like 20 years earlier ish so she was born in 50 so she died like

00:09:17.240 a few years ago so she saw like the downfall of America so I asked her well what do you think

00:09:22.860 happened and literally her answer was well I think a lot of women started divorcing because they got

00:09:27.860 on birth control. And I'm like, Oh, okay. The opportunity changed. Women didn't change. The

00:09:36.520 opportunity didn't change. And that's why, you know, I really pushed back on, um, like Rachel

00:09:40.480 Wilson. I like her. Right. But I just disagree. She's always saying like women are brainwashed

00:09:44.520 and that women weren't always like this. They're just brainwashed. I think that's a way to, to 1.00

00:09:50.820 obfuscate or whatever. Sorry, I can't say words. Um, your bad decisions. Um,

00:10:02.040 I think it's easier to say you were brainwashed than to acknowledge like a negative part of

00:10:06.840 yourself. Like for example, people always kind of hated on me or criticized me because for a while

00:10:12.460 when I first started, I was single. So I was single and talking about relationships and in my

00:10:19.420 head I really wanted to be in a relationship like I really wanted that um and someone said to me

00:10:29.380 once no you did it and I really really thought I did I'm like well like yes I do I want to be in

00:10:36.080 one and he's like well then why didn't you like download hinge and go on a date a week

00:10:43.680 why didn't like you know he gave me option a option b option c of all the things I could

00:10:48.680 did and in my head I'm like well I wanted to be in one he's like no because you didn't like imagine

00:10:54.600 me as a man um like having the ability to go on a date every single day and saying I want to be in

00:11:03.920 a relationship I wouldn't get to and I realized back then right I filled my time and I would say

00:11:10.220 this this isn't just me I hate it when they're like well that's just you Pearl I'm like no this

00:11:14.160 is pretty common you fill all your time with all this stuff and then wonder why you don't have to

00:11:18.620 have a boyfriend well you need time to have one right you have to like they want to hang out with

00:11:23.940 you you know what I mean you have to put effort into into finding one etc so um like I kind of

00:11:31.380 fell off the last two years and part of that was because I put more effort into finding one and

00:11:37.300 than I did. You know what I mean? You know, so, um, where was I going with this? But, um,

00:11:47.440 I had to have like a Canon event where like what I was doing wasn't working. I'm kind of like,

00:12:00.540 which I realized I had to free up my schedule. Does that make sense? I don't know.

00:12:05.500 these are. So what I think happens is women have had those canon events sooner. Like my mother 0.99

00:12:22.660 played college sports and she played till she was like 21 and then she was done or 20.

00:12:27.820 My grandma, I don't really know. I guess I never asked her if she played sports, but I imagine if

00:12:32.500 she had kids by the time she was like 16 so any extracurriculars were done by the time she was

00:12:39.040 like 16 if she had any me they kept going until I was like uh 26 27 um and I had relationships

00:12:49.320 before but I would just say like this was the most serious one I had but it was because I

00:12:55.120 I freed up the time and there's no way I would have did that without a canon event

00:12:58.640 And I think like women and men too, you have to have canon events in order to mature.

00:13:07.680 I wrote some male canon events, figuring out you're not an athlete, you're too slow.

00:13:13.660 Seeing the chads get all the cheerleaders in the high school. 1.00

00:13:16.860 Like you're not going to improve with women and learn how to talk to women until you see 1.00

00:13:20.820 that first. 0.92

00:13:21.840 Watching all the college get dug. 1.00

00:13:25.280 Oh, the girls in college get dug out by frat guys.

00:13:27.740 finding out your girlfriend or your wife's past seeing women that you thought were good do awful

00:13:32.440 things whore out abusive behavior military marrying some woman who divorces you while you're defending 0.97

00:13:38.040 the country marrying some bitch who ruins your life divorce court etc so those canon events like 0.99

00:13:43.840 if a guy's a simp um he's gonna have a consequence and then he has to mature or he'll go for the hot 0.99

00:13:50.500 girl right have a consequence and then go for the mid right um and i think women it's kind of the 0.51

00:13:57.620 same thing but the difference is society um coddles women from the consequence and so it causes women 0.76

00:14:06.200 to not mature because I think there's um people that bail people out of their health like when

00:14:16.840 people are making a decision that leads them to hell when you bail them out of it it it's bad for

00:14:23.420 them because they have to have the consequence in order to learn. And in my opinion, that's why

00:14:40.040 we're seeing the delay of marriage, right? It's because women, we don't want to be in relationships, 1.00

00:14:45.760 right? And two, there's a lack of canon events. So anyways. All right, guys, let me know what

00:14:51.080 you think in the comments like the video these are kind of free-flowing so if you guys have

00:14:55.940 additions to the conversation sometimes I read the comments and it inspires the next

00:15:02.980 coffee talk so you know anyways like the video I'll see you next time

Pearl - May 16, 2026

Women Of the Past Had Canon Events Sooner

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