Pearl - Women's Expensive Spending ADDICTIONS! (Amazon, Coffee, Traveling)

00:00:00.000 without buying anything on amazon so far i think i'm doing good um i do have a strong craving to

00:00:09.040 click on the app but i know if i do i might relapse ordered so much from amazon that they

00:00:16.880 delivered in this packages in this huge box thing because i guess i had so many packages

00:00:23.280 well i opened all of them up and this all of this is what's in this huge thing you guys

00:00:30.000 i need to stop ordering from amazon okay we got that woman there we got this woman 1.00

00:00:37.360 what her poor husband look he's so tired he's so over it dude what do you mean

00:00:47.440 it's just two packages no this is the third one today i do all right what do we got next just got

00:00:53.600 home from our vacation and i have all of these amazon packages from things i ordered for prime

00:00:57.600 day i'm gonna try to fit every single thing into this one video some parchment paper this is six

00:01:02.480 inch this is nine inch it's to go in the bottom of my cake pans this is my favorite little tank top i

00:01:06.800 have it in white but i wanted to order it in black i got it in a size bigger though because the arm holes

00:01:11.040 are a little bit small i'm so excited to have this for the rest of summer these are disposable piping

00:01:15.120 bags also for baking okay that same tank top again but i got it in light gray i feel like this one might

00:01:20.800 be my you need two shirts the exact same in a slightly different color damn favorite out of

00:01:28.720 the white and the black i got this five piece wooden utensil set i'm trying to get rid of all

00:01:32.720 the plastic in my kitchen and what it's just a better option really we just got a bunch of little

00:01:37.200 like wooden spatulas yeah oh and this is the stuff you have to watch out whenever health companies are

00:01:43.200 very good at convincing women we're dying all the time really good at it so like first it's the 0.93

00:01:48.720 micro plastics and then you got to get all this expensive water stuff then now it's the plastics

00:01:55.440 that you're cooking with are bad now you got to order the wood next year it's going to be the wood

00:01:59.600 is bad so now she's got to order the plastics bad you know it's going to be a new thing every year 0.97

00:02:05.920 these little tongs and i got a bunch of sojo's glasses but i think i'm just going to make like a

00:02:10.400 dedicated video on them i got so many i have a few that i really love right now and they're just

00:02:14.640 fun to have a bunch of different styles absolutely this was probably one of the best deals for

00:02:18.400 prime day i only have like this much left of my full bottle and then i ran out of my small bottle

00:02:22.960 in california the more of the amino lean rsp nutrition like alex earl energy drinks the berry

00:02:28.320 elixir flavor tastes so good another restock of one of my favorite products this is the pink deodorant

00:02:32.960 redkin one united i have a big bottle and it still has plenty in it but for traveling i just wanted to

00:02:37.360 get a smaller one this is like the lifesaver for my hair and then of course some more mighty patches

00:02:42.640 got a restock of our dawn power wash like the dish spray it has like the nice little sprayer it makes

00:02:48.640 doing dishes so much easier i think i have like one bottle of restock left so this will just be going

00:02:53.120 in like our pantry ballon also got one package and he wants to show you what he got the difference

00:02:57.600 between us on prime day what did you get momentous supplements and i got tonga ali he has abs boost

00:03:05.600 testosterone but i also get my creatine sometimes protein and other supplements from them high quality

00:03:11.200 i recommend them got another one of these like little alex earl clip-on lights to your phone i

00:03:16.560 have a few of them and i'm always misplacing them but they really do make the best photos comes with

00:03:20.640 a little charger comes with the phone clip it also comes with like a tripod mount but i don't use that

00:03:25.040 piece and i also got some little cake boxes for whenever i make my cakes i've just been making a few

00:03:29.440 recently for like birthdays and stuff and i never have a good way to transport them that's everything

00:03:33.520 that i got from amazon prime day besides the samsung frame tv that comes tomorrow but just

00:03:39.200 imagine it'll look like that and it is going in our bedroom if you want any of this i have a link to

00:03:43.440 my amazon store okay now the next thing we have is an expensive coffee addiction now i gotta be honest

00:03:49.840 guys i gotta if i'm gonna criticize this i gotta i am guilty okay guilty as charlie i do

00:03:56.640 love expensive coffee but i recently just found mcdonald's coffee is just as good

00:04:02.160 so i might quit starbucks soon probably not so i'm living in queens which is fabulous love it but i

00:04:09.920 go to school at the new school which is in like lower manhattan in greenwich village right by union square

00:04:17.760 it is like so expensive it's it's unfathomable like you walk off campus you want an iced coffee eight

00:04:25.200 dollars it's it's insanity so here i will be sitting in my apartment drinking my iced coffee made with

00:04:32.000 instant coffee coffee buffalo for the win yeah so some of these lattes guys they get expensive they can

00:04:39.520 be like eight dollars your order and if you get that every day it's 250 a month times 12 it's three

00:04:48.400 grand a year you're spending on coffee i'm not saying it's the worst addiction in the world but

00:04:53.360 especially if you're getting multiple people it can get expensive my friend who constantly

00:04:57.920 complains about money to stop buying expensive coffee every day i 29 female have a close friend 31 1.00

00:05:03.600 female who constantly complains about being broke and not being able to save money she's always stressed 1.00

00:05:08.320 about it we're close enough that we talk about finances often so i know a fair amount about her

00:05:12.080 situation i'm not judging her financial decisions but one thing she does every single day is buy a six 0.99

00:05:17.440 dollar coffee i suggested that maybe cutting out this habit could help her save a little extra 1.00

00:05:22.560 especially if she's really feeling the cost of living crisis she got really defensive and said that

00:05:26.880 her coffee is her only daily splurge and accused me of being condescending it got pretty heated and now

00:05:32.240 she's barely speaking to me friends barely talking to her because she said to stop buying coffee 1.00

00:05:37.280 listen i feel like i blinked and now coffee is like eight dollars in the united states i was just

00:05:41.920 in france for two weeks and there i could get an espresso for like like a euro 50 and i could get a

00:05:47.520 cafe double which is like a double espresso for like 250 i think the max i paid was three euros uh and

00:05:53.280 here we're allowing them to charge us like five dollars for a coffee or six dollars which i paid more

00:06:00.320 recently for one that was fun and if you want really fun you're looking at like eight bucks we can't

00:06:04.880 accept this i was in rome three years ago and my friend and i were walking around and we're shopping

00:06:08.960 she's originally from there and i was like i'm dying i'm fading i need some coffee and she's like

00:06:12.640 oh yeah yeah go over there you can get a coffee i literally put down a euro one euro coin boom and i

00:06:19.200 got an espresso i always make my coffee at home because i think that it's such like a price gouge

00:06:24.400 and i will gladly continue to be making it because it is ridiculous out here so we got a travel

00:06:31.040 addiction the problem once you start traveling so often is that that becomes your baseline

00:06:37.360 this is so true as someone who travels very often i feel like i have to outdo myself for the last trip

00:06:45.040 example last year i went to mykonos greece by myself spent the entire week on the beach getting

00:06:51.920 massaged just relaxing enjoying my time having a fantastic time right now i am in geneva switzerland

00:06:59.440 and i just returned from the mountains in france where i skied the entire week with a ski group of

00:07:06.640 black people and i'm about to go back to france so i can chill in my favorite city ever paris it's like

00:07:14.720 traveling gives me this adrenaline rush and even though i am somewhat sick right now and have to

00:07:20.480 get to the airport very soon i love this feeling and i'm already planning the next trip like what is

00:07:27.120 wrong with me and for those wondering yes i did vlog this entire yeah who is paying for these

00:07:32.560 trips i looked it up the average trips like five grand especially if it's international in like 2022

00:07:38.240 i got really addicted to going on trips and like traveling i mean aren't we all addicted to traveling

00:07:44.400 but i knew it was getting out of hand i was getting way too comfortable booking trips all the time no

00:07:50.320 planning no financial responsibility going through my head i knew i was getting too comfy with it when i

00:07:56.080 started booking full trips i'm talking like flight hotels the whole thing on my phone because that is

00:08:02.080 such a computer activity if you're booking a trip it's just something you do in your computer not

00:08:06.320 your phone that's crazy i knew i was getting way too comfy when i was booking full-on trips just on my

00:08:11.280 phone while i'm like at the grocery store or whatever i really had to reel it back in the last few years

00:08:16.480 okay let's see who's next for the past few years i really hated my life so i did what i do best run away

00:08:24.000 from my problems literally my life was not going how i had planned or hoped ending a long-term

00:08:28.800 relationship hating my job navigating my parents divorce for years i felt how traumatized can you

00:08:36.640 really be if you get divorced if your parents get divorced as an adult now i'm not trying to be

00:08:41.520 insensitive here but like you're raised do you know what i mean like you're raised it's not at that

00:08:47.120 point okay you know what i mean like only women are gonna do the whole sob story thing when you get 0.99

00:08:53.520 divorced your parents get divorced at like 30. it's like how you're seeing them a couple times a year

00:09:00.160 anyways most people felt so stuck and frustrated and i couldn't take it so i took off i went and

00:09:07.120 traveled alone to so many new places any chance to escape my life my anger and frustration well because

00:09:13.600 who sat on vacation right and so what if i had to travel alone i was trying to escape from everyone

00:09:18.880 anyway so although solo travel may have started off as an escape for me i really love it so much now

00:09:24.880 i mean i've always loved traveling women don't care about their safety to be fair why should men care 1.00

00:09:30.160 about our safety if we don't we're like traveling to other countries by ourselves and let's be honest

00:09:35.120 we're not overly responsible as a like as a group i just can't imagine we're taking proper safety

00:09:41.520 precautions really since our world is yes steve m says what are you 12 get over it it's such a big

00:09:48.320 and beautiful place and i want to see all of it i want to experience life in a new country try new

00:09:52.960 foods try new things and what i love about solo travel specifically is the freedom i love the

00:09:58.160 satisfaction and confidence that i gained from doing it on my own and even though it's still scary

00:10:02.800 to travel alone sometimes i think it's so worth it tackling solo travel showed me that i can do it

00:10:08.000 okay she can do a lot of people and no one will find out okay even though life is hard and sometimes

00:10:13.280 it really freaking stuff you can look back on your solo travels and say i did that that's why i want

00:10:18.480 to show i did him for you if i can do it you can do it too so hi i'm venia your solo travel bean

00:10:25.040 and thanks for coming along on my solo travel healing journey i'm so glad you're here yeah basically

00:10:30.720 i dumped my boyfriend to go ride around the world if you catch my drift all right let's see who's next

00:10:38.000 y'all i just we got to guess their type based on where they're going y'all i just thought about it

00:10:44.640 i cracked the code i need a friend or husband that's a pilot and baby we out every week that's it

00:10:55.680 that's it so somebody gets a pilot license or somebody become a pilot or somebody knows a pilot

00:11:03.120 yeah have them hit my line you know when you fly a private plane you have to pay for the gas it's

00:11:09.280 actually pretty expensive you can't just i mean i i don't know if a lot of i don't know can pilots

00:11:15.120 freely fly people on their plane like air like flight attendant i don't know if they're allowed to do

00:11:21.040 that because i just like i just i think too many people would take advantage of that male or female

00:11:27.920 open to both i don't discriminate based on gender but a pilot that's the one if she's in corporate 1.00

00:11:34.160 america i think she's probably going for the white guys or the i i would you know guess she might go to 0.94

00:11:41.120 because people tend to like pick industries women at least based on their type um but today we got a 1.00

00:11:46.720 special guest um we have shiv here in the studio um is there anything i missed shiv no you nailed it

00:11:54.160 cool so um what what do you think about the topic oh my god the the just like i've i've seen girls 0.80

00:12:02.160 waste money on the silliest things and it's it's like wild like the stuff i've seen girls i've dated

00:12:09.360 spend money on like one of them like would just keep buying like nail cutters because they keep losing

00:12:14.000 them and it was like to a point where at one point i like took her phone and like looked up on amazon

00:12:18.560 and she ordered it 20 times over the last six years oh my gosh like that's insane like just put it in 0.93

00:12:25.600 your purse or something right so yeah dumb spending is is uh is there anything like you because it's 0.79

00:12:33.040 interesting you could probably afford a lot of their habits but is there anything where you're just like 0.92

00:12:37.920 i don't care i am not paying for that well i'll i can't afford i'll never fly private planes

00:12:44.720 like even like i know but like if you're vetting a girl to be with you like long term maybe is there

00:12:50.160 any habit that like you may you may think that's got to go um i mean i think like designer clothes 0.93

00:12:58.960 all the name brand stuff i think it's so stupid especially because like you think about like all the 0.77

00:13:04.480 technology that's in an iphone and it's a thousand bucks and then a piece of fabric supposed to be 0.96

00:13:08.080 two grand or a purse is supposed to be five thousand dollars all my funny i do have a few

00:13:12.480 designer things gifted to me as gifts because i have like rich friends but um i think that's so

00:13:17.680 disgusting if she wants to buy like a you know some have you ever had a girl ask you to buy or something 1.00

00:13:22.960 like that on her yeah my my ex-girlfriend on her birthday but i took her to like uh i took her to 1.00

00:13:30.240 zara and just said buy a few items here so she asked you for something designer yeah she wanted

00:13:35.120 to buy something from like gucci or whatever and i'm like we can go to zara and you can pick up a 0.94

00:13:39.520 few items so yeah i just think the principle of it's really stupid i know a woman that she's really 1.00

00:13:45.760 into plastic surgery and she gave me her expenses for the year she's like a little bit older not that 0.88

00:13:51.600 old but like she's like late 30s early 40s what do you think she spent a year on plastic surgery like 1.00

00:13:57.200 filler botox under eye so like 10 that's yeah you're right 10 grand it was about a 10 grand a year

00:14:05.280 wow so like over so like that's like a thousand that's like 800 bucks a month yeah to be fair i

00:14:09.760 think she like paid for it herself but if you assumed a guy that's a hundred okay yeah but when 1.00

00:14:15.040 women say they paid for it themselves it's because they don't have to pay for food or dinner if they 1.00

00:14:18.560 date guys like yeah like that's the part of the gender wage gap i always find funny too it's like

00:14:22.560 what about all the freebies girls get yeah that's true right like first off we all know the gender 1.00

00:14:28.240 wage gap is but like yeah that never gets accounted for that like they don't pay for a lot of stuff

00:14:33.520 you know what else i've heard expensive gym addictions gym yeah like i did a space once and put the link in

00:14:40.880 the chat because i want to bring up guys to tell me what you guys have seen but one thing i've heard

00:14:46.160 from men is that they don't want to pay for like a 250 a month gym yeah the gym addictions add up the

00:14:54.560 charity addictions like a lot women's charity it's not charity like it's it's just virtue signaling 0.99

00:15:03.040 like well it's charity with their husband's money right right you know what um rich wives fund my um 1.00

00:15:08.960 you madame he worked for pita oh yeah and he he told me that they they call like rich men's wives 0.80

00:15:16.000 they fund pita oh i believe it no it's so bad my um my friend's girlfriend works for a huge charity in

00:15:21.920 san francisco and it's the dumbest causes i've ever seen in my life and it's always the husband's and

00:15:27.760 in fact mark zuckerberg has a charity and it's named after his wife first of course and then his name's 0.90

00:15:33.760 tacked on at the end and i'm like that's crazy to me it's all his money so yeah what about like

00:15:39.600 a social media addiction has that ever affected any of your relationships i can't stand girls that 1.00

00:15:45.040 i don't mind if she's on her phone if we're not if we're not doing anything important but like on a

00:15:49.200 dinner date or something that's such a huge turn off also girls who take way too many photos unless 1.00

00:15:54.800 they're like it's their job or something but no to me the the like if you're holding your phone

00:16:00.160 recording an entire concert it's like you realize like you can just go on youtube and watch this

00:16:04.320 concert like what you know what i mean do you know i never understood i never understood travel pictures

00:16:09.920 like if you go somewhere and you take a picture yeah without without the person in it right you're

00:16:14.640 saying like they just take a photo of a mountain yeah yeah i don't get it either couldn't i just google

00:16:21.200 the picture and like get a better one it's so dumb i don't know i mean maybe people want to

00:16:26.560 remember how it was the day they whatever but i just never i was i mean i get it like with you

00:16:32.080 guys there but i don't get yeah like if i go to the himalayas and take a photo of the himalayas like

00:16:37.120 there is an eight trillion better photos by real photographers of the same thing yeah like when we

00:16:43.360 were in college you like travel for volleyball and i just remember we went to like denver and it's

00:16:48.240 very pretty there yeah everyone was taking pictures and i'm like i would understand pictures like

00:16:53.760 with people or like yourself but like just to the just to the mountain aren't there a million

00:16:58.640 pictures of a mountain that are better than what you're well they all i think a lot of women think 0.99

00:17:03.040 they're photographers they think they're artists right they want to add a filter to it to be artsy

00:17:08.240 and then they let's be honest so taking that photo just to let other girls know that they dated a 1.00

00:17:12.240 better man than them right like oh my man took me to machu picchu oh that's so true of course i'll

00:17:16.480 exclude the who's paying for it but they'll be like ah manifesting in machu picchu this mountain

00:17:21.280 reminds me of the futures i have or whatever yeah

Pearl - May 27, 2025

Women's Expensive Spending ADDICTIONS! (Amazon, Coffee, Traveling)

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