Pearl - September 26, 2026


“Women Want a Traditional Man WITHOUT Being Traditional Themselves” @JustPearlyThings

“31 Year Old Woman Almost Got Her FIRST Boyfriend” @JustPearlyThings Modern Women Have TOO MUCH not TOO LITTLE community

Episode Stats


Length

1 minute

Words per minute

194.15

Word count

387

Sentence count

22

Harmful content

Misogyny

7

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Toxicity

3

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Hate speech

7

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Transcript

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00:00:00.240 engaged or married i used to think that posting somebody online made the relationship more real
00:00:05.280 what i learned is that it just makes the heartbreak more public and then uh you know okay
00:00:10.640 basically she's saying don't post your husband or boyfriend um the reason she's saying that is
00:00:16.080 because she was a failure in love right and i've been a failure too it is what it is so but when
00:00:20.800 you're a winner in love you don't mind posting it because you're a winner you get what you want out
00:00:24.640 of men but she obviously didn't because probably insufferable right um it is what it is most of us
00:00:30.640 are insufferable so um here we go elijah whoa whoa whoa the reason to post your significant other
00:00:36.800 is so you aren't being pursued by other people that people know you're in a relationship concealing 0.52
00:00:41.040 your relationship keeps everyone open and hitting on you therefore allowing micro cheating everything
00:00:45.600 she said is nonsense you should 100 post your relationship to respect your partner all right
00:00:49.840 All right, hold on, guys.
00:00:50.940 The second you post somebody, people start creating a story.
00:00:54.240 And then if it doesn't work... 1.00
00:00:54.940 By the way, then she got engaged and made it a big spectacle.
00:00:57.960 So they just can't help themselves.
00:00:59.300 You're not just grieving a relationship.
00:01:01.420 You're dealing with narratives created by people online based on like 5% of the actual information.
00:01:07.140 And 95% of what they think happened is completely wrong.
00:01:11.300 Access is earned.
00:01:14.200 Instagram makes us think access is free.
00:01:18.320 Some things are... 1.00
00:01:19.440 I always wonder how women say stupid things so confidently. 1.00
00:01:23.240 Sacred before they're public. 1.00
00:01:24.900 The strongest relationships I've seen didn't grow because thousands of strangers watched them.
00:01:29.820 They grew because two people pursued Christ together in private.
00:01:33.720 No one needs to know about every guy you go out to dinner with.
00:01:36.540 No one needs to know about every relationship. 1.00
00:01:38.420 Yeah, don't tell people about your whoredom. 1.00
00:01:40.520 That's what she's saying. 1.00
00:01:41.880 Nobody even matters unless they're going to be your husband.
00:01:45.640 And then post away if that's what both of you guys want.
00:01:48.160 because what you'll have then is covenantal and yeah it doesn't mean anything though because
00:01:52.780 you'll get divorced covenant is public courtship doesn't have to be don't post all right let's keep
00:01:59.140 going