Pearl - September 05, 2026


Women Want You To DIE ALONE!


Episode Stats


Length

13 minutes

Words per minute

216.97

Word count

3,002

Sentence count

23

Harmful content

Misogyny

18

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Toxicity

34

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Hate speech

27

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Transcript

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00:00:00.000 your man does these things dump him or divorce him all right i'm sure it's going to be very serious
00:00:04.480 it's an emotionally abusive relationship for 10 years married emotionally abusive that can be like
00:00:09.380 damn near anything listen i want you to get out sooner than i did so does he if your man gets mad
00:00:14.440 at you when you spend time with your friends dump him if your man gets mad at you when you go out 0.99
00:00:18.140 what kind of friends do you have there's a restaurant with your friends dump him if your
00:00:22.660 man gets mad when you go somewhere in public by yourself dump him if your man blows up your phone
00:00:26.880 when you're out with your friends dump him if your man gets mad at you when you don't text back
00:00:30.920 frequently enough to his liking dump him if your man guilt trips you about doing something without
00:00:36.460 him dump him if your man makes unfounded accusations about you texting other men
00:00:41.220 dump him if your man throws a fit when you tell him that you have plans with friends or family
00:00:46.620 as in group plans with him and he doesn't want to go dump him if you're okay so if he doesn't 0.99
00:00:51.540 want to go to all your bullshit activities you have to dump him now he's always in a bad mood 0.99
00:00:55.780 on a date, dump him. If your man sits on his phone during dinner while you're out, dump him. If your 1.00
00:01:02.600 man never wants to do anything but play video games and sit inside the house, dump him. If your
00:01:06.920 man punches walls, dump him. If your man follows you around at home when you're fighting after you
00:01:12.460 said you needed space, dump him. If your man threatens to self-harm while you're fighting,
00:01:17.300 dump him. If your man guilt trips you when you're not in the mood for sex, dump him. If your man 0.99
00:01:21.740 says that you're asexual or a lesbian when you're not in the mood for sex yeah she was dating a guy 0.99
00:01:26.860 she wasn't attracted to and he wanted um her to put out and then she didn't want to and instead
00:01:31.180 of just ending the relationship um guilt trip if your man accuses you of being inappropriate
00:01:35.580 with your does this go both ways asking for a friend co-workers or implies that your male
00:01:40.940 co-workers are being inappropriate i'm struggling with my kids wanting to know why i left their dad
00:01:45.260 and i'm a bigger person by not telling them all these things oh my god see this is what i mean
00:01:50.140 women will rationalize any poor choice when they're not dump him if your man always starts
00:01:55.900 a fight after drinking dump him if your man's excuse for not doing something is that you can 0.98
00:02:01.260 do it better now again you're mid i mean you just can't have this attitude being a mid you can dump 0.89
00:02:07.900 him if your man has chronic health conditions that he refuses to take care of and won't keep up with 0.88
00:02:13.900 doctor's appointments dump him if your man gets shitty when you ask for help with chores or 0.99
00:02:18.460 grocery shopping, dump him. If your man calls you names, anything from you're acting like a bitch 1.00
00:02:24.200 to you're being whiny to outright calling you a bitch, dump him. If your man flirts with other 1.00
00:02:29.960 women in front of you, dump him. If your man gets mad at you because he thinks that you didn't get
00:02:36.420 over something that he did to hurt you soon enough, dump him. If your man gets mad at you when you
00:02:41.880 bring up something that he did that upset you or hurt you, dump him. That means I get offended at
00:02:48.100 everything if your man gets mad that you ask your friends for relationship advice dump him
00:02:52.900 yeah because then they get mad for him your man asks where you went if you do your hair or your
00:02:59.620 makeup or you wear a cute outfit dump him if your man only calls you by your given name as in your
00:03:04.900 first name your legal government name when you're fighting dump him if your man minimizes your
00:03:10.100 anxiety or implies that you're being ridiculous for being anxious dump him if your man never plans
00:03:15.620 dates dump him if your man randomly accuses you of being unhappy dump him if your man cheats on you 0.88
00:03:21.920 obviously dump him but if your man cheats on you and then gaslights you about him cheating on you
00:03:27.520 when it's very clear that he's been cheating on you dump him yeah all right she dated an alpha 0.92
00:03:32.740 that she was willing to put up with she was really willing to put up with anything and now she's gonna
00:03:38.060 make you um have all these standards okay if your boyfriend does any of these things dump him let's
00:03:42.720 talk if your boyfriend does any of these things dump him dump him okay let's get into it also this
00:03:47.680 is coming from someone who literally found their dream man who's like literally dating the most
00:03:50.420 perfect angel man to ever grace this earth and also coming from someone so i i dated the guy i
00:03:54.980 liked and now i'm dating a simp so that's put up with like crap in the past who's like gave people
00:03:59.220 the benefit of the doubt yeah when i was young and forgiving and now i'm old and bitter um and
00:04:04.160 and felt like they were asking for too much in other relationships she probably was this one i
00:04:07.780 feel like seems like super self-explanatory but for some reason not if your boyfriend or guy you're
00:04:11.960 talking to interested in anything is following half-naked women alone liking their photos
00:04:16.840 it's a wrap don't even get it started if that's who he's following that's who he's liking that's 0.51
00:04:21.560 who he's giving his energy to absolutely not to if he has road rage absolutely not like get pull
00:04:28.500 over the car and get me the fuck out right now because there's no way as a grown man you're like
00:04:32.520 screaming and getting red in the face and like upset and like okay i actually i agree with that 0.96
00:04:37.280 i agree with that under your breath or like screaming in the person knowing that she's a
00:04:41.200 woman she's probably over exaggerating it but i can't even hear you half the time like 1.00
00:04:45.060 skimming schizophrenic if he doesn't post you on instagram or has like she's so bitchy i mean it's 1.00
00:04:51.140 just women are so uncharitable rude and bitchy all the time any sort of excuse on any social 1.00
00:04:56.940 media platform it's like oh i don't use it much yada yada no drop him drop him drop him my 1.00
00:05:01.940 boyfriend's account looks like a fan account of me like that's what i mean i don't care if he
00:05:07.320 dims this is a big one if he dims your light in any sort of way like tries to take the spotlight 0.99
00:05:11.260 off of you like i'm a very goofy person i like to laugh women like to be the center of attention
00:05:16.020 and if the guy is more lovable likable and charismatic than you the women get mad i like 1.00
00:05:21.580 to joke that's why that's why they hate when the kids like the dad more one of my exes would always 0.56
00:05:25.800 act like i'm like embarrassing or like cringe or like like what are you doing like dump him
00:05:30.640 dump him dump dump dump him what's that uh olivia dean song don't ring me in cue that and leave
00:05:35.680 if he has girl best friends or girlfriends that don't go out of your way to make friends with you 0.96
00:05:41.740 to get to know you to make you feel comfortable dump him if you tell him more than once that you
00:05:47.580 do not like something dump him you should never have to communicate does that go both ways what
00:05:53.080 if you know what's crazy she said when he doesn't like something that you should you should dump him
00:05:57.960 if he complains about you but if he does anything you don't like to dump him from one single time
00:06:02.880 that you do not like something or not comfortable with something it's a wrap if he doesn't cheat
00:06:08.580 your dog or animals like his own dump him how he treats your animals is how he will treat your 0.84
00:06:12.660 future children genuinely don't ever let a man like come up into your place and like say that 0.85
00:06:17.420 your dog can't like sleep on the bed or like your animals no they were there first you can leave
00:06:22.220 if his mom or like sister are mean oh my god this is like this is a huge one um i've lived this one
00:06:29.740 and i've learned it hardcore i like probably should share it's story time sometime but you
00:06:33.820 guys would genuinely think it was like a movie a lifetime movie but like the truth is like when
00:06:37.740 you're marrying someone you're marrying their family you really are like you can't get around 0.99
00:06:40.740 that and like if his mom or sister are mean or like you're fucked like i'm sorry you're fucked 0.99
00:06:46.620 like my boyfriend now i'm like obsessed with this family they're like all my besties like 1.00
00:06:50.300 i actually don't disagree the the mothers and the sisters will torture you so if they're drama
00:06:54.940 field get rid of them he has like his mom his stepmom his dad like his stepdad like all his
00:07:00.340 siblings like we're all pretty close like like i'm sorry if you aren't absolutely like in love
00:07:05.020 with his family then drop him like that's your future that's your future doesn't also seem 0.98
00:07:08.500 self-explanatory but it's not as well if his friends suck if his friends suck and are going 0.99
00:07:13.120 out all the time cheating on their girlfriends yeah he is doing the same thing that's like yada 0.99
00:07:17.380 yada i agree i agree you know that saying like show me your friends show me your future i know
00:07:21.100 it's like so cliche it's true it genuinely is true that's true also they want if he yells at 0.95
00:07:25.440 you but it's crazy though because they'll if your friends suck they will get mad at the guy for 0.91
00:07:32.000 saying to stop hanging out with them but if it's the other way around they think it's okay or raises 0.98
00:07:35.760 his voice okay well it depends what did you do to have him raise his voice okay i'm done listen
00:07:40.580 the second that you start to seriously consider dumping your boyfriend you have already signed
00:07:45.580 a contract with the universe you are in fact going to dump him that's true that's true like
00:07:50.720 the second once once we have decided it's done there's no saving it but you're genuinely catching
00:07:56.080 yourself considering it you have basically already done it it's already done and now your only job is
00:08:02.020 to wrap it up as soon as you can bear to because going back and forth about whether or not you want
00:08:08.180 to be with somebody in your head is a really good sign that you don't want to be with somebody
00:08:12.060 um it might be fine it might be relatively comfortable but that doesn't like you don't
00:08:16.980 you you're done you just are done and you let that yeah they're saying i wanted him to cheat
00:08:21.380 so i could have a valid reason the impending doom until it happens is sickening oh my god
00:08:26.420 it's so true to the girls with ocd she's not talking about us i thought surface you know you
00:08:31.700 have did you do you know you have 30 minutes lol because it was clearly based on something
00:08:37.460 and now you must dump him um i think i mean that's always been my experience like the second
00:08:43.060 that i consider it it's already basically done um so don't wait around and wait for something to
00:08:49.540 happen or wait for your feelings about it to change because it's just going to keep gnawing
00:08:53.700 um and you're wasting your own time and you're wasting your own healing and you're also wasting
00:08:58.660 their healing getting through it i'm also like an incredibly avoidant person and we'll put and i like
00:09:03.940 i'm giving this advice avoidant means i'm too lazy to be honest about and i would rather
00:09:09.060 talk behind your back than to your face him or divorce him part two i was in an emotionally
00:09:13.860 abusive relationship for 10 years married for six and i want you to get out sooner than i did 1.00
00:09:19.300 if you miss part one go back and it's crazy because women will do this stuff emotionally 1.00
00:09:24.020 abusive marriage everyone knows who her ex-husband is and now she's just ruining his reputation 0.89
00:09:30.100 that out on my page if he lets his family this just makes the it makes it worse i talk down to 0.92
00:09:34.900 you, dump him. If he throws a fit when you wear certain clothing, dump him. If he guilt trips you
00:09:39.220 for not spending enough time with him when you're doing your hobbies but doesn't want to spend time
00:09:43.840 with you when he's doing his hobbies, dump him. If he throws a fit when you ask him to take a turn
00:09:48.820 cooking dinner, dump him. If he starts arguments in public, dump him. If he intentionally hides
00:09:53.960 spending money, not in like I'm gonna get you a gift for your birthday way, but is spending money
00:09:59.280 behind your back and it's throwing off your budget, dump him. And if he opens a separate bank
00:10:04.600 account without telling you and you find out through looking at your own bank statements
00:10:09.460 because the numbers aren't adding up, dump him. If he always finds a way to turn something he did
00:10:15.780 to hurt you into your fault, dump him. If every apology he gives you is followed by I'll do better
00:10:23.220 and it won't happen again, but he doesn't do better and it always happens again, dump him.
00:10:28.520 If you have to make his doctors... Okay, you know all the things she's saying women do? 1.00
00:10:32.220 so men actually do make changes over time that's why they lose themselves like women always say 0.88
00:10:38.200 that we lose ourselves in relationships but men lose themselves in relationships because they do
00:10:42.880 change for the woman and follow her complaints where uh women like all the things she's saying
00:10:49.620 i think this should be a video for men appointments dump him if he never handles calls for things like
00:10:54.960 the phone bill or car and men cover most of the expenses parents or getting unless you guys are
00:11:01.040 dating losers which kind of says more about you hold of a car mechanic dump him if you have to
00:11:05.900 apply to jobs for him because he won't even if you send them to him dump him if you're trying 0.98
00:11:12.440 to drag him to couples therapy don't bother dump him if you always catch him in lies especially 0.99
00:11:17.100 stupid ones that make no sense to even make up dump him if he talks badly to you about his friends 1.00
00:11:23.540 and family and then acts all buddy buddy when he's with them dump him if he twists something 1.00
00:11:29.840 you say into something you never meant just to cause a fight and punish so what they'll do is
00:11:36.060 they'll say back like they'll they'll say well you said this and then we don't like that we don't
00:11:40.840 like being held accountable for the things we say you dump him if you feel anxious around him 0.70
00:11:46.340 because you don't know what version you're going to get women that's what women do women we don't
00:11:51.000 men don't know what version of us they're gonna get because we change based on where we're at in
00:11:55.140 cycle day or even that hour dump him if he texts you while you're at work to fight which causes
00:12:00.900 you stress and the inability to focus on your job because he won't leave you alone dump him
00:12:06.420 if you have to rehearse what you're going to say to him in order to try to avoid him having a bad
00:12:12.900 reaction dump him if he uses vulnerable things that you've told him against you or tells other
00:12:20.020 people those vulnerable things that you told him in confidence dump him and if he says that you're
00:12:26.100 too sensitive in response to you expressing how he hurt your feelings dump him and yes as with part
00:12:32.660 one these are all things that i personally experienced in my former relationship if your
00:12:38.100 man does yeah so what'll happen or divorce him okay what'll happen is women um we love the 0.96
00:12:43.060 criminals the losers and then when we can't get them anymore it's like a weird world we're in 0.95
00:12:47.620 where women like in the woman hierarchy um it's like better to date a criminal or whatever so 1.00
00:12:53.940 but the criminals and the losers and the whatever the wife beaters you know they only date women 1.00
00:12:59.540 under uh a certain age so when we age out of that then the other women are like no you can't date
00:13:06.020 the bad boys only only i was able to but don't do what i did um yeah and it's really just out of 1.00
00:13:12.900 jealous um have your fun ladies go get tortured so anyways if he uses the wrong you're and you're
00:13:18.980 dump him he's a cheater and if he doesn't dress well like he doesn't put effort into his outfits 0.92
00:13:24.740 he just doesn't care about how he looks in a bad way it's actually disrespectful and he's 0.99
00:13:29.300 also probably cheating so dump him again yeah just dump him everyone's a piece of yeah all
00:13:34.580 right guys um let me know what you think in the comments i love you thank you for watching
00:13:39.380 um and yeah women hate other women they want you to dump your boyfriend over nothing
00:13:44.460 so anyways I love you what I love you like the video on your way out subscribe I'll see you next 0.89
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