REAL AF with Andy Frisella


100-0： It's A Lifestyle, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO179


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In this episode of The MFCEO Project, I talk about why we need to stop being such a dreamer and focus on reality and why it s so important to be realistic in order to achieve your goals. I also talk about how to deal with people who tell you that you can t do something because you re not good enough.

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00:00:00.000 what is up guys you're listening to the MFCEO project I'm Andy I'm your host and I am the
00:00:14.620 motherfucking CEO guys before I get into Thursday thunder which is going to be thunder I've got
00:00:23.640 some housekeeping as you know if you listen to Tuesday which I know you did because you're not
00:00:29.440 stupid we are doing a testimonial contest and the grand prize is going to be I'm going to fly out a 0.59
00:00:38.180 group of people who make a one minute video or less not a one minute and 10 second not a one minute and
00:00:46.400 40 second not a seven minute one fucking minute explaining how the content of the MFCEO project 0.97
00:00:55.860 has changed the direction of their life tell us about your benefits tell us about the progress
00:01:00.840 you're seeing tell us about the struggles that you saw before it tell a good fucking story we are going 0.92
00:01:06.460 to do this contest to celebrate our 200th episode okay to enter this contest you're going to need to
00:01:16.600 post your video on YouTube you're going to need to send the link to testimonials plural testimonials
00:01:24.860 testimonials at the MFCEO.com so you make the video you host it on YouTube you send us the link
00:01:32.240 testimonials at the MFCEO.com we will watch the videos and then we will pick someone actually I
00:01:40.020 think we're going to pick like five people to bring out here for our VIP exclusive MFCEO experience which
00:01:47.660 is going to include top-notch accommodations hanging out going through your business questions going
00:01:54.700 through any any issues you might be having with yourself one-on-one with me having you on the
00:02:00.840 podcast answering some of these questions on the podcast because if you have the questions pretty
00:02:05.320 much everybody probably has the same questions and then we're going to go to dinner we're going to
00:02:10.240 have some drinks we're going to eat at my favorite place and we're just going to hang out have a good
00:02:13.340 time so it is going to be a fun time it's going to be a really cool experience and if you want to be
00:02:18.360 a part of that make sure you enter the contest now with that being said guys I have something that I
00:02:26.560 want to talk about that is near and dear and important to me and something that I honestly cannot
00:02:33.040 fucking grasp why this doesn't exist with everybody okay all through our lives we're going to have
00:02:43.100 people tell us that we can't do shit which is really weird because when we're little and when
00:02:50.720 we're dreaming and we're growing up most of us grow up in a situation where our parents people around us
00:02:58.520 are schooling when we're little they say dream big they say you could be anything you want they say
00:03:06.940 you could be an astronaut you could be a professional athlete you could be a millionaire you could be
00:03:13.000 president but somewhere along the line when we get to a certain age that changes
00:03:19.680 okay and instead of saying you can be all these things we have the same people look at us and tell
00:03:29.840 us things like this you need to be more realistic you need to be more practical you need to quit being
00:03:36.580 such a dreamer you need to get more focused on reality you need to quit talking about all these
00:03:43.540 things that you want to do and get something realistic we all go through this we all go through
00:03:51.400 the process of trying to figure out how to become what it is we want to become and when we're little
00:04:00.160 we're encouraged to become great but once we get to a certain age for some reason the script changes
00:04:08.480 and the people who supported us now are telling us that we shouldn't think like that I've never
00:04:17.300 understood that about society I've never understood why that is I've never understood why people are
00:04:23.060 encouraged to dream big and then the same people come around and discourage us
00:04:30.560 to not dream at all so that we could be more like them so that we could be realistic we could be
00:04:37.980 practical we can be average I don't think that's right I don't agree with that and to be completely
00:04:48.520 fucking honest I remember every single comment that has ever been made to me about not achieving my
00:05:05.780 goals people who say these things you need to be realistic you'll never be able to do that Andy do
00:05:12.020 you still own that little vitamin shop what are you doing with your life when are you going to get a
00:05:16.660 real fucking job every single comment and this goes for all areas of your life this goes for your 0.97
00:05:26.440 career this goes for your family this goes for your fitness it goes for the way you think
00:05:31.500 you know not long ago I had people saying Andy you're fucking fat you own supplement companies and
00:05:40.940 you're a fat ass you don't even use your own products you're you don't even represent your brand 0.99
00:05:48.280 now when most people have these comments they get angry they get mad they get pissed off and what do
00:05:56.640 they do they go pout they cry they whine they go do more of the things that has got them in that
00:06:03.520 situation and let me ask you something when people make comments that hurt you why do they hurt you
00:06:12.660 because people are poking on that very sensitive area that you know is the fucking truth 0.97
00:06:21.380 and I'm going to tell you something guys this podcast is twofold one you have to learn how to react to
00:06:29.940 criticism you have to learn how to take criticism and look at yourself and say you know what they got a
00:06:36.840 fucking point and use it as an opportunity to improve use it as an opportunity to get better and stronger 0.92
00:06:43.920 and faster and smarter and more productive but most people can't do that because they get so caught up
00:06:50.920 in their little delicate feelings getting hurt that they can't see that what that person said
00:06:57.960 has a lot of truth to it they can't see that what that person said is actually an opportunity for you to get
00:07:05.840 closer to your goals
00:07:07.780 now the second part is a lot of people will tell you
00:07:15.060 that having a chip on your shoulder and taking what people say and using it as fuel is not right but I'm going to
00:07:23.820 tell you right now it is fucking right I don't know one motherfucker that is successful and makes seven 0.99
00:07:30.160 figures a year and I know a lot of them that doesn't operate with a chip on their shoulder that doesn't
00:07:36.420 take inventory of every fucking comment that anybody has ever made to them whether they let that know 0.92
00:07:42.680 publicly or privately doesn't matter just because they don't show you publicly that they're fucking crazy 0.89
00:07:49.260 doesn't mean they aren't actually crazy and you know what I don't think it's crazy society tells
00:07:54.700 you it's crazy people who haven't done shit tell you it's crazy but I'm going to tell you right now
00:07:59.520 I've done some shit and I'm going to tell you it's not fucking crazy it's normal all my friends are
00:08:05.300 successful operate this way all the people I've met that are successful far more successful than I've ever
00:08:11.860 been financially operate this way every time somebody doubts them they get fucking pissed and 0.93
00:08:19.360 when they get pissed they go out and do productive things they don't dwell they don't sit at home and
00:08:25.620 cry in their beer they don't go fucking eat shit they go to the gym they get their business plan 0.95
00:08:31.020 together they they do whatever the opposite of that criticism is to take positive action to smash
00:08:37.500 people in the fucking mouth with their progress okay and it's okay to want to do that it's okay to want 0.94
00:08:45.460 to step on motherfuckers throats that say shit to you it's okay to want to cut motherfuckers heads off 0.98
00:08:51.820 whenever they fucking say you're not going to do this and you're not going to do that and you're not going 0.96
00:08:56.820 to do this and you know what it's okay to run the fucking score up people don't think that's okay that is 0.91
00:09:04.080 okay that's reality a hundred to fucking nothing a hundred to zero that's how I operate that's how 0.58
00:09:10.900 I want to win that's how I want to fucking dominate and that's how you should be thinking about it too
00:09:15.700 it's not about anything else but taking what people say you can't do and shoving it down their
00:09:21.400 motherfucking throat a hundred and nothing it's a mentality it's something that people either get or 0.86
00:09:30.160 they don't get they either understand that they are completely offended that somebody would even
00:09:37.000 doubt them and they're willing to go to the ends of the fucking earth to fucking shove it down their 0.79
00:09:42.640 fucking throat or they don't understand it and they think you're crazy and they think you're you're 0.91
00:09:48.260 delusional and they think you're getting mad for no fucking reason well you know what those people 0.90
00:09:53.040 are not the people that you need to listen to you need to listen to that inner crazy motherfucker 0.99
00:09:58.300 that wants to shove shit all over and and down people's throats and make them doubt every single
00:10:04.700 fucking thing that they ever said to you I heard a really good quote yesterday and the quote was this
00:10:14.080 it was from my friend Mark Bell this is an amazing quote it said build the kind of life that says I told
00:10:21.120 you so without having to say a fucking word build the kind of life that says I told you so without 0.97
00:10:28.240 having to say a fucking word and you either understand that or you fucking don't and I'm going to tell you 0.93
00:10:34.540 right now guys if you're going to be successful in life if you're going to make millions of dollars in
00:10:39.540 life if you're going to make a career where you make a lot of money or do something great you better have a
00:10:45.720 fucking chip on your shoulder you better be fucking pissed when people doubt you you better learn how 0.97
00:10:52.080 to take that pissed off energy and put it into productive action because most people can't do
00:10:57.880 that most people just get mad they never connect the dots to the second point yeah they get mad but
00:11:04.380 they don't go out and produce productive action they don't use it as a flip or a trigger or a pivot
00:11:09.360 to make you go work when somebody calls you fucking fat your ass should be at the fucking gym 0.99
00:11:14.820 five seconds later when somebody says you're a fucking loser you should be working on fucking 0.98
00:11:19.620 getting to become fucking Mark Cuban a millisecond after that every fucking negative comment should
00:11:26.780 trigger you into fucking productive action every time somebody says something to you you should go do 0.98
00:11:32.840 whatever it is that is going to make them have to eat their words right then right now anytime you
00:11:39.660 doubt uh or have second thoughts about going to the gym or doing the work you're supposed to do
00:11:45.880 you should be thinking about and recalling all the shit that anybody ever told you about not becoming
00:11:52.900 what it is you say you're going to become don't give in don't be like everybody else don't give up don't
00:12:00.640 settle because things are hard don't let people talk you into their life don't let people convince you
00:12:07.620 that their life is somehow morally better than your life because it fucking isn't there's no fucking 0.96
00:12:14.560 nobility and being broke and insignificant there's lots of nobility in setting an example
00:12:22.060 for the rest of your fucking family for society and for future generations 0.99
00:12:27.260 about what success is all about and I can tell you right now if you're lucky enough if you're fortunate
00:12:36.760 enough to have a chip on your shoulder if you're fortunate enough to have this mentality of a hundred
00:12:42.380 and nothing dominate every fucking thing that you actually possibly come across in life and stomp the 0.95
00:12:49.400 fuck out of everybody that says you couldn't or won't or shouldn't
00:12:53.720 count your fucking lucky stars because I'm gonna tell you right now using that energy
00:13:00.540 is going to propel you to success don't ever lose it don't ever let that chip fade off don't ever let
00:13:10.380 somebody convince you that's not a good thing because it's a fucking great thing the only people 0.87
00:13:15.580 who are ever going to tell you it's not a good thing are people who don't fucking have it they don't 0.99
00:13:20.040 understand it they'll never understand it is quit trying to make them understand it
00:13:24.560 use your gift use the negativity use it for productive action and become stronger become
00:13:33.400 better become faster become smarter become more productive and you know what you will build a
00:13:40.300 life that says I told you so without having to say a fucking word 0.99
00:13:44.960 you