REAL AF with Andy Frisella - April 21, 2020


24. Hashtag Fail


Episode Stats

Length

16 minutes

Words per Minute

168.96104

Word Count

2,737

Sentence Count

4

Misogynist Sentences

3

Hate Speech Sentences

5


Summary

In this episode of The Realists, I talk about failure from the perspective of someone who has actually failed multiple times in his career and has built a number of successful companies. I discuss the concept of failure and how it's a completely normal part of life, and how to deal with it.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 What is up guys, this is Andy Frisella and this is the show for the realists
00:00:17.320 Say goodbye to the lies, the fakeness and delusions of modern society
00:00:21.120 And welcome to motherfucking reality
00:00:23.560 Guys today I've got a very important show for you
00:00:27.340 Especially for those of you who are struggling right now with the situation happening with the economy
00:00:33.860 You know, maybe your plans aren't working out the way you planned
00:00:37.800 Maybe you're even failing in business or in your career
00:00:42.140 This is going to be an extremely purposeful and intentional podcast to help you realize
00:00:50.160 That what's going on right now will ultimately serve you, okay?
00:00:54.420 So what we're going to talk about here is failure
00:00:57.300 But before I get into it and before you think oh i've heard all this before
00:01:01.880 You haven't heard it from someone who's actually built stuff
00:01:05.720 Okay, you haven't heard it from someone who's actually built a number of different companies
00:01:10.660 That are all very successful at whatever they do
00:01:14.720 You just haven't you might have heard people who make memes for a living talk about failure
00:01:20.500 You might have heard people who are professional motivator speakers
00:01:23.820 And that's what they do for a living talk about failure
00:01:26.440 But today what i'm going to do is i'm going to talk about failure from the perspective
00:01:31.360 Of the real world, okay?
00:01:34.300 I'm a real guy just like all you guys
00:01:36.420 I started out with very little
00:01:38.520 I've struggled and I fought very hard to get this far in life
00:01:42.740 And I feel it's my obligation to share with you how I did it
00:01:46.600 And a big part of how i've done it
00:01:49.140 Is by learning how to see failure the proper way
00:01:52.980 And that's what we're going to talk about today
00:01:54.940 And before I get into it
00:01:56.480 I'd like to remind you guys of the fee
00:01:59.300 All right, we have the best audience of any podcast on the internet
00:02:05.420 Anywhere, okay?
00:02:07.160 We don't run any ads
00:02:08.700 We don't have to run ads on the show
00:02:11.680 We grow the show to the top of the ranks consistently
00:02:15.740 Because you guys share this
00:02:17.860 All right, and that's how I prefer to do it
00:02:21.080 So this is a trade
00:02:22.940 I'm going to teach you something
00:02:24.720 I'm going to share with you something that's helped me
00:02:27.760 And in return I ask that you help me out by sharing the show
00:02:32.660 I think that's a fair trade
00:02:34.380 It's one that's worked out very well for us
00:02:36.820 In this community since 2015
00:02:39.340 So let's get into it guys
00:02:42.040 Let's talk about failure
00:02:43.980 You know, there's so many misconceived thoughts
00:02:46.600 And myths around the concept of failure
00:02:49.580 You know, people can read about it
00:02:51.540 Or they hear me talk about it right now
00:02:53.840 But still, they seem to never understand
00:02:57.180 They'll hear what I have to say
00:02:59.600 But they don't apply it to their situation
00:03:02.220 And guys, you have to stop that right now
00:03:05.440 I don't want to hear about your fucking situation
00:03:08.540 Or your excuses
00:03:10.160 Look, everybody has their own
00:03:13.160 Contrary to popular belief
00:03:15.940 Nobody has a clear-cut winning path
00:03:19.260 That is free of resistance and failure
00:03:21.700 All the way to the top of the mountain
00:03:23.840 We all have failures
00:03:26.360 We all experience it
00:03:27.900 Our problem is we don't see the failures in others
00:03:31.260 We see a popular actor
00:03:33.400 We don't wonder if he's a failed parent
00:03:35.480 Or spouse
00:03:36.500 Or how many times he screwed up
00:03:39.340 To get where he is
00:03:40.760 We see some at the top of the business world
00:03:43.260 And we don't wonder how many times
00:03:45.180 They failed a company before
00:03:47.380 Quote-unquote making it big
00:03:49.340 I mean, every single big name
00:03:51.660 That we could possibly think of
00:03:53.220 Has experienced massive failure
00:03:55.700 To some extent
00:03:57.140 You know, just some examples
00:03:58.840 Off the top of my head
00:04:00.040 Thomas Edison, man
00:04:01.540 He tried 10,000 times
00:04:03.560 Before he got his light bulb
00:04:04.880 To light up the first time
00:04:06.300 And that invention
00:04:07.480 Changed the course of the world
00:04:09.760 Henry Ford's another guy
00:04:11.720 That I like a lot, right?
00:04:13.640 He had multiple failed automotive businesses
00:04:15.920 Before finding success
00:04:17.560 Again, someone who changed the world
00:04:20.280 Colonel Sanders
00:04:21.560 Was 62 years old
00:04:23.940 Before his famous secret recipe
00:04:25.940 Found the attention of the masses
00:04:28.120 And turned him into a lifelong success
00:04:31.060 Again, a guy who has had a tremendous impact
00:04:35.300 On the culture of society
00:04:36.980 Dr. Seuss
00:04:38.440 Another guy you all know
00:04:40.240 Was rejected by 27 different publishers
00:04:43.780 J.K. Rowling
00:04:45.280 Started on Harry Potter
00:04:46.860 As an unemployed
00:04:48.000 Recently divorced single mother
00:04:49.900 None of these stories
00:04:51.960 Experienced success
00:04:53.620 The minute they decided
00:04:55.300 To try to do something
00:04:56.780 But
00:04:57.700 Instead of what most people do
00:05:00.400 And quit
00:05:01.780 They kept at it
00:05:03.300 Assuming you're gonna go out there
00:05:05.400 And kill it on your first try, guys
00:05:07.320 Is an arrogant thought
00:05:09.040 It's extremely naive
00:05:10.740 It's an ignorant mindset
00:05:12.800 That is belittling you
00:05:14.220 And quite frankly
00:05:15.360 Inaccurate
00:05:17.040 You're insulting everyone
00:05:19.340 That went through this process
00:05:20.780 By even thinking you're better
00:05:22.880 Than having to deal with the failures
00:05:25.540 I respect the hell
00:05:27.980 Out of anybody
00:05:29.240 That goes out there and tries
00:05:30.660 Even if they fail
00:05:32.020 Because at least it shows
00:05:33.740 That they don't think
00:05:35.140 That they're better than everybody else
00:05:37.040 Okay
00:05:37.720 I want you to think about that
00:05:39.400 By you thinking
00:05:41.180 That you're going to go out
00:05:43.340 And execute on this play
00:05:45.460 The first time you run it
00:05:47.240 And it's gonna score a touchdown
00:05:49.080 Is arrogant
00:05:51.100 People spend their whole lives
00:05:54.560 Becoming skilled at what they do
00:05:56.940 To think that you're going to open up
00:05:59.720 Whatever it is
00:06:01.020 Whatever the path is
00:06:02.380 That you're trying to be on
00:06:03.660 And just jump on it
00:06:05.240 Dude
00:06:06.660 It really can't get much more arrogant
00:06:09.200 Than that
00:06:09.660 And when you think about it
00:06:10.840 Like that
00:06:11.580 It really makes a lot of sense
00:06:13.900 That we fail
00:06:14.700 Right
00:06:15.040 This is why I respect
00:06:17.440 People that try
00:06:18.640 People that are willing
00:06:20.800 To go out
00:06:21.400 And do
00:06:22.020 What it is
00:06:22.940 They want to do
00:06:23.600 Even though
00:06:24.340 They know they're going to be
00:06:25.340 Bad at it
00:06:26.140 These people are going to
00:06:27.240 Build confidence
00:06:28.020 They're going to earn
00:06:29.460 Some self-respect
00:06:30.440 And eventually
00:06:31.680 They'll have failed
00:06:33.720 So many times
00:06:34.920 And gotten used to
00:06:36.360 Getting up
00:06:36.940 And brushing it off
00:06:37.880 And laughing at it
00:06:38.860 That they're going to
00:06:39.780 Look back and say
00:06:40.880 Hey
00:06:41.520 The whole reason I'm here
00:06:43.540 Is because I had the balls
00:06:45.700 To look like an idiot
00:06:47.060 That's really the secret here guys
00:06:50.100 It really is
00:06:51.120 Look at it from the perspective
00:06:53.200 Of a little bitty kid guys
00:06:54.800 Alright
00:06:55.300 You guys have all been around
00:06:56.480 Enough little kids to know
00:06:57.520 Children generally lack
00:06:59.140 The fear of failure
00:07:00.280 They're not afraid
00:07:00.940 To try anything
00:07:01.760 Why is this?
00:07:02.980 Because the fear of failure
00:07:04.340 Is something that comes
00:07:05.520 Like a force around you
00:07:07.120 That's instilled by society
00:07:09.080 Look at a kid
00:07:10.140 Learning to walk
00:07:10.880 You don't watch them
00:07:12.220 Take their first steps
00:07:13.400 Fall down
00:07:14.260 And then say
00:07:14.720 Man you know what
00:07:15.520 Screw this
00:07:16.140 I'm just going to
00:07:17.760 Crawl around the rest of my life
00:07:19.120 It sounds ridiculous
00:07:21.060 Okay
00:07:22.520 Remember when you were
00:07:23.580 Learning to ride a bike
00:07:24.640 Did you pedal a few feet
00:07:26.620 Fall down
00:07:27.560 Scrape your knee
00:07:28.360 And then never try again
00:07:29.940 No
00:07:30.860 And that's the point
00:07:32.480 This lesson
00:07:33.920 When you're just a little bitty kid
00:07:35.800 Trying to learn how to ride a bike
00:07:37.060 Or walk
00:07:37.540 This lesson
00:07:38.820 Is the ultimate lesson
00:07:40.200 For you to learn
00:07:41.520 You just forget it
00:07:43.280 You learn this lesson
00:07:45.700 When you're a little bitty baby
00:07:47.480 If you continue to try
00:07:49.800 You'll have success
00:07:51.460 You know that if you take a ride
00:07:53.820 For the next 30 feet
00:07:55.200 You might fall
00:07:56.040 And you might fall
00:07:57.100 On your face
00:07:57.820 Multiple times
00:07:59.060 But eventually
00:08:00.020 Because all the other kids
00:08:01.840 In the neighborhood
00:08:02.340 Have learned to ride their bike
00:08:03.820 You figure out
00:08:05.000 That you know what
00:08:05.520 If they can do it
00:08:06.140 I can do it
00:08:06.620 Where have we gone
00:08:07.460 Away from this
00:08:08.200 Why do we lose this
00:08:10.060 Why do we forget this
00:08:11.820 Why did you forget this
00:08:13.720 A big thing
00:08:15.940 That you have to learn
00:08:17.540 About failure
00:08:18.240 Is that most people
00:08:19.420 Are going to view it
00:08:20.300 From the wrong perspective
00:08:21.580 I have a couple ways
00:08:23.160 I want to share with you
00:08:24.160 On how you should be
00:08:26.540 Looking at failure
00:08:27.780 Okay
00:08:28.140 Number one is this
00:08:29.560 You have to realize
00:08:31.080 That failure is a scenario
00:08:33.080 To learn from
00:08:34.400 You have to reframe
00:08:36.080 The failure
00:08:36.920 As an investment
00:08:38.100 In your education
00:08:39.440 And in your knowledge base
00:08:41.480 Towards the skill
00:08:43.200 Or the craft
00:08:44.540 Or the outcome
00:08:45.700 That you're attempting
00:08:46.720 To go for
00:08:47.960 Part of succeeding
00:08:49.320 And part of getting
00:08:50.700 Where you want to be
00:08:51.560 Is figuring out
00:08:52.540 What doesn't work
00:08:53.400 It's a natural
00:08:54.240 Part of the process
00:08:55.760 And knowing what not to do
00:08:57.780 Is just as important
00:08:59.940 As knowing what to do
00:09:01.540 You can only learn
00:09:03.500 What not to do
00:09:04.480 If you're willing to try
00:09:07.500 And you're willing to fail
00:09:09.020 And you're willing
00:09:09.960 To look stupid
00:09:10.800 And you're willing
00:09:11.480 To be laughed at
00:09:12.440 And you're willing
00:09:12.940 To be embarrassed
00:09:13.860 Okay
00:09:14.760 Age works in your favor here
00:09:17.160 The older you get
00:09:18.220 The more experience you get
00:09:20.120 And the more experience you get
00:09:21.780 The more you realize
00:09:23.280 That you fail over and over
00:09:25.700 And over again in life
00:09:27.240 And every time you do
00:09:29.000 You pick something new up
00:09:31.080 About what not to do
00:09:32.760 And you have to realize
00:09:34.280 This is just as important
00:09:36.440 As doing what the right things are
00:09:39.540 Because if you can't
00:09:40.820 Replicate success
00:09:42.180 In everything that you do
00:09:44.200 You're going to be
00:09:45.160 A one trick pony
00:09:46.320 Meaning
00:09:47.140 You have to know
00:09:49.360 What to do
00:09:50.220 And you have to know
00:09:51.560 What not to do
00:09:52.600 And the only way
00:09:53.700 To learn what not to do
00:09:55.520 Is by being willing
00:09:57.080 To look like a fool
00:09:58.380 Point number two guys
00:10:00.720 You have to look at failure
00:10:02.980 As a moment
00:10:03.760 Now there's a few points
00:10:05.220 I'm going to make here
00:10:06.100 And I need you to understand
00:10:07.380 All these differences
00:10:08.260 First off
00:10:09.020 You have to make it
00:10:10.400 A definitive moment
00:10:11.400 Then you have to understand
00:10:13.820 That that definitive moment
00:10:15.660 Has passed you by
00:10:17.120 And then you have to
00:10:19.220 Immediately look towards
00:10:20.400 The future
00:10:20.880 And start moving forward again
00:10:22.460 You cannot dwell
00:10:23.760 On your failures
00:10:24.700 You need to look back
00:10:26.140 And figure out
00:10:27.260 What it is you need
00:10:28.560 To learn from them
00:10:29.580 Take that knowledge
00:10:30.920 And start to move forward again
00:10:32.620 This is what champions do
00:10:34.200 You have to consider
00:10:35.780 And recognize
00:10:37.160 Each failure
00:10:38.000 As a low point
00:10:39.000 That you can build from
00:10:40.560 And this is where
00:10:41.160 Most people do get lost
00:10:42.680 Right
00:10:42.960 They look at failure
00:10:44.200 As a moment
00:10:45.100 But then they stop
00:10:46.300 They say
00:10:47.920 Oh man
00:10:48.400 I screwed up
00:10:49.220 Oh you know what
00:10:50.460 Got to file for bankruptcy
00:10:52.240 Oh you know what
00:10:53.400 I guess I wasn't meant
00:10:54.320 To be an entrepreneur
00:10:55.120 And that's it
00:10:56.060 They go dig a hole
00:10:57.540 They fucking lay down
00:10:58.900 And they die
00:10:59.840 Because this failure
00:11:01.440 Devastates them
00:11:02.560 And they're only
00:11:03.820 Operating with part
00:11:05.180 Of the equation
00:11:05.860 In mind
00:11:06.520 Right
00:11:07.360 You're gonna get
00:11:08.480 Punched in the face
00:11:09.560 What did you learn
00:11:10.800 From it
00:11:11.320 You're gonna get
00:11:12.560 Kicked in the nuts
00:11:13.460 What'd you learn
00:11:14.500 From it
00:11:15.020 You're gonna get
00:11:15.960 Your shit stomped
00:11:16.900 Out of you
00:11:17.340 What'd you learn
00:11:18.400 From it
00:11:18.900 These are the things
00:11:20.980 That you have to
00:11:21.700 Understand
00:11:22.200 Because if you
00:11:23.020 Don't get up
00:11:23.900 And take
00:11:25.040 The lessons
00:11:25.960 From every
00:11:26.680 Ass kicking
00:11:27.420 That you get
00:11:28.100 In life
00:11:28.640 And continue
00:11:29.500 To move forward
00:11:30.380 Those ass kickings
00:11:31.780 That you get
00:11:32.580 Were for nothing
00:11:34.260 So that's
00:11:35.620 Point number two
00:11:36.400 And point number three
00:11:37.380 Guys is this
00:11:38.220 You have to look
00:11:39.460 At failures
00:11:40.000 As unavoidable
00:11:41.280 They're part of
00:11:41.960 The process
00:11:42.600 That's just
00:11:43.920 The way it is
00:11:44.800 They're gonna
00:11:45.300 Happen
00:11:45.800 And they're
00:11:46.480 Gonna happen
00:11:47.200 To you
00:11:47.680 They're gonna
00:11:48.400 Happen
00:11:48.860 To your loved
00:11:49.420 Ones
00:11:49.720 They're gonna
00:11:50.340 Happen
00:11:50.800 To your kids
00:11:51.520 And they're
00:11:52.180 Gonna happen
00:11:52.780 A lot
00:11:53.420 All you have
00:11:55.580 To do
00:11:55.920 Is figure out
00:11:56.620 Why it happened
00:11:57.580 And avoid
00:11:58.620 That fucking
00:11:59.480 Pothole
00:12:00.060 The next time
00:12:00.820 You walk
00:12:01.220 By it
00:12:01.740 Okay
00:12:02.560 Finally
00:12:04.080 Point number four
00:12:05.020 Is this
00:12:05.600 You've gotta
00:12:06.600 View failure
00:12:07.780 As part
00:12:08.660 Of the equation
00:12:09.900 It is part
00:12:10.760 Of the success
00:12:11.760 Equation
00:12:12.460 Trying to create
00:12:13.740 Success
00:12:14.380 Without failure
00:12:15.540 Is the same
00:12:16.480 Thing as trying
00:12:17.240 To bake a cake
00:12:18.660 Without fucking
00:12:19.820 Sugar
00:12:20.260 Or butter
00:12:21.080 Or eggs
00:12:21.940 It's the same
00:12:22.800 Concept
00:12:23.380 You have to see
00:12:24.760 It as part
00:12:25.260 Of the process
00:12:25.920 If you look
00:12:26.860 At it like
00:12:27.340 An inevitable
00:12:27.900 Step that you
00:12:28.620 Have to take
00:12:29.680 It's going to be
00:12:30.680 That much easier
00:12:31.800 To pick up
00:12:32.520 And move on
00:12:33.600 When you get
00:12:34.420 Those stings
00:12:35.200 When you get
00:12:35.820 Those setbacks
00:12:36.680 When you hit
00:12:37.180 Those roadblocks
00:12:38.120 You just have
00:12:39.300 To understand
00:12:40.180 It is
00:12:41.160 What the fuck
00:12:42.180 It is
00:12:42.680 It's an ingredient
00:12:43.780 Of the success
00:12:45.240 Recipe
00:12:45.860 Each time
00:12:46.920 You start
00:12:47.400 Something new
00:12:48.140 You have to
00:12:49.060 Understand that
00:12:49.960 You are going
00:12:50.760 To fail
00:12:51.720 Not just once
00:12:52.960 Not just twice
00:12:54.200 But likely
00:12:55.200 Dozens of times
00:12:56.360 Over the course
00:12:57.220 Of your life
00:12:57.880 And the difference
00:12:58.940 Between people
00:12:59.860 Who make it
00:13:00.720 And people
00:13:01.500 Who don't
00:13:02.280 Is how much
00:13:03.400 Of this shit
00:13:04.040 They're willing
00:13:04.520 To put up with
00:13:05.300 Once you come
00:13:06.280 To terms with that
00:13:07.260 You'll be able
00:13:08.080 To start to recognize
00:13:09.080 Where you are
00:13:09.900 In the cycle
00:13:10.540 And begin
00:13:11.400 To start
00:13:11.980 Moving forward
00:13:12.720 From there
00:13:13.280 Guys look
00:13:14.740 As an entrepreneur
00:13:16.100 You have to become
00:13:17.420 Very familiar
00:13:18.440 With failure
00:13:19.660 I know I have
00:13:20.700 Okay
00:13:21.160 I've experienced it
00:13:22.000 Myself
00:13:22.440 Way more
00:13:23.460 It just seems like
00:13:24.120 I'm the only one
00:13:24.660 That ever talks about it
00:13:25.680 You know
00:13:25.880 I've seen it around me
00:13:27.020 Plenty of times
00:13:28.300 Over the last
00:13:29.060 Fucking every single year
00:13:31.060 I've been alive
00:13:31.720 Okay
00:13:32.000 It's just part of the game
00:13:33.000 It's unavoidable
00:13:34.320 One of the most
00:13:35.640 Annoying things
00:13:36.420 I hear
00:13:36.940 Is people that come up
00:13:37.960 To me
00:13:38.200 And they say
00:13:38.680 Dude I've always
00:13:39.660 Had this idea
00:13:40.420 Or you know
00:13:41.180 We're working on
00:13:41.760 This plan or concept
00:13:42.680 And then these people
00:13:43.540 Are you know
00:13:43.980 15 years older
00:13:44.840 And they're saying
00:13:45.240 The same shit
00:13:45.920 This is what
00:13:47.540 Most people do
00:13:48.280 Because they're afraid
00:13:49.160 Of looking stupid
00:13:49.960 Everyone wants to find
00:13:51.660 The foolproof plan
00:13:53.220 And I'm just gonna
00:13:54.220 Tell you man
00:13:55.020 There is no fail safe
00:13:56.440 There's no surefire way
00:13:58.280 To get to where
00:13:59.220 You want to go
00:13:59.860 With no pain
00:14:00.520 That's just reality
00:14:01.940 You have to step
00:14:02.980 The fuck up
00:14:03.680 You've got to
00:14:04.320 Get over yourself
00:14:05.180 Because the truth is
00:14:06.440 If you haven't tried
00:14:07.900 To pursue what it is
00:14:09.540 You really think
00:14:10.260 You could become
00:14:11.000 It's one of only
00:14:12.340 Two reasons
00:14:12.980 One
00:14:13.420 You're afraid
00:14:14.180 Of being embarrassed
00:14:14.980 You're afraid
00:14:15.800 Of looking like a clown
00:14:16.900 You're afraid
00:14:17.680 Of your friends
00:14:18.280 And family
00:14:18.760 Laughing at you
00:14:19.540 And making fun of you
00:14:20.400 That's the truth
00:14:21.580 And nobody wants
00:14:22.940 To tell you about it
00:14:23.940 Because it's not popular
00:14:25.000 But here it is
00:14:26.360 Failure
00:14:27.540 Is unavoidable
00:14:28.700 Failure
00:14:29.580 Is a teaching moment
00:14:31.120 And a learning moment
00:14:32.360 And failure
00:14:33.300 Is absolutely
00:14:34.780 100%
00:14:36.420 Part
00:14:37.680 Of the process
00:14:39.380 It's just not
00:14:40.660 The sexy part
00:14:41.700 Of the process
00:14:42.300 It's not the part
00:14:43.520 Of the process
00:14:44.140 That everybody
00:14:44.960 Brags about
00:14:45.760 On Instagram
00:14:46.320 It's not the part
00:14:47.500 Of the process
00:14:48.100 That everybody
00:14:49.080 Beats their chest
00:14:50.020 About on Friday night
00:14:51.500 When you're drinking
00:14:52.060 Beers with your boys
00:14:53.160 Alright
00:14:53.860 No one brags
00:14:55.260 About it
00:14:55.680 But you know what
00:14:56.400 Maybe they should
00:14:57.280 Because the more
00:14:58.080 You fail
00:14:58.700 And the more
00:14:59.560 You move forward
00:15:00.400 The more you're going
00:15:01.780 To succeed
00:15:02.620 And that's a
00:15:03.660 Mathematical
00:15:04.540 Statistical fact
00:15:06.160 If you can't
00:15:07.940 Understand
00:15:08.600 That failing shit
00:15:10.500 Is a part
00:15:11.660 Of the process
00:15:12.760 And without
00:15:13.940 Failing shit
00:15:14.860 You can't
00:15:16.120 Possibly know
00:15:17.400 What not to do
00:15:18.940 You have a problem
00:15:20.880 With your understanding
00:15:21.980 Of what the formula is
00:15:23.680 If you don't know
00:15:25.240 What not to do
00:15:26.020 You're going to
00:15:26.480 Continue to make
00:15:27.260 The same mistakes
00:15:28.200 Over and over
00:15:29.560 And over again
00:15:30.600 So instead of
00:15:31.880 Being mad right now
00:15:33.340 Because things
00:15:34.420 Are shut down
00:15:35.320 Instead of being
00:15:36.360 Mad right now
00:15:37.460 Because maybe
00:15:38.520 You failed at something
00:15:39.800 Because of what's
00:15:40.560 Going on in the world
00:15:41.500 Because of
00:15:42.460 Instead of like
00:15:43.600 Sitting at home
00:15:44.400 And pitying
00:15:45.480 And pouting
00:15:46.000 Understand that
00:15:47.300 You're given a gift
00:15:48.280 Here of a lesson
00:15:49.660 What's the lesson
00:15:50.620 What can you learn
00:15:51.680 How can you apply
00:15:52.900 It moving forward
00:15:53.820 Because the only way
00:15:54.960 You're going to be
00:15:55.520 Called a failure
00:15:56.280 Is if you don't
00:15:57.780 Move forward
00:15:59.300 From this point on
00:16:00.760 I told my teacher
00:16:01.900 I'm a bitch
00:16:02.740 I'm going to get millions
00:16:03.920 Watch this
00:16:04.400 In the project living
00:16:05.500 Spoke it till existed
00:16:07.040 While I
00:16:07.560 I'm from where you can't
00:16:08.640 So
00:16:08.820 Go
00:16:09.340 Go
00:16:10.880 Go
00:16:11.540 to go