355. Q&AF： Good Times In Business, Applying Consumed Information & Most Important Thing When Setting A New Goal
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On this episode of The Realists, Andy talks about his trip to the fair, and why women are not attracted to young men anymore. Also, he talks about how the internet is a completely different world now than it was when he was growing up.
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what is up guys it's andy priscilla and this is the show for the realists say goodbye to the lies
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the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys today we
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have q and af that's where uh you submit the q's and i give you the afs uh you can submit your
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questions to uh email those in to ask andy at andy for seller.com okay sometimes when you tune in it
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will not be q and af it will be cti cti stands for cruise the internet we put up topics on the screen
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here we talk about what's going on with them we break down the truth within the lies we make fun
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a whole lot and then we talk about the lesson and then we talk about the solution and so
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cti is more of like a macro lesson and solution and then q a is uh q and af is more micro uh problem
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solution so for those of you guys that don't know i had a podcast for a long time called the mf ceo
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project the purpose of the show was entrepreneurial success personal development was the number one
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show for a long long time until 2019 when we converted over to real af so most of my heart
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and soul is in how to make you better i also happen to be a amateur slash professional comedian
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that's how we uh work this all together so um sometimes when you tune in you will get real talk
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real talk is about a personal development speech five to 20 minutes or so of me quote unquote ranting
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uh it's gonna hurt some of your feelings because you are too fucking soft but the rest of you you
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will take valuable shit away from it okay and then sometimes we have full length i got a lot of full
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length shows coming up a lot of guests coming in town to do this show uh some really cool ones this
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week and next week for sure uh but that's the show man you know we're here to make you better we're here
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to uh help point out the problems but also provide the solutions and inspire you to be a higher level
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higher performing more successful more fulfilled human being now we have a fee for that the fee is
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not monetary um just tell someone tell someone about the show i don't run ads on the show i don't
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cut these ads in try to trick you uh we do this because we want the message to get out and the only
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he means tell someone all right so what's up dude what's going on man oh nothing coming off a good
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weekend yeah got a good week coming up yeah killing shit yeah went to the fair yeah dude that was that
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was that was cool i think that was that was the coolest thing i've done in a while i've never been
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anything like that i just took a drink of this cherry lime it's pretty good not bad yeah blueberry still
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better i like the i like the uh green yeah yeah whatever that we call that one the citrus
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yeah but anyhow yeah dude the fair was awesome dude um you know i used to go to that fair every year
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the washington uh county county fair i believe is what they call it yeah um it was fucking awesome
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dude uh it really you know seeing everybody out uh seeing everybody get along um the one thing i
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noticed that i took note and took home was the amount of like young men that were actually like
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men looking like young men yeah and not just like like uh remember those guys were sitting in the
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bleachers with us we started joking around with them so yeah so we were sitting at a tractor pool which
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that was dj's first tractor pool yeah and so there were some things that i had to learn questions that
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i had you know but uh no man those those dudes were cool real cool but like the point is is like
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the media and society and culture and the internet is a completely different world you know i didn't
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see one motherfucker on their phone out there no no that was another big thing like even with like
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i mean just talking about the men thing right like the media you listen to all that shit it would have
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you thinking that one out of every two men are like these beta starbuck drinking no bro these dudes
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look like they bail fucking hay no shit like they got the cutoff sleeves yeah they were fucking yoked
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and like yeah these dudes were kicking somebody's ass later yeah but like they were friendly as fuck
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and like bro they were no different than what what i was like when i was that age you know what i'm
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saying it gave me hope bro because like they make us look now i will say this like a lot of the girls
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like listen you guys don't got to show every inch of your body to like attract men in fact real men
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are not going to be attracted to that you're not going to get far with that mentality and and that was
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that was the that was the one critique like the the younger the younger men i felt like
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okay cool yeah and then i saw the younger women bro and i i i even asked emily i'm like
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did did you dress like this when you were 20 right you know like it was there was like it was just
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too much and i wish that um you know women would reel that back in a little bit you know i'm saying
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dude it's funny because i actually just saw this video the other day too it was like
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it was a clip of like this dude i guess he used like a vcr to record his like
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high school but this was back in like 2003 right and just like looking at how the kids looked how
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the you know 15 16 year olds dressed back then yeah and then you look at the shit these kids are
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wearing nowadays it's like whoa yeah but it wasn't i when i i'm being i'm being fair this is a fair
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conversation i didn't see them i didn't see that with the men no no the women no and it made me think
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like it's unfortunate that younger girls believe that they have to you know wear nothing to get
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attention that's what society tells them yeah and i don't think that's i think that's somewhere we
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need to get better at in society i'm not criticizing anybody i understand people want to wear what they
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want and you have that right but i'm just noting my observations yeah you know and um it was definitely
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a thousand percent better than what i expected um just based off of the the way that you know
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shit's been going yeah bro and then another thing too like you know they shut us down they kept us
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away from each other for so long like you you almost start to buy into their world like their
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little world here on this phone you know and as reality didn't see one fucking mask bro i didn't
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see fucking yeah it was completely opposite and i understand this is a small town fair but it ain't that
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small no you know they got fucking floor right there yeah that's what i'm saying like this these
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are people that live within the realm of a fucking pretty populous city you know um great people it
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made me want to move out there to be completely honest i might too um no i'm being for real you
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know me too yeah and uh for real if you guys are in i'll fucking do it yeah i love it bro the people
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were so fucking nice all the people that came up to us super cool bro we were there for what three
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fucking seconds before it started we literally just parked our car yeah just parked the cars
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yeah i mean dude it was but every single person that came up it wasn't like it was a very genuine
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conversation very genuine uh appreciative of like the work that we do here in the community
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or the show that we do um it just felt fucking good bro and like it felt good to get out amongst
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regular people and i think it's important for all of us you know to really think about
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the the the real world's not buying the shit that they're putting out dude no like this divisive
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shit i want to talk about this too for a minute because it's something that's on my mind it's been
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on my mind since we went to the to the fair and basically and before that too you know i think people
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are very emotional and i think people are very angry right now and i think people are very
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like raw because dude the shit we've been going through has been it's wrong you know but i think
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it's important also to recognize that a lot of the things that we are doing as as people in culture
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as individuals part of a culture are intentional tactics that have been released into society and
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promote it through the mainstream media to produce a result that makes it easier for them and them
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being the people that want to destroy america and so you know i say this all the time and i'm usually
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highly emotional but i'm not emotional about it right now and i'd like to say it in a little calmer
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way so people understand what's happening when you guys look at what the world is right now you have
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to understand that that where we are now is a result of things that happened 10 20 years ago on
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a cultural level and our complacency to not realize for sure and and dude you got to remember those 20
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year old men that were sitting with us at the at the tractor pool those those guys don't understand
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what i'm about to say they've just grown up in this world okay but when i was 20 they started to do
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things um you know it used to be you could say anything you want have any opinion you want
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and you were judged for that opinion right in public but then they introduced this idea of i'm
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offended and they they call it political correctness political correctness is a communist weapon it's a
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weapon of the globalists self-censorship to get people to self-censor and not tell the truth okay
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because if they can make the truth offensive and shame you for speaking the truth then they don't have
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any resistance to move forward with their agenda and people have people are so emotional and so
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frustrated that they don't stop to think am i actually executing on their plan right by censoring
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myself and there's examples of this other than just political correctness uh silent majority silent
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majority is a label that was created by the media okay to make people think there's virtue
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in being silent about your patriotism well patriotism and freedom die in silence okay so
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when we start to realize that by us taking pride in being a part of the silent majority
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there's really no virtue in that in fact it's cowardice and it's helping them accelerate their
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plan to destroy the things that you love yeah okay and like bro being american supposed to be
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fucking obnoxious as shit yeah i'm saying real wide and blue in your face motherfucker bro and
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that's what it is these people at that fair were they like that fuck yeah that's what i'm saying
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america's still like that yeah but they've convinced everybody that oh you're like dude think about how
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many times you walk up to someone you start having a conversation they're like yeah but you can't
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really say that they won't let you say who yeah they've tricked us into censoring ourself yeah and
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then you know another aspect of this plan that they run is the cancel culture okay they weaponized
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cancel culture on twitter with fake bots all right elon must just expose this okay so it if you didn't go
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along with the narrative they fucking attacked you through these you know the the blue check marks
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and then their army of fucking minions would quote unquote cancel you and we all understand that doesn't
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work anymore now that now the 80 percent 90 percent of common sense people have have the power but the
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problem is is that people that are in the 80 and 90 percent are not recognizing that cancel culture is
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actually a tactic that they've introduced intentionally to keep division high within the
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community okay because if we have a cancel culture and we're constantly attacking each other for every
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little motherfucking thing that prevents unity okay and so what's happened now is some of these people
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on the right have now fucking realized oh shit we got the power and they're behaving just like the people
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on the left and they're infighting and dividing amongst people in their core audience and this is why
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the left continues to get their way and the right does not because the left understands that we stick
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together no matter what and the right instead they adopt these tactics of political correctness they play
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by the rules political correctness um offensive language you know not allowed um uh silent majority
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and now they're starting to cancel companies or cancel people that just they just don't like because they
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got a little you know whatever taste of power on their social media guys this is all counterproductive
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shit okay when you're fucking attacking someone who's within your own political or freedom
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alignment alignment you're costing because you decide that you want to hurt someone
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you're costing the lowest level person at that company their fucking job
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the ceo is not going to fucking lose his job no he's gonna be fine there the brand's going to be fine too
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so when you do these things you have to ask yourself am i participating in what they want for me to
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participate in am i being a pawn of their place and until people start to understand that we should
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not be canceling people who are in our same political side which is american and fucking pro-freedom
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because they have disagreements with how one thing are done or that somebody fucked up
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dude everybody out there is acting just like the left now like they're motherfucking perfect bro
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go ahead i was gonna say it's it's like a it's like in chess you got bait moves you know i'm saying
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like i think that's exactly what they want us to be doing you know i'm saying because they realize
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that okay we the the right quote-unquote was unaffected by any of the left shit hey well
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let's just get them to do it on themselves that's it and we fell right into it yeah we did you know
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i'm saying so it's still a part of like we're still helping them achieve what they want yeah bro and
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like dude you know piling on to people like bro a lot of these people don't even know the whole story
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they never ran a motherfucking business you know how hard it is to run a fucking business like bro
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i've been canceled a hundred fucking times bro i don't give a fuck what you say about me
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i i take the lesson i go i fucking keep moving i get it but the point is is that now we have these
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people canceling like smaller companies attacking the fuck out of it and i want to know where they're
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going to draw the line and say okay well you know is american jobs being lost more important
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than uh you know is like where's the line like is it okay for you because you're pissed at something
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that cost someone a fucking job or two or three or five what's enough you know what i'm saying and
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bro this america this was never an american culture this is never something we had an american
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culture nobody here is perfect nobody here has fucking a clean closet all you motherfuckers
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listening every fucking single one of you motherfuckers listening has shit that you don't
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want nobody to know about and when you pile on when somebody else trips up and stumbles and you pile on
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bro your your time's coming your turn's coming bro your turn's coming you know it's interesting man
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like people just want to fucking hurt people and they're i don't know bro i think it's the same
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reason bro because you gotta you gotta think that they feel like they're unaffected by it they have
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no real investment there they don't you know i'm saying like they're not responsible for those jobs
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they're not responsible for those families so most of these people that pile on to shit don't even
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understand the exact same situation what's happening and i'm not talking about any specific example
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i'm talking about all of them just in general like you participating in political correctness
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you acknowledging pronouns you uh giving light to or saying you're part of the silent majority
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or you participating in cancel culture whether it's making videos trying to trash someone or whether
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it's piling on in the comments or whether it's sharing these are anti-american practices that have
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to stop if we're ever going to fix this country to what it could be and what it should be
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okay i'm fucking tired of the negativity bro i am tired of the negativity when when we have these
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elite tyrants all over the world trying to take our fucking shit from us and we got people inside
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of america inside freedom loving america attacking other small businesses or people that quite honestly
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have made way more good deposits than they have bad withdrawals and by the way sometimes i don't even
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like these motherfuckers that fucking get caught up in it right but i have you have to step away and
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say it's not about like it's about am i being productive or am i being counterproductive to the
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healing and the unity of america and us reclaiming our fucking mission and our freedom here and so you
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guys when you think about being politically correct or you think about offending someone or you think
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about holding back or you think about not showing your wins because you're afraid of what they say
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or when you think about canceling someone or piling on or all this shit you have to remember that when
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you do these things you are a literal fucking pawn for what they're trying to accomplish and if for no
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fucking other reason you shouldn't do it that's it that's real and so dude you know you guys out there
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that don't understand this start thinking about it before you react start thinking about it before you want
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to just fuck with someone you know what i'm saying because dude not only is it the wrong thing to do
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not only is it uh not good karma it's counterproductive to us getting this motherfucking
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country back yeah and that's really all i fucking care about well i mean dude i i would say i i feel
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like there's there's there's a lot of a lot of americans bro that are also equally frustrated like you
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with all the shit that they're saying right now too bro because you gotta think about when i see
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someone participate in can't bro you never fucking see no one no one fucking throws rocks down bro right
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no one no one gets jealous of fucking losers no one cancels fucking losers no it's never the people
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of of the people really doing shit uh talking shit on the people who don't do shit in fact from what i
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observe and from what i've dedicated my life to i'm actually reaching my hand down to people and this
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thing about me but i'm just saying there's lots of people like me i've reached my hand down to
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everybody to try and fucking lift them up with giving away free knowledge or you know trying to
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educate and doing things like this i don't have to do you know to bring people along and uh i don't know
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man it's just i understand like i'm starting to understand very very clearly why people don't do
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things like i do them yeah like i'm starting to understand like more people yeah like bro i'm friends
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with fucking a shit ton of really fucking wealthy people very wealthy okay none of them are on the
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internet yeah or they might be on the internet anonymously yeah like they have a car page you
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don't know who the fuck they are right like shit like that these dudes like the richest dudes i know
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they're not in you don't know yeah and there's a reason for it and and like so dude you know like
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maybe you guys should start appreciating the people who are out there kind of showing you the way
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instead of trying to tear them the fuck down because eventually there won't be anybody to tear
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down and those people will still be winning yeah you just won't see it you just won't know how
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real shit man you know so maybe start standing up for the things that are right maybe stop piling on to
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people maybe start defending people when people attack them i'm just saying and like i'm not talking
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about myself either bro i don't fucking care bro you think i'd get on here and say all this shit if i
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really gave a fuck what people thought i'm doing this out of a duty but like bro not everybody has
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the voice or the platform to fucking respond to things like that you know what i'm saying yeah
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you kind of see the wrinkle and try to correct it yeah like bro there's a wrinkle in the culture dude
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and you guys are fucking participating in it unknowingly you're this is and i'm not attacking
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people i'm this this whole little conversation on this is is for you to examine yourself where am i
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participating in what am i doing how am i contributing to this what should i do moving
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forward you know maybe next time someone gets fucking buried maybe not pile on maybe say hey
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um you know everybody makes mistakes yeah i made plenty of mistakes myself right it's like hey that's
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cool but how is this helping my grocery cart bill that's all i'm saying you know i'm saying like and
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you have to realize like when you try to hurt these small businesses you know the the people that
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ends up hurting are the fucking warehouse person who's packing orders who's the brand newest guy
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that now instead of them needing three or four they need one because you decided you wanted to go on a
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rant for two days and look cool on the internet right now there's three motherfuckers that can't
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feed their fucking families right why don't you fucking think about it like that because i can
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promise you anybody that owns a business that's exactly how they think about it yeah and they're
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already getting fucked like like you're essentially just helping the government because they're
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fucking the small businesses enough dude that's a whole nother thing yeah like people like them
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passing and we this is q and a f but i'll talk about this them passing the new uh bill they just
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passed yesterday or on sunday uh with the 87 000 new agents in the irs and then uh they actually are
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buying them ammo and weapons and things like that um what you guys don't understand is that in that
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bill there's a 15 percent fucking tax increase okay most small businesses operate from a margin
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between 11 and 13 percent in net profit if they put a 15 percent fucking tax increase on a small
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mom-and-pop business that puts them out of business at this point that's called a negative
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yeah so you can't make up that that that percentage that that bill is going to close
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more businesses than they fucking closed during covid and you guys have you guys are not understanding
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this you're about to see you're about to see a level of fucking communism in this country that
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you never thought would be possible because what they're doing is they're making it impossible for
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small by the way i've been saying this for fucking years i told you to stand up because you know back
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when i started on real af people were like bro you're a fucking entrepreneur stay to that talk about
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that well now here we are and now you're understanding why i decided to talk about this shit because here we
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are they passed this new bill they're the smaller businesses are going to get fucking annihilated
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and now you understand why i've been telling you you got to get fucking into it because what they've
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done now is they've created a scenario where it's almost impossible for small mom and pop type businesses
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to get it going and they're pushing them out of business while at the same time they're acquiring
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the fucking massive companies at the top okay which leaves zero of the companies owned by actual
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american citizens with american interests you'll own nothing and you'll be happy okay that's what
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they're that's the whole point of what they just did i'll bet you half the motherfuckers that voted
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for it don't even know that that's the fucking intention of what they're trying to do no because
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exactly zero of those people actually operate a business from the ground up right zero zero
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motherfuckers that voted on it have built a business from the ground up
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bro they just they just they literally just like they just put the fucking foundation of employment
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of people for the fucking social credit system bro i'm aware that's what that that's what that is
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like i was doing some math before we got going you add up the americans and the amount of people
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they just hired bro that's enough people to where each one of those new irs agents can monitor about
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1500 americans which is what's what like that once you take out the old people and the young people
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the actual functioning americans that the social credit system would affect that's that's 1500 people
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to every one person to like that they would have to monitor which is extremely feasible especially
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with the resources they have you know i'm saying like that bill just made the irs bigger than the
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fucking fbi the state department and border control uh border patrol combined like it's now bigger than all
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three of those agencies combined like it's insane it's insane it's insane but yeah let's uh but you
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guys want to cancel other small businesses yeah let's just keep out but let's let's ruin all the
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other small businesses let's fucking let's let's ruin people's lives because we don't like the way
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they talk we don't like what they have to say or we're jealous of them or they were mean to us
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let's ruin it like we don't have enough to fucking fight here
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it's disgusting bro it's crazy shit man well anyway what we got we got some good ones bro
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this is uh how do we get better so here we go um andy question number one my business is in a great
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spot okay my employees are happy my customers are happy business is good and we are on track for our
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goals for this year but there's a feeling inside like i'm missing some so what are some things that
00:25:31.140
you try to focus on in times when everything is going good well look they always say comparison
00:25:38.780
is the thief of joy right um this is a time where you should be comparing yourself to someone much
00:25:43.560
better than you okay so what i like to do when i start to feel and this sucks because it means you
00:25:49.160
never really fucking enjoy when you're doing good but the goal here is to be productive right so
00:25:55.360
you have to consciously understand that you are doing a great job and that also understand that
00:26:02.420
you can do a better job so when we are doing um everything i feel like you know is rowing we're rowing
00:26:09.340
the same direction everything's going good um you know what i try to do is look to see who's doing
00:26:16.140
better i try to look at companies outside of my realm of our industry or what we do and i look for
00:26:23.180
those times uh as times where i can put my mind into creative action on how to improve um because
00:26:29.380
it's very hard to put your mind in creative and creative action when you're trying to uh solve in
00:26:35.400
crisis mode or things aren't going well um and then a lot of business owners whenever they get in times
00:26:40.880
of good times they kind of take their focus their i call it take their eye off the ball okay and if you
00:26:47.280
take your eye off the ball you're gonna fucking miss the ball so you can never take your eye off the ball
00:26:51.560
even in good times and in those good times i found that those are the most um conducive times
00:26:57.660
for me to create new ways for us to innovate and improve um and and also you know that goes for bad
00:27:06.400
times too bro like like you learn more when things are wrong about ways to improve than you can when
00:27:14.320
things are going right because the problem is very obvious you're like staring at it there's the
00:27:18.400
fucking hole right okay we gotta put some fucking uh there's water coming in right now shit the
00:27:22.460
fucking fix uh flex seal on it all right like put some flex seal on that great product okay i don't
00:27:28.800
know you know but i'm just saying like you know flex seal cut me a check right i know you motherfuckers
00:27:34.460
been selling that shit but like dude you know um the the difference is the time when things are good
00:27:42.800
um i think is a more fun creative time i think it's a it's a it's like you are like for me i can
00:27:49.240
only speak for myself yeah but i'm freer to think bigger when everybody's rowing well than when we're
00:27:56.480
in chaotic time and like trying to like you know what i'm saying no it makes sense i mean but but
00:27:59.980
the worst thing you can do when things are going well is to think you got it licked like to think that
00:28:05.360
you fucking got it made like bro when people say to me congratulations on all your success
00:28:09.740
dude what do i say back every fucking time not i ain't did shit yet yeah i said i i said the exact
00:28:16.120
same thing yeah you ain't paying attention i said dude we got a long way to go yeah yeah every fucking
00:28:21.540
time because we do and it ain't a lie we got a long way to go we got a lot of people to help start a lot
00:28:27.820
of problems to solve you know we're we're gonna be an iconic fucking brand we're gonna help more
00:28:33.340
people than any brand ever like we haven't started you know so we do have a long way to go i'm not
00:28:39.960
being like falsely humble when i say that my goals are massive my goals to be bigger than fucking
00:28:45.480
anybody that's ever fucking existed will i hit it or not i don't know probably not but i'm gonna give
00:28:51.300
a hell you know i'm saying so uh you know i think it's important you know you don't want to read the
00:28:58.480
positive headlines you don't want to read the negative headlines you you know so when you recognize
00:29:02.120
things are going well use that as a time that you could create in a less stressful atmosphere as an
00:29:07.820
entrepreneur how do you communicate that communicate that to the employees like so like your employees
00:29:12.100
feeling like everything is going good they're feeling good so there's a paradox of leadership
00:29:15.240
there okay when things are going bad um and things like when things are going bad it's your job to pull
00:29:21.080
them up to to level okay so like they already know when things are bad bro everybody knows they're
00:29:26.220
bad i know nobody yeah like you coming in and yelling and screaming and shit that's that's the most
00:29:31.400
counterproductive shit you can do when things are bad because like it doesn't solve anything and
00:29:35.640
it just further cements how bad shit is and in fact it can make people completely lose faith in
00:29:41.080
the mission and believe that you can't accomplish the mission which isn't true because you can't
00:29:44.560
accomplish it but when things are good that's when you come in and you are a little harder on your
00:29:50.820
team you're a little bit more of a stickler on the details you know you expect a little more
00:29:54.680
yeah you're doing yeah you're doing good bro but what about that fucking thing there right right you
00:29:58.620
know what i'm saying so i call that the paradox of leadership so when things are good your job is
00:30:04.280
to point out the things that could be better when things are bad your job is to point out the things
00:30:09.280
that are good and how we're going to get better that's real yeah i know it's i know it is because
00:30:14.860
it's fucking built a whole lot of shit yeah you know so like you guys who come in and by the way
00:30:19.560
i used to be the guy who would come in and yell and scream when things were bad i learned this
00:30:24.680
because i fucked it up for a long time okay so just take my word for it yeah you know they're like
00:30:30.540
i was not a great leader for a long fucking time i fucking grew into a decent leader and i have a long
00:30:36.380
way to go before i become a great leader all right so learn when things are bad lift people up when
00:30:43.720
things are good bring them back to center that's the paradox of leadership super valuable love it
00:30:48.920
love it any question number two i've been an avid listener of your podcast since the mf ceo days
00:30:55.800
however i can't you're gonna be happy about the future then however i can't figure out what business
00:31:02.080
or avenue to pursue fully uh it's as if i'm only consuming the information without any outlet to
00:31:08.400
actually apply it you have any advice for me on how to take the knowledge and apply it yeah get off
00:31:13.060
your fucking ass bro it's been eight years you've been listening to me some fucking it's 2015 you still
00:31:18.380
ain't pick something fucking pick something i don't fucking care what it is dude you could be
00:31:23.760
the motherfucking butterfly warrior like bro what are you into yeah like there's enough people out
00:31:28.900
there there's enough people out there in the world that are into the shit you're into where you could
00:31:33.320
monetize that i use that i use butterflies as the fucking example for years and years and years
00:31:38.680
because to me butterflies aren't that exciting but there's probably people out there that their whole
00:31:43.620
life is about butterflies okay so let's just say you're into butterflies and you build a little
00:31:49.980
blog or a social media bro it's never been easier to do fucking anything this is why i get so fucking
00:31:55.760
frustrated because dude i had to go door to fucking door knock on people's fucking windows and shit
00:32:01.100
for years to even get it going and you motherfuckers got this tool in front of your face seven hours
00:32:05.680
a day and you're fucking still not doing it so start some sort of social media channel dedicated to
00:32:12.480
whatever the fuck it is let's just say it's butterflies okay and start putting out content
00:32:17.240
that either educates entertains or impacts about butterflies preferably all fucking three
00:32:23.640
all right build your audience connect with other enthusiasts and then figure out how to monetize
00:32:29.500
make butterfly blankets make butterfly fucking stickers make butterfly fucking hats do the fucking
00:32:36.180
i mean bro what the fuck yeah like fuck it's eight years man get off the fucking bench and get in
00:32:42.180
the game holy shit you if you listen to my shit for eight years and you still can't figure out
00:32:47.960
something to do bro you probably should just get a fucking job i'm just being real because
00:32:52.740
entrepreneurship is only for seven to eight percent of the people and out of those seven to eight
00:32:56.980
percent one percent is successful so if you can't get off your ass and fucking get in the game
00:33:01.940
maybe you're not an entrepreneur which by the way that's okay too but stop wasting your life trying
00:33:09.820
to be one if you ain't one yeah be an entrepreneur get in with someone's organization it's already doing
00:33:15.160
butterflies and contribute to the motherfucker help them out pour into the customers pour into the
00:33:21.780
mission bro you'll create value there and you'll have a very successful career there's
00:33:26.780
i mean fuck there's hundreds of people here that do that and they're amazing we wouldn't be here
00:33:32.060
without them there's no moral like people who are entrepreneurs are not better than people who are
00:33:38.840
entrepreneurs like culture somehow created this like this fucking standard like entrepreneurs are
00:33:45.180
awesome and everybody else who's an employee is a fucking idiot not true at all it's a totally
00:33:50.540
different skill set like to be an entrepreneur bro you have to be able to fucking just take
00:33:55.520
abuse non-stop that is it like if you could take abuse non-stop if you could get kicked in the balls
00:34:02.040
every motherfucking day and still show up and laugh and smile and and accomplish your fucking tasks
00:34:07.200
you might be built for entrepreneurship that's the truth okay i'm built for it i don't fucking quit bro
00:34:14.560
like you guys could come hit me in a hammer on a fucking dick every motherfucking day and i just
00:34:19.560
still show up here 30 minutes later true or not true absolutely true okay i fucking came
00:34:25.460
here after where'd i come after i got my fucking shoulder surgery here and we get to do the
00:34:29.120
fucking workout all right i told you you should have went home well you know the point is is i
00:34:35.680
ain't full of shit yeah and i'm letting you guys know there's not not everybody's cut out for that
00:34:40.540
because bro you give up a lot for that oh you give up a lot for that okay being a great entrepreneur
00:34:48.480
is awesome dude you get to show up to work you get to fucking contribute you get to you get your you
00:34:54.600
still get some free time you get some life it's not like that for entrepreneurs and fucking it is your
00:35:00.020
life and like dude this this is why i get so upset for the the balance folks like balance for an
00:35:06.780
entrepreneur is i put in 15 years and then i get a little bit of life back balance for an entrepreneur
00:35:13.500
is more on a daily weekly basis okay so it's it's a lifestyle change or choice that you want to make
00:35:19.160
there's no there's no there's no moral superiority to anybody who's an entrepreneur over a fucking
00:35:25.140
worker yeah like we're all fucking the same we're all just cut out for different shit now do certain
00:35:30.680
people get paid more because the skill set is more rare yes that's the way the world works bro
00:35:36.140
nature lebron james makes way more money because he's fucking way better than anybody else
00:35:40.440
and it doesn't really matter what you think of him i'm not a huge lebron james fan because i think
00:35:46.380
he's talks a lot of stuff that he doesn't really know about however you cannot deny his skill set
00:35:52.320
you see what i'm saying right right so he wins because he's fucking great and like we've in society
00:36:00.200
we've lost this this this idea and this mentality because you know it's been weeded out you know people
00:36:07.160
still holding on to this fucking uh they're still pressuring this uh this you know rich people are
00:36:13.260
evil shit like do you motherfuckers not understand that social media changed the game of entrepreneurship
00:36:19.660
for 70 fucking years bro mass media was the only way to go print radio television if you didn't have
00:36:27.060
the money to do that that you you didn't do it like you were just on word of mouth exclusively and it took
00:36:32.500
a long time when you these big giant companies coca-cola these big not specifically them i'm using
00:36:40.440
them as an example these were iconic brands that have been able to advertise on mainstream media for
00:36:47.020
70 years there was no accountability okay which means they could flat out fucking lie all right and it
00:36:53.780
would take years for the customers to figure it the fuck out which means there was no accountability
00:36:58.000
so they got super rich and for generations people caught on and they taught their kids
00:37:04.480
hey see that rich guy fucked everybody to get rich right but that's not how the game fucking works
00:37:11.400
anymore there's too much accountability instant accountability bro fuck man you fuck up one
00:37:17.840
customer and out of fucking 10 million and they're fucking blasting you on the internet there's no great
00:37:24.560
this goes back to the cancel culture shit in the beginning you know like to be good and successful
00:37:30.340
in business you have to be so much better and so much more what you claim to be now than you ever
00:37:36.480
had to be ever because of the automatic transparency that we have with technology which i believe is a
00:37:42.420
great thing i believe that people are just abusing the fuck out of it a lot of times okay because like
00:37:47.740
dude to win in business now you have to do what you say you're gonna do you have to be the real
00:37:54.220
deal you have to help people you have to solve their problem you have to give them a product of
00:37:58.780
quality otherwise word gets out immediately and they don't accumulate business so what you have
00:38:05.100
is a culture that looks at entrepreneurships now and they're still looking at people who are
00:38:11.200
successful who have built their success in today's era and saying oh yeah they fucked everybody you're an
00:38:17.120
idiot they can't fuck everybody if they fucked everybody they'd be fucking broke holy shit dude
00:38:24.000
being successful at this point in the game is more of a of a fucking badge that you're doing the right
00:38:31.700
shit than it isn't it's flipped and because parents for so long and culture for so long is telling their
00:38:38.940
kids you know dudes come home and they're like you know they're making fucking they're struggling you
00:38:43.660
know they're not having a good day they see the fucking guy driving down the street or living in a big
00:38:47.600
house fuck that guy you blah blah blah and you teach your kids all these lies about money and that
00:38:52.520
handicaps them for their whole life the only way to win now the only way to win in business is by
00:38:58.640
doing the fucking shit right by having a high quality product by taking care of your customers
00:39:03.980
by doing the right thing are people in your organization gonna fuck it up sometimes yeah are
00:39:09.260
you gonna fuck it up sometimes yeah you know what you do you fucking fix it and keep fucking moving
00:39:14.120
and you work to be better but dude the point is is there's a cultural realignment that needs to take
00:39:18.980
place when in regarding to how people view success and stop bro i talked about this fucking eight
00:39:24.420
years ago on mfceo like it's the reality dude yeah how the fuck how the fuck can a company like bro you
00:39:32.600
know i don't even know a company to use but like let's just say a fucking new new shoe company comes
00:39:39.000
out everybody right now is looking to put nike away uh for for a lot of different reasons okay
00:39:45.300
um but nike's still winning you know why nike's still winning you know why because they make the
00:39:53.400
best product oh they make the best fucking shoe and everybody fucking knows it and they like it
00:39:57.980
okay so let's be real when you make a great product you're gonna fucking win all right but let's just say
00:40:05.700
because there's 50 other fucking tennis shoes companies that are small that are starting out
00:40:09.340
which are all cool by the way no and i'm not going to name any names because i don't really culturally
00:40:15.860
support nike either but i wear their shoes right now because my fucking i'm on my feet all fucking day
00:40:20.600
okay now i've tried a couple brands of these shoes that everybody's talking about the shoes were not as
00:40:29.120
good i didn't buy them again see what i'm saying right right
00:40:34.500
it didn't solve your problem capitalism fucking works dude it works ethically too we're having the
00:40:42.980
more transparency we have the more ethical it has to be and what we're seeing on a big scale right now
00:40:48.900
is actually really great because so much transparency has come through that people have to take care of
00:40:55.640
their employees they have to do a good job they have to do all these things they have to make a quality
00:41:00.560
product like it's so hard to win when everybody can watch every motherfucking thing that you say
00:41:06.220
that the only motherfuckers that win say and do by the way the only motherfuckers that win are the ones
00:41:12.180
it's the truth it's the way it is man so you know
00:41:18.860
i don't know what was that what was that one question
00:41:22.920
no that was question two oh was it yeah well my point is is you need to stop looking at people
00:41:28.120
that are doing well and and try to criticize and tear them down instead of look at what the
00:41:32.120
fuck they're doing right and start copying their shit holy shit man solve fucking problems be cool
00:41:38.000
to people treat people right when you fuck up fix it keep moving it ain't that hard
00:41:42.720
and and you motherfuckers out there in the real world you should be having some grace for these
00:41:48.340
smaller companies that fuck up sometimes stop trying to ruin them because they're because you're
00:41:52.800
in a bad fucking mood fucking idiots we can't even we can't ever get ahead if we're always tearing
00:41:58.780
each other down holy shit man like if i had to say that one more fucking time on this podcast i'm
00:42:03.500
gonna fucking quit the podcast like it's so annoying dude do you not remember me in 2000 fucking 20
00:42:09.060
telling you guys like hey what's happening here is going to make it impossible for you to succeed
00:42:13.740
like i've succeeded do you not remember me saying that literally 100 fucking times and here we are
00:42:19.580
two days ago they pass a fucking tax that's gonna fucking cripple people and all the idiots that don't
00:42:25.440
know shit about business are cheering it on yeah the rich pay their share bro you all your friends
00:42:31.140
all their friends are all gonna lose their jobs so keep clapping you fucking idiots maybe you should
00:42:39.220
let run in the businesses left to people who've actually ran businesses maybe we should elect
00:42:44.500
people to make laws about businesses that actually know about business i'm really fucking concerned
00:42:51.700
about that whole situation because it's going to close more businesses than fucking covet every day
00:42:56.440
it's close the the one the only ones that are left bullshit so now all you motherfuckers that don't
00:43:03.800
like my political opinions and you message in and you say oh you should just stick to
00:43:08.640
entrepreneurship personal development stay in your lane blah blah blah this is my motherfucking lane
00:43:14.400
because without freedom we don't have fucking business for the last fucking time
00:43:19.840
guys our third and final question andy question number three
00:43:26.380
what would you say is the most important thing to remember when setting a new goal
00:43:37.780
most people have no comprehension of what it is they can actually accomplish whether that be their
00:43:45.680
parents fault or what they were taught in school or what they were taught from society
00:43:49.220
all of society in my opinion being where i'm at now and i can see very clearly is taught to keep us
00:43:57.200
very mediocre and very docile and very broke and so when i think of like setting goals
00:44:07.340
i see it from a different perspective than what most people see i actually know what people
00:44:13.340
are capable of because i've seen it bro not just in myself like i'm a fucking idiot
00:44:18.680
okay like i get this like treatment from people sometimes they think i'm some sort of superhuman i'm a
00:44:25.640
fucking idiot bro if i can do shit you can do shit i promise you okay so that's the first thing i know
00:44:32.860
the second thing i know is i've seen literally tens of thousands if not hundreds of thousands of
00:44:38.460
people from this show and our project with arte and through uh you know millions of people through
00:44:43.460
first form change their fucking lives completely so i i so from my perspective bro i believe that
00:44:51.380
most of the time and this is why i'm intense about and passionate about winning and getting you to
00:44:56.660
fucking like this dude who's i told him get off the fucking bench yeah because i know what you're
00:45:01.200
capable of dude and you're not even scratching it at all so like when i when i look at goals
00:45:06.200
for other people i understand why people say oh set small obtainable goals because smart goals yes
00:45:14.320
because most people have a hard time accepting the disappointment but what you don't realize is that
00:45:20.620
by setting small goals people inherently understand that small only small actions need to be taken so
00:45:26.260
they take small actions small actions always produce small results and small results usually
00:45:31.520
are smaller than the goal you set so for you to actually be where it is you want to be you have
00:45:37.560
to take the opposite approach and you have to set goals that are so fucking big that and you've all
00:45:43.020
heard the saying shoot for the moon and you'll still land among the stars there's that's reason
00:45:47.720
that's a saying is because it's fucking true and most people don't think big enough because they've
00:45:53.740
never believed in themselves enough to actually accomplish things this is why people attack
00:45:58.440
fucking live hard and 75 hard motherfucker the whole this ain't for everybody it's for people that want
00:46:03.840
to be fucking great and fix this bullshit once and for all once you figure out what you're capable of
00:46:08.960
your life starts moving pretty fucking fast so my advice on goals is always to set massive goals but
00:46:19.540
for most of you you have to learn some belief in yourself to start that's why i put out the live
00:46:26.260
hard program for fucking free okay you go listen to it it's episode 208 uh it'll explain every
00:46:33.180
motherfucking thing that you want that you need to do to build confidence to build self-esteem to build
00:46:38.640
grit fortitude mental toughness these skills endurance uh perseverance these are skills that we must learn to
00:46:46.840
accomplish any goal and the reason that we don't ever accomplish even the small goals is because we
00:46:51.520
lack those those qualities so the first step to accomplishing a goal is to develop the skills needed
00:46:57.720
to accomplish the goal and those skills i just mentioned are all needed to accomplish a small or a
00:47:03.320
big goal but if you have the skills why would you stop at a small goal right so my advice to anybody
00:47:10.120
is to pick out exactly where the fuck you want to be in life and amplify it make it bigger okay make
00:47:17.900
your make it bigger than what you take your ultimate dream the shit that even sounds stupid to you
00:47:23.400
okay and make your goals that big and wherever the fuck you end up is likely to be a little bit less
00:47:29.880
than that if you commit truly to it because that's the way the world works it's diminishing returns
00:47:34.880
but you where you end up is so much further than you would have ever been setting these little tiny
00:47:41.840
goals and a lot of people like to take the soft approach and they like to take the you know the
00:47:46.600
empathetic approach or the self-love approach bro real self-love is not you know being uh
00:47:53.580
having lesser expectations of yourself real self-love is developing the skills you need to accomplish
00:48:00.700
the shit that you truly will be proud of at the end of your days that's what real self-love is
00:48:05.980
you know and that's why i don't get along with a lot of these motherfuckers out there like that
00:48:10.040
preach this shit and notice that none of them have actually ever accomplished anything
00:48:13.300
none of them their voices they're talking heads they maybe you're maybe they wrote a book
00:48:18.560
but what have they accomplished how many lives have they changed where's people lining up with their
00:48:23.740
shit saying bro you changed my whole fucking life because everywhere i go i get that
00:48:27.760
how many times we get that the fucking fair the other night about 10 times yeah minimum
00:48:32.180
in an hour yeah so like guys and i don't say i have to brag i'm very grateful for those things
00:48:39.000
but my point is is that if you truly want to change if you really want to transform your life if you want
00:48:45.020
to become someone that you know is unrecognizable from who the fuck you are and by the way i've been
00:48:49.740
there i've been that guy was 200 and fucking or 350 fucking pounds bro and and and i owned a
00:48:55.840
supplement company a good one you know how embarrassing that was for me to go to any event
00:49:01.840
dude like i knew i was fucking fat you see what i'm saying but instead i set the goal to be like
00:49:09.020
bro i set a goal to be this is the only goal i really never accomplished to be on the cover of
00:49:14.820
muscle and fitness did i hit the goal no i wasn't on the cover but fuck dude i look pretty good my shirt
00:49:20.700
off could have been yeah you know what i'm saying my life is much better now yeah and so do we have
00:49:26.340
to start understanding how the actual pursuit and accomplishment process works this idea of little
00:49:33.700
bitty goals that they tell you oh they have studies on this well fuck let's be real bro do you really
00:49:38.540
believe in any of the studies they put out after what we've just been through for the last two or
00:49:41.780
three years because i don't i believe in real world uh anecdotal evidence and all i can do is tell you
00:49:47.940
what's worked in my fucking legitimate two eyes and my experience as a human being here every single
00:49:55.640
successful person i know that's legitimately truly successful like they built undeniably very successful
00:50:03.140
shit real shit they yes they all agree with what i'm saying here so we cannot listen to these
00:50:09.000
fucking people at your school at your college who are saying it's proven science that a small
00:50:15.800
attainable goal produces blah blah blah fuck your science bro where's your results because i look i
00:50:21.740
listen to motherfuckers that actually live so you you can take your academic shit and you can shove it
00:50:27.580
up your motherfucking ass for real it's real shit because in the real world it's different and those
00:50:32.900
things like fortitude grit perseverance uh you know mental toughness all these things
00:50:38.420
these are skills have you ever heard bro real talk hey any of you ever been taught that those
00:50:44.980
were skills no or were you taught that that was just shit people had or they didn't have no was it
00:50:50.640
the first or the second the second uh people are usually born with it yeah and that's not true
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it's not true you develop the shit you earn the shit just like any other fucking skill like if you
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want to become a skilled welder like my friend jesse james uh you're going to put in hours into
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your skill set you want to become a skilled drawer or painter you're going to put in hours now do
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certain people have natural propensity to be artistic sure but you could take someone and teach them how
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to draw like there's classes for it you know what i'm saying fuck yeah dude you you've been lied to
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guys you've been lied to about a lot of shit so you should really think about what i'm saying here
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this is coming from someone who fucking is just like you bro i am just like you i am no fucking
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there is nothing special about me if you could go back in my life and you and you could like see it as
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a movie you would realize bro i there's nothing about me that you that you that every single
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motherfucker listening to the show doesn't have i'm telling you that because i am borderline
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i've i've been i've had a lot of experiences and i learned my i i go i've done a lot of shit
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i failed a lot of times and i have a good memory i'm able to adapt and and uh move forward quickly
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that's that's it if you can learn your lessons when you make mistakes and you can move forward and you
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don't quit bro there's nothing you can't achieve it's really it's really that simple but you're going
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to get there much faster if you take the time to invest in developing those skills i mentioned
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and then setting massive goals because because massive goals just like small goals uh you know
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people naturally take small actions massive goals you have to take massive action and you got to do
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it for longer which automatically produces a bigger result guys andy that's three yeah go pay that fee
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yeah pay the fee guys appreciate you guys love you guys talk to you next time
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went from sleeping on the floor now my jewelry box froze fuck a pole fuck a stole counted millions in the
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cold bad bitch booted swole got her on bankroll can't fold doesn't know headshot case closed