452. Q&AF： Dress Code, Breaking Bad Mental Habits & Stepping Into Greatness
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Summary
In this episode of the Q and A F Podcast, the guys talk about a goat trophy that has two dicks. What would you do if you had two big ass wieners? Would you be the only goat with TWO dicks?
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what is up guys you're listening to the show what is the show welcome to the show for the
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realist that's right say goodbye to the lies the fakeness and delusions of modern society
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and welcome to motherfucking reality i'm sorry i was distracted i was distracted by this amazing
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trophy that sits right here in front of the world for everybody to see see see it's right here
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you know what that trophy's for is for being the funniest motherfucker on this show
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i was distracted now these guys thought they were going to play a fucking joke on me
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and they got what they think to be a female goat that's a nanny that what do they call a female
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goat nannies or does oh really yeah are you sure i would google it yeah but see they fucked up because
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really what they did was they got me a a goat trophy that has two wieners all right so what
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yes it's super fucking goat it's like the goat of the goats okay all right like what would you do
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if you had two big ass wieners you would be double dj yeah okay i'm just saying
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about the fee so with that being said what's going on man yeah what's going why are you keep looking
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at my goat it i'm i'm proud of you yeah you should be um i'm the fucking only goat with two dicks
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oh if one dick is broke you got another one yeah right that's right you know i'm saying yeah i mean
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i don't know what i would do with two dicks probably nothing good probably nothing good look
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what i can do yeah yeah no man what's going on i don't know the man just uh we had a meet dude
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what the fuck was that earlier today oh yeah what the fuck was that so listen these two people came
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in here okay and they came in and they told my people at the front desk they had a meeting with
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me and the head of it and the head of it motherfucker i don't even know what it stands for
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okay i've learned since then that it stands for information technology i did not know that you
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know why because that's not what the fuck i do yeah all right so they come in and they say we got a
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meeting with andy and the head of it and they tell my people at the front counter this and so they text
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us back uh you know it goes to a dj yeah it got to me and i'm like okay so they asked our head of it right
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uh he had no no knowledge of this nothing so i'm in the bathroom uh in a stall the big one
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all right getting comfy okay and fucking dj comes in he's like andy and i'm like i'm like you know
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i'm i try to pretend i wasn't there yeah you yeah you fucking did too i know because i called you
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twice because i would like to shit in peace and then i came out they're like no he's definitely in
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there he comes out again and he's like andy and i'm like yes and he's like do you have a meeting with
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josh and whoever yeah whatever i don't know whatever the fuck the names were and i'm like what
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well to and to be fair i ask you that because like there's sometimes like listen everything's on
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your schedule i know that right and so like there's very rare opportunities like times that
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come up where like there's something that is going on that's not on the schedule it happens but
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blue moon look dude so i never heard of these people and i'm like no i don't have meaning with
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these people so dj i walk i get done i walk out dj's talking these people and they look highly
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irritated highly irritated and he you could pick it up from here yeah well i mean first i
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check with jason i check with sal check with you drew they tell you that we were they were they
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told you that you and that me and them were having an email back and forth yeah so i go i'm like hey
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how can i help you guys and the one guy had a little pamphlet i said well it's like a it's like a sales
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pitch like what we got you know i'm saying and uh he's like he's like yeah like no it's not you
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know he's like well you know we've been uh we've actually been emailing back and forth with andy
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now now understand i have not sent a email since 2018 not a single fucking one in fact if you email
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me you i'd never fucking see it just so you understand yeah yeah i talked to three fucking
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people yeah i talked to jason i talked to sal i talked to four and i talked to will and eric that's
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fucking it yeah yeah and so i'm like well shit you emailing back forward with boss all right let
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me see him oh well you know it was actually you know and the name dropped drew like always you know
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i'm like oh let me see let me see those oh well you know like so you guys don't don't there is no
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emails right oh yeah you know but i'm like so you guys have an appointment at all and they're like
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well no i'm like well listen you see that like little sign on the door and the sign on the door
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says salespeople seen by appointment only if you ignore this sign we will not do business with you
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ever because it shows that you are incapable of following directions how do you know what that
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sign says because i fucking wrote it that's verbatim yeah i know and so i'm like you see that
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little sign there i'm like we read that sign so to avoid these little situations then in this
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this uncomfortable situation we're in right now that's why we read that sign yeah so so no i'm
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gonna have to ask you guys to leave like well can we can we set an appointment with you i'm like you
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can't no here's why because you're a fucking liar yeah okay so here's the first valuable piece of
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information for everybody on this q and a if you're gonna get four for the price of fucking three
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all right do not do that ever because i don't care if those two people had the key to the fucking
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universe in their little case that they were gonna pull out and it was gonna rain down upon me wealth
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and riches and fame and give me 24-hour blowjob i am not doing it because you cannot follow directions
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okay there's this thing called integrity there's this thing called you don't start off a relationship
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with fucking bullshit all right so this is to all you young hustlers out there and i hope you two are
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listening the ones that came here you looked all pissed off when you walked out to your car good you
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should be pissed off but you should be pissed off at your own dumbasses for thinking that that's gonna
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fucking work on a company the size and scale of what the fuck we do now i commend you for having
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initiative but the fact that you lied and the fact that you told my fucking right hand dude that you're
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emailing and having to talk with me when he knows for fucking sure that i don't talk to nobody that's the
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whole point you ain't getting in and not only you're not getting in you're never getting in and in fact
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i'm going to go and i'm going to find out who these two fuckers are because i'm sure they've sent
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me 50 fucking emails and then i'm going to tell all my friends never to fucking use these people
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so just understand how this fucking works don't fucking do that shit no no fucking idiots i mean
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dude the initiative is commendable right and like not when it's unethical shit exactly you're not going
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to lie to my team bro those girls and those guys up at the front desk i value them as much as i value
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anybody else in this building including my brother including fucking anybody and the fact that you're
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willing to lie to someone that you think you can get away with lying to to get to me is a bad fucking
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move bro you treat my people like shit i will treat you like shit guarantee dude on top of that like
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what about just the the disrespect of and of invaluable like not valuing your time you know
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i'm saying like i just show up let me get a meeting with andy yeah no big deal it's fine
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all i'm saying is it's a teaching moment for everybody all you young fucking hustlers listen
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to the show don't do that shit now let's admire my fucking two dick goat
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you know that shit's impressive dude i saw when madat showed me i said but i i don't know man
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madat knows what's good bro he found the only goat in the world with two fucking slongs yeah
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i didn't even know they made those yeah well they made a special for me it's one-on-one bitch
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all right man let's uh let's get better what are you gonna name it i'm thinking of a name it has
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to be something grandiose something plural yeah it's like thanos of the goats you know like godos
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all right well let's get into these questions man goatee holmes you don't even know who john
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holmes is bro oh you do yeah damn i'm not that young i don't know all right goatee holmes right
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here well let's get into it man uh any question all over the internet look at now he's fucking
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famous yeah i bet he never thought that like being born with two dicks yeah make him so famous
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being casted yeah yeah it's fucking amazing all right what's up question number one
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andy what's your take about uh employees and staff being in uniforms uh i own a gym and i don't
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enforce the dress code for the front desk workers um now that the new year is here i'm thinking about
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having them wear a uniform uh which uh really would be anything with a gym logo on it and i would of
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course apply the clothing items things like that but what's your take does it help cohesiveness
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impact on culture what's your take on it yeah dude i think you you first of all you need to send
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the right message people are coming in your gym that we're a professional place we we take care of
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things our standards are high like people standing around and bro by the way this when i was a small
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business like when it was just me and chris we didn't have a dress code we show up in whatever
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t-shirt we had in shorts probably why it took us fucking 10 years to figure the fuck out you know
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or at least part of it um i think having at least like a polo and some nice jeans or polo and you know
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some nice shorts something that looks professional that's kind of the standard that we run here like
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if you wear branded gear you wear you know sporty professional that's okay um there is people that
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you know tuck it in and look super buttoned up and all that but we don't require that but i think
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it's important i think it's important to have at least a standard of professionalism uh that you send
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to your customers but i also do believe that for culture reasons too it makes people perform better
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and feel better when they're part of something that has high standards so like not if i would
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actually raise it higher than just the uniform because you asked about cohesiveness when people
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belong to a certain culture that holds high standards they value being a part of that so
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they it's a it's a much more productive work environment when people are proud to be a part of
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whatever it is they're working on than it is you know some bullshit sloppy shit and so like while
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the uniform isn't going to get you all the way uh into the end zone in terms of team cohesiveness
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it's a good place to start so i think it's a really good idea i think you should do it now and i think
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all of you guys should do it you know a lot of you guys run small brick and mortar type type businesses
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or small gyms or small whatever it is and you think because it's small that you don't need to hold a
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standard because you know you're small but the reality is is if you want to get big you have to
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start pretending as if you're a bigger company that's how everything works bro like when you go
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to sleep what do you do you pretend to be asleep and then you fall asleep you ever thought about that
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not so yeah okay so becoming who it is that you want to be is no different when you decide who you
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want to be like today right like if you think about who you are today and realize that you who you are
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right now is the product of all of the decisions that you've made for the last let's say 90 days at
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least probably more like years right for most people you have to realize that that's who you were
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okay and so for you to become who you want to be you don't just become that you have to start
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behaving as if you are that and then eventually you will actually materialize into that a lot of
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people hear that and they say they hear fake it till you make it that's not what i'm talking about
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i'm not talking about going out on the internet and faking it like you're successful when you're not
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that's everybody wants to hear that for some reason i don't know why what i'm telling you is
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you fake it till you make it in terms of the actual actions and the standards that you hold for
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yourself today that would be equivalent to the person or the company that you want to become
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down the road so if you want to become let's i'm assuming that this person wants to make their
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facility a much higher end facility you have to start behaving at the higher end facility now and
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eventually you will become that the reason people don't grasp this concept is because they have
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imposter syndrome when they start doing it right like today i'm going to start behaving like a fit person
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would i'm going to eat what a fit person would i'm going to exercise like a fit person would train
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i'm going to drink that proper amount of water i'm going to read what a productive person would read
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and but i'm still fat and i'm still stupid because this is the first fucking day all right so that causes
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like fraudulence right and the same the same situation happens in business when people start behaving
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like a higher standard business they they feel like they're a fraud because they know that they
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only got three hundred dollars in their fucking business bank account right right but you still
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have to do it so understanding and the sleep thing is the closest thing i can get to people understanding
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what the fuck i'm talking about you have to pretend before you become it's no different than falling
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asleep when you go to fucking fall asleep you close your eyes and you lay there and you're pretending
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to fall asleep and all of a sudden you're fucking sleeping the same thing with when with becoming
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who it is you want to become or building your company into something that you want it to be
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the longer you delay that acting as if but the that keeps the dream out of out of reach forever
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yeah when was that when was that that that connection for you i guess starting as to how long did it did
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it take before you you noticed like okay let's start really focusing on this team cohesives six years
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okay the first six years we didn't do it at all uh when we got six years in we started so what
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happened was we went from two stores that i ran a store chris ran a store to six stores in one day
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all right because we absorbed a company that was going out of business we basically took over their
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leases and and bought their inventory all right which that has its pluses and minus two i can talk about
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later because it was it ended up working out but it i could have done it better but uh when i when
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we all of a sudden we went from like just me and him because we worked the full day right to like
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10 employees in one day all right because we had like two guys at each place it was probably like 13
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or 14 people total two of those people are jason and cody so like i realized holy shit there's like
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a standard to keep here i can't let these motherfuckers run in here just wearing their fucking uh axel
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rose t-shirt right like you know what i'm saying so we got we got them polos uh we got them you know
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we made a dress code and we and that's where it started and then it took it took from 2006
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to 2010 to really figure out what culture meant and how to build it and create it and then in 2010
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that's where we started to intentionally really put this out and you know i think our companies are
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famous for that now i think anybody that understands what we do uh any of the companies that
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i'm involved in they all have tremendous culture and people are confused as to how to create it well
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that took me 24 years to learn how to do that and that's also why i asked that you share the show
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because i'm saving you 24 fucking years so it's real yeah it's real but yeah it's a good place to start
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yeah i love it uh question uh question number two andy what's your best practical advice for breaking
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bad mental habits specifically thought patterns uh and reactions that you've had your whole life that
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comes so second nature to you it's like breathing how do you break those mental conversations how you
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defeat them well look there's an entire multi-billion dollar therapy in you know industry built off
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the biggest thing is to become aware all right when you become aware most people are not aware
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of their thought pattern they they allow these thoughts to creep in and they do not become aware
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of these thoughts so they just like they react in terms of emotion and feeling so the first thing
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you have to do is you have to be aware like when you start thinking like when i was going through
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my lexapro withdrawal like a lot of the thoughts were suicidal thoughts okay and when i started
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thinking and like dude people that don't understand suicidal thoughts it's not like it's hard it's hard
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to explain if you've never experienced it but like for me i had like legitimate like fantasies about
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shooting myself in the fucking head like it's not a it's not like a plan like i'm planning this out
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or like oh i'm going to miss everybody these thoughts will come out of nowhere no bro it's
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like this fucking like vision that you see of you fucking shooting yourself in the head over and over
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and over again and so like if you're unaware of that and that starts to happen you're probably
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confused as to what the fuck is going on right so what i do and this is not related to that example
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but like i was aware that okay this is what's going on i'm going through a chemical change i'm going
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through a withdrawal this will pass i will make it through this and i told myself this through the
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process because this was a multi-time a day since you uh occurrence but for most people that aren't
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it could be as simple as like the laziness that you are looking to break away from like for example
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right now most people are trying to break away from their old habits right like they don't want
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to continue to be a fat fuck they don't want to continue to be broke so right now everybody's in
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the mindset i'm going to change all these things but when you get home from your job okay whatever it
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is that you do which is probably not easy it's not easy and nobody's job is easy and you go home and
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you have to do your workout or whatever it is you have to do you got to make dinner that's healthy
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you start to tell yourself a story and the story sounds like hey man you had a hard day you know it
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just you know we'll take it easy tonight we'll order some pizza and you know tomorrow we'll get back
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on it we'll uh we'll start this back up sound familiar mm-hmm yeah absolutely doesn't it
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absolutely okay so the way that you change this is that you are aware of the story that you're
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telling yourself to justify the behavior that's created this place that you don't want to go
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and so what i talk a lot about is like an action or productivity pivot so the minute that i sit down
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on the couch and i say fuck dude fucking tired i don't want to work out i don't want to that is the
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minute that i take that as an indicator as a as a trigger for me to get up and put my shoes on and
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go do whatever it is that my internal dialogue has started to tell me not to do just happened this
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morning yeah yeah i did people don't know that i was sick as fuck last night i got up this morning
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i could barely fucking move and i'm like no i'm not fucking i'm not quitting and i'm not using
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this as an excuse and you know what happened i put my shit on i went out i did my cardio and guess what
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i actually felt a little better now i feel pretty good yeah okay so we have to be aware and we have
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to recognize when these stories that are bullshit come into our brain i talk a lot about this in the 75
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hard book we talk about the bitch voice and the boss voice and the bitch voice is that voice that
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tells you take it easy you worked really hard today bro let's just order pizza tonight tomorrow we'll
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get back on it for real this time but for for real like i mean it like i know you've told yourself
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this before but this time we're for real so dude just don't worry about just order that pizza
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right that's the bitch voice the boss voice is the one that you have to start to condition and tune
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up and the boss voice is the voice that will get you up off the couch and say no fuck that you're
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the fucking talking inside your head you're the fucking reason i'm here you're the reason i'm
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frustrated you're the reason my bank account looks the way it does you're the reason my body looks the
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way it does fuck you bitch voice and i'm going to get up right then and i'm going to take action in
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the complete opposite direction of what the fuck it is telling you and so you becoming aware of these two
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messages and i like to think of them just like we used to see in cartoons as a kid you see the
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little devil on one side that's your bitch voice you see the little angel on the other side that's
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your boss voice your boss voice is always going to tell you what the best thing for you is to do
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in reality that you already know but that bitch voice is so good at convincing you to take it easy
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or take a rest day and i'm not saying a rest day is bad but the problem the reason that you are where
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you are is because you've been resting your whole fucking life okay so we need to eliminate that for a
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while so that you get out of that fucking habit but the point is awareness bro awareness awareness
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awareness awareness be aware of the story that you're telling yourself that is keeping you in a
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place that you never wanted to be in the first place and start to see that voice as the literal
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enemy of your entire progress because that's the truth it is the enemy of your progress that bitch
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voice that tells you to take it easy and fucking we'll do it tomorrow and all these things that is the
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fucking sole reason that you are sitting where you are today with the dissatisfaction and the
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frustration that you feel every single day so becoming aware of it and then doing the opposite
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of what that bitch voice says if you can learn to do that you what will happen is that bitch voice will
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will first of all it'll stop doing that which is really nice because now like for me i don't really
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have much of a bitch voice like i just know what the fuck i got to do there's no mental anguish
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there's no negotiating there's no um you know justifying or or having to overcome it and that's
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the point of the live hard program the live hard program is training your brain to basically become
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100 boss voice all the time which makes you a fucking monster when it comes to doing whatever
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the fuck it is that you want to do put you entirely control of your future uh you know people will say
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there's always things that come in that that keep you from where you want to be no motherfucker
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there is things that happen there is unexpected events you will get sick people will die bad things
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will fucking happen but the reality is is that people have weaponized these outside circumstances
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against themselves to keep themselves exactly where they are and they don't look at it in reality bro the
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reality is you ain't handling fucking business that's it and so you know the more conscious
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that we become aware of this internal dialogue the easier it is to first of all start doing the
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opposite like think of the productivity payment like when you when it says oh dude i don't want to
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work out then you go work out right away you make it the best workout yes the best and dude if
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and anybody can do this this does not take a whole lot it just takes an instant action right the minute
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you hear it get the fuck up and go if you could do that a year from now that bitch voice that you
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hear that has talked you out of everything that you wanted in life that has kept you fat that has
00:26:37.580
kept you broke that has kept you from really becoming someone who accomplishes anything you won't be able
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to hear it anymore and that's when the real fun starts that's whenever you become completely in
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control of your outcome with the exception of the occasional fucking road bumps that are going to punch
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just in the fucking face for those asterisk people asterisk people you know what i'm talking
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about oh you're a butt but blah blah blah blah your whole life's a butt bro what the fuck you
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talking about exactly love it man well guys our third and final question uh andy question number three
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andy in one of your andygrams you spoke about stepping into greatness uh i'm a 19 year old
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uh in school for finance i'm currently doing 75 hard and i'm still unsure what i can do to step
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into my greatness what's the best tip or hack for finding one's true purpose and opening uh their
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own greatness from within my goal is to become successful but i haven't found the path or passion
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that will equal success well here's the good part we just spoke about awareness the fact that you are
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aware of what you're asking at the age of 19 years old tells me that you are on the right track
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most people don't think these thoughts until they're you know past the point of really being
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able to do anything about it and then they're like fuck i'm fucking this age which is a lie anyway okay
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and i can't do this and this and this now and then now they started with the age excuse right
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for the first fucking 20 years from 20 to 40 they didn't even think about it now because they're 40
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they're too old to change shit which is bullshit okay um so the first thing as i would say it's
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awesome that you're already aware of it and i think the fact that you are aware of it like i was aware of
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it at 17 18 19 years old is going to end you in a proper place all right but in terms of stepping
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into your greatness that will come with time dude you're fucking 19 years old here's what you need
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to be focused on if you can focus on building the best possible you if you could put you're already
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doing 75 hard if you can focus on building a bulletproof mindset a mindset that allows you to
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go and achieve no matter what the outside circumstances may be no matter what the weather's
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like no matter what's going on in the world no matter how you feel about it if you're able to go
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execute on those things which you're already putting in the work to develop that skill set
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there's really nothing that can stop you everybody thinks there's things that can stop you and the
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reason they think there's things that can stop you is because they don't want to put in the work to
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become someone who is unstoppable all right but you can very easily become someone who is unstoppable
00:29:23.720
by just putting the work into becoming so mentally hardened that you don't have to negotiate with
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yourself this goes back to the last question that the negotiation process for most people is what
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kills their entire life it's that fucking story that it's not that most people don't know what to do
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it's that most people know what to do and then talk themselves out of doing it all right so you're 19
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years old you already understand the importance of building this mindset you already understand the
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want and the drive and the ambition to become the best possible version of yourself
00:29:59.740
self so what i'm going to recommend to you is that you have a little patience and understand that
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you're 19 bro not very many people quote unquote step into their greatness at 19 years old you got a
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whole life ahead of you you're on the right track you're doing the right things you're thinking about
00:30:15.940
the right things and those things will pay off over the course of time do not lose hope do not lose
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faith continue to stay on this path your friends are going to make fun of you your fuck girlfriends are
00:30:26.160
going to leave you for it they're going to tell you you're obsessed they're going to tell you you're
00:30:29.380
fucking weird they're going to say why don't you want to go out and fucking party why don't you want
00:30:32.920
to do this and this and this and the reality is bro you're on a different path that human being who
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asked that question is on a different path than 99 of the people and all of their friends all that
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person's friends fall into that 99 so just understand because at 19 you really don't know shit like
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you're you're this dude is rolling the dice thinking like okay i think i'm on the right path
00:30:54.800
trust me when i tell you that you're on the right path none of your friends no fucking shit
00:31:00.260
all those friends saying all this shit to you they're going to say oh take it easy or oh blah
00:31:05.500
blah blah blah blah bro they're not going to be able to fucking pay their bills when they're 40 years
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old reality human bitch voices yes so uh i think this person's in a great spot i think the awareness in
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general like a lot of people ask questions and they're like well what about this i think about
00:31:24.220
this a lot well the fact that you're thinking about it is evidence that you are going to find a
00:31:29.220
solution where people really get in trouble is where they don't even analyze or think right and they
00:31:34.800
move through their life one year at a time every year telling themselves this is going to be the year
00:31:40.000
i'm going to change everything and that goes on their entire life and then once they get to a
00:31:44.340
certain age where they think oh i'm fucking past my opportunity is uh passed i'm kind of over this
00:31:49.720
then they just go full-blown quitter and then you know their shit's over like most people that get to
00:31:55.880
that point it usually happens when they're about 40 years old their fucking life is over like they
00:32:00.520
might think it's not over they might live another 30 fucking years but their life is over because dude
00:32:06.520
the true the true juice in life the true things that really make life livable are the squeezing of
00:32:15.100
your own human potential out of yourself so that you have a great fucking story when it's time to go
00:32:21.180
on to the next thing so that's probably so so but you gotta let the cake bake yeah but let me actually
00:32:27.040
so i mean are there things that you think that he should be avoiding right like like is it the gurus i
00:32:33.720
mean because like there's i feel like the younger crowd man they are like they do have the attacks
00:32:40.820
they're just getting pulled in different directions well yeah i think there's a lot of people out there
00:32:44.240
they're preying on people like right like bro look right i know like at 19 years old like this person
00:32:50.000
here they know what the fuck they're doing yeah but it would be very easy for someone who's 30 years
00:32:54.840
old or 40 years old who has you know the appearance of some sort of winning to convince them that
00:33:02.460
they're not on the right path and that you need them and you need this bro listen if you put in
00:33:08.500
the work to becoming the most mentally hardened version of yourself and the main point is a highly
00:33:13.480
disciplined version if you can it's like i said on monday show if you can become the person that can say
00:33:20.140
no to whatever it is that does not align with who it is you're trying to become and you can do that
00:33:27.240
consistently you have discovered the true superpower of humanity the true superpower skill of humanity
00:33:34.520
most people are incapable of doing that most people cannot resist the temptations most people
00:33:42.200
can't say no to the alcohol because they're trying to build a better life most people and i'm not saying
00:33:48.200
you can't drink alcohol bro but i'm just saying alcohol in my opinion is a is a lifestyle that is
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pushed on the public as normal that's not very normal that is designed to keep people suppressed
00:33:59.400
and the potential suppressed i like out i like beer bro i drink beer probably three or four times a year
00:34:05.100
and i get pretty fucked up and i like it it's fun but i don't make it a regular part of my life dude
00:34:09.700
because i'm trying to achieve i'm trying to create i'm trying to step into my greatness right so i i say
00:34:15.720
no to the things that don't align with that right right no absolutely man if you could develop that
00:34:21.700
ability bro to to control yourself there's nothing you can't do fitness will not be a problem
00:34:28.360
your goals and business will not be a problem relationships will not be a problem because now
00:34:34.540
you have the power to resist all things that do not align with what you're trying to do and a lot of
00:34:40.440
people who are losers will say well that doesn't sound very fucking fun well you know what doesn't
00:34:45.000
sound fun to me being a fucking loser i can't pay their shit that lives life on the fucking on their
00:34:50.620
terms meaning the fucking higher powers that be meaning being a little fucking sheep or a little
00:34:57.180
cog in the big wheel like there's nothing worse than that not only is it not only is it fun to be
00:35:05.320
unplugged and to be your own person and to be doing your own things it's a thousand times more fun than
00:35:10.960
the typical loser behavior of thursday night out friday night out saturday night out and you know how i
00:35:17.240
know this because i lived that life before i lived this life real talk today a lot of you guys have
00:35:23.800
follow uh first form which you should uh today was the the seven year anniversary of the video i made
00:35:32.440
where i was getting out of bed where i was 300 and fucking 30 fucking pounds and i haven't emily brought
00:35:38.200
it to my attention this morning she's like you know today was seven years that you guys made that video
00:35:41.800
and i'm like damn like that's a pretty big accomplishment i have never gone back i never
00:35:47.440
once fucking went back i never got fat again i never fucking went like that was the day that
00:35:52.040
everything fucking changed i might post that yeah fuck yeah you know what i'm saying but the point is
00:35:58.100
is that dude if you develop yourself at 19 years old as someone who could say yes to the things that
00:36:03.940
push you down the road you want to be on and no to the things that pull you off of that road and you
00:36:08.080
can do that consistently and then if you do choose to indulge it's a choice right something you're
00:36:15.660
you're allowing it's not something that's sucking you in there's a big difference there people don't
00:36:21.240
understand just the regret aspect of it it's not that you have to have abstinence from the enjoyment
00:36:27.900
or the fruits of life right like alcohol's been in the fucking culture for thousands of years bro
00:36:34.160
the reason it has been uh is because it's pretty fucking fun okay but we're not supposed to have
00:36:39.960
fun 24 7 this is part of the cultural conditioning that i think we have been victim to in this whole
00:36:46.260
entire country they tell you that you should be happy 24 7 and if you're not happy 24 7 you're depressed
00:36:54.000
they tell you that you should have fun 24 7 and if you're not having fun 24 7 there's something
00:37:02.400
wrong with you you're a weirdo you're obsessed too serious you're too serious you need to live a
00:37:09.400
little bro the reason people look the way they do and have the lives they live is because they live a
00:37:14.180
little all the fucking time so when you come when you become someone who can control these things
00:37:19.020
that's a fucking superpower bro that most people don't have like most people do not have that power
00:37:24.080
to me like you know where i've done this program for years on end now not years directly but every
00:37:34.420
year for four years in a row uh it's it's it's bizarre to me and i don't say this to be rude because
00:37:43.960
i was the worst offender of this and this is a testament to how far you can go i was the person who
00:37:51.000
couldn't go to a restaurant like i like toaster ravioli here in st louis dude we got toaster ravioli
00:37:56.840
like you might not have it staple but i'm telling you right now it's the best shit ever yeah toaster
00:38:00.940
raves and smoke uh s'mores parties right yeah right i had to stop saying i had to stop saying yes to
00:38:08.020
those too right right so um but i couldn't go to a restaurant without ordering an appetizer okay like
00:38:17.220
it was it was conditioned into me like i had i had to order toaster raviolis or nachos or some shit
00:38:23.740
and it it wasn't something that i could even control it was i had to do it i did it every time
00:38:29.940
and like if i was sitting there and i'm looking at the menu and i'm like fuck i know i shouldn't order
00:38:36.180
that thing but fuck it i'm gonna order it anyway and here's the problem with that mindset when you are
00:38:43.280
letting that thing make the decision for you you ultimately feel less about yourself because you
00:38:50.260
are exercising less control and less power which lowers your self-esteem and makes you think less
00:38:55.720
of yourself but if you are someone who can make the conscious decision and say i'm going to order
00:39:02.220
those nachos because you know what i feel like having nachos today and it's not this thing where in
00:39:08.500
your head you're fighting it you understand what i'm saying now it becomes a pleasurable experience
00:39:14.820
versus something that lowers your self-esteem makes you feel guilty okay so we keep ourselves in this
00:39:21.080
mental place of guilt by never honoring the things that actually serve us and that's the whole key to
00:39:26.060
really having a great life and being happy about it so it took me a long time to learn that but if
00:39:32.520
you can learn it at 19 years old dude you're way way way way way ahead of everybody else
00:39:37.280
love it man well guys andy that was three four yeah yeah it was four don't fucking lie and try to get
00:39:44.260
meetings turds all right that was four share the show if you want some more don't be a hoe
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share the show went from sleeping on the floor now my jewelry box froze fuck a pole fuck a stove
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counted millions in the code bad bitch booted swole got her on bankroll can't fold doesn't know