48. The Universal Law That Leads To Success
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Summary
In this episode, I talk about my struggles with anxiety and depression, and why you should be working on yourself to get better at managing your mental health. I also talk about how you can improve your productivity and productivity by focusing on the things you can control.
Transcript
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Yo guys, it's Andy and this is the show for the realistic about it, the lies, the fakeness
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and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking reality.
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Hey guys, you might be wondering after the last short podcast, what do we call that one?
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It was number 47 and we called it Rules Young Entrepreneurs Must Follow, okay?
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And it got me thinking, this is such a good topic for you guys, but I purposefully left
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You guys fucking know what to do if you like the show.
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Hey, I left off a point on that on purpose and the reason I did was because this point
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that I'm about to cover with you is more important than all the other points, all right?
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Now, as I mentioned in episode number 47, a lot of people are reaching out to me and they're
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Um, in the beginning of that podcast where we talked about getting focused on yourself.
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I let you guys know a little bit about what I'm doing with 75 hard and how that's affecting,
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And if you're just listening, you know, I'm very open with my mental health.
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Uh, I've struggled with depression for 20 plus years.
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Uh, I've been on and off different medications.
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And I don't think anybody should be ashamed of at all.
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Uh, there's this fake shame around, you know, battling things mentally that people have when
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in reality, there's so many more people that have these struggles and, and I can see it
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So I just want to offer what I think is the biggest piece of advice I can offer you guys
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in addition to focusing on what you can control.
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So I'm talking to a couple of dudes off, off Mike here.
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Um, but I went through and, you know, I, I, I've been dealing with these things.
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And this whole time the world's been like in chaos, I've literally been feeling better
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It almost makes me feel bad for how good I feel.
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But the truth is I've been doing the work on me.
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I've been controlling all of the things that I can actually control.
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And that's how I'm getting through this time mentally, guys.
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This is a challenging time for anybody, but I want to address something.
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In addition to all of those things that we've always talked about, you know, controlling
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I want to give you guys something that I think is really important.
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Not only to just your, your personal happiness, but also your success.
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Now, a lot of people right now, you know, they say things like you guys have followed
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You know, I make a post considerably often that says, Hey, I want you to win.
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Even if you don't want me to win, I want you to win.
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And a lot of people are saying that's kind of stuff, right?
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They're saying the, they're saying the right things.
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They're being positive, but they can't figure out why it's not materializing for them.
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And I'm also going to go into depth why this is so beneficial to you.
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The reason is the reason things aren't coming together for you is because the universe,
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But, and from what I've gathered in my life experience and the books I've read and what
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I've learned and how I see it working, which is really the basis of this whole show.
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What I've learned is that the universe doesn't care what you say.
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So if you're going around and you're feeling anxious and you're feeling frustrated and you're
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feeling angry and things aren't materializing for you, I want to give you a hack that is
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And I know that doesn't sound like something I would normally say, but the truth is if you
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truly have good intentions for anybody, whether it be your family or whether it be someone
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who, you know, most people will consider your enemy.
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If you truly wish the best for people, your conscious will be clean.
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You will be more successful because what you're telling the universe is, Hey, I love winning.
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And in turn, what happens, the universe starts to deliver these things for you.
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When you hate on someone in your heart, even if it's not verbally or in writing, you're
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creating a scenario where you're telling the universe, Hey, if you're saying, Hey, there's
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Joe, I don't like Joe, fuck Joe, but you're not saying it out loud and you're still feeling
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You're going to get back what you wished on that person.
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You're going to get back the hardships that you wish on that person.
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A lot of you guys might be shaking your head and say, that's bullshit.
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Or did you just do it one time and say it didn't work?
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Did you really try to consciously eliminate negative thoughts and feelings from your heart
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and soul and mind that you have for the people who would normally be your biggest
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A lot of you guys ask me, how do you feel about that?
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I hope he learned his lesson and I hope he's living a great life right now.
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I hope he's doing great things in his community.
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This is why good things happen to me because I have been able to figure out how to have
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I've been able to correct my thoughts and my actions and my heart when I feel it straying.
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And the truth is, the only person I ever have truly negative thoughts about is myself.
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And what I do there is I try to correct those two.
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I try to treat myself as if I was someone else.
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But I also try to give myself a little pat on the ass and say, hey, you know what?
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And so, guys, when you get yourself in this mental place where you're constantly fighting
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every single person in your brain and you're wishing negativity, it should come as no surprise
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as to why you feel frustrated, why you feel anxiety, why you feel pain, why you feel depression.
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All of those things should make sense to you if that's what you're wishing out in the world.
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And right now is the most important time to recognize this.
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We have more division and more hate than I have ever seen ever in my life going on right now.
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This is between cultural positions, you know, the police.
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Listen, man, the only way you're going to be able to get through this crazy shit without losing your fucking mind
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is going to be for you to focus on you and then be aware of your intent.
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Those people that you think you don't like, what do you really wish for them?
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Because if you do, you need to stop wishing that and start wishing that they do well.
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And what you're going to see is, first of all, you're going to feel immediately lighter.
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You're going to feel immediately less filled with stress, less anxiety, less pain.
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And then what's going to happen is, if you continue down that road of focusing your intent in the right place,
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And then what's going to happen is, if you start living this in all areas of your life,
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They know when you really wish well for them, or if you're just smiling in their face,
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but secretly not behind, you know, or behind the smile, you're hating on them.
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So, guys, the reason I didn't put this in the other podcast is because it's such an important point
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Yes, focus on improving and using this time to be better.
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But also be aware of your intent, because if you can get your intent to be right all the time,
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you will have nothing but winning and good things that you wished on other people coming to you.
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but you're going to have a tougher time going against this than you are going with it.
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When you see someone who's where you want to be,
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Or are you cheering them on because it shows you that you can also do similar things?
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Are you cheering them on because you know that if you put out good to them and they win,
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A lot of people call this the scarcity mindset.
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Get your intent right, and your life's going to start to come together.
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And, guys, as a reminder, I said this on yesterday's show or the day before,
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whatever it is, 47, the one I can't remember the name to.
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And they're going to be open here for, I think, the next few days.
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where Ed Milet and I get in-depth on topics such as these
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and practical topics of how to build a real company, okay?
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Not just the surface-level content that we put through our podcast for free,
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but if you're looking for more, if you're looking to learn more about that
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and you're looking to connect with like-minded individuals,
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Ed and I have built the most amazing entrepreneurship network on the face of the earth,
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and you won't find people that are a part of it that won't say that too.
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So if it's something you're interested in and you want to get more in-depth
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and you want to really level up and commit yourself to excellence
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and not only just commit yourself to excellence,
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but be around people who are also committed to excellence,
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which is extremely important, go to artesyndicate.com, check it out, apply.
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Not everybody gets in, but if you get in, it will change your life.
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So I just want to let you guys know because you ask me all year long
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Now, guys, with that being said, intent, intent, intent.
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Start to edit that, and you'll start to see things come back around for you.