REAL AF with Andy Frisella - October 21, 2020


79. Surviving The Success Zombie Apocalypse


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In this episode of The Realest, I talk about what it looks like to be successful in real life and why you should be looking for the secret out there that is going to get you to where you want to be.

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00:00:00.000 told my teacher dumb bitch i'm gonna get millions watch this in the project living 1.00
00:00:04.680 spoke it till existence mo changed to 50 got mo cost than did i only weigh 180 but my watch
00:00:11.720 cost 250 what's up guys it's andy priscilla and this is the show for the realest say goodbye to
00:00:17.580 the lies the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome motherfucking reality guys
00:00:23.760 today i've got a i don't know how long it's gonna be because i got a lot of shit i want to cover 0.74
00:00:28.420 with it but whether it's short or long i promise you this it's going to make you better that's what
00:00:34.340 we do here okay uh before i get into talking about what this show and what's on my heart what's on my
00:00:40.500 mind today um i want to remind you guys of the fee the fee is very simple if this show makes you better
00:00:47.480 which this one will if it makes you think if it makes you laugh if it makes you uh have a different
00:00:54.040 perspective that you might not have had share this show okay a lot goes into making this show
00:00:59.160 these guys here in the room the team here they work really hard to put the show together uh and we
00:01:03.700 don't run ads and we don't monetize the show the way that we could and you know we really just do this
00:01:08.860 because we want people to be better and we want to set an example for what it looks like to be better
00:01:13.940 and to help people you know understand um how to win and that's really what i want to talk about
00:01:20.420 today you know we have access to tools that teach us how to win right when i was growing up a lot of
00:01:28.760 you guys don't realize and i'm not that much older than you know most of the younger guys getting after
00:01:33.580 it now but i'm not i'm not you know a young buck anymore i wouldn't say you know um but i want you
00:01:40.280 guys to understand it wasn't that long ago where there wasn't social media and there wasn't access to
00:01:47.400 the information that is available today you know when i was young and when i was dreaming and when
00:01:53.560 i was having big goals and big visions and big aspirations for myself there really wasn't a lot
00:01:59.520 of places to look to figure out how to do those things right i could kind of see uh in in some
00:02:08.000 people's books you know i could read about how they did it but it wasn't like i was able to observe
00:02:13.160 them or or even really know anybody who was successful in real life i knew a few people
00:02:19.240 okay and i was lucky man i was lucky enough to know a few people most people don't know anyone
00:02:24.940 most people never even see someone who uh is successful on a large scale financially so i consider
00:02:33.220 myself lucky and i don't use that term very often to have been able to witness that a couple different
00:02:38.120 ways growing up i also witnessed a lot of people lose uh the the success they built which we're going
00:02:44.380 to talk about that today as well but guys this is the truth man right now we've got podcasts we've got
00:02:51.820 books we've got seminars we have masterminds we have information just all over the place about how to win
00:03:00.560 and there's all kinds of different ways to get where you want to go and there's people out there
00:03:07.500 sharing the skills of how to build literal empires that you could get that information for fucking free 0.93
00:03:14.480 okay it wasn't always that way and i think because people don't have that perspective they don't
00:03:21.120 necessarily appreciate what we have access to right now and that creates a scenario that i talk about a
00:03:27.560 lot called the success zombie all right this is the person who will read all the books and go to all
00:03:35.780 the seminars and buy all the courses and get into all the groups and then they'll look around after
00:03:42.920 doing this for years and years and years and get mad that they're not where they want to be okay and
00:03:49.040 the reason you're not where you want to be is because you're a fucking success zombie all right you hear 0.89
00:03:54.020 all the shit you take in all the information you think there's some secret out there that you're going 0.78
00:03:59.080 to find that is going to get you ahead of the line right that we all have to fucking work through 0.93
00:04:04.980 and until you find that secret until you find whatever that hack is you're not going to fucking 0.97
00:04:11.140 do it and i'm going to tell you right now you motherfuckers ain't going to do it regardless 1.00
00:04:15.180 okay so if you're one of these people who is following the latest information and you know looking for
00:04:22.340 the hack and let me save you some fucking time there is no hack the hack is put your fucking head 0.99
00:04:28.260 down take one step and take another step and take another step until you find yourself in a place
00:04:34.020 that's better where than where you are now this is what success looks like a lot of you guys have
00:04:39.620 bought into the hype of all these you know quote unquote successful people which by the way you don't
00:04:45.340 know how many of these people are actually successful it's easier than ever to fake everything on the
00:04:50.780 internet where are these people's companies where what's their house look like what's their business
00:04:57.180 look like what's their reputation does anybody know them what what have they done where do they come
00:05:03.440 from are they real these are things that you should ask before finding someone that you're going to try
00:05:09.840 to model because now more than ever we have people who have figured out that if they look a certain way
00:05:16.380 and they talk a certain way and they have a certain level of you know quote unquote flash in their
00:05:21.280 game somehow they're fucking credible and most of these people haven't done shit that's just the 0.89
00:05:26.540 truth all right so figure out who to listen to by doing a little homework on them who the fuck are
00:05:33.200 they where's their company can you go to their company can you see it is it real okay this is common
00:05:38.280 sense just because someone's standing in front of a fucking lamborghini doesn't mean shit all right 0.96
00:05:43.820 just because someone's sitting on a private jet giving you information that doesn't mean shit
00:05:47.440 all right so let's make sure the information is good first of all second of all let's do our part
00:05:53.660 you have access to this shit most of it's free what's your part your part is to put it in action 0.65
00:05:59.620 and it doesn't matter how many times you go to a seminar or take a course or show up at an event
00:06:06.600 or this or that or this your chances of success do not increase even one percent until you start to
00:06:15.760 do your part your part is to take these lessons and put them into play in your real life now i've done
00:06:22.440 my best over the last five six years to give you guys the real truth if you go back through my podcast
00:06:28.820 the ms ceo project i am 100 confident that every fucking tool that you will ever need to be 0.94
00:06:35.460 successful is in that which is why i switched formats to real af but i still see this as an
00:06:42.940 issue and it's getting bigger and bigger and bigger the more people figure out that they can
00:06:47.700 fucking fake shit and get people to cash flow them and pretend to be successful all right so the first 0.84
00:06:54.880 thing is don't be a success zombie success zombies are never going to make it up there the ladder of
00:07:04.020 success to the winners of where you're trying to go they're never going to do it and be weary of
00:07:08.080 surrounding yourself with these people surrounding yourself with these people who analyze every
00:07:13.640 single bit of data but do no action who will sit there and criticize someone who's trying to teach
00:07:21.420 them but then not take the action at all like it's like a monday morning quarterback right you never
00:07:27.540 played a fucking game of football in your life but you think that fucking aaron rogers should have 0.99
00:07:31.580 thrown that pass instead of ducked it down okay this is what you guys do and you spend your whole time
00:07:37.560 monday morning quarterbacking some fucking business person's plays and you're doing shit and you think 0.94
00:07:46.320 that's going to get you somewhere let's have a fucking reality check guys it's not okay so stop buying in 0.89
00:07:53.280 to this fucking way of being it's popular right now to be a quote-unquote entrepreneur on the internet all right 0.90
00:08:01.120 everybody has it in their fucking bio everybody's talking about all the shit they're going to do but how many of them 0.92
00:08:07.100 actually do it very few okay and what i want you to come to from this particular podcast is how to not be one of
00:08:16.360 those people that never does it and to be one of the rare people that do it okay so that's the first
00:08:21.440 step that's the first thing i want to talk about because i'm seeing a resurgence or even like a
00:08:27.020 i don't know an acceleration of the amounts of success zombies there are and i want to make sure you
00:08:34.340 don't fall into that trap so let's talk about the people and let's assume because i believe that you
00:08:39.900 are these people otherwise you wouldn't be listening to me you are the people who are going to go out and
00:08:44.380 win you are the people who are going to do what it takes you are the people who are going to use the
00:08:48.400 tools that i give you like the powerless program the 75 hard program all these different things that
00:08:55.500 i've given you how to visualize etc etc etc etc etc all these concepts you're going to put them into play
00:09:01.520 right okay now you people who are doing this who are taking theories and things that are proven from
00:09:10.020 someone who's actually built things and you're putting them into your life you guys are going to win
00:09:14.080 okay and you're going to win if you consistently show up all right if you can persevere if you can
00:09:21.760 cultivate the grit the tenacity the fortitude which by the way i give you the tool to do that too
00:09:27.840 called 75 hard all right if you could cultivate your ability to follow through on a plan that plan
00:09:34.480 and those tools will get you where you want to go okay so if you're willing to grit it out long enough
00:09:40.480 if you're willing to deal with enough hardships enough negativity enough obstacles enough bullshit 0.74
00:09:47.760 okay you there's nothing that's going to stop you from getting where you want to go it's going to be
00:09:52.420 you all right but why is it why is it that lasting success is so rare why is it that we know people
00:10:02.880 and you guys know them who seem to have all their shit together and have all their cool things in
00:10:09.480 life right they got a great house they got a great career they got a cool car they travel to the nicest
00:10:16.140 places their kids go to the nicest schools they have all their shit put together so to speak right
00:10:23.360 but then we come back in two or three years and they're either in the same spot or they've gone
00:10:30.740 backwards and when you ask them about hey tom dude what what the fuck's going on how you doing 0.71
00:10:34.540 oh bro you know the economy got me or this the divorce got me or this got me right there's always
00:10:43.980 a fucking reason that got them right and it was hard for them and that's what they attach themselves to 0.83
00:10:49.400 but then you have the other group amongst the winners because here's the thing about winning
00:10:54.720 and if you're going to take something from this show i would take this winning does one of two
00:11:00.620 things to people one it either makes them comfortable and that comfortable makes them lazy
00:11:05.720 and then they lose their shit two they win they understand the process of winning they've studied 0.78
00:11:12.900 how they got there they humble themselves and realize that it's not them that got them there it's
00:11:18.720 actually them following a set of rules and processes and discipline of following those processes that
00:11:25.560 got them there and then they continue to win bigger and bigger and bigger because they got a taste and
00:11:32.580 what happened when they got a taste they got hungry they got hungrier than they were okay this is this is
00:11:40.040 the thing so to get successful and get where you want to be guys we kind of have to go through a couple
00:11:45.840 different phases one we got to get past being a fucking success zombie you got to get past being 0.94
00:11:51.260 the observer of information fucking everybody's an observer of information right now that doesn't 0.95
00:11:56.520 make everybody an expert okay an expert someone who takes the information and go lives it in real life
00:12:02.380 kicks ass with it that's where you want to be so we have to work through that first part don't be like 0.86
00:12:10.240 everybody else don't be all like all the people who want to be ambitious to win and kick ass and
00:12:15.980 succeed and then don't do shit but like you know pretend to be about it when they're not really all 0.82
00:12:23.080 right so we got to move through that first now we figured out how to get past that and we figured
00:12:27.540 out that we're going to win all right now ask yourself what kind of winner do you want to be
00:12:31.940 you want to be the kind of winner who gets a little bit of success who gets a six-figure job who gets a
00:12:38.060 decent house who has a decent car and seems to have their shit together amongst their little peer group
00:12:42.560 but then one big knock or one big unexpected event or one big thing that you know quote unquote gets
00:12:49.140 them takes them back to where they were before or do you want to be the guy who gets to that point
00:12:55.380 and then becomes unstoppable because they've gotten hungrier they've gotten more discipline they've gotten
00:13:02.160 more dedicated to the mission of being successful because they realize that it's not about
00:13:08.040 greed it's actually about inspiration and this is the key this is where most people cannot connect
00:13:15.720 the dots is that this success to our highest level success to our personal standard of what we can
00:13:24.060 possibly become is not something that you should strive for it's something that you should feel
00:13:30.280 obligated to achieve and I'm going to tell you why because all your little friends and your neighbors
00:13:36.740 and your cousins and your students and your kids and everybody who looks at you everybody who sees
00:13:43.540 you everybody who sees what it is you're doing in life is going to take something from you what are
00:13:49.060 they going to take are they going to take oh fuck I'm going to be like everybody else or are they going 0.97
00:13:55.140 to take dude that guy did it I can do it too that girl did it I can do it too because I don't think
00:14:01.560 there's anything more noble in life than showing the people around us that we don't have fucking
00:14:06.860 limits I don't think there's anything more noble in life than showing the people around us how to win
00:14:12.780 I don't think there's anything more noble in life than being the example for what it looks like to
00:14:18.880 fulfill your own true potential it's just really fucking hard okay so when you're sitting out there and 0.74
00:14:27.140 you're thinking about where you are and do you really have what it takes and you're wondering if
00:14:31.620 you'll ever be successful ask yourself these questions where do you fall in this path are you
00:14:36.940 still in the success zombie phase or are you taking the lessons and you acting are you winning a little
00:14:42.680 bit is your winning making you more comfortable or is it making you lazier is it making you hungrier is
00:14:49.560 it making you better is it making you want more is it making you more disciplined or less is it making
00:14:54.860 you more aggressive or less is it making you nicer or not as nice how's it affecting your life
00:15:01.680 see we spend a lot of time wondering where we are in the big picture we spend a lot of time
00:15:06.660 wondering where we are amongst everybody else but the truth is it doesn't really fucking matter 0.85
00:15:12.200 what matters is is what you do day in day out what you put in your ears and what you apply
00:15:18.200 into action the rest of this shit takes care of itself so when you look around at all these people
00:15:24.400 who are posting success memes and talking about all the shit they're going to do and all these
00:15:30.480 things they're going to achieve and they don't seem to ever change they don't seem to work you see them
00:15:33.940 you know the next day they're getting fucking shit faced out with their friends just realize 0.73
00:15:37.820 that ain't the people you want to be okay those people never win the people who win are the people
00:15:44.840 who show up every single day they take these lessons that are that are we should be so grateful for
00:15:50.900 that they're available for free and they put them into actual work all right and they don't let
00:15:57.260 a new car or a new house or a new experience or the ability to go to a restaurant not worry about
00:16:03.620 paying the bill they don't let these things get in the way of what success really is which is
00:16:09.740 the pursuit of your own true potential we all have different potentials some people's maximum
00:16:17.060 potentials to be a janitor that's amazing just be the best fucking janitor you can be all right but 0.93
00:16:23.360 how many of you are truly in pursuit of your own true potential or are you just trying to show up
00:16:32.500 your fucking friends from high school because the answer to that question will dictate where you're 0.92
00:16:39.880 going to end up on the spectrum so something to think about guys don't be a success zombie
00:16:45.600 and don't be the guy who gets a little taste and then loses it and gets embarrassed in front of all
00:16:50.700 his friends because he thinks he's a big baller for a fucking year okay lasting success there's levels 0.89
00:16:56.620 to this shit all right there's people who will win there's people who will win temporary there's 0.81
00:17:02.200 people who will always win you want to figure out how to be the person who's going to always win
00:17:06.140 and the way to do that is by understanding that you haven't done shit yet and here's the thing 0.52
00:17:12.060 you can keep searching and keep searching and keep searching and you can look for every fucking life 0.97
00:17:17.100 hack that you that you think is out there but i'm going to tell you right now as someone who's been
00:17:21.360 doing this business thing for my whole fucking adult life there is no fucking hack the hack is one foot 0.96
00:17:27.660 in front of another take the good information that you get put it into play day after day after day
00:17:33.520 after motherfucking day and it doesn't matter if you're tired it doesn't matter if you're hurt it 0.89
00:17:38.000 doesn't matter if you're sick it doesn't matter if you don't feel like it in fact the days you don't
00:17:42.400 feel like it will be the days that you should execute even further so that you can learn to be resilient
00:17:47.540 and have fortitude and have grit because those are the qualities that ultimately determine success and
00:17:53.380 guys here's the thing i don't give a fuck if you want to be a multi-billionaire or if you're happy 0.89
00:17:59.640 being an average joe but just understand if you pick average joe average is just as close to the
00:18:05.820 bottom as it is at the top and you're the one that has to live with
00:18:08.780 told my teacher don't bitch i'm gonna get millions watch this in the project living 1.00
00:18:13.380 spoke it till existence
00:18:14.920 i'm from where you can't trust so welcome