REAL AF with Andy Frisella - 922. Andy, Tim Grover & DJ CTI： DC Residents Heckle Authorities At Checkpoint, Losing Brain Cells & Three WNBA Players Ejected After Sun-Sky Scrap

00:00:00.000 What is up guys, it's Andy Priscilla and this is the show for the realists to say goodbye

00:00:20.780 to the lies, the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to motherfucking

00:00:24.280 reality. Guys, today we have Andy and DJ Cruz, the motherfucking internet. That's what we're

00:00:31.600 going to do. And then we got a, we got a plus one too. Mr. Tim Grover. What's up, man?

00:00:40.220 Everything is excellent. I'm at one of my favorite places. We're one of my favorite human beings.

00:00:44.380 That's mutual. Yeah, that's mutual. You guys don't know, Tim is one of the greatest performance

00:00:51.260 coaches ever, both mental and physical. He has coached a number of the legendary athletes

00:00:59.460 that you guys know of. Kobe Bryant, Michael Jordan. If you've seen the last dance, you've

00:01:04.040 seen Tim. He's in there. Dwayne Wade. I mean, all kinds of guys. I think we've done some

00:01:10.400 stuff with, with our buddy Bryce up there in Philadelphia. Yeah, we've done, we've added

00:01:14.340 a couple, you know, we've added Max Crosby from the Las Vegas Raiders. Paul. Yes. Dogs.

00:01:21.260 Yes. Paul Skeens from the Pittsburgh Pirates. Also stuck. Yes. Best of the best. No, that's,

00:01:28.140 that's who goes to Tim. The best of the best. And I just so happen to be a very fortunate

00:01:35.800 man to get to call Tim and have a good friendship with him. And he helps me out as well. So

00:01:41.940 we help each other out. Yeah, that's what, that's what it's about. There's no, what's awesome

00:01:46.440 about our relationship and the relationship with first form and all the clients. It's

00:01:53.220 never a one way street. It's never, it's never a one way street. That might be a lie. He

00:01:58.140 might be lying a little bit. No, no, not, not, not, not, not at all. You know, I can call

00:02:02.020 you for anything. You know, you can call me for anything. It's like, I've always said,

00:02:05.860 you know, if I needed a car and say, Andy, he'd send me anything. Yeah. Whatever, whatever

00:02:13.040 I want. I just say, pick, pick one. And literally it would be at my door the next day. No questions

00:02:17.080 asked. That's a fact. Yeah. But DJ wouldn't be driving it there.

00:02:20.780 It wouldn't make it. I just said DJ was coming. Yeah. So what's been going on, man?

00:02:26.780 Everything is excellent, man. Everything is excellent. Taking care of my health, getting

00:02:31.700 into some new ventures. And, you know, I wanted to really expand this relationship that we

00:02:37.400 have. We, you cannot really find too many. Everyone talks about being like-minded and there's

00:02:45.900 very few individuals that are actually like-minded. You know, what I think about us is our minds

00:02:56.020 that are like beautifully haunted. Yeah. Well, they're like- That's a nice way of saying

00:03:00.860 it. There's a nice, yeah. You know, they're beautifully haunted, but we've gone through

00:03:07.680 some stuff. Yeah. We've gone through some stuff, you know, and I tell everybody, everybody talks

00:03:16.920 about their dreams, all the other stuff. It's just like, how you get to this point is how

00:03:25.600 you deal with your nightmares. And both you and I have dealt with some, we dealt with some

00:03:31.280 nightmares. Yeah, man. And continue to deal with them. Yeah. You know, everybody, before

00:03:36.320 you can daydream, before you can daydream, you got to deal with what, the nightmares that

00:03:41.460 visit you at night. Yep. Yep. Dude, I was thinking about this. You know, when I first met Tim,

00:03:51.620 you guys don't know the backstory, we got a lot of new listeners. I don't think I know

00:03:56.600 how you guys met. Yeah. So, so dude, I, when my business, well, when our business, around

00:04:05.380 2012, 13, 14, we started doing very well and it became like overwhelming to go from how hard

00:04:18.580 we were struggling to how well we were doing. And that sounds like a great thing, except

00:04:23.980 when you don't know what the fuck you're doing, it's super hard. And, um, I was having a really

00:04:31.960 hard time relating to people, man. Like my whole life, I've been so competitive and wanted

00:04:38.200 to win so bad. And I just, and I still feel this way. Yeah. Not wanting to still does. Yeah. It

00:04:46.700 doesn't go away. No, it's in your fucking blood. It doesn't go. And if you don't believe me, if you

00:04:51.900 ever get a chance to come to headquarters, just ask for pops. Yeah. I mean, everything here is a

00:04:58.560 competition. And it's like, when I was going through that time, I didn't have anybody to

00:05:09.020 fucking talk to bro. Like I didn't have anybody that really understood how hungry and how bad

00:05:16.660 and how desperate I was to win. And when you talk to people and you're built like that, you

00:05:26.060 feel fucking crazy, dude. And then what happens is, is over the course of time, when you've

00:05:31.420 spent years and years and years and years like that, you start to feel like you're the one

00:05:36.380 that's totally fucked and everybody else is normal because just like a lot of people I

00:05:42.560 said on today's real talk, most people never really meet someone who is actually a top level

00:05:50.200 performer or anything. They go their whole life and they never, ever, ever actually meet that

00:05:55.380 person. And when you're, when you're wired that way, you feel the same way, but the other

00:06:01.920 way you go your whole life and you don't meet anybody that thinks like you, that doesn't

00:06:07.720 think you're crazy. That doesn't think you're fucked up. That doesn't think you're too intense

00:06:12.180 and dude, it's a super lonely thing. Super lonely. And I picked up this book. Uh, cause you

00:06:21.280 guys know I'm a big reader. I picked up this book called relentless. I hadn't, I did not

00:06:25.020 know Tim. I'd never met him. I didn't know much about him. I knew, I knew you coached

00:06:30.760 Michael Jordan. That's what I knew. And I picked up the book. I read the book and it changed my

00:06:36.500 fucking life, dude. I mean, the way the book categorizes achievement and achievers and their

00:06:44.080 mentalities into basically, you know, four different categories. I mean, there's three, but the

00:06:49.320 fourth one is you're fucking irrelevant. Right. Uh, but you know, I read all this and I was like,

00:06:56.220 Oh, this makes sense. Got it. The guys, the guys who were doing shit are doing shit because they

00:07:03.920 have this different quality about them and this different way of living. And that kind of gave me

00:07:11.660 permission to like be me. And it was super fucking important in my life. And I've, I said this the

00:07:17.580 first time I had Tim on, I always say this, dude, I was going through such a dark time at that time

00:07:22.960 because dude, when you feel like you're all alone, like that, you start to think like, what the fuck

00:07:27.340 is the point of this? Like I'm, I'm all alone. I'm, I'm fucking crazy. Nobody sees what I'm going

00:07:33.160 through. Nobody gets it. Everybody tells me I'm too intense or insane or all these things. And none

00:07:39.740 of them are good. And when you start to like realize, Oh, you're not the only one that makes

00:07:46.480 you feel better. But when you do feel like you're the only one, you're like, what the fuck is the

00:07:49.820 point of this? Like, what, what am I doing? And, um, you know, real talk, that book, that book,

00:07:56.660 I say it and I tell everybody this, I mean, that book saved my life. I wouldn't sell that book

00:08:00.600 for a hundred fucking million dollars that their original book that I might sell for a hundred.

00:08:07.020 I wouldn't sell. I'd get you another one. Trust me. And I will bend all the pages. I'll sweat on

00:08:13.360 them. Do whatever you need to do. We'll split it. All right. But like, dude, it's, it's just such a,

00:08:19.500 it was such an important realization in my life. And then fast forward a year or two later,

00:08:27.400 um, we both were speaking at the original 10 X. Yes. Standing next to each other. Literally.

00:08:35.400 So I'm looking at, I'm like, Oh, this is what happened. So when I'm posting the book or when

00:08:40.860 I read the book, I posted it and, and he started getting all these tags and shit and the book started

00:08:46.400 moving. And, uh, and then, you know, a couple of years later we went to, we both got, uh, hired to

00:08:55.220 speak at 10 X and he's standing like one row in front of me. And I'm like, Holy fuck. There's

00:09:01.840 fucking Tim Grover. And he looks back at me. He's like, Andy, cause he recognized me from social.

00:09:07.200 Yeah. And then dude, that's always a weird thing too. Like when you meet those people in person,

00:09:11.120 it wasn't weird. We met, it was like, we knew each other a whole lot. Yes. Instantly. Yeah.

00:09:15.280 Really? It was fucking cool, man. And we've been friends since that was probably 2014 or 15.

00:09:20.380 Yeah. Yeah. And the thing that you say, the reason the like-minded individuals attract like-minded

00:09:29.560 individuals, you know, it's funny people that never pay the price are the ones that scream the

00:09:35.880 loudest. Yeah. And the ones that pay the price are the ones that live in silence. Yeah. Yeah,

00:09:42.160 man. Because when you scream, nobody hears you. No, no, literally nobody's around to hear you

00:09:51.300 because they're not, they're not, they don't, they don't understand. I got this thing that I talk

00:09:56.300 about and everything that you've gone through, everything that you're going through at the

00:10:01.600 highest level, people don't understand when you go from everything you've worked towards

00:10:09.220 and all of a sudden it just happens. And there's a whole level that winning brings that people just

00:10:17.920 don't understand because they've never been at that. They've never been at that level.

00:10:22.440 All they see. All the ancillary things that come in your life. Yes. All they just see the balloons,

00:10:27.960 the confetti, the money, the car. They have, they have literally no idea. And I literally call it

00:10:34.840 the trauma of winning. Yeah. Well, it's real shit. I can tell you that your life changes.

00:10:41.880 Yes. I mean, the way people see you changes, the way people treat you changes. And usually

00:10:45.820 in meaningful way, it's not that great. You go from, you go from being a, you go from being a human

00:10:54.620 being to being a solution of problems. Yeah. To being a resource. Literally, everybody's pulling at

00:11:00.860 you. They're literally pulling at you. You become a resource for everything. Need money,

00:11:05.740 need product, need this, need that. Can you help me with this? Can you help me with that? You

00:11:09.260 literally become the resource. And then you're still trying to find some peace among yourself

00:11:14.400 while everybody else is taking pieces and your peace from you. Yeah. Dude, I still would,

00:11:22.360 I would still rather be this way than be broke and irrelevant. I mean, you're trading boring shit.

00:11:34.760 No pressure. Yeah. No relevancy. Fuck dude. That's the truth. No pressure, no relevancy. That's

00:11:40.680 it. Everybody, you go through all these, you go through all these pressure situations of building

00:11:45.820 a life, building a business, business, everything you want to become relevant. You don't want to,

00:11:50.920 you don't want to be relevant. And there's a lot of people that choose not to be, not to be

00:11:56.040 relevant. There's no, there's no pressure, there's no pressure in anybody's life, critiquing and

00:12:01.860 criticizing everybody, everybody else. You know, what's interesting as you say that I'm sitting

00:12:06.740 here thinking about like that, whether you choose whichever path you choose, because it is a choice.

00:12:14.500 Whatever you end up getting like for me, like for, okay, for someone who's never like acted on their

00:12:25.740 ambitions or dreams, right? That first day, that second day, that third day fucking kills them,

00:12:31.880 dude. It's totally out of like their, their routine, right? They're used to like just cruising,

00:12:36.500 no pressure, no big deal. But then you take someone who's acclimated to the pressure and you try to make

00:12:42.200 them sit on the fucking couch for a day. And it's equally as difficult. People just don't believe

00:12:46.400 that. And it's crazy to think about like, I've been thinking, you know, I knew you were coming

00:12:52.540 on. I was kind of been thinking about different aspects of winning that nobody really talks about.

00:12:57.860 And one of the things that nobody ever fucking talks about is, you know, that saying like, it's,

00:13:06.960 it's one thing to get to the top. It's another thing to stay there. Right? Like I started thinking

00:13:12.920 about that and, and I always thought, yeah, but you know, it's probably just, that's probably something

00:13:20.740 people say when they want a lot. And I started like breaking it down and what it really means,

00:13:26.260 dude. And like what, what we really have to understand is that when you win, because we are

00:13:35.260 all in a competition, whether it's business, whether it's personal, whether it's at your job,

00:13:39.580 whether it's with yourself, but at the end of the day, the bar we set by winning is always going to be

00:13:47.460 pursued by other people. Okay. Let's take business. For example, we win, we do good. Our company wins.

00:13:54.980 We become the best in the industry. Now we've set a new bar and that bar becomes the mark that

00:14:01.420 everybody else is trying to surpass. All right. But here's the thing. Most companies will look

00:14:08.180 around and they will say, Oh, well, we're, we're, we're fucking this company. We deserve to win. No,

00:14:13.220 you don't. And you don't deserve it. You don't deserve anything. Okay. Because what happens is

00:14:18.180 these companies come in and they win, you know, let's say 20% more than that bar that you already

00:14:24.700 set, which means that you have to exceed their target when they're trying to beat you. So like

00:14:32.220 if they're coming in at 20%, you got to come in at 22%. And that 22% is 22% above the best fucking

00:14:41.680 effort you could have ever given in your entire life where you bled, you sweat, you cried, you

00:14:47.140 stressed, you fucking went crazy. And now you got to do more, bro. And that's a game. Nobody talks

00:14:54.100 about. They don't understand that. Like that's why so many people cannot, they only have so much.

00:15:00.700 Now there is people who perpetually win their whole lives, but they're so fucking rare because dude,

00:15:06.060 it's exhausting. It is. It's fucking exhaust. Even if you're wired for it, even if you're built

00:15:12.120 for it, it's, it's fucking exhausting, dude. Like you imagine setting the bar and then every

00:15:19.480 year having to figure out how to fucking do better than that when that was your best. And

00:15:24.980 then you're only a year down the road. It's not like you're 10 years down the road. There's

00:15:28.840 a big difference between me now and me 10 years ago or me even four years ago, but me last

00:15:34.780 year, that's a little difference. And you're expected to produce a big result and it's fucking

00:15:39.380 hard, dude. And that's something people don't understand because to be financially successful

00:15:44.420 in life and to win, you have to win for a long time. One year is not going to cut it. No.

00:15:49.560 So it has to become who the fuck you are. And a problem that I see, and I would like to hear your,

00:15:55.240 your take on this. The problem I see in society is like society has become so mediocre and so soft

00:16:01.720 and so fucking weak that they take people who were built to win and create and become and set

00:16:08.440 the bar for society. And they make them think there's something fucking wrong with them. They

00:16:12.860 tell them they're crazy. They tell them they work too hard. They tell them they're out of balance.

00:16:16.960 Well, guess what? Motherfuckers. These are the people that create the world for you to live

00:16:21.480 in. You know what I'm saying? So why not just let them fucking do their thing instead of criticizing

00:16:26.540 them and say, thank you for making the world a better place for me to live in. Like these things

00:16:32.280 nobody ever thinks about, bro. You know what I'm saying? And dude, when we think about like,

00:16:37.560 like the cost to do that and live that way, it's, it's fucking substantial. It's a real thing.

00:16:47.980 And it's interesting how everybody around thinks that they're going to live this big life,

00:16:54.760 this crazy life. You know, we got all these knuckleheads out here telling everybody they're

00:16:58.480 going to be rich in a week and, and people just aren't prepared for the fucking journey,

00:17:03.500 bro. They're not built for it. And I try to tell people that and they're like, you're discouraging

00:17:07.720 me. If that discourages you, bro, you don't have what it takes. You got it. That's it. Because if you

00:17:13.320 really had what it takes, nothing would discourage you. Right. I'm just trying to prepare people

00:17:17.860 who aren't built for it to not waste their life in something that they're not like, bro, I'm not

00:17:22.780 playing in the NBA. Like I would appreciate it. If Tim, if I went out and fucking tried to be in

00:17:27.960 the NBA, if Tim pulled me aside and say, come here, the same for you, Andy, my boy, you know,

00:17:33.380 how many, how many of my clients that had came through my facility when I was heavily involved

00:17:39.040 in training, I would pull them aside and say, listen, you're not good enough. And, and, and they

00:17:45.680 would not, they would not believe me. I said, listen, I'm telling you the truth. You are not good

00:17:50.600 enough. I said, you can make some money overseas. You can make some money in the developmental

00:17:53.800 league, but I said, you are not. And then somebody else would pull that individual and

00:17:58.440 say, Oh, Grover doesn't know what the fuck he's talking about. And they would take them.

00:18:01.760 They'd go work out somewhere else. They go train somewhere, somewhere else. 10 years later,

00:18:05.780 I'd run into them and they'll become up to me and says, you're the only person that told

00:18:09.720 me the truth. Yeah. You're the only person that told me the truth. You know, it's going

00:18:18.720 to bring back to what you said, making it to the top is not the same as making it at the

00:18:28.420 top. Yeah. Fuck dude. All right. You've seen how many businesses, how many, how many athletes,

00:18:35.880 how many individuals they get to the top. All right. And now what you just said, the improvement

00:18:43.960 from there is so difficult. Look at, look at your company. Everybody taught, man, you guys

00:18:52.880 got that. You got the bet. You got the best products. You got the best products. You said,

00:18:55.820 no, we're going to make it. We're going to make them even, we're going to make them even

00:18:57.960 better. Well, how do you improve on the best? How do you improve on the best? Everybody, when

00:19:02.760 you guys got into the energy space, what are you doing, man? You guys are crazy. No, you know,

00:19:07.340 this is out of your wheelhouse. You need to, you need to stay with us. And you know what your answer is?

00:19:12.580 Watch me. Yeah. Well, we'll figure it the fuck out. Yeah. Well, watch because that's what people

00:19:19.220 do. That's what winners do. They figure things out. What people, what society wants now, they want

00:19:26.340 an easy job. They want lots of free time and they want to make lots of money. Yeah. That puzzle

00:19:33.700 doesn't fit. No, it doesn't. It, it, it just, it, none of those pieces fit. None of those pieces fit

00:19:39.440 together. They just don't. Dude, I was sitting, um, I was sitting with my buddy, uh, Zoltan. Uh,

00:19:47.480 you, you might be familiar with them. He plays guitar for five finger death punch. Yes. Uh,

00:19:52.380 he, we were sitting in my house one night and I was going through, uh, you know, a challenging time.

00:19:57.220 And we were just talking and we were talking a little bit about this. Cause like, dude,

00:19:59.920 even after you like realize that you're built for it, you start, sometimes you're around enough

00:20:06.460 people. You're like, fuck, this is, I am crazy. You know, you start believing that there's something

00:20:11.420 wrong with you again. And I was going through one of those phases and he's like, bro, did you ever

00:20:16.600 consider the fact that like, we need people in the world to fucking that love the fucking war?

00:20:22.620 Like we need people like you, like, there's nothing wrong with you, dude. And I'm like,

00:20:27.160 you were sitting there. Yeah, I was there. I was like, I was there.

00:20:31.740 Fuck. That's, that's accurate. Like, what am I doing? Trying to fucking calm my shit. You're

00:20:36.660 trying to fight who you're supposed to be, dude. That's what I'm saying. And that struggle that

00:20:40.200 that struggle is very common with ambitious people. We have two kinds of people. We have at least

00:20:46.500 people, and you hear this all the time. We got these people that haven't done shit. They're not

00:20:52.040 wired to do shit. They think there's somebody that they aren't. These are all the guys who read

00:20:56.580 your book and say, well, I'm a fucking cleaner. Yeah. Right. And what do we say? Yeah. A cleaner

00:21:02.360 never calls himself a cleaner. Because dude, that's the nature of success. Like we, you know,

00:21:08.260 oh, how do you feel now that you've made it? The fuck you talking about, bro? Made what? Yes. That's

00:21:13.620 what I'm talking about. Like the brownies, I made brownies. They were good. You know, like I just,

00:21:19.740 we just don't think that way. And, you know, I think there's a very big problem with the world.

00:21:26.580 I think a lot, because we, you know, obviously have a lot of people who are high achievers on the,

00:21:30.560 that listen to the show or want to be. And one of the biggest problems, man, is that like,

00:21:35.900 we're constantly inundated with this weak fucking victim bullshit. You know, you, you, you gotta,

00:21:42.900 you gotta balance your day out or you have to do this or you gotta do this. And, you know,

00:21:47.260 you gotta have peace and motherfucker. I got fucking darkness and war and destruction in my

00:21:54.980 fucking heart. And if this were the 1400s, I'd be riding around on a horse, cut motherfuckers heads

00:22:01.840 off. Okay. But instead, lucky for society, I can do business. You know what I'm saying? Like,

00:22:07.380 so we have to understand there are people that are built for this. And if you're one of these people

00:22:12.680 that's built for this, when you consume all this fucking bullshit on the internet,

00:22:18.880 it starts to fuck you up. And you have to realize that that is written for everybody else. That is

00:22:24.100 not written for the people that changed the motherfucking world. That is written for your

00:22:28.240 average dude who is stressed because fucking he didn't cut the grass yet this week or whatever.

00:22:36.800 Right. Like it's, it's not for you. And I think that's a big deal that like a lot of you guys who

00:22:42.760 have ambitions and goals and dreams, you have to realize that shit will fuck you up. You need to

00:22:50.280 stay the fuck away from it. Everybody that have every client that I've ever worked with from a business

00:22:57.360 standpoint, from an athletic standpoint, when you talk about cutting the grass and I see this is how,

00:23:06.060 why we relate so well. Winners have this thing. They need to finish. They need to finish everything

00:23:17.200 that they started at the highest, highest level. There's a thing I must finish. I must finish.

00:23:27.120 I must finish this. And somebody says, man, you can do, you can do, you can do this tomorrow.

00:23:31.340 You can, we don't see tomorrow. We, we, we don't, we don't, we don't see tomorrow. All right. We see

00:23:39.520 the moment now. We see the moment now and we know we have to finish and finish at the highest level

00:23:45.620 because if we're fortunate enough to have tomorrow, there's more things that need to be finished.

00:23:52.260 There are more things that need to be finished. And that's why when people tell you, you need to

00:23:59.340 unwind, you need to relax. We are the most uncomfortable when we are unwound. It's just

00:24:09.200 like, it's, it's not, it's not, it's not, it's not a good, it's not a good, it's not a good feeling.

00:24:13.660 It is not a good feeling. We relax in ways that are special to us. We release for a moment in ways

00:24:26.960 that are unique to us that the other society people just don't understand.

00:24:33.160 They don't understand. And a lot of times they don't approve either.

00:24:35.300 Yeah. Well, we're not looking at, we're not looking for that. We're not looking for the approval

00:24:39.360 because here's the thing. If we're looking for their approval, we're them. Yeah. I know shit.

00:24:44.820 We're, we're, we're, we're them. All right. And what it is, is when you talk about all the

00:24:51.880 information that everybody's inundated out there with, when I look at those things,

00:24:58.400 that's entertainment for us. Yeah. It's literally, it's literally, it's literally, it's literally

00:25:04.880 entertainment and you're just like, well, we just let anytime there's a negative post

00:25:09.880 and I've never reacted to one. I just laugh. I just, I just, I just laugh because here's

00:25:16.200 the thing. If you get emotional about something that's said about you or you say about something

00:25:26.300 or something that you post on your podcast, on your different platforms and people say,

00:25:31.020 you're fucking crazy or this, you're right. You just struck a nerve. Yeah. You just,

00:25:36.700 you just, you just, you just, you just struck. And what happens when you strike a nerve? The

00:25:40.820 first thing is for them to put up their, their defense shield because now what happens is

00:25:44.860 they're so busy trying to expose you. They just got exposed. They just got, the mirror does

00:25:51.980 not lie. The mirror, there's a reason from your, in your 75 and your 75 hard, you say every

00:25:59.480 single day, every single workout, take a picture of yourself because that mirror does

00:26:06.340 not lie. You lie, but that mirror is not lying. Nope. Never does. And how many times going

00:26:15.960 back on that, you know, and I know that you've had millions of people do that program. How

00:26:21.600 many fucking times have you started over? Quite a few. I've had a hard time this year

00:26:26.020 to be honest. Yeah. And I've been doing it for, well, look, it's called 75 fucking hard.

00:26:30.760 It's not, you don't get used to it because you have to push yourself to do it. If you're

00:26:36.300 doing it right, if you're doing it right, you are pushing yourself to do it. And it's

00:26:42.540 not just easy, no matter who you are. But yeah, bro, lots of times.

00:26:46.860 And you don't get used to winning. No. Because there's always more. There's always more. There's

00:26:51.380 all, there's all, there's always more. You're like, yeah, you won that. That's great. That's

00:26:57.120 great. But what's, what's next? What, what, what if this always has to be a next, you know,

00:27:04.820 we talk about, you know, I use this analogy a lot. Okay. Hell is definitely a place. It's

00:27:14.800 a place. Okay. But hell is a place where you either stay or you start. We've all started

00:27:25.540 in hell. The winners decide not to stay. Most people love to stay. And everybody thinks hell

00:27:33.860 is this like this crazy place. And hell is one of the most comfortable environments out

00:27:38.400 there because that's where all your excuses live. Oh man. That's where all the same people

00:27:41.880 that, you know, you tell them that, Oh, everything's going to be great. Oh, you don't have to worry

00:27:45.700 about, you don't have to, you don't have to work. You don't have to worry about this. They

00:27:48.860 point fingers at everybody, everybody else. It's everybody says, come on, come on, come on

00:27:52.840 over here. This is where it's comfortable. This is where, where, you know, we are, we under,

00:27:56.780 we understand, we understand you. You shouldn't have to work so hard. You don't, you don't

00:28:00.460 have to be successful. You don't have to want, you don't have to want it all. And they're

00:28:03.260 about, yeah, you know what? That's great. And it's constantly trying to pull you back.

00:28:06.740 It's constantly trying to pull you back. But what we do is, and every CEO, because

00:28:13.840 every company that's running a business and I, you know, that's public out there, they

00:28:21.180 got investors. They got, they got people that have bought stock into it. They bought the

00:28:25.680 company and they're like, okay, yeah, we finished off this physical year and the stock price is

00:28:30.260 X. Great. We can't be here the same place next year. So what do those individuals do?

00:28:37.400 They're like, oh man, we made it. We made it. We made it. We made it. We made it. As

00:28:41.040 soon as they hit, as soon as that year books close, what do they do? They take that trip

00:28:47.340 back to hell. But they don't stay there. They don't stay there. But most people that run

00:28:57.460 businesses into the ground or get to a certain level or athletes, whatever, whatever it may

00:29:04.980 be, individuals or so forth, when they make that trip back to hell again and people say,

00:29:11.800 hey man, you don't have to do that again. You don't have to be, you don't have to work

00:29:15.400 that hard. Don't worry about those people. Just relax, unwind, come on, enjoy yourself

00:29:21.040 and so forth. And there's more people, it's that tug of war. There's more of those people

00:29:26.140 tugging at you. And then you look at yourself and you're like, no, I can't, I can't stay.

00:29:32.120 I can't stay here. I need to, this is a place where I'm going to start, but I'm not going

00:29:38.620 to stay here. But then you look at your hands and you know, you look at how bloody they are.

00:29:43.020 They got the calluses. They got the, they got the, they got the blisters. You look at yourself,

00:29:47.220 you look at yourself in, in the, in the face, you look yourself in the face and you're like,

00:29:52.420 man, people's like, I'm worn out. I'm, I'm tired. But you, everybody looks at those things

00:29:58.620 as being ugly. And you look at those things as being fucking beautiful. You're like, you look

00:30:04.900 at them and being, there is nothing, there is nothing more powerful than an individual

00:30:12.980 that can heal their own wounds. So when they see those wounds on themselves, they know they

00:30:20.320 earned them. And they said, the only way I can heal these things again is I got to win

00:30:26.600 again. I have to win again. And the winning is just not for me. When you win, all the people

00:30:39.460 that listen to you on a regular basis that like say, Hey, this is, this is, this is the

00:30:45.440 person I want to listen to. This is the person I want to follow because he's giving me the

00:30:49.100 information straight. Not only, not only does he talk the talk, but guess what? He's got

00:30:58.640 how many square footage of results and how many products of proof there's, there's, there's,

00:31:07.260 there's validation in that. So it's not only for us, it's for those, it's for those, it's

00:31:13.000 for those individuals. We want to touch as many individuals. We want to show them it's,

00:31:17.740 we want to show them it's possible. It's, it's real, but there's a huge price that comes

00:31:26.800 with it. And that price continues to go up. And at some point people just don't want to

00:31:33.780 pay that price anymore, man. It's facts, dude. One question before we get into the show show

00:31:42.900 from your experience of dealing with the best performers on the planet ever,

00:31:51.960 is it hate to lose or is it love to win?

00:31:57.120 It's neither.

00:31:58.360 What do you think it is?

00:31:59.860 It's, it's, it's, it's neither. You know what they, they, they hate to lose and they love to

00:32:05.900 win it, but it's a combination of both. See what happens is when you think of hate to lose,

00:32:10.660 you know, whether they hate to lose or they love to win, you get, you're letting your emotions

00:32:14.920 get in the way. You're letting your emotions get in the way. You're letting your emotions,

00:32:19.100 man, I hate to fight, I fucking lose. All right. Or when, or when you win, you're like, yes,

00:32:24.520 I win. Most individuals being able to have control over that emotion, being able to have control

00:32:32.760 of your thoughts, being able to have control of your actions, being able to have control of

00:32:36.600 your emotions is what true winners are, what true winners are about. People want to celebrate

00:32:41.860 too early. They want to celebrate, they want to celebrate too soon. When you win, when you,

00:32:48.380 when you win at the highest, when you win at the highest level, that's when you want to celebrate.

00:32:53.200 I was watching, um, I think it was Wimbledon. I was watching, I was watching Wimbledon and there

00:33:01.480 was a match, there was a match, there was a match going on and the person had won, the person had

00:33:06.740 won the match. And I just watched the, I watched everybody's reaction after the match, after the

00:33:13.400 match. And I just said, I said, the next match that person plays, they're going to lose.

00:33:19.320 Hmm. They, they, they, they're going to, they're going to lose because literally winning that match

00:33:25.980 was their celebration. That was their, that was their confet, that was that confetti. That was

00:33:32.420 that confetti morning. That's where all their energy went. That's where all their emotions went.

00:33:36.200 That's where all their thought, that's when all their, their thoughts went not realizing I'm not

00:33:41.580 finished. I, I, I, I'm, I, I'm not finished. All right. So when people talk about, man, whether

00:33:49.840 it's, you know, hate to lose, hate to lose, or, you know, I, I, I, I love to win. That means

00:33:54.960 you're letting an emotional component get, get in. And the only emotional component, the only

00:34:00.960 thing that should ever affect your emotion is when you do win. Derek Jeter had this unbelievable

00:34:09.600 thing. Um, I, I saw a post that come in and he, they asked him, what was, um, they asked

00:34:16.820 him, what was his toughest years? And he mentioned every single year he didn't win the world series.

00:34:26.840 He goes, those are my, those are my, those are my, those are my toughest years. Not he didn't

00:34:32.140 pick a moment. He didn't pick this. He didn't pick the, he goes, he goes, I play to win.

00:34:37.220 He goes, I play to win. And when you play to win, you have control over your behavior. You

00:34:47.280 have control over your thoughts. You have control over your emotions. You have control

00:34:50.260 over your, over your actions. People celebrate too, too soon. Celebrate hard, but don't celebrate

00:34:58.760 long, but you have to, with that celebration doesn't every people want to celebrate. If

00:35:05.160 you win, let's take, let's go back to tennis. You have to win multiple matches in order to

00:35:11.760 be considered the winner. You got individuals celebrating every single round one. Yeah.

00:35:17.580 Yeah. There's a big difference between enjoying the moment and a celebration. Enjoy those wins,

00:35:26.800 but save the celebration for the end. Save the celebration for the end.

00:35:33.300 But there's also like, there's almost like a, cause I see like playing football, coaching

00:35:37.600 football. You see people win. I remember one time there was a game, like our kids won and

00:35:42.920 they're like doing front flips and stuff and cartwheels. It's like what, you know, the head

00:35:47.060 coach, he's like, what do you guys, you guys are acting like you're surprised. Like this was

00:35:50.660 expected. Like there's an expectation. Like what is, what is this? Like y'all act like y'all

00:35:54.660 surprised that y'all won? Like, no, like there, there was a game plan here. There

00:35:58.740 was practices that we showed up to though. You know what I'm saying? Like it was all

00:36:01.160 these pieces that went into this. What do you, what are y'all acting like y'all

00:36:03.900 surprised that we won? I think that's a huge deal. You know what I'm saying?

00:36:06.980 Yeah. I, I think I know for me, I could win the world's biggest event today and not

00:36:14.940 really even give a fuck. I mean, I'd be glad I won, but you're not going to see me

00:36:19.740 run around like a fucking weirdo. Like it'd be some fist bumps. I expect to win. I expect

00:36:27.020 it. That's my standard. I expect to win. You're not in this to lose. No, but like

00:36:32.580 it's an expectation. Yeah. It's not fucking having confidence. No, no, no, no, no. It's

00:36:38.120 an expectation. It's not confidence. It's not, it's, it's fucking, that is the minimal

00:36:44.860 acceptable standard to me, period. That's it. And when it comes to losing, I feel like

00:36:53.800 a hate to lose mentality is almost required because it sets the bar for what's acceptable.

00:37:05.540 You, you almost have to hate losing so much that you are not willing to accept anything

00:37:14.420 other than to win. I agree with you, Andy, but only if you're wired, only if you're wired

00:37:19.600 a certain way, only a wired a certain way, because a lot of individuals cannot handle

00:37:25.840 hate. They cannot handle hate. They just, they just, they just, they just can't. This goes

00:37:32.460 back to what you said about the sensitivity meter. All right. How can you hate to lose if

00:37:40.280 your sensitivity, sensitivity meter is extremely volatile? Everybody taught, you know, it's

00:37:46.560 a great thing to say. It's a great thing to say, man, I, I, I, I hate to lose, but when

00:37:50.980 you do lose, what do you do immediately next?

00:37:56.460 Well, you've got to be disciplined in the method.

00:37:58.180 Yeah. You know, I can hate to lose and still understand that me throwing some sort of fucking

00:38:04.060 tantrum doesn't help. Yeah. Right. Like, like I understand, I hate to lose. And that's the

00:38:09.420 emotion. And then it drives me back to work. That's the emotion part. I'm talking, that's

00:38:12.520 the emotion part I was talking about. When people hate, people say that they hate to lose

00:38:15.880 and they go out and they, they, they release all these emotions, they release all these emotions

00:38:19.880 instead of, you know what? Hey.

00:38:21.100 No, you should pour that into the reps.

00:38:23.100 Exactly. Exactly. I love it. No, I love it. It was great, man. Yeah. Dude, losing and

00:38:30.180 winning is like my favorite thing to talk about and yours too. Yeah. Because there's no, there's

00:38:35.860 no in between. Yeah. Listen, it's funny. There was a story, there was a story on that read

00:38:43.520 that of a general manager of a, of an NBA basketball team. He's really big into analytics and I don't

00:38:50.620 throw names out there. You know, I, that's not, that's not what I do. All right. He literally went

00:38:55.420 up, he was with another organization. He literally went up to the, the, the, the team had just lost

00:39:02.660 a game. Literally just lost a game in the playoffs. He went up to the owner of the team and he was a

00:39:09.660 big analytics guy and he showed the numbers. He said, well, if you look at the numbers, we actually

00:39:16.460 won. True story. True, true story. The score is the score. All right. It's funny. Everybody

00:39:27.000 wants, everybody wants the numbers, the numbers in your bank account are the numbers in your,

00:39:33.580 in your bank account. The numbers in your business are the numbers in your business. The only place

00:39:38.480 that people don't want to pay attention to the numbers is when it's the score or when you weigh

00:39:46.840 yourself. Yeah, dude, it's such a, that's such a huge, cause like data is such a huge part of

00:39:54.440 business and winning. It just is, but there's nothing fucking worse than someone who uses data

00:40:01.520 to justify lack of results. They say, yeah, but yeah, motherfucker, you see the fucking score?

00:40:09.960 That's the fucking number. It doesn't matter. All this shit. All right. Dude. Dangerous word,

00:40:15.600 but dangerous word, dude, it's the worst. It's like the moral victory, you know? Like, oh yeah,

00:40:22.640 you know, well, the data says we should have some first downs. Fuck. It's a season high first.

00:40:28.120 Hey, let me ask you something. Both of you guys, DJ, what the hell is the definition of a moral

00:40:34.200 victory? There isn't one. It's bullshit. It's the, it's, it's what losers tell themselves to feel

00:40:41.920 better about losing. Yeah. That's the truth. And it's become accepted in reality as some sort of like

00:40:49.820 consolation prize. There is no consolation prize. There is, and then there isn't. You either won or

00:40:56.980 you lost, you did it, or you didn't, you either are, or you aren't. And that's the reality of life.

00:41:02.160 And this fucking attitude that we've conditioned society to be like refuses to acknowledge the

00:41:11.520 truth because they tell themselves these bridge stories, right? Well, we almost made it, but we

00:41:17.620 didn't, but that doesn't fucking matter. You didn't make it. You lost like this misunderstanding.

00:41:23.960 I think costs people, it costs more people, their dreams than anything else. Like no one

00:41:31.800 gives a shit that you tried hard, bro. Like, I'm sorry. That sounds mean. I understand you're

00:41:39.440 sweating, you're working, you're trying. No one cares. No one fucking cares. They only care

00:41:44.840 about that shit. If you want, if you want people to care about the struggle you went through

00:41:49.200 win. That's it. Otherwise they don't give a fuck. That's real, man. That's real consolation

00:41:56.480 prize. That's the hammer right there. Yeah. Moral victory. Yeah. But you know, we tried

00:42:03.780 hard. Feel good about myself for trying hard. If fucking my aunt had fucking dick, she'd be

00:42:08.980 my uncle. You know what I'm saying? Like, I don't know what to tell you. It's the fucking

00:42:13.440 thing. Anyway. No, that's real, man. You look at it. We got on. How often do I get

00:42:19.760 out? DJ. Hey man, where's your weight at? What are you doing? He's not, he's not, he's

00:42:25.900 not responding. Yeah. All right. Tim, Tim hits me up personally, by the way, guys. Yeah,

00:42:30.400 personally, personally. I say, Hey man, what the, what the, what the hell is going on? I

00:42:34.900 know he's holding himself accountable, but here's the thing. Everybody who holds themselves

00:42:39.520 accountable has somebody else who's also holding themselves accountable. All right. I have

00:42:47.280 a direct line to Andrew. Andrew has a direct line, line to me. And I know if I'm fucking

00:42:54.800 up, I'm getting a text from him. I know. Am I just saying, here's the thing. No, it

00:43:02.200 won't be an explanation. You know what it's going to say? It's going to say, dude, that's

00:43:06.460 all I was going to say. Yeah. And I already know. I already know what that

00:43:09.820 meant. He don't, there's no explanation needed. There's no long sentence. There

00:43:13.360 isn't anything. Dude, got it. Same thing with his brother, Sal. Yeah. Same thing

00:43:20.560 with him. You know, he, obviously if you, if you follow Sal and if you're not, you

00:43:26.260 should. All right. He was, I'm watching him raise his three beautiful kids. And the

00:43:35.460 one thing I text him, I see, you know, Enzo's in, he was in wrestling and he's all

00:43:40.480 doing all these different things. And I told, I told, I said, listen, Sal, whatever

00:43:45.460 you do, I said, make sure he has something physical for the rest of his life. For

00:43:56.960 the, for the, for the rep, for the, for the rest, rest of his rest of his life. And the

00:44:01.100 girls are doing gymnastics and all this other stuff. Because once you take care of

00:44:06.280 the physical, you feel so much better about yourself. Then you become, then you as a mental

00:44:11.700 individual, you don't need long sentences to explain. Just a simple dude is going to be

00:44:17.600 like, I got it. I got, I got it. It's simple. It is. It's simple. People want to make things

00:44:29.200 so fricking. Bro, that's why I get so fucking annoyed talking about it sometimes, Tim. It's

00:44:35.400 like, this ain't fucking hard, bro. And you said it so many times. You gotta fucking do

00:44:41.040 it. All these people listen to all this bullshit by all these average motherfuckers looking

00:44:46.720 for this secret that doesn't fucking exist. And then the people who tell them the secret

00:44:51.240 for a fucking decade get, you know, it's like, dude, listen, I can promise you this. None

00:44:59.900 of these other motherfuckers that you listen to are going to tell you anything that actually

00:45:05.340 fucking gets you where you want to go different than what I'm telling you. That works. That's

00:45:12.940 it. There's like three things that work. You know what I'm saying? Like you have to do the

00:45:17.040 shit. You got to have an idea that fucking will work. And you got to be relentless about

00:45:23.900 it for fucking ever. And you know, everybody listens to all this garbage, like hoping it'll

00:45:29.800 motivate them, bro. If your own life doesn't motivate you, then you ain't fucking making

00:45:33.480 it. If you can't look around at your life and say, damn, dude, I need to make a change.

00:45:38.820 You ain't got it. It ain't going to work. If you need to pumped up, be pumped up all the

00:45:43.000 time and told how great you could be in this and that. You ain't got it. If you got to be

00:45:47.600 fucking convinced to go and you got to have your hand held, you ain't got it. If you got

00:45:52.100 to fucking have every question answered by somebody who's an expert and you wait to do anything

00:45:56.960 until your quote unquote mentor gets back to you, you don't have it. You don't have

00:46:02.360 it. Everybody wants to be told what to do when you already know what to do.

00:46:09.220 Dude, it's so fracas. It's fucking frustrating. Yeah. Hey, listen to Tony. How many times do

00:46:15.700 you say this over and over again? You could always tell now, and he's already got a lot of

00:46:20.580 bass in his voice. And when he brings up this point, it, it agitates and irritates

00:46:27.140 him even more, you know, because it's disrespectful to people who have actually

00:46:32.220 done things. Yes. It's saying to this, it's like, it's like sitting across from

00:46:37.120 me and I know all the things I've had to go through. I know all the fucking

00:46:42.440 challenges, all the trials, all the tribulations, all the suicidal thoughts, all

00:46:47.860 the bad, all of it, the fucking struggle, all of it being misunderstood, being called

00:46:53.220 names, being made fun of being laughed at all of it. I know exactly what I've gone

00:46:59.900 through to get to this point. And when someone sits across from me and starts asking me

00:47:04.720 questions about how to get around that and basically, you know, so-and-so said, this

00:47:12.020 is the hack. Well, so-and-so's broke. They got a fucking podcast microphone and they

00:47:17.600 make videos on the internet. They're a content creator. Okay. We have to understand

00:47:25.700 that when you sit across from someone who's paid that motherfucking price and you ask them

00:47:31.660 what the shortcut is, they want to fucking choke you. Okay. Real talk. Like I want to

00:47:37.860 reach across the table and rip your fucking Adam's apple out because you're disrespecting

00:47:43.500 the work and the struggle and the pain that I've had to go through. And then you're, it's

00:47:48.600 sort of insinuating. You didn't really have to go through all that. Did you? You didn't

00:47:53.600 really, that's, that's kind of bullshit, isn't it? That's just you. I'm different. You see

00:47:57.120 what I'm saying? Yeah. Yeah. And then, and then they think that there's some sort of entitlement

00:48:03.360 because they get to skip the fucking fight, bro. You're not even any good at what you

00:48:10.560 do. You haven't even started learning this yet. What makes you think that you're, that's

00:48:16.100 like going to the fucking NBA practice and standing on the sideline and like going out

00:48:22.400 and shooting some fucking free throws and be like, Hey, Hey LeBron, give me the fucking

00:48:27.440 secret, bro. Like you didn't really do all that work. It can't be that hard. It's just

00:48:31.760 MJ. You didn't do all that fucking practice, bro. Come on. You didn't get up at three o'clock

00:48:35.760 in the morning and do chest passes. What's the real secret? You know what I'm saying? And

00:48:40.140 it's like, dude, well, like I will fucking choke you. How many times have both of you and

00:48:47.460 everybody sitting in this room, man, what's the one thing I will stop right there. What's

00:48:55.620 the one, what's the one thing? Yeah. What's your morning routine? Yeah. What, what? There

00:49:01.180 is no one thing. And the minute you tell them that they're like, Whoa, what's, what's the

00:49:06.140 one, what's the one thing? Why did in the, in my books, relentless and winning, I listed

00:49:11.340 everything as one. Yeah. Yeah. It's all these things. And then there's more when you were

00:49:17.220 saying that the hell analogy, if you really want to break that down further, you start

00:49:22.140 out in hell every motherfucking morning, bro. And you got to do everything you can to dig

00:49:26.100 out by the end of the day. And guess what? When you wake up in the morning, you're going to

00:49:29.140 be there again. Yeah. And that's the fucking, that's what success building is like. That's

00:49:32.980 the one thing for you. Yeah. Here's the thing. Everybody, here's the one thing it's going

00:49:37.820 to fucking suck. How about that? No. If you get, listen, if you blessed every single morning

00:49:51.220 or night, whenever you get up to open your eyes, every, I do this every single day. This

00:49:59.760 is my morning routine for people that was, Oh, Grover, what's your, I'm about to tell you

00:50:03.000 right now. If I'm blessed enough to have another day and I open my eyes and I can put my feet

00:50:12.340 on the ground. The first thing I say is thank you. And now the rest is up to me. The rest

00:50:20.780 is up. The rest is up. The rest is up. The rest is up to you. That's it. Because one

00:50:27.200 day, one day I'm not going to have the opportunity to do either.

00:50:35.880 Yeah. And the thing that you talk to the biggest achievers and if you can get them to tell you

00:50:44.280 the truth, not the stuff that everybody wants to hear. And that's the one thing about this.

00:50:49.740 You will always hear. You will, you will get, you won't get what you want to hear. You get

00:50:55.480 what you need to hear. All right. It's always on you. It's always going to be on you.

00:51:05.880 Once you wake up in that morning, every decision you make, every action you make,

00:51:11.400 all those things is going to determine where everything is going to go. There's been people

00:51:16.720 that have woken up one morning and just said, I don't like the way I look anymore.

00:51:24.000 Total transformation. People that wake up in the morning says, I'm never drinking again.

00:51:29.860 Well, I'm never going to do drugs. I'm never going to, I'm never, I'm never going to do this.

00:51:33.920 They wake up and they say, I make that decision. And what he says, you think like Andrew just

00:51:39.540 said, you think that's easy when they get up in the morning, that's hell. All right.

00:51:44.180 I was a very heavy individual. Okay. DJ was a very heavy individual. You don't think so?

00:51:53.140 That heavy individual every single morning when we get up is standing right next to the bed

00:51:58.320 and saying, Hey man, we want you back. Yeah. We want you, we want you back. Why you got to go

00:52:04.380 work? Why you got to go work out? Go back, go back in, go back in the bed. I stayed in a very nice

00:52:09.100 hotel while I'm out here, man, that bed was comfortable. Them sheets were nice. All right.

00:52:15.280 Hey, I could have easily rolled over. Got to go work out. Got to go, got to get my, got

00:52:21.340 it, got it, got to get my work, got to get my workout in. I have to do this. I got to

00:52:25.320 prepare. I got some things. I got, I'm blessed. I'm blessed to be asked to do this tremendous

00:52:33.560 podcast. I have to be prepared for it because if I'm not prepared for it, the person that's

00:52:40.520 sitting in that chair across from me, he's going to have no issues exposing me because

00:52:49.560 I put myself in that position to be exposed. You're, you're not exposable. Yeah. You're

00:52:54.480 unexposed. I think you're unexposed. All right. Let's talk about these fucking idiots going

00:53:00.820 on in the world. Let's get into it guys. It is a cruise internet. We're going to do some

00:53:05.340 cruising with Tim, man. It's going to be exciting. It'll be exciting. Let's get into it

00:53:10.400 guys. Remember as always, before, before, before we get cruising, Andy, what car are

00:53:15.140 we cruising in right now? I, what did I drive today? 350, 350 R. I drove my Mustang

00:53:20.580 350 R. Yeah. It's a, it's, it's not the flashiest thing, but it's one of the most fun

00:53:27.060 cars to drive ever. Yeah. So I love it. I drive a lot. No, you, you've been ripping

00:53:32.540 it. You've been fucking ripping it. I like things. I'm starting to like really like, you

00:53:37.240 know, I've had the nice cars forever. So now I'm starting to like care way less

00:53:42.040 about the, the, whatever the prestige, you know, and starting to like really enjoy getting

00:53:49.540 better as a driver. So I'm like getting more into like raw race type cars that are manual

00:53:56.860 transmission, you know, that I could practice driving in. Nice. Yeah. That's, that's evolution.

00:54:02.780 That's growth. That's change. I still like all the other shit, but like I drive, I try to

00:54:07.400 drive manual transmission car as much as possible because it takes a lifetime to master. Yes,

00:54:12.660 it does. Yeah. And it's interesting. Yeah. Yes. Yes. Yes. It does. People that drive a

00:54:18.700 commute manual, they're like, Oh, you know, like I'm talking about driving it like a race

00:54:22.860 car. Yeah. I'm talking rub matches. Like these are things that are, they take coordination.

00:54:28.080 Yeah. If by that statement, you didn't figure that out. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. We got a quick

00:54:36.160 commute too. Yeah. So, yeah, man. Well, guys, remember if you want to see any of these pictures,

00:54:40.680 articles, links, videos, go to Andy for seller.com. You guys can find them all linked there for

00:54:44.760 you. Um, if you guys are listening on audio, come check us out. Multiple locations, find

00:54:49.420 us on the tube, find us on the X and also find us on Spotify. If you can't find us, you ain't

00:54:55.660 looking. You're literally not, you're not, you're not looking. Yeah. Well, let's get into

00:55:01.020 it, man. Um, let's get into it. I had a little intro here. I thought this was interesting.

00:55:06.640 Um, there was a, uh, a typhoon that, uh, blew through, uh, Taiwan. Do you guys see that

00:55:12.800 or hear about that at all? No. Yeah. Pretty bad typhoon going on, uh, that blew through

00:55:17.660 it. Um, and there's a, uh, there's a website, I guess you can go to. It's like a in-depth

00:55:22.820 weather calculator thing. It's like, it shows all the wind stuff and, um, it's called windy.com

00:55:28.160 and, um, you can go there and, uh, check it out for yourselves. This is, I'm not trying

00:55:34.220 to pull a leg here. Um, it's just real. Something else. This is the typhoon that's hitting Taiwan.

00:55:41.360 Apparently. So type type type Taiwan's getting fucked. This is real too. This is not, this

00:55:49.380 is not bullshit. Grock verified it, uh, saying this windy.com map shows wind patterns from

00:55:54.800 typhoon podal hitting Southern Taiwan today, August 13th, 2025. Purple areas indicate gusts

00:56:01.080 exceeding 11 meters per second with swirls near Giaxiong and Lanou. Uh, the formation amusingly

00:56:08.760 resembles male genitalia with Taiwan as the shaft. Stay safe amid the storm. So is that looking out

00:56:14.900 of the left side mirror or the right side where it says objects may seem closer than they appear?

00:56:20.960 Yeah. I mean, it looks on par for the region. I mean, it looks, yes.

00:56:29.140 That's what I was going to say. And with that thing, only one, only one, only one person is

00:56:33.320 missing. That's right. I don't know. Taiwan's actually not, not a bad looking place though,

00:56:42.740 but yeah, uh, there's like 33 people, people, uh, been injured so far. So, I mean, we'll stay

00:56:48.420 up to date. It's moving into China. So I'm sure it'll get a little bit smaller, but, um,

00:56:51.980 no pun intended. You know what I'm saying? Uh, but yeah, let's get into the cruise, man. We gotta,

00:56:57.900 we gotta check in on some stuff. Uh, we got some stuff that's happening. Um, want to do a headline

00:57:03.520 number one, um, going into our first, first set of headlines here. Uh, gotta go back to DC. There's

00:57:10.360 been some updates going on. Uh, the crime thing is a big conversation right now across the country.

00:57:14.780 Um, crime rates happening everywhere. Um, and Trump did something crazy in DC where he, uh,

00:57:20.400 enacted the federal guard, national guard. We talked about this the last CTI. There's been

00:57:24.000 some updates. Now you got DC residents, heckle authorities at checkpoint amid ramped up federal

00:57:30.420 presence. So, uh, federal law enforcement officers in Washington were heckled Wednesday as tensions

00:57:35.660 rise in the nation's Capitol over president Trump's move to take over the local police force,

00:57:40.700 a group of protesters near the 14th street Northwest corridor, where the agents established a vehicle

00:57:47.520 checkpoint, shouted out, uh, or held up signs with phrases such as go home fascists and get off

00:57:54.120 our streets. There is a clip here. Let's check this out.

00:57:56.460 Here's a real cop. He has a badge. He has a city eye. That's a real cop.

00:58:04.900 So it's like 15 people. Yeah. Right. And now one of them looks like they do shit, but complain.

00:58:33.580 well it's the same people man it's the same it's the same people and it's like you know they're

00:58:37.540 upset because the police because crime is so bad there the police are coming in to to help put a

00:58:43.000 stop to the crime it's like they're protesting to allow communities to continue to get devastated

00:58:49.120 is what it sounds like now it's interesting too because i was watching on tv and it seems like

00:58:55.100 both the left and the right are in favor of this in washington dc yeah the actual residents yeah

00:59:01.780 well even the the liberal media was covering it saying that like they thought it was a good

00:59:07.400 idea because they live in washington dc they know how bad it is yeah or you can't go to cvs and get

00:59:12.240 deodorant because it's behind plexiglass it's like it's bullshit it's it's bad it's not just dc now

00:59:17.880 tim you're you're chicago right yes how's chicago right now well what would you say the temp is in

00:59:24.300 chicago well the temperature outside temperature is very it's very warm but the way the city it's

00:59:32.960 yeah it's people already know yeah people are people are people already know there's very people

00:59:39.020 very few people are happy with the situation that that's going on i've been a lifer for chicago and for

00:59:45.700 the first time i've actually thought about yeah i might have had it i might have had enough

00:59:50.760 i just might have had enough here's the thing

00:59:53.220 for some reason i i don't i don't i don't i don't i don't understand i don't understand this

01:00:01.600 why people just cannot work together

01:00:05.100 i i just it's like count it's like point counterpoint point counterpoint

01:00:12.120 everybody's just everybody's just arguing nothing's nothing's getting nothing's getting done

01:00:18.320 everybody's pointing fingers at the other other individuals instead of actually

01:00:22.140 they're instead of actually doing something that can make life better the streets everything for

01:00:30.800 better for for everyone not just in chicago and dc where california florida where wherever

01:00:36.380 whatever it may be whatever it may may be it's the first thing we gotta do is

01:00:42.880 come together like put you this is like all right i'm watching this video i'm watching this video

01:00:50.460 now all right so you got the people on the on the other side if something was going if something

01:00:55.920 happened to them in their house who's the first people they're gonna bro if something happened right

01:01:01.140 there if someone drove down the street right there like they do every night in chicago and started

01:01:08.240 popping off gun rounds they would look directly to the same people they're heckling and say do

01:01:14.140 something but don't do nothing too hard though yeah yeah yeah exactly yeah it's crazy those people

01:01:22.020 have never been affected by actual violent crime they've never had listen you cannot behave that way

01:01:29.440 without being ignorant to the effect that crime actually has on a family or an individual go go

01:01:38.060 tell that to somebody whose loved one was killed by gun violence correct and and on top of that dude

01:01:42.940 for us to get together and be unified

01:01:48.720 we would have to fucking come to an understanding that crime is bad

01:01:55.420 violence is bad and we've got literally got to a point where we have to come to an understanding

01:02:01.480 to say that crime is bad yeah that's insane that's insane yeah like it's a bad thing to commit crime

01:02:07.880 yeah yeah look dude the reason these people act the way they do is because they have very

01:02:12.480 they have very sheltered upbringings most of them come from upper middle class upbringings they don't

01:02:18.540 come from the streets they don't they've never dealt with crime they've never dealt with people that

01:02:23.180 commit crime that don't give two fucks about you and say you know oh i have i i care about you they

01:02:30.000 don't care about you though that's the problem right like these people are so sheltered and that's what

01:02:36.040 turns them into these idealists like you know i i understand that you want to see the good in

01:02:41.280 everybody i understand that you know you want everybody to kind of be able to survive and i

01:02:48.900 understand all that but you don't understand that like you the the problem we have in this country

01:02:54.300 is that there is a whole group of people who have had it too good for too long that don't understand

01:03:00.200 what real world is like like in the real world there are bad people and then there are good

01:03:05.340 people and that just like just like there's winning and there's losing yeah and those bad people they're

01:03:10.660 not exclusively black or white or jewish or uh from you know third world cut there's just bad

01:03:21.060 exclusively bad that's correct yeah and we get played against each other for the benefit of other

01:03:27.380 people to believe that you know this group is bad or that group is bad or this it's not it's just not

01:03:35.200 true it's not true and the propaganda has been so strong for so long that it's very hard for people to

01:03:44.240 come together you know it's well they they intentionally make it too divisive and they intentionally do

01:03:53.000 things yeah but dude the thing is there's no doubt that they intentionally stir it but you have to

01:03:58.020 have a willingness to compromise and have a conversation and there's people on both sides

01:04:06.020 but i would primarily say the far left side that will they will they fucking hate you yeah well i mean

01:04:12.040 that's what i was going to get to i mean to that point though it's like you know they will intentionally

01:04:15.940 do things to to to to to trick you into believing or or knowing what's the actual truth like this

01:04:22.780 came out so like you know with the dc thing it's like you know oh you know crime violent crime has

01:04:27.320 been at an all-time low it's going down it's like well and then they get their face busted because

01:04:31.460 you know the dc police commander just got suspended accused of changing crime statistics who who said that

01:04:38.820 who said that what was that what was those guys name yeah what was that randy randy randy cosuela

01:04:44.140 why i gotta be bj i was talking about bj it's because he likes to get blowjobs

01:04:49.620 but yeah it's like you know so like this stuff like this comes out you know and it's like yeah

01:04:56.800 like this dude was literally changing the statistics of the violent crime that was coming in so they were

01:05:02.760 so it's not just that they were not reporting it they were literally changing things in the counting

01:05:08.540 you know and it's like but this guy's out here saying he protects and serves the community no

01:05:13.100 you don't that's him that's him i did it yeah this is him this is uh his name um is michael pulliam

01:05:20.300 he's been placed on administrative leave paid administrative leave by the way um and this

01:05:27.080 got called out by the the union the police union they claimed that the supervisors in the department

01:05:31.120 manipulate crime data to make it appear that violent crime has fallen considerably um and so

01:05:37.620 it has not fallen at all it's increased um is what uh what they came to discover so it's gonna

01:05:44.140 i mean it's like it's like what good is that doing what would be the purpose of we reported that

01:05:48.460 three years ago yeah yeah three motherfucking years ago we reported that and by the way it's

01:05:53.460 not just in dc it's in new york it's in fucking chicago everywhere houston it's in st louis

01:05:58.440 it's in fucking la and we reported it now it's five three years ago we talked about this bro

01:06:04.520 now it's people like oh you're just a conspiracy theorist racist you hate black people no motherfucker

01:06:11.040 i know math yeah like it's fucking math like this this percentage does this amount of crime

01:06:18.640 this is where the violence is it's very simple it's very simple and if we don't acknowledge the

01:06:24.060 reality of data then we cannot fix the problem which is ultimately what the racism comes from

01:06:30.720 how the fuck do you fix a like how do you how can you say i care about the black communities

01:06:36.800 but the but the crime rate is something that it isn't like that's not that's not where you start

01:06:42.720 to fix problems well i mean it's it's no different it's just like you said waking up in the mirror

01:06:46.560 bro the mirror don't lie we're stepping on the scale that's what i was about to say like i mean

01:06:49.840 yeah you can call yourself skinny all you want or you're you're you're healthy or you step on this

01:06:53.980 i think i think people are waking up to it though yeah i mean i think people are realizing like well for

01:06:58.800 shit because i saw the polling for this trump shit yeah and when it first started happening i was like

01:07:03.700 dude they're gonna go crazy because they're gonna say he's enacting martial law and he's he's being

01:07:09.400 tyrannical and this and that and then you know what we saw in the media was you know both sides of the

01:07:16.180 media were like hey i think it's a good idea that we maybe clean the shit up well that's the thing

01:07:20.660 because you can't tell us of violent crimes at all time low when i can't walk down my street and go to

01:07:25.680 dinner yeah like these two things it can't be a square circle like how like they don't make sense

01:07:30.920 you know what i'm saying so it's like i'm seeing this with my own eyes and you're telling me that it's

01:07:35.340 this that it doesn't work it doesn't work man let's see what the chat got on this

01:07:39.300 math is racist broseph that's real um jillian yeah you got to keep the chaos so structure isn't

01:07:46.940 allowed to form correct real that's real yeah man like i said this dc situation yeah jillian

01:07:54.060 michaels did call them out on cnn saying that they were blaming everything on white people and

01:07:59.860 then saying that fucking you know for years they've been demonizing white people for everything

01:08:04.720 no yeah well it is white people i mean it's the white devil i think we all know that yeah yeah it's

01:08:11.900 it's a real thing man so we'll keep keep you guys up to date with uh what's happening in dc

01:08:16.800 uh we'll stay on the uh stay on the temp gauge there but yeah let's uh let us know down the

01:08:22.920 comments what you guys think uh with that being said let's go cruise some of these comments we've

01:08:27.220 got a couple of them here uh this first comment comes from funky moose chops um he says ironically

01:08:34.540 enough dj did shout out the best mayonnaise brand duke's been given my family heart problems since

01:08:41.360 the 50s you like mayonnaise bro me no yeah me neither see that winners don't fucking eat

01:08:48.080 mayonnaise is that what it is i'm not i'm not that's not a loser that's not a question i've never i've

01:08:55.140 never shit's nasty isn't it yes potato salad you've had potato salad you've heard milk in a fucking

01:09:01.200 gelatin form it's disgusting i don't i don't understand i don't understand it man somebody said

01:09:08.220 somebody said mayonnaise makes your butt leak yeah well i wouldn't know because i'm not a loser i don't

01:09:13.080 eat it all right that's cool um next one is uh ross madden he says uh

01:09:20.700 doing the show live is pretty sick what if dj shows up late

01:09:25.380 dj ain't gonna show up late that's right that's it well andy will probably show up late

01:09:35.460 that's what i said i i didn't say af won't show up late i said dj will show up late all right

01:09:43.760 that the class we're asking his own time we're asking his we're asking his schedule yeah all right

01:09:50.200 thank you yeah we have that we'll keep that we yeah we know that we're all to be seated

01:09:57.680 and when andrew walks in that's when it starts that's what it's right no hey listen if you but

01:10:06.660 i'm trying to man this is a hobby

01:10:08.740 you know what i'm saying like i got a job to do right outside those walls yeah yeah it's all good

01:10:16.980 it's all good yeah we got another one fault line what do you guys say i know you guys have some

01:10:21.400 fucking shit you say who like when i say it's gonna be three what do you say

01:10:24.880 is that what it is 330 so it's 30 minutes grace all right that's fair that's fair listen if he says

01:10:33.320 three as long as the first number is three if it's 359 that's it's point it's fucking 59 it's three

01:10:40.140 that is three it's three it is that's accurate that's black people that's three no that's what

01:10:44.680 that says fucking three that's it he didn't say three on the dot three that he said three three

01:10:50.560 three and that's something it's something that's right we got another one uh fault line king uh this

01:10:58.580 was uh spotify comment two days ago um he says solid eight months of bugging the hell out of uh the

01:11:04.060 local gas station i'm pleased to say we now have every flavor of form energy drinks that orange is the

01:11:10.320 tits now orange is is definitely good orange is pretty good what's your favorite we already know

01:11:14.400 what's your second favorite that's not fair what's your favorite that's not what's the favorite dj

01:11:22.540 great yeah see hey man you wrong for that i mean you know i knew what it was you know what's second

01:11:32.740 favorite though for real second favorite uh screaming freedom bro i don't know how people can't say

01:11:37.900 screaming is number one like it's to me it's a lot better than the rest yeah i mean it's good

01:11:43.380 what do they call what is this flavor anyway it's screaming for you i know it's cherry

01:11:48.220 oh i can't read it oh shit i have to get some peepers bro toss them tim

01:11:54.220 i can't toss them because i take them off i can't see where they're going

01:12:00.800 they ain't gonna be able to catch it apparently so cherry lemon blueberry

01:12:06.120 hey man with eagle blood extended out farther yeah dude that just started for me

01:12:13.380 my my cousin who who's my optometrist dan he's like once you turn 40 it's you're gonna have

01:12:19.220 to get them and it's been like i'm holding off but now it's like getting to the point where you're

01:12:23.420 like i can really tell yeah man you'll get there fine wine baby yeah that's what it is

01:12:28.980 uh last one i decided to bring an og comment in by the way thank you for that dude appreciate you

01:12:34.220 guys that are demanding for uh these places to carry it they're gonna be carrying it soon anyway

01:12:38.740 because we're selling way more than we ever thought we would yeah thanks to you guys great

01:12:42.260 great problems to have man um and then with uh tim on the show i have a comment from the last time

01:12:48.280 you were on the show um this was two years ago um from wb willie uh thank you tim grover i read the

01:12:57.260 entire book after learning about it on this podcast and it truly uh it is truly amazing work after reading

01:13:03.700 it all the way through i'm going to read it again because this work is so far above my understanding

01:13:08.160 of greatness that i feel like i couldn't completely comprehend everything i know in order to do this

01:13:13.100 right i need to know everything or else i've got holes in my bolt very grateful for all this valuable

01:13:19.120 stuff that's one thing about your book relentless bro is you have to read it multiple times and

01:13:26.560 depending dude i think it's one of the most brilliant books ever written real talk and the reason i

01:13:31.380 believe that is because dude ever i read about once a year you know that yes i do and every time i'm in

01:13:37.300 a different place bro it means something different it's a fucking work of art yes it means something

01:13:43.180 different depending on where you are in your journey where you are in your life what what what's what's

01:13:47.800 what's going on and you know what i would say relentless is about the mindset winning is about the

01:13:54.520 journey that very few will take and how to use that mindset in it though because it's people can get

01:14:03.560 i have the i have the mindset okay you have if you say you have the mindset now let's see you put it to

01:14:10.780 work and let's see let's see you win and it's exactly what you said those words and those books mean

01:14:18.020 different things to you in different stages of your life different places in your journey where you are

01:14:24.480 at where you are as an as an individual i know you do you do a lot you do a lot of reading you do a lot

01:14:30.520 of reading but what you do is you always go back like you said you read that book once a year you go

01:14:36.400 back to your phone you go back to your foundation it's not about how much you read it's about how much

01:14:42.080 you retain and what you do with that information you know i used to tell kobe and i always had this

01:14:51.180 knowledge everyone says knowledge is power you know knowledge knowledge knowledge is power but only

01:14:59.260 if you act on it if you put it to use that's where the power that's where the power is that's what

01:15:06.140 this podcast does oh it gives you the knowledge to get on the domestic terrorist list that's right

01:15:13.640 yeah that's right have fun with your flight back home tim

01:15:17.760 what were you doing in st louis oh andy i need you to bend over sir

01:15:26.040 oh man that's real man uh guys we do appreciate you for being real ass fans uh as always um keep

01:15:35.800 liking keep commenting keep subscribing make sure you guys hit that bell notification stay up to date

01:15:40.020 with the latest drops from real af and uh also check down in the description below if you guys want to

01:15:45.800 be a part of this live chat um that secret society there's a handshake there's a handshake we got to do

01:15:52.380 we'll send our people and um yeah we'll check into it that's cool man yeah seeing that young dude

01:15:59.340 yes it is doing it yeah it's always good man and you know what listen again thank you to everybody

01:16:06.100 here it's always appreciated and you know andrew and i've had discussions on doing more of this

01:16:12.680 so don't be surprised if we get invited we get invited back and um continue to expand everybody's

01:16:22.340 idea of what it really takes

01:16:28.560 to define your definition of success that's real that's real let's keep cruising shall we i thought

01:16:38.360 for headline number two you know i thought we'd do a little something different with you guys um

01:16:44.220 i have a brand new segment for you guys uh let's lose some brain cells tim grover lose some brain cells

01:16:52.040 mm-hmm that's about that right i don't think all that should belong on the screen at the same time

01:16:56.220 man that's what i mean i like we're gonna lose some listen there's no doubt we're we everybody in

01:17:00.800 this room might kill you bro we're about to lose some brain cells all right i'm just lose something

01:17:07.060 just just just putting it out there right we got i got some clips um this is from the official djs

01:17:13.680 you're gonna lose your job yeah no this is from djs well you know i'm a big i'm a big person talking

01:17:19.820 my before you can add you got to delete that's right

01:17:22.280 well this this is i got some videos here that are straight from dj's algorithm okay so buckle up

01:17:34.340 all right and uh let's just see how this goes this should be called the next 20 minutes of racism

01:17:41.060 no if it comes from your algorithm i can't tell you i don't know what i think i gotta get a new phone

01:17:46.680 because my algorithm bro is it's wild um so yeah let's just lose some brain cells together check this

01:17:53.880 all right how we feel

01:18:11.640 did it work you lose some i i did i feel like i'm about to get pissed

01:18:18.880 you know what i gotta i gotta admit i know him

01:18:26.480 all right what the yep come on everybody good we good i don't listen i think it worked

01:18:39.400 oh we're not done yet i got more the only thing i can relate to that picture is i

01:18:45.700 i might have had that jacket at some point yeah i think it looks like your old jacket

01:18:51.160 all right well it gets way worse so uh yeah what what is what is going on i don't know you know

01:19:01.600 sometimes i choose not to ask questions you know and just let things be what they are

01:19:05.660 it is what it is that guy moved into his first apartment ever

01:19:09.560 and decided he's like you know what i'm gonna do now that i'm here i'm gonna upload the baddest

01:19:14.320 video ever made i'm gonna let people see the real me

01:19:17.020 that's right all right let's keep uh let's keep moving we got another one here we go

01:19:22.440 is that one of your clients rate the agility

01:19:41.680 actually

01:19:44.240 i think the gymnasium in first form

01:19:48.880 i think you can host such an event you can hold you can host an event you know what people actually

01:19:55.160 pay for that oh yeah i would pay to see that shit

01:19:58.740 they think i listen i you got nothing

01:20:03.780 i think the person next uh that gentleman might be a lady

01:20:09.860 people have you listen people people are into things man if you have nothing to say

01:20:18.620 nice people are people are people are into things people listen if they're happy and they're not

01:20:23.800 hurting anybody that's their listen i don't understand it it's not for me to it's not for

01:20:27.900 me to understand but

01:20:30.180 that looks like a lady

01:20:34.160 i got more listen we got we got some good ones here all right let's check this next one out

01:20:41.740 and dj wants to know why his algorithm is all fucked up

01:20:48.500 all right here we go

01:20:52.460 all right here we go

01:20:52.500 all right here we go

01:21:00.500 parkour

01:21:24.260 she's in great shape to be able to do all that

01:21:35.640 be able to bounce on a branch barefoot go from

01:21:38.220 i feel like that's the final boss of like white liberal women

01:21:41.100 that's like oh yeah you know what i'm saying

01:21:42.880 she's the captain that's like it yeah

01:21:44.900 she's about to let out a scream

01:21:48.200 that's the ultimate form bro that's it

01:21:51.340 z shine what do you think

01:21:52.540 that's not what i was asking

01:22:00.200 oh i got two more okay we're almost done here with this segment i promise

01:22:05.660 see i'm this is my over here trying to explain to people winning how to win and

01:22:10.240 yeah no but some people just on a different a different thing man but you know what here's

01:22:15.860 what the crazy part to these people that's their win that is their win i know

01:22:20.520 mm-hmm how the fuck do you come up with something like this i don't

01:22:24.240 oh yeah so you know what it's those people don't understand us

01:22:31.680 well it's like kobe said i don't want to understand that we don't want yeah we don't

01:22:37.180 you know i just but that's that's that's their win like you said the guy the first one we saw

01:22:42.800 that might be his first apartment actually that's a huge that's a huge that's a huge

01:22:46.640 he celebrated with a costume party yeah there you go right yeah and he had his friends

01:22:50.580 yeah oh and it's

01:22:52.800 well it's

01:22:54.800 well

01:22:56.800 yeah and the create and the create okay but hey you know what you know what the huge wins

01:23:02.780 are you know what the huge wins are all right they made it onto one of the world's top rated

01:23:10.460 podcasts they don't know it yet no they don't know it

01:23:13.340 all right they'll find out tomorrow

01:23:17.020 they don't know yet man

01:23:22.480 what was going to come back yeah dj yes thank you

01:23:28.780 i've been at this for five years hey man hey you know i i got i here's some winning i got i got

01:23:35.580 another one yeah okay this is um okay pov you're at your son's uh basketball game he makes a free

01:23:43.120 throw and he does this

01:23:44.920 i mean you would do that

01:23:55.940 you're the one that comes in here and talks about how you can do the splits and shit i can do a split

01:24:01.760 but yeah well you can yeah right there let's go no i'm all right my pants take them off

01:24:07.440 i don't think ever in my life i would have ever imagined tim gover would tell him to take my

01:24:16.080 pants off yeah you said he could do this well you i can't i can't it's verified but verified by

01:24:21.600 who no joe no did he really do it huh no sort of it was half-ass it was acceptable

01:24:32.640 that was diabetes gang initiation doing a half split with an ice cream cone

01:24:43.200 that's good what would we do if i i thought that was pretty respectable celebration

01:24:50.960 it's a free throw i would say i would say i would say don't do that in public ever again no

01:24:58.320 it's it's it's a free throw and like literally the coach and the this is where i okay but i have

01:25:07.680 a hard hard time with why are you cheering for that bullshit right i told you only on the three

01:25:15.120 pointers that's seven who's a coach who's a coach the parents what what do you what do you

01:25:21.200 what do you think it's a team sport it's a team it's a team sport all right winning requires a team

01:25:30.800 effort all right why is people so and this is why are people so

01:25:38.240 you know i don't think about the word but just like about making it their moment instead of making

01:25:45.280 it about everybody else's moment and you're included you're included you're included in that moment

01:25:51.440 you know where that starts i know yeah it starts with dudes running off the field taking their shirts

01:25:56.640 off and their shoulder pads and fucking acting like assholes and kids see it and they're like oh

01:26:02.960 i'm gonna do that i had um go off track a little bit i literally had somebody tell me about

01:26:08.240 a um a professional football player and said that been in a been in a league for a while and he said

01:26:21.040 the only time that he's ever been confronted by the coach where the coach was his first year in the

01:26:30.400 league was after that he was everything just and he wants to learn yeah and he he wants to be

01:26:37.920 learned he wants to be coached he wants to be disciplined he wants to do the things he wants

01:26:41.680 he wants to get better he goes once well i mean there's another side of that the other side is

01:26:52.160 you're expected to be great on your own no you know what i'm saying like yeah i'm here to coach

01:26:56.720 you and make you better but the onus is on you that's always i've always wondered about that like

01:27:04.000 because obviously like literally going middle school high school right like there's coaching

01:27:08.080 like you're really being coached the best of the best you at you talk to tom brady talk to michael

01:27:16.560 obviously you can't talk to kobe anymore but you look at these individuals and you look at their

01:27:24.400 past coaches and they always ask you what's the common denominator among the greats and they all would

01:27:30.960 say they were very coachable they they take the information they and you're putting out information

01:27:37.760 here okay you are literally these for millions of people you're there you are their coach you're literally

01:27:47.360 giving them direction now what they do with that direction now that's not the only direction they get

01:27:53.040 but they're coming in here to be to be coached to become educated to become that to become better

01:28:01.760 they've opened up their minds they've opened up their hearts they've opened up their souls

01:28:05.840 to be like hey listen i generally want to get better i'm going to hold myself i'm going to hold myself accountable

01:28:13.680 you know and it's just like well how do you how do you prove people wrong how do you prove yourself right

01:28:19.200 by improving by improving by improving and that's what these that's what these into that's what these

01:28:25.040 individuals want to do the one thing the best of the best you're coachable yeah because i realize

01:28:31.280 i'm a fucking idiot yeah you're you're brothers you can't you can't build what you guys have built

01:28:39.200 you know i feel like an idiot like most of the time i feel stupid and i think

01:28:44.320 i think that's a common trait amongst high achievers when they're in the mode of building

01:28:55.840 when now when they when i walk out and got to do my thing you do your thing yeah i'm not thinking i'm

01:29:00.800 an idiot no i'm thinking like dude i'm gonna crush you yeah you know but the rest of the time i'm like

01:29:07.760 all right how do i get better what's the problem where am i weak what do i got to do what do i need to

01:29:12.880 learn how do i need to get better at this skill you know what i mean and you get that information

01:29:17.680 it's a it's a it's a dichotomy right that most people can't really understand or see

01:29:23.840 because all they see is the performance yeah like they see somebody like let's take conor mcgregor for

01:29:28.400 example people would say conor mcgregor is not humble and i would argue that you are wrong and i'll

01:29:38.160 tell you why because for him to get to the level that he is he had to learn a whole bunch of shit

01:29:44.960 and to learn a bunch of shit and become great you have to be coachable which means you have to be

01:29:51.600 humble all right so what you see as the product doesn't mean that that person is not humble and i believe that

01:30:00.400 this is a big disconnect between the average person and how they look at high achievement

01:30:06.560 they see someone who is passionate excited and understands by the way how to be a character in

01:30:13.200 a product which is part of his job yes it is and they see it and they say and nobody does it better

01:30:17.920 no he's great at it and by the way that's why he's been paid so well because he understands i am a

01:30:24.400 character this is part of my job and he couldn't have got he couldn't have even got that good at

01:30:31.120 talking shit without learning from someone how to do it yeah so i would argue that most of the people

01:30:39.360 that people say that person is not humble because they're successful and they forgot where they can

01:30:44.640 actually some of the most humble people because they're coachable behind closed doors now

01:30:49.120 i've met him i know him personally we've done some work together

01:30:59.120 one of the most giving individuals you'll ever meet

01:31:03.680 but he doesn't publicize it all the time you know you know other individuals that every time

01:31:09.600 they give they it's for them yeah it's for their moment it's not for those i'm telling you listen

01:31:16.880 is he perfect no none of us are none of us are none of us are perfect but one of the things he did tell me

01:31:24.880 he goes i won but nobody told me what was coming along with winning

01:31:38.240 what we started this podcast with

01:31:39.840 you know that's real man he's got it figured out bro oh yeah he's the only dude in the world that

01:31:47.840 could put his fucking dick on the internet for the whole world to see and no one gives a

01:31:51.520 fuck and still be okay i actually had one of those videos yeah i'm like i really won't go with it but

01:31:57.520 yeah um yeah we lost some brain cells again that's why you have a rhythm on your phone

01:32:02.640 i send them see the trick is i send them to other people too so i mess up their algorithm

01:32:09.520 oh my algorithm is certainly messed oh don't give me that no you send me the motherfucker that's

01:32:15.120 because you sent them to me

01:32:18.320 then i see them in the algorithm and then i'm like oh you get my like this it came from him

01:32:22.720 i said any stuff he's like i already seen this that's true

01:32:25.680 i did get the weirdest suggestion in the world yesterday and it was this post of this whale

01:32:32.960 jumping out of the water with like a boner and i'm and it said suggested for you

01:32:39.200 and i'm like is this where the

01:32:42.000 i'm getting suggested whale boner pics that's right that's right like

01:32:47.120 okay that's a good day i definitely did laugh when i saw it and we all have to laugh yeah got to i

01:32:53.520 definitely laugh but i was curious we all we all we all have to we all have to laugh i'm going to

01:32:59.200 ask zuckerberg when i meet him who suggested this why do you think that i want to see an orca's penis

01:33:05.280 what's wrong with you well boner fetishes send me more yeah all right um but yeah all right

01:33:10.560 appreciate it i hope you guys like that let's uh let's keep the cruise moving we got one last

01:33:14.160 headline here we got a headline number three um let's go to the sports arena um this is a topic we've

01:33:21.120 we've covered a few times on the show um because it's it's a new topic by the way just i'm gonna

01:33:26.560 if you've never seen andrew in a suit oh that's a good looking dude i'm telling you i say we all look

01:33:32.880 pretty good in suits yes yeah nobody does it like you though bro

01:33:39.600 jimg's got the suit game i i have a per i have an asian and a personal stylist that person they're the

01:33:46.080 same yeah you take care of this guy all right oh yeah let's get to our third and final headline

01:33:54.080 guys headline number three headline number three reads three w nba players ejected after i just

01:34:00.880 saw this today sun sky scrap yeah let's talk about it i just want to talk about the the fever

01:34:08.320 that's it yeah we only talk about the fever that's the only team then the sun's all right

01:34:12.240 sun's all right sky sky's okay they're all right it's caitlin clark and sophie cunningham that's it

01:34:18.560 that's the league that's the league yeah sure well let's talk about it because they've been getting

01:34:22.160 uh this has been getting heat and it ain't got caitlin clark or sunny uh sophie involved um but

01:34:27.600 apparently ejections now come in threes i think that was a pun they tried to do there a very dirty one

01:34:34.240 in my opinion um a trio of wmba players earned the boot wednesday night following the altercation

01:34:41.200 during the sun's 71 62 home win over the sky connecticut's brea harley and chicago's rebecca

01:34:48.240 allen each received ejections for starting the scuffle while the sky's ariel atkins uh night ended

01:34:55.280 early for being an escalator after shoving hartley and touching a referee according to the crew chief

01:35:01.440 angelia uh angelia suffering as reported by uh espn the situation unfolded early in the second quarter

01:35:10.480 when the sun's sanaya rivers and hartley battled uh allen for a rebound which the former corralled

01:35:17.520 here's the clip let's check it out but this action right here oh there's a lot happening a lot

01:35:26.240 happening grab my shirt i'm feeling the ground tina charles she's still she didn't hit the court though

01:35:33.360 she out of bounds ariel atkins says some words to priya and she says she grabbed me first man number

01:35:44.240 10 is a biggin pretty big damn pretty big that's like shack grab his dick twisted

01:35:51.200 fucking shack jr out there yeah so we got some we got that was it that was it that was it that was it

01:35:55.760 they got ejected for that and there was ejections there come on all right let the girls fight now

01:36:02.000 i'm just saying these will go up i've seen a lot worse happen with no ejections yeah like that other

01:36:06.880 thing like the assaults on on caitlin clark like caitlin clark but let's talk about let's talk about

01:36:12.480 the the because i mean again you you you've you've been around and and and got to uh see some of the

01:36:18.880 greatest in basketball ever played right like how how much does emotions on the court i guess because i mean

01:36:24.320 tempers get hot right like i get it pushing shoving but like all out brawls have been happening

01:36:29.200 it wasn't a brawl they i said they have been happening right maybe not that game for sure but

01:36:34.080 i mean what's your take on that tim listen you know the individuals and the teams like i said

01:36:44.000 that can control their emotions i always say that you know coaches always say man play with emotion

01:36:49.840 well which emotion you want me to play with

01:36:55.520 you know an emotion your emotion that gets you going may be different than my emotion may be

01:37:01.360 different than andrew's everybody's got the difference so when you say you know play play with

01:37:06.960 emotion all right play with understand play with understanding control control your emotion because

01:37:13.440 here's the thing as an opponent my job not only is to win the game but also make you lose your emotion

01:37:21.840 take you out of your get take you out of your game that's why a lot of athletes talk trash to each

01:37:29.280 other to see who can you know if i if they can take if they can set up shop if they can set up shop

01:37:34.560 shop in their head all right things things are going to happen on on the court mj used to always

01:37:41.760 say mj used to always say this he's say he goes i know the opponent is going to do anything that they

01:37:48.080 can to get me thrown out of the game there's videos of him lily pulling his fist back

01:37:56.160 and there's that the last put it down because he knows if he throws that punch

01:37:59.760 they won yeah and then it's six games without him right they they they how long the the objections

01:38:08.000 are yeah well back and back and back back in that day no but now right now yeah yeah you throw you

01:38:14.240 throw you throw you throw a punch you throw a punch listen part of part of winning part of team

01:38:20.240 is understanding what your emotion what your what your emotion what your emotion what your emotions are

01:38:27.840 and figuring out how to control them you know listen control your thoughts you control your emotions

01:38:37.440 you control your you can control your emotions you're literally going to control the outcome of the game

01:38:47.360 i think you say it on something too that's like a big a big thing that i think people

01:38:52.880 i probably shouldn't even say this because most people aren't equipped to do this effectively

01:39:00.640 but the best the best guys the best entrepreneurs the best business leaders the best fucking uh

01:39:10.000 athletes they understand the game of distraction very well very well they understand that when they

01:39:16.800 say certain things or when they post certain things or when they do certain things they understand the

01:39:22.560 what it does to the opponent and they're doing it intentionally and that's something you know like

01:39:31.200 only like the top top top people understand that as part of their game yeah you know what i mean

01:39:38.720 you know attack them physically attack them mentally oh yeah yeah that's what it listen you find out

01:39:44.160 like dude when i find out that something annoys somebody that i want to beat i will annoy the

01:39:50.640 fuck that's what you're supposed to do yeah that that that that that's what you that's what that's

01:39:55.520 what you're supposed to the only time someone can get into your head is when you're not there dude one

01:40:02.000 of the best ways in today's world to beat your competition is legitimately to make them

01:40:07.440 fucking hate you so bad that they can't concentrate on what the fuck they do what they're doing yeah

01:40:11.840 yeah yeah yeah should that have been an ejection should that have been in the direction no bro listen

01:40:20.080 if the wnba wants to up viewership fucking fight oh i'm i'm being dead serious dude like y'all can't

01:40:28.000 fucking make all the buckets so like you know you can't dunk you know like the summer you can but

01:40:36.080 you know and you want to get paid more money well pay more money means more eyeballs watching the

01:40:40.640 sport let them rip yeah throw some blows the biggest thing that happened in the nba wnba this

01:40:47.040 year was sophie cunningham fucking sticking up for caitlin clark caitlin clark and dude what was

01:40:51.840 that that was physicality you know what i'm saying yeah physicality works for eyeballs i'd be watching

01:40:57.520 more games if there was more fights would you though i'd watch a game

01:41:03.920 how much one more game that's more than zero

01:41:09.760 yeah man i don't know i think i think i think what you know it's fucking true and listen i will give

01:41:16.240 the wnba some from a skill standpoint yeah they're amazing yeah like dribbling passing footwork

01:41:25.680 the footwork passing it's absolutely if you are a young basketball player

01:41:35.840 and you want to learn footwork moving without the ball being able to dribble coming off of screens

01:41:43.600 shooting all this all this other stuff watch the wnba watch bro that's a fair statement they're

01:41:51.840 technically better players on but yes yeah and there are some nba players that will admit that

01:41:59.040 say listen i watch them religiously to watch how they you know therefore because you know obviously

01:42:08.880 they're not as they're not as athletic as

01:42:12.640 all nba players some wnba players are more athletic than some of the nba nba players so their skill set has

01:42:19.440 to be better bro it just has to be and i will say that we talk a lot of

01:42:24.000 shit because it's funny games and jokes okay but here's the truth this is the truth all right

01:42:32.400 it may not be as exciting to watch and the reason it's not as exciting to watch is because we don't

01:42:36.960 recognize the names all right they're not they're the but the main reason is because the game of men's

01:42:43.440 basketball has evolved to like people don't appreciate the fundamentals anymore they want

01:42:49.120 to see the amazing yeah they want to see a dude jump from the free well michael started it from the

01:42:55.280 free throw line to the you know hoop they want to see all that and they want to see like

01:43:00.960 dudes just dunking right on top of each other and just and you can't get that in the wnba and so

01:43:07.920 people will say well it's not as exciting to watch but if you and it isn't because of that

01:43:12.000 that's the reality but the framework of what's considered good basketball has changed over the

01:43:17.120 last 30 years so women aren't capable of doing that part of the game which it's then considered

01:43:24.400 to be inferior basketball but i can tell you this dude i went to southwest missouri state before it

01:43:30.400 was missouri state and there was a girl there and you're going to know who it is jackie styles who was

01:43:36.400 the greatest athlete that i've ever seen personally in my life and i've never seen anybody

01:43:41.920 work harder either i've never seen somebody work harder or be better than her at her thing and

01:43:48.640 you know caitlin clark just passed her up on the sport but like dude she would practice with the

01:43:53.920 men and we had a sweet 16 men's team then she would practice with the men the men could not

01:43:58.160 touch her dude so there's a lot of truth to that but at the end of the day

01:44:05.120 eyeballs equal paychecks and they're not getting them and they got to figure out a way to get them

01:44:09.360 that's real man guys jumping on the sky it's a fight it's go back to the thing that dj had

01:44:15.360 pulled up about the kid doing the splits yeah we don't know if they won the game if they lost the

01:44:22.720 game yeah but that's you know people watching it people watch it because of the because of the because

01:44:28.080 of the because of the eyeballs that's what social media social media does you know it's just like

01:44:33.200 like everybody posts that one hit one play that everybody goes oh they want that they want that

01:44:40.400 aha moment all right instead of the end instead of the end result you can have the aha moment and have

01:44:47.840 the end result but most people will they stop at the aha moment that's real man guys jumping on this

01:44:54.080 conversation let us know down in the comments what you guys think uh with that being said let's get to

01:44:59.200 our last final segment of the show guys as always we have thumbs up or dumb as fuck we bring a headline

01:45:05.200 in we talk about it we vote on it it gets one of those two options and so since we got tim grover

01:45:11.360 um who loves winning we have andy who also loves winning but you love animals

01:45:16.400 thought we have a little bit of both here winning and animals winning and animals okay so our thumbs up

01:45:22.960 or dumb as fuck headline reads texas boys heart warming moment with prize winning goat at animal

01:45:29.840 show goes viral this didn't come from like india or anything did it

01:45:37.040 texas texas texas not not not indy

01:45:43.200 z sean i'm giving you some messed up licks man yeah let's dive into this man a bleat

01:45:48.960 taking duo a five-year-old boy in texas has captured hearts after he was filmed joyfully

01:45:55.040 showering uh showering his prize-winning goat with hugs and kisses after placing fourth in a

01:46:00.960 local animal show the heartwarming video which has gone at more than six million views on instagram

01:46:06.960 shows milo garza beaming at his yellow ribbon before hugging his white and brown pet goat teddy bear

01:46:13.840 and smothering him with love at the compadres cabrito's goat and lamb show in kingsville

01:46:20.240 on june 22nd let's check this clip out as we zoom in on this goat showing in kingsville texas

01:46:27.680 meet five-year-old milo garza staring at his yellow ribbon just look at that face over the moon about

01:46:35.120 winning fourth place even kissing his little goat teddy bear and hugging him tightly we had to know the story

01:46:42.320 behind this video hello goats milo and his mom elizabeth telling us how it all went down

01:46:49.440 it turns out the whole garza family loves goats we see them and we work them and we walk them

01:47:00.000 we give them water but milo was actually filling in for his big brother so this was milo's moment and

01:47:07.040 he knew teddy bear was one special goat milo if you can just tell me what's one great thing about

01:47:11.840 teddy bear his legs what about his legs they're fat

01:47:19.600 sequence of goat showing from the new kid on the block his mom saying milo's been working hard and that

01:47:26.240 moment captured on video the joy of competition for yeah what we got for a little milo here you're gonna

01:47:35.120 celebrate fourth like that you fucking loser who are your parents i thought i'd get it before

01:47:45.600 find a new hobby you ain't got it kid fuck your goat

01:47:57.520 oh come on man that's cute it's cute it is listen you look the hard work that was put in

01:48:04.720 yeah the hard work the love the joy the the whole families everybody's everybody's involved involved in

01:48:10.240 this thing and but listen he's happy he's got four he's happy one fourth and then hopefully this

01:48:15.760 drives him you know to get the goat or whatever it takes to move the goat up into third place second

01:48:22.960 place for first plate obviously what's it take bro what are the secrets

01:48:34.320 hey it's it's no it's the same situation that we all have well when you go lift we all

01:48:39.920 gotta work on our legs yeah well i love his legs why do you love them because they're fat

01:48:47.760 we all hate gonna grow up you know what kind of girls he's gonna lie

01:48:52.160 he's gonna grow up for going for those fucking uh the uh the the ones that pay your taxes

01:49:02.640 bro that's cute man yeah you gotta love look z shot and i talk about this all the time dude

01:49:08.160 goats yeah we do no we talk about this god favors people that take care of animals and treat animals

01:49:18.000 good i believe that i've seen that over and over and over again in my life i believe that if you treat

01:49:25.200 innocent creatures well good things happen to you i just believe it and it's cool to see

01:49:31.280 it's cool i don't know i like i like it it's cool yeah it's cool he's happy he loves his little goat

01:49:37.920 the goat loves him it's all good and he's working he carries them walks somebody like you like you said

01:49:43.600 yeah it's a genuine thing he he does he does get the whole family cares like this is this is our thing

01:49:49.680 you know goats goats are our thing listen you started raising ducks yeah you know yeah and everybody's like

01:49:56.880 oh dude how how weird is that's weird i'm like bro if you were around them you'd understand they're

01:50:02.320 like little people they're pretty cool yeah they got little personalities like dogs dude your wife was

01:50:06.560 telling us he's just like yeah they all have their own little personalities male female they're doing

01:50:10.560 things and yeah it's just like you don't don't vilify something you don't understand man if you

01:50:19.120 they're they're there there's a reason behind it you know you we all in here have lost now i can't speak

01:50:27.920 for these guys here but i know you me sherry dj i'm sure they have lost an animal that's been like

01:50:34.480 man that pain does not no it never goes away it it doesn't go away i i lost what my dog and i and i say this

01:50:46.240 my best friend not my not my dog best friend my best friend yeah that shit hurts yeah man yeah

01:50:57.680 and there's nothing you could say to someone who's going through it to make it any better it sucks

01:51:02.000 it's like i want to say like i was just reading online today one of a guy i knew lost his dog

01:51:07.440 and i wanted to like you can't there's nothing you can say there's something you can say yeah like

01:51:11.520 it's just like fuck dude that sucks i'm sorry yeah we all kind of know what that's like so

01:51:18.160 but yeah i like this this thumbs up thumbs up from my yeah this is a good little dude right here two

01:51:21.680 thumbs now go get better milo yeah next time it's first place we're eating your goat we're gonna eat

01:51:27.840 your fucking goat yeah it's real we're gonna have goat kebabs

01:51:33.280 well guys andy tim that's all i got yeah tim great to see you bro thank you so much for coming in my

01:51:40.080 pleasure man thank you for inviting me into your home as always man i like i said i did a couple

01:51:46.560 videos i in a lock the locker room it's just this is not a this is not a place this is an experience

01:51:55.440 man and every time you guys i come here the experience continues to get better and better and

01:52:02.480 i cannot say how proud i am of the whole for sale of family and everybody that that works here and

01:52:14.720 i know the next time i come it's going to be even better the next time i come it's going to be

01:52:19.440 that's even going to be better it's you've you guys have developed a standard here and i go around

01:52:26.000 and check you know i listen you don't know about this place it is freaking one it's beautiful and

01:52:32.880 it's freaking spotless it is spotless i mean it is tim comes through with his white glove man oh i do

01:52:42.640 listen i i walk through the bathrooms i don't tell people tim's coming in dude i i look in i look at

01:52:48.880 see how engaging employees are everything in here because you know sometimes when you come in and you're

01:52:54.880 gone for a a while and everybody wants to see has the standard been raised has the bar has the bar

01:53:03.280 been as a bar been elevated and every time i come in here i'm never i'm never i'm not i'm not i'm

01:53:09.840 never disappointed i'm never disappointed thank you guys treating me

01:53:15.280 as family better than family and then like i said i this is this is a whole this is a place a very

01:53:26.960 special place for me because i've seen it from where it was to where it's gone and i've seen

01:53:36.480 the way you guys have evolved too i've seen dj you've grown into this individual andy i continue

01:53:46.320 to watch you continue to watch you progress you know through everything through the trial tribulations

01:53:52.640 everything goes on and watch sal and the and the family and just it's it's a joyous occasion to watch

01:54:02.000 winners continue to win well wouldn't be here without you bro that's real shit that is real

01:54:07.840 shit so all right guys well that is the show don't be a hoe

01:54:17.520 went from sleeping on the floor now my jewelry box froze

01:54:20.880 fuck a pole fucker stole counted millions in the code bad bitch booted swole got her on bankroll can't fold

01:54:28.400 doesn't know headshot case closed

REAL AF with Andy Frisella - August 15, 2025

922. Andy, Tim Grover & DJ CTI： DC Residents Heckle Authorities At Checkpoint, Losing Brain Cells & Three WNBA Players Ejected After Sun-Sky Scrap

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