REAL AF with Andy Frisella - December 17, 2015


Are Your Goals Really Your Goals？, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO33


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9 minutes

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1,845

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165

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In this episode of the MFCEO Project, we dive into a topic that has been getting on my nerves for the past few months. It s a simple question... Are your goals really your goals or are they just a dream you have in your head?

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00:00:00.000 Hey guys, what's up?
00:00:18.920 You're listening to the MFCEO Project.
00:00:21.540 I'm Andy and I am the motherfucking CEO.
00:00:24.620 Today I'm going to bring you a little Thursday Thunder, short little edition of the podcast
00:00:29.720 we're going to cover one particular topic in general that has been getting on my nerves
00:00:34.460 every day it seems for the past months, two months, three months in a row to where I feel
00:00:43.400 like it's something that is obvious to most people but I want to hit on this man.
00:00:48.480 I see so many guys and talk to so many people on a daily basis whether it be out at the grocery
00:00:55.180 store or in the gym or wherever I happen to be and we talk and we talk about, hey Andy,
00:01:00.540 I listen to the podcast, blah, blah, blah, or I see people on Periscope, hey Andy, what
00:01:05.180 do you think about this?
00:01:06.220 And the conversation always comes to this point of, hey, I'm working on this project.
00:01:14.040 I'm trying to do this.
00:01:15.160 I want to do this.
00:01:16.060 And one day I'm going to be where you're at.
00:01:19.180 Okay.
00:01:19.760 And great.
00:01:21.420 I hope so.
00:01:22.240 That's the purpose of why I do this.
00:01:24.100 I do this so that I can bring you guys knowledge, bring you guys information, bring you guys
00:01:29.340 subject matter that will help you get to at a minimum where I'm at, if not further in
00:01:35.080 the entrepreneurial landscape of success.
00:01:37.760 Okay.
00:01:39.040 That's why I fucking do this.
00:01:40.620 I don't do this because I get paid.
00:01:42.300 I don't make any money doing this.
00:01:43.680 This is something I do because I love doing it.
00:01:46.200 All right.
00:01:47.700 But here's the problem that I have with it.
00:01:49.960 Okay.
00:01:50.360 Every time I talk to somebody, they tell me their goal.
00:01:53.700 All right.
00:01:54.240 And they tell me, hey, I'm going to try to build this multimillion dollar business.
00:01:57.840 Hey, I'm going to try and do this.
00:01:59.540 Hey, I'm going to try and do that.
00:02:01.080 All right.
00:02:01.640 First of all, you either are or you aren't.
00:02:05.360 There's no fucking trying.
00:02:06.680 It's like Yoda, right?
00:02:07.640 There is no try.
00:02:08.580 There's only do.
00:02:09.560 That's like the best piece of advice you could ever have in the world.
00:02:13.620 Quit saying, I'm trying to do this and just say, I'm doing this.
00:02:17.340 All right.
00:02:17.680 It gets your mind right.
00:02:18.620 It gets your focus right.
00:02:19.820 It helps get you going on the right path to where you're no longer trying because trying
00:02:24.860 insinuates, I'm trying and failing at doing this.
00:02:28.640 All right.
00:02:29.200 You either are fucking doing it or you aren't doing it. 0.82
00:02:32.340 Okay.
00:02:32.620 And the other thing is, is I'm going to do this one day.
00:02:35.480 What do you mean you're going to do this one day?
00:02:37.640 You're going to fucking do what one day.
00:02:39.940 All right.
00:02:40.600 And, and why aren't you doing that now?
00:02:43.400 You know, I see people that say they have these huge dreams, be a millionaire, be a, first
00:02:48.520 of all, being a millionaire is not even a huge fucking dream.
00:02:50.600 Second of all, be a, be a, you know, a hundred millionaire, be a billionaire.
00:02:55.320 I want to change the world.
00:02:56.580 I want to do this.
00:02:57.240 I want to do that.
00:02:58.060 Yet I see some of these people on fucking Facebook and I see some of these people in
00:03:02.980 real life, you know, and what are they doing at night?
00:03:06.860 They're fucking playing video games or they're watching Monday night football or on Sundays
00:03:11.320 they're taking the day off and they're resting bullshit. 0.77
00:03:14.720 Okay.
00:03:15.300 Your goals aren't even really your goals.
00:03:17.480 All right.
00:03:17.960 People say, and that's the question I want to bring to you guys today real quick.
00:03:22.580 Are your goals really your goals?
00:03:26.000 All right.
00:03:26.340 Think about what that means.
00:03:27.520 Are your goals really your goals?
00:03:30.300 All right.
00:03:30.600 Because it's easy to say, Hey, I want to be this.
00:03:33.780 Hey, I want to do that.
00:03:35.000 Hey, I want to be significant.
00:03:36.260 Hey, I want my life to matter.
00:03:37.460 Hey, I want to be a millionaire.
00:03:38.660 Hey, I want to be a billionaire.
00:03:39.820 Hey, I want to drive a fucking Lamborghini.
00:03:41.420 But unless your actions on a daily basis reflect that goal every single time, every single
00:03:49.380 move, every single fucking second that you're awake, your goals aren't really your goals. 0.95
00:03:54.980 You're just full of shit.
00:03:56.800 Are the things you want really the things you want?
00:04:00.100 We tell ourselves constantly, I want to earn this much money.
00:04:04.040 I want to drive this kind of car.
00:04:05.680 I want to live in this kind of house.
00:04:07.300 I want to live in this.
00:04:08.720 I want to be with this kind of man or this kind of woman. 0.85
00:04:11.060 I want to look like this.
00:04:12.700 I want to lose this many pounds.
00:04:14.740 I want to insert whatever the goal you could possibly have for yourself is.
00:04:20.100 But do you really?
00:04:21.600 Because that is the truth.
00:04:22.940 What I just said a minute ago, if your actions aren't backing up your goals, those are not your
00:04:27.840 fucking goals.
00:04:28.740 They're just you talking shit, all right?
00:04:31.900 And I can tell you one thing.
00:04:32.940 For me, there's nothing more annoying than people that just talk shit, all right?
00:04:37.160 Because I know what it fucking takes to come from zero dollars or to build yourself up from
00:04:43.160 60, $70,000 in credit card debt and to risk everything and to have your nuts on the line.
00:04:48.400 And when you just talk that shit without backing it up, it makes people like me look at you
00:04:53.140 and fucking resent you because you're discounting the work that it takes to get where 0.97
00:04:58.120 you, where you want to say, where you say you want to be, you know, everybody today, it
00:05:04.240 seems like everybody wants to wait and put off the things they truly want in their lives,
00:05:07.600 you know, for tomorrow, you know, the mystical place where 99% of dreams, human achievement,
00:05:12.960 potential greatness go to die.
00:05:14.420 You know, it's not about let's get shit done today.
00:05:17.580 It's not about let's do this today.
00:05:18.960 It's not about let's obsess every fucking second of every fucking day to getting to where
00:05:23.640 we want to be.
00:05:24.440 It's, oh, well, you know what?
00:05:26.160 I didn't get that much today.
00:05:27.280 It's okay.
00:05:27.960 I'll wait till tomorrow.
00:05:29.140 Oh, you know what?
00:05:30.080 I didn't get that much today.
00:05:31.480 It's all right.
00:05:32.540 Tomorrow's going to be there.
00:05:33.660 No, tomorrow isn't going to fucking be there.
00:05:36.040 The only time you have is right now.
00:05:37.660 And if you're not obsessed every single second of every single day of every single fucking
00:05:42.900 week of the year with achieving your goals, I'm going to tell you something.
00:05:47.120 You're never going to fucking achieve them because I, because right now you're not understanding
00:05:51.340 what it truly takes to get to where you want to be.
00:05:54.220 I can think of all these people that I went to school with in college and high school who's,
00:05:58.660 you know, they all said, oh, I want to be a millionaire.
00:06:00.560 Oh, I want to drive this kind of car.
00:06:02.100 Oh, I want to do this.
00:06:03.340 And you know what?
00:06:04.120 Their actions didn't fucking back it up.
00:06:06.100 And now where are they?
00:06:07.180 Now they're in a fucking shitload of debt.
00:06:09.180 They're, they're struggling financially.
00:06:10.720 They're unhappy.
00:06:11.640 And they're in a situation where they think that fucking, they, they tell people and themselves
00:06:16.560 that, you know, people like me are materialistic bullshit.
00:06:20.080 I just did the fucking work.
00:06:21.620 All right.
00:06:22.320 And I don't want to hear any bullshit about, oh, you know, it's not cool to win.
00:06:26.700 No winning is fucking cool.
00:06:28.640 Okay.
00:06:29.200 And thinking about winning in any other way, dude, you're just lying to yourself.
00:06:34.720 That's the bottom line.
00:06:35.860 You know, and, and for these people who cry and whine and moan, you know, the reality
00:06:41.920 is, is they've accepted their lives.
00:06:43.720 You know, they go through the motions with no passion, no purpose.
00:06:46.440 They expect everything to fall in line for them, quote unquote, eventually.
00:06:50.160 And when it doesn't, they become bitter and blame their lack of success in life and their
00:06:55.120 failures to build the life that they really wanted on everyone and everything else, except
00:06:59.440 themselves.
00:07:00.200 You know, it's, oh, I got screwed.
00:07:02.080 Oh, it's not fair.
00:07:03.320 Oh, it must be nice.
00:07:04.840 That is the fucking losers mantra.
00:07:06.300 I talk about it all the time.
00:07:07.620 The reality of the situation guys is there isn't a fucking magic here.
00:07:12.220 There isn't fucking luck.
00:07:13.340 You know, there's no, what we talk about success fairy that flies down and shits a hundred dollar 1.00
00:07:17.660 bills on people's heads.
00:07:18.680 It just doesn't happen.
00:07:20.380 The secret is to make a plan, execute the plan, come obsessed with the plan and make
00:07:25.580 it your entire life from the time you wake up to the time you go to bed for 20 fucking 0.98
00:07:30.180 years.
00:07:30.780 And if you do that, you'll get where you want to be.
00:07:33.100 But if you're one of these people who thinks that wealth success in any area, you know,
00:07:38.540 whether it be fitness, whether it be fucking, uh, financial, you know, this entrepreneur
00:07:42.580 podcast, most people here are interested in making money.
00:07:45.840 You know, if you think it's quote unquote, just going to happen, if you're 22 years old
00:07:49.560 and you think that eventually, cause this is a lot of, I see this a lot of times with
00:07:53.840 22 year olds.
00:07:55.240 Uh, you know, eventually I'm going to be a bestselling author.
00:07:57.620 Eventually I'm going to be a fucking millionaire.
00:07:59.280 Eventually I'm going to blah, blah, blah.
00:08:00.720 Eventually I'm going to drive a Lamborghini, but yet they're going, you're going home at night
00:08:04.600 and you're spending your time playing call of fucking duty or fucking star Wars or whatever 0.97
00:08:09.260 the fucking game is out now, dude, no, you're not going to be that. 0.91
00:08:13.460 It takes dedication.
00:08:15.060 It takes time.
00:08:15.980 It takes effort.
00:08:16.780 It takes obsessive, compulsive, ridiculous amounts of effort.
00:08:21.720 And if you think it takes anything else, you're underestimating the amount of work that
00:08:25.340 it fucking takes.
00:08:26.500 And so do yourselves a favor.
00:08:29.060 Next time somebody who's successful talks to you about your goals, be fucking honest.
00:08:33.460 If you're going to sit around and play fucking video games, don't talk about how you're going
00:08:37.160 to be a fucking millionaire.
00:08:38.180 Cause you ain't going to be all right.
00:08:40.100 You better dedicate every fucking second of every day of every week of every month of
00:08:45.160 every fucking year for a lot of fucking years in a row. 0.95
00:08:47.680 If you ever want to get these kinds of goals, cause they're fucking hard.
00:08:50.820 And that's my message today because I get sick and tired of people telling me how bad
00:08:55.080 they want it yet.
00:08:56.140 Their actions don't back up that statement.
00:08:58.260 Don't be somebody who talks shit.
00:09:00.040 Be somebody who does shit.
00:09:03.460 Don't call on drugs.
00:09:04.460 Never run the sidelines.
00:09:04.540 Never take your day off.
00:09:06.180 Never take your day off.
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