Are Your Goals Really Your Goals？, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO33
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Summary
In this episode of the MFCEO Project, we dive into a topic that has been getting on my nerves for the past few months. It s a simple question... Are your goals really your goals or are they just a dream you have in your head?
Transcript
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Today I'm going to bring you a little Thursday Thunder, short little edition of the podcast
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we're going to cover one particular topic in general that has been getting on my nerves
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every day it seems for the past months, two months, three months in a row to where I feel
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like it's something that is obvious to most people but I want to hit on this man.
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I see so many guys and talk to so many people on a daily basis whether it be out at the grocery
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store or in the gym or wherever I happen to be and we talk and we talk about, hey Andy,
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I listen to the podcast, blah, blah, blah, or I see people on Periscope, hey Andy, what
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And the conversation always comes to this point of, hey, I'm working on this project.
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I do this so that I can bring you guys knowledge, bring you guys information, bring you guys
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subject matter that will help you get to at a minimum where I'm at, if not further in
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This is something I do because I love doing it.
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Every time I talk to somebody, they tell me their goal.
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And they tell me, hey, I'm going to try to build this multimillion dollar business.
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That's like the best piece of advice you could ever have in the world.
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Quit saying, I'm trying to do this and just say, I'm doing this.
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It helps get you going on the right path to where you're no longer trying because trying
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insinuates, I'm trying and failing at doing this.
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You either are fucking doing it or you aren't doing it.
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And the other thing is, is I'm going to do this one day.
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What do you mean you're going to do this one day?
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You know, I see people that say they have these huge dreams, be a millionaire, be a, first
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of all, being a millionaire is not even a huge fucking dream.
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Second of all, be a, be a, you know, a hundred millionaire, be a billionaire.
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Yet I see some of these people on fucking Facebook and I see some of these people in
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real life, you know, and what are they doing at night?
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They're fucking playing video games or they're watching Monday night football or on Sundays
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they're taking the day off and they're resting bullshit.
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People say, and that's the question I want to bring to you guys today real quick.
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Because it's easy to say, Hey, I want to be this.
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But unless your actions on a daily basis reflect that goal every single time, every single
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move, every single fucking second that you're awake, your goals aren't really your goals.
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Are the things you want really the things you want?
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We tell ourselves constantly, I want to earn this much money.
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I want to be with this kind of man or this kind of woman.
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I want to insert whatever the goal you could possibly have for yourself is.
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What I just said a minute ago, if your actions aren't backing up your goals, those are not your
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For me, there's nothing more annoying than people that just talk shit, all right?
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Because I know what it fucking takes to come from zero dollars or to build yourself up from
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60, $70,000 in credit card debt and to risk everything and to have your nuts on the line.
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And when you just talk that shit without backing it up, it makes people like me look at you
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and fucking resent you because you're discounting the work that it takes to get where
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you, where you want to say, where you say you want to be, you know, everybody today, it
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seems like everybody wants to wait and put off the things they truly want in their lives,
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you know, for tomorrow, you know, the mystical place where 99% of dreams, human achievement,
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You know, it's not about let's get shit done today.
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It's not about let's obsess every fucking second of every fucking day to getting to where
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And if you're not obsessed every single second of every single day of every single fucking
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week of the year with achieving your goals, I'm going to tell you something.
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You're never going to fucking achieve them because I, because right now you're not understanding
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what it truly takes to get to where you want to be.
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I can think of all these people that I went to school with in college and high school who's,
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you know, they all said, oh, I want to be a millionaire.
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And they're in a situation where they think that fucking, they, they tell people and themselves
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that, you know, people like me are materialistic bullshit.
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And I don't want to hear any bullshit about, oh, you know, it's not cool to win.
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And thinking about winning in any other way, dude, you're just lying to yourself.
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You know, and, and for these people who cry and whine and moan, you know, the reality
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You know, they go through the motions with no passion, no purpose.
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They expect everything to fall in line for them, quote unquote, eventually.
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And when it doesn't, they become bitter and blame their lack of success in life and their
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failures to build the life that they really wanted on everyone and everything else, except
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The reality of the situation guys is there isn't a fucking magic here.
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You know, there's no, what we talk about success fairy that flies down and shits a hundred dollar
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The secret is to make a plan, execute the plan, come obsessed with the plan and make
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it your entire life from the time you wake up to the time you go to bed for 20 fucking
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And if you do that, you'll get where you want to be.
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But if you're one of these people who thinks that wealth success in any area, you know,
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whether it be fitness, whether it be fucking, uh, financial, you know, this entrepreneur
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podcast, most people here are interested in making money.
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You know, if you think it's quote unquote, just going to happen, if you're 22 years old
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and you think that eventually, cause this is a lot of, I see this a lot of times with
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Uh, you know, eventually I'm going to be a bestselling author.
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Eventually I'm going to be a fucking millionaire.
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Eventually I'm going to drive a Lamborghini, but yet they're going, you're going home at night
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and you're spending your time playing call of fucking duty or fucking star Wars or whatever
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the fucking game is out now, dude, no, you're not going to be that.
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It takes obsessive, compulsive, ridiculous amounts of effort.
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And if you think it takes anything else, you're underestimating the amount of work that
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Next time somebody who's successful talks to you about your goals, be fucking honest.
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If you're going to sit around and play fucking video games, don't talk about how you're going
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You better dedicate every fucking second of every day of every week of every month of
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every fucking year for a lot of fucking years in a row.
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If you ever want to get these kinds of goals, cause they're fucking hard.
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And that's my message today because I get sick and tired of people telling me how bad