Five Days In, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO118
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Summary
It s the 5th of January and we re already 5 days into the new year. How many of you have already failed to stick to your New Years Resolutions? How many have already made a resolution to do the extra 10 minutes or 10 pages of reading every day and already aren t doing it? You re not going to fall out of love with the idea of success if you re not in love with executing on it.
Transcript
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Hey guys, what's up? You're listening to the MFCEO Project. I'm Andy. I'm your host and
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I am the motherfucking CEO. Guys, this is your first time listening. Welcome. This podcast
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is probably going to be a punch right in the fucking teeth for you. It's going to be the
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shit that you need to hear versus what all your friends tell you and what you want to
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hear. Today is going to be no different. Today is going to be an extra special New Year's
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version of the Thursday Thunder. Okay, here we are. It's the 5th of January. We're five
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days in. We have all these people who have set all these special resolutions, who decided
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they're going to do all these things and become all these great things over the next 12 months.
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And that's great. I'm happy that at least you're setting goals, but let's be real.
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How many of you have already faltered? How many of you have already skipped a workout? How many
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of you have already fucked up on your diet? How many of you have already decided to not
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make those phone calls or send those emails or do the extra things that you said you were
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going to do? How many of you made a resolution to wake up earlier and you're already not doing
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it? How many of you made a resolution to do the extra 10 minutes or 10 pages of reading every
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day and already aren't doing it? Five days in. See, I know for a fact that a lot of you
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listening, more than half statistically, have already done those things. You've already decided
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that these things were too hard for you to do. And then what you're going to do is the next 12
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months, you're going to end up doing the same fucking shit you did for the last 12 months. And
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you're going to buy everybody's special business program and listen to these special podcasts and do
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these, these special, uh, focus groups. Okay. The networking groups. Do you ever wonder why people
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go to networking groups? It's because they don't have anything to offer and they fucking meet up with
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a lot of other people who don't have anything to offer. And they talk about what the fuck they're
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going to do. You people who have already fallen off five days in need to seriously evaluate what the
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fuck it is you want from life. If you can't stick to something for five fucking days,
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you deserve to have a shitty life. You deserve to get your ass kicked. You deserve to be miserable.
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We're talking about five fucking days. We're not talking about 50 years. We're not talking about
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the five years it probably takes to build something worthwhile. We're not talking about the five months
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it could take for you to lose a hundred pounds. We're talking about five fucking days and you can't
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even stick to it for that. So what the fuck do you think you deserve? You deserve exactly what you
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get. And that's the truth. That's the things your friends won't tell you when you're bitching and
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moaning about how your life sucks on Friday night, drinking a fucking brewski with your boys.
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That's the shit your mom won't tell you when you're sitting in your mom's basement playing fucking
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video games. When it's when you should be reading or improving or working out or fucking doing
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something. I'll tell you right now, I'm sick of hearing it. I get fucking thousand emails a day
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on the MS CEO project. And I don't doubt for a second that all of you love the idea of success,
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but the idea of success and actually executing and being a practitioner of success are two different
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things. Who the fuck wouldn't like the idea of success? Everybody likes the idea of success.
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everybody wants to be ripped. Everybody wants to be jacked. Everybody wants to look like a fucking
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model. Everybody wants to have millions of fucking dollars in their bank account. And anybody who says
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they don't want those things is full of fucking shit. But going out and doing those things, going out
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and building a plan backwards from that point that you want to be and going through the day to day to
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day actions of building that, you don't love that idea. That's not your main love. You like the idea
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of success as long as it's fucking easy. As long as it doesn't take dedication. As long as it doesn't
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take you having to do things that you don't feel like doing when you don't feel like doing them.
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See, you need to decide if you're in love with the idea of success or if you're in love with success,
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success is grind. Success is work. Success is hustle. And more than anything, success is executing
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on a day by day by day basis. Okay? You're not going to snap your fucking fingers when you're a
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certain age and be wealthy. It's not just going to fall out of the fucking sky. You're not going to
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have the success store come and drop a bunch of gold coins on your fucking melon. No, you are going
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to have to work. Think about all the people that say and comment and email and talk like this. Man,
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one day if I have this, I'm going to do this. What do you mean if you have this? What do you mean if
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you? Why don't you go out and make it fucking happen? That's what successful people do. They don't
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talk about what if I have this. Maybe one day if the magic wand waves above my head that doesn't
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actually exist, but I believe it exists because I'm a fucking pussy and can't take control of my own
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life. And if I do those things and I'm lucky enough and the good Lord blesses me with enough
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and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Every single statement
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that takes control from their hands and puts it on somebody else's hands. If you're that person,
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you deserve what you fucking get, which is going to be nothing period. So you have a choice.
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We're five days in and maybe you have fucked up. Maybe you have made some mistakes. Maybe you have
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slipped off the wagon already, but we are five fucking days in. We are not five months in. We're
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not fucking 10 months in. We're five days in. Pull your fucking pants up, put your big boy boots on
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and get to fucking work and quit being a goddamn pussy because pussies don't fucking make it.
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You could go back and find the tactical solution to this right now by going back and listen to the
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podcast. Win every day. Win the day. Whatever the fuck it's called. Go back and listen to it.
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Figure out where it is you want to be. Build a list of the daily tasks that you need to do to get there
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on a day-by-day basis. Do those tasks and guess what's going to happen? Your little resolutions that
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you decided to make that you've already fucking slipped up on will start to come in focus and
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you'll start to get closer and those things will start to be more a part of your life.
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But if you quit now, you might as well just fucking quit forever because I'm so sick and tired of
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seeing and hearing and listening to people who make up all these goals and do nothing about them.
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Five fucking days in. We're five days in. Five days in. Do you have what it takes?
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Do you love success or do you love the idea of success? Some of y'all need to do some soul