REAL AF with Andy Frisella - May 25, 2017


It Matters What People Think, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO147

Topics
being a good person
Hosted by
Andy Frisella
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Episode Stats


Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

176.96

Word count

1,880

Sentence count

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Harmful content

Misogyny

1

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Toxicity

54

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Hate speech

23

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Summary

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In this episode, I talk about how to become a bad motherfucker, and why it's important to have a bad attitude in order to be successful in your career, in your relationships, and in your life.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 what is up guys you're listening to the mf ceo project i'm andy i'm your host and i am the 0.75
00:00:11.740 motherfucking ceo guys the reason this is called the mf ceo project is because i am here to help 0.98
00:00:20.620 you realize what it takes to become the ceo of you all right and why the mf why the motherfucking 0.99
00:00:28.680 ceo because what fun is life going through being a timid meek wallflower okay if this is what you want 1.00
00:00:39.640 to be this podcast isn't for you this is the how to become a bad motherfucker live your life with 1.00
00:00:45.300 control live your life with power live your life with confidence and have a great fucking time doing 0.99
00:00:50.780 it all right on tuesday we have a longer more practical podcast with my co-host vaughn the 0.93
00:00:57.340 impaler the pastor of disaster as most of you know and on thursdays we have thursday thunder
00:01:04.300 sometimes it's friday fire depending on the schedule that we have for the week today is thursday thunder
00:01:10.700 and i want to talk about something that i see more and more and more of that you guys need
00:01:16.960 to really think about all right we live in this society now where everybody wants to be real
00:01:23.820 everybody's trying to be real everybody wants to give zero fucks all right you see it everywhere 0.99
00:01:30.320 you see fucking people say it you see people wearing it you see people talking about it i give 1.00
00:01:36.140 zero fucks i don't give a fuck what anybody thinks about me well motherfucker let me break it to you 1.00
00:01:41.600 unless you're at the top of the fucking food chain you better fucking worry about it because you're not 1.00
00:01:47.960 going to get any very far by going through life with an attitude of like take it or leave it i am 0.99
00:01:52.880 who i am i know that's the pop culture thing i know that's the the uh the young people thing i'm going
00:02:00.100 to be me and if you don't like it uh you know you're judging me well yeah that's what the world
00:02:04.700 does the world judges you and the world judges you and the result of the world judging you is the
00:02:09.120 amount of money you make uh the opportunities you have uh the connections you make and a whole bunch 0.98
00:02:14.700 of other shit that can make your life very fucking fun or very fucking miserable so you better be 0.98
00:02:20.580 thinking about your attitude and what you put out and how you feel about other people especially if 0.99
00:02:27.780 you're coming up you're at the beginning of the stage you're not going to get very far if you come in 0.97
00:02:33.460 to a new job or a new company or a new opportunity saying take it or leave it i'm fucking me and that's 1.00
00:02:39.120 that that might work if you're a fucking celebrity or if you're a rock star or if you're a fucking 0.99
00:02:44.260 you know somebody that has uh massive influence already you might be able to be a character but 0.99
00:02:50.820 at the end of the day man it matters what people think and you better give a fuck if you plan on 0.99
00:02:56.360 doing anything with your life so with that being said let's stop with the i'll give zero fucks 0.99
00:03:03.600 bullshit all right the people who say i give zero fucks are the people who give the most fucks 0.99
00:03:08.920 that's the truth everybody fucking knows it if you've got to go out of your way to talk about 1.00
00:03:14.780 how much you don't give a fuck about what other people think that means you're the most insecure 1.00
00:03:19.540 motherfucker on the face of the earth because the people who really don't care don't even care to say 0.99
00:03:24.380 that so think about that the next time you say that on top of all the other implications now with 0.98
00:03:30.700 that being said i want to give you guys a very useful very impactful very important tool to use
00:03:41.340 to help you guys become successful if you're struggling in your career if you're struggling
00:03:47.240 in a relationship if you're struggling in life it's going to come down to this what i'm about to talk
00:03:53.300 about 99 of the time all right because opportunity doesn't just come out of anywhere opportunities
00:04:00.820 come from other people they come from other people's perception of you they come from other
00:04:06.020 people's perception of your character they come from other people's perception of how much they like you 0.97
00:04:11.960 okay and that's where opportunities come from they don't just fall out of the fucking sky on your lap 0.91
00:04:16.780 they come through connecting with other people and if you don't become amazing at connecting with
00:04:23.060 other people you're not going to get very far all right so i want to teach you guys and tell you
00:04:28.480 guys something that i learned a long time ago that has really really been impactful not only on myself
00:04:34.620 but on my employees that work in our companies uh our our outside sales reps our inside staff
00:04:41.000 it's something that just really makes a gigantic difference in how you go through life and i want to teach
00:04:49.560 you this okay imagine if every single person and this is the tool by the way imagine if every single
00:04:57.660 person that you came in contact with every person you had a conversation with every person you met
00:05:04.180 every person you saw every person that you saw and made eye contact with but didn't even get a chance
00:05:10.300 to talk to every single person you called on in business every single person period that you came in contact
00:05:17.320 with wrote a review on the internet for the whole world to see about their perception of that interaction
00:05:26.700 what would you change about how you treat people 0.99
00:05:29.940 a lot of you guys are saying well i wouldn't change very much bullshit and that's why you'll be fucking broke 0.97
00:05:39.640 let's be real 99 of you listening right now will try to turn it on and turn it off when it's when it's 0.99
00:05:49.180 necessary when it suits you you'll you'll turn on the charm and the politeness and the manners and the
00:05:56.220 treating people right when you think it's going to get something for you when you're on a sales call or
00:06:01.020 you're trying to make a business contact you'll you'll do everything you'll treat people perfectly
00:06:05.580 but when when you don't think it's going to serve you and when you don't think it matters you'll
00:06:11.580 treat people totally different you won't be on and the key is guys is to be on all the time and let
00:06:18.640 the on become part of your character part of your personality and guys i'm not going to sit here and
00:06:24.640 say i'm perfect because there is times when i'm mad or i'm in a bad mood or stress is hitting me or i'm
00:06:29.800 having things not go my way and you know what it's hard to fucking be nice to everybody and it's hard 0.82
00:06:35.120 to like go over the top for people and make an amazing impression so they'll give you that five 0.75
00:06:40.760 star review but that's what you got to shoot for you've got to shoot for it because if you shoot
00:06:48.240 for it on a daily basis if you're always working you're always on you're always trying to to make
00:06:54.360 people around you feel good have great opinions of you and and help them and create value for them
00:07:00.680 and do everything you can so that you'll get an over-the-top five-star raving review
00:07:05.500 you are going to fucking win you're going to have amazing opportunities presented to you you're going
00:07:12.600 to have make more money you're going to meet better people you're going to be invited to new 0.99
00:07:17.220 opportunities you're going to be invited to new circles that can create opportunities so many things
00:07:23.020 come from this guys and the reason this doesn't work for you all the time is because you're trying 0.78
00:07:28.200 to turn it on when you think matters it's not when you think it matters because it all fucking matters 0.92
00:07:33.900 you don't know who that guy is across the room that you gave a dirty look to you don't know who uh that 0.95
00:07:40.600 woman that you didn't hold the door for or that man you didn't hold the door for going to the grocery 0.61
00:07:45.340 store you don't know what that person does or what they could possibly do for you that could be the 1.00
00:07:50.880 person that changes your fucking life but because you were a dick and fucking closed the door and 0.99
00:07:56.240 were rude you didn't even get a chance to meet them you have no idea the implications of what i'm 1.00
00:08:03.480 talking about could be and i would say the reason that one of the biggest reasons that i've found
00:08:09.420 somewhat a level of financial success and i have a long way to go so but i mean i'm doing all right
00:08:15.200 and one of the reasons i've i've done as well as i have at this age is because i live this every day
00:08:20.740 i don't try to turn it on i don't try to turn it off it has become who i am i try to make everybody
00:08:27.860 feel important i try to make everybody feel good and i try to do everything i can to create value 0.96
00:08:33.240 whether it be the fucking janitor or whether it be the ceo it doesn't matter because it's part of my 0.87
00:08:39.740 character and guys when you when you say oh well when you start pre-qualifying your your your 0.99
00:08:45.860 interactions with people well oh i gotta do this one better than this one over here dude you're gonna 0.91
00:08:50.400 fuck up you've got to be a hundred percent a hundred percent of the time and if you are struggling in 0.92
00:08:56.260 life if you're struggling with money if you're not having the opportunities that you think you should 0.99
00:09:01.200 have i guarantee you it's because you're not living this on a day-to-day basis okay
00:09:09.120 so many people miss the mark with this they they they try to overthink it they try to manipulate it 0.98
00:09:16.820 they try to like turn on the charm dude anybody with the fucking brain can see when someone's turning 0.97
00:09:22.720 it on or turning it off or when it's genuine and authentic or whether it's fake the key is to be 0.98
00:09:29.320 fucking authentic with it a hundred percent of the time so that every single possible opportunity that 0.72
00:09:35.200 you have in life is going to at least show itself in some way it isn't rocket science guys it's being 0.97
00:09:44.220 a good person it's doing the right thing it's treating people with respect it's going above and
00:09:49.120 beyond to give far more than you receive and if you could grasp that concept and it's hard to grasp 0.99
00:09:56.660 that concept when you're fucking broke and you're eating ramen and you can't pay your fucking bills and 0.97
00:10:02.240 you don't see anything positive happening it's natural to want to take but that is when it's 0.98
00:10:07.580 most important to be the person who gives to be the person who contributes to be the person who makes 0.99
00:10:15.000 other people benefit from your fucking presence it's not what's in it for you it's what you can fucking do 0.99
00:10:24.140 for others 1.00
00:10:35.360 you