Make Your Now Resolution, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO110
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Summary
I want to be a motherfucking hustler. You better ask somebody. I m calling BS on people who are setting new year's resolutions for next year. You re not going to live up to your potential if you re looking for a reason to wait.
Transcript
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I want to be a motherfucking hustler. You better ask somebody.
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What is up guys? You're listening to the MFCEO Project. I'm Andy. I'm your host and I am the
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motherfucking CEO. Here we are guys. Thursday Thunder. If you're new to this, this is where
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you're going to come in. I'm going to punch you right in the fucking mouth and you're going to
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walk away and question your whole existence. Maybe it's not that extreme, but that's the
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theme of Thursday Thunder. My goal is to get you to think. It's to get you to question yourself.
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It's to get you motivated and fired up to go out and kick some ass. There's lots of podcasts out
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there that will fluff you up and make you feel good about yourself and tell you how unique and
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delicate and beautiful you are. This isn't one of them. I'm going to tell you what you need to hear,
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not what you want to hear. And there's a big fucking difference there. All right. People
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will always tell you what you want to hear. They will rarely tell you what you need to hear. So
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if you're new to this, it's going to be eyeopening. If you are not new to this and you are somebody
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who is consistently listening, congratulations. You're not a pussy. All right. But listening to
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any information, taking in any information, being a student of anyone and not going out and putting
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the principles in play on a consistent basis doesn't make you any better than somebody who
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doesn't listen at all. Now, here we are almost through 2016. Today is December 1st, 2016. It's been
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11 months. Look back at your life over the last 11 months. What have you accomplished? Have you done
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what you said you were going to do on January 1st last year? Did you stick to your new year's
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resolutions? Did you follow through? Or did you wait? And did you try to look for the next
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reason that you're going to start after this? Whether that be your fitness or whether that be
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your business or whether that be your relationships or whether it be something completely off the radar
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that I'm missing? Did you do it? Or did you just talk about doing it? Did you just tell yourself,
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I'm going to do it after Valentine's Day or after this vacation or on Monday or after Aunt Susie's
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wedding or after our wedding? Guys, if you always look for a reason to wait, you will always find a
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reason to wait. Doing anything successful, doing anything important, doing anything rewarding is going
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to make you inconvenient. It's going to make you feel as if you're doing things that are hard because
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they are fucking hard. All right? Something that's been getting on my nerves lately is that here we are
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on December 1st with 31 days left in the year and I already see people
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talking about their new year's resolutions for next year and I'm going to bet you any amount of money
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that those people and you people who are saying this made the same resolutions on January 1st that
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you're planning on making 31 days from now. I'm calling bullshit. When is it going to be time for
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you to quit lying to yourself? Okay? You don't have to tell yourself that lie of I'm going to start
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after New Year's again just so you can coast another 30 days and be comfortable another 30 days and drink
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beer and hang out and eat pizza and not do your fucking work for another 30 days.
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You don't have to. It's a hell of a lot easier just to accept that you're going to be a fucking
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average motherfucker and you're going to be what you are and you're going to be who you are than it is
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to put yourself through the agony again and again and again. You do this every year. You do this all the
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time. You do it multiple times a year and it kills your happiness. It kills your drive. It kills your
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self-worth and your self-confidence. It makes you feel like shit. So just accept who the fuck you are
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and be happy with it. It's a lot less agonizing. You know, if you're the kind of person that's willing
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to scrap another 30 days until I'm going to really do it this time, your chances of success,
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whatever success means to you are fucking zilch. Okay? And this attitude of waiting and looking for
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a reason and looking for another amount of time or another event to put off your actions for is a
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super, super focused, accurate reflection of attitude that's gotten you to the place that you are right
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now currently anyway. There's always going to be a reason to wait. There's always going to be something
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that is inconvenient for you to work through. There's always going to be an event. There's
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always going to be a busy schedule. There's always going to be something unexpected that happens.
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It's always going to be that way. You have to fucking work through it.
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Just, it's so frustrating to hear people talk like this because this is the way they go through life.
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Just like there's always going to be a reason for you to start now, there's always going to be a
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reason for you to get focused now, and there's always going to be a reason for you to do what
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it takes now if you want it bad enough. But a lot of you motherfuckers just don't want it.
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Whether it's your career, your fitness, your relationship, or whatever, it's easy to fall into the
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loving the idea of something. And it's hard to fall into the habits of action to actually achieve
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something. And that's what most of these people do out there. And maybe this is you. It probably
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is a lot of you because I know a lot of you, even though you claim to be the doers and the go-getters
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and the we're going to go kick ass people because you follow the podcast and I say fuck and I curse
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and I sound hardcore. You think you're the hardcore, but I'm going to tell you right now,
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unless you're out doing this shit, you fucking aren't. You're playing the fucking role. And
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there's a big difference between playing the fucking role and actually being the fucking role.
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And I'll tell you what, man, I've seen a lot of motherfuckers on my Instagram and a lot of
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motherfuckers on my Facebook and a lot of people who claim to get ready to do something this year,
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they were going to change the world, they were going to do this, they were going to start a
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business, they were going to get in shape, they were going to do this, this, this, this, this,
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who haven't done shit. And I'm going to tell you right now, those same people are the same people
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who comment shit like this. Oh, Andy, I really needed that today. Well, motherfucker, if you need
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what I fucking have to give you every day, you ain't ever going to get it because that shit comes from
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your fucking heart. So don't fucking comment on my shit saying, oh, I really need that every day.
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Sure, you can wait another 30 fucking days. But the truth of it is, you're not going to start in
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30 fucking days, you're going to start for one day, and then you're going to quit. I've said it a
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million fucking times, guys, success is hard. And you either are or you aren't. Unless you're committed
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a hundred percent to making your goals materialize, no matter what fucking obstacles or inconveniences
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you may face, you just aren't going to make it. The processes of success are always inconvenient
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in the beginning. They don't stay that way. If you stick with it, if you give it time, if you work
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through the inconveniences, they become habit. And when your actions become habit, guess what? They
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are done with passive effort, passive thought. It's just something automatic. And if you can create
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automatic actions that are positive in your life, you're going to create automatic winning.
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I don't understand how hard that is for some of you to understand. You know, everybody's talking about
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these new year's resolutions and all this fucking bullshit. Dude, success is about now resolutions.
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It ain't about new year's resolutions. It ain't about after your fucking birthday. It's not about
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after the wedding or after the vacation or after this or after that. It's about right fucking now.
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Now resolutions are the only thing that give fucking results. So you have two choices. You could be the
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guy who is going to make new year's resolution number 47 or 32 or 23, or you could be the guy
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who's going to make now resolution number one and actually make shit happen.
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This is for the G's and this is for the Hustler. This is for the Hustler. It's not back to the G's.