REAL AF with Andy Frisella - Recalibrate, Part 1： Success, with Andy Frisella

00:00:00.000 I wanna be a motherfucking hustler, you better ask somebody

00:00:03.760 What is up guys, you're listening to the MFCEO Project

00:00:14.760 I'm Andy, I'm your host, and I am the motherfucking CEO

00:00:18.920 Guys, listen, the point of this podcast is for you to become the MFCEO of you

00:00:26.940 And I touch on this almost every podcast because we're growing so fast

00:00:30.540 We're gaining new listeners, and I want people to understand what we're doing here

00:00:34.220 We are a movement, this is a project

00:00:38.520 This is about re-instilling the values that built this amazing country that most of us live in

00:00:45.580 Now I know a lot of you guys don't live here, and a lot of you guys probably don't like America

00:00:49.320 And to you guys I say, fuck off

00:00:52.100 But, here's the deal, hard work, perseverance, taking responsibility, being a good motherfucker

00:01:00.700 Those are all important, and what we're gonna talk about is how parallel the values are of entrepreneurship

00:01:07.280 And also living a productive life

00:01:12.180 Okay, so while this is technically a business podcast

00:01:15.600 You have to realize that you are the business of you

00:01:18.480 And what better way to be in business for yourself than to be the motherfucking CEO of you

00:01:24.420 And that means you're gonna go through life kicking ass, taking names

00:01:28.180 And everybody's gonna look at you and wonder how the fuck you became so awesome

00:01:32.680 That's the goal of this podcast, alright

00:01:34.760 Of course, there's some satire, some sarcasm there

00:01:38.500 But the reality is, we're gonna make you better

00:01:42.060 Okay, that's our goal

00:01:43.380 I'm here, as always, with my co-host

00:01:45.980 Vaughn the Impaler, the pastor of Disaster

00:01:52.120 Who, thanks to you, has received quite a few grand pies

00:01:55.820 All the grand pies, baby

00:01:56.960 And the grand pies are just flowing

00:01:58.580 Yeah

00:01:59.060 It's crazy

00:01:59.920 Now, I would normally ask Vaughn what's good or what's up

00:02:04.840 But I already know what's good and what's up today

00:02:06.700 Because we have a very, very, very important project

00:02:12.220 That him and I have been working on for a long time

00:02:15.600 That many, many, many, many, many of you ask about every single day

00:02:20.760 When is the book coming out?

00:02:23.060 When is the book coming out?

00:02:24.160 Andy, you should write a book

00:02:25.420 Well, guess what, motherfuckers?

00:02:27.760 A book has been written

00:02:30.460 That's how Mike Tyson would say it

00:02:32.220 And not only has it been written

00:02:36.660 It is actually here today in my hands

00:02:41.900 Okay?

00:02:43.340 So we haven't announced this because it's a top secret project

00:02:46.900 And you'll understand why when we tell you

00:02:49.620 But we are going to do a Facebook Live about this very, very soon

00:02:54.960 We're gonna do a Facebook Live on my personal Facebook

00:02:58.220 To announce what the book is, what it's about

00:03:01.580 And let you guys know, you know, where we can get it

00:03:04.700 It's gonna be available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble, everywhere

00:03:07.240 Well, it's gonna be, I mean

00:03:10.840 If everything goes according to our plans

00:03:13.600 It's going to drop

00:03:15.120 I mean, you're gonna do the Facebook Live

00:03:16.660 The night that this podcast actually drops

00:03:19.220 Yeah, tonight

00:03:19.580 So if you're listening right now

00:03:21.200 We're gonna do a podcast tonight at 7 o'clock

00:03:24.820 That is going to let you guys know what this is all about

00:03:29.280 So if you're listening and it's not 7 o'clock yet

00:03:32.760 And if it's 6.58, stop the podcast

00:03:34.940 Go to my personal Facebook

00:03:37.080 And we'll tell you all about what we've got cooking

00:03:39.200 Yeah, so that'd be December 6th

00:03:40.900 Yes

00:03:41.160 For those of you who need to

00:03:42.660 Today, December 6th

00:03:43.720 The day you're listening to this podcast

00:03:44.980 December 6th, yes

00:03:45.860 Like, otherwise known as today

00:03:47.200 Yes

00:03:47.580 Right?

00:03:48.240 Exactly

00:03:48.560 Grandpa?

00:03:49.280 Yeah, exactly, Grandpa

00:03:50.420 So, guys, that's the big news

00:03:53.540 That's what we've got up

00:03:54.600 You know, we talk about the book

00:03:56.720 Vaughn and I have been working on

00:03:58.220 This is how the podcast even started, guys

00:04:00.120 A lot of people ask, how did you start a podcast?

00:04:01.560 I got asked at an interview yesterday

00:04:03.120 I did an interview for Inc

00:04:05.540 And they asked me

00:04:08.140 How'd you come up with the idea for the podcast?

00:04:10.000 Well, actually, the podcast came about

00:04:12.020 Because of the books that Vaughn and I have been working on

00:04:14.740 For the last two and a half years

00:04:16.200 And we were audio recording the chapters

00:04:19.120 And I don't remember how it came up

00:04:22.540 But people kept

00:04:23.400 We kept posting the videos on

00:04:25.160 That's how it came up

00:04:26.840 We kept posting the video clips on Instagram

00:04:28.760 And people were like

00:04:30.080 Well, where can I listen to this podcast?

00:04:31.200 I'm like, podcast?

00:04:32.180 I don't have a fucking podcast

00:04:32.920 And I had to, like, explain it, like, 30 times

00:04:35.660 Before I realized and it clicked

00:04:37.240 Fuck, we should have a podcast

00:04:39.060 You know, and so that's how the idea for the podcast came about

00:04:43.260 And many of our awesome ideas come from you guys

00:04:46.600 But that even makes this, what we're doing here, cooler

00:04:51.280 Because it's a true community

00:04:52.580 It's not

00:04:53.300 It's not some dude out there

00:04:57.700 Talking down to you peasants

00:04:59.780 You know, and

00:05:00.820 No, I'm a regular guy

00:05:02.780 Just like all you guys

00:05:03.960 Who happen to do a couple things in life

00:05:06.120 And I want to share with you

00:05:07.280 How those things happened

00:05:08.620 Now, as always

00:05:11.540 You know, we don't have a program

00:05:13.140 We don't have a mastermind course

00:05:15.420 We don't have all these ways

00:05:16.860 To, like, suck the money out of your pocket

00:05:18.320 And we don't ask for anything

00:05:19.880 So what I do ask for in return

00:05:22.300 Is to share the podcast with your friends

00:05:24.860 That's all we ask for, okay

00:05:26.080 If you find this podcast valuable

00:05:29.220 If you think that, you know, it helped you

00:05:31.640 If you liked it

00:05:32.420 Share it with your friends, man

00:05:33.780 A lot of people are trying to get back on track

00:05:35.600 A lot of people are trying to find that rhythm in life

00:05:37.760 And I think this podcast can help them

00:05:40.720 And if you think so, too

00:05:41.580 Share it

00:05:42.620 That's all we ask

00:05:43.720 Absolutely

00:05:44.060 The only other thing I would say about your announcement tonight

00:05:46.340 Grandpa?

00:05:47.100 Yes, exactly

00:05:47.860 The only thing

00:05:48.580 The other thing I'd say

00:05:49.680 Is that, you know, as you've said

00:05:52.360 We've got a handful of books coming out

00:05:53.640 In the next couple years

00:05:55.040 This one tonight

00:05:57.780 As all of ours are

00:05:59.600 We're not just looking for it to be

00:06:01.420 A New York Times bestseller

00:06:02.660 No

00:06:03.080 We're literally looking for it to reshape culture

00:06:05.020 Yes, absolutely

00:06:05.720 That's what we're going to cover

00:06:06.560 We're going to cover that

00:06:07.500 Yeah

00:06:07.820 It is

00:06:08.420 It is a different kind of book

00:06:11.120 Than you could ever fucking imagine

00:06:13.160 It's not been done before

00:06:15.280 It's never been done before

00:06:16.740 It is designed to break down barriers

00:06:19.260 And break down thought processes

00:06:21.540 And break down limitations

00:06:23.300 In a way that you, listening right now

00:06:27.080 Cannot possibly fathom

00:06:28.520 Because it has not been done before

00:06:30.020 And that's a fucking fact

00:06:31.160 And if you tune in, you'll see

00:06:32.340 So

00:06:33.360 So

00:06:35.620 What are we going to talk about today?

00:06:37.700 We have, you know, what?

00:06:39.000 Four or five weeks to the end of the year

00:06:41.220 You know

00:06:43.020 I see a lot of people

00:06:45.040 We just did Thursday Thunder

00:06:46.280 On the NOW resolutions

00:06:47.420 Which was extremely popular

00:06:49.440 Thank you guys

00:06:50.420 Got tons of great feedback

00:06:52.860 On that one already

00:06:53.740 And

00:06:54.560 You know

00:06:55.960 This project that we talk about

00:06:58.980 The MSCEO project

00:07:00.260 It's about action

00:07:02.060 Okay

00:07:02.400 It's about execution

00:07:03.480 And that word is

00:07:04.760 Almost overused now

00:07:06.740 Like, you know

00:07:07.180 See every

00:07:07.720 Every guy out there

00:07:09.260 Every girl out there

00:07:09.880 That's wanting to be something

00:07:10.780 Talking about hustle

00:07:11.800 Talking about execution

00:07:13.020 Talking about getting shit done

00:07:16.460 And

00:07:17.400 While that's all great and good

00:07:19.480 That doesn't mean

00:07:21.480 Action without thinking

00:07:22.980 It doesn't mean

00:07:23.560 Just go out and do mindless acts

00:07:25.200 It doesn't mean

00:07:26.340 Execution without

00:07:28.340 Like reflecting on what your goals are

00:07:30.200 And what you're trying to do

00:07:31.140 You know

00:07:31.780 We talk all the time

00:07:33.420 About how everything positive

00:07:35.460 Starts in the mind

00:07:36.560 And

00:07:37.580 You know

00:07:38.020 Normally on Tuesdays

00:07:39.400 We're super practical

00:07:40.560 But

00:07:41.480 Today

00:07:42.680 I want to do something

00:07:43.680 A little different

00:07:44.320 I want to

00:07:45.140 Do a little podcast

00:07:46.320 That's going to force you

00:07:48.080 To think really hard

00:07:49.480 And

00:07:50.820 Maybe help you get more equipped

00:07:52.720 To act effectively

00:07:54.360 In the next year

00:07:55.460 If you're not already thinking

00:07:57.120 And working

00:07:58.160 And

00:07:58.880 Moving forward

00:08:00.720 In 2017

00:08:01.580 Right now

00:08:03.280 In your mind

00:08:03.780 You're behind the ball

00:08:04.820 Man

00:08:05.160 You know

00:08:05.880 This isn't like

00:08:06.960 Oh I'm going to

00:08:07.560 Scrap the next month

00:08:09.300 And show up on January 1st

00:08:10.700 And be an ass kicker

00:08:11.600 No

00:08:12.200 Let's start now

00:08:13.400 Let's get things going now

00:08:14.880 You know

00:08:17.080 We're talking about things

00:08:18.140 That are very basic

00:08:19.520 But are important to think about

00:08:21.240 You know

00:08:21.820 Success

00:08:22.540 Greatness

00:08:23.220 Motivation

00:08:24.020 Perseverance

00:08:25.340 And

00:08:26.060 You know

00:08:27.540 Our typical approach

00:08:28.540 Is just to have

00:08:29.200 A free ranging conversation

00:08:32.260 In the next couple weeks

00:08:33.680 We're going to do things

00:08:34.580 A little bit different

00:08:35.520 Vaughn

00:08:35.960 Vaughn is going to

00:08:36.700 Become

00:08:37.500 You know

00:08:38.360 The MF

00:08:39.940 The motherfucking

00:08:41.700 Socrates

00:08:42.300 If you will

00:08:43.260 You know

00:08:43.780 And toss out some questions

00:08:45.700 And we're going to have

00:08:46.320 A conversation

00:08:46.980 And it'll be a little more

00:08:48.420 Of an interview style

00:08:49.300 To get you guys

00:08:50.440 Nice and primed

00:08:52.420 For

00:08:53.260 The year coming up

00:08:54.660 You know

00:08:55.740 This week

00:08:56.160 We're going to talk about

00:08:56.700 Basic principle

00:08:57.520 Basic principle

00:08:58.780 Success

00:08:59.140 Right?

00:08:59.720 Well basically

00:09:00.200 I mean we're going to talk

00:09:01.100 About success as a whole

00:09:02.200 I mean guys

00:09:02.700 This

00:09:02.960 The next four weeks

00:09:04.120 Is designed to sort of

00:09:05.380 Reorient you

00:09:06.260 And recalibrate you

00:09:07.540 And get you ready

00:09:08.460 For

00:09:08.940 2017

00:09:10.120 This is the first of four

00:09:13.100 The first one

00:09:14.140 We're going to talk about

00:09:15.020 Success in general

00:09:16.040 And we're going to go

00:09:16.780 As deep

00:09:17.420 And as rich

00:09:19.400 And multi-layered

00:09:20.720 As we have ever gone before

00:09:22.420 And so I'm just going to

00:09:23.620 Throw out the questions

00:09:24.340 And this is my favorite

00:09:25.560 Thing to do

00:09:26.000 Is just throw out the questions

00:09:26.960 And let Andy

00:09:28.780 Freelance

00:09:29.460 Which

00:09:29.720 Can I say something real quick?

00:09:30.780 Yeah

00:09:30.940 I just

00:09:31.520 It's cool because

00:09:32.820 You know

00:09:34.060 Seeing all this come together

00:09:35.040 Over the past couple years

00:09:36.100 You know

00:09:36.960 This is how empires are built

00:09:38.280 Like

00:09:39.040 You guys

00:09:39.880 Had a conversation

00:09:40.880 And then you took action

00:09:42.280 And a podcast was made

00:09:44.000 Then you did

00:09:45.000 Speaking events

00:09:45.860 Now you're writing books

00:09:47.460 Right

00:09:47.720 This didn't just happen

00:09:48.640 No

00:09:48.900 Like

00:09:49.160 I think that's what you're

00:09:50.120 Trying to say

00:09:50.500 Yes

00:09:50.800 Yeah

00:09:51.060 Like we didn't just

00:09:52.120 Shit this out

00:09:52.780 And it became successful

00:09:53.800 Like

00:09:54.100 Go back and listen

00:09:55.120 To the first couple podcasts

00:09:56.080 We were fucking terrible

00:09:57.140 I mean the content's there

00:09:58.320 But it was bad

00:09:59.820 And this is

00:10:01.500 Yeah you're right

00:10:02.920 It's a case study

00:10:03.780 In how things actually go

00:10:04.920 You know

00:10:05.660 What do we have

00:10:06.920 In our corner

00:10:07.360 I had a huge

00:10:08.600 Social media following

00:10:09.820 Before we started

00:10:10.500 The podcast

00:10:11.120 That helped us

00:10:12.700 Get it going

00:10:13.260 Right

00:10:13.560 But other than that

00:10:14.340 It's the same thing

00:10:15.200 As all the things

00:10:15.920 We talk about

00:10:16.480 Right

00:10:16.960 I mean

00:10:17.260 You and I

00:10:18.600 Talked about that

00:10:19.100 Yesterday

00:10:19.420 Yeah

00:10:19.860 You know

00:10:20.240 So we're

00:10:22.960 No good

00:10:23.540 Good thoughts

00:10:24.120 So

00:10:24.520 We're going

00:10:25.880 Fundamental

00:10:26.940 So the first question

00:10:28.060 That I'll just

00:10:29.140 Toss out to you here

00:10:30.100 Is

00:10:30.360 I mean

00:10:30.960 Obviously anybody

00:10:32.420 Listen to this

00:10:33.160 They want to live

00:10:34.000 A successful life

00:10:34.800 But

00:10:35.520 If you take

00:10:37.100 Somebody's life

00:10:37.640 And you break it up

00:10:38.340 Into different components

00:10:39.300 You know

00:10:41.820 Somebody could be

00:10:42.740 Family

00:10:43.440 You know

00:10:44.080 Family person

00:10:44.720 Or a parent

00:10:45.500 Or somebody can be

00:10:46.600 You know

00:10:46.840 A worker

00:10:47.160 Or whatever

00:10:47.540 In your mind

00:10:48.680 And let's just start

00:10:49.280 Very basically

00:10:49.920 How should the average

00:10:50.960 Person look

00:10:51.720 How should they

00:10:52.860 Divide up their life

00:10:53.780 To where

00:10:54.980 They

00:10:55.200 You know

00:10:55.700 They're going to

00:10:56.040 Evaluate the different

00:10:56.940 Aspects of success

00:10:57.980 Well

00:10:58.640 I can't answer that

00:11:01.120 Because I can't tell

00:11:01.860 People how to live

00:11:02.620 Right

00:11:03.260 Certain people

00:11:04.260 Are

00:11:04.580 You know

00:11:05.080 If you think of it

00:11:05.680 As like

00:11:06.180 Like a

00:11:07.460 A soundboard

00:11:08.780 Right

00:11:09.060 And you've got like

00:11:09.700 Four levels

00:11:10.840 Okay

00:11:11.460 You've got

00:11:12.020 Financial success

00:11:14.240 Okay

00:11:15.040 You know what a soundboard is

00:11:16.060 Absolutely

00:11:16.400 Things slide forward

00:11:17.180 And backwards

00:11:17.540 Right

00:11:17.960 Exactly

00:11:18.240 Then you've got

00:11:19.520 On the next switch

00:11:20.620 You've got

00:11:21.140 Family

00:11:23.380 Okay

00:11:24.220 On the next switch

00:11:25.400 You've got

00:11:26.060 Relationships

00:11:27.600 And on the next switch

00:11:28.720 You've got

00:11:29.340 Fitness

00:11:30.160 Alright

00:11:30.700 And there could be

00:11:31.260 Other switches for other people

00:11:32.340 Such as like

00:11:33.580 Philanthropy

00:11:36.220 Or other things

00:11:36.840 Right

00:11:37.100 Which is

00:11:37.460 That would be on my board

00:11:38.380 And

00:11:39.320 People

00:11:40.720 Tend to like

00:11:42.080 Try to

00:11:43.820 Give

00:11:45.380 All they can

00:11:46.380 To all of those things

00:11:48.060 And push the switches up

00:11:49.360 On all those things

00:11:50.340 And live that way

00:11:52.400 And the truth is

00:11:53.300 You can't

00:11:53.700 You can't live that way

00:11:54.600 Because

00:11:54.900 You can only give so much

00:11:56.380 And so

00:11:57.460 At different

00:11:58.040 My opinion

00:11:58.960 On that

00:11:59.800 Is that

00:12:00.300 At different points

00:12:01.520 Of your life

00:12:02.440 Those

00:12:03.420 Those switches

00:12:04.860 Are going to be

00:12:05.380 Pushed up

00:12:06.080 And pushed down

00:12:06.860 And it's going to be

00:12:07.480 A constant symphony

00:12:08.480 Of trying to manage

00:12:09.540 Those levels

00:12:10.520 I think

00:12:12.920 That most people

00:12:13.880 Look at it

00:12:14.680 On like

00:12:15.060 A per day basis

00:12:16.360 Right

00:12:16.780 They think about

00:12:17.740 Balance

00:12:18.300 Which is the word

00:12:19.400 That goes around

00:12:20.040 That people talk about

00:12:21.060 You know

00:12:21.940 And that's a

00:12:22.380 That's a word

00:12:22.980 Like

00:12:23.240 People who aren't

00:12:24.280 Very successful

00:12:25.040 Use a lot

00:12:25.880 Balance

00:12:26.740 Because they use

00:12:27.520 The word balance

00:12:28.340 To justify

00:12:29.040 You know

00:12:29.960 And morally

00:12:30.680 Like condemn

00:12:31.620 Somebody who's

00:12:32.440 Actually putting

00:12:33.060 Time into other areas

00:12:34.240 That

00:12:34.460 That they aren't

00:12:35.840 Which isn't right

00:12:37.280 You know

00:12:40.700 And they look at it

00:12:41.580 On a per day basis

00:12:42.440 Right

00:12:42.720 I got to get up

00:12:43.400 I got

00:12:44.020 I got 30 minutes

00:12:45.100 To do my fitness

00:12:45.960 I got a fucking

00:12:46.960 Nine hours of work

00:12:48.680 Then I got family time

00:12:50.240 Then I got TV time

00:12:51.360 Which is me time

00:12:52.180 You know

00:12:52.920 And like

00:12:53.420 They try to divide it up

00:12:54.600 On a day

00:12:55.100 And I think that's very

00:12:56.180 Hard to do

00:12:57.720 Because the truth of the matter

00:12:59.600 Is to be really good

00:13:00.660 At all those

00:13:01.320 You've got to go all in

00:13:02.840 On those

00:13:03.540 At certain times

00:13:04.500 You know

00:13:05.200 Right

00:13:05.600 So I think it's more

00:13:07.960 Of a

00:13:08.640 Macro

00:13:09.840 Look

00:13:10.680 Like a

00:13:11.300 Like a

00:13:11.920 A month

00:13:13.100 Or a year

00:13:13.700 Or 10 years

00:13:14.480 Is how you should be

00:13:15.360 Looking at that

00:13:15.880 Versus

00:13:16.760 Looking at it

00:13:17.960 As a

00:13:18.460 As a day

00:13:19.940 You know

00:13:20.980 Schedule

00:13:21.520 Right

00:13:22.020 You know what I mean

00:13:22.500 Like I couldn't build

00:13:23.720 A

00:13:24.120 The business that we have

00:13:26.160 By trying to work

00:13:28.780 Eight hours a day

00:13:29.800 It would be impossible

00:13:31.360 But because

00:13:32.600 I maxed the level out

00:13:34.460 For the last 16 years

00:13:36.720 Now

00:13:37.760 I can pull my level

00:13:39.180 Down a little bit

00:13:40.040 And put my level

00:13:41.100 Up on philanthropy

00:13:42.440 Put my level up

00:13:43.820 On fitness

00:13:44.520 You see what I'm saying

00:13:45.460 Absolutely

00:13:45.940 And so

00:13:46.400 That's

00:13:47.440 You know

00:13:47.920 Or family

00:13:48.740 You know

00:13:49.220 And that's

00:13:49.740 That's how it works

00:13:50.820 And like let's say

00:13:51.500 I had a family right now

00:13:52.480 Which I

00:13:52.820 You know

00:13:53.180 I've got a wife

00:13:53.740 But I don't have any kids

00:13:54.640 But if I did

00:13:55.820 If I did have kids

00:13:57.260 I'd be able to go

00:13:58.620 To their baseball games

00:13:59.460 I'd be able to sponsor

00:14:00.320 Their teams

00:14:00.820 I'd be able to be the coach

00:14:02.020 I'd be able to do all that shit

00:14:03.080 Because you know what

00:14:03.840 Nobody tells me what the fuck to do

00:14:05.180 Right

00:14:05.600 Because I put in all that time

00:14:06.940 Right

00:14:07.460 You know what I mean

00:14:08.000 So it's all about

00:14:09.480 Managing the levels

00:14:11.140 To try to create the life

00:14:13.860 That you want

00:14:14.440 10

00:14:14.920 15 years from today

00:14:16.860 Right

00:14:17.680 Makes sense

00:14:18.380 So let's just jump right into this

00:14:19.860 You have said again

00:14:20.740 And again

00:14:21.160 And again

00:14:21.640 That your definition

00:14:23.040 Of success

00:14:24.420 Is

00:14:25.480 Success is

00:14:26.920 Realizing

00:14:28.140 And pursuing

00:14:29.080 Your own

00:14:30.240 True potential

00:14:31.380 That's right

00:14:31.820 So

00:14:32.300 In the next couple minutes

00:14:35.480 I just want you to unpack that

00:14:36.680 Like you've never unpacked that before

00:14:38.240 So the word

00:14:39.640 Realizing

00:14:41.260 I suppose

00:14:42.800 Can have two meanings

00:14:43.640 It can be realized

00:14:45.480 In the sense of

00:14:46.080 Oh you just discovered

00:14:47.420 The potential you had

00:14:48.680 But it can also mean

00:14:49.800 Realize

00:14:50.300 Like materialize

00:14:51.540 Like make real

00:14:52.700 How do you want us

00:14:54.000 To understand that term

00:14:54.840 Realizing

00:14:55.340 Like I'm being real specific

00:14:56.580 I want to

00:14:56.940 Dude you have to wake up

00:14:58.340 Yeah

00:14:58.640 Okay

00:14:59.040 You have to start

00:15:00.420 Looking at life

00:15:02.060 As a player

00:15:05.860 Not a spectator

00:15:06.780 Okay

00:15:07.580 Most people look at life

00:15:08.600 As a spectator

00:15:09.360 They watch

00:15:11.700 They see

00:15:12.300 They watch reality television

00:15:14.080 They have conversations

00:15:15.600 Like

00:15:16.040 What if

00:15:17.000 Or wouldn't that be cool

00:15:18.240 Or

00:15:18.760 You know

00:15:19.480 One day

00:15:20.140 And

00:15:21.560 Those things

00:15:22.680 Never happen to them

00:15:23.560 Because they're constantly

00:15:24.440 Putting themselves

00:15:25.460 In their mind

00:15:26.320 In a spectator's role

00:15:27.680 Versus being a player's role

00:15:29.080 And

00:15:30.080 That's the first realization

00:15:32.040 That you have to make

00:15:32.940 Is that

00:15:33.360 You have to understand

00:15:34.340 That you could be a player

00:15:35.820 You could be relevant

00:15:37.280 You could be the people

00:15:38.300 That are

00:15:39.320 Getting the attention

00:15:40.520 And commanding the income

00:15:41.520 And I'm not saying

00:15:42.000 Being a movie star

00:15:42.860 But I mean

00:15:43.300 Even a small business

00:15:44.440 You can

00:15:46.020 Dictate

00:15:46.980 A whole lot

00:15:48.820 More than what you realize

00:15:50.180 About your own existence

00:15:51.180 And most people

00:15:52.660 Because of the way

00:15:53.300 They grow up

00:15:53.900 And the

00:15:54.380 The way

00:15:55.720 Society

00:15:56.360 Is designed

00:15:57.460 Don't ever

00:15:59.760 Wake up

00:16:00.360 Because

00:16:00.680 They are

00:16:01.560 Conditioned

00:16:02.220 From day one

00:16:02.900 Go to school

00:16:03.640 Go to college

00:16:06.080 Get married

00:16:06.960 Have two kids

00:16:07.920 Get a job

00:16:09.640 All right

00:16:10.560 Work that job

00:16:11.220 For 30 years

00:16:11.820 And retire

00:16:12.340 And the problem

00:16:14.540 With that

00:16:15.020 Is this

00:16:15.740 Is that

00:16:16.420 When you do that

00:16:18.300 You have to realize

00:16:19.280 That

00:16:19.720 The entire system

00:16:22.000 Is designed

00:16:22.860 For you to be

00:16:24.060 Enslaved

00:16:25.100 In that system

00:16:26.240 You know

00:16:26.680 Get a mortgage

00:16:28.020 Be in debt

00:16:29.880 Make just enough money

00:16:31.460 To get by

00:16:32.060 So you have to work

00:16:33.600 It's designed that way

00:16:35.100 It's designed that way

00:16:36.340 Because

00:16:36.680 The world needs people

00:16:38.140 To work

00:16:38.560 Right

00:16:39.300 And

00:16:40.180 Everything you learn

00:16:41.560 In school

00:16:41.920 Everything you learn

00:16:43.020 Growing up

00:16:43.720 Everything you've

00:16:44.680 Probably witnessed

00:16:45.480 From your parents

00:16:46.120 Has been

00:16:46.760 In that

00:16:47.480 In that

00:16:48.820 Limiting

00:16:49.800 Belief system

00:16:50.940 And so

00:16:52.400 Waking up from that

00:16:53.440 Is very hard

00:16:54.200 For people to do

00:16:54.920 It's because

00:16:55.500 It goes against

00:16:56.700 Everything that

00:16:57.540 They've witnessed

00:16:58.120 I think that

00:17:01.580 Most people

00:17:03.200 That's where

00:17:04.840 They get hung up at

00:17:05.560 You know

00:17:06.060 They are told

00:17:07.560 Their whole lives

00:17:08.200 They're a spectator

00:17:08.980 They've been told

00:17:10.420 Their whole lives

00:17:11.080 That you know

00:17:12.000 That's for other people

00:17:13.200 The shit they watch

00:17:14.360 That's for other people

00:17:15.780 That's not for you

00:17:16.500 You know

00:17:17.100 You're an iron worker

00:17:18.380 You're a railroad guy

00:17:19.760 You're a construction guy

00:17:21.180 You know

00:17:21.820 You're an accountant

00:17:23.400 You're this

00:17:24.460 You know what I mean

00:17:25.240 And that's what they become

00:17:26.180 Right

00:17:26.560 And I'm not saying

00:17:28.180 There's anything wrong

00:17:28.860 With that

00:17:29.260 But I'm also saying

00:17:30.940 That you know

00:17:32.680 It's hard to feel

00:17:34.460 Very fulfilled

00:17:35.200 At the end of your life

00:17:36.160 If you never wake up

00:17:37.600 And realize

00:17:38.840 What you could

00:17:40.000 Actually accomplish

00:17:40.900 And try to accomplish that

00:17:43.020 Because what's going to happen

00:17:44.040 Is you end up

00:17:45.300 Coming to the end

00:17:45.920 Of the road

00:17:46.400 And you look around

00:17:47.440 And you say

00:17:48.020 Man

00:17:48.400 You know

00:17:49.400 What did I do

00:17:50.140 Well I got married

00:17:51.000 I had some kids

00:17:51.940 That was pretty important

00:17:52.860 But other than that

00:17:54.940 You know

00:17:56.040 I just sort of

00:17:56.960 Did what I was supposed to do

00:17:58.740 And I don't think

00:18:01.500 That people are going to feel

00:18:02.220 Very fulfilled about that

00:18:03.500 So you really feel

00:18:04.460 In spite of the fact

00:18:05.160 That we throw around terms like

00:18:06.760 Oh you're special

00:18:07.620 Oh you're so unique

00:18:08.800 That really at the end of the day

00:18:10.300 People really don't

00:18:12.180 Truly believe

00:18:13.280 In the staggering potential

00:18:15.820 That they possess

00:18:16.460 Why would they?

00:18:18.700 Why would they?

00:18:19.820 I don't know

00:18:20.380 I mean how are you going to believe

00:18:21.500 In something that you've been told

00:18:22.600 Your whole life

00:18:23.220 Is for other people?

00:18:24.940 You know what I mean?

00:18:26.320 Right

00:18:26.600 You know there's no reason

00:18:27.620 For them to believe

00:18:28.380 So they never look for it

00:18:30.500 So then they live

00:18:31.440 Their whole life

00:18:32.520 With you know

00:18:34.480 Blinders on

00:18:35.380 Looking in the same direction

00:18:37.000 Not looking outside

00:18:38.400 Of that direction

00:18:39.260 Ever

00:18:39.820 And

00:18:41.980 They sort of

00:18:43.540 Let life

00:18:44.120 Dictate

00:18:44.800 Dude it's like

00:18:45.420 It's like swimming

00:18:46.940 With the stream

00:18:47.540 Versus swimming

00:18:48.080 Against the stream

00:18:48.800 You know what I mean?

00:18:51.780 And

00:18:52.300 People wake up

00:18:53.900 All the time

00:18:55.580 Everybody wakes up

00:18:56.640 Like

00:18:57.520 Everybody

00:18:58.660 Everybody

00:18:59.780 But most people

00:19:01.060 Don't wake up

00:19:01.500 Until they're getting

00:19:01.880 Ready to fucking die

00:19:02.660 You know

00:19:04.680 They got cancer

00:19:05.840 And they've got

00:19:06.540 Six months to live

00:19:07.400 Or they've got

00:19:08.100 A bad car accident

00:19:09.680 And they're gonna

00:19:10.400 Pass away

00:19:11.100 Or

00:19:11.580 You know

00:19:12.280 They wake up

00:19:13.680 Right towards the end

00:19:14.580 And they're like

00:19:14.940 Shit

00:19:15.460 I didn't do anything

00:19:17.060 You know what I mean?

00:19:18.840 Yeah

00:19:19.080 So everybody wakes up

00:19:20.640 The key is to wake up

00:19:21.540 While you still have

00:19:22.100 The opportunity

00:19:22.620 To do things

00:19:23.480 So

00:19:24.780 So

00:19:25.360 Let's say

00:19:26.500 Somebody does that

00:19:27.320 Let's say

00:19:27.680 Somebody's eyes are open

00:19:28.740 Scales fall off their eyes

00:19:30.160 And they're like

00:19:30.620 Man I could really

00:19:32.300 Be amazing

00:19:34.140 I could

00:19:34.560 I could really do something

00:19:35.580 Really like

00:19:36.440 History impacting

00:19:37.620 In your opinion

00:19:39.380 Like what's the best way

00:19:41.000 To

00:19:41.620 Take an inventory

00:19:44.060 Of the resources

00:19:45.400 That you have

00:19:45.980 In your life

00:19:46.500 You know

00:19:47.840 How

00:19:48.340 I guess another way

00:19:49.740 Of putting it is

00:19:50.360 It's one thing to say

00:19:51.480 Yes I believe

00:19:52.600 I have potential

00:19:53.400 But then it's another thing

00:19:54.440 To turn your gaze inward

00:19:55.520 And go

00:19:55.920 Okay

00:19:56.460 Now I see what's in me

00:19:58.380 That I can use

00:19:59.560 To impact the world

00:20:00.940 And

00:20:01.480 You know what I'm saying?

00:20:02.700 Like it's

00:20:03.080 Taking stock

00:20:03.840 Look man

00:20:04.140 I have not met

00:20:04.940 I've never met

00:20:05.920 One person ever

00:20:06.920 That didn't have

00:20:07.980 A certain area of life

00:20:09.200 That they were

00:20:09.820 At least

00:20:10.960 More advanced in

00:20:12.480 I mean even the dumbest

00:20:13.720 Person I've ever met

00:20:14.600 Has still been smart

00:20:15.580 About something

00:20:16.240 Or creative about something

00:20:17.740 Or interesting about something

00:20:19.140 And I think it's

00:20:20.200 Important to find

00:20:21.360 Where it is

00:20:23.200 You know

00:20:24.240 What are you interested in?

00:20:25.620 What are you creative about?

00:20:26.700 What are you smart about?

00:20:27.840 What are you driven to do?

00:20:29.360 You know

00:20:29.700 And that's where

00:20:30.220 That conversation

00:20:30.840 Of follow your passion

00:20:31.980 Comes into play

00:20:32.760 And people misinterpret that

00:20:34.640 Because they look at it like

00:20:36.060 Oh well

00:20:37.100 You know

00:20:37.400 I'm passionate about

00:20:38.280 Watching TV

00:20:39.160 No motherfucker

00:20:40.040 What do you

00:20:40.420 You haven't even done anything

00:20:42.000 You have to do shit

00:20:43.280 To figure out

00:20:44.420 What your passion is

00:20:45.440 You know what I mean?

00:20:46.240 And there's opportunity

00:20:48.440 In all those things

00:20:49.320 You know

00:20:50.400 A lot of people

00:20:50.900 Answer that question

00:20:51.680 With like

00:20:52.000 Oh my passion

00:20:52.700 Is to make money

00:20:53.420 No it's not

00:20:54.200 You can't have a passion

00:20:55.460 To make money

00:20:56.000 And if your passion

00:20:57.120 Is money

00:20:57.620 You're going to always

00:20:58.600 Burn out

00:20:59.100 Because when you're

00:21:00.120 Not making any

00:21:00.880 You're going to quit

00:21:01.820 And try something else

00:21:02.800 And then you're not

00:21:03.480 Going to make any money there

00:21:04.260 And you're going to quit

00:21:05.040 And try something else

00:21:05.800 And it leads into

00:21:06.400 This repetitive cycle

00:21:07.440 Of not being able

00:21:08.720 To stick with shit

00:21:09.740 Long enough

00:21:10.220 For it to actually

00:21:10.800 Make money

00:21:11.360 You know

00:21:12.580 And you're focused

00:21:13.240 On the wrong thing

00:21:13.740 Anyway

00:21:14.020 You're not focused

00:21:14.520 On providing value

00:21:15.380 Or providing

00:21:16.240 Some sort of

00:21:17.640 Great product

00:21:19.400 You're focused

00:21:20.080 On what you can get

00:21:20.920 And that's

00:21:21.420 The complete opposite

00:21:22.440 Thing you need to do

00:21:23.020 To actually make money

00:21:23.840 So the point

00:21:24.720 Of what I'm trying

00:21:25.160 To say is that

00:21:25.880 Everybody has

00:21:27.020 Those potentials

00:21:28.240 It's just

00:21:28.720 Most of the time

00:21:30.120 When they think about it

00:21:31.060 They sell themselves short

00:21:32.740 You know

00:21:33.160 Or they run it by a friend

00:21:34.400 Who's also

00:21:35.400 You know

00:21:36.100 Average Joe mindset

00:21:37.360 And their friend's like

00:21:38.480 Oh dude no

00:21:39.100 That's fucking stupid

00:21:40.020 And that's it

00:21:41.200 Right

00:21:41.500 And it ends right there

00:21:42.540 And they're like

00:21:43.320 Yeah you know what

00:21:43.980 You're right

00:21:45.620 Let's order another beer

00:21:46.740 You know what I mean

00:21:47.820 Right

00:21:48.140 Right

00:21:48.620 So it's

00:21:49.980 It's going to take

00:21:53.720 Work

00:21:54.320 Like mental work

00:21:55.560 Like you know

00:21:56.620 You've got to

00:21:57.020 Reprogram yourself

00:21:58.000 Right

00:21:58.520 And that's hard to do

00:22:00.080 It's kind of a funny question

00:22:02.000 But as you know

00:22:03.420 We've got a very young

00:22:05.240 A group of people

00:22:06.960 That listen to us

00:22:07.740 I mean we've got

00:22:08.280 A pretty wide

00:22:08.920 Diverse demographic

00:22:09.900 But some of them

00:22:11.400 Are even in high school

00:22:12.220 Some of them

00:22:12.620 Are even in college

00:22:13.620 And they might say

00:22:16.820 I know I have potential

00:22:17.820 But to be honest with you

00:22:19.400 I don't know what I'm good at

00:22:20.860 Like what in your opinion

00:22:22.720 Is

00:22:24.120 Is the method

00:22:25.120 To learn that

00:22:25.860 For me

00:22:26.720 Are you a fan

00:22:27.440 Are you a fan of like

00:22:28.400 You know

00:22:28.900 Personality tests

00:22:30.900 And aptitude tests

00:22:32.080 And stuff like that

00:22:32.660 I don't know man

00:22:33.360 Like dude

00:22:34.440 I got caught in

00:22:35.160 You know

00:22:35.640 It's as basic of a story

00:22:37.580 As it can get for myself

00:22:38.800 You know

00:22:39.900 I like to fucking work out

00:22:41.820 I like sports

00:22:42.560 I liked

00:22:43.380 Being active

00:22:44.800 I liked having muscles

00:22:45.720 Cause like

00:22:46.660 You know

00:22:47.100 I was trying to pick up girls

00:22:48.040 You know what I'm saying

00:22:48.820 Right

00:22:49.360 So like

00:22:49.960 I got into vitamins

00:22:52.240 Yeah

00:22:52.760 It was a natural progression

00:22:54.140 Of what I was interested in

00:22:55.540 You know

00:22:56.260 What are you into

00:22:57.340 Learn about that shit

00:22:59.000 Right

00:22:59.560 You know what I mean

00:23:00.400 Yeah

00:23:00.660 It's that simple

00:23:01.220 Yeah

00:23:01.800 Absolutely

00:23:03.240 And there's

00:23:03.940 You know

00:23:04.480 I mean literally man

00:23:07.820 You could talk about

00:23:08.480 The simplest shit

00:23:09.440 That somebody's into

00:23:10.560 And make it into a business

00:23:11.620 Yeah

00:23:12.020 What do you find yourself

00:23:13.220 Doing

00:23:13.960 What are you thinking about

00:23:15.160 What are you working towards

00:23:16.100 What are you doing

00:23:16.780 You know

00:23:17.220 Work to become an expert in that

00:23:18.820 You know

00:23:19.460 And realize that

00:23:20.340 Like no one's ever gonna credit you

00:23:22.040 As being an expert

00:23:23.080 Until you credit yourself

00:23:24.120 Being an expert

00:23:24.740 Right

00:23:25.360 You know what I mean

00:23:25.920 Like people

00:23:26.340 A lot of people are experts at things

00:23:28.080 And they don't even realize

00:23:29.140 They're experts

00:23:29.720 They think like

00:23:31.040 Oh because I haven't won an award

00:23:32.500 Or I haven't been recognized by Forbes

00:23:34.040 Or I haven't this or that

00:23:35.520 I'm not an expert

00:23:36.860 No

00:23:37.200 You very well may be

00:23:39.100 You don't have to be recognized

00:23:40.440 You just gotta know your shit

00:23:41.620 Right

00:23:42.060 You know

00:23:42.860 So as I said

00:23:44.500 The other aspect of that

00:23:45.500 That word realization

00:23:46.860 Is the idea of

00:23:47.820 Like bringing it into reality

00:23:50.000 And materializing it

00:23:51.320 And I know that a big

00:23:52.280 A big part of what you have said

00:23:54.460 Over the last year or two

00:23:55.760 Really probably over the course of your life

00:23:57.400 Is that success isn't magic

00:23:59.260 That there are concrete things

00:24:01.600 Actionable

00:24:02.900 Critical tasks that you do

00:24:05.100 So

00:24:06.080 Just talk a little bit about that

00:24:07.940 A little bit more

00:24:08.520 Well

00:24:09.080 That's a matter of perspective

00:24:11.720 Okay

00:24:12.060 Right now

00:24:12.640 I

00:24:14.780 People who win

00:24:16.280 Will always point

00:24:18.260 At the quality of their work

00:24:20.180 They will always point

00:24:21.060 At their work ethic

00:24:21.780 They will point at

00:24:22.780 What they did

00:24:24.040 To get where they are

00:24:25.240 They will never say

00:24:26.140 Oh I got lucky

00:24:26.860 Oh I got this

00:24:27.540 Oh I got that

00:24:28.200 You'll never see somebody who wins

00:24:30.340 That says that shit

00:24:31.180 They just don't say it

00:24:32.640 Because it isn't fucking true

00:24:33.740 Right

00:24:34.640 But everybody who loses

00:24:36.120 Will point at the circumstances

00:24:37.940 That person has

00:24:38.820 They will point and say

00:24:40.160 That dude was born with that

00:24:41.600 He was lucky

00:24:42.500 He was in the right place

00:24:44.320 At the right time

00:24:44.840 They have a story

00:24:45.860 That they tell themselves

00:24:46.960 About every successful person

00:24:49.280 Out there

00:24:50.300 So that it makes them feel good

00:24:52.120 About why that person's there

00:24:53.880 And why they're here

00:24:55.020 Right

00:24:55.560 And you know

00:24:57.460 They demand a recount

00:24:58.620 Yeah every time man

00:25:00.080 Like dude

00:25:00.920 Every time

00:25:01.720 And the thing is

00:25:03.060 Is that

00:25:03.460 The truth of the matter is

00:25:05.960 Most people

00:25:07.200 Will dream big

00:25:08.380 They'll think big

00:25:09.220 If they're awake

00:25:11.060 And they will think

00:25:12.720 Of these big things

00:25:13.440 But they won't ever

00:25:14.380 Actually put a plan

00:25:16.020 Into place

00:25:16.560 They never make

00:25:17.520 That jump

00:25:18.300 They never take

00:25:19.080 That leap

00:25:19.620 They don't cross over

00:25:21.200 From thinking to doing

00:25:22.320 And that's

00:25:23.660 The most important part

00:25:24.920 Right

00:25:25.460 And once you can actually

00:25:27.040 Start believing

00:25:28.320 That the work

00:25:28.960 Because like dude

00:25:29.640 People don't believe

00:25:30.360 The work pays off

00:25:31.200 Right

00:25:31.440 They tell themselves

00:25:32.780 This shit

00:25:33.200 Like people are

00:25:33.960 Expert at justifying things

00:25:35.480 They tell themselves

00:25:36.440 Shit like this

00:25:37.160 Well like

00:25:37.540 Oh dude

00:25:38.020 You know

00:25:38.360 Okay

00:25:39.400 I like that

00:25:40.520 But that takes like

00:25:41.780 12 years

00:25:42.400 And it takes me like

00:25:44.280 I'm gonna have to do

00:25:45.220 All this work

00:25:45.840 And like what if

00:25:46.480 What if I go through

00:25:47.360 The 12 years

00:25:48.040 And then

00:25:48.440 It still doesn't work

00:25:50.720 Or it doesn't pay out

00:25:51.840 Or it doesn't this

00:25:52.520 Or it doesn't that

00:25:53.140 And then they convince

00:25:54.320 Themselves

00:25:55.000 To not do the work

00:25:56.540 But every successful

00:25:58.740 Person knows

00:25:59.520 That if you do the work

00:26:00.740 You're going to

00:26:02.260 You're going to

00:26:03.340 Materialize something

00:26:04.580 And when you start

00:26:06.320 Materializing things

00:26:07.520 And things start to happen

00:26:08.560 And you gain momentum

00:26:09.780 You can start to direct

00:26:11.500 That direction that you're on

00:26:14.300 Kind of like a boat

00:26:15.060 Going down the river man

00:26:16.120 You know you've got

00:26:17.180 Some momentum

00:26:17.720 You're going

00:26:18.340 All you've got to do

00:26:19.400 Is change the direction

00:26:20.260 A little bit

00:26:20.660 To get to the left

00:26:21.540 Or to the right

00:26:22.160 Or wherever it is

00:26:22.660 You want to go

00:26:23.220 And people don't

00:26:24.240 Think of it like that

00:26:24.920 They just think like

00:26:25.600 Oh well I'm not

00:26:26.300 Going to end up

00:26:26.760 Exactly there

00:26:27.560 Well I can tell you this

00:26:28.660 You may not end up

00:26:29.520 Exactly there

00:26:30.560 But you're going to be

00:26:31.460 10 times better

00:26:32.380 Than you are

00:26:33.160 If you don't do

00:26:33.700 The fucking work

00:26:34.440 You see what I mean

00:26:35.920 Yeah yeah yeah

00:26:36.540 So I mean what I hear

00:26:37.920 You saying so far

00:26:38.760 With this definition

00:26:39.500 Is success is

00:26:40.720 First of all

00:26:41.560 Waking up to the

00:26:43.540 Realization that you

00:26:44.460 Are in fact

00:26:45.440 An agent of change

00:26:47.440 With incredible potential

00:26:48.880 And then once you

00:26:50.180 Recognize that

00:26:51.360 To switch over from

00:26:52.700 The as you said

00:26:53.820 Thinking

00:26:54.180 To the doing

00:26:55.160 To then putting

00:26:56.400 Actions to actually

00:26:57.800 Work out that potential

00:26:58.820 Right

00:26:59.220 It's simple

00:27:00.200 Yeah

00:27:00.620 It's simple man

00:27:01.300 It really is

00:27:01.920 So moving on

00:27:05.140 But people

00:27:05.420 Dude people just

00:27:06.800 Got to quit telling

00:27:07.380 Themselves the stories

00:27:08.340 You know

00:27:08.860 Your fucking

00:27:09.400 Story time to yourself

00:27:11.200 Every fucking day

00:27:12.340 You know what I mean

00:27:13.280 Like oh

00:27:14.320 You know that guy's

00:27:15.840 This or that guy's that

00:27:17.460 Or he has this

00:27:17.980 That I don't have

00:27:18.600 Or you know

00:27:19.100 He was in the right place

00:27:20.020 And I don't know

00:27:20.440 Those people

00:27:21.000 And you know

00:27:22.000 His parents are rich

00:27:23.120 And blah blah blah

00:27:24.220 Blah blah blah blah

00:27:24.760 Blah blah blah blah

00:27:25.160 When you have a

00:27:26.680 Fucking story for

00:27:27.440 Everything

00:27:27.820 You're not going

00:27:29.640 To do anything

00:27:30.320 Right

00:27:31.040 And that's what

00:27:31.900 People don't

00:27:33.200 Think about

00:27:33.860 You know

00:27:34.300 And you've got to

00:27:35.220 Consciously catch yourself

00:27:36.440 Telling these stories

00:27:37.280 And be real honest

00:27:38.060 With yourself

00:27:38.520 Like look

00:27:39.020 I'm justifying

00:27:40.520 My own lack

00:27:41.500 Of willingness

00:27:43.080 To do that work

00:27:43.860 By saying that

00:27:44.620 You know

00:27:45.320 That guy's like

00:27:45.940 Start to look at

00:27:46.740 Successful people

00:27:47.500 And think

00:27:47.980 Instead of thinking

00:27:49.040 All these circumstantial

00:27:50.160 Things that got them

00:27:51.000 Where they are

00:27:51.500 Why don't you think

00:27:52.380 About the work

00:27:52.880 They fucking did

00:27:53.520 To get there

00:27:54.000 Why don't you think

00:27:54.680 About all the nights

00:27:55.500 All the weekends

00:27:56.240 All the fucking hours

00:27:57.160 They put in

00:27:57.680 All the trips

00:27:58.580 All the meetings

00:27:59.620 All the fucking

00:28:00.460 Heartbreaks

00:28:01.260 All the misery

00:28:02.000 All the fucking

00:28:03.300 Bad shit

00:28:04.440 That's happened to them

00:28:05.320 Along that journey

00:28:06.400 And start thinking

00:28:06.960 Like that

00:28:07.560 Because if you can

00:28:08.620 Start thinking like that

00:28:09.600 Your brain

00:28:10.680 And your mind

00:28:11.960 Will start to accept

00:28:12.820 The fact that

00:28:13.420 This is a result

00:28:14.640 Of math

00:28:15.640 It's an equation

00:28:16.560 Of math

00:28:17.000 It's a result of

00:28:17.920 A plus B

00:28:18.880 Equals C

00:28:19.380 It's not magic

00:28:20.400 And you'll start

00:28:21.240 To think differently

00:28:21.880 About it

00:28:22.360 But when you look

00:28:23.120 At somebody

00:28:23.620 Like let's say

00:28:24.560 The rock

00:28:25.120 And say oh

00:28:25.900 The fucking rock

00:28:26.600 Is the rock

00:28:27.220 Well he didn't

00:28:27.700 Just fucking

00:28:28.240 Come out of the vagina

00:28:29.040 Being the fucking rock

00:28:30.040 You know what I'm saying

00:28:31.200 Like dude

00:28:31.740 This guy works

00:28:33.080 His ass off

00:28:33.820 He travels

00:28:34.240 350 fucking days

00:28:35.880 A year

00:28:36.380 You think that shit's easy

00:28:37.660 You know people

00:28:38.860 Don't realize

00:28:39.640 Like the work

00:28:40.280 That goes into that

00:28:41.080 Like that dude's

00:28:41.720 Been working at

00:28:42.400 His craft

00:28:43.360 You know

00:28:44.040 And dude

00:28:44.560 His personality

00:28:45.420 That everybody loves

00:28:46.660 Is crafted

00:28:47.580 You know

00:28:48.720 He is

00:28:49.420 He's a character

00:28:50.420 And I'm sure

00:28:51.300 He's authentic

00:28:52.060 With himself

00:28:52.680 At this point

00:28:53.300 Because it's probably

00:28:53.980 Become who it is

00:28:54.700 But dude

00:28:55.380 He didn't come out

00:28:56.240 At 14 years old

00:28:57.720 Being like he is

00:28:59.080 This is something

00:29:00.000 He's became

00:29:00.800 And he's worked at

00:29:02.220 For years

00:29:03.360 Right

00:29:03.700 And I think

00:29:04.440 What's amazing

00:29:04.960 About the rock

00:29:05.640 Is that

00:29:06.500 If anybody knows

00:29:07.320 His story

00:29:07.840 His work ethic

00:29:08.900 Was the same

00:29:09.680 When he had

00:29:10.480 Seven bucks

00:29:11.180 To his name

00:29:11.860 Yeah

00:29:12.320 As it is now

00:29:13.380 It's not like

00:29:13.880 He suddenly got

00:29:14.500 To this point

00:29:14.860 You know why

00:29:15.320 I will bet you

00:29:16.040 I will bet you

00:29:17.180 I will bet you

00:29:18.700 Any amount of money

00:29:19.360 If you ask him that

00:29:20.260 Why he works so hard

00:29:21.940 Now

00:29:22.760 Because he probably

00:29:24.060 Feels like that same dude

00:29:25.100 That doesn't have

00:29:25.660 Seven bucks in his pocket

00:29:26.620 You know what I mean

00:29:27.820 And he don't want

00:29:28.440 To go back to that

00:29:29.100 Yeah

00:29:29.560 I guarantee it

00:29:31.120 Yeah

00:29:31.460 You know

00:29:32.400 Dude

00:29:33.600 It's

00:29:33.960 It's uh

00:29:34.980 It's work man

00:29:37.480 Yeah

00:29:37.860 It's what it is

00:29:38.580 And people need

00:29:40.180 To quit with the stories

00:29:41.240 They need to quit

00:29:41.860 With the justifications

00:29:43.320 You need to become

00:29:44.260 Aware enough

00:29:44.780 To call yourself out

00:29:45.660 When you justify things

00:29:46.840 And that's going to be

00:29:48.700 Step number one

00:29:49.420 You know

00:29:49.640 Just becoming aware

00:29:50.540 When you tell yourself

00:29:51.280 A story

00:29:51.620 Like when you see

00:29:52.060 A dude roll up

00:29:53.000 In a fucking Ferrari

00:29:54.420 You know

00:29:55.560 Don't automatically think

00:29:56.860 Oh his parents

00:29:57.560 Must have left him

00:29:58.380 A bunch of money

00:29:59.000 Start asking a question

00:30:00.580 Man I wonder

00:30:01.040 What that guy does

00:30:01.860 I wonder what he did

00:30:02.880 To get that

00:30:03.400 You see what I'm saying

00:30:04.480 Absolutely

00:30:04.900 But I'm really fascinated

00:30:06.460 By even your use

00:30:07.720 Of the word stories

00:30:08.540 Because if you think

00:30:09.160 About it

00:30:09.600 You're right

00:30:11.180 The difference between

00:30:11.820 Unsuccessful and successful

00:30:12.980 People is that

00:30:13.720 Unsuccessful people

00:30:14.800 Have in their mind

00:30:15.540 That they're just

00:30:16.460 Sort of a passive

00:30:17.340 No dude

00:30:17.720 Unsuccessful people

00:30:18.700 Tell stories

00:30:19.440 Successful people

00:30:20.420 Look at facts

00:30:21.060 Right

00:30:21.500 It's the end of the

00:30:22.100 That's it

00:30:23.080 Right

00:30:23.720 Period

00:30:25.060 They tell themselves

00:30:26.300 Story

00:30:26.720 Unsuccessful people

00:30:27.640 Tell the stories

00:30:28.520 To themselves

00:30:29.540 Successful people

00:30:30.820 Look at the facts

00:30:31.500 Of the matter

00:30:31.940 That's it

00:30:32.820 Right

00:30:33.140 You know

00:30:34.180 Just work with the facts

00:30:34.900 Right

00:30:35.180 And then they end up

00:30:35.900 Writing their own story

00:30:37.580 Exactly

00:30:38.120 Yeah

00:30:38.460 So

00:30:39.840 Your definition is

00:30:41.960 Success is realizing

00:30:44.500 Your own true potential

00:30:46.880 So that phrase

00:30:48.400 Your own

00:30:49.060 So I take that to mean

00:30:50.980 That in your definition

00:30:52.740 Of success

00:30:53.240 In your opinion

00:30:53.880 It must be personalized

00:30:54.940 What do you mean by that

00:30:55.980 Well everybody

00:30:56.440 It's your own

00:30:57.440 Look man

00:30:58.100 It is personalized

00:30:59.060 And everybody's born

00:31:00.780 With a different skill set

00:31:02.120 I believe that

00:31:03.080 Like dude

00:31:04.060 If you're 6 foot 7

00:31:05.320 And you're 250 fucking pounds

00:31:07.700 And you can jump

00:31:08.520 Through the fucking ceiling

00:31:09.860 Of the gym

00:31:10.400 You're probably gonna be okay

00:31:12.000 Playing basketball

00:31:12.880 But

00:31:14.100 If you don't work

00:31:16.000 At your skills

00:31:16.600 And you don't work

00:31:17.120 At your ball handling

00:31:17.800 You don't work

00:31:18.240 At your free throws

00:31:18.900 You don't work

00:31:19.360 At dribbling

00:31:20.240 You don't work

00:31:20.640 At all the shit

00:31:21.280 You're not gonna become

00:31:22.520 Michael Jordan

00:31:23.180 Or somewhere even close

00:31:24.340 You still gotta do the work

00:31:25.420 And there's guys

00:31:26.980 You know

00:31:27.660 That are born

00:31:28.300 With a certain skill set

00:31:29.580 Of let's say

00:31:30.620 Entrepreneurship

00:31:31.540 Like I feel like I was

00:31:33.020 You know

00:31:33.760 I tell everybody

00:31:35.080 I'm a normal dude

00:31:35.780 But you know what

00:31:36.460 We're normal dudes

00:31:37.440 Selling fucking

00:31:38.120 Baseball cards

00:31:38.880 Out of their dad's garage

00:31:39.740 At 9 years old

00:31:40.740 We're normal dudes

00:31:41.680 Fucking selling

00:31:42.220 Light bulbs

00:31:42.640 Door to door

00:31:43.180 At 8 years old

00:31:43.960 I don't know

00:31:44.860 That was normal for me

00:31:46.020 You know

00:31:46.800 But I have an

00:31:47.600 Entrepreneurial upbringing

00:31:48.740 So like I'm conditioned

00:31:51.700 To do well in that area

00:31:53.300 From early on

00:31:55.480 Which means I can

00:31:57.000 I have a further

00:31:59.240 Or a more

00:32:00.980 A better starting spot

00:32:02.400 Than a lot of people

00:32:03.200 Right

00:32:03.480 Right

00:32:03.920 Like my dad

00:32:04.480 Didn't give me money

00:32:05.320 But I mean

00:32:06.020 I got a great education

00:32:07.060 From it

00:32:07.540 You see what I mean

00:32:08.540 Right

00:32:08.880 So you know

00:32:10.740 Everybody's got

00:32:11.340 Different potentials

00:32:12.500 It's

00:32:12.940 So to like

00:32:14.400 Rate people

00:32:15.140 On like

00:32:15.760 Like people like to do

00:32:18.500 Like people like to

00:32:19.640 Rate people

00:32:20.100 On how much money

00:32:20.660 They make

00:32:21.140 Or what kind of

00:32:21.600 House they live in

00:32:22.440 Or what kind of

00:32:22.840 Cars they drive

00:32:23.660 Or what

00:32:24.080 On other

00:32:24.900 All kinds of

00:32:25.680 You can't

00:32:26.880 Because

00:32:27.420 Not everybody

00:32:28.840 Started

00:32:29.460 Where those people

00:32:30.820 Started

00:32:31.200 So you have to

00:32:32.440 Admit and be

00:32:33.240 Like I'm

00:32:33.980 Definitely like

00:32:34.880 The number one guy

00:32:35.880 That will tell you

00:32:36.460 Like everybody

00:32:37.340 Could be as successful

00:32:38.180 As they want

00:32:38.760 And don't make

00:32:39.660 Fucking excuses

00:32:40.400 But that doesn't

00:32:41.860 Say that people

00:32:42.460 Don't start in

00:32:42.860 Different areas

00:32:43.820 With different

00:32:44.540 Pre

00:32:46.380 Almost determined

00:32:48.440 Skill sets

00:32:49.280 You know what I'm

00:32:50.040 Saying

00:32:50.260 Like programmed

00:32:51.000 Into them

00:32:51.540 And

00:32:52.180 And because of

00:32:54.560 That

00:32:54.840 You know

00:32:55.240 You can't

00:32:55.600 You can only

00:32:56.020 Measure potential

00:32:56.980 On an individualized

00:32:58.180 Basis

00:32:58.580 And the potential

00:32:59.860 That you're going

00:33:00.340 To measure by

00:33:01.180 Is going to be

00:33:01.660 Fulfillment of the

00:33:02.500 Potential that that

00:33:03.180 Person has

00:33:03.820 You know

00:33:04.500 Somebody with

00:33:05.480 Down syndrome

00:33:07.120 Who is a

00:33:08.500 High level

00:33:09.160 Operator

00:33:09.780 Is

00:33:10.240 Probably

00:33:11.100 Not have

00:33:12.020 The mental

00:33:12.940 Potential to be

00:33:14.000 Stephen Hawking

00:33:14.660 Right

00:33:15.480 You get what I'm

00:33:15.900 Saying

00:33:16.120 Absolutely

00:33:16.620 So

00:33:16.940 And while they

00:33:17.720 Still like

00:33:18.320 Dude we have

00:33:18.920 A business

00:33:19.800 Right here

00:33:20.380 Next to us

00:33:20.900 That employs

00:33:21.600 Only people

00:33:22.660 With down

00:33:22.980 Syndrome

00:33:23.280 Which is

00:33:23.660 Freaking awesome

00:33:24.480 They're all

00:33:25.260 High functioning

00:33:25.920 People with

00:33:26.960 Down syndrome

00:33:27.520 Very cool

00:33:28.920 Very nice

00:33:29.540 Very great

00:33:30.340 People

00:33:30.760 But you know

00:33:32.140 And they come

00:33:33.020 And function

00:33:33.420 In a real

00:33:33.880 Work environment

00:33:34.740 And do great

00:33:35.300 But you know

00:33:36.680 Is that person

00:33:37.360 Going to become

00:33:37.980 A master

00:33:39.220 Philosopher

00:33:39.860 Of the universe

00:33:41.180 Or an

00:33:42.440 Astrophist

00:33:43.000 It's not

00:33:43.700 Going to happen

00:33:44.220 Right

00:33:44.560 Right

00:33:44.920 I mean

00:33:45.860 Maybe I'm

00:33:46.220 Wrong

00:33:46.400 Maybe it

00:33:46.720 Will happen

00:33:47.060 One day

00:33:47.300 But you get

00:33:47.880 What I'm saying

00:33:48.220 We all have

00:33:49.220 The capacity

00:33:50.340 To do certain

00:33:51.100 Things

00:33:51.580 And we're all

00:33:52.440 Good at certain

00:33:53.000 Things

00:33:53.300 So you can't

00:33:53.940 Measure potential

00:33:54.720 On anything

00:33:55.040 Else

00:33:55.340 Other than

00:33:56.480 You know

00:33:57.680 What it is

00:33:59.100 So

00:34:01.020 Basically

00:34:03.260 I've heard you

00:34:03.940 Say this before

00:34:04.540 And I'm just

00:34:05.220 Fleshing it out

00:34:06.200 To be a little

00:34:06.820 Bit more

00:34:07.220 Obvious

00:34:08.240 So obviously

00:34:10.060 For competition's

00:34:11.900 Sake

00:34:12.100 It's okay

00:34:12.680 To compare

00:34:13.260 Yourself

00:34:13.640 To somebody

00:34:14.160 If that

00:34:14.720 Helps motivate

00:34:15.340 You

00:34:15.560 But really

00:34:15.960 At the end

00:34:16.320 Of the day

00:34:16.800 You're

00:34:17.840 The measure

00:34:18.740 Of your own

00:34:19.180 Success

00:34:19.640 Is what you're

00:34:20.520 Saying

00:34:20.740 Yeah man

00:34:21.440 I mean like

00:34:21.920 Dude

00:34:22.080 To say you

00:34:22.600 Don't compare

00:34:23.120 Yourself to

00:34:23.600 People

00:34:23.880 Anybody who

00:34:24.440 Says that's

00:34:25.000 Full of shit

00:34:25.540 Alright

00:34:26.380 That's like

00:34:26.840 Something people

00:34:27.260 Say to be

00:34:27.720 Fucking cool

00:34:28.280 Like it's a

00:34:29.100 Hipster thing

00:34:29.700 Like oh

00:34:30.400 Well I'm

00:34:31.220 Fucking living

00:34:31.720 My own life

00:34:32.420 Man

00:34:32.720 I don't compare

00:34:33.200 Myself to anybody

00:34:33.820 Why are you

00:34:34.320 Wearing the same

00:34:34.760 Fucking clothes

00:34:35.280 That every other

00:34:35.680 Motherfucker is

00:34:36.480 Wearing

00:34:36.760 Why are you

00:34:37.180 Drinking every

00:34:38.060 Fucking dark

00:34:38.680 Beer that has

00:34:39.600 Ever been brewed

00:34:40.240 Why are you

00:34:41.980 Fucking doing

00:34:43.100 Everything that

00:34:43.820 Every one of

00:34:44.260 These other

00:34:44.540 Hipsters

00:34:44.920 Motherfuckers do

00:34:45.840 But you're

00:34:47.240 Individual

00:34:47.640 Get the fuck

00:34:48.500 Out of here

00:34:48.820 Man

00:34:49.080 You know

00:34:49.760 What I'm

00:34:49.900 Saying

00:34:50.120 Like dude

00:34:50.700 Everybody's

00:34:51.360 Influenced

00:34:51.880 Everybody has

00:34:52.900 Things they

00:34:54.520 Want to be

00:34:55.020 And people

00:34:55.460 They compare

00:34:55.920 Themselves to

00:34:56.520 And that's

00:34:56.920 Okay

00:34:57.320 That's great

00:34:58.540 Because it

00:34:59.260 Gives you

00:35:00.000 Drive

00:35:00.540 It gives you

00:35:00.980 Motivation

00:35:01.560 It gives you

00:35:02.060 Inspiration

00:35:02.900 You know

00:35:03.680 A lot of

00:35:04.100 People let

00:35:04.520 Those things

00:35:04.940 Become negative

00:35:05.680 To them

00:35:06.100 Like maybe

00:35:07.100 They're trying

00:35:07.500 To catch

00:35:07.920 So and so

00:35:08.560 Like I had

00:35:09.020 A person

00:35:09.820 One time

00:35:10.320 Tell me

00:35:10.720 In business

00:35:11.280 In my same

00:35:12.200 Industry

00:35:12.580 He told me

00:35:13.140 Oh I just

00:35:14.100 Can't keep

00:35:14.500 Up with you

00:35:15.060 And I

00:35:15.460 Thought like

00:35:16.020 Bro you've

00:35:17.580 Been doing

00:35:17.780 This for

00:35:18.080 Like three

00:35:18.480 Four years

00:35:19.040 I've been

00:35:19.300 Doing this

00:35:19.480 For 20

00:35:19.920 Fucking years

00:35:20.540 Why are you

00:35:22.240 Putting yourself

00:35:22.700 Through that

00:35:23.040 Kind of

00:35:23.340 Mental

00:35:23.640 You know

00:35:25.180 Anguish

00:35:26.720 You know

00:35:27.080 What I mean

00:35:27.400 Like it's

00:35:28.400 Not a realistic

00:35:29.120 Thing to think

00:35:29.840 Like that

00:35:30.360 Is it okay

00:35:32.200 To like be

00:35:32.840 Inspired by

00:35:33.500 People's

00:35:33.820 Success

00:35:34.220 Absolutely

00:35:34.840 Is it okay

00:35:35.780 To see

00:35:36.120 Somebody drive

00:35:36.740 An X car

00:35:37.500 And want a

00:35:38.260 Car like that

00:35:38.760 For yourself

00:35:39.300 Fuck yeah

00:35:40.160 Is it okay

00:35:41.060 To see somebody

00:35:41.620 Kick an ass

00:35:42.300 Doing what it

00:35:44.280 Is you want to

00:35:44.760 Do and want to

00:35:45.460 Aspire to be

00:35:46.160 That person

00:35:46.600 Absolutely

00:35:47.440 But at the

00:35:48.260 End of the

00:35:48.560 Day

00:35:48.780 You still have

00:35:49.860 To remember

00:35:50.300 That certain

00:35:51.860 People start

00:35:52.420 At different

00:35:52.700 Places

00:35:53.120 And so

00:35:54.040 It's very

00:35:55.040 It's a

00:35:56.000 It's a

00:35:56.600 Very slippery

00:35:57.460 Subject

00:35:58.540 To make

00:35:59.320 To really

00:36:00.300 Attack

00:36:01.220 Because

00:36:01.660 Most people

00:36:04.920 Will compare

00:36:05.780 Themselves to

00:36:06.300 Other people

00:36:06.740 And then feel

00:36:07.140 Bad about

00:36:07.640 Themselves

00:36:08.100 As opposed to

00:36:08.700 Feeling good

00:36:09.100 About it

00:36:09.500 Right

00:36:10.020 And that's

00:36:11.840 Where it

00:36:12.140 Becomes a

00:36:12.500 Problem

00:36:12.820 You know

00:36:13.880 Where they

00:36:14.380 Say oh

00:36:14.860 Look this

00:36:15.340 Guy's

00:36:16.140 Running a

00:36:16.620 Bill

00:36:16.760 Like for

00:36:17.260 Me

00:36:17.460 Herbalife's

00:36:21.400 Running an

00:36:21.800 8 billion

00:36:22.320 A year

00:36:22.880 Company

00:36:23.300 Well they've

00:36:23.740 Been doing

00:36:23.920 It for

00:36:24.120 30 fucking

00:36:24.760 Years

00:36:25.260 You know

00:36:26.140 What I'm

00:36:26.260 Saying

00:36:26.420 Like that's

00:36:26.940 Not a

00:36:27.240 Real

00:36:27.520 It's okay

00:36:28.420 For me

00:36:28.660 To aspire

00:36:29.280 To grow

00:36:30.100 Something that

00:36:30.960 Big

00:36:31.360 But like for

00:36:32.460 Me to feel

00:36:32.820 Bad about

00:36:33.240 Where they

00:36:33.540 Are versus

00:36:33.900 Where I

00:36:34.320 Am

00:36:34.580 Doesn't make

00:36:35.120 Sense

00:36:35.460 And a lot

00:36:36.160 Of people

00:36:36.480 Will get

00:36:36.820 Hung up

00:36:37.260 In those

00:36:37.840 Kind of

00:36:38.180 Situations

00:36:38.840 Start thinking

00:36:40.100 Negatively

00:36:40.580 Start acting

00:36:41.600 Negatively

00:36:42.080 And it

00:36:42.560 Spirals downward

00:36:43.320 To really

00:36:44.240 Like self

00:36:45.220 Destruction

00:36:45.740 You know

00:36:46.580 So you have

00:36:47.320 To be very

00:36:47.640 Careful when

00:36:48.120 You when

00:36:48.860 You compare

00:36:49.300 Yourself to

00:36:49.860 Other people

00:36:50.280 Because you

00:36:51.540 Know they're

00:36:52.300 Not you

00:36:52.680 You're you

00:36:53.120 Right

00:36:53.660 That's it

00:36:54.160 Right

00:36:54.500 So I'll

00:36:57.640 Repeat the

00:36:57.960 Definition again

00:36:58.660 Success is

00:36:59.880 Realizing and

00:37:00.660 Pursuing your

00:37:01.300 How awesome

00:37:01.760 Grand pies are

00:37:02.600 True potential

00:37:03.660 You guys aren't

00:37:04.420 Going to let me

00:37:04.840 In drop that

00:37:06.180 Never

00:37:06.520 Yeah

00:37:07.480 Never

00:37:08.000 It's become a

00:37:08.840 Permanent fixture

00:37:09.460 It is

00:37:10.120 It's amazing

00:37:11.340 How many people

00:37:12.280 Jumped on to

00:37:13.480 That whole

00:37:13.920 Phenomenon

00:37:14.660 By the way

00:37:15.100 Go on Vaughn's

00:37:15.660 Page hashtag

00:37:16.220 Grand pies

00:37:16.860 All right

00:37:18.700 Sorry for

00:37:19.300 Interrupting

00:37:19.700 No no no

00:37:20.060 You're fine

00:37:20.340 Okay so just

00:37:21.180 To repeat

00:37:21.620 Because I want

00:37:22.220 To drill this

00:37:22.880 In people's head

00:37:23.380 Because this is

00:37:23.880 Obviously a really

00:37:24.400 Good definition

00:37:25.000 Of success

00:37:25.740 Success is

00:37:26.880 Realizing and

00:37:28.000 Pursuing your

00:37:28.600 Own true

00:37:29.640 Potential

00:37:30.260 And when I

00:37:30.880 See that phrase

00:37:31.460 True potential

00:37:32.040 The things

00:37:32.460 The two

00:37:33.200 Concepts that

00:37:34.260 Come to my

00:37:34.660 Mind are

00:37:35.080 True meaning

00:37:35.740 You have to

00:37:36.680 Be sober

00:37:37.120 You have to

00:37:37.460 Be realistic

00:37:37.960 On some

00:37:38.420 Level

00:37:38.680 But then

00:37:39.240 Potential

00:37:39.740 Is

00:37:40.780 A hopeful

00:37:42.440 Word

00:37:42.780 It's a word

00:37:43.300 That you know

00:37:43.960 Is limitless

00:37:44.820 So

00:37:45.080 Dude I

00:37:45.560 Honestly believe

00:37:46.660 Man

00:37:47.180 Let me ask you

00:37:47.920 This question

00:37:48.380 I honestly

00:37:50.500 Believe

00:37:51.040 That most

00:37:52.540 People can

00:37:53.320 Pursue

00:37:54.140 Like I feel

00:37:55.500 Like most

00:37:56.020 Goals are

00:37:56.660 Attainable for

00:37:57.260 People

00:37:57.560 Like there's

00:37:58.700 Tons of dudes

00:37:59.340 That played in

00:37:59.740 The NBA

00:38:00.100 That were not

00:38:00.920 Fucking great

00:38:01.600 Athletes

00:38:02.020 Growing up

00:38:02.720 There's tons

00:38:03.460 Of dudes

00:38:03.760 That played in

00:38:04.160 The NFL

00:38:04.500 That were just

00:38:05.180 Okay athletes

00:38:06.180 That worked

00:38:06.680 Their fucking

00:38:07.180 Asses off

00:38:07.840 To become

00:38:08.520 That

00:38:08.720 There's plenty

00:38:09.500 Of people

00:38:09.900 Who are

00:38:10.200 Multi

00:38:10.680 Multi

00:38:11.120 Multi

00:38:11.540 Millionaires

00:38:12.100 And I've

00:38:12.500 Met a lot

00:38:12.920 Of them

00:38:13.180 That I would

00:38:13.880 Consider not

00:38:14.420 Very smart

00:38:15.080 But you know

00:38:15.920 What they

00:38:16.140 All what all

00:38:17.000 Those people

00:38:17.400 Did they

00:38:18.220 All fucking

00:38:18.820 Did the work

00:38:19.380 They all

00:38:20.380 Were people

00:38:21.060 Of action

00:38:21.800 Okay I

00:38:22.800 Have a

00:38:23.120 I have a

00:38:23.540 Great friend

00:38:24.120 Who and I

00:38:25.780 Tell him this

00:38:26.400 So I don't

00:38:26.680 Have a problem

00:38:27.080 Saying it

00:38:27.580 Who's a

00:38:27.900 Multi

00:38:28.160 Millionaire

00:38:28.680 He's done

00:38:29.060 Very well

00:38:29.580 In life

00:38:29.960 He's pretty

00:38:31.040 Fucking stupid

00:38:31.720 Just being

00:38:32.780 Real and I

00:38:33.620 Just tell him

00:38:34.140 I always tell him

00:38:34.660 Like hey bro

00:38:35.220 You know you do

00:38:36.280 Pretty well for

00:38:36.840 Being a dumb

00:38:37.260 Ass like but

00:38:38.460 You know what

00:38:38.880 The thing is

00:38:39.460 I respect the

00:38:41.000 Shit out of him

00:38:41.560 Because you know

00:38:42.100 What he

00:38:43.380 Understands that

00:38:45.260 Success is math

00:38:46.440 It is no

00:38:47.020 Different you

00:38:47.520 Make a list

00:38:48.120 You cross the

00:38:48.740 Fucking list

00:38:49.260 Off every day

00:38:50.420 For a long

00:38:51.140 Fucking time

00:38:51.760 And shit

00:38:52.320 Happens and

00:38:53.160 That's it

00:38:53.580 Right so you

00:38:54.940 Know are you

00:38:55.760 Going to be

00:38:56.320 An Emmy

00:38:57.840 Award winning

00:38:58.740 Singer and

00:39:00.380 Singing with

00:39:00.960 Fucking Celine

00:39:01.940 Dion on the

00:39:03.420 Stage maybe

00:39:05.040 Not but I

00:39:06.220 Guarantee you

00:39:06.820 If you dedicate

00:39:07.300 Your whole life

00:39:07.760 To become a

00:39:08.220 Singer you'll

00:39:08.680 Fill up some

00:39:09.100 Fucking nice

00:39:10.180 Crowds and you

00:39:10.800 Have a good

00:39:11.140 Time and you'll

00:39:11.980 Be fulfilled

00:39:12.480 No matter what

00:39:13.420 Your voice sounds

00:39:14.080 Like much as I

00:39:15.200 Hate to admit it

00:39:15.760 You sort of

00:39:16.180 Brilliantly

00:39:16.560 Anticipated I

00:39:17.360 Know because

00:39:17.920 That's me

00:39:18.400 I'm fucking

00:39:18.820 Brilliant

00:39:19.120 Yeah yeah

00:39:19.640 Isn't that right

00:39:20.800 Tyler

00:39:21.060 That is correct

00:39:22.220 But the question

00:39:23.000 Really was how

00:39:23.960 Do you bridge the

00:39:26.020 Apparent divide

00:39:26.980 Between true

00:39:28.140 You know having a

00:39:29.180 Sober assessment of

00:39:30.040 Yourself and

00:39:30.600 Potential believing

00:39:31.900 In your huge

00:39:32.780 Potential and you

00:39:33.700 Said it the thing

00:39:34.820 That bridges the

00:39:35.520 Divide between

00:39:36.100 Those two things

00:39:36.640 Is work

00:39:37.460 Right the work

00:39:38.400 Always comes before

00:39:39.200 To believe

00:39:39.680 Yeah

00:39:40.000 All right you're

00:39:41.600 Going to do work

00:39:42.180 You're going to do

00:39:42.560 Work you're going to

00:39:43.040 Do work and there

00:39:44.840 Takes faith right you

00:39:45.800 Got to have faith that

00:39:46.480 The work's going to

00:39:47.020 To even start the work

00:39:48.120 You got to have a

00:39:48.620 Little faith that

00:39:49.560 It's going to pay off

00:39:50.420 And what's going to

00:39:51.280 Happen and I said

00:39:52.060 This before you guys

00:39:53.080 Have probably heard it

00:39:53.840 You're going to do

00:39:54.640 A little bit you're

00:39:55.380 Going to inch inch inch

00:39:56.460 Inch inch inch inch

00:39:57.380 Inch forward from

00:39:58.240 Doing the work and

00:39:59.260 Then you're going to

00:39:59.620 See some cool shit

00:40:00.300 Happen you're going to

00:40:00.900 Say holy shit guess

00:40:02.440 What happened and you

00:40:04.260 Know I lost five pounds

00:40:05.300 Or I made a thousand

00:40:06.040 Dollars or I made this

00:40:07.500 Contact and then

00:40:09.720 You're going to say

00:40:10.140 Man you know what the

00:40:11.960 Work actually works you

00:40:14.480 Know and that's how that's

00:40:17.440 How the belief starts to

00:40:18.440 Happen so then you're

00:40:19.560 Like well fuck if I did

00:40:20.620 This much work and I got

00:40:21.640 This result what if I do

00:40:23.380 This much more and then

00:40:25.020 Your thinking changes and

00:40:26.160 Then all of a sudden now

00:40:27.560 You're starting to believe

00:40:28.560 That you could produce that

00:40:30.280 Result with the work and

00:40:31.400 It changes your life the

00:40:32.820 Problem is most people

00:40:34.000 Never start with the

00:40:35.000 First set of doing it

00:40:36.880 Because they just

00:40:38.100 Discount it because all

00:40:39.240 Their fucking friends at

00:40:40.160 The bar tell them it's a

00:40:41.240 Waste of time it's ridiculous

00:40:44.360 Like it's so it's so it's

00:40:48.040 So crazy how easy people

00:40:53.440 Give up on their whole

00:40:55.780 Entire life it's it's to

00:40:59.160 Me I can't relate but I

00:41:01.260 See it every day I see it

00:41:02.920 Every day man I see it in

00:41:04.380 My Facebook comments I see

00:41:05.520 It in my Instagram comments

00:41:06.540 I see it I see it in the

00:41:08.060 Emails that people send which

00:41:09.600 By the way I don't check my

00:41:10.720 DMs so when you comment on

00:41:12.200 My fucking Instagram saying

00:41:13.300 Check your DMs I don't

00:41:14.240 Fucking check them I'm

00:41:15.700 Sorry I don't you know

00:41:17.200 Maybe one day when I have

00:41:18.120 An assistant they can check

00:41:19.240 Them but they're literally

00:41:19.940 Get hundreds a day man I

00:41:21.360 Sent you a good one the

00:41:22.260 Other day you did oh yeah

00:41:23.540 I slid in that DM well you

00:41:25.220 Slid in

00:41:25.700 So anyway so but dude the

00:41:32.080 Point is is that like you

00:41:33.280 You have to understand that

00:41:34.840 You know for you to ever

00:41:37.000 Really believe you're gonna

00:41:38.300 Have to do some fucking

00:41:39.120 Work to get started right you

00:41:40.920 Know like just look at

00:41:42.060 Fitness people man like how

00:41:43.500 Many people have to lose a

00:41:44.660 Hundred pounds or two hundred

00:41:45.620 Pounds and you hear them

00:41:47.420 Saying shit like this oh well

00:41:49.660 My body just won't let me

00:41:51.220 Lose it like bro you didn't

00:41:52.920 Even fucking do anything how

00:41:54.580 Do you know right or they

00:41:56.040 Eat one healthy meal and

00:41:56.860 They're like fuck I don't

00:41:57.580 Have abs yet or they do it

00:41:58.500 For they do it for a week yeah

00:42:00.040 It's the same thing like you

00:42:01.420 Like I taught we have sales

00:42:02.640 Reps all over the world for

00:42:03.940 First form and I tell you

00:42:06.540 Know when I'm talking to

00:42:07.240 These people I have to talk

00:42:08.020 To them in terms of fitness

00:42:08.860 Because they're not all

00:42:09.860 Entrepreneurial minded and

00:42:11.000 That's okay but we talked

00:42:12.780 To them about sales right and

00:42:13.960 I use this example I'm like

00:42:15.180 What if you what if you were

00:42:17.060 To write a diet fill out the

00:42:19.760 Supplements and and instruct

00:42:21.600 Somebody to go out and follow

00:42:22.780 The plan and they came back to

00:42:23.960 You in a week or two weeks and

00:42:26.800 Came back and said this isn't

00:42:29.600 Working your plan it doesn't

00:42:31.380 Work for me it's just not

00:42:32.240 Gonna fucking work for me you

00:42:33.700 Would laugh you'd be like bro

00:42:35.400 You got to give it like eight

00:42:37.000 Weeks at least to see results you

00:42:38.960 Know it takes time takes time and

00:42:41.980 You would laugh but it's funny

00:42:43.460 How many people understand that

00:42:45.540 In fitness but they don't

00:42:46.320 Understand that in like career

00:42:47.720 Right you know like and in

00:42:49.460 Career guess what it takes

00:42:50.540 Longer than eight weeks you're

00:42:52.100 Going to times that by like 10

00:42:53.500 That's what it takes to get it

00:42:55.280 Going right it just does like I

00:42:57.840 Got a real successful or I've

00:42:59.820 Got a rep in my in my company

00:43:01.820 Who just honestly wasn't doing

00:43:05.340 The fucking job and I had to

00:43:06.980 Fucking straight up lay the

00:43:09.520 Smackdown and it's funny because

00:43:13.080 The last like week and Tyler and

00:43:15.420 I were talking about this

00:43:16.160 Yesterday the last week every

00:43:17.940 Post has been great every call

00:43:19.560 Has been great everything's been

00:43:20.760 Perfect and I text her and I said

00:43:23.320 I said hey good job she's like

00:43:25.480 Oh thanks I've been working

00:43:26.640 Really hard I feel I'm feeling it

00:43:28.080 I'm like all right well do it for

00:43:30.020 Another year straight and then

00:43:31.940 Let me know how it works out for

00:43:33.000 You see what I'm saying yeah like

00:43:34.820 Dude it's not a four or five or

00:43:36.360 Six day or a week or two week

00:43:37.760 Thing it's a fucking lifetime yeah

00:43:40.020 Well I just always liked your

00:43:41.220 Quote you know choose your hard

00:43:42.560 Yeah man you want to do you want

00:43:44.140 To have a hard life for the rest

00:43:45.740 Of your life or do you want life's

00:43:47.080 Going to have hard but of course

00:43:48.520 But like which hard do you want

00:43:50.280 Do you want to do you want to

00:43:51.140 Fucking I know which hard Tyler

00:43:52.700 Want yeah I know Tyler wants that

00:43:54.660 Hard Mr. Impaler yeah Vaughn

00:43:57.480 Wants to impale Tyler that's what I

00:43:59.220 Things going on here but dude what

00:44:01.020 I'm saying is like you are gonna

00:44:02.600 You're gonna have difficulties do

00:44:04.260 You want to have the difficulties

00:44:05.440 Of a person being broke or out of

00:44:08.840 Shape or do you want to have the

00:44:09.760 Difficulties of doing the work and

00:44:11.080 Then and then have the prize of

00:44:12.760 Having some money and some and look

00:44:14.620 Good and feel good right you know

00:44:16.020 It's all a trade but that the

00:44:19.100 Hard's gonna be there and people

00:44:21.540 Just don't believe until they do a

00:44:26.440 Little bit of the work but people

00:44:27.640 Are so willing so unwilling to get

00:44:29.540 Through that first eight or ten or

00:44:31.000 Twelve weeks of changing their life

00:44:33.160 That they that they never do it

00:44:34.440 Ever their whole life for fucking

00:44:35.780 80 years dude it's crazy yeah it is

00:44:38.600 So we had our friend Ben Newman

00:44:41.640 Back on the show the other day and

00:44:42.760 I remember asking him when he first

00:44:44.460 Started working with us because you

00:44:45.740 Know Ben if you guys follow our

00:44:47.360 Podcast Ben is a part of what he

00:44:49.940 Does is he's a professional public

00:44:51.140 Speaker and he's he's like talking

00:44:53.600 Literally two or three times maybe

00:44:55.460 More a week so he is he is just

00:44:57.480 Booked constantly all right and I

00:44:59.720 Asked him I said but Ben you know

00:45:01.100 There are a lot of people that

00:45:01.900 Really want to get into that whole

00:45:03.260 Public speaking thing said how did

00:45:05.800 You really get to be the point you're

00:45:07.300 So successful and I was I kind of

00:45:09.760 Surprised by his answer because I

00:45:11.100 Thought he was gonna say oh I had

00:45:12.580 This really really great pitch that I

00:45:15.100 Made to companies and all this he

00:45:16.720 Said Vaughn I have a daily habit of I

00:45:19.840 Contact a certain number of people a

00:45:21.780 Day without fail he's like it's a

00:45:24.060 Numbers game right and he said now I

00:45:26.260 Don't have to do it but when I was

00:45:27.840 Starting it was just constant attempt

00:45:30.520 After attempt after attempt and and

00:45:32.820 That's what I thought of when I heard

00:45:34.280 You talking it's not just this this

00:45:36.000 Over time being committed to ongoing

00:45:38.620 Work but it's attempt after attempt

00:45:40.920 After attempt repetition like success

00:45:43.580 Is a habit it's a habit the numbers

00:45:45.380 Game yes yeah I agree with that a

00:45:48.040 Hundred percent you know so a couple

00:45:51.360 With the ability to learn from

00:45:52.700 Mistakes right right not doing the

00:45:54.420 Same thing wrong and some people do

00:45:56.100 That like dude I actually made a post

00:45:57.900 A fucking snap story about this

00:45:59.300 Today you know like people who

00:46:01.000 Constantly complain and constantly

00:46:03.920 Cry and whine and make passive

00:46:06.940 Aggressive statuses about their lives

00:46:09.320 On Facebook it's like dude you're the

00:46:12.800 Fucking only constant variable and

00:46:14.840 This thing keeps happening over and

00:46:16.320 Over and over again but yet you're

00:46:17.880 Blaming everyone else like when is it

00:46:19.540 Going to be the time for you to

00:46:20.580 Point the finger at yourself and say

00:46:21.760 Man you know this is my fucking

00:46:23.660 Fault and you know I mean it's it's

00:46:26.320 Amazing to me how many people can't

00:46:28.240 Even do that you can't admit that

00:46:30.600 You made a mistake to yourself bro

00:46:32.040 You're not that important to where

00:46:34.140 The whole world's gonna fall apart if

00:46:35.420 You admit that you made a fucking

00:46:36.440 Mistake right you know what I mean

00:46:37.860 Throw your fucking ego out like bro I

00:46:40.340 Make mistakes every fucking day right

00:46:42.180 I expect it so I've got a couple of

00:46:45.000 Follow-up questions just to wrap this

00:46:46.580 Up but it'd be a good time just to

00:46:48.300 Share social you are andy frisella on

00:46:51.080 Instagram I am andy frisella you are

00:46:53.100 Andy frisella and on everything except

00:46:54.940 For snapchat you are mfceo-one mfceo-one

00:46:58.480 Tyler is what are you Tyler

00:47:01.340 Instagram's m a i underscore tyler my

00:47:05.780 Tyler okay and I'm at v a u g h n k o h l e r

00:47:10.280 Yeah my facebook's if you're a search

00:47:12.720 It's andrew frisella for the live

00:47:14.480 Event so like make sure you catch that

00:47:16.340 You'll find it I guess I would just

00:47:18.820 Wrap up by saying oh well before I say

00:47:20.900 Before I wrap up I I know I'm gonna

00:47:23.560 Bring I know you know the vast majority

00:47:25.500 Of the people who listen to us are

00:47:26.640 Probably not gonna have an issue but

00:47:27.720 There's probably gonna be a couple

00:47:28.580 People get their panties in a wad but

00:47:30.120 Can I just say how cool it is that our

00:47:33.420 Next president is an entrepreneur hey man

00:47:36.660 You know do I even want to touch that I

00:47:40.320 Don't care I don't care what people

00:47:41.800 Think you know I've said a hundred

00:47:43.180 Times if you can't if you couldn't run

00:47:45.220 My business you have no business running

00:47:48.040 The country yeah I think having an

00:47:50.280 Entrepreneurial background a business

00:47:51.800 Background is priority number one yeah

00:47:54.700 You know a lot of people will argue and

00:47:56.300 Say oh fucking social issues and this and

00:47:58.240 That dude fuck that motherfuckers if you

00:48:00.540 Don't have no money you can't do shit yeah

00:48:02.380 That's the bottom line yeah Grant

00:48:03.620 Cardone posted on IG about that just

00:48:05.440 About just you know here you you

00:48:07.460 Literally have an entrepreneur who is

00:48:09.360 Now the president or will be the

00:48:10.600 President of the United States of

00:48:11.560 America so I it's kind of cool for

00:48:13.260 Those yeah but see let's talk about

00:48:14.320 This man so like most people look at

00:48:16.040 That and they say oh he's not a real

00:48:17.340 Entrepreneur because his fucking dad

00:48:19.560 Gave him a million dollars and you know

00:48:21.840 He had this privileged upbringing and

00:48:24.720 He had blah blah blah blah blah blah blah and

00:48:26.800 They go on and on and on and on and on

00:48:28.080 Example of telling stories about it

00:48:29.760 Right instead of saying like whoa dude

00:48:32.360 That guy took a million dollars and

00:48:34.160 Turned into fucking billions of dollars

00:48:36.140 Could have just spent it dude right

00:48:38.240 Most people would have yeah most

00:48:39.560 People would have bought fucking

00:48:40.320 Jordans and fucking still sweatpants

00:48:42.880 That look like they people shit

00:48:44.360 Themselves that are tied around the

00:48:46.340 Legs we haven't talked about those for

00:48:47.540 A while yeah what are those called

00:48:48.460 Shitters yeah I think that's what you

00:48:50.520 Call all these motherfuckers in

00:48:52.280 Fitness are wearing these things

00:48:53.320 That actually they're starting to not

00:48:54.700 Wear them anymore because dude they

00:48:56.400 Just look horrible yeah like it's

00:48:58.500 The ones with a really low crotch is

00:49:00.040 That what you yeah yeah I don't know

00:49:01.400 They call joggers oh no jock will look

00:49:04.560 All right explain it well joggers can

00:49:06.980 Come in like those different no I'm

00:49:08.760 Talking about the ones that look like

00:49:10.140 You're wearing a fucking sweatshirt on

00:49:12.180 Your fucking right pants you know what

00:49:14.220 I'm saying but joggers come question is

00:49:15.720 Do those come in like normal crotches can

00:49:17.720 You get those salmon all I know is like

00:49:19.380 We give Tyler a bunch of shit about

00:49:20.800 His fashion I'm just happy I've never

00:49:22.180 Seen him wear a pair of those I have

00:49:24.280 Joggers they just don't hang really

00:49:25.760 Fucking low you don't have the ones

00:49:26.880 With the shitters no I don't look like

00:49:28.620 I have a dirty diaper on that's what

00:49:29.920 It looks like dude who fucking made

00:49:32.600 Those here's the point you know what

00:49:34.760 The point of that is is that you can

00:49:36.840 Come up with a product that literal

00:49:38.440 Shitty and it will still fucking sell

00:49:41.080 If you fucking do it right yeah you

00:49:43.580 Know like it's just unbelievable the

00:49:45.580 Opportunities are unbelievable absolutely

00:49:47.240 Okay so just just to wrap up

00:49:49.060 Success is realizing and pursuing your

00:49:54.480 Own true potential just off the top

00:49:58.480 Of your head I mean share a couple

00:49:59.580 Tips for how to put all this into

00:50:02.160 Practice the first thing I would do is

00:50:03.660 I would go back and listen to the

00:50:04.720 Podcast win the day all right because

00:50:07.060 That's going to give you a practical

00:50:08.600 Understanding of how you can literally

00:50:12.420 Accumulate wins to become a winner and

00:50:17.100 It's actionable things so you know don't

00:50:19.820 Just sit there and fucking dream about

00:50:21.460 It and think about it and all this other

00:50:22.740 Bullshit that people tell you to do or

00:50:24.920 That you see on Instagram like oh

00:50:26.420 Fucking dream big dreams blah blah

00:50:29.920 Blah like dude is that part of it yeah

00:50:32.280 But the real part of it is doing the

00:50:34.040 Fucking work so like let's get

00:50:35.520 Practical about it have your goals

00:50:37.500 Have your dreams have your visions

00:50:38.860 Great but unless you have a plan from

00:50:43.440 Where it is you want to be to where

00:50:45.460 You are and work backwards from that

00:50:46.960 Plan which is what we do in that

00:50:48.240 Podcast win the day you are never

00:50:50.940 Going to get there so I don't care

00:50:53.080 How much you fucking dream about it I

00:50:54.360 Don't care like a lot of people are

00:50:55.420 Into the law of attraction now which I

00:50:56.680 Am a vocal believer in but you've got

00:50:59.900 To do your part you know you've got to

00:51:01.540 Meet it in the middle and most people

00:51:04.180 Miss that step because of the way that

00:51:05.780 The law of attraction sounds it sounds

00:51:08.320 Mystical it sounds magical it sounds

00:51:10.300 Like oh if I believe it it'll manifest

00:51:12.060 Itself passively accepted if you believe

00:51:14.300 It and you know it will manifest itself

00:51:19.600 If you take the actions to work towards

00:51:21.600 That but that's the part people miss right

00:51:23.800 You know it's a two-part process if

00:51:25.160 You've listened to the MF CEO project

00:51:27.920 For any length of time you know that

00:51:29.280 We're we're touching on things that

00:51:30.720 Andy's talked about over the last year

00:51:32.480 So like I said we wanted to refresh the

00:51:35.800 Reality is is that there's no there's no

00:51:38.120 New secret magical formula for success

00:51:40.880 Andy has been saying this literally

00:51:42.820 For the last year but sometimes it's

00:51:44.580 Important well especially going into a

00:51:46.620 New year yeah you know and sometimes

00:51:48.440 It's important to be reminded of what

00:51:49.960 You already know right you know so

00:51:51.820 We're going to know what I'm doing is

00:51:52.760 Two different things man yeah we're

00:51:54.220 Going to we're going to talk about

00:51:55.320 Greatness and motivation and

00:51:58.480 Perseverance in the next couple weeks

00:52:00.000 But anything else you yeah yeah guys

00:52:02.280 Make sure you tune in tonight and

00:52:05.020 Check out that Facebook live and then

00:52:06.540 Also you know if you found this

00:52:09.600 Podcast valuable share with your

00:52:11.540 Friends you know we've we've grown a

00:52:13.480 Tremendous amount this year it's been

00:52:15.220 Crazy it's encouraging to me the

00:52:20.180 Amount that we grow not because like I

00:52:21.840 Can say oh we grew or we have this

00:52:23.060 Many listeners but it makes me feel

00:52:25.180 Like I'm not fucking crazy you know

00:52:27.300 I'm saying like a lot of us here right

00:52:29.000 Now you know the way we think it's for a

00:52:32.700 Long time the last 20 years it hasn't

00:52:34.520 Even popular to vocalize the way that

00:52:36.360 We think you know what I mean it's not

00:52:38.280 Cool to be ambitious it's not cool to

00:52:40.980 Want things it's not cool to want to

00:52:42.780 Make money you know and that's

00:52:46.040 Bullshit okay if you don't make any

00:52:48.220 Fucking money if you don't think that's

00:52:50.620 Cool if you don't you know work your

00:52:53.160 Ass off to do these things if you

00:52:54.520 Don't have ambitions what good can you

00:52:56.160 Do for other people you know because

00:52:57.980 That's what people always like to point

00:52:59.500 Out you should care about other people

00:53:01.360 Not yourself motherfucker why do you

00:53:03.160 Think I do all this shit if I was

00:53:04.420 Worried about myself I'd already

00:53:05.440 Fucking retire you know what I mean

00:53:07.440 People don't think about it like

00:53:08.920 That yeah I'm waiting because you

00:53:10.240 Said this what was it like about a

00:53:11.860 Year ago and you got all these people

00:53:13.580 Saying what about mother Teresa

00:53:15.200 Mother Teresa didn't have any money

00:53:16.720 And she impacted lots of people's

00:53:18.240 Lives yeah what about her I mean what

00:53:21.340 About her if she would have sold

00:53:22.820 Some fucking books she would have

00:53:24.000 Some fucking money would she not the

00:53:27.940 Point is is that dude when you make

00:53:29.360 Impact and you provide value you have

00:53:30.820 The opportunity to do what you want

00:53:32.280 Yeah right whether it be through

00:53:34.800 Fame or whether it be through making

00:53:36.340 A difference or whether it be through

00:53:37.540 Monetary donation and unless you

00:53:39.780 Impact people you can never get to

00:53:41.320 That point and what's more

00:53:42.740 Impactful you know going down to the

00:53:45.560 Local soup kitchen and serving meals

00:53:47.160 On Thanksgiving which is great if you

00:53:48.920 Do that kudos to you but what's more

00:53:51.200 Impactful doing that or making enough

00:53:53.080 Money to build a hundred motherfucking

00:53:54.400 Soup kitchens for people absolutely and

00:53:57.020 That's what I think people forget no

00:53:58.780 They don't even consider it man

00:54:00.340 We are an entrepreneurial podcast we're

00:54:02.420 Not talking about missionary work which

00:54:04.020 Is great obviously clearly it all

00:54:05.420 Relates it's all the same it's all

00:54:06.860 Relate but that's it's crazy without

00:54:08.800 Money man missionaries wouldn't exist

00:54:10.980 Right you couldn't go do that shit

00:54:12.400 Without money it's a reality there's

00:54:14.500 People that finance those things

00:54:15.700 Absolutely okay so these this anti-money

00:54:19.920 Anti-fucking you know capitalism anti this

00:54:24.160 Everybody deserves this this this fuck

00:54:26.120 Fuck that if you don't have money you

00:54:28.300 Can't do that much good you can only

00:54:30.020 Affect the people that you come in

00:54:31.200 Contact with which if you don't have it

00:54:33.400 And that's what you do that's what you

00:54:34.740 Should do not knocking it but I'm just

00:54:37.280 Saying you can make a hell of a lot more

00:54:38.740 Of a dent in the world in a good way

00:54:43.000 When you have the means to do so and if

00:54:45.400 You have some sort of moral hang-up about

00:54:47.580 Becoming financially successful or earning

00:54:51.180 A great living or whatever it is that

00:54:54.120 You have your hang-up about because you

00:54:55.500 Know it's not cool you need to start

00:54:58.780 Thinking about it differently and think

00:55:00.080 About the shit that you can do because

00:55:02.220 I would tell you right now I do a lot of

00:55:03.420 Cool fucking shit that I wouldn't be

00:55:05.420 Able to do if I didn't if I didn't do

00:55:07.980 The work that I have done so far and I

00:55:09.960 Plan to do a lot more but the point of

00:55:11.960 What I try to make here is that like

00:55:13.080 Dude it makes me it makes me encourage

00:55:14.860 That people grow this podcast so much

00:55:18.700 Because it makes me feel like that that

00:55:22.000 Spirit and that those values and all

00:55:24.320 The things that we talk about are still

00:55:25.780 Alive in people even if they're not

00:55:27.140 Vocalizing it and I think that's

00:55:29.500 Fucking cool I think it's one of the

00:55:30.660 Coolest things about this whole deal so

00:55:32.420 Guys I appreciate you guys sharing I

00:55:34.560 Appreciate everything that you do for us

00:55:37.280 I appreciate you listening and you know

00:55:41.640 We'll be back next week with some more

00:55:43.360 With some more talk and it's your job

00:55:46.640 To go out and act get ready to get

00:55:48.140 Your minds blown tonight

00:55:49.380 Blown

00:55:50.360 See you later guys

00:55:52.440 This is for the G's and this is for the

00:55:57.420 Hustler this is for the Hustlers

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REAL AF with Andy Frisella - December 06, 2016

Recalibrate, Part 1： Success, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO111

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