Nobody Cares, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO112
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Summary
Why do you bitch, complain, and feel sorry for yourself? Why do you do it? Why is it so near and dear to my heart that I ve just got to speak on it all right now?
Transcript
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what is up guys you're listening to the mf ceo project i'm andy i'm your host and i am the
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motherfucking ce oh my god do i have a good thursday thunder for you today i have something
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that is so near and dear to my heart that i've just got to speak on it all right why do you bitch
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why do you complain why do you whine why must you put on the internet for everybody to see
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whining bitching crying moaning complaining why how is that going to help you okay i see this every
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day i see people who are constantly looking for attention through their complaining they're
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looking for everybody to say oh poor little johnny he's having a hard time in his business
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and you know i'm gonna like his status because he needs the moral support listen nobody fucking cares
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people may like your status people may comment and sympathize with you or try to empathize with you
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but here's the deal nobody fucking cares the world's a tough place the world is a place that will eat you
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alive if you let it and the more time you spend bitching complaining putting out negativity for
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the world to see is time that you're not going to have towards being productive and a lot of people
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use complaining and bitching and whining to get attention but what if you use the time that you
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bitched and complain and whine and felt sorry for yourself to actually hone the skills needed to be
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successful so that you would get the right kind of attention the kind of attention that shows that
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people actually care i see this a lot in business people who open a business especially with the 25 and
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undercrowd and sorry if that's you but your generation sucks when it comes to this all right
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you go and you start a business and you think that because you've been raised your whole entire life to
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think that you're special that you deserve to have some sort of chance in business and you fucking don't
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okay business is tough the world is tough life is tough every single chance that somebody gets to compete
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against you they are going to step on your motherfucking throat every single chance the world gets it's going
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to step on your fucking throat okay you don't deserve fucking shit you don't deserve a chance you don't deserve
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an opportunity you don't deserve uh to win you don't deserve anything you have to create those things
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you have to create those things you have to execute and build the skills that are needed to create those things
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nobody's going to give you a chance nobody's going to give you a win nobody's going to give you a fucking dollar
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because you're you think how arrogant that is the arrogance in today's youth to me is mind-boggling
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we are all in a competition we are all in a situation where we have to compete so every single second that
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you spend whining and crying and complaining and bitching and feeling sorry for yourself is a minute that
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you're not going to get back that you could have used to improve the skill set that you have
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people may act like they feel sorry for you they may act like they care they may act like they feel bad
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that you're having a tough time but ask them for their help and see what they do and you'll find out who
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really fucking cares you have to understand that you are alone and the only way you're not going to be
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alone is by benefiting other people more than they benefit you that means giving more value to them
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than they give you that's how you create a tribe that's how you create a group that's how you create
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a culture that's how you create a system of support you got to give more than you take and for you to sit
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back and think that the whole entire world owes you because you decided to do something and they owe you
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your support their support is the most arrogant thought that one could ever have you deserve
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nothing and the more you think you deserve things the more likely you are to get nothing in return
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okay and this is a popular subject people talk about you don't deserve or you don't this or
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or you know you're entitled this and that and this but here's the thing guys the truth of the matter is
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is that you get what you earn in this world you get back what you put out so why are you spending your
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time putting out all this shit i challenge every single one of you listening to this right now
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to to every single time you post something on the internet to think is this whining is this complaining
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is this self-loathing or is this something that's going to benefit the people that follow me is this
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something that's going to bring value to them because the more value you bring the more support you get
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the more attention you get the more opportunity you get to make money all right everybody spends so much
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time focusing on the negative and they tell themselves every single story that they could possibly tell
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themselves about why they aren't where they are you know the truth of the matter is guys is you may not be
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the smartest you may not be the fastest or the strongest or be the person with the best of
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circumstances in fact i bet for every single one of you and i know this is true for me that those
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statements are true there's always going to be smarter people than me there's definitely faster people
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than me and stronger people and people who have better circumstances but i don't use that as an excuse
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to do nothing i use that as motivation to improve i realize that all of us including you have potential
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we all have that most of us decide to look at the other guy or look at the competition or look at so
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and so and assume that they're better or smarter or have something that we don't and you know what
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sometimes they do have that but most of the time they don't the only thing that they have
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that's better than what you have is they have the willingness and understanding that if they do
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the work the result will be there and then in turn they go do the work
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most of these people do the work day in and day out and they do it for long enough and they do it
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good enough that they become very very very close to fulfilling their life's true potential
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and if fulfillment of your own true potential in all areas of your life isn't the complete and total
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definition of success in life i don't know what is