REAL AF with Andy Frisella - Nobody Cares, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO112

00:00:00.000 what is up guys you're listening to the mf ceo project i'm andy i'm your host and i am the

00:00:18.260 motherfucking ce oh my god do i have a good thursday thunder for you today i have something 0.93

00:00:25.100 that is so near and dear to my heart that i've just got to speak on it all right why do you bitch 1.00

00:00:39.120 why do you complain why do you whine why must you put on the internet for everybody to see

00:00:50.640 whining bitching crying moaning complaining why how is that going to help you okay i see this every 0.72

00:01:03.980 day i see people who are constantly looking for attention through their complaining they're

00:01:11.380 looking for everybody to say oh poor little johnny he's having a hard time in his business

00:01:17.160 and you know i'm gonna like his status because he needs the moral support listen nobody fucking cares 0.96

00:01:25.520 people may like your status people may comment and sympathize with you or try to empathize with you

00:01:33.480 but here's the deal nobody fucking cares the world's a tough place the world is a place that will eat you 0.98

00:01:44.120 alive if you let it and the more time you spend bitching complaining putting out negativity for 1.00

00:01:52.500 the world to see is time that you're not going to have towards being productive and a lot of people

00:01:59.920 use complaining and bitching and whining to get attention but what if you use the time that you 0.82

00:02:07.600 bitched and complain and whine and felt sorry for yourself to actually hone the skills needed to be 0.66

00:02:15.520 successful so that you would get the right kind of attention the kind of attention that shows that

00:02:22.720 people actually care i see this a lot in business people who open a business especially with the 25 and

00:02:30.340 undercrowd and sorry if that's you but your generation sucks when it comes to this all right 0.89

00:02:35.820 you go and you start a business and you think that because you've been raised your whole entire life to

00:02:42.980 think that you're special that you deserve to have some sort of chance in business and you fucking don't

00:02:50.720 okay business is tough the world is tough life is tough every single chance that somebody gets to compete

00:03:00.820 against you they are going to step on your motherfucking throat every single chance the world gets it's going 0.99

00:03:08.020 to step on your fucking throat okay you don't deserve fucking shit you don't deserve a chance you don't deserve 1.00

00:03:14.840 an opportunity you don't deserve uh to win you don't deserve anything you have to create those things

00:03:23.360 you have to create those things you have to execute and build the skills that are needed to create those things

00:03:31.920 nobody's going to give you a chance nobody's going to give you a win nobody's going to give you a fucking dollar 0.93

00:03:37.920 because you're you think how arrogant that is the arrogance in today's youth to me is mind-boggling

00:03:46.060 we are all in a competition we are all in a situation where we have to compete so every single second that

00:03:55.640 you spend whining and crying and complaining and bitching and feeling sorry for yourself is a minute that

00:04:02.880 you're not going to get back that you could have used to improve the skill set that you have

00:04:08.840 people may act like they feel sorry for you they may act like they care they may act like they feel bad

00:04:18.180 that you're having a tough time but ask them for their help and see what they do and you'll find out who

00:04:23.320 really fucking cares you have to understand that you are alone and the only way you're not going to be 0.93

00:04:32.860 alone is by benefiting other people more than they benefit you that means giving more value to them

00:04:40.020 than they give you that's how you create a tribe that's how you create a group that's how you create

00:04:45.860 a culture that's how you create a system of support you got to give more than you take and for you to sit

00:04:53.000 back and think that the whole entire world owes you because you decided to do something and they owe you

00:05:00.180 your support their support is the most arrogant thought that one could ever have you deserve

00:05:08.900 nothing and the more you think you deserve things the more likely you are to get nothing in return

00:05:16.820 okay and this is a popular subject people talk about you don't deserve or you don't this or

00:05:24.140 or you know you're entitled this and that and this but here's the thing guys the truth of the matter is

00:05:31.280 is that you get what you earn in this world you get back what you put out so why are you spending your

00:05:38.460 time putting out all this shit i challenge every single one of you listening to this right now 0.93

00:05:46.220 to to every single time you post something on the internet to think is this whining is this complaining

00:05:54.340 is this self-loathing or is this something that's going to benefit the people that follow me is this

00:06:03.080 something that's going to bring value to them because the more value you bring the more support you get

00:06:09.200 the more attention you get the more opportunity you get to make money all right everybody spends so much

00:06:19.820 time focusing on the negative and they tell themselves every single story that they could possibly tell

00:06:26.400 themselves about why they aren't where they are you know the truth of the matter is guys is you may not be

00:06:36.040 the smartest you may not be the fastest or the strongest or be the person with the best of

00:06:43.120 circumstances in fact i bet for every single one of you and i know this is true for me that those

00:06:49.440 statements are true there's always going to be smarter people than me there's definitely faster people

00:06:54.220 than me and stronger people and people who have better circumstances but i don't use that as an excuse

00:06:59.960 to do nothing i use that as motivation to improve i realize that all of us including you have potential

00:07:11.460 we all have that most of us decide to look at the other guy or look at the competition or look at so

00:07:17.800 and so and assume that they're better or smarter or have something that we don't and you know what

00:07:22.160 sometimes they do have that but most of the time they don't the only thing that they have

00:07:27.780 that's better than what you have is they have the willingness and understanding that if they do

00:07:33.600 the work the result will be there and then in turn they go do the work

00:07:38.940 most of these people do the work day in and day out and they do it for long enough and they do it

00:07:46.000 good enough that they become very very very close to fulfilling their life's true potential

00:07:53.560 and if fulfillment of your own true potential in all areas of your life isn't the complete and total

00:08:00.740 definition of success in life i don't know what is

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REAL AF with Andy Frisella - December 08, 2016

Nobody Cares, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO112

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