REAL AF with Andy Frisella

00:00:00.300 If you want to make your dream become reality, the people that are running after their dream know they're going to have hard times.

00:00:06.840 They keep on running because they're saying within themselves, I'm the one, I'm the one.

00:00:12.080 No matter how bad it is or how bad it gets, I'm going to make it.

00:00:20.260 What is up, guys? You're listening to the MFCEO Project.

00:00:23.320 I'm Andy, I'm your host, and I am the motherfucking CEO. 0.94

00:00:26.900 If this is your first time joining us, welcome. 0.98

00:00:29.740 The goal of this podcast is to get you to become the MFCEO of your life.

00:00:37.080 What does that mean? 0.87

00:00:38.020 That means figuring out how to take control, how to be effective, how to rise above the bullshit that we have to deal with in society 0.78

00:00:49.180 and realize that you are the person that ultimately dictates your success.

00:00:54.780 Today is Sunday Sermon, and as always on Sunday Sermon, I'm joined by my co-host, Vaughn, the pastor of Disaster.

00:01:06.040 What's up?

00:01:06.740 What's up, dude? How are you?

00:01:08.540 I'm good, man. I have lots of questions I want to ask you that really don't have anything to do with our specific topic,

00:01:14.120 but man, I would love to ask you at least one of them.

00:01:16.500 Go ahead.

00:01:17.040 Okay, well...

00:01:17.720 It's our show. We do what the fuck we want. 0.99

00:01:19.040 Yeah, so I was reading this article the other day saying that, you know, the Lakers, they got LeBron James, 0.99

00:01:24.380 and I know that you're not a basketball guy, but...

00:01:26.820 Yeah, but I knew that.

00:01:27.600 Yeah, yeah.

00:01:28.940 So apparently LeBron James is not buying into defense as much as he should.

00:01:35.000 Like, for the Lakers to be truly transcendent, he needs to play better defense.

00:01:39.480 If you're Luke Walton, you're a young guy, relatively young head coach, how do you motivate a guy

00:01:48.360 who's already the level of greatness, but apparently is not...

00:01:52.660 Well, is he level of greatness?

00:01:54.240 I don't know. I mean, but how would you, how would you, Andy Frisella, sit down and talk to LeBron...

00:01:58.320 Did Michael Jordan play defense?

00:01:59.220 ...and tell him, play better defense.

00:02:01.000 Well, did Michael Jordan play defense?

00:02:02.520 He sure did.

00:02:03.260 He did?

00:02:03.760 Yeah, he did.

00:02:04.420 That's what I would do.

00:02:05.360 Yeah. 1.00

00:02:05.600 I would fucking sit the motherfucker down, and I would say, hey, look, dude, you got all 1.00

00:02:10.000 the tools to be great. You've already been great, but here's the reality. The reality 1.00

00:02:15.880 is the people who are greater than you, which is not debatable...

00:02:20.040 Yeah.

00:02:20.460 You might think it's debatable because of your own ego, but it's not debatable. The people

00:02:24.760 who are better than you did these things, and these things are the things that help the

00:02:30.180 team become great, and if you're just worried about you being great, you're leaving a lot

00:02:35.380 of greatness on the table, and you might not understand that right now because you're

00:02:38.860 still young. You're very wealthy. You've done very well, and it's hard for you to really

00:02:44.140 wrap your brain around your legacy at this point in your life, but your legacy is going

00:02:49.200 to be... It's not going to be how many titles you won. It's not going to be how many points

00:02:56.800 you scored. It's not going to be how much money you made. Your greatness is going to be judged

00:03:00.760 by how much you left on the table, and that's what I would talk to him about, and I would

00:03:05.020 have, obviously, a longer conversation than that, but the truth of it is people's greatness

00:03:11.380 is not ultimately spoken about in terms of what they accomplish. It's spoken about in

00:03:18.240 terms of what they didn't accomplish. You know what I mean?

00:03:22.620 Yeah.

00:03:23.020 If you think about anybody who's been great in the world, they talk about all these things

00:03:27.020 that they did. They conquered this. They won this. They did this, this, this, but really

00:03:32.020 when you're alone and you're at home and you're by yourself, you know how much you left on the

00:03:41.760 table, and so while everybody else might think you're great, you're not going to feel fulfilled 0.99

00:03:47.400 because you know what you left on the fucking table, and that's a problem. I deal with that 0.99

00:03:52.280 a lot, to be completely honest, because I'm not the wealthiest guy. I'm not the most successful

00:04:00.340 guy in our industry. I'm not the most successful guy in any industry, but the truth of it is

00:04:07.760 I've done pretty good so far from where I started, okay? But when I'm at home and I'm alone, dude,

00:04:14.620 I know I got a lot more to fucking give, and that's what bothers me at night. The things that 0.91

00:04:20.600 bother me keep me up at night aren't, you know, I don't, like, people think, like, oh, yeah,

00:04:25.960 you're just sitting there and you're talking, you know, I had this kid stop me at the gas station

00:04:30.600 today. Oh, I've got to take my sweatshirt off. I had this kid stop me at the gas station today.

00:04:36.180 I was driving my Aventador SV, and he's like, dude, that car's so cool, and I'm like, yeah,

00:04:45.280 thanks, man, blah, blah, blah. He's like, dude, I love following you on Instagram. We were talking

00:04:48.500 and stuff, and he's like, dude, what's it feel like to have, you know, accomplished all the things

00:04:53.980 you've accomplished and this and that? This kid was, like, 19, 20 years old. He's working across

00:04:58.540 the street at the Ford dealer from the gas station I was getting gas at, and dude, to be completely

00:05:05.360 honest, like, it put me in a bad mood when he asked me that because I don't celebrate

00:05:12.260 these things. You know, I think of all the things I could have done differently and could

00:05:19.160 have done better, and all the times that I could have went 100 when I fucking went 60 or 0.96

00:05:26.000 I went 40, and you know what? My 40 is better than most people's 100, and that's the fucking 0.99

00:05:30.880 problem with LeBron James right now. LeBron James' 40 is better than fucking everybody else's 1.00

00:05:35.340 100, and to the outside, he's fucking amazing, but I guarantee you, dude, that dude has a lot 0.99

00:05:43.500 left in the tank. Well, physically, he's a superior specimen to Jordan. I wouldn't know because I 1.00

00:05:49.260 don't know shit about him. Yeah, but no, but I hear what you're saying, man. It's not what you've 0.98

00:05:54.200 done. It's what you could do. It's like, dude, growing up playing sports, Andy, who was the

00:06:00.400 hardest competition if you were on a good team? I was on a good team? If you were on

00:06:04.980 a great team, team sport, who did you play the worst against? The teams that sucked. Exactly. 0.98

00:06:10.560 Right. Yeah, because you expect, you don't, you know, it's like that in anything. It's like

00:06:16.500 that in school, you know? The hardest class are the ones I always did the best in. The easiest

00:06:21.200 class, I didn't do shit. Yeah. You know, and I don't know, man. Like, I don't know, 0.99

00:06:30.400 you caught me on a weird day because I'm actually, like, having one of those days where I want 0.99

00:06:37.500 to fucking murder everybody, and I'm so sick of society that I can't even fucking stand 0.99

00:06:42.840 it. You know, everything about it, dude, I just feel like people in general are just 0.99

00:06:48.100 fucking pieces of shit. That's the fucking truth. Like, dude, they're so shallow. They're 1.00

00:06:53.300 so fake, you know, and dude, it makes me fucking miserable. Like, I'm scrolling through 0.99

00:06:58.400 the internet. Like, I want to delete my fucking Instagram. Like, people are like, why haven't 1.00

00:07:02.220 you been posting? Because I fucking can't stand to be on the fucking app. You know, dude, 0.99

00:07:06.620 all we see on the internet is these people with nothing else to offer other than their

00:07:11.040 looks. You know, all the quote unquote entrepreneurs trying to sell courses and bullshit programs 0.98

00:07:16.900 that have never fucking done the things that they're selling in real life. Right. Which 0.99

00:07:21.340 is morally fucked up, in my opinion. You know, all the humble bragging, you know, the 0.98

00:07:25.840 people, you know, first of all, if you're going to brag, fucking brag. Like, brag. Right. 0.99

00:07:32.480 But humble bragging is annoying as fuck. Like, when motherfuckers, you know, get their nails 1.00

00:07:36.820 done and then they put their fucking hand on the steering wheel and it shows the Mercedes 1.00

00:07:40.680 symbol. And like, dude, I get it. You're fucking proud of your Mercedes. But instead of being 1.00

00:07:45.160 a fucking douchebag and being like, oh, look at my nails. They're so good. And like, trying 1.00

00:07:49.600 to show, just take a picture of your fucking car and say, I love this fucking car. And I love 1.00

00:07:53.780 that I'm being able to post about it. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. Dude, honest about it. Yeah. It's

00:07:57.980 just, it's so fucking inauthentic and annoying. And like, dude, we have all these fake motherfuckers 1.00

00:08:05.000 that pretend like they care about people just so they could sell them some shit. You know, 1.00

00:08:09.620 all the fucking, you know, it's like high school amplified over the course of the fucking universe. 1.00

00:08:16.960 And it's like destroyed our fucking society in like three years. Dude, now, you know, 1.00

00:08:23.400 dude, when we were kids, when you got upset, you went home and you know, you said, oh mom, 0.92

00:08:30.540 the teacher's being fucking mean to me. And she says, well, what did they do? Well, she yelled 0.84

00:08:35.340 at me. Well, what did you do to get yelled at? Well, I didn't do my homework and I was talking

00:08:39.620 in class. And she's like, well, you should have been yelled at for that. Right. Or they fucking 1.00

00:08:44.980 spank your ass or the principal calls and says, Hey, your son or daughter was doing this. 1.00

00:08:49.260 And guess what? You get in trouble. Now we have a situation where because motherfuckers 1.00

00:08:55.040 were picked on in high school or made fun of in high school or told whatever in high school, 1.00

00:09:00.440 instead of doing what, what successful people do, which is fucking use the fuel to go out 0.99

00:09:07.200 and win. They're going out and shooting up fucking schools and shooting bars and killing 1.00

00:09:13.180 innocent people. And people are arguing over, oh, it's the guns. It ain't the fucking 1.00

00:09:18.520 guns. We've had guns for fucking through how old is the country? 250 fucking years. We've 1.00

00:09:25.820 had the fucking guns. It's not the guns. It's the culture. Right. And it's the heart of 1.00

00:09:31.380 the person. It's the culture. Right. And until we stop fucking taking the accountability

00:09:37.460 away from all these fucking kids growing up their whole entire life, that shit, that gun 1.00

00:09:44.560 shit ain't going to change because they don't know how to fuck. They think this is my way 1.00

00:09:49.240 to be relevant. This is my way to make a difference. Oh, Jerry and Bobby and Tony in high school

00:09:54.360 when they used to beat me up, fuck them. I'm going to be famous and I'm going to kill 30 1.00

00:09:58.740 motherfuckers. Right. You know, I don't know if you saw it. There was a video of one of the 1.00

00:10:02.980 fucking victims' dads online. I saw it on Tyron Woodley's page. Finding out that his son was 1.00

00:10:08.420 killed by an innocent fucking, you know, or killed by the gunman. Just an innocent dude 1.00

00:10:13.220 drinking beer like it could be any of us. Right. You know? And dude, it's just society

00:10:20.780 is so fucked, man. It's crazy. And I'm just like, like I'm at my end with it, dude. I don't 1.00

00:10:29.100 know how I, the pro here's the problem. And the problem for me personally is I don't see

00:10:33.640 how the fuck it's going to get better. Like I can't see the fucking answer. I can't see 0.99

00:10:37.840 how, you know, we're going to fix this shit. Like, dude, you got all these fucking liberal 1.00

00:10:43.440 motherfuckers saying, Oh, just take away all the guns. Motherfucker. Are you that fucking 1.00

00:10:48.260 stupid? Are you that fucking stupid? Do you think that fucking criminals? Oh, guns are fucking 1.00

00:10:54.820 basically illegal in California. And guess what else illegal? Murder. Did that stop 0.99

00:10:58.520 it? Are you fucking retarded? Right. Get the fuck out of here. And then you got all the 1.00

00:11:03.020 fucking redneck fucking conservatives being like, Oh, fucking guns. Dude, first of all, 1.00

00:11:08.040 let me tell you something. If your first fucking move is to politicize a fucking tragedy like 1.00

00:11:15.280 that and to say guns or no guns and make it a, you are so fucking morally fucked in the 1.00

00:11:21.280 head, your brain is fucked. A hundred percent agree. You know what I'm saying? A hundred 1.00

00:11:26.380 percent. Like your first thought and both sides do it. Yes. They both do. Yeah, dude, look,

00:11:30.760 we all have our beliefs and I'm in the middle, you know, I'm socially liberal. I don't care

00:11:35.080 what I'm a libertarian. I don't care what anybody does. Leave me to fuck alone. Don't push your

00:11:39.440 shit on me. I, I tend to sway towards the right because the left works so hard to push their 1.00

00:11:46.520 shit on everybody that it makes me fucking sick. Okay. But most of the shit that they do 1.00

00:11:51.400 outside of their economic policies, I don't have a problem with. Just leave me to fuck alone. 1.00

00:11:56.740 This is, this is funny. So this is something I kind of observed from you, uh, talking about you 1.00

00:12:00.940 being an introvert, you know, and I think society made you that way. You didn't always used to be

00:12:07.160 like that. No, dude, dude. I'm sick of people, dude. I'm sick of it. Like you're wanting to retreat

00:12:11.640 from the, it makes, yeah. Dude, the more I get out there, the more I'm around it, the more like,

00:12:17.100 you know what my fucking saving grace is and why I don't blow my fucking brains out? Your dogs. 1.00

00:12:21.920 No, besides, besides the dogs, it's being able to come here in this office and see all the 1.00

00:12:27.100 motherfuckers working hard, building a life for themselves, doing the shit that society is supposed 1.00

00:12:32.820 to do. And me being reminded that it's not all what I think it is. Right. You know what I'm saying? 1.00

00:12:40.960 And like, dude, I, I know there's other people that feel this way because they, every time I talk 0.99

00:12:46.980 about the shit, they message me and they're like, bro, like, dude, social media is just fucking us 0.99

00:12:52.380 all. It's fucking us all because it's making us, it's dude, besides the fact of the ridiculous 1.00

00:13:02.580 arguing and the politics and, you know, all the little meaningless, annoying shit, just annoying, 1.00

00:13:11.780 like girls just, you know, fishing for compliments or dudes just like doing, dudes do the same shit. 0.99

00:13:18.140 You know what I'm saying? It's doing a different way. Um, I just, I just feel like, dude, it's made 0.99

00:13:28.340 everybody's attention, their need for attention. It's put them at such a heightened, like that's

00:13:35.540 what they value the most is some fucking attention or some fame or some this or that to where like, 0.97

00:13:41.420 dude, they don't have any, it cancels out everything else. Like it doesn't matter if 0.99

00:13:44.800 they're true. If they're like, dude, all these motherfuckers online post all these stupid 1.00

00:13:48.380 ass fucking memes for likes that make no sense. You know, there's dudes on the internet that have 1.00

00:13:53.200 a million plus followers, million, 500,000 plus followers, million plus followers, two million 1.00

00:13:58.220 plus followers that post this fucking shit that is total bullshit. And like you look at their 1.00

00:14:08.600 business, what have they done? They don't have a company. They're a speaker. Okay. Well, you know,

00:14:16.120 speaker is a lot like teacher. Okay. It's what you do when you can't actually do it. And that's a

00:14:22.920 fucking truth. And if you're a teacher, sorry, if you were fucking teaching entrepreneurship, 1.00

00:14:28.560 you'd probably be an entrepreneur because it pays a lot fucking better. You know, 0.99

00:14:33.240 you don't like to fucking hear that, then go start a business. I don't give a fuck. 1.00

00:14:36.360 But here's the truth. I'm so fucking sick of it. And it's, it bothers me on such a deep level 0.99

00:14:43.480 that like, dude, it makes me want to delete all my shit and like, just go away. You know what I mean? 0.98

00:14:51.380 Let the motherfuckers here at first form run the company. I'll help and do the things I need to do 0.99

00:14:56.240 and just fucking shut it down. Because like, dude, I just feel like the culture's going crazy. 0.98

00:15:07.820 It's disgusting, man. Disgusting. Yeah. No, I hear you. I hear you. You know, 1.00

00:15:13.140 like, dude, when it's, when you're seeing shootings every other fucking week, 0.99

00:15:17.240 that's not a gun problem. That's a fucking culture problem. You know what I'm saying? 1.00

00:15:23.100 And everybody wants to fucking put their two cents in because they saw some celebrity or they fucking, 0.99

00:15:28.920 their parents told them, or they have some sort of, um, installed belief that came from somewhere else 0.99

00:15:37.140 that they identify with and they, they can't think for themselves. They can't think logically or systematically.

00:15:43.240 They just want to be right. I just want to be right. I just want to win the argument.

00:15:47.700 I just want to post something. So it gets a lot of likes, you know what I mean?

00:15:52.160 And like, dude, that is not what the fuck we're supposed to do. 0.96

00:15:56.220 The only thing that truly fucking like gives me a little, um, a little bit of relief when I think 0.99

00:16:07.840 about this shit is that, you know, those people aren't going to win. They're not going to win in 0.99

00:16:13.080 life. They're going to fucking lose. If you're somebody who only post shit because you want likes, 1.00

00:16:17.420 you're going to lose. If you're only somebody who only says shit because you want to stir the pot, 1.00

00:16:22.000 you're going to fucking lose. You know, dude, this world needs people that are contributing 1.00

00:16:28.080 and helping and bringing other people up, not fucking polarizing. And dude, a lot of it's from

00:16:33.560 the media, the fucking media, the media, the whole entire fucking media, but all of it, CNN, Fox, 1.00

00:16:40.000 all of them, they should be fucking wiped off the face of the fucking earth. Dude, all they do 1.00

00:16:46.820 is pit brother against brother and make fucking me hate that person. And that person hate me, 1.00

00:16:53.380 you know, they're basically rewarded for creating division. Do they? No, they are rewarded for

00:16:59.720 creating division. And the problem is the average person is too fucking stupid to see how it works. 1.00

00:17:06.880 No, all news media outlets are owned by like three companies. Oh, and do you know how they get 1.00

00:17:10.920 paid? How do they get paid? How do they get paid? They get paid when companies run ads and when do

00:17:16.440 companies run ads, when ratings are high and winter ratings high, when people have some fucking 0.99

00:17:22.020 shit to argue about. And the media is a business. The media is the biggest fucking business. And 1.00

00:17:28.660 right now they are in the business of controversy. Dude, we have the best economy we've had in fucking 0.98

00:17:34.520 forever. And you don't hear nothing about it. You don't hear anything about the 200 and fucking 0.98

00:17:40.400 80,000 new jobs that were created in October. You don't hear it. Why not? Because that's not 0.92

00:17:46.640 fucking news anymore. The only news now is, you know, fucking Donald Trump said some shit to his 1.00

00:17:55.020 fucking somebody in the white house or revoke someone's hard pass. Fuck out of here, dude. 1.00

00:18:01.400 You know? And like, dude, let's, let's address that. Like, how about this? 1.00

00:18:08.760 Can you imagine in another country, a reporter standing up and arguing with the fucking president 0.99

00:18:14.380 when he's trying to give a press conference? Dude, in a lot of countries, you get your fucking 1.00

00:18:18.580 head cut off for that shit. Right. If you're, if you're, if we're being completely honest, 1.00

00:18:24.580 that whole fucking thing is representative of what's great about America is that you can say 0.99

00:18:30.880 things, even if you're out of line and you won't get killed for it. You know what I mean? But the 0.99

00:18:36.380 truth of it is, is like, dude, it would be nice if fucking people would smarten the fuck up, 0.99

00:18:41.120 wise the fuck up and stop buying in to the way they're being manipulated, dude. Like I, it's 0.99

00:18:48.040 dude, it's hard for me to fucking swallow, man. 0.99

00:18:52.580 No, you're expressing the frustration that a lot of people are feeling. And unfortunately, 0.97

00:18:56.320 you know, kind of along the lines of what you're saying, we always hear that certain people are

00:19:02.800 quote unquote outraged. All right. So it might be, you know, conservatives are quote unquote

00:19:08.200 outraged or liberals are outraged over fill in the blank. And I don't know if anybody's ever

00:19:14.040 taken the time to ask like, so who, who are these people that are outraged? Is this just,

00:19:20.700 are the vast majority of the people on the planet, or at least the people in our nation,

00:19:24.440 are they not outraged? They might not agree with something or they might just disagree with

00:19:29.040 something, but we're being told that actually everyone is outraged. Like who, who's outraged?

00:19:34.420 Dude, I was having this conversation with a friend of mine on Instagram, who's a black female. Okay.

00:19:42.920 And we were chatting and we were talking about something and it came up like we got on the topic

00:19:48.740 of like how, uh, how it's on the news. Everything seems to be like the world's fucking getting ready 0.96

00:19:57.460 to end. You know what I mean? If you hear the way, if you hear the way that people talk about, 0.98

00:20:04.540 uh, Trump or the way that fucking conservatives talk about liberals, it's like, dude, we're getting 0.98

00:20:10.920 ready to go to civil war, right? That's fucking war. But dude, do you, I don't see that in society. 1.00

00:20:17.960 Like here I am talking to a, uh, liberal black female. I'm a, what people consider probably 0.98

00:20:25.940 conservative, even though I'm only conservative fiscally. Right. And we're like, yeah, this is

00:20:31.940 fucking stupid. Like, you know what I'm saying? Like, it's just, everybody's getting along. 1.00

00:20:37.120 It's just like, dude, the fucking shit that we're getting shoved down our throat, we're 1.00

00:20:42.640 starting to choke on it. Right. You know? And, and it is starting to affect the dynamics. 1.00

00:20:48.020 Like you're right that people are getting along, but we're also, there's enough of a, of a success

00:20:53.240 that the media is having and the politicians are having where they're stirring the pot enough

00:20:57.880 to, to now where, when, when we do meet people in, in real life, you know, who might be different

00:21:04.080 from us, uh, politically, morally or whatever, we're just kind of assuming that that person

00:21:08.900 hates us. And what do you do when you assume somebody hates you, you get defensive and then

00:21:13.500 they think, oh man, that guy's getting defensive. He must hate me. And then it's, it, so I do

00:21:18.280 think it is a, you're right that I think the vast majority of people in our nation are pretty

00:21:23.360 level headed, but I do think that there's a danger that there's so much of the fringe is

00:21:27.660 being stirred up that it's beginning to affect everybody. You know what I'm saying?

00:21:30.880 And you know what? There's only a hand, there's only a fucking few hundred politicians in the 0.98

00:21:35.560 country. Right. And they're the ones benefiting from it, from the 300 million people getting 0.99

00:21:40.040 pissed off. Right. You know what I mean? That's a very dangerous game for them to be playing

00:21:44.120 because what are 300 people going to do when 300 million get fucking pissed and sick of it? 0.96

00:21:50.180 You know what I'm saying? Right. Like, dude, I'm, I don't know, man. Like I would just 0.98

00:21:55.660 appreciate, I would just appreciate some people making an effort to just be good fucking people. 0.99

00:22:05.940 You know, like. 0.96

00:22:09.780 Well, talk about that a little bit because, I mean, we talked about how crazy the culture

00:22:13.840 is. We've talked about how the, the movers and shakers in culture actually benefit from

00:22:18.000 us being in conflict with one another. But, so give your prescription for actually

00:22:23.720 little things to do to kind of improve the situation. 0.98

00:22:28.060 I don't fucking know. You know, and that's the problem. Like, all problems, 0.97

00:22:36.500 all the big problems start with little bitty actions. And they all are solved by little bitty

00:22:41.640 actions. You know, being polite, holding the door for people, shaking someone's hand,

00:22:47.520 making people feel comfortable in a situation where they otherwise wouldn't, you know, basic

00:22:52.680 common human courtesy. And it's just like, and I think that should extend onto fucking social, 0.96

00:23:00.520 man. Like, dude, what do we have on social? We got to do, we got fucking do. We got high 0.98

00:23:06.680 school kids sending each other naked pictures of themselves. You get what I'm saying?

00:23:11.800 Yeah, dude. I know. I get it. That's not okay. I have kids. I've I'm like, there's a part

00:23:17.120 of me that's scared, like super scared, dude. I would be, you know, I would be, yeah, I would

00:23:22.140 be. And like, I, I just don't, I just don't see how it's going to fucking flip around. 0.87

00:23:33.420 You know what I mean? And what's fucked up, dude, is we have a situation where a couple 0.95

00:23:37.360 dudes who own these social media platforms are profiting, they're profit profiting off 0.98

00:23:43.240 of, off of society going on the toilet, you know? And then you got centricism on social

00:23:48.480 and all this other shit. Like, it's just hard, man. It's just hard. It's hard to fucking 0.98

00:23:56.180 see how this is going to play out because, you know, and what's all this shit for, you 0.99

00:24:05.720 know? Like, for example, how many people get killed texting and driving a year? A lot, 0.99

00:24:14.580 right? Yeah. A lot. Yeah. How hard would it be for the fucking cell phone companies to

00:24:18.840 fucking put a device on their cell phone that once it was moving faster than five miles 0.99

00:24:23.520 an hour, it fucking didn't allow any data to go through at all. Right. And no signal. 1.00

00:24:27.840 It just didn't work. Right. How hard would that be for them to do? That's a good question.

00:24:31.780 Well, it wouldn't be very hard, but why don't they do it? Because people will get off their

00:24:36.220 phones. And, and guess what, what they don't do when they're off their phones, they don't

00:24:39.240 use up their fucking data and they don't spend money. It costs, so they, it's, it's all about 0.99

00:24:42.900 money, dude. And that's not okay. No, it's not fucking okay. You know? And like, dude,

00:24:50.020 today's just one of those days where I'm like the whole entire world is fucking, like I'm 0.95

00:24:54.340 seeing all the issues with the world and they're all hitting me in the face at once. 0.87

00:24:57.660 No, I, I, I hear you, but going back to the whole, um, the, the reaction to, uh, to shootings,

00:25:05.940 like if your first reaction to something like that isn't, oh my God, 11 human beings lost

00:25:16.180 their lives. If your, if your first response is, we're desensitized to it, man. No, it's,

00:25:22.000 it's crazy. If you're, if your first response is not 11 human beings lost their lives, your,

00:25:27.980 your, your identity politically has eclipsed your identity as a human being. You know, it's

00:25:34.760 crazy. Dude, it's, it's desensitization, you know, like we're, we're, we're desensitization.

00:25:41.180 Desensitization. I can't say the fucking word. You know what the fuck I'm saying. We get 0.99

00:25:43.640 it. Yeah. But no, I think you're, I think you're articulating, dude, you're expressing

00:25:52.900 the frustration and the anger. I like guns. No, I get it. I like guns. I'm a pro gun

00:25:57.300 person. Obviously like I have a fucking shitload of guns, you know? Uh, would I ever get so 0.99

00:26:03.760 pissed off that I go shoot fucking 20 fucking people? No. You know why? Cause I'm not culturally 1.00

00:26:07.760 fucked in the head. I would address my problem with that one person or that two 0.99

00:26:12.280 person and then five persons and better. Yeah. You know what I would do? I would go

00:26:15.640 out and become something and rub it in their fucking face. And then you have all these do 1.00

00:26:19.480 gooders on the fucking internet, you know, saying, Oh, don't, don't do it for the people 0.98

00:26:24.120 that those three people that want to see you that, that picked on you've 10, 10 years 0.99

00:26:27.720 ago. You know what, motherfucker? Sometimes that's all you got. So fuck you. And you know 1.00

00:26:32.640 what? That's coming from people who have never built a real fucking company and who 0.99

00:26:37.140 are only trying to become famous. They're only on the internet and they're only putting 0.99

00:26:42.680 out this garbage fucking information so that they can get likes. It's pandering. You know 1.00

00:26:49.440 what I'm saying? What happened to people that said what needed to be said versus saying what's

00:26:54.540 going to make you popular? You know what I mean? Absolutely get what you mean. Yeah.

00:27:01.300 I get it, man. I, uh, Oh man, this is it. This is a dude. We got fucking success coaches

00:27:07.420 online, right? Right. They're saying shit like posting memes. I see this meme all the 1.00

00:27:11.420 time. Fuck. It drives me crazy. Happiness is the new rich. Well, let me explain to you 1.00

00:27:17.600 the fucking, what is that? What is that really saying? What is that telling people? I don't, 0.99

00:27:22.020 you don't have to go out and make anything for yourself. No, that's not what it's saying.

00:27:25.500 It's saying it. What it's really saying is to somebody who has no money, it's saying you

00:27:31.240 could choose to be happy or you could choose to be rich. False choice. It's a fucking false

00:27:35.740 choice. There's, there's plenty of motherfuckers out there to have a fuckload of money that are 1.00

00:27:41.260 really fucking happy. They're so fucking happy. They got money flying out their fucking asshole. 1.00

00:27:46.420 Tons of them. You got a lot of motherfuckers that don't have any money that are miserable as 1.00

00:27:52.480 fuck. And if you ask me, I will bet you that if you, if you pulled the fucking, all the miserable 1.00

00:28:01.140 people out there and you ask them what the fuck they wish they had, they're going to say fucking 1.00

00:28:05.220 more money. And while money might not cause them to be happy, it will make their day to day life 0.99

00:28:12.000 easier so they can focus on what's going to make them happy longer and more fulfilled longer. But,

00:28:17.400 but, but what do we have? We got these do good, feel good motherfuckers online trying to tell 0.98

00:28:22.160 people, Oh, you could be happy or you could be rich. You know what I'm saying? Like, dude, 0.99

00:28:26.300 it's just shit like that. Like I'm so fucking sick of it. Um, I don't know, man. You know, 1.00

00:28:33.740 I have a whole list of fucking memes I wanted to go through, but maybe we'll just go through that 0.98

00:28:39.660 next week. Yeah. No, I mean, I don't even feel like necessarily we need to quote unquote provide 0.99

00:28:45.300 answers because I think your, your expression of your frustration and your expression. I just think

00:28:50.000 people need to do better. Yeah. Like you motherfuckers listening right now, you're,

00:28:54.060 you're feeling like I'm feeling. And if you're shaking your head, you might be saying, fuck you 1.00

00:28:58.480 Andy. You don't know what the fuck you're talking about. And if that's you, that's fine. But if 1.00

00:29:02.480 you're feeling the shit that I'm feeling, how do we fix it? We got to fix it together. We've got to 0.99

00:29:08.060 fucking be better people. We can't buy into the media's bullshit. We can't, you know, because they 1.00

00:29:16.000 post, uh, uh, a black man shooting a white man or a white man shooting a black man. We 0.96

00:29:22.400 don't have to pick sides. It's just fucking wrong. It's wrong either way. You know what 0.98

00:29:28.660 I'm saying? Like, dude, and that's just one of the issues. There's tons of them. It's

00:29:34.120 I'm just, dude, I just think we need to be better, you know, and we need to shift from looking,

00:29:43.220 uh, for validation from people that we don't know and we don't fucking care about really 0.78

00:29:50.280 to actually telling people useful shit, sharing experiences, sharing positivity, you know, Gary, 0.88

00:29:58.620 Gary Vaynerchuk, good buddy of mine. All right. And, and the reason we're good buddies, by the 0.97

00:30:03.640 way, is we don't fucking agree on everything. Everybody else sucks his fucking nuts. And you 1.00

00:30:07.920 know what? When Gary says some shit that I don't like, you know what I do? I text him and 1.00

00:30:11.680 I say, Hey, here's what's wrong with that statement. And then we talk about it. And you

00:30:15.900 know what? He does the same shit to me. We're that's why we're fucking respect each other. 1.00

00:30:20.520 But one thing he says that I totally agree with is, is dude, you, we need to make positivity

00:30:28.460 louder. I like that saying he, that's the truth because what do we see online? We see a lot of

00:30:37.340 self-serving false positive shit, right? Like dude, these fucking chicks who take a picture 1.00

00:30:43.820 of their fucking ass and then tell us fucking four paragraph story about how they're fucking, 1.00

00:30:48.720 uh, got picked on. I don't fucking, you know, like, it's just like, bitch, how about you just 1.00

00:30:54.760 post your fucking ass and say, Hey, my ass looking good today. You know what I'm saying? We would 1.00

00:30:58.100 appreciate that a lot more. I'm just being honest. Like dude, I would, you know, it's like, dude,

00:31:04.740 just be authentic, man. Like just fucking, Hey, I'm fucking six packs looking good today. 0.99

00:31:09.980 Motherfuckers. What do you think? You know, like dude, like this, if you're going to brag, 1.00

00:31:15.540 brag, you don't got to hide it. I don't know, man. That's just me though. Like I ain't scared.

00:31:19.740 I ain't scared to brag if I got to brag. I hear you. I hear you. I don't know how this ties

00:31:25.840 in, but I'll throw this out there and you can tell me what you think. I don't know if any of

00:31:28.260 this ties together. I just feel like I'm ranting because I'm frustrated. Actually, no, I actually

00:31:32.180 think this is, I think you're expressing people's frustration. I think people are going to resonate

00:31:36.100 with this. Yeah, this is my frustration. But, um, I'll say this. So we recently had the, uh,

00:31:41.580 those four winners in town, the iTunes winners. Yeah. By the way, they were awesome. They were

00:31:46.560 awesome. Yeah. Very, very good people. And, um, they weren't weird either. No, they weren't

00:31:51.640 weird. Like, you know how sometimes you meet people and they're fucking weird. Sometimes 0.98

00:31:54.580 they're weird. Yeah. Yeah. It's cause we allow Vaughn to pick them. Right. I mean, dude,

00:32:00.620 let's be real. Some of you motherfuckers listening right now are weird motherfuckers. Let's be 1.00

00:32:04.540 fucking real. We're all weird in our own way, but some of you guys are a little, little real 0.98

00:32:08.660 weird. Yeah. Yeah. So anyway, they were telling me that, you know, we put them up in the four

00:32:13.560 seasons. There's a nice restaurant there. And, uh, and basically they, you know, they, they

00:32:20.660 had a nice, you know, a nice meal there. And I think it was something like three, three 47

00:32:24.620 was the total. One of the girls told me that that was the first time she'd ever have room 0.92

00:32:28.600 service ever. Oh, that's crazy. Yeah. And I was like, that's awesome. I thought that

00:32:32.600 was really cool. Yeah. Very cool. So they were telling, uh, they were telling me that

00:32:36.460 they had, they had, uh, this great meal and they were so grateful that it was paid

00:32:41.440 for. You know what, dude? Are you going to, are you going to, are you going to steal my

00:32:44.740 punchline? No, I was going to say they were very grateful. Yeah. They were extremely, very

00:32:48.020 grateful. So I thought this was awesome. They were the $347. Right. Um, and they were

00:32:54.800 so grateful that, that, uh, you, you know, you paid for that for them, that you, that

00:32:59.180 you, uh, provided that kind of hospitality. They decided amongst themselves to give a hundred

00:33:05.740 percent tip to the waiter. So they split up the cost of the meal. Basically they, they

00:33:11.200 didn't add it onto our credit card. They, they just, they paid it. Right. So they gave it

00:33:15.780 to them. And, uh, and that was just something that they wanted to do to, to add a gratitude

00:33:20.460 to show, you know, to show their, their appreciation for the waiter. And I, apparently he was just

00:33:24.700 like, oh, I'm sure that shit don't happen in St. Louis. Right. It doesn't happen too 0.99

00:33:29.020 much in St. Louis, but it reminded me that when I was a pastor, we had this thing that

00:33:32.200 we used to call random acts of grace, which we would do something similar is that we would,

00:33:35.720 you know, we'd like go into a, you know, uh, international house of pancakes. We'd all

00:33:39.720 order a bunch of food. Um, actually take that back. We would order nothing. We would just

00:33:44.080 order water and the waitress would come out like, well, what are you doing here? You

00:33:47.820 know, and we'd, she'd serve us. And then at the end we'd say, well, you haven't really

00:33:51.100 done anything, you know, per se, but we just want to give you a huge tip and we'd give it

00:33:55.120 to them. And in some cases they'd like break down crying cause it was so impactful to them

00:33:59.060 and everything. But, but the word gratuity, you know, where we get tip, it's actually from

00:34:03.960 the word grace, which is, which is actually a spiritual concept. It's actually giving somebody

00:34:08.960 something that they don't deserve. It's, it's like being generous in a way that just

00:34:13.820 goes beyond above and beyond, uh, like what's called for what's normal. It's almost supernatural

00:34:21.040 on its level of, uh, of kindness. And, you know, as you're talking about, you're talking

00:34:25.200 about like, you know, what's the answer? What's the answer? I don't know, man. For me, I feel

00:34:29.840 like God has been so good to me beyond anything that I deserve. He is gracious. And I feel like

00:34:34.840 if we can just all do everything we can to promote that, that sense of abundant kindness,

00:34:40.960 that's not deserved. Cause it's easy. It's easy to actually be nice to people who are

00:34:46.140 nice back to you. But when people are actually unkind to you, uh, difficult, mean, um, I think

00:34:55.600 the best way to answer that is to respond with grace is to respond with gratuity, you know,

00:35:00.440 something people don't deserve. Yeah. And it's hard. It's hard to do that. It is hard. I almost

00:35:04.500 feel like it takes supernatural power to be able to do that. Well, I think it's a skill like

00:35:07.900 anything else. I think what the, at the core of all of this that we're seeing and what

00:35:14.840 we're talking about here is two things. I think one, we, we, our attention, our, our want

00:35:24.900 as a society for attention has become so heightened that it's causing people to literally sell their 0.99

00:35:31.580 fucking souls, sell their morality, uh, do anything to fucking be recognized. Cause if 0.99

00:35:40.600 you're not recognized, you ain't shit right now, you know? And two, I think that because 0.98

00:35:49.320 we're so used to expressing opinions and arguing and fighting with one another, that we have this

00:35:59.060 need, this heightened need to be right. And I think those two things are at the core of the

00:36:06.440 issues that we're talking about, you know, and people might be saying, well, how is,

00:36:10.060 how is shooting up a school have to do with those two things? Well, I could explain it to you real

00:36:16.780 easy. You're irrelevant. You kill fucking 12 people. You're all over the fucking world news.

00:36:22.800 Okay. All right. So that's the recognition. Well, he's dead. So how's he right? Well, 1.00

00:36:28.380 that's, I don't know that people in that state really care about that. Um, two, that's how

00:36:33.360 insane it is. They want to be famous even if they're not around to enjoy it. Well, I mean,

00:36:37.480 dude, you've, I've, you've heard people say that like fuck you fucking talk, talk to, go 1.00

00:36:41.560 to any art fair art show and all the artists will tell you the same shit. Well, I'm hoping 1.00

00:36:46.040 that once I pass away, my shit becomes more valuable. So like people think like that, right? 1.00

00:36:50.340 Like they're so, they're so enamored with like fame that they will literally fucking die to have 0.55

00:36:58.320 it or recognition, die to have it good or bad, you know? And then the will to be right. How about 0.96

00:37:04.060 this? I fucking told you so. I told you so you shouldn't have fucked with me. You shouldn't 0.99

00:37:08.880 have picked on me. You shouldn't have done this. Shouldn't have sent me to detention. Now I shot the

00:37:13.740 school up, you know, dude, it's fucked up. And like, and, and, and really in my opinion, 0.99

00:37:20.820 where this all comes from is the softening of the parenting strategies that we've had, 0.98

00:37:25.300 which is the whole reason we have this fucking show. The whole reason we have this fucking show 0.99

00:37:30.480 is so people can correct the path that they've been taught was the right path when it comes to 0.99

00:37:41.860 success in business. But the truth is success in business is very parallel to success in life.

00:37:47.800 You just apply the same principles in different areas, your fitness, your family, your relationship,

00:37:53.540 your friends, all those things, the principles of success are universal, you know, and that goes for

00:37:59.820 life. So. Dude, I just had a funny thought and that would be, uh, it might be a long shot, but

00:38:07.260 you know, you were talking earlier about people who teach entrepreneurship. Well, how funny would

00:38:11.340 it be if a school adopted this as an hour class? Cause we have enough episodes now to last an entire

00:38:17.480 school year. And on each episode you get graded. Like they, you just sit in, you sit in class and

00:38:22.080 you listen to a podcast next day you get graded on it. Yeah. Yeah. I don't think they would go for

00:38:27.480 that. We're not there yet. No, I'm just saying it would be a hell of a concept for a progressive

00:38:32.740 school. We're not there yet. It would be, but you're, you're right about the parenting. A buddy

00:38:37.440 of mine was telling me that, um, he was in parent teacher conferences with his wife and the teacher

00:38:44.100 who is a really good teacher just said, you know, I really, I don't relish the idea of telling you this,

00:38:52.260 but the reality, and then by the way, this is a seventh grade, seventh grade class. She's the

00:38:57.480 teacher said, I don't really enjoy telling you this, but your son cries about too much. And the

00:39:03.000 reality is, is that I'm actually concerned about him because now he's in a smaller grade, but in two

00:39:08.100 years when he's in the larger high school, those people are going to eat him up. And my buddy was

00:39:13.020 telling me that he was really, he was really conflicted because he totally agreed with the teacher

00:39:17.120 and his wife was like, really want like super angry that the teacher had said this and was like,

00:39:23.400 he needs to be in touch with his feelings and all this kind of stuff. And it just made me sad because

00:39:28.320 the reality is, is that what the teacher said was right. And if the kid would, would understand that,

00:39:33.140 you know, emotions are fine, but you have to, you have to learn to stand up and you have to learn to

00:39:38.140 be a man. And if he doesn't learn that, then in the next four years, he's going to get, you know,

00:39:43.480 the bullied and he's going to, he's going to, you know, continue to go to the people who are going

00:39:47.360 to coddle him. And he's never going to feel secure in who he is because he's never faced it. He's

00:39:54.700 never had to deal with it himself. And he's had people helicoptering around him his whole, you know,

00:39:59.280 his whole life. And then that's what's going to happen. I'm not saying this kid in particular is

00:40:02.680 going to do this, but kids like that who are sort of protected and, and insulated and coddled,

00:40:09.880 it doesn't work. And so over time they just go insane and they, and to, to, to hit back,

00:40:17.440 they do this kind of stuff. Right. You know what I'm saying? Does that sound goofy to you? No.

00:40:21.880 It's the same thing when parents try to protect their kids from getting sick. Like you're not

00:40:26.500 letting the immune system build up. Dude, I was playing, I was in the fucking yard making mud pies 0.99

00:40:31.620 in our fucking septic system. Probably eating it too. Yeah. Like, dude, we had a septic tank and that's 1.00

00:40:36.780 where the good mud was. I didn't know that was shit until I was like fucking 10 years old. 1.00

00:40:41.080 I'm down there making mud pies, me and salad and I'm throwing them on each other. Like, 1.00

00:40:45.000 dude, we fucking lived, you know, like these motherfuckers, they don't even do Perry. Most 1.00

00:40:50.160 of the fucking parents in the world right now are pussies. That's the truth. That's the truth. 1.00

00:40:54.520 Yep. Oh, your kid fucking got five goals scored against him when he plays goalie. 0.99

00:41:00.960 It's the other kid's fault. No, it's your fault. Cause you didn't go in the yard and teach 1.00

00:41:04.560 how to play fucking goalie. That's the problem. Really dude, if we're talking about the core of 1.00

00:41:09.260 the problem, that's the fucking problem. A bunch of lazy motherfucking pussified parents that put 1.00

00:41:15.960 their kids on fucking Nintendo and Xbox and shit instead of raising them like our fucking parents 1.00

00:41:21.100 did. You guys should be fucking ashamed of yourselves. That's the fucking truth. And you 1.00

00:41:25.920 want to send me a message and say, Oh, I don't parent like that. Prove it, prove it. Throw your 1.00

00:41:32.840 fucking Xbox out the window, throw your PlayStation out the window, fucking take a kid in the yard 1.00

00:41:38.360 and show them how to fucking defend himself. Show them how to fucking catch a ball and throw 1.00

00:41:43.940 a ball. Basic shit. These kids nowadays, and I know because I have a fuckload of them that 1.00

00:41:50.340 work here. They come, they don't even know how to shake a fucking hand. They don't even 1.00

00:41:55.140 know how to say, Hey, nice to meet you. And shake a firm hand. They don't even know that

00:41:59.580 shit. And it's not their fault. No, it's not their fault. That's why we, that's why 1.00

00:42:02.520 the first thing we teach here is that. Yep. Okay. The first thing we do when people come

00:42:08.180 in here as new hires is we teach them basic skills. All right. I'm not, I'm not mad at

00:42:14.460 them for not knowing that shit, but their fucking parents are fucking shit balls. If your kid 1.00

00:42:19.860 doesn't know how to shake a hand and say, nice to meet you or fucking, you know, manage 0.99

00:42:24.300 his bank account with 500 bucks in it. So he doesn't go buy $400 pair of fucking Jordans. 1.00

00:42:29.240 You're failing as a fucking parent. Oh, that's easy for you to say. Cause you don't have fucking 1.00

00:42:33.840 kids. Let me tell you something, motherfucker. The reason I don't have kids. Cause I don't 1.00

00:42:37.880 want my kids hanging around your motherfucking kids. And that's a fucking fact. So you can 1.00

00:42:43.920 fucking say whatever you want and you could say, judge me. But the truth is, is I don't 0.99

00:42:49.000 want my fucking blood and DNA and dealing with your fucking shit ball kids. And then 1.00

00:42:55.180 me having to correct it all the time. So fuck you. You want to stop there? I'd keep 1.00

00:43:04.060 going. I'd keep going. What else we want to fucking yell about? If there was an app to

00:43:09.440 raise your kid, I guarantee like if there was some way to like plug your kid into that

00:43:12.880 app, like they would, most parents would be all about it. And let's be fucking real here 0.97

00:43:16.440 too. If you're a fucking parent right now and you're offended by what I said, the only 0.99

00:43:21.020 reason you're offended is cause you know, there's fucking truth to it. And if you're 1.00

00:43:24.100 going to judge me, I'm the motherfucker with bestselling children's books that's trying to 1.00

00:43:27.760 make an impact and fix your fucking problems, motherfucker. So you could fucking suck on my 1.00

00:43:32.100 fucking nuts. See you later. Oh wait, don't stop yet. I got one more thing. Let me ask 1.00

00:43:44.220 you Vaughn the pastor. Yeah. What's the most despicable thing on the fucking face of the

00:43:49.980 earth? Cause this is something I left off of my list. Oh, before you answer, I'll just 0.99

00:43:54.220 answer for you. Okay. It's in, this is why you're going to fucking resonate with this.

00:43:58.480 I want to hear your take. Okay. So don't suck on my nuts just yet. Okay. All right. How 0.96

00:44:06.440 about motherfuckers that profiteer in the name of God? They try to act holier than thou. And 1.00

00:44:12.840 so fucking this and that, but everything they do is a fucking lie. Everything they do is 1.00

00:44:17.240 bullshit. What do you think about those people? Cause I'm seeing a little rise of that. I'm 1.00

00:44:22.640 seeing people, you know, Oh, you know what? Praise the Lord and blah, blah, blah in public,

00:44:27.900 but everything they do in private is fucking fake. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? Like 1.00

00:44:32.240 every, every, you know, it's all a fucking, it's all a fucking show. What's your take on 1.00

00:44:39.080 that shit? My take on it is that, um, this isn't very, this isn't very PC to say these days, but 1.00

00:44:45.140 people forget, um, you know, God is good, but there is judgment. Like these people, these people

00:44:52.580 are going to have to stand account one day. They're going to stand, they're going to fucking 0.99

00:44:55.620 trying to profit in God's name and then turning around and doing, you know, you're just doing it so 0.99

00:45:00.840 you could get paid or be popular or become famous when everything else you do is fucking 1.00

00:45:05.700 hocus pocus and you're just fucking people. You're going to go to hell if there is one. 1.00

00:45:12.420 Yeah. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. If you believe in that shit. Yeah. No, I, I mean, I don't 0.99

00:45:17.540 know what to say. I'm willing to risk it. Yeah. I will tell you this. I think that, um, eternity

00:45:23.140 getting a fucking trident stumped up your ass don't sound no fun to me. Right. To you, baby. 1.00

00:45:27.700 A fucking hot one. Yeah. I know it sounds good to you, you motherfucker. Well, I will tell you this. 1.00

00:45:31.360 That's what you do on a fucking Saturday night. That's a typical Tuesday. Listen, I will say 1.00

00:45:36.280 this. Um, to your point, it's interesting how the con man ministers have a lot in common

00:45:44.300 with the con man entrepreneurs. They say exactly the same. They, they are. They say what people

00:45:49.880 want to hear and they don't say the truth. And, and the reality is, is that. Dude, it's

00:45:57.260 fucking, it's a, it's a hocus pocus. It's like, it's distraction. It's like David Blaine. 1.00

00:46:01.600 Hey, look over here at my left hand and my right hand's going in your pocket. You know

00:46:05.380 what I'm saying? Like, yeah, yeah, yeah. Look at these cards over here in my left hand

00:46:08.200 and I could do this cool trick. And in my right hand, it goes right in your pocket and takes

00:46:12.120 the money out. Like, right. That's what those motherfuckers do. Right. You guys got to be 1.00

00:46:15.400 smarter than that. You know, anybody who's talking about Jesus and God and they're also asking

00:46:20.440 for your money in some way or form, I would highly fucking scrutinize them because. Oh, 0.97

00:46:27.120 absolutely. Because those two things do not go together. Yeah. Now I don't think it's wrong

00:46:32.360 to ask for an offering to support the church, but there's a way to do it. No, I know what

00:46:35.740 you're talking about. We're talking about the same thing. So I won't, but, but no, I mean,

00:46:38.940 I, I, uh, listen, dude, I'm talking about dudes whose business strategy is to be holy. Yeah,

00:46:44.400 I get it. I get it. And listen, at the end of the day, life is hard.

00:46:50.440 And. People are broken and we're messed up and we need help. And the people that, the

00:47:00.120 people that profit, whether it's spiritually or, you know, entrepreneurship, they're out

00:47:05.680 there saying everything's okay. Life is rainbows and unicorns and everything's okay with you

00:47:11.280 and you never have to. Happiness is the new rich. Right. Happiness is the new rich. And,

00:47:16.240 and the reality is, is that, I don't know, dude. I mean, this is a whole nother conversation,

00:47:21.420 but, you know, with regard to your, your, your frustration, I mean, I agree. The culture

00:47:27.520 is the problem, but I think culture is made up of people. And I think that the problem.

00:47:31.660 Yeah, but all of us here, you, me and everybody listening, we're part of that problem.

00:47:35.320 Right. That's what I'm saying. That's the problem. Like, I don't, I mean, people sometimes

00:47:38.560 ask me like, you know, what's your favorite? So it's going to take some self-examination

00:47:41.360 for all of us that includes me and you and everybody listening to be fucking better. 0.98

00:47:47.740 Right. And to say, I'm part of the problem. Like I'm part of the problem. And, uh, yeah, 0.98

00:47:54.160 I mean, dude, I mean, it's, it's amazing to me. Sometimes people come to me and they,

00:48:00.980 or that, you know, cause you're, you're real nice about talking about me being a former

00:48:04.000 pastor and everything. And, and people will, people will DM me questions and I love their

00:48:09.060 questions, but they're, you know, sometimes I know you like that because like, I do,

00:48:12.940 I do like to stay connected to that. I do. And I, I love it. But, but, but the reality

00:48:17.220 is, is that, dude, no, the, you know, the Bible says all have sinned and fallen short

00:48:23.300 of the glory of God. Dude, I know that I have fallen short. I absolutely know that I have

00:48:28.120 fallen short. And that's the starting point. That's the starting point of knowing that,

00:48:31.860 you know, you're not all that in a bag of chips as we used to say in the nineties, you

00:48:34.680 know? So, um, but, uh, man, my closet ain't fucking clean. I can tell you that shit. 0.97

00:48:41.460 Right. And yours ain't either. No, it's yours. And neither is yours listening. 1.00

00:48:44.920 Right. Absolutely. So I don't know, maybe that's the first step. You know, you, you, you gave

00:48:49.020 a, a Sunday sermon on this a couple of months ago, which was, you know, when GK Chesterton

00:48:54.660 was asked, you know, what's the problem with the world? And he, yeah, he said, I am. So guys,

00:49:00.260 think about that. I think that's, I think that's a good message. You know, it's something we've

00:49:05.800 already covered, but it's another one that we should be thinking about. It's like, dude,

00:49:09.360 what can we do in our day to day life to fix this shit? What can we do? You know what I 1.00

00:49:16.400 mean? Like there's, cause that's how it's going to start. And, and, and eventually, I mean,

00:49:22.900 dude, there's millions of people listening to this podcast, millions and millions were, you

00:49:26.620 know, that's a powerful group. And if millions and millions of people start to set the example

00:49:32.560 for being better, other people are going to follow. Other people are going to jump in.

00:49:38.660 Other people are going to see it as the cool thing to do. And that's how change happens.

00:49:45.400 And when those things start to happen and that, that momentum starts to gather and it doesn't

00:49:51.760 take that long. It doesn't take a generation. It could take, you know, fuck dude, we've seen

00:49:55.700 the stuff we're talking about over the last, not that long of time. 1.00

00:50:01.120 It doesn't matter what the media says. Then it doesn't matter what social media does. It doesn't

00:50:05.580 matter what the people who have the power do to try to control our thoughts, because we're going to

00:50:12.820 know how we live and other people are going to see it and be living the same way. And eventually it's,

00:50:17.640 what's going to happen is they're going to say shit. And this is already starting to happen. 1.00

00:50:21.780 And I think a little bit, they're going to say shit. Like, uh, per my example with my 0.99

00:50:26.180 friend that people are going to say shit on the news and we're going to look at each other 0.99

00:50:30.000 and be like, what the fuck are they talking about? You know, like, what are they talking 1.00

00:50:34.140 about? Like, we're all cool. Why? You guys are the ones fighting, you know? And I don't

00:50:41.280 know, man, that takes some open-mindedness. It takes the awareness to step back and say, Hey,

00:50:46.640 you know what? It's not them. It's us. Right. You know? And I think that's the key, right?

00:50:52.460 It's not them. It's us. And that's where it starts. So I think that's a, that's a good

00:50:59.400 thing to think about for, for Sunday. And you don't really have to suck on my nuts. 1.00

00:51:05.960 Amen. I got some peanut butter for you there, but I want a chunky. Yeah, I know. You nasty 1.00

00:51:14.780 motherfucker. All right, guys. Unconventional, uh, Sunday sermon, but we love you guys. Thank 1.00

00:51:20.980 you for the reviews. Thank you for the, uh, the shares. Uh, thanks for being the kind

00:51:26.600 of people that actually listen to what we talk about, because I do feel like there is

00:51:31.400 not another podcast or a person out there putting out the information that we are. Everybody

00:51:37.780 else is doing the shit that we're talking about. It's for fame. I don't, you know what, 1.00

00:51:42.420 dude, or money. You know what? I don't need your money and I don't give a fuck about being famous.

00:51:46.800 So I'm just trying to contribute. I mean, the biggest problem is the people that need to hear 0.90

00:51:52.100 this message are not the ones that are listening to the podcast. No, but that's right. And that's

00:51:56.160 why we need to spread it. Exactly. Yeah. I got one more word to say. Yeah. You close it up,

00:52:01.540 man. It is Sunday sermon. Listen guys, there's a phrase that goes around all the time in the

00:52:07.620 success and motivation industry. And the reality is, if I'm honest, there are people that Andy and I

00:52:11.780 both like that say this. And I don't know about Andy, but I hate this and I will never say it

00:52:18.460 in my entire life. And it's a stupid saying, I am enough. You know what? I'm not enough. 0.99

00:52:28.080 I know that. I fall short. I'm broken. I'm screwed up. I'm not enough. So I don't know why people say

00:52:35.660 that. I don't want to know why people are so obsessed about telling them that themselves that,

00:52:42.340 because I can tell you right now, the better thing is just to say, I'm not enough, but you know what?

00:52:48.480 That's okay. Bible says his grace is sufficient for you for his power is made perfect in weakness.

00:52:55.540 I'm not enough, but God is period. Dude, don't you think that the real saying should be,

00:53:00.980 I know I'm not enough. So I'm going to work to try to be, you know what I'm saying?

00:53:05.440 It's just like, I hear, am I the only one that's super annoyed by that?

00:53:08.240 Bro? No, it goes along with the fucking, the lack of accountability in today's society. It says, 0.99

00:53:13.460 dude, you got 400 motherfucking pound people saying, you know what? I'm beautiful. Yeah. But 0.98

00:53:19.240 you're going to fucking die in two years. You know what I'm saying? And like, then you got fucking, 1.00

00:53:24.420 uh, you got fucking these people saying the shit that you're saying, I am enough. You're dude. 1.00

00:53:32.340 That's like saying, you know what? I know I'm fucked up. I'm not gonna do anything about it. 1.00

00:53:36.440 Right. And that's fucked up. You know what I'm saying? Hey, you know what, baby? You know what? 0.99

00:53:44.460 I fucking fuck all kinds of chicks and you know what? I'm gonna keep doing it. Cause I'm enough. 1.00

00:53:48.680 Right. You know, how's that going to go over at home? Not too well. Yeah. Not too well. Hey,

00:53:54.320 you know what? Uh, I know I fucking only paid you half your paycheck, Tyler, for the last six months 0.92

00:54:00.640 in a row, but I am enough, but you know what? I'm enough. So that's okay. So fuck you. Like, 0.94

00:54:04.800 that's what it's like. It's like this ability to say like, you know, it's, it's just trying to dodge

00:54:12.780 accountability and that's what everything's about now. You know? And that's why I respect people like

00:54:18.360 Jocko, you know what I'm saying? Like who's out there putting out a message. You know, people ask

00:54:22.160 me all the time, like, who, who do I respect? Dude, there's like two motherfuckers I respect. 0.99

00:54:27.500 You know what I mean? Right. Ed and fucking Jocko. Yeah. You know? And then Gary, you know, 1.00

00:54:31.800 cause Gary's a personal friend, but like, um, those guys are actually doing good. You know,

00:54:39.020 they're doing good shit. I agree. You know? And like, Gary gets a lot of heat too. And they're 0.99

00:54:44.400 like, well, Gary's shit is so fucking basic and it's so this and that. But the truth is, 1.00

00:54:49.400 is the reason you're listening and you're doing personal development and you're, you're getting

00:54:54.180 into other things and you're learning more is because you first saw one of his videos.

00:54:58.620 You see what I'm saying? He's like the intro. Right. And I'm going to tell you right now,

00:55:02.060 he's the gateway drug. Oh, look, listen, I'm going to tell you right now, Gary is one of the

00:55:05.080 smartest fucking business guys on the face of the earth. No question. But he understands 0.99

00:55:10.500 who he's speaking to. And so his content is geared mainly towards people who don't really

00:55:17.780 understand entrepreneurship. And it's like an intro, you know what I'm saying? Yep. And so

00:55:23.000 he's serving an amazing purpose for the entrepreneurship world by providing the content 0.97

00:55:28.280 that he does, even though once you kind of get past it, you're like, fuck yeah, I know that. I heard 0.97

00:55:32.880 it. Or, you know, you know what I'm saying? Like, cause I hear that a lot. People like,

00:55:36.680 yeah, his shit's so basic. Yeah. But at one time it wasn't to you. You know what I mean? 1.00

00:55:41.840 So don't judge on that shit. Absolutely. So are you, are you going to ever, ever tell people 1.00

00:55:46.980 about our plan to have a special once a month? Reachism? What's that? Me and Tyler?

00:55:51.580 Bring the peanut butter. That's right. And this is definitely, this is definitely the most,

00:55:56.740 this is definitely the most unusual Sunday sermon ever. I think we almost stopped. We're

00:56:01.740 going to have a sword fight. I think we almost, I think we almost finished up like four times.

00:56:07.300 Right, man. No, but you know what I'm talking about. Well, I do. I think Tyler might know

00:56:11.540 what you're talking about. The monthly idea for the special kind of podcast. Oh yeah,

00:56:15.060 we should do that. The drunken podcast. Well, I'm going to call mine the led by the Holy

00:56:19.240 Spirit podcast. Really? Yeah. So the idea is that once a month we do a podcast, like we

00:56:26.400 come in on like a, on a Friday night or something and fucking drink. Right. And after like two 0.98

00:56:31.220 hours of drinking, we do the podcast. So it'd be like more like at the tipsy podcast. Yeah.

00:56:34.580 We came up with this completely sober too. Like no lie. Dude, it would be awesome. We did.

00:56:38.880 It would be funny. What was our name? So if you want to do it. No, no, no, no, no, no,

00:56:42.020 don't say that one. We got another one coming up here. Yeah. Pretty good. Pretty good idea. But,

00:56:47.140 dude, I got some good, uh, some, I got some guests coming in next week. Uh, nice. Yeah. Uh,

00:56:53.420 some good ones. I'll tell you about it after the show. You know what I love about this?

00:57:00.620 Fucking Nelly, dude. He flaked out on us. Everybody's like, where's Nelly? Why didn't 0.99

00:57:03.440 you come on the show? Well, he fucking got drunk one night and fucking couldn't come. 0.99

00:57:07.540 That's a true story. It is a true story. Now he did offer, he's going to come back, 1.00

00:57:10.860 but I'd be like, he had his fucking dude. He called his dude, Mike, who's a friend of mine. 0.98

00:57:15.400 And he's like, yeah, dude, I went out. I didn't get home until real late. I was hung

00:57:19.520 over. Can we do it another time? Can we have Holly Saunders on the show? Who? Do you know 0.86

00:57:24.280 who Holly Saunders is? No. She's like, uh, one of the college football game day hosts. 0.99

00:57:31.060 Oh, come on, man. Come on. She's really good. Dude, come on. You're going to get me all kinds

00:57:37.120 of fucking hate mail about this shit. We were just talking about this yesterday. No, no, 1.00

00:57:40.920 no. You'll like Holly Saunders. Trust me. No. What? Is she hot? Oh, well, I, yeah, 0.97

00:57:46.860 I think so. I hadn't noticed. I'm going to cut that clip and send it to your wife. Motherfucker. 1.00

00:57:53.540 She looks like, I'm, I forget it. I'm not going in. Look at Vaughn talking himself into a corner. 1.00

00:58:00.160 Yeah, I am talking myself into a corner. Hey, you know what? You can still be completely faithful

00:58:04.920 to your wife and recognize the beauty of a woman or man. Well, if you're talking about Tyler,

00:58:10.780 yeah. Drew that. Hey man, I can look at another dude. That's true. I can look at another dude and

00:58:15.420 say that dude's good looking. Oh yeah. So this is completely derailed, but I have to say when I

00:58:21.200 watched Thor and Chris Hemsworth took office, I was like, dang. Like, dude, I told Emily, I'm like,

00:58:26.820 dude, if that guy showed up at the door, you just go with him. Call me later. Like, dude, fuck.

00:58:32.120 Tell me how the hammer felt. Yeah, no shit, dude. Fuck. I, you know, the rock shows up my front door, 1.00

00:58:38.140 fucking have a good time. I'll be here crying. Well, you know, I told Ed, cause Ed's got connections 0.99

00:58:44.760 to Tim Tebow. I told him, I said, you got, you got to somehow arrange a meeting between my wife

00:58:50.480 and Tim Tebow. Cause that's, that's kind of her celebrity crush. Oh really? Yeah. Yeah. But

00:58:55.880 is it because he's about Jesus? No, I think that probably helps, but I think it has something

00:59:00.900 to do with his physique. Is he going to be super unholy with your wife? Uh, I doubt it. Or it could

00:59:06.900 be considered super holy. Or we could just call Ron Jeremy. Like three holy. How long is this

00:59:15.620 podcast so far? You ever play that game three holy? Three holy? I have never heard of it. I'll tell you

00:59:18.900 about it on the drunk podcast. All right, guys, we'll talk to you later.

SUNDAY SERMON： What Are We Going To Do About What's Going On？, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO272

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