REAL AF with Andy Frisella - April 21, 2016


The World Owes You Nothing, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO60


Episode Stats


Length

7 minutes

Words per minute

158.87251

Word count

1,240

Sentence count

127

Harmful content

Misogyny

3

sentences flagged

Hate speech

7

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Summary

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I see so many people go through life with this overwhelming feeling that the world owes them something, or the world hates them. And the truth is, the world doesn t owe them anything. It doesn't even care about them.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 We gon' let the band deal with this.
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00:00:15.900 What's up?
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00:00:17.340 What's up, guys?
00:00:18.180 You're listening to the MFCEO Project.
00:00:20.340 I'm Andy.
00:00:20.900 I'm your host.
00:00:21.840 And I am the motherfuckin' CEO.
00:00:25.300 Guys, today, I've got some Thursday Thunder for you.
00:00:28.820 I've got a little juice.
00:00:30.000 I want to send your way.
00:00:31.560 That sounds kind of perverted a little bit.
00:00:33.480 But I still want to send it your way.
00:00:36.320 Here's the deal, guys.
00:00:38.820 I see every day people with this mentality that the world owes them something.
00:00:47.160 And it's popular now to talk about entitlement and everybody deserves
00:00:53.000 and all these different things that people like to bitch and cry about. 1.00
00:00:58.140 But people come at life with the wrong attitude.
00:01:05.520 Okay?
00:01:05.940 And they don't like hearing the truth.
00:01:08.060 And the truth of the matter is this.
00:01:10.160 The world owes you nothing.
00:01:12.620 The world doesn't think you're special like your mom does.
00:01:16.360 It doesn't think you're a delicate little flower.
00:01:18.920 It doesn't care about you.
00:01:21.480 Now, with that being said, the world doesn't hate you.
00:01:25.300 It doesn't want you to fail.
00:01:26.860 It just is.
00:01:28.640 Okay?
00:01:29.700 And I see so many people going through their life with this overwhelming feeling of
00:01:35.860 either A, the world owes me something, or B, the world hates me.
00:01:41.480 And the reality is it's neither.
00:01:44.160 And what's common amongst this group of people that I find is that, both these groups of people
00:01:50.200 that I find, is that they're missing the understanding of what it means to be successful.
00:01:58.540 And let me get at exactly what the cause of this is.
00:02:02.760 The cause of this is they're selfish.
00:02:05.240 They're self-centered.
00:02:06.500 They're self-focused.
00:02:07.600 They're only worried about what they see in the mirror.
00:02:11.080 And they go around through their daily life trying to manipulate the world in a way that's
00:02:17.880 going to serve them.
00:02:19.640 But here's the thing, guys.
00:02:21.060 If that's the way you go through life, if you go through life trying to figure out a way
00:02:25.500 for the world to get you something, for you to be successful, you know, at the expense
00:02:32.440 of others, or for you to get ahead at the expense of others, your success or any success that
00:02:39.600 you're able to build or momentum you're able to build is going to be very short-lived, guys.
00:02:43.800 And that's not the right way to do things, okay?
00:02:46.840 That's why you see the same people, you know, who make money real fast lose money real fast.
00:02:52.600 That's why you see the same people who, you know, have a little bit of success and then
00:02:58.860 go back to the way they were and then they might find a new quote-unquote thing to do
00:03:03.780 and they make a little bit of money and they go back to the way they were.
00:03:06.940 And the problem with this mentality, guys, is that it's a mentality that is not of service, okay?
00:03:15.220 And if you want to be truly successful in life, you have to be selfless and you have to understand
00:03:21.880 that being selfless and being of service to other people is the only true way to find
00:03:29.500 long-term success, okay?
00:03:31.440 If you're making a product, your product's got to serve other people.
00:03:35.020 It's got to solve a problem.
00:03:36.460 If you're managing employees and you want to be a great leader, you've got to dedicate yourself
00:03:42.400 to the betterment of these people who are doing the frontline work of your company, okay?
00:03:48.460 If you want customers to love you, you have to give more than what you ask in return in
00:03:54.860 dollars, all right?
00:03:56.540 This is basic shit, guys.
00:03:58.580 It's being of service.
00:04:00.520 It's figuring out how you can help people with their problems and the better you become at
00:04:07.340 helping people with their problems and helping people find solutions to their problems, the
00:04:11.940 more fucking money is going to find its way into your fucking bank account, all right?
00:04:16.800 And it's that simple, all right?
00:04:18.680 We talk about this earlier in earlier editions of my podcast where we talk about the morality
00:04:24.060 of money and we talk about how money is really made and it still shocks me how many people
00:04:29.920 go through life with a self-centered viewpoint of business, success, you know, money and all
00:04:37.420 these other things that we talk about, you know, generally on this podcast.
00:04:41.520 Um, guys, it's just not the way it is.
00:04:45.660 That's why you see people who are constantly hustling but never getting anywhere.
00:04:51.460 If you take a really good look at their motivations, it's because they're motivated on things that
00:04:56.680 are going to benefit them, not focused on things that are going to benefit others.
00:05:00.740 And guys, I know this sounds a little bit out there.
00:05:04.100 Like, you know, it sounds a little bit care bear, you know, care about others and others
00:05:08.600 will care about you, but it's a fundamental truth of the fucking universe, okay? 0.91
00:05:13.520 If you care about others, other people reciprocate and care about you, all right?
00:05:19.380 When you make a friend, you're going to make a fucking sale.
00:05:22.660 And you know what the best part about making a friend is versus making a customer is that
00:05:28.140 you can always lose a fucking customer, but you can never fucking lose a friend. 0.91
00:05:32.480 All right, guys, you have to focus on being of service.
00:05:36.400 You have to focus on solving problems.
00:05:38.580 The world doesn't give a fuck either way.
00:05:40.760 The world doesn't care if, you know, who you are, what you do.
00:05:45.140 The world doesn't hate you either.
00:05:46.960 It just doesn't care about you.
00:05:49.460 Do you understand that?
00:05:50.260 It's like, you're like a piece of fucking lint.
00:05:52.560 It's indifferent.
00:05:53.660 It doesn't matter.
00:05:54.600 So quit going through life thinking the world owes you something because nobody fucking owes
00:05:58.980 you anything.
00:05:59.560 And quit going through life, you other people, thinking that the world hates you.
00:06:03.120 The world doesn't fucking hate you.
00:06:04.560 The likelihood is you fucking hate you, okay?
00:06:07.940 Fix your fucking mindset.
00:06:09.800 Understand that success is an equation of math.
00:06:13.740 It is one plus one equals two.
00:06:16.520 It is A plus B equals C.
00:06:19.200 There's no fucking magic dust in there.
00:06:21.920 It's just, it is what it is.
00:06:23.400 It's cause and effect.
00:06:24.580 It's action result.
00:06:25.620 And once you accept that and once you eliminate all the fucking hocus pocus that all the other 0.91
00:06:30.300 motivational gurus and salespeople and fucking bullshitters and gypsies or whatever the fuck 1.00
00:06:36.080 is out there trying to sell you, then you're going to be on the right track.
00:06:39.940 You know, it's just too simple to accept that it's cause and effect, right?
00:06:44.080 It's too simple to accept that it's A plus B equals C or one plus one equals fucking two.
00:06:48.920 But what if it is that simple?
00:06:52.760 All right?
00:06:53.480 Understand that.
00:06:55.300 And understand that you need to be of service.
00:06:57.740 And if you can understand those two fucking points and accept them as truth and work them
00:07:03.000 as truth, there is no limit to how far you can go.
00:07:07.920 We're going to let the band deal with this.
00:07:10.380 Ha ha.
00:07:11.380 Mm-hmm.
00:07:14.380 M-I-A style. 1.00
00:07:16.560 Old school.
00:07:18.020 Uh-huh.
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