SNEAKO - July 05, 2023＂Forgive your mother!＂ Jesse Lee Peterson VS. SNEAKO
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Sneeko is a popular online personality and successful content creator known for his One Minute Podcast. In this episode, we talk to Sneeko about feminism, manhood, and all of the good things that come with being a millennial.
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and happy white history month. Happy white history month. July just feels white. My guest
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is for manhood hour. Today is Sneeko. And Sneeko is a popular online personality
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and successful content creator known for his one minute podcast. And I want to talk to Sneeko
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about feminism, manhood, all those good things. Sneeko, welcome to the show.
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How are you doing, Jesse Lee Peterson? Can you hear me? I can, loud and clear.
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Everything sounds good. I'm a big fan of your work. I like a lot of what you did at the S-Word Walk.
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It was a history interview you did in New York City. I've liked a lot of your interviews for a while.
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I'm actually, I'm a big fan. Thank you, man. I didn't know that. Thank you.
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That was at the S-Word Walk. Yep. Well, I was censoring it because we're on YouTube. I'm on
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Rumble. So, oh, you got it. No words you can't say. Oh, you can't get a slut anymore? I guess
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you can, but I'm just trying to play it safe because you are on a, on a wokey beta male
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website like YouTube. I'm on alpha male Rumble. There you go. Are you, are you black? You look
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like you mix with something. Yeah, I'm black, Asian, and white. I'm half Filipino. My dad is
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half black, half white. Amazing. So how did you get, how did you get started? And thank
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you, man. I didn't know you recognized who we were, but thank you for being a, what made
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you get into podcast? How did all that start? How did I get into becoming a podcast doing
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the work that you do? A podcaster. I would say I'm a streamer. I mean, I do a lot of podcasts,
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but I've been doing content. I've been doing videos for a long time, for about 10 years.
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I was banned on YouTube last year, and now I've been creating content on Rumble for about
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eight, nine months, something like that. And I just always wanted to express myself. I
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always wanted to talk about social issues. I always wanted to get into filmmaking. Stuff
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like this really makes me interested. And it's just, it's always just been what I wanted to
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do. And I turned it into a career. Right on, man. And so what's important to you?
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The truth is important. And I think the most effective way to get to the truth is to be
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entertaining and is to be funny. My motto is seek truth through funny. I don't think that
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people listen if you're not entertaining, if you're not making them laugh to some extent.
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I think that's the most effective way to communicate. So I'd like to be able to get to
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the truth, but I think that you can't do it without being entertaining. And ultimately,
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I think what I do is a blend of comedy, of filmmaking and social commentary.
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The truth is very simple. I think everybody knows it deep down, but because of all the
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programming and because of cancel culture and people prioritizing their feelings over reality,
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we ignore the truth and we separate ourselves from the truth all the time. But I think the
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truth is very simple, that there's a higher power. And I think that men and women have specific
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roles and these very simple facts we have to argue about all the time. And we need to have shows
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like this in order to spread that because we're in a world now where anything goes and we tolerate
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everything. For example, you had a destiny on your show a couple of years ago. I liked that interview
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you did yesterday. I spoke to him and people like him who don't believe in God, they yesterday
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I had a debate with him and he was arguing that bestiality is fine because it's not hurting
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anybody. He was arguing that incest is okay because once you start accepting any kind,
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all kinds of sexual deviancy, then you, you open up the floodgates for all types of immoral
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behavior. And so we need to have specific ground rules that I think if you're going to get to
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And so were you, you were raised by both parents, father and mother.
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And so that who were you closer to your father, your mother?
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I was probably closer with my father. I relate to him more. I think men relate to other men
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more, but both my parents, I think they did a great job raising me. I hope so. And my dad
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is a really big role model. And I would say one of my, like a superhero in my life. I really
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look up to him. And my mother did a great job. And even to this day, she does a good job
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of, they, they watch everything I do. So they really try to make sure that I'm, I'm staying
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on a straight path and I'm spreading the right message because I do have a big platform.
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And so, um, are you surprised that, that your platform took off so fast and doing so well?
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No, I always knew that it would, it took longer than I expected, I think to, to get to the point
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where I really want it to be. I didn't expect to get banned the way I did. I didn't think that
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they should have deleted my main channel because I had no strikes on it. But when they ban
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you on YouTube, they completely wipe you and they delete all of it. So they got rid of
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all my work, but I think I was able to survive the cancellation. I was deleted off of a lot
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of platforms, Twitter, Tik TOK, Twitch, and YouTube. I got my Twitter back because of
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Elon. And even after the cancellation, I think I I've even doubled my audience and widened
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my reach. So it's something that I've always expected and set a standard for myself to
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to get to this point. And so you started out when you were 14 years old, 14. Yes. Amazing.
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And I want to ask you, uh, for your, your age group of men, it's hard to find decent young
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women to date or even marry because women are in competition with men. Now they want to be
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like men. Is it hard for you to find a woman to date? It is. It's very difficult. I don't
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think it's worthwhile to find a woman in the West. Sure that there's probably some good
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ones, but I think I've been traveling the world quite a bit and seeing the quality of
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women that exist in different countries. It just seems like a stupid decision to try
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to invest in a woman in the West when she's been indoctrinated by feminism. So I just don't
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think it's worth it. It's just, if you're going to, if you're going to make an investment
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into the future, you very clearly the odds are against you when it comes to women in the
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West. So I have been traveling and meeting women across the world. I think that I need
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to have a girl who's not really on social media, a girl who isn't addicted to TikTok because
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as soon as they download those apps, they immediately start getting ideas they would have never had
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without them. Amazing. And so, um, what's the difference? And I understand what you said
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about the TikTok thing, the women around the world, I know you traveled a lot. I've, I heard
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about that. Uh, have you met anyone in any part of the world that you think you would like to date
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or marry? Yeah, I've met a lot of women that I think fit that some, that criteria, but at the
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same time I am 24 and I know that a lot of religious people get married at this age, but I'm a very
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career oriented person. So I think that in fully investing myself into a long-term relationship now
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is not the best idea. If I want to be self-sufficient for my entire life and, and not get trapped or get
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stuck in a relationship, that's not right. So I have my good, uh, good women, but I'm still waiting
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and making sure that I can, I can mature more because I still am growing quite a bit. I still
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have a lot of maturing to do. Uh, you know, I'm, I'm 24 and I've made quite a bit of mistakes in my life
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and I've been, I've went down the wrong path. So I just want to make sure that I'm completely
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masculine and secure and everything that I do. And I'm able to be the protector and provider that
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my children need from a father. So you hope to get married one day and have, and make kids.
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Yeah, that's one of the, that's the biggest goal of mine. I want to have a big family,
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a lot of children. Sometimes I joke and say that I want 10, but I think that that's a big number.
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I think it's more important to start with one and then see how that goes. Of course,
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it's fun to say things like I want 10, I want 10 sons, all this stuff, but seeing,
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I've been interacting with a lot of parents and a lot of young fathers. And it's like seeing the
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amount of the, the investment it takes to just raise one is huge. So it's like you start with
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one and then, and then you can, you can think about two and then maybe 10, but yeah, I really
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want a big family. I think that that's the, that's the reason that God created us is so that we can
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reproduce and so that we can make the world a better place with children who are motivated and who want to do
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good. Yeah. I remember in high school, I said, I was going to get married. I wanted 10 children as
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well. I ended up only making one. And so now I have one son, two grandkids, well adults now,
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and two great grandkids. So it's, it's, it's building up. When you, I know you don't want a
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tick top woman. Uh, what do you want in a woman? What would you like? The type of woman you would
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like, if you decide to date and marry, what type of woman would you want? When it comes to marrying
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a girl, I have very simple criteria that they need to meet before I can even consider. There's
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a lot of other things that you look for in a relationship, like personality compatibility,
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these things, but to get in the door, I think the best relationship that would work for me longterm
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is she needs to be Muslim. She needs to be a virgin and she needs to be unvaccinated. If she fits those
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three, then, then we could talk, then we can very important. Yeah. Amazing. So have you dated
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women outside of America? I have. And how did that go? Someone? Well, some didn't go well,
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but I think it was trial and error. You know, maybe dating is a waste of time. And for example,
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in the Quran, they say that dating is Ram. You should just marry right away. But I do think that I learned
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quite a bit from those relationships and I learned about myself. I've done a quite a bit of dating.
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I'm 24 and I've had a lot of relationships and lots of ups and downs. So those were good. And I
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actually, I do prefer women who are not Westernized. I think that that's a better, that just works better
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for me. There's more compatibility there. I don't have to get around. As soon as a woman starts talking
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about astrology or if she's always on her phone, she's always on Tik TOK and she's invested into
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celebrities. If she's talking about Kim Kardashian, then immediately it's just like,
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I just don't want to have to reprogram her and tell her how much of a psyop that is.
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I would rather get a non-Westernized woman who wants to be the balance of my life.
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You, um, when you date, do you spend, I noticed that a lot of men your age and maybe even older now
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spend a lot of money on women that they date. Do you spend money on women that you date?
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When I really do love and care about them, then I do. I'm not the type of person to go take them
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to the mall and buy a bunch of nonsense, but women are expensive. They're one of the most
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expensive commodities out there, not just in terms of how much you're spending monetarily, but when
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it comes to time, women are a giant time suck. So that's why I think that it's not the best idea
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to invest in a long-term relationship now, because that's the, that's the most important currency you
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have is your time and they will drain all of it. They will want all of it. They constantly want your
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attention. You'll start doing things and spending time with them that you shouldn't, you should be
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prioritizing a lot of that on work. And you just care about her feelings. You want to make sure that
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she's comfortable and secure and she's happy. And that's just not worth it. When you're, I think
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when you're 24 and I would give this advice for young men, I think at the ages of 18 to 25,
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you shouldn't even focus on relationships. It's better to focus on yourself, focus on your career,
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build those first, and then realize how important your time is and what you want to prioritize before you
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invest in a long-term relationship. And since you were just dating them, why did you spend money
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on them, period? Spend money on them because I like to make women happy. One of the best pleasures
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in life is seeing a woman smile. But when you make her happy, you make her take control of you.
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Right. You can't make a woman happy. You can't make anybody happy, really. They need to be happy
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themselves before. Yeah, you can't make a woman. But I guess it's like, you know, giving them,
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making them happier, you know? But you're setting them up to use you.
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And women see men that spend money on them, they see them as being weak. And they don't care about
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men at all that spend money on them. They just pretend that they do so that they can get the money.
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Women want men that don't love them, that cannot control, that they cannot control. And if they
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can get you to spend money on them, they have control over you. In the good old days, men did
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not spend money on women that they were dating. They would wait until marriage. And even then,
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they would be sensible how much money they spend on a wife. But you should never spend money on a
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woman you're dating. Even if you went out to eat, you know, it doesn't have to be like all an
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expensive place, but not even a lot of money then. And there are women like men that they cannot
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control at all. You're completely right. Now, I'm realizing it now. I'm thinking, as soon as you
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said that, I'm thinking about all the relationships I spent a lot of money on. And those women end up
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becoming ungrateful and unappreciated. They start expecting you to spend money on them and spend all
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your time on them because they don't see it as a reward. They just expect it based off of your
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interactions. Now, I'm realizing, as you said that, the women who are in love with me now,
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I don't really spend any money on at all. I don't even spend any time at all. Like the women that you
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give the least amount of attention to that she's chasing you, they're the ones who actually love
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you. So that's a great point. And I don't think I'm going to spend money on a woman until I'm married
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now. You just red-pilled me on money. What the? That's right, man. Women want men that don't want
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them. They want men because they need the man to be right to bring them out of the hell that they
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live in. Let me ask, what is love? Love is a decision. I think women fall in love and
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men have to commit to love. They have to decide that it's something that they should invest in.
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I guess you get those bubbly feelings and you get that Disney movie type of feeling maybe in the
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beginning of a relationship. But after a while, that fades. And then you need to decide that the
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person you're with is right for you. And not just because you love them, but because you fit each
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other's priorities and what you want in life. So I think even thinking about those ideas too much
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can drag a man down. And I think a lot of those movies that promote that ideology, it turns men into
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simps. It turns women into delusional creatures. And we shouldn't obsess over this idea too much
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because it's not good. That's not what creates a good relationship. What creates a good relationship
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A man literally is an adult male, a biological male, but a man compared to a boy is somebody
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who can protect somebody who can provide somebody who's strong, somebody who's capable, somebody
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who is responsible of others. A man has to take care of somebody. And even if you go further,
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I've been thinking about this. I think a gentleman is somebody who gives more to the earth and gives
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more to those around him than he takes somebody who is giving because that's where I think men get
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their happiness from and where men reach their, their real state as, as a, as a responsible man.
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When you are giving to others, that's where you, you get, that's the top satisfaction in life.
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That's where you'll, you'll find the most fulfillment.
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Of course I do. And, and how do you know you have anger?
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Because I wake up angry and go to sleep angry. It's something that, uh, I'm angry right now.
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Because there's so many things to do. I have so many, I have so much more money to make. I have so
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much more truth to spread. There's so many liars out there that I haven't exposed yet.
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There's things that I haven't accomplished. There are people that are still doubting me
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and there are, the world is run by evil satanic people. And it infuriates me that people don't
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realize that it infuriates me that these people who are doing rituals on islands, they have ultimate
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control and people live in ignorance because it's more comfortable. And that, that infuriates me.
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And what, what good is it doing you to be angry about those things?
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It provides me with the energy I need to get up and work every single day. I didn't, I slept one
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hour last night. I stopped streaming at 4am after a five hour stream, something like that. After
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getting off of a 20 hour flight from Thailand, I came home in a stream. I slept for one hour and woke
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up for this and then I'm going to get to work. I have a lot of writing to do. I have my business
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employees to contact. I have to get on a lot of phone calls. That anger that transfers into
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energy. And if you don't have that energy, you're not going to be able to do the work that you need
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to do. And, and why do you think you can't do those things without being angry?
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I guess you can, but I think it's better when you have that, that energy that's going to give you
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a competitive edge that other people don't have. If I'm pissed off and I have something to prove,
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obviously I'm going to work better. That's the same reason that Michael Jordan
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is training until 3am past everybody else. And he's doing extra drills because he's angry that
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people don't know that he's a champion yet because he already knows he is a champion and all he has
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to do is prove it. And you're not going to be able to prove that without some sense of anger that
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people don't already know that you are the champion. That's amazing, man. Do you believe that you can
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overcome anger and not be angry at all about anything at any time?
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I think eventually, I think with the family and I think with a certain balance in life and
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after a certain level of accomplishment, you don't strike me as an angry person, Jesse.
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Right. I'm not, I have no anger at all. Do you, do you, um, do you want to,
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do you think it's normal for a man to have anger?
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I think it's a very normal emotion. I think that all men at a, at a certain age, especially young
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men feel angry and a lot of them manifest that into the wrong things. And if they feel angry,
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instead of using that anger, they will find cheap dopamine. They'll do things like smoke weed or watch
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porn and kind of drown in that and then blame their inadequacies on something else.
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Yeah. I think it's, it's a very normal emotion to have. And people in the chat are saying ego,
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ego, every man has an ego. And if you don't have an ego, you need one. It's a very important thing
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in order to, to accomplish what you want to accomplish. Ego is not a bad thing. You need
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to have self-esteem. You need to believe in yourself. And if you don't have a sense, if you don't have an
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ego at all, then you're not going to be able to get to that Michael Jordan level of success. And if you
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don't want that, then that's fine. But all successful champions have a giant ego and they
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need to tell, they need to prove to the world and to themselves that their ego is justified.
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And what is success? How do you define success or successful?
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I think you can measure success in terms of impact. I see the success when people come up to me. This
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kid came up to me in Thailand yesterday, the day before, and he was, he was, he was like almost on
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the verge of tears. And this doesn't happen all the time, but he was saying, uh, he looked a little
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bit chubby, but kind of that, that skin chubby where you could tell that he lost weight. And he was
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telling me that he lost 20 kg because of a video where I was fat shaming a trans person. And just that
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little joke, like I'm, I'm there saying that this dude is overweight. I'm saying that he looks like
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Peter Griffin, just making jokes. And, but he said that that video inspired him and motivated
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him to get into the gym. And he was extremely happy in the way he shook my hand and was saying
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like, I want to be like you, like you, you really inspired me. Thank you so much. And so seeing that
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made my day and made me realize like, that's all the work that I do manifests itself into real life.
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I think that that's actual success. Seeing that somebody took something from a joke I made
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and it turned into something positive. And now he's better off because of what I did. I think
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that's success. Um, did you say you were a Muslim? Yes. I recently reverted to Islam about four months
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ago. Were you a Christian at one time? I grew up Catholic. Yes. And what made you switch?
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I never fully resonated with Catholicism. I didn't feel, uh, spiritual. I didn't feel the higher power
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when I was in church. I didn't like the repetition of it. And it was, it's, it was forced upon me,
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which is not bad, but it wasn't something that I found. It was something that I was taught. And so
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I guess I equated a lot of that to the lives that I was taught in school. And a lot of the,
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like they told me that I needed to get a nine to five job and that I need to do this. And you can't
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say that. And so I kind of equated Catholicism and in church with a lot of what they were telling me
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I had to do, but I didn't want to do. So I never really resonated with Catholicism and we can get
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deeper into things. Like I never really understood the Holy spirit. I never really resonated with the
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act of communion, eating the body of Christ and drinking his blood. There's certain things that
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I never, I, that I never understood that that didn't make sense to me. And they just told me I
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needed to accept, but Islam is the, is the right religion for me. And why is that? Oh, let me ask
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before you answer that, who forced religion, uh, Christian, uh, Christianity on your parents or
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the schools? My parents, uh, forced Catholicism. Okay. And what is it about Islam that you like?
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I see it as the, as the one truth. I see it as the one monotheistic religion. And I think I first
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started resonating with it when I saw it as the only answer to all the woke garbage that we see on
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social media. And we see in the culture in the West, Islam fixes all these problems with what's
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written in the Quran. But not only that, it's not just practical, not just in terms of how
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it makes you more steadfast and keeps you centered by praying five times a day and telling you not to
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drink and telling you not to put bad things into your body, telling you the importance of gender
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roles. But also I just see it as the one true monotheistic religion. I see Muhammad peace be upon
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him as a, as a final prophet. I think Jesus was a prophet as well, but I don't see the other
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religions as monotheistic. I think that's extremely important. I don't think we should pray to a man
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and we could argue about whether or not Jesus was a man or with, if he's man and God simultaneously.
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A lot of Christians disagree about that, but Islam, it seems like it's the only book that has
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not been manipulated in 1400 years. And it's the one true monotheistic religion because there's no
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idol worship. You don't draw the prophets. You don't draw, you can't conceptualize God. You just
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And you have to, and do you pray five times a day?
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Sometimes, but I, it's been difficult and I need to be better at that. I try to,
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but I'm, I'm very busy. And there's some passages that will say in certain Hadiths and in the Quran
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that if you are busy or if you're traveling, then you're able, then you're excused. But I,
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that's an excuse that I'm making right now. I need to start praying more, but I do try to pray every
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Amazing. And do you, so did your mother force Christianity upon you or your father?
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It was my mother and father. They both grew up Catholic. And so it was just natural. They
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Nice. Um, do you, if, if it, do you have perfect peace?
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No, do you? Yeah. With, not as you become a part of the Islam thing there, do you have perfect peace?
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I think I found a new level of mental clarity and peace and stoicism with Islam. I've, I've,
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haven't felt this centered my entire life until I reverted to Islam. Everything starts to make
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It's hard to say because I'm not perfect and I can only judge based on my reaction to it and
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humans aren't perfect, but I do think Islam is perfect.
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I wanted to ask, and then I have another question here, um, um, about dating. Would you date any
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race of a woman? And does it matter what race is, if it's the type of woman that you want?
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Right. We can, we can go back and forth. I'm not sure what you think about race mixing,
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but I mean, I am a product of race mixing. So it's like, I'm not really going to find another
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Filipino, Haitian, Hungarian. So I'm, I'm going to race mix no matter what.
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And even if I find a woman who's exactly the same race as me, it's, it's technically still
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race mixing. So I don't have any preference when it comes to, when it comes to dating or
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the woman I marry. I've dated, uh, Senegalese, dark-skinned women, I've dated, uh, light women,
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I've dated Hispanic women, I've dated, um, all colors. Let me take a quick break. I'll come
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back and we'll close out. 888-775-3773. 888-77-JESSIE. Back in a moment.
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Nico, how can people find your website and things like that?
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They can find me on rumble.com slash Nico. I would say that that's the biggest mainstream
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free speech platform. And I stream there every night right now. I'm back in Miami and I travel
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a lot. So a lot of the other content you could see there, but I post very regularly on rumble.
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Um, I want to ask you, you're now a Muslim and you mentioned Jesus, uh, is Jesus God or the son of
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I think he's neither. I think he is a, I think he was a prophet.
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That's what we believe in Islam, but we believe that Christians were, were very close to the truth,
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but Islam is the truth and Muhammad was the final prophet. But I don't think that any one person
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could be the son of God and nor do I think that a man can be God and a man simultaneously. That
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So you're saying that, you said that Jesus was a prophet and what is a prophet?
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A prophet is a messenger of God. Somebody who spreads the message of God and, and, and who is
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God, we can't conceptualize, but God is the divine creator. The all merciful. God is the reason that
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we exist, the designer, an all intelligent being that we don't know what exactly he is or where he
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is or what he looks like, but we know that he was the intelligent designer and we should worship him.
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Because the same reason that a smartphone doesn't know who Steve jobs is, the creation will never
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be able to understand or conceptualize what the creator is because the creator is more
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intelligent. Do you believe you were created by God? Yes. And if you were created by him,
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do you believe he love you? Yes. And if he love you, why would he want you to know who he is?
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Because it's not worth it. It's, he created us so that we could worship him and maybe we will meet him
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in the afterlife in heaven. But the whole purpose of, of life on earth is to be able to, to be the best
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we can be so that we can enjoy eternal paradise.
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And, and why would, would you want to have a father? Would you consider God as your father?
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God as my father? No, but we, we use the word he, when we refer to God.
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And why not father? I understand that he thinks how he is a masculine persuasion, but why not father?
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Okay. I'm not sure what the direct reason is in the Quran. I know that they do that and they say
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that in Christianity, but I think father is a, is it's a man made, it's a way to relate it to
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way humans could understand because we understand exactly what a father figure is. I think that trying
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to compare God to man-made ideas and the, the man created family is not really necessary.
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Because again, if we can't conceptualize what God is, then, I mean, there can't be a father without
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a mother and there is no mother. So a father that doesn't exist if there's no mom.
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But, uh, God is not a physical. He is a spirit.
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Right. Well, I wouldn't necessarily say God is a spirit. It's, he's an all intelligent
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being. I think putting the word spirit on it is again, it's too, it's too specific.
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Again, because there's, there's no point in, in Islam, we don't believe that there's any
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point in really trying to figure this out. We know that we should worship God because he
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created all of us, but you know, there's no reason to try to figure out if he's a spirit
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or if he's a father, because that's not important. And we will never know.
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If you can know now, would you want to know him?
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No, I will want to, to wait until I go to heaven and do the right thing. Now, I think
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that that would manipulate the way I view earth too much. And I wouldn't be able to still interact
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with other people knowing everything. Cause if I, if I spoke to God, then I would know
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too much and nothing would make sense on earth.
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So if you want, it will, if it were possible for you to know the truth, why you live, then
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you wouldn't want to know that until after you die.
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I would wait until I die. I want, I want to do it the right way. I would go insane. I would try to
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tell everybody and then I'd end up yelling at a pole behind a gas station.
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So what's the purpose of praying to the father? If you don't want to know
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you pray to the father because, or you pray to God because God wants you,
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God commands us to pray and worship him because that's what we're supposed to do.
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But if, if, if, why pray to him, if, if it's not to know him as a waste of time,
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I guess you become closer through prayer, but you will never really know God the way that God
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knows us. I don't know that me, you will never be able to communicate and understand God the way
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that God understands us because we are God's creation. Like we will never be able to, to have
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that same, that mutual understanding that we can have with other people.
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Do you believe that you are your thoughts? You create thoughts?
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Most of them. There's a lot of outside information that affects your thoughts, but I tried to create
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How do you create thoughts personally? How do you create them?
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Analyzing where the information that I have comes from, why I believe the things I believe,
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being very critical of everybody I'm around and trying to put the best information into my mind.
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And so, so you create your own thoughts. Why would you create thoughts that would bring you fear?
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No, fear within yourself. You know how you have fear? Why would you create thoughts that would bring
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That's a good point. I guess those thoughts you try to, you try to quell them as much as possible,
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But if you create them, why are they there? Why do you even bother to create thoughts that would bring
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you fear? Why not create them since you're in control of creating your own thoughts?
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Well, you're right that you don't, you're not in control of all of your thoughts. Some of them
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are external and, but we do our best to create the best reality and create the best thoughts we can.
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Amazing. Do you believe that you can live a life without fear, period?
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If it, no, let me ask you this way. Do you believe you can live life without fear at all?
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Yes, I think those people are sociopaths. I think those are the people that end up
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shooting up a school or end up doing insanely crazy things. I think that you need to fear God.
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Of course, you can live without fear, but then you're going to die.
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But then you're going to end up drunk somewhere.
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The people who are committing those types of crimes are doing it out of fear.
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They're not doing it because they don't have fear. They're doing it because they do have fear.
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I guess there's always going to be some fear, but the best thing to fear is God,
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because you can't control God. So you should be able to, everything that you are in control of,
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you should not let it instill fear into your mind.
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The one thing that you cannot control is God, so that's the one thing you should fear.
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If you can overcome fear, period, would you want to overcome it?
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All men hate their mothers, and the women too, the girls.
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and they pass it on from generation to generation.
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And if you realize that just as you can't help yourself but have fear and have anger,
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your mother couldn't help herself because she resents her mother.
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And she imposed that on you, and now you become like her.
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And a man is not supposed to have fear because of the order of God and Christ,
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Christ and man, man over woman, woman over children.
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But if you have the mindset, the woman become your God,
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and men are subject to women because Satan is the woman's God,
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and the woman is the man's God because of that broken order.
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When Eve listened to Satan, she took on his nature
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And when Adam listened to Eve, he took on the woman's nature
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But when you forgive your mother and your father for not protecting you from your mother
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because he can't handle your mother, he's married to his mama,
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But when you forgive them, God will forgive you,
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and he will take away the mama's spirit, which is of the devil,
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And that's when you can really start living without fear.
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And you'll be able to deal with every situation without being moved by it at all.
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By telling her that I'm sorry for resenting you.
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It makes you think and do things that you wouldn't ordinarily think and do.
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And realize that the anger that you have from your mother brought that on.
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And going for, hey, mother, I'm sorry for resenting you.
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I realize now that I have become just like you and that you can't help yourself.
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You forgive her, and God will forgive you because women don't forgive.
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And your mother will take that and try to use it against you to control you.
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But once you apologize for resenting her, God will forgive you,
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and he will take that away from you, and you'll become a free man.
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And you can live on this earth with perfect love,
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How did you figure this out, and at what age did you forgive your mother?
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At 38, and I asked God to let me see myself because I had all that emotional stuff, too.
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I lived in my imagination, and I had this false idea that success and friends and family
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and everything would bring me peace, and it only made life worse.
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Only God can give you peace, and that comes when you forgive.
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What do you think would happen if you went to your mother and apologized for resenting her
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I think that I wouldn't believe it, and I want to say that because you've explained that
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in a way that makes a lot of sense, and I think a lot of men can relate to.
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But I don't think I fully mean it if I had said it yet.
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So it's something that I need to sit with and think about more before I do it.
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You should see it for yourself, not just because I said it, because once you see it
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for yourself, that's why we need to know ourself, know thyself, right?
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When you see it for yourself, then you'll be able to go and forgive her because you will
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see that, yes, she did this to you, but you're wrong for resenting her because by resenting
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And you can overcome it by forgiving her, but you have to see it for yourself.
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And the kingdom of heaven is inside of you, and you will enter into that kingdom, and you
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will no longer look outside for the answer because everything that you're looking for,
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everything that you are, everything you need to become is already inside of you.
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You just need to live from within and stop looking on the outside because you can gain
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You can become the richest man on this side of heaven.
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You become the richest man on this side of heaven.
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But once you forgive and start living from within, you will no longer have those things.
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They will all disappear, and the whole earth will belong to you.
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Each individual is the world, not the physical world out there, but you are the world.
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And then, because it's abnormal for men, any man that has anger is a woman.
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So when you get with a woman, it's just going to be two women fighting one another.
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You want to be free from ego, and you want to walk by the light.
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And the light of God will kill the ego, which is of the devil, in the mind and emotions.
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You notice how sometimes you feel good, and then sometimes you feel bad, and then sometimes you feel good, and sometimes you feel bad.
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So anyone that is passionate about anything are really saying to you that they are evil.
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So how do you find the motivation to do what you need to do?
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Because I've found that ego and self-belief has carried a lot of the energy I needed to make me successful.
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When you go and forgive your mother and forgive your father for not protecting you from your mother, God is going to give you his energy.
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It is just natural, and it's greater than this false energy that you're getting now.
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You will have God's energy, and his energy is real.
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So do you think somebody like Khabib, for example, one of the most successful UFC fighters of all time, also extremely God-fearing,
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do you think that he operates and he trains without ego?
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Do you think that Khabib, the undefeated UFC fighter, right?
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Well, not perfect, but he doesn't sleep around.
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He's a good example of somebody who just practices a religion and fights all the time.
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I guarantee you, without a doubt, he doesn't have peace.
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And he's using anger energy to fight to make himself feel better.
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But when he's alone, he's lonely, he's afraid, he is sad, he's lost.
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But a man that has peace can go into a ring with him and knock him out in a second.
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He's living in the present and not in an illusion of a past or a future, but he's living in the present where God is.
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And so the man that has peace would knock this person.
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I don't know who that person is anyway, but he would knock him out in a second because this guy is fighting in the dark, whereas the man of peace fighting in the light.
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Who's a good example of somebody who has let go of their ego and forgiven his mother?
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Because Christians believe that Jesus is superior, is God.
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Is there an example of a mortal man who is forgiven?
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I have forgiven and I meet men and women around the world, men and women, who go and forgive their mothers.
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Most of them didn't know that they needed to forgive their mothers.
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And they go and forgive mama because mama made them think that.
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Mama made them think that it's the father that's the problem, but the mother is the problem.
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She pretended dad was the bad guy when she was the evil one doing it to the father, driving him nuts.
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But because he hadn't overcome his mother, he worshiped her, too.
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He tried to get something that women don't have, and that is love, right?
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The love comes from the man that comes from God.
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And so I know men and women, I meet them around the country now.
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They become patient, free, inwardly, men and women.
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And that's what it means to know God when you're able to see.
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And when you go and forgive your mother, hey, mother, I'm sorry for resenting you.
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And you're not able to know him when you play him because you're judging and you're insecure.
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But you can see where I'm coming from because you want the truth.
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You'll start living from within instead of without.
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And your mother turned you away from that when she turned you away from your father.
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And also, I want you to give my silent prayer a chance.
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If it's not what you do or what you provide or what you give, if it's not your job or it's not your accomplishments, then how do you define the self?
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Everything you see about yourself is an illusion.
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The real you will appear when the far you disappear.
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And the light of God will destroy the darkness, which is the ego.
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I need to think about this a little bit more, but I think you make some good points.