SNEAKO - July 20, 2022Why ＂Consent＂ is a Complete Joke
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In this episode of It's Complicated, the guys talk about consent and how it's such an important part of modern dating and sex, and what it's really like to be consenting in the modern dating world.
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everything that the man naturally wants to a lot to just be yeah yeah they're suppressing it more
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and more and more every year if you talk to your dads about this chat they're gonna be like oh i
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can't even imagine dating in today's world because it's insane i want to watch consent another one
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from it's complicated i love this channel bro consent rules of modern dating no means no but
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sometimes yes but i don't know but yes means no but no means yes but only when i feel like it and
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if you're attractive when having a first kiss what is more special to you if it happens spontaneously
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in the heat of the moment or if the guy asks permission first if you ask you sound weird i
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tried that the first time when i'm could i kiss you immediately when you say that
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cringe die do you mind if i have the honor of kissing you you just gotta go in for it you just
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do the the look and then yeah and just go in if there's any hesitation she coils up spontaneous
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spontaneous spontaneous yes spontaneous okay what happened to consent though that's why i'm saying
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this rule you're supposed to ask yes always means yes you must have verbal confirmation they all just
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said no it turns me off what does that say about consent
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no no they're gonna cancel me you have to catch i didn't mean that you have to catch the vibe there's
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a vibe okay let me ask you what determines what should and should not be spontaneous during
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look at the on the left it look what does this look like it looks like when a little kid draws a
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sun in the corner of the paper that doesn't look at all natural who told you that looked good
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someone needs to tell sweetie stop it man okay continue sorry back
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if you're ugly don't even think don't even try anything okay exactly if you you just have to be
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attracted she has to be attracted to you consent is bullshit it's just whatever they feel like in
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their head if you've talked about it at least like before they should be able to read the situation
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i think and spontaneous would be the right read the situation mind reading they're telling you
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to read their minds yeah if you ask it kind of ruins the moment it's like oh it makes it a little
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awkward if you ask it ruins the moment do you mind if i if i stick it in now excuse me ma'am do you
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mind if i put it in your mouth um um do you mind if i just can just please i was wondering i've seen
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you're walking around can i come on your face it's just disgusting you can't but they say that
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they teach that in schools now and cause it you must say yes means yes only consent you need a
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contract to kiss her yeah i'm a big person i just feel the vibe if you what the fuck is on your face
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feel the vibe and if you don't understand social cues then maybe you should just wait and ask for
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consent okay does no always mean that's how much validation they get because they all have these
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crazy things and like visors from marvel movies and then just because the fact you have a pussy
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no one's gonna call you out look at you you look like a comic book from the 80s and i still would
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smash you look stupid if i walked around like that people would say where you owe the anime
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conventions that way you could put it on and no one will blink an eye man
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okay thank you samuel castillo for the 10 000 cop i don't know what currency that is but it sounds
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like a lot where you're from um if consent is such an important thing why don't they typically ask for
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it in hollywood movies because it's stigmatized to not be like not be sexy to not be the stigmatized
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take action they all say that they say like it's just conditioned by society it's the stigmatization
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no it's not this is reality this is what this is what it's like and they blame it on external
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things they think it's like stuff from magazines and movies this is just what you want fucking
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what superhero does she look like the blind one daredevil beforehand so that's what the
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uh publicity goes with hollywood movies are mostly taking from the male perspective so they don't really
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get that the women maybe want to be asked okay but i'm saying like if you look at the movies see
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they don't take no accountability no accountability if you ask them the right questions they'll say like yeah
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i don't want you to ask me but if you ask them like why it's society standards it's the movie's
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fault it's not my fault ever sleeping beauty right that's a man who kisses a woman who's unconscious
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he doesn't ask for but it's so romantic because he's attractive for consent right but that was the
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only way for sleeping beauty to be awake okay all right what determines what should and should not
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look at the one on the left it's the same claw it's gonna scratch you don't go near
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consent literally like just asking for consent all the time
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you don't even believe what the fuck you're saying right now you have to ask him specifically the
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right questions or else they'll bullshit immediately so so every time a guy like puts his hands somewhere
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i think no not always but i just contradicted myself immediately
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yeah it's all about are you comfortable with me you know putting my hands on your waist
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or something and checking in i think that checking in you don't necessarily have to ask
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every single time but just checking you just said you do
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making sure that the person is comfortable with what's going on is like a really big deal
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establish ground rules there's nothing wrong every time
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right it looks so goofy it looks like you drew it on they look in the eyelashes are supposed to
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you i shouldn't be able to see sticks they shouldn't look like forks it looks like a fork
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there's there's nothing natural about that who told you that look good okay if a guy's gonna
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perform anal sex does he need to have a pre-production meeting about it yes yes okay and uh that is not
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putting in the buffer that that should not that should not be spontaneous that should be uh consensual
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because like some girls don't like it in like you know there ain't and if you don't ask before
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that should be dry is how you just go slip in there poop and dry and all you gotta
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rid the bro some people are demons with that i'm not gonna name names bro but i know some people
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just like boop boop in and out what you're not worried about lubricant like what if it's not
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shaved what if she has to go to the bathroom how are you just slipping in and out in this
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so like you should not just be like okay let me put it in your butt no you gotta ask like are you
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okay with anal sex if you're not okay with it then you can't do it is consent something that can be
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withdrawn once it's given yes i think so i don't know how dumb is that how dumb is that i think not
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you know nowadays you can withdraw consent the next day i was i drank a beer so i yeah now i don't feel
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like i said yes because i i drank a beer but i feel like if someone comes in is like yeah let's do
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this but then halfway like they're getting into it and they haven't done it yet and they're like oh
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wait i don't i'm not sure about this i think you can i'm not sure at any point stop like you should
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once you start you shouldn't be forced to like keep going but it's also like as it as like someone
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else like if you start if you gave consent first it's like you should have known like you should
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have really thought about it or else like why'd you give consent like it's kind of like oh why did
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you stop i guess kind of thing just to play devil's advocate you know if it's something that can be
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withdrawn what would be the point of asking permission in the first place i think yeah that's
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valid yeah just giving you the power i think it needs it shouldn't just be a lightweight question at
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the end of the day when you're with a guy like you might think of him in one way like
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and you can be more comfortable with him and then as the night progressives maybe there's red flags that
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come up and maybe you change your mind and that's completely fine but that would mean that consent
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would be withdrawn and if you're going to say like i'm not comfortable anymore then consent's not given
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anymore but i actually i actually do agree with you i think that it is something that should be able to be
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withdrawn um but here's my question is there a difference between withdrawing consent during
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and after the act yes i think if you're doing it after the act like after it's all done you'd be
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like oh i didn't give consent but you actually did i think that's where the issues occur like i think
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if you're in the middle of it you can withdraw but how crazy is that that's even a question now
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you finish the act i feel like you can't say like that's more regret that's not even like oh i didn't
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but nowadays bitches in college i regretted it so it doesn't count like oh but you cheated on me
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but but i regret it so it's no i took the consent back consent that's regret like oh crap i did it
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i didn't want to type thing a lot a lot of us girls are nervous to withdraw consent so we kind of just
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let things happen i don't think that it's okay either way i mean i i think that like you know if
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if they're withdrawing consent like whatever the guy is doing is not okay either way if if the woman
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is uncomfortable whether or not she said anything if a guy gives you an engagement ring and he calls
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off the engagement should you yeah what superhero is this is driving me nuts yo it's the one with the
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laser eye vision where do you buy this who told you this was okay is this should be proof enough
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that bitches will just get validated no matter what no one's gonna call them out even with this goofy
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ass and she thinks it's like some meg the stallion type like bad bitch thing you look like a kid
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dressing up on halloween this is something that i probably have this in my closet from party city
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from 2007 you put it on your face and guys will still be like whoa well it's so interesting where'd
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you get those those amazing glasses would you like to come on a dinner with me to give the ring back
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and he calls off the engagement should you give the ring back no hell no it's my ring
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so you could withdraw consent but not a fucking three months of salary ring
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okay so why is it if a man withdraws consent to an engagement he loses the ring
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i mean i don't think women are objects like rings are and you can even see behind that bullshit ass
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glasses chat look closer look closer what does she have on her face underneath that
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they should make a psycho horror movie where they'll
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look at that even underneath the fucking superhero visor she's got the same shit
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i would say look look look i mean i don't think women see it do you see it
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objects like rings are i would say he loses the ring
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okay if marriage is supposed to be an equal partnership
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why does a woman get an expensive engagement ring but a man doesn't
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i mean i'm sure they could but i don't think most of them want it
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what if a guy wanted like a twenty thousand dollar motorcycle
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i mean i guess it's all between you and your partner i spoil my men
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if a man consents to sex does that mean he's consenting to potentially becoming a father
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well if he was smart he would use all the protection
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she's taking away any accountability isn't that crazy
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if you fuck one of those she can keep the baby if she wants to
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but you need to get like a contract to kiss her now
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you need to get verbal written information and an audio recording to give you a hug
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but you can take my child if i get you pregnant by accident
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you don't even have to consent to being a dad they could do it
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but but i don't want to i don't want to do everything in his power to not be the father
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um i think it's a if it happens it's a consequence of him making the decision of having sex
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okay if a if a woman consents to sex does that mean she's consenting to potentially becoming a mother
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i think it's the same thing yeah i think yeah if you're doing it there's you know there's a risk
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of it yeah if you take every precaution you can whatever happens happens so why is the man
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often blamed for getting a woman pregnant aka knocking her up when it actually takes two people
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that's tough i think it's just another stereotype yeah i agree
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that stereotype like oh that was not the right word
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don't women ultimately get i don't know get to decide who has sex and who gets born
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are there any decisions more important than those two
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don't those don't those choices determine the future of civilization
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and doesn't great power come with great responsibility
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yes yes so wouldn't you say that there's a lot of responsibility on the woman
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when it comes to those issues yes i would say so yeah i think responsibility goes both ways
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okay that's fair if two drunk people meet and have drunk sex
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how do you know who took advantage of who if neither one could offer responsible consent
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what happens happens unfortunately unfortunately aren't most sexual encounters
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yeah yeah if you put yourself in a situation where you choose to drink where you get so drunk
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where you hook up with someone and you don't remember anything and then try to accuse it as
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being raped that is not right that's why you should always have friends around
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that's the craziest double standard today that nobody talks about
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that you can't consent when you're drunk but only if you're a girl because
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but a man what go ahead you can go to jail for drinking and driving but if you
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fuck a girl who's drunk and you're also drunk you guess who going to jail you think she going to jail
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and you exactly you should know you trust around you and always have a dd always and i and i agree
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with that some people you know accept that responsibility and some people call that victim
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blaming so it just depends on you know yeah i don't i don't agree with that it depends like
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definitely yeah you can't really point fingers in that situation yeah okay but who's typically blamed
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in that situation the man the man okay is that fair no not really no okay so why aren't false
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accusations taken more seriously when there's plenty of scenarios where it's not necessarily
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just the man's fault i know all of my friends like my closest friends have all been accused of
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the same i was drunk at a party and he kissed me we were all drunk too every one of my friends in
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college chat how many times have you've heard stories about this too how many people in this
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chat went to school with a girl who accused somebody falsely of something like essay or the hard
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word every single one of you knows some but you lied about it they don't go to jail really they get
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oh don't do it again oh she's that's a serious thing that could ruin your life
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that could ruin your life all of you know an example about that let me know chat wl if that's
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happened in your school too i know it has it's too common in the west now i think because society sees
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men as very masculine or masculine masculine men are really masculine for women so they see
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always them as taking advantage but i think that's just another stereotype another
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look at that and for the eight percent look at this look at how many people here
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everyone's saying me high school college girls it's just so
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fucking common now for a woman to lie i'm a victim i'm a victim i'm a victim look at how
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many fucking guys in this chat have the same story about women lying
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i was and they don't get in trouble for all the people who say a w you know a girl who's
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fucking lying about this do they go to jail do they go to jail but when men are even accused of this
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you can have jail time just from one bitch lying and when she's caught in a lie does
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shit really happen oh don't do it again silly friend that's always seen as like the man being
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the stronger dominant what are the differences between the stereotypical nice guy and the
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stereotypical bad boy uh this the stereotypical nice guy is like he always gets ignored and
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he gets swept under the rug and he's just like he's the i asked for a hug type of person
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how crazy i haven't even seen one l look at this chat everybody knows an exact story like this it's
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even happening in the news now make the stallion lied about i was shot in the foot you fucking liar
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we all know you're lying but it's just like normally accepted now for bitches to lie and try to ruin
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someone's fucking life and then just get away with it there was a girl on tiktok who uh we reacted to
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it on the stream five years ago i tried to get some top and then she posted the dms started bragging
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about curving me because i'm up now and she's an only fans girl and then i made a video reacted to
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she's like i'm a victim i'm threatened i'm calling my lawyer bitch you fucking talked about me first
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and all they know how to do is play victim they lie he threatened me he threatened me i don't give a
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fuck about you but it's so regular predictable so men nowadays just need to know how to navigate
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women's fucking nonsense it's just accepted that women fucking lie and a bad boy like he gets
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bitches focus on yourself focus on yourself he opened the car door but he expects something though
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why do you think we have the expression nice guys finish last um because a lot of can i give you a hug
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get out the fuck out of here oh you think you can hug me people like overlook they're like if you have
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a friend and he's like so sweet to you and you might not think that he is your uh would like go for
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him like that then you might just like look over him oh he's just a friend but really he's the person
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who would like always like treat you the way you wanted to be treated even if you treat him like how
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they say you're supposed to treat a woman you just get friend zone if you're completely the nice guy
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give him flowers write him poems take him out on dates ask every time you want to hold their hand
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oh i see you as a brother it's goofy it's goofy they're really trying to kill masculinity there's
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there's a gender war going on that's why this just makes you so upset they want to destroy what it
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takes to naturally be a man everything that a man needs to do naturally is problematic toxic
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and oh you're probably insecure or you need to settle down you're so immature everything that
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the man naturally wants to fuck a lot to just be yeah yeah they're suppressing it more and more and
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more every year if you talk to your dads about this chat they're gonna be like oh i can't even imagine
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dating in today's world because it's insane how many alley-oops and hula hoops you gotta jump in and out of
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to get some head you gotta deal with lion ass hoes tick tock hoes nonsense like this i said yes but i
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said no bro you could get canceled for anything i'm drunk i regret saying yes it's insane trying to
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get a little and like every dude is like i just wanted some i just wanted some head i just wanted
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some head every man is demonized for what they naturally want to do there's a gender war going on
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you see every girl here admitting it and look at them look at them and if they're like kind of a
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pushover a little bit i think women definitely like dominance okay well what do women find attractive
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about a bad boy the dominance yeah that might come with like emotional abuse and like stuff like that
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but like so a lot of women like to be dominated bad boys are just bad boys they just they're hot i don't
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know okay um why do we have the expression nice guy sorry chat sorry chat if you don't okay i didn't
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mean ask your dad just ask any older guy ask anybody 35 and up ask anybody 35 and up and ask them
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what's the difference between dating back then and dating today they'll all say the same thing i'm
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sorry if your dad left i'm not full bro my fault guys finish last uh probably because they take too long
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like to um secure the bag i guess secure the little girl but with bad boys they're just like i want
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this that's it okay thank you mo for the five sneaker for the muslim community the more i listen to like
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these bitches bro the more now i used to like look at ladies and burkas and stuff like that in hijabs and be
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like how do they cover up all the time how are they so traditional how do they have fun and like oh
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shit when you let these bitches run wild they make no sense this just starts to make arranged
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marriages oh maybe it's not just oppression maybe that's a good thing maybe we need that there's a
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reason that traditional values have worked for thousands of years only the last 50 years have
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they stapled this on their face ran around with instagram put on visors and made no sense and now
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we got it we're dealing with the repercussions of it you think that this is this is like whoa you need
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to like take some pills or like go to therapy you there's something wrong with you sneeko are you
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okay me wow this is the voice i'm the no i'm not the voice but you know a lot of chat you see what
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i'm saying a lot of chat really agrees with what i'm saying a lot of chat has dealt with these lying
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assholes they empathize with the problems that i'm yelling about oh yeah yeah and what do women
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find attractive about a bad boy um you know like gang and gang stuff like i you know i don't know
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like just like gang stuff you hear that she's attracted to gang stuff haram in the chat this is
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literally haram these bitches want you to risk your life for some pussy it's attractive when he has a
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gun and kills his ops you fucking stupid fucking idiot look what you're encouraging haram in the chat
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bro say a prayer for her this bitch is lost same thing this is a mark of delusion
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please fucking hell gang stuff is attractive you fucking dummy like do you want to get married or
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what do you want a man to keep you safe you want him to risk your life why because it's hot because
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it's cute oh my god let me hold your gun i you know i don't know like just like having a good time
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like not really worried about any of the stupid how do bad boys treat women bad boys treat women bad
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i guess so why is that good it's not good i guess it's just fun so what is the difference it's fun
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it's fun if you're in a gang oh my god it's so risky whoa are we running from the ops oh my god the
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ops are here oh police chase babe let me stash your drugs can i stash your blicky in my purse shut the
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fuck up it's fun they encourage fuck it it's demonic shit going on bro haram between we're drawing
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consent and regretting sex oh this bitch is fucking like she's really just all this how is this
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revolutionary information to her she whoa i don't know mark of delusion this is the mark of satan it's
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not just eyelashes drawing consent you're probably just not comfortable it just wasn't for you
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like it depending on the situation if you were having sex with someone in the middle of it you
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want to stop it's probably because you're uncomfortable the man should not continue and
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if it does well then that's not right after i mean if you regret it then you regret it but i feel like
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we have nights that are just like oh like i regret hanging out with that guy like i don't
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they don't even need to take accountability for a body now so they're all whores running around
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fucking shit with their lashes on and they could just regret the body and retract it they have you
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women now in the dating marketplace there's every single thing so that they don't have to take
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any responsibility for what they do i don't maybe i don't regret what specifically happened but like
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like i wish it didn't happen do you think we're headed towards needing consent con la la land la
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la land we really are promoting delusion tracks for sex i don't think it's gotten that bad i mean my
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god i feel like that takes out all the spontaneous yeah thanks or even like no one's gonna be like
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come sign my contract yeah right it does definitely take a lot of it let's get it to that point especially
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because like now bro i have something they can take away they can delete my channel throw me in jail
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i kind of get it to the point bro i want to sign ndas with these hoes just in case they start lying on
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me it's really that level hundred dollars hundred something from jake speaks yo secret key relax to
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frank carbone next i'll check it out thanks for the five john carlos i really like this girl but her
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mother is dying from cancer and she takes out all her pain and frustration on me should i deal with her
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john carlos you know the fucking who gives a fuck about her mom's cancer she's not your responsibility
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she's not your daughter go fucking live your life she's taking all her pain and frustration on
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you focus on yourself you knew the answer to that dumb ass question before you asked it
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50 from uh eat my children uh from czech republic you are not the voice the only voice is the one and
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only top g tate is our lord and savior okay go suck his dick bro why are you in my stream donating
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money to say that you like his dick the the romance out of it but believe it or not they've actually
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come out with apps for uh consent consenting apps um but but but also um consent if you did sign one
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would you still be able to withdraw consent they're gonna say yes aren't they gonna say yes even after
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a contract they're still gonna not take any responsibility for their words because then
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you kind of be like you know it's in writing you know what i mean you're kind of yeah you got
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to read the small font if the paper says like you can't withdraw once you sign then and and my question
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is also okay good fuck i was about it i was about it so you know if if you could withdraw consent
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after you sign a contract why are we still using contracts that's that's true yeah i mean how else
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would it be possible to hold anyone accountable exactly i agree so i think that at the end of the
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day we need more education why does she look like this is it's complicated has has blown her mind
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this is how you know it does w interviews i've never seen a reaction like this for 10 minutes
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straight in my whole life bro on consent and i don't think that that that there's a lot of funding
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in that and i think that men and women and everyone every whatever you identify with i think that everyone
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needs to be more informed on consent i personally think all sexual encounters should be filmed and sent to
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me for verification i'm wearing a visor holy shit