The Comment Section with Drew Afualo - October 02, 2024


BIG BRAIN SAY LOUD WORDS Ft. Maddy Morphosis | The Comment Section Ep. 138


Episode Stats

Length

54 minutes

Words per Minute

219.4591

Word Count

11,896

Sentence Count

1,658

Misogynist Sentences

82

Hate Speech Sentences

89


Summary

Maddie Morphosis is the first straight person to ever be on RuPaul's Drag Race. She's also the first drag queen to ever wear a costume on the show, and she's the first black drag queen ever to be on Drag Race! Maddie talks about growing up in a small town in Arkansas, falling in love with Ru, and how she became a drag queen.


Transcript

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00:01:15.060 Hey everyone and welcome back to another episode of the Comment Section Show starring me, your fave.
00:01:25.220 Happy spooky season, team. Here we are. First costume of the season. One of my favorite food
00:01:32.240 groups. And yes, I'm recently engaged. Oh my god, thank you so much for asking. Yes, I'm recently
00:01:36.600 engaged. Yes, thank you so much. But enough about me and my wonderful, amazing engagement.
00:01:41.760 On to the guests. Today we have the iconic, the legendary, the wonderful, the amazing,
00:01:46.700 Maddie Morphosis.
00:01:50.120 Hello. Welcome to the show.
00:01:52.920 I know, I feel underdressed. I didn't know we were doing costumes today.
00:01:55.840 I know. Mine's from Spirit Halloween and yours is clearly made with love.
00:02:00.120 I would love to know the T on your costume. This is the best costume I've ever had on the show.
00:02:04.000 Thank you. Yeah, also Spirit. I just got it today. It's crazy what they got on it right now.
00:02:08.900 It's crazy how they formed it perfectly to your figure. That's crazy.
00:02:14.260 At Spirit Halloween. You built like a pot.
00:02:18.740 I'm so happy to have you. I'm happy to be here. Thank you for having me.
00:02:21.820 Oh my gosh. Anything for y'all. I'm collecting drag queens like infinity.
00:02:25.700 This one at a time. You gotta go faster. There's so many seasons being pumped out.
00:02:29.100 I know. You gotta catch up. They're moving at light speed. I can't keep you. I can't keep up.
00:02:33.300 Anyways, so happy to have you. Huge fan. I would love to know, for those that don't, to give your lore.
00:02:41.380 Because first off, you're the first straight person to ever be on Drag Race.
00:02:46.020 Yeah, the first cishet man. Make sure I'm getting all the words there.
00:02:51.280 Yeah. Cishetosexual man on Drag Race.
00:02:54.020 Allegedly.
00:02:54.840 Allegedly.
00:02:55.620 Yeah.
00:02:55.940 And I'm excited to have you. I'd love to know more about your lore. How you got into drag. What drew you to it.
00:03:02.740 Oh my god.
00:03:03.220 All that tea.
00:03:04.000 I feel like that's such a long story that'd waste the entire podcast.
00:03:08.140 We probably have more impressing things to get to, like TikTok comments.
00:03:10.560 But in summary, I just got really nihilistic. I grew up in a really small town, like in Arkansas.
00:03:19.280 And I wasn't like the other kids. I felt a little different.
00:03:23.680 I don't know. You look like every other kid.
00:03:27.420 Looks can be to see me.
00:03:28.600 That's true.
00:03:29.100 No, I don't know. I just, like, I didn't vibe with, like, kind of, like, all the box of, like, heteronormativity man southern.
00:03:35.860 And I was just like, is there more in this provincial life?
00:03:38.960 And after, like, high school, I just kind of went on this long journey of, like, anything I was curious about, try anything.
00:03:44.980 I was just kind of like, fuck it. Let's do it.
00:03:46.880 Yeah.
00:03:48.280 And, yeah, I didn't expect to be here. Just kind of fumbled my way along.
00:03:51.560 And that's kind of the quick and short of it.
00:03:53.600 That's so sick.
00:03:54.620 Well, how was your journey on Drag Race?
00:03:57.260 Because I've gotten very mixed reviews from all my friends on Drag Race.
00:04:00.600 Brief.
00:04:02.120 You said brief.
00:04:02.860 Yeah, it wasn't very long.
00:04:03.780 Brief, but impactful.
00:04:05.180 Impactful. No, I mean, like, again, like, I was from, like, small town Arkansas.
00:04:08.140 I was, it was my first time, like, on a plane.
00:04:10.000 I was just excited to go leave the state.
00:04:12.080 And then I was flown out.
00:04:12.400 That's crazy. That was your first time on a plane?
00:04:14.020 Yeah, because, you know, like, in Arkansas, like, the most you can hope for is to get on, like, the local news.
00:04:18.460 For, like, you know, local teen, win state spelling bee or something.
00:04:21.700 But then I was going on VH1.
00:04:23.480 I was like, oh, shit.
00:04:24.420 That's crazy.
00:04:25.040 So it was, like, simultaneously, like, terrifying, but also exciting.
00:04:29.240 And, yeah, I did that.
00:04:30.760 And would you do it again?
00:04:31.800 Probably not.
00:04:32.580 No.
00:04:33.060 No.
00:04:33.660 That's the general consensus I get from all of them.
00:04:35.980 I mean, like, it's, I'm thankful for the experience, but it's, like, I don't know.
00:04:39.420 It was long.
00:04:39.860 It was miserable.
00:04:40.840 I know.
00:04:41.320 I can only imagine.
00:04:42.280 Hollywood kind of sucks.
00:04:43.640 Yeah.
00:04:43.920 It's kind of miserable.
00:04:44.880 Yeah, it does.
00:04:45.720 It has a lot of its pitfalls.
00:04:47.540 That's for fucking sure.
00:04:48.420 It's not nearly as fun as it looks watching it from home.
00:04:51.660 No.
00:04:52.080 They edit it to make it seem like it's a great time.
00:04:53.760 It's, like, they cut out, like, the six hours you're sitting, like, in a booth and being fed, like, awful, like, truck food.
00:05:00.600 Yeah.
00:05:01.320 Everything has so much arugula on it for some reason.
00:05:03.220 I don't know.
00:05:03.760 I've joked about that before with other queens.
00:05:05.780 Like, it's, like, the amazing race, but you're in drag the whole time.
00:05:10.140 You have to, like, sew, and you have to be funny, and you have to be talented, and you have to be engaging.
00:05:13.460 Yeah.
00:05:13.880 The insider tea, it's not that amazing.
00:05:15.860 No.
00:05:16.220 It's just a race.
00:05:17.560 It's just a race.
00:05:18.640 It's just, like, a regular race.
00:05:19.520 A race for your own life.
00:05:20.560 Yeah.
00:05:22.060 And now you have your own show, podcast, called Give It To Me Straight.
00:05:26.220 How did that come about?
00:05:27.420 Well, like, when I'm on the show, obviously, like I said, I was there very briefly.
00:05:30.920 And, you know, like, they don't get to tell a lot of your story because, you know, it's in, out, quick edit, throw it out there.
00:05:37.040 Yeah.
00:05:37.880 And, like, all the interviews that I've done after the show, it's, like, when are you lip-sing?
00:05:42.480 What goes through your head?
00:05:43.580 What's your favorite lip-sync song?
00:05:44.860 Yeah, I feel you.
00:05:45.680 This episode of Drag Race, how did you feel?
00:05:48.020 And I'm, like, there's so much more than just, like, what's on Drag Race.
00:05:51.280 Yeah.
00:05:51.420 And I don't know.
00:05:51.740 Like, I want to know, like, why did you get into drag?
00:05:54.220 Like, how did you get here?
00:05:55.180 What's your trauma?
00:05:55.960 What's your story?
00:05:56.920 What happened?
00:05:57.940 What's trauma dump?
00:05:58.700 So, yeah.
00:05:59.340 So, I started, like, a little show and just kind of deep diving on queens and other guests.
00:06:04.260 I don't know.
00:06:04.580 Just, like, asking questions.
00:06:05.900 Yeah.
00:06:06.420 Yeah.
00:06:07.000 I love that.
00:06:07.880 I'd love to know, like, what the reaction has been for you personally as far as, like, online or maybe, like, from fans or maybe not fans.
00:06:15.320 Like, as far as being the only cis-hit man to be on Drag Race.
00:06:18.460 Like, I'd love to know, how are men reacting to that, like, other straight men that hate Drag Race or whatever?
00:06:24.000 I don't know.
00:06:24.660 I don't get a lot of that.
00:06:25.980 It's mostly just, like.
00:06:27.100 Well, I was going to say, if they're watching Drag Race.
00:06:28.840 Yeah.
00:06:29.240 It's mostly.
00:06:29.980 I don't think the straight guys have found out about me yet.
00:06:31.940 They haven't heard.
00:06:32.460 They haven't found you yet?
00:06:33.140 They've heard whispers in the trees, but they haven't.
00:06:35.460 Yeah.
00:06:36.000 It's just rumors.
00:06:37.260 No, it's mostly, like, the girls and the gays.
00:06:38.700 You know, they went through, like, the stages of grief online and processing.
00:06:42.640 And, you know.
00:06:43.020 Yeah.
00:06:44.100 It's not every day you hear about a cis-hit person on, you know, something like that.
00:06:48.600 So, it was a learning process for everyone.
00:06:53.780 How has the show been since then?
00:06:55.800 Like, how has it expanded your, like, audience?
00:06:59.260 How have they seen?
00:06:59.860 Do they see you in a different light now?
00:07:01.700 Because they get to hear a little bit more from you.
00:07:03.780 Like, immediately after the show, I started posting a lot more, like, online.
00:07:06.180 Because I was like, well, now I get to, like, just kind of put myself out there.
00:07:08.840 You get that initial, like, runoff audience from being on the show.
00:07:12.800 Yeah.
00:07:12.900 And then it's just kind of what you do after.
00:07:14.300 Totally.
00:07:14.740 Just weaponizing that blue check mark.
00:07:16.060 Yeah.
00:07:16.340 Just started creating content and putting out the stuff that, like, I want to show people.
00:07:20.300 Yeah.
00:07:20.860 And done little TikToks.
00:07:21.980 And I started the show.
00:07:23.300 And, yeah, since then, it's, like, become, like, overwhelmingly positive.
00:07:26.920 And now I'm just like, oh, okay.
00:07:28.340 So, like, we're overdue for, like, a crash.
00:07:31.220 Because things are going concerningly well right now.
00:07:33.600 Just hang on.
00:07:34.400 You know what I mean?
00:07:34.820 Just enjoy it while it's there.
00:07:36.220 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:07:37.140 That's all that matters.
00:07:38.060 Just hanging out.
00:07:38.760 Just like, oh, let's see what's going to happen next.
00:07:40.260 Like, what's the next thing?
00:07:41.700 Do you ever have to deal with hate?
00:07:43.260 Do you ever get hate?
00:07:44.520 Not anymore.
00:07:45.060 I mean, like, there's, like, occasional comments.
00:07:46.760 Yeah.
00:07:47.100 You know?
00:07:47.480 Like, the worst I get, though, it's, like, any time I post something or someone, like,
00:07:50.840 comments something about, like, sexuality, someone's just like, oh, you actually believe
00:07:55.340 you're straight?
00:07:56.460 Like, oh, yeah, a straight one.
00:07:58.700 Straight.
00:07:59.200 I believe it when I see it type thing.
00:08:01.600 And it's like.
00:08:01.880 Okay.
00:08:02.560 I go gay.
00:08:03.500 You're watching me a lot.
00:08:04.300 Yeah, you want from me.
00:08:05.440 Like, I'm just, I'm just hanging out.
00:08:07.560 Yeah.
00:08:07.720 Okay.
00:08:08.040 Well, like, yeah, sure.
00:08:09.040 I guess we'll see.
00:08:10.060 Like, if anything changes, I'll let you know.
00:08:12.120 I don't know what proof you want.
00:08:13.560 I'm just.
00:08:14.080 I don't know.
00:08:14.740 People are weird.
00:08:15.440 It's all right.
00:08:16.040 They say that to me all the time, too.
00:08:17.480 Mostly just men.
00:08:18.760 But that's just because they hate me.
00:08:20.600 So.
00:08:21.460 Men.
00:08:21.720 Men.
00:08:22.040 For valid reasons.
00:08:23.060 Yeah.
00:08:23.540 Yeah.
00:08:24.080 True.
00:08:24.700 That is very true.
00:08:25.660 I do go in there and I tag.
00:08:27.120 Sometimes when people tell me, they're like, how do I avoid getting hate?
00:08:29.860 Oh, girl, you can't do that.
00:08:31.160 No.
00:08:31.440 I was like, if you're online, let me know if you find out a way to get rid of, to ignore
00:08:36.020 it.
00:08:36.380 Let me know.
00:08:37.220 Like, even like, if, if like Mr. Rogers was a TikTok creator today, there would be like
00:08:41.800 people shitting on him in comments and just being like, he's like too kind.
00:08:44.780 You know, he's fake.
00:08:45.520 Yeah.
00:08:45.700 They're like, so there's something off about him.
00:08:47.220 Yeah.
00:08:47.500 That I say that all the time.
00:08:49.040 I always use, do you know who Emily Mariko is?
00:08:51.420 I always use her as an example.
00:08:52.820 She doesn't even talk in her videos.
00:08:54.360 You guys have no idea like what kind of person she is.
00:08:57.480 Cause you can't get it based off her just making little charcuterie boards all the
00:09:00.900 time.
00:09:01.580 So like when people are like, I don't know, just a bad vibe.
00:09:04.680 Hey, you're a weirdo.
00:09:05.560 Like you haven't even heard her voice.
00:09:07.180 That's weird.
00:09:07.500 Yeah.
00:09:07.760 That's weird.
00:09:08.520 Hey, that's really weird to see someone and be like, nah, unless they're like outwardly
00:09:14.000 bigoted.
00:09:14.500 I can't really imagine a world in which that makes a lot of sense to like make up your
00:09:18.320 mind about someone.
00:09:19.400 I just can't imagine just walking through the world with so much just vitriol.
00:09:22.280 You're just like walking through like Walmart and you're just like, mm-mm.
00:09:25.080 Yeah.
00:09:26.200 Just a random stranger.
00:09:27.180 I got too much shit going on.
00:09:28.380 Yeah.
00:09:28.620 I'm too busy.
00:09:29.380 I'm too stressed.
00:09:30.000 I'm too mentally ill.
00:09:30.800 I can't be focusing on that.
00:09:32.000 You know what I mean?
00:09:32.540 Like just looking around, looking for someone.
00:09:35.360 Yeah.
00:09:35.520 That's contrary to what people may think about me.
00:09:37.800 I'm too busy self-loathing.
00:09:38.820 I don't have time for you.
00:09:40.260 Trust me.
00:09:40.920 No one's meaner to me than me.
00:09:42.180 Yeah.
00:09:42.340 Okay.
00:09:42.860 Sometimes when they, when they bring that up to me, they're like, are you just like
00:09:45.640 this all the time?
00:09:47.200 No.
00:09:47.660 Cause I don't hang out with people I hate.
00:09:49.300 Yeah.
00:09:49.620 Hope that helps.
00:09:50.700 I'm like, no, I'm, I actually never spend time with men I dislike.
00:09:54.220 So I don't need to be like this.
00:09:56.280 Your vibe attracts your tribe.
00:09:59.280 Exactly.
00:10:00.120 Exactly.
00:10:00.480 And I've always said that, but speaking of comments, right.
00:10:03.580 That brings us to our topic for today.
00:10:05.640 We're going to be talking about, we're unpacking hateful hot takes on YouTube commentary shows.
00:10:10.740 So I've had quite a few men make dissertations about me on YouTube, on YouTube specifically.
00:10:17.960 You're talking to the audience?
00:10:19.040 No.
00:10:19.620 Yeah.
00:10:20.200 On YouTube, especially because I don't really have any sort of presence there, which is
00:10:25.600 like, to me, smells like a bitch personally.
00:10:28.820 But that's just because do it on a, do it on a field where we can both come, bro.
00:10:33.280 Like I'm on, I'm on YouTube, but like, I don't really post anything there, but they,
00:10:38.000 I think also because they can make like 30 minute videos, but.
00:10:41.240 So where do you get the most?
00:10:42.380 Your TikToks?
00:10:43.180 Is that where like it's heaviest?
00:10:45.020 Yeah.
00:10:45.360 I would say it's the most of all.
00:10:47.120 I feel like the TikTok algorithm, like comment wise has gotten worse.
00:10:50.000 Cause when I first started like making content, it was all reaching like my audience or people
00:10:53.300 that might like it.
00:10:54.580 And now I post something and it doesn't get near as much traction.
00:10:56.820 And then the comments are like, the fuck is this?
00:10:58.940 I'm like, why did it get shown to you?
00:11:00.880 Like you got, you got shoved to the other side.
00:11:03.060 They're like, so I was like, are these men or it's like, why did this reach you?
00:11:06.260 I'm like, hashtag drag race.
00:11:09.780 Like why, why did the fucking Jerry, the good old boy from Alabama get this on his feed?
00:11:14.200 Well, he knows why that's on his feed.
00:11:15.940 Wow.
00:11:16.580 He just doesn't want to talk about why that's on his feed.
00:11:19.540 He'd rather blame you and the internet.
00:11:21.980 On TikTok, I always know when someone's talking about me because I'll get like an influx of
00:11:28.400 a bunch of fucking involuntarily celibate men and they're all in my shit saying shit to
00:11:35.580 me.
00:11:35.760 Like, and it's like one after the other.
00:11:37.500 So that's why I'm like, someone's talking about me and then I'll go and look in my mentions
00:11:40.860 and if I can't find it, a lot of times that means they blocked me.
00:11:43.820 But like, which I think is a bitch move to do too.
00:11:46.440 Like you're going to talk shit on me.
00:11:47.540 Like you should at least let me see it.
00:11:49.340 The hair on your arm raises a little bit.
00:11:51.340 You just go sniffing.
00:11:52.460 You're like, where is it?
00:11:52.780 My ears tingle.
00:11:53.940 Yeah.
00:11:54.140 Like dogs.
00:11:54.980 Yeah.
00:11:55.260 Like literally like dogs, but dogs can sense like tornadoes or something.
00:11:58.180 That's me.
00:11:59.000 Yeah.
00:11:59.280 It's a shift in the air.
00:12:00.620 I'm like, yeah.
00:12:01.440 Someone's talking shit on me.
00:12:02.300 It's like when your knee hurts and you get too many.
00:12:03.920 Like it's going to rain.
00:12:04.560 It's going to rain.
00:12:05.540 Someone's talking shit about me.
00:12:06.600 When my left tit hurts, it's going to rain and someone's talking about me.
00:12:09.680 Yeah.
00:12:10.940 I know.
00:12:11.520 I recently do.
00:12:12.740 I made a video about this because a while ago, have you ever gotten like, I always like
00:12:17.040 to ask to be a little, sometimes I'll get comments that are not hate.
00:12:21.060 Like they're not meant to be hateful.
00:12:22.520 Uh huh.
00:12:23.060 But they're, they're like really backhanded compliments.
00:12:26.400 Yeah.
00:12:26.620 Right.
00:12:27.180 That's something I didn't really experience until people started to like me.
00:12:30.700 Same.
00:12:31.060 I got cast on the season and it was, it was everyone either saying like, fuck this person
00:12:36.740 or as people saying, let's give them a chance.
00:12:38.940 And then like some negativity, like she's not that funny.
00:12:41.280 I don't like her content, this and that.
00:12:42.620 But then the audience started to like me and you started getting all this stuff like,
00:12:45.880 oh my God, I love Maddie.
00:12:47.380 Beautiful little peasant child in a 17th century painting.
00:12:50.040 I'm like, what the fuck does that mean?
00:12:51.280 Like these hyper specific, like insults that they're like so adorable.
00:12:55.300 I'm like, damn, a fan.
00:12:56.680 I can't tell the way you're talking to me.
00:12:58.680 You don't sound like a fan.
00:13:00.080 I got one the other day that truly stopped me in my tracks.
00:13:05.600 I have to go look at my photo album.
00:13:06.900 Cause I think I screenshot it just because it really hit me that hard.
00:13:09.780 But I was like, someone was like, it was a long video that I posted.
00:13:14.440 I was like talking, talking shit.
00:13:16.180 And someone was, I know this isn't the point of the video, but I just want to say like,
00:13:20.680 please, in all caps, don't ever change your teeth because they, they, they match you and
00:13:27.480 your bottom teeth have so much character.
00:13:30.300 Or Hey bitch deleted.
00:13:32.440 Hey, get off my page.
00:13:33.760 Hey deleted.
00:13:34.600 Um, that's really fucking rude.
00:13:36.200 That's a rude thing to say.
00:13:37.160 And a hit man is coming to your home.
00:13:38.380 And actually I sent, um, a bomb strike.
00:13:40.360 So I hope that's okay with you.
00:13:41.520 You're actually getting swatted.
00:13:43.320 Actively.
00:13:43.740 Hope it was worth it.
00:13:44.480 Yeah.
00:13:44.620 I truly was like, when I read it, I was like, yeah, um, deleted immediately.
00:13:50.880 Um, said with all the love in the world, deleted.
00:13:52.860 I had one another time where I posted, I think I forget what I posted, but it was like strapless,
00:13:58.220 like a picture or something or a video.
00:14:01.040 And someone messaged me and said, I love your, um, obviously I love your content, big fan,
00:14:06.560 but I also like really like your style.
00:14:09.100 Um, because I've never seen someone who isn't, um, embarrassed of like, uh, cause I also have
00:14:16.540 really big linebacker shoulders and I, I'm so happy that you don't care about that because
00:14:24.700 that makes me want to try strapless stuff.
00:14:27.180 Hey, don't DM this to me.
00:14:29.660 Yeah.
00:14:29.840 This is a thought that should stay in here and should not be shared with the person that
00:14:33.260 you're thinking about.
00:14:35.260 The fans always think they're doing something when they're like, you're so brave.
00:14:37.960 Like don't, don't ever, don't ever use the adjective brave.
00:14:41.160 Hey, don't ever use that to describe me, my body, especially don't you ever use that
00:14:45.940 to describe me.
00:14:46.860 Hey, don't do that.
00:14:47.880 In an interview, I had mentioned that the one time someone said something to me that I
00:14:51.320 was like, damn, that was kind of good.
00:14:52.860 Um, they called me like the pot of greed, which is like, and like I, I mentioned it in
00:14:57.480 interviews.
00:14:57.800 I've like made, I've told the story to make people laugh.
00:15:00.180 It's like, I've said it many times recently.
00:15:02.400 Some guy was talking shit on me and then I saw videos of him talking shit.
00:15:06.820 And then I saw people in the comments saying like, Oh, she looks like the pot of greed.
00:15:11.080 And then I saw someone go, when I saw a man call her pot of greed, I never looked at the
00:15:14.900 same pause right there.
00:15:16.540 I called myself a fucking pot of greed.
00:15:18.840 I was like, you bitches are useless.
00:15:20.860 Now you're taking my insults.
00:15:22.320 I was talking about myself and I was all, and also that insult was written to me by a
00:15:26.000 Barb Stan account on Twitter.
00:15:27.600 That is not a man.
00:15:29.280 Okay.
00:15:29.640 And if it is, it's a gay man.
00:15:31.120 There's no way that a straight man came up with that to make fun of me.
00:15:34.300 There's probably some barbs in like Tennessee.
00:15:35.580 Yeah.
00:15:36.340 I love NASCAR, beer, and Nicki Minaj.
00:15:39.320 And Nicki Minaj.
00:15:40.340 And that's just me being honest.
00:15:43.900 That's just who I am.
00:15:46.460 So that's what we're going to be unpacking a lot of YouTube commentary.
00:15:50.140 I'm sure it's some terrible fucking comments.
00:15:52.080 Okay.
00:15:52.380 Okay.
00:15:52.580 This video is a popular, ultra-conservative YouTube commentator.
00:15:57.740 Okay.
00:15:58.520 And responding to the TikTok China Girls posting, here's my outfit today that the men are going
00:16:03.020 to hate.
00:16:03.580 And the commentator says, this is yet another way women weirdly pride themselves on being
00:16:08.700 unappealing to men and pitting the genders against each other.
00:16:13.500 And ooh, the genders, I hate when they say that.
00:16:16.720 Oh, there's a gender war.
00:16:18.560 I'm like, what is that?
00:16:20.340 What are you talking about?
00:16:21.280 Well, that's why I do drag.
00:16:22.660 I'm the man on the inside.
00:16:24.020 I'm fighting it.
00:16:25.040 You know, I'm the seal team.
00:16:26.520 The seal team six of the gender wars.
00:16:29.320 That's what the drag queens are.
00:16:30.660 Well, now you're a Trojan horse.
00:16:32.420 A Trojan horse.
00:16:33.040 That's your Trojan horse thing inside the world of drag race, right?
00:16:36.420 Okay.
00:16:36.800 So this one, it says, men prefer women that dress like this and not like prostitutes.
00:16:41.740 Okay.
00:16:42.100 Are you from biblical times?
00:16:43.280 Is that why you talk like that?
00:16:44.160 I don't like, it's like weird.
00:16:45.880 It's like, go back to like the 80s, like Baywatch.
00:16:49.680 And like the 90s, the skimpy outfits, early 2000s, like the Britney Spears, the low cut
00:16:54.180 outfits and the guys were all about it.
00:16:55.960 But then all of a sudden, the gender war started or whatever.
00:17:00.400 And like, there's like this weird conservative mindset where everyone's just like, no, we
00:17:03.960 want good.
00:17:04.960 I want a church girl.
00:17:07.280 It's like, no, like don't try to act like the past.
00:17:10.060 All of a sudden.
00:17:10.800 All of human history didn't happen.
00:17:12.380 All of a sudden you're like, I want a woman who wears a long denim skirt.
00:17:15.400 Like, no the fuck you don't.
00:17:16.180 I saw, I saw a tweet recently that was like, all the, they, men want women to dress like
00:17:23.720 Mennonites nowadays.
00:17:25.100 Where are the whores at?
00:17:26.780 And that's what I think too.
00:17:28.200 I don't care if you want to dress like a Mennonite, but for some reason people care if I want
00:17:31.280 to dress like a whore.
00:17:32.000 I feel like, and like, what is dressing like a whore?
00:17:34.740 It's all relative, isn't it?
00:17:36.600 Because it's all subjective.
00:17:37.440 Like it's really seen through a biblical lens whenever they deem something to be slutty
00:17:41.740 or whorish or whatever.
00:17:42.640 And I feel like dress, not like prostitutes.
00:17:46.000 And the dress code of horse has changed over time.
00:17:47.920 So it's ever shifting.
00:17:49.300 Ever evolving.
00:17:50.000 It's evergreen, if you will.
00:17:51.780 It's constantly changing.
00:17:52.980 You cannot predict it.
00:17:54.420 This next one says, at least that's one way to get women to dress more decent by making
00:17:58.920 them think it's their idea and a way to get back at men.
00:18:01.700 I mean, like they went out to the store and bought clothes.
00:18:03.620 Like that is their idea.
00:18:04.780 Like I don't understand.
00:18:05.680 What are you talking about?
00:18:07.080 That's why I'm like, it's, it's truly stripping women of any autonomy at all, including thought.
00:18:11.820 Like, they're like, well, they don't know.
00:18:13.600 They're simultaneously saying that like men don't want to see this and then saying she's
00:18:17.880 dressing for the male gaze.
00:18:19.200 Yeah.
00:18:19.920 Which one is it?
00:18:20.800 There's no one.
00:18:21.340 But if they don't want to see that, then what's the point?
00:18:23.000 Yeah.
00:18:23.220 Well, and also like.
00:18:24.560 Set between a rock and a hard place.
00:18:25.940 What do you do?
00:18:26.220 No, truly.
00:18:26.760 It's just, you can never win either way.
00:18:28.680 This is what they want them to dress as.
00:18:30.220 A good Christian.
00:18:31.080 And if I wore this.
00:18:32.040 Yeah.
00:18:32.220 They're like, well, I can't see your fucking tits through that thing.
00:18:35.840 That's like, well, I, yeah, you know what?
00:18:38.740 They do want them to dress like this.
00:18:40.180 Like a Mennonite.
00:18:40.860 Yeah.
00:18:41.160 And the spam can stays on during sex.
00:18:44.160 Just so you know.
00:18:45.380 Yeah.
00:18:45.700 This is a reminder that space for God between us at all times.
00:18:49.420 This is the reminder.
00:18:50.360 Yeah.
00:18:50.580 This is my chastity belt.
00:18:51.780 You want to pop this can?
00:18:52.720 Put a ring on it.
00:18:54.420 Yeah.
00:18:54.900 Go ahead and let's get into it.
00:18:56.380 Speaking of.
00:18:57.600 That's a big ass rock though.
00:18:58.840 It sure is.
00:18:59.560 It sure is, Queen.
00:19:00.760 You know what's funny is the episodes that have been going live.
00:19:03.760 Sometimes I'm talking about like one, my now fiance, but I'm saying my boyfriend in the
00:19:07.860 clips and they're like, girl, that's your fiance now.
00:19:11.320 And I was like, I filmed this two months ago.
00:19:13.060 It's okay, Queen.
00:19:13.980 Trust me.
00:19:14.740 Trust me when I say I traded out that title already.
00:19:17.500 Trust me when I say.
00:19:18.820 I always felt so juvenile saying boyfriend, to be honest.
00:19:21.740 It's like at an office when someone else moves in, you like take the little placard off
00:19:24.940 the door and slide in the new one and got the little fiance one.
00:19:27.660 Exactly.
00:19:28.100 Yeah, it's fiance.
00:19:28.940 Corner office.
00:19:30.100 Switching.
00:19:30.460 Yeah.
00:19:31.260 LLC.
00:19:32.120 LLC.
00:19:32.700 This next one says poisonous animals are usually brightly colored to warn off how toxic they
00:19:38.720 are.
00:19:39.240 This is exactly the same thing.
00:19:41.100 Oh, is this like, is that like talking about, it's the woman in the video have like blue
00:19:45.120 hair or something?
00:19:46.020 I don't even know.
00:19:46.860 I think she's just wearing bright clothing.
00:19:49.120 Like, and so they're saying like, this is just like poisonous animals.
00:19:52.760 Well, see, that's also not true because snakes are poisonous too, and they're not brightly
00:19:56.920 colored.
00:19:57.420 Not all of them.
00:19:58.300 Yeah.
00:19:58.720 That's me being a Virgo.
00:19:59.800 Eat that bitch.
00:20:00.680 Some of the little poisonous snakes are, well, I guess, wait, they're venomous.
00:20:04.440 Venomous snakes.
00:20:05.300 Yeah, but still, but some things like kind of, there's like some poisonous frogs that
00:20:08.080 kind of blend into the stuff.
00:20:09.340 So, you know, some girls, they can be poisonous too, no matter how ordinary they are.
00:20:13.080 And they're blending in.
00:20:14.140 Some of the worst women I've ever met in my life were plain as fuck.
00:20:17.600 Yeah.
00:20:18.840 They blended in with everyone.
00:20:20.540 The snake in the grass is a phrase for a reason.
00:20:22.960 Yeah, exactly.
00:20:24.080 Can't trust them.
00:20:24.840 I also think too that this, well, first of all, the person who made this video, I get
00:20:31.040 compared to her a lot because she stole the name of this show and just added an S on the
00:20:35.600 end of it.
00:20:36.500 So she typically talks, she talks a lot of shit about women.
00:20:39.720 She's, it's a woman actually who talks shit about women and says that when she says women
00:20:45.400 really weirdly pride themselves on being unappealing to men.
00:20:48.840 They really be your own people.
00:20:50.300 Right.
00:20:50.660 I find that strange because what's so wrong about, like, sometimes when people are like,
00:20:56.240 when men get mad at me, they'll say things like, oh, like you're just convincing women
00:21:00.540 to fucking hate men.
00:21:02.360 First of all, you don't need my help with that.
00:21:04.020 Second of all, you're going to freak out when you hear about gay people.
00:21:07.460 Like, like, I, like, I'm not ready for that.
00:21:09.460 Yeah.
00:21:09.660 No, you guys, you're that general on the front lines.
00:21:11.660 They're like, they're in the background.
00:21:14.060 They're the next way.
00:21:14.540 If you think I'm mean, you got to meet a gay person.
00:21:16.240 They are storming the Normandy.
00:21:17.780 Girl, when I tell you, they are on ground zero.
00:21:21.000 You know what I'm saying?
00:21:21.600 Like, that's what I've said before.
00:21:23.560 I'm like, if you think I'm mean, then I know for a fact you don't know any gay people.
00:21:27.220 No.
00:21:27.620 Gay people are the meanest people alive as they should be.
00:21:30.500 That's why those are my people.
00:21:31.900 Like, we get along so well because I'm a cunt just like they are.
00:21:34.860 And so whenever they say this, like, oh, some people actually don't want to be desired by men.
00:21:40.900 And I feel like that thought is, like, mind-blowing to them.
00:21:44.220 It's like whenever I started, like, my show.
00:21:46.680 Because a lot of my show is, like, interviewing people.
00:21:48.600 And I get, like, shady with them.
00:21:49.760 I'm just, like, reading people.
00:21:50.600 Yeah.
00:21:50.780 You know, just insulting people, basically.
00:21:52.500 Yeah.
00:21:52.960 And everyone's like, oh, you can't trust a straight person.
00:21:55.360 And then I started insulting gay people.
00:21:56.960 And they're like, she's all right.
00:22:00.280 That's what they live for.
00:22:01.520 You know?
00:22:01.660 That's like, hello.
00:22:02.480 I was like, that's why I've had so many, obviously, queens on the show, yourself included.
00:22:07.780 But some of the ones I've had, like, they're some of the meanest bitches alive.
00:22:11.060 I've had Bob on the show.
00:22:12.180 I've had Trixie.
00:22:13.140 I've had Bianca Del Rio, who's one of the OGs.
00:22:15.940 So, like, and that bitch was mean as fuck to me.
00:22:18.160 And I laughed.
00:22:19.080 Yeah.
00:22:19.320 Because that's sisterhood.
00:22:21.420 That's, like, community.
00:22:22.320 That's familia.
00:22:23.200 That's La Famigla.
00:22:24.440 Like, we really, we connect on so many levels in that way.
00:22:27.460 But I also think, too, like, when people are not trying to be appealing at all physically to men,
00:22:32.480 what is so wrong?
00:22:33.460 Why do you care?
00:22:34.520 If you don't like her, why do you care?
00:22:36.080 It's so weird.
00:22:36.740 Because, like, they see women in the wild.
00:22:38.940 And they're just like, that person's dressing for me.
00:22:41.920 I don't like it.
00:22:42.840 It's like, because she's not, she doesn't know you.
00:22:44.660 She's not dressing for you.
00:22:45.660 Exactly.
00:22:45.940 She went to the store.
00:22:46.720 I saw an outfit.
00:22:47.220 She's like, oh, I like this.
00:22:48.100 That's so cute on me.
00:22:49.060 It's crazy.
00:22:49.680 Yeah.
00:22:49.980 It's like, they're not dressing for you.
00:22:51.860 You're not that important.
00:22:52.640 What about you?
00:22:53.000 And, like, the same guys that say that don't dress for women.
00:22:55.760 They're wearing, like, jeans that don't fit.
00:22:58.100 Yeah, shit.
00:22:59.440 A shirt that's too small.
00:23:00.600 Like, the buttons are popping a little bit.
00:23:01.880 No deodorant.
00:23:02.740 Girl.
00:23:03.420 Getting the hair done at sports clips.
00:23:05.000 It's like, but they're like, women are dressing for me.
00:23:06.820 Like, no the fuck, they are not.
00:23:08.080 I did a photo shoot recently.
00:23:10.460 And it was with a bunch of people.
00:23:14.420 And the dress code was, like, black tie.
00:23:17.680 Like, you had to be, like, dressed up really, really nice.
00:23:19.500 Okay.
00:23:19.860 And we were like, okay, cool.
00:23:21.240 And so we go, and, like, I see a lot of my friends there.
00:23:23.440 It was really fun.
00:23:24.180 But then working with someone who I know doesn't like me.
00:23:27.900 Like, I already know he doesn't like me.
00:23:29.140 It's very obvious.
00:23:29.840 He's made it very clear.
00:23:31.120 Caleb.
00:23:31.580 Yeah.
00:23:31.760 Yeah.
00:23:32.580 I'll kill him, but that's different.
00:23:34.620 That's a lover's spat that he and I are in the middle of.
00:23:36.860 But anyways, we were sitting next to this guy.
00:23:40.540 And he, for lack of a better term, stunk badly.
00:23:45.620 And I was thinking to myself, this is a man who hates me and hates everything I stand for.
00:23:51.120 And he stinks in real life.
00:23:53.560 He smells awful.
00:23:54.860 Like, really bad.
00:23:56.540 And that's not the first person who's told me he stank.
00:23:59.540 And I've actually known he stank for a while.
00:24:01.720 And I was thinking to myself, you guys look at someone like him, like men who hate me.
00:24:05.400 They look at someone like him and someone like me, and they're like, oh, fuck her.
00:24:08.620 He's so awesome.
00:24:09.520 And he stinks in real life.
00:24:11.760 Talk about women doing everything for men.
00:24:13.980 Why don't y'all start doing something for us, like washing your ass?
00:24:16.600 Why don't you do that first?
00:24:18.120 Why don't you try, I don't know, the bare minimum?
00:24:19.600 Yeah.
00:24:19.920 Like, I don't know.
00:24:20.720 The only thing he hits more than you is antiperspirant.
00:24:23.040 Girl, soap.
00:24:24.480 Like, soap, water, anything at all to, like, get rid of.
00:24:27.880 Febreze, bitch, anything.
00:24:28.820 Girl, I could smell you through a suit.
00:24:31.680 You need to go to the hospital.
00:24:32.880 Oh, my gosh.
00:24:33.800 I just know that, like, when you adjust the suit, it just kind of wafts.
00:24:37.260 Yes.
00:24:37.660 Yeah.
00:24:38.120 Actually, yeah.
00:24:38.760 It's funny you say that, because, yeah.
00:24:40.040 And then one of my friends, I had told her that already.
00:24:42.400 And one of my friends told me after, she goes, I thought you were kidding.
00:24:45.540 And I go, I would never joke about that.
00:24:48.280 He takes off his suit.
00:24:49.040 It's like when you unwrap a baked potato and all the steam puffs out.
00:24:52.780 But it's just dank.
00:24:55.760 It's like, I could smell it when I came in.
00:24:57.860 Like, it's like, actually, I actually knew you were here, because I could smell you from
00:25:02.500 a mile away.
00:25:04.120 And one of my friends literally described him as the stinkiest boy alive.
00:25:08.200 The stinkiest?
00:25:08.760 Yeah.
00:25:09.020 Like, I brought him up to her once, and she goes, oh, you mean the stinkiest boy alive?
00:25:12.460 And I go, I don't know anything about that, because at the time, I didn't.
00:25:16.640 Now I can confirm the stinkiest boy, at least that I've ever smelled alive.
00:25:20.100 On further investigation?
00:25:21.220 Yeah.
00:25:21.740 Can't confirm.
00:25:22.320 Case closed.
00:25:23.460 It's true.
00:25:24.380 Case closed.
00:25:25.120 The stinkiest boy alive.
00:25:26.200 Yeah.
00:25:26.440 And I'm like, that's a man who literally is like, oh, look at these fucking whores.
00:25:30.640 Mm-hmm.
00:25:31.480 And he stinks.
00:25:32.520 Like, you got bigger problems.
00:25:33.900 It's the same.
00:25:34.460 It'd really be those people, too.
00:25:35.920 The ones that, like, stank and can't get any booty.
00:25:38.740 Yeah.
00:25:38.880 The ones that smell like booty can't get booty.
00:25:40.600 Yeah.
00:25:40.740 And then they're upset.
00:25:41.600 All women are whores.
00:25:42.720 Yeah.
00:25:43.820 I never, I think the mindset, too, of like, oh, she doesn't want to sleep with me, that whore.
00:25:48.220 Yeah.
00:25:48.720 It's so crazy.
00:25:49.900 Y'all really can't win.
00:25:50.920 Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
00:25:51.880 If she's a whore, she's bad at her job because she doesn't want to fuck you.
00:25:55.440 I don't know.
00:25:55.760 I just.
00:25:55.940 So she's actually really bad at her job, so.
00:25:57.960 I do not envy your existence in this world.
00:26:00.460 Oh, girl.
00:26:00.720 It's got to suck being a woman.
00:26:01.700 I get to just, like, cosplay as one for a little bit because to be one.
00:26:05.560 To walk in the shoes for a little bit.
00:26:06.780 No, I get to wear a stinky tuxedo and everyone's just like, wow, so great.
00:26:09.960 Everyone's going to be like, oh, my God, I love it.
00:26:12.840 You look fantastic.
00:26:15.120 Okay.
00:26:15.480 In this next video, another popular YouTube commentator describes itself as a history and anthropology channel.
00:26:22.800 Are these all comments on your videos?
00:26:24.300 No, these are different videos.
00:26:25.500 Oh, okay.
00:26:25.760 Yeah, these are different videos.
00:26:26.720 They're just applicable.
00:26:29.320 Okay, so it's a history and anthropology channel.
00:26:31.300 That's what it's self-described as.
00:26:33.040 Okay.
00:26:33.620 Argues that most young men today agree that the feminist movement stands for active hatred towards men.
00:26:40.500 And a, quote, utopian push against the fundamental reality of the world.
00:26:46.620 Most men agree?
00:26:48.540 That's what most men are saying?
00:26:49.980 That's what most.
00:26:51.000 Don't check the numbers, but most.
00:26:53.320 Based on a sample size of five of my friends.
00:26:55.180 Yeah, yeah.
00:26:56.020 Well, all my friends feel that way.
00:26:58.160 How many do you have?
00:26:58.860 Four?
00:26:59.280 Okay.
00:27:00.020 Well, that's not everyone.
00:27:01.320 Nor is it most.
00:27:02.060 It's not even actually close to most.
00:27:04.300 And then utopian push against the fundamental reality of the world.
00:27:09.420 I love, I love when men just put a bunch of words together and they're like, well, that must be true.
00:27:15.460 Because big word.
00:27:16.800 Big word mean true.
00:27:17.900 Big word means smart.
00:27:19.160 Case closed.
00:27:19.960 Big word.
00:27:20.680 Big word say loud.
00:27:21.720 Big word say loud makes sense.
00:27:23.940 Big brain, mini wrinkles.
00:27:25.320 There you go.
00:27:25.980 Yeah.
00:27:26.580 It's like, it's truly utopian push.
00:27:30.720 Okay.
00:27:31.060 Yeah.
00:27:31.320 We really aren't talking about utopian push against reality enough.
00:27:35.560 At that point.
00:27:35.960 Did I say those words right?
00:27:36.660 And you know what?
00:27:37.300 I'm glad someone finally brought it up.
00:27:40.260 Yeah.
00:27:40.800 Hold up on the global warming for a second.
00:27:42.400 Can we please discuss this utopian push against reality?
00:27:45.260 Why is nobody talking about this?
00:27:47.300 Well, men are.
00:27:48.260 All the men are.
00:27:48.800 Yeah, that's right.
00:27:49.300 All of them, actually.
00:27:50.120 More stupid bitch women need to start talking about it.
00:27:52.080 Yeah.
00:27:52.360 But the girls and the gay is like, wake up.
00:27:53.680 Yeah.
00:27:53.880 Come on now.
00:27:54.760 Also, utopia is like a perfect society.
00:27:57.800 Yeah.
00:27:58.420 Okay.
00:27:59.540 No, for sure.
00:28:00.380 I think it'd be dystopian.
00:28:01.440 For sure.
00:28:02.680 I don't know.
00:28:02.900 Yeah, dystopian would make more sense.
00:28:04.800 But they're saying utopian because they're fucking stupid.
00:28:08.100 I will say, though, until you pointed it out, they sounded good.
00:28:10.800 All the syllables put together.
00:28:12.980 That's me being a Virgo.
00:28:14.120 They hit me with cognitive dissonance and paradigm shift.
00:28:17.400 I would be like, you know what?
00:28:18.200 You're right.
00:28:19.680 You're right.
00:28:20.180 We didn't go to the moon.
00:28:22.600 We are gender wars.
00:28:23.640 You're so right.
00:28:24.220 Whatever you say, King.
00:28:25.260 That's how the pipeline starts.
00:28:26.520 There you go.
00:28:27.000 You read something.
00:28:27.520 You sound it out.
00:28:28.260 You have a four syllable word you didn't know before.
00:28:31.020 And all of a sudden, you know, you're Joe Rogan.
00:28:33.780 And then you spawn and you're Grant Cardone.
00:28:35.820 Yeah.
00:28:36.060 It's crazy how that works.
00:28:37.300 You're right.
00:28:37.640 I think they meant to say dystopian, but they said utopian.
00:28:40.600 And utopia is a perfect society.
00:28:42.560 So I don't know why a perfect society would be pushing against something that is not like,
00:28:47.500 obviously, we don't live in that now.
00:28:48.860 That's fucking stupid.
00:28:50.000 But that's giving them way too much credit.
00:28:52.260 Because one time a guy made a hate video about me and he called me irreproachable,
00:28:56.520 which irreproachable means faultless and like beyond criticism.
00:29:01.320 So it's something that's like it's beyond reproach.
00:29:04.520 Right.
00:29:05.040 And I said that in my video.
00:29:06.300 And I was like, I think you meant unapproachable, not irreproachable.
00:29:10.200 It's like he tried to insult you.
00:29:11.120 He ended up courting you.
00:29:12.060 Yeah.
00:29:12.620 So I'm like, you're actually complimenting me.
00:29:14.900 You're actually like, yeah.
00:29:15.820 He's like, my lady.
00:29:18.080 Unreproachable.
00:29:19.220 Would a flower by any other name be just as sweet.
00:29:22.200 Exactly.
00:29:23.300 And I was like, I think you meant unapproachable, not irreproachable.
00:29:26.340 Because irreproachable means you like me.
00:29:28.040 And then he was like, that's besides the point.
00:29:30.360 Yeah.
00:29:30.500 That's what I fucking thought.
00:29:31.700 Like you guys start just saying these big, these word salads.
00:29:34.880 And they like truly believe they're smarter than me because they've said big words in
00:29:39.720 one sentence.
00:29:40.600 But I tell people to suck my wiener.
00:29:42.600 And all of a sudden they're like, well, clearly she's an idiot.
00:29:44.660 I think this is all like a consequence of the no child left behind.
00:29:48.320 Yeah.
00:29:48.680 From the Bush administration.
00:29:49.840 That's what this is.
00:29:50.580 Some were definitely left behind.
00:29:51.200 Some should have been left behind.
00:29:52.400 Some should have.
00:29:52.880 Some should have repeated a grade.
00:29:54.180 Some should have.
00:29:54.880 Some should have hung out a little bit longer.
00:29:57.120 Until it sunk in, you know.
00:29:58.720 So it really soaked in there.
00:30:01.000 This comment says, they've all been hurt by a man at some point and I've never gotten
00:30:05.080 over it.
00:30:05.780 I mean, that's life.
00:30:07.020 No shit.
00:30:07.920 That's everyone.
00:30:08.660 No shit.
00:30:09.160 And also, like, I love the idea that, like, you know, something has to happen to me personally
00:30:15.600 for me to give a shit.
00:30:17.140 Right.
00:30:17.660 So, like, obviously I'm not gay.
00:30:19.940 So I've never been hate crimed by homophobic people.
00:30:23.160 But I can still wrap my head around the fact that that's awful.
00:30:26.600 Yeah.
00:30:26.960 And I don't like that.
00:30:28.260 So to hear women, women who have been, like, actually genuinely and violently harmed by
00:30:34.340 men, like, that's not even enough reason for them to believe them.
00:30:38.060 So, like, what the fuck?
00:30:39.440 Like, why do you guys act like you believe victims?
00:30:40.980 You don't.
00:30:41.660 Like, why do you guys act like you care?
00:30:43.400 You don't.
00:30:43.940 Clearly.
00:30:44.640 You know what I'm saying?
00:30:45.500 Well, that stuff doesn't actually happen.
00:30:46.860 That's just the utopian push against reality.
00:30:48.920 That's true.
00:30:49.440 Yeah.
00:30:49.680 That's actually a really good point.
00:30:50.860 Yeah.
00:30:51.120 I wasn't considering the utopia we currently live in.
00:30:54.340 Yeah.
00:30:54.700 I'm being ungrateful, actually.
00:30:56.360 This is Biden's America.
00:30:57.640 Yeah.
00:30:58.060 This next one says, they're communists, too.
00:31:01.540 Oh.
00:31:02.800 Okay.
00:31:04.060 Well.
00:31:05.620 It's, again, like, the word salad and stuff.
00:31:07.680 Like, everything is, like, lumped together in the same category.
00:31:11.340 Like, someone has blue hair.
00:31:12.760 She was hurt by a man.
00:31:14.000 She's a communist.
00:31:15.060 I mean, probably, but not always.
00:31:17.220 Okay.
00:31:17.500 But then if I say that men, like, I'm talking about men being awful, they're like, well,
00:31:23.280 not all of us.
00:31:24.500 Yeah.
00:31:25.200 According to you, it was all of you.
00:31:26.920 Because you just said, all men feel this way.
00:31:29.480 Right?
00:31:30.040 You should have hit them back in the comments, like, you're probably a capitalist.
00:31:33.120 And they'll be like, well, actually, yeah.
00:31:34.800 That's actually.
00:31:35.600 Stop right there.
00:31:36.420 Like, we're talking about.
00:31:37.060 But also, communism, like, the idea of communism and men believing that communism, that's just
00:31:43.520 another thing where they have half of a piece of something.
00:31:47.060 And they're like.
00:31:47.620 It doesn't actually mean anything anymore.
00:31:49.040 No, it really doesn't.
00:31:49.560 Like, the way it's, like, thrown around.
00:31:50.760 It really doesn't.
00:31:51.460 It's like, they're not allowed to say slurs.
00:31:53.560 So, they use words like communism.
00:31:55.120 Like, what?
00:31:57.200 Imagine they're like, oh, I want to call you a slur so bad.
00:32:00.060 Yeah.
00:32:00.540 Communist.
00:32:00.700 It's like, I don't want to say he has misogynist in the comments, so I'll call you a commie,
00:32:04.060 question mark.
00:32:05.100 That's funny.
00:32:06.420 Like, I don't know.
00:32:07.380 The, like, the gift of slurs has been taken from them, so they have to find new ways to
00:32:12.140 call people names.
00:32:13.080 That's actually really funny.
00:32:14.300 One time I made a shit-talking video about a stand-up comedian I do not like at all.
00:32:19.500 And, like, someone was saying, oh, you guys can't.
00:32:22.260 We just can't joke about anything these days.
00:32:24.640 Everyone's so sensitive.
00:32:26.200 And I said, that never stops you.
00:32:28.860 I don't know where they get that from.
00:32:30.640 Like, they're like, oh, we can't say anything.
00:32:32.000 According to who?
00:32:33.420 You're still doing it.
00:32:35.500 Clearly, we haven't stopped you.
00:32:36.960 It's like all the news stories.
00:32:37.920 Like, Dave Chappelle got canceled.
00:32:39.240 They canceled Dave Chappelle.
00:32:40.440 I was like, between which of his Netflix stand-ups?
00:32:42.560 That's what I'm like, where?
00:32:44.260 I don't know.
00:32:44.880 Literally fucking where?
00:32:45.820 It has not stopped you at all.
00:32:48.380 You just, like, don't want to hear, like, hey, that's fucked up.
00:32:51.040 Okay.
00:32:51.500 Yeah.
00:32:51.760 Well, that's a personal thing.
00:32:52.640 That has nothing to do.
00:32:53.300 And even then, with that, too, like, all that bigotry within stand-up comedy, and they're
00:32:58.020 like, oh, you can't joke about anything.
00:32:59.420 I've even told people, too, I'm like, have you guys ever, you guys don't give marginalized
00:33:03.260 people any credit.
00:33:04.560 Because some of us have heard jokes like that before, believe it or not.
00:33:10.060 Like, you think I've never heard a, like, I'm going to beat this shit out of a woman
00:33:13.940 joke?
00:33:14.340 You think I've never heard that shit?
00:33:15.560 Yeah.
00:33:16.040 It just isn't funny.
00:33:17.120 Like, I don't know why that's illegal to say.
00:33:18.860 But, like, they're like, oh, you're probably just offended.
00:33:21.180 Or it just sucked.
00:33:22.060 It's not a funny joke.
00:33:24.420 Like, it's not.
00:33:24.800 It's just, like, it's also, like, give me a little fucking credit.
00:33:27.780 That's why drag queens, too, are, like, masters of hearing, like, of hearing hateful shit and
00:33:33.840 still being able to be like, okay, my turn to joke about you.
00:33:37.720 My turn.
00:33:38.780 So, like, I was like, they don't care.
00:33:40.320 I feel like I was, like, been going crazy, like, like, watching stand-up stuff.
00:33:44.320 Because, like, all stand-up is just, like, so unfunny.
00:33:47.720 Like, all the stand-up clips I see online, like, watching, like, all, like, the Kill
00:33:51.720 Tony, like, stand-up things.
00:33:52.880 Yeah.
00:33:53.020 It's, like, these aspiring comedians.
00:33:54.700 And, like, half of them walk up and they're opening online and they're like, y'all ever notice
00:33:59.340 that Mexican people are, like, so, like, trans people.
00:34:02.660 It's, like, that's your opening.
00:34:03.520 That's, like.
00:34:04.360 Every time.
00:34:05.180 It's, like, every time.
00:34:06.220 Yeah.
00:34:06.480 It's boring.
00:34:06.860 It's the same joke.
00:34:07.560 Like, why is that, like, the go-to?
00:34:09.500 And you know what's crazy, too, is when people do make jokes at the expense of other, of
00:34:14.800 people who are not used to being joked about.
00:34:16.680 So, like, straight white people.
00:34:17.960 Right.
00:34:19.220 Sometimes they're like, I don't know.
00:34:20.600 It's just, like, you're talking about us so much.
00:34:22.380 And I'm like, they do it.
00:34:24.160 You do it all the time.
00:34:25.360 It's just, it's another one of those you can never win.
00:34:27.960 It's, like, you love to tell jokes, but you can't take them.
00:34:31.120 That's what I'm like.
00:34:32.180 You think trans people aren't used to being joked about?
00:34:33.880 Of course they are.
00:34:34.680 You think gay people aren't used to being joked about?
00:34:35.820 Of course they are.
00:34:36.860 But if you're going to do it, you should do it well.
00:34:39.860 Yeah.
00:34:40.080 I think because they sat around, like, the lunchroom in high school making jokes about
00:34:43.240 trans people, they're like, and their friends laughed.
00:34:45.020 Like, this is peak comedy.
00:34:45.940 I need to take this on the road.
00:34:47.340 I need to work out a set.
00:34:48.640 I should start workshopping this.
00:34:50.280 Yeah.
00:34:51.000 No, for real.
00:34:52.380 They tell one fat joke, and they're like, I should quit my job.
00:34:55.500 And I should start.
00:34:56.460 It's never, like, a new joke, though.
00:34:57.960 No, I know.
00:34:58.320 It's, like, the same one.
00:34:59.500 It's so boring.
00:35:00.480 That's, like, one of the most commonly asked questions I get in interviews is, like, if I've ever gotten
00:35:06.280 anything that really stuck with me, which is why the pot of greed thing has been in many of my
00:35:10.040 interviews, because it's the only one I've ever gotten.
00:35:12.680 But I always tell people, no.
00:35:14.100 Like, the shit's not, it's never unique.
00:35:16.540 Yeah.
00:35:16.920 It's always fat and ugly.
00:35:18.080 Like, that's, it's a variation of fat and ugly.
00:35:21.160 But when I tell someone that they look like they sell knives door to door, all of a sudden
00:35:25.040 I'm the meanest person alive.
00:35:27.000 I'm like, I, I, you made a comment about me.
00:35:29.760 I made a comment about you.
00:35:30.900 Like, I don't understand what the fucking problem is now that we were having fun.
00:35:35.000 Well, they also, like, don't like whenever they get outmatched in a battle of wits.
00:35:40.100 Yeah.
00:35:40.620 Like, in their leg, in the comment, they're like, you are overweight.
00:35:43.520 I mean, they're like, I think they did something, like, click.
00:35:46.080 Like, got them.
00:35:47.460 Yeah.
00:35:47.780 Like, I don't know.
00:35:48.520 Good luck coming back from that one.
00:35:50.260 Yeah.
00:35:50.960 And they always say, and they almost always especially say it to women, I feel like,
00:35:54.700 because they believe that women are vapid.
00:35:57.560 So they're like, oh, well, that's the meanest thing you could ever say is call someone undesirable.
00:36:01.840 Like, a woman say, like, I would never fuck you.
00:36:03.940 Okay.
00:36:04.920 I would never fuck you.
00:36:05.960 So now what?
00:36:06.760 Like, I'm glad we are on the same terms.
00:36:08.160 Yeah.
00:36:08.200 Like, honestly, we have a lot in common.
00:36:09.520 We should probably be friends.
00:36:10.680 We'll probably be on the same page.
00:36:11.700 Yeah.
00:36:12.000 Got that out of the way.
00:36:12.980 So we didn't have to address the awkwardness later.
00:36:16.000 We're just not compatible.
00:36:17.320 And that's okay.
00:36:17.480 I responded to someone when he's like, I would never fuck this woman, some shit like that.
00:36:20.960 And I said, okay, well, thank God, because look at you.
00:36:24.040 Yeah.
00:36:24.560 Oh, no.
00:36:25.900 The guy who looks like the little dinosaur from Barney doesn't want to fuck me.
00:36:29.320 I don't give a shit.
00:36:30.240 The women are, like, in shambles right now.
00:36:32.280 Oh, God.
00:36:32.420 We lost another one.
00:36:33.700 Oh, God.
00:36:34.260 They're all, like, midsummer on the floor crying together because they lost a prime alpha specimen.
00:36:39.960 Oh, no.
00:36:40.640 I'm going to have to journal about this later.
00:36:42.200 I don't give a shit.
00:36:43.480 I don't fucking care.
00:36:45.100 And I've said that before, like, that attitude of, like, I don't, like, of these kinds of misogynistic men online.
00:36:50.600 They're, like, I don't want to fuck you, but I can't believe you don't want to fuck me.
00:36:54.560 Why?
00:36:55.180 Sometimes I'll always say, okay, twin.
00:36:56.820 It's the goal of people thinking they're a catch, but without being able to say, like, what they offer to the table.
00:37:02.280 Yeah.
00:37:02.520 Because it's, like, you don't have, like, the best looks.
00:37:04.780 You don't bathe.
00:37:05.460 You don't dress nice.
00:37:06.340 You don't have money.
00:37:07.160 And you're not nice.
00:37:08.380 You're not nice.
00:37:09.000 On top of that, you're not a nice person, so.
00:37:11.660 I don't know.
00:37:12.060 It's, like, they're, like, why do women not like me?
00:37:14.680 It's, like, well, for one, you don't like women.
00:37:16.540 So there's that.
00:37:17.780 I would start there.
00:37:18.500 Let's unpack that.
00:37:19.280 Let's start from the beginning.
00:37:20.920 Let's get to the head of the snake and work, you know.
00:37:23.000 Yeah.
00:37:23.280 Let's start from the top and work all the way down.
00:37:25.600 Even when I've talked to men who, like, believe that they are, like, very good looking for whatever fucking reason, right?
00:37:33.140 Because I personally can't see that.
00:37:34.800 But I've even told them, I'm, like, if you allegedly look wonderful and you're tall and you're in shape and you have a lot of money and you still can't get a bitch, the list is actually a lot shorter than it's you.
00:37:48.200 Like, it's your personality.
00:37:49.540 It's, like, everything that is.
00:37:50.680 There's a common denominator.
00:37:51.300 It's everything you can't see, which is the essence of you.
00:37:54.100 It's off-putting and upsetting.
00:37:56.000 And you are taxing to be around.
00:37:57.720 That's probably why.
00:37:59.040 I've said that to a man before, and he spun the fuck out.
00:38:01.560 He was, like, you don't even fucking know me.
00:38:03.540 You don't even.
00:38:04.920 You called me a fat, ugly bitch on the internet.
00:38:07.060 Like, that's.
00:38:07.360 And he hit you with, like, the Yu-Gi-Oh trap car.
00:38:09.680 Like, you're fat.
00:38:11.200 Yeah.
00:38:11.500 And then I pulled out a gun.
00:38:14.020 And then what?
00:38:14.620 Oh.
00:38:15.080 Yeah.
00:38:15.320 So then what?
00:38:16.940 And that's, when I said that to him, he.
00:38:18.500 I thought you went to Yu-Gi-Oh duel right there.
00:38:20.360 Yeah.
00:38:20.540 You just.
00:38:21.160 Yeah.
00:38:21.340 A gun works for me every time.
00:38:22.560 I waste some time with the cards.
00:38:23.600 Let's just.
00:38:24.640 Let's get the brass tacks.
00:38:25.700 I start losing.
00:38:26.620 I pull out a gun.
00:38:27.280 Yeah.
00:38:28.320 And that's the takeaway.
00:38:29.420 In life, just when in doubt, you know, Second Amendment right.
00:38:33.180 Yeah.
00:38:33.340 There you go.
00:38:34.000 The right to bear arms.
00:38:35.480 Yeah.
00:38:35.920 And it's just my nuts.
00:38:37.280 And do.
00:38:37.500 It's just me grabbing my nuts.
00:38:40.620 Keep that thing on me.
00:38:41.400 My motherfucking thing.
00:38:42.400 I keep it on me at all times.
00:38:44.440 Okay.
00:38:44.720 This last comment says, calorie reduction, proper diet, some physical fitness solves 90% of their problems.
00:38:53.600 I'm assuming fat women.
00:38:56.200 Because obviously that's why they're not with.
00:38:58.220 Dude.
00:38:58.480 And if you could see this man.
00:39:00.240 I'll show.
00:39:00.660 I'll show Maddie.
00:39:01.440 But.
00:39:02.060 Because I can't show y'all.
00:39:03.220 But.
00:39:04.380 Can you see that?
00:39:05.520 It always is, though, isn't it?
00:39:06.740 Yeah.
00:39:06.960 That's what he looks like.
00:39:07.680 I will say, I did not expect someone like that to be able to spell reduction.
00:39:10.480 So.
00:39:11.040 It was awesome.
00:39:11.720 So.
00:39:12.480 I'll give you.
00:39:12.940 You ate that one little thing.
00:39:14.580 It's so wicked.
00:39:15.500 It's guys like that, too.
00:39:16.540 It's always like.
00:39:17.100 And he's clearly driving a truck topless.
00:39:19.080 Yeah.
00:39:19.460 So that.
00:39:20.220 It's always like.
00:39:21.000 Yeah.
00:39:21.280 The shirtless guy with Oakley sunglasses and like a hat.
00:39:24.220 Like looking slightly down.
00:39:25.460 Like a slightly.
00:39:26.100 A look upward.
00:39:27.900 Phone picture.
00:39:28.780 Profile picture.
00:39:29.080 They can never take a picture to save their life.
00:39:30.520 It's always the same.
00:39:31.420 Yeah.
00:39:31.740 It's the same bitch.
00:39:32.460 It's that same person that like.
00:39:34.200 Hates women.
00:39:35.380 Yeah.
00:39:35.620 Hates like the liberals.
00:39:36.560 All that.
00:39:37.180 But then they're in like my inbox with little wave emojis.
00:39:41.040 I know.
00:39:41.680 Like.
00:39:42.340 Hey.
00:39:42.920 Hey, pretty lady.
00:39:45.280 And you're like.
00:39:46.120 Uh oh.
00:39:46.920 You got a.
00:39:47.360 Honey, you got a big storm coming.
00:39:49.320 No.
00:39:49.560 Like a thousand percent.
00:39:50.300 Like whenever I was like doing like drag in Arkansas and everything.
00:39:52.960 Like people like that.
00:39:53.660 That's what the inbox looks like.
00:39:54.880 You know.
00:39:55.180 Really?
00:39:55.680 Yeah.
00:39:56.460 Yeah.
00:39:56.740 All like the faces.
00:39:57.660 That's true.
00:39:58.060 A lot of my drag friends have told me that.
00:39:59.820 They've all said like.
00:40:00.740 You'd be shocked that like.
00:40:01.640 It's the same people.
00:40:02.400 It's the manliest men.
00:40:04.040 Yeah.
00:40:05.240 Whatever that means.
00:40:06.760 It's like they hate women.
00:40:07.740 They're in other.
00:40:08.240 You know.
00:40:08.560 Other people's inboxes.
00:40:09.920 Like.
00:40:10.140 Yeah.
00:40:10.300 Because they're.
00:40:10.980 They're feeling some type of way.
00:40:12.440 And I'm not one of those people that says like.
00:40:13.960 Oh.
00:40:14.120 Anyone that's like homophobic.
00:40:16.060 Or hates women is secretly gay.
00:40:17.840 I'm like.
00:40:18.060 I'm not saying that.
00:40:18.880 Yeah.
00:40:19.720 But a lot of times.
00:40:21.960 But most of the time.
00:40:22.900 But a nine times out of ten.
00:40:23.920 I don't know.
00:40:24.500 Yeah.
00:40:24.740 You know what I'm saying.
00:40:25.400 No.
00:40:25.660 I agree with you.
00:40:26.280 I agree with you totally.
00:40:27.020 Because I.
00:40:27.320 I don't like saying that either.
00:40:29.100 Because I feel like that.
00:40:32.140 You know.
00:40:32.620 Sometimes that takes the severity out of it.
00:40:35.620 And almost like.
00:40:36.220 It almost gives them a pass.
00:40:37.260 Because they're like.
00:40:37.900 Oh.
00:40:38.020 Well they haven't confronted it yet.
00:40:39.220 So I get what you're saying.
00:40:40.280 Because I don't like saying that either.
00:40:41.420 Like.
00:40:41.600 Oh.
00:40:41.660 Will they automatically.
00:40:42.740 That they must be gay.
00:40:44.400 Although.
00:40:45.700 Many times.
00:40:46.500 It does end up being true.
00:40:48.140 I don't like to lean on that either.
00:40:49.980 But like.
00:40:50.720 It is shocking to see what they look like.
00:40:52.980 Yeah.
00:40:53.500 Especially because I have a lot of friends who are dolls too.
00:40:55.780 So a lot of my doll friends are always like.
00:40:57.960 You would be shocked.
00:40:58.680 At the men who.
00:41:00.020 Who hit me up in secret and shit.
00:41:01.660 And I'm like.
00:41:01.940 I believe you.
00:41:02.800 Because.
00:41:03.760 And that's.
00:41:04.300 The cruelest irony of all of that.
00:41:06.880 Is that.
00:41:07.840 It is a byproduct of the patriarchy.
00:41:10.860 And of misogyny.
00:41:11.740 That is why they act that way towards people like us.
00:41:14.760 And that's why they secretly hit up people like my friends.
00:41:17.440 Yeah.
00:41:17.760 Because they are so entrapped by their toxic masculinity.
00:41:21.120 They like.
00:41:21.680 Don't know how to process it in any way.
00:41:23.140 So they're just violent towards everybody.
00:41:24.840 Yeah.
00:41:25.220 Which like.
00:41:25.740 Not my fucking problem.
00:41:27.040 Like.
00:41:27.460 You deal with that.
00:41:28.400 If you're having that problem.
00:41:29.420 But.
00:41:30.360 I'm like.
00:41:30.740 It's just.
00:41:31.180 It's cruel and ironic.
00:41:32.300 Because if they fought the fight with me.
00:41:35.040 You could be freed from those shackles, girl.
00:41:37.980 See.
00:41:38.400 It's.
00:41:38.620 You could be freed.
00:41:40.140 It's.
00:41:40.560 You know.
00:41:40.860 Communist women's utopia.
00:41:42.180 We're just living in it.
00:41:42.920 We're just trying to get by.
00:41:44.400 But though like.
00:41:45.180 I try.
00:41:45.700 Like.
00:41:45.840 Men's like.
00:41:47.480 Relationship with women.
00:41:49.100 And their attraction to them.
00:41:50.580 Or lack thereof.
00:41:51.380 Yeah.
00:41:51.520 Like.
00:41:51.540 Even like a lot of that is like.
00:41:53.300 So performative of men for other men.
00:41:55.420 I know.
00:41:56.000 Like.
00:41:56.020 They want an attractive woman to show off to like.
00:41:58.600 Other men.
00:41:59.480 Yeah.
00:41:59.840 Yeah.
00:41:59.960 And.
00:42:00.300 I don't know.
00:42:00.760 It's so weird like.
00:42:01.580 And like people saying like.
00:42:02.500 Oh.
00:42:02.880 The girl with blue hair.
00:42:04.040 Some communist.
00:42:04.960 Some freak of nature.
00:42:06.720 Yeah.
00:42:06.840 But like.
00:42:07.680 If they weren't worried about what their guy friends would say.
00:42:09.540 They would 100% be in the DM.
00:42:10.980 They probably already are.
00:42:12.020 Period.
00:42:12.660 Amen.
00:42:12.900 No for real.
00:42:14.100 They do that to fat women all the time too.
00:42:15.460 Like whenever I talk with.
00:42:16.860 With women who are fat.
00:42:18.120 And they love me.
00:42:18.580 Because I.
00:42:18.960 I defend fat people all the time online.
00:42:21.460 And like.
00:42:22.200 Fat phobia is another.
00:42:23.200 One of their many party tricks.
00:42:24.620 That they love to pull out.
00:42:25.960 And they're like.
00:42:27.040 A man who acts like.
00:42:27.960 They love a fat bitch.
00:42:29.000 Like.
00:42:29.200 They're like.
00:42:29.540 They are constantly trying to have sex with fat women.
00:42:31.580 They just are.
00:42:32.600 Ashamed.
00:42:33.100 For whatever fucking reason.
00:42:34.820 And so outwardly.
00:42:35.800 They're fucking awful to them.
00:42:36.980 But.
00:42:37.560 Internally behind closed doors.
00:42:38.640 It's a much different story.
00:42:39.960 It's the same thing with like.
00:42:41.720 Homophobic.
00:42:42.360 Homophobic.
00:42:42.760 Homophobic people.
00:42:43.080 Transphobic people.
00:42:44.060 Misogynist people.
00:42:45.100 Down the line.
00:42:45.800 Oh it's.
00:42:46.360 It's once you.
00:42:47.220 Again like with me doing drag.
00:42:48.620 Yeah.
00:42:48.720 It's like once you unshackle yourself.
00:42:50.780 Hello.
00:42:51.700 From the false prison.
00:42:54.780 The false utopian.
00:42:56.260 Of like.
00:42:56.680 Of masculinity.
00:42:57.880 Yeah.
00:42:58.320 Whatever the fuck.
00:42:59.120 Which is really just like.
00:43:00.120 Stop worrying about what other guys are thinking of you.
00:43:02.620 Like.
00:43:02.840 See.
00:43:03.540 Isn't it crazy how simple that is?
00:43:04.840 Women don't care.
00:43:05.420 No they don't.
00:43:06.000 Women do not care.
00:43:06.900 Like.
00:43:07.640 Like.
00:43:08.220 Like me doing drag.
00:43:09.580 Yeah.
00:43:09.740 I've had so many women.
00:43:11.060 Like in my inbox.
00:43:12.020 Or like out of the clubs and stuff like that.
00:43:13.660 Coming and approaching me.
00:43:14.440 Just because it's like.
00:43:15.060 Oh you're not like other guys I know.
00:43:16.340 It's so interesting.
00:43:17.080 Yeah.
00:43:17.380 And we have a lot in common.
00:43:18.360 You smell good.
00:43:18.900 That's so crazy.
00:43:19.660 Yeah.
00:43:19.840 That's crazy.
00:43:20.620 You don't stink through your suit.
00:43:21.840 Yeah.
00:43:22.240 Oh my god.
00:43:22.640 I'm so into you.
00:43:23.400 There is not a woman out there.
00:43:24.920 That smells a guy walking by dressed in full camo.
00:43:27.080 Smelling like deer piss.
00:43:28.040 And being like.
00:43:28.500 Well there's a man.
00:43:29.480 Well that.
00:43:29.900 Hubba hubba.
00:43:30.620 Is my kind of.
00:43:31.480 Slice me off a.
00:43:32.080 Awooga.
00:43:32.820 Awooga.
00:43:33.340 Slice me off a piece of that.
00:43:35.020 Like no.
00:43:36.020 It's.
00:43:36.400 I'm not saying that like.
00:43:37.440 Oh if you start wearing dresses.
00:43:38.620 Women will like you more.
00:43:39.480 But like.
00:43:39.780 No.
00:43:40.220 If you stop like.
00:43:41.620 Living for other men.
00:43:43.100 Girl.
00:43:43.600 Like women will approach you more.
00:43:45.200 Like.
00:43:45.520 And it's shocking to hear isn't it.
00:43:47.400 I was like.
00:43:47.860 There are so many men who.
00:43:49.860 Don't fit into whatever they're like.
00:43:52.200 Like you said.
00:43:53.080 This box idea they have.
00:43:54.620 This extremely limiting idea they have of masculinity.
00:43:57.120 And what it looks like to be a man.
00:43:59.000 Act like a man.
00:43:59.540 Look like a man.
00:43:59.940 Whatever.
00:44:00.840 There are so many men who don't fall into those umbrellas.
00:44:04.200 And they are drowning in puss.
00:44:06.100 I don't know how else to tell everyone that.
00:44:08.260 Look at how Timothee Chalamet is built.
00:44:10.260 He's built like Jack Skellington.
00:44:11.800 And he's drowning in puss.
00:44:13.320 Yeah.
00:44:13.660 He doesn't.
00:44:14.200 He cries and shit.
00:44:15.760 It's a femme boy summer.
00:44:16.660 Girl.
00:44:16.960 You know how many men who don't look like what they perceive to be a man.
00:44:21.300 Or whatever the fuck.
00:44:22.400 And they are fighting the bitches off with a stick.
00:44:25.320 Like if you just get out of your own way.
00:44:27.260 And stop being awful.
00:44:28.400 And learn to ask women about their hobbies.
00:44:30.680 And listen to the answer.
00:44:32.240 You would be shocked how many women would be like.
00:44:34.260 Oh my god I love you.
00:44:35.240 Oh my god I'm so in love with you.
00:44:36.780 It's crazy.
00:44:37.660 They're like trying to figure out the secret of women.
00:44:39.540 Like women are an ocean.
00:44:42.360 I'm drowning in them.
00:44:44.960 Period.
00:44:45.720 You and me both.
00:44:46.360 Then I don't even like women.
00:44:47.480 I know.
00:44:48.000 So that's why you and me fucking both.
00:44:49.820 Thank god.
00:44:50.580 If I ever jump trains.
00:44:51.640 Pulling them.
00:44:52.120 Girl if I ever jump ship.
00:44:53.760 It's over.
00:44:54.400 I'd be drowning in puss.
00:44:55.520 It's over.
00:44:56.040 Oh my god.
00:44:56.580 When you and your fiance are out at the bar poaching together.
00:44:59.260 It's over.
00:44:59.680 It's done.
00:45:01.160 Yeah.
00:45:01.460 We've been propositioned as a fucking like.
00:45:03.740 They're like you guys need a third.
00:45:05.080 I get asked that all the time.
00:45:06.120 By men, women, and anyone in between.
00:45:08.840 Mostly women.
00:45:09.520 You got people going home Googling where is Polynesia.
00:45:13.180 Because I'm Polynesia.
00:45:16.560 I had a girl make a video once.
00:45:18.200 She was like saying she was going to go to Samoa to find someone who looks like my man.
00:45:22.180 Or Jason Momoa.
00:45:23.240 And I was like well Jason Momoa is not Samoan so you won't find him there.
00:45:27.160 And I was like but girl just go to Long Beach.
00:45:28.660 There's a bunch of us over there.
00:45:30.080 You don't need to go to Samoa.
00:45:31.120 Just go to Oceanside.
00:45:32.500 There's a whole bunch of us over there.
00:45:34.200 Long Beach.
00:45:34.820 You have like your native lands.
00:45:36.780 Do you have my native lands?
00:45:38.000 It's the outskirts of LA.
00:45:39.340 I feel like yeah like you said it's it's it's actually so.
00:45:43.200 And that's going to lead me to my next question for you.
00:45:45.500 Because what you said is so true.
00:45:47.400 It's like once you free yourself from this idea that you have to appeal to men constantly.
00:45:53.400 And who gives a fuck about women.
00:45:54.760 Yeah.
00:45:55.020 Like first of all the world opens up to you just in terms of opportunity.
00:45:58.080 I mean look what you're doing now which is incredible.
00:45:59.680 And it is an art form which I think is fantastic that you're pursuing it so openly.
00:46:06.280 And so honestly I think that's wonderful.
00:46:08.320 And I truly.
00:46:09.140 Sincerely take compliments as a fucking sunflower.
00:46:11.560 And I'm a spam can.
00:46:12.780 Yeah.
00:46:13.200 I know and we were just talking about my nuts.
00:46:15.220 So it's a real roller coaster ride on my episode.
00:46:17.500 This is what therapy looks like.
00:46:18.860 Conservatives.
00:46:19.740 This is what it is.
00:46:20.520 This is what they're doing.
00:46:21.120 This is the gay agenda.
00:46:21.740 Behind closed doors.
00:46:23.060 This is what it is.
00:46:23.620 This is the gay agenda.
00:46:24.380 It's working on us.
00:46:24.840 The gender wars don't happen on the ground.
00:46:26.340 It happens in closed board rooms.
00:46:27.460 It happens right in front of your face.
00:46:29.060 Yeah.
00:46:29.360 Right in front of your nose.
00:46:30.800 But I do want to commend you for being so open and honest about that because I feel
00:46:35.540 like it's so important that cis straight men too also talk about this stuff.
00:46:41.100 And you are also doing drag at the same time.
00:46:43.600 It's a beautiful thing.
00:46:44.500 So I'm curious like what would you say is like your best piece of advice for men who
00:46:49.900 are maybe like on the fence or maybe they're like I want to pursue this but I don't want
00:46:53.940 to pursue it in a certain way.
00:46:55.680 Whether it's drag.
00:46:56.480 Whether it's makeup.
00:46:57.140 Like have you ever seen straight men do makeup?
00:46:58.380 Like I've seen that on TikTok all the time.
00:47:00.380 And they're just doing a little cover up or whatever.
00:47:02.360 Like you know anything outside of what is perceived to be masculine pursuing that kind
00:47:07.480 of like or interest.
00:47:09.120 What would you say is your best piece of advice for men who are like maybe struggling
00:47:12.840 with that?
00:47:13.140 Literally just do it.
00:47:14.240 Like life is so short.
00:47:15.980 Right.
00:47:16.300 I think like it's really morbid but like a big thing that opened my eyes was like having
00:47:23.220 like some deaths in the family or something and then going to like funerals and like seeing
00:47:26.600 like fields of like gravestones.
00:47:29.440 And each one of those people is like someone that lived like a full life.
00:47:33.340 Yeah.
00:47:33.480 Probably like so many regrets and stuff they didn't do.
00:47:35.480 And it's like why are you like you get one chance of this.
00:47:39.320 Like just fucking do it.
00:47:40.160 It doesn't matter.
00:47:41.000 Yeah.
00:47:41.260 I think all these people you're worried about like what they're going to think of you.
00:47:43.960 Like why do you care about their opinion?
00:47:47.760 Especially like with things of like with women and stuff.
00:47:51.520 Totally.
00:47:51.760 Like why do you care about what some random guy thinks about your interactions with women?
00:47:56.180 Yeah.
00:47:56.320 Your private interaction with women.
00:47:58.060 Yeah.
00:47:58.360 Or like what kind of women you're into.
00:47:59.960 Yeah.
00:48:00.560 Why are you going to like literally just live for yourself?
00:48:03.620 Like it's not that serious.
00:48:04.900 Period.
00:48:06.100 I love that.
00:48:06.640 It's not that serious.
00:48:07.700 And like.
00:48:08.180 You know what?
00:48:08.820 And you might be thinking like oh I'm not going to get a bunch of like tattoos and dye
00:48:12.140 my hair blue because then I'll only attract goth girls that I'm not into.
00:48:15.960 Which first of all you're sleeping on goth girls.
00:48:17.840 If that is the case.
00:48:19.000 That's your first mistake.
00:48:19.960 Girl.
00:48:20.280 But second of like again like me in drag going out or being out of drag and people knowing
00:48:24.620 that I do drag.
00:48:25.340 Yeah.
00:48:26.160 There's like a lot of like those like hometown small town conservative girls little you know
00:48:31.060 Pentecostal girls that are messaging me and like flirting with me too.
00:48:34.680 Girl they're into it too.
00:48:36.700 You'll get yourself a wholesome girl like if you're if you really it's because it has
00:48:41.160 nothing to do with like it has nothing to do with the interests that you have or the
00:48:45.340 career really it's like it's what's attractive about it is the fact that you're so confident
00:48:50.360 in it.
00:48:50.740 Like that's what women dig.
00:48:52.020 Like they women really love men who obviously see them as humans say that but when they're
00:48:56.640 confident in their misogyny all of a sudden it's a problem.
00:48:58.720 So I'm a hypocrite so I do like to talk out of both sides of my mouth.
00:49:03.540 But yeah.
00:49:04.420 Hypocrite is my least favorite kind of hippo.
00:49:07.640 That brings me to my next topic which is mood.
00:49:09.500 Dang.
00:49:09.820 Mood.
00:49:10.220 Look at that.
00:49:11.580 That's called full circle.
00:49:12.520 Yeah.
00:49:12.660 But I do think that your confidence in what you like and what you want to pursue is what
00:49:18.860 speaks to women the loudest.
00:49:20.040 It's like I fuck with them.
00:49:21.440 I fuck with someone who like doesn't care.
00:49:23.240 Like it's I like I do it because I like it.
00:49:25.520 That's why I do it.
00:49:26.080 I was here for vibes.
00:49:27.380 Period.
00:49:27.920 You know.
00:49:28.300 And they're working.
00:49:29.020 Yeah.
00:49:29.400 The vibes are emanating off of you.
00:49:30.840 Thank you.
00:49:31.320 It's photosynthesis.
00:49:32.180 Like I said I grew up in a really small town and like I always had the mindset of like
00:49:37.000 I don't want to rock the boat or anything but the moment I graduate I'm going to go
00:49:40.560 on this journey and I did like immediately.
00:49:42.360 I moved out of my town.
00:49:43.200 Oh love.
00:49:43.500 Cut my hair.
00:49:44.060 Changed the way I dress.
00:49:45.140 Love.
00:49:45.580 Made new friends.
00:49:47.160 And I just looked back and I was like damn I really wasted like 18, 19 years of my life.
00:49:52.340 Aww.
00:49:52.980 For like no reason.
00:49:54.300 Yeah.
00:49:54.680 Like in the box.
00:49:55.300 Don't waste it.
00:49:55.920 And it's not too late.
00:49:56.940 Like you're in like your 20s, 30s.
00:49:58.700 Yeah.
00:49:59.480 It's never too late I don't think.
00:50:00.980 Especially if the gift, what you get in return for letting that go is like worth its weight
00:50:06.760 in gold I feel like.
00:50:08.000 It feels like this weird like cloud that was like over me that I feel like it's gone or
00:50:12.400 like I feel like people are always like watching me and like judging my actions and who I'm
00:50:17.540 talking to and what I'm doing.
00:50:18.600 But once you like stop caring about that like it's like oh those people literally don't
00:50:22.560 exist and they don't care.
00:50:23.700 And they don't care.
00:50:24.220 That's another thing too you need to realize is like people don't actually care.
00:50:26.760 Yeah.
00:50:26.980 Outside of like some random commenter on Facebook or YouTube or whatever like people do not
00:50:32.380 give a shit about you.
00:50:33.300 Right.
00:50:33.780 Period.
00:50:34.000 Everyone is wrapped up in their own bullshit.
00:50:35.760 Amen.
00:50:36.580 You know.
00:50:37.040 Nine times out of ten that is the case.
00:50:38.360 Yeah.
00:50:38.760 And even if it's not, that's none of my business.
00:50:40.960 Like I always think like what you think about me is none of my business.
00:50:44.020 Yeah.
00:50:44.140 Like if you're not in my inner circle and I don't see you every day and I don't have to
00:50:46.820 interact with you every day, what do I care?
00:50:48.580 When people have asked me about like oh how do you deal with this much hate or like men hating
00:50:52.700 you online or whatever, I always tell them like the same thing kind of where I'm like
00:50:56.600 this sounds kind of morbid, but I'm like if those people drop dead tomorrow, like my
00:51:00.660 life would continue and my life would be awesome.
00:51:03.300 It'd be better.
00:51:04.020 Yeah.
00:51:05.120 And I don't care.
00:51:05.920 And that's why you carry a gun.
00:51:07.020 Yeah.
00:51:07.520 Obviously.
00:51:08.140 Yeah.
00:51:08.400 But I'm like I don't care about their livelihood.
00:51:10.800 I don't care about their happiness.
00:51:12.300 Like why would I care about their words?
00:51:14.780 Like and it's like if someone doesn't have the life you want, would you take advice from
00:51:18.340 them?
00:51:18.700 No.
00:51:19.520 Right.
00:51:19.700 So you don't have the relationship I want.
00:51:22.000 You don't have the career I want.
00:51:23.040 You don't have any goals that I've ever wanted.
00:51:25.780 Yeah.
00:51:26.000 Why am I going to take anything you say seriously as far as opinions on my life?
00:51:29.440 Like I'm not going to.
00:51:30.500 Yeah.
00:51:30.800 It's like the old adage like sticks and stones can break my bones, but I have a fucking
00:51:33.500 gun.
00:51:33.920 But I have a gun, but I am going to pull a gun on you.
00:51:36.380 So thank you so much for coming on this show today.
00:51:41.500 I adore you.
00:51:42.080 I think you're fucking awesome.
00:51:43.300 Thank you.
00:51:43.700 And I do like genuinely, I want to commend you for like being so open and honest about
00:51:49.360 what you love and who you support.
00:51:50.920 It's like so important.
00:51:51.860 And I feel like as a straight cis person to you and me in it together, you know, a straight
00:51:57.660 cis people got to stick together.
00:51:58.960 We got to stick together.
00:51:59.660 God, it's so hard for us.
00:52:01.160 We need.
00:52:01.560 They don't have any idea how hard it is.
00:52:03.840 No.
00:52:04.880 Gay people have no idea how hard it is.
00:52:07.220 Don't judge.
00:52:08.060 Don't judge a cis straight person until you walked a mile in their sketchers.
00:52:10.880 And they're a six.
00:52:13.400 You got to walk a mile in my fucking a six before you start talking about my hokas.
00:52:17.940 Just because someone is dressed like an old Navy mannequin doesn't mean they don't have
00:52:21.100 feelings and thoughts and dreams.
00:52:23.160 I am so much more than those Bermuda shorts.
00:52:25.720 I'm so much more than those.
00:52:28.160 Thank you so much for coming on the show.
00:52:30.300 I fucking adore you.
00:52:31.160 I think you're fantastic.
00:52:32.180 And I think you get best costume award already.
00:52:34.260 I'll give it to you now.
00:52:35.180 Thank you.
00:52:35.720 Early on.
00:52:36.420 I hope it gets better than this.
00:52:37.880 I hope someone really decks out full on.
00:52:39.820 I hope so too.
00:52:40.240 Full on like Universal Studios like craziness.
00:52:43.360 Imagine.
00:52:44.020 Yeah.
00:52:44.480 They should come dressed as a gun.
00:52:46.120 That would work.
00:52:46.740 Well, that's what this podcast is about now.
00:52:48.360 I know.
00:52:49.200 I think so.
00:52:49.700 It's a great fucking ad.
00:52:51.480 Well, thank you so much again for coming.
00:52:53.740 Where can everybody find you?
00:52:56.100 Hello, everyone.
00:52:56.980 You can find me on my YouTube channel, Maddie Morphosis Official, and on all social medias
00:53:01.760 at Maddie Morphosis.
00:53:03.400 Love.
00:53:04.120 Most of my content nowadays is just doing interviews with other queens, just hanging out in my room.
00:53:07.680 Yeah.
00:53:08.080 Plug your show.
00:53:08.820 Yeah, give it to me straight on YouTube.
00:53:10.780 Love.
00:53:11.260 Love to have you on.
00:53:12.160 If you want to come out, sit between the four walls.
00:53:13.780 Talk shit.
00:53:14.600 You know, pull out embarrassing childhood photos.
00:53:16.700 Yeah, we'll swap.
00:53:17.340 Yeah, we'll swap.
00:53:18.360 We'll costume change.
00:53:19.640 We're built the same.
00:53:20.400 Yeah, I'll email you.
00:53:21.080 Check the spam folder.
00:53:21.580 Oh, I love a good pun.
00:53:24.620 Thank you.
00:53:24.760 I love a punny.
00:53:25.540 A punny end to a punny show.
00:53:27.760 A punny end to a gunny show.
00:53:29.680 A gunny show.
00:53:31.580 Thank you so much, all of you, for tuning into this episode.
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00:53:46.700 Please stop asking me, where can I watch this?
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00:53:52.240 I swear to fucking God.
00:53:53.420 Where's my gun?
00:53:54.740 Just kidding.
00:53:55.840 Don't make me bring it out.
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00:53:58.420 Anyways, thank you so much for tuning in.
00:54:00.100 Thank you to my amazing guest, Matty Morphosis.
00:54:01.840 Make sure you all follow him on literally everything, and I'll see you next week.
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