The Comment Section with Drew Afualo


DO WE HAVE THE SAME DAD? | Drew Afualo ft. Sarah Baska | THE COMMENT SECTION EP 18


Summary

In this episode of the Comment Section Show, I sit down with my good friend Sarah Baskas to talk about her love of One Direction and their early days growing up in the 90s and early 2000s. We talk about our favorite One Direction songs, who is our favorite member of the band, and who was our first One Direction fan.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 My dad's a big dude. My dad's 6'6".
00:00:02.340 Same. My dad's huge.
00:00:03.820 Size 14, 15, same.
00:00:05.680 Custom made.
00:00:06.520 Yeah, same. My dad too.
00:00:08.000 We have the same dad.
00:00:09.480 We're sisters.
00:00:12.420 Someone put a picture of both our dads.
00:00:13.760 I've actually never met my dad.
00:00:14.880 I have a question.
00:00:20.640 Hey everyone and welcome back to another episode of the Comment Section Show.
00:00:24.840 And today I'm here with the one, the only, Sarah Baska.
00:00:30.440 Hey.
00:00:32.160 There's a bunch of people here, but they can't make noise.
00:00:34.900 It's like, all right.
00:00:36.200 All right.
00:00:38.000 We can make our own.
00:00:39.660 Just the two of us.
00:00:41.260 All right.
00:00:42.980 I'm so happy to have you here, dude.
00:00:45.100 So happy to be here.
00:00:46.360 I'm honored.
00:00:47.000 I didn't even know that you knew who I was.
00:00:49.040 Oh my God, are you kidding?
00:00:50.320 I literally was telling Sarah right before this,
00:00:52.320 I've been a fan of you from the jump.
00:00:54.960 Day one.
00:00:56.820 Nuh.
00:00:57.420 Yeah, since you were working at the trampoline park.
00:00:59.400 No way.
00:01:00.960 Yeah.
00:01:01.540 Nuh-uh.
00:01:02.160 Yeah, I'm fine.
00:01:03.200 That was like high school vibes.
00:01:04.580 Oh, I know, girl.
00:01:05.320 No way.
00:01:05.980 I'm well aware.
00:01:06.880 You remember the red shirt?
00:01:08.160 Yeah.
00:01:08.920 You were to wear your glasses and film you're in your car?
00:01:12.160 Yeah.
00:01:12.760 Yeah.
00:01:13.120 Oh my God, you were a day one bitch.
00:01:15.880 I'm a day one Sarah Basco stan.
00:01:18.200 So you just like saw my whole journey.
00:01:20.180 Yeah.
00:01:20.820 Well, like I saw yours too, but you just kind of popped out of nowhere for me on my For You
00:01:25.860 page.
00:01:26.380 I think I'm watching this like crazy man, cringy, saying the worst shit and then, ha ha!
00:01:33.740 You're laughing.
00:01:34.960 That's me.
00:01:35.600 You know what I mean?
00:01:36.280 I was like, who is this bitch?
00:01:37.120 That's my brand in a nutshell, to be honest.
00:01:39.480 Loved it.
00:01:40.140 Immediately just like scrolled through all your stuff, was giggling with you, followed you.
00:01:44.020 I'm like, I feel like I know her already.
00:01:46.860 Right?
00:01:47.380 I'm glad.
00:01:47.840 I love that for us.
00:01:48.580 I felt like that with you.
00:01:50.100 I was going to keep it cool and be like, yeah, I just recently found you.
00:01:53.540 But like, that would make me a liar.
00:01:55.200 I would have been like, oh, yeah, OK.
00:01:56.600 That makes sense.
00:01:58.200 Now I've known you forever.
00:02:00.000 Oh, my God.
00:02:00.700 I'm such a fan.
00:02:01.660 You're so funny, dude.
00:02:03.000 So you were a One Direction fan?
00:02:06.080 Oh, yeah.
00:02:06.300 Because I only made vines about 1D.
00:02:08.620 That's why I thought you were so funny, because I relate.
00:02:11.440 I could relate to being a fan.
00:02:12.680 Who was my bias?
00:02:13.560 Yeah.
00:02:13.880 I was a hairy girl.
00:02:15.120 Period.
00:02:15.640 From day one.
00:02:16.480 I knew.
00:02:17.340 I could pick them out of a lineup, which one's going to break away from the pack.
00:02:21.380 Like, you know who my favorite was at first?
00:02:25.020 Louie.
00:02:25.800 Yeah.
00:02:28.040 Only because he just like had the energy.
00:02:30.360 I feel you.
00:02:31.300 Funny guy.
00:02:31.960 Yeah.
00:02:32.360 Front man energy.
00:02:33.420 It's like fire sign energy.
00:02:35.320 Like, he's a sag.
00:02:36.460 Yeah.
00:02:37.280 And I'm so like, drawn.
00:02:38.060 What's Harry in Aquarius?
00:02:39.280 Yeah.
00:02:39.600 I think so, right?
00:02:40.220 Yeah.
00:02:40.760 I'm cool with Aquarius.
00:02:42.080 He's like a weirdo.
00:02:43.220 Yeah.
00:02:43.580 No one gets him.
00:02:44.680 Yeah.
00:02:45.040 It was, I think more so for me, it was strictly based off looks.
00:02:48.340 I was like, I picked this one.
00:02:49.600 Even with the floppy, like, mop.
00:02:51.720 The long hair?
00:02:52.680 Like, long hair, hairy?
00:02:55.500 No, I'm talking like X Factor, like, mop on the head.
00:02:58.480 Oh, no.
00:02:58.500 That, no.
00:02:59.580 That, I'm not, I'm not featuring that.
00:03:01.620 Yeah.
00:03:01.820 I simply did not see it.
00:03:03.160 I chose to not see it.
00:03:04.480 Didn't see it?
00:03:05.060 That's why I was like, Louie?
00:03:06.940 Like, Amy Doobie?
00:03:08.720 Which is so messed up.
00:03:10.120 Yeah.
00:03:10.380 Like, Harry's adorable, but like, no.
00:03:12.000 I know.
00:03:12.420 Yeah, but in those, yeah.
00:03:14.140 I simply do not see.
00:03:15.620 You know what I mean?
00:03:16.420 I see that.
00:03:16.960 If I close my eyes, it just doesn't exist.
00:03:18.920 It doesn't exist.
00:03:19.800 And I, in my, the first video I ever saw of them was, I think, it was on YouTube, but
00:03:23.900 I think it was like a acoustic version of them singing one thing.
00:03:29.480 And I remember actively not looking them up because I was like, I can't handle this kind
00:03:34.520 of obsession right now.
00:03:35.280 Like, I just knew myself.
00:03:36.620 The hyper fixation was going to kick in and I wasn't going to be able to let it go.
00:03:40.320 Like, I'm still not over my Justin Bieber phase.
00:03:42.900 I still haven't graduated high school yet.
00:03:44.580 The only one I missed was Justin Bieber.
00:03:46.320 I, I, I liked him, but I wasn't like feral about him.
00:03:49.720 Like, I was about, like, the Jonas Brothers.
00:03:51.800 When the Jonas Brothers was out, I was, like, truly, like, pussy in the wind.
00:03:55.180 I was fair, I was feral.
00:03:57.380 I was letting my freak flag fly with them.
00:04:00.040 You know what I mean?
00:04:00.720 Same?
00:04:01.600 Yeah.
00:04:01.760 My transition over to Justin Bieber was so intense.
00:04:06.680 It was like, it just came over me.
00:04:09.660 Yeah.
00:04:10.120 And I actually have kind of a funny story about that.
00:04:12.640 Oh, please tell it.
00:04:14.260 So, my best friend, Katie, when we were, like, in fifth grade.
00:04:17.880 Yeah.
00:04:18.340 She had this really hot older cousin.
00:04:21.020 And I was so jealous because I wanted a hot older cousin.
00:04:24.400 Because I don't, like, have any cousins.
00:04:26.400 To be related to?
00:04:27.260 I do, but.
00:04:28.980 Or to, like, kiss on the lips.
00:04:30.360 I just wanted, like, a cool cousin.
00:04:32.160 Oh, I got you, got you.
00:04:33.160 Like, he was just, like, a cool, hot cousin.
00:04:35.240 And I'm like, I've never had that.
00:04:37.140 You're like, I'd like to, I'd like to partake.
00:04:39.380 I would like to just, like, have one of my own.
00:04:43.940 Okay, I'm from Oregon.
00:04:45.520 Like, I'm not, like, weird.
00:04:48.320 I'm not kissing my cousins, I don't think.
00:04:51.320 No, but, like, she had this cool cousin.
00:04:54.160 And I lied to her one day.
00:04:55.480 And I was like, I have a cool cousin.
00:04:57.780 And she was like, oh, yeah.
00:04:59.000 And I was like, yeah.
00:05:00.540 And do you remember Bebo?
00:05:02.520 I think so.
00:05:03.100 That website?
00:05:03.800 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:05:04.740 It was, like, the knockoff MySpace.
00:05:06.120 Yeah, I think so, yeah.
00:05:07.340 So I'm scrolling on Bebo because I'm not allowed to have a MySpace.
00:05:10.860 Like, what?
00:05:12.300 Nine?
00:05:13.980 What am I going to do on MySpace?
00:05:15.800 Yeah.
00:05:16.440 Just add my friend.
00:05:17.560 Or my sister and all of her friends.
00:05:19.920 Me.
00:05:20.460 Yeah.
00:05:20.820 Literally me.
00:05:21.400 I did that when I had it on MySpace.
00:05:22.900 So.
00:05:23.120 You're not wrong.
00:05:24.200 Yeah.
00:05:24.520 So, and I just wasn't allowed.
00:05:26.500 So I went on Bebo.
00:05:28.040 And I was, there was a videos tab.
00:05:30.660 And I saw this video.
00:05:32.500 And it said, Justin B sings With You by Chris Brown.
00:05:37.560 And I'm like, what's that?
00:05:39.200 With the guitar and everything?
00:05:40.560 No.
00:05:41.360 He was in front of, y'all know what I'm talking about.
00:05:44.120 Wait, was he in front of the steps?
00:05:45.480 He was in front of a Bart Simpson's poster.
00:05:49.020 And he was just in his room.
00:05:50.380 He's like, ten.
00:05:51.800 Yeah.
00:05:53.580 It's just, I need to believe.
00:05:55.740 It was like, so.
00:05:57.880 And I was watching it.
00:05:58.860 And I was like, that's my cousin.
00:06:00.880 Because it's Justin B.
00:06:02.600 So I could be like, Justin Baska.
00:06:05.040 And it only had like, 2,000 views.
00:06:08.020 And I sent it to my friend Katie.
00:06:09.580 I was like, this is my cousin.
00:06:11.000 And she was like, no way.
00:06:12.380 And then what if you pulled off your face and you were Scooter Brown underneath?
00:06:14.800 And you're the one who discovered him?
00:06:16.760 Dude, I wish.
00:06:19.080 At nine.
00:06:20.280 Yeah, you're L.A. Reid underneath.
00:06:22.240 Yeah.
00:06:22.440 You were just who signed him.
00:06:23.500 Oh, and Katie, by the way.
00:06:26.420 I'm L.A. Reid.
00:06:29.160 In your fourth grade class.
00:06:30.600 You're no longer nine anymore?
00:06:32.180 No, I'm fully L.A. Reid in this fourth grade class.
00:06:37.240 That's how you found him?
00:06:38.500 Yeah, and like, I like, would message Katie on AIM pretending to be Justin Baska.
00:06:43.640 And then she went on, she was watching MTV one day.
00:06:47.920 And one time by Justin Bieber just got aired.
00:06:51.100 And she's like, your cousin is like on TV.
00:06:54.360 And I was like, I like fully catfished her for so long.
00:06:59.700 She like fell in love with him.
00:07:01.280 You start gaslighting her and say, I never said that to you.
00:07:04.540 What would make you think that that man's related to me because I told you that?
00:07:08.140 That's actually like not even him.
00:07:09.720 That seems like that's on you a little bit.
00:07:11.860 Like, I feel like that's not my fault.
00:07:13.740 You're kind of stupid.
00:07:14.560 Yeah, that you are so easily gullible.
00:07:16.840 You know what I mean?
00:07:17.340 Like, you were easily convinced.
00:07:19.760 I think this friendship needs to end.
00:07:22.480 Because you're so wild.
00:07:24.440 And you guys are still friends to this day.
00:07:25.620 Yeah, she's like my best friend.
00:07:27.080 She's like married with a kid.
00:07:28.700 Love her.
00:07:29.680 Love that.
00:07:30.220 The arc from Bebo to now.
00:07:32.800 We both just became so obsessed with Justin Bieber together now that he's not my cousin.
00:07:38.400 You just casually forgot.
00:07:39.700 Yeah.
00:07:40.460 Just let it go.
00:07:41.560 Now that I don't have to have a crush on my cousin.
00:07:43.860 You're like, I was just having a silly goofy time.
00:07:46.380 Yeah.
00:07:46.820 Just being silly.
00:07:48.160 Yeah.
00:07:48.560 That's so funny.
00:07:49.380 My transition from to the Jonas Brothers, because that's where I was my most feral, I would argue.
00:07:54.600 Before that, I was obsessed with My Chemical Romance.
00:07:57.540 So big jump.
00:07:58.540 Oh.
00:07:59.160 Big jump.
00:07:59.700 Like, they were my very first concert when I was 10.
00:08:02.800 That's kind of dope.
00:08:03.860 Yeah.
00:08:04.140 My mom took me with my sister and my other friend.
00:08:07.120 And my friend didn't like that music literally at all.
00:08:10.680 Like, she hated it.
00:08:12.140 And she said she wanted to come.
00:08:13.720 And I was like, all right, cool.
00:08:14.860 You were like headbanging on the rail.
00:08:16.320 And she was just like.
00:08:17.280 Yeah.
00:08:17.620 She literally was like.
00:08:18.940 Miserable.
00:08:19.140 I guess.
00:08:19.660 She was like, you like this kind of stuff?
00:08:21.600 I was like, yeah, don't you.
00:08:23.060 I'm like acting like I understand the nuance of the lyrics at all.
00:08:26.480 You're like, sorry I have anger.
00:08:28.080 I'm mad at the world sometimes.
00:08:29.300 I'm sorry that I'm so different from you.
00:08:31.400 Sorry.
00:08:32.120 I'm not like other girls.
00:08:33.180 Yeah.
00:08:33.500 It's the start of my pick me phase.
00:08:35.280 Yeah.
00:08:35.680 It's me pretending to be different liking them.
00:08:38.020 Yeah.
00:08:38.420 I literally went from them to immediately the Jonas Brothers.
00:08:42.440 I remember seeing year three.
00:08:43.740 I don't know.
00:08:44.680 That's so very.
00:08:45.820 Closing that gap.
00:08:47.080 I don't know how that happened.
00:08:48.740 You would seem like it would be the reverse.
00:08:50.900 Yeah.
00:08:51.840 Nope.
00:08:52.820 I literally went from there one extreme to the other.
00:08:55.440 Cause like in my character romance, when I was 10 years old, I was convinced I was going
00:08:59.740 to marry the guitarist Ray Toro.
00:09:01.620 If you ever see this Ray Toro in my line, just kidding.
00:09:04.440 I'm taking anyway.
00:09:05.460 Yeah.
00:09:05.920 I was going to say I'm taking unless, unless do you like have a wife husband?
00:09:11.140 I mean, let me know.
00:09:12.640 Hit me up.
00:09:13.020 But he was like 35 and I was 10 and I was like, I'm going to marry this dude.
00:09:17.880 Like I was so convinced.
00:09:19.460 I don't know what it was about that dude.
00:09:21.340 Cause even when I liked Nick Jonas, it wasn't nearly as like convincing to me that I was going
00:09:26.860 to marry him that if I married Ray Toro from Michael Gromach.
00:09:30.680 You have your standards?
00:09:31.760 Yeah.
00:09:31.960 So I was like, listen, I know a man when I see it.
00:09:34.380 I call it like I see it.
00:09:36.560 Maybe it's cause I knew Nick was a Virgo and I just can't feature.
00:09:39.800 He would be a Virgo.
00:09:41.220 Yeah.
00:09:41.400 I can't feature Virgo men.
00:09:42.360 And I hate them.
00:09:43.060 He would be a Virgo.
00:09:44.520 So I bet you anything in like 12 year old me's body.
00:09:47.280 She was like, can't do a Virgo man.
00:09:49.160 Who was the, my chemical role?
00:09:50.620 Like what was his sign?
00:09:51.240 I don't know what his sign was actually.
00:09:52.820 I should look it up.
00:09:53.500 You should.
00:09:54.120 How do you not know that?
00:09:55.280 I don't know.
00:09:56.100 Because at the time, I don't know, I was 10.
00:09:59.140 I didn't know anything about astrology.
00:10:03.100 Literally at all, I was like, yeah, that's going to be my wife.
00:10:05.800 But then he just knew Nick was a Virgo.
00:10:08.020 And you're like, no.
00:10:09.380 You read it in Tiger B.
00:10:10.740 And you're like, no.
00:10:12.360 Immediately.
00:10:13.420 Right.
00:10:13.700 I was J-14.
00:10:15.100 Yes.
00:10:15.380 I was literally like, Virgo.
00:10:17.300 I might have to rethink some things.
00:10:19.480 Dude.
00:10:20.220 But Joe is a Leo man.
00:10:23.020 Yeah.
00:10:23.800 You could tell too.
00:10:24.860 I am so attracted to Leo men.
00:10:26.780 And it's like disgusting.
00:10:28.020 That's so funny.
00:10:28.380 So my sister attracts Leos of all kinds.
00:10:31.320 Really?
00:10:31.820 Everyone in between.
00:10:32.500 It's like almost exclusively Leos.
00:10:35.200 And she's like, what is it about me that attracts Leos?
00:10:38.900 I go, I don't know, man.
00:10:39.940 She's a Sag.
00:10:41.120 Well, that's it.
00:10:42.020 Yeah.
00:10:42.280 They're like the most compatible.
00:10:43.800 Yeah.
00:10:44.120 Yeah.
00:10:44.500 That's what I said.
00:10:45.640 So I was like.
00:10:46.260 Sag rising.
00:10:46.760 So I'm like.
00:10:47.540 Me too.
00:10:48.720 Yes.
00:10:49.080 I'm a Virgo.
00:10:51.400 Virgo sun, cancer moon, Sagittarius rising.
00:10:54.560 Okay.
00:10:54.920 I'm a Taurus sun.
00:10:56.460 So we got the earth and the fire.
00:10:58.540 And then I'm a Gemini moon.
00:11:00.040 I love Taurus.
00:11:01.620 Really?
00:11:02.200 Yeah.
00:11:02.400 I love Tauruses.
00:11:03.880 Brittany's a Taurus too.
00:11:05.200 Oh, yeah.
00:11:05.600 She is.
00:11:06.840 But my Gemini moon makes me crazy.
00:11:10.760 Yeah.
00:11:11.320 I feel that.
00:11:12.440 Like imagine.
00:11:13.140 My cancer moon makes me emotional.
00:11:14.240 So that's like the only thing that keeps me, I think.
00:11:17.060 I'm jealous of that though.
00:11:18.360 Yeah.
00:11:18.500 Like my Gemini moon is just such like an intellectual feeling based.
00:11:24.280 Yeah.
00:11:24.840 Yeah.
00:11:25.120 I'm like, I don't know.
00:11:26.040 Overthinker.
00:11:26.800 How to think or feel.
00:11:28.900 Yeah.
00:11:29.080 I attract Tauruses and Libras.
00:11:31.980 Best friends are Libra.
00:11:32.900 Yeah.
00:11:33.240 So my boyfriend's a Libra.
00:11:34.860 Really?
00:11:35.340 Yeah.
00:11:36.020 So that's how I was like.
00:11:37.380 I attract Libras and Tauruses all the time.
00:11:40.420 But I love them.
00:11:41.780 I love everyone.
00:11:43.460 Every single man that I've had a crush on has been a fire sign.
00:11:46.600 And they've ruined my life.
00:11:48.680 Every single time.
00:11:50.340 I know.
00:11:50.740 It's real.
00:11:51.220 It's real hot and cold.
00:11:52.500 Oh my God.
00:11:52.960 Joe being a Leo makes a lot of sense to me.
00:11:54.460 I wonder what Sophie Turner is.
00:11:55.780 Just out of curiosity.
00:11:57.440 How they balance that.
00:11:58.840 But that was like my biggest like, I'd say like feral energy was towards them.
00:12:03.920 Like I bought everything that they had.
00:12:06.420 And I would celebrate their birthdays.
00:12:08.160 Like my cats or some shit.
00:12:10.220 Like literally like the most fangirl shit ever.
00:12:13.540 With the Jonas Brothers.
00:12:14.580 Yeah.
00:12:15.080 And then I had like.
00:12:16.840 I love it.
00:12:17.040 Once they started kind of dying out a little bit.
00:12:18.900 I was like bummer.
00:12:20.140 Like.
00:12:20.300 But I'm also like 17.
00:12:22.580 So maybe it's time.
00:12:24.260 Let's move on to One Direction.
00:12:25.520 Yeah.
00:12:25.920 And then One Direction came on the scene.
00:12:27.420 And I was like.
00:12:28.120 Damn.
00:12:28.640 I'm like no.
00:12:29.320 Can y'all just go away?
00:12:30.400 And I was like now I need another thing.
00:12:32.560 To be like.
00:12:33.660 To preoccupy my every waking thought.
00:12:36.080 And it has to be like multiple men.
00:12:37.680 It can just be like one pop star.
00:12:39.140 I'm like can you give me a break?
00:12:40.440 Yeah.
00:12:40.820 Give me.
00:12:41.460 It's too much energy.
00:12:42.820 Let me breathe for just a second.
00:12:45.100 Wait.
00:12:45.580 So.
00:12:46.320 You went from.
00:12:48.020 My.
00:12:48.280 Let me just get this straight.
00:12:49.760 My chemical romance.
00:12:50.860 Were you like an emo kid?
00:12:52.240 Yeah.
00:12:52.480 Kind of.
00:12:53.040 Okay.
00:12:53.460 A little.
00:12:54.040 I mean I would say.
00:12:55.040 I shot that Hot Topic a lot.
00:12:56.660 I don't know if that says a lot about me.
00:12:59.080 Spencer.
00:12:59.520 Never released Spencer's.
00:13:00.740 I wasn't allowed to go into Spencer's.
00:13:01.840 Same.
00:13:02.700 My mom was like.
00:13:03.560 You're not allowed to go in there until you're married.
00:13:05.560 And I'm like what?
00:13:06.640 Which made me want to go in there more.
00:13:08.020 She's like it's only for spouses.
00:13:09.520 That's on the sign.
00:13:10.240 You didn't see it.
00:13:10.860 But it's there.
00:13:12.240 Once I turned 16.
00:13:13.320 And I went to the mall with my friends.
00:13:14.640 I'm like we have to go in.
00:13:16.060 Spencer's.
00:13:16.860 You're up.
00:13:17.540 I'm feeling crazy.
00:13:19.000 Yeah.
00:13:19.480 We saw like all of the dildos.
00:13:21.500 And we're like.
00:13:23.440 Girl this is why my mom said to never come here.
00:13:26.100 Run out crying.
00:13:27.760 Call your mom.
00:13:28.580 Yeah.
00:13:29.380 I'm sorry.
00:13:30.960 I'm going to hell.
00:13:33.760 Yeah.
00:13:33.960 I went from one.
00:13:35.340 My carromas to the Jonas Brothers to One Direction.
00:13:38.520 Okay.
00:13:39.160 Okay.
00:13:39.760 Quite a weird jump I would say.
00:13:41.420 Have you always been a fangirl?
00:13:43.320 Yeah.
00:13:47.820 Yes.
00:13:48.700 Yeah.
00:13:49.580 My first actual.
00:13:51.640 Like I was a fangirl for like Spongebob.
00:13:54.420 Oh I love Spongebob.
00:13:57.000 Like.
00:13:57.480 Oh love that.
00:13:58.640 Like I genuinely had every video game.
00:14:02.140 Yeah.
00:14:02.660 I went to every premiere of like a new episode or like one of those specials that they would have.
00:14:08.260 Yeah.
00:14:08.380 Yeah.
00:14:08.500 Yeah.
00:14:08.620 Yeah.
00:14:09.400 And I was.
00:14:10.040 That makes up a good portion of my humor.
00:14:11.880 Spongebob.
00:14:12.720 Easily.
00:14:13.480 If you're not a Spongebob girl like I don't mess with the energy.
00:14:18.260 Like I can like just tell.
00:14:19.620 I don't like this negative energy I'm sensing.
00:14:22.180 I did a Spongebob reference in front of this guy that I liked and he was like.
00:14:26.260 What?
00:14:27.340 And I'm like.
00:14:29.380 I can't even entertain it.
00:14:30.640 Check please.
00:14:31.380 Yeah.
00:14:31.700 No.
00:14:32.100 Seriously.
00:14:32.420 Listen it's not you it's me.
00:14:33.640 I can't stand to be around you.
00:14:35.200 And he like laughed being like what did I do?
00:14:38.000 Like what did I say?
00:14:39.760 We were getting along so great.
00:14:40.580 That's what you didn't say.
00:14:41.520 Yeah.
00:14:42.040 Exactly.
00:14:42.860 I literally like did the tiny violin.
00:14:45.340 Yeah.
00:14:45.680 Because he said something like aww and I was like aww let me just play my tiny violin and
00:14:49.640 he was like what?
00:14:52.140 Damn.
00:14:52.660 Hello?
00:14:53.260 Nothing hurts quite like a missed joke like that.
00:14:56.140 Come on dude.
00:14:57.060 That's a different type of hurt.
00:14:58.360 Like we're the same age.
00:14:59.600 Yeah.
00:14:59.800 How did you not watch Spongebob?
00:15:01.500 I think that too.
00:15:02.440 Or they're like I just didn't find it funny.
00:15:05.180 I don't think it's going to work out.
00:15:06.500 It's like the most hysterical kids show ever.
00:15:09.600 Yeah.
00:15:09.920 With adult humor.
00:15:11.480 Yeah.
00:15:11.740 Every April Fool's I say happy April Fool's you little sausage.
00:15:18.840 Send them to Weenie Hut Juniors.
00:15:20.980 Weenie Hut Juniors.
00:15:21.940 Yeah.
00:15:22.380 We literally make that joke all the time.
00:15:24.100 Super Weenie Hut Juniors.
00:15:25.640 Like I have a sign in my room.
00:15:27.200 Like don't even.
00:15:28.940 Don't even think about it.
00:15:30.220 Don't even.
00:15:30.620 Yeah.
00:15:31.200 No Weenies allowed.
00:15:32.280 Yeah.
00:15:33.420 So it started from there and just gradually grew.
00:15:36.160 Started Spongebob.
00:15:37.500 And then my sister loved the Jonas Brothers.
00:15:40.040 So I kind of was like.
00:15:41.260 Love that.
00:15:41.820 But she also was like an emo older sister.
00:15:44.400 Oh okay.
00:15:44.840 And like loved my chemical romance.
00:15:46.420 Then I got really into Fall Out Boy in fourth grade.
00:15:48.860 We loved Fall Out Boy.
00:15:50.000 My sister and I.
00:15:51.240 I had a Pete Wentz pillowcase.
00:15:54.180 Like genuinely obsessed with Pete Wentz.
00:15:56.740 Short Kings.
00:15:57.600 Short Kings.
00:15:58.600 That meant like 5'2".
00:15:59.520 I'm convinced.
00:16:00.700 What is he doing?
00:16:01.640 Is he still like.
00:16:02.400 No I hope you're doing well.
00:16:03.520 Is Fall Out Boy still a thing?
00:16:05.440 I don't think so.
00:16:06.900 Damn.
00:16:07.860 Panic at the Disco.
00:16:09.460 All of that.
00:16:09.740 Oh my god.
00:16:10.780 Yes.
00:16:11.400 Brendan Urie dude.
00:16:12.980 Mm hmm.
00:16:13.640 So hot.
00:16:17.460 Like yeah.
00:16:18.700 It was like that.
00:16:20.360 Never shout never.
00:16:22.740 Christopher Drew.
00:16:24.460 Oh yeah.
00:16:25.380 The amount of.
00:16:26.160 The amount of like.
00:16:28.000 Oh my god.
00:16:28.580 I hope I never.
00:16:29.700 I hope no one ever finds them.
00:16:31.000 But like.
00:16:31.660 The amount of Facebook posts.
00:16:33.120 Or like.
00:16:33.840 Tweets I would put that were like.
00:16:35.260 Christopher Drew lyrics.
00:16:36.700 And I'd write it as if I wrote it.
00:16:38.300 As if that came from my own.
00:16:39.700 Frontal lobe.
00:16:41.140 And it.
00:16:41.700 Ooh.
00:16:42.320 Yeah.
00:16:42.820 Literally.
00:16:43.160 So you got it off your head.
00:16:45.120 Like literally.
00:16:45.700 The fact that I used.
00:16:46.800 I genuinely thought I'm like.
00:16:48.480 This person is ahead of their time.
00:16:50.560 Yeah.
00:16:51.040 Like lyricist.
00:16:52.280 Like a lyrical genius.
00:16:54.100 Is what I would say.
00:16:54.540 I'm in trouble.
00:16:55.160 I'm an ass.
00:16:55.680 You're like.
00:16:56.320 Me too.
00:16:57.120 I'm addicted to this girl.
00:16:59.860 Me.
00:17:00.560 Me.
00:17:01.460 Oh my god.
00:17:01.820 That's me.
00:17:02.920 He's talking about me.
00:17:05.100 Oh that's so funny.
00:17:06.240 So we both.
00:17:06.700 Yeah.
00:17:07.060 We both.
00:17:08.120 Established that we're big fangirls.
00:17:10.200 Which is perfect.
00:17:11.840 Perfect segue into our topic today.
00:17:13.500 We're going to talk about fangirls.
00:17:14.700 And specifically.
00:17:15.620 How we are tried and true.
00:17:17.960 Right.
00:17:18.140 I would say we're vets.
00:17:19.260 In the area.
00:17:20.480 Yeah.
00:17:21.060 Yeah.
00:17:22.020 I know all too well.
00:17:23.800 Taylor Swift.
00:17:25.780 About being a fangirl.
00:17:27.120 And also we're going to talk about how men treat fangirls.
00:17:30.880 Like the term fangirl.
00:17:32.160 How they stigmatize women.
00:17:33.300 All that fun fun fun stuff.
00:17:36.180 So for those of you that are new.
00:17:38.540 And don't know what we like to do here on the comment section.
00:17:40.800 Is we bring videos that I was tagged in.
00:17:42.720 That are applicable to our topic today.
00:17:44.920 And then we share all the laughs.
00:17:46.460 The goofs.
00:17:47.000 The giggles.
00:17:47.800 We rip them apart.
00:17:48.500 And then we read comments from the comment section.
00:17:50.520 Obviously.
00:17:51.300 So for this first video.
00:17:53.020 I'm just going to give you a little breakdown of it.
00:17:55.020 Okay.
00:17:55.300 But basically it's a girl explaining how being a fangirl could benefit artists.
00:17:59.680 Like I'm assuming we're just talking musicians.
00:18:01.940 Because they can provide knowledge of the fan base.
00:18:04.720 And eventually this knowledge could land you a job in the music industry.
00:18:07.980 So she basically uno reversed being a fangirl.
00:18:11.140 And turned it into a career.
00:18:12.440 Which is a girl boss thing to do.
00:18:14.660 Girl boss.
00:18:15.500 Easily.
00:18:16.100 Using her passion to her advantage.
00:18:18.260 Yeah.
00:18:18.680 Literally.
00:18:19.520 And I feel like a lot of times.
00:18:21.780 I mean you know this too.
00:18:22.920 Because you've been in the game for a while.
00:18:24.240 As far as like being an influencer.
00:18:25.700 But like brands love all female demographics.
00:18:30.100 Because women move units.
00:18:33.040 Women buy shit.
00:18:34.160 Like women.
00:18:34.800 Women follow you to the ends of the earth.
00:18:36.620 And they buy things.
00:18:37.520 Right.
00:18:37.820 So.
00:18:38.200 Yes.
00:18:38.760 They love an all female demographic.
00:18:40.600 So the fact that men talk shit on it.
00:18:42.860 Makes no sense to me.
00:18:44.060 Women move capitalism a lot of times.
00:18:46.500 Yes.
00:18:46.920 We're an integral cog into what's popular.
00:18:49.460 I'll tell you that much.
00:18:50.520 We really are.
00:18:51.000 If you get the girls on your side.
00:18:52.600 You could do anything.
00:18:53.560 They're ride or dies.
00:18:54.600 Forever.
00:18:55.200 No.
00:18:55.520 Truly.
00:18:56.360 Oh my god.
00:18:57.240 Yeah.
00:18:57.900 Look at all the boy bands in the world.
00:18:59.260 Yeah.
00:18:59.900 And like.
00:19:00.900 I.
00:19:01.400 Since I started out as a fangirl.
00:19:03.760 Yeah.
00:19:03.900 Making content.
00:19:04.900 Yeah.
00:19:05.160 And like I gathered a fan base of my own.
00:19:08.820 They were all females loving the same thing for me.
00:19:11.480 It like helped me so much in my growth.
00:19:14.060 Finding community too.
00:19:15.440 Yes.
00:19:15.920 And that's exactly why people become fangirls.
00:19:18.640 Yeah.
00:19:18.740 Is because.
00:19:19.580 They probably feel really out of place in their home life.
00:19:22.120 Or like in school.
00:19:23.560 A lot of people think it's cringy.
00:19:25.560 Yeah.
00:19:25.820 Exactly.
00:19:26.680 And then they just want to find other people that understand.
00:19:29.700 And are like minded.
00:19:30.800 Yeah.
00:19:31.500 And there's nothing wrong with it.
00:19:32.460 I always say like.
00:19:33.460 It's harmless.
00:19:34.580 It doesn't hurt anybody to like.
00:19:36.760 Love.
00:19:37.680 One Direction.
00:19:38.400 For example.
00:19:39.140 Unless it gets.
00:19:40.260 You know.
00:19:41.160 Stalkerish.
00:19:41.800 Unless you're doing that.
00:19:42.920 Unless you're stalking them.
00:19:43.600 I'm talking like normal fangirl shit.
00:19:45.820 Like where you buy all their stuff.
00:19:48.120 And go to all their shows.
00:19:49.840 And there's nothing wrong with that.
00:19:51.260 There's nothing wrong with that.
00:19:51.780 Like stalker Sarah.
00:19:53.020 Is that what you're saying?
00:19:53.560 Remember her?
00:19:54.500 Yeah.
00:19:54.800 TVT.
00:19:55.000 TVT.
00:19:55.120 Yeah, dude.
00:19:55.600 Oh, she's doing well.
00:19:56.800 Dude.
00:19:57.020 I think about her often.
00:20:00.600 Me too.
00:20:01.240 Is she good?
00:20:02.060 She crosses my mind from now.
00:20:03.760 Now.
00:20:04.140 Time and time again.
00:20:05.300 I think.
00:20:05.620 I wonder what she's up to.
00:20:06.860 Yeah.
00:20:07.180 What's like her new fixation now?
00:20:08.840 I would love to know.
00:20:09.900 Talk about hyper fixation.
00:20:11.580 Like BTS?
00:20:12.640 Like is she in the K-pop world now?
00:20:14.040 I think that's the only thing I've never branched into is K-pop.
00:20:17.760 But maybe it's just because I'm older now.
00:20:19.640 But like.
00:20:20.480 That is exactly where my head was at too.
00:20:23.160 Because once one deep.
00:20:24.740 Sorry.
00:20:25.380 Hair.
00:20:25.560 Or once one D ended.
00:20:27.580 I was like.
00:20:28.060 Okay.
00:20:28.480 Well, this is the end of my.
00:20:30.740 I'm going to go be a contributing member of society now.
00:20:34.400 Let me just like try to be a person.
00:20:36.560 Be normal.
00:20:37.740 Yeah.
00:20:38.240 Just kidding.
00:20:39.160 That's.
00:20:39.880 It's normal.
00:20:40.620 It's normal.
00:20:41.500 But it's.
00:20:42.200 It's.
00:20:42.680 You know.
00:20:42.900 That's also a little time consuming.
00:20:44.300 Let me just like find myself.
00:20:46.260 Yeah.
00:20:46.500 Without these men.
00:20:50.020 And then I became roommates with one of my really good friends who I met through One Direction.
00:20:55.180 Yeah.
00:20:55.460 Like she was a Viner too.
00:20:56.680 Yeah.
00:20:57.020 And so.
00:20:57.520 You know Christelle?
00:20:58.360 Yeah.
00:20:58.600 Yeah.
00:20:58.780 Yeah.
00:20:59.120 Yeah.
00:20:59.300 So I met her through Vine and we became really good friends and then we became roommates.
00:21:03.640 And then she's like, have you heard of BTS?
00:21:06.000 And I'm like, yes.
00:21:08.260 Only because all of the 1D fan accounts that I followed all turned into BTS accounts.
00:21:15.300 Overnight.
00:21:15.960 Yeah.
00:21:16.500 My entire timeline is like, Jungcock.
00:21:19.260 Yeah.
00:21:19.700 And I'm like, who is Jungcock?
00:21:21.760 Who?
00:21:22.080 Like, who is this man?
00:21:23.480 Yeah.
00:21:23.840 Yeah.
00:21:23.920 He's a great dancer.
00:21:24.960 But like.
00:21:25.240 Yeah.
00:21:25.440 I didn't follow this page.
00:21:27.860 Yeah.
00:21:28.060 Yeah.
00:21:28.160 Yeah.
00:21:28.400 Yeah.
00:21:28.460 Oh, these are all 1D accounts.
00:21:29.780 Yeah.
00:21:30.500 And she just really sat me down and she was like, I know you're not going to understand
00:21:36.320 anything that they're saying, but just watch how they move.
00:21:39.260 And I'm like, okay, I'm open to it.
00:21:41.880 And like she put the subtitles on and they were actually like really deep and beautiful.
00:21:46.100 Yeah.
00:21:46.500 Yeah.
00:21:46.660 Yeah.
00:21:46.860 And amazing.
00:21:47.840 Yeah.
00:21:48.000 And she's over here like crying and I'm like, wait, I get it.
00:21:51.380 Yeah.
00:21:51.560 I get it.
00:21:52.160 Yeah.
00:21:53.100 But also I'm just, I don't know.
00:21:54.960 I think I'm just at a phase in my life where I just can't fully commit anymore.
00:22:01.100 Same.
00:22:01.560 You know?
00:22:02.160 Yeah.
00:22:02.380 I've punched my card quite a few times over my lifetime.
00:22:05.100 I'm tired.
00:22:05.800 I'm so tired.
00:22:07.040 And I'm busy.
00:22:07.740 Yeah.
00:22:08.040 I have things to do.
00:22:09.000 That's literally what I think.
00:22:09.840 I'm like, if I get into this, I'm not going to be able to stop.
00:22:12.780 So like, it's best that I just not admire from afar.
00:22:16.560 How does your boyfriend feel about the fan girl shit?
00:22:21.340 Did you know him when you were in the thick of it?
00:22:23.320 No, no, not at all.
00:22:24.340 I mean, well, I mean, we went to high school together, but like we were not obviously dating
00:22:28.460 or anything.
00:22:28.900 So he didn't know about like my hyper fixation, I don't think.
00:22:32.940 But I was never shy about it.
00:22:34.280 Like it never intimidated me to tell people.
00:22:36.840 Like I didn't give a fuck.
00:22:37.760 Yeah.
00:22:38.280 But I know he finds it fascinating more than anything.
00:22:42.880 Yeah.
00:22:43.080 Because he's like, that's crazy that like women will like cry or like feel this like
00:22:49.020 deep connection to someone they've never met.
00:22:51.060 But I think that now that I do this for a living, it makes more sense to him because
00:22:55.740 he sees it from the other side.
00:22:57.680 Yeah.
00:22:58.220 But I had told them about my fangirl phase and he was like, that's crazy.
00:23:02.020 Because it's just like, he's a cis hetero man.
00:23:04.740 So he never had anything like that.
00:23:06.260 Like he has no like dying devotion to anyone or anything like that's related to like pop
00:23:13.080 culture.
00:23:13.640 Literally at all.
00:23:14.200 How?
00:23:14.900 I don't know how people exist like that.
00:23:16.680 I genuinely don't.
00:23:17.760 But honestly, the only thing he like genuinely is such a big fan of is Guy Fieri.
00:23:22.300 And that is not a joke.
00:23:23.420 Like if you ever want to come on my show, please tell me.
00:23:25.860 He'll be here.
00:23:26.860 He hasn't come to all 20 of my episodes, but he'll be here.
00:23:29.240 And Guy Fieri comes.
00:23:31.160 Dude.
00:23:31.400 He is such a big fan of him.
00:23:32.720 Next week, I go on your YouTube channel to see Guy Fieri.
00:23:36.560 He literally told, he dead ass told me like, he's the only celebrity.
00:23:40.780 This is way before I did this too.
00:23:42.260 When we were first dating.
00:23:42.960 He's like, he's the only celebrity that I would like need to ask for a picture.
00:23:47.080 And I'd probably get an autograph.
00:23:48.780 Yeah.
00:23:49.100 Because other than that, he's unfazed by literally anybody.
00:23:52.280 Is it like kind of as a joke or does he respect his craft?
00:23:55.680 No, no.
00:23:56.100 He literally respects his craft.
00:23:57.520 Or he thinks he's the smartest, like most, like charismatic, genuine person.
00:24:03.700 Like he's just obsessed with him.
00:24:05.360 Does he like cook himself?
00:24:10.300 And he's like inspired?
00:24:10.600 He likes to cook.
00:24:11.420 Yeah.
00:24:11.680 I mean, he doesn't mind it, but he's just fascinated by he finds him so like energetic and fun.
00:24:17.320 And he just like, he literally told me, he's like, have you ever watched Diners, Drive-Ins, and Dives?
00:24:21.360 Triple D.
00:24:22.040 That's what he kept telling me.
00:24:22.680 Have you ever watched Triple D?
00:24:24.420 I'm all, what the hell are you talking about?
00:24:26.180 He goes, Diners, Drive-Ins, and Dives.
00:24:28.500 He like says it like, yo, he says it on the show.
00:24:30.440 Like it's supposed to mean something to me.
00:24:32.360 I'm like, I don't know what that is.
00:24:34.320 And he showed it to me.
00:24:35.240 He's like, oh, it's the best show ever.
00:24:36.920 He literally signed up for like the Food Network app to show me that show.
00:24:40.800 His notifications on.
00:24:43.080 Yeah.
00:24:43.360 His follow, it's not for me.
00:24:44.800 It's following like Guy Fieri just posted.
00:24:46.980 It's not even me.
00:24:48.100 On every platform.
00:24:49.140 Yeah.
00:24:49.360 I can't like, since I blew up on TikTok, like I've had like several famous people follow me or whatever.
00:24:54.860 None of them really faze him.
00:24:56.180 But then Guy Fieri liked my comment once and it became the top comment on one of his videos.
00:25:00.440 And he was like, please take a picture of it and send it to me.
00:25:02.580 Oh my God.
00:25:03.200 He's like crying.
00:25:04.980 Feetal position.
00:25:05.860 He's like, I'm so happy for us.
00:25:07.040 Oh my God.
00:25:07.520 Oh my God.
00:25:08.320 We made it.
00:25:10.340 That's how you know we've made it.
00:25:11.820 Does he like go on tours and shit?
00:25:13.920 I've literally, this is not a joke.
00:25:16.280 For the last five years I've been dating this dude, every year on his birthday, I Google Guy Fieri tour.
00:25:21.300 Cause I want to see if he's going on tour so I can take him.
00:25:24.280 I've literally, I bought shit from his merch store.
00:25:26.720 I bought his hats.
00:25:28.000 I've bought his like t-shirts, stickers, all kinds of shit.
00:25:31.260 He eats it up.
00:25:32.480 Every time I get to him, he's like, this is the coolest thing I've ever gotten.
00:25:35.720 So he gets it.
00:25:36.840 He gets it.
00:25:37.560 Yeah.
00:25:38.020 He gets it.
00:25:38.940 I've asked him, I'm like, have you ever like fangirled or anyone?
00:25:41.580 And then that was the only guy he could tell me.
00:25:43.240 He was like, that's probably the only guy I would be like, wow.
00:25:45.780 I mean, I get it.
00:25:49.020 Yeah.
00:25:49.300 I get it to an extent.
00:25:50.300 The frosted tips.
00:25:51.180 Oh yeah.
00:25:51.760 The man is so aggressively himself.
00:25:53.800 And I think that's what he likes about him.
00:25:55.420 Yeah.
00:25:55.560 He's never trying to change for nobody.
00:25:57.480 No one.
00:25:57.980 He's just doing his thing.
00:25:59.080 Yeah.
00:25:59.400 Just passionate about food.
00:26:00.560 Yeah.
00:26:00.840 He's just eating.
00:26:03.240 Yeah.
00:26:03.700 Literally.
00:26:04.240 Just eating.
00:26:04.960 Big Raider fan.
00:26:06.000 I know that.
00:26:06.760 Like he's a big Raiders fan.
00:26:07.980 I think he's from Oakland, if I'm not mistaken.
00:26:10.020 If not, he's just a big Raider fan.
00:26:11.660 But like.
00:26:12.000 Okay.
00:26:12.360 Yeah.
00:26:12.720 He's just, I know, I know way too much about Guy Fieri because of my boyfriend, like he's
00:26:18.600 just such a big fan of that dude.
00:26:19.980 I go to your house, there's just books, books on books, your whole bookshelf is filled.
00:26:24.140 No, literally.
00:26:24.880 My sister went through a phase where she was making like coasters and stuff.
00:26:28.940 Like, I forget what you call that.
00:26:30.280 Like, what's, I forget the word for it when you make it, but she.
00:26:33.180 Like pottery?
00:26:34.580 Not pottery.
00:26:35.440 It's like this, it's not ceramic.
00:26:37.220 What's the term?
00:26:38.140 Does anybody know?
00:26:39.140 He's from my name.
00:26:40.020 Resin.
00:26:40.560 Resin.
00:26:40.960 Resin.
00:26:41.320 That's what it is.
00:26:41.740 Yeah.
00:26:41.980 Resin.
00:26:42.360 Yeah.
00:26:42.680 So she went through a resin phase, like during the pandemic, you know, everyone's teaching
00:26:46.200 themselves how to do shit.
00:26:47.200 I was trying to tell herself how to do a bunch of shit, but she made resin.
00:26:50.120 And for like my boyfriend's birthday, she made him like once with Guy Fieri inside them.
00:26:55.000 Stop.
00:26:55.380 Like coasters.
00:26:56.740 Stop it.
00:26:57.560 This is the coolest gift I've ever gotten.
00:26:59.580 Did she paint it or just put him in it?
00:27:01.860 No, it was like, I think like cutouts, like she cut it out and then put it in there and
00:27:05.300 like glassed it over and all that shit.
00:27:07.360 That is sick.
00:27:08.080 I want one.
00:27:08.340 I know they came out so sick.
00:27:10.480 Like I'll send pictures of them so you guys can see them.
00:27:13.540 But yeah, that's just, he's a fangirl at heart too.
00:27:15.940 So he's cool.
00:27:17.040 Yeah.
00:27:17.540 He gets it.
00:27:18.800 He's one of the few guys that get it.
00:27:22.320 That understands.
00:27:23.300 Is that kind of what made you be like, yeah, I like you.
00:27:26.540 You know?
00:27:27.340 You know what?
00:27:27.680 This might work out.
00:27:28.480 Yeah.
00:27:28.720 And you knew him since high school?
00:27:31.140 Yeah.
00:27:31.920 We haven't dated since high school.
00:27:33.600 I always tell people enemies to lovers arc more so.
00:27:36.440 Did you guys like each other?
00:27:37.480 Like.
00:27:37.700 Yeah, we were cool.
00:27:38.540 Okay.
00:27:38.760 We were friends.
00:27:39.640 Okay.
00:27:40.000 We just didn't date.
00:27:41.100 Oh, okay.
00:27:41.580 And then we dated, I think, right after I graduated from college.
00:27:44.460 Then we started dating, I think like three months after that.
00:27:47.280 Cute.
00:27:47.840 Yeah.
00:27:48.040 Did you guys go to the same college?
00:27:49.500 No.
00:27:50.160 Oh.
00:27:50.560 He stayed here in California.
00:27:51.900 He went to APU.
00:27:53.500 And then y'all just came out.
00:27:54.940 Yeah.
00:27:55.120 Found our way back to each other.
00:27:56.500 That's beautiful.
00:27:56.980 So we could bond over Guy Fieri, Triple D.
00:27:59.340 Yes.
00:27:59.800 Over being fangirls.
00:28:01.200 And I love watching all the men that hate you see him.
00:28:06.820 I know, literally.
00:28:08.100 People love that.
00:28:08.420 Like that is so funny and such a flex.
00:28:12.040 Yeah.
00:28:12.500 No pun intended because I know he works out.
00:28:14.640 But like, that is so awesome.
00:28:17.680 Yeah.
00:28:17.760 I can't even imagine how great that feels for you.
00:28:21.980 Yeah, it's good either way.
00:28:23.320 That's why I'm like, either way it's funny.
00:28:24.840 Yeah.
00:28:25.340 It's just.
00:28:25.500 I win either, no matter what.
00:28:26.720 It's just funny.
00:28:27.140 We're just laughing at your expense.
00:28:28.860 Yeah.
00:28:29.440 TBH always.
00:28:30.520 So that's what makes it funny.
00:28:31.940 But back to this video.
00:28:33.780 Yes.
00:28:34.380 Oh, God.
00:28:34.880 Some of these comments.
00:28:35.920 Yeah.
00:28:36.160 No, we're totally fine.
00:28:37.780 So it says, hold up.
00:28:39.680 Is anyone going to debate rather that this is just fangirl or stalkerish?
00:28:44.980 This kind of freaks me out, but I'm happy for you.
00:28:48.220 I'm happy for you, but this is borderline.
00:28:50.720 Like turning your fangirl into a job?
00:28:54.000 Yeah.
00:28:54.280 And a passion?
00:28:55.620 There's nothing stalkerish about that.
00:28:57.080 I think that's men convincing you that it's being a stalker.
00:29:00.540 I absolutely agree.
00:29:01.920 Like, I think that that's perfect because they know how the industry works.
00:29:05.700 Yeah, exactly.
00:29:06.660 They're passionate.
00:29:07.620 They want the best for these people.
00:29:09.440 And they know what the girls are going to like.
00:29:11.020 They know exactly what the girls want.
00:29:12.840 It's going to foster the career and yours as well because you're going to bring good ideas.
00:29:16.760 You're going to bring great ideas and you're going to keep the money flowing in.
00:29:20.900 Well, and I also think, too, like diehard fans of someone like Harry Styles, for example,
00:29:25.500 like if they started working for him, it's more so they just want to see him do well more than anything.
00:29:31.200 Yes.
00:29:31.380 I think a lot of times men equate it to like sexual attraction, which I'm not saying isn't there,
00:29:37.480 but it's not the driving force a lot of times.
00:29:40.380 But that's because that's how men see women.
00:29:42.520 Yeah.
00:29:43.060 That they like, they're always, they see them as sexual objects.
00:29:45.980 Whereas like women a lot of times are like, I just want to see him be happy.
00:29:49.400 Yes.
00:29:50.120 Which is what keeps you famous if we're being real.
00:29:53.080 Oh my God, that is so true.
00:29:55.280 Like men cannot get that in their heads.
00:29:57.520 No, yeah, never.
00:29:58.280 That we don't look at men like that.
00:30:00.560 Like, yeah, it's there, but it's not the driving force behind the dedication.
00:30:05.820 I feel like once you kind of like feel the energy and like know them as a person,
00:30:09.700 then the attraction starts coming in.
00:30:11.540 Exactly.
00:30:11.960 Like there's an initial, like a, there's like a physical attraction initially, but then
00:30:17.980 to get you to buy shit, it's got to be more than that.
00:30:20.960 You know what I'm saying?
00:30:21.580 Like if I'm going to buy a t-shirt with your face on it, I got to like more than what you
00:30:25.500 look like.
00:30:26.260 You know what I mean?
00:30:26.940 It's like this, like you ever talked to a fangirl?
00:30:29.100 They're like, I just know they're such a good person and they work really hard and they're
00:30:33.540 so talented.
00:30:34.160 Like it has nothing to do with looks.
00:30:35.620 It's just inspiring.
00:30:36.740 Yeah, it's inspiring.
00:30:38.100 It's inspiring because a lot of the time fangirls can look at them and be like, oh, these are
00:30:43.780 normal people.
00:30:45.800 Yeah.
00:30:46.180 These are not like aliens.
00:30:47.780 Like I could do that too if I wanted.
00:30:50.240 Exactly.
00:30:50.780 And the fact that they're doing it.
00:30:51.880 And also the guys that get so weird about fangirls, especially like with musicians.
00:30:57.260 Yeah.
00:30:57.560 They're just mad because they can't sing and they can't hit a high C.
00:31:03.320 It's just jealousy more than anything.
00:31:05.940 You can't hit those falsetto notes.
00:31:07.500 Yeah.
00:31:07.700 I'm like, you're just mad because he's, he's like raking in bitches.
00:31:11.200 Like truly, like he's just like a vacuum, just sucking them all in.
00:31:15.580 And he doesn't have to do much.
00:31:17.080 Like, have you seen that?
00:31:17.820 I don't, probably not.
00:31:18.740 Cause I'm the only person who is so lucky as to get this shit ass content.
00:31:22.940 Yeah.
00:31:23.480 Your for you page sounds like a nightmare.
00:31:25.320 Thankfully my for you page is not that bad.
00:31:28.760 Okay.
00:31:29.100 But my mentions are dumpster fire.
00:31:30.900 Like it's a hot garbage in there.
00:31:33.700 It's like a big load in there.
00:31:35.100 But every time I go in there, I'll see ones that are like trends when they're like, um,
00:31:40.220 in case you ever feel it's gym bros, like the worst dudes in the world.
00:31:43.640 They're like, um, but my biggest fans, uh, they're literally like, if you ever feel bad
00:31:49.160 about yourself, um, just remember that girls, a lot of girls like this dude.
00:31:54.320 And it's literally that picture of Harry Styles.
00:31:56.260 You remember his Halloween shows when he dressed up as Dorothy?
00:31:59.240 Oh yeah.
00:31:59.800 It's that one picture they're using.
00:32:02.100 And I'm like, is this supposed to be like a, and then it cuts to them and they're like
00:32:05.380 flexing in a, Oh my God.
00:32:08.020 No.
00:32:08.660 Like literal, like stringer.
00:32:10.620 The one that comes between the titties.
00:32:12.040 So like nipples are out rock hard.
00:32:13.860 It just transitions into that.
00:32:15.680 Yeah.
00:32:15.900 It's them flexing in a mirror, like with the saturation all the way down, the like brightness
00:32:21.400 all the way down.
00:32:22.660 And it's like some terrible dubstep song on the end.
00:32:26.280 He is so mad that he cannot sing or dance or draw a crowd of thousands of people or just
00:32:32.880 get anyone to talk to him or his mom or dentist, like anyone with a vagina.
00:32:39.540 She's like, nothing.
00:32:40.220 His dentist doesn't even want to talk to him.
00:32:41.640 She's like, close your mouth.
00:32:42.860 Yeah.
00:32:43.220 Like literally I'm, I genuinely see that and I'm like, you can't be serious, bro.
00:32:47.940 Oh, that's so sad.
00:32:49.400 This is hater shit.
00:32:50.640 I'm like, this is hater raid.
00:32:52.100 Like in its purest form is you being like all these bitches, like this guy.
00:32:57.340 Yeah.
00:32:57.680 Cause he's fun.
00:32:58.920 This man in dress.
00:33:00.660 Cause he has a personality.
00:33:03.740 That's why I was like, don't you think I literally, I talked about this with Brittany
00:33:06.560 when she was here too, but I saw one also that was like, uh, girls are like losing
00:33:10.900 it over men like Pete Davidson and Jack Harlow and y'all are still going to the gym at four
00:33:15.560 in the morning.
00:33:16.060 Like we need to re-strategize, bro.
00:33:18.080 Like we need to come up with another plan of action because this isn't working anymore.
00:33:22.700 Get a hobby.
00:33:26.040 Experience the world.
00:33:27.820 But like fangirls are the problem when you be making shit like that.
00:33:31.020 I'm like, what's the difference between that and like you jerking it to Joe Rogan?
00:33:35.380 Like what's the difference?
00:33:35.880 Jerking it to yourself in the mirror after you're done working out.
00:33:38.960 What's the difference between that and you watching like Jordan Peterson?
00:33:42.540 So is, is someone who watches Joe Rogan like a turnoff?
00:33:47.080 A dude?
00:33:47.520 Yeah.
00:33:47.820 Just like, that's a red flag.
00:33:49.320 It's one thing if they're just like, I'm interested to see what this dude has to say.
00:33:53.040 It's another if they're like, he's the greatest podcast host in the world.
00:33:56.380 Like he's truly the smartest man alive.
00:33:58.620 Like that?
00:34:00.000 I'm all the men that was telling you to eat like horse tranquilizers to get rid of it.
00:34:03.820 Yeah.
00:34:04.440 That's the guy.
00:34:05.140 He made me try ayahuasca.
00:34:07.340 Really changed me.
00:34:08.320 That's the guy, huh?
00:34:09.580 Joe Rogan saved my life.
00:34:11.040 That's why I-
00:34:11.400 Because he told me to do ketamine.
00:34:12.740 I literally-
00:34:13.180 Okay.
00:34:14.700 I literally made fun of Joe Rogan one time in one of my videos.
00:34:18.900 Never heard the end of it.
00:34:20.680 They go hard as hell for him.
00:34:23.160 And I said, that's called being a fangirl.
00:34:25.980 Right there.
00:34:26.820 That's that ride or die energy.
00:34:28.320 That's fangirl energy, babe.
00:34:29.820 That is so true.
00:34:31.640 That's you being a fangirl, bitch.
00:34:34.820 Like that's how I'm like-
00:34:35.640 That's you being passionate about a human.
00:34:37.560 Yeah.
00:34:37.800 And wanting to be them.
00:34:38.740 Yeah.
00:34:38.880 Like they're like, you don't know him.
00:34:40.380 I'm like, neither do you.
00:34:41.900 You and I are operating from ground zero, bitch.
00:34:44.020 I know just as much as you do about him.
00:34:46.620 That is such a good comparison.
00:34:48.940 Yeah.
00:34:49.120 It's the same thing.
00:34:50.440 Oh.
00:34:50.620 I always think that's why when they're like, oh, it's just creepy.
00:34:53.320 I'm like, what's the difference?
00:34:55.200 Like that man's in his fifties.
00:34:57.720 If you want to talk about what's weird, that's pretty weird.
00:35:00.220 And all he does is sit there and just like talk.
00:35:03.000 And scream.
00:35:03.520 Yeah.
00:35:03.900 And scream.
00:35:04.280 I literally said, just because you're loud doesn't mean you're right.
00:35:07.220 Yeah.
00:35:07.600 I mean, I could scream over people too.
00:35:09.420 It doesn't make me the best podcast host in the world.
00:35:12.420 Number one.
00:35:13.660 Oh my God, dude.
00:35:15.160 I mean, I think he actually is number one, but more so him being a terrible person is what I'm talking about.
00:35:21.000 Oh my God.
00:35:21.500 No, but that's so true.
00:35:22.560 That comparison, because like every guy that I've talked to, because I just got out of a three year relationship.
00:35:28.360 So I'm just like trying to feel it out.
00:35:31.060 Yeah.
00:35:31.300 Entering slowly.
00:35:32.400 Yeah.
00:35:32.800 And then there's there would be like a long period of time, like a long car ride we would go on.
00:35:37.080 And then he would turn on Joe.
00:35:38.640 And I'm like, can we just open the car and roll out?
00:35:42.200 Yes.
00:35:42.760 That's what I want to know.
00:35:44.240 We'll need to stop.
00:35:45.480 Stop, drop and roll.
00:35:47.000 Run me over.
00:35:48.220 No, truly.
00:35:48.700 People sometimes now people literally use me as a litmus.
00:35:53.720 They ask men, like, do you watch?
00:35:56.000 Have you ever heard of Drew?
00:35:56.680 No way.
00:35:57.920 And then I've literally had girls like someone last night commented on one of my TikToks and said, my soon to be ex-husband used to hate when I watched you.
00:36:07.600 And that should have been my first red flag.
00:36:10.260 I literally have girls putting me in their Tinder bios.
00:36:13.600 If you don't like Drew, swipe left on me.
00:36:16.820 No way.
00:36:17.500 And that's called being a fangirl.
00:36:20.020 They care about you that much?
00:36:21.700 You're in their Tinder bio?
00:36:23.620 Yeah.
00:36:23.900 Like my girls, like my girls are like, if you don't like her, swipe left on me.
00:36:28.580 Oh, the girls say that.
00:36:30.120 Oh, I thought you meant the guys said that.
00:36:31.520 No, some guys do that.
00:36:32.420 They're like, if you like this fat bitch, then don't even bother.
00:36:35.800 Swipe left.
00:36:36.380 You swipe and like you're in one of the pictures.
00:36:39.320 Like, oh my God.
00:36:40.720 No, you scroll down and right below it, it says five, six.
00:36:43.920 Oh my God.
00:36:44.360 That checks out.
00:36:45.280 That tracks, buddy.
00:36:46.380 Yeah.
00:36:47.140 I'm not surprised.
00:36:48.300 Oh my God.
00:36:49.340 Yeah, my girls, they ride hard for me.
00:36:51.600 They really do.
00:36:52.820 And I bet they appreciate that so much because you are one of the first people that I've seen
00:36:59.740 that is really trying to make a difference.
00:37:02.000 Oh, thank you.
00:37:02.660 And you're like really out here just trying to wake a lot of these girls up.
00:37:06.820 Like, your boyfriends suck and they're manipulative.
00:37:11.620 Yeah, it's crazy.
00:37:12.740 And they're gaslighting.
00:37:13.580 Like, oh my God, you're dating someone like this?
00:37:16.400 Yeah, sometimes girls message me like when I do Q&As every now and then.
00:37:21.000 They'll ask me like, my boyfriend likes when I send him pictures of what I wear before
00:37:27.080 I go out.
00:37:28.000 Do you think that's a bad thing?
00:37:31.360 Yeah, I do.
00:37:33.840 Or when they're like, you can't wear that.
00:37:35.800 Yeah, they're like, what should I do?
00:37:37.140 Break up with him.
00:37:38.840 Break up with him.
00:37:39.480 I literally tell, dump him.
00:37:40.900 Literally abandon him tonight.
00:37:42.300 Pack your shit and leave.
00:37:43.200 And they're like, don't tell him.
00:37:43.880 Okay, queen.
00:37:44.480 Yeah.
00:37:46.400 They're like, got it.
00:37:48.800 They send you a picture of boxes of them moving out.
00:37:52.780 I've had several women tell me they left active relationships they were in after watching
00:37:58.320 my stuff.
00:37:59.280 That is what I'm talking about.
00:38:01.820 Yeah, and I'm telling you, I'm like, raise that bar, babe.
00:38:04.900 Take it out of hell.
00:38:05.760 I promise you, someone will meet it.
00:38:07.340 It's just going to take a little bit.
00:38:08.280 Because you do it in such like a cutthroat way.
00:38:11.280 Yeah.
00:38:11.580 And you have such like a beautiful delivery, too.
00:38:14.240 It's just so, you make it just so funny and enjoyable.
00:38:18.120 And like, there's no way that a guy can watch that.
00:38:22.440 And everything you're saying is fact.
00:38:24.520 Like, everything you're saying is very psychologically driven.
00:38:28.680 Yeah.
00:38:29.220 And it's just like smart.
00:38:31.520 And their only comeback is just like, oh, so you're body shaming me?
00:38:35.700 After I said a litany of other things.
00:38:37.600 I said all kinds of other things.
00:38:39.660 And I'm like, that's all you got from that, huh?
00:38:41.720 I said, the ear only hears what it wants to hear.
00:38:43.800 That's called selective hearing.
00:38:44.940 You didn't hear anything else I said because you're upset that you're 5'2".
00:38:49.240 And that's not my fault, babe.
00:38:50.780 Oh, my God.
00:38:51.300 I can't control whether or not you work at Circle K.
00:38:54.860 That's not my fault, babe.
00:38:56.600 Ross.
00:38:57.240 Yeah, you work at Sonic and somehow that's on me?
00:39:01.140 That's on me that you have to wear rollerblades to work?
00:39:04.220 Ah, you're literally rollerblading to work.
00:39:06.360 That's what I said, babe.
00:39:07.600 And you're falling over.
00:39:08.860 It's not my fault.
00:39:09.440 You work at the bowling alley and that's not my fault.
00:39:12.480 Listen, we all make choices in life.
00:39:14.280 Hey.
00:39:14.980 Listen.
00:39:15.840 Oh, my God.
00:39:16.200 I'm not judging.
00:39:17.360 I'm just saying you don't deserve this, bitch.
00:39:18.980 That's what I'm saying.
00:39:20.420 Exactly.
00:39:21.820 Yeah.
00:39:22.020 Yeah.
00:39:22.540 So I think, again, too, back to Harry Styles, like, that's a huge jealousy thing, too,
00:39:28.640 because he has money, power, influence.
00:39:31.180 He's conventionally attractive.
00:39:32.340 Mm-hmm.
00:39:33.020 And he's talented.
00:39:33.980 Like, he's earned all his fame and glory.
00:39:37.540 And he balanced and perfected the two energies of masculine and feminine energy.
00:39:44.280 Yeah, exactly.
00:39:44.660 And he blended it beautifully.
00:39:46.780 And a lot of guys do not know how to tap into their feminine side.
00:39:50.400 Oh, yeah.
00:39:50.740 Because they were taught that they could never do that.
00:39:52.680 And that's what women want.
00:39:54.080 That's what women want.
00:39:55.160 Women are looking for that.
00:39:56.080 They're, like, searching for it.
00:39:57.160 And they're like, you're telling me that these muscle bob buff pants arms are not enough
00:40:03.580 to keep this bitch here?
00:40:05.720 You're telling me I've got to be nice to you, too?
00:40:08.440 What else do you want?
00:40:09.760 Oh.
00:40:10.300 You wanted, first you wanted to vote.
00:40:12.260 And then you want to own your own debit card.
00:40:15.300 Now this.
00:40:16.640 Now I have to be nice on top of that.
00:40:19.120 That's literally, like.
00:40:19.980 And you want to work and have a career?
00:40:22.900 Like, what is this?
00:40:24.000 Oh, and you don't want to have kids?
00:40:25.400 Yeah, they're like.
00:40:26.040 Or cook for me?
00:40:27.180 They're like, where does it end?
00:40:29.200 How selfish are you going to be, bitch?
00:40:31.120 Oh, my God.
00:40:31.620 They're so mad.
00:40:31.900 It sounds like it's all about you.
00:40:33.040 That's what I always, and that's why I'm saying, like, when men like that say shit
00:40:35.800 like that, I'm like, then die alone, bro.
00:40:39.400 I don't know what to tell you.
00:40:40.560 Like, you're going to die alone.
00:40:41.780 Let that lineage die out with you.
00:40:43.380 Yeah.
00:40:43.760 Don't procreate.
00:40:44.920 Do us all a favor.
00:40:45.860 Were you like this with, like, your actual homegirls in real life?
00:40:49.900 Like, when they had toxic boyfriends?
00:40:51.600 Oh, yeah.
00:40:51.880 Would you go off to?
00:40:53.940 Oh, yeah.
00:40:54.520 All the time.
00:40:55.220 I tell them I don't like him.
00:40:56.800 Period.
00:40:57.160 Why?
00:40:57.560 Well, he's an asshole.
00:40:59.020 Like, I would literally tell them he's not good.
00:41:00.980 He's, like, a bad guy.
00:41:02.140 Why?
00:41:02.820 And I would tell them exactly why, and they're like, well.
00:41:05.280 And sometimes my girls would tell me, like, I feel like you're too picky.
00:41:08.320 And I'm like, I don't want to date someone who doesn't know that the word, like, unfunny
00:41:16.200 is a word.
00:41:17.200 Yeah.
00:41:17.520 You know what I'm saying?
00:41:18.200 Like, I don't want to date someone that thinks, what's the word?
00:41:20.740 Conversated is a word.
00:41:22.180 Yeah.
00:41:22.880 I don't want to date someone like that.
00:41:24.000 And someone who actively refers to women as females or bitches.
00:41:29.320 My thing with females.
00:41:30.640 See, the thing about you females.
00:41:32.080 Nope.
00:41:32.940 Cut off.
00:41:33.620 Immediately.
00:41:34.240 Cut off.
00:41:34.800 Nope.
00:41:35.380 I don't want to hear one more thing you have to say.
00:41:37.660 I don't need to hear it, dude.
00:41:39.140 I always say, I'm like, I don't have to hear it.
00:41:40.940 And sometimes people are like, why don't you talk to, why don't you have, like, an open
00:41:45.240 discussion, whatever, a debate?
00:41:46.940 For what?
00:41:47.620 For what?
00:41:48.120 What do I get out of that besides migraines?
00:41:50.140 I get nothing out of that.
00:41:51.520 Literally.
00:41:52.440 And also, like, a lot of the things with my friends, too, because I'm the same way, because
00:41:56.040 I'm like, you can do better, sis.
00:41:57.960 Yeah, literally.
00:41:58.800 They're always like, but his trauma, like, this is why he's like this.
00:42:03.120 Like, and I'm like, I get that.
00:42:04.700 So you're doing emotional labor on top of it?
00:42:06.840 So you're going to be his therapist, too?
00:42:08.740 Is he paying you?
00:42:09.640 Because if not, this ain't worth it.
00:42:11.420 Ugh!
00:42:12.400 Are you getting paid the amount of money that a therapist would make off him?
00:42:16.820 Nope.
00:42:17.380 And they're like, he's going to therapy.
00:42:19.080 And it's like, when?
00:42:20.280 Let's call them now.
00:42:21.400 What's his insurance?
00:42:22.580 Allegedly.
00:42:23.160 Yeah.
00:42:23.400 Have you ever seen him, like, actually go?
00:42:27.260 Do we have to hold his hand and walk him?
00:42:28.400 Honestly, men like that who are aware of stuff like that are more dangerous to me than, like,
00:42:33.500 a meathead.
00:42:34.500 Because a meathead just is like, emotions, never heard of them, except anger, but that's
00:42:38.620 not an emotion.
00:42:39.660 But, like, men who are emotionally cognizant and still like that, infinitely worse.
00:42:44.280 Ooh, where they just go to therapy to learn how to be manipulative?
00:42:48.680 That's Batman villain shit.
00:42:50.360 Dude, and that happens.
00:42:51.860 Like, okay, the Riddler.
00:42:53.400 Like, get out of here, bro.
00:42:54.740 Like, learning the, it's like, keep your enemies close.
00:42:57.720 Yeah.
00:42:58.140 My sister's a therapist and she refuses to have male clients for that reason.
00:43:03.460 Good for her.
00:43:03.840 Yeah.
00:43:04.260 Good for her.
00:43:04.940 I would do the same shit.
00:43:06.240 Yeah.
00:43:06.840 Honestly.
00:43:07.340 So, for this next video, we have, again, a breakdown of it.
00:43:11.900 It's a girl calling out that guys make fun of girls for always being a big fangirl, which
00:43:18.020 is typical.
00:43:18.680 We talked about that.
00:43:19.800 Over artists, but they go all out for sports.
00:43:22.880 And there's, like, a bunch of pictures she's putting in there of men, like, absolutely losing
00:43:27.820 their marbles at, like, any sports game, which I've also said, too, is, like, hilarious
00:43:33.560 to me.
00:43:34.280 So funny.
00:43:35.100 You want to talk about a fangirl.
00:43:37.440 Like, literally, men, like, play fantasy football.
00:43:43.320 Like, they pretend to manage a football team and they want to talk about how we're nuts.
00:43:47.160 They play a game of spreadsheets and they're like, you girls are, you bitches are crazy.
00:43:53.040 And if you, like, are like, hey, bitch, shut up.
00:43:55.500 Like, literally, you cannot bother them.
00:43:57.660 Yeah.
00:43:57.880 They, like, don't shower and stuff, like, during season and all that.
00:44:02.180 And if, God forbid, you're watching the game with a man.
00:44:06.020 Yeah.
00:44:06.400 And you, like, ask him one question.
00:44:08.740 He's like, wait till the commercial.
00:44:10.060 Like, I can't.
00:44:11.240 Like, there's locked in that.
00:44:13.180 Yeah.
00:44:13.780 For what?
00:44:14.640 I used to watch football with my dad all the time because he's a professional footballer.
00:44:17.900 He used to be a professional footballer.
00:44:18.700 I heard you saying that.
00:44:19.920 Mine, too.
00:44:20.520 Yes.
00:44:20.880 Twins.
00:44:21.240 Twins.
00:44:21.280 Twins.
00:44:21.360 Twins.
00:44:23.260 No, but I used to watch it because he's the one who, like, taught me what it was.
00:44:27.140 Yeah.
00:44:27.400 And even him explaining it to me, now that I know the game, I'm still just like, why do they have
00:44:31.700 to pause every five seconds and, like, why is that enjoyable?
00:44:36.940 No, literally.
00:44:37.780 It's like, ooh, action for, like, three seconds and then stops.
00:44:42.120 Action.
00:44:43.780 It's like, ooh, tackling each other and then stops for two minutes.
00:44:47.620 And you know what's crazy about that, too, is, like, the men who absolutely, like, lose their minds.
00:44:54.400 Like, they get so hard for football players.
00:44:56.820 Like, truly, they're, like, unintelligible because that's how much they love.
00:45:01.220 The game or the players, we both, our dads are both former professional football players, right?
00:45:06.960 We can, we're experts on this.
00:45:08.920 We can vouch for it.
00:45:10.400 Nine times out of ten, the men who act like that never at any point could have been a football player.
00:45:16.680 They don't have it.
00:45:17.920 Listen, you don't have it.
00:45:19.160 If no one's told you, I'm going to tell you, you don't have it.
00:45:21.500 You never had it.
00:45:22.400 You never can have it.
00:45:23.660 You're never going to be a famous football player, ever.
00:45:25.940 And that's okay.
00:45:26.760 And that's okay.
00:45:27.900 Listen, we all have our strengths.
00:45:29.360 Hey, I'm never going to be Ariana Grande.
00:45:32.980 But I can still, like, respectfully watch her and like her.
00:45:35.940 Yeah, and I'm not going to shit on people who don't like her.
00:45:38.880 Like, I mean, I'm going to be, I'm still going to like her, not out of, like, hatred or jealousy.
00:45:43.440 Yeah.
00:45:44.240 I think that all the time.
00:45:45.040 I'm like, if I could pick a talent, I would pick singing, and I would want to sing like her because that would be wild.
00:45:49.580 Yeah, of course.
00:45:50.900 I can't even imagine.
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00:46:52.560 Like, I literally laugh because of the dudes who take that shit way too serious.
00:46:56.800 Like, I made a video about this once.
00:46:58.220 I've never, never been lit up or attempted to be lit up so much by dudes when I said, like, what's crazy is when they recount games to you.
00:47:09.400 Like, think about the worst dude you know who loves football or basketball, baseball, whatever.
00:47:12.660 Got it.
00:47:12.960 He's an Aries.
00:47:13.400 Right?
00:47:14.460 Aren't they always?
00:47:15.440 Oh, my God.
00:47:16.520 Oh, Jesus Christ.
00:47:18.160 But they literally, like, let's say they lost a game and they're upset.
00:47:21.960 When they're recounting it to you, they're going, this is what we need to do.
00:47:26.440 Who's we?
00:47:27.120 We?
00:47:29.620 Babe, you're not on the team, bitch.
00:47:31.260 Like, I literally go, you're not on the team.
00:47:33.040 You don't manage.
00:47:33.480 Like, he's like, this is our new strategy.
00:47:35.900 Our?
00:47:36.500 He has a whiteboard.
00:47:38.520 They do.
00:47:39.460 They're like, this is where we messed up.
00:47:42.000 Who's we, bitch?
00:47:43.740 And I always think, what are the odds you know and Pete Carroll doesn't?
00:47:49.000 Oh.
00:47:49.380 What are the odds that you know?
00:47:51.960 Oh, my God.
00:47:53.360 And, like, Jim Harbaugh doesn't.
00:47:55.300 Like, what are the odds, bitch?
00:47:56.520 What are the odds?
00:47:57.860 Like, imagine if me and you were at a concert and one of the people performing just didn't
00:48:02.840 hit the note.
00:48:03.440 And we were like, here's what we need to do.
00:48:05.240 This is how we get better.
00:48:06.600 We strategize.
00:48:07.880 This is what we do.
00:48:08.720 In the crowd.
00:48:09.180 Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.
00:48:10.440 I start hitting scales.
00:48:13.260 I have a little harmonica.
00:48:16.040 This is where we're starting.
00:48:16.940 I'm all, meet me up here.
00:48:18.300 Meet me up here.
00:48:19.820 It's like, where does that God complex come for them?
00:48:24.900 That's what I'm saying.
00:48:26.300 It's literal.
00:48:27.000 It's delusion is what it is.
00:48:28.460 Like, literal delusion.
00:48:29.560 That's, talk about being, like, completely wrapped up in a fantasy.
00:48:34.580 Like, it's believing that your opinion matters.
00:48:37.960 And just to, like, hit a man.
00:48:41.440 Just to run into a man.
00:48:43.120 And you just think, like, it's the same dude who's like, if I didn't tear my ACL in high
00:48:47.260 school, that could have been me.
00:48:48.840 The odds are, listen, if you had the two best knees in the world, it wouldn't have been you.
00:48:53.020 Like, I could promise.
00:48:54.480 I literally, sometimes I'll tell dudes, I'm like, me in this outfit, I would have a higher
00:48:58.340 likelihood of making it to the NFL than you.
00:49:01.120 I could do a slam dunk right now.
00:49:02.620 Than if you prepared for a year, me in this outfit right now, I'd have a higher likelihood.
00:49:07.240 Oh my God.
00:49:08.020 It's just like genetics.
00:49:09.380 Especially, exactly.
00:49:10.360 Like, it's athleticism.
00:49:11.420 Dude, me doing flat, like, powder puff football in high school, all of the guys on the football
00:49:18.340 team that were, like, our coaches were like, oh shit, Basco.
00:49:21.780 Like, I'm like, maybe I do get football.
00:49:25.280 It's kind of fun.
00:49:27.240 They're like, she's not like the other girls.
00:49:29.160 They invite me on the team.
00:49:30.720 And I'm like, no.
00:49:31.840 I hate this.
00:49:32.840 You're like, nah, I'm good.
00:49:33.620 I'm busy.
00:49:34.240 Sorry.
00:49:35.500 It's so, like, it's the ultimate, I think, version of being a fangirl is, like, being,
00:49:40.580 like, so addicted to sports and, like, watching it and all of that.
00:49:44.600 Yeah.
00:49:45.160 I just can't imagine.
00:49:46.840 And, like, going to, like, the high school football team.
00:49:51.000 When you're, like, well over the age.
00:49:53.680 No, and they, yeah.
00:49:54.880 When you can legally drink.
00:49:55.760 They always come back.
00:49:56.600 They have their Letterman jackets on.
00:49:58.860 Like, they're just, like, reliving it.
00:50:00.480 But then, also, the high school football players, like, God bless them.
00:50:03.540 They're just kids.
00:50:04.260 This is cute.
00:50:04.920 But, like, they walk out on that field and they're just, like, oh, yeah.
00:50:09.800 Like, I'm in the freaking NFL.
00:50:12.120 Like, let's go.
00:50:13.320 Sometimes I think they're, like, it's just, like, I don't know.
00:50:16.720 I just feel like maybe you're not surrounded by people who don't lie to you all the time.
00:50:20.820 Because, like, let me tell you something about my family.
00:50:23.160 My family will keep me humble.
00:50:24.700 I'll tell you that much.
00:50:25.520 If I wanted to sing and I sang and my mom was, like, that sounded like shit.
00:50:30.280 But, listen, you know what?
00:50:32.420 We could do something else.
00:50:33.460 Like, my mom is so real, bro.
00:50:35.660 Like, my sister would tell me the same shit.
00:50:37.180 You send her a video of you singing and she auto-tunes it for you.
00:50:40.600 She just gives it a thumbs down.
00:50:42.920 It's a no from me, dog.
00:50:44.440 What she says.
00:50:45.320 You know what?
00:50:45.940 No.
00:50:46.840 But I like your confidence.
00:50:48.300 Like, that's literally, I'm telling you, the realest people.
00:50:51.520 But that's, that's.
00:50:52.680 That's what you need.
00:50:53.500 That's loyal.
00:50:53.780 That's good.
00:50:54.280 That's what you need.
00:50:55.520 That's good.
00:50:55.980 It's okay.
00:50:56.400 Yes, it's going to hurt.
00:50:58.160 But sometimes, self, I always think, like, self-confidence is important.
00:51:01.780 But self-awareness is pivotal to, like, exist in the world.
00:51:06.240 I feel like you do have to be aware.
00:51:07.740 Like, what am I good at?
00:51:08.600 What am I not good at?
00:51:09.440 Like, I always, I've said this before.
00:51:11.020 Like, I'm okay knowing that there's only one Beyonce.
00:51:14.380 Like, I'm okay with that.
00:51:16.060 Like, it's, I don't need to be her.
00:51:17.320 I would have a stroke if I did that choreo.
00:51:21.360 No.
00:51:21.720 I'm literally, like, it's okay.
00:51:22.640 I don't need to be her because she's, she's one in a million.
00:51:26.180 She's Beyonce.
00:51:27.460 That's what I'm saying.
00:51:28.300 Like, like, some of these dudes are literally, like, convinced.
00:51:31.660 Your name is Jack.
00:51:32.740 Like, literally, if they were in the crowd, right?
00:51:35.160 Like, let's say they're, let's say they're in the crowd and Tom Brady gets hurt.
00:51:39.380 And he's like, you, come down here.
00:51:42.840 Come play.
00:51:43.520 They're convinced they could do it.
00:51:45.460 I swear to God.
00:51:47.500 You want to talk about a fangirl delusion?
00:51:49.820 It doesn't know anything worse than that.
00:51:52.660 Like, that's.
00:51:52.940 Hey, coach, switch me out.
00:51:53.700 Yeah, they're literally, like, if he put me in there, you would be dead.
00:51:58.480 Like, I literally think, like, you're 5'6", bro.
00:52:01.080 Like, you would never survive.
00:52:03.280 The shortest dude on their team is 6'4".
00:52:05.640 Like, literally, dude.
00:52:08.140 Like, they genuinely think, like, if I was in the crowd and he looked at me and he brought
00:52:12.460 me down there, like, I could have, like, I could have made that catch.
00:52:14.820 I could have done that better.
00:52:15.620 I knew exactly what he did wrong.
00:52:16.860 I could have ran the route.
00:52:18.060 Like, literally, that could, I could have done it.
00:52:20.020 And when a play goes wrong, they're like, oh, what are you doing, man?
00:52:23.860 What was that?
00:52:25.360 Oh, my God.
00:52:26.040 They're like, give me the ball.
00:52:26.800 I'll show you how it should have been done.
00:52:28.060 Throw it to me.
00:52:29.320 Literally, I'm like this.
00:52:30.380 Like, I don't even.
00:52:32.640 That's why it kills me.
00:52:34.040 It kills me watching them obsess like that.
00:52:36.540 It kills me.
00:52:37.420 And we both had dads play in the league.
00:52:39.040 So, like, I've seen both sides.
00:52:40.960 I worked in sports for a long time, too.
00:52:42.980 Yes.
00:52:43.460 They're just, like, a different breed of athleticism.
00:52:45.820 Like, it's on another level.
00:52:47.700 Like, it's something you could never touch, truly.
00:52:50.340 Like.
00:52:50.580 And being, like, the girlfriend of someone like that, I can't even.
00:52:54.760 Can't imagine.
00:52:55.580 The anxiety.
00:52:56.580 Yeah.
00:52:57.180 No, it's not the life for me.
00:52:59.000 Pay attention to me.
00:53:01.580 Hello?
00:53:02.420 No, literally.
00:53:03.100 Can we talk about something other than football, please?
00:53:06.720 Is that possible?
00:53:07.500 Hey, so I had a good day today.
00:53:09.560 In case you're wondering.
00:53:10.720 Ah, shut up.
00:53:12.080 Oh, my God.
00:53:13.560 That's why I think, like, the feral energy they have towards professional sports is, in
00:53:19.840 me opinion, much worse than, like, women who love Harry Styles or, like, women who love
00:53:26.100 BTS.
00:53:27.040 Like.
00:53:27.360 Because they have an aggression to it.
00:53:29.000 Yeah.
00:53:29.440 It's a violence.
00:53:30.440 It's a violence.
00:53:31.640 It's not, like, an adoration.
00:53:33.960 I mean, it is.
00:53:35.120 But then I also think, too, like, I've talked about this before.
00:53:37.520 But, like, when I worked in sports, I was, like, I was hit on by professional athletes.
00:53:42.560 I told one of those stories on my TikTok well before I, like, blew up.
00:53:45.680 And the amount of dudes that were, like, he would never, he would never, listen, you're
00:53:52.320 ugly, and he would never.
00:53:54.700 In person, they would say that?
00:53:56.260 Then, well, no.
00:53:58.200 When I told that story in person, most men, like, they geek out.
00:54:01.480 Like, they literally freak out like it was them.
00:54:03.080 Like, they wish they were me.
00:54:04.300 Okay.
00:54:04.580 But, like, it's literally because they're so obsessed with this person, and he's a huge
00:54:09.680 NFL star.
00:54:11.040 And they, the lines get so blurred.
00:54:13.240 Like, they can't tell if they want to be him or they want to be me.
00:54:16.040 Right.
00:54:16.400 In that situation.
00:54:17.080 You know what I'm saying?
00:54:17.960 Yeah.
00:54:18.440 So that's the fangirl energy.
00:54:21.180 And you get to see it exuding out of them.
00:54:23.340 No, truly.
00:54:23.760 And you're like, are you going to make fun of me because I have a Harry Styles pillowcase?
00:54:27.740 And a cardboard cutout.
00:54:29.220 Like, a sweater with him on it.
00:54:30.840 Like, they're going to make fun of me.
00:54:32.080 I genuinely have a Jonas Brothers Christmas sweater in my closet.
00:54:35.460 Yeah, but meanwhile, you're getting sunburned.
00:54:37.800 Yeah.
00:54:38.460 In, like, the hot sun at the Rams stadium because you're shirtless and you painted Rams on you.
00:54:43.960 You look like Larry the Lobster with his sunscreen on your nose on the hot sun.
00:54:48.220 Literally, you, like, love Aaron Donald so much who plays for the Rams, and you're literally,
00:54:53.360 like, painting his name on your chest.
00:54:56.000 Oh, my God.
00:54:56.580 Hoping he'll see you.
00:54:57.900 Like, I just think, like, he's a...
00:55:02.080 He's in the nosebleeds.
00:55:04.240 He's at the very top of the...
00:55:05.420 It's like, it's the same energy, bro.
00:55:08.120 Don't make fun of us.
00:55:09.580 It's the same thing.
00:55:10.780 And they get so drunk at those games and, like, wild out.
00:55:13.820 And then after the games, if they win, they go out on the streets and riot.
00:55:17.720 Yeah.
00:55:18.160 And if they lose, they do the same thing.
00:55:20.700 It doesn't matter.
00:55:22.060 It really doesn't matter either way.
00:55:23.580 It does not matter.
00:55:24.040 That's why, like, I love when you compare, like, men who love sports like that to, like,
00:55:31.000 women, and you call them both fangirls.
00:55:33.140 They hate that shit.
00:55:34.600 Not even fanboys.
00:55:35.260 It's so funny.
00:55:36.680 It's fan men.
00:55:40.040 It's alpha fan men.
00:55:41.420 So, the comments on this video, it says, the lone clothing, blankets, phone cases, car
00:55:49.800 stickers, furniture, et cetera, of their fave teams, but a girl has a 1D poster who has
00:55:55.440 a 1D poster is crazy.
00:55:57.240 Which is exactly what I said, dude.
00:55:59.160 Like, oh my gosh.
00:56:00.460 When men are like that, they literally make it their whole personality.
00:56:04.060 Oh my God.
00:56:05.240 Like, have you ever seen, like, a dad that, like, you could tell that he's a big, like,
00:56:09.220 Dolphins fan because his family gets him Dolphins shit every year for, like, Father's
00:56:13.600 Day.
00:56:14.420 Birthday, anniversary, Christmas.
00:56:16.600 Like.
00:56:16.780 Yeah.
00:56:17.340 That's the only thing I know how to get it.
00:56:19.200 It's like mugs, posters, carpets, like.
00:56:20.920 That's what I do with my dad sometimes for the Broncos.
00:56:23.920 Like, I'll give you another Broncos mug.
00:56:25.700 I don't know what you like, Dad.
00:56:27.640 Yeah, you're like, what do you like?
00:56:28.960 Sports?
00:56:29.620 Like.
00:56:29.940 Yeah.
00:56:30.420 And it's so funny, too, because I had a friend tell me one time that she invited this guy over
00:56:34.680 to, like, hook up.
00:56:36.220 Yeah, yeah.
00:56:36.880 And he saw, like, I don't know if it was a Harry poster.
00:56:40.900 It was some guy on her wall.
00:56:42.200 And he made her take it down because he didn't want him, like, looking at that.
00:56:46.660 Like, he didn't want to see him while they were hooking up.
00:56:49.480 And I'm like, what are you?
00:56:51.580 Really?
00:56:53.260 He's not there.
00:56:54.540 That's all right.
00:56:55.600 He's not there on the wall.
00:56:56.720 That's weird.
00:56:57.100 That's weirdly.
00:56:59.000 He's not actually looking at you unless you're, like, on something.
00:57:02.480 Yeah, literally.
00:57:03.140 And meanwhile, he's, like, a big Tom Brady fan or something.
00:57:06.720 Yeah.
00:57:06.920 I said that once, and it took my very first video to, like, ever, like, go viral viral
00:57:10.800 was I made a list of very specific red flags in men.
00:57:15.120 That was the prompt.
00:57:16.100 Love.
00:57:16.540 So one of them was, like, I said, like, if Wolf of Wall Street is his favorite movie,
00:57:21.700 you know what I mean, if he's a big Joe Rogan fan.
00:57:24.220 But one of them I said was if he loves Tom Brady.
00:57:27.660 And I said, and I'm not talking a Patriots fan or a Bucks fan.
00:57:31.680 I'm talking, like, just him.
00:57:34.700 Like, to the point where he would kiss him on the lips if he had the chance.
00:57:38.580 And he would.
00:57:39.440 That man has anger issues.
00:57:40.560 Like, something's wrong up here.
00:57:41.880 Oh, that's so true.
00:57:43.000 That's why I said reevaluate.
00:57:44.220 And literally so many women were, like, the Tom Brady thing is crazy accurate.
00:57:50.200 Because it's true.
00:57:51.440 There's something.
00:57:52.180 That guy attracts the weirdest fans.
00:57:54.940 Fan girls.
00:57:55.420 He attracts the demons.
00:57:57.160 The demon fan girls.
00:57:58.620 It's like a portal inside of him.
00:58:01.260 No, literally.
00:58:02.060 It's like a homing device.
00:58:03.260 They all come to see him.
00:58:04.400 Yeah.
00:58:04.740 They all come to him.
00:58:05.940 They flock to him.
00:58:06.960 Yeah.
00:58:07.660 This next comment says, and then they also gatekeep being a fan of sports.
00:58:12.340 It's the exact same thing.
00:58:13.540 They say they want a girl that's, like, a pick-me-girl.
00:58:16.180 They describe, like, girl likes football and beer.
00:58:18.780 Burps.
00:58:19.300 Burps, farts, doesn't care.
00:58:20.960 But she's also 2% body fat, size 2.
00:58:23.820 But that makes me food.
00:58:25.040 Big titties.
00:58:26.020 She also doesn't like to work, but also works for me and pays for me.
00:58:29.020 That kind of shit.
00:58:29.820 Kim K ass.
00:58:30.660 And I don't think that's asking for much at the end of the day.
00:58:33.600 Literally.
00:58:34.220 And then you tell him, like, oh, I enjoy sports.
00:58:37.620 Really?
00:58:38.460 Do you?
00:58:39.400 And it's like, name three Super Bowl MVPs.
00:58:41.960 Name the last 10 Super Bowl MVPs.
00:58:45.240 Actually, name the last three Heisman Trophy winners.
00:58:47.440 Ooh, yeah.
00:58:48.020 Bet you can't, bitch.
00:58:49.160 What's Pete Carroll's blood type?
00:58:50.440 Ooh, yeah.
00:58:51.260 They know.
00:58:52.220 Thought you said you like sports.
00:58:53.380 They know.
00:58:54.080 Oh, they know.
00:58:54.680 They grill you like you're on death row or something.
00:58:57.380 And then, God forbid, you get a sentence in and you're like, um, I kind of like Niall
00:59:03.460 Horan from, you're cringy.
00:59:05.820 That's so cringy.
00:59:07.020 You're like a woman.
00:59:08.260 You're like a grown woman.
00:59:09.500 Yeah, yeah.
00:59:09.840 They're like, why don't you grow up?
00:59:11.280 Are you in high school?
00:59:12.200 Yeah, literally.
00:59:13.840 They're like, sorry I enjoy music.
00:59:16.000 Yeah, why don't you grow up?
00:59:17.220 Meanwhile, they're wearing the last name of another full grown man on their back.
00:59:21.100 A name that doesn't belong to them.
00:59:23.960 They're like.
00:59:24.220 Wanting to marry him and take his.
00:59:25.680 They're like, check it.
00:59:28.040 Ooh, yeah.
00:59:29.700 Peep the jersey.
00:59:30.880 That's what I thought.
00:59:31.900 Oh, man.
00:59:33.320 It just tears me open.
00:59:35.680 It tears me open watching that happen in front of my eyes.
00:59:39.280 It's so funny, too, because like my dad and my boyfriend don't care about football.
00:59:44.860 Like my dad played football.
00:59:46.080 My boyfriend played football long ass time.
00:59:48.600 Neither of them really care.
00:59:50.000 Like they follow it.
00:59:51.140 They like to watch.
00:59:51.940 But like when you ask, like that's the first thing like bro kind of dudes ask full grown
00:59:57.040 men.
00:59:57.520 Who's your team?
00:59:58.660 First thing they ask.
01:00:00.060 And my dad always goes, I don't really have one, to be honest.
01:00:02.960 And they're like, what do you mean?
01:00:04.220 What do you mean by that?
01:00:05.880 Oh, same.
01:00:07.780 Whenever I bring a guy over to meet my dad, they're like, oh, my God, you were like playing.
01:00:11.720 And my dad's like, yeah.
01:00:13.980 My dad lies.
01:00:15.300 Oh, really?
01:00:15.880 Yeah.
01:00:16.080 When people ask him, like, did you play?
01:00:17.440 Because my dad's a big dude.
01:00:18.940 My dad's 6'6".
01:00:19.900 Same.
01:00:20.480 My dad's huge.
01:00:21.380 Size 14, 15 shoes.
01:00:23.280 Custom made.
01:00:24.100 Yeah, same.
01:00:24.960 My dad, too.
01:00:25.540 We have the same dad.
01:00:27.100 We're sisters.
01:00:30.040 Someone put a picture of both our dads.
01:00:31.360 I've actually never met my dad.
01:00:32.440 I have a question.
01:00:34.580 They have some explaining to do.
01:00:36.100 Oh, that's so funny.
01:00:36.960 No, literally, my dad, sometimes they'll ask my dad, did you play?
01:00:39.560 And my dad goes, no.
01:00:41.620 And they're like, never?
01:00:42.820 You should have.
01:00:43.700 You know what you should have done?
01:00:44.840 They do the same thing to my boyfriend.
01:00:45.940 My boyfriend's 6'4".
01:00:47.080 Okay, that's funny.
01:00:48.940 Hey, man, did you play ball?
01:00:50.600 Where at?
01:00:51.980 Me?
01:00:52.540 No, not really.
01:00:53.680 I mean, I went to the JC for a bit.
01:00:55.420 But then, you know, my hip, I got a bad hip.
01:00:57.660 So it didn't work out for me.
01:00:59.280 But, like, honestly, I played with, do you know, like, Jared Goff?
01:01:02.280 Like, I did play the same peewee team as him at one point.
01:01:06.560 So, like, technically, like, at the trajectory he was on, like, would I have been there?
01:01:11.800 I mean, maybe.
01:01:13.380 That exact conversation I've listened to, I can't even tell you how many times.
01:01:16.880 With my boyfriend, and he's just going, nice.
01:01:20.060 Cool.
01:01:20.560 Can I move on now?
01:01:22.420 Can I get my smoothie?
01:01:23.640 He's like, okay, so that was, I mean, I can give you, I don't need the change.
01:01:27.900 That was five minutes of my day that I wasted.
01:01:30.700 He goes, I just need 20 on four, so thanks.
01:01:34.020 Thanks, though.
01:01:34.900 Appreciate it.
01:01:35.460 I'm going to pay for my groceries now.
01:01:37.520 Have a nice day, man.
01:01:38.900 Do not care.
01:01:40.640 Leave me alone.
01:01:42.460 That's why, like, I literally can't handle the, the disconnect is so funny to me.
01:01:46.720 The cognitive dissonance between the two, like, they're like, they're nowhere near the same.
01:01:49.700 Oh, my God.
01:01:50.420 And our dads are just so over it.
01:01:52.160 But, like, still loves football, because it's like, oh, nostalgic.
01:01:55.640 Same.
01:01:55.900 Going to follow whatever.
01:01:57.620 Yeah.
01:01:58.040 Watches all of it.
01:01:59.060 But my dad just watches it, and when it's over, he talks to his family.
01:02:04.640 Asks me about my day.
01:02:06.060 Yeah, when it's over, it's over.
01:02:07.380 Yeah.
01:02:07.920 That's crazy, though.
01:02:08.800 And will listen to me when I talk about Harry Styles.
01:02:11.400 Same.
01:02:12.100 Cares.
01:02:12.680 My dad goes, who's that?
01:02:14.380 And then I explain it to him, he goes, oh, does he do something?
01:02:17.160 Like, he asks me all these questions.
01:02:18.780 Yeah.
01:02:19.040 And I'm like, let me tell you the tea on Harry Styles.
01:02:21.200 And my dad's like, I'm going to tell my dad about the Liam Payne drama.
01:02:24.680 I'm like, let me tell you something.
01:02:25.760 Oh, my God.
01:02:26.580 That drama.
01:02:27.840 And he'll listen to the whole thing, and he'll be like, wow.
01:02:30.480 And that's it.
01:02:31.260 Because my dad's a psychologist, too.
01:02:33.000 Oh, nice.
01:02:33.380 He's a therapist, also.
01:02:34.520 He, like, played football, and then thought to himself, why do I have so much aggression,
01:02:39.340 and why do I need to play football to let this out?
01:02:42.660 Do I have anger issues?
01:02:43.940 And then he went back to school.
01:02:44.660 Look at your dad.
01:02:45.660 And then became a therapist for anger management.
01:02:47.520 What's your dad's sign?
01:02:48.780 He's an Aquarius.
01:02:49.780 Oh, my dad's Pisces.
01:02:51.280 Oh, period.
01:02:52.020 I know.
01:02:52.540 Pisces men get a bad rap, but my dad's a really good Pisces women.
01:02:55.700 Yeah.
01:02:55.960 There's a few good ones.
01:02:57.140 They're close, though.
01:02:58.000 Yeah, they are.
01:02:58.460 Pisces and Aquarius is super close.
01:02:59.760 Yeah.
01:03:01.180 Do we have the same dad?
01:03:02.540 Literally.
01:03:04.380 Literally.
01:03:04.920 Is your dad bald?
01:03:06.340 No.
01:03:06.840 He has a great head of hair.
01:03:08.240 My dad's bald.
01:03:09.300 Love that.
01:03:09.760 By choice, I would say.
01:03:11.140 I love it.
01:03:11.800 People are like, you make fun of bald people, and I'm like, my dad's bald.
01:03:15.800 I know a bald person, so I can't be mean to them.
01:03:18.060 Yeah.
01:03:18.560 It's like crystal ball.
01:03:18.700 I'm actually quite close to a bald guy, so.
01:03:20.940 Yeah.
01:03:21.980 I'm allowed to make fun of them.
01:03:23.220 I have a bald dad, so.
01:03:24.680 Yeah.
01:03:25.060 You're allowed to do that.
01:03:26.500 He gives you permission.
01:03:27.580 He told me it was okay.
01:03:28.700 He said, on behalf of all bald people, I can make fun of you.
01:03:30.940 Exactly.
01:03:31.440 That's all.
01:03:31.600 If you want to get mad, get mad at him.
01:03:32.840 Yeah.
01:03:33.920 Bring him on the pod.
01:03:36.140 Can you please?
01:03:37.100 This is my dad's nightmare.
01:03:38.340 Oh, okay.
01:03:39.180 He would love to come watch, but being on camera, no.
01:03:42.020 Meanwhile, my dad wants to start his own YouTube channel.
01:03:45.180 Maybe we don't have the same dad.
01:03:46.700 Maybe we don't have the same dad.
01:03:48.200 My dad is so flashy.
01:03:50.640 Oh, my God.
01:03:51.700 Okay.
01:03:52.140 I think that's going to do it for our episode today.
01:03:54.800 Thank you so much to my guest, Sarah Baska, the one and only, the OG fangirl.
01:03:59.560 If you had to say anything to our fellow fangirls out there, what would it be?
01:04:03.380 Like, just keep loving and learning and being passionate and just do it because you want
01:04:12.440 to do it and ignore everyone who thinks it's cringy.
01:04:14.820 Us literally ripping football away.
01:04:17.640 There's some football players that are, I mean, football fans that, you know.
01:04:21.560 They're normal.
01:04:22.260 They'll laugh at our jokes.
01:04:23.800 The ones that don't care, they'll laugh.
01:04:25.740 But just keep doing you.
01:04:27.240 Like what you like, but just don't be crazy.
01:04:30.200 Which is what I think, too.
01:04:33.560 There's a line for everything.
01:04:35.140 But I always think men, think about it.
01:04:37.380 If you really think about it, men like that are terrible, like the ones we're making fun
01:04:40.940 of, are going to make fun of you no matter what you like.
01:04:44.180 Whether you like sports or you like Keri Styles or anything in between.
01:04:47.780 Or karaoke night.
01:04:48.680 Yeah, it really doesn't matter.
01:04:49.860 If you're like super into Jenga, like they'll make fun of you for that.
01:04:52.620 Salsa class.
01:04:53.260 Yeah, it's no truly like if you were super into just collecting mugs, like they would
01:04:59.440 make fun of you for that.
01:05:00.580 Like these are the men we're talking about.
01:05:02.120 Yeah, truly.
01:05:02.880 They're going to make fun of you no matter what.
01:05:04.320 So just like whatever you want to like.
01:05:05.940 Whenever you want to like it at whatever age.
01:05:08.120 There's no age limit on things you can like.
01:05:10.760 And keep loving.
01:05:12.680 Loving, living, and laughing.
01:05:14.480 Laughing.
01:05:17.940 Love that for us.
01:05:19.320 Live, laugh, love.
01:05:20.200 No, thank you so much for having me.
01:05:22.140 I'm so glad.
01:05:22.760 This was such a hoot.
01:05:24.160 Genuinely, I've never met her in my life.
01:05:26.000 No, now we found out we're sisters.
01:05:28.400 Yeah.
01:05:29.120 Have the same dad.
01:05:30.240 Yeah, we have the same not bald, but kind of bald dad.
01:05:33.700 There you go.
01:05:34.120 I just shaved my dad's head.
01:05:36.000 Just hit him with a bick.
01:05:37.440 Just one time real quick.
01:05:39.320 But thank you all for joining us today.
01:05:41.440 Thank you, Sarah, for joining us.
01:05:43.680 And also, where can everybody find you?
01:05:45.580 Ooh, Instagram at Sarah Baska, uh, with two A's at the end.
01:05:51.400 And then Twitter, just Sarah Baska.
01:05:53.320 I'm kind of on TikTok sometimes.
01:05:55.280 Love that.
01:05:55.700 But Sarah Baska on TikTok and YouTube.
01:05:58.560 Just, yeah, my name.
01:06:00.260 Revs.
01:06:00.900 Revs.
01:06:01.680 Everyone go follow Sarah.
01:06:02.860 She is so funny.
01:06:04.020 Unbelievably funny.
01:06:04.880 I adore you.
01:06:05.660 Thank you so much for coming today.
01:06:07.320 I had so much fun.
01:06:08.380 Me too.
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01:06:40.100 Bye.