FIGHTING DEMONS Ft. Peach PRC
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1 hour and 8 minutes
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On this episode of the Common Section Show, we have the legendary Peach Prowse on the show! Peach is a musician, content creator, TikTok streamer, and all-around hilarious human being. We talk about how she got her start on TikTok, how she transitioned from being a content creator to being a full-time musician, and how she juggles it all with being a mom and a wife.
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I don't know. I don't know how I feel about this piece of art.
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I know, like, imagine someone painting something and be like, well, the artist was kind of fat.
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Like, too fat for me, personally. I don't date fatties, and it's like,
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But the artist is, like, okay, but they are fat.
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Yeah, and I personally wouldn't date them, not really my type. It's like, where did that come into it?
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Hey, everyone, and welcome back to another episode of the Common Section Show. Sorry,
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we, your fave. Everybody knows me. Who cares about me? On to the guest. Today,
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we have the iconic, the legendary, the hilarious, the talented, Peach PRC.
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Oh, my gosh. Of course. Anytime. I feel honored to have you. I feel like we've been mutuals for a while.
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Yeah, that's crazy. And look at us. Love at first sight.
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Yeah, I literally told Peach, I wore pink for you.
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I love when people do that. That actually makes me so happy.
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I am nothing if not professional about the job. I'm not. Not even a little bit.
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But I'm really happy that you're here, and I'm happy that you're doing music full-time.
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As someone who's gone from, like, blowing up on TikTok, like, as a content creator,
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and then kind of shifting into music, how has that been for you?
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It's been crazy. I kind of just, like, music's been what I've always wanted to do,
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but then I just wanted somewhere to shitpost as well.
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Like, I didn't really, like, think about TikTok being a place to, like, do music.
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So I was just, like, talking shit on there, and then I got a following from that,
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and I was like, well, I also make music if you guys want to check that out.
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So now it's crazy that, like, I get to do, I still get to shitpost.
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I'm curious, like, I know of your lore, like, the internet does,
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but I'm curious, like, how you got into music initially,
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and, like, what kind of made you want to transition
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once you kind of garnered the following on TikTok.
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I guess, like, to me, it doesn't feel like too much of a transition,
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I feel like, because I've always done music and always wanted to do music,
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and that was, I mean, I guess it's, like, now I've been put in a box of, like,
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a TikToker who does music when, like, music was kind of what I've always done.
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What I've always wanted to do, and then I also just have shit to say.
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So I was like, I also talk as well, like, as well as sing.
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Like, what made you, like, how did you get into music in the first place?
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Like, I've always wanted to sing and songwrite, and I've always done that.
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And I auditioned for all those shows, like, Australia's Got Talent and X Factor and The Voice.
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Yeah, I got through on The Voice to, like, the producers.
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Like, they have all these pre-rounds that you do.
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Yeah, before you make it to, like, live auditions.
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Yeah, where they're like, oh, we don't know who's on the stage when we turn around.
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So I didn't make it to the actual stage where they turn around,
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but I got through the, like, pre-wound, so I was really proud of that.
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No, that's way more than a lot of people get through.
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Yeah, and I think it was probably for the best.
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I think it was good that I didn't end up on The Voice,
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because I think I would probably have not gone anywhere with it.
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Yeah, it would have been a different arc, for sure.
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Yeah, I think it's cool that you got known for being a personality first,
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like, who you are, and then you were like, I also do music.
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I think a lot of my fans who found my music wouldn't have done that
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Which I think could be a good thing and a bad thing.
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I feel like it's not as bad now, but in the beginning,
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people really, like, I think, felt like they needed to look after me
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They would, like, you know, message my, like, friends and family and stuff
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and be like, I think she needs to, like, do that.
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Oh, girl can't be silly on the internet anymore.
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It does get to, I think that's that parasocial dynamic.
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Like, it starts to get a little, especially if you were super, super normal before this,
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Like, I was aggressively normal before the platform happened.
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So that, like, especially when you, like, are living on your own, you're working,
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you're, like, making, like, you're an adult, like a fully functioning adult,
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Like, that's a very tough, like, assimilation to, like, blend both.
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And I was very, like, I, like, was going through it at the time when I started TikTok.
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Like, I was still stripping, and I was, like, you know, I was all over the place.
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But, like, that was kind of just a place where I could vent and just talk shit
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and just be like, my life is absolute hell right now.
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But then people then felt like they needed to step in and be like, okay,
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like, she's really going through this, and, you know, I've got to help her.
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Yeah, I know the exposure and the millions of eyes can be daunting at that point.
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I feel like, for me, I've been very, because I'm older, how old are you?
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So, like, I feel like because we're older, too, like, we realize, like, okay,
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like, maybe some things I don't share with you after sharing it.
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Yeah, and I think I was 24 or something when I started TikTok.
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I don't think my frontal lobe had developed yet.
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Yeah, your early 20s are a real shitstorm for a while.
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I can't actually believe half of the stuff that I would do back then or, like, the way
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In your early 20s, too, I feel like you think, like, your fear getting older.
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Like, you're like, oh, my gosh, I'm going to be so old.
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And then, like, things are going to be worse when I'm older.
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Yeah, like, they're way more steady and stable in a lot of ways.
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Because your early 20s, like, you don't have any fucking money.
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Like, you're still trying to figure out what you want to do.
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Like, all those kinds of things are swirling around you.
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It's like, I was, like, going off the rails, like, drinking, partying, and stripping.
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And just being like, woohoo, I'm young and free.
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Like, I'm just, like, completely frazzled as well.
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So, yeah, I think when you get older, you're like, oh, it's way more calm.
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It's not, like, the end of the world when, like, something happens.
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And I'm just, like, it's, I don't know how to tell you.
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Everything feels so permanent when you're younger.
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Like, when you're early 20s, especially because you're, like, I'm an adult now, so I should
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be able, like, I should be in a good place now.
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Yeah, you're, like, still doing things for the first time at that age.
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That's, like, the only consistent part is it being wildly unpredictable.
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That's the only thing that is consistent in your early 20s.
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And I even, as someone, like, I'm a fucking Virgo, so I stay planning.
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And even my shit got rocked, too, when I was 23.
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So I was, like, damn, okay, maybe I'm not supposed to be doing that.
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Like, I don't know what, if it's my star sign or my brain in general, but I just can't plan
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When you were finally garnering the platform and then, you know, how did music get introduced
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as far as, like, getting signed or getting a team and starting to actually produce and
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Like, how did that happen once you got the platform?
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I was putting content out and then I met this guy, like, through Twitter, which was, like,
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And I flew out here with the money that I was still stripping at the time.
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And I, like, saved up my money from stripping and flew over.
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I came back and then just, like, put it on TikTok and was, like, hey, I did this for fun.
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And then it didn't really do much until, I think, like, a year later because I just
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And that was cool to be able to, like, have that moment from two worlds, I guess.
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It was from there that, like, the label discovered me.
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And, like, at the time, because I just started taking off on TikTok, I had all these people
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that were, like, like, oh, we can manage you and we'll give you this and we'll, like, we'll
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And it was, like, from Republic Records, which I didn't really know who that was at the time.
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And I was, like, ignoring it until they reached out to, like, the guy that I produced the song
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It's, like, the people that manage, like, Taylor Swift.
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And then, yeah, and then I got signed through that.
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And I was still stripping at the time that I got signed.
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I remember having the meeting with the label on, like, it was an old school laptop that
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And then I was, like, I had a mattress on the floor.
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There was, like, garbage bags in my room in the background.
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And I'm just, like, on this meeting, like, on my school laptop.
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And I'm, like, yes, I would love to be a pop star.
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I think they were actually, at the time, more into the TikToks than they were of my music.
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However you get in the door, it doesn't matter.
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And how have they been as far as in your, like, just your whole songmaking process?
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Like, how has that been for you now that you're doing it full time?
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And now that you are also kind of, like, doing both, but more so just doing music, how has
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that journey been for you so far with all your new songs you've put out, too, and your
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It's been so nice because I feel like I have all these, like, big creative ideas and, like,
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I couldn't really do anything with it because I, at the time, didn't play any instruments.
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But it costs money and it costs money to go to the studio and then to get the songs
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out and have them be put on playlists and be promoted and stuff.
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Like, some people do it and they're independent artists and I think they're geniuses and I
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just don't think I can handle all that on my own.
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So it was nice to have, like, the creative freedom to, like, okay, cool, I have all these
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I can now do them because I have people that can, like, facilitate it for me.
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And how has the fan reaction been to your music now that you're putting out, you put out
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Like, from the beginning, I feel like I've had a really beautiful, like, core fan base.
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Like, I remember with Blondes, that first song, it was, like, about to, like, it'd been
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out for, like, two years or something and it was almost out a million streams, which
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And it was so sweet that, like, I said something about it on TikTok and all my fans were, like,
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okay, we're all going to, like, stream it on, like, a loop.
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And they all said, like, a day where they all just had it on a loop all day and it got
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Song to a Million Streams just because, like, you like me.
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And it's the beautiful thing about art is that it can manifest in many different ways.
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And you built your community first and then you just so happen to be a very talented
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I think she's hilarious and now she's also a really great singer-songwriter.
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I think it's so beautiful that there's people out there that, like, will do that for someone just
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And so, obviously, this is actually a good transition into our topic for today.
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But you've been very open about your sexuality and a lot of your different pieces of art.
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I feel like your fan base is pretty established.
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So, I don't imagine they would have given you any grief about it.
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I feel like you were a situation where she came out and they were like, whoa, okay.
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My first song was about a girl from the strip club.
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And then came out as a lesbian when I was 24 or something.
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Except I kind of freaked out a bit in the beginning because I came out and then I was
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Because I thought that I was a lesbian for years and then was too scared to, like, actually
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And then when I finally did, I was like, oh, my God.
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Like, I spent, like, 10 years trying to avoid that.
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It was, like, the day of coming out, someone had...
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This was before everyone was kind of talking about it and being, like, a thing.
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And I'd done, like, this skit about men having podcasts and Billie Eilish commented on
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it and just said, I hate men or something like that.
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But then I guess she got a lot of backlash for it and deleted it.
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But then this article came out that was, like, Billie Eilish defends a lesbian singer.
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And it was, like, a photo of me crying from, like, a year ago or something.
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And so now that's, like, in my bio, I've just got lesbian singer.
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But I think people now think I just call myself that.
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Like, they're, like, self-proclaimed lesbian singer.
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And the photo was hilarious because it was, like, a photo of me crying from, like, an old
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You're all, why did you make me look like that?
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I was, like, what the hell, Billie Eilish, like, defending me as I'm, like, bawling?
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All she did was comment on, like, a funny video of me saying...
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First things first, maybe throw a name in there.
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You're all, go ahead and look up a recent picture of me.
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Like, why'd you pick such an old fucking picture of me?
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And then there was, like, a whole, like, Snapchat thing where, you know, they do, like, the
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And it's still my profile on my spam account, like, my profile picture.
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I know, but that's the one they use in the article.
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The few times that people have reported on me, like, commenting on things, like, publicly,
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they've always referred to me as, as a man-hating TikToker.
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Which, like, I guess, but also, like, I also have a name.
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Yeah, and I feel like your name is, like, recognizable.
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I feel like if you say your name, people would be like, yeah, I know.
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I'm like, you put my fucking face in there, and they always pick a picture that's, like,
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Like, I had something the other day, and it was, like, it was a nice post, like, a
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It was, like, artists to watch or something, like, up-and-coming artists, and it was a
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photo of me from, like, four years ago, like, a press shot, and I was like, hey, I take
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I don't even fucking remember what it was about, but they used a picture that was, I'm
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And this is, like, the third article this person had written about me involved in,
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It's like they go on Google and look at the most popular user of the first one and just
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And then my agent was like, I think it's because that's the one they bought, like,
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You're running up articles to get your money up.
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Like, stop using that hideous fucking picture of me.
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One time they quoted me because I was talking shit about Moana the movie.
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Like, not talking shit, but I was talking shit about the fact that they didn't even ask
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me to audition, and I was like, I don't want to, I don't want to, like, put you on the
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spot, but, like, there's only two of us, and one of them's The Rock, and he's already
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So, like, just send me, send me an email, bitch.
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And so I, like, joked about it, and then Deadline wrote an article, and then the headline said,
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TikToker Drew Alfao says, I'll play Moana's dad if that's what it takes.
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When, when, when, like, vying for a role in the live action, I'm like, that's the part
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Yeah, I was like, of all the shit you clipped, like, that's the part you clipped.
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It's so funny when they do that, when they take a quote that you've said with, because
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It's like, you don't get that I was saying that as a joke.
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It seems so serious when you start out like that.
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Like, like, I had one that was like an article when I was talking about Enrique Iglesias,
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because I kept covering his song on my tour, and like, it was like an inside joke, and
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then they'd taken like, I don't know, it was an insane quote that I'd, I made a joke about
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like waking up in the middle of the night, like hearing Escape by Enrique Iglesias, and
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they'd made it seem so sinister and serious, but I was like, Peach is haunted by Enrique Iglesias
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in the middle of the night, and she's quoted like, I wake up screaming, like, Escape.
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I was like, oh my God, that sounds like I'm a psycho, like, it was like, that's neither
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here nor there, that's unrelated to the article.
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It's not Escape by Enrique Iglesias, leave this man alone, like, he doesn't know you.
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Now you've written an article with both of us in it, and you're just gonna be like, who
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It's even funnier too, because I feel like, I'm like, y'all know I make jokes for a living,
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I'm being silly all the time, and then I was like, and that's the shit you
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clip, and you put it on a fucking deadline article, and I even put, I, like, literally
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screenshot it and put it in one of my photo dumps, because I was like, what's so funny
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I mean, yeah, yes, the headline made me click on it, of course it did, but that's besides
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I'm like, people are like, oh, she's trying to, like, gender bend the dad.
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It's like that girl on TikTok, she does those skits where it's like, she tries to, like,
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continue the bit, and the guy's like, I was joking, and she's like, oh, like, yeah, I
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Yeah, where she's like, corporate just snipes you, and then he's like, what?
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Like, they would never do that, and she's like, oh, I know, like, I was joking.
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I feel like that's, like, every time you're a woman and try to joke back, they're like, hey.
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Especially in media, when you do any sort of, like, press or serious press or anything
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Anytime I do interviews, I'm too scared to joke, because I feel like they're like, oh,
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Like, I know the video when you post it will, like, people will get it, but right now in
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front of you, as a human being, I feel like you are not getting it, and I feel so embarrassed.
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I hope that translates in writing, because it doesn't seem to be translating physically.
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Yeah, I'm, like, just doing bits of the camera.
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There was even, like, some, when I, I went on the Drew Barrymore show.
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After, yeah, it was, it was fucking weird, but it was, she was the sweetest person alive,
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But when, when I, after I talked for my segment was, like, five minutes.
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After I, I finished talking, I, like, looked in the camera, and I was like, period.
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And I didn't think they were going to keep it, and they fucking put it at the end.
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I'm like, and someone's like, I like how you did that shit at the end, and I was like,
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I didn't think they were going to keep it in the edit.
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That was a little joke between me and the camera guy.
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You're, like, wolf whistling at him, and he's like.
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They're like, okay, do you remember why you were invited?
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So we're talking about, obviously, Miss Lovely Peach PRC, rising as a pop star without only
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appealing to the male gaze, which, because obviously, you came out as a lesbian, men are like.
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Like, I get a lot about, like, I don't know, just obviously the content of my songs are
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Sometimes, like a girl does, doesn't actually mean it's for you.
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I just saw TikTok literally a few days ago, and it, like, made me laugh so hard I saved
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And it was just an audio, but someone was like, men suffer in silence.
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Yeah, the audio is literally like, I don't give a fuck.
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And then the top comment says, then why am I always hearing about it?
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I couldn't stop laughing, and I was honestly angry.
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But the fact that I was like, it's fucking true.
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I guess it's like their mental health awareness, like, during Pride Month.
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And it's like, I saw something that's like, they're always, like, fighting demons.
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And it's like, the demons is like homosexuality all the time.
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Yeah, it's like Pride Month's for you as well, babe.
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And also, like, the fact that they're, like, two on the same level, blah, blah.
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And, like, do you know how many people fall under the umbrella of Asian?
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It's like, yeah, everything's mental health awareness for men constantly.
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I even said once, too, I was like, the internet would be a lot easier for some people to navigate,
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especially men, if they, like, truly accepted that not everything that's created is for them.
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It's like, they actually start tweaking out when it's, like, something isn't specifically for them.
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It was like, well, I actually thought that it, like, made men.
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It wasn't, like, Oppenheimer out at the same time.
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Segregation, go sit in your little, like, man cave and watch the man movie and we'll watch the man movie.
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Yeah, watch a man make something that is truly the genesis of all evil.
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Well, you're also Australian, too, so I'll give you that pass.
00:24:11.020
He created the Atomic Bomb, which they dropped on, like, Hiroshima, which, like, decimated a whole fucking...
00:24:17.340
And now we all have nuclear weapons because he fucking created them.
00:24:21.000
That's why I said the genesis of all evil is that the root is a man.
00:24:24.620
Every time when I was like, men are fucking evil, they're like, how could you say that?
00:24:29.300
Everything you hate in the world, like, literally anything at all.
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Traffic, capitalism, racism, all created by a man.
00:24:37.540
What is it where they're like, oh, like, we can't cry about our feelings or whatever.
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And it's like, what was that interview where she's like, and who set that up?
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And whose fault is that that you can't fucking cry?
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And it's like, they come to us for, like, the emotional labor.
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It's like, they don't go to their guy friends to be like, oh, I'm upset about this.
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When they're like, never cry in front of your girl.
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I'm like, friends don't fucking want to hear you cry.
00:25:05.200
I've hung out with more than one man at a time.
00:25:10.540
And I also, even, like, for me, because recently, like, sometimes, I obviously, like, I've been on fucking TikTok forever.
00:25:19.240
If you don't, you're either new or you're a hundred.
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And so the men who have recently found me are starting this whole, like, well, actually, like, they always create these think pieces as if no one's ever said it.
00:25:34.260
It actually shocks me when I see men try to, like, they all try to, like, be like, well, I actually think Drew is problematic.
00:25:39.860
Because it's like, you, when has that ever been successful?
00:25:46.960
They're singing, like, well, they just didn't do it right.
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Slick all the confidence in the world to be like.
00:25:50.740
This has never gone down well for any man that has tried to do this.
00:25:57.200
I've even told people, I was like, I am very mean.
00:26:00.760
Like, I've had people ask me, do you think you're too mean?
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I had one girl, I went on a podcast, this lady asked me, do you think you're too mean
00:26:08.180
In fact, I told her, if there, in fact, if there were no community guidelines, I'd be
00:26:12.300
Like, I'm fighting with one hand tied behind my back, bitch.
00:26:14.480
Like, that's really, I'm fighting truly, like, tied to something.
00:26:20.220
I'm actually fighting demons, if you really think about it.
00:26:23.560
I'm physically and verbally fighting them every single day.
00:26:26.560
Like, my girlfriend's the sweetest in the world.
00:26:28.160
And, like, she is very sort of, like, I don't, just has been kind of unaware of,
00:26:31.920
like, how, and I think I've just, because I've come from, like, strip clubs, and I
00:26:37.060
And she's just a sweetheart, so sometimes I am just awful, and she's like, are you
00:26:41.020
And I'm like, no, I promise you, he's, like, being evil.
00:26:43.260
Like, I saw a TikTok the other day, and I'm like, maybe I do have, like, a skewed
00:26:46.780
perception of reality, but I really just think that they're the worst.
00:26:49.500
And I saw this one where I was, like, had this sad music over it, and these teenage
00:26:54.500
And she was like, oh, this dad came up and asked if, like, we could show him how to
00:26:58.900
And, like, he's now, they're filming him, like, making him by himself, and everyone's
00:27:02.100
like, oh, my God, please tell me you helped him, that's so sad.
00:27:04.080
And I was like, I feel like that's so creepy and weird.
00:27:06.380
Why did he by himself go up to a group of teenage girls and be like, can you help me make a flower
00:27:17.860
Like, all the comments were like, oh, my God, please tell me you helped him.
00:27:21.220
I'm like, I would have actually passed him out.
00:27:32.020
It's the same shit as, like, the man and the bear, the bear in the woods type shit.
00:27:41.540
At least if I didn't bother, like, I literally said, I was like, if I didn't bother the bear,
00:27:46.640
Like, if I didn't see it or he didn't see me, like, he wouldn't come and look for me.
00:27:51.580
I was like, a bear is like, if it kills you, it's because you're fucking with it or you're in its
00:27:59.260
That's why I was like, it's shocking to me that you're more mad at women than you are
00:28:08.580
It's because that's what your fellow men are doing.
00:28:13.420
I'm like, when women say they hate all men, like, I don't give a fuck.
00:28:22.840
I've said before, they're all guilty until proven innocent in my eyes.
00:28:25.980
I think they should start in prison and work their way out.
00:28:30.780
You have, like, a reading log and you color it in.
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Or you just have no access to internet and no phone.
00:28:41.580
You have to be able to tie, like, seven different knots.
00:28:45.700
You have to be able to build a fire from scratch.
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And I think, too, even so, like, really genuine men who are not awful, they don't give a fuck.
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Like, when people say, I hate them, they're like, period.
00:29:08.400
Like, they're like, well, actually, Drew has a boyfriend.
00:29:24.520
And then he found out, like, what he was really doing.
00:29:25.820
He just sees me and my backpack is, like, my little suits hanging out of the top of it.
00:29:30.080
Like, they act like he's just like, why were you so late to our date?
00:29:37.060
And they're like, oh, I just saw Spider-Man was fighting crime.
00:29:47.780
I'm like, yeah, believe it or not, he fucking knows.
00:29:52.640
Like, oh, so does this mean you don't hate men?
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When I post something about my boyfriend, I go, nope.
00:30:00.180
And if that makes you feel some type of way, you're probably, yeah, I hate you.
00:30:08.520
So I've even, like, I feel like some of the understanding of, like, oh, this is what
00:30:15.460
women want or this is what men want from women.
00:30:18.300
I'm like, every time y'all talk about that, you never factor in lesbians ever.
00:30:29.380
Like, sometimes they just fully forget that we exist sometimes.
00:30:31.620
I'll make videos with their whole chest being like, women only want this.
00:30:34.820
And I hate, I'm like, hey, also there's some of us that don't want anything to do with that.
00:30:40.060
Even when I made a video about my audience, they're like, oh, her audience, she's scamming
00:30:46.740
And I'm like, okay, first of all, that's not true.
00:30:49.100
And second of all, I was like, have you ever heard of gay people?
00:30:51.000
You're going to freak out when you hear about gay people.
00:30:54.180
You're going to freak out when you hear about gay people and what they like and don't like.
00:30:59.300
Like, I feel like, dude, that video, it's truly like, like comedy to me.
00:31:04.060
The one where he had the nails and he, oh my God, I actually like freak out when I think
00:31:11.080
He's like, at the end of the, I show this to everyone because I'm like, I'm so like
00:31:13.660
dumbfounded that this is something somebody actually said in real life, but he was like
00:31:16.440
talking about, because someone's like, dude, those nails, like, how are you getting bitches
00:31:20.640
And he, oh my God, he said like, you put a glove on and then like.
00:31:28.120
Because he was talking about like having sex with girls with having long nails.
00:31:31.000
And he was like, you put like a rubber glove on.
00:31:37.940
Oh my, I used to put a glove on and rake is what he said.
00:31:45.000
I have, I have disgusting, horrible feelings coursing through me.
00:31:48.200
Oh my God, you get a staph infection with nails like that.
00:31:57.140
You have a fucking, like an elbow length fucking rubber yellow glove.
00:32:00.140
Imagine pulling out the like actual gloves out, like in foreplay, like one moment
00:32:03.920
please with the like talons and pulling out the rubber gloves.
00:32:12.640
It's just a pair that are tacky on the, on the fingers so you can grab.
00:32:23.480
I've never seen that one where he said he wears a fucking glove.
00:32:27.860
That's actually a really simple solution is a bit of hygiene and cut your nails.
00:32:34.020
Speaking of horrible men, this is a great, a great segue.
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So we're going to talk about these two videos that apply to our topic of men being awful,
00:32:42.980
especially towards peach, peach, which I will not stand for.
00:32:47.820
So this one is in this video, pop star Tate McRae is performing on stage with her background
00:32:52.860
They're all wearing matching broad tops and shorts as part of the show.
00:32:57.300
Men in the comments were very upset about the outfits.
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Just don't understand why music means you have to wear booty shorts or hardly anything.
00:33:10.340
If the music was good, wouldn't have to bait with looks.
00:33:17.100
I just want to understand why they get so mad when women wear skimpy outfits.
00:33:24.520
I'm like, maybe shut the fuck up then so the rest of us can look.
00:33:27.380
It's like, if I see a hot girl in like a skimpy outfit, I'm like, oh my fucking God,
00:33:40.380
Well, I also think too, if she dressed like a fucking nun, you guys would hate that too.
00:33:53.660
The way they talk about it is so, like, biblical to me.
00:33:58.600
Because, like, what is it that, like, actually makes them mad?
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It's just like, oh, she's showing off for other men.
00:34:12.260
Like, the fact that y'all feel so entitled to every woman you see.
00:34:17.040
And you're now making other men see what I want.
00:34:20.000
It actually is, like, so many mental gymnastics to get mad about something like that.
00:34:24.880
I also think, too, it's the same thing when they're like, oh, well, I mean, if we were
00:34:33.100
When I was a stripper, like, I would date, I was dating men at the time.
00:34:36.680
And men would always be like, oh, my God, like, I'm so fine with it.
00:34:42.760
And, like, every single time after a while, they're like, okay, well, like, but when are
00:34:45.740
Like, that's really disrespectful to our relationship.
00:34:56.000
And then every time they would end up getting to a point where they're like, okay, quit
00:35:10.220
And now you're my little wifey who stays indoors.
00:35:14.140
It's like, yeah, it happened every time, like, clockwork.
00:35:16.360
And it's also very, it's extremely telling for obvious reasons, but it's also, like,
00:35:22.700
telling in a way that makes them look violently insecure.
00:35:29.040
Yeah, like, don't go after strippers, then, if that's a moral that you have.
00:35:34.280
Why are you dating any woman at all who likes to dress a certain way?
00:35:37.060
If you don't have the security to, like, deal with that.
00:35:38.780
It was the same thing with the Jonah Hill shit, too.
00:35:47.520
And then he's like, okay, now you need to be less confident and reel it in.
00:35:53.260
Like, and men would come into the strip club and be, like, regulars there and pay all this
00:35:57.540
They'd be in there, like, scouting girlfriends.
00:35:59.640
And, like, and sometimes they would get them, but then they'd try and pull them out of the
00:36:02.640
And it's like, you spent all your time in there.
00:36:11.400
Well, it's also very, it's so confusing because it's, like, that's why I've always told people
00:36:17.100
before, like, it takes a bad bitch to date a bad bitch.
00:36:19.860
Like, if you're not a bad bitch, don't go after one.
00:36:24.080
And that's why I think a lot of times when they, when the media drags pop stars, like
00:36:27.940
women specifically, if they are not in a relationship or if they jump from one to the next, like,
00:36:34.700
They're just like, oh, she can't keep a man, whatever the fuck.
00:36:38.980
Like, you could, you could say you're super cool dating someone like Ariana Grande or someone
00:36:46.540
But then when she goes out in the world and she is a fucking superstar.
00:36:49.520
That's what happened with all these, like, like Taylor Swift and Ariana Grande when they
00:36:52.420
came out of COVID and they were, like, now doing their job again.
00:36:55.120
It's like all of their partners were like, oh my God.
00:36:57.600
Because it's like, it turns out you really aren't nearly as confident as you thought you were.
00:37:01.980
Because it's like women succeeding to that level, especially in being beautiful and
00:37:07.320
Because they're like, I'm supposed to be the smart one and the talented one is the one
00:37:13.940
Like, what have you, yeah, what songs have you got?
00:37:20.400
That's what I would say if I was, if I was them, I'd be like, you're just mad because
00:37:26.660
This next one says, girls who respect their bodies greater than sign.
00:37:31.220
Girls who throw their bodies out for the world to see.
00:37:34.140
Like, men are the ones known for respecting women's bodies.
00:37:40.080
They're constantly walking with their nipples out.
00:37:42.180
And they're known for disrespecting women's bodies and they're being like, women don't
00:37:48.120
You can't even work in a morgue because you don't respect bodies.
00:37:53.460
I'm like, there are many, many morgues across the country and many countries who don't
00:37:58.480
And that's been around like historically, like from like way back.
00:38:01.020
Like, they do like, okay, we've got to stop hiring them because they can't make it.
00:38:03.700
Yeah, like, well, they seem to have a necrophilia problem.
00:38:10.000
And then do you think men are like, and what about us?
00:38:25.140
Sometimes I tell people when men are like, this makes me feel bad.
00:38:35.920
It's because we're supposed to be the ones that like give all of our empathy and we're
00:38:43.060
They feel entitled to every aspect of women, physically, emotionally, mentally.
00:38:47.600
And that's what I feel like men don't have a concept of.
00:38:49.420
It's like when I see a TikTok that like bothers me, I'm never in the comments being like,
00:38:53.520
I'll send it to my friend and be like, I hate this.
00:38:57.020
I'm like, go tell your friends that you're annoyed by this.
00:39:01.520
I don't ever see something I hate and be like, I'm going to write something about how she's
00:39:05.420
the fattest, ugliest bitch I've ever seen in my life.
00:39:07.500
I actually cannot even fathom like thinking of doing that.
00:39:10.300
Like just being like, because that's so embarrassing.
00:39:17.960
I'm like, I got too, I guess like happiness in my life.
00:39:21.360
I can't relate to that feeling of being like, you know what I'm going to do?
00:39:24.280
I need to put this person down for the sake of it.
00:39:30.880
And like, I have stuff to say about, but I'm not saying it in their comments.
00:39:33.400
And that makes it sound like I'm talking shit about everyone.
00:39:34.960
But like, just you see stuff sometimes on your phone.
00:39:38.940
But I'm not in the comments being like, I don't agree.
00:39:41.880
Like I'm not writing that in people's fucking comments.
00:39:45.900
This one says, I can't think of a less attractive artist than one who doesn't wear their clothes.
00:39:58.200
Like imagine like someone who painted like one of those like historical paintings.
00:40:02.320
Like and being like, oh, they weren't very hot actually.
00:40:04.820
You're looking at the Mona Lisa and they're like, well, what did he look like though?
00:40:07.940
Yeah, he was actually kind of ugly and not really attractive to me personally.
00:40:12.660
Like all of his pictures, like you can't even really see his face.
00:40:17.380
I don't know how I feel about this piece of art.
00:40:25.220
And it's like, like it's not about you dating the artist.
00:40:32.860
Like they're actually not on the table for you.
00:40:35.900
I feel the same way when they talk about pop stars or women in general in the entertainment industry.
00:40:40.220
And they're like, oh, she's so like mid looking.
00:40:49.500
Like, I know it's going to blow your fucking mind, but she probably would think you're really ugly.
00:40:53.820
It's like this mentality that men have was kind of like, just by being a man, they are a 10 out of 10, regardless of how old they are, what they look like.
00:40:59.560
Because like, I keep bringing it back to the strip club, but this is just like the most experience I have with men.
00:41:04.840
But that's honestly probably the purest, most feral exposure to them.
00:41:09.000
Yeah, like real life version of like what happens in the comments.
00:41:10.960
And it's like, I would have men that would be like pushing 80.
00:41:14.120
And they would be like, you know, like just unattractive old creeps.
00:41:18.560
And then they would be in there and I was like 19 and I was, I'd be in a lap dance that they paid for.
00:41:23.620
And they would fully in their heads, fully believe that like they could pull me out of here and be like, you know, like I'd love, because I'd offer to be like, do you want to go for a lap dance?
00:41:34.740
And they'd be like, oh, I'd actually rather take you out to dinner.
00:41:44.100
They'd fully be like, don't let anyone tell you that you're not beautiful.
00:41:46.420
The ick that courses through me when I hear shit like that.
00:41:49.260
Yeah, I'm like, oh, they'll be like, oh, you're actually really smart.
00:41:51.700
Or like, you know, you're too beautiful for this.
00:41:59.860
What do you mean I'm too beautiful to be a hot woman?
00:42:07.180
And they fully just would believe, like, just by being a man that I would be into them.
00:42:17.680
I'm going to be like, I would love you to take me out to dinner instead of paying me.
00:42:33.240
Like, oh, I'll like, yeah, I'll buy you a drink or take you out.
00:42:36.260
Like, imagine going to any other service and doing that.
00:42:38.400
Like, getting like McDonald's or something and be like, I'd actually rather take you on a date.
00:42:53.100
One time when I was in college, this guy was like, you know, when you're hustling for free shit, like free drinks or whatever.
00:43:03.360
And then he was buying me my friend drinks all night.
00:43:05.340
And then he was like, I'm really trying to get to know you.
00:43:13.280
And he's like, I'm, you know, I just think you're so different.
00:43:16.820
You're so different from every other girl in here.
00:43:21.480
They put it in a Netflix original and they're like.
00:43:23.300
I'm sitting here and I'm like, my tits are pushed up to my neck.
00:43:29.160
I would try to be like, you know, I'm trying to get them to pay me.
00:43:31.660
Like, because you do have to go up to them, approach them and try and get them to take
00:43:34.080
And I'd be like, do you want to come for a dance?
00:43:35.820
They'd be like, what makes you different from the other girls?
00:43:38.480
You can go and get one of the other girls if you want.
00:43:43.200
Like, there's other men in here that you're wasting my time.
00:43:46.340
The difference is I'm the only one that walked up to you.
00:43:49.580
And I'll walk away and someone else will do it if that's what you want.
00:43:54.320
And they'd fully sit there and be like, prove to me.
00:43:57.020
And I'm like, there's so many other dudes in here that I'll just talk to that.
00:44:04.780
They take your hair out of the pony and they're like, look at how beautiful you are.
00:44:09.420
I had one guy that was like, he was like trying to psychoanalyze me.
00:44:13.200
They would love to have this narrative of me that I was this like troubled, like I'm
00:44:16.760
doing this to get through like med school or something.
00:44:18.940
And they'd be like, so like, why are you doing this?
00:44:24.420
Like, I don't know what you want me to tell you.
00:44:25.880
And they're like, what do your family think of this?
00:44:31.660
And then they'd look in my eyes and be like, I see a lot of like sadness in there.
00:44:49.000
I even, even one of the, that same guy, he was like, like, what's your favorite color?
00:45:00.100
I even told him, he was like, I just really want to get to know you.
00:45:02.920
And I, at one point I was like, you don't want to get to know me.
00:45:11.060
So are you going to keep buying me drinks or no?
00:45:17.180
Enough of this fucking, this Hallmark movie bullshit.
00:45:23.720
Even the other day I was at the gym, like literally last week I was at the gym and I go to the same
00:45:27.840
I've been going to the same gym for a while, but like the gym that I go to is like, my boyfriend
00:45:33.180
And so like, he knows the manager and like, we know all the people who work there.
00:45:36.500
So like, generally speaking, no one ever really bothers me because they all know that who
00:45:43.560
So if someone does talk to me like that, I haven't seen before, I'm like, okay, you
00:45:51.220
And I, the other day, this has not happened to me there and I don't even know how long
00:45:54.820
and I was walking and he tried to like bump into me.
00:45:58.220
Like he changed course so he could walk past me.
00:46:02.180
Like we drop our books at the same time, touch each other's fingers, you know?
00:46:05.340
And then I was, he was talking to me and I was like, what?
00:46:10.740
And he goes, oh, I didn't want to, you know, get in the way, like get in the way of your
00:46:16.900
And I put my thing back on and he was like trying to linger.
00:46:19.040
And I was like, anyways, I like turned my back to him.
00:46:21.860
And then I told my mom, cause my mom happened to be there.
00:46:30.840
And then I get like, I feel like such an intense rage when like someone even just looks at me
00:46:39.320
Cause I'm like, I have no say in the matter that you just get to look at like, I put on
00:46:42.720
a cute little skimpy outfit and then look, I'm like, oh, fuck off.
00:46:46.540
Cause they're not really like approaching me or saying anything, but I see their eyes.
00:46:52.080
I don't know what you're thinking in your head.
00:46:59.980
I feel like one of my, one of my like superpowers other than guessing men's height, just by looking
00:47:07.440
Besides that, I also feel like I have a skill where I can always tell if a man wants to fuck
00:47:14.380
So I always, and it's easy to tell, but some people can't tell, but I always can.
00:47:19.660
So if I feel like someone's vibing with you, trying to vibe with me or trying to vibe
00:47:23.100
with someone else around me who doesn't want it, I'm immediately angry.
00:47:27.280
The way I'm like, Hey, Hey, Hey, she doesn't want to talk to you.
00:47:31.520
And I think like my friends, I think haven't had as much of an experience with shitty men
00:47:37.440
So like, and they, I think I used to be like that when I started stripping too, I was really
00:47:41.020
like, Oh, I don't want to like hurt their feelings or embarrass them and like shut them down and
00:47:44.480
And then I got to a point where I was like, I need to do that to survive.
00:47:48.920
And now like, I still have this, like, I think I have a lot of years to make up for where
00:47:53.880
So now when I see men doing it to my friends, I'm immediately like in their face, like get
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They're like, and they just, they, it's like, they really have a hard time being rejected
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It's like, they, they flat out refuse to be rejected.
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And I'm like, yeah, humiliating yourself, like walk away.
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So like, I don't need to give you a fucking reason.
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I would, I would be so mortified if I like tried to approach a girl and she was like,
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The way I'd like, I actually, something just came up and I have to, and I just run outside,
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And it's like, you're not arguing with me because I rejected you, but you won't leave
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Like when I was working in, I was in Nashville, like a year or two, two years ago and I was
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doing work stuff, but we finished and we went out for the night in Nashville.
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And so we were like in a random bar and my boyfriend was there, but he was at the bar.
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So I was like kind of standing with my friends.
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A guy came up to me and like asked, was trying to hit on me and asked for my number.
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And then he was like, you got a boyfriend or something?
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And then he started walking away and I saw him trying to turn back.
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But at that point, my boyfriend had come back and then he apologized to my boyfriend
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And that really made him fuck off, which makes me even more mad.
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Cause once I started dating my boyfriend, we walk around, like obviously men fuck off a lot
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Cause I'm like, you don't even fucking respect me as a person.
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Like being a lesbian, like dating another woman.
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It's like, they're like, oh, we should make this.
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I can't even imagine, especially you being gay too, but being a femme lesbian, it's like,
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Like, especially when you have men who say things like, well, maybe you just haven't
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And men think like femme lesbians are for them.
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It's like, oh, like they either see lesbians as like not fuckable, like butch lesbians
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Or it's like Fennler's bins that are for them to watch.
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And it's like, there's no like, hey, neither one are for you.
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This last video, this is in this man's video, he starts off looking disgusted with text
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on screen saying when she dresses revealingly, I don't even know if that's a word.
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Then the caption changes to when she dresses classy, but you can see her curves without
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And then the guy acts super into it and makes faces of approval.
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But when those curves show up, what are you talking about?
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So you want them, you want to see them, but you don't?
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Like, she's revealing her figure, but in a classy outfit first.
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I just, it's like, sometimes things just aren't for them to view.
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Like, I had an old man once that, like, out loud, just in a shopping center, like, like
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I think I might have been a teenager, but this old man with his wife, just out loud, goes
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like, oh, doesn't leave much to the imagination.
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So I'm like, consider that I'm not dressing for you to imagine me naked.
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When I put them on, I'm going, oh, I hope a man imagines me naked.
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I hope this old man really is picturing what I look like under these shorts.
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I, like, said it to me as if I was going to be like, oh, fuck, yes.
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Yeah, she's just tunnel vision, just walking, like, locked down.
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Like, I was on a brand trip, a literal fucking brand trip, and they paid for, like, this section
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And, like, this old dude in, like, I'm not kidding, like, his 50s.
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Mind you, all the women we're with, like, are young, like, 20s, like, all of them makeup
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Like, every single one of them is a beauty girl, and then there's me.
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And so we were, like, all hanging out, having fun.
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And this guy comes over, and he's like, which one of you is the leader?
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They love, like, making it seem like we all hate each other.
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I'm going to do that to the next group of guys.
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And he was literally being a creepy weirdo, and I told him, don't go up to them.
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Yeah, he's, like, you don't know what you're talking about.
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Walks over there, gets fucking embarrassed, comes back.
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Like, literally, one of the girls there, she was, like, can you, like, go away?
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I don't think they even feel embarrassment, truly.
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Considering they're, like, patient zero of humiliation, you would think that they would
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You know how, like, in therapy, they give you, like, frameworks?
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They're just constantly reworking frameworks to be, like, well, clearly she's a fucking
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Or, like, yeah, this is a challenge, and, like, this is a little back and forth that we
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Yeah, and he's, like, well, obviously she's a bitch, and she's, like, fat and ugly
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Like, the way they're already telling themselves that when they get rejected is insane.
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You could just avoid the rejection if you weren't a weirdo.
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And he came back, and he was, like, I didn't know you guys were all fucking bitches or some
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And he was, like, oh, just, like, you know, no need to be rude.
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I'm, like, did I or did I not tell you to not go over there?
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Like, sometimes when they say, like, I would never.
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Yeah, when they say, like, I would never fuck you.
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They say that as if you're going to be, like, devastated by that.
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I'm, like, I was actually really hoping you would.
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It's because I think they go around with the mentality of, like, they want to fuck everything.
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As if we're going to be, like, wait, I want to fuck all of you.
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And it's, like, just because you want to fuck everything doesn't mean I do.
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I wouldn't even want to share a bus bench with you.
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I was like, if you pulled up driving my Uber, I'd be like, I'll call and I'll call
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This one says, if she's dressing like a hooker, she isn't yours.
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Like, they're like, oh, well, clearly she's into me.
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It's like, you treat hookers like they are yours.
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I'm like, it's ironic you say that because y'all feel entitled to every woman ever alive.
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Like, if she dresses like a hooker, she's not yours.
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This one says, a lot of these girls feel like they're so entitled that us men can't have
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any sort of preference, but it's okay for them to.
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Your preference is, like, really, it's, like, nasty.
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It's not even, like, being a sort of preference.
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Yeah, and you don't need to, like, verbalize it to the person who's not your preference
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That's why you can have all the preferences in the world.
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If this is, like, anyone but Margot Robbie, like, that's going to be unfortunate for you.
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They're like, well, Margot Robbie just, I once saw a true discourse of men being like.
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Sometimes when I don't feel good about myself, I lie.
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Sometimes I talk shit when I don't feel good about me.
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I think they're also, like, they're porn rotted.
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Like, and I see a regular person and they're like, wouldn't fuck her.
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Like, when's the last time you saw boobs in real life?
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Let's lay out a framework where you focus on not being the worst.
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And it's like, with, like, the whole incel culture, I don't understand why instead of being, like, okay, so I'm involuntarily celibate.
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It's like, they just continue being a freak instead of being like, let me work on what my issue is and why no one wants me.
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It's crazy how the list is a lot shorter when you, like, cross everything off.
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So, like, even men who, like, are conventionally attractive, whatever that means, like, above a certain height, make a certain amount of money.
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Like, all these invisible things that they put on themselves and say women, all women want.
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Not one bitch on this planet wants to fuck with you.
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And they don't ever do any introspection to be like, let me figure out why that is.
00:58:10.340
And it's like, they have this standard of the guy that women want, like the Chad, where they're like, and it's just like nothing about what's his personality.
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They don't even have one for this Chad character.
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Like, is that all men in the world, too, that are in relationships?
00:58:25.540
Like, do you know how many short men, fat men, bald men?
00:58:28.220
I'm a lesbian and I've dated some little freaks.
00:58:29.900
Like, you know what's funny is like, when you're a good person and funny.
00:58:35.880
The amount of puss that flies your way is crazy.
00:58:38.100
I'm a lesbian and I've dated guys purely because they were funny.
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Literally, I referenced one of my friends, even my friend Caleb once when he was on the show, he said, like, just like, get an interest.
00:58:52.260
Like, literally listen when women talk and respond and you'd be shocked how quickly women are like, I'm kind of fucking with him.
00:59:02.240
You know how many women, like, I don't have many straight friends, ironically, but the few that I do have, and even some of my gay friends, like my sister's a lesbian, like, when they send me crushes and shit, you know how many medium ugly people they send me?
00:59:14.460
And they're like, but he's really funny and he's like super nice.
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And then I need to, because I need to assess the personality first.
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But that's why I'm like, looks are not a factor.
00:59:28.600
And I'm like, you guys want Margot, you have a Margot Robbie, like, goal, but you have, like.
00:59:35.420
They look like her and she's also funny and smart.
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My friend ER said, like, I think men see women like Alexa's, like how I see my Alexa.
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As soon as she starts to have thoughts and feelings, I'm like, okay, no, that's not what
01:00:02.340
I said that to my friend the other day, I think, because I saw that clip and I was
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It's like, as soon as you step outside of the fantasy.
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And they like to be the one to instill that belief in you, too.
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Like, they would like, they like to be the one to be like, you're actually really smart.
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Like, I really thought I was a stupid, dumb idiot with my thoughts.
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I've actually heard that verbatim to this guy who was training at the job he had just
01:00:33.820
And I was training him, teaching him how to do the job.
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And he told me, you're a lot smarter than you look.
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I've never looked at a person who looks stupid.
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Like, the way you look is like, you look stupid.
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I was like, is that supposed to be a compliment?
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I'll just keep training you at the job that we both have.
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Let's get back to me teaching you how to fucking do this.
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I love when you get to call them out and stuff like that.
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Because I feel like I've let so many things slide when I was younger.
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Because I don't want to embarrass them or like shut them down.
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But now that I'm older, which is typical, like for most women and men have never done
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And like or like, you know, I don't want to say that to offend someone.
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It's like they just say whatever they're thinking at any time.
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I'm like, have you ever thought about feelings?
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Just think about something before it comes out of your mouth.
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I've told people before, too, like when you want to test people and like maybe you're
01:01:59.180
not like super out, out like the gate fucking confrontational like me.
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I'm like, even when they say like something that's offensive, an offensive joke or something,
01:02:10.760
And then just act stupid like they think you are.
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And then when they explain it, go, oh, OK, then I did get it.
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And they'll get so they're like, it's fucking boring.
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Or like I, I used to do this thing when I, I used to, the club that I worked at was
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on like a strip in the city and it'd be like at night, everyone was like drunk and there's
01:02:31.780
people everywhere and men would always cackle me like going to and from the club.
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So I just started stopping and being like, what?
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Like you whistled at me and you like said some shit.
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And now I've stopped and been like, yeah, go on.
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Crazy how the bravado disappears like as soon as you.
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They're like, sorry, I was just getting it out.
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And I stop and I'm like, what do you want to say?
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I had a, I made a video talking about how I do the same thing.
01:03:00.760
Like I've taught people how I dealt with cackling in a way that wasn't putting us in
01:03:05.380
So I was just like pretending you don't hear them and just going, what?
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Cause the third or fourth time they do it, they're not going to have nearly as much confidence
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And then after that, you just go, oh, they were just trying to leave.
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And then one girl commented and she said that she says when they do that to her, she'll look
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at them and be like, you've had a lot of women die in your family, huh?
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I thought you were going to say, I don't have any change.
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But she says, you've had a lot of women die in your family, huh?
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Not that, but the whole, like, I don't have any change when I was with Jory once in West
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Hollywood and he was like driving past and he like said something and I went like, oh,
01:03:51.360
Everyone kind of looked at me like, no, I'm good.
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I'm standing on the street waiting for another car to go past.
01:04:03.960
In the comment section, I would have eaten you up if you weren't driving a Tesla right
01:04:09.060
So we talked about a lot of things, mostly how much men disgust us, which is they disgust
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But we also talked a lot about you and your amazing, wonderful music.
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I would love if you could give us your best piece of advice for any up and coming artists,
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whether they're gay, queer, whatever it may be.
01:04:30.660
And maybe they want to be a pop star and maybe they're a femme and they maybe feel a little
01:04:34.760
Like, what would you say is your best piece of advice for them coming up in the industry?
01:04:41.400
It sounds so like cliche and corny, but I think like really just not only just like, like
01:04:46.600
be yourself, but like really lean into it and like be that, like be that, but like extra,
01:04:53.200
And like, and not trying to like fit what's already been done and like what people are
01:04:58.120
doing and it might be successful for them because that's them and that's their nature
01:05:01.820
and they're really just amping it up and making it extra.
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Like, obviously with me, like I love the color pink and I love fairies and like, instead of
01:05:07.720
just having that be something that like, it is true and it's about me, I've like really
01:05:10.800
leaned into it and like, this is like, I've fully embodied this thing that I love.
01:05:14.220
And, and I think that helped me so much to be more creative and more expressive.
01:05:20.820
And I think it really makes the job fun and it makes people see that you're having fun
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And I think they love that about you because they can tell it's authentic to you.
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I feel like audiences are a lot smarter than people give them credit for.
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So when you're, you're not dressing or acting the way that feels authentic to you, like people
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I think that's a, that's a really good point is that I think people are smarter than we
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And I think in like even lyrics and stuff, sometimes I worry that like it might be too
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specific or too like, but then look at, you know, Taylor Swift and she's got these really
01:05:54.340
elaborate, you know, lyrics and people obviously love that.
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And I think, yeah, being, yeah, giving people more credit, I guess, and thinking that they
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And I, I will say too, I love that you love pink so much.
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And I feel like it's also a testament to women who love like whatever's girly, feminine,
01:06:20.040
Cause men love to demonize shit like that or make it to be corny or lame or whatever, which
01:06:27.740
And I hated the color pink when I was like younger, which turns out I just thought it
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And I think it's cause also like, it's because we see women sometimes portrayed as like a
01:06:39.060
caricature and it's like, Oh, I love shopping and pink.
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And it's like, and neither of those things are bad.
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And it's like, yeah, you can like those things, but also be a multifaceted person with other
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And I think when we're little, we just see that as like, Oh, well I'm not that.
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I must be one of the guys because I'm smart and I'm funny and I like cars or I like this.
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Like one doesn't have to exist without the other.
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But I think you're amazing and wonderful and so talented.
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I literally downloaded your EP to listen to when it came out on my flight to New York.
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And thank you all for joining us on this episode of the comment section show.
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And make sure y'all go and stream Peach's music on all streaming platforms.
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