The Comment Section with Drew Afualo

00:00:00.000 if you sing it enough it's a manifestation song like it'll bring you hoes exactly i've seen a

00:00:04.760 girl that was like i literally now have a white boy on my roster that just bought me pasta and

00:00:08.680 lobster and just told me that he wants to take me shopping i'm like i told you if you sing it enough

00:00:13.660 manifest yes manifest yes

00:00:16.000 hey everyone and welcome back to another episode of the comment section show starring me your

00:00:25.500 favorite everyone's like i don't care anymore tell me who the guest is today we have the

00:00:30.140 wonderful iconic the legendary callie how you doing girl i'm good how are you i'm great welcome

00:00:39.000 to the show happy to have you yes thank you for having me how has life been crazy it's been yes

00:00:45.260 it's been going up i'm on a high like everything's just been so like surreal it's been going crazy i

00:00:51.340 know how so obviously if you've been living under a fucking rock callie is the masterful rapper behind

00:00:58.940 area codes yes which is popping off yeah it well it already popped off and it continues to pop off so

00:01:05.200 how how long between when you posted it to now like did you ever see this happening did you know it was

00:01:11.680 gonna happen well yeah when i made the song i like called my team when i left and was like this is a hit

00:01:16.500 like i know like this is gonna be the one yeah everybody's gonna love it and then like soon as i

00:01:21.360 did the snippet people were like threatening me they're like girl i'll come to your house and find

00:01:25.740 you you need to drop that song and then it like went viral on tiktok before i even dropped the song

00:01:30.260 so yeah and how has life how how how much time has passed between then and now like when you called

00:01:36.480 your team to now i think it's been like two months that's crazy yeah it's going up so fast so you

00:01:42.440 knew it was going to be a hit but i'm sure you didn't guess it was going to like go that fast

00:01:46.480 like everything was going to happen so quickly well actually i have been manifesting i have been

00:01:50.120 writing stuff down like i'm like i love to manifest yeah me too like love that i create my own life

00:01:56.820 babe like i know what i know what's gonna go down i love that yeah what's your sign i'm a leo

00:02:02.700 love what's your sign a virgo i love leo women specifically not the men

00:02:09.800 they're all right they're not the worst yeah men of any sign i'm like yeah you can keep them

00:02:16.560 women of all signs i'm like yes and anyone else who doesn't identify as a man yes yeah sounds good

00:02:23.280 to me yeah well i'm so happy to have you you're a legend in the making currently thank you and

00:02:29.200 congrats on the bet awards i know you performed there how was that it was so fun i was like super

00:02:33.760 anxious and excited yeah so like i have been working so hard on my performance i'm just like i'm happy

00:02:39.220 because it's like more shows to come like since i killed it yeah absolutely yeah do you think that

00:02:44.900 i know since you're uh obviously an up-and-coming artist you're like skyrocketing right now and some

00:02:50.340 other artists that have been in the game for the long time for a long time they're just now getting

00:02:53.920 used to tiktok and like realizing that it can be a really helpful tool have you noticed that it's

00:02:59.720 like that there's kind of a shift in the industry like some people are like oh maybe i should start

00:03:04.760 leaning more towards tiktok well yeah i mean people like to throw in there like oh she's a

00:03:09.560 tiktok tiktok rapper but like i literally don't care like tiktok has put me on billboard like i

00:03:14.420 literally i will use tiktok anytime to release a song like that's what i'm saying i like it's social

00:03:19.120 media like it's what we have now i feel like you should use it to your best advantage like i'm put i'm

00:03:24.020 in people's faces i never thought i would be in front of like before yeah and thank you tiktok thank you

00:03:29.260 thank you instagram like i don't care yes call me a tiktok rapper like everybody's creating videos i

00:03:34.960 have like over a million videos made so like definitely use social media because yeah i think

00:03:40.580 i think too like especially when you get your launch off of social media yeah they can look at you a

00:03:46.320 little differently especially you in the music industry i'm sure um there are people who see it

00:03:50.720 through a different lens but it's like such a useful tool i'm like i'll never turn my back on social

00:03:55.900 media it's what gave me everything i have exactly it's like just outside of that creating like who

00:04:00.860 you are and getting people to know you like separated from social media i think that's where people like

00:04:04.580 try to like you know i don't know what the word is but you know it's okay they kind of try to look

00:04:09.980 down on social media or people who are in the same rooms as them and they got their start off social

00:04:16.200 media yeah they're like well i didn't have social media i had to go to the barber shop

00:04:21.280 you're like okay congratulations thank you sorry yeah well and also i think too it speaks to what

00:04:30.540 a hit it is because not every there are many people who put songs on tiktok and they don't take off

00:04:35.900 yeah so it's not like if you upload it's going to be an automatic social media is hard like it is

00:04:40.900 literally it's so hard especially to keep up with yeah to grow and then sustain exactly so and also just

00:04:48.320 because it trends doesn't mean it'll translate to like streams or anything like that exactly or put

00:04:54.040 you in rooms where you get to perform exactly good for you girl yeah thank you i'm happy thank you so

00:04:59.660 obviously the song i'm a huge fan of your song um and i'm sure i will be of every other song you put

00:05:04.980 out but your song area codes is very specific and it obviously i think it i think of ludicrous's song

00:05:10.580 area codes too so it's kind of like the inverse of that song so what was like the inspiration for

00:05:16.180 you when you were writing it when you were recording it like what were you yeah thinking

00:05:20.060 and feeling were you pulling from real life experience yeah well i wanted the song for i

00:05:24.620 wanted a song for the girls for the summertime like i just wanted to be like you know something

00:05:28.840 everybody can relate to and i was kind of going through a little breakup so i was just like i would

00:05:33.660 hate to show a man i still get me in like i still got hoes like and i can still get hoes so it

00:05:39.380 just came out like that you know so yeah now it's like a song where like if you don't have hoes

00:05:45.840 you probably had hoes before or like if you sing it enough it's a manifestation song like

00:05:50.980 it'll bring you hoes exactly i've seen a girl that was like i literally now have a white boy on my

00:05:55.060 roster that just bought me pasta and lobster and just told me that he wants to take me shopping i'm

00:06:00.140 like i told you if you sing it enough manifest yes manifest yes say it don't gotta be a white boy

00:06:06.500 it could be somebody else but just say it but you're there's a white one on yours i mean there's

00:06:11.240 some there's some people there's one trying to be yeah it's one we're not gonna say too much

00:06:16.300 about my roster do they have do you have men being like let me be the white boy on your roster oh yeah

00:06:21.120 a lot of them every day that's like the new thing to say to me like it's like a new pickup line yeah

00:06:26.820 let me be the the white boy on your roster or i can't feed you pasta and lobster but i can

00:06:31.560 stop right there yeah find something new to say i said that yeah be unique stand out you sue them

00:06:40.940 for plagiarizing you're like and lawsuit yeah hope it was worth it yeah well do you feel like how do

00:06:49.520 you i feel like your song too is all about confidence like it's all about like if you believe it you are

00:06:57.280 it kind of thing yeah do you feel like a lot of the people who love your song have like told you

00:07:02.840 like this song gives me so much confidence i love this song makes me feel sometimes makes me feel

00:07:07.520 like a bad bitch yeah do you notice people saying that yeah girls tell me all the time they like

00:07:11.660 i was just going through it like now i listen to you to like make myself feel like the baddest

00:07:16.080 bitch like f him like i'm outside and honestly that's what i want like when girls listen to my

00:07:22.360 music like that's what i want because sometimes i have my moment where i need to listen back like

00:07:26.320 girl what what did you just say you need to stand on what you just say you know so like i take that

00:07:30.840 too and people like oh why are you how are you so confident it's like i'm getting there you know

00:07:35.420 what i mean i speak it so like i can embody that too yeah yeah we all have our off days yes definitely

00:07:41.620 and then there are days where you're like no one can tell me shit like i look literally i'm that bitch

00:07:47.400 like seriously and when you feel that way and you listen to your song couple it together yeah match

00:07:53.660 made in heaven and then you get area code how long have you been doing music for um i've been

00:07:59.680 taking it serious since like 2018 i love that yeah have you did you see anything like have you learned

00:08:05.680 anything since before your song blew up because that's that means you've been putting in a lot of

00:08:09.560 work since before your song blew up yeah so like what's like what would you say is the most important

00:08:13.920 thing you learned just to have like tunnel vision and just like nobody owes me anything i have to believe

00:08:19.600 in myself before you know i expect anything from anybody else like or expect them to believe in me

00:08:25.080 so like definitely tunnel vision see my dream it's my dream so like people are always gonna have

00:08:30.080 opinions like don't pay attention to that just like focus on like what my goals are and where i see

00:08:34.840 myself going since you've like gotten the platform gotten the all the the hits and all the streams and

00:08:42.140 everything like that have you seen people from like back in the day coming up like oh my god like yes

00:08:48.380 hey best friend oh i remember you in class you remember i'm like what i always knew you were gonna

00:08:54.420 make it no you didn't actually same yeah like it's it's happening more like lately i'm starting to

00:09:02.520 notice it now oh i bet especially after the bet awards i can't even imagine how many people all my exes

00:09:08.140 are like yo i'm so proud of you i'm like boy f you don't be don't be proud of me please don't

00:09:16.260 please leave me alone i'm that's one of my biggest like icks now is i think about men i dated and i'm

00:09:21.560 like they tell people they did that hurts my feelings please stop embarrassing me please don't

00:09:26.920 do that to me don't go around telling people that's not true yeah let's don't as far as you know who are

00:09:32.400 you if you ask if someone asks me i'm gonna tell them i don't know who you are yeah and you don't

00:09:37.620 have a picture with me so prove it yeah i bet i bet it's especially because you're a song i can't

00:09:44.420 even imagine like men that you talked to back in the day yeah probably coming out of nowhere i bet

00:09:49.400 that song's about me huh no you're not even worth one lyric literally you're like i'm really gonna

00:09:57.240 hurt your feelings if i tell you who it is about so we probably shouldn't have that conversation

00:10:00.720 i feel it okay so speaking of dating we're gonna be talking about dating as a woman okay in this day

00:10:08.500 and age as a woman as a femme someone who is attracted to men we're gonna talk about dating

00:10:13.420 and how it's perceived very differently like when single men are dating versus when single women are

00:10:20.060 dating yes especially given the lyrics of your song yeah do you have any people being like oh this is so

00:10:25.720 irresponsible to talk like this do you have haters or anything about your song i mean yeah it's like

00:10:30.700 i feel like as a woman like when you say you're dating people automatically think like you're

00:10:35.940 being like intimate and like having sex with men of course and it's like dude like no because i said

00:10:41.960 i have hoes in different area codes i'm not literally going to different area codes and having sex with

00:10:45.860 all of these men like i'm tricking off i'm getting their money and i'm having conversations and even if

00:10:51.340 you were who cares yeah it's just like exactly like we don't we get called hoes but to them they're like

00:10:57.080 yeah they're like they're like she's a baddie oh my god like what yeah as soon as you say you're

00:11:03.080 dating multiple people at once yeah especially as like a woman or a femme it's dating you have to

00:11:08.040 figure out like what you like and you know who you like yeah you can't just hop into i mean you can

00:11:13.460 to each zone but i'm just saying like dating is dating when you're single until somebody says a

00:11:17.480 whole bunch of stuff it's not just one yeah yeah until somebody i feel like you're not in a

00:11:22.400 relationship until somebody says like will you be my girlfriend like ask me that like

00:11:26.680 and so then i'm outside i'm on i'm in the streets yes and no one can say anything to you about it

00:11:33.860 yeah and honestly men who are not awful don't care yeah they don't care at all when they're like

00:11:40.540 strong and they're not insecure they're like you're gonna be mine anyway so like cool like

00:11:45.020 sounds good i'm about to you know pressure i'm about to apply some pressure

00:11:48.420 okay it'd be the insecure ones that don't think they can compete like may the best man win

00:11:55.220 i saw uh recently i i did some work stuff and for some reason i saw a guy i used to date back in

00:12:04.020 college he was working there and i was like why why would that happen to me and uh one of my friends

00:12:09.900 was like oh it was like an ex i'm like no no no it was just someone i dated it was not an ex i don't

00:12:16.040 count that person as nope no no we were just hanging that body doesn't exist

00:12:20.340 as far as i know we were just friends yeah brothers in christ and nothing more that's all

00:12:28.100 we were together best buds best buds okay so we're gonna be talking about dating as a woman how it's

00:12:33.380 perceived differently from when men date obviously for operating within gender binary so uh for those

00:12:39.820 of you who aren't aware what we do in the comment section is we bring videos that i was tagged in here

00:12:44.540 that are applicable to our topic and then we tear them apart or we laugh or we kiki whatever

00:12:50.040 everything in between so this first video is two guys hosting a podcast and they're asking four

00:12:57.360 different women whose fault is hookup culture and one of the women says it's women's fault because

00:13:04.600 if women weren't putting out men if women weren't putting out men wouldn't have the ability to

00:13:11.200 so there wouldn't be hookup culture and then the male co-host says listen the fish market can't be

00:13:17.700 open if there's no fish for sale oh that screams pick me girl big time big time women were like well

00:13:24.720 it's actually our fault yeah why why why are you selling out your goals like that

00:13:29.960 if women weren't putting out men wouldn't have the ability to

00:13:36.160 to what to to do it i'm assuming like be hoes yeah yeah it's our fault yeah uh yeah it's our

00:13:45.600 fault that they want to have sex with anything and everyone that walks and breathes no literally

00:13:50.080 sometimes i'm sure you've realized this now too because you've been in the industry

00:13:53.620 uh i've gotten like back in the day i used to work in sports so um i've had my fair share of like

00:14:01.280 professional athletes like reach out to me and some girls were like how do i get a professional

00:14:06.360 athlete just be in the room literally it's really not that hard just be living breathing and next

00:14:12.020 to them yeah they're horse they're big horse there's lots of men who are big horse in this

00:14:17.580 industry yeah they don't care they don't care at all they're so used to like women like saying yes

00:14:22.880 and like yeah they just ride yeah they ride like hey i'm that guy like yeah they just kind of stand

00:14:30.740 there and just expect it to happen because like they're all the girls that's like hi like yeah you

00:14:35.460 know yeah to each his own i mean it is what it is yeah but that's why i'm like they're easy

00:14:39.960 athletes are easy athletes are the easiest to pick up in this industry you think so oh yeah i would say

00:14:45.460 it's rappers i think artists honestly they're probably neck and neck it's men yeah it's just

00:14:52.620 men in general as i said it's all of them like you would be shocked at how easy it is yeah i think

00:14:57.980 that's why maybe you feel this way too because you're a leo yeah but i like never really have

00:15:01.860 celebrity crushes like ever i never have really i mean i have i i never i recognize people who are

00:15:08.200 attractive but i don't yeah i definitely feel the same yeah and i think it's because i literally like

00:15:12.900 thought about i'm like why do i feel like something wrong with me and i think it's because

00:15:16.500 i genuinely believe i could get anyone yes i say that all the time like i love that for us that's

00:15:23.260 why yes that's why it's unacceptable like in relationship for me if you have a celebrity

00:15:27.820 crush because like like it's not me yeah i can literally get anybody yeah like no that's unacceptable

00:15:35.220 no absolutely not and my boyfriend who i've been with for a long time i like told him this once i

00:15:41.480 think we were like a year or two into dating and i brought this up so i'm like i think i never have

00:15:45.700 them because i genuinely believe i could get anybody like literally anybody and he was like

00:15:49.920 same and i was like soulmates soulmates oh my god love that for us yeah i feel like if a guy

00:15:57.840 says to me i'd be like me you could get anybody please i'm like sure you can i'm like dang but he got me

00:16:05.340 so i am somebody that's why i said real recognize real yeah game recognize game i feel it i get it i

00:16:15.280 got you that's why i was like same same here that's how i feel and i'm so glad you feel the same yeah

00:16:19.360 it's our and i'm not kidding yeah like anybody i genuinely believe that and you know what we're

00:16:26.080 probably both right yeah men are easy so it's a win-win honestly and i think this video makes no

00:16:34.400 sense because that's putting all the blame on women yeah that men are whores yeah it's like it's

00:16:40.080 like i think i just seen this one thing it was like basically saying like i forgot who it was but

00:16:46.440 somebody was blaming the girl for like him cheating and like being a liar and it was just like oh you did

00:16:52.160 this but i did this because i don't know because you yeah this this and this to me so that's why i

00:16:58.100 cheated you're a cheating liar because what it's just the biggest gaslight yeah they're just gaslighting

00:17:03.540 women yeah they're like that's not i don't want to treat you this way but you made me you made me do

00:17:09.540 this to you yeah because you walked the wrong way in the morning time and i didn't like that it'd be the

00:17:14.540 simplest thing yeah it just makes no sense it's just a way for them to literally justify their bad

00:17:21.240 behavior yeah they're like oh no that's probably your fault and this guy comparing women to fish

00:17:26.820 if the fish market can't be open if there's no fish for sale i don't know what type of

00:17:31.400 he didn't have

00:17:32.180 it can't be open if there's no fish for sale the fish market can't be open if no one's buying fish

00:17:40.180 like it's the same that's the same mentality when men slut shame sex workers it's like who do you

00:17:46.860 think's buying that y'all y'all are going to take it up with your peers like it's your fellow

00:17:51.780 brethren those are the people supply it's like supply and demand yeah there if there's no demand

00:17:57.400 there's no supply yeah so chicken egg you know what i mean we're all i guess we're all whores at the end

00:18:03.000 of the day yeah so the comments on this video this one says i think he's like he's putting in quotes

00:18:09.940 he's like being sarcastic i'm wearing 200 a 200k watch and two karat gold chain around my neck i hope

00:18:17.380 nobody robs me when i walk in the dark alley at midnight i think that's him justifying women

00:18:23.400 getting attacked or anything like women are being harassed sexually harassed because they're putting

00:18:28.680 it out there by just existing in the world that's just so nasty it is so nasty it's so fucking gross

00:18:34.440 but i feel like that's just trolls like if you actually believe in that like i feel like people

00:18:39.980 do stuff for the internet just for attention like absolutely they don't actually feel i hope you don't

00:18:43.980 feel like you have mothers and sisters you know yeah you would think yeah yeah it scares me people

00:18:49.420 like that scare me if they really do believe shit like in person if you would say that it's like

00:18:53.460 ew but so i think that all the time i'm like have you tried saying that to a real life

00:18:59.360 woman yeah like someone in real life like bringing that up to them i'm scared for the woman that's

00:19:04.140 dating you or you might go the other way yeah that's why you feel the way you feel like maybe

00:19:09.000 and it's just so it's just so disgusting like you said it's just gross this next one says i've been

00:19:16.000 saying this for years if women didn't open their legs to men there wouldn't be any cheaters

00:19:21.260 but women want what other women have that's what you just said step out anyway if they want to whether

00:19:28.880 like say we all like close our legs and it was like you know what when i do they're still gonna

00:19:34.960 try like they're gonna find something yeah like what they're gonna find a way to cheat if they want

00:19:40.740 to cheat it has nothing to do and i feel like i feel like cheating is anything you don't want me

00:19:44.960 doing yeah absolutely it don't have nothing to do with sex baby if i see you all in that girl's likes

00:19:50.380 that's cheating yeah it's uh emotionally cheating yeah yeah it's the same i actually talked about

00:19:59.300 that once on tiktok and it was kind of like a discussion amongst uh women and femmes too because

00:20:04.660 they were basically saying like well i'm not insecure so i don't care okay that's you yeah i do care and

00:20:10.320 i feel like that's not being insecure just knowing like your boundaries with me like yeah it may be okay

00:20:15.440 with you there's certain things that you may be okay with that i'm not okay with yeah i'm strict

00:20:19.880 around this bitch so i don't want none of that you know i don't know and i and i also don't do that

00:20:25.320 yeah i i have no desire to exactly and i don't do it either so what i the kind of respect and

00:20:31.820 boundaries i hold for myself yeah i would hope they hold too yeah i think that's fair it's like

00:20:36.980 whatever whatever your preference is like as far as when it comes to your boundaries they're all

00:20:42.360 specific to the person yeah i feel the same way because i think to myself if they're liking a bunch of

00:20:47.860 pictures of other women that aren't you and let's say they're all like sexy like bikini pictures yeah

00:20:53.300 why is he liking those pictures yeah what's what do you get was he a big fan of the bikini yeah he

00:20:57.320 wants to know the brand or is it maybe something else and i'm big on like putting your like uh foot

00:21:02.300 in other people's shoes like if i don't like that and then you see me doing it it's gonna be like

00:21:06.960 you know guys always they try to act like they don't care but then they be like why are you in his

00:21:10.660 likes it's like yeah oh this is my friend like i like this outfit but like

00:21:13.860 really yeah you know like come on yeah it's like a double standard like yeah no don't do it

00:21:19.740 you don't want me doing it because when i do it your chest is gonna cave in but when you do it just

00:21:24.740 just play it safe yeah that's what i think yeah and i think it's whatever you prefer like if those

00:21:30.040 aren't your boundaries that's fine yeah that doesn't make that doesn't make women who do care

00:21:34.920 that doesn't make them insecure yeah like they just have different boundaries and then they tell you

00:21:38.760 like hey i don't like when you do that so don't do it anymore yeah i think that's fair i think

00:21:42.640 that's valid yeah and i don't i don't want you oogling bodies that aren't mine i don't think

00:21:48.880 that's too much to ask exactly i think you can look at me and me alone yeah that's why i said what

00:21:54.900 are you looking what do you what do you need to see so bad yeah that's why now i'm like first red

00:21:59.620 flag you're cut like i don't even want to see yeah i was gonna ask are you dating yeah i'm outside

00:22:04.120 oh yeah you heard the song i'm outside wait and you're not not looking for anybody right now

00:22:10.500 you know i'm really just focused on like i'm going up like i just want to keep going up like

00:22:15.900 i'm just focused on my music and my career and just i love that being outside with the girls like it's

00:22:20.320 summertime like let's have fun i'm really not even dating for real like i'm just like having a good

00:22:25.100 time yeah i don't even i have i know i have a lot of dms but i don't respond to that i'm more of like

00:22:28.900 an energy person like in person like you know as we vibe i kind of have to like see you around more

00:22:34.080 than once like i don't want to just you know i feel you so i'm just i'm literally just chilling

00:22:38.560 ride my wave and going up period making my coins do you get any creepy people any creepy men yeah i

00:22:47.440 mean yes it's this one guy is so funny i was just showing somebody from my team this he's been like

00:22:53.040 dming me for years and like 30 years and it's like 30 messages a day and it's like what are they not

00:23:00.080 miss the day like sometimes it's just squirting emojis and then sometimes it's like a it's like

00:23:05.620 a voice memo of him just like yeah and i did this today and i'm just he's just updating you on his

00:23:11.900 life he's like i went to the store i'm yeah call me when you're done i'm so confused and like he'll

00:23:16.240 he's getting mad like when i post certain things like oh stop playing with me you're making me hot

00:23:19.900 and then i'm like every day for years yes i have to show you after this like it's so funny like

00:23:26.980 crazy and i bet you he's at the top like at the top right now he just sent me a message

00:23:31.640 i swear to god there's one of my creator friends had that happen to him and it was like someone who

00:23:37.840 uh my friend is gay but he had this guy who's like would send him hate every single day but then he

00:23:45.740 would send him hate and then some days he would send him like really sexual messages and then he

00:23:49.300 would go back to hate and like he did it every day for like two years yeah sending him mixed signals

00:23:54.420 yeah and then one day my friend posted in his story he's like i hope he's okay i haven't heard

00:23:59.640 from him today i hope he's doing good hope you're doing well yeah haven't heard from you today i

00:24:05.000 haven't got a message do you still hate and love me yeah just just checking in just want to make

00:24:09.860 sure you're good yeah that's crazy yeah it's some crazy people like in my comment section is actually

00:24:16.440 hilarious like people don't know what they're talking about or what they want to say today like i just

00:24:21.900 be like bro figure it out none of my business honestly whatever goes on in there yeah that's

00:24:27.420 crazy do you get a lot of interest from other men like famous men you don't have to tell me who but

00:24:33.340 i mean i mean yeah yeah i bet yeah i'm curious they all but they all just they're just there

00:24:41.680 they're all just there they're just obsessed yeah i don't take instagram and like i don't take dm

00:24:47.500 serious like i just say i just i feel you yeah like i gotta you never know like somebody could

00:24:52.460 seem so cool on the internet and then you meet them and they're like a true cornball and it's like

00:24:57.260 do you have any icks from them yeah i was just talking to my team about this like

00:25:03.820 one i don't like smoking weed so like i don't like when like men smoke weed and it's like

00:25:09.240 lingering on their breath oh and all you do is smell it oh my god we does not smell good no it doesn't

00:25:15.480 and then like i hate when like a man doesn't listen like he keeps making you try to repeat

00:25:20.800 yourself like that huh huh huh it's like bro never mind you're like like you're not like in that like

00:25:28.200 stuck face it's like i'm just like you're you can't be that you're not serious yeah let's be

00:25:37.120 serious for once in your life you just write them off oh yeah oh yeah you said first red flag i'm out

00:25:42.640 yeah and then another thing is like like i'm dark skinned so like when men approach me they'll be

00:25:48.060 like oh you're the prettiest dark skin i've ever seen i'm just like you thought i was a compliment

00:25:52.540 uh-oh it's not a compliment it's not yeah it's literally an ache anyway thanks for showing me

00:25:58.000 early bye see ya like no that's yeah yeah when i back in the eons ago because i've been with my man

00:26:07.280 for a minute now but when i would get approached um i'm i'm i'm so forever ago i've been on the bench

00:26:14.720 thank god but i uh it's literally pissing the pool like it's bad it's bad out there when i um would

00:26:22.680 get hit on in public i i'm someone i'm pacific islander so um a lot of men can't tell what race

00:26:29.360 i am so they would just pick a random especially white dudes yeah they uh pick a random or random

00:26:36.460 one to fetishize yeah so they'd be like oh i've never been with like a latina mommy before

00:26:41.560 and you won't start today because i'm here in the room because it's not me i'm like are you talking

00:26:46.620 to me yeah wrong race babe you're fetishizing the wrong one it's wrong it's like they see like pretty

00:26:52.540 hair like your skin tone it just things anything yeah they're like it's like they only know three it's

00:26:57.460 white black and brown yeah but the brown is only hispanic there's no other yeah so they're like oh

00:27:03.980 probably hispanic yeah wrong you didn't get it right actually so you were wrong and you grossed me

00:27:10.120 out yeah on top of that i was like and you're and you're ugly you gotta pick one or the other yeah

00:27:14.580 you can't be a fetishizer and ugly you gotta pick one or the other yeah okay this last comment on here

00:27:19.980 says men hope to get laid women decide to get laid women are fully responsible what

00:27:26.980 hate that argument when they're like it they consider like if we're operating again within a

00:27:33.360 gender binary they consider women who are sexually liberated they consider them to be

00:27:38.960 sluts and whores because men have to actually try yeah and women don't but the irony of that it

00:27:46.980 doesn't make sense because they're just proving they're easy that's my point and that makes you a

00:27:51.720 like by definition and you know since i hear that argument where it's like uh girls can't like

00:27:57.340 have sex if they're like without being in love with the guy yeah like i have to be in love with you

00:28:03.440 in order like they're like automatically like they're attached to you yeah like you have like

00:28:07.660 you know emotional interest sir i'm like says who not my rose doesn't think so

00:28:13.840 that's my point i'm like yeah you leave out like self-pleasure yeah and you also you don't factor

00:28:23.780 in any other woman who's not attracted to men obviously but i've only like in my experience

00:28:29.580 i've met more women who are completely unattached from sex than i have men yeah men like they say they

00:28:37.480 don't care bro but let them catch you outside with somebody else oh they care the most like literally

00:28:43.240 they swear my manager look to give a guy three months like a don't speak to him yeah and his mind

00:28:50.360 completely lost gone like i thought you didn't care like what happened as soon as you let go like

00:28:57.460 that's the moment it's like wait please please please like i want her back like no like they care

00:29:02.400 the most literally like i feel like women can like switch it off like dumb yeah because you know

00:29:07.480 why because women are so used to being treated like shit yeah and they are so used to never expecting

00:29:12.520 anything from men yeah that they're like i'm not gonna get attached because who knows where we're

00:29:16.320 gonna be tomorrow let alone three months from now i mean even if you do get attached i feel like

00:29:20.720 we like are able to work through our emotions yeah we go through our emotions it's like okay like i care

00:29:26.420 like now what yeah guys just like try to act like they don't care on to the next girl like you know it hits

00:29:31.740 them later but worse yeah yeah and i also when i like when i first started dating my boyfriend like

00:29:37.400 the the minute i posted him you know how many men unfollowed me you know how many got men got mad at

00:29:43.640 me yeah they were upset with me they were like i didn't know you were dating you didn't that's not

00:29:49.240 none of your business was i supposed to report to you what are you my fucking boss hey team so just a

00:29:55.080 quick update i set up an email blast yeah blast it to my roster yeah it's just so you know you guys

00:30:01.320 have been benched permanently yeah thanks guys yeah thanks team better luck next year next draft

00:30:06.440 season we'll see how it goes yeah that's crazy that's so funny men are so they they are just as

00:30:11.800 if not more emotional yeah yeah than women are i'm learning that now definitely learning that now

00:30:17.000 it's crazy yeah and it's like now like to see it in the wild yeah i'm starting to like learn as i'm

00:30:23.380 going up i was just explaining this to my friends like nobody wants to be on the roster anymore like

00:30:28.820 everybody wants to be a boyfriend and it's just like no like what happens if people wanted to be

00:30:34.320 hoes and like in the streets like when i was in a relationship like everybody wanted to be outside

00:30:38.360 yeah now i'm outside like where the hoes at where is everyone everybody wants to be my boyfriend

00:30:44.380 nobody clocked in yeah like what happened everybody wants to be a boyfriend what's going on with y'all

00:30:49.060 like you said the brand is in trouble you guys men are supposed to be like it's like

00:30:54.300 everybody everybody don't want to be on the roster now they want to be the only one yeah

00:30:59.380 no no thanks maybe in the in the winter it gets cold coming season yeah there you go okay this next

00:31:08.100 video is a woman looking at her phone she's pretending to read texts from guys with the

00:31:13.880 caption dating as a big girl okay the texts say you're pretty for a big girl you're not even that

00:31:19.940 big to be honest let's just chill and see where things go and we can be sneaky links well that's

00:31:27.380 kind of like what you just said when they do that weird backhanded yeah it's like i never dated a

00:31:33.040 a dark-skinned girl but like if i did it would be you because like i literally don't care like you're

00:31:38.240 not even my type yeah congrats i guess yeah well it's also like what am i supposed to do with

00:31:44.940 that information yeah be like you mean it oh my god really my king oh my god you're gonna pick me

00:31:51.600 nobody i've never met before yeah fuck out of me fuck out of my face yeah who cares i think it's uh

00:31:58.000 they're like it's like a what do you call it negging like when they they say something it's like a tactic

00:32:04.800 that pickup artists use i don't know it's such a dated term but like they tell you to like say

00:32:10.460 something that's negative it's not really a compliment yeah to women and it's supposed to

00:32:16.060 like force them to like prove themselves to you so they'll say things like you're pretty for a dark

00:32:22.000 skinned girl or they'll say you're pretty for a big girl and then be like oh my god so you think i'm

00:32:27.540 pretty yeah oh my god thank you so much but i feel like women nowadays are more like self-aware like

00:32:32.120 we know like you're full of shit yeah they can smell it on you honestly well that's just that's

00:32:40.000 fucking rude that's a rude thing to say that is not a compliment yeah uh it's like you're cute for

00:32:45.160 a short guy our short king like who just comes short kings yeah love that for us yeah i had a guy

00:32:51.460 once tell me that i looked i was actually a lot smarter than he thought i would be he's like that

00:32:57.020 that's really impressive okay mind you that situation i was like training him i was teaching

00:33:03.980 him how to do something we were co-workers oh and he was like oh you're a lot you're like so much

00:33:09.920 smarter than i thought you were going to be when i first met you i thought you're going to be stupid

00:33:13.280 okay oh my god you mean it oh my god get out thank you so much oh my god oh wow thank you so much

00:33:22.440 i'm honored yeah not yeah so what do you say to that like thanks oh my god thank you yeah thank

00:33:30.600 you so much side eye yeah okay yeah i had a guy once tell me like he was hitting on me but he was

00:33:37.520 like you're not like any of these other bitches you're not like these bitches out here and we're

00:33:42.120 like other women like oh my god yeah so i was like my titties are pushed up to my neck what do you

00:33:48.680 mean yeah i'm just like every other bitch you know actually in fact bring one up i bet you we

00:33:52.340 have a lot more in common than you think what are you talking about they don't know how to talk to

00:33:56.760 women i don't know not even a little bit what's the worst pickup line you've ever gotten um let me

00:34:03.740 see i think it's the it's the let me be on the let me be a white boy on your roster it's like i came

00:34:08.940 up with that can you come up with something different like you have no originality like i don't let's

00:34:14.620 say you were looking to date or add someone to the roster let's say add to the roster what would

00:34:19.480 you say is ideal to get them on the roster so we can hear the qualifications um spend the bag like

00:34:26.300 i'm all for spending all your money all the time like on you yes i like i'm so straightforward with

00:34:32.580 men like i want this like and you tell me no it's like a you're like you're already not on the roster

00:34:37.420 now because like why are you telling me no they disqualified themselves immediately got it yeah and

00:34:42.280 then like i work really hard so like don't don't be too like like clingy like i feel you and like

00:34:48.160 insecure you know i'm always around like other guys and like working and stuff like don't be

00:34:52.920 insecure and like like a weirdo yeah and just be like trying to make up stories in your head like

00:34:58.140 that's for women to do it's not that's not for you yeah i don't know just be just have big d

00:35:05.060 energy like yeah you know yeah i think so i just want to have fun so like not too serious right

00:35:10.660 nothing too serious the roster is not serious like please don't be serious like that's how you

00:35:14.300 get cut off like please don't be the minute you start taking it seriously you're off the roster

00:35:18.800 yeah immediately yeah that's like um do you know aliyah aliyah's interlude she's on tiktok yes love

00:35:24.960 her love her she when she was on my show she was telling me that she thinks that um only men have

00:35:31.980 red flags yeah for women they're just quirks yeah they're just cute i absolutely agree with that

00:35:36.940 yeah i second that she's so wise for her age honestly like that's wow i never thought of that

00:35:42.460 yeah she's like they're just quirks yeah girls are just quirky and they're cute and they're fun

00:35:46.480 yeah and um they're the best no red flags no uh men have so many red flags no quirks yeah

00:35:52.620 they're just negatives yeah and so i think that's easy for the roster right can't have any red flags

00:35:58.300 no because those are for the women yeah and they're not red flags they're quirks exactly they're

00:36:03.040 just silly fun facts about us fun facts i was trying to think of words i'm like yes fun facts

00:36:07.800 those are fun facts about us i think so sometimes i have anger issues and that's a fun fact fun fact

00:36:13.560 that's so silly i might throw a shoe at you one day like just dodge you know yeah and then it's fun

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00:37:26.720 of this one so this one says lol so you're having to go through what average dudes go through better

00:37:33.600 get a better personality or money that's the solutions we have to find women can't go through nothing we

00:37:40.080 can't just have it like nothing oh my god women have no problems yeah at all according to men like that

00:37:45.760 like yeah misogynistic men they're like women have no problems it's so easy for you yeah they want to be

00:37:50.640 that's the problem they just want to be us like that was such a it's so oppression olympics yeah yeah

00:37:57.200 it's like i have it hard yeah okay yeah like y'all can wear makeup and y'all can do this like sir you

00:38:03.840 could too yeah if you really wanted to you absolutely nobody's stopping yeah nobody's stopping you but you

00:38:09.680 yeah i mean the only limit is up here yeah that's in your mind but hey it's like uh when men say like

00:38:16.720 women who are like fitness girls and they like take lots of fitness pictures or whatever they're

00:38:21.120 like if i like i post fitness cons all the time but it doesn't get nearly as many likes because

00:38:26.320 her ass is out take your ass out let's see it if you do it let's see what happens maybe you'll get

00:38:31.920 the same amount of likes who knows yeah don't hate the player hate the game yeah that's why i'm like i

00:38:36.560 didn't invent it yeah can we get a can we get a back turn around yeah a little arch yeah a little arch

00:38:43.760 yeah i think so yeah let's see how it does let's see if it runs up the numbers yeah okay this next

00:38:49.200 comment says y'all do all of this complaining but have you tried getting fit and changing your results

00:38:55.120 oh because this girl she's like dating as a big girl again men are hoarse so women regardless of how

00:39:02.480 they look have literally no problems i feel like everybody just has the whole world just has their

00:39:08.240 own opinions and how they feel about certain things like that comment section is crazy but another

00:39:12.960 comment section might be like uplifting yeah you know it just it just depends on what audience

00:39:17.200 you hit like some people are just weird like especially on tiktok yeah i feel like if you

00:39:20.960 hit the wrong side you'll just get the worst people in the world it's just like i wasn't even talking to

00:39:25.840 you guys like literally if the shoe doesn't fit don't wear it like yeah if you call somebody i'm like

00:39:32.720 some of y'all are like weird and then they be like i'm not weird it's like i said some

00:39:37.200 like not me yeah yeah they feel so attacked yeah that's why i'm like only hit dogs holler

00:39:44.400 yeah so if that's you maybe that's why it bothers you like i hate cheaters oh i don't cheat on my girl

00:39:49.120 oh okay yes you do because nobody nobody says nobody says nobody volunteers that information without like

00:39:56.960 having to yeah cover something yeah like okay what you been doing yeah i saw a video um of a man

00:40:05.360 recently he was basically talking it wasn't a bad video by any means but he was saying how

00:40:10.080 he doesn't have any female friends that are not friends of his wife's so he's like my wife's friends

00:40:15.680 like i would consider those my friends yeah but i don't pursue those kinds of relationships on my own

00:40:22.160 yeah out of respect for my wife yeah and i was like i mean that's cool i mean that's t whatever your

00:40:27.200 boundaries are yeah but a lot of people were like that's weird that's weird i mean i feel like if you're

00:40:32.640 married like our friend group is the same it's all the same people so yeah yeah making a bunch of

00:40:37.680 random female friends i mean now are you having conversations outside of it yeah that's where i

00:40:43.520 would be like yeah exactly that's not your like that's not your friend friend let's keep it let's

00:40:49.520 keep it cute cocktails and parties yeah and that's it yeah i think so yeah i think too it's like it's one

00:40:56.800 of those things that it's specific to the person but if you're incapable of being friends with women

00:41:03.440 because you are worried you might do something that's different yeah like you're a weirdo like

00:41:09.200 you're like i can't hang around women because i might cheat yeah you don't have self-control like at

00:41:13.840 all oh yeah or guys saying like women can't have guy friends is so funny to me because it's like

00:41:20.080 like y'all are just like for like putting y'all projecting it's literally projecting on us and

00:41:25.680 it's just like we don't want to have sex with every man that's walking or like they saying they

00:41:31.120 can't be friends with females it's like the weirdest thing to me it's like y'all can have

00:41:34.560 like a platonic relationship we just have regular conversation that's what i'm saying opposite sex

00:41:38.720 like that's the kind of shit i'm like that's weird that's like a red flag a huge red flag because

00:41:43.360 i feel like that means you don't see women as human beings yeah you see them as things like

00:41:50.000 yeah that you want to have sex with that's like narcissistic vibes like and really big time

00:41:55.280 it's so and they brag about that they're like oh i i can't hang out with like you know what i mean

00:42:00.240 that's not a brag that's not an accomplishment you should be proud of yeah only the guy only guys

00:42:06.560 will like pick that up like pick me home boys yeah men are like yeah yeah yeah like

00:42:14.000 you're a weirdo yeah you're a fucking weirdo you can't speak to women without being being

00:42:18.560 fucking gross yeah you're incapable yeah that's so strange and i always i think that like back to

00:42:24.160 the pick me thing about that girl uh pick me women shock me they confuse me i don't understand them

00:42:30.480 literally at all because i think you don't have one bitch in your life that loves you it's weird you

00:42:35.840 don't have one bitch in your life yeah you need your girls yeah like you need you need your girls yeah

00:42:41.600 you cannot be surrounded by men all the time that would be the most infuriating situation yeah

00:42:45.840 men are exhausting or like it maybe it was just like an intention an attention thing like i just

00:42:49.920 like need attention right now so i'm gonna say actually something i don't agree with just to

00:42:54.400 like get the men and like be like oh yeah she's cool she's not like the others yeah yeah they'll

00:42:58.960 say things like protect they need validation protect this woman at all costs no one's coming

00:43:04.400 for her yeah are you dating her i didn't think so yeah i think that's so sad i'm like a life without

00:43:11.840 women or femmes is so colorless it's so boring yeah

00:43:15.760 okay here's another comment on this one it says just eat right and go to the gym like every other

00:43:26.160 overweight guy okay yeah okay well the thing the irony about that is like she wasn't talking about

00:43:33.360 it being hard to get men's attention it's not yeah even as as a thicker girl like yeah it's not hard

00:43:39.200 to get there that's not what she's talking about yeah she's literally saying like men are just gross

00:43:43.360 yeah and then they're like well if you want someone yeah yeah if you want someone go to the

00:43:48.000 gym fatty well that wasn't even talking about that like it's not hard it's just gross yeah i think

00:43:54.880 that's insane do you like going to the gym no i want to be a gym fatty so bad but like i feel you

00:44:03.120 i just i can't i know it's awful yeah i just like strawberry lemon drops so much and like going out

00:44:11.440 and having steaks and lobsters and like period i i just can't get up i already have to get up at

00:44:16.960 like 7 a.m almost every morning for like interviews and stuff but like so getting in the gym before that

00:44:22.400 is like not happening i'm still like trying to get over my strawberry lemon drops the next morning so

00:44:28.320 maybe one day how was it prepping for the BET awards was that a lot of like i mean dancing obviously

00:44:34.000 yeah it was it was fun it was a lot of dancing but i was still like i was still chilling like oh nice

00:44:39.840 i'm pretty like athletic like i got a little i think so i got a little yeah something to me

00:44:44.480 were you an athlete in high school yeah i played soccer since i was seven until 19 yeah that's crazy

00:44:50.240 same oh my gosh what position did you play i played a center back left back forward and striker

00:44:56.080 oh period yeah i played center and left back too okay that's so funny oh my gosh i love that

00:45:02.080 wait how old are you 22 oh you're young you're a baby i'm a million years old compared to you

00:45:08.480 in tiktok no you're not i'm gonna be 28 so girl please i'm gonna say like 38 or something

00:45:15.360 whenever i make that joke oh my god thank you no no no no i wasn't saying like looks like i'm just

00:45:20.000 saying like you said a million years so like what in tiktok years i'm like considered an old man yeah

00:45:26.480 like i'm a grandpa no i mean you're 22 but like when i go to like anything media related entertainment

00:45:33.040 related whatever i tell people especially if there's tiktokers there yeah they're like how old

00:45:37.120 are you i'm like i'm gonna be 28 they're like oh my god i just turned 21 okay so like i didn't ask

00:45:44.880 how did you say it though i don't like that tone yeah i don't even i don't even date like men

00:45:49.760 younger than 28 really oh i just like oh you like i'm older not too old

00:45:54.880 not sugar daddy vibe but it's just like older i feel you i mean that's i i feel like even when i

00:46:04.400 was dating i always dated older too yeah it's just easier that way because if they say like men don't

00:46:08.480 really mature into the like 35 like i just want to get closer to that the maturity i want one that's

00:46:15.040 already done like yeah baked and ready almost there ready to go yeah i just got to take it out the

00:46:19.920 oven yeah i feel you and then you can't like expect too much from like younger guys and i

00:46:24.480 do expect a lot like so like i know my standards like yeah too much like a job like yeah it's like

00:46:31.440 i can't expect a 22 year old guy to be like buying chanel bags and like not live with their mom or like

00:46:38.880 have their own car like but i expect that like that's something i want yeah like i'm gonna be with

00:46:45.120 the men that have their stuff together i feel you yeah so that's why you shoot older yeah i feel

00:46:49.920 that and i feel like it's just i don't know do you have a lot in common with older men i feel like

00:46:54.080 that was my hardest part was like sometimes if they were way older than me like and when i say

00:46:58.560 way older like eight eight years no i don't think oh it's like too old 28 to like 33 like that's like

00:47:05.840 my and i'm not going past that really so like sorry if you're looking to be added to the roster

00:47:11.440 sorry i can't be old sorry sorry sorry sorry sorry we have like a five like you have fire age

00:47:17.200 gap right yeah like i can't imagine i had i had one of my girlfriends was on the show and she was

00:47:22.560 telling me how she uh would go on dates with dudes that were like way older just for funds like for

00:47:29.680 funsies for the story because some of them were famous and she would go just for the bit she'd be

00:47:33.760 like ah fuck it i'm gonna go and see what yeah it is and mind you she was probably like all right

00:47:38.400 and i think right now she's like 24 25 and this was like when she was like 22 and she was like

00:47:43.200 going out with men like on a date where she's just like she's so pretty and cute she'll just sit

00:47:47.680 there and they're like in their 50s and she said i was like what do you guys talk about yeah like

00:47:54.320 what do you what do you ask them are you like what was the great depression like you know what

00:47:57.600 i mean like what are you talking about were you ever married were you like alive when the cell

00:48:00.720 phone was out or no yeah what did you do for fun before social media yeah i don't think i can do

00:48:06.160 that because like i'm so like blunt with how i feel like and you can see it all in my face like

00:48:10.320 yeah i just be like yeah they're older yeah that's why i'm like older men like that i'm like what do

00:48:17.360 you fucking talk about yeah what is there to talk about you're like i don't know yeah like what was

00:48:22.560 the 2008 crisis did that hit you hard or was it like were you like in college at the time yeah i don't

00:48:29.680 know yeah i can't date too old i'm the same way i feel like my emotions are too visible on my face

00:48:35.760 yeah especially if i'm disgusted yeah i really say how i feel too yeah like no i feel like your teeth

00:48:42.880 are about to fall out like literally you're like i'm gonna have to put you in a home soon no not that

00:48:49.680 old oh my god no absolutely each is on though like yeah women who date that old i'm like i give you mad

00:48:56.320 props i don't know how you do it like i would probably laugh all the time like like what's

00:49:02.080 really going on right now you wouldn't add an oldie to your roster no absolutely not i think my dad would

00:49:09.440 be like what are you doing no seriously yeah i think even to like uh that's that's like kind of the same

00:49:18.400 guy who like if they have a lot of money like like a sugar daddy they want to like spoil you whatever

00:49:23.120 um terrible misogynistic men hate that too because they're like oh you're just a gold digger

00:49:28.800 oh but i always think they just worry about other men's money yeah and it's like you have zero dollars

00:49:34.000 that's why you're so worried yeah you're so worried about other men like you don't have no money to dig

00:49:38.080 in like what am i okay for you're okay don't worry about it i promise like the men with money don't

00:49:44.400 care they really don't it's not tricky if you got it comes from like they literally don't care they

00:49:48.800 want to spend they want to see you happy like that's when you know they got the funds like yes

00:49:53.840 like they just want to buy you what you want and there's no problems like it's just like i want to

00:49:57.600 see her smile and i want that so i want to smile again so if you want to be on cali's roster yes

00:50:03.760 do you have to want to see me smile with like spending money yeah because i have my days where i'm just

00:50:10.080 like let's go to sax and i love like steak and and mashed potatoes and all that all of that like

00:50:17.040 every single day people like oh my gosh like you're like the typical like bougie girl but i'm

00:50:21.600 not i just really i like things like you got it yeah why not because even if you say no like i'm still

00:50:27.760 gonna go get it so it's like i just figured you wanted to be included yeah i feel that i wanted you

00:50:33.280 to include you in my day i think that about too like when men like when you get free drinks right like

00:50:40.880 when i used to go out all the time and i would be like oh you go in the club and you're like oh my god

00:50:44.800 i'm so thirsty oh i'm so thirsty i wish i had a drink i wish i had a drink so bad oh my god

00:50:49.760 do you want to buy me a drink oh my god that'd be secret i literally would be like oh i'd love that

00:50:53.200 like we talk and he's like i could get you a drink yeah i'm like oh my god great i do have like four

00:50:57.440 girlfriends with me yes oh my god and i don't want to drink without them and they're like oh he's like

00:51:01.200 oh i got i got all of you yeah okay pretty he i will take five of these and they're on him thank you so

00:51:06.720 much yeah thank you yeah you just take it and you leave and there's all that god is looking like

00:51:11.440 why and then when i would tell those stories on tiktok like men would get mad yeah and they'd be

00:51:17.280 like that's because they want the drinks bought for them like they want us to do that and if you

00:51:23.280 can't buy them and i said the same thing i'm like i can buy it myself i'm just if i don't have to i will

00:51:28.240 not yeah like it's cool if a guy buys you a drink but if i'm with my home girls and you buy all of his

00:51:34.320 drinks like that gives you cool points because i'm probably not even gonna accept the drink by myself

00:51:38.480 yeah same because it's like if you're with your girls everyone like when i eat the whole teammates

00:51:44.480 yeah that's why i'm like well sometimes i can't be over here like drunk and late and my friends are

00:51:48.480 like and sometimes my friends would be like hey get over there go talk to that guy he looks like he's

00:51:54.240 gonna buy all of us stuff yeah so you just walk by like oh my god that'd be so great i know gosh i

00:52:00.320 just wish i had to drink it so hot in here yeah and then like thank you thank you so much i even when i

00:52:05.440 first started dating my boyfriend and we would go out yeah my boyfriend would be like why don't you

00:52:08.880 take a lap get us some drink i just walk around by myself and i'm like oh my god that'd be so great

00:52:13.760 my friend needs a drink too bye thank you here you go babe yeah and then i'm like we're getting drunk

00:52:19.840 on someone else's dime yeah i think that's making the patriarchy work for you yeah i'm like you i always

00:52:25.920 think so i also think too like they're not buying you a drink because they think you look smart yeah

00:52:32.800 they're not like she looks like a nice person i'm gonna talk to that's not why they're talking to

00:52:36.080 you she looks good she looks good like she has a really great taste of music i'm gonna go talk to

00:52:41.600 her that's not why they're talking to you that's why i don't feel bad yeah i encourage all my baddies

00:52:46.400 i'm like when you go out there rack them up get that bag free shit rack it up yeah like all the time

00:52:52.320 when i would go out with my friends we never paid for anything no i wouldn't even bring my wallet

00:52:56.480 yeah you shouldn't you shouldn't i swear that's why i'm gonna be mad like when you go to the club

00:53:00.080 it's like i'm not paying for that section i'm gonna have a black i don't know how much nothing

00:53:04.160 costs but i know that hookah's right there and i know that bottle's right there and we're about to

00:53:08.000 have at the time of our lives yeah yeah if you bring your girls i love being a girl i love it yeah i'm

00:53:13.760 just a teenage girl at the end of the day i'm simply a teenage girl yeah okay so to wrap it up what would

00:53:21.440 you say is your best piece of advice for all all the girls all the baddies everyone who wants to be

00:53:28.000 outside this summer what would you say is your best piece of advice for them if they're dating

00:53:31.920 building a roster whatever it may be don't let nobody see you sweat don't let that man stress

00:53:36.320 you out okay like literally men put their insecurities on women all the time as long as

00:53:42.720 you know that like he don't want to see you having fun like you know you're doing something right like

00:53:47.760 girl be outside like like literally just be outside i feel like women never ask themselves what they want

00:53:53.520 from like men or like you know trying to figure out especially like younger girls like i i realized

00:54:00.000 i never was like oh i want this in a person i want this in a person like i was just like oh like he's

00:54:05.520 here like you know and then i'm like all sad but it's like what did i really gain from this because

00:54:09.600 i never really asked myself like dang like kelly what do you want so i say like date and find out

00:54:14.800 what you like like absolutely and just you know find out the the person you want to be around all the

00:54:19.440 time it's it's okay today men have their own opinions people are always going to have their

00:54:23.200 own opinions about you it's literally your life like yeah i i say that too about women especially

00:54:28.800 like with men i'm like they're going to talk to you no matter what so you might as well do whatever

00:54:32.880 you want exactly no but you could be the most like you could be in the happiest relationship and

00:54:38.160 they're gonna say oh she he's probably cheating on her because she did like people literally don't

00:54:42.480 they don't care or i would have broke up with her bro like okay you're not with me yeah so we could play

00:54:48.560 imagine games all day long but at the end of the day you're alone yeah and that sucks for you yeah

00:54:54.400 well i'm alone by choice though by choice yes very much by choice yeah that is very much so by choice

00:55:00.960 okay last tip what would you say is your number one tip if you want to build a successful roster

00:55:06.560 for the summer um successful roster for summer uh i would say literally just be outside like and

00:55:12.400 whoever pays for the tabs like that's who you add to the roster because wherever you want to go at

00:55:17.600 that point it's like different area code i'm in miami like who's gonna pay for the boat oh like

00:55:22.240 this is the boat guy this is the dinner guy like yeah you know just be outside and have fun my

00:55:27.440 girlfriends and i used to like put parentheses of what they were like who they were yeah so we're

00:55:32.400 like oh this is the guy who sends nudes all the time oh that's they don't even get saved

00:55:37.920 my friend oh this is the this is the guy that has the boat we had a couple of those okay we had a

00:55:42.560 a couple of those guy with the car guy with the car because we didn't have a car at the time

00:55:47.760 i'd say so you can keep track of your roster yeah keep track of them yeah and then when you want to

00:55:51.840 go on the boat my friends would be like hit up the guy with the boat and i'd be like hey yeah we're

00:55:56.080 here i haven't talked in so long yeah it is always funny because they always are so willing like yeah

00:56:01.200 okay i'm gonna bring my guys out just like yeah and you and you got them yeah just like that back

00:56:05.760 again and i'm back again and again i say stay outside have a blast don't let that man stress you

00:56:10.880 out ain't no call id but you know who calling okay i love it so much thank you so much callie for being

00:56:18.320 here yeah you're amazing i'm so happy to see all of your success i can't wait to see it unfold yeah

00:56:23.040 even more thank you thank you congrats on everything so where can everybody find you i'm on all social

00:56:28.400 media as callie that's k-a-l-i-i callie with a k and don't forget the three i's period and what

00:56:36.000 do you have anything you want to promote anything you want people to oh yeah tune in for my single

00:56:40.080 that's going to come out it's called k tovin and it's about to be a callie takeover a callie summer

00:56:45.120 like i love it i'm taking over to talk i'm taking over the streets and i'm outside love it thank you

00:56:52.400 so much for coming thank you you're the cutest and thank you all for watching make sure y'all

00:56:56.880 go follow callie on literally everything make sure you tune in for her new single

00:57:01.280 and make sure y'all stream uh hers hit single area codes of course on spotify even and speaking of

00:57:07.200 spotify new episodes of the comment section drop every wednesday and they are streamed exclusively

00:57:12.640 on spotify so you can stream callie then you can stream the comment section and then it's going to be

00:57:17.600 the best summer yeah the girls for the girls for the baddies all summer long thank you all so much

00:57:22.320 for tuning in and i'll see you next week bye

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