The Comment Section with Drew Afualo

00:00:00.000 I know people like always tell me that like I give main character energy vibes yeah but it's

00:00:04.920 because subconsciously in my head there is a camera panning 360 around and like the cure

00:00:12.820 is playing in the background yeah just like hey everyone and welcome back to another episode of

00:00:22.360 the comment section show starring me drew your favorite as always and forever and today I have

00:00:27.680 a very very special guest the baddest bitch on the planet the og the creator of the bbl effect

00:00:34.720 the one and only anthony boomba love it you guys I'm so excited to be on your show I'm obsessed with

00:00:42.400 you I'm obsessed with you are you kidding me you're a trendsetter you live on my tl period yeah as I

00:00:47.580 should yeah on everyone's tl the girls and the men especially yeah I hope I I hope I haunt them like

00:00:55.420 in their dreams yeah that's what I'm trying for them I'm like a virus no yeah totally one stitched

00:01:00.880 video at a time right it's like uh poison ivy just never stop itching you know no matter what platform

00:01:06.200 you go on you're gonna see me oh and it gets ugly when you itch it too you know what I mean it gets

00:01:10.260 worse like chicken pox yes oh my gosh so anthony is actually like the app the ceo right the creator

00:01:21.340 tour if you will yeah of the bbl effect yeah the the trend that set the nation on fire yeah how was

00:01:28.220 it when you created that what made you want to do that in the first place is just something you

00:01:31.540 thought was funny okay so every single person that I went to school with when I was growing up will

00:01:37.480 tell you yeah I have been that way doing those things the entire time yeah I have never not been

00:01:44.580 that way but when I um moved to New York City I started getting really depressed and you know I'm

00:01:51.860 a pretty tough hoe yeah so I needed something that was going to remind me who I was and my roommates and

00:01:56.520 I would stay up until like 3 a.m. and just psychoanalyze all of the like revolve influencer girls

00:02:04.660 right and like all of the different types of like you know beauty standards that we live in to yeah

00:02:11.000 like now yeah and you know when I was sitting there making this video I heard that this specific

00:02:17.700 audio yeah um which I still want the rights like the publishing rights too because I'm like yo low

00:02:23.340 key if not royalties yeah that's what I'm saying like low key just give me 13 that's what I'm I think

00:02:28.400 it's only fair yeah but anyways anyways anyways um I was sitting down I was eating ice cream and I heard

00:02:36.020 that audio and I was like oh my god like I just got this visual of myself eating it like that and

00:02:40.860 and then I did and then when I was trying to caption it I was thinking about how to caption

00:02:46.260 something in a super like in a super specific way yeah that I knew like the niche of people that I was

00:02:53.100 trying to get it to would understand yeah absolutely someone and that they did they understood it full

00:02:58.880 well yeah they they lit up TikTok with that yeah that trend yeah and then you just graduated it to

00:03:06.600 the the BBL wave yeah right she's moving on she's going to college right she's getting an education

00:03:12.140 she's all grown now she's all grown she's all grown up she's off on her yeah she's a full-fledged woman

00:03:17.360 now yeah I'm so proud of her I really am too yeah when did you notice that it like really took a turn

00:03:24.680 where it's like this might actually turn into something that might like explode my platform um

00:03:31.060 people started telling me yeah and then like like it started getting to like my family members in

00:03:38.160 different countries I'm like please god please you're all I don't know her yeah I've never seen

00:03:44.560 that I've never seen that girl in my life no yeah I actually like you know I have like a relationship

00:03:49.360 with my followers we just keep everything low-key I'm a really low-key girl yeah really chill low-key

00:03:54.480 girl and I talk to probably like 70 of my followers like 70 people who if I see their

00:04:02.360 names I'll know yeah they are consistently and so when I make videos I make it for them yeah I think

00:04:07.960 that it's just 70 people and I don't pay attention to the numbers as soon as it gets over like like

00:04:13.660 literally like 10,000 views I don't know anymore yeah yeah that's why I think I think that's the best

00:04:20.160 way to be a content creator honestly to not focus on numbers nearly as much because then they start

00:04:25.580 to have you in a chokehold honestly yeah I mean like my whole vibe is like can I make something

00:04:29.520 that makes myself exactly you know what I mean I can be like that shit was funny as hell yeah

00:04:34.000 yeah sometimes when I make videos I'm like this one's gonna pop off yeah like you know when you

00:04:39.320 make it you're like this is a good one yeah and you're like send send

00:04:42.940 another good example for one of those for me is literally any any time I make a tiktok about my

00:04:51.880 boyfriend yeah anytime if someone writes something mean like what's your boyfriend look like he's

00:04:56.720 probably two out of ten or they'll say like you don't have a boyfriend what's your boyfriend look

00:05:01.000 like blah blah blah he's probably short blah blah blah let me remind you you're probably single

00:05:04.600 yeah every single time I see a comment I I open it and then I save it to my drafts because I'm like I'm

00:05:10.280 gonna save that for a rainy day babe you know what that is so funny because when I get specific

00:05:15.740 comments like that like I literally I don't like I don't even look at my comment section like I look

00:05:21.360 at my comment section to see the people like the 70 people that I'm talking about um because I follow

00:05:27.200 them back yeah and then I have like my mutuals and then if I like see funny comments I'll go to like

00:05:33.280 see what they're saying so I can make up a new idea or I could respond to a comment yeah but like

00:05:39.640 I'll literally like open my phone open the comment and like literally record and then keep it in my

00:05:46.180 drafts for like a week or two same same and that's why like I've sold before I've said people like

00:05:52.500 I've told other creators before like that's one of my no I know it's gonna hit every time yeah

00:05:56.540 because my boyfriend is like handsome yeah objectively yeah and he's tall and good look he's just a good

00:06:03.320 looking dude so like a mystical superhero yeah I just know as soon I'm like a million likes thanks

00:06:08.240 babe thanks for playing the game I appreciate it sometimes one time I posted one and I was like

00:06:13.140 I'm not gonna lie I was waiting for one of you to put this so I could make this next video that's

00:06:18.520 called content creation babe yeah that's called staying consistent with the branding yeah and I

00:06:23.480 think that you know I think something that I I'm really impressed about like with you and just

00:06:28.920 anybody who's able to really like grow so much and continue to grow so much is just like the amount

00:06:38.060 of resilience and then like the mentality you have to have to be able to like have a healthy

00:06:43.020 relationship with yourself and your family thank you which I really love it I know like I can like

00:06:46.800 kind of already tell like you have such a close relationship with your family yeah I'm the same

00:06:51.980 way except like my mom and my like sisters don't really respond to my text messages like that they leave

00:06:57.700 me unread all the time I'm like I know you see this oh my god like when my mom doesn't respond I'm like

00:07:02.240 what are you doing where you where are you yeah what are you busy no my 14 year old sister I called

00:07:07.380 her the other day and I'm like I called her and I let it ring for three like three rings and then I

00:07:12.360 hung up and then I called her back and I she answered she was like hello and I was like I was

00:07:17.020 sitting on the phone with you and I was feeling guilty as if I was taking you away from something

00:07:20.560 that you're like doing like you might be busier than me and I'm like no you're 14 years old

00:07:25.320 it's summertime what the hell are you doing she's like I'm literally in bed laying in bed watching

00:07:31.140 youtube videos oh so you have your phone yeah yeah so why didn't you respond I literally facetimed

00:07:37.820 both my siblings the other day literally both of them because we were supposed to go to the movies

00:07:42.180 I facetimed both of them and both of them ignored me and I was like okay yeah you guys busy or

00:07:48.440 something yeah and then I called my dad and my dad goes no they're both sitting right here I was like

00:07:52.940 oh that's nice that's nice that's rich I'm glad to hear they're not busy they're just purposely

00:07:57.760 ignoring me that's nice glad to hear it but you know what maybe those are bad bitch problems

00:08:02.480 yeah that's what happens when you're a bad bitch you know and I think sometimes people get busy for

00:08:07.320 you that's just what it is like I'm just I feel like you know you hear so many people like having

00:08:11.980 all these crazy like relationship issues about like you know being super possessive and stuff yeah I'm

00:08:18.340 just used to bitches around me being like busy successful vibing out so like I'm like if someone

00:08:25.860 doesn't pick up to my like phone call I'm like she's really probably doing her as she should but when

00:08:32.360 you come back to your phone you'll see this yeah you know what I mean ask my manager I literally

00:08:36.360 annoy her on the daily me too yeah my team too my my manager and my agent I'm constantly bothering

00:08:42.540 them yeah about the randomest bullshit me too I'm like they're really earning that money that's for

00:08:49.860 sure yeah because they and they deserve it yeah because I'm just lighting it up all the time like

00:08:53.880 hey guys and like when I have a meltdown I'm like guys I kind of lost it back there sorry about that

00:08:59.460 sorry you guys had to sorry I had to experience that I don't know I don't know who she was but that's

00:09:04.680 not someone took my phone and was acting like someone took my phone I was hacked I'm dead through

00:09:09.800 text like when Kim Kardashian's like North did it again North took my phone I'm like please

00:09:14.600 and that's that's T honestly but that's honestly a great segue into our topic for today today we're

00:09:21.860 going to talk about how to be a bad bitch yeah how to cultivate a bad bitch lifestyle there's

00:09:26.180 truly no better two women that you could ask truly two girls two baddies two queens you know what I

00:09:32.420 mean I mean God really took so much time on the both of us I listen you said it not me this is a

00:09:40.240 celebration as a matter definitely okay so as we get into our topic for today what we like to do here

00:09:45.460 on the comment section is we bring up videos that I was tagged in or sent and that are applicable to

00:09:50.840 our topic we bring them here we laugh we make it we give advice yeah how to be the baddest of all time

00:09:55.880 I love that right I think so so for this first video I just like give descriptions of them basically

00:10:02.060 a breakdown of this video is it's a woman joking about how she noticed that she gained weight and

00:10:08.320 it all went to her butt and she turns around to reveal the dumpy right which I would say is a good

00:10:14.520 problem to have yeah arguably yeah I mean all butts are good butts but if you gain weight and it goes

00:10:20.540 there I don't think it's a bad thing I understand because like you know I feel like first of all I want

00:10:24.660 to say to this person I really relate you know it's difficult to like it's so hard it's really

00:10:30.380 hard like to you know have like the like the natural coke bottle body oh my gosh what an issue

00:10:36.820 yeah it's truly like no one understands yeah no one the fight that I've had to have exactly like

00:10:43.780 like like they need solidarity we need to stick with those women like you know what I mean I see you

00:10:49.960 I hear you yeah I'm with you I mean I tell my friends all the time like they're like you know

00:10:55.080 how do you how do you feel so confident you know leaving the house because I mean a lot of people

00:11:01.700 in the world like are like super transphobic I say in New York they're the most creative about it

00:11:06.160 but they're transphobic and like you know I feel like you know I come to like I've come to like a

00:11:12.880 like a bunch of little realizations first off men are super simple the only reason why they're mad

00:11:20.140 is because they want to put the tip in that's it that's tea babe that's literally it men just want

00:11:26.040 to put the tip in and they're so angry when they can't yeah like if I think about themselves and

00:11:30.720 themselves and you and the thing about it is it's a whole psychological thing because they don't even

00:11:35.560 realize they're like doing it yeah you know what I mean like I can projection at its finest yeah

00:11:39.880 yeah it truly is it's super that and you know once you get used to that and like you can you can

00:11:45.500 just look over at who's talking to you and be like oh yeah yeah that makes sense yeah you said I'd say

00:11:52.640 that too if I looked like that yeah if I had your face yeah I'd be mad at the world too take it up

00:11:57.980 with god babe no yeah I mean like I think that it's so interesting like because like if you don't have

00:12:07.320 if you like so for me like when I was growing up my mom was a really like she was really critical

00:12:15.440 she really wanted us to be the best and I appreciate her for that and the thing that I

00:12:20.820 appreciate the most about her and why she's like my inspo for everything is she never said that we

00:12:28.240 weren't enough she was never like you're too dumb you're not pretty enough yeah always like you're too

00:12:32.960 smart to be doing something that stupid you know what I mean like same I taught you how to wear

00:12:37.500 colors correctly why would you leave the house wearing and you're looking a mess yeah and I think

00:12:41.540 those are the the realest moms I've literally said before like I saw a tweet once that said like

00:12:46.520 parents are the best friends to have if you like you have a good relationship with them yeah because

00:12:51.400 they talk shit to your face but say good things behind your back and that's real

00:12:56.020 totally and I've said that before too especially about uh my parents my mom like my sister like

00:13:03.160 the realest people to have around you when you have a good support system especially if you're

00:13:07.920 trying to be a bad bitch yeah a good support system whatever it may be your real blood family

00:13:11.880 chosen family friends whatever it may be yeah that's like pivotal especially like when you're doing too

00:13:17.620 much they're gonna always tell you totally they're gonna be so real and honest with you like if I

00:13:22.660 decided to sing for example like let's say I was one of those tiktokers I was like I'm gonna sing

00:13:26.660 yeah and I can't sing for shit our next pop yeah I can't sing for shit but if I did it and it was

00:13:33.300 trash yeah my mom would be like that was garbage but you know what I respect the hustle yeah the

00:13:37.860 confidence let's pick something else yeah and I think that that's important to have self-awareness

00:13:43.700 you know what I mean my mom would be like in the studio like okay you know what I see the vision

00:13:49.660 let's put some auto-tune on that exactly let's put some auto-tune on that you know what let's

00:13:54.600 get a little help yeah you know what like there's modern modern tools for singing yeah we can we can

00:14:00.380 make it sound like something no yeah it's not it's not it's a good start that's what it would be no

00:14:04.620 totally and like that's kind of everything is like it's the like being a bad bitch it is a work in

00:14:10.160 progress it's like and the thing about it is it's not just about like the appearance you know the

00:14:15.720 appearance it takes it takes time to really you know like like build yeah you know the confidence

00:14:22.540 the confidence and to build like an organic look yeah that is you know your look absolutely but it's

00:14:29.120 also a spiritual journey that's what I'm saying truly that's like 90 percent of it honestly yeah

00:14:34.580 the aesthetic will come after you achieve the internal no what I think because I remember I had

00:14:39.700 so many moments when I was a kid because I've always been like this I've always been like this

00:14:44.120 same but I think you know because there was always so much so many expectations that I felt like were

00:14:53.040 sort of held over me or impressed on me because I was first generation and you know I was my sisters

00:15:01.000 and I we all work really hard to be able to make our parents proud yeah and we also want to have a good

00:15:08.400 reputation because we care a lot about people you know and I feel like part of that is when I would

00:15:15.880 experience people or an oppositional reaction from the public I would have this moment where I would

00:15:24.160 like even as a kid I would like close my eyes and I'd be like everybody in the room that's saying

00:15:30.160 something right now is so stupid I really need to just ground myself and and like feel feel like who

00:15:39.600 I am yeah in my heart and remind myself like you know what it is that I want to see in the world yeah

00:15:45.160 but it's just you know it's just about really being able to like silence all of the noise out because

00:15:52.960 just feel like that's part of the thing it's like being a bad bitch what it really is is it's being

00:15:58.080 ahead of your time yeah you know what I mean and especially being like a woman in like this world

00:16:04.000 yeah it's like it's it's it's the people that have accepted that they are ahead of their time

00:16:11.140 and there's a lot of you know maturity yeah that comes along with that absolutely and I feel like

00:16:17.820 you know sometimes it's really annoying because it's like you sit in a room and you feel like you're

00:16:21.380 talking to fifth graders but that's part of where the spirituality and the spiritual experience comes in

00:16:27.600 like yeah you know like that's part of like why the look is always so beautiful and plush and

00:16:32.680 yeah skin is smooth skin is clear hair is laid makeup is done you know what I mean outfit is

00:16:39.080 absolutely isn't that crazy when you mind your own business exactly how much your skin clears up

00:16:45.040 alone period by itself I know I tell people all the time about being a bad bitch I'm always like

00:16:49.680 there's no one way to do it but there is a right way to do it which is just like yours and you I feel

00:16:55.740 like you vibe with this the best too because you know exactly how it feels but it's like your shine

00:17:01.400 and like your confidence doesn't detract from others yeah and that's like a true bad bitch it's not

00:17:06.200 someone who puts other women down to feel better about themselves yeah it's someone who just knows

00:17:11.900 that they're the baddest in their own right and that's okay because we're all unique we're all

00:17:15.780 one of one yeah so we can all be the baddest there's room for all of us yeah right so like I've always

00:17:21.780 believed like I've always believed that I'm only sometimes not all the time but I'm only as good

00:17:28.720 as I can make the people I love feel sometimes and you know it's not always my fault how they feel

00:17:35.740 yeah but if all the people that I love have a similar experience of me you know what I mean

00:17:40.780 yeah gorgeous funny slightly chaotic a little impulsive but you know and just so incredibly

00:17:47.320 humble me too yeah I would say that same the baddest of all time so funny so electric so

00:17:54.140 smart and humble and humble yeah that's important yeah I didn't make me this way yeah it's not my

00:18:02.920 fault it's not my fault it's not my fault I'm so sorry to hear that about you that's why I think too

00:18:09.360 especially um terrible men specifically yeah get so upset when they come across women like you and I

00:18:16.200 because they're like their validation means nothing to us yeah like my shine has nothing to do with men

00:18:24.100 yeah it's all about me yeah it's 100 about me yeah my gosh and like you know I I remember growing up

00:18:32.400 I had a bunch of girlfriends who their mom would tell them you know if you have this color uh like

00:18:41.740 like toenail color like for like you know getting your toes down and your nails done that boys aren't

00:18:47.080 gonna like dark blues boys aren't gonna like black they're gonna think you're like this and I'd be

00:18:51.800 like yo what because I'm for real doing this for myself same like I'm trying to give gothic core yeah

00:18:57.320 trying to give like vampires like you're really stepping and that makes you want to do it even

00:19:01.360 more yeah yeah that was me yeah I'm saying I had the exact same aversion to like well what if you

00:19:07.180 know what I mean and my mom never I asked my mom for acrylics when I was like seven I was like listen

00:19:13.340 I saw a bitch with these I'd like to I'd like to step into the ring yeah my mom was like maybe we wait

00:19:19.560 till you like hit puberty and then we'll go from there a little too soon baby yeah it's a little too

00:19:23.620 just a little yeah just give me a minute but like everything I ever wanted to try my mom was always

00:19:28.380 so supportive like of whatever I wanted to do she was like you want to do I was a big uh goth girl

00:19:34.460 yeah in like sixth grade which is so hard to understand because I was five six when I was in sixth grade

00:19:39.720 listen it is what it is I was a I've been a big bitch my whole life so it was a little menacing I will

00:19:46.420 admit that however my mom took me to my very first concert and it was a My Chemical Romance concert

00:19:52.740 like real like and we back like she's looking over like yeah she took me and my sister because

00:19:59.140 we both were little goth babies at the time yeah and I think part of it was because I was just copying

00:20:04.320 my sister like I always do yeah um but then yeah see like I she was like in her like oh my little

00:20:09.860 sister's so annoying phase um and then my mom took us to that and then I did a hard switch to the

00:20:15.460 Jonas Brothers right after that yeah and I was like okay you want to do that we could do that too

00:20:19.680 that's fine it's like real real hard left after after watching the Black Parade live that's so

00:20:26.920 interesting like that's like so interesting like that like My Chemical Romance twist to like Jonas

00:20:32.100 Brothers like some real opposites yeah but like it was low-key like you were going through something

00:20:37.860 yeah literally right whatever she's going through she's doing well yeah I hope she's doing well yeah

00:20:43.940 yeah that's how my mom was like little spooky but that's cool I support you babe whatever you

00:20:50.260 want to do like when I was super into like uh goth music or don't come for me alternative

00:20:56.480 rock music alternative rock yeah so like all that stuff like my mom was super supportive when I did

00:21:02.020 Jonas Brothers when I got super into that yeah she was like sure we can chase their tour bus we could do

00:21:06.760 that I love that you're talking about all this stuff because like I have always felt like the music

00:21:13.880 that I listened to especially alternative rock music really was because when I was growing up as a

00:21:19.200 kid I watched so many movies yeah and um I was always obsessed with how the cinematography would

00:21:25.920 paint the main character yeah so in my head I know people like always tell me that like I give

00:21:32.820 main character energy vibes yeah but it's because subconsciously in my head there is a camera

00:21:39.060 panning 360 around and like the cure is playing in the background yeah just like

00:21:44.840 and I was I just want to be treated like a normal person right just for once right and I was like

00:21:50.220 talking to my friend um and she's a really good friend of mine she's the first person I lived with

00:21:56.100 in New York um and um we're still very good friends to this day I was going through something the other

00:22:02.540 day where I was like super upset and this guy was just being so stupid and she just reminded me like

00:22:10.760 listen like I know this is hard and I want you to know that I sat and I listened to you the entire

00:22:17.700 way through and she said to me you know this is just another experience in your Carrie Bradshaw life

00:22:23.280 this is another one of those moments that's poetry yeah like it really is true like I'm sitting there

00:22:29.780 like I'm like I'm sitting here like spilling my guts out to you in a Molly Goddard dress like I'm

00:22:34.320 vibing I'm in LA for work like we're still here like we're vibing you know everything is like everything

00:22:39.560 is still kind yeah you know what I mean period yeah it sure is yeah yeah I know I'm I think that too

00:22:45.380 like especially before I met my boyfriend now like well we have known each other for a long time but

00:22:50.620 before we started dating yeah um I was just sharing this experience with my sister on a podcast I have with

00:22:56.440 her but I was literally saying like I genuinely believed I was gonna be alone like I was like

00:23:01.720 because unfortunately I'm attracted to men and every one of them makes me want to jump off a cliff so

00:23:07.180 I think we're working alone babe that's what I was literally telling myself I'm gonna be I'm gonna be

00:23:10.960 alone and that's fine like and I made peace with it because I was just so disappointed yeah by

00:23:17.960 everything and the smallest things I'm like oh I can't do it no sorry I can't do it thanks for

00:23:24.300 playing though I'm out of here that's so Virgo yeah it's such a Virgo thing yeah I'm so like

00:23:30.820 analytical about shit like that and I genuinely don't care so I'm like all right see you never

00:23:35.620 yeah I understand I'll see you on February 31st yeah next but I mean because it's kind of like

00:23:40.260 that's that's that's also part of it like that's like why you find like a lot of bad bitches are so

00:23:44.520 smart because it's kind of like you know that analytical side of you comes from you know critical

00:23:50.940 thinking that you've had to like really adjust to because of situations that you might have

00:23:55.200 experienced in the past because like you can't flop like you can't flop again yeah you can't absolutely

00:24:00.440 never flop over the same thing again you know what I mean that's my biggest thing you get one you get

00:24:04.640 one chance bitch you get one chance literally I I think that too I always think too like there are

00:24:11.040 sometimes like I'm like don't I told my followers this too I'm like I I've been down bad before girl

00:24:16.880 trust me like my version of down bad may be different from yours but I've been there we

00:24:21.060 all been there yeah but the important is I go I don't know that bitch yeah I never seen that hoe

00:24:26.620 in my life I don't know who she is it was low-key but I still don't know that bitch yeah I know what

00:24:31.600 I did yeah that's the most embarrassing thing I know what I did you know yeah oh my god yeah and

00:24:37.580 that's why when then you just gaslight them you're like that literally wasn't me yeah I feel like

00:24:41.760 you're thinking of somebody else one of these other bitches you're talking to probably that's

00:24:45.020 probably who you're thinking yeah that wasn't me no sorry I've never seen that girl in my life

00:24:49.040 oh my god I don't know her I literally don't know her like I just gaslight on 100 I was back in the

00:24:54.160 day I remember when I was like I before I think look when I first started filming videos on TikTok

00:24:59.480 yeah I was working five jobs to move to New York and one of my jobs is I was like a personal stylist

00:25:06.060 salesperson at Nordstrom's okay and while I was working there I ran into my ex from high school

00:25:13.180 and no way I had blonde hair I had like platinum blonde hair obviously I had black hair when I was

00:25:18.820 in high school yeah but he recognized me and I he walked by me and he was looking at me and I looked

00:25:27.440 at him and I looked right through him yeah like I didn't even say I was as if somebody like he was

00:25:33.620 just walking and I was looking at something behind him I literally looked I looked right through him

00:25:38.200 and he walked right by me didn't say a word to me because he thought like oh like he didn't want

00:25:43.680 to like you know whatever because I didn't recognize him yeah I was like yeah it's what I wanted you to

00:25:46.960 think yeah exactly you know why because you're dead to me yeah yeah low-key it's that literally it's

00:25:52.660 that and it's like and it's also like that's the thing it's like you're dead to me but it's also like

00:25:57.700 a spiritual death yeah you know what I mean like I transcended all of that yeah I don't know her

00:26:02.600 you're dead and the version of me that dated you is dead dead she's gone she's gone yeah I don't

00:26:07.760 know her she can't come to the phone right now she's dead no yeah okay so let's get into some of

00:26:14.940 the comments on this video okay back to the girl with the dumpy okay yeah okay so we really left her

00:26:21.740 in the dust yeah we gotta get her back okay so this first comment says it's basically men like

00:26:27.120 they obviously feel so entitled to share their opinion on her body and her journey right and this

00:26:34.960 first one says I'd walk across glass I'm assuming for the dumpy is what his intentions are yeah um you

00:26:42.540 don't have to do that because the answer is probably no you don't have to do that babe I mean you could do

00:26:46.200 it I just can't guarantee it's gonna work out the way you want it to uh this next one says tell me

00:26:51.140 you're self-obsessed without telling me you're self-obsessed um here's my thing about being

00:26:55.280 self-obsessed it's okay if you love yourself unconditionally babe what's wrong with that

00:27:00.160 nothing I my issue with that comment is yeah I'm guessing it came from a man yep why did he feel

00:27:07.040 because this is what it is he commented that because he felt like she posted that video for him

00:27:11.960 exactly why did you feel like she posted that exclusively for you the entitlement the delusion yeah

00:27:20.000 because it's not an exclusive it wasn't for you babe it wasn't a private honestly no yeah because

00:27:26.660 like honestly like when I post things like I post things and I literally think that everybody that's

00:27:33.480 seeing my videos are all women same I'm just sending it to the group chat same that's it it wasn't

00:27:38.180 supposed to go to you babe the world's biggest group chat yeah the world's largest I'm like don't

00:27:42.020 make me remove you from this yeah you can get blocked exactly you can get blocked catch this

00:27:46.240 blocking yeah yeah I think that too when my favorite kind of comment like that is when they're

00:27:51.660 like just not my type feelings mutual babe you own a mirror right correct like you've seen yourself

00:28:00.700 my favorite kind of comment is when they say things like just not my type and I you know what's so funny

00:28:07.000 you know who gets comments like that actual famous women like meg the stallion just not my type

00:28:12.920 crying and you think you're hers crying I want you to look me in the eyes and tell me that you

00:28:18.040 think you're meg the stallion's type yeah that of all the men in the world that she could have she

00:28:21.640 would pick you you know what's so funny is that you know I see like women like her and obviously you

00:28:29.240 would see like a guy like whoever I'm only getting the worst images in my head but I'm I'm let me let

00:28:36.400 me try to be nice for real um you don't have to be that's the best part about my show please for my

00:28:42.560 conscience though like you know what I mean like because you know I feel like I feel like you would

00:28:48.720 think because you know she's successful she works hard she makes a lot of money she's out of your

00:28:54.680 league bro obvi but the thing about it is if you put a woman like her and uh if you put a put a woman

00:29:01.720 like her in a room with this kind of guy it's just kind of like like he just becomes the dust you know

00:29:08.140 what I mean like immediately they get so quiet like all of a sudden like all the jokes quiet silent

00:29:12.560 like you have nothing to say immediately you know what I mean yeah it's so weird and you know I I

00:29:18.260 have guy friends and I I have very few of them I've well now I have one of them oh god you count on

00:29:27.140 one hand yeah and one finger yeah yeah wait no I actually have two I have two one just lives in

00:29:31.800 Canada but I have I have two really great guy friends um and um I feel like you know I'm I'm

00:29:40.460 really big on telling them because I feel like no one is gonna tell them yo she's just not that into

00:29:46.280 you she's not that into you read the room babe yeah yeah I know like I know like you hang out with

00:29:53.060 all these dudes who like love to like pop your collar and keep you optimistic they're dreamers

00:29:59.460 they're dreamers but you know the thing is they're ambitious they're ambitious but they

00:30:04.240 don't want to put the work in yeah you know what I mean they don't want to put the work in they

00:30:07.840 still use three in ones yeah you know what I'm saying yeah the level of like I've talked about this

00:30:13.380 so many times but the level of delusion you have to live in yeah to tell to lie to yourself like that

00:30:20.080 yeah that's why I said self-awareness is key totally confidence is great self-awareness is

00:30:24.400 essential to be a contributing member of society like you have to know like where you're at in the

00:30:31.320 pecking order totally and that's why I say like from within like just like being a bad bitch being an

00:30:38.120 ugly little balding short dude that's internal babe that's internal you may also be short and balding but

00:30:45.000 like that's not the problem yeah it's the inside it's rotted yeah and it's coming out through your pores

00:30:49.940 and I'm not even trying to be satirical here like I'm not even trying to like be satirical at all

00:30:55.120 it is like an internal thing because I have I have it's it's it's not even about like these weird

00:31:02.480 phobias it is an internal thing ugliness begins within right absolutely and I feel like I'm one of

00:31:08.800 those people who believes like how you do one thing could be how you do everything right so if you're

00:31:15.220 ugly on the inside it's going to protrude on the outside yeah because water is wet rocks are hard

00:31:21.940 my ass is fat you know what I mean like what it is the proof the proof is in the pudding there is not

00:31:27.640 one pretty bitch who's ugly on the inside that's what I'm saying trust me and I said and hot people

00:31:32.240 don't spend their time going and telling other people how not hot they are yeah unprovoked yeah you

00:31:37.420 know what I mean yeah and I always think too when men cast the first stone like that you should not be

00:31:43.100 living in a glass house babe yeah that's why I said you commented on my looks and then I commented

00:31:47.400 on yours and that makes me a bad person yeah how like the amount of men that have called me an ugly

00:31:52.780 fat bitch and then I turned around and told them that they look like a medieval fryer tuck and all of

00:31:58.700 a sudden I'm a bad person my favorite like I just feel like you didn't have to bring looks yeah my

00:32:03.400 favorite thing about you is that I know it's always because like you just you cancel out double

00:32:10.060 standards yeah like I'm not doing that you know what I mean like yeah anywhere else like y'all can

00:32:14.760 like go run whatever y'all the muck y'all run but not here you know what I mean yeah I just feel like

00:32:21.580 if we're gonna play let's yeah you know what I mean yeah yeah all of a sudden you don't like the

00:32:25.660 rules so you want to take your ball and go home that's crazy oh no I always say it's like double

00:32:30.500 dutch like we take turns yeah I jumped in and all of a sudden you don't want to swing rope anymore bro

00:32:35.220 yeah I don't understand I thought we were having a good time I was like they're all silly yeah we're

00:32:39.280 all goofing you know why you got mad because I was right yeah the amount of times one time I made a

00:32:45.680 video about a dude and I this was the first time I had ever made this joke but I told him what size

00:32:50.480 are those feet it looks like you're about seven and a half eight is that what you is that what you

00:32:55.580 have I said yeah that makes sense and he when he made a video that's the only thing he talked about

00:33:01.160 I said countless other things he was like listen my shoe size should not dictate my worth

00:33:07.800 yeah but mind you he made a rancid video about one of my close personal friends talking about

00:33:13.940 how like her as a fat person is like shameful to society and when he has kids he doesn't want

00:33:20.100 them to grow up in a world where they look at people like her and think that that's beautiful

00:33:23.520 he said that with his whole chest whoa so I mean maybe if you had bigger feet you would

00:33:29.420 stand a little stronger I don't know because it seems like I blew you over with that one

00:33:33.180 comp that literal one comment he lost his mind he made 10 videos about me like that's crazy because

00:33:38.960 like I think of stuff like that and my biggest thing is like I'm not I'm not stupid yeah so whenever

00:33:47.640 I hear people feel so free to like express like their negative thoughts or their negative or bigoted

00:33:56.340 thoughts bigoted thoughts let's be specific here yeah they're bigoted thoughts they're bigoted

00:34:00.240 opinions I cannot imagine what their internal dialogue sounds like same must suck and the fact

00:34:05.800 is because they feel like free enough to say it and in public yeah in front of other people yeah it's

00:34:11.340 probably subconscious so they don't even understand it or probably notice it at all yeah what I mean

00:34:16.280 yeah so when I when you have someone like me they're like I just don't understand that's like the

00:34:20.900 biggest thing they say I don't understand why you would do this to me I don't know go re-watch your

00:34:25.620 video and then you ask me why I can't tell you how many dudes have said that to me I just don't

00:34:29.580 understand like why you would pick me like you're such a big account yeah and you know I exist so

00:34:34.420 why'd you do it yeah because you thought I was never gonna see it the amount of dudes that have

00:34:37.740 made videos about me specifically and then they're literally like I just don't get like why she would

00:34:43.080 do this that's someone who thought I would never see that shit they're like hoping it goes to that

00:34:47.880 alt-right side of tiktok and they're hoping it doesn't find me but I call my followers my little

00:34:53.420 birds like in game of thrones yeah yeah I'm like varus in this bitch like that my little birds

00:34:58.280 are watching always yeah never never be too careful because they'll send me shit from I got shit once

00:35:05.560 sent to me from a tumblr post I can't remember the last time I went on tumblr they're like girl I found

00:35:10.800 this guy they'll send them to me on twitter they'll get it off twitter send it to me on instagram

00:35:16.120 they're like I know this guy blocked you because he told me he did but I said I recorded it and I sent it to

00:35:20.980 you dad so like so walk carefully man tread carefully when you're gonna make those videos

00:35:26.600 or just make peace with the fact that I'm gonna find it yeah because I really might see it yeah

00:35:30.140 I will see it yeah it's a guarantee I've seen videos that were had like two likes and they were about

00:35:35.880 me and you're like you know what I actually for real have time right now I'm gonna go off yeah the

00:35:40.780 one I did about that guy like one guy he called me the ugliest bitch he's ever seen in his entire

00:35:46.600 life whoa ever I was like have you only been hanging out with the hadiths like that's probably

00:35:52.160 why huh I can't even imagine do you live in Beyonce's house is that why you said that about me that's

00:35:57.860 crazy I'm dead but yeah he he had just posted it zero like zero comments one minute and I found it

00:36:04.740 and I was like sorry dude all right pizza that account yeah no especially when you go back to

00:36:12.860 those people and like accounts been deleted accounts I'm like yeah I privated my account

00:36:17.660 because I just like was waiting like the excuses they make oh my gosh the excuse and sometimes don't

00:36:24.420 you even think you're like you really want to do this with me yeah because I saw what you looked

00:36:27.560 like are you sure no yeah like my biggest thing is like you know I I'm from the south and I'm African

00:36:33.900 and I think that sometimes like people get an idea of me because of how I look or how I sound

00:36:43.620 um I am like I am so about like if it comes down to like you know beating a bitch down if we got if

00:36:53.160 we really got you know like I I feel it I'm with you yeah like I'm not above that I'm not above that

00:36:58.400 like I think I'm very intentional about the time that I spend doing what I do but like especially

00:37:04.280 if I'm getting paid to put you in check I'm gonna do it babe I'm gonna I'm gonna find the I'm gonna

00:37:09.260 find I'm gonna find the best ones did you hear the knuckle crack in the mic I'm gonna find the best

00:37:13.780 ones I'm gonna find I'm gonna find the real pick me's yeah I'm really gonna light y'all on fire at me

00:37:18.360 at me yeah that's like my whole that's why I said a lot of a lot of content creators can't respond to

00:37:24.320 stuff like that yeah but that's my whole platform yeah sometimes I'll literally get hate on like

00:37:29.760 twitter for example which is like probably one of the most like free for all oh my god it is the

00:37:34.860 black it's a dark web no truly twitter is a dark web and I'll get some stuff and I'll find a picture

00:37:39.400 of what they look like and then I'll retweet it and I'll put the picture and I'll be like is this you

00:37:43.780 I just want to be sure yeah just confirm just give me a y or an n if this is really you

00:37:49.560 tweet deleted immediately I said see you thought I wasn't gonna see that mug huh

00:37:53.680 that's what you thought yeah interesting I got a whole lot of jokes do you want to start one time

00:37:58.160 I tweeted a picture I responded to a comment because there was two kids in the photo two dudes

00:38:03.360 and I said which one are you because I got mad jokes for both tell me left or right my left or

00:38:09.660 your right you know what I'm saying and they never responded they just blocked me that's crazy so I

00:38:15.720 said I don't know why you think I'm above it because that's how I built my platform in the first

00:38:18.920 place I feel like you know my bad bitch things it's like I find I find it like my experience of

00:38:26.020 myself which is so interesting I was seeing this I saw this tiktok and it was a tiktok made and

00:38:31.460 someone made like a made like a day in the life as a Sagittarius and I'm a Sagittarius yeah so I

00:38:38.600 watched it and the character was extremely oblivious to all of the random luck that had the experience

00:38:48.120 in their life for me like I get hate all the time it's kind of like white noise same it really is

00:38:54.220 like white noise like I'm so not like my mentality when I was growing up was like why would I why would

00:39:01.080 I ruminate on negative energy if like we have like you know Chanel bags like that's like that's been

00:39:09.260 like that's where my focus is in like yeah I'm like if I think about what topic gives me more energy

00:39:15.420 it's going to be something that has to do with like you know not to be corny but like you know like

00:39:22.660 love and happiness and joy and like those things genuinely fill me up like I think like and that's the

00:39:30.200 thing I I think like like for me and how I film my videos and what I do like for my content it's all

00:39:38.140 stuff that I do with like like my homegirl from North Carolina she moved to New York and you know

00:39:43.820 she works with me now I pay her to like be my assistant I pay her to like film my videos with

00:39:48.320 me and like we just sit down on the couch and we just talk mad shit and make up funny ass ideas and

00:39:56.180 nothing can penetrate that yeah to be honest well and that's why I think all the time like when

00:40:01.260 people like hate doesn't get to you blah blah because I'm sure you're probably one of the few

00:40:04.560 creators I've met that probably gets the same kind of hate I do yeah the same amount at the very least

00:40:10.340 yeah because I get it like crazy but you're probably one of the only ones I've met in real life that

00:40:15.140 actually has a similar experience with me when it comes to hate and I was saying after a while like

00:40:19.880 even the initial doesn't bother me when I first started getting hate it made me laugh

00:40:23.460 and then now I've grown the platform so now even more so it doesn't bother me like you would be

00:40:29.760 surprised how often we get it and how it's like it rolls right off me bro it doesn't mean anything

00:40:36.620 to me it's what I always tell people the death threats to the death threats oh yeah I get those

00:40:40.400 all the time yeah I mean like you know like the like dime a dozen yeah like the kys ones are like

00:40:46.620 always interesting but then the ones where they're creative I'm like oh you took time on this you know

00:40:51.260 sometimes I'll leave a little heart and then I'll leave a little heart you're like you want you want

00:40:57.060 get in line yeah yeah I got I got a queue forming over here yeah join it but like genuinely like

00:41:02.480 I'm not even trying to be like one of those like people who like tries to like preach confidence or

00:41:08.140 anything I for real don't care about you bro yeah for really like like like like literally same like

00:41:13.780 I've said before like I don't even care about like your livelihood yeah like if like this sounds

00:41:19.460 morbid but like if you drop dead tomorrow it wouldn't matter to me like it wouldn't affect

00:41:23.100 my life would go on and be awesome yeah forever so like you think I'm gonna care about your words

00:41:27.840 no also absolutely not I just realized too I'm a Virgo sun but I'm a Sagittarius rising oh my god

00:41:35.080 yeah look at us what's your moon I'm a Gemini moon oh I'm a Cancer moon I love that my older sister's

00:41:39.800 a Cancer moon yeah I love it look at us we're opposites but twins that's what I think also but like

00:41:46.320 I want to say this because I know like you know like say you and I both we sort of have you know

00:41:52.580 unconventional jobs and we live like lifestyles that you know I think many Americans don't live

00:41:59.300 I think we have to talk about where the real bad bitches are the real resilient bad bitches are in

00:42:05.260 the service industry I just talked about this I'm not even joking you like two days ago built me from

00:42:11.500 the ground up I just I just talked about this I literally because I made a comment about how my

00:42:16.320 job is stressful and everyone's like yes you're acting like that's the hardest job I never said it

00:42:20.360 was the hardest job I've had much harder jobs but totally I said the hardest job I've ever had was

00:42:24.460 being a waitress people go out with the intent of being awful like they literally are like I'm gonna

00:42:30.200 go to Chili's and ruin this person's day why yes yes that's why I said give it up to service retail

00:42:36.680 workers oh my gosh God's strongest soldiers honestly especially if you've been in that industry

00:42:41.680 for a long time like you see like the most rotten core of humanity totally when you're serving other

00:42:47.960 people like oh my as a server I dealt with the worst people and I worked in like a a pretty expensive

00:42:55.000 restaurant at the time and I had to dress like I was working at Old Navy which was kind of odd because

00:43:00.780 the menu was so expensive but like the way people treated me in that restaurant oh my god and I had

00:43:07.660 a job right out of college like where it was basically it was my job to give people bad news

00:43:12.640 so I had to tell them like hey your freeway is gonna be closed so like your commute is gonna be

00:43:17.320 terrible for the next six months hope you're cool with that and they I would get berated on people's

00:43:22.560 front lawns like they would literally yell at me like I was the one doing the freeway construction

00:43:25.920 they and that job was easier and that job was hard that job was easier than being a waitress totally

00:43:32.280 the worst not breaking work oh my gosh I have to say like I literally have to say like I would say

00:43:38.540 I mean I've worked a lot of crazy jobs I remember I was a janitor for like a year no two years and a

00:43:43.220 half two and a half years yeah I like I was working at this like low income apartment complex and like

00:43:48.660 I'd have to clean like I'd have to clean units that were like you know um infested with roaches I've

00:43:55.600 done like crazy stuff oh my god but I think the worst job I think I've ever worked in my life

00:44:00.720 the most like like you know terrifying was definitely being a Starbucks barista I would say

00:44:07.420 that I would say that because also like the pay is so terrible the pay is the pay is like

00:44:13.380 disrespectfully for the shit you have to deal with no like I while you were talking I was having

00:44:19.160 in the back of my mind I was having flashbacks of all the things that were thrown at me and I would be

00:44:24.160 like are your reflexes are on point yes yes someone threw like a bible pamphlet at me on a Sunday

00:44:30.920 and they like because they were mad that you know the drive-thru was taking forever

00:44:34.800 and I picked up the pamphlet after I dodged it and it said have you found Christ I was like really

00:44:40.020 you know I don't think I believe in him anymore after my interaction with you yeah yeah yeah oh my god

00:44:46.960 I yeah I was hot drinks cold drinks yeah I was a waitress I dealt with the most rotten people in the

00:44:52.660 world like truly just some of the worst people like I just don't I'll never understand and like

00:44:57.820 even before that I was super big on how you act around that's another huge thing if you're a bad

00:45:03.220 bitch and you're trying to date right watch how they interact with staff totally wait staff retail

00:45:08.500 people like if you're driving through somewhere watch how they react or treat them because that's

00:45:14.340 like a huge indicator of like a rotten evil person totally how they treat waitresses I was actually

00:45:21.380 saying this in one of my videos I said if you want to really get to know your partner

00:45:26.180 yeah look at their uber rating look at their uber rating you know what I mean because how you treat

00:45:32.820 those workers because the thing about it is like you won't drop lower than a 4.6 or 4.5 if if you

00:45:38.720 haven't had multiple experiences you know I put negative one no like literally like like 3.9 like I put

00:45:45.060 this video up and people were in the comments like no this isn't fair like my friend threw up in the

00:45:49.040 back of what I'm like babe that has to have happened more than one time or you gotta really

00:45:52.480 hit those low because you have to work hard for those points yeah you know really I think one of

00:45:56.720 the things I've said to um to like since we're talking about if you're dating as a bad bitch

00:46:01.460 something to keep an eye out too is like how they treat you when you're not happy so when you're angry

00:46:08.080 when you're stressed when you're upset when you're sad when you're grieving like these are all things to

00:46:12.720 factor in yeah how do they treat you because it's easy to be awesome when everything's awesome

00:46:16.540 yeah when you're when you're at your best and they're at their best like it's easy to be like

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00:47:26.020 whether it's with them or anybody else yeah how they react to you is a huge red flag to me like if

00:47:31.620 they're dismissive if they like belittle you or they make you feel stupid for how you feel your

00:47:37.440 emotions all of that I have to ask you what do you think is worse a guy who is like resigned slash

00:47:45.260 dismissive or a guy who like gets like angry when you're angry I think dismissive is worse yeah to be

00:47:55.960 honest anger is still a feeling yeah so like there's been times when I've gotten angry with my boyfriend and

00:48:01.880 he's gotten angry too not at me but just at the fact that I reacted negatively to something he said

00:48:07.580 and that's not what he intended yeah and so we've talked about intention versus impact yeah and how it

00:48:12.880 doesn't really matter how you intended it it matters how it impacted me right so we've unpacked that a lot

00:48:18.380 so that was just communication styles we have very different ones yeah but someone who's dismissive

00:48:23.700 that's internal like that's something that they need to work on because that means they just don't care

00:48:28.460 when they get angry depends on what you mean by angry if they just get upset when you get upset

00:48:32.580 like that's pretty natural depending on how it unfolds yeah but if they're like obviously they're

00:48:37.820 getting angry at you or aggressive towards you that's different oh my god I just had a situation

00:48:42.060 the other day yeah where um I got really upset with one of my friends and um he's a very good friend

00:48:49.840 he was a very good friend of mine and I um was really upset because he had done something really

00:48:56.500 disrespectful to me yeah and it wasn't the first time it happened it happened again and um I this

00:49:03.120 is the first time I was trying something new as a Sagittarius I was like you know what I'm gonna be

00:49:07.640 vulnerable here and I'm gonna have an adult conversation with you and tell you how this

00:49:14.660 actually makes me feel yeah and what I would like from you in the future yeah after I said that and mind

00:49:21.240 you like I don't raise my voice like yeah you know I grew up around a lot of really strong women who

00:49:27.820 don't you don't yell at so I don't yell at people yeah um and after I said what I said yeah he proceeded

00:49:37.720 to sit with me on the 405 for 45 minutes in silence and nothing we were dead silent yeah he said nothing to me

00:49:48.260 the only thing that was going on in the car was the playing of Chris Brown's new album

00:49:54.460 when I tell you I have never in my life wanted to jump roll out like I'm like I'm sleep I'm sleeping

00:50:02.960 on the highway tonight unlock this door immediately unlock the story immediately I'm getting out oh yeah

00:50:09.420 it was so bad it was like literally so bad and like never at a moment in my life and like you know

00:50:14.820 I was like I was like you know that's that was that was insanely crazy I like asked him like like

00:50:20.740 he like left stuff over at my um Airbnb yeah um and I was like do you want to come pick this up and

00:50:25.800 we talked and yeah I think I've never been like that upset because the responses were so dismissive

00:50:32.580 he was like I just want to give you your space and we were going to talk whenever we're going to talk

00:50:36.300 you know I'll see you when I see you and I was like yeah that's one thing if like code I had upset you

00:50:42.220 but you upset me yeah you know what I mean and I was like exactly the dismissive thing the

00:50:47.760 dismissive and the resigned thing will have me I've was watching myself because I was I was

00:50:54.200 disassociating so much I like was watching myself like in a bird's eye view I'm like pacing around

00:51:00.260 the living room pacing around the kitchen like it's like like you know like when the delayed effect

00:51:05.560 yeah it really does make you feel like you're losing it yeah it really does yeah yeah the

00:51:13.240 dismissive nature of of men like that especially like when to them it's very simple yeah and to you

00:51:19.080 it's not yeah so like that kind of like dichotomy it just it's I can't do it like the silence I wish

00:51:25.700 I could be that bitch that's like yeah sometimes I'll tell I talk to my mom and she's like well you

00:51:30.060 just gotta you just gotta ignore it like you just gotta ignore him for a little and I was like I can't

00:51:35.160 I don't have it in me I don't have I try so hard but like I'm getting better yeah I'm like giving

00:51:40.480 space and like fine but then I'm like if you don't come and talk to me in two minutes I swear to god

00:51:48.600 like I literally get so upset because I'm someone who likes to talk about things immediately

00:51:53.420 totally squash it get rid of it yeah we're done get the weird vibe yeah exactly he's someone who needs

00:51:58.580 time and I'm like yeah to do what yeah exactly so like because obviously we love each other we're

00:52:04.220 working on communication styles with each other yeah but I feel you because that's like and that's

00:52:08.520 also another thing for for bad bitches like don't settle for shit like that if you immediately have

00:52:14.660 a bad feeling about it leave yeah communicate it once if it doesn't fix if he doesn't even actively

00:52:21.560 try to fix it yeah it's a learned behavior he doesn't care and I think the thing that people I

00:52:26.640 think don't express a lot is the fact that you know we're talking about this you know all made up

00:52:32.560 and you know in a separate room outside of that situation yeah and it's easy to say like be a bad

00:52:38.340 bitch be a bad bitch be a bad bitch I think being choosing to be a bad bitch is a visionary experience

00:52:44.280 it's manifesting like your future in the moment it feels lonely it feels humiliating you feel isolated

00:52:51.680 you feel alienated you feel like you don't even like yourself because like you choosing to be authentic

00:52:58.220 about you know what you believe in and how you feel and what you want has put you at odds with

00:53:03.560 something that makes you feel very comfortable and safe yeah and you know that's where that like

00:53:08.020 maturity and spirituality like comes in it's inevitable experience because real trust the process

00:53:15.080 totally journey because you're like it's gonna end up where it's supposed to end up it just doesn't

00:53:18.960 feel very good in the beginning especially if you're surrounded by the wrong people totally bad

00:53:22.760 friends bad partner if you have any sort of negative family members anything like that yeah

00:53:27.500 all of them will turn away immediately at stuff like this because then they're gonna tell you that

00:53:32.240 you're changing and that you're different now and blah blah blah which is a good thing nothing's

00:53:36.380 wrong with growth evolution is inevitable and it's necessary yeah to become a better person a better

00:53:41.660 human overall you just have to be like the certain kind of bad bitch that doesn't compromise

00:53:45.580 there you go you just have to choose that and compromising is the same thing as

00:53:49.420 it's literally settling for anything anything friends partner doesn't matter yeah living

00:53:54.040 situation job all of that stuff so okay that's my biggest secret is I there are things that I do

00:54:00.880 not compromise and I will think about all the different times in my life where I've asked for

00:54:07.580 something and I'm living in I have it yeah I'm living it I have it and it's like a movie because I

00:54:15.620 chose not to compromise exactly that's the universe opening up to you totally same thing

00:54:20.240 with love too I've talked about that too they'll they'll bust it wide open for you yeah once you're

00:54:24.860 ready it'll happen it'll bust wide open it'll bust wide open yeah okay so this next video is a woman

00:54:32.520 who's uh just wearing a new high-waisted bikini she bought and telling people where it's from love that

00:54:38.040 and she writes these are the best swim bottoms I have I had to share also I just bodied a bomb chicken

00:54:44.500 parm for lunch period bitch live your life right so some of the the comments are rancid as per usual

00:54:52.200 right um they say damn they made the leggings that girls what is it tuck them stomachs into

00:54:58.160 in swimsuit form I guess a bing suit version oh that's what it is this next one says high-waisted

00:55:05.520 should be banned it's over we'll never know the female's true form so

00:55:11.480 fat jokes they hit every time I always think the the joke about high-waisted they're like oh well

00:55:19.840 take your stomach out of your leggings when you like if you have a belly for some reason or any

00:55:25.360 anything that hangs right it the leggings don't hide it like it just it it just goes higher yeah

00:55:33.960 like are you an idiot that's what I'm saying like when you see someone like if you see a thin person

00:55:39.000 in high-waisted shorts or like you know that they're thin because they don't have a belly

00:55:45.020 do you see what I'm saying like it doesn't erase your belly like are you stupid that's why I always

00:55:49.960 think you must be an idiot I just don't understand like why those specific there I think there's a

00:55:58.320 name for them I think it's called uh incels you know yeah they like they have this it's almost like

00:56:06.300 it's like an illness I don't know I don't know mental illness isn't it yeah yeah it's like it's

00:56:15.720 really insane I'm I'm I'm sitting there and I'm like oh my god what do you look like you know what

00:56:22.920 I'm saying like I can only imagine you know if if like I I can only imagine and I feel like there's

00:56:28.560 this weird sort of double standard where I feel like people it's not even that because beauty is

00:56:37.100 pretty subjective right that's what I say I say that all the time I feel like there's this pressure

00:56:41.700 the issue about the pressure of women being beautiful in our society it's not the pressure

00:56:50.060 of being or having to be beautiful but it's the pressure of like kind of impressing upon a stranger

00:56:56.680 like a stranger that you've never met before to be like your porn fantasy yeah you are not that then

00:57:03.220 you are wrong yeah bro you're ugly you know what I mean like you're ugly yeah you know you're ugly

00:57:09.840 calling other people ugly like that's never gonna not that's always gonna be funny yeah that's a joke

00:57:15.020 yeah that's like the truest gag of it all it's crazy it's like they'll never know the true female

00:57:20.520 form and it's not because of high-waisted leggings it's because no woman's ever gonna want to get

00:57:25.120 naked in front of you ever and that's on you babe like I've literally said you look like doodle

00:57:30.920 bob and like you're out here going I literally cannot believe how ugly this but I'm dad babe focus on

00:57:36.960 you like redirect that energy inside like you perfect the physical form before you start casting

00:57:43.700 stones and then like dudes who are in shape or considered conventionally attractive whatever that

00:57:48.400 may be yeah who say shit like this yeah I'm like you're mad because you've been convinced your whole

00:57:54.140 life that if your body is like two percent body fat you have like an eight pack whatever that that's

00:58:00.820 gonna be enough and no personality yeah and then you're still insufferable to talk to so shocker

00:58:07.060 women are like no yeah no and they're like I ate bland chicken every day for six years and you don't

00:58:13.600 want to me yeah I don't understand yeah bro that's not what Joe Rogan told me it's crazy because it's

00:58:19.640 just like you know just because you went and did all that even like because I mean some of the guys that

00:58:24.860 like talk like that don't even do that yeah but it's like that's the biggest irony it is such an

00:58:30.040 insufferable experience to literally even be close to you in proximity and I just want to tell those men

00:58:36.780 like you are not him yeah you are not whoever you think you are you are not himothy you are not

00:58:43.780 hemi neutron you are not that guy you are not ever you never will be yeah and that's why I said when I

00:58:50.440 make fun of dudes on tiktok these kinds of dudes specifically yeah and I make fun of them and

00:58:55.720 they're like oh you're just so mean whatever I always think that's not be me me being mean this

00:59:00.720 is me being nice this is me fighting with one hand tied behind my back if I was gonna be mean

00:59:04.600 I would tell you that you're literally your life means nothing yeah and it's never going to you're

00:59:09.320 gonna work your minimum wage job and you're gonna die in a shallow grave and no one's gonna be there

00:59:13.600 not even your mom that's me being mean and that's the truth unfortunately if I can drop this

00:59:19.100 like that's why I'm like that's me being mean yeah me calling you um like a peanut head that's

00:59:26.600 not me being mean that's me being silly yeah she's having a silly goofy time I'm dead but you having

00:59:31.720 no bitches and being pussy list for the rest of your life that's just a fact that's a scientific fact

00:59:37.740 yeah write it into law put it in the constitution never lay this dude ever ever ever ever ever ever

00:59:43.380 and that's why I said with or without the Hercules pecs you're not gonna get any bitches

00:59:48.400 and it's because you are the worst oh my god as I said at what point do you look in the mirror and

00:59:53.500 you're like what are the odds every woman I've ever interacted with is wrong what are the odds

00:59:57.820 I've interacted with thousands of women including my own mother and none of them can stand to be

01:00:01.700 around me what are the odds they're all wrong yeah that's what I'm saying like that's delusion

01:00:06.660 like you have to convince yourself oh my god that's what you have to you have to tell yourself you

01:00:11.480 know what I'm the best and everyone else is wrong bro like that's the opposite of being a bad

01:00:15.900 bitch that's just so weird like and I and I I it's so weird to me because like a lot of guys

01:00:22.600 don't understand that like you know how like those videos of like oh you know when he sticks around a

01:00:28.100 little too long after he buys you a drink because like you know what I mean and it's like you have

01:00:32.960 to like like not you have to but like sometimes the girl feels like obligated obligated to stick

01:00:38.120 around like it's like oh she you know she's putting in she has to put in her hours you know what I

01:00:42.920 charity yeah truly it's punching a time card at this point totally at this point I'm gonna start

01:00:47.080 charging at the end of the night she's gonna go up to somebody like the bouncer and be like yeah

01:00:50.540 this is the one who's like thank you so much I'll see you next weekend yeah she's like that's my

01:00:54.500 charity for the month honestly that's why I said enough enough charity enough charity when you see

01:00:59.200 the first first little infliction of shit like this sometimes they'll be like I do have a girlfriend

01:01:04.480 right I do have a girlfriend when they're commenting on other women's bodies like the dude who told who

01:01:10.140 made a video about me and said I was ugly like the ugliest person he's ever seen he's he was married

01:01:14.080 right verified right and I said does your wife know that you spend your free time looking at me

01:01:18.840 I'd look into that if I were her if I must not be that ugly huh you spend your free time looking at

01:01:27.360 me and you got a bitch at home that's so crazy that sounds like attraction to me that's disrespectful

01:01:31.480 no it is yeah and I said tell your girlfriend that you spend your free time ogling me yeah and see

01:01:39.120 how she feels about that yeah yeah I'll tell you to shut the fuck up you shut the fuck up tell your

01:01:43.760 girl I'm sorry I'm very sorry for her you know you got a friend in me you know sometimes I'm sure you

01:01:51.660 have this too because you teach people how to be a bad bitch sometimes I'll have women tell me like

01:01:55.240 I should have known um that my like husband was trash because he hated when I watched your videos

01:02:01.100 I get this all the time and she's like my soon-to-be ex-husband hated when I watched your videos

01:02:05.760 whoa and I'm like yeah it's and I tell people all the time it's not like they don't have to think

01:02:11.020 I'm the funniest bitch in the world but if they openly and aggressively hate me run yeah if like

01:02:16.720 the other way if you have like a negative visceral reaction to me physically breathing there is

01:02:24.760 something wrong with you there is something wrong with you you know what I mean like no truly truly

01:02:31.360 you're ill babe yeah I'd check into a hospital if I were you do it for you or do the midnight run

01:02:36.120 and leave yeah that's what I would do yeah I've had countless women tell me that they're like my

01:02:40.420 boyfriend my boyfriend really hates you but I love you what should I do bring up with him you know

01:02:45.320 because I feel like I feel like we live in a generation and it's been this way for like the

01:02:48.780 past like two or three thousand years but like five thousand years ago like dudes like that you know

01:02:53.540 what they would do they would go somewhere and live by themselves on a mountain you would never hear

01:02:57.840 from them you know what I mean that's why you don't let's normalize that yeah let's bring her

01:03:01.880 back let's bring her back yeah you know normalize going into the woods and never coming out yeah

01:03:06.060 there's a bunch of those like undiscovered islands yeah you know like have that have like you know

01:03:10.540 like like people that live there if you like touch like the land they will literally kill you yeah

01:03:14.740 yeah send him there yeah send him there bro send him all on a boat yeah right viking style and then

01:03:19.780 I'll archery shoot an arrow on fire into it set it ablaze yeah before it even gets to the shore

01:03:24.920 that's what I'll do blow up in the water I'm willing to do that for y'all yeah

01:03:29.040 or you know what you could do mind your business yeah clear that actually that easy clear that you

01:03:35.560 know what it's crazy because like you can't just scroll you really you could just scroll you know

01:03:41.980 like every time that I see something that I like don't care for care for yeah yeah like it's like

01:03:49.340 all right see ya there's like a not interested button I don't even remember the things in my life

01:03:53.820 that I don't like because I don't spend time same that's why we talked about it hot people

01:03:59.940 yeah don't spend their free time going around and harassing people on provoked yeah like they just

01:04:05.200 don't yeah they don't I always think that about anything on the internet yeah I'm like I just could

01:04:10.060 never take this that seriously and I just have to quickly say because you know there's a lot of

01:04:14.420 women especially a lot of trans women or queer people that I know or that I meet in the street

01:04:20.980 that like watch my videos and they always ask me about like confidence and it's just like

01:04:25.100 I feel like there's a lot of things that people always preach all the time but for me my biggest

01:04:29.960 thing is like take a second to look around I'm sitting at a store and I'm getting dressed by the

01:04:36.040 owner um for like something right and this lady comes in with her husband and you know they're not

01:04:43.500 from New York clearly yeah um and uh you know she's looking at me kind of like whatever but her

01:04:49.320 husband is looking at me like with like fury anger almost can't keep his eyes on her and it's just like

01:04:55.520 so furious like watching me yeah and like the whole store is helping me pick out like what glasses go best

01:05:02.420 with me yeah and you know it's just a quick like you know like this is what sending love like that's my

01:05:09.420 whole energy sending love like for real and that's all it is you know I don't it's a jealousy is a

01:05:14.680 disease yeah get well soon babe oh jealousy good luck is a decease it is a decease it truly is a

01:05:21.800 disease you know what I mean I just I I you just have to honestly send love and wish people the best

01:05:28.660 and like I think the biggest thing that I realize is like sometimes you have those situations where

01:05:33.980 somebody does piss you off and you are angry yeah and you are like man I wish I would have said

01:05:38.840 something and that is moments like that especially in my past they really inspired me to be like this

01:05:45.400 is why I have to be surrounded by a group of bad bitches where my girls at you know what I mean

01:05:51.440 round them up round them up you know what I mean you have to have a group jag you have to be surrounded

01:05:56.460 by the strong bitches you have to when you can't remind yourself you have to like you have to have

01:06:03.280 like that camaraderie with other women and the church said amen amen amen period bitch I'm so

01:06:10.360 happy to hear it and honestly that's gonna do it for our episode today but I want to give a very

01:06:16.120 special thank you to my favorite bad bitch of all time Anthony Boomba I adore you I adore you I love

01:06:22.320 you the one and only okay so I'm on TikTok I'm Anthony Boomba honestly if you just look up like BBL on

01:06:30.860 Safari like you'll find me she's all over them yeah she's the CEO that's why yeah the CEO of it

01:06:35.720 Instagram is I'm A W Boomba B U M B A period I'm so happy to have you thank you so much for coming

01:06:43.400 thank you for having me I love you my shoes I can't feel my feet right now but I do love you all for the

01:06:48.900 look all for the look period bad bitch tings bad bitch tings and thank you all for joining us on

01:06:54.980 this episode of the comment section show if you want to watch full episodes on YouTube they are

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