I'M ACTUALLY THE PERFECT PARTNER Ft. Erika Priscilla and Scott Corizzi
Summary
In this episode of the comment section, we have the iconic, the legendary, and the amazing Erica Priscilla and Scott Carizzi! They are two of my favorite couples, and I am so happy to have them on the show.
Transcript
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never expect people to be like knowing you and yeah and watching i still will be like
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did i go to school with you or something like no i saw a video she's like i'm 19
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you're like okay like bowling league don't you know you could be my dad
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hey everyone and welcome back to another episode of the comment section show starring me blah blah
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blah blah blah blah who cares about me on to the guests to guests which means we have multiple
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today we have the iconic the legendary the amazing erica priscilla and scott carizzi
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welcome thank you welcome family to the to the show so happy to have you thank you so much i feel
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like we're old friends yeah we've never met ever never but it feels it's so weird when you follow
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people you just feel like you know that yeah exactly yeah i'm so excited to have you both here
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one of my fave couples my second couple to come on the show oh yeah i think second couple yeah
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who's at first yeah um they're a little longer together so
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love them i love them so much though i love you guys i was like i don't want to scare you but uh
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that's what happened we love them love y'all love y'all i love them i believe in y'all though
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just like i believe in them how have y'all been how's life everything's good yeah yeah yeah we just
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um celebrated our one year married yes well it's not the official date yet but we took a pre
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like anniversary trip to greece how fun it was fun how was it married life it was nice yeah yeah
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did you guys i know you guys okay well i know you both became constant creators before you got
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married and then everyone loved watching the whole follow-up to your actual wedding yeah how
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was that like documenting your wedding process or parts of it anyway yeah parts of it i did it
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yeah the wedding process was interesting i will say the aftermath of the wedding though is what i
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liked talking about because i like fucked so many things up at the wedding and i'm like let me tell you
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what not to do so yeah so that was fun but yeah it's it's been a long journey it just like it's
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weird to think back of like we started as like not we weren't even engaged yeah you know and now you
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have a whole like fully married a whole group of people who love watching you be married yeah it's
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weird it's a little different it's like people coming up congratulations i'm like what i forget i'm
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like oh you're talking about the wedding oh okay thank you so much are you someone who talks to
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people like or they talk to you like they know you and you're just kind of vibe yeah oh of course
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yeah that's kind of how my man is too people are like yeah they just go up they start talking and
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then i'm like who was that he goes i don't know yeah he just came up to me yep exactly it's so
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embarrassing anytime someone like will recognize me scott will be the first one he'll make eye
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contact with them and be like like make sure to connect us every time erica had to tell me to
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stop i'm like can you please not in a bad way but i'm like it's in a way so you're prepared yeah
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exactly unless they come up but i used to be like are you looking at her no i could get her i could get
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her erica she and the person be like i'm not even looking at her i'm so sorry i apologize have you
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ever had someone like you you're like oh do you want a picture and then they're like no oh my god
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i've had so many embarrassing things one time i actually this happened recently we were i was
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downstairs waiting for like a pizza delivery or something and i was talking to the front desk
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and she was like i know that it was just me and her too and she's like i know this is a really
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random question why am i so embarrassing i was like it's me i it is and she goes no i need two q-tips
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like i'm so random could you run upstairs and get me q-tips i'm like that's exactly what yeah
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i figured i figured that is me the girl with the q-tips that's what i meant you didn't let me
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finish you don't let me finish my sentence that was me that i got him i got him it was so i do in
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fact have those i'm so excited you asked me i'm so glad that's so funny i that happened to me one
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time where someone was like like it's because sometimes when they come up uh i know that they
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get nervous and then they like they they don't want to ask but they just want to talk to you kind of
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thing um and i never used to offer because i just was like i don't want to assume that that's
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what you want yeah i'm not embarrassing you're like i'm good yeah just the interaction one time
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because my mom was like you know maybe they get nervous maybe you should ask and i'm like
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yeah but also that's a big risk so i was like okay fine and one girl came up to me she was young
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like she had to have been like 16 17 and she was like oh i'm such a big fan blah blah blah i'm like
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so sweet thank you so much and then she was like yeah and then she was just kind of standing there
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and then i was like do you want a picture or something she goes no like the way that she
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was so like no i was like oh okay well neither do i i turned into a man i'm like well guess what
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you're fat anyways the way that men like flip on you immediately you're ugly yeah yeah you think i
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want an ugly bitch like you i don't i'd start i'd start being mean like i started you can't have
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one anyway so if you want good i'm glad because i don't allow those just immediately angry so
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embarrassing it was so bad i was like okay yeah no for sure i've never asked just because that was
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the one and that's it that's what i get for listening to my mom that's what i get for listening
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to my mom but she had all the best intentions no of course the few times that she's asked like when
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she's been with me and she's like do you guys want a picture i could take a picture of you guys
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they're really nice about it yeah so like i'm like you do that i'm not asking ever again i learned
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my lesson i'm never asking ever again even strangers though like sometimes we'll watch
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them struggle and i'm like i can i can take in they're like no we're good i'm like
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okay okay let me take one picture of you we get offended we're taking a picture give me your phone
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good god don't ask me i'm not doing it so yeah go ahead take your shitty ass selfie
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like what the hell like your picture's grainy see if i care like a group of three older women
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at a broadway show they did end up asking they're like actually do you mind i was like actually i
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do i'll do it oh i'm busy now yeah oh you took so much offense dude it's so it's literally so bad
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even with um my boyfriend too like i'm sure you get recognized too like whether you're away yeah or
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but when you're together it's worse that's how i am too with philly like because my boyfriend is
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like a big dude so like they see him from a mile away yeah and they're like i saw your boyfriend
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and then i knew you had to be here too sometimes people hear scott's laugh and be like yeah that's
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crazy wait erica must be here so that's the funniest part is when they see me and they immediately just
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start looking for you and i'm like she's not hero i'm like at a car watch like i'm so sorry i feel
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bad i'll facetime her i feel terrible i just like get in the car you can come to our house
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she's like ruin the excitement like she's gotta nope not hero i know sometimes my man would do
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that too they'd he'd be like i think they're trying to call you and i'm like
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it's so exciting for me like yeah i know it is exciting it's still yeah well i feel like i know
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a lot about your guys's lore just because i'm a big fan but just for those of you those who don't
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know the lore how'd you guys meet we met at a bar through a mutual friend oh that's cool yeah
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because we grew up i was a public school girlie and he was a private school dude and yeah we went
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to schools like towns over from each other so we kind of always knew of each other scott would
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poke me on facebook back in the day the real ones remember the poke i'm gonna be honest the real
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ones remember the poke and it works it works look it works you get that poke back and it would be
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all right actually i'm gonna send the message no you had your ex-girlfriend i know you always
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bring that up first of all you poked other people so yeah no it's not gonna work but yeah then then
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we organically met in person at a bar okay yeah so you guys know each other for a long time then
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or known of each other yeah we never met never met until not until you were until the first time
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we met at the bar yeah i was 21 or 20 yeah 21 21 i was like 23 look at y'all yeah yeah now we're
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old farts so and you guys were together for how long before you got married um six years yeah we
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were engaged we got engaged six years and then by the time we got married it was eight years oh nice
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yeah did covid slow down your wedding um i i think i just wasn't in a rush to plan the wedding
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because of covid yeah and then once i got the day date set in stone and it was a destination wedding
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and stuff it was just i got lucky with all their strict like requirements and all that stuff yeah
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yeah how was the wedding planning process was it exhausting was it fun i mean you're very mixed reviews
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yeah i think because it was a destination wedding i kind of was like there's god you know
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yeah but there's only so much you can see from here without going back exactly but my my cousin
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is a wedding planner there it was in jimmy republic so thank god for her because i would have killed
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scott probably uh for no reason you're close yeah yeah but i was i was a pretty like chill bride it was
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it was okay and it was honestly so so much fun like i wish that we were guests at our own wedding
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that's sick yeah i wish we could do like at least a little party every year yeah just try to i know
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just keep making it about us guys time to celebrate us again who's ready fly out again oh my god
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travel not included travel and lodging not included see you guys there definitely there's a timeshare
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when you get there as well sit there for two hours and then seminar did you guys have very differing
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opinions on the wedding or were you pretty pretty worked pretty well together i her vision was really
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what put it all together because i didn't want to throw a wrench in nothing yeah you know it's like
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just the best sport yeah yeah of course i want her to just like whatever you want and see everything
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she's ever imagined you know i'm like i'm so content with her you know her opinion and her
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decisions i'm like yeah she's gonna kill it no matter what yeah i don't want to like
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i'll be like yeah i want all blue flowers you know she's like well it's not gonna be that
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i'm just joking but like you're all well yeah no but love you though i wish i could have did more
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to be honest it's like hard no but you had you had certain yeah it's hard a little bit you know
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what's your uh what's your guys's signs i knew you were gonna ask yeah i'm curious a leo
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i love that i'm a capricorn oh look at that were you not expecting me to be leo no well it makes
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sense it makes sense that you're like you're an attention whore well you want to having to listen
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having to be in this you gotta you gotta love attention to some extent yeah and you and i are
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those girls yeah and my man you're a leo too no i'm actually a virgo oh you're so i'm close yeah
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but i'm like i do have leo in my chart but it's funny because my man is the same as you where he's
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kind of like reps up vibes vibes yeah support and love only love that and i'm like i really want your
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opinion and then he'll tell me his opinion i'm like that's not the right answer that's not the right
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opinion but i do love that you're contributing and then he's cool with it like he's like okay great
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because he doesn't care either way as long as i'm there and we get married that's all he cares
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about 100 and i feel like that's what i'm doing it for you know i'm here for you to marry me and be
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happy you just have to show up that's it yeah yeah exactly that's i think that's really sweet though
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especially like when you when your partner contributes but they're also like they just
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want you to be happy 100 and as long as you had fun and you felt relaxed yeah that's all that matters
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i did i was like chilling the whole time so i really wasn't stressed what were things that you
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learned not to do well um you said you had some um okay there's a couple things it's very personalized
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to me though because i had well for example i wanted like a glass um like walk way thing oh yeah
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yeah over like a bridge like to go down the aisle and i had a really like bedazzled dress
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and i accidentally stepped on one of the beads why did i slip mad embarrassing in front of everyone
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i didn't fully fall but i went like i did one of those yourself perfectly of course yeah and then
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also um we tried to have guessing you know just in case is she making it you know who knows what's
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gonna happen she's gonna do a bit yeah no you should have been a comedy a hundred percent everyone's
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dying i was like walking down the rest of the aisle i'm like only me right only me
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like the three stooges for real well that was yeah that was one example and then we tried to do
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like beautiful yeah yeah yeah we tried to do a like a light lantern like uh send off kind of vibe
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oh cute because we had like a lot of space and i was like that'd be a moment yeah and i had to bring
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a lot of stuff from the u.s like to dominic republic so i ordered on amazon i was like you know what let
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me get like biodegradable ones because i don't want to get canceled yeah um because we love the
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environment yeah we love the environment yeah and so my mom sometimes you do have to listen to your
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mom i'm going back to your i agree with you because my mom was like why don't you just test one out
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here and i'm like i'm good like i don't have time bro we we had everyone doing it we got like with
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like barely any instruction we got like four up we're like yeah just put it in light it up and then
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you guys don't even know people were stomping it out at one point it was people are like waiting
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for it to light it's like the back side of it's on fire people are like drop it like i had to grab
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the mic i was like stop it out guys stop it out the trash it was in the trash but we got like two up
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and let me tell you the excitement when the two hit the sky it was like it was almost like the sky was
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full of them so those two were like it was such a task to get them up that those two were a huge
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those held it down they were a huge win so yeah so don't do that guys at least try them out before
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you just give them to like a hundred people listen to your mom you're like everyone i gave you a pack
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of instructions please unfold it carefully read steps one through twenty it's like four hours into
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drinking at this wedding no one cares the worst time to do it too so it was just a mess but yeah so
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don't do that guys but then it's not your wedding huh it's just not your wedding if everything goes
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perfect exactly i feel that every time exactly any anything that happens i'm like well that would
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happen to me yep yeah yeah that would happen to me yeah that's okay god finds a way to keep me
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humble at all times 100 100 reminded every day i literally told that story on my show when i had
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er five master on the show i was talking about how like i have beef with like a creator like a dude
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that doesn't like me for obvious reasons uh and he and i beefed weirdly it was like kind of like
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i'm sure you've met enough influencers both of you at this point like sometimes they get really mad if
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you don't know who they are yeah which i find weird because i'm like corny corny well look how old i am
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like clearly i'm not the bitch following you you know what i'm saying like i know your demo i'm too old
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i'm too brown like there's just no way yeah right like we have never crossed paths ever virtually or
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literally i'll tell you after um anyways i made a mean ass joke to him because he was very rude to
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me a year later i literally ate shit in front of him at the barbie premiere no and he did not help
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me on purpose and then i thought to myself you kind of got me yes yeah you gotta respect score is even
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you almost got to respect it and i said maybe next time we meet we'll be friends yeah yeah right
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that's how it works maybe that's how it works the lesson was the friends we earned along the way
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yeah yeah 100 i'm willing to wave a white flag if he is yeah i like that equal so i like that i like
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that okay that's mature that was like a real like progressive i'm just funny and i respect a funny
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bit and when someone ignores me on purpose because i was mean to them that's funny yeah
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even if you're a bitch ass dude like yeah i respect it that's kind of funny you got me
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i'll see you next time you got me you got me you got me okay so back to you guys as a couple online
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like have you guys ran into any problems or issues as far as like what you've noticed when it comes to
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having an audience and they're fans of both of you obviously i'm a public couple too so yeah but
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there's a couple of things i mean obviously the expectation is always there which i just i i just
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don't get it it's like obviously we're just posting funny shit online like in general so it's not always
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like that yeah you know so it's it's a lot of pressure sometimes when people are like you we look
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up to you like you guys are the best yeah yeah or they're like if you guys break up i don't believe
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in love anymore yeah like hell of pressure but yeah yeah and i'm like me neither so like
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leave me alone all right but you think you wouldn't i'll lose my whole life
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same we'll be in there together yeah like yeah okay the same boat
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i know you and i erica and i were messaging because i saw you guys posted when you came back
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from greece yes you're like if you guys saw us fighting in the airport please send me
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send me a picture yeah it's so real it really is it really is my sister sends it to me and she goes
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dude this is literally you guys and i was like no for real it is you fight with your partner it
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happens normal it happens it's like such stupid stuff and then obviously you don't realize until
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you really take a step back because obviously this is so like still new to us yeah yeah like you
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never expect people to be like knowing you when they don't know you i still will be like did i go
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at school with you or something like no i saw a video she's like i'm 19 and you're like okay
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like bowling league you're like no you can be my dad i'm talking about
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first of all you're way older than me just humbling real quick but it's true you have to
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you know you have to just be a little mindful of that stuff yeah because i am the bitch at the
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restaurant having dinner with scott and just my ear is just i'm oh yeah i feel that i know i have to
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be very conscious of that too like when i talk because obviously my voice is very distinct and
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so are your guys's so i feel like they hear it and they're like immediately they kind of perk up to
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it a little bit you're like shut the fuck up put your hands down i know you like to talk with your
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hands put them down and relax i know the only fights that billy and i ever have are very they're
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very stupid they're silly they're so small and they turn into silly arguments especially in public
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though especially when you travel oh traveling it's like it's just a lot especially when you travel as
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much as we do for work and everything when i hosted black adam last year in new york i remember i got
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these outfits made for us obviously like they're cultural and so i got a whole one made for my
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boyfriend too and he's very like i'm a virgo so i'm very like order order planning all that shit and so
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i set all of that up for us i had the outfits brought to us i was like okay we're good and i he was
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like i'm i'm packed and i'm like are you oh my god like everything's packed including the outfit like
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if you forgot all your underwear and not that outfit i wouldn't be mad because like you need
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that outfit he goes yeah yeah yeah yeah and then we get to the airport and he's like thinking about
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it and he left the bottoms like hanging in my closet the way that i was like i'm gonna freak out
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so i like literally left i'm getting arrested you won't need him anymore because you'll be
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i'm about to i'm about to make a no-fly list because i'm gonna be very upset publicly i was so angry
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like i was so stressed out and upset i like got up and left so i didn't have to be next to bro i
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would do the same because i can't like rage at you because there's people who know me and they're
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gonna watch my god and i was so and he was like i'm really sorry i'm like i bet typical
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i bet you are he's not alone that helps the story helps right now it really is helping
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well thank god you're sorry that's gonna make it thank god yeah that brings the bottoms right here
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and i ended up my mom ended up fedexing them to me like she like overnight with an mvp mvp my mom's
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that girl she is legend dude recently before i went to paris uh night before like leading up to
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it i'm like okay paris is a big deal right and so i'm thinking nothing's going wrong and that feels
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wrong something's gonna go wrong then that literal night before my boyfriend uh realized he lost our
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passports oh good good and then i was like obviously i was like uh car gets here at 3 a.m and
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it's 11 and we can't find the passports i was freaking out yeah i was freaking out and my
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boyfriend's like i'm really sorry and i'm like oh my god that's why he's helping again you're like
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oh sorry you're just saviors my mom fixed that problem too shit my mom got me like a last day
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appointment i had to push my flight today it is stressful it's horrible i've been there
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and it's just like and i've been there too it's just silly shit like that that i'm like
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yeah love you love you so much it's not the big shit it's it's silly stuff it's always something
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so stupid and purely an accident and that's probably the part that makes me the most upset
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because i'm like i can't get upset because it was an accident yeah it's like if it was me i'd be
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like don't be mean i already feel bad enough yeah same
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no literally fucking same 100 and then sometimes he's like sometimes he'll be like well like if
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you had done that like i would forgive you yeah exactly i'm like i'm gonna forgive you just like
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i can't do it right now we're not right now i can't give you that right now give me 10 and i was
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like also me being a virgo i'm like well that would never happen to me because i would never lost
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it me being a virgo i'm organized yeah yeah that's just me being a know-it-all like it's easy for me to
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say that now because it's your fault yeah so i'm allowed to be mad at you
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did you guys get any footage of you arguing in the airport no i wish once i got on the plane i was
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like i really wish i could see myself from the third person point of view i know he he was like
00:23:19.860
he like answered it yeah he did i was like post it he's like okay i was like don't post it
00:23:24.540
don't post nothing you won't post nothing he was just like didn't know what to do eventually i was
00:23:30.380
like just go through clear just go get out of here that was the stress we just got there too close and
00:23:35.260
we were in the tsa line and it was really long for some reason and clear was there and it was just
00:23:41.120
it was a mess and then the line high stress makes me honest scott it was are we doing this now
00:23:48.540
girl can i have the room please let's wrap this up early guys are we late is that what it was
00:23:56.180
no no no it was he's saying is that what it was it was like all right so the when we walked in the
00:24:01.940
we have to do this well we i don't know we're didn't know i'm joking erica just you know when
00:24:07.640
that thought in your head's like i might miss this flight yeah like even if it's like yeah like
00:24:12.500
we had more than enough time i think it was just like we and we had a connecting plate that was
00:24:16.860
very tight yeah so it was like you're like i can't miss this fight i need to get home yeah and
00:24:20.660
i think she was just like like we're never making this line yeah i already had 10 minutes
00:24:24.280
later we're like i was like sitting at the gate for the next 45 minutes and then we're and we're not
00:24:28.660
talking to each other and i'm like i know and then he's going we're fine and you're like we're
00:24:33.360
not fine she's like i feel clear we're like in clear we're outlines then we missed our place in
00:24:37.960
life i think it was just like a high stress situation and that was it those tsa agents are
00:24:43.480
probably like what are these people doing sometimes i think the logical like because my boyfriend's
00:24:49.440
the logical one i'm very emotional so like and he's the very like it's gonna be fine yeah and i
00:24:54.360
don't have that yeah personally i don't have that skill to be like it's very like i i'm very like
00:25:01.180
what if it all goes wrong and he's like it won't yeah i'm like how do you know that for sure because
00:25:05.460
it never does okay okay and like it doesn't eliminate possibility in my head but to him it's
00:25:12.200
like it's not even an option yeah so it's gonna be fine which sometimes you don't want to hear when
00:25:16.300
you're stressed which i feel like but you also need to hear that when you're stressed it's such a weird
00:25:20.780
balance i know like i know even like uh even literally last night like when i arrived in new
00:25:25.840
york i was carrying my suitcase into the room and we were looking at the room to my uh defense i was
00:25:33.540
looking at something that i was gonna make a silly joke about and i was like i was like this joke is
00:25:37.860
gonna kill it's just me and my boyfriend like no one else is there i'm like literally playing like
00:25:41.500
that joke is funny i'm gonna say that out loud not paying attention and my suitcase hit something and
00:25:46.680
it fell and it ripped my nail off and i just got new nails so it was like oh my god and i had like
00:25:54.900
a nervous breakdown like i was literally like i'm so upset like i was like crying and my boyfriend's
00:26:00.720
like it's fine i'll go get you some glue i'm like glue's not gonna fix it she's still trying to tell
00:26:05.060
the joke okay well while i have you let me tell you this joke he's like that's not even funny
00:26:10.080
i'm like cancel everything forget it we're going home it's like one of those moments i have like a
00:26:18.240
freak out fast forward hours later i was like um trying to make my boyfriend laugh so i was like
00:26:22.960
spinning in a circle don't ask me why okay and then he was like i wish that i could stitch what you
00:26:27.840
were doing when we first got here that's me with food though like i'm like turn into the hulk
00:26:36.360
i'm like la la la after that you're like eating and you're like are you you're so quiet yeah
00:26:41.440
as soon as she's like open the door the door that is here is like everything everything before that
00:26:49.160
was forgotten like completely she's like once that door's open in the bags there she's just like
00:26:54.460
what what happened i'm crying still i thought we were done to be honest i feel better do you feel
00:27:03.300
better you're not gonna eat with me this is crazy there's really no winning there's no winning with
00:27:11.600
well that's what i think is like that's probably i think what people love the most about the two of
00:27:15.640
you other than both of you being very very funny and good content creators i think it's like your
00:27:20.380
relationship is very real like it's very normal like to to fight with your spouse or to like
00:27:26.220
make them laugh it's like just as much yeah yeah it's like silly what's the silliest argument you
00:27:32.280
guys have that's consistent oh i feel maybe like anytime i clean the sink he has to shave like
00:27:39.800
something yeah it's it's like it's stuff like that like or if she if she'll like clean like the stove
00:27:45.160
we can't cook for two weeks no i'm like i'm not cleaning that i'm like the stove is never gonna
00:27:50.920
get dirty again there's no point of even having it like we should have not even rip it out sell it
00:27:55.180
or like scott has a seltzer addiction like just regular seltzer i don't know what happened and
00:28:00.000
there's so many cans everywhere like half drank full i'm like it drives me insane insane i forget them
00:28:07.580
i just it's just silly shit like that which is you'll fight with anyone cohabiting like that oh yeah even
00:28:13.060
with my boyfriend like when i first moved in with him like well he still does this to this day this
00:28:16.680
drives me nuts but he'll like he'll walk into the room and he'll just take the shoes off in the middle
00:28:21.780
of the room and he'll take pants off he'll take it looks like he was like evaporated out of it like
00:28:28.240
i'm like why are these here like and he'll leave them in the most random place and my boyfriend's a
00:28:33.960
size 13 shoe so that's a hazard it's an inconvenience yeah it's literally a bear trap like i'm literally
00:28:39.700
falling over it i'll trip over it or hurt myself i'm like why do you leave in the middle of the
00:28:45.320
room like in the middle i don't understand it's like a new coffee table like it's not like a small
00:28:50.100
shoe like you put an ottoman in the middle of it it's just stripping immediately stripping and then
00:28:56.000
leaving it on the ground i'll come back for it i'm gonna clean it up i'm like when literally when
00:29:00.780
no and then sometimes you just leave it there to see and then they don't and you're like are you
00:29:05.060
looking like he's like well today's not over yet i still have time to go pick it up yeah okay
00:29:09.680
that's like the silliest i think for me i think i'm perfect so he's not here um so i doubt he would
00:29:15.960
have any problems with me oh yeah he told me i doubt yeah see i doubt it i'm such a perfect uh partner
00:29:21.540
so yeah he has no complaints about me same i'm just take my word for it he's not here but take my word for
00:29:27.320
okay we're gonna talk about navigating a public relationship online as a creator right so obviously
00:29:40.020
we talked about things we have to be more mindful of now now that we're like public people yeah and
00:29:46.240
even so i don't know if you've ever gotten this but like sometimes when i use certain audios
00:29:50.060
like on tiktok or whatever um it'll have like references to like being like a breakup or being
00:29:58.360
better off or whatever and if i post even one all the comments are like oh no like they broke up i
00:30:06.120
don't believe i'm like girl what are you talking about this is an olivia rodrigo song yeah she's
00:30:12.440
19 i'm just like i'm vibing and sometimes i have to take them down i don't know if that's ever
00:30:17.060
happened to you guys have they ever thought you guys broke up or something um i think or been like
00:30:20.320
scott hasn't been in a lot of videos lately maybe he's not there like a couple of those have come
00:30:24.640
yeah there's there's some comments sometimes um i forgot what i did recently that people and maybe
00:30:32.380
it was an audio too and people were like what do you mean are you guys divorced are you and i'm like
00:30:38.080
wait what and i don't even pay attention to what i'm posting sometimes it's so bad and yeah i so it's
00:30:44.600
just comments but i've never had to like take it down yeah ever yeah i had to post a follow-up
00:30:49.380
once i'm like you guys everything's fine he's right everything's fine and also i was like i'm
00:30:55.400
also gonna be 30 so uh if i do ever break up if i do ever break up with the love of my life i'm not
00:31:02.120
making a tiktok about it yeah yeah like it's like there's nothing i'm burning the world down
00:31:06.100
i'm burning this building down you will never see me again you'll know because i'll be on the
00:31:11.100
news yeah yeah you know what i mean like i'm never yeah i'm gonna grow to the size of a godzilla
00:31:16.400
and i'm terrorizing account you know what i'm saying like that's what i'm gonna do if that ever
00:31:19.480
happens to me same you'll see i'll make history yeah in a bad way same she-hulk bro yeah i'm gonna
00:31:24.900
lose my mind wait weren't you guys that for halloween once yeah last year i remember that was a
00:31:30.240
great costume i always joke i'm like yo i am she-hulk like for real you should do it but we
00:31:36.380
didn't we want to do like you're the hulk and i was a doctor or something no i was you know how
00:31:40.800
it's like bruce dr banner or whatever yeah yeah i was gonna just be like just a guy in like a
00:31:45.600
button-up shirt and she was gonna be the whole whole green like that's funny that's a great one
00:31:52.680
okay like i know i just imagined it she's like if i do the pose you'll get yeah exactly yeah when we
00:31:59.120
did the hulks like that was a crazy costume but i remember when i posted that they were like
00:32:05.660
aren't the hulks cousins uh and so i was like well they're also not really watched they're also
00:32:10.680
not real so we could go based off that not real yeah i can't believe it's like on their mom's like
00:32:17.540
it's like a step brother yeah say they're not real yeah i was like they're also not real so we
00:32:22.240
could go based off that but uh if you want to split hairs again i guess they are in some of the
00:32:27.800
people are insane i guess they are cousins um it's gonna be okay though but i'm pacific islander
00:32:34.340
so that happens a lot like sometimes you just don't know sometimes i don't want i don't know
00:32:40.880
what do you want from me we lived on an island you know what i mean so i was like what do you want
00:32:47.980
from me um but even even like some people were like oh you should have been he should have been
00:32:52.320
daredevil or something i'm like i don't know nearly enough about the lord like you're giving me
00:32:55.800
way too much yeah you're like you're giving me too much credit girl i'm too late on the suggestion
00:32:59.900
i painted my body green like let's just look let's just look let's laugh i am stained green
00:33:06.060
for the rest oh man that was a nightmare that was really bad washing the green off yeah it was
00:33:10.920
supposed to come off easier but do you guys like halloween yeah we love we love i love
00:33:14.820
halloween too we do do you guys love a good couple's costume or do you guys kind of brave
00:33:18.960
it on your own i think oh well we actually have a funny a really funny uh story about that
00:33:24.880
usually typically it is like a couple's costume so two years ago we were celebrating one of my
00:33:31.680
best friend's birthdays in miami and it was around halloween yeah so she was like yeah we're gonna
00:33:36.880
go to a club like whatever so we plan our outfit and i'm like okay months ahead months ahead we're
00:33:43.140
like months ahead this is like set in stone what i thought was so we we go um and and we have
00:33:50.900
our costumes and he was going to be dr evil but like in the in the like prison scene in jail got
00:33:57.540
you and i was gonna be i think her name was faye okay and i was gonna be like you know that scene
00:34:03.400
where they passed the key like she yes out with him so i was gonna dress like her but my costume i
00:34:08.480
look like dolly parton like i looked crazy yeah so we get to miami and i'm chatting with like it's
00:34:12.780
like a huge group of girls and guys and everyone's like i'm gonna be sexy cleopatra i'm gonna be a
00:34:17.700
lizard i'm like wait a second i'm like i thought we were doing silly ones guys i'm like there's
00:34:23.600
no way i'm doing this and we're going to like a crazy club in miami 11 so it's like there's a lot
00:34:28.760
of people there yeah it's like we're going to like we're just staying in the house like
00:34:32.460
so i was like i fuck this i am going to the halloween store like i'm going to fucking spirit
00:34:38.340
halloween and getting something immediately in the morning and he was like well i don't have
00:34:42.780
anything he's like not me i'm going to talk to people with no context at all i was like i i was
00:34:49.840
like a witch or something i was like i would have been the gray suit dr evil i don't need to be jailed
00:34:53.080
dr evil like the whole reason is because now you're just a bald person now i look now i'm in miami
00:34:58.560
dealer all over his face now i'm in miami at a club and i just look like a cuban dude like it's not
00:35:03.200
it's not everyone's like i've seen you before i'm like no you haven't actually in an orange
00:35:08.240
jumpsuit like a bandana on they're like oh you look like okay you're like are you are you my
00:35:13.660
cousin yeah i'm dr evil man like and she's like real cute what were you like something cute it was
00:35:20.520
like whatever was left you didn't want to get a costume too no it was she had she got up at like
00:35:24.860
6 a.m after a long she's like i'm ubering to party city i was like man and she's like i'm going
00:35:30.360
she was already ready i was all right no i guess i'll be dr evil that was hilarious that was one of
00:35:36.540
the funniest that's so ridiculous that is so funny one year my boyfriend and i were like one
00:35:42.480
of the few years because i plan halloween costume so far in advance because i love halloween but this
00:35:47.360
year i didn't i don't remember why and so we were like driving around and this is like the day before
00:35:53.220
halloween so you know like there's nothing left it's clean uh can't return anything and the last
00:35:59.040
place we went was like i think we got them from walmart or target i forget but it was like those uh
00:36:05.320
jumpsuits you know it's like the full costume but it's just like a bodysuit and it was buzz and
00:36:11.540
woody but it's just like their outfits are printed poorly on on the costume and so we were like yeah
00:36:18.740
let's do this i don't know why the fuck we were like what a great idea we got them they were dirty
00:36:23.400
and they were like broken and the lady gave it to us for like half off so it's like a steal
00:36:28.940
it's always a win yeah i got a bargain and we went and we tried them on and my boyfriend's was
00:36:34.400
too small like he couldn't get it all the way up the length so he literally just cut it in half
00:36:39.440
and just wore the top just as a romper like just legs out just wore the top couldn't couldn't do up
00:36:46.500
the back because it's too small because my my boyfriend's wingspan is just too big for it
00:36:51.340
his traps were like hanging out of it the commitment yeah and then he put that foam hat on
00:36:56.720
and they just wore black jeans and then i wore a dirty buzz lighter onesie meanwhile woody is like
00:37:02.760
a hundred pounds soaking wet his man is just so little literally hulking out of the costume
00:37:08.960
and then when everyone saw us i think they kind of felt bad like they were like oh i get it i'm all
00:37:14.420
i don't need the tone i don't need we don't need it it's not bad i don't need the tone thank you
00:37:19.460
though i appreciate it though my boyfriend never really used to care about halloween but then once
00:37:24.940
we started dating he like loves it so now i feel like whenever i'm like i want to be this he's like
00:37:30.060
well what am i supposed to be that's what happened last year i looked like a substitute teacher oh my
00:37:35.060
god i was miss congeniality oh i love that scene of like her the talent show or something yes yeah but
00:37:40.600
he's just a detective so i'm in khakis in a button-up shirt and everyone's like i don't
00:37:46.520
even know what you're here for are you the manager of the bar they're like no i don't even know what
00:37:52.520
i am to be honest i've wanted to be selena for a few years and i want to do obviously her purple
00:38:00.080
of it and like the bang and the red lip legendary i wanted to do that and then he's like well who am i
00:38:05.460
supposed to be i'm like her husband he goes what do you wear what do i wear i'm like just all black
00:38:09.420
just all black he's so i look like security i'm all okay
00:38:12.300
i was like you could be selena security yeah exactly and he's like no i want to be something
00:38:18.640
cool too and i'm like i want to be selena he wears the purple one of us has to change one of us has to
00:38:25.260
change oh well now i'm embarrassed that's somebody's showing up in a full like costume
00:38:36.380
your eyes are getting wider every time they're like talking about what they're gonna be
00:38:43.520
yeah i think it's because my thing i love being i think sexy costumes are cool i think they're
00:38:47.780
awesome but i also want to be something like cool yeah i want to be something like different
00:38:52.640
i always want to like yeah think something unique a hundred percent i feel that basics are all you
00:38:58.480
know and those are easy like i could do that i did those all in college you know like throughout
00:39:02.640
college even some of my costumes in college though i like would convince my friends so like the my
00:39:08.240
freshman year of college i convinced everyone to be spring breakers because that movie had just come
00:39:12.580
out so we just wore bathing suits and the mask which is like trendy cute unique right uh one of my
00:39:19.060
friends got too fucked up before we left and forgot to cut holes in her beanie because we couldn't find
00:39:22.760
ski masks so we cut holes in a pink beanie then she just looked like a dickhead in a beanie like
00:39:26.760
she doesn't match us at all which is so funny because we're she's still in a bikini like she's
00:39:32.120
still with us but they're like well who's this girl the other way babe turn around who's the swimmer
00:39:37.080
who's the swimmer well yeah everybody's like well who's she supposed to be i'm all she's one of us
00:39:42.360
just forget it forget it forget it okay when you have to explain a costume to someone it's not fun
00:39:48.240
anymore the worst the worst what are you supposed to magic's gone disney in the back like ah it's
00:39:54.960
my brother one year because my brother is significantly younger than me but like one
00:39:58.400
year he wanted to be um a kingsman right like the movie and i'm like that's cool but like you're just
00:40:03.220
in a suit yeah right like they don't wear anything cool like it's like the gadgets are hidden inside
00:40:08.060
he's like it'll be fine and my mom gets him a whole suit like a cane everything glasses all this
00:40:13.320
shit the whole night everyone's like are you just like either monopoly so i'm an entrepreneur he
00:40:23.300
starts giving a seminar home insurance yeah he's grant cardone like who the fuck are you supposed to be
00:40:29.480
that's why he's like do you know what i am like he starts asking people it's rough it is right there's
00:40:35.280
a fine line between like i have no idea oh that's perfect but once you get it you're like
00:40:41.340
oh you tell them and they just still don't know they're like cool they're like oh i hate that
00:40:47.800
yeah i think the the first one i did when i had like a platform i was john wick and then i made
00:40:55.280
uh my boyfriend the dog that dies oh my god holy holy shit and that was his idea because i was like
00:41:03.020
i kind of want to be john wick but like i don't know he's like i'll be the dead dog you're like
00:41:07.240
you're gonna be the dog yeah i was like what about the dog and he was like all right like he didn't
00:41:10.760
care so he got like a sloth costume because like he couldn't find a dog one big enough and they just
00:41:16.800
put his hair in two things and then drew dog stuff even then everyone was like i don't get it
00:41:22.520
like they thought they thought he was i don't know like a bear or something and i think they
00:41:27.040
just thought i was like a fancy person but then most of the pictures they were like oh like that's
00:41:33.220
cool yeah you have to do the side by side yeah you gotta put it yeah we had to make a little video
00:41:36.860
to explain the substitute teacher guy everyone's like oh all right you're eric you're a tiktok guy
00:41:41.920
you're like ah that's it before in the bar it was like no one knew everyone's like i don't get it
00:41:47.660
did they just think you were a dutch girl yeah i get it like oh oktoberfest cool
00:41:51.980
like i guess close it up i mean kind of you're like it's like the bar manager yeah i just look
00:41:59.740
like i had a rough day at work yeah i'm just like yeah let me get a double
00:42:05.320
so i'll go we'll do one of these videos and we're talking again about being like a public
00:42:17.680
couple so uh this first video is the man is hosting this podcast and he says a lot of women
00:42:24.180
are cheating right now you don't want to hear it it has nothing to do with sex if a man is in
00:42:28.520
your inbox in your dms saying good morning beautiful or hey what are you doing today if
00:42:33.400
you're giving a man conversation you're cheating okay okay okay well even if you talk to your dad
00:42:39.340
is that any man i'll just ignore my father christ can't sorry married to my dad sorry
00:42:47.100
dad i'm married i did that too once and that was so embarrassing like i was working i was like running
00:42:53.020
on treadmill which i don't know why a trainer would approach you when you're on the fucking mad out of
00:42:57.120
breath like running and he came and approached me i thought he was trying to flirt and i was like
00:43:00.820
i'm married and he was like i'm a trainer here i was like i'm actually trying to get your money
00:43:04.920
she pointed him to me and then i'm more out of shape than her so i can't breathe now he's up
00:43:09.640
at me talking i'm like i you should have talked to her i well now i feel targeted yeah i came up to
00:43:14.500
the two of us my boyfriend is a trainer is a licensed trainer and it is pretty trainers are
00:43:22.800
very specific kind of breed yeah male trainers so crazy is that we just posted like like yesterday i
00:43:29.920
was like i'm looking for a trainer yeah interesting he does online training if you guys want to do
00:43:35.820
that me just me just selling no is that the plug i love a supportive girlfriend do you guys think
00:43:41.780
it's cheating um if a man is in your dance scott i guess it just depends on the context yeah it's
00:43:48.120
all about the context i think it would be the same as if like a girl was like trying to yeah like it
00:43:52.960
depends on what they're saying if it's a normal conversation yeah yeah absolutely but every day if
00:43:58.260
someone's like throwing heart eyes like good morning beautiful it's like that's i'm fully
00:44:02.020
married you know like if a girl was doing that to me i'd be like that's weird intentions are ill will
00:44:06.840
that's fucking weird if someone is just messaging you about normal stuff something you're posting or
00:44:11.900
something like that you can always tell the vibe you know yeah well i also think too it's so easy to
00:44:18.720
like catch people doing things like that you know what i'm saying like when people cheat they're not
00:44:23.700
very secretive yeah or they get secretive eventually and then you get fishy but i feel
00:44:30.240
like i feel like if you're confident enough in your relationship like you're you're secure enough
00:44:35.440
in your relationship you don't worry about stuff like yeah yeah like i don't worry about stuff like
00:44:38.820
that like i know i never do i'm never thinking like oh my god how many people are saying good
00:44:43.700
morning beautiful ever yeah my man knows i don't get that i get quite the opposite for mother from
00:44:50.580
man if i'm being honest i have all the girlies and the gays and me too so you know nothing to worry
00:44:56.980
about yeah nothing to worry about men send me a very different kind of message uh personally yeah i
00:45:04.140
even had like when i had dylan on the show like dylan mulvaney she was like oh do you ever have people
00:45:08.220
being creepy and i was like no actually like confidently no never yeah i think i've had
00:45:14.900
only recently have i had like some men like kind of say stuff that's a little
00:45:20.960
but they know i have a boyfriend so they're they're never gonna disrespect him even if they
00:45:25.820
want to disrespect me yeah they care more about his reaction than they do mine a hundred percent i
00:45:30.600
mean i get like the you know the usual sugar daddies hello baby i would love to send you
00:45:38.080
five million dollars please yeah please be my guest is it a wire or is it like i'll take over from
00:45:44.280
here babe i got it do you need a routing number what is this here i'll deposit first then we'll talk
00:45:50.020
we'll continue the conversation even when i first started dating my boyfriend like if we would go out
00:45:54.660
and stuff sometimes i he's like why don't you take a lap see if you can get us oh my god yeah walk
00:46:00.100
around a hundred percent and you just go oh but my friend like they don't have a drink either and
00:46:05.660
then they're like i'll give both of you i'm like okay thanks perfect bye bye thank you so much i have
00:46:10.260
to go to the bathroom with my drinks i have to go to the bathroom just go to my man immediately yeah
00:46:15.560
and one time we've been there one time i made a video about that and i i had quite a few well
00:46:21.240
obviously men but i had some pick me's be like oh that's cheating and i'm like what he was there
00:46:26.520
yeah he's like down he's like rooting for you he doesn't care he's scouting the dudes for you yeah
00:46:32.080
like this guy looks like an idiot he's like go take a lap and see i'm like all right cool let's
00:46:37.340
walk around but i always feel like that's not cheating no no making the patriarchy work for you
00:46:43.420
it's haggling is what it is it's a swap meet at the end of the day it is what it is you know
00:46:50.380
it's like best bargain yeah of course if someone's willing to buy me something i'm taking it
00:46:54.220
am i supposed to say yeah yeah i was like i got one for me and him what are you talking about
00:47:00.540
if the guy mixed the drink maybe i'm not taking it but the bartender doesn't pass it over i'm good
00:47:05.720
dude for real i don't think i mean have you guys ever had uh people say things like that about you
00:47:12.640
guys online or try to like i don't know like infer like oh he's probably cheating i get those but
00:47:18.480
that's because i antagonize men for a living yeah yeah yeah um i i don't think so yeah honestly
00:47:25.200
it's so bad like i really it's so bad i i try not to really look at like comments that's not a bad
00:47:32.340
thing you know it is so it's just like once i catch like one thing that i'm stuck on it but i
00:47:37.300
rather just protect myself i feel you and i'm like so maybe they're thrown in there sometimes in videos
00:47:43.340
but or dms or something but yeah i don't i don't think i get those pretty like
00:47:48.240
i doubt you do too i will we'll have like a mutual friend and i'll like comment on their
00:47:53.540
video laughing there you go yeah and they'll be like don't you have a way but yeah
00:47:58.840
sometimes i'll comment on things yeah i mean like you're married i'm like okay like people
00:48:05.580
are still attractive like you're like i'm not doing anything he was with me when i did that
00:48:10.500
i'm like yeah like she could see this the same you can like what do you think i'm not hiding
00:48:14.520
nothing like bro like i laughed i'm gonna send this to her that's like the only thing i'll see and
00:48:18.840
i'm like yeah yeah that that's very weird yeah we met her together we're like friends
00:48:24.340
we're literally yeah i'm a fan i'm a fan of someone like she was she was with me when i wrote that so
00:48:30.660
it's okay it's all right don't worry guys all good intentions but it's like uh someone who's
00:48:36.120
watching very closely to shit like that which is a you know i think it's just natural it's
00:48:41.240
probably because they're like they love you so much they want to protect you the same one thousand
00:48:45.380
but people can be weird sometimes yes they can okay the comments on this this just says they'll
00:48:51.740
just blame others to avoid being caught i'm assuming talking about women who talk to men okay in their
00:48:56.900
comments okay and then this says accountability is foreign to a lot of women oh sure okay i just feel
00:49:04.140
like it's such a bold statement sure sure yeah i feel like everything well men are known for
00:49:09.180
taking responsibility for all the wrong things they do in life they're known for that that's like
00:49:14.660
their thing that is their thing and this is a thousand percent facts and there's always a side
00:49:20.540
dude and there's always a side like you're such a loser yeah you're such a loser you're such a
00:49:25.980
always there's there will always my grandma after 68 years my mom oh she had a man on the side for
00:49:34.700
sure they have so much people that comment the irony is that they know that men are whores and so
00:49:43.540
that's why they believe that yeah because men are down like that's why they're always why they have
00:49:49.280
that mentality yeah because they're we're doing it they gotta i would be so people gotta be like
00:49:55.740
i'm doing it now he doesn't even have a girlfriend yeah yeah it's those they're concerned about
00:50:00.700
everyone else did you guys see that trend um that was going around on first i think it was on twitter
00:50:06.180
but then it like got moved to tiktok but it was like this thread that this guy started and he was
00:50:11.020
saying um men no one talks about how hard it is when you start to slowly hate your girlfriend
00:50:16.300
or your wife oh holy shit i just saw someone talking about that yeah and it was like a whole
00:50:21.220
threat and it's a whole bunch of dudes in there being like oh yeah it's the worst like i try to
00:50:26.280
ignore her and she knows something's wrong and then i you know what i mean i feel like quiet quitting
00:50:30.620
yeah quite no for real literally quiet quitting literally put a nine to five in and i'll just
00:50:36.760
if i get fired i get fired he's like this is love this is literally quiet quitting like they
00:50:43.340
they are genuinely trying to make their girlfriends break up with them because they don't want to do
00:50:47.120
it that is isn't that insane actually insane sometimes when i tell you speak it sounds like
00:50:52.700
torture to me sometimes it's literally about death by a thousand cuts like just pull it like i don't
00:50:58.300
need to i would have done it at that point such a dork like if you're not like just fucking say it
00:51:04.060
with your chest such a loser but i and i of course sometimes when i bring up stuff like that people
00:51:08.460
are like i didn't see anything like that and it's because i'm always exposed to the worst
00:51:12.260
side to the internet like people are just tagging like well you think about this terrible thing
00:51:16.940
literally i get a front row seat to all things that are awful on the internet and i saw that a
00:51:22.500
bunch like so many people were like this is crazy like you know do you have anything to say about
00:51:28.660
this and when i made a video about it i kind of was just like i mean am i shocked to hear that some
00:51:35.000
men treat their wives and girlfriends like shit no um what shocks me is whether or not any of you
00:51:40.520
believe them because i don't yeah like i don't believe a single dude in that threat and i said
00:51:45.280
did you go and look at what they look like like it's very telling it's you don't have a girlfriend
00:51:50.720
at home like no you're like hey you're a liar um i like you know anything's possible when you lie
00:51:55.840
i lie all the time all the time i lie so that's not true um and then you imagine how sad you got to
00:52:03.040
be to really like not have a girlfriend but you're like when i do yeah eventually not like her
00:52:09.220
no and when i get to a point where i hate her i cannot and i even said even if that is true which
00:52:14.380
it has i'm sure i know that's happened in real life i just don't believe any man on the internet
00:52:18.920
who like brags and laughs about it like i don't believe you you're a fucking liar i can't like i
00:52:25.440
lie about stuff all the time it's i get it for reaction yeah like girls love to lie about stupid
00:52:30.820
shit you like to lie about abusing a girlfriend so that's cool yeah it's a little different um and
00:52:36.360
when i was talking about it even in my video i was kind of explaining how like real relationships
00:52:41.140
like true foundational relationships like don't end that way obviously um i know that it has
00:52:47.180
happened i'm sure at many different points where men like kind of mentally check out of
00:52:51.340
relationships and i was like but honestly like nothing brings mediocre men together faster than
00:52:57.280
talking shit on a bitch they don't deserve every time they love to kiki about that they love to
00:53:04.500
gather around and be like oh i had a crazy ex once she was such a dumb bitch like they love to do that
00:53:12.820
it unites them so quickly imaginary friends they don't that's why i'm like good men don't sit
00:53:18.660
around talking about ex-girlfriends you're like grow up good men in other relationships don't sit
00:53:25.680
around talking about that ever ever in my life literally ever like ever there'll be times where
00:53:30.320
erica i before erica like two months before i like kind of like dated saw a girl for maybe a month
00:53:38.160
like nothing serious at all yeah little fling erica will still say her name sometimes and i'll be
00:53:44.740
like who are you even talking and i'll realize and i'll be like i can't even remember this girl
00:53:50.920
it was like three weeks no you're literally stuck just like my boyfriend never thinking about them
00:53:56.980
like exactly the same because i i want to know yeah because i am a cheese mosa so i just i just like
00:54:04.480
i'm nosy that's just what i want to hear um so he's been like i waited i waited till like two
00:54:11.020
three months in and then i was like so let's talk about some stuff like i'm like i want to talk do
00:54:16.040
you want to hear about mine i'll tell you about mine he's probably like not really you know he
00:54:19.720
literally told me i don't want to hear about it yeah like that's what she'll do i don't want i'm like
00:54:22.720
are you sure let's exchange i'm good just keep yours i'm gonna keep mine that's good we're all we
00:54:28.480
moved on from all that that's why my man is like i don't i don't need to hear i don't care at all
00:54:33.020
because it's not who starts the race it's who finishes exactly so and that's how he's but i'm
00:54:37.740
just nosy so i want to like i know i want to know everything yeah i don't get offended or anything
00:54:41.300
i just want to know because that's what we talk about with our with girlfriends i know which like
00:54:45.480
when i first started doing my boyfriend too i'm like you guys don't ever talk about that stuff like
00:54:48.960
with your friends and he's like no they don't i wonder all what do you guys do what do you talk
00:54:54.800
about silence tell me something and i'm like i'll have a follow-up question that's totally normal
00:54:59.780
and he'll be like i don't know i didn't ask i'm like how don't you ask these questions like what
00:55:06.480
do you guys you guys just say sentences and just stop there and never just no follow-up no follow-up
00:55:12.460
it was recent too i was like oh yeah my friend broke up with uh his girl and she's like why oh my god
00:55:19.840
why and i'm like oh i don't know me literally me i'm like oh i'm like oh well now i gotta call him
00:55:25.080
and ask him like that's not fair she's like go find out i'm like now it's awkward like he told
00:55:30.360
me he's like oh by the way me and blah blah blah broke up oh okay are you good he's like yeah i'm
00:55:34.260
like all right and that was it it's so funny even like with um my boyfriend's brother like when he
00:55:52.800
dated a new girl or whatever i'd be like well what's the tea on her like tell me about her and
00:55:56.900
he goes i don't know anything about her i don't even know he goes i only i i think her name is this
00:56:01.960
and then i go okay but like you know like what does she do for a living like where does she live
00:56:07.400
he goes i don't know and i go you didn't ask he goes no she he told me i'm seeing this new girl
00:56:12.720
and then i said cool and that's it what the fuck it's just like what fun i was like what i literally
00:56:20.480
because i say like with my sister like we talk like 20 000 times a day so like every single time
00:56:26.800
i'm like oh you're never gonna believe it and i'll tell her the silliest thing but it takes me 20
00:56:30.900
minutes to explain it because i have the most colorful story right and then my boyfriend has
00:56:35.380
life-shattering news and i'm like oh my god sit down i need to hear it i need to hear it and he
00:56:40.200
goes well that's it that's all i know exactly it's not i'm just telling you what i know that's it
00:56:44.940
the same way it's crazy you're like he'll tell me to you about like the gym he used to work at
00:56:50.760
he'll be like oh like yeah i heard so-and-so got in trouble because they did this i'm like
00:56:55.580
with who he goes like don't tell me then don't tell me keep it from me until you have the whole
00:57:03.580
story otherwise i have to go to the gym and i have to ask around and that's not fair i have to apply
00:57:08.100
i have to be a personal trainer i'm then i get certified i build a clientele i start selling
00:57:13.560
online and then i do it yeah that's that's so much work for me one of my boyfriend's like best
00:57:18.660
friends he works at the gym too and he like had text my boyfriend something vague like he was like
00:57:24.500
oh yeah so-and-so um got in trouble today because of this i'm like why and he goes i don't know i'm
00:57:30.260
like ask him i want to know and he goes he just literally sent why and then he goes oh i don't
00:57:36.060
know i'll have to like ask and i'm like oh my i'm on the edge of my seat i'm like please tell me
00:57:40.560
please tell me i need to know who cares that the information doesn't change my life at all then i
00:57:45.520
finally like he called him he told i was like put it on speaker put on speaker because he knew i was
00:57:49.020
there i'm like i want to hear i want to hear so he tells me the whole story i'm like and then i
00:57:53.220
literally i'm not kidding i grew face on my whole family i'm like guys gather around i have a whole
00:57:57.740
story for you gather around nothing about anything who are these i'm no i'm literally like i'm the only
00:58:04.440
one talking at that point i'm talking to my boyfriend's best friend because we know each other
00:58:08.140
really well too so i'm asking him all these questions my boyfriend's not even paying attention
00:58:10.880
anymore he doesn't even care he's not listening fully checked out yeah and then i grew face on my
00:58:14.640
whole family guys oh i got something crazy it's just the most random news nobody cares no my dad's
00:58:19.820
on there he doesn't give a fuck my dad doesn't care at all my dad doesn't give a damn he's super
00:58:25.140
like oh nice all the dudes are but my mom and my sister locked in listening to me of course every
00:58:31.560
word follow up yeah and they're like how's it going now yeah any news any updates my mom will do the
00:58:37.880
same thing too yeah like so so what did they say after you said that i love your mom she's always
00:58:43.060
but what about my boyfriend's mom too but is this still happening i'm like i really have no idea
00:58:47.800
well how how could you not know and i'm like just call erica please
00:58:52.020
i have all the information no she calls me too that's so funny my boyfriend's mom calls me too
00:58:59.160
because she only has boys so like she's never gotten to like really talk shit and so so there she's like
00:59:05.440
and when i tell i love telling my boyfriend's mom t because when i tell her t she goes no way
00:59:11.160
like she's white so like her reactions are very like you're lying she literally goes you're
00:59:19.620
literally lying to me she says that to me all the time i'm like i'm not lisa take a seat let's talk
00:59:24.320
about it they love it can you believe i know i love it doesn't age yeah you're just like any age
00:59:30.880
you're down your grandma too 90 what's what's good like assisted living home now she talk gossip
00:59:37.420
about everybody right next to her i'm like grandma that's me and erica in an old phone song i'm like
00:59:42.460
you're never gonna believe it she's like she's married to her son her daughter's married to her
00:59:48.600
son they've been here for five years their husbands passed away i'm like grandma they're not right here
00:59:53.900
you could just have them in the conversation i could ask them literally sometimes my boyfriend
00:59:59.240
would tell me t and i'm like we have to tell your mom call her i know me too call your mom we have
01:00:03.620
to tell her reaction i know because it's so lackluster from him i'm like i need an audience
01:00:11.280
okay to wrap up uh obviously you guys are incredible and so funny and amazing um so what
01:00:27.020
would you guys say is your best piece of advice for couples that may be like looking into being
01:00:33.120
like a public figure social media person like would you say your guys's best tips are um don't be a
01:00:39.260
prank couple that's valid to be honest don't be a prank couple yeah you know what that breaks up
01:00:45.400
not my show it's becoming a prank couple it's a prank couple um that's it that's the advice i mean
01:00:52.560
i was gonna say basically the same thing like be authentic because you'll get if you're faking it
01:00:59.000
it's like there's gonna be ad like when you guys break up there's gonna be ad deals that you have
01:01:05.140
and then you're gonna have to fake it three weeks after the breakup and then once everyone finds out
01:01:09.920
they're gonna be like man that was rough i know i've seen that too many times just be authentic if
01:01:14.540
you guys really love each other show it if you're mad at each other show it yeah he has more words
01:01:19.220
now not when he has tea like you're handing out free advice but can't tell me why they broke up
01:01:26.200
get on that you have homework today i will say too something i really admire about the two of you
01:01:31.900
that i feel very strongly in my own relationship too is like you guys show what you want to show
01:01:37.240
and you keep what you want to keep private like i feel that that is great advice yeah really keep
01:01:43.460
your relationship for yourself yeah because once it's too public then it's just like you're not
01:01:48.660
you're not doing it then it's just like filtering into your own real reality and it's just not real
01:01:54.780
and it's not between just the two of you anymore it's you and millions of other people exactly like
01:01:59.140
they're all in on your relationship at that point and i really admire that about the two of you
01:02:03.140
because i know you guys set boundaries like that too and so do i which i think is beautiful because
01:02:07.640
you know you want to show your partner and you want to show how talented and funny they are and
01:02:11.980
everything which is a wonderful thing but then sometimes you got to keep some stuff yeah i feel
01:02:16.720
that you gotta you gotta know it's like if the internet never existed ever again if there was no
01:02:21.260
power in the world it's like you're good yeah like you're fine yeah like if it were to all
01:02:26.480
disappear tomorrow you'll still be okay either way i love that about you you guys are amazing
01:02:31.440
you're amazing thank you so funny i adore y'all where can everybody find you um on tiktok and
01:02:37.500
instagram at erica priscilla period i am scotty's days off on all platforms love make sure y'all
01:02:45.740
follow both of them on everything they're both so funny and talented i adore you guys you guys are
01:02:51.680
amazing thank you for coming today thank you for having us and thank you all for joining us on this
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