The Comment Section with Drew Afualo - November 01, 2023


I'M ACTUALLY THE PERFECT PARTNER Ft. Erika Priscilla and Scott Corizzi


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1 hour and 3 minutes

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13,236

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5

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23

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In this episode of the comment section, we have the iconic, the legendary, and the amazing Erica Priscilla and Scott Carizzi! They are two of my favorite couples, and I am so happy to have them on the show.

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00:00:00.000 never expect people to be like knowing you and yeah and watching i still will be like
00:00:04.000 did i go to school with you or something like no i saw a video she's like i'm 19
00:00:09.500 you're like okay like bowling league don't you know you could be my dad
00:00:14.360 hey everyone and welcome back to another episode of the comment section show starring me blah blah
00:00:27.200 blah blah blah blah who cares about me on to the guests to guests which means we have multiple
00:00:34.040 today we have the iconic the legendary the amazing erica priscilla and scott carizzi
00:00:39.500 welcome thank you welcome family to the to the show so happy to have you thank you so much i feel
00:00:47.880 like we're old friends yeah we've never met ever never but it feels it's so weird when you follow
00:00:53.720 people you just feel like you know that yeah exactly yeah i'm so excited to have you both here
00:00:58.660 one of my fave couples my second couple to come on the show oh yeah i think second couple yeah
00:01:04.780 who's at first yeah um they're a little longer together so
00:01:08.060 love them i love them so much though i love you guys i was like i don't want to scare you but uh
00:01:15.280 that's what happened we love them love y'all love y'all i love them i believe in y'all though
00:01:19.760 just like i believe in them how have y'all been how's life everything's good yeah yeah yeah we just
00:01:28.480 um celebrated our one year married yes well it's not the official date yet but we took a pre
00:01:35.160 like anniversary trip to greece how fun it was fun how was it married life it was nice yeah yeah
00:01:41.820 did you guys i know you guys okay well i know you both became constant creators before you got
00:01:46.040 married and then everyone loved watching the whole follow-up to your actual wedding yeah how
00:01:51.120 was that like documenting your wedding process or parts of it anyway yeah parts of it i did it
00:01:56.480 yeah the wedding process was interesting i will say the aftermath of the wedding though is what i
00:02:02.620 liked talking about because i like fucked so many things up at the wedding and i'm like let me tell you 0.87
00:02:09.200 what not to do so yeah so that was fun but yeah it's it's been a long journey it just like it's
00:02:15.620 weird to think back of like we started as like not we weren't even engaged yeah you know and now you
00:02:21.620 have a whole like fully married a whole group of people who love watching you be married yeah it's
00:02:26.940 weird it's a little different it's like people coming up congratulations i'm like what i forget i'm
00:02:33.400 like oh you're talking about the wedding oh okay thank you so much are you someone who talks to
00:02:37.480 people like or they talk to you like they know you and you're just kind of vibe yeah oh of course
00:02:41.260 yeah that's kind of how my man is too people are like yeah they just go up they start talking and
00:02:46.320 then i'm like who was that he goes i don't know yeah he just came up to me yep exactly it's so
00:02:50.120 embarrassing anytime someone like will recognize me scott will be the first one he'll make eye
00:02:54.600 contact with them and be like like make sure to connect us every time erica had to tell me to
00:03:00.180 stop i'm like can you please not in a bad way but i'm like it's in a way so you're prepared yeah
00:03:05.100 exactly unless they come up but i used to be like are you looking at her no i could get her i could get
00:03:10.560 her erica she and the person be like i'm not even looking at her i'm so sorry i apologize have you
00:03:18.100 ever had someone like you you're like oh do you want a picture and then they're like no oh my god
00:03:22.560 i've had so many embarrassing things one time i actually this happened recently we were i was
00:03:27.320 downstairs waiting for like a pizza delivery or something and i was talking to the front desk
00:03:31.880 and she was like i know that it was just me and her too and she's like i know this is a really
00:03:37.360 random question why am i so embarrassing i was like it's me i it is and she goes no i need two q-tips
00:03:46.460 like i'm so random could you run upstairs and get me q-tips i'm like that's exactly what yeah
00:03:51.820 i figured i figured that is me the girl with the q-tips that's what i meant you didn't let me
00:03:55.620 finish you don't let me finish my sentence that was me that i got him i got him it was so i do in
00:04:01.060 fact have those i'm so excited you asked me i'm so glad that's so funny i that happened to me one
00:04:07.660 time where someone was like like it's because sometimes when they come up uh i know that they
00:04:12.960 get nervous and then they like they they don't want to ask but they just want to talk to you kind of
00:04:17.000 thing um and i never used to offer because i just was like i don't want to assume that that's
00:04:21.700 what you want yeah i'm not embarrassing you're like i'm good yeah just the interaction one time
00:04:26.020 because my mom was like you know maybe they get nervous maybe you should ask and i'm like
00:04:29.740 yeah but also that's a big risk so i was like okay fine and one girl came up to me she was young 0.83
00:04:36.480 like she had to have been like 16 17 and she was like oh i'm such a big fan blah blah blah i'm like
00:04:41.800 so sweet thank you so much and then she was like yeah and then she was just kind of standing there
00:04:45.660 and then i was like do you want a picture or something she goes no like the way that she 0.99
00:04:50.440 was so like no i was like oh okay well neither do i i turned into a man i'm like well guess what 0.94
00:04:57.740 you're fat anyways the way that men like flip on you immediately you're ugly yeah yeah you think i 1.00
00:05:02.900 want an ugly bitch like you i don't i'd start i'd start being mean like i started you can't have 1.00
00:05:07.980 one anyway so if you want good i'm glad because i don't allow those just immediately angry so 0.99
00:05:15.080 embarrassing it was so bad i was like okay yeah no for sure i've never asked just because that was
00:05:21.600 the one and that's it that's what i get for listening to my mom that's what i get for listening
00:05:25.180 to my mom but she had all the best intentions no of course the few times that she's asked like when
00:05:29.860 she's been with me and she's like do you guys want a picture i could take a picture of you guys
00:05:32.680 they're really nice about it yeah so like i'm like you do that i'm not asking ever again i learned
00:05:38.280 my lesson i'm never asking ever again even strangers though like sometimes we'll watch
00:05:42.500 them struggle and i'm like i can i can take in they're like no we're good i'm like
00:05:46.220 okay okay let me take one picture of you we get offended we're taking a picture give me your phone 1.00
00:05:52.300 good god don't ask me i'm not doing it so yeah go ahead take your shitty ass selfie 0.99
00:05:58.980 like what the hell like your picture's grainy see if i care like a group of three older women 1.00
00:06:04.500 at a broadway show they did end up asking they're like actually do you mind i was like actually i
00:06:11.420 do i'll do it oh i'm busy now yeah oh you took so much offense dude it's so it's literally so bad
00:06:19.020 even with um my boyfriend too like i'm sure you get recognized too like whether you're away yeah or
00:06:24.260 but when you're together it's worse that's how i am too with philly like because my boyfriend is
00:06:28.880 like a big dude so like they see him from a mile away yeah and they're like i saw your boyfriend
00:06:34.380 and then i knew you had to be here too sometimes people hear scott's laugh and be like yeah that's
00:06:40.160 crazy wait erica must be here so that's the funniest part is when they see me and they immediately just
00:06:45.520 start looking for you and i'm like she's not hero i'm like at a car watch like i'm so sorry i feel
00:06:50.900 bad i'll facetime her i feel terrible i just like get in the car you can come to our house
00:06:57.100 she's like ruin the excitement like she's gotta nope not hero i know sometimes my man would do
00:07:01.940 that too they'd he'd be like i think they're trying to call you and i'm like
00:07:05.980 it's so exciting for me like yeah i know it is exciting it's still yeah well i feel like i know
00:07:12.980 a lot about your guys's lore just because i'm a big fan but just for those of you those who don't
00:07:17.820 know the lore how'd you guys meet we met at a bar through a mutual friend oh that's cool yeah
00:07:24.920 because we grew up i was a public school girlie and he was a private school dude and yeah we went
00:07:31.860 to schools like towns over from each other so we kind of always knew of each other scott would
00:07:36.500 poke me on facebook back in the day the real ones remember the poke i'm gonna be honest the real
00:07:43.060 ones remember the poke and it works it works look it works you get that poke back and it would be
00:07:47.300 all right actually i'm gonna send the message no you had your ex-girlfriend i know you always
00:07:53.720 bring that up first of all you poked other people so yeah no it's not gonna work but yeah then then
00:07:58.560 we organically met in person at a bar okay yeah so you guys know each other for a long time then
00:08:03.700 or known of each other yeah we never met never met until not until you were until the first time
00:08:08.680 we met at the bar yeah i was 21 or 20 yeah 21 21 i was like 23 look at y'all yeah yeah now we're
00:08:15.100 old farts so and you guys were together for how long before you got married um six years yeah we
00:08:22.480 were engaged we got engaged six years and then by the time we got married it was eight years oh nice
00:08:27.180 yeah did covid slow down your wedding um i i think i just wasn't in a rush to plan the wedding
00:08:33.160 because of covid yeah and then once i got the day date set in stone and it was a destination wedding
00:08:38.980 and stuff it was just i got lucky with all their strict like requirements and all that stuff yeah
00:08:43.920 yeah how was the wedding planning process was it exhausting was it fun i mean you're very mixed reviews
00:08:49.700 yeah i think because it was a destination wedding i kind of was like there's god you know
00:08:55.540 yeah but there's only so much you can see from here without going back exactly but my my cousin
00:09:00.980 is a wedding planner there it was in jimmy republic so thank god for her because i would have killed 1.00
00:09:07.820 scott probably uh for no reason you're close yeah yeah but i was i was a pretty like chill bride it was
00:09:14.980 it was okay and it was honestly so so much fun like i wish that we were guests at our own wedding
00:09:21.100 that's sick yeah i wish we could do like at least a little party every year yeah just try to i know
00:09:25.940 just keep making it about us guys time to celebrate us again who's ready fly out again oh my god
00:09:32.860 travel not included travel and lodging not included see you guys there definitely there's a timeshare
00:09:39.320 when you get there as well sit there for two hours and then seminar did you guys have very differing
00:09:53.100 opinions on the wedding or were you pretty pretty worked pretty well together i her vision was really
00:09:59.440 what put it all together because i didn't want to throw a wrench in nothing yeah you know it's like
00:10:03.520 just the best sport yeah yeah of course i want her to just like whatever you want and see everything 0.99
00:10:09.580 she's ever imagined you know i'm like i'm so content with her you know her opinion and her
00:10:14.260 decisions i'm like yeah she's gonna kill it no matter what yeah i don't want to like
00:10:18.820 i'll be like yeah i want all blue flowers you know she's like well it's not gonna be that
00:10:24.840 i'm just joking but like you're all well yeah no but love you though i wish i could have did more
00:10:30.700 to be honest it's like hard no but you had you had certain yeah it's hard a little bit you know
00:10:35.840 what's your uh what's your guys's signs i knew you were gonna ask yeah i'm curious a leo
00:10:42.360 i love that i'm a capricorn oh look at that were you not expecting me to be leo no well it makes 0.94
00:10:49.740 sense it makes sense that you're like you're an attention whore well you want to having to listen 0.84
00:10:55.760 having to be in this you gotta you gotta love attention to some extent yeah and you and i are 0.99
00:11:00.040 those girls yeah and my man you're a leo too no i'm actually a virgo oh you're so i'm close yeah
00:11:05.780 but i'm like i do have leo in my chart but it's funny because my man is the same as you where he's
00:11:11.980 kind of like reps up vibes vibes yeah support and love only love that and i'm like i really want your
00:11:18.400 opinion and then he'll tell me his opinion i'm like that's not the right answer that's not the right
00:11:22.760 opinion but i do love that you're contributing and then he's cool with it like he's like okay great
00:11:27.360 because he doesn't care either way as long as i'm there and we get married that's all he cares
00:11:31.240 about 100 and i feel like that's what i'm doing it for you know i'm here for you to marry me and be
00:11:36.300 happy you just have to show up that's it yeah yeah exactly that's i think that's really sweet though
00:11:41.440 especially like when you when your partner contributes but they're also like they just
00:11:44.600 want you to be happy 100 and as long as you had fun and you felt relaxed yeah that's all that matters
00:11:49.600 i did i was like chilling the whole time so i really wasn't stressed what were things that you
00:11:54.700 learned not to do well um you said you had some um okay there's a couple things it's very personalized
00:12:03.120 to me though because i had well for example i wanted like a glass um like walk way thing oh yeah
00:12:11.460 yeah over like a bridge like to go down the aisle and i had a really like bedazzled dress
00:12:17.460 and i accidentally stepped on one of the beads why did i slip mad embarrassing in front of everyone
00:12:23.400 i didn't fully fall but i went like i did one of those yourself perfectly of course yeah and then
00:12:28.660 also um we tried to have guessing you know just in case is she making it you know who knows what's 0.99
00:12:35.920 gonna happen she's gonna do a bit yeah no you should have been a comedy a hundred percent everyone's
00:12:41.820 dying i was like walking down the rest of the aisle i'm like only me right only me
00:12:45.460 like the three stooges for real well that was yeah that was one example and then we tried to do
00:12:54.080 like beautiful yeah yeah yeah we tried to do a like a light lantern like uh send off kind of vibe
00:13:00.100 oh cute because we had like a lot of space and i was like that'd be a moment yeah and i had to bring
00:13:05.500 a lot of stuff from the u.s like to dominic republic so i ordered on amazon i was like you know what let
00:13:10.640 me get like biodegradable ones because i don't want to get canceled yeah um because we love the
00:13:15.380 environment yeah we love the environment yeah and so my mom sometimes you do have to listen to your
00:13:21.400 mom i'm going back to your i agree with you because my mom was like why don't you just test one out
00:13:25.120 here and i'm like i'm good like i don't have time bro we we had everyone doing it we got like with
00:13:31.380 like barely any instruction we got like four up we're like yeah just put it in light it up and then
00:13:35.200 you guys don't even know people were stomping it out at one point it was people are like waiting
00:13:40.600 for it to light it's like the back side of it's on fire people are like drop it like i had to grab
00:13:46.080 the mic i was like stop it out guys stop it out the trash it was in the trash but we got like two up
00:13:53.600 and let me tell you the excitement when the two hit the sky it was like it was almost like the sky was
00:13:59.500 full of them so those two were like it was such a task to get them up that those two were a huge
00:14:05.360 those held it down they were a huge win so yeah so don't do that guys at least try them out before
00:14:10.840 you just give them to like a hundred people listen to your mom you're like everyone i gave you a pack
00:14:15.240 of instructions please unfold it carefully read steps one through twenty it's like four hours into
00:14:19.460 drinking at this wedding no one cares the worst time to do it too so it was just a mess but yeah so
00:14:25.760 don't do that guys but then it's not your wedding huh it's just not your wedding if everything goes
00:14:31.100 perfect exactly i feel that every time exactly any anything that happens i'm like well that would
00:14:36.400 happen to me yep yeah yeah that would happen to me yeah that's okay god finds a way to keep me
00:14:41.040 humble at all times 100 100 reminded every day i literally told that story on my show when i had
00:14:47.140 er five master on the show i was talking about how like i have beef with like a creator like a dude
00:14:53.540 that doesn't like me for obvious reasons uh and he and i beefed weirdly it was like kind of like
00:14:59.640 i'm sure you've met enough influencers both of you at this point like sometimes they get really mad if
00:15:04.760 you don't know who they are yeah which i find weird because i'm like corny corny well look how old i am
00:15:09.080 like clearly i'm not the bitch following you you know what i'm saying like i know your demo i'm too old 1.00
00:15:13.520 i'm too brown like there's just no way yeah right like we have never crossed paths ever virtually or 0.97
00:15:18.260 literally i'll tell you after um anyways i made a mean ass joke to him because he was very rude to 0.98
00:15:22.860 me a year later i literally ate shit in front of him at the barbie premiere no and he did not help 0.88
00:15:29.020 me on purpose and then i thought to myself you kind of got me yes yeah you gotta respect score is even
00:15:35.320 you almost got to respect it and i said maybe next time we meet we'll be friends yeah yeah right
00:15:39.180 that's how it works maybe that's how it works the lesson was the friends we earned along the way
00:15:43.960 yeah yeah 100 i'm willing to wave a white flag if he is yeah i like that equal so i like that i like
00:15:50.920 that okay that's mature that was like a real like progressive i'm just funny and i respect a funny
00:15:59.780 bit and when someone ignores me on purpose because i was mean to them that's funny yeah 0.96
00:16:03.820 even if you're a bitch ass dude like yeah i respect it that's kind of funny you got me 1.00
00:16:09.700 i'll see you next time you got me you got me you got me okay so back to you guys as a couple online 0.99
00:16:16.620 like have you guys ran into any problems or issues as far as like what you've noticed when it comes to
00:16:23.960 having an audience and they're fans of both of you obviously i'm a public couple too so yeah but
00:16:28.780 there's a couple of things i mean obviously the expectation is always there which i just i i just
00:16:35.140 don't get it it's like obviously we're just posting funny shit online like in general so it's not always
00:16:42.820 like that yeah you know so it's it's a lot of pressure sometimes when people are like you we look
00:16:49.620 up to you like you guys are the best yeah yeah or they're like if you guys break up i don't believe
00:16:54.240 in love anymore yeah like hell of pressure but yeah yeah and i'm like me neither so like
00:16:59.040 leave me alone all right but you think you wouldn't i'll lose my whole life
00:17:04.920 same we'll be in there together yeah like yeah okay the same boat
00:17:08.700 i know you and i erica and i were messaging because i saw you guys posted when you came back
00:17:15.600 from greece yes you're like if you guys saw us fighting in the airport please send me
00:17:18.840 send me a picture yeah it's so real it really is it really is my sister sends it to me and she goes
00:17:24.500 dude this is literally you guys and i was like no for real it is you fight with your partner it 0.97
00:17:29.600 happens normal it happens it's like such stupid stuff and then obviously you don't realize until 0.98
00:17:34.740 you really take a step back because obviously this is so like still new to us yeah yeah like you 0.93
00:17:39.160 never expect people to be like knowing you when they don't know you i still will be like did i go
00:17:43.660 at school with you or something like no i saw a video she's like i'm 19 and you're like okay
00:17:49.600 like bowling league you're like no you can be my dad i'm talking about
00:17:54.320 first of all you're way older than me just humbling real quick but it's true you have to 0.99
00:18:01.720 you know you have to just be a little mindful of that stuff yeah because i am the bitch at the 1.00
00:18:06.720 restaurant having dinner with scott and just my ear is just i'm oh yeah i feel that i know i have to
00:18:18.460 be very conscious of that too like when i talk because obviously my voice is very distinct and
00:18:22.860 so are your guys's so i feel like they hear it and they're like immediately they kind of perk up to 0.99
00:18:28.240 it a little bit you're like shut the fuck up put your hands down i know you like to talk with your 0.98
00:18:33.500 hands put them down and relax i know the only fights that billy and i ever have are very they're 1.00
00:18:40.300 very stupid they're silly they're so small and they turn into silly arguments especially in public 0.99
00:18:46.800 though especially when you travel oh traveling it's like it's just a lot especially when you travel as 1.00
00:18:53.360 much as we do for work and everything when i hosted black adam last year in new york i remember i got
00:18:59.620 these outfits made for us obviously like they're cultural and so i got a whole one made for my
00:19:04.840 boyfriend too and he's very like i'm a virgo so i'm very like order order planning all that shit and so 0.90
00:19:12.320 i set all of that up for us i had the outfits brought to us i was like okay we're good and i he was
00:19:17.260 like i'm i'm packed and i'm like are you oh my god like everything's packed including the outfit like
00:19:22.300 if you forgot all your underwear and not that outfit i wouldn't be mad because like you need
00:19:26.840 that outfit he goes yeah yeah yeah yeah and then we get to the airport and he's like thinking about
00:19:31.560 it and he left the bottoms like hanging in my closet the way that i was like i'm gonna freak out
00:19:38.180 so i like literally left i'm getting arrested you won't need him anymore because you'll be
00:19:42.440 i'm about to i'm about to make a no-fly list because i'm gonna be very upset publicly i was so angry
00:19:47.840 like i was so stressed out and upset i like got up and left so i didn't have to be next to bro i
00:19:53.380 would do the same because i can't like rage at you because there's people who know me and they're
00:19:57.280 gonna watch my god and i was so and he was like i'm really sorry i'm like i bet typical
00:20:03.100 i bet you are he's not alone that helps the story helps right now it really is helping
00:20:08.240 well thank god you're sorry that's gonna make it thank god yeah that brings the bottoms right here
00:20:15.620 and i ended up my mom ended up fedexing them to me like she like overnight with an mvp mvp my mom's
00:20:23.160 that girl she is legend dude recently before i went to paris uh night before like leading up to
00:20:29.720 it i'm like okay paris is a big deal right and so i'm thinking nothing's going wrong and that feels
00:20:34.760 wrong something's gonna go wrong then that literal night before my boyfriend uh realized he lost our
00:20:41.120 passports oh good good and then i was like obviously i was like uh car gets here at 3 a.m and
00:20:46.400 it's 11 and we can't find the passports i was freaking out yeah i was freaking out and my
00:20:52.940 boyfriend's like i'm really sorry and i'm like oh my god that's why he's helping again you're like
00:20:57.040 oh sorry you're just saviors my mom fixed that problem too shit my mom got me like a last day 0.99
00:21:02.020 appointment i had to push my flight today it is stressful it's horrible i've been there 0.97
00:21:05.880 and it's just like and i've been there too it's just silly shit like that that i'm like 0.97
00:21:10.880 yeah love you love you so much it's not the big shit it's it's silly stuff it's always something 0.99
00:21:17.180 so stupid and purely an accident and that's probably the part that makes me the most upset 0.97
00:21:21.580 because i'm like i can't get upset because it was an accident yeah it's like if it was me i'd be 0.99
00:21:25.760 like don't be mean i already feel bad enough yeah same
00:21:30.000 no literally fucking same 100 and then sometimes he's like sometimes he'll be like well like if 0.88
00:21:41.980 you had done that like i would forgive you yeah exactly i'm like i'm gonna forgive you just like 0.55
00:21:46.380 i can't do it right now we're not right now i can't give you that right now give me 10 and i was
00:21:49.400 like also me being a virgo i'm like well that would never happen to me because i would never lost
00:21:53.840 it me being a virgo i'm organized yeah yeah that's just me being a know-it-all like it's easy for me to
00:21:58.800 say that now because it's your fault yeah so i'm allowed to be mad at you
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00:23:05.100 did you guys get any footage of you arguing in the airport no i wish once i got on the plane i was
00:23:14.480 like i really wish i could see myself from the third person point of view i know he he was like
00:23:19.860 he like answered it yeah he did i was like post it he's like okay i was like don't post it
00:23:24.540 don't post nothing you won't post nothing he was just like didn't know what to do eventually i was
00:23:30.380 like just go through clear just go get out of here that was the stress we just got there too close and
00:23:35.260 we were in the tsa line and it was really long for some reason and clear was there and it was just
00:23:41.120 it was a mess and then the line high stress makes me honest scott it was are we doing this now
00:23:48.540 girl can i have the room please let's wrap this up early guys are we late is that what it was
00:23:56.180 no no no it was he's saying is that what it was it was like all right so the when we walked in the
00:24:01.940 we have to do this well we i don't know we're didn't know i'm joking erica just you know when
00:24:07.640 that thought in your head's like i might miss this flight yeah like even if it's like yeah like
00:24:12.500 we had more than enough time i think it was just like we and we had a connecting plate that was
00:24:16.860 very tight yeah so it was like you're like i can't miss this fight i need to get home yeah and
00:24:20.660 i think she was just like like we're never making this line yeah i already had 10 minutes
00:24:24.280 later we're like i was like sitting at the gate for the next 45 minutes and then we're and we're not
00:24:28.660 talking to each other and i'm like i know and then he's going we're fine and you're like we're
00:24:33.360 not fine she's like i feel clear we're like in clear we're outlines then we missed our place in
00:24:37.960 life i think it was just like a high stress situation and that was it those tsa agents are
00:24:43.480 probably like what are these people doing sometimes i think the logical like because my boyfriend's
00:24:49.440 the logical one i'm very emotional so like and he's the very like it's gonna be fine yeah and i
00:24:54.360 don't have that yeah personally i don't have that skill to be like it's very like i i'm very like
00:25:01.180 what if it all goes wrong and he's like it won't yeah i'm like how do you know that for sure because
00:25:05.460 it never does okay okay and like it doesn't eliminate possibility in my head but to him it's
00:25:12.200 like it's not even an option yeah so it's gonna be fine which sometimes you don't want to hear when
00:25:16.300 you're stressed which i feel like but you also need to hear that when you're stressed it's such a weird
00:25:20.780 balance i know like i know even like uh even literally last night like when i arrived in new
00:25:25.840 york i was carrying my suitcase into the room and we were looking at the room to my uh defense i was
00:25:33.540 looking at something that i was gonna make a silly joke about and i was like i was like this joke is
00:25:37.860 gonna kill it's just me and my boyfriend like no one else is there i'm like literally playing like
00:25:41.500 that joke is funny i'm gonna say that out loud not paying attention and my suitcase hit something and
00:25:46.680 it fell and it ripped my nail off and i just got new nails so it was like oh my god and i had like
00:25:54.900 a nervous breakdown like i was literally like i'm so upset like i was like crying and my boyfriend's
00:26:00.720 like it's fine i'll go get you some glue i'm like glue's not gonna fix it she's still trying to tell
00:26:05.060 the joke okay well while i have you let me tell you this joke he's like that's not even funny
00:26:10.080 i'm like cancel everything forget it we're going home it's like one of those moments i have like a
00:26:18.240 freak out fast forward hours later i was like um trying to make my boyfriend laugh so i was like
00:26:22.960 spinning in a circle don't ask me why okay and then he was like i wish that i could stitch what you
00:26:27.840 were doing when we first got here that's me with food though like i'm like turn into the hulk
00:26:36.360 i'm like la la la after that you're like eating and you're like are you you're so quiet yeah
00:26:41.440 as soon as she's like open the door the door that is here is like everything everything before that
00:26:49.160 was forgotten like completely she's like once that door's open in the bags there she's just like
00:26:54.460 what what happened i'm crying still i thought we were done to be honest i feel better do you feel
00:27:03.300 better you're not gonna eat with me this is crazy there's really no winning there's no winning with
00:27:11.600 well that's what i think is like that's probably i think what people love the most about the two of
00:27:15.640 you other than both of you being very very funny and good content creators i think it's like your
00:27:20.380 relationship is very real like it's very normal like to to fight with your spouse or to like
00:27:26.220 make them laugh it's like just as much yeah yeah it's like silly what's the silliest argument you
00:27:32.280 guys have that's consistent oh i feel maybe like anytime i clean the sink he has to shave like
00:27:39.800 something yeah it's it's like it's stuff like that like or if she if she'll like clean like the stove
00:27:45.160 we can't cook for two weeks no i'm like i'm not cleaning that i'm like the stove is never gonna
00:27:50.920 get dirty again there's no point of even having it like we should have not even rip it out sell it
00:27:55.180 or like scott has a seltzer addiction like just regular seltzer i don't know what happened and
00:28:00.000 there's so many cans everywhere like half drank full i'm like it drives me insane insane i forget them 0.92
00:28:07.580 i just it's just silly shit like that which is you'll fight with anyone cohabiting like that oh yeah even 0.96
00:28:13.060 with my boyfriend like when i first moved in with him like well he still does this to this day this 0.99
00:28:16.680 drives me nuts but he'll like he'll walk into the room and he'll just take the shoes off in the middle
00:28:21.780 of the room and he'll take pants off he'll take it looks like he was like evaporated out of it like
00:28:28.240 i'm like why are these here like and he'll leave them in the most random place and my boyfriend's a
00:28:33.960 size 13 shoe so that's a hazard it's an inconvenience yeah it's literally a bear trap like i'm literally
00:28:39.700 falling over it i'll trip over it or hurt myself i'm like why do you leave in the middle of the
00:28:45.320 room like in the middle i don't understand it's like a new coffee table like it's not like a small
00:28:50.100 shoe like you put an ottoman in the middle of it it's just stripping immediately stripping and then
00:28:56.000 leaving it on the ground i'll come back for it i'm gonna clean it up i'm like when literally when
00:29:00.780 no and then sometimes you just leave it there to see and then they don't and you're like are you
00:29:05.060 looking like he's like well today's not over yet i still have time to go pick it up yeah okay
00:29:09.680 that's like the silliest i think for me i think i'm perfect so he's not here um so i doubt he would
00:29:15.960 have any problems with me oh yeah he told me i doubt yeah see i doubt it i'm such a perfect uh partner
00:29:21.540 so yeah he has no complaints about me same i'm just take my word for it he's not here but take my word for
00:29:27.320 okay we're gonna talk about navigating a public relationship online as a creator right so obviously
00:29:40.020 we talked about things we have to be more mindful of now now that we're like public people yeah and
00:29:46.240 even so i don't know if you've ever gotten this but like sometimes when i use certain audios
00:29:50.060 like on tiktok or whatever um it'll have like references to like being like a breakup or being
00:29:58.360 better off or whatever and if i post even one all the comments are like oh no like they broke up i
00:30:06.120 don't believe i'm like girl what are you talking about this is an olivia rodrigo song yeah she's
00:30:12.440 19 i'm just like i'm vibing and sometimes i have to take them down i don't know if that's ever
00:30:17.060 happened to you guys have they ever thought you guys broke up or something um i think or been like
00:30:20.320 scott hasn't been in a lot of videos lately maybe he's not there like a couple of those have come
00:30:24.640 yeah there's there's some comments sometimes um i forgot what i did recently that people and maybe
00:30:32.380 it was an audio too and people were like what do you mean are you guys divorced are you and i'm like
00:30:38.080 wait what and i don't even pay attention to what i'm posting sometimes it's so bad and yeah i so it's
00:30:44.600 just comments but i've never had to like take it down yeah ever yeah i had to post a follow-up
00:30:49.380 once i'm like you guys everything's fine he's right everything's fine and also i was like i'm
00:30:55.400 also gonna be 30 so uh if i do ever break up if i do ever break up with the love of my life i'm not
00:31:02.120 making a tiktok about it yeah yeah like it's like there's nothing i'm burning the world down
00:31:06.100 i'm burning this building down you will never see me again you'll know because i'll be on the
00:31:11.100 news yeah yeah you know what i mean like i'm never yeah i'm gonna grow to the size of a godzilla
00:31:16.400 and i'm terrorizing account you know what i'm saying like that's what i'm gonna do if that ever
00:31:19.480 happens to me same you'll see i'll make history yeah in a bad way same she-hulk bro yeah i'm gonna
00:31:24.900 lose my mind wait weren't you guys that for halloween once yeah last year i remember that was a
00:31:30.240 great costume i always joke i'm like yo i am she-hulk like for real you should do it but we
00:31:36.380 didn't we want to do like you're the hulk and i was a doctor or something no i was you know how
00:31:40.800 it's like bruce dr banner or whatever yeah yeah i was gonna just be like just a guy in like a
00:31:45.600 button-up shirt and she was gonna be the whole whole green like that's funny that's a great one 0.98
00:31:52.680 okay like i know i just imagined it she's like if i do the pose you'll get yeah exactly yeah when we
00:31:59.120 did the hulks like that was a crazy costume but i remember when i posted that they were like
00:32:05.660 aren't the hulks cousins uh and so i was like well they're also not really watched they're also
00:32:10.680 not real so we could go based off that not real yeah i can't believe it's like on their mom's like
00:32:17.540 it's like a step brother yeah say they're not real yeah i was like they're also not real so we
00:32:22.240 could go based off that but uh if you want to split hairs again i guess they are in some of the
00:32:27.800 people are insane i guess they are cousins um it's gonna be okay though but i'm pacific islander
00:32:34.340 so that happens a lot like sometimes you just don't know sometimes i don't want i don't know
00:32:40.880 what do you want from me we lived on an island you know what i mean so i was like what do you want
00:32:47.980 from me um but even even like some people were like oh you should have been he should have been
00:32:52.320 daredevil or something i'm like i don't know nearly enough about the lord like you're giving me
00:32:55.800 way too much yeah you're like you're giving me too much credit girl i'm too late on the suggestion
00:32:59.900 i painted my body green like let's just look let's just look let's laugh i am stained green
00:33:06.060 for the rest oh man that was a nightmare that was really bad washing the green off yeah it was
00:33:10.920 supposed to come off easier but do you guys like halloween yeah we love we love i love
00:33:14.820 halloween too we do do you guys love a good couple's costume or do you guys kind of brave
00:33:18.960 it on your own i think oh well we actually have a funny a really funny uh story about that
00:33:24.880 usually typically it is like a couple's costume so two years ago we were celebrating one of my
00:33:31.680 best friend's birthdays in miami and it was around halloween yeah so she was like yeah we're gonna
00:33:36.880 go to a club like whatever so we plan our outfit and i'm like okay months ahead months ahead we're
00:33:43.140 like months ahead this is like set in stone what i thought was so we we go um and and we have
00:33:50.900 our costumes and he was going to be dr evil but like in the in the like prison scene in jail got
00:33:57.540 you and i was gonna be i think her name was faye okay and i was gonna be like you know that scene
00:34:03.400 where they passed the key like she yes out with him so i was gonna dress like her but my costume i
00:34:08.480 look like dolly parton like i looked crazy yeah so we get to miami and i'm chatting with like it's
00:34:12.780 like a huge group of girls and guys and everyone's like i'm gonna be sexy cleopatra i'm gonna be a
00:34:17.700 lizard i'm like wait a second i'm like i thought we were doing silly ones guys i'm like there's
00:34:23.600 no way i'm doing this and we're going to like a crazy club in miami 11 so it's like there's a lot
00:34:28.760 of people there yeah it's like we're going to like we're just staying in the house like 0.98
00:34:32.460 so i was like i fuck this i am going to the halloween store like i'm going to fucking spirit 0.99
00:34:38.340 halloween and getting something immediately in the morning and he was like well i don't have 0.98
00:34:42.780 anything he's like not me i'm going to talk to people with no context at all i was like i i was
00:34:49.840 like a witch or something i was like i would have been the gray suit dr evil i don't need to be jailed
00:34:53.080 dr evil like the whole reason is because now you're just a bald person now i look now i'm in miami
00:34:58.560 dealer all over his face now i'm in miami at a club and i just look like a cuban dude like it's not
00:35:03.200 it's not everyone's like i've seen you before i'm like no you haven't actually in an orange
00:35:08.240 jumpsuit like a bandana on they're like oh you look like okay you're like are you are you my
00:35:13.660 cousin yeah i'm dr evil man like and she's like real cute what were you like something cute it was 1.00
00:35:20.520 like whatever was left you didn't want to get a costume too no it was she had she got up at like
00:35:24.860 6 a.m after a long she's like i'm ubering to party city i was like man and she's like i'm going
00:35:30.360 she was already ready i was all right no i guess i'll be dr evil that was hilarious that was one of
00:35:36.540 the funniest that's so ridiculous that is so funny one year my boyfriend and i were like one
00:35:42.480 of the few years because i plan halloween costume so far in advance because i love halloween but this
00:35:47.360 year i didn't i don't remember why and so we were like driving around and this is like the day before
00:35:53.220 halloween so you know like there's nothing left it's clean uh can't return anything and the last
00:35:59.040 place we went was like i think we got them from walmart or target i forget but it was like those uh
00:36:05.320 jumpsuits you know it's like the full costume but it's just like a bodysuit and it was buzz and
00:36:11.540 woody but it's just like their outfits are printed poorly on on the costume and so we were like yeah 0.97
00:36:18.740 let's do this i don't know why the fuck we were like what a great idea we got them they were dirty 0.93
00:36:23.400 and they were like broken and the lady gave it to us for like half off so it's like a steal 0.98
00:36:28.940 it's always a win yeah i got a bargain and we went and we tried them on and my boyfriend's was
00:36:34.400 too small like he couldn't get it all the way up the length so he literally just cut it in half
00:36:39.440 and just wore the top just as a romper like just legs out just wore the top couldn't couldn't do up 1.00
00:36:46.500 the back because it's too small because my my boyfriend's wingspan is just too big for it
00:36:51.340 his traps were like hanging out of it the commitment yeah and then he put that foam hat on
00:36:56.720 and they just wore black jeans and then i wore a dirty buzz lighter onesie meanwhile woody is like
00:37:02.760 a hundred pounds soaking wet his man is just so little literally hulking out of the costume
00:37:08.960 and then when everyone saw us i think they kind of felt bad like they were like oh i get it i'm all
00:37:14.420 i don't need the tone i don't need we don't need it it's not bad i don't need the tone thank you
00:37:19.460 though i appreciate it though my boyfriend never really used to care about halloween but then once
00:37:24.940 we started dating he like loves it so now i feel like whenever i'm like i want to be this he's like
00:37:30.060 well what am i supposed to be that's what happened last year i looked like a substitute teacher oh my
00:37:35.060 god i was miss congeniality oh i love that scene of like her the talent show or something yes yeah but 1.00
00:37:40.600 he's just a detective so i'm in khakis in a button-up shirt and everyone's like i don't
00:37:46.520 even know what you're here for are you the manager of the bar they're like no i don't even know what
00:37:52.520 i am to be honest i've wanted to be selena for a few years and i want to do obviously her purple
00:38:00.080 of it and like the bang and the red lip legendary i wanted to do that and then he's like well who am i
00:38:05.460 supposed to be i'm like her husband he goes what do you wear what do i wear i'm like just all black
00:38:09.420 just all black he's so i look like security i'm all okay
00:38:12.300 i was like you could be selena security yeah exactly and he's like no i want to be something
00:38:18.640 cool too and i'm like i want to be selena he wears the purple one of us has to change one of us has to
00:38:25.260 change oh well now i'm embarrassed that's somebody's showing up in a full like costume
00:38:33.500 you're like same person you're like listening
00:38:36.380 your eyes are getting wider every time they're like talking about what they're gonna be
00:38:43.520 yeah i think it's because my thing i love being i think sexy costumes are cool i think they're
00:38:47.780 awesome but i also want to be something like cool yeah i want to be something like different
00:38:52.640 i always want to like yeah think something unique a hundred percent i feel that basics are all you
00:38:58.480 know and those are easy like i could do that i did those all in college you know like throughout
00:39:02.640 college even some of my costumes in college though i like would convince my friends so like the my
00:39:08.240 freshman year of college i convinced everyone to be spring breakers because that movie had just come
00:39:12.580 out so we just wore bathing suits and the mask which is like trendy cute unique right uh one of my 0.68
00:39:19.060 friends got too fucked up before we left and forgot to cut holes in her beanie because we couldn't find 0.99
00:39:22.760 ski masks so we cut holes in a pink beanie then she just looked like a dickhead in a beanie like 1.00
00:39:26.760 she doesn't match us at all which is so funny because we're she's still in a bikini like she's 1.00
00:39:32.120 still with us but they're like well who's this girl the other way babe turn around who's the swimmer 0.69
00:39:37.080 who's the swimmer well yeah everybody's like well who's she supposed to be i'm all she's one of us
00:39:42.360 just forget it forget it forget it okay when you have to explain a costume to someone it's not fun
00:39:48.240 anymore the worst the worst what are you supposed to magic's gone disney in the back like ah it's
00:39:54.960 my brother one year because my brother is significantly younger than me but like one 0.76
00:39:58.400 year he wanted to be um a kingsman right like the movie and i'm like that's cool but like you're just
00:40:03.220 in a suit yeah right like they don't wear anything cool like it's like the gadgets are hidden inside
00:40:08.060 he's like it'll be fine and my mom gets him a whole suit like a cane everything glasses all this
00:40:13.320 shit the whole night everyone's like are you just like either monopoly so i'm an entrepreneur he 0.99
00:40:23.300 starts giving a seminar home insurance yeah he's grant cardone like who the fuck are you supposed to be 0.99
00:40:29.480 that's why he's like do you know what i am like he starts asking people it's rough it is right there's 0.96
00:40:35.280 a fine line between like i have no idea oh that's perfect but once you get it you're like
00:40:41.340 oh you tell them and they just still don't know they're like cool they're like oh i hate that
00:40:47.800 yeah i think the the first one i did when i had like a platform i was john wick and then i made
00:40:55.280 uh my boyfriend the dog that dies oh my god holy holy shit and that was his idea because i was like 0.69
00:41:03.020 i kind of want to be john wick but like i don't know he's like i'll be the dead dog you're like 0.91
00:41:07.240 you're gonna be the dog yeah i was like what about the dog and he was like all right like he didn't
00:41:10.760 care so he got like a sloth costume because like he couldn't find a dog one big enough and they just
00:41:16.800 put his hair in two things and then drew dog stuff even then everyone was like i don't get it
00:41:22.520 like they thought they thought he was i don't know like a bear or something and i think they
00:41:27.040 just thought i was like a fancy person but then most of the pictures they were like oh like that's
00:41:33.220 cool yeah you have to do the side by side yeah you gotta put it yeah we had to make a little video
00:41:36.860 to explain the substitute teacher guy everyone's like oh all right you're eric you're a tiktok guy
00:41:41.920 you're like ah that's it before in the bar it was like no one knew everyone's like i don't get it
00:41:47.660 did they just think you were a dutch girl yeah i get it like oh oktoberfest cool
00:41:51.980 like i guess close it up i mean kind of you're like it's like the bar manager yeah i just look
00:41:59.740 like i had a rough day at work yeah i'm just like yeah let me get a double
00:42:02.680 you're like hey halloween
00:42:05.320 so i'll go we'll do one of these videos and we're talking again about being like a public
00:42:17.680 couple so uh this first video is the man is hosting this podcast and he says a lot of women
00:42:24.180 are cheating right now you don't want to hear it it has nothing to do with sex if a man is in
00:42:28.520 your inbox in your dms saying good morning beautiful or hey what are you doing today if
00:42:33.400 you're giving a man conversation you're cheating okay okay okay well even if you talk to your dad
00:42:39.340 is that any man i'll just ignore my father christ can't sorry married to my dad sorry
00:42:47.100 dad i'm married i did that too once and that was so embarrassing like i was working i was like running 0.98
00:42:53.020 on treadmill which i don't know why a trainer would approach you when you're on the fucking mad out of 0.96
00:42:57.120 breath like running and he came and approached me i thought he was trying to flirt and i was like
00:43:00.820 i'm married and he was like i'm a trainer here i was like i'm actually trying to get your money
00:43:04.920 she pointed him to me and then i'm more out of shape than her so i can't breathe now he's up
00:43:09.640 at me talking i'm like i you should have talked to her i well now i feel targeted yeah i came up to
00:43:14.500 the two of us my boyfriend is a trainer is a licensed trainer and it is pretty trainers are
00:43:22.800 very specific kind of breed yeah male trainers so crazy is that we just posted like like yesterday i
00:43:29.920 was like i'm looking for a trainer yeah interesting he does online training if you guys want to do
00:43:35.820 that me just me just selling no is that the plug i love a supportive girlfriend do you guys think
00:43:41.780 it's cheating um if a man is in your dance scott i guess it just depends on the context yeah it's
00:43:48.120 all about the context i think it would be the same as if like a girl was like trying to yeah like it
00:43:52.960 depends on what they're saying if it's a normal conversation yeah yeah absolutely but every day if
00:43:58.260 someone's like throwing heart eyes like good morning beautiful it's like that's i'm fully
00:44:02.020 married you know like if a girl was doing that to me i'd be like that's weird intentions are ill will
00:44:06.840 that's fucking weird if someone is just messaging you about normal stuff something you're posting or 0.74
00:44:11.900 something like that you can always tell the vibe you know yeah well i also think too it's so easy to 0.97
00:44:18.720 like catch people doing things like that you know what i'm saying like when people cheat they're not
00:44:23.700 very secretive yeah or they get secretive eventually and then you get fishy but i feel
00:44:30.240 like i feel like if you're confident enough in your relationship like you're you're secure enough
00:44:35.440 in your relationship you don't worry about stuff like yeah yeah like i don't worry about stuff like
00:44:38.820 that like i know i never do i'm never thinking like oh my god how many people are saying good
00:44:43.700 morning beautiful ever yeah my man knows i don't get that i get quite the opposite for mother from
00:44:50.580 man if i'm being honest i have all the girlies and the gays and me too so you know nothing to worry
00:44:56.980 about yeah nothing to worry about men send me a very different kind of message uh personally yeah i
00:45:04.140 even had like when i had dylan on the show like dylan mulvaney she was like oh do you ever have people
00:45:08.220 being creepy and i was like no actually like confidently no never yeah i think i've had
00:45:14.900 only recently have i had like some men like kind of say stuff that's a little
00:45:20.960 but they know i have a boyfriend so they're they're never gonna disrespect him even if they
00:45:25.820 want to disrespect me yeah they care more about his reaction than they do mine a hundred percent i
00:45:30.600 mean i get like the you know the usual sugar daddies hello baby i would love to send you
00:45:38.080 five million dollars please yeah please be my guest is it a wire or is it like i'll take over from
00:45:44.280 here babe i got it do you need a routing number what is this here i'll deposit first then we'll talk
00:45:50.020 we'll continue the conversation even when i first started dating my boyfriend like if we would go out
00:45:54.660 and stuff sometimes i he's like why don't you take a lap see if you can get us oh my god yeah walk
00:46:00.100 around a hundred percent and you just go oh but my friend like they don't have a drink either and
00:46:05.660 then they're like i'll give both of you i'm like okay thanks perfect bye bye thank you so much i have
00:46:10.260 to go to the bathroom with my drinks i have to go to the bathroom just go to my man immediately yeah
00:46:15.560 and one time we've been there one time i made a video about that and i i had quite a few well
00:46:21.240 obviously men but i had some pick me's be like oh that's cheating and i'm like what he was there
00:46:26.520 yeah he's like down he's like rooting for you he doesn't care he's scouting the dudes for you yeah 0.99
00:46:32.080 like this guy looks like an idiot he's like go take a lap and see i'm like all right cool let's 0.99
00:46:37.340 walk around but i always feel like that's not cheating no no making the patriarchy work for you 1.00
00:46:43.420 it's haggling is what it is it's a swap meet at the end of the day it is what it is you know
00:46:50.380 it's like best bargain yeah of course if someone's willing to buy me something i'm taking it
00:46:54.220 am i supposed to say yeah yeah i was like i got one for me and him what are you talking about
00:47:00.540 if the guy mixed the drink maybe i'm not taking it but the bartender doesn't pass it over i'm good
00:47:05.720 dude for real i don't think i mean have you guys ever had uh people say things like that about you
00:47:12.640 guys online or try to like i don't know like infer like oh he's probably cheating i get those but
00:47:18.480 that's because i antagonize men for a living yeah yeah yeah um i i don't think so yeah honestly
00:47:25.200 it's so bad like i really it's so bad i i try not to really look at like comments that's not a bad
00:47:32.340 thing you know it is so it's just like once i catch like one thing that i'm stuck on it but i
00:47:37.300 rather just protect myself i feel you and i'm like so maybe they're thrown in there sometimes in videos
00:47:43.340 but or dms or something but yeah i don't i don't think i get those pretty like
00:47:48.240 i doubt you do too i will we'll have like a mutual friend and i'll like comment on their
00:47:53.540 video laughing there you go yeah and they'll be like don't you have a way but yeah
00:47:58.840 sometimes i'll comment on things yeah i mean like you're married i'm like okay like people
00:48:05.580 are still attractive like you're like i'm not doing anything he was with me when i did that
00:48:10.500 i'm like yeah like she could see this the same you can like what do you think i'm not hiding
00:48:14.520 nothing like bro like i laughed i'm gonna send this to her that's like the only thing i'll see and
00:48:18.840 i'm like yeah yeah that that's very weird yeah we met her together we're like friends
00:48:24.340 we're literally yeah i'm a fan i'm a fan of someone like she was she was with me when i wrote that so
00:48:30.660 it's okay it's all right don't worry guys all good intentions but it's like uh someone who's
00:48:36.120 watching very closely to shit like that which is a you know i think it's just natural it's 0.87
00:48:41.240 probably because they're like they love you so much they want to protect you the same one thousand 0.99
00:48:45.380 but people can be weird sometimes yes they can okay the comments on this this just says they'll
00:48:51.740 just blame others to avoid being caught i'm assuming talking about women who talk to men okay in their
00:48:56.900 comments okay and then this says accountability is foreign to a lot of women oh sure okay i just feel 1.00
00:49:04.140 like it's such a bold statement sure sure yeah i feel like everything well men are known for
00:49:09.180 taking responsibility for all the wrong things they do in life they're known for that that's like
00:49:14.660 their thing that is their thing and this is a thousand percent facts and there's always a side 1.00
00:49:20.540 dude and there's always a side like you're such a loser yeah you're such a loser you're such a 0.99
00:49:25.980 always there's there will always my grandma after 68 years my mom oh she had a man on the side for 1.00
00:49:34.700 sure they have so much people that comment the irony is that they know that men are whores and so 0.98
00:49:43.540 that's why they believe that yeah because men are down like that's why they're always why they have 0.97
00:49:49.280 that mentality yeah because they're we're doing it they gotta i would be so people gotta be like
00:49:55.740 i'm doing it now he doesn't even have a girlfriend yeah yeah it's those they're concerned about
00:50:00.700 everyone else did you guys see that trend um that was going around on first i think it was on twitter
00:50:06.180 but then it like got moved to tiktok but it was like this thread that this guy started and he was
00:50:11.020 saying um men no one talks about how hard it is when you start to slowly hate your girlfriend
00:50:16.300 or your wife oh holy shit i just saw someone talking about that yeah and it was like a whole 0.70
00:50:21.220 threat and it's a whole bunch of dudes in there being like oh yeah it's the worst like i try to 0.98
00:50:26.280 ignore her and she knows something's wrong and then i you know what i mean i feel like quiet quitting
00:50:30.620 yeah quite no for real literally quiet quitting literally put a nine to five in and i'll just
00:50:36.760 if i get fired i get fired he's like this is love this is literally quiet quitting like they
00:50:43.340 they are genuinely trying to make their girlfriends break up with them because they don't want to do
00:50:47.120 it that is isn't that insane actually insane sometimes when i tell you speak it sounds like
00:50:52.700 torture to me sometimes it's literally about death by a thousand cuts like just pull it like i don't 0.99
00:50:58.300 need to i would have done it at that point such a dork like if you're not like just fucking say it 0.99
00:51:04.060 with your chest such a loser but i and i of course sometimes when i bring up stuff like that people 0.98
00:51:08.460 are like i didn't see anything like that and it's because i'm always exposed to the worst 0.98
00:51:12.260 side to the internet like people are just tagging like well you think about this terrible thing
00:51:16.940 literally i get a front row seat to all things that are awful on the internet and i saw that a
00:51:22.500 bunch like so many people were like this is crazy like you know do you have anything to say about
00:51:28.660 this and when i made a video about it i kind of was just like i mean am i shocked to hear that some 0.98
00:51:35.000 men treat their wives and girlfriends like shit no um what shocks me is whether or not any of you 0.94
00:51:40.520 believe them because i don't yeah like i don't believe a single dude in that threat and i said 1.00
00:51:45.280 did you go and look at what they look like like it's very telling it's you don't have a girlfriend 0.58
00:51:50.720 at home like no you're like hey you're a liar um i like you know anything's possible when you lie 0.61
00:51:55.840 i lie all the time all the time i lie so that's not true um and then you imagine how sad you got to 0.71
00:52:03.040 be to really like not have a girlfriend but you're like when i do yeah eventually not like her
00:52:09.220 no and when i get to a point where i hate her i cannot and i even said even if that is true which
00:52:14.380 it has i'm sure i know that's happened in real life i just don't believe any man on the internet 0.99
00:52:18.920 who like brags and laughs about it like i don't believe you you're a fucking liar i can't like i 1.00
00:52:25.440 lie about stuff all the time it's i get it for reaction yeah like girls love to lie about stupid 1.00
00:52:30.820 shit you like to lie about abusing a girlfriend so that's cool yeah it's a little different um and 0.99
00:52:36.360 when i was talking about it even in my video i was kind of explaining how like real relationships 0.99
00:52:41.140 like true foundational relationships like don't end that way obviously um i know that it has
00:52:47.180 happened i'm sure at many different points where men like kind of mentally check out of
00:52:51.340 relationships and i was like but honestly like nothing brings mediocre men together faster than 1.00
00:52:57.280 talking shit on a bitch they don't deserve every time they love to kiki about that they love to 1.00
00:53:04.500 gather around and be like oh i had a crazy ex once she was such a dumb bitch like they love to do that 1.00
00:53:12.820 it unites them so quickly imaginary friends they don't that's why i'm like good men don't sit 1.00
00:53:18.660 around talking about ex-girlfriends you're like grow up good men in other relationships don't sit
00:53:25.680 around talking about that ever ever in my life literally ever like ever there'll be times where
00:53:30.320 erica i before erica like two months before i like kind of like dated saw a girl for maybe a month
00:53:38.160 like nothing serious at all yeah little fling erica will still say her name sometimes and i'll be
00:53:44.740 like who are you even talking and i'll realize and i'll be like i can't even remember this girl
00:53:50.920 it was like three weeks no you're literally stuck just like my boyfriend never thinking about them
00:53:56.980 like exactly the same because i i want to know yeah because i am a cheese mosa so i just i just like
00:54:04.480 i'm nosy that's just what i want to hear um so he's been like i waited i waited till like two
00:54:11.020 three months in and then i was like so let's talk about some stuff like i'm like i want to talk do
00:54:16.040 you want to hear about mine i'll tell you about mine he's probably like not really you know he
00:54:19.720 literally told me i don't want to hear about it yeah like that's what she'll do i don't want i'm like
00:54:22.720 are you sure let's exchange i'm good just keep yours i'm gonna keep mine that's good we're all we
00:54:28.480 moved on from all that that's why my man is like i don't i don't need to hear i don't care at all
00:54:33.020 because it's not who starts the race it's who finishes exactly so and that's how he's but i'm
00:54:37.740 just nosy so i want to like i know i want to know everything yeah i don't get offended or anything
00:54:41.300 i just want to know because that's what we talk about with our with girlfriends i know which like 0.76
00:54:45.480 when i first started doing my boyfriend too i'm like you guys don't ever talk about that stuff like
00:54:48.960 with your friends and he's like no they don't i wonder all what do you guys do what do you talk
00:54:54.800 about silence tell me something and i'm like i'll have a follow-up question that's totally normal
00:54:59.780 and he'll be like i don't know i didn't ask i'm like how don't you ask these questions like what
00:55:06.480 do you guys you guys just say sentences and just stop there and never just no follow-up no follow-up
00:55:12.460 it was recent too i was like oh yeah my friend broke up with uh his girl and she's like why oh my god
00:55:19.840 why and i'm like oh i don't know me literally me i'm like oh i'm like oh well now i gotta call him
00:55:25.080 and ask him like that's not fair she's like go find out i'm like now it's awkward like he told
00:55:30.360 me he's like oh by the way me and blah blah blah broke up oh okay are you good he's like yeah i'm
00:55:34.260 like all right and that was it it's so funny even like with um my boyfriend's brother like when he
00:55:52.800 dated a new girl or whatever i'd be like well what's the tea on her like tell me about her and
00:55:56.900 he goes i don't know anything about her i don't even know he goes i only i i think her name is this
00:56:01.960 and then i go okay but like you know like what does she do for a living like where does she live 1.00
00:56:07.400 he goes i don't know and i go you didn't ask he goes no she he told me i'm seeing this new girl 0.97
00:56:12.720 and then i said cool and that's it what the fuck it's just like what fun i was like what i literally 0.93
00:56:20.480 because i say like with my sister like we talk like 20 000 times a day so like every single time 0.96
00:56:26.800 i'm like oh you're never gonna believe it and i'll tell her the silliest thing but it takes me 20
00:56:30.900 minutes to explain it because i have the most colorful story right and then my boyfriend has
00:56:35.380 life-shattering news and i'm like oh my god sit down i need to hear it i need to hear it and he
00:56:40.200 goes well that's it that's all i know exactly it's not i'm just telling you what i know that's it
00:56:44.940 the same way it's crazy you're like he'll tell me to you about like the gym he used to work at
00:56:50.760 he'll be like oh like yeah i heard so-and-so got in trouble because they did this i'm like
00:56:55.580 with who he goes like don't tell me then don't tell me keep it from me until you have the whole
00:57:03.580 story otherwise i have to go to the gym and i have to ask around and that's not fair i have to apply
00:57:08.100 i have to be a personal trainer i'm then i get certified i build a clientele i start selling
00:57:13.560 online and then i do it yeah that's that's so much work for me one of my boyfriend's like best
00:57:18.660 friends he works at the gym too and he like had text my boyfriend something vague like he was like
00:57:24.500 oh yeah so-and-so um got in trouble today because of this i'm like why and he goes i don't know i'm
00:57:30.260 like ask him i want to know and he goes he just literally sent why and then he goes oh i don't
00:57:36.060 know i'll have to like ask and i'm like oh my i'm on the edge of my seat i'm like please tell me
00:57:40.560 please tell me i need to know who cares that the information doesn't change my life at all then i
00:57:45.520 finally like he called him he told i was like put it on speaker put on speaker because he knew i was
00:57:49.020 there i'm like i want to hear i want to hear so he tells me the whole story i'm like and then i
00:57:53.220 literally i'm not kidding i grew face on my whole family i'm like guys gather around i have a whole
00:57:57.740 story for you gather around nothing about anything who are these i'm no i'm literally like i'm the only
00:58:04.440 one talking at that point i'm talking to my boyfriend's best friend because we know each other
00:58:08.140 really well too so i'm asking him all these questions my boyfriend's not even paying attention
00:58:10.880 anymore he doesn't even care he's not listening fully checked out yeah and then i grew face on my
00:58:14.640 whole family guys oh i got something crazy it's just the most random news nobody cares no my dad's 0.98
00:58:19.820 on there he doesn't give a fuck my dad doesn't care at all my dad doesn't give a damn he's super 0.95
00:58:25.140 like oh nice all the dudes are but my mom and my sister locked in listening to me of course every 0.99
00:58:31.560 word follow up yeah and they're like how's it going now yeah any news any updates my mom will do the
00:58:37.880 same thing too yeah like so so what did they say after you said that i love your mom she's always
00:58:43.060 but what about my boyfriend's mom too but is this still happening i'm like i really have no idea
00:58:47.800 well how how could you not know and i'm like just call erica please
00:58:52.020 i have all the information no she calls me too that's so funny my boyfriend's mom calls me too 0.90
00:58:59.160 because she only has boys so like she's never gotten to like really talk shit and so so there she's like 0.82
00:59:05.440 and when i tell i love telling my boyfriend's mom t because when i tell her t she goes no way 0.99
00:59:11.160 like she's white so like her reactions are very like you're lying she literally goes you're
00:59:19.620 literally lying to me she says that to me all the time i'm like i'm not lisa take a seat let's talk
00:59:24.320 about it they love it can you believe i know i love it doesn't age yeah you're just like any age
00:59:30.880 you're down your grandma too 90 what's what's good like assisted living home now she talk gossip 1.00
00:59:37.420 about everybody right next to her i'm like grandma that's me and erica in an old phone song i'm like
00:59:42.460 you're never gonna believe it she's like she's married to her son her daughter's married to her 0.98
00:59:48.600 son they've been here for five years their husbands passed away i'm like grandma they're not right here
00:59:53.900 you could just have them in the conversation i could ask them literally sometimes my boyfriend
00:59:59.240 would tell me t and i'm like we have to tell your mom call her i know me too call your mom we have
01:00:03.620 to tell her reaction i know because it's so lackluster from him i'm like i need an audience
01:00:08.660 i need a captive audience just like me
01:00:11.280 okay to wrap up uh obviously you guys are incredible and so funny and amazing um so what
01:00:27.020 would you guys say is your best piece of advice for couples that may be like looking into being
01:00:33.120 like a public figure social media person like would you say your guys's best tips are um don't be a
01:00:39.260 prank couple that's valid to be honest don't be a prank couple yeah you know what that breaks up
01:00:45.400 not my show it's becoming a prank couple it's a prank couple um that's it that's the advice i mean
01:00:52.560 i was gonna say basically the same thing like be authentic because you'll get if you're faking it
01:00:59.000 it's like there's gonna be ad like when you guys break up there's gonna be ad deals that you have
01:01:05.140 and then you're gonna have to fake it three weeks after the breakup and then once everyone finds out
01:01:09.920 they're gonna be like man that was rough i know i've seen that too many times just be authentic if
01:01:14.540 you guys really love each other show it if you're mad at each other show it yeah he has more words
01:01:19.220 now not when he has tea like you're handing out free advice but can't tell me why they broke up
01:01:26.200 get on that you have homework today i will say too something i really admire about the two of you
01:01:31.900 that i feel very strongly in my own relationship too is like you guys show what you want to show
01:01:37.240 and you keep what you want to keep private like i feel that that is great advice yeah really keep
01:01:43.460 your relationship for yourself yeah because once it's too public then it's just like you're not
01:01:48.660 you're not doing it then it's just like filtering into your own real reality and it's just not real
01:01:54.780 and it's not between just the two of you anymore it's you and millions of other people exactly like
01:01:59.140 they're all in on your relationship at that point and i really admire that about the two of you
01:02:03.140 because i know you guys set boundaries like that too and so do i which i think is beautiful because
01:02:07.640 you know you want to show your partner and you want to show how talented and funny they are and
01:02:11.980 everything which is a wonderful thing but then sometimes you got to keep some stuff yeah i feel
01:02:16.720 that you gotta you gotta know it's like if the internet never existed ever again if there was no
01:02:21.260 power in the world it's like you're good yeah like you're fine yeah like if it were to all
01:02:26.480 disappear tomorrow you'll still be okay either way i love that about you you guys are amazing
01:02:31.440 you're amazing thank you so funny i adore y'all where can everybody find you um on tiktok and
01:02:37.500 instagram at erica priscilla period i am scotty's days off on all platforms love make sure y'all
01:02:45.740 follow both of them on everything they're both so funny and talented i adore you guys you guys are
01:02:51.680 amazing thank you for coming today thank you for having us and thank you all for joining us on this
01:02:56.700 episode of the comment section don't forget new episodes drop every wednesday the video is
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01:03:06.760 to erica and scotty for being on the show today and thank you all for joining us i'll see you next week
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