The Comment Section with Drew Afualo - KEEP HATING, IT BOOSTS MY ENGAGEMENT! Ft. Tess Holliday ｜ Drew Afualo ｜ THE COMMENT SECTION EP 68

00:00:00.000 You watched 45 minutes of that just so that you could tell me I was a fat buffalo bitch. 1.00

00:00:05.940 A win is a win, I'll take it. 1.00

00:00:07.440 You know what that does?

00:00:08.540 It makes me look good to Warner Brothers because I got the stats up.

00:00:11.620 A hundred percent, a hundred percent, yeah, yeah, I love it.

00:00:15.080 A win is a win. 1.00

00:00:15.680 A fat buffalo bitch in first class interviewing her idol. 1.00

00:00:20.100 Interviewing your idol. 1.00

00:00:21.160 Yeah.

00:00:21.320 Hello, everyone, and welcome back to another episode of the comment section show starring me, your favorite, everybody knows me, the men hate me, period.

00:00:34.260 We all know that.

00:00:35.440 On to the best part of each episode is my very special guest for today, which is the one and only, the iconic, the ledge, Tess Holliday.

00:00:46.440 I'm so happy to have you here.

00:00:48.360 I was going to do an air horn with my mouth and I stopped.

00:00:50.900 You should have done it.

00:00:52.340 Well, now I feel, I do it to my kids, but it's maybe, okay, I go, I love that.

00:01:00.460 I'm a troll.

00:01:01.140 Hi.

00:01:01.460 That's literally the best way to introduce you.

00:01:03.920 That's how I feel.

00:01:04.760 Thank you.

00:01:05.380 I'm so excited to have you.

00:01:06.580 I'm so excited.

00:01:07.240 I was just saying earlier, I feel like you're a proud mom.

00:01:09.300 I know.

00:01:10.060 I'm my second mom.

00:01:12.000 I could never replace her, even though I heard we're the same height.

00:01:15.360 You are.

00:01:16.040 You're exactly the same height.

00:01:17.020 I've been taller than my mom since I was 14.

00:01:19.060 Great.

00:01:19.320 So there you go.

00:01:19.700 I've been shorter than everybody.

00:01:21.720 Forever.

00:01:24.040 Tess has known me online forever, like ground floor.

00:01:28.660 Yeah.

00:01:29.020 You've been.

00:01:29.260 I've watched you blossom into a man-hating angel that you are.

00:01:33.140 There you go.

00:01:35.180 Tess, see, some people say that like, they're like, oh, she's just doing this now because

00:01:40.900 it's for clout, blah, blah, blah.

00:01:42.260 And I was like, I've been like this on the internet for a long time before I had an audience.

00:01:47.260 So I was doing that.

00:01:48.220 Tess can vouch for me.

00:01:49.440 I also love that you did so many of them from the toilet.

00:01:53.320 Yes.

00:01:53.680 There you go.

00:01:54.680 You know what's funny?

00:01:55.600 A fun fact about that is like, I was living with my boyfriend's parents.

00:02:00.260 We were living in their house at the time because it was like right before the pandemic too.

00:02:04.920 So we were living in there.

00:02:06.020 And so like, that was like the only place I could go where like, no, I thought no one

00:02:09.680 could hear me.

00:02:10.780 Turns out they could hear me the entire time.

00:02:12.600 I guess the walls are not as thick as I thought they were.

00:02:15.020 Sometimes I would just sit in my car for hours and film videos.

00:02:17.720 I love that.

00:02:18.300 And then my boyfriend would be like, he would go in the house and they'd be like, where's

00:02:22.920 Drew?

00:02:23.500 And he's like, oh, I think she's on the phone or something because he knew I was filming

00:02:26.800 the videos.

00:02:27.760 But that's commitment.

00:02:28.860 That's commitment.

00:02:29.740 You also have a Jeep, don't you?

00:02:31.280 Aren't we Jeep twins?

00:02:32.080 Did you get a new car?

00:02:33.220 I did get a new car, but the Jeep is actually my boyfriend's.

00:02:36.080 I love that.

00:02:36.320 But he has a new car too, so.

00:02:37.860 But we still have the Jeep, so.

00:02:39.220 She's got new car money, y'all. 0.75

00:02:40.680 Keep hating her.

00:02:42.600 Listen, I'm not going to stop.

00:02:44.160 You want to buy me a second car?

00:02:45.540 You let me know.

00:02:46.460 You know what I mean?

00:02:46.820 That's the story of your life too.

00:02:50.120 Yeah.

00:02:50.480 Your career is long, running, longstanding. 0.99

00:02:53.820 I'm old as shit. 0.99

00:02:54.860 Yeah. 0.99

00:02:55.240 I've been doing that a long time.

00:02:56.500 No, you've just been that girl for that long.

00:02:58.980 Yeah.

00:02:59.860 I've been hated on the internet for so long.

00:03:02.160 Still proudly hated on the internet.

00:03:04.240 But it's funny.

00:03:05.680 My career's evolved to a really interesting place now where I think for the first time

00:03:11.140 in my life, I have peace.

00:03:12.460 Oh, I love that.

00:03:13.840 Yeah, thanks. 0.98

00:03:14.560 And I think for a long time, it was really hard having so many people shit on me while 0.95

00:03:19.160 I was trying to thrive. 0.99

00:03:20.700 Yeah. 0.98

00:03:21.320 So it's nice that people can shit on me now and I care less. 0.99

00:03:25.200 And you're like, money. 0.99

00:03:26.940 You know what I mean?

00:03:27.340 Yeah.

00:03:27.740 Everyone's like, how do you deal with people being mean to you?

00:03:29.760 And I'm like, I check my bank account. 1.00

00:03:32.160 Story of my life, bitch. 1.00

00:03:33.420 Yeah. 1.00

00:03:33.520 I've said that exact sentence multiple times.

00:03:36.000 I love that.

00:03:36.440 It's really not that hard when, you know, I look at how much I make.

00:03:40.140 So I'm like, oh. 1.00

00:03:41.080 And it's just funny because people are so stupid. 0.99

00:03:43.460 Like when people comment under my things and they're so mean, I encourage it. 1.00

00:03:49.480 Because like you've said it all the time and I've said it for so long.

00:03:52.620 You just boost my engagement.

00:03:53.980 Yeah. 1.00

00:03:54.200 So like keep calling me a fat bitch, please. 1.00

00:03:56.920 Well, and it's also like, it's so tired. 1.00

00:03:59.740 Yeah.

00:04:00.040 And boring.

00:04:00.720 Yes.

00:04:01.160 It's like, that's why I always say like, if they say that to me and then you go, okay.

00:04:05.840 Yeah.

00:04:07.280 Now what?

00:04:07.900 Like what do we do now?

00:04:09.240 And.

00:04:09.900 And.

00:04:10.420 Okay.

00:04:10.780 Yeah.

00:04:11.020 Yes.

00:04:11.340 And.

00:04:11.740 Yes.

00:04:12.040 You just improv.

00:04:13.120 Yes.

00:04:13.400 And I also love that people call you a bully because I also have been called a bully for 0.56

00:04:17.680 so long.

00:04:18.820 But I'm like, babes, first of all, they're being mean to me.

00:04:22.180 I'm standing up for myself.

00:04:24.200 The math is not mathing.

00:04:25.360 Yeah.

00:04:25.620 It truly isn't.

00:04:26.660 It turns out they're okay with bullying as long as they're not being bullied.

00:04:29.640 Yes.

00:04:30.000 They're okay with that.

00:04:30.720 Yeah.

00:04:30.920 And it's funny because whenever men like the create that, what they think is this like

00:04:35.800 think piece when they're like, this is what I, I think about her and it's just calling

00:04:40.060 me a bully or whatever.

00:04:41.600 I've always said, like, I never said I was against being mean.

00:04:45.280 I never said I was not going to make fun of you. 0.99

00:04:47.340 I've never said that I was nice or like welcoming to an asshole. 0.99

00:04:53.220 I've never said that. 0.98

00:04:54.080 I mean, as somebody that's here, you're not welcoming at all.

00:04:57.520 Not at all to nobody.

00:05:01.800 JK.

00:05:03.040 I know they're going to be like, see, that's roof.

00:05:05.900 Like the way they just, they chop everything up and they're like, that's.

00:05:08.620 They do.

00:05:09.080 It's like, I have said all the time, like, you guys are super cool with being mean.

00:05:13.840 You just don't like when you're on the receiving end of it.

00:05:16.540 Yeah.

00:05:16.940 And they've done it.

00:05:17.700 You're probably one of the very few people that really gets what it feels like to have

00:05:22.740 the amount of hate.

00:05:23.720 And yours has been a lot longer than mine.

00:05:25.740 Oh, yeah.

00:05:26.240 It's been, it's, it's been like two prolific people that love to, to hate me as Piers Morgan

00:05:33.660 and Joe Rogan.

00:05:34.900 So they just like love to keep my name in their mouth.

00:05:37.700 God, the two worst people on planet Earth.

00:05:40.200 And then their fans are just as worse.

00:05:43.140 So then recently Piers Morgan wanted to have me on again and interview me.

00:05:47.800 And they're like, we'll offer you $6,000.

00:05:50.480 And my manager's like, unless it's like six figures, she's not going on.

00:05:56.860 But I'm like, you know, $6,000 to have to look at Piers Morgan.

00:06:02.380 No, thank you.

00:06:03.960 Absolutely not.

00:06:04.900 No.

00:06:05.400 No.

00:06:05.780 I've, I've said that too.

00:06:07.120 When, when people are like, why don't you invite people on your show that you disagree

00:06:11.860 with?

00:06:12.180 Why would I do that?

00:06:13.260 Yeah.

00:06:13.540 Why?

00:06:13.800 Literally why?

00:06:14.600 Yeah.

00:06:14.780 It's funny.

00:06:15.240 Cause nothing makes them more mad than just being like, no.

00:06:17.880 Yeah.

00:06:18.260 And then they say, why?

00:06:19.260 Cause I don't want to.

00:06:20.720 The end.

00:06:22.100 That's a full sentence.

00:06:23.220 And also men are so unsafe and so cuckoo that like, I don't, why would I put my life 0.98

00:06:31.680 in literal danger? 0.50

00:06:32.660 No, actually though.

00:06:34.100 Why?

00:06:34.880 For what?

00:06:35.380 So you can come here and their feet can also hang off the chair like yours.

00:06:39.440 No, thanks.

00:06:40.060 I hope you guys zoom in on my feet.

00:06:41.820 Cause that's exactly what it's going to be like.

00:06:43.880 Short Kings. 0.80

00:06:44.640 Short Kings. 0.80

00:06:46.120 I've said before, you can be short, but you cannot be short and terrible.

00:06:49.780 You got to pick one.

00:06:50.520 Yeah.

00:06:50.780 It's in the constitution.

00:06:51.700 Yeah.

00:06:52.000 Don't you guys love that piece of paper?

00:06:53.500 I love it.

00:06:53.960 You guys love that, right?

00:06:54.400 I picked short.

00:06:55.580 Or the Bible, whichever one you pick.

00:06:57.320 Yeah.

00:06:57.720 Yeah.

00:06:57.960 See, you picked one.

00:06:59.000 Pick short.

00:06:59.560 That's what, that's what I'm saying.

00:07:00.480 Like you, you just simply cannot be both.

00:07:02.440 No.

00:07:03.080 I think that's like the law of physics, honestly.

00:07:05.460 I should tell my ex that.

00:07:06.820 You should.

00:07:07.380 Yeah.

00:07:07.660 You absolutely should.

00:07:08.540 I'll call them after.

00:07:11.020 I'll be right back.

00:07:12.020 I think that it's like, uh, it's one of those things too, where they are just so comfortable

00:07:19.480 with being awful.

00:07:21.260 And then the one time you are awful back, they're like, why would you do that to me?

00:07:27.640 But that's why I appreciated you when I first found you.

00:07:30.240 I mean, it was your maniacal laugh, obviously that I fell in love with like everybody else,

00:07:34.480 but it was your, your, I mean, your delivery, your sarcasm, it's your sense of humor was

00:07:41.280 very like something I'm not comparing.

00:07:45.580 Cause as if I'm not as funny as you, uh, but I love like roasting people and, and I've

00:07:51.300 done it for so long.

00:07:52.520 Cause it's the way that sometimes I can deal with it, but also I just like want people to 1.00

00:07:57.120 feel as stupid as they sound. 0.99

00:07:59.400 Yeah, absolutely. 1.00

00:08:00.580 And you just really came along and swept everybody up and you know, you just owned everybody and

00:08:06.580 I love it.

00:08:07.280 I love watching it.

00:08:08.540 Thank you.

00:08:09.380 And I've been obsessed with Tess for so long.

00:08:12.060 I've been a fan of you for so long that like, you were like probably one of the first, uh,

00:08:18.180 people I've ever saw in the modeling industry that like did not look like everybody else.

00:08:22.040 And that was like, I think what really like blasted you all over the world because people

00:08:28.120 love to talk about people that don't look like them as if they're the only people who 0.98

00:08:32.800 exist in the world ever, which is the most asinine way of thinking. 0.97

00:08:36.320 You didn't know there weren't any fat people. 0.97

00:08:38.660 I was actually the first fat person ever.

00:08:41.200 You just woke up one day.

00:08:42.580 You just like, you just materialize in the air.

00:08:45.160 Yeah.

00:08:45.360 I just ate too many little, little Debbie's passed out in my bed, woke up and I'm, I was

00:08:49.640 fat.

00:08:50.340 I blossomed overnight.

00:08:52.040 And I actually, because of me being fat, I made everybody else fat.

00:08:56.780 That, okay. 0.99

00:08:57.560 That argument like enrages me to the point where my ass itches. 0.99

00:09:02.320 Like it's so, when the way that they're like, oh, you're just, you're influencing, promoting 0.99

00:09:08.680 obesity, promoting obesity.

00:09:10.500 I'm like, yeah.

00:09:12.520 I always ask them, are you a doctor?

00:09:14.420 Have you gone to medical school?

00:09:15.540 Yeah.

00:09:15.820 Are you Tess's doctor?

00:09:16.980 Yeah.

00:09:17.500 Well, that's not, I'll just use my eyes.

00:09:19.500 I'm like your eyes.

00:09:20.880 Yeah.

00:09:22.020 Okay.

00:09:22.500 So, well then, medical school, who needs that?

00:09:24.700 You're like, just use your eyes.

00:09:25.600 The same, the same eyes that picked that outfit out and got that bad fade.

00:09:30.040 There you go.

00:09:30.720 Those same eyes.

00:09:31.220 Same eyes.

00:09:31.840 No.

00:09:32.300 That's crazy.

00:09:32.780 I was invited to be on the doctors one time, the TV show.

00:09:36.520 Yeah.

00:09:36.740 And it was during like, I mean, I was, I was everywhere at this point.

00:09:40.620 It was right after my Cosmo cover.

00:09:42.360 So people were just like, you know, talking about me more so than ever.

00:09:46.380 And, uh, I said no, but they came back and said that they would consider having me on if

00:09:52.980 I gave them my blood work, like copies of my blood work.

00:09:56.540 What?

00:09:56.940 I know.

00:09:57.720 And I just remember thinking like, what?

00:10:01.840 Like, first of all, my blood work is great.

00:10:04.100 But even if it wasn't like, you, what about HIPAA?

00:10:09.080 That's a very good point.

00:10:10.520 Yeah.

00:10:10.780 Hello.

00:10:11.360 She's smart, y'all.

00:10:12.620 But yeah, I just thought like, yeah, they wanted my blood work before I came on because

00:10:18.200 they couldn't believe when I'm like, you know, uh, you're talking about my perceived health

00:10:23.740 and you can't tell if someone is quote unquote healthy by looking at them, but also health

00:10:28.060 isn't a moral mandate.

00:10:29.280 Why would I have to like prove that to come on your show?

00:10:33.120 Also, why are we talking about my health?

00:10:34.560 Why aren't we talking about the fact that I was the first person to be on Cosmopolitan

00:10:38.920 that looked the way that I did?

00:10:40.820 That's weird. 0.99

00:10:41.860 What the f***? 0.97

00:10:43.340 Yeah. 0.99

00:10:43.880 The way that makes me angry.

00:10:46.200 Yeah.

00:10:46.560 That makes that, I've actually think I've been on that show.

00:10:49.240 On the Doctors?

00:10:49.980 Was it the two, it's the old white dude and the other dude?

00:10:52.780 I, they're all white, I think.

00:10:54.320 Yes.

00:10:54.380 Oh, okay.

00:10:54.860 Then I haven't been on that one.

00:10:55.640 I don't know.

00:10:56.080 I don't really like, I don't pay attention.

00:10:58.280 No, but it plays during Judge Judy.

00:10:59.940 So only old people watch that show.

00:11:01.820 I love Judge Judy. 1.00

00:11:03.040 Do you?

00:11:03.480 So much.

00:11:03.960 It plays during like Judge Brown and all that.

00:11:06.340 You know what I mean?

00:11:06.900 That's like daytime programming.

00:11:08.640 They got bigger problems.

00:11:09.840 You would, you would be great at a, I just had a, I had a light bulb moment.

00:11:12.960 You would be great at having your own like courthouse show.

00:11:15.600 Oh my God.

00:11:16.120 Yeah.

00:11:16.400 Where you would like.

00:11:17.020 No experience necessary.

00:11:18.060 I don't need it.

00:11:18.720 That's the name of the show.

00:11:19.820 No experience necessary.

00:11:21.060 As soon as they walk in, I'm going to be like, you're guilty.

00:11:22.740 Guilty.

00:11:23.160 And then just leave. 0.93

00:11:24.080 Your face.

00:11:24.560 I just don't like it.

00:11:25.280 Yeah.

00:11:25.560 And that's it.

00:11:26.800 Yeah.

00:11:26.960 I'm judging based off looks because I'm such a body shamer.

00:11:30.500 You are.

00:11:31.260 You are.

00:11:32.780 I forgot about that.

00:11:33.940 I'm such a body shamer.

00:11:35.120 I know.

00:11:35.800 She called me fat back there.

00:11:38.340 Yeah. 0.98

00:11:38.520 Like fat, like P-H-A-T. 1.00

00:11:40.180 Like the coolest, the coolest bitch in the world. 1.00

00:11:42.520 I would never. 1.00

00:11:43.280 But I always say too, because they call me a fat bitch all the time. 1.00

00:11:47.560 And I always say that's not an insult to me. 0.99

00:11:50.140 So got anything else?

00:11:51.800 Yeah. 0.99

00:11:52.500 You also could be a plus size model because of your height and your thick ass body. 1.00

00:11:58.140 So we love that. 0.99

00:11:59.840 Period.

00:12:00.360 We love that. 1.00

00:12:01.120 Don't make me get my bag again, bitch. 1.00

00:12:02.920 It's just, you honestly could because you're Gorgina and you're tall and you're thick. 1.00

00:12:08.460 It's giving Meg the stallion.

00:12:10.100 Oh, period.

00:12:11.000 Don't tell them.

00:12:11.580 They're going to get so mad about that. 0.99

00:12:12.760 But you hate all women. 0.98

00:12:13.880 So it's all right. 0.96

00:12:14.340 Don't worry about it.

00:12:15.200 I think too, like with the way that they perceive women in general, let alone women's health.

00:12:22.960 I just always say, like, I think it's crazy that you like act like you care about health

00:12:28.760 when you don't talk about bodybuilders, like the extreme lengths that they push their bodies

00:12:33.920 to.

00:12:34.220 That's on the like other end of this like health spectrum that you're creating in your

00:12:38.780 head.

00:12:39.580 They literally die all the time from pushing themselves too hard and not eating and all

00:12:43.680 of that.

00:12:44.040 So that's unhealthy.

00:12:45.660 But you never really seem to talk about them.

00:12:48.500 That's what I love.

00:12:49.700 And I've seen you do videos about that, which I really appreciate.

00:12:52.960 But when Joe Rogan, one of the many times that he mentioned that I was unhealthy or whatever,

00:12:59.800 I didn't I don't listen to any of them.

00:13:01.460 But, you know, it pops up in my Google alerts.

00:13:03.020 We love.

00:13:03.620 Yeah.

00:13:03.720 And I just think like, is this coming from a bald, like a bald man who became, is he

00:13:12.080 5'5"?

00:13:12.800 Yeah, it's like 5'5'6".

00:13:13.780 Of course he is.

00:13:14.920 Of course he is.

00:13:16.020 Who literally became famous from forcing people to eat roaches and you do hella steroids.

00:13:22.180 So like, but I'm the unhealthy one?

00:13:23.920 That's, that doesn't make sense.

00:13:26.520 You know?

00:13:26.640 Yeah.

00:13:27.120 Oh, it does.

00:13:28.020 If it wasn't already, it is now.

00:13:29.400 I love pickles, but not a, like a cornish.

00:13:33.480 Wait, is that what they're called?

00:13:34.280 What are they called?

00:13:35.320 What are those little pickles called? 1.00

00:13:36.900 Cornish.

00:13:37.140 A gherkin.

00:13:37.840 A gherkin.

00:13:39.740 I love a gherkin.

00:13:40.980 A charcuterie board?

00:13:42.060 I love a gherkin.

00:13:43.060 I would love, I need to make your charcuterie board.

00:13:45.420 Are you good at them?

00:13:46.000 I'm really good at them.

00:13:47.120 Before they were like, you know.

00:13:49.440 Super popular.

00:13:50.460 No, yeah, but no, I love making a charcuterie board. 0.89

00:13:52.620 I love the way I will fuck up a charcuterie board. 0.52

00:13:54.980 I turned my whole kitchen counter into a giant charcuterie board. 0.93

00:13:59.240 For my, like, Galentine's party I did this year.

00:14:01.400 And it's huge.

00:14:02.020 I mean, it's like an island.

00:14:03.120 Sorry.

00:14:03.540 Oh, I love that.

00:14:04.420 But yeah, it was so much fun.

00:14:05.620 Oh my God.

00:14:06.300 I love, okay, well.

00:14:07.760 Can't take it back.

00:14:08.420 You guys saw it.

00:14:09.020 Can't take it back.

00:14:09.560 I would not.

00:14:10.220 I don't mess with food.

00:14:11.680 Clearly.

00:14:13.100 You and me both.

00:14:15.540 Okay, so we're going to talk about our topic today.

00:14:18.000 So our topic is being a successful model and basically representation in the industry as a whole.

00:14:22.760 And how beauty standards have been around forever, but they're extremely harmful.

00:14:28.240 And how they're, although there is progress, there's still a lot more to be achieved.

00:14:33.960 But we have made moves.

00:14:35.520 We're just inching along, unfortunately.

00:14:38.520 But Tess is obviously someone who is, like, one of the first people to, like, really start pushing for representation in the industry.

00:14:45.260 So, like, how does it feel to, like, be one of the first to, like, be on the cover, to be in the news, to be on carpets, to all that stuff?

00:14:54.360 Yeah, I mean, I, it was a little isolating at first just because there were other people that had done it, but not necessarily that looked like me, right?

00:15:06.800 That weren't, you know, a short little nugget covered in tattoos and also loud.

00:15:11.500 I've been, I've been very vocal online for a very long time about injustices that I feel like a lot of people don't talk about.

00:15:21.700 And so those things kind of mixed together.

00:15:23.920 I've always had, you know, like a little target on me and it, and I'm very mindful of it.

00:15:29.240 So sometimes I would go into these spaces that I very much belonged in, but I would feel like imposter syndrome almost.

00:15:35.780 So it's really nice that we live in the world of Lizzo now where people actually give us our credit and I feel more appreciated now and I feel able to enjoy my career now than I have been.

00:15:52.040 Yeah, like I, yeah, like I, I remember like right after I wrote my book, I was like traveling all over doing all these press and I was so worn out and I felt like no one really gave a shit and nobody cared, but they did.

00:16:07.480 But I, it was just like, I think all of the pressure weighing on me because I didn't want to let people down.

00:16:15.700 I wanted to be like a good, you want to be like good representation and like a solid voice for people that you feel like aren't being heard.

00:16:24.800 And, um, when you are trying to do that and you have like outside voices being critical all the time, it, it gets heavy.

00:16:34.680 It gets, yeah, it's tough, but it's, I, when I look back and think about my work and what I've done and what I continue to do, um, I feel immensely grateful because if I die in three years, like the internet says, I've achieved literally so much.

00:16:51.640 So more than that, which is we'll ever see, absolutely ever in a million years.

00:16:56.240 They could, their wildest imagination could never have conceived what you've achieved.

00:17:01.200 Yeah.

00:17:01.560 So like, and you're still so young, like for as long as you've been in the industry and been successful, you're still so young.

00:17:07.500 I think that's, I get what you mean though about it getting heavy because you almost feel like you're carrying a torch, but at the same time it gets isolating and lonely.

00:17:17.380 Like you said, like being the first or being one of the first, like to really be out there doing it.

00:17:22.600 I feel that too.

00:17:23.560 Cause that's kind of the same thing as me.

00:17:25.580 I'm not the first person to make fun of dudes.

00:17:27.080 I've said that before, but I'm like the first, like someone girl to like really build a platform like this.

00:17:33.280 And it's like purely based off pissing off men, which is like, you know, everything in the world.

00:17:38.360 But it's like one of those things where it gets heavy and then I don't know if you, I'm sure you have so many stories, but I have like so many stories too of like people like almost like telling me how much my content has helped them, has like saved them, has inspired them.

00:17:56.440 And that's like, I tell them all the time, like, that's what keeps me going in moments like that when I'm like, God, I'm so tired of like, I, the only thing that I get exhausted of dealing with is like every like three to six months, a new white guy will find me and they'll be like, this is why I think she should be canceled.

00:18:12.820 And they do like a 12 part series on me.

00:18:15.040 And then everyone's like, finally, someone's saying it as if like 17 other white dudes haven't done that right before you.

00:18:21.460 Like you're not special.

00:18:22.820 And I hate having to hear like, oh, fighting fire with fire and the whole world burns. 1.00

00:18:28.880 I'm so sick of hearing that shit. 1.00

00:18:31.380 I'm so sick of it. 1.00

00:18:32.620 I'm so sick of it. 0.99

00:18:33.560 Well, it's kind of funny because white men have literally been burning down the world since the beginning of time. 0.99

00:18:38.720 And they continue to do so. 0.92

00:18:39.940 They continue to do so.

00:18:41.000 They are literally doing it currently.

00:18:42.200 As we speak, they're doing it right now.

00:18:43.460 Yeah, literally.

00:18:43.920 So it feels like you should kind of be mad at yourself, babes. 1.00

00:18:47.080 Yeah.

00:18:47.180 Okay.

00:18:48.400 No, genuinely.

00:18:50.420 Yeah.

00:18:50.880 And the like after, like, like you said, you've, you've like clapped back at people too.

00:18:55.440 And like afterwards, the way they like immediately bitch out and they're like, why would you do this to me? 1.00

00:19:01.300 Yeah.

00:19:02.000 You have a platform and I don't.

00:19:04.260 And that's bullying.

00:19:05.380 All of a sudden.

00:19:06.340 Yeah.

00:19:06.660 All of a sudden you're against bullying.

00:19:08.040 Yeah.

00:19:08.240 All of a sudden.

00:19:09.020 I think it's because they really think that it's just going to go differently for them.

00:19:13.120 Yeah.

00:19:13.220 But, um, you did a video recently that I, I don't know.

00:19:17.700 It had me crying, but you said something like, well, I wasn't going to do it, but you asked

00:19:21.340 for this.

00:19:21.820 Like you, yeah, I'm here because yeah, you did it to yourself.

00:19:25.940 Yeah.

00:19:26.160 Um, and yeah, I love that because they did.

00:19:29.200 Um, but, but I, this is literally why, like I do what I do, like you said, for other people, for people that never really felt like they had a voice or felt like they couldn't exist in the world the way that they do.

00:19:42.760 Yeah.

00:19:43.200 And I would do it all over again and keep doing it.

00:19:47.700 If I knew that I was going to be able to have a fraction of the impact that I've been able to have.

00:19:53.980 So, you know, it's, it's worth it, but it's tough.

00:19:58.740 Um, but it's fun.

00:20:00.340 It's part of it.

00:20:00.940 It's fun.

00:20:01.300 You and I are built different.

00:20:02.240 I'll tell you that.

00:20:02.760 The way you and I are built so different.

00:20:06.700 It's like, some people ask me, do people ask you, how do you, how do you deal with hate?

00:20:10.000 Yeah.

00:20:10.260 I thought when you said built different, I thought you, it was a short joke.

00:20:13.100 Oh no.

00:20:13.740 I mean like, I mean like, like mentally.

00:20:16.320 Do people ask me how I do it?

00:20:17.620 Why are you saying you have a hard time?

00:20:19.220 No, I'm saying they ask me all the time.

00:20:21.240 How do I deal with hate?

00:20:22.260 Because they struggle with dealing with hate online.

00:20:25.060 Yeah.

00:20:25.220 And I was like, I just like, don't care.

00:20:28.840 Yeah.

00:20:29.320 And I, I think people probably, I'm very sensitive.

00:20:32.760 And it's probably because I'm like, yes, I'm cancer.

00:20:35.240 I'm very, I do care and I probably will always care.

00:20:40.280 And yeah.

00:20:42.340 And I almost sometimes feel sorry for people.

00:20:45.160 Yeah.

00:20:45.640 Um, because I'm like, you clearly weren't hugged enough as a child and that's not my fault.

00:20:50.040 No, it truly isn't.

00:20:50.900 Um, but people don't realize that there's so many issues in society that are because of toxic masculinity 0.77

00:20:56.900 and because of, of men's fragile ego and how we have trained them to behave and act in 0.97

00:21:04.300 society and to not give a shit about anybody. 0.98

00:21:07.260 So therefore you set up a dynamic and a culture where nobody gives a shit about each other. 0.98

00:21:11.380 Yeah. 0.93

00:21:12.060 Absolutely.

00:21:12.700 So yeah, I don't know.

00:21:13.580 I don't know why I care too much.

00:21:14.880 I wish I cared less like you.

00:21:16.760 Well, I'm a cancer moon.

00:21:18.200 Oh yeah.

00:21:18.500 So like I do, I, I do care, but only there's a big asterisk next to it.

00:21:23.080 What's your rising?

00:21:24.540 Sagittarius.

00:21:25.140 Okay.

00:21:26.040 That's my fire.

00:21:27.100 Yeah.

00:21:27.480 I'm a Scorpio rising.

00:21:28.840 Oh, love.

00:21:29.620 We'll see.

00:21:30.160 That's what people say.

00:21:30.960 Cause people always think I'm a fire sign.

00:21:32.960 Yeah.

00:21:33.560 Um, which I, it's in my big three, but I'm a Virgo.

00:21:37.180 Yeah.

00:21:37.580 Period.

00:21:38.220 Well, we all know you're a Virgo. 1.00

00:21:40.620 Cause you get shit done. 0.98

00:21:41.920 And I, I eventually get shit done, but like it takes a while, but that's why when I see 0.99

00:21:47.060 maybe like more, when you post things, I'll like, I know that I'm that person that's like

00:21:52.200 sending you like the, I send you like the sappiest like messages or like little voice

00:21:57.160 notes, just like cheering you on or reminding you, or when you were saying people do the deep

00:22:02.080 dives into your personal life that there's like a whole Reddit threads dedicated to why

00:22:07.800 Tess Holiday is a horrible person. 0.99

00:22:09.080 I think that's the title of one of them. 0.95

00:22:10.840 Um, and you know, I, I don't know.

00:22:13.760 I just feel like, um, it's a waste of time because I'm going to be horrible for a long

00:22:18.240 time.

00:22:19.120 I, no matter what I say, like I, I've done videos like more recently where I'm like, you

00:22:24.840 know, some people have attacked me unprovoked and then I'm like, all right, I'm going to

00:22:28.640 talk to you real plain and simple, no jokes, no insults, no nothing.

00:22:34.020 And let's see if you listen.

00:22:35.280 Yeah.

00:22:35.780 Um, shocker.

00:22:36.420 They don't, it doesn't work when they're like, why don't you try this?

00:22:40.840 It doesn't work.

00:22:41.800 Like it, it doesn't work.

00:22:43.160 Like my, that's why I've always said my goal is not to change you.

00:22:46.360 It's to embarrass you.

00:22:47.200 It's to humiliate you beyond belief.

00:22:48.960 It's to literally make you want to delete your tech dog. 0.69

00:22:51.140 That's my goal.

00:22:52.380 And it's, and it works and it works, works.

00:22:54.800 And turns out there's money in that hole.

00:22:56.280 Yeah.

00:22:56.460 And I also love how they're always like, oh, I bet you don't have a boyfriend or I bet

00:23:02.180 he's ugly or I bet he's ashamed and you're wrong on all those.

00:23:06.460 And I've said too, I, I said recently actually when I showed him and sometimes I've said, I've

00:23:11.220 said this on the show before I think, but like when I make videos about him, that's a dunk

00:23:16.020 for me.

00:23:16.620 Yeah.

00:23:16.920 When it comes to views.

00:23:18.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:23:18.220 Nobody clocks views like a hot ass dude who loves a bitch like me. 1.00

00:23:22.620 Yes. 1.00

00:23:23.140 So when I make those, that's because it clocks the views.

00:23:27.160 Yes.

00:23:27.440 A hundred percent.

00:23:28.480 Yeah.

00:23:28.700 That's me.

00:23:29.160 That's called a content farming.

00:23:30.600 You know what I mean?

00:23:32.460 I literally wait. 1.00

00:23:33.640 Like I wait for people to say terrible shit. 1.00

00:23:35.540 I'm like, oh. 0.99

00:23:36.300 But I always know there's like, you'll do a video like every couple months with Billy and

00:23:40.940 I love it, you know?

00:23:42.080 And then 20 million views later or whatever, you know?

00:23:45.140 He always tells me, he's like, did you make a video about me?

00:23:47.560 I go, why?

00:23:49.000 And he goes, uh, cause I just got like 5,000 followers on Instagram.

00:23:53.120 You're welcome.

00:23:55.460 You're welcome. 0.98

00:23:56.180 Bunch of weirdos. 0.80

00:23:57.680 Yeah. 0.75

00:23:58.060 I always think it's strange.

00:23:59.180 Why would you want to follow the person you love as boyfriend?

00:24:01.540 But I don't know.

00:24:02.720 Whatever.

00:24:03.840 I don't know.

00:24:04.620 I mean, I love him.

00:24:05.520 I don't even follow him cause I think it's weird.

00:24:07.380 I'm going to tell him.

00:24:08.020 But I support him from afar.

00:24:10.020 But I also could never.

00:24:11.320 I think it's like, I think it also too, it's a lot of dudes who like go and be like, hey

00:24:15.960 man, like I feel bad for you.

00:24:17.860 What does he do though?

00:24:19.080 When does it ever bother him when people like are mean to you?

00:24:24.000 Like does it ever, is he sensitive?

00:24:26.520 Yeah.

00:24:26.940 He, I think he's used to it now.

00:24:29.420 Yeah.

00:24:29.620 Um, he did hate it for a long time, but, um, you know, for obvious reasons, cause he loves

00:24:34.580 me.

00:24:35.940 Unlike most of you, you don't have someone who loves you.

00:24:38.780 Uh, but he, he's used to it now.

00:24:41.500 I think now he's just kind of like, he just gets annoyed kind of like me.

00:24:45.420 He's just annoyed about it.

00:24:46.520 And then he'll let me know.

00:24:48.040 He'll like tell me about it if he sees stuff.

00:24:49.980 And then sometimes he'll send me videos that he finds and he's like, you should do this

00:24:53.620 one next.

00:24:54.280 I love that.

00:24:55.280 And he tells me to be mean to you all the time. 1.00

00:24:56.740 So does my dad, you stupid bitch. 1.00

00:24:58.840 Cause they're like, you probably don't have a dad. 1.00

00:25:00.920 I was like, my dad's the best guy in the world.

00:25:02.700 That's why I'm like this.

00:25:03.780 I was going to say, that's exactly why you're like this. 0.99

00:25:05.980 Cause you all are hot, wet garbage next to my dad and my boyfriend. 1.00

00:25:10.000 So, and my brother. 0.99

00:25:11.420 And that's, my dad wasn't the best until recently.

00:25:14.300 So that's probably why I care too much.

00:25:16.040 So now we know.

00:25:17.040 There you go.

00:25:17.760 I figured it out.

00:25:18.500 Look at us therapizing ourselves.

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00:25:49.020 Okay, let's get into these videos.

00:25:50.460 So for those of you who don't know, here on the comment section, we bring videos that are applicable to our topic today.

00:25:55.020 And we break them down, kiki, laugh about them, all the fun stuff.

00:25:58.360 So this first video, we just do little summaries, is this guy's video explains the situation where media personality Jordan Peterson tweeted this response to a plus size model on the cover of Sports Illustrated magazine.

00:26:13.120 I think I know the video.

00:26:15.240 He wrote.

00:26:16.000 Is that old?

00:26:17.220 It's the most recent one.

00:26:18.640 Oh, okay.

00:26:19.160 Yeah.

00:26:19.840 Issue of Sports Illustrated.

00:26:21.180 I feel like I've seen it.

00:26:21.880 Yeah.

00:26:22.300 And he wrote, sorry, not beautiful.

00:26:24.960 And no amount of authoritarian tolerance is going to change that.

00:26:29.540 First of all, Jordan Peterson is one of like, if it was like him, Pierce Morgan and Joe Rogan.

00:26:35.060 Yeah.

00:26:35.320 Three Horsemen of the Apocalypse.

00:26:36.560 You know what I'm saying?

00:26:37.360 Like bringing the end of the world.

00:26:38.560 But also, like, do you, are you just using a bunch of words that sound big together?

00:26:42.900 I was just about to say that.

00:26:43.560 Because what does that even mean?

00:26:44.640 He's known for doing that.

00:26:45.900 And I'm real smart.

00:26:47.160 Same. 1.00

00:26:47.280 I look like a dumb bitch. 1.00

00:26:48.940 You and me both. 1.00

00:26:49.880 Great.

00:26:51.060 I was going to say about Reddit threads.

00:26:53.220 My Twitter thread, my Twitter header is literally a Reddit thread. 1.00

00:26:57.080 And the title of it was, that stupid bitch on TikTok named giraffe wallow. 1.00

00:27:00.940 I literally cropped it and I was like, Twitter header. 1.00

00:27:03.480 You were like, put this on my tombstone.

00:27:04.960 Yeah, literally.

00:27:05.620 Honestly.

00:27:06.180 Yeah, I love that. 1.00

00:27:07.200 A stupid bitch, but a bad bitch. 1.00

00:27:08.520 Yeah. 1.00

00:27:09.360 100%.

00:27:09.720 I know.

00:27:11.280 But yeah, they just love putting a bunch of things together that don't make sense.

00:27:15.980 But also, she's on the cover of Sports Illustrated.

00:27:19.520 And you're alone.

00:27:20.480 Yeah.

00:27:20.920 Yeah, so probably single. 0.97

00:27:23.920 Yeah, that's why they're like, this is an illness that's spreading, like promoting obesity or whatever.

00:27:29.020 And then I'm like, you're at home talking about her.

00:27:32.320 And she's like traveling the world and like making a lot of money and like being beautiful. 0.99

00:27:37.700 That's the real illness.

00:27:39.000 Yeah.

00:27:39.300 Obsessing over her.

00:27:40.380 That's an illness. 1.00

00:27:41.240 But also, are you just mad because you want to f*** her? 0.99

00:27:44.120 Like I told Piers Morgan one time, like, it's really giving. 0.99

00:27:48.440 Like, you're so mean to me.

00:27:49.620 I feel like you have a crush on me.

00:27:50.740 And I feel like you're like low-key. 1.00

00:27:53.560 Do you want to f*** her? 1.00

00:27:54.420 Do you like me or something? 1.00

00:27:55.440 Yeah, I feel like you're trying to f*** her. 0.99

00:27:57.500 It's weird because I don't get it. 0.99

00:27:59.700 It is.

00:28:00.240 A lot of times, too.

00:28:01.340 That's a big thing, especially when it comes to how they attack any women that's outside of the gender binary. 0.99

00:28:07.880 So trans women in general, fat women, right? 0.99

00:28:10.940 Any woman that does not look like a cisgender, white, thin woman. 0.97

00:28:14.400 They're like, they almost like hate themselves because they feel a little some-some.

00:28:19.500 Yeah.

00:28:20.020 Some of them may genuinely just hate fat people, but you have to unpack why.

00:28:24.000 Because a lot of times I think, too, especially like gym bro culture.

00:28:27.360 Ooh, the gym bros.

00:28:28.780 Ooh, they hate me. 0.98

00:28:29.880 When I'm on dating apps, which is never because they're trash, that's who I match with. 0.98

00:28:35.840 Gym bros. 0.89

00:28:36.080 It's gym bros.

00:28:37.320 That's my point.

00:28:38.100 Gym bros are always, like, all over me. 1.00

00:28:41.440 And, yeah.

00:28:43.140 Well, that's why the gym bros. 0.97

00:28:44.700 And clearly you.

00:28:45.840 Yeah.

00:28:46.860 They really hate me.

00:28:47.900 I revisit them just to make sure they don't get too comfortable.

00:28:51.720 I'll come back every few weeks, and I kick that hornet's nest, and I say, I'll be back.

00:28:55.940 I'll be back for my quarterly check-in.

00:28:57.700 Don't get too comfy in here.

00:28:58.560 I love it.

00:28:59.060 I love it when you are like, how much are you lifting?

00:29:01.800 Yeah.

00:29:02.080 Because it really didn't look like that much.

00:29:04.040 Yeah, it really didn't.

00:29:05.420 And it's never legs, is it?

00:29:06.260 Or their quads, when you make fun of their quads. 0.98

00:29:08.160 Yeah, Johnny Sibley told me a lot of them don't do legs because, well, one, they think it's gay because they're, like, homophobic, obviously. 0.99

00:29:14.760 But then, also, he said it's because if their quads get too big, it will make their dick look smaller, which I had never thought about. 0.99

00:29:21.960 I love Johnny, by the way. 1.00

00:29:23.240 Me, too.

00:29:23.640 But I didn't know that.

00:29:24.940 Me, either.

00:29:25.760 He literally opened my eyes.

00:29:26.940 I was like, when he said that, I was like, oh, my God, I've never thought about that.

00:29:30.540 It's crazy.

00:29:31.020 And I still don't feel, I still actually feel the same about them, which is hate them.

00:29:37.200 Well, they are a perfect example of hating yourself so much you project it onto others.

00:29:41.620 Yeah.

00:29:41.880 Because they are, they hate the idea of them looking a certain way because of what society has conditioned them to believe.

00:29:48.420 So when they see someone who is existing and is happy and is loved and is successful, that looks like what they've been taught to hate. 0.98

00:29:55.900 They're like, how come this bitch gets to be happy and I don't? 1.00

00:29:58.640 Well, and to them, it looks like it's people being lazy or people giving up or not putting effort or work in or whatever. 0.99

00:30:07.460 Yeah.

00:30:07.940 Because like you said, they, it really comes down to them hating themselves so much.

00:30:12.920 We're not like solving any of big life's questions.

00:30:15.920 It's just obvious they hate themselves.

00:30:18.560 And instead of, I don't know, maybe going to therapy, it's just a lot easier.

00:30:23.240 I highly recommend.

00:30:24.140 Yeah.

00:30:24.640 Same.

00:30:25.280 The way that they say that, like you said, they hate themselves so much.

00:30:29.860 And it's like, it's just the most aggressive form of a projection.

00:30:33.520 But then at the same time, they're like, it's like almost like an envy.

00:30:38.520 Like they're like envious because someone is, loves themselves enough and is confident enough in themselves to be who they really are.

00:30:45.760 Yeah.

00:30:45.980 Whether that's like just existing normally or like going out and finding love or finding success or whatever.

00:30:53.500 Like they just can't, their tiny little walnut brains can't even begin to like wrap their brain on. 0.99

00:30:59.920 Like if it doesn't have to do with macros or like bland chicken, like they're not going to process.

00:31:04.220 I know.

00:31:04.560 And I'm like, you're literally doing all of this to your body for what?

00:31:07.680 To be miserable forever.

00:31:08.760 You're miserable because you're probably hungry. 0.99

00:31:10.800 Yeah. 0.97

00:31:11.040 And because you're not seasoning your food.

00:31:12.760 There you go.

00:31:13.280 And they're also still single.

00:31:14.660 A hundred percent.

00:31:14.900 It turns out it doesn't work, does it?

00:31:16.160 It doesn't work. 0.99

00:31:16.440 When you have less than 10% body fat, it doesn't do shit, does it? 0.98

00:31:19.940 Nothing at all. 0.96

00:31:21.040 In fact, one of the videos I made once, which was arguably one of my most popular videos of all time when I was defending you.

00:31:28.340 That was like one of my, like.

00:31:30.460 I watched that video so many times.

00:31:31.940 It was so funny.

00:31:32.740 At the time that I did it, that was my most popular video I've ever made.

00:31:36.720 And it welcomed like this whole wave of hate.

00:31:40.200 But like, I didn't care. 0.99

00:31:41.820 I didn't give a shit. 0.99

00:31:42.380 I was like, whatever. 1.00

00:31:43.540 Run up the numbers, bitch. 1.00

00:31:44.960 It was also great, too, because I think it really, because people love to say that you body shame. 0.99

00:31:50.580 And I think it really showed people that, you know, well, I was going to say something nice, but it left my brain.

00:31:57.140 But people, my brain's like, you're being too nice.

00:32:00.780 Yeah. 0.99

00:32:00.880 People, like, saw you basically talking about somebody that's fat as shit like me, and they appreciated it. 1.00

00:32:08.980 You know, a lot of people sent me the video, like, did you see this? 1.00

00:32:11.580 And I'm like, no shit. 0.99

00:32:12.380 I text her. 0.98

00:32:13.600 I sent her the original video.

00:32:16.200 That's true.

00:32:16.800 Well, and I actually talked to my sister about that at the time, too, because my sister was telling me, I think it's more powerful when you talk about it because of how I look.

00:32:28.000 So I'm obviously not a really, really thin person, but I'm a thicker girl, too.

00:32:31.520 You are.

00:32:31.800 But it's like, I'm talking about this, and I'm someone who is also with someone who loves me and cares for me.

00:32:38.640 And it, like, it holds more weight, unfortunately, like, because I have a boyfriend, and he's handsome and good-looking and in shape.

00:32:46.280 It holds more weight with them.

00:32:47.860 Like, it's even more, like, it's, like, more bulletproof.

00:32:50.560 Like, they can't really argue, like, oh, it's because she's single. 1.00

00:32:53.180 Oh, it's because she's, like, a stupid, ugly, fat bitch. 1.00

00:32:55.500 That's why she's... 1.00

00:32:55.780 Or you're unhappy, or you didn't have a dad that loved you, or whatever.

00:32:58.800 Exactly.

00:32:58.920 I'm like, all those things aren't true.

00:32:59.940 Now what?

00:33:00.140 Yeah.

00:33:00.800 Yeah.

00:33:01.800 Any other theories? 1.00

00:33:05.560 Okay, so let's get back to this stupid Jordan Peterson video. 0.99

00:33:08.740 I actually don't know who Jordan Peterson is, by the way. 0.99

00:33:10.960 Lucky you.

00:33:11.600 Okay.

00:33:11.920 I wish I didn't.

00:33:12.940 He's literally, like, Pierce Morgan in a different font.

00:33:16.480 Yeah.

00:33:16.980 But he talks like Kermit the Frog, and I feel like we don't talk about that enough.

00:33:19.840 Like, his tone is, like, so like this.

00:33:22.240 He talks like this.

00:33:23.160 Like, literally, like, he's on the verge of tears.

00:33:24.920 That's what he sounds like all the time, which he probably is. 1.00

00:33:27.480 But, like, he can eat shit. 1.00

00:33:28.980 He really can't. 1.00

00:33:29.780 I made a video. 0.99

00:33:30.340 I made a video about him once when he was like, he says the most headass shit, but he 1.00

00:33:35.180 says, like, men built the walls and the trees and the, you know, the shit they say when 1.00

00:33:40.120 they're like, men literally built the internet and the phones you're talking on. 0.99

00:33:43.520 And that's like, you're mean about men and they built everything you have, which is obviously

00:33:48.180 not true, but when I stitched one of those videos once, I was like, you know, they put

00:33:53.720 the, like, sad music on it, and then they're like, we don't talk about this enough.

00:33:57.560 I'm like, everybody, guess what?

00:33:59.780 Everyone has problems in life.

00:34:01.200 Isn't that crazy?

00:34:01.960 Yeah.

00:34:02.120 But also, like, it's not, when I, when people say that, like, we, that we hate men, like, 0.96

00:34:08.680 there's men in this room that clearly don't suck. 0.98

00:34:11.580 Yeah. 1.00

00:34:11.780 Like, people are capable of being men and not being pieces of shit. 1.00

00:34:16.300 Yeah. 1.00

00:34:16.800 Um, but.

00:34:17.500 Yeah.

00:34:17.680 That's why I said it's not a, it's not necessarily a man thing, but like, I mean, let's look at

00:34:23.120 the stats.

00:34:23.860 It is really.

00:34:24.360 You know what I'm saying?

00:34:25.140 Like, let's look at this.

00:34:25.960 I mean, like, I guess like being terrible is not exclusive to men, but like.

00:34:30.240 Yeah.

00:34:30.420 Your odds are higher.

00:34:31.360 I just.

00:34:31.900 That's on y'all.

00:34:32.720 Like, you know what I'm saying?

00:34:33.740 Like, it's literally on you.

00:34:34.760 Uh, but anyways, uh, yeah, I made a video about that once and then there's all these 0.92

00:34:41.200 head ass dudes being like, oh, women don't want to talk about the irony about men saying 0.88

00:34:45.980 like, oh, you, you, you saying that men are short is making fun of insecurities. 0.99

00:34:50.560 Okay.

00:34:51.100 Those are patriarchal values.

00:34:52.600 Yes.

00:34:53.100 The patriarchy was built by men.

00:34:55.620 Uh, so that's on you.

00:34:56.560 Yeah.

00:34:56.760 Right.

00:34:56.920 First of all, but like you want to reinforce beauty standards on women, but you don't like 0.96

00:35:00.800 when they're reinforced on you.

00:35:02.760 I wonder why that is.

00:35:04.020 That's interesting.

00:35:05.080 But then when I talk about that, I always say like, you guys need to stop pretending 0.98

00:35:08.620 like you actually give a shit about men's problems, like toxic masculinity, because if 0.99

00:35:14.120 you actually gave a shit, you would take the necessary steps to unpack it and like confront 0.99

00:35:19.520 why you feel this way about stuff. 0.99

00:35:22.000 But you only want to care when I'm being mean to you.

00:35:24.780 Yeah. 0.99

00:35:25.880 When I'm being mean to an asshole, you want to talk about what about men's feelings? 0.99

00:35:30.940 What about what about them? 0.99

00:35:32.480 What about them?

00:35:34.220 Like in the context of this, what about them?

00:35:35.900 Yeah.

00:35:36.280 You know what I mean? 0.98

00:35:36.780 Like clearly he doesn't give a shit about feelings because he attacks somebody else. 0.99

00:35:40.480 And then I, I swooped in and I attacked him. 0.99

00:35:42.900 So fair is fair.

00:35:44.120 And we love it.

00:35:44.740 But this next, this, uh, we read the comments on the videos.

00:35:48.600 So this one says beauty is subjective, but there's obviously a line.

00:35:53.320 The point is, is society is pushing for normalizing unhealthy standards.

00:35:57.840 Oh, the way I've seen that comment in many different fonts.

00:36:01.520 Yeah.

00:36:01.780 Oh my God.

00:36:02.500 Beauty is subject, beauty is subjective, but obviously it's not.

00:36:05.640 That's like what he wrote.

00:36:06.880 But it's also, she's a model. 0.98

00:36:09.460 Like when people like criticize me or talk shit about me, but I'm a model. 0.98

00:36:15.580 Face card never declines, babe. 0.98

00:36:17.320 Um, I was listening to heated on the way here.

00:36:19.580 I was like that line where she's like face card never declines.

00:36:22.780 Anyway, I love Beyonce, but I just don't, I don't, I don't get it.

00:36:27.560 Like when people call me ugly or fat or the arguments here, like you're normalizing something

00:36:33.760 like, but we're models.

00:36:36.260 I don't get it.

00:36:37.100 Like, it's not like I like bought my way into being a model.

00:36:40.340 I'm here because I'm beautiful.

00:36:43.700 Period.

00:36:44.220 You know?

00:36:44.700 And I got a big dump.

00:36:45.640 That's right. 0.99

00:36:47.020 And I always say, I'm always like, well, I would think I would say shit like this too 0.99

00:36:50.680 if I was ugly. 0.99

00:36:51.620 Yeah. 0.98

00:36:52.420 If I was ugly like you, like I'd probably, yeah, I'd probably be mad at the world too. 0.63

00:36:55.900 And people used to get mad at me when I would say that people that were just being mean like 0.72

00:36:59.460 that were jealous because they were like, well, that's not a valid argument.

00:37:03.020 And I'm like, but what else is it?

00:37:04.840 Because I can't imagine hating on somebody else that is happy and living their dream.

00:37:11.180 And like has, has no bearing on me whatsoever.

00:37:13.640 Like why do I care?

00:37:14.560 That person will never meet me.

00:37:16.540 They will never care about me.

00:37:18.020 Like when they're like, well, you don't care about their feelings.

00:37:21.300 Like the same thing.

00:37:22.580 Like you don't care about that.

00:37:24.140 No, I don't care.

00:37:25.460 This sounds like this.

00:37:26.820 This is like genuinely what I've told people. 0.99

00:37:29.560 When men say terrible racist shit to me, I don't care about your feelings. 0.99

00:37:34.060 That should be obvious. 1.00

00:37:34.720 But I don't care about your well-being. 0.96

00:37:36.780 I don't like if you drop dead tomorrow, I wouldn't care. 0.71

00:37:38.980 Yeah. 0.97

00:37:39.120 Like it wouldn't affect me.

00:37:40.260 Yeah. 0.99

00:37:40.440 So you think I give a shit about your words? 0.99

00:37:42.440 Yeah. 1.00

00:37:43.480 Girl, come on. 1.00

00:37:45.040 Get real, bitch. 1.00

00:37:46.060 Like I'm like everything about you is worthless to me. 1.00

00:37:49.740 Yeah. 1.00

00:37:50.200 And like that's how I see terrible shithead dudes like that. 1.00

00:37:52.860 I'm like, you're literally worthless to me. 1.00

00:37:54.440 Like you're worth nothing to me. 0.98

00:37:56.260 Yeah.

00:37:56.520 And it's also terrifying that these people are raising children.

00:38:01.660 Oh, my God.

00:38:01.920 So many of these people are parents and you have daughters.

00:38:05.880 But I don't know.

00:38:06.860 Go off.

00:38:07.480 Yeah.

00:38:07.760 But like, yeah, sure.

00:38:08.920 Like hopefully no one ever talks to your daughter that way. 1.00

00:38:11.160 I would suck. 1.00

00:38:11.980 Yeah. 1.00

00:38:12.100 I wonder what they would do.

00:38:13.140 I wonder if somebody like if your daughter was on the cover of Sports Illustrated living 1.00

00:38:17.460 her dreams and somebody called her a fat bitch. 1.00

00:38:19.680 How would you feel? 1.00

00:38:20.560 I don't know.

00:38:20.980 He'd probably get on Twitter and be like, well, that's what happens when you promote unhealthy

00:38:24.080 beauty standards. 1.00

00:38:24.940 Idiot. 1.00

00:38:27.300 And then this one says Sports Illustrated is a journal that promotes sports bodies in 1.00

00:38:32.400 this situation.

00:38:32.940 They go out of their usual group.

00:38:35.140 But why?

00:38:36.840 First of all, that's not true.

00:38:37.980 That isn't.

00:38:38.420 Yeah.

00:38:38.960 Do you know the Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue?

00:38:41.780 How many of those women are like professional athletes? 1.00

00:38:43.860 Zero.

00:38:44.440 Usually.

00:38:45.320 Sometimes.

00:38:46.020 Sometimes.

00:38:46.540 Sometimes there are.

00:38:48.440 Yeah.

00:38:48.740 Use your brain.

00:38:49.520 Yeah.

00:38:49.620 You know what I mean?

00:38:50.260 Like, come on.

00:38:51.420 Be for real.

00:38:51.840 Oh, this last one says beauty is not subjective.

00:38:55.940 It can vary.

00:38:56.800 But the attack on beauty has been a sign of degradation for our society.

00:39:01.480 Oh, big words.

00:39:02.460 Big words.

00:39:03.080 See, but again, it's just like the big words that make no sense.

00:39:05.900 And I bet they're doing like they're they're like Googling big words as they're they're

00:39:11.080 doing these.

00:39:12.020 No, literally.

00:39:13.420 What's a big word for makes worse?

00:39:15.580 No, literally the beauty is when people say beauty is not subjective. 0.99

00:39:21.840 It can vary like any type of shit like that. 0.98

00:39:24.340 It's giving me eugenics. 0.99

00:39:25.920 Yes.

00:39:26.580 And a lot of people don't want to talk about how beauty standards are so closely tied to

00:39:30.620 white supremacy.

00:39:31.840 Like a lot of y'all don't want to have that conversation because you're either one not 1.00

00:39:35.660 smart enough or two racist. 0.98

00:39:38.220 Yes.

00:39:39.000 Either or or both or both.

00:39:40.700 Honestly, absolutely.

00:39:41.700 So when they say that they're literally talking about blonde haired, blue eyed, thin

00:39:46.580 cis heterosexual women. 0.90

00:39:48.800 Yeah.

00:39:49.700 It's giving me eugenics. 0.99

00:39:51.880 Yes. 0.93

00:39:52.160 It's giving me racist white supremacy. 0.58

00:39:55.800 Yes, absolutely. 0.82

00:39:57.160 It's giving me like Aryan. 1.00

00:39:58.920 I think it's just like just say like you're talking about like minority women in any capacity. 0.99

00:40:05.700 If they're not white, they're ugly to me. 0.99

00:40:07.820 You know what I mean? 1.00

00:40:08.940 Yeah.

00:40:09.520 A hundred percent. 0.97

00:40:10.080 I just they're either ugly or they want to fetishize them or. 0.97

00:40:13.700 Yeah. 0.98

00:40:13.840 It's like no in between or appropriate their culture.

00:40:17.800 You know what I mean?

00:40:18.960 The fetish thing.

00:40:20.160 Yeah.

00:40:20.440 It's pretty bad.

00:40:21.580 Yeah.

00:40:21.900 There's like when I was in the dating pool, it that became very clear to me specifically

00:40:26.680 with white men like they want to they want the story.

00:40:30.860 They don't want to like actually like get to know who you are and like get to know you

00:40:34.920 and like fall in love with you.

00:40:36.700 They want to just be able to tell people that they hooked up with you, which is gross.

00:40:41.440 Obviously, I don't know that from a race standpoint because I'm very Caucasian, but I know what it's

00:40:47.120 like as far as my size and also my celebrity.

00:40:50.020 People treat me like it actually just happened recently where I was really into this person

00:40:57.700 and I thought they were into me.

00:40:58.820 And then I'm this is TMI, but we're already doing it.

00:41:02.820 I was celibate for two years and recently and it was a choice.

00:41:07.560 I was like doing kind of like a spiritual reset.

00:41:09.980 Yeah.

00:41:10.220 No longer celibate.

00:41:12.020 But after we hooked up, this person said to me, I can't believe that I just test holiday.

00:41:20.600 And I felt like the floor just opened and I like I like wanted it.

00:41:26.940 I know.

00:41:27.320 And then obviously never saw them again.

00:41:29.640 But I understand that perspective.

00:41:32.880 I understand in that way.

00:41:34.520 And yeah, I just think that people could do better.

00:41:37.880 They just choose not to.

00:41:38.960 And then, yeah, it makes it a lot easier to not get the fetish thing is so creepy.

00:41:43.320 Weird.

00:41:43.920 It's weird.

00:41:44.420 Creepy weirdo. 0.96

00:41:45.280 Like you're a big weirdo. 1.00

00:41:46.580 Yeah. 0.57

00:41:47.000 I'm like and not even a weirdo in a hot way.

00:41:49.100 Like I'm a weirdo.

00:41:50.180 No weirdo in like call the cops way.

00:41:53.200 Like weirdo, like you're like, you know, like sketchy, you scare me way.

00:41:59.460 Yeah. 0.95

00:41:59.700 I don't like you.

00:42:00.700 Yeah.

00:42:01.380 Oh, I.

00:42:02.360 Yeah.

00:42:02.660 I'm so sorry that happened.

00:42:04.240 Me too.

00:42:05.940 I was like, I actually thought that they were kidding.

00:42:09.480 And then I realized that they weren't.

00:42:10.900 And I was like, oh, all right.

00:42:13.180 Like, what am I supposed to?

00:42:14.140 I don't know what to say about that.

00:42:15.280 All right.

00:42:15.420 Well, this is why I'm single.

00:42:17.000 We'll never see you again.

00:42:18.080 Yeah.

00:42:18.260 Well, and you know what?

00:42:19.660 There are like so many men who are like, this is why like I literally recently.

00:42:25.520 Oh, man, I kicked a completely different hornet's nest recently on TikTok because I was talking 0.99

00:42:30.500 about how much I really, really hate when men say this bullshit about like taking women 0.98

00:42:36.500 out of their masculine era and putting them in their feminine era. 0.99

00:42:39.640 And I always talk.

00:42:41.180 I talked about it now because I've been seeing lots of stuff.

00:42:43.300 But that's the video you're talking about where I wasn't going to do it because it was

00:42:47.120 like low hanging fruit.

00:42:48.960 It really was.

00:42:49.660 But then he someone tagged me and was like, this is so embarrassing for him.

00:42:54.140 And then he wrote to that person.

00:42:56.560 I can help her, too.

00:42:57.820 I saw that.

00:42:58.340 And that's when I was like, oh, and you did it to yourself.

00:43:00.580 Yeah.

00:43:01.020 And then as soon as my video went live, he deleted his.

00:43:04.460 Of course.

00:43:05.060 Immediately and then pretended he never made that video in the first place.

00:43:08.040 So if it was good intentioned, why did that happen?

00:43:11.260 Yeah.

00:43:12.880 But with that with that type of like argument, I've talked about, first of all, how like the

00:43:17.780 gender binary is like so incredibly harmful. 1.00

00:43:19.660 In many different ways.

00:43:21.320 But I was like, you guys need to unpack the fact that gender is a construct.

00:43:25.100 It's not real.

00:43:26.020 Yeah.

00:43:26.380 You know what I mean?

00:43:27.040 Like it's literally something that was made up just like BMI.

00:43:32.680 Yep.

00:43:32.960 Just like.

00:43:33.940 Which is also racist.

00:43:35.140 Yeah.

00:43:37.360 It's like there's so it's so all of this is so deeply embedded in our society.

00:43:42.520 And the reason the diet culture is a multi-billion dollar industry and all of this stuff exists

00:43:47.680 is because people just want to profit off of you hating yourself.

00:43:51.480 Absolutely.

00:43:52.300 You know, they just want it and they just want to make money.

00:43:54.460 That's the tea.

00:43:55.380 Yeah. 1.00

00:43:55.700 That's the true tea, bitch. 1.00

00:43:56.780 And I and I talked about that because I was like every time they talk about masculine 0.99

00:44:00.580 era versus a feminine era, they always associate masculinity with like being independent, being

00:44:06.680 alone, being single, taking care of yourself, financially providing yourself.

00:44:09.860 Being strong.

00:44:10.220 Yeah.

00:44:10.780 When you're feminine, you're letting men take care of you. 1.00

00:44:14.680 And I was like, what's the difference between saying that and saying, like, I just think

00:44:18.440 women should stay at home because it's my job to take care of them as the man. 1.00

00:44:21.440 Men can't even take care of themselves. 1.00

00:44:23.200 And they've proven that time and time again.

00:44:25.340 How many videos do we see, especially on TikTok?

00:44:27.640 Did you see the video recently?

00:44:29.200 I'm segwaying, but it infuriated me that there was an older man that was like, I can't

00:44:33.860 he was making like jalapeno poppers, like bacon wrapped jalapeno poppers.

00:44:37.580 And he was like, you know, she was sitting on the couch all day and she was supposed to

00:44:42.320 have this ready for me and didn't.

00:44:43.680 Turns out his wife didn't have it made because she had just gotten back from a chemo treatment. 0.97

00:44:51.180 Goodbye. 0.99

00:44:52.800 So you're mad that your jalapeno stuffed, bacon wrapped goddamn poppers weren't ready because 1.00

00:45:00.440 your wife is fighting cancer. 0.99

00:45:02.340 She's like, sorry, I'm so exhausted from chemotherapy.

00:45:06.040 So sorry.

00:45:06.680 So you mean to tell me you want me to sit around and let you take care of me? 1.00

00:45:10.860 He's like, what a bitch. 1.00

00:45:12.700 Yeah. 1.00

00:45:13.640 What a selfish bitch. 1.00

00:45:15.940 First you go to chemo, you're gone all day and you come back and you're too lazy to make 1.00

00:45:20.380 my jalapeno poppers. 1.00

00:45:21.840 Also, what a shit dinner. 1.00

00:45:23.380 Yeah. 1.00

00:45:23.960 Jalapeno.

00:45:24.640 Was there cream cheese inside?

00:45:25.800 Yeah, there was.

00:45:26.540 Ugh.

00:45:27.500 Where does it end?

00:45:28.580 Where does it end?

00:45:29.560 Oh my God.

00:45:30.740 That's probably also racist.

00:45:32.220 That video that you just described to me is heinous in its very nature.

00:45:39.940 I can't believe that.

00:45:40.760 Yeah. 0.79

00:45:41.040 If people are f***ed up.

00:45:42.680 Well, they're also like when they say this, like, oh, I literally had talked about this 0.91

00:45:47.800 because some women were really upset when I talked about masculine feminine energy. 1.00

00:45:51.600 They're like, you don't think it's you think it's bad to want men to take care of women? 0.98

00:45:56.040 And I was like, I never said that.

00:45:58.640 I literally never said that.

00:46:00.480 In fact, he didn't even say that.

00:46:01.880 Yeah.

00:46:02.080 Like, what I said was it's harmful and dangerous and also invalidating to people who don't adhere

00:46:09.240 to either side of the gender binary.

00:46:12.280 It's bad to associate masculinity with taking care of yourself and then femininity with being

00:46:17.880 weaker that you need someone to take care of you.

00:46:20.700 So if you want a man to spoil you, they should do it because they want to, not because you're

00:46:25.160 so feminine and they're so masculine.

00:46:27.000 Yeah.

00:46:27.400 Those two things aren't real.

00:46:28.540 I got in a fight with this guy one time who was on TikTok. 0.99

00:46:31.440 He's very popular on TikTok, but he's a f***ing turd. 0.99

00:46:34.820 And he has a plus size wife. 0.99

00:46:37.400 She's kind of plus size. 1.00

00:46:39.040 And he is whole claim to fame.

00:46:40.740 He looks like a low budget Eminem.

00:46:43.260 And he's a musician, but his whole claim to fame was that he went viral years ago for

00:46:49.660 saying like that he's attracted to his wife, even though she's plus size.

00:46:54.080 And like, she might never be on the cover of Victoria's or Victoria's Secret.

00:46:57.540 She might not ever be a Victoria's Secret model or on the cover of Sports Illustrated.

00:47:01.040 But like, I'm still attracted to her regardless.

00:47:03.740 And so I said, yeah, and I said something like, what?

00:47:07.340 That's weird.

00:47:08.320 Also, why are we praising men for doing the brand minimum?

00:47:10.500 Because then a ton of women were like, oh, my God, what a king. 1.00

00:47:13.680 And we love him.

00:47:14.640 And so his whole thing became like, Robbie Tripp is his name. 1.00

00:47:18.760 F*** him. 0.99

00:47:19.500 But his whole, I was going to hide it. 1.00

00:47:21.280 But his whole thing just became like, you know, like he's the fat woman warrior. 0.95

00:47:25.880 And I'm like, first of all, it's a fetish. 0.81

00:47:27.580 Second of all, why should you get a reward for like caring about your wife? 0.99

00:47:32.260 But like where I'm going with this is people, it's their own shit that like you're putting 0.99

00:47:38.200 out in the world thinking that you're doing something great. 0.98

00:47:42.200 Yeah.

00:47:42.380 Like they're helping you in some way.

00:47:44.400 But really, you're just doing what you should be doing.

00:47:47.580 Which is loving your wife.

00:47:48.700 Yeah. 0.96

00:47:49.000 Crazy.

00:47:49.520 What a concept.

00:47:50.680 And taking care of her because you want to, not because you have to.

00:47:55.620 Or it's like you're.

00:47:56.440 I'm doing it in spite of how much I don't want to.

00:47:59.360 Yes.

00:47:59.740 Like, gee, thanks.

00:48:01.240 Like, so what if someone was like, I don't care what other people say.

00:48:04.420 I love you.

00:48:05.660 Huh? 1.00

00:48:06.660 Bitch, what? 1.00

00:48:07.860 I literally was like, if someone described you as that, like, like, be for real. 1.00

00:48:12.920 Like, I'm sure this dude's ugly. 0.96

00:48:14.320 I'm just, I'm picturing. 1.00

00:48:15.380 He's so ugly. 0.99

00:48:16.240 Okay. 0.99

00:48:16.480 So I'm sure he is.

00:48:17.580 So when, when like a woman talks to another, her group of friends, that's somebody who they're

00:48:23.520 like, he doesn't photograph well.

00:48:25.520 No, he doesn't.

00:48:26.320 Like, I swear he has good pictures.

00:48:27.560 He just, like, you have to see him in person. 0.97

00:48:29.000 Like, they're, they're scared to show their friends a picture because you're ugly. 0.98

00:48:32.960 Yeah. 0.91

00:48:33.860 Like, you're, like, I love you in spite of being overweight.

00:48:37.040 Yeah.

00:48:37.920 Gee, thanks.

00:48:38.860 Yeah.

00:48:39.220 That's why I hate videos like that.

00:48:40.880 So I talked about that with Fanita.

00:48:42.500 I hate videos.

00:48:44.120 She is so funny.

00:48:44.840 But I hate videos like that because they'll be like, oh, you should talk about this guy.

00:48:49.220 Look, look, one of the good ones, Izzy.

00:48:51.960 Yeah.

00:48:52.260 And also, a lot of times they're lying.

00:48:54.360 A hundred percent.

00:48:54.920 They're literally lying.

00:48:56.000 Yeah.

00:48:56.120 They're not being, they're not for real.

00:48:57.800 If you were one of the good ones, why do you have to tell us?

00:49:00.340 That's right.

00:49:01.360 And also the, why is that whole your, that, why is that your entire identity?

00:49:05.200 Yeah.

00:49:05.220 Like, stretch marks.

00:49:06.740 Those aren't bad.

00:49:08.860 Okay.

00:49:10.380 Okay. 1.00

00:49:10.960 Like, no shit, bitch. 1.00

00:49:12.460 Like, gee, thank you, Captain Obvious. 1.00

00:49:14.500 I know they're not bad.

00:49:16.080 Yeah.

00:49:16.420 I hate arguments like that.

00:49:18.060 And then you see all the comments are like, like what you said.

00:49:20.740 Yeah.

00:49:21.100 Like, oh, one of the good ones.

00:49:22.380 I'm so glad.

00:49:23.120 Oh, we love you.

00:49:23.780 We need more men like this. 1.00

00:49:25.280 No, bitch. 1.00

00:49:25.540 No, you don't. 1.00

00:49:26.320 No, you don't, bitch. 1.00

00:49:27.280 You don't. 1.00

00:49:27.580 And you know what I've said too?

00:49:29.000 When you have like an outright bigot, like an outright misogynist and someone who's just

00:49:34.520 purely awful off top.

00:49:36.160 And then you have someone like that.

00:49:38.260 Someone like that is far more harmful to me and dangerous because they can

00:49:42.080 blend.

00:49:43.000 Like, they can lie and they can manipulate you.

00:49:45.760 Yeah.

00:49:46.020 Whereas like someone who's just outright terrible, you're like, this guy's terrible,

00:49:49.640 like off top.

00:49:50.440 But someone who's like, well, no, like, I just think like you, I just want to take

00:49:55.720 care of you.

00:49:56.240 It's just like, you never let me in.

00:49:57.880 Like, you're always working and I feel like you don't love me enough. 1.00

00:50:01.100 Like, it's shit like that that makes my ass itch. 1.00

00:50:04.660 Like, it literally makes my butthole clench. 1.00

00:50:06.680 Well, like you say, the call's coming from inside the house. 0.99

00:50:08.820 Yeah, it infuriates me because they trick women. 1.00

00:50:11.340 Like, they literally brainwash them.

00:50:12.140 And it's a control thing.

00:50:13.080 It is.

00:50:13.560 Yes. 0.99

00:50:13.960 And I said that in my video about the masculine feminine energy bullshit. 1.00

00:50:17.860 I was like, this is literally just a manipulation tactic to like clip your wings because they 0.98

00:50:23.520 don't want you to be too independent because they need you to need them.

00:50:27.120 But then as soon as you start needing them a little too much, they're not going to want

00:50:30.460 you there anymore.

00:50:30.980 Yeah.

00:50:31.700 And so I made a follow up because some women were like, what do you think it's bad to 1.00

00:50:36.820 follow up?

00:50:37.720 Well, first of all, work it out, babe.

00:50:40.060 You know what I mean?

00:50:40.980 You dragging other women for male validation will wear out quickly. 0.86

00:50:44.340 I promise you that.

00:50:45.180 A hundred percent.

00:50:45.700 You know what I mean?

00:50:46.120 It will.

00:50:46.500 Also, the men aren't going to be there when you need them.

00:50:49.060 Yeah.

00:50:49.480 They're not going to pick you.

00:50:50.700 No.

00:50:51.000 Just like, I'm not going to pick you.

00:50:52.460 Like, they're going to look, walk right all over you just like they're trying to walk

00:50:55.500 over me.

00:50:55.880 A hundred percent.

00:50:56.320 So I literally said in my video, I'm like, okay, if men are so confident about that, like

00:51:02.000 if that's not what they meant, right.

00:51:04.060 To like keep women from earning their own money or like being too independent so they 0.99

00:51:09.060 can be more feminine.

00:51:10.460 Right.

00:51:10.940 I was like, if that's the case, ask them how they feel about women who primarily date for

00:51:14.360 money.

00:51:15.720 Ask them how they feel about that.

00:51:16.940 And let's see what they say.

00:51:18.860 Let's see if they're as supportive as they're claiming they are. 1.00

00:51:21.520 Cause I got it, bitch. 0.99

00:51:23.640 I was like, ask them, ask them what they think. 1.00

00:51:25.500 I know what I think.

00:51:26.320 I've literally said, I have defended women who have talked about dating older men primarily 1.00

00:51:31.480 for money because I think it's your bag, bitch. 1.00

00:51:33.620 Like if you both know what you're getting out of it, who cares? 1.00

00:51:36.300 Right.

00:51:36.520 Yeah.

00:51:36.860 But the reason why they don't like, if you ask them, they're not going to like that.

00:51:40.740 And it's purely because it's consensual. 1.00

00:51:43.580 And that's the tea, bitch. 1.00

00:51:44.960 A lot of things they don't like about women's independence is purely because it's consensual. 1.00

00:51:48.660 It's up to her.

00:51:49.620 And they don't like that.

00:51:50.760 No.

00:51:50.980 They want to decide for you.

00:51:52.780 So that's the tea.

00:51:54.100 Anna Nicole was the real OG.

00:51:55.880 Period.

00:51:56.440 I loved her.

00:51:57.540 She really was.

00:51:58.980 People just, I mean, men would do it too if they could.

00:52:01.920 You know what I mean?

00:52:03.000 And I've said that before.

00:52:04.400 I once, oh my God.

00:52:05.820 One time I talked about this dude who like, I think I like sent him into a spiral or something.

00:52:10.400 He like had to do a spiritual awakening after me.

00:52:12.340 Like he like, I don't feel bad for him at all. 1.00

00:52:14.560 No, me neither, bitch. 1.00

00:52:15.920 He ran into the woods never to be seen again and then came out and then made 20 videos about me. 0.99

00:52:20.300 But he made this like dissertation, like attacking these two girls.

00:52:24.780 Like they were like gym girls or whatever.

00:52:26.280 And I literally was like, because his whole thing was like, you only have followers because 1.00

00:52:30.860 you show ass. 1.00

00:52:31.580 You know, it's like the slut shamey shit. 1.00

00:52:33.060 Yeah. 1.00

00:52:33.600 And I was like, who do you think consumes that kind of content? 1.00

00:52:38.240 Check your peers, bitch. 1.00

00:52:39.480 Yeah. 1.00

00:52:39.620 I call again, call coming inside the house, but also who says you can't shake ass, shake 0.98

00:52:44.980 ass, get followers, see if it works, put them on. 1.00

00:52:47.300 Maybe, maybe you're upset because your content is shit. 1.00

00:52:50.500 Like maybe that's why you're upset. 1.00

00:52:52.200 When I realized that people hated me because I was fat and in my underwear and lingerie and

00:52:59.840 it got the kind of attention that it did because you weren't really seeing plus size people

00:53:05.080 exist on the internet in that way around that time.

00:53:08.700 I mean, they did like Tumblr existed and I was not the first person to be hot and fat

00:53:13.940 in my underwear on the internet, but just with the amount of followers that I did, I just

00:53:19.360 wanted to do it more.

00:53:20.340 And then people were like, oh, you're a mom, you're this, you can't be.

00:53:23.260 And I'm like, and, and, but you're still here.

00:53:26.740 Yeah.

00:53:27.720 Consuming.

00:53:28.400 You still comment on everything.

00:53:29.860 I'll take that view, babe.

00:53:31.260 Thank you.

00:53:31.740 I don't discriminate.

00:53:33.320 Engagement is engaged.

00:53:34.220 A win is a win.

00:53:34.900 You know what I mean?

00:53:35.280 I'll take it no matter what.

00:53:36.180 I made that joke when I interviewed the rock cause that was like such a full circle moment

00:53:42.200 for me.

00:53:42.740 And when I got to interview him, my sister was watching the live cause I was on DC, like DC

00:53:49.040 comics or whatever.

00:53:49.920 They did the live and that's where all the interviews were broadcast and like all the

00:53:53.500 comments were real, like 50, 50, like they were so supportive or they were downright awful

00:53:57.820 and they were only about me.

00:53:58.940 And I was like, when she was telling me, yeah, some of them were terrible and, but a lot

00:54:03.680 of them were really good.

00:54:04.460 And then when she was telling me, I'm like, I mean, they had to watch me. 1.00

00:54:07.320 They watched, they watched 45 minutes of that shit. 0.99

00:54:09.820 But that's my favorite part. 1.00

00:54:10.880 You were like, I'm going to be everywhere, bitch. 1.00

00:54:13.680 And you are. 1.00

00:54:14.720 So it's like.

00:54:15.400 I probably, listen, I will tell a joke, but I will never tell a lie.

00:54:19.280 And I said, I said, I was going to like poison ivy.

00:54:24.660 I was going to bleed into every, so they never stopped scratching.

00:54:28.620 But I was like, you know what? 1.00

00:54:29.880 You watched 45 minutes of that just so that you could tell me I was a fat Buffalo bitch. 1.00

00:54:35.900 A win is a win. 1.00

00:54:36.460 I'll take it.

00:54:37.420 You know what that does?

00:54:38.440 It makes me look good to Warner brothers because I got the stats up a hundred percent.

00:54:42.500 A hundred percent.

00:54:43.480 Yeah.

00:54:44.260 Yeah.

00:54:44.440 I love it. 1.00

00:54:45.020 When is a win a fat Buffalo bitch in first class interviewing her. 1.00

00:54:48.840 Uh, idols. 1.00

00:54:50.040 Interviewing your idol.

00:54:51.100 Yeah.

00:54:54.500 That's like, like.

00:54:55.340 Oh, I love it.

00:54:56.080 I literally have other things y'all will tell you offline.

00:54:58.540 Yeah.

00:54:58.800 That I'm doing that I literally can't wait for the men to see it.

00:55:01.700 I can't wait. 1.00

00:55:02.480 Because they're going to shit themselves. 1.00

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00:56:03.620 Okay, let's go on to this last video.

00:56:05.820 Okay, this last video is, it's a woman's video, is in response to a guy's comment that said,

00:56:11.700 two bad women created the beauty standard for themselves. 1.00

00:56:15.080 She says, here is who owns the beauty industry that created this standard. 1.00

00:56:19.660 And it posts pictures of CEOs and owners of the top beauty companies in the world. 0.86

00:56:23.940 The vast majority are all owned by old white men. 0.99

00:56:27.560 Well, why do you think that they're doing that?

00:56:31.940 Who are they doing that for?

00:56:33.620 They're not doing it for themselves because they're doing it for men because that's how 1.00

00:56:39.560 women have been conditioned that everything that we do is for the male gaze. 1.00

00:56:45.440 Truly.

00:56:45.780 Which newsflash, I don't ever want a man to look at me ever.

00:56:50.040 Ever.

00:56:50.660 You and me both.

00:56:51.480 You and me both.

00:56:52.120 I talked about that with Chrissy.

00:56:53.080 You know Chrissy?

00:56:53.680 Yes.

00:56:54.180 Yeah.

00:56:54.300 I told her, I had talked to her about it on my episode with her, but we talked about

00:56:58.740 how like there are, like her and I are a great example.

00:57:02.440 You're a great example of this.

00:57:03.680 Someone who's so truly removed from the male gaze.

00:57:07.200 Like a man could never look at me again and it would be too soon.

00:57:11.240 Like he could never talk to me again and I would literally be like, oh my God.

00:57:14.740 Yeah.

00:57:15.360 So I need more time.

00:57:16.640 You know what I mean?

00:57:17.080 Like it's, it's because we truly do not care.

00:57:20.320 Like my validity, my worth does not come from their approval.

00:57:25.020 Yeah. 1.00

00:57:25.300 And they hate that shit. 1.00

00:57:27.080 A hundred percent. 1.00

00:57:27.400 They hate shit like that. 1.00

00:57:28.440 And I talked about this the other day with my boyfriend actually, but, uh, when men like 1.00

00:57:33.220 attack women who look a certain way, whether they're fat, they have a bunch of piercings, 1.00

00:57:37.320 tattoos, uh, they have blue hair, you know, they always say blue hair, whatever the shit 1.00

00:57:42.640 they say. 0.99

00:57:43.560 Um, let's like, it takes a piercings, for example, like if someone had piercings all

00:57:47.000 over their face and they were presenting, like they identify as a woman, they'll attack 1.00

00:57:50.300 someone like that because someone like that is so removed from the male gaze.

00:57:53.960 They did not do that because it's appealing to men at all.

00:57:56.680 And even though they, they aren't attracted to that, they're still offended that you don't

00:58:02.580 want to be attractive to them.

00:58:04.040 A hundred percent. 1.00

00:58:04.860 Like you don't, you don't want me to f*** you? 0.99

00:58:07.240 Why? 0.99

00:58:07.780 I never would, but why?

00:58:09.480 Why do you feel that way?

00:58:10.580 I want the option to.

00:58:11.960 Yeah.

00:58:12.000 I still want to be able to like say I would never.

00:58:15.120 And they, they can't like their way, their brains just like, Oh my God.

00:58:18.820 Like they just can't process it in any way. 0.99

00:58:21.380 Or like, they're like, I, yeah, I wouldn't f*** you. 0.98

00:58:23.320 And you're like, okay. 0.98

00:58:25.020 Feelings mutual.

00:58:25.780 Yeah.

00:58:26.100 Like whoever said, that's, that's one of my favorite things just over the course of

00:58:30.160 my career. 1.00

00:58:30.640 Like I wouldn't even f*** you or you're disgusting. 1.00

00:58:33.340 And it's like, I wouldn't f*** you. 1.00

00:58:35.760 You know what I mean? 0.99

00:58:36.800 You're like, same.

00:58:37.840 Yeah.

00:58:38.340 I'm so, I'm so grateful every single day that I'm gay.

00:58:43.040 And I mean, unfortunately I am still attracted to men, but I think I did a video about that

00:58:47.560 recently where I am feeling, I'm just not as attracted to men anymore because I don't

00:58:53.420 feel safe with them.

00:58:54.220 And so I think I'm just going to completely not date cis het men anymore. 0.99

00:59:00.760 Yeah.

00:59:01.760 You know, and it's just, it's just wild that people think that we just sit around thinking

00:59:08.280 about like, well, how can, how can he love me?

00:59:11.000 Like, what can I do? 1.00

00:59:12.120 I hope he knows, I hope he notices, like when they write like, you're a fat, ugly bitch 1.00

00:59:16.580 on my, on my videos. 1.00

00:59:17.860 Yeah.

00:59:18.060 Do you think I read that?

00:59:18.940 And I go, what am I going to do?

00:59:23.040 Like, you think I'm like, oh my God, guys cancel everything.

00:59:26.560 I can't go on.

00:59:27.620 But that's, what's crazy too. 0.73

00:59:28.880 That blows my mind is that people think you're fat. 0.64

00:59:32.580 Yeah.

00:59:33.560 Like, that's crazy.

00:59:35.340 You know what I mean?

00:59:36.480 I'm fat, but like you, I don't know.

00:59:39.700 It just makes no sense. 1.00

00:59:40.960 What you're trying to say is you're tall and thick as shit. 1.00

00:59:43.840 Yeah. 0.99

00:59:44.140 Well, and what's crazy is that I, before you, I ever posted anything that had my body in

00:59:49.620 it.

00:59:50.140 They would still say that's me.

00:59:51.380 Yeah.

00:59:51.640 So I, I would tell like my followers who love me, they're like, how do I like free myself

00:59:56.840 from not feeling that way?

00:59:58.020 Like feeling terrible when they say things like that to me cause I want to make content,

01:00:01.120 but I'm afraid and I'm nervous and I'm worried that I'll get hate and it will like ruin me.

01:00:06.440 And I was telling them that I literally get, I got hate on videos of just my body, not my

01:00:12.280 body at all, just my face. 1.00

01:00:14.260 Literally from here up, they would call me a fat bitch. 1.00

01:00:17.980 They can't see my body at all. 1.00

01:00:19.240 Yeah.

01:00:19.380 It doesn't matter.

01:00:20.420 Like I said, it truly 100% doesn't matter.

01:00:23.200 They will call you that no matter what.

01:00:24.580 Yeah. 1.00

01:00:24.720 You could be the thinnest bitch in the world. 1.00

01:00:26.040 If you were talking like me, they would still call you fat and ugly. 1.00

01:00:29.500 Like they're going to say that no matter what. 0.87

01:00:31.160 So you can take the power out of it right away.

01:00:34.000 100%. 1.00

01:00:34.360 Like steal the wind right out themselves, bitch. 1.00

01:00:36.260 Like it's not going to hurt you when you know that one fat's not an insult. 1.00

01:00:39.840 You have to unpack your internalized fat phobia first.

01:00:42.200 Yes. 1.00

01:00:42.740 And I was like, and then second, you have to know they're going to say that shit to you no 1.00

01:00:46.240 matter what. 1.00

01:00:47.240 Regardless.

01:00:47.600 I mean, there'll be the amount of people that are nice to me and I'm hot and then all of

01:00:52.140 a sudden I'm not interested. 1.00

01:00:53.240 But now I'm a fat bitch. 1.00

01:00:55.340 That's a perfect example. 1.00

01:00:56.480 But I wasn't five minutes ago.

01:00:57.860 Yeah. 1.00

01:00:57.980 They say the most like, they say the most crazy shit. 0.99

01:01:00.640 Like you say no thank you. 1.00

01:01:01.860 And they're like, yeah, well, guess what? 1.00

01:01:03.680 JK, you're ugly. 0.99

01:01:04.620 I was so, I was making that up. 1.00

01:01:07.320 Idiot. 1.00

01:01:08.500 The way you're like, okay. 1.00

01:01:10.840 All right.

01:01:11.540 Have a nice day.

01:01:12.600 See you later. 1.00

01:01:14.400 A fat bitch that doesn't want to f*** you. 1.00

01:01:15.940 So I think that's on you. 1.00

01:01:17.680 But oh, oh, also this video saying like women created the beauty standard for themselves. 1.00

01:01:22.540 That's not true.

01:01:23.520 I think women help perpetuate it. 1.00

01:01:25.840 But that's not by that.

01:01:27.540 I would say most of the time it's not on purpose.

01:01:29.880 Sometimes it is.

01:01:30.820 But I think that's just internalized misogyny.

01:01:33.180 Yeah.

01:01:33.360 And I also think like if women like want to do all of the things we do, myself included,

01:01:40.080 I'm a glamour girl.

01:01:40.820 If I want to go get my hair and nails and done whatever, I'm doing that because I want

01:01:45.780 to.

01:01:46.100 I'm not doing that because I'm told that I want to.

01:01:49.020 Like if the world disappeared tomorrow and I would have to like live in a cave and like 0.92

01:01:53.640 exist like they used to, I'm going to like, I would do it, but I'm going to be f***ing 0.96

01:01:57.840 mad that I don't have like nails and lashes and shit like that. 0.96

01:02:00.820 You and me both. 0.99

01:02:01.760 And I'm not trying to look good for anybody else, but like f***, like I just, yeah. 0.96

01:02:05.520 I just love how it looks on me. 0.97

01:02:07.180 Yeah.

01:02:07.340 Same. 0.99

01:02:07.880 Because I get the shit about my nails too sometimes. 1.00

01:02:10.120 I'm like, if you're not a bad bitch, just say that. 1.00

01:02:12.500 Yeah. 0.99

01:02:12.640 This life is not for everyone, babe.

01:02:14.240 I'll tell you that.

01:02:15.160 It's not.

01:02:16.640 So what do the comments say?

01:02:18.040 Yeah.

01:02:18.260 This first one says, so you're mad.

01:02:20.460 Are you mad that men are better CEOs?

01:02:23.560 The way it just.

01:02:24.360 So Elon Musk.

01:02:26.180 Yeah.

01:02:26.600 What a great CEO.

01:02:28.120 Wow.

01:02:28.620 Great examples.

01:02:29.840 Great CEOs.

01:02:30.680 Fantastic.

01:02:31.360 Yeah.

01:02:31.780 They're really killing it.

01:02:33.380 The way they just like, my sister says this all the time, but she goes, you can't just

01:02:37.920 say things.

01:02:39.240 And it's true. 0.56

01:02:40.420 Like, it's so applicable to everything in life.

01:02:42.600 Like, you can't just say things.

01:02:44.140 Like, you have to like, how, what am I trying?

01:02:47.400 Like, you know what I mean?

01:02:47.980 Like critical thinking.

01:02:48.980 Yes.

01:02:49.400 Like mulling around, like kicking around in there.

01:02:52.080 What's critical thinking?

01:02:53.480 They wouldn't know.

01:02:54.240 They don't know.

01:02:54.540 I'll tell you that much.

01:02:55.060 They don't know her.

01:02:56.340 They don't.

01:02:56.640 That's why I said, they're not going to hear anything I say. 1.00

01:02:58.960 They're just going to call me a fat bitch. 1.00

01:03:00.260 So let's just get that out the way. 1.00

01:03:01.520 Yeah.

01:03:02.100 Every time I say like elephant in the room, you're the real elephant.

01:03:06.320 Oh, I'll just got to get that out the way.

01:03:07.940 Cause I know they're going to say it.

01:03:09.040 They're going to say it no matter what.

01:03:11.980 Okay.

01:03:12.340 So this, uh, last comment says what beauty standards and makeup companies, no man ever 0.78

01:03:17.520 said you need makeup.

01:03:18.560 It's always the girl who wants them. 1.00

01:03:20.900 It's like, you're, you're like there, but you're not there.

01:03:25.100 You know what I mean?

01:03:25.520 Like you're right in front of the point.

01:03:27.020 Like girls want it because men have convinced them they need it. 1.00

01:03:32.660 And then now it's evolved.

01:03:34.500 I always say this too.

01:03:35.440 Like, I feel like makeup and beauty, anything beauty related or like I genuinely, it's just

01:03:40.200 self care.

01:03:40.800 That's what I think.

01:03:42.840 Anything like that.

01:03:43.760 It's evolved so far past like men being like, get this rouge to get a husband.

01:03:49.140 Like it's, it's, we're not in the 1950s anymore.

01:03:51.140 Like we're so far past that at this point, it's an art form.

01:03:54.340 Yes.

01:03:54.760 So it's like it, it, they're doing it because they look good.

01:03:58.440 Yeah.

01:03:58.840 And I always think you don't want them to look good.

01:04:01.200 Yeah.

01:04:01.720 With or without, but you don't want the extra spice. 0.95

01:04:05.360 It's like how they shit on people like Harry Styles, um, for, I mean, I know people, 0.97

01:04:10.100 whatever I'm, I was going to get into the people. 0.99

01:04:13.200 I'm not going to rewind, but people who like shit on him for like painting his nails or 0.99

01:04:18.600 doing whatever and they call him gay or the way that he dresses, but it's, but how are 0.99

01:04:23.640 women responding? 0.99

01:04:24.540 Cause you know, that's the, it, I once made a video, like one of my first videos to ever

01:04:30.920 go viral about, um, gym bros.

01:04:33.460 Um, I was like, I'm not even going to get into the nuance of the male and female gays 0.99

01:04:37.580 because like these lunk heads are not smart enough to have that conversation with me. 0.94

01:04:41.780 But someone had commented on my video and they said a good, um, like example of the male 0.87

01:04:47.700 female gaze is like Thor. 1.00

01:04:49.500 The superhero is the male gaze where Loki is the female gaze.

01:04:53.420 So it's like brawn and strength and bravery and courage is like what's considered manly

01:05:00.580 and then to women, what's considered attractive to them is being smart, being funny, being 0.64

01:05:06.400 witty, like, yeah.

01:05:07.840 And not that Loki's ugly, but I'm just saying like their strengths that are highlighted are

01:05:12.180 very different.

01:05:13.200 Very different.

01:05:13.780 Thor is like topless arms out muscles all the time.

01:05:16.560 Loki's fully covered head to toe, like all the time, neck to ankle.

01:05:20.080 You know, my female gaze is fat Thor. 1.00

01:05:23.520 Ooh.

01:05:24.800 A lot of girls liked that. 1.00

01:05:26.540 Loved fat Thor.

01:05:27.400 A lot of them, they were into that.

01:05:29.720 Oh my God.

01:05:30.600 And the same dudes are always like, they say that they want a dad bod because it makes them

01:05:34.480 feel good about themselves. 0.71

01:05:35.980 Or maybe all of you are just rancid.

01:05:37.940 I was literally thinking like, are women like attracted, like beauty is subjective, obviously.

01:05:42.940 So some women genuinely aren't attracted to men who are like super in shape and that's

01:05:46.260 fine.

01:05:47.100 But some women, they could find you attractive. 1.00

01:05:50.080 But then you open your mouth and then they're like, it ruins it.

01:05:53.540 Never mind. 0.97

01:05:54.580 Like you open your fat gob and they're like, oh my God, get out of here. 1.00

01:05:58.440 Get out of my face. 1.00

01:05:59.540 And I was like, that's, you ruin it for yourself.

01:06:01.780 So now women will go after men who don't look like they're like chiseled or whatever it 0.90

01:06:07.100 is.

01:06:07.440 Because nine times out of 10, they had to develop a personality on like, yeah, yeah. 0.94

01:06:11.640 Their personality revolves around having like big, like Hercules titties. 0.88

01:06:15.020 Same. 0.86

01:06:15.460 It's not easy being buff, but you know, somebody's got to do it.

01:06:22.600 You're telling me.

01:06:23.000 Yeah.

01:06:23.360 I made that video about pap smears and the men lost their mind, man.

01:06:26.980 I literally just said, I want to be strong.

01:06:28.780 And then they're like, you think you're stronger than me?

01:06:31.480 Like a true caveman.

01:06:32.560 But that's my, you know, one of my favorite things that people say about me in particular

01:06:37.720 is they're like, oh, you're lazy, blah, blah, blah.

01:06:41.180 And I'm like, you couldn't do what I do in a day.

01:06:44.860 Never.

01:06:44.980 You couldn't be me.

01:06:45.880 You couldn't live my life.

01:06:47.180 Never.

01:06:48.100 You could literally never.

01:06:49.760 No.

01:06:50.160 You know?

01:06:50.640 Never in a million years.

01:06:52.680 It's just, it's wild.

01:06:53.720 It's cute to play pretend though.

01:06:54.960 Yes.

01:06:55.300 It is.

01:06:56.060 I like to play pretend.

01:06:57.040 And also this like a lazy mindset thing is such a gross capitalist mindset.

01:07:03.200 Like you have to, you have to be on, you have to be, you have to be working, you have

01:07:06.660 to be like, okay, Gary Vee, relax.

01:07:09.280 Jesus Christ.

01:07:10.740 You know what I mean?

01:07:11.500 Like we're not, we're not like in this, like go, go, go.

01:07:15.600 Like literally jumping out of a green army plane.

01:07:17.820 Go, go.

01:07:18.440 Like that's how they think their life is.

01:07:19.900 Yeah.

01:07:20.240 When really it's getting in there like Hyundai and driving to Sam's Club and working.

01:07:24.300 And it's like, okay.

01:07:25.360 The Hyundai is so real.

01:07:26.360 So with the spoiler on the back of it.

01:07:28.420 Yeah.

01:07:28.560 Literally.

01:07:29.120 And it's like, it's like that dingy gold color.

01:07:31.360 Yeah.

01:07:31.900 And then they go sell cell phones in a Sam's Club and they're like, me, that's me on my

01:07:36.780 grind.

01:07:37.340 Yeah. 1.00

01:07:37.980 Worry about your own bag, bitch. 1.00

01:07:39.920 That's why I'm like, okay, well, nothing you say is ever going to make them happy. 1.00

01:07:44.160 So at this point, like just make fun of them.

01:07:46.320 Yeah.

01:07:46.740 It works.

01:07:47.740 Clearly.

01:07:48.760 You and I are living proof.

01:07:50.180 Absolutely.

01:07:50.740 I love it.

01:07:51.700 Okay.

01:07:52.300 So to wrap up this episode, what do you want people to know about?

01:07:56.800 Just existing on the internet in general, as someone who does not adhere to like those

01:08:02.020 racist beauty standards.

01:08:04.280 Yeah.

01:08:04.920 In general.

01:08:05.600 And then also just existing in general life.

01:08:08.320 Like, what do you want people to know or believe or hold close to them? 0.97

01:08:10.740 I mean, I think that us fat bitches are proof that you can literally be who you want to 1.00

01:08:18.520 be and be happy and have a successful full life, despite what people think or say. 0.98

01:08:25.140 Absolutely.

01:08:25.620 I mean, we've had so many examples over and over.

01:08:30.140 And I think that TikTok has been such a blessing for me, as gay as it sounds, because I've met

01:08:35.300 like so many people like you and Dylan and so many people that literally are just existing

01:08:41.120 and being themselves and taking up the space that was taken from them for so long that they,

01:08:46.860 that now we have like people that are making all of us just feel happy and seen in a way

01:08:55.840 that we never had.

01:08:56.960 So anybody who doesn't like you or, or thinks otherwise, because they don't matter.

01:09:03.080 Like at the end of the day, they don't matter.

01:09:05.540 They don't matter at all.

01:09:07.080 They're not going to keep you from a happy life or like love or success, anything that

01:09:13.040 you want, like it's not up to them.

01:09:14.740 It's not.

01:09:15.260 It's up to you.

01:09:15.780 It's not.

01:09:16.260 And the amount of times that I was living my life to make other people happy and you're

01:09:22.560 just left by yourself for what?

01:09:25.560 No, it's not worth it.

01:09:27.120 So prioritize yourself and your happiness and what that looks like to you.

01:09:31.640 And if people actually with you, then they're going to with you. 0.99

01:09:34.520 And then you'll be a super hot, successful, rich, bad bitch like Tess Holliday. 1.00

01:09:39.580 Period. 1.00

01:09:40.540 She's living well and sleeping well. 1.00

01:09:42.800 I promise you that bitch. 1.00

01:09:44.160 Yeah. 1.00

01:09:44.580 Fat, problematic queen. 1.00

01:09:47.500 Thank you so much, Tess, for coming today. 0.96

01:09:51.620 I adore you.

01:09:52.460 Thank you.

01:09:52.840 I love you so much.

01:09:53.760 I love you the most forever.

01:09:55.620 For those of you who do not already follow Tess Holliday, please go and follow her.

01:09:59.960 Where can they find you?

01:10:01.640 Just at Tess Holliday with two L's everywhere. 0.99

01:10:04.900 On everything and everywhere, go follow Tess immediately.

01:10:08.380 Do you have anything? 1.00

01:10:08.820 I'm going nowhere, bitch. 1.00

01:10:10.340 Period. 0.99

01:10:10.820 Do you have anything exciting coming up that you want to talk about?

01:10:13.920 I have so many exciting things coming up.

01:10:15.980 And I hate being that person.

01:10:18.180 I can't talk about any of them.

01:10:19.480 But off this, I can.

01:10:21.100 Oh, perfect.

01:10:21.860 People will be seeing a lot of me as per usual.

01:10:24.140 Well, go follow Tess and then you'll be updated like me.

01:10:27.060 Period.

01:10:27.800 Thank you, everyone, for joining us on this episode of The Comment Section Show.

01:10:31.000 Please make sure you guys go follow Tess.

01:10:33.040 And make sure that you tune in to Spotify.

01:10:35.020 New episodes drop every week.

01:10:36.840 I'll see you next week.

01:10:37.580 Bye.

01:10:37.800 We'll be right back.

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