The Comment Section with Drew Afualo - THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO PISSING OFF MEN Ft. Kyle Prue

00:00:00.000 because i was like i gotta get a look at this dude i was like it's like evil hosier like he 0.95

00:00:04.100 looks like if hosier fucking hated women yeah yeah yeah if hosier made the opposite type of music 0.95

00:00:09.780 hosier's like i'll crawl across the earth for you this guy's like if she steps foot in a club 1.00

00:00:14.780 i'm killing myself and it's on you i'm blaming you 0.91

00:00:18.260 hey everyone and welcome back to another episode of the comment section show starring me your fave

00:00:28.660 everybody knows me who cares about me on to the guest today we have the iconic the hilarious

00:00:33.840 the legendary kyle prue hello thank you thank you for having me welcome to the show first time long

00:00:40.860 time i know look at us we're twins i know literally twin yeah sometimes i scroll to your videos i can't

00:00:46.540 tell if it's you or me real spider-man yeah yeah yeah to make sure how are you i'm doing good i'm

00:00:55.240 happy to have you i'm excited to be i'm excited to maximize our joint slay

00:00:59.060 to really lean into it yeah there's going to be some alarms going off on some sections of the

00:01:05.000 internet telling you i'm counting on it yeah this is a code red for them honestly defcon three yeah

00:01:11.840 whatever the worst one is congress is having an emergency meeting as we speak yeah and the

00:01:16.820 president went underground just for the safety of everybody involved yeah he's in that little

00:01:21.720 elevator right now imagine that we fucking did save well first off obviously huge fan of you 0.89

00:01:28.740 and your work huge fan as well likewise i feel like you and i have a very vested interest a common 0.66

00:01:33.840 interest if you will yes a hyper fixation yeah an extreme hyper fixation the two of us very profitable

00:01:42.120 hyper fixation hey we're all here is what it is but i'm so curious about your your lore before uh tiktok

00:01:49.300 so i know you were telling me offline you're originally from florida yes bummer yeah sorry

00:01:53.620 it's why like everyone's like you have a vaguely sort of amphibious vibe i'm like that's

00:01:59.140 yeah i'm from well amphibian is the only thing they associate with florida i think i call that a win

00:02:03.800 yeah yeah yeah true yeah yeah if they talk about the governor then i'm like i don't know you're like

00:02:08.300 oh well actually i'm not from florida yeah yeah um but i'm still curious what you were doing

00:02:12.240 before tiktok uh yeah i've had a very sort of yeah strange you know rise to whatever this is

00:02:19.080 yeah i feel the same honestly i was like a kid author i was like a 16 year old like fantasy author

00:02:24.800 really yeah like i don't know if you've seen that thing going around like a thousand books a year kid

00:02:29.600 like it's this kid who read a thousand books and he's like holding the sign that says i read a thousand

00:02:33.540 books yeah very much kind of my vibe really growing up yeah yeah and so i like put out these fantasy

00:02:39.340 books and i like toured around with them for like a few years wow i went to like every middle school

00:02:45.120 in the country and i was like you gotta learn to read and they were like we hate you they were like 0.72

00:02:51.640 okay it was like like 6 30 a.m um and uh then i uh i like i was thinking like okay i'll just i guess

00:02:59.520 i'll just do this but i was worried about like going from like being a high schooler to just being an

00:03:05.240 adult like i was 18 i had never had alcohol like i needed i needed to learn some things yeah totally

00:03:10.620 and um i didn't know where to get it uh and so i was like i'm gonna go to college so i went to college

00:03:16.380 uh for acting and poetry period yeah look at you i i wanted to be the most unemployable

00:03:21.840 who ever lived i wanted to make it really hard to find a job yeah yeah yeah yeah it doesn't look

00:03:29.260 great on a resume um when i told my parents i picked up a minor they were like sales and i was

00:03:35.260 like not better actually one step better poetry i was like have you heard of enjambment uh it's where

00:03:42.100 they decide to break in the lines you're gonna love this all of it's about you by the way yeah

00:03:47.800 and how we grew up but so uh i like yeah went to school for acting and then i graduated in 2020

00:03:54.080 best year to graduate uh real open into any profession possibilities endless yeah it was

00:04:00.900 like a month before graduation they were like you're good actually you can just go home

00:04:04.200 they like laminated my diploma and just handed it to me like i'll send it to you yeah they're

00:04:09.160 like don't touch anything on your way out um and so uh i like went and i uh i like was doing this

00:04:17.820 like this horror movie down in florida um which was yeah uh awesome to do a pandemic horror movie

00:04:24.820 in florida god i can't even imagine yeah yeah was it a really lonely set i feel like they were called

00:04:29.800 one person at a time yeah yeah pretty much like you're like wearing a mask in a room and everyone

00:04:34.640 else is in a different room with like a monitor and then you're like getting killed and then they're

00:04:39.020 like go home yeah to your empty house again then like yeah like tiktok became just sort of a thing

00:04:45.060 like when i was in college i was like i'll either starve to death or i will it'll work out right and

00:04:52.320 uh like most actors right like all of them yeah but this was like yeah like tiktok just sort of you

00:04:57.260 know i feel like everyone says the exact same thing it just kind of happened yeah like it's like i posted

00:05:01.180 one video and you know blew up and now here i am then i got a disorder from it like now i can't read

00:05:07.520 yeah um so yeah i like sort of just started like kind of like leaning full scale into content a little bit

00:05:12.700 more and sort of like pairing that with kind of like my acting and writing stuff and um

00:05:16.960 and the rest is history it's rock and roll yeah yeah yeah if you will everything's been awesome

00:05:22.900 since then and always will be forever it's cool yeah we're good now yeah that's so interesting i mean

00:05:30.020 like when you started posting on on tiktok because obviously i'm like yeah i've been right

00:05:34.180 moots for a while right obviously when i first found your content it was all the how to piss 0.67

00:05:38.860 men off yeah yeah yeah and um that's funny because when people ask me like what my video

00:05:43.160 was it was like my very first video to ever go viral was me talking about very specific red flags

00:05:48.300 and men but i honestly think the two of us stitched that same exact video and kind of rose at the same

00:05:53.340 time which is so funny because we i mean obviously it's hard to tell the difference between us physically

00:05:57.240 right right right obviously it's hard physically we look so much alike people who are watching this

00:06:01.000 they're like that's a real game of tennis who's the host they're so confused yeah i genuinely feel

00:06:08.700 like we both stitched the same video and that was like my first video to ever like really kind of

00:06:12.560 start rolling but i'm curious how you fell into the uh talking about men specifically like yeah

00:06:17.240 before that i was doing um i had been getting death threats from furries uh oh so i was reviewing

00:06:21.980 those uh so it'd be just like some high schooler barking at me and i'd be like that's why furries

00:06:27.920 specifically i've made you kick that high i evidently and by the way nothing but respect

00:06:32.900 for you and your people uh in your culture we made peace uh long ago okay that's good a treaty's

00:06:39.080 been put in place yeah yeah yeah it's like bark bark bark well i guess it had kind of started in

00:06:45.760 person a little bit um when i like moved to la i started going to all these house parties yeah because

00:06:53.820 i was like i'm from a place where nobody lives and and now i'm in a place where like

00:06:57.520 everybody's here it's all happening yeah it's like the the la experience yeah in the beginning

00:07:02.620 yeah like the first few weeks you're just going to like the worst parties you've ever been to

00:07:06.540 with the worst people we've ever met and they're all like it's just all men who are just there to 1.00

00:07:10.720 talk about themselves to each other and like i'd be talking to these like la transplant like film

00:07:18.660 bros oh man like just graduated like out here to you know and like i knew what they wanted from me

00:07:24.340 they all wanted me to be like this is the best idea for a horror movie i've ever heard

00:07:28.500 like you are white jordan peele and and i'm gonna be the one to tell you that i don't know if everyone's

00:07:36.500 anyone's ever said this yeah i'm like oh my god you're a genius i'm like it's a social commentary but

00:07:41.080 it's scary um and you're the first one to to trip upon that um and my mom has always said this thing

00:07:49.480 which is a little a little reductive but uh it was uh women want to feel adored men want to feel

00:07:56.420 important period and it was always this thing where i was like you want me so badly to like make you

00:08:01.560 feel important but i couldn't bring myself to do it because i was like if i give you this yeah you 0.96

00:08:08.700 will go ruin all your hinge dates for the rest of your fucking life who knows where who you'll terrorize 0.99

00:08:14.820 if i tell you great idea you're gonna go try this on some poor woman who is just like white 1.00

00:08:21.400 knuckling her way through the los angeles dating scene he's gonna he's gonna like recap it like

00:08:26.420 live off it for the next five years yeah yeah so i just kind of started just slowly and and i

00:08:32.380 experimenting just slowly experimenting and it's always through questions i feel like you never want

00:08:36.720 to hit someone with like a real deal like totally straight like sniper shot yeah because if you give

00:08:43.060 them the question they'll figure out how to hurt themselves yeah totally do you remember the first

00:08:47.900 one you ever did the first one i ever did on tiktok like the first one that really blew up was i said

00:08:53.060 just tell a man that you he seems like he gives off the vibe that when he sleeps he goes like

00:08:58.640 if you were a cartoon yeah yeah yeah sleep like if you were a cartoon and and also i'm not sure you're

00:09:06.600 not um and the video got the video got like five million views and someone was like can you give

00:09:12.780 me more of these to use on my friend's boyfriend okay and i was like yeah i got you and what about

00:09:18.780 in person do you remember like the first time really being like oh that works like yeah that

00:09:23.560 really works i like i vaguely remember it but i remember being like pretty drunk outside of a bar

00:09:28.960 yeah and um this guy came up to me and my friends and i was like trying to like get just trying to

00:09:35.080 get in the uber yeah it's like 45 year old guy coming over and he was like oh like you guys went

00:09:39.600 to michigan and we're like yeah yeah he's like dude i love going to michigan like i love tailgating

00:09:44.140 he's like all he's like he's like all these college students you know like and like instantly going in a

00:09:49.580 really creepy direction he's like all the all the women there like trust me like they find me really

00:09:54.840 funny and i like like my like drunk brain clicked off and i like clicked into kill mode and i was

00:10:00.380 like do you ever wonder if they're laughing at you and he just like like gasped and i like got sober

00:10:07.960 real quick yeah and i was like where am i like uh that was kind of the moment where i was like oh

00:10:13.640 this is something yeah there's something here for you um yeah a calling if you will my friends were

00:10:18.600 very much trying to save it they were like oh no no and i was oh he's just like i was like i was

00:10:23.100 like women your age don't like you like they were like get the uber kyle i was like i want to talk

00:10:27.580 to him yeah and then you know i kind of started the moving on to the internet yeah sort of you know

00:10:33.020 power to the people you're giving back yeah yeah coming from you i think it's it's really extra

00:10:39.440 powerful like when they see that kind of content coming from someone like you because obviously for 0.97

00:10:43.700 me uh the initial like neanderthal reaction is like whoa of course you're gonna fucking say that 1.00

00:10:48.760 you're a fat ugly bitch yeah but when they hear from you they're like how could you they're like 1.00

00:10:52.960 you had all the keys to the kingdom you turned on us yeah benedict arnold they're like you all this 1.00

00:10:58.760 privilege and for what like it's so funny like uh i think a big part of it too has been like if

00:11:05.120 someone says something to me that like uh like i'm like oh like i've gone to a very academic place

00:11:12.180 with it yeah where someone's like you don't have a peanut allergy and i'm like no they're like you do

00:11:17.140 really give that vibe and i'm like you really give the vibe of someone with a peanut allergy that hurt my

00:11:20.940 feelings so yeah they'll definitely hurt a lesser man right totally i'm like i consider myself healed

00:11:26.160 however ouch um you're absolutely correct like i think a lot of the talking points you know like

00:11:33.320 whatever you want to call them uh the incels the you know they have like a script that they practice

00:11:39.580 all day long on twitch and they're like they're just drilling ben shapiro videos and um yeah when

00:11:47.400 someone like me does it they're like they're like you're white knighting europe pick me and i'm like

00:11:51.820 and i get picked and you don't yeah yeah yeah yeah i've been loved unfortunately for you uh i think

00:12:00.760 your your series has been my favorite because they i love a niche joke yeah like i love a very specific

00:12:07.100 insult i think those are and i and i've said that i'm sure you've said this or gotten these two because

00:12:11.900 sometimes when i like make fun of dudes or whatever they'll be like oh i can't believe you didn't

00:12:16.180 mention this or i can't believe you didn't mention this and they're just very obvious physical

00:12:19.660 characteristics that they have and i was like so you guys are thinking short term and it's you got

00:12:23.660 to think long game and you know about that yeah i was like you gotta bury your so far deep in that

00:12:29.180 psyche that he's gonna think about me for the rest of his life in a horrible way he's not gonna have

00:12:33.320 that same hairline in a few months exactly like if that's what you're going like he's aware he lives

00:12:37.860 in his body yeah exactly he looks at it more than anybody yeah he wakes up as him yeah

00:12:43.820 i've even told people i'm like sometimes i'll say that people's hair is thinning and i can't really

00:12:49.280 tell if it is but they get mad immediately yeah and that's because he's thinking about it all the

00:12:53.520 time and i said and now i'm living up here forever the greatest insult possible is the one that you

00:13:00.640 drop and it makes someone realize something they were not aware of because you know like people spend

00:13:07.520 all day like fortifying themselves they're like she's gonna talk about my jawline you know and then 0.89

00:13:13.380 you're like very very slender wrists and he's like wait oh my god fuck yeah i think one of the 0.89

00:13:21.940 meanest ones i've ever said to someone that like was a big video for me at the time was like do you 0.97

00:13:27.720 know a lot about steroids i don't know you tell me about performance enhancing drugs yeah uh but a lot

00:13:36.600 of my performance has not been enhanced much at all i don't know if you can tell but my build one pull up 0.89

00:13:41.160 for now you know a lot of gym bros when they abuse that shit they get what's called that guy now you 0.87

00:13:49.040 know and so like some people are born with it that's not who i'm talking about anyways it was like this 0.98

00:13:52.960 horrible gym bro and he made this awful fucking video and so i stitched it and he had a lot of like 0.99

00:13:58.900 obviously shirtless vids of course gotta show off the bod right and um he had gyno like bad yeah like 0.99

00:14:05.400 really bad but his nipples like his areolas were just huge yeah right and so like on top of having 0.96

00:14:12.340 gyno which makes it look even bigger and so i said like what's going on with your nipples dude like 0.99

00:14:17.360 was like they look raw and i literally was like village wet nurse like what's going on with you 0.99

00:14:23.320 that insult like i'm not kidding it spun him out so fucking bad he like made like 15 videos about me 0.98

00:14:31.860 like he was like i've always been insecure you know what like talking about someone's nipple size 0.99

00:14:36.780 is not fucking cool he's going to college yeah he went back to school yeah like i fucked him up so 0.99

00:14:42.080 bad he became a monk he started working on himself that fucked him up so bad and it's because he had 0.99

00:14:47.720 never been told that before yeah but he had always thought about that yeah and so i was like

00:14:52.980 like you said like the one it's like it it either develops a new insecurity that they've never had

00:14:57.720 or it brings up something that he thought nobody could notice but he hates it and it's always this 0.80

00:15:02.680 thing they're always like it i feel like like talk shit get hit is like a like a law of the universe 0.76

00:15:08.000 online you know what i mean and so like all these guys are always like doing all this like you know 0.93

00:15:13.140 like misogynistic like horrible like problematic ranting yeah and then you come in with something

00:15:17.600 just very tactical clear uh and they're like this is not how we do things here on my corner of the

00:15:26.380 internet all of a sudden yeah yeah yeah we got a moral check everybody we swat people and we we

00:15:32.540 attack minorities yeah it doesn't it's not like an uphill system yeah they're like that's not really 1.00

00:15:38.460 how it's worked for me in the past yeah yeah which is like yeah they're like people at my high school

00:15:43.860 loved this loved my whole thing they literally told me that i was so funny i could do it for a living

00:15:50.340 yeah yeah yeah and i'm like yeah here i am on the national stage

00:15:53.260 it's like the the rules just change yeah like as soon as you step in the rules yeah my like favorite

00:16:01.520 one that i have forever is um because i wanted to like think of like an actual like an actionable

00:16:08.320 solution to something yeah um i said if you get cat called and you feel safe enough to do so

00:16:14.620 yeah but i'm sorry i don't have any change yeah literally um because to build up in your mind

00:16:20.620 i assume never done it not much of an interactions person but to build someone someone to something up

00:16:26.660 in your mind you're like i'm a cool guy yeah like i can hit on a person who's like moving who's like

00:16:31.600 in in a moving target yeah and you say to them like i'm sorry i don't have like like you are of

00:16:38.260 course begging for money and the switch that they have to make is like it's it's all the distance

00:16:44.020 of self-perception that exists like top to bottom yeah totally i've made videos in the past telling

00:16:49.580 people how to like ward that off uh just for safety reasons like because i used to like freak the

00:16:53.980 fuck out or be really mean and like obviously uh people are insane so you can't really trust that

00:16:59.100 you'll be safe especially if you're alone so i've told people before like uh just to say what like 0.99

00:17:04.100 three times like just really loud like what like you didn't hear them and then make them keep 0.92

00:17:08.500 repeating it because like when they say the most graphic shit and then the more times they say it 0.97

00:17:13.160 the less confident like they start to do a cost benefit yeah they're kind of like oh 0.98

00:17:17.640 well now that everyone's looking at me and everyone can hear me i don't really want to say it anymore

00:17:21.500 um which is like almost like a smoke bomb and you could just run away yeah um but on that video i posted

00:17:27.280 someone actually commented and said something i love to do is if they approach me especially if

00:17:33.060 they're in groups yeah um but even if they're alone she's like i'll look at them and i'll be like

00:17:37.620 you've had a lot of women die in your family huh and i was like that's so funny that's a great one

00:17:42.780 that's get witchy yeah yeah you've had a lot of women die in your family huh i can tell yeah

00:17:48.360 she said she does that and i was like he's like he's like it wasn't my fault 0.97

00:17:52.960 she's like the color that drains from their face immediately i'm like damn don't scare the

00:17:59.320 you're like oh yeah start speaking in tongues yeah yeah levitating you're like uh aries huh

00:18:06.100 i was like that's a good one yeah i feel like your series is so helpful too because

00:18:11.920 there are it's almost like a like you said it's very tactical but it's also a way for women to 1.00

00:18:18.240 like stand up for themselves that especially women who don't feel confrontational totally or like they

00:18:23.880 don't feel like strong enough to be like i don't like when you talk to me like that or whatever you

00:18:27.900 know what i mean um i think the methods that you use are really helpful for people in those

00:18:32.960 situations that's kind of the goal you know i think like i remember like yeah like talking to somebody

00:18:37.560 like at like an event and she was like i like really appreciate the work you've done i was like

00:18:41.580 oh yeah and she was like oh yeah and i was like uh and she was like no like i like this helps me

00:18:48.040 yeah like have something in my back pocket because i think like men are going home and like running

00:18:53.340 their scripts you know what i mean like they're they're drilling yeah yeah yeah they're like

00:18:57.640 they're listening to the podcast it's always good to be able to like swerve hard yeah you know and hit

00:19:04.260 them with something that they are like really not expecting yeah because otherwise they'll just like

00:19:08.240 just steamroll you know every time yeah it's funny too because i was talking to one of my friends

00:19:13.960 we were going to an event and she was telling me about a guy and she was just basically telling me he

00:19:19.420 steamrolls her in every conversation and like she was saying he'll ask me questions so that i

00:19:23.660 can prop him up for the next thing you know what i mean it's like you don't even need me for this

00:19:27.740 conversation yeah so he just talks at her for however long holds her hostage for however long

00:19:32.060 and then make sure to take a picture with her and then bounces because he just wants to be able to tell 0.91

00:19:36.440 people he saw her and so when we were talking about it she was like yeah every fucking time like i see 0.90

00:19:41.540 him at every event it's so fucking annoying and i was telling her i was like you don't have to stand 0.99

00:19:45.520 there and listen to him like yeah you really don't like if you're just like okay well nice to see you 0.62

00:19:50.000 and just turn your back like yeah what's he gonna do you know she's like i know huh and like we were 0.65

00:19:54.100 kind of laughing about it we go to the event that's the first person that she sees and he does the same 0.97

00:19:59.340 shit comes up to her steamrolls her like he's trying to talk to her but then he's like selfie yeah 0.91

00:20:04.040 when we went home she was telling me she goes oh my god i didn't even tell you like when when he came up 0.99

00:20:10.560 and talked to me he asked me a question i started answering it he cut me off to like tell his story

00:20:15.660 yeah um and then she was like you know you do that a lot you do that to me a lot yeah and then

00:20:20.680 he was like oh like he literally had no idea what to say and he's what do you mean and she goes

00:20:24.680 you ask me questions and then you interrupt me so you can talk like why do you ask me the question 0.99

00:20:29.120 if you don't want to hear my answer i was like period bitch fucking tell him he like blue screened 1.00

00:20:34.560 like the way he rebooted immediately yeah all his like pre-selected dialogue options just went 0.99

00:20:39.560 up in smoke he's like fuck i'm not prepared for this he was like oh um i'm sorry and she was like 0.97

00:20:46.480 it's fine it's just like don't talk to me if you don't want to hear what i have to say 0.99

00:20:49.800 and then i was like you better work bitch and she's like yeah so then i was like all right well see ya 1.00

00:20:54.680 and she before she left she told me she's like yeah you should work on that yeah you should probably 0.96

00:20:58.300 you could do this in the mirror i don't have to be a part of it i think also that a lot of like

00:21:04.900 a lot of men depend on like uh politeness as like a like social construct that like women are 0.99

00:21:13.760 conditioned and it's like baked into them yeah and i i feel like number one like advocacy is to drop

00:21:20.200 like politeness altogether you and me both yeah yeah yeah you and me both i don't have to sell you

00:21:25.620 on this one no i'm with you yeah uh like it's such like a a privilege and system of power thing

00:21:31.560 to do to be totally be polite you know it's like we can do anything we want to do and you have to be

00:21:36.760 polite and that's like where all these hurt feelings come from it's like it's like drew body shamed me

00:21:42.780 it's like and you were doing what when it happened yeah it just exists yeah yeah yeah no that's not

00:21:48.120 i was like i was too you know yeah it's always like well she i'm like no i don't hit first but i do hit

00:21:54.900 back yeah so that's and i hit once my hitting is not very it's not really one you can come back

00:22:01.280 with but that's i've told people before because they're like well if you're okay talking about

00:22:04.700 what people look like then i should be able to comment on what you look like that never stops 0.90

00:22:08.880 you regardless you're gonna do that even if i was like just making fucking cooking content you 0.98

00:22:14.360 would still be content what i look like yeah it doesn't matter well yeah go ahead go ahead but also 0.97

00:22:18.660 like swing straight and clean don't miss you're only getting one i've told people i'm like i

00:22:25.920 highly encourage you to comment what i look like i honestly get quite bored yeah uh pretty frequently

00:22:30.200 yeah yeah there's one dude i think recently that i've been that's been getting sent to me a lot and

00:22:34.180 even my sister yesterday asked me she's like hey are you gonna uh have you heard about this guy

00:22:38.600 and i bet you know who i'm talking about how alpha dan hasn't made it to my algorithm

00:22:42.280 my algorithm is like seven things you did not know about spongebob and i'm like 0.59

00:22:47.880 no mine too it's funny my for you page thank god is not plagued with that shit my mentions another 0.89

00:22:53.600 story yeah yeah completely different story uh but anyways there's one guy that's been recently like 0.77

00:22:58.540 within the last week or two has been getting sent to me a lot and i was telling her i was like i'm

00:23:02.760 thinking about it but like i'm bored like yeah i have a bunch of insults in my head but they're like 0.52

00:23:06.980 because they're all doing the same shit and they're all inspired by the same people i'm like are you not 0.98

00:23:11.000 tired of this fucking like this stick you're you're doing like the like tour of the zoo you know 0.99

00:23:17.620 what i mean like you've done it 600 fucking times and it doesn't even sound like you're into it yeah 0.99

00:23:22.580 like what are we doing at this point yeah they're like if she and you're like goes the club yeah you 0.97

00:23:28.220 know like the way i can like almost ad-lib finish the sentence every time it's at what point like you 0.98

00:23:34.580 said do you get tired because do you even believe in this shit like there's some people where i'm like 0.99

00:23:38.820 i don't even think you believe in this shit i think you just like having any sort of attention 0.99

00:23:44.380 even if it's infamy like yeah and i feel so like conflicted about it because i'm like i can only 0.99

00:23:51.100 talk about this shit for so long yeah the same shit like over and over and over again because 0.89

00:23:55.440 sometimes now people are like how do you pick people now and i'm like only if i have a good joke 0.99

00:23:59.440 yeah like if i got a banger joke i'm like yeah yeah i'm gonna stitch that guy there was a guy a few

00:24:03.920 years ago who i like went after yeah who was like some podcast bro you know yeah aren't they always

00:24:09.680 he was doing this like really misogynistic thing and then he like came out and was like it was a 0.98

00:24:13.220 social experiment and i was like then be ready to collect some motherfucking data because 0.91

00:24:17.080 isn't it always yeah and i made a video about him and he hit me up and was like go on the podcast 0.92

00:24:23.160 like come on the podcast really and i i made a video about the fact that he had offered me to come

00:24:28.200 on the podcast and everyone was like you better go like you better go you better get him and i thought

00:24:33.320 about it and i was like i do not want to prop this guy up yeah like i do not want to make this guy

00:24:37.540 more famous i thought about that yeah and i was like i will give this guy six weeks yeah and if

00:24:41.900 he doesn't self-explode and get canceled then i'll go on his podcast and i'll talk to him yeah five

00:24:46.500 weeks later that guy gets arrested for the thing that you would think that a guy like that would get 0.73

00:24:51.540 arrested for oh my fucking god and i was like well i i assume you're not booking guests 0.98

00:24:56.940 i assume that you can't stream from the prison yard let me know if i'm wrong yeah i mean like 0.98

00:25:04.740 some some people get that deal you know like the jordan belfort prison not this guy i don't think

00:25:11.000 you're going where he i don't think his views were high enough that's so real honestly i i've gotten 0.95

00:25:17.300 not nearly as many podcast invites as you may think uh from men who fucking hate me and for obvious 0.77

00:25:23.900 reasons like they don't they actually don't want to have that conversation with me one-on-one um but 0.51

00:25:29.100 also i feel so strongly about that because sometimes they're like well bring me on your show so i can

00:25:34.840 why would i do that yeah you want me to give you attention and followers and clicks oh no i'm not 0.98

00:25:40.740 doing that yeah i was like you want to platform your like bigoted messaging get your own fucking show 0.97

00:25:45.920 yeah i did yeah so like get your own also like like they're gonna come here and like sit in the 0.93

00:25:53.240 room yeah sit in the green room have a little drink and like you know like like talk to everybody

00:25:58.360 like exactly hey uh i'm the i'm the misogynist from uh a red pill right brain uh ontario the wait is

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00:27:05.020 you're familiar yeah that like really violent toxic like masculinity mindset of like oh i'm gonna prove

00:27:13.500 you wrong yeah i don't have that like i don't need to prove anything to anyone yeah because i know i'm 0.84

00:27:19.680 smarter than you and so do you and that's why you don't want to do this shit with me on your own 0.86

00:27:24.340 platform like you would rather me bring you in on my show so you can have like it just makes no sense 0.99

00:27:29.880 so that's why i'm like i don't have to prove that i'm better than you yeah because i am and that's

00:27:34.980 just obvious and so like it doesn't bother me because then they're like oh well you're just a 0.97

00:27:38.920 fucking chicken yeah okay like that doesn't move me yeah i don't get motivated by that because i'm 0.97

00:27:44.120 not a neanderthal so it doesn't move me it's very like similar to kind of like the andrew tate thing 0.98

00:27:48.740 where like i'm sure you got this but like i got like millions of comments being like you got to talk

00:27:52.820 about andrew tate and i was like that's the one guy who i do not want to talk about yeah because like

00:27:57.940 that's not a dude who i think he's not even in america for but then uh i think i saw your video

00:28:04.840 on this i'll like greta thunberg like called his dick little and he got so mad that he doxxed 0.87

00:28:10.040 himself and got sent to prison like and he got got yeah like hello and i was like queen and that's

00:28:16.580 hilarious that's the funniest thing that could have happened that's so funny yeah and i i did i made a

00:28:21.160 video laughing about it yeah and it's so funny too because even with him like before any of before he even

00:28:27.660 like had any sort of presence on tiktok like i had made a couple videos about him but i had no

00:28:32.480 idea who the fuck he was i was just like talking shit about him and then i think at overall i had 0.97

00:28:37.360 made like maybe three on him over the course of like two years and then when all this shit happened 0.99

00:28:42.420 and he blew up uh and i was constantly getting sent shit just like you yeah i was like i'm not talking 0.98

00:28:47.320 about this guy anymore like he's literally like literally an assaulter like he's literally a predator 0.83

00:28:51.800 i'm not platforming that kind of messaging anymore i'm over him and that's someone who i feel like 0.99

00:28:56.000 i was like this is literally a ouija board like someone opening that portal and letting his ass 0.93

00:29:01.700 in here you guys have plagued the internet with him so let's just pretend he's dead yeah uh and hope 0.97

00:29:06.880 that he goes away because that's what i'm gonna do yeah and especially with like people like that

00:29:11.900 it's like i do not want to risk some 12 year old exactly seeing me and being like oh this soy boy's

00:29:17.940 talking about this you know and like clicking and being like now i love him you know like that's me

00:29:22.880 man that's me in every coffee that's their favorite thing to call men who are like respectful

00:29:29.640 yeah yeah yeah it's like soy boy yeah they're like soy boy i'm like it's a good milk alternative

00:29:34.640 and and and is there a problem i was gonna ask my next question was gonna be about hate like i was

00:29:42.040 do you get a lot of hate from him um it's petered off i mean like here's what i'll say like uh they

00:29:47.760 don't come for me like they come for like people like women you know like i think like uh it's more

00:29:52.480 of a no you don't get it yeah or it's more like i think like early in the days of how to piss off 0.70

00:29:57.360 men people would hit me with like criticism and i would immediately like lean into it yeah i wanted

00:30:01.740 to like exhaust the talking points yeah so people were like you're a pick me and i was like i love

00:30:07.120 being a pick me like it's the best and like uh yeah people were like you're like you're like white 0.81

00:30:13.120 knighting like you're like trying to like save women and i'm like i'm giving women weapons and

00:30:17.720 they're gonna save themselves like yo i don't know what point i'm saving anyone i'm giving them tools

00:30:23.980 yeah yeah they want to use them yeah i'm doing a little bit of like academic embarrassment work

00:30:29.040 you know um every once in a while i'll get something like really really really scary yeah same um

00:30:35.620 it's nice now like when i first started i did not have a team like i didn't have anyone i could talk

00:30:41.280 to so like stuff would come through and they'd be like this your address and i'd be like no yeah

00:30:47.160 that's the like scary part of what it is we do which is like the people that were like protecting

00:30:53.940 or the people that were on the other side provoking are like some of them because i've said before like

00:30:58.800 there are some people that i genuinely never platform or stitch or anything and it's because

00:31:02.660 i feel like there's another layer there yeah that i'm unwilling to touch because i'm like

00:31:06.960 my shtick and everything that i'm doing is protecting other people and you're on a whole 0.76

00:31:12.840 another level of fucking like literally insanity we're not doing that yeah that like much if 0.94

00:31:19.540 they're far enough down the pipeline yeah they have some fantasy about like doing something horrible 0.98

00:31:25.880 exactly like that's like part of the incentive structure within that pipeline so like you can tell

00:31:32.340 too yeah like you see it in the eyes totally you know yeah totally and there's a difference between

00:31:37.640 like sexist you know like gym bro and like a dude who's got like a like 16 hour screen time exactly

00:31:44.620 yeah and you can tell too i feel like because you see all the same shit i do yeah it's more of a like 0.85

00:31:49.560 vibe check i'm kind of like yeah that person i'm not willing to touch yeah like i don't think

00:31:54.080 i don't think that they're doing this for attention or like i think they're doing this for a reason and

00:32:01.500 it's like i'm not gonna engage in it yeah and i think that's probably smart all these like podcast

00:32:06.520 dudes are at least like producing a podcast like i know i know that they're like sentient enough to

00:32:12.200 like cut footage you know so i'm like fuck you you're like but like but a dude who's like on it like 0.99

00:32:18.200 the way i record videos if anyone records videos in the same ways that i do like this far from your 1.00

00:32:23.200 face like talking into the microphone i'm like that's a freak i would fucking know you're a freak 0.99

00:32:29.300 you're a weirdo yeah and not in a good way even recently because like i've talked about uh wnba 0.98

00:32:34.540 players recently like and when i say recently i mean like a fucking month ago at this point 0.98

00:32:38.120 and there are still men to this day like stitching that same video and i'm just defending them

00:32:43.160 because it's men on a podcast uh doing this like what if game of like what if high school 0.98

00:32:49.140 basketball players played women in the nba wnba and i'm like well see that would never fucking 1.00

00:32:53.940 happen and i hate this hypothetical shit just so you can dunk on women like it's fucking stupid 1.00

00:32:57.880 like what if the circumstances were different then things would be different huh and it's like 1.00

00:33:02.500 you're just discovering what things are the the like the possibilities like you're unlocking

00:33:08.400 possibility yeah like the standard yeah probably things would be different but we'll never find

00:33:13.940 out will we i made a video about this what everyone was asking for like what do you say to the lock and

00:33:17.660 key analogy you know like oh yeah like a key that can unlock anything as a master lock and a and a you

00:33:22.760 know like a lock that can get unlocked by any keys like a shitty lock or whatever these are not the 0.97

00:33:26.960 same things no like if a penis was a basketball and a vagina was a dolphin then things would be 1.00

00:33:34.020 hilarious but they're not you don't know what these things are you're so mean because i'm like 1.00

00:33:39.780 and what if there were fucking flying dicks like who who gives a shit like what are we talking about 0.99

00:33:44.940 like like we're comparing women to inanimate objects like that's like yeah they're not the same 1.00

00:33:49.580 inherently if women were objects i'm like that would be a form of objectification yeah i don't know 1.00

00:33:56.460 that word but they're like you don't get it they're like we're not on the same youtube are we

00:34:01.820 you know uh i did the locking key thing too i was like a man with a lot of a lot of keys a janitor 0.99

00:34:07.040 fuck him sorry sorry to say like that's how that's my view of it like who gives a fuck how 0.99

00:34:12.600 about you put lock these nuts on your forehead how about that like i don't give a shit i don't care 1.00

00:34:17.120 talk about whatever the fuck you want just don't make up shit so that all of you can can kiki and 1.00

00:34:22.680 laugh together about how fucking dumb women are like that's literally you're propping that up so 1.00

00:34:26.640 you can all talk shit and that on women specifically professional female athletes and you're a piece 1.00

00:34:31.920 of shit for doing that like that's pointless you know what you got to do to guys like that 1.00

00:34:35.720 is uh call like any sport that they want to talk about men's blank like are you watching like so 0.99

00:34:42.220 like you can be like you guys watching men's football they're like football you're like men's

00:34:47.300 football men's football yeah just wanted to make sure you guys watching men's basketball like they

00:34:51.500 love to be like oh it's women's basketball it's like it's basketball yeah you know what i mean 0.98

00:34:55.280 like you're watching men's basketball like if you want to put a qualifier in front of fucking 0.97

00:34:59.100 everything we can do that but just be prepared for every conversation to take a little longer 0.67

00:35:04.180 we're gonna waste a whole lot of time doing that i'm putting prefixes everywhere brother uh one guy

00:35:11.840 got so mad he made like a whole bunch of videos about it like my sport video but he was like

00:35:16.260 in his like you know talk about it he was literally like i mean i'm only 5'4 stop right

00:35:22.540 there i've heard enough i've heard enough you're like pause yeah stop right there i didn't and i

00:35:29.000 literally told someone i was like i didn't listen past that if i'm being honest i didn't and to be

00:35:32.940 fair most people won't yeah so it's like stop right there if you start the sentence with i'm 5'4 but

00:35:38.280 people hear like oh my god you're like 5'4 huh like wow interesting even when i joke about height

00:35:45.980 and shit like they're always like i can't change my height have you tried their surgeries you can 0.92

00:35:51.020 get your like your whatever this bone is yeah your shin your shin splints or whatever extended i've 0.99

00:35:55.400 and then you look like the scariest thing like you you look tall but people see you and they're like

00:36:01.580 that's not right he's not supposed to be tall yeah yeah yeah you look like ex machina that's stolen

00:36:06.120 valor have you ever seen this like license thing i did i don't have it with me but i had a michigan

00:36:14.400 license made like a fake id made that said my height was 5'10 because i'm i'm like i'm a little

00:36:20.320 over six foot and i would tell dudes i'm 5'10 and there were dudes who are about as tall as me yeah

00:36:25.320 and they'd be like i will fuck you up me there's no and i'm like look the government said so they 0.94

00:36:29.800 measured me at the dmv so you must also be 5'10 i love that you're committing to the bit of buying a 0.99

00:36:35.760 fake id when you don't need one yeah like doing i'm like 25 i'm talking to some college student

00:36:41.180 at worcester polytechnic institute like how fast can you get this here i'm trying to club right now

00:36:48.120 i used a fake id in college but it wasn't even really fake it was just my sisters yeah uh but

00:36:53.160 she's two years older than me and i used hers and on hers it says i'm 5'4 and then i was like well

00:36:59.040 i'm absolutely not 5'4 but i was like concocting all these fake stories i was like well i got it

00:37:04.540 when i was 16 and then i grew six inches or like seven eight inches wow can you believe it on the

00:37:11.600 trend and now yeah then i got the shin surgery i went to turkey and for 87 dollars they made me six

00:37:20.000 foot yeah i was like they literally added nine inches to my height can you believe it strange it's

00:37:24.900 a miracle and now i can dunk and drink right now i actually can't dunk which is a bummer but

00:37:32.280 yeah i've never tried but probably me neither i'm like how do your parents feel about your job now

00:37:38.720 over the moon they're psyched as hell but here's the thing is i'm like stop reading comments you like 0.67

00:37:44.340 all your parents read your comments yeah yeah like the other day they were like scrolling through them

00:37:47.620 on the phone with me and i was like i've i know i've seen them did you see this one it's really mean

00:37:52.240 yeah well i think like for a while they were really nervous yeah um but then i started making

00:37:57.260 money and they were like oh it's a business you know yeah um naturally their choices were either

00:38:01.800 uh support me forever or uh let me be insane online and they picked uh and they picked well i think

00:38:10.500 um they were like i should probably watch this yeah yeah yeah yeah they're blocked they but they

00:38:17.560 have burners um they keep getting around your security protocols i'm like kelly prue 8 huh

00:38:22.860 i um speaking of your content though you're coming out with a book or you came out with a book or it's

00:38:29.980 coming out yeah you're coming out yeah period how exciting i'm excited too yeah tell us about it tell

00:38:34.920 us about the book so yeah it's a it's a how to piss off men handbook i think period the thing about it

00:38:40.140 was uh i uh i'd like loved having the series but like i think a lot of people were like this is

00:38:45.700 logistically like not useful to me in the sense we're like if someone says something to me i can't

00:38:50.780 pull up your profile yeah like go and like scroll through 30 videos like find out what his interests

00:38:54.700 are yeah and so i wanted something that you could like flip through have it a moment's note like be

00:38:59.280 ready to go with like some guys like portable so we're gonna do it and you're like give me one 0.71

00:39:03.800 fucking second like i'll get your ass hold that thought yeah uh yeah so i wanted to do something 0.97

00:39:10.000 that like because i i think like i love the internet you know i wanted something that could 0.98

00:39:14.980 exist like out in the world like i wanted this to be like an activity yeah so yeah it's like over 100

00:39:19.560 things you can say to piss off men and there's like some personal meditations in there um it's so

00:39:24.680 funny like the publisher wrote the back the book or whatever and they wrote uh they wrote all of

00:39:28.520 these have been tested for effectiveness even on the author because like the whole book is me like

00:39:32.780 this one really really hurt you're all this was this one's personal yeah yeah yeah most of them are

00:39:37.420 like this was said to me at trader joe's uh this is not in the book because it's too late um but

00:39:43.840 someone at the gym to me the other day said uh just came up and was like i'm sorry and i was like

00:39:47.700 yes i am uh and they were like they go they go she goes um are you anemic and i was like oh how do you

00:39:55.840 mean she goes you show lots of signs of anemia oh and i go and she goes i'm a nurse and i was like

00:40:02.020 i'm glad like oh okay i'm glad like oh yeah yeah i'm glad you clarified i thought you were gonna say

00:40:08.760 something that was gonna make it less mean but i'm glad yeah yeah yeah she was like can you stand

00:40:12.560 up really fast i just gotta see what happens and you know the messed up thing i'm anemic

00:40:17.080 so am i really yeah yeah we really are twins yeah this is virgos your book's coming out in august

00:40:24.360 uh july july yeah end of july july 30th we're coming up period look at the summer hot girl summer

00:40:30.240 yes books yes hot girl summer books yes what are your uh favorite like if you could think of a

00:40:36.560 couple off the top of your head like your favorite things that you wrote about in the book so yeah i

00:40:40.580 love sorry i don't have any change um when men try to explain crypto to you say oh it's like cole's

00:40:45.860 cash and then they go no no no you're like no i get it it's like cole's i totally get it yeah it's

00:40:51.060 like an alternate currency it's mainly online yeah cole's cat i'm a maxinista personally so i love

00:40:56.000 yeah i love i totally get it now yeah i'm trying to think of uh yeah yeah yeah oh

00:41:00.200 one of the it's like uh like oh my god you're so funny like oh my god you're so funny you're just

00:41:04.520 like you're like james corden i you're you're so funny and you're funny in like the exact same way

00:41:09.040 that he's funny you know like that's really gonna fizz off some yeah especially in la because every

00:41:14.760 dude in la thinks they could do stand-up comedy here's the thing i said if you go too far with this

00:41:19.200 if you don't say james corden soon enough he will start doing stand-up like that afternoon 0.70

00:41:24.620 he's gonna start workshopping shit are there some open mics near here you should come with me 0.70

00:41:29.060 yeah yeah yeah let's go workshop some material i need someone to laugh i think one of the ones i 0.91

00:41:33.420 have in there is um this was i think the first one i ever did in any of the videos which was like

00:41:37.760 to tell i got oh trust me we've talked about it men hate being discussed it's how they get caught

00:41:42.920 uh you know like when he says like something he does yeah we've talked about it oh yeah don't worry 0.99

00:41:50.380 yeah there's been an internal meeting um about you and your behavior and he's like shit they 0.68

00:41:55.720 know about everything what's that supposed to be yeah yeah yeah yeah they know my phone password 0.95

00:41:59.680 they must have been through there that's so funny i remember one time my friends and i were out and

00:42:06.320 this guy was talking well this guy and his friend were talking to me and my girlfriend and they were 0.99

00:42:11.000 australian australian men are fucking horrible like they're a real dice roll i don't know what's 0.99

00:42:16.820 going on over there they come over here for like some like horrible tourism yeah they're on some 1.00

00:42:22.980 next level awful tourism like let's terrorize terrorize i was about to try and do an australian

00:42:28.200 accent and i was like this is not the time to try that for the first time i was like it's like

00:42:32.900 maybe not here yeah maybe not no not with your viewership um yeah they come over and they terrorize

00:42:39.520 american women but i when he was talking to my friend and i we were just like oh what do you do

00:42:44.500 for a living because we're in college yeah and um they said that they were athletes and i was like

00:42:48.640 oh we're like what do you guys do for a living and uh they said that they were swimmers and i was like

00:42:54.180 like just in general or because i was i couldn't think of a job that you would have that you're a

00:43:00.260 swimmer and they were telling he's like no we're olympians and i was like okay well the new zealand

00:43:07.060 guy was saying the australian guy is actually placed he's like he's he's like won medals and stuff

00:43:11.700 like i've never placed but that's what we do for a living and i was like okay yeah like i just like

00:43:16.320 immediately don't believe you but like okay yeah yeah and um he was like we are we are and i was like

00:43:21.460 i mean okay yeah me too yeah like same it's like if you really are and that's you and that's your craft

00:43:30.820 and that's your your whole thing it's like why do you need me to validate it like why do you need me

00:43:36.880 to be like you are a swimmer like you're right you're right you're right it's like i have a bronze 0.82

00:43:42.360 medal and you're like yeah you fucking are bronze i literally told him i was like i mean okay and then 0.99

00:43:49.780 it was just very like he needed to prove it to me yeah and i was like i like don't give a shit but 0.99

00:43:55.280 like okay and so my friend and i were laughing because like when you just act like okay yeah they 0.90

00:44:01.140 get really pissed off they hate that men want to feel important yeah exactly if you figure out what

00:44:06.720 he's like tied his self-worth to because they all pick a thing yeah they do they're all like this is

00:44:11.380 the thing that's important because it's important it makes me special my interest and it makes me 0.91

00:44:14.740 important yep if you belittle that thing their whole shit crumbles you know and they like start like 0.95

00:44:21.240 like short-circuiting like you're like you're like you just go back and forth huh yeah 0.96

00:44:25.480 you know it's quicker to walk um you swim they're like they're like this matters for australia i do

00:44:33.600 it for the nation yeah yeah he was like we are we are and he like literally unbuttoned his shirt to

00:44:38.920 take out his arm to show me the back of his like shoulder blade because they had the like olympic 0.50

00:44:44.200 right right right you know they don't check when you go get tattoos no shit i literally was like i was 0.78

00:44:49.300 like i could go into any tattoo shop and get that but like my point is like you ain't gotta lie to 0.96

00:44:53.680 kick it like i don't give a shit and i it's what's funny is like they looked like they could 0.98

00:44:57.140 be olympian swimmers but because you're being so insane i'm gonna keep acting like i don't 0.96

00:45:00.840 believe you and then eventually he googled himself and like found his own wikipedia page

00:45:05.700 and then made me read it and i was like i was like okay yeah no for sure and when i'm looking at it i

00:45:11.740 was literally like you guys are olympians but haven't bought me a drink yeah yeah anyone can make

00:45:16.000 these you know it's like a user edited platform you know like me just constantly poking holes and

00:45:21.340 i'm gonna get i'm gonna get the olympian tattoo and write like javelin 2012 and be like go ahead

00:45:26.520 check that yeah yeah fact check that's proof that's proof i paid 200 and a 21 year old made

00:45:34.560 it permanent and yeah i was drunk the night i got it yeah what's that have to do i was in

00:45:39.780 berlin 2012 uh you having to wikipedia what year the olympics were great britain uh anyway speaking

00:45:49.080 of your your book how to piss off men right we have a couple uh tiktoks that apply to that and

00:45:55.640 it says okay in this video a guy on a podcast lists what he considers the three biggest red flags to look

00:46:03.320 out for when dating a woman he says if you're dating a woman who is one posting thirst traps on social 0.87

00:46:08.360 media two has guy friends that she wants to stay in touch with or three enjoys going out to the

00:46:14.800 club run okay you know these guys who make these they're like we're trying to return to traditional

00:46:21.260 values yeah we want to go back to traditional values what they're saying is like remember when

00:46:27.080 they couldn't get away like remember when like they literally couldn't get a job unless they were

00:46:32.280 married yeah yeah remember when the government made them stay like what happens is like one of these 0.99

00:46:37.520 dudes gets like dumped so hard yeah by his hot ass she sounds very cool like thirst traps hitting the 1.00

00:46:45.500 club you know like tons of guy friends like and he's like i gotta make a podcast and also i'm feeling 0.99

00:46:52.940 nostalgic for the fact that my grandma could not escape you know like my grandmother was miserable 0.65

00:46:59.720 but at least my grandpa never had to like remarry yeah or be nice what the fuck that's why i've even 0.96

00:47:06.060 said i'm like if you were to go back in time and like talk to your grandmother like your great great 1.00

00:47:11.400 great great grandmother yeah trad wife bullshit yeah she probably fucking hated your great great 0.99

00:47:16.200 yeah like i guarantee it it's all of history women weren't even allowed to have their own bank 1.00

00:47:21.480 account until the 70s so like yeah what the fuck are you talking about like let's go back i'm like 0.98

00:47:26.160 okay by that measure um first of all go to war yeah second of all um go make a lot of money and i'm 0.97

00:47:31.800 not gonna do anything i'm gonna be at home yeah and i need you to pay for it and i'm gonna be on

00:47:34.800 valium like you've never seen it before yeah dude i'm gonna go absolutely crazy it's funny when people

00:47:41.120 like i think like i see a lot of people being like it's hard to date right now and it's like this is

00:47:44.860 the first time we've ever tried to do it based on like actually liking each other for real you know

00:47:49.200 like this is a historic moment where we're like like i don't know if i like men

00:47:53.560 and most men don't like women at all they're just attracted to them um which is very different uh

00:48:00.880 between like actually enjoying their company and like wanting to spend time with them and also being

00:48:06.580 attracted to them it's just like it's purely attraction and they don't like them or like

00:48:10.900 hanging out with them which is weird i think like a lot of people now are going into dating with

00:48:14.940 checklists yeah like they gotta have blank blank blank blank blank blank like men are like i want

00:48:19.180 a woman who doesn't have friends uh who doesn't club you know like this dude's like he's like

00:48:24.000 watch out for these things it's like you should get to know people on a person-to-person level like

00:48:28.360 what if what if you meet a girl who is like your best friend in the whole world and you realize why

00:48:35.100 she has so many guy friends and she loves the club you're gonna give all that up like because

00:48:42.180 some dick on a podcast said so yeah he said run so bye yeah like he's like also is there anything 0.99

00:48:48.460 more fucking submissive than listening to what another man tells you what to do truly uh-oh 1.00

00:48:53.080 kind of gay uh-oh i can say it you're sounding real breedable and submissive yeah uh-oh that's 1.00

00:49:00.040 a really submissive thing to do it is i did watch that video before we came here oh you did yeah 0.96

00:49:04.640 because i was like i gotta get a look at this dude yeah i for us i was like it's like evil hosier

00:49:09.640 like he looks like if hosier fucking hated women yeah yeah yeah if hosier made the opposite type of 0.79

00:49:15.820 music hosier's like i'll crawl across the earth for you this guy's like if she steps foot in a club 1.00

00:49:21.260 i'm killing myself and it's on you i'm blaming you evil hosier holy shit can you fucking imagine 1.00

00:49:28.100 that would be crazy that's the one thing i do not think the earth can handle is evil hosier oh my god 1.00

00:49:32.940 no way okay the comments on this this says man speaks truth in a relationship there must be

00:49:39.140 mutual respect no male friends for her nor girl friends for him i don't know if this is like 0.97

00:49:45.500 not necessarily controversial but uncommon but like a lot of women i know that are not fucking 0.97

00:49:50.660 pick me they do have male friends but a lot of times they're either in relationships with women and

00:49:55.400 they're more so friends with a girl yeah or they're related to them or they're like a childhood

00:50:00.480 friend that they've just known forever i don't know like what age are you talking about yeah you

00:50:05.900 know what i'm saying like because it sounds like you're talking about young women and that's another

00:50:10.360 problem yeah he's like my girlfriend's always hanging out with guys in her homeroom it's like

00:50:16.500 wait a minute oh who let you on the internet oh okay well that's not yeah that's a little different

00:50:22.480 isn't it i also think that like as a woman going out you're gonna go find a guy who doesn't know any

00:50:28.120 women like at all not safe like very scary you know what i mean super scary like i think like 1.00

00:50:34.620 it's it's probably like it's probably good to like it's it's good for both people to have friends of

00:50:40.380 the opposite gender i think because it's like it's like if if you are a guy and you have friends who

00:50:45.600 are women yeah you are like that's probably a good sign that you're like you don't just see women as

00:50:50.900 you're not awful yeah yeah yeah like they they have been willing to stomach you in some capacity

00:50:56.680 like big news green flag i feel like as you get older too like the relationships you form with

00:51:03.080 people are like they're just so different if that makes sense like my my boyfriend has friends that

00:51:09.300 are women but they're mostly like women that i'm friends with or they're like women that he knows from

00:51:15.300 college yeah they're also in relationships you know what i'm saying it's just like the dynamic shifts as

00:51:19.840 you get older so that's why i'm like what age are you talking about because like as you get older

00:51:24.560 you start being friends with people that are in either committed relationships or they just have

00:51:29.000 long-standing relationships so they're like again like brother and sister it's like right completely 0.96

00:51:33.440 different so i don't know what the fuck like who are all these women yeah all these male friends like 1.00

00:51:38.800 i don't know what you're talking about also if my i would be more concerned if my boyfriend like 0.97

00:51:43.780 only wanted to hang out with his the guys yeah all the time than if he had like friends that were

00:51:48.900 women and they we all hung out together yeah that's more sinister to me a mixed gender group 1.00

00:51:53.860 hangout yeah is like you know normal like you said it's i think it's a a good sign if they have women 1.00

00:51:59.780 that are willing to tolerate them on a platonic level that's actually a good sign yeah yeah this one

00:52:05.240 says stay single my friends they will take your house your truck your money your kids and your dog 0.95

00:52:12.580 that's a personal experience yeah that sounds yeah that sounds like you need a diary i love when like

00:52:17.320 dudes do stuff like that like they comment online they're like women are always liking 1.00

00:52:21.160 my stepdad more than me and you're like well it's like a personal thing

00:52:27.000 like

00:52:27.880 okay i'm gonna read this next video okay this one says the woman in this video is sitting in her car 0.99

00:52:36.000 lip syncing this affirmation to herself i don't need no man i don't need no man i'm a bad bitch and 0.97

00:52:41.360 men in her comment section are very personally offended by it so this first one says keep that 0.97

00:52:46.940 same energy when you need a police officer a fireman or a mechanic oh they make those in women 1.00

00:52:53.680 now i don't know if anybody told you those come in a female build now did you guys know that new models 1.00

00:52:57.940 new models just dropped they're much more aerodynamic even if i needed one i'm not calling

00:53:02.900 yeah yeah yeah i'm like house is on fire i'm gonna figure this out no worry i know where it's actually

00:53:07.160 no worries i got it yeah yeah like this is like the thing like this has been like for the last few

00:53:11.860 years it's like it's like keep that in mind when you need the police to save you it's like the police

00:53:16.640 that saved me like that's an oxymoron nobody's ever fucking saved me you know please come i'm 0.97

00:53:23.360 getting in trouble yeah i'm not calling them i'll tell you that much like who called us you're like i did

00:53:27.900 they're like for real really i thought your name was drew for real like we show up for drew i was 0.83

00:53:35.840 like even something yeah what the fuck like call them so they can say okay i feel like yeah the same 0.98

00:53:43.020 like you're gonna need me it's the same thing when men are like when women say shit like that and then 0.99

00:53:47.400 they get personally offended they're like oh well don't call us when you need protection from what 0.98

00:53:52.960 from you that's i was like from okay from other men well we're not cavemen anymore so there's no

00:53:57.660 saber-toothed tigers wandering into my den so i feel like i'm okay but also when it comes to like 0.96

00:54:04.400 you know they're always like well men are protectors and women are gatherers or whatever the fuck like 0.97

00:54:09.540 that hunter-gatherer bullshit it's actually a fallacy but native american people like indigenous 0.99

00:54:14.440 people a lot of times they would leave women and children behind but specifically women because they 0.99

00:54:19.400 believed women were far more valuable than men were so like if they go to war or some shit like 0.93

00:54:24.440 they could afford to lose men yeah they can't afford to lose women because women create life so 1.00

00:54:29.580 they think women are far more precious yeah so they would leave them behind because they don't want 1.00

00:54:35.000 anything bad to happen because they need them yeah whereas they viewed men as disposable so they were 1.00

00:54:40.280 like oh i'm gonna die and that's fine yeah right like we need women so like this hunter-gatherer shit was 0.98

00:54:46.120 like from colonization like that was like created this fallacy of it because that's actually not why 0.99

00:54:50.940 yeah there was like a distinction between the two it wasn't because women are weak it was because women 1.00

00:54:56.280 were more valuable here's what you gotta do this is i dropped this one recently if a man tells you he's

00:55:00.900 an alpha you go he's not a furry thing i don't know much about it he's like i'm top dog and you're like

00:55:07.380 i'm sure you are i bet yeah oh yeah you have that look about you yeah yeah i smelled that on you when

00:55:14.540 you came in this uh this thing comment says but at the end of the day remember that's his car

00:55:20.520 do you know women can't buy cars i just heard just found out just found out just got the big news 0.99

00:55:27.540 and this last one says will be another old maid okay yeah well and that's like uh almost related

00:55:34.740 to that study i think they draw i think it came out last year yeah it was definitely last year because

00:55:39.240 i was getting tagged in it a lot but it was like basically saying that men are reporting far higher

00:55:43.880 levels of loneliness than they ever have in the last like 20 years and it's literally because women 1.00

00:55:50.460 are like oh yeah i don't like have to be with you if i don't want to everything in the world that's

00:55:55.180 crazy everything is about in the world is about incentives if women aren't like pairing up anymore 1.00

00:55:59.440 it's because you're not properly incentivizing them to do so yeah they have no desire to because

00:56:03.860 they don't need to so they won't if they don't have to well like in the 50s it was like you know

00:56:09.000 like the only if i'm like a young woman the only way for me to leave my house my like father's house

00:56:13.620 is to go to a different man's house yeah like i have to go like i i read this like statistic like a

00:56:18.900 long time ago so it's it's going to be wrong but like a super high amount of like women in the 50s 1.00

00:56:23.180 married people who lived on the same street as they did damn like 80 or something like that

00:56:27.920 yeah and like now like 9 of people marry someone from the same town as them yeah you know because

00:56:32.880 like yeah it's just not the same anymore mobility is so much different you know what i mean like

00:56:37.160 it's like the gift of like free will yeah it used to be like i know two men and i'm gonna make a

00:56:42.540 life with one of them you know well i saw one and he wasn't that bad so whenever your grandma's like

00:56:48.740 he called me every day you're like he shouldn't have done that we love papa but

00:56:54.000 but i wish you had better i wish you had more options no means no yeah i feel like uh the the

00:57:02.400 paradigm has shifted drastically in how women are viewing the necessity of men in their life and so 0.98

00:57:08.300 now it's more so uh well if i don't have to put up with this shit i'm not going to yeah and then men 0.99

00:57:14.920 are like what the fuck yeah like how am i supposed to fucking get laid if they know i'm awful shape up 0.99

00:57:21.740 man they know i'm terrible get your money up you know like god they're like they're like they're all 1.00

00:57:28.180 in the clubs it's like get to the club dude yeah then go what the fuck like what are you still doing 0.89

00:57:33.500 here a bottle wait okay just to wrap things up you had a very uh interesting journey your lore is 0.97

00:57:43.060 very interesting strange yeah yeah but uh i'm curious like what we'll ask you two different

00:57:48.940 kinds of questions the first one i'll ask you is what's your best piece of advice for men who are

00:57:52.920 like not awful inherently but like maybe they're trying to be better yeah and they have to like

00:57:58.120 fight those like urges yeah and it's and it's not by anyone like it's not inherently anyone's

00:58:04.000 specific fault i always say that it's like everybody has internalized misogyny women included and anyone

00:58:09.240 else on the gender spectrum has it it's like our job to unpack it yeah but like what would you say is

00:58:15.000 your best piece of advice for men who are like actively trying to unpack that and like not be horrible

00:58:21.540 like be someone who can like approach women and not yeah scare them or like be awful yeah yeah yeah

00:58:29.300 how not to scare women is my new series for real um move slowly um i think like to like a person like

00:58:36.720 that i would say like i've been you you know what i mean like i think like how to piss off men came 0.63

00:58:40.680 out of like my like brittle and fragile like ego you know your own unpacking of it yeah and i think

00:58:47.240 here the thing that i would say is that like um anger is blood from a wound and men love to talk

00:58:54.680 about anger yeah but they never want to talk about the wound yeah and i think it's important if

00:58:59.560 something is making you what you would say like irrationally angry yeah uh if it's like out of

00:59:04.800 context then you have to put it in context for real you know like um i had a friend of mine who was

00:59:09.500 like who would always tell me she's like if it's you versus a goose in a fight it's the goose 0.98

00:59:13.340 and i was always like i was like they're 25 pounds like i box for five hours a day i'd fuck 0.98

00:59:19.940 a goose a lot of neck to hit you know but i like pull out of that and like why does it matter to me 0.98

00:59:26.160 at all to be seen as a person who's like capable of violence you know what i mean like why do you

00:59:30.380 like you can one up yeah yeah yeah yeah like it doesn't matter yeah that situation is unlikely

00:59:35.580 like every time i have to fight for your life every time i see a goose now i'm like

00:59:40.740 yeah not today don't yeah i'm like i'm ready for you um i think it's important to like say like if

00:59:46.780 i'm irrationally angry let me follow that to what the wound is like how do i want to be seen and why

00:59:51.160 is this like upsetting me and i think it's important to uh have the realization like i think a little

00:59:57.540 bit of nihilism is healthy like i think it's a little bit important to be like what if all the

01:00:01.420 shit i care about doesn't really matter you know like the gift of that that was hard for me for a 0.61

01:00:06.720 while like i was like all this like you know like art is so important but like at the end of the day

01:00:11.080 like it is for me it is on like some level like a way to feel like important you know like and i

01:00:17.480 think it means a lot to be able to be like i'm dropping that like i'm able to drop that and be like

01:00:23.060 i'm not important you know like i have healing to do yeah and if you can do that everything gets

01:00:28.800 so much better so much it's crazy how that works huh like the ability to not engage in things that

01:00:34.740 don't serve you yeah and like to leave them and know that it doesn't say anything about you

01:00:38.360 inherently if you leave it like yeah this is like 50s male fantasy it's like that wasn't real then 0.98

01:00:43.600 it really wasn't like someone is selling you this shit you are trapped in like a in like a greek 0.98

01:00:48.980 tragedy for real you're getting angrier and anger and angrier to like bring love into your life and 0.99

01:00:54.420 it's just never gonna happen no never in a million fucking years i think that's very profound 0.83

01:00:59.540 honestly and i feel like like i said earlier in the episode like it means a lot coming from you 0.76

01:01:04.520 especially when men hear it and i feel like there are men in the world that really do want to try

01:01:09.120 yeah like and be better um they just like have these things tendencies and shit and i've had like 0.59

01:01:14.820 very few but some men who have been like you know you really kind of helped me unpack some things

01:01:19.820 and i'm sure you've gotten that too like like you said why does that bother me so much yeah i feel

01:01:24.380 like too it's like it really speaks to your own fragility if the only thing the only like gotcha you 0.98

01:01:32.900 have is the accomplishments of another man yeah it's not even you kind of gay 0.91

01:01:36.940 it's not even you i saw like hannah burner do you know hannah burner yeah love her she uh was on one of

01:01:44.880 my other friends podcasts she was talking about war she goes i don't know how do they do that like

01:01:49.000 how do they get so many men to show up on time i can't even get my friends to come to brunch on time

01:01:52.460 and then in her bit she says like also a man killing a man gay penetration she was like you 0.95

01:02:00.060 care about him that much yeah very intimate to kill another person you're the most important person in 0.92

01:02:06.020 that man's life at that point like i remember when i was in college we had a greeks class and so much

01:02:11.980 like greeks is like conversation about like you know like war and everything and i remember our like

01:02:16.540 90 year old professor was like well men love war because it's penetrative and a lot of the men were

01:02:22.700 like they're like it's all about breaking into cities like it's all about penetrating other men

01:02:28.500 and with swords and the dudes were like that's not they're like that's not true take it back they're

01:02:33.240 like what about guns and it's like that's just penetrating someone from very far away still the 0.92

01:02:37.420 same thing still the same fucking thing like like headline like war over like we just found out it's 0.99

01:02:44.940 gay the way they start being like hey you know what i forget war yeah i don't care i don't care 0.99

01:02:49.380 about war who cares about that i'm in the gym back to the gym okay last question um what kind of advice

01:02:55.520 would you have for creatives who are maybe looking to because i know you also write and you're an actor

01:03:01.700 and now you're an author period look at you uh what would you say is your best piece of advice for

01:03:07.000 people who are creatives and there maybe they want to venture into different avenues whether it's

01:03:11.720 social media or filmmaking writing all that stuff i think you have to like it yeah you know whatever

01:03:18.280 it is like you have to be able to stand by it and say like i like this you know like i know a lot of

01:03:24.180 like young actors who are trying to get platforms uh because it's you know it's good for casting and

01:03:29.360 stuff and it seems like this is the way the world is going and they're like clearly like phoning it in

01:03:36.200 you know and and i think i think it's important to be like you know like obsessed over the details

01:03:41.420 like if you if you want to be a creator you want to make things like it is so important to like

01:03:46.120 really really really give a fuck about like the tiny little minutiae yeah totally and i think like 0.73

01:03:50.780 it shows if you don't i feel very much like you're you're this way like um like you have to care about 0.97

01:03:55.920 every word yeah you know like i think like especially if you're doing comedy like like it matters why you

01:04:01.180 choose to say a certain word and not a different word yeah totally if you want to be a creative i think

01:04:05.280 like the likes will come and go the attention will come and go the industry will come and go yeah

01:04:12.140 um you have to be like in a vacuum like i made this video and i watch it and i like it yeah totally

01:04:18.980 you know um because everything else is fluid and if you put your self-worth into the the ups and downs

01:04:25.580 of the virality of other people like and that's a robot you know what i mean like totally like you

01:04:31.260 can't control your views tank all you just got to be able to be like i like it yeah you know

01:04:36.920 absolutely yeah because also at the same time too like now like you put someone online like people

01:04:41.580 are gonna have it you know like you better like it enough that in like 10 years they pull that up

01:04:46.760 you're like i stand by that for real if you're in court they're like can you read the transcript

01:04:51.260 you're like yeah i love this one oh this is a banger yeah yeah yeah yeah i talked about his 0.94

01:04:57.000 nipples village wet nurse okay uh well thank you so much for coming on the show thank you so much 0.98

01:05:02.180 for having me you're fucking amazing i love you i love you this was so fun it was so fun i'm so glad 0.79

01:05:07.360 we could meet twin finally virgos virgos rule period and thank you so much to all of you for tuning 0.90

01:05:15.120 into this episode thank you so much to my amazing guest kyle where can everybody find you um you can

01:05:19.560 find me on all social platforms at kyle peru uh and how to piss off men comes out in september

01:05:25.260 period where can they get it anywhere books are sold love i've always wanted to say that

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