WOMEN IN HOLLYWOOD | Drew Afualo ft. Emily Uribe | THE COMMENT SECTION EP 10
Summary
In this episode of The Comment Section, I chat with influencer and writer, Emily Rebay, about Hollywood's treatment of women in Hollywood compared to how men in Hollywood are treated. We discuss the pay gaps, pay disparities, and the things that go on behind-the-scenes in Hollywood, as well as what it means to be a woman in Hollywood.
Transcript
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someone dm'd me and told me you're going through the jennifer lawrence effect and i was like i
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don't know what that means and i don't think i want what a rude thing to send you i was just
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like well thanks like i don't know what to do you're like oh my god thank you i'm like so you
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think you think i'm gonna be a star hey y'all it's drew and welcome back to the comment section
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show to help me really get into my comment section i've brought on emily rebay as my guest today
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and they're gonna help me tackle the haters and get into some of their own fan comments
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emily welcome to the show hello everybody i'm so excited to be here i feel weird now being the
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interviewee oh yeah yeah because now it's real like you're actually speaking to me it's not just a voice
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in my head well that's perfect see now you're actually being interviewed i am now now i'm
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and you're the you're the influencer yes doing it
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for today's topic with the wonderful emily rebay we're talking about women in hollywood
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and specifically the treatment of women in hollywood compared to how men are treated in
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hollywood oh yeah so when i bring that up to you like what's your like first initial thought um
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i think of just pay gaps pay disparities all the stuff that goes on behind the scenes things of women who
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have been through terrible moments with directors like i think with like the me too movement with harvey
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weinstein who knows how many women not just the women we see on camera but behind the scenes in
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rooms had terrible experiences with so literally yeah i i think more of the terrible stuff than the
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glitz and glam and also when you think about that too it's kind of crazy how it's more so focused on
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like oh like i feel so sad that that happened and not that it was happening yeah it was like a well-known
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thing that was underground for like 10 20 years yeah it's something that totally could have been
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stopped or at least taken care of but instead these women were continuously taken advantage of and women
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were passing along the advice to each other like they were like hey just so you know don't work with
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him oh yeah it is we'd be looking out for each other and who's looking out for us no um it's like
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a dog eat dog world in hollywood definitely and i think for women especially you have to really
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watch your back um specifically with male people in the space it's really difficult it really is
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and it sucks too that you have to feel that way especially when you're trying it's an art so like
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you know you're trying to be creative express yourself any industry where you have to express yourself
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whether it be clothes whether it be painting drawing graphic design there's so many obstacles
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you have to face as a woman while men not only have it a bit easier but they don't have to face
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struggle worrying about what they're wearing or if they're showing touch if they're revealing if
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they're this or that their attitude like it's really hard yeah i always think too when i think
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about like how women in hollywood are treated versus how men are oh yeah i always think about like
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uh body shaming yes like how they they like made a whole industry of shaming women like what they look
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like in a bikini or anything like that yeah yeah um dating back to like old holly like judy garland
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yeah diet pills for having like a thicker waist like yeah keeping her under a certain weight keeping
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women under a certain weight they weren't allowed into certain parties if they didn't look a certain
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way so i think like a lot of studios are at fault for that yeah and also too like how women are like
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oh like she looks like she gained weight oh what if she's pregnant that kind of thing but with men it's
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like oh dad bod oh yeah it's so different yeah look at his dad bod it's so good look i love me a dad bod
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that used to be a trend i remember online it was so big for men to have the dad bod but let a woman
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let herself live a little and it's talked about for months and she like eats eats a snack on the
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beach and like goes in the ocean and then they're like oh yeah someone's hiding a pregnancy oh no no
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and that's funny because they don't even know what that looks like or if women choose to not drink in
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a social setting yeah they're like oh she's pregnant no they just they can't drink maybe just like
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anything yeah just feel like you're constantly being watched oh yeah under a certain eye always it's
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really difficult i think for women to feel comfortable in those spaces specifically like
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going to certain parties and then you're more worried about how you're looking and how your
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face looks because you don't want to have an rbf yeah and say like oh my god what are they going
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to say about me and on the carpet too because you and i have walked carpets we've walked a couple
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carpets that's that's pretty daunting it's hard yeah sometimes yeah when men have the most to say
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about women what they look like on the carpet oh yeah i always say to myself i say you do it
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you go on that car you you paint that face down like tie your face back like the things that they do
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to you when you go on a carpet it's very overwhelming and invasive and you almost feel
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like damn like am i not doing enough because clearly like it's not working or like you have
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to practice your posing yeah men just get away with standing there like this i know like yeah and
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you know what's funny is that i just went to a premiere the other day and i i was walking next
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to jason moe which by the way listen to me that's like me going on a talent show right after beyonce
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why did you put me next to him oh yeah everyone's like who's this big idiot move lady who's this
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bitch move i'm trying to see i'm trying to see aquaman oh yeah which is cool but that man
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literally i was like stressing all day what i was gonna wear like how it's gonna look like how
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it's gonna pose he was wearing he looked like he just came from sprouts he was wearing jeans and a
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peasant top i said i expect nothing less he looks great but i wish i could dress like that oh yeah
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it's so the standard is so different it's on the floor and then you have these women who have to come
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in gowns or like a mini dress no literally it's so different i remember the first time i went on
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carpet for eternals i knew i wasn't gonna get photographed but i stood in front of my mirror and i was like
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like smiling practicing what i was gonna do if cameras were looking at me like no i did that too
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yeah i did you practice your hands like everything very like you have to yeah and i was carrying a bag
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just because i forgot to give it to someone and someone was like next time don't carry a purse
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it ruins the fit i said oh is this how many carpets have you walked that's what i thought babe
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and i said guess what i bought that bag so i'm carrying your heart earned money that's why and i think
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about like like tiffany haddish and she's like i'm gonna wear this dress
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until the wheels fall off because she spent so much money on it she's like i bought this
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i'm gonna keep wearing it oh yeah that's how i felt about that purse also wearing outfits and not
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wearing the same thing over and over again i can't tell you how many times i've i've thought about
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it's crazy because i remember joaquin phoenix had a run where he wore the same stella mccartney suit to
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every award show when he was nominated for joker and no one batted an eye people talked about how
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sustainable it was but for a woman to do that we can see it as they're like you're so boring oh yeah
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people are gonna be like didn't you already wear that yes i did for a reason i bought it you know
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what's funny if i saw a dude wear the same suit i wouldn't know yeah because they wear it any well
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it's a black suit that's why i said how you could have told me that was from ross or you could have
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told me that was from a rental shop actually no literally i'm like that could have been from
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kohl's like i don't know no yeah but but with women it's just so much more like nitpicky i feel like
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which is in everything from what you wear to what you look like to how you act to what you act in the
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slightest change in your face oh it's talked about for months it's so so hard yeah i literally posted
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pictures um of me in full glam let me just set the scene for you i sat in hair and makeup for two and
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a half hours i had a wig on my head i was i was beat down like my my face looked so good my makeup
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artist took pictures of me i posted them did i look incredible yes let's all agree that let's all agree
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that i looked phenomenal okay collectively it is what it is but when i posted them tell me why people
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are making tiktok saying i got work done to my face oh no that's just a little contour and powder
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you guys don't know shade and light you guys don't know shading and lighting do you and i i literally
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was like i you see me on the toilet all the time you think i'm gonna look like that oh yeah on the
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toilet you think i wake up with a full beat i'm not kylie jenner oh no yeah she wakes up with a full
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beat oh absolutely in her her face in her sleep she's like she sleeps like this i'm like i'm looking at
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you are y'all i know exactly she literally sleeps like this like perfectly poised you know perfect body
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perfect hair everything wakes up full beat oh yeah her and stormy's perfectly dressed oh and she's
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and i and i think you think that's me no yeah i'm a big jester on the internet you think that's me
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that's of course that's not me that's why i said it's it's just funny because like men are so quick
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to like judge and i always think too men don't know what makeup looks like oh no they don't or their
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definition of natural is nothing what it is in real life absolutely and i was thinking too if you saw me
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in real life if like one of those dudes had seen me in real life that day they would have thought i had no
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makeup on absolutely they would have been like wow i feel so naturally you asked them what's a
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what's a natural beauty look like to you they show you a picture of kim kardashian with like a full
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bronze yeah with a full full bronzed out beat like she looks fantastic but you know she's wearing 20
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pounds of makeup hello oh yeah that's either like oh it's work you have work done to your face no it's
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just shading and lighting like you again makeup as an art form is something of its own that's what i'm
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saying but it's interesting to see men then pick apart like how it looks or what they've done
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differently it's just it's just nose powder yeah it's it's face tune in real life oh yeah is what
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it is magic and they're just i think jealous that's what i think it is i agree with you so i can't wait
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to dive into this with you emily uh but when you first think of women in hollywood i think of the
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glitz and the glamour like obviously we all wanted to feel that growing up so here on the comment section
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what we like to do is we like to bring videos that i want to laugh at and i bring them here and we
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share all the giggles that's what we do we just laugh we love to giggle we have a silly goofy time
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here on my show that's what we do so one of the most frustrating things that i hear being in the
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entertainment industry is male writers saying that they don't know how to write female characters
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because i'm always just like just write them the same way you write men you know what i mean but then
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give them like a nice pair of jiggly titties that they can play with whenever they want and like
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a monthly period that makes them emotionally unstable and hormonal and unable to make rational
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decisions and and then make them hot but like not too hot so that they're out of your league and make
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them smart but not in a way that's intimidating and make them funny but you know funny in that they
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think you're really funny and there you have it cast me in your next film
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honestly what are your first what are your initial thoughts after watching this she's so right because
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i i'm a big blockbuster watcher i love going to the movies and seeing the latest like marvel movie or
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star wars movie it's so interesting to see them try to write a badass female hero yeah not only has
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like male attributes she has to be funny she has to be relatable she has to be this she has to be that
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it's so difficult to watch her character try to succeed or men will just call you a mary sue
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which is when you know how to do everything that was a big problem um not for me but for men
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with daisy ridley and star wars is right people just called her mary sue she knew how to do this
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she knew how to do that she already knew how to do that that's how they wrote her and that's what
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they gave her but it's like a complete issue at that point yeah well it's also like this is like
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probably a poor example because you brought up really great films but i consider this a cinematic
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masterpiece twilight oh absolutely like cinema bella and twilight yeah everyone ripped
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kristen stewart a new one they said she's a terrible actress i said that that bitch can
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act her ass oh did you see spencer yes i did i watched it on delta on the delta plane i watched
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it i watched the shit out of it and she was phenomenal absolutely and i thought to myself
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she was playing the part that's how they wrote her yeah they wrote her as a stuttery weirdo like
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that's how they wrote her also these women don't control what they're given so these screenwriters
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give and i actually have a really good example of something in the industry that happens with
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screenwriting it's like an inside screenwriting joke but to talk more about kristen stewart i
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i feel really bad for her because a she was put in a spot where you can't change the writing you're
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not gonna go up to the screen or say i don't like this especially the author of the books oh yeah
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like stephanie meyer i'm sure didn't intend but yeah that's just how she was written it's out of
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her control yeah and and you know what i call that great acting great acting because you bought it
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you bought her as a weirdo you know how hard it is that's why sometimes some actresses i love when
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actors hate each other because they're acting they're proving it to you that they like each other
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she proved to you that she was this weirdo she stuttered she gave it her all that's why i said
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she was like so off-putting weird and you're like why would any vampire like this bitch and then you
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think so that's how she was written oh yeah it's the same thing with uh megan fox and transformers
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same same thing with her and transformers i said she she's a wonderful actress she's really really
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smart and she got written off for so long because of how she was written in those movies and i said
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and she literally was like if i'm gonna do this i'm gonna make a bag off of it that's what she did
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oh yeah and also men hate when someone is the titular hot character but then they're like oh
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my god but she's so hot you have to have a happy medium with these guys because it's so hard there's
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no winning there's no winning for the woman but god forbid we talk about robert pattinson like he's
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god and he's a fantastic actor don't get me wrong but there's a big difference in conversation with
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kristen and robert exactly from twilight they were like well you know that's just like the role he took
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at the time and with her they were like she can't act oh yeah which speaking of you said transformers
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this is a screenwriting story so shia labeouf submits to all these screenwriting awards yeah
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and he places every time over people that aren't in the industry yet so isn't that's a screenwriting
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it's an inside screenwriting junk where people will submit for these competitions but they might
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not place because shia labeouf is placing and some of his work is probably really great but he places
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every single time that's crazy i didn't know that yeah inside screenwriters guys you heard it here
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first guys that's honestly i find that really unsettling especially for women especially if
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you want to like let's say you wanted to do a transformers role like let's say you were like
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okay yeah sure like i'll play a hot girl or speaking of the new transformers with mark walbert
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nicola peltz was just his hot daughter it don't even get me started well i saw that when i said what
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like it's just like she was it's almost like she's just there to be hot as opposed to like adding job
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yeah she's so hot but i'm just saying adding anything to her character arc or like you know
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like her intelligence or how she moves the story forward it's just like it's a lot of this oh yeah
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very slow mo yeah or a lot of actresses get in like they get scrutinized for voguing their
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performances where it's a lot of just like like a lot of people said gal gadot vogued for a lot of
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wonder women where it was just like she would be worried about how she looked while she was like
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posing or holding the sword yeah it's just that's or that's how she was written yeah that's how she was
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written she's meant to look super hot and super cool but be empowering but then when she's doing
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it it's wrong well you know what's crazy is that's all jason momoa did in aquaman oh and he looks so
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good that's all that's all he did a lot of hair well do you remember what his first line was in that
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movie i do what is it it was permission to come aboard okay listen listen to me i love him i think
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he's awesome was that writing a1 no but is he just so good looking and everyone was like yes when they
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saw they were like yes yes yes yes right but then you give that same energy to a hot girl and they're
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like and the way they would make them say it too yeah they're like i could do that that like they
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just give women jobs any and i said it's the same shit it's the same exact thing he's topless he's
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good looking he turns his he flips the hair says permission to come aboard absolutely there you go
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you know what i mean it's like give let's give the same energy to both of them and he sold tickets you
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guys yeah that's what i'm saying and honestly they're both just there to make a check oh yeah
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that's why it's like and you would do it for a check too yeah oh yeah i was gonna be in play of
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the month that's it that's why i'm like what that lady was saying in her video as far as like how you
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write women body image is taken into account first and then the woman comes second yeah so how they
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look how they're going to be portrayed and then the writing comes in and then they're like and then
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maybe maybe brain later oh yeah we'll get into that later that'll be on set like that'll be written
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and then while she's acting yeah yeah think of how she's she's like well see maybe she could
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have thoughts and they're like we'll talk about it we'll have we'll have we'll have a meeting with
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the screenwriters you won't be there but we'll talk about it that's it and i think it's the same
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thing too i saw i mean i'm not as plugged into the marvel scene on tiktok i try to be let me in
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please i'm a disney adult let me let me in please i want to be a part of it i want to be on marvel
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talk so bad oh my god you have to start i'd be banging on that door i'm like please let me in i know
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i'm not as well versed but i want to be there so badly i saw all the discourse about wanda
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yeah dr strange movie we'll take her some madness tickets right today and her like her like arc as
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far as like how she's come through the marvel universe but like that line in the trailer that
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everybody all the dudes were you do it and i become the enemy the the dudes were losing their
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minds and they were like she enslaved to hold down and i was like okay all the heroes have done
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something terrible yeah they're no one's a good person and in those movies everyone has done something
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really terrible i just think the way she did it they just take it into account so heavily and i
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know i feel so bad for her because she's just sad she wants her kids like i don't know what you guys
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want her to do she wanted her children and i always think too at the end of the day she's not real at
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the end of the day one of the apologists like we need to unite yeah we should rise up we need to rise
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up rally the troops rise up that's what i was like i saw a lot of people talking i saw jay soups talk
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about it a lot oh yeah i talked about it a lot but i literally saw them talking about how like
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all that's kind of the whole point of the marvel universe all of them have bad in them yeah it's
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like what they choose to do their standards are very again the comic book actual story to now the
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mcu story that kevin feige has so brilliantly brought forward um i definitely think people
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just want this to be like such a set in stone thing she's allowed to she's allowed to make mistakes you
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guys like it's okay yeah but they're and it's also because she's a girl so they're like and she's
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also arguably one of the most powerful heroes in the universe oh so they're not the marvel yeah so
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they're like so upset about that now that's now that iron man's out the game they're like boo
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i think it's also interesting how she was written again thinking of body image where she was given
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the corset to push up the boot my short skirt emo wand if you know yeah literally my sister told me
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that which i didn't know and i and i know that um elizabeth olsen yeah she said she felt uncomfortable
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in the costume and now she's covered she has a costume that's still a corset it still suits her body
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but now it's more comfortable for the actress and it's more accurate yeah i think to the to the
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comics costuming from a male standpoint where male directors have a vision or you know the person
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who's arranging all of that speaking of harley quinn margot robbie and her first suicides got a
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costume it was uncomfortable yeah she felt really uncomfortable and it seemed you you can't tell on
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screen because she's doing her job she's doing it super well but yeah that's it's really hard we
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talked about that in my episode with britney like male female gaze so like we were talking about how
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like the male gaze of harley quinn is the first suicides yeah the female gaze is the second oh and she's in
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the red dress yeah yeah she's dressed much more not appropriately but for the to suit the actress
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more yeah and and her character that's like the first one was all that was oh have you seen birds
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of prey yes i love yeah and birds of prey too like i love the costuming i thought it was so quirky
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harley she did such a good job uh i don't think we'll ever see another birds of prey i know i'm sad but i
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i would like i liked that movie it was the soundtrack was great i thought it looked wonderful i thought it
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was good it was entertaining i watched that on delta planes like and shout out delta's plane
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selection delta's movie selection it's a one honestly so some of the comments on this video
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like this first one says girls love humor what when they say i think it's funny that they're happy and
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content i mean i think it's funny that that they're speaking about yeah about what women
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find what women find i think it's funny that you think you know what women find funny when you've
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never spoken to a woman in real life so it's pretty odd can i say the b word yeah oh get some
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bitches like that's like that's all i can say like that's one of the best things you can respond
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to like get some bitches before you say seriously that's what one of my guests called it pussy list
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behavior yes oh my god starve for it bro no yeah it's crazy and some when you reply back to comments
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like that and you use that language they're like oh my god like you how like what why would you say
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that you could say it but i can't yeah are you kidding me they're like because it's screaming at me
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oh you're just complete lack of getting laid i feel like cassie i'm just like i could say it to her
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but she can't say it to me like really speaking of someone that dudes jerk it to and they're like
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she's so she's so deep it's cassie from euphoria um okay this next comment says as a male to male
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writing coach for those who write female-led movie scripts you have to just write about the stuff on
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the cover of us weekly oh no what are you a hundred who reads us weekly you read that when you're in the
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grocery store if it's available you're literally looking at it while you're about to grab a pack of
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yeah or that that's where you see the worst headlines for women like pregnancy headlines
00:19:30.060
divorce yeah this woman treated this person really badly who cares the national inquirer
00:19:34.600
oh yeah who reads us weekly what are you a 90 year old mom or everything's online now so i would
00:19:40.520
assume you guys see these headlines online because i would say sorry i don't know okay this one says
00:19:45.460
i regularly think i could write a novel but couldn't write a male character because they apparently
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have no thoughts oh wow i mean that's pretty funny yeah i think that was us sitting here that
00:19:55.200
was really good who said women aren't funny that that comment made me laugh oh yeah that's i i think
00:19:59.800
that you know sometimes it's just it always leads back to like male female gaze like how men see women
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and perceive women is how they write women oh yeah so like if they understand women and how nuanced they
00:20:12.200
are then they'll be able to write them i think now there's gonna be a really big shift of female
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directing versus male directing which i have you seen the mandal no book of boba fett no okay well
00:20:22.560
bryce dallas howard directed an incredible episode of book of boba fett i didn't know that it was so
00:20:27.380
fantastic but now female directors are needed more than ever and they seem to understand the source
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material better than males sometimes it's just their delicateness they're able to really work around
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the issues going on um and even for amazon amazon prime i think has 37 of the most female directors
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hired so it like bringing the statistics in here i did my research she said anyways she has a white
00:20:48.060
bird doing the math oh yeah um it's just interesting to see female directors now enter the space in such
00:20:53.580
a male-dominated field and also we just had a female director win an oscar jane campion yeah for power of
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the dog which is wonderful um but yeah they're more needed than ever well is it wasn't turning red
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directed by women too i believe so yeah she yeah it was so that's why the great movie oh absolutely me
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and spencer talked about that on our episode too we how much he we love turning red and it's such a
00:21:11.840
big fan it's so cool to see a a person of color direct a movie for children of color yeah we'll
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have something to look forward to and share an experience with oh yeah especially the talk about
00:21:21.400
puberty and periods oh i related to that so i was just gonna say i said the men lost it they were like
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this is why you can't have women in the workplace because you're gonna talk about things that all women
00:21:31.940
go through that's crazy oh yeah i think like you have a daughter you don't think she's gonna have
00:21:35.840
that oh yeah or i think they just aren't they don't see themselves as handling that issue like
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even the birds and the bees talk with men and girls it's very different the women are expected to
00:21:44.160
handle that so yeah and especially the talk with puberty talk about periods it's very especially if
00:21:48.520
you're a person of color i think in the culture it's not very no the dads to take that no no no no
00:21:52.980
absolutely not well that's like you'll have that talk but you won't have talk about puberty or periods
00:21:57.920
i remember when i got my first one and my mom did not know what to do with me she's like go in the
00:22:01.980
bathroom go in the bathroom it was one of those things where she it wasn't brought up in her
00:22:05.580
household when it happened to her so when it came to me i'm her only daughter i know for a fact she
00:22:09.820
was freaking out she's like go in the bathroom go in the bathroom just go there and that was it and
00:22:13.400
yeah or i was never taught how to use a tampon if that's too tmi but i really never was i i the first
00:22:19.340
time i ever wore one was to a water park oh yeah i mean there you go yeah like i like it's not brought
00:22:24.780
up so to see kids now girls are gonna have a movie about that is great i love that well i told someone i
00:22:29.580
who was i telling i think it was my boyfriend i was telling him well you know like when you go in the
00:22:33.480
water like it stops like oh yeah and he goes what yeah he goes i go yeah he goes it just stops i go i
00:22:40.820
mean i don't know the exact science but yeah like that's why girls can swim on their period and stuff
00:22:45.100
i mean you still wear something oh yeah yeah he was so like it's like magic to them yeah it's really
00:22:50.060
it's really like i'm gonna need a few days to process that information he was just so like blown away by it
00:22:55.580
but that's why you don't have to worry about stuff like that when you have movies that have proper
00:22:59.720
representation oh absolutely and that's why there's no better person to direct a movie about
00:23:04.460
going through puberty and a period for a girl a young woman than a woman a woman and a woman of
00:23:09.500
color on top of that especially dealing with like you said the family dynamics of it all it's very
00:23:14.600
interesting i loved it i'm turning red you have my vote next year if you're nominated which you will
00:23:19.300
be i'm campaigning i am solo but i'm campaigning okay so now we're gonna play a little game a little
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game and it's called the bechdel test yes so for those of you who don't know the bechdel test is
00:23:33.820
basically something we apply to any and all forms of media specifically movies and these are essentially
00:23:40.260
the rules of the bechdel test right that at least two women are featured that these women talk to each
00:23:45.760
other and that they have to discuss something other than a man a man so so honestly so emily
00:23:51.940
and i are gonna say a movie title i'm gonna say one to you obviously and then you can tell me if
00:23:57.000
you think it passes the bechdel test all right here's the first one harry potter and the deathly
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hallows yeah i would say i would say that passes the bechdel honestly i only ever see harmione with the
00:24:09.900
two male leads so i won't lie i might see her with jenny is her name i'm not a harry potter i'm not
00:24:16.580
a potter head i you know what franchises are so interesting to me because i've never been a potter head
00:24:21.240
but i was such a big like everything else young adult oh sign me up i was at that theater yesterday
00:24:25.780
yeah um but yeah i was not a young uh young adult lover of harry potter i find that shocking
00:24:31.200
wait how old are you i'm 22 okay that's why because she's because you're a baby my mom loved it my mom
00:24:36.340
loved twilight she was such a big harry potter fan and it never passed to me but once marvel came
00:24:40.480
oh you said i was in there i was in there first one yeah and the answer is actually yes it does
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pass the test it says the major scene that makes it pass the test when molly weasley yells at
00:24:50.860
bellatrix estrange to stay away from jenny i don't know if you saw the last one you saw you've seen
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them all right the harry potter movies maybe i honestly don't remember i'm gonna be so honest with
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play responsibly i i remember i said that on a live once and someone's like you've never seen harry
00:26:02.420
potter how old are you i'm 22 and i i proudly will say but i love potter world at universal but at
00:26:08.180
least you're honest yeah yeah sometimes people be lying i can't lie about that i've seen them all i mean
00:26:12.600
my boyfriend has never really seen the movies he's seen a couple of them and i'm and i tell him all
00:26:17.020
the time actually when i was on vacation recently we were watching the fourth one together which
00:26:21.900
arguably is the best one and is that goblet of fire yeah everyone loves that one that's the best it's the
00:26:26.560
best one and honestly i'll die on that hill oh yeah but we were watching it together for the first
00:26:30.760
time and i like to make jokes when during movies some may say it's irritating i find it hilarious
00:26:35.220
it's entertainment you're adding to the dialogue and i never talk when they're talking my mom can't
00:26:40.280
stand it she's like you guys talk too much because my sister and i both do it oh yeah we just be making
00:26:44.100
jokes like literally the part i don't know you've seen the fourth one right yes i have okay so you
00:26:47.820
know how he goes to the graveyard and like every time he's near voldemort like his scar be hurting
00:26:51.660
oh yeah like it's just yeah yeah he's like like that i told i told billy like my my boyfriend
00:26:58.020
i was like i also see his pussies tingling and like that's funny oh yeah but he's like stop saying
00:27:03.800
that when you're trying to watch the movie i'm like i'm just saying like that's how it'd be tingling
00:27:08.480
when oh yeah around so i find that entertaining it's funny call me laugh funny you know i'm all that's
00:27:15.500
my job is humor i'm just kidding okay so the first one pass and obviously that's i honestly love the
00:27:22.460
harry potter and the deathly hallows that one's so awesome big fan i would like to be i just can't
00:27:26.540
get into it i want to i've tried you said you're at least you've tried yeah some people don't even
00:27:30.500
try and they're like i don't want to because they just don't want to like things that other people
00:27:33.480
like yeah which is makes you a big i promise it's not me trying to be different i just can't get
00:27:37.440
into it i can't yeah i'm not that person it's honestly really deep too like the storylines run so deep
00:27:43.620
it's so sad and dramatic it's very like my mom dragged me to see that that's so mean my mom
00:27:48.640
dragged me to see the last one in theaters and i remember i kept falling in and out of sleep again
00:27:52.720
i'm not a potter and i tried to be and she was sitting there sobbing in a room full of other
00:27:57.240
people and i was just like oh girl get over it and then years later iron man dies and i'm like oh my
00:28:02.380
god you're like in your mom's like get over it oh yeah she said i've been waiting for this she felt her
00:28:06.140
ear be hot she's like that's what you get okay this next one for the bechdel test is ratatouille
00:28:11.620
colette um i love her i wish i could have a french the only thing is like la vie en rouge
00:28:20.140
yeah literally um does she speak to other women i've seen this movie a million times i'm gonna say
00:28:26.020
it passes the bechdel test i think it does it's actually wrong oh no oh my god yeah it says the
00:28:31.320
only female character is celine leclerc who is seen in one scene in colette the sole female chef they
00:28:38.120
never interact oh yeah that's right so it's the critic well obviously you missed one lady and
00:28:43.400
it's the old lady in the very beginning oh damn that was shooting the rats oh yeah and i only know
00:28:47.800
that because poor rats and i said i only know that because that brain that movie is tattooed on the
00:28:52.540
inside of my brain it's it's running inside always like is that what lives in your head no truly it's
00:28:57.160
that it's that movie alone it's that movie and what's another movie the harry potter and the
00:29:01.460
i have so many jokes from that movie that i just make and people don't get and i'm like you don't
00:29:06.980
get it but that's okay damn mine is the minions they're running around in here jen i'm such a big
00:29:12.240
despicable me fan every time i go to universe like every time i drive into la and i see the minion
00:29:16.740
guarding the city i'm like oh my god like you're here like it's the first time oh every time i take
00:29:21.500
a photo of it i'm like yes uh but i love you just have a camera roll of only just i actually do
00:29:26.020
there's a video of him he caught on fire in the parking lot one oh have you seen that oh that was
00:29:30.320
his and they played music that it was so funny um but yeah every time i go i love the minions i
00:29:35.140
remember the first time i saw despicable me the very first one we took my little brother to go see
00:29:39.380
it in theaters i was laughing my ass off i said this movie is so funny oh yeah dude i i'm a big fan
00:29:46.420
honestly i love movies like that i think they're so funny they're so good okay last one is the avengers
00:29:51.800
2013 oh jesus christ if i get this wrong this is actually really sad it's bad for your brand so
00:29:57.280
don't get it wrong i know i might have to rebrand as a harry potter girl then you're like i'm starting
00:30:02.700
a new she speak to peggy carter's dead yeah it's black widow who else is a maria hill oh shit i want
00:30:10.560
to say no because they are but is it male love interest or is it like it's just they have to talk
00:30:16.120
about something other than men oh then no yeah that movie doesn't know absolutely you're right
00:30:21.480
it does not pass i'm gonna say that black widow and that tight little black suit they were not
00:30:24.620
speaking about anything other than the men she had to baby no literally it says the film includes
00:30:29.000
natasha pepper agent maria hill but these three women never hold a conversation with each other
00:30:34.260
during the film oh wow that's pretty wild if i really think about that that's that happens very
00:30:39.040
few times the only time we saw natasha and pepper interact was iron man 2 and forward and then we had
00:30:44.720
unless it was no she wasn't an iron man one and then like the end game movie where then she was
00:30:48.940
rescue and even in in iron man 2 is that the one where he meets her for the first yeah and she like
00:30:52.940
boxes john fabbro yeah yeah so in that one they only talk about tony yeah so even then it doesn't
00:30:58.360
i love a little natasha and tony they're one of my fave pairings like platonically don't take don't
00:31:03.500
start shipping but yeah i love them that's crazy and maria hill too she's nick fury's assistant
00:31:10.280
not what would you call her um i don't know i'm not gonna say sidekick number one
00:31:14.560
soldier soldier like she's there for him or even if you've seen spider-man far from home like she's
00:31:19.160
his right hand but then it turns out there's scrolls if you've never seen it so that's a
00:31:23.920
spoiler for you for everyone there i have a oh i i love to spoil things that's one thing i love to do
00:31:29.040
not for other people but i i went into endgame reading the spoiler article for i knew what
00:31:33.700
happened i didn't want to be really yeah i think it's a lot of people that takes away from the
00:31:37.640
emotion i don't care i'm gonna cry all the same i really i'm one of those people that like if i'm
00:31:43.260
watching a movie and i don't know where it's going i'll look it up i'll literally i'll wikipedia
00:31:48.200
search the plot i'll read the whole thing and i'll be like okay i can i yeah i'll finish oh yeah
00:31:52.960
and speaking of like now spoilers gossip in hollywood that is a male dominated field gossip
00:31:58.000
in hollywood i swear things get around the men more than they do the women i'm sure i'm absolutely
00:32:02.460
sure and honestly they be lying oh yeah i feel like women are just notoriously honest about shit
00:32:06.380
oh yeah especially in hollywood you have to be yeah well you have to prove yourself somehow
00:32:09.680
yeah honesty is the way to go apparently no seriously okay so for this next video that
00:32:15.620
we're going to show uh this one i'm just going to give you a little breakdown of it so basically
00:32:20.060
this user asked why is it that men in hollywood can be in as many movies as they want and be as
00:32:26.300
oversaturated in the media as they want nothing happens to their career but when women are in too
00:32:31.420
many movies for a year their careers can be ruined right yeah that's interesting yeah so they use
00:32:37.340
examples like jennifer lawrence she faced a ton and hathaway and yeah that's a good one right yeah
00:32:43.660
oh yeah and hathaway is on here as well literally whoopi goldberg who else taylor swift oh yeah i
00:32:49.360
have women now that i'm thinking of that i think are getting that same treatment which is florence
00:32:52.720
pew and anya taylor joy yeah i think they're being put in so many projects that people are now like
00:32:57.500
are you kidding me and they're so talented they're beautiful i love florence pew yelena now
00:33:03.440
anya taylor might be in a marvel project soon she actually was in in humans which is really cool
00:33:08.240
for x-men uh but i think the market is becoming like people are gonna feel sick of them as they
00:33:13.500
did jennifer lawrence they have their true fans but just so did jennifer lawrence yeah like like
00:33:17.720
have you seen i think her name's kiera kiera brow um i think that's how you pronounce her name on
00:33:22.740
tiktok um but she talks about she created this theory called the jennifer lawrence pipeline have you seen
00:33:27.900
that yeah yeah her theory about how like they get obsessed with these women they start making tons of
00:33:32.940
movies like they're in everything everywhere everyone's so obsessed with them and then it
00:33:37.140
gets to a point where people start getting sick of them so they start chewing them up and spitting
00:33:40.540
them oh yeah that happens so often and then they're just like this girl's trying too hard she's
00:33:44.740
everywhere she's trying too hard to be relatable like i'm sure jennifer lawrence i mean i'm sure
00:33:48.780
she's a cool girl like i'm sure she's super nice oh cool girl syndrome in hollywood too is a thing
00:33:53.200
yeah cool girl well that's where she goes through that and that's literally where they moved her
00:33:56.760
same thing with dakota johnson same thing like they moved her into the like now you're trying too
00:34:00.220
hard to be cool oh yeah almost like making her a pick me yeah and then she's not it's just what
00:34:04.340
you guys are you're boxing her in whereas before everyone was jerking it to her and then all of a
00:34:09.000
sudden they're like oh i can't stand this bitch anymore no it's the people that gave you the gave
00:34:14.400
you the platform and really like encouraged and supported you that are the ones that are going to
00:34:17.900
be the reason for a downfall like i think even on tiktok we see that with women in the entertainment
00:34:22.200
industry it's such a difficult thing to maneuver someone someone dm me and told me you're going
00:34:26.720
through the jennifer lawrence effect and i was like i don't know what that means and i don't
00:34:30.120
think i want what a rude thing to send you i was just like well thanks like i don't know what to
00:34:33.960
do you're like oh my god thank you i'm like so you think you think i'm gonna be a star no yeah it
00:34:39.040
like happens to female creators and like a ton of women in the industry that oversaturation well and i
00:34:44.020
think a different probably a key difference to that with between like creators and like stars is that
00:34:49.520
you are they're inaccessible to you so you never get to see them oh yeah because they're so you don't
00:34:54.700
know anything about yeah so they're so closed off to the to the like society so that they start to
00:35:00.440
formulate their own opinions about them they're like why bet you she's like this i bet you she's
00:35:03.480
like this whereas like you know influencers they you see their everyday lives you interact with them
00:35:08.820
you feel like this very close parasocial relationship yeah so you have people that will be like oh no
00:35:13.540
she's not like that like she's not like that in real life like you have people fight for you kind of
00:35:16.800
thing yeah whereas with celebrities ever it's just like mob mentality oh yeah like you're right i hate
00:35:21.120
her too you know i'm so glad you brought it up but they do that to influencers too but i feel like
00:35:24.560
it's easier to turn on a celebrity because they don't give you access yeah there's no accessibility
00:35:28.740
you don't know who they really are well and i think that all the time i'm like you see that we
00:35:32.940
talked about i talked about with britney too like we talked about timothy chalamet right and i think to
00:35:37.620
myself he could be annoying what if he's the worst person in the world we don't know that we have we
00:35:42.060
have no clue like like women are like oh my god like he's he's a man written by a woman is he is he
00:35:47.500
our most met no is he i said all i will say when i interviewed him what a sweetheart i have to i have to
00:35:53.300
say there you go what a sweetheart he was so nice he was so sweet um but obviously that wasn't the
00:35:57.940
real him i'm so excited to be here but his personality shines through there you go like
00:36:03.260
when women let their personalities shine through there's such a different reception almost i agree
00:36:06.960
yeah and then there's room for error oh yeah whereas like when they're very closed off very like private
00:36:11.640
which they have every right to be um sometimes i think people are just easy to turn the art of privacy
00:36:16.860
for men versus the art of privacy for women in hollywood and i think there's alexa demy does it
00:36:22.240
beautifully where she does not let you into anything we don't know anything about this woman
00:36:25.060
we don't even know her age she's just there to be an actress i star i know i've seen so many
00:36:29.320
theories and they're like oh she's like 23 and some people are like no she's 35 yeah whose guess i'm
00:36:34.140
like her age is none of our business no it truly isn't yeah i think that all the time too i'm like
00:36:38.580
it's we only see what they give us access to see it's the same thing with influencers like oh yeah even
00:36:43.020
if you feel like you're seeing their everyday life you're really not you're not at the end of the day
00:36:46.220
you really don't know them so don't put them on a pedestal one and also two don't don't be a weirdo
00:36:51.240
oh yeah or one of my favorite things this is like a side thing but one of my favorite things
00:36:54.800
influencers do is they'll say like my normal routine is like this but i'm actually going to
00:36:58.220
do something different today when we just want the normal routine so that's so interesting i do that
00:37:02.680
a lot yeah like sometimes people ask me all the time like oh i wish you a daily vlog girl you don't
00:37:06.980
want to see my it's boring oh yeah i just they just see this and yeah all the stuff we do yeah well
00:37:12.780
you say that now and then you watch me like eating cereal at 12 p.m because that's what time i woke up
00:37:19.240
oh yeah with no pants on you're like this content's ass like they're literally not gonna like it
00:37:23.980
it's boring i i feel like my life is so boring outside of work i feel you which i'm very grateful
00:37:29.620
for oh yeah i think we all need that yeah i think a sense of quote-unquote normalcy yeah absolutely
00:37:35.120
and so okay so the comments on this video like the first one actually the first one says the
00:37:40.040
answer is misogyny there you go yeah actually there you go here first honestly the last movie i saw
00:37:45.200
that was really funny i saw the lost city i love that movie i loved it it was wonderful exactly
00:37:50.020
what i expected some people are like i'm like i don't like this sandra bullock oh queen she looks
00:37:56.260
so incredible in that movie oh she's so funny this is so interesting that you bring her up in that movie
00:38:00.880
she i think is one of the only female dependable stars in hollywood left for a box office box office
00:38:08.200
is so important and some like i've heard people call actors and actresses box office poison where they're
00:38:12.480
not bringing in revenue they're not bringing in the money that they thought they would yeah
00:38:15.100
if not one of the only dependable movie stars left yeah like you just she always hits oh yeah
00:38:20.180
no matter what movie she's in like the difference between the women and the men in that argument is
00:38:23.620
the men aren't really ridiculed that much whereas a woman she didn't bring that much money and yeah
00:38:28.400
it's so interesting yeah that's so true and that's why like brad pitt in that movie so funny he's
00:38:35.100
hilarious unbelievably funny oh my god he's a really talented actor and just like very wonderful to like
00:38:41.040
you can tell he loves what he's doing yeah um i love seeing like serious actors like like ones that
00:38:46.840
oscar award winning emmy nominated like any meryl streep and don't look up yeah hysterical just like
00:38:52.360
in the most slapstick comedy movies like like brad pitt like it's like seeing a dog walk on its
00:38:57.480
hind legs to me i'm like it's so funny that you're in this like so dumb movie like dumb in the sense
00:39:02.640
that it's just funny for being funny it's not like it's not winning any awards but i think it should
00:39:07.880
oh yeah absolutely academy you know what the vmas and the mtv movie awards are gonna eat it up
00:39:12.680
that yeah that's where i get my true entertainment because that's where my movies that's where my
00:39:17.420
movies are recognized oh yeah or like those awards versus like the real awards i think like megan fox
00:39:22.660
said it best we talked about her earlier but she said i don't care to win a bafta i just want to be
00:39:26.800
a pop like there's pop actors and there's more serious actors and bridging those two when the actors
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can do that is great yeah and she's and she's great that's why i think about uh actors like
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channing tatum right oh yeah is what it is have you seen free guy no okay listen oh listen don't
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hate me don't hate me i tried to watch it did you get to where he's in it i watched 30 minutes
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and i i didn't laugh once and i said you know what we'll try again another day i promise my sister
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literally told me she's like you're an idiot like watch the whole thing it's so funny i was like i i
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didn't laugh once and i gave it a shot i literally was sitting there like 30 minutes
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there was another hour and a half to go there was another you could have given it 30 more and
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channing would have showed up and you would have been like yes he's so funny in it genuinely i
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honestly think that channing tatum's in the same lane as like dwayne the rock johnson to me who i
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absolutely adore love him oh yeah to death he's the best but it's like they know exactly what lane
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they're in they're like i'm just a funny guy or in a way they play themselves in every exactly and we
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love to see it exactly but is there women that can do that is there women we know that do that
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for hollywood no i think like they have to transform every time yeah one of my wasn't the women that i
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would say is like melissa mccarthy i think she's she's so good at improv she is so good at comedy
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she can transform anything but like how we're talking about dwayne and ryan being just being
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themselves not even being a character yeah like robert downey jr does the same thing for iron man
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he's literally tony stark yeah uh we don't see we don't see talk of women doing that no it's true
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melissa mccarthy love her i do really love her dude tammy i when i tell you like when i watched
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tammy tammy got a lot of shit i was dying when i watched tammy oh yeah i my mom and i watched it
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together i was laughing like i was like she was in right in front of me doing stand-up routine oh my
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bad she was hysterical no she was so she was so funny like that literally i'm sorry we're talking
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about like movies and whatever but there's the part in the movie where she's like talking about how
00:41:14.560
wonderful the deer is have you seen tammy you know where she's in her grandma they wake up in the woods
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she's like oh my god like it's so beautiful her grandma oh my god so beautiful so beautiful and
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then tammy's like yeah yeah she scares me she's like what the fuck are you talking about get out
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of here no that made me laugh so hard i almost threw up oh yeah so i was like did academy award
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that's why i said don't put me in the academy because i'm submitting tammy for the awards oh my
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gosh like put this in there there's so many movies throughout the year and especially i think
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like recognizing women in comedy in an academy sense is so difficult for the academy to do
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yeah but recognizing like men in superhero movies is a more easier thing not to discredit them
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because that's an incredibly hard thing to get into like i remember mad max fury road was nominated
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and charlie's there and i thought deserved a nomination there's so many women who can do that
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for the academy and it's just not allowed it's just like horror yeah horror is never recognized in
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the academy like it should be just like i saw hereditary oh and tony collette deserves yeah she give
00:42:07.740
her her flowers for that movie honestly hereditary is one of the scariest movies i've ever seen like
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like truly like i was up for hours after i had to watch i had to watch you don't even watch
00:42:17.520
something nice to like clear your brain oh yeah i put like a good cartoon on i'm like oh me too
00:42:21.120
i put on i put on like moana or something to like hard reset my brain because i'm like i don't
00:42:25.080
want to think about that when i go to sleep oh yeah i was up for days i literally could not
00:42:29.340
sleep that that movie was so like horrifying but yeah in a generally like wonderful movie way like
00:42:35.100
what a masterpiece and tony collette was so good in that movie tony collette i loved her
00:42:39.200
knives out she's a fantastic i loved knives out too that's a wonderful did you think he was the
00:42:44.080
villain i know i really didn't i didn't i love when i i love when i can't tell sometimes i figure
00:42:48.960
it out and i'm all damn but some that one really had me going i had no idea like when he like started
00:42:54.460
saying all that stuff to anna damer i was like whoa whoa whoa you really meant what you said and
00:42:57.840
you did it didn't you and she was so good in the movie too see give them their flowers give them
00:43:01.800
their flowers yeah and someone like someone's just like extra notes on here like things like the rock
00:43:07.780
right like we said ryan reynolds was the one i was thinking of yeah the one that's like in
00:43:11.300
everything he's in every movie serious have you seen the adam project i saw okay this is so dumb
00:43:16.280
but sometimes i'll tell people yeah i saw it because i watched trixie and katya watch it
00:43:19.940
so i'm like oh yeah for sure i know all about it oh i literally haven't seen the review then you're
00:43:24.740
like boom i saw it yeah i mean i got all the high points oh yeah i saw jay soups talk about how
00:43:30.560
much she didn't like that though the adam project yeah um i think males loved it i saw so many
00:43:34.820
male reviews loved it they ate it up yeah and then i saw like female rules and it wasn't the
00:43:39.340
same female reviewers versus male again there's so many things like the perspective is so much
00:43:44.240
different oh yeah and yeah see they brought up bradley cooper the rock like they never have to
00:43:48.440
like go away like take time off like jennifer lawrence like she was like you said in every
00:43:52.220
single movie killing it and then she had to like take a step on it for a while i think her anne
00:43:57.460
hathaway is another example i think also after these women all won their academy awards i want to
00:44:02.380
specifically talk about um lupita niongo who doesn't really get work right now which is insane
00:44:06.900
to me she might be very picky with her projects but yeah you just won an academy award yeah you're
00:44:11.240
a sought after actress and she's in black panther which is amazing yeah um but i want more work for
00:44:16.720
the women that clearly can do it yeah same with octavia spencer i want more work we're recognized for
00:44:21.540
it yeah but like men they win one they're like get that guy oh get him in a box office smash get him in
00:44:27.720
the next netflix hits oh yeah or any male actor that does anything marvel movie right now bring
00:44:32.800
it to a marvel movie right now i know like harry styles being in a marvel movie that's why now i
00:44:37.840
have a lot of opinions about that and they're all positive before anyone gets on me uh it's just
00:44:42.220
interesting to see i want to see the tapes i really want to see an audition tape did i said the same
00:44:47.320
thing when i saw him come in in the latin eternals i literally was like i'm so interested to see what
00:44:52.000
that audition process looked like because again it could also be a cloud thing but no one's ever going to
00:44:55.720
say that about men i don't think so but like if you did say it about women i'm just saying it
00:45:00.020
doesn't hurt oh yeah when you're when you're the topic of conversation when you're very very popular
00:45:03.940
oh yeah and also this is also another fun fact which i'm sure you're well aware of because you're
00:45:08.320
an influencer too bringing it when you have like an almost entirely female demographic people are
00:45:13.420
more likely to work with you because women buy things yes absolutely women show women are the
00:45:17.920
leave consumers yeah women move units you know what i'm saying like oh yeah they're a make or break so
00:45:23.660
that's what i'm saying his audience is 99 female so like i'm sure it didn't hurt that he's very
00:45:30.740
popular that didn't credit scene i remember i was in theater and everyone i was with and the premiere
00:45:34.280
was like oh my god no seriously same and i and i'm not and i'm not knocking him listen i'm a big
00:45:39.280
he's fantastic i'm a hairy girl did you like as it was have you heard the new song i loved it
00:45:43.660
it was so good he can't he can do no wrong in my eyes so don't come for me hairy hairy girls what
00:45:48.820
they called harry's harry's yeah girls my hairy girls that's why that's why i'm gonna call hair
00:45:55.480
balls yeah no seriously i'm like don't come for me i think he's gonna do wonderful i'm sure he's
00:46:00.600
very well he signed apparently a five movie deal we contracts in the marvel universe now they stopped
00:46:06.200
doing like these big 10-year contracts from my knowledge someone might correct me but yeah he
00:46:10.700
signed a long thing but so did salma hayek for eternals yeah that was talked about for one day
00:46:15.860
seriously and her character was murdered in the movie too she will i spoiler also campaigning for
00:46:22.480
her to come back you know what's so annoying i've been campaigning for black widow to come back i don't
00:46:26.640
know if it's i don't know if it's true i don't know anything about the comics i just be saying stuff
00:46:29.580
she will have a hand in production so i'm excited to see what they do um i'm like i don't know they
00:46:35.220
open the multiverse maybe there's another one oh she could totally show up that's what i'm saying
00:46:38.640
the multiverse of madness the cameos in that are crazy that's what i said who knows i just be saying
00:46:43.480
that my brother is such a big marvel nerd he always he always gets so like that's not she's
00:46:47.440
never coming back i'm just saying that's a lot i want to look over but that is a lie
00:46:51.080
i'm just saying i'm just saying we don't know the future oh yeah and i don't know anything
00:46:57.140
don't box is open yeah well yeah don't take my word for it i don't know anything but basically
00:47:01.700
just to wrap up what's your overall thoughts on like women in hollywood their treatment all that kind
00:47:07.080
of stuff like what do you think like where do you see it going i feel like it's moving in a much
00:47:11.380
more positive direction yeah i i talked about the rise of female directors for streaming services
00:47:15.500
i think we're going to see that rise for um filmmaking in general yeah it is moving in a
00:47:19.600
more positive direction i think it's moving in a more positive direction for a certain group there's
00:47:24.020
a lot of work to be done for people of color there's a lot of work to be done for black people
00:47:27.140
and that's the thing that like bothers me the most is there's still stereotypes there's still all of
00:47:31.680
this and while we're moving forward are we really yeah like for me being latina being mexican
00:47:35.960
american i want to see mexican stories i want to see a rom-com with a mexican actress who's not going
00:47:40.640
through a traumatic situation yeah who's not going back to mexico with an ugly filter over it
00:47:44.600
i i want to see that is that a bad thing seriously i want it to move like living enjoying life yeah
00:47:50.120
living enjoying life being in the moment i um there's so many rom-coms that could deal and work
00:47:55.000
with people of color but it's just getting them in those rooms same honestly well i and i talk about
00:47:59.400
this all the time but i'm someone so like my representation starts and stops with the rock so i'm
00:48:04.980
like brother i see you bro we out here together bro that's what i always think we out here together
00:48:11.380
bro it's just you and me that's why i've been telling him to hit me up also for people in the
00:48:15.060
space like bring more people and you have the power to push new talent forward yeah start doing it more
00:48:20.940
and more yeah and i call out like yeah genuinely like that's why i think it it's probably the same
00:48:25.420
thing for you too like being a person of color also where like people are like i i never got to see
00:48:30.300
people that look like me specifically in the influencer space too because i i never see any
00:48:35.820
famous someone girls i mean unless you count dinah jane but she's not someone she's tongan
00:48:40.500
yeah harmony oh yeah i remember her i do i loved harmony i was a fan so i know her so really that's
00:48:45.920
why i was like a like with the representation part i think that's so important especially in
00:48:50.980
mainstream stuff like seeing you on the oscars red carpet that's incredible that's why it's so
00:48:56.540
it's so important every time i talk about representation it makes me like
00:48:59.480
emotion yeah because i because i always think like kids like us like never had shit oh yeah
00:49:04.200
no like when i first saw black panther i was like moved to tears yeah because i was like can you
00:49:08.740
imagine all the kids seeing this shang chi yep shang chi or i think now also not bringing it from
00:49:13.900
this bringing it from the smaller screen to the bigger screen oscar isaac being a literal latino
00:49:18.360
actor being moon knight is huge that's a huge representation sama hayek being ajak that's huge mexican
00:49:22.740
arab like yeah it's important to let these little kids know that there's someone that looks like them
00:49:26.960
on there or i don't know if you saw the video of her talking about putting the suit on for the
00:49:30.000
first time and brian brian terry henry also talked about it where he just was brought to tears
00:49:34.140
oh that's so sweet it's so important because as a child you don't see that yeah especially
00:49:38.800
especially for women that's why i said for women even more so oh yeah that's why i said and and
00:49:43.360
also the rock if you want to hit me up buddy let me know drew's available actually like i'm here
00:49:48.780
i clear my sketch for you buddy i'll bring your big bald head i'll sit you right here
00:49:53.200
comment yeah he likes to come to the comment section i'm sure he has a lot to say that's
00:49:56.680
what i say i make fun of baldies but i would never make fun of you i say this all the time i said i
00:50:00.760
said bald men literally it's like not all bald men are misogynists but all misogynists are bald or
00:50:06.220
balding yeah absolutely you're very right that's what i see that the creasing in the hairline right
00:50:10.140
here that's what i'm saying and i and my dad's bald so like wow listen i'll bring you here i'll bring
00:50:15.120
my dad here you guys can sit next to each other it'll be a vibe yeah and i'll bring emily and emily
00:50:19.660
can come too i'm gonna be like hey guy the rock i mean it ties in he's gonna be black adam right
00:50:25.540
yeah he's gonna be in the dc that universe my goodness i know i wish i wish he was coming to
00:50:30.920
marvel but he was like oh all of them actually well i absolutely know you think jason momoa
00:50:35.180
signed something and quickly yes you can do it same with him too i think that was i think it's
00:50:40.520
incredible that's something i talked about way before i became an influencer we're so off track but
00:50:44.620
anyways with with jason momoa specifically when he signed on to be aquaman i thought that shit was
00:50:49.500
cool i was like that's so awesome that's huge but then i thought it was missed opportunity because
00:50:53.600
i felt like you could have made his family in the ocean all pacific islander yeah wouldn't that
00:50:57.660
have been so cool then you could have made his mom white wasn't his mom nicole kidman yeah yeah
00:51:02.360
i remember that i do i remember these they look the same age and he's like mom oh my god mom is
00:51:08.320
that you no yeah i think and i love nicole kidman don't get me wrong she's incredible wonderful
00:51:12.840
ageless oh in per i interviewed her as well oh what porcelain skin like talk about just
00:51:18.760
flawless she's frozen in time actually like age of adeline's type of stuff she literally is frozen
00:51:23.660
in time benjamin button type like truly well anyways emily thank you so much for coming on
00:51:29.820
i had a blast i learned a lot yeah i learned a lot from you too i love talking to you about movies
00:51:34.220
girl thank you you really be out here i love it this is my favorite thing and it's one of the main
00:51:38.060
reasons i want to do what i want to do like i owe it all to the women who've done it before me
00:51:41.620
love that same here honestly and i'm so happy to have you thank you so much for joining us today
00:51:46.040
where can everybody find you you can all find me okay so this is where it gets tricky
00:51:49.960
tiktok is emily uribe with two u's instagram is emily uribe with two e's at the end and then
00:51:55.840
twitter is emily uribe like b-a-e yeah it's different for everything that's all right we'll list
00:52:01.040
them out for everyone thank you so everyone can see properly and thank you for all of you joining me
00:52:06.420
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00:52:10.340
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