The Golden One - February 01, 2015


Short and Alpha


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Length

5 minutes

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166.57701

Word count

929

Sentence count

74

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Misogyny

2

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Toxicity

23

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Hate speech

1

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In this episode, I answer a commonly asked question from my glorious and beloved true friends. Can you be short and alpha? Is being short a requirement to be an alpha or not? Do you need to be tall to be dominant?

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00:00:00.000 Greetings True Friends, today I want to answer a commonly asked question, and I've gotten a great many of you glorious and beloved True Friends asking me, you know, presenting me with quite similar scenarios, like from shorter guys at Wandering, so I'm just going to make one video answering it all.
00:00:30.000 Because, you know, the scenarios were, you know, very similar to each other. So, basically, the question at hand is, can you be short and alpha? Short answer, yeah, definitely. But we're going to go into the longer answer as well. My main point I would like to stress here is that, can you be short and alpha? Yes. Can you be insecure and alpha? No. Is being short making you insecure?
00:01:00.000 If the answer is yes there, then you will have a harder time being confident and dominant. No question about it at all. I wish I could give another answer, but if you have an insecurity that is impeding on your ability to be confident, and, you know, just feeling that fucking fire in yourself, then you need to deal with it.
00:01:20.000 Because if it gets in the way of you feeling like a fucking god, then there's a problem. And it goes into the saying quite a bit, like, nothing is to be feared except fear itself. 0.87
00:01:34.080 The same principle applies here. If you experience that it is a problem, then you will create a problem. If you say, like, okay, that's fucking fine, I don't care, like, boom!
00:01:45.700 There goes the problem out the window. So if you make it a problem, it will be a problem. If you don't make it a problem, it won't. Like, if you are securing yourself either way, it doesn't fucking matter. 0.96
00:01:56.300 We can take a completely different example, like, some people say, like, oh, you know, it's much easier to get a good-looking girl if you have a nice car.
00:02:05.900 Or, yeah, might be true, I don't know. Do you need a nice car to get a beautiful girl? No, definitely not. 0.79
00:02:13.520 So you have to distinguish between necessities and things that can be beneficial.
00:02:18.800 Yeah, sure. Dominating space and, you know, being noticed can be easier than when you're physically larger. No question about it at all.
00:02:28.260 Is it a necessity? No, not at all.
00:02:31.000 So I'm going to take an example from the most alpha guy I've actually met, and from the good old army.
00:02:40.680 And anyone in my platoon will probably know who it is.
00:02:43.780 Greetings, glorious brothers.
00:02:46.580 So, basically, he was rather short, actually.
00:02:50.120 It was nothing I thought about, but yeah, he was, like, um... 0.99
00:02:53.340 But he had that fucking fire and intensity. He was alpha as fuck. 1.00
00:02:57.360 He was the kind of guy, when we were out exercising, you know, with weapons and stuff, doing different things, 1.00
00:03:02.960 and he was watching, you know, you wanted to perform your very fucking best. 0.94
00:03:06.780 You wanted so bad to impress him. 0.99
00:03:08.480 You wanted him to be like, oh, that is a fucking good solo, good fucking work. 0.98
00:03:13.320 That kind of intensity was what he had. 0.98
00:03:17.720 So that didn't, like, obviously, he was muscular and everything, like, that very fit and everything.
00:03:21.760 But, um, he wasn't large by any means. 0.97
00:03:25.520 But he just had that fucking fire and confidence and everything, and you knew that that was a fucking formidable man right there. 0.97
00:03:34.100 And we had several officers who were the same thing. 0.99
00:03:38.540 Really confident in their own abilities. 0.97
00:03:41.000 They didn't give a fuck about how tall they were. 0.94
00:03:43.400 Like, that isn't... 0.95
00:03:45.180 That wasn't a necessity to be the best they could be.
00:03:48.040 And the same thing for you. Like, are you a basketball player?
00:03:52.200 Okay, yeah, then you need to be tall.
00:03:54.320 But if you're just out and about, like, being an epic hero, you don't need to be tall.
00:03:57.960 Because that isn't a requirement to be epic or alpha.
00:04:02.100 So get those thoughts out of your mind.
00:04:04.840 I'm gonna take another example.
00:04:06.620 Glorious God King Alexander.
00:04:08.680 He was by no accounts, you know what, the tallest guy around. 0.99
00:04:12.460 Did he give a fuck about that? No. 0.99
00:04:13.900 He was busy being worshipped by his men, leading his men to victory after victory, and being, you know, full of himself, believing he was a god.
00:04:22.460 That's the sort of mentality he had.
00:04:25.060 He didn't care about, you know, height or anything.
00:04:28.000 So, if you're a shorter guy, if you're feeling insecurity, know that it will only, only fucking be a problem if you make it a problem.
00:04:37.680 And this can really be applied to other things as well.
00:04:40.560 But if you don't think about, if you don't, like, go around, like, oh god, I wish I was two centimeters taller. 1.00
00:04:47.020 Like, fuck that shit. 1.00
00:04:48.520 Change what you can change. 1.00
00:04:50.000 And keep in mind that it is you in your mind that is creating the problem.
00:04:54.520 It isn't a problem out in real life.
00:04:57.240 So basically, to conclude, don't make it a problem.
00:05:00.300 Don't make it a big deal.
00:05:01.400 Change the things you can change and then realize that alphaness and epicness comes from within, not your physical appearance per se.
00:05:11.620 But then also, obviously, like, do the best for the situation.
00:05:15.460 Put on as much mass as you can.
00:05:17.700 That will also help with the confidence. 0.99
00:05:19.480 But you should not let height be any sort of thing that stands in your way to feeling like a fucking god. 0.98
00:05:27.220 So that's basically what I have to say about that. 0.98
00:05:31.240 Glory to Makedon.
00:05:33.260 X-XO.
00:05:34.140 Boom! 0.99