Wherever you are in the world, wherever you are, if you're listening to this today, I hope there's two thick gay men out there just snuggled up somewhere listening to the bad chatter out into the universe. Happy Monday!
00:00:38.300Happy Monday, guys. Happy Monday out there in the world, wherever you are.
00:00:44.940If you're in a, you know, if you're at, if you're in your, if you're in your car right now or your truck, you know, if you're in a van and, you know, and you secretly got them headphones on, you got a couple of kids in the back that don't need to be listening to, you know, to your wife.
00:01:00.000Wild Step Cousin Theo right here, because he might, you know, sometimes I, you know, my brain throws an expletive and it uses my face to toss it into the universe.
00:01:09.400And, and so, yeah, but wherever you are, if you're sitting at home snuggled up with a loved one, dude, that sounds beautiful.
00:01:17.540There's nothing I wish more than that there's two beautiful or not even beautiful in their own minds.
00:01:22.440And it doesn't even matter who thinks they're beautiful.
00:01:24.380I just hope that there's two thick gay men out there just snuggled up somewhere listening to this, listening to this bad chatter out into the universe.
00:01:33.640Because that's something about that makes me, it doesn't make me feel homoerotic, but it just makes me feel like, you know what?
00:01:42.140Them big dogs is out there, you know, staying natural and having a good time.
00:01:47.100And, you know, and we're not, you know, they're not, people, they're not not listening to a guy because, you know, he's maybe different than them.
00:01:56.560And, and I think about that, but wherever you are, if you're listening to this today, I appreciate you being here with me.
00:02:02.340Happy Monday, January 15, the year 2017 in, in time, as far as we know.
00:02:12.300And the game, I have the game on right now and I paused it.
00:02:16.320I have the Saints versus the Minnesota Vikings and I'm home alone.
00:02:25.340It got to the point, I was like, I got to do this podcast because I got to drive to Brea and do a show.
00:02:29.040I got to leave in about an hour and 15 minutes or something.
00:02:32.200So I'm like, I got to, I can't watch anymore right now.
00:03:15.700I want to thank everybody that came out in Brea this weekend and I want to apologize for anybody that came to the Saturday Night Late Show.
00:03:24.180Things just got out of hand, you know, like not with me, really just in the audience.
00:03:32.780You know, some people was snick, you know, snickered up on that dust, you know.
00:03:35.920And it just, I think it ruined some of the show and the staff.
00:03:42.100And I love the staff that works there, you know, but they didn't do a good job of holding it down.
00:03:47.320There was no real mediation of the room.
00:03:49.740And I just want to apologize to anybody that came out to that Saturday Late Show.
00:03:54.260And if I'm heading back there in the future and you want to come see a show, hit me up and I'll see if I can help out with some tickets because I feel bad about that.
00:04:02.940Because you guys didn't get the best show because it was just these, you know, some people were chirping and, you know, I don't know what they were doing.
00:04:10.920Taking each other's pulses or just being just wild.
00:04:13.280So, you know, but anyhow, I appreciate if you did come out and I had a nice weekend at Bray, man.
00:05:49.760It's like it's like Mother Nature herself is about to just, you know, drop an egg, you know, like she's just on that stration.
00:05:56.720And she's about to just drop an egg, you know, and I don't even know where that egg would just pop out of the earth, I guess, just come rolling out of a dam, maybe out of the San Andreas fault.
00:06:05.800You know, that egg might end up out there in, you know, in South Riverside or out towards Anaheim.
00:06:12.280Who knows, you know, but I feel like Mother Nature's just she's on that, you know, she's on them tumbles.
00:06:17.920She's got them belly tumbles and she wants pickles and chocolate because she's having, you know, she's going through some things.
00:06:25.020And sometimes it has to happen for things to even out, you know, but damn, they're taking every everybody's getting everybody's getting called out for being wild and for being too much.
00:06:35.220Aziz Ansari just got, you know, there was a thing on the Internet today.
00:06:38.960And, you know, the thing is, when you first time I read something now, the first thing I think is, is this true?
00:07:29.120If that's the case, do you take it to authorities?
00:07:32.700Are you just making it aware and using his name?
00:07:36.060Um, so I guess some of the movement, the Me Too, if it's part of the Me Too movement is a bit or Time's Up.
00:07:43.060I think they changed it now to Time's Up, um, is a little confusing to me in that regard because I don't know what's, you know, like, is it just awareness?
00:07:53.860Do they get to say what they thought happened that evening?
00:07:56.360And I guess he will if he wants to, if he wants to, you know, rebuttal it.
00:08:00.680Um, but it's also, you know, people's perspective of people's perspectives of what's going on when something's going on can be different.
00:08:10.080You know, they can be different, you know, and, uh, we didn't all come from the same history or the same experiences, you know?
00:08:17.860Like, what if a man has only had one girlfriend and she's real rowdy, you know, and she likes the man to fucking, you know, put jingle bells in her ears and, you know, beat her on the back with a fucking, you know, semi-hard billy club or, you know, uh, put, um, you know, put egg yolks on her legs and dip them in damn, uh, you know, Planko, Planko, uh, toast chips and fuck or something like that.
00:08:48.140And then you show up at a girl's, you know, then you show up on a date and you got a sack of straight up, you know, um, toast crumbs and a deep fryer and a couple of jingle bells, a couple of JVs and you're ready to rock out.
00:09:02.240You know, it's like, uh, it's just people's perspectives going into, you know, their history has so much to do with it, but maybe she was just scared and, and, and that's all that matters.
00:09:13.120And that's why this is coming out because, you know, if a woman is, if, if you are, you know, that men need to have a look at what is aggressive behavior or what could be aggressive behavior.
00:09:30.760You know, and maybe that's, I mean, there's certainly, you know, if I'm going to spend my time, you know, reading it and thinking about it, I'm going to try to have some takeaway from it.
00:09:41.240You know, you think about a young girl being in a place with a guy who's older, more experienced, you know, and, and if, you know, if I, you know, I can't exactly put myself in that situation, but I can try.
00:09:53.720You know, maybe it's just a, it's an overall mindset that some guys have going in into hookup scenarios with chicks and it's, and it's supposed to make us, and that's what this is.
00:10:07.400She's just trying to make us think, and that's all she was trying to do.
00:10:10.740Maybe, you know, not all she's trying to do.
00:10:13.020She's trying to obviously get this off of her chest and, you know, but if you look at the conversation between them over text message, it, it looked like she was just trying to make him aware.
00:10:23.720You know, or make him aware of, of what maybe seems comfortable and normal to him is not comfortable and normal to her or comfortable.
00:10:38.480I mean, I'm just, you know, spinning my wheels here, but I guess, you know, we got to think, you know, as men, because one, we don't want to, you know, we, you don't want to harm someone.
00:10:52.660You don't want to hurt somebody, you know, but two, you also want to, you know, you don't want to not try and express yourself sexually.
00:11:06.660Especially if you think you're in a, in an environment where you can do that because, you know, over that can, you know, that can be tough on your psyche too, to, you know, to feel incapable of sexual expression or unallowed to have sexual expression.
00:11:25.840You know, and I'm not saying what he did was sexual expression, but, you know, obviously to him, it was, but to her, it wasn't, you know, I mean, maybe my, you know, it makes me wonder if maybe my attitudes might be part of the problem.
00:11:44.680You know, it has to make me ask myself that.
00:11:48.440So there's definitely value right there in making me think, but it's wild.
00:11:55.060I mean, here, this guy wakes up and, and, and, you know, maybe, maybe he does this kind of stuff all the time and maybe he's, you know, a nasty cat.
00:12:02.540And maybe he, this is something that, you know, that needs to come out to help him get better.
00:12:09.180And maybe that's the way it's being done now is just on a public scale.
00:13:12.440This is Josh calling in from the island of Hawaii.
00:13:15.540And, yeah, I'm just calling you, uh, after a little post-nuclear apocalyptic scare that we had this morning, I woke up to an amber alert saying there was an inbound ballistic missile headed to the island of Hawaii.
00:13:49.140Yeah, I was just constantly updating my Twitter, trying to figure out what the fuck's going on.
00:13:54.200Nobody's saying this is a false alarm.
00:13:57.780And I'm walking around outside, just looking at my neighbors, trying to figure out if we're about to be bombed by, uh, Kim, Kim Song Joon, whatever, whatever that dude's name is over there.
00:15:23.480But I, you know, there was a, there was a, imagine, now, that moment where you're telling me for 30 minutes, you thought this was a reality.
00:15:48.800But can you imagine that for 30 minutes?
00:15:52.140You know, I mean, I wonder how many Me Too occurrences happen just during that 30 minutes.
00:15:58.620Because if I'm somewhere and they say you got 30 minutes left, the countdown is here, dude, you can, I'll tell you this.
00:16:09.580I'm going to probably tell you, I'm going to throw down about 300 milligrams of Cialis and finally start talking to the women I've been afraid to talk to most of my life.
00:16:21.540You know, I might have to take a dude down with long hair if he uses good conditioner and I never see his face and I walk up to him from behind.
00:16:28.620And just say, hey, you know, ma'am, are you into wild stuff?
00:16:34.560And do it like, you know, like I would never want to see the front of him.
00:16:38.140But, um, but yeah, dude, I mean, that's 30 minute countdown.
00:16:41.400I'd love to know what you did in that time.
00:17:15.260I would have my family on speakerphone, talking to them, and then quietly trying to have sex with a girl who also wanted to have sex with me.
00:17:24.060So I'd be trying to fuck quietly so that my family didn't know that was going on, you know, and so me and the girl could both enjoy each other's company.
00:17:31.600But at the same time, trying to get my love, I love you's in, you know?
00:17:36.440She's like, did you just come on my back?
00:18:16.600And if there's something going on that, or, or, you know, if there's an earthquake or there's that, the bullet, the Hawaiian missile practice, whatever's going on, you know, and you are a live reporter on the scene, hit that hotline, drop us that information.
00:18:29.900And we can play it, because that was nice to have Josh call in and let us know what's happening out there in Hawaii.
00:18:35.300We had a great call that came in on last week's episode, and this was it right here.
00:18:39.520I'm going to play it, and then we're going to, uh, we're going to call, uh, a lovely young lady who's going to be able to fill us in on some information.
00:18:48.600Hey, Theo, this is JP from down in Alabama, and I was calling you about, uh, dead porn stars, man.
00:18:58.040Had two of the greats pass away, uh, in late 2017.
00:19:03.180Well, now they've left behind all this material, and, uh, I feel like a lot of people that are, you know, scrolling through these porn sites and stuff, they may not know these girls are dead.
00:19:13.760But what are your thoughts on, uh, people jerking it to dead porn stars?
00:19:18.840Man, and, you know, and some people would listen to this question, like, oh, that's stupid.
00:21:45.560But we had a caller that called in and he said, his question was, is, you know, last year you guys lost some, uh, some popular pornographic actors and actresses, I think.
00:21:56.620But in the, in your industry, is it okay?
00:22:01.280Or what are your thoughts on Matt on people masturbating and not knowing if these, um, these actors and actresses are dead?
00:22:10.640Um, well, I mean, we are, we do what we do to be fantasies.
00:22:16.380And, uh, like comedians do what they do.
00:22:19.180You want to make people laugh and you want to have fun.
00:22:21.640Well, we want to fulfill everybody's fantasies while fulfilling our fantasies and having a lot of sex and fun while we do it.
00:22:29.700So, why not have these stars live on through our fantasies?
00:22:41.420Do you think there should be a, you know, all the tube sites are ruining the business.
00:22:46.480And if people still want the amount of porno that we all make for y'all to keep coming out, some people got to be buying it because who's going to pay us?
00:23:21.280Now, I, so, but now do you think there should be a special section on these sites where, you know, it should say that these are deceased, if this is where you want to come to see deceased pornographic actresses?
00:23:36.220I thought maybe it would be interesting if they had like an in-memoriam at the end of a, you know, say you're watching some porn, at the end, there's like, you know, do you think that would turn people off?
00:23:45.520Like, you're, you know, spraying out, next thing you know, you know, it's like, you know, Judy, you know, was, you know, left the earth in 2015.
00:23:55.500I wonder if that would like, that could kill some people's buzz.
00:24:26.860I mean, I just hope the world just gets to see your skin and your, you know, breasts and, you know, anus and legs and everything for decades to come.
00:24:50.720Do you think there should be a clause maybe that, that, that, that, uh, that people who work in porn put into their, like, like, you know, with a driver's license, you have to get a thing that says, like, yeah, I'm willing to donate my organs if I die, you know?
00:26:59.240It's made for people to, you know, get that jerk up and get that seed up.
00:27:02.640Now, I feel like there should be a thing at the end.
00:27:07.440You know, it's like, you know, would that be a turnoff, though?
00:27:12.060You know, you're, you know, you're squeezing and pleasing yourself, you know, and just treating your wiener like a damn fucking near empty tube of toothpaste.
00:27:20.960And you're trying to get that last, you know, that last pop.
00:27:25.460When I'm masturbating, it's like, at this point, it's, when I was young, it would just be like, you know, just get that thing to fire and just watch that thing fire.
00:27:35.820You know, part of me, and I always have thought I'd be good at archery, because part of me, the best thing about masturbation was that pop.
00:27:40.960Not even the feeling I would get, but just the joy of seeing that distance, you know, seeing that hit, you know, seeing that trebuchet, you know, how far that boulder is going to go.
00:27:52.120Is it going to, you know, what, you know, just seeing what kind of, you know, you're like, dang, that's going on inside of my body.
00:27:58.440I got that electricity coming out of my body.
00:28:01.180You know, I got that, you know, that's Satan's neutrons, and they're flying out of your freaking body and out of your nuts.
00:28:11.000But then I do notice that as I get over time, I just want to get as much joy as I can before I, you know, end up, you know, spraying out.
00:28:21.220I try to get as much, like, build up of sheer joy before I end up, you know, catching that pop.
00:28:29.180So it's kind of evolved a little bit as to what masturbation is for me.
00:28:33.420But I'll say this, though, I think that you should, now, as viewers, maybe we watch and do a little bit of, you know, maybe you do something before.
00:28:49.060You know, I got a candle lit right here, even just for this conversation, because I knew we was definitely going to be delving into the darks, into the dark arts.
00:28:56.200And so you light that candle, you know, or maybe you do put some oranges out like they do in India.
00:29:03.040Sometimes they have a little picture of, you know, Ganesh, the elephant, and a couple of oranges or little potpourris or something.
00:29:09.040You know, you light up a couple of candles or throw some sage around the room if you know whoever you're going to masturbate to is deceased.
00:29:15.400You know, maybe you take it on that yourself as a person to have a little bit of, because I think it's, I personally do think it's a little bit wild to be cracking on, you know, some deceased footage of somebody.
00:29:29.600Maybe, I guess, it's a good question, because here I am changing my mind mid-sentence.
00:29:35.960It's a good question, but I feel like, for me, I would feel better, and I try to stay away from pornography, but for me, I would feel better if I didn't do it, if I did not do that, if I did not watch it at all.
00:29:48.680But I would then feel better if there was an in memoriam at the end, you know, you're, you know, you're, you know, you're stacking skeet inside of your body and stacking and stacking and stacking and stacking and you're watching.
00:30:03.340And then, you know, at the end it says, you know, you know, Molly Titbutt or whatever her name was, you know, whatever the girl's name was, Molly Butt, you know, tits and butt ass or whatever.
00:30:18.680You know, something sexier than that, obviously.
00:30:52.440But then, like Zoe said, a lot of that is fantasy.
00:30:56.760A lot of that is, you know, you want the fantasy.
00:30:58.780So, if they had, you know, if a headstone, you know, if you had a headstone section of pornography, would that kill the fantasy?
00:31:06.420And I could see also how it very well could.
00:31:08.380But, so, yeah, I think if you light some candles or do some special stuff, maybe, you know, get out one of those, you know, a lot of times in some of the churches, they'll have these little, the man, the preacher will go, the priest will go up and down the aisles with this wand full of holy water.
00:31:23.820And, you know, he's just, you know, he's just basically doing that, just skeeting out of his own wand, you know, but it's water.
00:31:34.440And he's throwing that on people to get everybody hyped up about the, you know, about, about, about the, you know, about the Lord feeling good for everyone.
00:34:14.680And they would put them in these, you know, it's usually kind of Rubenes, sort of, you know, healthy, regular.
00:34:20.500And they would put them in these magazines.
00:34:23.320A lot of times they'd be laying in the woods or have, like, an apple near them or a couple of pieces of fruit or some, usually fruits or something like that.
00:34:30.920Or maybe, sometimes there'd be a fox, I feel like, in the back.
00:34:33.620Like a little, like a fox or maybe a little animal.
00:34:37.080But usually it was like them just laying there, you know, long, pretty hair.
00:35:09.040The first ones you could watch online were pornography.
00:35:13.580Pornography has led the explosion and the dissemination.
00:35:20.800I don't think that's what the word is.
00:35:22.280But it's led, like, after the Bible was printed, you know, once the Bible was printed, after that, pictures of freaking ladies started milling around.
00:35:32.200You know, they'd have dudes walking three, you know, three nights out into the desert to dig up a picture of old, you know, the original camel toe that they had hid out there to jerk off.
00:35:45.640And that was, and that's what was going on.
00:35:48.480You know, when, when the internet started and people were, one of the first, the biggest catalogs of collected images, one of the first, the first and biggest was pornography.
00:36:19.920So you could buy, there were these, like, moguls, these pornography moguls who were buying, you know, for a hundred bucks, they'd get a, you know, you know, 200 images of a sexy, you know, Polish girl or German girl.
00:36:34.620And then they would sell subscriptions to people online on some of these early sites.
00:36:40.420And, and they'd sell them for a ton of money.
00:36:42.600It was meant they were making so much money.
00:36:45.480But poor, I mean, the first thing they get, if you, I bet you, if you go back to hieroglyphics, I bet they got, the first thing you see is like a fire, a little bit of directions, maybe a recipe.
00:36:56.680Somebody drew like some wheat and a, plus, you know, a picture of some, you know, maybe a boar's hip or something, or a, you know, a cut of vark or a fucking pheasant or a damn moose or something, you know, plus water, water pot equals.
00:37:13.780And then, you know, they draw pictures of people eating together.
00:37:16.960But, but if you walk down that cave and look probably behind a little bit of a rock or a few, you know, a few pictograms over, somebody sketched out some crotch or some cooter or some pornography.
00:39:31.400It's different if you're at the movie theater and Denzel Washington's dead and you're jerking off to Stand By Me or something I think he might have been in.
00:39:44.740But if you, you know, with a porn star, it's a little different because there is that physical connection where there's expected to be, I think, a release.
00:40:01.340You know, in 30 years, this could be like those, like the books when I used to go see in the library.
00:40:05.800And I've told this story before that when I was young, I really, I mean, I was, I was into pornography early.
00:40:13.560And once I saw it, I mean, the first real porno magazines I found, I found in my, well, the first one, this boy at the library showed me a picture of it and beat me up.
00:40:25.540And then we had this other kid before that used to draw, you have draw crotches.
00:40:30.280If you wanted to see a crotch, you had to get him to draw you one because this dude was, I mean, he was just like Jared the jeweler.
00:40:36.900I mean, this dude had the best, he could draw, oh, he could draw it all.
00:40:41.580And that's what you get for the weekend, you know, give him, you know, six bucks or something and get that drawing of crotch for the weekend.
00:40:49.700But then, you know, I started going to the library and seeing these Rubenesque women in these old volumes of, uh, in the library.
00:40:57.600And dude, I remember I'd be so erect in there, in that library.
00:41:01.060And I would take this book and literally close the book on my wiener, you know, and just kind of smash it against it, like press the book against it on both sides until I, you know, expelled joy out of my body.
00:41:17.040I mean, I think I was probably 12, you know, and we've all done weird stuff and I'm not proud of that, you know, but I don't feel a lot of shame because I just, this wasn't a time.
00:41:28.200That's how, if we wanted porn, like, you know, it was so rare to come across.
00:41:33.560So anything that would get me lit a little bit in the crotch, I would find it.
00:41:38.280And I found those, and I found those, these were encyclopedias, art encyclopedias.
00:41:42.260And they had pictures from Rodin and Peter Paul Rubens and some of these other artists.
00:41:47.140And I'd get in there and, um, and just look at the picture and then just close it up on my, because just that pressure on your rod at that time, at that youth with that virility going through you.
00:41:57.360I mean, really brought you to the end of, um, it brought you to what you wanted, you know, it brought you to want to, you know, get that free ounce out of your body.
00:42:43.660Um, and I'm thinking about it more now as I'm even hearing, now, now when I hear a woman's voice say it right there, it puts it a little bit more, it makes it more real to me a little bit, you know, because the pornography that I watch is women.
00:42:57.760You know, I enjoy women's sex and, and man and woman's sex together.
00:43:02.460You know, I enjoy heterosexual sex on the internet watching.
00:43:06.740That's what I, if I do watch, which I try not to watch anymore, sorry, which I try not to watch anymore, that's what I watch.
00:43:13.460But if I, if I, after hearing Jennifer's voice right there, but after hearing Jennifer's voice right there, it kind of, I don't know, in a weird way, it just made me have a little bit more,
00:43:27.920not respect for women, but it made it more real all of a sudden that just now, just in this moment of hearing her voice talking about it, uh, for me, and this won't be for anybody else, but I think that I would now, I don't, I want to know if they're deceased or not.
00:43:46.160I think that they should put a regulation on the porn websites.
00:43:49.560If someone is deceased, put, have a little headstone pop up in the beginning, you know, or like a, have a, um, you know, a cross or a star of David or a, um, you know, a Hindu statue, whatever, or Muslims, whatever their religion was, have something, you know, a two second homage to that.
00:44:09.280Uh, maybe have a, you know, or have the head, you know, have the memoriam, you know, um, busty Barbara, you know, you know, 1998 to 2007, you know, have that bust up every now and then, or that's, uh, is that old enough?
00:44:26.560Like have that pop up every now and then at least, you know, what's going on, but I would like that.
00:44:30.640And I would, because otherwise I don't want to be out there busting nuts to, I don't, I don't want to be out there ejaculating to the deceased.
00:44:39.820Because there's tons of women on the websites who are not deceased and that sits better in my soul.
00:44:47.700So I think that these sites should have a little bit of respect and put the women into a special, uh, a special folder or a special, um, you know, site box or whatever that says, you know, the graveyard or whatever, you know,
00:45:05.780so that it, then at least you can have old, you can masturbate slower or you can wear something nice while you masturbate or you can have some regard for the past, for the fact you can light some candles.
00:45:19.660Like I said, you could do the sage, you could do whatever you could have some regard for the pat, for the fact that these women are no longer alive.
00:45:25.760Cause I don't think when I get to the, to the reckoning spot or whatever it is, you know, when I get into that, that bait, great big cliff in the air and the spirit that's out there, the higher power, whatever it is says jump.
00:45:40.240And that's when you find out if they're going to, if they, you know, if the big dog going to catch you in his hand or the big woman, wherever she, whoever it is, or they're going to let you fall down into the smithereens and a dragon is just going to fucking eat your legs off while you're falling through the air.
00:45:56.200I don't want that to be, I don't want that to be another anvil that's weighing down in my body, deep in my soul that I was, um, that I was, you know, I was making free ones, uh, to, to the deceased.
00:46:51.600I'm going to hit this news story real quick.
00:46:53.460A man claiming to be a police detective went to his local adult porn shop and demanded they give him free porn videos so he can make sure none of the performers were under age.
00:49:21.140I don't think, you know, you can't really plan a hell, uh, you can't really plan ahead on a lot of that.
00:49:25.680You know, to, um, you know, I don't think you know as a parent, maybe you don't know what you're creating when you make a brother for a kid.
00:49:33.640But that can be, I mean, there's no other relationship like that.
00:49:37.380So, you know, I commend you on being brave enough to have two children.
00:49:41.840Because not only are you creating, you're going to be creating a relationship with you and your son, you're going to be broadening your family.
00:49:46.700But you are giving a kid a brother, and there's nothing, you know, I can't explain to you, uh, you know, I'm fortunate enough to have a brother, and I can't explain to you what that relationship is like.
00:50:01.020But it's just so, it's so great to have a brotherhood to be able to, to compare and navigate, um, how I'm supposed to behave towards other men, uh, and how, uh, and have someone who already is a little bit of a blueprint of myself out there to look at and feed off of, um, to get ideas and inklings for things and get some advice and some suggestions.
00:50:33.640And I, along with what seems like my entire community of girlfriends, we were all professionals that chose to stay at home.
00:50:41.180And when that happened, we saw that we were underserved in the capacity that we're taught how to be great employees, great coworkers.
00:50:52.640But we have never been taught how to manage a home and to raise children, you know, do all of those things, a bit more traditional in nature.
00:51:03.820So, my question to you is, especially since we, you have talked to us a lot about, um, the sort of war against men, the culture of irresponsibility, which we all see, um, that's happened and is happening.
00:51:18.100What are some things that you, as a man, would advise new moms to instill in their young sons to be later good men?
00:52:03.400It does make sense if, you know, I think spending time with them one-on-one as they get a little bit older, you know, as they get to be like five, six, seven, eight.
00:52:17.840Go do something separate with your son.
00:52:20.300You know, one of the only things I ever got to do with my mom that was just me and her was, uh, we went to Wendy's one time.
00:52:29.040And I know that doesn't sound like a lot, but, and I probably have talked about this before, but, um, you know, my mother worked all the time.
00:52:36.740You know, she didn't want us to be on welfare, so she worked.
00:52:39.320And I'm not saying that she's better than your mom.
00:52:42.000I'm not saying that she's better than your grandmother or she's any different.
00:54:55.240So I think that the toughest thing a woman can do is be a mom and to manage the home and to take the risk of there being less income in the home to stay at home and create that family.
00:55:06.680But if we can get out of what the world tells us is good and we can get back into what our heart tells us is right or good.
00:55:18.640Then I think, you know, we'll find a lot of times that it's that, that it's being with our family, you know, and having those fun times and having those, you know, ridiculous.
00:55:28.960My favorite time that I ever had when I was young was when the power went out.
00:55:32.100And my family would all be together and we couldn't fight or beat each other because they had candles lit and it's dangerous to beat each other around candles.
00:55:41.060So we would just be together and we were kind of scared and nervous, but we were all together like in one place.
00:55:48.960You know, my mom had two candles and so we would have to be by her.
00:56:35.160And I mean, some of those are just gonna be general, regular things.
00:56:37.200But I think I would love to hear some answers on this question for today, for today's society, today's times, because there is some evolution that needs to happen.
00:56:48.560And I think some of the ways that we communicate, well, we can't help, evolution is happening.
00:56:55.040You know, it's like we have to communicate now on, you know, cellular devices.
00:56:58.920And, you know, I think so it's got to be a lot harder for parents.
00:57:03.260So maybe, I don't know what's, I'd love to maybe hear if you guys have some stuff.
00:57:09.240I had some more awesome calls that came in and I wanted to get to some of them.
00:57:12.680I just have to go do this comedy set, guys.
00:57:14.560I'm sorry, but I will be back on Thursday and we'll get into some more good stuff, dude.