100 Body Count By 19?! She CHEATED On Fiancé W⧸ His BEST Friend? ØF Mom⧸Daughter? | Dating Talk #247
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7 hours and 20 minutes
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180.54913
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Summary
In this episode of the Whatever Dating Talk podcast, we have our first guest on the show, and it's a girl from the "Occupy" movement in Santa Barbara, California. She's a 19 year old college student, and she's in the middle of her first year of college, but she's already got her eye set on a job in the tech industry. In this episode, we talk about what it's like to be a college student in a liberal city like Santa Barbara and how she's dealing with the current political climate.
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reflect the views of the whatever channel with that said without further ado actually with a bit
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more ado guys there's some crazy fucking protests in santa barbara you know i blame these protests
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for our delay you know yesterday the no kings and there's some lingering uh protesters santa barbara
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very liberal area so you know i apologize for our delay i want to blame the protesters
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anyways oh and there's some drama that i'll get into a little later on in the show
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uh who knows maybe we'll have like a little call and we'll see it i'm it might happen might not but
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i will get to the drama later on in the show but like i said without further ado we're gonna have
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the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age occupation where you're from
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education go ahead hi all my name's anya i'm 19 i'm from florida and excuse my voice i was at six
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flags yesterday not a 30 year old smoker um but i do of yeah so all right and you said you're from
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florida yes from bfe florida so okay any uh are you in college right now or no no college no
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are you planning to go or just focusing on work if i do go back it's gonna be to get my diesel
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mechanic cert but not really planning on it at the moment no okay got it what about you um hi i'm
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chloe yummy and i'm 19 and i'm from tennessee all right any school or college or anything like that
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um i just do only fans all right what about you hi guys my name is annabelle i am a dj i'm originally
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from london um but i live in mexico because i just prefer the vibe of djing on rooftops under the stars
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and recently just produced my first track so i guess kind of a producer as well hoping to be
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age 35 sorry most important part uh education i have a degree in classics and latin from nottingham
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university and that's like through you that's uh i don't know what what the is there a different term
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like do you guys have bachelor's and master's degrees or what are they called and i actually
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like you know what brian it was so long ago and i will admit something that a degree in latin
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has absolutely no bearing on becoming a dj so i'm not really sure why i did it but i'm just one of
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those eccentric types of people that likes to do lots of and you said it was also in classics
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so classic literature so ancient history latin very pointless but i found it very very interesting
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so gotcha yeah and you said nottingham nottingham university okay that's a good one what about you
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hi i'm vanna rose i am 23 just turned 23 in april i am from washington while i was born in washington
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raised in vegas um i do only fans but i do dance i'm planning on going to fashion school
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but we're just working on that right now getting okay and going back to you really quick you said
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you currently live in mexico yeah are you an illegal immigrant in mexico no i'm not um so uh with with
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the visas you can go as long as you leave every six months you can come back and obviously of course
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i you know i miss london so much so i do i really do you know what i just miss having a fucking pint in
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pub sometimes um so yeah and i miss my friends so i travel a lot i'm not there just the whole time
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but it's my playa del carmen is my base yeah what about you i'm crystal i'm 32 years old i'm from
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california um i'm just a warehouse worker 32 years old you said yeah any university college um i have my
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bachelor's in sociology i'm working towards a master's in psychology okay bachelor's in soc what
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did you learn in sociology basically how society works basically macro macro micro level how does
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society work how does society work i mean you said you learned how society works how does it work
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basically how basically how like statistics to certain studies about um society um it's just
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basically broad topics about why we act in certain ways in different situations depends on sociology yeah
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okay well what um and you said that was your major right you got your is it it's a bachelor of arts
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or yeah is there oh bachelor of science yeah sociology is a science i didn't know that yeah i thought it
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was just okay uh so wait tell me what like what are some classes like is there uh feminist propaganda 302
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like what's the name of some of the classes you take if you're studying sociology it was so long ago to be
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honest um there was gender studies i know that how many gender studies classes there's one one one class
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yeah do you recall the name like was it just um i think it was just genders gender studies what did you
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learn in gender studies class perception perception yeah basically of what of gender and
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uh and yeah what but like give me like i'm not asking you to go over the entire curriculum but
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give me yeah i don't remember give me like three things two years ago give me three wait it was two
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years ago yeah oh that's wait hold on no you're talking about 10 years ago well because you're 32 so
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when you but if it was just two or three years ago i mean that's not that far back um give me like
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three things you learned in your gender studies class i i honestly didn't even take it really
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seriously but isn't it requisite for graduating with a sociology degree remember at least three of
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the modules that you did when you were at this university right i i honestly don't you don't
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remember the modules at all wait question your final year uh your senior year i guess you could say
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uh what classes did you take under sociology um i don't remember
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but wait hold on wasn't like two years wait when did you graduate what year 2022 okay sounds like
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even more of a waste of time than my i know to be honest like she's gonna be a dj also i guess
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wait but so hold on okay the final year of university i'm not gonna ask you to like dig back
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to like your sophomore junior year give me like three things you learned
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your final semester or quarter was it a quarter or semester system semester okay final semester
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three things you learned um recidivism recidivism and what um like re-entry um to society when people go
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to jail that was a course it was a course yeah um
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gender studies i mean yeah but what did you learn about what did you learn about that
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what did you learn about gender studies wait what's the name was it uh is in california yeah
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which school did you go to san bernardino cal state san bernardino cal state san bernardino okay
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is that a good university bernardino i don't know okay sorry i don't think it's a bad one it
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doesn't sound like one considering she doesn't remember anything i mean the cal state system
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i mean i don't want to be uncharitable the cal state system is good i mean it's not an ivy league
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school but okay yeah but can i get three things you learned your final semester
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just three like specifics just you i gotta stop talking you just answer the question three things
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you learned like three they just hold on everybody just be silent everybody's university ever again
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after this podcast goes like three three things just three things you learned your final year of
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school final semester um different ages are that are um more likely to be incarcerated um what's
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another one qualitative qualitative and quantitative um sorry don't look at me go ahead sorry disregard
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qualitative and quantitative data and um statistics surrounding um different uh surveys when you
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survey people so this is an ad for trade schools
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you know not what school not to go to did you pay for this university i don't really understand how
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that's why i went there we go there we go yeah i mean you pay something to go to like you're you're
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in school or in state student right yeah i mean you pay something you get free university in america
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i thought it was like no i don't have to pay but i didn't have to pay well who paid your parents or no
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um you're i had um you probably paid them i'm joking taxpayers no i mean somebody's paying
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somebody's paying somebody's paying someone's got the money where's the guy
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i feel like you could have just like today you could have just asked chat gpt
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tell me about sociology and that would have been but you're asking different topics that was three
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years ago you don't know any topics darling huh you don't know any of topics that you studied
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so so what are three things you learned in latin go two years ago i went to nottingham
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university like nottingham university 13 years ago and i can still remember at least three modules
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oh wait yeah okay go for it the fall of the roman empire um i learned i'm latin i know it's a dead
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language go ahead speak it i said it's a dead language so you can't speak it but caecilius sn4o
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there we go what is veni vidi vici don't i think that's nice me that's what i say that's latin
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right yeah yeah but like what i'm my point being darling and i just respect is that you know i went
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to university 13 years ago and i can still remember a little bit and i have adhd and i have a lot of
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trauma so my brain is really why would they why would they she does have a lot of trauma what do you
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remember i traumatized her but why was she you were on the show don't worry i won't bring it up why
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would they teach a dead language if it's a dead language i mean that's what i ask myself every day
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darling it was a waste of money it was a waste of time like if i'm gonna learn a language it's
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gonna be like educate what did you learn just to be fair um because so it helps because i speak
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spanish and i speak french and a lot of the derivatives of these languages are from latin
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so i mean you know you know there's something there and at least i remember something darling
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unlike you okay did you want to go to school i just did it because i was bored just just to have
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it on my record i didn't really live full huh oh we got desert joe here hold on we'll finish up
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with the intros in just a sec two hundred dollars thank you man happy father's day to the fellow dads
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keeping it real happy father's day who hurt you drink up mates lol i'm breaking in my new crucible
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100k tumbler glass with irish whiskey yo desert joe good to see you man thank you for the uh big
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200 tts by the way thank you for i saw you leave some positive comments with the whole like dispute
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drama thing so i appreciate your support desert joe you're a legend thank you i can use a shot of
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jameson right now i'm here with you buddy i think that's for the people watching in the discord so
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they're they're they're drinking um do you speak uh your accent is it rp i don't know what that means
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received pronunciation i i just grew up in central london so wait you don't know but you know the
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different like british accents oh right so there's like i don't know there's like what like received
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pronunciation is like what the so like there's working class middle class and upper class i guess
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i don't really know how to describe it it's if you heard my father's accent he you can he's almost
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incoherible he speaks like it's really lovely to see you today like literally
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that's how he speaks like the british version is shameless he he that's that's literally like how
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he was that's how he's brought up wait do we have any do we have any british people in the chat chat
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what is her is she is she uh speaking rp received pronunciation is she there's like a level light
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that's like old school bbc presenter i actually was a presenter no not that the british i actually
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was a presenter for a while oh yeah it's a tv broadcast you're so clever brian um yeah no it's
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it's it's it's notting hill chelsea knightsbridge vibes i don't know if any of you know london but
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lovely it is rather lovely but i actually tone down my accent because sometimes i feel like people
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judge me and think no turn it up i must insist you turn it up i always talk in a british accent
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like i literally i told her i was like don't get offended if i accidentally talk british wait so
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two things you learned i said like three right no but break that shit down you got a bachelor's
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of art of science break that shit down for me which topic gender studies gender studies
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basically uh gender is um what you perceive at what you are uh sex is male or female but chat gpt could
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well hold on chat gpt would okay hold on that's a
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chat gpt could answer anything that's true that's true but give me like give me some nuance or give me
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what is a woman can you answer what is a woman someone who has xx chromosomes
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so so like gender and sex is different did you need to go to university to learn that babe
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oh do we have andrew i wasn't sure wait is he ready is it oh okay well yeah we're gonna have andrew join
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sorry sorry andrew you got uh sidetracked we'll get you called up in just a bit or mary do you know
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how to do it okay i'll come back in just a sec andrew if you're watching we're gonna get you uh we'll
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get you in just a sec let me just get the uh intros uh okay what about you hi i am well most people
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know me as mama blonde bombshell you can call me mama bombshell mama b um i'm 44 years old uh i'm from
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all over the west coast currently residing here in los angeles and um i am a social media personality
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i also do only fans and before that i was a licensed esthetician and certified makeup artist
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working in the beauty industry for the last 15 years
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you guys mother daughter uh and wait question so
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uh hold on wait no worries and you guys both do only fans
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yeah i actually do together i actually no we would never do that we do like safe for work
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social media together but not so basically what happened was i was telling her i was like you're
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hot mom like you should like do something with that because it was there's a bunch of stuff that
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happened with her job and i was trying to hype her up and then she really hopped on it and she just
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like blew up on instagram like all of a sudden like she just got like she's at like 400k already
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on there and so because she was doing i was dancing and then because of that like i seen how
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much she was doing like good on there and i was like okay well i might as well try it
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doing it because i danced already so it was like better because i wasn't like actually in front of
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everybody all the time you know or like it wasn't always like i have to drive far and it was it was just
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a lot easier and a little bit more comfortable to be able to do and i got to travel and like do more
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things like that so yeah that's awesome yeah and so like yeah so you helped your mom out yeah
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yeah she encouraged me she's like mom you're hot have you ever thought about doing only fans and at
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first i was like no no no no and then she was like mom and i had other people in my life that were
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really like hey have you ever thought about doing only fans and i was like i don't yeah look you're
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looking fucking hot for your age girl well guess what over 81 000 people think the same and i was just
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like 81 000 yeah yeah and so for my ego but no it's it's really nice it's really nice to be able
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to like travel with her and it's like a comfort thing because you know sometimes when you go to
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like collab houses or places like this like you don't really know anyone you don't know how they're
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gonna be so it's nice so it's like basically a content house so you go and everybody goes and
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you like guys make content reels like of content whatever tiktok tiktok youtube things like that and
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then so it's nice to be able to have her with me so that because there's been some incidents where
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there's been some things like foul stuff that's happened at those houses that you know if i was
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alone that i wouldn't really feel safe but because i had my mom there like she was there to be like
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to teach you know rules and like this place and we wear the same clothes so i take all of her clothes
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a clap house so it's so it's a collab collab so it's basically like a bunch of influencers or only
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fans yeah girls and they all get together and yeah we're trying to call you like make instagrams
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tiktok youtube sounds kind of fun i couldn't do it but it sounds pretty fun yeah it's a lot sometimes
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but i think that i got her in and they're like you're such a bad influence and i'm like
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it's the opposite honey like i was like you know why not like getting your money
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it's been a nice experience i literally want my mom to do it too because my mom is so pretty too
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um but she doesn't want to like she like supports me though i love that that's awesome um as a model
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like she modeled for elite management and that's awesome um she's so gorgeous like i love your guys
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oh thank you yeah no honestly i always think it's better for your parents to be there to support
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you because at the end of the day like you're gonna make the decision you make anyway so i feel
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like for example like growing up you know it's like if you're gonna do something like as a kid
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like you might as well be safe at home doing it or like things like that you know like people that
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are gonna go out and drink like if you're gonna drink and stuff like that at a young age you might
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as well have like actual protection and things like that you have a support open conversation
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and then at the end of the day it's like people don't even want to do it like what like uh there's
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a place in amsterdam where all the all the drugs are legal but no one even does drugs because it's
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so accessible so it's like if someone's there to like tell you like you know like you could do these
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things or whatever and support you a lot of times people don't even want to do that or you feel safer
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doing it or like comfortable and you don't have to go and lie that's when a lot of times people get
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like give us the show in trouble is because they're like lying to their parents and trying to hide
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things and then that's when things go bad so not to mention so many parents would be really
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judgmental about it yeah and like i've heard stories of only fans girls being like disowned
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by their parents yeah so it's so like nice that there's just like complete juxtaposition yeah
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that can i ask a question about it yeah go ahead okay so you said you started doing a lot first
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well no she started so i basically told her that she should be like doing like instagram and stuff
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like that encouraged me and then so she blew up and then i started yeah so in like a mother
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daughter dynamic like that whether it's the mother or the daughter first gotta click there's a lot of
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behind the scenes stuff that happens to you as even if you don't do off if you just do influencing
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um would you want your parent or your daughter to go through that like for example stalkers um like
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the immense amount of hate all that other kind of stuff like i i wouldn't my don't get me wrong mom
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if you're watching you are your bombshell but i would never want my mom to go through it because
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of the things that i've gone through just knowing how little i've been here but if you think about
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it like no matter what you do like there's going to be something and an issue with anything like
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even like for example if we were don't do only fans like i walk down the street and people harass
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and stalk anyways so it's like at the end of the day might as well make money off something that
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somebody's trying to that's they're gonna just react that way anyways we would literally go on
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the beach and people would try to take pictures with us and like get in a line like a line of
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people taking pictures with us like you know what i mean and then there's people that harass like for
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no reason and that was before we ever even did the only fans so to be honest with you i already
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kind of dealt with that always so for me it was like i'm already going to deal with it anyway so
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it's not really anything that's going to change it except for now i'm going to actually get
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something from that i see what you're saying but then like you know there are a lot of beautiful
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women in the world like every single woman around this table is gorgeous and just because you are
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beautiful you might get wolf whistled in the street doesn't mean that you need to feel the need to
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monetize it you know yeah but it was just something that i was going to do anyway so it was like well and
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not only that even if you are a social media personality and you're not doing only fans you are opening
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yourself to the haters out there everyone knows it's going to happen if you do it doing only fans
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or not if i am presenting i even before i start only fans i did makeup and skincare reels and tiktoks
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and went live and i got just as much hate educating women about cosmetics and skincare so no matter what
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it's even more than what i do now so you can't base like what you're going to do off of what other
00:26:51.440
people's actions are no i i 1000 agree but can i ask you a question by being one of a beauty
00:26:58.600
influencer or whatever you said you are the difference between that and being you know in
00:27:04.280
the only fans kind of world i think that you're not going to get as much hate if you're teaching a
00:27:11.400
how to apply her mascara i don't think someone's going to send you your address in your dms the night
00:27:16.980
that you land in your airbnb what was that so no one's going to send you the address of your airbnb
00:27:22.820
in your instagram dms if you're just posting makeup you know what i mean you never know that some people
00:27:28.020
will like it depends on what the type of who the person is moving on uh so uh when did you have her
00:27:34.040
um i had her in 2002 so when i was uh 21 21 got it okay is uh dad still in the picture yeah i've
00:27:45.140
been married for 24 years you guys are married okay got it what about you yeah my name is pervin
00:27:52.300
my friends usually friends or co-workers usually call me pearl just so it's easier i'm 25 from san
00:27:59.220
diego i'm an administrative assistant and i have a bachelor's degree in architecture okay welcome
00:28:07.780
my name is felicity i'm 19 from santa barbara and i'm going to school for business all right and then
00:28:14.660
going around the table uh what's everybody's relationship status if you're single how long
00:28:20.380
have you been single and what's the longest relationship you've been in starting with you
00:28:24.160
um single for a while now i'd probably say like three four years maybe um longest relationship
00:28:31.540
was i think two and a half years how old were you when you so you were like 16 17 yeah so i guess you
00:28:39.360
can't really call it like a serious relationship but yeah okay uh the two-year relationship who broke
00:28:45.920
up with who i broke up with him got it okay not on the most pleasant terms either all right and
00:28:54.580
there's no guys in the you've been single three to four years you say uh are there currently any guys
00:28:59.660
in the picture i don't carry a roster um yeah no um there's guys i find attractive that i think are
00:29:07.440
cute but i just don't think i'm in a time in my life where i i scale my life on priorities um
00:29:14.600
i think it's andrew that talks about the um what is it the priority hierarchy or whichever it is
00:29:23.120
where you have a hierarchy of what your priorities are and for me right now that's work and saving up
00:29:32.440
for my future and i can't really focus on a relationship at the same time and give both of
00:29:37.280
those a hundred percent do you do bg content yes okay what the guy you shoot with does are you guys
00:29:44.760
dating or no it's strictly business it's strictly business and it's one person it's just somebody
00:29:49.200
that i've trusted for a really long time and that i know is what's bg content boy girl boy girl
00:29:55.420
wake up one it's like boy girl on only fans yeah it means you shoot uh scenes with
00:30:03.320
a guy with another person yeah on and like solo would be you're just doing solo content and then
00:30:08.120
girl girl like or gg whatever you don't i'm sorry okay all right yeah it's all good uh what about
00:30:13.460
you chloe um what's the question relationship uh relationship status oh okay um i'm single
00:30:21.660
and what's the more how long have you been single um pretty recently like um i would say like a month
00:30:33.880
now yeah is that just your voice or were you about to cry i'm sorry it sounded okay you've been single
00:30:45.400
for one month so last time you were on the show you were in were you in a relationship yeah i was in
00:30:50.480
a relationship yeah okay longest relationship um three years like during high school what about
00:30:57.740
you so i'm a bit of a serial monogamist um so i haven't had many boyfriends but
00:31:04.400
well wouldn't that mean you've had many boyfriends well but they're quite long
00:31:09.860
term ones oh sure okay yeah um so my longest relationship was six years um and i've been
00:31:16.920
single now for three months because um i was like really savagely uh cheated on um um yeah
00:31:25.800
so okay still stings a bit but uh the three the one that ended three months ago how long was that
00:31:32.100
relationship it was only about four months before i realized that he had another girlfriend
00:31:36.680
okay in another country so in in order of the length of your relationships so give me like
00:31:42.940
six years and then what was the next longest um since that i haven't had like a pretty
00:31:49.020
appropriate no no just like you've had a six-year relationship a i've had three i've had i've i've
00:31:53.700
had about uh three like three year relationships okay one two year maybe and then the sixth year one
00:32:02.320
gotcha so three three year i think yeah okay the six-year relationship who broke up with who
00:32:07.320
um it was me the other third year relationship who broke up with who it was me the final third
00:32:25.900
year relationship who broke up with who him he broke up with you okay all right and you've been
00:32:31.940
single for three months have you had a rebound no no i'm not really like that okay yeah are there
00:32:39.840
any guys in the picture currently no i'm sorry i've got no juicy gossip i'm reading it chloe any guys in
00:32:46.460
the picture currently um just like the guys that i shoot boy girl content with and like guys i
00:32:55.020
shoot like tiktoks with too wait the guys you shoot tiktoks with too yeah that's not a relationship
00:33:02.640
well isn't that like that's a that's a queen well i still have to like hang out with them to
00:33:06.520
she's so cute wait so hold on um are there any notable tiktok people you've had carnal knowledge
00:33:17.320
with are you shagging your tiktok friends um well she is we know she is i'm just curious who if
00:33:24.020
there's any like young gravy young young gravy is that rapper he's yeah he's kind of a rapper
00:33:32.060
he's not very good is he dating isn't he dating what's her name no you guys don't know who young
00:33:37.700
gravy is how do you know i do i do tiktoks and reels to the sound all the time i met him in vegas
00:33:46.220
in january i can clarify that he is not very good wait was that before they were dating or after
00:33:50.900
wait guys guys guys one one at a time please one at a time go ahead what
00:33:57.080
okay so you were are you still seeing him or no um i mean he texted me last night but
00:34:05.860
like i thought he had a girlfriend yeah he's a girlfriend he's with um this tiktoker um ari
00:34:12.700
i don't know she's an only fans girl i've heard of her actually that is actually crazy they're
00:34:17.800
like really blowing up on instagram and tiktok like right now like crazy so you like that you're
00:34:23.300
the side piece is basically you're the side piece i guess i am i mean it's okay you're fine with
00:34:30.620
i mean i wouldn't date him like she's getting the money i guess if he's good at what he does
00:34:35.580
but i i like him but i wouldn't like be i don't want to be his girlfriend like okay you know ari's
00:34:42.100
his girlfriend so i see he's a colleague you do only fans so you would be okay being a side piece
00:34:49.040
so that's how it seems like it i mean like i sure yeah okay so you're dating him he's a side piece
00:34:59.240
it's i mean it sounds like it yeah exactly wait so are you okay with it being open knowledge
00:35:05.840
that you're the side piece when's the last time you saw him well i i mean he texted me he was texting
00:35:12.500
me last night um i saw him maybe like a month ago i like went to his house because sometimes i like
00:35:21.060
i fly to la to like um film videos and like collabs and stuff and like i stayed at his house wait hold
00:35:29.180
on in your pre-show notes here you said you want to talk about how you and young gravy used to be a
00:35:33.880
thing but he never would post you because it was bad for his image to have a only fans girl on his
00:35:39.760
social media but now he posts ari is she an only fans girl yeah she is a huge only fans girl like
00:35:46.900
maybe one of the top like she's she's overweight or she's she's like super big like i watch her
00:35:53.060
because of her makeup tutorials yeah oh big in that way yeah okay girl fans too and guy fans like
00:36:02.280
she's okay yeah are you guys beefing um i mean maybe now because i've never like no one
00:36:09.640
knows about this but i mean i still like her but i mean she okay but hold on you said you said
00:36:16.680
you're single but then in your notes like from last night you said you want to talk about how your
00:36:21.120
new boyfriend pretends to be your brother what for only fans and instagram for views well okay he is
00:36:29.060
not like my boyfriend he's just one of the guys that like i do he's a boyfriend do one of the guys
00:36:35.780
you do he's a friend yeah he's a performer how many friends do you do um i don't want to say
00:36:43.580
how many how many do you have on the roster um okay well basically it's really just him but i make
00:36:53.280
him like dye his hair to be different people and or i'll make him like wear a mask like what the fuck
00:37:00.420
he just said he just dyed his hair blonde so we could do like you know sibling content on tiktok
00:37:10.480
and instagram and it really it was going viral and like stop it yeah get some help is this like so
00:37:19.160
wait is it are you sorry is this pretend incest like it's i'm sorry or have i got completely wrong
00:37:26.200
i just was thinking in my brain like how to go viral and i know it's like not the best but like
00:37:32.440
i don't have a brother or a sister i'm an only child so i just yeah so for you it was like he
00:37:38.560
wasn't like yeah because like for me i have a brother so for me i wouldn't be able to do that
00:37:42.720
but if you're an only child like i see like it's like only child and i and it's not really actually
00:37:47.880
that so people think that then it's like that's on them honestly especially if you don't like you
00:37:52.400
know so it was believable a lot of people believed it and we did this like video that um it was like
00:37:58.720
a sibling song and then at the end we like he kissed me and it went really viral so yeah wow so wait
00:38:07.500
when you send out the videos do you label them brother sister um i know the one i saw it had
00:38:15.900
sounds it had like a sound on on of do you do that because that's insane if you do because that's
00:38:21.880
against tos there's no way you say like step any is gonna snitch i don't know oh i'm not snitching
00:38:29.160
i'm not snitching i'm just trying to get to the bottom of my step i don't think so i don't think
00:38:33.740
i call him my brother on only fans but people recognize him from that video you know i love it
00:38:39.300
okay that's great that's yeah i love that for you um so anyways uh here moving on to you
00:38:45.720
relationship status um i'm single i've been single for like three years um my longest relationship i
00:38:51.720
would say was about like three years too it was the person that i lost my v-card to when i was younger
00:38:56.240
we were together for like three years and then that happened and then we ended up breaking up
00:38:59.880
how old were you when you guys broke up um i was like 15 so wait no yeah i i yeah i was 15
00:39:08.460
yeah 16 no i was 15 i was 15 because we didn't move to cali until i was 16 i mean when we moved
00:39:17.420
to california i was 16 years old so i was like 13 when i was with him okay how old was he he was
00:39:24.120
the same age as me we went to school together cutest couple yeah we got the queen king shirts in
00:39:29.240
school who broke up with who um i honestly broke up with him because he tried to ask my best friend
00:39:34.960
to prom or something like that it was really weird i think he was just trying to get because
00:39:39.180
he was like really controlling so he would be like you can't wear your nails because he's mormon
00:39:42.740
so he'd be like you can't wear your nails you can't have belly piercings you can't drink tea and
00:39:46.440
stuff and i kind of got over it and then so to get at me he like tried to get at my best friend
00:39:51.880
and that didn't last long i was like i literally was like i'm done with you and then we just kind of
00:39:57.880
broke up and we recently actually connected like two years ago and i found out he's like making
00:40:02.940
music and he has like really long hair now and i was like this is super weird did uh did he actually
00:40:09.200
hook up with your best friend no thankfully but if he did he like fuck it i guess but he's got long
00:40:16.220
hair now so who cares anyway but he did try she told me about it i was it was really confusing to me
00:40:22.260
because i was like why would you be trying to control me then you're like trying to hook up with my best
00:40:25.820
friend but i don't know guys will be guys any guys in the picture currently um no not right now
00:40:31.560
i'm just working my way up trying to focus on me i feel like i'm always focusing on other people that
00:40:37.780
i haven't put in the time for me so like this is my time now to focus on me what about you
00:40:43.380
i'm single i've been single for a couple months um longest relationship is about three years
00:40:50.040
who broke up with whom the three-year relationship i broke broke up with him and the most recent one how
00:40:55.260
long was that one that was a couple months probably like eight months who broke up with
00:40:59.320
who i broke up with him all right uh what about you relationship status uh i'm married longest
00:41:05.220
relationship 24 years your current one i'm assuming yes all right how long uh you've been married for
00:41:12.320
how long 24 years oh uh together how long 24 years oh so you guys got married pretty quick then
00:41:19.280
yeah we knew each other six months from the day that we met to the day we walked down the aisle
00:41:24.660
got it yeah my brother's like one year older than me so yeah it was like back to back so my son's 24
00:41:30.420
so yeah sure married 24 one plus one equals two i'm in a relationship for three years all right is
00:41:39.720
that your longest relationship i would say yeah okay all right felicity what about you single for
00:41:47.320
three weeks longest relationship was like almost two years all right rock and roll that's everybody's
00:41:54.260
um i know andrew probably wanted to uh he heard some some things there earlier on in the conversation
00:42:03.660
uh first of all the two let's see what do we got here chair seven did you say that your name is
00:42:11.880
pervert no my name is pervin it's not yeah pervert it's actually no it's actually pronounced
00:42:19.980
parvin but in america they pronounce it like that that's why usually people like you they
00:42:27.940
notice that or they'll make that sort of remark so i just go by pearl what do you mean
00:42:32.980
like you people like you and what do you mean people like you people like andrew make a comment
00:42:38.820
like that so is that is that a racial maybe he's projecting what do you what do you have against
00:42:44.420
white people no nothing against andrew i think he's very intelligent by the way it's just people
00:42:50.100
who haven't heard of it they're like is it like greek or what yeah it is oh shit i just guessed that
00:42:56.700
shit yeah the thing about it is um different countries have like different ways of writing it
00:43:01.680
pronouncing it and in like greek or in turkish it's pronounced power bin but in america they
00:43:07.760
pronounce like that which is the reason why you would assume that nice i knew that was going to
00:43:13.840
be the first thing coming on to here that's crazy i mean come on it's objectively hilarious no
00:43:19.520
that's why i'm not surprised i'm not even mad so hey here i'll show you i'll show you how funny it
00:43:26.080
is so take take chair three you're british right me oh no we have a bird in the studio
00:43:33.840
andrew there was a really scary bug in here and i didn't like it it's a hummingbird we've had this
00:43:39.040
before how does he get in oh no no no darling it's a hummingbird at first i thought it was
00:43:43.520
it oh my god it's feathers here mary open the doors all the way i'm sorry oh my god hold on guys hold
00:43:48.640
on hold on it's okay relax crack the door open all the way it's going to be a little distracting
00:43:54.320
is it a bug or is it bad it's a bird okay that's okay it's so hard to get out it's a bird look at it
00:43:59.760
can i can i could you can go like a week well i just don't want him to hurt you go ahead you can see
00:44:05.760
it's a bird it's definitely not a bug yeah yeah go no no no no stop stop stop stop stop god damn
00:44:14.400
he's almost there he's working his way over it's okay i like little birds probably so scared
00:44:19.840
oh my god just guys it's going to be a little distracting it'll fly out the doors just try to
00:44:26.160
ignore it it's not a big deal all right so anyways it's going to shit on the table oh god
00:44:33.040
about my head where did it go it's just sitting there dude it's kicking it yeah it took us
00:44:38.400
fucking three hours last time to get it out no it was probably the same bird imagine he's like i know
00:44:42.800
my way out it ended up dying but that's oh god conversation oh my god probably like it was inhaling
00:44:48.800
all the women's perfume yeah it was us we were we were the guys andrew it seemed like you maybe
00:44:54.400
might have had something for uh chair five what chair number am i chair six for crystal got it uh
00:45:03.840
she's the sociology uh major going to get her master's degree in psychology did you have something
00:45:10.800
for or did i maybe i got that wrong he was still stuck on my name oh we can't andrew we can't hear
00:45:17.600
you oh i said not not right now okay i haven't uh i haven't heard enough to sure uh dive in on
00:45:24.400
anything yet i'm just kind of okay cool cool figuring out the backgrounds and the world views and all that
00:45:28.640
stuff sure we're in the getting to know you phase right yeah we have a message from cha hey brian just
00:45:34.400
wanted to drop a little donation to the charity event you're running right now it's not often people are
00:45:39.200
willing to take out the day of their time to babysit the differently abled yes it is true i am um
00:45:46.960
i am a uh this is a licensed daycare facility for for only i love to be babysat this is you know last
00:45:56.240
show this is quite the uh quite a difference from our last show because last show we had no only fans
00:46:02.240
girls girls girls and then this show we have one two three four on the panel so like half the panel
00:46:07.920
does does oaf so a switcheroo one what's that who's the fourth one oh uh one two three four yeah
00:46:18.480
unless crystal or no i don't do only fans i have morals
00:46:23.040
i feel like it really just depends on what your morals are on anything i'm not everyone has different
00:46:32.480
morals so i don't know if you're aware of that i can hear you i just think it's very wrong
00:46:38.720
yeah well it just depends like some people just have different morals and that's just how it is
00:46:44.480
i think it's morally okay to pop your pussy i do but that's your opinion and what you believe in
00:46:52.240
and i'm gonna live my life off of other people's opinions so yeah but that what are your guys's
00:46:57.440
world everybody's i feel like my morals is if i'm a good person and i treat people with respect
00:47:02.880
and if i choose to do what i want to do with my body then that's myself but i'm not a bitch or
00:47:06.880
anything like that so that's at least my morals so basically how you treat people no one said that
00:47:11.920
you're a bit yeah yeah you are being rude i'm saying you're being a bitch it's radiating but
00:47:17.520
it's okay because not all of us can do it because i'm not all of us look like that so okay your
00:47:21.680
pussy what does the look of anyone have anything to do with selling your pussy it's okay that's
00:47:27.920
definitely it the way you look for clarification purposes like that's just opposed to me doesn't
00:47:33.440
every single woman walking the planet well depending on what we define as a woman i don't
00:47:37.760
want to get in trouble have a vagina yeah does that make us wow great point astute point cambridge
00:47:44.080
or wait nottingham or whatever yeah love that well done you know i one thing i'll i'll say is i um
00:47:53.680
admire the bravery like thank you because i could i personally could never do that i would be so i'd
00:48:00.080
i'd feel insecure wait bravery to do what well it's in in a sense in a way you've got to be pretty
00:48:06.960
ballsy and sorry to swear again and brave like to be able to i personally feel as a woman it's not
00:48:15.360
natural to i feel like everybody is myself on camera to you know potentially millions of men
00:48:25.600
for clarification purposes very natural so that's what i mean as in i mean it takes i guess some
00:48:30.960
bravery to you know or something yeah but hang on by that metric wouldn't it be brave to be a serial
00:48:38.160
killer but we're not doing that so that doesn't even make sense it's a completely different topic
00:48:42.560
there's not that question let me answer the question there's not there's not there's not that much
00:48:47.600
hang on hang on wouldn't it be the case by that metric that it would be brave to be a serial killer
00:48:53.120
yeah actually andrew you're completely right and i think i just i didn't word it correctly
00:48:57.200
what i mean is it takes some kind of some there's something that i mean i i basically what i'm trying
00:49:05.440
to say shamelessness usually i articulate myself quite eloquently i couldn't do it that's what i'm
00:49:11.280
trying to say and if you can't do it then that's exactly something that i feel like other people
00:49:15.200
shouldn't judge what other people do with their lives because it's their lives don't get me wrong i
00:49:19.280
could do it but i wouldn't want to do it yeah it wouldn't it wouldn't sit it wouldn't feel natural
00:49:27.600
to me and that's fine and i but i also just don't want to be like you know slammed for like being mean
00:49:35.200
to girls who do only fans because at the end of the day there's the millions and millions of men who
00:49:39.360
are paying for this exactly not everybody knows what people go through in their lives and the reasons
00:49:43.840
why things happen they just well i just think that sex has been sold since the beginning of time
00:49:49.280
it's the oldest profession and everybody's gonna have sex anyway so it's like it choose if someone
00:49:54.560
chooses to do it a certain way that they feel like they want to do it they'll feel like it does
00:49:57.920
respect people's morals do you understand like morals is a crazy thing to say morals but do you
00:50:03.680
understand the damage that you're doing to society because do you understand that now men are no longer
00:50:08.880
hunters well they were already gonna do that anyways because like i said it's already been there
00:50:13.200
men no longer are hunters and they no longer like go and you know whatever let's say go up and
00:50:20.800
ask a girl for a drink in a bar because they can just sit behind a screen and they can do whatever
00:50:25.680
and look at girls like you and it's kind of you know it's just ruining humanity in my opinion people
00:50:32.800
have always watched corn and everyone's always it's been around since forever even the pirate movies like
00:50:37.520
it's always been a thing so for example only fan just made it a platform so that girls cannot
00:50:43.120
be scammed by people that are directing and doing things like corn and stuff like that it was a
00:50:48.640
platform for women to take their own and to be able to be like if i'm going to do it i'm going to do
00:50:52.720
it i'm going to get what i want out of it and not be controlled and abused in situations like in the
00:50:58.720
corn industry how tight and no disrespect i didn't know that um corn or whatever we're going to
00:51:06.720
say it i didn't know that had been around for what did you say thousands of years yes it's been
00:51:13.040
with their cameras that yes whenever there was cameras people were making movies like that since
00:51:17.920
the beginning so do you not think that now it's becoming exponentially worse so you know i feel
00:51:24.640
like at the end of the day everyone that's the whole point of like everyone in life that you what
00:51:28.160
that's what you do is you mate so if people like it's already a thing that happens so for me to just
00:51:34.160
want to be able to do or make something from that when it's already happened anyways i'm already being
00:51:39.440
sexualized wherever i go i'm taking my stand for it like you're going to sexualize me anyways okay so
00:51:46.000
that i'm going to get my money off of it because no matter what you're going to do that to me no
00:51:49.520
matter what i understand you and i hear you but every single woman around this table gets sexualized
00:51:54.000
when they walk down the street by men and i don't think every single woman around this table
00:51:57.520
has decided to has decided to spread her spread her legs on camera can i ask you a question and don't
00:52:03.440
take this offensively i'm not when you go out and dj right and you're out there and you're spinning on
00:52:08.720
the table um what type of outfits do you wear can i ask i wear like uh like a t-shirt some denim
00:52:16.560
shorts a bandana and headphones is it kind of sexy and appealing and and do you think do you have
00:52:23.040
viewers make my i try to make my image look like quite like more interesting but i don't dress like
00:52:29.600
extremely provocatively but sexy right and that will bring people if i'm doing there's a difference
00:52:35.280
between dressing sexy because you have a talent and you are a dj and just so what we're saying is
00:52:41.920
we're capitalizing we are capitalizing on being sexualized and only fans like she was saying only
00:52:49.120
fans is is around it's going to be around right it's not going anywhere and i'm not going to miss
00:52:55.440
that bread well we don't know that exactly but can i ask you a question well we'll see about that
00:53:01.840
we'll see well either way the corn industry in general it's been around for as long as it's been
00:53:06.240
around so it's not just going to go away i'm going to keep interrupting me can i ask you a question
00:53:11.360
you haven't given anyone else time to talk i'm not interrupting you i was in the middle of saying
00:53:14.160
something to your statements are very long so people don't get a chance to actually say i did want
00:53:18.320
to say something i i'm sorry i wanted to ask you just for clarification purposes where do your morals
00:53:23.680
come from are you christian are you morals in the sense of everyone talks about oh power empowerment
00:53:31.200
of women and like is that the real definition of it that's the notion of it i don't think it's
00:53:39.920
morally okay no no i'm not i'm not asking like your morals i'm asking where they come from those are my
00:53:45.280
opinions no it doesn't have to be a specific religion it's my personal preferences those are my
00:53:50.880
opinions no that's fine and based off of comments that came from here oh it's bitchy if you guys
00:53:56.800
don't care about other people's opinions isn't it kind of hypocritical and rude for you to say it was
00:54:03.040
my opinions are bitchy it was the way you said it you're like i have morals doesn't matter it doesn't
00:54:08.080
matter no one's sitting here coming at you for what you're doing those are your opinions okay cool
00:54:13.200
and that's your opinion and that's your own opinion my opinions you don't have any right to
00:54:17.680
sit there and you know she's a well-educated person so my i'm not sitting here and bashing
00:54:23.120
you i'm just saying morally that's not what i think is okay well you didn't state it like that
00:54:27.600
you said i have morals you didn't say i have morals to which i would not do that i wasn't talking about
00:54:34.480
you i wasn't talking about her i wasn't talking about your mother or her those are my morals my
00:54:39.840
opinions i did not bash any one of you okay but instead you sat there and said oh what a
00:54:44.960
bitchy remark to make like that's very very rude can i apologize at all by what you said like i'm
00:54:51.360
genuinely upset i'm just trying to get to the core of it like everybody has somewhere where their morals
00:54:56.800
were sourced from right whether it be a religion whether it be from their parents and their parents
00:55:01.680
had a specific reason for it um do you like have a source in your head or you're just like this is
00:55:09.360
stuff i've picked up over life um it's just i think like sex intimacy is you know a very vulnerable
00:55:16.400
aspect to any type of individual whether like whatever background you come from whatever
00:55:22.480
religion you come from so those are my morals based off of how i perceive it no judge no shame
00:55:29.920
to others those are just my opinions okay since this is a podcast about talking and discussing
00:55:35.600
differences i just feel like it was the difference i just didn't know i would have gotten a remark as
00:55:40.240
oh that's a fair well it was the way that you said you said i have morals not these are my morals it
00:55:45.200
was the statement though it wasn't okay do you not hear me talking yeah okay what i'm saying is you
00:55:51.680
said i have morals you weren't like these are my morals so that's why i don't you said i have morals
00:55:57.200
stating that anyone else's morals are okay that's what i got from it i never said well those statements
00:56:03.440
the way you stated it there's different states of things so if you state it differently then it
00:56:07.360
will mean something else but the way that you stated it sounded like you were saying it specifically
00:56:11.600
like why are you getting so triggered by what she said i'm not getting triggered if you are going to
00:56:16.480
perceive it that way that's a personal problem one at one at a time one at a time let's start with
00:56:21.920
chair seven and then you guys you know you can kind of hash this out that's based off of your
00:56:27.600
perception if you are going to understand my statement that's way that's a personal problem i did
00:56:33.280
not say other people i did not say this person that person i said my morals x y and z so i don't
00:56:40.240
understand why you're perceiving this assumption that i said this this and this to the point where
00:56:45.360
you get offended and say that my opinion is bitchy that's kind of very very rude you didn't say my
00:56:51.440
morals you said i have morals there was two different statements i'm literally talking and you're talking
00:56:56.960
over me so i give you the time to speak and you can't give me the time to speak yeah let her let her
00:57:01.600
let her respond like that's fair you're sitting here saying i you're like i don't do only fans
00:57:07.120
because i have morals you're stating that everyone else's morals don't matter you're not saying that's
00:57:12.880
my moral so i don't do it i wouldn't have said anything if you were like well those are my morals
00:57:17.040
i'd be like okay that's understandable but you're like i have morals so that's an attack it's not an
00:57:22.560
to talk to anyone those are my i'm just saying it's the way that you stated it so maybe just like
00:57:27.120
if you stated it differently would it came across differently in any way i have okay i'm good talking
00:57:32.880
about this those are my morals and i because literally every time i'm talking you interrupt
00:57:37.280
me and then you get mad about me interrupting you hang on hang on to be fair she she did let
00:57:42.160
you finish that last point i did that is the case those are my one i see i see you got your hand up
00:57:47.920
you guys don't have to raise your hand it's only if the table gets so like insane with crosstalk
00:57:53.440
that's kind of when i'll break it up but i mean for the most part that hasn't been happening it just
00:57:57.520
kind of happened a little bit there right you guys are more than more than welcome to engage with each
00:58:01.360
other it's just that occasionally you can imagine what what it's like for the listener if you got six
00:58:06.080
people talking at once they can't hear anything right i just don't want to talk over people but
00:58:10.480
earlier we were talking about how the mother-daughter dynamic of you know the difficulty of
00:58:17.680
of of and influencing and you wouldn't want your parent or your daughter going through that
00:58:21.680
and i had mentioned hate and judgment and you said that you had learned how to deal with the hate and
00:58:26.240
judgment she could call me a million different words she could tell me i'm nasty she could tell
00:58:31.520
me i'm a horrible person it doesn't affect me one bit i get those dms every single day um you seem
00:58:36.720
to be very offended by it no this is just my reaction to it this is my response to the statement do you
00:58:43.120
get like hate comments or offensive comments on the internet yeah but it's like it's not like
00:58:49.120
directly it's like on the internet it's different like people are behind a screen like that's completely
00:58:53.120
different to them no i don't okay so but you keep doing what you do right yeah okay so i mean people
00:58:59.840
are gonna have opinions that's fine yeah i just it was just the way it was stated what felt like an
00:59:04.640
attack so that's how i feel but that was it because it was the way that things were stated and it could
00:59:09.840
have been stated differently but i'm not like offended or anything like it was just my reaction
00:59:15.040
because we're on a podcast talking so i'm supposed to have something to say back to that i'm not
00:59:18.400
supposed to just keep my mouth quiet it was the way that she worded it she should have said personal
00:59:22.640
yes exactly instead of like i have morals saying that empathize with that yes thank you literally
00:59:28.080
said oh at least i can sell it or some notion of along those lines you were sitting there yeah that
00:59:33.360
was criticizing me did i sit there and get offended by it i don't supposed to be judging yeah you're the way
00:59:39.680
that you're being a hypocrite i think both both of you because then you were talking i don't know
00:59:43.840
what that comment was about the vagina or something like that how she can sell it at least i can sell
00:59:48.640
it no it was you being no she said at least i can sell it she said at least we can sell it like
00:59:55.120
perceiving it saying like oh i don't have the capability to sell my pussy or something i could if
00:59:59.840
i wanted to i just choose not to okay that's the fact that those are my opinions i did not bash her i did
01:00:05.920
not bash her i didn't even bash you too so it was just my opinions morally i don't find that to be
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okay i would not do it i would not want my daughter to do it and so on so forth i do not bash i do not
01:00:20.080
judge others who do so you do you to each their own that see the way you stated it there that makes a
01:00:25.920
lot more sense see that is understandable yeah it was the tone yes and the way that you said it
01:00:31.520
it it was the wrong tone yes gotta use the gotta use that right tone you know and wording if you
01:00:40.160
don't have the right tone the tone police are going to come in there and that's going to be the end of
01:00:44.880
it yeah because people are too sensitive like what am i going to do like adjust my tone and the way
01:00:50.960
that i'm stating it like i said something about myself morally sorry that you perceived it wrong well
01:00:58.480
for someone so well educated i would have thought that you'd be able to articulate yourself a little
01:01:02.160
bit more eloquently to the point where you don't hurt people's feelings i didn't hurt her feelings
01:01:06.640
she perceived it to a way that hurt her feelings so now you're blaming her for perceiving it
01:01:11.360
incorrectly i didn't personally attack her you didn't articulate yourself in a kind way i did not
01:01:16.880
personally attack her or anyone on here okay i think it's also just her tone the way she talks like
01:01:23.520
you have quite a i guess monotone way of speaking yeah and as do i sometimes people take what i say
01:01:30.640
offensively even if it was meant to be taken that way spoken and sweet darling i don't think it's the
01:01:35.680
same i want to take you well no i'm just using it as an example like yeah but chair i mean chair three
01:01:41.040
like you're kind of cheating because you have the british accent right what did you say yeah isn't that
01:01:46.640
cheating like with the tone oh a hundred percent yeah it's a hundred percent cheating so i don't
01:01:51.520
even feel like you can't just come in with the british accent and be like well i have the right
01:01:58.560
tone i have a british accent i've got a degree in latin and i love words so it's not just because
01:02:06.160
of my accent see and i can say that i apologize for if i felt like if i had said something like
01:02:11.040
that but i just felt like the way that you were coming at me felt like an attack because of the not
01:02:15.040
me specifically but in general for the girls because i back up my girls that are doing that
01:02:19.360
because it is a tough thing and for someone to just be like i don't do it because i have morals
01:02:23.920
it's like that's not really fair so i can apologize for my actions but i just didn't like
01:02:30.560
the way that you said it was not really respectful towards the women that do do that because that is
01:02:35.760
my life well it's not just women it's women it's couples there i know a lot of couples who are
01:02:41.760
a husband and wife that does this industry together um there are men that do this industry
01:02:47.600
together that do this industry just themselves you know so when you're like don't have morals i mean
01:02:52.880
that's to every single person that is you know capitalizing on this industry yes yeah to each their
01:03:02.240
own did i sit there and bash any of you guys did i sit there and bash it felt like i did not i did not
01:03:09.440
yeah i think we we declared it was just more about the tome but i have to say this like after
01:03:15.200
this conversation and after like talking and communicating like now i can we understand yeah
01:03:21.600
now i understand i think that first like five minutes was a little honestly she's way nicer than
01:03:26.880
me i would have just straight up been like you're all a bunch of immoral degenerate scum but that's
01:03:31.200
that's like that's just me though that's what andrew don't call me a moral degenerate
01:03:42.880
i would still say i've done it to many people who are in the building but i mean that's just
01:03:49.840
you know it's just me you know i'm doing me right i'm doing me and you do you boom and other people as
01:03:56.240
well you know like uh you do you and i'll do me that's how it's supposed to work right yeah exactly
01:04:03.200
everybody has different lives and everyone like no one knows exactly what people have been through
01:04:08.080
and why things have came into their life like that because some people had different lives
01:04:12.160
where like that's something that they have to do in a point so it's like i feel like just people
01:04:16.960
should understand everybody's feelings and things about those situation can i ask you um when you got
01:04:24.160
into this industry was there and like is there or was there any part of you that feels anything
01:04:31.600
bad about it because as i said like i don't feel shame about it you could say anything you want to
01:04:36.320
me but i definitely understand that there's parts about it that are bad there's parts about it that
01:04:41.440
influence society that are bad there's parts of it that are bad for me um i i understand that and
01:04:46.960
i fully take responsibility over that but i thought and so is the gasoline industry but we need gas to
01:04:53.280
make the world go round i feel like there's parts bad in anything that you do like anything that you
01:04:57.360
do there's something bad that could be bad in something that you do you know what i mean like
01:05:01.040
there's like not everything's always perfect i'm not saying that that's not correct because that is
01:05:04.960
true you know it's like i'm not like but i feel like a lot of things like anything that you do
01:05:09.280
sometimes it could just be a bad point of something like you know like even like like for
01:05:12.720
example doctors like not all doctors are actually trying to help it's a lot of times about the money
01:05:16.720
it's a lot of times about the money you know i've gone to a doctor's where they've literally
01:05:20.800
scammed me when they could have helped me you know what i mean like that's not always good
01:05:24.640
feeling that's always something that should be okay for me it was really hard
01:05:31.280
beautiful but no i i i totally get what you're saying i do hear you though i do get what you're
01:05:39.280
saying um yeah because i think we have to be self-aware you know what i mean like yeah i don't
01:05:44.800
think i'm like doing charity work over here you know what i mean yeah and and and that's why i i made
01:05:50.560
the comment about like the gas industry is because like we need it it's essential right
01:05:55.600
wait hold on wait so i don't think the corn industry is are you drawing a comparison that
01:06:03.600
the adult content industry is is essential in the same way that oil ref like oil refinery is essential
01:06:11.840
no so okay so it's not like apples and apples here you know what i'm saying
01:06:17.040
they're different but okay how about this simple question but but but sex work has been around
01:06:21.520
longer than the gasoline industry is the adult content industry essential is it essential is it
01:06:29.600
are you not essential like something like only fans it is not essential right let's not go by
01:06:34.400
covet standards because yeah but is the sex industry always been something that's always been
01:06:42.800
even if it was secret down you know alleys and all these these things yes it's always been yeah but
01:06:51.120
so has killing for hire yeah i i agree with that too so just making the appeal to history and saying
01:06:57.520
because this thing has always been part of human behavior for some people that that means can't be
01:07:02.240
regulated you'd have to make the same follow that logic the same way and i do think that the industry
01:07:07.360
needs to be regulated the human experience too and you wouldn't advocate people do that right
01:07:12.560
guys i have a question um if you guys weren't in only fans do you have any other kind of like talent
01:07:21.120
or i anything else that you could do i'm going to go to fashion school i've already been yes i've
01:07:26.960
already put put everything in i'm waiting for the next year because it's summertime now so this coming
01:07:32.400
up this beginning of this year i'm going to be going to fashion school i've actually been sewing
01:07:36.240
for like five years i'm really good at it i actually have instagram where i make clothes and
01:07:40.880
i do that sign of stuff i'm going to be a designer so if you already know how to sew and if you already
01:07:46.480
know how to if you would know about the textile industry blah blah blah then why would you need
01:07:50.320
to go to school why wouldn't you just start your own small business and then you know create your
01:07:54.240
own because i love it so much that if i can learn every last bit of it no matter how it is i would
01:07:59.360
like to learn all that so i want to have that knowledge because i love it so much that to me
01:08:04.080
going to that class wouldn't be school like to me it would be something that i want to do because i
01:08:09.600
like to learn and if i'm learning about something that i love that i can bonus on by getting a degree
01:08:15.600
that can help me in the future also when it comes to that stuff then i would love to do that because i
01:08:19.840
want to know every last bit of the thing that i love okay good i was just asking because it's you
01:08:25.200
know it would be concerning if your only passion was only fans yeah no no no this is just a gateway
01:08:31.440
to get to where i really need to be okay got it babe and i went to school i'm a licensed esthetician
01:08:38.400
and i went to spa studios and became a certified pro makeup artist i've worked on many different
01:08:43.520
runways different spas i've had my own spa before um unfortunately you know the economy has destroyed
01:08:52.480
businesses back and forth um there's i am telling you i am no way in the 15 years of being in the
01:09:00.400
beauty industry destroyed those businesses though oh different petitions and spas and things i mean
01:09:05.520
those those businesses different economies at different times it has in different areas
01:09:11.600
right saturation that has destroyed those industries i can't think of like even under obama's economy during
01:09:17.600
the recession those were those were actually businesses that were still making money so every
01:09:22.400
every single every single spa especially every single spa right every single spa has made it through
01:09:29.200
the recession even in a booming economy every single anything's not going to always make money that's
01:09:34.800
that's absurd right doesn't exactly like you could you could still have a business which isn't healthy
01:09:39.520
even when the economy is booming yeah it doesn't have anything to do with anything everybody's going to
01:09:43.520
have to experience that at some point working for a business that has healthier or down points i'm just
01:09:48.160
saying that those businesses typically are very healthy businesses they have been for a long time
01:09:53.680
yeah but it's not every single business and it's really hard when you are going to school you're
01:09:58.320
raising your children you're running a business you're doing multiple things and sometimes you have
01:10:03.440
to divert your attention and there's different aspects of where you live right i lived in a small town
01:10:09.360
it was a really it was a lot harder to bring in it wasn't la right so people weren't going and getting
01:10:16.000
all types of different treatments it was a smaller town that was a little bit harder to be more successful
01:10:22.880
in the spa industries um but what i was saying is that i make way more money way more money wait so a
01:10:31.840
little question on the background here so you got started in adult content first no she started first
01:10:37.200
but with her can i finish with one thing oh yeah i just wanted to finish this the last thing you
01:10:42.960
said you wait make way more money so let me just ask you this straight then yes let's just say that
01:10:47.520
you're in that small town and you were making about what an esthetician generally makes yes in a small
01:10:52.160
town uh or even what an esthetician would make in kind of a big city isn't it the case that you would
01:10:57.760
still do this because it's more money would i still do only fans or do a spa spa what if if i was
01:11:06.720
making the money that i'm making now no no no no if you were making the money that a general spa
01:11:12.720
technician would make yes okay so i'm making that so what was the question again so like would you
01:11:18.960
wouldn't you wouldn't it be the case that you would still do of since the money is so much better than
01:11:23.520
do spa work even if you made what a typical spa worker makes uh yeah i mean i would do of i'm
01:11:29.600
completely debt free then i don't understand why bring up all of the history of the economy and you
01:11:34.960
you couldn't get you know jobs and it was her question is that even if it was the case that
01:11:39.600
you could work at any spa and get paid what a spa worker makes you'd still be doing of yeah and so
01:11:45.200
why even why even bring any of that up because basically i was asking because i asked her if she
01:11:50.320
has any other talents other than just being an only fans so i was answering her question oh i see
01:11:56.080
creator i wasn't just planning it's like you would still do of anyway right yeah but the thing is
01:12:02.480
like she wouldn't have anyway but she wouldn't have been in that position if it wasn't for that so
01:12:07.040
then technically if that never happened she would still be doing the spa well because she was trying
01:12:13.040
to say that makes more sense so yeah yeah wait so the problem is is that even if she was in that
01:12:19.280
position she would still do it you see what i mean so if they both made the same amount of money
01:12:25.520
right the spa thingy and the only fans you would still pick the only fans over the spa thing yes
01:12:33.600
so therefore right that point proven thanks and at this point yes welcome i enjoy what i do um brian i
01:12:41.200
have a question for you for me yeah for you um like i'm not complaining at all because this is
01:12:47.600
really yummy but like why did you give it to me and then she asked and you said oh i said later
01:12:53.760
i'll get one later we we we have a two popsicle at the table limit it's a policy written in blood
01:13:03.680
as many policies are uh trust me there's a reason for the policy i didn't ask for a popsicle you you
01:13:09.760
you made eye contact with me to have it done you made eye contact with me i don't you're on only
01:13:14.640
fans you were like i didn't i thought she was looking at you and like felicity communicated to
01:13:21.520
me that you wanted everybody it's okay brian i think you just wanted it's okay i think she wants
01:13:27.360
to get rid of the the lollipop you don't like it i do like i'm saying wow this is you're really
01:13:32.640
ungrateful no here i am i am such a hospitable host and here you are mine is a car or something
01:13:44.400
or is it oh my gosh what is that that's smelling burning it smells like burning maybe it's a bird
01:13:51.120
it's a protest it does smell like it's burning something's the bats the bats on the life itself
01:13:58.960
what is going on is anything burning in the studio no it's probably because it's about to be fourth of
01:14:04.000
july they're probably doing fireworks the downstairs sometimes yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah it's
01:14:17.600
what i don't know what were we talking about why you gave me the pops no that you're moving on to
01:14:24.640
something else you you asked for it indirectly i didn't mean i was back there i was back there
01:14:31.600
and you were looking back and like i directly asked give it to me and i'll throw it in the bin
01:14:35.600
she wants it it's it's really good you guys are wasting my pops so do you want it all right
01:14:41.920
i'm gonna read some chats here wondering uh every single women around the table is getting sexualized
01:14:47.760
by other women you all dress for each other not for men chair two is barely dressed at all
01:14:52.800
and she's gross chair seven and threes three w's so chair three chair seven what does w's mean yeah
01:15:01.040
w awesome winning means you're winning yes you oh thank you yes winning and he sent another one
01:15:08.880
women don't dress for men they dress for each other and sexualize themselves yeah feminism chair
01:15:12.400
two is barely dressed at all gross chair seven i sent it sent it in twice kind of a chair seven
01:15:18.160
chair three w's thank you actually religious w's w's in the chat from actually religious thank you
01:15:24.240
very much appreciate that oh thank you this bird is killing me the bird's killing me you know
01:15:29.040
we're going to do something can i say something about that comment um like i don't know who dm'd
01:15:34.240
me from the whatever podcast but they told me to wear this outfit today so we don't have to do
01:15:39.760
everything that's gross men on the internet tell us to do darling it wasn't your choice you can't
01:15:45.360
articulate your own thoughts i mean they just asked me to wear this outfit don't speak tell her
01:15:50.640
no like i'm just kind of like curious well she's just she's obviously going to just wear what
01:15:55.680
they told her to wear because she wanted to be appropriate for the place this meta conversation
01:16:00.240
frankly is very boring no no no she's not wearing it i'm gonna move it on i don't care
01:16:04.800
i don't care because of what the man said to her she's wearing it because she's on only fans and
01:16:08.800
this is going to help her career well no like right that's what asked me to wear that i just
01:16:13.200
think you look hot in red girl you're going to do anything
01:16:17.760
you're the prettiest girl and people ask us for input on outfits and if there's like an outfit
01:16:23.200
which you posted this exact same outfit i did on your instagram that was an outfit recommendation
01:16:30.000
okay i will white that's fine yeah you can people can wear whatever they want i didn't ask
01:16:34.960
people can wear whatever they want like what i should wear who who gives a fuck i mean well
01:16:39.920
someone just said i was gross because of what i was wearing i just wanted to say that like and
01:16:44.240
they call me burrito boy they call me burrito boy i don't they really do that's so much
01:16:48.800
i don't get into it oh well uh they asked me to eat a burrito they buy burritos for me to eat
01:16:57.360
on stream i'm not like anyways whatever she's sensitive about it you know i just don't i was
01:17:05.200
just like defending myself because they said i was gross for my okay cool anyways moving on don't worry
01:17:10.240
about moving it on so uh let's see uh anya you have some a paper in front of you notes
01:17:18.960
they were for andrew they're not specifically for andrew read them no read them they're not
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specifically for andrew it's just the podcast can go in a million different directions it can go
01:17:30.720
dating talk it can go politics it can go okay what's the topic you want to hit on then it's not
01:17:36.080
one particular topic it's just it's what do you have notes prepared for which topic okay um i don't
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know if i can say the pew pew rights um abortion rights feminism immigration about uh we can talk
01:17:52.160
about g rights we haven't done that i don't think whatever before g rights what do you write it
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pew huh pew pews i don't know if i can say that word for tos yeah i'm just covering all topics just
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in case i get asked about it's not it's not tos but i mean i'm yeah no just so anyway are you are
01:18:13.040
you in favor of gun ownership yeah okay there's nothing to debate then um abortion or feminism
01:18:19.440
immigration feminism interesting i want to get up immigration interesting okay what so what immigration
01:18:25.920
specifically because of what's going on in la right now okay are you pro uh immigration or what's
01:18:31.600
your position my official position is that my parents came here in 1997 um so we are russian
01:18:38.400
immigrants and i am fully pro legal immigration completely against illegal immigration um i think
01:18:45.760
there should be a little bit of tweaking on the legal immigration process because it is pretty broken
01:18:52.320
but before we can do that what's going on right now is probably the best option um to kind of flush the
01:18:59.920
system and start fresh well what's going on right now what are you referring to um the ice raids in
01:19:10.640
la and any raids going on in florida throwing out all these fucking illegals i totally agree with you i
01:19:17.280
agree and it's excellent sorry and if we can round all of them up in a day and throw them all the
01:19:22.240
out of there at this country i would be very very happy then but unfortunately i don't think that's
01:19:27.680
going to be the case it seems like uh mr trump god emperor trump may he live forever in the light
01:19:34.160
has failed us on this one he seems to be i love trump there but there's a lot of back in england
01:19:40.160
right now with the immigration it's the problem in england is horrible horrible oh yeah well they they
01:19:48.000
with their uh asian immigrants they got you guys are losing your country day by day and that would
01:19:54.000
happen here londinistan they call it now don't they londinistan isn't that what they call it now yep
01:20:03.840
yep uh could i have you just move your microphone this way just a little bit and then uh tilt it down
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down a little more perfect uh okay so there's immigration feminism what's your position on
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feminism uh strictly against feminism um i think all waves first wave second wave and third wave
01:20:25.600
were all harmful for society i think the reason that we're here is because of first wave feminism
01:20:31.280
um what do you mean by here this is okay hang on actually this is a really interesting take so
01:20:36.320
you got to help me out here you think that they're bad because they're bad for society right yes okay
01:20:42.800
then why are you doing of i fully admit that it's bad fully admit it i i i don't think it's great for
01:20:49.040
society um but i also think it's something that i'm taking advantage of it and i also enjoy doing it so
01:20:56.960
before i was doing of i was filming myself and doing it um obviously none of that is posted because
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it was a while ago um but i was filming you would do that for you would do of for free
01:21:13.360
honestly uh i enjoyed just filming it and like yeah for your own personal pleasure here's my question
01:21:20.480
though would you do it for free probably yeah depending on the workload that it is really you
01:21:26.400
would do it for free depending on the workload depending on the workload so for example like
01:21:31.040
like the workload that it is right now weighs out to make sure to make sense for how much i'm getting
01:21:40.080
paid with it um so i'm willing to do all the other stuff because hey the money's great but if i was
01:21:47.760
doing it for free i would just i wouldn't put as much effort into it but yeah i would probably still do it
01:21:53.200
it why i just enjoy showing myself i know that's kind of weird but do you just like having sex on
01:22:02.800
camera in front of other people not even having sex but like even just by myself like i and like
01:22:09.760
if i'm gooning i'll go into myself which and the types of things you're doing by yourself which are
01:22:14.560
highly sexualized probably include things like masturbation why can't you do that on your
01:22:18.800
your own why do you have to put it all over the internet i didn't have to nobody told me i had to
01:22:24.400
um i just i actually started out doing tiktok and doing like legos on tiktok um and just like
01:22:34.320
riding my horses and stuff and i got a million and one dms about of and i gave it a few months of
01:22:41.760
thought before i actually did it and it was back and forth yes no yes no and i decided in the end to do
01:22:47.440
it um in the end i'm glad i did it but if other people ask me if they should do it i typically
01:22:55.200
argue against starting it not that like i always try and frame it exactly how it is
01:23:05.840
yeah and it can be a tough let me ask you this can be tough do you think it's evil
01:23:10.640
do you think only fans is evil i think the general corn industry is yes yeah i think
01:23:18.400
i think it's a better version of it because yeah but is it evil i think at its root
01:23:26.640
yeah it's evil yeah then why why would you do evil things i i fully admit that it's honestly it's
01:23:34.560
because i i plan to have children in the future and this was the a way that i wanted to make a buttload
01:23:43.840
of money and be able to spend time with my children and provide them with resources put them into
01:23:50.720
private education um do all of that didn't you just married a stud what's gonna happen when your
01:23:59.360
little boy turns 13 and his friends are all bullying him at school showing them showing him pictures of
01:24:06.560
their mom spread eagle on a bed like do you think that that's going to be great for your children
01:24:12.160
no but i also think that a certain level of not bullying i don't want to say bullying but a certain
01:24:17.360
level of hardship kind of builds strength not saying that every kid should be bullied
01:24:28.720
poor little timmy we got to go over there beat him up stuff in the locker because his mommy does
01:24:33.840
well because what come on well because at the end of the day they shouldn't worry about what other
01:24:37.920
people have to think you know so it's like they shouldn't like and he needs to like it's nice to teach
01:24:43.360
them that growing up like you don't need to worry about what other people think that that has nothing
01:24:47.120
to do with you so if people were bullying him for that it's actually then that's not
01:24:51.120
it's the first time i've i've heard andrew also asked a question i i was paying attention to that
01:24:55.920
one what was it i was asking you if it's evil yeah after that it was right as she was stating hers
01:25:02.640
yeah yeah so are you engaging in evil i would say so yeah don't you think you should stop doing that
01:25:11.840
um eventually imagine you can imagine somebody if you say look this is evil
01:25:17.920
that well don't you think you should stop doing that i think there's certain levels of evil i think
01:25:22.880
there's certain levels of evil so i think like for example like i think smoking cigarettes i think
01:25:30.480
it's technically evil that's not smoking marijuana i i think using substances is evil because it's
01:25:37.440
hurting you those things aren't those things aren't evil i wouldn't classify them as evil you
01:25:42.160
actually classify this as evil so evil at its root it's evil so you you by your admission are
01:25:50.320
participating in evil yeah like knowingly now all of us i think probably at some points in our life
01:25:56.240
participate in evil deeds correct uh sometimes knowingly or unknowingly but when you recognize
01:26:02.320
that it's an evil deed don't you generally steer clear of that because you know it's evil right
01:26:07.680
isn't that the whole point of being able to recognize evil for what it is yeah and i fully
01:26:12.000
admit the hypocrisy 100 well it's not i mean i don't i don't even know if in this case it's
01:26:19.360
hypocrisy it's just inconsistency right it's just an inconsistent standard like if you know you're
01:26:25.360
engaging in something that by your own standard is evil you just stop doing that right i'll like
01:26:31.840
like i'll have a drink here and there at home i'll have a beer but i know it's bad for me i know
01:26:38.480
i shouldn't be doing it i know it's gonna hurt my liver in the long term irrelevant why it's not the
01:26:44.480
same that's you maybe harming your body slightly but evil means that you're harming other people right
01:26:54.320
okay let's clarify real quick the definite like what we're considering evil because maybe i agree
01:27:01.920
to something that i don't know what i agree to yeah that seems fair what do you think evil is
01:27:08.400
see that that's actually honestly that's i'm having difficulty like putting a pinpoint on that
01:27:14.160
is what she said kind of more close to the definition of evil that we're going upon where it's
01:27:18.960
hurting yourself and others well in the so my in my tradition the orthodox tradition
01:27:27.440
evil doesn't have an ontology it just means absence from god so anything that's absent from
01:27:32.640
god would be considered evil but it doesn't itself have its own uh sense of thing it's a phenomenon which
01:27:40.480
we call a thing which would be absent from the energies of god that's what we would consider evil to
01:27:44.720
be i mean i am you know what you consider evil to be now you know what i consider it but i'm asking
01:27:50.640
you what you consider it to be you don't have the same standard i do so i'm wondering from your
01:27:54.560
view what is evil i think sorry can i sorry to interrupt andrew i think that the i think that the
01:28:00.400
people who manufacture and create the cigarettes they might be evil but i think that the person who
01:28:06.480
smokes a cigarette isn't evil if that makes any sense why why though because they are
01:28:14.720
knowingly um distributing something that you know potentially could cause hat cancer or
01:28:21.600
like health problems okay you know for money you wouldn't i understand so the consumer you
01:28:26.960
wouldn't hold responsible but you would hold i love a ciggy like when i'm out for having a drink
01:28:32.400
but i wouldn't say that because you would consider the pusher to be yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah
01:28:37.200
so in that case chair one from your view is evil what who's the pusher so the person she would
01:28:44.240
she would be the pusher right are you saying she's yeah is she the user or is she the pusher
01:28:49.120
i would be the pusher yeah because technically only fans is just your pusher because the people
01:28:53.360
that created the only fans and then provided that platform for other people don't get me wrong i i don't
01:28:59.120
think that the men who are consuming this corn whatever um the best but without the people who
01:29:05.120
are providing it it can't be done so it's literally like the person the marlborough you know they are
01:29:12.560
creating something that's dangerous but the person who smokes the marlborough cigarette
01:29:17.440
isn't evil i think it's like 50 i'm sorry i'm not articulating because you're always going to
01:29:21.920
have a market you're always going to have a supply it's 50 50 because people are still they wouldn't
01:29:26.720
be able to sell it people didn't buy it so yeah that's true i just kind of looked at it the market
01:29:34.080
you're right like you are correct if there's no demand there's no yes exactly
01:29:38.240
i agree that that's true but what's easier to control is it easier to control the pusher or is
01:29:44.880
it easier to control the millions of consumers which one's easier to regulate i feel like sometimes
01:29:50.000
though if you think about it like people are going to want it anyways and somehow they're going to find
01:29:53.120
a way to get it no matter what something really wants something i have any law we're kind of talking
01:29:58.080
we're also kind of talking about it hang on let me respond why have any law then if it is the case
01:30:02.880
that people will just break them what do you mean by that though like why have any if the case if it
01:30:07.360
is the case that you're saying if you regulate this people will do it anyway then you can make
01:30:11.840
that example for any law which exists in the books why have well like for example like it's like the
01:30:16.640
vapes right like the uh the flavored vapes like they banned it right but now they're still selling
01:30:21.680
it but now they're even faker they're worse for you like because no matter what people are going to
01:30:26.800
want it so it's like if people just try to stop it all together it's just somehow some way people are
01:30:31.360
going to find out like for example marijuana the reason wait hang on hang on hang on let's let's go
01:30:36.320
one step at a time here because you didn't actually answer the question if it is the case that you're
01:30:41.520
saying andrew listen um you the reason you don't want to regulate this is because hey people will
01:30:48.560
want it anyway there'll still be a demand i actually agree that that's true there will still be a demand
01:30:53.600
for it but couldn't you make that case with any law that exists i would say so like i mean so then why
01:31:00.960
have laws at all facts but that's that's what i mean by like just in general like marijuana right
01:31:06.560
like the reason they legalized it was because people were going to do it no matter they were
01:31:10.880
going to keep arresting them or whatever the reason they legalized it was because a lot of the times
01:31:14.640
people are going to thoughts on this please hang on hang on the reason they legalized marijuana was
01:31:19.360
because there was huge ngos pushing for it who knew that once they taxed it pushed out to the public
01:31:25.200
uh it would spread and the consumption would spread and by the way the people who resisted
01:31:30.640
marijuana legalization guys like me for instance who resisted it told everybody that hey this is not
01:31:37.600
going to be a just the current crop of people who smoke marijuana will keep doing it and now it's legal
01:31:42.880
and safe it's gonna spread and it did it spread all over the place way more people smoke it now
01:31:49.440
now than ever before and it will continue to spread like a fucking cancerous plague so the thing is is
01:31:55.440
like it seemed like the laws were real helpful there yeah well speaking of cancer there are you know
01:32:01.440
benefits to medical marijuana can i can i ask you you're saying that it's spreading like like crazy
01:32:09.040
is that in in your eyes is that a good thing or a bad thing it's a bad thing okay why is it what i agree
01:32:16.480
but why is it bad i'm gonna get to under the district well i think it's just socially bad
01:32:21.760
so it's it would be bad for the social health and welfare of the people of the united states
01:32:25.600
okay why is it socially bad because it's hurting other people and the people that are smoking right
01:32:31.360
i don't think it's just a matter of hurting people that's where you and i might deviate i think when
01:32:36.960
we're talking about social goods or social bads we're talking about what do we want to see as a social
01:32:41.440
norm for society so inside of society i don't want to see people stoned out of their
01:32:45.360
fucking mind when they're driving i don't want to see people going up to pot dispensaries where
01:32:49.840
their security guards are walking out with joints i don't want to see people shooting up with needles
01:32:54.000
on the sidewalk even if that doesn't actually directly affect me even if that's hundreds and
01:32:58.960
hundreds of miles away i don't want a reflection of that socially in my society technically yeah
01:33:04.240
technically people aren't allowed to like drive and smoke though like technically like if you get
01:33:08.960
pulled over and it's like a dui but for marijuana and stuff you're not even allowed to do that
01:33:13.840
like drive but you're contributing yeah you're contributing new people doing it
01:33:17.360
with mass legalization of marijuana yeah i see what you're saying can i ask do you drink alcohol
01:33:23.760
sure okay so i'm drinking a beer right now so am i driving so do you think that alcohol and and
01:33:32.720
marijuana are different yeah like do you think the law should be different and if so why alcohol is
01:33:39.200
completely enriched in american culture it's part of the social identity of americana
01:33:44.880
our founding fathers if you looked at the receipts of their party after the constitution it would make
01:33:49.920
one of these block parties in santa barbara would make all the kids there cry because of how much
01:33:54.560
liquor they drank that's what in fact they substituted water with alcohol often because i didn't hear that
01:34:01.120
brackish and poisonous alcohol is so entrenched in the american identity that when prohibition was around
01:34:08.080
it was basically one of the first amendments that we actually repealed and got rid of as quickly as
01:34:13.520
possible i mean it had a very short uh span because of the social identity which comes with it alcohol
01:34:20.000
is a part of the culture of the very fabric of the culture that's here marijuana is not and never has
01:34:26.000
been i feel it's a cultural difference but yeah there's massive cultural distinctions in in how these
01:34:32.720
things play a part could you make the argument that alcohol kills way more people than marijuana
01:34:37.360
yeah i would agree that that's true probably killed more people than probably any other drug that's
01:34:42.000
out there i would agree with that too but i also think that there's a distinction in the culture and
01:34:47.040
what we know that where it's okay to do and what's not okay to do and the fabric of going to like a
01:34:52.720
honky-tonk bar in the south at uh nine o'clock and drinking till 1 a.m with uh you know with your
01:34:58.320
buddies in the in the local pub that's an entrenched part of american culture right down to the fabric
01:35:04.480
of my daddy daddy daddy drink at this same pub so i don't i don't think you're going to easily
01:35:09.360
disassociate that from the culture interesting all right we have some chats coming through we have
01:35:15.920
pasty george coming in here thank you pasty appreciate it he writes chair one while it is
01:35:22.240
excellent that you denounce feminism and realize how detrimental it is to society but you do only fans
01:35:27.680
isn't that hypocritical yeah i mean i i don't like i yeah it definitely is hypocritical um
01:35:38.080
i also i don't think i don't think of is like empowering like what feminism says like i don't
01:35:43.680
think it's empowering um i enjoy doing it i i like doing it i don't think it's like empowering hang
01:35:51.280
on hang on i brian i just wanted to to finish it off though sorry um but yeah
01:35:57.520
the the major the major take here away is and isn't just the aspect of culture but remember
01:36:02.640
that there's a lot of stigma around alcohol there's stigma around alcoholics there's major
01:36:08.000
social stigma that's part of the social responsibility that comes with alcohol
01:36:12.640
nobody likes alcoholics they like they have interventions they have billboards everywhere
01:36:17.200
saying don't drink and drive they do all where's all that ship for only fans anywhere is there a
01:36:21.760
billboard saying don't let your daughter do only fans is there is there is there don't
01:36:26.240
there's no drinking there's no stigma for these other social plagues there's only stigma for this
01:36:32.400
social plague and it's like okay look uh it seems to me that it's absurd kind of on its face to be like
01:36:39.200
look we have all the stigma towards alcohol even though it's an entrenched part of the culture but no
01:36:44.160
stigma towards any of these other social ills and societal ills and that's just crazy to me
01:36:48.800
i feel like i think it's cyclical so like for example alcohol like it was on the rise everyone
01:36:56.640
was drinking like it wasn't really that big of a deal and then we stick they stigmatized it and
01:37:02.800
not use went down but it we started looking at alcoholics as using a bad and sick um and then same
01:37:09.840
thing happened with cigarettes same thing happened with vapes so vapes went up and now they're going down
01:37:15.440
down and honestly i think the same thing is going to happen with this industry is everyone's kind of
01:37:20.720
going up up up up up um a lot of people are doing it and then we're going to start stigmatizing and
01:37:26.080
stigmatizing it and people are so i feel like what what happens with stigma law what would you consider
01:37:32.080
like right i also don't think that this is going to get outlawed um because a lot of the people using
01:37:38.640
it are the people that will be voting on it but what do you think so what do you think that is like a
01:37:43.120
right thing so you're saying like to do only fans is wrong like what would you say is the right thing
01:37:46.800
to do because i feel like it really comes to what people's for example like we were talking about
01:37:51.440
everyone does have different morals but then i feel like it like what makes that wrong like for me
01:37:56.800
like like for example she enjoys it so is that wrong for her no it's not because she enjoys doing
01:38:01.520
it you can enjoy a lot of things that are bad for you she enjoys doing it yet she admits that it's
01:38:05.120
evil i mean how can you enjoy doing something that you believe is evil hang on hang on people can
01:38:10.080
enjoy fendi and you know i don't even think you believe this should you just do things that make
01:38:14.720
you feel good no not all the time but i feel like if it's something why not well because i don't know
01:38:22.720
like you don't always have to do everything that you like to do but i'm just saying you don't have to
01:38:27.280
but why shouldn't you why shouldn't you just always do things that make you feel good well i mean if
01:38:31.200
you can make like a living off of it and it's like something that you're like using instead of going to
01:38:35.600
like an eight to five a nine to five freaking working for somebody else that's that's just
01:38:41.680
not even considering like how you are as a person only hang on why don't you find a talent something
01:38:48.320
that you enjoy doing a job that you really love that isn't nine this is all a deviation wait wait
01:38:54.080
wait this is all sorry andrew why shouldn't you only do things that make you feel good
01:38:58.880
because they can be already corrupt i'm asking her why why why do you think that you shouldn't
01:39:05.920
just do everything that makes you feel good well i feel like at the end of the day like you can do
01:39:10.400
what you want like if that's what makes me feel good then i feel like i can do that so then it's a
01:39:15.600
choice it's a choice yeah okay so then you should do things that make you feel good right yeah okay so
01:39:21.920
what if somebody died and donated their body to a necrophiliac to have sex with and it made the
01:39:27.440
necrophiliac feel good well that's not me though so that's not like i wouldn't have anything to say
01:39:32.320
about that you wouldn't have hang on wait so you'd be okay with that no i'm not saying that i'd be okay
01:39:36.800
with that the question let me finish the question so a guy dies donates his body to a necrophiliac and
01:39:44.240
it makes the necrophiliac feel good right why shouldn't he do that well because that's wrong but
01:39:50.000
i'm not saying what i'm doing is wrong i don't think that doing only fans is wrong so is it wrong if
01:39:54.960
it makes him feel good well because it's a diff that's different though it's different i'm not
01:40:00.080
doing things that are hurting other people or being disgusting or doing that like he's hurting
01:40:07.200
that's literally if you're doing that to somebody that's that's still hurting them they still were a
01:40:11.280
person that still was a person though so my choice of feeling good isn't doing things to other people
01:40:18.880
they donated their body to him to do it okay well i don't know about that so i have nothing to say
01:40:26.560
for that you don't know if that's wrong well yes it's wrong but i'm saying that
01:40:30.400
why is that wrong it makes him feel good that's not the body's not consent he donate they donate it
01:40:36.960
it's disrespectful to the family of the person who's passed away well i would hope no one would do
01:40:42.080
that so family well people do do that i know but that that is wrong but i'm not doing that so yeah
01:40:48.160
but why is it wrong though it because it's disgusting and that's fucking terrible i agree
01:40:55.120
because it's disgusting so only fans is disgusting no it's wrong i don't feel like it's disgusting but
01:41:02.800
that's like i said as long as it's disgusting and that's what makes it wrong i could use that argument
01:41:08.160
against homosexuality i could use that argument against only fans i could use that argument against
01:41:13.360
anything that i find disgusting i could just say it's wrong it's morally wrong right and that's his
01:41:20.080
opinion and he's entitled to that that's what i'm saying yeah exactly everybody has my opinion that would
01:41:24.800
just be a logical breakdown so if it is the case that things that make you feel good or right if i give
01:41:30.560
you an uh this scenario where this thing makes this guy feel good he's not hurting anybody else tell me
01:41:37.120
why it's wrong i think it's just everybody's opinion is that that's just everybody's opinion
01:41:45.440
that this is wrong so it'd be individual it's just all different people's opinion because some people
01:41:50.480
probably would say that that isn't wrong and those people are weird but i'm saying that that is wrong
01:41:55.200
but it's like it's just a choice of what other people perceive yeah i know you keep saying it's wrong
01:42:01.120
but if i go off your standard of do what makes you feel good right because that's what how you know
01:42:06.400
something's right but i'm not hurting anybody in the process neither is he neither is he who's he
01:42:11.280
hurting he's hurting the family what if the family has no family oh daddy brian yeah baby that's a way
01:42:22.160
to change the conversation um sorry it was in response but then i saw it was no champagne
01:42:30.720
look at that jungle donated one thousand dollars there's a fucking dent in the ceiling that makes
01:42:36.080
you gross no champagne brian none wait what does it say i popped it before i saw the no champagne
01:42:44.400
pop oh my god how many darth andrew destroy them this guy is a legend i do i do just want to quickly
01:42:52.000
quickly finish i'm almost done brian all right he keeps trying to change it because this one this is really
01:42:58.240
important that you guys understand this right at least where i'm coming from here yeah i'm listening
01:43:02.880
let's say that a person was alive who his dream after he died was to donate his body to some guy
01:43:11.200
to have sex with it after he was dead that's his dream that's all he thinks about all day that
01:43:16.400
he loves the very idea of this and then he dies and donates his body to some other guy and that guy
01:43:22.720
does that every single day well it's like that would be his choice let me finish let me finish
01:43:29.040
i just want to know if it if there's no family there's no objections there's no nothing
01:43:35.280
why would that be wrong well what if what if you know it's like no one like talking about what if
01:43:38.960
this what if that like i don't know that this isn't something that's reality right now that i
01:43:42.640
could see in front of me so i have no answer for that to be honest with you because it's a what
01:43:46.240
if opportunity is somebody getting murdered in front of you right now so both of them are consenting to
01:43:51.360
that right the guy that passed away is consenting and the other guy's consenting so in their world
01:43:58.320
in their their minds they are not doing wrong right it would be in your mind are they doing wrong
01:44:04.960
in my mind yes but that's my opinion why i i have no clue i i think i think again this becomes a society
01:44:14.400
thing and society's opinions and that's why so many people think only fans is wrong i'm not
01:44:20.960
you understand though why it is that if it is the case that i get society on my side to say only
01:44:26.240
fans is wrong and we outlaw it you can't really have any objections to it because what you just did
01:44:31.280
was you described that morality comes from the masses and if that's the case then anytime a person
01:44:37.920
like me can sway the masses into prescribing something which is bad for you you can't object to it
01:44:44.400
i don't i also don't think that the the issue is swaying the masses i think it's the issue is
01:44:50.560
swaying the people that are going to be voting on it and as i said previously a lot of the people that
01:44:54.560
are i don't this would all have to go through congress and the senate right and those people get voted in
01:45:03.360
i understand but you can admit too that there's a lot of time they don't represent the constituency
01:45:10.640
that they're they claim to be representing yeah a lot of times they represent ngos and not the
01:45:14.720
they represent to get in there they stop to get in there right that's true but they represent ngos and
01:45:21.200
they represent a lot of time their own personal things that they want whether it's moving up in
01:45:26.960
um the political ladder and they have to try and square the circle we can move it on now brian
01:45:40.880
brian are you allowed to have any of that champagne or not
01:45:44.000
i'm he was jungle says i messaged him he said no champagne brian uh so i'm just gonna drink it
01:45:51.360
alone do what you want darling you guys okay my love jungle uh salute to you jungle if you want to do a
01:45:56.560
a little cheers with me jungle uh so i wait so brian's allowed to drink it and we're not yeah
01:46:01.760
that is unacceptable jungle whoever you are why can't we just kidding but he did ask a question
01:46:09.680
he did ask a question if you guys recall what was the question this is for chair five that's for you
01:46:14.160
crystal and how many genders did they teach you there are what about the rest of the table how many
01:46:20.640
so you answer first go ahead crystal basically uh however many people want to say lgbtq plus but i
01:46:29.040
mean hgmo joking so yeah are there an infinite number of genders basically okay basically what they teach
01:46:38.000
you and then what about the rest of the table how many genders are there two two two i feel like there's
01:46:44.880
like two genders i had no comment on that one two male and female two okay jungle thank you again
01:46:56.560
very much for the champagne i do appreciate it uh thank you sir thanks daddy jungle thank you jungle
01:47:03.600
appreciate it he said no champagne though but i i didn't see that part so wait you're not allowed to
01:47:09.200
sure nope okay i i gotta adhere to jungle's requests jungle wait so what like what other
01:47:16.560
type of genders do they say that there is because i'm just familiar with two like what other kind of
01:47:20.640
genders would is there because i i've never heard of another gender like so what other like what would
01:47:25.440
be a term like of another gender transvestite but isn't like a like if so let's say if you're a girl
01:47:30.560
then you want to be a boy like wouldn't you still be changed to a male so that would make you male at
01:47:36.320
that point right or i just see i don't really know too much about that so that's why i'm be
01:47:41.040
transgender yeah see but it's so transgender is a gender uh pasty george chair two and three
01:47:48.560
stop being boring and gross lol that's to you too he says to me he said stop being bors
01:47:55.120
bors boring and gross i'm being boring and gross i guess so okay well your name is pasty george honey
01:48:02.800
and you donated a hundred dollars just to tell me that i'm gross so maybe you should take a look
01:48:07.520
in the mirror pasty george ooh pasty george shots fired he has he has a follow-up anyone knows that
01:48:15.200
that thing is gross and morally wrong so why can't oh fans cam girling escorting etc be gross and
01:48:22.160
immoral why does money and consent make the latter right can i was saying that i think that both of
01:48:27.280
them are immoral can i ask you so catch up pasty george i i agree that it is gross and immoral but
01:48:34.560
why is necrophilia wrong and immoral by your standard by andrew's standard oh don't you do
01:48:42.640
back to this topic no i agree we're moving forward do you know the meaning of the word necrophilia do you
01:48:48.480
understand i agree i agree i think it's gross and morally wrong
01:48:51.920
now that bangeth the dead body but no we're going this is going back to the conversation that i was
01:48:57.760
having over here bad things yeah that's why that's why it's wrong well i'm sorry answer that again
01:49:02.880
i want to change my answer too for the transgender thing because i didn't even know that transgender
01:49:06.480
i'm sorry can you can you say that again maybe before we speak we should
01:49:11.360
yeah i know i'm like i didn't know what that okay so hold on stop
01:49:14.800
i need you guys to speak one at a time if one person is speaking my expectation for the entire
01:49:24.000
panel is everybody else is silent while that person is speaking anya was speaking you guys
01:49:30.480
are doing i don't even know what you guys are talking about some sidebar conversation
01:49:34.960
kindly one person speaking at the time the discipline on this has been terrible thus far
01:49:40.800
one person at a time go ahead um this was just going back to the conversation i was having i'm
01:49:46.560
sorry what was your name um you can call me pearl pearl yes pearl the conversation i was having with
01:49:51.120
pearl was i was trying to get down to where her morals come from not that her morals were wrong just
01:49:57.120
where they come from it's just going back i get it but like when you when you're making an epistemic
01:50:03.760
claim which is what that is right epistemology being the study as we all know of the epistles
01:50:09.200
uh no i'm kidding joking uh so when you're making an epistemic claim uh you have to account for it
01:50:17.200
and i can account for my epistemic claim with god you're not accounting for your epistemic claim at
01:50:23.440
all you're just saying me me my my preferences things that make me feel good is how i account
01:50:30.400
for all the things that are around me right that's the distinction so like it's easy for people to have
01:50:36.080
this bizarre distinction where they're like your morals are your morals man and my morals are my
01:50:41.200
morals man and we just like i'll do our own little thing but it's like clearly we don't think that
01:50:46.640
that's true right so for instance if you looked outside right now and a bunch of aztecs were cutting
01:50:51.440
the hearts out of people and then kicking them off the temple you would probably get pretty upset about
01:50:55.920
it right you'd probably be like ah you know i think that that's immoral and you probably shouldn't be
01:51:01.200
able to and that's kind of transcending perhaps this idea of preferential morality right it's kind
01:51:06.960
of transcending it so i don't think all morals codes are created equal and i think that some world views
01:51:12.240
can account for them and some world views can't i agree i was saying uh i didn't really know exactly
01:51:21.520
about the gender thing because i didn't know that transgender technically was a gender i thought that
01:51:24.960
that's what they just would say for things so i would want to change my answer because i feel like
01:51:29.040
if you choose to want to be like who you want to be then i feel like they have that choice so i just
01:51:35.040
wanted to change my answer on that also just to clarify my morals don't come from what i find
01:51:40.080
enjoyable because even though i do find it enjoyable and i like it i don't think it's morally right
01:51:45.680
wait hold on but then but then you wouldn't do it if you didn't find it enjoyable right so you're
01:51:49.520
still just doing whatever makes you feel good it makes me feel good but i don't think it's morally right
01:51:54.880
right so don't you do it for the money that make you feel good i i also just enjoy doing it would
01:52:01.360
you so you would do it without the money yeah i answered this previously yeah again balancing
01:52:06.720
workload depending on the workload all right we have some super chats pelagic logical fallacy is
01:52:12.240
surprising here pelagic thank you for the big super chat man really appreciate it guys w's in the chat
01:52:17.040
for pelagic you're a legend sir thank you for the super chat irving there are 10 million women between
01:52:22.400
the ages of 18 to 25 in america 1.5 million dog those same women have begun only fans or s work
01:52:30.480
equivalent another statistic statistic is that roughly 40 percent of all children in america is being
01:52:36.720
raised by a man who believes that child is actually theirs paternity fraud okay um
01:52:45.120
uh i don't know if the statistic is that high what you might be referencing irving is of the men who
01:52:54.880
challenge paternity and they get a paternity test done it's something like one in three so maybe closer
01:53:02.480
to 33 percent of men are raising children that are not theirs in the in the event that there is a
01:53:13.040
in the event that they are contesting the paternity so this wouldn't account for it wouldn't be the
01:53:18.800
case that 40 of all children being raised in america that the father is a cuck essentially uh but i think
01:53:28.080
that's the statistic you're referencing thank you irving though i appreciate the soup chat poochie thank you
01:53:33.040
for the membership why don't we just do this early stifler ask everyone to rate their own looks on a scale
01:53:37.200
of one to ten you can't pick seven go ahead anya starting with you i'm scared seven six and a half
01:53:43.360
okay chloe um like a six i go 6.9 the year of our lord that was a joke sorry i'd say like six and a
01:53:54.240
half okay i'd say six okay you can't pick seven can't pick seven that's my favorite number that's
01:54:01.040
like still not fair okay uh i'm gonna do 6.9 i would say beauty is subjective so i would date
01:54:07.840
i would say it would fluctuate like up or down i would say a five six wait you said it would fluctuate
01:54:15.360
up or down could it ever be a ten no like no one is a ten i think anyone who says they are a ten is
01:54:21.920
pure delusional because i think a ten you have to be like super flawless with absolutely no cosmetic
01:54:29.120
procedures or hold on hold on hold on do you recall five minutes ago when i
01:54:36.240
kindly told you to shut the fuck up do you remember five minutes ago what did you just do right now
01:54:42.880
i just was i forgot what she said so i was just asking her why would that matter because i think
01:54:49.120
that she's like way more gorgeous than me so i was just like thinking oh right maybe but i understand
01:54:55.040
that you're curious but i just told you you can't be doing sidebars she's talking right now it's rude
01:55:01.280
and disruptive to her for you to be leaning over and whispering it's bad for the audio quality for
01:55:06.320
the audience i just told you five minutes ago now here's your opportunity 100 women versus
01:55:14.480
accountability i'm sorry i'm not going to do it again that's all i need i'm sorry i won't do it again
01:55:20.000
thank you go ahead um so yeah based off of the fluctuation like it fluctuating it would depend
01:55:27.280
on personal preference beauty standards beauty standards are always changing and i don't think
01:55:33.680
anyone is a ten because everyone has flaws and imperfections and it's just a preference at the end
01:55:40.160
of the day lovely okay going back to you do you think you'll be better looking in ten years time
01:55:46.560
um honestly i think i'm looking better now that no answer is no i think i look better now than i
01:55:55.040
will ten years time you're 19 will you be better looking in ten years time at 29 um i would say yeah
01:56:02.800
yes 20 years time 39 no okay you're 35 will you be better looking in ten years time at 45 absolutely not
01:56:11.200
but can only hope okay and you're are you better looking now at 35 than you were at 25 um
01:56:18.320
um probably less lucky yeah no i was better at 25 probably you're 23 will you be better looking in
01:56:27.520
ten years time at 33 um i would say yes because i can work on myself you know so i could like whatever
01:56:34.080
i feel like i don't like i could change are you talking about plastic surgery no just like my body or
01:56:40.000
whatever you know like in like 10 years if i were to be working out consistent like you know like
01:56:43.920
things like that like it could change yeah okay what about 20 years time at 43 better looking than
01:56:49.120
how you look now what did you say i'm so sorry uh 40 and so you're 23 now in 20 years time at 43
01:56:57.600
will you be better looking um i would i would say yeah because it's you know i feel like a lot of
01:57:04.320
times like when you age like marks and stuff show like the things that you've been through so i would
01:57:08.640
say it would be more beautiful then because it shows like the things that i've gone through you know
01:57:13.200
or like that i've lived that long okay so 30 years time how about 53 better looking than now probably
01:57:19.920
now and probably 50 but it depends because a lot of women that are 50 are nowadays you know you won't
01:57:26.480
even you can't even tell so okay uh you're 32 better looking in 10 years time at 42 probably not
01:57:35.360
okay and were you better looking 10 years ago at 22 yeah just because i was more of an athlete i
01:57:41.040
played sports i was more in shape okay you're 44 better looking in 10 years time at 54 no i feel
01:57:46.400
like my prime was in between 35 and 40 okay so if we go back uh were you better looking at 34 oh yes and
01:57:53.200
then were you better looking at 24 uh no okay i was better looking at my 30s all right um i would
01:58:00.320
say it would depend um better looking in 10 years time yeah it would depend whether i decide to get
01:58:06.080
like any cosmetic procedures i wouldn't i'm not against it so what do you think i guess um i've seen like
01:58:15.840
how people get like facelifts and they look unrecognizable they don't even show their age so it's a
01:58:21.920
possibility so like you're 25 now go forward 10 years you have flawless plastic various flawless
01:58:28.800
plastic surgery procedures better at 35 probably not as good as in our prime 20s yeah it's possible
01:58:36.880
okay 20 years time 45 better looking with all these plastic surgery interventions no probably not
01:58:41.920
we start decaying as time comes okay uh felicity what about you no do we have the things ready to
01:58:49.600
go mayor okay we have pasty george chair three calm down lady calm down lol i take back calling chairs
01:58:56.880
two and three gross but not the boring part lol from pasty george because you guys were shooting shots
01:59:02.560
at them all right we have pasty george not to be rude or offensive but chair five looks like she's
01:59:07.280
getting ready to assassinate someone lol are you an assassin no no okay all right um
01:59:19.360
you're good to go do we have gender yet or no okay maybe we'll get those later all right guys so we do
01:59:25.600
the segment on the show related to the previous question uh we age advanced all of you guys some
01:59:30.480
of you said you'd look better in 10 20 30 years whatever it is so we're going to put it to the test
01:59:35.120
let's let's go ahead and go through that oh boy oh boy oh my god i'm so excited no way oh gosh
01:59:47.440
all right i hope not because my my mom is still like objectively very beautiful so i hope that that
01:59:52.800
doesn't happen but please make me a hot grandma um where is that picture
02:00:03.040
okay what is the what is the years there we're looking at 30 10 years ahead in 20 years
02:00:10.480
it's just vague aging it's just vague okay got it all right next wait oh my god
02:00:16.960
i'm scared that's not bad oh i'll still you're actually kind of cute i'll have my banter you're
02:00:30.560
actually kind of cute it's funny how you said that next oh my god that's terrible hey you guys wait
02:00:40.240
hey it's uh mother daughter here why don't we get one of brian it's god damn relax we'll get there
02:00:48.640
they're gonna do it it's okay we'll get there i didn't know sorry oh my god the first picture is
02:00:54.800
good all right next oh my god this is crazy damn okay i can't wait to see mine next
02:01:06.800
oh my gosh okay all right this is the best guy yeah that's not bad milk there you go all right
02:01:19.120
next oh yeah definitely it doesn't look bad it doesn't look bad she's cute it doesn't look
02:01:26.400
bad no you look good look gorgeous that picture is really good the first one
02:01:29.920
i don't know in all of them next they snapped a good one
02:01:44.400
oh my god silver box he got a professional photo is there another one okay they used an old they used
02:01:52.800
an old photo i guess we don't have one of andrew but uh all right we have let's see here did we
02:01:58.560
have did we do this aren't i already at the end of that aging threshold something like that yeah
02:02:05.360
i feel like i'm already an old man you don't even have to add to it it's it's just
02:02:10.000
we have a big super chat from sean brews here the big 200 thank you man happy father's day to the panel
02:02:15.360
at least to those who speak to their father that's actually interesting uh so happy father's
02:02:20.560
day brian and andrew oh okay so i going around the table uh are you in touch with your wait a couple
02:02:28.320
questions here are your parents still together and do you have a good relationship with your father go
02:02:33.440
ahead my parents are not together um i have a really good relationship with my dad i i know this is rich
02:02:39.920
coming from me but i honestly think he was the best dad i could ever ask for
02:02:43.680
um my parents are married but um me and my dad are really not close but i'm really close to my mom
02:02:56.160
um my mother passed away when i was 18 and my dad died when i was 25 so i don't have a relationship
02:03:02.800
with him anymore but when he was alive we were best friends and i miss him every day and i
02:03:10.000
had a great great relationship with my father well sorry to hear that what about you um my parents
02:03:16.320
are still married and yeah i have a good relationship with my dad what about your mom no no kidding yeah
02:03:23.440
no me and my mom are like can you scoot your mic to the edge of the table kristal go ahead
02:03:28.480
um my parents are divorced i've talked to both parents okay what about you um my parents have never
02:03:35.360
really been together it was kind of like a one night stand thing um i actually found my father
02:03:41.760
during covid through an ancestry dna test and uh he's an amazing incredible man um and so i'm
02:03:51.760
close with i guess i'm i talk with both of them i'm getting to know my dad but i was raised by my
02:03:56.240
stepdad but we didn't really have a great relationship complicated okay my parents are divorced and i would
02:04:11.360
my dad is dead i've disowned my mom oh baby damn sorry to hear that my parents are still together
02:04:18.960
great relationship with both parents lucky you i mean it uh okay let's get into the my uh my parents are
02:04:28.560
happily married and still together and adorn me and we're just phenomenal fantastic parents in
02:04:36.400
every capacity you could imagine uh crystal you getting into your pre-show notes you said that
02:04:42.880
your content is very hypocritical although i see points you make that are true you concentrate more
02:04:48.560
on women rather than men whereas men can be held accountable in relationships as well and the
02:04:53.680
reason why things don't work out so your disagreement is uh you disagree with the views
02:04:58.640
of the roles of women that the host talks about as it is not realistic in today's society and believes
02:05:04.640
what he says is hypocritical as he believes women should stay at home and take care of the kids
02:05:09.760
but also says women aren't realistic and and gold diggers when looking for men making over a hundred
02:05:14.960
thousand dollars when in when in reality a salary of a hundred thousand a year is the least amount to make
02:05:21.200
when trying to take care of a family financially in california without the woman working yeah okay
02:05:28.320
uh so i don't i don't recall i i even have ever even used the term gold digger on the show i do
02:05:38.000
sometimes scoff though if a woman uh who is not particularly remarkable herself wants a man who say
02:05:45.760
makes five hundred thousand dollars which would put him in the top one percent i think that's
02:05:50.640
unrealistic if if a woman desired a man who makes a hundred thousand k which while it is above the
02:05:58.880
average income at least even in california but throughout most of the rest of the country
02:06:05.200
uh a hundred thousand i don't think is that is completely unrealistic it is it is a man who is
02:06:12.960
starting to get to his way to being a high earner uh but i think you're uncharacterizing this a bit
02:06:20.080
unfairly most of my criticism rests when these women come on saying they want a man who makes seven
02:06:25.440
figures 500 000 plus and they're again like i said not particularly remarkable in their own right
02:06:34.480
would you disagree with me that it might be unreasonable for an average woman to desire a
02:06:39.920
man who makes or hold out for a man who makes a 500 000 to over a million dollars a year probably
02:06:46.720
my point was that like a lot of points you make is that women should stay at home and take care of
02:06:53.520
the kids but in reality that's not realistic in california a lot of men who are minimum wage don't make
02:07:00.880
enough money for the for the wife to take care of the kids by by themselves that's basically what my
02:07:08.880
point was that is true it's almost like there's 49 other states that you could move to
02:07:17.200
i i haven't looked into that i don't know how much you have to make in other states but i know that
02:07:22.480
that's on average it is in california everything costs the same everywhere right yeah it's now you're
02:07:30.240
paying quite the premium for the sunshine yeah i would say so i haven't really i don't know what
02:07:37.520
uh minimum wage is over in other states but my point was towards california yeah well i mean the thing
02:07:45.920
about california is that it's a cesspool and it's uh filled to the brim with uh scum either scumbag
02:07:52.160
yuppies or uh you know degenerate losers la is a horrific place i wouldn't wish any i wouldn't
02:07:58.320
wish it on my worst enemy to live in los angeles yeah you know the best place in the world
02:08:03.360
in california to start a business is anywhere outside of california that's the best
02:08:08.800
taxes i can disagree with that pretty bad so yeah you can raise a family on a single income
02:08:16.560
you just can't do it there i agree i agree it's really hard to raise a family on a single income
02:08:21.280
in california where you know i think san francisco i looked the poverty threshold there's like 80 000
02:08:27.200
a year that's insanity yeah that's that's insanity but the midwest is filled to the brim with jobs so
02:08:32.960
is the south right it's just that people choose not to to leave but it's like you gotta you gotta set
02:08:38.160
what your priorities are if you actually want a family you don't do that california it's a terrible
02:08:42.000
place raise a family anyway yeah yeah i think a lot of uh a lot of the time too though if you're
02:08:48.240
born here your family lives here you don't want to like move out like your your parents your siblings
02:08:55.360
just it's it's kind of hard moving to a different area also well that's what that's i mean the whole
02:09:01.840
point of that is uh so if you get married you also adopt your entire husband's family right that's
02:09:08.880
part of that yeah and so if your husband doesn't live in california let's say he lives in the
02:09:14.480
midwest or someplace like that you do have family then don't you yeah that's one i'd say so yeah
02:09:20.400
that's that's one big perk but another one is like that's how people start up family dynasties man
02:09:26.880
that's why there's wilson's all over that's why it's such a common last name they're all over the
02:09:31.120
place right there's wilson's running all over california nevada all the midwest the south family
02:09:37.040
starting up dynasties all over the place if it's too expensive to live you move somewhere else
02:09:44.240
if you want a family anyone yeah wait i i have a question like um can we like go around and say
02:09:51.680
like how much we put on the paper to like for our husband to make per year i'm just curious like yeah
02:09:59.840
we can do that right now um minimum yearly income for your future husband i think i put 75k
02:10:12.160
okay what about you um i would want someone who makes maybe that's just like 15 percent more than
02:10:20.160
i do just because i feel like it's it just makes me feel like he's a bit more masculine
02:10:27.520
so i'm not looking for someone who's you know a multi-millionaire but just someone who's just like
02:10:32.800
got it like if shit hits the fan you know can kind of protect me in a disaster yeah on your notes you
02:10:40.800
did write equal to you um but yeah so i guess i mean 15 sure yeah what what is that though how much do you
02:10:48.960
make it depends uh i don't know on average i mean if i do if i'm djing nightclubs if i'm djing weddings
02:10:57.040
it really like uh the how much have you if you had to average it out on a yearly basis how like based
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off of how much you made the past five years what would you say um i can do like one year my math isn't
02:11:13.760
great but like uh like so i did i dj'd croatiot week and i was paid like eight thousand pounds for
02:11:23.760
that week maybe it really really depends sometimes i just do a nightclub and i make one thousand pounds
02:11:31.120
sometimes sometimes it it yeah it's up and down sorry that's not the perfect answer but
02:11:39.280
so how much but i also income i also have an i also own an apartment with no mortgage in london so i
02:11:46.000
have passive income from that as well okay so the guy should make what 15 more than me which is what
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it goes up and down honestly all right what about you roll your eyes as much as you want it's the
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truth well andrew's saying ballpark for me ballpark like 100 000 a year like i'm not asking for your
02:12:12.480
exact income like i feel like that's what it feels like to you i'm not we're not trying to get your
02:12:16.480
exact income we're just trying to figure out what you actually want from someone i just feel like it's
02:12:19.760
not very lady like to say or um like to say how much money you make so i'm a bit shy about it yeah
02:12:25.920
that's fine i'm just looking for like a ballpark of what you your expectation is for a man well you
02:12:30.400
don't need to say how much you make you just need to give us the ballpark of what you want your man to
02:12:35.760
make which is 15 more than what i make that doesn't tell us anything though really well it kind of does
02:12:44.000
i'm saying that i'm not looking for someone who's right okay how much you made that wouldn't help us
02:12:52.320
at all i'm not going to tell you how much money i make well then why don't i ask exactly i'll just
02:12:57.040
ask some clear would you like a guy to make over uh five hundred thousand dollars a year no it doesn't
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have to be that much their minimum it doesn't have to be that 200 000 that i doesn't have to be that
02:13:08.960
much hundred thousand yeah okay like not even yeah what about you um well i to me doesn't really
02:13:14.960
matter as long as somebody's working like towards something like let's say like they don't really
02:13:19.360
like make that much money right now but they're working towards making more money and like having
02:13:23.440
like a business or like doing like something that they're like passionate about then that's what i would
02:13:28.080
say okay what about you uh probably about sixty thousand okay what about you that's a trick that's a
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tricky oh my gosh i got a little excited sorry okay um that's a tricky question for me because
02:13:41.120
i'm already married so um so are we talking about it i guess how much does well let's put let's pretend
02:13:47.760
like um and i'm not saying this to be horrible or anything but let's like let's just pretend meteorite
02:13:54.160
strikes your car right your poor husband taken out of commission that's the end right you're single
02:14:01.440
you've gone through your two-year grieving program you're going back out in the dating market
02:14:05.920
what would you be looking for from the financial status of whoever that partner would be for me
02:14:11.760
there wouldn't be a number it'd be also about energy it'd be about like there could be a guy that just
02:14:17.040
bought a small business and working to grow that business for me it'd be more about the motivate
02:14:22.320
motivation of what they're doing with themselves right if they're just going to be like a couch potato
02:14:28.160
guy like nah you know what if he's a couch potato but he's really funny oh that's my that's really
02:14:34.720
hard because i make good money so like listen if he's gonna make me laugh and clean the house
02:14:40.720
on a scale of one to ten he's like at least a ten in hilarious in and funniness right yeah yeah
02:14:47.520
that i i would let him be a stay-home guy stay-home husband as long as he made me laugh and like rub my
02:14:53.600
feet at night yeah he's gonna rub your feet though yes it has to be yeah i got pretty feet what the
02:15:00.560
heck wouldn't you feel like taking advantage though if like he's living off of you no as long as there
02:15:07.680
is it's more about behaviors like if he's behaving in a manner of like like he's taking advantage of me
02:15:15.520
that's different but if he's given me um you know he's taking care of the house maybe he's helping me
02:15:23.280
file things maybe he's helping me with my business in some way or some form um it'd be just different
02:15:30.000
well that wasn't what they said they just said comedy what about you um nothing too crazy just
02:15:35.280
something enough to sustain living so i would say like 60 to 70 because a man's value isn't
02:15:41.040
determined what's inside their wallet at the end of the day one question going back to you uh so
02:15:48.080
when did you start getting involved in s work me yeah escorting s work sex work oh i was like i don't
02:15:54.720
do that um for me four years ago uh and was this like a prolonged conversation like did you bring
02:16:02.160
this to your husband oh yeah he kind of and was he on board initially or did he have he had his
02:16:08.320
reservations he definitely had his reservations um and we had good conversations about it um and
02:16:15.680
with those conversations we made a decision that this was something i was going to do he kind of
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knew though for some reason like he told me like 10 years ago he he knew some way somehow i would end
02:16:27.280
up in the corn industry may i ask what what was his initial when you brought this to him was it a no
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how did he know that what was it a no he what was it a no oh no no he never said no but what was his
02:16:40.000
initial reaction at the beginning um like what like what are you talking about he kind of knew like
02:16:45.520
i'd been messing around with social media i was doing you know tiktoks instagrams facebook um so i was
02:16:52.480
just like hey i'm thinking about taking this to a different direction plus he had already knew that
02:16:57.360
people in our lives had been asking me like hey what do you think about doing this i think you'd be
02:17:03.920
really great at this so i had other people in my life wait other people in your life what do you mean
02:17:09.360
um other friends that were saying hey have you ever thought about doing only fans before were they
02:17:16.560
doing only fans or just no i had one girl one night go ahead the the these were your
02:17:24.480
like family friends what do well they're more like friends from like high school and friends from
02:17:32.160
my previous work life and current work life and yeah yeah but it's okay some of your friends were
02:17:38.640
trying to get you to do only fans they were talking to me they're like have you ever thought about
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doing it but so when you first brought the conversation to your husband what was the period
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of time that elapsed between the first conversation and you like okay you started making content
02:17:52.800
probably i would say let's see so this is bringing up february march april may probably about two three
02:18:01.040
months okay and remind me what was his initial response well he was just kind of like like like
02:18:07.680
i said he already kind of knew it was being planted in my life so he wasn't against it you said 10 years
02:18:12.720
ago when you brought it up to him recently he knew that in that how do you say that in that current
02:18:20.000
time he knew that people in our lives were talking to me about doing it right so let's let's say
02:18:28.320
within a six month period of time he knew that other people were asking me he knew that the seed was
02:18:33.520
planted in my head so we had had conversations about it you know but go ahead so but okay that initial
02:18:42.720
conversation was he on board where where was he he wasn't against it at all he was just kind of like
02:18:52.320
okay like how's it going to work how does this operate you know what are you going to be doing
02:18:58.160
and it was multiple conversations it just wasn't one was there any sense from you that he that you
02:19:04.560
sensed he didn't want you to do it um i mean like of course there was reservations and conversations
02:19:12.720
that had to happen in communication between me and him but he never once was like no you can't do this
02:19:18.880
i don't want you doing that that that leads me to my next question had he said either initially or in
02:19:25.520
one of these follow-up conversations i don't want you to do this and that was his final position on
02:19:33.600
it how would that have gone um can i i'm going to be honest i don't think it would have went over
02:19:42.560
very well with me yeah i was going to do it expand on that oh you okay but you were going to do it but
02:19:49.680
i was being respectful i was having conversations with him and you know talking how many conversations
02:19:54.640
did you have with him oh we've been conversating like i said three months before i even opened my
02:19:58.960
only fans okay but it sounds to me like he was not on board with it from the get-go well he wasn't
02:20:06.560
but you were exerting pressure and influence to get him to accept it because it perhaps you could paint
02:20:14.320
a picture for me if he had told you don't do it you seem to be indicating there would be major issues
02:20:21.760
in the relationship would you have divorced him um i don't know if i would divorce him um i mean that
02:20:27.200
would be having to be a conversation that we'd have but throughout my life and 24 years i've
02:20:32.800
sacrificed a lot of things for my marriage and my family and this one i just i wasn't going to
02:20:39.360
sacrifice this time can i ask uh you do boy girl content right i do do boy do you do boy girl content
02:20:45.040
with him um we do we have some videos but priority not him so wait hold on you do content with other
02:20:55.200
men i do wait this is a new development hold on um how many are you in the traditional adult content
02:21:06.720
space or is this just through of oh what do you mean like well like like in uh what's the place in
02:21:13.920
los angeles uh san bernard is that where they'd shoot all the like do you do traditional do i do
02:21:21.200
professional perfect yeah perfect yeah i do professional and question uh and you've been
02:21:26.240
married for 24 years correct have you been monogamous throughout the course of your 24 year marriage
02:21:32.240
oh no him and i have had multiple threesomes and other partners sorry daughter um but so
02:21:41.920
at the beginning was it monogamous um i'd probably say the first um maybe 10 years the first 10 years
02:21:50.400
okay whose idea was it to open up the relationship that would be me okay and i was the instigator at that
02:21:57.440
one were there now just not accusing you of anything but yeah had you been was there any
02:22:04.480
infidelity prior to your desire to open up the relationship honestly yes okay and he's aware on
02:22:12.480
your part or on his part on my part okay what uh so you're monogamous for 10 years how soon into the
02:22:18.960
marriage did you start uh seeing other men i guess so um i would say about 12 years into the relationship
02:22:27.600
oh 12 yeah 11 12 years so about you said you opened you said you opened up the relationship
02:22:34.000
so let's see 10 years in so 2010 is when we go to vegas right 2011 2012 so i'd probably say 2013 is
02:22:45.120
when we open the relationship to get my time right but there was infidelity on your part prior to you
02:22:50.400
opening the relationship yes okay i was going to disclose had you disclosed to him about the infidelity or
02:22:56.560
uh we had when we um came to the decision to stay together but we weren't we were not separating due to
02:23:07.760
my you know being with other people we were separating for other reasons okay so when you
02:23:13.200
opened up the relationship there had been some infidelity up until that point can you tell me though
02:23:18.160
uh when you guys opened it up was he seeing like has he seen other women no it's more me bringing
02:23:28.080
other women home oh so you guys would have threesomes when you were cheating on him were you
02:23:36.080
was it with women men or both when i was cheating on him well you said there was infidelity prior to
02:23:42.720
you guys opening up the relationship it was male it was what it was a male one male okay
02:23:48.160
and was this like a one-time thing or was it ongoing this was a long-going affair ongoing okay
02:23:54.240
and then was that the the pretext or reason for you wanting to open it up because there's maybe a
02:23:59.440
sense of guilt related to the infidelity and you felt like i didn't have any guilt we were not i
02:24:05.200
didn't have any guilt towards the affair that i had why is that um i mean we were just in a really
02:24:11.120
rough time and i'll be honest with you i didn't think our marriage was going to survive nor did at that
02:24:15.840
time i wanted my marriage to survive um so um and this is just being completely honest here okay
02:24:23.520
you know covering sure yeah i appreciate the honesty so um in my mental space um i was done with my
02:24:30.320
marriage i was ready to move on um and i was moving on not only mentally but physically trying to figure
02:24:38.720
out how i could get out of the the marriage completely at that time okay um so you opened
02:24:47.440
up the relationship and it was he yeah but did he want the i know the relationship that or the
02:24:54.240
marriage was on the rocks but did he want to open up the marriage i mean you know i don't i'd i'd say
02:25:04.160
honestly probably not you know he is satisfied with just having me um i have always been very bisexual
02:25:15.120
and i have always been a very sexual individual and i think that's why he knew prior to me even doing
02:25:21.440
this that there was a potential chance i would end up some way somehow doing corn um so for me i just
02:25:28.880
i really enjoy having a man and and you know a female and it's a sexual preference while you guys
02:25:36.240
were married perhaps at the earlier portions of your marriage were you stay at home and was he working
02:25:41.600
um so um here we go so i would say the first three years um i was a stay-at-home mom he worked and then it
02:25:52.880
went from the next five six years like he was a stay-at-home dad i worked and then it went kind
02:26:01.280
of to us both working um while the kids went to school when the kids were completely off in school
02:26:09.360
full-time okay um i guess though bringing it back uh you said there was some shaky periods of your
02:26:18.560
marriage but that was what 14 years ago that was um 2010 is when i left okay 14 15 years ago
02:26:29.680
you guys obviously have remained married though so you guys i assume reconciled your issues yeah and
02:26:37.440
that happened um when was the is it um i guess i don't know the exact date or like year when i lived
02:26:48.720
in vegas vegas i mean 24 years a long time indicate uh timeline um i don't know like we just started
02:26:57.520
building our friendship again and building our friendship and then like yeah and then i i think
02:27:04.960
that when people live together for so long like it's hard not to reconcile what's the word i don't
02:27:14.080
even know how to say the word but you know you you're like hey this has happened this has happened
02:27:18.480
this has happened and you know moved on okay and then just bringing it back to my initial point
02:27:25.280
uh you started doing uh of you're doing content with other men you're sleeping with other men for
02:27:33.760
content not just for fun i guess he's okay with this well yeah i mean i like like we've had this
02:27:42.640
conversation right i don't like where my heart is today like i have no interest in in dating somebody
02:27:50.720
or getting emotionally attached to them in any way shape or form when i have these encounters it is just
02:27:56.880
sex and a lot of the time it's it's you know monetized right we're having we're creating a
02:28:03.040
video so that we can sell the video i don't have an emotional attachment to them at all some of them
02:28:07.840
are really great friends but i'm not going to i'm not going to leave my husband for them me and my
02:28:13.200
husband have a very strong relationship now so going back to the question though would you
02:28:17.520
if your husband had said i don't want you the whole you no relationship the answer would be no
02:28:26.400
the whole relationship being opened up or the marriage opening up kind of muddies the water a
02:28:31.040
little bit because there was already prior to you doing only fans there's this component of
02:28:38.000
we were already having sex together with other people yeah well he was sleeping with other women with me
02:28:43.200
okay but then you would he does he sleep with men no no but he'll have devil's threesomes with you
02:28:51.120
yeah so there'll be another girl girl he'll be so it's girl guy guy um yeah so he's had threesomes
02:28:58.240
with me with another male are you feeling a bit traumatized right now i'm like she knows um yeah
02:29:06.960
so wait uh so yeah does he has he ever done like cuck stuff like he watches in
02:29:13.120
the corner so he is my biggest fan and he really enjoys my videos and i really think that this was
02:29:21.200
a kink that kind of progressed over the development of my career um but we found that he really does
02:29:29.680
enjoy watching my videos while i do activities just to be clear yes just to make it blunt he enjoys
02:29:37.440
watching your videos of you having sex with other men while i perform activities having sex with other
02:29:45.360
men no on him oh oh god i was trying to be all right wait hang on hang on no i'm not i just want to
02:29:53.280
clarify this you're performing sex acts on him while he's watching you perform sex acts on other people
02:29:59.760
yeah on the phone yeah wait he watch it but he's he's not he's not the guy like sit there in the
02:30:09.600
corner and like like watch somebody like have sex with me just on phone and not participate you know
02:30:18.400
what i'm saying like he wants to participate so i wouldn't i wouldn't categorize him as a cuck i i know
02:30:24.880
it's complicated i literally wait wait hang on hang on but he does like watching other men doing
02:30:31.600
things with you while he's doing things with you yeah that would be definitionally cuckold
02:30:37.280
greek well like on his phone so okay he's having sex with you on his phone he's watching a video of
02:30:43.280
you having sex with other men it's really hot like this is like intense sex like crazy wild
02:30:50.240
sex excuse me literally that's fucking disgusting wait okay finally said that you no it was the
02:30:57.600
soundboard oh okay so okay he's like it's me he's like don't blame me so wait would
02:31:06.480
if he had said no you're not going to do only fans would it have been the end of the marriage would
02:31:11.600
you have divorced him well i would have said into the mic oh yeah yeah i i mean i'm gonna be honest
02:31:17.040
like i was going i will you're gonna do it if he wanted if he wanted to leave he could leave if he
02:31:22.240
wanted to leave if he wanted to stay sure so if he put his foot down you would have said well we've
02:31:27.440
talked about it i don't really i've heard you out but i don't care what you think i'm gonna do it
02:31:33.280
anyways i i can't download 24 years of experience but during the experiences that
02:31:41.360
we've had this was this one time where i was like this isn't something i'm not willing to sacrifice
02:31:47.840
so you wouldn't you one two more last things so you wouldn't have divorced him but you would have
02:31:55.680
if he wanted to leave if it was such a deal breaker for him he would have divorced you i guess okay
02:32:01.760
and then uh i guess my final thought on this just my and then i'll pass it over to andrew
02:32:07.680
public service announcement to the men watching uh if your wife one wants to open up the relationship
02:32:14.880
no and then if she wants to start doing uh only fans or some other kind of sex work no
02:32:25.040
that's a divorce that's a goodbye it's over it's over i mean you honestly even if she brings it up but
02:32:32.400
then you like convince her not to do that shit you should probably still get the divorce the
02:32:37.280
relationship's over once she's breached the conversation of open relationship even if like
02:32:43.440
you guys sit down and you're you know you're like no i want you i want us to stay monogamous and she's
02:32:48.160
like well i guess okay no it's over if she even if if she even i don't even know if she google searches
02:32:54.400
that you have to divorce how to open the google search any sort of hint that she wants an open
02:33:02.240
relationship or she's going to have a conversation with you instant divorce she wants to do only fans
02:33:08.320
instant divorce i disagree i i have so many friends who are in happily married relationships that are
02:33:18.240
swingers and they have very healthy marriages look that's that's not for everybody prescriptively
02:33:25.200
what the advice i would give to men is it is unacceptable for your girlfriend or wife to be
02:33:31.760
having sex with another man that is the bare minimum of just having any sort of coherent reasonable
02:33:40.400
standard for your partner they should not be having sexual intercourse carnal knowledge with another
02:33:46.480
man that's an l for you if she wants to open the relationship she wants to do of it's a wrap back
02:33:52.880
to the streets she goes hold on uh she belongs to the street back to the streets look if you're dealing
02:33:59.120
with a chick that's already involved in that shit you're that's on you but if she if your relationship
02:34:05.200
is monogamous and she's not doing of and she's moving in that direction that is the end of the
02:34:10.800
relationship if you have any self-respect as a man uh you have something quick then and i'm passing
02:34:16.960
it off to andrew go ahead yeah for sure so it sounds like you not to accuse you of anything but it
02:34:21.840
sounds like you really pressured him into both of these decisions do you think he holds any resentment
02:34:27.280
against you long term over this because this is something that i i keep in mind and why i stay
02:34:33.280
single because i wouldn't want to force a partner and to be okay with something that i do and then hold
02:34:38.400
resent me hold resentment against me for it they had a pretty rough yeah i didn't force him to do
02:34:44.560
anything i gave him the opportunity because they had a pretty rough relationship growing up like in
02:34:52.800
general so it was like if he wanted to say like that was his choice you know what i mean like because
02:34:57.520
he obviously wasn't doing the things that he needed to be doing as a man and wait just to clarify is
02:35:02.560
that's your biological father right yes this is my father so okay so don't you think there was any
02:35:09.440
incentive for him to be like well i still want to be you know there with my daughter there's this
02:35:15.280
pressure that but i have to stay with her i have a child yada yada yada i guess i'll let her do this
02:35:22.560
just because i want my kids are grown seeing the thing is my dad was never like that like my mom did
02:35:26.960
everything for us you know like my dad was there and stuff but my mom was the one that was really did
02:35:31.360
everything for us so but it's true like but if we're gonna like i know but he did do stuff for
02:35:37.600
us so he was there but i'm just saying for example for the conversation of do you feel like you're
02:35:42.640
pressuring him that he did it for us i don't think he did it for us he did it because he wanted to be
02:35:46.640
with her not for us because it was there's complications in in marriage with any marriage
02:35:52.400
especially a 24-year marriage that's a very long time um there is so many things to contribute and
02:36:00.320
this was just uh if he wanted to leave he he was more than welcome to leave or he could stay and we
02:36:06.480
could work it out with what i was doing but there definitely wasn't any pressure and people might
02:36:12.960
think i'm a b and i really don't care i really really don't but i do love having the conversation
02:36:18.480
helping people understand that perspective i don't think it's fair to say there was no pressure over on
02:36:23.280
this oh no there was there's definitely pressure around it i'm not i'm not saying you tied him down
02:36:27.840
you're like you're staying here but there's definitely an emotional a familial pressure
02:36:33.200
around staying with your wife well when i was like like third grade my mom had left my dad and took me
02:36:39.520
and we left and so the reason why they were you know they they got back together for the kids and
02:36:43.840
for stuff like that so to be honest with you like that it was already like to the point where it wasn't
02:36:48.720
exactly like a relationship is already supposed to be like so it was kind of like it wasn't like
02:36:53.920
they were like doing like you know it was different it was it was different than that
02:36:57.760
well i have a and i wanted to read go ahead very quickly i wanted to read this to you this was a
02:37:03.040
super chat i got on my end that summarizes a lot of what people are thinking right now hearing this
02:37:08.880
story this comes in from mikey and he says my husband is great i cheated on him i let him watch me
02:37:15.120
sleep with our friends i would have divorced him if he didn't let me do only fans he's amazing right
02:37:20.880
that's that kind of uh summarizes i think the thoughts of a lot of people right now who are
02:37:27.280
kind of listening to this tale um like here i'll just give you i'll give you another example of this
02:37:33.440
why this is so foreign to me so if one of my daughters for instance was ever bad-mouthing me in
02:37:40.720
public ever talking like my wife would read lean over it doesn't matter it's 25 35 my wife would lean
02:37:49.120
over and smack her across the mouth you know you ever talk about your dad like that again rip your
02:37:53.440
heart right she would never in a million years right but this kind of almost flagrant right like um
02:38:00.320
your daughter's there and she just kind of runs her old man down and i'm not running him down i'm just
02:38:06.160
yeah you're kind of you're kind of running him down how i'm just saying that at the end of the day
02:38:10.240
like there's other things that my mom was going to do like modeling and stuff like that and my dad
02:38:15.040
because of his gel like being jealous and stuff like that caused us to not be able to have a
02:38:18.720
different life that we were supposed to have so for example like she's trying to make something for us
02:38:24.000
that he doesn't want other men to fuck his wife yeah no she's not even she's not talking about
02:38:29.120
talking about that she's talking about other opportunities like modeling because she was
02:38:33.760
she was doing runway i wasn't even doing that i was like other stuff she was managing a company
02:38:38.480
my dad was so jealous that she had to leave and go do these things trying to be a productive
02:38:43.360
responsible woman trying to make something for her family and my father was like jealous about those
02:38:48.640
things and so it kind of to the point where my mom had to stop doing that wouldn't you want your dad
02:38:53.600
to uh want your wife his your mom all to himself not to share with any other men they're they're
02:39:01.120
not going to understand because they don't know the history was it sfw modeling or nsfw modeling
02:39:06.560
it was she was doing the makeup and stuff she was until four years ago i had nothing to do with
02:39:12.400
the corn industry no this is when i was younger she was doing actual things for actual projects for
02:39:17.360
runway and things like that and because my mom had to go stay with the guy that was married like
02:39:23.520
he wouldn't let her he wanted to like stand there and be there and he like ruined that so
02:39:28.560
basically but he wasn't derived to do something more for us you know what i mean so it was like
02:39:33.520
my mom was trying to do all this my wife goes to some guy so she could go be a model like no but
02:39:39.200
that's not that's not what it is they're not gonna understand she wasn't modeling she was running model
02:39:45.280
shows like she was doing the runway like getting them dressed doing the stuff like doing productive
02:39:50.560
things like that hair working with the guy that was running it all and he was jealous that she
02:39:55.600
was trying to work just because he was a man and we weren't that was the same hotel they weren't it
02:40:00.960
was just the fact that he she was doing something that he wasn't allowed to do too that was the problem
02:40:06.880
so i'm not saying that like that he didn't do anything yes he was there i love him so much i'm
02:40:11.520
thankful for everything that he's done for me but at the end of the day like my mom deserves also to be
02:40:16.640
able to make something for her family and if he's not doing that then like she can't stop her from
02:40:22.640
doing that because someone has to do it yeah i mean i think a husband can do that i think a husband has
02:40:28.640
the authority to absolutely say whether he's comfortable with or not comfortable with when
02:40:34.080
it comes to the work of his wife i think wives i think wives do that all the time so i'll give you an
02:40:39.040
example um there's a lot of men out there who work very dangerous jobs and there's been times where
02:40:44.960
i've seen actual grateful women i go to them and say listen sweetheart the job that you're doing
02:40:50.400
is extremely dangerous and i just want you to come home so i want you to switch occupations because i
02:40:55.760
i literally want you to come home i need you to come home i adore you but the job that he she was
02:40:59.760
doing wasn't dangerous that's not the point the point is is that it's a matter of uh responding to
02:41:06.480
the preference of the partner also understanding that people have boundaries right it's not that the
02:41:12.000
guy wants to quit being a firefighter so he should have been doing hang on hang on maybe he loves
02:41:16.560
being a firefighter let's say he loves being a firefighter but the wife comes to him and is like
02:41:20.560
look i i need you to come home at the end of the day i want you to switch occupations even if you love
02:41:26.000
being a firefighter this happens all the time and men will usually go okay they'll accommodate
02:41:31.520
and switch in occupations even for something they love to accommodate their women i just don't ever see
02:41:35.920
that vice versa okay it's just honey it's fine yeah like i said in the beginning of the podcast
02:41:44.800
everybody has their own opinions that's fair i don't know the history but i'm just saying that um
02:41:50.080
and and i respect that and i totally respect your opinion but like i just i know what i've sacrificed
02:41:57.280
and what i've given and what i've put in over and over and over and over again and this was just and
02:42:04.560
and maybe i'm i'm 44 years old now my kids are grown right most of them are out of the house right
02:42:10.880
and so this was point of my time where i'm making this decision this is what i'm doing right and like
02:42:17.520
i said i i love my husband and if he wants to stay with me he can but if he doesn't want to stay with me
02:42:22.640
i'm okay with that you're okay if your husband didn't want to stay with you i'm not here to control
02:42:29.040
anybody right and if that's something that somebody doesn't want to choose to be in my life
02:42:34.240
right i i'm i'm not here to control anybody's life anymore you know maybe when i was and no
02:42:40.000
take offense of this ladies in their 20s but in my in my 20s i'm at a point where my life right
02:42:46.240
i'm not big in anybody this day and i'm not big in anybody to accept my decisions that the things
02:42:52.800
that i'm are i'm doing like if you don't want to get on board and you don't like it that's okay
02:42:58.080
i'm okay with that right actually i am actually having some difficulty wrapping my head around
02:43:05.520
this i mean i've been i haven't been married quite as long as you but i've been married for an awful
02:43:09.680
long time and if i think if i said to my wife um you know i just don't really care if you stay or you
02:43:17.200
go like i i don't i don't think that she would see that as a my husband loves me very much type
02:43:23.920
of thing to be honest with you i don't think that she would see it that way yeah i'm just not people
02:43:30.000
see things differently yeah it's just it's we live completely different lives right and completely
02:43:35.280
different life exactly and you can't like i can't expect someone to understand things like that and
02:43:40.320
then i can't understand a lot of things that other people are going you know so it's like it's just
02:43:44.080
sometimes when you're not in that predicament in your life like you can't really understand
02:43:48.720
what is actually going on but everybody has the right to their own opinions that's for sure
02:43:53.440
yeah yeah i mean i understand we all have a right to an opinion i'm yeah so but i'm trying to
02:43:59.120
understand the view right so i'm actually trying to understand it from your perspective not just from
02:44:03.440
mine yeah so the way that i'm going to do that is i'm going to obviously relate it to my own
02:44:07.600
experiences like you are so i can try to understand where it is that you're coming from but if if
02:44:13.360
somebody came to you a friend of yours came to you who was a man and said you know i don't really
02:44:20.320
give a shit if my wife leaves or she stays would you think in your head well this is a man who adores
02:44:25.920
his wife well if they've had experiences in life like 20 years of being together you don't know all the
02:44:32.640
past you don't know everything you don't know all i just i want to know because it's not that i don't
02:44:37.360
love my husband i love my husband i i really really do but i love what i do i genuinely love
02:44:44.720
what i do and maybe it is my kids are growing i've raised my kids my kids are out of the house they're
02:44:50.000
doing their own thing i have grandkids that are out there in the world right and this is where like
02:44:55.280
i'm like okay what am i going to do next right and i love what i do right and i'm just because somebody
02:45:04.320
doesn't want me to do that i should make the decision that i'm not going to pursue the the
02:45:08.720
thing that i'm doing because i love it and i enjoy it because somebody said that i shouldn't do it
02:45:15.760
can i get a point of clarity you said you opened your relationship um and you did say that you do
02:45:21.440
have relations with other men just you two does he have other relations relations with other women
02:45:28.560
just himself no he chooses not to he knows that he has okay he knows that he has like if he came
02:45:36.000
and said honey i'm gonna go meet with this girl like all that kind of stuff i i would be okay with
02:45:40.800
that it would be hypocritical of me not to be okay with that you know so i'm not gonna but i'm not gonna
02:45:49.520
i'm not gonna be like oh no you can't do that you know no i'm be like have fun be safe
02:45:55.920
did you guys talk about this before you got married oh no honey we met i was 19 years old i
02:46:02.880
met in january 14th of 2000 and we were married august 10th of 2000 so so there was no conversation
02:46:11.600
there you guys you guys expected it to just be you too oh no we got married because i was pregnant
02:46:17.840
yeah that's the only reason it was yeah it was because my older brother he's a year one month and
02:46:21.760
10 days older than me were like technically irish twins she got pregnant with with him she didn't
02:46:27.040
even know him for that long so it was like it was kind of like they were just making things happen
02:46:30.880
like and then they ended up you know running to raise us and stuff like that like they didn't really
02:46:35.680
even know each other for that long to begin with to have conversations like that yeah because
02:46:41.040
everything happened so quickly yeah we're literally i was he has been there he's a great
02:46:47.280
dad but i'm just saying like what i mean by that is like he has no right to tell my mom basically
02:46:52.880
what she can or cannot do just because of the fact that my mom has done everything that she can
02:46:57.840
do and it would have been just selfish from all the other things that's happened in the past from
02:47:01.920
other things that we could have been doing right now instead of this is your dad supportive of your
02:47:06.720
of yeah yeah well then i think he's a great dad yeah well i don't think he's a great dad anyway
02:47:13.280
yeah well i think that would be my my view on it i think he's seen like what we how hard we work
02:47:20.720
how much fun we actually have how we impact people and we don't just impact people on a sexual
02:47:26.320
level we also do social media and i'm also for work and we do a lot we do a lot of positivity
02:47:32.320
out there so it's not just 80 of my content is safe for work 20 of my content is not safe and he
02:47:38.880
knows that i'm not doing this to do this forever he knows that i'm doing this because i'm trying to
02:47:42.560
be able to do the money to be able to start my you know my business to go to school to be able to have
02:47:48.320
bigger things like this isn't the long term like i'm not expecting to do this for the rest of my life
02:47:53.040
i'm expecting for this to be able to make something of other things so that i can actually
02:47:57.520
focus on those things instead of having to work a nine-to-five
02:48:00.560
not making anything struggling to survive trying to then go to school and make something of my
02:48:06.640
life and for my children there are millions and millions and millions and hundreds of millions
02:48:12.000
and actually billions of young women who go to school and work their way through without ever
02:48:18.080
selling a single nude without ever sucking a single dick without ever without ever doing any of that
02:48:24.000
there's there's literally over a billion yeah right we're alive we're alive we're alive right now at
02:48:29.920
least in that age bracket probably around a billion and it's like but a lot of those how is it how is
02:48:35.280
it that this idea of like i need money it's like well everybody needs money everybody needs money but
02:48:41.680
me as a father i think would i like i can't control my adult children i can't do anything about the
02:48:48.000
choices that they make ultimately except to weigh in that's true there's nothing i can do it's out of my
02:48:52.800
hands except to put whatever pressure i can which is very little in modernity right i can't go kick in
02:48:58.880
the door and drag them out whatever stupid thing they're doing even though sometimes i would probably
02:49:02.880
prefer to uh but i would never support those endeavors i'd never be like i am here to support
02:49:10.400
what it is that you're doing uh especially when it came to something like that you know that doesn't
02:49:15.200
that doesn't sound to me like a typical father would think if your daughter came to you and said
02:49:20.480
that she was doing this what what would you do would you disown her or would you somehow find out
02:49:26.960
a way to to support her if you're if you're doing something which is this horrific from at least from
02:49:32.800
my view especially a christian view it's not that i'll stop loving my my kids i did that i don't even
02:49:38.960
think that would be possible exactly right but that doesn't mean that i would ever enable such behavior
02:49:43.920
and i would let it be known not only do i not support this but i'm going to apply as much
02:49:48.240
pressure as i possibly can within within you know the confines and boundaries which are reasonable
02:49:54.160
to make it known that i'm not going to support this behavior and if that includes me distancing
02:49:59.280
myself i think actually that's what good parenting is sometimes putting down really staunch tough
02:50:05.040
boundaries right because kids also like to shit test don't they you know that they love to
02:50:10.240
shit test it's one of their favorite things to do and one of the things that happens when they
02:50:14.480
shit test right and they want to have a a game of the wills against an old stubborn man like myself
02:50:21.520
well i'm gonna win in the end right i'm gonna win in the end so the thing is is like look i don't think
02:50:27.520
that that is ultimately what good fathers would do i don't think good fathers would uh would not apply
02:50:33.440
that type of pressure i don't i mean it sounds to me almost like the guy's a pimp in a way right he
02:50:38.640
is not he's not in any way shape or form of that well i mean he's is he benefiting from you sleeping
02:50:45.200
with other people oh yeah but he's not choosing who i'm being with and when i'm with i manage my
02:50:50.800
business 100 percent myself yeah maybe he's not setting it up for you no you know but but he doesn't
02:50:57.120
do anything with my business you know what i mean i mean it's uh maybe it's not it's not accurate to
02:51:02.320
say pimp yeah but it's something that sounds very akin to pimping something very closely related to that
02:51:08.240
yeah so just saying just my just my two cents we have some uh chats coming through that we are
02:51:16.320
gonna read we have pasty george if you have a kid or kids your priority is the family and the parent
02:51:22.320
or parents should move to an area that is affordable and good for the children's upbringing that's just
02:51:28.160
my opinion though i believe that was in response to you crystal we have uh pasty george do appreciate
02:51:33.680
your message thank you so much man metro matt it's been a minute good to see you man this might be
02:51:38.720
the most disgusting conversation to have in front of your daughter men stop being feeble and propping
02:51:44.240
this behavior up get some wait where is it hold on stop it get some help all right thank you metro
02:51:53.920
matt good to see you back man we have inquisitor zeal andrew given how this hag will burn in what the
02:52:01.360
fuck burn in hell has dragged her own daughter to hell and her actions are unlikely to be rare when
02:52:07.920
do we as christians reckon with our failure to evangelize the world i i love the judgment i love
02:52:17.440
the judgment hilarious you know the common misconception that christians aren't allowed to judge
02:52:22.880
yeah very common misconception not only are we allowed to judge we're told to righteously judge
02:52:29.280
otherwise how would we ever distinguish what is sin and what is not if we did not have judgment
02:52:34.880
yeah so the thing is is that uh this is uh this is something often that you hear atheists say or
02:52:40.080
people who dislike christians christians christians are so judgmental it's like well yeah they're supposed
02:52:45.120
to be that's the way that's the way that we determine and keep ourselves honest and keep our our own
02:52:50.160
in groups proper and that's also the way that we engage with the world so that we know that we're not
02:52:53.840
engaging in sinful behavior it's uh but it's just a common misconceptions it's like when you call a
02:52:59.440
christian judgmental i'm always like good you know i have judgment and i use it exactly you're right i
02:53:04.720
have judgment and i use it yes um it's making me really upset that the bird like you guys are not
02:53:11.440
like helping the bird to get out like it's making you upset yeah brian can you what what do you tell
02:53:18.560
me chloe tell me what you would like me to do about it i mean you could stand on that chair and grab it
02:53:24.320
with your hands like i don't think i can reach that far even if i'm on the chair but you're tall
02:53:29.440
can we not open one of those windows then those those don't none of these grab the windows don't open
02:53:34.480
just grab chloe's trolling you can't grab a bird yes you can the ceilings are like 30 feet tall you
02:53:46.880
could reach come on brian up and grab the there's nothing there's literally nothing i can do the
02:53:54.000
the bird is actually retarded can they hear can they hear it flapping i'm not sure wait uh chat can
02:54:00.640
you hear the little uh occasional intermittent like he's literally suffering wait be quiet for a
02:54:19.920
can you guys chat can you hear that i think it's probably pretty minor but uh what about the bird's
02:54:26.800
feelings yeah look there's literally i there's nothing there's nothing i can do
02:54:34.000
say what's gonna happen to the bed you know chloe you're gonna let it die
02:54:40.800
yeah it's probably gonna end up fucking dying of exhaustion yeah there's nothing i can do about
02:54:47.120
it it's fucking nature whatever but it's in your this girl this girl over here the british girl's
02:54:52.960
looking at me like oh my god he's just gonna let the bird die what am i supposed to do there's
02:55:00.000
literally nothing i can do i could like get on your shoulders no i'm i ain't putting your bbl on my
02:55:05.200
shoulders we could guess it next i don't have a bb you have some okay you have fat transfer or something
02:55:09.840
no i don't i no i don't i only have my boobs done i don't know you dm'd me this literally asking me if i
02:55:16.960
have a bbl you asked me so many times i don't have a bbl i asked you once no you asked me last
02:55:23.360
time i was on the show oh i asked you yeah on the show because in the same way that you lied about your
02:55:27.920
age wait wait chloe chloe you remember how you lied about your age chloe she's ignoring me because
02:55:35.360
chloe you remember how you lied about your age last show yeah yeah okay so you're it's fair to
02:55:40.720
given that it looks like you have a bbl and you lied about something else i appreciate that i really would
02:55:45.920
like to get a bbl but okay well maybe you have like that fat transfer things that the kardashians
02:55:51.360
have that's a bbl no but they put it in the hip like the fat transfer what's a bbl brazilian
02:55:57.360
butt lift i'm too skinny to get a bbl in the first place okay then you have implants or something
02:56:02.160
i really don't i don't just be in the gym she's definitely had a big job look there's nothing i can
02:56:07.600
do yeah i have my boobs done i got my boobs done when i was 18. i don't have like i would need
02:56:11.840
i've done nothing else i've done nothing else in my face well hang on can we also just point out
02:56:16.640
that uh who cares if the bird dies fuck the bird andrew i understand that from a man's
02:56:22.960
if the bird croaks in the studio right this second i don't give a are you a vegetarian
02:56:29.280
literally i used to be a vegetarian okay well you're killing cows and pigs and
02:56:34.240
i'm not in survival of the fittest that was a really stupid bird i like hunting and stuff
02:56:39.200
but like if an innocent bird is in your house like we've left and it's a hummingbird like it's a very
02:56:45.360
sweet bird and it's quite distracting as well did you just say you like hunting but you're worried
02:56:51.200
about hold on hold on hold on i mean i'm from tennessee so if it was up to me i i would love nothing
02:56:59.280
more than the moment that bird flew in to have brought it back outside i don't want the bird to
02:57:04.960
die but if the bird is so retarded despite the doors being open like literally 12 feet of like uh
02:57:12.800
my wingspan that's how wide the doors are it's literally could the same way it came in it could
02:57:17.600
go right back out the same way it came in it's too retarded because other window here and it sees
02:57:23.440
blue sky if you're worried about birds uh all along california have you guys ever drove up the coast
02:57:30.320
and seen all those giant windmills that are going the thousands of giant windmills those kill hundreds
02:57:37.280
and hundreds and hundreds and thousands and thousands of birds non-stop they all have to do
02:57:42.800
with me like i don't make those justice for the hummingbird yeah justice for the hummingbird no justice brian
02:57:50.080
no peace no justice no it would be so easy for you to grab it like no it literally wouldn't how
02:57:56.720
do you think he is that's that's like 10 feet i can that is 10 feet up like literally i'm not gonna
02:58:04.400
do that i'm not gonna do that it's a messed up guy now i just kind of want the bird to die because
02:58:09.760
it'll make you mad it should die on the center of the table i'm just kind of like well let it die
02:58:14.800
get a hat let it die all right so yeah oh a hat if i had a pool net i would maybe maybe be able to
02:58:22.480
get it but like yeah anyways he just doesn't want to stand up for some reason it's fine
02:58:31.520
okay um you do realize if i tried to grab for it it would just fly it wouldn't go towards me
02:58:39.280
i grab literally snakes all the time and like a snake is on the ground a bird's anything a
02:58:44.880
fucking eagle what if we ride to grab an eagle an eagle don't grab eagles you could bribe it with
02:58:51.520
snacks for ground animals how many uh axes there's only two axes an x axis y birds are three-dimensional
02:59:02.240
no one's ever captured a bird hey hang on not with their fucking hands bro like yes they have
02:59:10.880
wait a second what if it's the case that the bird flew in because outside there's a predator that was
02:59:15.840
chasing it and it got scared and so it flew in here and it's not believing because there's a predator
02:59:20.400
out there you want to try to catch the bird yes what's the psychopath wants to send this bird off to
02:59:28.560
its demise what the hell is wrong with you you are a monster that's it so fast monster you twisted
02:59:35.920
that so it's not in there for no reason there's an evil out there who wants to destroy it oh that
02:59:41.040
andrew that was so brilliant that was so brilliant andrew actually you know when i went off to the
02:59:46.160
balcony i actually saw a falcon multiple falcons out there and falcons prey on hummingbirds so andrew has
02:59:53.600
a great yes andrew has a great point fantastic point you're actually protecting it from demise
02:59:59.600
i have given the bird sanctuary i'm keeping it in here this is a sanctuary for the bird murder the
03:00:07.520
damn thing what the hell you're trying to send it back to the mean streets of santa barbara back to
03:00:12.480
the streets the main streets and i'm here i'm here just letting it chill y'all freaking out i'm like it's
03:00:18.240
my homie now that's fucking that's the home here that's hilarious he does this all the time anyways
03:00:24.080
good talk good talk that was great okay we got some chats we should name the bird uh yes we should name
03:00:29.760
it buckingham okay the open relationship thing is so fucking stupid and just a reason for a woman to be
03:00:36.560
a three-hour foe any guy who condones this or takes part is a pathetic cuck and total degenerate the
03:00:44.640
times that we live in and he follows this by saying thank you pasty george appreciate it one of the
03:00:50.800
main problems we have today is that many women have become modern day succubi and only care about
03:00:57.520
what feels good what is okay okay what is easy and what they think is right when it is in fact wrong
03:01:04.720
the way you made a british accent made it a little bit better it made it better though it eased
03:01:09.520
it it eased it i see the british accent does sound pasty george chair four and six it sounds
03:01:16.720
like that man just gave up on both of you and i didn't blame him for doing so either
03:01:22.800
now it's like south african besides what else could he do
03:01:30.160
that's like new zealand that was great the uh the trashy london voice scouse
03:01:35.520
hello governor you want some fish and chips mate i could do i could try to do a scouse scouse that's
03:01:43.680
the hardest one i can't do it um chair two why can't you get the bird aren't you a strong independent
03:01:49.520
woman i could i asked if i could stand on the chair and try to just fall on the table
03:01:55.520
you know this is why the patriarchy exists when when there's ever uh you know some sort of animal
03:02:02.560
or an insect that comes inside the the women are like freaking out you see when i when i was young
03:02:10.800
we played this stupid game what it was called i'm not going to get off the couch for any reason game
03:02:16.080
and we would literally look for things around us to build tools to get whatever the it was that we
03:02:21.200
were trying to get there has to be something men do this all the time for no good reason at all
03:02:26.480
look it says melt a melt a popsicle and they'll go it'll leave i think that i mean i don't think
03:02:32.640
that would happen now grab one of the sex dolls over there and just like
03:02:38.240
is that what those are what a lovely way to go these are sex love it okay we have some more super
03:02:44.080
chats uh we have name taken chair six if your husband was in a terrible accident and he needed 24-7
03:02:50.880
care so you had to choose between either a quitting of so that you could provide him with the care he
03:02:55.520
needed or b leaving him in his infirm state so you could do only fans which would you choose
03:03:01.360
well how would i be able to financially support him would i have to go back to doing facials i i think
03:03:09.440
i would say that his medical expenses were going to be pretty high so i'd probably have to pick up the
03:03:14.720
pace um probably higher help a job why are you financially supporting no but it's the it's the
03:03:21.040
question it's saying if he was in a terrible accident he needed 24 7 care if neither one of
03:03:25.280
us are working we will be we live in california we will be homeless in like 30 days if you don't pay
03:03:32.320
rent here what would they give you like a 30 day three day evict like there would have to be some
03:03:37.600
form of financial support and to make sure that he had really great medical care i would continue
03:03:43.120
doing what i'm doing no but the question is it's kind of an either or so yeah there would be other
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circumstances where perhaps there would be a financial impact on you but it's quitting of
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so that you could provide him with the care he needs so that it's it seems like it's a time
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commitment you're his caretaker or b leaving him in his infirm state so that you could do only fans well
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if we won the lotto i would stay home and you don't in the in the hypothetical he gave there's nothing
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about winning the lottery well the thing is it's like what like if she if if she quit then how would
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you be able to afford you could afford to pay for care yeah and then you still work do instead
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of and hire help failing and then like no one working and then all of a sudden the whole economy
03:04:28.320
in the household crashes please ask a question how much time does it take to um like uh have an only
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founds account i'm home way way more now could you could you not do like can we get an answer to
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the question though i don't well i i it's a hypothetical question not hypothetical okay
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so so i'm not i'm have no income coming in and i i the logical i'd have to do of to support my
03:04:57.440
household and to support him so i would have to do of but if he could afford to do both now if i could
03:05:03.840
if i could afford it and there was a wait wait here i'll make it super simple i'll make it super
03:05:08.720
fucking simple oftentimes the state will provide benefits to a caretaker this let's assume for the
03:05:18.640
sake of this hypothetical the the amount of the benefits you receive is enough to sustain your
03:05:25.040
bare bones uh you know you can keep staying where you live you can you know food basic necessities
03:05:33.200
that the state is providing you to be his caretaker through social services or whatever
03:05:40.320
of course i'm assuming you make way more money than this by doing of and you enjoy doing of yeah
03:05:45.600
thus the question is would you leave your husband so that you can continue making more money well i
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wouldn't leave him i mean i would care for him so if i have to quit doing of so if there was income
03:06:00.400
coming in i would say 24 7 i would care for him i wouldn't leave him and you would stop doing of
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yeah if that was the only choice that i had yeah name taken i hope that's as long as there's some
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form of money coming in so we can take care of him i don't want him homeless on the street in medical
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pelagic necessity for a hummingbird a bright red object outside of the open door oh
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chloe i could just literally just i'm not sure that's gonna work but all right we got lucas hey
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dude lucas thank you so much for the super chat pelagic thank you also questions for the harlot of
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babylon be honest what does your uh thun i was about to say thun son think about you turning into
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priscilla would you want your son to marry a bottom feeder like you oh shit gross we just threw up
03:06:50.160
up in our mouths both of us well my my sons have no judgment they're very very supportive and they're
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like mom do you if it makes you happy do it right so and then what was the rest of it so i mean my
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sons know everything i do i just respect their boundaries and and they're unbelievably supportive
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um but i've always talked with my children i've always talked with my children so we have a very
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open dialogue um and if my sons married a bottom feeder like me um well i i would support them 100
03:07:27.920
in the decisions that they would make um and i would know that that bottom feeder could support my son
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and his household um significantly well so i would definitely support that all right i'm sorry i can
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get you a napkin super chat lucas you're a legend sir by the way lucas i uh is that matthew fox from lost
03:07:52.640
looks like the guy from lost the main protagonist um thank you lucas appreciate it uh hunter thank you
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for the super chat appreciate appreciate it all right guys hundred dollars or excuse me uh well
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labia matter really important and then we're gonna do the uh gender swap so this segment of the show
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is would you date the male version of you starting with anya over here uh whenever you're ready
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whoa okay oh damn would you date the male version of you maybe zoom it out one yeah just one
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yeah that's better um he looks kind of skinny but if he was like a little bit beefier then yeah
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let's assume he's beefy it's just it's just the face though i guess he's cute he's cute okay all right
03:09:19.200
mine is so bad every single time absolutely not
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one of those nerds in cobra kai that he like taught how to fight that that's that's what you
03:09:36.160
look like in that pic one of the dorks from i'm so glad i'm a girl honestly it's kind of
03:09:45.120
i somebody did a this i saw this on twitter somebody did a gender swap on sabrina carpenter
03:09:51.840
and like the basically the idea here is is if you take most women and you change them like
03:09:59.680
gender swap them into men like most of them would be like incels
03:10:04.480
what what does that what do you mean it means that well because incels are kind of feminized men
03:10:13.600
no it's not even that it's just like inbred it's basically like you you know oh wait we have a react
03:10:19.520
on the okay so after this we're gonna do a react i think i pulled it up it's the tick tock okay mary
03:10:24.400
but i just want to see mine i'm so we'll finish up the gender swaps but oh god yeah
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next me i want me oh wow daddy energy yes i'd do him
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all right brian come on it was kind of funny hey no it's good it's good i was just taking the
03:10:57.120
piss mate all right mate all right mate uh yeah it's taken off all right next the one with the beard
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what's that with the curly hair wait is that is that like how your son looks no no not at all
03:11:13.040
wait that looks like sean william scott it's the hair it's like a little bit the curly hair is
03:11:21.360
crazy honestly i like the highlights so i don't know would you smash yeah possibly okay next
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did you say ooh yes i mean he looks like a predator let's be real here though
03:11:35.760
that's you if you were a man yeah it's gross disgusting what what's why is he gross and
03:11:43.520
disgusting i don't know what's wrong with him he's got the same jaw structure and
03:11:50.000
facial features he gives me the cream he looks weird but that's you're you're talking
03:11:56.640
it's scary what you wouldn't date him then no why he's i i don't know board it's kind of crooked
03:12:07.280
a crooked forehead it's not that bad actually the bearded one the bearded version slightly better i
03:12:17.280
all right um he looks like a progressive podcaster honestly but a little bit yeah a little bit
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all right he looks like dave rubin scuffed dave rubin like really fucked up dave rubin sorry
03:12:36.160
like dave rubin sorry i i need to make another dave rubin joke dave rubin if he um if he wasn't
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gay and just had to deal with a really belligerent wife so you look straight
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beard beard bearded one is so much better than the one in the middle definitely
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hang on hang on he does look like he'd save the bird though
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that's a bird saver right there that's a bird saving face right there yes look at that guy
03:13:10.320
that's the guy you want in the trenches with you you know like he'll just
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no that's a guy i wouldn't want in the trenches with me uh because he'd be too busy saving birds but
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i'm not saying no birds i saw that movie what was that movie uh
03:13:29.120
the one the vietnam film me love you long time what what movie is that anybody chat
03:13:37.200
oh me that's full metal jacket oh full metal jacket i was watching it the other day
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he's like when you say he's like a pro uh private pile yeah he's like a private pile yeah
03:13:53.360
bird oh my god i don't think it's oh look he's making progress
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i've got laser using the red laser i've got a laser pointer
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if you guys could be quiet you guys could don't yeah if you guys start he's so close
03:14:17.680
wait oh wait be quiet be quiet be quiet wait nobody move nobody hold on nobody move don't
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say a word brain shut the fuck up chloe shut the fuck up chloe shut the fuck up chloe shut the
03:14:29.680
fuck up i'm gonna get up very slowly i'm gonna fucking kill it you're gonna get the bird
03:14:35.200
get the cat i'm gonna get the cat the red cat this is all on camera shut the fuck up stop talking
03:14:51.280
fly away bird fly away bird fly away bird shut the fuck up be quiet get it get it get it
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is he okay it's a hummingbird no no no no wait is he okay i think you got it he squished
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the way i think you finish it brian finish it oh there's blood oh there's blood oh
03:15:09.760
oh you're gonna get a napkin oh wait sit down you're gonna actually blur him it's okay
03:15:26.320
no you should be fat that was murdering psychomaps what did you do
03:15:35.120
why they're doing this why they're doing this just let him breathe
03:15:37.920
you're gonna be able to breathe go he's done no he's fine oh my gosh
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i'm gonna let him go it's okay let me oh wait i'm so terrible oh that's my info
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paper oh my god brian you killed it bye bye birdie hey it moved
03:15:57.680
there was so much blood it's alive it's alive it's alive close the fucking shit bro close the
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shit close the fucking shit close the shit what the fuck there's blood whatever
03:16:16.320
fucking clean that shit can he fly okay it got a little bit of a bruise but it's alive a bruise
03:16:22.720
it's bleeding to death it got there was a little blood i think i now it's gonna get
03:16:26.880
eaten by a falcon yeah that was really traumatic
03:16:33.440
you know what's traumatic is um never mind it's gonna say something about your only
03:16:39.680
fans how the fuck do these women get spit roasted on camera but can't take a
03:16:42.960
fucking bird what oh wait that was a hot mic that was
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hey you know i mostly got it in the cup i should have taken maybe a bigger cup i don't know
03:16:59.120
the bird's alive there was a bit of blood good precision i did get it to to my credit i the bird's
03:17:07.280
alive we put it outside what part of it was but i think i might have like it's wing mr wing i might
03:17:13.600
try to pinch the wing a little bit it was it's okay chloe are you allowed to do anything about
03:17:20.080
that in california wait let me just google is there stand your ground in california there
03:17:26.720
a law against like no wait uh uh law against hummingbird yeah you probably can you just got a
03:17:34.880
felony on camera and it's all on camera uh-oh right what'd you do what'd you do
03:17:42.480
hold on that was anyway now i'm a little worried now i need we need james sexton here uh
03:17:52.080
now i don't know what it look if a bird comes into your house
03:17:56.480
you can get the fucking bird out of the house right chat lucas lucas are you in chat bro i might
03:18:01.520
need them to turn it the heat is gonna be off to you brian it does say it's fine i'm gonna tell
03:18:07.200
you i'm gonna tell you an old hunter's adage okay here's what your mistake was you didn't say it was
03:18:13.920
coming right for me if you said it was it's coming right for me and then you had done that it would
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have been fine because we all know that animals are ruthless and evil bastards we all saw it coming
03:18:24.880
right out of me we all saw him like attack i think i should maybe wash my hands i'm gonna wash my hands
03:18:31.200
hands actually i'll be i'll be right back your hands of the shame there's blood on you
03:18:41.520
did you try did you say you said wait um andrew you said that animals are evil is that what you
03:18:48.320
just said yeah i was making a joke okay i was gonna say because that's crazy being facetious i was like
03:18:55.520
don't play with me because okay i guess i'm like that isn't that yeah i mean i just don't get like
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give a about a stupid bird that's all i just like don't care i know but clary's a sensitive soul
03:19:08.800
on you irrelevant to me princess chloe you want some chloe you want some chocolate milk you need a
03:19:14.720
little you want some apple sauce that would make me feel better i need some candy i think you're
03:19:21.760
adorable it's got oh my god he actually has have you guys ever seen um have you ever seen the salt guns
03:19:28.000
that are designed to kill flies and bugs and we say we use them at the restaurant yeah it's called like a
03:19:34.320
bug assault you pour the salt in the top and then you like you blast the bug with it i would have
03:19:39.600
i found something out that if you use kosher salt it's like buckshot i would have definitely have
03:19:43.920
tried that on the hummingbird i think that would work look i feared for right now i feared for my
03:19:49.120
life i oh my god the feather right at you was plotting its next move i feared i feared for my life
03:19:59.760
it was self-defense um so chloe i have chocolate milk for you and you get a little sippy straw with
03:20:10.080
it okay pass it down it's gonna be okay chloe it's gonna be okay chloe it's like where do you want to
03:20:16.560
hug yeah okay thank you all right all right save the dolphins or whatever save the save the turtles
03:20:24.640
save the turtles oh where were we sorry chat by the way this has there is a little blood lingering on
03:20:33.600
the the just a teeny bit of blood i think i cleaned most of it oh you cleaned it off i will auction off
03:20:40.000
that poster to the highest bidder just kidding okay we've got some chats here
03:20:47.440
do you want you want some applesauce too are we finishing the military in the bloods brian and
03:20:54.160
sell it it's probably pretty easy we were doing out of there after you snapped its wing in half you
03:20:58.880
inconsiderate jerk you just literally just snapped its wing like it was nothing i don't think we
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finished how could you brian yeah i don't think we finished the mail thing we we're gonna get we're
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gonna get back to it you doing you doing okay chloe you doing i'm still a little upset at you that
03:21:16.160
you didn't just grab it with your hands my that would be worse bro i would no like
03:21:22.960
oh just like yeah it wasn't it wouldn't have flied away just like this he was just
03:21:30.720
did you see that chat nope i didn't see that um look chloe would have been chad if you threw
03:21:38.960
it off the balcony too i should have just thrown it at chloe just grabbed that
03:21:43.840
that's how mama bird makes them fly that's how mama bird makes them fly you gotta throw it off the
03:21:48.240
balcony that's how it works you you need anything else sweetheart do you need you need a little uh
03:21:55.680
do we have applesauce can we get her some applesauce we literally have applesauce yeah in case one of our
03:22:02.800
more sensitive guests has a moment that's fine thank you okay no applesauce all right i'm okay
03:22:10.320
with my milk all right well you enjoy that okay we got chats here we got to get through we have pasty
03:22:15.760
george oh wait did i already do this one if i were there i would catch cook and eat it in the studio
03:22:20.960
oh you know what we should have cooked it up for chloe do a little dinner for her
03:22:25.200
let me get her a little uh hummingbird dinner okay that probably is illegal hummingbirds all right
03:22:32.000
we have hunter wallace the bird should start paying rent also anya i just wanted to say that
03:22:38.160
i think you're incredibly beautiful uh-oh if i ever get the chance to meet you in person i'd love to ask
03:22:42.640
you out on date hunter wallace we have a rule here at the whatever podcast if you're going to be a simp
03:22:47.920
you have to pay the simp tax you have to send in another message as a as a tribute to the whatever
03:22:54.720
podcast in the form of a simp tax so get to it chop chop chef dill pickles why did chair three say
03:23:00.720
inbred as a response to incel because i don't know what it means i'm sorry is it because inbreeding
03:23:06.400
was the last plague to hit our country before lack of immigration policies plagued it
03:23:12.640
i just didn't know what it meant sorry god damn that was my cup too what does incel mean can
03:23:18.480
someone got a bigger i should have got involuntarily i'm sorry in involuntarily celibate
03:23:25.040
in involuntarily celibate oh god i really really really got that one wrong
03:23:36.000
so chloe have you ever dated a guy who committed any knife crimes
03:23:39.840
or sorry not chloe um bell annabelle me yes have you dated any because of england because of london
03:23:46.880
that whole thing i was once in the pub and i saw a guy get a knife out of his pocket and like kind of
03:23:54.560
but then the situation can you show us his technique it was like it was it wasn't even a good knife it
03:24:00.320
was like more like a shaft yeah that you get from prison yeah and he was but he had it under like so
03:24:06.400
the guy couldn't see it was a bit of a brawl and he just had it and then was like show me the show me
03:24:13.280
what he was doing i'm trying to do it to chloe i couldn't i couldn't do it to darling chloe it was
03:24:20.080
like it was like the guy couldn't see the knife because he took out of his pocket and he was like
03:24:23.920
hiding but like was it like a rapid it should do it he didn't do it he didn't oh he just had it out
03:24:29.520
he had he had it out secretly in case this it escalated so like a defensive use yeah he had it out
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yeah he had it out but other than that no knife crime cat cat says l simp w cat thank you for the
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memberships earlier by the way thank you cat she says l simp that's two hunter still waiting for the
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simp tax hunter don't be you got to pay it you got to pay the simp tax all right you can pay it at my
03:24:55.600
link chef dill pickles brian committed murder tonight clip it and ship it boys it's alive he says for now
03:25:01.280
how much blood do birds hold in them that was a lot hummingbirds hummingbirds have a lot they don't
03:25:10.400
have a lot brian their wings are the main thing and you get away so i feel like if he could fly right
03:25:16.880
he would have been like if he couldn't fly he did fly really fly away okay i don't know how it but he
03:25:25.840
might bleed it out hopefully not though it's wing the wing got pinched maybe it like dude because
03:25:32.240
they don't have like doctors or anything i just want to like like they can't go to the hummingbird
03:25:37.280
doctor like he's gonna have to deal with that now huh like he's gonna have a heart attack in the
03:25:42.960
studio and fallen over dead that the hunting bird would have eaten your eyeballs and not given a
03:25:47.760
shit i just want to point that out that they're like aggressive where did you get that information
03:25:52.480
i don't think about how many birds are aggressive at all actually they're aggressive i feel like
03:25:56.640
animals don't care i'm just making the point that like animals don't care about you they don't care
03:26:02.080
they don't give a certain animals do care i feel like no they don't care did you ask that's why
03:26:08.880
women always pick the bear in the woods because they think that bears care and shit they answer my
03:26:12.960
animals definitely care about me they think that it's like baloo from disney that they're going to
03:26:17.680
start dancing in the forest and start fucking singing about bear necessities and shit they
03:26:22.080
anthropomorphize these wild ass animals that would rip them limb from limb and they start eating you
03:26:27.360
with the groin up because that's the fattiest part they really like my animals definitely care about
03:26:34.800
me though that's the thing speaking of fucking animals you have domesticated for thousands of
03:26:40.320
is it a ferret yeah it's a weasel it's a fucking weasel what's the difference between
03:26:47.520
you know speaking of fucking animals fucking weasel warren the fucking weasel warren weasel smith
03:26:54.160
yeah what's the difference between weasels and i talked does anyone know warren i think we're
03:26:59.520
going to be able to clear this up okay you want me to are we gonna am i going to host it or what do
03:27:04.640
you think i think yeah i think i think we're gonna get this all cleared up so all right you know uh
03:27:10.800
okay warren warren out there i had a nice dm exchange with him you know what i mean uh he said
03:27:17.280
he's willing to have the conversation with us so i say we just have the conversation before before we
03:27:22.160
make the accusations of him being a weasel or backbiter i'm gonna give him every benefit of the
03:27:27.840
doubt first okay you know what that's great i'll save this for next week but warren if you're watching
03:27:35.600
this i don't just have one okay here felicity put that shit on warren i don't just have two weasels
03:27:45.520
why do you have so many weasels i have three three weasels all right warren don't let this be your
03:27:54.800
legacy okay warren you see the three weasels do you listen warren smith secret scholar society
03:28:03.840
i'm just saying warren you got a big you got a good thing going on and i would hate to see
03:28:09.680
something happen to it be sad because of weasels because of weaseling jersey exit and i got some
03:28:15.600
fucking weasels right here okay so i'm just saying warren i'm just saying you better watch out no it's
03:28:22.000
all good me and him we talked it's not all good oh he came for you i have some beef with him oh for a
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warren felicity here has some fucking beef with you too okay you need to apologize to my girl over
03:28:35.280
here felicity yeah okay good talk all right i got the weasels weasel out all right perfect
03:28:51.360
that was so perfect warren you saw what i did to that bird
03:28:54.720
don't fuck with me okay okay warren hey no i'm not gonna make i'm not gonna say that i'm just saying
03:29:03.680
i'd be nervous that hummingbird it ain't humming tonight oh god it ain't humming that's terrible
03:29:11.760
it's bumming on the okay anyways whatever all right no just kidding i'm warren it's all jokes i'm
03:29:18.640
kidding i'm kidding all right pasty george brian captures a bird oh brian captures a bird says there
03:29:28.160
is blood and the women think it is dead and freak out yes lmfao yeah they thought i killed it they
03:29:33.840
were oh my god oh no also i don't actually see any blood there was there was a there's a pretty decent
03:29:42.800
amount of blood see it on the windows they cleaned it oh they cleaned it right it was all in there was
03:29:49.840
yeah it was in the cup and on the paper there was a there was a little bit of blood okay we have pasty
03:29:54.400
george chair two don't worry you can take comfort in knowing that the bird flew away and later died
03:29:58.480
somewhere outside lol take a sip of your chocolate milk i drink it all okay oh nice all right
03:30:12.800
you know i feel like we need a champagne pop for that effort you know definitely is uh the
03:30:20.240
creators inc guy is he watching who owns that is it a dude or what is it like a group of people um
03:30:25.920
it's a guide but he's he's probably not watching i think it is he's too he's too big for yeah he's just
03:30:33.040
you know i saved you chloe one of he he has you signed to his company and if i had not intervened
03:30:39.120
that bird was coming for you i think he owes me a thank you for having saved you from the bird
03:30:46.720
and it's corresponding diseases so i would like him to a little a little no no he doesn't have to
03:30:56.080
pay me but a thank you would be nice you know just saying what's his name bart andy is it top secret
03:31:03.840
oh or the bird or the creators oh i think it's yeah it's andy all right andy look go andy that was
03:31:11.360
some chivalry there i protected you i protected multiple of your creatures here malicious and feral
03:31:16.480
bird okay moving on moving on oh we have the rest of the photos to get to let's do that let's do that
03:31:22.320
oh right you said ew you said ew yes right okay next why did mine look so much older than everyone
03:31:35.120
oh my gosh stop oh he's all right that does look like my now that looks like my son low-key that does
03:31:44.240
look like i'm i'm gonna say pass no wonder okay now i pass okay all right next i don't even want to
03:31:52.240
see mine oh god you actually look good like look at that hair you i think you look good would you
03:31:58.640
would you date i i like him yeah i like he's hot if you were if you were single okay okay next she said
03:32:07.040
not my type hey a little better than normal boy dude it's like aaron very young looking i mean like
03:32:15.760
fly he looks good with the beard what do you date him no all right next okay wait well who was that
03:32:27.600
is that you as a oh yeah the third one is good oh my god what's that actress i uh you actually look
03:32:33.600
great i would date sure i would date them all is that the long hair the long hair is a little
03:32:40.400
better but it looks like famous actress oh yeah that's her name it's like because that picture is
03:32:45.600
just so good you know like it's like a professional like the lighting and everything like i feel like
03:32:48.720
that definitely changes it probably yeah next they both look good though oh gosh young andrew oh it's
03:32:56.080
like his wife that's a new one right andrew would you uh would you date
03:33:00.480
your girl is it kind of like rachel with dark hair a little bit yeah on the right a little bit
03:33:07.360
looks like rachel doesn't look anything like rachel you know what's interesting andrew you guys i don't
03:33:14.560
know if it's your mannerisms that are kind of similar in some ways you guys kind of look a little bit
03:33:21.200
like like like the masculine feminine version but maybe am i making sense i don't know like
03:33:30.000
what you see when people are people are with each other time they start to mimic each other's
03:33:35.200
mannerisms that's that does happen that's true that's probably what it is it's here probably what
03:33:40.800
it is like for instance uh she mimics my debate mannerisms and i mimic the she can't open a jar mannerism
03:33:48.480
so see sometimes sometimes we all have to kind of just uh mimic each other a little bit no we can't
03:33:55.840
bring out that now that's depressing we can't bring that was for the birds she's for the birds
03:34:04.400
uh let's see here we are going to get into uh oh crystal did you have any other disagreements
03:34:10.240
i don't think so you just what you got you got some smoke crystal come on i don't bring the smoke
03:34:15.920
crystal you know it's my aunt's name so okay let's go back to sociology oh my god my aunt's name
03:34:22.880
uh or should we not i feel like i kind of beat that that was kind of a beating a dead horse a little bit
03:34:29.040
uh let's see you said crystal you said you bailed your ex out of jail because he said he'd pay you back
03:34:35.760
after you did hang on brian uh how come nobody commented on how hot young female version of
03:34:41.840
andrew was nobody really daddy that chick that chick was fine i mean wasn't that picture she was pretty
03:34:49.840
she was pretty fly can't lie yeah she was pretty right not a one of you not a one of you sorry
03:34:57.840
it's because it looks like your wife so it's we're still stuck on the bird
03:35:01.840
yeah we're still grieving barge the bird largest narcissist on the internet according to all the
03:35:08.960
sociologists you know i couldn't help but not let it pass by that young female version of andrew
03:35:17.120
it's just really good looking she was a stunner 10 out of 10
03:35:22.800
is that what you want to hear darling actually maybe yes grab and then take that off the table um
03:35:28.800
okay we are going to do we need to react to this because this is going somewhat viral on tick tock
03:35:34.720
uh can you pull up the tick tock mary and then we'll go full go full screen with it
03:35:42.240
and then there's another video i think i pulled up too
03:35:45.920
we'll do that one let's just do that one first then the tick tock do you have the other video
03:36:04.640
there's another video on the tab it should be like the last or second to last
03:36:09.120
you're gonna have to close out all that other crap though yeah
03:36:12.240
we have a video of yours that we're going to react to super quick i just thought it was funny
03:36:15.520
mine yep go ahead play it i'm nervous window tab is fine i'm so nervous window tab is fine oh god
03:36:22.800
so wait when god get you for being a hoe i thought it was fun go ahead play it
03:36:29.360
oh wait pause pause pause pause pause mute the audio please go ahead oh my god
03:36:34.800
just this is crazy all right so there's music she's dancing when god gets you for being a hoe
03:36:41.360
and then you fucking eat shit oh my goodness one more time from the fall play it again
03:36:48.240
play it again play it again go go go go go play it again come on i can't believe i did that honestly
03:36:54.960
all right doing some dance i guess i didn't put it up perfectly i didn't put it up right then oh my
03:36:59.760
good dude i hit the fan you seen that oh damn dude when was this andrew's loving that
03:37:06.000
shit did you do it on purpose no that was like that was one more time all right just skip to the
03:37:13.200
go play it again like i did it wrong like i didn't put it up correctly i guess yeah there we go go go
03:37:18.880
go go play hit play come on wait mute the audio goddamn when god gets you for being a hoe bro i
03:37:27.040
literally ate shit oh that should hurt that should hurt i literally i almost broke a table
03:37:34.400
she's like mom mom look at this video should i post it and i'm like yeah honestly my friend wrote the
03:37:40.080
caption because her parents like that girl her parents are bishop so she was like this is gonna
03:37:44.400
be hilarious and then she wrote the caption like on the thing thank you i'm just worried about your
03:37:52.320
head no honestly it hurt there was a big glass table too that was there and i literally like i
03:37:58.400
was this far from breaking the whole table like it was actually terrible oh my god um so okay mary
03:38:05.120
here's what you're gonna do this always reminds me of i have a famous saying it's a what i call a
03:38:09.840
wilsonism it's come from my family tree from the year 1000 to right now being stupid hurts yeah that the
03:38:18.480
uh that that is that it's literally a family motto being stupid hurts it definitely hurt
03:38:26.800
all right i'm not stupid but there was a stupid mistake it's just on our profile you said okay it's
03:38:32.640
the one with 1.3 million views just click that and then get it full screen while you're doing that we
03:38:40.000
have uh we have pasty george so hold on pause pause just pause it or mute the audio uh enough with the
03:38:47.760
a stupid bird i find it ironic that women would freak out over a teeny bird or even a ladybug but
03:38:52.800
stay silent about abortion appraise it appraise it as a woman's right
03:39:10.160
it's hard how are you doing i'm from liverpool oh yeah yeah that's like the best i can do guys
03:39:23.440
hang on how did you how did you throw the hack in there you threw the hack it's scouse
03:39:28.320
scouse scouse you know what i'm saying get some chips and a butty that's the best it's not
03:39:36.400
can you understand the people who are from like the weird places of scotland that have a really thick
03:39:41.280
accent yeah uh oh no no no i can't understand a word they say the glasgow people from glasgow
03:39:47.840
they really are like really hard to understand but people from edinburgh are easier to
03:39:52.560
understand for sure it's tuesday in it it's tuesday in shoes it's tuesday in it no they don't talk like
03:40:01.360
that right they're like yeah i'm the shoes all right there and you're like what the
03:40:07.440
fuck did you just say what did you just say i know england's such a fucking it's tuesday in it
03:40:16.240
okay all right good talk you can drive one hour and there'll be a completely different accent
03:40:20.720
yeah it's crazy true yeah love it okay let's see here oh the video let's do the video oh we have a lot
03:40:37.680
is it full screen you have to write hit the three dots and
03:40:50.720
refresh uh well it's not normal what do you mean
03:41:04.560
are you able to go f11 on the page is it full screen
03:41:13.040
okay just pull it up show me what you see oh yeah okay that's that's fine all right guys we're
03:41:18.160
gonna react to this uh this is going kind of viral uh so we're gonna get everybody uh put on video
03:41:24.880
tab please all right start from the very beginning it's ahead no start it pause pause pause pause pause
03:41:32.000
pause start it from the very beginning so as we're all very much aware we are living through a chopped
03:41:38.320
man epidemic and there's a big shortage of baddies it's gone so bad to the point that like if i see an
03:41:45.200
attractive man it genuinely makes my day i was walking on the sidewalk earlier and i saw a cute
03:41:51.440
guy in his car so i waved to him and he smiled back at me and obviously he drove away after that
03:41:57.120
but i was like oh my god a cute guy this was at 6 50 p.m it's 7 17 and i'm still like oh oh my god and
03:42:05.520
i feel like this is gonna empower me through my evening like wow i actually saw an attractive man today like
03:42:10.960
diamond in the rough needle in the haystack seriously so all right all very much okay so for
03:42:19.280
those of you who don't know maybe in the audience chopped means ugly so when she's saying there's
03:42:25.040
essentially a when she says a chopped man epidemic she's saying there's an ugly man epidemic uh do you
03:42:32.000
guys just curious do you guys agree i disagree i feel like what and just one final uh uh addition to
03:42:39.040
this i've heard a lot of criticisms from women that they think there's way more physically attractive
03:42:45.200
women than there are men you'll see pretty women all the time but then you'll like rarely see this
03:42:51.280
is what i've heard a lot of women say you'll rarely see like good-looking or attractive guys
03:42:55.680
uh so why don't we yeah we'll start with you since you wanted to go yeah i feel like i disagree
03:43:01.200
i feel like there's like the like you know woman like not that like this is like the difference
03:43:05.680
but you know like a woman can like get ready and do all this stuff like i feel like for guys there's
03:43:09.200
not really much that they can do to like enhance anything so i feel like to say that it's not really
03:43:15.040
fair because like that's just like naturally what they look like and stuff but i feel i feel like
03:43:19.680
there's a lot of attractive men i feel like there's been more attractive men than there's been
03:43:23.440
like not like i feel like more because like not because of instagram specifically but like there's more
03:43:29.600
attractive men than there was like before because actually people are starting to care about like what they
03:43:33.280
look like and stuff you know as for back then like people didn't really care about looks at all as for
03:43:38.160
what i know of but i've got an idea um i think that like girls can get boob jobs lip filler like you know
03:43:47.440
hair extensions and i think obviously i mean men can get botox and stuff as well but it's not as commonly
03:43:53.840
done as women so there's probably going to be more aesthetically pleasing women than men for that
03:44:04.720
reason maybe yeah i agree because it's we can like there's more things that we can do we can improve
03:44:10.640
ourselves we've got hair extensions makeup yeah we can trick we can trick people into thinking we're
03:44:17.040
pretty when we're not and men can't really do that i think it's also regional so like for example
03:44:23.040
i've been in la for i think two days and honestly i haven't like seen one guy that i'm like oh he's
03:44:31.200
like really attractive i think it's also just my type back home in florida it's full of cowboys and
03:44:36.480
actually manly men like guys with not even muscle but just like some fat on them every man that i've seen
03:44:43.360
here is very feminized or just gay and i don't know just not really i don't know maybe it's just la
03:44:52.640
but i think it's regional if you stick in la yeah you're not going to see a lot of
03:44:58.800
men not as masculine yeah i agree and california there isn't really that many well not cali altogether
03:45:04.960
but la specifically there is more feminine men that's for sure because it's more like a fashion
03:45:09.600
state i feel like like there's a lot more like fashion stuff like that so they kind of like tend to
03:45:13.600
like be a little bit more like pretty boys but no i'm telling like country bars back home like yeah
03:45:20.080
you walk in and like in texas yeah yeah i definitely see some sexy guys we experienced
03:45:26.000
that when we went to texas yeah we're like whoa yeah it is a whole different ball game that's for
03:45:32.480
sure la is green juice texas is steak yeah yeah yummy yeah so yeah i totally agree with you it's a
03:45:42.240
regional word um sorry one sec guys uh i wanted to actually pull it back up because the comments were
03:46:04.720
oh i wanted to ask the panel uh going around the table so she's saying she doesn't see attractive man
03:46:11.200
chopped man epidemic can we also just point out that that chick is fucking ugly
03:46:16.960
can i just point out real quick that that is a fucking hideous woman who's saying this like
03:46:21.440
just an objectively fucking ugly woman i just just say it
03:46:27.760
oh my god i was gonna say that in a more polite way but basically it looks like she's been picking
03:46:32.960
her face off for the last two years man i don't know what the hell so i did want to
03:46:37.120
she's a foul hideous looking woman oh my god he said no i was about to ask though the panel do you
03:46:44.720
guys like do you think she's beautiful he's like i'm not sugar coating nothing i don't think that
03:46:52.720
she's a stunning 10 out of 10 but i don't think she's really really really ugly i don't think she
03:46:56.880
i don't think i don't think she's ugly but hang on i'm calling bullshit pull it back up i think
03:47:02.960
average looking average hang on oh come on okay baby wait show me the video again you'll be showing
03:47:09.040
me again oh she was so pull it up pull it up but then uh just play the video just go ahead and play it
03:47:14.880
so as we're all very much aware oh my god this chick's face is busted
03:47:22.880
that's so fucked up you know it's true am i lying though am i lying or is that chick's face busted as
03:47:29.760
fuck i feel like she doesn't really have a place to be really like talking about specifics but i feel
03:47:34.720
like you know beauty isn't always about how you look beauty is not always about how you look it's
03:47:39.600
about your personality but i guess the way she's acting is let's uh pull it back up though really
03:47:44.000
quick i wanted to read some of the comments on this so as we're all right uh scroll down damn
03:47:51.360
seems like you've upset the chopped men 17 000 likes they're mad at you because you're right
03:47:56.480
danny uh ignore the positive scroll down scroll down uh oh this man has to stall
03:48:06.080
all this man-on-man hate has to stop that's hilarious down down down there's some interesting photos
03:48:12.240
scroll down scroll down no one's saying that she's uh that she's average scroll down scroll down
03:48:18.720
come on this chick is a two bagger at least scroll down what's a two bagger does that mean when you put
03:48:24.080
it on i'm trying to find it keep going you gotta put the bag over their head no two bagger is come on
03:48:31.600
people were posting like a bunch of funny photos maybe she did oh she deleted it uh wait keep going
03:48:37.120
just keep going though maybe it'll pop up damn she did this dirty because they were all kinds of
03:48:41.760
funny photos on like photo comments that must have been very time consuming it might be it might be
03:48:49.200
maybe it was just on mobile that i people were like making all these funny edits uh
03:48:55.760
yeah who does she think she is speaking about men like that when she's i think she's got that videos
03:49:00.960
like that on her channel is that like her like brand like she's like trying to like maybe she's doing it
03:49:05.520
for um what's it called to trigger people so that she gets more of course oh okay yeah i'm sure i'm
03:49:11.440
sure that that's exactly what she thought she was like what can me a hideous wildebeest
03:49:17.280
to trigger as many men as i possibly can me a busted ass uh looking well below average hideous woman
03:49:27.360
what can i do to trigger as many men as possible and so that's what she did you're right you're right
03:49:33.920
there's a lot you know there's a lot of uh people coming to her defense though in fact you know maybe
03:49:39.360
we'll pull up my twitter also hideous wildebeest is kind of like an echo oh tick tock is the most
03:49:47.040
it's terrible and she's really funny yeah i find facebook the worst uh do you have my twitter tick
03:49:52.960
tock is the worst you know why you know why tick tock's the worst why because most of the user base it's
03:49:58.560
like 60 or 70 i think it's it's 70 plus percent actually is women and so when you're on tick tock
03:50:04.880
especially when you're on the lives you're in the mind of a woman and so it's just absolute carnage
03:50:10.240
and chaos and fucking madness and stupidity all the time that's why that's why the tick tock is
03:50:16.480
fucking horrible horrible i had no idea that that it was mostly women oh yeah it makes so much sense
03:50:23.280
that's why that well i mean obviously the comments were deleted but it makes sense because guys would
03:50:28.800
be like saying what you're saying right yeah that's why when they were like they're going to delete tick
03:50:33.120
tock i was like no they're not going to delete tick tock there'll be a uh you know uh 200 000
03:50:39.520
uh dumb ass women tomorrow with signs will be like don't delete my tick tock oh my god
03:50:47.440
and guess what i was 100 right hundreds of thousands of whiny-ass women who were like
03:50:52.960
now we have to have the chinese and vedas and fucking take over our social media because
03:50:58.000
otherwise i can't post fish lip selfies with my busted fucking face that's literally what happened
03:51:04.000
and because and before that they had like musically they had vine like they were gonna make another one
03:51:08.400
too like it was gonna like there's musically vine and then there's tick tock so they were gonna make
03:51:12.720
another one no matter what like they were gonna just pull up my twitter no did you send the link
03:51:18.720
oh okay yeah scroll down all right scroll down i'm gonna tell you there were two girls we're only
03:51:26.320
gonna watch part of it uh do the wait wait stop there uh the one with the nose ring oh my god who's
03:51:34.240
that oh god why do you click it pause terrible all right uh video tab i don't know why you guys stay
03:51:42.560
you guys are coping so hard all right take one look you see the same thing i see go ahead play it
03:51:49.200
this thing about the war going on against the chopped man epidemic girl is that she's actually quite
03:51:53.760
beautiful hello like actually dare i say more than conventionally attractive but you guys are brain
03:52:01.600
rotting okay pause it and then x out of that what that's good and then go to the other video go to
03:52:09.520
the other video the one with the yellow shirt i'm in you have it okay uh video tab oh lord uh play it
03:52:18.880
the war on the side of the chop man epidemic girl she's right y'all are ugly you don't put effort into
03:52:23.440
your appearances you don't have hobbies and you expect women to want you and you're going to screenshot
03:52:28.480
pictures of me and her while she's talking in an effort to make her feel ugly when in reality
03:52:33.680
you would cry of happiness if me or her or any of the women in her comment section touched you
03:52:38.640
with a 10-foot pole why because you're a virgin pause it just pause it wow this isn't this isn't real
03:52:49.200
i know what this phenomenon is called what happens is when one ugly chick sees another ugly chick
03:52:55.200
they instantly compare and the one ugly chick's like i'm hotter than her so if i'm friends with
03:53:01.520
her and i'm out hanging out with her i'll look pretty in comparison to this ugly broad and so i i
03:53:07.040
actually see this happen all the time that's why you see clicks of really pretty women together and
03:53:11.680
then you see clicks of really ugly women together where they're all like fat and they're hideous and
03:53:16.400
shit like that so it's literally look i'm sorry but all the time this is what i see clicks of really
03:53:22.960
good looking chicks and then clicks of really ugly chicks that's what i see all the time
03:53:28.240
there must be something going on there it's rage bay is that what it's called we have what do you
03:53:32.400
consider we have uh pasty george brian why are you showing us videos of crackheads that is a good
03:53:37.840
question good question um a really quick question not related to this just is anybody here christian
03:53:44.240
just curious kind of you what denomination um i would say orthodox you would say orthodox okay
03:53:52.320
what about you uh lutheran sorry what lutheran lutheran and then um i'm not really sure i went
03:53:58.400
to the mic to the edge of the table sorry sorry i went to catholic boarding school so but i'm not
03:54:04.000
catholic i'm just you just touched it sorry scooted to the edge of the table there you go um i'm just
03:54:10.400
kind of my own christian i don't really yeah i just okay all right uh we have pasty george to be
03:54:18.480
honest the woman on the video who said that men today are chopped she looks like an indigenous
03:54:22.720
crackhead okay he had to add a qualifier there she's not just a crackhead or looks like one she's
03:54:28.960
an indigenous crackhead looks like she eats bad heads too andrew what would you consider like so
03:54:34.640
you're saying like that was ugly like what would you consider like pretty because you say you see
03:54:37.600
pretty girls and then you see ugly girls like what would you say like your level of pretty would
03:54:41.200
be yeah i don't think that uh attractiveness is nearly as subjective as women like to cope about
03:54:48.000
right yeah um the the truth is is that it seems like angular features with hourglass shapes things
03:54:54.960
like this uh are universally accepted as yeah highly attractive and here's why don't do that the
03:55:01.680
reason the reason stop doing that it's gross but the the point is is the reason for this
03:55:07.600
is just think of it think of it from a reproductive standpoint there has to be something that signals
03:55:13.600
inside of men's brains and inside of women's brains to reproduce yeah it has to be something right so
03:55:19.520
there has to be some features which are universal that women have they don't look sickly yeah right
03:55:24.960
okay great we got that out of the way but what else they like take care of themselves yeah they have
03:55:29.520
an hourglass type feature yeah lighter hips robust they like go to the gym and stuff things like
03:55:35.920
this that's all signaling health and reproduction that's what men are going to be attracted to yeah
03:55:41.040
because sex ultimately is about reproduction right yeah of course men are going to be attracted
03:55:45.920
to youthful uh women with angular features hourglass shapes things like this yeah like people
03:55:51.840
that take care of themselves so things like that like they actually like care about their
03:55:54.880
appearances not just taking care of yourself but also there is a genetic element where there are
03:56:01.280
some women who are born fucking ugly and there's some men who are just born fucking ugly and that's
03:56:07.040
the case that is the truth objective truth not sugar-coated with no bullshit there's some people in this
03:56:13.200
world who are fucking ugly but at least women can use that's not the case you can pretend it's not
03:56:18.560
the case but at least women can use makeup and stuff like that you know and men can't so it's kind
03:56:24.480
of an unfair advantage well it's not just that i mean uh another amount of fakeness of women i i would
03:56:32.320
i would actually counter and say i think there's probably better looking men than there are women
03:56:37.200
in the world the truth is is that if i go back and i just look at what women looked like in the 1800s
03:56:43.200
when all of the filters weren't there no breast implants right none of this shit the rigors of hard
03:56:49.760
living oh my god they are yeah you wouldn't want to see it right go go look for yourself yeah i feel
03:56:56.960
like though yeah looked about the same as they do now i feel like back then too like food and stuff
03:57:02.320
was different so it's like i feel like a lot of times a lot of things are more processed nowadays so
03:57:05.840
i feel like because back then like people would eat the same stuff and do the same things a lot of
03:57:10.320
the times but i've they've changed a lot of that stuff so i feel like it's harder to keep that type of
03:57:16.160
body you know like because everyone if you look back in like the 50s like everybody did have hourglass
03:57:20.640
glass shapes and i feel like that does have a lot to do with like the food and stuff like nowadays
03:57:25.440
like the processed stuff that's not just the miniscot was was they all smoked in the 60s because
03:57:31.760
they didn't yeah smoking is an appetite suppression and you didn't see it like women smoked all women
03:57:39.040
smoked once upon a time almost every woman on in the united states was smoking and almost every man
03:57:44.800
was smoking it was prescribed by doctors to smoke for stress and it was an appetite curving that's
03:57:49.600
what it did so are you saying like smoking is what helped people keep the hourglass shape
03:57:54.160
it's one reason yeah keep skinny yeah and that's why people like yeah like vaping and stuff like
03:57:58.720
when you stop vaping you like turn to something else like and then the people like start doing like
03:58:02.800
well like certain people like if you stop vaping like they'll want to eat more then then they'll
03:58:07.040
gain weight and stuff like that and i could see why because it's still it's the nicotine
03:58:10.480
that suppresses it yeah well it wasn't just that you didn't have fast food you didn't have any of
03:58:15.520
that yeah exactly also the reason why the miniskirt was so popular in the 60s was because we didn't
03:58:21.520
have as much but we weren't as we were malnourished yeah so we you know women were skinnier so that's why
03:58:28.640
we could pull off miniskirts and very malnourished in the 60s not crazy okay not malnourished but it's
03:58:34.480
the opposite right oh okay like we were we were we had much better quality food well maybe but i
03:58:41.840
mean obesity levels now are much much much higher than in the 60s i'll just do you mean for men
03:58:49.360
yeah sorry you mean for men the t levels are lower now than they were in the 60s really
03:58:56.320
significantly oh i didn't know that so yeah the t levels in men have been dropping off since the early
03:59:02.560
1900s like a rock ah fascinating thanks for educating me there's a correlation of there's a
03:59:09.760
massive combination of factors that goes into it but it's a mixture of plastics diet bad genetics
03:59:17.440
i mean it there's a whole host of issues speculated as to why but uh yeah the testosterone
03:59:22.640
levels has drastically decreased in men almost globally by the way oh that makes sense okay
03:59:28.640
all right we have josh brooks british accent at beard rayleigh gate what what is coming for it yeah
03:59:44.720
please give me your best british accent and say this phrase thank you dude i don't understand what
03:59:49.520
you're up to josh brooks is this i'm not sure i'm not sure about this yeah that's uh that's an interesting
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one like you could have just signed for something i should have used a different paper that's annoying
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um okay one sec guys we're gonna get into the uh the questionnaire here i think actually you know
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what we're gonna oh you i'm sorry did you did i maybe i missed this did you say obesity or testosterone
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i'm sorry did you say obesity who meet me chair three yeah uh i said i i i thought that back in the
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60s people had more of a healthy body oh yeah yeah no that's what i was saying yeah that correct i'm
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sorry i think maybe i misheard you that's why i got so confused yeah yeah no no you're good somebody
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corrected me they were like no no she was talking about obesity yeah um yeah but i i guess i heard it
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it wrong so right my apologies there i was like oh my god i've got it completely wrong no no no no
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you had it completely right that is the case that in the in the uh 40s 50s 60s obesity was not an
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epidemic like it is right okay cool thank you for clarifying what are the what are the red blue pills
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yeah i was wondering from it's a reference to the film the matrix yeah i know i just didn't know
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if it was for that specifically yeah it's just like a little pro okay to the film uh okay so um
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that's pretty cool and i never knew that they made those like oh my god yeah there's fucking
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okay i'm just gonna do anya your questionnaire because it's all scuffed um the bloody you said
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that men should have the same standard body count as the women they're dating
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yeah so the question was if i disagreed with anything that's kind of talked about on the show
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um a lot i feel like a lot of times in the red pill community a lot of guys want women to have a low
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body count which i agree with but then they'll have a very different standard for themselves which to be
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fair i think body count is different for men and women i think men can have a higher body count than
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women and still with it working out um but i think if you're a man who has a body count of a hundred
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and you turn down a girl who's perfect but she has a body count of 15 and just because you're against
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the body count issue you have nowhere you have no room to talk so you think it's sorry sorry brian go
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ahead i mean do you do you think it's hypocritical you think it's unfair what
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um i i think it's the same reason that you want a woman to have a lower body count
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you'd kind of want the man to have a lower body count body count i don't know i mean i it's just
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it's kind of hypocritical which again i still state that it's it's different for men and women
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right but you would agree you well i don't know if you would agree with me but
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do you think that there are certain things that women want that they don't possess themselves yes
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okay like would it be hypocritical for example for a broke woman to have a preference or be attracted
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to like a really rich guy i think if yeah i think it would be strange for a woman it would be really
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rich of her to be like oh i only go for millionaires as she is making no money
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i don't think it would necessarily make her a hypocrite
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i mean i don't i think it would just she wouldn't have room to talk like
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she can't be that okay how about this one uh a woman who's not a professional athlete
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so what you're kind of muddying the water a little bit here by saying only wanting to date this
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so is that your original position so like what if a guy
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his his general preference is towards low body count women but he himself has a high body count okay
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well even if i was gonna see you know what i'll just bite on it so the the guy with a high body
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count he only wants to date low body count women okay don't actually have a problem with this um
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i i just i don't see what's wrong with it would it be wrong for i shouldn't ask i shouldn't even
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phrase it this way what would actually be wrong with a woman who has a preference for dating
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professional athletes but she's not a professional athlete and women do do this yeah like women do this
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why do they do it they do it for the money and the fame right or they're just attracted to
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professional athletes i don't know i mean now we're getting down to like what the root cause of
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attraction in that specific cases but i think if she was going on money and power right so if she's
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going after money and power then i would call her a gold digger um but i mean can you help who you're
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attracted to no okay i mean i think you can actually i think you can work towards it um you
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work towards it okay but if you can't help generally like can you right now find men you find unattractive
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i can somewhat push myself into it but i'd prefer not generally though right correct so if you only
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found men who were six feet tall attractive is that something you're not six feet tall right right
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okay so are you a hypocrite i mean i i i see what you're saying i think we're talking like what's
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the purpose of wanting a woman with a low body count right you're more attracted to it you're more
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attracted to it but why well let's just let's just assume that whatever the reason is is
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fucking ridiculous and stupid let's just assume it for the sake of the of the argument so what even if it
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was the case that it was just a stupid and ridiculous reason why they were attracted to
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it is that any less stupid ridiculous than the reason you're attracted to men who are six feet
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or taller i mean i think it's fair to want a woman with a low body count i'm not against that um yeah
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but that's not really the question the question isn't whether or not you think it's fair the question
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is is about it's about attraction right uh when you're talking about being attracted to men
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right who are let's say they're over six feet do you find men who are over six feet attractive
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i i think it's i guess then how does he feel about the fact that he does have a high body count
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and is that something that how do you feel about the fact that you're not six foot
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i i didn't put in my question if there'd be six but if i can jump in really quick let's just say
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let's just say you're attracted to men who are six feet or taller
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uh-huh what would be actually wrong with that i mean i don't think there's anything wrong with
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it i think it's just a little bit hypocritical that's it because you're not six feet or taller
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yourself no i'm saying the the body count debate is a is a little bit hypocritical i don't understand
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the difference though if you're attracted you also can't control your height if you're only yeah
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you can't control it but that's my whole point you can control your body control who you put it in
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okay maybe but so what but are you attracted to black men i mean i can find them conventionally
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attractive but they're not my type typically no okay and if there's white people who are not
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attracted to black men um because is that somehow wrong because that's an immutable characteristic
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i don't think it's wrong no yeah so it it's but body count is something you can control control
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you just and you can control this thing right but you can't control height or things like this
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like but you can't control skin color either and that could that could ruin your chances for a
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conventional attractiveness can't it right you can't you can't control your skin color you can't
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control your height and you can't control but you can control your body count you sure sure but
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what if you're attracted to women have a low body count you just don't want to have a low body
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count yourself i mean i think it would just be a little bit hypocritical because you the reason
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you want a woman with a low body count is because she is all yours you've had you have like the privacy
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of her she's i'm trying to look for the specific word i can't think of it but like she's all yours she
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hasn't been passed around by a bunch of men i wouldn't want a man who's been passed around by
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a bunch of women you know what i mean okay so you're saying you wouldn't find that attractive
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a man who's been passed around by a bunch of women not necessarily again i'm not saying he has to have
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a body count zero i think that's fair i think that there's some women who wouldn't find that attractive
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yeah but i think the overwhelming majority of men don't find it attractive when women have high
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body counts i agree and so here's here's where we run into this kind of issue so that woman there
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was a woman you just heard her talk who said you would be lucky to be with a woman like me you're
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still a virgin it seems that she's equating status with men who are able to have lots of sex with beautiful
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women that's really strange why would women do you think equate status with men who have sex with
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many beautiful women but also give them a lower status if they've had sex with no women i wouldn't
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give them a high status i would i don't think specifically i'm asking about women why is it
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that women seem to give a higher status to men i can't give you an answer because that's not the way
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i think women and give a lower status to men who have sex with no women you're asking you're asking me
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to explain you're asking me to explain the reason why a woman thinks the way she does when i don't think
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anything like her did she say did did she say beautiful women beautiful she like when she said
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she said that she's she she said that she was conventionally attractive and that the other woman
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was conventionally attractive and that these men would be lucky to have them because they're still
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virgins you see so if that's the case it sounds to me like she's assigning a lower social status i think
04:10:13.440
it's because she thinks women are the gatekeepers then she would assign to a man who was able to
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i don't know pull women in her category right i i think in i guess she's the hypocrite because
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she's thinking that women are the gatekeepers of sex or sorry schmacks uh women are the gatekeepers of
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schmacks but at the same time that meant like she's saying the same thing but for both sexes do you smoke
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somewhat yeah you shouldn't does that make me a hypocrite um how do you feel about it
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that you shouldn't smoke okay so i think we all do things that we know are bad for us yeah does it
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make me a hypocrite though i'm smoking i think a little bit if i tell my 10 year old not to smoke am
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i a hypocrite um no i guess not because you how come i'm not a hypocrite when i tell my 10 year old
04:11:20.240
not to smoke but only a hypocrite when i tell you not to no i mean if you told both of us not to
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i feel like it also comes with age like when you're legally allowed to hang on hang on before
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the sisterhood kicks in i just want to finish the exchange i mean i 10 years old why is it if i tell
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my 10 year old not to smoke even though i'm a smoker that i'm not a hypocrite i think it's because
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you're you're um you have a responsibility to instill knowledge and to instill values and to
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instill like behaviors into into your child this is you have a responsibility over this kid you don't
04:11:57.120
have any responsibility over me it's also leading by example the problem comes in is that you're you
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misunderstand what the word hypocrite means hypocrite does not mean i am doing the same thing i'm telling
04:12:09.120
you not to do that's not hypocrisy hypocrisy requires pretentious acting that's what hypocrisy
04:12:17.360
not believing what you're saying you're really fat and you're on a treadmill and you look over at a
04:12:22.320
guy who's really fat and you say hey you shouldn't be so fat that's not healthy for you there is no
04:12:27.920
hypocrisy there he's correct that guy is fat he does need to lose weight the status of you being fat
04:12:34.640
has no bearing on that whatsoever it's only if publicly i said smoking is bad let's say and then
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privately i was smoking away then i would be so so it's not believing the things that you're putting
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out there yeah there would be a sense of acting yes so if a man says that he prefers a woman with a
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low body count he himself has a high body count where's the acting okay so so that's that's what i said
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is that it depends on how he feels about it if he regrets it and he doesn't regret it that's all
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he seeks is virgins and that's all he wants how does that make him a hypocrite because he's not
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practicing what he believes no he is practicing what he isn't putting he believes that he should have a
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high body count and she shouldn't i mean i don't know i just where's the hypocrisy let me let me think
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it's just like i let's just say i'm fat because i am and i wanted a woman who was skinny right am i
04:13:36.640
a hypocrite that's your preference of course that's not hypocrisy that's not what hypocrisy
04:13:44.640
it's not i think you have a i think you have a bad idea of what hypocrisy i think with the smoking
04:13:50.000
thing it's more about um like trying to write what's the word um you want your son to grow up
04:14:00.400
to maybe not have the habits that you have so it's more about setting a good example
04:14:06.720
so it's not hypocrisy it is hypocrisy but how is it hypocrisy though well if you're smoking if i if i
04:14:13.600
smoke and tell you smoking is bad that's not hypocrisy well it's if i tell you smoking is bad
04:14:18.960
and i would never smoke if you if you're smoking a cigarette in front of your son and then tell him
04:14:23.840
not to smoke a cigarette that's hypocritical hypocrisy okay so so then okay so what is so
04:14:31.360
then the man in this scenario he would say a high body count is bad but then he has a high body count
04:14:37.920
himself yeah i'm sorry i'm sure i'm i'm getting a little bit lost on our definition what you're
04:14:44.800
doing because i feel like we're going more about what you're doing what you're doing is classic
04:14:48.640
reframing right sure in a case where a man says high body counts are bad right and he has a high
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body count maybe you could make the equation of hypocrisy then but that's not what men say
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okay so i guess that was they're saying i have a high body count and that's fine and i want a woman
04:15:06.000
who has a low body count that is not hypocrisy so so my statement is i guess i should have
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clarified in the note that a man who thinks that a high body count is bad and prefers women with lower
04:15:18.720
body counts but then at the same time goes out and sleeps with a bunch of women while also saying
04:15:24.320
that having a high body count is bad i think that that's hypocritical well that would be hypocritical
04:15:29.920
okay who's doing that so let me clear so that was that was the clarification on my opinion
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no i mean if you if there was a serial killer who told you serial killing was wrong he's not being
04:15:38.960
a hypocrite it's if the man was actively pursuing serial killers because he said it was wrong and
04:15:45.680
then secretly he was serial killing then he would be a hypocrite right so like for example like i've
04:15:51.360
seen fit i think their name is fit and fresh i think i've seen fit fresh say having a high body count
04:15:58.320
is bad but then at the same time they'll talk a lot about i can tell you right now that i can tell
04:16:05.280
you my room's exact position okay my room's exact position is that men and their status equation with
04:16:13.040
having a high body count for women actually makes them more attractive to women and women who have a
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higher body count makes them less attractive to men and here's how he backs this up and it's really hard
04:16:25.360
to argue this point because what he says is look women will usually insult men and put them in a lower
04:16:33.760
social category if they haven't had sex with multiple women they say you can't pull women you're in a lower
04:16:42.160
social category women though never put men in a lower social category because they have slept with many
04:16:48.560
women i actually if i um go on a date with a guy and he tells me he slept with like like loads and
04:16:57.360
loads of girls it actually puts me off him sure if it's like one of attractive hang on your preference
04:17:02.800
for attraction may go down sure but that doesn't mean his social status goes down with women because it
04:17:09.280
doesn't it's your particular your particular and specific preference may go away just like your
04:17:14.800
preference maybe to have blonde haired guys that doesn't mean that the social status of a man goes
04:17:19.600
down because he doesn't have blonde hair the truth of the matter is is the social status of men at least
04:17:25.040
in the current society if they can have sex with beautiful women is real high well and the social
04:17:30.720
status for women having sex with multiple men is not because it's really easy for women to do that
04:17:35.440
isn't it yeah like of course any any pretty much any woman can walk outside and get laid within five
04:17:42.240
seconds if you and i go out if you and i go out to the street tomorrow and we're holding a sign
04:17:45.920
and you say first man who honks i'll suck your dick right and i say first woman who honks i'll
04:17:51.440
sleep with you who do you think is gonna get honked at first probably the girl for sure of course yeah
04:17:56.240
the girl for sure so it's not some big feat it's not some great task that you've accomplished is it
04:18:01.760
oh absolutely not i don't think that a woman having a huge body count is a something to be proud of at all
04:18:07.280
but for a man it is actually a big task isn't it that if you could pull tons of beautiful women
04:18:16.080
that actually is something which is uh which is not something most men can do but for women seems
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to be super duper easy so that's why the social status seems to be associated with that you said
04:18:27.520
something specific you said if he can sleep with many beautiful women i think
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i think women can sleep can sleep with a lot of men but they but certain women choose to be chase
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right that's the word chase yes um and their value goes exponentially higher exponentially higher
04:18:46.640
so man's does not if if you look at a man you're like oh yeah he can definitely get it but then you
04:18:53.600
talk to him and he's like yeah i don't throw myself around there i think on maybe we can go around
04:18:59.600
and ask that as a red flag actually can we actually go around and ask because most women will see men
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in their 30s who are virgins as being red flags what's wrong with him okay if i going on with him
04:19:10.240
what's the problem with that guy okay but like if i see a conventionally attractive man and i know that
04:19:16.000
he could get any woman in the bar at that at that specific time and then i come up to talk to him
04:19:20.720
and he's like yeah i've actually only really had one relationship i only had one partner i that would
04:19:26.080
instantly make me attracted to him that's how i i honestly think everybody here would agree with
04:19:30.400
that i think we can see an attractive man understand that he can get it but knowing that he didn't is
04:19:37.200
hot and it's the same way for women yeah well let's find out if this is true okay we'll we'll do this
04:19:42.880
with just a quick social experiment i'm ready to be proved wrong i want you i if you have slept with
04:19:48.720
more than three men who have had only one body or less raise your hand
04:19:57.760
if you have slept with more than two men who have had more than five bodies raise your hand
04:20:07.200
if you have slept with more than three men more than three men and those three men have had more
04:20:12.800
than five bodies raise your hand oh wait sorry i was getting confused how what's confusing about
04:20:20.800
this sorry it's a man if you've slept with three men three not three no sorry okay who have had more
04:20:33.920
raise it up come on raise it up you fucking lying raise your yeah there we go but nobody's raising
04:20:44.400
their fucking hand when it came to the man who had only slept with one but you want me to believe that
04:20:50.000
you just find them to be conventionally attractive yeah right tell me some more
04:20:55.040
bullshit some other time i feel like it's kind of hard to find men that's only slept with like one
04:21:00.560
good guy especially like well like where we're where we are at like in la and stuff i feel like
04:21:05.120
a lot of people like typically it's either you haven't had sex with anyone because you're saving
04:21:09.840
yourself or like you've had sex with more people when it comes to men that's how i feel let's see
04:21:15.840
let's let's put this to the test do you think it's easier to find men with a lower body count or
04:21:20.640
women with a lower body count women you think it's easier to find women with a lower body count
04:21:26.880
yeah shall we go through this just because we can get more doesn't mean that we do hang on can we
04:21:33.040
shall we go through the stats of how many men remain virgins versus women by the time they're 21
04:21:41.360
years old you want to go through those stats i'd love to let's do it because they're watching porn and
04:21:46.480
they don't have hunter mentality men definitely have a lower body count than women in general definitely
04:21:51.360
have a lower body count i disagree generally speaking than women doing their same age bracket
04:21:56.080
and why because of sex selection it's just sex selection they just can't maybe i've seen the
04:22:00.640
wrong people because all the men i know i think it's also age brackets so i feel like women sleep
04:22:08.560
asleep women get more action when they're younger so between the ages of probably i'm i'm pulling this
04:22:15.520
out of nowhere but probably like 18 to 22 and then men are probably getting more action once they've
04:22:22.400
actually set up their careers they're making more money in the field women are more attracted to them
04:22:28.880
so then it's like 24 to no they stay sluts for a minute yeah but i'm saying like when to at which i'd
04:22:37.600
actually really be interested in seeing the numbers on this is when each sex um kind of accumulates
04:22:45.440
their body count at what ages generally do you understand what i'm saying he's not he's not even
04:22:53.040
here he's gone well here do we understand what i'm saying well he's like kind of about what i want
04:22:59.440
to bring it back to like the central thing that we were talking about hide the discord really quick
04:23:03.440
um until he's back so to your original point you're like oh well a guy who has a high body count if he
04:23:09.360
desires a low body count woman or virgin blah blah like that's wrong whatever but on that same
04:23:15.200
questionnaire you indicated that you have an expectation that men pay for first dates okay
04:23:22.320
you have that expectation you have that desire you have that want do you pay for first dates
04:23:30.800
i mean i haven't gone on many dates but the ones i have no or even if you don't go on many dates
04:23:38.000
do you want to pay for the first date no if like if so you desire something in a partner that either
04:23:45.520
in this case the trait of willingness to pay for the date you don't possess said trait of willingness
04:23:50.640
to pay for the date yet you want men to pay for the date i don't think it's wrong i think what we
04:23:56.240
clarified was was it would be me saying that it's wrong to want men to pay on the first date
04:24:04.080
i've and then expecting that out of men because that's what we clarified with andrew on was that
04:24:10.800
i clear i clarified my opinion was that i think a man a man who thinks a high body count is bad but
04:24:18.800
then expects that out of a woman that is hypocritical and i think that's what we agreed on was that that's
04:24:25.840
the definition of hypocrisy just is the case that it is the case perhaps this is pattern recognition
04:24:32.880
that this high body count man through his experience and through getting that high body count he's
04:24:38.400
realized well it seems like the women that i've had longer term relationships with or the more pleasant
04:24:43.360
women uh or just like a general vague sense of lack of an ick or whatever it is he's come to that
04:24:51.840
determination through his high body count i prefer low body count women what's what's actually wrong
04:24:58.720
with that i feel like everyone's allowed to have don't we don't we all want to get the best that we
04:25:03.440
can get yes and if we can get it we're going to go for it so if it is the case that the highest quality
04:25:10.320
women the best quality partners girlfriends wives whatever the lower body count the better
04:25:15.840
wouldn't even men who are promiscuous themselves have a preference towards low body count women
04:25:22.560
because these women uh lower likelihood of stds but does he think a high body count is bad does he
04:25:29.680
think a high body count is bad uh why women he thinks a high body sure let's say he thinks it's because
04:25:36.960
that was the clarification that we came upon was that if he thinks it's bad but because that was the
04:25:42.960
definition of having a look if he thinks that having a high body count um in general is bad
04:25:50.640
yes right like oh this is this is bad this is uh this is blah blah blah blah he can still a man can
04:25:57.120
have a preference even if he has a high body count to have a woman with a low body count that's not
04:26:01.600
hypocrisy it would only be if he's at making a moral advocation of x while at the same time doing x that
04:26:08.960
would be what would make him a hypocrite agreed so initially it would be i'll just tell you the
04:26:14.480
definition so but agreed so so he wouldn't be continuing to have moral standards or beliefs
04:26:20.320
to which one owns behavior does not conform that's hypocrisy okay so he has a belief that having a high
04:26:29.280
body count is bad but his actions as you just said don't conform to that how is his actions not conforming
04:26:36.560
to it after having a high body count that he doesn't regret or he doesn't think hey maybe
04:26:43.120
he does let's say he regrets it but he still has a preference for a woman with a lower body count that
04:26:47.760
wouldn't make him a hypocrite right wait i'm sorry say that again there's like people screaming
04:26:54.320
don't say he says high body counts in men and women are generally bad right they're bad men shouldn't be
04:27:01.440
promiscuous and women shouldn't be promiscuous but in my dating life i prefer women who have a low body
04:27:07.360
count that is not hypocrisy but wasn't that what we agreed on was hypocrisy no you said something
04:27:15.360
different earlier i think well you said that there was an advocation that he was saying a high body count
04:27:20.960
is bad while he was out right that's what that's that is what i'm saying is that that's a distinctly
04:27:27.920
different thing if he settles down and says i'm not going to increase my i'm not gonna keep doing
04:27:34.080
what i'm doing and keep sleeping around that's what i'm saying then that's fine but if he continues
04:27:40.640
sleeping around and at the same time he's let's say running through all of us and telling every single
04:27:46.240
one of us but high body count is bad high body count is bad and just running through us that's that's
04:27:52.080
when i think it's kind of silly yeah that would be a moral advocation of a thing you don't actually
04:27:56.640
believe true you're saying but that's only if the inference is towards the man if he's saying in
04:28:02.640
both men i'm saying both this is bad then yeah that would be a hypocrite i'm saying both yes if
04:28:10.320
that was his advocation both that's bad and they continue to do the behavior yeah that would be
04:28:15.440
hypocrisy correct that's my statement that's what i'm saying yeah but that doesn't like that doesn't
04:28:20.640
help us reconcile anything because it's not actual hypocrisy then if a man has a high body count
04:28:26.400
prefers a woman with a lower body count it would just come down to preference right not hypocrisy
04:28:31.360
can i okay so i'll take the paper and i'll rewrite my statement into exactly what you and i just stated
04:28:36.800
is that and i'll write it with the 1500 characters is that if he it's not 1500 characters i'm just
04:28:43.280
making sure that we're clear on what it is we're talking about that's all and yes that is the
04:28:46.640
clarification is that if he continues saying that a high body count is bad but continues in those
04:28:51.760
actions and we're talking about men and women not for men not for women and continues in those
04:28:56.960
actions i think that's hypocritical well and the other thing is is to remember like on on the myron
04:29:03.840
side everything that he's saying there when it comes to power dynamics between men and women
04:29:09.840
seemingly plays out socially as being at least somewhat true when men have these ridiculously high
04:29:16.560
body counts they pull in let's just say that they slept with three three hundred women right and
04:29:22.320
they're uh you know multi-millionaires and things like this their social status in society doesn't
04:29:28.320
seem to go down a bit it just doesn't seem to go down a bit just because they win drastically nosedive
04:29:35.280
for women just because they win from it doesn't mean it's good like just because i'm making money from
04:29:40.160
of doesn't mean that's good look i don't advocate for that can i just say something really to you
04:29:45.040
why why he comes to this can you guys finish up your uh exchange it's literally just gonna be 30
04:29:52.800
seconds is it is it related to this yeah yeah yeah um and i know this i'm not condoning i don't know
04:29:58.960
but men i think are hardwired to sort of this is very uh cringe but to spread their seed and women
04:30:07.280
are meant to because you know they're pregnant for nine months so it's like on an animalistic level
04:30:14.960
it kind of makes sense that maybe men would have more sexual partners than women i could i could
04:30:20.640
i wish i'd explain that better but well just because you're programmed or want to do something
04:30:25.360
doesn't necessarily mean it's correct like for example like well i i understand but you can say the
04:30:30.480
same thing about gay people they they make the same argument well i'm i was born and i was wired
04:30:36.800
to have schmecks with the op with the same uh same sex so it's right for me to do it i'm not saying
04:30:44.560
it's right or wrong i'm just saying that's the argument that they make but i feel like like there
04:30:49.200
are people like men are actually meant to like do that like that's just a choice like people like i
04:30:55.440
agree so but like that's like actually like in like how you know like the guys are there to produce so
04:31:01.760
i could see why it could be like more because i think that's where i think that's where religion
04:31:05.760
comes in is that like okay so are we saying that cheating on your wife is good just so you can spread
04:31:12.640
your seed all over no because i'm not saying it's acceptable i'm just saying that maybe that's one of
04:31:18.480
the reasons why it's more acceptable in a way for a man to have a higher body count than a woman i think
04:31:25.200
it's way simpler than this i think that um in women's lizard brain man who virgin right can't
04:31:33.840
pull women red flag come up in lizard brain man who lots of women like green flag come up in lizard
04:31:41.280
brain super simple i don't even think it's that complex oh lots of women like him there must be
04:31:47.360
something about him that's great oh women don't like him there must be something about him that's
04:31:52.320
bad i think it's really that simple i don't i think that all of this uh is uh an over you're over
04:31:59.200
uh or trying to make something complex it's not really that complex if it is the case that women
04:32:04.240
avoid the company of a man right likely it raises a red flag in the lizard brain of other women why
04:32:12.160
is everybody avoiding the company of this man and if you see a man on the other hand who women seem to
04:32:17.120
really enjoy his company i think that it you go well i wonder what that's all about that's what i
04:32:23.280
think i don't even think it's that complex well the the question was what did i think about it did
04:32:29.520
i think it was hypocritical maybe all the women here don't think it's hypocritical maybe they all
04:32:34.080
want a man with a high body count but i'm saying for me personally i think it's hypocritical and it's
04:32:39.360
not something i would want in a partner is and again i'm not saying you're you're also making a black
04:32:44.640
and white statement you're saying he's either getting thousands of women or he's getting no
04:32:48.560
women i i want somebody who's like over here i'll make it super simple i'll make it super simple
04:32:54.800
me and andrew don't have objections to women having the preference of i myself as a woman
04:33:00.800
want a low body count man but would you be willing to agree to this that generally speaking
04:33:06.240
women are far more forgiving of promiscuity in men than the reverse like women will deal with
04:33:14.000
if if the guy's super attractive and he's got a high body count then that's that's like less of
04:33:20.720
a big deal whereas promiscuity in women is a bigger bigger issue i can agree to that on a societal level
04:33:28.160
okay i'm not saying on a personal level but on a societal level yes women yeah i'm not saying it's
04:33:32.240
the case for you yes but i would say generally speaking women either care a little bit i agree less
04:33:38.160
don't care at all uh chris brown who's probably slept with hundreds if not thousands of women
04:33:43.440
and also has a history of like i could see that alleged domestic violence or like maybe it was
04:33:48.320
well is it alleged i don't know whatever uh you just look at the men do tend to care more that's
04:33:54.000
for sure like like literally just look at the groupie phenomenon there's rock stars out there they got
04:33:59.680
the hundreds of female groupies who were just on demand to sleep with them whenever they want that does
04:34:05.120
not happen in reverse that it does not happen you don't see a bunch of females out there who are big
04:34:11.120
pop stars and this and that have hundreds of male groupies who follow them around you just don't see
04:34:15.840
it it's not the same thing when you're looking at the social status what is compelling all those women
04:34:21.200
to fuck the rock star what is doing that what is compelling those women to uh get a hold of the serial
04:34:27.520
killer in prison and have sex with him what what is the deal with this right that is that is not a
04:34:32.560
phenomenon which happens in reverse it doesn't happen to reverse although uh i don't know there's
04:34:39.600
a lot of desperate dudes though like the dudes who fuck bonnie blue no yeah that's that is that is
04:34:46.320
a fair comparison but it's not it's not impressive because any woman can go out tomorrow and be bonnie
04:34:52.720
blue any woman sitting at this table tomorrow can walk out in the middle of the street hold up a sign
04:34:58.560
say any man who wants to fuck me right now can and there's going to be an unlimited supply of men
04:35:03.120
who are going to pull up bonnie blue is revolting but so are the men who are engaging in that they are
04:35:08.800
revolting as well hang on hang on lady if a man goes out there and holds up a sign and says hey i'm open
04:35:16.240
for business okay he's gonna go home real fucking disappointed that's just the truth wait i have a really
04:35:22.720
good test i have a really good test for this anya who's a guy maybe you can give us a male celebrity
04:35:28.880
who's like your celebrity crush who you just you really find super hot super attractive morgan wallen
04:35:39.440
and i'm sure he has a body count of a million morgan wallen but but so so the question is hold on god damn
04:35:47.440
the question is if you knew that he had slept with a thousand women but he wanted a long-term relationship
04:35:54.640
with you and he was serious about you whatever whatever kind of relationship dynamic you wanted
04:36:00.640
would you date him is he that the it's behind him i mean yeah i would still get in i would if he if he said
04:36:12.160
i'm done with this lifestyle i'm done with you know sleeping around with tons and tons of women
04:36:17.120
and i'm ready to commit to just to you and then okay sure and then how about this uh he's still
04:36:22.560
actively kind of being promiscuous but you get the opportunity to hook up with him do you do it
04:36:27.760
probably not i don't like a roster you pass off yeah what do you mean i don't like i don't have a
04:36:33.200
roster i don't like being on but there's no male celebrity you could think of like despite him being
04:36:38.160
maybe promiscuous actively let's like remove like risk of stds or whatever from this no you
04:36:44.080
would i think just leads to heartbreak because women sex for schmex for women is very different
04:36:48.560
than schmex for men and women get very attached are there any girls here who like your male celebrity
04:36:55.120
crush whoever you think is like super attractive maybe they're promiscuous maybe they're not let's
04:36:59.600
assume they are would you have a casual encounter with your i don't know the guy who you think is like
04:37:06.400
the sexiest man in the world whatever like for example like like so let's say he was already he
04:37:15.360
was messing around still would i still do something with him is that what you're asking sure i mean if
04:37:21.680
like i was here let's start with this who's your male celebrity crush um
04:37:28.480
does somebody else can i'm sorry can somebody else who can actually give me an answer just please give
04:37:33.520
me an answer i can try okay so my celebrity crush is theo vaughn right okay if he asked me out on a
04:37:40.720
date i would definitely go and he's obviously slept with thousands and thousands of women but would i
04:37:45.920
just have a casual um one night stand with him probably not because i've never done anything like
04:37:50.160
that before sure but you don't rule him out as a potential partner but no but just just so i can get
04:37:56.480
through this what about you chloe um literally morgan wallen is like like one of my biggest celebrity
04:38:03.680
crushes okay would you um but i wouldn't sleep with him if i just met him but i would if he wanted a
04:38:12.480
long-term relationship all right what about you um i would say maybe zach efron okay zach efron yeah okay
04:38:22.640
what about you honestly i can't think of anybody okay what uh what about you over here no i wouldn't
04:38:34.320
hypothetically if you weren't no hypothetically i wouldn't even if i was single i don't i find it
04:38:39.120
meaningless to have casual sex okay what about would you okay what about a date would you go on a date
04:38:46.560
with him no because no because if i if there is no intention or purpose behind that date i wouldn't
04:38:54.320
no there's an intention he's he's willing to date you okay yeah if it's going to lead into something
04:38:59.680
more with purpose and like commitment what if your celebrity crush had slept with a thousand women before
04:39:05.040
though it would definitely be in the back of my mind but i don't think it would be equal to what a guy's
04:39:12.880
perspective would be towards women okay so the point i was trying to make here is at least for me
04:39:19.120
you could present to me whatever the most attractive woman i've ever seen if i know even for a casual
04:39:25.440
encounter or long term if i know that she's actively promiscuous it's a hundred percent a deal breaker if
04:39:32.560
she fucked a dude last night i don't care how hot she is for me it's a wrap it's over don't care how
04:39:39.280
hot she is don't care how outside of my league she is don't care she fucked another dude last night
04:39:45.040
not interested if she's got a high body count not interested it's just a hundred percent a deal
04:39:49.760
breaker for men well excuse me i shouldn't say for you it's for me for me it's a hundred percent a deal
04:39:54.880
breaker don't care how hot she is don't want to have sex with her once don't want to friends with
04:40:00.080
benefits don't want a relationship don't want anything with a girl who's currently actively
04:40:05.440
fucking other men or has a past of promiscuity well let's say like is someone like for example
04:40:10.880
how you guys were talking about how if a guy like wanted to change his ways like let's say a girl
04:40:15.440
when she was younger and um whatever was doing a bunch of stuff like and they didn't want to be
04:40:19.920
like that anymore you would say that that would affect it like completely like you want to give them
04:40:23.920
like any benefit of the doubt like the million that's the million dollar question right you really
04:40:29.600
you finally kind of kind of hit on the thing we're getting at here so i think that since all of you
04:40:35.760
basically said you know if it came to my celebrity crush and they're reformed i would still go on a
04:40:40.800
date with them you know and maybe if if things went well you know yeah i would definitely settle down
04:40:46.640
with a guy maybe he's a really good guy something like this for a lot of men it's a complete disqualifier
04:40:51.360
immediately right even if your past still remains with you there's a lot of this that happens where
04:40:57.360
women will move over to the christian church right after having a uh love life filled with
04:41:03.520
threesomes and every horrible thing in the world and they should right they should come into christ i
04:41:08.320
agree with that but it doesn't erase their past you don't get to buy a new reputation so a lot of them
04:41:13.200
think that they deserve to have men who are extremely high quality even though they have that past and
04:41:18.640
well they don't men still have a preference against that they're like well you know you did
04:41:23.920
fuck 300 guys and uh yeah i'm gonna you know take a hard pass on that or uh you know even 20 or 15
04:41:31.600
or 10 you know and uh the reason for that is because exponentially it makes them feel like they're not
04:41:37.680
special really if you think about it what isn't that really what they would feel like like oh okay well
04:41:44.240
yeah i have you but so did fucking half the block right they wouldn't why would they why would it make
04:41:48.560
them feel good about themselves right that's not an accomplishment right when when you mentioned
04:41:54.480
groupies not as i'm not saying you were using it to justify but when you mentioned groupies as a
04:42:00.640
example of kind of how this dynamic works i don't i don't think just because it happens that it's okay
04:42:07.760
um and i think it's also just a product of dating culture well look i agree i don't i don't think male
04:42:16.560
promiscuity is good i don't think female promiscuity is good so we're on the same page about it on yeah
04:42:21.520
on both on both fronts i think both are bad i'm not uh i'm not in the same camp as a lot of uh
04:42:27.600
different people are i think it's bad for men generally to be promiscuous but i also understand
04:42:32.960
social dynamics and while i can say both things are bad i can clearly tell that women care way less
04:42:39.520
about it than men do then if that's the case and that needs to be taken into account in the dating scene
04:42:44.800
right it really does because what happens is women limit their prospects later for fun now i feel
04:42:51.840
like yeah and if that's like something that someone wants i feel like there shouldn't be a problem in
04:42:55.600
looking because you know everybody like when you're looking for somebody that you want to be with like
04:42:59.520
you obviously everyone's going to have certain standards so i feel like if that's just what somebody
04:43:04.080
wants to hold a standard to then i would say that that is their right to do so you know some people
04:43:09.840
are different but i feel like that that is completely like understandable if that's something
04:43:15.120
like in their future like where they know like they're going to spend the rest of their life
04:43:18.000
with this person if that's something that they wanted to have in a woman then i feel like that
04:43:22.800
could that should be respected because there's a million different people the thing is funny about
04:43:28.960
all this is like i know i can tell you how history is going to go i like in a crystal ball right
04:43:34.640
now i'll tell you exactly how it's going to go you can imagine that men let's just say men magically
04:43:41.600
tomorrow had access to the nfl in mass they could all just go play for the nfl whenever they you know
04:43:48.800
basically any of them could just go do that a lot of them would go do that they would get brain damaged
04:43:53.440
they would get up they get all kinds of messed up going and playing in the nfl right but when they
04:43:58.080
were young they wouldn't care because they'd be making a bunch of that nfl money they wouldn't care
04:44:02.880
they wouldn't think about the stage two stage three of life they would only think about that
04:44:06.880
stage one what we're seeing right now is the phenomenon of women in the same exact
04:44:12.400
uh mindset they can all join the nfl they can all join of and be part of that sexual elite and make
04:44:20.080
that big bag of cash easy money right but that's only stage one what happens when he gets a stage two
04:44:28.560
and stage three well the boxers men who box they get brain damage they get messed up they have all
04:44:33.760
sorts of consequences men in the nfl all sorts of consequences men who do these things end up with
04:44:39.360
severe damage in exchange for that money same shit's going to happen to all these only fans girls same
04:44:44.960
stuff they're not preparing for the future they're not preparing for the future of them they're only
04:44:49.920
preparing for the right now them and you can imagine the damage that would do to men if they had that kind
04:44:54.960
of access but for some reason women don't even think about the amount of damage they're doing to
04:44:59.840
themselves well then you've got to blame the men in a way because they're the ones who are paying for
04:45:03.600
it you got to just let him finish his thought before yeah you're going to run in you're going to run into
04:45:07.200
stage two of life and you're not there yet and when you get there you're going to realize that oh
04:45:12.240
shit yeah there's a heavy heavy price and a heavy toll to be paid for the bag now i'm not i know any
04:45:20.240
funds okay um chair one you're in the corn business most men in the corn business have to start with
04:45:25.360
corning men so would you be exclusive with a guy with a higher body count than men why was just making
04:45:30.400
money like you thank you zach for the super chat would i be exclusive with a guy with a higher body count
04:45:37.120
um than women um that i think that's presupposing that i have a high body count just because i'm in
04:45:44.320
the corn industry um i don't um well he's also saying that often men i mean this is like in the
04:45:52.160
traditional adult entertainment industry that they start out sleeping with men i don't know if that's
04:45:59.600
really the case anymore but i don't really know like what the point of the question is because it's like
04:46:04.240
he's basically asking me what i there's two different things here he's saying would you sleep
04:46:10.000
with a man who slept with other men here i i'll frame it like this do you think a woman's past should
04:46:14.000
not matter i think it should matter somewhat i think there's body count yeah her body count
04:46:20.880
yeah like if a guy didn't want to date you just because of your body count i think that's totally
04:46:25.600
fair okay that's totally i think he would then argue okay well if if you said oh woman's past shouldn't
04:46:31.600
matter he would probably pause it well okay what about a guy who used to sleep with men no that's
04:46:36.560
totally fair okay i i i wouldn't sleep with a man who has slept with other men going to chloe uh should
04:46:44.320
a woman's past matter um no or no yes it does matter sorry and bell um yeah i think so i think that men
04:46:56.080
respect women who aren't easy what about you like i like uh she said the first that i feel like it
04:47:05.120
it depends to a point like and to a point okay what about you i would say yeah um past project past
04:47:13.280
matters yeah okay what about you into the mic for me if a guy chose not to be with me can you tilt your
04:47:18.960
mic down can you move your mic over this way sorry i keep going is this one leave it where it is please
04:47:23.840
is this one right here yeah you're fine okay cool so i would say that if a guy didn't want to be with
04:47:28.720
me due to my body count then he's not the right guy for me so okay so it shouldn't matter uh okay no not
04:47:34.880
at all um it should matter just like we were talking previously about preferences of life choices you know
04:47:42.960
to do only founds or to not do it it should be the preference of a man or a woman to decide whether
04:47:49.600
they want to pursue this partner and it's all about compatibility all right going around the table
04:47:54.880
then people you know past should matter should matter uh body count felicity you go first two
04:48:00.960
uh we're gonna skip over to chloe um five okay we're gonna go around we're gonna go to you
04:48:09.680
i mean i don't really want to like talk about that because i don't really know exactly like did you lose
04:48:14.480
track no i just don't feel like i really want to talk about that topic exactly because i'm not
04:48:21.040
i don't really want to like i would say like seven but like i don't really want to i don't really want
04:48:25.040
to say that but i feel like it doesn't really matter okay um going to you body count i never counted
04:48:34.800
ever you want to do a range a ballpark um for me specifically i've probably been i'm 44 years old
04:48:42.480
um i don't know at least 100 men and if you include women probably 200 okay and wait question um do you
04:48:54.640
recall what it was like because you guys opened up your relationship right um what was it like when you
04:49:03.040
got married when i got married um i i really honestly never ever counted but but do you think
04:49:14.240
that that the high proportion of that you said 100 plus for including men 200 plus if you include women
04:49:21.760
do you think that that occurred half after you opened up the marriage and then started doing i probably say
04:49:27.120
half and half yeah i was promiscuous when i was young okay i had no intention on getting married or
04:49:35.120
doing anything like that so you think it was maybe between the range of like 50 to 100 prior to marriage
04:49:40.080
yeah i'd say around yeah 50 i'd probably say 50 women 50 men before marriage and then 50 women 50 men
04:49:48.320
after marriage didn't you get married super young at 19 yes 19 wait yeah sorry 19 years old you had 50 and 50
04:49:57.280
yeah oh yeah i would i mean i never counted like i told you you're asking me a question of i never for
04:50:06.720
me what i never saw a point of counting like if i wanted to to have sex with somebody i would do it
04:50:13.600
was it um do you recall like how young were you when you first yeah i lost my virginity at 13
04:50:22.880
like with a boyfriend or yeah with a boyfriend well it was my best friend's brother to be honest with
04:50:28.960
you oh well she knew sorry she knew and then by like the end of high school do you know what it might
04:50:38.240
have been by like end of high school i i never ever counted i was never one of those people that
04:50:44.240
were like oh you know there was bobby and justin and damien and jaquervius i've been on on my own
04:50:56.160
since i was 13 years old right when girls were worrying about prom and dances and things like that
04:51:01.520
i was worrying about like how i was going to feed myself where i was going to stay things to that
04:51:06.880
nature right i just came from a completely different life wait have you done any escorting
04:51:11.680
oh no i never did no i never did that i i mean i i worked i had a job uh i lived on a reservation i
04:51:18.400
had a job at arby's at 14 years old i was doing paper routes i was literally surviving by the age of 16
04:51:26.080
i was traveling across the united states selling magazines door to door and i had a fake idea i was
04:51:31.120
going to bars i was having one night stands i was going mardi gras i was just doing crazy things that
04:51:36.160
a normal 24 25 year old do but at a very young age i had to grow up extremely fast
04:51:43.360
so i just never i i just why girls were worrying about prom dresses like i wasn't going like one
04:51:50.880
there's freddie and lisa and marie and all that kind of stuff i was living it up got it okay moving
04:51:58.160
through the rest of the notes here uh chloe really quick just a recap here you said last show that you
04:52:03.520
pass out during sex because of a condition that you have yeah what do you want to talk about
04:52:12.320
well that's one of the reasons why i have i think like a i mean some people might think that
04:52:17.680
five is like a high body count but for me um like i just don't like trust people because i have that
04:52:27.040
problem with passing out um because you can like take advantage of me um so yeah doesn't it only happen
04:52:36.080
though while you're already having no like if someone fingers me or like eats me out it happens too
04:52:44.400
oh allegedly allegedly we don't know if this is a ruse we don't know what the truth is chloe
04:52:52.880
we don't know how can you make that also from the previous question on body count um those of you
04:53:00.560
who answered the body count question can you quickly raise your hand very quickly oh wait we need to
04:53:04.800
did we not get the answer oh anya okay really quick let's finish it anya body count uh five men two
04:53:10.320
women body count i prefer quality over quantity and i'm so 50
04:53:16.400
no but i'm basically just my boyfriend's so which has been like a million like five so
04:53:26.480
multiply it by three and that's the real number five okay whatever there wasn't there wasn't that one
04:53:32.640
time in ibiza there wasn't that one time there wasn't that one time in monaco no back then there
04:53:40.960
wasn't i was too busy doing drugs and drinking then oh i'm joking i'm joking i'm joking i'm joking
04:53:53.680
did we get body count one i wish it was zero biggest is it your boyfriend regret wait sorry uh
04:54:02.560
yeah i said one wish it was zero biggest regret and mistake because i wish i like waited was it is
04:54:09.520
it your current relationship yeah but you regret wait question yeah i just regret not waiting
04:54:16.240
i just wish like it was postponed like i wish it didn't happen but are you guys
04:54:22.480
so you like had nothing to do with him personally i just personally i wish i had waited you know but so
04:54:30.080
are you continuing to wait um or are you guys in an active sexual relationship um no it has nothing
04:54:38.720
to do with whether we are or not it's just i wish it never happened no i know i'm just asking it's
04:54:43.360
off of just the way that i like perceived okay but i'm just i'm just asking i get that you wish it never
04:54:50.480
happened are you it's with your current boyfriend yeah are you guys in an actively sexually active
04:54:59.760
relationship no so it's like a one-time mistake not a one-time like it happened but he's like the only
04:55:06.560
person that's why i wish it never happened does that make sense so it happened once no it happened
04:55:12.480
multiple times but i'm talking about like it happened with one specific person i just wish
04:55:17.040
it never happened with your current boyfriend yes okay like i wish i waited like i wish it didn't
04:55:24.240
happen wait so you guys so you've been dating for three years yes how far into the relationship
04:55:29.680
did that happen um i would say like within the first year okay but you guys are now
04:55:36.640
both remaining celibate yeah was that your idea or his mine is he a religious guy is he also orthodox
04:55:44.080
christian i would yeah he is but like him aside just personal preference i go i wish it never happened
04:55:50.400
no just to him nothing towards him specifically okay um and was he on was he on board with that
04:56:00.480
yeah with uh not having sex anymore okay uh everybody answered the body count question um i would
04:56:08.880
prefer not to say do you want to do range or ballpark uh less than 10. okay nope so my my follow-up here
04:56:19.200
okay this is a fun social experiment so all you guys got to put your hands on the table right in
04:56:24.560
front of you go ahead everybody puts their hands on the table right in front of them all right so i'm
04:56:31.840
going to ask a question and i if if after i'm done with the question i just want you to raise your hand
04:56:38.400
okay if uh if you know depending on if it's true or false raise your hand if i asked you if your body
04:56:47.680
count would increase based on blowjobs would it raise your hand
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and capping ass lying ass i don't know i don't know i don't know it has
04:57:03.440
fucking women fucking happening maybe so every single time you like
04:57:09.200
like had a blowjob like you had sex but no every time you you know said no no would your body count
04:57:15.600
increase if you counted blowjobs if you counted blowjobs would your body count increase show of hands
04:57:20.480
all right all right all right i really didn't like to keep counting anyways
04:57:30.800
all right all right i'm just asking if the body count would increase would that body count answer be
04:57:44.560
different if we based it on things like blowjobs fingerings things like that with the ball with the
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body count probably fingering and stuff like that might have changed because like when you're younger
04:58:07.600
you know like i feel like it was like different because like we like i didn't have sex with like
04:58:12.800
i didn't have sex until like i was with the guy for like three years we and him were together for
04:58:16.640
like two and a half three years almost but before that like i've done like little side things like
04:58:22.480
that like when you're like younger moving on to the notes annabelle you said you used to live in
04:58:27.920
london when you were 23 you're the epitome of a good girl you ended up doing a runaway bride type
04:58:33.920
situation you actually ended up running away with your fiance's best friend but that relationship
04:58:40.560
ended up being six years so arguably the cheating which you still felt bad about was kind of worth it
04:58:48.160
well yeah well i still feel like that's such a sickening and awful thing to do but i did
04:58:57.760
i'm sorry um however the only thing that kind of like stops me from kind of hating myself so much
04:59:06.400
about what i did is that at least the person that i ran away with and cheated on like it was quite it
04:59:12.240
was a long and loving relationship and i i but like i take full accountability and trust me karma got me
04:59:19.360
a couple questions here on this um so you guys were engaged yeah how long had you guys been dating
04:59:26.400
uh two years okay and a clarifying question had you was there infidelity prior to the running away
04:59:37.120
bit that was we kissed and then we it was kind of like it sounds this sounds really really really
04:59:44.320
crazy but like the moment we kissed we both kind of like realized that we were like really in love with
04:59:49.280
each other and so then we kind of like we're like we've got to run away and like because because we
04:59:58.400
didn't want it we didn't want it to go any further because we knew that that would be like even worse
05:00:03.840
you know but did you literally run away like you left the city yeah we we booked a flight to bali and
05:00:12.000
this is like karma is real because on the way on the plane to bali my dad died so i landed in bali
05:00:21.280
with my runaway lover and then yeah so karma really is real guys did you say bali bali yeah indonesia
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was his name was his name jake by chance no why oh okay i was just curious some clarifying questions
05:00:44.080
here uh so you were dating the guy the original guy your fiancee for sorry two years you said three
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years two years okay and had you cheated on with him on anybody else or sorry absolutely with anybody
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else or just with his best friend yeah only only with his best friend yeah but so how how soon after
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the kiss did the runaway happened like two three weeks we were trying to because we didn't want it to
05:01:12.400
keep going on you know what i mean we felt so guilty like i felt sick wanted to be in a different
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hemisphere before you yeah had sex i mean i was young yeah i was young it was how old were you oh you
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said 23 yeah when this happened yeah i assume the wedding was what had the wedding been planned i'd
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actually paid for the whole wedding so i canceled it how close to you uh how close were you to the
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wedding six months okay six months away yeah uh how much had been paid for for the wedding or whatever
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about 50 000 pounds 50 000 pounds uh and had you got had you had feelings for the best friend during
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the course of the relationship no it was literally just like in one night just like boom it was it's
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absolutely it was the strangest thing ever best friend his best friend that's like multiple betrayals
05:02:04.960
i actually sometimes think that he the best friend is like obviously what i did was morally despicable
05:02:12.480
but i think the best friend is even worse because friendship of like 20 years
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i mean yeah who's more evil right her or the or the best friend yeah i mean both it's both it's
05:02:28.480
both just yeah it's disgusting and i take full accountability for it and i've apologized and i how
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did he take it your fiance he was really confused he was very upset and then i had to come back
05:02:40.640
to london for my dad's funeral and everyone thought we were engaged and it was just a complete
05:02:45.040
shit show absolute shit show damn okay uh you said however now that you're 34 you're still single
05:02:53.280
so you'd love to discuss the topic whether you've done the right thing as a dj whether your job could
05:02:58.640
be perceived as promiscuous yeah you said you have a lot of regrets yet respect yourself you're
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super mega by the way oh okay yeah i did it so um i do think that sometimes because of because like
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so i don't really go out like clubbing and get wasted and stuff but if people see you behind the
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dj decks you i am out at night and i am in that environment and so i think that you know a lot of
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you don't exactly find like great men in a nightclub listening to hip-hop and r&b and so i think i'm
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kind of sometimes like pushed into that category of the like party girl when i'm not really i'm just the
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dj if that makes sense okay yeah good time by the way guys it was a pleasure meeting all of you
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gotta get out of here this evening i enjoyed the conversations back and forth i never hold
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any ill will or bad blood towards anybody i know that the panels can get contentious but um you know
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that's uh that's part of having conversations is that you have contention so i was uh happy to talk
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to everybody and i hope all of you have a wonderful evening pleasure to meet you thank you for tuning
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in andrew appreciate it thank you thank you andrew have a good night have a good night
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all right you can hide that on discord we'll probably hide it also in the center zoom too
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if you want to just grab that okay i had it there yep all right so uh getting into anya's notes anya i
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know this uh you have a god tattoo on your side yeah um what does it say it's not an actual it's not
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like in the bible or anything it's the serenity prayer from a god grant me the serenity to accept
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the things i cannot change the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to know the difference
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um it was mainly to i don't want to get too deep into it but to
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it's an aa and it means a lot to my family and a lot it means a lot to me um i struggled a little
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bit with addiction in my own life and um even though like i i can still drink here and there i
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choose not to use any illicit substances um but i still think it's a great prayer to kind of use in
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your daily life i literally have that in like in my room i have this glass thing and it sits there
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and it has the same exact it's the exact same prayer yeah and it has a rose on it and it literally sits
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right there and i was just looking at it literally yesterday i was like i've had this for so long
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it just follows me and that's really cool that you have that too yeah that's that's freaking it was
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actually the first tattoo i ever got i was it was something ever since i heard it i carried it with
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me through my entire life that's beautiful i love that and uh arts but you're not christian
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as i understand it half and half somewhat half and half okay yeah and uh hold on one sec
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so do you do you believe in god or i do yeah um so related to your only fans then and being involved
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in sex work uh and you do have that tattoo and you do say you're pretty conservative and so forth uh
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what do you think satan wants you to do um i don't think it's necessarily something satan i mean
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maybe but i i think it's going back to what i said before i think i understand that there's definitely a
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lot of bad about it i don't think i'm doing charity work um but i also think that i'm setting
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my life up in a way where my children are never gonna have to worry about oh their mom's at a nine
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to five mom can't come to my soccer game mom can't do this mom can actually spend time with me and
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provide me with everything i need and she's actually going to instill i mean i know this is rich coming
05:06:55.920
from you but instill some kind of morals into me and i'm yeah well i'll respond to that really
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quickly uh thank you andrew for the raid crucible crew welcome welcome welcome by the way really quick
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as we're as you guys are joining us we've lowered the tts to it's going to now be a 69 tts i'm going
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to let some chats come through in just a moment 69 tts let's get those roasts in if you want to roast
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me you want to roast anybody on the panel 69 tts um well i guess my question is though is you said
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well i understand that only fans can be very lucrative you can make a lot of money but uh
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it seems like you're going you're you believe in god but you you don't want to you don't want to take on
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the uh title of christian is that correct yeah so i was actually raised russian orthodox which if
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anybody in the audience knows russian orthodoxy it's the strictest and like most harsh form of
05:07:52.240
orthodoxy um so i me and my mom both actually left that denomination and not to speak for my mom but
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for myself i've been slowly trying to rebuild a relationship with uh with god um and i'm kind of
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letting that build as a relationship i don't think i'm um educated enough or practicing enough to
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actually label myself a christian because i think that actually takes on a big role um
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so yeah i mean look i'm andrew's probably better suited for this conversation than i am but uh there
05:08:28.320
is a bible verse that i think he often cites that i find kind of compelling in this case again it's not
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totally clear if you actually consider yourself a christian you say you believe in god uh it's matthew 16 26
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for what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul and you said
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well you're doing only fans so that you can amass a significant amount of money that you perhaps
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otherwise wouldn't be it's for my children not that i have children now but i would sell my soul
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for my children you would sell your soul for your children from it yeah for them to have a good life
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i would do that actually be an interesting conversation for very powerful like what do you
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do i would die if i had children i would die for my children i would sell my soul for my children
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you would die for your children yeah sure but also this is coming from somebody who doesn't have
05:09:15.840
children yet so let's take this with a grain of salt i'm curious what the chat thinks and i i know
05:09:20.240
there's a lot of uh you know we have a lot of religious viewers a lot of christian viewers
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if it meant protecting your well hold on ah you're kind of sneaking something in there but
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if it was the case that in order to save your children this is a ridiculous hypothetical in
05:09:35.120
order to somehow save the life of your children you had to become an of strumpet i know there's
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a lot of men out there you men have to become of man whores i guess would you do it and would
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this be in contravention of the christian faith uh but the thing is though is that plenty of people
05:09:54.800
are capable of providing for children absent doing sex work i agree um i think it's a lot
05:10:00.480
harder nowadays i think that's why you have a big financial crisis going on in the us and
05:10:05.040
a lot of people aren't having children and our birth rates are significantly declining to the
05:10:09.520
point where we're below replacement rate um and i don't want to contribute to that i actually want
05:10:14.720
to have children um and you've heard people around this table say hey like it's impossible to
05:10:21.680
raise children in california um fight for financial reasons um not that you're in florida though right
05:10:27.760
i live in florida it's completely different um also florida is getting so expensive um but cost of
05:10:35.760
living is still extremely high and the market is there um i was already getting actualized all the time
05:10:45.200
my entire life and i thought hey i'm if it's going to happen anyway i might as well make a profit out
05:10:53.520
of it and at least set myself up for something in the future and andrew said something that was um
05:11:00.240
interesting to me that that we're kind of going in the cycle where we don't understand what's coming
05:11:06.320
next um like what the second wave of this is going to be for us i totally understand i understand that
05:11:13.440
even now and not even i'm less than a year in and there's definitely part of my psyche and part of
05:11:21.520
a mental health aspect of it that's definitely hurt and definitely affected i i already know these
05:11:28.240
effects i've spoken to other people where i can understand the effects um but i'm willing to take
05:11:33.280
on the effects to have a future where my children don't have to worry about those things but couldn't
05:11:38.560
you have chosen like any other job yeah i could have but again the money versus the time spent into
05:11:48.560
it the time that i can spend with my children you don't have your children yet you could become a
05:11:53.280
lawyer and you can make way more money than an only fact well actually i don't know how much money you
05:12:00.800
make but yeah you could do that and then you could have your children and then your children would look
05:12:06.400
up to you and you'd still be able to support them um school be better in the long term yeah i i'm
05:12:12.880
honestly so against college i don't even want to have the argument about college and what about an
05:12:17.440
electrician no i totally i totally agree but i'm not getting i'm not going to get into how much money
05:12:25.200
i make but that's why i went into this saying i'm either going to go all the way in i'm going to go all
05:12:30.080
the way i'm not going to half-ass it um what what do the uh we got we got an orthodox christian here
05:12:36.080
what do you think you got you want to weigh in i totally respect your preference and everything and
05:12:42.160
your desire to you know make a living for your kids in the future that's great my question is as an
05:12:49.200
immigrant yourself you know what would you say first generation yeah like as yeah but like you have
05:12:55.600
like an immigrant background um what would you say to all those other countries in the world that are
05:13:02.000
less privileged than the united states what would you say to those families and mothers who are trying
05:13:07.520
to make a living for their kids in terms of what like yeah you're like oh it's like it's this is the
05:13:14.720
easy way out oh i'm not saying that let me clarify that real quick that's that's not what i'm saying i'm
05:13:19.920
not advocating this for everybody i never said that i will not advocate like i've had many many
05:13:26.400
many people come up to me mostly like girlfriends that i have in my past people just randomly that
05:13:32.240
i'll meet that know that i do it i always say i say unless you're willing to know that your brother
05:13:38.640
your dad your grandparents your children everyone is going to see your door unless you know that
05:13:44.400
that's going like you're ready for that to happen don't do it unless you're ready for everyone to
05:13:48.320
know you as an ass worker like don't do it this is not and also if you're going to go all the way in
05:13:55.120
this it's hard work i'm not saying it's as hard as being a doctor or being a lawyer or anything like
05:14:01.440
that please don't get me wrong but i'm saying there are hours that people don't see in the in the back of
05:14:08.000
it like i easily put in 65 to 75 hours of work in every different aspect of it every week um so it's
05:14:16.480
definitely hard work um it's not the easy way out yeah and you still have to deal with like the the
05:14:22.000
backlash and all that stuff too like it's even harder because it's like you have to deal with
05:14:26.080
all that i would never advocate this for 99 of people that i meet no and what i can say as a
05:14:33.200
mother right i understand what you're saying because i did go to school right i went to two
05:14:38.640
different schools to get two different educations and i did make decent money my husband made decent
05:14:44.320
money but we were still riddled in debt it was so hard to put the amount of groceries that needed to
05:14:49.760
be put on the table the bills being paid and provide the life that we really wanted to provide
05:14:56.000
for our children since i've been doing of i get way more quality time with my family we go on great
05:15:03.040
family vacations together and i i can afford to be like hey guys guess what we're going to hawaii seven
05:15:08.160
for seven days in a great location i'm able i am debt free all my lifetime of debt is paid off so i
05:15:18.080
do understand that and i understand you know and i understand like you're saying that that this you
05:15:24.640
know i don't know if what we're doing is right or not but i do know that this has provided a lifestyle
05:15:32.320
for my family that even when i went to school and worked my booty off that i could not get to
05:15:38.720
my and everyone's going to argue that it's we're saying that we can buy things for our children we
05:15:42.880
can buy vacations that's not what we're saying it's it's the time spent most parents like all
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right i'm done listening to the cope i'm sorry you guys are just rambling on about this i'll just
05:15:52.320
repeat it one more time then i'm going to move it on for what will it profit a man if he gains the
05:15:56.960
whole world and forfeits his soul we have some super chats here okay zach so chair one no kid
05:16:03.520
wants to know their dads had happy times with other dads just like they don't want to know their
05:16:08.080
moms were spread as wide as the grand canyon how can you wait did you hide it was a duplicate okay we
05:16:14.800
should have well how can you possibly say uh you would do this for free and want to have a family
05:16:20.880
in the same breath zach uh thank you for the super chat uh just fyi with super chats and stream
05:16:26.320
labs messages they don't get pulled up right away i think you sent this in at 10 04 it's 10 24.
05:16:31.920
they get batched uh typically at you know 30 to 60 minutes but i saw you sent in a duplicate
05:16:38.560
it's not that we missed it we were just waiting to pull it up so thank you zach do you want to
05:16:42.000
do a quick response to zach here yeah i don't necessarily know what the second part like has to
05:16:48.400
relate to each other um definitely not been spread as wide as the grand canyon but um i don't i don't
05:16:54.960
understand like why it's hypocritical for me to say that i'll do this for free but also want to have
05:16:59.920
a family i think because he's saying that you're doing it so you can provide for your kids at the
05:17:06.640
same time maybe it's just the cascading downstream consequences of being involved in only fans when it
05:17:12.240
comes to your your own mental health the desirability of yourself correct as it relates to men most men are
05:17:19.200
going to uh at least look i'm not saying all men are going to not want to date you because you
05:17:24.640
i agree are or were involved in only fans but it is going to close the door for a certain caliber of
05:17:31.200
men some uh and then in addition to that there's like the downstream ramifications as it relates to
05:17:38.000
your future children it is going to probably result you are going to have to parse the whole
05:17:43.760
potential bullying thing that's a factor there too so so what i was going to say is the exact same
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for the workload so if i would have done it for free i would not be putting in that same mentality
05:17:56.000
of i'm going to go all the way in or i'm going to go all the way out if i was doing it for free which
05:18:00.800
i said i would i would not be posting a million times on reels a million times on tiktok a million
05:18:05.840
times on x promoting maga ramble anya i've i've seen your numbers you can retire right now and our kids
05:18:12.320
will be pampered we don't need more money is your boyfriend or something no i have no clue who this is
05:18:18.640
maga rambe all right uh you got to pay maybe i have a clue he's got to pay the sim tax send in
05:18:23.920
another super chat guys go use streamlabs streamlabs.com slash whatever uh streamlabs.com
05:18:29.520
slash whatever i should have given i almost always give priority to streamlabs but uh thank you for
05:18:35.760
sharing that appreciate it pasty george donated one hundred dollars yeah thank you pasty george
05:18:40.560
appreciate it math proves that men have a much lower body count than women using available
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statistics and charts to demonstrate this nowadays it's just a fact that many women sleep around more
05:18:52.640
than men thank you pasty george uh this came in a while ago uh thank you that was when we were
05:18:58.480
talking about the whole body count conversation home math great channel we've had him on the show
05:19:03.040
before uh be sure to check him out thank you pasty george we have dill pickles chef dill pickles
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donated donated 100 thank you man how many women at the table would marry a man that took another
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man through his back door no did it was it just show of hands show of hands would you marry a dude
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did your husband didn't though right no okay just checking just checking
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i've slept with bi men i i think it's hot okay that's my opinion
05:19:31.280
cool cool that i love that for you um okay chef dill pickles chef dill pickles donated one hundred
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dollars thank you brother ex-arby's worker among the absolute plethora of men you've invited into
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yourself what was the most popular male name well i was working at arby's that was you that was me i
05:19:52.480
i was i was working at arby's when i was 14 oh yeah so what was the most popular male name
05:20:00.400
for were there a couple like uh jacobs or bartholomew's or like like overall name cornelius or
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um i have i have no idea i didn't collect names in front of me like oh look at there's
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13 benjamin george's and 14 oh my gosh that's my dog's name yeah no benjamin no i've never slept
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with a benjamin um okay all right we have cha cha coming in guys 69 tts extreme labs.com slash whatever
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chair one's arguments are ones we've heard 1000 times it makes no sense though in the pursuit of money
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and a traditional family you're doing the exact thing that damages your chances of getting it
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i think it's already really hard to get it but it's hard out here it is i don't i think it's
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definitely going to be difficult um just as it would be if i didn't but i think i offer enough
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in my personal life to a man that it would make it worth it but let's be honest on a scale of one to
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ten how crazy are you i mean honestly i'd probably say a four or five four or five maybe four do you
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have any diagnoses no nothing bpd bipolar when i was like 12 i had a doctor tell me i had anxiety
05:21:32.880
and depression but not anymore no i don't care about that stuff we've probably we've all probably
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okay we could ask hundreds of women outside and they'll all say yes yeah i used to take
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into persons too i have adhd the women the women ssri epidemic any of your ex-boyfriends oh well you
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haven't really with any of the guy ex-guys you've dealt with not necessarily boyfriends would and you
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might disagree with them with any of them have you ever been called crazy by a guy actually no and if i
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called them up right now they'd be like i mean yeah we had kind of a rough breakup we had kind of
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a rough breakup but any of them if they still texted me right now if i texted them we wouldn't
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be like oh i hate you i hate you we're like hey you okay i'm good
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what kind of music is that okay okay all right okay look i don't know if it's even appropriate
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for me to go there can i go there go wherever you want i can go wherever i want whoa i'm down on you
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all right relax that's a little kinky i noticed and you don't hide it so i feel like it's kind of fair
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game and i'm going to try to be as polite about it as possible i was looking at your instagram i
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noticed that uh you have markings yeah on your legs yes is it okay if we talk about this i don't
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want to go on ahead go on ahead okay so these were self-inflicted markings yes a lot of them yes
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was this associated with an episode of something with yes with drug use or what okay it was one
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particular incident that happened when i was 12 that was like a family situation it was it was
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an accumulation of a few different traumatic incidences um i took it out in that manner and
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i shouldn't have but so that was that was like a limited episode that was not
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ongoing really it was just when you were younger it was ongoing for like a couple months but it was
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very minor and then it was one day where it was just like all most of them but self-harm not someone
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else did it yeah okay sorry uh it was like most of them and then i never did it again after
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were you like did you see a doctor about that or i mean yeah did they give you a diagnosis or
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um honestly because of all the other traumatic incidences that were happening happening that led
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to that um we that was the one that diagnosed me with anxiety and depression they put me on ssris i was
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on ssris for like a year or two and i realized that they're horrible for development and horrible for
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me and got off of them and yeah well i'm sorry to hear that you went through a difficult experience
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when you're younger um and i'm glad to hear that uh you over it sounds like you overcame yeah and
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that was a episode that's in the past so uh wait we have some we have some other chats coming through
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we have brad here big brad oh wait is it sorry oh my god streamlabs there we go brad donated 70
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dollars a man will see the value in you as how you conduct yourself doing of reduces your value and
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the man you want will not commit to you men care about your past as women care about the man's
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future oh that's yeah very wise that last yo brad thank you for the message man appreciate it we
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have uh well put brad well chef dill pickles chef dill pickles donated 69 dollars she's had the meats
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bum bum bum bum bum he's talking about the army what's her name back there has an rb show can you
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like just kind of tilt yourself the scary doll tilt i don't know if i work oh she has a r she's four in
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it go this way that's my girl just like tilt not tilt no tilt that way tilt that yeah boom she's got
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fucking ashley her name's ashley she has an rb she worked at rb's before she became a whatever
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podcast uh enjoyer i guess okay we have maga ramble thank you for the soup chat man no taxation without
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simpresentation damn bro are you doing on the youtube app too you realize if you sit because if this is how
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you tell if it's 99.99 it means you're using the youtube app youtube takes 30 percent apple takes
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30 because you're doing it on the probably the youtube app they're taking uh 49 of this they're
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taking more than half bruv they're taking more than half she didn't even bruv you're english now brian
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she's got this little paper thing on the table get that out of here you didn't even look at it the
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entire show throw that throw that shit out uh get rid of it bruv thank you for the soup chat appreciate
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it maga maga ramba ramba bruv guys 69 tts 69 tts get them in get them in okay so uh as far as the rest
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of the notes going back to anya finishing yours up you said uh you're very conservative and you're
05:27:07.920
selective with dating two of your exes turned out to be gay and one ended up becoming a trans
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um yeah so the one who transitioned was actually the long like the long long-term relationship one
05:27:28.160
and to be fair i um i was not conservative at the time i was very like lefty um so that kind of chalks
05:27:37.620
up to that but he just recently transitioned um but the two that are gay they're not out so
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it was instances where one of them i found him on grinder um i found find wait wait wait wait wait
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wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait excuse me why would you hold on
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you when i wasn't on grinder i was on his i saw on his he got a notification that was a grinder
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notification oh okay i thought that's how you found out no no no no no no no i i we were like in his
05:28:17.460
bedroom and uh he gets a notification it's a grinder notification i was like oh that's strange um and
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then a couple things started adding up and i was like oh this makes sense and then the other guy
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um yeah i'm not really revealing any personal information but he always want like you know
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sometimes you don't want to have schmecks so you just kind of talk you know whatever he would want
05:28:41.520
me to talk about other men and particularly men that i knew and i was like oh that's odd um i didn't
05:28:52.780
really respect myself at the time and then finally got a brain so during sex not not during sex like
05:29:00.160
if i didn't want to have sex but if he wanted to get off and i was just like okay i'll talk you through
05:29:05.620
it oh goodness me so wait he it was it was like a joy yeah he would want me to fantasize help him
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fantasize about his about males and then i was like oh yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah um okay wow yeah
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and you did it uh yeah and then now one of them you said transitioned yes that was the long-term one
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um i was a lefty then okay you said you're very passionate or wait hold on uh skipping that one
05:29:43.860
you said women rarely go for the good guy but that the one that's going to be an instant high and not
05:29:48.920
a gradual build-up we should also return to a more traditional setup for relationships
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yeah don't you think a more traditional setup for relationships would include you not posting
05:30:01.900
your butthole on the internet i agree um a little traditional i agree are there here let me ask you
05:30:08.300
are there pictures of your butthole on the internet yes it's very traditional of you look
05:30:15.560
we've got a great conservative here where's the maga hat
05:30:19.280
i was bring i was gonna bring mine but hell yeah you said no hat for trump here you can put it on for
05:30:26.900
a few minutes you said no hats on the pre-show we ask andrew if that's hypocritical
05:30:30.700
what is if that's hypocritical oh my god what's that traditional relationship but then i don't know
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it's a fucking shitty chinese one or something no i got a real one yeah we need i need charlie
05:30:45.280
kirk to hook me up with some maga i got one from charlie oh yeah did you do one of his tp usa i didn't
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go to an event no went up to the microphone and be like hey charlie i would just be like i love you
05:30:55.180
but um i guess um but i want you to look into this camera right here this one right here and i
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want you to say i voted for donald trump make america great again btw i post butthole pictures
05:31:08.420
on the internet i voted for donald trump maga i post b-hole pictures on the internet all right
05:31:15.000
based and submissive housewife there you go she she did it at least i'll take i'll take that back
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that was great thank you thank you uh let's see here what um conservative though um okay you vote
05:31:27.460
more conservative i guess okay so it's not even that i vote conservative it's let's literally take
05:31:32.900
just let's let's put of aside for literally two seconds um i generally believe that for most women
05:31:42.420
i think the best place is to be at home with children um away from the workplace i think that
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um yeah i i think that that's kind of the best setup um shoot i was laying my train of thought
05:32:00.220
just now you're just talking also we should also return to a more traditional setup again this is
05:32:05.120
just confusing for me you're posting some crazy shit on your instagram fucking legs spreading shit
05:32:10.220
that shit's crazy son how you gonna be like oh traditional but like hey boyfriend can you take
05:32:17.060
a video of me doing like an ahago face or whatever the fuck oh because the the boyfriend is okay
05:32:23.600
felicity the boyfriend comes home he he has his meal cooked already at five o'clock six o'clock it's warm
05:32:29.480
it's ready for him there his his clothes is ready the next morning it's no problem the house is clean
05:32:35.040
everything's taken care of he's never gonna have to worry about it but there's like a glaring
05:32:38.940
elephant in the room here yeah a giant dildo in the room
05:32:43.220
i understand you post butthole pictures on the internet i totally understand and you know the
05:32:50.760
thing is like anya you're you know uh but probably maybe you could have got the guy you could have
05:32:55.400
got the like the guy who you could have got that i could why am i doing the fucking trump hands
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the past few weeks i've been doing a lot of trump hands i could get it right now if i wanted to i i
05:33:06.220
know like you're gonna get like a get what i i know that there's men i can i can think of like
05:33:13.980
a couple men particularly in my no no in my in my in my personal life that i know that are very
05:33:19.880
traditional that are okay with my traditional values and are traditional themselves that are
05:33:25.680
accepting of this that are ready for that life anyways i know that i can because i yeah
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fo sho i'm not gonna linger on the porn bad thing because we talked about that forever earlier uh
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okay so we have some more chats coming through we have oh wait hi bros lamana chair seven marry me
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yesterday for christ's sake only sane woman hairy balls on ya oh okay i'm good thank you
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ooh hairy balls on ya rejected ooh by the way she's got a boyfriend bro you gotta you can't be
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hitting on a girl who's got dating a guy for three years thank you for seeing you know that's a nice
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compliment you know our homegirl here she's single what's up show her some love hairy balls on ya
05:34:17.200
would you think would you go for hairy balls on ya it's just i don't know him or know what he looks
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like so maybe he's clearly is it hairy what if his what if he's like the he's the most attractive
05:34:32.680
man in the world but his balls are also the hairiest i would go for it like i'm talking foot
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long ball hair dangling dangling to the floor i think that's a deal breaker probably not no you
05:34:46.400
can't oh right you know how like when your nails grow really long like you can't cut that shit could
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i braid it it's the same with ball hair if that shit gets too long it's you gotta go under anesthesia
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can i braid it no unacceptable all right why uh 69 guys 69 tts get him in we have some more sons
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of liberty this guy my god thank you sons of liberty donated 69 thank you brother virtue morality
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boundaries foreign concepts to these women the nuremberg trials concluded the end does not justify
05:35:20.020
the means but to these women they do degenerates degenerates so many degenerates at this table
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thank you very much very many degenerates it's just crazy thank you sons of liberty how do you
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guys feel about do you guys do you take ownership of the degenerate title chloe looking to you um i
05:35:40.480
don't even i'm gonna sound like a dumb blonde but i don't know what that means degenerate i'm gonna
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google it it means like a low life having lost the physical mental and moral qualities considered normal
05:35:52.200
and desirable no or an immoral or corrupt person
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i don't think i'm a degenerate i did that one bad thing with the cheating but other than that i'm
05:36:06.120
not a degenerate i'm definitely when's the last time you smoked some crack oh god oh my god
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i'm joking i've never i've never smoked some crack i swear on my life you're a fucking liar
05:36:19.740
what do i look like a crackhead is that scouse by the way you're a fucking liar i don't know yeah
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no that was quite scouse no i've never never ever smoked crack that's just i don't want that out
05:36:31.360
can you do the queen's english talk like the queen yes um oh it is a bit rather ridiculous that we put
05:36:40.420
a sundial underneath a tree i have to admit that's the best i can do wow that was it was great how far
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the termites have spread and how long and well they've dined where do you get these rest in peace
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christopher hitchens okay that was great we have thank you sons of liberty we have we have pasty george
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boom thank you pasty george pasty george donated seventy dollars thank you brother i've noticed that
05:37:06.480
more and more young women nowadays have old cut scars on their arms legs and other parts of their
05:37:12.700
bodies what is wrong with today's women i feel like honestly what so is it about today's women
05:37:19.900
but it says from the past it says old cut so how can that be today's women if it's from the past oh
05:37:25.640
shit pasty george just fucking she just lawyered your ass fucking lawyered pasty george
05:37:32.400
boop boop boop no scars but like actually i would say that every generation of young women has had
05:37:39.360
their vice so i would say uh right before my generation i would say it was eds um so eds were
05:37:48.320
the vice of young girls um and you don't really notice those on most women because either they've
05:37:55.340
recovered or they've other things um but they're not as noticeable of a past and then i would say
05:38:04.580
self-harming was more of a fad during my era um and it was one of those things where it's like okay
05:38:12.960
you i need to feel better how do i do it i feel like nowadays like people don't even do that as often
05:38:19.600
like at least like because i have a lot of like little cousins and stuff like that and i feel like at
05:38:24.820
their age like i was doing those things and so the fact that like they're all like no that's like
05:38:30.100
lame like they literally say stuff like that nowadays but before it was kind of like an actual
05:38:34.680
big thing like everybody was doing it it's like it was like a trend in a way yeah but like i wanted
05:38:40.640
everyone would be a sad girl you know like all that stuff i think dean bronson donated 69 dollars
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thank you dean the young blonde lady in all red is lovely i'm weird so it's easy to not care
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can i know the lady's name um i'm chloe yummy thank you that was really sweet
05:39:01.620
vanna rose is your voice actually that high pitch or do you put it on chloe be honest um
05:39:10.800
um i have a really high voice naturally like my dad even like sounds like a woman
05:39:19.380
on the phone um but i definitely like put it on um a lot and on my instagram and like for a laugh like
05:39:28.520
i can really do baby but like a lot of guys like that but i know like you love it or hate it
05:39:34.420
i think it's adorable i just wanted to know if it was real like yeah it is real but i can make it
05:39:40.740
like go really high go on doop doop doop baby voice
05:39:55.660
what the fuck it sounded crazy with the british accent and the baby voice
05:40:24.680
i'm gonna pretend like you didn't just make my dick go soft
05:40:31.280
i try not to do it oh my gosh now i'm embarrassed
05:40:38.240
i'll stop i'll stop i'll stop i just i had to hear it
05:41:01.220
when can we get out of here so i can go and have a pint
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69 dollar tts guys we're gonna get back to the convo though we have one more coming in thank you
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blah fest and then pasties sent one in there it is pasty pasty george donated 70
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share four it takes between 12 and 18 months for a wound to form into a scar please stop trying to think thank you
05:41:47.600
yeah but you're saying in the past so like in the past like 12 to 18 i haven't done that in 12 to 18 months that was probably like seven years ago
05:41:56.060
like seven years ago is different from 18 like obviously i hope to god no one's or you know i hope that no one's freaking at my age self-harming themselves like i feel like that's like you you need to be in a like mental right like that's just not okay like those people obviously have mental issues
05:42:16.400
yes like when i'm younger it's different like i was like 13 years old like young and depressed like i'm not doing that now
05:42:27.400
yep okay so getting into the questionnaire honestly you guys are pretty tame on the questionnaire here
05:42:34.400
uh we're gonna go to annabelle annabelle you said that men are more privileged in society than women why is that annabelle
05:42:46.700
yeah you said uh so the statement is men are more privileged in society than women
05:42:53.200
um i think i might have clicked the wrong thing because actually i disagree i think because men have to be
05:43:00.300
like if there's a war they have to they're the ones who have to go out and do the fighting so actually i think i just clicked the wrong button sorry
05:43:09.500
rightio uh you okay you also said a woman should not be rejected because of her weight
05:43:16.380
no see i've i've done it the wrong way around my goodness annabelle i know
05:43:24.180
i think i did the same thing yeah yeah i got confused oh god how embarrassing it says yeah it says circle the ones that you agree with on the top i have i'm a little i'm a little bit autistic and i have adhd so you're autistic yeah oh my god that ex why didn't you tell me earlier that explains everything it does it does it's a lot of
05:43:37.640
how embarrassing it says yeah it says circle the ones that you agree with on the top i have i'm a little i'm a little bit autistic and i have adhd so you're autistic yeah oh my god that ex why didn't you tell me earlier that explains everything it does doesn't it i totally get that from you
05:43:57.520
yeah sorry oh my god thank you annabelle wait i think you hurt her feelings
05:44:02.180
what i i just found out like a week ago wait why are you are you crying wait no i don't know it's just it's a bit of a it's just a bit weird to be diagnosed with autism it's not really everyone's dream is it
05:44:14.100
i don't think you can i think everyone's on the spectrum yeah everybody at this table's definitely
05:44:19.400
got something very normal yeah you but i have adhd as well so i'm just like a melting pot of disastrous
05:44:24.880
mental health issues i have adhd too that's hard sometimes that's why i've been doing like this i'm
05:44:29.500
like trying not to make a noise it's been noisy okay so that's why i clicked the wrong circle the wrong
05:44:37.120
thing okay sorry uh well then here let's go to this uh you said that wrong for a man to dump his
05:44:43.240
girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex do you agree with that yeah okay crystal you also
05:44:50.040
agree that it's wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down and
05:44:54.960
then pearl you also said wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly i feel like they could
05:45:00.980
have a conversation and if they're not on the same page they can just part ways instead of just
05:45:06.300
it's just part of a healthy relationship isn't it but wouldn't that be i mean i assume i assume that
05:45:14.520
there's some conversations maybe i miss the convert here's the conversation the guy's trying to have
05:45:22.160
sex with her she doesn't want to they don't have sex she should want to have sex with her man it's
05:45:27.220
probably a mistake on my end because the compatibility is gone english isn't my first
05:45:31.920
language so i apologize well if that's your position though that's i'm not that's fine no
05:45:38.320
but based off of you clarifying it then i do understand what you mean but you you're a christian
05:45:43.580
right don't you believe like as a christian that both the husband and the wife owe their body to
05:45:50.340
each other no because everyone's situation is different just because i believe something that
05:45:58.500
doesn't mean another no but within your worldview within your relationship no it's okay i don't i'm
05:46:05.340
not like a hardcore believer of like oh they need to remain together you know i i'm open enough to
05:46:13.160
but you're are you you're okay with divorce yeah that's okay like that's okay the the woman is
05:46:20.100
just there's no abuse no infidelity she's just like vaguely unhappy and wants to go fuck other
05:46:26.500
dudes is that grounds for divorce if two people are not happy with each other i think yes is that
05:46:32.860
what your faith prescribes it has nothing to do with my pain my faith it's reality anything could
05:46:39.960
happen two people can be well yeah i understand that secular people can get a no-fault divorce
05:46:45.620
i'm asking i'm assuming i'm not a hardcore like christian that's the thing i believe you said
05:46:52.260
you're orthodox i do but i'm not like hardcore i know but i'm not like a fully practicing person i
05:46:58.280
have faith but i'm not like reading everything to the text of it so what hold on so what do you
05:47:05.800
disagree with god's word what do you disagree about god's word i don't disagree with anything
05:47:12.560
but you said you don't follow the text so what text as it relates to the bible or whatever do you not
05:47:19.900
agree with or follow i believe that everyone can have their own understanding and perception of
05:47:28.100
whatever what do you think for me i think it depends if a couple is not happy let's say two
05:47:34.420
one side is not happy with the other vice versa whatever the context is in that relationship it's
05:47:40.520
okay for them to part ways i'm not like no once they're married though yeah that's okay under your
05:47:46.440
worldview as a christian my understanding is under christianity can somebody in the chat i know we
05:47:52.680
probably have some ortho bros in the chat can orthodox christians if they're there's no abuse
05:47:58.000
the woman is just vaguely unhappy she wants to get some new dick is she under the faith is she
05:48:06.280
permitted a divorce because i know in catholicism you can't get a divorce um i'm curious what the chat
05:48:12.720
says is divorce permitted in orthodox christianity uh sorry my chat's super delayed can you guys keep
05:48:23.840
spamming the answer because my chat's going to take like 10 seconds to catch up yeah i don't think
05:48:28.080
it's permitted in any circumstance but based off of my perspective i i tend to be more open-minded i
05:48:34.920
tend to be more secular i tend to be more understanding towards differences so wait hold on you're you said
05:48:41.440
you're an orthodox christian yeah but you just said you're secular what does that mean i tend to have
05:48:46.560
more secular open-minded perspectives towards my understanding towards others no but i'm put put
05:48:53.820
the others aside i'm just asking about for me i am an open-minded person so like in a scenario
05:48:59.920
where two people are not happy with each other it's okay for them to separate it's okay for them
05:49:05.340
under divorce under my beliefs okay do you have like orthodox friends no i don't i just i think i
05:49:15.660
wait are you i'm a very like conservative person i'm very shy i'm not like super outgoing so for me
05:49:23.580
there are some things that i hold like for example within my morals but it's okay like if two people
05:49:30.000
are not happy with each other it's okay for them do you go to liturgy do you go to church on sundays
05:49:35.180
like what's no i'm not like you said you were an orthodox christian what does being shy
05:49:40.100
wait hold on going to church doesn't make you crazy no no no i'm not saying going to church makes
05:49:45.480
you crazy all i'm saying is i don't follow everything on the book like i'm not what do you what are the
05:49:51.040
things in which you don't follow like for example how you're saying oh it's prohibited to get a
05:49:56.820
divorce for me it's okay if two people are unhappy it's okay like that's so if you were let me ask you
05:50:03.300
a question your husband your your current boyfriend uh is he orthodox christian no is he christian yeah
05:50:11.460
you're but you earlier described yourself as uh orthodox christian okay but that has nothing to do
05:50:17.840
with me being an understanding individual to but i'm asking about your own i am i am i get that
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you're fine with secular people getting divorces i'm asking about you for me personally if there was
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all like a difference or like an altercation or an indifference between my partner and i
05:50:36.760
obviously i would want to discuss it before immediately going to separation but worse comes
05:50:43.320
to worse it's okay if two individuals separate it's okay but okay can you tell me what are you
05:50:49.960
an orthodox christian yes but what does that have to do with my preferences it goes against your belief
05:50:56.240
how it would have everything to do with your preferences i have preferences and beliefs but
05:51:04.300
that's not going to sit there and steer me away from being an open-minded understanding person it's okay
05:51:11.400
so you're you're open-minded when it benefits you no it could benefit anyone no when it benefits you
05:51:19.220
okay hold on if it is the case and i if there's an ortho bro in the chat who can clarify i think they
05:51:25.840
said that uh divorce is not allowed maybe there are some exceptions if there's abuse or something like
05:51:30.940
that um infidelity possibly i didn't get the full details on this uh it should they say marriage is
05:51:38.360
indissoluble as in it should not be broken the violation of such a union perceived as holy being
05:51:44.660
an offense resulting from either adultery or the prolonged absence of one of the partners so like
05:51:49.700
kind of abandonment i guess um let's say you were you got married and there was no abuse he treated you
05:51:57.760
well but you were vaguely mildly unhappy would this be grounds for you to get a divorce like i said if
05:52:08.280
there was an indifference between my partner and i i would obviously like i wouldn't jump into divorce
05:52:13.800
right away we would talk we would discuss we would try to figure things out but if things come to a
05:52:19.960
point where we cannot continue this marriage it's okay just because i believe in god or just because
05:52:27.280
i'm a christian or just because i'm an orthodox then what do you believe i have been telling you
05:52:32.760
what i believe yes but it's all negotiable for you you think you you just admitted everything in life
05:52:39.020
is negotiable you think the bible is negotiable no of course i read it i practiced it but to
05:52:44.840
the consent to the point where what i believe in and what my what are my preferences this is what it is
05:52:52.120
what and what are your preferences as to the things in the christian faith that you want to disregard
05:52:56.900
what do you want to disregard it's not me disregarding i said obviously i wouldn't jump
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into the notion of divorce that would be the last resort if right but but if there's your husband's
05:53:09.740
there he's a good father he's he's good towards you but you just maybe i don't know you're vaguely
05:53:17.320
unhappy mildly unhappy but there's no abuse he treats you well no i wouldn't leave no i wouldn't
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get a divorce i'm saying worse comes to worse where there are no resolutions there's no like you know
05:53:31.300
we're not able to figure things out things get bad things get domestic like abuse worse comes to worse
05:53:37.680
then it would be okay because obviously at the end of the day like why should two people be together
05:53:44.520
they're not happy can i ask you a question at least for you in order for you to get a divorce
05:53:48.580
what is the the the lowest threshold that you would get divorced could you define that what do
05:53:59.520
you mean by threshold like so it would be really clear like if he was beating you and there was
05:54:04.660
infidelity absolutely go get your divorce but what is like the lowest relationship dynamic
05:54:12.080
in your worldview that would be acceptable for a divorce to occur those would be the two
05:54:18.760
exceptions for me no no but that's the that that would be like a clear cut what's the lowest threshold
05:54:24.620
so maybe something less than that like what if he was like he called you a bad name once like he
05:54:30.460
called you a bitch one time no obviously not right it would come so the threshold that's that's not
05:54:36.200
the threshold where's the threshold it would come to the worst case scenario infidelity or abuse well
05:54:43.920
yeah but we could probably think of things that aren't as bad as those things where you would still
05:54:48.940
get a divorce i can't really think of anything those would be like like ongoing verbal abuse
05:54:55.920
ongoing verbal yeah i would come to a point where i would try to figure things out whether it's like
05:55:03.940
counseling whether it's therapy what like try out all my options and worse comes worse you know
05:55:10.360
things are not getting better he's not getting better obviously that would be okay are you are
05:55:17.180
you going to take your husband's last name yes okay are you going to be submissive yeah i mean i feel
05:55:24.920
like as females we we like i feel like society nowadays puts females and males against each other
05:55:33.940
you know like oh females are oppressed if they're being submissive i don't think that's the case i feel
05:55:39.520
like we both have our advantages and disadvantages and we shouldn't always be pinpoint against each
05:55:46.220
other rather so we should be like filling each other's holes and being like a puzzle so yes if
05:55:52.020
it comes to be the scenario i would be a traditional wife yes i feel like like earlier when you were like
05:56:00.100
oh i wouldn't do only fans because i have morals and all that stuff like i feel like so you can just
05:56:05.260
choose like whatever morals like if it's like say like because it's like you're christian you have to
05:56:09.100
follow certain things but then you can change those it has nothing to do with christianity even if i was
05:56:14.360
an atheist even if i was jewish i personally would not put myself in a position where i'm being
05:56:21.580
vulnerable out to millions it has nothing to do with religion it's just my preference
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i i would not find myself yeah i'm just asking yeah i would not find myself comfortable to be in
05:56:32.060
that position i see i see okay um i was just a bit confused i don't know if you've walked back the
05:56:39.980
position a little bit you said that uh you don't strictly adhere
05:56:44.780
like i'm not a hardcore like i'm not a super hardcore religious person that's why whenever
05:56:53.100
she asked about morality it's not based off of a religion like i could have been jewish i could
05:56:58.760
have been atheist that morality comes within me and how i perceive life and how i perceive things and
05:57:05.780
i put value in certain things and that's just how it is what are the things in the christian faith
05:57:11.800
that you i guess don't align with i wouldn't say i don't align with specific things i would say that
05:57:20.700
i would read it i would understand i would practice and i would be open to having a more understanding
05:57:29.160
perspective versus someone who's religiously reading it and they're like okay this is what it
05:57:35.000
says in the bible and this is the only way i have the capability to understand another person's
05:57:41.120
perspective another religion's perspective that's what i mean by i'm i have an open-minded perspective
05:57:48.080
and i'm understanding two different opinions well going back to the prompt then uh wrong for a man
05:57:54.400
to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex uh there are a couple people i think it
05:58:01.380
was annabelle i don't know if that was you've accidentally circled that no no i meant that okay uh wrong for
05:58:07.560
a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex why is that wrong i think
05:58:13.480
uh relationships are more than that like you shouldn't you got with your significant or other
05:58:19.920
because of other reasons not because you sleep together but it's a it's a it's a very big intimacy
05:58:25.780
is incredibly important in a relationship intimacy is incredibly important in a relationship going back
05:58:30.600
to religion that's not like the most important thing well i'm i'm not talking about religion i'm just
05:58:35.740
talking about past experiences and i think that like sharing a bed together and having and being
05:58:41.980
intimate together is like extremely important that's kind of what love is it's part of love
05:58:46.380
it's not everything but it's part of it it's probably part of yours it's not like specifically mine
05:58:54.120
okay well good luck to you back to your boy hold on let me ask you guys let me ask you guys a question
05:58:59.600
what if uh a guy was dating a girl and part of the reason that she got with him is because he was
05:59:08.240
being a provider and that was sort of her expectation laid out at the beginning of the relationship
05:59:12.900
and then one two three years later he stops being a provider and would it be wrong for her to then
05:59:23.320
and and he's capable of being a provider he's capable of going to work he just kind of he got
05:59:29.720
that slack a little bored a little burned out he you know you know it's uh
05:59:35.560
um that's a really good question i think would it be okay for a woman to
05:59:41.780
no no it wouldn't i mean i would stay with them until they try to find something else
05:59:50.840
intimacy is more sacred than money and providing i think when it comes to loving relationships
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but but if there's like no like for example if he's just doing it for no reason just because of
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choice i feel like i i feel like that it would be the right for the woman to want to leave
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if like they are like they've been doing that and that was like the agreement then all of a sudden
06:00:12.740
like he wants to switch it up like i feel like that's not really like fair on her so that was her
06:00:18.540
choice to want to go and find that in someone else i feel like that would be i think that you know as
06:00:25.460
you should want to be sleeping with your man you know like that's just if you love if you love your
06:00:32.360
husband or your boyfriend or whatever then you should want to have sex with him i agree you know
06:00:38.040
but depending on like yeah because of like religion and stuff like that some people obviously like
06:00:42.100
that isn't really a part of the relationship but i do agree i feel like if somebody were to
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because it's their own preference so someone's like well you're not giving me like you're not having
06:00:52.400
snacks with me and all this stuff and that's something that they really wanted a relationship
06:00:56.120
i feel like they would have the right to be like well i don't want to be in this relationship and go
06:01:00.260
find somebody that they could find that in whether it's snacks or if it's you know money or like
06:01:06.300
people like being like support or providers and things like that yeah and it's oxytocin and it's
06:01:12.520
bonding and it's you know that kind of so i mean look connection what's confusing to me though is how
06:01:21.060
many women push for commitment and part of commitment means he's only sleeping with you you're only sleeping
06:01:27.140
with him if you start pulling back on the sex you're allowed to do that but i don't think we should be
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surprised if that man breaks up with you because you're kind of like breaking the understanding
06:01:41.920
i agree i agree if you want that man to be you want that commitment of course you should yeah you
06:01:49.580
should want to have sex with him you should yeah firstly you should want to have sex because you
06:01:54.800
like fancy him or whatever secondly you should want to make your man happy yeah i feel like it's not
06:02:00.460
really fair for a woman to hold that over them you know what i mean like if they just randomly like
06:02:06.680
so i agree with that statement yeah you were gonna come in me it looks like you were leaning into yeah
06:02:12.220
i was reading what he said oh wow that's not really related to the condo yet i was i had a question
06:02:18.740
why did you stop um having schmicks with your boyfriend what are we reading like i said i think
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it was like a wrong decision for myself i'm not saying it's a wrong decision for others it was just
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i wish i had not done it i wish i had waited if that makes sense that's sad
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not the music oh no look you want to be in a relationship with the guy you had sex with him
06:02:52.180
was he bad in bed is that why no no nothing with him i just think like the mental capacity like the
06:02:58.800
mental capacity that i am like processing everything i just wish i had waited nothing to do with him
06:03:05.160
nothing to do with his thing but yeah no i i do i agree that if somebody if that's like the
06:03:11.220
agreement or relationship and then you know like someone but like not saying you specifically i'm
06:03:15.160
just saying like for example like just in other predicaments you know like i if someone if i
06:03:19.480
wasn't having sex with someone and they wanted to leave me at and i would be like well that's
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understandable because i'm not providing what they want especially like you know like how someone
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doesn't want to be with someone who has a high body count and stuff like that it's just preferences
06:03:30.120
of certain things and if that's like how they want to be then that's their choice
06:03:34.500
yeah and flipping it around like if i was in a relationship and a guy you know didn't want to
06:03:40.200
sleep with me anymore it would really like hurt me and i wouldn't feel desired and loved anymore so
06:03:45.520
understandable yeah leave if he wants yeah i no i wouldn't feel any yeah yep exactly i'm just saying
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it works both ways that's a part of the topic yeah so exactly it's okay pearl situation is different
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because they both have like they're both have the same they have the same understanding yeah they
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want to have sex but it's totally different if like you're having sex and then all of a sudden
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one partner just doesn't want to have sex yeah i think that's not fair and i just like it hurts
06:04:11.180
it hurts women's egos more when the when when their husband or boyfriend um doesn't want to sleep with
06:04:17.900
them like because men i mean just generalizing here i do think that men have a higher libido so when a
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guy suddenly starts pulling back and doesn't want to have sex with you like for girls like it's crippling
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like it really upsets us yeah and i feel like also it could be like people then at that point you
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feel like people are being like unfaithful and stuff like that because it's like why all of a sudden do
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you not want to have sex like there's obvious like if you are already wanting to have sex and then now
06:04:45.940
you don't have a sex like i feel like that something's wrong with our smex you know whatever
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yeah but i actually had a relationship like that was quite like that actually where the guy i was with
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just like sort of stopped wanting to have sex i would be like what the freaking name and it could
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just it made me so so so like my self-esteem like just went completely like yeah it really really
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hurt me all right we have some chats here we got woke bloke thank you man woke bloke donated 69
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share one understand you think this the best path for you but unlike a lot of 304s that come on this
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we have apple dima thank you apple dima coming in here a play dima one donated 69 where can i find
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the stream of the girl who couldn't pronounce misogynistic thank you for that uh who is that
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that's one of our earlier episodes i'm trying to remember it's um andrew crucified her with that
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that was so mean no i know who's it's like the girl in red the the like latina girl in red i don't
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know the dating talk number i know the exact one you're talking about though it was andrew tate
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i remember because i watched it so many times i found it quite funny yeah um i'm not uh wait andrew
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wait what i think i think i was talking about he reacted i'm such a fan of the podcast i think
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that the question was how do you feel about andrew tate and then she said i don't like him and you
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said why and then she was like because he's misquillistic yeah yeah yeah misclon and yeah just
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and then you're like what what she said again what
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blafus donated 70 dollars king henry the eighth sorted this out and created the anglican church
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divorce meant being condemned by the pope so he had to kill his wives to leave them when he wanted
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a new one so he made a new church i'm gonna try to find it for you really divorced beheaded died
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divorced beheaded survived those are his six wives i'm going to find it for you sir uno memento
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just to be nice i'm gonna find it okay let's see i think it's he killed i think it was anne of cleves
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he beheaded her so that he could be with anne berlin
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yeah yeah right indeed indeed wait hold on told you i had a degree in history oh i got it for you
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dude i got you dude dating talk 120 dating talk 120 simp paid her bills on first date
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lazy prodigy deus volt i'm orthodox christian she's not christian divorce is only for adultery abuse
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or anything equal she's a liberal she's not a follower of the faith she picks and chooses
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you want to respond to that you spent 70 bucks to bash me and call me a liberal when i was just
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being understanding to different situations that's not very christian of you
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snap wow wow lazy prodigy are you gonna let her talk to you
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like that lazy prodigy are you gonna let her spend some more of your money come on
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first off lazy prodigy here this guy's crypto he's deep in crypto okay
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70 dollars that's like a quarter to this guy that's it's a penny
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i didn't even bash anyone i was literally being nice and understanding to different scenarios
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and i said worse comes to worse you know divorce is okay but i guess to each their own you could
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believe whatever you want i'm not a liberal and you can choose to think whatever you want i don't
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really care why do women do this you didn't do it but have you ever seen i've been i've been
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commenting about it like all these girls on tiktoks who are just man haters they do the
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they do this fucking thing wait let me zoom in on that they do they do this and they all got the
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fucking clacky nails because when you're talking like you want to be like there's like especially
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right when you get your nails done you're like do the double are they trying to show off that
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no it's not like this it's like this because they're snapping at them they're like you there's
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like it's like a turtle oh my god just like i hate that shit that shit bothers me i know especially
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right when you get your nails done trust you you'd be like i love the threshold i swear like if i'm
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in an argument i do use my hands though i hate that though because i feel like a lot of the
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times like i don't want to be threatening people like if i'm arguing with them but then i'm all
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like in their face and i'm like i would be scared too but not like scared but like i'd be like why
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is this bitch with your hands in my face just kidding just kidding i'm sorry crystal you wrote
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crystal you said or while you agree with the following statement adult age gap relationships are wrong
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i need to fix that that's fucked um adult age gap relationships are wrong why why is that
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just not a lot of common interests like you're with somebody because you have common interests not
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because they're young or uh because they look better you think common interests is the only reason
06:10:19.500
people are with each other so it's the base of why people are together commonality yeah common
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commonality and attraction yeah well attraction is the first thing oh yeah go ahead for attraction is
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the first thing uh that comes up when you meet somebody but once you're with somebody um common
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common interests are what keeps people together and do you think men are more likely to find say
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women between the age of 20 to 25 more physically attractive probably but it doesn't keep them
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together perhaps not necessarily but if there is uh that mutual interest mutual attraction and
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you can have things in common with somebody who's younger than you what's the actual uh issue i guess
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probably because if an older person is dating somebody younger it's more likely because they're young
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not because of common interests so what is the ultimate uh thing that people go for common
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interest or just physical attractiveness at first attraction but i mean if you're dating somebody
06:11:30.000
younger because they're younger at first and most of the time doesn't last because most of the time
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let's even if it's true so i feel like a lot of the time it's like i feel like older men
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like they actually are more aware of like things that they've been through like more stuff so it's
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kind of like more of an understanding of like what they need to provide and what they need not provide
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like not that they need to provide but as for younger men they're going through the still like
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wanting me young and do all the like the things that kind of hurt you more as for like the older guys
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not all of them because like i'm not saying that all older men are like that type of person but
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typically they're more understanding of like the way that you act and like the reasons behind it and
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like they've gone through like those things to like understand that like typically i think why did
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you say it was wrong like inherently wrong yeah what's what's the argument it's not inherently wrong but
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i feel it's wrong because most of the time when somebody's looking for when they get with somebody
06:12:32.560
younger it's because they're young not because well because they why is that because as long as
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we're obviously consenting adults yeah it's not wrong but it just um it's like doesn't last long
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is what i'm saying i feel like it lasts longer because they actually are aware of what they need
06:12:50.880
to do as for younger men like there are like people in that age most of the time like for example i'm 23
06:12:55.680
like a 23 year old for me isn't going to understand like expect what i want especially if i'm looking
06:13:01.960
for something longer term like they they're not really looking for a longer term relationship so
06:13:07.100
older men like are typically more available to wanting that like younger men are like oh they just
06:13:12.980
want to date they want to fuck around and do all this stuff while for older men a lot of the times
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they're like yeah i want to settle down and it kind of gives you like the understanding of like that
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they want they know what they want more than younger men also don't fact check me on this but
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i i think it's either married couples or even just dating couples i'm pretty sure it's married couples
06:13:33.540
like age gap relationships end up working more often than yeah then closer um ages but like don't fact
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don't fact check me on that i think i just saw something about that before though um but yeah there
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was some statistic that was like um relationships with age gaps typically actually work out more
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often than not yeah i feel like it really depends on the man because it's like you know like yeah
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obviously there's manipulators out there and everything like that but i feel like you as a
06:14:04.940
woman know the way that they're acting and the way that they're treating you like off the bat you would
06:14:09.760
know if they're trying to manipulate you or if they're really just trying to find something you know
06:14:14.600
and like obviously like being an older guy it's nice to be attracted to you like obviously they're
06:14:18.440
going to be attracted to like younger women and a lot of the times too like for example in my own
06:14:23.040
personal experiences the older guys i've been with the reason they don't want to be with the same aged
06:14:27.620
women is because a lot of the times like they've lost like not everybody but like a lot of times they
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don't like want to have fun they don't know how to like let loose and like be like different they
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want to have that experience still but still be able to be loyal to them and i a lot of the times
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younger girls don't know they're being manipulated that's true quickly i think i might not get the
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stat completely correct but i think that i read somewhere that men reach emotional maturity by the
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age of 38 and women um reach emotional maturity much younger yeah so i think they could kind of
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you know that's just an argument in favor of age what what would what's like an acceptable age gap for
06:15:08.140
you depends on how old they are i wouldn't say like how about a 20 year old dating a 30 year old
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i'll say late 20s for a 20 year old not a 30 year old i feel like when you're 30 and like like 29 okay
06:15:25.760
probably like 27 okay 27 okay so for example if i was i'm uh i'm 36 if i was dating a 25 year old
06:15:34.940
is that would that be too much of a age gap probably yeah no it's i feel like that's not
06:15:39.720
really fair because like like she said most of the time you mature around that age and to be honest
06:15:47.060
with you it's like nowadays like you so you're saying that they have to stick to that generation
06:15:53.120
of people that if they it's not what like for example i'm an older soul like i've always hung
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out with older people i've never hung out with people that are normally my age group so for me like
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i wouldn't want to have to limit myself to people that aren't think the same way as me or act the
06:16:07.060
same way as me over just being an age i i guess i see it more as like i'm dating this person because
06:16:13.840
they're young not because i have common interests or like i'm curious that's also perspective if you
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had to steel man the the position of men dating younger women what would be the reasons for why men
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would want to date younger women more attractive uh probably don't fight as much about about like
06:16:38.400
different topics easily multiple i feel like younger wait birthable um fertility
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fun just more fun exactly that's what i said like they want to have more exactly like they don't want
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to have to deal with someone who's just going to be like let me ask let me ask you a question so um
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explain to me what would be the benefit to me of dating a 35 year old over a 25 year old
06:17:06.880
it's i would see it as like more lasting wait like the relationship long wait did the relationship
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last longer wait did you say molesting no did she not say molesting i i put the words together oh more
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lasting what yeah more lasting okay um the relationships okay okay that's not really compelling
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i mean you get with people to stay with them i feel it is yeah but why can't someone who's like why
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can't me being 23 years old want to date someone older and want to laugh that last like just
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because they're wait wait wait but if if we take this if we take this argument to its logical
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conclusion if like the primary thing people are trying to do when they get into relationships
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is making sure that they last which by the way i think it's a good thing for relation hopefully the
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relationship lasts forever yeah but wouldn't it then be the case that if that was the primary goal
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people would actively actively date well below their league because it would somehow make sense
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if you really dated below your league like this person would be lucky to be with you
06:18:29.040
and they would be more likely to stay with you what do you consider below your league like if you're
06:18:34.640
really really physically attractive and they're really really ugly and they and like you have a
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i don't know that could be it i mean i wouldn't get with them because they're because i wouldn't be
06:18:45.600
attracted to them right so it always comes to down to attraction then uh first impression is attraction
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so and are more are men more attracted to younger women yes and it lasts a certain amount of time but
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it doesn't last forever because if that's the only reason you're staying with somebody it doesn't
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he'll be dead by the time i feel like for me if i'm gonna be with someone i'm i'm gonna want them
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like for me like when i've settled down i want them to be older than me because i want to be able to
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have that you know understanding of like the way that because they're gonna be more capable of
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actually being able to know what they want in a relationship because they've already gone through
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all those things as for like someone younger like they're not gonna know exactly what they want
06:19:29.800
a lot of people like my age aren't really like the mind that i have not saying i have a bigger mind
06:19:35.600
than that but i'm an old soul i've always connected with older people always that's just kind of how
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it's been so i feel like that would be fair for someone just because of like and all the times it
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doesn't always have to do with the like just because they're young that's the only reason why like
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some people don't even look at age like i feel like aging nothing but a number you know what i
06:19:56.640
mean like the leah song so for me if someone's looking at me and they're like oh because they're
06:20:00.100
young no they're looking at me because she has these mindsets and she's capable of all these things
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like they don't even look at the age they're looking at the person as a whole right i do think as
06:20:10.920
well like girls we like to learn things from our man you know so if a guy's a bit older he can teach
06:20:17.380
us stuff that we don't know and it kind of makes you feel a little bit more safe agreed having
06:20:23.180
someone who's you know lived longer and can handle more knowledgeable more experienced but yeah i want
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to pose the question to you again crystal what in terms of the benefits right what benefit is there to
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me dating a 35 year old over a 25 year old it just depends on why you're with them yeah i'm asking
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you what the benefits would be it doesn't matter if it's 25 or 35 it like there's different there's
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not going to be different benefits i'm saying the the older guy if he's dating somebody because
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they're younger and they are physically try to attracted to them firsthand and and they that's
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the only reason why they stay with them it's not going to last long okay but i don't even know how
06:21:21.280
to approach this one um again though if we all prioritize for it would last long then people would
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actively seek out like partners that are less attractive than them because they wouldn't know
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that they wouldn't leave them yeah exactly you want them they could still leave you but it would
06:21:41.300
arguably it would be argue arguably less likely for somebody if if you're dating below your league
06:21:48.340
yeah they're less likely to break up with you you still want to be attracted to them though but
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he's saying that as in terms as like so what's the difference between i also just want to be
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attracted to that woman that i'm with and this typically happens to be like younger women are
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typically more physically attractive are you gonna not stay with them later when they get old then
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no if that's my partner then you're gonna stay with them it's not like i'm just gonna upgrade to a
06:22:13.220
younger model no it's not always that that's what he's saying that it's not always about the
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attractiveness like that just because someone's young doesn't mean that that's because they're more
06:22:22.440
attractive it's just also they that person they are into like it doesn't have to do anything with
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the age it doesn't have to do with the attractiveness to them because it's more than just
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attraction when you're in a relationship it comes down to a lot more things than that so he's basically
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saying that that would basically say oh i'm gonna be with someone uglier just so that the relationship
06:22:41.520
doesn't break basically saying oh i'm not gonna be with someone younger just because of the
06:22:45.360
relationship might not last he's like basically saying that that's where it doesn't make sense
06:22:49.760
yeah i mean i guess where i get where you're coming from but but again i'm i still haven't
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really gotten the answer what is the benefit if you're trying to like deter men from dating
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younger women because you you're against age gap relationships what is the actual argument for
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no don't date her date her is it just it's like it's more she's more likely to stay with you
06:23:19.420
i i wouldn't necessarily say that i i i just took it as like older people looking for younger people
06:23:29.260
because they're more attractive that's the whole reason why i put yeah yeah okay a 35 year old dating
06:23:37.760
a 20 year old you object to this right yeah yeah does it give you the ick yeah okay um but you even
06:23:47.120
said like 35 25 have some objection objections there do you want to make an argument for why
06:23:56.880
i mean i feel like i kind of said let me ask you a question would you have an objection with a if you
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had a uh time machine and there's a 35 year old who's dating a 20 year old but you know you can see
06:24:14.120
into the future that they're going to get married and they're going to have a good healthy relationship
06:24:20.080
and they're never going to separate do you have any issues beyond just higher incidence of breakup
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do you have any issues with the 35 year old dating the 20 year old if they end up staying together for
06:24:34.580
the rest of their life i i feel like it depends on the person because i feel older men looking for
06:24:41.540
younger women have different intentions than what you're saying what are their intentions
06:24:48.380
to basically be more it's easier to manipulate someone who is younger than but that's what i was
06:24:57.400
looking for but the thing is it's easy let's let it finish it's easier to manipulate expand on that
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basically i mean if a 35 year old is dating a 20 year old he i feel like he feels he can do whatever
06:25:13.060
he wants and wants and what do you mean by do whatever he wants what does that mean
06:25:18.660
i mean kind of for example maybe cheating and saying oh it's your fault and then the girl
06:25:31.520
believing oh it's my fault because he cheated not his fault wouldn't do that of any age that's what i
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was gonna that was what i feel like to say after this you can easily manipulate anybody at any age
06:25:42.060
like it doesn't matter like just and for me like i'm i feel like i'm very like aware of certain
06:25:47.420
things that i'm gonna know if someone's trying to manipulate me like i'm not gonna just let somebody
06:25:51.080
manipulate me just because i'm 23 years old like that's not really you can flip it on its head as
06:25:55.260
well and also think you know this man can teach me a lot yeah that i don't already know so that's
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then that's a that's a beautiful thing and if you feel like they're manipulating you that that's
06:26:05.020
when the people would leave and at the end of the day everyone makes their own decisions so if
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someone were to stay with the manipulation then that is their choice but typically not everybody's
06:26:14.000
just dating younger women just to manipulate them like i feel like i wouldn't say standard i wouldn't
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say all of them but it's more likely for younger women to believe the older person i'm not saying
06:26:26.960
everybody but some will i feel like anybody it's like people are gonna like not everybody but a lot of
06:26:33.900
people like in a relationship if someone's gonna lie like it doesn't always just have to be because
06:26:37.740
they're younger like people are just like gonna be like that no matter what like they're gonna do
06:26:42.140
that to their 35 year old girlfriend they're gonna do that to their 23 year old girlfriend if that's
06:26:46.100
just the type of person that they are yeah so are you but i guess my confusion here you would agree
06:26:51.440
that same age relationships can be predatory and abusive right yeah okay so assuming the older
06:26:57.880
individual has good intentions do you have any objections beyond what you've already stated
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i wouldn't say so no okay so so long as the 35 year old has good intentions you're fine with him
06:27:13.540
dating a 20 year old yeah as long as it's not based on looks and no it is based on looks
06:27:20.120
i mean like you're if they have good intentions yeah yeah that's i mean sure he likes other things
06:27:29.140
about her too but yeah okay i just don't see it that way most of the time do you think it's predatory
06:27:38.920
i'm i mean with most i feel like with most guys yeah oh okay most guys so most guys who
06:27:47.840
who have a preference for younger women it's predatory
06:27:54.260
what do you what do you mean by predatory uh i mean seeking to take advantage of
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i would say yeah okay so how how are most men who have an interest in younger women how are they
06:28:11.200
seeking to take advantage of these younger adult women i mean i feel like i kind of said that
06:28:20.060
they are more able i feel to um push their beliefs and and uh have them behave the way they want them
06:28:31.620
to manipulate i think it's the word you're looking for yeah okay um you think it's more likely yeah
06:28:41.440
it's just kind of an assertion though i don't know if i hear an argument so
06:28:46.820
any man you date i could just say you're trying to take advantage of him
06:28:49.980
so how would it how is it manipulative or predatory it depends on their intentions
06:28:57.860
their intentions are good they want a long-term monogamous relationship well then i would say yeah
06:29:03.580
it's it's fine okay yeah i mean if they have good intentions and they both care for each other
06:29:14.460
and have common interests and all that like i don't feel that would be uh predatory what if
06:29:21.300
they have no common interest i mean why are you with them well they have they have uh similar values
06:29:28.160
but in terms of common interests they don't have the same hobbies they don't have the same
06:29:33.820
taste in music same taste in movies same taste in shows same taste in food i feel like she's just
06:29:40.640
really really hot i mean if they're if they're like say both christians and like maybe have one
06:29:48.880
interest yeah yeah i wouldn't i mean i feel like that would work so question if i presented to you
06:29:57.840
an age gap relationship say a 35 year old dating a 20 year old but there was no manipulation occurring
06:30:03.460
she said it you witnessed it it's a healthy relationship can you make an argument against
06:30:09.640
that relationship no okay all right good times i guess um all right uh guys 30 tts we're gonna do
06:30:20.080
a roast session then we're gonna wrap the show okay we got pasty george here thank you brother
06:30:23.620
pasty george donated 70 pasty george your ebola western men have more in common with young
06:30:30.500
traditional women in other countries that do not have the internet including social media but have
06:30:36.460
access to education uh-huh thank you pasty george that's for you chair five i'm kind of confused at
06:30:46.640
the question would would met western men have more in common with young traditional women in other
06:30:51.720
countries that do not have the internet including social media but have access to education
06:30:55.780
uh what is access to education i don't even know what what do men and women have in common with
06:31:02.540
like what what would it what would i have in common with a woman that would make me
06:31:09.860
more into her sense of humor shared interests maybe like you guys like the same like type of like
06:31:18.440
you guys are kind of like the type of people like that want to be motivated to do things
06:31:22.200
like you both have motivation to want to like accomplish something in your lives to be somebody
06:31:26.980
ambitions same taste in movies and books loads of things yeah like yeah movies books i think you
06:31:33.920
even need to have gym common really you don't need to have everything in common it's nice to be able
06:31:38.720
to do your own thing but it's good to have like tell tell me what i would have in common with a 35
06:31:44.540
year old that i can't have in common with a 25 year old not really in any i feel like that's not
06:31:51.440
that much of an age difference a little bit more life experience that's it yeah i i don't think men
06:31:57.160
value life experience i'm not saying they do i'm just saying that's the only thing i can think of
06:32:02.340
brian i mean they grew up in a different decade the only thing i could okay my last two boyfriends
06:32:09.340
were 10 years older than me and they were the best like relationships i ever had so what did
06:32:14.560
you say the only thing i could think of would be like generational things but i don't really think
06:32:17.560
that matters that much yeah exactly especially because like still everyone wants it to be
06:32:21.240
traditional just as it was back in the time so it's like what we exactly so it would be like that
06:32:26.400
would it yeah i agree oh my god she didn't watch the original karate kid movie i'm done over
06:32:32.860
yeah you can never show the person all these things like if they matter so much to you i feel
06:32:40.180
like a lot of times if people have too much in common like then it's like boring yeah exactly like
06:32:44.300
for example some people like in a relationship right you go out they you you both can't match
06:32:49.900
your guys's energy when it comes to being crazy if both of you guys are crazy it's going to be too
06:32:53.480
crazy there needs to be a little bit of a chill one and there needs to be somebody so you guys can
06:32:57.420
balance each other so i feel like that's also nice to have like an older guy that's like a little bit
06:33:01.720
more chilled out so that when you go out and stuff you feel that safe and you feel like you can kind
06:33:05.440
of do that because they don't feel like they need to be doing that instead of like two 23 year olds
06:33:09.880
that are just going crazy and then it's like no one's there to balance each other yeah what are you
06:33:15.020
going to talk about if you just have the same thing in common yeah like yeah me too yeah okay nothing
06:33:21.140
to talk about nothing to learn like you guys just yeah music taste is important though because you
06:33:26.220
don't want to be having to listen to like bait hope when you want to be listening to oasis true
06:33:31.620
in the car you know what i mean i would do it if i if i love them what'd you say sorry sorry is it a
06:33:36.860
deal breaker if they don't have the see that's what i'm saying i would but it's just it's just that
06:33:41.120
is one thing it's kind of i would deal with it if she listens to rap music i'm not gonna lie
06:33:46.700
and i feel like younger women lean a bit more towards listening to rap what i don't know if it's a
06:33:52.120
i dj old school hip-hop i feel like i like i'm talking i'm talking like more i don't know past
06:33:57.980
five ten years stuff like are you talking about like sexy red because i don't listen to sexy red
06:34:02.520
she's despicable yeah i don't know i don't know that's terrible i don't know the rap she no it's
06:34:08.440
vulgar and yeah it's like it's honestly crazy it's a lot especially for the fact that kids like
06:34:13.140
there's like three-year-olds that are like not three-year-olds but i have like five-year-olds
06:34:16.000
are like singing it like like i'm like that shit's terrible yeah that's that's where things
06:34:22.940
are wrong yeah no me neither every time people dance to it at the club i'm like this is not cute
06:34:29.640
all right we're gonna let some more chats come through we got clane here thank you clane
06:34:37.540
clane donated 69 dollars 69 been busy flying all day just got on can anyone translate this
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pink shirt always connected with older men's wallets brown shirt has no idea what threshold
06:34:54.460
what did he say yo clane just got on kitchens this guy dropped some champagne pops in the previous
06:35:02.800
show this guy's a legend connected with older men for their wallets that's three pink shirts i don't
06:35:08.240
know what that is i don't know i'm kind of confused with this question sir like he's connected
06:35:12.300
they're confused clane clarify blah fest thank you oh i don't know why that i guess it's i guess it's
06:35:20.700
a bad thing to ask questions sorry yeah god it's horrible yes queen yeah
06:35:27.380
everyone always does that to me let me fix that thank you bluff is donated 30 dollars what if a 40
06:35:36.220
year old man and a 21 year old woman wanted to start enough together would that be okay i would say
06:35:41.840
yeah because it's really the difference oh i i don't think only fan is it only fans is more i think
06:35:48.880
yeah she's against yeah so maybe not the best question uh sorry mister wait how about this
06:35:55.740
though just for blah fest here blah fest you owe me this one what would you rather see uh a guy be in
06:36:03.280
a long-term monogamous committed relationship like 35 dating a 20 year old or those two same people just
06:36:10.620
having a one-night stand and that's it which two people 20 the 35 and the 20 year old staying
06:36:19.100
together oh but like wouldn't you agree that there's much more opportunity for a girl to be
06:36:25.500
manipulated in a long-term relationship did you say they weren't i thought you said it was a good
06:36:30.600
relationship and i said there was a long-term monogamous relationship but you would you would
06:36:35.600
agree with me even under those circumstances that manipulation could occur she could be
06:36:41.260
manipulated yeah i mean if you're giving me two two uh choices i'm gonna pick the other one
06:36:46.620
all right it's less but you would agree that like if a girl just has a one-night stand and that's the
06:36:52.860
extent it's kind of hard absent her i suppose her being manipulated into sex beyond that manipulated in
06:37:02.360
other ways she wouldn't be i i just don't i don't know i don't believe in one night stands i don't i
06:37:12.660
don't like one yeah okay all right it goes against my thank you pasty too many women in first world
06:37:23.200
countries are now predators and will divorce a man over stupid things like him forgetting to put down
06:37:28.520
the toilet seat telling her no when she is wrong oh that's a bit extreme isn't it that's a little
06:37:33.920
cray cray mister you know what i actually this reminds me i've never shared this anecdote before
06:37:39.560
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have one for yourself well it's not that one you can get hummingbirds with them you can catch the
06:38:11.180
hummingbirds today oh so here's the anecdote just kidding it was my first time hanging out with this
06:38:16.580
girl and she gave me flack genuine flack not like banter for having left she was at my place
06:38:25.060
leaving my toilet seat up what was we hooked up what's she doing but there was not a second
06:38:32.500
not a second date i'm just confused and baffled at why she was leaving the toilet seat up no she was
06:38:39.920
at your home right she was at my spot i went to use the bathroom oh sorry i left the toilet seat up
06:38:46.040
and then she's like wow why did you leave the toilet seat up it's your place man like who
06:38:50.900
does she think she is there was to be fair that wasn't the only reason that there wasn't anything
06:38:55.660
else but that was a strike against her yeah yeah and there was some other shit too but like
06:39:01.360
yeah i had if it was in her place which is what i initially thought no it's still okay
06:39:05.660
well i said that really loud i believe it was also just raven that said that the biggest regret of
06:39:11.800
his term was no fault divorce and that was kind of what we're talking about toilet seats what the
06:39:17.740
fuck divorces she's been waiting all night to say that shit i was joking about the hummingbirds
06:39:22.840
what's wrong if i'm at a girl's place why do i don't gotta put the toilet seat down
06:39:28.280
you think i gotta put the toilet i think why is that because we don't want to touch it
06:39:32.400
i don't really care i don't want to what if i sit in like the toilet and there's like peeing on it
06:39:36.220
and i'm just like and then i sit and i fall through the toilet seat fall in the rim and then i'm just
06:39:41.420
my whole booty's wet from it like i would cry girls it's in the middle of the night if they go
06:39:46.160
if they go to the bathroom when it's dark because they don't want to switch on the light because of
06:39:50.920
the melatonin thing right so then they just fall into the the loop that has never happened in my
06:39:56.680
entire life so i don't understand why everyone's got a problem with it i would just stay there until you
06:40:00.320
came in there i'd be like this is this is what you've caused me
06:40:03.260
maybe girls should just be more careful when they're going to the bathroom i would never do
06:40:08.720
that i don't know i don't know i would get up and i'd smack him uh okay guys 30 tts get it in
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get them in we have drink up jess drink up jess donated 30 dollars my sprinkler goes like this
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yo thank you so tonight's panel totally wrecked the discord drinking game players
06:40:38.720
shout out to all the shitty dads out there your daughters are the best for meaningless sex
06:40:46.680
oh god remember you're here cause her daddy is not a queer happy father's day only fans girls
06:40:53.140
fathers must be proud thank you thank you what a lovely thing to say that's nice isn't it
06:40:59.060
potential rest are 304 uh mr hyde you have to pay the sim tax you have to pay the sim tax if
06:41:05.980
you're gonna sim you you have to send in another why what would be the and i'm not and what would
06:41:10.060
be the difference of the potential when we all are doing the same thing like that doesn't even
06:41:13.360
make any sense to distract from her face when one can be saved but the rest can't my boobs are down
06:41:20.800
here i'm not an only fans girl by the way do you have a response
06:41:23.780
solid wait chloe read uh chloe i don't understand chloe
06:41:41.560
no no she was gonna give you a hand guys um america europe and
06:41:49.980
guys be quiet let go one more you got it you got this i'm really not good at geography
06:41:56.900
what's in europe you got this think about what's in europe i've literally traveled one quick one
06:42:01.700
one last country one last country chloe you got this you got this china jamaica
06:42:09.560
good job uh she almost did it two out of three europe is not a country it is a continent wait chloe
06:42:17.880
name 10 books um that's a lot i can't leave her alone leave her alone
06:42:26.940
unfortunately if you can't name 10 books this is ivy you have to read the first five pages of cat
06:42:34.920
in that i love that book you made me do this last time i literally am so sorry i would love to read it
06:42:41.820
that's that was my favorite i have green eggs and ham the butter battle book which was my personal
06:42:49.120
favorite i never read that one it's it's lit is it by dr seuss oh dr seuss this is the butter battle
06:42:55.340
book is i'm gonna read that when i get home i'm gonna find it online check that shit and then next
06:42:58.920
time i'll sell it to you for a hundred bucks you want it shit you might you might have just sold me
06:43:03.700
right now y'all get the merch get the merch you got the books no you gotta give me this i'm hustling
06:43:09.200
we'll talk about it after i just i honestly might just do it y'all she might just do it for
06:43:14.060
the for the do it for the check amazon first do it for the daughter do it for the vine yeah that's
06:43:19.280
what it was go ahead chloe the book's not gonna read itself i want to hear it it's gonna sound cute
06:43:24.940
with your voice we have 45 minutes um the cat in the hat by dr seuss
06:43:32.340
um the sun did not shine it was too wet to play so we sat in the house all that cold cold wet day
06:43:42.560
i sat there with sally we sat there we too and i said how i wish we had something to do
06:43:50.320
too wet to go out and too cold to play ball so we sat in the house we did nothing at all
06:43:55.760
so all we so all we could do was to set set set set and we did not like it not one little
06:44:04.460
shut the fuck up that was beautiful thank you thank you i love that i would i would have you read
06:44:10.680
to me all day long every day i'm talking about right now in other countries have no internet or
06:44:17.900
social media but have access to education would they need common interests with western men
06:44:24.000
if so why i'm still a little confused pasty come on you was you's been on it and now you're not on
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it okay i don't know she's not gonna give you an answer i don't know man all right sin magic 14
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donated 100 wu-tang clan brain cash rules everything around me what does the dj think about that
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cash cash rules everything around me um well it doesn't really rule everything around me but
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it it's a song lyric i know i know i know i know um
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it it rules a lot of it rules a lot of people's lives for sure wow profound yeah i know profound
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sorry i'm getting a little bit tired chloe what do you think about the roman empire
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my god why are you making me look so dumb my mom is not gonna be proud
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like everything i said today was so embarrassing it was an embarrassing
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you have someone on the panel could translate that
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how about simplify the pink shirt was the old soul
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yeah wait what about that when it says the pink shirt was the old soul so what is it did you miss that
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he said something about something in latin and then he said the pink shirt was an old soul so what is clarifying
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you know what they say on the left side of a women brain
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there's nothing right and on the right side there's nothing left is what these women tonight are currently suffering from
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you thought you're gonna make it through the show
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i'm always dealing with some bullshit before the show
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this is a video i definitely took of my ex-girlfriend
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but i would definitely show my appreciation for him
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brian would you do it for a woman who's the provider