Whatever Podcast - 2 OBNOXIOUS Rude Girls KICKED OUT! 1 RAGE QUIT？! The MOST Beautiful Panel EVER？？？｜ Dating Talk #226

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00:03:29.880 whatever channel. With that said, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce

00:03:34.660 themselves. So please tell us your name, age, location, occupation, and education. Go ahead.

00:03:40.340 What's going on. I'm forever the rebel. I'm 24. Um, I'm from Chicago, but I live in Atlanta,

00:03:46.460 came all the way to LA out here for this. Um, I'm a musician and a business owner. I own my own studio

00:03:53.960 and people pay me to record their music. Um, I have a certification in audio engineering and I played

00:04:00.780 a guitar. Nice. Oh man. We should have had you bring a instrument or something. Yeah. Maybe next

00:04:05.900 time. And any education, like any college or anything like that? I was in the military, so I didn't go to

00:04:11.980 college. I was in the air force, air force enlisted or you went in as enlisted. Yeah. Enlisted. Um,

00:04:18.880 I was in there for two years and then I left, uh, for medical reasons and then like a medical

00:04:24.560 discharge. Yeah, it was like a medical discharge. And then, uh, I went and got my certification in

00:04:29.100 audio engineering. So that's my, what were you, what was your job, I guess, in the military? Uh,

00:04:34.280 I was an engineer. So basically I made the blueprints and floor plans for my base. Yeah. All right.

00:04:38.900 Got it. And you have a grill. Is that what, what is that called? A grill? Yeah. Okay. You're

00:04:44.440 going to get the tops done or yeah, I'm definitely going to get the tops. I'm going to be, I'm

00:04:48.120 going to be blinged out soon. I definitely, I'm a rapper. Get it. Wait, can we, can we hear

00:04:52.820 a little, I don't know, like, you sing, you sing, I, I, I, I'm more of a rock star. So I do a little

00:04:59.920 rap, but I definitely rap. Give us a little, give us a couple bars. Yeah, I got you. I can

00:05:04.600 give you a little four piece. Um, yo, yo. Hi, nice to meet you. My name is forever.

00:05:11.560 We could talk about relationships and put it together. We could chill on my podcast.

00:05:15.740 How about whatever, man? I hope one of these girls, man, we leaving together. 1.00

00:05:19.020 There we go. Okay. I'm just playing. I'm just playing. I just came off the top with it.

00:05:24.420 That was good. That was good. Thank you for having me. That'll be our new intro for the podcast.

00:05:28.860 Whatever. Sweet. Awesome. Thank you, Rebel. What about you?

00:05:31.560 Hi, I'm Roxanna Vina, and I am from Santa Barbara. Okay. I actually grew up in Rhode

00:05:37.320 Island. Okay. From Rhode Island. Yeah. Go ahead. And I own a spa called Femme Fatale Beauty.

00:05:43.640 Femme Fatale. Okay. And I'm also a real estate agent, and, um, I used to work for Playboy as

00:05:48.940 well. Nice. Like the magazine or? Um, yeah. So it was, it was, um, since, since 18 that I've

00:05:56.540 been working on and off with them. Okay. But I have three children. Three kids. Wow.

00:06:02.300 Yeah. So I had to stop at some point. Same, same father? Same father. Same guy. Are you

00:06:07.120 married or? Well, I guess we can get into that later. Yeah. I'm, yeah. And, um, uh, any school

00:06:13.220 or anything like that? Um, yeah. So I went to Rhode Island College. Okay. And then, um. You got

00:06:19.860 your associates, bachelors? I got, like, a bachelor of arts there for communications,

00:06:24.740 public relations. Mm-hmm. And then, um, then I furthered my career with, uh, the real

00:06:31.100 estate. Sure. And then also cosmetology school for being an esthetician. Got it. Age? Um,

00:06:37.920 I am 47. 47. Okay. Got it. What about you? Good morning, children. My name is Elena. I'm

00:06:46.140 from Ukraine. Wait, say that again. Good morning, children. Wake up. We are in whatever

00:06:50.600 podcast. Can you, instead of children, can you say comrades? Go ahead. Comrades? Comrades.

00:06:56.700 Who is this? Comrades. Am I English? Not good. I'm from Ukraine. Well, exactly. Comrades.

00:07:03.100 Comrades. Good morning, comrades. Good morning, comrades. Okay. Perfect. Good. Okay. My name

00:07:08.880 is Elena. I'm from Ukraine. I live in Miami. I am singer, songwriter, host, comedian, actress,

00:07:16.740 do events, and also work as a bartender. All right. I'm 37. Uh, and any school or anything

00:07:23.040 like that? Yeah. I have a master's degree. I have two education. In, in childhood education,

00:07:27.880 you said? Huh? The master's degree. It's in childhood? No, no, no. It's a finance. Oh,

00:07:33.000 finance. Okay. Got it. And, uh, age? 37. 37. Got it. Okay. What about you? Hello. I'm

00:07:41.200 Ayana. I'm 23. Um, I'm from California or Baltimore. It doesn't matter. Uh, Baltimore?

00:07:49.300 Yes. That's where I was raised for a long time. What was that for? I don't know. And

00:07:54.080 I'm a singer. I was going to do that for Chicago too. Baltimore takes the cake. Okay. Singer?

00:08:00.620 Yeah. Uh, and, uh, education? Uh, yeah. I went to SBCC. Got your associates? No, I didn't

00:08:08.800 finish yet. Okay. Still working on it. Still working on it. Yeah. Let's hear, uh,

00:08:12.500 Etta James. What's that song? Uh, all right. Ready? You know, you know which one I'm talking

00:08:17.100 about. At last, my love has come along. My lonely days are over. And life is like a song.

00:08:32.100 Oh, oh, yeah, yeah. At last. Yes. That was good. Wait, then you're a singer too. All right. Let's

00:08:42.920 hear it. Wait, do you sing also? You sing? No, I sing pretty bad. Okay, then don't do that. But

00:08:48.040 what about you? What should I sing? Well, you said you're a singer, right? Yes. Are you a rapper

00:08:52.100 too? No, no, no. Ukrainian rap is not popular. Okay. Uh, give us something. Sing. Um, you want

00:09:00.180 Ukrainian? You want American? American? No, wait. Yes. Sure. Yeah. American. Okay, clear

00:09:07.260 that. Whoa. Okay. Wow. All right. Oh, excuse me. You're putting everybody on a spot. I know.

00:09:18.860 I know. That's good. Especially you got to follow her up too. That's, yeah, that's rough.

00:09:22.260 It was. You want to see what your eyes, what you see. How can I be what you want it to

00:09:31.540 be? You frozen when your heart's not open. If I could melt your heart. We'd never be apart.

00:09:52.260 Wow. All right. Very cool. Very cool. Uh, what about you? Natalie, I'm 49. March 15 is my

00:10:03.880 birthday. Happy birthday. There's what? Audios. Give me one sec, guys. We are getting a couple

00:10:17.180 reports of a couple audio issues here and there. Give me one sec. Somebody saying sound

00:10:23.520 is fine. Uh, audio issues. Got to refresh. Uh, one sec, guys. Sometimes it's, uh, give me

00:10:36.660 one sec, guys. Um, the audio issue is her voice. What? Uh, members, members, uh, how's the audio?

00:10:51.940 Is the audio okay? Or is it, I did a couple changes to it. So, I mean, I'm not, there could

00:10:59.260 be reports of differences in the audio. Um, but can you let me know if the audio is okay,

00:11:06.280 members? The singing was the problem. Okay. You see the Ukrainian man comment? Yeah. Uh, 1.00

00:11:16.760 okay. I'll listen to it after the, uh, introductions, but for now, I think we're, uh, internet problems

00:11:25.780 too. I don't know. Uh, I think it's fine. Mods. Is it mod chat? Can you tell me if it's fine?

00:11:32.260 Sorry, guys. Just one moment here. Uh, give us just a moment, guys. Just another day. Uh,

00:11:45.060 just another day. Technical difficulties, audio difficulties. Thank you for your patience,

00:11:49.980 guys, while my team is looking into any audio issues here. I think it's fine for now, but if

00:11:56.400 it continues, I'll take another look at it. Sorry for the interruption. Um, won't you introduce

00:12:01.080 yourself? Natalie, 49. Uh, recently moved to Oxnard Shore from Manhattan beach. I'm a French

00:12:08.880 Portuguese. I'm a PA. I have three medical cosmetic offices, Ventura, Malibu, and Manhattan beach. I

00:12:17.020 love what I do. Single parent, very proud to my Marine boy. He's just became a captain in, uh,

00:12:25.360 Camp Pendleton. Woo. Uh, Marines. Yes. Marines. And he's an, he's an officer. No, my son was an

00:12:33.560 officer. Now he's a captain. Got it. Okay. He didn't go in enlisted though. No, he went, uh,

00:12:40.660 he went to college and then, yeah, he played water polo for UCI. Got it. Okay. And, uh, you said

00:12:47.480 you're a PA. So a physician assistant. Yeah. Got it. Okay. And I do injection and I very

00:12:54.340 much upset with the comment you guys said on the labia. All my friends in the industry

00:13:00.360 are very pro labia, uh, surgery. So you guys say you're against and you protesting it, but

00:13:08.980 a lot of many surgeons that I know will go out of business. It's a very popular procedure.

00:13:17.020 Excuse me. Ha ha. Ha ha. No, no, no, no, no. Okay. We're going to have to save the labia 0.86

00:13:24.000 debate for later, but, uh, I, uh, it's my industry. I know how it goes. They, I mean, they fly here

00:13:32.920 from all over the world to get it done. It's your industry, but it's his passion. Because women that

00:13:37.360 do vaginal birth, they have to get some repair. So I'm just saying it's not all the time, but

00:13:44.360 not all the time, but most, we've had three kids. I've had three. Did you have, what is

00:13:49.300 it called? Vaginal repair? Vaginal, uh, vaginal rejuvenation, but vaginal birth is different. 0.87

00:13:57.400 The vagina is fine. Is the vagina fine? It's fine. It's fine. She's had three kids. The vagina 1.00

00:14:03.320 is fine. I had the C-section. It's very fine. But I'm just saying the industry is very high 0.99

00:14:08.980 demand. I don't say about us. I say the industry is very high demand. Do you do labiaplasty?

00:14:16.320 No, I have many friends that do it and I know how it's done. Let me know. I'm going to protest.

00:14:23.260 I did 12 years plastic surgery and it's a very high demand. I'm sad about that. I'm sad about that.

00:14:32.480 Women like it tighter because the man is asked for it. Like what? Women like it to be tighter 1.00

00:14:38.780 because the man asked for it. But the labiaplasty, that's like the skin on the outside. Yeah, the lip.

00:14:43.260 That doesn't make it tighter though. But the lip, if you get the lip, you want to get it

00:14:50.080 all done. I'm just saying it's the industry. Well, some women just get the labiaplasty, but 0.99

00:14:54.120 I mean, you know. I don't know. Jake, have you ever run into like, like, have you ever run

00:15:02.340 into like loose? I've never run into one. Have you, have you put your penis in one day? I may 1.00

00:15:08.860 have been counted one. Or use your, your fingers. Bro, it's like, bro, loose pussy's rare. Rare. 0.99

00:15:16.840 Yeah. And you can, you kegels. Anyways, whatever. Um, good talk. Already talking about vaginas 1.00

00:15:23.600 five minutes into the show. Okay. Um, well, we'll have the debate later then. What about 0.99

00:15:28.400 you? Uh, my name's Callie. Yep. I'm 31. 31. All right. I am a creator, model, and I have

00:15:34.860 a cannabis brand. Sweet. And, uh, oh, where are you from? I'm originally from the Bay

00:15:40.600 Area, but I live in Vegas. A little closer. I'm originally from the Bay Area, but I live

00:15:43.920 in Vegas. You're in Vegas. And any school, college, anything like that? Yeah. I went to

00:15:48.100 a university, but I didn't finish. Did you get your associates or? No. Okay. Got it.

00:15:52.880 And I looked on your Instagram. You've, you have a billboard in the desert. That's cool.

00:15:58.760 Yeah. I was right before you got to Vegas from LA. Nice. Have you, has it, has the billboard

00:16:03.360 campaign? Has it resulted in some good traffic or? No. It's not working. Are you regretting

00:16:10.440 the billboard? I don't regret it at all. It was good for like getting my name out there,

00:16:14.760 but. Oh, wait, one question. Are those corrective lenses? Is it like blue light or? No. Because

00:16:22.200 I feel like we need to see your face, you know? Are you down to take them off? No, I like to

00:16:27.200 wear them. I'll give you a $2. Do you know how much this is worth? I'll give you a $2 bill to

00:16:32.080 take them off for the rest of the show. I don't need $2. Those are bad. You don't need

00:16:37.340 $2, but you need a $2 bill. They look like Elvis. Do you have any $2 bills? No. Have

00:16:42.200 you ever had a $2 bill? I have a $2 bill. Do I need a $2 bill? You need, you need it. No.

00:16:47.800 This is to re-up your billboard campaign. You can put it towards that. Save it for a rainy

00:16:52.960 day, AKA today. I said I have a cannabis brand. I think I'm good. Good talk. Good talk. What about

00:17:00.200 you? What's up? I'm Ava. Okay. Welcome. Siren SB from SB. 805. Yeah. I was in cosmetology

00:17:10.100 school. I did esthetician school. So I do aesthetics. I teach dance as well. Salsa, bachata. Bachata.

00:17:19.140 Nice. I do that too. Really? Not really. Doesn't look like it. I definitely don't do it. Age?

00:17:25.360 24. 24. All right. Welcome back. What about you?

00:17:31.860 What's good, y'all? It's your girl Yams, Yamile Fuentes. Born and

00:17:35.260 raised here in Santa Barbara, 805. Baby. I am 24 years old. I am a business

00:17:41.740 administration major and a dancer. And I also rap, so I'm gonna have to hop in your

00:17:46.760 studio because everyone's been flaking on me. Let's go.

00:17:49.260 You said Fuentes? Yes. Are you a grouper? Oh, bro. Seriously, dude. A lot of artists

00:17:54.960 in here. Oh my God. I like that. A lot of creators. All right. Go ahead, Jake. Yes, we

00:17:57.840 all go home with you. Jake, YouTube channel, Rattlesnake TV podcast, reality-based podcast and

00:18:06.600 travel channel, Rattlesnake Travel, where we've just released a video shooting big, big weapons

00:18:12.900 with Andrew Wilson. And you guys will enjoy that all down below. All right, guys, going around

00:18:17.120 the table once more, we're getting into everybody's relationship status. So if you're single, how

00:18:23.620 long have you been single? And what's the longest relationship you've ever been in?

00:18:29.300 Single, been single for like a year. And my longest relationship was four years on and off

00:18:35.520 towards the last year, but like four years. Yeah.

00:18:38.800 So you said single?

00:18:40.540 For a year.

00:18:41.480 One year, but on and off?

00:18:43.220 Yeah, but it was like four years in total. Like it was on and off, but I say four years

00:18:48.460 for real. Cause I really wasn't talking to anybody else during those four years.

00:18:52.520 Okay. Got it. Uh, you said, when you say on and off, so it was like there'd be periods.

00:18:57.980 Yeah. Like we break up, then, uh, you know, I'd be the person chasing, you know, and I'd be

00:19:03.100 like, Hey, come back. Let's like, let's work it out. And then we get back together for a couple

00:19:06.520 more months and then maybe on and off type situation. You know how it is. You know, we

00:19:11.380 all get together with our exes. You see, especially like that was my first relationship. So it was

00:19:16.120 like them attachment issues are strong.

00:19:19.220 Okay. How many times was it on and off again?

00:19:22.900 I say like three, four, five, three, four, five.

00:19:26.760 Okay. And who's initiating the off?

00:19:28.540 Um, like we would break up for different reasons, but like, like the last times, like she would

00:19:35.540 be starting getting mean to me out of nowhere. And then if, if I didn't feel like I did anything

00:19:41.740 wrong, we ended up breaking up or we just, it'd be something stupid. Like we shared a 0.97

00:19:46.940 money together and it died and she blamed it on me and we broke up and that'd be a breakup

00:19:52.640 for a couple months or something like that. It just was like little stupid things like that. 1.00

00:19:57.100 But like I said, it was my first relationship. So I didn't know what I was doing all the way. 0.99

00:20:01.700 Okay. Um, and, uh, you were a lesbian. Yeah. Are a lesbian. Can you tell us there was a 1.00

00:20:09.360 transition? You kind of went viral recently. Yeah. Uh, let me know the details. Yeah. I,

00:20:14.840 you know, I like, I like girls. Um, that's my preference, but it just in recently in 2024,

00:20:20.840 really, um, I was just having some issues with girls not reciprocating my energy. I just felt like

00:20:26.460 I was giving everything and not getting anything. And I just, at a certain point I'm tired. Cause

00:20:30.880 like, I'm not, I'm a STEM. Like I like, I like to switch it up, put on some lashes to shit too. 0.99

00:20:35.880 I'm a princess too. So you're going to have to treat me like that. And so I had to switch 0.99

00:20:39.620 over to guys and give guys a chance and you know, I'm having fun. I'm having fun. You know what I'm

00:20:45.400 saying? It's fun not having to do everything. You know what I'm saying? Like, you know what I'm

00:20:50.820 saying? Like, I hate driving. Like simple stuff like that. Like you don't, girls don't appreciate 1.00

00:20:58.460 it sometimes. And it's just like, I just want somebody that, you know, I want a girlfriend.

00:21:01.940 You hate driving? Yeah. I don't like driving. Like it's not fun. So you need a man to drive 1.00

00:21:06.040 for you? I'm not saying I don't need it, but I would prefer to be in the passenger seat for

00:21:11.020 sure. I feel like everybody would. And, um, like I want a girlfriend, but a girlfriend doesn't

00:21:15.300 want me. So I'm talking to guys right now. It's easier to get guys too. So they're so

00:21:20.320 easy. They're so easy. So yeah. Oh, did you have a question? Okay. Um, but yeah, I've been

00:21:31.760 having fun since I switched. Metro Matt donated 200 dollars. Yo, thank you, Matt. Sorry for

00:21:36.380 the delay. What in the DEI panel? Daddy Trump already banned this. Send these 300 and fours 1.00

00:21:42.900 back to the loony bin. Sorry for the delay Metro Matt. We were just getting through the

00:21:46.940 intro and then the audio issues threw me off. But yo, Metro Matt, thank you so much, man.

00:21:51.500 For the TTS. I am not 304. Does anybody want to respond to anybody? 304. Loony bin, 304, DEI,

00:22:00.860 Daddy Trump. Okay. All right. Thank you, Metro Matt. Appreciate it guys. W's in the chat for

00:22:06.400 Metro Matt, big time supporter over there. Good, good homie in the discord too. Relationships 0.99

00:22:12.680 status. Go ahead. Yes. So, um, I was married for 20 years, just recently got divorced and

00:22:18.980 I'm with, um, the one I truly love. Um, we are, have been in a relationship for like three

00:22:25.340 years almost. Gotcha. Wait, a couple of clarifying questions here. Um, your marriage, you were

00:22:31.160 married for 20 years and together for how long with the individual? Um, with my boyfriend

00:22:37.080 now. No, no. So you said you were married for 20 years. Is that correct? Yes. But you were

00:22:41.660 dating? Oh, we were only dating for like six months. Oh, okay. So I mean together like

00:22:46.720 20 years. Yeah. And I, I got married when I was 24. Married at 24. And then, so you got

00:22:53.240 divorced at 44. Um, I got divorced. Uh, well it, it got finalized last year. Last year.

00:23:01.660 Okay. It took a long time to get finalized. A couple clarifying questions on this. You said

00:23:06.360 you, and you initiated the divorce? Yes. Okay. But you've been with the man who you truly

00:23:13.320 love? Is that, or what did you, how did you describe it? Um, the love of my life. Love

00:23:17.640 of your life. You've been in a relationship with three years. Three years. Uh, how, what,

00:23:22.700 um, how soon after you initiated the divorce did you begin your new relationship? Well, it's

00:23:28.540 a little bit complicated because, well, my, my boyfriend would like act like he's gay.

00:23:35.500 And like, he would, he like pretend he was gay. Right. And like, um, but my, my ex knew

00:23:44.380 we had kind of an open relationship. And so, um, because I had children, like he would come

00:23:51.700 over the house and I didn't want to be, we didn't want to be like, well, this is my lover,

00:23:56.660 you know? So we went through that, um, phase of maybe about six months to a year of just

00:24:06.160 kind of like, you know, pretend how, what's that pretend to be gay. How? Oh yeah. Like 0.94

00:24:12.280 he would just, he would just act like, like just in front of the kids, you know, like, but

00:24:18.460 like my, my ex knew, you know, and he had his own relationships over the years and stuff.

00:24:24.240 He's, you know, so your ex-husband. Yes. Um, wait, so I'm a little, was, are you alleging

00:24:31.840 there's infidelity? Um, yes. Okay. Yes. But, um, on your end or his or both? Um, I would

00:24:40.340 say on his end, but, um, he, if you ask him, he would say that I was being, um,

00:24:48.460 uh, not, you know, not true. But the thing is, is that, okay, he, he had, you know, his

00:24:55.500 flings here and there, he would travel a lot. And then I would, um, and then finally I, I

00:25:01.380 found somebody, um, and we had an open relationship. And so he knew that we were lovers. And so,

00:25:10.900 you know, technically I'm not like cheating. Do you know what I mean?

00:25:17.220 Because it's an open relationship. Oh, you had an open marriage? Yeah. For the whole marriage?

00:25:22.660 Not for the whole marriage. I would say the last like year and a half, two years.

00:25:28.420 So how you, this guy you've been dating for three years, when did you meet him?

00:25:33.120 I met him, uh, while I was still married, I met him the last like two years of our marriage.

00:25:42.560 So, um, so yeah, we were together for like a full year and then the divorce happened and

00:25:48.840 then that divorce was like taking like forever, like a year. And then now we're, we're together

00:25:54.880 like. That was the guy that you were truly in love with. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I was really

00:26:00.500 young when I got married, you know, and he was 10 years older than me. Was there any,

00:26:06.520 when the marriage was still some semblance of still together, was your current boyfriend

00:26:14.580 in the picture? Um, what do you mean by that? Well, it appears there's a bit of crossover between

00:26:21.920 the time you met your now love of your life boyfriend and the time when you were still

00:26:26.460 married. Yes, there was a crossover. Okay. And that's when he was like pretending to

00:26:30.480 be gay. For the kids. For the kids. Yeah. So wait, while you were still living with 1.00

00:26:36.920 your ex-husband, you're inviting over your true lover who pretended to be gay in front 0.96

00:26:45.480 of your kids. Why did I'm just, but now are you open? Are you open? Do your kids know that

00:26:55.240 you're dating him? Oh yeah. They totally know. Yeah. How old are the kids? So how did you

00:27:00.100 explain to them that he's not gay and he's like hitting? Your boyfriend. Um, so, so that 0.93

00:27:06.240 took a long time. You know, we had like therapists, we had like, um. For the kids? Yeah. Couldn't

00:27:12.700 he have just shown up as a friend? Yeah. But that was like. About the divorce or about the

00:27:17.180 gay, not actually gay lover. No, no, no. Just about the divorce and stuff. Okay. But like,

00:27:23.340 um, no, they're, they're, they're fine now. You know, they, you know, I have 50 50, so they

00:27:31.000 come over. Um, you know, me and my boyfriend live together and like, um, it's great. You know,

00:27:37.940 we get along very well. Um, you know, we take the kids out, we go on trips together, you

00:27:44.840 know, it's fine now. Okay. Yeah. All right. So your husband knew that, did your husband

00:27:51.060 know that you were sliding with the other guy and he was cool with it? Oh, cause I was

00:27:56.420 open. Oh, okay. All right. Okay. Yeah. I was going to say. Somebody's saying annoying

00:28:01.080 bracelet. Does somebody have like a noisy bracelet on? Oh, maybe me? I have one of my

00:28:05.200 earrings. Oh. No, it's this one. Yeah. There's like a clinking. It's your earrings. I think

00:28:11.000 it's the earrings. Um, anyways, if you can deal with that, but what about you? Relationship

00:28:15.480 status? Um, I'm single. Three years. Searching for my new life. Three years, you said? Yes.

00:28:22.480 Okay. And, um, longest relationship? Two years. Sorry. Did you say two or three? Uh,

00:28:30.540 the longest two years. I'm single three years. I see. Okay. And, uh, when did you, you're

00:28:36.540 from Ukraine? When did you move to Miami? Uh, two years ago. Two? Exactly two years ago.

00:28:43.300 And was that like at the outbreak of the Ukrainian war? Yeah. Okay. So you moved to Miami, you've

00:28:48.940 been single for three years. So, uh, and when you moved from Ukraine, you went straight

00:28:53.680 to Miami or were you somewhere else? Yes, to Miami straight. Okay. Why did you pick

00:28:56.960 Miami? Not me pick, God pick. God pick? Okay. You know, um, it's funny. That is the last

00:29:02.720 place on earth God would pick. No, you know, when I was a child, I was dreamed to live in

00:29:07.120 Hollywood and God heard my dreams and he brought me to Hollywood, but Miami, I didn't say to

00:29:12.480 God which one I want. So he chose the Miami. I didn't know that Hollywood have Florida.

00:29:18.600 God hates Hollywood. Yes. And it's in my, all my documents is Hollywood address. Yes. Um,

00:29:23.840 and so tell us a bit about your, uh, I mean, you moved to Miami and you've been single for three

00:29:31.940 years, but you've gone on dates, right? Yes. In fact, in your notes, if I seem to recall,

00:29:35.980 you said you've been on a hundred dates. Many years. You've dated, uh, is it more than a hundred

00:29:41.080 or like exactly a hundred? You gave up at a hundred? I don't know why I just came because actually I came

00:29:44.820 completely alone to America. I didn't know anyone. So I needed to, um, meet as most possible people to

00:29:51.000 understand what's going on in this country. And you know, when you're meeting the people,

00:29:55.260 you know, the information. And do you have like a refugee status? Yes. Yes. Yes. Okay. And so do you,

00:30:02.040 do you receive support from the United States government? No, no. Like any money? It was,

00:30:07.420 it was in the beginning, uh, they offer you like $200 for food and, uh, insurance.

00:30:14.100 Health insurance. Uh, health, uh, health insurance for six months and I think food stamps also for

00:30:21.340 six months. Okay. And then they just give you like $200 cash. Okay. No, no, no. Oh, you can choose,

00:30:27.080 you can choose like 200 food stamps. Like, I see. Okay. Um, and then is, does that expire the refugee

00:30:34.660 status or? Uh, soon it will be expired. Yes. And will you have to go back to Ukraine or? And we wait in

00:30:41.120 what Trump will make the new law of what we're going to do. And so, but you said you went on a

00:30:47.240 hundred dates. Yes. Okay. And where would you typically meet these men on dating apps? Yes.

00:30:53.580 And would you go out to like nightclubs and bars? Also, yes. How often do you go out to nightclubs

00:30:58.900 and bars? Now or before I am, uh, because, uh, when I just came to America one year, I was very,

00:31:05.680 very hyperactive. I was everywhere in clubs and events. First, first year you go out two times a

00:31:11.980 week, three times a week. Something like this. Yes. But now I have a lot of jobs, so I don't have

00:31:16.220 time for dating. So I think. I see. Okay. And so you would meet men at nightclubs and bars or how

00:31:22.460 would you meet them? Easily. My hihi ha hazi coming to me to talk. Different. Different? Like? 0.98

00:31:30.800 You know, I come, I found a lot of Russian speaking bars. So where is the people from my

00:31:35.960 country or from any other USSR country. So it was very easy to talk to them. And some other men I

00:31:42.120 met in dating apps. Which part of Ukraine are you from? I'm from city Vinytsa. It's central part,

00:31:47.900 but also I was live 10 years in Kiev. It's the capital of Ukraine. And, uh, dating apps.

00:31:55.940 Did you use any dating apps? No, not. Okay. It's too much wasting of time. Uh, and you did say,

00:32:03.040 well, we won't get, we'll come back to it, but you said that, uh, you've been on a hundred dates

00:32:09.760 and nearly nobody called you back and invited you for a second date. Yes. So of the hundred first

00:32:16.540 dates you had, how many went to a second date? Maybe only a couple. Like two, three, five. I don't know.

00:32:23.620 Something like this. And then would you, uh, some of these first dates, like, would you hook up with

00:32:29.080 them? Hook up? Sex? No. Go back to their place, have sex? No. I'm old fashioned girl. No, no. You're

00:32:36.560 an old fashioned girl? Yes. What does that mean? It's me, no sex. Until when? Until I feel love.

00:32:44.000 Has that always been the case? Huh? Has that always been the case? Of course. My mama raised me very

00:32:50.840 good. My mama have only one father and they took us a 40 years and they have a four beautiful children

00:32:57.400 and I have a normal standards in my head. So I think if my love me, he can a little bit wait. Isn't?

00:33:04.740 So you've been celibate for three years. What? Well, I mean, you said, I mean, you.

00:33:13.220 It's a, it's a, it's a, let's not think about that. But so it sounded like, uh, three, four,

00:33:21.620 five of the first dates. There's like a second date. What's the furthest any of these guys got

00:33:27.340 date five? Were any of them your boyfriend or no? Oh my God. It's, I need to remind. Uh,

00:33:35.720 I have some friends with who are still speaking, um, but I didn't get any relationship. Like

00:33:41.280 I didn't feel love or something. When you say you have friends who you're still speaking

00:33:45.940 with. Of course. Yes. You still see them. Yeah. Keep in touch. Not like it dates for like

00:33:50.900 speaking. For sex. No. But hold on. I'm confused. You said you're old fashioned. Yes. You said

00:33:57.260 you're traditional. Yes. You don't have sex on the first date. Yes. Second date. No. Third 1.00

00:34:01.700 date. Maybe. Okay. Third date. But you haven't been celibate the entire time that you've been

00:34:07.240 in Miami. Celibate means not having sex. She also said there was a couple of people out of

00:34:14.360 that hundred dates. Yeah. That seemed to go a little further, but I mean, I'm just trying

00:34:19.480 to get a sense of how old fashioned we're talking here. Let's keep it secret. Sure. Okay.

00:34:27.260 Got it. Don't kiss and tell. Well, we'll come back to the hundred date thing. But what

00:34:34.260 about you? Relationship status? I'm in a relationship. What would I say? Yeah, my man. Thank you to

00:34:40.540 my man. It is a man, right? Yeah, this time. Okay. This time. How long have you guys been

00:34:45.860 together? About six months. Six months. And then your longest relationship? Five years.

00:34:51.380 Five years. Five years. All right. What about you? My longest relationship was 12 years. I'm

00:34:59.100 25 years in the US. So 12 out of it. And I've been single since the 2019. Went on many dates,

00:35:10.320 months, but nothing evolved. Some of them we stay friends. Some of them want more, but I couldn't see

00:35:18.840 myself investing anything more than just see you. And were you married?

00:35:29.320 I was married. Yeah. The 12 year relationship? Yes. Is that the only time you've been married?

00:35:34.460 Yes. And you have one son? One son. With the guy you were married to? Yes. Okay. And then you guys

00:35:40.340 got divorced? Got divorced. Yeah. Who initiated the divorce? It was amicable because he wanted to move

00:35:46.980 to Tennessee. And I wanted to stay with my son. What a polo career. And I said, I will follow you.

00:35:53.820 And then you meet somebody. And I said, okay. Didn't mean to be. And we stay friend. Sure. And you're, um,

00:36:01.820 you said, as far as your location, you're from France. I'm French Portuguese. Born in Paris. Born in Paris.

00:36:08.620 Did you live in Portugal at all or no? No. My dad is from Portugal. My mom is Parisian.

00:36:14.700 Huh. And I was raised in Tel Aviv. I did my military service there for two and a half years.

00:36:22.100 Mm-hmm. And then I come to Greece. I live in Greece for six years. And then I come to the U.S.

00:36:29.460 I see. Okay. And you said in starting in 2019, I think this is after.

00:36:34.640 2019, I decide I invest more in myself and grow my business. And, um, plus it was all the lockdown.

00:36:45.000 People were afraid. So it was a good opportunity to really build myself, my brand, my everything, more training,

00:36:56.080 more getting into health. I study a little bit astrology and I really like it.

00:37:02.540 So I think people, when they date somebody, they should consider a little bit astrology

00:37:07.860 and see maybe it's compatible or not, I think. But many people go blinded into something they don't know.

00:37:17.520 So maybe the astrology gives you a map of what is good for you, what is not good for you.

00:37:24.260 And you can cut it shorter or build a little bit longer.

00:37:28.740 But on the other hand, I met many very compatible on paper people to me, but mentally and emotionally

00:37:36.440 was not there. So you get both.

00:37:41.440 And you said in 2019, you did quite a bit of dating. Is that correct?

00:37:45.600 No. In 2019, I decided I just not going to date. I'm going to invest in myself.

00:37:52.240 What you, I don't recall the precise year then, but you said after your divorce, you did, you were dating quite a lot.

00:38:01.500 I was dating, going on dates. I still go on dates.

00:38:05.080 Yeah. How many, like per week on average, like how many dates do you go on?

00:38:09.100 Maybe two.

00:38:10.400 Two, two dates per week.

00:38:11.940 Yeah. Or I mostly meet people organic when I go out.

00:38:17.080 I think it's more legitimate, better.

00:38:21.920 I think the online is just a shortcut to get more information quicker, easier.

00:38:30.080 But my personal opinion, I don't think men is as masculine as it should be.

00:38:38.900 Or gentlemen, it should be.

00:38:44.280 I think the cesspool of the dating apps and all this is just a very visible thing for people to look and see you.

00:38:55.360 Thank you. Bye. Next, next, next, next.

00:38:58.080 How old did you say you are?

00:38:59.580 How old I am? I'm 49. I'm going to be March 15, 15.

00:39:02.960 How old is your son?

00:39:04.000 My son is 25.

00:39:05.820 What year were you born in?

00:39:07.320 What year were you born in?

00:39:08.300 Me?

00:39:08.980 Yeah.

00:39:09.500 76.

00:39:12.120 You mentioned that you say that men are not masculine.

00:39:16.340 No.

00:39:16.840 I think men, masculine, that know what he wants and he knows his value.

00:39:22.500 His approach is very elegant, assertive, and planning and creating and putting the effort.

00:39:33.480 When you have one thing in mind to just go between the sheets.

00:39:43.020 So it's a different vibe.

00:39:45.100 You ask different questions.

00:39:46.800 I want to explore this masculine thing really soon, though.

00:39:52.680 You say a lot of men aren't masculine, but do you consider yourself feminine?

00:39:57.080 I am feminine.

00:39:58.680 I am feminine.

00:39:58.780 Are you?

00:39:59.180 Very feminine. 0.90

00:40:00.200 Are you?

00:40:00.680 Yes.

00:40:01.320 Are you submissive?

00:40:02.540 I am submissive.

00:40:04.480 I mean, look.

00:40:05.820 Because my profession and my success, you think I'm not?

00:40:08.980 Well, I mean, I don't think this is like overly exposing anything, but so we have rules here

00:40:16.120 in the studio and we asked you to take your shoes off and you said, why?

00:40:20.080 Because why do I have to take my shoes off?

00:40:24.320 Here's the thing with being submissive or even just following anybody's rules. 0.99

00:40:29.760 I don't need a fucking reason. 0.99

00:40:33.440 I don't need to. 0.99

00:40:34.400 As a woman, if you're going to be submissive and I tell you, you don't question my authority in the room. 1.00

00:40:39.720 I know we're not dating, but I think you should actually have show more deference and respect

00:40:45.060 to a stranger when you're going into their house versus like a guy you're dating.

00:40:49.400 I didn't even think it's the house.

00:40:51.900 I thought it's the office.

00:40:53.720 That's why I didn't know.

00:40:55.440 What does it matter?

00:40:56.080 Submission comes with trust, though.

00:40:57.600 What you're talking about sounds like slavery.

00:40:59.460 That sounds like slavery.

00:41:00.760 So you're saying if you go over to somebody's house and they have like a no shoes in door policy,

00:41:07.960 you're going to start questioning it?

00:41:09.980 We don't know you, so we don't trust your judgment.

00:41:12.900 You should get a door back.

00:41:13.500 If you go into somebody's house, you don't trust your judgment.

00:41:17.420 It doesn't matter about my judgment.

00:41:18.560 Not ask any questions.

00:41:19.580 That's what I'm saying.

00:41:20.300 You ask questions because you're trying to understand somebody's thought process.

00:41:24.040 Wait, you've never been to a house and somebody asked you to like take their shoes off?

00:41:27.140 Actually, in my house, you take off the shoes.

00:41:29.340 Yeah.

00:41:30.240 She has the rule herself.

00:41:32.040 That's true.

00:41:32.420 Why?

00:41:32.700 That's true.

00:41:33.200 I ask why because I would like to understand because I thought I'm walking into an office,

00:41:38.680 a studio.

00:41:39.420 I don't know.

00:41:39.880 I walk into a house.

00:41:40.940 You need to explain.

00:41:42.560 No, you don't need to explain.

00:41:43.980 Of course.

00:41:44.160 No justification.

00:41:44.840 No, no.

00:41:45.360 Get a map.

00:41:45.580 If there's a rule.

00:41:46.500 If there's a rule.

00:41:47.820 No justification is needed.

00:41:49.580 If at least tell to me in the beginning, hey, I have certain rule and I would like you

00:41:54.220 to accumulate or respect my rule.

00:41:58.740 Give to me before.

00:41:59.900 I don't know you.

00:42:00.660 You don't know me.

00:42:01.140 Isn't it your instinct normally to see if you have to take your shoes off before you walk

00:42:04.340 into somebody's house or to somebody's property?

00:42:06.300 I didn't know it's the house.

00:42:07.320 But even if it's not and he says, can you take your shoes off?

00:42:10.080 You're walking into somebody else's property.

00:42:12.360 You guys sent so many rules.

00:42:13.880 However, you didn't say that we were going to be taking our shoes off.

00:42:16.000 I would wear socks if I would have known that.

00:42:17.840 I have heels in my bag right now because I thought like we can't wear heels because like

00:42:23.300 I don't know.

00:42:23.880 So that they're not clicking.

00:42:25.300 But we're not even wearing shoes.

00:42:26.680 So why did it matter?

00:42:27.620 Submitting it.

00:42:28.420 You've just come inside and it's like pouring rain outside.

00:42:33.240 You're obviously going to have like water and stuff on the bottom of your shoes.

00:42:36.460 Even when it's dry outside.

00:42:37.860 Hold on a second.

00:42:38.560 How is it in any way not reasonable to just ask to take.

00:42:40.720 You don't even allow my own water.

00:42:41.100 Hold on a second.

00:42:41.720 Wait until I finish.

00:42:42.980 How is it not reasonable to just ask somebody to take their shoes off?

00:42:45.720 Especially considering like the weather.

00:42:47.180 It is.

00:42:47.740 But how is it reasonable to get upset when someone says why?

00:42:50.460 It's drizzling.

00:42:51.340 Maybe her feet was funky and she wanted to know if she really had to do it or she could 0.91

00:42:55.880 conceal the funk of her feet.

00:42:57.820 If you have funky feet, then you should try his products for that.

00:43:00.940 You know what I mean?

00:43:01.380 I have beautiful feet and I love my stiletto.

00:43:03.940 It's very hard for me to let them go.

00:43:05.900 I'm happy to get them out.

00:43:09.200 Women should be so listened to a good leader. 1.00

00:43:12.140 Part of being a good leader is answering some questions you might or explaining.

00:43:16.700 Yeah.

00:43:17.160 I don't need.

00:43:17.560 You have no emotional intelligence to explain yourself.

00:43:19.320 Are you a Scorpio? 1.00

00:43:21.100 This is why astrology is bullshit because she has a totally wrong read on my horoscope. 0.96

00:43:28.520 But I mean, look, it's a little different, but I'm trying to like approach it. 0.97

00:43:32.700 Hey, stop.

00:43:33.620 No sidebar.

00:43:34.400 My bad. 0.98

00:43:34.960 We've already, you've been on the show fucking five times. 0.98

00:43:37.940 You can't be interrupting when other people are talking. 0.96

00:43:41.180 So I know in a relationship, there's going to be certain dynamics, right?

00:43:44.520 But like, I think if you're going over to somebody's place, we're not even talking about

00:43:48.360 like a romantic type scenario.

00:43:51.140 So it's like, if you're going into somebody's place, it's their rules. 1.00

00:43:55.840 Like, I don't care how fucking stupid you think it is. 1.00

00:43:58.500 If they're like, here, you got to wear this fucking in and out hat. 1.00

00:44:01.980 Do I have one here? 0.99

00:44:02.940 Where is it?

00:44:03.780 I don't.

00:44:04.420 Oh, here we go. 0.99

00:44:05.080 If I'm like, if you want to come into this fucking studio, you got to wear this. 0.99

00:44:09.020 And if like, you don't want to do it, there's the fucking door. 0.99

00:44:11.920 I don't need to explain myself. 1.00

00:44:13.240 I can have whatever dumb ass fucking rule I want. 1.00

00:44:16.460 That's how it is. 1.00

00:44:17.200 If it's your crib, you can have any, hey, no smoking in here.

00:44:20.640 Why not?

00:44:21.140 Now, wouldn't you be upset if somebody came to your house, was about to light up a cigarette

00:44:26.060 and you're like, hey, don't do that.

00:44:27.200 And they're like, why not?

00:44:29.280 You're like, hold on.

00:44:30.940 I don't got to explain it to you.

00:44:33.600 No is a total, is a complete sentence.

00:44:37.680 No, period.

00:44:39.080 It's a little different.

00:44:39.620 No is a complete sentence.

00:44:41.220 Because not everyone smokes, but everyone wears shoes.

00:44:43.860 So like, if you say no, I would understand why.

00:44:47.940 It's just the rule though.

00:44:49.920 So like, it doesn't really matter if everybody does.

00:44:52.040 And if he told you to wear that In-N-Out hat, would you not ask why?

00:44:55.800 Be honest.

00:44:56.540 But it is different though, wearing an In-N-Out hat.

00:44:58.480 It's like a pretty extreme example.

00:45:00.220 That's right.

00:45:00.520 It's different.

00:45:01.020 I'm looking at a cigarette in someone's house.

00:45:02.360 But I don't know why you guys are laughing.

00:45:03.660 Like there's some sort of a point that you made.

00:45:04.880 But it's also etiquette.

00:45:06.500 But we're taking your shoes off.

00:45:08.220 Hold on a second.

00:45:09.120 Wait.

00:45:09.740 Taking your shoes off when you go into somebody's house is a really sort of basic rule.

00:45:13.300 Wait, wait.

00:45:13.600 Hold on.

00:45:14.600 Jake, not to interrupt you.

00:45:15.760 Guys, he's speaking.

00:45:17.560 We let you guys finish.

00:45:18.780 You guys can't be interrupting.

00:45:21.000 Don't be laughing at him while he's trying to explain this.

00:45:23.720 Just let him talk.

00:45:24.820 If you guys have a response, you can.

00:45:27.040 But this show is going to be very frustrating for everybody.

00:45:30.600 If we're over-talking each other, interrupting each other, show some courtesy, let people finish.

00:45:36.860 Go ahead, Jake.

00:45:37.480 Didn't mean to interrupt.

00:45:38.180 Yes.

00:45:38.340 We are going to be here for eight hours together.

00:45:39.820 So it'd be best if we can not interrupt.

00:45:41.440 But yeah.

00:45:41.880 I mean, just taking your shoes off, that's a basic universal thing.

00:45:45.160 In places like Japan, for example, you can't go into somebody's house without taking your shoes off.

00:45:49.680 So his rule there is so reasonable.

00:45:53.140 I don't see how it's not reasonable in any way.

00:45:55.320 But to the point that he's making, it's more of a submission thing.

00:45:58.160 He's questioning whether you're a submissive person or not.

00:46:00.220 I am submissive and I like to accept anything and anyone when I explain.

00:46:06.800 It has to be reasonable to me.

00:46:09.180 I mean, you're going to tell me, hey, over here people jump five feet.

00:46:12.980 Okay, see you.

00:46:15.260 This is my point.

00:46:16.140 I mean, but you have the rule, like, you have the rule in your own household.

00:46:20.440 In my home, yeah.

00:46:21.300 Yeah, so it's not like, you probably have justifications of your own for why you want people to take their shoes off in your home.

00:46:29.980 So it's kind of like, you already know the reasons.

00:46:33.820 Whatever the reasons you have are probably pretty similar to the reasons we have.

00:46:37.460 We don't want people like, we have probably additional reasons too.

00:46:40.720 We don't want people like dragging in, like dirt from the outside. 1.00

00:46:43.960 It's raining, of course.

00:46:45.060 Absolutely, I agree.

00:46:46.660 And also just noise too.

00:46:48.480 Like shoes are a bit louder.

00:46:49.760 So when you're walking, it creates more noise.

00:46:52.200 I agree with you.

00:46:53.640 But you sent to me a shopping list of instructions.

00:46:56.480 There was no instruction for my stilettos.

00:46:59.980 Um, actually, actually, we do say no heels.

00:47:05.120 Although to be charitable to you, this, our arrangement, like getting you on the show was kind of last minute.

00:47:10.980 So maybe you had your shoes on before.

00:47:13.760 That's fine.

00:47:14.760 In the rules, we do say like no heels.

00:47:18.180 I'm not actually going to fault you on that.

00:47:20.380 That's not a huge deal.

00:47:21.820 But just because of like everything that we send you pre-show, that isn't some sort of like gotcha or like, oh, there might, there, just because whatever you send via message doesn't prevent me from having additional rules that were not previously disclosed to you that I would otherwise request you to abide by.

00:47:44.760 Like before somebody comes over to your house, do you always like tell them, by the way, before

00:47:49.900 you come over, you're going to have to take your shoes off?

00:47:51.720 Probably not.

00:47:54.140 Absolutely.

00:47:54.960 I prepare people.

00:47:56.320 You, you tell them like every single person who's ever been to your house, you tell them

00:48:01.000 like, yeah, by the way, before you, you can't smoke in my house.

00:48:04.140 Like you, you can't, you're going to have to take your shoes off.

00:48:06.360 If they ask to me, if there is anything, you know, if, if they ask, oh, did you ask me if

00:48:13.400 there were any rules you sent to me at least?

00:48:16.600 So I thought it should be on it.

00:48:18.820 I sent you some pre-show information, but do you also remember when Damien here spent 10

00:48:24.020 minutes going over other rules too?

00:48:26.000 So we're not going to disclose every single little thing, like in that thing, we're going

00:48:30.960 to do like kind of the most important stuff.

00:48:32.840 And then some of the more, like the things that we can just tell you once you're in

00:48:36.100 studio, we're going to save that for when you're in studio.

00:48:38.620 Darling, my shoes are off.

00:48:40.160 My stilettos are there.

00:48:41.640 Yeah.

00:48:41.860 It's okay.

00:48:42.480 That's, that's okay.

00:48:43.880 That's totally cool.

00:48:44.640 But now we're having a conversation.

00:48:46.200 Yeah.

00:48:46.600 You think I'm not submissive, but I think I am.

00:48:50.260 I don't think that having shoes on was the problem.

00:48:52.200 I don't think that question was the problem at all.

00:48:54.640 Hold on, hold on.

00:48:56.020 Let me, let me explore this a bit further.

00:48:57.580 So you said you were married, right?

00:48:59.680 I was married.

00:49:00.760 Right.

00:49:00.940 And so your husband, who was, was he, was he the leader in the household?

00:49:08.540 Yes.

00:49:09.120 He had the authority in the household?

00:49:10.560 Absolutely.

00:49:11.200 He wanted to move to Tennessee?

00:49:12.620 Yes.

00:49:13.200 Ah.

00:49:13.820 And so he didn't, he wasn't the person to like, you guys were having conflict about

00:49:19.280 that, right?

00:49:19.920 No.

00:49:21.060 Isn't that the reason for the divorce?

00:49:22.440 He wanted to move to Tennessee.

00:49:23.620 You wanted to stay here for your son's water polo career.

00:49:26.120 No, the plan was I will follow him later on.

00:49:29.820 Follow him later on.

00:49:30.940 Yes.

00:49:31.320 But he meets somebody when he moved there.

00:49:34.240 Wait, when you say the plan, like, did he want you?

00:49:37.480 Hold on.

00:49:37.840 The plan was when my son water polo career will end and start college and I will follow

00:49:45.280 him every time that my son have time off.

00:49:49.360 We'll go to Tennessee back and forth to California and Tennessee.

00:49:54.840 But I mean, didn't he originally want you to go to Tennessee with him?

00:50:00.560 Originally, that was the plan.

00:50:02.320 Yeah.

00:50:02.440 Right.

00:50:02.760 But you were like, no, I'm going to prioritize the water polo thing for my son.

00:50:09.200 Even though your husband is saying, no, maybe he can do water polo in Tennessee.

00:50:14.040 No, it was the mutual agreement.

00:50:16.580 Was it?

00:50:17.300 Yes.

00:50:17.460 Because women say they're submissive and then they'll argue, argue, argue, argue. 1.00

00:50:21.280 And then the guy will finally be like, fuck it, whatever. 1.00

00:50:23.540 Oh, that's a mutual understanding. 0.99

00:50:25.280 If the if he was like, I want you to come and you like had like days upon days upon days

00:50:31.480 of like back and forth discussion.

00:50:33.600 Oh, I don't know.

00:50:34.560 I really want to prioritize this.

00:50:36.280 That's not being submissive to your husband.

00:50:37.780 If your husband was like, hey, we're going to Tennessee.

00:50:40.540 We can figure out the sons.

00:50:42.360 Oh, my God. 1.00

00:50:43.060 What the fuck is going on today? 1.00

00:50:45.320 Yeah, it's fine. 0.99

00:50:46.120 The house in Manhattan Beach was on both of us names, so I don't think there was anything

00:50:52.020 argue about.

00:50:55.200 I mean, I'm not sure what that has to do with the whole.

00:50:59.940 I mean, do you think it could be the case like he wanted you to go to Tennessee with him?

00:51:03.960 No, no, it was not.

00:51:06.020 We stayed friend after even so he got married.

00:51:08.560 But I mean, I guess what I'm what I'm confused about is that it sounded like he wanted you

00:51:18.340 to go with him to Tennessee.

00:51:20.500 Was there any infidelity in the relationship?

00:51:22.980 No, no.

00:51:24.520 But because he moved to Tennessee alone and you wanted to stay in California or I don't

00:51:31.100 know where you were.

00:51:31.540 I went back and forth.

00:51:33.440 OK, I mean.

00:51:37.380 I don't know.

00:51:38.560 He says, I want you to come to California, Tennessee.

00:51:41.100 Excuse me.

00:51:41.680 I want you to come to.

00:51:43.000 He didn't say I want you to come.

00:51:45.180 The agreement, the mutual agreement.

00:51:47.440 Don't change my words.

00:51:48.340 OK, look, I don't know the details.

00:51:49.860 Go ahead.

00:51:50.120 The detail and the mutual agreement was we buy a house in Tennessee and slowly, slowly

00:51:56.520 I'm going to move out there.

00:51:59.020 In the process, he meets somebody there and I say, OK, good luck.

00:52:06.420 I stay here.

00:52:07.320 What not to understand?

00:52:10.560 It was a mutual agreement to move.

00:52:15.140 I mean, the way look, I don't know all the details with anything.

00:52:18.460 There's always a lot of information that you can't always convey.

00:52:22.380 But the way you originally explained it, like the first thing when I asked about the nature

00:52:26.980 of the divorce is you said something along the lines of my husband wanted to move to

00:52:31.480 Tennessee.

00:52:32.460 My son had this water polo career.

00:52:35.640 I wanted to stay here.

00:52:37.220 I mean, I'm curious why offer up this detail that now you're saying doesn't matter, but

00:52:43.700 at least the way you originally explained it seems like that was a major cause for like

00:52:49.380 the breakdown of the relationship.

00:52:51.280 He wanted to move somewhere else.

00:52:53.280 You wanted to stay here.

00:52:54.700 I guess at the end you came to a mutual understanding.

00:52:57.940 But like if you're just telling him, no, no, no, I want to stay here.

00:53:01.500 And you're not kind of going with his will of like, I want to move us to Tennessee.

00:53:07.100 I mean, I don't know.

00:53:10.260 Mutual agreement and things just didn't develop the way we both planned.

00:53:16.980 Why do you want to move to Tennessee?

00:53:19.000 He wanted to go back to his roots, to the mountains.

00:53:23.400 We had a house over there.

00:53:25.440 We bought together over there.

00:53:27.420 It was great.

00:53:28.180 The plan was initially to move there, but things happen along the way.

00:53:33.360 So I guess my question is, what was the first thing he wanted?

00:53:37.480 Did he want all three of like you, your son, him, well, his son also to move to Tennessee?

00:53:44.880 No.

00:53:46.180 So just to be clear, he's married to, I guess at that point, the love of his life.

00:53:51.680 He has a son that he cares about and loves.

00:53:54.260 He wants to move and not have you go.

00:53:57.480 Do you see why I'm a bit confused?

00:53:59.160 It was a process.

00:54:00.400 We agree on a process, but it was the timing, the real estate to buy the house with the wrench

00:54:07.340 that we wanted at the time.

00:54:08.860 It was a great opportunity.

00:54:10.820 And I say, we agree together.

00:54:13.280 You go ahead and I do the back and forth until we figure out with Polly Water Polo in college. 1.00

00:54:19.560 Then we'll see what is the next step.

00:54:23.140 Along the way, he meets somebody and he decides that's what he wants.

00:54:29.420 So.

00:54:29.780 So just to be clear, he wanted to move, but he was fine with you guys from the very beginning.

00:54:38.840 From the very beginning, he was like, you guys stay here.

00:54:43.040 I mean, I have to take your word for it.

00:54:45.020 So I'll leave it at that.

00:54:46.740 But what about you?

00:54:48.200 Relationship status?

00:54:49.940 I'm single.

00:54:50.840 I've been single for the last six months.

00:54:53.000 My longest relationship was like two and a half years.

00:54:56.140 Okay.

00:54:56.800 You said, sorry, six and a half months you've been single or sorry?

00:54:59.500 Six months.

00:55:00.020 Six months.

00:55:00.660 And then two and a half years for your longest relationship?

00:55:03.340 Yep.

00:55:04.320 Okay.

00:55:04.860 All right.

00:55:06.740 The time period you've been single for six months, the two and a half year relationship,

00:55:11.640 is that the one that ended six months ago?

00:55:13.380 No.

00:55:14.520 Uh, who broke up with who in the two and a half year relationship?

00:55:17.340 I did.

00:55:18.340 He was cheating on me.

00:55:19.680 And were you cheating on him? 0.97

00:55:21.040 No.

00:55:21.720 Okay.

00:55:22.260 The six month relationship, or sorry, six months ago, what was the period of time you

00:55:26.260 were dating that guy?

00:55:27.600 Um, probably for like seven months, eight months, something like that.

00:55:34.240 Who broke up with who?

00:55:35.320 I broke up with him.

00:55:36.340 Okay.

00:55:36.960 What about you?

00:55:37.600 Relationship status?

00:55:39.200 So currently I'm single.

00:55:40.620 It's been like four weeks now, and my last partner, we were together for almost three

00:55:46.920 years.

00:55:47.400 My longest relationship is three years.

00:55:50.480 The most recent relationship that ended about a month ago was a three-year relationship?

00:55:55.180 Um, well, I've had another three-year relationship.

00:55:57.460 So you've had two three-year relationships?

00:56:00.060 Yes.

00:56:00.740 Okay.

00:56:01.000 Relatively.

00:56:01.420 Who ended it?

00:56:02.100 Uh, who ended them?

00:56:03.800 Me.

00:56:04.840 Both of them?

00:56:05.680 Yeah.

00:56:05.860 Okay.

00:56:06.560 All right.

00:56:06.940 So single for four weeks.

00:56:08.000 Uh, why did you break up with the most recent guy?

00:56:10.980 Um, you know, we had different paths, really.

00:56:15.840 Mm-hmm.

00:56:16.420 I'm not going to get too far into the details, but, um, yeah, just a difference in like, well,

00:56:22.880 we were living together, so I like to live a certain way.

00:56:25.860 He wasn't living how I would hope. 0.99

00:56:30.260 He's dirty. 0.94

00:56:30.680 So, um, you know. 0.98

00:56:34.940 Is that what it is?

00:56:35.660 He was unclean?

00:56:36.940 It's not.

00:56:37.560 No, it's not a hygiene thing at all.

00:56:39.020 No.

00:56:39.920 He would scour himself in the shower.

00:56:41.680 It's not that.

00:56:42.380 What was the problem?

00:56:43.760 Um, really his attitude, like, the way he'd act, so.

00:56:48.700 What do you mean?

00:56:49.100 What parts of his attitude?

00:56:49.840 Um, just, like, short temper, a little, like, overly, like, um, ego, egotistical type.

00:57:00.420 Yeah.

00:57:02.360 Okay.

00:57:03.000 Uh, what about you?

00:57:04.620 I'm single.

00:57:05.700 My longest relationship was two years.

00:57:08.360 All right.

00:57:09.000 How long have you been single?

00:57:10.600 Since 2021.

00:57:12.340 All right.

00:57:12.960 You've been, uh, any prospects or any dating in this past three, four years?

00:57:17.460 No.

00:57:17.820 So, you've been single for, like, four years then, about?

00:57:20.540 Yes.

00:57:21.300 Okay.

00:57:21.780 Is it the two-year relationship, the one that ended four years ago?

00:57:24.980 Yes.

00:57:26.320 Okay.

00:57:27.080 And, uh, who broke up with who?

00:57:30.620 He broke up with me.

00:57:32.220 Why?

00:57:33.360 He was seen in other women.

00:57:35.100 Multiple.

00:57:35.820 Multiple other women? 1.00

00:57:36.840 Okay.

00:57:38.760 And, uh, have you been on any dates or seen any guy for any period of time in the past four years?

00:57:45.840 No.

00:57:46.160 So, you've been celibate for four years?

00:57:48.700 Yes.

00:57:52.420 Really?

00:57:54.060 Okay.

00:57:54.300 You better go, girl.

00:57:55.280 Go, girl. 0.85

00:57:56.080 Celibacy.

00:57:56.500 There you have it.

00:57:57.440 Uh, Jake, if you want to share.

00:57:59.480 Yeah.

00:57:59.840 Uh, longest was a year and a half and dating to marry.

00:58:02.780 All right.

00:58:03.580 Rock and roll.

00:58:04.280 So, we're going to get into some of the, uh, pre-show notes here.

00:58:06.660 But first, we have a couple of super chats we have to get to.

00:58:09.160 Damien, have you been keeping an eye on the audio?

00:58:10.860 There's a couple of complaints from people.

00:58:12.620 But, uh, Pelagic, this is called a straw man argument.

00:58:15.460 She's totally deflecting, using logical fallacy to dodge and gaslight, uh, manipulation. 1.00

00:58:21.240 Uh, this is, I'm not sure.

00:58:26.780 Big words.

00:58:30.360 Thank you, uh, Pelagic.

00:58:31.960 Man, you know what you're talking about.

00:58:33.380 Like, trigger word, trigger word, trigger word.

00:58:35.020 I do appreciate it, Pelagic.

00:58:36.620 Thank you.

00:58:37.220 Uh, the state of things, room or office.

00:58:38.960 Either way, it's Brian Space.

00:58:40.620 Asking someone to take their shoes off at the entrance is the same as saying, this is

00:58:44.280 my boundary.

00:58:45.400 Any hesitation is lack of submission.

00:58:47.860 All of y'all's submission is conditional and a headache.

00:58:51.400 That is a good point.

00:58:52.160 The state of things.

00:58:53.320 Uh, if any of the panelists wish to respond to this, they can.

00:58:57.720 My stilettos are soft.

00:58:59.000 I feel like the boundaries with the house is correct.

00:59:01.120 But, like, you comparing house rules to being in a relationship and being a leader, a guy

00:59:05.720 in a relationship, it's not the same.

00:59:07.360 You might have to be a little more gracious.

00:59:09.920 They might reflect into a relationship, right?

00:59:12.260 I don't know.

00:59:12.660 How you act in your everyday life?

00:59:14.700 I don't know.

00:59:15.180 I might act with some strangers differently than my partner.

00:59:18.980 Wait, let me ask you a question.

00:59:20.340 Let's say you're out at a restaurant.

00:59:23.000 And you're with, uh, you're on a, you're with a guy that you, uh, I don't know, first

00:59:27.600 date. 1.00

00:59:28.260 And he treats that waitress like shit. 1.00

00:59:31.120 Well, the way that you treat somebody out in public isn't necessarily going to be an 1.00

00:59:35.920 indicator of how he's going to treat you. 1.00

00:59:39.620 However, despite this, if he treats that waitress like a piece of shit and is fucking 1.00

00:59:45.340 rude to her, you don't think somewhere in your head, it doesn't even cross your mind, 1.00

00:59:51.980 is he going to treat me like this in some way or one day?

00:59:55.680 That never, you wouldn't be like, well, maybe it's okay.

01:00:01.860 It does definitely.

01:00:03.040 But it's nuances in that.

01:00:04.760 Like us here, we don't know you guys that much.

01:00:08.820 So you guys are setting your boundaries.

01:00:10.440 We're going to question you a little bit more versus our partners or something like that.

01:00:16.340 Cause we know them for sure.

01:00:17.640 Trust their judgment, know that they have our best interests at heart.

01:00:20.120 Not saying you guys don't, but it's just, it's, it is a different situation.

01:00:23.500 Not saying that anything can't be reflected from that, but it's a different situation.

01:00:27.460 I mean, I, I don't understand this.

01:00:29.940 We're going to question you thing. 1.00

01:00:32.200 Like it's, I would actually agree if I was like, Hey, wear that stupid in and out hat. 1.00

01:00:37.620 You might ask, Oh, why? 0.98

01:00:40.040 But it's occurs to me that asking somebody to remove their shoes at the front door is a,

01:00:46.580 is a not only commonly practiced.

01:00:50.940 What's the term for it?

01:00:52.220 Like it.

01:00:53.040 Manners.

01:00:53.980 It's a common.

01:00:54.920 I agree with that.

01:00:55.780 House rules is house rules.

01:00:56.760 It's a common practice.

01:00:58.780 And even if it wasn't, she admitted to practicing it herself.

01:01:04.560 So she would already be aware of the various justifications as to why somebody would want

01:01:10.320 such a rule in place.

01:01:12.120 They thought you don't want dirt dragged in.

01:01:13.820 You don't want dirty shoes on carpet, whatever it is.

01:01:16.300 Maybe it's, uh, uh, when it comes to germs or bring whatever it is, whatever it is.

01:01:21.260 So, so as a woman, do you think women are always supposed to submit to every man that they meet?

01:01:25.860 No, no, no, no, but, but, but what he's saying though, is that that's a reflection of a certain

01:01:30.520 personality type.

01:01:31.480 And what it is, is it's a rejection of authority because in that particular instance, that's

01:01:35.920 something that doesn't really require a question.

01:01:37.840 Yeah, I'll take my shoes off.

01:01:38.740 So he's saying that she is actually quite disagreeable rather than submissive.

01:01:42.500 And he's trying to, he's trying to dig deeper to see how it reflects in the relationship.

01:01:45.700 I don't disagree.

01:01:46.600 I question.

01:01:47.660 That's not the same.

01:01:49.460 And submission, being submissive is a scale.

01:01:52.180 Like you could be somewhere on that scale.

01:01:54.320 Like you don't have to say yes to everything.

01:01:56.220 It actually is, it's not, it's not really a scale actually, because what it means is that

01:02:00.840 you say yes to your man in what, in what he wants.

01:02:03.540 Listen, listen, listen, listen, I understand the distinction.

01:02:11.180 It's not funny.

01:02:12.320 I understand the distinction between relationship and what happened here.

01:02:15.620 And we've made the distinction about 20 times now when we say that what happened was a reflection

01:02:19.560 of something that might happen in a relationship.

01:02:21.960 Now we're talking about being in a relationship.

01:02:23.860 Okay.

01:02:24.300 Everyone understand?

01:02:25.560 Good.

01:02:26.120 Okay.

01:02:26.420 So in a relationship though, it's quite, it's quite distinct when you're talking about being

01:02:30.780 submissive, because if you get to choose when you're submissive or not, that just means

01:02:34.560 that you're the boss.

01:02:35.620 Can I add something?

01:02:37.580 So I think that this issue is more of a manners etiquette thing than like showing if they're

01:02:43.980 submissive to a man.

01:02:46.060 I agree.

01:02:47.020 Yes.

01:02:47.600 It's more manners.

01:02:48.740 Right.

01:02:49.160 And like how you were brought up and being, I don't know, I'm Persian.

01:02:55.980 So like we're taught from a young age to be really like kind.

01:03:01.720 And when you go to somebody's house, it's like whatever they say goes.

01:03:06.940 And then usually the host is always like offering things to the guest and everything.

01:03:13.400 So it's a, it's more maybe a cultural thing and also etiquette rather than a measure of submission

01:03:21.040 to a man.

01:03:21.760 I would agree with you, but I think you can make certain inferences about somebody's behavior.

01:03:30.020 And this all stems from, she was saying like, oh, men are, are no longer masculine.

01:03:34.720 Well, I don't disagree with that, but I think women are no longer feminine. 0.90

01:03:39.380 And a component of femininity is submission. 1.00

01:03:42.260 You guys want traditional men, but you don't want to be submissive.

01:03:46.340 You want a dominant man, you want a leader, but you don't want to submit.

01:03:50.260 And so we're not dating.

01:03:52.840 This isn't a like relationship dynamic, but like, I'm going to make an inference.

01:03:56.960 Like, for example, if with that, uh, if, if I see a girl being really combative and disagreeable, 0.95

01:04:05.740 like if I'm on a first date with her and she's being disagreeable to the waiter,

01:04:09.780 or she's kind of like questioning something, not with me, but somebody else in a way that

01:04:16.120 I'm like, uh, like, or if you go to somebody's house and she questions why she has to take

01:04:20.200 her shoes off.

01:04:20.720 Yeah.

01:04:20.940 Yeah.

01:04:21.140 If like, if she, that's actually a really good example.

01:04:23.740 If I was on a date with a girl and I was going over to my buddy's house with, if I was on a

01:04:29.040 date with a girl and I was going over to my buddy's house and my buddy had a rule, like,

01:04:33.580 Hey, you got to take your shoes off at the front door.

01:04:35.620 And she was like, why?

01:04:38.480 I would be like, that's not directed at me.

01:04:41.540 That's not directed at me, but that's like red flag for the relationship.

01:04:46.600 So it's like a personality, like measure, like measuring what their personality is going

01:04:52.220 to be.

01:04:52.500 And also that would be embarrassing in public.

01:04:54.200 If you were to take them to someone's house and they would embarrass you by, you know,

01:04:57.460 starting this thing about taking the shoes off.

01:04:59.780 Yeah.

01:05:00.080 I'm like, this is a important relate.

01:05:02.140 Like if it was like a work meeting or something and you're going over to the CEO's,

01:05:05.620 house for dinner, he invited you for like, Oh, you're about to get a raise, you're about

01:05:10.280 to get a promotion.

01:05:11.280 And then you bring your girlfriend and the, the, the, the nice wife is like, Oh, excuse 1.00

01:05:15.980 me, dear.

01:05:16.380 Can we just have you take your shoes off at the front?

01:05:18.040 And then she's like, why?

01:05:20.860 Bro, that promotion is over.

01:05:23.300 If she's with her man, then she should probably turn to her guy and be like, why do you think 0.62

01:05:27.100 he wants me to take my shoes off?

01:05:28.220 No, no.

01:05:28.580 Oh my.

01:05:30.440 I mean, I don't think, I don't think it's reasonable.

01:05:32.640 I understand.

01:05:33.260 Like you should take your shoes.

01:05:34.140 So I didn't have a problem taking my shoes off since I got here.

01:05:36.540 Sure.

01:05:37.020 But I'm just saying like, there's other ways you go about it that I wouldn't say is non-submissive.

01:05:43.620 Like, I don't know.

01:05:44.100 I don't, I don't know.

01:05:44.740 I feel like maybe you're right about how it comes on like a, you said it comes on a scale

01:05:50.080 and you said it doesn't, but you said something about, Oh, I'm sorry.

01:05:53.560 My brain is fried. 1.00

01:05:55.260 Fucking. 0.99

01:05:55.520 But when you're talking about like personality traits, like agreeableness, being more disagreeable, 0.99

01:06:00.220 that comes on a scale.

01:06:01.060 Some people are less agreeable than others.

01:06:02.820 You seem like a kind of like a disagreeable person, but men tend to be a little bit more

01:06:06.840 disagreeable than women, but not by that much. 0.99

01:06:09.120 I actually work with people and all my people love me and I have a great reputation.

01:06:13.880 Oh, it doesn't mean you're a bad person.

01:06:15.460 It's not that.

01:06:16.420 I think you're trying to, it's okay.

01:06:19.460 But, uh, what am I trying to do?

01:06:21.020 What do you think I'm trying to do?

01:06:22.040 I think both of you trying to walk or like really high volume on my stilettos, letting

01:06:28.420 go at the door, but it's okay.

01:06:30.180 It's not that.

01:06:30.920 When I say that, um, you seem like a disagreeable, I'm also a very disagreeable person.

01:06:34.580 You might've been able to tell Brian's also a very disagreeable person.

01:06:37.660 It doesn't mean you're a bad person.

01:06:38.700 No, no, it's not.

01:06:39.900 But I'm just saying, you know, it's like we turned the whole subject.

01:06:43.180 Wait, into the mic, into the mic.

01:06:44.480 Like we turned the whole subject about me taking down my stilettos at the door.

01:06:49.860 It's been like a 15 minute conversation.

01:06:51.100 But I do think that in terms of relationships, it is, it is a bit black and white when it

01:06:55.260 comes to situation.

01:06:55.520 It's not reflecting on who I am or my personality or my, uh, dating, uh, habits or behavior.

01:07:03.800 Yeah.

01:07:04.020 But can you see how it might be an indicator?

01:07:06.320 Could be, you know, you don't know me.

01:07:08.800 I don't, but we have to go off on what we've seen.

01:07:11.620 So if we've only known you for an hour.

01:07:12.880 But if you judge me on one thing that's because of my shoes, me asking why, it's okay.

01:07:19.000 To, to your, to that though, first impressions are super important.

01:07:23.200 I bet every single girl here at this table has been on the first date with a dude and

01:07:27.620 the dude, you know, within 10 seconds, don't like this dude.

01:07:30.740 Don't want to see him again.

01:07:31.960 You've already made up your mind.

01:07:33.520 First impressions are, yeah.

01:07:34.980 First impressions, super important.

01:07:37.220 You guys look at a dude.

01:07:38.580 He might not even open his mouth and you've already decided never going to, never going

01:07:42.960 to date this guy, never going to sleep with him.

01:07:45.180 He gets nothing.

01:07:46.300 So this idea that, I mean, that, that like women operate the same way, you guys are going

01:07:51.000 to totally reject guys immediately.

01:07:54.000 If he's not on point in the first five minutes of the date, it's over.

01:07:58.320 I think that's too short.

01:07:59.280 I think that's too short a time.

01:08:00.380 Cause I think I'd give them about the whole date.

01:08:03.240 I'll give them the whole date.

01:08:04.260 I'll, I'm patient enough that I can sit here.

01:08:06.400 So you're telling me, you're, you're telling me that you haven't made up your mind within

01:08:11.580 the first 10 seconds as to like, have you had a one night stand or hooked up with a guy?

01:08:16.440 Yeah.

01:08:17.460 Whatever it is, what it is.

01:08:19.280 You figured that out immediately.

01:08:21.920 You don't owe an hour in.

01:08:23.740 Okay.

01:08:24.060 Now I, now I've decided to lock him.

01:08:26.400 But I didn't though, because maybe I'm thinking about it for a while.

01:08:30.020 I actually, I went on the whole date and I'm like, ah, he did a couple of weird things.

01:08:35.380 But then I go home and I'm thinking about, I'm like, ah, it wasn't that bad.

01:08:40.540 He only said he wouldn't take his shoes off at the door.

01:08:42.920 You went home alone?

01:08:44.420 Of course I went home alone.

01:08:45.300 It's the first date.

01:08:46.320 Well, he was talking about the hookups.

01:08:47.700 Oh, the hookups.

01:08:48.640 Uh, did it.

01:08:50.740 Let's move on.

01:08:52.500 You probably, you probably knew within the first like 10 minutes in that particular situation.

01:08:57.840 How drunk are we?

01:08:58.500 I think women tend to get a really good feeling. 0.99

01:09:00.640 Women tend to have a really good gauge on whether they like the guy pretty much straight 1.00

01:09:03.580 away.

01:09:04.320 I just wouldn't say it's within 10 minutes.

01:09:06.580 I would give it longer than that for sure.

01:09:08.600 Fair.

01:09:10.300 Um, Jake, I need to get up really quick to check the audio.

01:09:12.560 You want to ask a question for the panel?

01:09:14.500 All right.

01:09:14.980 So we're going to do a scenario.

01:09:17.980 That's a hypothetical scenario that you guys can engage with.

01:09:20.980 If you were at a job, no sidebar in conversations, guys.

01:09:24.380 If you were at a job interview, but the job interview was for the man of your dreams.

01:09:28.580 Imagine everything you could ever possibly want in a man.

01:09:30.940 That's the guy.

01:09:31.700 He's there.

01:09:32.260 But what you've got to do is you've got to walk in to the interview and you've got to

01:09:35.620 sell yourself.

01:09:36.480 How are you going to sell yourself?

01:09:37.940 How are you going to show him that you're special and different?

01:09:41.600 Can we start on that end?

01:09:42.940 That's a deep question.

01:09:44.060 Does anybody feel like starting?

01:09:45.180 I would just be myself because if it's meant to be, it'll work out.

01:09:49.260 And what is, what's yourself?

01:09:51.340 I mean, I don't know.

01:09:52.460 I would like to say that I'm like outgoing and funny.

01:09:55.380 I'm, I'm nice.

01:09:57.060 You know, there's, there's a lot of things that go into me, but I think when you're around

01:10:00.220 me, you'll, you'll pick up the vibe.

01:10:01.740 And if you're not into that, that, that is what it is.

01:10:03.760 Then you're obviously not my dream man because my dream man would accept me for who I am

01:10:07.720 and how I bring myself to the table.

01:10:09.300 Okay.

01:10:09.760 And yourself?

01:10:10.280 Um, if it was for my dream man, I will listen to what he have to say to me because when

01:10:17.060 you listen, they really tell you who they really are.

01:10:21.040 So I will bring some questions and see, you know, what and how we answer.

01:10:27.060 So you're going to flip the script and interview him?

01:10:29.940 Um, both ways.

01:10:32.580 Yeah.

01:10:33.060 I let him talk.

01:10:34.020 I said.

01:10:34.840 You said you're going to bring questions for him.

01:10:36.520 Yeah.

01:10:36.700 And I'm going to bring some questions.

01:10:38.040 Okay.

01:10:38.360 But you said the man of your dreams.

01:10:41.560 So of course you have to ask.

01:10:43.160 No, you already know he's the man of your dreams.

01:10:44.840 That's the, that's the whole hypothetical.

01:10:46.080 Oh, I didn't understand that part.

01:10:47.540 Yeah.

01:10:47.800 So you already know he's the man of your dreams.

01:10:49.500 Okay.

01:10:49.960 Everything you could ever want.

01:10:51.540 What are you going to tell yourself?

01:10:51.820 So I'm just going to be me and let him lead the way.

01:10:55.200 Absolutely.

01:10:55.620 What if he sits there and he's got his feet up on the table and he's doing this like

01:10:59.140 Mr. Burns.

01:11:00.060 Okay.

01:11:00.580 And he's just waiting for you to talk.

01:11:02.380 Okay.

01:11:02.860 In like a really sort of like mysterious, handsome sort of way.

01:11:05.240 So I'm just going to break a joke to break the silence.

01:11:07.680 Bring something funny.

01:11:11.000 Okay.

01:11:11.620 And yourself?

01:11:12.880 I guess I would just be myself.

01:11:14.640 That's a hard question to answer.

01:11:16.540 What is yourself?

01:11:19.400 I don't know.

01:11:20.100 Try speaking to the microphone.

01:11:21.260 I don't know.

01:11:21.600 I could be a lot of things. 0.79

01:11:22.920 I could be goofy. 0.88

01:11:24.020 I could be intelligent. 0.83

01:11:25.160 It depends on the vibe where we're at.

01:11:26.720 But if he says, if he, if his question to you is tell me about yourself, like I want to

01:11:32.680 know, I want to know what makes you different and what makes you special and what you could

01:11:35.700 bring to my life.

01:11:36.420 Go.

01:11:36.780 If he's the man of my dreams, I'm not going to have to sell myself.

01:11:39.040 This is not going to be a pitch.

01:11:40.160 You don't think you have to.

01:11:40.880 That's a whole presentation.

01:11:42.100 You don't think you'd have to.

01:11:42.700 He's going to love it or he's going to hate it.

01:11:43.860 You don't think that you would have to sell yourself to the man of your dreams.

01:11:46.180 Definitely not.

01:11:46.580 You just have to appear.

01:11:48.120 Okay.

01:11:48.680 And yourself?

01:11:50.320 I really agree with all of them.

01:11:52.620 And she said about the questions.

01:11:54.200 I agree with that because if he's the man of my dreams and I know what I want, well,

01:11:58.780 what does he want?

01:11:59.320 Everything you could possibly think of, he's got it.

01:12:01.540 So now what would you say?

01:12:02.400 So I would ask him what he's looking for in a woman and I would also try to be that

01:12:07.560 for him and, you know, of course, come with all my natural qualities.

01:12:13.140 And, yeah, over time, I mean, over time, a room for a few minutes is not going to let

01:12:19.780 you know who I really am.

01:12:21.200 We would spend time together to reveal that in time.

01:12:26.000 Okay.

01:12:27.120 I'd be myself.

01:12:29.960 Come up with a new answer, guys.

01:12:32.400 I wouldn't even rock in there with a wind on.

01:12:34.120 Whatever that self is, whatever that self is, what is it?

01:12:39.040 Tell us what it is.

01:12:40.800 I'm Yami.

01:12:41.680 If you know me, then you know me.

01:12:44.140 Okay.

01:12:46.000 And if you don't, you'll get to know me.

01:12:47.580 I don't know if my dream man would be sitting, interviewing, waiting.

01:12:50.980 Like, I felt like I was.

01:12:51.920 The idea is that it's a hypothetical.

01:12:55.360 So with a hypothetical, it's an imaginary scenario.

01:12:57.540 It's designed to get an answer.

01:12:59.460 I would just offer to be his best friend.

01:13:01.640 And then if it grows into something more than that, that's cool, because I feel like my

01:13:05.760 dream guy could just be my friend, too, because I'm cool with just having a cool guy friend.

01:13:10.100 You know, being best friends is the most important thing.

01:13:12.720 The relationship and all that could come after, or whatever you guys decide to do.

01:13:16.400 So I would just be like, let's be friends first.

01:13:19.200 Mm-hmm.

01:13:19.920 Yeah.

01:13:21.320 Yeah, I would be like, I would definitely be myself and then like, just start off as friends.

01:13:28.020 You know, because maybe he is not my dream man.

01:13:31.340 You know, maybe he's not.

01:13:32.280 Within the hypothetical, he is your dream man.

01:13:34.360 Okay, all right.

01:13:35.920 Well, I mean, I would just try to, you know, be friends with him and see where it goes.

01:13:45.260 And if he desires me, then he desires me.

01:13:49.000 If he doesn't, next, you know?

01:13:51.180 Okay, so if I would meet the man of my dream, first of all, I would look at his eyes and then

01:14:01.300 I'm sure I would be very shy because when you meet the man who you really like, it's

01:14:06.740 like hard to look in his eyes.

01:14:08.320 I would smile, I would shy, I would be red and I just like a little bit flirted, but it's

01:14:12.880 coming naturally and we have just little topic and I'm very strong woman, but when I meet

01:14:18.720 the right man, I become very like a kitten and we'll see what will happen after.

01:14:25.700 So you just sell yourself in any way?

01:14:27.480 It's not a self, it's a natural behavior.

01:14:29.940 When you meet the right man with the right energy, it's like, it's maybe it's only with

01:14:35.740 me working like that, but I feel like I want to be weak and I want to be behind this man

01:14:41.700 and I want, no, I don't care about you.

01:14:44.480 When I start to imagine this beautiful man, and actually, yes, I want he to be stronger

01:14:52.800 than me and that he take the situation in his hands.

01:14:58.040 Okay, so we know what you want.

01:15:00.580 And a little by little, he will find out me and then yes.

01:15:04.560 Fantastic.

01:15:05.200 Okay, now we're going to go for one more round.

01:15:08.780 Now, so the idea of the hypothetical is to test your answers and to see what you guys

01:15:13.620 obviously come up with.

01:15:16.020 Put your ideal man in mind, right?

01:15:18.580 This guy's tall, handsome, he's successful, he's busy, he's on his grind and everything.

01:15:23.440 What do you think this guy wants?

01:15:26.060 What do you think he wants?

01:15:27.520 Go.

01:15:28.260 What do I think he wants?

01:15:29.740 He wants someone to confide in and be there for him.

01:15:34.040 Like, probably as a busy man, you have a lot of conflicts throughout your day.

01:15:38.920 So somewhere that he can come home and feel comfortable and feel like, you know, we can

01:15:43.760 have a conversation.

01:15:44.540 Say that it was a problem.

01:15:45.460 Like, we can have a conversation and not get all up in our feelings and feel stressed

01:15:51.000 out by, I don't know, just someone that's there for them.

01:15:53.320 Because it's hard nowadays to have someone who genuinely cares and you feel like you

01:15:58.060 can confide in them no matter what.

01:16:00.240 So just to be that for somebody else, I bet that's what they want.

01:16:04.420 Okay.

01:16:05.580 From my experience and my question and talk with men of all levels, I think men, first

01:16:14.920 thing they like is loyalty and somebody that can listen and understand, somebody that they

01:16:22.520 can come to and talk on any subject and they find it smart and somebody that can give them

01:16:34.500 some time advice.

01:16:36.700 This is a great partner when you can be a little bit of everything together.

01:16:44.920 I would just want to be his piece.

01:16:47.560 Simple.

01:16:48.360 You think he would want peace?

01:16:51.100 Yeah.

01:16:51.500 Especially if he's successful.

01:16:53.280 Obviously, he's doing something that's important.

01:16:55.540 Most people don't have someone they can confide in, speak to.

01:16:58.060 Yeah.

01:16:58.260 I would just want to be his piece.

01:16:59.300 Anything else you can think of?

01:17:03.040 Nope.

01:17:03.720 What does it mean to be someone's piece?

01:17:05.620 That could be a lot of different things.

01:17:07.400 Sometimes they need a shoulder to cry on.

01:17:08.980 Maybe someone to put a smile on their face.

01:17:11.920 This guy is someone who never cries.

01:17:13.800 That sounds like a problem.

01:17:16.360 That sounds like a major problem that needs to be fixed.

01:17:20.320 Someone who doesn't cry?

01:17:21.720 Yes.

01:17:22.200 Why does water...

01:17:23.560 That means you're...

01:17:24.840 Why do you have to summon tears?

01:17:27.000 Why do you have to have moisture coming from your face to be normal?

01:17:30.220 To get something out.

01:17:31.960 There's obviously built up tension inside of you.

01:17:34.320 If you feel like you have to cry about it, there's some sort of overwhelming feeling inside

01:17:38.900 of your body and if you're not tapping into those feelings that make you feel like you're

01:17:42.560 going to cry, there's something wrong.

01:17:45.080 You need to express that and get that out before you put it out in different ways.

01:17:49.080 Because if you're not crying or feeling some sort of sadness when you're overwhelmed or

01:17:53.460 sad, then you're definitely putting it out in a different way.

01:17:56.960 Like, oh, you want to fight?

01:17:58.180 Oh, you want to push someone away or act a certain type of way?

01:18:02.380 Like, there's something behind not feeling able to cry.

01:18:06.600 Men who don't cry is not available emotionally.

01:18:09.380 There we go. 1.00

01:18:10.040 What if they love going to the gym and just punching the shit out of the boxing bag? 0.99

01:18:14.060 And that's the way that they do it and they never cry. 0.98

01:18:16.740 But then that's not...

01:18:17.720 That's more than...

01:18:18.600 That's not just focusing on the actual feeling.

01:18:20.480 Tell me how it's different.

01:18:20.840 Tell me how one is a better emotional release than the other.

01:18:23.360 It's called suppressing.

01:18:24.540 When you go to the gym, you elevate your endorphine.

01:18:28.680 When you are emotional, you lower all your guards and your walls and you're actually submissive

01:18:35.340 a little bit.

01:18:36.020 Not submissive, but you are vulnerable.

01:18:37.780 Okay, so you want the man to be submissive again.

01:18:39.320 So anyways, back to what you were saying.

01:18:43.000 How is it a better or worse release of energy?

01:18:46.280 Because I would definitely claim that going to the gym and hitting the boxing bag for

01:18:49.340 an hour is much better.

01:18:49.980 I think that's really important.

01:18:52.400 But it's the same thing because what you essentially said is that this is like an energy build up.

01:18:55.600 You've got things inside you and you need a release, right?

01:18:57.840 So if you need to release it and then my way of doing that is going to the gym and hitting

01:19:01.500 the bag for an hour and then your way of doing it is to cry.

01:19:04.440 Like why is my way worse?

01:19:05.720 I'm not saying that it's worse.

01:19:06.900 I just think that it's not.

01:19:08.020 You're not tapping into all of you.

01:19:09.200 You're not tapping into your actual emotions.

01:19:11.560 Okay, we're getting out the anger.

01:19:12.940 Anger is a mask of sadness or something else.

01:19:17.880 It's not just anger.

01:19:19.000 You don't just get angry and be angry for no reason.

01:19:21.880 So you think that somebody can't cut you off in traffic and you're not actually angry yourself.

01:19:25.500 Okay, but you're going to know.

01:19:27.400 If someone cuts you off in traffic, you're angry and you're going to go punch a punching 0.97

01:19:30.300 bag about it? 0.88

01:19:31.060 Can I ask you?

01:19:31.480 Come on, there's something you need to work on.

01:19:32.940 So what I said was, if somebody cuts you off in traffic and you get angry about it, does

01:19:38.320 that mean that you're masking sadness?

01:19:39.740 No, no, no, no.

01:19:40.300 Well, that's what you just said.

01:19:41.220 I feel like crying is something deeper than just anger.

01:19:46.240 Anger probably follows up on it because it's like something else.

01:19:51.080 And also, maybe you're so upset in traffic because it triggered you in some way.

01:19:55.020 Maybe something else happened a long time ago and when that guy cut you off, you were

01:20:00.080 like, ooh, that pisses me off so bad.

01:20:02.980 And you're like, wait, why does this piss me off so bad?

01:20:04.780 I'm just driving in my car.

01:20:06.020 Or maybe you're just angry because you get cut off and you wanted to say something?

01:20:08.420 Yes.

01:20:09.020 So people were saying that men are feminine these days.

01:20:13.800 They're not as masculine.

01:20:15.700 And I think a man crying is very feminine and make them not masculine. 0.99

01:20:21.560 I agree.

01:20:21.780 If a guy cries, it's such a turn-off.

01:20:24.880 It's an instant turn-off.

01:20:26.260 It's a turn-off.

01:20:27.200 It's pretty much the same with all women, but they'll lie to you and say that, oh, it's 1.00

01:20:30.180 not a turn-off.

01:20:31.220 I really like it when my man is weeping in my shoulder, which is just a total... 1.00

01:20:34.540 Fuck. 0.99

01:20:35.640 I'm not saying that, but I'm not saying cry about everything in the world that ever made 1.00

01:20:39.720 you mad, but I'm saying if you really feel that much emotion to let it out and cry,

01:20:45.980 I mean, that shouldn't be a problem.

01:20:47.420 That should not be something that you're avoiding doing.

01:20:49.620 Yeah, but do you understand why, based on what you guys all just said, which is that

01:20:53.680 it's very unattractive for a man to cry, do you understand why there are certain cultural

01:20:57.120 parameters that are put up and cultural walls that are put up for men, which means that 0.88

01:21:01.860 they have to find other ways to get around these emotional states?

01:21:04.720 Because the reason why you're actually not very attracted to a man who cries is because

01:21:08.520 every fiber of your being is designed to be attracted to a man who can be strong in

01:21:13.460 hard times, right?

01:21:14.540 So if he's crying, instantly you're going to think to yourself, gosh, what if something

01:21:19.160 goes wrong financially, or what if there's an intruder, or what's he going to do?

01:21:22.760 Is he just going to collapse and cry?

01:21:24.720 So I mean, if he has a family member who's just died and he's just heard the news and

01:21:30.080 there's something crazy has just happened, you can understand that release of emotion

01:21:34.420 because that sort of thing does happen.

01:21:35.780 However, if he's just like crying all the time, then that's, or crying over things that

01:21:41.920 he can just sort of deal with, then that's another thing.

01:21:44.680 But also guys don't like, with me, for example, I just don't ever feel the need to do that.

01:21:50.380 Like if I've got a problem and it's like really something that's eating away at me, for the

01:21:54.540 most part, I'm going to give one of my brothers a call.

01:21:56.440 I'm going to give one of my friends a call and we're going to have a really logical conversation

01:21:59.600 and we're going to fix the problem.

01:22:01.200 However, if you guys are really emotional about something and you come to me about it, what do you

01:22:05.120 want me to do?

01:22:05.860 You want me to listen and not give you a solution?

01:22:07.940 You want me to just make sure that you feel heard, right?

01:22:11.040 That's the difference between men and women. 1.00

01:22:12.520 Sometimes.

01:22:13.580 Yeah.

01:22:13.840 Because men are, their first instinct is to, okay, so how can I fix this problem? 0.81

01:22:19.280 Whereas when you talk to a woman, they're like, okay, I'm going to let you vent, I'm 1.00

01:22:22.360 going to let you get that out.

01:22:23.320 I'm not saying that a man should just cry every time there's an issue and they're so overwhelmed.

01:22:28.700 I'm saying if there is, okay, wait, hold on, hold on.

01:22:32.920 So.

01:22:33.760 You got this.

01:22:34.260 A man shouldn't cry, you know, every single time there's a problem, but if you can fix

01:22:37.480 that problem, what would you be crying for?

01:22:39.660 Okay.

01:22:40.260 I understand.

01:22:40.980 But if there's something so deep, someone died and you're not crying about it, what aren't

01:22:45.580 you releasing?

01:22:46.220 What aren't you taking care of mentally?

01:22:48.120 Because there's nothing you can do to fix that.

01:22:50.400 But earlier in the conversation, you were saying it's like a, it's like a buildup of emotions

01:22:54.340 and there might be something that you think of when you were, from when you were 12 that

01:22:57.720 made you really sad that when the person cut you off in traffic, you just want to cry.

01:23:00.440 That was sort of your logic that we all have these build, these buildups of anxiety and

01:23:04.540 emotion.

01:23:05.040 And we do.

01:23:05.840 I mean, we're all creatures who sort of carry all different kinds of life experiences.

01:23:09.620 Some of them make you sad.

01:23:10.760 Some of them make you happy.

01:23:11.780 We're all going to die one day.

01:23:13.140 We all have to sort of be cool with that at some point.

01:23:16.580 And, you know, we all have hopes of heaven and fears of hell.

01:23:19.700 So I understand that.

01:23:21.040 However, with guys, generally, we tend to just deal with things completely different to you.

01:23:26.260 Women actually enjoy crying a lot of the time. 1.00

01:23:28.800 They'll sit there and they'll be like, all right, it's cry time.

01:23:30.540 Yeah, I'm going to cry now.

01:23:30.980 And I'm going to sit here for an hour and I'm just going to cry. 0.99

01:23:33.480 And they can do shit, like clean the dishes or they can go like walk around their house 0.99

01:23:37.220 and talk to a friend. 0.99

01:23:38.580 Whereas if a guy does cry, generally, that's something like.

01:23:42.440 Really serious.

01:23:43.260 It's serious.

01:23:44.160 And you normally want to be completely alone or maybe in.

01:23:48.280 With that girl, that's your piece.

01:23:49.340 No, no, no.

01:23:51.360 Or with one of your very, very close friends who you can really trust, like a serious confidant.

01:23:57.640 They all make fun of each other.

01:23:58.760 Why do you feel comfortable crying in front of some men that literally they'd be like, 1.00

01:24:01.940 oh, your jacket looks stupid, fool. 1.00

01:24:03.840 Hey, you think my jacket looks stupid? 1.00

01:24:05.100 No, no, no. 0.99

01:24:05.880 That was just my example.

01:24:08.240 No, but in terms of men crying in front of each other, I think that that's a myth.

01:24:12.820 That's something that females think that guys do. 1.00

01:24:15.200 But I've had different men who have confided in me in like really, really serious times

01:24:19.500 when they're going through something immense and then they've cried in front of me.

01:24:23.280 And normally it's like, I'm not going to sort of, you know.

01:24:26.120 Console you. 0.71

01:24:26.980 Like pat your head for half an hour. 0.74

01:24:28.240 But if that happens, then I'm going to sit there with you.

01:24:30.760 I'm probably going to be silent for a little while.

01:24:32.840 And then once that's done, we're going to come to a solutions-based.

01:24:35.940 We're going to have a solutions-based conversation, right?

01:24:38.720 Yeah.

01:24:39.220 But the key difference is that when women do that to you, if you start trying to give them 1.00

01:24:43.060 solutions, they're like, just shut up and just listen to me.

01:24:46.060 Because did you give the moment of silence like you did for your homeboy? 0.92

01:24:49.380 With the women, you get pretty much all silence. 1.00

01:24:51.880 That's all you do.

01:24:53.700 Yeah.

01:24:54.060 Well, I'm just saying like to be with a man who doesn't cry at all is not healthy.

01:24:59.800 I'm not saying he should always cry.

01:25:01.560 I'm not saying that it's not okay to cry.

01:25:04.040 But you have to understand that there are a lot of guys like that though who would never

01:25:06.940 cry, even if something, the worst thing you can ever imagine happened.

01:25:09.580 I think there is a difference between like crying and shedding tears because crying to

01:25:14.280 me sounds like you're just like-

01:25:16.060 Whining about it.

01:25:17.260 You're like, you know, crying.

01:25:18.380 And girls on the phone with their friends crying, like that's crying.

01:25:22.240 If you like take a moment and like shed some tears, you can like by all means do that and

01:25:27.820 not lose any respect for me because I'll understand the situation.

01:25:31.680 And if I am your piece, I will understand why that's going on.

01:25:36.100 And I've had my man cry in front of me before. 0.99

01:25:38.120 Shed a tear and then go punch that punching bag you were talking about. 0.99

01:25:40.660 Show me how strong you are. 0.99

01:25:42.040 Come on, we're going to get through this, baby.

01:25:43.360 Well, I mean, I don't think that if you would shed a tear, then you would do that next necessarily.

01:25:47.680 But generally speaking, there are so many guys who I know who are the most sort of emotionally

01:25:53.680 intelligent, if we want to use that word, men that I know that would never shed a tear.

01:25:57.640 I would never see them shedding a tear.

01:25:59.320 But if we want to use the word emotional intelligence, then they're completely emotional

01:26:03.880 intelligent because they're completely emotionally intelligent.

01:26:07.240 And the reason why is because whatever comes their way, they can process it in real time

01:26:11.740 and not react to it, not have an emotional reaction to it.

01:26:14.520 And I think that that actually is the highest form of emotional intelligence.

01:26:19.480 Because to only use it when you need it.

01:26:21.180 Yeah.

01:26:21.620 Whereas women these days will tend to say, these guys aren't emotionally intelligent.

01:26:25.240 They're not emotionally available.

01:26:27.000 Probably emotionally intelligent would be crying.

01:26:29.860 What was that?

01:26:31.520 To be like emotionally, to not be emotionally intelligent.

01:26:34.940 Well, you would agree with me that generally the sentiment these days in society is that men

01:26:38.560 aren't emotionally intelligent enough.

01:26:40.120 And women are the emotionally intelligent ones. 1.00

01:26:41.960 And the reason why is because men don't show emotion, right?

01:26:45.400 I think today-

01:26:45.920 If they think that an outward reflection or an outward demonstration of emotion is showing

01:26:50.560 that you're emotionally intelligent.

01:26:52.280 I think today the problem is every guy shows all their emotions.

01:26:56.180 And whether they do it in an aggressive or a weird way, they're still showing immense amounts of emotion.

01:27:04.600 So to say like, oh, I want a guy who, you know, is emotionally intelligent would be someone who knows

01:27:10.340 when their emotions are appropriate.

01:27:12.520 Here's what I think you guys really want.

01:27:14.200 And I think that this would be a characteristic of everybody's dream man in here.

01:27:17.940 The one who you were meant to sell yourself to before.

01:27:21.240 I think that you guys would want a man who's completely stoic, doesn't have emotional reactions,

01:27:27.960 doesn't have emotional reactions to you and to your outburst, is able to leave the house, go to the gym,

01:27:33.800 come back and have a rational conversation, and is able to be the sort of sturdy rock face

01:27:38.200 that your waves of emotion crash into.

01:27:40.380 Absolutely not.

01:27:41.040 Well, I think that the vast majority of women- 1.00

01:27:43.540 Because we're very enjoying my feelings.

01:27:44.540 Sorry?

01:27:44.760 I'm trying to see our side.

01:27:45.740 So this is what women will say, is that they want to have a man who they can connect with emotionally like that.

01:27:54.060 But no woman really wants that. 1.00

01:27:55.320 What they want is a man who's going to leave that situation, if it's getting emotional and heated,

01:27:59.820 and then come back later and be like, all right, we're going to have a conversation about this now.

01:28:02.780 Please don't leave me.

01:28:03.820 I don't think every woman is like that. 1.00

01:28:05.300 And I don't think crying automatically equals weakness.

01:28:07.800 I think that's what it is.

01:28:08.900 I feel like there's nothing wrong with setting a tear.

01:28:11.240 It's still handling your business.

01:28:12.720 Something can hurt you, and you still find a solution to that.

01:28:15.740 And take a moment to cry.

01:28:16.740 I don't personally view that as weakness, or I want my man to be tough all the time.

01:28:22.880 How would you feel, though, if your man cried in public, and your friends were there?

01:28:26.640 Oh, hell no.

01:28:27.480 I don't even cry in public.

01:28:28.920 I don't cry in public, so you shouldn't cry in public.

01:28:30.460 This is what I'm saying, though.

01:28:31.580 And sort of furthering on from that last point, that generally, women want a man who is, to the outside world,

01:28:38.380 he's very stoic, and he's aggressive and dominant, and forges his own path in life.

01:28:44.900 But then, on like a cold Sunday morning, you want to see behind the veil, maybe just a little bit.

01:28:50.880 I think that generally speaking, women tend to want that. 1.00

01:28:54.060 Just in moments when he's with you, then you maybe see behind the veil a little bit.

01:28:57.500 I think the right person show you both sides.

01:29:00.300 He show you his masculine.

01:29:01.700 He show you his sensitive side, too.

01:29:05.180 It's, again, have to do with how available he is emotionally and mentally.

01:29:09.700 It's funny, because there's been a lot of studies done on what women actually are aroused by. 0.90

01:29:16.760 And one of the books that I find really interesting is called A Billion Wicked Thoughts, and it's by a bunch of Google engineers.

01:29:22.220 And what they do is they got a billion Google searches from women to see what women's pornographic fantasies were. 1.00

01:29:31.080 Can you guys guess what they would have been?

01:29:33.060 No.

01:29:33.940 I wouldn't want to. 1.00

01:29:35.340 Gay porn. 0.99

01:29:35.880 That wasn't one of them. 1.00

01:29:38.380 So, some of the most watched sort of adult content for women was billionaires, vampires.

01:29:46.420 How do you know they're a billionaire?

01:29:48.080 Billionaires, vampires.

01:29:49.580 It's going to make sense in a second, I guarantee you.

01:29:50.960 It's actual billionaires. 0.95

01:29:52.200 Werewolf, surgeon, and pirate.

01:29:54.560 So, they have BCM.

01:29:55.540 But what women did they ask? 1.00

01:29:57.300 What level of women? 1.00

01:29:58.140 No, no.

01:29:58.520 It was completely anonymous, because it was billions of different Google searches.

01:30:01.320 Why would you want anyone to know that?

01:30:03.420 Let me land.

01:30:05.220 Google searches.

01:30:06.320 Yeah, I heard you.

01:30:07.480 So, look, what are the most popular movies and TV shows that we've seen women? 1.00

01:30:12.000 Fucking, since you said vampires, it would be like Twilight. 0.99

01:30:15.480 Is that freaking? 1.00

01:30:16.840 That's disgusting. 0.98

01:30:17.820 Does that now shock you that vampires was a part of it? 0.83

01:30:20.300 It doesn't shock me. 0.83

01:30:21.340 It's just gross.

01:30:22.880 Notebook.

01:30:23.760 The movie Notebook.

01:30:25.200 Yeah, but he-

01:30:26.340 He built her a house.

01:30:27.600 That's the type of-

01:30:28.380 Right.

01:30:28.620 He's very, he's very competent.

01:30:33.160 What else?

01:30:33.720 He sure did cry.

01:30:34.960 He sure did cry.

01:30:35.900 He said, I love you.

01:30:36.200 What's the most popular, what's the most popular book?

01:30:39.520 Especially in recent times that women have bought. 0.99

01:30:42.280 50 Shades.

01:30:42.920 I recently sent Twilight.

01:30:43.560 Exactly right.

01:30:44.240 50 Shades of Grey.

01:30:45.620 What's he?

01:30:46.440 He's a billionaire.

01:30:48.160 And what he is-

01:30:48.740 He's a dominatrix.

01:30:49.280 He's a beast to the outside world, but then she gets to tame him.

01:30:53.720 It's called, it's like a beauty in the beast.

01:30:54.920 How does she tame him? 0.99

01:30:56.140 How does she-

01:30:56.500 For these surveys?

01:30:57.360 She literally gets tied up and beat, and he's like, oh yeah.

01:31:01.900 Well, I mean, to her, he's like a, he warms to her in the end, right?

01:31:06.400 Uh-huh.

01:31:07.320 Have you guys ever seen them?

01:31:08.240 There's a movie called 365, I think, and it's about an Italian mob boss who kidnaps this

01:31:13.620 woman for a whole year, and then after the year, they eventually fall in love.

01:31:16.660 That's like-

01:31:17.220 Isn't that like Zindra? 0.89

01:31:18.340 Yeah.

01:31:18.600 But women are obsessed with that movie. 1.00

01:31:20.620 Why are they obsessed with that movie?

01:31:21.480 I have never seen it.

01:31:22.040 Why are they so turned on by that movie?

01:31:25.300 Because-

01:31:25.620 Keep me away from- 1.00

01:31:26.160 Well, it's because he's a dangerous-

01:31:27.140 Keep me away from- 1.00

01:31:28.000 He's a dangerous mob boss that falls in love with her and then shows her like a bit of 0.78

01:31:32.100 a different side, right?

01:31:33.620 So all this to say that the Beauty and the Beast archetype is something that is deeply,

01:31:38.780 deeply ingrained within women, and even that movie, Beauty and the Beast, was made 1.00

01:31:42.900 for that particular reason as well, because women want a beast who they contain. 1.00

01:31:47.100 I think also we all, as children, we've been brainwashed that we have to have some type

01:31:52.420 of relationship because we grow up in a mother and a father and a family thinking this is

01:31:58.240 the ultimate.

01:31:59.140 How about invest in yourself?

01:32:01.520 Grow yourself.

01:32:02.500 Wait, so you think that it's better-

01:32:03.300 Is that brainwashing? 0.97

01:32:04.300 The type of stuff they put on TV?

01:32:06.500 No, I think the stuff they put on TV, they put to you this perfect family, you know,

01:32:11.200 the mother, the father, the children.

01:32:12.880 That's how it's supposed to be.

01:32:14.420 That's how it needs to be because of what?

01:32:16.140 Just to be clear, you think it's brainwashing for there to be a mother and a father?

01:32:19.880 No, it's brainwashing to think that a beast is good.

01:32:22.820 A beast?

01:32:24.000 No, no, no.

01:32:24.680 It's the archetype.

01:32:25.440 That's what he said.

01:32:25.940 The archetype is Beauty and the Beast, right?

01:32:27.700 Yeah.

01:32:27.880 So when I say beast, I'm talking about the archetypal figure of the hyper-masculine guy.

01:32:31.840 The guy who locks you in a cellar in a basement with his talking candles.

01:32:34.760 Look, I'm not the one who was watching it on repeat and like-

01:32:38.380 I've never watched it.

01:32:39.200 That was women who were doing that. 1.00

01:32:40.500 Women are obsessed with that movie. 1.00

01:32:41.980 They're obsessed with Fifty Shades of Grey.

01:32:43.680 They get their eroticism through reading.

01:32:46.780 So what type of men-

01:32:48.200 I mean, what type of movies and books do men read and what shows them what they like?

01:32:52.980 Men are visually stimulated.

01:32:54.460 Women are narrative stimulated. 0.93

01:32:55.280 I'm not reading no book. 0.98

01:32:56.300 I'm trying to see some titties.

01:32:57.320 Everybody wants to feel special.

01:32:58.760 You guys probably all read fairy poems.

01:33:00.500 What?

01:33:01.140 No.

01:33:02.700 That Beauty and the Beast archetype comes from wanting to feel special.

01:33:06.660 I think everybody wants to have that special part of somebody like-

01:33:09.680 Oh, this person is just like that's for me.

01:33:12.220 Men don't want their women giving it up to everybody. 0.99

01:33:15.000 It's the same way.

01:33:15.840 I don't want you showing that vulnerable side to everybody.

01:33:18.880 It's the same way.

01:33:19.420 I don't think it's about wanting to tame a beast.

01:33:21.480 It's about wanting to feel special that I get a certain part of you that nobody else does.

01:33:25.460 It's the intimacy and vulnerability.

01:33:27.620 But it's also the representation of the masculine archetype that women desire.

01:33:30.680 And even if they don't say they desire it, all of the scientific research shows that that is what they gravitate towards and that's what arouses them.

01:33:37.220 I want everyone to see me when I'm walking with my men and be like, oh, I ain't going to mess with her.

01:33:41.620 Yeah, they don't like feminine men. 1.00

01:33:42.960 But anyways, we didn't get through the whole job interview thing before.

01:33:45.600 That's fine though.

01:33:46.100 But all that to say with the job interview that it's interesting to see because not one of you guys said during the job interview what you're going to bring to his life and what you can do.

01:33:55.520 Actually, I did.

01:33:56.220 By showing myself, I did.

01:33:58.600 You just talked about yourself.

01:34:00.080 But like in the initial one, which was off the cuff.

01:34:02.520 It was still the same thing.

01:34:03.780 I was going to bring my whole deck so I could do a presentation.

01:34:06.500 I'm just kidding.

01:34:07.160 I don't think you said so.

01:34:08.020 But yeah, so it was interesting to see that no one said that.

01:34:15.320 But the initial one, no one said it and that was a raw study.

01:34:19.380 The initial one that I said was that I would bring my authentic self and I think that that within itself brings a lot to the table.

01:34:25.340 And that's about who?

01:34:26.360 It's about you.

01:34:27.320 Yeah, that's who I'm speaking for.

01:34:28.660 Who else am I speaking for?

01:34:31.240 When you say how do you, I know you're very confused by it, but when you say how do you sell yourself to somebody, you're meant to say what can I bring to your life? 0.59

01:34:37.140 Oh, I got a big butt and I'm very thoughtful and I care.

01:34:44.040 Like, what do you want me to say? 0.97

01:34:46.200 You're going to say, you're going to.

01:34:48.140 I'll take my shoes off when I come inside.

01:34:49.840 Yeah.

01:34:50.340 Can you carry me?

01:34:51.300 Can you carry me to the front door?

01:34:52.500 Actually, or at least just don't refuse to.

01:34:55.040 That would be a good idea.

01:34:57.240 You were on a right path.

01:34:59.080 Who said that you're going to ask him questions?

01:35:00.940 Was that you?

01:35:01.980 But I didn't finish.

01:35:03.120 Ask questions?

01:35:04.020 You know, you said that you're going to ask him questions, yeah?

01:35:07.020 I said I'm going to ask, yeah.

01:35:08.920 Yeah, right.

01:35:09.420 I thought that might have been a good answer if it was followed to a conclusion, which was not the logical conclusion of what you were saying.

01:35:14.700 But then you said he's just going to sit there like this and I said I'm going to break the silence.

01:35:17.840 Yeah, I know, but that's irrelevant.

01:35:19.160 But what we were talking about when we said that was that I thought that there was going to be someone who took it to a logical conclusion and was actually asking him about, how can I help you?

01:35:28.280 What about your life?

01:35:30.120 We didn't finish.

01:35:30.660 You asked only three girls. 0.94

01:35:32.180 We didn't ask them.

01:35:32.800 We didn't ask them.

01:35:32.820 We didn't ask our answers.

01:35:33.740 Well, it's funny because you guys are all taking the piss out of it.

01:35:36.480 How can I be at your service?

01:35:37.000 Exactly, like how can I be at your service?

01:35:38.620 Should I get on my knees?

01:35:39.560 No.

01:35:39.960 But God forbid, God forbid you actually have to serve the man that you're with.

01:35:44.100 I will, but I don't think that my dream man wants me to crawl in the door.

01:35:49.640 Who said that?

01:35:50.140 And lay on the floor and say, take me, take me.

01:35:53.940 I'll do anything for you.

01:35:55.560 Please, please, help me. 1.00

01:35:56.580 Because now you're a thirsty bitch and I don't like you. 1.00

01:35:59.040 You're a whore. 1.00

01:35:59.620 You probably do that for everybody. 1.00

01:36:01.120 See, you guys have just completely failed 100% to grasp anything I was just saying.

01:36:06.500 It's actually quite impressive how quickly the point just flies over your head.

01:36:10.900 But what I'm saying is that instead of doing whatever crawling you were just doing,

01:36:16.860 the idea is that you walk in, I will, thank you.

01:36:21.560 The idea is that you walk in and you say, and you observe the guy, who he is,

01:36:25.900 and you sort of try and ascertain how you could bring value to his life.

01:36:29.420 And then maybe you have a few questions to ask him about what he does,

01:36:32.600 what his needs are, how I can help you.

01:36:34.800 And then you can say whether or not that's something, a duty you'd be willing to fulfill.

01:36:38.340 Because you know what?

01:36:39.500 In marriage, people have duties, even the women. 0.98

01:36:41.540 That's true.

01:36:42.280 I agree with that.

01:36:43.260 I don't think that's wrong.

01:36:44.060 But I don't think that if you're going to be the big, strong man that you're going to be,

01:36:47.520 I have to just ask you and figure it out.

01:36:49.640 You should tell me, right?

01:36:52.120 So you would never ask your dream man, hey, honey, is there anything I can do for you today?

01:36:57.740 Can I make your life easier?

01:36:58.700 Oh, yeah, today, now that I'm with you.

01:36:59.500 Yeah, today.

01:37:00.500 But when you came up to me and you, why was you sitting here like this?

01:37:04.560 Okay, that's not my dream man, one.

01:37:06.820 But two, here's what I need from you.

01:37:08.640 I need you to do this for me, do this for me, do this for me.

01:37:11.560 Can you do that?

01:37:12.320 If my answer is anything other than yes, then I'm done, right?

01:37:16.840 Yeah, see, the difference is, though, I can have, if I was that guy, right, just say I'm

01:37:21.220 everybody's dream man, and then I have a bunch of women walking into the room, and then I'm 0.99

01:37:26.140 going to tell them all, I want you to do this, this, this, this, and this.

01:37:29.380 You know what they're all going to say?

01:37:30.520 Okay, yeah, okay, I'll do that.

01:37:31.700 Oh, yeah, that's me.

01:37:32.320 But if I have them come and sell themselves, and somebody, and someone comes in, asks those

01:37:37.920 questions, and is really observant of myself, then it's going to set her apart, because

01:37:42.420 you know what it shows?

01:37:43.080 Initiative.

01:37:43.820 And actually, men like women who have initiative.

01:37:45.940 I hear your point.

01:37:46.840 That's good.

01:37:49.220 All right, we need to get into a couple things.

01:37:51.400 I did hear the term mansplain, though.

01:37:54.220 I know we investigate that a little bit.

01:37:56.320 But when you say mansplain, can you define that so we understand it?

01:38:01.020 When men explain stuff that we obviously understood, but we were joking. 0.99

01:38:05.320 Joking about the explanation, or I'm just confused?

01:38:10.300 Well, he was mansplaining a question he already asked that we already answered.

01:38:13.720 Were you mansplaining it, Jake?

01:38:14.880 No, well, if mansplaining is based on the fact that you already understood, then you are

01:38:19.400 sorely mistaken with your terms.

01:38:21.960 I kind of think mansplain is a bit of a sexist term.

01:38:26.320 You know, it's kind of, you know, it's kind of, well, I feel like women would be very upset

01:38:32.220 if there was a term like she-laborating. 0.98

01:38:35.040 She-laborating? 0.70

01:38:36.840 And you're, I dismiss whatever you're trying to tell me.

01:38:40.600 I simply dismiss it by saying, oh, well, you're she-laborating. 0.98

01:38:44.860 Don't want to hear it.

01:38:46.640 Don't want to hear your she-laboration. 1.00

01:38:49.020 So, I just think, you know, putting man before explain mansplaining.

01:38:57.620 I mean, like for example, let me, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, hold on.

01:38:59.800 I have the perfect example.

01:39:02.240 Let's change man.

01:39:04.200 Let's change it to blacksplaining. 0.88

01:39:06.980 Is it racist?

01:39:07.860 I knew you were going to say that.

01:39:09.480 Is it racist?

01:39:10.280 I knew you were going to say that.

01:39:11.360 Well, did you want me to explain a black term or what are we explaining?

01:39:14.160 Hold on.

01:39:14.760 Mind you, this is a term I would never use, but is that a racist term? 1.00

01:39:20.140 No, you just made that shit up. 0.99

01:39:22.200 Well, let's assume. 0.99

01:39:23.180 Okay, but that's not the same.

01:39:24.900 Hold on.

01:39:25.360 How is it not the same? 0.91

01:39:26.520 Because the black people aren't the oppressors. 0.99

01:39:29.560 Men are the oppressors. 0.99

01:39:32.640 So, yeah, y'all can take that little mansplain, yeah, that little discrimination because y'all

01:39:37.060 are for us.

01:39:37.080 Oh, I got something, though.

01:39:38.420 Right.

01:39:38.940 You just told us we need to submit to you.

01:39:40.660 If we said whitesplain, we could say that. 1.00

01:39:43.860 Oh, you could say whitesplain. 0.98

01:39:44.620 We could say whitesplain because they're the oppressors. 1.00

01:39:47.580 Listen, I was talking to my man today. 0.94

01:39:49.280 Wait.

01:39:49.760 We could say whitesplain, though.

01:39:50.820 I was talking to my man today.

01:39:51.860 He was like, here's the difference between a man and a woman speaking. 0.99

01:39:54.760 A man is thinking about how the other man is going to think about it.

01:39:59.280 Like, he's thinking about all the men because they all think the same.

01:40:02.060 You can predict a guy the way that they think, but as a woman, they're speaking for only 1.00

01:40:06.180 themselves, and in reality, a man is already going to collectively make everything that

01:40:10.940 you say about every woman in the room.

01:40:13.840 You hear me or no?

01:40:16.080 So, you're saying men make things generalized?

01:40:19.440 Yes, 100%.

01:40:20.860 Versus women make things, there's specificity or individualness? 1.00

01:40:26.080 Yes.

01:40:26.380 No, women. 1.00

01:40:27.360 I mean, maybe every once in a while, oh, yeah, like, all women. 0.82

01:40:30.440 No, I don't even have an example for that.

01:40:33.320 Like, oh, all women love when a man is strong? 0.99

01:40:35.920 No, I like girls. 1.00

01:40:36.680 Have you ever said men suck? 0.99

01:40:37.020 Like, what are you talking about? 1.00

01:40:38.180 Have you ever said men suck? 1.00

01:40:41.140 Um, what do they suck on? 1.00

01:40:44.960 Bro, that was the actually retarded answer ever. 0.99

01:40:48.540 What you'll actually find is that when women and men receive information, men tend to compartmentalize

01:40:54.740 information, whereas women tend to take all of the information, rub it all together like 1.00

01:41:00.540 this, and then make it about themselves.

01:41:02.000 Exactly, that's what I'm saying, is that a woman is thinking about themselves, and a

01:41:05.240 man is thinking collectively as a man is one.

01:41:08.680 You hear what I'm saying?

01:41:09.440 A man thinks logically, whereas women think emotionally. 1.00

01:41:12.380 Whatever the word you want to use is, they're thinking of them as a collective, whereas a woman 1.00

01:41:16.560 is it, stop the prattle, stop the prattle.

01:41:18.440 So, I don't, so let's explore these terms a little bit.

01:41:22.180 So, you said there's an oppressor-oppressed dynamic.

01:41:25.040 Is that your position between men and women, that there's an oppressor-oppressed dynamic

01:41:28.520 between men and women?

01:41:29.640 No.

01:41:29.740 I didn't say that.

01:41:31.020 No, I don't agree.

01:41:31.760 So, that's just your position.

01:41:33.540 Yeah.

01:41:34.240 But you don't think it's sexist to say.

01:41:37.380 And if it is.

01:41:38.040 What, mansplaining?

01:41:38.980 And if it is. 1.00

01:41:39.700 Shut up. 1.00

01:41:40.200 Hold on, bro. 1.00

01:41:41.420 I can only talk to one person at a time.

01:41:44.280 So, going back to this, before I was so rudely interrupted.

01:41:48.180 You were talking to me today.

01:41:50.040 Yeah.

01:41:50.420 I was talking to you, and I was hoping to have a conversation with you.

01:41:53.580 She rudely interrupted both of us. 1.00

01:41:55.420 Okay.

01:41:56.040 So, I'm just trying to better understand.

01:41:58.880 So, you don't think mansplaining is sexist?

01:42:00.960 No.

01:42:01.460 Okay.

01:42:01.680 Would the term blacksplaining be racist? 1.00

01:42:04.820 You just made that shit up. 1.00

01:42:05.880 I don't care. 1.00

01:42:07.220 No, but would it be?

01:42:09.040 No.

01:42:09.260 Like, let's say you were telling me something.

01:42:11.160 Give me the definition.

01:42:12.160 Whatever.

01:42:12.880 How about if you were trying to explain, for example, the history of redlining to him,

01:42:17.840 and he goes, oh, why are you blacksplaining?

01:42:25.340 We clip in the table. 1.00

01:42:26.620 You guys just made this shit up. 1.00

01:42:27.780 I don't even care. 1.00

01:42:28.360 I mean.

01:42:28.860 We did make up the hypothetical.

01:42:30.560 Yes.

01:42:30.920 That's true.

01:42:31.420 So, is it racist?

01:42:32.700 No. 1.00

01:42:33.020 Because you guys made that shit up. 1.00

01:42:35.320 But, hold on. 0.99

01:42:35.900 I mean, let's assume we did make it up if you just take an analysis of the actual term

01:42:43.500 blacksplaining, which, by the way, I think that's a racist term.

01:42:46.200 I would never, like, dismiss a, if a black person was explaining something to me, I would 0.77

01:42:50.780 never just dismiss their position.

01:42:52.080 Oh, okay.

01:42:52.440 That's blacksplaining. 1.00

01:42:53.460 So, I think that's racist.

01:42:54.600 I think you should also think that's racist because I think that would be deeply offensive 0.71

01:42:57.740 to black people. 0.93

01:42:58.260 Let me get upset with you. 0.95

01:42:59.240 I mean, well, no, I'm not a proponent of the term.

01:43:03.700 I'm against the term.

01:43:05.000 You just made it up.

01:43:07.160 I mean, you could probably Google this and people have probably used it before.

01:43:10.700 That's not necessary.

01:43:11.840 But whether I made it up.

01:43:13.140 Yeah, I mean.

01:43:13.540 It actually doesn't matter.

01:43:14.580 That's an actual difference.

01:43:15.540 It doesn't matter at all because what he's doing, he's using an analogy, right?

01:43:19.400 And he's using blacksplaining, whether he made it up or not, to see whether or not 0.73

01:43:23.600 your logic is consistent and whether you're actually morally consistent with your mansplaining

01:43:28.900 and with blacksplaining.

01:43:29.940 If you think that's, if you think, between sexism and racism.

01:43:32.680 I don't care about either.

01:43:33.580 Me, personally, they are both one and the same.

01:43:36.200 Yes, you're correct.

01:43:38.160 Yes, mansplaining could be sexist.

01:43:40.720 Maybe you deserve to be sexualized a little bit because women have been going through it 1.00

01:43:44.100 their whole life.

01:43:45.160 Well, no, it's not sexualizing.

01:43:47.000 I haven't been sexualized at least, Toby.

01:43:48.860 Okay.

01:43:50.080 Sexist, making all women, women, men, men.

01:43:52.260 You meant sexist.

01:43:53.000 Go ahead.

01:43:54.560 Is it a podcast of one person or what?

01:43:56.900 Hey, hey, hey.

01:43:57.260 Hold on.

01:43:57.980 Look.

01:43:58.740 Because 40 minutes, you speak.

01:44:00.440 We don't speak.

01:44:02.180 You got some.

01:44:02.740 Hold on.

01:44:03.660 Hold on.

01:44:04.480 Look.

01:44:05.160 Don't forget to ask us questions.

01:44:06.720 Hey, hey.

01:44:07.880 First off, there's a panel of 10 people here total.

01:44:12.640 Have you ever run a podcast?

01:44:14.580 Hmm?

01:44:15.240 Have you ever run a podcast?

01:44:17.300 No.

01:44:17.480 It's different.

01:44:18.040 Look, people are going to have their time to speak.

01:44:20.000 We spent five, 10 minutes talking about your 100 dates.

01:44:24.420 You've gotten maybe the second.

01:44:26.600 I mean, I wasn't here when Jake was here.

01:44:28.080 You've already gotten a lot of attention.

01:44:29.680 You'll get a little bit more.

01:44:31.060 Okay?

01:44:32.360 But like, it's not your job as a guest and a panelist to dictate to me.

01:44:37.900 Oh, I have not.

01:44:39.420 I don't feel like I've been given an adequate amount of time to speak in the past 10 minutes.

01:44:46.820 What?

01:44:47.560 So.

01:44:48.340 Can I explain?

01:44:49.180 How about this? 0.99

01:44:49.940 If I want to talk to her for the next two hours and all of you have to shut the fuck up for the next two hours, 1.00

01:44:55.720 I'm not going to do that because I'd love to hear from all of you. 0.96

01:44:58.900 But if I was inclined to just talk to her. 0.99

01:45:01.920 In fact, I decide I just want to talk to Jake for the next two hours about fucking Australia. 0.99

01:45:07.400 I'm intercepting. 0.99

01:45:08.660 If I want to talk about Australia.

01:45:09.760 I think that's wrong. 0.99

01:45:11.060 Well, I'm going to fucking do it. 0.98

01:45:12.920 We're going to talk about oppression. 1.00

01:45:14.000 You're blasphemy now.

01:45:14.320 The Australians are the most oppressed out of everyone. 1.00

01:45:17.520 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:45:19.580 So, I'm going to try to involve other people here. 1.00

01:45:23.520 But she's made a comment.

01:45:26.080 I'm going to address it.

01:45:27.440 Are you dissatisfied with the amount of tension you're currently receiving?

01:45:31.620 Can I explain?

01:45:33.380 Sure.

01:45:33.800 Go ahead.

01:45:34.220 It was not noticed to you.

01:45:35.880 It was more to her because you ask the question and she start talking, talking, talking, talking.

01:45:41.260 It's like about we respect each other.

01:45:43.140 It's about that.

01:45:44.380 I can accept that. 0.99

01:45:45.020 So, you're asking me to shut the fuck up. 0.96

01:45:47.540 Can you please do us a favor? 1.00

01:45:49.440 Turn around and tell her to shut the fuck up. 1.00

01:45:50.980 Yeah, tell me. 1.00

01:45:51.540 Shut the fuck up. 1.00

01:45:52.340 You have the... 1.00

01:45:53.160 Whenever you want to speak to you, you got that.

01:45:54.820 If you do, we'll speak to you more.

01:45:56.020 This is his house.

01:45:57.580 He is the man, so he needs control of the situation.

01:46:00.980 Oh, boy.

01:46:01.780 Put a man in control of me?

01:46:03.380 You are the man.

01:46:04.340 I'm okay.

01:46:05.160 I'm all right.

01:46:06.840 I didn't say I was the submissive one.

01:46:08.820 I like.

01:46:09.740 I like.

01:46:10.120 You just got to hop in.

01:46:11.280 If you got something to say, just say it.

01:46:12.880 You just got to hop in there.

01:46:14.160 Yeah, that's a good point, Ravel.

01:46:15.720 If you got something to say.

01:46:17.620 But look, if somebody jumps in, I'm going to try my best to try to bring everybody into the conversation.

01:46:23.220 But look, it's the reality of a panel show like this.

01:46:26.000 Some people are a bit more conversationally dominant.

01:46:28.580 They're going to have more input.

01:46:30.900 Some people don't have input on the topic.

01:46:32.740 I don't think everybody is going to get an equal amount of time here.

01:46:35.940 But I'm going to try my best to try to get everybody in it.

01:46:39.280 And that's why we have the questionnaire, which we're going to get into soon.

01:46:42.560 That will give everybody an opportunity, some other questions.

01:46:46.200 So, yeah.

01:46:46.820 Let's try to wrap up on the conversation that was being had.

01:46:53.440 So, what was your thing?

01:46:54.500 Oh, no, I'm done.

01:46:55.580 I don't even remember at this point.

01:46:57.220 Tell me about mansplaining and racism.

01:46:59.080 Mansplaining is not sexist.

01:47:00.260 All I said was that they're one and the same.

01:47:01.880 Because the oppressor and the oppressor and the one is racist.

01:47:03.460 Wait, wait, wait.

01:47:03.940 Okay, let me hear your take.

01:47:06.060 Mansplaining is not sexist.

01:47:07.460 That's just the end of the take.

01:47:09.260 Even men recognize that they can mansplain.

01:47:12.160 Yeah, they're like, oh, I'm speaking logically.

01:47:14.180 I'm speaking logically.

01:47:15.440 Speaking logically.

01:47:16.820 It has the same arrow.

01:47:17.840 But how about this?

01:47:18.620 So, do you guys think like, but it's not just a man explaining something.

01:47:22.540 It's like, there's another component of it.

01:47:24.720 The man is explaining it how?

01:47:27.060 In a negative way?

01:47:28.020 No, not even condescending.

01:47:30.620 He's just saying it as how every man would think.

01:47:33.760 Well, then we should start saying womplaining. 0.99

01:47:35.840 So, woman. 1.00

01:47:37.520 Womplaining.

01:47:38.260 I like that.

01:47:39.020 Women complaining. 1.00

01:47:39.860 I'm womplaining right now.

01:47:41.660 My womplaining is the truth.

01:47:43.240 But so, I guess my qualm with it is, like, you're attaching, so you're making it into

01:47:50.140 a negative thing.

01:47:51.060 Like, oh, mansplaining is a negative?

01:47:53.000 Yes.

01:47:53.780 It's only looking at one view.

01:47:55.080 Oh, it's a positive thing?

01:47:55.620 It's only looking at one view.

01:47:57.340 So, if you said, that's the same thing.

01:47:59.760 That's only looking at one view.

01:48:00.920 You're only looking at the view of a man.

01:48:02.660 Which view?

01:48:03.200 If I say you're mansplaining, you're only looking at it from the view of a man.

01:48:06.760 Let me ask you a question.

01:48:07.800 Two plus two equals four.

01:48:09.000 Is that mansplaining? 0.79

01:48:10.240 No.

01:48:11.060 But what if you disagree?

01:48:12.480 And I'm like, oh.

01:48:12.920 Why would you disagree? 1.00

01:48:13.720 Now you're just stupid. 1.00

01:48:15.740 Here's the difference. 1.00

01:48:16.840 Yes, you're just stupid. 1.00

01:48:17.800 Mansplaining. 1.00

01:48:18.300 But are you woman stupid if you disagree? 1.00

01:48:19.780 But no, listen. 1.00

01:48:20.980 Are you woman stupid? 1.00

01:48:21.680 When a mansplains, when a man is mansplaining, he's only talking about what men think. 1.00

01:48:32.240 He's not thinking about what a woman would think.

01:48:34.900 You are woman-splaining to me right now. 1.00

01:48:36.620 Okay, sure.

01:48:37.680 Sure, because I'm thinking about how the men in the room aren't thinking from my perspective.

01:48:43.980 They're only thinking from theirs.

01:48:44.680 I'm thinking about how the women are thinking about how the men are thinking.

01:48:48.200 And you're, this is something like inception woman-splaining here. 0.94

01:48:51.740 Okay, so we both do it.

01:48:53.100 I woomsplain, right?

01:48:55.120 I wooms complain. 0.69

01:48:56.700 What is it?

01:48:57.100 You're a woman-splainer. 0.99

01:48:58.640 And you mansplain.

01:48:59.800 It's fine.

01:49:00.640 Is there a problem?

01:49:01.560 To get offended by it seems like the issue. 0.87

01:49:03.620 You're a woman-nagging. 1.00

01:49:04.880 Okay, I'm woman-nagging. 0.99

01:49:06.280 I'm woman-nagging and I'm also woman-nagging, baby.

01:49:09.080 Wait, that doesn't need to be gendered. 1.00

01:49:10.720 That's just what y'all do to begin with.

01:49:13.300 Woman-nagging. 0.99

01:49:13.980 We don't need to specify.

01:49:16.080 That's just like.

01:49:16.900 Exactly.

01:49:17.260 That's kind of your thing.

01:49:18.660 Yeah, and then when the guys are taking on the approach of a woman, then we can make 0.99

01:49:22.720 it the mansplaining thing. 0.99

01:49:24.920 I think the problem.

01:49:25.560 Trying to explain everything from Rebel, tell us the problem.

01:49:27.780 Men are thirsty for a way to be the victim. 0.78

01:49:30.400 I think that's what it is.

01:49:31.140 Thirsty to be the way to be the victim or thirsty to be right?

01:49:33.520 Right, you thirsty to be the victim.

01:49:34.120 Well, men are more oppressed than women. 0.82

01:49:35.800 Oh, right.

01:49:36.260 But hold on.

01:49:36.940 Wait, wait, wait.

01:49:37.680 Uh-oh.

01:49:38.580 Hold on.

01:49:39.240 Hold on, bro.

01:49:40.420 Yo, Rebel, hear me out.

01:49:42.740 Rebel, hear me out.

01:49:43.540 Men are more oppressed.

01:49:44.360 So you said, you said, check it out, Rebel.

01:49:47.860 You said that there's the oppression dynamics when it came to the blacksplaining thing.

01:49:53.940 Like white versus black, oppressor. 0.89

01:49:56.260 Okay.

01:49:56.780 But so in this thing, my position is men are more oppressed than women.

01:50:01.680 So then I'm right to say that mansplaining, you women as the oppressor class, you guys 1.00

01:50:08.760 are sexist by using the term mansplaining.

01:50:11.760 Okay.

01:50:12.260 But you're just saying that.

01:50:13.180 That's not facts.

01:50:13.980 It's not that.

01:50:14.240 It's facts.

01:50:15.360 That's facts.

01:50:16.340 That's facts.

01:50:16.740 That's not facts.

01:50:17.340 That's facts, Rebel.

01:50:18.060 One of the facts, that's facts.

01:50:18.900 In fact, I'm definitely being sexist when I say that. 0.96

01:50:21.260 You are very sexist, by the way. 0.97

01:50:23.000 Good. 0.99

01:50:23.320 And what do you mean exactly by thirsty?

01:50:25.460 Like maybe looking for a reason to complain sometimes.

01:50:28.220 But don't you think that the dominant societal narrative at the moment is that there is a

01:50:32.960 patriarchy and that women get paid less and that women have been historically oppressed

01:50:36.560 and they haven't had the right to vote and all of these sort of things.

01:50:39.360 Don't you think they're kind of thirsty for oppression?

01:50:42.460 No.

01:50:43.320 How are we thirsty for something we have already?

01:50:45.300 But we would argue that men are actually more oppressed in society and we can actually

01:50:50.660 demonstrate that.

01:50:51.700 This doesn't sound very emotionally intelligent.

01:50:53.160 We could go-

01:50:53.880 Very what?

01:50:54.620 Sounds like we're hurting your feelings.

01:50:56.440 We could go disadvantaged.

01:50:57.940 Hold on, hold on.

01:50:58.580 I want to hear your point of view.

01:51:00.000 How exactly are my feelings hurt?

01:51:01.980 Please, let me know.

01:51:03.440 You just called it sexist.

01:51:04.400 Wait, wait, wait.

01:51:04.820 Hold on.

01:51:05.740 Stop.

01:51:06.880 The question was to her.

01:51:08.060 Go ahead.

01:51:09.060 Because then it turned into blacksplaining and we've been talking about mansplaining for 1.00

01:51:12.700 about time.

01:51:12.780 So why don't you get back to your claim that you just made?

01:51:14.420 You said that you feel as though I'm not very emotionally intelligent.

01:51:19.040 I was kidding.

01:51:19.640 Okay.

01:51:20.180 Okay.

01:51:20.660 And back to the-

01:51:21.480 Wait, but what was your answer?

01:51:22.680 You were speaking.

01:51:23.700 You were telling us something.

01:51:24.740 I was, but then I was rudely interrupted by this comment over here.

01:51:28.980 By this woman nagger. 1.00

01:51:30.980 Please.

01:51:31.920 I was woman niggled. 0.97

01:51:34.760 You were woman niggled. 1.00

01:51:35.840 Please explain what you were saying.

01:51:37.940 Anyways, where were we before?

01:51:39.180 I don't know what we were talking about at this point.

01:51:41.000 So we were saying, I was saying that I think that we can actually back up if we wanted

01:51:44.700 to have the conversation that there are actually more factors of oppression for men in society

01:51:49.380 than women. 0.99

01:51:50.380 However, the dominant societal narrative is of female oppression. 0.99

01:51:55.340 So if that's the case, doesn't it seem like women are the ones who are trying to act like 1.00

01:51:59.400 victims?

01:52:00.660 We can't act like something we've been.

01:52:03.160 How have you been a victim?

01:52:04.880 We've been a victim.

01:52:05.680 I'm not a victim.

01:52:06.760 I mean, the things that you just said-

01:52:09.000 So you're not a victim?

01:52:10.020 I'm not a victim of what?

01:52:11.080 Speaking to your microphone.

01:52:11.860 I'm not a victim of what?

01:52:13.480 So you don't think you're a victim?

01:52:14.380 Being a black woman? 0.86

01:52:15.140 No.

01:52:15.780 I think the fact that-

01:52:16.260 So you guys disagree.

01:52:17.260 You think you are a victim.

01:52:18.500 What are we a victim of?

01:52:19.040 I think women in general are more impressive than men. 0.99

01:52:21.960 That's the point.

01:52:22.540 In what sense?

01:52:23.140 I think the fact that we can't go out for a walk-in night.

01:52:26.480 Oh, wait.

01:52:27.600 Hold on.

01:52:27.960 I walk at night time.

01:52:28.920 What woman is going to come and jump on you, Brian? 0.99

01:52:31.280 No, no, men.

01:52:31.940 While you're walking down the street?

01:52:33.580 That's y'all, though.

01:52:34.500 That's y'all.

01:52:35.840 We're not attacking you guys like that on the street.

01:52:37.780 But who do you think gets murdered more, men or women?

01:52:40.740 By who, though?

01:52:41.820 But it doesn't matter, though.

01:52:42.560 We're just talking about the rates of who gets killed more.

01:52:44.360 It's definitely, man.

01:52:44.920 I mean, I would-

01:52:46.180 Never mind.

01:52:46.620 Yeah, men are by far and away the victims of violence.

01:52:49.200 Wait, I have a question for you.

01:52:49.980 So when it comes to-

01:52:52.300 Do you think that if you said something about the incidence of violence or murder

01:52:57.800 when it comes to black people, if I were to just dismiss this claim, because I was like,

01:53:01.720 well, who's doing that?

01:53:03.880 If I just were to try to dismiss your claim, like, do you think that's fair?

01:53:07.000 Or should we, like, actually focus, like, hmm, these are actual victims.

01:53:10.360 Like, let's actually have a conversation about that.

01:53:12.800 Well, just because someone is getting murdered and killed, that doesn't mean that they're

01:53:16.920 more oppressed than a different group.

01:53:18.800 That's what I'm saying.

01:53:19.400 Like, just because men have hardships, they have to go to war and stuff like that, that

01:53:23.580 doesn't make them more oppressed.

01:53:25.380 That's all I was saying.

01:53:26.140 Wait, so being forced to die in a war that you don't want to fight, that's not oppression?

01:53:29.980 I mean, not being able to work.

01:53:32.640 Since when are you guys forced?

01:53:34.500 It's called conscription.

01:53:35.360 Military conscription.

01:53:36.420 Draft.

01:53:36.960 The draft.

01:53:37.500 Well, not women are included.

01:53:39.280 When was the last draft?

01:53:40.100 Oh, it didn't.

01:53:40.660 Yeah, I'll answer it.

01:53:41.640 So it was in Vietnam.

01:53:43.060 Okay, where are we at?

01:53:45.380 Yeah, well, let me ask you a question.

01:53:46.640 Like, what?

01:53:47.100 Hold on.

01:53:47.340 Yeah, that's totally fine.

01:53:48.820 So let me ask you a question.

01:53:50.000 So you're oppressed in America, but the last...

01:53:51.320 Hold on.

01:53:51.680 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, hold on, hold on.

01:53:54.440 I want everybody to be quiet while me and her have this exchange.

01:53:57.960 Okay, so you're saying, you asked when was the last draft, right?

01:54:01.460 Okay, I meant here, not in a different country.

01:54:03.840 No, no, no, but when was the last draft?

01:54:05.440 And I said Vietnam, which was like late 1960s to the 70s, right?

01:54:09.900 And that was, you think that's a long time ago?

01:54:13.960 Doesn't really matter.

01:54:14.820 Were you alive?

01:54:15.340 Hold on, hold on.

01:54:16.100 And your position is, I just want to understand your position, it doesn't matter or it's not

01:54:21.420 a big deal.

01:54:22.820 Well, no, you brought up a draft, but I'm like...

01:54:25.500 When's the last, sure.

01:54:26.560 Yeah.

01:54:26.800 And so I'll make a quick point.

01:54:28.960 I'll make a quick, sure.

01:54:30.100 I'll make a quick point about the Vietnam War and then I'll make my final point.

01:54:33.260 So first off, when it comes to the Vietnam War, granted, yes, it was a long time ago.

01:54:38.440 There are men who would still be alive today had they not been drafted.

01:54:42.720 Are you sure?

01:54:45.140 Yeah, the math checks out.

01:54:46.680 Let me have the exchange.

01:54:47.900 Yes, I'm very sure.

01:54:49.340 You do realize that there are Vietnam veterans who are still alive today?

01:54:52.520 Are you sure?

01:54:53.740 Do you know when Vietnam was?

01:54:55.540 No.

01:54:55.940 Okay, so you're not sure.

01:54:57.200 So anyways, let me have the back and forth with her.

01:55:00.040 So, and then there are men who did go to Vietnam, who did come back, who were drafted, who are

01:55:05.940 maimed, who are homeless because they have mental illness.

01:55:09.580 Many of them are drug addicted because they got addicted to drugs, coping with the either

01:55:13.980 physical pain or mental pain from the Vietnam War.

01:55:17.020 So you have that.

01:55:18.980 Now, you said, well, it was a long time ago, so it doesn't matter.

01:55:23.640 Slavery was a long time ago.

01:55:25.120 I didn't say so.

01:55:25.580 Hold on.

01:55:25.700 It doesn't matter.

01:55:26.140 Hold on.

01:55:26.720 Hold on.

01:55:27.520 Slavery happened even further back than the Vietnam War.

01:55:31.600 Is it your position that because of how far back slavery occurred, that it doesn't matter

01:55:36.940 and doesn't have an impact on current black people?

01:55:39.920 So I didn't say it doesn't matter.

01:55:41.660 Yeah, you kind of did.

01:55:42.420 Systemic racism.

01:55:43.520 I have to win one last draft.

01:55:44.880 It's written in the Constitution.

01:55:47.020 Because you said, because you're bringing up people dying in war because they were drafted

01:55:52.180 because they had to go.

01:55:53.680 We're talking about a war that they were drafted for years ago.

01:55:56.420 Like, what are we talking about?

01:55:57.600 But we were presenting to you one of the metrics by which men face unfavorable outcomes

01:56:03.680 or oppression in life.

01:56:05.360 And you said, your argument was, well, it happened so long ago.

01:56:12.060 So you're trying to dismiss it.

01:56:13.400 Are they currently drafting people?

01:56:14.260 There's currently a selective service for men.

01:56:16.400 Okay.

01:56:16.720 Yes.

01:56:17.060 And we're closer to World War III than at any point in the past since the Cold War.

01:56:23.660 And you're trying to say that that's oppressing men?

01:56:25.800 Yes.

01:56:26.420 Hold on.

01:56:26.780 Wait, let me ask you a question.

01:56:27.860 They're taking women in now. 0.99

01:56:28.980 Wait, hold on.

01:56:29.200 Let me ask you a question.

01:56:29.960 Stop, stop.

01:56:30.860 Let me ask you a question when it comes to the oppression of men.

01:56:32.960 If the government told you, said, hey, we need to have more children and the government forced 0.99

01:56:39.220 you to have children and you didn't want to, do you think that that's evidence of government

01:56:43.900 oppression? 0.98

01:56:44.620 They're going to force us to have sex. 1.00

01:56:46.320 To have children. 0.99

01:56:47.880 They're going to force you to have children. 0.94

01:56:49.200 Whichever way you want to do it, you can do it by sex. 0.87

01:56:50.800 If you want to do it consensually, but you have to get pregnant. 0.99

01:56:53.100 We're overpopulated.

01:56:54.880 That's not a rebuttal to my argument.

01:56:57.600 Let her answer.

01:56:59.500 Would it be oppression?

01:57:01.300 Yes.

01:57:02.000 Oh, so the government forcing men to die is also, huh?

01:57:08.000 Men are oppressing men.

01:57:09.120 That's not a rebuttal.

01:57:10.020 Yeah.

01:57:10.520 That's not a rebuttal.

01:57:11.520 What if it has nothing to do with the fact that they're men and it has more to do with

01:57:14.540 that they're strong, that they just happen to be the men in power.

01:57:17.880 And also if Kamala Harris had won, would you say that then?

01:57:21.020 Yes.

01:57:21.720 I think that if you say-

01:57:23.080 If you take it back-

01:57:24.240 Oh my God, toaster brain. 0.81

01:57:25.600 Oh, okay.

01:57:27.160 Never mind.

01:57:27.820 No, just like, you guys, can you at least advance-

01:57:30.540 You have a point, but that doesn't mean that we have to agree with it, Brian.

01:57:34.120 I'm so sorry.

01:57:35.780 I'm sorry, but if I say two plus two equals four, you do kind of-

01:57:39.100 That's not the same thing.

01:57:40.700 It's really not.

01:57:41.580 Hold on.

01:57:41.740 It's built into-

01:57:42.680 I literally-

01:57:43.320 Who decided that men should be oppressed?

01:57:46.240 Wait, hold on.

01:57:46.760 Who decided?

01:57:47.920 Men, didn't they?

01:57:48.820 When they all gathered together?

01:57:50.180 Or the 51% of women who have the vote.

01:57:53.780 When they all-

01:57:54.640 No.

01:57:55.340 When they all gathered together-

01:57:57.500 When they go into effect though, like-

01:57:59.640 When they all gathered together and wrote the constitution, was there a woman there? 0.97

01:58:03.600 Was there a woman there saying, oh, well, I would love to just go and do more.

01:58:07.600 No, and thank God there was not.

01:58:10.280 Because if there were women there, then it would have been completely different. 1.00

01:58:13.460 Thank God those great men had no women present. 1.00

01:58:16.640 I know plenty of the women who went into the army- 1.00

01:58:19.200 During the writing of the constitution.

01:58:20.560 On their own terms.

01:58:21.800 It was like, oh, I'm going to go into the army and I'm going to fight for my country.

01:58:24.520 But, okay, oh no, the men didn't have the option or the choice in the beginning, but that's because of the men.

01:58:30.960 The men were in power.

01:58:32.300 Women couldn't vote. 1.00

01:58:33.620 Black people couldn't vote. 1.00

01:58:34.600 Stop yelling. 1.00

01:58:34.980 Stop yelling.

01:58:36.000 You're doing this thing where you just keep yelling over everybody and it's really annoying.

01:58:39.320 Make your point concisely.

01:58:40.760 Anyways, so you're saying men do it.

01:58:43.700 Which men?

01:58:45.200 The ones that are dead now.

01:58:46.820 In the government.

01:58:47.460 So you're saying a tiny, tiny little strata of men who are in powerful positions, of which there are also females, by the way.

01:58:54.280 Unfortunately, there are, but there are females in those positions of power. 1.00

01:58:57.380 But now.

01:58:57.960 Oh, okay, but when this-

01:58:59.460 But now, you're talking about now, but you're bringing up something from the past. 0.98

01:59:02.800 You've got to fucking stop. 0.96

01:59:03.960 You guys also, in addition to not interrupting, I'm asking you, just so I can move conversation forward, just defer to me. 0.99

01:59:10.920 If I start talking, you guys just be quiet.

01:59:12.960 So, okay, let me ask you a question.

01:59:15.040 Do you think that because somebody who's, maybe you don't view them as victims, but let's just say, like, if somebody's victimized and the person who caused the victimization shares a gender with them, then therefore they're not victimized.

01:59:30.580 Is that your position?

01:59:31.760 No.

01:59:32.840 Oh, okay.

01:59:33.300 So what does it matter?

01:59:34.100 But you're saying that it wasn't your choice because it was so long ago, right?

01:59:38.640 To write the constitution, but then also complaining that you were drafted.

01:59:43.020 I understand.

01:59:43.660 I understand the complaints now.

01:59:44.980 We don't have anything to do with this.

01:59:46.540 Obviously, we have anything to do with this.

01:59:47.160 Do you want to know why that makes complete sense?

01:59:49.180 Because if men are to make the rules in a patriarchal setting, and if men do have the duty to do the law, then they've also got the duty to do what?

01:59:57.400 Go and die in war. 0.80

01:59:58.680 So that makes complete sense.

01:59:59.720 If you have the responsibility of making the rules, then you have the responsibility to go and fight the wars.

02:00:05.000 However, if there are women diluting the decision-making process that don't have to go and die in war, that actually means you have a higher social status than men in society. 1.00

02:00:13.620 But now, aren't women being drafted into war? 1.00

02:00:16.460 Nope.

02:00:16.500 Nope.

02:00:16.880 No?

02:00:17.460 You don't even know.

02:00:18.080 You don't even know?

02:00:18.820 I don't.

02:00:19.180 That's why I'm asking.

02:00:19.780 Are they being drafted right now today?

02:00:21.180 No, they're not.

02:00:21.760 But I just, I know that I know a lot of women that are in the military. 1.00

02:00:24.880 So, where are you from?

02:00:26.380 Ukraine.

02:00:27.280 Speaking to your microphone.

02:00:28.220 You said you wanted to speak.

02:00:28.980 Now you've got your time.

02:00:30.100 Where are you from?

02:00:30.980 Ukraine.

02:00:31.560 And are the men being drafted in Ukraine?

02:00:34.040 Drafted as men go to war?

02:00:34.960 Are the men being forced to go to war?

02:00:36.480 Yes.

02:00:36.900 Exactly.

02:00:37.300 Are the women being forced to go to war? 1.00

02:00:38.580 Not yet.

02:00:39.500 No, and they're not going to either.

02:00:40.980 In Israel, they do. 0.83

02:00:42.400 All the women here, when we're, hold on, stop. 1.00

02:00:45.200 All the women here, you guys can, you got somebody. 1.00

02:00:48.200 Right here.

02:00:49.040 Here's the different privilege that men have.

02:00:51.940 The men in her country, she's Ukrainian. 1.00

02:00:53.760 You know what she's been doing the past three years? 0.99

02:00:56.280 She's been going on a hundred dates with foreigners, American men. 1.00

02:01:00.580 She's been dating American men while her countrymen are being fucking slaughtered. 0.99

02:01:06.000 You want to talk about male privilege, female privilege? 1.00

02:01:08.820 She's fucking in the club in Miami. 1.00

02:01:11.400 She's in the, oh, you're rolling your fucking eyes. 1.00

02:01:13.460 How is this not a bigger fucking evidence of a differential between the privilege that 1.00

02:01:18.040 women have versus the oppression that men have? 1.00

02:01:20.100 Her countrymen, her men in her country are fucking dying. 1.00

02:01:23.980 She's in the fucking club in Miami, and you're rolling your fucking eyes about dead 1.00

02:01:27.760 Ukrainian men. 1.00

02:01:28.880 That's disgusting. 1.00

02:01:29.400 Oh my God. 0.94

02:01:29.840 Don't make it about that.

02:01:31.040 Okay, so the answer to this that would make it feel good is that both are equally suppressed.

02:01:37.920 Correct?

02:01:38.220 No, they're not, though, because there's no such thing as equal.

02:01:40.940 If they're going and dying, and she's in the club in Miami, she got to do it.

02:01:44.640 But why are we just basing it off of her?

02:01:46.080 Why are we just basing it off of her?

02:01:47.140 There's how many women in the world? 1.00

02:01:48.660 Let me tell you something, man. 1.00

02:01:49.880 It's like if a guy, if a guy was to shoot, if I was to shoot her and shoot myself, and 0.95

02:01:55.280 she's like, you hurt me, and I say, I'm hurt too. 0.71

02:01:58.820 Who's hurt more?

02:02:00.120 The one that got shot or the one that shot themselves?

02:02:02.420 Well, I'll tell you what would happen.

02:02:03.700 You would go to prison for a lot less than a man who shot her.

02:02:07.300 Really?

02:02:07.660 Oh, man.

02:02:08.560 Can we look at that?

02:02:10.500 That's my dad.

02:02:11.940 Oh, my God.

02:02:12.940 Oh, my God.

02:02:13.620 Make a point.

02:02:14.220 I don't think so.

02:02:14.820 Okay.

02:02:15.120 Hold on.

02:02:15.800 Everybody quiet.

02:02:16.000 Because it was self-defense.

02:02:16.900 Hold on.

02:02:17.200 Hold on.

02:02:17.520 Make a point.

02:02:18.100 Go.

02:02:18.640 I'm like, you guys are such a victim.

02:02:19.980 Make a good point.

02:02:20.680 Make a good point.

02:02:21.480 Go.

02:02:21.920 You're such a victim.

02:02:23.160 Okay.

02:02:23.340 So, it's actually, it wasn't, it wasn't, it actually wasn't all that good a point.

02:02:28.100 I'm shocked.

02:02:28.520 Anyway, try and make a point.

02:02:30.540 I'm good.

02:02:31.800 Wait.

02:02:32.180 Can anybody in the chat find me?

02:02:33.640 Because the men, they think logically.

02:02:35.640 So, can somebody in the chat find me?

02:02:37.160 I just saw this yesterday.

02:02:38.340 There's a news story.

02:02:39.540 I believe it was in either New York or Florida.

02:02:42.700 A judge, a female judge, released a woman who stabbed, murdered her boyfriend. 1.00

02:02:50.680 Self-defense.

02:02:51.780 Okay.

02:02:52.400 Why do you assume that?

02:02:53.920 Why do you assume that?

02:02:54.460 I was just kidding.

02:02:55.360 I'm sorry.

02:02:55.700 Go ahead.

02:02:56.200 But, yeah.

02:02:56.880 I mean, you mentioned this.

02:02:58.240 Jake was bringing this thing up.

02:02:59.720 These women, they get less harsh sentences for certain crimes, et cetera. 1.00

02:03:04.700 This woman murdered somebody, and she got, she got released. 1.00

02:03:10.580 Well, men get away with rape cases all the time. 1.00

02:03:13.820 They don't get released if they're convicted, though.

02:03:16.400 Most of the time, they get a little pat on the back, though.

02:03:19.340 The trial is still pending.

02:03:19.840 But if you want to talk about, like, the legality argument, there is absolutely no doubt that women get treated a lot softer than men in the legal system for the same crimes.

02:03:29.180 You can't deny that.

02:03:29.960 But is that a privilege?

02:03:33.100 Yeah.

02:03:33.940 I guess, yeah.

02:03:35.100 Yeah, everybody has privilege, though.

02:03:36.420 Yeah, because somebody, along the way, we decided that men are stronger, and they think-

02:03:42.760 What do you mean we decided?

02:03:43.580 They just are.

02:03:44.280 Men are stronger.

02:03:45.440 They think more logically.

02:03:48.000 So, why would a man who thinks-

02:03:49.420 Whoa, that's really sexist towards women. 1.00

02:03:50.700 No, listen, listen. 0.76

02:03:52.100 For a man that's stronger and a man that thinks more logically, why would he just randomly kill a woman?

02:03:56.960 A woman, she must have just went off her emotions and killed this guy. 1.00

02:04:00.720 No, that's not true, actually.

02:04:01.540 It's not about motive.

02:04:02.800 It's not about intent.

02:04:03.500 That's a good point.

02:04:03.820 But also, let me ask you a question.

02:04:06.120 If men are so much bigger and stronger and more logical, why do we let women vote? 1.00

02:04:12.300 They fall for it.

02:04:13.240 Well, you guys did that first.

02:04:13.760 You know, you had to fight for that one.

02:04:15.600 Can I give an insight?

02:04:16.760 They let women- 0.94

02:04:17.640 Oh, no, go.

02:04:18.100 Were you going to say something?

02:04:20.360 You go for it.

02:04:20.860 Go ahead.

02:04:21.340 So, just, you brought up the legal system and everything.

02:04:25.300 I just want everybody to know that the legal system for divorces are completely changed where usually the man is favored now.

02:04:34.820 And so, the woman will be treated like the man from like 20 years ago or 30 years ago. 0.94

02:04:41.180 What do you mean?

02:04:41.780 How so?

02:04:42.520 Like just custody battles, things like that.

02:04:45.620 So, the men-

02:04:47.000 Spousal support.

02:04:47.480 Men, it's equal or men have advantage? 0.72

02:04:49.340 No, they have advantage today.

02:04:52.080 Are you the breadwinner?

02:04:53.220 Like you got divorced, right?

02:04:54.160 I was not the breadwinner.

02:04:56.220 Are you paying-

02:04:57.120 Wait, you-

02:04:58.660 I can't get into the details of it, but trust me, the guy gets more leeway than the woman. 0.82

02:05:07.880 Wait, is the divorce finalized?

02:05:09.360 Yes.

02:05:09.820 Okay, and you have three kids?

02:05:11.960 Three.

02:05:12.160 And are they like adults or still-

02:05:14.300 One adult, two children.

02:05:15.840 Who has custody?

02:05:17.540 It's 50-50.

02:05:18.540 50-50?

02:05:19.160 Yeah.

02:05:19.540 But I can't get into the details of it.

02:05:20.380 Is he paying you child support?

02:05:21.800 No.

02:05:22.420 Are you paying him child support?

02:05:23.440 No.

02:05:23.600 I mean, this doesn't seem like an unequal outcome here.

02:05:30.140 You have 50-50 custody.

02:05:31.080 How'd you split the assets?

02:05:32.600 Neither of you are paying child support.

02:05:34.460 Is there alimony?

02:05:35.540 No.

02:05:36.560 How'd you split the assets?

02:05:37.420 I mean, so this is equal or I'm just confused? 0.97

02:05:39.520 Some things transpired where like, I can't get into the details, damn it. 0.91

02:05:45.520 But- 0.91

02:05:46.580 Who kept the house?

02:05:48.360 Well, I moved out and I bought my own house.

02:05:53.100 So, I'm just saying like, in the scope of like, the woman being judged for, you know, what

02:06:05.140 they do, you know, they're also like judged on, you know how like they say like the mother

02:06:14.060 is the mother, you know, the child will always see the mother, you know, this is not true

02:06:19.000 in court.

02:06:19.480 But, like there have been times when-

02:06:22.280 Oh, wait, so you're upset that the preferential treatment that women used to get, now it's 0.97

02:06:28.840 like they're looking at men and women equally?

02:06:31.760 What's wrong with that?

02:06:32.560 No, they're not looking equally.

02:06:34.140 Oh, so now men have- 0.93

02:06:35.140 They're favoring men now. 0.91

02:06:36.100 But it sounds, but you got, there's no child support, no alimony, 50-50 custody.

02:06:41.340 I could understand your argument if your ex-husband got like a higher proportion of custody.

02:06:49.480 But it's, unless you present to me evidence-

02:06:52.280 Well, at one point he did.

02:06:54.040 And so, that was stunning to me because I was a stay-at-home mom.

02:06:58.740 Okay.

02:06:59.200 You know, but I can't get into the details of that.

02:07:01.460 I just can't.

02:07:02.340 But trust me, the man gets more in a legal system these days when it comes to family law.

02:07:10.700 I would love to get into that, but I do need to move things on a little bit.

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02:08:22.780 We have this.

02:08:25.120 Oh, yeah.

02:08:26.700 The State of Things.

02:08:27.720 Yo, thank you so much, man.

02:08:28.520 W's in the chat for him.

02:08:29.560 Question, is submission unconditional or a conversation?

02:08:33.720 So we can go around the table on this really quick if you guys can give quick answers.

02:08:37.640 Is submission unconditional or do you have to have a conversation, I guess, before you

02:08:42.400 have submit on a specific thing?

02:08:46.960 Conditional. 1.00

02:08:47.660 If you're submissive without having conditions, you're just naive and stupid. 1.00

02:08:52.980 But yeah, you said quick answers, right? 1.00

02:08:56.700 Yeah.

02:08:57.120 Okay, sure.

02:08:58.480 Oh, conditional.

02:08:59.620 Yeah.

02:09:00.120 Wait, submission is unconditional?

02:09:02.480 Oh, no, no.

02:09:03.140 It's, no, it depends on the situation.

02:09:05.940 On the situation.

02:09:06.600 So you, if I understand it correctly for the both of you, in each situation you might question

02:09:13.020 the request or demand by your partner and depending on how you feel about it, you'll

02:09:21.120 choose to go along with it, submit, or not go along with it.

02:09:25.160 Is that a fair representation of your position?

02:09:28.740 Yeah, that's fair.

02:09:29.480 Okay.

02:09:29.860 What about you?

02:09:30.600 I don't understand the question, sorry.

02:09:32.720 So submission, do you know what it means to be submissive?

02:09:35.340 Yes.

02:09:35.880 So is submissive something that you would be without any questions or do you need to have

02:09:41.340 questions in the different situations?

02:09:43.880 Of course, if it's different situations, I need the questions.

02:09:46.700 Okay.

02:09:47.220 Carry on.

02:09:47.500 Okay.

02:09:48.440 Conversational.

02:09:49.220 Has to be a conversation.

02:09:50.960 Okay.

02:09:51.660 Conversation.

02:09:52.420 Conversation.

02:09:52.880 What about you?

02:09:53.480 If I'm in a relationship with them, then.

02:09:55.960 Not if you're in a conversation.

02:09:56.940 It's what?

02:09:57.300 Not if you're in a relationship.

02:09:58.320 No, no, we're talking about interrelationship.

02:10:00.720 Yeah, it's an interrelationship.

02:10:01.400 Oh, interrelationship.

02:10:02.640 Oh.

02:10:02.920 Yeah, if I trust them, I am submissive.

02:10:04.580 Yes.

02:10:04.800 Okay.

02:10:05.720 Into the mic, into the mic.

02:10:06.660 I would say it is a conversation to have because if you're just submitting to everything

02:10:12.600 they say because you deem yourself a submissive woman, that man who may not be a leader 1.00

02:10:19.320 could lead you to fucking hell. 1.00

02:10:21.900 Take advantage of you. 1.00

02:10:23.120 You're going to have to trust them, like she said, have that conversation, have the questions

02:10:29.180 because that is important to know that you're being led in the right path.

02:10:33.520 Okay.

02:10:33.980 Sure.

02:10:35.360 What about you?

02:10:36.680 Unconditional love.

02:10:40.220 Unconditional, sorry, what?

02:10:41.540 Unconditional love.

02:10:43.220 Submissive.

02:10:44.060 Love.

02:10:44.580 Submissive.

02:10:45.240 Un...

02:10:45.560 Okay.

02:10:46.180 Okay.

02:10:46.260 I have a clip for you guys to react to that's related to this.

02:10:50.100 Damien, can you get that pulled up?

02:10:51.880 So you guys say you want leaders and dominant men and you're going to be submissive.

02:10:58.120 I'll watch this clip.

02:11:01.000 I got away with everything under the last boss and it wasn't good for me at all.

02:11:07.000 So I want guidance.

02:11:08.320 I want leadership.

02:11:10.300 But don't just like boss me around, you know?

02:11:13.180 Like lead me, lead me when I'm in the mood to be led.

02:11:21.320 I love the office.

02:11:22.620 The office is so good.

02:11:23.660 Right.

02:11:25.720 That's y'all.

02:11:27.240 Lead me when I'm in the mood to be led and I'm going to question every single thing that

02:11:33.160 you do.

02:11:33.180 No one ever said questions.

02:11:34.420 But I want you to be a leader.

02:11:35.740 I want you to have a, like, I want you to be a leader, but I'm giving you no authority.

02:11:41.160 I didn't say that at all.

02:11:42.040 You have authority.

02:11:43.240 No, you have authority.

02:11:44.640 It's just like.

02:11:45.280 You were the only one who said unconditional.

02:11:47.660 But yeah.

02:11:48.400 Well, so what that means though is that, and this is the conversation that it comes back

02:11:51.200 to with black and white submission.

02:11:52.860 We've had this conversation with her before.

02:11:54.720 She said that it's a spectrum.

02:11:55.900 This is why it's actually not a spectrum.

02:11:57.360 Because if we're in a relationship and there's one situation where you're like, actually,

02:12:00.900 you know what?

02:12:01.360 In this situation, I'm not going to be submissive.

02:12:03.640 That just means that you're the boss.

02:12:04.700 And what that means is that you get to decide when you're submissive and when you're not.

02:12:08.360 So ultimately, that means that you're deciding in every situation.

02:12:11.860 At any moment, you can say, not today, buddy.

02:12:14.120 So actually, you're the boss.

02:12:15.580 So that's why it's in black and white.

02:12:16.280 If y'all talked about it, then there should not be any other question on towards it.

02:12:21.720 Like, okay.

02:12:22.020 Why do I need to talk about it with you if you're submissive to me?

02:12:24.800 Here's my example.

02:12:25.880 A lot of people here have been hurt.

02:12:27.660 I can bet you that.

02:12:28.920 Have been misled and put in a horrible situation.

02:12:33.140 Me, myself, I could speak for myself.

02:12:35.540 I've been submissive to a man that was only putting me in bad situations.

02:12:42.320 So now, I'm going to ask you, like, what is your intention with this?

02:12:46.980 Before, I'm like, okay, yeah, I'm just going to do it.

02:12:49.280 If it's something simple like, take your shoes off, sure, you got that.

02:12:53.960 I'm going to take my shoes off.

02:12:54.820 You want to see my feet?

02:12:55.620 You got that.

02:12:56.620 You want to know something?

02:12:58.020 You know when it's the most important to be submissive?

02:13:00.620 When it's something big.

02:13:02.060 Of course, when it's something big.

02:13:03.120 Like, okay, we're about to go and, I don't know, rob this bank down here.

02:13:08.740 And I need you to go to the left wing.

02:13:11.040 I'm not going to ask, why do you need me to go to the left wing?

02:13:13.700 I'm going to go to the left wing and I'm going to take care of what I need to take care of.

02:13:16.520 I mean, my.

02:13:17.120 But.

02:13:17.700 Okay.

02:13:19.080 But if they're like, oh, I need you to, hmm, I don't want to take it there, but I'm going to.

02:13:25.800 I need you to sell your body so that we can buy a house. 0.98

02:13:29.860 Be for real. 0.57

02:13:30.760 I'm supposed to follow you.

02:13:31.900 I'm supposed to say with no question.

02:13:34.740 Yes, I'm going to go sell my body so that we can get a house together, daddy.

02:13:39.040 I'm so submissive to you.

02:13:41.640 So.

02:13:42.960 Be for real.

02:13:43.720 When we're talking about this, I don't think, like, you mentioned robbing a bank, criminality.

02:13:48.540 That would be, that would not be, like, your man is not living in a virtuous manner.

02:13:53.840 But which man?

02:13:55.260 But which man?

02:13:55.820 Because there's so many different types of men.

02:13:57.440 Even though you guys like to collectively gang up together, that doesn't mean that there's different types of men or not.

02:14:02.280 Basically, is that you're taking it to some extremes.

02:14:05.120 And obviously, within the context of the situation, within the context of the conversation, we're not talking about asking you to do absolutely heinous things like that.

02:14:13.240 We're talking about within the boundaries of a normal relationship.

02:14:16.980 Yeah. 1.00

02:14:17.200 So nobody's going to ask their wife to go and sell their ass on the street. 1.00

02:14:20.500 And nobody's going to ask their wife to rob a bank. 0.99

02:14:22.820 Although, if you did do it, that's pretty based.

02:14:24.340 If you did, to hide the body, to rob the bank, that's based.

02:14:27.700 But nobody's going to really ask them to do that.

02:14:29.700 Yeah.

02:14:29.860 And one thing on that.

02:14:31.300 So I've just met multiple people like that.

02:14:33.660 Hold on.

02:14:34.300 So, like, if you were to ask men who want a kind of more traditional dynamic and they want their woman to be submissive to them and they want to lead, I can't imagine you could find any man who would be okay with the following scenario.

02:14:50.560 So, I mean, taking your examples to even more extreme, what if your man tells you to go jump off a bridge and delete yourself?

02:15:01.620 I'm supposed to be submissive to him.

02:15:03.220 No.

02:15:03.660 So, any man who's in favor of a submissive dynamic is going to say, no, that is beyond the scope of what we're talking about here when women should be submissive.

02:15:15.080 So maybe that's the confusion between today's man and a different man.

02:15:19.160 No, because today's man will put you in the worst scenario and then expect you to be submissive.

02:15:25.360 What kind of guys are you dating?

02:15:26.560 Okay, but there's different type of people in the world.

02:15:28.540 So, just to be clear, you've dated multiple men that have tried to prostitute you.

02:15:32.900 I would have no issue with you not being submissive to them then.

02:15:36.820 I would, okay. 1.00

02:15:38.540 In fact, you should break up with a guy who's trying to get you to become a prostitute. 0.99

02:15:42.180 That's not a man of virtue. 0.91

02:15:43.820 But how are you to determine that in the first 10 minutes? 0.99

02:15:46.880 Because you said that we determined that in the first 10 minutes that we're going to fuck with this guy or not. 0.98

02:15:51.200 And then also, if you just walked into the house and someone says, take your shoes off, just walked into the house. 0.99

02:15:56.360 And they say, take your shoes off.

02:15:57.580 And you don't ask why. 1.00

02:15:59.740 Isn't that the same thing as if you were with a man that had horrible fucking thought processes and thought like, oh, yeah. 1.00

02:16:08.180 Like, the only way for us to get money is if my girl goes out and fucking tricks niggas, right? 1.00

02:16:13.260 So, you have to be. 0.99

02:16:14.680 You just like speaking, don't you?

02:16:17.480 No, but I'm making a point and you're trying to dismiss it.

02:16:20.520 That's actually, yeah.

02:16:21.440 I'm with you.

02:16:22.400 Yeah, I mean, look.

02:16:24.820 You have to be cautious in this day and age.

02:16:26.740 That's all I'm saying.

02:16:27.900 I think the conditions aren't based on what they're asking.

02:16:30.480 It's based on how dominant are you.

02:16:32.400 How dominant?

02:16:33.480 Like, if I have to pay my own things, if I'm taking you out, I'm not going to be submissive.

02:16:39.460 But if you're paying my bills and you're doing what you're supposed to do as a man, you're going to get blind submission.

02:16:45.180 How dominant are you?

02:16:46.400 It depends on how submissive you are.

02:16:47.620 Are you going to take me out and make me dance?

02:16:49.820 Or do I have to ask you to take me on a date?

02:16:52.620 That depends.

02:16:53.480 That's what it's really based on.

02:16:54.800 You decide.

02:16:56.280 Right.

02:16:56.880 Exactly.

02:16:57.440 So, you're the boss.

02:16:58.880 No.

02:16:59.140 Because if he's not dominant enough, then you'll decide whether you're submissive or not.

02:17:02.360 Don't women have more options? 1.00

02:17:04.620 What do you mean?

02:17:05.560 Don't women have more options than men? 1.00

02:17:07.080 In terms of sex, yes.

02:17:07.960 But dating, no.

02:17:09.500 That's not true.

02:17:10.620 So, when you're dominant, because dominant means 24-7 dominance.

02:17:14.820 Like, complete dominance, the way submission is, is black and white, right?

02:17:17.700 Yeah.

02:17:17.940 So, you're dominant.

02:17:18.800 It's like 100%.

02:17:19.700 Go to what I say.

02:17:21.640 I'm going to take care of you.

02:17:22.760 Do what I say.

02:17:24.020 You know what I'm saying?

02:17:24.800 And if submission is black and white, like either, yes, master.

02:17:27.840 No, there's no scale in it.

02:17:29.340 That's what you're saying.

02:17:29.980 If your boyfriend or husband is asking something that contravenes your moral or ethical code,

02:17:37.640 in this case, prostitution or self-harm, then, like, one, that should be the end of the relationship.

02:17:43.340 And two, no, you shouldn't do it.

02:17:45.280 But when we're talking about submission, typically, we're talking about, like, decisions that would

02:17:50.600 be within, like, a sort of socially acceptable and common purview.

02:17:56.920 But there are girls that would do this. 1.00

02:17:58.440 Decisions about the children.

02:18:00.080 Decisions about the household.

02:18:01.620 And we can't really have the conversation as well.

02:18:06.300 If every time we want to have a generalized conversation, he gets taken all the way, way to the extreme.

02:18:11.300 It's, like, impossible to have the conversation.

02:18:13.880 Is it because there's nothing generalized about it?

02:18:16.940 There's so many different type of people.

02:18:18.640 I guess, yeah, that happens all the time then.

02:18:20.960 Yeah, nobody's asking anybody to jump off a bridge.

02:18:23.180 I'm not going to say no based off what you're asking me, but I might question you based off

02:18:27.980 what you're doing for me and how is your life.

02:18:31.280 Not even for people.

02:18:32.120 It also comes down.

02:18:33.040 In general, for us, are you doing anything beneficial?

02:18:35.400 Are you a good person?

02:18:37.200 Are you successful in your own life?

02:18:38.880 The right person that you pick is right.

02:18:40.400 Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

02:18:41.080 It's about picking the right partner to be submissive.

02:18:42.560 When it comes to submission, though, if you say, oh, well, he made me do this, then 0.79

02:18:46.200 kind of the buck stops with you because you chose a guy who would choose to prostitute 0.99

02:18:50.320 you. 0.60

02:18:50.540 But if you said that you wouldn't, then you're not submissive.

02:18:52.240 I was having a conversation with her.

02:18:53.820 If you have such a poor judge of character that you, like, were to choose someone like

02:18:57.360 that, then it kind of falls on you, right?

02:18:59.420 Right.

02:18:59.840 I don't think you have to choose to be submissive, but choose who you're going to be submissive

02:19:03.800 to.

02:19:04.260 That's why I agree.

02:19:05.260 That's what it is.

02:19:05.900 It's like, I'm not going to be submissive today. 1.00

02:19:07.540 No, I'm not going to be submissive to you because you're not shit. 0.99

02:19:11.500 Yeah, that's why you need the conversation. 0.99

02:19:12.960 It depends on who it is.

02:19:15.080 Right.

02:19:15.460 You got to pick the right, everybody got to pick the right partner for sure.

02:19:18.080 All right.

02:19:18.340 I do have to move things on, though, a little bit here.

02:19:20.540 We have another chat.

02:19:21.400 We have a chat here from Lucas.

02:19:24.960 You know what, Rebel?

02:19:26.420 You get to read these.

02:19:28.060 Okay.

02:19:28.580 Lucas, thank you, man.

02:19:29.220 It says, for the love of God, can we once for all expunge the woman-y's talking point 1.00

02:19:35.820 for today's societal discourse?

02:19:38.040 Stop imputing your emotional hardwiring.

02:19:41.140 They're just saying stuff.

02:19:42.520 Men are wired to be stoic.

02:19:44.180 There's another one coming in.

02:19:45.380 Okay.

02:19:46.660 Men process and express emotions very differently.

02:19:49.460 For this matter, in our societal duty to suppress emotions and stoic...

02:19:54.460 All right.

02:19:55.600 See, I need glasses.

02:19:56.840 You want a man that's in touch with their emotions.

02:19:59.360 He's just saying men are meant to be stoic and emotionally.

02:20:02.700 You want a man that's in touch with your emotions, he's in jail.

02:20:09.100 That's what he said.

02:20:09.620 That was the last sentence.

02:20:10.720 That's what he said.

02:20:11.720 That's crazy.

02:20:12.280 That's a really good point.

02:20:12.900 Really good point.

02:20:13.660 Because that's what men who are controlled by their emotions, they're generally going

02:20:17.340 to be much more disposed to things like being in jail.

02:20:21.240 Because if you're a guy who's controlled by emotions and you react and you just react

02:20:25.080 with anger or whatever else, you're going to be much, much more likely to be in prison.

02:20:28.480 That's self-control.

02:20:29.440 That does not...

02:20:30.420 You can be in touch with your emotions and have self-control at the same time.

02:20:33.460 Say that again?

02:20:34.180 You can be in touch with your emotions and have self-control at the same time.

02:20:38.120 Yeah, but we're saying somebody who has a lack of emotional control.

02:20:40.840 I thought it was saying...

02:20:41.740 Who wanted to do that? 0.98

02:20:42.660 I thought it was saying men who are more emotional are in jail.

02:20:45.860 That's what I thought it was saying.

02:20:46.960 Yeah, exactly.

02:20:47.340 Would you say that men who, for example, commit crimes are more or less likely to be able

02:20:51.540 to control their emotions?

02:20:52.900 Less.

02:20:55.080 Less?

02:20:55.760 But they might also just be not smart.

02:20:58.280 It depends.

02:20:59.340 That's such a nuance.

02:21:01.160 All right.

02:21:01.640 I have another one for you to read it.

02:21:03.160 Okay, weird.

02:21:04.840 Behold the...

02:21:05.840 What word is that?

02:21:06.840 Amalgam. 0.91

02:21:07.580 Amalgam of woke and insane female solipsism. 1.00

02:21:12.160 Solipsism.

02:21:13.840 And we wonder why marriage slash birth rates have collapsed.

02:21:17.560 More red flags up in this piece than a CPP for a...

02:21:22.320 By the way, father-in-law was drafted.

02:21:24.420 Your father-in-law was drafted.

02:21:24.940 Still alive.

02:21:25.960 Still alive.

02:21:26.360 Still alive.

02:21:26.860 Lucas.

02:21:27.140 Oh, okay.

02:21:27.760 Lucas' father-in-law was, I assume, drafted for Vietnam.

02:21:30.720 He's still alive.

02:21:31.740 Maybe.

02:21:32.060 I mean, it could have been Korea.

02:21:33.300 I mean, I think there's still a couple of World War II vets, like a few, maybe.

02:21:40.640 They're old.

02:21:41.240 In Israel, it's mandatory men and women to serve.

02:21:44.680 Yeah, but if you look at the death rate in Israel, it's much, much, like, it far outweighs 0.99

02:21:49.920 in the men's side.

02:21:50.940 Who decided?

02:21:51.400 So women generally tend to do, like, support roles. 1.00

02:21:54.100 Actually, women in Israel Air Force, they fly airplanes. 1.00

02:21:57.500 Look at the death rate.

02:21:59.140 I served in the IDF.

02:22:00.560 Yeah, I know.

02:22:01.300 Two and a half years.

02:22:02.000 But stats talk as well, right?

02:22:03.520 So if you look at the number of women that are in the... 1.00

02:22:05.920 I think it's something like 35% of the IDF are women.

02:22:08.500 And then if you look at the death rate, it's, like, 1% or something of women.

02:22:12.900 Yeah, because it depends on your position, not many women. 1.00

02:22:16.700 So women do support roles. 1.00

02:22:17.760 Yeah, but women still do men's position in the Israeli IDF. 1.00

02:22:22.100 Yeah, like, occasionally they do, but the numbers in terms of deaths don't reflect that

02:22:26.240 women are, like, overrepresented or even equally represented. 0.82

02:22:29.640 Normally, the women who go to the IDF will do support roles. 0.99

02:22:32.620 It's equal in Israel.

02:22:33.880 The same amount of men that serve three years, the same amount women serve two and a half 0.98

02:22:39.420 years.

02:22:39.820 It's a mandatory thing.

02:22:40.780 But do you know what a support role is there, right?

02:22:42.100 Yeah, I know.

02:22:42.600 Yeah, so you've got a support role, and then, for those who don't know, you've got people

02:22:46.380 who are in combat roles.

02:22:48.280 There is many women in combat. 1.00

02:22:49.480 There's far less women in combat roles. 1.00

02:22:51.000 Many women in combat.

02:22:51.840 Do you have the stats, Damien?

02:22:52.760 No.

02:22:55.000 Just chat to you, but you can see these stats.

02:22:59.460 Libertariat donated $200.

02:23:02.240 The reason men who are ruled by their emotions are in jail and women are not is because women 0.99

02:23:06.980 that lash out and hit men are considered crazy.

02:23:09.860 Men that lash out and hit women get arrested.

02:23:13.820 That's a good point, man.

02:23:14.980 There's definitely differentials when it comes to, like, DV2.

02:23:17.660 In fact, like, a woman could be the aggressor, and then the cops come, and they've got to

02:23:22.480 arrest somebody, and oftentimes, because of the bias in policing, I think it's called

02:23:26.800 the Duluth model.

02:23:28.220 Have you heard about that?

02:23:28.960 The Duluth model?

02:23:29.900 I think that's what it's called.

02:23:31.800 Might have my wires crossed.

02:23:33.620 They've got to arrest somebody, and overwhelmingly, it's going to be the man, even if he's not

02:23:38.460 the aggressor.

02:23:39.340 Because he's still mad.

02:23:41.340 Wait, what?

02:23:42.360 Because he's still mad.

02:23:43.600 He's mad.

02:23:44.220 Wait, still mad or still a man?

02:23:45.960 Still mad.

02:23:46.700 Well, men earned that law. 0.99

02:23:49.040 Earned?

02:23:49.420 I mean, it seems like there's a reason for it.

02:23:52.340 So just to be clear, your position on this is that the man is not the aggressor in a

02:23:57.240 domestic violence situation.

02:23:58.280 Maybe it's because he's not.

02:23:59.120 Men are mostly the aggressor, so it's assumed.

02:24:01.680 No.

02:24:01.940 Not even.

02:24:02.640 No, because I definitely have men. 0.98

02:24:03.640 Let them have the conversation.

02:24:05.580 Didn't I start?

02:24:06.620 Didn't I start it?

02:24:07.480 Oh, they were talking.

02:24:08.300 Yeah, but now it's, you've got to let people talk.

02:24:10.780 So, I mean, actually, if you look at, for example, one-directional violence, so it's

02:24:15.620 like, it's not, so there's a mutual domestic violence situations where they're both kind

02:24:20.500 of like beating up on each other.

02:24:21.620 But if you look at one-directional, it's like overwhelmingly, I think it's 70% of women 1.00

02:24:26.200 are one-directionally physically abusive towards their partners.

02:24:28.800 So, in those sorts of situations, if the cops get called, there's like a pretty, there's

02:24:35.020 like a high chance that he could still end up going to jail, even if he didn't put a

02:24:38.420 hand on her.

02:24:39.620 But I'm a little confused.

02:24:40.760 You said, well, men earned that.

02:24:42.560 So, like, how about, like, just a random guy who's never done anything wrong, never laid

02:24:47.400 a hand on a woman, and his girlfriend's, like, smacking him around, like, actually hurting

02:24:53.320 him, you think he earned going to jail when he's the victim?

02:24:58.160 No, I would expect police to do their job.

02:25:00.560 Unfortunately, a lot of the times, that's not the case.

02:25:03.060 But in that sense, it's not like they shouldn't, they should have investigated that.

02:25:08.780 They should have talked to each person and figured out, you know.

02:25:13.320 Yeah, but what if it's like just a he said, she said, and then there's like a policy in

02:25:16.540 the police department that says, well, whoever's like the larger individual, or in some cases,

02:25:20.840 this is the man, they're going to get arrested.

02:25:23.040 But there's always the person, there's always the person that you could tell is more angry

02:25:27.200 when you get there.

02:25:28.200 Arrest them.

02:25:29.580 Well, there's court, there's searing, I don't know, go through it and see who these people

02:25:33.540 are.

02:25:34.460 Libertariat, thank you for the TTS, though.

02:25:36.180 I do appreciate it.

02:25:36.940 Lucas, thank you for those couple messages there.

02:25:39.460 Do appreciate it.

02:25:40.060 We have actually here saying, go ahead, Revel, if you can read this one.

02:25:44.780 Okay.

02:25:45.500 If the woman was discovered to have a postpartum depression, she could get off of less prison 0.99

02:25:50.120 time, or possibly entirely, there is no postpartum for males, just insanity, please.

02:25:57.540 And then there was that whole like, battered wife syndrome, which was used as a defense. 0.99

02:26:05.360 Like women used it as a defense to get off of, like when they murdered or something, like 1.00

02:26:10.760 murdered their husbands.

02:26:12.860 This is a big problem in Australia.

02:26:14.880 The numbers actually don't bear out that there's a big domestic violence problem in Australia.

02:26:18.700 But there's this massive media campaign done by like feminists that will basically act 1.00

02:26:24.380 like men are so terrible. 0.87

02:26:25.360 And you can watch the ads.

02:26:26.460 It's absolutely shocking the way that they depict men.

02:26:30.480 And there's all these laws now that have come in because of the pressure where women can 1.00

02:26:35.680 basically just go into a police station and just have the man not be able to see their

02:26:40.340 kids and have the man just have this restraining order. 1.00

02:26:42.920 So it's a big problem.

02:26:43.980 I heard something similar in Spain, which is super feminist, where like, there's actually 1.00

02:26:50.420 financial incentive to make a report of like either domestic violence or like some sort

02:26:56.380 of SA type of situation.

02:26:58.480 And the women will just automatically, they actually get like some financial assistance. 1.00

02:27:04.180 And look, I mean, on one hand, like if one, these are terrible crimes.

02:27:10.640 And I think these in that situation, there should be some sort of assistance to victims

02:27:15.860 of crimes.

02:27:16.800 But what they found is it's actually been incentivizing women to report domestic violence or other kinds

02:27:23.100 of crimes that just never occurred whatsoever because of the amount of assistance that they're

02:27:29.260 able to receive in Spain.

02:27:30.360 I mean, so I don't know if there's any Spanish viewers or anything that can like weigh in

02:27:34.980 on that, but a lot of crazy feminism in Spain. 1.00

02:27:39.000 I do have to get to the next super chat that we have the state of things and y'all academic 0.99

02:27:44.340 women made up mansplaining sucks to suck, says the state of things. 1.00

02:27:50.680 Academic women. 1.00

02:27:52.360 Any PhDs in here?

02:27:53.660 What's up?

02:27:55.760 Did you have something? 0.84

02:27:56.800 Who came up with the idea that women were crazy? 1.00

02:27:58.720 Women or men? 0.99

02:28:01.280 Did you put yourself in that space?

02:28:03.380 Did you?

02:28:03.700 I don't even know what you're asking right now.

02:28:05.300 Oh, if I wanted to backtrack just a tad bit just right before this next super chat, I was

02:28:12.100 talking where we were all talking about how, oh, men get off easier, right?

02:28:16.440 Because a man thinks logically.

02:28:18.660 No, we were talking about how women get off easier. 1.00

02:28:21.240 Right.

02:28:21.420 Women get off easier because a man thinks logically. 1.00

02:28:24.080 So he would obviously not like mix his hormones into doing something stupid to a woman, like 1.00

02:28:30.600 beating her up. 1.00

02:28:31.800 Yeah.

02:28:31.840 What's your point?

02:28:32.740 My point is who said that a woman was crazy?

02:28:35.600 A woman or a man? 0.92

02:28:36.580 Did I make that claim tonight?

02:28:37.780 I didn't say that you made that claim, but...

02:28:39.340 Who makes that claim?

02:28:40.500 I'm not interested in defending the claim I didn't make.

02:28:43.180 It was one of the chats.

02:28:44.840 They said women were deemed crazy if they hit a man and men if they hit the woman is

02:28:51.460 illegal.

02:28:51.960 Go straight to jail.

02:28:53.060 Oh, yeah.

02:28:53.280 They're saying that women get like let off. 1.00

02:28:55.700 Oh, the woman. 1.00

02:28:56.320 She's just like a little crazy. 1.00

02:28:57.160 But who said that the woman was crazy? 1.00

02:28:58.900 The super chatter.

02:29:00.220 But who...

02:29:00.540 What's your point?

02:29:01.300 But who in the big spectrum of things, who said that the woman was crazy? 0.66

02:29:05.480 The individual super chatter.

02:29:06.740 It could be a woman. 0.99

02:29:07.440 How do you know it's not a woman?

02:29:08.560 I'm not saying about the one super... 0.99

02:29:10.940 There's a whole thing about how women are crazy and they only act on emotion. 1.00

02:29:15.000 Who came up with that? 0.66

02:29:16.540 I mean, you're trying to forward a premise that I don't even agree with and I'm not interested.

02:29:21.120 Okay, we can move on.

02:29:22.240 It's fine.

02:29:23.180 It's fine.

02:29:23.520 Do you think that? 0.98

02:29:24.280 Do you think all women are crazy? 1.00

02:29:25.300 I don't think that. 0.95

02:29:26.060 No, I don't think that.

02:29:27.000 I mean, actually...

02:29:29.540 No, I don't think that.

02:29:31.880 I mean, but like, why are you forwarding a position that wasn't stated by any of the panelists or...

02:29:38.280 I apologize.

02:29:39.700 I apologize.

02:29:40.500 You got that. 0.51

02:29:41.140 But that's definitely something I've heard before is that all women are crazy or women are too hormonal and they act solely off their emotions, which might be true. 1.00

02:29:49.760 I mean, I'm just curious.

02:29:50.720 We can explore it, though.

02:29:51.560 You've dated women, right? 0.74

02:29:52.880 Yeah.

02:29:53.140 Yeah, I mean, so... 0.74

02:29:55.140 And it could be the case that you've dated some crazy, like, crazy men, whatever. 0.95

02:29:57.960 I wouldn't call them crazy. 1.00

02:29:59.120 I actually have fucked with more crazier men than I have crazier women. 1.00

02:30:03.160 Sure. 0.99

02:30:03.960 But like, in your own experience, have you noticed any differences between men and women when it comes to their behavior?

02:30:08.880 When it comes to a woman, when I was dating a woman, she wouldn't call me crazy. 0.53

02:30:15.480 She wouldn't go out her way to make me feel like I wasn't making a logical, I don't know, explanation.

02:30:25.240 But when a man was talking to me, he was like, oh, you're just talking about your emotions.

02:30:29.360 You're just trying to make it seem like, oh, this is okay because you're on your period.

02:30:34.160 Or, oh, you have so many hormones, like, obviously you would talk to me crazy, did it not, because it's just not logical.

02:30:42.040 Gaslighting. 0.97

02:30:42.600 Yeah, it's just like, that's, obviously a woman didn't make up that a woman was crazy because of their hormones. 1.00

02:30:51.800 But you're saying that that's like, oh, well, not you, not you, because you didn't say that.

02:30:56.920 But they're just trying to make that seem like that's, like, normal. 1.00

02:31:00.540 And I know for a fact that a woman didn't say, oh, well, bitches are crazy because they have more hormones than you. 1.00

02:31:07.560 So you're saying men say that? 1.00

02:31:09.260 Yes.

02:31:10.000 Okay.

02:31:10.260 So now, if I track that forward and I say, okay, well, women get let off easier because they have so many hormones and they act off their emotions. 1.00

02:31:21.760 And that's why we're giving them a break on the legal side.

02:31:24.780 But in reality, a woman didn't say that. 0.94

02:31:26.680 A man said that.

02:31:27.580 And that's why they're getting let off easier than a man when it comes to it.

02:31:32.040 Because a man only thinks logically.

02:31:33.740 A man only thinks logically. 1.00

02:31:34.960 And he doesn't do anything off of emotion.

02:31:37.960 Do you hear me or no?

02:31:39.100 Yeah, can you make an actual argument, though?

02:31:41.960 Because I've.

02:31:42.440 That was an argument.

02:31:43.660 And.

02:31:44.000 You're just repeating what the super chat said.

02:31:46.940 No, I'm not.

02:31:47.820 If you read the super chat, that's not what he said.

02:31:53.040 So here, in like three sentences, what is your position? 1.00

02:31:57.100 She's just saying that bitches are crazy. 1.00

02:31:59.080 My position is that a man came up with the fact that a woman is crazy. 1.00

02:32:03.000 And? 0.95

02:32:03.220 And now they're mad that they get put in jail more recently than a woman.

02:32:08.740 Oh.

02:32:09.440 Because a man, only thing a man can do is plead insanity.

02:32:12.640 Correct?

02:32:14.500 Yes or no?

02:32:16.080 He can say, oh, I went insane.

02:32:17.600 But a woman, she has her hormones. 1.00

02:32:19.160 You're saying women, we get let off because we're emotional.

02:32:22.440 Exactly.

02:32:22.920 But who said that we weren't emotional?

02:32:24.460 Okay, that's the point.

02:32:25.480 Okay.

02:32:26.160 That's.

02:32:26.640 That's just not the case, though.

02:32:27.960 Women don't get let off because they're emotional. 1.00

02:32:29.900 They get let off because they're women. 1.00

02:32:31.260 I think we get let off because we hit.

02:32:33.320 Because men hit harder. 0.82

02:32:34.720 If a man hit a woman, he might kill her. 0.93

02:32:36.800 But the thing is, if you guys both put a gun to a man's head, smoked him, if you did 0.95

02:32:41.400 that, you'd get a lesser sentence. 0.74

02:32:43.300 And you know why?

02:32:43.820 It's not because, oh, she might have been a bit emotional.

02:32:45.880 It's because she is a woman.

02:32:47.480 I need to see the statistic on this.

02:32:48.440 Who came up with that?

02:32:50.100 What?

02:32:51.240 Who came up with what?

02:32:52.600 That the woman was more emotional and that's why she did it. 1.00

02:32:55.000 Here, we have a chat.

02:32:55.820 Logically, we have a chat.

02:32:56.700 Rachel's actually about to prove it to you. 0.99

02:32:58.340 Women have much higher rates of psychiatric illness. 0.54

02:33:01.580 Can you pull it off?

02:33:03.540 Then 25% are on psychiatric illness.

02:33:05.260 Then men, 25% of American women are on at least one prescription psych medication.

02:33:10.240 Also, Rachel, isn't it the case that when it comes to trait neuroticism, women rank higher 1.00

02:33:15.740 in trait neuroticism as compared to men?

02:33:18.460 I mean, it is what it is, you know?

02:33:23.560 Okay.

02:33:23.840 Great.

02:33:24.360 Thank you, Rachel.

02:33:25.160 Appreciate that.

02:33:25.820 We have a question.

02:33:28.600 Rebel, can you read this one?

02:33:29.960 Would it be strange or crazy if a woman has fantasies of having a husband and she wants 1.00

02:33:34.720 to dress like Ellen DeGeneres sometimes and have lesbian experiences with women?

02:33:39.820 It's a good question. 0.65

02:33:41.360 Is it crazy if a woman is bisexual, basically? 1.00

02:33:48.500 Imagine having a husband but wants to be gay sometimes. 1.00

02:33:51.600 Because, oh, no, I want to eat pussy and also I like to get penetrated. 1.00

02:33:54.420 Right. 1.00

02:33:54.740 Oh, no.

02:33:55.120 Ain't nothing wrong with having it at all.

02:33:56.880 I'm not with that.

02:33:57.460 Uh-oh. 0.99

02:33:57.760 I'm fucking greedy. 0.99

02:33:59.060 Get it. 0.99

02:33:59.880 And I guess last thing on, like, going back to her point, you've dated women and men.

02:34:04.520 Yeah.

02:34:04.640 I mean, have you noticed any differences in terms of, because, I mean, didn't you say,

02:34:08.980 like, you're over dating women, right?

02:34:10.660 Yeah, I'm over that right now.

02:34:11.740 Why?

02:34:12.000 But it's definitely some differences.

02:34:14.280 I've kind of made a couple TikToks about that that got a lot of views.

02:34:18.160 Like, men, when men lie, they will keep lying to you, to your face.

02:34:23.800 But when, if they get caught in a lie, they're going to keep adding on to the lie.

02:34:27.120 But if women lie, they're going to either cry or straight up ignore it. 1.00

02:34:30.960 Like, there's certain nuances with differences and stuff like that.

02:34:34.220 I feel like, I don't think it's crazy to want both or do both.

02:34:39.620 I feel like even monogamy is kind of a touchy-feely.

02:34:43.380 I feel like all of us should be free and unlimited to do what we want.

02:34:46.680 There's huge differences.

02:34:47.900 There's huge differences.

02:34:49.160 And we should be able to explore whatever.

02:34:50.780 If everybody was non-monogamous and everybody was just dating everybody,

02:34:56.220 do you think that would be better or worse than a society that is purely monogamous?

02:35:01.360 Just say we have one country.

02:35:02.820 We'll call it gangbangland.

02:35:04.220 All right.

02:35:05.680 Shout out to Andrew Wilson.

02:35:07.520 And another country, which is just, let's say, America.

02:35:11.380 Or monogamy land, okay?

02:35:12.880 And in gangbangland, everyone's just doing gangbangs.

02:35:15.980 And in monogamy land, they're all just having families.

02:35:19.700 I don't think, because I feel like we need a little bit of everything.

02:35:22.160 So I don't think too much everybody being monogamous or everybody being polyamorous would be good.

02:35:27.380 I don't feel like too much polyamorous would be good.

02:35:28.040 So in this situation, it's like all or nothing.

02:35:30.340 One of them is just pure monogamy.

02:35:32.180 No cheating, nothing.

02:35:33.040 Just nuclear families. 0.95

02:35:34.360 And one of them, everyone is having sex with everyone all the time. 0.76

02:35:36.760 Which one's better? 0.95

02:35:38.740 Monogamy.

02:35:39.460 Monogamy.

02:35:40.540 I guess monogamy would be better just for safety.

02:35:43.380 Only because polyamorous would be cool, but not everybody is going to be safe and smart about it.

02:35:49.400 And do you think that in gangbangland, there'd be a lot of unplanned pregnancies, and there'd be a lot of STDs, and there'd be a lot of children raised by single mothers, for example? 0.67

02:35:59.860 Isn't that hard to think?

02:36:00.600 Whereas in monogamy, yeah. 0.86

02:36:01.760 Well, yep.

02:36:02.460 We pretty much live in gangbangland.

02:36:03.920 We're here in California.

02:36:05.900 Right.

02:36:06.000 Right.

02:36:06.300 But do you think that's a reflection of why those standards are actually put at the forefront of, I mean, we should be putting those standards at the forefront, which is having a monogamous family?

02:36:17.900 We shouldn't be putting that at the forefront.

02:36:19.820 I feel like you should be doing whatever it is for you.

02:36:22.600 I feel like monogamous is good for certain people.

02:36:24.980 But tell me why we need it, though.

02:36:26.640 Why do we actually need polyamory?

02:36:29.340 I think it's just to keep everybody safe and respecting everybody's boundaries, because I feel like if you love someone, you want to make sure that they feel special and that they're respected and whatever they want.

02:36:42.440 You want to respect their boundaries if you love them.

02:36:44.020 I mean, if it's safety that you want, then monogamy land would be the best.

02:36:47.200 But in monogamy land, do you think that they need polyamory? 0.96

02:36:54.360 Yeah.

02:36:55.280 Why?

02:36:55.840 We need polyamory, because we need somebody, we need, we need options.

02:37:00.560 How are we going to have more experiences to pass down to our kids and give our kids advice of something we've never done?

02:37:07.160 So you mean sexual experiences to pass down to your kids?

02:37:09.140 Like, how are we going to teach, like, okay, look, I feel like every mom has a conversation with their daughter about their punani, right?

02:37:17.200 How are their moms going to have their experiences on what to do and take care of that punani unless they was out there and having a little fun and having different partners? 1.00

02:37:25.380 So let me just clarify, your argument, hold on a second, hold on, let me just clarify, your argument is that a mother can't teach their child about the intricacies of the punani if they've only ever had sex with one man. 0.96

02:37:40.680 They need to have more than one penis. 1.00

02:37:42.380 I can't, but your child was going to be more prepared if you have more experience. 1.00

02:37:45.880 So a woman who married her childhood sweetheart and has had sex with him and has had multiple children, she's incapable of telling her daughter about how to handle her vagina. 1.00

02:37:55.580 Not incapable, she just might be less knowledgeable. 1.00

02:37:58.620 Tell me exactly what the factors are when you've taken multiple penises as opposed to just one.

02:38:02.900 What are the factors that will increase your sort of understanding of the nani?

02:38:05.680 Well, first of all, every man has their own chemical balance.

02:38:10.220 So a man, different men affect your punani differently.

02:38:14.680 You know what I'm saying?

02:38:15.360 And if you're messing with multiple guys at one time, that might affect you differently.

02:38:18.920 So what you're saying is that if you don't have sex with multiple men, then you won't get different infections.

02:38:26.240 If that man is being faithful to you and you're being faithful to them, you're probably not going to get any infections.

02:38:35.120 So then could it, in monogamy land, for example, if the mother taught her daughter to only have sex with one man and then she did the same thing, she would never have to worry about infections from different men.

02:38:46.760 Yeah, that's true, but that's not realistic.

02:38:48.680 So that's why we need a little bit of everything because not everybody is going to be monocular.

02:38:52.920 So that actually was the case and in most of the developed world, sorry, not the most of the developed world, but in most of the world throughout history, that was the standard.

02:39:01.380 And especially throughout Christian Europe, for example, and in Muslim countries, normally in these religious countries, you get one partner. 0.81

02:39:09.360 And even in India and the more sort of like religious parts of India, they have arranged marriages from a young age.

02:39:14.580 So this is actually, this is actually the, they do that in Israel, they encourage that sort of thing or they're pretty, they're a bit degenerate in Israel. 0.69

02:39:21.140 My concern is that monogamy is on one side a lot of the time.

02:39:23.980 It actually works for many years, the monogamy and the fixing kind of arrangement.

02:39:28.720 Are the men being faithful too?

02:39:30.060 And it works for many, many years.

02:39:32.340 I got a question for you.

02:39:33.760 So you have a roster right now?

02:39:35.440 Yeah.

02:39:35.900 How big is the roster?

02:39:37.700 Like three.

02:39:38.920 Three guys?

02:39:40.120 Yeah.

02:39:40.720 Any girls or no?

02:39:41.560 No, I'm talking to one girl right now too.

02:39:43.380 I'm not gonna, I said I was completely done with women. 1.00

02:39:45.440 That's, that's a lot.

02:39:46.260 That was a lot.

02:39:46.600 There's still, okay.

02:39:47.460 I got, I got, I got a little shorty and then I got two guys.

02:39:50.540 And are you like hooking up with all of them?

02:39:52.100 No.

02:39:53.000 No.

02:39:53.300 One of them?

02:39:53.880 Two of them?

02:39:54.620 Three of them?

02:39:54.920 One of them?

02:39:55.540 One of them?

02:39:56.020 Mm-hmm.

02:39:56.340 And the others are for what?

02:39:57.680 Just for, you know, fun.

02:39:59.220 Just for fun.

02:39:59.580 Sexual fun? 0.64

02:39:59.960 Going on dates. 0.69

02:40:00.680 Sex?

02:40:01.240 Nah, just dates.

02:40:02.160 You want to go out, you want to have somebody because some people are good for business and some people are good to party with.

02:40:05.900 Who here, who else here has a roster?

02:40:08.760 Roster?

02:40:09.940 Roster?

02:40:10.820 I'm talking to five guys, but I don't date them.

02:40:13.460 That's like no intimacy.

02:40:15.320 That's a roster.

02:40:16.300 When you say talking to them, but like, have you been on multiple dates?

02:40:19.620 No.

02:40:20.320 Oh, you're talking, okay.

02:40:21.440 What about you?

02:40:22.020 Roster?

02:40:22.780 Callie?

02:40:23.580 Callie Kush? 1.00

02:40:24.220 No, I'm talking to one person.

02:40:24.760 How much you got?

02:40:26.080 Into the mic.

02:40:26.480 I'm talking to one person.

02:40:27.340 Just one person?

02:40:28.000 Yeah.

02:40:29.360 Remember?

02:40:31.120 No.

02:40:32.980 Okay.

02:40:34.060 Here, I have a chat coming through, then we're going to get into this thing.

02:40:37.120 Yo, Kat, thank you.

02:40:37.960 She's also donated $200. 0.99

02:40:40.180 As a representative of the woman community, I can confirm that women are crazy. 1.00

02:40:46.220 She confirms that women are crazy. 1.00

02:40:49.780 It's both, though. 1.00

02:40:51.000 I don't know.

02:40:51.440 I've also heard from women who are like, I don't have, I don't like being friends with women. 1.00

02:40:56.240 Like, they're straight, but they're like, I don't, I don't even like being friends with women. 1.00

02:41:00.180 They're like, just having guy friends, it's just like more chill.

02:41:04.300 I don't know.

02:41:04.800 I like that.

02:41:05.560 Do you want to say that those girls are goers, or no?

02:41:08.240 Are what?

02:41:08.940 Because I've experienced, like, if there's a girl that hangs out with-

02:41:13.180 Are you drinking alcohol, by the way?

02:41:14.640 I feel like you- 0.99

02:41:15.660 Are you trying to fucking- 0.99

02:41:17.020 I feel like you gotta maybe- 1.00

02:41:19.220 Let me shut up. 0.99

02:41:19.860 I got you. 0.99

02:41:20.620 No, you can talk, but like-

02:41:21.700 We'll have to cut you off at the bar.

02:41:22.960 You're already kind of exuberant.

02:41:24.520 I'm not drunk.

02:41:25.160 Sober.

02:41:25.520 But like, I feel like if you start drinking more, it's gonna be crazy. 0.99

02:41:28.980 A 5% fucking seltzer isn't gonna fucking kill me. 1.00

02:41:31.180 You're lightweight. 1.00

02:41:31.980 Be honest, though.

02:41:34.160 Anyways.

02:41:34.600 All right, go ahead.

02:41:34.960 Go ahead with your point.

02:41:35.900 But you're cut off from alcohol.

02:41:38.540 Guy friends is good.

02:41:39.680 Anyways, I've had friends that have guy friends, and the other guys that have seen her but

02:41:47.440 aren't a part of her friend group have said, oh, she's a gober. 0.98

02:41:51.460 Like, she just hangs out with those guys because she wants to be with them or like hook up with

02:41:55.720 them.

02:41:56.300 And like, I think that that's not cool, but at the same time, it's like, why can't you

02:42:02.140 get any friends that are girls?

02:42:03.620 Because girls, once you have a girl pack that really hits different, like, that hits so 0.98

02:42:09.820 crazy.

02:42:10.360 Like, it's not that we're just looking for no solutions or like...

02:42:14.720 Yeah, but the problem is you all secretly hate each other.

02:42:16.700 That's not true.

02:42:17.920 I have four girlfriends that I definitely, 100% have no hate for in my heart.

02:42:21.760 You absolutely hate them, and you would hate to see them happy.

02:42:24.180 Not a single part of me.

02:42:25.720 Not a single part of me.

02:42:26.760 I'm literally praying for their happiness every single day.

02:42:30.060 So just because you're a man who thinks that does not mean that that's me.

02:42:33.620 Why would you say that?

02:42:34.700 Because me, honestly, I have multiple girlfriends that 100% do their own thing.

02:42:40.720 And I'm like, this is a bad guy.

02:42:42.360 I don't like him.

02:42:43.340 But if you're doing your own thing, put you up there on a pedestal.

02:42:46.920 I know why Jake said it.

02:42:47.500 I know why Jake said it.

02:42:48.400 Because we've all like, we've even been in front of women who will do something like

02:42:52.460 this.

02:42:53.280 They'll have a girl that they know who they're friends with come up in, you know, like,

02:42:58.940 let's say you're hanging out.

02:43:00.120 This friend comes up.

02:43:02.220 Oh my God, it's so good to see you.

02:43:04.040 Big hug.

02:43:04.780 How you doing?

02:43:05.560 Oh, you look fantastic.

02:43:06.680 You're so great.

02:43:07.640 Blah, blah, blah.

02:43:08.240 Then she walks away. 1.00

02:43:09.600 Fuck that bitch. 1.00

02:43:10.340 Yeah, bitches be fake. 1.00

02:43:11.100 Fucking hate her, bro. 1.00

02:43:12.100 Bitches be fake, but that's not me. 1.00

02:43:15.400 I'm just saying. 1.00

02:43:16.160 Santa Barbara.

02:43:17.140 How long has this friendship been going for?

02:43:20.140 Altogether, I think we've been friends for about three and a half years.

02:43:23.780 There's not really much time to form a friendship.

02:43:25.900 And I have never had a single ounce of hate for any of those girls.

02:43:28.040 Yeah, you've never had a time when one of them's not around and you're just a bit like,

02:43:31.060 oh, there's Jenny over here. 1.00

02:43:33.020 I have one friend that I've been friends with for seven, maybe eight years, and I've never

02:43:37.120 felt an ill will towards her.

02:43:38.920 Never in my life.

02:43:39.640 No one's ever bitched behind anyone's back? 1.00

02:43:41.000 Nope.

02:43:41.480 Never.

02:43:42.020 Never in my whole entire life.

02:43:43.760 Let's keep it moving. 0.87

02:43:44.840 Are we going around the table, I think, on something? 0.98

02:43:48.280 No, we were talking about if women are crazy or not. 1.00

02:43:50.460 Well, my experience with women friends is that some of them turn out to be jealous of the 0.99

02:44:01.180 person, and so it's hard to have a friendship.

02:44:04.140 All right.

02:44:04.840 Rebel, can you read this one, please?

02:44:07.140 Question from my wife.

02:44:08.360 If husband is an NYC big live partner, make seven figs, six, four, prize himself on impeccable

02:44:15.480 virtue, honor, integrity, and competence, should I submit to him no questions asked?

02:44:22.440 So, the husband, lawyer, New York City, big law partner, seven figures, six foot four,

02:44:30.260 in good shape, impeccable virtue, honor, integrity, and competence, should you submit to him no

02:44:36.460 questions asked?

02:44:37.360 Go ahead. 1.00

02:44:42.980 Yeah, fuck it. 1.00

02:44:44.180 Give him my number. 1.00

02:44:45.420 Yeah, submit.

02:44:46.240 Wait.

02:44:47.580 Hold on.

02:44:48.580 Go ahead.

02:44:49.040 Say it again a little louder.

02:44:49.860 Yes, be submissive.

02:44:51.020 Please do.

02:44:52.000 Okay.

02:44:52.280 What about you?

02:44:55.780 Hello?

02:44:56.640 Oh, my God.

02:44:57.520 I'm going to blow a gasket.

02:44:58.960 No, wait.

02:44:59.440 Next?

02:45:00.120 Were you not paying attention?

02:45:01.700 I'm paying attention.

02:45:03.400 There's no one to say.

02:45:04.280 Everybody depends from the man and from the situation.

02:45:08.500 If a man is rich and beautiful, it doesn't mean that I accept everything.

02:45:11.940 So, I know it's the answer.

02:45:12.880 Okay.

02:45:13.200 No.

02:45:13.580 All right.

02:45:16.300 Yeah.

02:45:16.700 Oh, okay.

02:45:18.740 All right.

02:45:18.980 I wasn't expecting that one.

02:45:20.680 All right.

02:45:21.180 Go ahead.

02:45:21.640 I love it.

02:45:22.220 Professional.

02:45:22.860 Yes.

02:45:23.640 Okay.

02:45:24.620 She started off with it's her husband.

02:45:26.560 So, yes.

02:45:27.920 Okay.

02:45:28.860 I would say no.

02:45:29.720 There's still questions because at the same time, if he makes all this money, are you still

02:45:34.200 going 50-50?

02:45:35.760 No.

02:45:36.040 If he's fit and he's-

02:45:36.480 He's not going 50.

02:45:37.160 He's not going 50.

02:45:37.840 Oh, okay.

02:45:38.860 Okay.

02:45:39.280 He's paying for everything.

02:45:40.040 He's paying for everything.

02:45:41.020 And if he's fit, is he encouraging you to be fit as well or is he encouraging you to-

02:45:45.600 He's a choppy chaser.

02:45:46.460 You can stay fat.

02:45:47.780 Good.

02:45:49.520 Good.

02:45:50.900 Still questions.

02:45:52.100 I still have questions.

02:45:53.440 I love it.

02:45:54.460 He's a feeder.

02:45:55.280 He's actually a feeder.

02:45:56.420 Please feed me.

02:45:57.220 I would like to lay on the floor and tell you how much I love you while you give me 0.99

02:46:00.340 my fucking awesome tail. 0.99

02:46:01.880 I want to be motivated. 0.99

02:46:02.920 You've gained 100 pounds since you started dating.

02:46:05.240 I have questions.

02:46:06.160 Why did he?

02:46:06.920 Why did he allow me to gain that weight? 1.00

02:46:08.880 Here's some fucking cakes, babe. 1.00

02:46:09.500 Here's some donuts. 1.00

02:46:11.340 He's a feeder.

02:46:12.680 No.

02:46:13.000 Nope.

02:46:13.300 Okay.

02:46:13.580 What about you?

02:46:14.380 I'm kidding about the feeder thing.

02:46:15.500 Go ahead.

02:46:16.000 I'm getting sidetracked.

02:46:17.160 Can you repeat the question?

02:46:18.120 No, it's okay.

02:46:18.660 We'll just move on.

02:46:19.520 So, anyways, we have Gorlock the Destroyer.

02:46:23.600 Ask everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of 1 to 10.

02:46:26.340 You can't pick 7.

02:46:29.120 Starting with...

02:46:32.020 We'll start with you.

02:46:32.960 Go ahead, Rebel. 0.58

02:46:33.720 You'll start with me.

02:46:36.240 Wait.

02:46:36.740 Hold on.

02:46:37.040 Wait.

02:46:37.240 Hold on.

02:46:37.940 Just before we start with somebody...

02:46:39.660 Looks just...

02:46:40.540 Who's a 10?

02:46:44.120 No.

02:46:45.040 Yeah.

02:46:45.280 What are you...

02:46:45.620 You said rate yourself.

02:46:46.980 Don't.

02:46:47.400 Don't.

02:46:47.720 Don't.

02:46:47.940 Yeah.

02:46:48.920 Hold on.

02:46:49.800 Wait.

02:46:50.140 So, okay.

02:46:50.600 We'll start over here then.

02:46:52.160 Go ahead.

02:46:53.440 My name means beautiful.

02:46:56.560 My name means beautiful flower.

02:46:58.400 Cool story, bro.

02:46:59.960 I mean, on a scale of 1 to 10, how do you rank your own looks?

02:47:04.520 10.

02:47:05.200 Oh, okay.

02:47:05.660 Thank you for...

02:47:06.360 Yeah.

02:47:06.620 Thanks.

02:47:07.180 10s across the board all the way.

02:47:08.700 10, 10, 10.

02:47:09.620 Okay.

02:47:09.900 Give me my 10s.

02:47:10.520 10.

02:47:11.840 10 plus.

02:47:12.680 I'm only going to say 9 because there's always something I could do a little bit better.

02:47:20.980 You're right.

02:47:21.740 There's always room for improvement.

02:47:23.540 9.5.

02:47:24.360 Okay.

02:47:24.900 10.

02:47:25.540 Wait.

02:47:25.780 So, sorry.

02:47:26.460 One more time?

02:47:27.420 10.

02:47:28.040 Okay.

02:47:28.880 9.

02:47:29.960 I say 8.

02:47:30.920 But what I bring to the table on 10?

02:47:33.780 Okay.

02:47:34.400 But looks plus 8.

02:47:35.320 We just go in and looks.

02:47:35.860 I say 8.

02:47:36.260 Yeah.

02:47:36.720 Jake, what do you rate yourself?

02:47:38.000 I'm an adjustable 6.

02:47:39.320 I give myself a 5.

02:47:41.060 Only a 6.

02:47:41.560 Wow.

02:47:41.800 Well, Chad, I just want to say this is, by their own rating, the most beautiful panel

02:47:48.260 we have ever had.

02:47:50.620 I'm an expert.

02:47:51.860 I only bring on the most beautiful women. 1.00

02:47:54.260 10, 10, 10, 10, 9.5, 10.

02:47:57.980 I think it's 10s on the ground.

02:47:59.200 9, 8.

02:48:00.620 Congratulations, Brian.

02:48:01.700 I did really good today, Jake.

02:48:03.400 Considering you had flakes, but you still managed to get a whole entire panel of women 1.00

02:48:06.780 who are among the most beautiful women that have ever existed on planet Earth.

02:48:10.120 They are among the most beautiful women.

02:48:11.700 They are bad. 0.99

02:48:12.900 They are baddies. 0.98

02:48:13.540 And, you know, this is...

02:48:15.040 No, but I'm not even exaggerating.

02:48:16.680 Like, you're at least going off of your guys' ratings.

02:48:19.200 This is the hottest panel we have ever had.

02:48:26.620 I appreciate that.

02:48:27.700 Can you explain your 6?

02:48:29.660 I am not worthy.

02:48:31.000 Oh, yes.

02:48:32.320 I am not worthy to be in the presence of these...

02:48:36.020 Can you explain your 6?

02:48:37.520 5 and 6 is crazy, though.

02:48:38.920 I was nervous.

02:48:40.320 Can you explain your 6?

02:48:42.060 I'm sorry.

02:48:43.480 Oh, we'll get to it.

02:48:44.160 I was nervous at the start, but now I'm, like, really nervous to be here.

02:48:47.340 I can't even look at them.

02:48:48.000 Why?

02:48:48.280 I can't look at them.

02:48:48.900 No, you're not a 6.

02:48:49.860 You're down here.

02:48:50.020 I can't look at them.

02:48:50.820 Right?

02:48:51.000 Check.

02:48:51.520 I've seen your jacket, bro.

02:48:52.940 I can't look at you guys.

02:48:53.980 You're too beautiful.

02:48:54.640 I'm nervous.

02:48:55.100 It's like looking at the sun.

02:48:56.200 I'm nervous.

02:48:57.540 You're, like, at least a 7.5.

02:48:59.500 Wait, so here's what we're going to do.

02:49:01.280 You guys get to rate us.

02:49:05.180 Huh?

02:49:05.980 Yep.

02:49:06.940 Don't worry.

02:49:07.720 Me and Jake are professionals.

02:49:09.100 We will not be hurt.

02:49:09.840 Are you going to rate us back?

02:49:11.460 No.

02:49:12.040 Unless you say you want me to, I will not rate you back.

02:49:15.520 We won't rate you back.

02:49:17.060 We just want you guys to rate us, and we want you to be honest.

02:49:20.940 You don't have to gas us up.

02:49:22.640 We're big boys.

02:49:23.740 If you think I'm a 3, I'm not going to be upset.

02:49:26.580 So, wait.

02:49:27.100 Does this include your personality?

02:49:29.000 No, it's physical.

02:49:30.280 Just look.

02:49:30.660 Just look.

02:49:31.620 I'll give you a tip.

02:49:32.600 I'm just kidding.

02:49:33.920 All right.

02:49:34.360 Go ahead.

02:49:38.620 7 and 9.

02:49:40.180 7 and 9?

02:49:40.880 Oh, Jake.

02:49:42.040 Oh, it's 7.

02:49:43.640 What's his, like, a person?

02:49:44.860 His personality, it kind of, like, a 7.

02:49:47.380 But then we just don't look.

02:49:48.560 Yeah, two points up.

02:49:49.400 Wait, how tall are you?

02:49:50.660 6 foot.

02:49:52.920 8.

02:49:54.360 8.

02:49:55.320 What?

02:49:55.800 8?

02:49:56.000 You went down?

02:49:56.700 Is he too short or too tall?

02:49:58.240 Too short.

02:49:59.380 If he was over 6 feet, then it would have been.

02:50:01.160 6 foot.

02:50:01.960 I said 9, right?

02:50:03.320 6 foot is a short king.

02:50:04.500 I said 9.

02:50:05.640 I'm basically a hobbit.

02:50:08.420 I said 9 at first, right?

02:50:09.780 But if he was, like, because 6 feet, like, if you're standing next to a pretty tall woman,

02:50:14.700 it's kind of short.

02:50:15.720 Like, if we got on some heels, if you're a 5'7 woman and you got on some heels, you're going 1.00

02:50:19.800 to be like, you're going to be eye on eye.

02:50:22.260 That's how I, that's the only reason, though.

02:50:24.380 I'm always looking straight at the bunny button.

02:50:25.040 That's fair.

02:50:25.980 Okay.

02:50:26.700 Give me a rating.

02:50:28.260 Give Jake a rating.

02:50:29.100 Okay.

02:50:30.240 7 and 9.

02:50:32.460 Wow, Jake.

02:50:33.660 All right.

02:50:34.120 Go ahead.

02:50:34.800 7, 8.

02:50:36.220 Wait.

02:50:36.520 8.

02:50:36.760 7, 8?

02:50:37.960 Okay.

02:50:38.120 Yes.

02:50:38.300 You.

02:50:42.540 I'm going to go ahead and say, I'll give you a 7.

02:50:46.260 I'll take that.

02:50:47.920 If we go to in and out after, I'll give you a 7.5.

02:50:51.520 And then for you, I would definitely give you, like, a 9.

02:50:55.680 Yeah.

02:50:56.660 It's because we have matching rings.

02:50:58.480 7 and 9.

02:51:00.240 Bro, one girl says something and then they just repeat it.

02:51:02.840 Like, okay.

02:51:03.420 I wasn't trying to repeat it.

02:51:04.400 That was my answer.

02:51:04.900 This is the socially accepted answer.

02:51:07.140 It's not.

02:51:07.460 It's about the look because he represents himself professional, intelligent, clean.

02:51:12.440 And he's nice. 0.99

02:51:12.920 Fucking sweatpants are not professional. 0.99

02:51:13.820 And he has a great watch. 1.00

02:51:14.600 He's not you, Ryan, obviously.

02:51:15.740 He has a great watch.

02:51:17.100 If we qualify for personality.

02:51:18.560 And you, very casual.

02:51:19.820 Watch is not.

02:51:21.180 Looks.

02:51:22.180 Looks.

02:51:22.940 Yeah, but the way he carry himself.

02:51:25.440 Okay.

02:51:25.700 That's fine.

02:51:26.300 Unless you go lower.

02:51:27.720 I think you guys are both 10s.

02:51:28.980 Who am I to judge?

02:51:29.880 There we go.

02:51:30.680 There we go.

02:51:32.720 Oh, my God.

02:51:34.180 Oh, my ears are going to explode.

02:51:35.840 Okay.

02:51:36.060 I mean, I'm going off of also how you act present yourself.

02:51:41.180 It just looks.

02:51:42.400 Okay.

02:51:42.700 But you don't have, like, confidence to say you're a 10.

02:51:45.940 So, I would give you five and six still.

02:51:48.000 Like, what you said.

02:51:49.060 If you think you're that, I could agree with that.

02:51:50.920 All right.

02:51:51.340 We'll accept it.

02:51:52.200 Go ahead.

02:51:52.940 You're both 10s.

02:51:54.880 No, come on. 0.85

02:51:55.700 Come on.

02:51:56.040 Give us a rating.

02:51:57.040 Come on.

02:51:57.220 That's the truth.

02:51:59.720 Cutie patooties.

02:52:01.560 Yeah.

02:52:02.600 Cutie pies.

02:52:03.340 I almost want to agree with Yami.

02:52:06.080 Okay.

02:52:06.640 It's all about your own perspective.

02:52:08.200 So, I'm a little confused here.

02:52:17.480 If there was a guy that said that they weren't a 10, but they were funny, they might have went up and scared.

02:52:25.500 I'm just curious, like, why can't average women just admit they're average? 1.00

02:52:29.920 I'm not.

02:52:31.960 Bruh.

02:52:32.480 Where?

02:52:33.040 You think I am?

02:52:34.960 I'm going to be honest.

02:52:36.860 No girl at this table is, I feel like I'm being a little generous.

02:52:42.280 Not going to lie.

02:52:42.640 You can have whatever opinion you want.

02:52:43.980 That's fine.

02:52:44.460 That doesn't stop me from looking in the mirror and telling myself how beautiful I am.

02:52:47.300 You can feel.

02:52:48.620 And so, I'm still a 10.

02:52:49.960 So, you're saying everybody fives or something?

02:52:51.600 Continue.

02:52:51.840 That's what you're going to say?

02:52:52.620 Everybody fives?

02:52:53.720 That's what you're going to say?

02:52:54.180 Well, nobody's above a five.

02:52:59.120 Just go one.

02:52:59.980 Go one for one.

02:53:00.980 Go ahead.

02:53:01.380 Nobody here's above a five.

02:53:03.780 He's rating himself a five.

02:53:06.360 But it's your right to think so.

02:53:08.060 It's okay.

02:53:09.080 That's right.

02:53:09.740 I'm an American.

02:53:10.960 America.

02:53:11.580 It's my right to think average looking women are average. 1.00

02:53:14.420 America is the best. 1.00

02:53:15.460 I'm so shocked because I'm looking around and y'all are bad as fuck. 1.00

02:53:19.040 Five? 1.00

02:53:19.600 Five to me is like...

02:53:21.260 No, five is average.

02:53:22.720 Nah.

02:53:22.940 So, here's my scale.

02:53:24.720 Ten.

02:53:25.240 Absolutely stunning.

02:53:26.340 Nine gorgeous.

02:53:27.340 Hold on.

02:53:28.200 Ten.

02:53:28.620 Absolutely stunning.

02:53:29.840 Nine gorgeous.

02:53:30.740 Eight beautiful.

02:53:31.540 Seven pretty.

02:53:32.640 Six above average.

02:53:33.840 Five average.

02:53:34.820 Four below average.

02:53:36.140 Three frumpy plain.

02:53:38.300 Two unattractive. 0.99

02:53:39.580 One butt ugly. 0.99

02:53:41.120 Okay. 0.97

02:53:41.480 I want to change my rating for you guys.

02:53:42.760 So, you don't think nobody here is pretty?

02:53:45.240 You don't think nobody here is pretty.

02:53:46.620 That's what you're saying.

02:53:47.460 Everybody here is pretty.

02:53:48.360 That's a lie.

02:53:49.280 Hold on.

02:53:49.500 Just to be clear.

02:53:50.460 Average can still be attractive.

02:53:52.660 But, like, I'm looking...

02:53:53.920 Like, if we're doing comparisons, I don't think anybody at this table is above a five.

02:53:58.940 Okay.

02:53:59.160 So, why did you invite us?

02:54:03.160 Why did you invite the Tans to invite? 0.98

02:54:04.600 Did you want a cookie tonight?

02:54:05.120 I talked to all kinds of people.

02:54:05.520 Thank you for your freedom of speech.

02:54:07.100 I know.

02:54:07.320 Did you want a cookie?

02:54:08.580 Oh.

02:54:08.800 No.

02:54:09.140 I talked to all kinds of people.

02:54:11.160 Why did I...

02:54:11.740 What do you mean?

02:54:12.140 Why did I invite...

02:54:12.740 I think today, very beautiful women.

02:54:14.180 He has some time for women.

02:54:15.880 Sometimes...

02:54:16.440 His vision is okay.

02:54:17.780 It doesn't matter what he says.

02:54:18.820 Yes.

02:54:19.060 We feel good.

02:54:20.240 This podcast, what?

02:54:21.220 Go ahead.

02:54:21.880 No.

02:54:22.260 Like, today, we have really beautiful women. 1.00

02:54:23.800 Sometimes, we don't have really beautiful women. 1.00

02:54:26.000 But, today, it is...

02:54:27.180 Today is the most beautiful.

02:54:28.520 Not, like, the most.

02:54:29.180 I didn't watch all the series.

02:54:30.440 But, today is really good.

02:54:31.400 Trust us.

02:54:31.940 Today is the best.

02:54:33.600 The best.

02:54:34.460 Thank you.

02:54:34.980 See, that's why he's a nice man.

02:54:36.300 That's why he's a nice man.

02:54:36.580 That's why he's a nice man.

02:54:38.620 I can't look around the table and see one single thing that any of you could possibly

02:54:42.700 improve.

02:54:43.200 Nothing.

02:54:43.840 You guys are all perfect.

02:54:44.380 That's why I haven't changed anything.

02:54:45.120 Oh, now you're being sarcastic.

02:54:46.100 Hold on.

02:54:46.600 Wait.

02:54:47.020 I need to send the asteroid and the missiles and the nuke for this segment.

02:54:52.000 Please do, because we are.

02:54:52.620 Okay.

02:54:53.080 There's the asteroid.

02:54:54.280 Now, hold on.

02:54:55.200 Also, Tate has to join in.

02:54:57.480 Tate also feels a way about it.

02:54:59.420 Tate loves me.

02:55:00.520 Ask him.

02:55:01.060 We're going to go.

02:55:01.820 We're doing this.

02:55:03.300 Okay.

02:55:04.140 And then, we have that.

02:55:05.660 That was a nuke. 0.99

02:55:07.360 Damn. 1.00

02:55:07.760 We are on fire, girl. 1.00

02:55:09.040 You just sent the shit out of you. 1.00

02:55:11.140 Oh, my God. 1.00

02:55:12.040 Are you starting a third world war with us? 0.99

02:55:14.640 No, because we are doing some shit right now. 0.99

02:55:17.940 Explosions. 0.99

02:55:18.680 I'm also.

02:55:19.340 Stop it.

02:55:20.600 Get some help.

02:55:21.460 Wow.

02:55:21.820 That's crazy.

02:55:25.500 Look.

02:55:26.900 It's a good thing.

02:55:27.580 Attraction is more than love.

02:55:29.200 Can you just, like, do me a favor and be honest for, like, two minutes?

02:55:33.780 You want me to be honest?

02:55:34.680 If you go around and you rate everybody at this table like I know you want to, just do

02:55:39.180 me a favor and be honest about it.

02:55:41.500 I'm not going to do it unless you guys want the rating.

02:55:43.280 Not for clout.

02:55:44.040 I wouldn't just do it.

02:55:45.420 The only way that I do it.

02:55:47.560 One sec.

02:55:48.060 One sec.

02:55:48.280 I don't think she's going to do it regardless.

02:55:49.720 I'm not going to do it.

02:55:51.520 He's done it before.

02:55:52.980 Sure.

02:55:53.240 I have. 1.00

02:55:55.040 Oh, shit. 0.99

02:55:55.500 I don't even know a 10. 1.00

02:55:57.320 I know a 9.5, but that's only because she has red hair. 1.00

02:56:01.220 And he likes red hair, so that's a preference.

02:56:04.100 It's not, like.

02:56:04.760 Ooh, points.

02:56:05.820 I mean.

02:56:06.080 People have their type.

02:56:06.960 Perspection.

02:56:07.320 I mean, if all y'all had red hair, I don't know if, you know.

02:56:10.020 She's a 9.5 because she has red hair. 1.00

02:56:11.780 You guys had red hair.

02:56:13.880 Points.

02:56:14.520 Okay.

02:56:15.500 About preference.

02:56:16.440 Lucas says.

02:56:17.320 He made that.

02:56:18.360 Chair number seven.

02:56:19.940 No 50-50 husband financially handles, as he says, everything.

02:56:25.300 Did you girls miss the part about impeccable virtue, honor, integrity, and competence?

02:56:29.220 Chair five.

02:56:29.860 Again, virtue.

02:56:31.700 Fat chance getting his number.

02:56:34.420 He's all mine.

02:56:39.580 It's from the watch.

02:56:40.780 Thank you.

02:56:41.240 It's from the watch.

02:56:41.900 It's from Lucas's wife.

02:56:43.440 W's in the chat for Lucas's wife.

02:56:46.280 Congrats on snagging yourself a big law 6'4 lawyer.

02:57:10.640 Brian, when are you going to bring me on as your co-chair?

02:57:12.420 Okay, so anyways.

02:57:15.300 Oh, boy.

02:57:16.760 I'm ready.

02:57:19.300 Okay, here.

02:57:20.640 Let's switch gears here a little bit related to this.

02:57:24.400 It's still related to looks, but a different question.

02:57:27.520 Do you think you will be better looking in 10 years' time?

02:57:32.880 So, I'm not asking you if you'll still be attractive.

02:57:36.540 I think women can be attractive, 20s, 30s, 40s, etc. 0.82

02:57:40.220 I'm not asking that.

02:57:41.400 I'm just asking, compared to how you look now, will you be more attractive comparatively?

02:57:46.860 On numbers?

02:57:47.680 In 10 years' time.

02:57:48.700 Just looks.

02:57:49.600 So, not personality.

02:57:51.340 Just your looks.

02:57:52.460 You're 24.

02:57:53.320 In 10 years' time, you'll be 34.

02:57:54.960 But on numbers.

02:57:55.560 Are you more attractive?

02:57:57.480 Yes, absolutely.

02:57:58.040 At 34?

02:57:58.700 Okay.

02:57:58.980 In 20 years' time, 44?

02:58:03.660 It's subjective, though.

02:58:04.700 Like, to who?

02:58:05.240 Just in general?

02:58:06.280 Like, who am I attractive to?

02:58:07.660 It's like just physical appearance based on how the world would perceive you.

02:58:10.780 At 44?

02:58:11.400 No, probably not.

02:58:12.940 44?

02:58:13.620 No.

02:58:13.780 Well, what do you think?

02:58:16.680 Yeah, because at 34, yeah.

02:58:18.540 34, yes. 1.00

02:58:19.580 I plan on being stupid rich in a couple years. 1.00

02:58:21.760 Okay. 0.99

02:58:21.920 You can buy a personal trainer and the things you need, vitamins, supplements, and all that

02:58:25.540 to make you more attractive.

02:58:26.920 So, like, in 10 years from now, for sure.

02:58:28.600 But 34, yes, but not for 20 years.

02:58:31.800 44, no.

02:58:32.980 That's pushing it, though.

02:58:34.160 But Beyonce. 0.97

02:58:35.000 I mean, if you get that talk.

02:58:35.940 She looks good.

02:58:36.340 Beyonce, look. 1.00

02:58:37.640 Oh, and then if you ask certain people, Beyonce is more attractive now than she was when she's 0.99

02:58:41.700 in her 20s.

02:58:42.220 Depends on what you like.

02:58:43.180 But, you know what I'm saying?

02:58:44.700 Erroneous.

02:58:46.060 Erroneous.

02:58:46.760 She bad now.

02:58:48.120 It's like wine.

02:58:49.680 Right.

02:58:50.420 Black don't crack, though, baby. 0.99

02:58:52.200 Black is like wine. 0.99

02:58:53.420 Right.

02:58:53.700 It gets bitter as we age.

02:58:54.860 I don't know.

02:58:55.540 If me and Jay-Z were in a room together and I was like.

02:58:58.640 Well, Jay-Z is not attractive.

02:59:00.800 How does that matter?

02:59:01.840 He looks like a lot.

02:59:02.460 I was like, yo, Jay-Z, if you could, like, re-wound, like, if Beyonce could go back when

02:59:06.600 she was, I don't know, 21 or whatever, he's picking 21-year-old Beyonce. 0.98

02:59:12.020 He wouldn't have done it because, honestly, the whole basis of their relationship was

02:59:17.220 for business.

02:59:19.380 No.

02:59:20.200 His taste has changed, though, as he's gotten older, too.

02:59:22.680 What about Becky with the good hair? 0.92

02:59:24.980 What about her?

02:59:26.380 So, you're telling me that he cheated on Beyonce for Becky with the good hair for no reason?

02:59:31.880 Wouldn't this help our argument here?

02:59:33.740 Should he cheat on his aging loss?

02:59:35.320 Exactly.

02:59:35.940 For somebody younger with longer hair.

02:59:38.080 Oh, so he prefers younger women, so he'd prefer younger Beyonce. 1.00

02:59:40.940 Yep.

02:59:41.080 That.

02:59:41.620 No, I'm not saying that you're wrong.

02:59:42.680 I'm not saying that you're wrong.

02:59:43.640 I'm not saying that you're wrong, bro.

02:59:43.960 Thank you.

02:59:44.320 Thank you for being on my side.

02:59:45.420 Thank you for telling me about my argument.

02:59:45.500 But I'm also not saying that she looks any worse, because she don't.

02:59:51.380 So, women just don't age? 1.00

02:59:52.880 No, I didn't say women don't age. 1.00

02:59:54.740 I just know there are certain ones that look good.

02:59:57.060 Good talk.

02:59:57.880 Okay.

02:59:58.820 What about you?

02:59:59.620 You're 47.

03:00:00.700 Better looking in 10 years' time at 57?

03:00:03.820 57, yes.

03:00:04.700 So, I plan on continuing to take care of myself, work out, eat healthy, Botox, filler, whatever

03:00:13.260 I need.

03:00:14.240 So, yeah, I will maintain in 10 years.

03:00:18.600 And do you, I guess we'll ask it.

03:00:21.720 Yeah, we'll let everybody go through.

03:00:24.520 Let's do splits, though, for this segment.

03:00:28.880 Wait, so what about 20 years' time at 67?

03:00:32.560 67, ooh.

03:00:35.380 Yeah.

03:00:36.100 Old.

03:00:36.780 I think I'm going to be at home with, like, a bunch of cats hiding out, like, just.

03:00:41.760 So, do you look better or not?

03:00:42.920 Like this.

03:00:43.980 I don't know.

03:00:45.220 67, that's pretty damn old.

03:00:47.360 Like, I'm in my prime to, like, be at home, drink a cup of tea, and watch, like, Netflix.

03:00:52.740 Do you think that Playboy would be more interested in current you or you 20 years ago?

03:00:58.880 Repeat that again?

03:00:59.660 Do you think that Playboy would be more interested in hiring current you or you 20 years ago?

03:01:05.140 Oh.

03:01:06.080 Who do you think would generate more? 0.96

03:01:06.920 Probably current me.

03:01:07.980 Okay.

03:01:08.380 Yeah.

03:01:09.060 I was in mommy mode back then.

03:01:10.920 And then, so, can I get a definitive answer on 67, though?

03:01:14.720 67? 0.73

03:01:15.480 No, I'll be hella ugly. 0.79

03:01:17.220 Okay. 0.94

03:01:17.440 And then, you're 47 now.

03:01:18.840 Let's go back in time.

03:01:20.660 Never die, sweetie.

03:01:22.080 Here.

03:01:22.400 Guys, just let me get through it, please.

03:01:24.460 You're 47 now.

03:01:25.660 We go back 10 years.

03:01:27.440 Better looking at 37?

03:01:30.200 37?

03:01:31.000 Was I better looking?

03:01:32.000 No.

03:01:32.200 Versus now.

03:01:32.820 Better looking now.

03:01:33.400 No, better looking now.

03:01:34.220 At 47.

03:01:34.940 Okay.

03:01:35.380 Let's go back 20 years, 27.

03:01:37.440 Better looking at 27?

03:01:38.680 I think a lot of it is happiness, too.

03:01:41.480 We're talking about looks.

03:01:42.660 Okay.

03:01:43.300 Your happiness comes out in your looks, too.

03:01:48.240 Okay.

03:01:48.660 If you're always mad, now you look like the angry cat.

03:01:51.460 Wait, so...

03:01:52.400 I feel a little better when I'm happy.

03:01:54.500 I'm happy with the explanations, but if you can, just give me an answer.

03:01:57.500 Sure.

03:01:59.160 27 or 47?

03:02:00.760 27 or 47.

03:02:02.880 Better looking when?

03:02:04.320 I think I'm actually better now.

03:02:06.140 Now?

03:02:06.480 Okay.

03:02:06.640 And then, how about 18 versus now at 47?

03:02:09.020 Oh, 18, yes.

03:02:10.340 Oh, wait.

03:02:11.080 18, better looking.

03:02:12.660 Okay.

03:02:12.720 Better looking at 18.

03:02:14.020 Okay, but what about the happiness?

03:02:17.040 More happy?

03:02:17.620 I'm more happy now.

03:02:18.860 More happy now.

03:02:19.520 Yeah.

03:02:19.720 Okay.

03:02:20.640 All right.

03:02:21.680 You're 37.

03:02:22.660 Better looking in 10 years time, 47? 0.93

03:02:24.400 I guess, yes, because beauty industry developing every day, so now girls can change boobs, 1.00

03:02:30.020 bellies, everything.

03:02:30.920 So, in 10 years, I think we can change whole of our avatars for the new one.

03:02:35.280 How about this?

03:02:35.300 Here.

03:02:35.680 Or you just show your photos and make it the same.

03:02:38.220 So, my position on this would be, even with surgical intervention, I don't think it would

03:02:44.460 even then have an impact.

03:02:46.580 But, like, let's just remove, like, surgical intervention from this conversation.

03:02:51.300 Just kind of, like, you can still be taking good care of yourself, but you're naturally

03:02:55.380 aging, whatever.

03:02:56.440 You're 37 now, 10 years time, no surgery.

03:02:59.920 But anything else, I guess, better looking at 47?

03:03:03.700 I'm not better looking, but I can tell you, when I was young, I was very hot, but I was

03:03:09.540 very unhappy.

03:03:10.440 Now, I'm not so hot, but I'm very happy.

03:03:13.400 So, the most important is happy.

03:03:15.320 Yes, but what?

03:03:16.960 You said you're not very hot, but you're a 10?

03:03:21.060 What?

03:03:21.540 You said before that you were a 10, right?

03:03:23.580 Yes.

03:03:24.080 You are a 10?

03:03:25.020 Maybe before I was 12 or 15.

03:03:26.920 Okay, but, so, we'll say that you're a 12 out of 10 then.

03:03:31.880 So, you just said that you're not very hot now.

03:03:34.460 The beauty, it's not only physical, it's together, it's complete.

03:03:37.740 All right, and if, you said you would want to get, you did, you would want to get cosmetic

03:03:41.900 surgery?

03:03:42.900 What?

03:03:43.240 You would get cosmetic surgery?

03:03:44.900 Not yet, but maybe if I will have children and maybe some of my body looks not so good,

03:03:50.920 maybe I will do it.

03:03:51.940 But as we see, then future, you can replace any organ of your body and anything.

03:03:56.660 So, who knows?

03:03:57.520 But you do think that you're a 10?

03:03:59.840 Yes, you know, my, one of my ex-school girls, she met me here in Miami.

03:04:05.780 We didn't see each other 20 years, but she told me I definitely look much more better now

03:04:10.400 than I was before.

03:04:12.380 It's, it's a different, it's a different.

03:04:15.040 Okay.

03:04:16.360 How about, here, let's, 20 years time, 57?

03:04:19.240 Um, hard, hard.

03:04:23.840 No, I, of course, I'll not be, uh, like, in the mind of the people, I'm not, will be so

03:04:27.760 young, and young is mean beauty. 0.97

03:04:29.740 So, yes, definitely, I cannot change my age.

03:04:33.000 But there, I will have some other values to attract the people, to attract...

03:04:37.140 But we're just talking about looks. 0.99

03:04:39.260 But looks, it depends from, you know, if you have a fucking set face, who cares about your, 0.99

03:04:43.840 about your beauty? 0.99

03:04:44.800 Hey, um...

03:04:45.560 What is the beauty?

03:04:46.400 Let me ask you a question.

03:04:47.420 Who's the, can you think of, like, somebody who you think is really ugly?

03:04:51.900 Girls or boys?

03:04:53.560 Girls? 0.96

03:04:54.140 Donald Trump. 0.98

03:04:55.320 Do, do, do, is there, like, like, Putin, do you think he's ugly? 0.91

03:04:58.540 Yeah.

03:04:59.780 Hold on, guys, do not interrupt.

03:05:01.440 You mean, like, physical, physical appearance?

03:05:03.240 Yes, physical looks.

03:05:05.180 You know, I try to not judge the people, because, you know, no, why?

03:05:09.380 Look, I don't want to judge anyone, who I am to judge. 0.98

03:05:12.420 God give me this body sex to him. 1.00

03:05:14.040 God give her this body. 1.00

03:05:16.200 Why, who I am to judge?

03:05:17.440 Did God, did God give you the body?

03:05:19.900 Of course, he gave me this face, he gave me this appearance, he gave me this character.

03:05:23.360 Yes, I'm happy.

03:05:24.800 Do you, do you think Vladimir Putin is physically attractive?

03:05:28.360 For me, not, but I know some girls crazy about him. 0.99

03:05:31.260 So, everybody have different tastes.

03:05:32.740 Okay, and do you know, do you think Brad Pitt, when he was, like, maybe 20, 30 years younger,

03:05:36.640 do you think he was attractive?

03:05:38.300 He was attractive, but not for me, he is even more attractive.

03:05:40.500 Like, physically attractive guy you've ever seen, who we would know, who's a celebrity?

03:05:46.060 Let's say DiCaprio.

03:05:47.660 Leonardo DiCaprio?

03:05:48.460 Okay, yes, yes.

03:05:49.440 Okay, so if Leonardo DiCaprio, like, looks sad a little bit, and he's just like this,

03:05:54.300 versus, like, I don't know, whoever you think is unattractive, like Vladimir Putin,

03:06:00.140 but Vladimir Putin is smiling while invading a country.

03:06:04.780 Do you think that, like, Vladimir Putin smiling is more or less attractive than Leonardo DiCaprio

03:06:12.000 in his prime?

03:06:13.860 But he's old, and he's the young, and it's a completely different people.

03:06:17.780 Oh, he's old, and he's young, so age does have something to do with it.

03:06:21.540 No, but he's completely like a grandfather, and he's like a young chick.

03:06:25.440 How old is Vladimir Putin?

03:06:26.700 I'm asking you.

03:06:27.080 Like, 78 or something.

03:06:29.420 He's too old.

03:06:30.700 I mean, you've kind of, like, in a roundabout way, kind of proved my point,

03:06:35.140 because you mentioned age.

03:06:37.540 He's not as attractive because he's old.

03:06:38.360 I like the face type of Leonardo DiCaprio, okay?

03:06:42.600 It's better.

03:06:43.860 He's my type by appearance.

03:06:46.020 But I'm just like, okay, I guess the simplest way to put it would be, 0.57

03:06:49.840 think of the ugliest person you know and the most attractive person you know.

03:06:53.540 I don't think if most attractive is, like, frowning versus least attractive is smiling, 0.53

03:07:01.060 that it goes like this.

03:07:02.840 I don't think.

03:07:03.700 I think it goes like that.

03:07:05.960 Like, if you're unattractive and you smile, it gives you a boost,

03:07:09.700 and if you're attractive and you're upset, it goes like that.

03:07:13.620 I don't think this idea of, like, well, if you're smiling and glowing,

03:07:16.800 all of a sudden, like, if I'm in a room with some, like, male model, 0.68

03:07:22.540 and I'm just, like, smiling, like, the male model who's in the fucking corner, 0.98

03:07:27.560 who's like... 1.00

03:07:28.780 You might get more bitches, though. 1.00

03:07:29.940 No, bro. 1.00

03:07:30.880 He's getting more bitches. 1.00

03:07:32.120 It is what it is. 0.99

03:07:32.920 I think you just exaggerate between two different things.

03:07:38.260 And also, women do tend to like stoic-faced men as well.

03:07:41.500 They're like stone-faced men rather than men who are showing their teeth all the time. 1.00

03:07:45.760 He's a fucking goopy motherfucker. 1.00

03:07:47.260 I want to come over and make fun of you. 1.00

03:07:49.060 I love it.

03:07:50.360 I love it.

03:07:50.900 I'm like, oh, you're just so goopy.

03:07:52.240 You need to stop drinking alcohol. 1.00

03:07:53.160 Can you lay off the fucking alcohol? 1.00

03:07:54.540 You're just totally incoherent. 1.00

03:07:55.500 Oh, my God. 0.99

03:07:55.520 You guys are just trying to fucking deflect. 1.00

03:07:57.480 You're incoherent. 0.99

03:07:57.820 I literally drank two seltzers, and you're talking about some drunk.

03:08:00.860 All right, cool.

03:08:00.900 Let me move it on.

03:08:01.740 So, okay, go ahead.

03:08:02.560 It's my turn.

03:08:03.580 No, it's not.

03:08:04.020 I'm finishing up with her.

03:08:04.880 So, okay.

03:08:05.980 20 years.

03:08:07.620 Will you be better looking at 57 than now at 37?

03:08:11.440 In 57 or 37?

03:08:12.900 Of course, in 37.

03:08:15.120 Okay.

03:08:15.540 And then moving backwards, were you better looking at 27 versus now at 37?

03:08:22.120 It's very hard.

03:08:23.260 Nearly the same.

03:08:25.180 It's very hard.

03:08:25.580 The same.

03:08:26.060 Okay.

03:08:26.220 And then if we go to 18, better looking at 18 versus now at 37?

03:08:30.820 Oh, my God.

03:08:31.300 It's very different.

03:08:32.560 I'm very different.

03:08:34.280 Just your looks.

03:08:35.040 Looking?

03:08:35.480 Just your looks.

03:08:36.780 Okay.

03:08:37.340 If to say how the man reacts, it's different. 1.00

03:08:42.660 But, you know, maybe they react so much because they know I'm young and stupid. 0.99

03:08:46.820 And they know, you know, when you're adults, they don't think like that. 0.99

03:08:50.360 So, they're just afraid maybe to approach you so easily.

03:08:55.080 Okay.

03:08:55.300 Here, you can give us two answers.

03:08:57.260 When do you think you were better looking?

03:08:59.080 And when do you think men would think you were better looking?

03:09:01.500 I look at it every day good because I love myself.

03:09:05.220 The most important thing is, you know, you need to love yourself.

03:09:08.760 Love is you need to care about yourself, about your body, about everything.

03:09:12.660 And about the man, the man, of course, like young girls more, but still, some men loves

03:09:17.320 more mature.

03:09:19.100 So, it depends.

03:09:20.100 Younger.

03:09:20.540 Everybody have different tastes.

03:09:22.140 Younger people like older.

03:09:23.960 Okay.

03:09:25.340 You're 23.

03:09:26.240 Better looking in 10 years time at 33.

03:09:28.100 Yeah.

03:09:29.180 20 years time, 43.

03:09:31.140 43. 0.94

03:09:31.940 I mean, black don't cry. 1.00

03:09:34.760 I know my Nana, she look good as fuck. 1.00

03:09:37.880 She looks so beautiful. 1.00

03:09:40.080 So.

03:09:41.420 Sure.

03:09:41.880 What's the answer?

03:09:44.420 I mean, yes.

03:09:45.080 Is it a yes?

03:09:45.720 Is it a no?

03:09:45.960 To men or to me?

03:09:48.640 To you.

03:09:49.700 To me?

03:09:50.160 Yeah.

03:09:50.440 Like what you think.

03:09:58.120 Less.

03:09:59.380 You know what's interesting though?

03:10:00.720 Like.

03:10:01.820 I will look good to someone.

03:10:02.960 If you ask me this question, they're both the same.

03:10:07.600 Because like how good you look is typically like external.

03:10:12.960 I understand that.

03:10:14.120 But at the same time, like me personally, I went from a young age and I thought that I

03:10:18.060 didn't even look that good.

03:10:19.080 Right.

03:10:19.360 And I got a little bit older.

03:10:20.780 I was 20 years old. 0.99

03:10:22.160 I was like, damn, she's slim thick. 1.00

03:10:23.860 That's fine as fuck. 1.00

03:10:25.220 Like that look good. 1.00

03:10:26.000 Black don't crack, you know.

03:10:27.260 And I got to 23, which isn't that far forward.

03:10:30.460 And I was like, okay, I gained a little bit of weight.

03:10:32.800 Like I'm a little bit more healthy.

03:10:35.040 I'm a little bit more secure myself. 1.00

03:10:36.480 And I'm like, yeah, she's still a bad bitch. 1.00

03:10:38.480 Wait, so they're gaining weight. 0.99

03:10:39.640 So depending on if I stop drinking.

03:10:41.440 If I, if I depend on if I start, stop drinking and I make sure that I take care of myself at 43.

03:10:48.380 Yeah.

03:10:48.860 I might be that girl.

03:10:50.640 Because have you looked at, uh, what's her name?

03:10:53.740 Gabrielle.

03:10:54.600 Gabrielle Union.

03:10:55.660 Yep.

03:10:56.080 Gabrielle Union.

03:10:57.080 Halle Berry looks so good.

03:10:58.700 Halle Berry.

03:10:59.240 You look at all those people. 1.00

03:11:00.220 They look good as fuck. 1.00

03:11:01.080 So just to be clear. 0.99

03:11:02.120 I would do that.

03:11:02.400 Just to be clear, you think that gaining weight makes you more healthy?

03:11:08.380 No, I think gaining weight makes you look unhealthy and it, it, it drags on your skin.

03:11:12.840 If I am gaining a lot of weight and now I got all this extra skin, right?

03:11:19.900 There's people who can afford to pay for that, to get it fixed.

03:11:22.780 It's like, it's just, yeah, the thing I was getting at, cause you said that you were hot at 20,

03:11:26.800 but then you said you were hotter at 23 because you gained a bit more weight and you were a bit more healthy.

03:11:31.440 No, no, no, I think that that was misinterpreted because at 18, I might have been maybe like

03:11:36.740 only 10 pounds lighter than this, but then after 20, after 18, I gained a lot of weight.

03:11:43.840 All right.

03:11:44.060 So you're saying that you have gained weight, which makes you less attractive.

03:11:47.060 No, I don't think it made me less attractive.

03:11:48.700 I think it made me feel personally more insecure.

03:11:51.740 Do you think there's a point of which you could gain enough weight that would make you less attractive?

03:11:56.380 Um, yeah, for me personally, because I know that I'm only 4'11". 0.61

03:12:02.560 I'm only 4'11", so how big can you get?

03:12:05.180 I'm not an oopa loopa.

03:12:05.920 I'm sorry, guys, let me move this on.

03:12:07.140 Okay, 23 versus 43.

03:12:09.120 Are you, where, when are you more attractive?

03:12:13.280 Is it me?

03:12:14.960 23 or 43?

03:12:16.280 Yes, it's, we're still talking to you.

03:12:17.720 23 or 43, 43, I'ma be, I'ma be, I'ma be, I'ma be, I'ma be, I'ma be, I'ma be, baby,

03:12:24.260 whip, whip, whip, baby, check me out.

03:12:26.640 Wait, can I get, can I get a temperature check from, from the panel?

03:12:31.480 Like, is she funny or just obnoxious? 0.99

03:12:34.200 Oh, no, your reactions are hilarious.

03:12:36.600 You be so mad and you don't even mean it.

03:12:38.940 Y'all keep simultaneously rolling y'all eyes.

03:12:41.300 I'm not wasting anybody's time.

03:12:43.080 Be for real.

03:12:43.720 Just answer the question.

03:12:44.580 Hold on, when I'm 43, I think that I will be fine because I'll have, one, money, two. 1.00

03:12:49.300 Oh, my God, answer, listen to the fucking question. 0.99

03:12:52.320 That's my answer, yes. 1.00

03:12:52.940 Three, no, you, you answered the wrong question.

03:12:56.080 You said.

03:12:56.540 What time is it?

03:12:57.900 Don't worry about it.

03:12:59.060 So.

03:12:59.400 I do.

03:13:00.140 Yeah, okay.

03:13:00.900 So, for, the question is not, will you still be attractive at 43?

03:13:07.420 That's not what it is.

03:13:09.000 No.

03:13:09.620 Okay.

03:13:10.160 I've literally repeated the question multiple times.

03:13:12.500 I'm hearing you, I'm hearing you, just speak.

03:13:13.740 Will you be more attractive at 43 versus now at 23?

03:13:19.920 It's a comparison question.

03:13:22.140 Yes.

03:13:22.820 So, you'll be more attractive at 43.

03:13:25.100 Yes.

03:13:25.320 Okay, let's go 10 years further.

03:13:27.180 30 years time, 53.

03:13:33.720 Slightly less.

03:13:35.260 But still more.

03:13:36.860 But still more, yeah.

03:13:37.840 Okay, 40 years time, 63.

03:13:40.740 Slightly less.

03:13:41.920 But, so, so, so, just to be clear, I'll restate it back.

03:13:46.120 At 63, you will be more attractive than you are now.

03:13:52.240 Yes.

03:13:53.280 Okay, 50 years time, 73.

03:13:55.960 No. 0.99

03:13:56.880 Okay, that's when it, I'm a wrinkled old bag of raisins, nigga. 0.97

03:14:00.780 Is that what you want me to tell you? 0.98

03:14:02.080 But, it's all about your personality.

03:14:06.580 I don't know who decided it was about looks.

03:14:09.400 All right, I'm moving it on.

03:14:10.520 Go ahead.

03:14:10.820 What about you?

03:14:11.460 Of course not.

03:14:12.000 You're, bro, this girl has an attitude problem. 1.00

03:14:16.920 Okay.

03:14:17.080 No, I don't.

03:14:17.760 Yes, you do.

03:14:18.320 Stop talking badly about me, Brian.

03:14:19.960 I've been on the show how many times I used to.

03:14:21.980 Just go.

03:14:22.440 Get up.

03:14:22.840 Get up.

03:14:23.340 Hold on.

03:14:23.600 No, I'm not going to get up.

03:14:24.460 There's someone in the bathroom.

03:14:25.660 Why would I get up?

03:14:26.560 I'm waiting.

03:14:27.080 So, going to you, you're 49.

03:14:28.680 Will you be better looking in 10 years time at 59?

03:14:32.820 Probably.

03:14:33.540 I work really hard on myself, you know.

03:14:38.040 I'm athletic, healthy.

03:14:42.180 I never drink, never smoke, never drug, so.

03:14:46.400 Never drug.

03:14:47.160 I'd be better. 1.00

03:14:47.840 Sick motherfucker, bro. 1.00

03:14:50.620 Okay. 1.00

03:14:51.580 20 years time at 69 versus now at 49?

03:14:55.000 Slightly less than what I am now.

03:14:57.700 Than currently.

03:14:58.280 Okay.

03:14:58.700 And you're 49 now.

03:14:59.820 Let's go backwards.

03:15:01.060 Better looking now at 49 versus 39?

03:15:03.960 I'm better now.

03:15:04.980 Better now.

03:15:05.580 Let's go 20 years back.

03:15:07.360 29 versus 49.

03:15:08.880 Better looking when?

03:15:09.600 Better now.

03:15:10.600 And let's go back to 19, 30 years time.

03:15:13.020 Better looking 49 or 19?

03:15:14.980 Better now.

03:15:16.700 Okay.

03:15:17.980 All right.

03:15:18.660 What about you?

03:15:19.680 You're 31.

03:15:20.740 Better looking in 10 years time, 41.

03:15:22.960 Into the mic.

03:15:25.000 I don't know.

03:15:28.260 I guess maybe, well, maybe less attractive.

03:15:31.420 I'm not sure.

03:15:35.640 Okay.

03:15:36.160 20 years time, 51 versus 31?

03:15:38.620 Oh, less attractive.

03:15:39.700 Okay.

03:15:39.940 And then you're 31 now.

03:15:40.900 Go back to 21.

03:15:42.260 I'm more attractive now than I was.

03:15:43.440 More attractive now.

03:15:44.100 Okay.

03:15:44.540 You're 24.

03:15:45.200 Into the mic, please.

03:15:46.040 Better looking in 10 years time at 34?

03:15:48.020 Yes.

03:15:48.960 20 years time, 44.

03:15:50.720 Probably not.

03:15:52.340 Okay.

03:15:52.860 You're 24.

03:15:53.640 Better looking in 10 years time, 34?

03:15:55.160 Yes.

03:15:55.980 Better looking 20 years time, 44?

03:15:57.680 Yes.

03:15:58.420 30 years time, 54?

03:16:00.020 Yes.

03:16:01.120 40 years time, 64?

03:16:03.280 Yes.

03:16:04.860 50 years time, 74?

03:16:07.040 Yes.

03:16:07.860 60 years time, 84?

03:16:10.840 Yes.

03:16:12.840 Why don't you just tell me the age where you think you'll be not as good looking as you

03:16:17.440 are now at 24?

03:16:19.920 Or is it never?

03:16:20.800 Until God decides.

03:16:26.040 Why don't you, instead of giving me a troll answer, why don't you give me a real answer?

03:16:28.820 Do you, or is that, do you genuinely think that?

03:16:31.260 Yes.

03:16:32.700 I'm not trolling you.

03:16:34.400 Okay.

03:16:34.800 Let me ask you a question.

03:16:35.560 Um, you're 24, you're single, would you prefer to date a guy, like just on physical appearance?

03:16:40.300 Would you prefer, uh, I'm going to give you your two perfect guys.

03:16:43.960 So, they meet your, uh, like personality, whatever virtue criteria.

03:16:52.200 Would you rather date a 26-year-old or a 96-year-old?

03:16:58.700 My honest opinion, a 26-year-old, because it's closer to my age.

03:17:01.900 Um, and you, so you genuinely think you'll be better looking, uh, at 74 than you are now

03:17:13.400 at 24?

03:17:15.520 I would probably honestly look the same.

03:17:21.200 I mean, are you-

03:17:22.020 It's a fascinating panel.

03:17:23.200 Are you, like, are you trolling?

03:17:25.160 Like, is it a troll?

03:17:25.860 I'm being, for real.

03:17:27.060 For real.

03:17:27.480 You've not only gotten the most beautiful panel that has ever existed, but you've also

03:17:31.320 got someone who literally defies the laws of aging.

03:17:34.500 She defies the laws. 1.00

03:17:35.040 I'm a little confused, though.

03:17:36.840 But she's saying herself, how she views herself.

03:17:39.920 So, if she thinks aging is beautiful, then that could be her notion.

03:17:43.720 Oh, aging is beautiful.

03:17:46.980 Oh, tell you what, if you'll be, the whatever podcast, all of you here, by the way, there's

03:17:52.720 way too many people up at once.

03:17:54.120 Um, the whatever podcast, all of you who said you'll be better looking in 10, 20, 30 years

03:17:59.660 time, I will pay out of my own pocket.

03:18:02.580 I will get you the best plastic surgeon, the best plastic surgeon in California, and I will

03:18:09.100 fully pay for it.

03:18:10.280 You have to get an age advancement plastic surgery to your face because you guys all think

03:18:15.660 you'll be better looking 10, 20, 30 years down the road.

03:18:18.980 There are procedures we can perhaps put on certain makeup that makes it look.

03:18:23.280 And we're going to tattoo, like permanent tattoo this on you.

03:18:26.860 We're going to do certain plastic surgery to make y'all look older.

03:18:30.320 Who here is willing to do it?

03:18:31.700 I'll pay for the whole thing and I'll give you $5,000 on top of that.

03:18:35.440 Who's willing to do it?

03:18:36.560 Raise your hands.

03:18:37.200 Ooh, $5,000.

03:18:38.240 I'll give you $5,000 and I'll pay for the plastic surgery.

03:18:41.800 Who's willing to do it?

03:18:42.740 Just so you can look more beautiful.

03:18:44.540 Who's willing to do it?

03:18:45.340 These are the things you mentioned aren't things that necessarily make someone more beautiful,

03:18:49.200 like a tattoo, eyebrow or whatever you say.

03:18:51.280 So this girl over here, she says she's going to be better looking at 74. 0.78

03:18:54.700 That's going to mean a lot of wrinkles, right?

03:18:56.800 So we're going to tattoo on her.

03:18:58.580 You know how like Hollywood can age somebody like they put on makeup.

03:19:01.620 We can permanently tattoo that makeup on you.

03:19:04.160 We can do plastic surgery stuff to like sink your skin a little bit, loosen up your skin 1.00

03:19:08.220 a little bit, give you the fucking jowl thing. 0.99

03:19:10.360 Are you willing to do it? 1.00

03:19:11.640 No, thank you.

03:19:12.680 I help elderly and I've seen beautiful 100 year olds.

03:19:16.860 Did you?

03:19:17.400 Are you high?

03:19:18.200 Just curious.

03:19:18.580 No, I am sober.

03:19:20.280 Okay, so just to be clear, I've literally had to repeat, you guys have to understand why

03:19:27.000 I'm getting frustrated.

03:19:28.140 You just said, I've seen people who are beautiful at 100.

03:19:32.580 That's not the question.

03:19:34.640 I've already granted that there are people who are still attractive at 30, 40, 50, 60, 70.

03:19:41.300 We are comparing how you look now versus how you're going to look when you're older.

03:19:47.260 I look better.

03:19:48.260 Are you guys just unaware of aging?

03:19:50.180 Has the American education system just completely failed you?

03:19:54.440 I am fully aware.

03:19:55.560 No, because here's my example.

03:19:57.580 But you made the claim that there are attractive people at 100.

03:20:02.600 Do you think those people were more physically attractive at 100 or when they were 20 or 30?

03:20:08.600 Well, there's those people.

03:20:09.420 Hold on.

03:20:09.900 Let her answer.

03:20:11.780 No comment.

03:20:12.800 What do you mean?

03:20:13.900 Well, there are those people.

03:20:15.620 You've been...

03:20:16.080 Hold on.

03:20:16.940 Hold on, bro.

03:20:17.700 Younger.

03:20:18.340 You've been invited to come on the show.

03:20:20.940 You have to participate.

03:20:23.020 Like, you need to participate in good faith.

03:20:25.660 I am participating.

03:20:27.320 You're asking me a question and I said yes.

03:20:29.360 You said no comment. 0.77

03:20:31.120 There's people that look ugly. 0.81

03:20:33.840 There's people that are ugly when they're young and they grow into their...

03:20:37.700 I'm sorry that I hurt your ego.

03:20:38.880 Also, there's an age limit.

03:20:39.600 It doesn't hurt my ego.

03:20:41.260 You're just being intentionally difficult by refusing to answer the question.

03:20:46.880 Thank you for voicing your opinion.

03:20:49.000 Are you...

03:20:49.900 Also, wait, wait, wait.

03:20:51.800 Now we're getting into a disrespect thing.

03:20:54.280 It wasn't disrespectful.

03:20:55.980 It was disrespectful.

03:20:57.600 You don't think...

03:20:58.620 Bro, this is actually gaslighting here.

03:21:00.580 You don't think her just saying thank you for your opinion is...

03:21:03.320 She said what she said.

03:21:04.180 I'm being genuine.

03:21:05.000 She said she's going to be beautiful when she's 70, 80, 90.

03:21:05.640 No, you're being disrespectful.

03:21:06.740 You can say it's...

03:21:07.720 I'm sorry that you have a...

03:21:08.360 You can say it's deadpan, but you're being disrespectful.

03:21:10.900 I'm sorry that you have an opinion on me that is not true.

03:21:15.040 If she thinks she's beautiful, then...

03:21:16.320 Right.

03:21:16.600 Why do you want her to change her opinion? 0.99

03:21:18.040 If she thinks she's going to be beautiful until she's 100, she's going to be 100 and beautiful. 1.00

03:21:22.080 Shit. 1.00

03:21:22.360 You're trying to gaslight me into thinking that I won't... 1.00

03:21:25.180 You're trying to get her to change her opinion about herself and she's not going to, obviously.

03:21:28.900 So I think we should move it along.

03:21:30.700 Wait.

03:21:31.080 Is Rebel...

03:21:31.740 Rebel...

03:21:32.120 See, this is what I appreciate about Rebel because she'll call it how it is.

03:21:35.400 Like, she might disagree with me on stuff, but Rebel's going to just call it how it is.

03:21:39.840 She's seeing, like, yo, this is like... 1.00

03:21:41.400 She's fucking bullshitting. 1.00

03:21:42.840 Okay, well... 1.00

03:21:43.360 Right.

03:21:43.740 I know.

03:21:44.140 Like, he's not trying...

03:21:44.900 He was just asking a specific question.

03:21:46.400 Will we want to change our face to our older face?

03:21:48.500 That was the question.

03:21:49.640 And we just scare her.

03:21:50.920 I only want that face if I'm older. 0.97

03:21:53.120 Can I keep my titties? 0.87

03:21:57.020 I wouldn't want to do it because I want to go through the process of aging because that's

03:22:01.420 character development in the time that it took me to get there.

03:22:04.280 And I earned that.

03:22:05.460 Like, I feel like I'm going to be more attractive at 34 because I earned that.

03:22:08.420 I worked my body and I did what I needed to do.

03:22:10.580 I learned I stopped because right now I smell weed.

03:22:13.460 Like, I might stop that and that might make me more attractive and stuff.

03:22:16.360 So, I don't want to rush that.

03:22:18.480 That's my answer to the question.

03:22:19.520 Anybody else got the answer?

03:22:20.820 Do y'all want to get an older face?

03:22:21.820 I like that.

03:22:22.340 I like that.

03:22:23.500 You know what I'm saying?

03:22:24.140 I feel like every year of my life, I grow more into myself and I understand, like, what

03:22:29.200 works for me, what doesn't.

03:22:30.760 And I've looked better now than I have before.

03:22:33.080 And this doesn't stop here.

03:22:34.520 It's going to get better until that point.

03:22:36.700 Until it's not.

03:22:37.900 Did you ask this?

03:22:38.480 Until it's not.

03:22:38.980 But you can't deny that.

03:22:40.140 Your opinion on what we're going to look like when we're older.

03:22:41.780 You can't deny that.

03:22:42.620 Because what I said was, in 10 years, I'm probably going to look less attractive.

03:22:46.640 However, if she feels she's going to be more attractive in 10, 20, 30 years.

03:22:49.660 But do you believe in honesty?

03:22:52.260 If that's her truth, that's her truth.

03:22:54.340 Hold on.

03:22:54.940 I'm just asking you a question.

03:22:56.340 Do you believe in honesty?

03:22:56.860 I do.

03:22:57.280 Most definitely.

03:22:57.800 Do you believe in truth?

03:22:58.780 Yeah.

03:23:00.160 We have to be, like, realistic here.

03:23:02.980 The reality of aging, like, genuinely speaking, can you ever look at somebody who's 100 and

03:23:12.140 say that they're better looking at 100?

03:23:15.860 And not some, like, extreme example.

03:23:17.780 No one said 100, though.

03:23:18.940 No one said 100.

03:23:19.860 She said 100.

03:23:21.500 Oh, I only heard you get up to 73.

03:23:23.820 She said it's going to be.

03:23:24.880 Because some people look better older.

03:23:26.640 But 100 is true. 0.83

03:23:27.620 You look like an old person who came back together.

03:23:33.540 Because I definitely look better than I did at 14.

03:23:35.420 I thought the subject is about dating.

03:23:37.320 Why are we going?

03:23:38.280 I'll tell you why it's about dating.

03:23:39.860 I will arrive there.

03:23:40.900 I promise.

03:23:42.060 I absolutely promise.

03:23:43.420 Because I got a comment from a client that was watching.

03:23:46.480 He's actually an attorney.

03:23:48.600 And he says, this guy is very disrespecting to women.

03:23:52.180 Just so you know.

03:23:53.700 Came off very disrespecting.

03:23:55.280 I don't care what he does.

03:23:55.960 He doesn't care.

03:23:56.940 I don't care.

03:23:57.820 You know what's really disrespectful?

03:23:59.860 You come into my house.

03:24:01.100 And I ask you to take your shoes off.

03:24:02.340 Oh, my God.

03:24:04.100 Get a life, Brian.

03:24:05.600 You in the shoes.

03:24:06.780 Get a life, bro.

03:24:07.840 How about that, bro?

03:24:08.500 It was not shoes.

03:24:09.760 It was stilettos, please.

03:24:11.340 What else do you want them to take off?

03:24:13.680 Stilettos.

03:24:14.180 What else do you want them to take off, Brian?

03:24:15.920 My stilettos.

03:24:17.240 Nothing else.

03:24:17.600 Nothing else.

03:24:19.460 Be for real.

03:24:20.620 It doesn't matter.

03:24:21.760 We're over that.

03:24:22.740 She took her shoes off, didn't she?

03:24:24.320 So, we're going to, Damien, start looking up the age stuff.

03:24:27.340 So, you know what I'm talking about, Damien?

03:24:31.320 Yeah, the pictures.

03:24:31.940 Can you AI me an older face?

03:24:33.860 That's exactly what we're about to do.

03:24:35.560 I love that.

03:24:36.520 Exactly what we're about to do.

03:24:37.920 Hold on.

03:24:38.540 It's like an AI app.

03:24:39.880 It's like an F.

03:24:40.840 No.

03:24:41.840 What?

03:24:43.340 Why not?

03:24:44.120 It's cool.

03:24:44.520 Okay, can somebody in the Discord do the age advance cat?

03:24:47.040 I don't know if you're still in the chat.

03:24:48.300 Cat typically does that.

03:24:49.980 And can you do the gender advance too?

03:24:51.620 Or somebody in the Discord, put it in the research tab.

03:24:54.240 Do the age advancement.

03:24:55.700 If we have it, if not, no worries.

03:24:57.440 It'd be really good to have it on this panel though.

03:25:00.660 So, also, when it comes to the disrespect thing, look, the reality is, like, most women are 1.00

03:25:05.740 not used to a man ever challenging your worldview.

03:25:08.540 You're used to men.

03:25:09.580 You're used to men.

03:25:10.460 Yes, yes, yes, yes.

03:25:11.980 You never, you never hear no.

03:25:13.940 Most women never hear no from a man. 1.00

03:25:16.440 You never deal with a man who's disagreeing with you.

03:25:19.280 That's it.

03:25:19.680 I would love that.

03:25:20.580 Thank you for loving that.

03:25:22.440 I hope you speak for yourself.

03:25:23.480 But I've never, I don't know, I've never experienced just an all yes factor.

03:25:30.380 That's cool.

03:25:31.020 So, you asked me a question.

03:25:32.940 What does this have to do about dating?

03:25:35.560 I'll explain to you exactly why it has to do with dating.

03:25:38.860 So, do you think in order to have a reasonable assessment of the type of person you can get,

03:25:49.960 you need to know your own value, right?

03:25:52.560 Like, for example, you said you do real estate or I forgot.

03:25:55.860 Somebody here does real estate.

03:25:56.820 I do real estate.

03:25:57.140 You do real estate.

03:25:57.840 Yeah.

03:25:58.080 So, let me ask you a question.

03:25:58.980 Let's say you have a house.

03:26:00.220 Yes.

03:26:00.560 You have a piece of property you're trying to sell.

03:26:02.500 And you think it's worth $5 million.

03:26:08.500 But the market says that's worth $1 million.

03:26:11.940 And you put it on the market for $5 million.

03:26:14.100 Are you going to get any buyers?

03:26:16.600 Depends on the demand and supply.

03:26:18.460 Oh, my God.

03:26:19.340 Really?

03:26:19.780 Yes.

03:26:20.520 There are fires in LA.

03:26:22.320 Oh, my God.

03:26:24.800 He just said, hold on a second.

03:26:28.240 He said very clearly that the market rates it at $1 million.

03:26:32.420 Okay?

03:26:32.920 So, regardless of the extenuating circumstances, the market rates it $1 million.

03:26:38.580 Wait, chat.

03:26:39.700 Chat.

03:26:40.300 I know I'm getting, like, frustrated.

03:26:42.200 But, chat, you guys have to be frustrated, too.

03:26:44.420 Like, it's justified.

03:26:46.360 Like, really, guys?

03:26:48.000 Like, chat.

03:26:48.920 One in the chat if you're frustrated, too.

03:26:51.120 One in the chat if you're frustrated.

03:26:52.080 Because nobody can be charitable.

03:26:54.120 I'm asking these questions and they want to argue, like, well, what about?

03:26:57.860 It's like I said the market value.

03:26:59.900 That would account for market forces.

03:27:04.460 Anyways.

03:27:05.280 Okay, yes.

03:27:05.840 So, you're talking about the worth of the house.

03:27:08.580 So, if I believe, I believe, I think my house is worth $5 million.

03:27:12.840 But the market value, what the market says it's worth is $1 million.

03:27:17.800 Am I going to sell the house for $5 million?

03:27:20.160 No.

03:27:20.620 No.

03:27:20.880 No, you're not.

03:27:21.820 But if there's a demand in the area for houses and there's not a lot of demand and that house is in a desirable location that somebody absolutely wants to be in that house, then, yes, you may have a chance at $5 million.

03:27:41.140 But it's very slim.

03:27:42.400 Hold on.

03:27:42.840 Wait, wait, wait.

03:27:43.560 I'll even engage with that.

03:27:45.260 Yes.

03:27:45.760 Perhaps there's, like, for example, like, certain properties.

03:27:48.280 You can, like, have horses on certain properties if it's over a certain acreage.

03:27:52.600 That might make you able to, like, command a higher price.

03:27:56.640 I don't care how much somebody wants a house.

03:28:00.020 They're not paying five times the amount for it.

03:28:03.760 Maybe they'll pay $1.1 million, $1.2 million, $1.3 million.

03:28:07.600 They're not paying $5 million.

03:28:11.380 Are you bringing this example back to me?

03:28:13.220 These girls are so uncharitable. 1.00

03:28:14.860 I mean, it's crazy.

03:28:16.200 No, I'm explaining why.

03:28:16.940 If you make the right advertising, if you invite the stars, make the white party, say, and this coach was sleeping Leonardo DiCaprio, he lost something.

03:28:24.940 If you make the creative ideas, you can sell something very expensive.

03:28:28.060 Look how the market works. 0.99

03:28:29.600 Sometimes the shit piece costs very expensive. 0.98

03:28:32.060 It depends from your creativity and your idea. 0.99

03:28:34.760 Yes, you can give up and sell it only for $1 million.

03:28:37.080 But if you will be smart, if you will really hire the best PR agencies, they will create you the best PR, and you can sell it more.

03:28:44.820 You're talking about possibility.

03:28:46.840 I'm talking about probability.

03:28:49.260 What is likely to happen?

03:28:51.640 I'm sure, you know what, it's possible that one or even all of you women here are going to marry a billionaire.

03:28:59.880 It's possible.

03:29:02.000 I don't think it's probable.

03:29:04.780 Now.

03:29:06.300 Who are you to say? 0.92

03:29:08.380 Right, F you.

03:29:09.220 Who am I?

03:29:12.520 How many billionaires do you think there are?

03:29:15.620 Bro. 0.63

03:29:16.520 These girls are delusional. 1.00

03:29:17.180 What do you mean enough? 0.92

03:29:17.900 Y'all delusional.

03:29:18.620 If you had to take a stab at it.

03:29:20.240 It's only 10 of us.

03:29:20.720 Take a stab at it.

03:29:21.540 How many do you think?

03:29:22.740 Awesome.

03:29:23.140 Can you shut up while I'm speaking?

03:29:24.820 How many billionaires do you think that there are in the United States? 0.95

03:29:27.860 I'm sure you're going to tell me the statistic.

03:29:28.520 Go ahead.

03:29:30.340 So if you want to engage with the question rather than just being obtuse the whole entire time,

03:29:34.160 how many do you think that there are in the United States?

03:29:35.740 I don't know, but I'm sure you know.

03:29:37.220 If you had to take a guess.

03:29:38.900 He's right on the billionaires, yeah.

03:29:41.080 It's a very low chance, low number, low statistic.

03:29:43.960 Yeah.

03:29:44.420 He's right.

03:29:45.540 It's like, I don't even know what the number is, but I'm assuming it's probably under a thousand,

03:29:48.860 maybe like a few thousand maximum.

03:29:50.420 Wait, let's test it this way.

03:29:52.580 Who are we to say whether or not these women will marry a billionaire? 1.00

03:29:57.400 You know what?

03:29:57.960 Let's do a wager.

03:30:00.040 Because you guys think it's, maybe you guys think you have a really good chance.

03:30:04.080 I'm a betting man.

03:30:06.380 I will pay you.

03:30:08.700 Let's reconvene in five years' time.

03:30:10.780 Is that a fair period of time?

03:30:12.640 Five years' time.

03:30:15.000 And I'll make the bet with every single one of you.

03:30:17.580 How much do I get?

03:30:18.160 Stop.

03:30:19.160 I will make the bet with every single one of you individually.

03:30:23.060 I will give you $100,000 if any of you marry a, you'd have to prove it, a provable billionaire.

03:30:30.100 $100,000.

03:30:31.640 Hold on.

03:30:32.460 I'll give it to you.

03:30:33.380 And it can't be some Fugazi or whatever.

03:30:36.480 Dude.

03:30:36.740 If I win, you have to pay.

03:30:39.500 Do they pay me less?

03:30:41.300 Because $10,000.

03:30:42.320 You're only giving $100,000. 0.99

03:30:44.300 If I married a billionaire, you think give a fuck about your $100,000? 1.00

03:30:47.460 Oh, you are so good. 1.00

03:30:49.240 He offered me a $10,000.

03:30:50.440 Do you know what a wager is?

03:30:52.960 I'm not taking that bit.

03:30:53.660 I would love to put a wager.

03:30:55.060 So here's the wager.

03:30:56.340 But if you don't, you have to pay me $10,000.

03:30:58.780 Who accepts my wager?

03:31:01.600 Oh, she does. 0.99

03:31:03.220 Oh, she does. 0.99

03:31:04.140 Okay, so if I draft up, I'm going to draft up a legally binding contract that you're going to sign after the show.

03:31:13.740 I'm ready.

03:31:15.640 You'll do it and you'll sign it.

03:31:17.380 Yes.

03:31:18.020 In fact, I think this might, I don't know if it's legally binding if I get verbal confirmation.

03:31:22.440 So here's the wager.

03:31:23.420 If you marry a billionaire within the next five years, I pay you $100,000.

03:31:26.700 If you don't, you pay me $10,000. 1.00

03:31:29.060 Let's get on the fuck, guys. 1.00

03:31:30.460 Do it for the team. 1.00

03:31:33.160 Shake it.

03:31:34.440 No, thank you.

03:31:36.380 I'm ready.

03:31:37.180 Shake my hand.

03:31:37.800 She's going to shake her hand right here. 1.00

03:31:39.060 Show me the contract.

03:31:40.320 This is a contract.

03:31:41.940 This is legally binding.

03:31:43.180 It's not mutually agreed.

03:31:45.820 She's not agreeing.

03:31:46.620 Offer acceptance.

03:31:47.480 You guys go ahead and shake hands. 1.00

03:31:48.720 We got a fucking lawyer over here. 1.00

03:31:50.760 You guys shake hands. 1.00

03:31:51.860 Shake hands.

03:31:52.820 You're too far away.

03:31:54.280 I don't.

03:31:56.540 Yeah, be careful.

03:31:58.900 High five it.

03:32:00.080 I know my destiny.

03:32:01.400 I know.

03:32:01.840 Air shake.

03:32:02.660 No, air shake.

03:32:03.480 I want to put it in. 1.00

03:32:04.220 No, you're going to knock shit over. 0.99

03:32:05.700 Don't do it. 1.00

03:32:05.740 Don't do it.

03:32:07.700 Stay off the table.

03:32:09.460 But I know.

03:32:10.040 Verbal statements are legally binding.

03:32:11.760 So if you marry a billionaire.

03:32:13.580 Yes.

03:32:14.460 Maybe find me.

03:32:15.360 I'm here.

03:32:16.420 Okay.

03:32:17.040 There.

03:32:17.220 I'll pay you $100,000.

03:32:18.220 Let's get $100,000 and go with it.

03:32:24.320 Bro.

03:32:25.100 Y'all, the most delusional panel we've ever had on the show. 1.00

03:32:28.580 It's fucking crazy. 0.98

03:32:29.000 We'll live it every single time. 0.99

03:32:30.340 So we better not.

03:32:31.200 Here.

03:32:31.620 Okay.

03:32:32.060 Oh my goodness.

03:32:33.080 You know what?

03:32:33.560 How about this?

03:32:34.720 You guys saying you're going to end up with a billionaire is like me saying I'm going to end up with,

03:32:40.880 I'm going to have a harem every single Victoria's Secret model. 1.00

03:32:44.620 I'm going to date and they're going to accept this like they can't cheat on me.

03:32:48.360 I can cheat on them.

03:32:49.060 I can date all of the Victoria's Secret.

03:32:51.040 Oh my God.

03:32:51.460 That's more likely than y'all taking five billionaires.

03:32:54.320 Dude, but you're only a five.

03:32:54.380 Dude, that's more likely that we, my dear, do you know that I can raise my billionaire?

03:33:01.080 Raise.

03:33:01.860 Raise.

03:33:02.540 Yes.

03:33:03.020 He can be okay.

03:33:05.020 But in five years living with me, he might pass to sleep.

03:33:06.440 It's a good point actually.

03:33:07.080 She's saying stop screaming into the microphone and that's directed at you over there. 0.98

03:33:11.080 Yeah.

03:33:11.280 Yeah.

03:33:11.600 You're literally, I don't know if you're too drunk to realize, but you've been screaming

03:33:14.500 into the microphone all night.

03:33:15.700 Yeah.

03:33:15.820 Can I just like lower your volume a little bit?

03:33:18.100 Okay.

03:33:18.380 Hold on.

03:33:19.660 Michael Jones donated $200.

03:33:23.200 Babysitters are expensive in California.

03:33:25.960 Brian, I can't believe you're doing it for free.

03:33:29.000 These women are delusional. 1.00

03:33:31.040 Don't give in to their gaslighting. 0.98

03:33:33.220 Yep.

03:33:34.080 All right.

03:33:34.900 Yo, Michael Jones.

03:33:35.900 Thank you, man.

03:33:36.220 I appreciate the TTS.

03:33:37.480 W's in the chat from Michael.

03:33:39.220 The state of things, $100.

03:33:41.900 Has Brain and Jake been agreeing with or disagreeing with you all night?

03:33:46.040 Have you loved or hated that?

03:33:47.320 I loved.

03:33:47.960 Why have you argued?

03:33:49.820 If loved, why have you argued?

03:33:51.580 I think he meant.

03:33:52.320 No, he says I loved.

03:33:53.680 Yeah, but I think he meant to say if you loved it, why have you argued?

03:33:57.140 Because he's saying have we been agreeing or disagreeing with them all night?

03:34:03.600 Have you loved or hated it?

03:34:06.220 I don't really get the logic of it.

03:34:09.980 The state of things.

03:34:11.100 Can you send?

03:34:11.900 Like, I genuinely don't fully understand the question.

03:34:15.360 If you want to send another one in, maybe you could like send it.

03:34:18.120 That would be appreciated.

03:34:19.260 Thank you.

03:34:19.580 Thank you, man.

03:34:20.380 All right, guys.

03:34:21.180 You can get a read in for $100.

03:34:23.020 TTS in for $200.

03:34:24.920 Streamlabs.com slash whatever.

03:34:26.280 We also, you can like the video.

03:34:27.540 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

03:34:29.620 Let's get Twitch pulled up.

03:34:30.440 Twitch.tv slash whatever.

03:34:31.560 And then also, we have Venmo and Cash App.

03:34:36.160 It's whatever pod on Venmo and Cash App.

03:34:38.620 I'm going to read a couple and give you guys some shout outs here.

03:34:42.500 We do have Colin with the 50. 0.88

03:34:44.680 Dude, guys, W's in the chat for Colin.

03:34:46.540 Thank you so much for the 50 on Cash App.

03:34:48.320 He sent another 15 in.

03:34:49.860 Dude, Colin, thank you so much for the $15.

03:34:52.980 Really appreciate it.

03:34:53.700 Thank you so much, man.

03:34:55.340 W's in the chat for Colin.

03:34:56.940 Venmo, Cash App, whatever pod.

03:34:59.280 Appreciate it.

03:35:00.660 Do we have the age?

03:35:02.660 Yes.

03:35:03.540 Okay.

03:35:04.740 We'll get to that in just a moment.

03:35:07.820 We have a couple chats here coming in while he's getting that done.

03:35:11.520 We have Lucas.

03:35:13.520 Rebel, can I have you read this?

03:35:16.440 Well, I'm an attorney as well and vouch for Brian's respect towards women.

03:35:21.120 How about them apples?

03:35:22.940 Pull up pics of 20-year-old Brooke Shield versus now.

03:35:27.560 That's what aging looks like.

03:35:29.120 Alas, the mothers of tomorrow. 0.95

03:35:31.920 Good point, Lucas.

03:35:32.940 I mean, look, Mother Nature comes for us all.

03:35:35.880 Aging comes for us all.

03:35:36.880 It is what it is.

03:35:38.140 I don't think it means anything bad if you just accept it.

03:35:42.620 And I guess you guys just started out.

03:35:46.200 It's cope, ultimately.

03:35:47.600 It's total cope.

03:35:48.460 All right, Rebel, can you read this one?

03:35:49.720 Stipulation, you cannot tell the hypothetical billionaire about this bet.

03:35:55.760 No marrying, especially for the purpose of winning the bet.

03:35:59.800 So you can't finesse it.

03:36:01.180 That's what they're saying.

03:36:01.640 Yeah, it can't be finesse.

03:36:02.880 You can't do, oh, let me, even if you try, no billionaires are going to be like, oh, okay,

03:36:09.160 I'm going to marry you so you can get 100,000.

03:36:12.600 Oh, we'll split 50,000.

03:36:15.040 Billionaires don't care about 100,000.

03:36:18.420 But also, most billionaires are already married.

03:36:21.200 Yes.

03:36:21.600 Right.

03:36:22.700 And, yeah, okay.

03:36:24.740 Thank you.

03:36:25.460 Thank you, Grafita.

03:36:26.880 Lucas is also my attorney, so maybe Lucas wants to draft up that, send in a TTS about

03:36:32.860 a legally binding contract.

03:36:35.720 But, yeah, man, you got to put your money where your mouth is.

03:36:40.560 Aside from her.

03:36:43.380 Billionaire probably going to marry a supermodel. 0.99

03:36:45.380 Mr. Millionaire, you can take me anywhere.

03:36:48.960 Around the world into this guy.

03:36:51.200 Oh, I wasn't, okay, I was going to, you asked me a question.

03:36:54.320 Why does this relate to dating?

03:36:56.320 This whole how you're going to look, your looks thing, why we're asking about your rating

03:37:00.520 on a scale of one to ten.

03:37:02.360 This is what I think is happening in the dating marketplace, and you see this happening in

03:37:06.680 the dating apps.

03:37:07.800 So, here's my position.

03:37:09.800 I think women have a, related to the house thing, five million, you think you got a five 1.00

03:37:17.080 million dollar house.

03:37:17.720 It's really worth a million.

03:37:18.520 You're not going to get a buyer.

03:37:19.980 So, as a woman, if you think that you are of a certain attractiveness, that's going to 0.71

03:37:26.220 lead to two things.

03:37:27.120 One, you're going to be going after men who you think are on your level.

03:37:31.540 But if you're actually down here, you're not going to get that guy.

03:37:35.060 But you get them in this way.

03:37:37.320 And this is not the W that you guys think it is.

03:37:40.360 Women can get sexual access to guys who are more attractive than you. 1.00

03:37:46.640 It is what it is. 0.99

03:37:47.740 Because men welcome the easy access to sex.

03:37:50.600 That's why you sleep with a guy and you're, oh, why can't I get commitment?

03:37:56.780 You've been on a hundred dates.

03:37:59.000 Where's the commitment?

03:38:00.780 You've hooked up with a couple guys.

03:38:02.560 One of your complaints is, I can't get a boyfriend.

03:38:04.860 So, the reason why it's really important to know where you stand and be humble and understand

03:38:13.160 your own attractiveness is if you think you deserve a certain tier, a certain quality of

03:38:21.440 guy.

03:38:22.220 And here's where women get in trouble. 1.00

03:38:24.280 And here's where I can understand why you might be confused.

03:38:27.020 Men will sleep with women that they have no interest in ever being in a relationship with 0.99

03:38:35.780 just based on your looks. 0.61

03:38:38.440 So, as a guy, we'll sleep with a girl. 0.99

03:38:40.880 Men will sleep with women that they have no relationship interest in. 0.99

03:38:45.820 But they're like, oh, okay, well, I mean, she's giving me sex. 0.99

03:38:49.780 Maybe I'll keep her around. 0.86

03:38:51.280 Or oftentimes, it'll just be a one-night stand.

03:38:53.340 But maybe you'll keep you around as a friend with benefits.

03:38:55.660 You're not going to get commitment.

03:38:57.920 So, then what also ends up happening, you think, oh, I can sleep with this guy.

03:39:02.580 Let's say this guy is a 10 or a 9 or an 8.

03:39:06.920 Oh, because I can sleep with this guy, I must also be an 8 or a 9 or a 10.

03:39:13.860 But that's not your rating.

03:39:17.600 Your rating is the guys who will give you commitment, who will be loyal to you, who will give you a

03:39:23.800 ring, who will get married to you. 0.99

03:39:25.420 The W for the women is not, I pulled, I can sleep with that guy, I can have sex with that guy, I can be friends with benefits with that guy, I can fuck him for three months, and then he gets whatever. 1.00

03:39:37.560 That's not the W. 0.99

03:39:39.040 The W is when you get commitment and marriage.

03:39:42.180 And so, the guys who are willing to give you that commitment and marriage typically aren't as attractive as the guys that you can sleep with.

03:39:49.380 So, you're used to dealing with men who are, quite frankly, outside of your league, they're more attractive than you in one way or another.

03:39:56.860 It could be looks, it could also be personality, it could also be status, it could be money.

03:40:02.360 So, you could sleep with a guy who's a millionaire, doesn't mean that that's the guy who's going to commit to you.

03:40:08.960 You could sleep with a professional athlete, you could sleep with a famous musician, I don't deny it.

03:40:15.020 Are you getting commitment from them?

03:40:16.880 And then, you're so used to dealing with these really attractive men, whether it's money, status, or looks, you think, like, you think you're settling for the guy who's here.

03:40:30.040 You think you're settling for your equivalent.

03:40:34.340 Now, if I were to probably gender swap you, like if I took your photos and then made y'all into men, I don't think y'all would date your male version of yourself. 0.96

03:40:45.100 I'm being for real, you wouldn't, like, if we change, like, you into a man, you'd be like, that guy's mid. 0.54

03:40:56.040 Hold on, I'm almost done, I'm almost done here.

03:40:59.840 Do you have a master in psychology?

03:41:02.000 Oh, that's an appeal to it, that's, yeah, well.

03:41:04.280 It's just a question.

03:41:05.560 No, I don't.

03:41:06.440 No.

03:41:06.860 Yeah.

03:41:07.260 That's the answer.

03:41:07.840 Do you?

03:41:09.280 No.

03:41:09.940 Does anybody here?

03:41:10.940 No.

03:41:11.160 Oh, okay, so our opinions are pretty much exactly.

03:41:13.720 No, it was just a question, yeah.

03:41:15.100 Yeah, I mean, am I wrong?

03:41:17.460 For what?

03:41:18.300 I took a class.

03:41:19.860 I actually heard a lot more that made me a little bit uncomfortable.

03:41:23.960 I was like, uh-oh.

03:41:26.160 Here, let me ask you guys.

03:41:27.060 I can kind of point that out.

03:41:27.960 I can kind of point that out where I slept with somebody and I said, oh, I'm on the same level again.

03:41:32.740 Here, let me ask you guys a question.

03:41:35.240 Have you guys ever been, like, sleeping with a guy and you really like him and you want to get commitment from him, but he says no?

03:41:43.780 No, it's been the opposite for me.

03:41:49.400 Oh, all the guys want relationship, but you don't want it.

03:41:52.400 Well, you're polyamorous, so. 0.99

03:41:53.500 Yeah.

03:41:53.960 Well, I'm not really.

03:41:55.040 No.

03:41:55.580 You've never dealt with a dude who just wanted sex?

03:41:58.600 No.

03:41:59.100 They all want a relationship with you?

03:42:00.800 Mm-hmm.

03:42:01.420 Okay.

03:42:01.960 What about you? 0.94

03:42:03.020 Manu wanted only sex because of this, I didn't accept them. 0.72

03:42:06.760 I'm sorry, what? 0.97

03:42:08.300 Manu wanted just sex because of this, I didn't accept them. 0.58

03:42:10.840 So, you're saying that all the men you've dealt with just wanted sex and not a relationship?

03:42:15.380 So, I wanted to answer because he mostly talked about me.

03:42:19.020 So, maybe it was not 100 dates.

03:42:20.540 Maybe I'm a bit exaggerate because I just said it was many dates.

03:42:23.700 So, why I didn't like the men and why I didn't have a relationship?

03:42:26.300 Because, as I find out in the dating apps here in America, men search is not a relationship.

03:42:32.740 Men search in the easy posties. 0.92

03:42:35.180 Can I say this word?

03:42:36.180 Yes.

03:42:36.320 Okay.

03:42:37.280 So, once if I'm, but I'm a very honest person and I don't play the games and I tell them

03:42:42.340 directly what they're looking for, they understand they don't want the same things.

03:42:45.840 So, because of this, it didn't work.

03:42:47.760 And plus, I tell you again, that I'm from Miami.

03:42:50.480 Miami is more hot state where people are more open-minded and et cetera.

03:42:54.780 And as I told you, you didn't notice that I told you this year, last year, I don't go

03:43:01.900 to any dates because I concentrated in my career because I understood, like you said,

03:43:06.300 I need to have the right values to attract the right men.

03:43:11.920 And in dating apps, in dating sites, there is not that kind of man which I want.

03:43:16.840 Let me ask you a question.

03:43:17.800 Since you moved here, do you want, you've been on like 100 dates.

03:43:21.340 Do you want a relationship?

03:43:22.660 Yes.

03:43:23.340 From the beginning, of course.

03:43:25.400 And you did say you slept with some men.

03:43:27.260 I didn't sleep with anyone.

03:43:28.920 I say this is my secret.

03:43:29.860 You literally...

03:43:30.400 Because I don't want to ask my followers to watch this and many people knows me.

03:43:34.860 I don't want that people know what I do.

03:43:36.720 Have you been in a situation where you were sleeping with a man and you wanted a relationship

03:43:41.580 with him and he didn't want it?

03:43:42.940 Never happened with me like this.

03:43:46.300 You're just contradicting yourself.

03:43:48.140 You said the past three years you've been in Miami, you haven't been able to find a boyfriend

03:43:52.640 in a relationship.

03:43:53.960 We can read between the lines.

03:43:55.600 You have had sex with maybe one, two or three guys. 0.91

03:43:58.040 I didn't have any sex in America. 0.97

03:43:59.740 Okay.

03:43:59.940 You look happy now.

03:44:01.200 Then why didn't you just say that?

03:44:02.500 Because I don't want people...

03:44:03.500 Did she not say that she...

03:44:05.920 I said it's a secret.

03:44:07.060 You said it's a secret, which means yes.

03:44:08.860 And now she's saying no.

03:44:10.180 No, it's not yes.

03:44:11.400 Look, guys, I posted on my Instagram that I'm here.

03:44:14.940 I don't want people watching this and they discuss it.

03:44:17.320 This is my private life and I don't want anybody to know what I'm doing or what I don't do.

03:44:21.420 It's hard for me to make my point if you want to answer the question, but that's fine.

03:44:23.940 I already answered the question.

03:44:25.840 I said I didn't have sex with anyone in America.

03:44:28.680 How much else I need to say this?

03:44:30.560 I mean, but it sounds like you...

03:44:32.760 Yes, two years no sex, yes.

03:44:35.820 I'm a good girl.

03:44:36.680 Not like you said.

03:44:37.520 You go to clubs, you do something.

03:44:39.500 No, no, no, no, no, no, no.

03:44:40.800 You don't know me.

03:44:41.680 And not everyone is the same.

03:44:43.180 You're just judging people.

03:44:43.700 A hundred days, no sex at all?

03:44:45.420 Not like 100 days.

03:44:46.540 I say many days.

03:44:47.420 He created 100.

03:44:48.420 Wait, hold on.

03:44:50.060 So it's two years?

03:44:51.160 I'm a little confused.

03:44:52.380 I'm strong enough to wait even, I don't know, 100 years for the right man, okay?

03:44:57.760 I'm from Ukraine.

03:44:58.720 I'm strong.

03:44:59.760 Okay.

03:45:01.700 What's wrong about that?

03:45:03.260 That's fine.

03:45:03.920 You seem great.

03:45:04.840 In any case, I mean, it doesn't seem like I'm going to get a good faith answer.

03:45:11.080 I mean, I'll continue going.

03:45:13.100 Have you had this experience?

03:45:14.760 You were sleeping with a guy. 0.66

03:45:15.780 You wanted a relationship.

03:45:16.960 He was noncommittal.

03:45:19.680 No.

03:45:22.420 At this point, this whole panel, I'm pretty sure is just intentionally, like, they know if

03:45:27.380 they give me the, kind of, the answer, then they're just going to intentionally lie and

03:45:32.120 just...

03:45:33.180 I don't lie.

03:45:34.440 Like, I've literally had you on the show before.

03:45:36.720 Okay, okay.

03:45:37.780 I don't want to admit it, but...

03:45:39.060 Stop screaming.

03:45:39.460 Yes, there's one. 1.00

03:45:40.120 Stop fucking screaming, bro. 1.00

03:45:41.920 Holy fuck. 1.00

03:45:42.440 Stop fucking making me a villain. 1.00

03:45:43.720 Villain. 1.00

03:45:44.180 That's hella weird.

03:45:44.880 Just stop screaming.

03:45:45.680 Go ahead.

03:45:46.880 Okay.

03:45:47.540 I've been with one person ever in my life that was like, oh, I love you.

03:45:53.340 I want to be with you.

03:45:54.360 And then I come around and they're like, no, I don't want to be with you.

03:45:56.740 And that's, that's something that happened to me.

03:46:00.740 Okay.

03:46:01.280 Okay.

03:46:01.840 That's my answer.

03:46:03.000 Next.

03:46:04.300 Why did you have to segregate me out to get something that was dry?

03:46:07.620 Because you lied.

03:46:08.640 I'm not lying.

03:46:09.480 I said no.

03:46:10.000 You said no.

03:46:10.720 I said no because at the, at the original part of it, it was yes for them.

03:46:15.900 But as soon as I got into it and I started acting the way that I act, it was no, but

03:46:21.980 it was not starting with no.

03:46:23.560 Bro, we told you to stop drinking and you've just like...

03:46:25.880 I'm not drinking anymore.

03:46:27.200 You're just talking.

03:46:28.200 Yeah, but you're like literally...

03:46:29.100 You're literally trying to be a problem.

03:46:30.580 Look at, look at, look, it's empty.

03:46:31.960 Yeah, I know you went, yeah, you drank a bunch more.

03:46:34.200 You went back there.

03:46:35.200 I drank three seltzers this whole place.

03:46:37.900 You're literally, is she slurring her words a little bit?

03:46:39.280 Five percent.

03:46:39.940 Called yourself a villain.

03:46:41.980 I called myself a villain.

03:46:43.920 A villain.

03:46:44.280 A villain. 1.00

03:46:45.540 You guys are fucking stupid. 1.00

03:46:46.860 You guys are literally dragging it. 1.00

03:46:50.680 You're the one who looks stupid, actually. 1.00

03:46:52.440 I think I'm gonna go. 1.00

03:46:53.900 Good luck.

03:46:54.940 It's just throwing it out of control.

03:46:56.300 Right, because they're just doing the most, right?

03:46:58.600 I don't know.

03:46:58.920 First one bites the dust.

03:47:00.120 Anyways.

03:47:00.600 Okay.

03:47:01.180 We'll call that a rage quit.

03:47:02.960 Afuera.

03:47:03.780 Afuera.

03:47:04.560 Afuera.

03:47:07.320 All right.

03:47:07.980 Anyways.

03:47:08.740 I think we need to do maybe some seat adjustments here.

03:47:11.600 Here, you're gonna take that seat, okay?

03:47:13.820 You move over that seat, okay?

03:47:15.680 You're gonna take this. 1.00

03:47:16.160 I'm gonna fucking get on my ass about some shit that's not even true, or no? 1.00

03:47:21.680 I'll move over. 1.00

03:47:22.620 Whichever seat you're in doesn't matter.

03:47:23.520 Look, is this me being submissive?

03:47:24.780 Look, I'm moving over just for you. 1.00

03:47:28.460 You're making such a fool of yourself. 0.99

03:47:29.860 The internet is forever, my dear. 1.00

03:47:32.100 So be careful.

03:47:33.020 What?

03:47:34.460 I didn't hear you.

03:47:35.280 I said the internet is forever.

03:47:37.100 So be careful.

03:47:37.700 Yeah, I know. 1.00

03:47:38.060 You're making a real fool of yourself. 0.99

03:47:39.080 Even though I can't find the last three of my episodes on whatever. 0.99

03:47:42.300 So I don't think it even matters.

03:47:43.760 All your episodes are still online.

03:47:45.580 I looked for several hours.

03:47:49.740 So that's good for me.

03:47:51.320 She couldn't find it.

03:47:53.000 That's on you.

03:47:56.080 Hey.

03:47:58.200 Please don't talk back there, okay, guys?

03:48:01.220 All right.

03:48:02.440 I just asked you to scoot over.

03:48:06.600 I was actually...

03:48:07.380 That wasn't the only...

03:48:08.240 That's not what I'm talking about, obviously, Brian.

03:48:10.560 Be for real.

03:48:11.080 Bro, you said not to call anyone out.

03:48:13.920 You probably should not drink, just saying.

03:48:17.320 If you've only had three seltzers...

03:48:18.900 That's what you said from the jump when I was only drinking the first seltzer.

03:48:23.000 So you're honestly just trying to make me seem crazy.

03:48:27.020 And I love that for you.

03:48:28.420 I know that you're going to get views off of it.

03:48:30.040 And I love that for you.

03:48:31.200 You're actually really killing the quality of the show.

03:48:33.340 I'm playing into it, right?

03:48:34.340 No, no, no.

03:48:34.720 No, no.

03:48:35.180 What's happening is that you're killing the quality of the show. 0.99

03:48:37.120 No, I'm fucking not, bro. 0.99

03:48:38.080 Who are you? 1.00

03:48:39.680 No, I'm fucking not. 0.99

03:48:40.960 Okay, that's a good response. 0.99

03:48:42.000 Who am I? 0.93

03:48:42.120 I didn't fucking do anything that was rude to you. 0.97

03:48:44.840 Look at you. 0.97

03:48:45.300 Actually, and you're just talking.

03:48:45.860 We asked you to stop drinking, and you kept drinking, and now...

03:48:47.760 No, I did not.

03:48:48.720 And now look at you.

03:48:49.080 No, I did not.

03:48:49.620 Yes, you did.

03:48:50.100 You're yelling. 1.00

03:48:50.620 You're making a fool of yourself. 1.00

03:48:51.360 You kept drinking. 1.00

03:48:51.940 No, I did not.

03:48:53.060 You need to stop.

03:48:54.280 Oh.

03:48:54.560 You're killing the quality of the show, honestly. 0.99

03:48:57.120 No, I'm fucking not, bro. 0.99

03:48:59.420 Because when he told me, oh, you're probably drinking too much, I was already out of self-esteem. 0.99

03:49:03.600 If you're getting drunk, if you're slurring your words, if you're talking over everybody,

03:49:07.720 if you're talking over everybody, and if you're just being completely obnoxious, I know you've

03:49:16.160 got a real attitude, and you're used to talking to people like this, but when you're actually 0.98

03:49:19.540 on a panel, you're fucking weird, and I don't want to hear you out. 0.97

03:49:22.920 That's a really, really good comeback. 0.99

03:49:24.480 Tell me more.

03:49:25.080 Tell me another one.

03:49:26.040 Something a bit more compelling. 1.00

03:49:26.860 I don't have to fuck your shit, bro. 1.00

03:49:27.660 We've watched the whole thing. 1.00

03:49:29.240 You're just fucking rude. 1.00

03:49:30.560 You're just rude. 1.00

03:49:31.500 You're mean. 0.99

03:49:32.100 You're weird.

03:49:33.060 I'm so sorry that I combined those words together.

03:49:35.980 Wow.

03:49:36.240 We should make it a thing.

03:49:36.960 You almost finished a sentence.

03:49:38.620 Congratulations.

03:49:39.480 Very good work.

03:49:40.600 Give us another sentence.

03:49:41.500 Go on.

03:49:41.680 Try to finish the whole thing. 1.00

03:49:42.380 Fuck off, bro. 1.00

03:49:44.920 Give us another sentence. 1.00

03:49:46.520 For what?

03:49:47.620 Try not to slow your words.

03:49:48.580 Go.

03:49:49.540 Try not to slow my words for what? 0.74

03:49:51.020 Shut, shut, shut, shut. 0.99

03:49:51.700 Nigga, you're literally trying to make a word that's not accurate. 0.98

03:49:54.020 That was another very articulate sentence.

03:49:57.260 Well done.

03:50:00.180 Look, here's the reality.

03:50:02.000 Make some more noises.

03:50:02.780 By the way, what's interesting is women can never call out other women when it's clear

03:50:07.020 that they're contributing.

03:50:08.160 No.

03:50:08.500 Go ahead and call me out.

03:50:10.080 I'll actually do it for you.

03:50:11.300 I'll do it for you.

03:50:11.980 Just scream over it, Rama.

03:50:13.140 They won't do it.

03:50:13.860 It's called the sisterhood.

03:50:14.720 They will not do it.

03:50:15.480 Yes, huh?

03:50:16.020 She said yes.

03:50:16.960 There we go.

03:50:17.560 That's one.

03:50:18.380 Am I too drunk?

03:50:18.920 A little bit.

03:50:19.400 You're too, you're screaming.

03:50:20.900 You're too loud.

03:50:22.460 You keep talking over me.

03:50:24.500 We keep talking over you.

03:50:25.660 You're the one who's interrupting, bro.

03:50:26.980 Every time we've talked, you've just screamed.

03:50:28.680 So when I interrupted, was it me or was it them?

03:50:30.820 You're too close to her face.

03:50:31.900 You're doing that thing that drunk people do when they get too close and you can smell

03:50:34.380 their breath.

03:50:34.800 I'm not close to her face. 1.00

03:50:34.980 You can see it on the fucking camera. 0.99

03:50:36.300 Yeah, even she's uncomfortable. 1.00

03:50:37.680 You're making her uncomfortable.

03:50:38.640 Are you uncomfortable?

03:50:39.660 Yeah.

03:50:40.040 She can smell your breath, your alcohol breath and everything.

03:50:44.260 No, the thing that's making me uncomfortable is the fact that you guys just won't get the 0.89

03:50:48.220 fuck over it and move on to the question. 0.82

03:50:50.060 Honestly. 1.00

03:50:50.280 Well, we can't, honestly.

03:50:51.020 If somebody's killing the quality of the show and you look...

03:50:53.300 Yeah, but you're leading into it.

03:50:54.820 Typical, you deflect onto us.

03:50:57.320 I'm not deflecting anything. 1.00

03:50:57.680 And it's clearly we've got a drunk idiot on the panel who won't shut up. 1.00

03:51:01.580 Well, that was very disrespectful. 1.00

03:51:03.060 Can we move on to the question?

03:51:03.460 Wait, you know what's interesting?

03:51:04.420 Did you call her out for being disrespectful? 1.00

03:51:06.140 She called us stupid idiots. 1.00

03:51:07.980 No, I didn't. 1.00

03:51:08.700 Yes, you literally...

03:51:09.680 Wait, chat, did she not?

03:51:11.100 Are you serious?

03:51:11.120 Really bad.

03:51:11.780 Literally like 10 minutes ago.

03:51:13.600 You just called me every name under the sun in one sentence and you were saying how impressed you

03:51:17.260 were by it.

03:51:17.660 Did you call her out for that?

03:51:18.540 Sisterhood.

03:51:19.460 Oh my goodness. 1.00

03:51:20.920 You're ridiculous. 1.00

03:51:22.300 Crazy. 1.00

03:51:22.660 I like how you hopped on me. 1.00

03:51:23.520 You guys love to suck dick. 1.00

03:51:25.340 I wish I was transgender. 1.00

03:51:26.740 Oh, see? 0.86

03:51:27.500 There we go.

03:51:28.420 She's back.

03:51:28.960 Come back.

03:51:30.920 Anyways.

03:51:31.220 Lo Santo.

03:51:32.140 All right.

03:51:32.720 Can you ask me the question? 0.98

03:51:34.140 Because this is ridiculous. 0.96

03:51:35.180 Let's move forward. 0.94

03:51:36.480 Don't make me get into it.

03:51:37.360 What's the question? 1.00

03:51:38.720 Or don't drag me into the bullshit. 0.99

03:51:40.280 So ask me the question. 1.00

03:51:41.440 Come on.

03:51:43.000 Total sisterhood, man.

03:51:44.240 Total sisterhood.

03:51:45.760 Sisters unite.

03:51:47.400 Circle.

03:51:48.320 Yep.

03:51:48.820 All right.

03:51:49.160 We're going to get into the rest of the stuff.

03:51:50.920 Perfect.

03:51:54.020 Yeah.

03:51:55.760 Like, dude.

03:51:57.160 Okay.

03:51:57.680 It's just, I got to move it on.

03:51:59.060 Otherwise, we'll just go in circles about this.

03:52:01.940 I'm going to get into the pre-show notes.

03:52:05.560 Oh, the age.

03:52:06.700 Oh, yes.

03:52:07.260 Let's do the age advance.

03:52:09.740 How many batches?

03:52:10.640 Can you tell me?

03:52:11.080 Oh, the age now.

03:52:15.700 Okay.

03:52:16.900 She doesn't want to see it.

03:52:18.140 Okay.

03:52:18.300 We have to wait until she's.

03:52:19.560 Oh, go ahead.

03:52:20.640 We got to wait until she's back. 0.95

03:52:21.660 I'm irrelevant, dog.

03:52:23.900 Oh.

03:52:25.680 It's like that one liability friend who just gets dragged out of the club.

03:52:28.740 Oh, you're delusional fives.

03:52:31.240 Oh, it's below the threshold.

03:52:32.760 I wonder how attractive you are.

03:52:34.260 It's not about fives and stuff.

03:52:35.560 Oh, bro.

03:52:41.000 Hiding behind the computer.

03:52:43.440 No, it's not about we delusional because of what we think about ourselves.

03:52:46.860 We didn't ask your opinion.

03:52:48.480 Cyber bullying.

03:52:49.620 Even if they were a five, they'd probably admit it, though.

03:52:52.780 Hey, man.

03:52:53.960 Oh, I'll just, while she's gone, guys, in the title of the video,

03:52:57.600 just because you guys don't think it's like clickbait or anything,

03:53:00.140 I say big announcement and drama.

03:53:01.820 So, the big announcement, but unfortunately, I do have to report,

03:53:06.520 it is not so much a good announcement.

03:53:12.700 At least, I think some of you might be disappointed in this,

03:53:15.500 but starting in March, we're going down to,

03:53:18.420 we're just going to do one show a week.

03:53:21.000 We might go back up eventually,

03:53:23.100 but starting in March, we're just going to do Sunday shows.

03:53:26.020 I know you guys, let me give you guys a reason, a couple reasons.

03:53:29.440 One, it's just, you know, I didn't really get into this,

03:53:33.840 but like booking for the show is a major headache.

03:53:37.680 We had today total, 12 flakes total.

03:53:41.720 So, when I say flakes, let me start from most recent to latest.

03:53:46.320 So, we had four girls cancel today. 1.00

03:53:48.260 We had four other girls cancel yesterday. 0.80

03:53:50.160 And then the, like, 72 hours, three to four days leading up to the show

03:53:55.660 had 12, sorry, excuse me, four other girls cancel. 0.96

03:54:00.520 So, that's 12 total. 1.00

03:54:01.820 So, you're a dickhead and you make people sit in the fucking shower 1.00

03:54:04.800 and think to themselves, 1.00

03:54:05.980 how stupid will I let this nigga make me look? 1.00

03:54:09.780 Okay, I'm in the middle of something. 1.00

03:54:11.640 Go ahead.

03:54:12.720 That's all I had to say.

03:54:13.480 Now, you're just insulting me.

03:54:14.980 Look, um...

03:54:15.800 It was nothing about you.

03:54:16.940 I said nothing about you. 0.99

03:54:17.820 You called me a dickhead. 1.00

03:54:19.280 Did she call me a dickhead? 1.00

03:54:21.400 She might have said something like that. 0.93

03:54:23.880 Why do we start that start coming up here?

03:54:25.180 I don't know, though.

03:54:25.860 I don't remember.

03:54:26.660 Sorry, what?

03:54:27.920 Why do we start that start coming up here? 0.98

03:54:29.780 That they would never date a black woman. 0.95

03:54:31.760 That's amazing. 0.99

03:54:32.220 You had a lot of flakes,

03:54:33.140 so you finna go out on a one show?

03:54:35.300 There's a couple reasons. 0.87

03:54:37.260 He definitely asked a black woman on the date. 0.98

03:54:39.100 He definitely asked a black woman on the date. 0.98

03:54:43.060 Yeah, people are gonna make comments.

03:54:44.400 Okay, so...

03:54:44.920 Racism.

03:54:45.120 It's the fact that you guys have removed every single other comment,

03:54:50.080 but that one we left up there for quite a while.

03:54:52.720 What are you talking about?

03:54:53.160 What day was being racist? 0.98

03:54:54.300 The one that said that that's why they would never date a black woman. 0.99

03:54:57.540 Hmm. 0.98

03:54:58.280 Interesting.

03:54:59.540 Okay.

03:54:59.900 Oh, you saw it. 1.00

03:55:00.460 Black women probably don't like you. 1.00

03:55:02.620 All right, so I'll finish up the kind of the announcement here. 0.99

03:55:05.840 Just a couple things on that.

03:55:07.120 We are going down, at least for March, April.

03:55:09.960 We might bump back up, but just for a period of time,

03:55:12.260 there's a couple things that need to be worked out behind the scenes,

03:55:15.780 and so basically what we're gonna do,

03:55:18.220 going down to just one show a week,

03:55:19.580 we're gonna do Sunday shows,

03:55:21.220 and I think, you know, shows can be stressful.

03:55:24.200 I think this show exemplifies...

03:55:26.080 This specific show tonight exemplifies that more than anything,

03:55:31.240 and so because of this, you know, some of you guys know,

03:55:35.920 even before I started the show, pre-existing,

03:55:37.900 like, I've got, like, back injury, back pain issues.

03:55:40.740 That's kind of been an issue,

03:55:41.840 so unfortunately, I think it's just gonna be,

03:55:45.180 like, for the longevity of the show,

03:55:47.880 I don't think I could do another year doing two shows a week.

03:55:51.760 Again, I'm gonna try to change it.

03:55:53.360 You know, hopefully we can get back to it

03:55:55.160 once, like, things get leveled out with some of the things

03:55:58.840 when it comes to business, personal health stuff,

03:56:02.360 so, yeah, and we're,

03:56:05.120 so we are going down to just Sunday shows starting in March,

03:56:08.100 but the rest of February, we got Sunday, Tuesday.

03:56:10.400 That is the big announcement.

03:56:11.760 I know it's maybe not the announcement you guys wanted to hear,

03:56:14.760 but I think the qualities of the show will be a little better,

03:56:17.840 so there's that,

03:56:18.740 and then the other drama thing is,

03:56:21.580 I mean, you guys see me, right?

03:56:24.160 Like, I don't know, the viewers, you guys don't know,

03:56:25.700 I got ice packs and stuff, I ice my back and whatnot,

03:56:27.920 so I got some existing, like, back pain issues,

03:56:30.720 and just two shows a week,

03:56:32.020 the stress of it, back pain,

03:56:34.660 gotta take a little breather

03:56:36.500 so I can recuperate a little better,

03:56:38.320 but hope you guys support me with that.

03:56:43.960 So, that's the big announcement.

03:56:46.060 The drama thing, do we get into the drama thing? 1.00

03:56:49.860 Shit. 1.00

03:56:52.840 You know what I'm gonna do? 1.00

03:56:54.140 If I, I think,

03:56:55.900 there's some drama with a guest on Sunday. 0.99

03:56:58.460 Do I just fucking do it? 1.00

03:56:59.320 Fuck it, why not? 1.00

03:56:59.840 It's already pulled up. 1.00

03:57:04.980 Actually, you know what? 0.99

03:57:06.820 Damn. 0.99

03:57:07.640 Forget it. 1.00

03:57:09.120 Tonight's show already been drama,

03:57:10.660 so if I'm gonna talk about drama,

03:57:12.320 it'll be next week, okay?

03:57:13.780 I'm not gonna talk about drama tonight,

03:57:15.360 but,

03:57:15.520 so,

03:57:17.280 let's get back into the show.

03:57:19.180 Jake,

03:57:19.380 I need to get up for a second.

03:57:20.640 Do you think you can ask,

03:57:21.400 like,

03:57:21.520 just a question momentarily here?

03:57:24.060 Jake's coming back, guys.

03:57:25.220 We do,

03:57:25.640 Graffito,

03:57:26.120 sorry for the delay on this,

03:57:27.200 but,

03:57:28.100 Graffito Takt donated $200.

03:57:32.080 Okay, Ayana,

03:57:33.220 I'll take your word

03:57:34.260 that you're not drunk,

03:57:35.540 but then a more serious medical issue

03:57:37.580 may be going on.

03:57:39.020 Did you mix alcohol

03:57:40.140 with Xanax or something?

03:57:41.980 This is legitimate concern,

03:57:43.900 not a criticism.

03:57:46.200 You spelled my name wrong,

03:57:47.520 one,

03:57:48.160 but two,

03:57:49.580 I don't do

03:57:50.520 bars

03:57:52.140 or pills.

03:57:53.900 I smoke weed,

03:57:54.840 yes,

03:57:55.760 but nothing other than that.

03:57:57.800 So,

03:57:58.820 it is what it is.

03:57:59.660 I'm sorry that I got

03:58:00.400 a little bit too emotional 0.98

03:58:01.380 because people saying shit 0.99

03:58:03.140 that rubbed me the wrong way. 0.99

03:58:04.340 That is what it is.

03:58:06.220 And also,

03:58:06.760 I don't like that

03:58:07.500 you're trying to discredit me

03:58:08.740 because I'm quote-unquote drunk.

03:58:11.220 Okay,

03:58:11.900 and what about it?

03:58:13.180 I'm so sorry

03:58:14.100 that I'm speaking my opinion.

03:58:16.320 I hope that doesn't make you angry

03:58:17.660 and make you think

03:58:18.460 that that's just

03:58:19.380 because of the drink

03:58:20.600 because if we want to

03:58:22.300 take it deeper,

03:58:23.940 what do they do

03:58:24.460 when they drink?

03:58:25.360 They speak the truth

03:58:26.180 or no?

03:58:27.060 I heard that a lot of times.

03:58:28.180 That's why we don't drink

03:58:28.940 at inappropriate times

03:58:29.900 and we're going to make a fool of ourselves.

03:58:30.660 Okay, 0.81

03:58:31.140 but I didn't drink hella.

03:58:32.720 I did not.

03:58:33.600 Well,

03:58:33.780 then why?

03:58:34.200 I'm so sorry

03:58:34.920 that I'm screaming,

03:58:36.040 but that's because 0.98

03:58:36.480 I fucking feel passionate about it. 0.97

03:58:38.760 It's because you're making me feel 0.94

03:58:40.320 like there's something

03:58:41.000 that I have to be against.

03:58:42.000 I don't care about your emotional state.

03:58:43.540 It doesn't bother you

03:58:44.100 one little bit.

03:58:44.920 The thing is here,

03:58:46.540 even when you're sober,

03:58:48.700 you're prone to speaking really loud,

03:58:50.720 to interrupting,

03:58:51.920 and then adding alcohol

03:58:53.100 on top of that,

03:58:54.100 you're going to be more disruptive.

03:58:55.720 You're going to be more loud.

03:58:56.880 Don't make me do it, bro.

03:58:58.760 Don't make me do it.

03:59:00.200 Let's just talk about

03:59:01.320 how, yes,

03:59:02.320 I speak loudly.

03:59:03.180 Is it because I'm,

03:59:04.080 what did you guys say earlier?

03:59:05.800 I'm blackversating?

03:59:07.780 What is it?

03:59:08.620 Blacksplaining. 1.00

03:59:09.480 Blacksplaining. 1.00

03:59:10.220 Blacksplaining. 1.00

03:59:10.660 I'm blacksplaining. 0.94

03:59:11.880 Oh, no, 1.00

03:59:12.320 I have fucking emotion 0.99

03:59:13.260 behind what I say. 0.99

03:59:14.680 I'm not going to sit here

03:59:15.720 and let you guys say that,

03:59:17.400 oh, she's so drunk, 0.90

03:59:18.260 so her meaning,

03:59:19.140 whatever she says

03:59:19.960 doesn't mean anything.

03:59:21.000 Like,

03:59:21.200 I'm not going to sit here

03:59:21.960 and let that happen.

03:59:23.140 Oh, no, 0.98

03:59:23.900 I'm sorry that I fucking 0.97

03:59:25.060 talk loud, 0.98

03:59:25.800 sober or not.

03:59:26.880 I'm sorry it's making

03:59:27.920 your head hurt 0.98

03:59:28.500 because you're a white man 1.00

03:59:29.480 who's never had to fucking 1.00

03:59:30.800 deal with the consequences 1.00

03:59:32.160 of your fucking actions. 1.00

03:59:33.760 Be so fucking for real. 1.00

03:59:35.200 That shit's mad weird 1.00

03:59:36.180 and I'm so happy for you 1.00

03:59:37.940 that you're getting the views 0.99

03:59:38.940 off of me fucking 1.00

03:59:39.680 speaking my shit. 1.00

03:59:41.320 It doesn't fucking matter, bro. 1.00

03:59:43.380 You should speak, 0.99

03:59:44.000 you should treat me 1.00

03:59:44.660 like a fucking person 1.00

03:59:45.660 and, oh, no, 1.00

03:59:47.040 I fucking stumbled 0.99

03:59:47.780 on my fucking words 1.00

03:59:48.780 and you think that, 1.00

03:59:49.480 oh, I should smush

03:59:50.120 my lips together

03:59:50.800 and think that I'm better

03:59:51.840 than someone 1.00

03:59:52.400 because they fucking stumbled. 1.00

03:59:54.240 Oh, fucking no. 1.00

03:59:56.040 Be so for real. 1.00

03:59:57.240 Oh, no,

03:59:57.760 I said very many

03:59:58.840 valuable things today.

04:00:00.920 So many things 0.86

04:00:01.860 that fucking matter 0.99

04:00:02.800 and, oh, no, 0.99

04:00:04.120 I'm fucking spilling my tea 0.99

04:00:05.540 and I'm talking 0.99

04:00:06.160 too fucking much, right? 0.97

04:00:07.260 I'm talking way too much. 0.99

04:00:08.620 A woman should never 1.00

04:00:09.480 talk that much

04:00:10.120 because she should be submissive 1.00

04:00:11.340 and she should fucking 1.00

04:00:12.220 be cool 0.99

04:00:12.860 and she should take

04:00:13.640 her shoes off

04:00:14.200 when she comes 1.00

04:00:14.640 in your fucking 1.00

04:00:15.320 studio apartment, 1.00

04:00:17.360 whatever the fuck 1.00

04:00:17.980 this shit is. 1.00

04:00:19.120 Be so fucking for real, 1.00

04:00:20.320 Brian. 0.99

04:00:21.200 Let's, I don't even

04:00:22.540 want to get into it.

04:00:23.720 I don't even want

04:00:24.340 to get into it.

04:00:25.000 There's so many times

04:00:25.980 that I thought to myself

04:00:26.820 like, ooh.

04:00:29.340 Yeah, it's racist.

04:00:30.360 And I'm just going

04:00:30.960 to move forward.

04:00:31.760 Yeah, it's racist.

04:00:32.460 At the end of the day.

04:00:34.040 What?

04:00:34.360 What's racist?

04:00:35.480 I didn't say anything

04:00:36.400 about racist.

04:00:37.040 You're saying she's too loud.

04:00:37.660 I said something

04:00:38.240 about you towards me.

04:00:39.380 Wait, wait, wait.

04:00:39.460 Hold on, just to be clear.

04:00:39.880 I said something

04:00:40.440 about you towards me.

04:00:41.680 Hold on, just to be clear.

04:00:42.680 I didn't invoke race

04:00:44.020 at all when it came to you. 0.98

04:00:44.900 I didn't say shit 0.96

04:00:45.520 about racism. 0.99

04:00:46.420 She is, but anyways.

04:00:48.240 Yeah, but you actually

04:00:49.160 did kind of try to make

04:00:50.060 it about race

04:00:50.800 because you brought up the,

04:00:52.720 when I gave an example

04:00:53.680 that had nothing

04:00:54.300 to do with it,

04:00:55.260 I was testing the logic.

04:00:56.600 Can you stop interrupting?

04:00:58.020 So, she said mansplaining 0.96

04:01:00.900 and I asked if it was sexist

04:01:02.020 and then I said,

04:01:02.860 would blacksplaining 1.00

04:01:03.580 be racist? 0.95

04:01:04.300 I think that's racist.

04:01:05.540 Me using that term

04:01:06.640 isn't racist.

04:01:08.660 Is it not?

04:01:10.540 No, because I'm against it.

04:01:13.180 But why'd you use it then?

04:01:15.000 If you're against it,

04:01:15.720 why would you use it?

04:01:17.340 To test her logic.

04:01:19.080 Okay.

04:01:19.600 Why did you just invoke

04:01:21.200 our skin color?

04:01:22.120 Why did you say

04:01:22.640 it's because we're white? 1.00

04:01:23.260 I didn't say shit 0.99

04:01:23.420 about you being white. 1.00

04:01:24.500 Yes, you literally did.

04:01:25.620 You said,

04:01:26.020 what did I say about white? 0.76

04:01:27.180 What did I say about white? 0.92

04:01:28.520 Or did I say blacksplaining? 0.78

04:01:30.960 No, go ahead. 0.81

04:01:31.740 Put me on the spot.

04:01:32.660 I'm waiting for it.

04:01:33.280 You want me to be honest?

04:01:34.120 I'm begging for it.

04:01:34.980 In your rant,

04:01:36.080 you said something

04:01:36.720 about them being

04:01:37.480 a white man

04:01:38.200 and they wouldn't understand

04:01:39.180 or something like that.

04:01:39.900 You said something

04:01:40.620 about white.

04:01:42.020 Yeah, yeah, you said

04:01:43.040 you never had

04:01:43.920 to deal with your consequence.

04:01:43.960 So, please tell us.

04:01:44.700 You invoked our race.

04:01:46.380 You said something

04:01:46.400 about a white man.

04:01:46.920 I was like,

04:01:47.220 you did say something

04:01:47.900 about a white man.

04:01:48.780 You said,

04:01:49.400 as a white man,

04:01:50.260 you never had to deal

04:01:51.040 with facing your consequences

04:01:52.260 or something like that.

04:01:53.080 You said something

04:01:53.680 around that line.

04:01:54.720 Around those lines?

04:01:55.720 You said something

04:01:56.520 about white men.

04:01:58.480 You did say something.

04:01:59.420 Yeah, move that away

04:02:00.560 or else you'll just

04:02:01.220 drunkily knock it over.

04:02:03.820 So, why?

04:02:05.580 Stop screaming.

04:02:06.960 Stop screaming. 1.00

04:02:07.740 What the fuck 1.00

04:02:08.340 are you doing? 1.00

04:02:09.220 Yeah, I mean.

04:02:09.820 Dude, did you just 1.00

04:02:10.880 hear that shit? 1.00

04:02:11.880 Did you not just 1.00

04:02:12.720 hear that shit 1.00

04:02:13.160 and now I'm crazy. 1.00

04:02:13.940 You know, it's funny.

04:02:14.560 Like, these are her two friends.

04:02:15.220 You said some good points, though.

04:02:16.160 No accountability at all.

04:02:17.580 Like, you're literally

04:02:18.540 screaming now.

04:02:19.660 Like, literally screaming.

04:02:20.680 Yeah, I did scream.

04:02:21.360 You're not just

04:02:21.840 talking loud.

04:02:22.700 You cannot do that.

04:02:23.680 We've told you

04:02:24.140 repeatedly it's a problem.

04:02:26.900 And you're upset

04:02:27.800 at us for, like,

04:02:29.320 you're screaming as...

04:02:30.700 No, I'm upset at you

04:02:31.880 because you said

04:02:32.940 you're just drunk.

04:02:34.580 You don't know

04:02:34.920 what you're talking about.

04:02:35.780 I literally did not say that.

04:02:37.100 You're saying anything

04:02:38.140 because you're drunk.

04:02:38.540 False accusation.

04:02:40.380 False accusation.

04:02:40.940 You implied that

04:02:41.460 a little bit, though.

04:02:42.100 Hold on.

04:02:42.960 I said, my issues...

04:02:44.660 I literally didn't say that.

04:02:47.140 I said you were drunk

04:02:48.120 so you're talking loud

04:02:49.080 and you're interrupting people.

04:02:50.060 You should lay off the drinking

04:02:50.960 because you're already loud.

04:02:52.440 I did not say that.

04:02:54.620 Yes, you did.

04:02:55.300 I said your bass...

04:02:56.680 So what?

04:02:57.300 Your bass level...

04:02:58.080 You are loud.

04:02:59.460 Yeah.

04:02:59.740 It's a fax. 1.00

04:03:00.240 I am because that shit 1.00

04:03:01.080 is fucking irritating, bro. 1.00

04:03:03.440 If we tell you 1.00

04:03:04.340 we don't like it,

04:03:05.020 maybe you could cut it out, though.

04:03:06.940 I don't care if you think

04:03:07.820 it's entertaining.

04:03:09.860 You two are her friends?

04:03:12.100 She definitely had me 0.58

04:03:12.680 on here mad time.

04:03:13.740 You guys came with her?

04:03:15.460 Who are you two?

04:03:16.160 And you always want to

04:03:17.500 send me where the person

04:03:18.320 drops the most.

04:03:19.040 You guys co-sign this behavior?

04:03:21.960 No.

04:03:22.860 Don't.

04:03:23.340 Go ahead, don't.

04:03:24.460 You think she's acting

04:03:25.460 appropriately?

04:03:27.700 Everyone's their own person.

04:03:29.100 So you have no objection

04:03:30.640 to what she's doing?

04:03:31.300 You guys are just

04:03:31.980 ganging up on her.

04:03:32.780 We should just move forward

04:03:33.840 with the conversation.

04:03:35.100 Don't say.

04:03:35.540 We're spending so much time

04:03:36.940 on this

04:03:37.760 and you're so upset about it

04:03:38.980 yet we haven't

04:03:39.540 moved forward.

04:03:40.040 I did ask long time ago

04:03:42.300 to control the situation

04:03:43.640 but you didn't.

04:03:44.320 Oh, wait, wait, wait.

04:03:45.060 Let her say.

04:03:45.600 What'd you say?

04:03:46.200 I said I asked long time ago

04:03:48.140 to control the situation

04:03:49.140 but you didn't.

04:03:50.080 So you guys have no boss.

04:03:51.840 Sorry to tell you. 1.00

04:03:52.320 Go for you to ask the damn question 0.99

04:03:53.540 but we still haven't done it. 1.00

04:03:54.340 We just want to harp on her

04:03:56.060 because she had a couple drinks.

04:03:57.900 Get over it.

04:03:58.920 Get over it.

04:03:59.860 No, I'm not going to get over it.

04:04:01.160 She either needs to conduct herself

04:04:02.680 in such a way.

04:04:03.700 I was conducted. 0.99

04:04:04.760 I didn't say shit, bro. 1.00

04:04:06.080 I didn't say shit 1.00

04:04:06.800 and you were straight. 0.98

04:04:07.120 Can we move on?

04:04:07.680 You're interrupting.

04:04:08.320 Can we move on?

04:04:09.360 You're interrupting.

04:04:10.560 You're talking loud.

04:04:11.540 You're screaming.

04:04:12.220 I didn't scream

04:04:13.100 or say anything

04:04:14.080 when you guys were screaming.

04:04:15.640 When you guys were speaking to them 1.00

04:04:16.960 did I say shit? 1.00

04:04:17.760 No, you can run that shit back. 1.00

04:04:19.220 You guys aren't contributing. 1.00

04:04:20.980 You're trolling.

04:04:22.100 You're just being disruptive.

04:04:23.560 At this point,

04:04:24.260 I'd love to have you stay

04:04:25.120 but you guys just got to leave.

04:04:27.060 You guys got to leave.

04:04:29.280 Yeah, I'm kicking you guys out.

04:04:31.260 Can we give her one more question?

04:04:32.440 Can we give her one more shot? 0.99

04:04:33.220 Nope.

04:04:34.520 I've given her so...

04:04:36.020 My entire chat

04:04:37.120 is pissed off at me

04:04:39.000 that I didn't kick her

04:04:39.980 30 minutes ago.

04:04:41.380 This whole time,

04:04:42.720 I've given her

04:04:43.300 one, two, three, four, five chances.

04:04:45.580 She keeps interrupting.

04:04:46.980 She's calling me the N-word

04:04:48.340 for some reason.

04:04:49.160 I never called you the N-word.

04:04:50.140 You literally called me the N-word

04:04:51.800 multiple times.

04:04:53.540 You've called me the N-word

04:04:54.580 multiple times.

04:04:55.840 I am not trolling.

04:04:57.420 Huh?

04:04:58.160 You're what?

04:04:58.880 I'm not trolling.

04:05:00.360 That's fine

04:05:00.900 but you guys are friends.

04:05:02.260 I mean,

04:05:02.760 you guys are friends with her.

04:05:04.520 I mean, to be fair,

04:05:06.020 you guys can stay

04:05:07.380 but she's got to go

04:05:08.620 and I know you're friends with her

04:05:09.660 but you have to leave.

04:05:11.080 You have to leave.

04:05:11.960 You've been way too disruptive.

04:05:13.480 I've given you a million chances.

04:05:15.240 Kindly get up and leave.

04:05:16.500 For sure.

04:05:17.920 Okay.

04:05:18.440 Thank you. 0.99

04:05:19.220 You're mad fucking weird, Brian, 0.95

04:05:21.220 considering that you asked 1.00

04:05:22.100 somebody on a date, 0.93

04:05:23.540 weirdo.

04:05:25.960 That was the best exit ever.

04:05:30.360 Yeah, good idea.

04:05:36.260 Okay.

04:05:36.680 You do have to leave though.

04:05:39.340 I'm not leaving. 1.00

04:05:40.260 That's my fucking ride, bro. 1.00

04:05:41.980 I mean, 1.00

04:05:42.380 you got to call an Uber.

04:05:44.320 No, you can't be in the studio.

04:05:45.620 You have to leave.

04:05:47.840 You can't stay in the studio.

04:05:49.460 You just have to leave.

04:05:51.200 I like how you kept it on the fact

04:05:53.220 that she's been drinking,

04:05:54.220 continue to feed into it

04:05:55.320 and then you're like,

04:05:55.840 well, you got to go.

04:05:56.440 I mean,

04:05:58.000 the cope coming out of you

04:05:59.540 is just unbelievable.

04:06:00.640 Imagine if it was one of us

04:06:02.240 who was being an obnoxious, 1.00

04:06:03.360 drunk idiot like that. 1.00

04:06:04.080 Yeah. 1.00

04:06:04.740 Hey, it's my spot.

04:06:05.640 I can kick her out. 0.95

04:06:06.320 I was giving her a chance.

04:06:09.140 I was giving her a chance.

04:06:12.360 No, you got to leave.

04:06:13.420 You got to get out.

04:06:14.460 You got to get out.

04:06:15.260 I just think,

04:06:15.800 in my opinion,

04:06:16.340 that was weird.

04:06:16.700 They were capitalizing off

04:06:17.960 of it a little bit.

04:06:18.920 I feel like we should give her

04:06:19.800 one more chance.

04:06:20.680 We should ask the direct question.

04:06:22.080 No, you got to leave. 1.00

04:06:22.760 Like, that shit's weird. 1.00

04:06:23.340 Why don't we move forward 0.99

04:06:24.220 to the next question?

04:06:25.020 Why can't you just like,

04:06:26.060 why can't you just have

04:06:26.880 even like the remotest

04:06:28.240 little bit of accountability

04:06:29.080 for her?

04:06:29.660 Is anything,

04:06:30.200 is she to blame at all?

04:06:31.260 Why don't you guys

04:06:31.880 have accountability

04:06:32.400 for your actions?

04:06:33.160 Seriously.

04:06:34.080 Answer me this.

04:06:34.780 Is she to blame at all?

04:06:36.680 Well, for blame,

04:06:38.100 that takes two people.

04:06:39.020 It takes two to tango.

04:06:39.780 No, it doesn't.

04:06:40.300 You guys were feeding 1.00

04:06:40.740 into that shit like no other. 1.00

04:06:42.340 It does not take two to tango. 1.00

04:06:44.140 Okay, it doesn't.

04:06:45.120 You're right.

04:06:45.680 It only takes one person

04:06:46.560 to tango by yourself.

04:06:48.060 When I told you

04:06:49.440 that she speak too much,

04:06:50.620 I already know 0.87

04:06:51.140 that she's a drunk.

04:06:52.060 And I like,

04:06:52.840 see that you don't see it.

04:06:53.780 It was a long time ago.

04:06:54.760 And she become more and more

04:06:56.140 and you accept this

04:06:56.920 and you listen 1.00

04:06:57.340 to all this bullshit. 1.00

04:06:58.360 I never say like this. 1.00

04:06:59.400 She was fine a few hours ago

04:07:00.920 and she was having a conversation.

04:07:02.140 You were just upset

04:07:03.000 because you weren't

04:07:03.720 getting attention.

04:07:04.100 I was not upset.

04:07:04.800 I was upset

04:07:05.100 because she's screaming 0.95

04:07:05.880 all the time

04:07:06.400 and she's interrupting 0.99

04:07:06.980 every time.

04:07:07.980 She was talking a lot

04:07:09.580 but now she's drunk.

04:07:10.220 When we come here,

04:07:11.240 you say the most truth

04:07:12.300 is respect each other

04:07:13.360 and speak one by one.

04:07:14.600 But she always screams.

04:07:15.600 She always interrupts.

04:07:16.540 So you even forget

04:07:17.520 three of us

04:07:18.320 ask the question.

04:07:19.200 You was concentrated

04:07:20.020 and she interrupted.

04:07:21.060 Look, listen, listen.

04:07:22.020 It's a seven hour podcast

04:07:23.020 so sometimes

04:07:23.760 these things happen.

04:07:24.860 We're going to be

04:07:25.380 focused on one person

04:07:26.320 for a little while.

04:07:27.280 You weren't upset

04:07:28.080 because she was drunk.

04:07:28.680 She wasn't drunk

04:07:29.220 at the start of the show

04:07:29.900 and now she is drunk

04:07:31.260 because she's had

04:07:32.060 more and more to drink.

04:07:33.340 She already did the time

04:07:34.340 start to be...

04:07:34.940 Are we going to move

04:07:35.520 on to the next question?

04:07:36.380 I see this.

04:07:37.300 We could go

04:07:37.700 to get her one more

04:07:38.520 again.

04:07:39.120 All right.

04:07:39.360 All right.

04:07:39.460 Okay.

04:07:39.960 She was providing

04:07:40.880 entertainment

04:07:41.440 because you're

04:07:42.600 so interested

04:07:43.920 in moving on.

04:07:45.420 Why don't you

04:07:45.980 move on the conversation?

04:07:46.860 Well, you guys

04:07:47.220 had a question.

04:07:47.580 Why don't you

04:07:47.960 move on the conversation?

04:07:48.820 You guys stop the question

04:07:49.180 at her.

04:07:49.620 I never got to answer it.

04:07:50.440 I don't remember

04:07:50.860 what the question was.

04:07:51.740 You move on

04:07:52.260 because you want

04:07:53.400 to move on.

04:07:53.900 You move on the conversation.

04:07:55.160 We'll just talk about

04:07:55.340 the girl that just got 0.62

04:07:56.000 kicked out because she was drunk.

04:07:57.300 Well, why don't you

04:07:57.820 move on the conversation

04:07:58.560 if you're so keen to?

04:07:59.900 There was a question

04:08:00.220 you guys were asking.

04:08:00.280 Say something interesting.

04:08:01.020 May I?

04:08:02.280 Go ahead.

04:08:03.000 I'm currently in the

04:08:03.780 running to be in

04:08:04.440 Sierra's music video

04:08:05.300 so if you click my link

04:08:06.480 in my bio on Instagram

04:08:07.640 Lexi Y Fuentes 0.93

04:08:09.160 L-E-X-I 0.74

04:08:10.880 Yeah.

04:08:19.060 Anyways.

04:08:19.740 Yep.

04:08:21.140 Yeah.

04:08:21.580 These girls just came 1.00

04:08:22.460 on to troll pretty much.

04:08:23.800 Yeah.

04:08:24.240 I'm convinced this one

04:08:25.200 next to me is a plant.

04:08:26.600 Some sort of a plant. 0.77

04:08:27.520 Just came on to troll.

04:08:29.000 They like probably 1.00

04:08:29.600 planned all that shit. 1.00

04:08:31.600 So, it's what it is. 1.00

04:08:33.100 I plan business plans.

04:08:34.600 You defend the drunk.

04:08:35.700 You leave with the drunk.

04:08:38.000 It is what it is.

04:08:38.940 I feel like two people

04:08:39.540 can be wrong at once.

04:08:41.160 I feel like everybody

04:08:42.400 can have a little bit.

04:08:43.860 They were definitely

04:08:44.380 capitalizing.

04:08:45.360 She would definitely

04:08:45.800 take it too far.

04:08:46.820 Listen, I've paid

04:08:48.360 thousands to be here.

04:08:49.700 I've got no interest

04:08:51.020 whatsoever.

04:08:52.100 I've got no interest

04:08:52.960 whatsoever in the show

04:08:54.060 being derailed.

04:08:54.660 I would much rather

04:08:55.580 have a smooth running show

04:08:56.660 where everybody gets

04:08:57.760 to talk and when you

04:08:58.460 talk about interesting

04:08:59.080 things rather than 1.00

04:08:59.800 having one idiot 1.00

04:09:00.540 who comes on and 1.00

04:09:01.360 derails the whole thing.

04:09:02.300 That's the worst thing

04:09:03.060 that can possibly happen.

04:09:03.740 I think we should talk

04:09:04.240 about people that

04:09:04.760 aren't even here.

04:09:05.240 Okay.

04:09:05.900 I just thought we were

04:09:06.940 cliff farming.

04:09:07.700 That's what I thought we was.

04:09:08.700 I thought this was cliff farming.

04:09:09.700 I thought this.

04:09:10.840 Well, like, why accept so long?

04:09:12.340 She has the opinion

04:09:13.480 that she was doing it for ages

04:09:15.220 and that we accepted it

04:09:16.020 and that when she said before

04:09:17.160 that she was speaking too much.

04:09:18.600 Look, I mean, 0.85

04:09:19.140 we should have kicked her sooner, 1.00

04:09:20.320 but, I mean,

04:09:23.140 that's where I went wrong. 0.88

04:09:24.380 I should have kicked her sooner. 1.00

04:09:26.520 Probably 30 minutes ago

04:09:27.620 and an hour ago.

04:09:28.260 Yeah, for sure.

04:09:28.700 I mean, but I made steps.

04:09:29.900 I tried to do steps like,

04:09:31.060 hey, you're drinking.

04:09:33.080 Maybe lay off the drinking. 1.00

04:09:34.260 She's like, fuck that. 1.00

04:09:35.160 It is what it is. 1.00

04:09:35.960 Um, so, and then she was, 0.85

04:09:39.680 by the way, guys,

04:09:40.220 I don't know if you could hear

04:09:40.840 what was going on back there

04:09:41.720 while there's convo here.

04:09:43.080 She was like refusing to leave.

04:09:45.560 Refusing, refusing.

04:09:46.600 Finally, she did leave though.

04:09:48.220 But it's like, and then at,

04:09:49.700 oh, here's the,

04:09:50.240 here's the kicker guys.

04:09:51.700 As she was leaving,

04:09:52.680 she said, I did nothing wrong.

04:09:55.200 She's on the phone crying with somebody.

04:09:56.960 I did nothing wrong.

04:09:58.800 Zero accountability.

04:09:59.240 None of us got to witness that.

04:10:01.640 What the security cameras did.

04:10:03.440 Zero accountability.

04:10:04.920 Zero accountability.

04:10:05.960 And this is why women 1.00

04:10:06.960 dodge accountability

04:10:07.720 because y'all,

04:10:09.000 you want to play the,

04:10:10.200 well, everybody contributed

04:10:11.300 to the situation.

04:10:12.060 You think somehow

04:10:13.320 we're the ones in the wrong.

04:10:14.460 Like, yeah,

04:10:15.480 we're having disagreements here.

04:10:17.120 That's generalization though.

04:10:18.980 You know,

04:10:19.580 not every woman

04:10:20.880 has no accountability.

04:10:22.420 Yeah, but here's the thing.

04:10:23.400 You guys don't hold

04:10:24.320 each other accountable.

04:10:25.620 These are her friends.

04:10:26.860 They won't,

04:10:27.340 they're co-signing her behavior.

04:10:29.100 They think that's totally

04:10:30.120 acceptable to be acting

04:10:31.980 that way on the podcast.

04:10:33.180 They never said that.

04:10:33.800 But you run the show.

04:10:34.760 They're 100% co-signing.

04:10:36.220 You're putting words

04:10:37.300 in other people's.

04:10:38.100 Before.

04:10:39.900 I was frustrated

04:10:40.840 that she wasn't answering

04:10:41.740 the question directly.

04:10:42.740 I felt like everybody

04:10:43.280 was kind of skating around

04:10:44.220 some of the questions.

04:10:45.000 That was frustrating.

04:10:45.840 Yes.

04:10:46.080 But I thought we were

04:10:48.640 clip farming at certain points

04:10:50.060 because y'all were kind

04:10:50.740 of egging her on

04:10:51.500 at certain points.

04:10:52.320 And would not stop

04:10:53.080 for the last 20,

04:10:54.320 30 minutes.

04:10:54.900 Hold on.

04:10:55.380 She was taking it too far.

04:10:57.320 Look.

04:10:57.960 I would prefer,

04:11:00.460 like,

04:11:00.760 you could say it's clip farming.

04:11:02.220 I would prefer

04:11:03.260 a more chill show

04:11:04.400 where we're just

04:11:05.320 having the conversation

04:11:06.280 and we don't have

04:11:07.060 to get into this,

04:11:07.880 like,

04:11:08.600 we start having

04:11:09.800 conversations

04:11:10.640 about the conversation.

04:11:12.800 That's what's called

04:11:13.260 a meta conversation.

04:11:14.500 You're having a conversation

04:11:15.440 about the conversation.

04:11:16.660 Oh,

04:11:17.020 you said,

04:11:17.840 like,

04:11:18.300 getting upset

04:11:18.900 about the tone

04:11:19.700 or what somebody's saying.

04:11:21.120 I don't think

04:11:21.620 that's good content.

04:11:23.040 I don't think,

04:11:23.340 if it was good content,

04:11:24.980 I would have let her stay. 1.00

04:11:26.220 Is she in the fucking hallway? 1.00

04:11:27.440 Fucking, 1.00

04:11:28.840 I think I hear her. 1.00

04:11:29.620 God damn, bro. 1.00

04:11:30.160 She's got to leave the building. 1.00

04:11:31.140 Like,

04:11:31.240 she's trust us.

04:11:31.960 Just having a spaz out

04:11:33.040 like that,

04:11:33.440 there's nothing.

04:11:33.860 But if it's a conversation,

04:11:34.780 just say,

04:11:35.080 for example,

04:11:35.420 there was a conversation

04:11:36.220 about something really,

04:11:36.980 like,

04:11:37.140 hot,

04:11:37.420 like abortion,

04:11:38.260 like a really interesting topic

04:11:39.700 and there was a debate

04:11:40.820 and then the person rage quit.

04:11:42.240 That would be kind of interesting

04:11:43.440 in terms of clip farming.

04:11:44.580 But if someone's just being 1.00

04:11:45.500 a drunk idiot, 1.00

04:11:46.660 like, 1.00

04:11:47.080 people are leaving the chat,

04:11:48.140 you know?

04:11:48.780 Like,

04:11:49.000 yeah.

04:11:49.520 And that makes sense,

04:11:50.280 I guess.

04:11:51.420 Yeah.

04:11:52.080 All right.

04:11:52.900 We have a messenger.

04:11:55.260 Her Uber home

04:11:56.120 donated $200.

04:11:58.500 Here's for her Uber home 0.99

04:11:59.760 for her drinking.

04:12:01.200 However,

04:12:01.880 her lens is very clouded

04:12:03.400 from her perception

04:12:04.320 of privilege.

04:12:05.500 It's apparent.

04:12:07.020 The Argonauts

04:12:07.960 by Maggie Nelson.

04:12:09.520 She needs a wider world lens. 1.00

04:12:13.920 All right.

04:12:14.600 Uber home.

04:12:15.180 Thank you, man.

04:12:15.660 Jake, I got his...

04:12:16.560 Yeah, go for it.

04:12:17.160 There you go.

04:12:17.620 For a second.

04:12:18.300 But yeah,

04:12:18.720 having done this podcast

04:12:19.800 many times,

04:12:20.460 I think it's like

04:12:20.960 my 14th time or something

04:12:22.180 done this,

04:12:23.400 we actually don't want

04:12:24.580 situations like that

04:12:25.580 because it actually

04:12:26.180 derails the whole show.

04:12:27.120 Brian's got a whole bunch

04:12:28.020 of notes that he wants

04:12:29.840 to go through

04:12:30.420 and topics that he wants

04:12:31.320 to go through

04:12:31.880 and now it's just like

04:12:32.820 completely derailed.

04:12:34.160 And obviously,

04:12:34.720 look at the energy

04:12:36.600 in the room now.

04:12:37.240 It completely sours it.

04:12:38.840 So do you guys

04:12:39.920 not like care

04:12:40.840 that your friend

04:12:41.260 just did that?

04:12:43.200 She gets a little bit

04:12:44.900 over the top sometimes

04:12:46.540 but if,

04:12:47.520 I mean,

04:12:47.920 I was letting her

04:12:48.620 do her thing

04:12:49.320 if I'm not consenting

04:12:51.420 to yelling

04:12:52.040 but I do feel like

04:12:53.480 she was voicing

04:12:54.120 her opinion

04:12:54.740 and that was

04:12:56.140 creating conflict

04:12:57.280 because of the way

04:12:59.560 she was doing it.

04:13:00.800 But serious question though,

04:13:01.720 was there at any point

04:13:03.040 where you're thinking

04:13:03.520 to yourself,

04:13:04.480 my friend might be 0.99

04:13:05.720 making a bit of a fool 0.91

04:13:06.400 of herself right now, 0.99

04:13:07.700 I should probably stop her. 0.93

04:13:09.440 I agree that the screaming

04:13:10.740 was too much.

04:13:12.660 What about like,

04:13:13.180 keep on saying the N-word 1.00

04:13:14.520 and keep on calling people names

04:13:16.840 and like,

04:13:17.360 I mean,

04:13:17.680 that's something that's

04:13:18.480 in her vocab

04:13:20.360 so if she slips it,

04:13:21.780 it's really just

04:13:23.320 the fact that

04:13:24.580 you guys didn't like

04:13:25.680 the way she's saying

04:13:26.800 her opinion.

04:13:27.860 so I understand

04:13:30.520 that in a sense.

04:13:31.780 Everyone's their own person.

04:13:33.860 So what about

04:13:34.560 if someone's getting

04:13:35.160 naked right now

04:13:35.980 and just like

04:13:36.440 flashing themselves

04:13:37.080 to the camera,

04:13:37.560 would that be wrong?

04:13:39.280 We signed a contract.

04:13:40.800 Yeah,

04:13:41.020 but if they were doing that

04:13:42.280 and they just said

04:13:42.860 it's just my way

04:13:43.780 of expressing myself,

04:13:44.860 would that be wrong?

04:13:47.060 You signed a contract.

04:13:49.980 Okay,

04:13:50.400 what about if somebody

04:13:51.020 was just egregiously

04:13:52.200 and gratuitously

04:13:53.540 insulting everybody

04:13:54.940 at the table?

04:13:55.460 Would that be wrong?

04:13:58.020 Yes,

04:13:58.360 but that was not the case.

04:13:59.540 Yeah,

04:13:59.700 but I'm asking you

04:14:00.560 a hypothetical questions

04:14:01.700 which is often

04:14:03.080 not the case.

04:14:03.780 Would that be wrong?

04:14:06.560 No comment.

04:14:08.560 No comment.

04:14:09.580 Okay.

04:14:10.380 I thought him

04:14:11.340 calling her 1.00

04:14:11.980 him a dickhead 1.00

04:14:12.800 and everything like that, 1.00

04:14:13.740 I thought you guys

04:14:14.800 were kind of okay with it

04:14:16.400 but now that I know

04:14:17.220 that y'all rather

04:14:18.480 have it be chill,

04:14:19.700 like she should have

04:14:20.380 been chill.

04:14:20.800 I thought that was like

04:14:21.720 she was doing that

04:14:23.220 on purpose like

04:14:24.080 but she was really tweaking

04:14:25.520 for real.

04:14:26.560 Like that's crazy.

04:14:27.520 I thought she was like 0.98

04:14:28.360 it was a part of the show 0.99

04:14:30.060 type shit but like no, 0.98

04:14:32.160 not a, 0.99

04:14:32.740 she shouldn't have

04:14:33.940 been doing all that.

04:14:34.920 Ain't gonna lie.

04:14:35.740 Especially towards the end

04:14:36.800 because we wasn't even,

04:14:37.580 she just started talking

04:14:38.220 about how y'all

04:14:38.760 was saying she was drunk

04:14:39.840 instead of like

04:14:41.240 we could have just

04:14:41.840 moved on to the next question

04:14:43.280 and she started going.

04:14:44.020 But you could agree

04:14:44.500 that she'd still be

04:14:45.260 screaming into the mic

04:14:46.000 and still be interrupting

04:14:46.740 people,

04:14:47.160 cutting people off, 0.51

04:14:47.820 all that sort of thing.

04:14:48.620 Yeah,

04:14:49.140 that was,

04:14:50.060 I don't know.

04:14:50.880 She's gone

04:14:51.280 and we're still talking

04:14:52.080 about it.

04:14:52.460 Right,

04:14:52.900 like,

04:14:53.400 so we get on.

04:14:54.760 So why don't you

04:14:55.360 move on the conversation

04:14:56.020 then?

04:14:57.900 What was the question

04:14:58.720 that we were on?

04:14:59.660 I don't know,

04:15:00.080 I can't remember.

04:15:00.680 We had a whole thing.

04:15:01.840 You're in charge of the show.

04:15:02.700 No,

04:15:02.920 I'm not in charge of the show.

04:15:03.820 I'm a guest as well

04:15:04.340 so why don't you move

04:15:04.820 the conversation on

04:15:05.500 if you're so keen to do it.

04:15:06.820 I'll wait until you guys

04:15:07.700 ask a question

04:15:08.340 other than about the conversation.

04:15:09.400 Okay,

04:15:09.680 so then if you've got

04:15:10.200 nothing interesting to say

04:15:11.180 then probably don't judge.

04:15:12.260 Okay,

04:15:12.280 because it's way more

04:15:12.780 interesting to talk about

04:15:13.660 someone that's not even here.

04:15:14.520 Okay,

04:15:14.800 well say something interesting

04:15:16.440 then if you're so keen

04:15:18.100 to move the conversation on.

04:15:19.240 We're waiting.

04:15:20.040 Let's continue to talk

04:15:20.860 about someone that can't even

04:15:21.820 defend themselves.

04:15:21.860 Funny,

04:15:22.140 that wasn't all that interesting.

04:15:23.860 I just don't have anything

04:15:24.560 to add to that.

04:15:25.680 Yeah,

04:15:25.960 of course you don't.

04:15:26.960 I mean,

04:15:27.300 but she's still here though.

04:15:28.420 She's still getting kicked out. 1.00

04:15:29.500 She's screaming in the hallway 0.74

04:15:31.520 and Brian can't even come

04:15:32.940 and host his own show

04:15:34.180 because of it.

04:15:34.640 So what is the relationship

04:15:35.580 between her and Brian?

04:15:37.000 Why does he defend her so much?

04:15:38.280 Why does he fall off

04:15:38.980 to bring her back?

04:15:40.420 They're dating.

04:15:40.940 It's toxic,

04:15:41.420 isn't it?

04:15:41.900 I see.

04:15:42.440 Is there something wrong?

04:15:43.240 Definitely.

04:15:44.120 She was here five times.

04:15:45.260 She's done this five times.

04:15:46.500 She told him whatever she want

04:15:48.020 and he didn't stop her anyway.

04:15:49.840 I say only one time

04:15:51.120 why she speak too much 0.98

04:15:52.300 and he scream on me.

04:15:53.760 So there is definitely

04:15:54.460 something between them,

04:15:55.540 isn't it?

04:15:55.900 No,

04:15:56.240 there's nothing going on

04:15:57.000 between Brian and that girl.

04:15:58.600 I think knowing Brian

04:16:00.260 and his type,

04:16:01.960 it's probably the last woman 0.99

04:16:04.080 on earth

04:16:04.580 that he'd probably go for.

04:16:06.140 I honestly barely started

04:16:07.220 coming around her.

04:16:08.900 You started what?

04:16:09.860 I honestly barely started

04:16:11.180 coming around her.

04:16:12.080 What does that mean?

04:16:13.540 I haven't been her friend

04:16:14.680 for too long.

04:16:16.500 That's good.

04:16:17.080 That's good.

04:16:17.580 Are you going to be her friend

04:16:18.180 for much longer?

04:16:19.520 No comment.

04:16:21.800 It's like a police interview.

04:16:23.580 Why do you keep saying

04:16:24.160 no comment?

04:16:26.520 I've never seen,

04:16:27.080 like I'm not sure

04:16:27.520 if you're serious.

04:16:28.060 Are you actually like this?

04:16:29.260 Yeah,

04:16:29.520 I'm being serious.

04:16:29.900 This is your personality?

04:16:30.920 Is she being normal right now?

04:16:33.100 Yeah.

04:16:33.400 How long have you guys

04:16:33.960 been friends for?

04:16:36.020 A long time.

04:16:37.400 Really?

04:16:37.720 How long?

04:16:39.380 Like high school.

04:16:40.620 Really?

04:16:41.800 Is she this deadpan

04:16:42.700 all the time? 1.00

04:16:43.160 Damn. 1.00

04:16:46.820 Did you guys 1.00

04:16:47.360 just hear banging?

04:16:48.520 What?

04:16:49.060 Did you guys just hear

04:16:49.920 banging out there?

04:16:50.720 I don't know.

04:16:52.580 Yeah.

04:16:54.440 We could have

04:16:55.020 gave her one more chance.

04:16:56.860 We could have been like,

04:16:57.740 okay,

04:16:58.120 let's stop this.

04:16:58.820 Let's speak about

04:16:59.420 something funny.

04:17:00.940 I actually come here,

04:17:02.380 I wanted to have

04:17:03.100 some funny topic,

04:17:04.120 but you ready?

04:17:04.840 We could have been like,

04:17:05.500 okay,

04:17:05.680 right now,

04:17:06.160 if you don't be quiet,

04:17:07.040 we're going to move on.

04:17:07.760 If you don't be quiet,

04:17:08.400 we're going to kick you off. 0.98

04:17:09.280 We could have hit her with that, 1.00

04:17:10.360 and then she kept going,

04:17:11.620 Dan kicked her off.

04:17:13.920 Because I thought,

04:17:14.740 I thought it was part of,

04:17:16.580 you know,

04:17:16.940 y'all was aching her on too,

04:17:18.220 so I'm like,

04:17:19.260 I'm thinking we was making

04:17:20.240 some viral moments,

04:17:21.760 so you know what I'm saying?

04:17:23.500 Like,

04:17:23.740 I feel like we should have

04:17:24.380 gave her one more chance.

04:17:27.800 All good? 1.00

04:17:29.360 She's fucking 1.00

04:17:30.000 crying in the hallway, 1.00

04:17:32.300 fucking freaking out. 1.00

04:17:34.940 Damn. 1.00

04:17:37.820 Oh, 1.00

04:17:38.300 poor baby.

04:17:38.780 Hey,

04:17:41.620 Brian,

04:17:42.260 can I,

04:17:43.180 can I go through

04:17:43.740 your show notes?

04:17:49.420 Okay.

04:17:51.000 I don't know.

04:17:51.860 What's an interesting topic

04:17:52.820 to talk about?

04:17:53.960 Why don't you guys

04:17:54.580 all name 10 countries?

04:17:55.580 Go,

04:17:55.760 you start.

04:17:59.280 United States.

04:18:01.700 Repeat that.

04:18:02.220 Okay,

04:18:02.360 we're going to keep going.

04:18:03.060 We're just going to keep going

04:18:03.840 around until someone fails.

04:18:04.700 You have to name a country.

04:18:05.420 Go.

04:18:06.040 Name what?

04:18:06.720 United States,

04:18:07.420 a country.

04:18:08.340 Any country?

04:18:09.220 Yeah.

04:18:10.760 Canada.

04:18:11.920 Ukraine.

04:18:13.820 Australia.

04:18:16.100 Alaska?

04:18:17.280 Alaska is the country.

04:18:18.740 I am reviewing

04:18:19.960 my world history right now.

04:18:21.200 This is why I'm in school.

04:18:22.500 Okay.

04:18:22.960 Why are you reviewing

04:18:23.900 your world history?

04:18:24.700 Because I went through

04:18:25.260 a lot of trauma,

04:18:26.020 so it kind of,

04:18:27.020 like,

04:18:28.120 got blocked out,

04:18:29.020 but it's coming back.

04:18:31.000 In what sense?

04:18:32.060 Do you mean,

04:18:32.420 like,

04:18:32.560 when you were a kid?

04:18:34.100 Like,

04:18:34.380 you didn't,

04:18:34.680 you weren't able

04:18:35.260 to do history or?

04:18:36.260 No,

04:18:36.520 I was a good student

04:18:37.580 when I was a kid.

04:18:38.440 It's just more like

04:18:39.240 my teenage years,

04:18:40.760 kind of like,

04:18:41.520 young adult,

04:18:42.160 I went through

04:18:42.500 a lot of trauma.

04:18:43.560 Right.

04:18:44.000 So what,

04:18:44.340 like,

04:18:44.560 blocked memories or?

04:18:46.100 Yeah,

04:18:46.460 but they're coming back shortly.

04:18:48.200 Can you,

04:18:48.520 sorry,

04:18:48.740 can you explain to me

04:18:49.300 how that works?

04:18:49.740 I'm not really sure.

04:18:50.560 Like,

04:18:50.800 so you went through a trauma

04:18:51.840 and then it made you

04:18:52.840 lose memories?

04:18:53.600 Was it like a head trauma?

04:18:56.260 More so.

04:18:57.360 Really?

04:18:57.820 Mm-hmm.

04:18:58.220 As if,

04:18:58.520 was it like blunt force

04:18:59.300 to the head

04:18:59.700 or you hit your head

04:19:00.400 or something?

04:19:00.900 Or was it like

04:19:01.800 someone did something

04:19:02.800 to you bad?

04:19:03.680 Yeah.

04:19:04.520 Right.

04:19:05.240 But which one was it?

04:19:08.260 Someone did something

04:19:09.020 bad to me.

04:19:10.020 Right.

04:19:10.340 So it wasn't an actual,

04:19:11.300 like a physical hit

04:19:12.140 to the head

04:19:12.500 that made you lose memories?

04:19:14.720 It was,

04:19:15.560 but not by myself

04:19:17.280 intentionally.

04:19:18.060 It was from someone else.

04:19:20.160 Interesting.

04:19:21.140 All right.

04:19:21.840 All right.

04:19:24.220 Carry on countries.

04:19:25.300 Let's go.

04:19:27.020 Turkey.

04:19:28.500 Iran.

04:19:30.020 Spain.

04:19:31.800 Are you texting

04:19:32.640 on your phone?

04:19:34.340 I have to make sure

04:19:35.500 my friend is good.

04:19:36.560 I have to make sure

04:19:37.140 she has a ride.

04:19:38.160 So honestly,

04:19:39.940 yeah,

04:19:41.400 just.

04:19:42.040 I mean,

04:19:42.300 if you leave,

04:19:42.980 you have to leave

04:19:43.600 and you guys didn't

04:19:45.020 finish the podcast.

04:19:46.360 So,

04:19:47.160 yeah.

04:19:48.100 I hope she's okay.

04:19:54.160 She's not.

04:19:55.220 I didn't really see

04:19:56.020 Brian talk to a

04:19:57.000 silicone doll.

04:20:01.060 The comments is funny.

04:20:03.480 Okay,

04:20:04.020 so are you staying?

04:20:05.860 Do you have to leave?

04:20:07.620 I'm staying,

04:20:08.260 but I'm making sure

04:20:08.960 she has a ride home.

04:20:10.780 Okay.

04:20:11.200 She's like on the phone

04:20:12.320 with some dude

04:20:12.740 like freaking out.

04:20:13.960 Okay.

04:20:14.480 She should be good then.

04:20:15.680 Yeah,

04:20:15.860 she's probably good.

04:20:17.780 Ah,

04:20:18.220 bro.

04:20:26.600 I'm just curious.

04:20:27.440 Your friend,

04:20:28.740 you guys hang out

04:20:29.580 with her?

04:20:30.360 Oh,

04:20:30.560 yeah.

04:20:30.880 Does she ever get

04:20:31.540 into situations

04:20:32.480 like this

04:20:33.080 in other circumstances?

04:20:36.060 No.

04:20:37.100 No?

04:20:39.700 I don't hang out

04:20:40.460 with her too much.

04:20:41.920 Okay.

04:20:42.580 Distance yes,

04:20:43.440 though.

04:20:43.700 Jake made a really

04:20:47.340 good point.

04:20:47.920 Like,

04:20:48.060 internet's forever,

04:20:48.760 man.

04:20:49.160 Like,

04:20:49.860 you can come on

04:20:50.660 and like have

04:20:51.120 disagreements,

04:20:51.820 but when you act

04:20:52.460 like totally belligerent

04:20:53.540 like that,

04:20:54.460 it's not a good point.

04:20:55.340 That was a genuine

04:20:55.920 warning, 0.68

04:20:56.360 by the way,

04:20:57.240 you know,

04:20:57.520 what I was saying.

04:20:58.580 Yeah,

04:20:59.040 no,

04:20:59.360 I mean,

04:20:59.660 you were looking out

04:21:00.260 for her.

04:21:00.680 You're like,

04:21:01.080 yo,

04:21:01.380 like,

04:21:01.640 this isn't a good look.

04:21:03.180 Chill out.

04:21:03.940 And she's pretty much,

04:21:06.300 ah,

04:21:06.680 bro,

04:21:07.080 so frustrating.

04:21:09.940 Yeah,

04:21:10.360 man.

04:21:10.540 show notes,

04:21:15.600 I guess.

04:21:16.600 I guess we could do,

04:21:18.560 get into this.

04:21:20.440 I need to remove some people

04:21:21.800 from this.

04:21:22.380 So what's her name?

04:21:23.040 I think Ayana

04:21:26.360 is her name.

04:21:29.360 All right.

04:21:32.720 So,

04:21:34.220 Rebel,

04:21:34.820 what would you want

04:21:35.500 the minimum yearly income

04:21:36.460 to be for your future husband?

04:21:38.920 I put 100K down

04:21:40.660 on the questionnaire,

04:21:41.540 but in this economy,

04:21:43.000 it needs to be a little bit

04:21:43.520 more than that,

04:21:44.020 150.

04:21:45.000 150?

04:21:45.640 150,

04:21:46.200 so 100K is poor.

04:21:48.200 Money doesn't matter to me.

04:21:51.440 Okay.

04:21:53.040 So you'll date a guy

04:21:54.080 who works at McDonald's?

04:21:56.160 If he's kind

04:21:57.440 and,

04:21:57.920 and loyal

04:21:59.960 and lovely

04:22:01.200 to me,

04:22:02.040 yes.

04:22:04.400 I have my own money.

04:22:07.560 Period.

04:22:08.620 Okay.

04:22:10.640 I don't know

04:22:11.680 how to account yearly,

04:22:12.880 but I say,

04:22:13.460 like,

04:22:13.680 if he earn,

04:22:14.360 like me,

04:22:14.980 or more than me,

04:22:15.800 it's okay.

04:22:16.820 Mm-hmm.

04:22:19.300 I don't care.

04:22:21.500 You'll date a guy 0.91

04:22:22.260 who works at McDonald's?

04:22:24.000 Probably not,

04:22:24.880 but I'm not necessarily

04:22:25.980 counting their pockets.

04:22:26.940 I want someone

04:22:27.680 that's vision-driven,

04:22:28.660 not necessarily

04:22:29.200 working a nine-to-five.

04:22:31.620 Mm.

04:22:32.840 Wait.

04:22:34.040 Who's Natalie?

04:22:38.320 Oh,

04:22:38.880 okay.

04:22:40.800 Over that.

04:22:42.120 Okay.

04:22:43.160 What about you?

04:22:43.800 I would say

04:22:45.940 definitely making

04:22:46.900 more than me.

04:22:49.000 It doesn't matter

04:22:50.520 too much on the number,

04:22:51.880 but,

04:22:53.160 sure.

04:22:54.200 You said

04:22:54.860 six figures here.

04:22:56.640 That's more than me.

04:22:58.680 Okay.

04:23:02.860 What about you?

04:23:04.180 Money doesn't matter

04:23:04.940 to me either.

04:23:06.560 Right.

04:23:07.060 Okay.

04:23:07.480 The number doesn't matter.

04:23:08.640 It's just a little bit

04:23:09.380 more to me.

04:23:10.240 All right.

04:23:10.560 The number doesn't matter.

04:23:12.440 So you'll date a guy

04:23:13.220 who works at McDonald's?

04:23:14.580 All day,

04:23:15.180 any guy who is for me.

04:23:16.640 Who's what?

04:23:17.460 Who is for me.

04:23:18.700 For you?

04:23:19.200 Okay.

04:23:20.240 How tall are you

04:23:20.980 and what's the minimum

04:23:21.580 height of a man

04:23:22.240 that you would date?

04:23:23.440 Starting with you,

04:23:24.260 Rebel? 0.58

04:23:24.400 5'5".

04:23:25.520 Just gotta be

04:23:26.160 just a little bit

04:23:27.020 over me,

04:23:27.580 like an inch.

04:23:28.640 Well,

04:23:28.820 I would say 5'7",

04:23:29.720 because if I put on

04:23:30.740 a little inch,

04:23:32.360 you know,

04:23:32.660 5'7",

04:23:33.080 that's it.

04:23:33.660 I don't really care

04:23:34.400 about him being

04:23:34.780 super tall.

04:23:37.580 Okay.

04:23:38.100 What about you?

04:23:41.380 Yeah,

04:23:41.940 I don't have

04:23:43.080 like a minimum.

04:23:44.740 Like,

04:23:44.840 it's really like

04:23:45.940 if the guy's kind

04:23:47.140 and has a nice personality,

04:23:49.600 you know,

04:23:50.500 but he can't be a midget.

04:23:51.940 I'm 5'6",

04:23:57.460 so I would like

04:23:58.120 that he will be

04:23:59.220 taller than me.

04:24:02.540 So,

04:24:03.040 like,

04:24:03.260 I think here

04:24:03.880 you wrote minimum

04:24:04.420 5'8"?

04:24:05.260 Yes.

04:24:05.940 Okay.

04:24:07.200 Kali? 0.69

04:24:08.080 Just taller than me.

04:24:08.960 I'm like 5'2",

04:24:09.620 5'3",

04:24:10.040 so.

04:24:10.960 Okay.

04:24:11.820 He could be 5'3 1⁄2".

04:24:12.780 Ava?

04:24:14.260 I'm 5'8",

04:24:15.220 so I would like

04:24:16.300 a taller man,

04:24:17.140 maybe like 6 foot.

04:24:18.500 I don't have a cutoff.

04:24:19.580 I'm not saying

04:24:20.020 if you're below that,

04:24:20.980 you're not

04:24:21.420 seeing me ever,

04:24:22.620 but definitely

04:24:23.700 I would like

04:24:24.800 to wear some heels

04:24:25.500 and still be shorter.

04:24:28.400 What about you?

04:24:29.700 I'm 5'3".

04:24:30.680 I would

04:24:31.540 probably say

04:24:33.580 my height

04:24:34.080 are taller.

04:24:35.900 Okay.

04:24:37.880 Let's see.

04:24:38.640 The question,

04:24:39.280 what dating preferences

04:24:40.060 standards do you have?

04:24:43.020 Wait.

04:24:44.060 I'm sorry.

04:24:44.740 Rebel,

04:24:44.920 you said no one

04:24:45.580 who is broke

04:24:46.380 or ugly

04:24:47.980 and ambition.

04:24:50.380 Yeah,

04:24:50.600 you have to have,

04:24:53.060 you don't necessarily

04:24:53.780 have to be rich,

04:24:54.840 but you have to be

04:24:55.600 something that you're chasing.

04:24:56.660 You have to be

04:24:57.200 as passionate

04:24:57.860 about something

04:24:58.620 as I am

04:24:59.240 because I'm chasing

04:25:00.080 my dreams full force.

04:25:01.900 Roxanna,

04:25:02.580 you say

04:25:03.100 funny,

04:25:03.760 generous,

04:25:04.240 loving,

04:25:05.300 and doesn't play games

04:25:06.440 and honest.

04:25:07.400 I'm a little confused though.

04:25:09.380 You said

04:25:10.060 income doesn't matter.

04:25:11.900 I suppose

04:25:12.340 there's other ways

04:25:12.920 to be generous,

04:25:13.760 but

04:25:13.840 is a man?

04:25:15.640 Yes,

04:25:16.060 generous with their time,

04:25:17.760 their attention.

04:25:18.720 Sure.

04:25:22.640 Elena.

04:25:23.440 Yes.

04:25:24.240 You said

04:25:24.580 you like

04:25:24.880 when a man

04:25:25.240 acts like a gentleman?

04:25:26.900 Yes.

04:25:27.600 Yes,

04:25:27.980 gentleman,

04:25:28.500 Lord.

04:25:29.920 Gentleman,

04:25:30.600 okay.

04:25:30.900 I know how to act

04:25:31.560 like a gentleman.

04:25:32.760 All right.

04:25:33.460 Callie,

04:25:34.180 you said

04:25:34.660 I date

04:25:35.800 based off

04:25:36.560 common interests,

04:25:37.560 morals,

04:25:37.860 and values.

04:25:38.760 Yeah.

04:25:39.540 Okay.

04:25:42.180 You said

04:25:42.920 be up to par.

04:25:43.900 What does that mean?

04:25:44.540 To elaborate

04:25:45.920 on up to par,

04:25:47.540 I would say

04:25:48.240 I would like you

04:25:49.800 to come with

04:25:50.560 foundation

04:25:52.040 and then be able

04:25:53.240 to grow that.

04:25:54.500 Don't just be

04:25:55.360 who you are

04:25:56.100 and be fine with it.

04:25:57.080 I want you to

04:25:57.880 improve.

04:25:59.300 Definitely have

04:26:00.060 motivation

04:26:02.280 and something

04:26:04.060 that drives you.

04:26:05.600 That drive

04:26:06.960 is very important.

04:26:08.260 Okay.

04:26:08.460 Okay.

04:26:09.740 Okay.

04:26:09.800 And then

04:26:14.840 you had

04:26:15.720 let's see here

04:26:16.900 mutual respect.

04:26:21.100 Okay.

04:26:22.160 Next question is

04:26:23.100 would you rather

04:26:23.480 cross paths

04:26:24.200 with a man

04:26:24.760 or a bear

04:26:25.280 in the forest?

04:26:26.060 Starting with you.

04:26:26.780 Go ahead.

04:26:26.940 Only just a man 0.96

04:26:27.840 because I felt like

04:26:28.360 I could take a man 0.99

04:26:30.240 like a bear.

04:26:31.620 I couldn't take

04:26:32.120 no man.

04:26:32.540 I couldn't take

04:26:33.780 no bear.

04:26:35.220 So,

04:26:35.760 a man.

04:26:36.340 Yeah.

04:26:36.960 We being logical.

04:26:39.800 but I ain't.

04:26:41.160 So,

04:26:41.440 man?

04:26:41.920 Yeah,

04:26:42.280 man.

04:26:42.660 What do you pick?

04:26:43.940 Well,

04:26:45.080 I mean,

04:26:45.520 depends how hungry I am.

04:26:46.860 Do I want to eat the bear

04:26:48.000 if I'm stranded

04:26:50.060 in the woods?

04:26:51.700 No.

04:26:53.260 I don't know.

04:26:54.200 I mean,

04:26:55.760 a bear,

04:26:57.340 I mean,

04:26:59.800 depends on the guy too.

04:27:01.580 Do I want to be

04:27:02.440 like around a guy

04:27:03.920 I don't like

04:27:04.660 and like is horrible

04:27:05.900 or a bear?

04:27:07.920 You know,

04:27:08.260 I would pick the bear.

04:27:08.860 But if I'm with a guy

04:27:10.260 that I like

04:27:11.420 and enjoy their company,

04:27:13.140 of course,

04:27:13.540 I'd be with the guy.

04:27:14.780 But the bear can eat you.

04:27:16.600 Yeah,

04:27:16.980 that's true.

04:27:17.640 Yeah.

04:27:18.640 I mean.

04:27:19.660 What about a random man?

04:27:20.960 A random man

04:27:21.700 and a random bear.

04:27:23.060 Yeah,

04:27:23.420 random man,

04:27:23.940 random bear.

04:27:24.560 Random bear.

04:27:25.000 That's a good way

04:27:25.460 to put it.

04:27:25.980 Random bear.

04:27:28.000 Oh man,

04:27:28.720 that's a dice.

04:27:29.420 You're so much

04:27:30.240 on the dice.

04:27:33.280 I mean,

04:27:36.380 yeah,

04:27:36.840 I guess a man.

04:27:37.860 Whatever.

04:27:38.780 Okay.

04:27:39.540 Men.

04:27:40.880 I wouldn't be in the forest,

04:27:42.160 but a man.

04:27:44.440 I put a bear

04:27:45.640 because actually

04:27:47.180 the question was

04:27:48.960 running into them.

04:27:49.960 Like,

04:27:50.240 what is the situation?

04:27:51.200 You would cross paths.

04:27:52.360 Oh yeah,

04:27:52.900 I could cross paths

04:27:53.740 with a bear,

04:27:54.500 but if I see like

04:27:55.480 a random man

04:27:56.280 in the forest,

04:27:57.040 why are you

04:27:57.500 in the middle

04:27:57.860 of the forest?

04:27:58.600 Like,

04:27:59.340 there's a red foot.

04:28:00.320 Why are you in the middle

04:28:00.340 of the forest?

04:28:00.940 Please come meet this.

04:28:01.920 I'm on a hike,

04:28:03.200 but he could be a killer. 0.79

04:28:04.820 He could be a murderer

04:28:05.620 and that's why

04:28:06.400 he's in the forest.

04:28:07.300 He could.

04:28:07.780 He could also be

04:28:08.720 on a hike

04:28:09.220 just like you.

04:28:10.280 And that bear

04:28:11.140 could just be chilling

04:28:11.960 eating berries

04:28:12.640 and I'll be on my way.

04:28:14.540 And if you like animals,

04:28:15.400 you know.

04:28:15.840 And then if it,

04:28:16.480 is it a black bear

04:28:17.220 or a brown bear

04:28:18.020 that matters?

04:28:18.500 Because if it's a black bear,

04:28:19.320 I chose the bear

04:28:19.980 because black bear

04:28:20.840 ain't really nothing. 0.91

04:28:22.100 Black attack, 1.00

04:28:23.000 brown lay down, 0.99

04:28:24.760 white goodnight.

04:28:25.740 I don't want to remember

04:28:26.640 any of that.

04:28:27.260 If it's a black bear,

04:28:30.060 I'm choosing the bear,

04:28:30.900 but anything done.

04:28:32.680 Okay.

04:28:34.760 What about you?

04:28:36.140 I said both.

04:28:37.100 I think it would be

04:28:38.060 a beautiful experience.

04:28:39.720 Wait,

04:28:40.000 sorry.

04:28:40.260 Go ahead.

04:28:40.700 Go ahead.

04:28:42.340 Yeah,

04:28:42.760 finish your.

04:28:45.020 I said both.

04:28:46.100 I think it would be

04:28:46.740 a beautiful experience.

04:28:49.320 Three way.

04:28:50.040 What would be

04:28:50.460 a beautiful experience?

04:28:51.540 What do you mean?

04:28:52.580 Well,

04:28:53.040 it was just

04:28:53.660 crossing paths

04:28:54.800 with whoever.

04:28:57.260 and

04:28:59.160 if you had to pick one,

04:29:01.940 though,

04:29:02.100 which do you pick?

04:29:09.760 Say it's the love of my life

04:29:11.040 and we're both on a hike

04:29:11.960 and we see each other.

04:29:13.700 It's a random man.

04:29:14.820 So all the men,

04:29:15.640 we'll just do United States.

04:29:16.900 All the men in the United States 0.98

04:29:18.400 versus all the bears

04:29:20.300 in the United States,

04:29:21.400 you randomly spawn

04:29:22.920 into the forest

04:29:23.620 and then you have a button

04:29:25.760 in front of you.

04:29:26.380 You can pick,

04:29:27.500 you press the button

04:29:28.060 to pick the men,

04:29:28.760 pick the button

04:29:29.100 to press the bear.

04:29:30.300 They'll spawn right there 0.97

04:29:31.460 and you'll walk past them.

04:29:32.940 Which do you pick?

04:29:36.880 A man.

04:29:37.700 I was a Girl Scout

04:29:38.560 so we could probably

04:29:39.620 just help each other.

04:29:41.740 All right.

04:29:42.460 There you go.

04:29:43.300 So you're the only one

04:29:44.160 that picked bear.

04:29:45.020 Why do you pick bear

04:29:45.720 and why don't you pick men? 1.00

04:29:47.340 I said bear

04:29:48.360 because that's his natural habitat.

04:29:50.280 If I see a bear,

04:29:50.980 I'm not going to think

04:29:51.540 anything of it.

04:29:52.340 If I'm in the woods

04:29:53.120 for some reason,

04:29:53.840 whatever that may be,

04:29:54.660 and I see a man,

04:29:55.760 I'm going to be

04:29:56.460 a little bit like,

04:29:57.580 I'll avoid you.

04:30:00.140 You're right

04:30:00.640 because what are you doing here?

04:30:02.480 Are you homeless?

04:30:03.320 Are you living in the woods? 0.99

04:30:04.500 Are you a murderer

04:30:05.880 burying your victims? 0.71

04:30:07.720 Like, we don't know.

04:30:09.220 Okay.

04:30:12.040 What if it's 10 men

04:30:13.900 versus 10 bears,

04:30:14.780 does your answer change?

04:30:15.600 Does this mean

04:30:18.120 we're like fighting

04:30:18.880 the men or bears?

04:30:20.360 I don't know.

04:30:21.760 It's a gang of bears.

04:30:26.500 Sheesh.

04:30:27.900 I guess the men.

04:30:29.460 I mean,

04:30:30.180 it's just,

04:30:31.100 I just didn't think

04:30:31.980 we were in combat mode.

04:30:33.160 I didn't know

04:30:33.540 we were about to square up.

04:30:35.400 I was just thinking,

04:30:36.260 like,

04:30:37.180 came across them.

04:30:38.680 Okay.

04:30:40.500 We're going to get

04:30:41.320 into the disagreement section

04:30:43.060 when it comes to this.

04:30:44.180 So, starting with Rebel over here.

04:30:46.820 Why don't we start,

04:30:47.560 normally we start from

04:30:48.420 down here

04:30:50.300 because it's more interesting.

04:30:51.780 But,

04:30:52.080 why not?

04:30:54.260 Men are not insecure.

04:30:55.820 So, here's the statement.

04:30:56.780 Men are not insecure

04:30:57.620 for caring about

04:30:58.240 a woman's body count. 0.99

04:30:59.560 You disagree.

04:31:00.700 Roxanna, you disagree.

04:31:02.300 Elena, who's up

04:31:03.520 at the moment,

04:31:04.260 disagrees.

04:31:05.880 Callie is fine with it.

04:31:08.300 Ava,

04:31:09.020 is it Ava or Ava?

04:31:10.200 Ava.

04:31:10.640 Ava is fine with it.

04:31:12.080 You're also fine with it.

04:31:13.060 So, for the three

04:31:15.100 that disagree,

04:31:16.440 you think men

04:31:17.680 are insecure

04:31:18.960 for caring about

04:31:19.580 a woman's body count. 0.99

04:31:20.420 Why is that?

04:31:21.160 Absolutely.

04:31:21.720 Because why do you care?

04:31:23.140 Why do you care

04:31:24.080 how many bodies they have?

04:31:25.520 It definitely comes

04:31:26.140 from some insecurity.

04:31:28.280 Like, why do you care?

04:31:29.240 So, you're curious why?

04:31:30.960 Yeah.

04:31:31.300 And because you're wondering why,

04:31:33.860 that's your justification.

04:31:35.460 What's your reasoning?

04:31:36.800 Like, do you,

04:31:37.340 if you care about

04:31:38.220 a woman's body count, 0.69

04:31:40.340 what,

04:31:40.740 reasoning from that,

04:31:41.680 it only comes from

04:31:42.280 a place of insecurity?

04:31:43.400 So,

04:31:44.000 only?

04:31:44.480 I would say only,

04:31:45.460 but mostly.

04:31:46.180 So, if it's provable

04:31:47.500 that women with a lower body count, 0.93

04:31:49.200 with less sexual partners,

04:31:51.280 proven to be better wives 0.98

04:31:53.580 and be much less likely

04:31:54.720 to divorce,

04:31:55.460 would that be a good reason?

04:31:57.620 That would be a good reason.

04:31:59.100 That would be a good reason.

04:32:00.100 But is that proven?

04:32:00.900 Is that statistics?

04:32:01.620 It is.

04:32:02.200 Yeah.

04:32:02.540 Yeah.

04:32:03.400 They've done,

04:32:04.080 they've done a lot of research

04:32:05.040 into this.

04:32:05.480 And also,

04:32:06.320 would you say that somebody

04:32:07.780 who has those sorts of boundaries

04:32:09.460 is more secure

04:32:11.200 or less secure?

04:32:14.980 Less secure.

04:32:16.380 I don't,

04:32:17.180 less secure

04:32:17.760 because a person's path

04:32:19.560 doesn't really matter

04:32:20.620 when it comes to

04:32:21.360 what they are going

04:32:22.660 to provide you.

04:32:23.960 Was she,

04:32:24.320 was that a scream?

04:32:25.760 Yeah,

04:32:26.040 that was her.

04:32:27.080 Oh,

04:32:27.800 okay.

04:32:29.120 All right.

04:32:29.620 I'm,

04:32:29.920 so,

04:32:30.260 so like,

04:32:30.860 just to be clear,

04:32:32.260 yeah,

04:32:32.520 that was her screaming. 0.99

04:32:34.840 I'm sorry.

04:32:36.280 So like,

04:32:38.140 you guys think

04:32:39.300 that that's

04:32:40.140 like normal,

04:32:41.840 healthy behavior

04:32:42.420 to just be screaming

04:32:43.440 out in public?

04:32:46.400 Anyways.

04:32:48.840 No comment.

04:32:49.740 Chat,

04:32:50.020 did you guys hear that too?

04:32:51.260 Play the fifth.

04:32:52.500 Play the fifth. 1.00

04:32:53.120 Holy shit, 1.00

04:32:54.280 dude. 1.00

04:32:55.260 Holy shit. 1.00

04:32:59.240 I need a cup. 0.99

04:33:00.540 Can I explain

04:33:01.160 why everybody

04:33:01.920 count?

04:33:02.340 Here,

04:33:02.560 we'll come to you.

04:33:03.340 We'll come to you,

04:33:03.980 but let's,

04:33:04.420 Roxanna,

04:33:05.220 we'll go,

04:33:05.660 we'll go in order.

04:33:07.120 You think men are insecure

04:33:08.220 for caring about

04:33:08.780 a woman's body count? 1.00

04:33:09.540 Why is that?

04:33:10.600 Because it shouldn't matter

04:33:11.740 if you really love

04:33:12.580 that person.

04:33:14.920 Okay.

04:33:16.380 So.

04:33:17.540 Wait,

04:33:18.260 well,

04:33:18.560 we'll let everybody go.

04:33:19.600 Okay,

04:33:19.800 go ahead.

04:33:20.720 So when God

04:33:21.600 create man and woman,

04:33:22.980 he create us

04:33:23.740 in different way.

04:33:25.100 So man responsible

04:33:26.120 for the quantity

04:33:27.480 of the children

04:33:28.660 in this world

04:33:29.680 and woman 0.93

04:33:30.840 is responsible

04:33:31.480 for the quality.

04:33:33.140 So because of this,

04:33:34.060 man would like 1.00

04:33:34.960 to fuck everyone around 1.00

04:33:36.260 because it's his, 1.00

04:33:37.800 God's desire

04:33:39.400 and woman should 1.00

04:33:40.640 pick the best one

04:33:42.100 to have the best

04:33:43.100 genes

04:33:43.940 for your baby.

04:33:45.080 but if woman

04:33:46.700 is not selective, 1.00

04:33:47.920 if she fucking around, 0.99

04:33:49.180 she cannot be 1.00

04:33:49.820 the good woman.

04:33:51.540 Okay.

04:33:52.420 Thank you.

04:33:54.320 So wait,

04:33:55.160 you're fine with men?

04:33:57.780 Like you're,

04:33:58.460 you think it's cool

04:33:59.080 if men

04:33:59.680 care about

04:34:01.320 the woman's body count? 0.62

04:34:03.160 I think everybody

04:34:04.500 doing this,

04:34:05.160 just somebody say

04:34:06.060 and somebody say 1.00

04:34:07.240 bullshit 1.00

04:34:07.660 just to 1.00

04:34:08.280 get the girl. 0.99

04:34:10.120 That's fine.

04:34:10.820 I think

04:34:11.580 maybe you just

04:34:13.240 circled it

04:34:13.880 incorrectly then.

04:34:14.520 Yeah,

04:34:14.860 because ask her

04:34:15.480 what does it mean?

04:34:16.080 She tell me

04:34:16.560 put the circle.

04:34:17.940 Sorry,

04:34:18.200 yes.

04:34:19.400 Okay,

04:34:19.940 that's great.

04:34:21.760 So you said

04:34:23.040 if you love the person

04:34:24.360 then

04:34:25.680 it doesn't matter,

04:34:28.460 right?

04:34:29.180 Yeah,

04:34:29.420 it doesn't matter.

04:34:29.820 what if,

04:34:30.120 so how long

04:34:30.780 does it

04:34:31.020 typically take

04:34:32.220 to fall in love

04:34:32.880 with somebody?

04:34:33.960 A couple months,

04:34:34.740 a year?

04:34:35.380 Oh,

04:34:35.800 depends how often

04:34:37.340 you see each other

04:34:38.080 of course

04:34:38.580 and then

04:34:39.100 I don't know.

04:34:42.260 Like,

04:34:42.620 I think it

04:34:43.240 varies between

04:34:44.320 each person,

04:34:45.240 you know,

04:34:45.500 man and woman.

04:34:47.100 For me personally,

04:34:48.560 like,

04:34:48.960 maybe like

04:34:50.000 a month,

04:34:50.760 two months,

04:34:51.620 you know,

04:34:52.200 maybe even

04:34:52.980 three months

04:34:53.820 before I fall in love.

04:34:55.000 Okay,

04:34:55.480 so let's say

04:34:56.260 you disclose

04:34:56.780 your body count

04:34:57.500 or a guy knows

04:34:58.260 your body count

04:34:58.820 on the first

04:34:59.340 or second date

04:34:59.960 before he's

04:35:00.400 falling in love

04:35:00.840 with you.

04:35:02.600 What would be wrong

04:35:03.500 with him disqualifying

04:35:04.400 a woman on that basis

04:35:05.360 because he's not

04:35:05.860 in love with her

04:35:06.320 so he does care about it?

04:35:08.120 Well,

04:35:08.440 if it's important

04:35:09.160 to him

04:35:09.760 then that's his thing.

04:35:11.260 Let him,

04:35:12.120 you know,

04:35:12.860 worry about that.

04:35:13.480 So you're just saying

04:35:14.220 if it's gotten

04:35:15.380 to the point

04:35:15.920 where you love each other

04:35:16.900 then he wouldn't

04:35:19.460 care about it.

04:35:20.300 He wouldn't care.

04:35:21.200 I mean,

04:35:21.400 my position would just be though

04:35:22.540 if he does care about it

04:35:23.700 he wouldn't let it

04:35:24.920 get to that position.

04:35:26.100 That's right.

04:35:26.800 If it's a pressing issue,

04:35:28.460 number one issue

04:35:29.700 and that's the first thing

04:35:31.260 he's like

04:35:31.940 and that's all

04:35:32.720 he cares about.

04:35:33.960 Well,

04:35:34.580 he's probably gonna have

04:35:35.620 a hard time

04:35:36.600 finding someone A

04:35:37.580 and B

04:35:38.480 it's like

04:35:39.460 he's not giving a chance

04:35:40.820 to a woman

04:35:42.260 that may be compatible

04:35:43.900 in every other category

04:35:45.500 that checks off

04:35:47.580 the box for him.

04:35:49.040 Okay.

04:35:49.780 I feel like as a man

04:35:50.840 if you have a low body count

04:35:52.080 and you want a woman

04:35:53.480 that has a low body count

04:35:54.260 that's a preference

04:35:54.880 but if you have

04:35:55.820 a high body count

04:35:56.620 and you actually care

04:35:57.620 you could be curious

04:35:58.340 and ask somebody

04:35:58.980 your body count

04:35:59.600 but if you actually care

04:36:00.900 like oh you have

04:36:01.640 too high a body count

04:36:02.480 and you have a high body count

04:36:03.480 it's security

04:36:04.980 it's judgment

04:36:05.840 that's how I feel

04:36:06.940 like you could be

04:36:08.060 a preference

04:36:08.520 like oh I'm

04:36:09.340 I'm in shape

04:36:10.680 so I want somebody

04:36:11.280 to be in shape

04:36:11.900 okay that's a preference

04:36:12.780 but you can't

04:36:13.640 be judgmental

04:36:14.860 when you have

04:36:15.500 a stick in your eye

04:36:17.020 as well.

04:36:17.700 But you just before

04:36:19.160 said that you want

04:36:19.860 somebody who earns

04:36:20.460 more than you. 0.96

04:36:22.220 Is that hypocritical?

04:36:23.480 I wouldn't say that though

04:36:26.640 because for me personally

04:36:28.420 I'm not looking

04:36:29.040 for somebody

04:36:29.420 to take care of me

04:36:30.280 either.

04:36:30.620 Yeah but you said

04:36:31.000 you want them

04:36:31.420 to earn more than you

04:36:32.200 that would mean

04:36:32.880 that they're

04:36:33.420 financially superior to you

04:36:35.000 that would 0.78

04:36:35.740 would that be hypocritical

04:36:36.820 because you don't earn

04:36:37.520 as much as them?

04:36:38.820 I guess.

04:36:39.740 And same with the height

04:36:40.640 you said you want

04:36:41.140 someone who's taller than you

04:36:42.000 would that make you 0.97

04:36:42.580 a hypocrite? 0.96

04:36:43.260 That's not making me 0.97

04:36:44.060 a hypocrite

04:36:44.560 that's just my preference. 0.99

04:36:46.140 Well I think that

04:36:46.680 I would agree with you

04:36:47.700 that it doesn't make you 0.98

04:36:48.560 a hypocrite 0.95

04:36:49.020 but I would also say 1.00

04:36:49.920 for a guy

04:36:50.460 who has a preference

04:36:51.340 despite even if he has

04:36:52.440 a higher body count

04:36:53.180 it's just a preference

04:36:54.300 it wouldn't

04:36:54.940 not necessarily

04:36:55.900 an insecurity.

04:36:58.100 I guess you could say that

04:36:59.300 I guess you could say that

04:37:00.160 I get that to you.

04:37:01.020 But I think what you

04:37:01.840 were saying before

04:37:02.440 about all the other things

04:37:03.920 it's actually not a bad point

04:37:05.460 like I can understand

04:37:06.260 that point of view

04:37:07.520 in terms of

04:37:08.340 that they might have

04:37:10.000 all of these other things

04:37:11.440 but it just depends

04:37:12.460 if the guy has a serious

04:37:13.740 preference for

04:37:14.480 like you know

04:37:15.980 a low body count

04:37:16.720 but you know

04:37:18.080 there are

04:37:18.720 good women out there 0.98

04:37:20.360 that have had

04:37:21.100 a past

04:37:22.060 and that have

04:37:22.540 sort of

04:37:22.860 come back around

04:37:23.720 that is possible

04:37:24.380 and they can't

04:37:26.000 if they are

04:37:27.160 in that situation

04:37:27.900 then there are

04:37:28.920 other things

04:37:29.400 that they can

04:37:29.740 obviously do

04:37:30.360 but if the guy

04:37:31.820 has a real preference

04:37:32.520 for it

04:37:32.780 then it's going

04:37:33.140 to be hard

04:37:33.940 to look past.

04:37:34.700 It's kind of

04:37:35.460 silly to write off

04:37:37.300 somebody 0.99

04:37:37.680 just based on

04:37:38.640 one issue.

04:37:40.260 Why?

04:37:40.460 Because

04:37:42.980 they could have

04:37:44.580 other qualities

04:37:45.720 about them

04:37:46.520 or

04:37:46.860 that might

04:37:48.380 compensate.

04:37:50.500 I mean

04:37:50.780 sure

04:37:51.220 but

04:37:51.520 I think women 1.00

04:37:52.820 are pickier

04:37:53.480 than men are 0.95

04:37:54.180 and you guys

04:37:55.060 will disqualify

04:37:55.860 men for all sorts

04:37:57.140 of reasons

04:37:57.680 and many of these

04:37:58.680 tend to be

04:37:59.180 fairly superficial

04:38:00.060 I mean

04:38:01.720 a lot of

04:38:03.440 I'm not saying

04:38:04.040 the women here 0.99

04:38:04.600 necessarily

04:38:05.140 but certain women 1.00

04:38:06.600 won't date a guy

04:38:07.580 because of his height

04:38:08.480 or maybe he's balding

04:38:09.780 or maybe there's

04:38:10.840 some characteristic

04:38:11.540 about him

04:38:12.080 that like

04:38:13.080 y'all disqualify 0.91

04:38:14.220 a lot of men

04:38:14.780 like most of the

04:38:15.420 men that hit on you

04:38:16.240 do you date

04:38:18.200 all of them?

04:38:20.480 No.

04:38:20.980 Like what percentage

04:38:21.640 of men that

04:38:22.240 shoot their shot

04:38:22.960 do you 1.00

04:38:23.920 like end up with?

04:38:27.000 I'm probably

04:38:27.960 like

04:38:28.480 not a good

04:38:29.520 like

04:38:30.020 Have you been

04:38:31.300 on a dating app?

04:38:32.100 No never.

04:38:33.160 Have you

04:38:33.640 I mean

04:38:34.680 you can think back

04:38:36.100 really at any point

04:38:36.960 in your life

04:38:37.580 maybe there were times

04:38:39.640 where

04:38:39.980 I mean

04:38:41.400 it sounds like

04:38:41.800 you got kids

04:38:42.340 maybe you're really

04:38:42.900 busy right now

04:38:43.440 maybe you're not

04:38:43.920 dating a whole bunch

04:38:44.600 but like

04:38:45.380 maybe when you're

04:38:46.000 younger

04:38:46.300 you're in college

04:38:47.160 and there was like

04:38:48.140 like all the guys

04:38:49.820 that were trying

04:38:50.180 to get at you

04:38:50.700 you gave them

04:38:51.620 all a chance?

04:38:53.240 No

04:38:53.460 I did not

04:38:54.280 no

04:38:55.060 Why not?

04:38:56.040 Because I already

04:38:57.120 knew right off the bat

04:38:58.300 that we're not

04:38:59.140 compatible

04:38:59.720 Oh but like

04:39:01.920 why

04:39:02.360 why are you basing

04:39:03.980 them just off

04:39:04.680 of compatibility

04:39:05.280 like why not

04:39:06.120 give them a chance?

04:39:07.200 Just by the way

04:39:08.540 how they carry

04:39:09.760 themselves

04:39:10.260 or how

04:39:10.940 how they would

04:39:12.720 ask me out

04:39:13.660 Like what would

04:39:14.460 be an example?

04:39:15.420 I don't know

04:39:16.220 like if somebody

04:39:17.580 was like

04:39:18.380 in a nightclub

04:39:19.200 and drinking

04:39:20.380 and stuff

04:39:21.280 he's drinking

04:39:22.220 I don't

04:39:22.740 I don't

04:39:23.680 that's a turn off

04:39:24.640 for me

04:39:24.960 I don't want to

04:39:25.900 I mean I

04:39:26.340 personally don't

04:39:27.480 like nightclubs

04:39:28.100 I'm not a drinker

04:39:28.820 but

04:39:29.080 if he's in the

04:39:30.840 you went out

04:39:31.800 and I mean

04:39:32.520 it's not weird

04:39:33.120 I used to work

04:39:33.840 in a nightclub

04:39:34.420 but yes

04:39:35.040 but I mean

04:39:35.760 it's

04:39:36.100 isn't that what

04:39:36.760 people do

04:39:37.080 at nightclubs

04:39:37.500 though

04:39:37.620 they drink

04:39:38.020 yeah

04:39:38.260 this is true

04:39:38.960 yes

04:39:39.280 but I mean

04:39:40.120 what I'm saying

04:39:41.220 is that

04:39:41.820 but what if

04:39:42.760 they have really

04:39:43.180 good other

04:39:43.560 characteristics

04:39:44.040 to make up

04:39:44.580 for it

04:39:44.940 make up

04:39:45.560 for their

04:39:45.780 drinking

04:39:46.120 well

04:39:48.060 I mean

04:39:48.780 there's also

04:39:52.080 chemistry

04:39:52.700 unspoken

04:39:53.380 chemistry

04:39:53.920 you know

04:39:55.160 that

04:39:55.420 you just

04:39:56.060 know

04:39:56.280 this is

04:39:57.340 not

04:39:57.620 going

04:39:57.800 what if

04:39:58.080 you don't

04:39:58.320 have that

04:39:58.680 immediately

04:39:59.120 well

04:40:01.160 I mean

04:40:01.440 I shouldn't

04:40:01.920 give a chance

04:40:02.580 to every

04:40:03.060 single guy

04:40:03.900 who like

04:40:04.440 like gives

04:40:05.400 me attention

04:40:05.980 or says

04:40:06.860 hi

04:40:07.300 or like

04:40:07.840 ask me

04:40:08.320 out on a

04:40:08.780 date

04:40:09.040 you know

04:40:10.140 time is

04:40:10.760 valuable

04:40:11.240 so I have

04:40:12.140 to weed

04:40:12.520 out

04:40:12.860 people

04:40:13.520 right

04:40:13.880 so when

04:40:14.960 I was

04:40:15.460 dating

04:40:15.940 way back

04:40:17.060 when

04:40:17.360 I would

04:40:19.960 just

04:40:20.360 see first

04:40:21.580 if we

04:40:22.260 would be

04:40:22.700 compatible

04:40:23.180 just as

04:40:23.780 friends

04:40:24.280 you know

04:40:25.880 try it out

04:40:26.540 as friends

04:40:27.100 and if I

04:40:27.840 like the

04:40:28.220 person

04:40:28.540 as a

04:40:28.880 friend

04:40:29.100 maybe

04:40:29.480 it can

04:40:29.780 develop

04:40:30.160 into

04:40:30.480 something

04:40:30.820 else

04:40:31.140 but I

04:40:31.680 mean

04:40:31.780 didn't you

04:40:32.040 just say

04:40:32.320 that you

04:40:32.620 can't

04:40:32.940 write off

04:40:33.380 somebody

04:40:33.740 off of

04:40:34.080 just one

04:40:34.480 thing

04:40:34.780 so like

04:40:35.460 failure to

04:40:36.680 get compatibility

04:40:37.340 is just

04:40:38.620 one thing

04:40:39.160 no see

04:40:40.600 the issue

04:40:41.700 is that

04:40:42.240 there's

04:40:42.760 one

04:40:43.440 issue

04:40:45.740 of

04:40:46.240 how many

04:40:46.980 people

04:40:47.540 did that

04:40:48.360 person sleep

04:40:49.100 with

04:40:49.400 or vice

04:40:50.140 versa

04:40:50.460 the girl

04:40:51.660 right

04:40:52.000 okay so

04:40:53.340 if you

04:40:53.580 base on

04:40:54.460 dating

04:40:55.460 somebody

04:40:55.880 just on

04:40:56.760 that

04:40:57.240 you're

04:40:58.260 really

04:40:58.620 like

04:40:59.080 shooting

04:40:59.840 in the

04:41:00.560 dark

04:41:00.940 you know

04:41:02.140 there are

04:41:03.080 other

04:41:03.520 qualities

04:41:04.400 it's not

04:41:05.640 insecurity

04:41:06.200 but it

04:41:06.640 might be

04:41:06.940 unrealistic

04:41:07.560 it might

04:41:08.880 not be

04:41:09.160 insecurity

04:41:09.580 but it's

04:41:09.900 unrealistic

04:41:10.440 to expect

04:41:11.080 like want

04:41:11.820 somebody with a

04:41:12.540 love body count

04:41:13.060 if you don't

04:41:13.580 have one

04:41:14.000 I mean

04:41:14.420 we have a

04:41:15.360 girl over

04:41:15.680 here who

04:41:16.760 took a

04:41:17.260 wager that

04:41:17.900 she's gonna

04:41:18.220 end up with

04:41:18.740 a billionaire

04:41:19.180 I mean

04:41:20.580 me not

04:41:21.640 wanting me not

04:41:22.460 wanting to date 0.70

04:41:23.000 a promiscuous 0.98

04:41:23.580 woman seems a 0.99

04:41:24.660 lot more

04:41:25.000 reasonable than

04:41:25.700 her wanting 0.90

04:41:26.160 to date

04:41:26.500 a billionaire

04:41:27.220 it's unrealistic

04:41:29.360 though

04:41:29.920 it depends on

04:41:31.500 I don't think

04:41:32.220 it's unrealistic

04:41:32.780 like I just feel

04:41:34.160 like as a woman 0.68

04:41:34.920 if you're broke

04:41:35.600 and you're

04:41:36.000 expecting a man

04:41:36.660 you want to date

04:41:37.220 a man that's a 0.96

04:41:37.780 billionaire

04:41:38.040 that's unrealistic

04:41:38.880 the same way

04:41:39.760 if you have a

04:41:40.400 high body count

04:41:41.060 do you think

04:41:41.660 that it would be

04:41:43.460 if I was to say

04:41:44.220 to you right now

04:41:44.860 that I'll only

04:41:45.840 date a girl

04:41:46.860 who has

04:41:47.720 who is a virgin

04:41:48.900 for example

04:41:49.540 do you think

04:41:50.980 that it would be

04:41:51.720 realistic for me

04:41:52.480 to find somebody

04:41:53.160 like that

04:41:53.540 if you go to

04:41:55.440 like a third

04:41:56.300 world country

04:41:56.900 maybe

04:41:57.280 or like

04:41:58.520 no other

04:41:59.400 country

04:41:59.720 it's unrealistic

04:42:00.420 not saying

04:42:00.940 it's not possible

04:42:01.660 but it's unrealistic

04:42:02.420 unrealistic would

04:42:03.200 mean unreal

04:42:03.920 so it's not

04:42:04.420 gonna happen

04:42:04.880 like it's

04:42:05.580 like not likely

04:42:06.500 like not likely

04:42:07.760 for you to

04:42:08.460 like or even

04:42:09.500 expect that

04:42:10.300 out of someone

04:42:10.860 to be a virgin

04:42:12.020 I mean you

04:42:12.580 could slip for

04:42:13.120 that but like

04:42:13.940 you know what I

04:42:15.080 mean like

04:42:15.700 how about you

04:42:16.920 guys do you

04:42:17.240 think that that

04:42:17.580 would be

04:42:18.000 unrealistic

04:42:19.840 for me to

04:42:20.460 expect that

04:42:21.040 are you a virgin

04:42:22.240 it's not the

04:42:24.020 question the

04:42:24.480 question is do

04:42:25.160 you think it

04:42:25.420 would be

04:42:25.540 unrealistic for

04:42:26.360 me to expect

04:42:26.820 that or for

04:42:28.160 me to think

04:42:28.940 that I could

04:42:29.320 date somebody

04:42:29.680 like that

04:42:30.820 can you

04:42:33.420 pull this up

04:42:33.860 with the

04:42:34.100 question

04:42:34.400 yeah I mean

04:42:34.900 it is a little

04:42:35.840 unrealistic I

04:42:36.800 would say

04:42:37.220 you know

04:42:37.700 unless there's

04:42:38.560 like especially

04:42:39.140 since you're

04:42:39.600 not a virgin

04:42:40.080 yeah

04:42:40.980 what's wrong

04:42:41.380 with that

04:42:41.700 well you're

04:42:43.180 looking for

04:42:43.800 something but

04:42:44.460 you don't

04:42:45.540 meet that

04:42:46.200 yep so like

04:42:47.420 you said before

04:42:48.120 you're looking

04:42:48.700 for somebody who's

04:42:49.260 taller than you

04:42:49.880 you said that

04:42:50.680 so you're

04:42:51.280 looking for

04:42:51.600 something that

04:42:51.980 you don't

04:42:52.280 meet

04:42:52.540 I put some

04:42:53.760 heels on and

04:42:54.200 I do

04:42:54.420 so you're

04:42:55.320 looking for

04:42:55.760 somebody who

04:42:56.260 is naturally

04:42:56.840 taller than

04:42:57.340 you so are

04:42:57.920 you looking for

04:42:58.320 somebody who's

04:42:58.820 what you're

04:42:59.880 not

04:43:00.140 okay I

04:43:01.080 didn't say

04:43:01.360 that they

04:43:01.620 had to be

04:43:01.880 a lot

04:43:02.080 taller than

04:43:02.460 me

04:43:02.680 but they're

04:43:03.520 taller than

04:43:03.840 you right

04:43:04.120 okay

04:43:04.620 so is that

04:43:07.340 unrealistic for

04:43:08.380 you to expect

04:43:08.800 somebody who's

04:43:09.320 five foot two

04:43:09.840 and above

04:43:10.180 no that's more

04:43:10.800 likely than

04:43:11.500 you to get

04:43:12.340 a virgin 0.80

04:43:12.640 why

04:43:14.120 because in

04:43:15.800 America there

04:43:16.240 aren't that

04:43:16.520 many virgins

04:43:17.040 and on top of

04:43:17.620 that why would

04:43:18.160 she be interested

04:43:18.660 in you if

04:43:19.380 she's looking for

04:43:20.100 someone with

04:43:20.580 virtue then why

04:43:21.340 would she be

04:43:21.640 looking for

04:43:21.940 you well how

04:43:22.540 do you know

04:43:22.780 what do you

04:43:23.040 know about

04:43:23.320 me well are

04:43:24.880 you a virgin

04:43:25.220 what does it

04:43:26.460 matter honestly

04:43:28.740 what do you do

04:43:29.440 so so so do

04:43:32.040 you think that

04:43:32.920 body count is

04:43:33.540 more important

04:43:34.000 for women or

04:43:34.480 men I think

04:43:36.200 men make it 0.99

04:43:37.240 more important

04:43:37.780 for women to

04:43:38.580 have a lower

04:43:38.900 body count

04:43:39.480 so so so you

04:43:42.900 think it's more

04:43:43.420 important so you

04:43:44.920 think it's more

04:43:45.300 important for men

04:43:46.320 then yeah I

04:43:47.920 think you guys

04:43:48.480 hold that more

04:43:49.440 important okay

04:43:49.960 so do you think

04:43:50.680 that a woman who 1.00

04:43:51.440 is a virgin would

04:43:52.800 be likely to go

04:43:53.820 for a guy who

04:43:54.380 has more

04:43:54.740 experience or do

04:43:55.520 you think do you

04:43:56.440 think that that's

04:43:56.920 unrealistic I think

04:43:59.780 it's more of a

04:44:00.220 cultural thing most

04:44:01.340 people that are

04:44:02.980 waiting for marriage

04:44:03.920 they're also waiting

04:44:04.820 for someone that's

04:44:05.320 also not necessarily

04:44:06.960 a religious thing

04:44:08.500 it could be a

04:44:09.240 religious thing yeah

04:44:10.180 I mean I'll tell

04:44:11.200 you I'll tell you

04:44:11.640 now I don't know

04:44:13.380 what you want me to

04:44:13.820 do I mean I mean

04:44:15.800 I've dated I've dated

04:44:16.680 virgins before and 0.98

04:44:18.220 like they are out

04:44:19.480 there they do

04:44:20.160 exist and it's

04:44:21.380 definitely definitely

04:44:22.620 not something that

04:44:23.700 they'll write you off

04:44:24.360 for if you're not a 0.98

04:44:24.980 virgin yourself like a

04:44:26.940 less experienced woman 0.99

04:44:28.200 with an experienced

04:44:29.460 man that that's no

04:44:31.580 problem for them yeah

04:44:33.020 um I do need to let a

04:44:34.520 chat come in here

04:44:35.320 graffito thank you

04:44:36.980 man

04:44:37.180 graffito tact donated

04:44:38.220 two hundred dollars

04:44:39.560 how would you feel if

04:44:41.140 a guy was so rich by

04:44:42.380 his mid-thirties that

04:44:43.480 he never had to work

04:44:44.560 again so he chooses to

04:44:46.260 be on permanent

04:44:47.100 vacation for the rest

04:44:48.440 of his life never

04:44:49.600 returning to the

04:44:50.480 workforce before I

04:44:51.880 have you guys answer

04:44:52.540 this uh graffito I

04:44:54.020 know this came in about

04:44:54.880 15 minutes ago I do

04:44:56.680 apologize um there

04:44:58.220 were some distractions

04:44:58.940 I had to get up from

04:45:00.120 the table uh people

04:45:02.720 making noise in the

04:45:04.000 hallway I had to deal

04:45:05.200 with it so I do

04:45:06.300 apologize I missed it

04:45:07.720 just can I put a bow

04:45:08.760 on that as well yeah

04:45:09.440 sure I mean I just

04:45:10.180 find it really funny

04:45:10.840 that um something that's

04:45:12.540 not unlikely or

04:45:13.580 unrealistic whatsoever is

04:45:14.860 finding a girl who is a

04:45:16.420 virgin I mean there are

04:45:17.200 quite a few virgins out 0.99

04:45:18.240 there and you guys will

04:45:19.660 call it out and say it's

04:45:20.480 unrealistic but when

04:45:21.520 these girls are saying 0.90

04:45:22.840 that they want to date a

04:45:23.480 billionaire which is

04:45:24.240 almost statistically

04:45:25.260 impossible no one says

04:45:27.440 anything yeah I and a

04:45:30.520 little bit to their

04:45:31.640 point though I mean I

04:45:32.700 think it is it is the

04:45:34.260 case that there's like

04:45:35.560 rampant promiscuity so

04:45:37.740 I don't think they're

04:45:38.320 totally wrong and so I

04:45:39.920 think they're trying to

04:45:40.560 almost argue sort of our

04:45:42.220 own position that oh

04:45:46.800 okay I was like the 0.99

04:45:48.020 fuck they're almost 1.00

04:45:49.580 arguing our position like 1.00

04:45:50.900 women aren't 1.00

04:45:52.100 traditional anymore no

04:45:53.620 virtue no chastity

04:45:54.660 strumpets we have

04:45:56.500 foes it's it they're

04:45:59.020 not wrong in in saying

04:46:00.200 like it's way harder to

04:46:02.300 find that today yeah

04:46:03.700 like because there's not

04:46:06.680 a lot of it's more

04:46:08.500 likely though than some

04:46:09.640 of the other scenarios we've

04:46:10.660 heard about tonight like 0.99

04:46:11.440 being hot as fuck is at a 0.98

04:46:12.740 hundred and like yeah 1.00

04:46:13.960 yeah but but that shit 1.00

04:46:15.300 they're they're not wrong 1.00

04:46:16.580 about that on that factor

04:46:17.580 that it's it's more

04:46:18.820 difficult these days to

04:46:19.740 find but wrong in the

04:46:21.160 sense that the women who

04:46:23.160 are virgins are going to 0.89

04:46:24.500 disqualify men who are

04:46:25.720 virgins themselves oh

04:46:28.200 what graffito I promise

04:46:29.640 we're gonna get right

04:46:30.440 into it but I wanted to

04:46:33.120 do something with the

04:46:33.900 rating thing so all of

04:46:37.800 you so wait it was eight

04:46:39.360 nine eight ten ten ten ten

04:46:42.780 ten right so just to be

04:46:44.660 clear and did y'all I

04:46:47.160 think they all rated you

04:46:48.240 nine and me seven if I

04:46:49.400 recall I mean I gave me a

04:46:50.420 six I think I gave you

04:46:51.860 both tens yes she gave us

04:46:54.300 both tens six and a five

04:46:55.380 I think just to be clear

04:46:57.640 um I think every I think

04:47:01.100 almost all of you I guess

04:47:02.540 except for you and maybe

04:47:03.820 you you you I said so you

04:47:07.540 guys so you're nine and

04:47:08.740 he's a nine is that right

04:47:09.780 mm-hmm okay so um you a

04:47:12.460 ten no she said none yeah

04:47:14.480 so you like neither one of

04:47:17.600 like you wouldn't be

04:47:18.380 settling for him and he

04:47:19.300 wouldn't be settling for

04:47:20.100 you like it's equal it's

04:47:21.480 that would be a fair like

04:47:23.300 matchup mm-hmm okay and

04:47:26.760 then uh you gave yourself

04:47:28.240 a ten I think you you

04:47:29.380 gave me a seven and eight

04:47:30.680 yes seven and a nine eight

04:47:32.360 eight yes oh seven and

04:47:33.680 eight so in your view let's

04:47:36.200 get uh fix the split uh in

04:47:41.640 your view like uh seven and

04:47:44.260 six or what was it seven and

04:47:45.600 eight seven eight ten yes

04:47:49.200 you uh you would be

04:47:50.600 settling if you were to

04:47:51.580 date me or jake

04:47:53.540 said settling do you know

04:47:56.760 this word settling and say

04:47:58.660 another so so you would be

04:47:59.780 settling for something that's

04:48:00.900 below you we're below your

04:48:02.420 standards settled huh it's

04:48:04.720 okay you mean would I date

04:48:07.300 somebody who is seven who's

04:48:09.180 like less attractive than you

04:48:10.380 so you're a ten and I'm a

04:48:12.900 eight and he's a seven so if

04:48:15.400 you were dating us we would be

04:48:16.820 looking up and saying wow

04:48:17.960 we're dating a ten like it

04:48:20.000 would be good for it would be

04:48:20.740 really good for us yes because

04:48:22.340 women should inspire the men to

04:48:23.800 be better for this god create

04:48:26.480 us period why not bro so like

04:48:34.760 you would be doing us a favor

04:48:36.260 not like a favor with the right

04:48:38.920 wise woman man always become 1.00

04:48:41.380 rich and successful was the 1.00

04:48:43.460 stupid woman he become poor and 1.00

04:48:45.980 he feeling bad this is this is 1.00

04:48:48.240 true you want it it's true

04:48:49.940 wise woman is very important 0.97

04:48:52.060 very wise woman very important

04:48:54.080 of course it looks wise you would

04:48:57.000 be doing us a favor if you're man

04:48:58.820 if it's everybody what you look

04:49:01.760 and you will find it what you

04:49:03.740 search you will find if you

04:49:05.040 search is that or if you think 1.00

04:49:06.440 that all women are stupid and you 1.00

04:49:07.600 will find a stupid woman if you 1.00

04:49:09.300 think opposite that you deserve the 1.00

04:49:10.920 best woman in the world you will

04:49:12.040 find her too so you think that if

04:49:14.140 somebody was a five foot one guy

04:49:16.600 who was living in uganda and

04:49:18.360 working in a coal mine if he

04:49:20.020 thinks that he's going to marry a

04:49:21.380 victoria secret supermodel from

04:49:22.920 sweden he will marry them of course 0.82

04:49:25.160 there are many things like this

04:49:26.700 happening in this world everything

04:49:28.380 can happen maybe he will find a

04:49:30.420 black oil tomorrow or i don't know

04:49:32.800 or something else man i believe in

04:49:35.080 miracles and i believe that

04:49:36.940 everybody could create his own life

04:49:38.660 whatever he wants and nobody can

04:49:40.460 stop you from at least dreaming and

04:49:42.600 achieve your best it would be very 0.99

04:49:44.660 inspired it would be very stupid to 0.98

04:49:46.560 desire to desire the homeless or 1.00

04:49:48.480 stupid man everybody desire to be 1.00

04:49:50.480 the best one that's because yes 1.00

04:49:52.720 because we need to be to have a

04:49:54.120 progress in this life not

04:49:55.420 degradation you know so everybody

04:49:57.260 deserve and want to have a better

04:49:59.060 partner than you are to grow

04:50:00.900 together to achieve the goals to be

04:50:02.540 the better um you know what shake

04:50:04.920 i you know if if i got with like a

04:50:09.540 victoria secret model she should feel 0.63

04:50:12.560 she's i'm settling we're settling we

04:50:16.280 are settling we need to if we think

04:50:18.380 that we're settling with like if we

04:50:19.740 think that we are above it then we are

04:50:22.360 essentially i you know what jake i

04:50:24.560 think that you know if you find like a

04:50:28.740 beautiful like 21 year old virgin who's 0.99

04:50:31.640 like a 10 out of 10 just whatever your

04:50:34.260 exact type is i do think you would be

04:50:36.860 kind of settling for that oh yeah like

04:50:39.360 why stop there just maybe like a harem 0.87

04:50:41.400 because you deserve it you're a king

04:50:44.360 yeah and if she won't find someone who

04:50:47.240 will and i'm thinking about it hard

04:50:49.560 enough that it will it will happen 10

04:50:51.860 of them

04:50:52.640 um okay uh oh wait rebel wait you eight

04:51:04.640 you gave me six you gave him what no i

04:51:07.300 gave you seven oh seven and then i gave

04:51:08.960 him eight

04:51:09.460 cali would it uh 10 was it seven nine no

04:51:14.240 i rated you guys 10s

04:51:15.260 oh she did i thought she did yeah she did

04:51:17.940 okay okay what did you say um i said i

04:51:26.100 repeated what y'all said so five and six

04:51:28.440 so like if if you and me um if if we

04:51:33.240 dated it'd be a serious downgrade you

04:51:35.340 would be settling i would never date you

04:51:38.900 and i don't want to settle no no i know

04:51:41.480 like that's fine i'm not i'm not offended

04:51:44.680 at all um but you would you would be

04:51:47.340 settling like if you and me were dating

04:51:49.540 you would be like settling five points

04:51:51.620 like you're at a 10 i'm down here at a

04:51:53.840 five i just want to make sure we're on

04:51:55.680 the same page

04:51:56.140 i would be settling if that were the

04:52:02.060 case but i would never settle no she

04:52:03.760 wouldn't settle

04:52:04.280 she would not settle now i want to ask

04:52:08.860 the chat or what about jake would you be

04:52:10.400 settling for jake too

04:52:11.260 looks yes you she would be settling for

04:52:15.580 okay that's cool

04:52:16.380 period that's great um now chat i want

04:52:19.620 the chat to weigh in here it seems like

04:52:22.480 all these women except for her and her 1.00

04:52:24.520 who gave the troll 10 answers they they

04:52:27.960 think that they would be settling for for

04:52:30.500 me for jake

04:52:31.880 do you think that's the case chat do you

04:52:36.100 think they would be settling for us or

04:52:40.140 would we be i am not settling for them

04:52:42.780 she you heard it from here first definitely

04:52:46.040 a troll would never say they're not a

04:52:47.760 troll of course uh trolls are always

04:52:49.920 honest and they admit up front when they

04:52:52.300 are trolling

04:52:52.980 uh but there's the chat okay let me let

04:52:55.880 this one come through again graffito i do

04:52:57.720 apologize

04:52:58.060 graffito tagged donated 200 how would you feel if a guy was so rich by his mid-30s that he

04:53:05.100 never had to work again so he chooses to be on permanent vacation for the rest of his life

04:53:10.580 never returning to the workforce yo tag thank you again sorry for the delay on this

04:53:15.220 um go ahead if you want to answer it

04:53:18.480 who cares you do you boo okay okay he's 35 rich never wants to work again cool with it yes or no

04:53:26.540 yeah that's fine yes of course okay are you able to scoot your mic a little more that way and scoot it to the edge of the table i need you to center up your mic so it's kind of like center with you uh what about you

04:53:36.940 he's living his life why would i care okay yeah take me on vacation let's go

04:53:43.600 congratulations

04:53:45.300 what question was that genuinely uh congratulations congrats yeah yep okay

04:53:51.200 jason castle donated 200 just because you are all 304s doesn't mean all women are 304s

04:54:02.980 brian has a much higher chance of getting a virgin than you delusional women getting a billionaire 1.00

04:54:08.100 i am not a 304 0.90

04:54:09.860 oh we were talking about body counts i guess um just show of hands who who here thinks uh body count matters

04:54:18.640 body count matters to some degree yeah let's uh let's go around the table

04:54:26.340 like that and whatever like that girl who smashed 100 men in a day 1.00

04:54:31.460 i'm like no like nah that matters like it matters how old you is like i ain't gonna lie

04:54:37.540 because like i'm body positive but you i'm not smashing the girl that smashed 100 men in a day i'm not doing that

04:54:43.520 so it matters on some level yeah sure oh wrath by the way i apologize for some reason my stream labs isn't showing this

04:54:50.340 you gifted i believe 20 20 subs about 20 minutes ago but it for some reason it bugged out but wrath psa

04:54:58.420 thank you for the gifted subs on twitch uh so going i guess going around the table

04:55:02.660 what's everybody's body count

04:55:04.740 rebel

04:55:07.060 let me think about it go ahead you first

04:55:10.740 what's your body count

04:55:14.660 were you oh my god why does it matter that's how you respond i gotta add it up

04:55:19.620 well for me it's at least um wait body count is that like babies coming out of you

04:55:26.980 body count is three babies

04:55:31.060 body count is uh how many men you've had carnal knowledge with um that's the first carnal knowledge

04:55:36.740 of we doing men and women we doing everybody men and women uh break it break it down break it down

04:55:43.460 okay go ahead y'all go ahead she's you got a list do you who has a list i'm not gonna ask to see it

04:55:49.940 but just who has a list in their phone i don't know of the bodies anybody okay all right uh body count

04:55:57.220 no i can't say jeez but i i thought it's wrong for like men to care about body count and they're

04:56:02.260 insecure if they do care about it so like body count it doesn't matter it doesn't matter that's 0.75

04:56:06.820 what i'm trying to say like man or woman it doesn't matter are you insecure about it

04:56:12.180 my part i'm not no oh then i mean if you're not insecure about it then shouldn't you just be okay

04:56:18.180 revealing it i don't know well no that's private that's my private like sure you don't have to you

04:56:23.540 don't have to reveal that's fine do you want to um how about instead of an actual number do you want

04:56:27.540 to do a range oh range yeah oh man we'd like to offer up a range okay less than 10.

04:56:32.660 okay what about you less than five less than five you can give us the actual number you can give a range but

04:56:43.540 actual number is preferable no range under 10. okay i would disclose this information to a significant

04:56:56.340 other probably not to y'all just on the internet range no thank you

04:57:05.220 um i don't really care i feel like i think i have four guys and like three girls

04:57:10.900 oh i mean you were like hold on let me no because i have to remember i have to make sure like what

04:57:15.380 really counts like is fooling around like are we talking counting penetration you had to count for

04:57:20.100 seven you had i did have to count because you won't be remembering all the time by three and

04:57:24.420 that's the real number for all of you um all right hold on we got this graffito tagged donated two

04:57:33.140 hundred dollars really the lack of drive isn't to turn off shouldn't a man work in some capacity

04:57:40.500 even if he is rich enough to not need to work shouldn't he do something productive not sit on his

04:57:46.340 love until he dies working and being productive is different you could still build stuff and then

04:57:53.220 do what you do and not work so for sure sure well if he's doing what he loves it's not work technically

04:58:01.940 right you know okay whatever hobby he might have or something sure sure um i mean graffito i don't know

04:58:10.900 i i wonder if uh i mean if you worked so hard though earlier in life to the point that you could

04:58:16.900 retire at 35 or whatever i think you said mid-30s i mean it's kind of like like let's say somebody works

04:58:24.500 uh till they're 65 but they're just doing like a nine-to-five job and versus like a guy who just

04:58:31.540 grinds in like 20s early 30s and he makes the same amount of money he would have otherwise made or maybe

04:58:39.060 even more by grinding and then he's like well i made i made enough money to retire i i don't know

04:58:47.140 if it's a lack of drive you know necessarily but i think there are there are definitely some men who

04:58:52.900 just even if they've i mean like you gotta look at people who make who have more than like five mil

04:58:58.420 up to billionaires they're good they could ellen elon musk he could be done like he doesn't he doesn't

04:59:05.460 need a he's got like millennia's of is probably more i'm probably downgrading it of uh generational

04:59:14.740 wealth but he's got that drive he wants a trillion he's not happy with being a billionaire he wants to

04:59:22.100 be a trillion so uh graffito thank you for that question though really appreciate it guys graffito's

04:59:26.260 a long-time supporter i want you guys to put some w's in the chat for graffito tagged he's a uh big

04:59:31.620 supporter of the show so i really appreciate your question man all right we do have uh let's see

04:59:38.500 rebel can you read this one man i was reading this one already i don't even want oh this looks

04:59:46.260 daughters of eve you believe the lie you will not be equal to a man eve wanted the same she did us no

04:59:53.620 favors you choose according to a fallen nature jesus christ the living word who oh my god this is

05:00:00.900 terrible who is all the father is expressed perfectly is our only hope

05:00:06.980 yo john got pastors in the chat john i really appreciate your super chat man guys w's in the

05:00:12.740 chat for john for his very generous super chat john uh thank you so much man l's in the chat

05:00:19.220 why wait why l in the chat are you like are you like anti-religion or something or

05:00:24.260 what i'm anti-misogyny you tell me i will never be equal to a man what okay all right uh a man that

05:00:34.900 finds a woman is a good thing it says that in the bible too mr religious john oh it says that

05:00:41.220 theological debate coming we would men wouldn't be here without no woman what do you mean 0.99

05:00:45.940 all right uh okay we're gonna get back into the questionnaire here uh let's see

05:00:49.700 let's see let's see if there's any disagreements on two i don't think so no we have a couple

05:00:55.300 excuse me couple disagreements on three women should pay 50 50 on first dates rebel you disagree

05:01:01.700 roxana you disagree elena you disagree

05:01:07.220 that's it for those you three here uh you think men should pay for first dates whoever asks who out 0.99

05:01:13.540 that's all because i put disagree but it's whoever who has who out your position i think the man should

05:01:18.580 pay your position man should pay man should pay uh and the other girls here maybe that's not your 1.00

05:01:24.420 position but are you okay with it being their position like you don't think it's sexist like

05:01:30.500 you think no they can have that opinion like nothing wrong with it i think a man should pay but if he

05:01:35.940 wants to go 50 50 i would understand that it's the first day we just met so they don't know what's up

05:01:42.580 um definitely could you cool you cool with their position yeah cool with their position okay um

05:01:48.580 i want to explore a couple shoulds right so as long as you guys are okay with uh men should pay

05:01:55.140 uh are you guys fine with like the following should statement should women cook and clean yes

05:02:04.580 i think it's more so a shared responsibility i don't mind cooking and cleaning but

05:02:10.100 i'm not a maid should people i think it's like no cooking like in the context of a relationship she 0.97

05:02:17.060 should do the cooking and the cleaning in the same way that you guys say oh so is he paying all the

05:02:21.300 bills sure because i feel like that's a job well yeah yeah he's paying all the bills how about that

05:02:26.420 clean up the house okay fine uh how about this women should be virgins 1.00

05:02:30.660 or women should have low body counts are you guys fine with that should statement too well men should 0.97

05:02:37.940 do then no should i mean i actually don't disagree like who said women should be a virgin

05:02:43.540 who said that i just did as a question though so no no answer don't nobody agree with that okay

05:02:51.060 all right but on the inverse you would say then that women should have sex with multiple men before

05:02:57.780 marriage no but who's saying should like what who's saying what's right and wrong yeah but it's all

05:03:02.420 it's talking in an idealistic sense no no women should ideals are these should women should be 1.00

05:03:08.660 whatever they want to be do you think that there is an ideal

05:03:11.620 do we have to go back to gang bangland

05:03:20.100 it's like everybody you know everybody should drink a lot of water should you know what i'm saying

05:03:25.220 certain things i don't know no ideal there's no ideal

05:03:33.780 should men have a low body count so yes yes okay do you think that women should as well then 0.93

05:03:41.620 if that's your opinion that's your opinion honestly i think everybody can answer a question

05:03:52.100 i think everybody want different things and everybody deserve different things so one time

05:03:58.820 in my life i dreamed to be virgin and find a virgin man and guess what has happened and we was dating

05:04:04.260 together two years it was very very good relationship and yes when i met him he was very simple guy

05:04:11.620 after two years living with me he um become much more rich he changed your car like he become very

05:04:19.060 good so every dreams come true but now i don't dream to have a virgin so it's like different i had

05:04:25.620 that time of my life now it's another uh question here for rebel um you said that in here's the statement

05:04:34.260 a man dating a transgender woman is not straight you disagree with the statement um why is that trans woman is 0.70

05:04:40.340 a woman so it's a trans woman if you're if you're trans partner and they look like a woman you're

05:04:46.260 attracted to that you know what i'm saying then yeah well i mean i agree that men can be tricked

05:04:51.620 um but do you are transgender women female yeah i guess well just for the sake of this conversation

05:05:00.500 i'm gonna go ahead and grant that this isn't actually my position but that transgender women are women

05:05:06.340 but so we're talking about gender but now i'm talking about sex are transgender women female

05:05:12.900 female like a woman and females do different things yeah right so like female means you have a 1.00

05:05:20.820 certain type of chromosomes you have a reproduction system and everything like born born a certain way

05:05:25.620 so i feel like trans women are women but do you think they're female sex and gender two different

05:05:30.260 things though okay that's this thing so like i guess so are transgender women male that's such a 0.98

05:05:37.140 hard question no they're not male either though so what i thought you meant they had certain chromosomes

05:05:44.980 they do they do so i like they're women but they're not female so they're women but they're males

05:05:50.980 they're they're women trans women are women because if you look at a trans woman nine times out of 0.99

05:05:55.620 ten she's the baddest bitch you've ever seen you know what i'm saying the things that take to be 1.00

05:06:00.820 a woman but if you're going off of excuse me look hey yo y'all ain't seen no pretty trans women you 1.00

05:06:06.820 just said nine times out of the ten of the baddest nine times out of ten because they have to do more

05:06:11.140 than the regular women females are typically the baddest they're bad like i'm look they have to do more 1.00

05:06:19.380 to compensate for you guys's doubt honestly as a serious question though as women you guys are all

05:06:25.220 women right how does it make you feel to hear that sort of thing where you say that dudes who dress up 1.00

05:06:31.060 as women are the most beautiful women would you agree with that i would hate that and i hate when

05:06:37.460 they put a man a transgender man like like like they're still a man and they put them on like a 0.92

05:06:45.140 fashion magazine and like as a woman or like they they um like woman of the year yeah like dude you're 0.99

05:06:52.100 not a woman you're a dude you know yeah lipstick weights um so is everybody here transphobic

05:07:01.220 i just feel like it's insulting to say that a man could be a woman that's like black face 1.00

05:07:05.940 like you're dressing up as a woman so now you're a woman all of a sudden exactly i mean kelly

05:07:10.180 yeah to be honest though she's she's exactly right it's a it's a perfect logical um logical

05:07:15.300 analogy there you women should be offended i just don't subscribe to that but jake actually made like 0.66

05:07:21.860 a really good point like the the comment you said about how like trans women are some of the baddest 1.00

05:07:28.020 what was the baddest they look the baddest or whatever i'm not saying that but they just they

05:07:33.220 look like they make sure they look good but you ladies gotta keep a little something for yourself like 1.00

05:07:38.340 like you can't give like hottest woman to a trans like men are better than y'all at being hot come

05:07:47.620 on you can't not necessarily that's that's not what i meant when i said that guys that's not what i 0.69

05:07:52.500 mean men we men yo the patriarchy wins again we men are are better at being hot women right we're

05:07:58.660 better in everything bro we're better than we're we're beating you guys at the boxing in the women's 0.93

05:08:03.620 olympics women's weight lifting women's beauty contests yo yo guys w's in the chat for patriarchy

05:08:11.220 men being better at being hot women than than women just w's in the chat i don't know that's kind

05:08:17.860 of crazy but okay um but like so how about really quick on this but i'm a little confused here because

05:08:24.580 you said you did make a differentiation between gender and sex right but so i'm but then i'm asking

05:08:30.260 like is a transgender woman female or is she male she's a woman yeah but she's a woman i a hundred 0.93

05:08:37.140 percent agree with you is she male or female she's a woman no you're no no you're 100 she's a woman but

05:08:44.020 is she female or male she would be male legally legally right now in this country change the definition of

05:08:51.780 woman what do you mean like since when he's granting it for the sake of for the sake of debate this is

05:08:57.300 crazy and then it's like what do you say about somebody that has both because there's people with

05:09:00.820 multiple things down there so what do you what what is a you said it's different female and woman what 1.00

05:09:05.860 what is a woman and what is a female a woman is someone who takes on the attributes of femininity and 1.00

05:09:14.420 identifies as being a woman so if i wore a dress and wore this wig and some lipstick and i said

05:09:19.140 to you i'm a woman you would believe me no you'd be a man in a wig in a dress on if you were consistent

05:09:26.260 if you were consistent that's what you really want to do and you were making a transition but

05:09:29.380 tomorrow if i came to you and i said look like that that chat we had last night made me realize

05:09:32.820 a few things about myself and i and i had the wig on and i said i'm a woman you would you would grant

05:09:37.700 me that status i i would if you really meant it yeah hell yeah how do you know how can you ascertain

05:09:43.220 if i mean it or not it's we'll see what you do if you're consistent or not okay what about

05:09:47.780 this how about if i said to you if i came to you in tomorrow and then six months later as well and

05:09:51.940 i've been doing it the whole time but i said look rebel truth is it just really turns me on if i'm

05:09:57.780 if i'm dressing like a woman you just sound like a drag queen no no but if i said that to you and i 0.89

05:10:02.260 said look i don't it's it's just that it really turns me on to like someone's gonna clip this

05:10:08.180 if i hit clip it and chip it if so if i said that to you and i was like look the truth is that

05:10:15.460 that's that's just how i feel and it just gets me off like it turns you on dressing as a woman 0.98

05:10:19.540 yeah that's what it is yeah would you just would you say that i'm a woman no you're a jack you're 0.89

05:10:23.700 a drag queen you you just want to do this or you're some type of right so you're trying to ascertain 0.67

05:10:29.060 motive yeah well what it's actually called is it's a it's a it's a condition called autogynophilia

05:10:36.180 and it's actually a large no i don't know how much the portion but a lot of men who dress up like

05:10:41.060 women it's because it turns them on what's that movie brian where the guy dresses up like the 0.98

05:10:45.220 woman and he's got autogynophilia and he has the person in the hole hannibal lectern oh um i did

05:10:49.940 not know silence of the lambs put the lotion in the basket yeah so that dude has autogynophilia

05:10:56.820 and he dresses yeah i've never heard of that like there was a case of a guy in australia his name's

05:11:03.060 lee something or other and he was a football player and then um he got caught one night in like the

05:11:09.540 roughest part of melbourne dressing like a woman with and he had all this like meth on him and 0.89

05:11:13.940 stuff he'd been smoking meth for days and uh came out that like he used to cross dress for like a

05:11:18.820 sexual fetish and then like even after everything after all of this drama of him being caught with

05:11:24.180 these drugs and doing these weird things he just came out and goes you know what guys i'm trans and

05:11:28.340 then literally a few months later he was on the cover of woman's weekly it dressed like a woman and uh

05:11:34.180 they were like all celebrating him so that's like sort of the that when you when you distort what

05:11:39.700 a woman is like that and then in this conversation it's kind of the conclusion of it is that if you're

05:11:45.140 going to be tolerant you kind of have to be tolerant all the way with it there is there is nuances to

05:11:50.180 it i feel like some people take advantage of people's open-mindedness and like i'm not really

05:11:55.220 trans i just like to dress up and they don't identify correctly but i feel like there is some people 1.00

05:11:59.460 that truly feel that they were born in the wrong body and we should make space for them for that 1.00

05:12:04.340 you're not gay for being attracted to somebody that presents themselves as feminine you're only 1.00

05:12:09.380 gay if you like do you think do you think that those people need help 0.98

05:12:15.540 dang you like that yeah that's something you need to talk through i don't know because me personally 0.87

05:12:22.580 sometimes i wake up feeling i'm the man and i feel like i'm the girl i'm that too i feel like i'm 0.97

05:12:26.900 that nigga i'm that bitch too and i feel like that too that's me personally being androgynous and 0.99

05:12:31.700 stuff i feel like i'm both sometimes not saying i don't i don't claim to be non-binary what does it 0.99

05:12:37.620 feel like to be a man if you say you feel like a man sometimes it feels it feels dominant it feels

05:12:43.940 like you're in control it feels like you're taking care of the other people around you like i have just

05:12:48.900 a mom and a sister that's all i have to live with so i have i you know take care to make sure they're

05:12:53.620 good like you know i'm saying provide financially for the people around me it feels it's indescribable

05:12:59.540 but i'm describing it like well i think it's interesting because what you're describing right

05:13:03.060 now is definitely a masculine characteristic that would typically be associated with masculine which

05:13:07.700 is providing for people around you but still you can be a female and you can be a woman and you can 1.00

05:13:12.260 provide for people around you it wouldn't necessarily make you a man so what what about what you do is

05:13:16.500 makes you a man though i mean like so for me personally i don't identify as non-binary nothing like 0.74

05:13:21.780 that like i believe i'm a woman and stuff like that but i can understand how some people might

05:13:26.260 feel differently and stuff when i was younger i told my mom i wanted to be a boy i told her that

05:13:31.300 but i didn't know what i was talking about at that time i had to grow into it but now that i'm here now

05:13:36.260 i can see why something makes you if you felt like this a whole life like i've been tomboyage my whole

05:13:41.940 life and somebody else that's been going through all that when they realize like actually i don't like

05:13:46.740 being feminine at all i don't like being on the feminine side of it and i want to become a man

05:13:52.180 it's possible like i just feel like it's and when you say that um you think that they're transphobic

05:13:57.940 for for the beliefs what exactly do you mean by transphobic because that that term some stumble

05:14:03.540 like when people say it like that it kind of confuses me a little bit what does it mean it just means

05:14:07.620 like you're prejudiced or you don't believe like this it's the same thing as being homophobic like you

05:14:12.420 don't believe in somebody's identification like you don't believe that it's valid that's what it

05:14:18.340 is like i believe we're either born male or female and you can't change that you're born like that

05:14:24.420 genetics when you die they're not going to be like oh i'm pretty sure that he called himself a female

05:14:30.340 like no they're going to look at your bone structure and you are a man if that's what you

05:14:33.380 were born as or a woman our bones look different we're genetically different you could you could

05:14:39.060 actually dig up the bones a thousand years later and you could still tell what they were yeah yeah

05:14:44.020 i and i completely understand that but this is the point like i get that your your your think or you

05:14:49.220 from your perspective it's coming from a place of tolerance right like you think that people should

05:14:52.820 be able to actualize and they should be able to you know identify as whatever but do you see how

05:14:57.620 actually if you take a small segment of the population like people who would identify as as transgender

05:15:03.780 and you say all right everybody else has to be super duper accepting of this do you get why there's

05:15:08.340 also like that would then have a big impact on a large percentage of the population who a have

05:15:13.380 to lie about it and b women have to get like dominated in sports and women have to accept that 1.00

05:15:19.620 like these men in their bathrooms are women and then do you also accept that these people who identify

05:15:27.780 this way oftentimes need therapy or need some sort of help i said that i feel like everybody needs therapy

05:15:33.460 and there definitely should be stipulations to it you can't just overnight decide you want to be a

05:15:37.460 woman and be allowed into the woman's bathroom and stuff like that there's nuances to it and then 1.00

05:15:41.780 what about the people that have both there's literally somebody like i literally was just 0.91

05:15:46.260 watching it on the internet the other day a woman that she looks like a woman she has breasts and 1.00

05:15:50.820 everything like that but she has both like what do we what do we call them like yeah that's very rare 1.00

05:15:57.860 it's very rare but also but also even in those cases in the most extreme cases you can you can

05:16:03.940 still you still are one or the other it you might have a you might have a micropenis or you might have 0.97

05:16:09.620 like a clitoris that looks like a penis or you might even have both that has happened but nobody can ever 0.99

05:16:15.140 impregnate themselves right so you either have the reproductive uh the reproductive means of a 0.99

05:16:22.180 of a male or a female so you can never have both you know everybody got different perspectives but i 0.57

05:16:27.780 sometimes waking up feeling like like i'm that man today i'm the i'm that nigger today and you know 0.98

05:16:33.620 what i'm saying and i move as such and i dress as such and then the next day i might feel like i'm

05:16:38.100 i'm super feminine it's like it just depends so like i'm not i don't identify but donated two hundred

05:16:44.580 dollars yeah thank you man the notion that are cut up and flipped inside out pp feels just like

05:16:49.620 the real vahaa j strains incredulity i refuse to collect any first-hand data on the phenomenon though

05:16:56.660 so i'll remain unconvinced yo graffito tag thank you so much for the uh tts man you're

05:17:02.260 fucking legend tonight thank you so much dude guys w's in the chat for graffito like i said also 0.85

05:17:07.780 already longtime supporter he's a legend he's a here he's a brave and a decent man he's a 0.95

05:17:14.260 pioneer he is a pioneer yo thank you so much man and uh do really appreciate it i guess

05:17:20.020 not to linger too long on this right but again i mean i would like you acknowledge that there's

05:17:24.980 a difference between sex and gender uh is a transgender woman female or male

05:17:33.620 they're male we're talking male sex if we're talking sex yeah we're talking sex versus gender 0.90

05:17:38.820 and then so if a male and a male are having sex how could it ever be straight that's not because 0.97

05:17:45.220 what were you attracted to it's about being gay is about your attraction were you attracted to the 0.52

05:17:50.340 masculinity were you attracted to the feminine but i mean there's masculine um there's masculine 1.00

05:17:56.500 straight women right it's like if you if you f a girl in the ass is that gay no no okay it's the same 1.00

05:18:02.020 thing that like if you f a guy the trans woman has an ass the trans woman has an ass you thought 1.00

05:18:07.460 she was a pretty girl yeah but if there's a dick there or even if there's not a dick there yeah that 1.00

05:18:12.820 would be gay no you can't push that way to the side i'm not gonna get into the intricacies of how 1.00

05:18:18.980 you have sex with a trans woman but that don't it's what you were attracted to were you like 0.99

05:18:24.740 i mean when you have first seen them like you can set your boundaries you be like oh now that i know 0.99

05:18:28.580 you're trans i'm not gonna be with you you can set that boundary but if you originally were 0.93

05:18:33.780 you know what i'm saying and you get into it and you know and but if yeah if you if you like they 0.98

05:18:38.100 bamboozled you and like looked like a woman but like whether there's a penis there or not if you 1.00

05:18:43.380 know that they're trans and then you proceed to have sex with them that would not be straight that 1.00

05:18:47.300 would be gay no yes unfortunately homosexuality means being attracted to someone of the same sex 0.99

05:18:54.820 it pertains to like sex like that's why we taught we we taught we say opposite sex or same 0.93

05:19:00.340 sex attraction homosexuality is same sex attraction like for example if you saw two males you don't know

05:19:07.380 their gender identity you saw two males how about this you saw a male who was you saw a male s-ing the d

05:19:17.140 of another male you don't know the gender identity and they both they're one doesn't like look isn't

05:19:24.900 like dressing up as a woman doesn't look trans like they just look like dudes like they look like men 0.89

05:19:30.580 and you saw them s-ing the d of the of the dude like would that do you think that would be gay or 0.78

05:19:35.700 straight not as gay but wait wait one more question one more question i'll let you just one more question

05:19:39.940 would but then while the the while the the dude who's receiving the bj if he's all like if he says

05:19:48.820 um if he says oh hey hey over there rebel um i identify as a woman does it bet then in the middle 0.99

05:19:58.820 of the sex act does it then become straight yes but then also no you do it to me you do 0.68

05:20:07.140 yes but okay what if okay you got a trans woman what if they go all the way with the surgery and 1.00

05:20:12.340 get their thing cut off and they get a uh pussy that's not what he said no listen no listen i 1.00

05:20:17.460 answered that question i answered them now let me answer my question if it was if it was a trans 1.00

05:20:22.820 woman and they already and they got a coochie right in and you couldn't even is that coochie though 1.00

05:20:28.980 is that gay or not because there's no dick there w cali in the chat over here 0.98

05:20:32.580 it's like saying it's a it's a it's a fleshlight is that he voted for is a fleshlight i didn't know 0.97

05:20:38.020 you were trump voter until now w w cali in the chat for voting she's actually like guys she told

05:20:44.900 me this before the show she's like you know how there's like the blacks for trump she actually

05:20:48.500 organized that yeah it's giving that with all this transphobia here it's giving that

05:20:54.260 what she even brought she gave me this hat bro look at she gave me the she gave me this hat no we

05:20:58.020 appreciate that we appreciate that we appreciate that whatever i do um wait so um what's going on

05:21:06.420 back there is what's going on back there no if it's like no comment you're you're waiting to wash your

05:21:14.260 hands you you yeah no comment i mean you've been back there for like i 15 20 minutes or something

05:21:21.140 you are you guys coming back to the table or yeah she's going to go wash her hands now and 1.00

05:21:25.700 then she's going to come back and plead the fifth even though she was back there just yeah whatever 1.00

05:21:29.860 okay all right um and you said if it's coochie you're real like it's a fleshlight coochie

05:21:34.900 it's still okay it's still valid like it's like saying like you know what i'm saying it's still

05:21:39.300 about a coochie is a coochie right right a fleshlight is not a coochie a fleshlight is a fleshlight

05:21:44.500 all right and if anybody ever says man i got some coochie last night i'm like okay like

05:21:49.700 tell me about it he's like yeah just grab that fleshlight i'd be like brother that's uh pocket 0.99

05:21:56.180 pussy yeah that's not it have you seen blue mountain state there's a great trans woman is 1.00

05:22:03.460 um all right we're gonna get into our next thing here so we have uh rebel the statement is possible 0.99

05:22:10.740 to be sexist towards men you disagree uh let's see oh the and then we have uh no comment over here

05:22:21.700 disagrees but she's not here at the table so why don't we start with uh rebel i guess um why do you

05:22:29.140 think it is impossible or not possible to be sexist towards men oppressor and oppressants

05:22:35.620 that's it there you go oppressor okay so men so you think so you think that basically if if somebody is

05:22:43.700 going to be oppressive towards somebody and a sexism would be oppressive you think that there has to be

05:22:49.060 a power dynamic there yeah it's the power dynamic right okay so just say hypothetically um there was a

05:22:54.900 land in which it was just run by women right mate it's a full-on matriarchy um amazonia just women 1.00

05:23:03.860 right and then a man comes in and they are all whipping him and throwing dirty rotten tomatoes at

05:23:10.420 him and making him walk through the middle of the street and they're all saying shame and they're

05:23:14.580 entertaining we're doing this because you're a man and for no other reason would that be sexist

05:23:19.300 yes in the hypothetical world that you're made it up so it is possible to be sexist towards men i

05:23:25.380 mean anything's possible it's possible to fly in a in a hypothetical situation i have a different

05:23:31.700 hypothetical that might be have possibly have become more realistic uh let's say kamala harris did you 0.99

05:23:38.420 vote for kamala team harris period so let's say kamala harris let's say kamala harris it was cheated by 0.98

05:23:46.500 the way you lost that was okay let's say let's say kamala did that became president

05:23:55.460 uh would you agree that the the president of the united states is possibly the most powerful person

05:23:59.940 in the world okay yeah i guess not really but yeah sure for your argument i'll give you that okay so

05:24:08.100 let's say kamala harris uh she did not want to hire a uh a man for he was applying to be janitor 1.00

05:24:20.100 of the white house and she didn't want to hire him because he was a man she discriminated against him

05:24:27.780 because he was a man and she wanted to hire a female janitor um do you think that in this instance that

05:24:34.100 would be sexist no only because she probably had to experience you know how hard it is for her to 1.00

05:24:41.540 become president she didn't even become president so it's like for her to even get there sure for her

05:24:46.740 to even get there she was oppressed to like and she's a black woman so this is like she can't she's

05:24:52.900 actually indian so hold on okay oh and she had does she have black dad or something there's no black but 0.53

05:24:58.260 yeah anyways so colored whatever uh or i thought she's part black nope she got a black dad right 1.00

05:25:05.940 nope um candace owens did the whole thing i don't know whatever it's it's not material to the

05:25:11.620 conversation um so okay so kamal harris uh just can you define your like what is your definition of sexism

05:25:19.620 it's um discrimination on a gender from a position of power power so like i've heard this definition

05:25:28.980 of racism tell me if you agree with it so racism equals prejudice plus power is that your definition

05:25:36.900 of racism yeah and so with a similar definition of sexism uh prejudice i mean sexism prejudice plus power

05:25:44.420 and your position is is that women don't have power men do have the power therefore maybe you can be 0.98

05:25:51.060 you can uh be bigoted or discriminate towards men but you can't be sexist towards men is that fair and

05:25:57.940 the same would apply uh like between white and black dynamics like uh black people can't be uh racist

05:26:04.420 towards white people because uh white people have the power in society black people don't and so because 0.98

05:26:09.860 there's no prejudice plus power there might be prejudice but there's no power black people can't be 0.88

05:26:14.260 racist towards white people is that a fair characterization yep okay so just going back to 0.72

05:26:18.260 the sexist thing though um i think i've actually met your own definition though of i don't agree with

05:26:24.740 your definition of sexism equals prejudice plus power but i've in the example i gave i actually met your

05:26:31.380 definition so kamala harris has power and she's prejudiced towards a man she has more power than that 1.00

05:26:38.820 specific man she has more power than in fact 99.99 percent of men in the country she also has systemic 1.00

05:26:46.500 power too if we want to take it a step further because she's the leader of the executive branch 1.00

05:26:51.220 of the united states government which one the united states of america is the most powerful country in the

05:26:55.220 world the executive branch is arguably the most powerful branch of the government i mean we have

05:26:59.380 debates over that kind of not material though and then uh she's the leader of it so she has power 1.00

05:27:06.180 she has prejudice and she has systemic power i feel like it would be sexism if majority of congress 0.97

05:27:12.980 were women if majority of the people in power were women not just her president no but she's she's 1.00

05:27:18.660 the president she's the president she has power right she has prejudice she doesn't want to hire the male 1.00

05:27:24.980 white house janitor because he's male she wants to hire a female janitor how how about this uh if 1.00

05:27:32.500 donald trump didn't want to hire a woman because she's a woman would that be sexist yes okay so i'm

05:27:40.740 using i understand i'm using your own i understand no i get it i just think it's just it it comes down

05:27:46.020 to the history and how many there's majority men in office right now yeah just because we thought we

05:27:52.980 talk about kamala harris yeah i'm talking on the the individual level like how could she like who cares

05:27:57.380 about all that other stuff she has power she has systemic power she has prejudice i'm meeting your 0.99

05:28:01.940 definition can you add to the definition to make it not sexist then it's it's prejudice like it's

05:28:09.140 another word for it like it's not instead of sexist it's something else it's prejudice it's like same

05:28:12.980 thing racist it's prejudice like black i don't know because it's like i if i say that women can be 0.89

05:28:18.820 sexist to men then i i can say that black people can be racist to white people and i don't agree with

05:28:24.100 that well we can get into that but you know what i'm saying that's why that's why i can't say yeah

05:28:28.100 that's sexist because then i would be agreeing to other here's i guess here's the problem we're

05:28:32.660 encountering you gave me a definition i repeated the definition back to you you agreed with the

05:28:37.300 definition i met all the criteria for your own definition you're either going to have to concede

05:28:42.740 that it is sexism or you need to change your definition again yeah i might have to change my

05:28:47.060 definition okay let's hear the new definition let me let me look at the definition

05:28:53.140 i mean i my definition of sexism is prejudice and power but yeah i'm using your discrimination yeah

05:29:00.420 that's my that's my definition but how can if i meet all the criteria for your definition why

05:29:06.260 how would it not be sexist because like i said it's one woman like you can't the power women don't have 1.00

05:29:12.820 more power over men in general so you can't even say that but you don't think sexism so there's like

05:29:17.700 systemic sexism but you don't think sexism exists on like an individual level for example if a white

05:29:22.340 person calls a black person the n-word like we would agree that that's racist right yes right 1.00

05:29:27.300 but that's on an individual level right so like if the most powerful woman in the country if she did 1.00

05:29:33.380 when the the yeah i mean i guess i guess you could say okay vaguely like okay do you want for the uh

05:29:41.780 racist thing just before we get to the racist thing um i do need to get to her because she also 1.00

05:29:46.660 disagreed so the statement is possible to be sexist towards men uh you disagree with that why

05:29:52.900 i honestly did not understand the question

05:30:05.860 okay so tell me what your understanding of it was

05:30:10.500 i didn't understand if you can explain it to me please

05:30:14.020 do you think it's possible to be sexist towards men

05:30:18.820 yes

05:30:22.900 okay okay uh

05:30:29.460 not me personally but

05:30:32.020 right maybe you don't have any sexist you're not sexist towards men but is it possible a woman or 0.90

05:30:38.420 even yourself could be sexist towards men

05:30:41.300 yes

05:30:45.780 mm-hmm okay and uh well why don't we go into the next thing then uh possible to be racist towards

05:30:52.180 white people rebel you disagree can i give you a uh hypothetical yes go ahead

05:30:57.620 wait before you before your analogies uh and you said uh the statement is possible to be racist

05:31:05.780 towards white people yeah do you agree or disagree um i agree a lot of people are racist

05:31:22.100 so you can be racist to white people not me personally but i've experienced it in a social setting

05:31:33.540 you indicated here though that you disagreed

05:31:38.660 i honestly did not understand those questions you didn't understand the question okay all right

05:31:43.220 well then it's just for rebel then i don't think anybody else uh yeah i feel like the even we're

05:31:48.980 talking about it now i feel like the power gap between men and women are smaller than the power

05:31:54.340 gap between black people and white people now i feel like so maybe back in the day in like a

05:31:59.940 another hypothetical situation say there was a country in africa for example and they had an all

05:32:04.740 black government the country was completely run by black people and then for example say that there 0.85

05:32:09.860 was a bunch of like farmers who were white and the all black government was systemically kicking 1.00

05:32:15.540 out all of those farmers out of the country and in many cases people were killing them would that be

05:32:20.100 racist in your hypothetical situation yes well what if i told you that's exactly what's happened in 0.96

05:32:25.860 south africa right now this is it's south africa right now they're kicking out white people kicking 0.95

05:32:30.980 out all the white farmers killing them in many cases well they came and snatched us from over there sir first 1.00

05:32:37.140 so it's kind of like but these farmers didn't snatch anybody these are just farmers who are farming 0.79

05:32:43.140 their land and they're being systemically kicked out and their land is actually being appropriate

05:32:47.700 being um uh what's it called x appropriated but uh x i'm having a mental blank but their land is

05:32:56.020 basically being forcefully taken by the government because they're white is that racist is it because 0.86

05:33:03.300 they're white it's because they're white it's not happening to any blacks and it's being giving 0.98

05:33:06.580 being redistributed back to black people 1.00

05:33:10.740 no i feel like we looking out for us in that situation like i'm not gonna lie because just the

05:33:17.220 history of africa by itself like they not even meant to be there they gonna get sunburned

05:33:23.380 they really we really helping them out if we really be honest that we kicking them they need to go to

05:33:27.860 iceland or something where they can thrive better so you say that's completely appropriate for the all

05:33:32.900 black government to be expropriating i think that's the word the land of these white farmers that 0.96

05:33:38.020 they've been farming for generations and generations and you think that because they're looking out for

05:33:42.420 themselves then that's an okay thing to do it's not okay it's not okay i'm not gonna sit up here

05:33:47.780 i like this okay would you say that because of like the heavy race factor actually the same thing

05:33:52.820 happened in rhodesia which is now zimbabwe

05:33:55.060 do you think they're talking about me do you think that it's it's racist could that fall into

05:34:01.780 the category of racist i wouldn't even prejudice prejudice agi prejudice like you could say bias

05:34:08.820 you could say discriminatory so what exactly is the difference between that and let's talk about the

05:34:14.100 atlantic slave trade for example the uh americans came over and they were taking slaves from africa right

05:34:22.980 they were buying slaves from africa but they were just looking out for themselves and actually they

05:34:26.500 were giving the slaves a better life because now their ancestors are all in america right so would

05:34:31.140 you say that the same logic could apply i can't even i can't even say that because colorism runs so deep

05:34:36.260 in the world it's just like it's if if white skin was seen as as it's what's the opposite of superior

05:34:44.260 inferior inferior to us then i could say like yeah that's racism but in general speaking white skin has

05:34:51.300 holds more power so just that one little instance of prejudice is that doesn't mean that we can be

05:34:57.940 racist towards white people but what about just specifically with the example we're talking about

05:35:02.820 here with south africa and that's a material example it's not even hypothetical that's wrong and

05:35:07.060 it's prejudice it's wrong 100 but if it meets your exact definition of power because of our racism

05:35:12.980 because in south africa they have the anc the african national congress which is in charge of the

05:35:17.380 country and they actually have big festivals and rallies where they're chanting kill the boa the 0.98

05:35:23.220 boa is the white farmer and they're saying kill the white farmer kill the white farmer could that 0.98

05:35:28.180 possibly be seen as a little bit racist they're saying kill the white farmer i think i'm biased on 0.96

05:35:34.500 this situation it was illegal to be black in south africa for a very long time so it wasn't illegal to be

05:35:41.140 black but there was segregation to deal with white people and all of that to have an interracial child

05:35:45.940 that was illegal but would you say that that's racist i don't know if it's right it's just get

05:35:50.260 back it's not racist but was it but like was the apartheid that you're talking about was that racist

05:35:55.140 it was okay so then would you apply the same standard to what's happening now

05:36:00.740 it is racist it is yep so you do you think it's possible for black people to be racist to white people 0.55

05:36:07.460 it is possible how about this rebel do you like slavery is obviously a like where this sort of

05:36:13.140 conversation stems from right right say for example if there was lots of black people that hundreds of

05:36:19.940 years ago were enslaving lots of white people would that be racist yeah what if i told you that that

05:36:26.100 actually did happen there was a barbary slave trade which is northern africans that were taking europeans

05:36:31.060 and over a million of them and enslaving them every color of people were slaves at one point

05:36:35.300 but it's just talking about the system systemic ways that it is now it's not it's not favored

05:36:42.820 towards black people that's the only difference that's the thing everybody's been slaves and last 0.99

05:36:47.300 question if if just say for example africa had an economic boom just like china and india had over

05:36:53.060 the last sort of 20 years or so say globalism hits africa they start manufacturing at a massive rate

05:36:58.900 china is investing in them china is building all of this infrastructure within africa and then all of a

05:37:03.860 sudden you look into the future 30 years and africa and african countries have the highest gdp from

05:37:09.700 any continent and then but if that did happen then would you say that that would then and then and then

05:37:16.260 the africans were doing what they're doing to white people in their countries would it then be racist 0.94

05:37:20.100 things would change to that point where we had that much power yeah then it can flip and we could be the

05:37:25.060 racist ones yeah right and this type of if if the power dynamics were to flip yes but it's like everyone's

05:37:31.620 with slaves but not everyone was oppressed from the beginning for hundreds and hundreds of years

05:37:37.780 not everyone was getting ate and turned into chairs and babies getting buried into the ground

05:37:43.140 and getting their head kicked off like not every race had to happening to them actually did did happen

05:37:48.180 pretty much throughout human history basically until christian european civilization came about

05:37:53.700 the world the entire world was an it was just a series of tribal warfare and people were just killing each

05:37:59.380 other they were taking uh like war brides they were killing each other in brutal ways they would go

05:38:05.460 into the place they'd kill all of the men keep the women for brides kill all the children in in because 1.00

05:38:09.780 if they didn't kill the children then the children one day come for retribution so that was pretty much

05:38:14.420 the story of the world it's even in in the bible you've got sort of battles like this taking place

05:38:18.900 so the way that i view it is that human history is just a series of brutal brutal warfare where everybody

05:38:26.020 suffered and then christian european civilization happened which is you know um after jesus christ

05:38:32.260 and how christianity spread throughout europe and throughout the world and then this is where

05:38:37.860 modern the sort of modern morals and modern human rights come from is the christian christian are you

05:38:43.620 a christian um i was raised christian but i definitely am like just more spiritual now i would say um

05:38:50.500 um would you like and would you agree that it was actually the christian countries that abolished

05:38:56.180 slavery i guess yes yeah because it was the english william wilberforce sailing the seas trying to

05:39:05.540 trying to get all of the slave ships and then it was the americans who abolished slavery but still

05:39:10.660 nowadays today there's more slavery in the world than there has ever been in human history wow yeah all

05:39:16.900 through the middle east they use christianity to enslave people as well too so well the christian 0.95

05:39:21.300 countries actually pretty much exclusively the only ones that don't have slavery right now yeah right

05:39:27.380 now but i mean that's the evilness of christianity they used it as a way to control slaves too back

05:39:33.860 then too so it's like the argument of christianity being but could you also make the argument though

05:39:39.860 that if you look at the white world which is basically europe and then america australia uh canada

05:39:46.500 and um new zealand basically these are pretty much the only places in the world that don't they've

05:39:52.260 got a lot of sex slavery that happens in those countries so that still happens but by and large

05:39:56.820 these are the countries that don't really have too much slavery could you then make the argument that

05:40:00.260 because there's so many black people still enslaving black people in africa that that the oppression is 0.98

05:40:05.700 actually coming from black people now and even during the atlantic slave trade even during the atlantic 0.97

05:40:11.220 slave trade pushing it jake well do you know do you know how how do you think how do you think that um

05:40:16.500 how do you think that you the white people from america got slaves uh i know they well i know that

05:40:22.260 they gave them to them but there was also like guns involved and stuff too like i know they came and

05:40:27.380 snatched some people and i know they gave up the people yeah what do you mean there were a lot of 0.95

05:40:32.500 things that were said like there was gonna be a better life for them and all types of shit a lot of 0.94

05:40:35.940 people got on those boats thinking that they were going to go somewhere and be taken care of and 0.86

05:40:39.860 you know things were going to be better they didn't necessarily go because they were like oh

05:40:43.380 we're going to get whipped and we're going to go help you guys pick some cotton that wasn't why they 1.00

05:40:46.820 fucking got on the boat but we all know that the reason why they got on the boat was not by choice 0.98

05:40:51.860 they didn't willingly get on the boat the reason why they got on the boat was because they were sold 1.00

05:40:56.980 by other africans africans would would sell them into the slave trade so they would have a slave market 0.99

05:41:02.740 the europeans would come over and they would buy slaves from the africans that's how that's how it worked 0.99

05:41:07.700 so do you think that it kind of dilutes the race argument a little bit that it's like just

05:41:12.740 white people being oppressive it was actually black people selling other black people 0.99

05:41:17.780 it doesn't why would you come and before you guys made the argument when we were talking about men 0.96

05:41:22.660 and war you guys made the argument that but it's but it's other men who are creating these wars so if

05:41:28.740 it's other black people who are selling other black people into slavery wouldn't that be the same logic 1.00

05:41:33.460 that's not necessarily the same logic i feel like black people were also stolen and taken like you 0.92

05:41:41.380 said a lot a lot too i feel like we were they were and then some people were taken with guns back then 0.92

05:41:48.260 africans we had spears and shit you know what i'm saying and where there were cases of white people 0.85

05:41:53.460 coming in with this heavy heavy artillery and taking our people so it's just like and then like who kept us 0.99

05:41:59.300 you know what i'm saying like if i sell a puppy to you and you beat that puppy who oppressed that puppy

05:42:06.100 was it me selling it to you i didn't know you was gonna do all that to them so you think the people

05:42:10.260 captured all the slaves and then put them into a slave market is like selling a puppy i'm just saying

05:42:15.860 like if i sold you know what i'm saying if i sold a puppy to you and you decided to abuse it i didn't

05:42:20.740 impress that puppy you pressed the puppy but you know what i'm saying i could say i was wrong for selling

05:42:26.260 it to you but i can't say that i oppressed that puppy because you decided do you think it's okay

05:42:30.820 to sell other human beings no no i don't think it's okay to buy a human beings either or go ask for

05:42:36.980 something that's weird yeah but you know what i'm saying nobody i'm not saying that black people are 0.98

05:42:42.020 right and in all type of ways but i don't think that we're the oppressors because we sold our people

05:42:47.780 we could sell you know i'm saying do you think do you think um do you look at arab people in the 0.94

05:42:52.980 same light that you look at white people i heard people like black people do i look at black people 0.94

05:42:58.340 in the same way do you look at arab people in the same light era because you look at you look at

05:43:03.220 like white people as as uh oppressive do you look at arabs the same way that you look at white people

05:43:10.420 no no what do you mean like air is like as far as like equality or like do i see them as oppressors 0.53

05:43:16.740 arabs yeah arabs do i see them as oppressors no i don't what if i was to tell you that the arab 1.00

05:43:22.580 slave trade throughout the middle east was by far and away bigger than the uh white slave trade and

05:43:28.660 also that's still happening today to a community you can't say it was like far bigger because

05:43:33.460 regardless programming our people still went through that so you can't compare it to something that we

05:43:38.660 know nothing about we know about what happened to our people yeah that's all we get to talk about

05:43:42.500 but who are your people black people so black people were enslaved at a much larger rate by arab

05:43:48.820 people and it's still happening like you've got um a lot of slavery still happening in africa today

05:43:53.860 you've got you if you and you know it's happening these little tesla batteries and all the electric

05:43:58.660 cars you guys are driving most definitely yeah i mean so are you guys though you have to be 0.96

05:44:03.140 comfortable in that if you if you want to talk about people buying buying cars they're black people who

05:44:07.860 own teslas too okay i didn't say that there aren't yeah so i never said there aren't so you're saying

05:44:14.580 so then you're saying that you're culpable in slavery no i don't have an electric car okay but

05:44:18.420 like black people are there are black people who have electric cars so do i i'm i'm the voice for all

05:44:23.220 black people no i'm saying but you guys are all wrong but you but you said before that that uh 0.84

05:44:29.220 slavery is them you know building batteries and making electric cars if there are black people who 1.00

05:44:33.860 have batteries and electric cars then they would be oppressors right they're absolutely helping in

05:44:38.260 the problem okay so you don't think you disagree with it so wait i'm confused so you're saying

05:44:44.260 because slavery was us making batteries and stuff so at this moment to make all these batteries uh-huh

05:44:50.740 for these electric cars that's they're getting that all of that material from africa our people are

05:44:56.420 no they're in fields picking this out right dying they're in mines they're in cobalt mines and places

05:45:02.900 like this oh we're definitely complicit in our own oppression i feel like women are too in some 0.88

05:45:08.260 type of ways i feel like we allow a lot of things and like you said equality like we have to own up

05:45:13.780 to if we want equality on certain things that we have to step up in other ways i feel like that's the

05:45:18.500 same thing with black people i feel like we don't hold each other accountable as much but that goes for 1.00

05:45:22.660 every oppressed group i just think that in terms of the arab and white argument there's a specific

05:45:26.980 narrative that's painted that white people are somehow like especially bad in this in this regard

05:45:34.100 whereas actually the white christian world is other people who um abolish slavery the only ones

05:45:40.820 that abolish slavery well you know with the textbooks changing so much how can we even keep up

05:45:46.260 uh literally well i mean history is rewritten every few years we abolish slavery but did we really

05:45:51.300 did we really i mean that's a you can we can get into that point like do we still have slavery today

05:45:56.900 and i think that there is there is then we in slave masters they rounded up the slaves then we

05:46:02.340 changed them to police officers now we got state patrol now we're locking up and you know black people 1.00

05:46:07.220 are locked up at a higher rate and we're putting them i think that's the only good argument that there

05:46:11.460 actually is here and especially in terms of modern slavery that that but by the definition of slavery

05:46:16.740 which is basically just taking somebody and making them do forced labor against their consent against

05:46:22.340 their will the amount of people that are incarcerated today it technically falls under the definition

05:46:27.380 of slavery except that except for the fact that they committed crimes so that's another interesting

05:46:32.180 conversation to have but historically there there is if you wanted to look at it from damage done

05:46:38.260 the arab slave trade was far far far worse for black people than the white

05:46:42.100 slave trade no so this is just a historical fact and then we got a difference between

05:46:46.260 africans and black do you disagree that there's still african people enslaved in the middle east

05:46:51.060 today i don't know you don't know i don't know you do you do you want a final thought though that was

05:46:57.460 a good okay good enough conversation all right we have a super chat here from john hey john thank you

05:47:02.740 good to see you back in the chat rebel had to be the one to read my comment hilarious thank you

05:47:07.060 while there was no disrespect or insult yet she read it with disrespect and disdain not even hating

05:47:13.060 me but hating jesus christ and the truth excuse me reconsider or be without excuse jc is lord

05:47:22.020 um you did have a little disrespectful comment first of all you're saying we believe in a lie so you're 0.99

05:47:27.540 kind of like trying to say we're stupid and then two you're saying that women will never be equal to 1.00

05:47:32.500 men i find that to be offensive so that's why i read it like that like you literally said that 0.99

05:47:38.580 you find it to be false though like wouldn't we say equal are we talking about physically equal no i

05:47:45.060 can't beat you with no arm wrestle right now but that don't mean that i mean but do you think that

05:47:48.980 what you're what you're what you're actually alluding to there what you're alluding to there is the

05:47:52.340 fact that i mean i work out but like yeah you're double buy show us a double buy you know what i'm saying

05:47:58.100 but like let's be real what do we mean by equality well what you're alluding to there that you

05:48:02.020 couldn't beat us in an arm wrestle is that men uh have basically a monopoly on force which means 1.00

05:48:07.300 that women can never actually enforce their own rights so when you talk about equal it's actually 0.50

05:48:12.020 egalitarianism is impossible because women could never actually have a monopoly on force men will 1.00

05:48:18.100 always have that i feel like we could get some um weapons out and get it done but no but i just

05:48:25.460 because it's more of us than it is y'all if we think it's more women than it is men

05:48:29.140 doesn't matter i mean guns are force equalizers to some degree but there are differences when it

05:48:33.220 comes to like you know the type of guns that you can field like you know carrying it for long

05:48:37.700 distances and then in the event of like some hand-to-hand combat situation you can argue

05:48:41.860 black people are stronger than white people but white people still scooped us up so i i mean men are

05:48:46.980 stronger than women but i feel like women if we all came together because i also what you're talking about

05:48:51.140 is having guns um and if you have guns we also have guns and we're stronger and can handle the

05:48:57.460 guns better so it there's still a massive disadvantage for you guys yeah i guess but

05:49:02.900 like equality are we just saying in society are we we talking physically so you're saying because

05:49:07.620 we're not physically stronger than y'all we'll never be equal to you yeah i think you can be equal in

05:49:11.060 value as a human being oh that's what i'm talking about i think that every human being is is of equal

05:49:16.180 value intrinsically we all have a soul but um in terms of of force and in terms of being able to

05:49:23.460 you know actually exercise force women wouldn't just cannot ever be equal it's impossible we have 1.00

05:49:29.620 a super chat here from jason cassell he says rebel just admit you are a pos oh damn okay europeans 0.98

05:49:35.220 didn't invade africa and take slaves the slaves were slaves to other black people that were sold to slave 0.99

05:49:40.740 merchants i'm a piece of shit because what because i don't think that we can be racist to white people 1.00

05:49:48.180 like i don't know you're a piece of shit because you're racist like we could go back and forth about 1.00

05:49:53.220 this all day okay the slaves were slaves to other black people just so okay like two rounds don't make 1.00

05:50:00.900 it right just because i like i have a puppy if i have my puppy and i give it to you and you 0.97

05:50:06.820 fuck that puppy up that don't mean nothing we do have another one from jason he has a follow-up the 0.98

05:50:11.700 first recorded slave owner in the colonies was a black man you are not oppressed you are not being 1.00

05:50:16.260 attacked stop acting like a victim read a book do you want to respond to that

05:50:23.460 we're not so he's saying black people not oppressed 1.00

05:50:28.180 like i could really just a moment of silence for all our fallen brothers and sisters that got killed at

05:50:32.900 the hands of both police brutality and just like day-to-day racism you know what i'm saying like

05:50:39.140 we get moment moment for all of my white brothers and sisters that got killed at the hands of black 1.00

05:50:43.540 people in street violence bro that's not all right let's uh before it gets too crazy 0.94

05:50:49.300 i ain't gonna lie uh jason because i'm gonna start acting like her in a minute because she 1.00

05:50:54.740 i'm gonna start acting like oh girl that got kicked out hey you guys want to hear jokes

05:50:58.100 to lighten the mood a little bit so i i don't know if it's going to help at all i'm technically

05:51:03.220 technically technically african-american okay hold wait wait just hold it just hear me out hold on

05:51:11.540 cali give me give me a little give me a minute you want me to i was going to say with culture

05:51:16.900 no it's average just okay so then i don't believe it it doesn't work out yeah shoot um but

05:51:22.980 um okay my dad was born in north africa okay and my mom was born in america so hold on is he black 0.65

05:51:33.300 just give me a sec give me a sec so because my dad was born in africa and because my mom was born in

05:51:39.220 america on the technicality i know i'm not i'm not black i'm pale i'm too pale to be black but technically

05:51:47.700 i'm african-american because i agree my look my dad was born in africa which i'm not like black

05:51:56.020 african-american i'm technically african-american no you disagree oh you're you're on part you're on

05:52:04.500 the boat oh i did not mean i mean like you know what i mean i meant like you're on the you're on the on

05:52:12.900 the same page i don't think you're african-american what you're trying to tell us no i'm just trying

05:52:19.140 to say no i'm still white my dad was born in africa my mom was born in america

05:52:27.140 technically you're still white no i'm 100 yeah 100 but there's south africans that are white yeah it's

05:52:34.580 white africans it's white africans which come through that's the only reason i give it to you

05:52:39.380 okay all right oh oh look it's uh okay jason has another oh my god jason in the chat

05:52:45.220 hey dummy check the stats pull the stats up let's see who's more impressed we can pull the stats up

05:52:49.780 between if you want to pull the stats up on uh who's more um incarcerated like we can go into

05:52:56.420 raillining we could go into all type of like are you serious and it's black history month

05:53:01.460 are you serious y'all trying to like argue who's that's my favorite is that february

05:53:05.540 i'm saying it's black history month it was it's mlk day is it coming up or it just passed

05:53:10.420 when is when is when is um white history month man 11 months out of the year fourth of july

05:53:17.700 we need white african-american months okay because i really look i'm just saying i don't feel like us

05:53:26.180 white african-americans get enough representation you're absolutely right no and with that being 1.00

05:53:33.460 said can we talk about reparations too okay no no no it's not about race is anybody here left-handed

05:53:41.540 i've your lefty see she did both oh ambidex ambidex get out ambidextrous that's privilege 1.00

05:53:48.260 as a left-handed person i have suffered i've i've been disadvantaged in life scissors doors desks

05:54:01.220 getting all that smudge when i'm like because you know if i'm if i'm writing like you go across the

05:54:07.060 whatever you wrote oh i go home i go home i have to use extra soap i use extra soap to get that 0.92

05:54:13.300 shit off after class every day okay every day and you know what it's probably all that plastic in 0.98

05:54:21.300 there you're right you you know what just that part of me i was you know okay just that just this 0.96

05:54:29.060 part just that part right there um and uh i do think also people who have poor vision should also

05:54:36.900 get reparations because we like every year we got to spend like an extra 100 200 bucks on like

05:54:42.340 contacts and glasses like i'm trying to get his reparations that's right that's right okay good

05:54:49.620 talk uh we have jason cassell about 13 of the population more than 50 of crime that's why more

05:54:56.420 blacks are incarcerated oh jason pump the brakes there you're gonna get it or maybe black or maybe police 0.94

05:55:02.900 just hang out in in in more black places maybe because in the suburbs it's not that many police officers 0.99

05:55:12.020 there when it is and i feel like if it's a black person a white person driving on the road there's 0.97

05:55:16.660 gonna be more likely the black person is gonna get pulled over just final thought on that though right 0.99

05:55:22.100 there is a discrepancy here you know so you know how like we were talking about like sexism but like

05:55:29.220 do you think the higher incidence rate at least like you're saying that there's a higher incidence rate

05:55:34.820 of like police killings police brutality police misconduct when it comes to like uh to black people is that

05:55:41.300 that's like your position yes and this is like evidence of uh it's evidence racism yeah now there's

05:55:48.420 a really interesting other discrepancy we can look at so if you look at the discrepancy that exists

05:55:53.060 between white people and black people right there's i think it's a five time larger discrepancy in policing

05:55:59.780 if you look at between men and women so police murders police police murders police brutality police

05:56:05.780 misconduct the rate between men and women is five times greater between the rate uh between black

05:56:13.460 and white what do you think this is like evidence of sexism no i mean because he said that 50 of

05:56:20.420 crime is committed by black people so i guess you could say more crime is committed by men and that's 0.98

05:56:25.620 why they get pulled over if i can argue make that same argument okay jason castell he says yeah that's 0.99

05:56:30.500 where the crime is dummy okay jason castell deep pockets and also if you look at the unaliving rates

05:56:36.500 of the of who unalives who more black people are much more likely to unalive white people

05:56:41.860 yeah and white people are more likely to walk into school with guns like it's like but are we gonna

05:56:47.620 deny like i could just even think about right like rodney king the man was unarmed they beat him

05:56:53.140 mercilessly and they still got away with it on camera i haven't seen too many instances i haven't

05:56:59.700 seen too many instances maybe they just don't post them of white people being unarmed or not doing

05:57:05.620 anything wrong and getting treated terribly by police like i don't maybe they just don't post it i for the

05:57:11.860 sake of time i do have to move things on okay yeah yeah but uh men are the primary victims of war

05:57:18.500 roxana you disagree with that statement why is that because there are children who are being bombed

05:57:24.580 and uh women as well so it's actually everybody suffers during war yeah i agree with you everybody

05:57:32.580 suffers but i mean if we're looking at like primary victim right so for example would you agree with me

05:57:37.060 that like if a woman is um i mean i this is the only i guess the only example i'll bring you here

05:57:44.100 if a woman gets essayed like her immediate family and maybe her boyfriend or wife like that would be 0.98

05:57:49.620 traumatic for them too right but i think we would all agree that the woman is the primary victim in

05:57:54.580 that case even if it's traumatic for her family to like know that someone they love about uh went like

05:58:00.340 had that happen to them of course so you wouldn't say that they're also the primary victim right they

05:58:06.820 could be victims in terms of like wow that's really traumatic and you love this person and that's hurtful

05:58:11.780 but we would always say that the woman is the primary victim correct yes okay but so do you want 0.94

05:58:17.540 to do you still think that because like in war yes some women there's bombings and sometimes it hits 1.00

05:58:23.460 civilians but when it comes to the military force predominated by men combat rules even more

05:58:27.780 predominated by men and then those are the people who are going to die yeah i agree with that however um 0.99

05:58:35.540 there are different levels to that like for instance there's uh a person uh a man soldier who is on the

05:58:44.180 floor and on combat like hand-to-hand combat right of course they're they're the um they're the victim

05:58:52.260 you know they're gonna be um right up front with violence and all that but however what about like

05:58:58.900 somebody flying a plane and just pressing a button who's who's suffering at who's gonna be suffering

05:59:06.500 from that attack you mean it's gonna be so like a thousand men well i mean typically i think there's

05:59:14.580 certain uh rules of engagement uh laws as it pertains to war are there civilian casualties are mistakes

05:59:22.660 made or sometimes even it's intentionally done and that's like against i think the geneva convention but

05:59:27.780 like sometimes you know a bomb misses mortar misses whatever um but most of the targets that are gonna

05:59:33.540 you know from from bombs drop from airplanes are gonna be military targets and those targets are

05:59:38.500 gonna be predominantly men so yeah some women die some women civilians die some children civilians die

05:59:44.820 even some male civilians die because not all men end up going to war but i think you would still like

05:59:50.100 us let's say there's when it comes to bombings right let's say when it comes to bombings 95 of them

05:59:55.700 are all military targets and these this is like almost 100 men and then the five percent of like

06:00:00.740 military bombings that end up hitting a building either incorrectly or it's just like you know

06:00:06.260 they're intentionally actually going after the civilians i think you would still have to come to

06:00:09.860 the conclusion that if 95 of those casualties from bombing are men i think you that's still the

06:00:16.740 primary victim of war just because there's such a discrepancy in terms of the total numbers

06:00:20.900 of casualties sure when you put it that way yes i agree um but there is always um

06:00:29.140 i think there's always a chance that you know other you know children women men civilians are

06:00:36.580 going to also get hurt yeah i agree but like how about this what about this example so like let's say

06:00:41.620 there's a war where 10 million men die in the military and then you have a million uh women who are 1.00

06:00:47.220 civilians who die and then you have a million children who would be both like 50 50 boy girls 0.78

06:00:52.820 something like that uh then you have a million children who die and then you have like uh 350

06:00:58.580 000 male civilians who die um if you have to total up the entire amount like who do you think is the

06:01:03.940 primary victim of war in the scenario i just gave of course the soldiers the men okay yeah okay all right

06:01:11.060 um i don't really have anything else on that we have uh let's see rep um let me just see if there's

06:01:18.260 anything for 15 or no oh okay so let's go to 12 women are not oppressed in the united states rebel you 1.00

06:01:25.860 disagree wait i said not oppressed uh so the statement is women are not oppressed in the usa

06:01:33.700 you disagree with the statement so you think women are oppressed in the united states you also

06:01:37.780 circled that too so your position is women are oppressed in the united states is that correct 1.00

06:01:44.660 can you define oppressed uh like heart yeah like harsh unjust or unfair treatment typically at the

06:01:52.580 hands of like the state or the government yes okay and then you said yes um i don't know if it's the

06:01:59.780 state of the government but i definitely feel like it's social i feel like the way i think it's just too

06:02:04.740 many uh double standards when it comes to women like i just feel like like the fact that when we 1.00

06:02:11.060 have a higher body count we're considered hoes and all this stuff and then i think a guy could be a hoe 0.99

06:02:17.220 yeah yeah i think it's just more of a like you know what i'm saying i think it's just like the fact

06:02:22.180 like when a man smashes he got some but when a woman smashes she gave it up i disagree you know what

06:02:30.260 i'm saying it's the it's the little the nuances there like it's just uh it it makes me sick to

06:02:37.380 my stomach like it it's just like too many double standards that's the only reason like i don't know

06:02:41.940 i feel like with sex like i only get to come once but like some of these chicks be coming like 20 times 1.00

06:02:46.660 i think that's unfair most of them don't come at all i mean some of these girls i'm telling you

06:02:53.540 right right you know oh no you've been with have you ever been with like a woman who just like

06:02:57.380 like it's it's crazy son you know what i'm talking about like she's coming like 20 times and 0.99

06:03:02.580 shit it's fucking legs twitching like crazy son it's 30 30 i'm getting tipsy now yeah you know 0.99

06:03:11.380 it's just you're right okay but um i guess i was more so looking at like i know there's social factors 1.00

06:03:17.380 that can feel unfair but more so like when it comes to oppression i'm thinking of like systemic

06:03:21.940 something like okay yeah i will say yes just because trump you got that hat over there trump

06:03:28.260 is making it so maybe if kamala was president it wouldn't be so and we would be moving towards

06:03:34.020 a progressive but with this whole oh we're gonna choose what you do with your body that simple the

06:03:41.060 abortion laws period just shows that we're oppressed like you think that trump is um he's super right 1.00

06:03:47.540 wing when it comes to abortion hell yeah do you know what his policy is then he's like is it oh

06:03:53.940 you leave it up to the state yeah that was his policy right yeah yeah i know but it's just really

06:03:58.420 his conservative cabinet his cabinet is saying that we shouldn't allow women to make their own choice

06:04:04.580 he said he does have he does have conservatives in the cabinet who are pro-life but actually trump's

06:04:09.700 position is as centrist as it gets because you guys are a constitutional republic which means you

06:04:14.980 generally are meant to leave the power up to the states you've done so less and less as your

06:04:19.300 country's evolved but you're meant to leave the power up to the states right so what trump's done

06:04:23.700 yeah you're not from here it's crazy is this a debate or a podcast i talk about politics and um

06:04:28.820 i talk about culture jake is it a debate or a podcast okay um it's uh it's a podcast where we

06:04:33.780 talk about different controversial issues and sometimes it goes into a debate why do you ask

06:04:37.700 genuine question yeah yeah okay but you've been a really good sport all night i will say

06:04:41.620 yeah i i forgot you're not even from here i forgot yeah i was like wait but not it's just like

06:04:49.300 your answer is like abortion that's like that's just okay i'm not saying abortion is right or wrong

06:04:54.340 but it's just the the choice that our government even has or men have something to say about it

06:04:59.940 is oppression you said uh women are oppressed in the united states uh why is that they just are 1.00

06:05:07.220 yeah sure uh why no comment um why i said no comment

06:05:28.020 um why don't you want to comment because it's my freedom of speech

06:05:38.900 america um yeah it's i mean it's not even a free speech issue um it's just like if you want to comment

06:05:49.380 you can go ahead huh if i want to comment yeah i'm asking you to comment my contract did not say answer

06:05:58.180 questions um well actually your contract states if you're disruptive or sabotaging the show in some

06:06:08.180 way then you have some liability towards us so by agreeing to come on a show where there's an expectation

06:06:15.060 i don't expect everybody to answer every single question but i think it's fair to say that the

06:06:20.900 majority of the questions posed to you you've just refused to comment so that's not a disruption

06:06:30.420 yes it is a disruption to the podcast i'm glad you voice your opinion can i ask why you came on the

06:06:36.500 podcast today yeah he asked me to be on the podcast but like personally from your own sort of

06:06:41.060 standpoint what was your actual objective of coming on of coming on do you have an objective

06:06:45.460 or uh sorry i'm here for a good time you asked me to be on a podcast i didn't ask you to be anything

06:06:50.580 but i thought it was gonna be a funny podcast i mean it's okay she thought it was gonna be funny

06:06:54.820 but i mean we reached out to you initially actually i think or maybe you reached out to us i'll remember

06:06:59.860 the you reached out to me yeah but then we didn't hear from you for months and then you out of the

06:07:03.620 blue was like oh i'll come on the show so i mean regardless of who reached out to who it's kind

06:07:09.300 of irrelevant you have to come on and act in good faith now i know that you've intentionally been

06:07:14.980 bad faith by you admitting oh it's not in the contract therefore i can do like malicious

06:07:20.020 malicious compliance i don't know if you know what malicious compliance is i'm actively complying

06:07:25.860 and you're literally not engaging in the conversation you're literally you've acted like you're uh being

06:07:30.580 in like a murder interrogation and you've you've committed the murder your your

06:07:35.060 perspective of me perspective your perception of me has nothing that works too yeah yeah that's

06:07:41.540 cool so um why did you cite to the contract you signed you do realize like even if something isn't

06:07:50.340 in a contract and maybe a lawyer if there's any lawyers in the chat they can back me up there's an

06:07:54.580 expectation that the parties to a contract conduct themselves in good faith so even if in the contract

06:08:00.660 it says like for example i'm trying let me think of maybe somebody in the chat can think of an example

06:08:06.820 but i do wonder if any lawyers in the chat want to weigh in on like okay you've agreed to come on the

06:08:11.140 podcast um like there's a good faith um expectation that you're going to contribute you're you've been

06:08:22.260 refusing like most of the questions so it's just bad faith you should play the crickets please play it

06:08:34.580 okay um

06:08:40.740 any lawyers in the chat um have thoughts on this i mean this breach of contract it's just like

06:08:45.780 you're just you're obviously trolling at this point and you're just it's not a troll i don't

06:08:56.660 i don't care what it is um obviously not yeah uh i mean i think because you came in as friends you

06:09:04.820 guys like came in oh okay we're gonna just be really disruptive and just like try to mess with

06:09:08.980 the podcast and stuff i mean you came to be disruptive refusing to engage in the conversation

06:09:15.220 kind of like giving these like passive aggressive troll answers that is disruptive it's a bit of

06:09:19.700 sabotage there is actually a segment in the contract related to that um so i don't know what to tell you

06:09:26.100 um now that i've established my legal position because you've made it a legal thing now uh do you wish

06:09:32.180 to in good faith engage in the conversation yes okay how are women oppressed in the united states

06:09:40.740 i do not have to answer that question it does not mean i'm not engaging in the conversation that

06:09:49.700 that's it's quite literally you nodding and it's not just one time you've done this i believe you've

06:09:55.220 done this repeatedly throughout the course of the show so this isn't a particularly divisive issue this

06:10:02.740 is like would be a mainstream like conversation you might have in like a class in college um thank you i

06:10:09.220 i am currently still learning i mean i can she thinks how are you keeping a straight face right

06:10:16.100 now bro i mean you're in breach of contract um i don't know what else to tell you um so you can

06:10:22.740 either engage or yeah i thought this was about dating have you guys never watched the podcast

06:10:32.820 who cares no you never watched it so you don't research things that you're about to do that

06:10:37.300 you're about to go into i do whose fault is that if you don't research what you're about to go into

06:10:41.300 we talk about these things all the time right so yeah i mean you're like it's on you but yeah anyways

06:10:49.780 okay um

06:10:50.740 abortion that's how we're oppressed that was my stance that's it um and then like with the pay gap

06:11:04.820 we always said that pay gap but like i don't know if the statistics on the pay gap is true no

06:11:09.220 more like are we getting paid less i don't know i don't know no more i feel like if you do the same

06:11:13.140 job you should get paid the same and um but nobody should be making choices for us and just because of

06:11:18.980 the strong conservative i know trump said it's up to the state but i know his cabinet and he has

06:11:23.940 like an all confederate oh my bad conservative congress right now who is saying that it's pro-life

06:11:31.060 we don't have no choice or say in it that's the only reason he lost a lot of voters this time

06:11:35.540 around because of his stance on abortion wasn't he did wasn't far enough to the right as he should

06:11:40.260 no no it wasn't far enough to the right oh it wasn't far enough yeah yeah really like a lot of

06:11:44.820 you know catholics and in the country and conservatives were really really lobbying

06:11:48.980 for trump to do a heartbeat bill but he didn't and he lost a lot of voters for that reason

06:11:56.180 so if you if you look at his um if you look at his policies particularly with abortion he's actually

06:12:00.900 pretty progressive unfortunately yeah i think maybe his first term because he was so pro-life i

06:12:06.100 remember before him saying some pro-life out of shape in rhetoric in rhetoric yeah he is but like

06:12:12.100 kind of he kind of is he's more pragmatic because i remember during a debate he said he was

06:12:15.860 going to leave it up to the state so that i mean but like that just that in general

06:12:22.900 of that responsibility because he knows the state what the state's for as in like california

06:12:28.740 and new york or they'll like a border baby so uh here let's do this so as a show of good faith

06:12:37.780 i'm going to legally advise you you're currently in breach of contract as a show of good faith though

06:12:44.900 i'd like to give you one last opportunity to actually respond your position is women are not 1.00

06:12:51.140 oppressed in the usa you obviously have a comment because you circled it you disagree how are women 0.86

06:12:58.180 oppressed in the united states i honestly did not understand the question and that's the honest

06:13:03.780 truth i mean you've you've just previously you said you you already said that that is your position

06:13:12.020 you now can't walk it back i'm still learning yeah it's a troll it's a troll it's not a troll

06:13:19.380 you're more than welcome to think whatever you said the same thing all night unless you have

06:13:22.180 literal rocks of rain then it's a troll um yeah i mean i gave you a chance now you're like shifting

06:13:34.500 it but you clearly understood i i'm suspecting the other ones that you circled you actually do have

06:13:40.020 positions on them but you're just refusing to engage you're in breach um i do have to just kick

06:13:45.060 you at this point so i'm just politely going to ask you if you could just get out and leave

06:13:50.180 why are you so offended i'm literally just being honest i'm so sorry that i'm nonchalant

06:13:55.700 i mean listen it's pretty clear that you're trolling or you're it's the end of the podcast

06:14:02.180 you obviously don't want to pay me up front uh you'll still get paid but you're gonna get docked

06:14:08.740 just because we're gonna like you're in breach i'll still give you a payment but you got to get out

06:14:12.900 okay cool another one bites the dust wow that's three oh whoops uh yeah you can't stay here though

06:14:27.860 yeah you gotta leave you can you're you gotta leave we don't even do that in person so you gotta leave

06:14:38.180 you gotta leave

06:14:42.740 literally didn't say that yeah pull it up all right yeah we pay via venmo and cash app you

06:14:54.500 gotta leave though we're not dealing with this now you gotta leave perfect sounds good

06:14:59.540 that's my ride i don't know what to do

06:15:04.660 it's all right yeah

06:15:09.780 don't leave with her purse

06:15:10.900 anyways kelly why did you vote for donald trump what was what really what swayed you this year

06:15:20.500 this time

06:15:25.220 tell me your funniest dating story go on you tell me your funniest story let's go on 100

06:15:29.620 millions

06:15:32.260 come on ukraine tell us your favorite dating story no one american ukrainian which one you want

06:15:39.220 slava ukraine anyways tell us your favorite your favorite dating story the one that you tell the

06:15:44.580 girls something funny go there are many i need to i need to know more clear topic someone the worst

06:15:53.060 date you've ever been on go okay one time one man invited me to his

06:15:59.300 luxury luxury house he was billionaire and he showed me he has a cinema he no it's a funny story

06:16:08.420 and and he tell me let's have a dinner on my boat i say okay but he said he tell me before the boat

06:16:15.940 let's watch the rally it's really yes the car racing yeah yes i was so happy wow he has a cinema

06:16:23.540 so we had a drink and we started watching the rally and we speaking very nice and then

06:16:29.060 the rally is starting to moving like and then i continue to speak then he was so nice to me and

06:16:34.900 then when rally started he said shut up why you speak to me he was like crazy i was thinking like 0.62

06:16:40.100 what what's wrong okay i i just for a couple of minutes like i didn't understand why he's screaming

06:16:47.140 we continue watching the rally he after um you know every five minutes there is the break so when was the

06:16:53.860 break he he started again nicely to me oh they want more champagne no no no like nothing happened

06:16:59.220 then i think maybe i'm crazy or what okay we continue watching the rally and then i speak something

06:17:03.940 again he again starts screaming like he's a control freak completely understand if i'm ever watching

06:17:09.700 the football and then a woman comes into the room i should get the out right now get out and that's 1.00

06:17:15.380 half time i'm like hey baby how are you kidding and then you're nice to them but then if they come

06:17:19.780 and stand in front of the t-box move so this is normal this is completely normal completely normal

06:17:26.100 no he was control freak then we go on the board oh my god no that is a strange story that is

06:17:31.620 the most funny in the end um we're supposed to have a dinner and then he tell me do you see that

06:17:40.260 doors there is a pantry room yes pantry that was incorrect so he tell me you have a five minutes to

06:17:46.180 grab whatever you want in that room so there was food in the pantry he told me you can find something

06:17:54.420 there so you know i was thinking maybe he was watching too much he was feeding you maybe he was

06:17:58.660 watching too much tv like chef master chef or cooking shows you know but i was so hungry because he

06:18:05.380 gave me all the time only champagne so so i had the five minutes i grabbed something really it was very

06:18:10.580 crazy freak so i mean not all the rich man is good they can be very crazy he's wanted to watch the

06:18:17.540 racing for the sense good story um let's see here uh so that's your friend right yes you've fallen off

06:18:32.020 that chair yeah two for two i don't know if she was like it was an axe but that girl is like actually 1.00

06:18:38.740 creepy i'm not gonna lie yeah i'm gonna have nightmares about her face like just there's

06:18:43.780 nothing behind the eyes nothing i mean um so that's crazy she was here but she wasn't here 0.94

06:18:52.180 you know physically she was here somewhat chat what do you think what do you think chat um bro

06:19:00.980 i don't think i saw a blink once it generally could have been a lizard person

06:19:04.020 yeah illuminati i don't know i don't think i was like those

06:19:09.060 i don't think i've actually been creeped there's maybe like one or two other times i've been creeped

06:19:12.900 out by a girl in the show and that was definitely it um whatever we saw the one where someone was um

06:19:18.980 using a stuffed raccoon so that yeah that was pretty weird and we had somebody who had who had a blood

06:19:24.580 vial in their panties and they we thought they were going to throw it at us yeah and they would talk

06:19:29.220 about doing witch magic oh my god okay that's gross yep they were telling us she was cooking up a 0.93

06:19:34.820 good spell she pulled out a blood vial out of her panties we were just we were here just oh whoa

06:19:39.300 is she pulling it out mid she pulled it out yep she wasn't a real witch because a real wish wouldn't 1.00

06:19:44.900 i did that wait where did she get this blood from from she was a show witch oh that's disgusting 1.00

06:19:49.860 oh she was oh she's yeah she was about to do some witchcraft i bet she was looking at that vampire 0.72

06:19:56.580 stuff you're talking about yeah somebody falling in love in her told you it's another bit of evidence

06:20:01.700 from my claim um all right uh callie i think this is maybe the last one we have and then we're just

06:20:09.700 gonna get things wrapped up uh rebel you say women have equal rights to men or women have equal 0.96

06:20:16.100 rights to men in the usa you disagree um how so did i put disagree on there i put disagree i circled

06:20:23.220 it oh so you think women do have equal rights to men in the united states yeah yeah i do i do i

06:20:31.140 shouldn't disagree with that that's fine then um let me look over any of the pre-show notes probably

06:20:36.100 just gonna uh are we going through the last question on that the last question what about it

06:20:43.380 about uh are we going through it oh you're asking if it's the last question no i'm saying

06:20:49.060 are we going through our last question as in the transgender individuals that one what do you mean

06:20:52.500 no our last question like the questions yeah what about it are we gonna go over it oh now you want

06:20:58.340 to speak huh like we did our other questions okay what do you want to say go ahead um here's here's her

06:21:06.260 big moment okay yeah read the question too read the question also if you have any disagreements

06:21:11.380 of the show go ahead state your disagreements here comes the big moment why on a dating podcast does

06:21:17.060 it have to be men against women and women against men why why do we always are you a feminist 1.00

06:21:25.860 i wouldn't say i'm feminist you're probably feminist your friends are probably feminist um 1.00

06:21:32.020 so that was sexist that wouldn't be sexist to assert that a woman's a feminist but um and they they 0.99

06:21:39.460 are if i what i can gather um i mean i want to go actually beyond just why is it between men versus

06:21:46.980 women why did you guys like maliciously intentionally come on the show to troll the 0.85

06:21:52.180 show to be disruptive like you guys obviously had a conversation before the show with a malicious intent

06:21:58.100 to come on and just be as disruptive as possible so you see how like calm the conversation has been

06:22:04.820 like it's been fairly respectful between us even though we disagree on certain things once your

06:22:08.740 friend over there left things got really calm this girl over here continued continued trolling 0.70

06:22:13.620 but i still you know still kind of you know just kicked her off pretty calmly wasn't a big thing

06:22:19.940 you guys came on with the intention to be disruptive and troll so i'm not really interested i'm

06:22:25.220 just gonna outright just reject your assertion because you're you and your friends were completely

06:22:30.420 bad faith the entire night what did i do but you're just sitting there like guilt by association

06:22:36.180 quite frankly you're sitting there you're not like you're not providing any like pushback or criticism

06:22:41.860 on your friend's behavior you just sit there you co-sign all their behavior it's the total sisterhood

06:22:46.900 and yeah you've also been kind of trolling too so there's that what did i do

06:22:49.940 you could say it i could hear you out but i don't even hear it yeah that's cool so when it comes to 0.99

06:23:00.980 divisiveness the con like in terms of disagreements when it comes to dating or like man women shit uh 1.00

06:23:07.700 we can have a polite conversation but when your friend is being belligerent and obnoxious 0.99

06:23:12.980 yeah that's gonna like create a lot of tension and chaos for the show so i mean like that every time

06:23:18.820 though i'm not saying just this show i'm saying the shows that you've had didn't you just say you

06:23:24.260 haven't watched it no i've been on the show so i know how it is i just don't know why like i feel

06:23:30.980 like if we were to be like okay so how can we make dating for men and women good for us both and like

06:23:38.260 collaborate on these things instead of being like why are like we against like it just seems like it's

06:23:43.540 dividing us more i mean there's a couple things here one the show is adversarial in nature i actually

06:23:50.180 don't this is not something i attempt to hide i do hope to have good faith conversations i have

06:23:55.220 my positions on things which tend to come at odds with the a lot of women not all women but a lot of

06:24:01.860 women's views on when it comes to dating uh i mean i have reasons for this i mean i could just say why 0.98

06:24:07.540 do you guys you know have all these objections to like all of men's dating positions like body count

06:24:14.100 um preferring to date women who are not promiscuous like who should pay all this stuff like you guys

06:24:19.860 have adversarial positions and so do we so there's that and then the other thing is is that this is one

06:24:25.780 podcast the jet the uh genesis of like the mindset that a lot of women have is steeped in feminism 1.00

06:24:34.020 feminism is the originator of the divide between men and women that's the genesis of the divide 1.00

06:24:40.580 between men and women and y'all are feminists and i don't have any power if you compare the power that 1.00

06:24:46.340 the feminist movement and ideology has because it's steeped in every single realm of humanity it's 1.00

06:24:52.580 steeped in the education system it's steeped in corporations it's steeped in the government it's

06:24:57.300 steeped in the media it's steeped in journalism it's steeped in the news it's steeped in the culture

06:25:03.060 and there's actually a uh almost the the gynocentric nature of society reflects this now you might say

06:25:10.500 like if you look at universities for example every single university in this country has a woman's 1.00

06:25:15.540 studies feminist studies a gender studies program these institutions systemic institutions they have 0.74

06:25:23.060 they have power they have million or billion dollar endowments every single it's in the trillions of

06:25:29.940 dollars when it comes to the power that these institutions educational institutions have

06:25:35.300 they have uh like when it comes to their endowments feminist brainwashing at the university level 1.00

06:25:42.100 and then it even goes into like high school man there the teachers are already brainwashing people

06:25:46.580 in this feminist nonsense i got one podcast my viewership is like middle very like middle of the road for 1.00

06:25:54.180 most streamers i don't have influence feminism has influence if you think i'm decisive this is a 0.55

06:26:00.020 reaction to the overreaches of feminism my podcast is combating the false narratives and the brainwashing

06:26:07.300 that feminism has inflicted upon generations upon gen generations and millions and millions of women 1.00

06:26:13.780 women have been even should even men even men have been brainwashed women have been brainwashed

06:26:19.700 by feminism this is the counterculture i'm combating you think i'm divisive i'm combating the divisive

06:26:30.260 uh rhetoric and ideology that feminism is i'm com i'm trying to bring things back to homeostasis 1.00

06:26:36.980 feminism is what's everything up if you think i'm divisive step foot in a feminist studies 1.00

06:26:41.780 class and tell me that's not divisive how you got this girl here saying that men are oppressors 0.99

06:26:46.420 and women are oppressed how's that not divisive you tell me are men the oppressors yes or no

06:26:54.740 yes ah thank you for proving my point you think men are the oppressors and women are the oppressed

06:27:00.740 how is this not divisive women are the oppressed i think men are oppressed by men as well

06:27:06.900 their sons not to cry like we were talking about earlier and that's not right yeah so do you think

06:27:12.100 women teaching jet millions upon millions maybe even every single woman in this country that men are 1.00

06:27:18.340 the oppressor class and women are the oppressed what do you teach the oppressor class tell me 0.98

06:27:23.700 to overthrow overcome and by any means necessary right right do you think that there should be

06:27:32.260 a feminist revolution no do you okay do you think you should smash the patriarchy 1.00

06:27:37.300 no you don't believe wait you're you think just to be clear you think men are these terrible

06:27:44.340 oppressors men are the oppressor class they're terrible oppress wait oppressors are good oppressors 0.98

06:27:49.460 are good or bad they're not good oh okay so men are bad then you just said no no you said that men are

06:27:58.660 the oppressor class and women are oppressed shouldn't the oppressed class have some sort of class solidarity 0.97

06:28:05.140 and try to overcome by any means necessary the oppressor class ah okay so you want a gender

06:28:12.740 war between men and women i don't i reject the oppressor oppressed dynamic but that exists between

06:28:18.900 men and women and it's actually funny this is in the this isn't my position anymore but you know what

06:28:24.020 they want the people in power who have power who have money that's class now people are people in my

06:28:29.860 chat are going to be upset by this because this is actually a left-leaning talking point but you know

06:28:34.820 there's class and then you know what the people who have the power in this country who have the

06:28:40.740 money who have the resources they want the men fighting the women the whites fighting the blacks the 0.95

06:28:46.180 gays fighting the straights so that there can't be any class solidarity when it comes to uh the have 0.93

06:28:52.580 nots and the have yachts now now that i've moved more conservative for the record now that i've moved more

06:29:01.700 conservative i reject that too but in that well i i don't reject that that's what's going on but i

06:29:07.220 reject the class uh now i have a whole nother thing because you talked about um you said that okay so

06:29:15.700 your audience is mostly what i think it's about 80 men 20 women which is literally are you trying to

06:29:25.620 like have have those women like turn like go from feminist to not or like what's your a lot of women 1.00

06:29:32.420 watch the podcast and they'll and like i've had a lot of women who've reached out to me and they've 0.58

06:29:36.180 said that they've said that it's uh changed their views on things for sure because like you said

06:29:40.260 feminism is in the water that you drink in the air that you breathe it's absolutely everywhere in our 1.00

06:29:44.180 culture and a lot of women are looking at podcasts like this and they'll watch it and they'll watch the 1.00

06:29:48.100 back and forth and sort of definitely change their mind on a lot of things on a lot of feminist positions 1.00

06:29:52.900 well that's good it's working for y'all but most of them are men and most of them love to hear how

06:29:57.940 much women are degraded actually no a lot of them are men a lot of them have been told for generations 0.73

06:30:02.820 that they're toxic and that they're useless and that the future is female and all of these sorts of 1.00

06:30:07.300 talking points and they hear a podcast like this and we can actually logically explain our positions

06:30:12.420 and yeah it keep it actually arms them with with arguments yeah okay i mean you haven't actually

06:30:18.740 logically given any arguments tonight so if you wanted to actually state your worldview in a coherent

06:30:23.860 way and influence women you should have done so that's your opinion okay i mean i i do actually

06:30:32.740 appreciate the question insofar as you came on with your friends and they trolled but at least that

06:30:41.380 at least that was a uh a question you disagree with me but i respect the what seemed to be a genuine

06:30:47.140 question um but i mean i do have to take issue with your view that men are the oppressor class

06:30:54.180 because i mean what is more divisive than saying men bad men oppressors we women we victims we

06:31:02.100 oppressed okay i'm not saying we're victims and we're oppressed on that one we are but on the question

06:31:07.140 that you have that said are we oppressed by men i put i put we're not so i don't feel like that in this

06:31:13.780 current generation so i mean i don't you're you did when i did ask you you said women are oppressed 0.98

06:31:22.580 men are oppressors i'm not going to just allow you to walk back your position now that you've now that

06:31:27.140 the position is untenable i said men and women can be oppressed by yeah but oh but you're still saying

06:31:33.300 men are the oppressor class and women oppressed too i mean yeah but i mean i that still wouldn't change

06:31:41.220 that you view the relationship between men and women as a oppressed oppressor dynamic and in my view

06:31:51.700 that's like a terrible thing to teach women and it's an awful thing to inflict upon men okay maybe

06:31:59.380 that's not what i'm saying i'm not that's what you're saying don't want see don't walk it back

06:32:03.060 you got me you gotta stand on business i mean you say you you want to walk it back because you i mean

06:32:09.780 at least from a debate perspective your position is untenable and you're not prepared to defend your

06:32:13.940 position um so i mean you can all you want feminism is divisive it's literally divisive and it's it's not 1.00

06:32:26.180 feminism is not uh a science it's literally an ideology that's been accepted into like universities 1.00

06:32:33.060 that once used to be respectful like harvard all the ivy leagues feminist every single uc every 1.00

06:32:39.460 single college in the country has a feminist studies program women's studies program i think it has really 0.81

06:32:46.900 destroyed um the family unit feminism it's designed to do so that that's actually if you go way back 1.00

06:32:55.860 into the early uh 1900s one of like the uh i think it was maybe in the 60s or 70s one of the women who

06:33:02.020 founded uh this i'm trying to remember if it was the national organization for women which was one of

06:33:06.580 the biggest women's advocacy groups what i believe wait is it that organization one of the women who was

06:33:12.900 involved with one of these organizations said that their goal is to destroy the concept of the nuclear

06:33:19.060 family there's many many quotes like that from many prominent feminists and even engels who was who 0.99

06:33:24.420 co-wrote the communist manifesto um because feminists does have a very marxist root as well he said that

06:33:30.100 the only way for women to ever be liberated is to break from the shackles of the nuclear family from 1.00

06:33:35.300 from the family and this is what fem this is in the genesis of feminine feminism this is what they 1.00

06:33:40.260 actually believed it's that the the oppressive institution is the nuclear family and in order for 0.58

06:33:45.460 women to be free they have to break out from the nuclear family and you know um during the college years 1.00

06:33:51.060 and you know in the 20s women in their 20s that is when you should be having children and having a 1.00

06:33:57.940 family not searching for um a career you know this is what i think i started um my career later in life

06:34:08.340 after i had my children and i feel a lot more satisfied than a lot of 20 year olds who are looking at their

06:34:15.940 careers at that age where the childbearing ages and um later on in life when they're ready to have

06:34:24.100 children they can't have children it's true you know so it's just destroying yeah i mean look i'll

06:34:31.860 just say what i was talking about earlier you've got the they've got people whether it's corporations

06:34:38.420 or people in power however you want to look at it they got the men fighting with the women the

06:34:43.220 blacks fighting with the whites the gays fighting with the straights whatever kind of intersection 0.86

06:34:47.700 that you want to look at they want you distracted it's all divide and conquer that's all it is 0.99

06:34:53.620 feminism as far as i know what it wasn't it like is it uh who like a cia psyop or something like 1.00

06:35:00.980 here's the here's the reality feminism is inherently anti-male inherently anti-male so like you want to know 1.00

06:35:08.740 like why men are moving away well i mean i don't know if they've always ever been like pro-feminism

06:35:14.900 but like it's clear to me when it came to this recent presidential election men want nothing to

06:35:19.780 do with democrats because y'all are anti-male like democrats are anti-male you don't speak to men at all

06:35:26.100 the right here here's the difference oh i i heard something really good the other day it was something

06:35:31.540 like this uh people on the left or democrats say men hold on hide that because they're going to be

06:35:38.100 distracted hide it i'll pull it back up later they say that uh men you don't have any problems

06:35:45.460 you are the problem that's what leftists and democrats say and the right says men you do have

06:35:51.940 problems we don't have any solutions for you so i think both parties they don't really do anything for

06:35:58.180 men but at least the right at least conservatives at least they say we recognize that you have

06:36:03.540 problems and disadvantages and you know what you want to know why donald trump is in pre is is

06:36:08.260 president because of feminism and all that that that comes with it so maybe be a little bit more 1.00

06:36:15.780 you know you know don't push men away so much that's if you want your political agenda

06:36:23.620 like it's funny the democrats used to be like for the working uh like the working class

06:36:28.500 they're not they're not corporate overlords total corporate overlords i mean the 0.98

06:36:34.980 fucking republicans are too but um 0.99

06:36:39.700 it's different anyways whatever i'm getting into politics fuck it can you guys admit at any point 1.00

06:36:44.340 in time that women were oppressed by men can any point in time can y'all admit that like it depends 0.98

06:36:49.140 what you mean by oppressed it depends like were we told to inferior and whether in any type of way

06:36:55.220 can you guys admit that i mean it depends though because like you always have to do a con a contrast

06:37:02.660 a comparison to what so for example you would probably say and correct me if i'm wrong that when women 1.00

06:37:08.420 couldn't vote like that's oppression like women were oppressed uh they couldn't vote do you think 0.88

06:37:15.540 that's fair yeah okay during that same period of time so if we go to the 1910s do you know what happened

06:37:22.660 in like the 1910s yeah it wasn't like depression after the run 20 i don't know what so 1914 1918 was

06:37:30.340 world war one up until that point the most brutal catastrophic war like world war so like involvement 0.73

06:37:38.180 of major superpowers like major superpowers a bunch of countries uh 1914 1918 uh i think it's like 20

06:37:46.740 i'm sometimes i get my world war one world war two like casualty count mixed up so men had to go to

06:37:53.620 war and literally die and world war one is like the way we do warfare now it's totally different world

06:38:00.100 war one you're in a trench for nine months your hearing's completely gone because there's shells

06:38:05.300 constant bombardment it's freezing cold you have trench foot um you've you've seen like half your 0.97

06:38:12.260 fucking squad die of either an injury a shell something like i don't think y'all understand 0.99

06:38:17.780 how fucking brutal warfare is so women couldn't vote but men had to fucking participate in the most brutal 1.00

06:38:27.220 soul crushing thing like you think i don't think you guys even understand like go watch all quiet on the 0.99

06:38:34.100 western front you guys don't know how brutal war is so like women were oppressed men were oppressed

06:38:39.860 i think warfare i mean you you can shake your head warfare is something that's been almost

06:38:46.420 exclusively inflicted upon men they were forced to do it because they thought that women were

06:38:51.700 weaker too weak women are women are weaker than we're too weak to go to war so you guys have to go 1.00

06:38:56.980 that's not our fault yeah but some 18 year old boy who like doesn't know shit about anything 0.99

06:39:01.540 and he has zero power whatsoever he's gonna go get sent to like i don't know the freaking ardenn 0.96

06:39:07.140 forest and just go get like get like a million bullet holes from some like german like i'm just

06:39:13.380 confused like how is that like so i just don't think about if we think about just outside of american

06:39:20.580 culture how in muslim cultures and women are expected to cover up and not talk when men are 0.98

06:39:26.660 talking and all those little nuances of just shut the fuck up and cooking cream i'm i mean i'm talking 0.97

06:39:31.780 about western culture here talk about if you talk about uh for example like a place like afghanistan 0.96

06:39:38.820 i think that you could potentially make that argument okay but if y'all want to just keep it to

06:39:43.300 america y'all haven't admitted but at some point women were oppressed and i think feminism and and

06:39:49.860 some of that oppression still lingers like i mean you guys said i mean we couldn't we couldn't

06:39:55.220 work there was nothing we couldn't work we wasn't going to school we were literally just

06:39:58.900 made make babies clean cooking clean so you had to stay home while your husband went to work all day 1.00

06:40:04.260 and you had to raise the kids and look after the house i think it's a choice it's also like we

06:40:08.020 couldn't choose our husband too we were giving to our husbands by our fathers i mean they were like

06:40:12.980 that's oppression there were arranged marriages i mean like i mean but it's like the choice the

06:40:17.860 lack of a choice would you rather have the freedom yeah but the man was also forced to if there's

06:40:22.180 an arranged marriage the man's also forced to marry you okay but once again we're going back to who

06:40:26.420 made the system it's like even you saying that you're glad that there was no women making the 1.00

06:40:30.820 constitution like that is oppression i know you didn't say that but i mean whether he was trolling

06:40:35.620 or not there is oppression and some of that oppression i think that i'm sorry over this

06:40:39.380 conversation right there i think that like men were clearly clearly the oppressed class throughout

06:40:44.340 history when it comes to labor and when it comes to who was the primary victims of war it's pretty clear

06:40:49.300 that if you look at it just from the utilitarian perspective of like who had the most damage done to

06:40:53.460 them it was clearly men like there isn't there's like it's hard to argue otherwise even if you look

06:40:57.780 at throughout christian europe they had the notion of chivalry which is that men had to act with honor

06:41:02.500 towards women my lady knights had to go and die for women it's just clear that the primary victims 0.99

06:41:07.940 of war have always been men and war has been the most tragic thing to ever happen in in humankind yeah

06:41:14.500 i mean like if we look back into like maybe the early uh 20th century though i'm getting my wires

06:41:21.060 crossed 20th century would be like the 1900s right 20th century yeah like if you look at men who lived

06:41:27.780 in pennsylvania who worked in a coal mine it's not clear to me if those men who die at like 40 because

06:41:35.380 of black lung but they got to work and the women had to stay home and take care of the house where it 1.00

06:41:42.500 was like the house was safe and have like have kids i don't like i don't know if it's really

06:41:50.260 it sounds it seems to me like most of the women would if you had to pick okay go into the coal mine 1.00

06:41:56.500 and then you're going to get black lung and the last one or two years of your life you're going to

06:42:00.100 be like literally in constant pain because your lungs are all up from being in a coal mine

06:42:05.540 uh i feel like a lot of women would be like i'm actually okay staying at home i'm cool doing some

06:42:12.180 dishes and that's true but i think the choice is the privilege the choice to choose between

06:42:19.380 before before this he's talking about the industrial revolution right and this is not a

06:42:23.780 time where people could choose the men had to do that or else you won't have any money you won't be

06:42:28.420 able to survive and then even before that if you look at the agricultural time before the industrial

06:42:32.900 revolution over 90 of people were farmers and this was even before the steel plow was invented

06:42:38.980 men were just pushing through the fields all day every day and then the women were in charge of 1.00

06:42:43.620 raising the children and most like like a lot of children died at birth or died when they were young

06:42:48.500 due to like various illnesses and stuff so for much of history men and women were kind of both in

06:42:53.300 the trenches suffering together it's only quite certainly like a modern thing where people don't have

06:42:58.020 to do this immense suffering and and dying young and losing children and everything this is a

06:43:02.580 modern concept it was statistics that men had some advantages if we talk about the page

06:43:07.700 the pay gap and everything like that but i just think feminism is not supposed to be this huge 1.00

06:43:12.820 anti-men movement but i think it was really originally supposed to be a safe space for

06:43:17.460 women to have each other's backs and not take anything that these men throw at us it's not 1.00

06:43:22.020 supposed to be anti-men not saying that hasn't turned to that but it was just supposed to be a safe

06:43:25.940 space just like how the black panther movement all this is supposed to be a safe space for

06:43:29.700 black people and other minorities have their safe spaces that's all the genesis of feminism like the 1.00

06:43:36.020 early adopters of feminism they were misandrous many of them hated men some of the most prominent

06:43:42.100 feminist writers and academics clear misandrous clear man haters um and look i'll take another like

06:43:51.540 i don't think misogynists are good either but i think there's a differential here where like if you

06:43:57.060 ask a lot of women like i i'm ready to i i think women are great i don't always fully understand them 0.99

06:44:04.100 but i think women are great i don't hate women um i think women are wonderful uh i think men are

06:44:11.460 wonderful but like if you ask feminist men like a lot of a lot of women you ask a college woman like

06:44:17.220 do we need men like they have a very even if it's a low level kind of like negative attitude towards men

06:44:24.420 which i find incredibly objectionable and this even low level like low level almost uh 1.00

06:44:31.380 i don't know if it's disgust or like disdain for men it could be very low level oh men suck blah blah 0.99

06:44:37.140 blah or it could be full-blown like i hate men uh or women will say i hate men total misandry look at 0.98

06:44:45.060 the end of the day feminism is a movement that's just entirely hostile towards men and you're not going to 1.00

06:44:50.500 convince me that like feminism has ever advocated for anything when it comes to like any way in which 0.99

06:44:55.780 men are disadvantaged uh feminism is a purely at its most uh i guess the most charitable it's purely 0.92

06:45:03.540 a uh what's the word it's a purely a woman's advocacy uh movement yeah it's pro-women it's not

06:45:12.580 anti-men it's pro-women but it's turned anti-men though some people yeah we have some radicals like

06:45:18.740 there's radicals in any movement there's radicals of course but that doesn't mean that's not saying

06:45:24.340 like like the black panther is anti-white we're pro-black we're giving our safety we're giving

06:45:29.620 our support to the people that need it like that would you say then that the uh for example like 0.91

06:45:34.740 the like a racist group from throughout history who are just pro-white like a like a modern day sort of

06:45:41.860 white supremacist movement would you say they're just pro-white let's see then and that's different like

06:45:46.340 that's different because they're literally they're literally trying to lynch people no no we're not

06:45:51.860 trying to say they're just looking out for white interests they're like a white nationalist and

06:45:56.100 they're just looking out for white that's not like pro-white movement to me yeah what's wrong with

06:46:00.740 that right i didn't say i didn't say anything was wrong with that i didn't say anything was wrong with

06:46:05.620 that i actually don't necessarily disagree with advocacy groups for your own kind uh but uh it

06:46:12.660 depends if your advocacy group like pathologizes others right so if you're looking out for if you

06:46:19.300 have like a movement that looks out for black people they're going into black neighborhoods and

06:46:22.340 trying to teach them financial literacy kevin hart does a lot of this i think he's a really good

06:46:25.940 example and he tries to go into these communities and say hey look you guys are capable of more than

06:46:29.700 this don't go to jail don't become incarcerated learn a little bit about financial literacy and aim

06:46:34.100 for the stars get educated that's fantastic if you're just doing it as a black advocacy group 0.85

06:46:38.500 but if you pathologize the other that's when it becomes very toxic and feminism from day dot did 1.00

06:46:44.580 that i we're going to do a row session then we're going to wrap up the show i guess final thing to

06:46:50.820 your point like when this podcast is said and done it's one of the like the there's very few like

06:46:56.820 male advocacy spaces out there very few when this podcast is all said and done i'm telling you

06:47:02.740 feminism is still going to have its claws in all the things i listed education news media 1.00

06:47:08.100 journalism corporations government feminism is going to continue to have its claws in all that 1.00

06:47:12.660 shit and at the end of the day feminism does have feminism holds all the cards feminism holds 1.00

06:47:19.460 everything it's like the fucking matrix dude feminism is the machines like you guys hold all the keys 1.00

06:47:27.620 all the cards that's it i'm one guy with a podcast there's very very few like male voices out there 0.98

06:47:34.820 that are doing any sort of male advocacy or like anti-feminist rhetoric it's very rare very rare i

06:47:41.540 just didn't understand really what this show like in that sense like it's anti-feminist for that reason 1.00

06:47:47.540 and then you feel like men have been like like dragged down in that way and you're trying to claw

06:47:53.860 your way back up by having like your foot in like what you stand i mean look feminism has just 1.00

06:48:04.580 forwarded completely like fabric fabricated ideology and positions patriarchy theory that's 0.99

06:48:11.300 fucking bullshit like all the stuff like you guys will totally misconstrue and like twist statistics to 1.00

06:48:18.100 like forward your totally false and erroneous positions it's totally catastrophic you basically 1.00

06:48:24.020 have like generations upon generations of women who think men are these dangerous violent grapists 0.98

06:48:30.100 and it's like absolutely disgusting you've painted us all as predators it's totally disgusting i i would

06:48:37.140 love to have a return to where men respected women and why where men respected women and women respected

06:48:44.020 men but it's clear due to feminist uh narratives and ideology that you basically taught a gent generations 1.00

06:48:51.380 and generations of women to have disdain and contempt for men that's it we should be cautious of men though 0.67

06:48:57.860 because who here has a creepy story about a man i bet everybody does so she's like like i mean i love men

06:49:04.180 and in my country we don't have some type of obsession and it's not like that it's in america it's

06:49:12.900 completely different it's different in my country it's not like that and it was before like very old

06:49:18.420 fashion and like you say men are tts is 20 where you're from men are gentlemen's where you're from

06:49:24.820 that's what you're saying yes yes yes yes because it's another rules another life it's more old

06:49:30.660 fashion and my father is a leader in my house and everybody not like obey but but we respect him

06:49:37.700 even today you see guys i respect you very much i want to say so much stuff even you say sometimes

06:49:42.820 something rude to me but i respect you and i appreciate that and i appreciate your rules and

06:49:47.940 everything you've been very respectful thank you i do i definitely uh appreciate that and um i was going

06:49:53.780 to say something on this final thing before we get into guys uh roast session 20 uh we'll do a brief

06:49:59.380 one then we're going to wrap the show but it's like man um i forgot i slipped my mind if it comes

06:50:05.540 back to me i'll do it one sec guys i'm going to get that all set up if you want to get some roasts in

06:50:10.260 here all right that should all be changed here in just a moment uh here oh wait one sec they're going

06:50:18.020 to make fun of us right and us yeah they make fun of me they talk about burritos and shit so it's all 0.71

06:50:25.060 good uh one sec guys that's almost ready to go and i know there were some other messages that came 0.55

06:50:29.540 through so hold on let's enable that guys like the video please like the video guys i know we're

06:50:34.740 getting towards the end of the show so please like the video okay that should all be set all right i'm

06:50:40.820 gonna let these come through michael jones donated 100 yes women are oppressed they are oppressed by 0.86

06:50:50.100 feminism that's the best argument for female oppression there is all right michael jones thank

06:50:57.060 you so much for the uh hundred dollar message man really appreciate it thank you thank you we have

06:51:01.540 desert joe coming in in just a moment here so guys oh i need to do this here too okay thank you man we

06:51:08.180 have the next one coming in in just a moment 20 tts guys get a minute session desert joe donated

06:51:15.060 one hundred dollars ch1 is misguided about gender and racial oppression it's more so class oppression

06:51:22.740 the rich slash elite class oppress everyone else they didn't care about what the race slash gender 0.99

06:51:28.980 of who they were oppressing the rich and poor obviously is it really quick sorry to interrupt i i just

06:51:36.340 while i remember what i was going to say so here's the reality women have never been more free

06:51:42.100 than today you've never had more benefits you've never had more privileges you're doing your little

06:51:47.940 clapping thing that's great you don't appreciate any of the uh you don't appreciate any of the like

06:51:54.740 substantial benefits that through men's labor and through men's genius has enabled you to just live

06:52:00.980 your totally comfortable and pampered life i do you guys don't realize how like you guys if we went back

06:52:08.420 150 years 200 years life was terribly brutal for both men and women like survival you food scarcity i

06:52:17.060 don't think you realize like how difficult life was 150 200 years ago you guys live the most comfortable

06:52:24.340 pampered lives of any women in the existence of the entire history of humanity and i just would love to 0.98

06:52:31.860 see so what you have is women you have the most privileged comfortable lives you've ever had in 1.00

06:52:38.260 all of human history and you hate men the most women hate men more today than they've ever hated men

06:52:46.020 in all human history because i just think that's disgusting because they don't feel like they have to

06:52:51.140 rely on them as much because it's not it's not ever present who's hating men i don't know

06:52:54.420 actually jake that's a really good like you can't love men if you view men as oppressors like it does

06:53:03.300 not compute like you literally you i'm not saying that that's your position but like you ask most

06:53:08.660 women they're gonna say oh yeah there's a patriarchy we gotta smash the patriarchy and men are oppressors 1.00

06:53:13.380 and i as a woman uh either am oppressed or historically women were oppressed you got to do to your point you

06:53:19.940 got to do a comparison like compared to what yeah women couldn't vote cool men like faced most men 0.69

06:53:27.540 never got to reproduce most men a lot of men historically just went and died in wars most men

06:53:33.380 worked brutal brack back excuse me back breaking laborious jobs and they you think like men aren't 0.92

06:53:40.820 trying to oppress y'all men go out and work and kill themselves and break their bodies for you they want a 0.82

06:53:47.620 wife and for their kids you think the gender wage gap men make more money they're doing it all for 1.00

06:53:54.900 you they want to they'll get your man your husband will give you fucking everything he'll literally he'll 1.00

06:54:02.420 take a bullet for not me he'll take a bullet for you men will sacrifice their lives for you they will 1.00

06:54:08.180 work until their bones are broken and their backs all fucked up for you and your family and your children 1.00

06:54:15.380 and i just think it's disgusting that we've totally have this these warped narratives when it comes to 0.99

06:54:21.380 men anyways i'm kind of ranting at this point just being beating a dead horse so so you think that

06:54:25.060 feminists were completely delusional when they started like whoever started the feminist movement 1.00

06:54:29.060 they just came out with the egalitarianism is where feminism comes from and egalitarianism is 1.00

06:54:34.100 is inherently it's the physical strength because it's impossible for human beings to ever be equal

06:54:39.220 because human beings form themselves into hierarchies right so they're different in so many ways because you

06:54:44.180 guys are physically stronger than us that we were just delusional enough to come up with this whole

06:54:48.420 oppression story like it actually wasn't it wasn't a bunch of women um i know you guys want to you

06:54:52.820 want to move on but it wasn't a bunch of women it was a bunch of massive financial interests who wanted 1.00

06:54:57.460 to bring women into the workforce so that they had more people to choose from and they had more 1.00

06:55:01.940 negotiation power and a higher tax base

06:55:09.700 that's not what they taught me in school all right i'm gonna let the uh chats come in here

06:55:15.620 jason castle donated twenty dollars hey rebel i told you read a book start with rachel wilson's

06:55:22.740 occult feminism you will learn that feminism is not just wrong it is evil it's a fantastic book i'd

06:55:29.060 recommend it i'll read it well donated twenty dollars feminism isn't pro-women it's anti-men 1.00

06:55:36.180 it's planted by marxists in universities to disrupt the nuclear family in the west 1.00

06:55:41.620 bricks and keep fighting for equal rights love you jake no homo read unwoke 1.00

06:55:47.540 shniko zero four donated twenty dollars no one at the table is above the four not sure which is

06:55:55.620 lower their actual rating or their iq rough panel tonight brian we understand why you're going down

06:56:02.580 to one show a week yeah tonight was rough guys tonight was 20 thank you man share five you're not

06:56:09.700 fooling anyone i know it's stank girl do you want to respond to that he says

06:56:17.540 i know it's stank girl chair five that's you yeah do you want to 1.00

06:56:20.660 your xd donated money if you want to further explore the misunderstandings you seem to have

06:56:26.820 about the history of slavery across the world i recommend looking into the work of thomas sowell

06:56:32.580 he's brilliant and black discriminations and disparities 1.00

06:56:36.740 19th donated 20 dollars feminism has always been evil man-hating garbage you are brainwashed some of 1.00

06:56:45.620 the dumbest women i've ever heard speak think the exact same stupidity that you all think 1.00

06:56:51.060 repeal the 19th immediately yo thank you guys so much all of you who sent in the roast we have a 0.99

06:56:56.740 few more coming through guys we we won't do too long of a row so if you want get them in jason

06:57:02.340 castle donated 20 dollars hey rebel i told you read a book start with rachel

06:57:08.580 and i'll read it feminism is not just wrong it is evil and i actually want to give credit to you 0.96

06:57:16.820 rebel like i know you maybe disagree with us you disagree with our positions i think you've actually

06:57:21.460 been kind of at least open-minded you've heard us out you haven't like lost your your if

06:57:26.580 we say something you disagree with so i mean i appreciate you for like participating in the

06:57:30.900 conversation right and even if we don't disagree i want you to know like yeah i appreciate you guys

06:57:36.100 having me all you guys like i try to be unbiased too like because at the end of the day i see the

06:57:40.900 side of men if somebody does dated women that's why i've switched i see both sides about like feminism 0.99

06:57:46.500 like the race issue abortion transgenderism so touched on some hot topics and you're good and i

06:57:51.140 don't think feminism is evil either and i'm trying to watch out for us y'all don't understand like at the

06:57:58.180 end of the day like men have to go through all this i think the choice to make that power the power to

06:58:04.180 choose that a woman wasn't even there to sign off with the founding fathers that is privilege that

06:58:09.940 is that is oppression there should have been a woman there when we was creating the country 1.00

06:58:14.820 but i'm not just trying to hold it up we can go yeah i'm sorry like i just i'm sorry i'm not trying

06:58:20.740 to like drag it off i'm woman explaining but look no i do it even though we disagree i just want you to

06:58:28.420 know that uh like there even though we disagree it's not like i never have bad blood with people

06:58:33.940 that i disagree with right um and again to your credit you were very open-minded you were very

06:58:39.380 respectful uh even even when we did have things that you probably very strongly disagreed with

06:58:45.860 and to anybody else on the panel if we had disagreements but we kept things cool and collected

06:58:50.340 i appreciate that and i do want to point out i know they're gone but uh you guys do got to

06:58:55.700 acknowledge things chilled out major once a certain individual left the panel and that is best for the

06:59:03.780 show right yeah and i mean look how quickly we moved through everything things were fairly calm we got

06:59:08.980 through everything so uh we have a couple more coming through uh you know what wait hold on we have uh

06:59:16.420 rev or actually roxana let me have you read some of these sure and it can sky wanker 1987 20 dollars uh

06:59:25.140 thank you man brian great show tonight go get a burrito you deserve it ah yes i need i need to eat

06:59:30.820 after the show thank you anakin appreciate it um free free women from women's empowerment in 0.93

06:59:38.740 islam both are from satan john veliket 20 dollars he's not been trolling his whole time thank you john 0.87

06:59:47.380 appreciate it real foe rogan chair three right here yep uh continues to try to speak to her 1.00

06:59:55.620 appreciation of men and you repeatedly cut her off and ignore her why don't you let her speak about 0.87

07:00:01.860 make appreciation in her culture instead of you playing the beta male victim card uh yeah no sure

07:00:09.220 that's fair um i mean i apologize if i cut you off at any points um sometimes it's just kind of the

07:00:14.340 nature of these conversations they're moving really fast we gotta get to the new thing but

07:00:18.180 given that if you if uh i'd like to give you an opportunity to speak if you'd like to speak i want

07:00:23.860 to say something you know guys when i come to america i was very much surprised why dating a lot i

07:00:29.940 told you first of all because i wanted to find a friend because i'm here completely alone and second

07:00:34.740 because i didn't understand what's wrong so there is something wrong here because of all this situation

07:00:42.100 with feminism and etc men afraid to act as a man what i mean in my country if man like the woman

07:00:50.740 he will do a lot of stuff to get her here man afraid to do anything like any step more because he

07:00:57.540 don't know she will like she he she don't like it she will sue him she go to poli she just want his 1.00

07:01:03.220 money he wanna she wanna use him here man is afraid to be a man and this is very bad this is what i really

07:01:10.180 don't like and i give up no i mean i'm i'm sure that one day i will meet this um the right man for

07:01:17.700 me but uh also what's interesting for me is that you know i working in the bar i have and in my bar

07:01:23.140 there are many men whoever they come in and talking to me what i find out in america there is no love

07:01:28.900 people forget how to love how to it's it's you know everybody's suffering from no love because you're

07:01:36.100 fighting guys stop fighting go love each other that was actually very profound and uh that was a

07:01:43.380 good good point good point um you said that uh men are like scared because they're worried like the

07:01:50.340 women are going to do like a lawsuit or go like say something that's not true is that kind of what 1.00

07:01:53.940 you're saying you know false accusations they not they're afraid to act i mean in my country if i say

07:02:00.900 oh sorry i don't like you or something and i just leave in my country what he will try to send you

07:02:08.100 flowers he will do something he will find you near your school or near university or whatever he

07:02:13.220 tried to speak to you he tried to he will try to do a lot of stuff to get you because in my country

07:02:18.420 mostly if you say no to man is like challenge for him like what she say no i will get her here in america 1.00

07:02:25.140 if you say no they're like okay he will not do anything even even he will like you he will still

07:02:31.700 will not do anything this is surprising for me okay all right we have two chats here then we're

07:02:37.140 going to get this to wrapped up we have tim underscore val's underscore is underscore g donated 20

07:02:45.220 yo great show tonight boys so i'm a huge lesbian trapped in a man's body plus happily married 10 years

07:02:52.420 to a woman what the should we do nico zero for donate 20 nico long time as a millionaire speaking 0.88

07:03:01.060 on behalf of the billionaires thank you she doesn't stand a chance with us easiest ten thousand dollars

07:03:06.900 you will ever make brian yo yeah i tried to get her but she wanted the contract so unfortunately

07:03:12.500 but me and her we got the did we do that i don't know whatever it's a deal all right 10k easy easy done

07:03:18.660 by the way guys w's in the chat for nico long time supporter i think i don't know i feel like this is

07:03:23.300 the first time i've seen you in 2025 so uh really good to see you uh j nico in uh 2025 man thank you so

07:03:31.540 much really good to uh have your uh support and patronage thank you man thor donated 20 thank you

07:03:38.020 thor feminism has inflated women egos to the point where many men feel it's just not worth the effort 1.00

07:03:44.100 anymore or will simp slash white knight we truly are suffering from hoflation and simplation we're 0.99

07:03:51.060 cooked cooked he says we're cooked shit thank you uh thank you man appreciate it all right guys i'm 0.94

07:03:58.500 gonna get this wrapped up if anybody wants to send a final one in you can that's the final call uh 0.97

07:04:03.860 oops what the heck happened sorry guys okay who we're gonna we're gonna do a twitch raid let's do that

07:04:08.020 yeah oh my god yeah let's do it that'll be fun that'll be a fun way to end the show you guys will

07:04:14.980 like this um okay we have hold on uh let's just yeah yeah we should we should have done it earlier

07:04:20.260 my bad okay let's do it oh my god oh it's terrible it's like looking like whoopee bro you know that's

07:04:30.180 kind of racist no wait what's this supposed to be like 45. i don't know no because i said at 34 i

07:04:38.260 look better but like whatever that age that is it's ugly how many batches damien

07:04:44.660 okay perfect next oh make it a little bigger god no it's not that bad

07:04:51.140 oh man this would have been so good for miss i'm gonna be hot at 100 over here all right next 0.87

07:05:07.060 oh 0.98

07:05:10.340 make it a little smaller imagine that with a what happened to the damn you may you didn't just make 0.99

07:05:14.180 her older you made her fatter too that's crazy that's crazy who who is that is that cat who did 1.00

07:05:19.060 this okay next oh yeah this girl has the airbrush on the first one whoa hold on whoever did 1.00

07:05:27.140 the originals are real younger than in reality yeah you guys did a lot of favors

07:05:32.420 yeah for her on that first picture but okay all right the second one looks more like that's like 0.99

07:05:36.660 her that's that's how she okay next 1.00

07:05:40.740 okay you'll be a cute old lady became asian next okay 1.00

07:05:44.660 oh okay the tuck shop lady all right there you go there you go she likes it she likes it next 0.97

07:05:56.580 make it bigger still a total psychopath bro okay i'm coming after you next yeah y'all edited the 0.61

07:06:05.300 first pictures oh my gosh okay i look like i like i have a small plane that i that i like to drive 0.98

07:06:10.980 yeah like a police officer yeah or a cop a dirty cop just kidding uh next 0.99

07:06:19.300 hey hey bro i can see us hanging out in a row fuck dude that's that's what happened to the chat one 1.00

07:06:26.820 next oh let's do the gender one yeah let's do the gender one that'll be fun bro what you could 0.99

07:06:35.940 have gave me a beard i have a beard though because my dad has a beard gave you a little peach fuzz there

07:06:41.380 would you date yourself that's a bad picture what would hey okay forget the don't even look at the

07:06:47.620 one on the left just the one on the right would you date that man

07:06:53.540 yeah if he grew his getting some facial hair okay all right okay next 1.00

07:06:57.380 oh my god what the fuck bro it's like someone's gonna grab me in a head that's terrible yeah 1.00

07:07:03.860 i know i would not date me yo wait he's kind of handsome is that like a sloth on your head 1.00

07:07:11.220 i would date you looks like a young brock lesnar what oh my goodness what is that 0.99

07:07:17.860 you gave unibrow too the brows are crazy next they need to be whacked oh wait but when you date 1.00

07:07:23.540 yourself wait make it a little smaller make a little smaller what the fuck olympic shot putter 0.99

07:07:34.420 yo honestly though kind of handsome right holy wait okay that's something else um uh next 0.99

07:07:43.140 oh wow nice mullet bro um okay okay uh next cutie oh you look the same it's still a woman 0.94

07:07:58.100 completely

07:07:58.820 would you hey what the come on really would you date yourself

07:08:04.820 would you date your the man version of you

07:08:10.500 it's hard i don't know looks like such a bad man callie come on would you do it well the first

07:08:15.220 one doesn't look like me and then the second one i don't know about that all right so no okay next

07:08:25.940 you know what he's cute i feel like there wasn't he's cute is there really yeah in the second one

07:08:31.220 she looks like luca brazzi she looks like she's a hitman would you date the male version of you 0.99

07:08:37.700 italian mafia into the mic into the mic hell nah what 1.00

07:08:47.300 uh is did you next oh i'm a baddie what the hell god damn jake i mean you still 0.99

07:08:55.700 got a bit of a beard though look at the way she's looking at me 1.00

07:08:58.500 you got you got like fuck me eyes there yeah dude holy shit all right hide your husband i mean 1.00

07:09:10.660 i mean i don't know if this is the woman version of you or like the transition like i don't know 1.00

07:09:15.620 you know it's like a little like chat would that's how jake would look if he was transgender 0.69

07:09:20.980 right am i right you gotta soften the jaw i got some nice cheekbones and 0.98

07:09:24.900 shit there i couldn't have that in real life okay would you jake would you date her yeah bro sweet 0.97

07:09:30.980 it's kind of he looks like a bit of like a like a boss 0.99

07:09:33.540 bitch though like corporate girl looks like she'd be a lawyer or some yeah well okay oh boy i'm nervous 0.99

07:09:38.340 all right here we go bro that's dirty y'all did me dirty bro this first off this looks like a 0.99

07:09:46.180 painting from like the 1500 and you look like i look like mona lisa in this 0.99

07:09:50.260 shit like what the fuck i look like one of those uh what do you call it um 0.99

07:09:56.100 like i look like i'm inbred royalty here bro why you gotta do me dirty like this man holy 1.00

07:10:01.140 shit not that bad i that's fucked up man i'd still hit though okay anyways um 0.99

07:10:07.940 is there an extra no that's it okay all right oh we got a couple chats here let's see 0.99

07:10:12.100 blue baby donated twenty dollars what happened to anisa and morgan oh um yeah anisa she wasn't able

07:10:20.500 to uh continue uh i mean we they both just weren't able to continue i'm telling you man look the

07:10:26.980 background character is high high high turnover but um no drama i mean just no drama there or anything

07:10:34.580 anisa like it's a new quarter or is it semester she had a different class schedule she's a she's a

07:10:41.380 college student and you know these shows go late she had some like early classes so uh just her

07:10:48.420 scheduling conflicts with anisa and then yeah so and morgan's also a college student so it is what it

07:10:54.260 is um so uh we have nico here nico zero four donated twenty dollars first thank you super for 2025.

07:11:04.820 thank you sorry q1 is extremely busy with work all good man still here still a fan appreciate you

07:11:10.580 still supporting thank you loved the smoke you brought these last few nights jake guys w's in

07:11:16.020 the chat for jake w's in the chat for jake um he's a legend and a scholar and thank you sir he's a

07:11:23.460 brave and a decent man he's a pioneer and just before we carry on if anybody does want to check

07:11:28.180 out the vlog we did with andrew wilson i think you guys will really enjoy it we did a travel video

07:11:32.420 on rattlesnake travel and we shot some big guns and it was just the boys hanging out that's awesome

07:11:36.260 people are enjoying it so sweet it's on your rattlesnake tv yeah and the link tree's in the

07:11:40.180 bio yes we have the link tree for him okay he's a brave savage here donated twenty dollars

07:11:44.900 yo savage thank you man shout out from hollis to california what's up brian and rattlesnake tv

07:11:52.020 yo thank you so much man uh all right that's cool um you know what we need to do like a little

07:11:57.700 wholesome thing here we're gonna raid whoa grandma oh speeds online maybe i could write now we'll just do

07:12:03.460 whoa grandma love this lady yeah she's cool the wholesome moment here at the end of the show uh 0.99

07:12:08.340 before you pull that up though i'll do the outro really quick okay gg well played to the panel last

07:12:14.820 call hit the like button please on your way out thank you for tuning in tonight uh you could have been

07:12:22.020 anywhere in the world but you're here with me i appreciate that thank you to everyone who super

07:12:26.900 chats donates and supports the show it means the world this show is uh viewer supported audience

07:12:32.340 supported we're not doing sponsorships like almost all of our like live streams get like either age

07:12:38.820 restricted or demonetized like we get the little yellow monetization icon so we are uh viewer supported

07:12:45.940 so i appreciate uh all you guys so much and i've obviously appreciate even if you just watch that

07:12:51.140 helps us out too so thank you guys we will be live again sunday or no excuse me it's super bowl

07:12:57.140 sunday right coming up oh guys no show on super bowl sunday but we will be back tuesday at 5 p.m pacific

07:13:04.980 got a really good oh yeah that february 11th show assuming no flakes you never know insane panel like

07:13:13.540 insane panel it's gonna be really good so be sure to tune in for that any girls who want to be on the 1.00

07:13:17.700 show you can dm out whatever on instagram oh sevens in the chat let's pull up the twitch oh we need to do

07:13:23.620 one last twitch shout out before can you pull up the twitch thing yeah thank you man

07:13:34.100 all right uh and i think all right guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever before we do the raid

07:13:40.980 over there just drop us a quick follow guys drop us a quick follow and drop us a prime sub just check

07:13:44.820 if you have a prime sub available it's a quick free easy way to support the show every single month check

07:13:48.900 if you've got a prime drop it drop us a follow thank you guys so much really appreciate it over there on

07:13:52.660 twitch and then uh can you pull up the stream for the guy hold on let me play this really quick 0.94

07:13:59.860 wtf donated twenty dollars this is one of the ugliest panels you have had across all the episodes damn bro 0.80

07:14:06.660 chill out the ugliest no person above a three props for actually trying to make us appreciate when the 0.98

07:14:12.900 women here are pretty okay let's do the raid all right i don't need to kill anything all right i'm 0.95

07:14:25.300 going to send the raid over guys thank you so much for watching on twitch i'm saying that raid over in

07:14:28.260 just five seconds oh she's playing uh plunderstorm she is playing world guys be nice to her she's 82

07:14:36.340 i think 83 be nice be very nice tell her what's up tell her uh tell her uh you know something nice

07:14:43.540 all right guys sending that right over thank you guys for watching on twitch that's getting sent over

07:14:47.620 now she's playing plunderstorm it's a kind of mini game within the world of warcraft ecosystem uh it's

07:14:55.700 like uh what's it called uh whatever it's been a while hello there whatever it's been a minute it's

07:15:03.140 been a minute welcome whatever

07:15:12.580 what level is she and it looks like there oh only nine squad yeah they got pretty far in this game okay

07:15:17.780 cool uh show her some love guys and uh all right i think that's pretty much it uh we got everything okay

07:15:25.540 oh sevens in the chat good night guys oh sevens in the chat good night she's not there good night

Whatever Podcast - February 05, 2025

2 OBNOXIOUS Rude Girls KICKED OUT! 1 RAGE QUIT？! The MOST Beautiful Panel EVER？？？｜ Dating Talk #226

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Whatever Podcast - February 05, 2025

2 OBNOXIOUS Rude Girls KICKED OUT! 1 RAGE QUIT？! The MOST Beautiful Panel EVER？？？ ｜ Dating Talk #226

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2 OBNOXIOUS Rude Girls KICKED OUT! 1 RAGE QUIT？! The MOST Beautiful Panel EVER？？？｜ Dating Talk #226