2 RAGE QUITS?! 37 Year Old Wants 0.1% Man Who Earns $1M+⧸YEAR?! She WILL NOT Settle?! | Dating Talk #208
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In this episode of Whatever Dating Talk, we are joined by London, Megan, and Kailen to talk about what it's like being single in the 21st century. We talk about how to deal with the modern dating hellscape, what it s like to be single, and how to get out of it.
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the views of the whatever channel with that said without further ado we're going to have the guests
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introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location and occupation god i'm kaylin i'm 19
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um i'm from arizona and i work full-time all right uh what do you do for work uh i'm just a barista
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i just make coffee okay what about you my name is megan i'm 33 i live in houston texas and i work in
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plastic surgery and do tiktok all right sorry did you say your age yes i'm 33 33 okay sorry i was doing
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something over here on the computer uh you're uh you work with plastic surgery or i oversee a plastic
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surgeon's office okay you're like the practice manager or yes okay can we um okay all right uh what
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about you um my name is london i'm from milwaukee wisconsin i live in l.a now i'm a model sorry age
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27 27 27 you're a model anything else or just that um i work like at venice beach so i sell like
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margaritas at the boardwalk i'm a hustler i do like different stuff in l.a okay like you sell drugs or
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no margaritas no but you said you're a hustler yeah like what do you hustle margaritas yeah you're
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margarita hustler hey maybe i'm i don't know about margarita business yeah okay all right cool
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what about you i'm kaylee i'm 23 i'm from the sacramento area um i work for an insurance agent
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so if you guys are rolling uninsured don't be a criminal call a 916-966-7111 um
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i occasionally wait tables um and then i just started donating plasma for money so it pays
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you donate plasma for money how often do you do it you can do it twice a week twice a week
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you can get like 80 bucks and then per time bucks yeah okay and you've how many times have you done
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it total once oh just once yeah i just started so you got 80 bucks 80 bucks from it okay hustler
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um hustling that plasma all right and uh what about you hey um my industry name is naomi writer
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um was age 28 occupation um i'm in adult film and i do only fans here and there but like not that much
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um right now and then um i'm also a dancer shout out spearmint rhino van nuys hold on i have to go
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everybody uh so uh okay welcome where are you from again so i'm from northern california but i
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live in la right now okay got it what about you hi i'm vanessa i'm 37 years old i'm in it i also
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teach hot yoga three times a week and i'm a sleigh and i'm 37 from la wait you're a what a sleigh
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namaste namaste namaste i teach yoga hot yoga namaste i'm hustling
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i thought you said you're a sleigh word of the day it's like namaste but namaste for the
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badass queens are you wait you're a queen are you a queen or soon to be
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okay all right we'll get into that what about you my name is allison i'm 20 years old i'm from the san
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joaquin valley san joaquin county central valley and i'm a special ed teacher all right what about
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you i'm vanessa i'm 19 and i'm also from the san joaquin county and i work in a delhi
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all right i'm brian atlas 35 santa barbara california uh washed up over the hill has been
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youtuber host of the whatever podcast andrew what about you
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yeah my name is andrew wilson i'm the host of the crucible it's a popular entertainment channel on
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youtube political analyst a political satirist i uh host debates moderate debates i enjoy
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participating in debates myself and also having conversations with thousands of people like
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yourselves all across the country all right welcome everybody so we're going to get everybody's
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current relationship status and if you're single how long have you been single and what's the
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longest relationship you've ever been in go ahead um i'm currently taken and my longest relationship
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was three years when you say taken are you in a relationship or yes okay uh how long have you
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been in the relationship for um almost six months all right six months and longest three years who broke
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up with who in the three-year relationship it was mutual mutual okay what about you i am married
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we've been married for two years together eight years together eight years okay so i'm assuming
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this is your longest relationship yes uh eight years total right yeah so two years married six years
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together together correct and there hasn't been any breaks no okay all right cool what about you
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i am single longest relationship eight years i just need to make a quick adjustment to your microphone
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can you scoot it this way a little bit perfect i'm sorry so you you're single okay uh how long
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you've been single for two years two years longest relationship eight years eight years who broke up
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with who in the eight-year relationship me and then was that the one that ended two years ago
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okay and so why did you break up he went to jail a lot
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huh a lot not just one is he still in jail currently yes
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huh uh for for for what i'd rather not say that's his business you know
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hustling hey he hustled too hard probably and uh how many uh during the course of the relationship
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like how long were you guys dating before the first time he got arrested
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uh we started when i was 16 so we were in high school he didn't go to jail till like after high
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school probably like 21 or 20 no no maybe like 20 so like maybe a good three and a half four years
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and then how many times during the course of the relationship was he in and out of jail or prison
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like three to five three to five times yeah so it wasn't like i was just leaving him because he
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went to jail um i tried a lot like a lot the first time three years he went for the first way he was
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the first time he went away for three years three years it did he got out and then like sometimes
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they're on probation so if you do anything if you fuck up he fucked up like twice the first time
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another three years i mean another 30 days i'm sorry 30 days 30 days so that's why yeah yeah and
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then he got out and then he went back again another 90 days yeah and then now i don't know like
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three four years were you guys married no no okay did you go and visit them um
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yeah maybe once or twice and the three-year sentence was it in jail or prison yeah
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it was prison for the three years the three the month in the three months it was like county
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county jail so it wasn't that deep like you're finna get up so
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yeah yeah stay with the guy i definitely am was i don't know if i'll ever do that again unless i'm
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like married and forced to yeah deal with that with my husband or something but
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yeah i was for sure a ride or die have you dated any other men who during the course of you dating
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them were in prison no just just him i haven't had a relationship since okay it was traumatizing
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okay all right well if any other questions come up i'm sure i'll ask what about you um i'm in a two
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year relationship and my longest relationship was four years a little over that all right
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uh who broke up through in the four-year relationship i did okay what about you
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relationship status so i'm single i've been single for like a year um and like we were together for
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a year and a half my last relationship that was the longest too your uh a year and a half was your
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longest yeah and that was the one that ended a year ago yeah okay my um longest adult relationship
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okay who broke up with who it was mutual for sure mutual okay all right and what about you
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um i'm single the long i've been single for about three years and then the longest relationship i was
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in was three years was that the one that ended three years ago no okay uh and so the three-year
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relationship the longest one who broke up with who i ended that and then the most recent relationship
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that ended three years ago who broke up with who i mean he moved so he moved okay circumstances yes
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all right what about you um i'm single and celibate and i have been single for since january so like 10
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months going on 11 and my longest relationship about two years is that the one that ended 10 months
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ago no the one that ended 10 months ago was a little under a year okay the two-year relationship
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who broke up with who uh i didn't have a choice he cheated on me so i guess you could say he he broke
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up with me or yeah i don't know well you could well technically okay i broke up with him for good
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reason right for good yeah um and then the most recent relationship that ended 10 to 11 months ago
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who broke up with who i broke up with him okay cheating uh no um he needed help and hustling too
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much uh he hustled too hard no he needed help help like mental institution yeah like so what kind of
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what are we talking here really really bad childhood trauma and um it wasn't he didn't
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it got taken out on me on so yeah i had to help him and me by leaving okay all right what about you
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i'm in a relationship 17 months tomorrow and it's my longest relationship months okay how did you guys
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meet um mutual friends mutual friends okay 17 months damn keeping track you can track an hour
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or two or yeah like the seconds you have it down to the second one all right okay cool that's
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everybody's relationship status i did have a couple clarifying questions here for the people that are
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single single single single uh starting with you uh so you've been single for two years
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um so have there been any guys in the picture though in the two-year period not that i've liked no
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when's the last time you hung out with a male of the human species
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individually and there was a mutual romantic and or sexual interest
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yesterday no no no okay um yeah my ex who's in jail so oh it's been two years word wait you haven't
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like hung out with a dude since you said sexual oh so do you mean just hanging out okay just and
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not and or okay yeah just like kicking it um i don't know maybe like a month ago wait so you've
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been celibate for two years yeah okay celibate two years writing that down um
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if your ex who's currently how much time is he doing i don't know i like don't keep up with him
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i don't know his sentence but at the time he was facing like four six years okay so you saw he was
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when you broke up with him he was in the can yes okay i see if he got out like tomorrow like i don't
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know some new evidence no because it was like other stuff later and i was just like
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i'm not doing it again i don't like him that much no more so i was falling out of love anyway slowly
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and that once he went to jail was like oh yeah this is he's tripping and so no guys for two years
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i don't really like people easily like i was with him for since high school because i liked him that
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all the way up until i stopped then it was like okay but what about these guys who you're like
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hanging out with like you're just hey brian yeah i don't mean to cut in but i gotta i gotta do a pc
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restart here i'm having some issues on my end no worries man uh just uh let us know when you're
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ready uh so just go ahead and yeah so he's coming right back guys uh no guys okay so you said you
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kicked it like a month ago with yeah i kick it with people just fill them out and then i look and say
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i don't like you and never see it again okay i did like one person though once he went to jail
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and with the other guy you liked no no i'm telling you keep up i'm telling you about the
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okay so i moved here from wisconsin i'm from milwaukee and i moved to la before i moved it was
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someone i did like and then we like seen each other but it didn't really go anywhere so then i
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moved since i've been here i just was like uh i don't like nobody here at all like i meet people
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every day none of them are my cup of tea gloctavius donated 69
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ladies who is on birth control also what decade was world war one in
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thank you gloctavius uh going around the table um are you on birth control no no no no no um i pop
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plan b's like candy wait say that one more time i pop plan b's you pop plan b's yeah like how many
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plan b's say like that no no it's you know you can say it you can say pop okay yeah i pop plan b's
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you pop plan b's there was a time i popped like four in a week and like yeah it wasn't good don't do
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that how many um like you get them you get them free or no they're like 50 usually you can get them
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cheaper i know i saw that recently um wait but so okay you uh how many plan b's have you gone through
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in 2024 i don't know do the math on that shit hold on okay wait not that much probably like i mean
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did four in a week let's say average week average week is like one do you think you do not average
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week uh like my sex life is kind of slowed down off camera so okay i see yeah huh okay so like 20
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this year probably wouldn't it be easier to just be on birth control i know but i can't find one
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you can't find one i can't find one that won't like cause like some crazy shit to happen to my
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plan but i mean it's like plan b is just like a higher dose of the fat or tired or both fat so it's
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like wait plan b is oh it makes you fat it doesn't make you fat but like it can it work birth control
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kind of makes you fat plan b there's like the copper iud it depends on the birth control but
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i have different it causes it can make you skinny too it causes it can make you bleed a lot uh birth
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control yes what what i don't know the generic but it works fine and i'm skinny the pill okay what
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about you no and i never have you no okay and then the other question was it was uh what decade was
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world war one and go ahead 20s okay 20s okay sure
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20s okay 1914 and 1918 what decade wait we're going decade we could just yeah what just what you can i
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mean if you want to give years but just the decade 20s 30s 40s 50s wasn't world war ii in like 1941
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or some shit so it's like world war one yeah i would be like
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wasn't that like 100 years before that so like 1840 i don't know skip me will that be it no just
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you gotta guess you gotta guess you gotta guess sure 1840 1840 okay that's an answer all right
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1920 okay she gave you the answer it's 1914 and 1918 and yet the 1910s congratulations you win
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absolutely nothing but good job uh let's see here then we have uh proverbs 21 19 donated 69 dollars
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better to live in a desert than with a coral nagging wife oh i like that verse you got you guys
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thoughts on this one it's true so it says better to live in a desert it's like better to be dehydrated
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and get a uh sunburn and die favorite bible verse huh isn't that your favorite bible yeah it's pretty
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it's like one of the top it's pretty good it's the real verse is contentious woman so
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well there's different translations right the original bible the old english and that's different
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than nagging contentious is different nagging is like very specific well it says quarrelsome and
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nagging wife right but quarreling is like fighting and there's one that's yeah there's one that says
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brawling woman which what's that there's another verse which like king james bible
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that's the one that says the one that you like yeah and then there's a brawling woman it's better to
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be in the um the like a hat the top of a rooftop or something than a brawling woman so like that kind
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of anyways well there's like uh there's like brothels in the desert so what all right um going back to
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people's relationship status okay uh single over here you've been single for one year
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right yeah have you been celibate for a year no i do adult film when's the last time you shot
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so i did an only fans thing like i don't know let me think about that i think it was like thursday
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that was crazy too that was descriptive um was it so okay um how often uh how many shoots have you
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done boy girl shoots uh i lost count i'm not gonna lie you do traditional corn too
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yeah like mainstream you do mainstream not just only fans mainstream okay and do you know how many
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scenes you've done no no idea not like i just started in january though do you think it's more
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than 100 probably 100 scenes probably okay and then um how many scenes like what's the most amount
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of because there's like bg bbg bbb bb bg i feel like i know where this is going you're gonna say
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how many people no i'm just asking oh like like you've done like threesomes foursomes fivesomes that
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type of shit um i did like a couple threesomes with another girl and then there was also an orgy
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with um an older lady and like six guys how old was the lady probably like 60 and so like her thing
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oh my sweet summer child did she sound like that
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was she granny gum jobs took some milk she um she kind of so i did like a cream pie scene
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and her job was like to word suck it out of me type shit oh my god i don't want to go home
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that's fucking disgusting sorry sorry sorry that was lost a new press that okay good times um
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same that's cool um and so but in any case so i guess putting aside the adult content stuff
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you've been single for one year uh you've been dating throughout this process have you dated people
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in the adult industry dating no no fucking yes yeah well obviously that's an entailment of the work you
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do in my personal life it's more like models athletes some porn stars here and there wait but
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so you're hooking up with the athletes whatever for content or just just for fun for fun yeah okay
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not anymore though okay and so when it comes to like dating or like civilian hookups um you're doing
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that too um yeah i don't do the civilian hookups anymore i've been like kind of just focusing on the
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on camera stuff okay yeah sure and uh so like when's the last have you been on a date recently
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like do you do sugar daddy stuff oh yeah i forgot that was in my bio on fucking uh instagram yeah i do
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some sugar daddy stuff so i guess i have like a roster of like three sugar daddies right now okay
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the legendary trash panda donated 69 ladies on the panel how is your relationship with your father
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share three does it hurt to sit on it all the time or did you sever the franks and beans
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bricks and baby let me a damn mommy milker's girl
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okay uh thank you for that appreciate it appreciate it do you think i got a big booty
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or is that what you're saying uh i don't think so no okay i yeah i don't know i'm skinny probably
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okay uh wait so oh going around the table how's your relationship with your father so i want to add
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a question to this um are your parents still together and then how's your relationship with
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your father go ahead um my parents aren't together but i have a stepfather who's been in my life
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and um my dad chose not to be in my life okay what about you my parents are still together and
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normal relationship sure oh my parents aren't together i'm just not talking to my dad i don't
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have a bad relationship with him though okay um my parents are still together and i have a good
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relationship with my dad we go fishing sometimes you know my parents were never together
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um but when i was a baby my dad went to prison for like 25 to life but he got out like on good
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behavior or some shit um not really sure what all that was about but and then he got out when i was
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like 14 and then disowned me because i was emo because you were emo yeah i swear so like listen to
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a lot of my chemical romance and he was just no i don't or whatever i didn't he bought me a my
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chemical romance cd so i can't say he didn't do anything for me but like were you emo before he
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bought that for you yeah i asked him to buy it so it's like his fault then because he bought you
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like the mcr album no i mean right so if you don't make me emo why did you buy me an email i agree it's
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kind of like the blames on him he shouldn't have bought you that mcr he chose his own demise
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exactly but i like silverstein more silver what silverstein or okay okay slipknot okay anyways
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dope and uh what why did you know why at all he was in prison for 25 to life uh kind of sort of
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but i don't know if i should get into it um you don't have to tell like the full story anyways
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what was he accused of what was the accusation i don't know if i should get into that okay that's
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fine that's fine um and so oh the sugar daddy stuff if i recall oh no no we're going around
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the table relationship with your father and are your parents still together my parents are still
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together and i have a good normal relationship with my dad all right what about you my parents
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are still together and i have been able to rebuild the relationship with my dad and my parents aren't
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together but i think my relationship my dad is pretty good all right cool that's that for uh everyone
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and then uh so you're single no dates me no dating dating like i'll go out and have dinner with my sugar
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daddies does that count as a date do you smash the sugar daddies smash have carnal knowledge smash um
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sexual intercourse uh if the connection is there you know what i mean which it is because they're
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providing for me so so like escorting basically like do you do escorting
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is that escorting by definition or probably and i guess we'll just go with yeah okay we'll go with
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yeah all right uh when's the last time you've been on a civilian date
00:30:38.900
uh i don't remember i didn't even go on dates with my ex really you guys just we were too busy in the
00:30:48.780
room type shit yeah smoked meth and not meth sorry sorry why meth that was like uh smoke sorry
00:30:55.640
pcp my bad definitely not that either not pcp no or meth weed crack cocaine no you can smoke crack
00:31:06.000
no you do you smoke crack no i'm saying can you you smoke crack black tar heroin no crocodile i don't
00:31:14.860
like drugs oh my bad okay okay that's cool um you're single you've been uh so what what does
00:31:22.300
that entail though there's no guys in the picture i'm still i date is there a guy in the picture right
00:31:26.540
now uh yeah there's a guy in the picture i'm a sagittarius so word wait what is i what does that
00:31:37.840
mean that i'm outgoing and connect with people easily and typically have quite a few
00:31:43.200
have a few people on the roster to you know go on dates with i'm single so if you ask me out and
00:31:50.700
you're a millionaire i'll say yes oh if you're a millionaire if they're not a millionaire then we
00:31:57.760
can be friends that part uh well there's a couple things there there's the roster there's the so uh
00:32:06.460
let's just run this back a little bit so uh must be millionaire to date you at this point in my life
00:32:13.960
yes now when you say millionaire do you mean net worth it or like they're earning a million dollars a
00:32:19.140
year i mean you have to be a millionaire just to pretty much live in la so really multiple millionaires
00:32:30.480
i mean multiple millions wait what do you mean multiple like own a house basically
00:32:35.140
so middle class like do you rent or i rent yes i rent you wouldn't date a guy who rented no how much
00:32:43.600
how much is your rent my rent's only 1950 and you do you have housemates or you have your own place
00:32:50.560
no just my place you wouldn't date a guy who's paying like 2 000 in rent no if he doesn't own a house
00:32:57.620
that's over seven million dollars i won't date him and i'm doing fine wait what do you mean you're
00:33:05.720
doing fine i'm going on dates um do you have something on i feel like you have something on
00:33:13.420
this you're good you don't got it you got something nothing nothing no okay no um so okay i'll ask a
00:33:22.900
couple clarifying questions here seven million like wait a seven million dollar house yeah come
00:33:29.520
on or you're messing with me right or is this serious i mean no it's fine but i mean what we
00:33:35.820
would consider it i just have you know goals and expectations and boundaries and this is what i
00:33:40.920
strive for and if i have to be single you know until i find that guy then that's what i'm willing
00:33:46.920
to do do you have kids okay do you want kids i don't care whatever's in god's plan wait so you're
00:33:55.020
not like have any leaning towards kids if somebody that i met one day and we fell in love wanted to
00:34:02.480
have kids and it was right then yes but what do you want i don't know what i want or are you just
00:34:07.380
kind of i'm like loving life right now and definitely not sad that i don't have kids
00:34:11.340
yeah no that's that's fine uh but do you want them in the future i'm not sure i'm a really good
00:34:20.120
aunt okay um so if you met a guy and he told you i am doing the no kids thing i don't want to ever
00:34:33.960
have kids but he met all your other criteria for dating you would date him long term definitely okay
00:34:41.720
at this point yes okay uh but then also if you were to encounter guy met all your criteria but he
00:34:49.420
said hey i want to have kids within the next two years also yes okay all right as long as he can pay
00:34:54.740
for them uh yeah so let's go back to um what's the bare minimum income for you to date a guy
00:35:04.040
i mean i'm not good at math okay just gonna preface that but um i i think i already told you
00:35:14.500
you know i just want somebody that's basically in the top five percent one percent in terms of income
00:35:22.440
i mean a few million dollars a year would be great wait so you want a one percenter
00:35:28.640
in terms of income sure i mean if as long as he's really smart and saves his money i guess it
00:35:39.380
doesn't matter if he makes like five hundred thousand a year and then has a bunch of other
00:35:44.720
investments but yeah because eventually that'll equal a million right eventually he's like as long
00:35:51.780
as we get there some way um and the men you're currently dating they're all millionaires or
00:36:00.760
whatever making 500k minimum yes okay uh i don't think they make 500k minimum but oh they make less
00:36:10.780
more more yeah they make more how old are they they're men i do know some rich young guys too
00:36:18.360
30 year old had a seven million dollar house in santa monica but his family had money so
00:36:23.420
you know he's lucky but wait how so they're like in their late 30s 40s basically yeah like 30 40
00:36:31.400
uh okay and uh what are the other criteria that you're looking for in a guy i want someone that's
00:36:41.480
successful sure motivated um influential what does that mean like he's influencing me to be a better
00:36:51.040
person to grow and to strive to make money and be successful and you know put myself out there
00:36:56.860
okay good values all right um minimum height uh actually i'm okay with the guy being short as long
00:37:08.700
he's rich so and he'll tell you i'm five four so i'm not so if the guy's like shorter than you
00:37:16.560
doable i dated a guy that was shorter than me yeah okay uh so as long as he's taller than you
00:37:23.120
or even i usually say uh i i would prefer someone be at least a few inches taller than me so that i can
00:37:30.560
still wear heels but if the other things are there you know i'm open okay uh can we do
00:37:38.460
let's do the calculator let's pull up the calculator by the way guys we're bumping the tts back to
00:37:53.920
they make one mil a year i guess minimums kind of or you said 500k is that correct
00:38:01.260
year okay you ready okay we're gonna do uh the calculator on this so we can we can try to
00:38:10.460
triangulate how many men fall into your criteria so let's pull it up okay so scroll down all right
00:38:20.340
uh age range give us an age range of men you would date i'd say i mean ideally 35 to 45
00:38:28.180
okay can you do that 30 should we exclude men other men who are married
00:38:34.400
yeah okay exclude married race i don't care any race okay scroll down minimum height
00:38:43.780
uh i would say like five six five four oh yeah i mean i said i wouldn't be willing to date someone
00:38:52.320
shorter than me but five four is crazy i mean most men are not going to be let's we'll just say five
00:38:57.780
four um so her height or taller uh should we exclude obese men i mean i've dated fat guys
00:39:03.780
so include obese not fat obese oh well i mean to be honest i have noticed that if they're not really
00:39:12.320
physically fit or don't care about their health and their body i don't find that attractive so yeah
00:39:16.800
okay and then minimum uh yeah exclude obese minimum income slam it all the way to the end
00:39:23.440
scroll down a little bit so we can see it yeah so yeah that's the it won't even let us make it higher
00:39:28.620
let's find out let's see so excited probability scroll down scroll down scroll down uh that wait
00:39:37.320
scroll back up scroll back up okay wait hold on so 0.099 percent that's not even you said you want
00:39:46.380
a one percent guy this is a 0.01 percent guy do you does that concern you with all you can round up
00:39:54.980
right he did he did oh yeah well or did i wait hold on yeah 0.01 that's what it well it would have
00:40:03.040
been 0.1 it would be 1 basically right no it'd be yeah 0.1 got to up the age range
00:40:11.520
so yeah no that's not even that's not close to one percent not even close not even close
00:40:20.800
welcome back andrew i'm not worried about it right so andrew i don't know if you we're gonna
00:40:28.320
recap you here get you caught back up i don't know if you heard so uh she's looking for a guy
00:40:35.120
she lives in la looking for a guy who's a millionaire who makes minimum 500 000 a year
00:40:41.560
preferably makes he's a millionaire makes maybe a million dollars a year
00:40:46.400
did you want santa claus to come down your chimney too is there is there anything else the men of the
00:41:02.380
the los angeles area can do for you i mean we don't know he's bringing diamonds we don't know
00:41:07.180
her life yeah exactly i mean laugh all you want yeah it's okay they be laughing but they be buying
00:41:13.880
other subscriptions it's fine okay okay well let's let's go through you know what maybe i'm totally
00:41:20.360
off base here right you can prove me wrong real quick i'm just going to ask you one question
00:41:24.560
right and i already know the answer to it but i'm hoping that you surprise me you'll be the one who
00:41:28.900
surprises me what is it that you bring to the table for this one percenter besides a place for
00:41:36.380
him to stick his penis what do you what do you bring besides a place for him to stick his penis
00:41:40.200
to the table for this one percenter i have great massages one guy actually quoted me as my healing
00:41:47.220
touch i have a healing touch he can tell he was getting better just from the massage so i mean now he's
00:41:53.980
a one percenter he makes five hundred thousand plus a year he can go to a professional masseuse
00:41:57.920
whenever he feels like it have one come to his house and give him the happy ending on top of it
00:42:01.920
if you wanted it true what what besides the you know his calves are going to feel really good after
00:42:07.860
you're done rubbing them uh are you bringing to the table also if i may jump in are you you say you
00:42:13.280
you give massages are you like have you been trained like are you a massage therapist it's like
00:42:19.680
natural i just got it and i just but do you think you're better than like a massage therapist i didn't
00:42:24.640
say i was better but so you guys asked me what i bring to the table i bring massages okay that's
00:42:30.540
fine you want one else i cook i clean i am fit i'll do everything so wait what else do you bring to
00:42:36.840
the table i said i cook i clean i'm fit i would raise the kids basically good um i mean i'm a very
00:42:44.080
generous lover so like very basic shit that every woman can do literally basic shit that any normal
00:42:50.000
housewife does stays uh at least somewhat fit right raises the kids and is somewhat decent to
00:42:57.180
their man and for this in exchange for all of this the thing that every other woman can bring to the
00:43:02.760
table you want a millionaire you got it you figured it out we don't even need math can i say something
00:43:11.500
about this like i feel like guys with money they don't really want like girls that like
00:43:17.040
bring a lot to the table like financially speaking so maybe it's probably best that she
00:43:22.640
you know can bring like what you're saying no no you're right you know listen listen i agree with
00:43:27.920
you because then they have that competition or whatever yeah i agree with you that a millionaire
00:43:32.520
doesn't care what your net worth is he doesn't give a shit if you're a barista at starbucks right
00:43:36.620
but he has his pick from the hottest fucking women on the planet the hottest women on the planet
00:43:43.460
are going to be pursuing your multi-millionaire you're saying she's not hot that's what i'm asking
00:43:48.780
i want to be like dude do you know what i look like the thing is is like uh i'm looking at you right
00:43:57.000
i mean the the other half better be made out of solid gold 24 karat fucking ingots
00:44:04.820
because what you're competing with in the los angeles area is some of the most beautiful women
00:44:09.960
on planet earth and i all you bring to the table is you're going to give them a nice massage
00:44:14.780
like uh oh okay you you could see you could see where my extraordinary skepticism would come into play
00:44:22.280
where i might think perhaps this is moderately delusional not only are you going after 0.1
00:44:29.240
percent of the population but out of all of the various competitive women that you'll have also
00:44:34.120
going after 0.1 of the population you think that you're going to out-compete them because you give
00:44:40.160
really good massages that doesn't sound remotely insane to you at all i'm not worried about it boo boo
00:44:47.800
and wait remind me your age you're 37 right 36 oh
00:44:59.480
oh my god oh where did you find her where did you find her brian
00:45:07.260
oh man a woman bring me a drink bring me a drink woman oh my god i can't how am i going to get
00:45:15.780
through this show tonight how am i going to get through this tonight okay so to get this right
00:45:21.140
you're almost 40 you're almost 40 years old right the biological clock is pretty much clocked out at
00:45:27.820
this point and you want a multi-millionaire 0.1 percent in an area that has the most tons of
00:45:34.820
million 20 year old women on planet earth is that does that summarize your position yes
00:45:41.540
i mean she did say she already has millionaires yeah i'm not honestly worried yeah yeah whatever
00:45:50.800
and i already have a pegasus i mean sure yeah i have a pegasus in my backyard i fly him around
00:45:56.460
sometimes when i'm going to the corner store i hop on the pegasus it's awesome i have a little
00:46:01.540
sword i take a mclaren sword on i have to sort on to jump on the pegasus and fly off to the store you
00:46:17.520
you said that you have a roster i'm done talking about it well no i mean it's okay this guy's gonna
00:46:27.560
berate me no we're totally good he's andrew is just it's clearly what do you mean i don't
00:46:32.900
berated you at all yeah jean what did i said that was berating to you i mean you're putting
00:46:37.740
me down you're laughing in my face and you're acting like i'm crazy you said i'm sorry but
00:46:42.220
all right isn't everyone pretty much delusional you got to manifest no i don't think everybody's
00:46:46.300
pretty much delusional i think that generally speaking most most rational agents if they heard
00:46:52.380
this at at nearly 40 years old i want a 0.1 percent guy uh in this population where there's a sea of
00:47:01.640
beautiful women that he has to choose from okay and what i'm going to bring to the table
00:47:06.040
is that i'll have sex with him and give him a massage how who wouldn't think that that was
00:47:10.940
delusional that's not berating you that's just me being honest with you
00:47:14.400
i have a question for you do you think like here you know what i'll make you feel i'll lie to you oh
00:47:21.320
you know oh good you go girl you get yourself that one percent doesn't exist unicorn i'm sure you can do
00:47:27.940
it excellent you know from now on i'll just the whole show i'll just lie to you haters gonna hate
00:47:32.460
but i just love love love in the words of theresa judice
00:47:36.640
like what exactly do you like so me personally like i'm i'm 35 right
00:47:43.540
and do you think i could like get you know like a victoria's secret model like a batty victoria's
00:47:51.060
secret i mean if she liked you yes gotta be in your head right girls are different than guys like
00:47:56.900
they're if you think women date below all the time you think me with my like mid-tier youtube if you
00:48:03.780
were nice if you were nice i think because of the youtube podcast you probably could pull
00:48:09.460
but a victoria's what do you mean women don't like men especially podcasters they like men who go to prison
00:48:17.140
that's who they like right are you me a shady is that who they like no don't shave okay don't shave me
00:48:24.980
i thought you were doing stuff my question is how would he get in contact with a girl like that i think that's
00:48:31.140
how would i how would i yeah i mean that's like the point is you match no but i'm old i'm not i'm not
00:48:39.060
gonna settle until i get a victoria's secret model a 19 year old victoria's secret model i love that
00:48:47.060
energy you just have to plot your way there i'm holding out i am holding out okay so i'm glad he knows
00:48:53.540
he's delusional but you're not a girl so that's delusional for you it's harder for a guy but it's
00:49:00.100
many men who still fall in love every day like you don't know that made sense i think it does
00:49:09.140
like you don't have the type of you gotta straighten your mic up okay you don't have
00:49:14.100
you don't have with women have we can't just leave your the mic where it is move it move it to the edge
00:49:19.460
of the table okay there you go go ahead you don't have what the women have what a person could no you
00:49:26.260
don't have to have sex i just told you i was celibate for two years since one relationship like
00:49:30.980
you don't have to have sex or do nothing i think you're just jumping to conclusions
00:49:34.820
that that's all people want it's actually some people who never be seen and one person can come
00:49:40.580
see you for you and then you can love them it's actually true love and people out there you don't
00:49:45.380
know if you just want their money wait wait wait nobody's disagreeing with this we we both agree
00:49:50.980
brian and myself would both agree that two people can meet each other and sparks can fly there's
00:49:56.180
butterflies in their stomach and all that stuff happens however can we be at least somewhat
00:50:03.060
rational here when we apply this that not every man has the same options as every other man nor every
00:50:09.700
woman the same options as every other woman you would agree with me for instance would you not that a
00:50:14.340
very beautiful woman usually has a better option of what type of man she wants than a really ugly
00:50:20.020
woman right true okay so if that's the case but they all got options hang on no matter if that is
00:50:27.140
hang on if that is the case you would also agree with me that a really rich man has better options
00:50:32.820
at his disposal than a not so rich man right true yeah so that's not the point of saying all we have
00:50:40.180
to do is just use logic we can just apply basic logic yeah but you still since we're reducing the
00:50:44.260
pool the amount of people we fall in love with people below us all the time like yeah but you're
00:50:49.540
not okay from jail below me i still love him and hold i know i know i'm agreeing with you i'm agreeing
00:50:54.900
with you you just have to listen what i'm saying if logically you agree that rich men have more options
00:51:00.660
than poor men and that beautiful women have more options than ugly women then necessarily that's going to
00:51:05.780
reduce the pool of available mates that you can feel those butterflies with and if you're talking
00:51:11.140
about 0.1 percent of the population that really reduces the amount of mates that you can feel those
00:51:18.900
butterflies with right right which is why she says she only dates she says she only dates people with
00:51:25.300
money so she's putting herself in a position to only come in contact with those type of men
00:51:30.180
yeah well i mean we have a name we have a name for that there's a popular name for that it's called
00:51:35.780
a gold digger and you know what type of woman rich men stay the fuck away from tell give me give me a
00:51:42.260
hint if any of you know the answer to this question raise your hand what type of woman does a rich man
00:51:47.780
stay away from if you know the answer raise your hand i want to hear anyone none of you know the answer
00:51:54.100
okay yeah what's the answer what type a gold digger a gold digger a gold digger a rich man more than
00:52:01.460
anything else avoids a gold digger and the reason they do is because they want to be loved for who
00:52:07.060
they are not for their money right so now we just reduce the pool even more yeah but some guys aren't
00:52:13.620
that bright you see plenty like basketball players get random whores pregnant and stuff like you see it
00:52:19.940
every day you know they hate marrying them they're taking them back to their hotel room they're taking
00:52:24.820
them back to their hotel room and they're running the train on them is what they're doing they're not
00:52:28.900
marrying these chicks no but they do still have to cough up 70 000 a month or something like that
00:52:35.140
she just said she wants somebody rich i don't know if she even wants to be married
00:52:39.060
what so she wants to baby trap what she didn't well you said i can't have kids that was your quote so i
00:52:44.580
guess that's not yeah you did say she couldn't have kids so how is she baby trapping when you just
00:52:49.060
put like that's what you said you said i've never said that she couldn't go get knocked up she could
00:52:54.100
go get knocked up i didn't say that i said that makes 70 grand a month i mean i guess if you want
00:53:00.420
to twist it for views no what how did i twist it that's what you said no you twist my words you said
00:53:06.580
women could get with a basketball you said you're speaking about marriage she never wants to have
00:53:11.380
marriage she only says she wants to date people in a million range and that's all she's saying if she
00:53:17.780
can get someone like that she does with men like that who take care of her now what's so funny
00:53:22.820
i guess i should ask that are you planning on getting married to this 0.1 percent what like i
00:53:27.540
always said like whatever's meant to be will be oh okay sarah sarah huh good job
00:53:37.460
whatever will be will be the thing is is that here's what won't be what won't be is um that you're
00:53:43.300
going to get a diamond ring from a 0.1 percenter i can i in fact in fact i will shut my youtube channel
00:53:50.020
down if you get a diamond ring from a one percenter and walk down you know the people who put you down
00:54:00.580
is always the ones who later see you shine i'm not i'm not putting her down this is basic realism
00:54:06.420
how's this putting anybody down well it's like me it's like me saying hey listen listen if you walk
00:54:12.660
across that rickety bridge it's going to collapse and you're like well yeah i'll show you i'll show
00:54:18.500
you and you walk across the bridge and it collapses and i go i told you dumb ass it was going to collapse
00:54:22.660
and you go well all you were doing is putting me down it's like no i'm just telling you the facts
00:54:27.140
i mean but some of us do believe in god and like when you believe in god anything can happen
00:54:33.700
i believe in god he's stating general reality that's his general though you never know god
00:54:39.940
might fix that that for me because he wants me to walk yeah i'm going to tell you i'm going to let
00:54:45.140
you in on a secret when you say it's your reality versus my reality the bridge doesn't give a give a
00:54:50.020
shit when it collapses the bridge doesn't care yeah but god can make that doesn't care whose reality
00:54:56.180
if he wants it to if i'm one of his children he doesn't stay still it doesn't have to wait hang
00:55:01.700
on i'm sorry do you think that uh god's message through jesus christ was that you go gold dick
00:55:06.500
for rich guys no is that what you think is okay no no so why would god so why would you ask for god
00:55:12.340
to intervene to give you a rich man that's insane i didn't ask that sir i just am speaking for her
00:55:18.260
and i don't think she meant what you thought she meant she just meant someone rich is the only one
00:55:22.660
she's dating and i don't see a problem in it if that's her type like if that's no you know if your
00:55:27.700
preference is to only date rich men right there's no i don't have any moral uh consideration against
00:55:33.860
that it's totally up to you but that doesn't mean i can't point out the fact that it's totally
00:55:38.900
delusional to think that there's going to be a long-term relationship with one of these men who's
00:55:43.380
making that kind of money per year in that particular area of the country with that much competition
00:55:49.380
and that you shine through because you give good massage that sounds insane right i mean am i the only
00:55:54.340
one or does that sound completely delusional have you dated rich already like you've had a man who
00:55:59.300
had money yes yes so if someone already made her a girlfriend he considered her to be somebody
00:56:06.020
he could take to his family anything did you dump him or did he dump you we're still dating they're
00:56:12.020
still they're still dating he's talking about marriage yeah but they don't have to get married
00:56:17.540
right now what if that's what he's talking about but what if they get married in the future there's
00:56:21.220
always a what if but he's specifically talking about marriage it doesn't matter because she didn't
00:56:27.380
say she wanted to be married so y'all steady focusing on that that's his point but she said
00:56:31.940
she just wants someone with money he's just making a point she can make a different point doesn't
00:56:36.900
matter if she doesn't care about being married or having kids he want her to be a housewife
00:56:41.460
that's so exclusive than the women in the world he didn't she don't want to be that he didn't want her to
00:56:46.180
be anything he was stating a general reality and if she cares or not she doesn't have to
00:56:51.860
she didn't say anything so okay i i just think you're picking me i don't know i just think you're
00:56:57.220
picking me i'm just stating i mean he's stating he's stating a general reality if it doesn't apply
00:57:05.540
to her then it doesn't matter but i mean the type the type of woman generally that rich rich men stay
00:57:12.740
away from is the type of woman that only dates them for their money i'm just pointing that out
00:57:16.500
that's it cool or like annoying bitches by the way i just want to let you know that that's a 100
00:57:24.980
uncontroversial statement i don't know who would ever disagree with if i walked down the streets of
00:57:29.300
santa barbara right now and just grabbed any random person and said do you think a rich man would
00:57:34.260
prefer to date or not date a gold digger what do you think he would say i think he'd be like why'd you
00:57:38.660
grab me like most women yeah most women are gold diggers that was very clever but what do you think
00:57:45.940
he would actually say if he answered the question yeah but most of them are gold diggers they're not
00:57:50.500
just going to tell you so y'all all seem to sometimes fall for the innocent pick me act that a lot of
00:57:57.220
women have just to secretly be like yes he's rich i got him so congratulations looking for the gold digger
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they never have going to get her regardless for their money they don't know how to look out for
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that at all okay if the money goes away then what are you left with so no not all women are gold
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diggers i didn't say all women are gold diggers i'm not a gold digger i said most women are gold
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diggers and y'all still fall for it you said there are pick me girls who pretend yeah you're the pick me
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if there's no money if there's no money wait you gotta let her finish speaking go ahead if there's
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no money she's probably gonna get picked if there's no money then what do you have left
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if you have a good man and he's working towards something and he's just not there yet but he's a
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worker versus some people are just given money but if you take away the money what do you have left is
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that guy worth your time that's what a lot of good women look for yeah because i said it's really funny to
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watch is uh you know women tend to always tell on themselves right it's like you go well wait a
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second right this is just fine andrew i'm gonna make an argument that women can totally fool a guy
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by conning him for his money it's like are you gonna tell on yourself more or what most women do
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that's not i i don't know right it's a general you're right most women do i'm telling you from my
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experience of how i've been around women you could think the one that's telling you the truth is the
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gold digger but the one that silently picked me is the real gold digger is what i'm saying so just
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because she says she wants money don't mean she won't like you love you treat you like a king
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like you don't know what you're getting all she said was she wants someone with money i don't even
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care if they have money i'm not like that i'm just defending her because i don't judge her but wait
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but wait you could be that woman who is pretending to not be like that that way you get picked so that
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so i'm gonna pick me now right oh my god like by that logic isn't that the case no that's not the
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case i'm just defending someone who was talking about money and i stuck up for her when nobody
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else did that's the only case a pick me interrupted and wanted to make her and you validate and nobody
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cares me personally i don't care i don't think yeah you sure are saying a lot for someone who don't
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care because i actually don't care really loudly you don't care but i like her but i like her so
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i feel like what you're saying you weren't getting it so i was trying to help you no i i think i get
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it fine i've talked to thousands of women all over the nation you think that this is the first time
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i've heard this and let me tell you how it always ends it always ends the same exact way
01:00:36.420
without the millionaire that's how well you did say you'll quit you did say you'll quit so if she does
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we hope you stick to your word i have to uh do a couple chats here one sec guys the zero
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feist i'm donated two hundred dollars yeah good to see you in the chat about prison was the dementors
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they were flying all over the place i noticed all the money coming from me come down and they
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sucked so loud of your body and it hurt yo the office fan thank you we have a couple more coming
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through here guys just a moment office fan really good to see you back in the chat uh thank you so much
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for the uh tts man really appreciate it we have three uh reads that i'm gonna pull up here right
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now starting with the legendary trash panda donated 99 dollars jessix glad to hear you were super
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comfortable with being single you hit the wall like a drunk driver going 100 miles an hour bish you
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best settle fn right now 40k slash year is about what you're worth now well i make 200k plus a year
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probably makes more kiss my ass i mean i really don't care wait what do you do for work again
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i have three jobs oh okay wait you make 200k with my regular corporate job oh you only pay two
01:01:55.060
thousand dollars in rent a month yeah and you make 200k exactly i mean you're single okay um and then we
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have by the way guys tts is 200 reed is 100 uh spyro's arsonist holy shit i can literally hear the
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wind whistling between her ears oh but wait i forgot she'll just manifest multi-millionaire prince charming
01:02:17.940
my wife literally spit her drink out of her nose laughing do you have a response to that i'm glad i
01:02:24.260
could make you laugh sounds like a mess and then we have lucas hey lucas thank you man it's not
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putting you down telling the truth and shaking a person out of looney tunes land is actually an act
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of kindness so glad i'm married kids live in my own little bubble and out of this racket lucas good to
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see you in the chat thank you very much for your message there reminder guys tts we have a read at
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100 and then the tts is at 200 thank you guys uh finishing up can you help me out with something
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real quick brian what's up um i i just want to make sure if i if i heard this right uh two thousand
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two thousand dollars a month yep does not equal two hundred thousand dollars a year she said her rent
01:03:08.260
not how much she makes a month no okay her rent is uh two thousand a month i see okay i was like wait
01:03:14.500
what wait what and then sounds like someone else's air between their ears could be so okay so here
01:03:21.060
let's get to this yeah i mean when there's a gaggle of women who are all clucking sometimes i get the
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uh the wires crossed i should have watched this podcast before i know i didn't watch it i'm sure
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i didn't realize i didn't know what i was getting myself into oh well hold okay i didn't know it was
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gonna be a guy let me explore talking crap to us a little while we're talking okay hold on hold on
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stop stop with the prattle okay so you can't take it on i mean i'm giving it back all right hold on
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hold on let's go into the other claim here you said you have a roster of a few people let's explore
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that i made that up i was lying what i just don't want to get into it so i'm just gonna say it's not
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true i mean you guys literally just rake me through the coals after telling you what i'm looking for in
01:04:07.300
life i'm not about here nobody continue for the next however long has nobody ever is there anybody
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else that's single wait wait stop she's the political one pick her you gotta stop interrupting
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do you understand okay you keep interrupting me i'm trying to move the conversation forward
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so you said you had a roster now you're claiming you lied about it but you're now you're claiming you
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lied about it because you don't want to talk about it so we're trying to have a good case you're just
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going to continue to put put me down about it so we're good nobody's putting you down we're having
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i don't feel great right now so is that because you're delusional okay there you go again so that's
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what you believe is what you're saying to her what do you mean calling her that she just was saying
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what you asked her truth and then now you calling her delusion and stuff like that i'm sure she didn't
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expect that to be called delusional yeah some people don't like it i mean it's it's fine to
01:05:10.260
have the truth pointed out well he already people don't like to have the truth pointed out to them
01:05:14.900
okay i mean how is it rude because she was invited it's not like she was like hey knocking on your door
01:05:20.900
i mean it's a dating discussion show we talk about dating and relationships
01:05:28.420
if it was like not about dating if it was about any other goal would you still call her delusional
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like if she like yeah i don't know if she said that she was going to build a ladder out of swiss cheese
01:05:41.700
to the moon yeah i think i would call that delusional right okay but so yeah so i guess if
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there was another task we would call it delusional if it was delusional right so okay i'm just trying
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to get an answer here so i can move things on you said there's a you had a roster of a few people hundred
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percent hundred and eleven percent i was just responding to that sure and to his thing or to the grand chat
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okay can you hide that please okay so you said you had a roster
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how big is the roster i mean i'm single and i'm dating like i said um so there's a few people that
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if they ask me on a date i go yeah how many three four or five yeah three four five yeah which one
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i mean i would say there's probably like three people or so that i'm dating okay
01:06:43.540
forgive me um so earlier if i remember this correctly aren't you i thought you were
01:06:49.060
currently in a relationship that was possibly leading to marriage i think i did not say that at all
01:07:01.060
i think she said if it could lead to marriage she wasn't opposed to it oh okay i see
01:07:07.780
so okay there's three people on the roster and are you hooking up with them or what what's the
01:07:13.380
nature of the relationships i mean we're going on dates so there's you know i don't kiss and tell but
01:07:23.300
you can kind of figure out you know if you're going on dates that it's romantic but okay so of the three
01:07:29.380
guys that are on your roster um which one have you been seeing the longest for a couple months
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yeah a couple months okay have you been seeing all three of them for a couple months
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yeah uh like you know there's somebody that's been around a little longer than the other people that
01:07:49.300
are newer and have you are you hooking up with all of them no but you're dating them for a couple
01:07:57.780
months yeah we go out every once in a while so you there's one that you're hooking up with and the
01:08:05.300
other two you're not hooking up with yes exactly okay and you've been on multiple dates with these
01:08:14.100
guys okay and they're okay with that yes no i mean that's not what i was gonna say but uh
01:08:25.540
uh why aren't you committed to just the one that you're hooking up with well we just haven't gotten
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to that place yet you said you've been dating how it is right now they're all successful just you know
01:08:40.020
busy men so what are you gonna do i don't know okay do you think that they're dating other women
01:08:47.700
maybe we don't talk about it it's not exclusive with any of them i'm assuming okay all right um
01:08:54.980
the roster we'll come back to that and we'll come back to that other stuff uh going to you you're
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single okay are there any guys in the picture no wow and you said you but you're celibate yes
01:09:10.660
you've been celibate for since the last breakup since november of last year
01:09:18.660
because you said you've been single for 10 to 11 months yes and i tried to go celibate
01:09:25.380
because i wanted to wait for marriage that caused problems so wait hold on rewind a couple months
01:09:33.940
before the relationship ended i wanted to stop and wait for marriage so you guys were wrong you guys
01:09:42.820
were having sex at one point girl it's too late to wait for marriage now
01:09:47.380
and so you were in the midst of a relationship yes and then you were having sex you decided
01:09:57.780
i no longer want to have premarital sex and that caused
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didn't cause everything but it caused a problem
01:10:06.580
my whole reason was i felt like there was a lot of things we weren't overcoming because that was like
01:10:12.420
a band-aid to problems like you know makeup sex and stuff like that and i feel like it allows you
01:10:17.940
to get a person get to know a person on a more personal level other than sexual and i'm trying to
01:10:24.180
figure out if i wanted to marry this guy or that was just what he was there for
01:10:31.060
it was it was i made the wrong choice too soon and tried to backtrack all right and so are you uh
01:10:39.060
is this a firm commitment a steadfast commitment that you will be waiting until marriage from here on out
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yes okay so you're dating a guy for a year you will not have sex prior to marriage until i say i do no
01:10:55.140
well hold on until i get married until you get married okay okay um so wait was this a two-year
01:11:03.460
relationship or was that a different one no it was not the two-year okay how long was the one that was
01:11:07.540
the one that just recently ended that that was a little less than a year a little less than a year
01:11:12.420
okay and he broke up with you no i broke up with him okay all right is he christian yes okay but you
01:11:21.220
guys were not initially waiting for marriage but then you kind of walked that back uh okay that's kind of
01:11:28.420
uh it for my questions on that um i do have a chat here from stifler ask everyone to rate their looks
01:11:38.420
on a scale of one to ten starting with you you into the mic please nine nine okay then we're gonna go to
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you six point five all right uh without makeup like a five or six with like an eight and a half
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okay i think it's sad she had to say that because this is just a hating ass question
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i personally think i broke my scale i think everyone should feel that way about themselves
01:12:08.020
anybody else you know that's dumb so to me yes to you what i broke my scale i broke
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my so you're not even you're above a time i'm above a 10 yes um so you're like an 11 or what no i broke
01:12:24.900
my scale that's it so you're obese or what happened maybe maybe she's off the charts i'm off the charts
01:12:31.140
like just back to back to back just great next level hot yeah that's what she's saying so
01:12:39.220
confidence 10 should we just say 10 i mean if you if you have to answer the question and you can only
01:12:44.820
pick one through ten which do you pick 10 okay um so my boyfriend and i we call this um
01:12:52.340
rate graping because i've had like a lot of men who've like randomly rated me
01:12:58.580
so i would say the average is probably about 6.5 i guess that's what i go with well what's your own
01:13:03.860
rating like seven maybe okay what about you i don't know my teeth are kind of up and i don't have an ass so
01:13:11.300
what the fuck that kind of drops me down on this scale okay uh you said nine what about you six
01:13:19.780
so can you speak just a little louder because you're a little soft-spoken good six six okay i
01:13:25.540
give myself a five andrew oh for sure i'm a 10 for sure do you think he's a do you think he's a 10
01:13:32.980
yes why are you asking me i am i the judge of looks now should i rate you too if you yeah sure
01:13:39.380
why not yes um i would rather not my mother always told me if you have nothing good to say don't say
01:13:46.820
it at all huh okay well i mean she told me the same thing but i'm gonna rate you anyway you're three
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okay i think you're very upset and that's fine wait can you rate me now i don't i don't i don't
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feel very upset okay i want to be next ramey yo frank the tank thank you at least four points higher
01:14:08.660
than the three everyone's higher than me because i upset him it's okay that's fine but when you're
01:14:15.460
like the let's mention the best of the best when you're in that category where are you where would
01:14:22.580
you be hey i mean you would be well if a woman and everybody could be a 10 what do you mean okay
01:14:27.300
where would you be we're exactly where you are no i just i got invited here i thought you said
01:14:34.260
everybody was a 10 so when i say i said everyone should think they're a 10. i said think i said
01:14:39.540
everyone should think they're a 10 but you yeah so then what's the problem you're the one who sounds
01:14:44.020
upset no but you didn't later say it said how you felt about me because whatever reason i hurt
01:14:49.700
y'all feelings it happens to the best of people how do you hurt y'all's feelings i hurt i obviously
01:14:56.180
did i must have okay well there's but there's one i don't think no one even at this table would ever
01:15:02.740
call me a three so that means i hurt your feelings duh well i'm i mean i'm a 10. if i'm a 10 i should
01:15:10.900
be able to rate everybody whatever i want i'm a 10. i think that i hurt your feelings that's all
01:15:17.380
gee that'll that'll teach me oh you got me i think it hurts your feelings you should take your wig off
01:15:25.140
and say it's not a wig that's rude thank you for assuming i think you're racist why wait why would
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that because why would you think it was a wig yeah where'd that come from because i can clearly see
01:15:36.180
that it's fake what do you mean it's not a wig but it can be extensions and not a wig meaning my hair
01:15:42.500
is mixed in with it i just added a little okay what are extensions extensions is not a wig fake
01:15:47.940
fake hair just say fake hair don't say wig oh it's the same shit it's the same shit okay i just feel
01:15:53.700
like you're in your chest because you know you are what you are i don't know honestly stood up and
01:15:58.740
decided if i wasn't trying to be nice you're real waiting sir like the real truth you look like an
01:16:05.220
english teacher you're like negative literally negative two you look like your breath steak like we
01:16:10.420
could really go there but i'm not i truly think you're just jealous and you're mad that we're
01:16:15.620
sticking up for ourselves he does look you know what you know what's actually nice about this
01:16:20.180
exchange so it's your time that you've been at that table that you've actually told the truth
01:16:25.380
yes because i was trying to i said i do think everyone should like yeah and i got the truth
01:16:31.060
out of you no because i was able to do that was by pointing out the obvious which is that you're
01:16:35.620
full of shit no i'm not full of shit you tried to come at me you tried to detect you tried to take
01:16:41.140
from what i thought of myself by saying i broke my scale you try to say to me you're three and i said
01:16:46.260
you're just hurt so therefore i've told you about yourself after and you said well i'm a 10 you said
01:16:52.180
everybody 10 don't call me a three knowing i'm not and then i come back at you and get mad it's me
01:16:57.460
defending myself yeah because you're you're you were full of shit i wasn't full of shit you were lying
01:17:02.500
through your teeth and i pointed it out and proved no i wasn't because i think you should
01:17:06.340
then why are you saying about me because you know what it is because i wouldn't say i'm a 10 and then
01:17:12.340
say and then say oh he's a two i wouldn't be like i wouldn't say that after though i'm gonna be i'm
01:17:19.620
confident and want everyone to be confident you were saying you're a 10 and you were lying i was now
01:17:25.460
you told the truth that's the difference so you finally told the truth after you were full of
01:17:29.300
shit you were lying okay that's your very simple that's your opinion very simple now you're telling
01:17:34.580
the truth all i know is go back to english class english class i mean i don't know i feel like you
01:17:42.500
should have stayed in english okay science feel like you should probably have stayed in science
01:17:47.700
class too i'll give you an example maybe tell me good thing i'm pretty yeah can you help me out
01:17:52.900
with something i just want to ask you one question can you tell me what the scientific method is
01:17:56.660
i cheated in math yeah and science and english and every last one
01:18:09.860
i just got the popcorn yeah i hated geometry so i don't even care about talking about science i hated
01:18:17.380
geometry i cheated in most of those but i do know one thing that geometry geometry in your science class
01:18:24.180
did you yes i did geometry wasn't i hated geometry it wasn't fun i didn't like it i didn't like it
01:18:31.860
either exactly like come on let's not act like we gotta be a students like i have i was a in english
01:18:38.340
actually that was my best hang on as an english teacher i feel like it is my duty to explain to
01:18:43.860
you that i do need to correct you on these small misconceptions okay yeah thank you you wear you wear it
01:18:52.580
nice nice like i could see you in the position is the scientific method that e equals mc square
01:18:58.740
as a teacher the teacher yes the scientific method is e equals mc square you got it is it not
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for the rest of the show can you call mr wilson sure okay just for like respect
01:19:10.100
anything else mr wilson can you hide him behind a fence that would be better
01:19:22.180
that was eventful um oh we have a couple sorry guys we have a couple messages here
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entitled catfish donated two hundred dollars pink shirt looking like a 48 year old team america puppet
01:19:35.460
red dress those stupid bangs don't hide that giant forehead um i don't have bangs on it's baby hairs
01:19:43.780
that's just my forehead and it's not big i don't have a big head to be charitable i'm looking at her
01:19:50.020
forehead it's a normal sized forehead you have you have an off the scale not even the 10 out of 10
01:19:57.780
it's off the charts forehead thank you it's fantastic yeah i don't know what the camera's showing you sir
01:20:04.900
like but no this is baby hairs and it eats in person like if you could zoom in on me
01:20:11.780
you should do that zoom in that's that's as far as we can go but see the guy's name is entitled catfish
01:20:18.180
i wouldn't take it personal okay i think he wanted me to have a big forehead to like slander me
01:20:24.020
probably definitely slander uh lucas says yikes just blew up my pseudonym i was spiros arsenis
01:20:29.860
real name uh back to playing george sand my wife does extend her gratitude for your levity
01:20:34.900
suck it up buttercup no butthurt you're a strong independent woman
01:20:40.100
right that wasn't bad i'll take the hundred all right lucas thank you very much for that that was uh
01:20:47.220
interesting so going around the table once more uh related sort of to the rating yourself question
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do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time starting with you go ahead yes
01:21:00.900
okay so you're 19 you'll be better looking at 29 what about 20 years time at 39 no okay what about you
01:21:08.180
no uh so you're 33 better looking in at 43 no at 43 no okay and then were you better looking at 23 as
01:21:16.100
compared to now at 33 i was more natural looking so no wait you were more natural looking i work in plastic
01:21:22.580
surgery so obviously i've had fillers done so wait so better looking now at 33 i feel like i look
01:21:29.140
better now than i did when i was 23 23 okay i got it and that's because the fillers and correct some
01:21:34.580
of the work yes work does help all right you're definitely a 10 thank you uh off this chart definitely
01:21:40.900
off the charts um and then 27 will you be better looking in 10 years time at 37 yes let me guess yes
01:21:47.140
of course i would i knew it look at holly berry look at all the beautiful women who was beautiful
01:21:52.420
young beautiful older yeah like hillary clinton no that's different all the housewives she was never
01:21:58.260
gorgeous about about nancy pelosi i mean like i would have piped like young hillary clinton but maybe
01:22:03.620
that's your like hrc like you ever thought maybe that was your skill like young hrc did you see the
01:22:08.500
recent picture of pamela anderson you should pull that up brian recent that's pamela with uh but that's
01:22:14.660
pamela though i actually look good without makeup like honestly i'll come back another day and i'll
01:22:20.180
wear my natural beautiful fro and my natural face let's do it and you're gonna be like damn yeah she
01:22:25.300
looks better without makeup one she looks better without makeup one okay but if i say i don't feel
01:22:31.220
like that are you gonna call me racist again yes no because you would agree or you're just a hater
01:22:37.060
and just still mad about this because honestly the fake air comment was petty that's like me saying
01:22:42.100
you're oh so your teeth are about to fall out your mouth for fake or something like that's what it's
01:22:46.580
like because that's fair but again i just wanted because my hair is still in order to elicit the
01:22:53.700
actual truth from you in order to elicit the actual truth from you we snap you out of your delusion
01:22:59.620
was indeed for me to push back on your insane claim that you're in the top most beautiful women
01:23:04.580
in the world that's insane that's you know it's insane and the way the way that we were able to
01:23:08.820
demonstrate it is because the second i gave it push back you're like well let me tell you the
01:23:12.340
truth about you and it's like right perfect well you wanted something so i gave you what you wanted
01:23:16.500
i can accept the truth about me i gave you what you wanted the truth about you that's the question
01:23:21.300
no because i gave you what you wanted oh okay well well how i am so grateful that you gave me what
01:23:27.780
i wanted because you can't come at me and say something that's not true and then when i say well okay
01:23:33.380
how would you think someone like you how would someone who like you you're in the top you think
01:23:40.020
it's true that you are in the top one of the most beautiful women in the entire world yes yes i do yes
01:23:45.780
what are you basing that on um i mean me my everyday life like you should your everyday life you listen
01:23:53.380
if you guys want to come with me with the cameras i swear to god i got a lot of fans i got a lot of people
01:23:58.820
who love me i have people who want to buy my face on their shirts so i mean you could say what you
01:24:03.540
want but you don't know the fan base i have for a weird weird ass men will buy feet pictures from
01:24:08.900
obese women that doesn't make them beautiful women that's them we're talking about me yeah i know i'm
01:24:14.820
saying that i think that you're making a category error uh no i think you're assuming clearly we know the
01:24:21.700
scale of the most beautiful women in the world not to say that you're a bad-looking woman i'm not
01:24:27.060
anybody's a bad-looking woman it's to say that you're not in the scale of that's your skill
01:24:33.460
it's a lot of people than the most beautiful women on the planet that's absurd i mean that's your
01:24:38.580
opinion i'm just not famous that's a shared opinion universally of all men in existence that when you
01:24:45.380
say you're the most beautiful woman on planet earth that's an objective lie um and you don't even
01:24:50.980
believe it yourself you don't even believe it first off i would never say i was the most beautiful
01:24:55.620
woman on the planet how do you break the scale i said that i break the scale and i'm i you ever
01:25:01.220
thought maybe it's numerous beautiful women on earth maybe this is really maybe it's numerous
01:25:05.940
ones maybe it's numerous broke the scale where you see a lot of women you're like damn all of you guys
01:25:11.700
are gorgeous like all of you just are gorgeous like you ever thought maybe it's just a lot of
01:25:15.780
gorgeous women like who broke the scale doesn't make any sense let me explain it it does make a
01:25:20.260
thing if brian asks you brian asks you he says on a scale of one to ten ten being the most beautiful
01:25:25.540
woman on planet earth and anything under that not being that i still agree i still agree let me finish
01:25:32.500
let me finish and i'll let you talk you say no i'm past that the most beautiful woman on earth
01:25:37.700
that chick i'm i blew past her last week i i am now the most beautiful woman in existence that's what
01:25:45.460
you said now not only do i know for sure that you're full of shit and absolutely don't believe
01:25:51.060
that bullshit not for a second right but you're completely unwilling to admit it and you double
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down on it right which is why we call you no because i never said anyone was better than me
01:26:02.020
either i didn't double down on it i said that it's numerous gorgeous women so yes you could have your
01:26:07.300
type but i'm someone's type that's the beautifulest you feel me like i don't know what you're no i don't
01:26:13.860
i don't feel you don't you obviously don't feel me you don't but that's your opinion it's a lot of
01:26:19.620
people who think whatever your view of the most beautiful is not that but like i said i have fans
01:26:24.900
i have people who like me who consider me what i am and i consider myself broke my skill because you
01:26:29.780
asked me i didn't go out of my way to tell you and that's what i think of me yeah do you know you
01:26:35.140
realize the purpose of the question is to establish delusion so the purpose of the question is to ask
01:26:40.340
no i think if i said oh i'm just a three they would be like oh girl no you're not a three so
01:26:46.500
cute but because whatever because i'm the only one who said above my scale you're insecure about
01:26:52.740
it and think i should humble myself dude i'm literally five eight i could be a victoria's secret
01:26:58.420
model like i i'm i'm tall yes you're not i'm beautiful i'm skinny i have the perfect shape
01:27:05.460
like i don't know what you think so anyway so yeah the reason the the determination for the
01:27:10.340
scale the reason that the question is asked is to determine delusion so what you do is you ask
01:27:14.740
moderately attractive women who get tons of male attention because all moderately attractive women
01:27:18.740
do get male attention what they think honestly in comparison to other but i'm not my i'm not the
01:27:25.060
regular one though that's for another girl but this conversation is for another girl let me finish
01:27:30.660
of course i'm not the regular one no you just i'm top tier you're still going to scream because
01:27:36.580
that's your opinion no you're still going to scream because everything you're saying is your
01:27:40.420
opinion you said the like moderate i'm not that i just said so why would i continue if i'm not that
01:27:45.860
you get it i'm not what you're trying to create make it a thing that's not a thing in my world
01:27:50.980
in my world yeah that's i am a broke my scale yeah i know the delusional world and that's your
01:27:55.540
opinion you at the end of the day y'all messaged us to be here today yeah i know we messaged you
01:28:00.740
what about us made you message us what what about us made you message us and tell us you'll pay us to
01:28:06.820
sit here i don't know i didn't message you i was messaged to be here too what about me
01:28:12.100
what do you want i was to be here too ladies so anyways they said let's put the most basic is
01:28:18.740
old man up here that looks like an english teacher yeah basic flat-chested broad who's
01:28:24.820
loud mouth listen to the fingers oh you're upset do the thing oh i knew he'd been mad at me this whole
01:28:31.620
time once i say anything to you you come back like oh she's that she's that now okay remember
01:28:39.540
your cheeks getting red but remember you said she's not gonna have nobody and i'm through i'm a
01:28:45.540
three i'm not gonna be i'm not gonna be i'm not gonna be beautiful like bro what if i'm
01:28:51.300
you're not gonna be beautiful what if i'm what if i words in my mouth whatever it's not even that
01:28:56.500
let's get into what if everything you said backfired though what if she did get married what if i was
01:29:01.620
on sexiest woman alive in two years and face all all over every billboard rocket ship to mars yeah i
01:29:10.100
mean it's possible i mean that's your opinion that's your opinion anything is possible that's
01:29:15.860
your opinion i i see you live in delusion if anything i think you live in delusion i've just
01:29:20.260
been listening to you paddle for like an hour just wait a second let me ask you a single question i know
01:29:24.180
i don't i think he just lives in delusion now ask you a single question here's my question to you
01:29:29.380
if you were a gambling person you were a gambler you made your living by making bets if you were to bet
01:29:35.780
whether or not she's going to marry a multi-millionaire in the next year she's only
01:29:40.100
dating them hang on let me ask the question can i ask the question if you made your living as a
01:29:47.380
gambler and you had to make the bet uh against or for that i was going to build the next rocket ship
01:29:53.540
to mars that you were going to be the next victoria's secret model or that she was going to marry
01:29:57.460
a millionaire in the next year which way would you bet even i wouldn't now go ahead and lie to me
01:30:02.260
go ahead and lie i didn't say i would be the next victoria's secret model because i'm actually not
01:30:06.180
working towards that i just said if i'm one of the sexiest women alive in a couple years that would
01:30:12.420
be shocking to you because you were a hater which would you which way would you roll the dice you were
01:30:16.980
a hater which way would you but you were a hater so if something successful when we pop up just
01:30:23.220
remember you were my first live hater live hater listen and remember everything you said about me too
01:30:32.260
you're still not answering the question remember to roll the dice listen i don't care about what
01:30:37.060
you're talking about all the stuff you're saying anybody could get it's like you said like i said
01:30:42.740
actually would you roll the dice it's not it's not smart men out here why won't you answer the question
01:30:49.140
what's the question okay i'm going to ask you again if you had to roll the dice and whether or not you
01:30:54.500
were going to be nominated for the most beautiful woman in the world in the next three years and she was
01:30:58.180
going to marry a million i don't think it's a nominee a few minutes ago i don't think that's
01:31:02.180
even a thing but that's not even a thing well you gotta let him let him ask the question let me ask
01:31:08.980
the question go ahead instead of you obfuscating so that we can watch you not answer it for a third
01:31:14.260
time so if you were a professional gambler and you had to make the bet for your entire life savings
01:31:20.740
and your life savings was two million dollars on whether or not that woman was going to marry a
01:31:25.220
millionaire in the next year or you were going to be nominated for the most beautiful woman in the
01:31:29.700
world in the next three which way would you bet now lie to me it's not a nomination for the most
01:31:34.900
beautiful woman so i couldn't i couldn't make an opinion on something that don't exist i have to
01:31:39.380
see the last beautiful woman whatever to make an opinion on it yeah whatever it is whatever it is
01:31:44.580
you said most beautiful woman in the world whatever that is the sexiest woman alive on on a cover
01:31:49.940
yeah great okay so that that thing have you ever seen you know who andres alba is
01:31:54.420
he once was the sexiest man alive you might not even know you might not even know who he is but
01:32:00.340
that means he's sexy to certain women in the world waiting for your answer to the question can you listen
01:32:05.620
your question doesn't exist in my world just answer the question i'm not gonna because it's not
01:32:11.780
because you know the answer hers is legit mine's is not a voting no i'm not getting married in a year
01:32:18.340
to a millionaire because i don't know where because mine it's not no competition like that
01:32:23.220
going on all i said was this other gorgeous women and i'm one of them that's up there in the scales
01:32:28.580
you're steady bringing it to not be real asking which way you would bet can you just answer the
01:32:33.300
question listen if i had a cover right now it would go crazy it would be beautiful it would be an
01:32:39.220
amazing cover so me yes whatever it is with me off the charts yes broke my okay so you yeah if you
01:32:46.580
wanted to then right right this second if you wanted to you could be on a cover uh a cover of
01:32:52.900
a major magazine that says you're the most beautiful woman in the world if i had the opportunity to shoot
01:32:58.420
i don't think nobody would have a problem after they seen the cover so and if you had to bet
01:33:05.620
in the next three years if you put all of your energy into doing just that do you think you would get
01:33:10.100
it yes if i put all my energy and wasn't like so strong-minded because me personally i moved here
01:33:17.860
and i wanted to model but i didn't i don't want to do with all these other women do like and you know
01:33:23.620
what they do out here so now i'm just they do everything they can to get to the top i haven't
01:33:29.380
even the casting couch thing i haven't even did one thing to try so if i actually put effort can you
01:33:35.700
believe coming to y'all show was my first like thing considering putting myself out there and
01:33:41.540
this was like kind of a kind of disgusting honestly it's why i don't that's disgusting this is why i
01:33:49.860
don't do stuff certain things so yeah i'm sure that you expect everybody everywhere you go to kiss your
01:33:55.140
ass in the second i mean i feel like that's why you're trying to be rude on purpose because you don't
01:33:59.380
want to be that person because you feel like i get it a lot i do and i don't care about it it's fine
01:34:04.580
we get what a lot um people kissing my eyes and i feel like you're upset about i know but in the
01:34:11.700
next 10 years that'll change listen not really because that's what you think you think you think
01:34:16.900
that yeah i literally don't think that he doesn't know me listen listen to you every woman on planet
01:34:22.740
earth is going to sit in the exact same position that you're in they're going to say the exact same
01:34:26.100
thing they're going to say the male attention will never dry up it always does within i don't need
01:34:30.100
male attention what who said i need male attention if i need a male attention i wouldn't be single
01:34:38.900
i wouldn't be single if i needed a man to give me flowers take me on dates do stuff i wouldn't be
01:34:45.220
single you know i could get a man so all this delusion is tripping you're the delusional what's
01:34:51.940
being said right but if i wanted to marry regular like you and him you're freaking out all you do is
01:34:57.380
freak out i'm not freaking out i'm just over talking you because i don't care about what
01:35:00.820
you have to say i'm not freaking out i'm over talking you and you're still freaking out though
01:35:04.420
yes so i'm saying you don't care about what i have to say because if i decide if i decided to settle
01:35:10.100
for less like be with the regular looking guy like you or him then yes i would be married saying my
01:35:15.540
husband doesn't want me here and i'm married and i have to take care of my children but i don't want
01:35:22.180
to be with a regular basic man like you prisoners are the ones we go for right um we were together
01:35:27.700
when we were kids i did say that four years before he before he went to jail four years before he went
01:35:32.660
to jail so isn't that mighty pretty convenient that your track record is picking the most basic of the
01:35:38.740
basic men not really because we're from high school we were high school sweetheart so you don't know
01:35:43.860
what could happen after high school so i mean we live and we learn i'm not saying that's the best
01:35:48.660
choice but i'm saying we live and we learn and if i have one experience that's better than the women
01:35:53.460
who have a lot and the men who have a lot more experiences doing what they do for a living in
01:35:58.820
life i don't do nothing of that sort i don't do nothing of that sort and i get a lot of work a lot of
01:36:06.180
you know offers so it's like speaking to you is point look at you look at you for real for real for
01:36:12.900
real you don't even speak to certain women in cali this caliber all the time anyways y'all have to
01:36:18.180
come and have us caliper y'all have to broke my scale the sexiest woman alive calendar that one
01:36:24.420
she's the one that broke her heart yeah i i know right so you have to pay women to come across to
01:36:30.660
the table wife is going to have some words with you have to come across you have to pay a woman and i'm
01:36:37.380
sure she would feel weird that you calling the only black girl at the table weave and wig so i
01:36:42.260
think she would think you were very tasteless i think she would think you were very tasteless for
01:36:46.580
that sir wait like i said what do you want me to say what about donated 499 we gotta mute your microphone
01:36:56.020
phone for 10 minutes chicks mike for the love of god all right can you mute do you know how to mute
01:37:00.260
it sometimes but she won't stop yelling and it's driving me absolutely he paid four he paid 500
01:37:06.580
though because he got mad at me oh hey we gotta mute your mic see hey we got it's okay we gotta do it's
01:37:11.620
okay we gotta do a little uh we gotta do is it good did you have it let's see if it's interesting
01:37:16.820
without me well okay so i'm gonna take this opportunity to let some of the chats come through guys
01:37:21.780
we had to put a moderation delay on i've donated two hundred dollars ten minutes the one with
01:37:26.900
mcdonald's arch eyebrows and bike tire lips is insane blue collar side piece of best
01:37:32.820
the one with an oily cloth for a hairline is a six on her absolute best day ladies please be real
01:37:39.540
wait what who's he talking about i think he's talking about me but people literally come
01:37:44.260
the mcdonald's arch eyebrows these eyebrows are amazing every time i get them read it they tell me how
01:37:50.580
beautiful and perfect they are so k night okay don't care thank thank you for that we have three
01:37:56.340
uh messages here thank you rk uh r night for the tts lucas thank you for the stream labs message
01:38:03.780
whoa married gal is the most attractive of the group yet the most grounded in her rating the wonder
01:38:09.060
of a strong man in a gal's life cheese head what is when drew was your age he was slinging way above
01:38:15.620
your sexual market value what is it is that like i'm from Wisconsin maybe he's calling me cheese
01:38:21.140
but because milwaukee yeah the cheese wait wait you're mute the mic is muted
01:38:26.820
no everyone yeah you're just talking about me everyone will be happy if i sat here and said hey
01:38:32.660
shut your freaking mouth shut the f**k up okay shut the f**k up shut the f**k up okay shut up
01:38:45.860
okay that was cool um hold on i have some more that are coming through
01:38:58.580
here let me also just read yo pelagic think uh forehead beards aren't attractive
01:39:04.820
it's edges they can't it's muted your mic's muted your mic's zip it zip it zip it good
01:39:13.460
oh my god i can't hey i'm trying my best here boys okay uh thank you pelagic six really good to
01:39:18.740
see you in the chat forehead beards i think that's the first time i've ever even heard that term but
01:39:23.060
uh that's an interesting one we have lucas again thank you man nah huh c note was for bry not for you
01:39:32.260
put them grubby mr burns paws away uh chair three bases her supermodel status on her washboard abs
01:39:39.700
i mean chest damn bro these would be i feel like you should send these in as a tts because i i feel
01:39:47.300
bad reading some of these you know good talk okay we have eric uh if you're the sexiest then why are
01:39:55.780
you on a podcast looking for attention if you actually were the best looking woman you wouldn't
01:40:00.180
be here eric i feel like first off we frequently have tens on this podcast okay so shut up here okay
01:40:08.180
we have the most we have plenty of beautiful tens breaking the scale just ask them just we have
01:40:14.740
tens we have tens there have been more beautiful women on this oh my god chill okay stop your mic is
01:40:21.700
muted all right uh we have and then uh can we have a oh yeah that's okay thank you guys and then uh we
01:40:29.780
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01:40:59.700
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01:41:10.100
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see here army retired thank for the gifted five subs going back really quick to the question though oh
01:42:35.620
has it been 10 minutes are you keep are you keeping track of time i think it's pretty close
01:42:41.380
wait let's see it's been six minutes not yet well we'll come back to her so going to you uh you are 23
01:42:47.220
will you be better looking in 10 years time at 33 no okay and then you are 28 will you be better
01:42:53.220
looking in 10 years time at 38 fuck no fuck no i drink a lot you drink a lot mm-hmm so the alcohol
01:43:01.060
right yeah were you better looking uh wait hang on no wait alcohol has a pickling effect right so
01:43:08.340
it's possible that that you know it preserves what's there instead right do you think so
01:43:13.380
i clean like bottles like 1942 bottles she cleans them cleans them uh so okay um
01:43:23.940
oh and you're were you better looking 10 years ago at 18 versus compared to now i look like i was a
01:43:29.780
little kid so for me no okay to some people probably uh you're 37 do you think you'll be better looking
01:43:36.900
in 10 years time at 47 yes okay let's do 20 years time 57 maybe okay 30 years time uh 67 better looking
01:43:47.300
at 67 than now at 37 that's when i will probably decrease that that's 67 okay and then you're 37 now
01:43:55.700
were you better looking at uh 27 so better looking now at 37 than you were at 27 yeah okay and then were
01:44:03.220
you better looking are you better looking now are you better looking now at 37 than you were at 18
01:44:07.060
definitely okay so almost 19 years time 20 years time uh so better looking now 37 than at 18 yeah
01:44:21.460
what about you no uh so you're 20 better looking in 10 years time at 30 no yeah and then you're 19 better
01:44:28.180
looking in 10 years time at 29 no okay good talk good talk uh let's see um i do can we on no another
01:44:39.620
two minutes sorry sorry i'm sorry i'm sorry i don't know the zip your mic is muted okay all right thank
01:44:48.580
you appreciate it guys appreciate it so let's get into the pre-show notes here we got to get into the
01:44:54.580
pre-show notes starting with you know what though hold on i actually before we get into the pre-show
01:45:00.820
notes uh does anybody here have any disagreements maybe you've seen the show before maybe some of
01:45:08.580
you haven't so you know you haven't seen it whatever uh any of you here have any disagreements with
01:45:13.060
myself with andrew with any of the things uh if you've seen the show before starting with you
01:45:18.100
not particularly nothing particularly disagreements skipping you disagreements never seen it that's
01:45:24.420
fine yeah ever yeah i have disagreements okay uh do you want to why don't we get into it okay go
01:45:32.820
ahead um okay i disagree with um you not um having a girl sleep with you on dates one to three and then
01:45:43.620
having a super low body count i just think that's pretty unrealistic why because usually they're
01:45:49.940
religious or like they haven't had sex for a long time for like a specific reason and so i just don't
01:45:57.060
know what it is about you not to be rude but would make someone want to like give up their virginity
01:46:04.260
after i i mean i date women who aren't virgins what why is that
01:46:13.780
i was agreeing with you with that laugh i was not supposed to talk remember i think you're
01:46:18.820
unmuted wait so you ex you expect women wait hold on yeah go ahead so within the first and third date
01:46:26.820
if they don't sleep with you by then that's like that's it for you um i mean there can be some leeway in
01:46:32.740
certain circumstances but i mean i have an idea i have a fairly strong idea of what i'm looking
01:46:39.540
for in a relationship i'm not a virgin anymore i've had numerous long-term relationships had
01:46:46.580
obviously sexual partners um not really interested in waiting more than a few dates to have sex do you
01:46:58.820
have any further inquiry wait i got hold on hold on let's go back to her go ahead um i do remember
01:47:04.500
you saying you disagree with being friends before dating because of the risk factor of like a girl
01:47:13.460
using you or kind of like stringing you along like you're against being friends before a relationship
01:47:20.740
is that material to the current conversation well kind of because i can we can talk about that but
01:47:26.900
you're kind of changing the topic well um kind of because you're saying like if you're going
01:47:33.620
well maybe not actually yeah maybe not okay so let's get back to the topic so she watched your
01:47:39.860
broadcast yeah i see the pick me shit now i get it they all kept up with you they know what's going
01:47:45.620
on so they over here acting a certain way on purpose why would you get mad that somebody else actually did
01:47:50.420
the research for the show they were going to go on and you didn't that's insane because they messaged
01:47:54.740
me a day ago okay sir you had a whole day to research i have a job i live in la i live in la i have a job
01:48:04.580
i'm not gonna care i just came to support what are you griping what are you griping aren't you happy
01:48:09.780
i'm here how should you pick me because i damn near get you all the money just let me talk
01:48:14.420
okay let's get through the topics here so um the criticism was that i have an expectation
01:48:23.300
of hooking up relatively quickly but i also have a kind of in at least in your purview a
01:48:32.500
difficult to reconcile or contradictory similar position of desiring a woman who's who has a low
01:48:38.980
body count or who's even a virgin yeah right yeah so the way i typically answer this obviously if the
01:48:45.220
woman's a virgin and i'm interested in her there's going to be a bit more leeway in terms of how long
01:48:50.260
i'm willing to wait i'm not interested in getting married so obviously if she wants to wait for
01:48:54.740
marriage total mismatch there wouldn't pursue it she shouldn't pursue me i shouldn't pursue her
01:49:00.180
uh for women a woman who's had a previous sexual encounter or who's dated men before had sex
01:49:06.500
um i'm going to take into account her standard for previous men so if she's had two long-term
01:49:15.460
relationships her body counts too and she made the those previous two guys wait three months before
01:49:21.220
sleeping with them i will take that into consideration i'll make an assessment of am i willing to wait for
01:49:26.420
her that could be the consideration there however typically what you find happening is women will have
01:49:34.660
you know in college they'll have a string of hookups casual sex one night stands fuck a guy within 30
01:49:39.700
minutes and then once they're 20 20 22 23 they get older and they're like oh maybe i shouldn't move like
01:49:46.420
that now they want to make me wait three months ten dates you can do it i respect it if you want to wait i
01:49:56.740
don't think that's you're a bad person if you do but it would just be a mismatch in terms of how long
01:50:02.580
i'm willing to wait and how long they want to wait so in which case it could be a conversation or we
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just wouldn't pursue the relationship essentially yeah but i believe you've said before that you
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would only wait three days like i mean correct me if i'm wrong so um that's kind of why i'm confused
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because it's like imagine somebody did wait three months are you going to wait three months if that
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was the standard sure i think i just answered it so if that was her previous uh that's how she moved
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with her previous relationships i'd be more inclined to wait but knowing that that's not how
01:50:40.580
you previously moved i'd be like well hold on is this a genuine value or are you just trying to
01:50:45.380
leverage sex to get something from me do you not genuinely desire me the same way you genuinely desired
01:50:51.380
those other guys that you fucked within 30 minutes of meeting them in which case i wouldn't be interested in
01:50:55.780
her um look people are willing you know you could a woman could have slept with a hundred men previously
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within 30 minutes of meeting them and then guy number hundred and one she could make that guy wait
01:51:09.220
six months before sleeping with him i think that's a raw deal for the guy and i would instruct the man
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you don't have to pursue this woman in fact that's a bad deal for you don't pursue her
01:51:21.220
it kind of makes sense because it's like why would you switch up with that one person yeah but i i don't
01:51:28.180
really i think maybe part of your criticism is okay well women who are inclined to sleep with you
01:51:34.500
relatively quickly exactly are they must certainly have high body counts but you want women with low
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body counts right i actually don't think this is the case at all although it could be an indicator
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for a woman who is uh promiscuous i think it would be promiscuous in the sense of some people will
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view sleeping with somebody quickly in and of itself as promiscuous but in terms of the
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number of sexual partners i don't think it's actually necessarily an indicator
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it's a pretty good fucking yeah i think there's better indicators there's far better indicators that
01:52:10.980
goes back to my question of like what is it like okay okay brian if if you're so you're at a bar
01:52:16.820
and a chick comes over and she sits down with you and by the end of the night you're going home
01:52:21.380
with her it's a pretty good indicator yeah i don't go to bars yeah but if you were at a bar or anywhere
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in any social well whatever it was here's the thing though here's the thing andrew the i i would
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say that her being at a bar is a bigger indicator of her promiscuity than how quickly she will sleep
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with somebody okay but in any social setting any social setting in which you went home with the
01:52:46.500
woman the same night i would say it's a pretty good indicator that she's done that before or has at the
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very least had other sexual partners and probably many of them to be that sexually loose well let's
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examine the reverse scenario so let's say a woman who you meet in one of these venues or at church
01:53:04.100
or some other you know respectable place i suppose uh grocery store trader joe's you meet her
01:53:10.500
and she wants to wait until marriage is this an indicator that she does not have a promiscuous past
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no right but hang on no you hang on andrew go i just responded though okay so so i'll say this
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i think if you met a woman at a trader joe's who said that she wanted to uh you know date you long
01:53:30.820
term and didn't want to sleep with you immediately that while that wouldn't be an indicator that she
01:53:35.380
hasn't slept with many many people it would be a better indicator that she hasn't than if she's
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willing to go home with you the same night of and i think that you would agree with that
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yeah sure i mean it can be used as all we're looking is chance at chance right i'm going to
01:53:49.300
agree with you i'm going to agree with you that it that it's not a hundred percent you know unfalsive
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or falsifiable so you could have the one chick you're her second or even first sexual partner
01:54:00.820
she wants to go home with you that very night i just think that that's far more rare uh than it
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isn't and i think that the chances that a woman wants to go home with you night one is a better
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indicator promiscuity than if you met her at a random trader joe's and she said that she wasn't
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you didn't want to sleep with you immediately i mean doesn't that track yeah sure i'll certainly grant
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that that it could be an indicator it doesn't mean a woman could be a virgin and sleep with a guy
01:54:30.420
immediately too but i don't think i'm just i'm just i'm just asking about chances don't
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sure the chances are better just sure oh sure of course yeah of course so when she says to get the
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spirit of kind of her criticism she's saying well look you know if a woman does want to sleep with
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you within the first three days that may be a better indicator that she has a loose past though
01:54:54.180
in brian's defense right and not even playing devil's advocate here because i believe this 100
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uh in modernity that's actually very difficult to tell now because women will go the chastity route
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on a dime even having had 60 or 70 former partners uh because they don't want to disappoint their the
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the the man that they don't want the man to think badly of them right so they make them wait that's
01:55:18.980
been a very common theme that i've heard uh throughout this show so i think there's a point both ways but
01:55:25.780
to ask you directly here's the brian paradox that i can't reconcile and maybe you can help me with this
01:55:33.140
uh many many women will will say listen i don't want to sleep with you immediately because i think
01:55:40.580
you will think worse of me i want to i'm just not going to because then you'll think that i'm a
01:55:45.540
slut right uh isn't that then making brian's point that ordinarily they would do this they're just
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basically adjusting for the outcome that they want i mean it could but i don't think that's the case
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most of the time what do you think it is well i think sometimes i used to think i used to think like
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you did i used to think like you did until having talked to so many women at this point it's very
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common that women will rack up these high body counts in their 20s and then in their late 20s or
01:56:15.620
early 30s they will uh then say okay i'm chast or i'm not going to have sex anymore or because i've slept
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with men very quickly before i don't want that kind of guy anymore i don't want the playboy i want more
01:56:28.980
of a like kind of down-to-earth guy or norm norm or whatever right what about if that is hang on
01:56:34.420
hang on let me finish real quick and then i'll let you jump in i promise uh if that is the case
01:56:39.380
and it does seem to be the case then i mean brian's paradox does stand which is like what do you do
01:56:45.540
about that about the fact that so many women will only become kind of chased because they don't want
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the man to think poorly of them sleeping with them too quickly what about the women who actually like
01:56:58.900
saved their self in their 20s and teens and was just in 30s and then once they got to 40 realized
01:57:06.180
like all men are terrible then they had their little getting their groove back type what about them women
01:57:13.620
because men are just everyone they met was just trash and didn't deserve them what about them what
01:57:19.380
about them what about them what you mean what about them they deserve love too
01:57:22.500
because those don't y'all don't speak on them though you speak up so you speak on what you're
01:57:28.580
attracted to you're attracted to a woman who sleep with you the first day you're meeting the whores that
01:57:33.780
fuck all in their 20s and stuff it's women out here not like that yeah i agree that there's women out
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there who aren't like that so wait what what about them meaning what you're saying is just what you're
01:57:45.780
looking for that's my point my what i see you're saying when everything you're describing i don't
01:57:51.140
even know like that's terrible women so that's what you're looking for no i i listen i agree with
01:57:56.980
you yeah that's what he's looking for and what he's going to get those are terrible women well well
01:58:01.780
hang on listen i do you well you've you've made kind of a conflation here so i agree with you on one
01:58:07.300
point and then disagree on a second point the point that i agree with you on is yes a lot of
01:58:12.100
fucking horrible women right a lot of horrible women i bet the point i don't agree with you on
01:58:17.460
is that um because because a woman's willing to sleep with you quickly that means she has
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high body count that i don't think that i didn't say that he said that i don't think that but because
01:58:27.940
she can like you more than everybody else what is your objection because she can like you more
01:58:32.500
than everybody else and you was the one person that she allowed to be that way with yeah i agree
01:58:38.740
but the objection was that he's gonna meet that because like every woman he's describing he's
01:58:44.580
like oh when they get and then when they get all they want to be this i'm saying what about the ones
01:58:49.140
who are already like that and then got fed up and got old and probably got fast then
01:58:54.980
and started to sleep with people that sell it well i i will while i grant that such women exist
01:59:00.260
where they stay chased throughout their 20s and 30s and then you're looking for the ones that sleep with
01:59:05.220
you the first night that's why hang on i just let you go you gotta you gotta respond let him talk
01:59:10.100
let him talk i will grant to you that those women exist i just think it's far more common in the
01:59:15.140
reverse that women usually go through their whole phase in their 20s not in their 40s you would agree
01:59:19.220
with me there right um i don't because i mean they're the most pursued in their 20s so if they're
01:59:26.340
the most pursued the chances of having sex increase drastically that's why most women in
01:59:30.980
their 20s go through and not in their 40s well i can't believe that because i'm a woman in her
01:59:35.460
20s who don't do that so i know but what about your peer group a lot of them well yeah and there's
01:59:41.300
some that don't too yeah there's some that don't i agree with that too so i feel like it's half and
01:59:46.180
half so let me just ask it to you like this don't you think that's far more likely you're going to run
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into a woman in her 20s who's going through a whole phase than run into a woman in her 40s who went
01:59:57.380
through no phase i don't because it's all let me finish the question how do you even know how to
02:00:02.100
answer it if i can't even finish it so uh don't you think it'd be more common to run into a woman
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in her 20s going through a whole phase than a woman in her 40s who went through no phase
02:00:14.180
that's the question you said rougher to find love yeah it wouldn't it be easier to find a woman
02:00:21.060
in her 20s going through a whole phase a woman or 40s who went through no phase
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no because it's innocent women everywhere yeah that's not my question i didn't ask if they
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exist i said which was more common no i don't think it's more common you think it's more common
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that women i just go through to their 40s without ever having any sexual partners that you see how
02:00:41.220
y'all no data bears this out anywhere you see how when i talk you don't let me finish then you
02:00:46.660
interrupt me but as soon as i'm letting you talk right now i'm like and all you're doing is using
02:00:50.660
your time to complain just go okay it's women everywhere it's four billion people in the world
02:00:57.940
like it's women who fucking there's eight living a cot eight billion people eight billion people in
02:01:03.140
the world okay eight okay great oh you you can wait for that huh that's a jokey joke joke
02:01:11.140
got you well as your english teacher i have to correct you on these things you're right mr
02:01:15.780
wilson you're right mr wilson mr wilson get it right you're right okay but listen it's women who
02:01:22.820
live in a freaking cottage who's not thinking about none of that and they just used to living in a
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cottage so no i wouldn't say that's half of women i would say wherever you live that's them women and
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then wherever he lives that's them women and i think that's what you're pursuing and that's what you
02:01:37.940
get and what you're looking for like you said women you want a millionaire you want this it's
02:01:42.340
delusion i think you're delusional as well okay well then now you agree that i just let you go
02:01:48.180
through that let me just ask you a few yes yes or no questions right none of them are going to be
02:01:52.820
pre-loaded meaning i'm not i'm not loading them up with like presuppositions okay just basic yes or no
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questions do you agree that women generally are more attractive in their 20s than in their 40s not all
02:02:04.820
women just generally women yes i agree generally yeah usually usually yeah yeah i agree with that
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okay so if that is the case then wouldn't that necessarily expand the amount of sexual partners
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available to women in their 20s no because when you're beautiful you know because when you're
02:02:24.740
beautiful i would know listen to a beautiful broke my scale woman i personally feel like when you're
02:02:31.700
beautiful it's harder because you don't know who to give your love to you don't know who to give your
02:02:37.460
anything to so you hold out more because they don't deserve it and you don't want to give it to
02:02:42.180
the wrong person okay listen listen hang on there's a couple of uh presuppositions there which are wrong
02:02:47.460
or just suppositions that are wrong so the first one is most women are not over the over the top beautiful
02:02:54.900
that's insane you even you have to agree that most women are not 10 out of 10 but otherwise hang on
02:03:01.700
otherwise we wouldn't have an average so thing is is that if most of them are average hang on let me
02:03:06.500
finish the baddest let me finish if most of them are average they're still going to be more attractive
02:03:12.580
in their 20s than in their 40s which we agreed which means that even the average woman is still going to
02:03:18.020
have way more access to sexual partners in their 20s in their 40s right average doesn't mean you're not
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fucking though like that's my point that's my point okay no but you're saying they're more
02:03:30.740
attractive though and i'm saying that doesn't mean like what you're saying about looks don't mean that
02:03:36.180
they're in doing it more because they're in their 20s and young it's not about yeah they're more if
02:03:41.700
they're more attractive and they're average they're still average in their 40s they're just also average
02:03:47.860
in their 20s no because some people get better with age you already agreed that most women are more
02:03:53.860
attractive in their 40s already agreed to that because some people get better with age and
02:04:00.820
shoot they get surgery and stuff and start looking better sometimes why did you just say that women
02:04:06.820
on average in their 20s are better looking than they are in their 40s you said is it true majority
02:04:12.260
are yes but i said that don't mean they're sleeping with people and being fast i said you could be average
02:04:17.460
getting fucked and you could be uh any type of look yeah don't you understand that your own logic
02:04:23.300
says that the women who are in their 20s are more attractive they have more access to sexual
02:04:26.660
partners therefore that's but that don't mean they're using what they got i just listen
02:04:30.980
let them finish go ahead if that is the case that there's more attractive in their 20s they have more
02:04:37.140
access to more sexual partners that would explain why it is that they have more sex in their 20s with
02:04:43.860
more sexual partners than in their 40s it's because of availability i still don't agree i don't even like
02:04:50.420
me personally based on nothing no but based on how you feel no based on my life i don't think uh at
02:04:56.180
my that's how you feel that's anecdotal yeah because at my 20s i didn't do much so i think people say
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that and i don't that's not true all right let me ask you're not young fine in your 20s okay well
02:05:08.340
okay so i'm answering from a 20 year old who yeah a lot of people like i get it i get it you're not fast
02:05:14.100
and loose great right i'm asking i'm gonna ask you a direct question though and i'm hoping you don't lie
02:05:18.740
to me on this one okay out of all of your friends in your peer group at all your friends in your peer
02:05:24.180
group and all of your acquaintances in your peer group who are around the same age as you and female
02:05:28.820
how many of them are loose are meaning they have multiple sexual partners um i don't know because
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i keep my just guess guess i personally don't know people not gonna tell me because i'm i'm more of like
02:05:43.220
i'm not i'm a more of an innocent friend i've always been like that like yeah i got a big mouth and i
02:05:48.500
could talk and debate but that don't mean i'm fast yes just guess that doesn't mean i'm fast
02:05:53.460
what's your best yet i they don't tell me anything when you're yes when you're the goody two-shoe
02:05:59.940
everyone's not going to tell you there oh i slept with that dude in the bathroom last night at the
02:06:04.580
party they're not going to tell you so like you don't know everyone life and i'm telling you my
02:06:09.220
friends don't tell me so from what i know okay how many of your close friends you have how many would
02:06:15.060
you say that you have at least two best friends i have one best friend and my dog is my other
02:06:20.580
best friend does any of your best friends or your very close friends have multiple sexual partners
02:06:27.300
and now go ahead and lie to me and say you guys never talk about sex so i can go ahead and dismiss
02:06:31.140
the next thing you say all right go ahead just say andrew have i had a friend have i had a friend who
02:06:37.940
have multiple sex partners yes everyone has had a friend shit i could that's not what i asked you i
02:06:44.900
didn't ask if you've ever had a friend had multiple sexual partners i asked you since you never talked
02:06:49.060
to any of the acquaintances that you know about sex you're the only one woman on planet earth doesn't
02:06:52.900
talk about with your friends about sex uh the close ones at least i would assume you do no my close
02:06:58.980
ones are no my close ones are dealing with the same guys currently so yes they had multiple sexual
02:07:07.460
partners in the past i don't know you don't know okay other people's sexuality is not my business
02:07:15.860
like what they're doing i'm just i can only speak about me i know okay
02:07:23.140
i mean the reason that you the reason that you have like the uh the this smile going
02:07:34.260
is because you know and i know and the audience knows you're full of
02:07:38.020
shit and you know for sure which one of your friends have had multiple sex partners you guys
02:07:43.780
talk about sex and you're flying through your teeth you don't even know if i have friends what
02:07:50.340
if my dog's my only friend you just said you had friends i said and i said no that she's talking to
02:07:54.900
like the ones i'm around they're talking to the same people that they've been talking to and dealing
02:07:59.460
with so what you don't know them women life how many years have you been friends with them um the
02:08:06.980
current ones right now not that long i moved here and my current friends are from la and i just moved
02:08:13.860
to la last year so nobody longer than a year okay so like i said i don't know i don't know people past
02:08:22.500
but i know what's going on now and the ones i'm around now they're talking to the same people if they
02:08:27.700
decide to have numerous ones later that's on them would they tell me look i don't know i can't do
02:08:33.060
anything to have even a rational conversation with you if every time i ask you a question you lie to me
02:08:40.500
like i can't i can't so here's the thing i'm going to point out i'm going to point out multiple lies
02:08:46.500
here's lie number one right when i literally asked you are women generally more attractive in their
02:08:51.700
20s and in their 40s you say yes i say well then that gives them access to more sexual partners so
02:08:56.020
why would they go through the whole phase in their 20s rather than their 40s you still disputed this
02:09:00.020
based on nothing just because they're more attractive don't you mean they're having
02:09:05.540
sex the logical entailment is that you have to agree with that right to me just that's a logical
02:09:10.580
entailment just because you're more attractive in your 20s don't mean you're having more sex in
02:09:14.340
your 20s you just assume that no just and it's people who get better with age generally you are
02:09:20.820
it's people like how when you have the highest libido and i never say he interrupts me and i don't
02:09:25.940
like that how can you explain that to me you said how in the world in the age where you have the
02:09:31.620
most amount of libido and you're the most attractive are you having the least amount of
02:09:35.700
sex can you explain that because men don't deserve it they're like y'all they're like y'all fast fast
02:09:43.140
he fast he don't want you look at the questions they asking you i never even watched your podcast
02:09:48.660
now i know you're a slut because of how they explained it she told on you she told on you i want
02:09:53.380
to know who's sleeping the the conversations you guys are having you want to know what is letting me
02:09:58.180
know the type of me you are stop go ahead and say what you're what you just said i said i would love
02:10:03.620
to know who's sleeping with you in one to three dates yeah i don't actually care i just find that
02:10:09.860
hard to believe what type of woman is sleeping with you and are they on any substance what oh this is
02:10:17.540
la you just gotta ask is that why you asked me if i do man right he's like oh i could take her back
02:10:25.860
later um brian can i ask though like how long would you like max wait for someone if they were a virgin
02:10:32.100
and you were dating them he's like i wouldn't date a virgin if they were a virgin would you even date a
02:10:38.420
virgin sure yeah i've dated virgins before okay i mean it really varies you know uh if i really like
02:10:46.260
her you really like if i really like her if it's kind of lukewarm you know it's hard to pinpoint a
02:10:54.660
number on it typically though i mean in terms of what i'm looking for in a relationship uh i'm not
02:11:02.020
really interested in waiting long periods of time before having sex what if she like folds your laundry
02:11:06.260
stirs your noodles like sure she can get she can she can uh get a couple extra dates out of me
02:11:13.060
probably okay yeah i'm sorry so why waste the time what do you mean dealing with the version
02:11:21.620
i date women who are not virgins it's like it's interesting though like would i date a virgin yes
02:11:27.620
but i'd also i also date women who are not virgins most of the women i've dated and date you know in
02:11:35.140
terms of my dating experience not virgins have i dated virgins yes
02:11:43.220
i mean every come on now you were young once of course you dated virgins no i've dated
02:11:49.380
even when i was in my late 20s early 30s late 20s is not that bad to be a virgin
02:11:54.260
have you looked at the statistics in modernity like i said it's the people y'all know you know
02:12:01.940
what's funny no no no no hang on hang on i'm gonna i'm gonna give you the reputation here
02:12:06.180
do you want me to tell you what your chances are of being a woman who's a virgin in your late 20s
02:12:11.140
in the year 2024 it's not that many i don't even want to go down that route with you i agree they're
02:12:16.820
mostly what do you think what do you think the percentage is probably only 10 but it's some out
02:12:22.660
there and i've met him who's been like bitch i'm 30 and i don't you know do anything and that's yeah i
02:12:28.660
agree that there's virgins who exist in their 30s and that they're rare right but what do you think
02:12:32.820
that what did you say you thought the percentage was probably 10 but how would y'all know about the
02:12:40.100
version about them how would you know hmm so um just so you know i just want to i just want to let
02:12:46.980
you know uh by the time they're in their uh late 20s right 94 percent have a loss of virginity okay so
02:12:56.900
six percent yeah but they don't know this whole world so i'm gonna still go with my answer 10 percent
02:13:04.580
yeah i mean yeah you might as well double down on it here i need to read a chat holy botched
02:13:10.020
surgery says the 37 year old in the pink shirt when did you transition to female
02:13:14.980
do you want to answer that i think they're just mad at anybody who speaks it's going through the air
02:13:21.060
in between my ears okay i just think they're all upset and then i do want to because your mic was
02:13:27.700
muted while we were doing this um you are i don't know if i wait 27 yes will you be better wait did i
02:13:34.980
you did you did and i said yes no but we got cut off i think okay so or wait we did the whole table
02:13:41.940
we did we did no but we went into it for like 30 minutes you and andrew had the back and forth
02:13:46.420
then i did the whole table so let me just get a definitive here uh better looking in 10 years
02:13:50.260
time at 37 yes 20 years time at 47 no well i don't know honestly i have one of those youthful looks
02:14:00.020
like if we if we went around like just give me a yes or no maybe maybe for real because i don't know
02:14:06.260
i'm that's 20 and a half that's more years yeah 30 years time at 57 versus now because i could cut my
02:14:12.580
hair do this whole look like you don't know it might kill it just answer the question then yes
02:14:18.100
because i don't see myself letting myself go and i think that i'll just spice it up and give different
02:14:24.340
looks and it's 40 it's 30 year olds grandma's you'd be like look better than okay 20 year olds all the
02:14:29.620
time so i don't see why yes people can still be attractive when they're older but the question is
02:14:35.540
not will you still be attractive are they're attractive 30 40 50 60 will i look better no will you look
02:14:41.860
better no but 30s maybe all right and you're 27 were you better looking at 18 no then you are
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now at 27 no okay all right so i want to try to actually have the back and forth before other people
02:14:56.100
actually jump in on this so you again your uh disagreement or criticism is that i want to sleep
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with women relatively quickly but i also want a woman with a low body count yeah okay um what's
02:15:11.140
actually wrong with that or what what what's the issue i'm just saying that i think most women that
02:15:17.540
have a low body count have a low body count for a reason whether that be like religious or
02:15:23.780
like what's what's a low body count to you like zero to ten maybe five zero to five
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dude i wouldn't consider oh i'm sorry you wanted to have the back i'm sorry no go ahead andrew i was
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gonna say i think they tend to high body count okay i do too i think one hand wait so it'd be
02:15:42.580
unreasonable for me to let's say a woman has a body count of seven and she had like three hookups and
02:15:48.660
like four relationships that would be unreasonable scenario for me to want to hook up within three
02:15:52.740
dates not in that scenario but like say she hasn't slept with anyone for like a year but she previously
02:15:58.100
slept with like 10 people super quick let's go with five but she's been selling it for a year yeah yeah
02:16:03.140
still still find it objectionable it would just be a mismatch look women you can it's free you're
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free to do whatever you want if it's not going to be a question of pressure it would just be like
02:16:15.060
oh we have a different timeline here in the same way like i'm sure most of you here well
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maybe some of you are okay with waiting until marriage there are women here at the table who would
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not want to yourselves wait until marriage to have sex right so okay that's fine in any case
02:16:34.420
people are allowed to have preferences when it comes to this whether you're a man or a woman if you
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want to if your timeline mismatches what the other person's timeline is it's not a good match find
02:16:44.660
somebody else i agree i just feel like it's not common like as andrew was saying that you'll find
02:16:50.020
not common not common if somebody hasn't slept with anyone in a long time or doesn't sleep around
02:16:56.020
to sleep well these are two different categories so hasn't slept with somebody for a long time
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and has a low body count so a woman could have a hundred body count but could be celibate for the
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past year i would think in that scenario would be ridiculous if i come into her life that she would
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want i well i wouldn't want to date her because of her body count but i'd be like that's ridiculous this is
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not a good match find somebody else who's willing to wait so you're dating for the body count while
02:17:23.860
she's just dating to find love and she's trying to change her life
02:17:30.180
what i'm what is your actual argument if you don't get it don't question it move forward yeah
02:17:34.500
i'm not obliged to date a woman because she's looking for love nobody is owed you were looking
02:17:40.180
for the body she's not owed a relationship that's what it sounds like i'm sure if she stopped i'm sure if
02:17:46.420
she stopped after a hundred that she probably is looking for a real thing now and good for her but
02:17:54.420
right so you're not so then why would y'all talk i don't owe a woman a relationship i don't think you
02:18:00.900
owe her a relationship i just think you should tell her like hey i know you got a hundred bodies that's
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why i'm here and maybe i won't have issues after i wouldn't date a woman with a body count so why even
02:18:10.260
have the question about someone stopping for a year if you wouldn't give her an example she would
02:18:16.020
never be example you need to stop fucking cutting in so i can have a back and forth with her i think
02:18:25.380
you're in the middle of saying something um no i kind of lost my train of thought yeah well i'm just
02:18:31.140
again i'm still confused so she's got a body count of between five and ten you think it's unreasonable for
02:18:37.300
me to have a want to sleep with her within three dates i guess the crux of my criticism is like what
02:18:45.220
are you like bringing to the table you know like so quickly into the date that she would be willing
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to sleep with you if she hasn't in a long time or has a low body count that's what i'm trying well i
02:18:56.580
don't think that's your point because i mean in your show notes here well i mean i suppose it does have
02:19:01.220
to do yeah because i kind of said it was like yeah you're a little sassy with it seems like your dates
02:19:06.100
your first date would be more like an interview rather than like a connection being there and so
02:19:11.380
i just tell me tell me how you came to that conclusion well because you'll ask questions like
02:19:15.540
you know how how many people have you slept with are you willing to fold my laundry are you willing to
02:19:21.060
stir my noodles like right you said so in your notes you said like bro why would anyone want to
02:19:27.140
sleep with brian right away when his first dates like an interview probably hey i'm brian are you
02:19:32.420
okay with the fact that we won't get married how do you feel about stirring my noodles and
02:19:35.860
folding my laundry what's your body count are you willing to bow if i was a chaste woman on a date
02:19:40.180
with brian i wouldn't think whoa this dude who just interviewed me is so great and i'm going to
02:19:43.940
immediately give up my chastity um yeah so i mean that's what you said yeah um
02:19:52.020
so i mean there's a couple things here so i would say that the way i'm conducting myself in the
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midst of an adversarial podcast is going to be very different than how i'm conducting myself
02:20:03.220
one-on-one yeah and i thought about that in a romantic intimate setting uh so you know for
02:20:10.020
example like you might i mean the way somebody might conduct themselves where there's an expectation
02:20:17.140
that you're having adversarial conversations is not how they're going to be conducting themselves
02:20:22.340
when they're dating somebody we could do a mock date if you want you're in a relationship why would
02:20:29.380
you say that for podcasts for views uh a mock date y'all let your fans come on the podcast and now you
02:20:38.340
upset this is what you get i'm you let your fans come on about i'm the only one not a fan for real i
02:20:44.660
don't even know what the fuck got up i'm finna leaving a little too i'm not i'm not upset we're just
02:20:49.860
having the exchange he said why would you say that well it's just peculiar given that you're in a
02:20:55.220
relationship but um i think you would think it's funny the mock date yeah uh like if like not not
02:21:01.620
actually like i mean like right here like well i mean this is not like really a scenario in which
02:21:09.380
would be organic or conducive to like you are what she said you gotta stop fucking interrupting kindly
02:21:15.460
stop fucking interrupting please and thank you so look this sort of environment would not be
02:21:21.380
particularly conducive or representative of how a conversation might uh play out in a more uh
02:21:28.020
typical setting when it comes to a first date but i actually even like even if i grant to you that i
02:21:33.540
do take on a bit of a interviewing capacity with uh you know i know she's laughing over here
02:21:40.660
by the way i saw this chick's fucking instagram stories absolute like 37 year old still going to
02:21:45.700
fucking mansion parties dressed like a fucking strumpet so i mean you're on to fucking talk over
02:21:51.140
here so okay yeah you've been fucking chuckling out of your mouth the entire fucking night of me so
02:21:56.900
thanks for stalking me how is it stalking the podcast so that must have just happened yeah i was
02:22:02.580
reposting people's stories lady okay so um what would actually be wrong if i were to ask women
02:22:10.180
questions before agreeing to meet with them i think that's fine but it kind of seems like maybe
02:22:15.780
those questions wouldn't be super organic like on the first to third date i would assume you'd ask
02:22:21.060
that later on yeah like how do you put it into conversation oh is this a rage rage quit
02:22:26.500
rage quit over here i'm not angry i'm just embarrassed are you are you quitting it's a quit i think it's because
02:22:33.620
we didn't know when we got invited that it would be like mean mean people coming through i personally
02:22:40.100
don't i love that this woman's quitting when she's been mocking and laughing at me the entire
02:22:44.900
fucking show i want to leave she did you're bored because you've got fucking tick tock brain because
02:22:51.540
you're oh my god bro you there's too much fucking botox in your face bro your lips look like
02:22:56.740
clown clown clown fucking lips bro you've been talking all night the one thing i said to you
02:23:03.140
was giving you the slightest milquetoast pushback to you wanting to date a millionaire that's the
02:23:09.940
extent of the pushback i gave if you have a gripe with andrew that's fine i wasn't really even that
02:23:15.460
rude to you but you've been at me all night i mean i personally from the beginning y'all were laughing
02:23:23.700
out he laughed at her on there for sure before she broke if i said if i sat here and i was like
02:23:29.220
i want a 19 year old virgin victoria's secret model y'all would fucking clown me you know i would
02:23:35.060
fucking clown not because she's victoria's secret i would also i would call you because you said 19 and
02:23:39.700
you oh that's that's weird that's why i would clown you not because of victoria's secret because you
02:23:44.900
could find that they're not some of them right all that good looking so you think it's delusional
02:23:50.980
that i could get a woman of that caliber okay we think it's delusional that she's a 37 year old
02:23:57.380
woman who wants to date a millionaire but she already is dating them she says the ring as a woman just
02:24:04.180
because guys are everyone doesn't want to get married as a woman a w is not fucking multiple guys
02:24:10.580
the w is getting the ring until you have the ring it doesn't mean that's so sad that people that's not
02:24:16.660
it is because everyone don't deserve to be married women's metric of success is not being able to
02:24:22.340
a guy you get the w when you get commitment she's dating three dudes she doesn't have the ring so
02:24:30.020
she doesn't have commitment she got proposed by one of them she's dating three dudes she doesn't have
02:24:34.740
the commitment point blank period y'all women think the w is fucking successful rich dudes nah no i don't
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think that that's why i don't have countless meaningless sex i don't do stuff like that
02:24:47.780
because i know it's it's not that that's not the mic and stop moving it kindly that's not the way to do
02:24:52.900
it but she never said she was dealing with numerous ones she said only one and that was her ex that was
02:24:57.700
the rich one she said and she said all of them make more than a million when you said five actually
02:25:02.740
wait you three so she doesn't seem like she's lying she drives a mclaren youtube
02:25:07.220
i mean it is what it is that's cool all right i'm gonna read a couple chats here
02:25:15.060
christ is lord donated 200 brian a true traditional woman strives to wait until marriage
02:25:22.580
and you want a woman that doesn't wait you have a double standard against traditional values there's
02:25:29.060
no way around this stuff andrew agrees i'm but i'm not a true i'm not like a hundred percent a
02:25:36.580
traditional man i'm not i don't want to get married i don't want to get married so i don't really see
02:25:44.180
what the issue is um but i would like the chatter to respond to the paradox of i think i think that this
02:25:52.580
position is so i agree in the spirit of the idea that the chatter is kind of right here but i do
02:26:00.340
think that brian's point with the paradox is true which is that if you have a woman who has been
02:26:06.500
promiscuous in the past and suddenly she's gonna make you wait that seems up from the waiter's
02:26:13.460
perspective right that seems like oh all these other men were good enough for you but not me and i
02:26:19.780
still haven't actually heard a good answer to that so uh maybe chatter maybe you can actually
02:26:24.820
respond to that argument what was the answer you were looking for i wasn't looking for an answer
02:26:33.300
you said i haven't heard a good answer from that yet cheddar argument good argument chatter i i want
02:26:39.540
to just give my opinion to go ahead what was the answer you were looking for say it again i was looking
02:26:45.940
for an argument for this so here's the paradox uh if a woman has slept with multiple men before you
02:26:52.740
very quickly but she wants to make you wait because she's turning over a new leaf
02:26:57.700
from the perspective of the man who she's turning the new leaf over for it seems like basically she's
02:27:03.460
saying you're not good enough and these other men were no i don't think so even though i can't relate
02:27:08.020
to her at all and what she's got going on that's not my life i'm just speaking first of all none of
02:27:12.660
these are my life i'm just speaking on everyone's topic because that's what we're here to yeah no i
02:27:16.900
understand yeah but i think that i don't think that's it i think she's probably just trying to
02:27:20.980
change her life like he said he doesn't want someone who did all that didn't try to change
02:27:24.660
her life so they're just not meant to be right away like he said i agree that i just don't think
02:27:30.260
they should start either like if as soon as she says 100 bodies then you should say bye anything
02:27:36.500
else expecting sexism from her when she's saying she's changing you shouldn't be upset about yeah
02:27:41.780
i just wouldn't date her exactly yeah so then we're like what's more delusional her wanting a
02:27:48.900
millionaire a less than one percent man or me wanting to sleep with a woman with a sub 10 body count
02:27:56.420
in three dates or less what's more delusional why don't you answer the question i mean i guess
02:28:02.820
the millionaire would be more delusional what do you mean i don't think yes okay it is it is more
02:28:09.220
delusional okay but so going back to your credit your further criticisms on this what would actually
02:28:16.820
be wrong with like asking someone questions when getting to meet them i mean it's fine if it's organic
02:28:24.500
but who cares if it's organic or not it's just i feel like if you're on a date and you're trying
02:28:29.620
to build chemistry and like a connection then the the questions like that kind of come off more like
02:28:35.940
interview and like business like a transaction rather than like a chemistry thing sorry man we
02:28:42.980
got to be careful here um okay so whose job is it on a date to uh bring the vibe i think both really
02:28:53.940
yeah of course okay go ahead let's do the let's do the role play go ahead all right hi brian um
02:29:05.700
good job well well done okay hey how was your day um it was pretty good um i went surfing today
02:29:15.540
caught a big wave how about you oh yeah where did you surf i surfed in san diego so yeah drove drove here
02:29:21.860
nice nice i just did some work today you know it took it easy now i'm here with you well i think
02:29:28.260
we're having a good time what's your body count all right damn i want to know sorry sorry i want to
02:29:36.180
know i kind of froze you're right probably like it is awkward on on the podcast i will say look why
02:29:43.780
you get uncomfortable when she asked that can you just strain the mic why did you get uncomfortable
02:29:48.260
when she asked about your body count you asked about women's life in general all day i wasn't
02:29:53.300
uncomfortable okay so how what's the number that she was i was like prepared to engage with her in
02:29:57.700
good faith and she went straight to that yeah i don't know it's it's kind of nerve-wracking
02:30:03.620
no because it's like she was trying to make a point like if you're on a date how do you interject
02:30:09.300
that into the conversation without it being weird yeah bro okay well first off i
02:30:14.020
it's hard for me to give prescriptive advice to most men because i'm in the sort of interesting
02:30:19.860
scenario where in terms of the women i've started to date they're reaching out to me so i it's difficult
02:30:26.420
to give them good prescriptive advice because most men are not in that position so with me yeah i'm
02:30:33.140
fucking screening these chicks hardcore because they want your views and not you
02:30:39.540
oh my god first off not an idiot i'm saying what people think because look at her flirting with you
02:30:44.900
with her boyfriend because you have views my point that doesn't but it's okay i'm i've got to go too
02:30:51.140
yeah so hold on let me respond to you so here's the funny thing about that you don't have to go hold
02:30:56.660
on listen i know i'm the party i'll come back with my pro and no makeup on for you guys later and my
02:31:02.740
victoria's secret outfit sit chill out another day but i gotta go right now i'll respond to you i came
02:31:08.740
with her and she and you ruined it she didn't like she she's leaving my stuff's in her car tell her to
02:31:13.700
come back she's up she's coming back just tell her to fucking go tell tell her if she comes back i'll
02:31:18.980
give her a a fresh two dollar bill a fucking uh what what are the rice crispy treat applesauce and how
02:31:26.980
much a two dollar bill is worth now i have one in my phone what i was gonna say wait hold on let me answer
02:31:32.420
your thing really quick and then we can have a discussion over your your lady friend who just
02:31:36.500
dipped so okay if a girl if she's trying to like clout for me or whatever which is not something i've
02:31:43.220
actually ever encountered it's a terrible idea because any girl i date is never getting even an
02:31:51.140
a shrivel a crumb of any public but they'll still try and that's when you know because i keep my stop you
02:31:59.460
got to stop fucking interrupting i keep my relationships very private my family very
02:32:05.540
private my friendships very private if i'm dating a girl i could be dating her for two years nobody
02:32:11.460
fucking knows i'm not telling anybody about it okay so if she's trying to date me to get some sort of
02:32:17.860
benefits for clout it's one you're not going to get it two i'm just not public like that with my
02:32:24.340
relationships i don't do what these other influencers do where they fucking are in relationships
02:32:29.300
publicly okay it's private and i don't date instagram chicks i don't date social media or model i don't
02:32:35.540
date content creators okay or money they might use you for it don't have to be sure maybe i don't even
02:32:41.940
know if you have money i just know you got a box i am broke you're i am broke i don't think you're
02:32:46.900
i'm a starving college but you might be you know regular compared to her wanting a millionaire and
02:32:51.060
the only way that she gonna come back is if you bring her a millionaire so figure it out i got we
02:32:56.020
got millionaires in the chat okay any millionaires many many we got some millionaires can y'all please
02:33:03.940
send my my friends in fact we have the burger king in chat yikes shave your baby hair donated two hundred
02:33:10.580
dollars red is goldfish tier content let's involve everyone else panel what is the biggest red flag job
02:33:18.580
for men and why brian and andrew same question for women but why is it sales red flag job okay
02:33:28.820
look look your friend left tell her to come back it's all good uh i don't think it got heated we
02:33:38.260
just met y'all so when it get heated heated when you just met him and then you leave yeah but like
02:33:42.820
what did she do to contribute to that um the cop you got to understand all these people speaking to
02:33:49.940
like unless we were getting paid off of every comment she's not gonna want to hear like the
02:33:55.780
comments that people are making me i don't care because i'm me like i whatever people say it don't
02:34:01.860
matter i'm gonna leave out here still being me i'll start my own channel y'all actually just gave me a
02:34:06.020
good idea thank you have my new box shout out london two n's underscore r follow me send me buddy i don't
02:34:23.060
i'm gonna be a singer i'll teach you i'm gonna be a singer i'll show you simon is that is that basically
02:34:28.740
what you're doing yeah oh yeah you know what i did do that and he's in the other like little game
02:34:33.300
and he was like you boo go you suck it didn't hurt my feelings as a kid it really did
02:34:40.180
wait you were you we went on you went on american idol no i was just playing what part of what i was
02:34:45.620
just playing the game at home all the week back in the day wait what what part of l and you got
02:34:52.260
booed off on the game yeah he fucked it up in the game i know it's crazy you're taking you're taking
02:35:03.460
some l's tonight you're taking some else it's okay i mean i don't think so because i'm still beautiful
02:35:09.060
still gonna leave out here and you know it was fun yeah so what part of l.a do you live in studio city
02:35:15.860
studio city who lives who came from l.a me the girl who live what part of l.a are you in the valley
02:35:24.900
oh the studio city is it is the valley well i don't know i just don't want to get like too into it
02:35:30.660
well we don't need to look at uh are you down to be her ride damn just involuntary i'm asking
02:35:36.500
okay i'm gonna go with i'm gonna go with her my stuff's already in her car and i feel bad i
02:35:41.380
every everybody don't want to go through what happened here tonight before you leave what's
02:35:46.500
your body count yeah one hand and not the whole hand and that's why i act how i act so you know
02:35:54.420
you guys have a good night or you know and i'm natural no no nothing like this is me natural
02:36:02.100
have a good have a good night thank you name if you guys want me again i actually don't mind it was
02:36:07.300
funny and interesting like i don't i don't care about negative people i know it's a eight billion
02:36:12.420
okay look you either gotta get your friend to come back or you just gotta leave we can't keep having
02:36:17.140
the condo i know so go go talk to her go talk to her see if she wants to come back otherwise you just
02:36:27.220
always get out of here when you are coming first but it's fine bye guys she's not coming back
02:36:38.980
good talk good talk good times all right that was a double i guess a double rage quit if we maybe we
02:36:54.340
oh my word this is one of levandowski's finest performances thank you thank you
02:37:01.140
all right out you go out you go out you go a little less conversation a little more action
02:37:10.180
please thank you elvis good musician oh my goodness all right guys well uh
02:37:17.700
we have uh morgan joining us we have uh anisa joining us they're now part of the panel um
02:37:29.940
uh i i'm just breathing a collective sigh of relief on behalf of the entire panel
02:37:37.460
now maybe we can get to the show yeah i know we can actually get through some of the notes here
02:37:41.940
um yeah the chick with a star on her head right you got to start with the chick with a star on her
02:37:47.940
head we have to start there it's a pimple patch i'll get yeah i'll get through the notes
02:37:52.100
they're really trendy for your young people really yes yep oh uh okay so okay let me get into your
02:38:02.900
notes you're 18 you're in an age gap relationship now oh 19 that was from previously you're in an age
02:38:08.180
gap relationship yes and he's how old 29 about to be 30 um not about to be how did you guys meet oh my
02:38:16.340
god ick ick ick ick ick yes yeah i can't believe it oh i'm sorry go ahead what was your question
02:38:25.940
um how you guys met uh we met online dating app which one tinder okay was it a uh hookup initially
02:38:36.100
no no okay is this wait hold on that's not your first relationship because you said your
02:38:42.660
longest relationship was three years right this has been going on six months so you've been six
02:38:46.980
months in an age gap relationship um i want to open that up to the panel really quick uh do you guys
02:38:52.260
have any objections to age gap relationships no i feel like 20 years could be a lot 20 years
02:39:03.060
i would say it depends like as long as nobody's taking advantage of anybody okay all right and uh
02:39:12.420
you your ex for the three-year one you said he was uh addicted to corn right which is why we broke up
02:39:20.420
yeah you dated for a little over three years throughout high school you hooked up with
02:39:24.260
wait hooked up with a boy best friend what do you mean there um well just you know on the show for
02:39:30.500
like you know history and everything um that's just my history is the three-year relationship which i
02:39:38.580
left and then um between that you hooked up with one of your male friends and then now i'm in my
02:39:46.980
relationship got it okay you said you're very traditional in your relationships i wouldn't say very
02:39:54.340
but that's what you wrote i'm pretty traditional just with like my beliefs and how i grew up and
02:39:59.780
everything okay you said you were raised catholic and you still identify but definitely don't follow
02:40:05.300
it strictly fuck modern and feminism those are all separate thoughts yeah so let's start okay
02:40:12.340
you raised catholic are you still catholic um i wouldn't say so but um i still have like some of
02:40:20.340
my views from there i don't practice um but i did go to catholic school my whole life so i do have a lot
02:40:28.100
of background one sec guys okay never mind um okay you're uh you identify but don't you don't
02:40:42.180
follow it strictly what does that mean so i just don't practice like um i haven't really gone to
02:40:46.420
church or anything but um obviously like it's what i believe in you know i mean
02:40:55.700
okay i mean can you elaborate a little bit or yeah i mean i just believe in catholic beliefs i just
02:41:01.380
don't practice them that's it so you believe in god yeah i believe in god i believe in like the trinity
02:41:08.340
um but you know about it but you don't follow it no i believe in it i just don't practice you know
02:41:15.220
like i don't go to church or anything like that which obviously like well wouldn't the belief in it
02:41:21.700
require following it um well yeah that's the ideal but it's just not like at the point of life where i'm
02:41:30.500
at right now just like my own like struggles and just like identity and everything but i still heavily
02:41:36.980
like believe in my faith and everything wouldn't it help you through the struggles um yeah i'd say
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so it's just like my personal struggles that are keeping me away from practicing well that that's my
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point wouldn't it help you through the course yeah
02:41:58.020
there wasn't shade by the way yeah of course i know i know like how people like feel with like
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like people believing and like not practicing you know especially if you have the ability to
02:42:08.180
um it's just like would you say that catholicism is getting in the way of your journey
02:42:13.780
what would you mean journey and what you know your journey in life um i think that's a big thing like
02:42:20.740
catholicism like definitely like holds back like a lot of the things that i want to do and so what do you
02:42:30.740
think well just things in life you know like having sex with men of course yeah like marital
02:42:37.540
sex you would say like marriage doesn't allow you to have your version of fun right um that's what
02:42:43.220
that's right if yeah just the way i live my life okay so so um i just i just want to be clear
02:42:51.700
uh you went to catholic school your whole life right what's the uh do you know can you tell me what is
02:42:57.220
the one unforgivable sin um denying god no blasphemy against the holy spirit
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that's the one so what that means is that you know that jesus christ is divine and you know that
02:43:12.740
the faith is true and you reject it on purpose that would be blasphemy against the holy spirit the
02:43:18.020
one unforgivable sin wouldn't blasphemy be mockery of god that is mockery well imagine knowing that
02:43:27.540
christ is is god knowing that uh that christianity is true and you turn away from it anyway i just
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think that's a struggle that humans go through though i mean it's not a struggle that humans go
02:43:42.180
through when they know a thing is true and then reject it anyway that's the opposite of the human
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condition usually the human condition is when they know something is true they accept that truth but
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when somebody says i accept that this is true but reject it anyway for my own personal desires
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that's the the opposite generally of what we consider to be moral right can we pull up the
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definition of blasphemy can you speak a little louder can we pull up the definition of blasphemy yeah you
02:44:09.460
can pull up the definition of blasphemy but blasphemy against the holy spirit itself is its own
02:44:14.420
particular type of blasphemy it's the knowledge that the thing is true rejecting it anyway rejecting the
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i'm just pointing the only reason i'm pointing this out is because
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um out of all of the sins which are which are comported to be heinous that one in particular
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is the very worst at least how it's described by the catholics so you know it's true you know the
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divinity is real you accept that it's really accept it's true and then you turn away from it anyway so
02:44:53.860
you're saying it's a form of blasphemy because i i guess i would say blasphemy is more like open
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mockery like how people i can only allow one more comment on this yeah okay so just real quick
02:45:04.900
what could be more mockery then yes jesus i know you're divine but reject you anyway so i can have
02:45:11.700
sex with a guy how could you even can i i would like you to actually just think for a second and tell
02:45:17.540
me anything that could be more blasphemous or more mockery based than that anything i guess to me it
02:45:25.140
just sounds more like rejecting god because everyone has the choice to accept or reject god
02:45:31.460
but i don't i would say i would disagree that falls under blasphemy no no a rejection of god is i don't
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believe i don't believe is different than i do believe and then in spite of the belief i'm going to do
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anything anyway so you're saying that they claim i'm very sorry i have to move it on um let's see
02:45:55.140
here i need to get into the notes here why don't we go back to kaylee here you said you're not a huge
02:46:00.180
labia enthusiast that's true are you bisexual or no you just disagree yeah i disagree with it with the
02:46:07.620
labia not necessarily that having big labia is bad it's just kind of weird what's that you how much
02:46:14.820
you like labia like you have an instagram dedicated to it blm yeah big labia matter yeah
02:46:20.980
yeah i'm aware what what would actually be weird with um so a male finding the genitalia of a female
02:46:28.580
that's weird i didn't know it was weird for men to be attracted to vagina excuse me maybe i'm too
02:46:34.580
straight for you i apologize which um sorry go ahead what um what part of it the
02:46:44.340
menorah or the majora i mean both are cool i guess so i guess they both can be big so big menorah is
02:46:50.420
fine is what you're saying and so the lips it doesn't not matter that's the major is good
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okay yeah i was just asking okay i'm like because i've never seen the the page that she's talking about
02:47:04.660
also you did say you would bow to me so go ahead i did go ahead when we were on our walk date let's see
02:47:09.140
okay let's see the bow she has i can show you what my boyfriend and i do because she bows to me too
02:47:16.740
so that's pathetic but we penguin bow like no because of the whatever podcast no actually we were
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at the monterey bay aquarium and they were demonstrating how penguins bow to each other
02:47:29.220
and we thought it was hilarious and then it kind of was funny that you guys also brought it up
02:47:33.220
on the podcast well that's cool um in any case i uh i rebuke you for your anti big lady matter
02:47:40.740
rhetoric disgusting uh you also said there's some views you disagree with i think we kind of got into
02:47:46.340
those um i don't know was there anything else um i brought up the uh women's right to vote
02:47:54.580
why don't we save that we're going to save that one for a little later though really we're going to
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say okay all right but i want to get into that one don't let me forget uh we will get into it uh
02:48:03.620
but okay let's and you have to remind us before the show we'll do uh that's a debate you'll have
02:48:10.100
with andrew uh let's see here going to uh megan you're a full-time yapper you've absolutely failed
02:48:19.380
to live up to this uh this is a very awkward environment to be in is it oh yeah it is yes
02:48:29.620
it's what i feel like now we have more room to talk yeah that's true that's true you got to be
02:48:33.540
assertive with the conversation you can't let the your neighbor just fucking uh what's it called uh
02:48:39.300
just totally uh you know monopolize the entire airtime um you said you've been married a few years
02:48:47.460
same person uh for eight years or married two years together eight years fairly normal dating
02:48:52.820
experiences prior other than one of my exes coming out as gay two of them yes two of them
02:48:58.100
so you're attracted to gain then i didn't know they were gay to start with well you're maybe so
02:49:04.180
wait two two yeah yeah that's great it's a bad track record right sure are you ever well how
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close how close together like not to be offensive but are you ever worried that your husband
02:49:17.380
made no okay no i was like that we're all like two because it's like the odds of that
02:49:23.940
yeah like yeah yes i changed quite a bit throughout my years my political affiliation has changed a lot
02:49:29.860
too so what i accept uh is no longer what i used to accept just put that out there you used to accept
02:49:37.940
what you used to accept it like you used to accept like wait did any of them want to be pegged
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not that i know of no oh okay no good talk you said modern dating seems awful now and nowadays very
02:49:51.940
disingenuous why do you say that yeah nowadays it seems completely like trash to be honest i mean
02:49:57.700
everybody's using a dating app that was completely different when i was dating um you can't really get
02:50:01.460
get to know many people or really in depth i guess you would say um because it's all in front of a
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camera um people don't want to get to know one another they really just want to fuck and move on
02:50:17.300
which is fine in certain circumstances i guess that's your thing but that's not what i would
02:50:21.060
personally be looking for if i was dating okay you said you're a reformed democrat who previously
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dated two men who came out as gay uh hot takes you would never be in a relationship with a trans
02:50:32.980
man yeah i don't think that should be a hot take but yes yeah i don't think it's that hot of a take
02:50:39.940
uh going around the table do you think it's wrong let me kind of like reverse the the roles a bit uh do
02:50:46.820
you guys think it would be wrong for a male to not want to date a trans woman no no no no wait what
02:50:56.340
what was the question i'm sorry you mean the one i just asked yeah oh yeah that one do you think
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it's wrong for a man to not want to date a trans woman i think it's their choice okay no wait let
02:51:08.740
me just push back a little bit here you think you might acknowledge it's their choice but do you object
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to the choice i mean probably not i guess it's just their thing no no okay um all right is it here how
02:51:26.020
about this is it straight for a man a male to date well hold on for a man to date a trans woman is it
02:51:37.540
straight no no i don't think so i don't think so either i think he has his own category so no okay
02:51:47.860
no no okay all right there you have it folks okay um let's see here we're gonna go naomi is that you
02:51:55.540
yeah that's me that's you okay you're a sugar baby we didn't really get to that um how many sugar daddies
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have you had i don't remember but right now i have like three currently you have three right now
02:52:07.940
okay how many you don't know how many total like at 10 plus 20 plus 30 plus probably like 10 plus 10
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plus okay yeah it's not that much and so you have three currently do you hook up with any of them
02:52:21.060
yes yes okay um all three of them yes this is i'm just curious because i
02:52:30.500
know excuse me sugar daddies are like stereotype to be old are they all old i feel like i would
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be like putting them in like a specific profile like i don't know if they want to even just like
02:52:46.900
50 or older like just yes or no you don't have to specify their age i just don't want to get into
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like what they look like or anything like that because it's like discretion is it like legalities
02:53:00.500
like you sign a contract no so okay you've got the the three sugar daddies you're hooking up with
02:53:08.820
all of them um what how does it work do they give you an allowance something like that so like do they
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also pay for your bills something like that well can you be a bit more precise i don't really have
02:53:24.420
a lot of bills but i go shopping do they pay for your rent um nothing is like directly paid for so
02:53:33.380
it'd be so they just give you money as a gift yes as a gift yeah um how much i'm curious so like the
02:53:41.940
guy who's spending the most on you how much does he send you per month that's um personal for sure
02:53:49.460
i'll give us the details this is good good content no there's other stuff okay well then
02:53:54.740
perhaps a different question um out of all three of these sugar daddies can you tell us the age of
02:53:59.780
the oldest one roughly no within the decade 50s 60s
02:54:09.780
no i mean i'm sorry that would not be revealed i mean it wouldn't really be that i wouldn't reveal
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anything how would it reveal because then it's like if i'm with a certain age person okay out in
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public they're just gonna is any of these people 20 plus years older than you i mean sure yeah okay
02:54:31.060
so then i would not be mistaken in saying and uh forgive me if this is incorrect or i'm
02:54:37.940
characterizing this incorrectly but you're a prostitute is that correct no
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you're sleeping with three men simultaneously many of them much older than you for the purposes
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of them giving you money can you explain to me how that's not prostitution
02:54:58.340
damn um can i explain to it yeah can you explain to me how that's not prostitution
02:55:07.940
um because it's not like a for sure thing like it's not the direct if it's directly
02:55:17.540
i'm giving you it's pretty direct you're sleeping with all these men in exchange they're giving you
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lots of money i don't understand can you make the delineation can you draw me the delineation between
02:55:27.460
a prostitute does this which is she has sex with men for money you do this which is you're having sex
02:55:33.860
with men for money what's the delineation point um i just don't think that like we have to label it as
02:55:44.820
such yeah but why why because um it's not direct it's not like oh i'm giving you this for this
02:55:53.700
that would be direct wait if any of these men stopped giving you this money would you stop sleeping with
02:55:59.540
them i'm into the provider type yeah but yeah so then the answer is no um
02:56:10.580
i think if it was like i don't think it would be no necessarily so if any of these men tomorrow
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stop giving you any money at all and said i'm not giving you any money money anymore but i would
02:56:22.100
i would still like to continue sleeping with you you would say yes
02:56:24.580
it depends it's something that we would have to have a conversation about for sure okay so you had
02:56:30.660
the conversation what would the conditionals be in which you would continue to sleep with them if they
02:56:35.060
gave you no more money i feel like that's personal but like yeah it's like a little too personal for me
02:56:41.140
to share can i ask the question it's yeah but but here's here's the thing uh i think that you wouldn't
02:56:47.780
mind and that you're basically lying to me on purpose because you know that the entailment of
02:56:54.820
the answer if you said no i would not continue to sleep with them if they stopped giving me money
02:57:00.340
is that you then know that you would be a prostitute so i'm going to ask you to just be honest
02:57:06.020
isn't it really true that if any of these men any of them stopped giving you any of these goods or
02:57:14.900
money that you would stop sleeping with them isn't that the case that's not the case actually okay
02:57:22.740
um let's say then if any of them is there at least some of them that if they stopped giving you money
02:57:32.340
you would stop sleeping with them is there at least one of them
02:57:34.820
um damn i feel like i'm put on the spot is there at least one i think you just want me to admit to
02:57:46.340
your definition no i don't i just want you to answer my question i just want you to answer my question
02:57:52.020
that's all i want i think like i mean i have love for all of them so i know but can you repeat my
02:58:00.740
question back real quick no i can't actually okay so i'm going to ask i'll ask it again is there at
02:58:06.820
least one of them who if they stopped giving you any of this money that you would that you would not
02:58:13.860
continue to sleep with them just one it's not even just about the money though their personality
02:58:19.460
that's not my question that's not my question so i'm going to ask you the question again i get
02:58:23.540
and i'm going to keep asking it until you answer it i'm never going to let you evade it i'm never
02:58:28.660
going to let you sidestep it i'm just going to keep asking it until you answer it is there at
02:58:34.020
least one who if they stopped giving you resources you would stop sleeping with them is there one i
02:58:40.500
love how you change the question to resources um to be honest i thought about cutting certain people
02:58:47.780
off anyway money or not so it's you still didn't you really actually just again did not actually
02:58:53.620
answer the question can you please answer the question i asked you probably
02:58:58.660
well i don't know that probably doesn't mean anything yes i did answer your question it just
02:59:05.460
okay then let me ask you know what i'll even make this simpler the sugar daddies you had previously
02:59:11.700
before this particular grouping of sugar daddies if is there at least one of them who if they had
02:59:17.940
stopped giving you resources or money you would not have continued to sleep with
02:59:22.020
probably not i don't know no everything is situational to be honest with me
02:59:30.900
i'm not trying to like be annoying or anything i swear
02:59:35.460
i mean i i just feel like this is a clever sidestepping because you don't want to admit what
02:59:41.380
everybody in this room and everybody who's viewing and everybody on planet earth knows which is that
02:59:47.300
at least some of these men or one of them at least if they stopped giving you lots and lots of money
02:59:53.300
uh and resources you would stop having sex with them is that is that the case or is that not the
02:59:58.420
case like just directly is that or is that not the case i feel like i'm really not trying to sidestep
03:00:03.700
this this i'm just genuinely answering and so is it or is it not the case i said probably not it's
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probably not the case it's probably not okay okay but i do like regardless if there's money involved
03:00:19.700
or not i get like tired of people's personality so it could it's very situational yeah but i'm sure
03:00:28.020
i'm guessing you get far less tired of their personality if they're giving you lots of money
03:00:31.380
right that part yeah yeah so i mean this i'm just going to be completely honest with you
03:00:38.020
you this sounds an awful lot to me like prostitution in fact i would consider it to almost be the
03:00:44.740
dictionary definition of prostitution which is a man gives you money and in exchange for that you have
03:00:49.940
sex with them so then what would an escort be and by your definition she would be well if she was
03:00:57.780
actually just escorting men to dinners and was not doing anything sexual with them i would say then i
03:01:04.180
i'm answering the question oh sorry uh if i would say an escort if they were actually just escorting
03:01:10.580
men out like they're supposed to because they're just escorts they're just supposed to be arm candy
03:01:15.620
so that men who walk on a red carpet or something like this have something on their arm i don't
03:01:20.100
consider that to be prostitution but if you mean escort in the term where they show up and then they go
03:01:25.380
out and then they have sex with a guy that's very clearly prostitution yeah um yes it doesn't
03:01:32.100
necessarily have to lead to prostitution like sex you know what i mean it doesn't have to lead to
03:01:37.860
sex and then it's by your definition it's not prostitution because if we're filling each other's
03:01:43.140
vibe and we want to have sex we're too consulting we're too consenting adults then we're having sex
03:01:50.180
yeah i agree that you could be two consenting adults who are just having sex what i disagree with
03:01:56.900
is whether or not you would continue to have these relationships with these men who you claim are
03:02:01.460
sugar daddies quote unquote meaning they give you lots of resources and that you would continue to
03:02:06.740
have sex with them absent those resources that's what's in dispute here yeah i understand the
03:02:12.900
dispute yeah that's what's in dispute so um you can i suppose say no really andrew what it is is i just
03:02:21.140
like to really fuck all three of these guys and i don't care about the resources because they're great
03:02:25.140
they're fantastic they are the bestest of the bestest uh but i just really don't think that
03:02:32.260
that's the case right they're good people part of what makes i'm not saying they're not a good provider
03:02:37.140
type yeah i'm not saying they're not good people i'm just saying that if suddenly they were good
03:02:41.700
people who also didn't give you any resources anymore that perhaps you would stop sleeping with
03:02:47.220
these good people that's all i'm saying that's like if i want to get serious and then like if i
03:02:52.900
want to like because i'm dating three of them you know like what for me personally dating is like
03:02:58.660
you should have some sort of advantage in life like that you don't want to be left with nothing
03:03:07.700
so if i want to get serious with someone and like maybe it's one of these guys if they stop
03:03:13.140
wanting to pay me and it's like progresses to something else then sure okay well then last
03:03:19.300
question on this before i and then brian can move it on if one of these guys didn't want you to get
03:03:24.900
serious with them exclusively just them and said that they were no longer going to give you resources
03:03:30.420
though if you got exclusive with them and you could not take resources from any other men but them
03:03:35.620
would you do that no okay you're you're prostitute yes that's that literally that's that would be
03:03:46.820
dictionary prostitution right that would okay you had a question for well i'm just curious is
03:03:52.820
prostitution legal in california is that why you're not saying that you're okay what oh that
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was that was the question because maybe she doesn't want to admit that she's a prostitute because
03:04:02.980
it's illegal do you aren't wait escorting is legal do you live in california i live in la yes but
03:04:16.260
there's a difference between an escort who's choosing to sleep with someone who's providing
03:04:21.060
for them and there's a difference between just being paid outright do you think or sex specifically
03:04:27.540
yes or no like you don't have a choice like you know i mean you have a choice but they're like
03:04:31.860
saying oh i'm not going to pay you unless you sleep with me it's not that type of situation
03:04:36.820
i mean you can put a bow on it but i mean it's essentially prostitution
03:04:42.980
like it's basically just like oh okay i go out to dinner with the guy first and then i can look
03:04:49.220
at myself in a more favorable light because i i did this token gesture of going to dinner with him
03:04:55.540
before he paid me the money for what he actually really wanted which was to have sex it's just cope
03:05:06.100
i don't know i feel like i'm getting grilled for my answers
03:05:11.060
i mean well a little bit but look i'm going to be fair back to you um the reason that i'm grilling you
03:05:18.180
on this is because to me semantics when you're when you're talking when you're having a discussion about
03:05:22.900
a thing i think are really important i think it's important that we have semantic distinction so we
03:05:27.620
understand what we're talking about so if you say i'm not in this category category a in this case
03:05:32.820
category a is prostitution i say okay i believe you 100 right but if you say i'm not in category a
03:05:40.740
and everything you say fits with prostitution then we're clearly talking about two different things
03:05:46.420
and that's bothersome right that now it's like well wait a second it sounds like we are talking
03:05:52.820
about the same thing you're just calling it something different for some reason because you
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just don't want the label of prostitute put on your shoulders um that's that i mean that's that's
03:06:03.780
where it's problematic it's not even an attempt to be mean it's just an attempt to clarify what
03:06:07.540
we're actually talking about well i mean we're speaking about right now but in the past like i've had
03:06:14.660
people pay me to hang out with them and then it doesn't lead to sex it's more of if i want to
03:06:18.980
have sex with them would you have had sex with them for the right price that's like i don't know how
03:06:33.860
can you repeat the question would you have had sex with them for the right price
03:06:37.220
it's more about like how i feel with them if i'm like yeah not about the right price you feel
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yeah you feel good about them and they're going to give you five hundred thousand dollars you just
03:06:49.860
leave them with them what the i don't know about that one you don't know stop the cap you know about
03:07:01.220
that one you and you ain't been paid that much from anybody that's true
03:07:11.700
okay uh do you have did you have some more andrew or no i think we can leave it there i'm just i'm
03:07:19.700
just trying to get you to understand like oftentimes people think that it's some type of uh meanness
03:07:25.540
or something like this when you're just trying to establish basic terms but you can understand why
03:07:30.580
when people do horrible things or they have a perception that people will think that it's a
03:07:34.660
horrible thing that they're very very evasive about calling the thing what it is and so that's why i'm
03:07:40.980
like well wait can we at least pin down what the hell we're talking about uh that's not an attempt to
03:07:45.620
beat me it's just an attempt to get clarity on what we're even talking about the thing is like culturally
03:07:50.980
speaking that's the way that they want to treat their women anyways they want to spoil them
03:07:57.300
and i'm not dating seriously seriously right now that's why i have a roster i call it sugar daddies
03:08:02.420
because yes they're taking care of me they're spoiling me but if you want to label it as
03:08:06.980
prostitution then the legendary trash panda donated 199 dollars thank you man drinking game in discord
03:08:14.980
the more you say stop interrupting etc and the more andrew mocks the drunker we get
03:08:20.980
all right also panel specifically chair one goth catholic we need to see your feet
03:08:27.860
gross what what the fuck dude what kind of what kind of gross degenerate ass super chat was that
03:08:33.620
so um anyway that's it i'm just trying to get clarification and i think oftentimes brian
03:08:40.420
uh and myself are ridiculed because when we try to get clarification on basic terms
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uh people get if they actually get offended they get offended that we're just trying to figure
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out what the hell they're even talking about no it's cool i'm not offended i was just like sure
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i think there's just a gray area and people get that kind of confused sometimes yeah isn't it
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interesting though how the gray area seems to usually exist with the person on the side of the behavior
03:09:02.980
they don't want to admit to suddenly there's a gray area where there seems to be complete clarity
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from everybody else so like look i'm going to actually prove this to you right now the girls in
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the room might be way too nice to raise their hand but i'm going to ask the question to the table
03:09:16.820
anyway would you consider that if you slept with multiple men in exchange for resources or money
03:09:23.460
that you would be a prostitute just by a show of hands if you could if you could uh raise your hand
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if you would agree that that's prostitution i would think so yeah so it doesn't seem like there's uh
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a lack of clarity or a gray area from anybody except the person who's on the end of the behavior
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itself isn't that interesting it's not an exchange though it's who they are that's what they want to
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do they want to provide and they would continue to do it absent any sex with you it's not an exchange
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they would continue to do it absent any sex with you what they would continue to do it absent any sex
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with you ever again but then it wouldn't be like dating yeah then it sounds like an exchange right
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it sounds sounds kind of like a trade of some kind like hey if you're not giving me the sex
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then i'm not going to give you the stuff that sounds kind of like the whole prostitution thing
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they would probably see me as a friend if i stopped wanting to have sex with them
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so so wait wait why don't they why don't they want to just spoil their friend
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i don't know maybe it's just a dating culture thing yeah it's a dating code like it's almost
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like they they want to give you stuff in exchange for having sexual intercourse with you isn't that
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amazing it's fair it's very odd how this is it's very strange how this is working out all roads seem to
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lead to i give you thing and i get in exchange that okay oh andrew i think you're you got muted there
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for for a moment i don't know if that's on our end or possibly your end can you speak into the mic andrew
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andrew sorry can't hear you can you try speaking into the mic can you hear us
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andrew can you hear us thumbs up if you can hear us andrew thumbs up if you can hear us i don't know
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if he can hear us um okay we'll just um i think he's fixing his mic something happened to his mic
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well while we're doing that uh we did have a chat we have to get back to but also practicing gentlemen
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for andrew would you consider romance novelists romance poets poets or even corn script writers to
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be prostitutes for brian would you date a romance novelist andrew did you hear that yeah i didn't
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hear the last part of it i'm sorry would you consider romance novelists romance poets or even corn script
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writers to be prostitutes no uh and would i date a romance novelist like a woman who writes romance novels
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maybe maybe it's not ideal job i guess but i i don't think it would be a hundred who cares all
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it's all men who write that shit who cares i don't think it's all men who write all romance novels and
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then they do it with a female pen name and then we do have to get back to let me see here uh let me read
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this from mr unremarkable hey thank you for the uh super chat man good to see you back in the chat
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a rose by any other name is still hookerism gotta give it to the lady though at least she's engaging
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in the conversation mr unremarkable thank you so much for the uh super chat man really appreciate
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everyone else panel what is the biggest red flag job for men and why brian and andrew same question
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for women but why is it sales so going around the table what do you think is like the biggest red flag
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job in a man construction worker what what i live in az arizona yeah it's just a stereotype wait why
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do you living in arizona like there's just a construction it's a stereotype for men there
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like if you if you drive around yeah they party they party pretty hard okay if you know the culture
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you know i don't know if it's same in every state but specifically az yeah it's the same in california
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same in california out west there's a stereotype with construction workers
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that after they clock out because a lot of them get paid big big cash bonuses they party pretty hard
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that's the you know interesting when they're young and old
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not as much not as much when they're old but yeah when they're young especially yeah so construction
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worker what about you um probably anything in the entertainment business
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like podcast host like podcast house sweet okay got it um maybe if they're like a gynecologist or
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something that'd be kind of wait why what are they doing inspecting labia's all day or what
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shit sign me up just kidding wasn't there a friends episode about this where uh who's yeah
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jennifer anston what was her name in friends uh rachel rachel she was like dating this gynecologist and
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he was said something like ah it's just like i'm don't even want to look at vaginas because i look
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at them all day i don't know yeah something like that and so it was a red flag for her and she broke
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it off with the gynecologist yeah i would i would also feel that way too i think i feel like that's
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gotta be kind of traumatizing for the guy it's like why because it's like i mean if you see a healthy
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vagina great you coming across some unhealthy plusy they're usually not there with health
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like maybe they become like you know and they get up and so like they smell oh my gosh true
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yeah something i think this is why it's a red flag
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i mean they don't if they're going to the guy but like if it's bad enough you don't need to be that
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close i'm pretty sure because like that's true it fills up the room like there's girls that will
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get up from the chair and the room can smell it that's disgusting god damn i mean there's this
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yeah i don't know where this is gonna go but it's gonna be good i mean i wanted to give her the benefit
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of the doubt but anyways good talk uh red flag job um i don't really consider jobs as a red flag
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i thought you would say that uh there's not even i don't know nothing that comes to mind
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like a soundcloud rappers i love soundcloud rappers the fuck wait do you have a type
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um do i have a type i think i said that already models and athletes and porn stars models athletes
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have you ever fucked an nfl player i mean they were more like college levels or anything like crazy
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i don't know i didn't ask or like have you made it up to like d1 not yet okay so like city college
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like division i mean it's not even division they look fit so it's fine they look what they're
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fit they're fit they're athletes it counts red flag job i would say a sex worker a pro athlete
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and more often than not a blue collar worker that does like at home meetups like an electrician or hvac
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yeah why is that um well i know i know this from a few friends who have worked in the industry but
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it's more common that you'll find like a single mother who's getting their house worked on that
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will throw themselves at the workers and it's yeah and it's unlikely that like a desperate guy would
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say no to that to get paid to like hvac that's a new one did you know this by like um personal
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experience my ex was a electrician and he would come like come back from work and be like that's
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how you got cheated on or no oh sorry but um he would like complain he'd be like the grossest thing
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happened or like and then he would talk about how some of his friends would partake he probably did too
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and just didn't tell you about it that is possible red flag job for you you mean like red flag for
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someone like prospectively to date them yeah well like i don't know i wouldn't i'm not like dating
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are you able to scoot this way a little bit just the mic's kind of blocking you go ahead like the
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only thing i could think of is like a job that i wouldn't want my boyfriend to have now because like
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what other guys do doesn't really concern me that much but so i could think of something
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like maybe being a police officer or something just something that's not safe is what i wouldn't
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want him to be doing okay uh andrew what's a red flag job for a woman biggest one social media
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influencer of any kind of any kind that's worse than like a sex worker worse than i would i would
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think that the loyalty of a sex worker would be higher if she quit sex work and committed to one
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man than any kind of social media influencer it is by far i would i would consider it to be the
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biggest red flag possible any woman who has influencer in their bio of any kind i would stay
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the fuck as far away from them as possible hmm okay i have i have a list here uh hairstylist works in hr
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flight attendant how many cities have you been to travel nurse how many fucking cheating you're
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cheating bro you did it was supposed to be the biggest red flag oh biggest red flag
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it's a toss-up between i mean let's just put sex worker to the side here
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you got flight attendant and you got travel nurse it's kind of like i don't know
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they're both pretty bad probably flight attendant i'd say anyways flight attendant is like see but
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that's that to me is similar to social media influencer so it's like you always have the
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opportunity you're always meeting men who are more powerful than you are and more powerful than the
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average man is and so it's like the amount of in entertainment and you know this brian
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the amount of women who have sex in order to attain clout in the social media world is
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okay those are the red flags let's see let's get back to the pre-show notes here so we uh
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naomi that's i'm on backwards by the way um that's not your real name though is it
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no it's the industry name yeah um you have dating stories are more private than your host stories
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so tell us your about your host stories yeah i put that in the last one that you sent me and then
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i rethought that and i was like do i want to share that yeah it might be personal too but then i think
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i don't know can we come back to that question isn't there another one after that hang on hang on
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we can come back to it you ready all right we're coming back to that question i knew you're going
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to do that we're back we're back we're so back boys we are so back um tell us the house stories
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let's hear it well i mean it was more so like when i was younger like in my college days sure that's
03:23:09.380
fine but um those were like more crazy how many uh how many years ago were your college days uh like 10
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10 years 10 or 11 or something you know this is actually one of the rare times where i didn't
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like graduate college though i got straight a's but i wanted to drop out because i wanted to
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well as a compliment to you i judge you as being much younger or than uh then obviously you are if
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college was 10 years ago for you right because 18 yeah so let's hear the host stories like anyways
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uh oh my god do i get into it well there was like one dude that i was seeing and like it pissed me
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off i thought he was seeing other people like sexually and stuff so um i mean i his dad
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oh my god and then he fucked me again right after what wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait
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yeah wait did he know about it yes he did i told him excuse me wait you you effed the dad yeah
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and then you effed the guy no the guy first the sun first the sun then dad then dad then back to the
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sun was acting up you flip flop and then the sun again flip the flop but she said the sun was like
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wanting me to him after it was weird i was like so he was into it wait what he's like yeah no right
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he was literally into it what the i was like whatever that's so nasty i'm uh i send the house
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that's crazy who's better the sun wait how old i was like there's no way this is your dad did they
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high did they high five no did they high five no missed opportunity how old were you when that
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happened that was this year boy i thought you said these were college days i know i'm saying
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they're crazier stories from college what's crazier that you fucked this guy's dad and then
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fucked him right after give me the crazier story what's crazier than that i don't know i have to think
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back to it for real i feel like it's so long if you have a real list of crazy stories in your head
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and you open with i know well i have some really crazy one in colleges but let me give you the tame
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one which is the time that i fucked the guy's dad and then fucked him right afterwards i feel like the
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real list of the things that happened in college can't be very evasive it's just that this one's more
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relevant because it happened recent so i was like whatever and then the college ones it's like i
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know i did crazy i just can't remember because it was 10 years ago 11 years ago or some shit
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i mean i remember from when i was like five years old i mean i do too but like i think this is like a
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little different because i'm put on the spot oh was it like a lot of intoxication involved is that
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why it's like blurry on the spot um no i just can't pinpoint it to like one story because there's
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many and that's okay we all have our when is that everyone okay with you you're like all right it's okay
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maybe if you come back to me i can remember it though that's the thing well i'll continue with
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the rest of your notes then and you can think about it uh you said dating while in the industry
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is nightmare as expected but also in your opinion overrated is that what i said like yeah it's your
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words i'm literally reading it verbatim you don't think what oh dating while in the industry i think
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you skipped a while in the industry you just said dating in the industry like within it dating while
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in the industry yeah so like being a full service sex worker which i think some people can even argue
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that porn is technically prostitution that's a gray area again sure but anyways like it's a nightmare
03:27:13.460
because it's like i'm people aren't going to take you serious and then the people that do
03:27:18.020
they're a little too overly open-minded and then i'm like somewhat in between where it's like
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i do see it as a job and then there's the off sure camera stuff and then that's
03:27:31.300
more personal to me okay we have a chat here from mr unremarkable thank you so much man for
03:27:36.500
the soup chat really appreciate it uh that's absolutely vile still appreciate you staying in
03:27:43.540
the conversation as gross as it is as it is nasty b yeah what what kind of gun is that by the way
03:27:53.140
mr unremarkable it called out what kind of gun i'm not calling on the call out oh actually that
03:27:59.940
looks uh registered so it's fine it looks registered i mean the way he's holding it and
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he's got the headgear on or whatever i mean i'm just saying i'm just curious like you can look at it
03:28:13.620
and tell because it's black extension on the stock it has a tube and that's where the recoil buffer goes
03:28:19.300
and only the ar-15 has that feature oh it's a little hard for me to you know it's very far away on my
03:28:26.580
monitor you know hard for me to see but uh all right we have uh naomi by the way how does something
03:28:35.220
look registered what the hell is the way that people hold it i guess it looks it looks registered
03:28:42.020
it looks registered are you saying people with unregistered he looks like a uh how does an
03:28:47.700
unregistered gun look not all the time that's true he just changes its feature when you register it
03:28:56.340
just the way like you know people tote guns differently when they're like he's not like
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holding it like all thug like off to the side and shit he looks like he's responsible and it's a
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registered firearm that's what it looks like yeah and his trigger discipline is fantastic wait i don't
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know about all that okay we only saw the butt of the gun right that is true but i'm just assuming okay
03:29:21.540
you said uh your current mindset is on money right now because dating canon will set you back in many ways
03:29:27.220
when you're focusing on personal goals while in the industry it's difficult to find people people
03:29:31.540
open-minded and supportive enough to be a good companion you've had issues with dating before
03:29:35.460
the industry as well but now it's harder for sure your dating life is somewhat personal clearly uh dating
03:29:40.900
you say dating is overrated question though do you want to have kids one day i mean ideally yes okay
03:29:49.860
but i think uh if it doesn't happen i'm not going to be totally devastated okay do you want to get
03:29:56.180
married yeah okay well i mean you kind of have to date to do that but um you said basically your
03:30:02.260
thoughts on dating you're basically your thoughts on dating is that everyone has a roster you think
03:30:06.900
society puts too much emphasis on the need for another person that it perpetuates low self-worth as
03:30:12.580
for me i'm mature enough to realize that i'm capable of being alone without the need of a significant
03:30:16.580
other yeah okay if you care to elaborate that's fine but otherwise i'll just move it on uh let's
03:30:23.540
see okay that's naomi we need to wait to get back to kaylee we did megan's notes nessa short for
03:30:30.580
vanessa oh yeah okay you said you've only dated one other man besides your current boyfriend he was
03:30:37.860
nice we just disagreed on points of faith and lifestyle i'm not nothing to really interrogate there
03:30:44.180
uh you'd like to talk about the importance of traditional gender roles and the downplay of
03:30:48.020
the value of intimacy in society nowadays i believe you should date for marriage i believe respecting
03:30:54.740
your husband and loving your wife are some of the most important things a couple can do for their
03:30:58.900
marriage i'm from a broken home and have seen this play out in my parents marriage uh
03:31:06.340
no disagreements there is there anything you want to elaborate on or no i feel like it's pretty
03:31:10.820
straightforward okay and you said you disagree with the intensity and black and whiteness of
03:31:18.500
some of the hosts takes i assume you're talking about me and andrew i believe there's more of a gray
03:31:23.380
area in a lot of the topics uh so why don't you go into that um i guess what are the disagreements
03:31:28.580
what do you feel where do you feel there's more gray area no that's why i put gray area because
03:31:34.180
i couldn't think of like anything that i specifically agree or disagree with when i was watching and
03:31:38.820
researching it so because i was always kind of like yeah i guess to some points and also was like no
03:31:46.580
i don't know well so you said you disagree with the intensity and black and whiteness
03:31:50.580
of some of the hosts takes so just going based off what you wrote in your own notes here um what are the
03:31:58.260
takes in which you disagree with when it comes to the intensity and black and whiteness that either
03:32:04.820
um that either from andrew or from me you know like it was already brought up earlier about your
03:32:11.300
like um go ahead um dating preferences about wanting a girl with like a low body count but that would also
03:32:18.980
sleep with you really quickly that you were like no i wouldn't sleep with someone with a high body
03:32:23.140
count and that being like a standard i thought it was kind of weird wait well sorry what was weird
03:32:29.620
that you like wouldn't want to sleep with someone with a high body count but you also don't want to
03:32:34.100
get married so it's like why i mean as if it's like an scd thing and they're clean like why would you not
03:32:40.420
want to well i'm a little confused as to the tying it into the marriage thing because uh what would me
03:32:48.740
wanting to get married or not wanting to get married have to do with uh finding it more optimal to date
03:32:55.460
somebody who uh hasn't slept with a bunch of men i'm just saying like why is that that like decreases
03:33:04.980
their value is what you think which i also like feel that way too so it's like but if you're not
03:33:12.100
dating for a marriage like what are you dating for
03:33:19.460
a lifelong girlfriend and have kids no i think that's ridiculous yeah why is it ridiculous because
03:33:28.020
why would you stay with someone but not also just like just go ahead and marry them then if you plan
03:33:33.860
on staying with them forever like what's the problem well i mean this is the solipsism so you're saying
03:33:38.980
why would a woman do that but i'm the man here so you need to make a convincing argument why i should
03:33:45.620
get married to a woman i get for you maybe you don't like the deal but i think it's a better deal
03:33:51.460
for me to not get married so convince me that i should get married i feel like it's not something
03:33:59.220
that i can really convince you of though well i mean you've come on a dating podcast to have this
03:34:03.540
conversation so let's have the conversation then you're not going to change my mind i mean yeah but
03:34:09.060
i'm happy to have the debate because you want to date other people like in your lifetime you don't
03:34:13.780
want to like just only be with one person wait is that why you don't want to get married because
03:34:18.500
you want so people do i need to get married to stay with somebody for the rest of my life no okay
03:34:25.220
are you worried about the like liability or repercussions the liability of what like or i
03:34:30.900
should say repercussions of marriage of getting is that so you did what i am concerned about the
03:34:36.500
liabilities so you wouldn't love somebody enough to make that commitment well i can just reverse
03:34:42.980
this onto you why can't she love me enough to not get married i guess so your argument falls apart
03:34:52.260
i guess so i guess that just because your values don't match mine so like i wouldn't agree with that
03:35:00.500
if i were the girl that's totally fine she shouldn't date me then and well yeah that's my point right but
03:35:06.980
you're going to have to make a more compelling argument besides well if you love her enough you
03:35:13.460
would do it well the point of marriage is to make that commitment to become one with that person is
03:35:20.740
that the point of marriage it's to be with that person for the rest of your life dating is kind of like a
03:35:28.260
precept to marriage well the issue with that is is that the divorce rate is astoundingly high so it
03:35:36.900
doesn't seem or doesn't occur to me that marriage precludes people from breaking up i would say the
03:35:44.820
divorce marriage is influenced by the ideals idolized today because people think love is a feeling not an
03:35:53.780
action being in love is a feeling that's fleeting but being but loving someone is a commitment where
03:36:00.100
you reach a point because a lot of marriages reach that point where it's like a lull and you decide okay
03:36:04.820
no we're gonna make make this work or we're gonna work together to continue with each other but most
03:36:10.500
people choose dating because when it gets to that point they're afraid to make that strong commitment to
03:36:15.780
get past it so dating is the easy way out and it's like i'd rather not and then just go find somebody else
03:36:22.660
but marriage puts you under the responsibility of standing to that commitment does it it should
03:36:31.620
but what does it have to do really with are you saying for both partners yes for both partners
03:36:38.580
well wouldn't this criticism be better aimed at women given that they're more likely to divorce
03:36:43.140
men than the reverse i think i agree with that i think women are too emotionally led and emotionally
03:36:49.780
charged to where it comes down to if a man has a strong opinion or if it's rooted in truth they
03:36:57.220
can't handle it because it hurts their feelings but i think what we need to teach women is your
03:37:03.700
feelings don't matter when it comes to the truth there's a hard truth and then there's a harsh truth
03:37:09.300
it's up to the man to be a good leader and a good man to be able to give the hard truth without just
03:37:16.100
you know blatantly being harsh so i feel like when you guys bring it up i agree women leave a lot of
03:37:24.100
relationships for invalid reasons but there's the small case of you have a man who couldn't lead the
03:37:30.660
woman and she was displeased with the lack of leadership which i guess would that even i mean
03:37:38.580
would that even be pretext for a divorce i have some things that i want to add to going off wait
03:37:46.580
let me really quickly ask andrew andrew let me ask you a question a woman a christian woman marries a
03:37:51.220
christian man and he is at least in her assessment failing in his capacity to lead in the relationship
03:37:59.700
but he's otherwise a good person a good man there's no abuse uh is that enough pretext for a divorce
03:38:06.580
no paul addresses this specifically so uh the apostle paul says that even if the man falls away
03:38:14.980
from christ the woman should stay married to him if she's a follower of christ because likelihood is
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higher that he will be brought back to christ by her not abandoning the marriage no i understand from
03:38:25.780
a faithful perspective that's different i'm talking more of a second oh you're okay secular we can keep
03:38:30.020
it's right because as a woman for me personally i pray for a husband because i who better to choose
03:38:38.180
my husband than the creator of all things and me personally i like to wait and work on myself so
03:38:46.500
that when i come across a man of such value i'm valuable enough for him to pursue me in such a way
03:38:54.660
because i prefer i would prefer to have a traditional type of love but in today's age
03:38:59.780
it's extremely rare well so i would like to bring it back to the whole marriage thing really quick
03:39:05.140
though there are there's a chat coming in i'll come through then we'll get right back to it ogle donated
03:39:09.540
two hundred dollars okay so hypothetically if there was a prenup that said you get zero dollars upon
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divorce would that still be an acceptable commitment of marriage in the ways they're describing
03:39:20.740
to you too i feel like it's a cop-out if you sign a prenup it's like you're already planning for
03:39:26.820
failure oh i see well that's awful convenient to say but i wonder this right and of course i already
03:39:34.980
know what your answer will be uh because it's a cop-out answer but let us assume let us assume for a
03:39:42.020
moment that the divorce courts were rigged in the favor of men instead of women right and that women were
03:39:49.700
getting screwed over as much as men have gotten screwed over in the last 50 years inside divorce
03:39:54.020
courts uh would you say then that a woman should protect herself by getting a prenuptial agreement
03:39:59.460
because if she didn't have said agreement then if they did divorce the man had all the earning
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capacity and she doesn't and she needs to protect herself and let me add on to this in this hypothetical
03:40:12.340
scenario men are initiating 80 of the divorces okay i understand the reason for signing a prenup
03:40:21.460
like i understand yeah but can you answer my question right um my question is should if the
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roles were reversed in this scenario would you advise your friend who's a woman to to have a
03:40:32.260
prenuptial agreement so that if a divorce happened and he had all the earning capacity that that she could
03:40:38.260
protect herself i would tell her don't get married if you can't make that risk if you're not great
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that's the exact advice that i would give to a man in reverse if a woman is unwilling to sign a
03:40:51.620
prenuptial agreement uh then don't get married no i mean don't get married if you're debating a
03:40:59.460
prenup because you're right you're saying the same thing i'm saying if you're debating a prenup then
03:41:05.140
don't get married right okay same thing i'm saying so i would say so i would say that if the woman is
03:41:11.620
willing to sign a prenuptial agreement uh yeah sure get married to her because then she is offering
03:41:18.660
stake and equal to your own and if she won't sign a prenuptial agreement why get married to her
03:41:24.900
i see what you're saying like if she's not gonna leave you anyways it wouldn't matter
03:41:29.220
that's right that makes sense i guess how the reason why i wouldn't it's because it's like you're
03:41:39.460
he's making a statement of i trust you so to me it goes a little bit past the like
03:41:46.660
how do i say that they're like cut and dry it's just well let us let us imagine for a moment let us
03:41:57.220
sue that there was a bowl of m&ms okay and they were all brown m&ms 50 to 60 to 70 percent of them
03:42:07.060
were actually poisonous cyanide and 30 of them were not poisonous cyanide right however the person
03:42:16.420
tells you listen i'm i have checked these m&ms okay i have checked them and here i'm going to hand
03:42:25.140
you one of them for you to eat and i need you to trust me or option two is you can take the m&m and
03:42:32.580
get it laboratory tested right would you say that it's a betrayal of the trust to go and have it lab
03:42:40.100
tested before you eat the m&m i would say it's smart especially in today's dating i would say it's smart
03:42:49.300
yeah to go and get the m&m tested right however i believe that there is if there is no trust in a
03:42:56.900
relationship then the relationship is not good i want you to know that this was cleverly done how
03:43:04.100
you tried to skirt the question you didn't actually answer it though and so to ask you again would you
03:43:09.780
say it's a breach of trust to have the cyanide m&m the possible cyanide m&m tested even though the
03:43:16.580
person you love said that they already tested it are you actually breaking the trust by having that
03:43:22.020
tested before you eat the m&m i would say yeah because you're going against yes yes okay so you
03:43:30.020
would take the chance that you would take a cyanide laced m&m rather than the potential that you might
03:43:36.740
make the other person feel like you've broken their trust i feel like all relationship is risk
03:43:42.100
regardless well okay if all relationship is risk regardless you would you would agree with me that
03:43:48.740
you're still taking a risk if you sign a prenuptial agreement there's still a risk there but i also
03:43:55.700
think that a lot of relationships are designed around the mitigation of risk here's one such example
03:44:02.100
do you plan on doing long-term family planning when it comes to your children
03:44:05.460
family planning yes yes okay is that to mitigate risk no it's to ensure that my kids are raised
03:44:15.300
properly and you know that by taking out risk by you're taking you're taking you're taking away risk
03:44:25.620
that's how you know that they're like if you're doing long-term family planning right then you're
03:44:31.300
saying if i have more money than less money there's less risk less risk that my kids are going to be in
03:44:36.500
danger right i i thought you meant family planning in terms of education like how you're same same
03:44:42.980
same thing same all of it is the same exact thing it's all mitigating risk so the idea here is
03:44:48.420
you want your child to have the best education otherwise you run the risk of them being less
03:44:55.140
educated than they need to be to make it right but you don't necessarily need to like spend a lot
03:45:00.500
of money to get a good education i agree but that that has nothing to do with the fact that you're
03:45:04.820
not mitigating risk the whole point is to mitigate risk so every time i look at married couples and i
03:45:11.380
look at couples in relationships they do everything in their power to mitigate risk except sign this
03:45:16.580
piece of paper which is really weird to me and it seems to me like they don't want to sign the piece
03:45:22.340
of paper because they don't want to mitigate his risk okay it seems like they want to mitigate all the
03:45:29.460
risk except his risk i guess that makes sense for a modern woman nowadays like how women think the
03:45:38.580
reason i don't get it is because in my mind that's not that just it wouldn't make sense to me because
03:45:46.820
it's like why would we christian women don't divorce their husbands well yeah well it's also like i'm not
03:45:52.500
contemplating that if i'm deciding to marry you so it's like why would that even be a discussion wait
03:45:58.340
wait wait but hold on okay well then let me then let me counter with this last thing then
03:46:02.580
before i turn the floor over to brian do you agree with me there's a difference between religious
03:46:08.340
marriage and state marriage meaning you don't need the state to be married in a religious sense
03:46:13.620
yeah because you're so if a man wanted to be in a religious marriage with you
03:46:18.420
and not a state marriage would you have any objection to that
03:46:20.740
um i guess i would depend on like the content of it because it's like how are you going to
03:46:29.540
financially function with a partner if it's not legally what do you mean the same way that
03:46:37.060
everybody and their brother who's not married and cohabitates financially does this with their
03:46:40.980
partner right this second which is the overwhelming i've also never been married so i don't know the full
03:46:46.820
extent of how that goes you you can have a joint bank account with somebody who's yeah you can have
03:46:52.500
all the same things you have all the same things there's just no state involved i guess no you
03:46:58.420
wouldn't have any objection to that right no because it's holy matrimony great well then if that's the
03:47:03.620
case what if he says to you all i want you to do is sign this contract that says that the state can
03:47:09.300
never get involved in our marriage is i thought a prenup is just that no no the answer to my
03:47:16.420
question my question is what if he asked you to just sign a contract that said the state can
03:47:20.980
never be allowed in our marriage we're married through the church instead would that be acceptable
03:47:26.340
yeah okay well that's a prenup i thought a prenup was more of like just strictly financial
03:47:32.580
you know the prenup is saying we're not ever going to involve the state because we have now pre
03:47:38.500
done away with all the conditionals that if this relationship does not work out the state cannot
03:47:43.060
come in and say a b and c and d this has already been litigated before there was ever a need to
03:47:48.020
litigate it right so if it is true that you're fine with a religious marriage absent the state
03:47:53.380
and fine with signing a contract saying the state can never come in and litigate then that means that
03:47:57.540
you're fine with signing a prenup okay yeah i guess my idea of a prenup was wrong but yeah that makes
03:48:03.940
sense like why wouldn't you because to me it's like like i like brian said well you just answered your own
03:48:11.380
question yeah what do you mean why wouldn't you you're you're absolutely fine going into a
03:48:15.300
religious marriage and exiting the state from it and signing a contract that the state can't get
03:48:19.940
involved then you're fine with a prenup well yeah because i mean if you're going into the marriage
03:48:24.260
worried about money then it's like why are you getting married right oh no but she's still objecting
03:48:28.900
to the prenup no no objection yeah but you are still objecting to the prenup no it makes sense to sign
03:48:37.220
a prenup if you but you just said well why are you getting married then no why would you be getting
03:48:42.500
married with your and your sole focus is about money yeah so you object to the prenup no i'm saying
03:48:49.220
so prenup fine but also if you're objecting to a prenup it's because you're worried about financial
03:48:54.820
states the woman is objecting to it right so she's so worried about money going into this marriage and
03:49:00.820
it's like well you guys work together in the marriage and am i making i am yeah you're making
03:49:06.980
sense you had something yeah um i just remember reading like this stat and i don't know how accurate
03:49:12.820
it is but it's like 50 of marriages ending in divorce isn't accurate for like first-time marriages
03:49:18.740
the number is kind of skewed for people who've been married like two or three times and those marriages
03:49:23.620
usually and like and so it kind of like skews the um absolutely data there so sure is there further
03:49:30.580
yeah i mean just kind of like i think there's maybe more reason to get married if you're getting if
03:49:36.500
you're getting married to the right person and it's your first time then there's a less sure there's less
03:49:41.940
if it's the first time getting married there is a less of a risk yes suppose um but also like if you
03:49:49.860
have kids um i mean it's i think it's better to be married why i read in my like kids it was like
03:49:58.580
child development or something like that and i don't know why science no no no not oh not even
03:50:04.660
the science okay go ahead it's well i don't know but i just read it in my child development class and
03:50:10.660
it was just basically that people who come from a um married household like have a i don't know they
03:50:18.180
are more successful they can be it's not a guarantee not a guarantee but it's like highly likely it's
03:50:25.620
more likely that you will have a successful child if you are married is it more likely you'll have
03:50:33.780
a successful child or is it that people who are married happen to have more successful children
03:50:41.780
like i don't think it causes it necessarily yeah i mean i don't i don't know for sure um was there
03:50:48.580
something more that you had or was that i mean it was those two yeah i have to read this really quick
03:50:53.060
legendary trash pans i better get legendary status for this stop interrupting stop interrupting
03:50:59.700
just stop okay thank you legendary trash panda really appreciate it uh okay wait so nessa going back
03:51:05.060
to you this the marriage thing kind of started with you here uh you said it was weird your friend kind of
03:51:10.260
took over the conversation can you articulate why it's weird to not want to get married well for me
03:51:17.940
it's weird because i'm religious and like so coming from it from a secular point of view obviously i'm
03:51:23.860
going to think it's weird because for like christians getting married is like a really big deal
03:51:30.420
like more of a big deal than it is secularly i think because it's a commitment to god as well
03:51:35.780
it's a blessing is the uh let me ask you though the state um is the state religious
03:51:43.380
the state like california no the state the government government no no okay uh so when you
03:51:50.740
get divorced from your husband uh does your religion oversee it or does the state oversee your divorce if
03:52:00.660
you're married legally through the state then the state which most people aren't even if they're
03:52:04.980
religious yeah so um even if you're the most well-to-do uh christian both of both the partners are
03:52:14.740
uh very pious and devout and you know they adhere to the faith uh in the event of a divorce that kind of
03:52:23.620
all goes out the window even for religious people because you will that your religion does not uh
03:52:35.620
it does not oversee your marriage the state oversees your marriage
03:52:42.260
and also the problem with this like the whether you're traditional conservative religious uh so the
03:52:48.980
state presides over your marriage not your biblical values so when the woman is unhappy she's going to
03:52:56.180
go to the state not god well she should go to god well she can go to god first but when she
03:53:03.700
inevitably perhaps seeks out the divorce she's going to go to the state and she's going to go to
03:53:09.060
attorney yeah we're just looking at enforcement so the idea here is like you could you could morally
03:53:15.060
be correct that everybody should go to the church for their marriage i don't disagree with that but
03:53:19.860
who ultimately has the force in this scenario it's not the church you ever seen a church enforce any
03:53:25.380
type of divorce ever no because they can't so what you're left with is who's the enforcement arm in
03:53:32.500
this case it's the state so ryan says i don't want the state involved in my marriage right and i can't
03:53:40.500
think of a single good reason why you should not a single one and i have i have asked every woman
03:53:49.780
who's ever come on whatever this question why in the world would a secularist ever get married
03:53:57.060
it is the dumbest decision in modernity i could ever think of it's almost almost a hundred percent
03:54:04.820
for for a lot of the well okay it's not almost a hundred percent but the likelihood that this is
03:54:10.260
going to end badly is extraordinarily high it's it if you were to ask somebody you know would you get
03:54:16.260
in a car automobile that you know 50 of them crashed they're not getting in the car and it's like why
03:54:23.700
if you're not a religious individual if you don't believe in christianity or islam or something like
03:54:28.580
this why the fuck would you get married as a secularist man it's beyond me and so i'll ask this panel
03:54:34.420
the same question i've asked everyone has come on whatever can any of you think of a good reason
03:54:39.540
why a secularist man would ever want to get married in modernity a single good reason
03:54:50.180
yeah you can have the cookies without the marriage right i feel like that's the problem with modernity
03:54:56.500
though it's that's the reason we have so many broken people because they come from broken homes or
03:55:02.180
lack of commitment lack of responsibility lack of how do you have a broken home if you don't get
03:55:08.180
married a lot of people have relationship or have kids outside of wedlock and then when they decide
03:55:15.300
they're done dating yeah but think you're thinking about this from the christian perspective think of
03:55:19.300
it from the secularist perspective that's what i said the secularist doesn't give a shit about abortion
03:55:24.100
the secularist doesn't give a shit about any of these things from a secularist standpoint if they
03:55:28.820
impregnate a woman and it's a secularist woman they impregnate she just goes and gets an abortion
03:55:33.540
they don't have to deal with any of the fallout from any of this right why in the world would they
03:55:38.100
ever get married well why they could just get the same in fact couldn't a secularist just make the
03:55:43.700
declaration we are now married and they would be like what's the governing authority here
03:55:51.060
you had something that's a good well yeah i was gonna say like yeah that makes sense because
03:55:54.740
marriage is in a sense religious because god created marriage so like if you're someone that
03:56:02.100
doesn't believe in god or follow him why why would you follow something i think there's actually enough
03:56:08.500
even for religious men christian men simply by virtue of the state's involvement i think that's enough
03:56:17.540
justification to be hesitant even as a religious man when it comes to marriage well it is i mean
03:56:25.380
even that it is i would that's why when you see the secularists rage against me for saying that there
03:56:32.500
should be an ecclesiastical authority over marriage instead of a state authority they get so enraged they
03:56:37.700
can't see straight because oh oh the so you're gonna allow the church to interfere in people's personal lives
03:56:43.780
like as opposed to the state what makes the state better qualified to do this well i guess because
03:56:49.540
the church isn't god god is the ultimate authority so that i guess that yeah when's the last time you
03:56:56.100
saw god come down and uh stop um well stop the state from coming in and enforcing a divorce i guess
03:57:06.100
i mean obviously not but god has obviously not god has his ways of doing things through other forms and
03:57:13.780
yeah listen i agree with you listen i i agree that the lord works in mysterious ways but the state is
03:57:21.620
not a mystery and divorce is not a mystery and the fact that most of these marriages end in divorce
03:57:27.700
that's no big mystery either and the truth is that most people are setting themselves up for failure
03:57:32.420
in modernity getting married absent is some type of religious conviction from the woman they're getting
03:57:37.540
married to and an authority from a church community which assists in marital problems
03:57:43.700
they're almost always setting themselves up for failure the state can't offer any of those
03:57:47.860
things and doesn't so from a secularist perspective what the fuck is the point of them getting married
03:57:52.500
at all then like what is the actual point what's the point of dating if dating is based off of the
03:58:00.100
structure of marriage what we get dating i don't think it is marriage without the actual full
03:58:07.380
commitment you do all the things married people do why couldn't you have the same commitment
03:58:10.900
say that again why couldn't a secularist have the same commitment why couldn't a secularist
03:58:16.100
woman and a secularist man just declare that they're married and they would be well why don't
03:58:21.940
they because they do they do so many many secularists are like nope not doing the marriage thing but i'll
03:58:28.660
commit to you for the rest of my life i guess i've never wait what's the point of dating i mean
03:58:34.900
recreational sex procreational sex no i i'm saying why call it dating if you're getting the entire
03:58:43.220
structure of dating from the structure of marriage just without calling it that well okay so the i don't
03:58:50.340
think that they consider when you say the structure of marriage a christian marriage are you saying that
03:58:55.380
when christians date it's within the confines of the structure of marriage i call it courting because
03:59:02.020
dating or courting would be leading to marriage without the physical interact or
03:59:12.020
why couldn't a secularist do the exact same thing do they not do they do that yeah there's plenty of
03:59:19.060
secularists who will do marriage yeah there's plenty of secularists who won't have sex until marriage
03:59:24.100
so all sorts of different personal reasons yeah when is the turnover for them if they don't call it
03:59:29.700
marriage they just say they do call it marriage but you just they just they just don't call it
03:59:35.940
marriage through the state they say we're married we're just not married through the state
03:59:44.660
wait so okay going back really quick then i'll move things on um why is it weird again
03:59:50.980
what why is it why is it weird to not get married yeah
03:59:58.180
i mean if that's what you want i mean i guess it's not weird if you really don't want to get married
04:00:03.140
you don't have to sure and like but i was thinking you were saying like what's a secular reason to get
04:00:09.300
married it's just because if mostly if you want to have kids i would think if you don't plan on ever
04:00:15.540
having kids and like wait okay there's no point to get married but let's say i want to have seven
04:00:23.860
sons explain to me how marriage is going to facilitate that well it's just like when you're
04:00:31.140
married your household is more likely to be stable than if you weren't and kids okay so i'm dating a
04:00:38.340
woman we love each other etc what changes before marriage like what's the difference what actually
04:00:50.180
changes like like how does it become more stable because you're committed to each other what do you
04:00:58.420
mean she can go to the legally she can go to step into an attorney's office the day after
04:01:03.140
so what changed is that there's now force well because if you're secular and you're not getting
04:01:09.940
married religiously or legally like how you marry okay we're not talking about that there well hang
04:01:14.740
on hang on he's asking he's asking this question makes it different yeah here's here's the question
04:01:20.260
he's asking he's saying they love each other they adore each other they want to be with each other
04:01:24.340
forever and ever and ever and ever again what changes the day after they sign a marriage contract that
04:01:30.340
suddenly makes them more stable well it's a label and you can you can have the same label after the
04:01:36.420
contract women like labels that's what they want that's why they want to be so i'll even grant to you
04:01:42.100
that women want to get married because they feel more secure but you're talking i'm you need to make a
04:01:51.460
compelling argument for why men should get married and how you feel is not a compelling enough
04:02:00.260
for reason did you want a secular point of view of that because yes well if they know their woman
04:02:06.020
wants to feel stable and that marrying her will make her feel that way then why would i can just
04:02:10.660
reverse this and say i would feel more stable if we didn't get married yeah that would just nullify
04:02:18.260
because if you guys don't agree yeah but if you don't agree why would you even be together well you're
04:02:22.500
asking why it's well she's gonna have to defer to me otherwise i mean if she keeps pushing it that's the
04:02:28.660
end of the relationship i just think most high value women would want to get married and that's
04:02:33.540
why you would do it if you want to attract a high value woman i mean but if you're saying women who
04:02:38.500
are not inclined to get married are low value no i'm not saying that as a blanket statement but i am
04:02:43.700
saying based off trends and analysis it seems like higher value women would want to get married why do these
04:02:50.500
high value women do they and they marry high value men i'm assuming they seem to overwhelmingly end their
04:02:58.660
commitments and relationships by getting divorced um not all people who get married are high value
04:03:04.580
though sure absolutely but it's and also what is a high value woman oh i'm gonna get myself in trouble
04:03:13.060
here okay go ahead i don't know um like has like shares like the same morals as you um like
04:03:26.260
is willing to i don't know cook for you i mean oh she's willing to be submissive sure like okay okay so
04:03:33.380
she's submissive enough to follow my lead and not get married to me
04:03:42.660
wouldn't that be you just uno reversed me i feel like that's what else though what else what else
04:03:47.380
makes a high value woman um i guess just if they're willing to put 100 into the relationship yeah
04:03:54.580
so okay do you so she's submissive right i mean that could be part of it i know that's something for
04:04:02.180
you and i've made the determination and all my wisdom and intellect and so forth that getting a
04:04:08.340
marriage under the state is the wrong move okay and so she has to defer to my decision as the leader
04:04:14.740
and if she's going to be submissive wouldn't that be submissive of her to defer to my position on this
04:04:32.740
crickets i mean um i'm kind of by the way by the way tts is uh 69 if you guys wanted to get
04:04:38.740
it in we've lowered the tts to 69 now now brian i do have an argument yeah on behalf of secular
04:04:45.220
marriage that i've never given to you let's hear it but it's going to blow you out so i just want to
04:04:50.660
make sure all right you ready go ahead yeah from the christian angle secularists should get married
04:04:57.300
because they're going to get the kicked out of them so badly going through this marriage
04:05:02.420
that their likelihood of coming to christ will be greater
04:05:16.660
sure i guess i don't know if that's why they ought to get married and divorced because they're going
04:05:23.540
to get the kicked out of them so badly that their chances of coming to christ are going to be much
04:05:30.100
greater that might be my way back you never know
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it's an interesting one couldn't she be submissive i'll just uh i'll accept the argument i don't
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really have a rebuttal or anything uh it's an interesting one what what's up i was just gonna
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say couldn't she be like submissive in every category except for be like okay but brian if i'm
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gonna be submissive you have to marry me that's her like one caveat it's not submissive to demanding
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stuff vector donated 70 thank you vector this is now the 208th attempt at brian trying to find
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a woman to date disguised as a podcast about dating it looks to me like he is still unsuccessful
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poor brian well i don't make it a habit to uh i date the women who are on the show who come on the
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show uh so this is not a podcast where i'm trying to date the uh the uh panelists but uh vector i
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appreciate it thank you christ his lord donated 69 dollars thank you brian if you don't want to pay
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on the first date for a non-traditional woman why then should a traditional woman go against her
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values for a non-traditional man that wants sex before marriage if i don't want to pay on the first
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date for a non-traditional woman why then should a traditional woman go against i mean if you're a
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traditional woman who wants marriage i'm not the guy for you look i think there there's like this
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sort of uh idea here that it has to be all or nothing when it comes to being traditional uh
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there i think it's more on a spectrum really and people will fall somewhere on the spectrum of
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being traditional or non-traditional i don't claim to be 100 all the way towards traditional
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certainly not obviously andrew calls me a degenerate i have sex before marriage heaven forbid
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um let's see what else i uh look you're a good friend i don't want to get married okay but
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that shit's fucking degenerate bro it's degenerate yeah you say i'm a coomer bro you say i'm a coomer
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because i have oh my i i have long-term monogamous relationships and i have sex with them where
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do you find your definition for traditional from well i don't really i don't know if i even well
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because you say it falls on a spectrum sure where do you get your traditional from where do i get
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traditional yeah what do you use well i mean like somebody who falls in line into
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uh you know the sort of traditional expectations that align with people's respective uh sex so for
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males you're going to be more you know more masculine you're going to be a provider protector
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um how did you learn that how did you learn which what were the respective traditional roles
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how did i is it just because that's what you like okay but that's that's where our i guess our belief
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comes in it's god gave us those respective roles it's a hierarchy created by god well just assume
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you're talking to somebody who's secular i can just i can just reject your position outright
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well you still can't answer you say society okay where'd society get it from well i mean we can even
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look to societies that are uh perhaps were more uh atheist in their conduct or even societies that
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predate uh well i mean there's all kinds of you know the greeks and the romans they had their
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religions and whatnot but um i mean there's a component of i think tradition that would supersede religion
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usually those that fall outside of what we call tradition have a moral practice well hold on but like so
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while i would say that people who are religious tend to lean more traditional
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i'm failing to i guess follow the argument here well you said traditional is so traditional comes from
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because any any society outside of a biblical traditional standard has immoral practice and
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they usually have a lot of crazy ways of it sure it could be but i mean like um
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would you agree that there are atheist men who are more traditional than christian men well my
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whole point is where did you get your definition of traditional miriam webster right but the root of
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how about you answer my question first before you ask me a question so are there some atheist men who
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are more traditional than christian men i've come across several i honestly don't think so it might be very
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rare but is it possible i'm not saying it's impossible but there's always an exception right um
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okay well i'm just wondering because you said you lean more traditional but then you said it's on a
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spectrum so i said okay if you're secular and your traditional aligns with the views of biblical
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traditional roles then your secular are wait could you not be an atheist and like
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also look at the traditional gender dynamics and even as an atheist come to the conclusion that this is
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a this is a better way of maneuvering through a relationship and through the world than like
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other kinds of uh relationship gender relationship dynamics well the establishment of those roles
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came perhaps the genesis of it stems from religion although you could even make an argument that
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there's a biological and evolutionary basis that has nothing to do with religion well
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that's probably not let me ask you a question prior to any religion ever existing do you think that
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the men and women the way they conducted themselves was traditional say that one more time sorry i'm
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prior to the uh coming about of any religion whether it's predates christianity even uh do you think
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that people in were traditional i think we in the fucking i don't own their cavemen or some
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shit i think we had our natural roles based on our creation and our abilities our abilities
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they were given to us let's assume there was a an island where uh you put a group of people and you
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know maybe they were very young and they were not uh told about any sort of religion right wouldn't it
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stand to reason that the sort of traditional dynamics in which you find desirable uh or that comport
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themselves to uh christian theology or christian faith or that are more uh similar to that or that
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what's how's the best way to frame this uh would it be
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would it be unlikely that a traditional dynamic between these people on this island could it not
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manifest itself absent religion i mean my answer is probably gonna annoy you but the reason that would
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occur is because of the way we were created so our abilities would naturally establish a hierarchy
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based on our creation wait can i ask you a question let's say there was like a um
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um let's say there was a civilization uh are you familiar with the sentinelese i've heard of it not
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familiar um uh they're this uh i think the most uh uncontacted tribe it's uh a territory of india it's uh
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i don't know the exact precise location but it's called the north sentinelese island uh they're
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uncontacted they're not familiar with christianity at all as far as i know um i mean would
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they probably have some degree of traditional gender dynamics in their uncontacted society okay
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okay so what does christianity have to do with them and their traditional the way they perhaps more
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traditionally conduct themselves well with or without someone believing in it it doesn't negate the
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fact of we have our respective roles based on who created us and how we were created that's why
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men are typically a more dominant role because they're created in god's image so that's why they're
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stronger smarter uh leaders and that's why you have women go down the next chain they were created in the
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likeness of man but they're lesser so that's why we're weaker but we have other strengths men to
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nurture then you go down the chain you have children so women are not um not even from the christian
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paradigm women are not lesser well lesser in the sense of when i say lesser i mean the argument the
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people make like they're physically weaker to jill donated 69 dollars what's another name for coming
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inside a woman loading the dishwasher nice well by that argument then you'd be saying that children
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that children are lesser so perhaps that's just not the verbiage that you wanted to use right or
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perhaps just not the word you wanted to use ontologically women are and children are every
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bit as valuable as men are right they have the same value as men uh there's a hierarchy of order i think
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that's what you're alluding to right yeah yeah okay okay i mean i get called a misogynist all the
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time even i don't think women have a lesser value than men right i just think that there's a hierarchy
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christ his lord donated 69 andrew regarding the paradox if a woman has been redeemed what argument
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justifies her to continue engaging in depraved and sinful acts against god because her man says
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it's not fair nothing but that actually uh moves into the paradox so the great paradox is from from
04:16:14.180
the perspective of the secularists think about it think about it from both angles you're only thinking
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about it from your angle from your angle you say but she's reformed she's come to christ and she
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doesn't want to do that type of behavior anymore that's totally valid brian would agree that that's
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completely valid but he also would say it's really funny though that you came to christ before you were
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dating me and all these other men were able to get between those legs within the first three dates
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and i have to wait four six months it seems like it's awful convenient so while it's true that inside
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of a vacuum we can say yes that's what we want women to do and i agree with that a hundred percent you're
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not going to be able to displace the argument from brian that isn't that awful convenient that you do it just
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before you start dating me right so i guess i suppose every uh in every woman who reforms there
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has to be the first one brian just says i don't want to be that one right and isn't it super hard to
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blame them but that's where the paradox comes in it's like who's going to blame them well i have a
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question so i i agree with brian's point but say when she was living that life she was a of lower
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value meaning she brought less to the table and then she went through a period of growth and maturity
04:17:36.820
she held off from it because obviously she can't wipe away her past and then decides you know she's
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going to approach relationships differently while also trying to bring more to the table what would you
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say this is a this is an argument which is now being had in almost every major metropolitan
04:17:56.980
protestant church orthodox and catholic church across the country just in very hushed whispers
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there is a slew now of women because so many are have been some form of sex worker at this point the
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number is staggering who later regret this decision and move over into christianity but the christian
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men's perspective on this is that i still do not want to date her because she was a sex worker
04:18:29.700
right and so the women complain but wait i was forgiven for my sins which is true you were forgiven
04:18:37.460
christ forgives and forever more uh may you find uh you know all of the joy in life that you deserve
04:18:45.140
but that does not entitle you to a husband who does not prefer to have a sex worker nor a woman with a high
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body count and so what happens is women go to the church for a shield but for the wrong shield they're
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supposed to go to the church for a shield of faith so that they can enter into the kingdom of heaven and
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repent humbly of their sin they're not supposed to go to church to get a shield from criticism for
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being hoarse that is not what that is there for and so this debate rages where the feminists have
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infiltrated the church and stated no these women deserve the kind of husband because they have reformed
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that they want uh but that is simply not the case jesus you get the salvation for the sin that you've
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done when you humbly go to the church your request forgiveness does not entitle you to a husband
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who is going to look past the demons of your past he doesn't have to deal with that if i i want to add
04:19:45.380
to what andrew's saying uh so like former only fans girls sex workers high body count promiscuous women
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they can be saved by christ but christian men do not need to then disregard their baggage and marry them
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and i think that these are completely compatible well i guess i was talking about aside from
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the baggage her morally and value-wise increasing like like i said bringing more to the table
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like okay which is everything you want in a woman i feel like andrew's answered this before but
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everything you want a woman but she was misled in her younger years and made then it's not everything
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you want in a woman it's a contradiction in terms so you can imagine me saying that the highest highest
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priority i have is a woman let's say in brian's case he says one of the highest values i have is a woman
04:20:43.700
who has a very low body count and you say okay but what if it's the perfect woman absent this thing my
04:20:49.540
argument to you would be well then it's not the perfect woman right because it doesn't fall within the
04:20:53.780
guidelines of what he considers a perfect woman to be which is a low body count so what happens is this
04:20:58.980
great circle right but wait i'm now i'm now everything that you wanted that's great but what
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about the fact that you still have this criteria that i want less than any other criteria and so i
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don't know how women offset that i just want to let you know men are completely revolted by women with
04:21:17.140
high body counts it's ingrained and here's why it's ingrained it's ingrained because men only recently
04:21:22.500
could be assured of paternity oh that's a recent invention where you could go get a paternity test
04:21:27.220
and know that your offspring was yours that's that was elusive to men kings would have given kingdoms to
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have known if the prodigy was theirs or not if the offspring was there theirs or not um now we can do
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this but it's so ingrained in us that we have a woman who is completely and totally monogamous to us
04:21:50.980
only so that we can assure the offspring is ours that we find it completely revolting if they have
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a high body count because from from our perspective it almost assures the offspring will not be ours
04:22:04.020
and we will end up being cuckolded the assurance of the offspring not being yours or that be because
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you can't trust her to not be promiscuous in the precepts of the relationship yeah right so the the less
04:22:17.220
women or the less men a woman has been with right the more assurance that imagine there's no paternity
04:22:23.860
tests tell me how you guarantee that the child from a man's perspective think of it only from a man's
04:22:28.980
perspective there's no paternity tests you tell me the criteria you would use to assure that your
04:22:34.660
offspring was yours yeah that makes sense i can't i can't say anything to that that makes yeah it makes
04:22:41.780
perfect sense right so then wouldn't it make sense also that you were completely revolted there was a
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revolting aspect to women who had been with a lot of men because that ingrained in a man assures them
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that they push away the women who could not assure the offspring is theirs yeah i guess what my question
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was was like say there's a break in the track record like a a good set of time meaning like
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like i'll give a time frame to make it easier to understand a lot of girls in high school now
04:23:15.780
specifically are being fed these terrible morals and values and really immature and don't understand
04:23:23.940
the consequences of it yeah then they finally what uh what sex are most of the teachers in high school
04:23:29.780
by the way female and male so who's teaching all these women to be sluts i wonder well okay that i
04:23:38.100
completely agree with trust me we could agree on that but i guess my point would be she was had no
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guidance and was led by the world found christ and was saved from those ideas but because beforehand
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i guess so this would be outside of sex work i guess you could say this would be immature
04:23:58.020
promiscuity promiscuity but then decided to go the right way and showed a track record of let's
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say celibacy then would that still fall under the point that you made because you're talking about
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yes it falls under the same point i'll explain how very quickly right
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it it really doesn't christ will save your soul okay and christ will bring you joy and there really
04:24:26.820
is no pathway it's as far as i'm concerned in life other than jesus christ he is the lord and savior of
04:24:32.180
all things it's not going to ever negate the fact that a man is going to be disgusted by the fact you
04:24:38.900
fuck 50 dudes and you can say well wait but i only did that 10 years ago because i was misled that
04:24:46.100
sucks i'm sorry that you were misled and i'm sorry that you fuck well not you right i'm just saying
04:24:51.380
the hypothetical woman we're talking about yeah i would say i'm sorry that you fuck 50 guys and
04:24:56.900
because you were misled but how does that entitle you to me i guess i'm just you guys are thinking really
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high numbers i guess in my mind i'm not thinking that high because in my well whatever it is let's say it's
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it's ten let's say it's five and five is too many let's say it's one and one is too many how are you
04:25:14.820
entitled in any way shape or form to a man drawing the boundary that they don't want to be with a
04:25:21.060
woman who's ever been with a man besides themselves just because they've been saved by christ that
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doesn't even make sense right that doesn't even make sense when you think about it right i wasn't
04:25:31.540
saying it was like an entitlement i guess i was just asking your perspective on that there's men
04:25:37.780
who will look past all sorts of things and god bless them okay god bless those men who will look
04:25:43.220
past all sorts of things but here's the truth the truth is is that most aren't going to most aren't
04:25:48.900
going to most men who are in churches and they want to find a woman of faith who shares their same
04:25:57.380
values are running into this wall over and over again where it turns out that this woman is a
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multi-tier divorcee single mom former sex worker this and that they don't want that
04:26:08.580
shit they don't want it and the thing is is that they rage they literally are pounding on the glass
04:26:14.500
every day they're like you guys got to stop this think about your future you know what women say
04:26:19.300
oh it's fine i'll be rich that's fine i'll be rich you know how much money i make on only fans i'll be
04:26:24.580
rich brian has done a call to action now i've counted i've counted right he's done it over 20 times while
04:26:30.260
i've been on the program 20 times he's done a call to action to women will you quit your only fans
04:26:35.380
career after now knowing the information that you did not have before and you know what they always
04:26:39.780
say every single time flat out no yeah so they don't care so they don't care and if they don't care
04:26:47.380
about their own future then why should i care about them being damned by it they damn themselves
04:26:54.500
they just go i don't care because don't okay who gives a shit that's 10 years from now and as we
04:27:01.220
all know every woman on planet earth is going to be even hotter in 10 years they're going to be even
04:27:05.860
hotter in 20 years just ask them they're going to be the hottest shit that's ever existed in 20 years
04:27:11.940
all you got to do is ask them right they all say the same shit and then lo and behold panda
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donated 69 dollars sorry i'll skip it go ahead go ahead yeah then lo and behold what ends up
04:27:22.340
happening they 20 years have hits and they're like fuck i'm not hotter shit i do have a lot of baggage
04:27:29.620
damn i really probably shouldn't have put naked pictures of me sticking a dildo up my vagina on the
04:27:35.540
internet boy that really came back to bite me in the ass and men go they just kind of shrug right
04:27:42.340
they're like but everybody fucking told you and the women are like yeah but i did listen but
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don't worry it's okay now because i'm saved by christ
04:27:52.660
okay yeah that's pretty i do have to move things on some of these chats come in the legendary trash
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panda donated 69 look bricks and real talk discord popping off we got 20 people in discord on this
04:28:07.140
drinking game this must be trash much love bruv also chair one i will worship your feet keep adjusting
04:28:14.340
your belt what now carry on uh there's three more coming through by the way three more coming
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through schlagolas donated 69 dollars thank you man i can imagine the percentage chance of this
04:28:28.260
traditional low body count woman is lower than the gold digging huge mouth girl from earlier finding a
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thank you schlag-schlag-la-lo-lo-schlag-la-less
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the legendary trash panda donated 69 dollars look bricks and real talk thank you discord popping off
04:28:55.140
we got 20 people in discord on this drinking game much love bruv also chair one i will worship
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your feet what keep adjusting your belt now carry on okay okay but here's the thing there's another
04:29:09.220
one coming in just if you're doing a drinking game discord then after the show i'm coming
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larry reynolds donated 69 dollars yo larry thank you i agree with andrew so then how do we keep pop
04:29:19.460
growth from going to zero import more third worlders still have to solve the social problem
04:29:26.340
nope that won't work either because their birth rates drop down to the same as all domestic u.s
04:29:31.460
citizens within a generation it doesn't work and birth rates in the third world are dropping as well
04:29:37.460
right the only cure for this is to push christian values against degeneracy there's nothing else that
04:29:44.100
can be done the nihilists have no answers for this we've lived under progressive rule and look what it's
04:29:49.700
done it's a nightmare it's literally a dystopian nightmare most of these women and brian i think can
04:29:55.940
attest to this you tell me if i'm way off base but most of these women in 20 years are going to
04:30:00.260
fucking regret all the shit that they tell you to your face right now that is totally fine and they love
04:30:07.140
and they enjoy and you can't stop them no matter what you say am i wrong i don't think you're wrong
04:30:12.900
andrew i don't think you're wrong uh yo bob evans thank you for the gifted 20 memberships really
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appreciate it thank you bob evans you're a legend w's in the chat for bob bobby boy uh let's see let's
04:30:24.500
get back to nessa here um well we've already kind of talked about the marriage stuff you said you'd like
04:30:29.300
to talk about the importance of traditional gender roles and the downplay of the value of intimacy in
04:30:33.460
society nowadays you believe uh people should date for marriage you believe respecting your
04:30:38.420
husband and loving your wife are some of the most important things a couple can do for their marriage
04:30:42.740
you're from a broken home and have you seen this play out in your parents marriage oh wait i i apologize
04:30:46.900
i already read that um you was in terms of the disagreements you said the intensity black and
04:30:53.700
whiteness of some of the host takes uh you believe there's gray area was there anything else besides the
04:30:58.340
marriage thing not really that's it yeah you said some of the hosts takes which makes me think that
04:31:07.620
there's more than just one yeah like maybe if you were if you had brought up another topic because
04:31:14.340
like what about the bow video let's have you seen the bow video no i haven't seen you don't know about
04:31:19.140
the bow video let's do the bow video really quick before we do the bow video though guys i have a good
04:31:23.460
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of course i'm gonna hijack the show just for a second i'm gonna i'm gonna throw whatever modicum
04:32:52.420
of clout uh and friendship i have with brian to make a very quick emotional appeal to the entire
04:32:59.460
audience i'm asking all of you to go out november 5th and vote for donald j trump and my argument is
04:33:07.380
very simple and i'm sure the host can disavow this and of course whatever is not responsible for what i'm
04:33:12.020
about to say i do not want to listen to kamala harris's fucking voice for four years it sounds
04:33:18.740
like a dystopian nightmare she's awful in every conceivable way listening to this woman talk for
04:33:25.700
four years my job i'm a political commentator please save me from this save brian and every human being
04:33:36.180
from having to listen to this woman's obnoxious voice for four years i beg all of you to go to
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the polls november 5th and make sure you cast your ballot for one donald j trump so that we don't have
04:33:48.420
to hear that shit that's it right no objections at all from me by the way me and andrew are going to be
04:33:58.500
doing a election day stream election day stream can't wait for it yeah that's so there there's
04:34:04.580
not going to be a dating talk on that tuesday november the 5th but me and andrew are going to be
04:34:08.820
co-streaming uh election day streams so be sure to tune in for that and uh thank you andrew for the for
04:34:16.500
the uh uh psa public service announcement i guess um okay uh nessa you said your ex was a little intense
04:34:26.260
and was very opinionated he would make jokes that would make you sad he also came from a broken
04:34:31.220
home and the consequences of that showed a lot in the way he navigated the relationship he required
04:34:37.140
a lot of respect and attention that myself at the time wasn't providing yeah wait are you able to like
04:34:45.220
shift your chair to like be a little more facing straight just because the mic's kind of cutting your
04:34:50.020
face off so turn the mic a little bit too so it's like you can tilt it up a little bit um
04:34:59.940
so when you say your ex was intense what do you mean like aggressive but not like aggressive and you
04:35:08.820
said very opinionated do you mean politically opinionated no just like everything else like
04:35:14.980
he would be like i don't like that and if i didn't agree with him he was like upset he would
04:35:20.660
get like butt hurt he would get butt hurt okay um you said that uh he required a lot of respect and
04:35:30.100
attention that you at the time you weren't providing you were so you weren't respecting him no but i was
04:35:36.260
also like 16 i didn't really want to be told what to do okay um
04:35:47.620
do you respect your current partner you've been dating for 17 months yes okay all right well
04:35:54.340
i don't know if there's anything did you before i move it on was there any other of the disagreements
04:35:58.820
that you had like with you or andrew with no not that i can think about this okay let's do the bow video
04:36:14.340
yeah and we'll probably play boom so this is actually my ex-girlfriend guys so i have the
04:36:21.300
expectation that as soon as i step into my penthouse apartment uh i want a bow she also
04:36:28.660
does my laundry for me in fact on the first date i the girl should be doing laundry but that's
04:36:33.540
another conversation was this a skit no this is the i mean i recorded it just to show you like
04:36:39.540
so she's got the food ready she cracked open my beer stirred my noodles um brian it can't be your
04:36:47.780
ex-girlfriend i can i can point out that i i i'm gonna catch you in a lie uh right here live on
04:36:54.100
whatever i'm pretty confident that that chick has fake breasts she so she got the fake breasts
04:37:03.060
um that's actually why we broke up that was the last she surprised me she surprised me i was gone
04:37:11.700
for a month and i you know i get home and i take this video um that's why she was stirring the noodles so
04:37:19.540
in uh intensely because she knew she up and then after that video i dumped her after i wait so this
04:37:26.420
was an apology bow no no that was the normal bow okay that was normal bow but then i ate the food
04:37:33.460
first and the beer then i dumped her makes sense okay yeah so that's my ex-girlfriend um would you guys
04:37:42.180
would you bow for your boyfriend husband starting with you yes but he wouldn't ask me to do that
04:37:50.420
because it's kind of weird but yes you would do it i would yeah would you bow maybe as like a joke
04:37:56.580
between us i don't know if i i don't know if i want to give you that out let's say it's it's
04:38:03.060
good intentioned if he was everything but it's not a joke if he was everything i wanted in a man
04:38:10.100
sure okay um i guess so you guys scoot into the table please go ahead probably and i'd also suck his
04:38:18.980
toes watch so there's that yes sounds like you have just kidding okay that's cool what about you
04:38:27.460
probably um yes and we already do bow at each other so sweet absolutely not would not bow your
04:38:35.300
even to your husband absolutely not wait i love my husband okay we'll come right back to that would
04:38:40.740
you bow for yes for your okay all right you're the kind of the one person out here uh your your
04:38:46.820
husband wait question do you consider yourself like a submissive woman though um in certain ways i guess
04:38:54.500
not traditionally are you but you're you're like conservative are you are you christian no oh
04:39:01.300
you're not christian okay um okay um so wouldn't bow to your so your husband like in that video you
04:39:09.220
don't have to do that other shit like the scampering around and doing the you know running after the
04:39:14.180
clothes and the food whatever just that which three seconds the bow no why why what's the point of it
04:39:20.260
he finds it respectful i don't i would never be with a man who would need me to bow to him so you
04:39:30.100
divorce you ever get on your knees and let him jizz on your face and true i'm not answering that
04:39:39.300
question well i mean i think chances are pretty good you probably do i just i think that that's a lot
04:39:45.140
more over the top than a fucking bow and that's the argument i make is i'm not well i mean you roll
04:39:52.100
your eyes but i mean isn't it a little more over the top to get on your knees and take a load to the
04:39:57.700
face than to give a bow i i agree with you whoops my bad i'm not i'm not disagreeing yeah but no i still
04:40:05.540
wouldn't bow to my husband no well i'm curious you should try it like when you see him just do it once
04:40:11.460
just like as like a joke you know just be like hey babe i was on this like toxic podcast and do
04:40:18.260
the bow my husband's probably watching this podcast yeah and you know what he's thinking
04:40:23.940
right now is he's like yeah that guy andrew just made a really good point in argument valley he's
04:40:28.100
like wait a second he's right wait a second that's a really good point that that guy just made wait wait
04:40:34.420
a minute that's what literally i'm gonna tell i'm telling you this right you're gonna go home
04:40:38.340
and you're gonna be he's gonna be like how did i do on the podcast he's gonna be like you did great
04:40:41.540
honey it was a lot of fun you really stood out he's gonna say all the shit right but in his mind
04:40:46.900
right this second as he's watching this he's like and that guy that guy's a really good
04:40:50.980
fucking point wait she'll literally a load on the thing but won't back like that makes no
04:40:55.940
sense he's thinking i'm telling you the gears are thinking still now no okay all right i have a
04:41:03.140
question was that like an everyday expectation the way she like runs around like she that was
04:41:08.740
like an everyday yes in fact she used to walk normally but then i insisted that she scampered
04:41:14.020
around you know scampered yes so i trained her what exactly do you train to a relationship that would
04:41:24.020
compel a woman to to do that for you i'm just curious yeah what do i what do i bring to a relationship
04:41:30.820
well other than sexual because that's sexual you're right my sexual prowess is unmatched
04:41:38.660
um thank you for no that's not what i was saying i just didn't care to hear about it i appreciate
04:41:43.700
the endorsement i'm putting it on my resume thank you okay uh yes it is fantastic the sexual prowess
04:41:51.140
in fact it's crazy though you know what's unfair is like y'all can come like 10 times and you know
04:41:59.700
multiple times and and i'm over here like once but that's unfair i thought you were average
04:42:09.540
what does that have to do with i don't know just it's the your sexual prowess but you're average
04:42:18.420
i was hoping to like skip that part of the conversation that's why i said that
04:42:22.660
why it seems like we did what what what does that have to do with your ability to make a woman climax
04:42:30.660
i don't want to break it down for you brian oh your boyfriend has a small dick is that what you're
04:42:36.180
saying no i'm saying you're average according to you that doesn't like the average man can't make a
04:42:42.900
woman come or something i would say like wait they can do that you would say what go ahead sorry i
04:42:51.380
would say that she has a point like you're saying 10 times that's like pretty over average yeah if
04:42:59.860
you're like and you say you're able to make a girl do that if you're the one directly doing it
04:43:04.500
right yeah the logic doesn't really follow here so is what you were insinuating that you could
04:43:10.020
you were insinuating that you could make a girl come if she has the capacities yes not all women
04:43:16.660
are multi-orgasmic like that of course but like saying it's not fair that we get to yeah i'm not
04:43:22.580
saying all women can come in like 10 times in a sexual encounter that's not what i'm saying
04:43:29.780
well i think that what she was saying she was just saying that maybe men who are above average can
04:43:36.260
consistently do that for a woman just saying it was are you trying to is this like an attempt to
04:43:42.820
dig here like i already said i was average like you bringing it up isn't like offensive to me i'm
04:43:50.740
a little confused i don't think she's trying to offend that's all i'm trying to say what were you
04:43:55.460
trying to do were you trying to make a funny thank you yeah wow that that was great thank you tell us
04:44:02.740
another joke while you're at it you're like unnecessarily just kind of annoying but whoa
04:44:09.860
whoa whoa whoa what do you mean by unnecessarily it's just derailing the conversation to just whatever
04:44:18.260
can we get can i get my question answered i'm actually what was your question so for
04:44:25.620
for you to you know she already does what she does and then you're like i want more scamper whatever
04:44:30.660
sure what is it that you provide that would compel her to do so sure i mean i can go into that uh
04:44:42.740
well first off in terms of my ability to actually provide since you use the word provide i'm a one
04:44:51.540
percent i'm in the one percentile when it comes to earning capacity so if you're a woman and you're
04:44:57.140
dating me you're never gonna have to work another day in your life so instead of you having to labor
04:45:02.580
for the next 40 years i think that's a lot of value now explain what they're bringing to the table
04:45:10.180
well i have no idea what you expect your i know what you said the providing financially that makes
04:45:18.900
sense you know i understand like as soon as he comes home from work you should be ready to like
04:45:24.900
nurture and cater because he just labored for you i guess i was talking more of like because to a woman
04:45:31.860
that maybe just me it would be like i'm more for like um mental providing like what kind of mental
04:45:39.940
stability or emotional stability a stability do you give that would just make me just do so here i can
04:45:47.700
actually explain this very easily have you ever been in a long-term relationship where you've slept in the
04:45:53.780
same bed with a man yes have you ever had a bad dream that he was cheating on you and then took it
04:46:00.660
up with him either the next morning or even woke him up because you were so upset by this dream that you
04:46:07.300
had i actually i honestly have never had a dream like that it was reverse roles have you ever had a dream
04:46:17.460
which upset you and then you required his attention the next day to discuss the upsetting nature of the
04:46:23.380
dream yes so you expect that a man will placate your irrational nonsensical fears right okay interestingly
04:46:34.980
enough here most men have to deal with placating women's irrational nonsensical fears all the time
04:46:41.140
right women do not have any expectation to placate men's irrational nonsensical fear in fact they can
04:46:49.220
say to them honey that's stupid that's dumb right they can say all of those things and that's completely
04:46:55.780
socially fine to do to uh not do anything to placate an irrational fear of a man however men non-stop
04:47:05.060
all the time in almost every relationship have to placate irrational nonsensical stupid fears of women
04:47:13.540
all the time so when you ask what are you going to do to make me feel secure
04:47:18.660
well chances are pretty good that brian like every other man on planet earth has had to placate
04:47:24.180
irrational nonsensical or stupid fears that a woman has that are based on absolutely nothing other than
04:47:29.300
chemicals shooting to her brain during her time of the month right wouldn't you say that that's valid
04:47:37.780
honestly yeah that makes sense like it's like if someone said something like one of my best friends
04:47:46.020
he like if he comes to me with something i'll give him like a logical response but i guess yeah if i was
04:47:50.980
answering but you don't want no logical response right but if i want no logical response at all you want
04:47:56.580
your irrational stupid ass fear to be placated with oh honey it's fine oh sweetheart it's okay
04:48:03.300
oh don't worry here take this big hug i'm here for you oh it's great oh it's okay oh you know that's what
04:48:10.820
you want right i'm curious would a man in actually want a woman to do that like with that no no no
04:48:18.900
because they're not they don't have insane irrational fears and insane irrational nonsense they don't have
04:48:25.220
that so since they don't have that of course they don't want somebody to placate their irrational
04:48:30.420
nonsensical fear like here here's a really easy example how many women do you know have arachnophobia
04:48:38.820
i'm guilty how many i'm guilty you're guilty yeah you know what i do when i see a spider right
04:48:45.060
especially like a big ugly one i take my bare hand and just smash it right there on the spot i don't
04:48:51.700
even think anything of it okay just bam dead walk off right meanwhile oh my god
04:49:01.860
that's irration literally an irrational fear right you are hundreds of times this thing's weight
04:49:10.260
right there is no possible way it could ever defend itself against you and yet you have an irrational fear
04:49:17.300
that a man needs to placate right this is by the way this is men's experience over and over and over
04:49:23.140
and over and over and over and over that they deal with all of these irrational fears that they have
04:49:29.140
to placate so when women say it's kind of these asinite nonsensical things like well what are you
04:49:33.780
going to do to make me feel emotionally secure it's like oh come on come on what doesn't a man do to
04:49:40.500
make women feel emotionally secure every irrational nonsensical crazy ass thing that pops into their
04:49:47.620
brain just due to chemical imbalances they can have through seven days out of the month they're
04:49:53.140
placating all the time thank you chevyman donated 69 dollars yeah thank you as an agnostic w slash ce
04:50:04.660
barring nihilism and subjecting myself to the human experience secular marriage is still conducive
04:50:10.820
to lifelong pair bonding a grand gesture of love from the man to the woman yeah what does the man
04:50:16.340
get oh well no actually just granted granting it's even easier sure well and how is that made better by
04:50:24.340
the state being involved in it and his answer is well it's not so why not just declare yourselves
04:50:31.540
married and be done with it makes no sense we're talking about the bow video i think we need to
04:50:41.940
show bow video 2.0 the girls will like it maybe i don't know andrew doesn't like it i like the first part
04:51:01.540
so i i think this is great the first part of this anyways you know that's wonderful
04:51:10.740
you know putting on the slipper uh what the wait
04:51:17.060
oh no oh no what the fuck dude the first part's good the end part there not not so much but um
04:51:39.780
i want to know which part is actually is it he doesn't like the dishwashing part or the bowing part
04:51:47.060
andrew the part where the guy goes and does no no no no no no i don't care if that guy goes and does
04:51:53.300
fucking dishes when he gets home right i don't give a shit about any of that i care that he put on
04:51:58.260
on camera that he's a submissive bitch that's what i care about the idea here is oh no i submit to
04:52:03.860
it's mutual submission that's the part that i object to okay yeah uh let's see here we had to do
04:52:12.500
uh oh like really on it honestly like just think about it from even from your guys's perspective right
04:52:18.980
if your dude was such a bitch he was like yeah i'm gonna make a video with you where you can put an apron
04:52:23.380
on me and demasculate me and make me look like a little so that we have mutual submission come on
04:52:28.420
right you'd be like get the fuck away from me right you'd be get the fuck away from me wouldn't you
04:52:34.740
am i way off here it's kind of embarrassing to the girl yeah a little bit it's a cringe right it's cringe
04:52:44.420
i mean it's because you want your man to preface like a strong
04:52:47.700
well identity you want his bitch ass to put on an apron and go do the dishes on video so that he
04:52:55.700
can be part of women's egalitarian come on you guys you would look at that and be like get away
04:53:01.300
from me dude what's wrong with you that's the truth getting into the final notes here and then we
04:53:09.460
have more for you uh allison you said your first ever relationship was set up by girls who posed as
04:53:15.780
your friends but turned out to be your biggest haters the man was known cheater and your entire
04:53:21.700
grade level helped him get away with it and knew about it through the entire one-year relationship
04:53:28.020
um this was in grade school but i entered public school in seventh grade and wait grade school
04:53:37.060
so you were seventh seventh grade yes it goes into high school but it starts there and so you how old
04:53:46.820
were you oh 13 so you lost your virginity at 12 or 13 no no no it was later
04:53:57.540
oh towards high school you well you said it was about it through the entire one-year relationship
04:54:06.900
come to find out he only dated me to take my virginity but the relationship didn't start till later
04:54:12.660
okay but you asked about the girls so i was gonna sure sure start there well i i came in as a
04:54:21.060
christian school girl innocent so the girls who went to church with me on the bus route which is
04:54:27.460
like transportation for kids who don't have it um they kind of like set me up for failure
04:54:34.500
plotted on me to be my friends i guess convinced me to get with this guy knew of his
04:54:41.700
his record of cheating and hit it i am really confused by this story i'm sorry do you mind if
04:54:49.940
we back up okay so there's this guy that yeah yeah just really briefly i just have one quick quick
04:54:54.820
question um did you say it was on a bus route which is transportation for kids who don't have
04:55:02.740
transportation to church the girls i grew up with them in church that's how i knew that
04:55:11.860
so like i grew up around them and then eventually went to public school with them sorry that was
04:55:15.620
like a okay the center for kids who can't read the derrick sealander center for kids who don't read
04:55:22.100
good sorry go ahead go ahead um anyways um they convinced me to try to get in a relationship with
04:55:31.780
this guy and i was super innocent didn't really know much kind of trusted these girls
04:55:38.020
um he dated me to lose his virginity because the girls he wanted to get with wouldn't sleep with
04:55:48.180
a virgin so that was his whole reason for getting with me and then his gotcha was i was the innocent
04:55:55.300
girl nobody could have and when the losing of the virginity took place and you were a virgin at the time
04:56:05.460
yes and the my entire grade level knew about it like a whole grade level of people and they collectively
04:56:13.380
helped him hide it from me because everybody kind of laughed at me for being the christian girl so
04:56:19.460
it was like everybody's big joke on me to like lead me into making that mistake and i was
04:56:29.220
innocent never been exposed to it so i fell to the influence and yeah wait wait wait wait what do you
04:56:36.900
mean never been exposed to it you were raised you were raised in a christian household your parents
04:56:42.100
never told you not to have sex yeah they did um well yes but i mean yeah of course they did like
04:56:49.540
the influence of other people i guess outside of a faithful background so you vowed to peer pressure
04:56:56.020
right yes yeah but that's not a failing it's not a feeling of your parents right it's a feeling of you
04:57:02.420
yeah yeah yeah wait hold on are you actually conceding that it's a failing on your part because
04:57:09.860
you're doing a lot of blame shifting to it was the other students it was the boyfriend well no i was
04:57:16.180
i'm saying that was the motive for the other people but i was the one do you i'm curious though
04:57:22.820
because i mean this is like a grand seventh grade conspiracy here do you have any evidence it goes
04:57:29.060
into freshman year of high school i it started so they how big was the class because you said it was
04:57:35.060
the entire class i would say like how big was the class hundreds of kids 200 to so 200 kids
04:57:43.620
can not be entire but a good majority because so okay 100 plus seventh graders conspired to have you
04:57:52.340
lose your virginity freshman fresh what do you mean i met him in seventh grade okay you met him in
04:57:58.580
seventh grade you were freshman in high school 100 freshmen in high school conspired to have
04:58:05.460
majority yeah it was majority girls because as soon as it like happened and then i figured out he was
04:58:13.220
cheating everybody kind of came forward and admitted to it admitted to what what they did like how they
04:58:19.540
like schemed it what did they scheme they i was the innocent christian girl and they all made fun
04:58:26.580
me for it so they thought it'd be funny to kind of like set me up with this guy how long did you
04:58:32.580
date him for uh it was i would say like because consistently for a year and it wasn't until like right
04:58:41.540
up to the end like at the end that we had sex you know what i hate the most about homeschooling
04:58:52.820
weirdos is that their kids aren't properly socialized in public school if only they were
04:58:58.660
properly socialized like you were um that's that's why that's why that's why i'm such an advocate against
04:59:04.820
homeschooling well it was it was my fault i never went to my parents for advice i didn't have a good
04:59:12.580
relationship with my parents at that age so i didn't feel like i could go to them about it
04:59:18.580
it and same thing with my siblings so i kind of like tried to find family and my friends
04:59:26.340
and that led me to fall to bad influences or bow to and uh how old were you so were you still a
04:59:36.500
freshman when you guys ended up having sex yes okay so you're like 14 15 yes 14 yes okay
04:59:45.060
um and he was also in on the conspiracy yes because he wanted to lose it
04:59:57.060
he was a virgin too yes because the girls were that he wanted were hoes and they wouldn't take
05:00:03.300
it from they wouldn't take an innocent boy's virginity because they didn't want him emotionally
05:00:08.180
attached it was and the crazy part is i know all this because everyone just kind of like told me
05:00:13.620
as like a haha to me i don't get that component of the of it though because if he was so uh immoral
05:00:22.900
and his motivation was to sleep with these whore women in high school uh why wouldn't he just lie to
05:00:30.020
them and say he's not a virgin uh some they knew from his friends i guess i never dug that deep well
05:00:38.500
yeah i'm sure it doesn't really make sense but but like he lied to you but he wouldn't lie to the
05:00:50.180
huh lied to me about what his intentions from what it sounds like right yeah he he hid his intentions
05:00:59.300
uh if you want to go that deep into it they was all like a friend group and his friends got play and
05:01:06.740
he didn't so there was like a joke and they knew the girls and he wanted in on it but the girls knew so
05:01:15.060
okay um it was just it was a weird i don't know it was just a weird occurrence and like i know that if
05:01:23.140
i like it this it was just a you asked for history so i gave you some uh you said your first ever
05:01:31.940
non-physically intimate relationship was also a year and he broke up with you by showing up to school
05:01:36.580
covered in hickeys oh hickeys yeah after you got him a plethora of gifts for christmas okay uh your
05:01:45.860
third relationship never made it to the official dating title and you were strung along the whole time
05:01:50.420
and you finally cut off after he disappeared in the amusement amusement park while out with family
05:01:55.220
and we couldn't find him until the end of the day where he was waiting at the car my most recent
05:02:00.740
relationship was toxic how was it toxic um uh i had never come across a narcissist before
05:02:13.940
okay and i know you're gonna ask how was he i actually had to like research the
05:02:18.260
traits of a narcissist so so you diagnosed him i kind of was like i didn't know what was wrong with
05:02:26.660
him like like so you diagnosed him i guess you can i'll go i'll have to visit well okay well i don't
05:02:33.300
know if i can guess that the like i would just like to know did a professional psychologist with a degree
05:02:39.860
no diagnose him or did you diagnose him i guess you had narcissistic traits okay a couple questions
05:02:47.700
here really quick and then andrew i'll pass it off to you um how old were you when you dated him
05:02:53.780
this is my recent one okay and you're 20 right right so we started dating like 19 19 okay so you said it
05:03:02.340
lasted about a year uh you later discovered he was a narcissist and he verbally abused you
05:03:09.620
manipulated you and sexually manipulated you to do things you didn't want to do and he knew he was
05:03:15.460
doing it too and admitted to it i'd like to just go over those one by one you said he verbally abused you
05:03:22.020
um what what did he do that was verbally abusive um well he knew a lot of uh i would say very personal
05:03:33.540
things and when he was angry it he would just like throw it all in my face or he'd berate me and cuss me
05:03:42.580
out and um say a lot of colorful things that i really don't feel like repeating sure but it was
05:03:52.580
like insulting to not just me but like other people like he was like other people pretty much do anything
05:03:57.540
he could to make me feel lesser of a person you were with him for how long um about a year okay and
05:04:04.420
then how soon into the relationship was he verbally abusive i would say in the first two
05:04:11.140
two three months so the first month second month around the third third month okay um and
05:04:22.180
not excusing his conduct but were you also verbally abusive back to him sadly i was insanely nice to him
05:04:30.420
like i've never tried harder to be good to someone because this is the point in life where i was like
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like i knew what kind of relationship i was looking for and i was trying to treat a man as such
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and i got taken advantage of and he also admitted that yeah you were insanely nice like i'd never met
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someone who was so nice to me in a relationship like even while he was screaming in my face i would
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just tell him like it's okay calm down like try to like de-escalate and be really soft with him
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sure you said he manipulated you uh how did he manipulate you um well at one point i was living
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with him and every time i would try to leave there was an um it was
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you would try to i see it in your notes he would try to unalive himself to keep you around right because and
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like uh like actually get to the point of and me not being able to stop it like it was very
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traumatizing you said that the last time i saw him he tried throwing himself out of your car on the
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freeway because he didn't want to go home and then turned your car off and put it in neutral on the
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freeway and you almost hit a semi truck yeah um it was the last day i ever saw him i was going to
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take him home because he pulled some crazy stuff the day before and i was already getting trying
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to leave him i was like you need to get it together or i'm leaving and i gave him a lot too many chances
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and then he said pull over i want to talk and usually that means he just wants to kind of like
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somehow trap me back in like mentally pull me back into staying with him and i said no kept trying
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to drive told him stop talking to me and then eventually he said if you don't pull over i'm
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gonna jump out the car because he said i was going too fast and it was moving traffic i couldn't swerve
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my car's a v4 engine really can't go that fast um he claims i was going 120. i don't even know how
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my engine could get that but it's i do have to move things along pretty much yeah he tried to throw
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himself out and when he couldn't like it was all just bluffing and i wouldn't pull over the only thing
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he needed to do was to turn my car off and we almost hit a semi you so it was stopped on the freeway
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it was rolling in neutral but i couldn't turn my car back on and my brakes locked okay so i had to
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you almost had an accident right uh you said he harbored your stuff for three months after that and
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continually flooded your voicemail box what do you mean harbored your stuff for three months
05:07:25.460
you know how like when people break up they return things oh like he kept your stuff your physical
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items yeah and like some valuable stuff sure okay all right um manipulated you he you said he
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sexually manipulated you to do things you didn't want to do and he knew he was doing it too and admitted
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to it um what so what does that mean um well i felt like i made the wrong choice of doing things sooner
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than i had ever done before and i realized like it seems like that's all he wants so i was like okay i was
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like if we're gonna get married then it's not gonna hurt for us to just wait till then it's like i feel
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like we have more to work on outside of this and this seems to be the main focus and he would make
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me feel like if i didn't let him or we didn't do this or didn't do that that i was depriving him or
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making him feel like less of a man stuff like that and i would tell him like how it would make me feel
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i'm like like is this all you want like is that what's so important to you and it was always just
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like deflecting and run around well if i might ask a couple clarifying questions here uh so how soon
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into dating did you guys have sex around the third month third month okay um and it was consensual yes
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okay and then you guys continued to have consensual sex for a period of time yeah but then you decided
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you wanted to no longer have sex right okay well we had planned to get married so it was like as of
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right now we need to like work on some things and this is kind of like a blockade because it was always
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that was like his answer to fixing things and i was like this is avoiding what's the problem like we
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need to sit and talk kind of thing like maybe making him face his emotions i guess you could say
05:09:29.940
because if we were going to get married i was like i don't want to have these problems and to me
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it was like if i take that off the table it allows me to think more clearly about what's going on
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because once i took that off the table i started to see through like all the things he was doing
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and the way he was manipulating me and like playing my emotions i guess um okay and so
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are you claiming that because you said he sexually manipulated you like i didn't i didn't want to
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so are you alleging that it was non-consensual um it was more like i guiltfully
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did it because i just like felt bad okay like i did it for him not me and i felt like i but i mean
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you the history of your relationship was you happily engaged in consensual sex initially right and i um
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when me and him met i was living a completely different lifestyle um i had gotten really far
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from god so i was doing a lot of i was living in a way that was very shameful and he also being saved
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it was kind of like i thought you know we're gonna get our lives bright together i was lied to
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and the closer i tried to get to god the further i got from him so
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it was like at the start of a relationship i was on the way working my way towards a more faithful
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lifestyle and he convinced me that he was but as soon as i started making the decisions to do so
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i guess just like why i mean why stay in the relationship
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for as long as i did well i mean he wanted to be in a sexual relationship you didn't
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uh i mean it well that that's where the manipulating came in it was he told me he wanted all the same
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things that he was okay with it and this that and the other and then there was like the kind of like
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continue like not continuous but like it got to a point where he kept trying to like guilt trip me
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into doing things but like he would tell me he agrees with the steps that i'm taking and
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so it was like all a bunch of words but his actions were completely polar opposite
05:12:06.260
okay and i was convinced that it was more like every small problem that arise
05:12:18.660
with every time i try to address it just a new one would come in so i was never actually able to like
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say like like stop it was like a domino effect i guess you could call it
05:12:30.260
of just a bunch of problems continually arising and then i finally was done
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is that why you're celibate now i wanted to be celibate and he supposedly respected it
05:12:44.740
until you know his real intentions were exposed so i thought you said you were currently celibate for
05:12:50.660
like two years uh not two years i said about a year because i i broke up with him and i stopped in november
05:13:00.660
and i broke up with him in january it's common for uh people to lie about their intentions with
05:13:06.100
dating and all that well and now how i see it's like it's not a guy's fault it's just how they're
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wired but once you have that sexual interaction it's like now they kind of see you on a different
05:13:19.460
level they're not looking at you just emotionally on an emotional level now it's emotional and sexual and
05:13:25.620
sometimes it can skew their perception of you so it's like if if you really love me then if you
05:13:33.860
really love me then you'll like me and then you know if you want to marry me the sex comes with marriage
05:13:39.860
so you'd be willing to go that far i feel like it is their fault though like why would they have to lie
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about their intentions well i mean regardless no not about the intentions about but there's a
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difference between lying and then circumstances no i'm talking about sex tainting a man's view of a
05:13:58.740
woman like say like say you look at a woman sexually like you already have precepts of what kind of woman
05:14:06.660
she is that's kind of justifying like sexual assault to an agree wait what i don't know it's like if
05:14:12.740
you're saying that they can't help it it's just the way they're wired then no about the fact that if
05:14:17.540
they have sex with you it taints their view of you it's just in their nature like say if a woman's
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dressed a certain way they're gonna have a precept of what kind of woman she could be
05:14:34.340
because they're visually pleased and sexually pleased that's why men that's why men can have sex with
05:14:40.580
women without the emotional attachment oh you're saying that there was all right i'm just moving
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on um you said you disagree with not circumcising babies that's a position i hold i'm against
05:14:53.300
circumcision we can have a brief back and forth on that what so what's your position um mine's a little
05:15:00.420
bit more from a faithful point of view but it's also like health wise like i know that there's a lot of
05:15:06.980
negative health problems that come from being uncircumcised there's a lot of negative health
05:15:11.540
problems that can come from being circumcised if done incorrectly sure but it's like and women also
05:15:20.420
can face those repercussions of not being circumcised like if it's not taken care of properly
05:15:30.660
and you're coming at this from a faith angle let me ask you a question would you think that it would
05:15:37.060
be okay if a woman decided that her child should be a girl instead of a boy that she had a medical
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procedure done which removed the child's penis and was then sewed into a vagina obviously not why
05:15:54.100
because you're mutilating the body past oh i mean i guess i could see
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the second you're mutilating the body are you right so what's the justification for genital mutilation
05:16:09.700
here in this case i mean i feel like a foreskin versus your reproductive organs is a little
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like your entire system being turned inside out i mean mutilations mutilation right would it be okay
05:16:26.900
to tattoo a baby i mean that's a pretty crazy no wait it's more crazy to tattoo a baby than it is to
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i mean it's i haven't gotten that deep into all the biology of it but i know that it's
05:16:55.940
why would it be unacceptable to tattoo giving a baby a tattoo
05:16:59.860
but not cut off part of their penis can you explain that to me why would one be okay and the
05:17:06.980
other one's not okay like so if a person said for religious purposes i tattoo babies that's what i do
05:17:14.340
my religion requires me to tattoo them when they're born would you say that that was okay or not okay
05:17:22.580
i mean from my moral standard no that wouldn't be okay why because they're a baby oh so and they
05:17:32.420
can't consent to that right i yeah you're going with that yeah so why would it be okay then to cut
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off a portion of a baby's penis the only answer i have for you is the bible says so okay but the law
05:17:48.340
was fulfilled there's no requirement anymore to circumcise babies it's not a requirement it's not
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honestly i would have to do more studying on that so i can't i don't have much of a rebuttal for you
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well i'll move it i'll move it on um but uh i am against circumcision um i mean some of these health
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claims there's many uh advanced countries that don't participate in this practice they seem to do
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fine uh the men do fine the women do fine with it doesn't seem like it's necessary there's plenty
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there's enough botched circumcisions where i think it on that basis alone uh i think it'd be warranted to
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just completely do away with the practice because can i can i just ask one last follow-up i was
05:18:43.460
thinking about i wanted to ask you if you think that circumcision is a requirement for christianity
05:18:48.740
and many do okay if a man converts to christianity who's uncircumcised should they get circumcised then
05:18:57.700
i feel like that would be a personal judgment oh wait a second so when they can decide then they
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get to make the decision but before they can decide well i mean i would assume that they should but
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it's not a lot of people would be willing to not a lot well that's really weird so intuitively
05:19:19.860
you think that most adult men would rather not have their penises mutilated if they could avoid it
05:19:24.900
but for some reason you think that babies don't mind so much no i mean specifically specifically
05:19:30.100
because of recovery time for babies it's a lot quicker for grown men it's a lot longer yeah but i
05:19:34.900
mean wouldn't that just show their commitment to their faith even more um sure yeah so you would
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you prescribe then that your husband if he was uncircumcised go and have his foreskin cut off
05:19:49.380
that honestly i don't see i would hope my husband is circumcised because that would be a very
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i mean if you fell in love with him it's not a sin to be uncircumcised wait aren't you waiting until
05:20:00.420
marriage right but that's like you could ask that question i you could ask it but should you
05:20:07.860
is it like morally okay to ask that since it's like sexual just like it's morally okay
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wait that's the deal breaker is if he's circumcised or not
05:20:22.100
would you date a guy i'd prefer it not why why would that matter to a pious christian woman
05:20:31.460
who's waiting besides you just tell him to go get it circumcised right
05:20:35.060
show his faith and commitment hey if he's willing to wait just to be clear wait did you say that you
05:20:41.380
thought the bowing thing was weird um i mean i prefer not to have to but i didn't you prefer not
05:20:49.620
i didn't oppose so just to be clear prefer not to do a totally benign but i harmless bow but you want
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your partner if he's an adult male to consider getting a circumcision if he didn't have one in
05:21:01.780
his childhood well i prefer not to but i didn't oppose to it you i didn't oppose didn't oppose what the
05:21:09.860
bow i didn't say no they want you as a man as an adult to mutilate your own penis but the bow
05:21:20.820
too much i didn't too much too much too much i just thought it was odd but i didn't say no oh
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odd to do the person who doesn't get their children circumcised and they're a christian is
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a bad christian like i said i would have to do more studying on that i'm not very well versed like i
05:21:41.300
on that specifically it seems like a pretty staunch position when you say because the bible says so
05:21:47.540
right because so then if that's a staunch position the bible says so therefore mutilate
05:21:52.500
the baby's penis it talks about circumcising the baby yeah would you say that a parent then
05:21:57.860
who refused to mutilate their child's penis would be a bad christian
05:22:05.220
uh no because no okay i'm not the one to make the judgment call
05:22:13.060
i i mean i mean i could have i mean if a person said that they were a christian and worship satan
05:22:18.340
would you say they were a bad christian then they wouldn't be a christian right exactly so you can
05:22:23.620
make judgments on what is a christian what is not a christian right what which things to follow
05:22:28.420
which things not to follow so are you a bad christian if you don't have a doctor cut off a
05:22:46.420
no because it's like you get people no salvation is what makes you a christian there's a lot that's
05:22:52.660
right not your penis having a chunk cut off of it yeah not everyone decides to live by everything in
05:22:58.660
the bible so yeah so then final question then do you think that people who have uncircumcised penises
05:23:04.660
who did not cut off chunks of their child's penis do you think that those children can get to heaven
05:23:09.220
still yeah salvation gets you to heaven yeah so then it doesn't require any form of genital mutilation
05:23:15.940
at all yeah it doesn't well then why the would you be for circumcision
05:23:23.940
like i said i'll have to do more research on that i don't have a very good
05:23:27.220
rebuttal for you i think there was like a story in the bible about it though in the new testament
05:23:34.020
where there was a bunch of people in the church or the jews specifically because they always had to get
05:23:38.180
it done because it's part of the law that they were doing it and saying that the gentiles also
05:23:43.540
had to do it to be christians and paul said that they didn't if i don't i'm not like 100 sure about
05:23:50.580
that but the question is always simple right and it's very simple can a person achieve salvation
05:23:57.620
absent circumcision the absent if and is there any extra thing that they have to do to achieve
05:24:04.420
salvation absent circumcision if the answer is no they can achieve salvation without doing anything
05:24:11.140
extra just like everybody else then there's no justification for circumcision it's that simple
05:24:18.180
well like from my perspective as just like as a woman i'm leaving it to my husband to decide what
05:24:24.340
he wants to do with our sons and from talking to my boyfriend who i plan to marry god willing
05:24:30.340
he said that he would want to do that so that's my stance is yeah we will do that because that's what
05:24:36.980
he wants yeah but but that makes no sense right but like think about this before before you think about
05:24:44.900
cutting a chunk off your kid's penis okay let me ask you this question directly okay one christian to another
05:24:52.660
is your son's salvation going to be affected at all by you not cutting off a chunk of his penis
05:25:00.180
no it's not gonna be then why the fuck would you cut off a chunk of his penis i don't know i'm not the
05:25:06.900
one making the decision you're gonna let your husband cut off a chunk of his penis even though
05:25:12.660
it's not gonna affect his salvation at all if that's what he wants i mean personally that's your
05:25:18.420
kid you're gonna get a load cut off a chunk of the kid's penis and he's the father and he knows
05:25:23.060
from a personal perspective what it's like so if he's saying it's okay then i think it's okay
05:25:36.740
okay um yeah good talk i guess on the circumcision thing
05:25:52.660
wait question perfect guy but he's uncut deal breaker
05:25:59.140
no not a deal breaker i have been with uncut so it's just a preference oh okay all right okay and
05:26:08.020
then i think your final note back to you kaylee so you said i don't agree that women shouldn't have
05:26:15.380
the right to vote because of the draft you believe the draft is ages 18 to 30 and you definitely think
05:26:21.220
men over the age of 30 should have the right to vote even if they're no longer in the age frame for
05:26:26.980
the draft hope that makes sense yeah okay so uh i think this is a debate that you're gonna have with
05:26:36.260
andrew on this so um i'm preparing myself to lose but but i'm ready myself for you to win
05:26:50.740
um i guess okay so andrew then what is your i mean is your main point that women shouldn't be able to
05:26:56.740
vote because they are not eligible for the draft or like they do not have to be signed up
05:27:02.660
no my argument is very simple that if women can vote but women cannot use the mechanisms of force
05:27:11.860
against the enemies of the united states and only men can then men can vote to send or women can vote
05:27:17.380
to send men to war and since the domain of war is always going to be men if women have the power to
05:27:26.500
send them to fight wars that means that they can send them to fight wars on their behalf
05:27:30.340
uh and that is a great uh i would say immoral uh position to take that you can have one elite
05:27:42.260
group which does not have to fight wars send another non-elite group to fight them on their behalf
05:27:49.620
yeah if for instance we were to reverse this and i were to ask you from a racial lens
05:27:53.780
if whites could vote to send black people to war but then themselves never had to fight in said war
05:28:00.740
would you consider that to be moral no but why would it be moral for women to be able to vote to do this
05:28:07.860
well i mean because i think like if a 75 year old man i think he should be able to have the right to
05:28:13.620
vote but you know he's not going to be 75 year old man can be drafted to go to war but he's not going to
05:28:20.340
a woman cannot do 75 year olds get drafted to war though does that actually happen they could be
05:28:29.620
well whether whether it has happened or not the potential is there for it to happen the potential
05:28:41.780
i guess i didn't realize that there was the potential that a 75 year yeah you sign up for
05:28:46.420
selective service when you're 18 years old and if the need is great enough the united states can
05:28:52.180
call on you regardless of your age if you're a man they cannot do this for women so since this
05:28:58.420
is true that means that women could vote in such a way as to send all of the population and draft the
05:29:05.380
population of men to send them to war on their behalf if we were to look at this through any other
05:29:11.140
lens racial socioeconomic uh any other lens you would say it's immoral but for some reason women
05:29:17.700
won't say it's immoral for them to be able to have that power to do to men specifically
05:29:23.860
yeah i mean the whole basis of my argument was just that i didn't realize that 75 year olds could get
05:29:30.740
um drafted or selected and so yeah they will right now right now that may not be the case but they
05:29:36.900
can extend it they can extend it wherever they want and they can lower it they can lower the draft
05:29:41.780
age to 15. in fact in world war ii uh and world war one when the draft came around there was plenty
05:29:50.100
of 15 16 year olds who signed up for the draft okay they can lower it to whatever age they need for
05:29:55.860
fighting age men and they can raise it to whatever age they need for fighting age men shortly after 9-11
05:30:01.140
happened in fact um when there was a war going on in the middle east they raised the enlistment age
05:30:07.060
for who they would take up i believe to 40 45 years old the potential is always there in other words
05:30:13.860
for men but it's not there for women and also it says that is the case why do you get to vote to send
05:30:19.540
them to war why do you get to do that like why do women get to have that exclusive privilege i don't
05:30:25.940
understand that no and i understand your point but also there are a lot of men who are not eligible
05:30:31.780
to be drafted because i don't know if they don't have a kidney or um they're colorblind or something
05:30:36.740
like that women would also if the need is great enough like it is in ukraine or it is in other
05:30:43.140
places right now okay if the need is great enough they will lower the standard to bring the men in they
05:30:49.380
don't care so when you say oh he's not eligible he's eligible to peel fucking potatoes he's eligible to do
05:30:55.780
this he's eligible to do that but if we're looking at it from a collective basis okay there's a lot of
05:31:00.980
women who can't vote either because they're in comas right you would agree that that's true but so
05:31:06.580
what that has nothing to do with the fact that women as a collective can vote to send men to war
05:31:10.820
it's the greatest injustice of our time it's the greatest social injustice of our time
05:31:17.220
and nobody even thinks about it women take it for granted they don't even care
05:31:22.180
does anybody else have something well i just wanted to add to this point you said do these
05:31:28.740
older men they get drafted we actually have some historical uh examples of this happening so in
05:31:34.580
world war ii uh it was called the volks storm so uh nazi germany uh it it was at the very end of the
05:31:43.460
war germans were desperate so um they conscripted males between the ages of 16 and 60 uh who were
05:31:52.020
not already serving in the military in some capacity um so 16 year olds all the way up to 60
05:31:58.740
year olds uh they were obviously very desperate they needed the manpower and uh so yeah when it's
05:32:05.700
necessary when it's necessary men will be called always to warfare never women because and here's
05:32:14.500
the greatest injustice right because the descriptive truth is that women can't do it they can't they can
05:32:21.140
offer some limited support rules but they can't fight in frontline combat they can't and the very
05:32:26.180
first thing the enemy would do if women were fighting in frontline combat is they would essay
05:32:30.980
them in order to demoralize your military that's the very first thing they would do and they would run
05:32:36.500
propaganda 24 hours a day saying we're impregnating your women right now and sending them home with our
05:32:41.460
bastard children that's what they would do if you allowed women in frontline combat situations our
05:32:47.940
government knows it they don't want to say it because it hurts women's feelings but that's the
05:32:51.860
truth that's the very first thing they would do 24 hour round the clock they would be rounding up
05:32:56.740
every female soldier they could find they would be impregnating them and sending them home pregnant
05:33:00.820
to demoralize the enemy our government knows it every government knows it that's why women are not
05:33:05.940
suited for frontline combat and they never will be so ultimately what i'm going to say to you is is that
05:33:11.940
women having the right to vote can send men in their stead to fight their wars and you could never
05:33:17.140
give me a different demographic of people where that would be okay with ever
05:33:24.820
do you have more well i mean i guess since you took away my my main point here
05:33:32.740
then i can't really debate that anymore okay i meet andrew me and andrew disagree on this a little bit
05:33:41.620
you know i think women should be able to vote well so then why do you think that women should be able to
05:33:46.180
vote ah but see i take the i'm a i'm the egalitarian feminist here i think women should be drafted
05:33:53.460
okay that's the trade-off right yeah he's psychopath but here's here's why brian i think brian is wrong
05:34:00.820
on this okay i understand his position many many men take such a position the reason that he's wrong on
05:34:06.740
this is because if we allow women into the draft okay even if they are drafted they'll never be put in
05:34:13.300
frontline combat for the reasons i already stated so it still wouldn't be fair anyway they would be
05:34:17.380
fucking pay clerks they're not going to be walking into minefields they're not going to be in frontline
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combat shooting at the enemy while the enemy's shooting back right that's an extreme rarity now
05:34:27.620
almost no women have ever died in combat ever in the united states it's almost never happened it's very
05:34:33.860
very very rare very few of them have whereas hundreds of thousands of men have died on behalf of the
05:34:39.540
nation um because women aren't equipped for the reasons that i stated the enemy will round them
05:34:45.060
up and send them home pregnant to demoralize you and they man the japanese even had that as part of
05:34:53.780
their battle strategy for the chinese to go in and impregnate as many of their women as they could
05:34:59.620
in order to demoralize the chinese they literally called it the r wording of nan king that was their
05:35:05.540
entire battle plan and it worked so it's like no this is an insane position brian's wrong on this too
05:35:12.820
it's just an insane position i want a ready-made force of savage brutal men whose entire jobs to kill
05:35:19.460
the enemy with extreme prejudice that's what that's what i want to see
05:35:29.060
the 19th amendment is never going to be repealed uh we have to be prac we have to be pragmatic and
05:35:36.260
live in reality here it's not going to be repealed uh women's voting is here to stay so given that
05:35:43.620
paradigm it could be if you made an amendment that women had to fight then the same capacity that men
05:35:50.660
did in war women themselves would demand the 19th amendment be repealed yeah but that wouldn't happen
05:35:56.500
either is the thing it can that can happen the draft board itself is now negotiating whether or
05:36:03.540
not to draft women right the push for whether or not women uh even when they're drafted by the way
05:36:10.340
they're going to do everything they can to repeal that too there is a possibility i never thought
05:36:14.580
abortion would be repealed in my lifetime either and it was right so there there could be a constitutional
05:36:20.500
crisis when it came to the 19th amendment due to the fact that it is disparagingly
05:36:25.940
discriminatory towards men and that that could be a good basis for a justification to attack the 19th
05:36:34.340
amendment in the supreme court and this is the same exact or logic which went to attacking roe v wait
05:36:41.220
the same justification which is that there was a fundamental unfairness here but i mean the this
05:36:46.580
whole draft equalization thing has been attacked multiple times in the you know in the judiciary the
05:36:53.220
legislature and what they just continue to arrive at is we're going to keep the status quo we're not
05:37:02.500
going to draft women we're going to just keep it out what is we're not there's not even a conversation
05:37:07.860
about walking back women's right to vote so i mean i think it's far-reaching to say well next step
05:37:15.860
is going to be let's walk back women's right to vote i think the most yeah but brian you're missing
05:37:21.540
a key component which is that women women have not in our lifetime yet been the appeal and the deciding
05:37:29.780
vote on a future war that american men have to go fight and when when we enter into the type of
05:37:37.300
significant war where hundreds of thousands of men come back and body bags you watch how
05:37:41.780
fucking quick that changes but we would already be embroiled in the war so yes i mean yeah that's
05:37:49.620
true we would already be embroiled in the war but uh the thing is it's really funny how when hundreds
05:37:55.140
of thousands of young men end up coming home in body bags how the political landscape and political
05:38:00.260
correctness and all that bullshit goes right out the window it's a fair point
05:38:04.180
i mean if we were the thing is is that any war that america's in that america's involved in that's
05:38:13.380
resulting in that many uh casualties i mean aren't are there not then concerns over you know a nuclear
05:38:22.900
uh conflict yeah that's always a concern but the truth of the matter is is that i don't think that most
05:38:32.340
nations will use nuclear arms because it would lead to the devastation thing they're trying to
05:38:37.940
protect which is their nation so most most nations will always stick with conventional warfare
05:38:43.220
and conventional warfare now is devastating we haven't been in a conventional war in years and
05:38:50.340
now we see what the technology is like in conventional warfare with a second world nation
05:38:55.460
ukraine and russia and it's absolutely devastating conventional warfare between these two nations is
05:39:01.620
absolutely devastating if you saw it on a grander scale between the united states china something
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like this you couldn't even imagine the horrors of it would be awful
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um okay let me let this one through the legendary trash panda donated 69 andrew
05:39:21.220
you're cooking tonight we're gonna do a recession way better than you ck blocking me like usual
05:39:26.180
but anyway chair one foot massage every night your goth look hitting for me let me worship the mommy
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milkers stop fucking cooming bro stop fucking stop cooming
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now he's just doing it to piss me off he's just doing it now to piss me off guys tts is 20 we're
05:39:45.860
gonna do a roast session then we're gonna wrap we're gonna wrap up so guys get a roast in you want to
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roast me you want to roast andrew's new haircut you want to roast star girl over there goth girl
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roast her feet or some shit uh you want to roast um
05:40:01.060
that girl you want to roast that girl you want to roast that girl definitely roast nessa she needs to
05:40:05.860
be roasted um roast me roast uh anisa too all right guys uh let me just check also let's go to twitch really
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from last episode i'm gonna post that or sorry excuse me i already posted that my bad uh it was a rage
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university that's debate university.com you got to check out the course andrew wilson's course verbal
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corner christmas around the corner new year's around the corner you're you're going to be with your
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family if you want to fucking stomp on your uh uh family at the dinner table during thanksgiving you know
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the political debates you got to get the course because he's going to teach you how to make mince
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meat out of your your six-year-old cousin when he's talking and let me tell you also um one
05:42:58.580
criticism that i got recently somebody asked why is it only six hours right for the value that i'm
05:43:04.100
paying for thing is is that we could have fluff filled it with 20 hours of razzle dazzle bullshit that
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would have taught you nothing uh however since i don't do any of this multi-tier marketing bullshit
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and try to razzle dazzle people with bullshit i like to just get right to the meat and potatoes so
05:43:20.020
uh what we did was we took the most comprehensive things that we possibly could and put it together
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to show you how to do actual debate the right way we could have fluffed it we could have filled it we
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could have pumped it full of all kinds of nonsense and made it many many more hours than it needed to
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be so that looked really great right it was 20 hours of instruction that would have been completely
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disingenuous and dishonest so we didn't do that
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daniel nostri donated 20 come on to this podcast wearing a burlesque corset from the era of the
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french brothels with a pentagram on your forehead over your left tie precisely depicted as the mark
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of the beast in the book of re you got a response to that it's just a pimple pad 20
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dollar rose session boys it's streamlabs.com slash whatever 20 dollar rose session thank you guys
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appreciate it and then we have rachel wilson donated 20 dollars is that actually rachel sound like you
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are slipping into a coma like seriously are you on pills or do you just feel like giving up on life
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uh daniel the mark in the books of revelations attempting to cowardly pass it off as a zit cover
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we see your finger in our face you filthy anti-christian woke something oh that thing okay
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you got this got this borat donated 19 dollars and 99 cents dwayne johnson is the only man all
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lesbians would be straight for because rock beats scissors the legendary trash panda donated 20
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yeah thank you trash panda share one i would never roast you bbg let me count the rosary beads on your
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wrist while i suckle dem toes come to discord.gg slash whatever back the f off andrewg mine
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trash pandan out all yours bro robot donated 50 yeah thank you robot i love you randy i love you
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too randy thank you thank you got another we got two more coming in guys if you want get your uh
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roasts in get your roasts in thank you so much robot vector donated twenty dollars brian your
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thumbnails are fake this conspiracy is brought to you by big dumpy big dumpy roasted big dumpy good old
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roast boom crispy golden brown roast good old special k roast served with mashed potatoes
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the fuck is special k ro sleepy g sniffs donated twenty dollars please keep the ghetto ones out she
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couldn't even speak on my way over to drop a prime yo thank you sleepy joe appreciate the prime uh
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it was she was entertaining though you know sleepy g sniffs donated twenty dollars please keep the ghetto
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one's out she couldn't even speak on my way over to drop a prime didn't we just see that oh it must
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have got like re-triggered accidentally twice somehow captain donated twenty dollars official ratings right to
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left chair one six chair two seven point five morgan nine miss right eye lower than left eye four blondie
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seven monotone snooze fest four chair seven five and last but not least anisa nine although
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although is there more she's too talkative is that that's the problem right she's just
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she hasn't shut up this whole she hasn't shut up gosh unbelievable you know what's crazy andrew this is
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two shows in a row where i said one a little one thing to a woman in her 30s
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and they just couldn't stand it and they left that's two shows in a row because we had it you
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weren't there for the sun or tuesday show but yeah that show wasn't my fault
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yeah just it's been two shows in a row that that it happened no i mean the last show the last show
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couldn't have been my fault because i wasn't it wasn't your fault no it was my fault yeah this show
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i'll get blank because i laughed it's donated twenty dollars first chair has a very good and down to
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earth demeanor she has potential i can fix her i don't know he's fucking twenty dollar simp chats dude
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it's a roast section it's a roast section i mean look if they want to do a compliment they can do
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i'm okay with the compliment you know all right but you can also roast you know what i mean you can
05:48:00.580
roast uh okay we have this one ogle donated twenty dollars did any of the panelists partners slash
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boy friends with them coming on the show if so how did they reply to their partner
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show off hands anybody's partner feel bad or feel uncomfortable about them coming on whatever
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maybe i feel uncomfortable calling them partners i feel uncomfortable about that
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dialed in 0430 donated twenty dollars so fucking tired of you 304s being in favor of male infant genital
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mutilation religious belief is not valid justification sex circumcision an american
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love story find it on you and educate yourself wow thank you thank you uh dialed in twenty dollars
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thank you master as brian does not things with burritos let me tell star chick if you were my woman
05:48:57.060
you wouldn't be on this panel your man is a cump for letting you dress that way live that top is for
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the bed i dress how i want oh he doesn't care either but we have our you know commitment in other ways
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other than me being more prudent i need a andrew would you would you be down to wear like a borat
05:49:26.180
bathing suit next time you come on the show no oh okay sorry rachel my bad i didn't mean to ask that
05:49:34.100
no way somebody somebody by chat told me to ask you that what is the deal anyway with influencers
05:49:40.580
being willing to dress like women i don't i don't even understand that that's the weirdest ever i will
05:49:45.620
not stand for for this oh yeah it's a very hold on wait a second andrew the borat bathing suit
05:49:54.180
is very masculine can we can you google a picture wait don't wait wait don't show it don't show it
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wait wait hold on let me find borat bathing suit uh let me find it hold on oh we definitely can't
05:50:08.020
show we can show like uh okay never mind we can't show that that's intense it's very masculine okay it's
05:50:17.220
very hip in europe just saying all right let's see here we have uh anyways whatever
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chniko of fordonated 20 anissa shut up i can't hear the rest of the panel brian what's up with my
05:50:33.300
discord excess please get back to my message i've been busy man i'll get it i'll get it uh sorted but
05:50:40.180
hey good to see you in the chat man thank you thank you send me another message on discord we'll get it
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all figured out nolan donated twenty dollars what did you do with maddie brian she's the whatever
05:50:52.340
equivalent of the nike swoosh the lingerie girl looks like raven from teen titans um
05:51:01.780
who the fuck is that guy who's what the lingerie uh so i mean i've mentioned it i think i mentioned it
05:51:10.100
two shows ago madison resigned there's no beef no drama um no bad blood she still owes me five bucks
05:51:19.540
look if you guys want her back look the door's open like i said there's no bad blood she resigned
05:51:30.340
you gotta tell her that you gotta tell her that um but yeah doors open no bad blood wishing her the best
05:51:36.420
uh in all her future endeavors but you know look it's common in in business uh people move on
05:51:43.460
circumstances change it's normal business uh but thank you nolan appreciate it justin martin's donated
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twenty dollars curious doesn't isa have more than one facial expression thought i've seen another one
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one one time but can't be 100 sure she might be bugged she's bugged boys uh wait uh anissa can you
05:52:08.180
stare into that camera but then like can you tilt your head down that camera and then like make your eyes big
05:52:16.100
aubrey plaza i think aubrey plaza kind of similar you know look similar a little bit uh actress okay
05:52:27.300
thank you man appreciate it ogle donated twenty dollars yeah thank you also chair one is an actual baddie
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call me a simp if you want but they don't show up on whatever too often so it's worth mentioning
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thank you thank you ogle appreciate it daniel nasiri demon succubi always laugh in the face
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of the lord being confronted with their sacrilege enjoy your journey to the pits of hell grasping
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as many blanks as you're able to hold on to by blanks does he mean
05:53:00.020
captain penises what the fuck my tts got cut off but i was saying anissa nine although anissa gets
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bumped up to a 9.5 because of her white toes wait what do you like the nail polish or
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borat donated 19.99 what's common between a gynecologist and a pizza delivery guy
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they can smell it but can't eat it oh god oh that's uh dick picker donated twenty dollars
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i like andrew's hairstyle today looks like a detective from the 50 investigating missing
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prostitutes in disney world he just needs a talking dog a pipe and barry manilow background music
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i just get like an overcoded randy underscore loves underscore olivia donated twenty dollars
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grace and donated twenty dollars to put all this to rest in life we get life insurance
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auto insurance home insurance etc prenumpt is no more than marriage insurance it doesn't get used
05:54:29.140
unless a woman leaves brian's two dollar bill donated twenty dollars my sprinkler goes like this
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and comes back like this you broke the self-proclaimed yapper she's barely said a word
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the legendary trash panda donated twenty dollars robot tf quit simping for uber drivers bbg chair one
05:55:00.740
listen look into my eyes i am the captain now celine grawness you keep it up mf keep it up chair one you
05:55:09.380
can dress however you want bbg wait question how much does somebody have to send in for you to remove your
05:55:16.980
little acne patch or whatever the fuck that is you can choose that amount 69 69 tts and they'll do
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200 200 200 is it okay i gotta defer i gotta defer to andrew on this 200 200 and guys we will do i
05:55:35.380
will zoom in on her white head it's not a white head it's literally just like a like red little
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like red sure if you say so whatever you say 200 i have one here too sleepy g sniffs donated 20
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dollars i would hip toss and choke out the alpha wannabe who tried to press andrew at one time
05:55:58.820
andrew i know it's old news but way to own him intellectually oh he's good work on weight loss
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uh wait why is this not coming up sorry guys i don't know why it's not coming what's that uh
05:56:16.740
what do they call that brian the uh those people who take that bizarre weight loss drug
05:56:21.220
a zempic is it a zempic they call it a zempic face yeah i've been seeing a lot of that lately
05:56:26.900
and that's gross the zempic face is pretty gross dude gmi donated twenty dollars show was significantly
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better after you harvested would love to hear way more from anissa and morgan and see if they can stir or
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not go ahead anissa sir dark code nine donated twenty five dollars and eighty nine cents care six was so
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monotone i wanted to cut my skin off hashtag syveth skin you got a response you got you gotta respond to
05:57:00.420
the roast you know that's that that's the polite thing to do
05:57:05.860
i think monotone is better than being loud and ratchet that's all i have to say
05:57:13.380
not usually monotone no she's not usually monotone no how is she usually she's crazy
05:57:20.500
she's crazy she's crazy no i'm not crazy she's very energetic she's one of the most interesting
05:57:28.100
people so the one time you'll ever be on a podcast ever is the time you decided to be boring as fuck
05:57:35.540
i'm sorry well uh am i wrong i feel like there there was more controversial topics that we that could
05:57:42.980
have been had and you would have just lit up and maybe so crazy maybe not go crazy more controversial
05:57:51.860
we talked about circumcision war marriage okay tell you what give us something and show us your real
05:58:00.260
self instead of putting on a facade go ahead but it's like oh it's like go ahead it's okay okay go
05:58:07.620
ahead i'll give you a chance i won't be a dick how am i supposed to just like turn it on
05:58:16.100
i don't know i guess my responses were more calculated what's a topic that excites you
05:58:22.500
besides not things that they talk about on this podcast nothing okay so give us one
05:58:29.780
how about zoroastrianism would you like to talk about zoroastrianism wait let's let's let's go ahead
05:58:35.380
i don't even know what that is okay no no no just go ahead um i was i thought it was funny when he
05:58:41.140
was talking about voting for trump i was ready to be like so who's opposed because i feel like a lot of
05:58:46.580
women are really opposed to i mean like he's a rate or she's not here anymore she did not like me though
05:58:55.380
she kept calling me and when she called him racist for something about kamala i was ready to
05:59:00.900
okay well let's i mean i feel like this panel is probably leaning a bit conservative at this point
05:59:07.940
so yeah but i can wait are you pro-choice or pro-life for life okay but that you couldn't get a word out
05:59:17.780
with the other girl that was on here so there was no point in trying to talk at that point well you've
05:59:22.660
kind of sidestepped the proposition here so okay you said there were no entertaining topics make it
05:59:30.180
entertaining go ahead you can't i don't i don't know how to do that it's just you said you said
05:59:42.900
you said there wasn't you said there could be an interesting topic to talk about go ahead
05:59:49.140
that's like things i talk about with my friends though it's like such as
05:59:58.260
like personal things it's like because if i say it on here you can't take it off you can't just like
06:00:05.940
and then people what what does it pertain to just personal our personal lives
06:00:12.500
like personal anecdotes about a specific individual also she wants to gossip no it's not
06:00:20.820
like okay uh i guess i could give you an example they're all talking about how she's goth i used to
06:00:27.300
be goth at one point like extreme punk i used to go to mosh i was in the mosh pits in the shows
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i don't know i was showing her the music i used to listen to and how ridiculous like you asked so it's
06:00:41.060
like if you want to know what we talk about that's what we talk about i guess it was funny because i
06:00:47.140
was reenacting how ridiculous it is so i was like i can't just um you that was the controversial thing
06:01:03.620
that you didn't want to be out there was that well you used to be punk and listen to no you asked what
06:01:09.860
we talked about no but then you said well there's these crazy things i can't say on the whatever
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podcast like you don't want to air out people like oh yeah but i don't even care about like
06:01:21.220
i'll talk about like my family i'll be like oh my sister said this thing she's so crazy
06:01:25.620
and i'm not gonna like yeah but you're in a room of strangers so we're not privy to your
06:01:29.140
relationship dynamics yeah but that's what we talk about it's exciting to us yeah but it's really it's
06:01:33.860
like it's bad etiquette to like talk about like if you two just right now started talking about billy
06:01:41.300
bob and we don't know who billy bob is it's like bad etiquette because we don't know about it's like
06:01:47.540
inside joke you don't know so it's like how about can you have a generalized interesting conversation
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almost it's like a customer service type conversation it's like i work i work in customer
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service and like we'll have conversations and obviously it's not boring but like it's not like
06:02:11.540
i'm passionate about what i'm saying well most of the things are like faith-based but it's like
06:02:15.940
everybody here majority here is secular so it's like there's not are they that's if i'm not
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the fuck is secular secular secular secular secular did i say that that's why she's secular oh my goodness
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this is why like oh my god okay i think it's ridiculous how sensitive women are nowadays like
06:02:43.060
everybody's so soft like i think it's funny i when i watch the podcast i think it's pretty funny
06:02:49.540
when andrew comes out girls and they're just like the truth and they get so offended and it's like you
06:02:53.860
don't have to take offense you could just let it slide and let him have his opinion
06:02:59.940
but like not a lot of women can handle that and it's like i try my my best to
06:03:06.820
be more willing to accept the truth because regardless of how you feel that's just the truth
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but that's when you get a lot of on here and it's like that was good not a lot of people are
06:03:17.780
rebuttaling so i'm just kind of like that really spiced things up i don't know what am i supposed
06:03:24.500
because like i'm not going to make a personal attack i'm just pointless all right okay i mean
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subgraf donated 19.99 stepdaddy andrew how are your stepchildren
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okay all right we have more a bunch more coming through sorry guys i paused it temporarily one
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biggest fan donated twenty dollars thank you chair one what do i have to do to be your chair on the
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a champagne pop right now we need a champagne pop all right yeah
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confess with your mouth and believe in your heart that jesus is lord and king
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love you all thanks for all you time jesus loves you all
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wavy z donated twenty dollars i agree women should not got to war just to get cascade
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i think he was agreeing with you selena grawn is donated twenty dollars yeah all the really
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roastable girls left unfortunate plus i left stream for a while i'm behind i got nothing andrew it's like
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a tightrope thing you know like if you push too hard they just donated twenty dollars so 2024 discord
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whatever octoberfest was thank you jess thank you thank you all for participating air also yeah
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drink for every we gotta do we gotta do bear bear beats that'll start galactica
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donated twenty dollars andrew there's one more coming after this andrew
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a person can make let the let the i feel oh i feel
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hawkeye six pack donated twenty dollars thank you hawkeye six lady with the sunglasses on her
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head looks like she texts you while at work complaining there's issues in the sink
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who oh do you want to respond i really go ahead yapper i'm a yapper on tiktok when there's not a
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bunch of people around um no i don't really have a response what do you yeah borat donated 19
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and 99 cents what gets easier to pick up the heavier it is woman oh i was gonna ask how did you
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reform like what made you reform from democrat well you got we got another tts
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strawberry candy donated twenty dollars everyone's giving the women compliments it's only fair the men
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get one brian you're a cutie and your smile lights up the room andrew your laugh is infectious thank
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we can't help but laugh with you thank you katie good laugh andrew kardasu donated twenty five dollars
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and eighty nine cents i will leave the roasting for you guys you guys are way better than me thk the two
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girls left i couldn't stand anymore also plows the imv sweetener streamer she was advising guys how to
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date was horrible sleepy g sniffs donated twenty dollars yeah thank you but this brows is this
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this this cunt thank you sleepy joe we had chess bras is his brother on last sunday he was on the
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show pineapple pizza donated twenty dollars while andrew loves picking apart arguments from anyone that
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doesn't engage in proper logic he wouldn't think of picking me apart i keep andrew away boom roasted
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boom roasted andrew got roasted king blackout donated twenty dollars please remember to go out and vote
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but only if you vote for trump there is one main reason and remember people please never forget trump
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never once got blown by monica lewinski in the oval office it's true it's true old man marine donated
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twenty dollars disappointed that the mcd's eyebrows left before i can roast her hideous eyebrows i would
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rate the panel but no one compares to anisa first chair's eyebrows are okay but that's all you get
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oh you gotta take it off rounding up to one thousand dollars for the night so we can see what's hiding
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under those stars there's a there's that side yeah
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i don't even think it's visible really not even visible on camera
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you've got to keep andrew as a co-host he's always got the insights and knows just how to nail every
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topic he's seriously impressive famous figure not a not a co-host man just a guest
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guys if i mean look i told andrew let's move this guy out here to uh
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california we need him here we're behind enemy lines we need him back in california he's a california
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native right like you were you you grew up in california right andrew you can you can hide it just
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that is where the liberals are that's true wait can you wait austin can you just tell him to
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like can you just if andrew's talking we can hide it but then just like show it
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daniel nocery donated twenty dollars ozempic face is the same type of gaunt face as hiv medication
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face i suspect they all have both diseases yeah you know i would rather have a chick with a chubby
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face than the legendary trash panda donated twenty dollars i'm literally gonna offend pukar and randy
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and robot you all need to stop chair six boy i wish you were more than monotone solid four tenths
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if you made more noise i'd maybe a five chair seven crazy latina quit playing
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borat frequent oral can make your day but frequent blank can make your what uh make your whole week okay
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frequent oh the a word oh it's this one that's why i stick to anal sex oh
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shniko of four donated twenty dollars brothers the conversational burden is real do women even
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realize how low effort they are what's really interesting to me is i've seen these tiktoks of
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like women will make these memes of like they'll be dunking on how guys are not conversational on first
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dates and i don't know if i've just had like really unilateral dating experiences like that i saw
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this one thing where it's like a girl will ask a guy question and he won't like kind of mirror the
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question back and this is like some negative mark on all men and this is how all men conduct themselves
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conversationally it's not been my experience when it comes to dating like
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even on the podcast where i'm outnumbered granted i'm the host it's my podcast i'm not gonna like
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be too much of a dick about it like the conversational burden if you even shift it to
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them momentarily sorry guys you can't do it like watch check this out okay go ahead talk guys
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without the hostess like you guys you none of you have really talked except for her i mean they're
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they're not even look it's a meta conversation it's a meta conversation it's not even a conversation
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about anything it's a meta conversation how do you get them to talk if they like just sit there and
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say nothing no but my back hurts it's like making me mute and all right okay
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dialed in 0430 donated 20 dollars i'm serious there are no benefits to circumcision
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not only are there no benefits to it but both the man and any of his future sexual partners suffer in
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the bedroom stop being ignorant thank you livy bear i love my randy bear so much
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thank you livy appreciate it brian were you were you circumcised yes brian's twitch
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account regrettably twenty dollars regrettably brian for the love of god i'm not bugged you subscriber
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simp chair one you could have at least scented your culturally appropriated hindu forehead mark
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properly typical entitled laziness typical their pseudo master chef donated 19.99 andrew's haircuts is like
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when jerry on seinfeld got the bad haircuts that made him look eight years old brian get that burrito
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out of there andrew had to do it much respect uh thank you man olivia donated 25 dollars
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i want to cut all you girls if you know what i mean hee hee like
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like you want to shank them olivia what the fuck chill out
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uh hold on i'll pause it for a second andrew daniel nasiri the corner chick in the white shirt is a
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prime example of what happens to a nice wholesome girl that moves to california jewish oh it's jewish
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girl that moves to california needs to understand why she's chosen sorry wait what chosen by taking as
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much d as possible what andrew your thing quick what fucking corner is he talking about i was just
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going to ask if you ever if you ever wonder what it's like what what sex is like if you weren't
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circumcised you ever wonder about that i do wonder about it i do too from i do too i do i wonder about it
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yeah i mean i mean at least what they report is you know there's there's additional nerve endings um
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maybe it would have felt better maybe the climax what do i do like because i'm told that the sensation
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is worse right because the the foreskin is gone but i'm like i only last 20 seconds now so would that be
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like would right so wouldn't it be like wouldn't that basically be like a like an additional handicap right
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oh i see what you're wait you last 20 yeah andrew that's not so wouldn't that take it to like
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wouldn't that take it to like 10 seconds it would reduce your stamina maybe because there's more
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sensation and if you're prone to premature ejaculation andrew look there there are medications
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there are met there's thought things you can do meditations uh we can help andrew we can help
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uh there's medication for that but it's like i don't know if you're premature the commercials are
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like take this pill your wife will love you again i was like you know what though on on the like
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premature ejaculation thing i feel like yeah like okay if there's if it's even more pleasurable like
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if you would otherwise blast in 20 seconds but now you blast in 10 seconds like ladies would it really
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matter like 10 seconds versus 20 seconds like it's still an l right yeah like oh that's what you're
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stuck with for the rest of your life though you kind of want every second right like
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well look you know there's round two you know round two maybe you go 40 seconds andrew you know there's
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there's there's yeah but now but that would just be down just the normal finishing time right if it
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wasn't circumcised have i don't think we've ever talked about this on the podcast have any of the
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ladies been with a premature ejaculator i don't know ladies i don't think they disclose that what do you
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mean disclose they disclose it via their penis wait premature ejaculating with you specifically like
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you've had you obviously had to have had sex with him or oral copulation or a hand job or
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like did they couch or some i don't know huh for me it's yes yes a lot actually word no no no no
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uh baby no someone in my chat said well do you want to be
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oh man premature ejaculator premature premature jack it's kind of a compliment right she wouldn't
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know no it's a huge compliment to the woman it really just depends on the situation it's a huge
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compliment right i think she's the only she's the only virgin at the table oh you're a virgin yeah oh
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cool so i have no idea she doesn't know what you're talking about premature it means
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when a woman exactly here i'll explain it when a woman and a man love each other very much
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they oh yeah anyways uh oh shit i had something on the premature thing it's like
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thought was premature brian oh man i lost it because
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shit damn it was good too she i kind of want to just wait until it comes back to me hold on
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make a bunch of racket and he'll never catch the thought again just make a ton
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of noise it'll never come back to him it was so good it was so good andrew it was like the best joke i
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ever had came to me and then my brain frog fog was like that it was like get the out of here brian
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it came out of you that's what she said um okay oh man okay hold on let me write down the note
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premature ejaculation it'll come back to me i'll let the rest of the chats come in
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little little in donated twenty one dollars thank you chair five would you suck on chair one's toes
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or is that enough to bow only thing wait what chair real talk um if it was on camera like a paid
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scene cable jones donated one hundred dollars thank you bro to the prefect goth girl showing off her
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boobs you have a beautiful face a gorgeous smile and a sexy laugh but i really want to lick your
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australian dollars a chitler what the fuck bro uh cable hello did that say australian dollars
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code nine donated twenty five dollars and ninety cents no controversial take hell divers is better
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than space marine two andrew dude i don't know if you i don't know it is better than space marine two
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ken kniff from connecticut donated twenty dollars ken kniff this is ken kniff from connecticut
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i'm 37 i'm voting for trump the reason you should vote for trump is because he never got gluck gluck from
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monica lewinski that's a good donated twenty dollars chair six if your conversation topics were like a
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lake it'd be so shallow that if i skipped a rock across it the lake would evaporate
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can we can we get back to the fact that that super chat said
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asshole but came out as australian dollars can we are you just gonna it was so funny it was the
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funniest thing ever i'll re-trigger it oh wait i'll read this framework engineer all right blank chop
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dick chopper you're religious god created the heavens the universe and everything else but you think
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he got foreskin wrong and you know better circumcising women reduces stds you game how do you
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exercise a woman it's a female genital mutilation it's a damn basically it's common in like
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african cultures i think i've never heard of it before god damn it's basically the same thing
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but they basically like slice off your the fuck um yeah response i don't i don't know how you
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respond to that okay sounds good as vet donated twenty dollars thoughts on monica sucking bill
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um should not have done that when um should not have done that so i i have a uh a specialty tool
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i'm sorry i'm sorry new question would you date someone who had no internal monologue
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say no to gold fishes uh yo gmi thank you very much andrew you're gonna say something
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yeah cable jones donated 100 to the prefect goth girl showing off her boobs you have a beautiful
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face a gorgeous smile and a sexy laugh but i really want to lick your australian dollars
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i get why it happened i see it it's because the a before the the money sign i get yeah yeah i mean
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that's objectively fucking hilarious even if it was by accident that makes it even funnier that's a
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that's a whatever meme now so from now on basically you can always call someone an
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asshole right but you can space now by just calling them an australian dollars call from now on guys if
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you're gonna call like a female panelist an asshole just call her an australian dollar yeah australian
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dollars what a bunch of australian dollars thank you jim more increases the risk of throat cancer
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what kind of monster would insist on their man taking that risk just for their pleasure some women be
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nasty isn't it the same for borat donated 19 dollars and 99 cents i like my women like i like my
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wow wow we want scam allah gavin newscom donated 19 dollars and 99 cents
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and doc voted 70 percent rep i wasn't used to be them but andrew converted me i converted me
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mago and mother you guys are making the difference kamala is literally hydra enemy within rfk
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tulsi elon trump is avengers thank you also i don't want to hear her for four years
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she will forever be known as eyebrows we will always call her eyebrows which one either me or the
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no it's this girl who's here who rage quit yeah famous sundis coffeeware donated 19.99
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cents when did everybody lose their virginity including brian and andrew we'll go around the
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table on this what about go ahead 15 17 16 do i have to answer this yes 18 15 i would have lost it
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sooner if i could what the 14 14 16 i was 17 if i recall andrew what about you you strumpet you i was 13
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whoa i was literally gonna ask so you're a victim jesus donated 20 dollars i'm so sorry
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i'm so sorry damn i feel bad for making the sound now yeah um andrew if you want to talk about it
06:24:36.260
after the show you can call me you see you know this is to see it's it's the fact that men's trauma
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is talked about like this like a victim like myself can't even have this story instead what
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happens brian is going to shame me for it like what a scumbag look andrew i no no you you thought i was
06:24:59.380
because i'm very deadpan in my delivery you thought you thought i was mocking you i actually
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oh i have a similar experience son i was 17 she was 21.
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yeah i think that that's uh slightly different a bit different was it consensual yes for it was
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definitely consensual 100 but i'm just saying you know what i mean i mean for both scenarios for you and
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him well i mean given his age it's like statutory you know anyways uh good talk but me and andrew i
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guess you know look you know i was a senior in senior in high school and you know i had the riz
06:25:51.700
got with the college girl looking back terrible idea but hey whatever okay
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okay wait it's not what the heck oh it's pause that's why i was in like eighth grade
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you can i share one that a bra or bralette anyways nice rack kinder but a few what
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do you want to respond the underscore you got donated twenty dollars you were around the table
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do new go ahead please no like like this it will do it i would just say it will
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anisa anisa come on we got the come on if i do it will you do it i don't know
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i will brian you first no she's not gonna do it though no i said i'll do it if you do it first
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i don't believe you andrew there's no way you'll i'll do it
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no there's no way if you do it first i'll do it if anisa does it
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i guess we're not doing it andrew sorry sorry you know what yeah you do it first and i do it
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no no you first no you first bro you first hey you first by the way i better correct the record
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too otherwise people are going to think that my trolling was true obviously i didn't lose my virginity
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a 13 to 19 year i was joking i was kidding are you fucking kidding me bro yes yeah bro i've never
06:27:39.540
revealed that on the podcast i was trying to bond with you bro and you just made me
06:27:43.300
fucking reveal some like really intimate personal shit bro are you guys both i did that to you
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now give me a fucking ooh brian give me a fucking ooh
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unbelievable unbelievable unbelievable fucking unbelievable i opened up to you i opened up to
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you andrew i put my this is why you can't be vulnerable
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freaking andrew bro you bamboozled me dude unbelievable man
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it's like that okay oh my god damn bro did me dirty
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daniel censor here can you read this i'm gonna make you read these ones that don't
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censorship industrial complex we cook your meals we haul your trash we connect your calls we drive
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your ambulances we guard you oh here i'll pull it back up we guard you will you sleep do not
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fuck with us oh this is from fight club daniel actually is it kind of ironic because i was just
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thinking of the fight club quote while marla and the narrator or i guess it's tyler durden shit
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fuck uh yeah marla and tyler durden and it's been out for fucking 20 years you guys know what the
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the fucking twist is they took out a line from the film and she said she hasn't been
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fucked that well since grade school but they thought that oh no yeah that was fight club
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no it is in the i think they kept it in the film wait yeah it was in the film oh the other the there
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was another line that they had to take out it's had something to do with abortion i think
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fuck i don't know whatever anyways yeah no there was like a ton of them from the bloopers
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i think where it showed that they did that scene like 15 different times with different things that
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she said and they went with that one yeah they that is the one that made the film okay
06:29:51.540
justin martin's donated twenty dollars andrew you just need to get a hold of whatever chair six is
06:29:58.100
taking that should dull any sensation you'll have happiness your will to live yo justin thank you for
06:30:05.380
the yeah tts man man marine donated twenty dollars thank you marine used to be uncut but no i am
06:30:12.100
not much difference in sex to mention it only eliminates the annoying comments from women like
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i don't really care i prefer it uncut blah blah huey peach long donated twenty dollars they take our
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foreskin so that demon celebs like sandra bullock can inject their face with the blood and look young
06:30:32.580
forever pull that up jamie it's true conspiracy i feel like that guy's just trying to like make us
06:30:39.860
donated twenty dollars it's true the only reason anyone needs to know on why to vote for trump
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if he does not win we will enter world war three i have friends in high places that will confirm
06:30:52.580
that don't send our young men to war yo and you know if he does get us in world war three can we
06:30:58.580
at least have good gas prices like yeah that'd be nice yo andrew do you do you think who do you think
06:31:04.100
will win like not who you want to win who do you think will win kamala harris do you think so
06:31:11.620
now i'm not going to say the reason on air why i think that but i think people can infer
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because of sex workers okay never mind yeah yeah yeah because there's too many sex workers donated 19
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dollars and 99 cents what is the similarity between a woman and kentucky fried chicken
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by the time you've finished with the breast and thighs all you have left is a greasy box to put
06:31:42.420
your home in oh all right oh i remember so foul dude i remember what the premature ejaculation thing
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was it's my favorite pickup line you go up to a girl and you say hi i'm brian have you ever been with
06:31:56.420
a premature ejaculator before and she and then or no oh my god i fucked it up i'm such an idiot oh my god
06:32:04.420
okay hold on sorry let me you go up to a girl you'd be like hey have you ever been with a premature
06:32:09.380
mature ejaculator before and she goes yes she goes no in any case you just introduce yourself and you
06:32:15.940
say well hi i'm brian or whatever the fuck your name is it's great it works
06:32:23.460
five percent of the time you don't just do like the across the room thing
06:32:28.660
across what's that yeah the wilson's are famous for the across you know where you just like
06:32:32.580
you know you don't do that you don't do that thing you don't do that like that works that that's
06:32:40.020
that's the killer right there no i like to i like to do the challenge like i like to say the thing
06:32:46.020
that's least likely to succeed and when it does succeed she's a keeper has that actually worked
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yeah all the time just step up excuse me miss i'm a premature ejaculator i'd like to get to know you
06:33:00.740
i think that's a good way to make people talk to you because then it's like funny and they start
06:33:07.780
laughing but then you can like hit it off because you have like the humor yeah you can just like
06:33:13.700
basically just do anything like that though like you just walk over and be like that guy over there
06:33:17.460
just called you a bitch and when she goes what's no i was just kidding you want to drink right like
06:33:21.700
you could just do couldn't you just insert basically anything there wait is your andrew is
06:33:26.820
your question can you just say anything yeah well yeah i mean basically the whole point is to say
06:33:33.220
something which is offensive kind of offensive but it's offensive and self self-deprecating slightly
06:33:39.060
self-deprecating right yeah yeah yeah and then you you play it off like she was saying you say i'm just
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joking 30 seconds okay okay all right that's a tough crowd here
06:34:14.100
Boom. Roasted like his coffee-soaked shift key.
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The only B-word you should call a woman is beautiful.
06:34:36.400
Hey, Brian, did you see the girl you had on a while back?
06:34:39.680
Mark Lillian Phillips is going for the record for banging 1,000 guys in one day.
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Is that saying Australian dollars ate Shittler?
06:35:14.520
I did see the girl who's trying to break her record by banging 1,000 guys.
06:35:20.360
Honestly, with these girls, there's this other Australian chick that does this thing where she was going to be on the show,
06:35:25.580
but then she flaked because she's being a diva.
06:35:31.980
I'm not going to say her name just so she doesn't get any extra attention, but Australian girl...
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By the way, how is that not legal prostitution?
06:35:37.600
Basically, she's like, you can come in here and screw me, and I'm going to film it and make money on other guys watching it.
06:35:51.200
Like, they just say it to be controversial and to get attention.
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Big Uace of you, I can feel myself slowly, but surely becoming the me I have always dreamed of being.
06:36:16.820
Chair one has been roasted so much that if we could peer into her brain, joy would be strangling angry, sadness would be having a conniption, and disgust would be destroying all the core memories.
06:36:28.500
That's like Shakespeare shit roast right there, Vector.
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All I'm saying is, by the way, thank you for the super chats, guys.
06:36:38.320
If you can, just send them through Streamlabs just so it's, like, more streamlined.
06:36:47.320
All I'm saying is that women on this table lack moral...
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On this table, morals lack in comparison to Monica Lewinsky when she was blowing Bill Clinton.
06:37:01.660
This guy's, if you want, final call on the roast $20 TTS.
06:37:10.600
Randy underscore loves underscore Olivia donated $20.
06:37:23.200
My sprinkler goes like this and comes back like this.
06:37:52.180
I probably shouldn't have said that because now they're going to roast the shit out of me.
06:37:55.140
If I shouldn't have said that, I could have gotten away clean and then I fucked up.
06:38:04.380
The Fight Club movie was added onto the leftist's homeland terrorist watch list by the FBI via the anti-Republic Democrat Party and the Biden administration.
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Brian, as a Canadian, will you shout out Maxine Bernier, the only man running for office who promises to end mass immigration and promote our birth rate?
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Also, please say Tabernak in your mother tongue.
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I don't know who that is, so I don't know who that is.
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Any final thoughts from any of the panelists before we wrap up?
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I know you have probably a lot of shit talking you want to do.
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Any dating topic any of you guys want to talk on?
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I mean, I would, but also, I have to drive six hours, so I don't want to get into like a...
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I would ask, do you guys think that 9-11 was inside job?
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Like, you know how we're told to behave towards others versus...
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You mean like how women, female Christians, pretend that Christians are supposed to be little bitches?
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Well, I guess elaborate on what you mean by that.
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There's an entire Protestant sect of what I call sewing circle Christians.
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And what it is is a bunch of tone-policing women who like to run around and finger-wag at everybody about how they're supposed to say things.
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Because if you make people uncomfortable, they get really upset-y, spaghetti, because Jesus Christ wouldn't like that.
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And they have a little nice Jesus fish on their bumper.
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And you're supposed to be nice and take the proper tone.
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Meanwhile, the entire world fucking burns around us.
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And all they're concerned about is clutching their pearls because you happened to tell a prostitute that she probably shouldn't have sucked 100 penises last weekend.
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And honestly, I think that they exacerbate the problem.
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Well, I wasn't talking about the tone-policing.
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Do you believe in life after love has got to be my favorite?
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This is a diss to the live chat last week, y'all in the chat, begging for Andrew like a bunch of Taylor Swift fans, y'all grown men, or what?
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Everything is a conspiracy theory via the leftist mainstream media network.
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Brian has been breaking scales since last year.
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And never used a cigar to diddle Monica Lewinsky.
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Andrew's nose looks like female genital mutilation.
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Some of the women on this panel make premature sound like just-in-time hashtag pump and dumb.
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You wifed up a chick with two previous baby daddies.
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If you were retired at 26, what would you be doing if you had all the time in the world?
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When you say you're retired, like you came into inheritance, Bitcoin, how did you come into enough money to retire?
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Yeah, I consider it to be antithetical to Christianity.
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Ultimately, I think that women, especially feminists and egalitarian Christians, are moving into Protestant churches and destroying them.
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And that they would much rather hear, instead of seeing a prostitute reform, they would actually rather see her stay a prostitute rather than see a Christian who potentially was mean to them.
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I think that they would rather actually see a woman prostituting herself for money rather than see a Christian use harsh language towards her.
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Well, I wasn't referring to saying the truth at all.
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I was more or less talking about, like, in Proverbs, how it talks about how to talk to people or, like, Jesus flipped tables when it was necessary.
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I'm not saying that it's not our duty to stand on what the truth is.
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I mean, more or less kind of like the, I guess you could call it teasing, like, the way, I mean, I guess it's...
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Where did this idea come from that Christians are, like, a bunch of humorless wretches who just, you know, who, at the slightest drop of a hat, they faint?
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Like, if somebody says a crass word, you're supposed to grab your pearls and, oh, how could you say such a thing?
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You got Christians who are working on oil rigs.
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You got them working in the most god-awful jobs in the world, right?
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They're not going, well, no, John, I really appreciated it.
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If you would slide that wrench over here in the nicest way possible, because, after all, Jesus wants to make sure that you and I have the finest wrench-passing relationship that we could possibly have.
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Well, the Bible does say let no corrupt communication proceed out of thy mouth.
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That's why I ask, like, if you're orthodox and buy the book, that's just a question I had.
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And it's because, like, we're supposed to be representing...
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People speak a different language than what Christians speak.
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I meet people where they're at with the language that they know, with the things that they know.
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And so the thing is, is that I seem to be able to get through to people and get them to understand where I'm coming from a lot easier if I don't act like an overly pious, virtue-signaling asshole, but instead just point out that they themselves often seem to partake in extraordinarily corrupt activities.
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And I can guide them to that easier if I'm not a virtue-signaling prick.
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Instead of doing that, I tend to meet them where they are.
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The number one criticism that I get from both sides is only because I'm effective.
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I mean, you're effective at pointing out wrongs and rights.
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But, I mean, I guess what it is, like, our goal is to get people to turn to Christ, but it's more like...
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Yeah, how many people have you turned to Christ?
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Definitely not using your method, but also not being...
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What if my method turned thousands of people to orthodoxy?
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Well, if they were getting saved, then that's great.
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So then your objection, what would your objection be that...
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Oh, I was just asking, like, if you're orthodox, then wouldn't that go against representing Christ and all the...
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I think that communication in modernity, that I speak a different language than many people speak.
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I'm not making some claim that I turn thousands of people over to Christianity.
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What I am making the claim, though, is that I'm not going to...
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I have to share a world with some of the worst, most god-awful human beings on planet Earth.
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I've had women at that table talk about how they drain bank accounts dry and smile at me while they do it.
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I've had them sit there and talk to me about all the men that they've screwed over, why they smile at me after they did it.
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I've had them say the most horrendous things that you can imagine.
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And instead of me combating that, right, the sewing circle Christians of the world would much rather that I stay there and smile and say,
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And that's exactly what got us where we're at in the first place.
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What should have happened is a bunch of men went, shut your fucking mouth and stop being a prostitute.
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That's what should have happened, and then we wouldn't be in the situation we're in now.
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Unfortunately, what happened instead is a bunch of pussy-ass men listened to a bunch of dumb broads who told them,
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That was exactly the opposite of what should have happened.
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What should have happened is we should have had guarded laws against pornography,
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we should have had guarded laws against the sexual degeneracy in society,
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and men should have been pushing that forward the entire time and should have ignored women's objections.
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That's what should have happened, in my humble opinion.
06:50:08.240
Well, I guess it just seems like you'd turn more people away from it with the crass representation.
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I'm sorry that I don't want to turn people to fake, phony, baloney, bullshit Christianity.
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What it really is is you want me to turn people,
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they want me to turn people to phony, baloney, bullshit, be-nice Christianity
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where Jesus was your boyfriend and you can do whatever you want,
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because later you can just repent until everything will be okay.
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This 19-year-old over here, right, at chair one,
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Christ is the truth, but I don't care because I want to go fuck dudes.
06:50:51.860
And so, like, what would you like me to say to that?
06:50:57.420
well, okay, I'm just going to ignore that that's what was stated?
06:51:02.620
Well, I mean, you could give a scriptural reference,
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She literally believes that Christ is God already.
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Like, what scripture should I give a person who's already a believer,
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What scripture should I give a person who's like,
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According to the Bible, it's our job to spread the word.
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It's God's job to judge and the Holy Spirit to convict.
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I know a lot of Catholics that grew up like that,
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but not all Catholic churches actually teach them to read the Bible
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What part of she already accepts Jesus Christ is Lord and God
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She already accepts it as being true and just doesn't care.
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What part of this are you not reconciling here?
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You're not going to be able to take the decoder ring Bible tour and go here.
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And with this proper passage, then she already knows.
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Well, that doesn't mean she's saved regardless of how she's living her life.
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But the thing is, if you already have the foreknowledge, you already know it's real,
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you already believe that it's true, you already accept that Christ is God
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I'm going to sit here and learn from you, the master.
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Go ahead and bring her back to Christianity while I watch.
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And then I'll know for next time how I can do it the right way.
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If you died today, do you know if you're going to heaven or hell?
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Regardless of how you live your life, and it's right that you do, but the first step
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I mean, I guess, like, I could say what I think, but obviously no one knows how I live
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But I think I really don't think that I've sinned in any way that would cause me to go
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So I do believe that I still have a chance to redeem myself with God, even if it's after
06:54:16.380
Well, if you say you believe in God, and you believe the Bible, correct?
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So then you would know that we're all born sinners, right?
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So regardless of what sin you do, you're already sending...
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We're already on our way to hell, but that's why Jesus died on the cross, to save us.
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You can either choose to save yourself and accept the gift, or send yourself to hell and
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And I think what I was trying to say in the beginning of the pod that I didn't really
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clarify fully is that, like, I believe in God, and my end goal is Catholicism, but I'm
06:54:59.340
still, like, just, like, on my journey in accepting that part of myself.
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No one could sit here and tell me and, like, convince me to turn back to my faith, because
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I'm just having my own personal struggle, you know?
06:55:26.340
You could sit here and tell me to go to church on Sunday, but, like...
06:55:29.000
Well, church doesn't make you a good Christian.
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Not going to church doesn't make me a bad Christian either.
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I mean, you could say it does, because, like, I'm not practicing, but, like, I believe
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So, like, that's my personal relationship with Him.
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And if I want to build that into, like, including the Catholic Church, you know, as in, like,
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practicing, going to church on Sunday, then that's just, like, my personal choice, you
06:56:01.280
I'm still in that journey, so no one can really convince me to jumpstart it, because, like,
06:56:13.400
Well, okay, I could give you an example of why you said not to convince you, but let me
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I grew up raised right, and I got far from God, really far from God, to the point where
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I know God as my Savior, so it doesn't matter how I live.
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And no amount of smoking weed or drinking alcohol or going to shows or listening to music
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No guy, because at the end of the day, every guy seems temporary.
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But as soon as I, you know, went back to what was right, it seemed like everything started
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falling back into place, like I actually was happy again.
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Felt like I knew my purpose in life, finding my purpose in life.
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I think a lot of that, like turning back to God, comes with fear, because like, I don't
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know, it's like scary to see like what's going to leave your life, you know, when you do go
06:57:18.160
Well, you don't fear hell, and you don't fear all the disgusting things that are out there
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I guess it's just like, it's easier to talk about it, but it's a lot harder to act on it,
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I don't really want to talk about like religious stuff, because unless it has to do with like
06:57:36.920
dating, you know, because my boyfriend isn't religious, so like, I guess I just don't
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All I have to do is just wait for the person already shut down to shut down again.
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Way better than the process of, I don't know, meeting them where they're at.
06:58:06.460
Well, like I said, it's the Holy Spirit's job to convict.
06:58:11.220
Yeah, then why even open your mouth if it's the Holy Spirit's going to do it for you?
06:58:17.860
Okay, so then I guess it takes a you component too, doesn't it?
06:58:26.920
I feel like you have a very crass representation of Christianity.
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You have a very effective and a very ineffective way of going about convincing anybody of anything, right?
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People can barely stand and listen to you for 15 seconds because you talk like this in a monotone voice
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And the thing is, it's really easy for you to point at me and say,
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well, I don't like your methods, but we just saw yours.
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You go in your little room somewhere and you pray about it.
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And meanwhile, I'll be out here in the mud and the muck fighting the good fight
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Dragon's Talon, that born Christianity speech makes me want to seek out Satan.
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Andrew, call me an Aussie dollar to bring me back, please.
06:59:45.360
All right, realistic heart, can you read this one for us?
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Here's something to tuck you in, Brian, before you go to bed to insulate your heart from being
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Realistic heart, thank you so much for the very generous super chat here at the end of
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Thank you so much, man, for the, or maybe you're a woman.
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The apostle Paul said to become all things to all people that by all means some might be
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Thank you very much for the secondary super chat there.
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If you guys want final call on the TTS, I'm going to just let the rest come through and
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What was also added to a potential risk of domestic terrorism to homeland security in
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these nations by the Biden administration was the Evangelical Christian Church.
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For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine, but after their own lusts
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shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears, and they shall turn away their
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Andrew, I appreciate the way you put your points across.
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I was brought up Christian, then turned my back to it.
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There's three more guys, but it got a little scuffed.
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Andrew, the woman on the last podcast, Baptist Christian sex worker, was even worse.
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These people are causing others to fall, making it harder to witness to them.
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Repent and change your path before it's too late.
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And he said unto them, strive to enter in at the straight gate.
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For many, I say unto you, will seek to enter in, and shall not be able.
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Yo, thank you so much, everybody, for all the TTSs.
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If there's any that trickle in, I'll be sure to get them.
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Can we get one last Prime before we wrap the show?
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07:04:00.020
We're trying to build up on Twitch because one of these days I'll just rage quit the show and then never do it again.
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And then I'll just be depressed and play World of Warcraft for the rest of my days.
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I'd like to end the show by seeing if we can't use this moment as an opportunity to give you a call to action.
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If I had, like, a good financial, like, set up to where I could quit.
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What does it do to a man to gain the entire world at the cost of his soul?
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By the way, those were the famous words that Jesus Christ spoke to Satan himself.
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I spoke to him to Wes Watson and watched him freak out about him, too.
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You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.
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Thank you to everyone who super chats, donates, and supports the show.
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We will be live again Tuesday at 5 p.m. Pacific.
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And then me and Andrew are going to be doing an election stream on Tuesday, November 5th.
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Any girls who want to be on the show, DM out whatever on Instagram if you can make it to
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Two quick questions before we wrap up the show.
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Okay, what's your civilian count, and what's your work count?
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You just want me to give it out to, but it's just fine.
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Like, it's already over 500, so I mean, it's like, you might as well just say.
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Brian, have you even eaten 1,000 M&Ms in your life, do you think?
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Multiply it by three, and that's the real number.
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I know of no reason why the gunpowder treason should ever be forgot.
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If, Carmela, name one policy other than abortion.
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I'm excited about her housing plan to build more houses.
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When I send you guys over, ask her if she has Fig Newtons.
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She is currently in a dungeon playing World of Warcraft Classic.