KICK OUT AND RAGE QUIT?! 70+ Body Count At 21?! She Is In LOVE With A Fkboy?! | Dating Talk #207
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In this episode of the Whatever Dating Talk podcast, we have our first guest on the show, Alex, who is a singer, songwriter and singer-songwriter living in Santa Barbara, California. We talk about how she got her start in the music industry, what she's up to now, and what it's like being a single mum.
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going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location and occupation
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go ahead so i'm alex page moore i'm 27 i'm doing of for three more weeks then i'm going to focus on
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the singing career and i'm from australia okay what part of australia south australia south australia yeah
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the boring part okay and uh so you're doing of only three more weeks yeah i'm gonna leave
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okay i i don't believe you but uh only three more weeks get it while it lasts okay um what do you do
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on the left well i mean i do a bit of everything but um i've sort of tamed it down a little bit
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recently i want to i think my passion is singing so i really do just want to focus on that and i'm scared
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that you know if i um don't quit then people won't take me seriously so i'm gonna try and start doing
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something more seriously with that uh what kind of singing do you do so i like to do pop music a bit
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of like also paramour bit of country so yeah i'm releasing a song in a few days actually so that will
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come out yeah i'm very excited let's hear the acapella i was just i knew he was gonna do this
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it's up to you i can do it um okay do you want me to sing like yeah just go for it i'm so okay um
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i'm so nervous can we get up maybe a bit later i'm a bit scared do you want to give her a song
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like an instrumental no like what you want to be like are you a rapper okay um i've been away for a
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while now you got me feeling like a child now i'm so nervous that was good well done well done i mean
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backs it up there you go that was incredible i'm so i'm record deal what about you all right um my
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name is pos i am originally from thailand but i grew up here in santa barbara i currently work at a dental
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office still working on getting some certifications um like a hygienist not hygienist i feel like i would
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get kind of bored i like to multitask and um maybe get paid a little bit more so i will be attending um
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a dental school um give what getting paid oh getting okay all right yeah okay got it um and then you
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are held um i am 21 21 okay and you're you're continuing about your occupation yeah yeah so um i
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finished schools here i've grown up in santa barbara all my life and i'm kind of just deciding
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what school i want to get into for dental oh so you want to become do you have your bachelor's
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not yet still working on that okay are you at city college or the uc um i am at the city college
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um and online schools at the um channel islands sure at the moment so what are you studying
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uh well my major has nothing to do with dental at the moment i kind of have to change it but
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it's math and architectural engineering okay and you no longer want to pursue that then i don't think
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so yeah it's normal for people to uh switch things up when it comes to their education and career
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yeah and uh are you also a professional or semi-professional surfer yeah i used to compete
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um i don't do that anymore i had an incident when i was younger no that would have been better
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oh uh what happened um i got caught in a reef and i kind of just fractured one of my ribs and passed out
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underwater held down yeah i got tumbled by a wave this was actually in oahu and i was training for a
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competition for what was it the north shore no it was not i don't even remember the name of the beach
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but okay yeah i do have a video of it somewhere on my computer yeah i do hold down yeah because um
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i was training so my my coach likes to take videos and so were you living in hawaii at the time or
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i was visiting uh both i stayed with a family of locals in hawaii for just a month okay uh and can we
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get the her video the i found two of your surf videos can we pull those up on your instagram
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oh my gosh and uh while we're getting those pulled up why don't you introduce yourself
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hi i'm relly i'm 23 years old and i work in finance uh okay did you graduate from college or no i'm a
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dropout okay uh you work in finance what is i invest in crypto so you're you work in finance yeah that's
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what i call it oh you have to so are you employed no i work for myself okay all right uh what what are
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your holdings i prefer not to discuss it because i'm not a financial advisor wait why would that be
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the reason you can't discuss like i could see why you don't want to just share it the main ones of
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course such as bitcoin and ethereum i'll say that the other ones i don't want to talk about you're not
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going to share your meme coins no really doge chiba you know okay all right uh cool yeah you got it
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okay let's see let's see some she's good i looked
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wow wow she's good yeah it's good this is california though right that's california yeah
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yeah yeah it is okay wow wow is that trestles or where is that um this was actually in malibu oh
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malibu okay and there's that there's another one i have a few okay all right well we and we get the
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idea um what about you hello thank you so much for having me on welcome it's gonna be very fun hopefully
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my name is louisa i'm from stockholm sweden i have three jobs i'm working night as a receptionist
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in stockholm and then my week off i'm working as a host a game show host i'm hosting game shows
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and age yeah uh 27 any college i've been studying in stockholm and as a political science it's called
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yeah but you have your degree or still working on it okay and you grew up in stockholm yeah okay born
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in stockholm as well yeah okay and then something recently happened to you what you want to tell us the
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story what happened there what the you got attacked or something yeah i was on my way to work
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and then a man comes behind me and set my hair on fire and my jacket yeah so it was quite a thing
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and then in stockholm the subway yeah i'm sorry girl let me take that off my list yeah it was terrible but
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the trial is coming up so it's i cannot really go into details but and so uh how did how was it how
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did he light your hair so i were in the escalator going up to the train and then i just see smoke
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coming up behind me and i turn around and then the man was just standing there and i'll yeah try to
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figure out what happened just the lighter do you use flammables or was it just light only and a lighter
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you know my hair is very flammable actually he will just burns like hair well is it it's flammable
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i mean did you have hair products no actually i didn't have anything yeah lucky me but so uh
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they caught him he's he was arrested yeah was there camera footage of this it is yes okay and he did it
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for five girls so wait he did it to five women so this is a crazy person was he crazy oh yeah uh i didn't
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really talk to him but yeah i guess so yeah was he uh was he a swedish swedish native and no i wouldn't
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say but you wouldn't say blonde hair blue eyes not really um an asylum seeker i have no idea actually
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i don't know not uh born in sweden i don't know because i didn't talk to him and i don't have the
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information about him but okay uh what about you my name is alana smyra i was born and raised here
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i work as a supervisor at starbucks and i'm currently getting my bachelor's degree in psychology
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age um 22. all right at the uc no um starbucks actually pays for you to go to arizona state online
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oh interesting okay huh and you're getting that in psychology yes got it you're a senior um
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junior junior okay got it what about you my name is destiny i'm 19 years old and i work as a caregiver
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and i work part-time at a restaurant all right where are you from by the way i'm from the valley
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california like for our age okay got it what about you hi my name is vera welcome if you're gonna ask
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me what i do for a living i take pictures only fans i do only fans for a living um yeah i've been doing
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that for a very long time so that's what i do age 22 all right how long you've been doing the of for
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i've been doing it since i was 18. okay so like four or five years yeah okay uh were you have you
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been involved in other kinds of sex work besides just of um i don't think so oh stripping no no
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like uh stripping i'm from st lucia too i'm from st lucia what's that st lucia i'm from st lucia it's a
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small little island in the caribbean right next to st vincent and martin okay it's called st rish st lucia
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st lucia i see okay oh that's cool now i can understand that yes rock and roll okay welcome
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what about you hi i'm valentina valentina sumapski i am an actor screenwriter and i own my own business
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uh age i'm 32. all right you don't look like i know thank you you're beautiful i love you and uh
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where are you from i'm mexican italian okay and so you were you born in mexico italy or funny story
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i was born in santa monica but my mom took me pretty much kidnapped me oops took me to mexico
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she uh she take me with her when they separated my parents and i grew up in mexico my whole life and then
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i decided to come back here four years ago and see what life had for me and here i am what part of
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mexico north or south or central uh it's called cuernabaca it's a very small city i've been stop
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it i've been on a wedding there beautiful the best weddings i'm not even kidding i mean i am from there
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but whatever um cuernabaca is really close to mexico city it's like 45 minute drive yeah the city of the
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barbara not born but from santa barbara host owner of the whatever podcast over the hill washed up
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has been youtuber uh we're gonna get everybody else's uh relationship status so are you single
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talking stage situationship friends with benefits relationship married poly kill sex cult harem
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whatever it may be if you're single how long have you been single and what's the longest relationship
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you've ever been in starting with you go ahead so i'm single at the moment uh the longest
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relationship's probably been four or five years okay and uh how long you've been single for so i've
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been single for over over a year now i think i'm pretty fussy and i saw you uh you had dated this
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actually semi-well-known australian comedian yeah i don't know if you're at liberty to talk about that
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but uh yeah i used to watch his youtube videos and i was like did you really yeah shoot her
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so was that the five-year relationship no we were together for about three years three years yes we
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broke up a year ago but your longest relationship was three years or sorry five years probably five
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years and that was like yeah all throughout high school so i don't know if you can count that
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yeah that's crazy you used to watch lucis lizzie bloke yeah that's like youtube old school old
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school yeah okay cool cool and uh so single for the past year then yeah yeah okay uh any prospects
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or any any guys in the picture at all whatsoever no i'm waiting for mr right hoping he's around i
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got to interrupt the uh relationship status segment here real quick i know can you just say oh here
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we go can you just say no no no no do i said no i heard her it sounded like a no no no but the first
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yeah everyone goes no let's go wait i'm gonna help you okay check this out okay repeat after me okay
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no no no no do i say it like that yeah okay well we'll come back to that we'll come back do i say
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it wrong as well let me hear it no well you said nah last time you said nah so no okay uh relationship
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status for you um i am kind of like in a situationship but that's fair because i
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recently just broke up with someone just a few months ago um technically longer but i think he was
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to like to understand that i was like he was sorry to what crazy we'll say what is the word
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mental well all of those things no um delusional okay yeah well he was delusional yeah what type of
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delusion well just that we were still together even though i've clearly said that we were done like a
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while ago so it's been a while so like they just don't accept that exactly yeah exactly that yeah but
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so you said you've been so that was like three months ago um i don't know how long it's been i'm
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so bad at time um but yeah just a few months ago but even further back but they thought it was still
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going on yeah okay so like when was the break off um for me i would say what month is it it's october i
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would say it was like four months ago something like that yeah somewhere in june uh you broke it
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off yeah but now you're currently in a sort of a situationship yeah i don't know how i got there but
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it's just like i don't know i don't think anyone really knows how you get there how long have you
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been seeing this guy well see i have known this guy for eight years now um and it's a long story it's
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very like back and forth um trying to figure it out have you guys dated previously we have and get
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this it was for a week no one yeah for one week how long does he think you were together for
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if we asked him what would he say i have no idea um yeah wait so and that was the only time you
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dated him previously just for one week but now you guys are in a situationship yeah there weren't
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other periods where you guys were hooking up or seeing each other just that one week oh we were
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for sure hooking up other times yeah okay but you were only like in a like boyfriend girlfriend
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for a week yeah which i think it's just like a title right like titles don't really matter they don't
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maybe i'm the delusional one i don't know um wait so it was like would you categorize it as an on
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again off again relationship for sure okay uh when did you guys first link up romantically um way back
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in high school actually so um yeah when i met him and was was that that initial time was that when you
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guys were had the title for a week um the title was maybe like a year or two after yeah but then
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like between the times we were both like dating other people and then we kind of just like come
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back to each other it's just like i don't know and so one week so was it uh was it on again off again
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or was it just casual like the entire time it was casual the entire time like i can hang out with him
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and we wouldn't have to hook up it would just be like mutual friends like i still talk and hang out
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with him till this day and we're like fine you know like he can openly talk to me i can openly talk to
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him about like other um people that were maybe interested in so it's not like weird at all but it's just a
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a little bit messy like mentally you know wait is this the current situation ship yeah okay um
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when's the last time you saw him oh um actually two weeks ago two weeks ago is this like long
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distance or no he's actually here oh the reason why i haven't seen him in two weeks is because i
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invited him to see this band slightly stupid at center barber bowl yeah i love them i invited him
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um i got like an extra ticket and he totally forgot about it even after saying like oh i'm so hyped to
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go and you know day of i gave my ticket to someone else which is fine he forgot about it yeah like he
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just happened to take another shift that same night so okay so he didn't no show but like the day of he's
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like he like he couldn't come or he knew in advance and he was like hyping it up like i'm so excited to
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go and then day of i'm like texting him like hey when you're gonna head over so we can like pregame go
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to this um concert and he was like oh shoot i totally forgot it was tonight this was like day of
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and i'm like oh my gosh well i see okay um and uh okay so how many like
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you you said it was kind of on again off again yeah okay uh so you guys would like would there be
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breakup conversations like hey i don't want to see you anymore that sort of convo convo oh for sure
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he's like someone that i have fully like went off on and just told him shit up like dude you like you
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don't make sense to me like you know he doesn't make sense to you yeah wait you said you go off on
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him yeah because he's like one of those guys that will kind of call you a babe and like tell you all
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of these um future things that you could see like doing and stuff um and then like maybe a month
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later or a few weeks later not so much longer he's like oh by the ways i'm actually dating blah
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blah now and i'm like okay well when did that start you were like just with me like the other night
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but okay wait so you would go off on him because he called you babe it's just like kind of like
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messing with my like brain a lot you know it's just like really conflicting
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so i've been trying to like figure it out um and obviously i can't figure it out with him
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because he's my issue so he's your issue yeah he is i was gonna say he sounds like an f-boy that's
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sort of just he looks like one too he looks like a fuck boy is a fuck boy yeah like one of those like
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cali guys you know like surfs but all of his surfboards are like dusty on the top like he doesn't
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even surf anymore he's like a poser yeah he's a poser uh long boards or surfboards though
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well he has both yeah where's like uh so he's not like a pro surfer no just for fun you know okay
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um huh so you said you go off on him can you here pretend i'm the fuck boy or whatever just like go
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off all right whatever just here pretend i'm the fuck boy i don't even know what i would say
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like being put on the spot right now i kind of just have to like see his face like he needs to be like
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great here you know i don't know yeah like how would you go off though like like demo give us a
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demonstration oh shoot stop effing calling me babe
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yes but like in a more like sweet way i feel like i'm not someone to like be fully like mean i like
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non-confrontational yeah but i'll say in like a really nice way okay so unfortunately he calls you babe
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you you lose it you freak out what do you so he called you babe what did you say to the babe thing
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uh i mean he called me babe and i just said like like don't call me that
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don't call you babe yeah do not call me babe why not though why not because i'm not his babe he has
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like a whole other like side babe on the other side of his phone do you want to be his babe
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um i do and i don't you know i think what i'm attracted to is just the fact that he's
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pretty much like me but a male version of me but just like more like you said he's crazy though
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wait wait hold on um we're like very similar in ways of how we view the world and um we have a
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lot of common interests and like um the same career paths in a ways but um we're different in ways
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going into dentistry no no and just like what we like we have like an idea figured out of what we want
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to do in the future you know like we're not people who don't have it figured out and just like smoke
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every day and do nothing you know okay yeah so like being normal i guess like um but okay so um
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you said you guys have similar world views is that what you said yeah what are the world what's the
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similar view of the world or um just going being able to see the world in like different perspectives
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and not just one way or the highway kind of thing yeah so what's that um that's kind of like
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for example when you talk to someone about a specific topic they will maybe view
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um a reason why someone is mad for this specific reason but there could be multiple reasons of
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why it goes into that emotion does that make sense a little bit um okay and uh
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hmm so you don't want you want to be his babe but he calls you babe you don't like it if he calls
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you babe he's also fucking other women but you still fuck him um are you seeing other guys
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um i am not sexually just what do you mean not sexually like i will go on dates with them um
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i think i genuinely just want to find like decent people to hang out with like it's so hard to hang
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out with like guys now just in a mutual way like as friends you know without the fear of them wanting
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to tarnish it by wanting to hook up with you or date you so you mean like all men well you know
00:29:10.540
actually recently what i saw on social media um i don't know if it's always true probably definitely
00:29:17.100
not but guys will hang out with girls they find somewhat attractive yeah on a friends strictly friends
00:29:27.600
basis um just any basis you know i mean i've heard that men will be friends with women they're not
00:29:34.600
attracted to yeah that's also a thing but i didn't hear i didn't hear about this like they'll hang out
00:29:40.060
with girls just like actually just friends if they're somewhat attractive like if the guy's attracted
00:29:47.120
to the girl i feel like most men are not well see that's the weird thing because there's some guys i
00:29:52.420
don't know if you guys have ever been in a um like talking stage with someone who later tells you over
00:29:59.000
the years that oh by the way i've actually secretly liked you for like two years but i just didn't say
00:30:04.240
anything about it yes yeah like probably every girl here it's probably like predator it's a real thing
00:30:12.100
yeah okay um wait so you're just seeing this guy for the sex kind of but you you're dating
00:30:22.400
other people but you're not hooking up with them yeah okay so how many are there other like do you
00:30:28.480
have a roster no but like you said you're dating other guys yeah um like two two so you're dating
00:30:36.720
them going on dates yeah not like official like i don't know but the the and how do you meet them
00:30:42.440
dating up no um i just go out my friends introduce me to people you know i get interested um i go to the
00:30:51.680
beach get complimented when i go out when i'm on my board and yeah or social media i'm just like
00:30:58.180
heck it why not okay but it's clear that they're asking you out like on a date not just like a bro
00:31:04.340
chill sesh yeah okay and the guy the situationship you're seeing currently does he have an it does he
00:31:10.320
know that you're going on the dates does he have an issue with it no he does not yeah well i can't it
00:31:14.680
wouldn't be fair right because he's sleeping with other women it sounds like yeah yeah um and then
00:31:20.260
uh have you have you asked for more from the situationship guy no um i think it's because i
00:31:29.340
overall value our friendship more than a romantic relationship that i'd rather just
00:31:36.020
have him keep him as a friend than just loose him forever if we were to become a thing and it just
00:31:42.780
didn't work out well how do you know that that would happen well i don't know
00:31:46.200
but you do know well so much so just to be clear um you're happier you're i'm assuming you guys have
00:31:56.560
had some conversation about this yo metro matt thank you for the gift of 20 memberships thank you man
00:32:01.600
so he's told you in one way or another i'm assuming here you can correct me if i'm wrong
00:32:06.840
that he wants to keep things open is that right but he likes you and he wants to keep seeing you
00:32:13.320
yeah yeah uh or at least he likes having sex with you um and wants to keep having sex with you
00:32:23.740
but you would rather keep that than assert a boundary of saying well look some women i mean
00:32:34.680
women are also engaging in uh i guess non-committal relationships but uh
00:32:42.840
what's the word you used for it again yeah no no what's that funny word that you use
00:32:47.340
that like it sounds like coitus but it's like strumpet no it's like it's like that one
00:33:01.240
would if it was up to you would you like to lock this guy down if you could
00:33:08.860
um openly yeah yeah yeah but have you had you've had no conversations about like
00:33:16.740
hey chad this is i'd like to be boyfriend girlfriend i'd like to just see you and for
00:33:24.440
yeah see i'm just i'm really bad at confrontation unless it's like
00:33:36.180
wait question and then the nature of like when you guys do spend time together is it
00:33:40.860
pretty much like 11 p.m on a friday come over no you guys so you guys will spend time on the
00:33:46.880
week weekdays yeah 3 p.m afternoon delight okay all right um
00:34:00.140
um oh that's an interesting question i was not expecting that um i feel like there is definitely
00:34:08.600
um um a specific type of love there's multiple right i don't know well there's the love you have
00:34:16.920
for uh a parent or a sibling or a pet or a child but uh yeah i guess more uh romantic love is a bit
00:34:25.940
different so is it that kind of love um yeah i think so you think have you told him wait have you
00:34:34.260
said i love you no i have not um but see i say i think but i actually know just because looking at
00:34:41.780
my history of all the things i would and wouldn't do for someone he's probably someone that i would
00:34:49.980
do like the most for what would you do for him um drop everything i'm doing just to run over if
00:34:57.960
he's you know like calling me crying you know has he done that before he has he's called you crying
00:35:03.600
yeah yeah yeah about well he had to give away his dog he was really sad about that so his surfboard
00:35:12.420
broken i'll surfing fucking knee slappers at ring con the fucking thing snapped on me he missed the swell
00:35:19.520
uh okay yeah i got skunked do you think do you think he loves you um i don't know he's not as
00:35:28.640
expressive about his emotions as i am which is completely okay wait actually so everything
00:35:36.440
actions show everything yeah yeah for sure and we've gone to really nice dinners together
00:35:42.540
and um do you pay for it so you would do anything for this guy you do anything you're in love with
00:35:50.920
him have you said i love you to him i have not no okay uh hmm what do you what do you think would
00:35:59.680
happen if you said hey we've been dating each other seeing each other for a long time let's
00:36:07.920
be monogamous let's be boyfriend girlfriend what would he say um oh yeah i don't know if i can speak
00:36:15.180
for him i don't know you don't know yeah you should text him right now oh no right now um okay well uh
00:36:25.900
but would you be able to meet someone else guys like while he's in the picture
00:36:31.140
yeah i would just have to i think my standards are like somewhat pretty high just because in my
00:36:38.860
lifestyle like i travel a lot i like to be active um and it's kind of like a downfall when someone
00:36:45.560
doesn't have a job to me so or you know people who are family oriented in any sort of way things like
00:36:53.740
that does it how i mean you love the guy you want to be in a relationship with him you know that he's
00:37:00.660
dating seeing sleeping with other women yeah does that not bother you honestly no do you not think
00:37:07.780
you could i think he's got you brainwashed a little bit do you think that it's been seven years
00:37:12.620
do you think that you might be contributing to him being a fuck boy
00:37:15.680
see the thing about santa barbara guys because he is one is like they're like let's hook up first and
00:37:24.900
then see how i feel after that's like dating life nowadays seriously really that's valid i mean
00:37:32.200
it's valid but i mean you can lock that down within a couple weeks a month two months uh you've been with
00:37:38.860
him for what seven years how old is he um he is 22 oh okay wait i said by the way i saw on your
00:37:45.960
instagram you got like a couple pictures with like an old like 60 year old dude is that that's my dad
00:37:51.960
i thought i was like your sugar daddy or something i was like what's going on
00:37:56.760
wait are you adopted um i'm not adopted step step dad yeah got it yeah have you ever thought that
00:38:06.080
he's manipulating you has that ever come across your mind yeah see i think this man has given me a lot
00:38:12.900
of red flags that i've just been ignoring the sex is good but yeah ignore ignore she's
00:38:23.660
she's well she said he's a fuck boy looks like fuck boy fucks like a fuck boy is that even good
00:38:32.800
though i don't isn't yeah it is okay she knows do you feel like you're getting hurted from it like
00:38:40.320
hurt yeah or like do you feel pain when you when he comes to like well i screwed a lot of girls
00:38:46.000
today i don't know if he said that yeah i think when we talk about it together i'm like for some
00:38:51.720
reason i feel more okay with it but i think it's like a front that you put on you know because
00:38:55.780
obviously i don't want to give him the side fact like satisfaction that like maybe i'm a little
00:39:00.200
jealous or like maybe i'm a little sad like no like f you i'm just gonna like be super chill
00:39:04.660
about it but then like later obviously i'm gonna like overthink a little bit but that's normal
00:39:10.560
you know what's his sign his sign um oh shoot i think he's like an aquarius or something awkwardness
00:39:18.300
i don't know anything about zodiac signs but i just know what my eyes
00:39:23.220
laughing uh okay so um hmm there's a lot there a lot to uh we can go on and on i think we should
00:39:41.240
move on uh just two more questions uh you said there were periods where it was like there were
00:39:47.880
breaks breakups essentially uh on again on again off again how many times um countless i don't know
00:39:56.700
10 plus 20 plus 30 plus actually no not that many maybe like four or five four four to five and who
00:40:05.700
would end it him or you me every time um not every time i think he's done it maybe like once with his
00:40:14.140
last relationship but the other times it was me other times it was you okay and then um would it
00:40:22.880
be precipitated by something like you actually like do you ever walk in on him like fuck another chick
00:40:29.200
or no but okay see this is a day where i went over to his house and in the corner of my eye i see black
00:40:38.540
lace and i'm like this guy doesn't have black laced clothes and i'm thinking in my head i'm thinking
00:40:46.560
in my head huh just you know just to make fun of myself maybe it's a pair of someone's panties
00:40:52.180
i go over there and it is a pair of panties you know what i did the next time i saw him i wore them
00:40:59.280
i wore them and i went over to his place wow did you watch them before i was gonna say
00:41:09.080
that's actually what did he say that's pretty funny actually not gonna lie what did he say when he
00:41:15.440
found he saw you wearing them see his reaction was just like more silent he was just like staring at
00:41:20.260
me did he go through with it and take a look and do it anyway wait as a dude you know like how girls
00:41:25.300
will like get their haircut or some shit you don't know i was gonna say did he probably didn't even
00:41:28.860
notice he didn't notice no he it took him a while to notice but he did notice did he say anything
00:41:34.980
um oh he like kind of just like stared at me and he like gave me that like up and down look and he
00:41:40.500
was kind of just like pass like you serious where did you get these are they natasha's did you guys
00:41:46.040
sleep together anyway yeah oh well i mean now they're technically your panties on this thing
00:41:51.120
now aren't they wait um that wasn't that was a but like did you like you went over there in a
00:41:57.960
trench coat and you were like well man see i was thinking about that but no i just had like
00:42:04.400
slip-on like silk dress easy removable you know wait so okay so you broke up with him
00:42:11.260
wait was that that was one of the reasons you ended things no um the reasons why i ended things
00:42:18.160
was i thought i had something good going with my last relationship and i wanted to focus on that
00:42:25.460
and he was very much a distraction so under things there i see wait okay so what kind of reaction did
00:42:34.200
you want from that from him yeah what do you do you want him to do when you were yes i mean
00:42:41.240
like we're both really kinky people and honestly he just said he was turned on even more so i knew
00:42:47.840
that already wait what do you when you say you're both really kinky people what does that mean
00:42:52.520
oh like we've tried many things i don't know where else to go with that like he wore the panties too
00:42:59.880
probably did gagged him with him you know i should ask him actually he won't tell you did you wash the
00:43:07.660
panties before i did yes because maybe they were his panties maybe he was maybe i say he probably did
00:43:16.440
because sometimes i get messages from guys on onlyfans and when they find like their girlfriend's
00:43:20.440
panties they'd be wearing them and twerking in them and sending it to me i'm so serious no way
00:43:24.220
wow so serious i've seen the other side of the world
00:43:28.780
word uh so you ended things four times but then who would come back to who he would come back to me
00:43:38.940
i would get a text message or a phone call out of nowhere and she'd be like hey like i'm off this day
00:43:45.820
what are you up to and we'll make a plan can i ask you a question as well like girls do you leave
00:43:53.660
your panties at the guy's house no if i want to yeah if you want if you have suspicion and you want
00:44:00.520
him to get like caught or whatever yeah you can leave it just the way she spotted them i feel like
00:44:06.480
he wanted you to find them jesus oh maybe it's just like a strategic panty drop so you drop them
00:44:13.800
they're like a um like a trap there could be different options a panty trap
00:44:18.740
it was obvious like why he left him was an honest place it was very obvious yeah he kind of put it
00:44:24.580
there for you to see them maybe maybe i don't know and then finally i think this is the final
00:44:31.780
question on this you said that you so while seeing him you would be dating other guys yeah but you
00:44:38.400
wouldn't sleep with the other guys no okay would you tell those other guys that you were you had
00:44:46.080
another guy in the picture no um i i definitely had like a moment in my past where i would like
00:44:54.600
hook up a lot of multiple people but now i'm kind of just like dating life is so annoying i kind of just
00:45:02.480
want to be over it if i could i would marry myself you should do it you should do it wait um wait okay
00:45:11.060
so uh you said there was a time in your past where you would be like kind of at the same around the
00:45:16.800
same time period you'd be hooking up with uh different people okay so you you had a roster at
00:45:23.160
one point yeah okay how big was the roster um it was long i'm just gonna say that it was long
00:45:32.580
we'll get 10 plus five is it normal to know your body count uh yeah oh i don't know mine you don't
00:45:42.120
know yours no you lost track yeah so uh what do you i mean i was i wasn't asking the body count but
00:45:50.100
i mean if we do it now i mean now i'm curious she's from i am a bit curious let's do it you want
00:45:56.900
to i don't have the whole alphabet but wait you don't keep like a thing in your notes on your phone
00:46:01.840
like billy uh bartholomew do you do that i had a girl once that did that you have a notebook of guys
00:46:09.040
yeah i had a girl once and we finished and she rolled over and she pulls out this notebook
00:46:13.280
and she starts writing notes i'm like what is this and she's like oh your number like seven like
00:46:18.000
what what and and i saw how thick it was like oh man i gotta get checked
00:46:21.340
yeah but like she's responsible as well it was like a
00:46:25.200
bro it was like she'd uncovered like the the lost like a george r r martin fucking dude like i was i
00:46:32.760
was amazed at the 800 page so she'd write like details of the like the stamina and length i'm like
00:46:38.120
what can i read my synopsis she had like a bio i would need to shower for like five days
00:46:43.160
dude i was gonna rinse myself in bleach that's really that's hardcore yeah but anyway i'm in
00:46:48.100
the book you have a you have a list yeah i do is it on your phone yeah okay we'll go through it
00:46:54.260
um but you don't have you don't have a list captain i do not have do you have like an estimate if you
00:47:00.120
want to guesstimate no i have no idea like 50 plus 100 plus definitely not over 100 though not
00:47:08.300
over 100 but probably over 50 maybe maybe maybe around there around 50 60 70 it's a little high
00:47:21.860
all right we'll say it's between 50 and 70 then um and uh hmm interesting so i want to open you know
00:47:33.340
what here i have like a million questions but just like so i get everybody's answer to the relationship
00:47:37.360
question um we'll just get through the relationship stuff and i'll save my inquisitions
00:47:41.760
until we get everybody what about you what's the question oh yeah so uh i know it's been a while uh
00:47:48.800
so relationship status how long you've been single if you're single and my relationship status is single
00:47:55.760
as of this moment i just got out of a short-term relationship but my longest relationship was about
00:48:02.540
two years long how long you've been single for i've been single for about two weeks two weeks
00:48:10.220
okay who broke up with who i broke up with him and then your two-year relationship who broke up with
00:48:16.300
who me also okay and then what about you uh i'm single i've been single for three years now three years
00:48:25.200
and longest relationship was two years two years was that the one that ended three years ago yes who broke
00:48:30.440
up with who it was like mutual yeah exactly okay you say you've been single for three years though but
00:48:35.560
what does that actually mean no you've been like situationships i guess you call it what's the
00:48:41.320
longest situationship you've been in the past three years six months six months okay you weren't you
00:48:46.600
didn't call each other boyfriend girlfriend though no not not a little bit but we're not like
00:48:52.040
were you exclusive yeah you're monogamous yes six years six months excuse me not six years six months
00:48:59.160
okay all right wait hold on before i lose it i gotta come back to you really quick
00:49:05.960
i just gotta uh light bulb wait question um the the on and off again situationship that you're in love with
00:49:16.260
and uh that guy fuck boy uh how long well you guys you were like aware of each other like friends
00:49:26.080
kind of before you started dating is that correct yeah actually he found me on instagram and sort of um
00:49:33.340
started like messaging me like dming me and then we hung out for the first time yeah we go to the same
00:49:39.060
school found out we have a lot of mutual friends and yeah went from there
00:49:44.100
this was in high school yeah how old are you guys 15 um so he's a year older than i am okay so
00:49:51.880
you're 15 he was 16 or something that probably yeah okay damn people sliding into dms in high
00:49:57.520
school now what the fuck okay no i mean like i don't know shit it's been a minute for me uh since
00:50:03.460
i was in high school um there was also no instagram so okay um so wait
00:50:10.180
he's still into your dms i'm just curious did you guys like was he your first no no okay yeah um
00:50:19.760
did you guys like hook up pretty quick um no actually when i first met him we hung out for
00:50:30.180
maybe like 10 times before we you know hooked up sure okay got it uh going back to you or well did
00:50:41.640
you i think we finished up with you so uh relationship status in a relationship and the
00:50:47.560
longest relationship would be five years and that's the current relationship current relationship
00:50:51.840
got it okay how did you guys meet um i think just i mean we went to the same school no okay
00:50:59.580
and then um i was just trying to like hang out with friends and stuff like that and uh he would
00:51:05.540
text me quite often and so i decided one day to like go hang out with him at the beach when he was
00:51:11.560
with his friends and that's how we met okay all right what about you um i am in a situationship
00:51:19.700
type of thing and it's my longest relationship it's like a little bit over a year
00:51:24.460
yeah you're sorry did you say i'm relationship or situationship my years
00:51:30.420
situationship okay it's been one year a little bit over a year and is it your longest anything
00:51:36.840
yeah one year okay uh are you guys monogamous yeah shit i hope so
00:51:44.460
i mean have you had a conversation like um yeah i mean i block everybody and delete everybody on his
00:51:53.180
phone so i mean i guess yeah oh you block you have access to his phone yeah oh okay but have you
00:52:01.220
guys called each other boyfriend girlfriend yeah just wait do you say you like off and on
00:52:06.140
that's why i say situationship have you said i love each other i love you to each other yeah oh
00:52:11.140
when you say it's off and on how many times has it been has there been a break
00:52:15.720
i don't know a lot 10 plus no maybe like five five times okay five all right and then
00:52:25.960
who's breaking up with who he's breaking up with me every single up with him so it's split
00:52:32.040
yeah is it split maybe three times you three times him yeah okay what are the reasons typically
00:52:37.500
why you break up with him just petty i like to be petty he likes to be petty he's petty he's petty
00:52:43.440
who's pettier who's tom petty what does that mean petty is like
00:52:48.100
he's just like yeah well you explain it you explain it he just like does something that
00:52:54.440
he knows is gonna get all my nerves okay so he's like he's doing something out of spite
00:52:59.920
and i don't do stuff out of spite but i just like to be petty yeah you can be honest i don't like to
00:53:06.120
intentionally hurt people like i just think i'm like i'm a real sweet kind of person
00:53:11.280
so besides the petty besides the petty besides that yeah besides that stuff uh wait so okay
00:53:17.760
hmm and then he breaks up with you also because of the pettiness yeah you guys are just breaking up
00:53:25.040
so you guys are just starting like arguments over nothing it turns into a big fight and then you're
00:53:30.200
you guys are like breaking up basically yeah we don't really break up we just stop talking to each
00:53:34.780
other for like three days yeah and then you guys get back together yeah so it's the makeup sex
00:53:48.900
no he's my man okay well it's just i'm asking some of these questions because you said it was a
00:53:56.640
situation i guess i understand why because it's kind of on again off again but you guys love each
00:54:01.080
other you call each other boyfriend girlfriend it's exclusive i mean i would say like i would
00:54:06.400
say you're in a relationship but um yeah that's my man like if somebody if a really attractive guy
00:54:12.440
really attractive guy who you would otherwise date if he approached you asked you out would you say
00:54:18.840
you're single no would you give him your number no would you pursue him no okay yeah you're dating the
00:54:24.200
guy all right what about you i am single until married so that possibly could mean i might be
00:54:30.340
seeing multiple people but if you ask me if i'm single what you're single until married i'm single
00:54:36.000
until married so that mean i could be dating but i'm still single oh so you're currently seeing guys
00:54:44.020
because like my work profession like you can't possibly think i'm gonna be you can't possibly think
00:54:49.480
i'm gonna be on the internet and saying that i have a man but you could possibly i could possibly
00:54:56.200
say that i'm on the internet and a man is providing for me but so no i am single until married so no
00:55:04.480
there's no man behind my name because i feel like so you don't you would not have a boyfriend
00:55:08.540
and i make it very clear when i meet men usually they're much older that we're not exclusive and that
00:55:19.360
i possibly can't be taken away sooner or eventually until married that's my like goal so yeah single
00:55:25.660
until married they know that they know i have no loyalty but to myself you have no loyalty to myself
00:55:32.500
it's not a good key selling point for a relationship loyalty is usually that's why i make it clear
00:55:38.040
you know what type of relationship would you be yeah i agree i you know what i actually agree with this
00:55:43.660
single until married no providing until marriage you don't get if i you got to pay for your food
00:55:50.840
on the first date second date third day if like i don't have to protect you until we're married i agree
00:55:57.040
this is a great this is wonderful i like it it's gonna run with this now
00:56:01.460
boys we're single single till married let's run you don't get you don't get provide providing you don't
00:56:09.100
get protection if somebody breaks into the house like i'll protect myself but like you gotta take
00:56:15.640
care of your own shit so that's home invasion i can't move into with you until we're married so
00:56:23.360
always have my own place and if you can't if you cannot i agree provide something in that place you
00:56:29.100
can't come there i could maybe come to your place so we can meet outside yeah but we're if we're in
00:56:32.980
barbados and we're oh i live in barbados as well too there you go yeah we're in barbados and we're
00:56:39.560
at we're at the uh the cafe and a hoodlum steps steps up they do it all the time all the time yeah
00:56:50.260
all the time yeah they do it all the time i'm just gonna be like man you can take care of this and
00:56:56.760
i'll just like walk away well really because single to married yeah boom you're fine with that
00:57:04.940
well you know that will never happen because like i said i date much older guys and they're just very
00:57:10.560
happy to even be in my presence so that doesn't normally usually happen wait you hold on you date
00:57:17.560
older guys for how old are we talking here i don't want to give away an age range but older than me
00:57:25.360
and i'd say 22 right yeah i'm 22 so like you did 40 50 60 year olds yeah maybe okay maybe 80 90 and 100
00:57:32.720
too can we still get it up at 100 i wouldn't even know that's the point all right um it's the point
00:57:40.040
what updating a hundred year old dates older and not doing that
00:57:44.540
so you're are you um i mean are you just saying this like because these are your sugar daddies but
00:57:57.560
like secretly you're dating like hot dudes your age basically no i don't date any hot dudes because
00:58:01.720
i think it's like an embarrassment of the guy that's giving me money and then for me to just
00:58:06.040
sleep with a guy because it's hot i don't i think that's like more embarrassing on my part like
00:58:10.280
so no so you don't think hot guys matter um well where i come from yeah
00:58:16.920
people are struggling yeah and i make the american dollar and everybody else does not
00:58:28.280
so that already is like usually when young men want to be with me it's because they want to
00:58:35.220
leech off of me okay and they want to go dig me she wants a sugar mama so i like naturally
00:58:42.000
everybody is like you know having a hard time they sell so it just doesn't make sense when you're
00:58:46.420
making the american dollar to date someone your age because you're most likely like the caribbean
00:58:51.760
is like a place where everybody use everybody so like yeah yeah so it's a weird cultural
00:58:57.640
difference very different yeah that's that's a bit of a culture wait but you live in san
00:59:01.680
the barber currently right i've only been here for three weeks oh three weeks but i mean were
00:59:05.780
you in uh california before that no wait so just to be clear you moved here i came from st
00:59:11.560
russia to new york i met a guy and he brought me out here and then i don't want him again so
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interesting um partly because the the issue that you just discussed like you know um single
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intermarried so if i keep up with a certain lifestyle he brought me out of here i feel
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like he tried to manipulate me but i've done i've talked to enough guys to know like what i was stepping
00:59:41.880
into and so um he doesn't want to maintain my lifestyle so someone else would do it so i'll tell
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you start he just took me to san francisco it was like a week and a half ago he said he has
00:59:54.660
something to show me he has something to show me so he showed me a store with clothes and wigs and
01:00:00.520
stuff so i start to buy the are you wearing a wig yes i am wearing a wig can you take it off no i
01:00:05.480
can't okay just checking um so yeah he took me to a store and he let me try on all of these clothes
01:00:13.200
and then when it was time to pay he was like um i was like okay so you know i gave him the dresses
01:00:19.180
this is the guy he's from harris santa barbara and he was like oh no you pay and i was like oh no i'm
01:00:25.240
not paying oh no i could just call somebody else to pay and then he was like and i was like he was
01:00:30.220
like you know how about this i'll pay for half and you pay for half i was like or i could just call
01:00:34.180
somebody and he'll pay for home um cold cold-blooded because like i feel like how can you
01:00:40.180
bring me into a store then this is a big reason why i i things are not going to work out with me
01:00:45.660
because that's very delusional you're going to bring a materialistic woman you met me with materials
01:00:50.540
to a store try on all of these clothes tell me that oh this looks nice oh wow that really looks great
01:00:57.440
and then i'm shocked at a cash register and then like to me that's like very very embarrassing so
01:01:04.540
i had to embarrass him back so yeah interesting um wow that's uh that was a good that was a good
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story that was a good one uh how old is he you said older guy give us a range 50s 40s what floor
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60s so we're in the 60s and wait so you want to marry and have kids with like an older guy
01:01:31.080
um i don't want to have kids oh okay you want to get married though right yeah okay all right no
01:01:38.300
kids though all right uh don't kids animal kids and do you guys hear like on the panel i've heard
01:01:44.560
this like single until married thing before do you guys is that your position single until married
01:01:49.400
anybody else yes yes for you i love that idea you love the idea of it yeah okay um well we'll come
01:01:58.040
back to that what about you i uh broke up with my uh ex-boyfriend around 10 months ago it was a
01:02:07.520
three-year relationship and right now i think i'm in a situationship oh you're in a situationship okay
01:02:16.920
and sorry how long was the relationship three years three years and that was 10 months ago you
01:02:20.800
broke up yeah uh who broke up with who i did you broke up with him was there cheating no no okay
01:02:26.780
uh and now you've been in a situationship for how long like five months five months are you guys
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exclusive situationship i don't know you don't know you haven't had a convo
01:02:38.540
no are you sleeping with other guys i am not okay um
01:02:43.740
have you said i love you no okay wait and then wait hold on going back to you did you say your
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longest relationship no i don't have a longest relationship you've never had a relationship
01:02:59.640
no what have you had sex well actually like if you're counting like high school but i was like a
01:03:06.540
virgin in high school so version 2.0 um version like 3.0 so no never i've never had a committed
01:03:15.560
relationship no you're no longer i've had committed people to me that committedly provide for me
01:03:21.140
i've had those but you're no longer a virgin correct maybe i am that's that's a lot that's a yeah
01:03:29.460
that's okay guilty and proven um what um but innocence of proven guilty so so you hang out
01:03:38.740
with older men they just pay for your things yeah oh well usually they like message me like
01:03:45.480
on whatever social media platform to hang out with me and i'll see i decide just because you're like
01:03:51.200
older doesn't mean i'm gonna give you the time of day because there are like older men that pose as
01:03:56.740
like sugar daddies and they're not and what do they get in return nothing well if you're choosing
01:04:02.160
one that can't do nothing then they get nothing so once you're at a certain age range you don't
01:04:08.000
have to give nothing because they can't do nothing but if they can what's the situation i don't choose
01:04:12.540
them i don't choose the ones that can is it pay to play is that how this works what do you mean
01:04:18.920
like pay to play like they pay you money and you can just do well no that's not how it works okay
01:04:23.300
they have situations where you could pay to play but just because someone reaches out to you
01:04:28.840
on the internet doesn't necessarily mean they're like what sucks some of them just want my company
01:04:33.480
they need a trial so you're a sugar baby like they're sugar daddies basically yeah yeah okay we'll
01:04:41.400
talk about the sugar baby sugar daddy stuff later uh and then i think uh liam what about you
01:04:47.100
oh yeah so i've had three relationships they're all fantastic uh two or five years one was two years
01:04:53.160
they're really good i just tell people my relationship status is i'm married to my work
01:04:57.500
so i work 16 hours a day um i really wouldn't want to put that onto a girl unless i'm really really
01:05:02.280
special so i'm aware that like what i do is quite unique being an entrepreneur so um yeah until i'm
01:05:07.660
compatible that's kind of my status but having said that i do believe in traditional relationships
01:05:12.180
um and a lot of people see what i do and they think oh you wouldn't be supportive of that but
01:05:16.500
like i always say to people i have a lot more respect for a man that gets up and works every
01:05:19.640
day to support a family than you know what i do i just it just happens to be my life at the moment
01:05:24.340
wait what's your body count again i'm not quite sure what it is to be honest didn't you say last
01:05:30.520
yeah on sunday's show yeah i think it came up didn't you say it was like 300 was it 300 plus
01:05:35.660
300 yeah but i'm like i'm 35 wait what well i didn't like i don't know that she knows that
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thank you brian we slug shame men also yeah i appreciate that no yeah i really came on here
01:05:54.160
to feel like a prize hall thank you and you were giving me the eyes no i didn't say hey this i didn't
01:06:00.040
say 300 i just said it got brought up and i said it could be somewhere i just kind of stopped
01:06:04.020
and none of those 300 asked for money i'm assuming um no not really like i've never really
01:06:09.440
no like no i've just never had that issue it's never come up for me before yeah no like i've
01:06:13.620
never had a problem with it that's why i'm saying like you know if i could choose a traditional
01:06:17.120
relationship would be fantastic i'm very supportive of it i think they're healthy i think you can be a
01:06:21.900
masculine man and contribute to society and support a family i think that's great i just happen to be a
01:06:26.900
workaholic it is what it is it's just what i'm addicted to it's what i love but i also get to help a
01:06:30.820
lot of people so it's cool that's important yeah you know what i mean all the girls
01:06:33.940
i've been with have been fantastic like i have nothing but amazing things to say about them
01:06:42.280
how are you going your little beauties good on your mates much whinging brian lay off the
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brekkie slash mackas i reckon lads do you go down under on any sheilas also to the aussie bird say no
01:06:57.580
no this has come up before the same guy's been in the chat before he's a fan of yours i guess
01:07:04.080
maybe i don't know one more time one more time no oh there we go that was pretty good that was good
01:07:10.780
that was good one uh the question was here i'll we'll come back to that one it's uh yeah yeah we'll
01:07:16.140
come we'll come back to that one a little later uh but yo vegemite bogan sick i can't say that last
01:07:22.360
thank you thank you appreciate uh let's see what else do we have oh um going around the table have
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you ever had a roster no no no well we talked about that so that was a yes for you define a roster
01:07:38.600
yeah like dating multiple people at the same time does it include having sexual relations with them or
01:07:44.940
just while being that's the that's the advanced that's the varsity roster varsity is if you're
01:07:53.420
fucking uh but like um jv junior varsity that's just dating yes to both no no wait so not to the
01:08:09.000
varsity one just the regular roster like where you see them in a where you see them in a friendly
01:08:16.020
way but it's like also potentially romantic but you don't have you don't even kiss them wait so what
01:08:22.060
at the same time what's the most amount of guys that you've been dating a countless amount like 10
01:08:29.240
something like that 20 something that's hard to keep track of we're like gonna be like this
01:08:34.140
you confuse the names with each other it's like that bad but that was when i was like younger
01:08:40.720
like a year ago no like three years ago but i didn't have sex with them at the same time so
01:08:47.920
i don't really but would you be having sex with like one and then like dating others no
01:08:53.600
no okay what about you roster swedish for sure um i mean i had tinder so then you were talking
01:09:03.580
to like a lot of guys on tinder but not like really dating now then it's well like i know
01:09:09.520
they don't even date in sweden because it's just like you guys fuck and never talk again
01:09:13.360
is that really true it's a fucking super common like one night stand super common really
01:09:18.940
it's like a swedish handshake how do you do i'm good nice to meet you we should do this again
01:09:25.380
i think we're like top of the world of the chlamydia really oh yeah they're they're leading
01:09:36.400
oh my god for real yeah dear god it's a landmines out there it is so wait it's okay you want to go
01:09:44.820
no i don't want to go to places sit at home and just do my thing to be for real wait so okay uh
01:09:52.300
wow have you ever been uh hooking up with uh two guys at kind of the same time no dating no no okay
01:10:00.700
uh actually don't have quality have you ever hooked up with two guys in a 24-hour period
01:10:07.280
i mean date yes i've been on like a first date and then yeah second what about hook up 72-hour
01:10:15.660
period seven no it is that two days three days three days yeah well yeah yeah okay what's the
01:10:26.400
most in the 72-hour period like five days maybe two i think two two yeah all right what about you
01:10:31.420
really what what uh 72-hour period have you hooked up with two three four five guys no but well two
01:10:40.440
guys no not even two usually i just have serious relationships stop the cap but are you meaning
01:10:48.320
hook up at six huh are you oh but no sec no i'm meaning first dates like uh okay wait going back to you
01:10:57.720
swedish handshake have you ever like have you been hooking up with multiple people at like kind
01:11:04.260
of the same time so like a let's do a fortnight fortnight two weeks 14 days i mean i've like
01:11:12.520
had a sexual experience with like two other people together before two dudes a threesome
01:11:19.060
actually no with one guy and one girl okay so three it was a threesome yeah wait just show of
01:11:24.680
hands who here has had a threesome raise them high so you you you you and okay all right uh for more
01:11:35.840
than a threesome foursome more than a foursome anybody anybody what about uh more than one threesome
01:11:43.500
in the same day oh damn gross that counts have you had that yeah have you had three threesomes in a
01:11:49.740
three three day three hour yeah wait three threesomes in three days yeah you've done that
01:11:54.620
one day oh you had wait you had three threesomes in one day and then my best friend and it was the
01:12:00.740
same time it was like the same day but a different time wait so you had three threesomes yeah i think
01:12:06.980
you mean you did it with the same three people three times in one day i was gonna say where'd you
01:12:10.400
find nine people that's wild that's what we thought you were talking about no no wait no but so okay it
01:12:16.840
was it was you and your boyfriend and my best friend but then you would swap the third right
01:12:22.620
no it was the same guy oh same dude yeah same guy and same girl okay i see yeah huh okay she misled
01:12:32.240
um oh i'm sorry i didn't mean to and you had you had a threesome with
01:12:36.840
three sorry one one in a day or no it's two girls it was one other girl and one uh guy that we had
01:12:46.640
like just met okay just yeah did you meet him on a dating app um my friend did was this a
01:12:54.160
situationship guy that you had the threesome with no the boyfriend uh no another person i planned out
01:13:01.100
a girl's trip to lake tahoe just to like get away from masculinity i invited like five of my other
01:13:07.920
girlfriends only for the entire week of us being there my friend decides to go on her dating app and
01:13:15.360
invites like six guys like every single night over slept over um and yeah i guess just like one night
01:13:23.220
we got a little bit too cronk and then just you know left everyone and kind of just went to a room
01:13:30.980
and hit it off you know um it was pretty fun i've never like actually hooked up with a girl before so
01:13:38.640
that was interesting wait were you there because you guys are friends you weren't there wait so you
01:13:43.560
said one it was like a group of five six girls yeah okay wait so the male was the stranger to you
01:13:49.660
yeah okay he was the random and you were friends with the female yeah okay i see uh but so one of
01:13:58.380
the girls was bringing over different guys switch the split every single
01:14:04.700
yeah no it was like really weird because it was just her finding all these guys and all of the guys
01:14:14.640
that um she invited over always had like a conflict and actually talked to me about it like
01:14:19.640
hey like i know i was invited by like my my friends like should i like try to you know hang
01:14:28.240
out with her and stuff because obviously they met on this dating site it was on tinder yeah it was
01:14:33.260
on tinder so you guys where did you go salt or where did you go we went to lake tahoe so you guys
01:14:38.080
went to lake tahoe you rented a cabin it was like five five girls six girls one of the girls
01:14:44.420
was on tinder and every single night she invited one guy over no multiple guys all the guys that
01:14:52.920
came over she invited or we just met like when we were out okay and did she sleep with all of them
01:14:59.920
no she slept with two just two of them yeah in one night or the whole trip um just the whole trip
01:15:08.080
the whole trip two different occasions and one of those guys is the guy that you also slept with
01:15:12.080
yeah okay huh did the other guys she was inviting over sleep with the other girls in the group
01:15:20.940
no but see that's the thing because she was the one who invited all these guys over and they talked to
01:15:26.680
me about this um like conflict of hey do i go after my friend or do i go after like these other girls
01:15:35.760
that you know are also at the cabin because they also found them attractive but they didn't want
01:15:40.920
to be rude because they were invited by my friend so but you know i was kind of just like dude like
01:15:47.120
don't worry like wait question so you said she would invite over like multiple guys and these were
01:15:52.720
mostly guys from tinder right yeah some of them you guys met at the resort or wherever it was you guys
01:15:57.800
were yeah just like at the beach or something like how um and how many days were you there for
01:16:02.320
just a week seven days yeah so how many guys per day um like five six guys every day
01:16:12.480
she wouldn't she would be able five to six guys she'd be able every day yeah and they would like go
01:16:19.440
to the house at the same time yes yeah did she tell no they probably are thinking like i'm gonna smash
01:16:29.740
blah blah blah yeah that's a lot there's like five other dudes there who also came from tinder and
01:16:34.740
a lot of dudes too that's a lot it's a good volume that's a good one it's like half a basketball team
01:16:39.260
did the other girls smash any of the dudes or no um one of them did yes but got permission to
01:16:46.620
in advance i would what do you permission i would assume i would want permission from the girl who's
01:16:53.020
like what you can i please have sex with one of the guys you're not gonna have sex with
01:16:58.100
well you need permission you ain't okay okay whatever um damn okay that's crazy i don't think
01:17:05.520
you're gonna say that uh was was your friend i mean i don't know if this would even really matter
01:17:09.940
was she like really good looking or mid even if she's mid even if she wasn't mid she could pull
01:17:15.800
this off even a mid girl could pull this shit off i don't know just like um she has like the
01:17:22.380
ass the titties like really big boobs but not the boobs that like the animated titties no like not
01:17:28.260
like that but they're like perky you know perky like a c-cup i don't know i would say like
01:17:34.440
it's sort of like d like they're massive they're massive yeah like i've taken a nap they're canned
01:17:38.740
crushers yeah all right that's cool um it's just so that's really interesting to me because
01:17:45.780
so you have this girl she's in a in lake tahoe for a week hops on tinder and she's able to get
01:17:54.920
five to six guys every single day to come over yeah for and she's like i mean you say she's
01:18:02.420
attractive i believe you but like she's a normal girl right she's not famous or has anything like
01:18:08.180
that right she's just a normal chick right i mean actually um she also is like an influencer how many
01:18:15.260
followers does she have um i think right now she's like 20 something k okay i mean um whether
01:18:23.200
she had the 20k or not i think a girl who had even no social media following could pull this off on
01:18:27.980
tinder uh same circumstances but like for a guy to be able to go to lake tahoe and then be there for
01:18:36.720
seven days and then every single one of those seven days be able to invite over five six seven women who
01:18:43.400
want to fuck him and would fuck him that man doesn't exist there is no i mean like it has to be he
01:18:53.160
may no it doesn't exist i was literally gonna say it would have to be i mean he would have to have
01:19:02.880
like massive level of status so like musician athlete uh actor like a normal like a normal like
01:19:11.440
even if it's a good looking dude like a really like a 10 my good friend fabio would used to do that
01:19:17.580
he had status though he had huge status he even still shows music look at this one look at this
01:19:22.880
but even a dude who's a 10 could not like have seven girls come over same day
01:19:29.040
like are the girls friends or are they all different girls like are they different girls
01:19:33.120
like a group of friends or no they were all just like individual separate so she would swap new one
01:19:38.340
swap new one like just get like a yeah jesus christ that's crazy it's like shit fish in a barrel
01:19:43.600
that's wild that's that's dating on easy mode bro that's dating bro most i would say that's a
01:19:52.320
dude i would say the average dude is lucky to get like make two three four dates um dates a month
01:20:01.620
that's what and pussy ain't guaranteed son that's why the pussy ain't guaranteed that's why i tell dudes
01:20:06.200
don't be fucking average do you know what i mean well that's fine you gotta level up 100 you gotta
01:20:10.380
level up yeah level up usually the guys that are leveled up that much don't really need to try
01:20:14.760
anyway that's crazy should be the goal but yes level up as a man how do you level up as a man
01:20:20.300
you lie about your job no you should like you should be successful you should have a good moral
01:20:24.820
character you should be just charismatic you should be someone that people want to be around
01:20:28.240
you should physically look good because if you look good you take care of yourself if you look like you
01:20:32.180
care about yourself like women are going to be more attracted to you just based off that fact alone
01:20:37.260
and um you should be the best version of yourself when you're the best version of yourself you
01:20:40.960
genuinely attract the best type of people anyway so like i always tell people when they're like i'm
01:20:45.740
looking for a girlfriend like what do i need to work on yourself be the best version of you and it
01:20:49.400
will come what do they say um don't chase bees just build a beautiful beehive no don't chase
01:20:55.500
birds build a beautiful bird's nest you chase more honeys being fly well no it's saying build
01:21:01.720
build something that people want to come to instead of trying to chase become the best version that's
01:21:05.540
what works but i mean you know chris hemsworth is pretty high so yeah yeah well you gotta be like
01:21:10.060
super famous as a guy if you want to pull that up like so basically what it is is like you take
01:21:15.120
an average girl or let's say like she's she's a bit above average in looks versus like a guy who's
01:21:19.980
a bit above average in looks like you got an average average girl have the equivalent sexual
01:21:25.280
optionality and sexual pull as male a-list celebrities so like male professional athlete
01:21:31.300
male like top tier musician male top tier actor do you reckon a girl that's a two could go on tinder
01:21:37.780
and get six guys to come around yes and we we had her on the show wait really yeah we've we've had
01:21:46.120
we had this woman on the show this was like a year plus ago and she's she's getting those numbers
01:21:50.700
being a two yeah she was well she she was a sex addict no she was a sex addict and like because
01:21:56.300
the thing is like people say like oh girls can't do that it's like well if you wanted to you could
01:22:01.380
so like yeah she was look i'm not saying this to insult her right right but she was like overweight
01:22:05.420
she wasn't particularly attractive and yeah she was like here's what i would do i'd go on tinder
01:22:10.760
and i would like schedule guys to come like one hour after the other no pun intended
01:22:14.640
have them come over most overweight unattractives are usually sex addicts just saying most overweight
01:22:20.800
women validation out there on tinder just bringing dude after dude just getting glazed like a donut
01:22:26.520
every day she told us she was like yeah and i was doing it she said i was doing it every single day
01:22:32.620
i would have five six guys come over every single day we'd hook up no way they'd leave
01:22:37.840
next guy next guy next guy she was jagging six a day or roughly yeah and she said she was doing it
01:22:43.480
for weeks on end did the other dudes know that there were like five guys before them no probably
01:22:47.340
not i mean you wouldn't want to be guy number six on that monday right you wouldn't i wouldn't even
01:22:52.360
want to be guy number one but that's another what would you think of a social experiment where you took
01:22:55.760
a girl like that there's a two and she had like one leg and she was fat and you put her on tinder just
01:22:59.460
to see how many numbers you could stack do you reckon you could get those yeah they've done it
01:23:02.440
they've done experience really men oh my god men well first off if she's like fit but she's only
01:23:09.920
got one leg she can still get it yeah i'll still yeah of course i'm a nice guy that has nothing to do
01:23:17.400
though yeah i don't discriminate one leg well you guys are like is it a wet pussy and you will
01:23:24.800
fuck right well it doesn't have to be wet or not just i'm trying to say any holes a goal is what
01:23:31.560
they say yeah exactly but i'm just saying if she had a like a missing arm i would still date like i
01:23:38.600
wouldn't not date a girl i mean if she'd have to be she'd have to meet all my other like important
01:23:44.140
metrics beyond just sex of course but she couldn't talk she couldn't talk that would be his dream
01:23:50.340
where is this woman where's she at all the mute girls out there here's your chance like bitch i
01:24:08.220
wish to god you couldn't talk mute one-armed and that's one-armed women i reckon elon musk is
01:24:17.020
working on one of those let's also yeah all the uh one-armed mute large labia women i'm large labia
01:24:27.060
i only date women with large labia so elon can take care of that i'm gonna be honest with you guys
01:24:31.460
you know in sweden mediocre guys get very hot girls really yeah it is so you should go
01:24:36.880
wait you know why we're here too we don't like the competition we don't want to feel like we're
01:24:44.340
competing like i hate to say this but like average or like mediocre men a lot of them is insecure
01:24:49.460
and then so a lot of them like don't test you with all of these like whether who's the prize and all of
01:24:55.140
that like they know they know the price so for that more it's fascinating so at wait average guys
01:25:00.680
in sweden are cleaning up yeah the beautiful ladies what do you mean like what's cleaning up
01:25:06.160
like getting like getting cleaning i'm getting lots of girls yeah and you know when i work night at
01:25:11.120
the reception at the hotel and then maybe there's an ugly guy comes with a nice girl and i'm like
01:25:17.340
sorry mate it's not gonna happen wait what's not gonna happen if you only book for one person
01:25:23.240
it's not bringing a plus one what kind of hotel is this so i mean but i'm trying to catch up
01:25:29.220
tell me so i can avoid it please i'm in sweden i'm bringing whoever the fuck i want if i'm in a hotel
01:25:36.020
wait i i mean hold on so you're saying in sweden a bunch of average swedish guys
01:25:43.180
they're getting all the hot swedish girls not all but i mean it's not
01:25:46.780
it's not impossible yeah i mean we're quite yeah it's true
01:25:52.080
i mean isn't it the case that i mean the general appraisal of scandinavian people i'm
01:25:58.080
so i'm factoring in like norway too they're typically like probably rate a little better
01:26:02.840
looking than the general population of the world yeah maybe okay i also well i want to explore that
01:26:12.480
because i mean i do think that you say that but i think women are really harsh judges of male
01:26:19.520
physical attractiveness so like and then you'll say but women will be like oh but all women are
01:26:27.020
tens and then you'll say 90 of men are not attractive so of course your appraisal is going to be
01:26:33.380
beautiful women are dating average looking dudes if you say 90 of men are not attractive all women are
01:26:41.400
tens all women are beautiful then yeah that's of course you're going to say that but for a guy you
01:26:45.440
need just to be like easygoing like fun yeah easy to look at another way to approach a girl not just
01:26:51.460
physical no but it's really true and then we really like the english speaking ones so go to sweden and
01:26:57.680
speak english and we would love to talk to you really yeah because we would love to brag a little bit
01:27:03.500
about us knowing more languages even like um hold on octavius obama they were donated two hundred
01:27:11.080
dollars oh ladies would you date brian okay on one hand he is tall six foot one blue eyes rich
01:27:19.060
sometimes funny successful but he has a dead bond probably autistic has a weird liking for big
01:27:25.260
ladies and a small people well hold on now that last part first off it's not small it's average get
01:27:34.140
that get that right first of all what's average what's american what's average yeah average bro i'm not
01:27:42.500
gonna hold up my show you it's uh what five six we put body count numbers out here so we put numbers
01:27:53.040
out here so all right i will disclose my peen size if you guys disclose if you have an any or an
01:27:59.420
audi labia that's that's the trade you go first no you go first no we asked you no yeah you guys gotta
01:28:06.320
go first on this one any you can see it on twitter any i'll do any wait hold on sorry over here let's
01:28:14.220
go let's go around the table how did i end any any yeah i'll do i'm not gonna answer oh okay can't
01:28:26.760
any i don't know normal they say only two options they're both normal they're both
01:28:36.340
i don't know if it doesn't go out or in there's there's the one with the lips no okay and then
01:28:41.700
there's the one that's in any then there's midis it's like in between i just have a pussy
01:28:47.460
that's what i have um in between i made you okay all right so you didn't answer sorry so
01:28:55.260
thank you for the save appreciate it gotcha w sweden w sweden in the chat i never knew they
01:29:01.080
were out you still made all of us answer it oh yeah after she said no i'm such a dick for that
01:29:06.440
okay so you answered yeah yeah what's your penis size she didn't okay well she didn't answer hey
01:29:11.320
it is what it is anyway so oh we have to get to oh i have something from pico shut the fuck up
01:29:17.920
period cost times donated five hundred dollars oh there's no maybe just wanted to throw some
01:29:24.580
support to you thank you man give one piece of advice you would give your 15 year old self
01:29:30.660
is it just me or does it look off center oh i think i know what that is though it's not okay um
01:29:37.200
so uh quick if you can one piece of advice you'd give your 15 year old self maybe dating related if
01:29:42.940
possible okay don't be a doormat i have been walked over so much by men so just yeah don't be a doormat
01:29:49.900
um i would say be nice to the guy that maybe you find super weird even if he maybe asked you
01:30:02.620
out or you know comment commented like something really nice to you because he may not be here for
01:30:08.600
much longer so you never know just be kind like he dies yeah yeah oh shit okay that deep sorry i'm
01:30:18.260
sorry sorry about that listen to your mom's advice oh that's a good one girl you didn't listen to
01:30:26.400
it did you who did i tried my best um i guess i i don't really know maybe everything is gonna be
01:30:37.960
okay don't pressure yourself too much it's yeah they're not always telling the truth uh that's a good
01:30:47.400
one yeah um nothing is ever that deep right go ahead um i'm gonna tell my 15 year old self
01:30:56.960
yeah well you're what 19 what the fuck in my head that was like all right moving on moving on
01:31:11.200
that was a non-answer um everything everything will pass and you'll be fine that's beautiful that was so
01:31:16.540
beautiful guys that was great okay um oh the tts was it for the panel it was for the panel oh one
01:31:22.360
piece of advice you'd give your 15 year old self when it came to dating uh you go ahead then i'll do
01:31:27.560
it okay it's a 15 year old lane yeah dating like dating advice any advice i'd say hang in there you
01:31:32.980
little skinny rat things are going to get better you're about to become a jacked up multi-millionaire
01:31:37.040
that sells the best gummy bears on earth hang in there hang in there son that's what i would say
01:31:41.200
i would probably tell myself life is not like american pie the movie the film um i there was no food
01:31:52.020
incident so wait let me think probably yeah no there wasn't no there was uh no food incident life is
01:31:58.800
not like american pie uh i'm trying to think that that doesn't really make any sense though
01:32:05.260
um don't be like too caught up on anyone lady friend why don't you tell your 15 year old tell
01:32:14.660
your 15 year old self that you've become successful you should brag to your young self it's about dating
01:32:21.340
it's like yeah but you've elevated yourself to a point where like you don't need to reach out you're
01:32:25.420
like yeah you're desirable oh wait no no i got a better one okay passion well i feel like uh i mean at 15
01:32:31.720
probably the same as me don't date women with mental health issues okay that's what that's what
01:32:39.600
i should have told my 15 year old self okay um finding that woman is that's that's most likely
01:32:44.040
going to be like a trans woman because women are on their period 28 days out of the year so
01:32:47.800
what like naturally mentally ill all of us instead i'm nice on my period wait sorry what say that one
01:32:53.580
more time women are on their period 28 days we have the little phase we have the focal phase we have
01:32:59.440
the menstruation phase there's only like four days a woman is actually seen in a month that's a fact
01:33:05.440
we are like whoa wait hold on we only do seven days i want to hear what the women yeah i think this is
01:33:12.820
gonna be so so wait let me just so i understand you're saying because this is your all these phases
01:33:19.880
you're saying that women are crazy yes because of periods not just because the period lasts 28 days
01:33:28.260
which means we're like under the influence our brain is being hijacked by hormones majority of the
01:33:33.840
time only until you lose it like i guess you become a grandma or you're like a not a woman yet are you
01:33:39.680
sane if you have a period girls you girls i mean you guys can i need to get up for a bit i kind of get
01:33:45.260
what she's saying yeah the little phase the ovulation phase yeah the ovulation phase yeah i get that i think
01:33:51.960
that you're probably you're most motivated and happy when you're in your ovulation phase but i don't know
01:33:57.120
i'm 27 so i'm a bit older i can control myself i feel like i'm pretty sane most of the time
01:34:02.720
i mean i definitely can be yeah can so have you ever felt like you met a guy and then you felt like
01:34:09.080
not attracted to him but you don't know why and then you get attracted to him again and then you
01:34:13.000
become unattractive that has to do with your period i just think those are mood swings i haven't
01:34:17.180
really but the mood swings come from sounds a bit like the girl version of bro science do you know
01:34:21.000
bro science is like trust me bro just trust me yeah like literally every every week before my
01:34:27.300
period i cry and then the week before it's a similar symptoms look it up everybody should look
01:34:31.980
it up because they don't teach about in school because i think that the fact that if women
01:34:34.940
actually knew that we don't really have our mind to ourselves only but four days out of every single
01:34:39.340
month it kind of like mentally affect us already look it up the little things you know in our life to
01:34:46.440
life but i think also you get to a point he's gonna be he's gonna agree with us right no i'm
01:34:53.060
kidding yeah you get to a point that you frontal when your frontal lobe develops you tend to calm down
01:34:58.480
yourself very well like you're 27 i'm 32 you're 19 i think there's a point that you get more
01:35:06.800
comfortable with your performance and you are a little more aware of what's happening and what's
01:35:12.520
coming and you know you already know how it works a little bit longer i don't know i kind of agree
01:35:17.600
with you yeah maybe i'm old but but yeah to me i just feel like yeah my frontal lobe is heightened
01:35:22.520
so when you get to 25 every person is different every woman is different as well you know when you
01:35:26.880
get my experience might not be yours or yours or yours yeah exactly and when you get to 25 you have
01:35:31.360
your frontal lobe developed and usually you calm down a bit because yeah when i was 18 19 i was crazy
01:35:36.900
okay but then yeah but now i'm 27 i'm relaxed a bit more the horniness like when i like i'm not 19
01:35:46.500
i'm 22 oh sorry i thought you were 19 my bad when i first started like to get a period or even during
01:35:54.080
high school i never had the horniness now it's like yeah i get that but that's not that's not a
01:35:58.840
mental disorder and crazy correct it's just still in my mind like i never had this before like i used
01:36:04.080
to brag to guys how i don't like ever really feel horny and i don't really crave sex but now it's
01:36:08.960
like my mind is like overlay overlay uh use the egg use the egg use the egg
01:36:13.120
and it's like yeah it even says like uh that's how the female body reacts like you know i did not
01:36:20.540
know yeah i didn't know there was like egg and so that's something i feel like then subconsciously
01:36:26.160
you start getting up and getting ready and going now because you're really looking like for a mate
01:36:30.480
like subconsciously i get that but then that's not a mental like that's not crazy to me that's
01:36:35.120
just going out there really being a bit more motivated and yeah i think that would change
01:36:39.200
over time i don't think you're going to be the same way forever at one point i used to like
01:36:43.260
do the d to myself like when this it starts to increase every single year as i get older
01:36:53.280
yeah like it's getting more and more intense like i'm almost feeling like what men are feeling
01:36:58.320
it's getting more and more intense to like literally i've been in some embarrassing situations
01:37:06.520
where i literally had to go masturbate and that's what it's getting to like i have good on you girl
01:37:11.480
like you do that like i have to pee or something i don't know i've had that before i've never had that
01:37:16.840
growing up and it's so weird because it's happening so fast to me yeah well yeah you might
01:37:22.040
yeah there's lots of things that can contribute to that but yeah good talk great talk oh i the two
01:37:29.640
tts's that came in we didn't even do the two questions okay so the question was ladies would
01:37:34.280
you date brian uh or we'll wait till la visa is she in the bathroom okay all right um here while we're
01:37:42.740
doing that we'll do the other tts it was asking the lads if we go down under on any sheilas yeah
01:37:47.680
you can ask that the last episode but let's go that's wrong was that mean you go first yeah i don't
01:37:50.960
get it sheila sheila sheila woman any girl is she playing for a woman in australian would you eat
01:37:56.740
a woman's vagina fosters australian obviously he's been with 300 women okay that's bad what do you
01:38:02.300
you have never said 300 that's an allegation you kind of did though you kind of did no i'd like
01:38:06.960
he did yeah yeah he confirmed that's fine i mean you put it out there that's fine
01:38:11.440
i just have an expressive face i just have big facial motions what do you reckon right you go
01:38:15.320
down on a sheila one wait hold on we have to do the other question first so i'm just going to wait
01:38:19.800
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01:40:11.940
i'm gonna reduce the tts to 100 so we're gonna do 100 tts from here on out if you guys want to get
01:40:18.900
a tts in it was 200 but now it is 100 i'll update everything uh okay so going around the panel on
01:40:24.380
the tts that came through uh would you date would you date brian that was the that was a question
01:40:29.200
from gloctavius go ahead yeah i think you're good looking you seem intelligent like i don't know you
01:40:34.320
that well but yeah no red flags so far all right cool thank you thank you yes
01:40:39.740
sweet cool w that is a big though um i agree i don't see any like red flags myself um but i don't
01:40:51.160
know if i would date you just because i know that you're like a super busy person and i don't know
01:40:58.080
like i would like to be able to hang out like spend time together and stuff no i get it it's like
01:41:06.080
you need a guy who will flake on you to see slightly stupid and not see you for two weeks i get it i
01:41:15.580
totally get it i get it where you're coming from i'm too busy i would just it would be four weeks for
01:41:20.400
me okay what about you no okay no why tell me why i want just tear me down i don't want to say
01:41:30.760
is it because i'm white you only date black guys no um it's no oh wait sorry desmond sorry sorry
01:41:38.080
he only dates black girls so he's not interested you don't get you don't get i got you doesn't i got
01:41:42.220
you swedish handshake desmond not even swedish girls desmond they're like but they're like the
01:41:49.020
wait i hold on wait would this get me canceled they're like the of europe wait that sounds so
01:41:59.140
bad what is the blank like they're the um tie right walking same culture similar culture yeah
01:42:09.640
i don't know what the fuck i was trying to make a joke that's prohibitive of brian getting a
01:42:16.800
swedish handshake basically she dates feminists oh you date girls no no dudes that want to be
01:42:23.220
girls no because sweden's like super progressive feminist um no what's the question oh what kind
01:42:30.780
of guys do you date yeah so i date what can i say like guys that is very like fun and easygoing and
01:42:40.840
so you don't have a type no not really it's it's just a feeling between you and the person
01:42:47.140
yeah i'm i'm too serious yeah you don't flake enough either that's the problem um yeah good talk
01:42:54.540
in sweden you flake you get the handshake you flake you get the shake thank you thank you
01:43:00.020
i see that you cannot stop thinking about going you really want uh what about what about you i'd say
01:43:07.000
no just because i heard you don't like to go on hikes where did you hear that
01:43:12.000
fake news no it's true it's true i don't i'm not i'm a beach guy i won't go to the beach
01:43:20.280
and hike and surf um beach hikes are cool hike and i have the best of both worlds
01:43:27.200
that's okay uh all right what about you is because i'm white no you just like don't excite me
01:43:34.700
that's fair like there's i don't find like you have a podcast yeah i'm just like i'm not trying
01:43:41.580
like hit i'm just trying i'm not i haven't rizzed you haven't seen the rizz yet your stuff
01:43:46.300
uh pop the brakes you haven't seen me in action all right you're stuck with alex so far
01:43:51.900
no it's it's that's fair that's fair what about what about what i did you or marry
01:43:58.520
just date just date i'm not marriage material i would fuck you
01:44:21.300
question for the panel you get married and have four children but you have to choose if they are
01:44:29.200
wait you get married and have four children but you have to choose if they're four boys or four
01:44:34.660
i got a good answer i got i got an answer that um let's finish up though uh would you would you date
01:44:38.740
me no okay is it because i'm white no i'm into white guys oh it's not personal okay yeah it's
01:44:44.440
okay yeah i want to know what damn bro why you gotta
01:45:09.680
it's true i'm a very serious individual like a totalitarian or like a like a dictator
01:45:25.240
but would you date brian but i i mean if i was a chick and i had giant can crush her
01:45:30.660
yeah would you date brian would i date brianna no would you date brian
01:45:34.160
wait no no i just gave him a name so i can wait discord make me a woman
01:45:37.920
discord this will be good make me make him a woman and i'll say if i would smash
01:45:42.240
transform me into no if you were a woman would you
01:45:49.600
i mean i reckon if i was a woman i'd be the same as me now
01:46:08.120
okay well now now we have to do the other one that came through
01:46:12.880
okay it's uh would we go down on under on any sheilas
01:46:20.300
well yeah it's like that's an australian handshake
01:46:25.160
that's how you guys greet each other and maybe i'm hanging out in different circles to you guys
01:46:38.280
yeah like i would yeah of course so uh i don't do that
01:46:51.020
how do you reconcile that with the labia enthusiasm
01:46:54.520
well i have a great enthusiasm for the audis for the large labias but
01:47:09.420
okay so you enjoy it with your eyes and your mouth basically
01:47:20.720
typically i i have to teach you here a bit about female anatomy
01:48:52.320
ladies pls just tell brixen to ditch the flannel so he can find a girlfriend
02:40:07.720
I had to kick her out because she was about to dox.
02:40:11.180
So, there's some fucking dumb chick, the chick who got triggered because she's a nine.
02:40:37.320
I think if you don't know the internet, you don't know the danger that it can put somewhere.
02:40:45.660
I would have shown it, but we had to just fucking kick her out.
02:40:50.100
Do you want to elaborate on why it's dangerous?
02:41:06.620
So, like, what I'm saying is explain why it's dangerous because you were just saying that.
02:41:13.960
Go into detail because when someone understands the danger that it poses based off the threats that you get,
02:41:23.620
And I have staff here that if people, like, know address or know where I live or whatever...
02:41:31.380
But you've got to educate the audience that creators can get put in danger.
02:41:35.520
I mean, you've probably been told this, Alex, right?
02:41:38.120
Like, okay, if you're at an event, you should always post after you leave the event, right?
02:41:42.560
Because you don't want anyone to know where you are.
02:41:51.880
When you're a creator, even though it's unintentional...
02:41:57.820
I think when people want to know why that tee-off was so big, it's because it's a safety issue.
02:42:04.040
And when you've had actual death threats, like, it can be scary.
02:42:12.100
You know, we can't even post until we've left that event.
02:42:18.740
So the reason it becomes so serious is because intentional or unintentional, this is how things can unintentionally happen that are really bad.
02:42:31.900
What are some positive things that we can circle around?
02:42:45.580
So, wait, can we get another girl in that chair?
02:42:50.360
What we're going to do is we're going to just take, well, there's two girls gone.
02:42:53.200
So we're going to, the way we're going to figure this out is.
02:42:58.480
These are the two who told me that we're not on our period 28 days after the year and they left.
02:43:03.660
I told y'all, women are mentally ill, but y'all denied me.
02:43:09.600
She was upset because she didn't want to take the L.
02:43:11.920
And most of the triggers are triggered, that's why.
02:43:14.960
And then this girl left too because she got butthurt over me not fucking kissing her ass.
02:43:31.740
I think when people understand the seriousness, it's just a danger thing, to be honest.
02:43:35.080
And like, you know, so let's, we've got some cool notes.
02:43:46.080
Let's cleanse our palates and let's go around because we've extracted some stories from
02:43:53.320
So now that we've had the blow up and we understand what happened and we understand why it happened,
02:43:59.680
then let's get some positivity going and let's get some positive energy stories back into
02:44:09.540
But still, come on, let's get some positive energy stories.
02:44:18.180
I took off my makeup and he didn't even acknowledge that.
02:44:33.720
Wait, I thought you said earlier that you can't.
02:44:37.100
I just wouldn't prefer to, but I definitely can't.
02:44:56.300
We're going to cook something up that's going to be good.
02:45:13.980
Well, we'll go to the, do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time?
02:45:26.100
No, all you have to do is marry the right man and you'll get better.
02:45:31.020
I would say so, just considering my mom and the rest of my family.
02:45:36.200
I guess you're just like literally Asian dudes.
02:45:37.960
And I will have white hair when I'm old, not gray.
02:45:40.260
Will you look better or worse when you're older?
02:45:57.280
By the way, guys, I'll post the BTS on the Discord.
02:45:59.960
We weren't able to show it live because she was liable to docs.
02:46:04.460
So, if you guys want, I'll post, it'll probably be it.
02:46:10.640
I'll post the security camera footage of the two, well, the kickoff and then this chick
02:46:19.100
That's discord.gg slash whatever if you want to check it out.
02:46:31.360
And then 20 years time, will you be better looking at 42?
02:46:48.100
You'll be better looking in 10 years time at 29?
02:47:09.580
Because, you know, people literally come out to the Caribbean because our women do not,
02:47:16.100
I've come across, like, 30, 40-year-old women in St. Nusia that look like they're 13 years
02:47:25.960
So, in the 50s, that's probably what's going to be it for me.
02:47:52.200
You said that, you said it's really, well, tragic.
02:48:05.620
And you said in your, you sent a voice memo that you promised.
02:48:12.820
That you promised that you are more interesting and more fun than the 5 million other Swedish
02:48:17.940
No, because in the beginning, I tried to sell in that I was Swedish.
02:48:23.160
And then I tried to sell in that I was a little more funny than that.
02:48:43.200
Uh, you said your friends call you the worst booty call because you get to the guy's place
02:48:56.000
But yeah, I don't know if that's something else that I'm drinking too much alcohol.
02:49:04.440
So you've never actually gone through with like a one night stand or?
02:49:10.700
But the question where like, do you have any, like, because you asked a question, like,
02:49:16.840
do you have any different or exciting like dating stories or something like that?
02:49:25.620
You said, um, dating culture in a country without religion.
02:49:33.620
No, I mean, like the debate, not debate, but discussion about it.
02:49:49.800
No, but okay, so when you date in a religion, like, as a religious person, are there any
02:50:11.180
No, no, I'm just asking, because the difference between when you're dating as, um, in a religious
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way, then it's, you have a goal and, like, a way to go, but when you don't date in that
02:50:25.480
Yes, I think you don't know where you're going.
02:50:31.720
Yeah, because you have a foundation of what you kind of want to build your relationship
02:50:36.960
All right, you said, um, how hard it is for a female to be taken seriously in work environments
02:50:44.420
because you can feel a man's tension over you, how you as a female need to work from
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your pussy power, and how to use this to your favor.
02:50:53.600
Um, so I'm, I'm often in, like, events, like, working events, and I don't know if you call
02:51:03.840
And then you want to, you know, sell yourself as a, in your occupation and what you're doing.
02:51:11.020
And often, between men and female, it come up, sort of flirting.
02:51:15.620
And then I were, one, one situation when a guy was like, yeah, the guy's out, the only
02:51:21.180
one who can stay is Louisa because you're so fucking sexy.
02:51:42.040
I swear to see, like, a lot of Swedish girls wear it.
02:51:46.920
I should be holding the beer that I just spilled.
02:52:05.060
So what was the thing about hard for a female to be taken seriously?
02:52:10.360
You mean in the most feminist, egalitarian country that there is?
02:52:14.760
Yeah, so in that environment, when it's like, yeah, the guys know, but let me say you can
02:52:19.840
And it's like, okay, but I don't want to stay because I'm sexy.
02:52:35.100
And then you mingle, and then you get contacts.
02:52:45.320
Yeah, so it's a lot of people from different kind of...
02:53:01.540
So when that happens, sometimes you, like, okay, I go with it because then...
02:53:17.020
You said in your notes how hard it is for a female to be taken seriously in work environments
02:53:21.820
because you can feel a man's tension over you, how you as a female need to work from
02:53:26.100
your pussy power, and how you use this to your favor.
02:53:29.220
So what you're saying, not taken seriously in work environments, it sounds like you were
02:53:35.580
There was a drunk guy who doesn't even work for the same company, and he said something
02:53:42.960
The event where, like, people that is working on the same field, and then you're getting
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contact to or talking to each other, and then just because I was looking in a certain
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way, I was allowed to be there and not the other guys.
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So they were not looking for our qualities, you see.
02:53:57.860
I'm still failing to see, like, so this, you had one anecdote of this happening, and so
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is this, like, you're applying this to all work situations that...
02:54:17.300
You said females are the ones creating beauty standards for ourselves and blaming guys for
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it, how you can't even go to the gym without girls being half naked, why, we're fucking
02:54:25.220
training, put on some shorts and a t-shirt, and a bra.
02:54:30.480
You know, in Sweden, it's a big debate right now about eating...
02:54:47.740
I think you should be able to wear what you want to the gym.
02:54:54.200
We have a big influence in Sweden, and she has bulimia?
02:54:59.780
And then she operates, do surgery on her body, and then she tried to promote, like, her
02:55:04.900
beautiful body and all, and then I think that is...
02:55:09.980
So, and then when we are training, it's like, of course, wear whatever you want, but you
02:55:14.700
cannot come and complain then that it's so hard for us...
02:55:26.300
You're missing that you're not talking about anything that is good with females, shaming
02:55:35.700
So, when I was writing this, I didn't really watch you enough, and then I started watching
02:55:41.960
your show, and what I understood now, when you are lifting females up, it's like that
02:55:49.460
you want them to be quiet and listen to you and be in the kitchen.
02:55:54.960
Is that qualities that is right, that you like?
02:55:58.780
No, I'm asking, because that is what I'm, the picture I got from it.
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That you're like a female that is home, stay home, that is not working.
02:56:11.100
And, yeah, so I thought, for me, I would wish that you would bring up, like, hard-working
02:56:18.240
females that is doing good by themselves and stuff like that.
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Like females that are doing what they want to in life.
02:56:40.780
So, wait, I need to combat your accusations here.
02:56:47.080
No, because when you are lifting a female up, that is the example, right?
02:56:53.920
What do you mean, when I'm lifting a female up?
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When you are, like, giving a role model for females.
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I think I've only heard you say that you like introverted women, which doesn't necessarily
02:57:10.540
Those words have ever left my mouth that that woman belongs in the kitchen, but I appreciate
02:57:31.640
Why don't you try to actually articulate my position?
02:57:36.460
So, for me, if I'm going to lift a female up, that would be, like, listening to themselves,
02:57:42.040
what you want to do in life, what you want to work with, start a career, and stuff like
02:57:52.220
Would I agree that it's lifting a woman up to have a career?
02:58:02.680
Or would you say that she should stay at home with children?
02:58:08.720
Or, like, if you're like, okay, girls, you have a team of girls, and you're going to
02:58:22.520
I think the best relationship dynamic is one where the man's the breadwinner, and the
02:58:30.000
woman is there taking care of the household, and the family, and the children.
02:58:35.480
If a woman doesn't want to do that, that's totally fine.
02:58:38.080
But in terms of what I view as the best relationship dynamics, and what's going to make a relationship
02:58:44.280
more likely to last longer, and what's going to be better for the children, not what's better
02:58:49.020
for the woman, but what's better for the children, yeah, I think it's a better dynamic.
02:58:53.460
Instead of you being at work and passing on your children to some daycare, who knows what's
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going to happen there, yeah, I think the mother is probably better suited to take care of the
02:59:08.420
Than sending your newborn to daycare with strangers.
02:59:15.420
You know, in Sweden, you got paid to stay home with your child for one year.
02:59:20.040
And so the female and the man can decide who's staying home with the kid, and then they get
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And I think it's paid up to one and a half year, one year and a month you get paid for
02:59:36.340
And then you have daycare that you're paying for.
02:59:40.940
So that makes it easy for a female to have both.
02:59:43.560
I mean, I think that we, I don't object to women pursuing a career.
02:59:47.680
In fact, I mean, when it comes to certain things, like, I would love to see more women in the
02:59:51.580
sciences and technology, because I think we should be, and I use this word in the most,
02:59:56.160
in the best way, we should be exploiting women's intelligence, so that we can tackle things
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like research when it comes to cancer, illnesses, this sort of thing.
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I'd love to see as many women and men as possible pursuing these things so we can tackle the
03:00:17.240
things that I think are really matter, which is these illnesses.
03:00:22.340
And I totally agree, but it's hard for her to do that if she needs to take care of the
03:00:30.680
But if you do sacrifice that, then you don't have a chance to go and be a scientist afterwards.
03:00:38.360
I think I would like to stay home and raise my children, but I think once my children go
03:00:44.220
off to school and then I have that open free time, then I'm able to kind of go and look
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And then I can be a scientist, I can research cancer, then I do have that free time when
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A child starts preschool, pre-K, around four or five years old.
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So, I mean, you sacrificing four years out of your life, I don't see that as a problem
03:01:19.380
I know who's watching my child versus me going out and passing my child off to a stranger
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that I have no idea what their background looks like.
03:01:29.740
I'm not able to see them, how they're playing, how they're being treated if another kid went
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and hurt them and they get in trouble instead of the child who hurt my child.
03:01:40.220
I would like to kind of see what my child is doing rather than give it off or pass it
03:01:49.000
Yeah, I see your point and I think you should go with that.
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But for me, it's not really that you're passing your child to a stranger.
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I guess you have a relationship with the daycare and the people working there.
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The same as the school, it's the same argument.
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Why would you go and send your kids to school if they're only strangers?
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Of course, you have a relationship with the school and the teachers and stuff like that.
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The criticism was to lift those kind of females up.
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Because I think that is important that we do have females that educate themselves
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So should we tell them it's more important than having a family?
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But I think you should be able to see both sides of it.
03:02:43.860
And we have that more than we're telling women, hey, having a happy family, having a partner,
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Like, what do you think society is telling women more?
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I don't know how it is in America or the States.
03:03:06.720
But in Sweden, you get really, we get a lot of security and help from the society to have children.
03:03:23.440
So that is telling us that it's okay to give birth.
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Yeah, I'm just trying to say that it's both worlds of it.
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That we really need to see the beautiful of a career woman as well.
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The beauty of a, yeah, but I'm more in favor of more traditional, look, I'm not perfectly
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traditional, but I'm more in favor towards more traditional relationship dynamics.
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And I see society moving away from that, and it's more so.
03:04:05.020
We always talk, celebrate, and glorify the working female well, ignoring the women that
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Feminism has ruined the lower class women's ability to be a stay-at-home.
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Like, if you really want to be a stay-at-home wife, do it, because it's your life.
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But what is the other stuff about shaming females?
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Yeah, you said, I'm missing that you not talking about anything that is good with females, shaming
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Yeah, I mean, when you're talking about body counts and females having active life and stuff
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like that, it's, you're not lifting that up as anything normal or like, it's okay.
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It's really making, like, the female be in a certain category.
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Like, the difference between this guy here who's saying that he had intercourse with 300
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But if one of us were saying that, it would be like, really not, just slide by like that.
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If I said the same thing, you will really be questioning me, and why aren't you doing
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I don't know, she said her body count is 50, 60, I don't think I really, I didn't really.
03:05:41.960
Yeah, I don't ever remember him saying 300, I think.
03:05:48.160
Well, so, I mean, I'll engage with you even on that, though, so, so you're saying if there's
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a double standard, like, if I judged women more harshly for having high body count, but
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I didn't judge men for it, yeah, what's, what's actually wrong with that?
03:06:12.600
So, even in super liberal, progressive Sweden, are men still asking women out at higher rates
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Oh, I don't know the percent, but I know that it's a lot.
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Your own, your own experience of all the first dates you've ever been on, did you ask for
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You asked, how many first dates have you been on?
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So, and I'm talking first dates here, not like you've been dating for three months and
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Okay, so, um, you say whoever asked should pay, but even in super liberal, equal places
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like Sweden, men are still going to be initiators when it comes to dating.
03:07:28.080
Yeah, but you do get dates the other way around.
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So, if a girl sees a guy that you want to ask out, she asks him out.
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If a guy's experience is, he, he's been on a hundred first dates, and 99 of them, he
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has to ask the girl out, and one time the girl asks him out, is that equal?
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But I mean, just because that example, if you take a guy, if a girl finds a guy attractive,
03:08:01.860
So maybe your example was not someone that girls want to ask out.
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So, what I'm trying to say is, if a girl finds a guy attractive, she doesn't wait for him
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Maybe, when you find someone attractive, they ask them out.
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I would wager, even in feminist utopia Sweden, women are not asking out men at similar rates.
03:08:54.640
Yeah, but maybe not at similar rates, but when we do find someone attractive, we do ask
03:08:58.880
I'm sure there's a disparity, like, statistically between places, but, um, what's, um, I kind
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of came in halfway through the topic, so I'm talking out of school a little bit here.
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No, I was coming to juice up the bad dating story.
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Three older guys are sitting in the bar, and then four young, very beautiful girls come
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Um, and they were, the girls were flirting with the guys, and then-
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And then, like, 18, 20-year-old girls come in and approach the guys, sitting down with
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them, and it ended up, when the girls went to the toilet, they snuck out.
03:09:45.800
The guys left, without saying anything to them.
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So, I mean, you see, it is happening, and the guys-
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But I, like, if we're having a conversation, I'm going to be talking about generalities
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So, I would argue, even in Sweden, generally speaking, women are not taking that sort of
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initiative to the same frequency and same degree.
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How many times have you been approached in person by a guy?
03:10:38.300
How many times do you think you've been to a bar or nightclub in Sweden?
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Would you say you got approached maybe at least once a night by a guy?
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You've been to a bar a hundred plus times and you've only been approached five times?
03:11:02.040
No, but of the hundred, but maybe, of course more, but of-
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But I, because I've been in a bar more than a hundred times, but I think-
03:11:08.840
You've only been approached five times in a bar.
03:11:19.180
How many times have you approached a guy in a bar?
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No, I mean, I mean, like, you seem like you have the confidence to approach a guy.
03:11:46.120
I think Brian's point is trying to say that statistically speaking, it's the outlier.
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Maybe it's not 50-50 of it, but it's very, it's close to it.
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But I can see you approaching a dude, so, yeah, with some charisma.
03:12:29.800
Can I ask, how is the pool in Tinder for anyone that's been on, have you been on Tinder?
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I was exposed to the worst of society when I was on Tinder.
03:12:42.140
Well, here, I'd like to ask the other girls then this.
03:12:49.580
By the way, first date includes, like, just hanging out with, it doesn't have to be formal,
03:12:57.180
It could be, like, I know people just will go over to somebody's house.
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Probably, like, five, but I've been in, like, long relationships, so, yeah, I haven't really
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And then, so, of the first dates, did you ask for the first date or did the guy?
03:13:13.740
Okay, and then going to you, how many first dates, hangouts have you been on?
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What was the breakdown in terms of who asked for the date?
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Yeah, I've only asked, like, one guy to go out with me.
03:13:46.480
Okay, and then of all those, what was the breakdown?
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How many first dates or hangouts have you been on?
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I think every time the guy asked you, but okay.
03:14:09.100
Because if I ask them, I'm most likely not going to get paid.
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I've had, yeah, I've had girls reach out to me.
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Can you scoot your mic back to where it was, please?
03:14:30.860
You can scoot it to the edge of the table, scoot it to the edge.
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I would say 99% of the first dates I've been on, I asked for the first date.
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And then all the other steps of initiative, I also took.
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First message, or I approached her first, asked for the number, did all the coordination,
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paid for the date, moved things forward from there, first kiss, further than first kiss.
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Pretty much always, as the guy, you're going to take initiative.
03:15:16.400
What do you feel about a girl taking the first step?
03:15:22.600
I don't like it when they're like super aggressive about it.
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Like if they're like masculine about it, like, oh, I want to fuck.
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But if she's like feminine and she's like kind of cutesy asking me out or like, that's fine.
03:15:44.400
If a girl asked you on a date, would you pay for it, though?
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Or if the girl asked you, you would want her to pay?
03:16:13.520
I'm trying to get some positivity in this podcast.
03:16:16.720
I'm going to get the positivity if it kills me.
03:16:33.280
So, you would date a woman that lets multiple men have sex with her for free, but you wouldn't
03:16:40.680
I said you would date a woman that would let multiple men have sex with her for free,
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but you would not date a woman that makes a man pay for her to have sex with her.
03:16:51.600
Because you said you don't date sex workers, but you date, like, whores that do it for
03:16:58.580
You would have to point to something I've said that would actually lead you to believe
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His preference is for girls, not in the industry.
03:17:07.020
So, it means that the same way they would fuck him for free is the same way they would
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fuck anybody for free without nothing required.
03:17:16.900
It's just like, well, you're trying to cope with the fact that the reality is women who
03:17:21.540
are engaged in sex work, who do OnlyFans, who prostitute themselves in one way or another,
03:17:27.040
have a more difficult time when it comes to dating.
03:17:29.840
Because most men who respect themselves don't want to date women who have...
03:17:39.740
I don't think men should date those other types of women either.
03:17:46.120
There's a lot of men who have absolutely no preferences, standards, or boundaries.
03:17:56.060
I just want to know why you wouldn't date a sex worker.
03:17:57.640
So, you would date a janitor before a sex worker?
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I would date a woman who works at a fast food restaurant.
03:18:03.880
You would date an abortion clinic, a person who does abortions, over a sex worker, right?
03:18:07.940
So, a person who kills babies for a living over a sex worker?
03:18:11.960
I mean, we could have the abortion debate if you want.
03:18:14.400
No, I said, would you date a doctor who kills babies for a living because it makes them
03:18:28.360
So, female sex worker versus a female doctor who's an abortionist.
03:19:00.000
Would you date a woman who has sex with multiple men because they tell her she likes them and
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I would date a girl who has a body count of five.
03:19:20.460
But she dates guys based off of what they tell her versus a girl who's only, like, taking
03:19:40.420
You won't date a guy who flips burgers, but I won't date a sex worker?
03:19:45.800
So, how does sex worker and burger flipper get on the same level?
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One has their time, and one is a slave to time.
03:20:13.220
Not often than a sex worker gets picked up, then.
03:20:15.800
People are more willing to make sex workers rich, and to uplift them, and give them loans
03:20:24.100
I feel like you don't know, like, plenty of celebrities that were sex workers in the past,
03:20:28.040
They get big off of that, and men are more likely to save them than a McDonald's worker, and a Wendy's worker, and an Arby's worker.
03:20:35.780
Yeah, I don't disagree with you that there's degenerate tricks and marks.
03:20:43.360
Because you spend money on a woman, you're a trick.
03:20:47.720
If they're engaging with a sex worker and spending money on a sex worker, you're literally a trick.
03:20:54.880
And the trick is running the country, Melania Trump.
03:21:04.560
She did do adult movies, and she ran this country.
03:21:07.600
So, that puts the degenerates at the top, running the...
03:21:17.220
Like, Donald Trump is not, like, the shining beacon of morality when it comes to romantic partners.
03:21:23.780
He's running your country, and he is a degenerate at the top.
03:21:27.420
The first lady that was the first lady of this country...
03:21:35.340
Whoever's vice president right here has attended a couple of duties parties, too, and she's
03:21:42.880
I'm not going to call any names, but degenerates have power.
03:21:52.380
My point is that you said that a sex worker and a McDonald's worker is on the same level,
03:22:07.120
So how is the McDonald's worker struggling, and I'm not?
03:22:12.660
Because men are desiring me more than they're desiring a McDonald's worker.
03:22:16.700
Wait, no, no, no, no, no, hold on, wait, wait, wait, let me address the claim, let me address
03:22:19.540
the claim, so you're talking about the amount of money you can make.
03:22:28.660
Your job has nothing to do with your physical...
03:22:44.220
Taking a time to say, I'm only worth $8 or an hour to flip burgers.
03:22:52.040
And either way, what you're doing, you're selling your body.
03:22:54.740
If you're working a minimum wage job, if you're working a minimum wage job, you're still
03:22:59.940
For $6 an hour, for $7 an hour, for $8 an hour, for $10 an hour.
03:23:03.620
But I mean, all work that is earning less than a sex worker?
03:23:14.820
But I just think, for men and people that I know, unfortunately, people, a lot of men
03:23:20.880
would probably have less of a problem if I was being a burger flipper.
03:23:26.020
They would have less of a problem than doing it.
03:23:33.200
And this is the only job where men have supported me.
03:23:35.340
This is the only job where I'm able to have all of my time, all of my respect.
03:23:39.200
Men are literally putting money at my feet, asking me to piss and shit all over them.
03:23:46.520
I love the degenerates, and the degenerates love me.
03:23:51.800
Yeah, there's no dispute that a sex worker is going to make more money than a woman who works
03:24:00.260
Men, I've never, when I was working a fast food job, no man ever said, no man ever said,
03:24:08.380
They never offer that as a, I'm on the internet with my cunt out, like the word you like to
03:24:14.040
say, with my cunt out, and they're offering rings.
03:24:18.380
They're offering not just to fly me out, to pay for calls.
03:24:22.000
So why are they not offering their money to the McDonald's worker and to change their life?
03:24:29.980
I work at a bar, restaurant, club, and everything.
03:24:38.980
All your time to yourself means like, you've traveled the whole world, that you, you know,
03:24:42.820
shop every single day pretty much, go to restaurants, and you have like a glamorous
03:25:22.780
Wait, can't you just keep coping for a few minutes?
03:25:27.740
He's saying all men, and me as a worker, no, the majority of men are lying.
03:25:33.900
They say that all the time, that they'd rather have a wholesome woman.
03:25:36.400
And as soon as that wholesome woman or a McDonald's worker ain't not doing what they want to do,
03:25:44.560
I'm pretty sure the person who said that, I'm pretty sure you're, like, living in your mom's
03:25:48.400
You're living up under a woman who probably had to sell pussy herself for you to be able
03:25:56.120
Look, I don't know about these claims about Melania.
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She did adult work, she was in adult movies, and she's running this world, which means
03:26:18.820
I'm not going to investigate the claims about Melania, but in any case, continue coping
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about how men would rather wife up a prostitute?
03:26:36.360
And I know this because I am one, and I've been living off this.
03:26:46.900
Well, I just came, like, you know, from a third world country.
03:27:01.620
The ones that can stand up, but most of them can't.
03:27:08.840
But if I'm being, like, honest, like, in the past three years, there's been no sugar daddy
03:27:12.920
A lot of them, a lot of the degenerates, what you call them, are high off of substance.
03:27:17.480
And that substance is usually affects their health, which is better for me, that they
03:27:21.820
cannot really perform, which is, like, it's not a problem.
03:27:32.980
And so, when you say I'm not a 10, but literally my looks, it's not me bending over, that's
03:27:39.540
It's my face that's been paying for my lifestyle.
03:27:42.480
And, literally, they say, like, wherever you are in your country, when you come to California,
03:27:49.140
But all of, like, Montecito, when I went to polo games, when I went out, you know, to
03:27:54.480
different places, all these people are also saying I'm a 10.
03:28:00.920
But the value you put on yourself is how much guys are paying you?
03:28:10.940
The only people that are going for you are the same ones that would screw a rattlesnake if
03:28:18.460
I told you, and I will pick her over you any day.
03:28:26.120
Instead of giving $100, like, to her, like, to him, maybe you should have gave it to her.
03:28:41.040
Like, no matter what you're saying, men say one thing, but statistics proves the other.
03:28:49.480
Only probably made more than McDonald's probably, too.
03:28:56.300
Then why is porn, like, the most bought, most watched thing in the world?
03:29:00.800
If it's only full of degenerates, that means the majority of the world is degenerates.
03:29:04.500
I don't really know what that word means, degenerates.
03:29:24.580
Somebody who is exploiting themselves, or not even exploiting themselves.
03:29:28.400
Somebody is doing what the public doesn't like.
03:29:30.300
So, basically, when you're not what everybody else, like, expects you to be, then apparently you're degenerate.
03:29:41.320
Could be sexually immoral, or you're a degenerate gambler.
03:29:46.280
So, degenerate means making a man pay for sex is degenerate, but making a man not pay is not degenerate.
03:29:55.840
You're expected to have sex for free, but how dare you put a price on it?
03:30:02.680
I don't think I would just have sex with somebody just to have sex with somebody, I think.
03:30:06.840
The price that somebody would have to pay, for me, wouldn't necessarily be money,
03:30:10.720
but it would be, like, time and getting to know.
03:30:20.260
So, if it's an action with no money involved, like, is it really, it's a non-valuable action, basically.
03:30:26.260
It's an action that anybody and everybody could give you if it has no money behind it.
03:30:36.920
So, that means anybody can, like, that's what I'm saying.
03:30:39.200
So, a woman that can be taken away from a man just because he said, or did, or made her feel a certain way,
03:30:46.340
and she popped her legs open because he made her feel good, or he said something good, is not so valuable.
03:30:54.460
Nobody could tell me, oh, wow, you look so pretty, or I'd love to spend time with you.
03:31:00.640
So, let's say you have two women, and they both have a body count of five.
03:31:06.520
One of those women did not charge the men to have sex.
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And the other woman, she charged all five of them to have sex with her.
03:31:22.620
Which do you think of those two women men are going to be more accepting of?
03:31:36.400
Because once a man, like, this is how the economy works.
03:31:44.120
I would rather give Brian, a man, $100 rather than date a sex worker.
03:31:51.920
You'll be farmed for clips later for people to laugh at your idiocy.
03:31:59.480
There's no way this is even the case in St. Lucia?
03:32:05.660
You're asking that you're going to have sex with a Caribbean girl for free?
03:32:12.360
Prostitution is often referred to as the oldest profession.
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Indeed, it has always been a common way for women to make money, even in Bible times.
03:32:22.180
The Bible tells us that prostitution is immoral.
03:32:35.840
Because we were more real and less delusional and less judgmental.
03:32:41.960
And those who have the stone, and those who have not sinned, be thy first to cast thy stone.
03:32:48.400
But his disciples are how he ended up on the cross.
03:32:58.320
Like, so, if you met a 15-year-old girl, and she's like, okay, it's between these two occupations that I want to do.
03:33:08.460
If you have a steady family, and you come from a steady country and a steady family, don't go out and, like, just do something just because it makes you money.
03:33:23.180
So, even people who have broken family or they live in, you know, they're coming from poverty, you don't have to be a whore.
03:33:38.860
All my family that have these normal jobs, who are they begging to pay their bills?
03:33:44.360
Who are they begging when they're out of money?
03:33:48.040
With their normal jobs, with their real jobs, they can't pay their real bills with their real jobs.
03:33:54.800
So, a father, they're struggling to, you know, they can't pay the utility bills, the air conditioning, whatever.
03:34:02.540
They can't, you know, they can't cover the utility bills.
03:34:05.800
Do you think a father would encourage his daughter to become a prostitute?
03:34:17.320
No, I literally just said, if you come from a good family...
03:34:19.980
I thought you said you were supporting your family members.
03:34:23.140
She asked me, would you tell a 15-year-old worker to work at McDonald's or be a sex worker?
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If you don't have to, like, lower your, like, value and be degenerate, don't.
03:34:37.600
I don't have parents, so I'm just trying to provide for my family the best way I can.
03:34:42.660
And I'm trying to provide for myself the best way I can.
03:34:46.560
But I don't have a family either, and I've been on my own since I was 17, and I've had...
03:34:50.860
And you're in a first world country that's making the American dollar, where there's plenty of jobs around, and there's plenty of opportunities.
03:34:58.040
Like, literally, you guys never heard of Singlusha.
03:35:04.100
A lot of Singlusha do not get the opportunity to leave Singlusha.
03:35:17.860
Busting, wasting your time at, what, Massey, at whatever market, KFC, for, what, $2, $3?
03:35:47.760
If the answer is yes, your own privacy and dignity can be bought with money.
03:35:58.380
Lady, you don't have a dad, so I'll give you advice.
03:36:14.320
By the way, Lol Paladins, the trigger for your special thing is available at $100 too.
03:36:34.480
An old man gave me the best advice on how to deal with women like you.
03:36:38.860
Walk over to the window, stick your blank, stick your D in the windowsill, and slam the window shut.
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Oh, there's another one coming in, so I have to.
03:37:04.300
Thank you from all the people that have parents.
03:37:06.540
Sonia, there really isn't a morally good reason to be a whore.
03:37:09.420
I'm a woman too, but I'd never stoop down to your level.
03:37:14.980
Also, I'm also from Jordan, moved to U.S., poor family, all that.
03:37:22.860
TTS doesn't work if there's, like, any bad words or whatever, so.
03:37:37.140
I would just like to say I would rather hang out with Brian than you.
03:37:57.160
I think you're trying to justify that sex work is more desirable in a partner.
03:38:15.280
Than a girl who works at a fast food restaurant.
03:38:25.360
Plenty of men rather date a stripper than a fast food worker.
03:38:34.640
I think the ones that you go after do would rather prefer to have a sex worker than.
03:38:42.880
Okay, so let me tell you something funny I do on Tinder, right?
03:38:46.080
Let me tell you something funny I do on Twitter.
03:38:54.500
So, I put in my bio that I am an in-house maid.
03:39:00.100
Well, I don't say I'm not looking for any type of sex.
03:39:09.760
They do not like consensually to pay for stuff.
03:39:28.540
Instead of coming out and saying, I'm a sex worker.
03:39:39.780
Lady, would you date a man that has sex with other men for money?
03:39:48.720
Of course I understand what you think about me.
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But what you think is not the actions that men are portraying.
03:39:55.140
They're still spending money no matter what you guys are saying.
03:40:02.480
Why am I still in business if what you think is true?
03:40:18.380
I think people would pay for things from your OF and stuff.
03:40:22.540
But the reality, they might not want to date you.
03:40:29.740
So literally, what men tell me, and I go with this on my Twitter spaces all the time,
03:40:39.660
I think that there's sick people out there and that there's not sick people out there.
03:40:46.840
And the ones that have desires of paying people to fuck them probably go to people like you.
03:40:52.240
There's a kink for everything at the end of the day.
03:40:57.280
I mean, you have another woman, she's involved in the industry, and she says.
03:41:12.740
I don't have some hatred for these people in this industry.
03:41:26.500
But I think that if he got a chance with you in Sweden especially, that he would definitely
03:41:33.880
Wait, you were shaking your head because you think I would.
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Because I know it's surprising to you to ever encounter a man who has a boundary and wouldn't
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You think all men are dogs and they're just pressed for pussy.
03:41:59.480
But no, some men have standards and boundaries and preferences and will stick to it.
03:42:12.800
And trust me, I've had hundreds of sex workers on this show.
03:42:16.700
If I fucked a sex worker, they would have leaked that shit.
03:42:59.280
I would say my porn consumption is in the bottom, like, one person.
03:43:05.840
How many of the men in this, like, show believe?
03:43:12.900
So, my porn consumption is probably in the bottom, like, I don't know if it's either the
03:43:28.200
That's out of respect to my partner and also keeps the libido a little higher, if you know
03:43:42.760
Ooh, this panel just got really aggressive and grapey towards Brian.
03:43:54.680
I know you guys encounter these guys who are, like, thirsty and, like, pressed to get laid
03:44:02.060
But the reality is, like, yeah, if you're a guy and you've had any experience with women,
03:44:09.720
If you have your own standards, you're going to turn women down if they don't meet what
03:44:17.940
How many of you guys have been turned down before?
03:44:26.780
I think you need to find somebody that you actually find attractive and that you have
03:44:34.260
Would you date someone that has done S work before?
03:44:43.540
Okay, so what if they was, like, the college whore, though?
03:44:46.660
They didn't get paid for it, but everybody knows them of it.
03:44:56.620
I'll be charitable by giving you this counter-argument.
03:45:00.620
Would I rather date a girl who does OnlyFans, but her body count is five, or would I rather
03:45:15.160
I don't know, maybe around, like, 50, something like that.
03:45:40.020
Yes, because I care about more than just looks.
03:45:47.600
So none of us have, like, striking personalities.
03:45:53.460
Like, yes, the women at the table are attractive, but there's other considerations.
03:46:03.140
You're currently involved in, like, a ridiculous situation.
03:46:06.500
You're involved with another dude who's got you alpha widowed and you've been brainwashed.
03:46:40.060
So my body count, I started OnlyFans at 18 years old.
03:46:48.400
Before OnlyFans, I had the body count of three.
03:46:55.760
Before OnlyFans started, I had a body count of three.
03:46:59.780
After OnlyFans, I could tell you somewhere in the 20s.
03:47:20.600
if you want to propose to have sex with me, yes, it's $5,000.
03:47:25.300
Remember that part where you said you weren't an escort?
03:47:39.360
You don't have to be a dumbass to think that I wasn't collecting thousands of dollars for sex.
03:47:44.820
Where do you meet these people that pay you to have sex with you?
03:47:49.580
When you're OnlyFans, girl, you're on so many social media platforms.
03:47:55.980
You have so many social media platforms where people reach out to you for a crazy amount of money.
03:48:01.900
Now, why I put the $5,000 is because, I don't know if this is like, I can say this on the podcast,
03:48:12.400
So, I feel like me as a cis girl, that I can like, if T-Girls are getting $10,000, why can I get it?
03:48:27.960
But can I ask you, I understand when you are in poverty, really, I never experienced it.
03:48:35.600
So, I understand that you are, like, doing what you need to do to survive.
03:48:40.800
And, you know, before COVID, I had a job, you know.
03:48:44.340
After, when COVID happened, that is when I got resulted on OnlyFans, like many OnlyFans girls.
03:48:50.200
And all of the things that I was receiving at these real jobs that the non-degenerants go to,
03:48:56.020
they were unethical things to go through as a human being.
03:49:11.520
Well, I want to come back to this conversation, but I want to move things on just a little bit.
03:49:23.020
Give me just one sec, guys, while I get these notes pulled up.
03:49:31.380
You said on a first date, you got asked to pay the guy's water bill for him.
03:49:43.240
And, you know, I thought we were having a great time.
03:49:50.160
And then he's like, oh, just, by the way, do you reckon you could pay my water bill for me?
03:50:02.440
So I ended up paying his water bill on the first date.
03:50:09.300
So, anyway, we ended up dating for, like, three years after that.
03:50:18.940
You've paid someone's water bill since that on the first date?
03:50:24.440
So I was, yeah, I think that was probably the wrong move because after that I was like, you know, you set your standards and then afterwards you're like, okay, well, can you pay for this?
03:50:51.820
And so I just ended up paying for the whole relationship for, like, three years because, yeah, I was too scared to say no.
03:50:58.520
But at the end of the day, I did end up making more money than him.
03:51:01.360
So, yeah, I felt like it was kind of fair, but maybe not to the extent I paid for.
03:51:07.100
Was it, like, did he call you back after the first date or did you call him?
03:51:14.820
I think because it was originally addressed as let's do content together as in, like, TikToks and stuff.
03:51:27.800
I was, like, wanting to be an influencer at the time, like, an Instagram influencer.
03:51:44.640
He kind of was doing shorts and skits before they were a big thing on TikTok and Instagram.
03:51:55.560
And he has sort of just become a little bit mellower since then.
03:52:06.260
Well, since I'm now running the podcast, I'm basically...
03:52:14.920
So, like, that's one date that you have been on.
03:52:21.780
I kind of paint the water bill sets the bar pretty high.
03:52:26.940
What's the worst behavior you've seen on a bad date on your first date?
03:52:33.760
No, I won't go into that because I don't want to get in trouble.
03:52:38.660
Because I've only been in about four, five relationships.
03:52:47.560
So, I actually haven't been on that many first dates to even say, like, one's been bad.
03:52:56.220
Does anyone have, like, a really bad, awkward, worst first date ever story?
03:52:59.320
Bro, I know you're going to come with the goods.
03:53:02.580
Yeah, because the Caribbean is not a real fucking place.
03:53:21.680
And that's, like, the exact reason why I avoid young guys.
03:53:24.700
So, I already knew it was, like, risky because of the fact that he was young.
03:53:32.860
And they're, like, 30 minutes away from each other.
03:53:35.100
So, you know, we were talking for, like, at least a month.
03:53:38.060
And then he told me to come out to Barbados that, you know, I would have a good time.
03:53:44.600
At first, I was waiting for him to pay for my ticket.
03:53:48.480
So, from the time he didn't pay for it right away, you know, I had a performance in St.
03:53:52.900
So, St. Kitts is, like, you have to cross through Barbados.
03:53:55.220
So, I was going to just start a stop in Barbados on the way back home to Singusha.
03:54:01.800
When I was in St. Kitts, the day before, before I get to Barbados, he told me, he sent me these fake videos of Barbados is flooded.
03:54:08.660
So, it was, like, these fake flooded videos to try to scare me from coming or whatever.
03:54:18.280
So, I got my own, like, Airbnb in St. Kitts from the time he started answering my calls.
03:54:26.520
And then, so, after, like, what, five days in the Airbnb, I wanted to go home.
03:54:34.320
I chose to go out to this cabin in the south part of Barbados.
03:54:40.020
But I did not know what I was, like, expected in this cabin.
03:54:51.420
And I was like, I already bought my ticket back home to St. Kitts because after the first
03:55:05.460
You know, he shows me the money on FaceTime or whatever.
03:55:10.960
So, he comes and gets me, like, out this huge car.
03:55:14.960
So, I guess, like, a Dodge or a Ford, but, like, a huge truck.
03:55:17.860
And he, like, pops out, like, you ever seen Shrek with a little midget hopping off the
03:55:27.640
So, I go to his house finally to have a calm night.
03:55:37.560
Alex was talking about her bad date with Shrek.
03:55:57.600
I thought she was talking like it was a famous guy.
03:56:05.180
Because the chat was saying they think it's somebody.
03:56:14.380
I had like, well, a minute of like a good fresh air brief.
03:56:24.800
And she takes a hammer and she smashes through the windows.
03:56:28.600
And he was like, if you don't stop, I'm going to call 911 right now.
03:56:34.720
I literally, because I don't know if you know, but Caribbean women, when they pick up a weapon,
03:56:39.960
Caribbean people in general, someone is going to die.
03:56:45.600
Every Caribbean person had like a machete in the house.
03:56:48.620
So, I grabbed the machete and I locked myself into a room.
03:56:53.880
So, after she eventually goes, we're like in the bed.
03:56:59.100
And he's going to have a nerve enough to like think we're going to sleep together after that fucking happened.
03:57:09.160
So, basically, I go through his phone because I'm like in an anxious mode because I think I'm about to get killed.
03:57:14.720
And Guyana is like very, very, like even more third world country than Signusha.
03:57:18.920
So, they're very, very serious, especially when it's like a man involved or somebody is going to die.
03:57:24.440
So, I went back on his phone to find that he only dates the same.
03:57:27.960
I noticed that me and the girl look so much alike.
03:57:30.100
To find out that he only dates replicas of the same looking girl.
03:57:56.640
No soul renting your droopy bat cave is not equal to success.
03:58:02.940
Her unearned superiority is all your fault and you must atone for creating this monster.
03:58:23.620
You said you like the idea of being spoiled and the man paying for dinners and things,
03:58:27.920
but I have a unique and easier way of earning money.
03:58:36.140
I understand if I'd have to pay for more things.
03:58:41.040
I mean, I think most women do like the idea of being spoiled.
03:58:47.000
But, at the end of the day, I probably do make more money than what a man doing a regular job is.
03:58:54.920
So, if I did, like, paying for a day, paying for everything is not new to me.
03:59:01.700
Me paying a bit more or even a 50-50 split, I'm okay with.
03:59:05.940
Yeah, because you say, as a general rule, you think 50-50 efforts, money, chores is fair.
03:59:34.560
Do you think men are insecure if they care about a woman's body count?
03:59:53.640
I definitely think there are people who are insecure about it and some people who aren't.
04:00:08.120
But if they're just asking to know why health-wise, because that's the only, like, valid reason
04:00:12.240
I think that a man should know what your body count is.
04:00:21.680
But, no, it doesn't always necessarily mean that he's insecure.
04:00:31.660
Well, I guess, no, it doesn't mean you're insecure.
04:00:36.080
It could mean, but it doesn't always mean that.
04:00:40.840
I think a lot of the time it does mean that they're insecure.
04:00:44.200
Just because, even from, like, experience, when I have told somebody my body count and then
04:00:52.000
they get, like, upset about it, it's normally because they have a low one and they just feel
04:01:01.900
I don't think it's necessarily that they're insecure.
04:01:04.060
But maybe, like, they're not, they're mature-wise.
04:01:09.180
So, going around the table, what's your body count?
04:01:20.900
I thought, hold on, I thought body count doesn't matter.
04:01:33.120
Thank you, thank you, thank you, appreciate it.
04:01:59.900
Yeah, so, actually, here's what we're gonna do.
04:02:02.000
I'm gonna put you in that seat, and then you two, like, scoot down, and then, Anissa,
04:02:08.620
Sorry, guys, we're playing musical chairs here.
04:02:16.540
Yeah, no, take that seat, and then you two scoot down.
04:02:28.120
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04:02:32.040
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04:03:00.440
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04:03:05.880
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04:03:31.020
You want to tell us the quick short version of the story?
04:03:34.960
Yes, that is by the same girl who broke in on the first date.
04:03:38.120
So, eventually, when we start dating, obviously, I'm not going to leave him because he's rich.
04:03:40.940
So, he took me to this very, very expensive restaurant.
04:03:45.140
And then, I just turned around and he was gone.
04:03:53.160
And by the time, the girl was already calling me.
04:03:55.460
And she was telling me, you know, everything that Carl has done.
04:04:02.380
He was like, Vera, I have to tell you something.
04:04:06.880
So, apparently, whatever the secret that he has, it's so big.
04:04:15.480
So, when he came to her house to give her the money, she dumped a bottle, like a bucket of water on him.
04:04:24.040
And like, literally, like when I was sitting alone, like at my date, it's a nice restaurant.
04:04:28.500
Like, I was literally just fighting back my tears.
04:04:31.280
Like, I've never been, like, with a man that would allow a man to blackmail him over the 10,000.
04:05:03.720
So, like, every Thai person is given a Thai name that has some sort of meaning.
04:05:07.700
But then also a nickname that everyone kind of calls you by.
04:05:23.460
You said that you have a crazy ex that paid you money to talk to you, paid you money to
04:05:31.400
talk to you after you blocked him on all socials, including email?
04:05:37.760
See, I actually had to sign off or get evidence for a restraining order.
04:05:51.860
So, after all of that happened, there was a time, like, a while ago.
04:05:58.120
Mind you, like, we broke up, like, we broke up, like, three years ago.
04:06:01.180
So, the fact that I'm still, like, dealing with this, like, till this day, to me, is,
04:06:09.080
But, basically, I went on a bike ride with my dad.
04:06:14.060
And as I'm going to the gates to get into my house, I see on the corner of my street, like,
04:06:29.940
If you got to deal with, like, a stalker, that's always...
04:06:46.640
I mean, I, unfortunately, also had to just, like, remove his best friend's girlfriend,
04:06:55.240
And also his sister, which is, like, super annoying.
04:06:58.400
But, yeah, he kind of just went on her phone and started apologizing for me seeing him
04:07:16.540
But this coming from the same guy who, you know, like, chitted on me and stuff when I
04:07:23.140
Um, I don't, I really do not understand men sometimes.
04:07:27.320
So, but you said that he, crazy ex, he paid you money to talk to you after you'd blocked
04:07:47.380
I was like, if you want a response, like, you should pay me more.
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Um, it was like maybe six, seven messages individual.
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Because it was just, like, a dollar, like, a message.
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Um, you said dating life in this generation and how silly it is.
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Yeah, I mean, um, I, I've been trying to go on some other dates since I last broke up with
04:08:46.920
And I met this guy, um, actually at a bonfire and he was someone who was, you know, hanging
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out with me every single day for, like, two weeks straight and inviting me to go to Hawaii
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with him and spearfish with his dad and going on and on about how he can see us in the future
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and, like, you know, like, that my situationship, like, the other guy, it was, like, calling
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And the entire two weeks, I was, like, I am not going to hook up with him because I actually
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And we seemed to, like, compliment each other well.
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Um, and so, actually, I told my best friend that I, um, was fearful of giving him what he
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wanted, which is, like, probably sex, and then not hearing from him again.
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And end of those two weeks, basically, we did hook up.
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And I was, like, okay, well, I see this going somewhere and not even, like, maybe four days
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later, I was absolutely right and he completely just stopped talking to me and my best friend
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just goes, can I just, next time I see him, let me just, like, spit, spit on him.
04:10:19.640
Like, leading a girl on and then, you know, like I mentioned, like, the fear of.
04:10:29.900
I genuinely, like, if I'm interested in someone.
04:10:35.180
Um, so you were dating this guy or you're still in a situation ship with this guy who, it's
04:10:45.920
So you're in the situation ship, uh, with this guy who it's been, like, on and off for a while.
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No, I'm not because I'm very much, like, telling them what is going on in my head.
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And, like, that I'm just, like, not ready to be in a relationship.
04:11:14.620
But so you're, so before they even go on the date, before they, you even go on the date,
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you're telling them that you're sexually involved with another man?
04:11:24.320
No, I don't mention, like, any of this until, like, maybe they ask me to be their girlfriend
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How would you ever become their girl, like, some other dude's girlfriend?
04:12:01.520
You're sleeping with this other guy who you love.
04:12:05.260
But you're going on dates with these other men.
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So, they're, even if they just wanted sex from you, they can't get it.
04:12:18.720
Even if they wanted a relationship from you, I don't think they can get it either.
04:12:26.500
I mean, I know, like, some guys I, like, for sure can lead on in that way.
04:12:31.740
But, like, if I am, like, interested in pursuing that person as more of a relationship, then I will make it very clear.
04:12:40.560
How many dates have you been on with other men while being in love with fuckboy guy?
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I think, like, I've really gone out to dates with, like, three people.
04:13:07.760
Have you gone on, like, multiple dates with them?
04:13:22.400
I, like, just ended off, like, my last relationship that I've been with for, like, the past year.
04:13:35.040
You weren't seeing the fuckboy guy during the one-year, most recent relationship?
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At that point, I don't know if it was, like, considered love because we've been through, like, a lot of stuff.
04:13:49.900
And he was also in a relationship at the same time as I was.
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And, you know, we give each other, like, a lot of boundaries when we hang out or when we want to pursue someone else.
04:14:06.560
Just as for, like, respect for the other person and also each other.
04:14:09.880
So, I guess we don't really talk about it together when, about, like, our other partners.
04:14:19.800
I mean, but you've been, you said you've been dating, like, other guys, too, while you're seeing this situationship, right?
04:14:24.820
Yeah, like, a while ago, like, before my last relationship.
04:14:34.580
I mean, if you're involved with somebody else, you know?
04:14:41.160
Sometimes I, like, I do lead guys on, like, even just in general when I go out and hang out, like, at a bar with my friends.
04:14:51.420
Like, I never always know when a guy's, like, wanting to, like, ask me on a date or just making casual conversation with me because I'm just wanting casual conversation with them.
04:15:02.940
Like I said earlier, like, it's really hard to find just guys that, you know, you can only be friends with.
04:15:15.260
I always wonder, though, like, okay, it's like, let's say you go on a date with a guy, but you're still seeing your situationship.
04:15:23.780
And you say you don't, like, sleep with these other guys, right?
04:15:27.320
Well, nowadays, like, the new me only hooks up with people I have, like, feelings for.
04:15:40.580
The new me that has not hooked up with, like, 50-plus people in my past.
04:15:44.680
That's another interesting conversation because, wait, so, like, would you make a new guy wait to have sex?
04:15:55.220
Because you said you'd only have sex with a guy who would, like, you have a connection?
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Like, I can't just hook up with, like, someone I just met that same day.
04:16:04.200
So, like, how long do you think you would wait?
04:16:13.480
But you don't think it would be, like, first date?
04:16:22.240
But in the past, you have had, like, one-night stands or, like, hooked up pretty quick?
04:16:28.000
Just curious, like, what's the quickest you've ever hooked up with somebody?
04:16:31.200
Um, I have hooked up with someone I had, like, just met, like, that same day.
04:16:39.500
Like, you, you mean you've, you've done that with multiple guys?
04:16:45.420
Like, but when I say quickest, I mean, like, 30 minutes, an hour?
04:16:50.600
Oh, um, like, hang out during the day, like, later at night kind of thing.
04:17:01.340
Like, I don't think I've ever made plans to hang out with a guy.
04:17:05.060
And then we just, like, it was a known thing that I'm here and we're just gonna, like, hook up and I'm gonna go home.
04:17:14.320
Maybe there's an understanding you'd, like, keep seeing them.
04:17:18.440
It doesn't necessarily, even if you hook up quick, it doesn't necessarily mean that it's a one-time thing or a one-night stand, but, um...
04:17:29.800
Uh, you said, before he became so desperate to talk to me...
04:17:37.100
Or, wait, no, you said, I think people need to figure out either they are just bored and want to be close to someone, or if they are genuinely wanting a relationship.
04:17:46.980
Um, so I have, honestly, like, issues with that myself, because being out of a relationship for so long, because the, all of the relationships I've been in, like, dating, which I've only been in, like, three.
04:18:03.420
After, I'm kind of just, like, do I miss being intimate with someone?
04:18:09.660
Um, or do I actually want to find someone who better fits me?
04:18:20.400
Oh, before he became so desperate to talk to me and felt the need to go out of his way to pay me money to send me a message on Venmo, he was the one who cheated on me when I was in Japan for a month with the same girl.
04:18:33.920
He only ratted himself out because he started having issues with his body and found out he got chlamydia.
04:18:45.060
I was like, thank goodness I was in Japan for a month.
04:18:55.420
Wait, so you had sex with him after he had the chlamydia?
04:19:08.100
You said you dated, but wait, you dated him for a year before you ended things.
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It says, anyways, goes to show that when people realize they fumbled, they go to insane lengths to try to get you back.
04:19:25.280
Um, I guess that's another, so he cheated and then he fumbled.
04:19:28.480
Um, I guess that's another topic that would be worth discussing because it's a great example of the saying that people do not realize what they had until they lost it and it relates to any sort of relationship.
04:19:41.060
He also mentioned you in his bio when he created a new Tinder profile and you have screen recordings of everything.
04:19:48.120
Why did, what did he say about you in your Tinder, in his Tinder profile?
04:19:53.940
Um, but I was sent a screen recording of his Tinder profile that he created a few weeks, maybe a month after I broke up with him.
04:20:05.440
Um, and he didn't like exactly include my name, but he mentioned, um, something along the lines of, um, sorry, I'm emotionally unavailable because I'm still in love with my ex.
04:20:18.900
I won't talk about my ex unless you mentioned yours and so on.
04:20:23.740
So, um, damn, damn, when you look back at your, uh, like kind of your relationship history, uh, like do you have any regret or anything or?
04:20:37.940
Um, I think my only regret is that I just let things get too far and I should have spoken up, um, a lot more early on because, um, I don't know, things like those kinds of relationships, like it really messes the messes with you like mentally.
04:20:57.920
Um, and that was definitely like a learning curve, but, um, I wouldn't really change anything else because I wouldn't be where I am today if I hadn't gone through that relationship.
04:21:19.660
The craziest thing story you have is when your ex put an air tag in your purse.
04:21:25.960
Um, we went to LA for my birthday and we went to like a concert and we had gotten to this argument at the concert.
04:21:37.300
Basically, we went back to the Airbnb and he slept in the living room and I slept in the room.
04:21:43.440
And when I woke up in the morning, he was gone and my vape was gone and my fake ID was gone.
04:21:50.060
And, um, yeah, I had, my friend drove me back home and basically went like two days, two, three days later, I kept hearing this little like T3 sound in my purse.
04:22:04.880
And I went through my purse and I went through my purse two, three times and I didn't find anything.
04:22:10.920
And then I got like this air tag message on my phone and it basically said that it was linked to his phone number.
04:22:18.180
So then that's how I kind of found out that I had an air tag in my bag.
04:22:22.860
So I went through my bag again and I saw a matchbox in my purse and it had an air tag in it that he put there.
04:22:36.660
So he ghosted you and left you with an air tag.
04:22:42.600
Of course, he's experimenting to see what she's naturally going to do after a man leaves her.
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Cause you can see like who the air tag is connected to by your, by the phone number.
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He followed me to the beach one day with the air tag.
04:23:16.280
I was like, I know you put an air tag in my bag and like, that's why you know that I'm
04:23:20.940
And then he basically just said like, no, I didn't.
04:23:28.480
A little bit, but I just like, oh, like he really cares about me.
04:23:32.220
Wait, can you scoot into the table a little bit?
04:23:49.260
You said you went to hang out with a guy who you thought was interested in you.
04:23:53.580
You smoked some Mary Jane and that for the first time ever, you fell asleep and you woke
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She said it was the first time he's smoking weed.
04:24:21.760
I think that he just expected to get something that night and I fell asleep.
04:24:28.380
You said you made a bumble and a friend's dad started texting you about how he saw your
04:24:49.460
He just started texting me from his number because I had his number for, um.
04:25:00.640
Yeah, I was about to say, what were you, because just the timeline here, you've been
04:25:11.760
I don't think you're allowed to even be on dating apps at that age.
04:25:37.800
If you go on Tinder, you're getting what you're asking for.
04:25:42.240
I mean, I feel like most people assume, though, like on dating apps, that everybody's over
04:25:48.780
Like, if you go to a bar, you're probably going to assume, like, people are over 21.
04:25:52.340
I think they didn't care because I was turning 18 that year.
04:26:16.020
You said finding someone that matches your lifestyle is number one?
04:26:20.720
Um, just, like, active, outdoors, someone who likes the same things as you.
04:26:24.480
Um, like I said, like, I wouldn't date you because you don't go on hikes kind of situation.
04:26:34.480
Um, from what you said, from what you've witnessed, dating has become one of the most difficult
04:26:52.640
Uh, actually, I think, you said women tell too much unnecessary information prior just
04:26:59.520
meeting someone that might not even find them valuable.
04:27:02.660
But before I do that, I just made the connection, and it's been, I just noticed this.
04:27:07.840
So, Anissa, you look, do you know Aubrey Plaza?
04:27:14.500
Can we Google a photo of, you kind of look like Aubrey Plaza.
04:27:24.660
Doesn't she look a little bit like Aubrey Plaza?
04:27:56.620
Yeah, I kind of switched things up there a little bit, so that's on me.
04:28:07.540
The eyes are off, but they're everything else, yeah.
04:28:16.700
She just looks like she's been through a little bit of stress with the Michael Jackson nose.
04:29:07.200
People telling too much business prior to, you know, meeting someone that's not important.
04:29:11.620
I feel like a lot of women, like, when they meet someone, they want to go so deaf into the truth about their lives and past lives to someone that's possibly not going to even call them back tomorrow.
04:29:23.540
They give way too much information about themselves that men are just not really giving back.
04:29:29.360
And I feel like, yeah, a lot of, like, women specifically give too much, like, unvaluable information and probably going to be used against them.
04:29:47.300
If a man asks you to me, if a man asks you for your body count, if he's genuinely concerned, I'd ask him, well, why don't you just ask me for STD tests?
04:30:00.660
But a lot of women, like, they go back and say, oh, I don't have a dad, I don't have a...
04:30:04.020
Like, everything I told you guys, I do not even tell guys, like, I have an OnlyFans.
04:30:30.580
It seems like it would be the ethical thing to do.
04:30:33.880
I'm in the most unethical job you can have, so...
04:30:38.900
By the way, TTS is now 69, if you guys want to get a TTS in.
04:30:42.280
So, even in your relationships, you're unethical.
04:30:49.240
Well, what usually happens is the hardest thing is to break to a guy that I, like, really am a chocolate to, that I have an OnlyFans, but none of them care.
04:31:04.000
Like, when a man approaches me, he's like, what do you do for a living, or what do you do?
04:31:07.180
First of all, either I say nothing, like I don't do anything, or I'll tell him...
04:31:14.580
I'll tell him, like, if I want to impress him, I'll tell him I'm a personal assistant, or I will say social media marketer.
04:31:23.200
Okay, well, this is a checkmate to our previous conversation.
04:31:25.840
Earlier, you were saying that men would rather date a sex worker or OnlyFans girl over a woman who works in...
04:31:33.920
You gotta let me finish, and then I'll let you talk.
04:31:36.260
So, you said a man would prefer to date a sex worker, OnlyFans girl, escort over a woman who works at Chick-fil-A.
04:31:45.900
Do you think a woman who works at Chick-fil-A would lie to men that she works at Chick-fil-A?
04:31:54.660
Then, let's put that aside, since you're not going to concede on that.
04:31:57.840
If men, like, were super stoked on your job or work or whatever, why do you not tell them that you're a sex worker?
04:32:07.260
Because they're going to expect sex, which I don't like having sex.
04:32:10.580
If I tell them I'm a sex worker, then they're going to think, oh, well, she's going to have sex with me right away, which is not the truth.
04:32:17.900
Or I can, like, sexually exploit her right away.
04:32:30.040
I can ask her for, you know, inappropriate pictures, or I can disrespect her.
04:32:34.060
I don't know if you've noticed, but my Instagram is a lady emperors because I want to be treated like a lady in all of my content.
04:32:40.520
All of my content is me putting on my clothes, not taking off.
04:32:58.120
So you want to be treated like a lady, but you're...
04:33:06.180
You don't think ladies can act like prostitutes as well?
04:33:10.140
Well, it's possible that you could act like a lady, but acting like a lady would entail not being a sex worker.
04:33:18.940
I don't think sex has anything to not be a lady.
04:33:24.080
Being a lady means that you demand respect, you know, from men, that you present yourself...
04:33:32.740
I'm getting paid for having sex instead of taking it for free.
04:33:39.160
Respect means that you're going to allow someone to pay you for your services.
04:33:42.380
Disrespect means that you're going to let them do it for free.
04:33:48.120
But me having sex with somebody isn't necessarily me doing it for free.
04:33:58.340
If a guy's going to stick his dick in me, it's because it's the only vagina that he's putting his dick in.
04:34:11.120
But I mean, I asked you earlier, if you had a 15-year-old in front of you, then you would say...
04:34:16.420
No, if you have parents, if you have great parents that are sending you to college and are providing for you,
04:34:22.340
and you come from a great family, do not be a sex worker.
04:34:48.680
And I enjoy going to bed doing absolutely nothing.
04:34:51.080
If I wasn't a sex worker, I wouldn't have made it on this podcast.
04:35:01.380
So you can get an orphanage from Mexico to here?
04:35:09.760
You don't need to be a sex worker to be on the show.
04:35:15.000
I self would have not got here if I was not doing OnlyFans.
04:35:33.420
So then you're putting all of St. Lucia, that all of them are sex workers to get out of St. Lucia.
04:35:40.240
I'm the biggest and only sex worker in St. Lucia, if I'm being frankly honest.
04:36:06.040
They don't have prostitutes running the streets in St. Lucia.
04:36:09.000
So yes, I'm the biggest sex worker in the whole Eastern Caribbean.
04:36:19.740
But to be fair, though, I really think that none of us knows what poverty is.
04:36:27.760
So we cannot even imagine what we would do in that situation.
04:36:33.600
But I've been in poverty, and I'm still not doing things like that.
04:36:46.720
When I was 17 years old, I got put in Mexico in an orphanage.
04:37:05.560
So opinionatedly, if I came from poverty, I wouldn't want to bust my ass in a country
04:37:10.600
with giving all of my time, making someone else's establishment rich and not myself.
04:37:16.420
I'm working towards me building my own establishment.
04:37:19.040
So the point of the argument was that laying down with a man for free, just because he told
04:37:24.640
you something nice, you know, means that you don't value yourself.
04:37:38.340
And I could tell you every single man that, you know, I was, you know, after or was after
04:37:45.680
When I came into my down times and I needed like doing this COVID time when I had to, you
04:37:51.060
Was there anything interesting about yourself for them to like other than you?
04:38:09.520
I'm very good at acting in all sorts, adult included.
04:38:23.420
If you're so, you have a lot of good qualities like singing and why don't you do a career
04:38:42.040
If people who don't know about it, I think they have it in Sweden.
04:38:54.960
So one of these days, it'll be in the Olympics soon here, I think.
04:39:01.620
Isn't it still a lot of work to be a sex worker?
04:39:06.520
So a lot of OnlyFans, a lot of people have this delusion that we make content all day.
04:39:13.380
It comes from marketing, so social media marketing.
04:39:21.900
And how long, what do you do to market yourself?
04:39:27.640
Every worker has different social media marketing tactics.
04:39:32.720
I, for say, do not have a manager because I don't want to give a man that ability to my account
04:39:40.580
Yeah, no, sex work is not what you think it is.
04:39:42.640
It's not like I'm getting up every day and running after men.
04:39:50.120
I don't see how that even gets you anywhere, though, without having to do a bunch of work
04:39:58.780
That's why most people are resulting to sex work.
04:40:00.780
Like, so there's girls that don't really know the marketing part, and they're posting all
04:40:05.940
of this, like, you know, very X-rated content and posting themselves naked and doing this
04:40:11.080
But the ones that know about marketing or some of the ones that majored in business or know
04:40:14.900
someone who majored in business knows that the marketing part is where the majority of
04:40:18.740
the money comes from, not an actual taking pictures and taking videos.
04:40:22.600
But I don't understand how you make money if you just wake up and do nothing and go to
04:40:31.860
A passive income means that you make money without doing absolutely nothing because your
04:40:35.400
business is running itself even when you're not running it.
04:40:37.660
How are you passively making the $5,000 while you fuck that?
04:40:42.400
I said, if someone wants to fuck me and they, you know, write out that they want to have
04:41:01.360
I don't, like, all right now, I'm making money.
04:41:18.880
I thought you were getting, like, chats and messages right now.
04:41:22.620
I don't have to, they're, like, not answered all right now.
04:41:35.700
When I have time, I do text my fans back when I have time.
04:41:38.180
But, like, say, I take my mental health, because I have my time to myself, I take my
04:41:44.320
So say if I'm not happy right now, I'm not going to go, like, on OnlyFans and go answer
04:41:48.820
And, like, so sometimes that might be weeks, sometimes that might be months I don't, you
04:41:52.400
know, work, because I've created so much content, my content works itself.
04:41:56.000
I don't need to be making new and new content every, like, you know, day and every month.
04:41:59.700
So in the past, you had to spend a lot of time making content.
04:42:04.120
Like, when you're a content creator, you know everything is content.
04:42:06.660
So literally, all you have to do is just turn your camera on, drinking water, eating
04:42:13.760
Like, the time is, what, 10 minutes of me shaking my eyes, and then the camera's off.
04:42:19.980
But I don't really understand how you can protect it when you're not telling the 15-year-old
04:42:28.560
So when we're talking to the 15-year-old, don't choose being in sex work.
04:42:37.020
But where you are now, you're not in poverty anymore, right?
04:43:09.820
My most big one is Twitter, if that's what you're asking.
04:43:12.300
Is it like your face or is it mostly your body that gets attention?
04:43:16.620
No, it's my face that gets attention because there's a lot of like, obviously there's a
04:43:19.860
lot of OnlyFans stars with better bodies than me, but it's my face that.
04:43:35.880
Wait, please don't be disrespectful to gay people, but go ahead.
04:44:10.160
You're fucking glad it's going to come after her and cancel her shit.
04:44:17.880
Um, so when's the last time you fucked a guy for $5,000?
04:44:30.660
How's, um, what else do you want to talk about?
04:44:41.620
Do you think you're representing St. Lucia in a positive way?
04:44:46.880
But all you're talking about is you're the best in St. Lucia.
04:45:18.240
Have you ever jump roped and fucked a guy at the same time?
04:45:27.760
Yoga and fucking, but not jump rope and fucking.
04:45:40.280
Do you go to, like, competitions for jump roping?
04:45:43.920
So, if I ever got a chance to do it in America, I could.
04:45:45.900
They don't have buildings there to house competitions.
04:45:55.940
I mean, the temperature, the climate's very nice.
04:46:21.340
You seem very upset that I'm attacking the architecture of St. Lucia.
04:46:26.660
St. Lucia is the second most beautiful island in the world.
04:46:31.040
I think it's either Curacao or Turkic Caicos is the first.
04:46:48.940
That's like being second place in the Special Olympics.
04:46:53.000
Second most beautiful country in the whole Caribbean.
04:46:57.800
Having the second nicest house in the slums of Detroit.
04:47:05.640
The hell in the West Indies versus the slums of Detroit is very different.
04:47:11.280
Because the people from the slums of Detroit and the people of the heights of the Montecito
04:47:15.440
are spending all their money to go down to St. Lucia and see what's going on down there.
04:47:24.080
But the richest people in the world know what St. Lucia is and been and love it.
04:47:28.180
So then why is there so much poverty and people need to sell themselves for sex?
04:47:32.620
I never said people need to sell themselves for sex.
04:47:35.600
There's more people selling themselves in America for sex.
04:47:37.800
Okay, so they're not for sex, but at KFC and like you said.
04:47:41.940
Trying to make a regular living so they won't be considered as degenerate.
04:47:45.880
So they can live up to the American like expectation.
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Why are there so many people trying to do that?
04:47:50.980
Because they're trying to live up to the American expectation and work as many jobs as they can get
04:47:58.360
She's got the second best favela in the Brazilian favelas.
04:48:03.980
I took off my wig and my makeup for St. Lucia, so I would defend St. Lucia.
04:48:16.380
Do not try prostitution to St. Lucia because there are no prostitutes in St. Lucia.
04:48:37.700
I mean, Dominica, Barbados, St. Vincent, Martinique.
04:48:51.540
I don't think you're the number one prostitute.
04:48:58.560
The Americans have went out their way to the right.
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I mean, I know you've got to pass, but I would recommend just avoid saying.
04:49:36.180
It's very offensive in America to say that word.
04:49:49.300
It's geographically part of the Caribbean, but they're like under French control.
04:50:26.400
Well, I don't know how to speak Creole, but I know of.
04:50:35.740
No, there's different kinds of that language, though.
04:50:42.260
I'm playing Battlegrounds on Classic Era while I have to listen to this woman's voice.
04:50:48.100
Every single word that's coming out of her mouth is a lie.
04:50:53.540
Um, Ruin, I'm sorry that we're disrupting your World of Warcraft PvP action.
04:51:57.420
There's a lot of people in this world named Abdul.
04:52:08.760
They have, like, definitely helped me become who I am today.
04:52:13.380
Well, they also contributed to me who I am today.
04:52:20.620
They're the ones who's asking you to piss on them and shit on them and asking for money
04:52:45.660
And they're great providers and they're great protectors and they're good in bed.
04:52:48.660
But I want to disavow, I don't, I think this is probably a rare thing for Arabic men.
04:52:56.640
Literally, this is like the most popular thing for Arab men.
04:52:59.300
I'm not going to allow you to slander Arabic men.
04:53:08.700
Where did the, okay, well, I don't, we shouldn't say all Arabic men do that.
04:53:36.680
No, I wouldn't, because I could just date a man who has a million dollars.
04:53:39.260
Would any girls here let somebody poop on you for a million dollars?
04:53:45.320
Would you let somebody poop on you for a million dollars?
04:53:48.140
Would you let somebody poop on you for a million dollars?
04:54:49.100
And so, once you see the real world, there's no way you can really expect it.
04:54:55.020
These are not just, like, running out of the street.
04:54:59.920
If I had a penny for every time that this woman lied, then I would be the world's first trillionaire.
04:55:11.540
When you get the billion dollars, can I have some, please?
04:55:15.260
Make sure you subscribe to my OnlyFans and tip me well when you get that billion.
04:55:19.600
And so, you've been to Saudi Arabia and Dubai, and you've pooped on men.
04:55:37.840
You try to persuade others, so you are not alone.
04:55:40.600
Can a man, child, people, respect you if you let people disrespect you for money?
04:55:53.180
I think you're using God to, like, your advantage.
04:56:03.360
Well, good thing you don't get paid for what you think.
04:56:11.100
I'm getting paid for what I'm thinking right now.
04:56:13.140
Wait, so, uh, I don't even know where to go, like, after the whole poop argument.
04:56:23.220
Do you touch your own shit when you're, like, rubbing it on them?
04:56:53.560
Like, your hair looks, like, it's a different color, but, like...
04:57:00.540
But, like, you could just dye your hair that color.
04:57:03.980
If I dye my hair that color my hair would get damaged, it wouldn't have lens on it.
04:57:10.840
She's barely worth a Whopper Jr., let alone $5K.
04:57:23.880
And nobody can tell me nothing, because I travel the whole world already and live life already.
04:57:30.780
To get twerking my ass, shaking my ass like I was normally doing before.
04:57:58.680
Oh, if God so loved the world, he gave his one and only beloved son something, something.
04:58:13.220
For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loses his own soul?
04:58:27.040
For what shall it profit a man if he shall gain the whole world and lose his own soul?
04:58:47.880
To me, in my head and in my life, I've not lost my soul.
04:58:51.700
If you had children, would you explain to them and would you still tell them?
04:59:04.100
But, actually, I do want to do a thought experiment with the chat.
04:59:10.420
So, chat, would you shat on somebody for a billion dollars?
04:59:25.060
And I just have to, like, do what I do every day, but a different, something's different?
04:59:57.360
So, you say all this is about sex worker, right?
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And that you're against sex worker and that it's degenerate.
05:00:03.360
Do you know in my country, they would call you a sex worker before me?
05:00:07.360
And they would have more respect for me than they would have for you because of the way that you're dressed.
05:00:12.800
So, if she was a virgin wearing that and you're.
05:00:14.820
They would not believe that she's a virgin wearing that.
05:00:19.540
So, let's say she's a virgin and she's wearing that.
05:00:23.940
You're a prostitute and fucked a hundred men for money, but you're wearing that.
05:00:32.620
I said she's against sex workers, but yet she is dressed like one.
05:00:36.120
And I'm the sex worker, but she's dressed like one.
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And do you think that men, like, view you as a wholesome woman?
05:00:41.900
Or do you think that they, like, view you as what you're dressed like?
05:00:48.940
So, I would argue that men, if they had to choose between two options, a woman who dresses
05:01:00.600
A woman who dresses revealing as she's dressed, but she's otherwise, like, average or whatever.
05:01:06.540
Or a woman who dresses super modestly, but she's a prostitute and an escort.
05:01:25.060
The woman who dresses revealing, but she's like, you know, whatever.
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Or the girl who dresses super modestly, but a hundred body count.
05:01:35.300
I think you gotta take the, I think you take the dress.
05:01:41.740
I know you take the woman who dresses revealing.
05:01:43.760
Well, if that was true, then how am I being taken by so many people?
05:01:47.260
That's how, like, that's what my personality is.
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People who pay for pussy are the only type of people that go after you.
05:01:53.120
And people who don't pay for pussy is the only type of people who go after you.
05:01:58.600
You also said you don't disclose the fact that you're a sex worker.
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Yeah, when I meet, not to all, but not to all, not to most either.
05:02:07.340
But eventually they find out, they find out, but I don't know, I don't lead with that.
05:02:15.520
I think people who, like, can afford to live in Santa Barbara always has to be, like, somewhat well-off.
05:02:30.360
She's also in school, and she pays for a rent here.
05:02:37.920
Cost your happiness and your legacy in the future.
05:03:02.600
When guys give things to you, it's their name on it.
05:03:07.860
You have to work for that shit that they're giving you.
05:03:26.740
Selling my soul would mean that I'm doing all these type of drugs.
05:03:30.420
And let every single man who offers me a piece of money have sex with me.
05:03:34.780
But you've sat here this entire podcast explaining why that it's okay because you don't care how
05:03:41.800
they view you, but this entire time you've been kind of explaining why they shouldn't
05:03:49.100
I don't care what they view me as because either way they're going to pay.
05:03:54.200
Do you not see I've been smiling every time he says prostitute?
05:03:58.900
The word selling my soul doesn't bother me because you know why?
05:04:13.200
So like literally I'm not trying to explain myself.
05:04:15.940
I know people are going to say what the fuck they want about prostitutes because they don't
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have their time and they're a slave to someone else making their rich.
05:04:31.400
So I actually want to go back to a conversation we were having earlier.
05:04:34.840
So I would rather date a female janitor than a sex worker.
05:04:46.640
She cleans the shit that I like spat out on the floor.
05:05:02.200
You should have mentioned Titus chapter two, verses three, four, and five.
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Women are to be chaste, not false accusers, obedient to their husbands, and not given to
05:05:16.480
That means, like, we shouldn't drink that much?
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Her selling her soul, letting, or shitting on people, or whatever.
05:05:30.740
It's funny that you mention soul when you're not religious.
05:05:44.760
For the lips of an immoral woman drip honey, and her mouth is smooth as an oil.
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But in the end, she is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword.
05:06:03.740
And the verse after that says to listen to your woman, and that if those who listen to
05:06:10.020
He's talking about for a strange woman, their lips are bitter than oil.
05:06:13.900
I'm not a strange woman, because I'm not with you.
05:06:15.740
So that means if you had a wife, and you cheated her with a prostitute.
05:06:23.260
Both of my original parents that died were pastors.
05:06:37.200
Do you think God put us here to shit on each other?
05:06:41.620
No, but I believe that God is in control, and what he doesn't want to happen, he won't
05:07:11.560
So how do you reconcile doing sex work and being a Christian?
05:07:15.720
Jesus hanged around people like me, not like you.
05:07:20.540
He was his disciples with thieves, prostitutes, and liars.
05:07:22.760
So wait, just to be clear, so, and so, okay, Jesus hung out around thieves.
05:07:29.440
Yeah, so does that mean he, Jesus or God wants people to be thieves?
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What God has for you is for you, and nobody can take that away.
05:07:53.180
So when he tells me that personally, that I would do that.
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Literally, literally, I pray to God all the time.
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But strayed from the faith and teachings from the gospel, please don't twist the teachings of Jesus.
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Those that have not sinned, be the first to cast thy stone.
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But my sin is being prosecuted because I'm making money off of my sin.
05:08:42.320
And none of you, the rest of us, are making money off of my sin.
05:08:47.720
But why is mine such a big deal because I'm making money off of it?
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It's just that you're sitting here trying to explain something.
05:09:07.160
Like, I'm being asked to explain what I do for a living.
05:09:13.560
But I will say, if you come from a broken home and you do not have support and your situation
05:09:20.540
I would not say go out of the odds and try to, like, prove everybody wrong and bust your
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In Baptist faith, are women allowed to be pastors?
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And yes, the wife of the pastor, like, preaches all the time in black churches.
05:09:57.980
Well, look, I'm not a Christian, but my understanding of the Christian faith...
05:10:14.980
Yes, I am a Baptist, but I do not represent Baptist.
05:10:20.340
I am not a pure representation of what a Baptist woman is.
05:10:23.540
You're arguing that your conduct is acceptable under your faith, under your Christian faith.
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I said go and sin no more, and then you were using other quotes to justify...
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So, but it's meaning we're not all following God's book from into beginning, but all I know
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is that when I wake up in the morning, I give thanks for my lips that I can speak, my ears
05:10:45.700
that I can hear, and my eyes that I can see, and my heart that I can poke, and my tits
05:10:52.060
I thank God for everything that I have, and not the things that I do not have.
05:10:58.100
Yes, because I don't know where I would be without them.
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You see how the fall of the termites have spread, and how long and well they've dined.
05:11:12.540
You know, every time I'm in a new country, and I'm super thankful, even though I might
05:11:18.540
not be doing what I want for a living, or might not be doing the best thing, I'm thankful
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for what I do have, versus what other people don't.
05:11:26.200
I'm thankful that I'm not hooked up on a monitor, being fed through a tube.
05:11:29.580
I'm thankful that I'm able to shit and piss on my own.
05:11:33.220
Even though I might not have, you know, the American dream, I might not have the American
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money, and the American parents, and American opportunities, I am thankful for what I do
05:11:41.540
So my faith with God is thanking Him, not asking for Him, and asking Him, God, I am not like
05:11:50.600
I'm not perfect, but I come to you humbly, and I'm thankful.
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I am not like you, but I strive to be more like you.
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Do you think that before or after you shit on people?
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That's all I can do is pray, and my prayers have answered a lot of things.
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Please, for the love of me, keep my name out of your mouth.
05:12:36.360
I'm so happy you don't like me or my picnic shirt.
05:12:39.280
It makes me feel so great, and I'm honestly honored about your opinions.
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I wake up thinking about what you're going to think about me.
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Or live with parents until you meet a good man.
05:13:24.500
What have I said that's on anything like entitlement?
05:13:29.940
You're thinking that a guy would rather pick a sex worker than a burglar?
05:13:38.900
So then if it's the truth, why would he rather pick a janitor rather than a sex worker?
05:13:48.320
Well, if you're Jesus and you're God, you can be the ones that tell me.
05:14:06.140
But you're a man, and I know that you do way more things than I do than taking pictures and making money off of it.
05:14:11.140
You do way more things as a man that is way more degenerate and way more low down than what I'm doing for a living.
05:14:17.360
So you want to act like that you're so clean and that everybody's a priest and everybody's a pastor and everybody has never done nothing in their life.
05:14:27.260
People are raping and people are more focused about OnlyFans, girl.
05:14:34.900
Men are committing sexual crimes all the time, but they have their hate.
05:14:41.100
So, yeah, those crimes are worse than a woman doing OnlyFans.
05:14:46.080
Then why people don't put all of the energy into that?
05:14:48.760
You know, I think the fallacy is called fallacy of relative privation or appeal to a larger dilemma or a larger problem.
05:15:00.740
So it's like if somebody complains about something, you say, well, they're starving children in Africa.
05:15:07.100
Yeah, but that's not really an argument because people are allowed to make criticisms over, I guess, more minor disputes or disagreements.
05:15:16.960
So, yeah, essay, very bad, but also sex work, also bad.
05:15:25.000
And also watching porn, even worse, and also jacking off to it and getting to come to it, even to more terrible, and also thinking about it and watching it so you can come to it is even more worse.
05:15:34.300
Also paying the people that's on the Pornhub, that says, you said you don't pay for OnlyFans.
05:15:38.560
Do you know on Pornhub, a lot of those videos are underage children and children that's being sex trafficked, and OnlyFans gives the woman ability to make all of them.
05:15:46.960
Money without being taxed and given to other men that have nothing to do with them.
05:15:50.960
We already told you before the show, we're not going to talk about TOS stuff.
05:15:57.240
You can watch it, but God forbid people make money off of it.
05:16:01.460
You literally can't even formulate a coherent argument.
05:16:19.400
People who cater to your desires treat you as an object in return.
05:16:23.560
You'll realize your true worth when you no longer act like an object.
05:16:36.880
Well, if it's not important to you, I don't need to tell you.
05:16:41.360
Because as a woman, you should know your worth.
05:16:45.140
Okay, and you're not dressed like a woman either.
05:17:06.920
I'm a six-foot handsome man of Middle Eastern descent.
05:17:30.580
but I think with the right clothes and the right look,
05:17:42.100
Look at how darkened those makeup removal wipes are.
05:18:29.120
This girl is worth less than the burrito Brian lets out of his butt tomorrow morning.
05:18:34.420
Can the women on the panel put a stop to her madness of spurging she has been doing?
05:18:43.260
I mean, you kind of, you two had a bit of a back and forth.
05:18:46.340
I want to hear what the other girls on the panel think.
05:18:55.160
I just think putting a number on your body is, you know.
05:19:01.560
Putting a number on your body is honestly putting a number to your word.
05:19:06.140
Brian, I think we found Candace Owen's evil twin.
05:19:32.780
I don't even think you know yourself what you're trying to get across or what your point is.
05:19:37.180
I just think you just try to explain and explain and explain something that you, in reality,
05:19:42.840
If you're okay with it, keep your explanation to yourself.
05:19:45.760
Let these people think whatever the fuck they want to think.
05:19:50.420
I was answering the question, which you do when you're on a podcast.
05:19:57.420
Is there a wrong way to answer your questions, Brian?
05:20:00.400
Everybody has to agree with me 100% on everything.
05:20:05.300
But I think you're worth so much more than what you're doing.
05:20:11.820
No, but you do have other qualities that you really like doing, like jumping.
05:20:49.960
I'm going to pretend like you need to just make my dick go soft.
05:20:51.280
No, but look, you're probably better than singing.
05:20:57.580
I'm using the OnlyFans money to sing right now.
05:20:59.740
But if you know anything about sex work, when you try to come out of sex work, they make
05:21:05.020
They try to keep you as a degenerate, and anything that you put out, they do not want to support.
05:21:08.640
You have to be a good social media marketer to trick people into buying something that
05:21:14.160
As much as people talk down about it, when you try to better yourself, they don't naturally
05:21:34.060
Do you know how, like, she's been trying, every time she tries to say something smart,
05:21:37.200
people throw her down, like, oh, well, you got fucked, says a girl who got fucked
05:21:52.500
About all the people in the pornhub industry that was sex trafficking and that was underage
05:21:59.560
Is that important to you or because she's Mia Khalifa, it isn't, it's invalid?
05:22:10.760
Like, she has on cheetah print, her breast is out, she has in these long, unclassy nails,
05:22:27.840
But I am sure the notes that just came out of your mouth are more valuable than the
05:22:33.660
Wait, did you, did you just call her a prostitute?
05:22:37.800
Are you going to let her talk to you like that?
05:22:43.360
She's the one that's offended by the prostitute work.
05:22:46.200
I've never once said that I was offended by the prostitute work, ever.
05:22:54.640
But I'm not going to do it because I have morals.
05:23:01.520
You see, I always say, excuse my language, because that's what a lady does.
05:23:15.480
I feel like you can't let her disrespect you like that.
05:23:17.580
No, I'm going to let her because she's making a mockery out of herself.
05:23:36.200
I mean, you might want to disinfect it first if you do.
05:23:49.120
When a man has sex with a woman, he leaves small residues of DNA behind which mixes with
05:23:54.580
the DNA of the woman and always remains in her body.
05:23:57.680
Who said that's when you're having unprotected sex?
05:24:00.300
Who said we're having unprotected sex over here?
05:24:02.220
I'm pretty sure the ones that probably don't ask for money probably have unprotected sex.
05:24:08.000
And I haven't had unprotected sex only one time in my life, and that was when I was 17
05:24:42.860
You have two buttons that also spawn in front of you.
05:24:50.980
You will come across either the man or the bear.
05:25:20.280
It, of the bears that exist in the United States, it would randomly spawn based on the
05:25:27.340
proportion of those bears in the United States.
05:25:38.020
I thought you were talking about the whole world.
05:25:41.820
I mean, we could do the whole world, too, I guess, but.
05:25:47.360
Um, well, people seem to affect the environment more, so I'm choosing bear.
05:26:01.260
No, it's just like, the society's still out there, but you're in the forest.
05:26:15.020
I think I would still choose bear because they're not as intelligent as, like, people.
05:26:30.120
I don't want to go to a bear and be like, show me on the doll where she touched you.
05:26:36.480
What, you gonna spawn all the bear's balls or some shit?
05:26:42.180
No, I'm just, I'm thinking of things like, um, if I were to be, like, attacked by something,
05:27:08.680
From the bear that has a really good sense of smell and.
05:27:34.340
Being in, like, a forest and, like, I don't know.
05:27:45.100
Well, if it's only in America or in this United States, I think I will choose the man.
05:27:52.420
But if it's the whole world, then I will choose the bear.
05:28:03.200
Why do you not pick man if it's the whole world?
05:28:05.140
Because then I think my odds is better with the bear to survive.
05:28:29.920
Well, those countries I don't really know how a female can walk around in the forest.
05:28:34.760
But the countries I do know, as Europe and the United States, I would say it's safe for a female to be in the forest.
05:28:45.640
Well, I guess this would actually go to your point.
05:29:12.420
So obviously I'm the most reasonable person at a stable.
05:29:25.100
You spawn and then five minutes later you run into them.
05:29:30.420
How are you going to make a spear in like five minutes, bro?
05:29:32.040
I guess I didn't just let it kill me, honestly.
05:29:37.000
I didn't pick man because I think I'd rather have an experience with a bear than a man again.
05:29:46.080
Just like I'd rather be around a bear than a man.
05:29:58.260
A bear kind of needs like a reason to go after you and attack you.
05:30:16.980
Like if you chose man, I don't really care about.
05:30:25.320
I chose the man because I think it's like, first of all, I love men.
05:30:30.220
I don't view them as like specifically more dangerous than a bear.
05:30:35.360
And they're like, if you just give in, like if you don't resist, then they're like almost harmless.
05:30:41.040
And if you act, they're even less more harmless.
05:30:47.320
Like if it was really like, you know, that serious.
05:30:49.260
If you just give in, then they should not like physically harm you.
05:31:02.000
But if you just submit, if you submit in all ways, if you just submit, you should be no
05:31:09.260
A man should be no harm to you if you just submit.
05:31:20.340
Also, can we start getting the meme pulled up of the Kyle versus the bear thing?
05:31:24.620
So what do you think, what do you think would be the worst outcome?
05:31:34.400
If you walk up, if you were to walk up to a random man and you just pat him, patted him
05:31:39.260
on the head, or you walked up to a random bear and you patted the random bear on the head.
05:32:09.000
Which of those two scenarios do you think you're more likely to get a bad response from?
05:32:18.120
Well, the sweet side of me would hope that it's the bear.
05:32:23.380
But in reality, it's probably going to be like pretty mad.
05:32:26.920
So I'll probably have the best chances of survival just like giving a guy a pat.
05:32:32.040
And then I feel like you could even walk up to a random man and just like punch him as
05:32:45.320
And like most men probably wouldn't smack you back.
05:32:56.660
Like if you walked up to a man and you clocked him in the arm as hard as you can, I don't
05:33:09.280
But if you walked up to a bear and just fucking gave him a nice little fucking hit.
05:33:20.380
So pat a guy on the head or pat a bear on the head.
05:33:35.040
But I was thinking when you said if you walk up to a guy and punched him, I mean, it's
05:33:39.500
still countries in Europe there where it's allowed to punch or like hit your wife.
05:33:50.900
What if the guy was bald and just got like really mad and offended that you're patting his
05:33:56.280
Like they were just like you were just making fun of them for being bald, you know?
05:34:10.300
Maybe a bald guy would be more likely to jump to conclusions as to why you're doing that
05:34:16.220
and think you're like making fun of him for being bald.
05:34:18.680
Maybe the likelihood of him attacking you is slightly increased, but it's nowhere near
05:34:49.560
You know what's really funny is when I was younger, all of my friends used to call me POSSE,
05:34:53.700
but then they stopped because it kind of sounds like something else.
05:35:05.340
So this is kind of when girls pick bear, this is what I think about.
05:35:10.000
So brown bear up to nine feet tall, 1,300 pounds, claws four inches, bite force 1,200
05:35:16.160
Pelt fur up to five inches, speed up to 34 miles per hour, Kyle 5'10", ew, 174 pounds,
05:35:41.740
Drop us a follow and a prime sub if you have one.
05:35:46.620
Drop us a follow and a prime sub if you have one.
05:35:49.520
Guys, we are, oh boys, we're, we're 60 followers away, 60 followers away from 93,000.
05:36:07.500
Also, if you have, check if you have a prime sub available.
05:36:10.720
Those of you guys, if you have Amazon prime, but you don't have a Twitch account, it's not
05:36:15.940
Takes like two minutes and then every single month you guys can basically help support
05:36:20.860
Keep it going because we don't, you know, we don't really get sponsorships very frequently.
05:36:35.900
Panda, Panda Bear, we were just talking about you.
05:36:57.400
Bob Danalo, thank you for the prime or on your, you know, don't tattoo that area.
05:37:29.680
The Real Super Mario, thank you for the follow.
05:37:44.460
I'm really bad at pronouncing names, so if I'm butchering them, I'm so sorry.
05:38:07.960
The One Three TV, Mayo One, thank you for the follow.
05:38:15.820
Any final questions or thoughts that you guys want to talk about?
05:38:35.160
It was frustrating because I feel like it was pretty good.
05:39:08.680
Even, we told her before the show, don't fucking dox.
05:39:11.860
We were warning her as she was about to say it.
05:39:14.200
Like, don't say what you're about to fucking say.
05:39:20.880
You said words that were not allowed to say in here.
05:39:40.540
I mean, I kind of regret blowing up, blowing up like that.
05:39:43.540
But, like, when you willfully, like, are about to dox, like, I probably shouldn't have blown up.
05:39:51.320
And it kind of soured the mood for the whole show, or most of the rest of the show.
05:39:59.100
Oh, and then you, well, that was not a big deal.
05:40:02.580
So, like, anything on top of that, you're just gonna be like, what the hell?
05:40:27.940
I, and I know some of you might be like, whoa, that was overreaction.
05:40:51.160
Like, here's just to give you guys some understanding.
05:41:31.100
I was a little bit embarrassed and shocked, too.
05:41:49.700
And that's going back to always saying at the beginning.
05:41:51.880
Women are, like, not in their right mind and hijack the hormones.
05:42:00.100
And she never said she's done an interview before.
05:42:01.800
So, she's putting her emotions into the interview.
05:42:05.780
She was actually on one of, like, our first, like, first episode 9 or 10 or something.
05:42:15.500
Was it just to give you guys a panel understanding of kind of why I was so upset.
05:42:19.940
Again, I probably shouldn't have gotten as worked up as I did.
05:42:38.340
No, but it's, like, I have to take the security of myself.
05:42:46.440
If some shit, like, I just have to be cautious of it.
05:42:52.780
I wouldn't, you know, want something to happen while any of you were here.
05:42:59.080
So, if anybody, like, maliciously is going to try to put us in a position where we have, like, a security concern, like, yeah, I'm going to be frustrated by it.
05:43:10.600
Like, if she had said something that was, like, a bit more, which I think she was honestly about to say, but I think we got off of it before she did.
05:43:23.160
We would have had to stop the stream, take the video down.
05:43:25.420
And it's a waste of your time, and you value your time.
05:43:32.800
It's, like, there's a lot that goes into this production.
05:43:35.460
So, I take accountability for kind of freaking out on her and saying some insulting things and losing my cool.
05:43:42.160
But, I mean, if somebody pokes you, you're liable to lose your cool.
05:43:49.980
No, but, of course, if you are living under, like, threats like that, I understand that you freak out.
05:43:56.700
I hope you are okay and not living under a lot of stress like that.
05:44:13.680
I mean, look, some people in the chat are, like, doubting it.
05:44:16.760
Like, I've posted some of the screenshots in the hate mail section.
05:44:19.620
Like, actually, well, I haven't posted the worst ones.
05:44:28.520
Well, I mean, typically, they're anonymous if they're sending a death threat.
05:44:49.720
I mean, there's different types of kinks that I've tried.
05:44:57.280
Actually, I only recently learned what that is.
05:45:12.540
No, but I have woken up to someone sucking my toes before when I was taking a nap.
05:45:20.580
I was at my friend's house and I fell asleep on her couch and there was, like, this other
05:45:27.420
Originally, they had a thing, but then I woke up and it was him that was sucking my toes.
05:45:44.780
He was, like, dating, like, had a thing with, like, my friends.
05:46:17.820
Like, I'm not saying it, like, felt, like, bad or good.
05:46:22.040
I've had, like, fish massages at, like, in tanks before.
05:46:29.620
You put your feet in a tank of water and there's, like, little fish that eats your dead skin.
05:46:42.800
You woke up and this dude was sucking your toes?
05:46:46.260
Honestly, I never talked to my friend about it.
05:46:57.260
I'm pretty sure that's, like, some kind of essay or something.
05:47:07.080
Like, if somebody did that shit to me, I would have to...
05:47:20.700
We got to bring this fucking predator to justice.
05:47:44.320
Like, did you tell him to stop or, like, keep going?
05:47:51.060
Like, I thought it was, like, a bug or something.
05:47:58.360
Like, you know when you suck on a lollipop and you use, like, your...
05:48:01.140
Your lips to, like, really, like, grab a kiss or something?
05:48:19.160
Would you rather Black Lady to eat you and shate you and Brian or Brian shate on you on a cold day?
05:49:55.660
But he kind of, like, laid out this massive piece of paper.
05:50:15.040
Actually, the only thing I really care about when I think about stuff like that is when I've, like, hooked up with someone in a jacuzzi.
05:50:26.440
Because it's, like, Chloe, I'm going to get up by post-mail.
05:50:29.820
I think it's recommended against to fuck in a pool or a hot tub.
05:51:08.920
That's, like, the worst position if you're a dad.
05:51:14.340
No, what was horrible was I was in so much shock.
05:51:33.380
You know when, like, a dog poops and it kind of looks at you?
05:51:41.060
Like, looking at you, like, while it's taking a shit, like...
05:51:51.780
And I was younger, and, you know, this was my first boyfriend, so...
05:52:05.820
I was, like, entering freshman year of high school.
05:52:31.000
Okay, you were a freshman in high school when you lost your virginity.
05:52:34.300
Yeah, so I graduated high school in the year of, like, 21.
05:52:55.420
Wait, question for you, because you revealed your body count earlier.
05:52:58.360
You said it was, like, maybe between 50 and 70.
05:53:01.200
By the time you graduated from high school, what was your body count?
05:53:06.620
That, because after that, I started my long-term relationships,
05:53:31.120
I think when I was in high school, it was probably, like...
05:53:40.860
And then I started dating someone, and then that didn't go well, and I was just, like, really
05:53:50.880
I had my party phase, and then that's when I hooked up with, like, way more people.
05:54:06.340
So, in that gap year is when I had my party phase.
05:54:12.480
And so, the party phase you racked was how long?
05:54:24.040
And so, how much did you add to the body count during the one year?
05:54:44.120
So, do you know what your body count was by the time you turned 19?
05:55:08.240
I feel like I was kind of making up for not really having a social life in, like, throughout
05:55:14.320
my years of school, because, like, I used to compete in surfing.
05:55:23.280
And I was in middle college when I was in high school, so I could get out of taking as
05:55:28.520
many credits as I needed to when I got to college.
05:55:31.520
And so, every time my friends asked me to hang out, I was like, oh, sorry, I can't.
05:55:35.840
I have, like, training, blah, blah, blah, or I was always out of town.
05:55:41.520
And then I had my injury when I was in Oahu, surfing.
05:55:50.920
Like, I want to go through my college phase and, like, party, go out, meet people.
05:56:17.620
I, you know, I, I've been thinking this kind of throughout the night.
05:56:20.680
And I, maybe the chat's gonna say that I'm, like, almost simping.
05:56:25.500
But first, I want to just say that, uh, that I think, one, I actually appreciate how honest
05:56:33.560
Because I feel like there will definitely have girls who come on the show who have had
05:56:44.720
And that's, I mean, that's something I appreciate in you is how open you are.
05:56:48.240
Because a lot of people come on and they bullshit like this girl here.
05:56:52.320
And, or they just, like, don't reveal certain things.
05:56:56.200
And, but you're actually, like, kind of an open book.
05:57:06.280
Um, part of me, though, I mean, you actually, and this is where I might get accusations of simping.
05:57:11.300
Um, is that I, throughout this show, I've almost, you seem like a very, uh, genuine person.
05:57:22.760
And it's almost like hearing you talk about some of these things.
05:57:26.740
I, I've almost felt a bit of, I'm like, oh my god, I'm feeling like this.
05:57:34.140
Not like, and I'm not saying that in an insulting way.
05:57:47.140
Like, if, it seems like maybe you've had some, like, difficult, difficulties in your life.
05:58:07.920
Just because you don't seem, like, you seem, don't seem like a bad person or anything.
05:58:24.900
I mean, like you said, she is a very nice girl.
05:58:44.720
Also, I feel like a lot of people, like, first impression, if they were to meet you, maybe
05:58:56.180
This is what goes back to what I said about, you know, a woman should not tell too much
05:59:07.500
I think, I think women should be honest about their, uh.
05:59:23.700
I thought you said you hadn't done, like, BDSM, though.
05:59:35.740
Oh, I'm thinking of, like, bestiality or something.
05:59:40.380
So, yeah, the B in BDSM is definitely not bestiality.
05:59:44.200
This whole time, I thought that's what you meant.
06:00:29.000
Oh, I just meant, like, dressing up as costumes.
06:00:37.920
So, BDSM is, like, when someone is, like, beating you, or you're stepping on a man with
06:00:42.100
high heels, or, like, punch him in the face, or kick him in the nose.
06:01:10.400
Any other, anybody here have any crazy kinks or anything?
06:01:26.120
I don't think that's really a kink, though, is it?
06:01:29.020
It used to be, but I feel like it's become, it's entered, like, the mainstream.
06:01:38.960
Some, like, 18-year-old college girl's, like, choked me, daddy.
06:02:22.080
Oh, what age did everybody lose their virginity?
06:02:41.200
Maybe when I was at that age, it was probably...
06:02:44.680
I mean, maybe people are fucking way younger now, but like, I'm 35.
06:03:07.960
Here, how about U.S. average age of losing virginity?
06:03:13.900
The average age Americans lose their virginity is 17.1 years.
06:03:36.200
That's from the CDC in 2024, so that's pretty recent.
06:03:40.140
I wonder if I can do it, like, let's say, like...
06:03:54.900
Before we do the roast section, and we're going to wrap up the show soon.
06:04:01.480
We'll do a roast session, then we're going to wrap up the show.
06:04:06.040
Yeah, you're definitely going to get roast set.
06:04:08.540
All right, TTS is now set to $20, guys, if you want to get your TTS in.
06:04:29.080
Any final thoughts from you guys before we wrap the show?
06:04:46.500
The one thing I can say is, like, most people take it way too personally.
06:04:50.140
What I want to say about this, like, I don't know what happened with her, but I know the
06:04:53.660
girl I was next to definitely took it way too personally.
06:05:02.620
You have not seen me get angry yet, as she said.
06:05:10.640
That part of her brain was the fight or flight.
06:05:13.380
And some people forget that, you know, this is a podcast and it's supposed to be entertaining.
06:05:17.820
So, it's sometimes not going to be what you want to hear, but, you know, what needs
06:05:24.040
I mean, also, it's, like, a question we ask every single show, and she got really upset.
06:05:30.160
So, if you guys want to do podcasts again, don't think what everybody has to say is, like,
06:06:05.540
Temu Simple Jack couldn't even stay for the whole show.
06:06:11.480
I didn't know Miss Cleo had fallen on such hard times to result to prostitution.
06:06:19.260
I don't know if they would, they would know who that is.
06:06:39.040
I think she has it confused with being spit-roasted.
06:06:47.580
I think all of you guys here were very good sports.
06:06:56.420
And I feel like a nine wouldn't really, if she actually was a nine, wouldn't care what
06:07:07.580
Oh, I mean, I essentially, like, because I think the placements changed.
06:07:23.380
Then the girl here said nine, and then you said ten.
06:07:28.280
And then when I was like, well, I don't, you guys aren't, sorry.
06:07:30.760
You told me to take off my makeup, and that triggered her.
06:07:34.020
And you passed her a wipe, and I took her wipe, and continued to wipe off my face.
06:07:41.100
She got angry about it when you called her a B-word, and then that's when she got up.
06:07:46.440
So she was getting mad before the whole doxing situation.
06:07:49.680
But we were talking about the rating thing, and I was like, I don't, I'd have to play
06:07:57.520
You said that, you said that she wasn't a nine, and then she wanted to know why.
06:08:01.160
Why it was interesting, because, um, something like that.
06:08:04.860
No, I don't even, I was like, I think here's what happened.
06:08:07.620
If I recall, I could be wrong, because nine, ten, ten, and then I was like, oh, that's interesting.
06:08:18.220
No, it was definitely, like, you were saying a lot of things that were triggering to a
06:08:22.920
woman that has no idea about, you know, social media and what goes on on podcasts.
06:08:27.160
It seemed like she kind of stepped in here, like, unknowingly what was going to happen.
06:08:30.900
I'm pretty sure she's in, she, she's an actress.
06:08:41.580
I, she just wanted to know when I said, oh, I took off my makeup, and she, and she was
06:08:48.780
And that, all of that was very triggering to her, because maybe she likes her makeup.
06:08:51.540
Well, she was triggered before that, even the makeup thing.
06:08:53.340
She said the little, I'm, not the little, I don't mean to belittle her, but she said
06:08:56.660
that, I'm the Latina, you haven't seen me get angry yet.
06:09:00.040
Well, I think it was the implication, even though I didn't, it was the implication that
06:09:06.480
I was not going to agree that she was nine, and she was offended by that.
06:09:11.280
I think she was offended by that, but I don't think that's what made her got up.
06:09:14.140
And the disrespect to a woman, stand behind a woman.
06:09:16.420
But yeah, so then we went to the intro screen, and then I started losing my mind a little
06:09:22.260
bit, and then she probably was like, okay, I'm not going to be here on the podcast.
06:09:33.660
Brian, you're only simping for her because she reminds you of Kristen Krook.
06:09:39.640
The Rage Quit and her peer are sure to be in the market for cats.
06:09:43.780
Ginger had the personality of a dead fish at best.
06:09:47.940
It would have been, if she got really offended by a couple things, the red-haired woman, because
06:09:55.160
I was, like, pushing back on her quite a bit, but she was just ridiculous.
06:10:00.940
This dude looks more like Flavor Flav than Candace Owens.
06:10:06.080
Following the book of Doodoo Roname, go forth and shat some more.
06:10:15.080
Andrew would like, he's one of the frequent guys who comes on the show.
06:10:28.440
Brian, could you please upload the footage of you blowing up on the girl to the Discord?
06:10:40.320
It's going to be in the behind-the-scenes section.
06:11:24.200
I'm pretty sure some stereotypical black person.
06:11:45.140
Is this going to be like that scene in Goodfellas where...
06:11:54.080
One of the most famous mafia movies of all time.
06:12:58.320
We are going to do a Twitch raid here in just a sec, guys.
06:13:04.500
And then I need to see what other notes I have to have.
06:13:32.140
And it was only like, it was to go out on a date and get money for just going on a date
06:13:41.420
The women who stayed, you're all good sports and seem like good people.
06:13:46.320
Also, Chair One, you ever been to Bricks or Orchard Tower in Singapore?
06:14:17.120
GG to the ladies who made it through the night.
06:14:32.780
Like, once a girl, like, even if she wasn't going to do anything, we just had to kick her
06:14:40.480
because, like, we just can't allow for a, even the liability of there being a potential
06:15:06.360
You were on Seeking while you were in a relationship?
06:15:27.220
How are any of you still alive after Caribbean's number one prostitute sucked every inch of oxygen
06:15:33.480
I'm going to pretend like you didn't just make my dick go soft.
06:15:44.360
So, your boyfriend let you go on Seeking and let you have a sugar daddy.
06:15:48.280
How long were you involved with the sugar daddy?
06:16:13.440
He thinks he's the best jump rooper better than me.
06:16:17.380
Um, so, your boyfriend let you go on Seeking, let you get a sugar daddy.
06:16:26.300
How many, how much money did he send you total?
06:16:37.360
Was your boyfriend like sitting like three tables away?
06:16:49.400
And you, so you just spent like an hour with him?
06:17:07.680
I just feel like they like, yeah, it just made me feel bad.
06:17:12.900
Okay, well, I guess it's good that you only did it once.
06:17:21.140
Um, so actually it was on 4th of July and yeah, this year.
06:17:27.080
Um, and I got really upset at my friends for firing up these fireworks behind, um, some
06:17:38.720
This was like me walking alone at like 3 in the morning, Deep Montecito, and I hear a sound.
06:17:52.740
Whenever you shake a flower is born and babies are smiling.
06:17:56.660
Your facts are births of perfumes in assorted flavors and your skin is a canvas for angels' signatures.
06:18:11.780
Um, yeah, and I hear the sound of a motorcycle and I freeze.
06:18:18.580
Um, and he drives down, he's like on a mini motorcycle and, um, he stops, so I stop and
06:18:27.820
he asked me if I was okay and I was kind of telling him what was going on.
06:18:32.760
I was supposed to go back to my other friend's house in a different part of Montecito, but
06:18:38.820
So he offered to drive me back up to my other friend's house where they lit up those fireworks
06:18:48.760
And he told me later, um, earlier when he was driving back home in his Uber with a friend,
06:18:54.420
his friend goes like, hey, there's a super attractive girl that just like walked by our
06:19:03.320
So he drove down his motorcycle, gave me a ride.
06:19:09.420
Um, cause the weights of two people and like a mini motorcycle, that's like maybe the height
06:19:16.560
And after that, um, I gave him my phone number and he was just checking up on me.
06:19:23.960
Um, I went out to a yacht club with him and I guess I was considered a date.
06:19:31.880
I didn't know that, but he was showing me around like, um, his boats and all of that.
06:19:38.820
He owns, um, several, uh, hangers for his airplanes and such and, um, has offered to fly
06:19:50.100
And yeah, every time we hang out, we just go to like, um, a nice dinner and stuff.
06:19:54.460
Recently got divorced this year, has like three kids.
06:20:00.560
He just, like recently, but he was trying to sugar you.
06:20:07.320
Wait, he's married and he was trying to have you be a sugar baby.
06:20:13.460
Going through like the official divorce, like that same month I met him.
06:20:22.260
Hispanic underscore seven hundred and eighteen donated twenty dollars from NYC here.
06:20:28.600
Caribbean girl is flaming hot except when she opens her mouth.
06:20:32.840
Tone down the assertiveness and you'll be all right.
06:20:41.940
Thank you for the twenty dollars, but that's, don't be a simp.
06:20:57.540
Um, well, the first time we hung out, it was maybe five hundred dollars and the other
06:21:11.440
Like it was more like he would just pay for everything like shopping or going out to dinner.
06:21:25.100
See, it was interesting because I don't normally shop like that.
06:21:30.380
But, um, yeah, I just, I'm a pretty low maintenance person.
06:21:35.480
You know, like I'm someone who, you don't need to buy a whole bouquet of flowers.
06:21:39.620
Like if we're on a road trip, you can kind of just stop on the side and pick me some flowers.
06:21:51.900
Especially not while you're living like a human sex doll.
06:21:56.300
Brian, whisper sweet nothings to Kiki tonight before you go to bed.
06:22:07.900
Um, so, okay, he spent thousands of dollars on shopping.
06:22:12.800
He, uh, he paid you five hundred dollars for the first date?
06:22:22.720
And he paid you five hundred each time or more?
06:22:27.140
Um, and the other times are shopping and, like, dinners or lunch.
06:22:53.500
I was kind of just, um, weirded out after he asked me to go on a, like, a trip with him
06:22:59.800
because I'd only hung out with him, like, three times.
06:23:03.240
And I feel like he's honestly someone who makes so much money.
06:23:06.680
Like, if he were to, um, like, murder me, he would probably get away with it.
06:23:27.300
The furthest we've done is just, like, kissed each other.
06:23:32.360
Um, I need to get up just momentarily, and then we're going to wrap up the show.
06:23:36.360
Um, hey, St. Lucia, can you come back and, uh, talk to the girls while I...
06:23:44.140
And talk to the girls while I take a quick one-minute break really quick.
06:23:48.080
Um, you brought up earlier on the show when you were kind of telling us your story about
06:23:53.620
You were saying something along the lines of, uh, ignoring red flags.
06:23:58.620
So, here's a prompt for you guys while I step away for just a minute.
06:24:04.060
Are you guys willing to ignore red flags if the guy meets some sort of criteria?
06:24:23.220
Well, red flags goes in, like, multiple directions.
06:24:26.240
But I think really what it is was I was so excited to be in a relationship with someone
06:24:32.780
and, um, have things go, like, a certain way because all of the relationships I've been
06:24:40.020
in has always been some sort of, like, abuse to me mentally or even physically.
06:24:45.580
Um, and so it's kind of just, like, paranoia, like, issues in my head and I'm kind of just,
06:24:51.140
like, easing things away even if, um, they're attractive or not.
06:24:59.520
I think there's some red flags that are just you can't look past.
06:25:06.200
But I think there are some that you, I guess, you can get over.
06:25:10.440
I think one of, like, the craziest flags I've ignored, actually, from, like, um, my second
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boyfriend was, or ex-boyfriend, um, was when he was talking to me about going camping with
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this girl and they were, like, um, talking about going together but sharing a jointed
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So it's, like, a sleeping bag that holds, like, two people and that's, like, that's weird,
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Yeah, like, sleeping in a bed under one blanket?
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My boyfriend's time sleeping with a close friend who's a girl with him.
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Yeah, I don't understand why that's, like, an issue, you know?
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And here he goes, making me feel crazy for thinking that.
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That was just, like, a little example, but, yeah.
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Say you'll never, ever leave from beside me, because I want you, and I need you, and I'm
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No, just, like, started from the, okay, never mind, bad joke.
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But before we do, can you pull up Twitch, please?
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Guys, if you want, you can get your last minute, last call on the TTS, but we're going to wrap
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We're, um, okay, uh, guys, we're 13 follows, what the fuck, I don't know what the hell's
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All right, guys, we are 13, guys, 13, uh, 12 followers away from 93,000 followers, scuffed
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to Mike, thank you for the, guys, get us to 93, 12, just 12 followers, guys, get us
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to 93,000 before the wrap, end of the show, which is now, Jack Drew, thank you for the
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Also, can you guys check if you have a Prime sub available?
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So if you have Amazon Prime, you can link it to your Twitch, quick free, easy way to
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And then drop us a follow before the end of the show.
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Started from a middle class Canadian upbringing.
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I'm going to shout out every single one of you until we get to, uh, 93,000.
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Durin Dolls, thank you for the 10 gifted subs, man.
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Obnoxious Blightbringer, thank you for the, uh, for the Prime Assmaker.
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If God wants you to do OF content, what does the devil want?
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You believe in God, but you don't believe in the devil.
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Everything that we're experiencing is God's plan.
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So if he didn't want me to experience it, I wouldn't be experiencing it.
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Okay, all right, well, um, all right, I'll leave that one to Andrew next time.
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For 93,000 followers, Voda, thank you for the prime.
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Guys, I'm gonna be posting the, like, so earlier in the show we had to go to, uh, we had to go to intro screen because some shit was going down.
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So, guys, you go to discord.gg slash whatever mods.
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Let me see if I can help out with this really quick.
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Can you put it to the wall of haters really quick?
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Guys, oh, play the, play this, uh, the Bevo video really quick.
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Anyways, we just, we post a bunch of cool stuff in the Discord.
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This cowgirl had me pooping all over the place.
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Now there's this spider that looks like Richard Dawkins screaming at a group of macaques.
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Okay, so for the Twitch raid, we are gonna do, hmm.
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Or really quick before we do the raid, I'll just do my outro.
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Okay, um, I'd like to end the show by seeing if we can't use this moment as an opportunity
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Last, congrats for making it to the end of the show, guys.
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Uh, last call, hit the like button, please, on your way out.
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You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.
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Thank you to everyone who super chats, donates, and supports the show.
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Big thank you to the panel who did make it to the end here.
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Any girls who want to be on the show, DM out, whatever.
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On Instagram, if you can make it to Santa Barbara, uh, 07s.
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In the chat, guys, we'll do the Twitch raid, and we're going to do Woe Grandma.
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I'm going to send the Twitch raid here in just 10 seconds.
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All right, I'm going to send the raid here in just a sec.
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She is playing Retail World of Warcraft Classic.
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Uh, I, again, I'll be posting all that BTS stuff on the Discord tonight or tomorrow.