Whatever Podcast - 4 Women WALK OFF The Podcast？! Brian vs. Woke Feminist HEATED DEBATE？! ｜ Dating Talk 307

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00:01:30.000 welcome to the whatever dating talk podcast i'm your host brian atlas uh for those of us who are

00:01:51.880 just for those of you who are just tuning in we unfortunately had to uh restart the stream

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00:02:11.700 fixed it really quick so sorry for the for the delay though guys I do apologize um you guys have

00:02:18.340 heard the intro a thousand times uh TTS is going to be 100 instant TTS where did I put my pen

00:02:26.620 Is my pen over there, Tiffany?

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00:02:39.320 We're not doing the read threshold, $10 display, and I'm sick.

00:02:45.880 I have a sinus infection, so Brian sounds like he's dying.

00:02:51.760 Yes, I am. 0.98

00:02:52.660 You know, in show business, the show must go on, though, so it's not the first time I've been feeling like shit and done the show. 0.58

00:03:00.440 So, anyways, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves, starting with you. Go ahead. 0.74

00:03:05.900 Hello, I'm Violet. I'm 22. I'm from California. I have a bachelor's in psychology, and I work with youth.

00:03:16.080 What happened? Oh, you have a bachelor's in where?

00:03:20.880 Psychology.

00:03:21.320 From where? San Francisco State University. SFSU? Yeah. Okay. When did you graduate? I just

00:03:30.820 graduated last spring, so. So? In May. Okay, so it's pretty fresh. What was a class you took in

00:03:41.600 your final semester quarter I don't remember you don't remember no it was online yeah well you took

00:03:55.800 you got your bachelor's in psychology yes so I assume you took some psychology classes

00:04:01.820 yeah I did take a lot of psychology classes I just can't did you take a psychology class

00:04:06.980 recently um yeah yeah what was the name of the class i i can't remember two two months ago two

00:04:15.760 months ago um well how about this then uh i won't dig into a specific class but you do have a

00:04:23.660 bachelor's degree in psychology which means you have or should have a stronger understanding of

00:04:29.840 psychology than, say, a normal person just off the street. Could you convey to me maybe one or

00:04:37.660 two things, like one takeaway that you learned about or from your studies that maybe we might

00:04:46.140 not know? I'll say the whole field of psychology is definitely, in my opinion, oversimplified. I

00:04:52.720 think it is a social science, but it kind of tries to pretend to be a real science. And I found a lot

00:04:58.540 of kind of confusion when uh i felt like it was trying to put people into neat categories or tick

00:05:05.660 off boxes about them when i feel like it's not really a holistic view of the human soul so

00:05:10.360 that's what my biggest takeaway from studying psychology would be psychology is not

00:05:16.140 a what it's a social science no no i i heard that part but at the end there you said it's

00:05:22.440 I feel like it's not a holistic perspective about a human being, like our minds.

00:05:27.940 I don't think it could actually be explained in a scientific way a lot of the time.

00:05:34.320 Okay.

00:05:36.020 But that would be, I guess, your own takeaway.

00:05:40.500 Yeah.

00:05:40.920 But I assume they didn't teach you that.

00:05:43.000 No, but that's honestly my biggest takeaway, going to school, studying it.

00:05:46.680 So it was a scam.

00:05:47.440 i'm not going to use that word but i think we all have different interpretations of

00:05:53.460 what we learn in school right but uh you um

00:06:00.760 can you like that's that's kind of your your takeaway but is is there something you were

00:06:08.680 actually taught that's what i'm looking for um i think i was taught that the human brain

00:06:15.140 has a lot of diversity in people's experiences as a human.

00:06:20.760 There's a lot of different things we go through

00:06:23.140 and that we're always trying to find ways

00:06:26.680 to be healthy and happy by using therapy or medications.

00:06:35.760 Okay.

00:06:41.180 But like, what about,

00:06:42.840 I'm looking for a psychological principle.

00:06:45.140 like something that you were taught from an academic lens that you could relate to us

00:06:52.640 i don't know if i'm just blanking or i feel like my education was honestly not

00:06:58.660 maybe it wasn't valuable enough to me that i could regurgitate something like that that i feel was

00:07:05.660 so important honestly uh did you have student loans or did you uh no my uh parents paid for it

00:07:13.800 How much, how much was it? I'm not sure. Well, state schools typically aren't too expensive.

00:07:21.940 You were in-state or out-of-state? In-state. Okay, so I don't know how much that would be, but

00:07:28.140 okay, and you said you're from where again? California. What do you do for work? I work

00:07:39.040 with youth with me is it with youth oh okay all right uh and you're a musical artist is that

00:07:49.060 correct um i'm trying to get into it i uh was a band kid and i i've always liked music i've been

00:07:55.080 trying to like sing and uh make songs but i'm barely starting out with that hobby i guess

00:08:00.820 do you play any instruments i play the flute mainly i flute yeah i was a band kid i i'm trying

00:08:07.160 to learn guitar but i'm not that good are you a soprano singing wise i've never uh tested my

00:08:14.840 voice but probably not because i don't sing very high okay what about you hi i'm litten i'm 27

00:08:23.420 years old i'm from the bay area um right now i am i've had some college i'm currently not in school

00:08:32.720 and I am an OnlyFans model. How long you been doing OF? I've been doing it for about two months

00:08:39.320 now. Two months, okay. And you were in school? I was. Did you get a degree or? No, I was working

00:08:47.560 on my associates in business administration. Okay. And you have, you wrote in your notes,

00:09:00.600 you have disabilities yeah i do um i have a lot of um let's see health needs and uh it prevents me

00:09:09.160 from working normal jobs and i need a lot of accommodations so it's been really hard to find

00:09:14.200 work for me and therefore i've kind of resulted to doing this got it okay what about you what's

00:09:21.160 What's up, guys? My name is Lada. Sorry. My name is Lada. I am from Russia, originally. I'm in L.A.

00:09:31.400 I went to college. I kind of dropped out right now.

00:09:34.920 Age?

00:09:36.460 Age 19.

00:09:39.140 Okay. What part of Russia?

00:09:42.960 St. Petersburg, next to the Gulf of Finland.

00:09:47.740 Got it. What about you?

00:09:49.340 hi my name is Courtney um I'm 35 I was getting my associates in psychology I took a I had an

00:10:00.800 accident in her myself I took a 10-year-long break and then I started zoology and animal

00:10:04.580 rehabilitation well wildlife rehabilitation and zoology okay all right

00:10:12.640 hi i'm chris i live in burbank and i'm 40 years old um i've kind of been all over the place when

00:10:22.940 it comes to work clerical things but i have been a host or a reporter independent reporter um for

00:10:30.620 about eight years now and um where are you from burbank originally like you born and raised no

00:10:38.440 No, I'm Armenian. I was born in Yerevan, Armenia.

00:10:43.120 Gotcha. Okay. There's a robust Armenian community in Los Angeles, right?

00:10:49.060 Huge, yes. Bigger than our country, actually.

00:10:51.520 Oh, wow.

00:10:53.200 Sadly.

00:10:56.140 Okay. And college or anything like that?

00:10:59.960 I had a bachelor's degree after on and off 10 years.

00:11:04.420 I had kids and then I went to beauty school for a while.

00:11:06.860 And then finally, I'm like, you know what, let me finish this.

00:11:08.940 So I went to University of Phoenix.

00:11:11.080 Okay.

00:11:11.600 Yeah.

00:11:11.980 Got it.

00:11:12.240 What about you?

00:11:13.860 Hi, everyone.

00:11:14.740 I'm Lala.

00:11:15.580 I'm 20.

00:11:16.660 I'm from California, born and raised.

00:11:19.580 And I do OnlyFans, and I'm a cam girl.

00:11:24.080 And no, I never went to college.

00:11:25.620 No college?

00:11:25.960 Okay.

00:11:26.120 No.

00:11:26.420 What about you?

00:11:27.340 I'm Ani.

00:11:28.340 I'm 33.

00:11:29.380 I'm going to university right now, studying psychology.

00:11:32.140 I've done lots of different variant careers.

00:11:36.600 Okay.

00:11:36.860 my life, but now I'm pursuing my dream. You're currently in university, is that correct? Yes, sir.

00:11:43.300 You have a bachelor's degree already? I'm about to conclude in the next few weeks.

00:11:48.840 And are you going to get a graduate degree? I'd like a PsyD, PsyDoctorate.

00:11:55.020 Is that a master's or what is that? I think it's similar to a master's, but it's more

00:11:59.640 doctorate. And you got your, you're about to get your bachelor's degree in psychology,

00:12:06.140 is that correct yes okay so you recently just took some classes yes okay uh well same question

00:12:12.200 asked her uh could you relate to us one or two takeaways or you know things you learned

00:12:19.920 from psychology certainly um stress is a very big killer a lot of chronic conditions chronic pain

00:12:29.740 even diabetes can be exacerbated by stress and i know we hear that all the time but it's the way

00:12:36.440 that we deal with things that matters and so uh you asked her what she took last what class she

00:12:42.160 took i took a sensory neuroscience class very interesting how the senses work vision sight

00:12:47.880 sight hearing a taste uh working together you know to provide our perspectives okay next

00:12:57.220 um my name is v i am from colorado i am 35 years old i went to an occupational college just to get

00:13:07.080 my esthetician certification and i do we do farming we own a tattoo studio and a esthetician

00:13:17.260 studio and i believe that's all all right next hi i'm destiny i'm 26 years old um i was pretty

00:13:28.600 much born and raised in the high desert um i don't have any school but i've been working

00:13:33.600 as a behavioral therapist for the past eight years with kids with disabilities

00:13:37.480 okay sorry i missed this age 26 26 all right that's everybody uh so we're gonna get into

00:13:48.460 the relationship stuff we're gonna get into uh some other topics but first got a little drama

00:13:55.260 we got to cover so uh tiffany i'm gonna have you pull those up in just a second um actually

00:14:01.720 we're going to talk about the candace owens andrew wilson debate drama really really quick

00:14:09.000 briefly and then we'll get into the the uh typical show um i did have one question uh

00:14:17.360 uh let's hold on

00:14:20.760 hold on uh so we have a russian

00:14:27.920 and you were both born in armenia is that correct yes was anyone else born in a different

00:14:35.400 country or what's that i'm boring so i've uh for the armenians and for the russian here i have uh

00:14:45.940 got a quick question uh uh first off you were born in russia yeah yeah how long have you been

00:14:53.700 in the usa uh now that i'm called uh three years and do you have citizenship or no yeah you do

00:15:01.900 okay all right and then uh for you two uh you guys were both born in our media when did you

00:15:09.040 moved to the united states in 1991 1981 so when you're a kid it was four yeah four i was young

00:15:18.420 as well but i went back several years on and off school there gotcha okay uh so here's the question

00:15:25.620 but uh you you guys are also american citizens is that correct okay in a morally neutral blame

00:15:32.540 free hypothetical conflict between the united states and your birth country so in your guys's

00:15:38.140 case Armenia and your case Russia where neither side is right or wrong to which country is your

00:15:44.360 allegiance uh why don't we start why don't we start with you sure um given that my country

00:15:52.700 is extremely small and constantly at the brink of war and has been for centuries and um America's

00:16:01.700 supposed to be the greatest nation and super powerful and almighty and all that um

00:16:06.660 factoring that in and also just me being born there i would have my allegiance with my own

00:16:13.700 country okay what about you uh unfortunately uh as much as i've used america uh as a crutch

00:16:22.440 leaving my country for better things uh at the same time this country that i'm in harms my country

00:16:29.660 um so unfortunately i would have to pick my homeland i came here for a better life

00:16:39.060 but i wouldn't need to if there wasn't war and uh one quick question and i'm not familiar with

00:16:50.480 the varying conflicts that uh armenia finds itself involved in you said that the united

00:16:57.020 States is, um, I forgot your exact wording. Harms. The United States harms Armenia. Um,

00:17:06.780 what I'm not familiar if there, if there is a conflict between the U S and Armenia can, how,

00:17:11.860 how so it's indirect. Um, they fund the nations that destroy us. Uh, they give them weapons.

00:17:18.280 so turkey turkey azerbaijan okay uh so the u.s does not have a good relationship with armenia

00:17:29.360 they say that we're diplomatic and we're good but they still provide the weapons and those weapons

00:17:34.620 annihilate our people and when they find them they find the seal of usa or sometimes another country

00:17:41.580 recently our company softball team lost the big game by one run then dale tried to console us

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00:18:11.420 Right, okay.

00:18:13.740 And then to you, you're born in Russia,

00:18:16.340 uh russia or the united states where's your allegiance um at this point strangely i would

00:18:24.680 probably say definitely the united states got a patriot got a patriot here um

00:18:32.980 so going back to both of you so you're uh you're 40 you're 33 yes uh so tell me of the 40 years

00:18:43.640 of the 33 years can you tell me how much total time so i know you go back and forth how much

00:18:50.800 total time have you spent in the usa and you can just say you know years or whatever uh and armenia

00:18:59.180 i've been here 36 years and i've only been in been to armenia three times for a couple of weeks each

00:19:06.080 okay what about you 23 years here 10 years on and off there okay all right uh huh

00:19:13.700 interesting interesting allegiance to armenia huh now uh

00:19:23.300 i'm wondering how you guys because you weren't born here so i you naturalized

00:19:31.880 as citizens we had green cards when we came oh green cards was there us i'm not familiar

00:19:39.460 from the 1980s did the united states grant asylum to armenians well we weren't refugees but we

00:19:47.380 we had acquired my family and i had acquired a green card we came here and our living situation

00:19:54.520 in armenia was horrendous at the time because of the soviet union crashing in 1989 and so we

00:20:01.860 came here and we just lived and worked until we had our citizenship it took about 10 years

00:20:07.560 now the citizenship process did you you had to like take a test right and apply for it yes yes

00:20:16.380 they give they tell you when it's time sometimes you wait many many years and then you go and

00:20:23.060 swear in and take a test and then there you go now um can you tell me uh i guess what age did

00:20:32.220 you guys go through the naturalization process what how old were you when you got your citizenship

00:20:38.000 private chat tiffany go ahead oh uh how old was i i was 15 15 okay i was probably five or six oh

00:20:48.060 five or six when you got the green card or when you became a citizen well to be honest i don't

00:20:54.280 know i'm just shooting the number because i've i feel like i've been a citizen since i've ever

00:20:57.700 known so um but it was before i we went to back to armenia when i was 10 and are your parents now

00:21:04.600 citizens of the usa yes okay uh well here's my confusion um when people immigrate here

00:21:14.480 and they naturalize you swear an oath of allegiance to the united states go ahead pull it up tiffany

00:21:20.880 zoom it in now i'm gonna who's a good reader uh i can read i'll have you read it you see where it

00:21:29.120 says starting after oath yeah i hereby declare on oath that i absolutely and entirely renounce and

00:21:37.480 abjure all allegiance and fidelity to any foreign prince, potentate, state, or sovereignty

00:21:44.760 of whom or which I have heretofore been a subject or citizen, that I will support and

00:21:51.540 defend the constitution and laws of the United States of America against all enemies, foreign

00:21:55.680 and domestic, that I will bear true faith and allegiance to the same, that I will bear

00:22:00.980 arms on behalf of the United States when required by the law, that I will perform non-combatant

00:22:06.360 service in the armed forces of the united states when required by law that i will perform work of

00:22:11.320 national importance under civilian direction when required by the law and that i take this

00:22:16.260 obligation freely without any mental reservation or purpose of evasion so help me god

00:22:21.160 do you recall taking that oath i probably did i don't recall all of that but that sounds about

00:22:28.940 right yeah so the part about renouncing I can have a dual citizenship what's that I can have

00:22:37.140 a dual citizenship if I want to well that's correct but when I asked you if there's a

00:22:41.600 conflict between the United States and Armenia both of you say you would side with Armenia

00:22:48.240 yes because people don't understand that your tax paying dollars are funding wars that are

00:22:54.260 literally wiping out our country like zero leveling out our country right our indigenous land

00:23:01.300 so the original question was in a blame-free hypothetical conflict between the united states

00:23:06.980 and armenia but i just find it interesting that we grant people and you guys spent the majority

00:23:13.900 while born in armenia you've spent the majority of your life here and you've received the fruits

00:23:23.340 and prosperity of the united states here and but you have no allegiance to the united states

00:23:34.180 you would quicker huh who says yeah we didn't you just said no no we're not xing out america

00:23:41.020 well hold on so i understand if like the united states went to war with 0.64

00:23:44.740 the philippines or some shit you guys would probably back the united states but the oath 0.69

00:23:52.480 of allegiance in order to become a united states citizen you you can still have dual citizenship 0.95

00:23:58.680 you can still have affinity and liking for your home country i still love this country you can

00:24:05.580 love it and disagree with what the government is doing or the military industrial complex has on

00:24:09.920 its plate right but it's like it's literally treason to be like i would support another country

00:24:16.740 most people in america jack 386 donated 103 dollars brian why in the rainbows am i forced

00:24:26.080 to watch on the last two weeks what the rainbows tiffany shout out to rumble chat

00:24:32.080 uh we've been having some internet issues so uh unfortunately yeah just youtube because i don't

00:24:42.080 know uploading to multiple platforms maybe was causing issues so um well it's it's different if

00:24:49.480 you guys were born here and you're citizens upon birth but when you naturalize you have to take the

00:24:56.820 oath of allegiance so i don't know i just find it interesting that i have tried my best to be a very

00:25:04.520 good citizen i don't have a felony i don't have a misdemeanor all i have is maybe a parking ticket

00:25:09.680 or a speeding ticket. I'm a good citizen. I have worked and paid taxes. I've raised children. I've

00:25:16.660 been in the education system. I've gotten my degree. I have done nothing to hurt this country

00:25:22.880 or to cause any problems in my neighborhood. Or take and not give back. Yes, exactly. I'm very

00:25:28.460 thankful for the opportunities that I have here that I wouldn't have otherwise had in my country.

00:25:32.380 that's not really the argument at hand though the argument at hand is i understand look the

00:25:41.000 oath of allegiance does not mean you can't uh have affinity for your prior homeland you can't

00:25:48.800 you can still support your prior prior homeland you can still engage in the culture but if you

00:25:55.780 take the oath of allegiance which it's an oath i think you swear to god you swear on the bible

00:26:02.640 you swear on the constitution whatever it is and you say i renounce as in furtherance of the united

00:26:11.720 states allowing you citizenship i just find it interesting that people don't hold to their oaths

00:26:19.220 i guess you could say well you're asking us how we feel versus how we conduct our lives

00:26:23.200 so we have conduct our yeah because how we feel person maybe i can feel some type of way

00:26:28.220 but i'll still do the right thing i'll still be good by what i'm doing well i still feel

00:26:33.320 that's what and if i'm called into war i i i'm i have an allegiance to this country i will

00:26:40.320 enlist and go to war if we went to war against armenia oh i'd leave there i'd leave there i

00:26:49.160 wouldn't be over here doing something i would leave this country and go back to mine i'll die

00:26:52.760 in my own country so we basically have treasonous uh traitors for sure for sure that's half of

00:27:00.820 america that's our entire government here's from mexico house everybody they've committed treason 0.91

00:27:06.400 well yeah we should deport those illegal immigrants but oh no it's not i'm not talking

00:27:11.360 about the illegal immigrants i'm talking about people who uh come from a culture that they

00:27:15.160 still love very much and you know that doesn't mean that they're going to sell out where they

00:27:19.060 came from. That just means that they hold it down. Look, there's a specific, there's a specific

00:27:25.140 calling for naturalized citizens. So you come here, look, if you're just born here, you don't

00:27:32.620 have to say that. I think you should still abide by that, even if you're just, you know, birthright

00:27:38.140 citizen. But if you've naturalized, you've taken an additional step, which is, I am renouncing

00:27:45.340 my allegiance to this other country again that doesn't mean that that doesn't mean that you have

00:27:53.540 to like completely be like oh the i'm done with the culture done with the language done with the

00:27:58.480 people if you have family over there it's not that it's just in a very specific scenario where

00:28:04.140 the united states were to go to war with armenia it does demand that you your allegiance is with

00:28:12.160 the united states i had a question so if this country's taxes are as you said funding like

00:28:21.100 harm for your country how did you choose this country to move like did you think about other

00:28:27.240 countries to move to or like it was the u.s no we came here specifically because number one we had

00:28:33.820 family at the time that we came which was 36 years ago we didn't really have a huge scope on

00:28:40.620 what was happening with the corruption in our government, the allegiance to other countries,

00:28:45.240 the selling of weapons. I didn't know that as a five or six-year-old. Neither did my parents,

00:28:49.540 who didn't even speak English at the time. But throughout time, you learn what your government

00:28:54.440 has done, who they funded, who's in their pocket. It's very corrupt. And if they're funding a

00:29:01.180 country that's literally dropping bombs on children, how can I support that?

00:29:08.180 yeah i was just wondering why didn't you choose a country like like a neutral country like japan

00:29:13.500 or anything to move to or my parents made the choice because we had a little bit of family

00:29:19.860 here to to rely on to to build a community that's why a lot of armenians came that i'm sure that's

00:29:26.800 why a lot of why didn't you pick to move to japan yeah i'm pretty sure america hates russia

00:29:32.320 anime that's it pretty sure can't even find russian shows on netflix

00:29:36.000 um no why'd you choose to come here i

00:29:40.320 okay that's yeah that's what i that's jacob joseph donated one hundred dollars

00:29:47.620 chair five the united states negotiated a peace treaty between armenia and azerbaijan last year

00:29:54.000 so tell me again about how the unite stats is hurting armenia weapons are sold yes and they

00:30:00.720 Not to us, to them against us.

00:30:02.820 They always reach the ceasefire constantly.

00:30:03.920 It's very simple.

00:30:06.600 It's not complicated.

00:30:08.760 So if your guys' allegiance is with your home country,

00:30:12.040 is there a reason you wouldn't choose to live there, like right now or in the future?

00:30:16.460 Right. I would absolutely love to live there.

00:30:19.300 I miss it very much.

00:30:20.880 When I go back, you feel at home.

00:30:22.860 I'm also part Greek.

00:30:24.140 I would have loved to live in Greece, too,

00:30:25.620 because the quality of life, in my opinion, is far better in many ways.

00:30:30.720 Some ways not, but because it's my homeland and I feel a certain pull to it, I would have loved it.

00:30:37.740 Metro Mac donated $100.

00:30:40.500 That is definitional treason and punishable in this instance by deportation.

00:30:47.040 We came to a deportation show.

00:30:50.180 If I broke the law, go ahead and deport me.

00:30:52.340 I deserve it.

00:30:52.880 Yeah, please deport harder.

00:30:54.140 Yeah.

00:30:54.300 or you could just have allegiance to the united states that's an option but

00:31:01.780 yeah it's just interesting in in all the grace and benevolence of the united states we with open

00:31:10.640 arms we welcome people here and they spit they spit on us they spit on us you're putting words

00:31:17.660 in our mouth you are being very actually disrespectful to be honest because you are

00:31:22.100 being disrespectful because you're taking you're putting words in our mouth you're asking us a

00:31:25.380 question you are not understanding what you're asking if today you are bombed to oblivion and

00:31:29.660 you leave to canada and they ask you is your allegiance to america or canada and then you say

00:31:34.560 you know what i'm i'm here doing what i can i'm really good here and i'm going to stay here because

00:31:38.980 there's nothing to go back to at this time and someone tells you well you should be deported

00:31:43.360 because you hate it here well you are allegiant if i was allegiant there i would be over there

00:31:48.600 i'm here so i'm a legion tier i'm an america first i conduct my life that way most of my

00:31:53.800 apparel is you're not america first you're armenia first no that's in my heart that's my culture and

00:31:58.980 my people that's not what i do here like i said i would be drafted i i i could be drafted here

00:32:04.660 i would not leave at that time unless it's my country hold on so first off which in which case

00:32:11.740 you said i was putting words in your mouth yes you said when i presented you with a hypothetical

00:32:18.440 Do you side with the United States or our media?

00:32:20.820 Recently, our company's softball team lost the big game by one run.

00:32:25.080 Then Dale tried to console us with the quote, winning isn't everything.

00:32:29.400 Well, Dale and I are very different.

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00:32:34.980 If my team goes up big, I get paid out instantly, even if they blow the lead later.

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00:32:50.480 Yeah, you said Armenia.

00:32:52.720 You said Armenia.

00:32:54.200 That's not me putting words in your mouth.

00:32:56.380 I'm addressing the words that came out of your mouth.

00:32:59.820 So I'm not going to be gaslit into, I'm putting words in your mouth.

00:33:04.280 I'm literally addressing the things that you said.

00:33:07.900 So how is it disrespectful or how am I putting words in your mouth?

00:33:11.660 because you're putting us in a corner and you have one response to it like you have this all

00:33:17.100 shaped into the way that you want it you're not actually listening to how we feel what we are

00:33:21.500 saying i've been listening no you're cornering us and you are uh telling us to be deported

00:33:26.100 maybe we just have did i say did i say they should be deported i don't i didn't say you

00:33:30.320 should be deported now you're putting words now you're the one who's putting words i didn't say

00:33:34.460 you should be deported let's not do it then because we are very allegiant here we're very

00:33:38.900 normal here there is no problem you can identify here you are going into my mind my heart and you

00:33:44.580 are trying to twist something and bring it to the internet there was nothing twisted but you had

00:33:48.840 something on this okay you said it with your words you said he posed a hypothetical hypothetical

00:33:56.080 situation would you cheer hi yeah no he posed a hypothetical and you said armenia first i'm not

00:34:04.260 saying you should be deported i'm not agreeing with anybody you said it with your words

00:34:08.780 Nobody is putting you in a corner.

00:34:10.300 Nobody's putting you in a box.

00:34:11.280 Nobody's giving you a label.

00:34:12.700 You said it with your words.

00:34:13.980 She said it with her words.

00:34:15.080 And that's fine.

00:34:16.260 It is fine.

00:34:17.020 However, you made an oath to this.

00:34:19.280 You made an oath.

00:34:20.080 Did you want to stay in this country or not?

00:34:21.700 You made an oath to stay.

00:34:22.880 And I did, did I not?

00:34:23.940 Yes.

00:34:24.360 And then you said Armenia first.

00:34:26.600 Yeah, I did.

00:34:28.200 Bendy Dikundes Kofartnall donated $100.

00:34:32.200 Say it with me.

00:34:33.080 I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America.

00:34:37.640 and to the republic for which it stands, one nation, under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all.

00:34:45.200 Tiffany, you can start showing the other Super Chats once this goes.

00:34:48.840 Go ahead.

00:34:49.660 Bendy, thank you.

00:34:51.360 You had something?

00:34:52.420 Yeah, I have a question for you guys.

00:34:54.300 So you said in a hypothetical conflict you would swear allegiance to Armenia.

00:34:59.860 So what precisely would that look like, and what types of things would you be willing to do that is allegiance to Armenia?

00:35:06.440 I would still be here. I would do what's best for here. There's nothing I can do over there.

00:35:11.440 My heart will just become a raisin. But in my heart, I will know that is my people. That is

00:35:16.960 my country. That is what I'm expressing when I tell him that my allegiance is there. Not that

00:35:22.880 I'm here trying to sell this nation out or that I'm here ungratefully or that I'm here conducting

00:35:27.540 my life in some sort of malicious way or not recognizing my gratitude for this nation.

00:35:34.900 Yeah, he's shaking his head.

00:35:36.120 It doesn't matter to him what I say.

00:35:37.480 Because that's not the contention.

00:35:39.260 No, it's not about semantics, Brian.

00:35:40.960 There's never been an accusation from me that you guys are doing like you were trying to say I've never committed a crime.

00:35:53.000 I pay my taxes.

00:35:54.660 I'm a law-abiding citizen.

00:35:57.980 The contention here is not you're not those things.

00:36:01.680 it's it's very narrow and specific and it relates to the fact that when you're born in another

00:36:09.280 country and you come here and you naturalize into a u.s citizen part of that process is taking the

00:36:16.560 oath of allegiance which requires you to not not like okay say you're from armenia the oath of 0.98

00:36:24.880 allegiance is not I swear allegiance to the United States over fucking Kazakhstan I swear

00:36:34.140 oath of allegiance to the United States over Italy I swear the oath of allegiance to the 0.96

00:36:39.880 United States over Brazil I swear the oath of allegiance I swear my allegiance to the United

00:36:46.820 States over my country of origin in this case Armenia that's the contention you guys are saying

00:36:54.820 that your allegiance would be primary to Armenia over the United States that's the contention that's

00:37:01.320 it I don't think that you're like kind of like understanding that if like say our Armenia were

00:37:09.940 to go to war with like the United States and you live here we would be like at risk in a sense

00:37:17.580 because you would be siding with your country and not the one that you are living in okay it's

00:37:24.740 living in is different and you've already chosen that you're not siding with me if you are bombing

00:37:29.440 my people my people do not have the capacity to do that so um if in this hypothetical uh

00:37:37.260 war or whatever if armenia asked you or even bribed you a large amount of money or guaranteed

00:37:45.060 your safety to join them on their side since your allegiance in your heart is with them would you

00:37:50.300 join them i feel like if i was someone who could be bribed i'd be working at only fans

00:37:54.860 kind of irrelevant to the question it is so relevant i'm not someone who would sell myself

00:38:00.120 out no so your allegiance is with the united states my allegiance is here as long as i am

00:38:04.400 here so you revoke that original statement if i leave here my allegiance is not wherever i am

00:38:09.980 if i'm in japan and i'm stating an oath there my allegiance is there okay so you take back

00:38:15.060 i'm naturalized wherever my uh i am abiding by whatever is needed in that country and no no one

00:38:21.300 can give me absurd amounts of money because it doesn't matter to me i conduct my life very

00:38:26.480 honestly if i wanted a lot of money i do dishonest things then you are essentially retracting that

00:38:33.320 original statement well i mean yeah because i didn't realize this is what was being asked yes

00:38:37.960 because i didn't realize this is what was being asked you know i but um no it's just a sense of

00:38:43.900 if you do say something you just kind of stand 10 toes down on whatever you say and believe in what

00:38:49.600 you say i don't understand why we can't love both countries why do i have to our entire government

00:38:55.500 is israel first anything to say about that this country we have israeli flags on the outside of

00:39:01.840 our offices of our representatives so we are not in an environment where everything is black and

00:39:09.300 white and i'm gray okay i think you guys are making it black and white because no one said

00:39:14.100 you can't love both countries you can absolutely love where you come from and love this country

00:39:18.720 we're asking about your what's the next question or what's going on because we're going in circles

00:39:22.920 clearly i had a last like yeah she does go ahead i don't know like to put a thought on it so

00:39:30.120 i think actions are more important than words so if this country gave you a lot

00:39:37.640 there's probably a reason to stay with this country actions are more important than words

00:39:42.520 that's why my actions and the way I've conducted my life matter more than what I said

00:39:46.600 about what's in my heart at this table thank you okay maybe that's the whole stat 0.79

00:39:52.700 uh violet can I have you read this chat thank you crazy so you pay taxes to the country for 0.94

00:39:59.800 20 years that funds the destruction of your homeland so killing your own people we did not 0.96

00:40:05.140 know the question we did not know we were not i was never politically inclined i have never been

00:40:13.240 in politics i thought wars were all the resources donated 100 how dare you gaslight us after

00:40:20.580 insulting our country and stealing our money to better yourself get out you're nothing but 1.00

00:40:26.460 a parasite and you cannot be drafted you just spit on every man in america made up tense made 1.00

00:40:32.860 up story okay uh briar wolf thank you for the the tts or whatever guys ten dollar display a hundred 0.99

00:40:42.340 dollar tts if you want to get it in a hundred dollar tts okay cool uh well let's change change

00:40:49.660 gears here down to wilson um so uh tiffany we're gonna pull up uh the candace stuff so pull up the

00:41:00.220 tweets first, hide that.

00:41:03.940 All right, guys, so

00:41:05.100 can you

00:41:08.100 control mouse wheel, make it one bigger?

00:41:11.880 All right, so this was back in early

00:41:14.140 July, offered 50K

00:41:16.040 to Candace Owens to debate Andrew

00:41:18.300 on the podcast.

00:41:21.640 Tab over.

00:41:24.720 I bumped it to 100,000

00:41:26.720 10 days later.

00:41:31.200 Tab over.

00:41:33.520 And then people were offering to match, contribute.

00:41:36.860 So the total offer, as far as my involvement, bumped to $200,000.

00:41:42.020 So this was for Kansas Owens to debate Andrew Wilson on the Charlie Kirk, Tyler Robinson.

00:41:50.520 Miracle evidence.

00:41:51.360 It's demonstrable.

00:41:52.180 It's overwhelming.

00:41:54.460 Bro.

00:41:57.440 So, yeah, that's cool.

00:42:00.220 Um, so I'm the brain, that's my brainchild.

00:42:06.480 I'm the brainchild.

00:42:07.520 That's my brainchild.

00:42:08.760 Uh, as far as the whatever podcast involvement, not sure, uh, not sure to what degree we'll

00:42:18.340 be involved with that.

00:42:19.140 Most likely not because Candace Owens, uh, wants to host the debate in her studio, uh,

00:42:27.200 on Friday I guess she did release a video that just a portion of that we're

00:42:32.900 going to react to so pull that up is it from the right correct time I think you

00:42:38.880 jumped it yeah

00:42:43.660 Can we pull it up, please?

00:42:54.320 All right, go ahead, hit, yeah.

00:43:00.800 Okay, so first things first, it has come to my attention that an individual who I had literally never heard of in my life

00:43:07.920 went on to Joe Rogan signaling that I am scared to debate him regarding the Charlie Kirk case.

00:43:13.660 and that he's offered me $300,000 to do so.

00:43:16.780 So just so you know, the backstory leading up to this moment

00:43:18.700 is that the host of the Whatever podcast,

00:43:21.500 who I do know, a guy named Brian Atlas,

00:43:23.600 reached out to my PR guy Mitchell with an offer of $50,000.

00:43:28.960 They did not pick a very flattering photo.

00:43:32.100 Yikes.

00:43:33.420 Actually, it's not that bad.

00:43:34.840 It's not that bad.

00:43:36.220 It's like five out of ten.

00:43:37.940 But yeah, yeah.

00:43:39.400 Good thing they didn't pull a clip from this stream 0.96

00:43:41.620 because I'm fucking bloated and because I'm sick. 0.99

00:43:44.900 I'm bloated and red and flaky and fucking puffy face. 0.99

00:43:50.740 Anyways, all right, go ahead. 0.99

00:43:52.620 Continue on with the thing.

00:43:56.060 You'll have to look it back.

00:43:58.260 Okay, for me to debate this person.

00:44:00.680 And then he upped the amount, I think, to 150K initially.

00:44:04.860 I immediately dismissed it.

00:44:06.160 I genuinely had never heard of the name Andrew Wilson before.

00:44:10.620 And my assumption was that this was a PR ploy, a move for some young influencer that

00:44:15.620 was coming up through the ranks and had a little bit of money to spend to get their

00:44:18.540 name out there.

00:44:19.280 It's almost like, and people do this, you try to buy an ad for yourself, it's just an

00:44:25.620 industry strategy to get your name out there.

00:44:29.540 Of course, the Charlie Kirk case was not some gimmick to me.

00:44:32.720 We have not been asking for money, just a public discussion with Turning Point USA,

00:44:37.760 one of their affiliates regarding the case, whether that be Blake Neff, Andrew Colvett,

00:44:42.380 Erica Kirk, Yankin Bank Frank, somebody who was there on the scene that day.

00:44:46.260 We've offered them the floor repeatedly.

00:44:49.380 Now, what I had not appreciated until people began sending me clips of this Andrew Wilson

00:44:54.960 guy following his sit down on Joe Rogan is that he is sort of affiliated with Turning

00:45:00.800 Point USA, another person in their orbit that they're boosting so much so that he's apparently

00:45:06.860 all right um i'll just give the recap because she talks about it for about 10 or 20 minutes

00:45:13.320 but we've had candace owns on the show before she was sitting right here pregnant and uh

00:45:20.340 and so we wanted to facilitate a debate between her and andrew wilson who as you guys know is a

00:45:26.920 frequent uh regular on the show andrew has one position on the charlie kirk thing she has her

00:45:33.880 own position on the charlie kirk thing andrew's want been wanting to debate these people and i

00:45:40.180 thought hey we've done a lot of debates let's host it but uh not gonna happen in the whatever 0.60

00:45:45.860 podcast studio but i'm catching strays and shit people coming for me um and uh yeah so i believe

00:45:57.140 they're trying to make that debate happen friday and andrew wilson recommended michael knowles as 0.84

00:46:03.760 moderator uh that would be good i also think constantine kissin would be good too he's pretty

00:46:11.160 sharp guy but uh i thought that they should bring in three moderators michael knowles me

00:46:17.760 and like somebody candace like more on candace's side so you have like kind of a neutral person

00:46:24.560 somebody more on andrew's side somebody more on candace's side and moderators but uh yeah i think

00:46:30.240 i don't know uh andrew's been tweeting back and forth with candace on x so it's not 100 clear if

00:46:38.400 it's like 100 going to happen on friday but if they do do a debate i think it's going to be live

00:46:44.440 i think i think we'll uh we'll do like a watch party uh here on the stream we'll do a watch

00:46:51.640 party here on the stream but yeah recently our company softball team lost the big game by one

00:46:56.980 run. Then Dale tried to console us with the quote, winning isn't everything. Well, Dale and I are very

00:47:04.680 different. I get early payout from Bet365. If my team goes up big, I get paid out instantly, even if

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00:47:38.280 It's pretty, that whole thing is pretty brutal.

00:47:43.080 The conspiracy stuff and I haven't really commented on it too much

00:47:47.940 but I definitely, because of my association with Andrew,

00:47:50.440 I've caught I catch strays I'm catching strays and shit so um anyways so maybe we'll do watch

00:47:56.460 party we'll do watch party but that's the drama um that's the drama and that's pretty much it

00:48:03.820 okay so uh we need to do everyone's relationship status so relationship status married for how

00:48:09.960 long uh on July 11th was our wedding so how long together um three years okay

00:48:20.120 I'm single for now a month.

00:48:24.120 Longest relationship?

00:48:25.440 Four years.

00:48:26.420 Is that the one that ended a month ago?

00:48:28.520 Yes.

00:48:29.500 Who broke up with who?

00:48:30.480 I broke up with him.

00:48:31.820 Why?

00:48:34.040 Just a lot of emotional incompatibility.

00:48:37.760 I'm a very sensitive person, and he's not very well with his words.

00:48:43.640 Okay.

00:48:44.120 we did start a business together and it wasn't it was very hard to manage together and we kept

00:48:50.320 kind of pointing fingers at each other so we just kind of left it to each other and just kind of

00:48:55.960 split off got it okay what about you uh single for a life what's that single for a life for life

00:49:03.720 why just just because do you have are there any guys in the picture i mean always but how many guys

00:49:12.260 okay hold on two i guess two guys that you're seeing currently not like i guess yeah oh more

00:49:23.540 no three no let's keep it that's it are you uh hooking up with both of them

00:49:30.440 no one of them no zero of them just talking okay how long you've been celibate

00:49:38.880 uh celibate what does that mean not sexually oh oh okay thanks um like three wait three months

00:49:52.860 three months okay you uh single um longest relationship was i don't know 16 um four years

00:50:03.120 and yeah um i how long you've been single eight years and you've been celibate how long eight

00:50:11.360 years eight years celibate all right what about you i was married i divorced about nine years ago

00:50:19.440 how long were you guys together together 10 years together 10 years um

00:50:29.080 and you divorced nine years ago correct kids yes how many kids two girls two girls

00:50:36.280 from the same guy yes no step kids or anything like that no all right who initiated the divorce

00:50:45.200 uh i did after postpartum after postpartum what does that mean after i had my second child you

00:50:54.380 go through postpartum and by the time my second child was one I had already filed for divorce

00:51:00.900 okay and then initiated it sure uh how long have you been single

00:51:06.740 um single I mean I've had small patches of three-month relationships like three of them

00:51:15.300 so this entire time other than those small patches well are you currently seeing somebody

00:51:22.340 when's the last time you were seeing somebody i spoke to and went out with um an ex last year

00:51:31.460 in october okay uh what was the reason for the divorce

00:51:38.960 well it's very complicated because there was a lot of things uh that were a problem but um

00:51:48.460 we were living with my parents and uh financially we were having a lot of issues and we were having

00:51:54.640 issues before that as well financially and we were not seeing eye to eye and i

00:51:59.180 was making you know some mistakes financially as well that was hurting the marriage so

00:52:05.620 what mistake well i mean i was in between jobs i was having a kid staying home going back to work

00:52:13.520 going to beauty school staying home going back to work kind of back and forth but it was the

00:52:18.760 instability okay um so you initiated the divorce is that correct uh did uh does he pay you alimony

00:52:29.420 no only did he did he pay you alimony that was never on the table did you pay him no uh does

00:52:38.900 he pay you child support yes what's the custody arrangement with the kids is it 50 50 or it used

00:52:44.680 to be 50 50 um he's a great dad but there's some complications happening at his house that's why

00:52:50.740 they can't go over there that's why it's not 50 50 anymore okay um how much does he pay you in

00:52:56.340 child support 580 every two weeks so about a thousand a month for the two kids correct okay

00:53:03.320 okay any other marriages no you I'm single been single for two years my longest relationship

00:53:17.100 was like three and a half years yeah okay you a newly single my longest relationship was 12 years

00:53:29.500 Married?

00:53:30.540 No.

00:53:31.120 Kids?

00:53:31.820 No.

00:53:33.220 Any kids?

00:53:34.060 I would love them in the future, soon.

00:53:36.620 Cheers.

00:53:37.780 How newly single?

00:53:40.120 A couple of weeks.

00:53:43.580 Okay.

00:53:46.580 Was it the 12-year relationship?

00:53:49.320 No, a different one.

00:53:51.780 When did your 12-year relationship end?

00:53:54.580 I think like a little over a year ago.

00:53:58.520 and then you were how long uh the one that ended a few weeks ago just uh how long was that

00:54:07.300 uh um like three four months less than half a year okay 12 year relationship who broke up with

00:54:16.100 who the 12 year um i broke up unfortunately but he goes around town saying the reverse so

00:54:21.600 look out for that uh okay all right next um i am married

00:54:30.320 how long uh we've been married for two years and together for seven have you been married before

00:54:38.220 i have i've been married twice before so this is your third marriage yes okay uh kids uh yes i

00:54:46.360 have four children from uh three from my first marriage and one from my second okay so three

00:54:55.240 from first one from second no children from the current marriage not yet do you plan to or yes

00:55:02.340 absolutely okay um the first marriage who initiated the divorce i i initiated the divorce

00:55:09.700 uh did he or does he pay you alimony uh no he uh is serving a life sentence

00:55:20.220 he was extremely uh abusive and it ultimately led to him getting a life sentence

00:55:28.140 well the crime that he was convicted of were you the victim uh not in this case okay

00:55:37.760 so i assume he doesn't have no any parental rights i mean he's serving a life sentence

00:55:51.360 um the second husband who initiated the divorce i also initiated the divorce okay uh does he pay

00:55:59.300 you alimony or did he uh he does pay uh child support alimony though no no okay uh how much

00:56:07.340 child support does he pay you uh he was paying 900 a month yes okay all right uh what about you

00:56:16.240 so legally i'm still married but i we've been separated for over a year now one year

00:56:25.920 it's in the process of divorce or um not really none of us i think we're just both too scared to

00:56:35.760 go to go do it i mean we've known each other our whole lives so it's just i think it's hard

00:56:40.400 to fully separate from him like that okay uh longest relationship

00:56:45.760 mine yeah uh we were together 11 years you broke up with who uh i was the one who technically left

00:56:55.780 kids we have three yeah all from him yes do you um does he pay you alimony or well

00:57:04.300 you're not officially divorced yet right no so does he pay you support yeah he'll pretty much

00:57:10.260 just give me his whole check uh so for the child support how much does he pay you a month like

00:57:18.340 1500 1500 okay you guys don't live together anymore no okay uh why did you split um 0.90

00:57:27.800 it's kind of messy um well i got fat as fuck for a minute so he like we weren't doing things 0.96

00:57:34.820 together and i went through his phone um and he was watching porn every single day 0.98

00:57:41.400 it got to the point where he started to buy only fans i mean that shit's free online so it's like 0.95

00:57:47.680 there was like a point like we didn't have food in the kitchen but you're over there buying only

00:57:52.040 fans so I think that just turned me off from him and then eventually I met someone and I ended it 0.99

00:58:01.720 with him to be with the other guy and I got ghosted fuck that bitch um but I've just been by myself 0.99

00:58:09.840 now I had a question for you so how did you I had a question for you how did you like cut it off 0.99

00:58:15.640 like what was your ending point you said like when I met the other guy because I finally felt

00:58:20.900 like somebody wanted me like i felt beautiful and like wanted did you like explain yourself

00:58:28.540 or you just left no i explained it over and over i told him like it got to a point where i said

00:58:34.140 either you stop doing this or i leave and he never stopped so i want to be with someone who only wants

00:58:39.880 me and it's he was watching girls that look nothing like me and he didn't mind that you

00:58:45.780 already had kids no i'm so sorry i'm really sorry he's a really good person you guys it's just he's

00:58:55.140 a great dad great he's like one of my best friends it's just like that killed the relationship you 0.98

00:58:58.980 know that he was watching porn well when i was watching porn he wouldn't fuck me like yeah of 0.99

00:59:04.540 course you said you got big yeah i was like 215 pounds so you were trying to fuck hell yeah and 1.00

00:59:13.420 he didn't want to fuck no and he was jerking it to yes what the fuck tiffany 1.00

00:59:19.540 was that like a long process hold on hold on minimize obs 1.00

00:59:29.380 come on get on it please okay hit try again

00:59:35.960 did it again oh my god all right all right continue with your story

00:59:49.480 um okay sorry i had to um was that like a long process like how you said you gained a lot of

00:59:58.480 weight um well i had what two kids back to back okay so i had my babies um my brother had passed

01:00:05.700 away so like i wasn't doing anything i was eating i was laying in bed um did you have a lot of stress

01:00:12.840 or like emotional problems yeah i have something do you think that like when you think about that

01:00:21.860 situation do you think that he was buying like only fans and watching a lot of porn because you

01:00:27.620 had gained weight and you felt like he wasn't attracted to you anymore or was it prior to like

01:00:32.900 he was already doing that before you had gained weight I mean he was always doing it but I think

01:00:37.360 it like increased as I gained weight and like I think it's like okay now I'm finally noticing it

01:00:42.820 and like you're not gonna touch me but you're gonna do all this online on your phone you know

01:00:46.640 yeah okay can I ask you something uh did you know that he like watched porn and stuff like

01:00:53.260 you know before you married or before you had kids or was this all news to you later 0.73

01:00:57.120 no I mean I'm not an idiot you know I know people watch it but I've always said like I don't agree

01:01:04.640 with it you know like like I said if I want to be with someone I want them to only think about me

01:01:09.760 and my eyes and stuff so I just I don't know he just had so much of it like I think it was

01:01:16.820 excessive to a point I have something else to say I don't know if this is like controversial or not

01:01:22.300 but I feel like I used to think like that too until like I kind of my mindset's a little bit

01:01:29.600 different now where now I think like the end of the day we're all humans and regardless we're

01:01:34.920 gonna find like other men attractive men are gonna find other women attractive I think it's

01:01:41.840 just kind of like the respect part you know like how you go about finding someone else attractive

01:01:46.020 but i think to think like oh like for him to only find me attractive and only want me and think i'm

01:01:52.980 beautiful it's just not that's just not ever going to be the case because us as humans we're going to

01:01:59.520 find other people attractive does that make any sense yeah but so then why couldn't he buy my

01:02:04.280 only fans why couldn't he have me making videos why couldn't he ask me to make tapes feels like

01:02:08.420 a betrayal yeah like oh yeah that is that is valid i'm a monogamous person also he's completely

01:02:14.420 becoming desensitized to an actual brain that he has to put an effort for that he has to have

01:02:20.200 stamina he that he has to please you he's only pleasing himself through the porn that he likes

01:02:25.580 that satisfies him over and over and over again and he's unable to i mean even focus anything on

01:02:33.140 what he's supposed to focus on i'm not saying cut it out completely but you also wrote that um

01:02:37.900 so your dating history is horrible you've seen the worst you've been the worst you're married 1.00

01:02:42.900 to your best friend for years you're an idiot who fell for someone who didn't care for you at all 1.00

01:02:48.340 and ended up ghosting you you burned all your bridges and have been alone navigating so i'm a 1.00

01:02:53.700 little curious though so he didn't cheat on you in the sense like he didn't go fuck another woman 0.98

01:02:58.800 no he was just watching porn you did however cheat on him is that correct i mean we were already done 0.78

01:03:07.740 at that point like we've already talked and i said i if this is what you're going to choose i don't

01:03:12.340 want to be with you we were already living separate and okay so you guys were already

01:03:18.080 separated in a sense yeah recently our company softball team lost the big game by one run

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01:04:02.060 i mean it's just kind of hard to say because we live right down the street from each other 0.92

01:04:09.960 like i have three kids this shit's not easy so he would come and sleep over and help with them 0.82

01:04:15.080 okay but we weren't together the intimacy was already cut off a while back though 1.00

01:04:21.840 you said that um you you were married to your best friend you're you were an idiot who fell 1.00

01:04:31.180 or someone who didn't care for you at all ended up ghosting you yeah so that but so was the marriage 0.99

01:04:37.460 completely off when you're sleeping with this other guy that's kind of hard to answer because

01:04:45.480 i mean we weren't really doing anything like we were just co-parenting at that point you know like

01:04:50.560 like i said he's my best friend we sit there and we hang out all the time and we do things it's

01:04:54.680 just it wasn't like romantic I I have a question so I noticed that you had mentioned that in the

01:05:02.960 time frame that you did like you know gain this weight and you had these children um you also

01:05:08.860 mentioned that you didn't want to do anything and that you would just lay in bed and you know

01:05:13.380 everything like that so do you feel like there was anything else besides the you gained weight 0.84

01:05:24.440 and the porn as to why he was in your eyes not wanting to have sex with you because men 0.97

01:05:33.060 if they care about you um if they feel respected by you they will have sex with you no matter what 1.00

01:05:41.780 weight you are you know but if you are say being a bitch if you are just laying around if you are 1.00

01:05:49.340 not giving off hey I want this is how I feel like I want to do these things with you I want to like 0.99

01:05:56.840 feel sexy I want to if you were best friends you guys should have been able to communicate

01:06:01.780 really well with each other so there had to have been something else in between that

01:06:07.760 I mean he was gone a lot I'm he was working up north seven days out of the week sometimes

01:06:17.980 but gone and trying to provide for you yes 100 and I give him the utmost respect for that because

01:06:25.160 he's how do you feel like you respected him like what kind of actions did you do

01:06:31.160 well holding it down for him at home with all the kids I mean I know that's my responsibility of

01:06:36.860 course but they're his like to him because when we have children like we we take care of the

01:06:43.620 children like we're the mother whether he's there or not we're gonna take care of them so what did

01:06:48.180 you do like specifically like for your husband to show your husband that you respected that he was

01:06:55.960 gone trying to provide for you to be able to be home with your children I think what I did for

01:07:03.220 him was stay loyal when I asked him not to do all that stuff on his phone well I mean but that's not

01:07:09.920 showing like it's so you're essentially saying you stayed loyal and that's how you showed him

01:07:16.300 you respected him working but if he's not working you're gonna cheat on him no I mean so you're

01:07:23.420 saying you are showing him respect but I'm still like trying to help you understand that you

01:07:32.340 haven't said anything yet that have showed actions towards showing your husband that you respected

01:07:38.700 him as well i think what she's trying to say is um look at it from his standpoint of like what

01:07:44.620 he saw like whenever he would come home you guys are speaking way too quiet um

01:07:50.200 simple question let's cut through this you don't categorize what you did as cheating

01:07:57.420 in any conversations you had with your husband did he consider it cheating yes there you go

01:08:04.680 you cheated on your husband I mean I it's like we were already done at that point though like I was

01:08:12.000 done I told him I was done he still had that hope that we were together like so he sees it as cheating

01:08:18.020 but I was already done at that point are you kind of like maybe do you think if you were to look at

01:08:23.140 this from a different view you might see that you contributed a lot to the problem yeah I could see

01:08:30.580 I could see that because I mean I met the person that I met online so it's not like you know but

01:08:38.600 like I said at that point essentially you just wanted like attention yeah but you weren't

01:08:45.860 realizing that like your husband was like working to try to provide for you and essentially do all

01:08:51.680 of these things but missing like that piece that he needed from you like as a man but I feel like

01:08:58.180 a lot of us women do not see those things and and and we just overlook a lot there's also a lot of

01:09:08.120 like tit for tat and pettiness on both sides of like a marriage not necessarily hers but and i'm

01:09:14.060 not condoning his actions or hers but it just becomes this like loop of like cold cold distance

01:09:20.980 and it shouldn't be that way because you know having your back to each other in bed and just

01:09:25.580 Not wanting to, not having the desire, not trying anymore.

01:09:28.560 I do have to move it on for the sake of time.

01:09:31.680 Okay.

01:09:33.240 Let's see.

01:09:34.040 We're going to one thing from Annie.

01:09:38.640 You said you're a survivor of narcissistic abuse.

01:09:43.740 Yes.

01:09:44.160 Was that your 12-year relationship?

01:09:47.400 It was, yes.

01:09:48.620 Okay.

01:09:48.940 um so he was a narcissist or just uh i i cannot diagnose him it would be unethical

01:09:58.400 uh but i did see the signs and so that's why i say it's a narcissistic

01:10:02.720 relationship it's a narcissistic okay but he hasn't he wasn't diagnosed by uh no he has he

01:10:09.600 will not go to therapy okay uh can you tell us so when you say narcissistic abuse what does that

01:10:17.120 what does that mean? Very focused on the self. This was covert. This was not like out there in

01:10:26.080 public taking a picture of myself. I'm a narcissist. No, this was everything happens on my time.

01:10:31.620 Everything happens my way. If I don't like something, I will cause a scene. I will do

01:10:37.260 something to flip it back to my way. When I'm done talking to you, you don't exist to me. Even if

01:10:42.580 we've been together for a decade all of a sudden i don't know your name just very um it's like a

01:10:48.080 very abrasive kind of relationship to have it's it's almost unreal that this is the person you

01:10:53.600 were intimate with it's like a switch flips off and they're inaccessible so you were with him for

01:10:58.640 12 years was the narcissistic abuse happening for the entire duration no it like four years in

01:11:06.200 to the relationship uh was it on again off again uh yes i discovered he was having a double life

01:11:14.460 and so it became on and again off again for the next decade uh what do you mean by double life

01:11:20.620 um well uh one time i went through his electronic devices and there was a whole another person

01:11:26.880 and world in there i mean who he was being and how he was presenting himself and uh so are you

01:11:34.300 saying he was um like married and had kids with another woman would you uh no he was uh uh going

01:11:42.100 with out with other women um shooting porn with other women uh different things like that uh how

01:11:49.400 soon into the you said when did this happen four years in or yes so wait four years into the

01:11:57.940 relationship i discovered and you stayed with him for another eight years yes

01:12:02.120 i had no idea i didn't understand because you burned some you come from a like an environment

01:12:12.320 huh and wait you just broke up with him like a couple weeks ago this is someone new oh sorry

01:12:16.940 you're right yes okay but you're with him for 12 years how many times did he cheat on you

01:12:24.100 hundreds if you i count i'd armenian no he's not mexican black

01:12:32.420 spanish spanish like actually from spain from spain

01:12:39.100 you burned i did he's a lot of 12 years so what 18 to what some of my most beautiful years um

01:12:49.480 what age to like 20 to 30 20 to 30

01:12:54.980 prime it was child birthing years yeah uh so he was a porn star uh he was engaging with porn stars 1.00

01:13:06.640 prostitutes escorts prostitutes was he a good-looking guy to me yeah best sex you ever had 1.00

01:13:17.340 No. 1.00

01:13:18.240 No?

01:13:19.940 Was he wealthy?

01:13:22.600 No.

01:13:23.980 Broke is a joke.

01:13:25.020 Broke?

01:13:25.640 Yes.

01:13:26.220 So you were the breadwinner?

01:13:29.580 We were on and off.

01:13:31.020 I would have something.

01:13:32.300 And we would just compensate for each other.

01:13:35.300 So it was like we were living off of two people's...

01:13:37.360 Drug use?

01:13:38.120 No.

01:13:38.820 For him?

01:13:39.340 Cannabis.

01:13:39.840 No.

01:13:40.540 You, though?

01:13:41.560 No.

01:13:41.900 Weed.

01:13:42.560 Okay.

01:13:43.100 Yeah, just weed on and off sometimes.

01:13:44.680 I mean, nothing.

01:13:45.960 Insane.

01:13:46.880 i think that the four-year mark that would have probably been a good time i wish did yes that

01:13:53.520 relationship um did you do anything wrong uh yes uh at the towards the very end um i i made a

01:14:05.420 mistake by having a one-night stand um and like you know he had already discarded me and thrown

01:14:12.660 me away don't talk to me this and that out of nowhere but you know I had a bad night and I

01:14:17.880 guess I ended up with someone I was totally out of my mind and he held that against me

01:14:22.040 that was the only one time I've ever done a one-night stand so that was that good times

01:14:32.140 all right fun good everyone loves a bad story good time uh cool all right uh maybe we'll come

01:14:43.460 back to that later we have oh um in your instagram bio i noticed uh no child is born

01:14:52.480 in the wrong body you link to detransition stuff where did you detransition i did not

01:14:59.740 do you transition no i've never transitioned you're an advocate i'm an advocate for children

01:15:04.420 i'm an advocate for immigrant parents i deal with many um of all uh different places and uh

01:15:11.920 you know they are dealing with their children being transed in school different files being

01:15:17.960 kept by teachers that are kept away from the parents and i see these things firsthand and so

01:15:22.440 they don't they don't know how to communicate they don't even understand what's going on

01:15:26.600 so i help them with the communications getting in touch lawyers this and that okay got it uh okay

01:15:32.300 i'm gonna wait until she's back to get into some of these hold on we're gonna dive into the

01:15:37.900 questionnaire here uh one sec wait

01:15:45.180 before the show started or i think it was during the show but

01:15:57.320 whatever it was our messed up stream

01:16:00.860 um we're talking about hyphenating last names or something so who here

01:16:07.820 uh is gonna hyphenate their last name in marriage

01:16:12.440 i'm not gonna hyphenate i'm just gonna keep mine honestly yeah

01:16:18.180 you're having

01:16:23.880 oh um yeah yeah is it something do you want to i don't know how do you want to just like uh stand

01:16:39.380 up and stretch a bit or do you think it's bad okay uh okay um do you want to try to come back

01:16:52.780 or if you're better i guess yeah okay do you want to just say goodbye really quick

01:17:00.940 all right boys oh my god wow that was retarded yeah i'm aware i'm very aware i can't walk right

01:17:11.080 now i can't walk a straight line right now because my foot is swollen i'm so sorry

01:17:14.360 solid sickness illness solidarity well sorry uh yeah go get some medical attention feel better

01:17:20.420 all right boys all right uh um okay

01:17:30.180 um

01:17:34.160 okay i'll put that over there then

01:17:38.660 what are we doing i'm keeping my last name the chair because it's so crammed

01:17:44.800 okay is that gonna be all right i guess so all right always something exciting at the whatever

01:17:54.480 podcast is the door just leave it just leave it for now is the door okay all right

01:18:04.740 uh the hyphenating last names i believe it was one of you two over here

01:18:11.800 oh i'm not hyphenating my last name at all you're gonna you're gonna keep your last name 0.52

01:18:18.760 or hyphenate i can't believe i have to fucking prompt you guys on this who before we wasn't it

01:18:24.980 you or you who she said her name was hyphenated and it was a hard time for her for that yeah 0.93

01:18:29.780 so wait you're gonna hyphenate or you would hyphenate i just said it doesn't matter if

01:18:37.920 If it's important to my husband, if I had one and he really wanted me to, sure.

01:18:43.860 My default response would be, I don't really need it.

01:18:48.020 I'll keep mine.

01:18:50.140 You'll keep yours?

01:18:51.200 Yes.

01:18:51.680 Be married, but keep mine.

01:18:54.420 Okay, so keep yours.

01:18:55.500 Yes.

01:18:59.720 But if it was important to your fiancé, you would do it?

01:19:05.800 If he said it's really important to me, it would make me really happy, I would do it.

01:19:09.660 But you yourself, if it was up to you, you wouldn't change it?

01:19:15.360 No.

01:19:16.220 Because it does not validate my love more or less if I do or don't.

01:19:22.220 You also circle that you agree with the following statements.

01:19:26.700 Men should pay on first dates.

01:19:27.920 Men should provide protect.

01:19:29.160 Men should be chivalrous.

01:19:32.680 Can't a man still love you and not do any of those things?

01:19:35.800 If he's courting me, he should be doing those things.

01:19:39.020 Well, who deserves courtship?

01:19:41.500 We both do.

01:19:42.680 I give my part, too.

01:19:44.000 Women don't court men.

01:19:45.060 Well, we provide love and softness and kindness and support for whatever they're going through.

01:19:52.240 And we still provide a lot of things for men.

01:19:55.300 I don't think men really care about that stuff.

01:19:58.840 So the question is, though, is you...

01:20:01.940 I think they very much care about it.

01:20:03.040 I believe that when it comes to chivalry, provide, protect, paying for dates, et cetera, only ladies are deserving of that.

01:20:16.540 So your unwillingness to do the traditional thing here, which is take the husband's last name, which is traditional, a traditional practice when you're married.

01:20:27.040 now I don't know if this is culturally different if the traditionally in Armenia the man is the

01:20:34.100 provider yes well do the women take the husband's last name when marrying in Armenia yeah most of

01:20:40.300 the time they do but it's not like oh my god you're horrible for not doing it well that's

01:20:44.460 because um men have been beaten down and beaten down and beaten down and if we try to enforce any

01:20:53.100 traditional expectation on the woman, we just get browbeat.

01:20:58.280 No, but I want you to expect traditional qualities from me, like taking care of you,

01:21:03.920 like running a household, like taking care of the kids, staying home with them if I need

01:21:07.100 to, if we're okay with one income.

01:21:08.760 If we're not okay with one income, I can have the kids.

01:21:12.100 Recently, our company softball team lost the big game by one run.

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01:21:41.420 Maybe get a daycare, maybe get a babysitter, go back to work, have two incomes.

01:21:45.200 Depends on where you're living, how expensive things are, what priorities you have,

01:21:49.720 what bills you have it is traditional that the wife take the husband's last name what about the

01:21:56.440 kids though they could my kids have their dad's name okay just uh interesting thought what about

01:22:03.720 you you also agreed with that uh what you're gonna keep your last name yeah i'm gonna keep my last

01:22:09.460 name you similarly agree with the following statements men should pay on first dates men

01:22:15.940 should provide protect men should be chivalrous you're gonna keep your last name what about your

01:22:21.880 kids do you want kids yeah will they have your last name his last name or hyphenate um maybe like

01:22:28.940 well i see this like one kid uh has his last name one kid has my last name we just decide

01:22:35.340 wow that's so retarded yeah like uh we have two kids and that would create a bunch of confusion

01:22:42.800 uh just pick a kid like so why should men do all this why should men do all this pay for dates 0.93

01:22:51.000 provide protect chivalry but you're gonna keep your last name if you get married men shouldn't

01:22:56.500 get married maybe then well it's not i see it like this like let's say i get his last name like

01:23:03.520 i'm sorry can you speak a little louder yes okay so let's say that i do get his last name as

01:23:11.340 like i'm like a lot of jackson or whatever i see it as if i'm part of his family like i'm not

01:23:18.580 part of his family i'm not becoming like we are together and we make let's say we make a family

01:23:25.900 that doesn't mean like i'm not i wasn't born like it's it's just different like i don't understand

01:23:33.720 you are becoming a part of his family yeah well no you're going into it like i accept your family

01:23:40.860 you accept my family and now we're conjoining our families well then why is it his last name

01:23:46.840 can i ask you something uh is your last name from your father or your mother from my father

01:23:51.640 so does that mean you're not a part of your mother's family or

01:23:54.020 got me thinking okay hold on when you and your husband uh marry each other and you take your

01:24:08.400 husband's last name they call it building a legacy for a reason because you both are going to create

01:24:16.220 families and when you have your mom and you have your dad that's the family that he built and so

01:24:25.520 when you go off and you marry a man you take his last name that's the family you guys are building

01:24:31.200 together that's going to be like a legacy like his legacy would you trust someone enough to

01:24:41.000 have their last name if i'm going to marry them if yes but what if something changes what if he

01:24:47.040 starts cheating and you already have his name on your passport on your uh social security whatever

01:24:53.660 i think she was mentioning that you have it on all the documents and it's difficult to change stuff

01:24:59.480 and I'm more than likely sure like 90% sure that something's gonna happen down the line like

01:25:05.960 a lot of us mentioned already that we're single because we broke up went through a horrible

01:25:11.480 experience with a man and that already puts me in a position that makes me trust less well that

01:25:17.860 actually comes from us making bad decisions even when it comes to myself and I've had to get a

01:25:24.360 divorce twice. Number one, there's a reason why I'm attracting these types of men. And if I look

01:25:31.340 at it through a logical lens, I was like these men, but chose to ignore it. And there was lots

01:25:42.000 of red flags that we also chose to ignore. But it's pretty front and center, but we choose to

01:25:49.140 make these bad decisions because if I look back and be like hmm did they show me signs very very

01:25:56.700 early on that they weren't going to be a good husband a good father a good provider a good

01:26:02.240 protector yes but did I think hmm I can change this man yes and that does not work we can't

01:26:13.180 change a man a man you know can't force you to change you have to find that within yourself and

01:26:20.900 so do they but we can't as women keep going into like relationships being like well he's presenting

01:26:28.420 who he really is but I think I can change him and then when they don't we're like you're the problem

01:26:35.620 and they're like hey i've i've showed you this all along exactly so like what i and my husband

01:26:43.860 teach our daughters is if you're going to marry somebody you are making that decision to marry

01:26:50.280 that person so if you marry a man and you're like well i don't want to listen to him i don't want

01:26:56.380 him to lead he makes bad decisions he's irresponsible with money he's this and that

01:27:00.860 why are you marrying this man that makes absolutely no sense it makes no sense if you

01:27:08.480 think about it it makes no sense just like with you staying you know you did choose to stay and

01:27:15.960 i chose to you know make the decisions i made but ultimately we made bad decisions because there are

01:27:24.300 good men out there but the majority of women are like i don't want him he's too nice oh i don't

01:27:30.360 he doesn't look hot enough like he doesn't make enough money and we're turning down all of these

01:27:36.200 men when there's a bunch of good men but then we have to realize we are what we attract so so if 0.99

01:27:43.540 we're attracting piece of shit men then there's something in us that is connecting us with this 0.99

01:27:49.420 person so from the psychological aspect you're blaming yourself for like 100 because i made that 0.99

01:27:57.240 decision if i go and i meet a man and he presents a bunch of red flags to me and i decide to still

01:28:04.960 pursue it thinking i can change this man and i fail uh that's my fault and and but you have to

01:28:13.180 be compatible in some sort of way like if i didn't like something about you and you didn't like

01:28:18.500 something about me we still can't go and like have a good time together and like genuinely enjoy each

01:28:25.020 other like we're not compatible like i'm not gonna call you and be like hey you want to go to the

01:28:31.180 movies you're not who i want to go with yeah but if we are somehow we are attracting these men

01:28:38.040 somehow we're attracting these men okay yeah but coming back to your question the reason i think i

01:28:45.420 would also just keep my last name is just individuality is like just being myself because

01:28:51.680 if i'm taking someone's last name i am in a sense becoming a different person like i'm now

01:28:58.300 a person with a different name so i consider like is this my name this is my last name this

01:29:04.540 is my first name this is who i am and if i could change oh sorry go ahead for another person like

01:29:11.500 great my wallet is my wallet my protection is my protection i have no duty to you to protect you

01:29:18.840 to provide go be 50 50 with a guy if you want to be a modern woman that's fine be 50 50 don't

01:29:26.240 expect him to pay for dates don't expect him to be chivalrous you can open your own car door you

01:29:32.300 can walk closer to the sidewalk rule or whatever do all that shit i gotta move on for the sake of 0.81

01:29:38.340 time uh okay past some people let's see if there's anything on the questionnaire uh uh past uh you 0.69

01:29:48.240 say passion not matter or you agree with the statement the what passion not matter oh no at

01:29:55.300 all i don't think it matters okay so uh that's related to body count so the question then becomes

01:30:01.100 uh if past shouldn't matter what's your body count over zero under one sorry what's over you

01:30:09.460 got to speak up a little bit sorry uh over zero under 10 oh okay over zero i do not remember

01:30:19.480 okay so nine got it 11 okay oh sorry wait wait let's restart really quick tell us your age

01:30:27.620 so do this um it helps create context so just say i'm 19 my body count is whatever your answer

01:30:35.620 was going to be go ahead do it again i'm 22 my body count is under 10 under 10 oh sorry please

01:30:41.340 enunciate a little bit here under 10 okay i'm 27 and my body count is 11

01:30:47.240 um i'm 19 my body count is around six i believe

01:30:52.920 i don't talk about my personal life you've come on a dating discussion podcast i know but i can

01:31:00.360 choose not to answer something okay um so you're 40 40 do you want to do a range

01:31:05.180 let me ask have you forgotten no i have not forgotten so you know what it is

01:31:11.600 because some people forget no i don't forget it's not like it's oblivious number or a very

01:31:18.520 little number i just choose not to talk about it because once you get up there i'm not saying

01:31:22.840 that's you but once you get up there you definitely forget you forget names you even 0.78

01:31:28.780 forget you forget fucks like in you don't even remember the person all right uh age body count 0.94

01:31:35.940 uh i'm 20 and my body count is 12 okay um i'm 33 and my body count is three 0.99

01:31:44.120 i'm 35 my body count is 13 i'm 26 my body count is nine all right there you go there you go thank

01:31:53.880 you everyone for sharing those i appreciate that three at 33 that's pretty good thank you pretty

01:31:59.420 good uh i noticed you're wearing a cross are you christian yes what denomination orthodox orthodox

01:32:06.320 christian oh armenian orthodox yes we're the first christian nation of the world

01:32:13.600 oh yeah i didn't know that okay big thing there yeah take your word for it thing there uh that's

01:32:19.060 cool i learned something new today all right um okay next thing uh what is the minimum yearly

01:32:29.140 income to be your future husband i think i put 80k yep okay i put around 100k okay

01:32:36.020 are we just gonna do 10 seconds of dead air time can you kindly answer the question no mine i've

01:32:51.420 put like a lot i think i just don't remember what what did you write on the paper please don't make

01:32:57.240 me have to pull teeth like one million like one million okay all right what about uh what about

01:33:03.900 you well since we're living in california a hundred thousand dollars is considered poverty

01:33:08.720 level so i thought maybe 200 000 would be okay okay i'm not gonna lie to y'all i don't know

01:33:15.620 what's a lot or a little of like yearly income so i really don't know okay so you date a guy

01:33:21.300 who works at mcdonald's uh yeah if he wanted more for himself okay next i guess i put 100k

01:33:29.280 next i put minimum 50k i believe next like 80 to 100 you wrote 90 to 100 but pretty close

01:33:37.800 all right some some kind of big asks there i guess um we have the one million for you

01:33:45.720 that's awesome uh do you think you'll uh get a guy who makes a million dollars

01:33:54.700 that's kind of up in the air right now

01:33:56.560 okay all right good luck good luck that's like less than one percent of men so

01:34:06.140 immediately off the table she's like perfect i don't think one of them would let you

01:34:13.320 not take his last name we got uh uh you how many kids do you have two two two kids uh 42 kids

01:34:24.520 guy has to make 200k all right and then you have how many kids three three kids 100k

01:34:32.320 okay all right um good luck i wish you all the best on that uh how tall are you and what's the

01:34:46.940 minimum height of a man you would date i'm five six and i would date anyone my height or above

01:34:52.340 i'm 5'2 you have to be at least 5'7 you wrote 5'8 here but close enough i'm 5'7 you have to be at

01:35:02.080 least 5'6 i guess okay reasonable i'm 4'10 i like a short king or a little bit taller guy

01:35:08.680 he's like 5'5 5'6 that's okay doesn't have to be a tall guy um i'm 5'1 and i think like minimum

01:35:15.640 for me is like to take seriously and date like 5'5 that's like minimum so 5'5 and up i'm 5'6

01:35:23.600 so minimum 5'7 i am 4'11 so anything taller than me okay i'm 5'7 so anything me and taller

01:35:33.720 okay now let's test this out though going back this way uh what was the height of the last

01:35:39.920 boyfriend like five nine okay or current current or last boyfriend six two six two oh like six four

01:35:50.680 six four okay go ahead six three six three

01:35:55.600 um he was taller maybe above six maybe six one six two i guess five seven five nine

01:36:05.300 okay so this is interesting so you have to differentiate between stated preference and

01:36:13.440 revealed preference so it's just interesting like okay like you said it happened that way

01:36:23.180 hold on what did you say an inch taller than me yeah you're five six and over five seven but

01:36:29.540 conveniently the boyfriend was six foot two a lot so a lot of you guys also had similar answers

01:36:35.280 there that's always interesting uh always interesting always interesting um okay uh did

01:36:41.760 anyone pick bear for the bear question i didn't see that oh sir no i'm gonna skip i'm skipping

01:36:49.940 the bear thing okay uh let's see we have uh unfortunately because i had to reset the stream

01:36:57.580 We don't have the chat from Gorlock.

01:36:59.720 But the question is, rate yourself on a scale of 0 to 10, your looks.

01:37:06.120 Rate yourself on a scale of 0 to 10, looks.

01:37:08.240 You can't pick 7 and format it like face, body.

01:37:11.840 So, for example, I'll go first.

01:37:13.660 Face, 4.5, body, 4.5.

01:37:16.520 Go ahead.

01:37:17.080 Face, 6, body, 4, total, 5.

01:37:21.380 Face, 4.5, body, 6.

01:37:24.400 Okay.

01:37:24.580 um face 11 10 body 11 out of 10 can you please speak up enunciate yes speak a little bit louder

01:37:35.640 just a little louder you're basically mumbling okay repeat it please um face 11 out of 10 body

01:37:43.400 11 out of 10 okay so 11 and 11 so 10 i guess okay go ahead this face i would say like a five

01:37:54.380 and body maybe a six face six and a half body

01:38:04.360 six also okay uh body 10 uh face seven an eight i can't say seven sorry could you repeat that

01:38:16.340 body 10 face 8 okay face 8 body 10 next um i would say face 4 body 4 okay next face 3 body 2

01:38:29.920 face 3 body 2 okay all right um

01:38:33.860 A lot of modesty

01:38:39.780 Why?

01:38:42.360 Body 10

01:38:44.740 Face 8

01:38:47.480 You're wearing a blazer though

01:38:49.000 So it's hard to assess

01:38:49.940 Oh, you're gonna

01:38:51.100 You gave yourself an 11-11

01:38:55.040 Kulny donated $100

01:38:58.040 Huh

01:38:59.440 None of you rate six figures a year

01:39:01.820 For a husband and with kids

01:39:03.840 yeah lol especially the anti-patriots brian i'm assuming you were sick so good on you for still

01:39:11.680 being here too many burritos yes that's what happened now i have a sinus infection um 0.77

01:39:19.660 i get these like once a year basically it kind of sucks but um 0.82

01:39:24.900 the show must go on you gotta show must go on so over burrito 0.88

01:39:31.000 okay so you're an 11 yeah okay any concerns do you think that

01:39:43.820 how do I frame this can you tell me a woman who you think is a 10 or an 11 I suppose

01:39:53.640 like a celebrity um okay ariana grande maybe or angelina jolie ariana grande

01:40:03.380 okay uh adriana lima does anyone know yes right okay i get a lot of agreements

01:40:12.320 okay all right uh i want to do a segment where you guys give me a rating

01:40:21.800 now don't worry i'll rate you afterwards wait wait i should have told you that because now

01:40:26.660 you guys are going to be generous do not be generous be honest okay be honest give me a

01:40:33.140 rating uh just face we're not doing body uh just uh because body's a little harder to rate i guess

01:40:39.900 um give me a face rating zero out of 10 uh starting with you go ahead 4.75 4.75 okay

01:40:51.060 4.5.

01:40:52.520 4.5.

01:40:54.800 5?

01:40:55.780 Okay.

01:40:58.240 Minus the redness, I think a 7.

01:41:00.120 Can I give you a 7?

01:41:01.060 Sure.

01:41:02.180 Okay.

01:41:02.680 What about you?

01:41:06.560 Like a 3 out of 10.

01:41:08.860 No, I'll give you a 4.

01:41:10.580 I've seen way, way, way worse.

01:41:13.600 She's seen worse.

01:41:17.220 What about you?

01:41:18.120 8 is fair.

01:41:19.240 8?

01:41:19.640 Yes.

01:41:20.140 Well, that's a bit generous, but thank you.

01:41:21.680 Okay, what about you?

01:41:31.120 Smile.

01:41:31.920 I feel like a 3.5.

01:41:34.620 3.5, yeah.

01:41:36.240 All that for a 3.

01:41:37.600 She was harsh on herself a bit, I think, but okay, what about you?

01:41:41.520 I think you're really cute.

01:41:42.460 I think like an 8.5.

01:41:44.180 Oh, thank you.

01:41:46.820 Thank you, appreciate it.

01:41:48.140 Okay.

01:41:49.660 All right.

01:41:50.140 well now i get to rate you guys and i won't get revenge fun all right so uh

01:42:00.460 okay you gave yourself a six

01:42:03.580 I'd put you between 5.5 and 6

01:42:16.100 you gave yourself a 4.5

01:42:19.060 maybe 4.5

01:42:27.040 4.75

01:42:27.760 you gave yourself an 11

01:42:30.900 a 10

01:42:31.440 uh i of course with the the zoomer i'm gonna say this i give you between a six and a seven

01:42:43.840 in that range six seven wait you can't pick seven though i'm allowed to oh okay i'm a tyrant

01:42:53.000 double standards okay you gave yourself a five

01:42:56.620 uh i didn't she was so nice to me too she gave me a seven

01:43:04.020 well you gotta factor in age and stuff three three kids two kids whatever uh i'd give you

01:43:11.680 4.75 you gave yourself a 6.5 you gave me a three i'm not gonna get revenge though i'm always gonna

01:43:18.160 be fair uh 6.5 well you're caking it on quite a bit and you know full face of makeup a little too

01:43:24.860 much i'd like to see how you look without all the makeup without the the facade without the

01:43:33.020 deception but the deception is crazy it's crazy hey i've never been with a guy who's seen me

01:43:42.020 without makeup, and then be like, ugh, never mind.

01:43:46.680 Well, we have makeup wipes.

01:43:48.160 Maybe we'll do.

01:43:49.240 I'm going somewhere after this.

01:43:51.000 No.

01:43:51.800 I'm going to go see a hoe.

01:43:52.880 I can't.

01:43:53.760 You're going to go see a hoe?

01:43:55.000 Yes.

01:43:55.620 I thought you were single.

01:43:56.920 I am, but I got hoes.

01:43:58.420 When's the last, or how long have you been celibate for?

01:44:03.380 A week.

01:44:04.660 Wait, no.

01:44:05.300 Two weeks?

01:44:06.440 And the hoe you're seeing, is it the guy that you cracked a week ago?

01:44:09.160 actually closer to the mic no because uh no no closer to the mic please oh no 0.97

01:44:19.120 so it's a different guy so you fucked a guy different guy a week ago tonight you're gonna 0.98

01:44:27.260 get busted in no different guy no no no no no you said you had a hookah or what did you say 0.99

01:44:33.180 he's just my hoe like i just have him in my life doesn't mean i'm asleep with him

01:44:36.800 I just want to see him

01:44:38.420 There's like a sexual inference

01:44:41.360 From hoe

01:44:42.160 I just call him my hoes

01:44:44.800 You play chess with hoes

01:44:47.440 Yeah we sometimes

01:44:49.360 Just go get food, we talk

01:44:51.240 We hang out 1.00

01:44:52.220 And you don't fuck 1.00

01:44:53.400 Have you ever had sex with him 1.00

01:44:55.140 Yes 0.92

01:44:56.420 But I'm not going there with the intent of doing that tonight

01:45:00.440 I was just with him last night

01:45:02.200 And we didn't do that

01:45:03.040 What a waste of time

01:45:04.740 why would a guy well it's not the intent but it might happen i mean yeah there's definitely a

01:45:10.060 probability that it's gonna happen no i was just with him last night that didn't happen period

01:45:16.280 no i just don't want to i'm not a very oh this is very sexual no i'm just not like a horny like 0.98

01:45:24.660 person like i'm just not like oh i need to go fuck him like i just want to be in his presence 0.99

01:45:29.240 that's sweet great she wants to fuck like two times a month great that's great wife material 0.99

01:45:36.460 there uh so anyways um okay the looks rating you gave yourself a 6.5 i'd put you closer to 4.75 0.99

01:45:43.620 maybe 5 although it's hard to tell with all the makeup uh annie you gave yourself you gave

01:45:49.580 yourself an 8 uh and you also gave me an 8 okay very generous a little too generous you know we

01:45:57.880 have the same eyes yeah so it's like so if we had kids they'd have pretty eyes ideally ideally they

01:46:02.560 would uh no brown i think i'd give you uh a five thank you a five you're welcome uh you gave me

01:46:12.700 you gave yourself a four you you gave me a 3.5

01:46:15.700 4.25 for you uh so i upgraded you congrats you you gave yourself a three

01:46:24.940 uh and you're very generous with my rating you gave me an 8.5

01:46:31.740 uh i think you underrated yourself a bit i think i'd put you like 4.25 i think i'd put you there

01:46:40.140 all right there's the there's the looks ratings um let me see if there's anything else here uh 0.99

01:46:45.720 oh disagreements uh hold on before i get into that actually fuck it marriage is not always a 0.99

01:46:53.260 bad idea for men. That's your disagreement. Why is that? Well, I think when you enter a relationship 0.99

01:46:59.960 and you're already being, I guess, cynical, thinking ahead, oh, this woman may betray me,

01:47:05.400 I think that's a rocky foundation. And I know you mentioned, I saw a clip that you want kids,

01:47:10.400 correct? Like with a longtime girlfriend? Yeah, that's correct. So I guess I would be wondering

01:47:15.100 is why would a woman, you know, want to bear the children of a man who feels like he does not trust

01:47:22.560 her like shouldn't there be a more mutual trust if you guys are you know raising children together

01:47:28.100 why would the obligation in order for trust to exist why would the burden or obligation fall

01:47:36.100 on the man to do a thing why couldn't i just flip this around on you and say

01:47:41.780 why can't you as the woman trust me by us not getting married so i don't know why the burden

01:47:50.020 of trust or not trusting falls on the man here well i think it's to start off with a lot of women

01:47:56.160 want to get married well can i ask you a question with this long-term girlfriend would you have a

01:48:01.840 wedding ceremony not legally any papers but would you have like a wedding for your friends and

01:48:06.540 family or possibly possibly sure i i'm okay with the ceremony i think it's a bit of a waste of money 0.98

01:48:13.880 i'd rather just start pumping out kids but if it's important to her i think it's kind of stupid

01:48:20.540 and a waste of money but uh yeah well could i ask you are you informed about how palimony works 0.95

01:48:28.440 when a woman forfeits a career to raise children and stay home well i mean so palimony

01:48:35.140 isn't strictly a thing in the united states there are some instances in canada where this

01:48:41.500 has happened some states in the united states have uh common law marriage where even if you

01:48:48.240 don't legally get married if you cohabitate and i think if you have kids or you hold yourself out

01:48:54.940 as if you were married something like this you'd be on the hook for you'd basically be treated as

01:49:01.600 if you were married but that's certain states not all states have common law marriage california

01:49:06.300 where i live doesn't have common-law marriage that's true so don't care right but if she let's

01:49:13.660 say stayed home to raise seven kids and she went to a judge and said hey i forfeited my career i

01:49:18.480 don't have means of making money to support you know myself i he promised me that you know i'd

01:49:23.980 be taken care of do you think a judge would grant her some sort of protection financially since

01:49:28.860 you've been supporting seven kids and her not beyond child support no child support you can't

01:49:35.080 evade. But, uh, if she, if we are not married, she can't go to a judge and be like, well, I was

01:49:42.820 a stay at home, blah, blah, blah. I want money in addition to child support. No, now I would

01:49:49.260 voluntarily, depending on the circumstances of the breakup, I would probably voluntarily support

01:49:55.880 a woman if we were to split. And certainly if it was my decision, uh, my decision, assuming,

01:50:01.580 you know maybe I'm the one who is over it not that I would ever hope that's the case but

01:50:08.240 I would just voluntarily pay her some money to maybe one year two year three year maybe

01:50:17.020 but this idea that if I've been married to a woman for 10 years 15 years say we marry at 20

01:50:24.220 years old and we divorced at 35 I could be on the hook for life for the next 30 40 years I have to 0.98

01:50:32.640 pay her money when she's getting fucked by another guy when she um say she cheated on me 0.98

01:50:39.940 I'm not gonna pay I'm not gonna pay a woman money in that circumstance yeah I understand the trust 0.99

01:50:48.680 issues it makes sense a lot of us have really bad trust issues because we've been hurt or just how

01:50:53.280 the world is but can i ask you something yes one response though to the trust issues thing i think

01:50:58.880 you're smuggling in there yeah you you presuppose i have trust issues yeah uh why can't again why

01:51:05.760 can't i just flip this around on women it's women who don't have trust issues if you're going to be

01:51:11.340 a good girlfriend life girlfriend why can't you trust me to not get married i think she can i 0.99

01:51:18.800 she can but i think so like if i was a woman or i sorry i am a one show us your cock let's see 1.00

01:51:26.040 let's see your penis how big is it she's got big dick energy oh my god if i wanted to be with a 1.00

01:51:34.740 man and we loved each other and we both wanted children and you know i was devoted and he was 1.00

01:51:41.100 devoted um i would ask why not that it's a matter of the legal thing protection i would just ask why

01:51:48.500 don't you trust me you know I think we're I thought we're in love do you think I would betray you

01:51:52.520 eventually and just that knowledge that he doesn't fully fully trust me that it'd be death till you

01:51:58.280 do us apart you know that we're in through thick and thread that would definitely be in the back

01:52:01.900 of my mind uh okay I understand that that would be in the back of your mind um I guess what I would

01:52:10.880 say in response to that is um hold on let me let me process this a little bit here i'm working at

01:52:19.020 like 20 brain capacity my face is swelling up from my sinus infection could i ask her a question

01:52:25.500 yeah sure um so i guess my question would be what can a man um get out of marriage that he can't get

01:52:35.220 from just being in a relationship with you and that might yeah you mean like the legal

01:52:41.400 process not just the idea right so what does a man get out of marriage that he can't get

01:52:48.280 from just being in a relationship i would say he would get the woman to feel more secure

01:52:55.700 i guess what does the man get a healthier relationship potentially depending on so

01:53:00.500 she's toxic unless I marry her. But so why does the woman's need for, you said more secure

01:53:07.420 relationship. Why does the woman's need for security supersede my own? Why do we pedestalize

01:53:14.420 and elevate the woman's desires over the man's? In this case, I feel insecure, like there's an

01:53:20.900 insecurity if I'm married. Oh, now there's a pot of gold. Oh, you know, we have some argument

01:53:28.620 and she there's say there's no abuse let me let me ask a couple questions i'm kind of tangent

01:53:34.880 tangenting here say there's no abuse i treat the kids well there's no violence she just falls out

01:53:43.220 of love that's it but i'm a i'm a good man should she be allowed to divorce me no but she well you

01:53:52.860 to think that but she could and there's no law preventing it um but so you're saying so she she's

01:54:01.260 fought she's not attracted to me she's fallen out of love with me should she divorce me or can she

01:54:06.540 divorce me i don't think she should have married you and i don't think you two should have married

01:54:09.960 i well no no right so things change over time so the conditions that existed when we're married

01:54:16.820 uh what's the what's the vows um through thick and thin through the sickness and health all this

01:54:24.300 the conditions that existed when we were married might not exist five years 10 years 15 years down

01:54:29.880 the line but again there's no abuse there's no mistreatment um no violence anything like that

01:54:36.860 she's just vaguely unhappy i'm sure you'd be fine with divorce in that instance i think you should

01:54:44.440 try way harder to work it out but so in my prompt i said it's not always a bad idea would you agree

01:54:50.540 that some legally married couples live their full lives together and die married uh yeah that's true

01:54:57.620 so was it a bad idea for them maybe they got tax benefits they lived a long the uh the contention

01:55:04.880 here is not that every single marriage ends in divorce that's not the contention there are people

01:55:10.840 who do get married and who stay married and they have happy, otherwise happy relationships

01:55:15.720 throughout the course of their entire life. And it's not an issue. However, the divorce rate is

01:55:21.940 not 1%, 2%, 3%. It's substantial. The divorce rate is substantial. And men have a higher vested

01:55:30.780 interest in this because the people who end marriages, the people who initiate divorces,

01:55:36.980 it's 80 percent women so it's interesting to me on one hand you might say why are you scared of

01:55:44.680 commitment well it's interesting when women do finally get the commitment they so desperately

01:55:50.800 want women conveniently end said commitment overwhelmingly women i not just marriage i think

01:55:59.500 women overwhelmingly end and relationships women overwhelmingly like and call things off even

01:56:05.520 uh, not a relationship, but it could be short term, you know, first date, second date, third

01:56:11.060 date, talking stage situationship. Women overwhelmingly ends that they end relationships,

01:56:15.960 they end marriages. So men need to be a bit more cautious because of this, because there's an

01:56:22.420 asymmetry in, uh, the risks. In addition, uh, if you are in a, perhaps a more traditional dynamic,

01:56:30.700 if you're the breadwinner now women can be breadwinners too and uh women can face financial

01:56:36.640 complications if they get divorced and they're the breadwinner uh i believe that the relationship

01:56:42.720 is less secure where and regardless of how secure it is or not if there's marriage if you're married

01:56:52.560 it creates an incentive so the incentive becomes like if a girl breaks up with me and she's just

01:56:57.860 my girlfriend. It's like, peace out. Goodbye. Depends on how, you know, if you're living

01:57:03.900 together, whatever that can entangle things a little bit, but, um, hold on. The sinus is

01:57:12.780 fucking killing me guys. Um, the point I was trying to make there is, uh, if you're married, 0.98

01:57:19.100 the incentive becomes, Oh, if I leave him, Oh, we had an argument. He doesn't agree with me on this

01:57:25.580 xyz and blah blah blah and i'm nagging him and blah blah blah oh now i get a hundred thousand

01:57:33.440 dollars two hundred thousand dollars half i get half of his money that creates more of an incentive 0.97

01:57:41.640 to leave the relationship not if you get a prenup prenups are bullshit look i'll break it down super 0.94

01:57:47.960 simply but there's a lot of men who are miserable and just stay and they don't want they don't leave 0.97

01:57:55.580 because it's inconvenient because they'll lose money because they'll bring shame to their families

01:58:00.220 because they don't have the courage lots and lots of men stay in a marriage and complain complain

01:58:04.860 complain okay that's fine the rules need to change the idea here is with the prenup thing is

01:58:13.360 say that if you didn't have the prenup you'd have to pay the woman two million dollars

01:58:18.840 if you do have the prenup you have to pay her 1.5 million okay great i saved five hundred thousand

01:58:27.800 dollars i'm still have to pay her a fuck ton of money that she doesn't deserve from my perspective

01:58:32.960 every relationship is different you can't just say she doesn't deserve depend on depends on your

01:58:37.500 assets what did you guys build together what did you guys have separately before you even went into

01:58:41.720 the marriage and if you don't have a prenup the judicial system who is in charge during the time

01:58:46.600 that you do get a divorce decides what you will split what you will keep what you will give away

01:58:51.660 and sell and whatever it is they will divide your shit for you this is obviously going to vary if 0.83

01:58:57.980 you're dealing with a high income person of course i would certainly argue that like a nba player who 0.98

01:59:03.700 goes and dates a hairdresser she does not deserve millions of dollars her earning potential is

01:59:11.000 five figures six figures i agree she does not deserve half his income she does not deserve

01:59:18.600 and so look but an nba player these guys make some of them the top guys will make millions and

01:59:24.200 millions of dollars but you can start bringing it down lower and lower and i still think the

01:59:28.680 principle is still valid even for men who are mid to high income earners right so i don't know but

01:59:38.080 Even celebrities and NBA players and whoever, men, choose to sleep with women, have kids with them.

01:59:45.460 Either they're married or they're not.

01:59:46.780 Like 50 Cent, for example.

01:59:48.120 He has a beautiful baby mama.

01:59:50.000 He has kids.

01:59:50.500 Maybe he has other kids.

01:59:51.260 I don't know.

01:59:51.620 I don't know if he's like Nick Cannon level with the babies and everything.

01:59:55.360 But these men choose to have kids with these women and then they have to be responsible for them.

02:00:00.700 Or they choose to get married to them and not have a prenup ahead of time and not have a manager or an accountant or somebody tell them, like, or their lawyer and say, hey, buddy, you might want to check this stuff before you tie the knot.

02:00:13.420 You might want to secure some things for yourself because you built those things on your own before she was ever in the picture.

02:00:18.220 Well, if you're married for any decent period of time, regardless of the prenuptials and this, you're still in a financial, you have liabilities there financially.

02:00:27.920 Of course, especially if it's after 10 years.

02:00:29.740 Yes. Community property. A prenup cannot say, whoever initiates the divorce, whether it's you,

02:00:38.140 whether it's me, a prenup cannot say you get nothing. That will be an unenforceable prenup.

02:00:43.620 Right. So this idea, a prenup is not going to, it can help you, like I said, a little bit. Okay.

02:00:49.740 If you were the voter, 2 million, maybe you owe her 1.5. The prenups are relevant. Child support,

02:00:55.380 whether you're married or not, is you're on the hook for child support. So that's separate.

02:00:58.840 But my thing here is marriage is a raw deal for the breadwinner, which is typically the man.

02:01:06.200 Right.

02:01:06.640 So then stop proposing to women and asking them to marry them.

02:01:09.560 Yeah, that's my position.

02:01:11.120 Yeah, okay.

02:01:12.040 That's my position.

02:01:12.980 But she's trying to convince me that marriage is a good deal for them.

02:01:16.780 The sanctity of marriage is a joke.

02:01:18.900 People don't take it seriously at all.

02:01:21.620 And that's why we have a 54% divorce rate in this country.

02:01:25.700 Till death do us part.

02:01:26.680 It should be sacred.

02:01:27.960 It should be all of these things that we think it is, or it's a fantasy and fairy tales,

02:01:33.360 or going to church, being in front of your family, whatever it is.

02:01:36.400 But we don't treat it as something sacred.

02:01:40.400 Look, I think the law is very harsh.

02:01:41.960 I think the law doesn't take individual things into account, maybe.

02:01:45.200 And that is why we're trying to negotiate in between these laws when each case is different.

02:01:50.920 And each state is different. 0.99

02:01:52.820 The guy in California is fucked no matter what for most of divorces. 0.99

02:01:57.100 In other states, they might have more of an advantage. 0.99

02:02:00.040 I think that if the shoe was on the other foot for us as women and the majority of men were divorcing us at a really high rate and taking us to court for alimony and child support and everything else, we wouldn't want to get married as much.

02:02:20.880 now that sounds like it makes sense but what i'm saying is women wouldn't want to get married as

02:02:28.080 much so if that was the case then that kind of backs up that women are getting married because

02:02:36.120 there is something to gain financially for them of course yeah that's going to be their their

02:02:42.720 first like um yes so men are saying they don't want to get married because women are looking at

02:02:51.500 it as more of a business transaction yes thing rather than all of these things like being sacred

02:02:57.380 and i care because i have sons as well i don't just have daughters i have sons and they have to

02:03:04.620 marry somebody and this is what they're up against out there in the world right and but also as

02:03:11.280 parents we need to teach our daughters and sons yes all of these things which i do mold them a

02:03:16.800 little bit better maybe make better choices than we did when we were younger whether it's our

02:03:21.540 friends drug use bad decisions or whatever who you choose to marry or just even be in a relationship

02:03:27.380 with right and i just think like okay you could still have a very meaningful uh relationship with

02:03:35.260 someone, perhaps live with them, perhaps have a child or two, any and all of the above, and still

02:03:41.120 be very devoted without necessarily giving your name or signing a marriage license. You could

02:03:46.980 still be very loyal, loving, and devoted for many, many years without that piece of paper.

02:03:52.040 And do you think the majority of women would be okay with staying with a man for that long

02:03:56.800 without him marrying her? Probably not a majority, but that's shifting a lot now after a lot of

02:04:05.160 women are going through their first divorce their their mindset and what they're okay with and what

02:04:12.040 type of lifestyle they would want is shifting a little bit at least from what i see i'm not saying

02:04:17.440 a drastic uh shift but also a lot of women and men just get married because their culture enforces it

02:04:24.500 because time is running out biological clock is ticking they feel pressured they've been with

02:04:29.000 someone for five years she's like well when are you gonna marry me and it's just like there's so

02:04:33.500 many things yeah and that's what I'm saying it's like if women weren't wanting to like be the ones

02:04:38.900 to like get married I don't think that there would be a lot of marriages right um because again like

02:04:46.500 I asked what do you guys think that men do get out of marrying a woman that they wouldn't get

02:04:52.980 from a relationship and it can't be things like love and respect and because you should be doing

02:04:58.760 that in a relationship no matter what so men ultimately they would get a woman that they can

02:05:07.220 trust that if he dies all of his hard work she's going to do the right thing with it

02:05:13.940 that's basically the only thing that he can get out of he could get a will he could get a he could

02:05:19.240 get a um a trust made a will made to to regulate that without a marriage license i mean he can

02:05:27.980 but they don't look at it the same as a marriage.

02:05:33.220 I personally don't want to stay at home,

02:05:35.460 do all the things that I picture as I would do in a marriage.

02:05:38.620 I don't want to do this man's laundry, make sure he's fed,

02:05:41.660 make sure he's good after work, make sure he has the support he needs,

02:05:44.520 make sure everything else, his family, his mom is all good.

02:05:46.980 If I'm not marrying him, then what's the difference

02:05:48.840 between a man that I'm just with and then a man I'm marrying

02:05:51.400 if there is no difference?

02:05:53.500 I would do those things not just in a relationship with anybody,

02:05:57.980 but with my right and so what I'm saying is like I don't think that men shouldn't marry women I'm

02:06:07.200 saying that my daughters I want them to be women that men genuinely want to marry and that my sons

02:06:16.660 are going to be men that you know women are not going to take advantage of and want to marry just

02:06:25.820 for financial reasons and you know vice versa it seems like the courts are giving a lot of trouble

02:06:33.820 and the the way that the law is maybe set up is is not working for everybody yeah yeah it's very

02:06:40.960 one-sided women get a lot more yeah but do you see like all these things that we're talking about

02:06:47.400 that are donated 100 we have created a false ideology in this world that women are the prize

02:06:54.440 and you all believe it the world would come to a stop without men listen respect follow and obey

02:07:02.120 do you all agree with that or no no obey is crazy follow and obey i agree with that no okay but

02:07:10.700 hold on i do how do you okay i'm sorry claim how do you respect following the world does not exist

02:07:17.680 i can give you a great reason why kid like who like i can give you a great reason why

02:07:23.540 i don't think that no hearing that word obey should be like yeah it's not as harsh as you

02:07:30.780 guys think it is yeah like but it shouldn't because if you make a good decision like i said

02:07:36.900 earlier if we make a good decision marry a good man like this is a good man he provides he protects

02:07:43.120 he takes care of the children like he does everything for us and you trust him he has

02:07:49.320 your best interest at heart he's not going to hurt you like he hasn't hurt you and if he when

02:07:57.520 you hear obey like what do you think this man is asking you to do right with still fear in your

02:08:02.600 heart like what is the fear where you're just like obey what and he just asks hey can you just

02:08:10.000 you know make dinner or something like i just worked or you know it's like simple things it's

02:08:16.100 like but we hear obey and it's like we just asked you to because god i don't know go slap your

02:08:21.060 on that word they've put such a stigma on the word obey society cultures whatever it is and

02:08:27.620 and also donated 100 oh my god this guy ladies would you date brian on one hand he is tall six

02:08:35.020 foot one blue eyes 0.53

02:08:36.920 millionaire only a bit gay but 0.95

02:08:38.840 only a bit gay but he has a strange 0.99

02:08:40.780 liking for big labia pool 0.99

02:08:42.540 has dad got probably autistic

02:08:44.740 and a small pp

02:08:46.360 okay some of those things are true some of those things

02:08:49.020 are not but uh thank you

02:08:50.900 um all right going around the table

02:08:52.620 uh

02:08:53.740 question is would you date me

02:08:56.320 no sorry

02:08:58.760 that's fine I won't be offended

02:09:00.880 no I have hip dips

02:09:03.160 Oh, hip tips.

02:09:04.500 You're hip lit.

02:09:05.320 Okay.

02:09:05.960 On one side.

02:09:07.480 On one side only.

02:09:08.400 Oh, so it's like 50.

02:09:10.280 It's 50-50.

02:09:11.700 I have a big lady on one side too.

02:09:14.200 Actually, are you messing?

02:09:16.400 And on the other side, it's normal.

02:09:18.660 Yeah.

02:09:19.080 Normal.

02:09:19.720 Mm-hmm.

02:09:20.240 Everything.

02:09:20.900 Okay.

02:09:21.020 Hey, there's a deal.

02:09:22.000 The normal side is with hip tips.

02:09:22.920 You can actually see it.

02:09:24.460 There's asymmetry.

02:09:25.740 There's asymmetry.

02:09:26.800 Okay.

02:09:27.080 What about you?

02:09:27.800 No, probably just not aligned interests.

02:09:30.800 Okay.

02:09:31.720 How old are you, if you don't mind me asking?

02:09:33.260 37.

02:09:34.600 Yeah, I would.

02:09:36.460 No.

02:09:40.740 The Arminia stuff threw her off earlier.

02:09:43.740 Honestly, I don't see why not.

02:09:47.260 Cool.

02:09:48.900 It'd be fun to change your mind about a lot of things.

02:09:53.300 Through actions.

02:09:54.940 I would say no, just six shades, two light.

02:09:59.340 Oh, black eyes? 0.74

02:10:01.640 Just anybody of color, but my husband is black, so. 0.88

02:10:05.720 Got it. 0.51

02:10:06.380 I'm too white.

02:10:07.920 I get it.

02:10:08.360 What about you?

02:10:09.340 Yes, 100%.

02:10:10.800 All right.

02:10:11.800 So I got some yeses there.

02:10:13.240 Got some yeses.

02:10:13.980 There you go.

02:10:14.500 I was so confident.

02:10:15.200 100%.

02:10:15.760 Yeah.

02:10:16.300 Got some yeses.

02:10:17.360 Got some yeses.

02:10:18.840 The big labia thing, though, what? 0.61

02:10:21.360 So you said you have a hip dip, and the big labia is on the side of the hip dip?

02:10:26.680 No, the side without the hip dip.

02:10:29.160 Oh.

02:10:29.560 oh wait i have a question what's up with like the hip dips you don't like hip dips

02:10:34.140 oh well that was a meme that was like a meme like a month or two ago

02:10:38.440 like are you asking me if it would be a deal break no yeah i don't care about that okay

02:10:44.480 i was like i don't care about that that's more so that's like a

02:10:48.860 thing to poke fun at uh women who have like height preferences and men yes oh so the hip

02:10:58.680 tip thing is like that's kind of out of women's control i mean you could do training sort of i

02:11:04.100 guess but but so and i guess like so men are insecure about that there can be insecure about

02:11:10.060 their height and this is apparently something women yes i hate my hip tips you got wait stand

02:11:14.640 up no no i'll tell you i'll give you a hip dip rating out of that it's bad okay oh are you doing

02:11:22.440 We're not judging.

02:11:24.060 No judgment at all.

02:11:25.500 Okay.

02:11:26.660 The body's too big.

02:11:28.560 Hold on.

02:11:29.540 You have to turn.

02:11:30.740 Nice.

02:11:31.400 Yeah.

02:11:32.000 Well, you'll make a great friend for somebody.

02:11:39.740 Okay.

02:11:40.420 I mean, she does have great hopes.

02:11:41.940 We can just be friends, okay?

02:11:44.140 That's fine.

02:11:44.760 We can just be friends.

02:11:46.660 I'm too young for you anyways.

02:11:48.100 That's the meme.

02:11:49.020 That's the meme.

02:11:49.940 These guys are friend zoning women because they have to.

02:11:52.180 She did say that she has hoes. 0.94

02:11:54.320 So we got half a big labia. 0.93

02:11:56.180 Does anyone else have a big labia? 0.93

02:11:59.200 Oh, it's, yeah. 0.96

02:12:01.380 It's normal.

02:12:02.700 But you were saying, like, are we talking small, medium?

02:12:07.060 Like your diagram.

02:12:08.460 Huh?

02:12:08.780 Like your diagram.

02:12:10.520 Your diagram?

02:12:11.700 The sandwich.

02:12:14.360 The sandwich.

02:12:16.000 The sandwich.

02:12:17.100 I believe so.

02:12:17.820 When we show the image of the hot dog, or what is it?

02:12:21.920 the hot dog of the roast beef here tiffany pull up the discord the blm thing here while she's

02:12:31.100 doing that uh can you violet can you read this one for me hands up who's been divorced or

02:12:35.960 separated next question keep hands up if you initiated the divorce or separation we went

02:12:40.240 through that uh yeah during the the relationship status but just really quick hands up who's been

02:12:46.660 divorced separated uh and then hands up if you initiated it so does that all of the hands

02:12:58.180 stats check out all right uh political thank you man all right tiffany pull up the discord thing

02:13:03.540 all right so a big labia that's on the left medium medium okay i love the picture what's that 0.57

02:13:14.860 i love innies oh you're bisexual no well i explore but like i would never date a female 0.90

02:13:21.820 wait so now that you've seen the photo who has an audi and who has who has an innie i have an

02:13:28.520 innie and i love my innie i think i love her i don't i'm proud okay nasty what's nasty why

02:13:35.260 it's our natural parts i'm so proud of her i think she's so pretty wait what's that i said

02:13:41.560 as a prude it's our natural parts look i just what i don't like is there's a lot of shaming

02:13:48.780 a lot of shaming language body shaming uh body shaming used to be about things were that were

02:13:54.980 out of your control you know like you should kind of be able to shame fat people like you should be

02:14:00.940 able to shame me like i should be bullied a little bit if you could change it not ruthlessly but like

02:14:05.920 my chat they bully me a little bit because i'm chubby i'm chubby right now and um but body

02:14:11.720 positivity originally was like you have a scar you have something you can't really change 0.98

02:14:16.380 like this could be your height this could be your uh penis size your labia size and i i this is 0.99

02:14:24.060 perhaps my only feminist position is the big labia advocacy big labia matter blm oh yeah how would 1.00

02:14:33.720 people how would men see and then therefore decide whether they want to stay or not like

02:14:38.820 how would you know yeah yeah like you're saying because body shaming you can say someone's this 0.96

02:14:45.200 someone's that and then not date them and how would you know the reverse like a big labia if

02:14:50.640 they don't have a big labia yeah if they do or don't like is anyone rejecting girls i mean i 0.99

02:14:56.820 I feel like I have a preference of, like, what a, like, I've seen, like, good-looking dicks and ugly-looking dicks, but, like, what can they do? 0.99

02:15:07.540 So I'm just like, well, whatever. 0.99

02:15:08.340 Well, I guess it would be the same.

02:15:09.720 So I would say, generally speaking, men prefer innies.

02:15:12.620 I prefer outies.

02:15:14.400 What?

02:15:14.760 Strong preference.

02:15:15.640 Why?

02:15:16.320 Have you not heard the past five minutes?

02:15:19.060 Yes, I have.

02:15:19.920 I'm just asking you, like, why?

02:15:20.700 Now, look, it's not a deal-breaker if she has an innie, but she has to make up for it.

02:15:25.720 Why?

02:15:26.820 Why do you like it?

02:15:27.860 What about it?

02:15:28.560 It's good to you.

02:15:29.220 Oh, boy, I don't know.

02:15:29.860 Like, what about it?

02:15:30.580 Like an accordion?

02:15:31.720 An accordion.

02:15:32.820 Clay donated $100.

02:15:35.620 Chef Seven knows WTF is up.

02:15:38.300 That is exactly what I meant.

02:15:40.560 And all of you would jump in bed with Brian if given the chance, 0.98

02:15:44.260 even though he's fat AF and has a weak beard. 0.93

02:15:47.620 It's not that bad.

02:15:48.120 But you all still won't.

02:15:48.980 It's decent.

02:15:51.540 Okay.

02:15:52.180 Weak beard?

02:15:52.860 I feel like I got, like, it's not, like,

02:15:56.200 seven ten out of ten beard but i think i've got like a six my beard's like a six i think i don't

02:16:03.220 know but uh i don't know what was your question the labia thing yeah like what about it entices

02:16:09.540 you is it the look the feeling like uh yeah i would say it's both it's visually aesthetically

02:16:16.480 and then feeling are you an eater oh my god you know that's the first time i've heard a man say

02:16:22.360 that i know they prefer yeah well that that's what i was saying is i think most men majority 0.98

02:16:27.760 of men prefer innies but i'm over here in solidarity with my big labia queens at the

02:16:34.000 table that's right i support you guys i support you guys and if we disagree on everything tonight

02:16:39.620 just know we disagreed with everything else at least you can be like you know that brian guy

02:16:45.700 he's not so bad you know he he's a he he's a defender but you're i think you're asking

02:16:53.500 something i definitely think like women will if like the the d isn't good they'll not date the

02:16:59.220 guy but i think i do think that there are some men who will i think men aren't quite as harsh

02:17:04.780 on the genitalia thing but i do think there are probably some men who will not date a girl if she

02:17:09.540 has an outie wow yeah i think 99 99 percent of men will date in any though i'm pretty sure but

02:17:15.520 i've turned down women look it's not a deal breaker but sometimes you got to be honest

02:17:23.020 with somebody be like i have to have an i have to have an outie she shows it to you and you're

02:17:27.460 like nope but you haven't even done the deed yet and like without even you're saying no or there

02:17:33.640 or women are saying no to just by looking i don't think that's fair what do you mean

02:17:39.300 like i'm comparing like a woman looks at a guy and he she's like not my type or too small or not

02:17:47.580 girthy enough whatever it is and then a guy looks and says oh she's an eddie but at any but i prefer

02:17:53.080 audi or vice versa you haven't even gone to the finish line together maybe it's fantastic and

02:17:59.940 you're pre-judging and not even trying because it's going to take a couple you know okay definitely

02:18:05.880 laps to what bouncing off of that what was the amount of research you had to go through to like

02:18:13.300 be like okay i'm a hundred percent on the audi voting for what reason how did you the preference

02:18:22.740 like how did that come across how many like how did you find that out that for yourself you just

02:18:28.780 see one and you were like whoa you want the origin story because yeah it's just such a strong opinion

02:18:35.140 it makes like this is the first i've heard well it's okay i lost my virginity i think at 17 18

02:18:41.340 and then uh i don't think i developed this liking until i was maybe 20 21

02:18:49.060 uh i can't tell you if there was a specific thing um

02:18:53.980 i just i can't tell you like the precise pinpoint this there was this one girl or you know i saw

02:19:04.320 this picture this nude picture online i probably just experienced it with one girl and i was like

02:19:10.760 oh this is kind of better do you like arby's that's exactly like you eat at arby's i don't

02:19:21.580 eat at arby's but i i was just saying if there was maybe you just liked arby's so much it's just

02:19:26.840 like he wants arby's in bed home delivered now it's the bigger the better though because now

02:19:32.860 we did the looks ratings and so i have a a looks rating adjustment scale if she has an audi so for

02:19:41.040 example it goes like this say she has a small audi there's there's small medium large xl and like

02:19:47.900 we're talking biggest i've ever seen guinness world record book jumbo jumbo xxl so if she has

02:19:55.920 a small Audi plus one, medium Audi

02:19:57.980 plus two, large Audi plus three,

02:20:00.340 XL Audi plus four,

02:20:02.880 jumbo Audi

02:20:04.140 plus five.

02:20:07.120 So a girl could go

02:20:08.020 from a four, but if she has

02:20:09.920 a giant Audi, she's a

02:20:11.960 nine in my eyes, in my

02:20:14.020 book. That's hilarious.

02:20:15.500 I'm too bad at math. Because you only have

02:20:17.880 one, it would get cut in half.

02:20:20.560 Okay, so I'm a five.

02:20:21.660 Five and a half. Something like that.

02:20:23.500 something like that but uh okay anyways um i don't know how where how did we yeah

02:20:29.140 a big labia so you you and then you or no

02:20:35.920 um i guess medium i'll okay there it is there it is it's just uh look if i was president 1.00

02:20:44.040 if i was president the fucking first thing i do executive order i ban the surgery because women 0.81

02:20:52.260 can get surgery to cut it called labiaplasty so i'm gonna master purchased whatever 7x mug for 0.98

02:20:59.500 $29.99 that's new cheers to my favorite podcast uh thank you looks like you got something at the

02:21:07.120 merch store there appreciate it man all right let's do some uh more questionnaire stuff so

02:21:11.580 So we have, what's a good one?

02:21:19.160 We have, hold on, Victoria.

02:21:24.860 You say women do not have equal rights to men in the USA.

02:21:27.840 Why is that?

02:21:29.320 Because we have more.

02:21:31.560 Oh, okay.

02:21:32.180 So we don't disagree.

02:21:33.340 That's good.

02:21:33.880 I don't disagree.

02:21:34.620 I believe we have more rights.

02:21:37.840 More rights.

02:21:38.520 Okay.

02:21:41.580 then I'm gonna skip that one

02:21:44.640 though

02:21:45.000 let's see if there's anything

02:21:48.640 else that caught my eye

02:21:49.940 destiny

02:21:53.460 a woman should not be rejected because of her

02:21:56.520 weight

02:21:56.960 why is that

02:21:59.280 I don't know can we talk about that

02:22:02.660 though yeah yeah can we talk about that

02:22:04.300 I just think personality goes a long way

02:22:06.240 what you said

02:22:07.000 about the lady or no the weight thing

02:22:10.660 oh yeah sorry i cut you off babe i'm so sorry no that's okay go on here can you

02:22:15.700 yeah you you yeah you were going i just i just think personality is a big thing like i don't

02:22:20.380 know i don't look at people's bodies and i'm like i just like people for who they are sure and i

02:22:27.060 think people have varying levels of importance across various factors so someone might like

02:22:33.840 overly prioritize looks. Someone might overly prioritize humor, money, success, personality,

02:22:42.740 whatever it is. There are men, women who are prioritized from things differently,

02:22:46.560 but acknowledging that there are people who do prioritize looks, do you think it's wrong for them

02:22:52.900 to, and that a woman could also like women who would otherwise be interested in me if I was like

02:23:00.060 50 pounds lighter probably reject me because i'm i'm chubby at the moment so um do you think it's

02:23:08.720 wrong like if a woman didn't want to date me they're like i would date you brian but you're fat

02:23:13.280 i don't think that's wrong i don't think it's wrong i don't think it's wrong i think people

02:23:17.980 can have their preference why is like why is it bad to have a preference or the end of the day i

02:23:23.380 look at someone if you are overweight that makes me think like you don't even care about yourself

02:23:28.260 enough to like feel better look better like you don't even like love yourself enough to be

02:23:35.460 better i don't know we live in a culture that's just we want to be soft you know we always like

02:23:41.940 look at people like oh we don't want to hurt their feelings we don't want to offend them but then

02:23:45.460 i think we should just be more open yeah i mean if a guy told me straight up like hey like i

02:23:49.960 wouldn't be with you because i'd be like respects to you cool yeah i don't take offense about it

02:23:55.480 either i was almost 200 pounds and um i lost a lot of weight but during that time i was having

02:24:04.640 like lots of health issues from like my blood sugars to my like kidney to like my periods being

02:24:11.780 off just like a whole bunch of stuff going on and every time i went to the doctor for these issues 0.95

02:24:17.920 it was different meds different you know stuff but nobody was being like bitch like just lose 0.72

02:24:26.200 some weight and I'm pretty sure like you'll be fine yeah and like nobody was saying that and I 0.82

02:24:31.660 became blind to the fact that I was even had gotten so big yeah and when I started to lose

02:24:38.700 a lot of weight I would look back at pictures and I was like yeah I wasn't the same like

02:24:43.440 if somebody would just have told me like hey you I'm not being a hater I'm genuinely saying like

02:24:51.680 yeah I used to be really overweight as well like extremely overweight and then I finally lost the

02:24:58.600 weight and I was like oh I do look better I feel better I get hit on more like it's and you just

02:25:06.700 feel so much better about yourself you know you walk around and I mean when I was bigger

02:25:11.020 same thing I wasn't like thinking like I was this big up until I went from like 155 to 115

02:25:18.720 I put them side by side it's like whoa that was a big difference well and my husband supported me

02:25:24.940 like every way and I was like I would show him pictures and he's like I didn't even know that

02:25:28.940 like you even look that way he's like I've just always seen you like how you look now

02:25:34.380 but he definitely was encouraging um to be like yeah I should if you want to lose weight go for

02:25:40.760 Who here is on birth control?

02:25:44.580 Birth control?

02:25:45.760 Birth control.

02:25:46.300 Anybody else?

02:25:48.180 I have a question.

02:25:48.880 Who's, maybe you're not on it now.

02:25:51.200 Have you been on it in the past?

02:25:52.720 Yes.

02:25:55.180 Question, and I've heard maybe there's studies on this.

02:25:58.760 Have you guys noticed a change in the type of men you're attracted to when you're on birth control?

02:26:09.560 Yes.

02:26:10.760 also okay i was on um birth control when i was almost in my four-year relationship um

02:26:18.760 and as soon as i got off of it yeah that's when i was just like

02:26:24.040 oh hell no like this is what i was with i heard that birth control makes you attracted to

02:26:28.920 a lot more feminine kind of men what i don't know yeah it makes you attracted to more feminine

02:26:35.880 kind of men it can i guess yeah it really can it really depends on what it is in the dosage

02:26:41.880 yeah because the kind of guys i was like into during it versus now i'm on a non-hormonal birth

02:26:47.820 control are completely different so then again i don't know if that just comes with age and time

02:26:53.420 and preference so who knows can i ask you something i've heard that birth control also

02:26:58.840 has like weight fluctuations associated with it did you deal with that yeah that's when i got

02:27:04.880 that's when I got like really overweight

02:27:07.060 but I think people misinterpret

02:27:09.360 like birth control doesn't make you gain weight

02:27:11.180 it just increases your appetite and if you don't

02:27:13.260 know how to control your appetite then you're gonna

02:27:15.140 gain weight so if you just

02:27:17.300 have it under control and you like

02:27:18.700 regulate yourself you're not gonna gain weight off

02:27:21.260 it's adding some trust in

02:27:22.640 yeah it's just discipline

02:27:24.220 it's just people get more like girls get way more hungry on me

02:27:27.000 and they're like I got fat off birth control

02:27:28.940 well it's like

02:27:30.740 control

02:27:31.500 we got you here you said that uh leda wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly

02:27:43.120 turns him down for sex why is that wrong well okay first of all my name is lada not leda

02:27:50.160 oh okay i'm gonna pass that well what's that okay i'll pass that moment what was the question 0.83

02:27:58.880 I don't know. You should have told your parents not to name you an ambiguously pronounced name.

02:28:06.520 I know that's a car brand, but that's okay.

02:28:09.340 I don't even know what you're talking about.

02:28:11.680 There's a car brand named Lada.

02:28:14.400 I mean, the Armenians, they know.

02:28:16.400 You guys want to hear a funny story?

02:28:18.660 I just slept with a new girl.

02:28:20.660 This was, I don't know, five, six years ago. 0.99

02:28:23.740 And her name was, fuck, I'm trying to remember what it was. 0.98

02:28:28.880 Mercedes, Porsche. 0.99

02:28:30.640 I'll spell it.

02:28:31.860 K-A-R-A.

02:28:35.960 Now this can be pronounced Cara or Cara. 0.94

02:28:42.880 Shortly after having sex for the first time, I followed up with her.

02:28:48.260 I knew how to spell it.

02:28:49.520 I knew what.

02:28:51.140 I asked.

02:28:52.020 I was like, hey, just remind me.

02:28:53.140 How do you pronounce the name?

02:28:55.120 Is it Cara or Cara?

02:28:56.940 I think she said it was Cara.

02:28:58.880 i think who knows she was not happy and i never saw her again i know exactly why because

02:29:09.200 i i reached out she was like i was upset that you didn't get my pronunciation right i was like

02:29:15.920 but you asked no that's valid to get it right he just said that he asked after

02:29:22.000 after he asked after he already had an intercourse he didn't want to miss

02:29:27.600 correctly he just it's not that big of a deal she shouldn't dump him over something so petty

02:29:34.160 maybe he wasn't serious until after the intercourse he started to get her name

02:29:39.220 no i knew well i knew her name i knew how to spell it i was just like pronunciation remind me like

02:29:45.960 is it cara or kara she got so upset no i mean i still hit you're right after it would be weird

02:29:56.100 for him to ask after you're right he just didn't ask the timing yeah because he should have waited

02:30:02.380 like a day or two like he didn't want to mess his situation he's like oh i'm already almost

02:30:06.220 got it it was 30 minutes post ejaculation okay i think that's fair 30 minutes it wasn't

02:30:13.720 It wasn't during the ejection.

02:30:15.820 That's okay, but that's fair.

02:30:18.200 Like, you could have waited until, like, the next day.

02:30:21.860 I had a question.

02:30:23.180 Oh, my gosh.

02:30:24.220 Yeah, low-key.

02:30:25.040 That would hurt my feelings.

02:30:25.840 Oh, come on, guys.

02:30:26.840 Yeah.

02:30:30.920 I don't know.

02:30:32.180 Chat, who's in the room?

02:30:33.300 You know how this could be nuanced a little bit?

02:30:35.100 If she was from a Serbian or Russian country, kind of, or a Slavic country, depends on,

02:30:41.420 like, Gaara, right?

02:30:42.780 We don't have Gaara.

02:30:43.720 here do we have kuh we don't have a a like an american a yeah we have ah so i mean it's like

02:30:49.840 it's not it's so petty to even get upset about that because he's like maybe she's an ethnic

02:30:54.060 woman that he's never even heard that type of so you're on his side i am i know the point is it

02:30:59.920 happened directly after sex she's smart okay yes maybe tiny bit insensitive so if someone sleeps

02:31:06.260 with you and then they're like how do i pronounce your name it's kind of like yeah it's just a

02:31:10.020 little like unnecessary like you could have waited or just like just tell me something else

02:31:14.020 but she shouldn't have broken up with him is what i'm saying look hold on and maybe this is

02:31:19.600 gonna be gaslighting her parents are to blame okay i have a rule you should not name people 0.96

02:31:27.500 like the pronunciation should not be ambiguous those names are fucking terrible there should be 0.96

02:31:33.180 there's not multiple ways to pronounce brian there's one way yeah later lada see it's almost 0.98

02:31:40.140 the same the two ways it fucks shit up that's very different let me ask you if a guy did that 0.99

02:31:45.460 to you you he just fucked you and then and then he's like hey hey um it's l-a-d-a but um is it 1.00

02:31:55.440 lada or lada no i'm not there no i'm like leaving it's over it's over that's crazy because look 0.99

02:32:01.820 here's my philosophy if you've been inside a woman she should be attached to you and for her to so

02:32:08.360 easily be like detach herself attached to you no yeah she should be attached just because you slept

02:32:14.980 with her she should be attached well look i know you're cooked but i yes i think if you've had sex

02:32:20.840 with somebody that's an intimate thing that is and women who are just like over like small things or

02:32:29.500 complete nothings are willing to walk away exactly that's defective you should it is defective

02:32:35.420 also how quickly did she sleep with you that's also a variable i think it was the second date

02:32:40.520 we've been talking for a while though man i don't i think if actually never you know what

02:32:48.000 i don't know i've never i've had some okay i've had guys be like oh i know that if i sleep with

02:32:55.120 you you'll get attached to me what why why do you think because you sleep with you sleep or we sleep

02:33:01.220 together i'm gonna get attached to you i don't care like bye yeah you're defective why does that

02:33:06.340 make me defective isn't that a good thing if no it's not a good thing because men always tell me

02:33:11.040 oh i can't stand when girls get attached to me after i sleep with them well that's defective

02:33:15.260 that's what should happen that's defective in men but no children so i think that uh if look people 0.82

02:33:20.980 do engage in casual sex me personally if i have sex with a woman my intention i'm not interested

02:33:26.700 in the one-time thing i'm not interested in like a one-night stand if i choose to have sex with a

02:33:32.080 woman this is a woman i'm interested in i want to continue seeing her i want there to be continuity

02:33:36.860 exactly but but this idea that like if a woman has sex with a man and she just

02:33:43.200 can just move on and not have any attachment to that man there's something broken okay i have a

02:33:51.640 question is this your your mindset like from the moment when you first lost your virginity to now

02:33:57.120 you're telling me you never just had like hookups or one-night stands well even a hookup you're kind

02:34:03.480 of attaching them in some way like either mentally like what you're going through the same moment

02:34:08.220 you're like oh i need that's absolutely different i've i've had very minimal casual strictly casual 0.80

02:34:16.500 um like my my goal going in is almost never i'm just gonna have sex with her once that's all i 0.94

02:34:25.340 want first off it's a waste of time it is it's a waste of time what's the point oh i'm gonna 0.99

02:34:29.320 especially for the guy i'm gonna do all this shit i'm gonna fucking text and talk and schedule dates 0.98

02:34:35.680 and try to do all this shit just to fuck you once no for and also even if i was even if the 1.00

02:34:42.320 motivation was sex the best sex you're going to have is in a relationship and continuous exactly 1.00

02:34:48.160 like exactly like when you're comfortable with each other when you know what each other is like

02:34:52.660 yes exactly consistency yes how to please you of course it is that's why yeah can i say something

02:34:59.680 Okay, exactly. My point right there. For just a random hookup, there's no emotion there or connection there or really chemistry there.

02:35:08.960 So why am I going to get attached to that person?

02:35:10.740 The only time I've ever gotten a little bit attached and been like, damn, that one kind of hurt, is when there was that connection bill, emotion bill. 0.86

02:35:20.280 It's not just a hookup. 0.96

02:35:21.620 So I feel like saying even if I were to just hook up with the man for one night and for me to be attached to him, hell no.

02:35:28.180 I mean, unless I knew him and there was, like, chemistry there, and I don't know.

02:35:34.280 But your motives are different, and what you want for the future and the next day and the next day, it's probably different.

02:35:41.840 Well, also keep in mind the context of this conversation was this girl who, absent my comment about how she pronounces her name,

02:35:51.620 uh she at least my impression and my intentions I didn't want to just sleep with her once I wanted

02:36:00.380 to keep seeing her I assume she also wanted that but some people have things that give them the

02:36:08.320 ick or upset them but did you have a conversation with her prior about okay I'm looking for

02:36:15.040 something and I don't just see you as a hookup was those like conversations set before she ghosted

02:36:20.300 you yeah we we had a conversation about intentions okay well then okay so then i can understand like

02:36:27.080 but my point was once we did have sex and our intention was for more i think she got hung up

02:36:35.260 on even if you say i have i'm five percent wrong ten percent wrong it's a pretty minor thing

02:36:41.560 i would probably argue it's like slightly like but i think women should temper their neuroticism

02:36:49.820 and it's like okay sometimes a guy will say something that is somewhat offensive or whatever

02:36:58.020 are you going every single time a guy says something that you know is it really you're

02:37:03.000 going to have a fight over it you're going to end we weren't in a relationship but we were you know

02:37:08.260 starting something yes exactly yeah like proportion so in this case i was like

02:37:13.180 i think if i've been inside of you i get to mispronounce your name

02:37:18.740 i feel like it should be but why are you saying it like see you're provoking us though i understand

02:37:24.800 you have you have a very nice idea of where you're going with this because you want consistency and

02:37:29.640 you don't want them to be a little brat and a little kid and be like hey look i'm sorry i

02:37:33.400 didn't mean it like that i really do like you i'm sorry i mispronounced your name and she shouldn't

02:37:37.300 have just stormed off after that one thing and ended the relationship which could have possibly

02:37:42.380 been really good so much room for communication in that it's just yeah and pettiness and childish

02:37:47.580 behavior can i just bring up how like this was so long ago and it still like hurts you just a

02:37:53.500 little bit because he really liked her probably i mean i i don't think i'm not really hurt by it

02:37:58.540 i think it's kind of funny but no i don't funny now i don't think i'm not her it's just like a

02:38:03.560 little like you remember that it's a little thing yeah no i mean i don't think i have like anything

02:38:09.640 bad to say about her i don't think there's there's hurt there i've been broken up with i've been

02:38:17.060 rejected it's not um it doesn't really bother me but uh as a topic of conversation on a dating

02:38:26.420 discussion podcast i do think sometimes like women will uh just like sometimes arbitrarily

02:38:36.600 end something over something minor and then it's like especially look here's my philosophy

02:38:43.100 if i've had sex with a woman say i pull back a little bit she should not she should try to fight

02:38:52.300 a little bit to to keep it going because in her mind she should think oh great i don't want to

02:38:58.600 do this again i don't want to get another this is just another body i think a woman if she's 0.86

02:39:03.360 fucked a guy and you know she wanted something long-term he won something long-term she should 0.97

02:39:11.440 have apprehension of just walking away like it's nothing she should want to fight to continue 0.99

02:39:18.880 seeing you but that goes both ways though maybe maybe that's super blue-pilled and idealistic

02:39:23.600 men self-sabotage their own relationships potentially very good ones from the get-go

02:39:29.200 they don't even give it a chance they don't let it blossom they don't let it move forward

02:39:32.620 yes women do it too because they get the ache and they're like oh my god i can't anymore and

02:39:36.740 it's over something like oh he had a little something on his nose hair that was sticking

02:39:41.040 like something tiny like that and they will just like hyper concentrate on that and be like i can't 0.92

02:39:46.980 date him anymore because he had a little extra earwax something stupid you know what i mean i

02:39:50.860 mean i'm sorry i'm giving you guys a nick but what i'm trying to say is he's blaming women but it 0.94

02:39:55.420 could go both ways because men and things like that after sleeping with someone and they go

02:40:00.220 they don't communicate she wants but she doesn't want to sound desperate i'm not gonna lie i get

02:40:06.140 more attached to a man that I

02:40:08.020 haven't slept with yet

02:40:09.720 than with a man that I have slept with.

02:40:12.500 What?

02:40:13.220 I don't know.

02:40:17.500 You should see it there, Chris.

02:40:19.840 So how are you attached to him?

02:40:22.020 You never have to.

02:40:22.700 Okay, I'm talking about, let's say, me and this man,

02:40:25.780 we were going out on dates,

02:40:27.560 and we were hanging out a lot,

02:40:30.240 and cute little stuff,

02:40:31.380 going to the beach late at night,

02:40:32.720 and it was all more not lustful. 0.99

02:40:34.800 Let me cut through the bullshit. 1.00

02:40:36.820 I'm going to cut through the bullshit. 1.00

02:40:39.260 If I have been inside a woman, 1.00

02:40:42.840 if a woman has had sex with me, 0.98

02:40:45.880 she should be attached to me.

02:40:48.880 She should want to fight to be with me.

02:40:51.580 But what are you doing to hold on to her, too? 0.95

02:40:54.040 I'm fucking amazing. 0.98

02:40:55.440 Okay. 0.99

02:40:56.020 Brian, stop.

02:40:57.960 Brian?

02:40:58.600 Okay, a question for you.

02:40:59.000 The sperm swims to the egg.

02:41:00.840 Yeah, not the other way.

02:41:01.780 No, no, no, but hold on.

02:41:03.240 Hold on.

02:41:03.580 Look, I'm not saying that, look, I mean, I don't mind if a woman makes the first move.

02:41:08.620 That's not what I'm talking about.

02:41:10.180 I'm saying that the woman should fight to keep the thing, the relationship, the whatever, whatever is going on.

02:41:18.960 If you have sex with a woman and she can just like, it means nothing to her, dysfunction in the brain. 0.65

02:41:26.520 Dysfunctional. 0.97

02:41:27.200 Yes.

02:41:27.500 And honestly, this is going to be a bit, well, okay. 0.99

02:41:31.840 If I have sex with a woman 0.98

02:41:33.780 This is okay 0.99

02:41:35.780 Maybe I'm a little extreme

02:41:36.880 She should never date another guy after me

02:41:40.440 You're lying

02:41:41.040 I know you don't mean that

02:41:43.240 That's romantic

02:41:43.900 If I have sex 0.99

02:41:45.260 Look if I have sex with a woman 0.78

02:41:46.900 And we're dating even for three months 0.95

02:41:48.560 You wait for me

02:41:52.240 You join a nunnery

02:41:54.200 You're on a cliff

02:41:56.240 You're on a cliff

02:41:57.720 That's cute Brian

02:41:58.960 You're on a cliff

02:41:59.580 Okay, and what are you doing to be on that type of level

02:42:02.860 to be waited for?

02:42:04.160 No, it's not about me. It's about how the women

02:42:06.600 should be. That's how women should be.

02:42:09.640 And you're just providing

02:42:10.800 mid-sex?

02:42:12.540 Who said anything about mid-sex?

02:42:14.660 The sex is... Fantastic?

02:42:16.840 Well, sometimes there's

02:42:18.600 what's it called? Some people don't have

02:42:20.660 So are you going to be allowed to

02:42:22.400 date and do what you want to do and she's not?

02:42:25.140 When did I say that?

02:42:26.320 Okay, because you just said...

02:42:28.460 Okay, she's going to wait.

02:42:30.140 Rephrase what you just said.

02:42:31.880 No, look, I think she should be on a cliffside overlooking the ocean like I went on a voyage on a boat.

02:42:38.700 She should be waiting for me to come back.

02:42:41.900 She should be looking for the boat, me on the boat.

02:42:44.660 And what are you doing?

02:42:46.100 He's sailing away. 1.00

02:42:47.380 You're fucking bitches? 1.00

02:42:48.640 I'm pillaging villages. 1.00

02:42:51.220 Yeah, he's a Viking. 1.00

02:42:52.540 I'm a fucking pirate and a Viking. 1.00

02:42:55.080 No, I'm not waiting for that. 1.00

02:42:57.400 Anyways, I don't know.

02:42:58.320 i'm being silly with that one i'm being silly there okay let's see what else do we have uh 0.59

02:43:02.940 there was one from lada uh people of color can't be racist towards white people can be what can't 0.92

02:43:10.180 can't so okay you typically hear this like black people can't cannot be racist towards white people

02:43:17.920 so is that what you think i thought i said can like well okay so black people can yes

02:43:28.120 can be racist towards white people?

02:43:29.980 Yes. Probably. What do you mean probably?

02:43:32.420 I mean, everyone has

02:43:33.620 an opinion. It does say can't here, though.

02:43:36.060 Biased. Okay, what's your opinion?

02:43:39.800 My opinion on what specifically?

02:43:44.300 Do you believe that black people

02:43:45.940 can be racist towards white people? 0.96

02:43:48.700 Yeah, I believe they can.

02:43:50.940 Okay, so you

02:43:51.540 incorrectly perhaps circled

02:43:54.060 this.

02:43:55.660 Okay, let's get back into some of the show

02:43:57.880 notes here we're gonna do show notes uh let's see we have uh hold on i wanted to come to

02:44:07.760 one sec uh annie you don't like the body count question oh no i don't why is that

02:44:16.780 i don't know i think it's nasty like asking it or i don't know just the i guess hearing about it

02:44:26.640 i don't know i guess no just were you disgusted when these women were sharing their body count

02:44:32.600 like the strumpets that they are no but you know like the fact that it's like a leading conversation

02:44:38.940 now like what's your body count like i've never been in such an environment before

02:44:43.800 here's a good question on this here's a good question i'm not going anywhere would you be

02:44:49.480 offended i know obviously look whatever podcast it's a dating discussion podcast let's say you're

02:44:55.340 on a date with a guy first date and he has communicated you know he's interested in you

02:45:03.740 he's long-term whatever and you like him and i don't know some point later on in the night

02:45:09.900 he asks so what's your body count do you do you answer do you answer truthfully

02:45:18.300 uh and are you upset or is it a deal breaker or something like that i would ask him his first

02:45:25.460 to answer this question first so you could adjust yours um no to see what type of man he is like if

02:45:31.260 he's a virgin that i'm gonna be like okay i'm gonna tell the truth but i'm just gonna be like 0.55

02:45:34.780 damn he probably wouldn't he probably wants a virgin but i'll probably make assumptions about 0.97

02:45:39.760 him based off of his number um yeah i would probably say the truth especially if i you know 0.99

02:45:43.780 i don't want to lie to someone that i'm getting involved with so yeah i would tell the truth i

02:45:49.220 fully believe in telling the truth i don't like sugarcoating answers and i've had men

02:45:53.160 get upset when i tell me uh i'm gonna change the question would you be taken aback if a man did

02:45:59.960 ask that on the first date would it be like a bit off-putting i asked him first oh you asked your

02:46:05.640 husband oh i just asked everyone like you go to starbucks yeah yeah i mean like hey i'm very

02:46:13.760 nosy so i'm gonna want to know taking it back i'm 50 50 um i'm really for people that are very

02:46:23.320 like they're open about what they want sexually at first in relationship and um it's harder with

02:46:29.400 a couple gets together and then it's physically incompatible compatible so you know i think it

02:46:35.860 really matters i think the same if i don't have a reason not to trust that person yet with that

02:46:42.580 information then sure like why not off-putting it's very off-putting for a first date doesn't

02:46:49.600 mean i'm not going to tell you but i want to get to know you i want you to get to know me and then

02:46:54.440 i will be honest with you if i feel like you deserve that honesty if a guy asked me on the

02:46:59.940 first date what my body count is first i do want to answer your first question hell yes i'm gonna

02:47:05.560 lie every time second wait did you lie yes wait what did she what did you say your body count was

02:47:12.180 12.

02:47:13.940 So it's higher.

02:47:17.200 Multiply it by three, and that's the real number. 0.95

02:47:19.840 But I wouldn't be like, ew, you're fucking weird because you asked me if I didn't count. 0.86

02:47:24.360 I'm not saying. 0.97

02:47:25.560 Well, how about this?

02:47:26.280 Is it over 50?

02:47:27.840 I don't remember, honestly.

02:47:29.640 That's a yes.

02:47:30.580 Is it over 100?

02:47:32.420 No.

02:47:33.200 50 to 100?

02:47:34.440 No.

02:47:35.140 50 to 100?

02:47:36.020 40 to 60.

02:47:37.920 40 to 70?

02:47:38.620 Somewhere 40 to 60.

02:47:39.540 No.

02:47:40.240 Definitely.

02:47:40.760 We haven't hit 70s yet.

02:47:41.600 Sure.

02:47:42.180 not yet 40 to 60 okay all right what do you think maybe not in those words but maybe like you know

02:47:49.440 not like what's your body count but like uh how many you know relationships have you had or have

02:47:54.040 you slept with a lot of people sort of yeah next um i've always answered truthfully to everybody 0.77

02:48:00.260 that's asked i mean i don't care i'll fucking tell them all the details of every one of them 0.99

02:48:06.100 i'm open i don't care she's open she's open there you go to talk good shit good shit uh okay let's 0.99

02:48:13.820 get into the pre-show notes we have we did some of them already hold on we got courtney 0.98

02:48:21.660 had some good stuff but she left because of medical uh we have zell

02:48:27.800 you uh okay uh what to tell your friends versus not to tell your friends

02:48:40.020 while being in a relationship so you're talking about like intimate details yes yes okay yeah i

02:48:47.940 want to know more like should people kind of restrain some facts about your relationship to

02:48:55.180 your best friends or should you just kind of yes think so well i think this is more so something

02:49:03.360 women do the gal pal group the girl gossip men do it too very the very next day women more so than 0.98

02:49:12.200 men but the very next day okay how big was the dick blah blah you guys share very intimate details 0.99

02:49:17.860 look i can't speak for all men i can know at least for myself uh first off my friend wouldn't 0.96

02:49:25.520 know i wouldn't tell him even if we had set like he wouldn't know uh if he says hey how'd it go 0.61

02:49:33.620 with even if he knew that i was on a date with fucking gertrude hey how was it with gertrude 0.98

02:49:38.180 i'd be like oh it's good and we could add crazy wild sex he wouldn't know uh i will say men will 0.99

02:49:47.100 do this more so than women i don't know how common it is but i think it's wrong uh like showing your

02:49:54.040 friend like if a girl sends you nudes sharing like that's wrong that's 100 wrong men maybe do

02:50:00.440 that more than the gossip i don't know but like women will sit down with their girl group the 0.91

02:50:04.800 very next day no share the dick size share the details tell me the details so my expectation

02:50:12.860 for a woman would be and this would be mutual any intimate details

02:50:18.420 that's 100 private anything that that's like intimate like that both ways 100 i would never

02:50:27.680 tell a friend or anybody anything like any intimate details that's my expectation on the

02:50:32.720 woman too exactly you're not gonna got like imagine i meet this girl's friends and it's 0.95

02:50:38.620 disrespect like they know about my like dick that's weird it's disrespectful yes i've known 0.99

02:50:44.500 her for 10 years not once have we shared that kind of detail no dick not like that no never 0.99

02:50:49.160 never asked no i've never okay performance any of that yeah go ahead you say everything 0.97

02:50:54.820 so when i'm like one of my hoes his best friend came to me and told me he was like hey so and so 0.56

02:51:04.140 said you had some fire-ass 1.00

02:51:06.340 pussy. And I took that as 1.00

02:51:08.320 a compliment. I'm like,

02:51:09.840 thank you.

02:51:12.200 I don't know. I feel like

02:51:14.260 if a guy went to his homies

02:51:15.840 or if I went to my girlfriend's, I

02:51:18.180 really don't care. As long as you're

02:51:20.260 not saying my shit stink, my shit 1.00

02:51:22.300 was trash, 1.00

02:51:23.940 then I'm going to be like, damn. 1.00

02:51:26.300 But if he's over here like, 0.99

02:51:28.460 oh yeah, I had her doing backflips

02:51:30.140 on it, whatever, whatever. Cool.

02:51:31.240 Well, yeah, certainly if the feedback or what they're telling is positive,

02:51:36.500 that's better than if it's negative.

02:51:38.460 I still think it's not appropriate to share.

02:51:43.840 Speaking of you, you do OnlyFans, you do boy-girl content?

02:51:50.700 I have boy-girl content, yes.

02:51:52.700 Have you escorted?

02:51:54.500 No. 0.84

02:51:55.620 Prostitution?

02:51:56.480 No. 0.99

02:51:57.060 Stripping?

02:51:57.560 Yes.

02:51:57.940 i just got i was just a stripper the whole set i stopped stripping in yeah wait you wrote that

02:52:04.740 you're single and in situation ships plural yes so listen i'm not gonna just talk to one guy

02:52:13.860 and then like him leave me and then like i'm wholess like i gotta keep my roster open i gotta

02:52:20.580 keep them because then what if i get bored like i i've been in situations where one hoe don't want

02:52:26.600 to hang out one night so then i hit up the other ones and whoever responds first i go with that

02:52:31.280 are you afraid to be alone excuse me oh no i love being alone i don't want to date i don't 0.77

02:52:39.420 want to be in a relationship that's just the sex then it's no i don't even have sex wait question 0.97

02:52:44.200 have you ever had sex with two guys in a 24-hour period uh i've had a threesome with two guys 1.00

02:52:51.900 no but separately no so you fuck jim bob on tuesday and then 4 p.m and then you fuck gonzalez 0.99

02:53:00.180 at 10 p.m no because okay this is gonna y'all are not gonna believe me but i really do not 1.00

02:53:05.860 have a lot of sex i don't like sex i'm just because i'm like i just you're a fucking liar 0.98

02:53:11.480 i know i know i know it seems like it but i genuinely just think men are so sexy and i just 0.99

02:53:17.600 want to be around sexy men. I don't

02:53:19.680 want to fuck. And not have sex with them. No. 1.00

02:53:21.580 They're sexy, but not have sex. That is crazy. 0.92

02:53:23.240 I don't have a, what is it, a sex drive? I don't have a 0.79

02:53:25.580 sex drive. I don't get horny. 0.96

02:53:27.820 Like, how do you make content? Are you not aroused when you're

02:53:29.480 making your, like, OF?

02:53:31.200 Well, a lot of my content is, like,

02:53:33.680 solo content. So it's with

02:53:35.500 toys and custom videos that

02:53:37.520 they want from me, like, 0.85

02:53:39.280 jerking off instructions. 0.99

02:53:41.880 A, she was a hooah.

02:53:43.400 B, she was a hooah.

02:53:44.940 My content is mostly

02:53:46.800 Just me, myself, and I

02:53:48.560 Okay

02:53:48.900 Moving on

02:53:50.900 You were talking to this guy for three weeks

02:53:53.800 And you spent thousands of dollars on him

02:53:55.480 Yes

02:53:55.940 And he ghosted you

02:53:56.940 Yes

02:53:58.300 How much did you spend?

02:54:02.580 Oh my god

02:54:03.320 Oh my god

02:54:05.680 Probably like $8,000

02:54:06.920 And he bought you McDonald's a few times?

02:54:11.040 One time

02:54:11.480 That's it?

02:54:12.480 Twice, actually

02:54:13.360 yeah uh why like were you simping were you down bad no because i had been okay i'm gonna try to

02:54:23.380 wrap it up quick but i was single for a really long time talking having hoes whatever and this

02:54:27.940 was the first guy that i had met that actually made my commitment issues not exist like i actually

02:54:32.360 was like i would settle down with him i would take him serious i would drop everybody for this guy

02:54:37.900 and i had not felt that in so long that i was like whoa this is a weird feeling for me i actually like

02:54:42.700 you and i don't really like catch feelings or like care about men like that like i care about

02:54:47.940 them but catch feelings for them to be in relationships with them so when i met this

02:54:51.820 guy i was like oh i'll do anything anything for you and uh he ended up being like oh i don't want

02:54:58.300 nothing serious and the guys that like you you don't like them and the guys you like don't like

02:55:06.240 you i like i like the chase unfortunately i like chasing but uh you said that you were in a three

02:55:12.500 and a half year relationship it was super toxic you would chase him down the street yeah in a car

02:55:18.500 or oh with my feet on foot i locked him in my bathroom one time too you threw stanley at his

02:55:24.860 car window yeah so he wouldn't leave and you locked him in your bathroom yeah and then the

02:55:29.960 family found out you did of oh yeah and then you were disowned yes nice under what circumstances

02:55:38.660 did you leave him at let him get out of the bathroom because it's gonna get all deep whatever

02:55:45.100 I'm not gonna make it like that but um it's just during that time we were completely

02:55:50.720 different people emotionally so he was avoiding I was very anxious so when we'd get into like

02:55:57.020 disagreements all I wanted was for him to talk to me and just be like it's okay I just need space

02:56:02.300 right now and my brain couldn't comprehend I just need space that's give me some time to recollect

02:56:08.040 my emotions at that time i took it as oh my god my boyfriend is gonna leave me he's never gonna

02:56:12.940 talk to me again so like i would freak out and be like no you can't leave my house you can't

02:56:17.800 leave me like even though all he literally needed was to take a break but i was so young i was like

02:56:24.140 15 16 at the time that like i couldn't comprehend that at the time so i was a little crazy i can't

02:56:30.660 donated 100 you are all interchangeable the only way i can tell when brian brings new girls on is

02:56:38.700 the amount of annoyance you cause share five you slept with a guy on video for money you're a 0.98

02:56:45.160 prostitute thanks no not for five i'm five yeah uh slept with the guy on video for money actually 0.98

02:56:52.800 no i don't like shoot content with men for my of a lot of the times a lot of the times i do have 0.99

02:57:00.080 sex i don't even record it for content because all my content's solo and when i cam it's just

02:57:05.500 me so i don't cam with men so false actually

02:57:11.700 i think a lot of i think like doing of gets so miss like oh you do of that means you like

02:57:21.520 have sex with guys and you sleep with guys like i always tell people go subscribe then and like 0.94

02:57:27.020 yeah she had something to say about that too because if she has a disability and she can't 0.99

02:57:34.300 have another job that puts i personally i i've been doing of and camming for about

02:57:40.180 almost two years now and i love it personally i mean i don't see nothing i mean it's controversial

02:57:50.120 topic but I think people think like oh you do OF oh yeah that means you have sex all the time

02:57:57.840 and you like are making content with guys and I tell them like dude the times that I have had sex 0.94

02:58:05.940 I don't even record it and then I'm like damn I should have but like it's because I'm having like 0.94

02:58:10.780 me not having a sex drive and me not really being like a horny person like that like a lot of the 0.97

02:58:17.420 times I'm like not thinking content if I sleep with someone it's because like yeah I'm sleeping 0.98

02:58:22.020 with you so I fuck with you I don't know how do you do solo content if you're not aroused by it 0.99

02:58:26.460 that must be like I mean I guess using fucking lube or whatever but like I don't know I mean 1.00

02:58:32.220 it's hard to kind of fake that I mean I get aroused obviously but like I'm talking about 0.99

02:58:39.740 like I don't have a sex drive where I'm like oh my god I need to have sex I'm horny like I need 0.97

02:58:44.640 to find a hoe right now to call up to like have sex with me I'm not like that if I hang out with 0.99

02:58:48.760 my hoes it's because I'm just like bored and want to talk and like go get food gotcha yeah I'm just 0.98

02:58:53.600 asking because like sex drive is kind of different between girls because for me I've had the most 0.93

02:58:59.860 insane sex drive like I've broken up with guys because we don't have sex enough see and I've 0.70

02:59:04.140 always wondered that like I've I have a friend um who is like that too like she needs to have sex 0.91

02:59:11.040 like she's like oh my god and i never understood what that felt like to be like i i crave sex i

02:59:16.100 just never cared why though um so i was also a person who had gained a lot of weight and so when

02:59:23.720 i was trying to lose the weight i had a really hard time even if i would eat nothing work out

02:59:28.360 nothing in the book would happen until i went to the doctors got my labs done figured out that my

02:59:34.760 labs were completely out of whack i had almost double the amount of testosterone in my body 0.99

02:59:40.800 and no estrogen i had the sex drive of a fucking male interesting yeah but now recently i've been 0.99

02:59:49.900 like regulated on medication it's it's subsided a lot to be honest now that i'm an only fans model 0.99

02:59:55.580 i miss it but i don't want to feel like shit again for that sex drive you know i think also 0.94

03:00:01.060 too because how long have you been doing only fans for okay yeah someone's been doing it for 0.99

03:00:05.360 almost two years working in the sex industry you become really desensitized to a lot of sexual

03:00:11.560 things so like being lusted over or comments or even like sex and stuff it's and I was also a

03:00:19.480 stripper and I'm also a cam girl so I've done you know so I'm just so desensitized to any like

03:00:25.320 sexualness because it's like I associate that with my job you know when I'm done working and

03:00:30.940 I'm done making content, I'm done camming, I'm off the clock, and so, like, I don't want to think 0.99

03:00:37.220 about putting a dildo in me, I don't want to think about playing with my vagina, like, I'm just, like, 0.99

03:00:42.620 I don't, like, I'm over it, you know what I mean? So, do you think that's the reason why, like, you 1.00

03:00:47.720 have a low sex drive, instead of, it's not that you don't like to have sex, or want to have sex,

03:00:54.100 but it's, like, I think it may be hormonal, because I've been like that since I was, like, 15. Well, I

03:00:59.940 mean it's kind of like if you have a job that's like baking right like you got to bake all the

03:01:06.140 time and then you go home and you don't want to bake so if you're having sex like as for work and

03:01:14.740 as a job when you're not doing that you don't want claim donated 100 selling your body regardless if

03:01:22.720 there is another person is still prostitution i'm not saying stop i'm just judging and totally

03:01:29.820 okay with it which is the one that can't work and why do you thank you claim for the tts man

03:01:37.260 appreciate it that was very one one man patronage tonight thank you man appreciate it dude you're 0.81

03:01:43.180 fucking legend they're asking with like you which one is the one that can't work and why 0.68

03:01:49.180 why you chose to do only fans why i can't work uh i'm gonna rearrange the seats so you two i'm just 0.99

03:01:54.860 gonna put uh you in that seat and then you're gonna take that seat over there um what was the

03:02:02.920 question i missed that yeah i think because of your disability when you chose only fans as a job

03:02:09.560 like what why didn't she how did what was the disability that made you kind of like have no

03:02:15.420 option but only fans oh yeah i mean i've done everything in my path to not really get this far

03:02:21.660 like you know i've sold a lot of my things i've tried applying to jobs you know unfortunately

03:02:26.460 the accommodations that i need you know it just doesn't fit for a lot of jobs that i'm currently

03:02:32.220 applying for like you know i work an office job it's hard to let's say it's really hard to get a

03:02:39.260 remote job in california for sure especially if you don't have a degree and um unfortunately like

03:02:45.020 if you have like allergies and all these things that pull you out of work to a point that like

03:02:49.340 Like, you can't be in there.

03:02:50.400 It's just tough.

03:02:52.320 You know, I'm kind of curious.

03:02:54.680 What made you choose to do OnlyFans? 0.99

03:02:58.020 Oh, I love sex. 0.76

03:02:59.380 You know, like, a lot of my content that I posted out is, like, world content. 0.92

03:03:04.600 But me and my ex.

03:03:06.860 Consensually.

03:03:07.660 All right.

03:03:08.280 I'm sorry, but the OnlyFans conversation bores the fuck out of me.

03:03:13.280 Going to you, it's just boring.

03:03:15.600 It's so boring.

03:03:16.200 um what so you said what do men or women in this generation feel about 50 50 yeah and is it the

03:03:23.440 man's job to provide and the woman job to stay home you feel like depending on the audience

03:03:27.860 watching what i have to say can go bad or good yeah well first i kind of want to like hear what

03:03:35.100 do people think about that like do you guys feel like it should be 50 50 or that the man should be

03:03:41.640 the provider and the woman should be at home with the kids cook and clean and do all that

03:03:45.400 i think it could be either depending on the two individuals who want to be together okay but what

03:03:51.060 do you want i wouldn't mind 50 50 i feel like if the man wanted to provide and was like i want to

03:04:00.760 pay the bills i want to take care of you this this and so forth okay then i will gladly stay home

03:04:06.200 do whatever you need me to obey but if you want to do 50 50 like i'm i feel like i'm fine with

03:04:13.340 that as well you're fine with 50 50 yeah 100 on the questionnaire what did you answer to

03:04:20.640 to uh shaman pay

03:04:23.620 what's your name lala what is it lala l-a-l-a yeah you said men should pay on first dates

03:04:31.940 Men should provide, protect

03:04:33.180 So you think men should pay on first dates

03:04:35.320 And provide

03:04:36.500 I think they should pay on the first date

03:04:40.260 If they're the ones that are asking you

03:04:42.200 Do you want to go on a date with me

03:04:43.820 If I ask a man do you want to go on a date

03:04:45.800 What do you mean

03:04:47.260 Do you ask men to go on first dates 1.00

03:04:48.940 Shit I'd be like hey what's up with you 0.99

03:04:51.840 I want to see you 1.00

03:04:52.700 I'll pick him up

03:04:53.960 That doesn't answer the question

03:04:55.180 Do you ask men on first dates

03:04:57.900 No

03:04:58.640 I'm trying to tell you that

03:05:01.080 My way of asking him on a date is being like, what's up with you?

03:05:04.300 Let me go pick you up and let's chill.

03:05:06.320 I'm not going to take him to a restaurant.

03:05:09.260 Oh, okay.

03:05:11.300 So you pick him up and chill.

03:05:13.500 Yes. 1.00

03:05:14.020 And fuck. 1.00

03:05:14.760 No. 1.00

03:05:16.800 Why does everything always circle back to sex?

03:05:19.080 That's what I'm like.

03:05:19.840 But okay, so you've never asked a guy out like to go get food or something?

03:05:25.140 Yeah, and I'll pay.

03:05:26.540 And I have.

03:05:26.960 okay but this sort of i don't understand you say men should pay on first dates whoever asks should

03:05:34.420 pay you do ask guys out but you don't take them to like you wouldn't go somewhere where you'd have

03:05:42.480 to pay i don't think you're understanding my generation like my generation 18 19 20 21 year

03:05:48.360 olds were not so proper of like oh hey do you want to go on a date with me let's go to a restaurant

03:05:53.860 that's not how, at least in my city or where I'm from, it really works. So if a guy were to properly

03:06:00.460 ask me on a date, like, hey, I want to take you to this nice restaurant, then obviously is he not

03:06:05.860 going to pay? He's the one that asked. Well, yeah, but generally speaking, when it comes to who

03:06:10.560 initiates first dates, men initiate first dates. Women can just be passive and sit back, wait for

03:06:18.480 men to come to them so a woman can go through her entire life go on the dozens hundreds of dates

03:06:26.180 and never have a burden of her having to be the one to ask the man out or to take that initiative

03:06:32.720 or to have that burden so because so that creates a pressure on men to be the initiators because if

03:06:38.740 you take an average girl by the time she's 25 she's probably been on dozens of dates first dates 0.99

03:06:45.080 or some hang out and the guy's paying for the shit. 0.99

03:06:48.660 If an average 25-year-old guy, he never made the first move, he'd be a virgin. 1.00

03:06:53.880 If the average man did what the average woman did, he would be a virgin.

03:06:58.960 Okay, but that doesn't apply to everybody in this world.

03:07:01.180 I've made the first move many times.

03:07:04.060 Okay, but so I understand that there are some women who are a bit more assertive

03:07:09.800 or take more initiative.

03:07:10.960 I understand that.

03:07:11.740 i'm not saying it never happens but as a general principle i would wager 99 98 percent of first

03:07:20.660 dates are initiated by men okay like of all the total first dates that have happened in the past

03:07:26.560 10 years 99 of them the guy asked the woman so are you telling me okay i don't feel like you're

03:07:34.680 you're not making no sense because you're saying men are the ones no you're saying no you're making

03:07:39.660 sense but your analogy is so you're not making sense well listen to my listen to what I'm trying

03:07:45.320 to say like you're saying yes men are the ones who mostly ask women out on dates right they make

03:07:51.960 that initiative okay so are you telling me if you ask a girl out on a date you're not gonna pay for

03:07:57.240 her no that's not what I said okay but that's the whole point of the question is paying on first

03:08:02.500 dates that is what we are talking about no i'm i'm being critical of the how do i articulate this

03:08:10.000 i'm being critical of the social landscape where you have modern egalitarian non-ladylike women

03:08:18.020 uh or well let me scratch out the non-egalitarian thing like you do only fans right you're a sex 0.98

03:08:27.120 worker. Yes. You're not moving in a ladylike way. I, my view, my belief is you don't deserve 0.99

03:08:37.260 chivalry, men paying for dates. You might still get it. You probably do still get it. Um, but I

03:08:43.680 think my contention is if women are going to have an expectation on men that they adhere to certain

03:08:50.260 traditional standards, women can't just throw their arms in the air and say, it's going to be 0.97

03:08:56.540 tradition for men and for me i'm going to be a giga slut modern feminist woman i'm not going 0.95

03:09:02.960 to be traditional in any way whatsoever but you the man it's 1950s for you and it's 2026 for me 0.66

03:09:11.640 and i don't agree with that as well i don't oh what i do not know why that oh well sorry sorry

03:09:18.160 sorry i accidentally clicked i think the same exact way i think especially my line of work

03:09:23.340 i don't expect any man to one have respect for me to want to take me seriously to look at me and be 0.98

03:09:29.960 like i would marry her hell no i would never be like oh you're fucked up for thinking that of me 0.98

03:09:35.680 at the end of the day i have always said like whoever claim donated one hundred dollars 1.00

03:09:42.160 is your disability just being a woman or do you just have an excuse to be lazy blue shirt has an

03:09:49.240 IQ less than this TTS cost. 0.97

03:09:52.040 Probably half.

03:09:53.500 Can I get a discount?

03:09:55.180 Can I say something?

03:09:56.300 I'm not the one that's doing OnlyFans because I have a disability.

03:09:59.780 And it's not me.

03:10:00.840 That's her.

03:10:02.280 What did you say the disability was?

03:10:04.740 I didn't say it yet.

03:10:05.840 You didn't want to?

03:10:06.580 I want to hear it.

03:10:07.260 I was waiting for it.

03:10:08.700 Autism?

03:10:09.580 No. 0.93

03:10:11.220 Big labia? 0.98

03:10:12.340 Asymmetrical big labia? 0.98

03:10:13.500 No, I have a really bad peanut allergy.

03:10:15.620 Where a lot of...

03:10:17.100 It's just a peanut allergy.

03:10:18.160 well not only just the peanut allergy like i can't be in vicinities that like people are

03:10:21.820 eating peanuts anywhere in my vicinity like if i smell it like you can't even breed peanut

03:10:27.860 but is that so you you have a severe allergy yes is that strictly a disability though well it can

03:10:36.280 because it's very restricting to where workplaces i could go to because i've had i've had workplaces

03:10:41.200 that i've had to leave because it cannot uphold like restaurants probably i think there's options

03:10:46.240 And so, like, for example, I work at a place where kids and nobody is allowed to bring any peanut products into the building at all, ever.

03:10:54.760 And it's 100-bit peanut safe.

03:10:55.960 Wait, hold on.

03:10:57.320 Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

03:10:58.340 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

03:10:59.840 Sorry to cut you off.

03:11:01.380 Sorry.

03:11:03.660 Tell me if I have this correct.

03:11:07.440 You resorted to OnlyFans because you have a peanut allergy.

03:11:12.300 No, no, no, no, no, no.

03:11:12.880 That's how I hear you.

03:11:13.660 Hold on.

03:11:14.060 You didn't let me finish my story, though.

03:11:16.220 I was still talking.

03:11:16.820 No, I think that's the gist of it.

03:11:19.280 No, no, no, no, no.

03:11:20.160 Chat, guys, this is a new one.

03:11:23.580 I like it, though.

03:11:24.580 It's a new thing.

03:11:26.220 You know, oh, my God, I grew up.

03:11:29.460 I had a rough childhood.

03:11:30.760 And my parents, I got to pay my parents.

03:11:34.140 I've heard some reasons for starting a no-left.

03:11:39.940 Peanut allergy is a first.

03:11:41.720 i like it though it's it's funny well it's not only just that okay tell us what else

03:11:47.420 i have i have a lot of mental health problems to where i kind of that i pop off on people a lot

03:11:56.160 and i leave a lot pop off i do i i try my best not to but i get offended a lot and i try to bite

03:12:02.540 my tongue oh have i offended you tonight that you with your attitude probably when we first came in

03:12:09.380 we were probably like what's wrong with you but then you said you had a sinus infection i'm dying

03:12:13.600 you could have said it to begin with then we would have understood but you couldn't tell i 0.94

03:12:17.540 thought it was just we thought we were you were just you were not fucking with us no it's just 0.99

03:12:21.980 i was i was like this is like a horrible host like what the fuck we're like we're like scared 0.99

03:12:27.600 and this man that we just met can't even be welcoming he's over here like yelling at everyone 0.98

03:12:33.620 whoa whoa whoa hold on not yelling let me take that back that was doing too much let's not false

03:12:37.880 accuse yes that was doing too much my bad my voice has actually been lower no but you just 0.99

03:12:43.120 there was no yelling no hold on that's bullshit you're you're exaggerating you're hold on you're 0.98

03:12:48.620 exaggerating i was very uh it's hard to even speak because i'm fucking sick and my i'm like 0.99

03:12:57.120 almost semi delirious and my fucking head is pound like so i almost wanted to fucking cancel 0.94

03:13:05.020 today and i've i've only canceled one other episode it was fucking august of 2023 and i had 0.94

03:13:11.640 brutal covid and i thought i can't i canceled the episode uh but so i was like you know what

03:13:18.900 the show must go on i'm gonna power through it that's really an unfair characterization that's

03:13:23.020 unfair because i was not yelling i was just like uh short okay let me take you weren't yelling you

03:13:31.740 just seemed very like agitated and irritated i am agitated i'm fucking sick understandable but

03:13:38.660 understand like there's girls coming in who's never met you before we're a little like nervous

03:13:43.920 and scared we're already like it's shaking up i just wanted to say hi yeah we thought you were

03:13:48.340 you're gonna smile at it like you can does your face whoa hold on hey guys i'm sick i don't like

03:13:53.320 this criticism i've had a few people say this so first off when i'm prepping the show i'm running 0.88

03:14:01.060 around dealing with 10 different things we had the fucking tech issues at the beginning of the

03:14:06.440 stream with the internet and stuff i'm i have like a bullet list of 20 30 different things that i need 0.96

03:14:13.400 a check off to make sure that we start the shit on time um why and this is sort of reminiscent of 0.96

03:14:21.240 our conversation about marriage why is the burden on me to damn it claim donated 100 dollars she got 0.99

03:14:32.360 got a peanut allergy but not a joyful allergy be honest it's easy work for good money blue shirt 0.99

03:14:39.440 you still have a nike you equal to a potato and i used to love oh shit thank you clane he used to 0.96

03:14:46.220 love potatoes thank you clane appreciate it um that's a deep thought why is the burden on me 0.96

03:14:52.980 to come and like do a hi to all of you you guys could do it to me you guys could be like we're

03:15:01.320 scared first of all no no let me let me ask you a question you guys could walk up to me you could

03:15:06.200 walk up to me be like hi good to meet you yeah but when we come in and you already have an attitude

03:15:12.280 from the moment we walked in there was no attitude no there was collective agreement

03:15:16.720 all of us were looking at each other like oh hell no i was already like i was already mad at you

03:15:22.660 before you even like saying a word and i was like no let me stop that's what i think about all that

03:15:27.160 that's what i think i think you guys are just intimidated because when i met brian before

03:15:32.460 it was like this it imagine you're focused you're just like i don't give a damn like i'm just like 0.98

03:15:38.860 this was literally you this was you oh my god like you were just like oh my damn like you could 0.71

03:15:47.960 have smirked at us hey hey guys like you know sorry i'm not feeling well like but no like 0.89

03:15:55.080 bro look i'm sick i'm sick first off i think you're also miscategorizing the degree to which

03:16:05.000 i was you're claiming i was what moping or some shit no you were just i'm a very straight

03:16:11.080 communicator i'm not gonna be like sugar and spice and everything nice and make it all flowery for 0.75

03:16:17.860 you i'm a very straight communicator i'm like hey you come over here come over here no sit there

03:16:23.780 sit there i'm very straight communicator like that now you guys want to do a tone police

03:16:28.780 you guys want to do a tone yeah you want to police the tone and the reality is it's like 0.99

03:16:34.840 i'm fucking sick i'm fucking sick but why women can't take accountability oh i take accountability 0.98

03:16:43.440 because y'all could have cut you y'all if it was so important to you to have that initial touch 1.00

03:16:50.140 not physically but like that initial you could have you caught you could have came up to me

03:16:55.880 and been like hey brian good to meet you yeah and i wanted to but when i walked in you were

03:17:02.600 so immediate not just to us other people in this house that are over there i was like oh i don't

03:17:09.020 know like this is like how he's gonna like treat us and i like your personality now yeah like now

03:17:13.660 you're cool but like we were all looking at each other like what's like i don't blame you i was

03:17:19.920 like oh this isn't a facade this is really just him i understand if you said for like half a

03:17:24.020 second sorry guys i'm sick then we would have been like okay i told you eventually but no in the

03:17:28.900 beginning we're like scares well yes and now i'm in the mood for it's like my job here my job here

03:17:35.740 is to coddle you guys this is an adversarial uh debate podcast i'm not here to be your best friend 0.57

03:17:43.960 I'll be, I'll be, you know, I'm not going to like fucking insult you, but look, I'm trying to run a show. 0.91

03:17:54.920 I'm not only is it like, even if I'm not sick, not only is it insanely like you guys don't, you have no perspective on what it takes to run something like this. 0.93

03:18:10.360 No idea. None of you have any idea.

03:18:13.960 add that that's already stressful to begin with add that to fucking like brutal i didn't 0.99

03:18:21.760 fucking sleep last night i slept two hours fucking brutal why i'm fucking sick i cannot breathe 0.99

03:18:29.500 i literally i thought i was gonna fucking uh but like take some melatonin maybe 0.99

03:18:35.860 i took three doses of melatonin i was up until 10 a.m i slept until noon i couldn't sleep 0.94

03:18:43.620 fucking exhausted i'm sick i'm in pain yeah i'm not gonna be the most chipper 0.59

03:18:49.340 get over it no it's fine with us it's just that you didn't tell us before so we didn't know that's 0.98

03:18:54.920 it but you i told you after but yeah it's fine now no can i give you can i give an example of

03:18:59.960 what i'm talking about for example the whole like adjusting the mics you're like down down

03:19:05.640 like instead of just being like like you're just being so do you guys know what i'm talking about

03:19:09.020 when he was just being so it was just rude i think he's like what he said is like it being

03:19:14.960 like the tone police like it doesn't no but we forgive you we forgive you no no no i was being

03:19:21.600 when i was saying adjust the microphones look maybe part of it is because my voice 0.80

03:19:27.120 like bro i'm fucking sick so like it's literally hard to speak like i'm straining through speaking 0.55

03:19:35.640 so maybe what you're interpreting 0.96

03:19:37.460 as like aggression or

03:19:39.780 whatever it's just because I'm sick

03:19:42.100 yeah now we understand

03:19:43.600 so that's what I'm saying we forgive you

03:19:44.840 oh my god 1.00

03:19:46.000 you guys are fucking nags 1.00

03:19:48.600 I'm not even fucking any of you and you're all nagging 1.00

03:19:51.240 get fucked all of you 1.00

03:19:53.100 get fucked all of you 1.00

03:19:55.140 holy shit 1.00

03:19:55.740 I did not say anything 0.98

03:19:58.740 well I mean it's most

03:20:01.260 you've been a bit stoic on this

03:20:03.580 but all the five other women

03:20:05.500 are are ganging up on me hey at least we forgive you hopefully you get some sleep uh after that

03:20:12.460 we hope you get well yeah we do cool thank you all right all right what a waste of time that was 0.99

03:20:19.240 uh okay what was the next what were we even talking about before that oh shit my whole

03:20:24.780 i had a question for you actually on what we were talking about before that so i uh you were 0.80

03:20:31.640 responding to him and you said uh you don't expect men to respect you to take you serious 0.94

03:20:37.200 or anything like claim donated 100 seven bitches at the table save for chair four the only one with 0.99

03:20:45.080 a brain it's cheerful no i'm six now well no now you're four oh who's i was looking at the mic 0.99

03:20:57.700 Four from which side?

03:20:59.320 Oh!

03:21:00.420 Okay, what was the question?

03:21:01.580 My question was, so you were responding to him and you were saying that you don't expect

03:21:06.880 men to take you serious, to respect you, to anything like that, but earlier you were saying

03:21:12.640 that a man didn't take you serious and he cut you off and he ghosted you, and that kind

03:21:20.060 of hurt your feelings in a sense, because you really did like him.

03:21:25.560 What's the question?

03:21:26.360 do you think that as like you go on you will start to care like that men are not respecting

03:21:36.940 you or taking you serious um well he came back i mean i just talked to him the other day actually

03:21:42.260 so they always come back i've never been in a situation where man doesn't come back so that 0.99

03:21:47.680 whatever like came back in like oh wait hold on i'm sorry i gotta move it on back to my fucking 0.75

03:21:54.340 thing okay what you said i was being rude when i was having to go through the mic adjustments 0.72

03:22:01.100 where is this energy for the women who agreed to come do a podcast

03:22:05.260 and you guys all got the same message as they did we're very clear we asked the guests can you stay

03:22:13.360 the whole show the the shoot is like seven to eight hours these girls wanted to dip out the

03:22:21.080 two armenian chicks dip out at eight oh so well you should have saw my reaction

03:22:28.300 yeah they were already giving attitude before we even started the show i wanted to mention it

03:22:36.560 right they gave me attitude right away they gave me attitude that puts me off they were like oh

03:22:44.100 how long is the show we have to leave at eight i'm like you agreed we told we're not you don't

03:22:49.260 just show up and it's like oh surprise you thought there's a one hour podcast if you've seen the show

03:22:54.280 the the length of the podcast is public it's not like hidden anyways i don't know whatever um i

03:23:01.460 gotta move it on though um yeah someone was asking about that in the chat like where did the

03:23:07.240 obedience get the board in or something bro they fucking left early whatever um okay uh the 50 50

03:23:14.480 thing uh okay your final thing uh lala you disagree about the show as you've seen sometimes 0.95

03:23:23.580 the women are asked questions in a way that's meant to catch them off guard

03:23:26.380 instead of bringing out their actual perspective you think sometimes the conversations focus more

03:23:32.120 on proving someone wrong than understanding why they think the way they do yeah i feel like

03:23:37.100 it's when i watch clips or i watch the show instead of trying to understand why someone

03:23:43.400 on the panel thinks that way or why they may have that perspective or opinion you just try to like

03:23:49.120 it seems like you try to like dumb them down sometimes such as what

03:23:53.920 like let me give you an example of a clip i've seen is that what you want sure i don't know i

03:24:03.400 just don't like the unnecessary like geography this is like what is the point of all that like

03:24:10.060 i don't understand that oh yeah that's just a fun segment that we do at the end of the show

03:24:15.540 okay and that's what i was really talking about because i was like what is the point

03:24:18.360 oh that's just funny that okay i mean look if you want a more in-depth uh rebuttal uh that is sort of

03:24:30.220 while on the surface it might seem superficial or shallow i think it's a total indictment of the

03:24:37.220 lacking of basic knowledge and education about very basic topics this is kindergarten material

03:24:44.520 this is elementary school material it's it's an indictment of the individuals it's the also an

03:24:50.340 indictment of the education system so uh but it's also just funny yeah somebody doesn't know

03:25:00.420 oh paris is in italy okay that's that's kind of funny i always thought you were doing it 0.94

03:25:07.060 to like make them look dumb on purpose no they make themselves look dumb yeah you're right you 0.74

03:25:13.460 are right it's just a knowledge check but i usually don't pass it oh yeah i'm cooked i don't think 0.85

03:25:21.200 we're gonna do even do that segment tonight though just because i'm good yeah probably not

03:25:26.060 we're just terrified for that part uh okay we have uh who do we have courtney oh no that's the girl

03:25:34.920 who her leg what was hey did you look tiffany did you look at her leg whoa what was

03:25:42.340 she said she was coming back right she was she hasn't sent a message maybe i'll be like

03:25:49.060 i should message her right now let's see she came all the way from florida yeah she flew here from

03:25:54.840 florida anywhere like here oh my god all right i'm just gonna be like how are where did she go

03:26:00.140 She can't go anywhere.

03:26:01.780 Where's the New York Hospital here?

03:26:02.900 Like 911, just, I guess.

03:26:06.020 Okay, we got, okay, we're going to go to Violet.

03:26:14.480 You do not think that men are more oppressed than women.

03:26:17.400 That's a disagreement that you have.

03:26:19.660 I would say, how are we taking that claim, globally or in America?

03:26:24.600 i mean are we talking in totality are we talking specific other countries but

03:26:32.700 i would say certainly in the united states or in the west but i could probably make compelling

03:26:38.820 arguments even for other regions too well i'd say in the west no i would say but if we look at

03:26:46.040 other countries is there a country that exists where men have to cover their entire body and

03:26:51.880 cannot speak in public no it does it just for women so i think that alone so you're talking

03:26:56.500 about like islamic countries yeah do those islamic countries have male only conscription

03:27:03.100 do you know what conscription is you don't know what conscription is

03:27:08.500 yeah uh well it's gonna be if you don't have the sort of foundational understanding of that i think

03:27:15.040 it's do you know what the draft is yeah okay so conscription is essentially the same thing

03:27:20.660 forcing men to go to war who otherwise don't right so there's more nations in the world that

03:27:28.480 have male only draft registration or active conscription or mandatory military service

03:27:35.340 than there are nations that have like dress codes legal dress codes for women essentially so this

03:27:40.780 would be mostly like islamic countries i think that the the comparison of like women have to wear

03:27:49.540 a burqa. While it may be a grievance, a gendered grievance that women experience, I don't think

03:27:57.580 that this is anywhere comparable to the bodily autonomy infringement that men experience

03:28:06.440 through military conscription. So yes, there are Islamic countries where they have to wear

03:28:13.040 fucking burqa or whatever those that same islamic countries the men are obligated to 0.99

03:28:18.020 uh sometimes be forced into war and die so trade-offs you know well i'd rather be a woman 0.99

03:28:24.620 probably in afghanistan specifically uh i don't know i would have to probably look into that a bit 1.00

03:28:30.360 more i mean claim donated 100 the point of that is how stupid you people are basic knowledge is 0.99

03:28:39.780 well beyond most of you, 1.00

03:28:41.660 which is why most of you will never get

03:28:43.620 a high-value man. What were

03:28:45.660 the Axis powers during World War

03:28:47.700 II? Or 16 by 16?

03:28:50.440 Yeah, we'll do that really quick.

03:28:51.500 16 by 16? I don't know.

03:28:55.340 Anybody?

03:28:56.080 Me so for a moment. Okay.

03:28:57.740 Then we'll do the other one.

03:28:59.680 Give us... What were the...

03:29:02.600 Name one

03:29:03.480 Axis power from World War II.

03:29:05.380 Germany.

03:29:08.000 Italy?

03:29:10.600 Okay. All right. So yeah, back to that though. No. So, I mean, obviously like having an experience

03:29:16.980 as a man, I would, I don't think I would say like, I suppose I enjoy being a man in the same way that

03:29:22.780 you women, I assume enjoy being women. I don't think most of you would opt to change into being

03:29:28.300 men. Maybe you would. Right. So what I'm talking about there, like I, I would rather, I suppose,

03:29:35.720 potentially there could be an argument to be made to have these social restrictions that the women

03:29:42.580 experience in afghanistan as compared to like the restrictions that men face or the expectations or

03:29:47.980 burdens or duties that men face in these countries so but if we're talking about like western

03:29:53.860 countries i don't think you're going to make a convincing argument that women are oppressed i

03:29:57.480 agree yeah okay but yeah i mean i would look at it in the totality of the circumstances um

03:30:03.600 so while women do have a uh lacking of rights let's say in certain countries

03:30:12.780 what are the negatives for the men in those countries and let's compare

03:30:18.260 um i'm not really sure about like the laws for men and women all i know basically is that you

03:30:26.940 know there's a high violence against women um and that they don't have rights like they're

03:30:31.820 considered property of their husbands by law and so they're not allowed to dance sing in public

03:30:37.700 have their face body covered that's basically all I could tell you and I would say in that

03:30:43.260 specific concentration of countries that are like that it appears that the women are suffering quite

03:30:49.260 a bit by the laws and at the hands of men but globally I don't have a way to tally what's worse

03:30:55.600 well in a lot of these countries it's actually the the women themselves that enforce a lot of

03:31:01.440 this stuff uh for example um somewhat separate from your example your example of like afghanistan

03:31:09.020 uh countries where female genital mutilation is practiced it's actually not so much the men that

03:31:16.820 uphold this at least compared to it's the the women the women in the tribe or the village or

03:31:23.360 whatever they perpetuate perpetrate the female genital mutilation on the women really yes that's

03:31:31.220 horrible that's okay i didn't know that so some of these customs are actually um like women who

03:31:38.920 and you might say they're brainwashed but like women who have to wear the hijab or women who

03:31:44.560 have to wear a niqab or women who have to wear a burqa uh some of these women they were like this

03:31:52.240 is part of my religion this is part of my modesty right um i'm not personally a fan of that whole

03:31:59.900 thing but I don't think they necessarily some of them probably surely do think it's oppressive

03:32:06.980 and they may very well be right but I think some of them probably willingly participate in

03:32:14.460 what you would consider their own oppression so I think some of them would but I don't know

03:32:20.220 there's a lot of riots in Iraq where women were pulling off their hijab and burning them and

03:32:25.480 they're put to death for it so there's not like no backlash towards it there definitely is I

03:32:29.600 would agree like some of them probably do choose to do it but like just the fact that it's law and

03:32:33.940 you suffer for not doing it that's just well you also have to acknowledge that most of many of

03:32:40.720 these countries they're they are not all the same even if they're islamic so iraq um i believe going

03:32:48.100 back to the 60s and 70s it was not a theocracy at the time there was a essentially a coup and the

03:32:56.280 radical Islamists came into power and so if you look at photos from or sorry not Iraq Iran sorry

03:33:03.300 that's what I meant Iran if you look at photos from like the 50s 60s 50s 60s I believe 70s I

03:33:11.520 forgot the exact time but they looked American like they dressed kind of American style so I

03:33:18.640 don't know but we can go to like okay there are places in the world but is it your position that

03:33:25.980 in western countries do you think that women are uh oppressed no oh okay all right well nothing

03:33:36.460 on that then not oppressed in oh you think they are you think they are western like what country

03:33:43.460 like the u.s like europe oh okay western culture maybe not i thought you were talking about like

03:33:50.960 islamic country oh no we're talking about like the united states and most of europe and

03:33:57.740 australia and yeah uh okay you think it is harmful we sort of talked about this a little bit but i

03:34:06.860 feel like we can finish it up harmful for the host to discourage men from wanting

03:34:11.520 men to to getting married for to discourage men from wanting to getting married yeah i i think

03:34:18.260 that we talked about that you're talking like strictly legal i would say like committing your

03:34:23.640 life and devoting uh your life to a family um i don't think that we should be so cynical and

03:34:29.940 saying all women will betray you i don't think yeah you don't need to sign legal papers i think

03:34:34.820 but i think being married is nice if it's someone you love and you want to have a family

03:34:40.140 like it doesn't have to be papers maybe just make it like well my position is not so i i think you

03:34:47.060 can have children with a woman i think you can stay with her your entire life you don't have to

03:34:52.580 marry her though so i'm not discouraging the family i'm not discouraging having children i'm

03:34:58.760 not discouraging having serious long-term lifelong uh bonds with a woman but the marriage component

03:35:07.600 which is a really a legal component by the way are you christian or religious no i'm not religious

03:35:16.180 Well, in Christianity, marriage is between man and woman.

03:35:22.300 It's not man, woman, and government.

03:35:25.740 It's not man, woman, and state.

03:35:27.520 So there's that.

03:35:28.340 But how is it hurtful, I guess?

03:35:30.160 Okay, let's throw out the legal documents.

03:35:32.720 No, no, well, you said, or sorry, you said it's harmful that I discourage men from wanting to get married.

03:35:37.120 But I encourage, I don't discourage men from having a lifelong person or having kids.

03:35:44.300 We're having a misunderstanding then.

03:35:45.780 I thought you just meant like the concept of being, like not legally,

03:35:49.340 but just the concept of having a wife, I guess.

03:35:51.660 Well, but if you're not Christian,

03:35:53.380 what other concept is there of marriage besides the legal marriage?

03:35:58.360 The ceremony.

03:35:59.340 You know, non-Christians get married, right?

03:36:01.540 All cultures have marriages.

03:36:03.960 Yeah.

03:36:04.600 Mists have marriages.

03:36:06.080 Wait, so the ceremony is more important to you than the legal component?

03:36:09.160 Oh, absolutely.

03:36:10.200 Why?

03:36:10.480 Because you're displaying in front of your entire families and friends, hey, this is a person I choose.

03:36:15.540 You're sealing yourselves together to be committed.

03:36:18.720 Can I say something?

03:36:19.320 Well, how many people have the ceremony and end up getting divorced?

03:36:22.000 Go ahead.

03:36:22.960 But, like, why do you feel that you need, like, that approval of showing to your family, like, we're getting married and we're choosing each other?

03:36:32.200 I don't know.

03:36:32.540 Personally, I don't really believe in marriage either.

03:36:34.220 Like, I don't care to get married.

03:36:35.320 like I think I was raised to think that it's also just like a paper kind of thing like it's like

03:36:42.040 why does that define that we want to be with each other for the rest of our lives and that we love

03:36:47.300 each other and that we're choosing each other like what does the paper saying you guys are now married

03:36:53.020 really like what like I don't understand the concept of marriage the paper anymore I'm just

03:36:58.080 talking about the concept no that's what I'm saying I'm not understanding like what is the

03:37:00.980 point and the concept of marriage like marriage the point is that you're announcing to this person

03:37:05.820 but why do you feel that you need the approval to announce to people that you are choosing each

03:37:10.360 other can i say something yeah it's kind of like you have a witness you know like if one person

03:37:15.580 says something to another person you need a third person to verify that like someone can tell who

03:37:21.120 care like this idea like it doesn't mean anything because ultimately if having the ceremony or if

03:37:28.260 having the legal agreement or if having the religious component worked at keeping people

03:37:35.040 together it would but the reality is even if you have the ceremony even if you have the piece of

03:37:40.920 paper from the government even if you have even if it's like a religious thing it doesn't stop

03:37:47.600 divorce people still get divorced so oh well we had the ceremony so now we'll be together forever

03:37:54.000 it's like how about every single day we try to be our best the best we can to each other

03:38:01.120 and we're like we've made we have an understanding that that's the commitment not just well because

03:38:08.920 i had the ceremony i'm gonna stay with you forever i don't know i guess it's not literally

03:38:13.940 about the ceremony what i'm saying it's like it's about choosing your person basically to try to

03:38:19.140 work it out through thick and thin but it's like why can't you do that if you're just dating

03:38:23.440 like i mean you can't but i'm just saying like i just think it's kind of sad that like people are

03:38:28.960 not well so are you trying to say that if someone's just boyfriend and girlfriend doesn't mean

03:38:35.060 they're gonna like value their boyfriend or girlfriend as much that they're gonna value if

03:38:39.200 they're married yes but it's kind of embarrassing being like 27 and saying that you had a boyfriend

03:38:43.420 for like 10 years it's yeah i don't know for me for me you guys can still say like hey that's my

03:38:50.000 husband if a piece of paper really doesn't matter you still could be like this is my husband and

03:38:54.880 he could be like this or who cares what other people think and be like me and my partner don't

03:38:59.240 want to don't care to get married it's a status like status there's like i'm married right well

03:39:05.360 there's a status to marrying a virgin but how often does that happen

03:39:08.740 were any of you virgins when you got married or no i never got married yet

03:39:16.540 i don't know i don't really understand the concept either of what marriage yes the point of it well

03:39:23.060 look how about let's just switch gears a little bit on the marriage thing so i can give you x i

03:39:28.540 can give you a bunch of reasons why i think marriage is it has some drawbacks or detriments

03:39:34.760 or pitfalls but i think incentives are kind of what pushes people to do things like people

03:39:42.480 usually do things because there's a benefit or an incentive um even things that

03:39:49.600 like you you brush your teeth because why well you want them to be clean obviously

03:39:58.740 you don't want to get cavities the actual act of brushing your teeth is not i personally don't

03:40:04.800 find it particularly enjoyable but you do it regardless because of the benefits the incentives

03:40:09.520 you don't want to have to get root canals and your cat you don't want to like get cavities etc

03:40:15.200 tell me give me a like for men if you had to convince men why they should because again i

03:40:23.820 can tell you why men shouldn't why should men get married are we just talking about legally are we

03:40:30.460 just talking about the concept of being in a courtship with someone committed like as well

03:40:36.420 that's different well yeah to me i would separate them i don't think you're married yeah are you

03:40:41.200 legally married uh not yet so you had the ceremony though yes okay um these are somewhat separate but

03:40:51.100 also related things uh so there is the legal component but you're saying like the ceremony

03:40:56.640 but there's no legal but you plan you intend to get the legal i guess where i'm coming from is

03:41:03.060 why not if you love a person if you want a woman to be the mother of your children why don't you

03:41:07.920 want her to be your wife i think it's a beautiful thing we should be celebrating love we should be

03:41:11.620 loud about our love it doesn't have to be an expensive ceremony i just think the status of

03:41:15.820 hey this is my husband and wife i think if you hear someone say i'm married or this is my husband

03:41:19.820 you go wow it's really serious like anyone can date like i can give you a lot of why not well

03:41:25.220 anybody can get married i can give you a lot of why not why nots but again i'm looking for what

03:41:31.520 is the benefit to the man how does the man benefit from marriage he benefits because he gets to have

03:41:39.480 a wife but i can have a girlfriend but does that sound as nice i have a girlfriend you're only

03:41:47.220 gonna get married because it sounds nice okay i got married because it felt good to me it was the

03:41:51.880 happiest day of my life and like i think it's a beautiful thing when people want to get married

03:41:56.200 nowadays not a lot of people so you you don't want to be a wife you just know i do i do want

03:42:04.620 to be a wife which is why you said that your marriage was the most what is the fact that i'm

03:42:09.680 married makes me happy like it makes me happier than if it's just boyfriend and girlfriend and

03:42:14.460 so you're saying you'd be less happy with your man if you hadn't i wouldn't be less happy with

03:42:20.000 him but i'm very grateful that i feel like i get to okay are you doing are more things for him now

03:42:25.780 like he's your husband than you were doing when he was just your boyfriend like are you doing

03:42:29.620 quote-unquote wife things for him now i mean i feel like i kind of always was but like

03:42:35.780 it's a serious thing like to be married you're very openly like committed but he's asking i

03:42:41.600 because i want to know this too like what does a man benefit from marriage besides the title

03:42:48.060 besides the like the ceremonies like you're saying that like oh if you're my boyfriend i'm

03:42:55.280 treat you like kind of semi okay and when you're my husband then i'll give you everything it's like

03:43:01.040 basically what i asked earlier like what do men benefit out of marriage and if we as women just

03:43:07.280 took accountability and just this conversation would be super short and we'd be like nothing

03:43:11.680 we just want them to marry us yeah nothing we just want them to marry us do you think no men

03:43:16.800 well there's a there's a uh there's there's a religious calling for men to marry uh and there

03:43:24.720 are some men who even want to do the secular marriage thing as much of a question mark as

03:43:30.440 that might be. But again, she asked you a question, she asked you a question and you keep kind of

03:43:37.440 dancing around it because when I, and I've repeated the question, I ask, what do I get?

03:43:43.240 And then you said, it makes you feel good. So if I ask you, what do I get? You feeling good

03:43:50.260 isn't really

03:43:52.160 I mean look you of course want to make your

03:43:54.780 you want to do nice things for your partner

03:43:56.840 but like that's sort of

03:43:59.080 a secondary benefit

03:44:00.580 what are the benefits for men?

03:44:03.740 the benefits for men is

03:44:04.980 if they want to get married it will make

03:44:07.100 them happy if they don't want to get married

03:44:08.720 don't do it but it will also make me

03:44:11.080 very sad if I get divorced 0.99

03:44:13.320 and she takes half my shit 1.00

03:44:15.020 wait no I'm not talking 1.00

03:44:17.140 legally I'm not talking legally

03:44:18.400 oh just the ceremony like it would be like if a a man was like i want you to obey me and you're

03:44:24.920 like what do i get if i obey you and he's like nothing it just makes me happy you're like if

03:44:30.300 you love someone i'm happy i don't know like if a man doesn't want to get married he shouldn't

03:44:36.200 but i'm like i don't think it should be a taboo for people who want to get married we should be 0.97

03:44:41.160 told oh don't get married it's stupid like i don't i don't think it's stupid at all like i i think 0.96

03:44:46.700 like it I don't think marriage is stupid at all no I'm married quality marriages are more 1.00

03:44:53.380 important at this point you need to learn your partner you need to know your partner more than

03:44:57.240 three months before you get married three I've seen that a lot of times people will date for

03:45:02.620 months and then they will get married but we also have to know like our roles on each end

03:45:07.740 so like anything that I advocate like for men I also advocate like for women because like it will

03:45:15.260 help you in the long run because what we're not thinking of and I was guilty of this as well so

03:45:19.820 whatever I speak of I've been there before is we're not thinking about what about when we get

03:45:25.580 old what about when we don't have a nice body and a 10 out of 10 and everything like who's going to

03:45:32.120 take care of us are we going to find a man that even shows us how to raise children that want to

03:45:37.240 be there to help take care of us when we're older because it's not a problem in other countries

03:45:42.280 as much as it is here in america well anything i can get in a marriage i can get if she's just

03:45:50.560 with me forever except for a wife yes no okay so a title yeah no you you a man can get everything

03:45:58.560 from a woman from just being in a relationship with them but a woman can't get everything from

03:46:04.740 just being in a relationship with a man which is why they want to get married what can a woman not

03:46:08.820 get if they're both committed to each other like if she leaves she can get alimony she can get

03:46:15.140 child support she can take his stuff just talking about like the idea of calling each other husband

03:46:19.220 and wife like i mean if you just want to call each other husband and wife and not have anything

03:46:23.840 i think she should call me master or sir i don't want don't call me husband sir

03:46:31.280 or master i'm dead serious master is a bit much sometimes

03:46:38.140 I'm down for master

03:46:40.160 but sir

03:46:41.920 bare minimum

03:46:42.720 what's that

03:46:45.700 you're white so master's a little 0.78

03:46:48.160 slippery slope 1.00

03:46:49.140 oh I do this with black women 0.99

03:46:51.000 just kidding I don't do race play 0.97

03:46:58.200 there's one point

03:47:00.600 I do not agree on

03:47:02.060 but even then it's kind of sketch

03:47:04.000 but i also see that people respect you more if you're married as well a lot of people are like

03:47:12.380 oh you're you have a boyfriend that's just a boyfriend and i'm like okay it's not your life

03:47:17.060 you're not me you're not dating him you're not dating me so why do you care if i'm married or 0.94

03:47:21.040 not i am not going to lose half my shit so when a woman as is at a gala she's got to introduce me 0.99

03:47:32.260 as her boyfriend instead of her husband 0.99

03:47:34.460 and she's going to get

03:47:35.800 negative, what was the term

03:47:38.360 you used? Respect? Or what was it?

03:47:40.060 What was the term? I don't know. What did I say?

03:47:42.160 You just said, what was the term you used?

03:47:44.440 Rewinds. I don't know. You said

03:47:46.160 it's more respect.

03:47:49.100 Okay, she gets

03:47:50.360 1% less respect from 1.00

03:47:52.260 somebody who doesn't fucking care. Like, who cares? 0.99

03:47:54.480 Whatever.

03:47:54.660 Can I ask you something?

03:47:57.000 If you had a lifelong

03:47:58.640 girlfriend, would you let her

03:48:00.760 if she asks you like hey can you just call me wife in front of people can you just call me wife

03:48:05.520 it makes me feel good like would you would you uh yeah i think that'd probably be okay okay then i

03:48:11.140 i have to agree with you on this i think i'd be okay with that i might even be okay with the

03:48:16.100 ceremony okay my my issues with it again are almost strictly legal issues the financial thing

03:48:23.180 and it's like look if you were to present this agreement in like any other business context 0.88

03:48:30.520 any attorney any business advisor would be like whoa this is a really bad fucking deal this is 0.98

03:48:38.620 retarded are you okay like are you not a savvy businessman why are you contemplating 0.99

03:48:44.660 giving a woman half 50 percent that's bogus of like money that like she probably didn't even do

03:48:54.480 anything to like contribute for him to work his ass off to make that money i don't know she didn't 0.97

03:49:01.340 fucking fucking who's who's some famous basketball players i think michael jordan's been divorced 0.99

03:49:07.080 did she do any fucking three was three point shots did she fucking do any layups no 1.00

03:49:13.560 has has whoever my future wife would hypothetically be was she sitting next to me 0.99

03:49:23.400 while I was fucking having brutal 0.99

03:49:25.360 eight hour long debates 1.00

03:49:27.600 was she here fucking building 0.99

03:49:29.640 that up no 0.98

03:49:30.620 she wasn't yeah and I think also

03:49:33.300 mine I think like

03:49:34.960 only reason why

03:49:37.440 like I agree so heavily with that is too

03:49:39.400 is because my dad's

03:49:41.280 a businessman and he's raised me since I was

03:49:43.500 one and I saw my dad work

03:49:45.640 his ass off to give

03:49:47.520 us the life and for 0.96

03:49:49.440 him to be where he's at now

03:49:50.740 all on his own and if

03:49:53.300 a woman try to come in and be like well marry me marry me and then she takes half of our stuff 1.00

03:49:58.780 well my dad's stuff well you know i would be like the fuck like you didn't do shit though i saw my 0.99

03:50:03.960 dad's blood sweat and tears bro to go into that yeah i agree you know what i mean guys on the 0.99

03:50:09.440 legal so i don't know it's unfair to the breadwinner the legal aspect right now is not good

03:50:13.840 but i'm i'm also talking about just the ceremony yeah just now you don't have to which is like the

03:50:18.480 concept like when when you tell someone like oh i'm this is my husband they think of you differently 0.99

03:50:24.220 like oh wow you're married like yeah i'm fine with that as long as she doesn't get half my shit

03:50:28.940 that's yeah i can agree with the ceremony no okay let's say let's say you're a guy okay and you want 0.99

03:50:35.520 a kid some women might not want to give birth to a kid without marriage there's no like oh you're

03:50:44.420 my girlfriend we should have yes well so i agree that there are women who is like

03:50:49.440 marriage is a non-negotiable yeah like and that if the man's unwilling to marry her

03:50:55.620 that may very well since it's a non-negotiable close the door however

03:51:01.380 i i think that if the girl likes you enough nearly all things are negotiable

03:51:11.920 in this case okay this is the person okay as a woman this is the guy who you in your picture

03:51:20.740 frame that you want to marry this is the guy who you think is your life partner and you're

03:51:27.280 going to get hung up on marriage so i'm like if he's good enough that you're willing to marry him

03:51:32.760 i feel like he's good enough to not marry him well you have to have boundaries as a woman like 0.99

03:51:41.480 you like him that doesn't make him better let's say he's an absolute dick person but you like him 0.98

03:51:47.800 and that makes him better no like and you would you would just be with him without marriage 0.98

03:51:53.620 and just do everything for him with no

03:51:57.760 bow to like be together i don't understand that if i was no if i was if i was dating a guy

03:52:09.180 what if i was dating a guy and we were just dating and he was doing whatever i would still

03:52:18.400 like i would still cook for him clean for him do his lunch for him whatever he needed me to do

03:52:23.320 like to make him feel good and i i know a lot of girls that are like oh i'm not doing wifey things

03:52:29.440 if i'm not a wife then how do you even expect him to wife you up if you're not even doing 0.98

03:52:34.940 quote-unquote wifey things and be like this girl don't even do shit for me why am I going to marry 0.98

03:52:39.260 her so how do you expect to even want him to marry you if you're not even doing anything to show him 0.97

03:52:44.040 that you would be a good wife to him and a good mother to his children look I'll I guess I'll end

03:52:51.600 the marriage thing with this do not enter into a contract where the other person will be rewarded

03:52:59.760 for breaking it when women break the marriage vow the marriage contract when they divorce you

03:53:06.520 they are financially rewarded for doing it they get alimony they get part of your they get some

03:53:13.860 of your assets the however much you earned during the course of the marriage she can claw she can

03:53:19.960 claw at a lot of things especially stuff that you made during the marriage you don't enter into a

03:53:26.020 contract with somebody who is financially rewarded for breaking it so it's like i don't know

03:53:31.860 i don't know i still haven't heard one well okay whatever let's move off the marriage thing uh

03:53:37.780 your next notes here uh you're not liberal liberal or conservative yeah so you're like

03:53:47.400 moderate or i'm moderate i'd say i'm like what's

03:53:51.180 i think a lot of both extremes frustrate me on the right and left

03:53:57.140 and yeah i just feel like there's a middle ground for most things

03:54:01.780 okay what's your position on abortion or choice like full stop uh i'd say like we should be

03:54:11.800 taking measures to help people prevent having to get them also i think like after a certain time

03:54:17.240 like in the womb like the baby's been cooking for a little too long but um for the most part

03:54:22.400 i don't honestly value embryos or fetuses in my book so i don't really care what people uh

03:54:30.120 you don't value them all right do you want kids i do you're married right when you're planning to

03:54:36.060 have kids when nature calls i guess so what does that mean whenever i get pregnant is when it

03:54:42.120 happens like well you're married so is he just are you on birth control no so is he just busting

03:54:47.980 basically yeah so you're you could be pregnant right now i could be you could be uh okay so

03:54:55.160 you're trying i guess you're trying to get pregnant i guess i guess i mean how long have you been

03:55:01.640 married um like a month how long together three years

03:55:07.820 what

03:55:12.120 were you on birth control prior yeah i was oh when did you get off birth control um

03:55:19.660 like um a couple months before our wedding oh okay all right okay maybe one's cooking who knows

03:55:28.060 uh i don't know where i was going i think i was probably just gonna be like if you were to have

03:55:32.580 like a miscarriage at like two weeks or a month or something would that be upsetting to you or

03:55:39.660 not really um just because i didn't choose it yeah i didn't choose to have a miscarriage it'd 0.99

03:55:43.760 be upsetting to me okay yeah i do not have the brain power at the moment to have a fucking 0.95

03:55:49.100 abortion debate but um immigration are you fine with illegal immigration uh no i don't think it 0.98

03:55:56.480 should be controversial to say a country doesn't want to let everyone come in illegally and i don't

03:56:03.620 what about the immigrants who are already here are you fine if we deport all of them

03:56:06.940 illegal immigrants right i feel quite sorry for them i think it's really hard because there's a

03:56:13.640 lot of innocence uh involved but just like anything any wars any things in the world will

03:56:20.000 involve suffering and i personally think that the same way every other country defends their

03:56:28.760 their borders and their nation then i i think that there's should be some way to maybe help the

03:56:37.200 illegal people who are proven to be like productive to society and maybe have them pay taxes like oh

03:56:42.780 you work a full-time job you've never committed a crime i feel like maybe crime i know but also

03:56:49.540 the government i feel like they let them flood in like they almost encourage it like the biden

03:56:53.140 administration encouraged basically because they knew we're trying to undo that yeah i know we're

03:56:57.900 trying to undo it i think it's just sad for them but like at the end of the day like yeah but if

03:57:02.060 like 97 of these illegal immigrants they're not committing other crime you know they're not doing

03:57:07.860 violence or you know stealing or whatever and they have a job and they're otherwise like basically a

03:57:15.020 productive person or whatever, notwithstanding like the, you know, the, the healthcare that

03:57:22.240 they're stealing or the, uh, the benefits that they're getting that have an economic impact on

03:57:28.940 the taxpayer. Uh, this is like the, the bulk of the illegal immigrants, I think are probably good

03:57:35.920 people. They're probably good people. They just want to work. They're not going to get into

03:57:40.440 trouble but this is so many people and there are economic impacts even if they're good

03:57:48.200 so we still need to deport them would you want to deport someone who has never been on any form of

03:57:57.140 financial assistance uh from the government you don't care like if they take community to society

03:58:02.560 and they're paying taxes like what if they pay taxes i'm i'm more motivated to deport the people

03:58:07.200 who are drawing from, like, our social safety nets

03:58:10.400 and our, what's it called, welfare, I guess?

03:58:16.680 I don't know.

03:58:18.360 Those should perhaps be prioritized, but they all have to go.

03:58:22.580 Would you let them reenter, like, legally,

03:58:25.320 and they're going through it?

03:58:26.280 Probably not.

03:58:27.040 No, because they basically snuck in,

03:58:29.400 so they're not allowed back in then?

03:58:31.900 Yeah, I mean, maybe you could do, like,

03:58:34.260 I mean, I also have some, like, limitations.

03:58:36.480 I have some views as to not fully limiting, but limiting even legal immigration.

03:58:43.200 There could be some case that after a period of 10 years, they could try to apply to come here legally.

03:58:49.220 But if you've broken a law, then yeah, you should probably be barred.

03:58:53.420 You should be punished by not being allowed to attempt to legally immigrate to the United States.

03:59:00.200 What about the children who are born in the U.S.? 0.96

03:59:02.480 Well, we're fucked because birthright citizenship, which is super retarded, as the law currently stands, they are technically legally citizens, which I think is retarded and I think should be done away with. 0.90

03:59:20.880 But as it currently stands, yeah, technically they're citizens. 0.99

03:59:25.480 We can't deport them.

03:59:26.420 so if there's like you know minor children depending on illegal parents income and stuff

03:59:33.260 would you say the whole family should go or she okay the whole family should go

03:59:36.960 yeah i i understand it's sad but i i understand yeah well i mean they made a choice to come here

03:59:44.380 and the kids didn't but it's sad but i do agree well yeah the kids didn't but i mean when your

03:59:49.420 parents make choices though that can have a effect on your children you know all kinds of choices

03:59:55.920 parents make will have an effect on their children but yeah the birthright thing needs to be that's

04:00:02.040 retarded so you could be a chinese uh national and be like i'm going to take advantage intentionally

04:00:10.940 of america's birthright citizenship thing fly here at eight and a half weeks pregnant

04:00:18.500 have the kid here intentionally so that they can secure american citizenship for their children

04:00:25.720 that seems like very not the intention of what birthright citizenship should be i mean can you

04:00:33.960 agree with me on that these people who are um basically they're shopping for citizenship

04:00:39.480 essentially yeah they're like predators to america basically like they're just trying to 1.00

04:00:43.960 use it without they're taking advantage of the united states oh my god what the fuck man 1.00

04:00:49.920 bro 0.99

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04:01:41.520 uh show stream yard and sources sorry guys uh okay so i don't know you're probably more liberal

04:01:57.180 i guess um you wanted to when you were 16 you briefly dated a woman who was 21 she had a

04:02:07.100 boyfriend who was older and also had a sugar daddy who was like 80 uh they glorified a promiscuous

04:02:12.840 lifestyle doing all sorts of group activities while you're basically monogamous to her

04:02:16.760 on your end at the time and that experience skewed your idea of what healthy sexuality is

04:02:22.300 yeah that messed me up like thinking all that like lifestyle was like good yeah you were 16

04:02:28.040 and she was 21 that's here in california yeah i mean anywhere that's kind of questionable but

04:02:34.900 yeah that's pretty that's like a crime i guess probably i didn't know that like i was like so

04:02:42.700 brainwashed i thought like oh she's a girl like it's awesome now the they were having sex in front

04:02:48.580 of you no no like like like i was basically dating her i guess like we would hook up but 0.53

04:02:54.500 then she also had a boyfriend of her own and she also had like a sugar daddy okay yeah you wanted

04:02:59.140 to speak on the gender wars like misandry and misogyny yeah i mean i just think there's a lot

04:03:04.500 of divide like i i know i was a kind of an angry feminist in high school um i mean for obvious

04:03:09.740 reasons kind of the culture like a huge divide and then like yeah a lot of the boys at my school 0.89

04:03:14.540 were scumbags basically like just not respecting girls privacy and yeah i mean but what what is 0.88

04:03:24.160 the gender war with yeah so so like misogyny do you think i'm a misogynist no i don't think so 0.99

04:03:31.700 but okay yeah so you acknowledge that there's like crazy man-hating feminists yeah and you

04:03:39.720 think that there's also men who hate women there's too many of them on both sides there's too many

04:03:43.820 crazies in the landscape of just online but also just dating just like it's just i actually think

04:03:50.100 uh on this particular thing the women are worse yeah i mean i think that like i don't know how

04:03:58.760 to measure it but like the women are pretty bad i was pretty awful like before i enlightened myself

04:04:05.080 well like if you look at what's accepted on social media and tiktok like tiktok is if you

04:04:11.900 are misogynistic and to be clear i'm not saying misogyny is good if you say something misogynistic

04:04:18.840 on tiktok you're gonna get banned you're gonna get flagged people are gonna attack you it's not

04:04:25.820 loud on tiktok if you say like the most and it could be really benign pretty benign sort of

04:04:32.360 misogyny like um i don't know it can be not advocating for like hatred of women but you know 0.63

04:04:39.500 uh you know misogynistic jokes like uh shut up get in the kitchen woman something like that right 1.00

04:04:44.960 women can literally just say i hate men men suck men are trash i'd rather it'd be better to live 1.00

04:04:51.700 without men not a problem on tiktok like it's completely allowed uh so i think it's a i think 1.00

04:05:00.860 these are both problems but i'd have to say massage uh misandry is way worse uh tiktok

04:05:07.700 especially is like a breeding ground for like liberal brain rot like i feel like it's honestly

04:05:13.020 being controlled by someone who's really trying to like brainwash tiktok viewers i don't know i

04:05:18.580 could be um ick list when men try to back brag about their sex life and share intimate details

04:05:24.580 that violate their partner's privacy we kind of talked about that before

04:05:28.060 uh you said when men use guilt as a tool to extort sexual affection

04:05:33.420 what do you mean by that yeah like if a guy's like do you even love me you don't even give 0.99

04:05:39.820 me blowjobs every single day matthew's girlfriend loves him because she gives him blowjobs like 1.00

04:05:45.300 three times a day you don't even love me you're a piece of shit okay so i i would i would agree 1.00

04:05:51.080 that that's wrong that's the wrong way to you know go about you know if there's a mismatch in 1.00

04:05:59.020 sexual appetite there's ways to communicate that that are uh appropriate but um my question to you

04:06:08.920 is, well, first off, anything sex should be mutually enthusiastic. I guess we sort of brought

04:06:19.440 it up. Say somebody is dating a woman, and say she's pushing for a relationship, and she wants

04:06:24.560 the monogamy, and the guy agrees. She regularly turns him down for sex. Would you categorize it

04:06:34.540 as guilt or otherwise consider it wrong if a man had a conversation with his girlfriend like

04:06:41.420 hey i respect your boundaries um never force you to do anything i'm not being sexually satisfied

04:06:50.380 um if things continue like this i think we should break up or i want to leave is that

04:06:59.040 guilt tripping or no that is a really honest communication that's very respectable in my

04:07:05.960 opinion because i've seen some of these like sexual violence organizations who will categorize

04:07:14.360 like grape uh they consider it coercion if you're dating a woman and you've you've had

04:07:24.000 consensual sex with her and let's say there's a mismatch on the sexual appetite if you say 0.91

04:07:32.940 look in in essence this we're not having enough sex i'm gonna break up with you

04:07:40.180 they would consider that coercive i don't know if anyone here feels that that's coercive

04:07:46.580 or if that's fair it's corrosive i don't know what that means i think it's pretty fair well

04:07:54.860 you said guilt tripping yeah no i i think that well it's sad but i don't think it's unfair yeah

04:08:01.620 it's like sad but like well logically it's okay like so coercive means using force intimidation

04:08:08.660 threats or pressure to compel someone to act against their will or surrender their independence

04:08:14.480 so sexual now sexual coercion might be coercion definition

04:08:20.860 sexual coercion is the act of pressuring tricking or manipulating someone into unwanted sexual

04:08:29.800 activity against their will it relies on non-physical tactics such as guilt persistent

04:08:36.080 asking, persistent asking, threats to end a relationship, or intoxication.

04:08:44.860 So that part there, such as guilt, persistent asking, threats to end a relationship.

04:08:53.440 So that's the dilemma there with the threats to end a relationship.

04:08:59.920 What do, like, is it threatening to end a relationship if you tell your girlfriend,

04:09:06.080 hey you wanted monogamy you wanted to be in a relationship with me 0.92

04:09:11.040 we've been having sex but i want more sex and if she does if she has a different uh libido 0.59

04:09:21.500 that's totally fine and maybe the right call is split up find somebody who matches or maybe can 0.97

04:09:28.960 there be compromise you know maybe there's definitely options maybe he doesn't yeah maybe

04:09:34.740 he doesn't you know well whatever but they think like if you if okay if if your girlfriend isn't 0.96

04:09:43.560 fucking you and you're like okay well i'm breaking up with you and she's like oh uh well no no it's 1.00

04:09:50.420 okay we can have sex and you fuck her they want to say that's rape what yes sexual coercion they 1.00

04:09:56.960 want to say if your girlfriend who used to fuck you stops fucking you and then you you tell her 1.00

04:10:03.880 you don't force her you just say okay well i'm breaking up with you and you can do that in a more 1.00

04:10:10.820 diplomatic way or you can be like kind of frustrated straight up i'm breaking up with you

04:10:15.720 it's over and then she's like no no no no actually no no no uh okay i'm gonna work on it and then 0.98

04:10:23.040 she fucks you some of these people some of these people say it's rape that's crazy because at the 0.98

04:10:28.860 end of the day it's not forceful she made the decision she's choosing she's the one that's 1.00

04:10:32.800 laying up and getting fucked it's not like if there was forceful physical like then that's 0.99

04:10:39.180 if you're with a man that's like not a fucking weirdo um and you're just like yeah okay like 0.99

04:10:48.860 i'll do it then and you're just like okay let's do it like a man that's like loves you isn't 0.99

04:10:55.360 gonna be like yeah i don't want to fuck somebody that's making this feel like rape like i'm telling 0.94

04:11:03.040 you because i want you to feel like doing it more and sometimes with women like we do just kind of 0.99

04:11:08.940 get wrapped up in you know life and stuff like that and and a reminder like you know a conversation

04:11:16.440 sometimes we're like oh yeah you know what we haven't been doing it as much so i i agree with

04:11:23.460 you on that like i want there to be like she has to have the desire and it has to be there has to

04:11:30.280 be mutual desire mutual enthusiasm right the trouble you get in with and i i would agree with

04:11:35.160 you it'd feel at least for me like i she has to want it and if she's like uh like that just do

04:11:43.660 she's just like that would be a turnoff for me i wouldn't want to at that point and then we have

04:11:50.220 to like okay so we're ending things then probably but um or maybe you can reevaluating do other 0.82

04:11:57.260 stuff you know penetration you can be like hey i genuinely don't want to have sex with you and 0.97

04:12:03.020 then the conversation be like why don't you want to have sex with me and maybe figure it out there 1.00

04:12:07.900 or maybe you're just like i have a low sex drive um go fuck somebody else but please stay with me 1.00

04:12:14.620 honestly because as someone like like me who does have a low sex drive like 1.00

04:12:19.060 but i think you have a low sex drive because of what are we talking about earlier like if you 0.94

04:12:25.420 you know bake all day at a job and you go home and you don't really want to bake anymore like

04:12:30.780 this has been an issue since before i ever started doing only fans so like when i was in my almost

04:12:37.500 for your relationship and actually funny that we're talking about this do you not enjoy doing

04:12:43.980 only fans then oh no i love my job i love it but what part then if it's just kind of like hard for

04:12:50.700 you to like i think like we're misinterpreting i just don't have like the desire to like go out

04:12:56.900 with a bunch of men and sleep with them like i already pleased myself at home for my content

04:13:01.840 so you're more sexual like by myself than yeah i've already bit that like got comfortable with

04:13:08.840 my body and learned my body and it's just like the men can't live up to it like the men can't

04:13:13.780 live up to what i can do to myself do you know what i mean but your body like it's higher 0.90

04:13:19.480 do i like it that way um no because sometimes i wish i'm like damn like you know girls make 0.96

04:13:27.500 sex seems so immaculate and good what am i missing out on but also when you're spoiling yourself with 0.90

04:13:34.840 that kind of like right one thing like you know you could do yourself and you're not teaching

04:13:39.620 someone else to kind of like learn yeah i think too though i since i i've been single for like

04:13:44.760 two years out of all the man that all of out of all the men that you have slept with

04:13:49.580 how many would you say i made me come really good oh i've only been made come by like three guys 0.93

04:13:56.920 like a hair that sounds terrible and i'm not yeah so do you if you could just unfuck all those

04:14:03.420 people would you or would you still do it for the experience yeah because a lot of those oh god i

04:14:10.080 can't even see that no never mind that's bad i do want to come back to what we're talking about

04:14:15.900 though which is in that situation though like what if the woman is feigning faking enthusiasm

04:14:23.140 him i i think a man can tell when a woman's faking enthusiasm like i mean sometimes i would

04:14:30.340 hope so wait but like i guess if you're married and in a relationship to this person you can kind

04:14:36.000 of tell like even with a man you're like some women are good actors i guess but but no i mean

04:14:43.040 it's like but in assume the guy he's either naive or the woman's just very convincing and she's

04:14:50.680 feigning the enthusiasm so she's going through the motions but like internally she's checked out

04:14:56.880 right you can only pretend for so long no but i'm saying does that constitute like a sex crime

04:15:02.480 if the man has sex with her no no no but some feminists some women will say that this is sexual

04:15:10.120 coercion i looked up the google definition threatening to break up and it's like well

04:15:17.440 hold on what i don't understand like why i don't know that's confusing threats to end a relationship 0.93

04:15:25.140 if the woman doesn't fuck was it communication i used to think that though well okay well just

04:15:32.440 i think they mean threat in a sense of like saying you want to leave the relationship as a threat 0.99

04:15:37.280 which is kind of crazy because when i think of a threat i'm thinking like somebody's like i'm 0.90

04:15:41.320 gonna fuck you up if you don't do this yeah well not like hey i want to leave the relationship i'm 0.85

04:15:46.940 like i mean they're just telling you they want to leave the relationship i don't think that's a 0.99

04:15:50.700 threat well yeah but the threat yeah threat to end a relationship it would it could just be i think

04:15:56.000 using the word threat and end a relationship in the same sentence is crazy it doesn't even make

04:16:02.320 sense it doesn't make sense um that's like saying like i'm threatening to leave you in a relationship

04:16:08.100 like that's wild like the person's just wants to leave the relationship unless they're like okay

04:16:14.080 if you have intentional like you're only telling someone i'm gonna leave you to like manipulate

04:16:19.840 them to like chase you yeah it's more manipulation than a threat yeah like i feel like it like a 0.98

04:16:25.760 threat would be like i'm not gonna you know let you leave this room or feed until you have sex 0.97

04:16:32.400 with me like that's a threat that's crazy now that should be like okay that's wrong 0.97

04:16:36.800 but i feel like you can look at it more as like a manipulation tactic but not even then yeah a

04:16:43.280 threatening to end a relationship that's that i don't think that's categorized in any way it's a

04:16:49.440 form of manipulation but it's not a threat or i mean it it could be manipulation especially if

04:16:55.900 it's a bluff like yeah and well i mean in their terms if they want to say like put a label on it

04:17:05.120 but in logical terms just saying hey i feel like i want to end this relationship because you're not

04:17:12.380 having sex with me that's not manipulative and that's not a threat that's just saying how you

04:17:18.320 feel it was being you know honest they might still categorize that as a threat to end the

04:17:24.320 relationship you can categorize anything nowadays and there's like but they want to say that that's 0.99

04:17:31.220 rape it's definitely not if your girlfriend isn't fucking you and you say hey we're not having sex 1.00

04:17:39.200 i'm gonna break up with you and then she's like no no no no don't do it okay i'll fuck 1.00

04:17:45.760 and then you fuck there are people who will say that she's raped okay well then both of them need 1.00

04:17:51.880 to be grown-ass adults and sit there and be like are you sure you actually want to have sex with 1.00

04:17:56.400 me are you only having sex with me because i want to leave this relationship because my sexual 0.98

04:18:00.400 desires aren't being met it's like bro these are like like if they have common sense if two people

04:18:06.320 are in this situation and you have common sense you'll know how to like logically talk about this

04:18:11.420 i feel like that's uh all the tensions coming from a lack of sex no you guys need to have sex 0.96

04:18:18.660 maybe you'll communicate better high schoolers having the sex oh it's like they're hormones 0.99

04:18:25.240 like they want to fuck that's that's usually the case because i've had a boyfriend before that like 1.00

04:18:30.280 oh if you don't fuck me you know i'm gonna go find someone else okay bye well what if they 1.00

04:18:35.200 threatened to cheat on you is that worse or better than leaving you worse i don't think it's 1.00

04:18:39.900 actually no no but like that's worse that's worse okay i'm gonna cheat on you and go sleep with 0.95

04:18:46.800 someone else if you don't sleep with me at that point it's like okay now you either as a woman 0.99

04:18:50.840 like so grow some balls and be like okay if you're gonna cheat on me bye i don't know i'm just 0.99

04:18:55.800 how would you guys feel if the role was reversed and your man wasn't having sex with you but you 1.00

04:19:02.320 really wanted to have sex can you like the like so it's like in front of you i feel like these are 0.99

04:19:08.700 all logical ass like if you have logic if you think based off with this is my thing i i want 0.99

04:19:14.820 to bring this up before i forget i feel like women think i mean women act based off their emotion 0.98

04:19:20.980 versus logically and like if you have logic and you're logically thinking about these things and

04:19:26.480 your man tells you i'm gonna cheat on you if you don't sleep with me why in the hell are you gonna

04:19:30.860 stay with someone like that what be like actually hell no bye but no it's like well that hurt my 1.00

04:19:37.940 feelings and that like why would you grow like girls fucking balls and leave his ass like i don't 1.00

04:19:43.720 know i just don't put up with shit i just don't put up with shit and it's like i don't even feel 1.00

04:19:48.420 bad a lot of the times for like girls or whatever like that keep like like going over the same 0.99

04:19:55.560 soppy story it's like i can't even feel sorry for you because you keep putting yourself in that

04:19:59.160 situation leave go and it's not that easy to leave i understand that but it's like come on so if you 0.94

04:20:07.260 guys were in that situation and you were really wanting to have sex with your partner and he

04:20:13.200 didn't really want to have sex with you your all of your guys's options would be to leave

04:20:18.720 or cheat no no no no no communicate firstly then after that like take some kind of precautions like

04:20:25.860 but like your first initials are like leave no I don't think I would I think it's a really hard

04:20:33.120 position to be in like I've honestly been in that position where like you know like he wanted to do

04:20:38.160 it way more but like I like I guess it was excruciatingly painful but like I just didn't

04:20:42.840 want him to leave so I would like go through like excruciating pain basically just to like

04:20:47.680 satisfying him which is like honestly really sad that it's like that so it's not like it's not easy

04:20:54.280 just be like okay let's just break up because like you love a person you want to please them

04:20:57.720 it hurts but it's like all right I gotta move on um you say you have an issue with men who

04:21:04.880 abandon their children um that's if they vowed to uh have the children that they wanted them

04:21:11.380 from the get-go and before then like with the women like yeah I want to have these kids with

04:21:16.060 you I'll take care of them we're going to be a family and then they did oh okay so you're not

04:21:20.360 talking about a situation where a guy has one night stands with a girl and she gets pregnant

04:21:26.680 she keeps it he's like i don't okay that's messed up okay uh men manipulating women by faking

04:21:34.860 feelings just to extort sex yeah so like i knew someone who basically like had a joke with his

04:21:42.340 friends that he was gonna like i guess pretend to have feelings for this girl who like him 0.99

04:21:48.400 just as a bet to see if he could take her virginity 0.97

04:21:51.240 and then dump her right after. 0.99

04:21:52.560 Oh, no.

04:21:54.480 Yeah, so I'd say this is wrong.

04:21:56.800 I think men, you shouldn't lie about your intentions.

04:22:02.920 If you're not looking for a long-term thing,

04:22:05.020 and the girl is, in order to get her to have sex with you,

04:22:09.720 I think it's wrong to lie about that.

04:22:13.300 I had a situation like that.

04:22:15.520 This is common.

04:22:16.440 i think men uh not all men but men will commonly lie about their intentions have sex leave um so

04:22:26.380 uh the the virgin thing though i don't know how common that actually is um anecdotally i guess 0.97

04:22:36.300 like also um a virgin you keep her around not this guy but he didn't just fuck a 1.00

04:22:46.360 virgin once and then toss her to the side that's stupid if they're a piece of shit and they just 1.00

04:22:52.000 have a shitty mindset well sure i just brought through to him well yeah but i mean exactly in 1.00

04:22:59.140 her example she was saying i assume there was nothing wrong with the woman he just wanted to 0.99

04:23:03.780 take her virginity and dip and he didn't he failed so oh okay he did on her but he tried

04:23:09.160 apparently i don't know it how long was he trying to date her a few months i think what a waste of 0.96

04:23:15.860 time like I don't even get that like yeah that's what they did at my school like men were like

04:23:21.120 dogs and I grew up around that so that's like what made me such an angry feminist my high school

04:23:25.400 all the boys at my high school not all like dozens of boys had a big group chat where they would send

04:23:30.980 their own girlfriend's nudes to each other well that's wrong yeah that's wrong they shouldn't do

04:23:35.820 that honestly I feel like as much as it sucks to hear this it's like so normal and it's actually

04:23:43.200 it's sad it's sad but it's sad it's normal yeah no i i would agree with you that that's wrong and

04:23:49.760 they shouldn't do that and you shouldn't be leaking i mean also you said this is in high

04:23:54.380 school so we're talking like this gets into like college wait no no no high school for me

04:24:01.880 so the nudes i'm i mean look i don't even want to go into that topic yeah some of the girls were

04:24:07.340 underage right yeah that's that's like even way worse super uh crime super illegal but even if

04:24:16.020 it wasn't a crime this is not something that you should do um it's obviously wrong it's a moral

04:24:21.640 absent it being illegal um uh i so i do agree men should be honest about their intentions

04:24:30.000 but to do a little pushback

04:24:32.900 I think that

04:24:36.280 and this is somewhat related

04:24:37.860 women who wear makeup

04:24:40.400 use cosmetics

04:24:42.000 have plastic surgery

04:24:44.360 and women

04:24:46.680 well this is perhaps a better map

04:24:48.620 I'm going to come back to the makeup

04:24:49.860 the first one is women who lie about their body count

04:24:52.560 so I think if you lie about who you are

04:24:56.760 because men typically care about a woman's past, right?

04:25:00.520 If you lie about who you are,

04:25:02.500 that's some sort of immoral act you've done.

04:25:06.200 If a guy cares about it and he asks you

04:25:09.060 and you say, oh, it's one, but it's 20 or 50 or whatever, 0.73

04:25:13.920 you've induced him into having sex with you, 0.92

04:25:18.220 having a relationship with you 0.93

04:25:19.500 when maybe he otherwise wouldn't.

04:25:22.980 So that's wrong.

04:25:24.700 That's wrong.

04:25:26.760 maybe you would agree with that women who lie about things to get or anyone who lies they lie 0.99

04:25:32.100 about their um what's it called they lie about their purity they lie oh i'm not fucking three 0.98

04:25:43.520 other dudes terrible but here this is what's going to trigger you guys 0.99

04:25:50.500 makeup plastic surgery cosmetics i think you are inducing men to be attracted to you to have sex 0.96

04:26:00.220 with you to be in relationships with you that may not otherwise if they knew what you actually 0.95

04:26:07.560 looked like so you guys are lying about your uh hell yeah i am i mean when i'm walking down

04:26:16.920 the street, I don't want to be

04:26:19.140 like, my biggest thing, I

04:26:21.140 What? 0.99

04:26:22.820 She's like, what the fuck? 1.00

04:26:24.280 No, I personally like 1.00

04:26:26.320 getting ready, doing my makeup,

04:26:29.120 doing my hair, putting on...

04:26:30.580 What does that have to do with anything?

04:26:31.920 Because what you just said, that we're trying to

04:26:34.420 lure men in for what...

04:26:36.020 Yeah, a woman feels good about themselves.

04:26:38.020 How is that relevant to the point that made me?

04:26:40.100 Well, can you let me finish my point and then maybe you can understand?

04:26:42.580 Okay, go off the point.

04:26:43.360 Thank you. 0.98

04:26:43.640 well yes obviously i'm getting ready so the fine shits that are walking down the street can look 0.98

04:26:49.660 at me like yeah she's a baddie and then that otherwise wouldn't if you weren't and who and 0.98

04:26:56.740 who and who is to say they wouldn't if i had makeup on or off because they still would yeah

04:27:02.600 maybe they would i would say the chances are less not completely not there but it's less yeah

04:27:07.800 like the chances of like i mean bro makeup so drastically can change i agree especially you

04:27:16.280 asian women who yeah like the white girls the white girls you know i mean look makeup can do 0.99

04:27:24.440 a little bit but yeah the asian women be doing some crazy shit i don't even know what the fuck 1.00

04:27:29.500 they're doing they're changing their shit up and you know what if a man saw a woman with their 1.00

04:27:34.860 makeup off after and was like oh hell no i don't want to fuck with you i think that he's valid to 1.00

04:27:39.600 feel that way too though like sure i'm just saying but you you bamboozle us you fucking bamboozle us 0.99

04:27:46.780 you think she's hotter than she actually is and now like you kind of fucking bamboozled us into 0.95

04:27:55.340 a relationship okay who are you dating that you haven't seen her without makeup prior to asking 0.94

04:28:00.880 her to be your girlfriend okay hold on is it factually true that i'm not saying like some

04:28:06.420 women wear moderates or small amounts of makeup that it does have a slight impact but it's not

04:28:12.640 like a huge change is it true that women can undergo substantial they can artificially bolster

04:28:23.240 their attractiveness to men through the use of makeup yes i think the typical makeup routine

04:28:31.840 for most women is going to boost their rating by two points can't it can sometimes it can be more

04:28:40.220 sometimes a four can be a seven sometimes a five can be an eight now she's a five

04:28:48.440 but now she's getting treated like an eight honestly i've seen girls that look way prettier

04:28:54.740 when they take their makeup off okay so you're saying ugly people don't have the right to kind

04:28:59.140 of like feel better no what i'm getting from this is you're saying every woman that you see with 0.99

04:29:03.180 makeup on is like leveled up to points and when they take it off it's like oh shit like she ain't 0.78

04:29:07.560 gonna look like that but there's cases where girls look better without makeup than they do

04:29:11.420 makeup all off right now i i look the same well we will do the makeup segment but okay

04:29:18.300 why why can't the makeup thing always pisses women off because you guys cope so much about it

04:29:29.200 because you know it's true you know it's deceptive you know it's a lie no one's disagreeing yeah it's

04:29:35.000 it's a lie it's a facade make up makeup it's make believe it's made up it's not real that's not what

04:29:42.080 you look like actually well that's not what you look like the only thing that i think is like

04:29:47.880 i mean i think i i think makeup obviously can be very deceptive um i mean i work in the beauty

04:29:56.620 industry and i've had you know we've had clients come in where all we see is their facebook and

04:30:03.800 then they come in and we don't know who they are you know so um you know i i think it can be

04:30:11.640 deceptive in that way but if you are dating somebody you should at some point uh fairly

04:30:16.340 quickly into the relationship see the real them um i think like the first week of y'all like yeah

04:30:23.160 it should be pretty quickly um but as far as plastic surgery that's a little bit harder to

04:30:30.740 tell you know depends on what but because people have chin implants cheek implants like stuff that

04:30:38.360 you can't really tell how they even looked like before and now that is very deceptive because that

04:30:43.760 would be like how these men get you know the injections to chisel out their jaw to chisel

04:30:48.280 their chin and it's like if if they don't disclose that to us we have no idea and then we have kids

04:30:53.860 and we're like what what they look like that it's like that one guy that married that woman who had

04:30:59.100 a whole bunch of like plastic surgery and then their kids kind of ended up kind of chopped and

04:31:03.280 then again it's like okay if you're gonna date someone or talk to someone obviously like you

04:31:07.640 yes let them know like oh no i've had this son or have this done and if you choose to still be with

04:31:12.200 them and your kids come out ugly well then that's on you bro like you chose to still stay or like

04:31:18.520 look at a picture with the story just be honest yeah just be honest i mean unless you're trying

04:31:25.280 to hide who you really are and at that point you shouldn't be dating you know but i think one thing

04:31:32.120 about doing lashes or lipstick is just like it shows that a woman cares about how she looks like

04:31:38.540 let's say i go outside and i have no makeup and i just don't care like is that attractive like that

04:31:43.560 i don't know like when lala said like i feel good when i put on my lashes i put on my lipstick

04:31:49.500 because it's attractive that you show that you care about uh how you look yeah because i look

04:31:56.280 at a man if you don't get

04:31:58.600 haircuts if you dress bummy

04:32:00.720 it's the same way

04:32:01.980 I'm living in the wrong

04:32:05.080 time period

04:32:06.360 I'm living in the wrong century

04:32:08.860 perhaps what is this material

04:32:10.960 no cause back then it was the same way

04:32:13.360 bro women in the

04:32:15.260 1800s were not

04:32:17.060 painting their faces

04:32:18.280 anywhere near the degree to which you guys

04:32:21.040 paint your faces today

04:32:22.200 they were in the corset

04:32:23.700 white paint 1.00

04:32:25.960 well that shit looks stupid but i'll say this but let's go more recent if we go more recently 1.00

04:32:32.000 10 years ago 20 years ago women wear way more makeup now like 15 years well hold on 15 years 1.00

04:32:42.760 ago was 2010 let's say before instagram maybe around 2010 0.79

04:32:46.460 full face of makeup was rare to see it was so fucking rare to see like it would be strange

04:32:58.120 like when i was in college it was weird if a girl wore like a full face of makeup now it's common 0.86

04:33:04.860 girls would throw on maybe a bit of eyeliner that's about it like a bit of mascara that's kind

04:33:11.060 of mostly what they did um maybe if they're going out they'd put on a bit more but in college if 0.97

04:33:17.360 you're at your class you're a fucking 19 year old these girls were not caking on makeup i'm not 0.54

04:33:25.300 saying all women are doing that now but it's so much more common like the level of makeup that 0.99

04:33:30.040 women are employing compared to 10 15 20 years ago is completely different and it genuinely

04:33:37.280 uh i think even just mascara and eyeliner can like make a pretty big change in how a woman looks

04:33:44.840 like she can i don't know if it would change a no to a yes or yes to a no but i don't know 0.98

04:33:53.120 shit's crazy shit's crazy what the fuck okay um it's good for us bad for you guys i mean have 0.99

04:33:59.580 you guys ever like uh experienced being hit on more without wearing makeup than wearing makeup 1.00

04:34:05.440 no no i don't go out unless i'm ready so i don't think i made that analysis like

04:34:10.860 okay today i'm going outside without makeup yeah i'm just like and also like i work from home so

04:34:16.720 i really don't leave my house unless i'm going out to like an event or something and then i get ready

04:34:21.800 it is a sad state of affairs that we find the cultural and social zeitgeist

04:34:28.780 to be one where women feel obliged to paint their face like clowns you cover you it's it's sad the 0.66

04:34:40.880 the materialism is sad the vanity you i don't think you're going to be able to disagree with 0.89

04:34:46.740 me that the makeup usage that women do the cosmetic procedures the plastic surgery which

04:34:52.860 by the way not just the makeup usage has gone up in the past 10 20 years it's the plastic surgery

04:34:58.080 it used to be not just women men too remember drake got his abs done did he yeah he did yeah

04:35:04.980 he did i'm super like this is actually why i want to push back against it because yeah well i i think

04:35:12.940 like we should not be normalizing men wearing makeup we should not be normalizing uh like

04:35:21.000 these weird cosmetic surgeries like the guys who get bicep implants and what about the two like the

04:35:26.560 little like to pay things that they'd be putting on or so there's oh hair implants no like they

04:35:31.740 like that actual like to pay yeah i actually think that um if you look at a lot of media

04:35:38.800 in the 80s 70s 90s 2000s it was really common to see people who are balding or bald or whatever

04:35:46.480 more so balding but it's actually really rare now to see uh as commonly anyways balding

04:35:53.320 i would like to see a return to look i'm getting older that's just part of aging i accept it

04:36:04.660 now i understand i understand like in society men are judged for this and that's the same

04:36:09.860 motivation why women employ a lot of these things they want to be attractive they want to get the

04:36:14.820 best guy they want to be judged positive assessed positively by their peers um i understand the

04:36:21.440 incentives and motivations but i don't want to live in a society where everyone is so

04:36:26.300 hyper focused on their vain superficial outward appearance i'm not saying like be a slob 0.92

04:36:32.720 but the surgeries the the it's just it's mental illness it's mental illness 0.94

04:36:41.100 what mental illness i want to get surgery it's dysmorphia 10 toes down body dysmorphia 10 toes

04:36:48.700 down if you get a bbl do you have a i do and okay don't hate oh yeah regret it she regrets it and i

04:36:59.080 did it not for myself you know because we as women can be like yes i'm doing it for myself

04:37:07.240 you know i did this but i mean a big majority of us are doing it because like she said you want to

04:37:14.940 walk down the street you want men to be like oh that baddie and you know stuff like that and it's

04:37:20.080 like you know we we do it for like what we think is the male gaze when men have been telling us

04:37:28.880 we like natural we prefer this we prefer that and we're like no you know but you know that whole

04:37:35.960 term like it's kind of like controversial like I don't do it for men I do it for me like I feel

04:37:41.740 i'm in the middle of that like obviously i get ready and i want to look good so like

04:37:46.840 you know i look appealing but also like when i like even go down the street to 7-eleven and i

04:37:53.820 look like shit i'm like oh hell no like i feel so like don't look at me but is the shouldn't we

04:37:59.520 have you ever stopped to investigate why it is you feel the way you do why is it that now look 1.00

04:38:09.280 I don't think that there's some conspiracy necessarily from these cosmetic industries like, okay, we want to make women feel insecure so we can push our bullshit fucking products. 0.98

04:38:19.720 But does it ever occur to you to think, why do I think the things that I think and feel the things that I feel? 0.99

04:38:26.380 Yeah, I do that all the time.

04:38:27.840 Well, why am I going to feel bad about myself for what, from my perspective, is this very materialistic, vain, vanity, superficial perspective?

04:38:44.700 And look, I think...

04:38:46.840 They Thor donated $100.

04:38:51.280 Women fall in love with what they want to hear.

04:38:53.980 Men fall in love with what they see.

04:38:55.780 that's why women wear makeup and men lie the best thing for a woman's face believe it or not

04:39:01.940 is semen that's true um thank you basically appreciate it no what i was gonna say what i was

04:39:10.060 gonna say was i think think of sports where people start doing steroids so in order to be

04:39:16.700 competitive if everyone else like these cyclists or baseball players or ufc fighters if they're

04:39:23.520 doing steroids everyone else has to start doing steroids if they want to be able to compete

04:39:27.760 competition so so at it's like this sort of treadmill of okay uh 20 years ago a bit of

04:39:36.920 mascara and eyeliner did it far did it for like 90 percent of women now it's like you need a

04:39:44.380 contour and you need to do blush and you need lip filler and you need your chin done and you need

04:39:49.000 buccal fat removal, and you need fake tits, and lipo belly, and you need BBL, and you need all

04:39:54.600 this stuff, even just the makeup, but all the plastic surgeries, and the lip filler, and the 0.96

04:39:59.120 Botox, it's like the steroids in sports. It's like if nobody, if no women, if you could, let me ask

04:40:08.580 the question. Okay. If I could snap my fingers, and no other women could wear makeup, like just

04:40:14.540 nobody could wear makeup it didn't even exist and everyone's on an essentially an even playing

04:40:19.760 field to a degree um you're on an even playing field nobody can get plastic surgery nobody can

04:40:24.700 get botox no makeup do you take the trade a train was do you take the trade so the trade is

04:40:31.920 we have skincare sure yes yes yes you can skincare you take the trade

04:40:39.260 wait what you don't like there's no competition like i'm not like oh hell no i ain't taking that 1.00

04:40:46.960 has a fat ass now i need a fatter ass no because when i see when i see bad bitches it makes me 1.00

04:40:52.620 want to be even more of a bad bitch like damn she's bad like that's what he's saying and women 1.00

04:40:57.660 are using like makeup and like plastic surgery to like achieve those oh yeah like me i want to 1.00

04:41:03.300 get my nose done no i'm super super insecure don't do it and erase your roots i used to be

04:41:10.340 there as well okay oh wait back so can i say what i wanted originally saying what you're talking i'm

04:41:15.000 sorry i feel like if you just want to get bbls lipo and plastic surgery and you work like a

04:41:21.340 normal ass job at like walmart or something then that's a little like why but i feel like if you

04:41:26.500 are in like the dancer industry bottle service industry you know only fan whatever you're more 0.95

04:41:32.980 like you have the you make your you make your money you make your money off of your sex appeal

04:41:40.040 then yes i think it's an investment to get lip filler your nose done your body done if you make

04:41:46.400 your money based off sex appeal now like i said if you're getting stuff done like that and you work 0.94

04:41:51.560 at a normal ass job then it's like okay those are i don't know different but i feel like yeah i make 0.61

04:41:58.940 my living and I pay my 0.93

04:42:00.880 bills off of how I look

04:42:02.780 so I'm going to invest in how I look

04:42:04.680 whether that's makeup or surgery

04:42:06.420 but if no women had makeup or

04:42:08.720 plastic surgery or cosmetics

04:42:10.400 then you could still make money off of how you look

04:42:13.000 that just the baseline

04:42:14.780 would be like down here 0.99

04:42:16.520 well then maybe I'm just a shitty person 0.88

04:42:18.840 because I'd be thinking like

04:42:19.960 going to the next thing the next

04:42:22.760 topic

04:42:23.480 I am I don't know

04:42:25.620 like

04:42:26.960 uh okay we got corny that's the she messaged me and said she had a panic attack so i think

04:42:34.560 she might have been lying about her legs but okay i don't know i messaged her i was like

04:42:41.240 do you want to come back and she didn't respond so okay well enjoy the trip i guess uh we got 0.99

04:42:48.460 later uh so you're dating multiple men oh fuck my bad it's lata bro okay i'm gonna adopt you 1.00

04:42:56.720 change your fucking name how about that you're adopted i'm changing i'm your father now i'm 1.00

04:43:01.600 fucking changing your name that's ridiculous i'm calling you fucking that's like a russian 1.00

04:43:06.880 name i could call her i'm calling you vladima oh my god no no that's literally someone thought in 1.00

04:43:16.080 in russia one of my dance teachers uh he thought my name was vlada instead of lada and vlad is

04:43:22.640 literally a guy's name i was so i was that was the hugest ick i almost quit uh you're dating multiple

04:43:29.280 men not any i'm just no i'm talking okay i need to clarify i'm just talking to people i'm not like

04:43:42.880 putting anything into serious matters like it's okay it's not like

04:43:47.680 why are we bringing this up it's in your notes uh you got back with your ex

04:43:55.500 after not communicating for a year so when you met up you had sex once

04:44:04.240 and then you stopped communicating again yeah so tell us the story it was just a strange

04:44:13.640 interaction because so there was kind of like a situationship i guess uh with me and this one guy

04:44:21.960 and we kind of spoke about each other's situations like we have like this is my career this is my

04:44:28.620 career this is my viewpoint this is my viewpoint do you want to be serious uh and he was like no

04:44:35.620 and i was like at the point i wanted to be serious with him but i liked him so much that i said like

04:44:44.960 yeah it's fine to not be serious but i really wanted to be so in that situation i liked him a

04:44:52.420 lot more than he liked me i guess so it was i already lost that like uh-huh i already knew

04:45:00.000 the day it would be bad well so who stopped communicating you or him this year or last year

04:45:05.740 because we like had like cut each other off you had your ex you hadn't talked for a year

04:45:11.420 you met back up you had sex once and then stops communicating that was actually i blocked him

04:45:21.200 first why um toxic because i have to like have an ego

04:45:30.520 what no like i need to set like separate my feelings like my heart and my brain are in two

04:45:40.840 different positions right let's say that we're all right so yeah it's obvious so there's a mismatch

04:45:47.500 i mean i something's wrong with the bridge i'm mature enough to understand that but

04:45:51.620 okay i think that for him it was like for me that was like love like i like that person i value him

04:46:01.940 but for him it's just like oh a situation whatever for fun and in that when i realized that i was

04:46:09.900 like oh this is gonna hurt a lot this is gonna be bad so um i don't know why like when we already

04:46:18.360 went to that phase of breaking up and be like okay i can't stand anymore a year passed and he

04:46:24.940 just hits me up like out of the blue he said hey what's up we didn't speak for a year i'm like why

04:46:32.020 are you even texting me okay then you guys fucked once yeah and and then i was like okay see you 0.83

04:46:39.500 broken if a man's been inside you you should you should be attached to that man in a sense and then 0.99

04:46:47.780 you blocked him all right he didn't even do anything apparently he didn't even fucking do

04:46:52.660 anything she just blocked him she's like well not doing that again uh okay you want to talk about

04:46:58.080 50 50 women paying the bill um sure okay what's your position my position is that a woman should

04:47:06.320 not be paying just literally i if you don't want to judge like i i'll take it nothing the woman

04:47:15.440 should not be paying who agrees with her i only should the man pay go ahead it's okay

04:47:20.240 should be like on a first date yeah um i i think that um men should pay on a first date it just

04:47:28.080 kind of demonstrates the like leadership and the like provider aspect but it then it's also up to

04:47:34.320 the women to be modest and not go crazy and and and be like i'm gonna have the lobster and this

04:47:41.380 and that and you know everything and then you know also to like at the end of the night say

04:47:47.180 you're just not feeling like the lady this guy you could offer to be like hey you know like

04:47:53.480 i'm willing to split this you know 50 50 with you it's just kind of not

04:47:57.820 wait can i say well me personally i i don't mind paying for a first date for a guy i mean

04:48:04.440 i've spent like my whole life working like i feel like i earned my money i like to spend my money

04:48:10.560 on the guys that i'm with and i don't care if it makes me look like a simp or anything

04:48:14.260 like i like to spend money on them i don't mind buying food i don't mind i do too that's one of

04:48:19.580 my love languages is i buy my whoever i'm with like anything anything they want it's actually a

04:48:25.740 bad bad trait i have but i love like i need a daily tribute from a woman she has to send me

04:48:32.080 100 to 200 cash every day i would if i could bad that she wouldn't look if i could i would

04:48:38.080 100 what's your job i'm a behavioral therapist make pretty good money okay so i'll i take the

04:48:45.740 entire paycheck uh yeah okay uh so the woman paying the bill i mean i don't know if anyone

04:48:55.200 will have any disagreements on this but honestly look i'll state the position and if you guys

04:49:04.020 disagree so i don't have objections to men paying for dates um i think that's fine uh i think the

04:49:11.280 man should be the primary breadwinner so breadwinner my my issue is is that women demand

04:49:18.040 men be trad, do these things, pay for dates, but women aren't really holding up their end of the

04:49:25.060 deal. So I think if it's fine for women to say men should pay for dates, but I think women should

04:49:30.440 also perhaps be moving in a more traditional way. And so I would say if you're genuinely a lady

04:49:37.960 and you're moving, you're not moving in a shifty way, then of course, yeah, you shouldn't have

04:49:44.220 Can I say something really before I forget? 0.73

04:49:45.780 You shouldn't have your date paid for, but if you're an OnlyFans girl, if you're fucking multiple men at the same time, if you do OnlyFans, if you – I'm sure I can list other things that might make you not a lady, then go – you shouldn't be disrespected. 0.59

04:50:03.200 You should be still treated nicely. 0.62

04:50:06.400 Go 50-50.

04:50:07.940 Split the bill.

04:50:08.860 Did you want to go –

04:50:09.500 Yeah, I'm just going to say really quickly.

04:50:10.900 i think if you're taking a woman out on a date and if you liked her and you're like i want to

04:50:17.060 take her on a second date sure fucking pay for it if you if she was honest whatever you didn't

04:50:22.620 like her and that date went horribly then be like to be honest i didn't really like her vibe like 0.97

04:50:28.200 look he were gonna have to split the bill or something i don't know like i would be fine with

04:50:33.540 that but if a guy took me on a date and he didn't like my morals or who i was on that first date

04:50:38.320 getting to know me and he was like we're gonna have to split the bill wait say you're on a date

04:50:43.040 with a guy he wants to pay for it you aren't feeling the guy would you would you then say 0.99

04:50:51.840 well hey you're not getting pussy you're not getting a second date i'm not into you at all 0.98

04:50:58.180 let me let me cover my portion would you volunteer that i've done that before actually good for you 0.98

04:51:04.640 that's an honorable woman right there that's a honorable one thing i remembered from just from

04:51:11.680 that conversation i don't know this might be funny but i'm just showing my positions

04:51:16.100 one time i was dating a guy and i i drove the whole way to see him it was like half an hour

04:51:25.480 but then when we saw each other after we saw each other i was like

04:51:30.460 i'm i was literally not feeling it and i was like can you send me gas money because i feel

04:51:37.120 uncompensated and he didn't send me gas money for me seeing him and that was

04:51:42.840 i was like good job dude hold on i was done

04:51:51.320 good good i was like if you don't send me gas money to me see you no

04:51:59.720 um to go against that i literally drive an hour and a half every single weekend just to see my

04:52:06.520 hoes and i don't ask them for gas w i i mean if they were to drive to my city i wouldn't and they 0.98

04:52:14.600 asked me for gas i'm like motherfucking you chose to drive over here like what i'm choosing to drive 0.99

04:52:19.780 that hour and a half to go see you who am i to ask you for gas money unless you're my boyfriend 0.99

04:52:24.760 then that's different but if they're not your boyfriend they don't owe you nothing 1.00

04:52:28.240 to drive to him you weren't feeling it why should he pay for your gas i mean did you fuck 1.00

04:52:35.620 i guess yeah so you're a prostitute no i was just not feeling i was like 1.00

04:52:42.440 no he wanted to see me i was like i'm driving to you at least give me gas money like i feel like 0.98

04:52:52.120 i've been just but you said you weren't feeling him prior to the gas situation no um prior to the

04:53:00.640 gas station but after the actual meet up hook up whatever like i just like i think if you choose

04:53:11.180 to do the drive then that's did he did he offer to pay for your gas no okay so but i mean hold on

04:53:20.180 here let me recap recap it so people can parse your russian accent you drove 30 minutes to go 0.99

04:53:27.000 see a guy you you were interested you fuck him at some point after having sex with him 0.99

04:53:36.960 his penis being inside you you determine before any conversations about compensating for gas or 1.00

04:53:43.660 travel or whatever you weren't interested in him you then brought up the topic of he should help 0.99

04:53:49.800 you out with the gas even though you had no further intention of wanting to see him i guess

04:53:54.060 and he didn't pay you for the gas money well i don't see anything wrong like it would be like

04:54:00.880 even because i just felt used like at least give me some compensation i don't know like i just

04:54:05.880 because i is that what you told him i realized that pretty much because that's how i i just

04:54:13.320 think i realized like that i wasn't important for him i was like okay at least compensate me

04:54:18.480 was this your first time meeting him not first time like meeting him but first time like getting

04:54:24.520 in person not first i'm meeting in person but first time doing something so in a sense

04:54:32.140 was this the asian guy no no i remember last time you were on you something about an asian

04:54:39.020 dude or something i don't know i don't know was there that was not no no oh there was an asian

04:54:47.040 guy there was another agent guy that's long gone ago all right that's a long story i don't want to

04:54:52.620 talk about i don't know that'd be like if i went on a date with a girl and i didn't like her and i

04:55:01.420 paid for the date and then i was like or no um she didn't like me or i don't know and i was like

04:55:08.960 hey since we're not having a second date just like venmo me you're a portion i don't know but

04:55:14.540 people make fun of people like that like girls will post on twitter like oh my god this guy like

04:55:18.820 i think that's fair though i i think it's kind of fair to ask for the reimburse because now look i 0.95

04:55:25.760 know the girls are going to fucking drag you if you do it but i feel like it's kind of fair 0.60

04:55:30.420 you go on the date you pay for the date and if you want to see her again 0.98

04:55:36.100 now the woman has no obligation to there's no obligation for her to pay you but you want to

04:55:42.020 see her again and she's like oh you know i just i didn't really feel a connection but i i wish you

04:55:48.600 well give me the money give me the money but that's a request she's not obligated to give it

04:55:56.680 yeah no there's no legal obligation but i think that's kind of fair yeah but to completely eradicate

04:56:02.900 that my opinion is that i don't i don't like having that to begin with i will pay for whatever's

04:56:07.980 mine and i don't like asking people for anything yeah i wouldn't i wouldn't do that um because 0.55

04:56:14.860 actually one time i did one time one time but she was kind of being a bitch so i feel like it was

04:56:23.580 warranted yeah she was just like i don't know 0.88

04:56:28.780 but otherwise i would never i've gone on dates with girls and i paid for the date and

04:56:36.360 they weren't you know they didn't want to have a second date and i was like oh no worries like

04:56:42.040 okay have good luck have a good one you know it's a different bracket one time i had to do it one

04:56:47.520 time because she was i don't remember the details it was fucking six seven years ago but i want to

04:56:53.680 hear it no i don't want to hear it well i think so this i was not as conservative as i was probably

04:57:00.880 more moderate and this girl was like claimed she was a liberal and super feminist and uh i took her

04:57:09.340 out or i think we met for a drink or something and uh i forgot the details uh did she get like

04:57:19.560 super drunk no no i think we each had one drink and that was it i'm trying to remember uh 0.99

04:57:25.660 she was talking about equality like on the date i was like oh my god she's a feminist fuck 0.99

04:57:31.620 she believes in equality blah blah blah did you guys debate over dinner 0.99

04:57:37.980 no i was just like no anyways i don't remember all the details but uh

04:57:45.580 oh that was like if you're a feminist you should go 50 50. uh okay wait we're going to 0.99

04:57:50.780 did we do all yours wait fuck later it's lada lada 1.00

04:57:59.840 you feel like you're slowly becoming asexual 1.00

04:58:04.460 when's the last time you had sex like a week ago two weeks ago no like three months i guess 0.92

04:58:12.160 three months okay nice you don't enjoy sex no no it's not i do but it's just like i don't even

04:58:22.140 trust people anymore i just don't even want to start like going to look for someone going to

04:58:27.860 uh i don't know i'm just done like this the dating world especially in california like

04:58:36.840 everyone's talking about it i don't know if you a lot someone's not from california but

04:58:40.780 california is statistically the worst place to start a relationship even leading to i don't

04:58:47.360 know something serious not serious but it's the worst i lived in arizona i lived in wisconsin 0.99

04:58:52.160 i've lived so many different places they all ain't shit they all nothing to pick like see 0.98

04:59:00.140 someone's putting me right there is nothing left she's a sex worker though i'm not a sex 0.98

04:59:05.980 well i don't have anything first of all okay well what kind of guys are you dealing with you know 0.99

04:59:11.340 it's like better not deal with any just dead ass i might as i'm not being single living my life 0.98

04:59:19.380 talking to who i want how many men have you dated wait who was the girl who 0.99

04:59:24.880 was that you who was the guy who was the girl who's dating a guy in prison or something or

04:59:30.780 no my first husband went to prison oh okay yeah didn't the armenian girl have something or no 0.97

04:59:37.820 wait there was someone fuck whatever i don't know someone was a fighting out case i don't know 0.99

04:59:44.940 you say men not knowing what they want do you know what you want do i know what i want from a man 0.98

04:59:52.280 i don't know are you talking about in what they want in a relationship yeah some men like currently

04:59:58.460 men mostly like 90 80 i'm pretty sure maybe i'm not being like super probably 80 closer to that

05:00:07.200 what they do not move the camera where it doesn't see me real quick did you have your spot

05:00:13.540 no like where i'm not in frame you you peed no why would i pee my pants all right uh

05:00:20.440 I guess that's the best we can do 0.79

05:00:23.000 I'm going to have to go to my car

05:00:28.880 Why?

05:00:30.680 What happened?

05:00:32.000 The dot?

05:00:33.040 Yeah

05:00:33.340 And I'm scared again

05:00:35.380 Oh my god

05:00:39.100 What?

05:00:40.000 I can't say this

05:00:42.140 Oh bro

05:00:45.040 It's not on the carpet is it?

05:00:47.580 No

05:00:47.880 does anyone have a pad

05:00:51.020 but I need to go change

05:00:53.940 obviously

05:00:54.700 sorry I've had a little leak

05:00:56.980 alright somebody will

05:00:58.240 Tiffany just yeah

05:01:00.320 do what you have to do

05:01:01.560 do what you have to do

05:01:03.880 wait wait wait hold on

05:01:06.220 hold on hold on

05:01:07.420 don't drip 1.00

05:01:09.080 don't drip on my shit 1.00

05:01:12.780 oh my god 1.00

05:01:13.700 don't drip 0.98

05:01:15.260 what the fuck that was a little unexpected honestly but just a little womenly bodies i 0.99

05:01:23.820 love it okay moving on uh violets um 1.00

05:01:30.540 how gender worlds you used to be an angry feminist you met your husband you healed

05:01:40.960 I think we talked

05:01:43.080 okay we did all your notes we have

05:01:45.020 I think we did

05:01:47.220 all of that bro just make a

05:01:49.280 make a take an action take an action

05:01:51.080 oh no you're all good

05:01:52.380 just take an action take an action

05:01:54.760 it's not on you where it's on this

05:01:59.240 angle

05:01:59.500 all right you just message us when you're back

05:02:03.240 at the entry okay just message

05:02:05.220 us when you're back

05:02:06.000 okay

05:02:08.600 oh my god

05:02:10.740 uh we were talking about men that they i think we did all of deaths this is what they want

05:02:17.880 okay we got v uh you you had to take about bdsm what's what's that oh so i was saying that

05:02:29.220 uh the dom sub relationships relationship dynamic when it comes to bdsm is essentially

05:02:39.540 um just that of a man and a woman's relationship and when you talk about like obeying or like

05:02:51.040 doing all of these things when it comes to a marriage it's just like uh but when you talk

05:02:56.460 about it in forms of the dom and the sub relationship it's more like oh oh it's kinky

05:03:03.820 tell me what to do but like there's technically not a difference like if you if you really like

05:03:14.700 think about it because you have your roles in a dom sub relationship you have your roles

05:03:20.220 as a husband and a wife and they're essentially the same things and it's like we don't like to

05:03:28.160 talk about it when it comes to marriage but we do like to talk about it when it comes to a sexual

05:03:31.660 setting yeah and people don't really think about it that way because like i said if if we say okay

05:03:38.660 you're as a sub you're gonna obey your dom we're like okay and then if you're like okay as a wife

05:03:44.860 you're gonna obey your husband we're like what the fuck and it's like why why is that i know 0.96

05:03:51.260 actually like i think okay here's my take on it and i don't exactly need anyone to approve this but 0.99

05:03:58.640 um it's different when in it's it's an everyday life like you're going to grocery store he's like

05:04:06.320 buy this you're not you're you're buying this because i told you to buy this you're not getting

05:04:10.100 what you want or versus it's in bed he's like do something and you're like sure yes you know like

05:04:16.500 you're you have it it's a different mindset like it's an easier mindset to just do sexual things

05:04:24.300 than it is to like do things like for like yeah just like everyday life it's different because

05:04:31.480 when let's say you're going to the grocery store again you feel controlled you're just like i don't

05:04:36.840 want to eat like i don't want to do this why would you feel controlled like about that because it's

05:04:43.000 just like i mean how would you feel if someone be like okay you're getting this because i told you

05:04:49.620 i'm your husband i told you to buy this instead of buying what you want uh i'm your husband i mean

05:04:56.140 i'd be like okay because i mean i i genuinely like i love my husband well and and i know my

05:05:03.040 husband's like that's where it comes down to like just making like a good choice and like a partner

05:05:08.080 because if like you are with a person where you're like i don't want to do shit for this person of

05:05:13.400 course it's gonna seem like that but if you like do it for like a man that's like really good to

05:05:20.100 you and takes care of you then you're gonna he might not even ask you to you just might be like

05:05:25.500 can I go get you something is there anything it's like when girls are like oh well if a man does

05:05:30.740 this this and that I'm gonna do this when in reality I'm like how true like is that you know

05:05:37.320 I think it's the the status of the relationship how good is your communication because I've 0.99

05:05:43.380 had experiences with the same long-term relationship where one year we had terrible fucking sex i hated 0.99

05:05:49.160 him and i was like this shit sucks and then later on you know we start to talk more and understand 1.00

05:05:54.480 what we're needing and you know we get to learn each other more again like you start to fall in 1.00

05:05:59.600 love and you start to feel happy again that's when the sex starts to get good again so it really

05:06:04.560 depends like how you feel how connected you are and you know how willing you are to change if you

05:06:10.700 know your partner feels some sort of way of how you're doing yeah and i mean i guess like what i'm

05:06:16.400 like saying is like we have gotten like so far gone like as a society of like why is it a bad

05:06:23.800 thing to talk about the roles of like a husband and a wife uh particularly the wife's role because

05:06:29.780 we don't have any problem being like a mansion to you know x y and z but you know if we talk

05:06:36.120 about it in just a purely almost just like objectifying to just only a sexual sense as a

05:06:44.700 woman we're like yes and I'm like you know there's really no difference if if you're saying okay as a

05:06:51.760 sub you obey your dom we're like cool if you're we're saying a wife obey your husband we're like 0.99

05:06:56.740 yeah what the fuck like what do you mean no and it's like shouldn't we feel more comfortable to 0.95

05:07:04.460 do that if it's for our husband versus just in that world i i'm sorry for the sake of time i 1.00

05:07:10.520 have to move this on um you said the your ex-husband is a dl gay man who went on a very

05:07:16.940 well-known reality tv show which one um ink master i watched that and you can't believe how you missed

05:07:24.900 all the huge red flags because of how modern day society normalizes everything to be not 0.97

05:07:29.460 exactly what it is so he's gay your ex-husband dl gay so that's what you wrote 0.95

05:07:37.420 if i had to touch topic on that um and i guess you do unfortunately there's stain 0.98

05:07:48.120 there's stain i don't see one a blood stain wait it looks like a small one oh boy yikes okay sorry

05:07:58.300 okay you're excellent in this deal gay let's let's just let's do it um i would say that society has 0.53

05:08:09.340 just really um normalized like you said uh like we don't want to normalize like men wearing makeup

05:08:17.020 men doing like you know lots of feminine things um and society has really normalized a lot of

05:08:25.340 it's cool for men to just do lots of feminine things that we're not calling it for what it is

05:08:35.200 like a straight man isn't going to do um say like gay shoots or you know gay poses and stuff if if

05:08:47.680 you're not gay so is he he's gay i'm not going to disclose if if he is or he isn't you said 0.93

05:08:55.460 dl gay well you you if a straight man a straight man would never do gay stuff 0.97

05:09:05.560 like borderline was he a gay porn star not he didn't do anything like with a man 1.00

05:09:17.680 how was he gay then i don't understand i love when you fuck a woman in a homosexual way 1.00

05:09:24.100 you know one of the gayest things you can do is fuck a woman okay that got me thinking hold on 1.00

05:09:32.060 oh great so what is he the guy you decided that he was gay or was he actually gay or you just 1.00

05:09:39.940 don't want to like put him on the spot right now because we're all here and like it's no i i i

05:09:46.940 don't want to like get into like anybody's like personal like lives especially like when it comes

05:09:54.320 to like you know like sexuality and stuff like what I'm saying is like straight men straight

05:10:02.900 masculine men don't do things that are considered gay and they're still like no I'm straight

05:10:10.580 do you mind me asking what were kind of the signs that you saw um by doing like

05:10:18.140 i mean she said like poses like with other men like no not no not with other men but it was

05:10:24.980 for gay publications yes okay like a magazine uh like internet stuff well there's gay for pay i

05:10:32.840 guess you know what if it's a joke like can a straight guy like joke about acting gay like 0.74

05:10:39.360 kiss his homie on the lips i mean no but that's what i mean like that that kind of behavior is

05:10:47.120 like so normalized that a man could be like yeah i kiss another man but i'm not gay and we're like 0.59

05:10:53.020 okay cool and now i'm just like i mean would a straight man do that uh i think no you think a

05:11:00.900 straight man would yeah like i have friends who are guys who they would like think it's really

05:11:05.740 funny to be gay like they loved and i mean like oh you know like it's not a secret you know it's

05:11:13.580 just all right makeup removal segment all of it everything what everything just smell really good

05:11:23.720 okay i'll do it oh my god my skin is breaking out though hormonal crashes not fair this saves me

05:11:32.060 the routine for later thank you you're welcome i'm a i'm such a gentleman see such a free too

05:11:38.660 thank you i know i should charge you guys i'm gonna invoice i'm gonna invoice you guys

05:11:44.480 i'm gonna ignore it hey where's that's so you're gonna come back and take hers off too 0.97

05:11:48.900 i don't know if she i don't know i don't know did she take her shit or did she 0.97

05:11:55.380 who knows whatever uh any final thoughts from anybody i think oh my god i think i'm gonna 0.92

05:12:02.340 wrap the show i'm sorry those two ladies like when i first saw them and i said hi and they

05:12:07.560 just walked past me and looked at me like what the fuck i obviously know we're part of the same 0.99

05:12:11.080 fucking show they were bitches oh really oh yes they did not talk to anybody they were giving 1.00

05:12:16.200 dirty ass looks wow that's narcissistic abuse i think they hate me for pledging allegiance to 1.00

05:12:24.160 u.s yeah they yeah i wanted to ask her if her boyfriend cheated on her but there wasn't a time 1.00

05:12:31.280 to ask which boyfriend the 12-year relationship because she's out of nowhere she said she was

05:12:37.980 like i fucking hate only fans models out of nowhere i was like oh okay i mean i guess you 0.74

05:12:42.580 could have that opinion but what she was talking about it just came out of the blue she was like 0.98

05:12:46.640 i can't sit in one room well yeah i think he was cheating i think he was cheating or something i

05:12:51.800 little bit of like animosity but that's okay yeah uh save them and then hold it up spread them

05:13:00.200 spread them only needed one seriously one was enough oh you still you still got some eyeliner

05:13:06.800 on there mascara or something where i have a bunch on i don't have a mirror really nice

05:13:11.640 take the glasses off let's see i can't see i can't even see myself i have lash extensions

05:13:19.780 how many fingers am i holding up well girl what's your vision like it's not that bad

05:13:29.460 i don't even makeup makeup yeah uh okay we get new ratings now trying to think

05:13:40.740 you're all you're all 10 out of 10s you're all beautiful thank you you too brian i don't have

05:13:47.060 what kind of asian are you guys i'm filipina filipina and you're uh i don't know how to answer

05:13:56.120 this question adopted no my dna test would say i'm half chinese but my family like does not

05:14:04.040 identify as chinese at all oh wow

05:14:06.040 they're transracial no like so basically they're an ethnic group that was not ethnically or like 0.98

05:14:15.560 racially or like culturally chinese and then chinese like slain them and killed them and

05:14:20.360 pillaged them and stole all their stuff so now they don't really exist oh uh okay it's okay 0.54

05:14:29.640 well not really so like when you're i don't know if it was your parents or great it was my

05:14:35.760 grandparents grandparents yeah they came from which country uh so my grandparents came from

05:14:41.860 what is now called china it wasn't always right yeah it was originally called sipsang pana

05:14:47.920 different dynasties i guess and then they had to escape and then they lived in laos and then they

05:14:53.200 got uh like killed again and then they came to us my grandparents nice yeah laotian um they're not

05:15:02.720 laotian like technically but they lived there and they adopted the culture and like food and language 0.80

05:15:09.020 good shit uh were you going with that you know and then i'm white and black on my dad's side 0.87

05:15:14.420 white and black yeah oh my grandpa is like he he looks 100 black but he's not actually so 0.99

05:15:21.620 so you're 25 percent no like black i'm like nine percent it's just like weird how phenotypes come

05:15:32.960 out because like my grandpa looks like 100 percent even though he's only like 30 percent i can kind

05:15:40.020 of see it a little bit so my lips i've heard but i don't know well there are there's definitely

05:15:50.580 asian people who have like full plump lips that is true yeah you see like more typically a bit

05:15:59.180 more south like in vietnam they typically have more why not fake you got lip filler no they're

05:16:07.940 nice oh your lips are fake oh they're not fake oh i thought they're real didn't you just say

05:16:12.820 they were fake no she said they were not oh we're not fake okay i don't think yours are fake no just

05:16:19.820 kidding no just kidding uh okay any uh final thoughts from anybody else any final topic or

05:16:28.320 thank you for having us this is your chance this is your chance right now

05:16:32.740 topic from anybody final question final thing you want to challenge me on

05:16:39.160 nothing that's all that's all you got that's fine oh i wanted to ask you how come your profile

05:16:46.880 pictures from like really really long time ago which one uh all of them like on my personal

05:16:52.960 instagram the brian you're stalking his instagram i follow him she's in love with me

05:16:58.040 oh okay no i mean she did say maybe yeah so i mean for profile pictures i think sometimes

05:17:06.320 you'll see this on twitch people will use old photos or even childhood photos sometimes for

05:17:11.820 their profile picture in this case i am live streaming in uh 1080p every sunday if somebody

05:17:23.820 wants to know what I look like I'm not hiding it they can just watch the stream but it's just

05:17:32.800 an old photo of me when I was wearing a fake mustache that I just think is funny are you

05:17:38.640 trying to be like Brian you're catfishing because it's like a little bit I got catfished that way 0.99

05:17:42.640 um there's a guy trying to fuck you no I'm just saying out of experience but you know there's a 0.99

05:17:46.920 guy that he was not the weight that he had put from his photo and he was extremely overweight 0.99

05:17:53.220 and so when I met up with him on the date I was like where are you and he's right in front of me

05:17:58.900 I was like oh shit well yeah so I mean I'm not really using Instagram for like it's not Tinder

05:18:06.880 for me I guess so yeah I would say that my show is live every single Sunday I post four I post 0.91

05:18:16.780 four reels per day shorts across not just instagram all these other platforms i don't

05:18:24.800 think there's any dispute as to what i actually look like so as a funny profile picture sometimes

05:18:31.120 people use like avatars you know uh so this i think what you're trying to get at is like

05:18:39.780 brian you're catfishing because it's an old photo wait well how i mean if it was the case that i

05:18:47.060 wasn't um i didn't have a live show and people could just see me on video hear my voice see what

05:18:55.520 i look like every single sunday maybe you might have a compelling argument there but just having

05:19:02.960 like kind of a funny like i have a giant fake mustache that i could never grow yeah naturally 0.95

05:19:08.580 it's like it was a it was like a glue on mustache from 10 plus years ago some shit 0.74

05:19:13.600 it's just a funny photo i don't think it's that deep to be honest i just have the question 0.81

05:19:18.840 should we pull up your instagram and see how if you want go ahead how realistic yours looks i

05:19:24.380 don't know i just feel like i from all the podcasts i've watched you've kind of picked

05:19:28.300 through a lot of people's instagrams and social media so i was like oh i might as well go dig the

05:19:32.140 same and see what's up oh so you were talking she's in love with me it's confirmed uh

05:19:38.560 how long have you been watching the podcast like before you got a few months a few months

05:19:43.820 yeah i'm not gonna lie i thought of a question also for you brian

05:19:47.520 oh you're i think he's listening okay uh since you like host a dating podcast you know like

05:19:55.280 why do you think you are not like in a committed like partnership i guess do you know what my

05:20:01.660 relationship status is oh well i'm keeping it vague i keep it vague i don't really talk about

05:20:07.720 it because for privacy uh you do have a wifey i didn't say that i wouldn't i can neither confirm

05:20:17.180 nor deny the existence of uh if i was single i would say the same thing if i had a girlfriend

05:20:23.120 i would say the same thing whoever i don't really date influencer chicks so they're not public like

05:20:29.320 that i would protect whoever i'm dating because i'm i have a very controversial podcast i get

05:20:36.740 death threats i don't want that to blow back on the girl who i'm dating who may not be exposed

05:20:44.860 to like the toxicity that is like content creation and being online um and uh yeah that's pretty much

05:20:56.560 it okay that's a good answer actually yeah no it's like like for me i can handle it but

05:21:04.520 if i was public with my if i was dating a girl and i was public with it like taking photos of

05:21:10.180 with her tagging her she would be ruthlessly fucking targeted she'd get dm'd she'd get hate 0.83

05:21:18.600 mail um so uh also i mean it's just the podcast having some more traditional takes having some 0.93

05:21:29.500 more controversial takes not healthy mixing that in a relationship well well that's going to draw

05:21:36.480 negative attention from people but also on politics adjacent so anytime you're politics

05:21:42.280 adjacent because we've had big political people come on the show and the show does obviously lean

05:21:50.660 conservative uh yeah you're gonna be targeted so i'm not going to expose my normie 0.99

05:21:59.520 maybe exists maybe doesn't girlfriend to like harassment and they're gonna fucking 0.91

05:22:07.540 send her like no i'd never do it i would keep any relationship i have private 0.77

05:22:12.360 so i just don't talk about it what does she call you master and sir

05:22:16.960 uh if i did have a girlfriend she would master it's like whatever sir yes if you did have a

05:22:25.240 girlfriend so you just accidentally slipped that you don't have one if i did or didn't have a

05:22:29.640 girlfriend oh you didn't say i'm speaking i'm speaking in ambiguity oh yeah my bad um okay

05:22:37.840 do you think most people would disagree with most of your views like in america depends on what

05:22:43.080 like just like if they had to compile all of your views on a list and put a check mark or x you think

05:22:47.960 people would disagree with you uh i don't know probably 50 though i don't know if it's the

05:23:01.400 majority but around 50 why i'm just curious what like the perception of like the podcast is it's

05:23:10.560 kind of hard to tell, honestly. Well, let me ask you a question.

05:23:12.740 If you lived in a society where 99%

05:23:15.600 of people were fine with

05:23:16.800 abuse of children, just because

05:23:18.880 there's a consensus and a majority

05:23:20.620 who think it's okay to abuse children,

05:23:22.880 would it still be

05:23:24.760 okay to abuse children?

05:23:26.800 No. I'd be the outlier. I'd be like, 0.96

05:23:28.860 fuck all that shit. Right. So in this case, 1.00

05:23:31.220 frankly, I don't care if a majority

05:23:32.920 of people disagree with me.

05:23:35.220 Tiffany, please sit down. I need you

05:23:36.860 to pull something up.

05:23:40.560 uh let's see this r slash

05:23:44.380 what's that do you know what i'm talking about it's i think it's in the memes hold on in discord

05:23:56.860 let's see yeah you're gonna scroll 0.98

05:24:01.760 oh wait fuck where is it my tweet 1.00

05:24:06.580 damn how much fucking memes have i posted wait maybe it's media hold on 1.00

05:24:12.800 this will be the final thing that we wrap uh 0.99

05:24:16.660 yeah is there just one i guess just pull that up 0.93

05:24:23.540 this is this is what you have to do even though all the fucking mpcs are gonna say you're wrong 0.95

05:24:34.400 you gotta be like no you're wrong you're wrong that's my perspective so is that how you operate 0.98

05:24:43.820 if the i'm scared of getting canceled i'm scared like basically for my life if i were to say

05:24:49.200 something that i even though i think is true like if a majority didn't agree i would like

05:24:53.220 probably not say it and this is why we need a patriarchy to come back you guys are failing

05:25:00.420 at patriarchy though like all these men are like not really standing up to what's right i don't

05:25:05.560 know how so like i've i honestly believe that if like liberalism at its extreme takes over america

05:25:13.860 then we will be so like fragile to being invaded or conquered or something and like i don't know

05:25:19.320 well we kind of already to a degree uh you said invaded could be worse could be like way worse

05:25:28.580 really soon i don't know i am i'm kind of um i'm pretty bullish i'm pretty optimistic about the usa

05:25:37.940 there's many many issues many things that are wrong but i think i'm i'm gonna be optimistic

05:25:45.200 that uh i think we can do good things all right i gotta fucking wrap uh any anything else any

05:25:56.440 final things from anybody i just think these days men are getting a little more feminine and just 0.87

05:26:02.380 like freaks me out uh well yeah sure and i think women are more masculine why are we going deep

05:26:11.140 all the way around like we're switching everything

05:26:14.480 that's why you need to get yourself a little babushka like

05:26:20.360 it's a 50 50 hold on my god later did i get it right oh lada i'm changing your name i'm calling

05:26:33.160 you l-dog you're l-dog from now on you need to get find yourself a babushka she you know look 0.99

05:26:39.640 you've been you've been down the wrong path you know you've been you've been fucking asian dudes 1.00

05:26:45.160 Whoa, that sounds bad 1.00

05:26:47.860 Hold on, there's more 1.00

05:26:49.260 There's nothing wrong with fucking Asian dudes 1.00

05:26:51.180 I'm just saying, she got played by 1.00

05:26:53.060 Okay, that's, hold on

05:26:54.280 That was from another podcast

05:26:56.140 I love Asian guys

05:26:57.280 I am a number one defender of Asian men 0.99

05:27:00.320 What I'm saying is, she's fucking Asian dudes 1.00

05:27:02.300 She's fucking black dudes, she's fucking white dudes 1.00

05:27:04.540 Latino dudes 1.00

05:27:05.240 I love diversity

05:27:06.080 Multiracial

05:27:06.880 Diversity is a strength

05:27:10.260 I'm just saying

05:27:12.020 Look, I don't know why I brought race into it 0.99

05:27:14.160 I'm fucking delirious. 0.99

05:27:14.960 I'm literally fucking delirious. 0.99

05:27:16.680 You're having like a fever. 0.99

05:27:18.420 I do have a fever. 0.99

05:27:19.900 I just took fucking 700 milligram of Tylenol. 0.99

05:27:23.780 I'm just saying. 0.99

05:27:25.360 I don't know. 1.00

05:27:25.900 Look, that was a fucking foot in my mouth. 1.00

05:27:27.540 What I'm saying is, the issue is not the fucking race. 1.00

05:27:30.000 It's just fucking, you're fucking around too much in L.A. 1.00

05:27:33.340 You're fucking too many dudes. 1.00

05:27:34.440 Go find a guy who will take care of you and you won't be toxic and you guys can have kids. 1.00

05:27:44.160 i don't fuck everyone okay that's not true why did you say that okay 1.00

05:27:59.340 okay anyways uh okay uh are we forgetting anything t-dog 0.99

05:28:05.360 fuck it i'm i'm dying i'm dying uh okay uh let me do the outro here thank you guys who made it to 0.97

05:28:17.820 the end that's originally it was nine one third got cut down now it's survival you made it this 0.98

05:28:27.780 was you guys were very fit panel i'm proud of you guys survival of the oh was that a

05:28:34.260 like a compliment she said survival of the fittest so yeah i almost didn't make it

05:28:40.820 uh wait where is it ah okay 0.98

05:28:44.280 uh gg well played guys hit the like button short stream i'm fucking dying boys i need a rap 0.56

05:28:53.260 uh leave a nice comment thank you for tuning in tonight uh thank you to everyone who supports 0.97

05:28:59.480 the show appreciate it guys sunday 5 p.m pacific live uh live again sorry guys fucking dying here 0.95

05:29:06.820 fingers crossed i'm fucking better next sunday fingers crossed holy shit this was brutal 0.99

05:29:13.120 elderberry fucking brutal oh i thought about canceling it but i was like no 0.99

05:29:17.820 any girls who want to be on the show dm whatever on instagram uh oh seven's in the chat oh seven's 0.98

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Whatever Podcast - August 10, 2026

4 Women WALK OFF The Podcast？! Brian vs. Woke Feminist HEATED DEBATE？! ｜ Dating Talk 307

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