Whatever Podcast - 4 Women WALK OFF The Podcast？! Brian vs. Woke Feminist HEATED DEBATE？! ｜ Dating Talk 307

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00:01:30 welcome to the whatever dating talk podcast i'm your host brian atlas uh for those of us who are

00:01:51 just for those of you who are just tuning in we unfortunately had to uh restart the stream

00:01:57 we're having some uh technical difficulties with OBS our internet I'm pretty sure I fixed it uh

00:02:05 if you guys in the chat can tell me if it looks looks okay it should look okay now went back there

00:02:11 fixed it really quick so sorry for the for the delay though guys I do apologize um you guys have

00:02:18 heard the intro a thousand times uh TTS is going to be 100 instant TTS where did I put my pen

00:02:26 Is my pen over there, Tiffany?

00:02:29 Can you bring it to me?

00:02:32 Yeah, so TTS is now instant, $100 instant TTS.

00:02:39 We're not doing the read threshold, $10 display, and I'm sick.

00:02:45 I have a sinus infection, so Brian sounds like he's dying.

00:02:51 Yes, I am. 0.98

00:02:52 You know, in show business, the show must go on, though, so it's not the first time I've been feeling like shit and done the show. 0.58

00:03:00 So, anyways, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves, starting with you. Go ahead. 0.74

00:03:05 Hello, I'm Violet. I'm 22. I'm from California. I have a bachelor's in psychology, and I work with youth.

00:03:16 What happened? Oh, you have a bachelor's in where?

00:03:20 Psychology.

00:03:21 From where? San Francisco State University. SFSU? Yeah. Okay. When did you graduate? I just

00:03:30 graduated last spring, so. So? In May. Okay, so it's pretty fresh. What was a class you took in

00:03:41 your final semester quarter I don't remember you don't remember no it was online yeah well you took

00:03:55 you got your bachelor's in psychology yes so I assume you took some psychology classes

00:04:01 yeah I did take a lot of psychology classes I just can't did you take a psychology class

00:04:06 recently um yeah yeah what was the name of the class i i can't remember two two months ago two

00:04:15 months ago um well how about this then uh i won't dig into a specific class but you do have a

00:04:23 bachelor's degree in psychology which means you have or should have a stronger understanding of

00:04:29 psychology than, say, a normal person just off the street. Could you convey to me maybe one or

00:04:37 two things, like one takeaway that you learned about or from your studies that maybe we might

00:04:46 not know? I'll say the whole field of psychology is definitely, in my opinion, oversimplified. I

00:04:52 think it is a social science, but it kind of tries to pretend to be a real science. And I found a lot

00:04:58 of kind of confusion when uh i felt like it was trying to put people into neat categories or tick

00:05:05 off boxes about them when i feel like it's not really a holistic view of the human soul so

00:05:10 that's what my biggest takeaway from studying psychology would be psychology is not

00:05:16 a what it's a social science no no i i heard that part but at the end there you said it's

00:05:22 I feel like it's not a holistic perspective about a human being, like our minds.

00:05:27 I don't think it could actually be explained in a scientific way a lot of the time.

00:05:34 Okay.

00:05:36 But that would be, I guess, your own takeaway.

00:05:40 Yeah.

00:05:40 But I assume they didn't teach you that.

00:05:43 No, but that's honestly my biggest takeaway, going to school, studying it.

00:05:46 So it was a scam.

00:05:47 i'm not going to use that word but i think we all have different interpretations of

00:05:53 what we learn in school right but uh you um

00:06:00 can you like that's that's kind of your your takeaway but is is there something you were

00:06:08 actually taught that's what i'm looking for um i think i was taught that the human brain

00:06:15 has a lot of diversity in people's experiences as a human.

00:06:20 There's a lot of different things we go through

00:06:23 and that we're always trying to find ways

00:06:26 to be healthy and happy by using therapy or medications.

00:06:35 Okay.

00:06:41 But like, what about,

00:06:42 I'm looking for a psychological principle.

00:06:45 like something that you were taught from an academic lens that you could relate to us

00:06:52 i don't know if i'm just blanking or i feel like my education was honestly not

00:06:58 maybe it wasn't valuable enough to me that i could regurgitate something like that that i feel was

00:07:05 so important honestly uh did you have student loans or did you uh no my uh parents paid for it

00:07:13 How much, how much was it? I'm not sure. Well, state schools typically aren't too expensive.

00:07:21 You were in-state or out-of-state? In-state. Okay, so I don't know how much that would be, but

00:07:28 okay, and you said you're from where again? California. What do you do for work? I work

00:07:39 with youth with me is it with youth oh okay all right uh and you're a musical artist is that

00:07:49 correct um i'm trying to get into it i uh was a band kid and i i've always liked music i've been

00:07:55 trying to like sing and uh make songs but i'm barely starting out with that hobby i guess

00:08:00 do you play any instruments i play the flute mainly i flute yeah i was a band kid i i'm trying

00:08:07 to learn guitar but i'm not that good are you a soprano singing wise i've never uh tested my

00:08:14 voice but probably not because i don't sing very high okay what about you hi i'm litten i'm 27

00:08:23 years old i'm from the bay area um right now i am i've had some college i'm currently not in school

00:08:32 and I am an OnlyFans model. How long you been doing OF? I've been doing it for about two months

00:08:39 now. Two months, okay. And you were in school? I was. Did you get a degree or? No, I was working

00:08:47 on my associates in business administration. Okay. And you have, you wrote in your notes,

00:09:00 you have disabilities yeah i do um i have a lot of um let's see health needs and uh it prevents me

00:09:09 from working normal jobs and i need a lot of accommodations so it's been really hard to find

00:09:14 work for me and therefore i've kind of resulted to doing this got it okay what about you what's

00:09:21 What's up, guys? My name is Lada. Sorry. My name is Lada. I am from Russia, originally. I'm in L.A.

00:09:31 I went to college. I kind of dropped out right now.

00:09:34 Age?

00:09:36 Age 19.

00:09:39 Okay. What part of Russia?

00:09:42 St. Petersburg, next to the Gulf of Finland. 0.79

00:09:47 Got it. What about you?

00:09:49 hi my name is Courtney um I'm 35 I was getting my associates in psychology I took a I had an

00:10:00 accident in her myself I took a 10-year-long break and then I started zoology and animal

00:10:04 rehabilitation well wildlife rehabilitation and zoology okay all right

00:10:12 hi i'm chris i live in burbank and i'm 40 years old um i've kind of been all over the place when

00:10:22 it comes to work clerical things but i have been a host or a reporter independent reporter um for

00:10:30 about eight years now and um where are you from burbank originally like you born and raised no

00:10:38 No, I'm Armenian. I was born in Yerevan, Armenia.

00:10:43 Gotcha. Okay. There's a robust Armenian community in Los Angeles, right?

00:10:49 Huge, yes. Bigger than our country, actually. 0.95

00:10:51 Oh, wow.

00:10:53 Sadly.

00:10:56 Okay. And college or anything like that?

00:10:59 I had a bachelor's degree after on and off 10 years.

00:11:04 I had kids and then I went to beauty school for a while.

00:11:06 And then finally, I'm like, you know what, let me finish this.

00:11:08 So I went to University of Phoenix.

00:11:11 Okay.

00:11:11 Yeah.

00:11:11 Got it.

00:11:12 What about you?

00:11:13 Hi, everyone.

00:11:14 I'm Lala.

00:11:15 I'm 20.

00:11:16 I'm from California, born and raised.

00:11:19 And I do OnlyFans, and I'm a cam girl.

00:11:24 And no, I never went to college.

00:11:25 No college?

00:11:25 Okay.

00:11:26 No.

00:11:26 What about you?

00:11:27 I'm Ani.

00:11:28 I'm 33.

00:11:29 I'm going to university right now, studying psychology.

00:11:32 I've done lots of different variant careers.

00:11:36 Okay.

00:11:36 my life, but now I'm pursuing my dream. You're currently in university, is that correct? Yes, sir.

00:11:43 You have a bachelor's degree already? I'm about to conclude in the next few weeks.

00:11:48 And are you going to get a graduate degree? I'd like a PsyD, PsyDoctorate.

00:11:55 Is that a master's or what is that? I think it's similar to a master's, but it's more

00:11:59 doctorate. And you got your, you're about to get your bachelor's degree in psychology,

00:12:06 is that correct yes okay so you recently just took some classes yes okay uh well same question

00:12:12 asked her uh could you relate to us one or two takeaways or you know things you learned

00:12:19 from psychology certainly um stress is a very big killer a lot of chronic conditions chronic pain

00:12:29 even diabetes can be exacerbated by stress and i know we hear that all the time but it's the way

00:12:36 that we deal with things that matters and so uh you asked her what she took last what class she

00:12:42 took i took a sensory neuroscience class very interesting how the senses work vision sight

00:12:47 sight hearing a taste uh working together you know to provide our perspectives okay next

00:12:57 um my name is v i am from colorado i am 35 years old i went to an occupational college just to get

00:13:07 my esthetician certification and i do we do farming we own a tattoo studio and a esthetician

00:13:17 studio and i believe that's all all right next hi i'm destiny i'm 26 years old um i was pretty

00:13:28 much born and raised in the high desert um i don't have any school but i've been working

00:13:33 as a behavioral therapist for the past eight years with kids with disabilities

00:13:37 okay sorry i missed this age 26 26 all right that's everybody uh so we're gonna get into

00:13:48 the relationship stuff we're gonna get into uh some other topics but first got a little drama

00:13:55 we got to cover so uh tiffany i'm gonna have you pull those up in just a second um actually

00:14:01 we're going to talk about the candace owens andrew wilson debate drama really really quick

00:14:09 briefly and then we'll get into the the uh typical show um i did have one question uh

00:14:17 uh let's hold on

00:14:20 hold on uh so we have a russian

00:14:27 and you were both born in armenia is that correct yes was anyone else born in a different

00:14:35 country or what's that i'm boring so i've uh for the armenians and for the russian here i have uh

00:14:45 got a quick question uh uh first off you were born in russia yeah yeah how long have you been

00:14:53 in the usa uh now that i'm called uh three years and do you have citizenship or no yeah you do

00:15:01 okay all right and then uh for you two uh you guys were both born in our media when did you

00:15:09 moved to the united states in 1991 1981 so when you're a kid it was four yeah four i was young

00:15:18 as well but i went back several years on and off school there gotcha okay uh so here's the question

00:15:25 but uh you you guys are also american citizens is that correct okay in a morally neutral blame

00:15:32 free hypothetical conflict between the united states and your birth country so in your guys's

00:15:38 case Armenia and your case Russia where neither side is right or wrong to which country is your

00:15:44 allegiance uh why don't we start why don't we start with you sure um given that my country

00:15:52 is extremely small and constantly at the brink of war and has been for centuries and um America's

00:16:01 supposed to be the greatest nation and super powerful and almighty and all that um

00:16:06 factoring that in and also just me being born there i would have my allegiance with my own

00:16:13 country okay what about you uh unfortunately uh as much as i've used america uh as a crutch

00:16:22 leaving my country for better things uh at the same time this country that i'm in harms my country

00:16:29 um so unfortunately i would have to pick my homeland i came here for a better life

00:16:39 but i wouldn't need to if there wasn't war and uh one quick question and i'm not familiar with

00:16:50 the varying conflicts that uh armenia finds itself involved in you said that the united

00:16:57 States is, um, I forgot your exact wording. Harms. The United States harms Armenia. Um,

00:17:06 what I'm not familiar if there, if there is a conflict between the U S and Armenia can, how,

00:17:11 how so it's indirect. Um, they fund the nations that destroy us. Uh, they give them weapons. 0.75

00:17:18 so turkey turkey azerbaijan okay uh so the u.s does not have a good relationship with armenia

00:17:29 they say that we're diplomatic and we're good but they still provide the weapons and those weapons

00:17:34 annihilate our people and when they find them they find the seal of usa or sometimes another country

00:17:41 recently our company softball team lost the big game by one run then dale tried to console us

00:17:47 with the quote, winning isn't everything.

00:17:50 Well, Dale and I are very different.

00:17:54 I get early payout from Bet365.

00:17:56 If my team goes up big, I get paid out instantly,

00:17:59 even if they blow the lead later.

00:18:01 Sound familiar, Dale?

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00:18:11 Right, okay.

00:18:13 And then to you, you're born in Russia,

00:18:16 uh russia or the united states where's your allegiance um at this point strangely i would

00:18:24 probably say definitely the united states got a patriot got a patriot here um

00:18:32 so going back to both of you so you're uh you're 40 you're 33 yes uh so tell me of the 40 years

00:18:43 of the 33 years can you tell me how much total time so i know you go back and forth how much

00:18:50 total time have you spent in the usa and you can just say you know years or whatever uh and armenia

00:18:59 i've been here 36 years and i've only been in been to armenia three times for a couple of weeks each

00:19:06 okay what about you 23 years here 10 years on and off there okay all right uh huh

00:19:13 interesting interesting allegiance to armenia huh now uh

00:19:23 i'm wondering how you guys because you weren't born here so i you naturalized

00:19:31 as citizens we had green cards when we came oh green cards was there us i'm not familiar

00:19:39 from the 1980s did the united states grant asylum to armenians well we weren't refugees but we

00:19:47 we had acquired my family and i had acquired a green card we came here and our living situation

00:19:54 in armenia was horrendous at the time because of the soviet union crashing in 1989 and so we

00:20:01 came here and we just lived and worked until we had our citizenship it took about 10 years

00:20:07 now the citizenship process did you you had to like take a test right and apply for it yes yes

00:20:16 they give they tell you when it's time sometimes you wait many many years and then you go and

00:20:23 swear in and take a test and then there you go now um can you tell me uh i guess what age did

00:20:32 you guys go through the naturalization process what how old were you when you got your citizenship

00:20:38 private chat tiffany go ahead oh uh how old was i i was 15 15 okay i was probably five or six oh

00:20:48 five or six when you got the green card or when you became a citizen well to be honest i don't

00:20:54 know i'm just shooting the number because i've i feel like i've been a citizen since i've ever

00:20:57 known so um but it was before i we went to back to armenia when i was 10 and are your parents now

00:21:04 citizens of the usa yes okay uh well here's my confusion um when people immigrate here

00:21:14 and they naturalize you swear an oath of allegiance to the united states go ahead pull it up tiffany

00:21:20 zoom it in now i'm gonna who's a good reader uh i can read i'll have you read it you see where it

00:21:29 says starting after oath yeah i hereby declare on oath that i absolutely and entirely renounce and

00:21:37 abjure all allegiance and fidelity to any foreign prince, potentate, state, or sovereignty

00:21:44 of whom or which I have heretofore been a subject or citizen, that I will support and

00:21:51 defend the constitution and laws of the United States of America against all enemies, foreign

00:21:55 and domestic, that I will bear true faith and allegiance to the same, that I will bear

00:22:00 arms on behalf of the United States when required by the law, that I will perform non-combatant

00:22:06 service in the armed forces of the united states when required by law that i will perform work of

00:22:11 national importance under civilian direction when required by the law and that i take this

00:22:16 obligation freely without any mental reservation or purpose of evasion so help me god

00:22:21 do you recall taking that oath i probably did i don't recall all of that but that sounds about

00:22:28 right yeah so the part about renouncing I can have a dual citizenship what's that I can have

00:22:37 a dual citizenship if I want to well that's correct but when I asked you if there's a

00:22:41 conflict between the United States and Armenia both of you say you would side with Armenia

00:22:48 yes because people don't understand that your tax paying dollars are funding wars that are

00:22:54 literally wiping out our country like zero leveling out our country right our indigenous land

00:23:01 so the original question was in a blame-free hypothetical conflict between the united states

00:23:06 and armenia but i just find it interesting that we grant people and you guys spent the majority

00:23:13 while born in armenia you've spent the majority of your life here and you've received the fruits

00:23:23 and prosperity of the united states here and but you have no allegiance to the united states

00:23:34 you would quicker huh who says yeah we didn't you just said no no we're not xing out america

00:23:41 well hold on so i understand if like the united states went to war with 0.64

00:23:44 the philippines or some shit you guys would probably back the united states but the oath 0.69

00:23:52 of allegiance in order to become a united states citizen you you can still have dual citizenship 0.95

00:23:58 you can still have affinity and liking for your home country i still love this country you can

00:24:05 love it and disagree with what the government is doing or the military industrial complex has on

00:24:09 its plate right but it's like it's literally treason to be like i would support another country

00:24:16 most people in america jack 386 donated 103 dollars brian why in the rainbows am i forced

00:24:26 to watch on the last two weeks what the rainbows tiffany shout out to rumble chat

00:24:32 uh we've been having some internet issues so uh unfortunately yeah just youtube because i don't

00:24:42 know uploading to multiple platforms maybe was causing issues so um well it's it's different if

00:24:49 you guys were born here and you're citizens upon birth but when you naturalize you have to take the

00:24:56 oath of allegiance so i don't know i just find it interesting that i have tried my best to be a very

00:25:04 good citizen i don't have a felony i don't have a misdemeanor all i have is maybe a parking ticket

00:25:09 or a speeding ticket. I'm a good citizen. I have worked and paid taxes. I've raised children. I've

00:25:16 been in the education system. I've gotten my degree. I have done nothing to hurt this country

00:25:22 or to cause any problems in my neighborhood. Or take and not give back. Yes, exactly. I'm very

00:25:28 thankful for the opportunities that I have here that I wouldn't have otherwise had in my country.

00:25:32 that's not really the argument at hand though the argument at hand is i understand look the

00:25:41 oath of allegiance does not mean you can't uh have affinity for your prior homeland you can't

00:25:48 you can still support your prior prior homeland you can still engage in the culture but if you

00:25:55 take the oath of allegiance which it's an oath i think you swear to god you swear on the bible

00:26:02 you swear on the constitution whatever it is and you say i renounce as in furtherance of the united

00:26:11 states allowing you citizenship i just find it interesting that people don't hold to their oaths

00:26:19 i guess you could say well you're asking us how we feel versus how we conduct our lives

00:26:23 so we have conduct our yeah because how we feel person maybe i can feel some type of way

00:26:28 but i'll still do the right thing i'll still be good by what i'm doing well i still feel

00:26:33 that's what and if i'm called into war i i i'm i have an allegiance to this country i will

00:26:40 enlist and go to war if we went to war against armenia oh i'd leave there i'd leave there i

00:26:49 wouldn't be over here doing something i would leave this country and go back to mine i'll die 0.56

00:26:52 in my own country so we basically have treasonous uh traitors for sure for sure that's half of 0.73

00:27:00 america that's our entire government here's from mexico house everybody they've committed treason 0.99

00:27:06 well yeah we should deport those illegal immigrants but oh no it's not i'm not talking 0.99

00:27:11 about the illegal immigrants i'm talking about people who uh come from a culture that they

00:27:15 still love very much and you know that doesn't mean that they're going to sell out where they

00:27:19 came from. That just means that they hold it down. Look, there's a specific, there's a specific

00:27:25 calling for naturalized citizens. So you come here, look, if you're just born here, you don't

00:27:32 have to say that. I think you should still abide by that, even if you're just, you know, birthright

00:27:38 citizen. But if you've naturalized, you've taken an additional step, which is, I am renouncing 0.97

00:27:45 my allegiance to this other country again that doesn't mean that that doesn't mean that you have 0.93

00:27:53 to like completely be like oh the i'm done with the culture done with the language done with the

00:27:58 people if you have family over there it's not that it's just in a very specific scenario where

00:28:04 the united states were to go to war with armenia it does demand that you your allegiance is with

00:28:12 the united states i had a question so if this country's taxes are as you said funding like

00:28:21 harm for your country how did you choose this country to move like did you think about other

00:28:27 countries to move to or like it was the u.s no we came here specifically because number one we had

00:28:33 family at the time that we came which was 36 years ago we didn't really have a huge scope on

00:28:40 what was happening with the corruption in our government, the allegiance to other countries,

00:28:45 the selling of weapons. I didn't know that as a five or six-year-old. Neither did my parents,

00:28:49 who didn't even speak English at the time. But throughout time, you learn what your government

00:28:54 has done, who they funded, who's in their pocket. It's very corrupt. And if they're funding a

00:29:01 country that's literally dropping bombs on children, how can I support that?

00:29:08 yeah i was just wondering why didn't you choose a country like like a neutral country like japan

00:29:13 or anything to move to or my parents made the choice because we had a little bit of family

00:29:19 here to to rely on to to build a community that's why a lot of armenians came that i'm sure that's

00:29:26 why a lot of why didn't you pick to move to japan yeah i'm pretty sure america hates russia 0.92

00:29:32 anime that's it pretty sure can't even find russian shows on netflix

00:29:36 um no why'd you choose to come here i

00:29:40 okay that's yeah that's what i that's jacob joseph donated one hundred dollars

00:29:47 chair five the united states negotiated a peace treaty between armenia and azerbaijan last year

00:29:54 so tell me again about how the unite stats is hurting armenia weapons are sold yes and they

00:30:00 Not to us, to them against us.

00:30:02 They always reach the ceasefire constantly.

00:30:03 It's very simple.

00:30:06 It's not complicated.

00:30:08 So if your guys' allegiance is with your home country,

00:30:12 is there a reason you wouldn't choose to live there, like right now or in the future?

00:30:16 Right. I would absolutely love to live there.

00:30:19 I miss it very much.

00:30:20 When I go back, you feel at home.

00:30:22 I'm also part Greek.

00:30:24 I would have loved to live in Greece, too,

00:30:25 because the quality of life, in my opinion, is far better in many ways.

00:30:30 Some ways not, but because it's my homeland and I feel a certain pull to it, I would have loved it.

00:30:37 Metro Mac donated $100.

00:30:40 That is definitional treason and punishable in this instance by deportation.

00:30:47 We came to a deportation show.

00:30:50 If I broke the law, go ahead and deport me.

00:30:52 I deserve it.

00:30:52 Yeah, please deport harder.

00:30:54 Yeah.

00:30:54 or you could just have allegiance to the united states that's an option but

00:31:01 yeah it's just interesting in in all the grace and benevolence of the united states we with open

00:31:10 arms we welcome people here and they spit they spit on us they spit on us you're putting words

00:31:17 in our mouth you are being very actually disrespectful to be honest because you are

00:31:22 being disrespectful because you're taking you're putting words in our mouth you're asking us a 0.53

00:31:25 question you are not understanding what you're asking if today you are bombed to oblivion and

00:31:29 you leave to canada and they ask you is your allegiance to america or canada and then you say

00:31:34 you know what i'm i'm here doing what i can i'm really good here and i'm going to stay here because

00:31:38 there's nothing to go back to at this time and someone tells you well you should be deported

00:31:43 because you hate it here well you are allegiant if i was allegiant there i would be over there

00:31:48 i'm here so i'm a legion tier i'm an america first i conduct my life that way most of my

00:31:53 apparel is you're not america first you're armenia first no that's in my heart that's my culture and

00:31:58 my people that's not what i do here like i said i would be drafted i i i could be drafted here

00:32:04 i would not leave at that time unless it's my country hold on so first off which in which case

00:32:11 you said i was putting words in your mouth yes you said when i presented you with a hypothetical

00:32:18 Do you side with the United States or our media?

00:32:20 Recently, our company's softball team lost the big game by one run.

00:32:25 Then Dale tried to console us with the quote, winning isn't everything.

00:32:29 Well, Dale and I are very different.

00:32:33 I get early payout from Bet365.

00:32:34 If my team goes up big, I get paid out instantly, even if they blow the lead later.

00:32:39 Sound familiar, Dale?

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00:32:50 Yeah, you said Armenia.

00:32:52 You said Armenia.

00:32:54 That's not me putting words in your mouth.

00:32:56 I'm addressing the words that came out of your mouth.

00:32:59 So I'm not going to be gaslit into, I'm putting words in your mouth.

00:33:04 I'm literally addressing the things that you said.

00:33:07 So how is it disrespectful or how am I putting words in your mouth?

00:33:11 because you're putting us in a corner and you have one response to it like you have this all

00:33:17 shaped into the way that you want it you're not actually listening to how we feel what we are

00:33:21 saying i've been listening no you're cornering us and you are uh telling us to be deported

00:33:26 maybe we just have did i say did i say they should be deported i don't i didn't say you

00:33:30 should be deported now you're putting words now you're the one who's putting words i didn't say

00:33:34 you should be deported let's not do it then because we are very allegiant here we're very

00:33:38 normal here there is no problem you can identify here you are going into my mind my heart and you

00:33:44 are trying to twist something and bring it to the internet there was nothing twisted but you had

00:33:48 something on this okay you said it with your words you said he posed a hypothetical hypothetical

00:33:56 situation would you cheer hi yeah no he posed a hypothetical and you said armenia first i'm not

00:34:04 saying you should be deported i'm not agreeing with anybody you said it with your words

00:34:08 Nobody is putting you in a corner.

00:34:10 Nobody's putting you in a box.

00:34:11 Nobody's giving you a label.

00:34:12 You said it with your words.

00:34:13 She said it with her words.

00:34:15 And that's fine.

00:34:16 It is fine.

00:34:17 However, you made an oath to this.

00:34:19 You made an oath.

00:34:20 Did you want to stay in this country or not? 0.99

00:34:21 You made an oath to stay.

00:34:22 And I did, did I not?

00:34:23 Yes.

00:34:24 And then you said Armenia first.

00:34:26 Yeah, I did.

00:34:28 Bendy Dikundes Kofartnall donated $100.

00:34:32 Say it with me.

00:34:33 I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America.

00:34:37 and to the republic for which it stands, one nation, under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all. 0.81

00:34:45 Tiffany, you can start showing the other Super Chats once this goes.

00:34:48 Go ahead.

00:34:49 Bendy, thank you.

00:34:51 You had something?

00:34:52 Yeah, I have a question for you guys.

00:34:54 So you said in a hypothetical conflict you would swear allegiance to Armenia.

00:34:59 So what precisely would that look like, and what types of things would you be willing to do that is allegiance to Armenia?

00:35:06 I would still be here. I would do what's best for here. There's nothing I can do over there.

00:35:11 My heart will just become a raisin. But in my heart, I will know that is my people. That is

00:35:16 my country. That is what I'm expressing when I tell him that my allegiance is there. Not that

00:35:22 I'm here trying to sell this nation out or that I'm here ungratefully or that I'm here conducting

00:35:27 my life in some sort of malicious way or not recognizing my gratitude for this nation.

00:35:34 Yeah, he's shaking his head.

00:35:36 It doesn't matter to him what I say.

00:35:37 Because that's not the contention.

00:35:39 No, it's not about semantics, Brian.

00:35:40 There's never been an accusation from me that you guys are doing like you were trying to say I've never committed a crime.

00:35:53 I pay my taxes.

00:35:54 I'm a law-abiding citizen.

00:35:57 The contention here is not you're not those things.

00:36:01 it's it's very narrow and specific and it relates to the fact that when you're born in another

00:36:09 country and you come here and you naturalize into a u.s citizen part of that process is taking the

00:36:16 oath of allegiance which requires you to not not like okay say you're from armenia the oath of 0.98

00:36:24 allegiance is not I swear allegiance to the United States over fucking Kazakhstan I swear 0.57

00:36:34 oath of allegiance to the United States over Italy I swear the oath of allegiance to the 0.96

00:36:39 United States over Brazil I swear the oath of allegiance I swear my allegiance to the United

00:36:46 States over my country of origin in this case Armenia that's the contention you guys are saying

00:36:54 that your allegiance would be primary to Armenia over the United States that's the contention that's

00:37:01 it I don't think that you're like kind of like understanding that if like say our Armenia were

00:37:09 to go to war with like the United States and you live here we would be like at risk in a sense

00:37:17 because you would be siding with your country and not the one that you are living in okay it's

00:37:24 living in is different and you've already chosen that you're not siding with me if you are bombing

00:37:29 my people my people do not have the capacity to do that so um if in this hypothetical uh

00:37:37 war or whatever if armenia asked you or even bribed you a large amount of money or guaranteed

00:37:45 your safety to join them on their side since your allegiance in your heart is with them would you

00:37:50 join them i feel like if i was someone who could be bribed i'd be working at only fans

00:37:54 kind of irrelevant to the question it is so relevant i'm not someone who would sell myself

00:38:00 out no so your allegiance is with the united states my allegiance is here as long as i am

00:38:04 here so you revoke that original statement if i leave here my allegiance is not wherever i am

00:38:09 if i'm in japan and i'm stating an oath there my allegiance is there okay so you take back

00:38:15 i'm naturalized wherever my uh i am abiding by whatever is needed in that country and no no one

00:38:21 can give me absurd amounts of money because it doesn't matter to me i conduct my life very

00:38:26 honestly if i wanted a lot of money i do dishonest things then you are essentially retracting that

00:38:33 original statement well i mean yeah because i didn't realize this is what was being asked yes

00:38:37 because i didn't realize this is what was being asked you know i but um no it's just a sense of

00:38:43 if you do say something you just kind of stand 10 toes down on whatever you say and believe in what

00:38:49 you say i don't understand why we can't love both countries why do i have to our entire government

00:38:55 is israel first anything to say about that this country we have israeli flags on the outside of 0.53

00:39:01 our offices of our representatives so we are not in an environment where everything is black and

00:39:09 white and i'm gray okay i think you guys are making it black and white because no one said

00:39:14 you can't love both countries you can absolutely love where you come from and love this country

00:39:18 we're asking about your what's the next question or what's going on because we're going in circles

00:39:22 clearly i had a last like yeah she does go ahead i don't know like to put a thought on it so

00:39:30 i think actions are more important than words so if this country gave you a lot

00:39:37 there's probably a reason to stay with this country actions are more important than words

00:39:42 that's why my actions and the way I've conducted my life matter more than what I said

00:39:46 about what's in my heart at this table thank you okay maybe that's the whole stat 0.79

00:39:52 uh violet can I have you read this chat thank you crazy so you pay taxes to the country for 0.94

00:39:59 20 years that funds the destruction of your homeland so killing your own people we did not 0.96

00:40:05 know the question we did not know we were not i was never politically inclined i have never been

00:40:13 in politics i thought wars were all the resources donated 100 how dare you gaslight us after

00:40:20 insulting our country and stealing our money to better yourself get out you're nothing but 1.00

00:40:26 a parasite and you cannot be drafted you just spit on every man in america made up tense made 1.00

00:40:32 up story okay uh briar wolf thank you for the the tts or whatever guys ten dollar display a hundred 0.99

00:40:42 dollar tts if you want to get it in a hundred dollar tts okay cool uh well let's change change

00:40:49 gears here down to wilson um so uh tiffany we're gonna pull up uh the candace stuff so pull up the

00:41:00 tweets first, hide that.

00:41:03 All right, guys, so

00:41:05 can you

00:41:08 control mouse wheel, make it one bigger?

00:41:11 All right, so this was back in early

00:41:14 July, offered 50K 0.87

00:41:16 to Candace Owens to debate Andrew

00:41:18 on the podcast.

00:41:21 Tab over.

00:41:24 I bumped it to 100,000

00:41:26 10 days later.

00:41:31 Tab over.

00:41:33 And then people were offering to match, contribute.

00:41:36 So the total offer, as far as my involvement, bumped to $200,000.

00:41:42 So this was for Kansas Owens to debate Andrew Wilson on the Charlie Kirk, Tyler Robinson.

00:41:50 Miracle evidence.

00:41:51 It's demonstrable.

00:41:52 It's overwhelming.

00:41:54 Bro.

00:41:57 So, yeah, that's cool.

00:42:00 Um, so I'm the brain, that's my brainchild.

00:42:06 I'm the brainchild.

00:42:07 That's my brainchild.

00:42:08 Uh, as far as the whatever podcast involvement, not sure, uh, not sure to what degree we'll

00:42:18 be involved with that.

00:42:19 Most likely not because Candace Owens, uh, wants to host the debate in her studio, uh, 0.98

00:42:27 on Friday I guess she did release a video that just a portion of that we're

00:42:32 going to react to so pull that up is it from the right correct time I think you

00:42:38 jumped it yeah

00:42:43 Can we pull it up, please?

00:42:54 All right, go ahead, hit, yeah.

00:43:00 Okay, so first things first, it has come to my attention that an individual who I had literally never heard of in my life

00:43:07 went on to Joe Rogan signaling that I am scared to debate him regarding the Charlie Kirk case.

00:43:13 and that he's offered me $300,000 to do so.

00:43:16 So just so you know, the backstory leading up to this moment

00:43:18 is that the host of the Whatever podcast,

00:43:21 who I do know, a guy named Brian Atlas,

00:43:23 reached out to my PR guy Mitchell with an offer of $50,000.

00:43:28 They did not pick a very flattering photo.

00:43:32 Yikes.

00:43:33 Actually, it's not that bad.

00:43:34 It's not that bad.

00:43:36 It's like five out of ten.

00:43:37 But yeah, yeah.

00:43:39 Good thing they didn't pull a clip from this stream 0.96

00:43:41 because I'm fucking bloated and because I'm sick. 0.99

00:43:44 I'm bloated and red and flaky and fucking puffy face. 0.99

00:43:50 Anyways, all right, go ahead. 0.99

00:43:52 Continue on with the thing.

00:43:56 You'll have to look it back.

00:43:58 Okay, for me to debate this person.

00:44:00 And then he upped the amount, I think, to 150K initially.

00:44:04 I immediately dismissed it.

00:44:06 I genuinely had never heard of the name Andrew Wilson before.

00:44:10 And my assumption was that this was a PR ploy, a move for some young influencer that

00:44:15 was coming up through the ranks and had a little bit of money to spend to get their

00:44:18 name out there.

00:44:19 It's almost like, and people do this, you try to buy an ad for yourself, it's just an

00:44:25 industry strategy to get your name out there.

00:44:29 Of course, the Charlie Kirk case was not some gimmick to me.

00:44:32 We have not been asking for money, just a public discussion with Turning Point USA,

00:44:37 one of their affiliates regarding the case, whether that be Blake Neff, Andrew Colvett,

00:44:42 Erica Kirk, Yankin Bank Frank, somebody who was there on the scene that day.

00:44:46 We've offered them the floor repeatedly.

00:44:49 Now, what I had not appreciated until people began sending me clips of this Andrew Wilson

00:44:54 guy following his sit down on Joe Rogan is that he is sort of affiliated with Turning

00:45:00 Point USA, another person in their orbit that they're boosting so much so that he's apparently

00:45:06 all right um i'll just give the recap because she talks about it for about 10 or 20 minutes

00:45:13 but we've had candace owns on the show before she was sitting right here pregnant and uh

00:45:20 and so we wanted to facilitate a debate between her and andrew wilson who as you guys know is a

00:45:26 frequent uh regular on the show andrew has one position on the charlie kirk thing she has her

00:45:33 own position on the charlie kirk thing andrew's want been wanting to debate these people and i

00:45:40 thought hey we've done a lot of debates let's host it but uh not gonna happen in the whatever 0.60

00:45:45 podcast studio but i'm catching strays and shit people coming for me um and uh yeah so i believe

00:45:57 they're trying to make that debate happen friday and andrew wilson recommended michael knowles as 0.84

00:46:03 moderator uh that would be good i also think constantine kissin would be good too he's pretty

00:46:11 sharp guy but uh i thought that they should bring in three moderators michael knowles me

00:46:17 and like somebody candace like more on candace's side so you have like kind of a neutral person

00:46:24 somebody more on andrew's side somebody more on candace's side and moderators but uh yeah i think

00:46:30 i don't know uh andrew's been tweeting back and forth with candace on x so it's not 100 clear if

00:46:38 it's like 100 going to happen on friday but if they do do a debate i think it's going to be live

00:46:44 i think i think we'll uh we'll do like a watch party uh here on the stream we'll do a watch

00:46:51 party here on the stream but yeah recently our company softball team lost the big game by one

00:46:56 run. Then Dale tried to console us with the quote, winning isn't everything. Well, Dale and I are very

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00:47:38 It's pretty, that whole thing is pretty brutal.

00:47:43 The conspiracy stuff and I haven't really commented on it too much

00:47:47 but I definitely, because of my association with Andrew,

00:47:50 I've caught I catch strays I'm catching strays and shit so um anyways so maybe we'll do watch

00:47:56 party we'll do watch party but that's the drama um that's the drama and that's pretty much it

00:48:03 okay so uh we need to do everyone's relationship status so relationship status married for how

00:48:09 long uh on July 11th was our wedding so how long together um three years okay

00:48:20 I'm single for now a month.

00:48:24 Longest relationship?

00:48:25 Four years.

00:48:26 Is that the one that ended a month ago?

00:48:28 Yes.

00:48:29 Who broke up with who?

00:48:30 I broke up with him.

00:48:31 Why?

00:48:34 Just a lot of emotional incompatibility.

00:48:37 I'm a very sensitive person, and he's not very well with his words.

00:48:43 Okay.

00:48:44 we did start a business together and it wasn't it was very hard to manage together and we kept

00:48:50 kind of pointing fingers at each other so we just kind of left it to each other and just kind of

00:48:55 split off got it okay what about you uh single for a life what's that single for a life for life

00:49:03 why just just because do you have are there any guys in the picture i mean always but how many guys

00:49:12 okay hold on two i guess two guys that you're seeing currently not like i guess yeah oh more

00:49:23 no three no let's keep it that's it are you uh hooking up with both of them

00:49:30 no one of them no zero of them just talking okay how long you've been celibate

00:49:38 uh celibate what does that mean not sexually oh oh okay thanks um like three wait three months

00:49:52 three months okay you uh single um longest relationship was i don't know 16 um four years

00:50:03 and yeah um i how long you've been single eight years and you've been celibate how long eight

00:50:11 years eight years celibate all right what about you i was married i divorced about nine years ago

00:50:19 how long were you guys together together 10 years together 10 years um

00:50:29 and you divorced nine years ago correct kids yes how many kids two girls two girls

00:50:36 from the same guy yes no step kids or anything like that no all right who initiated the divorce

00:50:45 uh i did after postpartum after postpartum what does that mean after i had my second child you

00:50:54 go through postpartum and by the time my second child was one I had already filed for divorce

00:51:00 okay and then initiated it sure uh how long have you been single

00:51:06 um single I mean I've had small patches of three-month relationships like three of them

00:51:15 so this entire time other than those small patches well are you currently seeing somebody

00:51:22 when's the last time you were seeing somebody i spoke to and went out with um an ex last year

00:51:31 in october okay uh what was the reason for the divorce

00:51:38 well it's very complicated because there was a lot of things uh that were a problem but um

00:51:48 we were living with my parents and uh financially we were having a lot of issues and we were having

00:51:54 issues before that as well financially and we were not seeing eye to eye and i

00:51:59 was making you know some mistakes financially as well that was hurting the marriage so

00:52:05 what mistake well i mean i was in between jobs i was having a kid staying home going back to work

00:52:13 going to beauty school staying home going back to work kind of back and forth but it was the

00:52:18 instability okay um so you initiated the divorce is that correct uh did uh does he pay you alimony

00:52:29 no only did he did he pay you alimony that was never on the table did you pay him no uh does

00:52:38 he pay you child support yes what's the custody arrangement with the kids is it 50 50 or it used

00:52:44 to be 50 50 um he's a great dad but there's some complications happening at his house that's why

00:52:50 they can't go over there that's why it's not 50 50 anymore okay um how much does he pay you in

00:52:56 child support 580 every two weeks so about a thousand a month for the two kids correct okay

00:53:03 okay any other marriages no you I'm single been single for two years my longest relationship

00:53:17 was like three and a half years yeah okay you a newly single my longest relationship was 12 years

00:53:29 Married?

00:53:30 No.

00:53:31 Kids?

00:53:31 No.

00:53:33 Any kids?

00:53:34 I would love them in the future, soon.

00:53:36 Cheers.

00:53:37 How newly single?

00:53:40 A couple of weeks.

00:53:43 Okay.

00:53:46 Was it the 12-year relationship?

00:53:49 No, a different one.

00:53:51 When did your 12-year relationship end?

00:53:54 I think like a little over a year ago.

00:53:58 and then you were how long uh the one that ended a few weeks ago just uh how long was that

00:54:07 uh um like three four months less than half a year okay 12 year relationship who broke up with

00:54:16 who the 12 year um i broke up unfortunately but he goes around town saying the reverse so

00:54:21 look out for that uh okay all right next um i am married

00:54:30 how long uh we've been married for two years and together for seven have you been married before

00:54:38 i have i've been married twice before so this is your third marriage yes okay uh kids uh yes i

00:54:46 have four children from uh three from my first marriage and one from my second okay so three

00:54:55 from first one from second no children from the current marriage not yet do you plan to or yes

00:55:02 absolutely okay um the first marriage who initiated the divorce i i initiated the divorce

00:55:09 uh did he or does he pay you alimony uh no he uh is serving a life sentence

00:55:20 he was extremely uh abusive and it ultimately led to him getting a life sentence

00:55:28 well the crime that he was convicted of were you the victim uh not in this case okay

00:55:37 so i assume he doesn't have no any parental rights i mean he's serving a life sentence

00:55:51 um the second husband who initiated the divorce i also initiated the divorce okay uh does he pay

00:55:59 you alimony or did he uh he does pay uh child support alimony though no no okay uh how much

00:56:07 child support does he pay you uh he was paying 900 a month yes okay all right uh what about you

00:56:16 so legally i'm still married but i we've been separated for over a year now one year

00:56:25 it's in the process of divorce or um not really none of us i think we're just both too scared to

00:56:35 go to go do it i mean we've known each other our whole lives so it's just i think it's hard

00:56:40 to fully separate from him like that okay uh longest relationship

00:56:45 mine yeah uh we were together 11 years you broke up with who uh i was the one who technically left

00:56:55 kids we have three yeah all from him yes do you um does he pay you alimony or well

00:57:04 you're not officially divorced yet right no so does he pay you support yeah he'll pretty much

00:57:10 just give me his whole check uh so for the child support how much does he pay you a month like

00:57:18 1500 1500 okay you guys don't live together anymore no okay uh why did you split um 0.90

00:57:27 it's kind of messy um well i got fat as fuck for a minute so he like we weren't doing things 0.96

00:57:34 together and i went through his phone um and he was watching porn every single day 0.98

00:57:41 it got to the point where he started to buy only fans i mean that shit's free online so it's like 0.95

00:57:47 there was like a point like we didn't have food in the kitchen but you're over there buying only

00:57:52 fans so I think that just turned me off from him and then eventually I met someone and I ended it 0.99

00:58:01 with him to be with the other guy and I got ghosted fuck that bitch um but I've just been by myself 1.00

00:58:09 now I had a question for you so how did you I had a question for you how did you like cut it off 0.99

00:58:15 like what was your ending point you said like when I met the other guy because I finally felt

00:58:20 like somebody wanted me like i felt beautiful and like wanted did you like explain yourself

00:58:28 or you just left no i explained it over and over i told him like it got to a point where i said

00:58:34 either you stop doing this or i leave and he never stopped so i want to be with someone who only wants

00:58:39 me and it's he was watching girls that look nothing like me and he didn't mind that you

00:58:45 already had kids no i'm so sorry i'm really sorry he's a really good person you guys it's just he's

00:58:55 a great dad great he's like one of my best friends it's just like that killed the relationship you 0.98

00:58:58 know that he was watching porn well when i was watching porn he wouldn't fuck me like yeah of 0.99

00:59:04 course you said you got big yeah i was like 215 pounds so you were trying to fuck hell yeah and 1.00

00:59:13 he didn't want to fuck no and he was jerking it to yes what the fuck tiffany 1.00

00:59:19 was that like a long process hold on hold on minimize obs 1.00

00:59:29 come on get on it please okay hit try again

00:59:35 did it again oh my god all right all right continue with your story

00:59:49 um okay sorry i had to um was that like a long process like how you said you gained a lot of

00:59:58 weight um well i had what two kids back to back okay so i had my babies um my brother had passed

01:00:05 away so like i wasn't doing anything i was eating i was laying in bed um did you have a lot of stress

01:00:12 or like emotional problems yeah i have something do you think that like when you think about that

01:00:21 situation do you think that he was buying like only fans and watching a lot of porn because you

01:00:27 had gained weight and you felt like he wasn't attracted to you anymore or was it prior to like

01:00:32 he was already doing that before you had gained weight I mean he was always doing it but I think

01:00:37 it like increased as I gained weight and like I think it's like okay now I'm finally noticing it

01:00:42 and like you're not gonna touch me but you're gonna do all this online on your phone you know

01:00:46 yeah okay can I ask you something uh did you know that he like watched porn and stuff like

01:00:53 you know before you married or before you had kids or was this all news to you later 0.73

01:00:57 no I mean I'm not an idiot you know I know people watch it but I've always said like I don't agree

01:01:04 with it you know like like I said if I want to be with someone I want them to only think about me

01:01:09 and my eyes and stuff so I just I don't know he just had so much of it like I think it was

01:01:16 excessive to a point I have something else to say I don't know if this is like controversial or not

01:01:22 but I feel like I used to think like that too until like I kind of my mindset's a little bit

01:01:29 different now where now I think like the end of the day we're all humans and regardless we're

01:01:34 gonna find like other men attractive men are gonna find other women attractive I think it's

01:01:41 just kind of like the respect part you know like how you go about finding someone else attractive

01:01:46 but i think to think like oh like for him to only find me attractive and only want me and think i'm

01:01:52 beautiful it's just not that's just not ever going to be the case because us as humans we're going to

01:01:59 find other people attractive does that make any sense yeah but so then why couldn't he buy my

01:02:04 only fans why couldn't he have me making videos why couldn't he ask me to make tapes feels like

01:02:08 a betrayal yeah like oh yeah that is that is valid i'm a monogamous person also he's completely

01:02:14 becoming desensitized to an actual brain that he has to put an effort for that he has to have

01:02:20 stamina he that he has to please you he's only pleasing himself through the porn that he likes

01:02:25 that satisfies him over and over and over again and he's unable to i mean even focus anything on

01:02:33 what he's supposed to focus on i'm not saying cut it out completely but you also wrote that um

01:02:37 so your dating history is horrible you've seen the worst you've been the worst you're married 1.00

01:02:42 to your best friend for years you're an idiot who fell for someone who didn't care for you at all 1.00

01:02:48 and ended up ghosting you you burned all your bridges and have been alone navigating so i'm a 1.00

01:02:53 little curious though so he didn't cheat on you in the sense like he didn't go fuck another woman 0.98

01:02:58 no he was just watching porn you did however cheat on him is that correct i mean we were already done 0.78

01:03:07 at that point like we've already talked and i said i if this is what you're going to choose i don't

01:03:12 want to be with you we were already living separate and okay so you guys were already

01:03:18 separated in a sense yeah recently our company softball team lost the big game by one run

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01:04:02 i mean it's just kind of hard to say because we live right down the street from each other 0.92

01:04:09 like i have three kids this shit's not easy so he would come and sleep over and help with them 0.82

01:04:15 okay but we weren't together the intimacy was already cut off a while back though 1.00

01:04:21 you said that um you you were married to your best friend you're you were an idiot who fell 1.00

01:04:31 or someone who didn't care for you at all ended up ghosting you yeah so that but so was the marriage 0.99

01:04:37 completely off when you're sleeping with this other guy that's kind of hard to answer because

01:04:45 i mean we weren't really doing anything like we were just co-parenting at that point you know like

01:04:50 like i said he's my best friend we sit there and we hang out all the time and we do things it's

01:04:54 just it wasn't like romantic I I have a question so I noticed that you had mentioned that in the

01:05:02 time frame that you did like you know gain this weight and you had these children um you also

01:05:08 mentioned that you didn't want to do anything and that you would just lay in bed and you know

01:05:13 everything like that so do you feel like there was anything else besides the you gained weight 0.84

01:05:24 and the porn as to why he was in your eyes not wanting to have sex with you because men 0.97

01:05:33 if they care about you um if they feel respected by you they will have sex with you no matter what 1.00

01:05:41 weight you are you know but if you are say being a bitch if you are just laying around if you are 1.00

01:05:49 not giving off hey I want this is how I feel like I want to do these things with you I want to like 0.99

01:05:56 feel sexy I want to if you were best friends you guys should have been able to communicate

01:06:01 really well with each other so there had to have been something else in between that

01:06:07 I mean he was gone a lot I'm he was working up north seven days out of the week sometimes

01:06:17 but gone and trying to provide for you yes 100 and I give him the utmost respect for that because

01:06:25 he's how do you feel like you respected him like what kind of actions did you do

01:06:31 well holding it down for him at home with all the kids I mean I know that's my responsibility of

01:06:36 course but they're his like to him because when we have children like we we take care of the

01:06:43 children like we're the mother whether he's there or not we're gonna take care of them so what did

01:06:48 you do like specifically like for your husband to show your husband that you respected that he was

01:06:55 gone trying to provide for you to be able to be home with your children I think what I did for

01:07:03 him was stay loyal when I asked him not to do all that stuff on his phone well I mean but that's not

01:07:09 showing like it's so you're essentially saying you stayed loyal and that's how you showed him

01:07:16 you respected him working but if he's not working you're gonna cheat on him no I mean so you're

01:07:23 saying you are showing him respect but I'm still like trying to help you understand that you

01:07:32 haven't said anything yet that have showed actions towards showing your husband that you respected

01:07:38 him as well i think what she's trying to say is um look at it from his standpoint of like what

01:07:44 he saw like whenever he would come home you guys are speaking way too quiet um

01:07:50 simple question let's cut through this you don't categorize what you did as cheating

01:07:57 in any conversations you had with your husband did he consider it cheating yes there you go

01:08:04 you cheated on your husband I mean I it's like we were already done at that point though like I was

01:08:12 done I told him I was done he still had that hope that we were together like so he sees it as cheating

01:08:18 but I was already done at that point are you kind of like maybe do you think if you were to look at

01:08:23 this from a different view you might see that you contributed a lot to the problem yeah I could see

01:08:30 I could see that because I mean I met the person that I met online so it's not like you know but

01:08:38 like I said at that point essentially you just wanted like attention yeah but you weren't

01:08:45 realizing that like your husband was like working to try to provide for you and essentially do all

01:08:51 of these things but missing like that piece that he needed from you like as a man but I feel like

01:08:58 a lot of us women do not see those things and and and we just overlook a lot there's also a lot of

01:09:08 like tit for tat and pettiness on both sides of like a marriage not necessarily hers but and i'm

01:09:14 not condoning his actions or hers but it just becomes this like loop of like cold cold distance

01:09:20 and it shouldn't be that way because you know having your back to each other in bed and just

01:09:25 Not wanting to, not having the desire, not trying anymore.

01:09:28 I do have to move it on for the sake of time.

01:09:31 Okay.

01:09:33 Let's see.

01:09:34 We're going to one thing from Annie.

01:09:38 You said you're a survivor of narcissistic abuse.

01:09:43 Yes.

01:09:44 Was that your 12-year relationship?

01:09:47 It was, yes.

01:09:48 Okay.

01:09:48 um so he was a narcissist or just uh i i cannot diagnose him it would be unethical

01:09:58 uh but i did see the signs and so that's why i say it's a narcissistic

01:10:02 relationship it's a narcissistic okay but he hasn't he wasn't diagnosed by uh no he has he

01:10:09 will not go to therapy okay uh can you tell us so when you say narcissistic abuse what does that

01:10:17 what does that mean? Very focused on the self. This was covert. This was not like out there in

01:10:26 public taking a picture of myself. I'm a narcissist. No, this was everything happens on my time.

01:10:31 Everything happens my way. If I don't like something, I will cause a scene. I will do

01:10:37 something to flip it back to my way. When I'm done talking to you, you don't exist to me. Even if

01:10:42 we've been together for a decade all of a sudden i don't know your name just very um it's like a

01:10:48 very abrasive kind of relationship to have it's it's almost unreal that this is the person you

01:10:53 were intimate with it's like a switch flips off and they're inaccessible so you were with him for

01:10:58 12 years was the narcissistic abuse happening for the entire duration no it like four years in

01:11:06 to the relationship uh was it on again off again uh yes i discovered he was having a double life

01:11:14 and so it became on and again off again for the next decade uh what do you mean by double life

01:11:20 um well uh one time i went through his electronic devices and there was a whole another person

01:11:26 and world in there i mean who he was being and how he was presenting himself and uh so are you

01:11:34 saying he was um like married and had kids with another woman would you uh no he was uh uh going

01:11:42 with out with other women um shooting porn with other women uh different things like that uh how

01:11:49 soon into the you said when did this happen four years in or yes so wait four years into the

01:11:57 relationship i discovered and you stayed with him for another eight years yes

01:12:02 i had no idea i didn't understand because you burned some you come from a like an environment

01:12:12 huh and wait you just broke up with him like a couple weeks ago this is someone new oh sorry

01:12:16 you're right yes okay but you're with him for 12 years how many times did he cheat on you

01:12:24 hundreds if you i count i'd armenian no he's not mexican black

01:12:32 spanish spanish like actually from spain from spain

01:12:39 you burned i did he's a lot of 12 years so what 18 to what some of my most beautiful years um

01:12:49 what age to like 20 to 30 20 to 30

01:12:54 prime it was child birthing years yeah uh so he was a porn star uh he was engaging with porn stars 1.00

01:13:06 prostitutes escorts prostitutes was he a good-looking guy to me yeah best sex you ever had 1.00

01:13:17 No. 1.00

01:13:18 No?

01:13:19 Was he wealthy?

01:13:22 No.

01:13:23 Broke is a joke.

01:13:25 Broke?

01:13:25 Yes. 0.98

01:13:26 So you were the breadwinner?

01:13:29 We were on and off.

01:13:31 I would have something.

01:13:32 And we would just compensate for each other.

01:13:35 So it was like we were living off of two people's...

01:13:37 Drug use?

01:13:38 No.

01:13:38 For him?

01:13:39 Cannabis.

01:13:39 No.

01:13:40 You, though?

01:13:41 No.

01:13:41 Weed.

01:13:42 Okay.

01:13:43 Yeah, just weed on and off sometimes.

01:13:44 I mean, nothing.

01:13:45 Insane.

01:13:46 i think that the four-year mark that would have probably been a good time i wish did yes that

01:13:53 relationship um did you do anything wrong uh yes uh at the towards the very end um i i made a

01:14:05 mistake by having a one-night stand um and like you know he had already discarded me and thrown

01:14:12 me away don't talk to me this and that out of nowhere but you know I had a bad night and I

01:14:17 guess I ended up with someone I was totally out of my mind and he held that against me

01:14:22 that was the only one time I've ever done a one-night stand so that was that good times

01:14:32 all right fun good everyone loves a bad story good time uh cool all right uh maybe we'll come

01:14:43 back to that later we have oh um in your instagram bio i noticed uh no child is born

01:14:52 in the wrong body you link to detransition stuff where did you detransition i did not

01:14:59 do you transition no i've never transitioned you're an advocate i'm an advocate for children

01:15:04 i'm an advocate for immigrant parents i deal with many um of all uh different places and uh

01:15:11 you know they are dealing with their children being transed in school different files being

01:15:17 kept by teachers that are kept away from the parents and i see these things firsthand and so 0.64

01:15:22 they don't they don't know how to communicate they don't even understand what's going on

01:15:26 so i help them with the communications getting in touch lawyers this and that okay got it uh okay

01:15:32 i'm gonna wait until she's back to get into some of these hold on we're gonna dive into the

01:15:37 questionnaire here uh one sec wait

01:15:45 before the show started or i think it was during the show but

01:15:57 whatever it was our messed up stream

01:16:00 um we're talking about hyphenating last names or something so who here

01:16:07 uh is gonna hyphenate their last name in marriage

01:16:12 i'm not gonna hyphenate i'm just gonna keep mine honestly yeah

01:16:18 you're having

01:16:23 oh um yeah yeah is it something do you want to i don't know how do you want to just like uh stand

01:16:39 up and stretch a bit or do you think it's bad okay uh okay um do you want to try to come back

01:16:52 or if you're better i guess yeah okay do you want to just say goodbye really quick 0.89

01:17:00 all right boys oh my god wow that was retarded yeah i'm aware i'm very aware i can't walk right 0.84

01:17:11 now i can't walk a straight line right now because my foot is swollen i'm so sorry 0.79

01:17:14 solid sickness illness solidarity well sorry uh yeah go get some medical attention feel better

01:17:20 all right boys all right uh um okay

01:17:30 um

01:17:34 okay i'll put that over there then

01:17:38 what are we doing i'm keeping my last name the chair because it's so crammed

01:17:44 okay is that gonna be all right i guess so all right always something exciting at the whatever

01:17:54 podcast is the door just leave it just leave it for now is the door okay all right

01:18:04 uh the hyphenating last names i believe it was one of you two over here

01:18:11 oh i'm not hyphenating my last name at all you're gonna you're gonna keep your last name 0.89

01:18:18 or hyphenate i can't believe i have to fucking prompt you guys on this who before we wasn't it 0.57

01:18:24 you or you who she said her name was hyphenated and it was a hard time for her for that yeah 0.93

01:18:29 so wait you're gonna hyphenate or you would hyphenate i just said it doesn't matter if

01:18:37 If it's important to my husband, if I had one and he really wanted me to, sure.

01:18:43 My default response would be, I don't really need it.

01:18:48 I'll keep mine.

01:18:50 You'll keep yours?

01:18:51 Yes.

01:18:51 Be married, but keep mine.

01:18:54 Okay, so keep yours.

01:18:55 Yes.

01:18:59 But if it was important to your fiancé, you would do it?

01:19:05 If he said it's really important to me, it would make me really happy, I would do it.

01:19:09 But you yourself, if it was up to you, you wouldn't change it?

01:19:15 No.

01:19:16 Because it does not validate my love more or less if I do or don't.

01:19:22 You also circle that you agree with the following statements. 1.00

01:19:26 Men should pay on first dates. 0.56

01:19:27 Men should provide protect.

01:19:29 Men should be chivalrous.

01:19:32 Can't a man still love you and not do any of those things?

01:19:35 If he's courting me, he should be doing those things.

01:19:39 Well, who deserves courtship?

01:19:41 We both do.

01:19:42 I give my part, too. 1.00

01:19:44 Women don't court men. 0.75

01:19:45 Well, we provide love and softness and kindness and support for whatever they're going through. 0.83

01:19:52 And we still provide a lot of things for men.

01:19:55 I don't think men really care about that stuff.

01:19:58 So the question is, though, is you...

01:20:01 I think they very much care about it. 1.00

01:20:03 I believe that when it comes to chivalry, provide, protect, paying for dates, et cetera, only ladies are deserving of that. 1.00

01:20:16 So your unwillingness to do the traditional thing here, which is take the husband's last name, which is traditional, a traditional practice when you're married. 1.00

01:20:27 now I don't know if this is culturally different if the traditionally in Armenia the man is the

01:20:34 provider yes well do the women take the husband's last name when marrying in Armenia yeah most of

01:20:40 the time they do but it's not like oh my god you're horrible for not doing it well that's

01:20:44 because um men have been beaten down and beaten down and beaten down and if we try to enforce any

01:20:53 traditional expectation on the woman, we just get browbeat.

01:20:58 No, but I want you to expect traditional qualities from me, like taking care of you, 0.92

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01:21:41 Maybe get a daycare, maybe get a babysitter, go back to work, have two incomes.

01:21:45 Depends on where you're living, how expensive things are, what priorities you have, 0.97

01:21:49 what bills you have it is traditional that the wife take the husband's last name what about the

01:21:56 kids though they could my kids have their dad's name okay just uh interesting thought what about

01:22:03 you you also agreed with that uh what you're gonna keep your last name yeah i'm gonna keep my last

01:22:09 name you similarly agree with the following statements men should pay on first dates men

01:22:15 should provide protect men should be chivalrous you're gonna keep your last name what about your

01:22:21 kids do you want kids yeah will they have your last name his last name or hyphenate um maybe like

01:22:28 well i see this like one kid uh has his last name one kid has my last name we just decide 0.79

01:22:35 wow that's so retarded yeah like uh we have two kids and that would create a bunch of confusion 0.82

01:22:42 uh just pick a kid like so why should men do all this why should men do all this pay for dates 0.93

01:22:51 provide protect chivalry but you're gonna keep your last name if you get married men shouldn't

01:22:56 get married maybe then well it's not i see it like this like let's say i get his last name like

01:23:03 i'm sorry can you speak a little louder yes okay so let's say that i do get his last name as

01:23:11 like i'm like a lot of jackson or whatever i see it as if i'm part of his family like i'm not

01:23:18 part of his family i'm not becoming like we are together and we make let's say we make a family

01:23:25 that doesn't mean like i'm not i wasn't born like it's it's just different like i don't understand

01:23:33 you are becoming a part of his family yeah well no you're going into it like i accept your family

01:23:40 you accept my family and now we're conjoining our families well then why is it his last name

01:23:46 can i ask you something uh is your last name from your father or your mother from my father

01:23:51 so does that mean you're not a part of your mother's family or

01:23:54 got me thinking okay hold on when you and your husband uh marry each other and you take your

01:24:08 husband's last name they call it building a legacy for a reason because you both are going to create

01:24:16 families and when you have your mom and you have your dad that's the family that he built and so

01:24:25 when you go off and you marry a man you take his last name that's the family you guys are building

01:24:31 together that's going to be like a legacy like his legacy would you trust someone enough to

01:24:41 have their last name if i'm going to marry them if yes but what if something changes what if he

01:24:47 starts cheating and you already have his name on your passport on your uh social security whatever

01:24:53 i think she was mentioning that you have it on all the documents and it's difficult to change stuff

01:24:59 and I'm more than likely sure like 90% sure that something's gonna happen down the line like

01:25:05 a lot of us mentioned already that we're single because we broke up went through a horrible

01:25:11 experience with a man and that already puts me in a position that makes me trust less well that

01:25:17 actually comes from us making bad decisions even when it comes to myself and I've had to get a

01:25:24 divorce twice. Number one, there's a reason why I'm attracting these types of men. And if I look

01:25:31 at it through a logical lens, I was like these men, but chose to ignore it. And there was lots

01:25:42 of red flags that we also chose to ignore. But it's pretty front and center, but we choose to

01:25:49 make these bad decisions because if I look back and be like hmm did they show me signs very very

01:25:56 early on that they weren't going to be a good husband a good father a good provider a good

01:26:02 protector yes but did I think hmm I can change this man yes and that does not work we can't

01:26:13 change a man a man you know can't force you to change you have to find that within yourself and

01:26:20 so do they but we can't as women keep going into like relationships being like well he's presenting 0.64

01:26:28 who he really is but I think I can change him and then when they don't we're like you're the problem 0.94

01:26:35 and they're like hey i've i've showed you this all along exactly so like what i and my husband

01:26:43 teach our daughters is if you're going to marry somebody you are making that decision to marry

01:26:50 that person so if you marry a man and you're like well i don't want to listen to him i don't want

01:26:56 him to lead he makes bad decisions he's irresponsible with money he's this and that

01:27:00 why are you marrying this man that makes absolutely no sense it makes no sense if you

01:27:08 think about it it makes no sense just like with you staying you know you did choose to stay and

01:27:15 i chose to you know make the decisions i made but ultimately we made bad decisions because there are

01:27:24 good men out there but the majority of women are like i don't want him he's too nice oh i don't

01:27:30 he doesn't look hot enough like he doesn't make enough money and we're turning down all of these

01:27:36 men when there's a bunch of good men but then we have to realize we are what we attract so so if 0.99

01:27:43 we're attracting piece of shit men then there's something in us that is connecting us with this 0.99

01:27:49 person so from the psychological aspect you're blaming yourself for like 100 because i made that 0.99

01:27:57 decision if i go and i meet a man and he presents a bunch of red flags to me and i decide to still

01:28:04 pursue it thinking i can change this man and i fail uh that's my fault and and but you have to

01:28:13 be compatible in some sort of way like if i didn't like something about you and you didn't like

01:28:18 something about me we still can't go and like have a good time together and like genuinely enjoy each

01:28:25 other like we're not compatible like i'm not gonna call you and be like hey you want to go to the

01:28:31 movies you're not who i want to go with yeah but if we are somehow we are attracting these men

01:28:38 somehow we're attracting these men okay yeah but coming back to your question the reason i think i

01:28:45 would also just keep my last name is just individuality is like just being myself because

01:28:51 if i'm taking someone's last name i am in a sense becoming a different person like i'm now

01:28:58 a person with a different name so i consider like is this my name this is my last name this

01:29:04 is my first name this is who i am and if i could change oh sorry go ahead for another person like

01:29:11 great my wallet is my wallet my protection is my protection i have no duty to you to protect you

01:29:18 to provide go be 50 50 with a guy if you want to be a modern woman that's fine be 50 50 don't

01:29:26 expect him to pay for dates don't expect him to be chivalrous you can open your own car door you 0.58

01:29:32 can walk closer to the sidewalk rule or whatever do all that shit i gotta move on for the sake of 0.81

01:29:38 time uh okay past some people let's see if there's anything on the questionnaire uh uh past uh you 0.69

01:29:48 say passion not matter or you agree with the statement the what passion not matter oh no at

01:29:55 all i don't think it matters okay so uh that's related to body count so the question then becomes

01:30:01 uh if past shouldn't matter what's your body count over zero under one sorry what's over you

01:30:09 got to speak up a little bit sorry uh over zero under 10 oh okay over zero i do not remember

01:30:19 okay so nine got it 11 okay oh sorry wait wait let's restart really quick tell us your age

01:30:27 so do this um it helps create context so just say i'm 19 my body count is whatever your answer

01:30:35 was going to be go ahead do it again i'm 22 my body count is under 10 under 10 oh sorry please

01:30:41 enunciate a little bit here under 10 okay i'm 27 and my body count is 11

01:30:47 um i'm 19 my body count is around six i believe

01:30:52 i don't talk about my personal life you've come on a dating discussion podcast i know but i can

01:31:00 choose not to answer something okay um so you're 40 40 do you want to do a range

01:31:05 let me ask have you forgotten no i have not forgotten so you know what it is

01:31:11 because some people forget no i don't forget it's not like it's oblivious number or a very

01:31:18 little number i just choose not to talk about it because once you get up there i'm not saying

01:31:22 that's you but once you get up there you definitely forget you forget names you even 0.78

01:31:28 forget you forget fucks like in you don't even remember the person all right uh age body count 0.94

01:31:35 uh i'm 20 and my body count is 12 okay um i'm 33 and my body count is three 0.99

01:31:44 i'm 35 my body count is 13 i'm 26 my body count is nine all right there you go there you go thank

01:31:53 you everyone for sharing those i appreciate that three at 33 that's pretty good thank you pretty

01:31:59 good uh i noticed you're wearing a cross are you christian yes what denomination orthodox orthodox

01:32:06 christian oh armenian orthodox yes we're the first christian nation of the world

01:32:13 oh yeah i didn't know that okay big thing there yeah take your word for it thing there uh that's

01:32:19 cool i learned something new today all right um okay next thing uh what is the minimum yearly

01:32:29 income to be your future husband i think i put 80k yep okay i put around 100k okay

01:32:36 are we just gonna do 10 seconds of dead air time can you kindly answer the question no mine i've

01:32:51 put like a lot i think i just don't remember what what did you write on the paper please don't make

01:32:57 me have to pull teeth like one million like one million okay all right what about uh what about

01:33:03 you well since we're living in california a hundred thousand dollars is considered poverty

01:33:08 level so i thought maybe 200 000 would be okay okay i'm not gonna lie to y'all i don't know

01:33:15 what's a lot or a little of like yearly income so i really don't know okay so you date a guy

01:33:21 who works at mcdonald's uh yeah if he wanted more for himself okay next i guess i put 100k

01:33:29 next i put minimum 50k i believe next like 80 to 100 you wrote 90 to 100 but pretty close

01:33:37 all right some some kind of big asks there i guess um we have the one million for you

01:33:45 that's awesome uh do you think you'll uh get a guy who makes a million dollars

01:33:54 that's kind of up in the air right now

01:33:56 okay all right good luck good luck that's like less than one percent of men so 0.80

01:34:06 immediately off the table she's like perfect i don't think one of them would let you

01:34:13 not take his last name we got uh uh you how many kids do you have two two two kids uh 42 kids

01:34:24 guy has to make 200k all right and then you have how many kids three three kids 100k

01:34:32 okay all right um good luck i wish you all the best on that uh how tall are you and what's the

01:34:46 minimum height of a man you would date i'm five six and i would date anyone my height or above

01:34:52 i'm 5'2 you have to be at least 5'7 you wrote 5'8 here but close enough i'm 5'7 you have to be at

01:35:02 least 5'6 i guess okay reasonable i'm 4'10 i like a short king or a little bit taller guy

01:35:08 he's like 5'5 5'6 that's okay doesn't have to be a tall guy um i'm 5'1 and i think like minimum

01:35:15 for me is like to take seriously and date like 5'5 that's like minimum so 5'5 and up i'm 5'6

01:35:23 so minimum 5'7 i am 4'11 so anything taller than me okay i'm 5'7 so anything me and taller

01:35:33 okay now let's test this out though going back this way uh what was the height of the last

01:35:39 boyfriend like five nine okay or current current or last boyfriend six two six two oh like six four

01:35:50 six four okay go ahead six three six three

01:35:55 um he was taller maybe above six maybe six one six two i guess five seven five nine

01:36:05 okay so this is interesting so you have to differentiate between stated preference and

01:36:13 revealed preference so it's just interesting like okay like you said it happened that way

01:36:23 hold on what did you say an inch taller than me yeah you're five six and over five seven but

01:36:29 conveniently the boyfriend was six foot two a lot so a lot of you guys also had similar answers

01:36:35 there that's always interesting uh always interesting always interesting um okay uh did

01:36:41 anyone pick bear for the bear question i didn't see that oh sir no i'm gonna skip i'm skipping

01:36:49 the bear thing okay uh let's see we have uh unfortunately because i had to reset the stream

01:36:57 We don't have the chat from Gorlock.

01:36:59 But the question is, rate yourself on a scale of 0 to 10, your looks.

01:37:06 Rate yourself on a scale of 0 to 10, looks.

01:37:08 You can't pick 7 and format it like face, body.

01:37:11 So, for example, I'll go first.

01:37:13 Face, 4.5, body, 4.5.

01:37:16 Go ahead.

01:37:17 Face, 6, body, 4, total, 5.

01:37:21 Face, 4.5, body, 6.

01:37:24 Okay.

01:37:24 um face 11 10 body 11 out of 10 can you please speak up enunciate yes speak a little bit louder

01:37:35 just a little louder you're basically mumbling okay repeat it please um face 11 out of 10 body

01:37:43 11 out of 10 okay so 11 and 11 so 10 i guess okay go ahead this face i would say like a five

01:37:54 and body maybe a six face six and a half body

01:38:04 six also okay uh body 10 uh face seven an eight i can't say seven sorry could you repeat that

01:38:16 body 10 face 8 okay face 8 body 10 next um i would say face 4 body 4 okay next face 3 body 2

01:38:29 face 3 body 2 okay all right um

01:38:33 A lot of modesty

01:38:39 Why?

01:38:42 Body 10

01:38:44 Face 8

01:38:47 You're wearing a blazer though

01:38:49 So it's hard to assess

01:38:49 Oh, you're gonna

01:38:51 You gave yourself an 11-11 0.65

01:38:55 Kulny donated $100 0.60

01:38:58 Huh

01:38:59 None of you rate six figures a year

01:39:01 For a husband and with kids

01:39:03 yeah lol especially the anti-patriots brian i'm assuming you were sick so good on you for still

01:39:11 being here too many burritos yes that's what happened now i have a sinus infection um 0.77

01:39:19 i get these like once a year basically it kind of sucks but um 0.82

01:39:24 the show must go on you gotta show must go on so over burrito 0.88

01:39:31 okay so you're an 11 yeah okay any concerns do you think that

01:39:43 how do I frame this can you tell me a woman who you think is a 10 or an 11 I suppose

01:39:53 like a celebrity um okay ariana grande maybe or angelina jolie ariana grande

01:40:03 okay uh adriana lima does anyone know yes right okay i get a lot of agreements

01:40:12 okay all right uh i want to do a segment where you guys give me a rating

01:40:21 now don't worry i'll rate you afterwards wait wait i should have told you that because now

01:40:26 you guys are going to be generous do not be generous be honest okay be honest give me a

01:40:33 rating uh just face we're not doing body uh just uh because body's a little harder to rate i guess

01:40:39 um give me a face rating zero out of 10 uh starting with you go ahead 4.75 4.75 okay

01:40:51 4.5.

01:40:52 4.5.

01:40:54 5?

01:40:55 Okay.

01:40:58 Minus the redness, I think a 7.

01:41:00 Can I give you a 7?

01:41:01 Sure.

01:41:02 Okay.

01:41:02 What about you?

01:41:06 Like a 3 out of 10.

01:41:08 No, I'll give you a 4.

01:41:10 I've seen way, way, way worse.

01:41:13 She's seen worse.

01:41:17 What about you?

01:41:18 8 is fair.

01:41:19 8?

01:41:19 Yes.

01:41:20 Well, that's a bit generous, but thank you.

01:41:21 Okay, what about you?

01:41:31 Smile.

01:41:31 I feel like a 3.5.

01:41:34 3.5, yeah.

01:41:36 All that for a 3.

01:41:37 She was harsh on herself a bit, I think, but okay, what about you?

01:41:41 I think you're really cute.

01:41:42 I think like an 8.5.

01:41:44 Oh, thank you.

01:41:46 Thank you, appreciate it.

01:41:48 Okay.

01:41:49 All right.

01:41:50 well now i get to rate you guys and i won't get revenge fun all right so uh

01:42:00 okay you gave yourself a six

01:42:03 I'd put you between 5.5 and 6

01:42:16 you gave yourself a 4.5

01:42:19 maybe 4.5

01:42:27 4.75

01:42:27 you gave yourself an 11

01:42:30 a 10

01:42:31 uh i of course with the the zoomer i'm gonna say this i give you between a six and a seven

01:42:43 in that range six seven wait you can't pick seven though i'm allowed to oh okay i'm a tyrant

01:42:53 double standards okay you gave yourself a five

01:42:56 uh i didn't she was so nice to me too she gave me a seven

01:43:04 well you gotta factor in age and stuff three three kids two kids whatever uh i'd give you

01:43:11 4.75 you gave yourself a 6.5 you gave me a three i'm not gonna get revenge though i'm always gonna

01:43:18 be fair uh 6.5 well you're caking it on quite a bit and you know full face of makeup a little too

01:43:24 much i'd like to see how you look without all the makeup without the the facade without the

01:43:33 deception but the deception is crazy it's crazy hey i've never been with a guy who's seen me

01:43:42 without makeup, and then be like, ugh, never mind.

01:43:46 Well, we have makeup wipes.

01:43:48 Maybe we'll do.

01:43:49 I'm going somewhere after this.

01:43:51 No. 1.00

01:43:51 I'm going to go see a hoe. 1.00

01:43:52 I can't. 1.00

01:43:53 You're going to go see a hoe? 1.00

01:43:55 Yes. 1.00

01:43:55 I thought you were single. 1.00

01:43:56 I am, but I got hoes. 1.00

01:43:58 When's the last, or how long have you been celibate for? 1.00

01:44:03 A week.

01:44:04 Wait, no.

01:44:05 Two weeks? 1.00

01:44:06 And the hoe you're seeing, is it the guy that you cracked a week ago? 0.99

01:44:09 actually closer to the mic no because uh no no closer to the mic please oh no 0.99

01:44:19 so it's a different guy so you fucked a guy different guy a week ago tonight you're gonna 0.98

01:44:27 get busted in no different guy no no no no no you said you had a hookah or what did you say 0.99

01:44:33 he's just my hoe like i just have him in my life doesn't mean i'm asleep with him 0.96

01:44:36 I just want to see him 0.99

01:44:38 There's like a sexual inference 1.00

01:44:41 From hoe 1.00

01:44:42 I just call him my hoes 1.00

01:44:44 You play chess with hoes 1.00

01:44:47 Yeah we sometimes 1.00

01:44:49 Just go get food, we talk

01:44:51 We hang out 1.00

01:44:52 And you don't fuck 1.00

01:44:53 Have you ever had sex with him 1.00

01:44:55 Yes 0.92

01:44:56 But I'm not going there with the intent of doing that tonight

01:45:00 I was just with him last night

01:45:02 And we didn't do that

01:45:03 What a waste of time

01:45:04 why would a guy well it's not the intent but it might happen i mean yeah there's definitely a

01:45:10 probability that it's gonna happen no i was just with him last night that didn't happen period

01:45:16 no i just don't want to i'm not a very oh this is very sexual no i'm just not like a horny like 0.98

01:45:24 person like i'm just not like oh i need to go fuck him like i just want to be in his presence 0.99

01:45:29 that's sweet great she wants to fuck like two times a month great that's great wife material 1.00

01:45:36 there uh so anyways um okay the looks rating you gave yourself a 6.5 i'd put you closer to 4.75 0.99

01:45:43 maybe 5 although it's hard to tell with all the makeup uh annie you gave yourself you gave

01:45:49 yourself an 8 uh and you also gave me an 8 okay very generous a little too generous you know we

01:45:57 have the same eyes yeah so it's like so if we had kids they'd have pretty eyes ideally ideally they

01:46:02 would uh no brown i think i'd give you uh a five thank you a five you're welcome uh you gave me

01:46:12 you gave yourself a four you you gave me a 3.5

01:46:15 4.25 for you uh so i upgraded you congrats you you gave yourself a three

01:46:24 uh and you're very generous with my rating you gave me an 8.5

01:46:31 uh i think you underrated yourself a bit i think i'd put you like 4.25 i think i'd put you there

01:46:40 all right there's the there's the looks ratings um let me see if there's anything else here uh 0.99

01:46:45 oh disagreements uh hold on before i get into that actually fuck it marriage is not always a 0.99

01:46:53 bad idea for men. That's your disagreement. Why is that? Well, I think when you enter a relationship 0.99

01:46:59 and you're already being, I guess, cynical, thinking ahead, oh, this woman may betray me,

01:47:05 I think that's a rocky foundation. And I know you mentioned, I saw a clip that you want kids, 0.98

01:47:10 correct? Like with a longtime girlfriend? Yeah, that's correct. So I guess I would be wondering

01:47:15 is why would a woman, you know, want to bear the children of a man who feels like he does not trust

01:47:22 her like shouldn't there be a more mutual trust if you guys are you know raising children together

01:47:28 why would the obligation in order for trust to exist why would the burden or obligation fall

01:47:36 on the man to do a thing why couldn't i just flip this around on you and say

01:47:41 why can't you as the woman trust me by us not getting married so i don't know why the burden

01:47:50 of trust or not trusting falls on the man here well i think it's to start off with a lot of women

01:47:56 want to get married well can i ask you a question with this long-term girlfriend would you have a

01:48:01 wedding ceremony not legally any papers but would you have like a wedding for your friends and

01:48:06 family or possibly possibly sure i i'm okay with the ceremony i think it's a bit of a waste of money 0.98

01:48:13 i'd rather just start pumping out kids but if it's important to her i think it's kind of stupid

01:48:20 and a waste of money but uh yeah well could i ask you are you informed about how palimony works 0.99

01:48:28 when a woman forfeits a career to raise children and stay home well i mean so palimony

01:48:35 isn't strictly a thing in the united states there are some instances in canada where this

01:48:41 has happened some states in the united states have uh common law marriage where even if you

01:48:48 don't legally get married if you cohabitate and i think if you have kids or you hold yourself out

01:48:54 as if you were married something like this you'd be on the hook for you'd basically be treated as

01:49:01 if you were married but that's certain states not all states have common law marriage california

01:49:06 where i live doesn't have common-law marriage that's true so don't care right but if she let's

01:49:13 say stayed home to raise seven kids and she went to a judge and said hey i forfeited my career i

01:49:18 don't have means of making money to support you know myself i he promised me that you know i'd

01:49:23 be taken care of do you think a judge would grant her some sort of protection financially since

01:49:28 you've been supporting seven kids and her not beyond child support no child support you can't

01:49:35 evade. But, uh, if she, if we are not married, she can't go to a judge and be like, well, I was 0.94

01:49:42 a stay at home, blah, blah, blah. I want money in addition to child support. No, now I would 1.00

01:49:49 voluntarily, depending on the circumstances of the breakup, I would probably voluntarily support

01:49:55 a woman if we were to split. And certainly if it was my decision, uh, my decision, assuming,

01:50:01 you know maybe I'm the one who is over it not that I would ever hope that's the case but

01:50:08 I would just voluntarily pay her some money to maybe one year two year three year maybe

01:50:17 but this idea that if I've been married to a woman for 10 years 15 years say we marry at 20

01:50:24 years old and we divorced at 35 I could be on the hook for life for the next 30 40 years I have to 0.98

01:50:32 pay her money when she's getting fucked by another guy when she um say she cheated on me 0.98

01:50:39 I'm not gonna pay I'm not gonna pay a woman money in that circumstance yeah I understand the trust 0.99

01:50:48 issues it makes sense a lot of us have really bad trust issues because we've been hurt or just how

01:50:53 the world is but can i ask you something yes one response though to the trust issues thing i think

01:50:58 you're smuggling in there yeah you you presuppose i have trust issues yeah uh why can't again why 0.98

01:51:05 can't i just flip this around on women it's women who don't have trust issues if you're going to be 0.89

01:51:11 a good girlfriend life girlfriend why can't you trust me to not get married i think she can i 1.00

01:51:18 she can but i think so like if i was a woman or i sorry i am a one show us your cock let's see 1.00

01:51:26 let's see your penis how big is it she's got big dick energy oh my god if i wanted to be with a 1.00

01:51:34 man and we loved each other and we both wanted children and you know i was devoted and he was 1.00

01:51:41 devoted um i would ask why not that it's a matter of the legal thing protection i would just ask why

01:51:48 don't you trust me you know I think we're I thought we're in love do you think I would betray you

01:51:52 eventually and just that knowledge that he doesn't fully fully trust me that it'd be death till you

01:51:58 do us apart you know that we're in through thick and thread that would definitely be in the back

01:52:01 of my mind uh okay I understand that that would be in the back of your mind um I guess what I would

01:52:10 say in response to that is um hold on let me let me process this a little bit here i'm working at

01:52:19 like 20 brain capacity my face is swelling up from my sinus infection could i ask her a question

01:52:25 yeah sure um so i guess my question would be what can a man um get out of marriage that he can't get

01:52:35 from just being in a relationship with you and that might yeah you mean like the legal

01:52:41 process not just the idea right so what does a man get out of marriage that he can't get

01:52:48 from just being in a relationship i would say he would get the woman to feel more secure

01:52:55 i guess what does the man get a healthier relationship potentially depending on so 1.00

01:53:00 she's toxic unless I marry her. But so why does the woman's need for, you said more secure 1.00

01:53:07 relationship. Why does the woman's need for security supersede my own? Why do we pedestalize 1.00

01:53:14 and elevate the woman's desires over the man's? In this case, I feel insecure, like there's an 1.00

01:53:20 insecurity if I'm married. Oh, now there's a pot of gold. Oh, you know, we have some argument

01:53:28 and she there's say there's no abuse let me let me ask a couple questions i'm kind of tangent 0.77

01:53:34 tangenting here say there's no abuse i treat the kids well there's no violence she just falls out

01:53:43 of love that's it but i'm a i'm a good man should she be allowed to divorce me no but she well you 0.98

01:53:52 to think that but she could and there's no law preventing it um but so you're saying so she she's 0.55

01:54:01 fought she's not attracted to me she's fallen out of love with me should she divorce me or can she

01:54:06 divorce me i don't think she should have married you and i don't think you two should have married

01:54:09 i well no no right so things change over time so the conditions that existed when we're married

01:54:16 uh what's the what's the vows um through thick and thin through the sickness and health all this

01:54:24 the conditions that existed when we were married might not exist five years 10 years 15 years down

01:54:29 the line but again there's no abuse there's no mistreatment um no violence anything like that

01:54:36 she's just vaguely unhappy i'm sure you'd be fine with divorce in that instance i think you should

01:54:44 try way harder to work it out but so in my prompt i said it's not always a bad idea would you agree

01:54:50 that some legally married couples live their full lives together and die married uh yeah that's true

01:54:57 so was it a bad idea for them maybe they got tax benefits they lived a long the uh the contention

01:55:04 here is not that every single marriage ends in divorce that's not the contention there are people

01:55:10 who do get married and who stay married and they have happy, otherwise happy relationships

01:55:15 throughout the course of their entire life. And it's not an issue. However, the divorce rate is

01:55:21 not 1%, 2%, 3%. It's substantial. The divorce rate is substantial. And men have a higher vested

01:55:30 interest in this because the people who end marriages, the people who initiate divorces, 0.59

01:55:36 it's 80 percent women so it's interesting to me on one hand you might say why are you scared of

01:55:44 commitment well it's interesting when women do finally get the commitment they so desperately

01:55:50 want women conveniently end said commitment overwhelmingly women i not just marriage i think

01:55:59 women overwhelmingly end and relationships women overwhelmingly like and call things off even

01:56:05 uh, not a relationship, but it could be short term, you know, first date, second date, third 1.00

01:56:11 date, talking stage situationship. Women overwhelmingly ends that they end relationships, 1.00

01:56:15 they end marriages. So men need to be a bit more cautious because of this, because there's an 1.00

01:56:22 asymmetry in, uh, the risks. In addition, uh, if you are in a, perhaps a more traditional dynamic,

01:56:30 if you're the breadwinner now women can be breadwinners too and uh women can face financial

01:56:36 complications if they get divorced and they're the breadwinner uh i believe that the relationship

01:56:42 is less secure where and regardless of how secure it is or not if there's marriage if you're married

01:56:52 it creates an incentive so the incentive becomes like if a girl breaks up with me and she's just

01:56:57 my girlfriend. It's like, peace out. Goodbye. Depends on how, you know, if you're living

01:57:03 together, whatever that can entangle things a little bit, but, um, hold on. The sinus is

01:57:12 fucking killing me guys. Um, the point I was trying to make there is, uh, if you're married, 0.98

01:57:19 the incentive becomes, Oh, if I leave him, Oh, we had an argument. He doesn't agree with me on this

01:57:25 xyz and blah blah blah and i'm nagging him and blah blah blah oh now i get a hundred thousand

01:57:33 dollars two hundred thousand dollars half i get half of his money that creates more of an incentive 0.97

01:57:41 to leave the relationship not if you get a prenup prenups are bullshit look i'll break it down super 0.94

01:57:47 simply but there's a lot of men who are miserable and just stay and they don't want they don't leave 0.97

01:57:55 because it's inconvenient because they'll lose money because they'll bring shame to their families

01:58:00 because they don't have the courage lots and lots of men stay in a marriage and complain complain

01:58:04 complain okay that's fine the rules need to change the idea here is with the prenup thing is

01:58:13 say that if you didn't have the prenup you'd have to pay the woman two million dollars

01:58:18 if you do have the prenup you have to pay her 1.5 million okay great i saved five hundred thousand 1.00

01:58:27 dollars i'm still have to pay her a fuck ton of money that she doesn't deserve from my perspective

01:58:32 every relationship is different you can't just say she doesn't deserve depend on depends on your 0.84

01:58:37 assets what did you guys build together what did you guys have separately before you even went into 0.59

01:58:41 the marriage and if you don't have a prenup the judicial system who is in charge during the time

01:58:46 that you do get a divorce decides what you will split what you will keep what you will give away

01:58:51 and sell and whatever it is they will divide your shit for you this is obviously going to vary if 0.83

01:58:57 you're dealing with a high income person of course i would certainly argue that like a nba player who 0.98

01:59:03 goes and dates a hairdresser she does not deserve millions of dollars her earning potential is 1.00

01:59:11 five figures six figures i agree she does not deserve half his income she does not deserve

01:59:18 and so look but an nba player these guys make some of them the top guys will make millions and

01:59:24 millions of dollars but you can start bringing it down lower and lower and i still think the

01:59:28 principle is still valid even for men who are mid to high income earners right so i don't know but

01:59:38 Even celebrities and NBA players and whoever, men, choose to sleep with women, have kids with them.

01:59:45 Either they're married or they're not. 0.84

01:59:46 Like 50 Cent, for example.

01:59:48 He has a beautiful baby mama.

01:59:50 He has kids.

01:59:50 Maybe he has other kids.

01:59:51 I don't know.

01:59:51 I don't know if he's like Nick Cannon level with the babies and everything.

01:59:55 But these men choose to have kids with these women and then they have to be responsible for them.

02:00:00 Or they choose to get married to them and not have a prenup ahead of time and not have a manager or an accountant or somebody tell them, like, or their lawyer and say, hey, buddy, you might want to check this stuff before you tie the knot.

02:00:13 You might want to secure some things for yourself because you built those things on your own before she was ever in the picture.

02:00:18 Well, if you're married for any decent period of time, regardless of the prenuptials and this, you're still in a financial, you have liabilities there financially.

02:00:27 Of course, especially if it's after 10 years.

02:00:29 Yes. Community property. A prenup cannot say, whoever initiates the divorce, whether it's you,

02:00:38 whether it's me, a prenup cannot say you get nothing. That will be an unenforceable prenup.

02:00:43 Right. So this idea, a prenup is not going to, it can help you, like I said, a little bit. Okay.

02:00:49 If you were the voter, 2 million, maybe you owe her 1.5. The prenups are relevant. Child support,

02:00:55 whether you're married or not, is you're on the hook for child support. So that's separate.

02:00:58 But my thing here is marriage is a raw deal for the breadwinner, which is typically the man.

02:01:06 Right. 0.99

02:01:06 So then stop proposing to women and asking them to marry them. 1.00

02:01:09 Yeah, that's my position. 1.00

02:01:11 Yeah, okay.

02:01:12 That's my position.

02:01:12 But she's trying to convince me that marriage is a good deal for them.

02:01:16 The sanctity of marriage is a joke.

02:01:18 People don't take it seriously at all.

02:01:21 And that's why we have a 54% divorce rate in this country. 0.95

02:01:25 Till death do us part.

02:01:26 It should be sacred.

02:01:27 It should be all of these things that we think it is, or it's a fantasy and fairy tales,

02:01:33 or going to church, being in front of your family, whatever it is.

02:01:36 But we don't treat it as something sacred.

02:01:40 Look, I think the law is very harsh.

02:01:41 I think the law doesn't take individual things into account, maybe.

02:01:45 And that is why we're trying to negotiate in between these laws when each case is different.

02:01:50 And each state is different. 0.99

02:01:52 The guy in California is fucked no matter what for most of divorces. 0.99

02:01:57 In other states, they might have more of an advantage. 0.99

02:02:00 I think that if the shoe was on the other foot for us as women and the majority of men were divorcing us at a really high rate and taking us to court for alimony and child support and everything else, we wouldn't want to get married as much. 0.99

02:02:20 now that sounds like it makes sense but what i'm saying is women wouldn't want to get married as

02:02:28 much so if that was the case then that kind of backs up that women are getting married because

02:02:36 there is something to gain financially for them of course yeah that's going to be their their 0.54

02:02:42 first like um yes so men are saying they don't want to get married because women are looking at

02:02:51 it as more of a business transaction yes thing rather than all of these things like being sacred

02:02:57 and i care because i have sons as well i don't just have daughters i have sons and they have to

02:03:04 marry somebody and this is what they're up against out there in the world right and but also as

02:03:11 parents we need to teach our daughters and sons yes all of these things which i do mold them a

02:03:16 little bit better maybe make better choices than we did when we were younger whether it's our

02:03:21 friends drug use bad decisions or whatever who you choose to marry or just even be in a relationship

02:03:27 with right and i just think like okay you could still have a very meaningful uh relationship with

02:03:35 someone, perhaps live with them, perhaps have a child or two, any and all of the above, and still

02:03:41 be very devoted without necessarily giving your name or signing a marriage license. You could

02:03:46 still be very loyal, loving, and devoted for many, many years without that piece of paper. 0.98

02:03:52 And do you think the majority of women would be okay with staying with a man for that long

02:03:56 without him marrying her? Probably not a majority, but that's shifting a lot now after a lot of

02:04:05 women are going through their first divorce their their mindset and what they're okay with and what

02:04:12 type of lifestyle they would want is shifting a little bit at least from what i see i'm not saying 0.90

02:04:17 a drastic uh shift but also a lot of women and men just get married because their culture enforces it

02:04:24 because time is running out biological clock is ticking they feel pressured they've been with

02:04:29 someone for five years she's like well when are you gonna marry me and it's just like there's so

02:04:33 many things yeah and that's what I'm saying it's like if women weren't wanting to like be the ones

02:04:38 to like get married I don't think that there would be a lot of marriages right um because again like

02:04:46 I asked what do you guys think that men do get out of marrying a woman that they wouldn't get

02:04:52 from a relationship and it can't be things like love and respect and because you should be doing

02:04:58 that in a relationship no matter what so men ultimately they would get a woman that they can

02:05:07 trust that if he dies all of his hard work she's going to do the right thing with it

02:05:13 that's basically the only thing that he can get out of he could get a will he could get a he could

02:05:19 get a um a trust made a will made to to regulate that without a marriage license i mean he can

02:05:27 but they don't look at it the same as a marriage.

02:05:33 I personally don't want to stay at home,

02:05:35 do all the things that I picture as I would do in a marriage.

02:05:38 I don't want to do this man's laundry, make sure he's fed,

02:05:41 make sure he's good after work, make sure he has the support he needs,

02:05:44 make sure everything else, his family, his mom is all good.

02:05:46 If I'm not marrying him, then what's the difference

02:05:48 between a man that I'm just with and then a man I'm marrying

02:05:51 if there is no difference?

02:05:53 I would do those things not just in a relationship with anybody,

02:05:57 but with my right and so what I'm saying is like I don't think that men shouldn't marry women I'm

02:06:07 saying that my daughters I want them to be women that men genuinely want to marry and that my sons

02:06:16 are going to be men that you know women are not going to take advantage of and want to marry just

02:06:25 for financial reasons and you know vice versa it seems like the courts are giving a lot of trouble

02:06:33 and the the way that the law is maybe set up is is not working for everybody yeah yeah it's very 0.64

02:06:40 one-sided women get a lot more yeah but do you see like all these things that we're talking about 1.00

02:06:47 that are donated 100 we have created a false ideology in this world that women are the prize

02:06:54 and you all believe it the world would come to a stop without men listen respect follow and obey

02:07:02 do you all agree with that or no no obey is crazy follow and obey i agree with that no okay but

02:07:10 hold on i do how do you okay i'm sorry claim how do you respect following the world does not exist

02:07:17 i can give you a great reason why kid like who like i can give you a great reason why

02:07:23 i don't think that no hearing that word obey should be like yeah it's not as harsh as you

02:07:30 guys think it is yeah like but it shouldn't because if you make a good decision like i said

02:07:36 earlier if we make a good decision marry a good man like this is a good man he provides he protects

02:07:43 he takes care of the children like he does everything for us and you trust him he has

02:07:49 your best interest at heart he's not going to hurt you like he hasn't hurt you and if he when

02:07:57 you hear obey like what do you think this man is asking you to do right with still fear in your

02:08:02 heart like what is the fear where you're just like obey what and he just asks hey can you just

02:08:10 you know make dinner or something like i just worked or you know it's like simple things it's 0.58

02:08:16 like but we hear obey and it's like we just asked you to because god i don't know go slap your

02:08:21 on that word they've put such a stigma on the word obey society cultures whatever it is and

02:08:27 and also donated 100 oh my god this guy ladies would you date brian on one hand he is tall six

02:08:35 foot one blue eyes 0.55

02:08:36 millionaire only a bit gay but 0.95

02:08:38 only a bit gay but he has a strange 0.99

02:08:40 liking for big labia pool 0.99

02:08:42 has dad got probably autistic

02:08:44 and a small pp

02:08:46 okay some of those things are true some of those things

02:08:49 are not but uh thank you

02:08:50 um all right going around the table

02:08:52 uh

02:08:53 question is would you date me

02:08:56 no sorry

02:08:58 that's fine I won't be offended

02:09:00 no I have hip dips

02:09:03 Oh, hip tips.

02:09:04 You're hip lit.

02:09:05 Okay.

02:09:05 On one side.

02:09:07 On one side only.

02:09:08 Oh, so it's like 50. 0.95

02:09:10 It's 50-50. 0.94

02:09:11 I have a big lady on one side too.

02:09:14 Actually, are you messing?

02:09:16 And on the other side, it's normal.

02:09:18 Yeah.

02:09:19 Normal.

02:09:19 Mm-hmm.

02:09:20 Everything.

02:09:20 Okay.

02:09:21 Hey, there's a deal.

02:09:22 The normal side is with hip tips.

02:09:22 You can actually see it.

02:09:24 There's asymmetry.

02:09:25 There's asymmetry.

02:09:26 Okay.

02:09:27 What about you?

02:09:27 No, probably just not aligned interests.

02:09:30 Okay.

02:09:31 How old are you, if you don't mind me asking?

02:09:33 37.

02:09:34 Yeah, I would.

02:09:36 No. 0.98

02:09:40 The Arminia stuff threw her off earlier.

02:09:43 Honestly, I don't see why not.

02:09:47 Cool.

02:09:48 It'd be fun to change your mind about a lot of things.

02:09:53 Through actions.

02:09:54 I would say no, just six shades, two light.

02:09:59 Oh, black eyes? 0.74

02:10:01 Just anybody of color, but my husband is black, so. 0.96

02:10:05 Got it. 0.99

02:10:06 I'm too white. 0.96

02:10:07 I get it.

02:10:08 What about you?

02:10:09 Yes, 100%.

02:10:10 All right.

02:10:11 So I got some yeses there.

02:10:13 Got some yeses.

02:10:13 There you go.

02:10:14 I was so confident.

02:10:15 100%.

02:10:15 Yeah.

02:10:16 Got some yeses.

02:10:17 Got some yeses.

02:10:18 The big labia thing, though, what? 0.61

02:10:21 So you said you have a hip dip, and the big labia is on the side of the hip dip?

02:10:26 No, the side without the hip dip. 0.96

02:10:29 Oh.

02:10:29 oh wait i have a question what's up with like the hip dips you don't like hip dips

02:10:34 oh well that was a meme that was like a meme like a month or two ago

02:10:38 like are you asking me if it would be a deal break no yeah i don't care about that okay

02:10:44 i was like i don't care about that that's more so that's like a 1.00

02:10:48 thing to poke fun at uh women who have like height preferences and men yes oh so the hip 1.00

02:10:58 tip thing is like that's kind of out of women's control i mean you could do training sort of i

02:11:04 guess but but so and i guess like so men are insecure about that there can be insecure about

02:11:10 their height and this is apparently something women yes i hate my hip tips you got wait stand

02:11:14 up no no i'll tell you i'll give you a hip dip rating out of that it's bad okay oh are you doing

02:11:22 We're not judging.

02:11:24 No judgment at all.

02:11:25 Okay.

02:11:26 The body's too big.

02:11:28 Hold on.

02:11:29 You have to turn.

02:11:30 Nice. 0.85

02:11:31 Yeah.

02:11:32 Well, you'll make a great friend for somebody.

02:11:39 Okay.

02:11:40 I mean, she does have great hopes.

02:11:41 We can just be friends, okay?

02:11:44 That's fine.

02:11:44 We can just be friends.

02:11:46 I'm too young for you anyways.

02:11:48 That's the meme.

02:11:49 That's the meme. 1.00

02:11:49 These guys are friend zoning women because they have to. 1.00

02:11:52 She did say that she has hoes. 1.00

02:11:54 So we got half a big labia. 1.00

02:11:56 Does anyone else have a big labia? 0.93

02:11:59 Oh, it's, yeah. 0.96

02:12:01 It's normal.

02:12:02 But you were saying, like, are we talking small, medium?

02:12:07 Like your diagram.

02:12:08 Huh?

02:12:08 Like your diagram.

02:12:10 Your diagram?

02:12:11 The sandwich.

02:12:14 The sandwich.

02:12:16 The sandwich.

02:12:17 I believe so.

02:12:17 When we show the image of the hot dog, or what is it?

02:12:21 the hot dog of the roast beef here tiffany pull up the discord the blm thing here while she's

02:12:31 doing that uh can you violet can you read this one for me hands up who's been divorced or 0.81

02:12:35 separated next question keep hands up if you initiated the divorce or separation we went

02:12:40 through that uh yeah during the the relationship status but just really quick hands up who's been

02:12:46 divorced separated uh and then hands up if you initiated it so does that all of the hands

02:12:58 stats check out all right uh political thank you man all right tiffany pull up the discord thing

02:13:03 all right so a big labia that's on the left medium medium okay i love the picture what's that 0.57

02:13:14 i love innies oh you're bisexual no well i explore but like i would never date a female 0.90

02:13:21 wait so now that you've seen the photo who has an audi and who has who has an innie i have an 0.80

02:13:28 innie and i love my innie i think i love her i don't i'm proud okay nasty what's nasty why

02:13:35 it's our natural parts i'm so proud of her i think she's so pretty wait what's that i said

02:13:41 as a prude it's our natural parts look i just what i don't like is there's a lot of shaming

02:13:48 a lot of shaming language body shaming uh body shaming used to be about things were that were

02:13:54 out of your control you know like you should kind of be able to shame fat people like you should be

02:14:00 able to shame me like i should be bullied a little bit if you could change it not ruthlessly but like

02:14:05 my chat they bully me a little bit because i'm chubby i'm chubby right now and um but body

02:14:11 positivity originally was like you have a scar you have something you can't really change 0.98

02:14:16 like this could be your height this could be your uh penis size your labia size and i i this is 1.00

02:14:24 perhaps my only feminist position is the big labia advocacy big labia matter blm oh yeah how would 1.00

02:14:33 people how would men see and then therefore decide whether they want to stay or not like 1.00

02:14:38 how would you know yeah yeah like you're saying because body shaming you can say someone's this 0.96

02:14:45 someone's that and then not date them and how would you know the reverse like a big labia if

02:14:50 they don't have a big labia yeah if they do or don't like is anyone rejecting girls i mean i 0.99

02:14:56 I feel like I have a preference of, like, what a, like, I've seen, like, good-looking dicks and ugly-looking dicks, but, like, what can they do? 0.99

02:15:07 So I'm just like, well, whatever. 0.99

02:15:08 Well, I guess it would be the same.

02:15:09 So I would say, generally speaking, men prefer innies.

02:15:12 I prefer outies.

02:15:14 What?

02:15:14 Strong preference.

02:15:15 Why?

02:15:16 Have you not heard the past five minutes?

02:15:19 Yes, I have.

02:15:19 I'm just asking you, like, why? 0.94

02:15:20 Now, look, it's not a deal-breaker if she has an innie, but she has to make up for it. 1.00

02:15:25 Why?

02:15:26 Why do you like it?

02:15:27 What about it?

02:15:28 It's good to you.

02:15:29 Oh, boy, I don't know.

02:15:29 Like, what about it?

02:15:30 Like an accordion?

02:15:31 An accordion.

02:15:32 Clay donated $100.

02:15:35 Chef Seven knows WTF is up.

02:15:38 That is exactly what I meant.

02:15:40 And all of you would jump in bed with Brian if given the chance, 0.98

02:15:44 even though he's fat AF and has a weak beard. 0.93

02:15:47 It's not that bad.

02:15:48 But you all still won't.

02:15:48 It's decent.

02:15:51 Okay.

02:15:52 Weak beard?

02:15:52 I feel like I got, like, it's not, like,

02:15:56 seven ten out of ten beard but i think i've got like a six my beard's like a six i think i don't

02:16:03 know but uh i don't know what was your question the labia thing yeah like what about it entices

02:16:09 you is it the look the feeling like uh yeah i would say it's both it's visually aesthetically

02:16:16 and then feeling are you an eater oh my god you know that's the first time i've heard a man say

02:16:22 that i know they prefer yeah well that that's what i was saying is i think most men majority 0.98

02:16:27 of men prefer innies but i'm over here in solidarity with my big labia queens at the

02:16:34 table that's right i support you guys i support you guys and if we disagree on everything tonight

02:16:39 just know we disagreed with everything else at least you can be like you know that brian guy

02:16:45 he's not so bad you know he he's a he he's a defender but you're i think you're asking

02:16:53 something i definitely think like women will if like the the d isn't good they'll not date the

02:16:59 guy but i think i do think that there are some men who will i think men aren't quite as harsh

02:17:04 on the genitalia thing but i do think there are probably some men who will not date a girl if she

02:17:09 has an outie wow yeah i think 99 99 percent of men will date in any though i'm pretty sure but

02:17:15 i've turned down women look it's not a deal breaker but sometimes you got to be honest

02:17:23 with somebody be like i have to have an i have to have an outie she shows it to you and you're 0.97

02:17:27 like nope but you haven't even done the deed yet and like without even you're saying no or there

02:17:33 or women are saying no to just by looking i don't think that's fair what do you mean

02:17:39 like i'm comparing like a woman looks at a guy and he she's like not my type or too small or not

02:17:47 girthy enough whatever it is and then a guy looks and says oh she's an eddie but at any but i prefer

02:17:53 audi or vice versa you haven't even gone to the finish line together maybe it's fantastic and

02:17:59 you're pre-judging and not even trying because it's going to take a couple you know okay definitely

02:18:05 laps to what bouncing off of that what was the amount of research you had to go through to like

02:18:13 be like okay i'm a hundred percent on the audi voting for what reason how did you the preference

02:18:22 like how did that come across how many like how did you find that out that for yourself you just

02:18:28 see one and you were like whoa you want the origin story because yeah it's just such a strong opinion

02:18:35 it makes like this is the first i've heard well it's okay i lost my virginity i think at 17 18

02:18:41 and then uh i don't think i developed this liking until i was maybe 20 21

02:18:49 uh i can't tell you if there was a specific thing um

02:18:53 i just i can't tell you like the precise pinpoint this there was this one girl or you know i saw

02:19:04 this picture this nude picture online i probably just experienced it with one girl and i was like

02:19:10 oh this is kind of better do you like arby's that's exactly like you eat at arby's i don't

02:19:21 eat at arby's but i i was just saying if there was maybe you just liked arby's so much it's just

02:19:26 like he wants arby's in bed home delivered now it's the bigger the better though because now

02:19:32 we did the looks ratings and so i have a a looks rating adjustment scale if she has an audi so for

02:19:41 example it goes like this say she has a small audi there's there's small medium large xl and like

02:19:47 we're talking biggest i've ever seen guinness world record book jumbo jumbo xxl so if she has

02:19:55 a small Audi plus one, medium Audi

02:19:57 plus two, large Audi plus three,

02:20:00 XL Audi plus four,

02:20:02 jumbo Audi

02:20:04 plus five. 0.99

02:20:07 So a girl could go 1.00

02:20:08 from a four, but if she has 1.00

02:20:09 a giant Audi, she's a 0.95

02:20:11 nine in my eyes, in my

02:20:14 book. That's hilarious.

02:20:15 I'm too bad at math. Because you only have

02:20:17 one, it would get cut in half.

02:20:20 Okay, so I'm a five.

02:20:21 Five and a half. Something like that.

02:20:23 something like that but uh okay anyways um i don't know how where how did we yeah

02:20:29 a big labia so you you and then you or no

02:20:35 um i guess medium i'll okay there it is there it is it's just uh look if i was president 1.00

02:20:44 if i was president the fucking first thing i do executive order i ban the surgery because women 0.85

02:20:52 can get surgery to cut it called labiaplasty so i'm gonna master purchased whatever 7x mug for 0.98

02:20:59 $29.99 that's new cheers to my favorite podcast uh thank you looks like you got something at the

02:21:07 merch store there appreciate it man all right let's do some uh more questionnaire stuff so

02:21:11 So we have, what's a good one?

02:21:19 We have, hold on, Victoria. 0.90

02:21:24 You say women do not have equal rights to men in the USA.

02:21:27 Why is that? 0.96

02:21:29 Because we have more.

02:21:31 Oh, okay.

02:21:32 So we don't disagree.

02:21:33 That's good.

02:21:33 I don't disagree.

02:21:34 I believe we have more rights.

02:21:37 More rights.

02:21:38 Okay.

02:21:41 then I'm gonna skip that one

02:21:44 though

02:21:45 let's see if there's anything

02:21:48 else that caught my eye

02:21:49 destiny 1.00

02:21:53 a woman should not be rejected because of her 1.00

02:21:56 weight 0.99

02:21:56 why is that

02:21:59 I don't know can we talk about that

02:22:02 though yeah yeah can we talk about that

02:22:04 I just think personality goes a long way

02:22:06 what you said 0.98

02:22:07 about the lady or no the weight thing

02:22:10 oh yeah sorry i cut you off babe i'm so sorry no that's okay go on here can you

02:22:15 yeah you you yeah you were going i just i just think personality is a big thing like i don't

02:22:20 know i don't look at people's bodies and i'm like i just like people for who they are sure and i

02:22:27 think people have varying levels of importance across various factors so someone might like

02:22:33 overly prioritize looks. Someone might overly prioritize humor, money, success, personality,

02:22:42 whatever it is. There are men, women who are prioritized from things differently,

02:22:46 but acknowledging that there are people who do prioritize looks, do you think it's wrong for them

02:22:52 to, and that a woman could also like women who would otherwise be interested in me if I was like

02:23:00 50 pounds lighter probably reject me because i'm i'm chubby at the moment so um do you think it's

02:23:08 wrong like if a woman didn't want to date me they're like i would date you brian but you're fat

02:23:13 i don't think that's wrong i don't think it's wrong i don't think it's wrong i think people

02:23:17 can have their preference why is like why is it bad to have a preference or the end of the day i

02:23:23 look at someone if you are overweight that makes me think like you don't even care about yourself

02:23:28 enough to like feel better look better like you don't even like love yourself enough to be

02:23:35 better i don't know we live in a culture that's just we want to be soft you know we always like

02:23:41 look at people like oh we don't want to hurt their feelings we don't want to offend them but then

02:23:45 i think we should just be more open yeah i mean if a guy told me straight up like hey like i

02:23:49 wouldn't be with you because i'd be like respects to you cool yeah i don't take offense about it

02:23:55 either i was almost 200 pounds and um i lost a lot of weight but during that time i was having

02:24:04 like lots of health issues from like my blood sugars to my like kidney to like my periods being

02:24:11 off just like a whole bunch of stuff going on and every time i went to the doctor for these issues 0.99

02:24:17 it was different meds different you know stuff but nobody was being like bitch like just lose 0.98

02:24:26 some weight and I'm pretty sure like you'll be fine yeah and like nobody was saying that and I 1.00

02:24:31 became blind to the fact that I was even had gotten so big yeah and when I started to lose

02:24:38 a lot of weight I would look back at pictures and I was like yeah I wasn't the same like

02:24:43 if somebody would just have told me like hey you I'm not being a hater I'm genuinely saying like

02:24:51 yeah I used to be really overweight as well like extremely overweight and then I finally lost the

02:24:58 weight and I was like oh I do look better I feel better I get hit on more like it's and you just

02:25:06 feel so much better about yourself you know you walk around and I mean when I was bigger

02:25:11 same thing I wasn't like thinking like I was this big up until I went from like 155 to 115

02:25:18 I put them side by side it's like whoa that was a big difference well and my husband supported me

02:25:24 like every way and I was like I would show him pictures and he's like I didn't even know that

02:25:28 like you even look that way he's like I've just always seen you like how you look now

02:25:34 but he definitely was encouraging um to be like yeah I should if you want to lose weight go for

02:25:40 Who here is on birth control?

02:25:44 Birth control? 0.98

02:25:45 Birth control.

02:25:46 Anybody else?

02:25:48 I have a question.

02:25:48 Who's, maybe you're not on it now.

02:25:51 Have you been on it in the past?

02:25:52 Yes.

02:25:55 Question, and I've heard maybe there's studies on this.

02:25:58 Have you guys noticed a change in the type of men you're attracted to when you're on birth control?

02:26:09 Yes.

02:26:10 also okay i was on um birth control when i was almost in my four-year relationship um

02:26:18 and as soon as i got off of it yeah that's when i was just like

02:26:24 oh hell no like this is what i was with i heard that birth control makes you attracted to

02:26:28 a lot more feminine kind of men what i don't know yeah it makes you attracted to more feminine

02:26:35 kind of men it can i guess yeah it really can it really depends on what it is in the dosage

02:26:41 yeah because the kind of guys i was like into during it versus now i'm on a non-hormonal birth

02:26:47 control are completely different so then again i don't know if that just comes with age and time

02:26:53 and preference so who knows can i ask you something i've heard that birth control also

02:26:58 has like weight fluctuations associated with it did you deal with that yeah that's when i got

02:27:04 that's when I got like really overweight

02:27:07 but I think people misinterpret

02:27:09 like birth control doesn't make you gain weight

02:27:11 it just increases your appetite and if you don't

02:27:13 know how to control your appetite then you're gonna

02:27:15 gain weight so if you just

02:27:17 have it under control and you like

02:27:18 regulate yourself you're not gonna gain weight off

02:27:21 it's adding some trust in

02:27:22 yeah it's just discipline

02:27:24 it's just people get more like girls get way more hungry on me

02:27:27 and they're like I got fat off birth control

02:27:28 well it's like

02:27:30 control 0.77

02:27:31 we got you here you said that uh leda wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly

02:27:43 turns him down for sex why is that wrong well okay first of all my name is lada not leda

02:27:50 oh okay i'm gonna pass that well what's that okay i'll pass that moment what was the question 0.83

02:27:58 I don't know. You should have told your parents not to name you an ambiguously pronounced name.

02:28:06 I know that's a car brand, but that's okay.

02:28:09 I don't even know what you're talking about.

02:28:11 There's a car brand named Lada.

02:28:14 I mean, the Armenians, they know.

02:28:16 You guys want to hear a funny story?

02:28:18 I just slept with a new girl.

02:28:20 This was, I don't know, five, six years ago. 0.99

02:28:23 And her name was, fuck, I'm trying to remember what it was. 0.98

02:28:28 Mercedes, Porsche. 0.99

02:28:30 I'll spell it. 1.00

02:28:31 K-A-R-A.

02:28:35 Now this can be pronounced Cara or Cara. 0.94

02:28:42 Shortly after having sex for the first time, I followed up with her.

02:28:48 I knew how to spell it.

02:28:49 I knew what.

02:28:51 I asked.

02:28:52 I was like, hey, just remind me.

02:28:53 How do you pronounce the name?

02:28:55 Is it Cara or Cara?

02:28:56 I think she said it was Cara.

02:28:58 i think who knows she was not happy and i never saw her again i know exactly why because

02:29:09 i i reached out she was like i was upset that you didn't get my pronunciation right i was like

02:29:15 but you asked no that's valid to get it right he just said that he asked after

02:29:22 after he asked after he already had an intercourse he didn't want to miss

02:29:27 correctly he just it's not that big of a deal she shouldn't dump him over something so petty

02:29:34 maybe he wasn't serious until after the intercourse he started to get her name

02:29:39 no i knew well i knew her name i knew how to spell it i was just like pronunciation remind me like

02:29:45 is it cara or kara she got so upset no i mean i still hit you're right after it would be weird

02:29:56 for him to ask after you're right he just didn't ask the timing yeah because he should have waited

02:30:02 like a day or two like he didn't want to mess his situation he's like oh i'm already almost

02:30:06 got it it was 30 minutes post ejaculation okay i think that's fair 30 minutes it wasn't

02:30:13 It wasn't during the ejection.

02:30:15 That's okay, but that's fair.

02:30:18 Like, you could have waited until, like, the next day.

02:30:21 I had a question.

02:30:23 Oh, my gosh.

02:30:24 Yeah, low-key.

02:30:25 That would hurt my feelings.

02:30:25 Oh, come on, guys.

02:30:26 Yeah.

02:30:30 I don't know.

02:30:32 Chat, who's in the room?

02:30:33 You know how this could be nuanced a little bit?

02:30:35 If she was from a Serbian or Russian country, kind of, or a Slavic country, depends on,

02:30:41 like, Gaara, right? 0.70

02:30:42 We don't have Gaara.

02:30:43 here do we have kuh we don't have a a like an american a yeah we have ah so i mean it's like

02:30:49 it's not it's so petty to even get upset about that because he's like maybe she's an ethnic

02:30:54 woman that he's never even heard that type of so you're on his side i am i know the point is it

02:30:59 happened directly after sex she's smart okay yes maybe tiny bit insensitive so if someone sleeps 0.99

02:31:06 with you and then they're like how do i pronounce your name it's kind of like yeah it's just a

02:31:10 little like unnecessary like you could have waited or just like just tell me something else

02:31:14 but she shouldn't have broken up with him is what i'm saying look hold on and maybe this is

02:31:19 gonna be gaslighting her parents are to blame okay i have a rule you should not name people 0.96

02:31:27 like the pronunciation should not be ambiguous those names are fucking terrible there should be 0.96

02:31:33 there's not multiple ways to pronounce brian there's one way yeah later lada see it's almost 0.98

02:31:40 the same the two ways it fucks shit up that's very different let me ask you if a guy did that 0.99

02:31:45 to you you he just fucked you and then and then he's like hey hey um it's l-a-d-a but um is it 1.00

02:31:55 lada or lada no i'm not there no i'm like leaving it's over it's over that's crazy because look 0.99

02:32:01 here's my philosophy if you've been inside a woman she should be attached to you and for her to so

02:32:08 easily be like detach herself attached to you no yeah she should be attached just because you slept

02:32:14 with her she should be attached well look i know you're cooked but i yes i think if you've had sex 1.00

02:32:20 with somebody that's an intimate thing that is and women who are just like over like small things or

02:32:29 complete nothings are willing to walk away exactly that's defective you should it is defective 0.61

02:32:35 also how quickly did she sleep with you that's also a variable i think it was the second date

02:32:40 we've been talking for a while though man i don't i think if actually never you know what

02:32:48 i don't know i've never i've had some okay i've had guys be like oh i know that if i sleep with

02:32:55 you you'll get attached to me what why why do you think because you sleep with you sleep or we sleep 0.67

02:33:01 together i'm gonna get attached to you i don't care like bye yeah you're defective why does that 0.91

02:33:06 make me defective isn't that a good thing if no it's not a good thing because men always tell me 0.91

02:33:11 oh i can't stand when girls get attached to me after i sleep with them well that's defective

02:33:15 that's what should happen that's defective in men but no children so i think that uh if look people 0.82

02:33:20 do engage in casual sex me personally if i have sex with a woman my intention i'm not interested

02:33:26 in the one-time thing i'm not interested in like a one-night stand if i choose to have sex with a

02:33:32 woman this is a woman i'm interested in i want to continue seeing her i want there to be continuity 0.94

02:33:36 exactly but but this idea that like if a woman has sex with a man and she just

02:33:43 can just move on and not have any attachment to that man there's something broken okay i have a

02:33:51 question is this your your mindset like from the moment when you first lost your virginity to now

02:33:57 you're telling me you never just had like hookups or one-night stands well even a hookup you're kind

02:34:03 of attaching them in some way like either mentally like what you're going through the same moment

02:34:08 you're like oh i need that's absolutely different i've i've had very minimal casual strictly casual 0.80

02:34:16 um like my my goal going in is almost never i'm just gonna have sex with her once that's all i 0.94

02:34:25 want first off it's a waste of time it is it's a waste of time what's the point oh i'm gonna 0.99

02:34:29 especially for the guy i'm gonna do all this shit i'm gonna fucking text and talk and schedule dates 0.98

02:34:35 and try to do all this shit just to fuck you once no for and also even if i was even if the 1.00

02:34:42 motivation was sex the best sex you're going to have is in a relationship and continuous exactly 1.00

02:34:48 like exactly like when you're comfortable with each other when you know what each other is like

02:34:52 yes exactly consistency yes how to please you of course it is that's why yeah can i say something

02:34:59 Okay, exactly. My point right there. For just a random hookup, there's no emotion there or connection there or really chemistry there.

02:35:08 So why am I going to get attached to that person?

02:35:10 The only time I've ever gotten a little bit attached and been like, damn, that one kind of hurt, is when there was that connection bill, emotion bill. 0.86

02:35:20 It's not just a hookup. 0.96

02:35:21 So I feel like saying even if I were to just hook up with the man for one night and for me to be attached to him, hell no.

02:35:28 I mean, unless I knew him and there was, like, chemistry there, and I don't know.

02:35:34 But your motives are different, and what you want for the future and the next day and the next day, it's probably different.

02:35:41 Well, also keep in mind the context of this conversation was this girl who, absent my comment about how she pronounces her name,

02:35:51 uh she at least my impression and my intentions I didn't want to just sleep with her once I wanted

02:36:00 to keep seeing her I assume she also wanted that but some people have things that give them the

02:36:08 ick or upset them but did you have a conversation with her prior about okay I'm looking for

02:36:15 something and I don't just see you as a hookup was those like conversations set before she ghosted

02:36:20 you yeah we we had a conversation about intentions okay well then okay so then i can understand like 0.93

02:36:27 but my point was once we did have sex and our intention was for more i think she got hung up

02:36:35 on even if you say i have i'm five percent wrong ten percent wrong it's a pretty minor thing 0.99

02:36:41 i would probably argue it's like slightly like but i think women should temper their neuroticism

02:36:49 and it's like okay sometimes a guy will say something that is somewhat offensive or whatever

02:36:58 are you going every single time a guy says something that you know is it really you're

02:37:03 going to have a fight over it you're going to end we weren't in a relationship but we were you know

02:37:08 starting something yes exactly yeah like proportion so in this case i was like

02:37:13 i think if i've been inside of you i get to mispronounce your name

02:37:18 i feel like it should be but why are you saying it like see you're provoking us though i understand

02:37:24 you have you have a very nice idea of where you're going with this because you want consistency and

02:37:29 you don't want them to be a little brat and a little kid and be like hey look i'm sorry i

02:37:33 didn't mean it like that i really do like you i'm sorry i mispronounced your name and she shouldn't

02:37:37 have just stormed off after that one thing and ended the relationship which could have possibly

02:37:42 been really good so much room for communication in that it's just yeah and pettiness and childish

02:37:47 behavior can i just bring up how like this was so long ago and it still like hurts you just a

02:37:53 little bit because he really liked her probably i mean i i don't think i'm not really hurt by it

02:37:58 i think it's kind of funny but no i don't funny now i don't think i'm not her it's just like a

02:38:03 little like you remember that it's a little thing yeah no i mean i don't think i have like anything

02:38:09 bad to say about her i don't think there's there's hurt there i've been broken up with i've been

02:38:17 rejected it's not um it doesn't really bother me but uh as a topic of conversation on a dating

02:38:26 discussion podcast i do think sometimes like women will uh just like sometimes arbitrarily

02:38:36 end something over something minor and then it's like especially look here's my philosophy 0.97

02:38:43 if i've had sex with a woman say i pull back a little bit she should not she should try to fight 1.00

02:38:52 a little bit to to keep it going because in her mind she should think oh great i don't want to 1.00

02:38:58 do this again i don't want to get another this is just another body i think a woman if she's 1.00

02:39:03 fucked a guy and you know she wanted something long-term he won something long-term she should 1.00

02:39:11 have apprehension of just walking away like it's nothing she should want to fight to continue 0.99

02:39:18 seeing you but that goes both ways though maybe maybe that's super blue-pilled and idealistic

02:39:23 men self-sabotage their own relationships potentially very good ones from the get-go

02:39:29 they don't even give it a chance they don't let it blossom they don't let it move forward

02:39:32 yes women do it too because they get the ache and they're like oh my god i can't anymore and

02:39:36 it's over something like oh he had a little something on his nose hair that was sticking

02:39:41 like something tiny like that and they will just like hyper concentrate on that and be like i can't 0.92

02:39:46 date him anymore because he had a little extra earwax something stupid you know what i mean i

02:39:50 mean i'm sorry i'm giving you guys a nick but what i'm trying to say is he's blaming women but it 0.94

02:39:55 could go both ways because men and things like that after sleeping with someone and they go

02:40:00 they don't communicate she wants but she doesn't want to sound desperate i'm not gonna lie i get

02:40:06 more attached to a man that I

02:40:08 haven't slept with yet

02:40:09 than with a man that I have slept with.

02:40:12 What?

02:40:13 I don't know.

02:40:17 You should see it there, Chris.

02:40:19 So how are you attached to him?

02:40:22 You never have to.

02:40:22 Okay, I'm talking about, let's say, me and this man,

02:40:25 we were going out on dates,

02:40:27 and we were hanging out a lot,

02:40:30 and cute little stuff,

02:40:31 going to the beach late at night,

02:40:32 and it was all more not lustful. 0.99

02:40:34 Let me cut through the bullshit. 1.00

02:40:36 I'm going to cut through the bullshit. 1.00

02:40:39 If I have been inside a woman, 1.00

02:40:42 if a woman has had sex with me, 1.00

02:40:45 she should be attached to me. 1.00

02:40:48 She should want to fight to be with me.

02:40:51 But what are you doing to hold on to her, too? 0.95

02:40:54 I'm fucking amazing. 0.98

02:40:55 Okay. 0.99

02:40:56 Brian, stop.

02:40:57 Brian?

02:40:58 Okay, a question for you.

02:40:59 The sperm swims to the egg. 0.65

02:41:00 Yeah, not the other way.

02:41:01 No, no, no, but hold on.

02:41:03 Hold on. 1.00

02:41:03 Look, I'm not saying that, look, I mean, I don't mind if a woman makes the first move. 1.00

02:41:08 That's not what I'm talking about. 0.69

02:41:10 I'm saying that the woman should fight to keep the thing, the relationship, the whatever, whatever is going on. 0.97

02:41:18 If you have sex with a woman and she can just like, it means nothing to her, dysfunction in the brain. 0.99

02:41:26 Dysfunctional. 0.97

02:41:27 Yes.

02:41:27 And honestly, this is going to be a bit, well, okay. 1.00

02:41:31 If I have sex with a woman 1.00

02:41:33 This is okay 1.00

02:41:35 Maybe I'm a little extreme 0.99

02:41:36 She should never date another guy after me

02:41:40 You're lying

02:41:41 I know you don't mean that

02:41:43 That's romantic

02:41:43 If I have sex 1.00

02:41:45 Look if I have sex with a woman 0.81

02:41:46 And we're dating even for three months 0.96

02:41:48 You wait for me 0.99

02:41:52 You join a nunnery 0.93

02:41:54 You're on a cliff 0.57

02:41:56 You're on a cliff

02:41:57 That's cute Brian

02:41:58 You're on a cliff

02:41:59 Okay, and what are you doing to be on that type of level

02:42:02 to be waited for?

02:42:04 No, it's not about me. It's about how the women 0.95

02:42:06 should be. That's how women should be. 1.00

02:42:09 And you're just providing 1.00

02:42:10 mid-sex?

02:42:12 Who said anything about mid-sex? 1.00

02:42:14 The sex is... Fantastic? 1.00

02:42:16 Well, sometimes there's

02:42:18 what's it called? Some people don't have

02:42:20 So are you going to be allowed to 1.00

02:42:22 date and do what you want to do and she's not?

02:42:25 When did I say that? 0.95

02:42:26 Okay, because you just said...

02:42:28 Okay, she's going to wait.

02:42:30 Rephrase what you just said.

02:42:31 No, look, I think she should be on a cliffside overlooking the ocean like I went on a voyage on a boat.

02:42:38 She should be waiting for me to come back.

02:42:41 She should be looking for the boat, me on the boat.

02:42:44 And what are you doing?

02:42:46 He's sailing away. 1.00

02:42:47 You're fucking bitches? 1.00

02:42:48 I'm pillaging villages. 1.00

02:42:51 Yeah, he's a Viking. 1.00

02:42:52 I'm a fucking pirate and a Viking. 1.00

02:42:55 No, I'm not waiting for that. 1.00

02:42:57 Anyways, I don't know.

02:42:58 i'm being silly with that one i'm being silly there okay let's see what else do we have uh 0.59

02:43:02 there was one from lada uh people of color can't be racist towards white people can be what can't 0.92

02:43:10 can't so okay you typically hear this like black people can't cannot be racist towards white people

02:43:17 so is that what you think i thought i said can like well okay so black people can yes

02:43:28 can be racist towards white people?

02:43:29 Yes. Probably. What do you mean probably?

02:43:32 I mean, everyone has

02:43:33 an opinion. It does say can't here, though.

02:43:36 Biased. Okay, what's your opinion?

02:43:39 My opinion on what specifically? 1.00

02:43:44 Do you believe that black people

02:43:45 can be racist towards white people? 1.00

02:43:48 Yeah, I believe they can. 0.62

02:43:50 Okay, so you

02:43:51 incorrectly perhaps circled

02:43:54 this.

02:43:55 Okay, let's get back into some of the show

02:43:57 notes here we're gonna do show notes uh let's see we have uh hold on i wanted to come to

02:44:07 one sec uh annie you don't like the body count question oh no i don't why is that

02:44:16 i don't know i think it's nasty like asking it or i don't know just the i guess hearing about it

02:44:26 i don't know i guess no just were you disgusted when these women were sharing their body count

02:44:32 like the strumpets that they are no but you know like the fact that it's like a leading conversation

02:44:38 now like what's your body count like i've never been in such an environment before

02:44:43 here's a good question on this here's a good question i'm not going anywhere would you be

02:44:49 offended i know obviously look whatever podcast it's a dating discussion podcast let's say you're

02:44:55 on a date with a guy first date and he has communicated you know he's interested in you

02:45:03 he's long-term whatever and you like him and i don't know some point later on in the night

02:45:09 he asks so what's your body count do you do you answer do you answer truthfully

02:45:18 uh and are you upset or is it a deal breaker or something like that i would ask him his first

02:45:25 to answer this question first so you could adjust yours um no to see what type of man he is like if

02:45:31 he's a virgin that i'm gonna be like okay i'm gonna tell the truth but i'm just gonna be like 0.55

02:45:34 damn he probably wouldn't he probably wants a virgin but i'll probably make assumptions about 0.97

02:45:39 him based off of his number um yeah i would probably say the truth especially if i you know 0.99

02:45:43 i don't want to lie to someone that i'm getting involved with so yeah i would tell the truth i

02:45:49 fully believe in telling the truth i don't like sugarcoating answers and i've had men

02:45:53 get upset when i tell me uh i'm gonna change the question would you be taken aback if a man did

02:45:59 ask that on the first date would it be like a bit off-putting i asked him first oh you asked your

02:46:05 husband oh i just asked everyone like you go to starbucks yeah yeah i mean like hey i'm very

02:46:13 nosy so i'm gonna want to know taking it back i'm 50 50 um i'm really for people that are very

02:46:23 like they're open about what they want sexually at first in relationship and um it's harder with

02:46:29 a couple gets together and then it's physically incompatible compatible so you know i think it

02:46:35 really matters i think the same if i don't have a reason not to trust that person yet with that

02:46:42 information then sure like why not off-putting it's very off-putting for a first date doesn't

02:46:49 mean i'm not going to tell you but i want to get to know you i want you to get to know me and then

02:46:54 i will be honest with you if i feel like you deserve that honesty if a guy asked me on the

02:46:59 first date what my body count is first i do want to answer your first question hell yes i'm gonna

02:47:05 lie every time second wait did you lie yes wait what did she what did you say your body count was

02:47:12 12.

02:47:13 So it's higher.

02:47:17 Multiply it by three, and that's the real number. 0.95

02:47:19 But I wouldn't be like, ew, you're fucking weird because you asked me if I didn't count. 0.86

02:47:24 I'm not saying. 0.97

02:47:25 Well, how about this?

02:47:26 Is it over 50?

02:47:27 I don't remember, honestly. 0.99

02:47:29 That's a yes.

02:47:30 Is it over 100?

02:47:32 No.

02:47:33 50 to 100?

02:47:34 No.

02:47:35 50 to 100?

02:47:36 40 to 60.

02:47:37 40 to 70?

02:47:38 Somewhere 40 to 60.

02:47:39 No. 0.94

02:47:40 Definitely.

02:47:40 We haven't hit 70s yet.

02:47:41 Sure.

02:47:42 not yet 40 to 60 okay all right what do you think maybe not in those words but maybe like you know

02:47:49 not like what's your body count but like uh how many you know relationships have you had or have

02:47:54 you slept with a lot of people sort of yeah next um i've always answered truthfully to everybody 0.77

02:48:00 that's asked i mean i don't care i'll fucking tell them all the details of every one of them 0.99

02:48:06 i'm open i don't care she's open she's open there you go to talk good shit good shit uh okay let's 0.99

02:48:13 get into the pre-show notes we have we did some of them already hold on we got courtney 0.98

02:48:21 had some good stuff but she left because of medical uh we have zell

02:48:27 you uh okay uh what to tell your friends versus not to tell your friends

02:48:40 while being in a relationship so you're talking about like intimate details yes yes okay yeah i

02:48:47 want to know more like should people kind of restrain some facts about your relationship to

02:48:55 your best friends or should you just kind of yes think so well i think this is more so something

02:49:03 women do the gal pal group the girl gossip men do it too very the very next day women more so than 0.98

02:49:12 men but the very next day okay how big was the dick blah blah you guys share very intimate details 0.99

02:49:17 look i can't speak for all men i can know at least for myself uh first off my friend wouldn't 0.96

02:49:25 know i wouldn't tell him even if we had set like he wouldn't know uh if he says hey how'd it go 0.66

02:49:33 with even if he knew that i was on a date with fucking gertrude hey how was it with gertrude 0.98

02:49:38 i'd be like oh it's good and we could add crazy wild sex he wouldn't know uh i will say men will 0.99

02:49:47 do this more so than women i don't know how common it is but i think it's wrong uh like showing your

02:49:54 friend like if a girl sends you nudes sharing like that's wrong that's 100 wrong men maybe do

02:50:00 that more than the gossip i don't know but like women will sit down with their girl group the 0.91

02:50:04 very next day no share the dick size share the details tell me the details so my expectation 0.99

02:50:12 for a woman would be and this would be mutual any intimate details

02:50:18 that's 100 private anything that that's like intimate like that both ways 100 i would never

02:50:27 tell a friend or anybody anything like any intimate details that's my expectation on the

02:50:32 woman too exactly you're not gonna got like imagine i meet this girl's friends and it's 0.95

02:50:38 disrespect like they know about my like dick that's weird it's disrespectful yes i've known 0.99

02:50:44 her for 10 years not once have we shared that kind of detail no dick not like that no never 0.99

02:50:49 never asked no i've never okay performance any of that yeah go ahead you say everything 0.97

02:50:54 so when i'm like one of my hoes his best friend came to me and told me he was like hey so and so 0.97

02:51:04 said you had some fire-ass 1.00

02:51:06 pussy. And I took that as 1.00

02:51:08 a compliment. I'm like,

02:51:09 thank you.

02:51:12 I don't know. I feel like

02:51:14 if a guy went to his homies

02:51:15 or if I went to my girlfriend's, I

02:51:18 really don't care. As long as you're

02:51:20 not saying my shit stink, my shit 1.00

02:51:22 was trash, 1.00

02:51:23 then I'm going to be like, damn. 1.00

02:51:26 But if he's over here like, 1.00

02:51:28 oh yeah, I had her doing backflips

02:51:30 on it, whatever, whatever. Cool.

02:51:31 Well, yeah, certainly if the feedback or what they're telling is positive,

02:51:36 that's better than if it's negative.

02:51:38 I still think it's not appropriate to share.

02:51:43 Speaking of you, you do OnlyFans, you do boy-girl content?

02:51:50 I have boy-girl content, yes.

02:51:52 Have you escorted?

02:51:54 No. 0.84

02:51:55 Prostitution? 1.00

02:51:56 No. 1.00

02:51:57 Stripping? 0.99

02:51:57 Yes.

02:51:57 i just got i was just a stripper the whole set i stopped stripping in yeah wait you wrote that

02:52:04 you're single and in situation ships plural yes so listen i'm not gonna just talk to one guy

02:52:13 and then like him leave me and then like i'm wholess like i gotta keep my roster open i gotta 0.94

02:52:20 keep them because then what if i get bored like i i've been in situations where one hoe don't want 0.96

02:52:26 to hang out one night so then i hit up the other ones and whoever responds first i go with that 0.96

02:52:31 are you afraid to be alone excuse me oh no i love being alone i don't want to date i don't 0.77

02:52:39 want to be in a relationship that's just the sex then it's no i don't even have sex wait question 0.97

02:52:44 have you ever had sex with two guys in a 24-hour period uh i've had a threesome with two guys 1.00

02:52:51 no but separately no so you fuck jim bob on tuesday and then 4 p.m and then you fuck gonzalez 0.99

02:53:00 at 10 p.m no because okay this is gonna y'all are not gonna believe me but i really do not 1.00

02:53:05 have a lot of sex i don't like sex i'm just because i'm like i just you're a fucking liar 0.98

02:53:11 i know i know i know it seems like it but i genuinely just think men are so sexy and i just 0.99

02:53:17 want to be around sexy men. I don't

02:53:19 want to fuck. And not have sex with them. No. 1.00

02:53:21 They're sexy, but not have sex. That is crazy. 0.92

02:53:23 I don't have a, what is it, a sex drive? I don't have a 0.79

02:53:25 sex drive. I don't get horny. 0.96

02:53:27 Like, how do you make content? Are you not aroused when you're

02:53:29 making your, like, OF?

02:53:31 Well, a lot of my content is, like,

02:53:33 solo content. So it's with

02:53:35 toys and custom videos that

02:53:37 they want from me, like, 0.85

02:53:39 jerking off instructions. 1.00

02:53:41 A, she was a hooah. 1.00

02:53:43 B, she was a hooah. 0.98

02:53:44 My content is mostly 1.00

02:53:46 Just me, myself, and I

02:53:48 Okay

02:53:48 Moving on

02:53:50 You were talking to this guy for three weeks

02:53:53 And you spent thousands of dollars on him

02:53:55 Yes

02:53:55 And he ghosted you

02:53:56 Yes

02:53:58 How much did you spend?

02:54:02 Oh my god

02:54:03 Oh my god

02:54:05 Probably like $8,000

02:54:06 And he bought you McDonald's a few times?

02:54:11 One time

02:54:11 That's it?

02:54:12 Twice, actually

02:54:13 yeah uh why like were you simping were you down bad no because i had been okay i'm gonna try to 0.88

02:54:23 wrap it up quick but i was single for a really long time talking having hoes whatever and this 0.78

02:54:27 was the first guy that i had met that actually made my commitment issues not exist like i actually 0.85

02:54:32 was like i would settle down with him i would take him serious i would drop everybody for this guy

02:54:37 and i had not felt that in so long that i was like whoa this is a weird feeling for me i actually like

02:54:42 you and i don't really like catch feelings or like care about men like that like i care about

02:54:47 them but catch feelings for them to be in relationships with them so when i met this

02:54:51 guy i was like oh i'll do anything anything for you and uh he ended up being like oh i don't want

02:54:58 nothing serious and the guys that like you you don't like them and the guys you like don't like

02:55:06 you i like i like the chase unfortunately i like chasing but uh you said that you were in a three

02:55:12 and a half year relationship it was super toxic you would chase him down the street yeah in a car

02:55:18 or oh with my feet on foot i locked him in my bathroom one time too you threw stanley at his

02:55:24 car window yeah so he wouldn't leave and you locked him in your bathroom yeah and then the

02:55:29 family found out you did of oh yeah and then you were disowned yes nice under what circumstances

02:55:38 did you leave him at let him get out of the bathroom because it's gonna get all deep whatever

02:55:45 I'm not gonna make it like that but um it's just during that time we were completely

02:55:50 different people emotionally so he was avoiding I was very anxious so when we'd get into like

02:55:57 disagreements all I wanted was for him to talk to me and just be like it's okay I just need space

02:56:02 right now and my brain couldn't comprehend I just need space that's give me some time to recollect

02:56:08 my emotions at that time i took it as oh my god my boyfriend is gonna leave me he's never gonna

02:56:12 talk to me again so like i would freak out and be like no you can't leave my house you can't

02:56:17 leave me like even though all he literally needed was to take a break but i was so young i was like

02:56:24 15 16 at the time that like i couldn't comprehend that at the time so i was a little crazy i can't

02:56:30 donated 100 you are all interchangeable the only way i can tell when brian brings new girls on is

02:56:38 the amount of annoyance you cause share five you slept with a guy on video for money you're a 0.98

02:56:45 prostitute thanks no not for five i'm five yeah uh slept with the guy on video for money actually 0.98

02:56:52 no i don't like shoot content with men for my of a lot of the times a lot of the times i do have 0.99

02:57:00 sex i don't even record it for content because all my content's solo and when i cam it's just

02:57:05 me so i don't cam with men so false actually

02:57:11 i think a lot of i think like doing of gets so miss like oh you do of that means you like

02:57:21 have sex with guys and you sleep with guys like i always tell people go subscribe then and like 0.97

02:57:27 yeah she had something to say about that too because if she has a disability and she can't 0.99

02:57:34 have another job that puts i personally i i've been doing of and camming for about

02:57:40 almost two years now and i love it personally i mean i don't see nothing i mean it's controversial

02:57:50 topic but I think people think like oh you do OF oh yeah that means you have sex all the time

02:57:57 and you like are making content with guys and I tell them like dude the times that I have had sex 0.94

02:58:05 I don't even record it and then I'm like damn I should have but like it's because I'm having like 0.94

02:58:10 me not having a sex drive and me not really being like a horny person like that like a lot of the 0.97

02:58:17 times I'm like not thinking content if I sleep with someone it's because like yeah I'm sleeping 0.98

02:58:22 with you so I fuck with you I don't know how do you do solo content if you're not aroused by it 0.99

02:58:26 that must be like I mean I guess using fucking lube or whatever but like I don't know I mean 1.00

02:58:32 it's hard to kind of fake that I mean I get aroused obviously but like I'm talking about 0.99

02:58:39 like I don't have a sex drive where I'm like oh my god I need to have sex I'm horny like I need 0.99

02:58:44 to find a hoe right now to call up to like have sex with me I'm not like that if I hang out with 1.00

02:58:48 my hoes it's because I'm just like bored and want to talk and like go get food gotcha yeah I'm just 1.00

02:58:53 asking because like sex drive is kind of different between girls because for me I've had the most 0.99

02:58:59 insane sex drive like I've broken up with guys because we don't have sex enough see and I've 0.70

02:59:04 always wondered that like I've I have a friend um who is like that too like she needs to have sex 0.91

02:59:11 like she's like oh my god and i never understood what that felt like to be like i i crave sex i

02:59:16 just never cared why though um so i was also a person who had gained a lot of weight and so when

02:59:23 i was trying to lose the weight i had a really hard time even if i would eat nothing work out

02:59:28 nothing in the book would happen until i went to the doctors got my labs done figured out that my

02:59:34 labs were completely out of whack i had almost double the amount of testosterone in my body 0.99

02:59:40 and no estrogen i had the sex drive of a fucking male interesting yeah but now recently i've been 0.99

02:59:49 like regulated on medication it's it's subsided a lot to be honest now that i'm an only fans model 0.99

02:59:55 i miss it but i don't want to feel like shit again for that sex drive you know i think also 0.94

03:00:01 too because how long have you been doing only fans for okay yeah someone's been doing it for 0.99

03:00:05 almost two years working in the sex industry you become really desensitized to a lot of sexual

03:00:11 things so like being lusted over or comments or even like sex and stuff it's and I was also a

03:00:19 stripper and I'm also a cam girl so I've done you know so I'm just so desensitized to any like

03:00:25 sexualness because it's like I associate that with my job you know when I'm done working and

03:00:30 I'm done making content, I'm done camming, I'm off the clock, and so, like, I don't want to think 0.99

03:00:37 about putting a dildo in me, I don't want to think about playing with my vagina, like, I'm just, like, 0.99

03:00:42 I don't, like, I'm over it, you know what I mean? So, do you think that's the reason why, like, you 1.00

03:00:47 have a low sex drive, instead of, it's not that you don't like to have sex, or want to have sex,

03:00:54 but it's, like, I think it may be hormonal, because I've been like that since I was, like, 15. Well, I

03:00:59 mean it's kind of like if you have a job that's like baking right like you got to bake all the

03:01:06 time and then you go home and you don't want to bake so if you're having sex like as for work and

03:01:14 as a job when you're not doing that you don't want claim donated 100 selling your body regardless if

03:01:22 there is another person is still prostitution i'm not saying stop i'm just judging and totally

03:01:29 okay with it which is the one that can't work and why do you thank you claim for the tts man

03:01:37 appreciate it that was very one one man patronage tonight thank you man appreciate it dude you're 0.81

03:01:43 fucking legend they're asking with like you which one is the one that can't work and why 0.87

03:01:49 why you chose to do only fans why i can't work uh i'm gonna rearrange the seats so you two i'm just 0.99

03:01:54 gonna put uh you in that seat and then you're gonna take that seat over there um what was the

03:02:02 question i missed that yeah i think because of your disability when you chose only fans as a job

03:02:09 like what why didn't she how did what was the disability that made you kind of like have no

03:02:15 option but only fans oh yeah i mean i've done everything in my path to not really get this far

03:02:21 like you know i've sold a lot of my things i've tried applying to jobs you know unfortunately

03:02:26 the accommodations that i need you know it just doesn't fit for a lot of jobs that i'm currently

03:02:32 applying for like you know i work an office job it's hard to let's say it's really hard to get a

03:02:39 remote job in california for sure especially if you don't have a degree and um unfortunately like

03:02:45 if you have like allergies and all these things that pull you out of work to a point that like

03:02:49 Like, you can't be in there.

03:02:50 It's just tough.

03:02:52 You know, I'm kind of curious.

03:02:54 What made you choose to do OnlyFans? 0.99

03:02:58 Oh, I love sex. 0.76

03:02:59 You know, like, a lot of my content that I posted out is, like, world content. 0.92

03:03:04 But me and my ex.

03:03:06 Consensually.

03:03:07 All right.

03:03:08 I'm sorry, but the OnlyFans conversation bores the fuck out of me.

03:03:13 Going to you, it's just boring.

03:03:15 It's so boring.

03:03:16 um what so you said what do men or women in this generation feel about 50 50 yeah and is it the

03:03:23 man's job to provide and the woman job to stay home you feel like depending on the audience

03:03:27 watching what i have to say can go bad or good yeah well first i kind of want to like hear what

03:03:35 do people think about that like do you guys feel like it should be 50 50 or that the man should be

03:03:41 the provider and the woman should be at home with the kids cook and clean and do all that

03:03:45 i think it could be either depending on the two individuals who want to be together okay but what

03:03:51 do you want i wouldn't mind 50 50 i feel like if the man wanted to provide and was like i want to

03:04:00 pay the bills i want to take care of you this this and so forth okay then i will gladly stay home

03:04:06 do whatever you need me to obey but if you want to do 50 50 like i'm i feel like i'm fine with

03:04:13 that as well you're fine with 50 50 yeah 100 on the questionnaire what did you answer to

03:04:20 to uh shaman pay

03:04:23 what's your name lala what is it lala l-a-l-a yeah you said men should pay on first dates

03:04:31 Men should provide, protect

03:04:33 So you think men should pay on first dates 1.00

03:04:35 And provide 1.00

03:04:36 I think they should pay on the first date

03:04:40 If they're the ones that are asking you

03:04:42 Do you want to go on a date with me

03:04:43 If I ask a man do you want to go on a date

03:04:45 What do you mean 0.57

03:04:47 Do you ask men to go on first dates 1.00

03:04:48 Shit I'd be like hey what's up with you 1.00

03:04:51 I want to see you 1.00

03:04:52 I'll pick him up

03:04:53 That doesn't answer the question 0.98

03:04:55 Do you ask men on first dates

03:04:57 No

03:04:58 I'm trying to tell you that

03:05:01 My way of asking him on a date is being like, what's up with you?

03:05:04 Let me go pick you up and let's chill.

03:05:06 I'm not going to take him to a restaurant.

03:05:09 Oh, okay.

03:05:11 So you pick him up and chill.

03:05:13 Yes. 1.00

03:05:14 And fuck. 1.00

03:05:14 No. 1.00

03:05:16 Why does everything always circle back to sex?

03:05:19 That's what I'm like.

03:05:19 But okay, so you've never asked a guy out like to go get food or something?

03:05:25 Yeah, and I'll pay.

03:05:26 And I have.

03:05:26 okay but this sort of i don't understand you say men should pay on first dates whoever asks should

03:05:34 pay you do ask guys out but you don't take them to like you wouldn't go somewhere where you'd have

03:05:42 to pay i don't think you're understanding my generation like my generation 18 19 20 21 year

03:05:48 olds were not so proper of like oh hey do you want to go on a date with me let's go to a restaurant

03:05:53 that's not how, at least in my city or where I'm from, it really works. So if a guy were to properly

03:06:00 ask me on a date, like, hey, I want to take you to this nice restaurant, then obviously is he not

03:06:05 going to pay? He's the one that asked. Well, yeah, but generally speaking, when it comes to who

03:06:10 initiates first dates, men initiate first dates. Women can just be passive and sit back, wait for 1.00

03:06:18 men to come to them so a woman can go through her entire life go on the dozens hundreds of dates 1.00

03:06:26 and never have a burden of her having to be the one to ask the man out or to take that initiative

03:06:32 or to have that burden so because so that creates a pressure on men to be the initiators because if

03:06:38 you take an average girl by the time she's 25 she's probably been on dozens of dates first dates 0.99

03:06:45 or some hang out and the guy's paying for the shit. 0.99

03:06:48 If an average 25-year-old guy, he never made the first move, he'd be a virgin. 1.00

03:06:53 If the average man did what the average woman did, he would be a virgin. 0.74

03:06:58 Okay, but that doesn't apply to everybody in this world. 0.96

03:07:01 I've made the first move many times. 0.97

03:07:04 Okay, but so I understand that there are some women who are a bit more assertive 0.97

03:07:09 or take more initiative. 0.99

03:07:10 I understand that.

03:07:11 i'm not saying it never happens but as a general principle i would wager 99 98 percent of first

03:07:20 dates are initiated by men okay like of all the total first dates that have happened in the past

03:07:26 10 years 99 of them the guy asked the woman so are you telling me okay i don't feel like you're

03:07:34 you're not making no sense because you're saying men are the ones no you're saying no you're making

03:07:39 sense but your analogy is so you're not making sense well listen to my listen to what I'm trying

03:07:45 to say like you're saying yes men are the ones who mostly ask women out on dates right they make

03:07:51 that initiative okay so are you telling me if you ask a girl out on a date you're not gonna pay for

03:07:57 her no that's not what I said okay but that's the whole point of the question is paying on first

03:08:02 dates that is what we are talking about no i'm i'm being critical of the how do i articulate this 1.00

03:08:10 i'm being critical of the social landscape where you have modern egalitarian non-ladylike women 0.99

03:08:18 uh or well let me scratch out the non-egalitarian thing like you do only fans right you're a sex 1.00

03:08:27 worker. Yes. You're not moving in a ladylike way. I, my view, my belief is you don't deserve 1.00

03:08:37 chivalry, men paying for dates. You might still get it. You probably do still get it. Um, but I

03:08:43 think my contention is if women are going to have an expectation on men that they adhere to certain

03:08:50 traditional standards, women can't just throw their arms in the air and say, it's going to be 0.97

03:08:56 tradition for men and for me i'm going to be a giga slut modern feminist woman i'm not going 0.95

03:09:02 to be traditional in any way whatsoever but you the man it's 1950s for you and it's 2026 for me 0.66

03:09:11 and i don't agree with that as well i don't oh what i do not know why that oh well sorry sorry

03:09:18 sorry i accidentally clicked i think the same exact way i think especially my line of work

03:09:23 i don't expect any man to one have respect for me to want to take me seriously to look at me and be 0.98

03:09:29 like i would marry her hell no i would never be like oh you're fucked up for thinking that of me 0.98

03:09:35 at the end of the day i have always said like whoever claim donated one hundred dollars 1.00

03:09:42 is your disability just being a woman or do you just have an excuse to be lazy blue shirt has an 0.99

03:09:49 IQ less than this TTS cost. 1.00

03:09:52 Probably half.

03:09:53 Can I get a discount?

03:09:55 Can I say something?

03:09:56 I'm not the one that's doing OnlyFans because I have a disability.

03:09:59 And it's not me.

03:10:00 That's her.

03:10:02 What did you say the disability was?

03:10:04 I didn't say it yet.

03:10:05 You didn't want to?

03:10:06 I want to hear it.

03:10:07 I was waiting for it.

03:10:08 Autism?

03:10:09 No. 0.93

03:10:11 Big labia? 0.98

03:10:12 Asymmetrical big labia? 0.98

03:10:13 No, I have a really bad peanut allergy.

03:10:15 Where a lot of...

03:10:17 It's just a peanut allergy.

03:10:18 well not only just the peanut allergy like i can't be in vicinities that like people are

03:10:21 eating peanuts anywhere in my vicinity like if i smell it like you can't even breed peanut

03:10:27 but is that so you you have a severe allergy yes is that strictly a disability though well it can

03:10:36 because it's very restricting to where workplaces i could go to because i've had i've had workplaces

03:10:41 that i've had to leave because it cannot uphold like restaurants probably i think there's options

03:10:46 And so, like, for example, I work at a place where kids and nobody is allowed to bring any peanut products into the building at all, ever.

03:10:54 And it's 100-bit peanut safe.

03:10:55 Wait, hold on.

03:10:57 Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

03:10:58 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

03:10:59 Sorry to cut you off.

03:11:01 Sorry.

03:11:03 Tell me if I have this correct.

03:11:07 You resorted to OnlyFans because you have a peanut allergy.

03:11:12 No, no, no, no, no, no.

03:11:12 That's how I hear you.

03:11:13 Hold on.

03:11:14 You didn't let me finish my story, though.

03:11:16 I was still talking.

03:11:16 No, I think that's the gist of it.

03:11:19 No, no, no, no, no.

03:11:20 Chat, guys, this is a new one.

03:11:23 I like it, though.

03:11:24 It's a new thing.

03:11:26 You know, oh, my God, I grew up.

03:11:29 I had a rough childhood.

03:11:30 And my parents, I got to pay my parents.

03:11:34 I've heard some reasons for starting a no-left.

03:11:39 Peanut allergy is a first.

03:11:41 i like it though it's it's funny well it's not only just that okay tell us what else

03:11:47 i have i have a lot of mental health problems to where i kind of that i pop off on people a lot

03:11:56 and i leave a lot pop off i do i i try my best not to but i get offended a lot and i try to bite

03:12:02 my tongue oh have i offended you tonight that you with your attitude probably when we first came in

03:12:09 we were probably like what's wrong with you but then you said you had a sinus infection i'm dying

03:12:13 you could have said it to begin with then we would have understood but you couldn't tell i 0.94

03:12:17 thought it was just we thought we were you were just you were not fucking with us no it's just 0.99

03:12:21 i was i was like this is like a horrible host like what the fuck we're like we're like scared 0.99

03:12:27 and this man that we just met can't even be welcoming he's over here like yelling at everyone 0.98

03:12:33 whoa whoa whoa hold on not yelling let me take that back that was doing too much let's not false

03:12:37 accuse yes that was doing too much my bad my voice has actually been lower no but you just 0.99

03:12:43 there was no yelling no hold on that's bullshit you're you're exaggerating you're hold on you're 0.98

03:12:48 exaggerating i was very uh it's hard to even speak because i'm fucking sick and my i'm like 0.99

03:12:57 almost semi delirious and my fucking head is pound like so i almost wanted to fucking cancel 0.96

03:13:05 today and i've i've only canceled one other episode it was fucking august of 2023 and i had 0.94

03:13:11 brutal covid and i thought i can't i canceled the episode uh but so i was like you know what 0.69

03:13:18 the show must go on i'm gonna power through it that's really an unfair characterization that's

03:13:23 unfair because i was not yelling i was just like uh short okay let me take you weren't yelling you 0.69

03:13:31 just seemed very like agitated and irritated i am agitated i'm fucking sick understandable but 0.85

03:13:38 understand like there's girls coming in who's never met you before we're a little like nervous 0.82

03:13:43 and scared we're already like it's shaking up i just wanted to say hi yeah we thought you were

03:13:48 you're gonna smile at it like you can does your face whoa hold on hey guys i'm sick i don't like

03:13:53 this criticism i've had a few people say this so first off when i'm prepping the show i'm running 0.88

03:14:01 around dealing with 10 different things we had the fucking tech issues at the beginning of the 0.83

03:14:06 stream with the internet and stuff i'm i have like a bullet list of 20 30 different things that i need 0.96

03:14:13 a check off to make sure that we start the shit on time um why and this is sort of reminiscent of 0.96

03:14:21 our conversation about marriage why is the burden on me to damn it claim donated 100 dollars she got 0.99

03:14:32 got a peanut allergy but not a joyful allergy be honest it's easy work for good money blue shirt 0.99

03:14:39 you still have a nike you equal to a potato and i used to love oh shit thank you clane he used to 0.96

03:14:46 love potatoes thank you clane appreciate it um that's a deep thought why is the burden on me 0.96

03:14:52 to come and like do a hi to all of you you guys could do it to me you guys could be like we're

03:15:01 scared first of all no no let me let me ask you a question you guys could walk up to me you could

03:15:06 walk up to me be like hi good to meet you yeah but when we come in and you already have an attitude

03:15:12 from the moment we walked in there was no attitude no there was collective agreement

03:15:16 all of us were looking at each other like oh hell no i was already like i was already mad at you

03:15:22 before you even like saying a word and i was like no let me stop that's what i think about all that

03:15:27 that's what i think i think you guys are just intimidated because when i met brian before 0.57

03:15:32 it was like this it imagine you're focused you're just like i don't give a damn like i'm just like 0.98

03:15:38 this was literally you this was you oh my god like you were just like oh my damn like you could 0.71

03:15:47 have smirked at us hey hey guys like you know sorry i'm not feeling well like but no like 0.89

03:15:55 bro look i'm sick i'm sick first off i think you're also miscategorizing the degree to which 0.77

03:16:05 i was you're claiming i was what moping or some shit no you were just i'm a very straight 0.87

03:16:11 communicator i'm not gonna be like sugar and spice and everything nice and make it all flowery for 0.75

03:16:17 you i'm a very straight communicator i'm like hey you come over here come over here no sit there

03:16:23 sit there i'm very straight communicator like that now you guys want to do a tone police

03:16:28 you guys want to do a tone yeah you want to police the tone and the reality is it's like 0.99

03:16:34 i'm fucking sick i'm fucking sick but why women can't take accountability oh i take accountability 0.98

03:16:43 because y'all could have cut you y'all if it was so important to you to have that initial touch 1.00

03:16:50 not physically but like that initial you could have you caught you could have came up to me

03:16:55 and been like hey brian good to meet you yeah and i wanted to but when i walked in you were

03:17:02 so immediate not just to us other people in this house that are over there i was like oh i don't

03:17:09 know like this is like how he's gonna like treat us and i like your personality now yeah like now

03:17:13 you're cool but like we were all looking at each other like what's like i don't blame you i was

03:17:19 like oh this isn't a facade this is really just him i understand if you said for like half a

03:17:24 second sorry guys i'm sick then we would have been like okay i told you eventually but no in the

03:17:28 beginning we're like scares well yes and now i'm in the mood for it's like my job here my job here

03:17:35 is to coddle you guys this is an adversarial uh debate podcast i'm not here to be your best friend 0.57

03:17:43 I'll be, I'll be, you know, I'm not going to like fucking insult you, but look, I'm trying to run a show. 0.91

03:17:54 I'm not only is it like, even if I'm not sick, not only is it insanely like you guys don't, you have no perspective on what it takes to run something like this. 0.93

03:18:10 No idea. None of you have any idea.

03:18:13 add that that's already stressful to begin with add that to fucking like brutal i didn't 0.99

03:18:21 fucking sleep last night i slept two hours fucking brutal why i'm fucking sick i cannot breathe 0.99

03:18:29 i literally i thought i was gonna fucking uh but like take some melatonin maybe 0.99

03:18:35 i took three doses of melatonin i was up until 10 a.m i slept until noon i couldn't sleep 0.94

03:18:43 fucking exhausted i'm sick i'm in pain yeah i'm not gonna be the most chipper 0.82

03:18:49 get over it no it's fine with us it's just that you didn't tell us before so we didn't know that's 0.98

03:18:54 it but you i told you after but yeah it's fine now no can i give you can i give an example of

03:18:59 what i'm talking about for example the whole like adjusting the mics you're like down down

03:19:05 like instead of just being like like you're just being so do you guys know what i'm talking about

03:19:09 when he was just being so it was just rude i think he's like what he said is like it being

03:19:14 like the tone police like it doesn't no but we forgive you we forgive you no no no i was being

03:19:21 when i was saying adjust the microphones look maybe part of it is because my voice 0.80

03:19:27 like bro i'm fucking sick so like it's literally hard to speak like i'm straining through speaking 0.69

03:19:35 so maybe what you're interpreting 0.96

03:19:37 as like aggression or

03:19:39 whatever it's just because I'm sick

03:19:42 yeah now we understand

03:19:43 so that's what I'm saying we forgive you

03:19:44 oh my god 1.00

03:19:46 you guys are fucking nags 1.00

03:19:48 I'm not even fucking any of you and you're all nagging 1.00

03:19:51 get fucked all of you 1.00

03:19:53 get fucked all of you 1.00

03:19:55 holy shit 1.00

03:19:55 I did not say anything 0.98

03:19:58 well I mean it's most

03:20:01 you've been a bit stoic on this 1.00

03:20:03 but all the five other women

03:20:05 are are ganging up on me hey at least we forgive you hopefully you get some sleep uh after that 0.84

03:20:12 we hope you get well yeah we do cool thank you all right all right what a waste of time that was 0.99

03:20:19 uh okay what was the next what were we even talking about before that oh shit my whole

03:20:24 i had a question for you actually on what we were talking about before that so i uh you were 0.80

03:20:31 responding to him and you said uh you don't expect men to respect you to take you serious 1.00

03:20:37 or anything like claim donated 100 seven bitches at the table save for chair four the only one with 1.00

03:20:45 a brain it's cheerful no i'm six now well no now you're four oh who's i was looking at the mic 1.00

03:20:57 Four from which side?

03:20:59 Oh!

03:21:00 Okay, what was the question?

03:21:01 My question was, so you were responding to him and you were saying that you don't expect

03:21:06 men to take you serious, to respect you, to anything like that, but earlier you were saying

03:21:12 that a man didn't take you serious and he cut you off and he ghosted you, and that kind

03:21:20 of hurt your feelings in a sense, because you really did like him.

03:21:25 What's the question?

03:21:26 do you think that as like you go on you will start to care like that men are not respecting

03:21:36 you or taking you serious um well he came back i mean i just talked to him the other day actually

03:21:42 so they always come back i've never been in a situation where man doesn't come back so that 0.99

03:21:47 whatever like came back in like oh wait hold on i'm sorry i gotta move it on back to my fucking 0.89

03:21:54 thing okay what you said i was being rude when i was having to go through the mic adjustments 1.00

03:22:01 where is this energy for the women who agreed to come do a podcast

03:22:05 and you guys all got the same message as they did we're very clear we asked the guests can you stay 1.00

03:22:13 the whole show the the shoot is like seven to eight hours these girls wanted to dip out the

03:22:21 two armenian chicks dip out at eight oh so well you should have saw my reaction 1.00

03:22:28 yeah they were already giving attitude before we even started the show i wanted to mention it 1.00

03:22:36 right they gave me attitude right away they gave me attitude that puts me off they were like oh

03:22:44 how long is the show we have to leave at eight i'm like you agreed we told we're not you don't

03:22:49 just show up and it's like oh surprise you thought there's a one hour podcast if you've seen the show

03:22:54 the the length of the podcast is public it's not like hidden anyways i don't know whatever um i

03:23:01 gotta move it on though um yeah someone was asking about that in the chat like where did the 0.69

03:23:07 obedience get the board in or something bro they fucking left early whatever um okay uh the 50 50 0.71

03:23:14 thing uh okay your final thing uh lala you disagree about the show as you've seen sometimes 0.95

03:23:23 the women are asked questions in a way that's meant to catch them off guard

03:23:26 instead of bringing out their actual perspective you think sometimes the conversations focus more

03:23:32 on proving someone wrong than understanding why they think the way they do yeah i feel like

03:23:37 it's when i watch clips or i watch the show instead of trying to understand why someone

03:23:43 on the panel thinks that way or why they may have that perspective or opinion you just try to like

03:23:49 it seems like you try to like dumb them down sometimes such as what

03:23:53 like let me give you an example of a clip i've seen is that what you want sure i don't know i

03:24:03 just don't like the unnecessary like geography this is like what is the point of all that like

03:24:10 i don't understand that oh yeah that's just a fun segment that we do at the end of the show

03:24:15 okay and that's what i was really talking about because i was like what is the point

03:24:18 oh that's just funny that okay i mean look if you want a more in-depth uh rebuttal uh that is sort of

03:24:30 while on the surface it might seem superficial or shallow i think it's a total indictment of the

03:24:37 lacking of basic knowledge and education about very basic topics this is kindergarten material

03:24:44 this is elementary school material it's it's an indictment of the individuals it's the also an

03:24:50 indictment of the education system so uh but it's also just funny yeah somebody doesn't know

03:25:00 oh paris is in italy okay that's that's kind of funny i always thought you were doing it 0.94

03:25:07 to like make them look dumb on purpose no they make themselves look dumb yeah you're right you 0.74

03:25:13 are right it's just a knowledge check but i usually don't pass it oh yeah i'm cooked i don't think 0.85

03:25:21 we're gonna do even do that segment tonight though just because i'm good yeah probably not

03:25:26 we're just terrified for that part uh okay we have uh who do we have courtney oh no that's the girl

03:25:34 who her leg what was hey did you look tiffany did you look at her leg whoa what was

03:25:42 she said she was coming back right she was she hasn't sent a message maybe i'll be like 0.98

03:25:49 i should message her right now let's see she came all the way from florida yeah she flew here from

03:25:54 florida anywhere like here oh my god all right i'm just gonna be like how are where did she go 0.92

03:26:00 She can't go anywhere.

03:26:01 Where's the New York Hospital here?

03:26:02 Like 911, just, I guess.

03:26:06 Okay, we got, okay, we're going to go to Violet.

03:26:14 You do not think that men are more oppressed than women.

03:26:17 That's a disagreement that you have.

03:26:19 I would say, how are we taking that claim, globally or in America?

03:26:24 i mean are we talking in totality are we talking specific other countries but

03:26:32 i would say certainly in the united states or in the west but i could probably make compelling

03:26:38 arguments even for other regions too well i'd say in the west no i would say but if we look at

03:26:46 other countries is there a country that exists where men have to cover their entire body and

03:26:51 cannot speak in public no it does it just for women so i think that alone so you're talking

03:26:56 about like islamic countries yeah do those islamic countries have male only conscription

03:27:03 do you know what conscription is you don't know what conscription is

03:27:08 yeah uh well it's gonna be if you don't have the sort of foundational understanding of that i think

03:27:15 it's do you know what the draft is yeah okay so conscription is essentially the same thing

03:27:20 forcing men to go to war who otherwise don't right so there's more nations in the world that

03:27:28 have male only draft registration or active conscription or mandatory military service

03:27:35 than there are nations that have like dress codes legal dress codes for women essentially so this

03:27:40 would be mostly like islamic countries i think that the the comparison of like women have to wear 0.88

03:27:49 a burqa. While it may be a grievance, a gendered grievance that women experience, I don't think

03:27:57 that this is anywhere comparable to the bodily autonomy infringement that men experience

03:28:06 through military conscription. So yes, there are Islamic countries where they have to wear 0.99

03:28:13 fucking burqa or whatever those that same islamic countries the men are obligated to 0.99

03:28:18 uh sometimes be forced into war and die so trade-offs you know well i'd rather be a woman 0.99

03:28:24 probably in afghanistan specifically uh i don't know i would have to probably look into that a bit 1.00

03:28:30 more i mean claim donated 100 the point of that is how stupid you people are basic knowledge is 0.99

03:28:39 well beyond most of you, 1.00

03:28:41 which is why most of you will never get

03:28:43 a high-value man. What were

03:28:45 the Axis powers during World War

03:28:47 II? Or 16 by 16?

03:28:50 Yeah, we'll do that really quick.

03:28:51 16 by 16? I don't know.

03:28:55 Anybody?

03:28:56 Me so for a moment. Okay.

03:28:57 Then we'll do the other one.

03:28:59 Give us... What were the...

03:29:02 Name one

03:29:03 Axis power from World War II.

03:29:05 Germany. 0.76

03:29:08 Italy?

03:29:10 Okay. All right. So yeah, back to that though. No. So, I mean, obviously like having an experience

03:29:16 as a man, I would, I don't think I would say like, I suppose I enjoy being a man in the same way that

03:29:22 you women, I assume enjoy being women. I don't think most of you would opt to change into being

03:29:28 men. Maybe you would. Right. So what I'm talking about there, like I, I would rather, I suppose,

03:29:35 potentially there could be an argument to be made to have these social restrictions that the women

03:29:42 experience in afghanistan as compared to like the restrictions that men face or the expectations or

03:29:47 burdens or duties that men face in these countries so but if we're talking about like western

03:29:53 countries i don't think you're going to make a convincing argument that women are oppressed i

03:29:57 agree yeah okay but yeah i mean i would look at it in the totality of the circumstances um

03:30:03 so while women do have a uh lacking of rights let's say in certain countries

03:30:12 what are the negatives for the men in those countries and let's compare

03:30:18 um i'm not really sure about like the laws for men and women all i know basically is that you

03:30:26 know there's a high violence against women um and that they don't have rights like they're

03:30:31 considered property of their husbands by law and so they're not allowed to dance sing in public

03:30:37 have their face body covered that's basically all I could tell you and I would say in that

03:30:43 specific concentration of countries that are like that it appears that the women are suffering quite 0.99

03:30:49 a bit by the laws and at the hands of men but globally I don't have a way to tally what's worse 1.00

03:30:55 well in a lot of these countries it's actually the the women themselves that enforce a lot of 0.99

03:31:01 this stuff uh for example um somewhat separate from your example your example of like afghanistan

03:31:09 uh countries where female genital mutilation is practiced it's actually not so much the men that

03:31:16 uphold this at least compared to it's the the women the women in the tribe or the village or 0.68

03:31:23 whatever they perpetuate perpetrate the female genital mutilation on the women really yes that's 0.53

03:31:31 horrible that's okay i didn't know that so some of these customs are actually um like women who

03:31:38 and you might say they're brainwashed but like women who have to wear the hijab or women who 0.99

03:31:44 have to wear a niqab or women who have to wear a burqa uh some of these women they were like this 0.74

03:31:52 is part of my religion this is part of my modesty right um i'm not personally a fan of that whole 0.87

03:31:59 thing but I don't think they necessarily some of them probably surely do think it's oppressive

03:32:06 and they may very well be right but I think some of them probably willingly participate in

03:32:14 what you would consider their own oppression so I think some of them would but I don't know 0.80

03:32:20 there's a lot of riots in Iraq where women were pulling off their hijab and burning them and

03:32:25 they're put to death for it so there's not like no backlash towards it there definitely is I 0.99

03:32:29 would agree like some of them probably do choose to do it but like just the fact that it's law and

03:32:33 you suffer for not doing it that's just well you also have to acknowledge that most of many of

03:32:40 these countries they're they are not all the same even if they're islamic so iraq um i believe going

03:32:48 back to the 60s and 70s it was not a theocracy at the time there was a essentially a coup and the

03:32:56 radical Islamists came into power and so if you look at photos from or sorry not Iraq Iran sorry

03:33:03 that's what I meant Iran if you look at photos from like the 50s 60s 50s 60s I believe 70s I 0.86

03:33:11 forgot the exact time but they looked American like they dressed kind of American style so I

03:33:18 don't know but we can go to like okay there are places in the world but is it your position that

03:33:25 in western countries do you think that women are uh oppressed no oh okay all right well nothing

03:33:36 on that then not oppressed in oh you think they are you think they are western like what country

03:33:43 like the u.s like europe oh okay western culture maybe not i thought you were talking about like

03:33:50 islamic country oh no we're talking about like the united states and most of europe and 0.93

03:33:57 australia and yeah uh okay you think it is harmful we sort of talked about this a little bit but i 0.99

03:34:06 feel like we can finish it up harmful for the host to discourage men from wanting

03:34:11 men to to getting married for to discourage men from wanting to getting married yeah i i think

03:34:18 that we talked about that you're talking like strictly legal i would say like committing your

03:34:23 life and devoting uh your life to a family um i don't think that we should be so cynical and

03:34:29 saying all women will betray you i don't think yeah you don't need to sign legal papers i think

03:34:34 but i think being married is nice if it's someone you love and you want to have a family

03:34:40 like it doesn't have to be papers maybe just make it like well my position is not so i i think you

03:34:47 can have children with a woman i think you can stay with her your entire life you don't have to

03:34:52 marry her though so i'm not discouraging the family i'm not discouraging having children i'm

03:34:58 not discouraging having serious long-term lifelong uh bonds with a woman but the marriage component

03:35:07 which is a really a legal component by the way are you christian or religious no i'm not religious

03:35:16 Well, in Christianity, marriage is between man and woman.

03:35:22 It's not man, woman, and government.

03:35:25 It's not man, woman, and state.

03:35:27 So there's that.

03:35:28 But how is it hurtful, I guess?

03:35:30 Okay, let's throw out the legal documents.

03:35:32 No, no, well, you said, or sorry, you said it's harmful that I discourage men from wanting to get married.

03:35:37 But I encourage, I don't discourage men from having a lifelong person or having kids.

03:35:44 We're having a misunderstanding then.

03:35:45 I thought you just meant like the concept of being, like not legally,

03:35:49 but just the concept of having a wife, I guess. 0.84

03:35:51 Well, but if you're not Christian,

03:35:53 what other concept is there of marriage besides the legal marriage? 0.95

03:35:58 The ceremony. 1.00

03:35:59 You know, non-Christians get married, right? 0.93

03:36:01 All cultures have marriages.

03:36:03 Yeah. 1.00

03:36:04 Mists have marriages.

03:36:06 Wait, so the ceremony is more important to you than the legal component?

03:36:09 Oh, absolutely.

03:36:10 Why?

03:36:10 Because you're displaying in front of your entire families and friends, hey, this is a person I choose.

03:36:15 You're sealing yourselves together to be committed.

03:36:18 Can I say something?

03:36:19 Well, how many people have the ceremony and end up getting divorced?

03:36:22 Go ahead.

03:36:22 But, like, why do you feel that you need, like, that approval of showing to your family, like, we're getting married and we're choosing each other?

03:36:32 I don't know.

03:36:32 Personally, I don't really believe in marriage either.

03:36:34 Like, I don't care to get married.

03:36:35 like I think I was raised to think that it's also just like a paper kind of thing like it's like

03:36:42 why does that define that we want to be with each other for the rest of our lives and that we love

03:36:47 each other and that we're choosing each other like what does the paper saying you guys are now married

03:36:53 really like what like I don't understand the concept of marriage the paper anymore I'm just

03:36:58 talking about the concept no that's what I'm saying I'm not understanding like what is the

03:37:00 point and the concept of marriage like marriage the point is that you're announcing to this person

03:37:05 but why do you feel that you need the approval to announce to people that you are choosing each

03:37:10 other can i say something yeah it's kind of like you have a witness you know like if one person

03:37:15 says something to another person you need a third person to verify that like someone can tell who

03:37:21 care like this idea like it doesn't mean anything because ultimately if having the ceremony or if

03:37:28 having the legal agreement or if having the religious component worked at keeping people

03:37:35 together it would but the reality is even if you have the ceremony even if you have the piece of

03:37:40 paper from the government even if you have even if it's like a religious thing it doesn't stop

03:37:47 divorce people still get divorced so oh well we had the ceremony so now we'll be together forever

03:37:54 it's like how about every single day we try to be our best the best we can to each other

03:38:01 and we're like we've made we have an understanding that that's the commitment not just well because

03:38:08 i had the ceremony i'm gonna stay with you forever i don't know i guess it's not literally

03:38:13 about the ceremony what i'm saying it's like it's about choosing your person basically to try to

03:38:19 work it out through thick and thin but it's like why can't you do that if you're just dating

03:38:23 like i mean you can't but i'm just saying like i just think it's kind of sad that like people are

03:38:28 not well so are you trying to say that if someone's just boyfriend and girlfriend doesn't mean

03:38:35 they're gonna like value their boyfriend or girlfriend as much that they're gonna value if

03:38:39 they're married yes but it's kind of embarrassing being like 27 and saying that you had a boyfriend

03:38:43 for like 10 years it's yeah i don't know for me for me you guys can still say like hey that's my

03:38:50 husband if a piece of paper really doesn't matter you still could be like this is my husband and

03:38:54 he could be like this or who cares what other people think and be like me and my partner don't

03:38:59 want to don't care to get married it's a status like status there's like i'm married right well

03:39:05 there's a status to marrying a virgin but how often does that happen

03:39:08 were any of you virgins when you got married or no i never got married yet

03:39:16 i don't know i don't really understand the concept either of what marriage yes the point of it well

03:39:23 look how about let's just switch gears a little bit on the marriage thing so i can give you x i

03:39:28 can give you a bunch of reasons why i think marriage is it has some drawbacks or detriments

03:39:34 or pitfalls but i think incentives are kind of what pushes people to do things like people

03:39:42 usually do things because there's a benefit or an incentive um even things that

03:39:49 like you you brush your teeth because why well you want them to be clean obviously

03:39:58 you don't want to get cavities the actual act of brushing your teeth is not i personally don't

03:40:04 find it particularly enjoyable but you do it regardless because of the benefits the incentives

03:40:09 you don't want to have to get root canals and your cat you don't want to like get cavities etc

03:40:15 tell me give me a like for men if you had to convince men why they should because again i

03:40:23 can tell you why men shouldn't why should men get married are we just talking about legally are we

03:40:30 just talking about the concept of being in a courtship with someone committed like as well

03:40:36 that's different well yeah to me i would separate them i don't think you're married yeah are you

03:40:41 legally married uh not yet so you had the ceremony though yes okay um these are somewhat separate but

03:40:51 also related things uh so there is the legal component but you're saying like the ceremony

03:40:56 but there's no legal but you plan you intend to get the legal i guess where i'm coming from is

03:41:03 why not if you love a person if you want a woman to be the mother of your children why don't you

03:41:07 want her to be your wife i think it's a beautiful thing we should be celebrating love we should be

03:41:11 loud about our love it doesn't have to be an expensive ceremony i just think the status of

03:41:15 hey this is my husband and wife i think if you hear someone say i'm married or this is my husband

03:41:19 you go wow it's really serious like anyone can date like i can give you a lot of why not well

03:41:25 anybody can get married i can give you a lot of why not why nots but again i'm looking for what

03:41:31 is the benefit to the man how does the man benefit from marriage he benefits because he gets to have

03:41:39 a wife but i can have a girlfriend but does that sound as nice i have a girlfriend you're only

03:41:47 gonna get married because it sounds nice okay i got married because it felt good to me it was the

03:41:51 happiest day of my life and like i think it's a beautiful thing when people want to get married

03:41:56 nowadays not a lot of people so you you don't want to be a wife you just know i do i do want

03:42:04 to be a wife which is why you said that your marriage was the most what is the fact that i'm

03:42:09 married makes me happy like it makes me happier than if it's just boyfriend and girlfriend and

03:42:14 so you're saying you'd be less happy with your man if you hadn't i wouldn't be less happy with

03:42:20 him but i'm very grateful that i feel like i get to okay are you doing are more things for him now

03:42:25 like he's your husband than you were doing when he was just your boyfriend like are you doing

03:42:29 quote-unquote wife things for him now i mean i feel like i kind of always was but like

03:42:35 it's a serious thing like to be married you're very openly like committed but he's asking i

03:42:41 because i want to know this too like what does a man benefit from marriage besides the title

03:42:48 besides the like the ceremonies like you're saying that like oh if you're my boyfriend i'm

03:42:55 treat you like kind of semi okay and when you're my husband then i'll give you everything it's like

03:43:01 basically what i asked earlier like what do men benefit out of marriage and if we as women just

03:43:07 took accountability and just this conversation would be super short and we'd be like nothing

03:43:11 we just want them to marry us yeah nothing we just want them to marry us do you think no men

03:43:16 well there's a there's a uh there's there's a religious calling for men to marry uh and there

03:43:24 are some men who even want to do the secular marriage thing as much of a question mark as

03:43:30 that might be. But again, she asked you a question, she asked you a question and you keep kind of

03:43:37 dancing around it because when I, and I've repeated the question, I ask, what do I get?

03:43:43 And then you said, it makes you feel good. So if I ask you, what do I get? You feeling good

03:43:50 isn't really

03:43:52 I mean look you of course want to make your

03:43:54 you want to do nice things for your partner

03:43:56 but like that's sort of

03:43:59 a secondary benefit

03:44:00 what are the benefits for men?

03:44:03 the benefits for men is 0.81

03:44:04 if they want to get married it will make

03:44:07 them happy if they don't want to get married

03:44:08 don't do it but it will also make me

03:44:11 very sad if I get divorced 1.00

03:44:13 and she takes half my shit 1.00

03:44:15 wait no I'm not talking 1.00

03:44:17 legally I'm not talking legally

03:44:18 oh just the ceremony like it would be like if a a man was like i want you to obey me and you're

03:44:24 like what do i get if i obey you and he's like nothing it just makes me happy you're like if

03:44:30 you love someone i'm happy i don't know like if a man doesn't want to get married he shouldn't

03:44:36 but i'm like i don't think it should be a taboo for people who want to get married we should be 0.97

03:44:41 told oh don't get married it's stupid like i don't i don't think it's stupid at all like i i think 0.96

03:44:46 like it I don't think marriage is stupid at all no I'm married quality marriages are more 1.00

03:44:53 important at this point you need to learn your partner you need to know your partner more than

03:44:57 three months before you get married three I've seen that a lot of times people will date for

03:45:02 months and then they will get married but we also have to know like our roles on each end

03:45:07 so like anything that I advocate like for men I also advocate like for women because like it will

03:45:15 help you in the long run because what we're not thinking of and I was guilty of this as well so

03:45:19 whatever I speak of I've been there before is we're not thinking about what about when we get

03:45:25 old what about when we don't have a nice body and a 10 out of 10 and everything like who's going to

03:45:32 take care of us are we going to find a man that even shows us how to raise children that want to

03:45:37 be there to help take care of us when we're older because it's not a problem in other countries 1.00

03:45:42 as much as it is here in america well anything i can get in a marriage i can get if she's just

03:45:50 with me forever except for a wife yes no okay so a title yeah no you you a man can get everything

03:45:58 from a woman from just being in a relationship with them but a woman can't get everything from

03:46:04 just being in a relationship with a man which is why they want to get married what can a woman not 0.98

03:46:08 get if they're both committed to each other like if she leaves she can get alimony she can get 0.70

03:46:15 child support she can take his stuff just talking about like the idea of calling each other husband

03:46:19 and wife like i mean if you just want to call each other husband and wife and not have anything

03:46:23 i think she should call me master or sir i don't want don't call me husband sir

03:46:31 or master i'm dead serious master is a bit much sometimes

03:46:38 I'm down for master

03:46:40 but sir

03:46:41 bare minimum

03:46:42 what's that 0.93

03:46:45 you're white so master's a little 0.93

03:46:48 slippery slope 1.00

03:46:49 oh I do this with black women 1.00

03:46:51 just kidding I don't do race play 1.00

03:46:58 there's one point

03:47:00 I do not agree on

03:47:02 but even then it's kind of sketch

03:47:04 but i also see that people respect you more if you're married as well a lot of people are like

03:47:12 oh you're you have a boyfriend that's just a boyfriend and i'm like okay it's not your life

03:47:17 you're not me you're not dating him you're not dating me so why do you care if i'm married or 0.94

03:47:21 not i am not going to lose half my shit so when a woman as is at a gala she's got to introduce me 0.99

03:47:32 as her boyfriend instead of her husband 1.00

03:47:34 and she's going to get

03:47:35 negative, what was the term

03:47:38 you used? Respect? Or what was it?

03:47:40 What was the term? I don't know. What did I say?

03:47:42 You just said, what was the term you used?

03:47:44 Rewinds. I don't know. You said

03:47:46 it's more respect.

03:47:49 Okay, she gets 0.85

03:47:50 1% less respect from 1.00

03:47:52 somebody who doesn't fucking care. Like, who cares? 0.99

03:47:54 Whatever.

03:47:54 Can I ask you something?

03:47:57 If you had a lifelong

03:47:58 girlfriend, would you let her

03:48:00 if she asks you like hey can you just call me wife in front of people can you just call me wife 0.52

03:48:05 it makes me feel good like would you would you uh yeah i think that'd probably be okay okay then i

03:48:11 i have to agree with you on this i think i'd be okay with that i might even be okay with the

03:48:16 ceremony okay my my issues with it again are almost strictly legal issues the financial thing

03:48:23 and it's like look if you were to present this agreement in like any other business context 0.88

03:48:30 any attorney any business advisor would be like whoa this is a really bad fucking deal this is 0.98

03:48:38 retarded are you okay like are you not a savvy businessman why are you contemplating 0.99

03:48:44 giving a woman half 50 percent that's bogus of like money that like she probably didn't even do 0.96

03:48:54 anything to like contribute for him to work his ass off to make that money i don't know she didn't 0.97

03:49:01 fucking fucking who's who's some famous basketball players i think michael jordan's been divorced 1.00

03:49:07 did she do any fucking three was three point shots did she fucking do any layups no 1.00

03:49:13 has has whoever my future wife would hypothetically be was she sitting next to me 1.00

03:49:23 while I was fucking having brutal 1.00

03:49:25 eight hour long debates 1.00

03:49:27 was she here fucking building 1.00

03:49:29 that up no 0.98

03:49:30 she wasn't yeah and I think also

03:49:33 mine I think like 0.94

03:49:34 only reason why

03:49:37 like I agree so heavily with that is too

03:49:39 is because my dad's

03:49:41 a businessman and he's raised me since I was

03:49:43 one and I saw my dad work

03:49:45 his ass off to give

03:49:47 us the life and for 0.96

03:49:49 him to be where he's at now

03:49:50 all on his own and if 0.95

03:49:53 a woman try to come in and be like well marry me marry me and then she takes half of our stuff 1.00

03:49:58 well my dad's stuff well you know i would be like the fuck like you didn't do shit though i saw my 0.99

03:50:03 dad's blood sweat and tears bro to go into that yeah i agree you know what i mean guys on the 0.99

03:50:09 legal so i don't know it's unfair to the breadwinner the legal aspect right now is not good

03:50:13 but i'm i'm also talking about just the ceremony yeah just now you don't have to which is like the

03:50:18 concept like when when you tell someone like oh i'm this is my husband they think of you differently 0.99

03:50:24 like oh wow you're married like yeah i'm fine with that as long as she doesn't get half my shit

03:50:28 that's yeah i can agree with the ceremony no okay let's say let's say you're a guy okay and you want 0.99

03:50:35 a kid some women might not want to give birth to a kid without marriage there's no like oh you're 1.00

03:50:44 my girlfriend we should have yes well so i agree that there are women who is like

03:50:49 marriage is a non-negotiable yeah like and that if the man's unwilling to marry her

03:50:55 that may very well since it's a non-negotiable close the door however

03:51:01 i i think that if the girl likes you enough nearly all things are negotiable

03:51:11 in this case okay this is the person okay as a woman this is the guy who you in your picture

03:51:20 frame that you want to marry this is the guy who you think is your life partner and you're

03:51:27 going to get hung up on marriage so i'm like if he's good enough that you're willing to marry him

03:51:32 i feel like he's good enough to not marry him well you have to have boundaries as a woman like 0.99

03:51:41 you like him that doesn't make him better let's say he's an absolute dick person but you like him 0.98

03:51:47 and that makes him better no like and you would you would just be with him without marriage 0.98

03:51:53 and just do everything for him with no

03:51:57 bow to like be together i don't understand that if i was no if i was if i was dating a guy

03:52:09 what if i was dating a guy and we were just dating and he was doing whatever i would still

03:52:18 like i would still cook for him clean for him do his lunch for him whatever he needed me to do 1.00

03:52:23 like to make him feel good and i i know a lot of girls that are like oh i'm not doing wifey things 1.00

03:52:29 if i'm not a wife then how do you even expect him to wife you up if you're not even doing 0.99

03:52:34 quote-unquote wifey things and be like this girl don't even do shit for me why am I going to marry 0.98

03:52:39 her so how do you expect to even want him to marry you if you're not even doing anything to show him 0.97

03:52:44 that you would be a good wife to him and a good mother to his children look I'll I guess I'll end

03:52:51 the marriage thing with this do not enter into a contract where the other person will be rewarded

03:52:59 for breaking it when women break the marriage vow the marriage contract when they divorce you

03:53:06 they are financially rewarded for doing it they get alimony they get part of your they get some 0.99

03:53:13 of your assets the however much you earned during the course of the marriage she can claw she can

03:53:19 claw at a lot of things especially stuff that you made during the marriage you don't enter into a

03:53:26 contract with somebody who is financially rewarded for breaking it so it's like i don't know

03:53:31 i don't know i still haven't heard one well okay whatever let's move off the marriage thing uh

03:53:37 your next notes here uh you're not liberal liberal or conservative yeah so you're like

03:53:47 moderate or i'm moderate i'd say i'm like what's

03:53:51 i think a lot of both extremes frustrate me on the right and left

03:53:57 and yeah i just feel like there's a middle ground for most things

03:54:01 okay what's your position on abortion or choice like full stop uh i'd say like we should be

03:54:11 taking measures to help people prevent having to get them also i think like after a certain time

03:54:17 like in the womb like the baby's been cooking for a little too long but um for the most part

03:54:22 i don't honestly value embryos or fetuses in my book so i don't really care what people uh

03:54:30 you don't value them all right do you want kids i do you're married right when you're planning to

03:54:36 have kids when nature calls i guess so what does that mean whenever i get pregnant is when it

03:54:42 happens like well you're married so is he just are you on birth control no so is he just busting

03:54:47 basically yeah so you're you could be pregnant right now i could be you could be uh okay so

03:54:55 you're trying i guess you're trying to get pregnant i guess i guess i mean how long have you been

03:55:01 married um like a month how long together three years

03:55:07 what

03:55:12 were you on birth control prior yeah i was oh when did you get off birth control um

03:55:19 like um a couple months before our wedding oh okay all right okay maybe one's cooking who knows

03:55:28 uh i don't know where i was going i think i was probably just gonna be like if you were to have

03:55:32 like a miscarriage at like two weeks or a month or something would that be upsetting to you or

03:55:39 not really um just because i didn't choose it yeah i didn't choose to have a miscarriage it'd 0.99

03:55:43 be upsetting to me okay yeah i do not have the brain power at the moment to have a fucking 0.95

03:55:49 abortion debate but um immigration are you fine with illegal immigration uh no i don't think it 0.98

03:55:56 should be controversial to say a country doesn't want to let everyone come in illegally and i don't 0.78

03:56:03 what about the immigrants who are already here are you fine if we deport all of them 0.99

03:56:06 illegal immigrants right i feel quite sorry for them i think it's really hard because there's a 1.00

03:56:13 lot of innocence uh involved but just like anything any wars any things in the world will

03:56:20 involve suffering and i personally think that the same way every other country defends their

03:56:28 their borders and their nation then i i think that there's should be some way to maybe help the

03:56:37 illegal people who are proven to be like productive to society and maybe have them pay taxes like oh

03:56:42 you work a full-time job you've never committed a crime i feel like maybe crime i know but also

03:56:49 the government i feel like they let them flood in like they almost encourage it like the biden

03:56:53 administration encouraged basically because they knew we're trying to undo that yeah i know we're

03:56:57 trying to undo it i think it's just sad for them but like at the end of the day like yeah but if

03:57:02 like 97 of these illegal immigrants they're not committing other crime you know they're not doing 0.85

03:57:07 violence or you know stealing or whatever and they have a job and they're otherwise like basically a 1.00

03:57:15 productive person or whatever, notwithstanding like the, you know, the, the healthcare that

03:57:22 they're stealing or the, uh, the benefits that they're getting that have an economic impact on

03:57:28 the taxpayer. Uh, this is like the, the bulk of the illegal immigrants, I think are probably good 1.00

03:57:35 people. They're probably good people. They just want to work. They're not going to get into

03:57:40 trouble but this is so many people and there are economic impacts even if they're good

03:57:48 so we still need to deport them would you want to deport someone who has never been on any form of

03:57:57 financial assistance uh from the government you don't care like if they take community to society 0.64

03:58:02 and they're paying taxes like what if they pay taxes i'm i'm more motivated to deport the people

03:58:07 who are drawing from, like, our social safety nets

03:58:10 and our, what's it called, welfare, I guess?

03:58:16 I don't know.

03:58:18 Those should perhaps be prioritized, but they all have to go.

03:58:22 Would you let them reenter, like, legally,

03:58:25 and they're going through it?

03:58:26 Probably not.

03:58:27 No, because they basically snuck in,

03:58:29 so they're not allowed back in then?

03:58:31 Yeah, I mean, maybe you could do, like,

03:58:34 I mean, I also have some, like, limitations.

03:58:36 I have some views as to not fully limiting, but limiting even legal immigration.

03:58:43 There could be some case that after a period of 10 years, they could try to apply to come here legally. 0.58

03:58:49 But if you've broken a law, then yeah, you should probably be barred.

03:58:53 You should be punished by not being allowed to attempt to legally immigrate to the United States.

03:59:00 What about the children who are born in the U.S.? 1.00

03:59:02 Well, we're fucked because birthright citizenship, which is super retarded, as the law currently stands, they are technically legally citizens, which I think is retarded and I think should be done away with. 1.00

03:59:20 But as it currently stands, yeah, technically they're citizens. 1.00

03:59:25 We can't deport them.

03:59:26 so if there's like you know minor children depending on illegal parents income and stuff

03:59:33 would you say the whole family should go or she okay the whole family should go

03:59:36 yeah i i understand it's sad but i i understand yeah well i mean they made a choice to come here

03:59:44 and the kids didn't but it's sad but i do agree well yeah the kids didn't but i mean when your

03:59:49 parents make choices though that can have a effect on your children you know all kinds of choices

03:59:55 parents make will have an effect on their children but yeah the birthright thing needs to be that's 0.99

04:00:02 retarded so you could be a chinese uh national and be like i'm going to take advantage intentionally 1.00

04:00:10 of america's birthright citizenship thing fly here at eight and a half weeks pregnant 1.00

04:00:18 have the kid here intentionally so that they can secure american citizenship for their children

04:00:25 that seems like very not the intention of what birthright citizenship should be i mean can you

04:00:33 agree with me on that these people who are um basically they're shopping for citizenship

04:00:39 essentially yeah they're like predators to america basically like they're just trying to 1.00

04:00:43 use it without they're taking advantage of the united states oh my god what the fuck man 1.00

04:00:49 bro 0.99

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04:01:41 uh show stream yard and sources sorry guys uh okay so i don't know you're probably more liberal

04:01:57 i guess um you wanted to when you were 16 you briefly dated a woman who was 21 she had a

04:02:07 boyfriend who was older and also had a sugar daddy who was like 80 uh they glorified a promiscuous

04:02:12 lifestyle doing all sorts of group activities while you're basically monogamous to her

04:02:16 on your end at the time and that experience skewed your idea of what healthy sexuality is

04:02:22 yeah that messed me up like thinking all that like lifestyle was like good yeah you were 16

04:02:28 and she was 21 that's here in california yeah i mean anywhere that's kind of questionable but

04:02:34 yeah that's pretty that's like a crime i guess probably i didn't know that like i was like so

04:02:42 brainwashed i thought like oh she's a girl like it's awesome now the they were having sex in front 0.58

04:02:48 of you no no like like like i was basically dating her i guess like we would hook up but 0.87

04:02:54 then she also had a boyfriend of her own and she also had like a sugar daddy okay yeah you wanted

04:02:59 to speak on the gender wars like misandry and misogyny yeah i mean i just think there's a lot

04:03:04 of divide like i i know i was a kind of an angry feminist in high school um i mean for obvious

04:03:09 reasons kind of the culture like a huge divide and then like yeah a lot of the boys at my school 0.89

04:03:14 were scumbags basically like just not respecting girls privacy and yeah i mean but what what is 0.88

04:03:24 the gender war with yeah so so like misogyny do you think i'm a misogynist no i don't think so 0.99

04:03:31 but okay yeah so you acknowledge that there's like crazy man-hating feminists yeah and you

04:03:39 think that there's also men who hate women there's too many of them on both sides there's too many

04:03:43 crazies in the landscape of just online but also just dating just like it's just i actually think

04:03:50 uh on this particular thing the women are worse yeah i mean i think that like i don't know how 0.57

04:03:58 to measure it but like the women are pretty bad i was pretty awful like before i enlightened myself 1.00

04:04:05 well like if you look at what's accepted on social media and tiktok like tiktok is if you

04:04:11 are misogynistic and to be clear i'm not saying misogyny is good if you say something misogynistic

04:04:18 on tiktok you're gonna get banned you're gonna get flagged people are gonna attack you it's not

04:04:25 loud on tiktok if you say like the most and it could be really benign pretty benign sort of

04:04:32 misogyny like um i don't know it can be not advocating for like hatred of women but you know 0.63

04:04:39 uh you know misogynistic jokes like uh shut up get in the kitchen woman something like that right 1.00

04:04:44 women can literally just say i hate men men suck men are trash i'd rather it'd be better to live 1.00

04:04:51 without men not a problem on tiktok like it's completely allowed uh so i think it's a i think 1.00

04:05:00 these are both problems but i'd have to say massage uh misandry is way worse uh tiktok

04:05:07 especially is like a breeding ground for like liberal brain rot like i feel like it's honestly

04:05:13 being controlled by someone who's really trying to like brainwash tiktok viewers i don't know i

04:05:18 could be um ick list when men try to back brag about their sex life and share intimate details

04:05:24 that violate their partner's privacy we kind of talked about that before

04:05:28 uh you said when men use guilt as a tool to extort sexual affection

04:05:33 what do you mean by that yeah like if a guy's like do you even love me you don't even give 0.99

04:05:39 me blowjobs every single day matthew's girlfriend loves him because she gives him blowjobs like 1.00

04:05:45 three times a day you don't even love me you're a piece of shit okay so i i would i would agree 1.00

04:05:51 that that's wrong that's the wrong way to you know go about you know if there's a mismatch in 1.00

04:05:59 sexual appetite there's ways to communicate that that are uh appropriate but um my question to you

04:06:08 is, well, first off, anything sex should be mutually enthusiastic. I guess we sort of brought

04:06:19 it up. Say somebody is dating a woman, and say she's pushing for a relationship, and she wants

04:06:24 the monogamy, and the guy agrees. She regularly turns him down for sex. Would you categorize it

04:06:34 as guilt or otherwise consider it wrong if a man had a conversation with his girlfriend like

04:06:41 hey i respect your boundaries um never force you to do anything i'm not being sexually satisfied

04:06:50 um if things continue like this i think we should break up or i want to leave is that

04:06:59 guilt tripping or no that is a really honest communication that's very respectable in my

04:07:05 opinion because i've seen some of these like sexual violence organizations who will categorize

04:07:14 like grape uh they consider it coercion if you're dating a woman and you've you've had

04:07:24 consensual sex with her and let's say there's a mismatch on the sexual appetite if you say 0.91

04:07:32 look in in essence this we're not having enough sex i'm gonna break up with you

04:07:40 they would consider that coercive i don't know if anyone here feels that that's coercive

04:07:46 or if that's fair it's corrosive i don't know what that means i think it's pretty fair well

04:07:54 you said guilt tripping yeah no i i think that well it's sad but i don't think it's unfair yeah

04:08:01 it's like sad but like well logically it's okay like so coercive means using force intimidation

04:08:08 threats or pressure to compel someone to act against their will or surrender their independence

04:08:14 so sexual now sexual coercion might be coercion definition

04:08:20 sexual coercion is the act of pressuring tricking or manipulating someone into unwanted sexual

04:08:29 activity against their will it relies on non-physical tactics such as guilt persistent

04:08:36 asking, persistent asking, threats to end a relationship, or intoxication.

04:08:44 So that part there, such as guilt, persistent asking, threats to end a relationship.

04:08:53 So that's the dilemma there with the threats to end a relationship.

04:08:59 What do, like, is it threatening to end a relationship if you tell your girlfriend,

04:09:06 hey you wanted monogamy you wanted to be in a relationship with me 0.92

04:09:11 we've been having sex but i want more sex and if she does if she has a different uh libido 0.99

04:09:21 that's totally fine and maybe the right call is split up find somebody who matches or maybe can 0.97

04:09:28 there be compromise you know maybe there's definitely options maybe he doesn't yeah maybe

04:09:34 he doesn't you know well whatever but they think like if you if okay if if your girlfriend isn't 0.96

04:09:43 fucking you and you're like okay well i'm breaking up with you and she's like oh uh well no no it's 1.00

04:09:50 okay we can have sex and you fuck her they want to say that's rape what yes sexual coercion they 1.00

04:09:56 want to say if your girlfriend who used to fuck you stops fucking you and then you you tell her 1.00

04:10:03 you don't force her you just say okay well i'm breaking up with you and you can do that in a more 1.00

04:10:10 diplomatic way or you can be like kind of frustrated straight up i'm breaking up with you

04:10:15 it's over and then she's like no no no no actually no no no uh okay i'm gonna work on it and then 0.98

04:10:23 she fucks you some of these people some of these people say it's rape that's crazy because at the 0.98

04:10:28 end of the day it's not forceful she made the decision she's choosing she's the one that's 1.00

04:10:32 laying up and getting fucked it's not like if there was forceful physical like then that's 0.99

04:10:39 if you're with a man that's like not a fucking weirdo um and you're just like yeah okay like 0.99

04:10:48 i'll do it then and you're just like okay let's do it like a man that's like loves you isn't 0.99

04:10:55 gonna be like yeah i don't want to fuck somebody that's making this feel like rape like i'm telling 0.94

04:11:03 you because i want you to feel like doing it more and sometimes with women like we do just kind of 0.99

04:11:08 get wrapped up in you know life and stuff like that and and a reminder like you know a conversation

04:11:16 sometimes we're like oh yeah you know what we haven't been doing it as much so i i agree with

04:11:23 you on that like i want there to be like she has to have the desire and it has to be there has to

04:11:30 be mutual desire mutual enthusiasm right the trouble you get in with and i i would agree with

04:11:35 you it'd feel at least for me like i she has to want it and if she's like uh like that just do

04:11:43 she's just like that would be a turnoff for me i wouldn't want to at that point and then we have

04:11:50 to like okay so we're ending things then probably but um or maybe you can reevaluating do other 0.82

04:11:57 stuff you know penetration you can be like hey i genuinely don't want to have sex with you and 0.97

04:12:03 then the conversation be like why don't you want to have sex with me and maybe figure it out there 1.00

04:12:07 or maybe you're just like i have a low sex drive um go fuck somebody else but please stay with me 1.00

04:12:14 honestly because as someone like like me who does have a low sex drive like 1.00

04:12:19 but i think you have a low sex drive because of what are we talking about earlier like if you 0.94

04:12:25 you know bake all day at a job and you go home and you don't really want to bake anymore like

04:12:30 this has been an issue since before i ever started doing only fans so like when i was in my almost

04:12:37 for your relationship and actually funny that we're talking about this do you not enjoy doing

04:12:43 only fans then oh no i love my job i love it but what part then if it's just kind of like hard for

04:12:50 you to like i think like we're misinterpreting i just don't have like the desire to like go out

04:12:56 with a bunch of men and sleep with them like i already pleased myself at home for my content

04:13:01 so you're more sexual like by myself than yeah i've already bit that like got comfortable with

04:13:08 my body and learned my body and it's just like the men can't live up to it like the men can't

04:13:13 live up to what i can do to myself do you know what i mean but your body like it's higher 0.90

04:13:19 do i like it that way um no because sometimes i wish i'm like damn like you know girls make 0.96

04:13:27 sex seems so immaculate and good what am i missing out on but also when you're spoiling yourself with 0.90

04:13:34 that kind of like right one thing like you know you could do yourself and you're not teaching

04:13:39 someone else to kind of like learn yeah i think too though i since i i've been single for like

04:13:44 two years out of all the man that all of out of all the men that you have slept with

04:13:49 how many would you say i made me come really good oh i've only been made come by like three guys 0.93

04:13:56 like a hair that sounds terrible and i'm not yeah so do you if you could just unfuck all those

04:14:03 people would you or would you still do it for the experience yeah because a lot of those oh god i

04:14:10 can't even see that no never mind that's bad i do want to come back to what we're talking about 0.68

04:14:15 though which is in that situation though like what if the woman is feigning faking enthusiasm

04:14:23 him i i think a man can tell when a woman's faking enthusiasm like i mean sometimes i would

04:14:30 hope so wait but like i guess if you're married and in a relationship to this person you can kind

04:14:36 of tell like even with a man you're like some women are good actors i guess but but no i mean 0.93

04:14:43 it's like but in assume the guy he's either naive or the woman's just very convincing and she's

04:14:50 feigning the enthusiasm so she's going through the motions but like internally she's checked out

04:14:56 right you can only pretend for so long no but i'm saying does that constitute like a sex crime 1.00

04:15:02 if the man has sex with her no no no but some feminists some women will say that this is sexual 1.00

04:15:10 coercion i looked up the google definition threatening to break up and it's like well 0.89

04:15:17 hold on what i don't understand like why i don't know that's confusing threats to end a relationship 0.93

04:15:25 if the woman doesn't fuck was it communication i used to think that though well okay well just

04:15:32 i think they mean threat in a sense of like saying you want to leave the relationship as a threat 0.99

04:15:37 which is kind of crazy because when i think of a threat i'm thinking like somebody's like i'm 0.90

04:15:41 gonna fuck you up if you don't do this yeah well not like hey i want to leave the relationship i'm 0.85

04:15:46 like i mean they're just telling you they want to leave the relationship i don't think that's a 0.99

04:15:50 threat well yeah but the threat yeah threat to end a relationship it would it could just be i think

04:15:56 using the word threat and end a relationship in the same sentence is crazy it doesn't even make

04:16:02 sense it doesn't make sense um that's like saying like i'm threatening to leave you in a relationship

04:16:08 like that's wild like the person's just wants to leave the relationship unless they're like okay

04:16:14 if you have intentional like you're only telling someone i'm gonna leave you to like manipulate

04:16:19 them to like chase you yeah it's more manipulation than a threat yeah like i feel like it like a 0.98

04:16:25 threat would be like i'm not gonna you know let you leave this room or feed until you have sex 0.97

04:16:32 with me like that's a threat that's crazy now that should be like okay that's wrong 0.97

04:16:36 but i feel like you can look at it more as like a manipulation tactic but not even then yeah a

04:16:43 threatening to end a relationship that's that i don't think that's categorized in any way it's a

04:16:49 form of manipulation but it's not a threat or i mean it it could be manipulation especially if

04:16:55 it's a bluff like yeah and well i mean in their terms if they want to say like put a label on it

04:17:05 but in logical terms just saying hey i feel like i want to end this relationship because you're not

04:17:12 having sex with me that's not manipulative and that's not a threat that's just saying how you

04:17:18 feel it was being you know honest they might still categorize that as a threat to end the

04:17:24 relationship you can categorize anything nowadays and there's like but they want to say that that's 0.99

04:17:31 rape it's definitely not if your girlfriend isn't fucking you and you say hey we're not having sex 1.00

04:17:39 i'm gonna break up with you and then she's like no no no no don't do it okay i'll fuck 1.00

04:17:45 and then you fuck there are people who will say that she's raped okay well then both of them need 1.00

04:17:51 to be grown-ass adults and sit there and be like are you sure you actually want to have sex with 1.00

04:17:56 me are you only having sex with me because i want to leave this relationship because my sexual 0.98

04:18:00 desires aren't being met it's like bro these are like like if they have common sense if two people

04:18:06 are in this situation and you have common sense you'll know how to like logically talk about this

04:18:11 i feel like that's uh all the tensions coming from a lack of sex no you guys need to have sex 0.96

04:18:18 maybe you'll communicate better high schoolers having the sex oh it's like they're hormones 0.99

04:18:25 like they want to fuck that's that's usually the case because i've had a boyfriend before that like 1.00

04:18:30 oh if you don't fuck me you know i'm gonna go find someone else okay bye well what if they 1.00

04:18:35 threatened to cheat on you is that worse or better than leaving you worse i don't think it's 1.00

04:18:39 actually no no but like that's worse that's worse okay i'm gonna cheat on you and go sleep with 0.95

04:18:46 someone else if you don't sleep with me at that point it's like okay now you either as a woman 1.00

04:18:50 like so grow some balls and be like okay if you're gonna cheat on me bye i don't know i'm just 0.99

04:18:55 how would you guys feel if the role was reversed and your man wasn't having sex with you but you 1.00

04:19:02 really wanted to have sex can you like the like so it's like in front of you i feel like these are 0.99

04:19:08 all logical ass like if you have logic if you think based off with this is my thing i i want 0.99

04:19:14 to bring this up before i forget i feel like women think i mean women act based off their emotion 0.98

04:19:20 versus logically and like if you have logic and you're logically thinking about these things and 0.54

04:19:26 your man tells you i'm gonna cheat on you if you don't sleep with me why in the hell are you gonna

04:19:30 stay with someone like that what be like actually hell no bye but no it's like well that hurt my 1.00

04:19:37 feelings and that like why would you grow like girls fucking balls and leave his ass like i don't 1.00

04:19:43 know i just don't put up with shit i just don't put up with shit and it's like i don't even feel 1.00

04:19:48 bad a lot of the times for like girls or whatever like that keep like like going over the same 0.99

04:19:55 soppy story it's like i can't even feel sorry for you because you keep putting yourself in that

04:19:59 situation leave go and it's not that easy to leave i understand that but it's like come on so if you 0.94

04:20:07 guys were in that situation and you were really wanting to have sex with your partner and he

04:20:13 didn't really want to have sex with you your all of your guys's options would be to leave

04:20:18 or cheat no no no no no communicate firstly then after that like take some kind of precautions like

04:20:25 but like your first initials are like leave no I don't think I would I think it's a really hard

04:20:33 position to be in like I've honestly been in that position where like you know like he wanted to do

04:20:38 it way more but like I like I guess it was excruciatingly painful but like I just didn't

04:20:42 want him to leave so I would like go through like excruciating pain basically just to like

04:20:47 satisfying him which is like honestly really sad that it's like that so it's not like it's not easy

04:20:54 just be like okay let's just break up because like you love a person you want to please them

04:20:57 it hurts but it's like all right I gotta move on um you say you have an issue with men who

04:21:04 abandon their children um that's if they vowed to uh have the children that they wanted them

04:21:11 from the get-go and before then like with the women like yeah I want to have these kids with 1.00

04:21:16 you I'll take care of them we're going to be a family and then they did oh okay so you're not 0.96

04:21:20 talking about a situation where a guy has one night stands with a girl and she gets pregnant 0.63

04:21:26 she keeps it he's like i don't okay that's messed up okay uh men manipulating women by faking

04:21:34 feelings just to extort sex yeah so like i knew someone who basically like had a joke with his

04:21:42 friends that he was gonna like i guess pretend to have feelings for this girl who like him 0.99

04:21:48 just as a bet to see if he could take her virginity 0.97

04:21:51 and then dump her right after. 0.99

04:21:52 Oh, no.

04:21:54 Yeah, so I'd say this is wrong.

04:21:56 I think men, you shouldn't lie about your intentions.

04:22:02 If you're not looking for a long-term thing,

04:22:05 and the girl is, in order to get her to have sex with you,

04:22:09 I think it's wrong to lie about that.

04:22:13 I had a situation like that.

04:22:15 This is common.

04:22:16 i think men uh not all men but men will commonly lie about their intentions have sex leave um so

04:22:26 uh the the virgin thing though i don't know how common that actually is um anecdotally i guess 0.97

04:22:36 like also um a virgin you keep her around not this guy but he didn't just fuck a 1.00

04:22:46 virgin once and then toss her to the side that's stupid if they're a piece of shit and they just 1.00

04:22:52 have a shitty mindset well sure i just brought through to him well yeah but i mean exactly in 1.00

04:22:59 her example she was saying i assume there was nothing wrong with the woman he just wanted to 0.99

04:23:03 take her virginity and dip and he didn't he failed so oh okay he did on her but he tried

04:23:09 apparently i don't know it how long was he trying to date her a few months i think what a waste of 0.96

04:23:15 time like I don't even get that like yeah that's what they did at my school like men were like 0.99

04:23:21 dogs and I grew up around that so that's like what made me such an angry feminist my high school

04:23:25 all the boys at my high school not all like dozens of boys had a big group chat where they would send

04:23:30 their own girlfriend's nudes to each other well that's wrong yeah that's wrong they shouldn't do

04:23:35 that honestly I feel like as much as it sucks to hear this it's like so normal and it's actually

04:23:43 it's sad it's sad but it's sad it's normal yeah no i i would agree with you that that's wrong and

04:23:49 they shouldn't do that and you shouldn't be leaking i mean also you said this is in high

04:23:54 school so we're talking like this gets into like college wait no no no high school for me

04:24:01 so the nudes i'm i mean look i don't even want to go into that topic yeah some of the girls were 0.83

04:24:07 underage right yeah that's that's like even way worse super uh crime super illegal but even if

04:24:16 it wasn't a crime this is not something that you should do um it's obviously wrong it's a moral

04:24:21 absent it being illegal um uh i so i do agree men should be honest about their intentions

04:24:30 but to do a little pushback

04:24:32 I think that

04:24:36 and this is somewhat related 1.00

04:24:37 women who wear makeup 0.99

04:24:40 use cosmetics 0.99

04:24:42 have plastic surgery 1.00

04:24:44 and women 0.93

04:24:46 well this is perhaps a better map 1.00

04:24:48 I'm going to come back to the makeup 1.00

04:24:49 the first one is women who lie about their body count 1.00

04:24:52 so I think if you lie about who you are 0.96

04:24:56 because men typically care about a woman's past, right?

04:25:00 If you lie about who you are,

04:25:02 that's some sort of immoral act you've done.

04:25:06 If a guy cares about it and he asks you

04:25:09 and you say, oh, it's one, but it's 20 or 50 or whatever, 0.73

04:25:13 you've induced him into having sex with you, 0.92

04:25:18 having a relationship with you 0.93

04:25:19 when maybe he otherwise wouldn't.

04:25:22 So that's wrong.

04:25:24 That's wrong. 1.00

04:25:26 maybe you would agree with that women who lie about things to get or anyone who lies they lie 0.99

04:25:32 about their um what's it called they lie about their purity they lie oh i'm not fucking three 0.98

04:25:43 other dudes terrible but here this is what's going to trigger you guys 0.99

04:25:50 makeup plastic surgery cosmetics i think you are inducing men to be attracted to you to have sex 0.96

04:26:00 with you to be in relationships with you that may not otherwise if they knew what you actually 0.95

04:26:07 looked like so you guys are lying about your uh hell yeah i am i mean when i'm walking down

04:26:16 the street, I don't want to be

04:26:19 like, my biggest thing, I

04:26:21 What? 0.99

04:26:22 She's like, what the fuck? 1.00

04:26:24 No, I personally like 1.00

04:26:26 getting ready, doing my makeup,

04:26:29 doing my hair, putting on...

04:26:30 What does that have to do with anything?

04:26:31 Because what you just said, that we're trying to

04:26:34 lure men in for what... 1.00

04:26:36 Yeah, a woman feels good about themselves. 0.98

04:26:38 How is that relevant to the point that made me? 0.99

04:26:40 Well, can you let me finish my point and then maybe you can understand?

04:26:42 Okay, go off the point.

04:26:43 Thank you. 1.00

04:26:43 well yes obviously i'm getting ready so the fine shits that are walking down the street can look 1.00

04:26:49 at me like yeah she's a baddie and then that otherwise wouldn't if you weren't and who and 1.00

04:26:56 who and who is to say they wouldn't if i had makeup on or off because they still would yeah

04:27:02 maybe they would i would say the chances are less not completely not there but it's less yeah

04:27:07 like the chances of like i mean bro makeup so drastically can change i agree especially you

04:27:16 asian women who yeah like the white girls the white girls you know i mean look makeup can do 1.00

04:27:24 a little bit but yeah the asian women be doing some crazy shit i don't even know what the fuck 1.00

04:27:29 they're doing they're changing their shit up and you know what if a man saw a woman with their 1.00

04:27:34 makeup off after and was like oh hell no i don't want to fuck with you i think that he's valid to 1.00

04:27:39 feel that way too though like sure i'm just saying but you you bamboozle us you fucking bamboozle us 0.99

04:27:46 you think she's hotter than she actually is and now like you kind of fucking bamboozled us into 0.98

04:27:55 a relationship okay who are you dating that you haven't seen her without makeup prior to asking 0.94

04:28:00 her to be your girlfriend okay hold on is it factually true that i'm not saying like some

04:28:06 women wear moderates or small amounts of makeup that it does have a slight impact but it's not

04:28:12 like a huge change is it true that women can undergo substantial they can artificially bolster

04:28:23 their attractiveness to men through the use of makeup yes i think the typical makeup routine

04:28:31 for most women is going to boost their rating by two points can't it can sometimes it can be more 0.73

04:28:40 sometimes a four can be a seven sometimes a five can be an eight now she's a five 1.00

04:28:48 but now she's getting treated like an eight honestly i've seen girls that look way prettier 1.00

04:28:54 when they take their makeup off okay so you're saying ugly people don't have the right to kind 0.99

04:28:59 of like feel better no what i'm getting from this is you're saying every woman that you see with 0.99

04:29:03 makeup on is like leveled up to points and when they take it off it's like oh shit like she ain't 0.78

04:29:07 gonna look like that but there's cases where girls look better without makeup than they do

04:29:11 makeup all off right now i i look the same well we will do the makeup segment but okay

04:29:18 why why can't the makeup thing always pisses women off because you guys cope so much about it

04:29:29 because you know it's true you know it's deceptive you know it's a lie no one's disagreeing yeah it's

04:29:35 it's a lie it's a facade make up makeup it's make believe it's made up it's not real that's not what

04:29:42 you look like actually well that's not what you look like the only thing that i think is like

04:29:47 i mean i think i i think makeup obviously can be very deceptive um i mean i work in the beauty

04:29:56 industry and i've had you know we've had clients come in where all we see is their facebook and

04:30:03 then they come in and we don't know who they are you know so um you know i i think it can be

04:30:11 deceptive in that way but if you are dating somebody you should at some point uh fairly

04:30:16 quickly into the relationship see the real them um i think like the first week of y'all like yeah

04:30:23 it should be pretty quickly um but as far as plastic surgery that's a little bit harder to

04:30:30 tell you know depends on what but because people have chin implants cheek implants like stuff that

04:30:38 you can't really tell how they even looked like before and now that is very deceptive because that

04:30:43 would be like how these men get you know the injections to chisel out their jaw to chisel

04:30:48 their chin and it's like if if they don't disclose that to us we have no idea and then we have kids

04:30:53 and we're like what what they look like that it's like that one guy that married that woman who had

04:30:59 a whole bunch of like plastic surgery and then their kids kind of ended up kind of chopped and

04:31:03 then again it's like okay if you're gonna date someone or talk to someone obviously like you

04:31:07 yes let them know like oh no i've had this son or have this done and if you choose to still be with

04:31:12 them and your kids come out ugly well then that's on you bro like you chose to still stay or like

04:31:18 look at a picture with the story just be honest yeah just be honest i mean unless you're trying

04:31:25 to hide who you really are and at that point you shouldn't be dating you know but i think one thing

04:31:32 about doing lashes or lipstick is just like it shows that a woman cares about how she looks like

04:31:38 let's say i go outside and i have no makeup and i just don't care like is that attractive like that

04:31:43 i don't know like when lala said like i feel good when i put on my lashes i put on my lipstick

04:31:49 because it's attractive that you show that you care about uh how you look yeah because i look

04:31:56 at a man if you don't get

04:31:58 haircuts if you dress bummy 0.94

04:32:00 it's the same way

04:32:01 I'm living in the wrong

04:32:05 time period

04:32:06 I'm living in the wrong century

04:32:08 perhaps what is this material

04:32:10 no cause back then it was the same way 1.00

04:32:13 bro women in the 1.00

04:32:15 1800s were not 0.99

04:32:17 painting their faces

04:32:18 anywhere near the degree to which you guys

04:32:21 paint your faces today

04:32:22 they were in the corset

04:32:23 white paint 1.00

04:32:25 well that shit looks stupid but i'll say this but let's go more recent if we go more recently 1.00

04:32:32 10 years ago 20 years ago women wear way more makeup now like 15 years well hold on 15 years 1.00

04:32:42 ago was 2010 let's say before instagram maybe around 2010 0.79

04:32:46 full face of makeup was rare to see it was so fucking rare to see like it would be strange 0.61

04:32:58 like when i was in college it was weird if a girl wore like a full face of makeup now it's common 0.86

04:33:04 girls would throw on maybe a bit of eyeliner that's about it like a bit of mascara that's kind 0.97

04:33:11 of mostly what they did um maybe if they're going out they'd put on a bit more but in college if 0.97

04:33:17 you're at your class you're a fucking 19 year old these girls were not caking on makeup i'm not 1.00

04:33:25 saying all women are doing that now but it's so much more common like the level of makeup that 0.99

04:33:30 women are employing compared to 10 15 20 years ago is completely different and it genuinely

04:33:37 uh i think even just mascara and eyeliner can like make a pretty big change in how a woman looks

04:33:44 like she can i don't know if it would change a no to a yes or yes to a no but i don't know 0.98

04:33:53 shit's crazy shit's crazy what the fuck okay um it's good for us bad for you guys i mean have 0.99

04:33:59 you guys ever like uh experienced being hit on more without wearing makeup than wearing makeup 1.00

04:34:05 no no i don't go out unless i'm ready so i don't think i made that analysis like

04:34:10 okay today i'm going outside without makeup yeah i'm just like and also like i work from home so

04:34:16 i really don't leave my house unless i'm going out to like an event or something and then i get ready

04:34:21 it is a sad state of affairs that we find the cultural and social zeitgeist

04:34:28 to be one where women feel obliged to paint their face like clowns you cover you it's it's sad the 0.66

04:34:40 the materialism is sad the vanity you i don't think you're going to be able to disagree with 0.89

04:34:46 me that the makeup usage that women do the cosmetic procedures the plastic surgery which

04:34:52 by the way not just the makeup usage has gone up in the past 10 20 years it's the plastic surgery

04:34:58 it used to be not just women men too remember drake got his abs done did he yeah he did yeah

04:35:04 he did i'm super like this is actually why i want to push back against it because yeah well i i think

04:35:12 like we should not be normalizing men wearing makeup we should not be normalizing uh like

04:35:21 these weird cosmetic surgeries like the guys who get bicep implants and what about the two like the

04:35:26 little like to pay things that they'd be putting on or so there's oh hair implants no like they

04:35:31 like that actual like to pay yeah i actually think that um if you look at a lot of media

04:35:38 in the 80s 70s 90s 2000s it was really common to see people who are balding or bald or whatever

04:35:46 more so balding but it's actually really rare now to see uh as commonly anyways balding

04:35:53 i would like to see a return to look i'm getting older that's just part of aging i accept it

04:36:04 now i understand i understand like in society men are judged for this and that's the same

04:36:09 motivation why women employ a lot of these things they want to be attractive they want to get the

04:36:14 best guy they want to be judged positive assessed positively by their peers um i understand the

04:36:21 incentives and motivations but i don't want to live in a society where everyone is so 0.94

04:36:26 hyper focused on their vain superficial outward appearance i'm not saying like be a slob 0.92

04:36:32 but the surgeries the the it's just it's mental illness it's mental illness 0.94

04:36:41 what mental illness i want to get surgery it's dysmorphia 10 toes down body dysmorphia 10 toes

04:36:48 down if you get a bbl do you have a i do and okay don't hate oh yeah regret it she regrets it and i 0.56

04:36:59 did it not for myself you know because we as women can be like yes i'm doing it for myself

04:37:07 you know i did this but i mean a big majority of us are doing it because like she said you want to

04:37:14 walk down the street you want men to be like oh that baddie and you know stuff like that and it's

04:37:20 like you know we we do it for like what we think is the male gaze when men have been telling us

04:37:28 we like natural we prefer this we prefer that and we're like no you know but you know that whole

04:37:35 term like it's kind of like controversial like I don't do it for men I do it for me like I feel

04:37:41 i'm in the middle of that like obviously i get ready and i want to look good so like

04:37:46 you know i look appealing but also like when i like even go down the street to 7-eleven and i

04:37:53 look like shit i'm like oh hell no like i feel so like don't look at me but is the shouldn't we 0.62

04:37:59 have you ever stopped to investigate why it is you feel the way you do why is it that now look 1.00

04:38:09 I don't think that there's some conspiracy necessarily from these cosmetic industries like, okay, we want to make women feel insecure so we can push our bullshit fucking products. 0.98

04:38:19 But does it ever occur to you to think, why do I think the things that I think and feel the things that I feel? 0.99

04:38:26 Yeah, I do that all the time.

04:38:27 Well, why am I going to feel bad about myself for what, from my perspective, is this very materialistic, vain, vanity, superficial perspective?

04:38:44 And look, I think...

04:38:46 They Thor donated $100.

04:38:51 Women fall in love with what they want to hear.

04:38:53 Men fall in love with what they see. 0.97

04:38:55 that's why women wear makeup and men lie the best thing for a woman's face believe it or not

04:39:01 is semen that's true um thank you basically appreciate it no what i was gonna say what i was

04:39:10 gonna say was i think think of sports where people start doing steroids so in order to be

04:39:16 competitive if everyone else like these cyclists or baseball players or ufc fighters if they're

04:39:23 doing steroids everyone else has to start doing steroids if they want to be able to compete

04:39:27 competition so so at it's like this sort of treadmill of okay uh 20 years ago a bit of

04:39:36 mascara and eyeliner did it far did it for like 90 percent of women now it's like you need a

04:39:44 contour and you need to do blush and you need lip filler and you need your chin done and you need 0.99

04:39:49 buccal fat removal, and you need fake tits, and lipo belly, and you need BBL, and you need all

04:39:54 this stuff, even just the makeup, but all the plastic surgeries, and the lip filler, and the 0.96

04:39:59 Botox, it's like the steroids in sports. It's like if nobody, if no women, if you could, let me ask 0.90

04:40:08 the question. Okay. If I could snap my fingers, and no other women could wear makeup, like just

04:40:14 nobody could wear makeup it didn't even exist and everyone's on an essentially an even playing

04:40:19 field to a degree um you're on an even playing field nobody can get plastic surgery nobody can

04:40:24 get botox no makeup do you take the trade a train was do you take the trade so the trade is

04:40:31 we have skincare sure yes yes yes you can skincare you take the trade

04:40:39 wait what you don't like there's no competition like i'm not like oh hell no i ain't taking that 1.00

04:40:46 has a fat ass now i need a fatter ass no because when i see when i see bad bitches it makes me 1.00

04:40:52 want to be even more of a bad bitch like damn she's bad like that's what he's saying and women 1.00

04:40:57 are using like makeup and like plastic surgery to like achieve those oh yeah like me i want to 1.00

04:41:03 get my nose done no i'm super super insecure don't do it and erase your roots i used to be

04:41:10 there as well okay oh wait back so can i say what i wanted originally saying what you're talking i'm

04:41:15 sorry i feel like if you just want to get bbls lipo and plastic surgery and you work like a

04:41:21 normal ass job at like walmart or something then that's a little like why but i feel like if you

04:41:26 are in like the dancer industry bottle service industry you know only fan whatever you're more 0.95

04:41:32 like you have the you make your you make your money you make your money off of your sex appeal

04:41:40 then yes i think it's an investment to get lip filler your nose done your body done if you make

04:41:46 your money based off sex appeal now like i said if you're getting stuff done like that and you work 0.94

04:41:51 at a normal ass job then it's like okay those are i don't know different but i feel like yeah i make 0.61

04:41:58 my living and I pay my 0.93

04:42:00 bills off of how I look

04:42:02 so I'm going to invest in how I look

04:42:04 whether that's makeup or surgery 1.00

04:42:06 but if no women had makeup or 1.00

04:42:08 plastic surgery or cosmetics 1.00

04:42:10 then you could still make money off of how you look

04:42:13 that just the baseline

04:42:14 would be like down here 0.99

04:42:16 well then maybe I'm just a shitty person 0.88

04:42:18 because I'd be thinking like

04:42:19 going to the next thing the next

04:42:22 topic

04:42:23 I am I don't know

04:42:25 like

04:42:26 uh okay we got corny that's the she messaged me and said she had a panic attack so i think

04:42:34 she might have been lying about her legs but okay i don't know i messaged her i was like

04:42:41 do you want to come back and she didn't respond so okay well enjoy the trip i guess uh we got 0.99

04:42:48 later uh so you're dating multiple men oh fuck my bad it's lata bro okay i'm gonna adopt you 1.00

04:42:56 change your fucking name how about that you're adopted i'm changing i'm your father now i'm 1.00

04:43:01 fucking changing your name that's ridiculous i'm calling you fucking that's like a russian 1.00

04:43:06 name i could call her i'm calling you vladima oh my god no no that's literally someone thought in 1.00

04:43:16 in russia one of my dance teachers uh he thought my name was vlada instead of lada and vlad is

04:43:22 literally a guy's name i was so i was that was the hugest ick i almost quit uh you're dating multiple

04:43:29 men not any i'm just no i'm talking okay i need to clarify i'm just talking to people i'm not like

04:43:42 putting anything into serious matters like it's okay it's not like

04:43:47 why are we bringing this up it's in your notes uh you got back with your ex

04:43:55 after not communicating for a year so when you met up you had sex once

04:44:04 and then you stopped communicating again yeah so tell us the story it was just a strange

04:44:13 interaction because so there was kind of like a situationship i guess uh with me and this one guy

04:44:21 and we kind of spoke about each other's situations like we have like this is my career this is my

04:44:28 career this is my viewpoint this is my viewpoint do you want to be serious uh and he was like no

04:44:35 and i was like at the point i wanted to be serious with him but i liked him so much that i said like

04:44:44 yeah it's fine to not be serious but i really wanted to be so in that situation i liked him a

04:44:52 lot more than he liked me i guess so it was i already lost that like uh-huh i already knew

04:45:00 the day it would be bad well so who stopped communicating you or him this year or last year

04:45:05 because we like had like cut each other off you had your ex you hadn't talked for a year

04:45:11 you met back up you had sex once and then stops communicating that was actually i blocked him

04:45:21 first why um toxic because i have to like have an ego

04:45:30 what no like i need to set like separate my feelings like my heart and my brain are in two

04:45:40 different positions right let's say that we're all right so yeah it's obvious so there's a mismatch

04:45:47 i mean i something's wrong with the bridge i'm mature enough to understand that but

04:45:51 okay i think that for him it was like for me that was like love like i like that person i value him

04:46:01 but for him it's just like oh a situation whatever for fun and in that when i realized that i was

04:46:09 like oh this is gonna hurt a lot this is gonna be bad so um i don't know why like when we already

04:46:18 went to that phase of breaking up and be like okay i can't stand anymore a year passed and he

04:46:24 just hits me up like out of the blue he said hey what's up we didn't speak for a year i'm like why 0.72

04:46:32 are you even texting me okay then you guys fucked once yeah and and then i was like okay see you 0.83

04:46:39 broken if a man's been inside you you should you should be attached to that man in a sense and then 0.99

04:46:47 you blocked him all right he didn't even do anything apparently he didn't even fucking do 0.75

04:46:52 anything she just blocked him she's like well not doing that again uh okay you want to talk about 1.00

04:46:58 50 50 women paying the bill um sure okay what's your position my position is that a woman should 1.00

04:47:06 not be paying just literally i if you don't want to judge like i i'll take it nothing the woman

04:47:15 should not be paying who agrees with her i only should the man pay go ahead it's okay

04:47:20 should be like on a first date yeah um i i think that um men should pay on a first date it just

04:47:28 kind of demonstrates the like leadership and the like provider aspect but it then it's also up to

04:47:34 the women to be modest and not go crazy and and and be like i'm gonna have the lobster and this

04:47:41 and that and you know everything and then you know also to like at the end of the night say

04:47:47 you're just not feeling like the lady this guy you could offer to be like hey you know like

04:47:53 i'm willing to split this you know 50 50 with you it's just kind of not

04:47:57 wait can i say well me personally i i don't mind paying for a first date for a guy i mean

04:48:04 i've spent like my whole life working like i feel like i earned my money i like to spend my money

04:48:10 on the guys that i'm with and i don't care if it makes me look like a simp or anything

04:48:14 like i like to spend money on them i don't mind buying food i don't mind i do too that's one of

04:48:19 my love languages is i buy my whoever i'm with like anything anything they want it's actually a

04:48:25 bad bad trait i have but i love like i need a daily tribute from a woman she has to send me 0.98

04:48:32 100 to 200 cash every day i would if i could bad that she wouldn't look if i could i would

04:48:38 100 what's your job i'm a behavioral therapist make pretty good money okay so i'll i take the

04:48:45 entire paycheck uh yeah okay uh so the woman paying the bill i mean i don't know if anyone

04:48:55 will have any disagreements on this but honestly look i'll state the position and if you guys

04:49:04 disagree so i don't have objections to men paying for dates um i think that's fine uh i think the

04:49:11 man should be the primary breadwinner so breadwinner my my issue is is that women demand

04:49:18 men be trad, do these things, pay for dates, but women aren't really holding up their end of the 1.00

04:49:25 deal. So I think if it's fine for women to say men should pay for dates, but I think women should

04:49:30 also perhaps be moving in a more traditional way. And so I would say if you're genuinely a lady

04:49:37 and you're moving, you're not moving in a shifty way, then of course, yeah, you shouldn't have

04:49:44 Can I say something really before I forget? 1.00

04:49:45 You shouldn't have your date paid for, but if you're an OnlyFans girl, if you're fucking multiple men at the same time, if you do OnlyFans, if you – I'm sure I can list other things that might make you not a lady, then go – you shouldn't be disrespected. 1.00

04:50:03 You should be still treated nicely. 1.00

04:50:06 Go 50-50. 0.95

04:50:07 Split the bill.

04:50:08 Did you want to go –

04:50:09 Yeah, I'm just going to say really quickly.

04:50:10 i think if you're taking a woman out on a date and if you liked her and you're like i want to

04:50:17 take her on a second date sure fucking pay for it if you if she was honest whatever you didn't

04:50:22 like her and that date went horribly then be like to be honest i didn't really like her vibe like 0.97

04:50:28 look he were gonna have to split the bill or something i don't know like i would be fine with

04:50:33 that but if a guy took me on a date and he didn't like my morals or who i was on that first date

04:50:38 getting to know me and he was like we're gonna have to split the bill wait say you're on a date

04:50:43 with a guy he wants to pay for it you aren't feeling the guy would you would you then say 0.99

04:50:51 well hey you're not getting pussy you're not getting a second date i'm not into you at all 0.98

04:50:58 let me let me cover my portion would you volunteer that i've done that before actually good for you 0.99

04:51:04 that's an honorable woman right there that's a honorable one thing i remembered from just from

04:51:11 that conversation i don't know this might be funny but i'm just showing my positions

04:51:16 one time i was dating a guy and i i drove the whole way to see him it was like half an hour

04:51:25 but then when we saw each other after we saw each other i was like

04:51:30 i'm i was literally not feeling it and i was like can you send me gas money because i feel

04:51:37 uncompensated and he didn't send me gas money for me seeing him and that was

04:51:42 i was like good job dude hold on i was done

04:51:51 good good i was like if you don't send me gas money to me see you no

04:51:59 um to go against that i literally drive an hour and a half every single weekend just to see my 0.98

04:52:06 hoes and i don't ask them for gas w i i mean if they were to drive to my city i wouldn't and they 0.99

04:52:14 asked me for gas i'm like motherfucking you chose to drive over here like what i'm choosing to drive 0.99

04:52:19 that hour and a half to go see you who am i to ask you for gas money unless you're my boyfriend 0.99

04:52:24 then that's different but if they're not your boyfriend they don't owe you nothing 1.00

04:52:28 to drive to him you weren't feeling it why should he pay for your gas i mean did you fuck 1.00

04:52:35 i guess yeah so you're a prostitute no i was just not feeling i was like 1.00

04:52:42 no he wanted to see me i was like i'm driving to you at least give me gas money like i feel like 0.98

04:52:52 i've been just but you said you weren't feeling him prior to the gas situation no um prior to the

04:53:00 gas station but after the actual meet up hook up whatever like i just like i think if you choose

04:53:11 to do the drive then that's did he did he offer to pay for your gas no okay so but i mean hold on

04:53:20 here let me recap recap it so people can parse your russian accent you drove 30 minutes to go 0.99

04:53:27 see a guy you you were interested you fuck him at some point after having sex with him 0.99

04:53:36 his penis being inside you you determine before any conversations about compensating for gas or 1.00

04:53:43 travel or whatever you weren't interested in him you then brought up the topic of he should help 0.99

04:53:49 you out with the gas even though you had no further intention of wanting to see him i guess

04:53:54 and he didn't pay you for the gas money well i don't see anything wrong like it would be like

04:54:00 even because i just felt used like at least give me some compensation i don't know like i just

04:54:05 because i is that what you told him i realized that pretty much because that's how i i just

04:54:13 think i realized like that i wasn't important for him i was like okay at least compensate me

04:54:18 was this your first time meeting him not first time like meeting him but first time like getting

04:54:24 in person not first i'm meeting in person but first time doing something so in a sense

04:54:32 was this the asian guy no no i remember last time you were on you something about an asian

04:54:39 dude or something i don't know i don't know was there that was not no no oh there was an asian

04:54:47 guy there was another agent guy that's long gone ago all right that's a long story i don't want to

04:54:52 talk about i don't know that'd be like if i went on a date with a girl and i didn't like her and i

04:55:01 paid for the date and then i was like or no um she didn't like me or i don't know and i was like

04:55:08 hey since we're not having a second date just like venmo me you're a portion i don't know but

04:55:14 people make fun of people like that like girls will post on twitter like oh my god this guy like

04:55:18 i think that's fair though i i think it's kind of fair to ask for the reimburse because now look i 0.95

04:55:25 know the girls are going to fucking drag you if you do it but i feel like it's kind of fair 0.60

04:55:30 you go on the date you pay for the date and if you want to see her again 0.98

04:55:36 now the woman has no obligation to there's no obligation for her to pay you but you want to

04:55:42 see her again and she's like oh you know i just i didn't really feel a connection but i i wish you

04:55:48 well give me the money give me the money but that's a request she's not obligated to give it

04:55:56 yeah no there's no legal obligation but i think that's kind of fair yeah but to completely eradicate

04:56:02 that my opinion is that i don't i don't like having that to begin with i will pay for whatever's

04:56:07 mine and i don't like asking people for anything yeah i wouldn't i wouldn't do that um because 0.94

04:56:14 actually one time i did one time one time but she was kind of being a bitch so i feel like it was 1.00

04:56:23 warranted yeah she was just like i don't know 1.00

04:56:28 but otherwise i would never i've gone on dates with girls and i paid for the date and

04:56:36 they weren't you know they didn't want to have a second date and i was like oh no worries like

04:56:42 okay have good luck have a good one you know it's a different bracket one time i had to do it one 0.79

04:56:47 time because she was i don't remember the details it was fucking six seven years ago but i want to

04:56:53 hear it no i don't want to hear it well i think so this i was not as conservative as i was probably 1.00

04:57:00 more moderate and this girl was like claimed she was a liberal and super feminist and uh i took her 1.00

04:57:09 out or i think we met for a drink or something and uh i forgot the details uh did she get like

04:57:19 super drunk no no i think we each had one drink and that was it i'm trying to remember uh 1.00

04:57:25 she was talking about equality like on the date i was like oh my god she's a feminist fuck 0.99

04:57:31 she believes in equality blah blah blah did you guys debate over dinner 0.99

04:57:37 no i was just like no anyways i don't remember all the details but uh

04:57:45 oh that was like if you're a feminist you should go 50 50. uh okay wait we're going to 1.00

04:57:50 did we do all yours wait fuck later it's lada lada 1.00

04:57:59 you feel like you're slowly becoming asexual 1.00

04:58:04 when's the last time you had sex like a week ago two weeks ago no like three months i guess 0.92

04:58:12 three months okay nice you don't enjoy sex no no it's not i do but it's just like i don't even

04:58:22 trust people anymore i just don't even want to start like going to look for someone going to

04:58:27 uh i don't know i'm just done like this the dating world especially in california like

04:58:36 everyone's talking about it i don't know if you a lot someone's not from california but

04:58:40 california is statistically the worst place to start a relationship even leading to i don't

04:58:47 know something serious not serious but it's the worst i lived in arizona i lived in wisconsin 0.99

04:58:52 i've lived so many different places they all ain't shit they all nothing to pick like see 0.98

04:59:00 someone's putting me right there is nothing left she's a sex worker though i'm not a sex 0.98

04:59:05 well i don't have anything first of all okay well what kind of guys are you dealing with you know 0.99

04:59:11 it's like better not deal with any just dead ass i might as i'm not being single living my life 0.98

04:59:19 talking to who i want how many men have you dated wait who was the girl who 0.99

04:59:24 was that you who was the guy who was the girl who's dating a guy in prison or something or

04:59:30 no my first husband went to prison oh okay yeah didn't the armenian girl have something or no 0.97

04:59:37 wait there was someone fuck whatever i don't know someone was a fighting out case i don't know 0.99

04:59:44 you say men not knowing what they want do you know what you want do i know what i want from a man 0.98

04:59:52 i don't know are you talking about in what they want in a relationship yeah some men like currently

04:59:58 men mostly like 90 80 i'm pretty sure maybe i'm not being like super probably 80 closer to that

05:00:07 what they do not move the camera where it doesn't see me real quick did you have your spot

05:00:13 no like where i'm not in frame you you peed no why would i pee my pants all right uh

05:00:20 I guess that's the best we can do 0.79

05:00:23 I'm going to have to go to my car

05:00:28 Why?

05:00:30 What happened?

05:00:32 The dot?

05:00:33 Yeah

05:00:33 And I'm scared again

05:00:35 Oh my god

05:00:39 What?

05:00:40 I can't say this

05:00:42 Oh bro

05:00:45 It's not on the carpet is it?

05:00:47 No

05:00:47 does anyone have a pad

05:00:51 but I need to go change

05:00:53 obviously

05:00:54 sorry I've had a little leak

05:00:56 alright somebody will

05:00:58 Tiffany just yeah

05:01:00 do what you have to do

05:01:01 do what you have to do

05:01:03 wait wait wait hold on

05:01:06 hold on hold on

05:01:07 don't drip 1.00

05:01:09 don't drip on my shit 1.00

05:01:12 oh my god 1.00

05:01:13 don't drip 1.00

05:01:15 what the fuck that was a little unexpected honestly but just a little womenly bodies i 1.00

05:01:23 love it okay moving on uh violets um 1.00

05:01:30 how gender worlds you used to be an angry feminist you met your husband you healed 0.73

05:01:40 I think we talked

05:01:43 okay we did all your notes we have

05:01:45 I think we did

05:01:47 all of that bro just make a

05:01:49 make a take an action take an action

05:01:51 oh no you're all good

05:01:52 just take an action take an action

05:01:54 it's not on you where it's on this

05:01:59 angle

05:01:59 all right you just message us when you're back

05:02:03 at the entry okay just message

05:02:05 us when you're back

05:02:06 okay

05:02:08 oh my god

05:02:10 uh we were talking about men that they i think we did all of deaths this is what they want

05:02:17 okay we got v uh you you had to take about bdsm what's what's that oh so i was saying that

05:02:29 uh the dom sub relationships relationship dynamic when it comes to bdsm is essentially

05:02:39 um just that of a man and a woman's relationship and when you talk about like obeying or like

05:02:51 doing all of these things when it comes to a marriage it's just like uh but when you talk

05:02:56 about it in forms of the dom and the sub relationship it's more like oh oh it's kinky

05:03:03 tell me what to do but like there's technically not a difference like if you if you really like

05:03:14 think about it because you have your roles in a dom sub relationship you have your roles

05:03:20 as a husband and a wife and they're essentially the same things and it's like we don't like to

05:03:28 talk about it when it comes to marriage but we do like to talk about it when it comes to a sexual

05:03:31 setting yeah and people don't really think about it that way because like i said if if we say okay

05:03:38 you're as a sub you're gonna obey your dom we're like okay and then if you're like okay as a wife

05:03:44 you're gonna obey your husband we're like what the fuck and it's like why why is that i know 0.96

05:03:51 actually like i think okay here's my take on it and i don't exactly need anyone to approve this but 0.99

05:03:58 um it's different when in it's it's an everyday life like you're going to grocery store he's like

05:04:06 buy this you're not you're you're buying this because i told you to buy this you're not getting

05:04:10 what you want or versus it's in bed he's like do something and you're like sure yes you know like

05:04:16 you're you have it it's a different mindset like it's an easier mindset to just do sexual things

05:04:24 than it is to like do things like for like yeah just like everyday life it's different because

05:04:31 when let's say you're going to the grocery store again you feel controlled you're just like i don't

05:04:36 want to eat like i don't want to do this why would you feel controlled like about that because it's

05:04:43 just like i mean how would you feel if someone be like okay you're getting this because i told you

05:04:49 i'm your husband i told you to buy this instead of buying what you want uh i'm your husband i mean

05:04:56 i'd be like okay because i mean i i genuinely like i love my husband well and and i know my

05:05:03 husband's like that's where it comes down to like just making like a good choice and like a partner

05:05:08 because if like you are with a person where you're like i don't want to do shit for this person of

05:05:13 course it's gonna seem like that but if you like do it for like a man that's like really good to

05:05:20 you and takes care of you then you're gonna he might not even ask you to you just might be like 0.73

05:05:25 can I go get you something is there anything it's like when girls are like oh well if a man does

05:05:30 this this and that I'm gonna do this when in reality I'm like how true like is that you know

05:05:37 I think it's the the status of the relationship how good is your communication because I've 0.99

05:05:43 had experiences with the same long-term relationship where one year we had terrible fucking sex i hated 0.99

05:05:49 him and i was like this shit sucks and then later on you know we start to talk more and understand 1.00

05:05:54 what we're needing and you know we get to learn each other more again like you start to fall in 1.00

05:05:59 love and you start to feel happy again that's when the sex starts to get good again so it really

05:06:04 depends like how you feel how connected you are and you know how willing you are to change if you

05:06:10 know your partner feels some sort of way of how you're doing yeah and i mean i guess like what i'm

05:06:16 like saying is like we have gotten like so far gone like as a society of like why is it a bad

05:06:23 thing to talk about the roles of like a husband and a wife uh particularly the wife's role because

05:06:29 we don't have any problem being like a mansion to you know x y and z but you know if we talk

05:06:36 about it in just a purely almost just like objectifying to just only a sexual sense as a

05:06:44 woman we're like yes and I'm like you know there's really no difference if if you're saying okay as a

05:06:51 sub you obey your dom we're like cool if you're we're saying a wife obey your husband we're like 0.99

05:06:56 yeah what the fuck like what do you mean no and it's like shouldn't we feel more comfortable to 0.95

05:07:04 do that if it's for our husband versus just in that world i i'm sorry for the sake of time i 1.00

05:07:10 have to move this on um you said the your ex-husband is a dl gay man who went on a very

05:07:16 well-known reality tv show which one um ink master i watched that and you can't believe how you missed

05:07:24 all the huge red flags because of how modern day society normalizes everything to be not 0.97

05:07:29 exactly what it is so he's gay your ex-husband dl gay so that's what you wrote 0.95

05:07:37 if i had to touch topic on that um and i guess you do unfortunately there's stain 0.98

05:07:48 there's stain i don't see one a blood stain wait it looks like a small one oh boy yikes okay sorry

05:07:58 okay you're excellent in this deal gay let's let's just let's do it um i would say that society has 0.75

05:08:09 just really um normalized like you said uh like we don't want to normalize like men wearing makeup 0.83

05:08:17 men doing like you know lots of feminine things um and society has really normalized a lot of

05:08:25 it's cool for men to just do lots of feminine things that we're not calling it for what it is

05:08:35 like a straight man isn't going to do um say like gay shoots or you know gay poses and stuff if if

05:08:47 you're not gay so is he he's gay i'm not going to disclose if if he is or he isn't you said 0.93

05:08:55 dl gay well you you if a straight man a straight man would never do gay stuff 0.97

05:09:05 like borderline was he a gay porn star not he didn't do anything like with a man 1.00

05:09:17 how was he gay then i don't understand i love when you fuck a woman in a homosexual way 1.00

05:09:24 you know one of the gayest things you can do is fuck a woman okay that got me thinking hold on 1.00

05:09:32 oh great so what is he the guy you decided that he was gay or was he actually gay or you just 1.00

05:09:39 don't want to like put him on the spot right now because we're all here and like it's no i i i

05:09:46 don't want to like get into like anybody's like personal like lives especially like when it comes

05:09:54 to like you know like sexuality and stuff like what I'm saying is like straight men straight

05:10:02 masculine men don't do things that are considered gay and they're still like no I'm straight

05:10:10 do you mind me asking what were kind of the signs that you saw um by doing like

05:10:18 i mean she said like poses like with other men like no not no not with other men but it was

05:10:24 for gay publications yes okay like a magazine uh like internet stuff well there's gay for pay i

05:10:32 guess you know what if it's a joke like can a straight guy like joke about acting gay like 0.74

05:10:39 kiss his homie on the lips i mean no but that's what i mean like that that kind of behavior is

05:10:47 like so normalized that a man could be like yeah i kiss another man but i'm not gay and we're like 0.59

05:10:53 okay cool and now i'm just like i mean would a straight man do that uh i think no you think a

05:11:00 straight man would yeah like i have friends who are guys who they would like think it's really

05:11:05 funny to be gay like they loved and i mean like oh you know like it's not a secret you know it's

05:11:13 just all right makeup removal segment all of it everything what everything just smell really good

05:11:23 okay i'll do it oh my god my skin is breaking out though hormonal crashes not fair this saves me

05:11:32 the routine for later thank you you're welcome i'm a i'm such a gentleman see such a free too

05:11:38 thank you i know i should charge you guys i'm gonna invoice i'm gonna invoice you guys

05:11:44 i'm gonna ignore it hey where's that's so you're gonna come back and take hers off too 1.00

05:11:48 i don't know if she i don't know i don't know did she take her shit or did she 0.97

05:11:55 who knows whatever uh any final thoughts from anybody i think oh my god i think i'm gonna 0.95

05:12:02 wrap the show i'm sorry those two ladies like when i first saw them and i said hi and they 0.93

05:12:07 just walked past me and looked at me like what the fuck i obviously know we're part of the same 1.00

05:12:11 fucking show they were bitches oh really oh yes they did not talk to anybody they were giving 1.00

05:12:16 dirty ass looks wow that's narcissistic abuse i think they hate me for pledging allegiance to 1.00

05:12:24 u.s yeah they yeah i wanted to ask her if her boyfriend cheated on her but there wasn't a time 1.00

05:12:31 to ask which boyfriend the 12-year relationship because she's out of nowhere she said she was 0.70

05:12:37 like i fucking hate only fans models out of nowhere i was like oh okay i mean i guess you 0.74

05:12:42 could have that opinion but what she was talking about it just came out of the blue she was like 0.98

05:12:46 i can't sit in one room well yeah i think he was cheating i think he was cheating or something i

05:12:51 little bit of like animosity but that's okay yeah uh save them and then hold it up spread them

05:13:00 spread them only needed one seriously one was enough oh you still you still got some eyeliner

05:13:06 on there mascara or something where i have a bunch on i don't have a mirror really nice

05:13:11 take the glasses off let's see i can't see i can't even see myself i have lash extensions

05:13:19 how many fingers am i holding up well girl what's your vision like it's not that bad

05:13:29 i don't even makeup makeup yeah uh okay we get new ratings now trying to think

05:13:40 you're all you're all 10 out of 10s you're all beautiful thank you you too brian i don't have

05:13:47 what kind of asian are you guys i'm filipina filipina and you're uh i don't know how to answer

05:13:56 this question adopted no my dna test would say i'm half chinese but my family like does not

05:14:04 identify as chinese at all oh wow

05:14:06 they're transracial no like so basically they're an ethnic group that was not ethnically or like 0.98

05:14:15 racially or like culturally chinese and then chinese like slain them and killed them and 0.85

05:14:20 pillaged them and stole all their stuff so now they don't really exist oh uh okay it's okay 0.86

05:14:29 well not really so like when you're i don't know if it was your parents or great it was my

05:14:35 grandparents grandparents yeah they came from which country uh so my grandparents came from

05:14:41 what is now called china it wasn't always right yeah it was originally called sipsang pana

05:14:47 different dynasties i guess and then they had to escape and then they lived in laos and then they

05:14:53 got uh like killed again and then they came to us my grandparents nice yeah laotian um they're not

05:15:02 laotian like technically but they lived there and they adopted the culture and like food and language 0.80

05:15:09 good shit uh were you going with that you know and then i'm white and black on my dad's side 0.87

05:15:14 white and black yeah oh my grandpa is like he he looks 100 black but he's not actually so 0.99

05:15:21 so you're 25 percent no like black i'm like nine percent it's just like weird how phenotypes come

05:15:32 out because like my grandpa looks like 100 percent even though he's only like 30 percent i can kind

05:15:40 of see it a little bit so my lips i've heard but i don't know well there are there's definitely

05:15:50 asian people who have like full plump lips that is true yeah you see like more typically a bit 0.78

05:15:59 more south like in vietnam they typically have more why not fake you got lip filler no they're

05:16:07 nice oh your lips are fake oh they're not fake oh i thought they're real didn't you just say

05:16:12 they were fake no she said they were not oh we're not fake okay i don't think yours are fake no just

05:16:19 kidding no just kidding uh okay any uh final thoughts from anybody else any final topic or

05:16:28 thank you for having us this is your chance this is your chance right now

05:16:32 topic from anybody final question final thing you want to challenge me on

05:16:39 nothing that's all that's all you got that's fine oh i wanted to ask you how come your profile

05:16:46 pictures from like really really long time ago which one uh all of them like on my personal

05:16:52 instagram the brian you're stalking his instagram i follow him she's in love with me

05:16:58 oh okay no i mean she did say maybe yeah so i mean for profile pictures i think sometimes

05:17:06 you'll see this on twitch people will use old photos or even childhood photos sometimes for

05:17:11 their profile picture in this case i am live streaming in uh 1080p every sunday if somebody

05:17:23 wants to know what I look like I'm not hiding it they can just watch the stream but it's just

05:17:32 an old photo of me when I was wearing a fake mustache that I just think is funny are you

05:17:38 trying to be like Brian you're catfishing because it's like a little bit I got catfished that way 0.99

05:17:42 um there's a guy trying to fuck you no I'm just saying out of experience but you know there's a 0.99

05:17:46 guy that he was not the weight that he had put from his photo and he was extremely overweight 0.99

05:17:53 and so when I met up with him on the date I was like where are you and he's right in front of me

05:17:58 I was like oh shit well yeah so I mean I'm not really using Instagram for like it's not Tinder

05:18:06 for me I guess so yeah I would say that my show is live every single Sunday I post four I post 0.91

05:18:16 four reels per day shorts across not just instagram all these other platforms i don't

05:18:24 think there's any dispute as to what i actually look like so as a funny profile picture sometimes

05:18:31 people use like avatars you know uh so this i think what you're trying to get at is like

05:18:39 brian you're catfishing because it's an old photo wait well how i mean if it was the case that i

05:18:47 wasn't um i didn't have a live show and people could just see me on video hear my voice see what

05:18:55 i look like every single sunday maybe you might have a compelling argument there but just having

05:19:02 like kind of a funny like i have a giant fake mustache that i could never grow yeah naturally 0.95

05:19:08 it's like it was a it was like a glue on mustache from 10 plus years ago some shit 0.74

05:19:13 it's just a funny photo i don't think it's that deep to be honest i just have the question 0.81

05:19:18 should we pull up your instagram and see how if you want go ahead how realistic yours looks i

05:19:24 don't know i just feel like i from all the podcasts i've watched you've kind of picked

05:19:28 through a lot of people's instagrams and social media so i was like oh i might as well go dig the

05:19:32 same and see what's up oh so you were talking she's in love with me it's confirmed uh

05:19:38 how long have you been watching the podcast like before you got a few months a few months

05:19:43 yeah i'm not gonna lie i thought of a question also for you brian

05:19:47 oh you're i think he's listening okay uh since you like host a dating podcast you know like

05:19:55 why do you think you are not like in a committed like partnership i guess do you know what my

05:20:01 relationship status is oh well i'm keeping it vague i keep it vague i don't really talk about

05:20:07 it because for privacy uh you do have a wifey i didn't say that i wouldn't i can neither confirm

05:20:17 nor deny the existence of uh if i was single i would say the same thing if i had a girlfriend 0.94

05:20:23 i would say the same thing whoever i don't really date influencer chicks so they're not public like

05:20:29 that i would protect whoever i'm dating because i'm i have a very controversial podcast i get

05:20:36 death threats i don't want that to blow back on the girl who i'm dating who may not be exposed

05:20:44 to like the toxicity that is like content creation and being online um and uh yeah that's pretty much

05:20:56 it okay that's a good answer actually yeah no it's like like for me i can handle it but

05:21:04 if i was public with my if i was dating a girl and i was public with it like taking photos of

05:21:10 with her tagging her she would be ruthlessly fucking targeted she'd get dm'd she'd get hate 0.83

05:21:18 mail um so uh also i mean it's just the podcast having some more traditional takes having some 0.93

05:21:29 more controversial takes not healthy mixing that in a relationship well well that's going to draw

05:21:36 negative attention from people but also on politics adjacent so anytime you're politics

05:21:42 adjacent because we've had big political people come on the show and the show does obviously lean

05:21:50 conservative uh yeah you're gonna be targeted so i'm not going to expose my normie 0.99

05:21:59 maybe exists maybe doesn't girlfriend to like harassment and they're gonna fucking 0.91

05:22:07 send her like no i'd never do it i would keep any relationship i have private 0.93

05:22:12 so i just don't talk about it what does she call you master and sir

05:22:16 uh if i did have a girlfriend she would master it's like whatever sir yes if you did have a

05:22:25 girlfriend so you just accidentally slipped that you don't have one if i did or didn't have a

05:22:29 girlfriend oh you didn't say i'm speaking i'm speaking in ambiguity oh yeah my bad um okay

05:22:37 do you think most people would disagree with most of your views like in america depends on what

05:22:43 like just like if they had to compile all of your views on a list and put a check mark or x you think

05:22:47 people would disagree with you uh i don't know probably 50 though i don't know if it's the

05:23:01 majority but around 50 why i'm just curious what like the perception of like the podcast is it's

05:23:10 kind of hard to tell, honestly. Well, let me ask you a question.

05:23:12 If you lived in a society where 99%

05:23:15 of people were fine with

05:23:16 abuse of children, just because

05:23:18 there's a consensus and a majority

05:23:20 who think it's okay to abuse children,

05:23:22 would it still be

05:23:24 okay to abuse children?

05:23:26 No. I'd be the outlier. I'd be like, 0.96

05:23:28 fuck all that shit. Right. So in this case, 1.00

05:23:31 frankly, I don't care if a majority

05:23:32 of people disagree with me.

05:23:35 Tiffany, please sit down. I need you

05:23:36 to pull something up.

05:23:40 uh let's see this r slash

05:23:44 what's that do you know what i'm talking about it's i think it's in the memes hold on in discord

05:23:56 let's see yeah you're gonna scroll 0.98

05:24:01 oh wait fuck where is it my tweet 1.00

05:24:06 damn how much fucking memes have i posted wait maybe it's media hold on 1.00

05:24:12 this will be the final thing that we wrap uh 0.99

05:24:16 yeah is there just one i guess just pull that up 0.94

05:24:23 this is this is what you have to do even though all the fucking mpcs are gonna say you're wrong 0.95

05:24:34 you gotta be like no you're wrong you're wrong that's my perspective so is that how you operate 0.98

05:24:43 if the i'm scared of getting canceled i'm scared like basically for my life if i were to say

05:24:49 something that i even though i think is true like if a majority didn't agree i would like

05:24:53 probably not say it and this is why we need a patriarchy to come back you guys are failing

05:25:00 at patriarchy though like all these men are like not really standing up to what's right i don't

05:25:05 know how so like i've i honestly believe that if like liberalism at its extreme takes over america

05:25:13 then we will be so like fragile to being invaded or conquered or something and like i don't know

05:25:19 well we kind of already to a degree uh you said invaded could be worse could be like way worse

05:25:28 really soon i don't know i am i'm kind of um i'm pretty bullish i'm pretty optimistic about the usa

05:25:37 there's many many issues many things that are wrong but i think i'm i'm gonna be optimistic 0.56

05:25:45 that uh i think we can do good things all right i gotta fucking wrap uh any anything else any 0.86

05:25:56 final things from anybody i just think these days men are getting a little more feminine and just 0.87

05:26:02 like freaks me out uh well yeah sure and i think women are more masculine why are we going deep

05:26:11 all the way around like we're switching everything 1.00

05:26:14 that's why you need to get yourself a little babushka like

05:26:20 it's a 50 50 hold on my god later did i get it right oh lada i'm changing your name i'm calling 0.84

05:26:33 you l-dog you're l-dog from now on you need to get find yourself a babushka she you know look 1.00

05:26:39 you've been you've been down the wrong path you know you've been you've been fucking asian dudes 1.00

05:26:45 Whoa, that sounds bad 1.00

05:26:47 Hold on, there's more 1.00

05:26:49 There's nothing wrong with fucking Asian dudes 1.00

05:26:51 I'm just saying, she got played by 1.00

05:26:53 Okay, that's, hold on

05:26:54 That was from another podcast

05:26:56 I love Asian guys

05:26:57 I am a number one defender of Asian men 0.99

05:27:00 What I'm saying is, she's fucking Asian dudes 1.00

05:27:02 She's fucking black dudes, she's fucking white dudes 1.00

05:27:04 Latino dudes 1.00

05:27:05 I love diversity

05:27:06 Multiracial

05:27:06 Diversity is a strength

05:27:10 I'm just saying

05:27:12 Look, I don't know why I brought race into it 0.99

05:27:14 I'm fucking delirious. 1.00

05:27:14 I'm literally fucking delirious. 0.99

05:27:16 You're having like a fever. 0.99

05:27:18 I do have a fever. 0.99

05:27:19 I just took fucking 700 milligram of Tylenol. 0.99

05:27:23 I'm just saying. 0.99

05:27:25 I don't know. 1.00

05:27:25 Look, that was a fucking foot in my mouth. 1.00

05:27:27 What I'm saying is, the issue is not the fucking race. 1.00

05:27:30 It's just fucking, you're fucking around too much in L.A. 1.00

05:27:33 You're fucking too many dudes. 1.00

05:27:34 Go find a guy who will take care of you and you won't be toxic and you guys can have kids. 1.00

05:27:44 i don't fuck everyone okay that's not true why did you say that okay 1.00

05:27:59 okay anyways uh okay uh are we forgetting anything t-dog 0.99

05:28:05 fuck it i'm i'm dying i'm dying uh okay uh let me do the outro here thank you guys who made it to 0.97

05:28:17 the end that's originally it was nine one third got cut down now it's survival you made it this 0.98

05:28:27 was you guys were very fit panel i'm proud of you guys survival of the oh was that a

05:28:34 like a compliment she said survival of the fittest so yeah i almost didn't make it

05:28:40 uh wait where is it ah okay 0.98

05:28:44 uh gg well played guys hit the like button short stream i'm fucking dying boys i need a rap 0.81

05:28:53 uh leave a nice comment thank you for tuning in tonight uh thank you to everyone who supports 0.97

05:28:59 the show appreciate it guys sunday 5 p.m pacific live uh live again sorry guys fucking dying here 0.95

05:29:06 fingers crossed i'm fucking better next sunday fingers crossed holy shit this was brutal 0.99

05:29:13 elderberry fucking brutal oh i thought about canceling it but i was like no 0.99

05:29:17 any girls who want to be on the show dm whatever on instagram uh oh seven's in the chat oh seven's 0.98

05:29:25 the chat good night guys and we will see you next time good night guys good night

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Whatever Podcast - August 10, 2026

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