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00:12:39.100Uh, fuck. I feel like it would be better for my ego if we didn't sit right next to each other. I feel like I got, I'm going to move you. I got to move you or something. No, but it's good to have you back, man. Um, let's see. Okay. So that's everyone's, and sorry, we're my age 25. Yes. 25. All right. And Brandon's got some interest, a lot of interesting stories since the last time he was on. So we're going to dive into that. A lot of dating. Got some videos to react to too. Um, all right. We're going to go around the table once more.0.99
00:13:06.700tell us your uh relationship status starting with you i'm single for how long for around two years0.63
00:13:16.220now all right two years and you are like 90 lesbian no no no i'm bisexual you're bisexual0.54
00:13:26.380oh that's weird hold on one sec guys i need to fix uh0.61
00:13:31.300the super chats are coming through on stream labs,
00:13:36.200but we like to feed those in through a stream yard.
00:34:51.400where uh you're vietnamese correct but you were born you're born in the united states yeah i'm
00:34:57.400half phia half chinese okay and then mexican or what i'm filipino and white
00:35:02.420mexican okay let me write that down uh no okay filipina filipina so you're half philip you're
00:35:10.920wasian i'm wasian 50 50 yeah like your mom is my mom is from massachusetts my mom's from
00:35:16.980massachusetts and my dad's from manila your dad's the asian and my mom is the nurse
00:35:21.880oh your mom's the nurse what's your dad do my dad was a clinical laboratory scientist
00:35:27.860okay it's like uh normally you know it's the white father i feel like the kids usually turn
00:35:37.080out a little better if you've got the asian father i don't know maybe how did it turn out
00:35:44.860do you have siblings i do have siblings my brother is actually in a pretty well-known band
00:35:49.480and then i have a sister who lives in texas pretty well-known band you say what's the band
00:35:56.020of mice and men wait of mice and men hold on i've heard of this yeah of mice and men band
00:36:03.440what's their song can you sing it absolutely not sing their song sing their hit no i'm not
00:36:08.920doing that and men that's a book isn't it yeah it's a band too wait let me find the phone
00:36:16.080i'm looking at my brother look yeah i see like a wasian dude okay i see my brother all right
00:36:22.720um hold on i was gonna where hold on let me see where i was gonna have
00:36:26.780the uh questions here one sec question for the but you were born in the united states yes
00:36:34.300okay uh so here's the question for for you for you or wait no wait yeah for you for you for you
00:36:42.660for you okay because you guys have uh a background if that doesn't make any sense but where the
00:36:51.360Hold on. Where is it? How do I never find this? One sec, guys. One second while I find it. Where is it? I have too many notes, chat.
00:37:01.040Guys, if you're enjoying the stream, like the video. Get us to 1,000, 2,000, 3,000 likes. Here it is.
00:37:06.180Okay. In a morally neutral, blame-free hypothetical conflict between the United States and your birth country or the country of your parents' origin, where neither side is right or wrong, to which country is your allegiance?
00:37:26.600Now, starting with you, Tiffany, please get on the computer.
01:05:47.540but yes uh audi i prefer i prefer audis you know so show of hands who has an audi what
01:05:55.820out audi tiffany pull up the discord blm just to show them what we're talking about here1.00
01:06:04.640it's like if your pussy lips like go out oh no no oh oh no no no it's like a heart-shaped box0.98
01:06:14.240i think there's nirvana butterfly they call it butterfly wings butterfly paterodactyl wings0.99
01:06:21.020okay so an audi what i'm talking about big labia audi is on the left any on the right anybody0.95
01:06:27.940any anybody no everybody's an any here okay all right sorry brian shit0.98
01:06:35.720uh that's cool no but i i wish sometimes i can tell though i've got a fucking0.92
01:06:41.460And I can see a girl like and it's not 100 percent, you know, but sometimes I get an impression like I'm like, I bet she's got who's the most likely at the table.
01:09:53.300I think if your parents support you doing OnlyFans, then there's something wrong with them.1.00
01:09:56.900Wow. That's an interesting take. You do OnlyFans though? I do. They don't support it. Do they know? Yeah. Mom and dad? Yeah. Which one's the Vietnamese? The dad? Yeah. Vietnamese dads don't fuck around. So you think that what you're doing is no bueno?
01:10:15.240i mean honestly i'm just like fuck it like the money's good like but like how much money do you0.98
01:10:23.940want how much do you want well i'm doing non-nude so i'm not showing like you do non-nude only fans1.00
01:10:30.340yeah i don't i'm not doing nudie yet i might in the future but not right now you're a fucking liar1.00
01:10:35.780you're a fucking liar no i actually don't right now1.00
01:10:38.460is that like a trick to get people to pay to see if it actually is what do you mean is that what1.00
01:10:45.920that is because then now they're going to be like oh it's not nude well you know with the
01:10:50.140of girls they live out pretty much everything um thanks brian uh religious i am christian and i
01:10:58.760believe in my lord jesus christ as my savior okay what denomination are you um i say like evangelical
01:11:05.960okay um and uh waiting until marriage uh celibate until marriage celibate until marriage okay
01:11:15.720so i am now waiting into marriage but my last relationship um well now it's a decision that
01:11:22.540i have made okay so not a virgin not a virgin but celibate but celibate okay uh christian i was
01:11:29.520raised catholic but i raised my children catholic but you're not religious um i go to church
01:11:35.780i believe in i believe in it why wouldn't i believe in prayer but like tarot and i believe
01:11:42.040in more yeah but isn't that aren't those um are they i don't know if they're heresies but i feel
01:11:48.240like they're not like tarot and that shit's not compatible i started going into the spiritual
01:11:56.200aspect when i went through my divorce because they wanted me to stay in my marriage but it0.92
01:12:00.040wasn't healthy so it didn't feel like i belong there and it was it didn't feel like it christians
01:12:07.640wanted you to stay catholicism catholic yeah yeah i went to i did go to see the priest but yeah in
01:12:12.980catholicism marriage is indisible indisoluble i can't pronounce the word indisoluble is that
01:12:21.940am i saying that right um you can't get divorced in catholicism basically basically so that's
01:12:27.420highly frowned upon that's why i didn't feel it would it would it's that but why the tarot and
01:12:32.640the astrology that's um i feel like that it works for me and you know it does it works for me what
01:12:40.280are you what's your sign i'm a sagittarius rising gemini gemini moon and taurus
01:12:47.440it's okay all right um okay so uh what about you religious no i don't believe in anything okay
01:12:59.560yeah i was raised catholic okay and yeah both of my sides are catholic and yeah they would say it's
01:13:05.560the devil if they heard about tarot or any of that yeah they would say i'm gonna die like an early
01:13:10.160death but you still claim like both at the same time go to church that's very interesting but you
01:13:15.960used to be pretty hardcore catholic i went to catholic school from kindergarten to sixth grade
01:13:21.560i was raised very catholic and you went there and said like hey am i allowed to get a divorce and
01:13:26.360they said no and then you said that it wasn't um acceptable and even though it wasn't healthy or
01:13:38.380okay religious I grew up in a Christian church but once I turned 18 I decided to step down and
01:13:48.500even though I don't believe in God the way that I used to I still believe that there is a higher
01:13:52.180being okay well what about you Christian raised in a traditional Baptist church but I am I believe
01:13:59.220in God but I'm not I don't consider myself Christian can I have you uh just tilt your
01:14:02.940mic down just a tad no you're good uh and brandon you go are you protestant or i am protestant1.00
01:14:09.400presbyterian presbyterian yeah pca not the uh not the gay presbyterians got it we don't like them0.93
01:14:16.520and um sorry got a loud loud truck uh are are you waiting until marriage or to have carnal knowledge0.95
01:14:26.160or um no but i'm very strict about it where i would only do it for like long-term relationships
01:14:31.340long-term relationship yeah okay so never hookups or anything of that it'd have to be a boyfriend
01:14:35.680and yeah and it would have to be more than just like knowing each other for like two months it
01:14:39.880have to be like way longer than that okay um but not a virgin no so you and me brandon are the0.99
01:14:46.280only virgins at this table let's fucking go boys let's go you go to mass every week no i don't0.99
01:14:52.700because i live alone now in la and the the catholic churches in la are a mess they're0.99
01:14:57.420absolute messes that's why you don't go it's because the catholic but i do sometimes make
01:15:01.800it out into rancho because it's like an hour east of la um there's a bunch of catholic churches over
01:15:06.860there all right all right there you go there you go uh okay so um where do we go i was getting
01:15:16.320into the notes oh we have a video uh this kind of went a little bit viral um a video from brandon
01:15:24.580we're gonna go ahead and play that video uh we're gonna put in video tab guys if you're enjoying
01:15:30.480the stream video also reminder guys we're doing instant instant tts now instant tts hundred dollar
01:15:35.280tts go ahead pull it up all right go ahead and play it i am a virgin so i am looking for a virgin
01:15:43.680wife it's very very difficult and i'm 25 years old it leaves me having to date quite a bit younger
01:15:50.680Don't you just hate it when that happens? When you are forced to date barely legal girls, it's the worst, right? Because you need to be with somebody who is a virgin. And it's not enough to be with somebody who is willing to wait until marriage or has rededicated themselves to that. We definitely need a fresh virgin for some reason. And unfortunately, that just leaves young girls like, damn.
01:16:14.980And like I've said many times before, I have zero issue with people who want to wait until they get married.0.99
01:16:48.440And I feel like this has less to do with God and your morals of wanting to wait and has more to do with wanting to be with a woman who is pure and untouched and a lot of other misogynistic things.
01:18:17.740She's immediately trying to do negative framing to try to demonize you, essentially.
01:18:24.640There's a couple other objectionable things there, but I guess before that, why don't you give – by the way, I tried to contact her and invite her on.
01:18:35.920well she didn't respond i sent an email sent a dm well i would i would be scared because i didn't
01:18:42.080even have to respond to that video i actually i made a response and i was just like yikes because
01:18:48.060her entire reaction was so it was so clearly bringing out all of this insecurity that she had
01:18:57.440and i think everybody kind of saw that and there were a couple people that did reactions to it
01:19:01.860They basically showed that she was just getting triggered by it because I think older women don't like the fact that men do prefer younger women.
01:19:12.280And so then they actually like to label you as a PDF file for even liking, you know, 19 year olds thinking that they're pretty, pretty wild.
01:22:15.600and then on top of that she needs to be a virgin so it's we're talking about like 0.01 percent of
01:22:23.520the population here do you have a race preference do i have a race preference yes i prefer my own
01:22:29.540race blonde hair blue eyes but i have sorry dated uh i have dated quite a few different races
01:22:37.320that is the truth so question though on the the virginity thing the woman being the virgin
01:22:43.580is it a hundred percent a necessity we're at that point where yeah it it pretty much like let's say1.00
01:22:52.340here let me give you let's let's see if we can like by the way i think that's a totally fine
01:22:58.600preference but i'm just curious if there's like anything where it's like let's say
01:23:02.720she's had one boyfriend super christian presbyterian based no jab i don't know if you0.99
01:23:11.080care about that but i do care about no jab big time uh never been on birth control fucking0.99
01:23:15.740beautiful your type exactly but she has had that one boyfriend and she's not a virgin0.95
01:23:21.960and like everything else is perfect basically so what's funny is i've actually found
01:23:28.440yeah but i i've seen a lot of women exactly like that before and the truth is i really
01:23:37.260really mesh well with that person who I really, really get along with. I can see possibly making
01:23:46.100an exception, but what's really funny is as time goes on, like previous relationships that I've
01:23:50.860been in, I have been in relationships with women who were not virgins. But like I said, as time
01:23:55.980goes on, it becomes less and less likely. I hold it as more and more of a standard. So my answer
01:24:03.020would be no like even if it was that girl that you're describing brian i uh i don't think i
01:24:10.980would do it uh really quick we'll come back to this topic guys it appears we're having a bit of
01:24:15.900lag on the stream i do see some dropped frames there uh no bueno on that not sure exactly what's
01:24:25.300going on um that's weird um can anybody in the chat if you guys can tell me um in the chat because
01:24:35.340i still see uh frames dropping can you guys tell me when it started has it maybe just say like one
01:24:44.000minute two minutes ago i'm still seeing some people are saying it's better now but i'm still
01:24:50.060seeing dropped frames not sure entirely why that's happening um so that's peculiar uh
01:25:00.300if you can tell me in the chat just right when it started about tiffany have you not been keeping up
01:25:06.400on this tiffany hello okay just you should try to keep an eye on the chats um so i'm not sure
01:25:16.100normally okay um sorry guys we we are having some some lag here some people are saying it's been
01:25:25.480going on for 20 minutes i don't know uh that's strange all right i'm gonna step away for just
01:25:33.240a moment but um does anyone have keep the conversation going for me though anyone have
01:25:38.600any like further questions for brandon here i do okay yeah go for it guys so in a hypothetical
01:25:43.580scenario where you meet this 10 out of 10 girl your type whatever else and she told you she was
01:25:53.320a virgin and you were dating for I don't know six eight months and all of a sudden someone comes up
01:25:58.960to you and they're like hey bro so actually she I don't know she lost her virginity to me
01:26:05.940and he had proof would you drop her what if I told you that's already happened
01:26:10.860how did you handle it well so here's the deal that is exactly the type of reason why i hold it
01:26:21.600as such a boundary like it would i just hate the idea or the fact that there would be another dude
01:26:30.060out there that would know who my wife is and would have been insider that doesn't seem right to me
01:26:37.160very very common in today's society that seems like a massive massive problem and then i know
01:26:44.800you said young like you would rather date someone young is it because if you were to go for someone0.87
01:26:49.660older you would feel intimidated even no no not at all i actually i have dated plenty of older women
01:26:58.280But the truth is when you go younger, they have more likelihood of actually being a virgin in general.
01:27:10.080And so you tend to date somebody that's younger.0.63
01:27:12.760And a lot of girls get offended by that.0.91
01:27:15.620I got a couple angry DMs after I posted that video where girls were like, how dare you say that?
01:27:22.460I'm a virgin and I'm 30 years old.0.96
01:27:24.600And I'm like, well, that's great, but you shouldn't be offended by the fact that when women are on the planet for longer, they tend to give in to the programming of modern culture, and they'll usually end up collecting about 10 bodies a year.0.58
01:42:27.420I've gone out with a couple of girls that just,
01:42:29.000It's like more of a DM set sort of situation where if they message, I'll message them back, figure things out, figure out where they are, if they look like a prospect.
01:42:39.480Because to be honest with you, with social media and online dating, the physical side of things tends to be the first barrier where people get eliminated.
01:42:48.000eliminated because from if you're getting a lot of dms right like look if you get one dm a month
01:42:55.560it's like whatever you can proceed in a bit more of an organic way but if you're getting like
01:43:01.940daily dms weekly dms whatever however much it is honestly it's going to save you a bunch of time
01:43:10.780if you're getting a bunch of inbound interest because like, okay, you don't want to like
01:43:17.660invest like hours of banter and back and forth or even meeting in person or contemplating
02:25:20.120But, okay, so we have maybe somewhere between, I don't know the exact numbers, obviously, because they're undocumented, 20, 30, 40 million illegal immigrants here in this country.0.87
03:07:51.380These women who are boss babes with a good career, they're all older.1.00
03:07:56.780They've been working for a long time, and now they can't have kids.0.99
03:08:00.860And so now they're in a state of delusion.
03:08:02.780where they're telling themselves that they made the right decision prior to kids if she has a job
03:08:09.940that's fine but once we've made a determination like hey we're gonna have kids then i think it
03:08:17.620takes a back seat yeah then it's like okay well i look everything is ultimately comes down to
03:08:24.160everything ends up being negotiable basically look if you're a woman and you want to do this0.68
03:08:30.000thing. Now, I don't think it's the most optimum way to move, but if you want to negotiate that0.99
03:08:34.980with your future boyfriend, husband, whatever, then so be it. Um, but I think probably the best
03:08:40.660dynamic, especially what I think is best for the kids is going to be the mom stays home. The man0.98
03:08:46.620goes out, works, makes the money. I think that that's going to be the best dynamic that's going
03:08:52.220to be offered the best care of the children. And my perspective is once you have kids, uh,
03:08:59.240the kids come first and your, your selfish desires for career achievement. Honestly,
03:09:08.320when you're fucking 70, 80 on your deathbed, I don't think you're going to look back to,0.99
03:09:12.900Oh man, I remember that time I closed that sale. You're going to think of your children. You're1.00
03:09:16.780going to think of the great times you had with your, your boyfriend, husband, whatever it is.
03:09:20.740You're going to think back to that. Not like, Oh my God, I'm so glad I closed that sale,
03:09:24.280blah blah blah like so ultimate fulfillment is going to come from family husband kids that's
03:09:31.560that's the ultimate fulfillment there and the experiences that you have with them and uh so0.75
03:09:36.620ultimately we can do these hypotheticals okay well what if the woman you know she's perfect
03:09:42.460and then she's able to perfectly balance everything and she's not going to be a stress case0.56
03:09:45.960when she gets home from her 50 60 hour work job or whatever while trying to balance like having uh
03:09:52.920having a husband having kids i mean i don't know you got to look from the male perspective you got0.72
03:09:58.620to keep her cortisol low you got to keep her cortisol low she can't be going to some0.97
03:10:02.860fucking stressful job she's working in fact what is she doing jobs can be work can be stressful1.00
03:10:09.080dealing with some dickhead what do you come on we got to keep her cortisol low1.00
03:10:14.340i agree yeah i agree we appreciate that yeah you got to keep what are you doing hey just lounge0.98
03:10:20.500around yeah lounge around do pilates cook clean what else bow bow laundry laundry yep cook clean
03:10:30.020everything's taken care of you don't have to work everything's paid for got a nice house you know0.92
03:10:36.740whatever where do we find a provider man well things are kind of fucked so we're speaking a
03:10:43.860bit idealistically so in a situation where you find a guy who earns and he doesn't have to be
03:10:48.420be making millions a year but there is a threshold of income where that's that is certainly well
03:10:53.920below a million dollars a year and this obviously depends on where you live or want to live like if
03:10:59.720you go live in montana you go maybe there's like high cost of living places in montana i don't know
03:11:05.940but it's really hot it is high in montana it's a bad example ohio maybe like idaho or something or
03:11:12.340ohio or whatever uh kansas or some shit who knows right so there's there's a geography component
03:11:18.140But realistically, though, it is true that probably a lot of women, and might be the majority, because of the current economic and financial realities of the world, the United States, it is, I'm speaking idealistically here with the man earns, the woman stays at home, at least speaking generally.0.96
03:11:39.760for me, I'm a high earner. So like, that's the dynamic I want. But I realized that for a lot of0.83
03:11:44.940women, a lot of men individually, neither of them make a high enough income to hold down the
03:11:50.340household on just one income. So realistically, yeah, you are going to have to have, uh, most
03:11:56.040households will have to be two income households, but that's probably not the ideal, but it is the
03:12:02.800reality so where do you find them uh well depends depends uh you're probably gonna have to date a
03:12:11.380little bit older as a woman typically um this can be just a few you know if you're you're 21 21 yes
03:12:18.20021 so i mean a lot of 21 year old men 22 year old men probably aren't in a position where they're
03:12:23.600making six figures or enough to you know do that but um so you might have to date four or five
03:12:29.720years older 10 years older or older potentially if that's something you want or you date a guy
03:12:35.780who you see who has potential and then maybe not right now but down the road he will be in that1.00
03:12:43.280position where you can have that dynamic you had something i think that that's what a woman's0.71
03:12:48.060career should be like when you start off in the dating market and you're young i think that your0.95
03:12:55.100job is to learn to vet men properly in terms of go going and finding the right one because like
03:13:02.740if you're good at that like don't you know don't work a job where it's this dead-end career like
03:13:08.320go out date men and try to find the man that is worth committing to i think that that's something
03:13:16.440that you develop as a woman we all know that women out there are not good at this especially0.94
03:13:21.980because they're often distracted by their jobs they make terrible choices in men you know and so1.00
03:13:28.020i usually go for high earners but they call me gold digger well i mean look i don't think it
03:13:37.620makes you it doesn't make you i'm not asking for anything as well no no but so i'm asking for i
03:13:42.160don't think it's wrong for a woman to be attracted to or want to date a man who's successful that
03:13:47.780inherently doesn't make you a gold digger but if if it's like the sole focus where it's like you're
03:13:56.040just with him just because of that and you don't feel like a genuine desire or attraction for him
03:14:01.240beyond just what he's doing for you financially that's gold digging but if you're like i'm
03:14:07.480attracted to this guy and he happens to be successful and i want a traditional uh relationship
03:14:12.640dynamic that's not gold digging that's just normal or what should be normal yeah and like
03:14:18.940he said chase the ambition too because you've all probably been out on dates with guys that had like
03:14:23.900no ambition they were smoking weed out of shape like all that type of stuff but then there's guys
03:14:28.140that you go out on dates with who have a ton of ambition and you're like this guy's going somewhere
03:14:32.020eventually like he's gonna figure it out that's what i'm going for and then i don't know other
03:14:38.180people just call me gold either let me i guess i maybe to to finalize the conversation about like
03:14:44.580because a lot of you in this corner agree a woman's career money status makes her more attractive to
03:14:50.420men and it's like look you can take my word for it you can be like no brian that's not true um
03:14:55.700and brandon i don't know about you but like if presented with two options and i you have the hot
03:15:03.600woman who works at chick-fil-a like literally a fast food worker and she's she smells like chick-fil-a1.00
03:15:09.460and shit she smells like chick-fil-a she's working a fast but she's fucking beautiful and like assume1.00
03:15:14.980she's also got like a pleasant personality too she's not some raging bitch or whatever1.00
03:15:19.240or you got the career woman great job she makes 250 000 a year etc etc she's got some degree from1.00
03:15:28.700fucking pepper dine or fucking harvard or some stanford whatever but she's like average looking1.00
03:15:35.880you know i'm telling you 97 of men they're picking the hottie at chick-fil-a give me1.00
03:15:44.040some fucking chicken strips babe bring me home some chicken strips see that's the perks though1.00
03:15:49.300also the perks if she works at chick-fil-a employee discount she's gonna bring me back1.00
03:15:52.940some chick-fil-a she's gonna bring me back some of the sauce great sauce at chick-fil-a she works1.00
03:16:24.460Just as, like, usually these women, they sacrifice a lot of their money and go into a debt in order to get that career in the first place.1.00
03:42:22.280It doesn't matter which way it goes because, like, I saw Indians making fun of Asians or Asians making fun of Indians, and I see how it affected them.
03:42:30.620it's racist well i believe that's beyond just how it affects the person that's irrelevant so a
03:42:37.680person it can just completely like you could walk up to a black person for example like let me ask
03:42:41.860you a question let's test out the logic let's say i walked up to a black person wearing like a kkk0.87
03:42:48.540uniform and i called them the hard rn word i would never do this and they were like i don't mind and0.97
03:42:54.940they did not care at all because they don't care or because it just completely dirt off your
03:43:01.580shoulder. Like it just completely, they, they, they, it just rolled right off of them. It had
03:43:07.380no effect on them whatsoever. They're just so assured of themselves as a black person. They
03:43:11.880don't care. In fact, they're like, that's funny. Is it no longer racist because it didn't affect
03:43:18.520the person? It's still racist, right? So we have to test the logic here. So regardless of the,
03:43:24.300the effect that it potentially has you have to analyze like is this something that meets the
03:43:30.500threshold of racism beyond just whether the person is offended by it or not okay I can agree with
03:43:37.080that okay so we're gonna have to revisit this here can can black people be racist towards white
03:43:44.580people yes black people can be racist towards anybody all right now you're not white asian
03:43:50.960Hispanic is that your new position have I convinced you or are you just saying that maybe I should
03:43:56.080maybe I should have said that first it is racism but I just feel like it's not as bad no it's
03:44:01.560horrible it's horrible I just feel like it doesn't have the same it has the same effect on a person's
03:44:06.680feelings but I think more like societal terms it doesn't have the same effect well look I'm willing
03:44:12.860to or systematic I'd be willing to like grant something like this so I think for for a lot of0.69
03:44:18.800black people some for some black people they probably just like for some they might not care0.52
03:44:23.720but I'm willing to say something like this a white person walking up to a black person and hurling0.62
03:44:28.960racial slurs like the n-word at them is probably going to be more hurtful than if like a for as
03:44:35.560compared to a black person walking up to a white person and using the c-word like probably most
03:44:41.960white people are not going to be as hurt by it they're not going to be as offended there's less
03:44:45.700like historical uh component to it there so i'm willing to grant that but i would still say if
03:44:52.280we're going to just acknowledge something as a as a binary is it racist or is it not um there are
03:45:01.800things that can be more racist or less racist but in terms of does it meet the threshold for racism0.72
03:45:07.540i think you're going to have to say that yes black people can be racist towards let me ask
03:45:14.080your question how about that i wish i asked this first if i go to nigeria where white people don't0.88
03:45:19.060have any systemic power in nigeria and a black person comes up to me i am the captain now or0.93
03:45:26.400wait sorry that would be like somalia or something somalian i'm the captain and he punches me in the0.99
03:45:32.180face and steals my shit and my boat is that racist would that be would that be racist0.99
03:45:39.120don't don't worry about the chat don't worry about the chat it would be racist if he brought1.00
03:45:47.380up your race wait question i'm in nigeria and a black person walks up to me and is like you white0.99
03:45:54.380devil okay punches me in the face yes yes is is that more racist though if i walk up to a black1.00
03:46:00.840person in when i'm in nigeria and i call them the n-word and i kick them in the penis1.00
03:46:05.920no i feel like racism is racism there's no more racist less racist they're just racist1.00
03:46:13.060you were saying there's more no i'm saying like in a system or a cultural or a societal terms
03:46:19.460in wise or whatever also also final thing on the racism topic uh if you guys remember during
03:46:25.160covid bringing laura into this um in san francisco there's like all these reports like remember the
03:46:30.900of like stop Asian hate thing or whatever um there's all these reports of like Asian people
03:46:35.620being attacked in San Francisco and they wanted to they wanted to suggest that this was like0.99
03:46:39.960the evil white man was doing this uh but actually um it was just fucking black people beating up0.99
03:46:46.280Asians it was just black people beating up Asians but they didn't want to report on that which I1.00
03:46:50.580thought was interesting but there there were there were like gangs of black people and again just to0.99
03:46:55.140be clear I'm not saying it was all black people um or anything like that it was probably a small1.00
03:46:59.360minority of black people probably a lot of them were gang affiliated and they were like preying0.99
03:47:03.720on asian people and they're beating up like elderly asian people and stealing their purses0.92
03:47:08.340and their money and doing all this sort of stuff um because they maybe saw them as easy targets
03:47:13.480uh that seems like kind of racism to me that asians that asians experienced also the other
03:47:21.680racism that asians experience is you have like harvard and harvard was sued for this
03:47:27.800Um, so basically if you look at the SAT scores required to get into like Harvard, Stanford, all these Ivy league schools, they actually would, in order to get in, basically, if you're Asian, your IQ hat or not, excuse me, not IQ, your SAT scores have to be the highest.
03:47:43.220And then like white is here, Latino is here, Native American here, black down here.
03:47:47.840And so what they were doing is, is they were basically saying, whoa, Asian people are too smart.0.71
03:47:52.200uh and they're like okay well we're going to penalize asian students even though they're
03:47:57.680technically from a merit perspective they have the best grades they're you know they have the
03:48:02.300highest sat scores we're going to uh so basically it was creating this other form of racism where
03:48:10.220if you're asian uh if you had been black and you had way lower sat scores you would have gotten in
03:48:18.460but instead they let somebody else in exactly like being black i feel like it's actually like0.95
03:48:23.680a privilege like it's a superpower low-key oh boy like definitely a rage-baiting answer0.79
03:48:29.640no it actually is just like do you wish you're black you can score half of what i scored but0.98
03:48:35.100then get into the same school you date black guys what hey i i saw you do some content with rhino0.99
03:48:41.940did you smash no on god on my mother's life because i always see i don't know if he watches
03:48:49.680the show like i'll do he does watch the show i'll do i'll do is that how he found you no actually
03:48:55.080you knew him before the you came on yeah yeah because he's always i think he's got a asian0.97
03:49:00.060fetish because he's always doing shit with asian girls you know wait actually0.96
03:49:04.720most of his content is not with asian girls but he probably has a preference i don't know i've1.00
03:49:11.000i've seen him do a lot of stuff like maybe i it's just i've only seen a handful of his shit0.79
03:49:16.120he's been on the show like i think two times a long time ago do you think it's wrong to have0.79
03:49:20.820a preference for asians no i don't think like dating preference no i think that's fine i think
03:49:27.140it's fine well yeah you're asian to say that to say that being black is a privilege oh boy i'm
03:49:36.260sorry i gotta stand up for my people real quick oh but i'm the only black in here too i'm technically
03:49:41.120african-american please i'll explain it i'll explain it but to say that like being black0.96
03:49:48.380is a privilege when the most disrespected woman in america is a black woman is crazy1.00
03:49:53.760wait who's the most queen latifah respected woman who's the wait wait who is it the most0.99
03:49:59.880disrespected oprah no i think michelle obama what are you i think it's like nina simone
05:38:05.360in the 2010s okay the transformers era all right let's do the let's do we're gonna do the uh
05:38:14.000let's see here uh okay uh dating you got some dating horror stories brandon
05:38:21.980i saw do you want to recount the story um one of your day horror stories tell us the story
05:38:30.840I had a girl that was trying to convince me that she was a pure, great woman, because they often find my social media and things along those lines.
05:38:40.780And while I was on the date, I got a text from a friend that said...
05:38:47.120Claim donated $100. Marriage is a creation of man and the state.
05:38:52.780What piece of paper makes sex acceptable to God?
05:38:55.760was every coupling before the church existed a sin beyond man what defines marriage marriage is
05:39:03.720in the eyes of god it's not with the government if anything i recommend keeping the government
05:39:10.040as far away from it as possible that's my answer to that but um yeah the horror story was i was
05:39:18.320out on a date with her and I got a text from the guy or from a guy that I knew at the time and he
05:39:26.620basically said abort mission and I was like what do you mean so I just sent back a question mark
05:39:34.120and he said I heard you're out with this girl because apparently she had been messaging or
05:39:39.720she'd been telling a bunch of people that she was going out with me which is kind of a common thing
05:39:44.180And then he said when she was in a relationship with her last boyfriend that she had cheated on her boyfriend with that guy that was texting me.
05:39:55.920So I basically learned right then and there with her right across the table from me that she was not only somebody that was promiscuous, but actually would cheat on somebody.
05:40:08.360And that, as you can imagine, is not good.
05:40:12.860it's a very big red flag well if you've cheated on somebody in the past it's like it's gonna
05:40:17.980happen again in the future i don't know you some of you guys talked about uh how you think that
05:40:23.460people can change and that their their past shouldn't matter i uh i disagree with that
05:40:29.180very wholeheartedly i think that past matters a lot i think that you're just using pattern
05:40:36.320recognition because if somebody operated some way in the past the best way to predict their
05:40:42.640future behavior is to look at their past behavior so even if somebody has uh even if somebody's
05:40:49.800been promiscuous even if a woman has like dedicated herself to god like you still have
05:40:55.240to take very much into consideration their their past i think that that's insane of you not to do
05:41:03.440it do any of you guys disagree with that i know some of you guys said that you don't think that
05:41:08.260the past should matter but i think you said that yeah i did say that um 100 in the eyes of the
05:41:14.280lord it really doesn't matter and that's what i stay true to so man can tell me whatever but
05:41:20.940in the eyes of the lord the past is redeemed would you ever have a in the eyes of the lord
05:41:25.540the past is redeemed i also actually agree with that fully but at the same time in the eyes of
05:41:31.860man it is different like so you would get would you hold it against a man to uh if he said like
05:41:39.220hey this is something that i need to take into consideration or i guess in your situation you
05:41:43.680only have one body so it's not that big of a deal but would you say that i'm wrong for holding it
05:41:48.240against a woman if she's had 20 bodies or even 100 bodies no because that's a preference so if0.98
05:41:53.820you want a woman that has zero bodies and that's preference for you and that's totally respectable
05:41:59.800at the end of the day would you be angry at a man if he took that into account with your past0.98
05:42:05.040no no because that's his decision very very reasonable that's great yeah before you said
05:42:11.520that you would date a felon what if he murdered someone or he killed his wife or something like
05:42:18.840that oh no at that point i can't it doesn't matter a little bit um i guess you could say that sure
05:49:33.220Yeah, but the women will lie about how pure they are because they think that men desire them a lot more.1.00
05:49:43.980But what's really funny is that these women, you'll be able to see through the facade because they will always break their rules for the men that they deem to be of higher value.0.98
05:49:56.840So if you're a man and she's not somewhat willing to break her rules for you, like if she has these supposed rules and she's telling you them and she's trying to get you to think that she's pure, she's shit testing you.0.77
05:50:12.040And basically, if you are a man who a woman really wants, then oftentimes they'll just be totally willing to break those rules, which is one thing that's really hard for Christians in dating is the fact that the women will often break the rules for the man that they really want, but then they don't uphold their values in those situations.0.58
05:50:34.340but then for the men that they deem as beta they uphold those values and they say you're not getting
05:50:40.820any sex because you're a beta but then if somebody else comes into the picture that they really want
05:50:46.520they'll sacrifice it out the window i have an interesting somewhat interesting story on this
05:50:51.060so i'm i'm uh this girl dm'd me this was like 2023 a long time ago and she was like said she
05:50:59.640was christian and i was like hey look i have pro-christian sentiment but i'm not christian
05:51:03.640um and i was telling her like hey look you're attractive whatever but uh this is like a recap
05:51:10.400i'm not this isn't verbatim and i was like but look hey um you're waiting for marriage i'm not
05:51:15.740um and she hit me up once one or two more times wanting to hey checking in are you down to wait
05:51:23.040for marriage i was like nah turns out she like this was uh two three months ago she reaches back
05:51:29.880out because now she's a hater of the show and she's like i don't like your show anymore blah0.98
05:51:34.660blah blah um anyways talking shit and i was just like oh so how's the waiting for marriage thing0.99
05:51:39.980going keep in mind she wanted to make me wait until marriage and do all that shit she got1.00
05:51:46.060fucked she fucked a dude uh within so basically she met some guy on a dating app or some shit1.00
05:51:52.660they lived like a couple hours apart they they meet the first night they don't fuck the second1.00
05:51:57.700night she fucks lets him hit raw he comes inside of her she has a pregnancy scare i don't think0.99
05:52:03.560she gets maybe she gets abortion i'm not sure she was vague about it and i'm like so i would1.00
05:52:08.960have been the sucker that waited for marriage for this girl when you went and let some guy bust a0.99
05:52:16.360nut in you not that look i'm fine with people having premarital sex but how are you going to1.00
05:52:21.720hold me to this how are you going to make me a sucker and say oh i'm waiting till marriage blah1.00
05:52:27.280and then just like go out and just fuck some dude like that's crazy it's that's really crazy i think1.00
05:52:34.320most guys in like christian relationships are they're kind of being cucked like that in a very0.99
05:52:41.120similar way but like i mean what is the solution for the christian guys because obviously the
05:52:45.420christian guys they should wait exactly yeah but it's like it seems like it's kind of a raw deal
05:52:50.640when it's the woman doesn't have that same level of enthusiasm about waiting and she's just like
05:52:55.760doing it in furtherance of getting the guy or because like she thinks it's the right thing to0.79
05:53:00.500do and it's not like some actual moral foundation or sexual moral foundation for doing this and then
05:53:07.140like say you break up with that girl who like she wanted to wait you wanted to wait and then she just0.71
05:53:13.680goes out and like fuck some random dude completely and it's like or the guy before like the guy she0.99
05:53:20.520was with before she fucked in she got it yep he got it but you don't even though you're the0.99
05:53:26.640better person all right but i mean i guess the dilemma is obviously if you're the christian guy0.99
05:53:32.820you shouldn't want to have sex with her right like you should want but it seems like it's a raw deal
05:53:38.460where like it is definitely a tricky situation but what i would say is in the relationships
05:53:45.580that i look for there's very much like a power dynamic some people are going to have a problem
05:53:53.580with me using those words but the wife is submissive if the wife isn't submissive it's a0.99
05:53:59.880no-go and those women they're always looking to control the man because they're like using access1.00
05:54:06.200to their bodies as a tool to control him and so if you feel like you're getting that from a woman0.99
05:54:12.720And if you can feel like she is almost using that in order to control you or that you're becoming incredibly docile and passive because of that, then it's not a good relationship.0.98
05:54:23.880You shouldn't be in that relationship.
05:54:25.820I'm going to get back to some more of your notes in a second, Brandon, but I'm going to move to Ney.
06:16:03.160look, and this would happen to men too. If men had the same experience, like think if we reverse0.69
06:16:10.480the roles here, here's the role reversal. Now this happens for women. It doesn't happen for men.1.00
06:16:16.300Imagine a scenario where women who are one, two, three, four points more attractive than me1.00
06:16:23.600physically. They want to sleep with me once, twice, three times. They string me along for1.00
06:16:29.660situationships and they just want to use me for sex but they're really hot and then this entire0.97
06:16:35.200time there's all these average looking women who are on my who are my level yeah what's up0.98
06:16:40.940it's not what's frozen it looks fine i think they're trolling i think it's fine1.00
06:16:48.240i think they're trolling chat here tell me if it's fine i think it's fine um here fuck0.93
06:16:57.420unfortunate i was like right in the middle of something uh everything looks fine on my end0.95
06:17:03.760what's the chat saying nothing's okay all right um what was i saying okay the rule reversal so0.50
06:17:11.620um the average girls want a relationship with me but i'm like why would i i'm getting sex from all1.00
06:17:20.680these really attractive women sure they don't want to like be in a long-term relationship with me0.94
06:17:25.520but i'm getting sex from them why would i date you why would i be with you so like that's kind1.00
06:17:32.960of what's happening with women where you women have access to limited access so you don't get1.00
06:17:38.940relationships from these guys you get passed around by the fuck boys and all the chads or1.00
06:17:43.500whatever and so the role reversal essentially would be if a bunch of victoria's secret models1.00
06:17:50.900just wanted to fuck me or i could have a relationship with like an average looking1.00
06:17:57.500frumpy girl like my equivalent or whatever i'm gonna just fuck the victoria's secret models1.00
06:18:03.200that's but that doesn't happen in real life if i step to a victoria's secret model instant1.00
06:18:08.900rejection slide into her dms she probably doesn't even see it doesn't respond you women you guys1.00
06:18:16.580slide into an nfl player you know you slide you slide into a dude's dms you make yourself like
06:18:21.740the difference is i underscore heart underscore ghost rider donated 100 brian famous men will
06:18:30.160try to lock down good women but good beautiful women they want handsome hard-working loyal men
06:18:37.640like you get with the program uh so look i mean sometimes these guys will settle down with these
06:18:44.160women but i think um wait what want handsome hard-working loyal men like you go with the
06:18:51.820program okay uh well thank you ghostwriter i appreciate it thank you thank you um i guess0.99
06:18:55.800the point i'm trying to make here is that men don't really have this wait fuck i lost my train0.76
06:19:00.460of thought does anybody recall like the last few words i was i think it was you with victoria's0.65
06:19:05.760secret models yeah secret model something like that yeah yeah but essentially um i don't know0.96
06:19:11.460where i was going with that fuck r.i.p in the chat boys yeah that doesn't happen that doesn't0.92
06:19:15.680happen yeah the reverse doesn't happen i think i was just saying like if i approach like a really0.99
06:19:19.460hot chick uh who's just like clearly out of my league or whatever uh guys can be kind of realistic
06:19:24.700because we get rejected immediately so oh i know what i was gonna say so as men if we're pleasant
06:19:31.680like if we're just pleasant and we offer up sex to women like that's not a guarantee that that
06:19:39.740woman is going to opt to have sex at a much higher frequency. If you're a woman and you're pleasant
06:19:46.880and you give men sex on a silver platter, like you're just DT, you're down much more men will0.98
06:19:53.780take you up on that opportunity. But these men don't have a long-term interest in you. They don't
06:19:59.020have a long-term, uh, not necessarily they might, or they might not. But the difference you have to
06:20:04.980think about is that a man, not Brandon here, because he's a virtuous man, men will sleep with
06:20:12.200a woman who just on looks alone, they would never be in a relationship with, but they'll sleep with
06:20:18.700them just to get like the nut, just to get the sexual satisfaction, but they would never be in1.00
06:20:23.540a relationship with you. So, and there's a difference there. I think for a woman to sleep0.97
06:20:29.400with a guy she the guy has to be at least physically attractive enough that she would0.91
06:20:35.620be in a relationship with him that's just sad it's sad because it's true it's because you know
06:20:43.700it's facts it is you know she knows it's facts well what what's the sad part about it the sad
06:20:50.020part is that men would sleep with technically every moment they meet yeah that's sad well it's
06:21:00.380also sad that women overlook good men who are on their league because they're so uh they're so
06:21:08.980stimulated by the more attractive guy who's willing to give them limited access to them
06:21:14.440so you have women who will chase after hyper attractive men that's just psychology i would say
06:21:21.340for both men and women right but like i think there's there's a much smaller proportion
06:21:28.060of men who are hyper attractive who are taking advantage of the abundance of sexual options
06:21:34.020as compared like you can be an average average woman and as long as you're pleasant and you
06:21:39.760make yourself sexually available to a hyper attractive guy it's not a guarantee you're0.99
06:21:43.840going to be able to fuck him. But like you have a much better chance than the reverse, which is0.99
06:21:49.160if you're an average looking dude and you're pleasant and you make yourself sexually available
06:21:54.220to like a hyper attractive woman, that hyper attractive woman is not going to take you up
06:21:59.340on the casual sex. They're just going to be like not interested. Now that's not a criticism of1.00
06:22:04.880women there. That's really, uh, women have, um, a higher threshold. They're a bit more,1.00
06:22:10.200a bit more or quite a bit more selective but it does create this dilemma where0.96
06:22:16.740you have women the moment because look this this fixed itself when sex was gate kept by marriage
06:22:24.740because like if i in order to have sex with a woman i have to marry her and put in months and0.99
06:22:31.380months and months and months of time and all this shit then the guys are not going like the men are0.99
06:22:36.320going to pursue the women that they have genuine interest in and similar the women will pursue the0.99
06:22:41.920men they have gin but when sex is just essentially just a handshake nowadays and it's just like okay1.00
06:22:47.500let's fuck um that creates that creates this uh differential where women are look everybody wants1.00
06:22:55.980to get the best they can get right so women want super attractive provider provider maybe even i1.00
06:23:05.600I don't know. When women are young, they don't really care that much about provider, but1.00
06:23:08.320they want super hot dudes. They want the hot guys, the fun guys, whatever. They're going to1.00
06:23:14.200gravitate towards men with high status. That's why, you know, you look at famous musicians,
06:23:18.640actors, athletes, these men typically have no shortage of women who are willing to0.99
06:23:23.020date them, sleep with them, et cetera. So it does create this sort of0.79
06:23:28.060differential to, I don't know. I don't know. Social media has made it so much worse because
06:23:33.040every single one of you guys has access to being able to put yourself out there and attract the
06:23:37.960type of man that would be like high status and because men are very very open to sex like if
06:23:44.640it's offered to them on a platter there's very few men that will say no it basically just corrupts0.70
06:23:50.420women like i think having an instagram i think instagram's like the worst thing to have going
06:23:55.860back to the career and so if we're not on the same level that would be something you describe
06:24:04.100right now every woman can like have a higher up guy but we're now on the same level so my career
06:24:10.840like your top 10 actor but i'm just a store manager or something yeah what about it then
06:24:20.280we're not equals he would still probably maybe want to f me but we're not equals to
06:24:28.520well yeah but to actually date right but that's what i'm saying you like a a millionaire who has
06:24:34.460a yacht will date wait wait i'm sure can you explain sir i'm maybe so um before that you said
06:24:45.620that a provider maybe a rich man would like pick a 10 out of 10 girl despite her career but now
06:24:55.020you're kind of saying that you should be equals in terms of career i think i see what you're saying0.99
06:25:03.560i think i see what you're saying otherwise the man he just would wanna fuck a few0.94
06:25:09.840no so i mean i i think that when it comes to like whether it's short-term or long-term yes like0.94
06:25:18.040a guy who has long-term well i i don't know if this fully maps on i think my point still stand
06:25:25.320my point certainly does still stand is that yes when it comes to money because money is not like
06:25:31.000an attraction trigger however like things like physical appearance uh are mutually attract1.00
06:25:37.080mutual attraction triggers but basically you can have like an average looking woman0.64
06:25:41.940who is going to have sexual limited sexual access to men outside of her league and so0.54
06:25:50.020look it's it's the draw is there like women will shoot their shot or maybe the guy even shoots his1.00
06:25:57.400shot um trying to the the average girl wants to fuck the nfl player wants to fuck the actor1.00
06:26:06.920wants to fuck the super rich guy and um that's going to not the the money component isn't1.00
06:26:14.860necessarily so much the issue but it's like the total value so the total value differential could0.99
06:26:20.320be an issue so if you have like a beautiful uh no no you have like an average looking girl1.00
06:26:26.920who works at chick-fil-a like she might be able to fuck like a really hot dude1.00
06:26:32.580with a good job okay yeah if you're sliding into a guy's dms he's not going to your page and1.00
06:26:39.580thinking what does she do for work like oh she's only a pilates instructor0.99
06:26:44.900that's not how it works but wouldn't wouldn't it be sexual if they look only at your attractiveness1.00
06:26:52.400well isn't that that's exactly what's going on though yeah but then they look at you that's
06:26:58.800like sexual in the sexual way but and then they think oh just short-term fun yeah i mean that's
06:27:07.820exactly how they look at it especially a guy with a lot of abundance he's gonna take every woman
06:27:11.880that's what i'm saying like if you are a 10 out of 10 and most men would look at you at set in
06:27:18.420in a sexual way well okay and look at you as a short-term fun neither either either than the
06:27:26.000The original point here is she was saying, now you're a single mom, three kids, two fathers, uh, you're 44 you, um, and hold on, I'm pulling your notes back up. So you said you've dated famous athletes, UFC fighter, NFL alumni, MLS player, famous actors, an attorney, a music engineer. So like wealthy guys, physically fit guys, men with who maybe have status.
06:27:53.420are you a famous athlete? No. So women, my contention here is I don't look, I don't think
06:28:00.520you need to have perfect symmetry or reciprocity in your ad. Like, okay. Must you be a famous
06:28:07.980female athlete to date a famous male athlete? No. Like there can be asymmetry in what people want.
06:28:14.860But I think the issue is, is that your average run of the, your average run of the mill woman
06:28:21.700has far more access to men who are outside of her league than do like average men definitely do not
06:28:28.660have any access to women outside of their league so you can be like a normal girl and slide into
06:28:37.060a ufc fighters dms or an n a guy who played in nfl or mls or whatever and you can get sex once
06:28:46.400two three times you can be strung along you can be in a situation ship and hey maybe if you roll
06:28:51.120the dice a small percentage chance maybe you do end up dating the guy it's not impossible0.98
06:28:55.280however these women tend to overlook the guys who are actually more so on their league1.00
06:29:01.620who are more so in their league so it's like average girls here look to make it simple
06:29:07.220average women don't want to date average men that's the position average women don't want
06:29:14.820to date average men that seems like a bit of an unfair proposition if you're an average woman
06:29:19.620in totality go find yourself an average guy in totality but instead but even though like even
06:29:26.680putting that aside i think the other component is for you i think you're probably fine dating an
06:29:31.840average guy yeah but that average guy now is going to be measured up and against it shouldn't
06:29:37.660all these other men who you've dated you've dated a famous athletes the average dude is not a famous
06:29:43.940athlete. No, but maybe his heart is bigger. Sure. And his brain is smarter. So, right. But I think
06:29:49.440there's a, there, there is a comparison that's going to be made. Once a woman's been dicked down1.00
06:29:53.460by a certain type of guy, you're going to play the comparison game. And once a woman's been0.87
06:29:58.580dicked down properly, or once she's done dealt with a famous dude and you get all, you get the
06:30:03.960perks of dating a famous guy or a rich guy, it's going to be very hard to like rewind and revert
06:30:09.720back to dating a normal guy an average guy you're gonna hold the normal guy in to some degree in0.98
06:30:16.180contempt if i was bank running through supermodels and then but none of them wanted to fucking marry1.00
06:30:22.300me or be in a long-term relationship and then the only women who want to marry me or be in a1.00
06:30:27.260relationship with me are average looking chicks i'm gonna be like can i even get hard like can i1.00
06:30:34.260even like she was this this other girl who just fucked me once or twice she used me but it was0.98
06:30:41.000like whoa the traction is like insanely there and now i gotta but that doesn't happen to men but0.98
06:30:47.840that's what's happening to women to articulate the point so y'all deal with hyper attractive
06:30:53.880dudes you let them crack and then like average guy comes along again it's the same thing how do0.99
06:30:59.500you go from living in a mansion to living in a dorm room with three roommates and no private
06:31:06.800bathroom that stings that hurts you're used to the good life once you've gotten the good life
06:31:12.420how do you go back how do you go back to the bad life or so i was just happy going on a date with
06:31:18.520somebody that could walk this year okay we get it we get it i look ultimately it's just i think my
06:31:25.680my analogy about say you went to college and you lived in a dorm room with three people and you
06:31:33.320shared a bathroom with four people and then you move out of the dorms and you have your own place
06:31:38.720and it's nice private one bedroom apartment and it's got a good view and you have a private
06:31:45.260bathroom you don't have to share a bathroom you don't have to share a kitchen no roommates
06:42:54.240But, you know, you're an elementary school kid say one thing or you have a disagreement with somebody.
06:42:59.480But no, I wouldn't say I was bullied in school.0.97
06:43:03.820I've had here and there somebody say something mean to me, but nothing like fucking stealing my lunch money or getting put in the toilet or anything like like severe bullying.0.94