Whatever Podcast - ALL HELL BREAKS LOOSE？! 62 Year Old vs. Andrew⧸Rachel! He Brought His MOM On A Date？! ｜ Dating Talk #239

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00:04:48.660 without further ado we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age

00:04:55.360 location so like where you're from occupation and education go ahead starting with you um my name's

00:05:02.540 eva i'm 24 i'm occupation uh yeah occupation i'm a fitness coach and i graduated with a bs in

00:05:13.000 kinesiology and i'm based in san diego all right based in san diego and uh did you go to ucsd

00:05:20.500 uh sdsu sdsu okay and you got your bs from there yes all right cool welcome and you're uh

00:05:26.140 always from san diego like that's where you grew up or moved there for school i moved around a lot but

00:05:31.320 mainly lived in san jose the longest got it okay what about you um i'm chloe yummy and i'm 18 years

00:05:39.840 old and i do instagram and only fans okay and uh where are you from um charlotte north carolina

00:05:49.800 okay and any um university college no sadly not okay like a semester or something or no

00:05:59.260 no okay all right how long you've been doing of four um about like five months now when did you turn

00:06:07.020 18 um may 27th so i'm so like a couple months okay so a couple months after you turned it you

00:06:14.200 didn't like some of these girls would like drop it right on their 18th birthday which is a little 1.00

00:06:18.700 um no it was like a couple months a couple months after you turned 18 okay all right what about you

00:06:24.620 uh my name is theresa i am 30 years old i'm based out of los angeles i'm a dj and before i became a dj

00:06:32.260 i graduated the registered massage therapy program massage therapy okay any uh university or

00:06:38.340 like normal standard college it was a college back in canada oh you're from canada yeah that okay

00:06:43.540 what part vancouver toronto vancouver okay is there like a nickname for you guys rain couver because it

00:06:50.160 rains all the time a couver rain rain couver yeah okay got it okay so vancouver and uh you said you

00:06:57.900 got a like a massage therapy license yeah any like uh undergrad like or i mean when i went to college it

00:07:04.820 was basically all the courses were within the program okay got it cool and how long you've been

00:07:12.740 in los angeles for four years do you are you um are you trying to get like citizenship or do you have

00:07:18.660 work in progress so you have like a green card or how does that work like a visa to work here or how's

00:07:24.260 it work are you an illegal immigrant long story but work in progress okay watch out with the new 1.00

00:07:31.320 administration they're gonna they're gonna deport you um okay cool so welcome uh welcome what about

00:07:36.360 you oh wait actually sorry uh you said you're a dj do you also do music production uh i just released

00:07:42.620 a remix my first track um last month i dj'd rolling loud this last month and last year okay what kind of

00:07:52.100 uh what's the music that you produce or dj i'm trying to tap into the house music scene so

00:07:57.820 trying to step away from hip-hop and go into the more edm bag okay do you sing too or just i do not

00:08:04.480 sing okay just like producing dj got it all right what about you my name is lauren i am here from

00:08:11.080 houston texas i went to um high school in houston but i was in san diego for 10 years so glad to be

00:08:17.560 back here in california i have a chemistry bachelor's of science um from trinity university age

00:08:25.380 oh i'm 36 36 yeah and um what else i also oh i wrote a little book it's called crazy good

00:08:33.580 okay what's that about um it's a mental health like advocacy it's a poetry book too

00:08:39.960 so i i spit bars you spit bars okay there you go all right and um okay from texas uh and you said

00:08:50.300 you got your what your degree in what again sorry chemistry is it a master's bachelor's no bs bs in

00:08:57.500 chemistry okay i got published in undergrad too oh you had like a paper published in what journal

00:09:04.020 um chemistry the european journal okay what was the area of focus on it had to do with cucurbit

00:09:11.080 eight-year-old in benzobisamidazoleum and being able to uh do um thermodynamic studies of that oh

00:09:20.020 yeah i know all about that yeah yeah okay that's awesome yeah cool what about you i'm holly i'm 62

00:09:28.100 years old from burbank i am an author artist i went to pasadena art center uh with children's stories

00:09:36.560 and foster and kleiser where they used to paint the billboards painted warner bros warner brothers

00:09:44.040 billboards in my early years they don't do that anymore now okay all right and um sorry and have

00:09:52.960 you been in the la area for most of your life or yeah burbank forever forever yeah okay forever

00:09:59.460 traveled the world but burbank all right cool welcome welcome what about you hi i'm jade i'm 32

00:10:06.200 from los angeles california and i'm a dj and producer and i had a i have a bachelor's in media

00:10:13.600 management from cal state northridge cal state northridge okay got it and uh what do you do

00:10:19.020 you do any singing or i used to do a little singing but i realized i like djing and producing a lot more

00:10:25.280 okay all right what about you i'm amanda i'm 36 i'm a tv film hairstylist i live in los angeles i have

00:10:35.100 a bachelor's from uc santa barbara and i have my cosmetology license oh you went here to school

00:10:40.180 i went here ucsb okay uh you graduated uh when in 2011 2011 and that's sorry your degree was in what

00:10:48.580 in sociology and i minored in writing okay sociology minor in writing got it okay uh what about you

00:10:56.280 hi i'm evelyn i'm 36 years old i'm a lawyer uh i'm from argentina but i'm living in la since

00:11:04.300 one year and a half and here i'm trying to become an actress and i've been working as a model and

00:11:11.840 actress my whole life so now i'm 100 sure that this is my thing and you were a lawyer in argentina

00:11:18.500 yeah you're not a lawyer no okay here um what what made you i guess uh or how how long have you been

00:11:25.140 practicing law law like 12 years now yeah but i quick because i needed to come here i needed to be in

00:11:31.560 hollywood in la and pursue my dreams so that's why i'm here right now and you said you moved here

00:11:36.220 about a year ago yeah one year and a half okay and what uh what's the procedure or i guess the process

00:11:43.260 for becoming an attorney in argentina like so do you go to normal university and then once you finish

00:11:49.040 with that you go to law school uh no it's completely different in south america uh you finish your high

00:11:57.520 school like after five or six years and then you go to university right away and then you study for

00:12:03.480 six years or five yeah so and then you complete and then you are a lawyer what was your uh area of

00:12:10.960 practice uh financial law and economic law i'm uh writing my thesis right now um because i want to

00:12:18.240 finish my phd but i'm in the process right now yeah okay and you did uh you did actually practice law

00:12:24.220 though right yeah yeah i was working for the justice okay gotcha what do you think about the

00:12:29.040 new uh president of argentina malay malay yeah it's a big yeah it's a big change for us uh but yeah i'm

00:12:37.360 happy okay yeah thank you yeah i know i know i know him uh so yeah it's a big change for us but

00:12:44.040 hopefully everything is going to be better now and we are happy because we need it we need this change

00:12:48.340 so it's it's good okay all right well welcome thank you all right we're going to go around the

00:12:52.740 table once more so what is everybody's current relationship status so are you single talking

00:12:59.360 stage to it whatever it is if you're single how long have you been single and what's the longest

00:13:03.660 relationship you've ever been in starting with you um in a relationship all right how long have you

00:13:09.500 guys been together a year and a half all right one and then is this your longest relationship

00:13:17.200 no what was your longest relationship two years two years okay uh in your two-year relationship

00:13:25.140 who broke up with who i broke up with him all right and i'm trying to think and these are uh

00:13:32.380 you've only dated these two guys is that correct okay all right and okay what about you

00:13:39.660 um i have a boyfriend um i actually do only fans of him and i love him how long have you been with

00:13:48.960 him um like a year now one year have you had any other relationships or is this it um yeah i had

00:13:56.300 four other boyfriends before him okay how old is he um my boyfriend's 22 22

00:14:04.900 22 so he was is that so he's 21 and you were 17

00:14:12.140 okay all right uh okay so you've been and wait so you had been dating him and it was his was it his

00:14:23.580 idea to start the of or was it yours um no it was my i mean i wouldn't say it was my idea but my old

00:14:32.060 manager he reached out to me on instagram and i didn't have any followers at the time

00:14:37.440 and he said that i would be like perfect for like cosplay and only fans and stuff and he like brought

00:14:43.800 me into only fans and then like a month ago i just now started doing videos with my boyfriend

00:14:51.280 okay got it um has your boyfriend expressed any uh like did he not want you to start of or was he

00:15:00.740 cool with it um honestly he was really supportive um and he really enjoys like being on only fans he

00:15:09.700 doesn't do only fans he actually like wears like a scream mask in all of my videos so you can't even

00:15:16.360 like see his face wait what is it a toggle what is it a scream mask he wears a scream mask oh okay from

00:15:27.880 the movie all right okay uh what about you um i'm exclusively dating someone right now but we're not

00:15:36.500 in a committed relationship yet all right so not not a relationship yet yet you're but you're not single

00:15:47.280 or are you single i mean technically i am but i am exclusively dating someone and and feeling out

00:15:54.120 the connection to see if it can become a committed relationship how long have you guys been uh

00:15:59.300 talking i guess uh but we've been talking since end of february so like two months yeah two months

00:16:05.920 okay what's your longest relationship uh almost five years five years all right who broke up with who

00:16:12.280 i broke up with him okay and then uh prior to meeting this new guy how long had you been single

00:16:18.400 uh four months four months four months got it was that the one that the five-year relationship

00:16:27.400 that ended four months ago okay what was your second longest relationship second longest so you

00:16:33.460 said yeah the five about uh probably like a year and a half year and a half got it okay who broke up

00:16:39.980 with who i also broke up with him of all your relationships did you always end it yes every single

00:16:46.200 one there's not like one guy why one one guy did break my heart okay um it's like in elementary

00:16:52.980 school or something no uh it was like two years ago i'd say i was probably one of my most toxic

00:16:59.440 relationships what did you do that was so toxic uh i mean i didn't think i was toxic oh oh the

00:17:07.720 relationship it's no it was him that was toxic i mean it takes two to tango so okay so you were also

00:17:13.000 both of both of you were being toxic i'd say i was only toxic because i didn't know how to like

00:17:19.360 fend for myself or stand up for myself i just let him walk all over me i see okay good times good

00:17:27.880 times what about you so i am dating myself right now um love yeah we love that self-love so

00:17:38.460 what okay so yeah i'm just kind of doing my own thing right now um and it's really fun i like it um

00:17:47.480 my longest relationship was five years he broke up with me okay five years uh how long have you been

00:17:56.660 dating yourself um since july of last year i was engaged and so i got disengaged ever married never

00:18:06.520 any kids none okay uh you got disengaged yeah was this the five-year guy no you date yourself

00:18:14.300 yeah uh-huh you know how to show it how um how do you decide where to go to dinner though

00:18:22.020 andrew you gotta wait because we don't have you yet you gotta wait wait to see your face

00:18:26.380 um so go ahead um no i mean it just means that if someone my tech guy doesn't doesn't know how to

00:18:33.520 uh so you're gonna have to wait i understand you gotta wait until i'm back there um go ahead um it

00:18:39.300 just means that i'm not really like looking to date anyone like but i just most interested in

00:18:45.560 progressing my career where i'm going but like not because i don't want to get married and stuff but

00:18:51.100 just more so because i want to like be in my true authentic self and whenever i'm in a relationship

00:18:57.500 i'm so intense that i kind of forget a little bit about who i am okay so you sorry you've been

00:19:05.400 single slash dating yourself for how long since july so so like a almost a year yeah like nine months

00:19:12.620 something like that okay uh dating self okay do you get in arguments with yourself no no it's a very

00:19:20.360 peaceful relationship it's a peaceful relationship okay all right uh are you gonna marry yourself you

00:19:26.240 think no not marry some people do that i have heard of you could marry your dog do you have any

00:19:31.020 pets ain't no way you can you can marry like pillows and stuff i think they do that it is a thing okay 0.98

00:19:37.980 what about you um i'm ghosted and i'm hit on by married men

00:19:43.500 wait ghost what does ghosted mean what do you mean ghosted means you had something rockin red hot

00:19:53.840 and then they vaporized and then they vaporized and you're going whoa

00:19:57.080 you have something out of sight it's the best thing that's ever come along 0.96

00:20:10.080 wow damn and then you go i was just hit by mac truck what the hell was that 0.98

00:20:18.140 are are you a fabulous act who are you and you've known the person for eight years 1.00

00:20:28.400 eight years eight years eight years you knew like you dated him for eight years or you knew

00:20:34.820 i was introduced to him yeah through my niece and at the time i was introduced to him he was one of

00:20:42.400 these guys that went to burning man and i'm those guys okay i know all about those guys i'm an artist

00:20:49.040 but it's like i'm not like that kind of artist but whatever so we put that on the back burner

00:20:54.880 but over the years he'd see me at art shows and he was a really great guy but i thought god

00:21:02.380 there's something amiss december he i he comes up to me at the art show and i go hey you know buddy how

00:21:13.860 are you and he goes i've got cancer and all of a sudden just a flood of emotions come over me

00:21:21.040 that i just wanted to hug him and hold him and go it's gonna be okay you know and i i go have you

00:21:29.000 heard about ivermectin have you heard about finbenzadrol and he's going what what i go listen

00:21:34.540 i listen to these podcasters and this stuff cures cancer and nobody's telling anybody about it i'm

00:21:42.160 going i'll give you all the information and i thought to myself you know it's like christmas time

00:21:46.520 and i'm going get them in the spirit to be happy you know and there's a restaurant that has carolers

00:21:52.840 that play and i said i sent him an email i said hey we gotta go out to celebrate the holidays you

00:22:00.620 know there's carolers you're gonna feel like a million bucks you know just to get them out of the

00:22:05.700 the get the energy positive and so we go and he goes i've been looking forward to this all day

00:22:13.960 because i've thought about you all day we have a fabulous time you know we leave it's christmas time

00:22:22.740 my cat dies the next two days and i'm like so sad and he's like sending me text messages and

00:22:30.400 and being like really positive and then he wants to come over and he takes me out to lunch and things

00:22:36.780 are just rocking takes me out to a lunch a few times and then i'm a i'm a patriot if you guys can't

00:22:43.400 tell hello um and i'm going back to the inaugural right but they're changing the inaugural because it's

00:22:52.100 so cold there right all the tickets that i have um wait i'm sorry okay i'm gonna let you tell the

00:22:59.060 story but i just want to get everybody in here so okay um but so okay you're uh ghosted you're so

00:23:05.640 you're single and hit on by married men you get hit on by married men yes okay are you dating any of

00:23:13.040 the married men no i just found out they were married and i can tell you how to spot them

00:23:17.700 okay is it the ring no is that usually the way they never wear rings they oh they take it off

00:23:23.640 yeah or they just don't have it on um and so okay longest relationship that one's a hard one to

00:23:31.480 answer because you can say it's over and then a couple wait just try not to bang it's okay just no

00:23:37.920 you're fine just try not to bang on the table um so you try and cut ties and you are you're serious 0.99

00:23:45.800 you look them straight in the eye you go it's done it's over and then you keep fucking them for 0.98

00:23:52.360 three months no they come back around three months they go we don't count i was in the area 0.99

00:23:56.800 you were in the area you were in the area yeah i'm not looking for like year month day just like

00:24:03.260 approximation like three years four years five years longest relationship you can't even count

00:24:10.320 it because it just kept going on even though you cut it off yeah you can't just count so if it was

00:24:15.320 like on again off again just even fuck it just include the off period so like 10 years here probably 0.94

00:24:22.220 15 90 probably 91 but i was dating other people you dated a guy from 87 to 99 yeah right okay is that 0.98

00:24:30.740 give me give me uh give me the years i can't even think of the years i can't remember was friends 0.77

00:24:36.140 on tv was bill clinton the president yeah at one point he was was what was the monica lewinski shit 0.63

00:24:44.640 did that happen monica lewinski yeah yeah he was there a little bit but then he kept going all 0.97

00:24:51.240 did you date bill clinton no you no okay would you he thought he was oh he freaking thought he was 0.52

00:24:59.080 he looked like elmer fudd but he thought he thought he was president um okay so what should i put 10

00:25:06.740 years longest relationship because it's not even a relationship he just happened to be in my life 0.99

00:25:13.660 okay you know i cut it we're having carnal knowledge i sexual intercourse it was fabulous it was the sex 0.89

00:25:22.160 it was fabulous no but the the guy that you dated for the longest period of time okay it was on it was 0.95

00:25:29.440 off can i tell you this okay can i tell you when he came one of the times he came back in my life

00:25:35.380 well this one's so juicy you'd flip out save it because i'll say i'll get to it well i'll let you say

00:25:40.660 it okay because i need to get up for a moment so when i get up and i figure out all the the tech stuff

00:25:45.400 you you just have the floor but what i do need longest relationship i wouldn't call it a relationship 0.95

00:25:52.980 whatever 15 at least a fuck buddy sneaky link have you had the sneaky link sneaky link i don't even 0.99

00:26:00.020 you don't know that for me i don't know what that is uh somebody who uh any gen any gen z people want 0.96

00:26:08.160 to explain that you just link up together but what did she do you know what link oh sorry i'm not

00:26:15.120 linking up with anybody it's a relationship or nothing but what happens is they're doing the

00:26:20.880 sneaky link while you're thinking you're having a relationship is what the problem okay well how long

00:26:25.380 did you think you had the relationship for like every time he came back it's like how long did he

00:26:29.520 keep coming back for at least 15 years i would just say 15 years 15 years okay 15 years yeah was it

00:26:39.480 before the millennium or when was it um when was the god bless to try and think this one out how long

00:26:46.360 ago was that it was 10 years ago was the last time i said just get the hell out of my life so it's 0.70

00:26:57.260 like obama who was president obama oh god i don't know who was president what was 10 years ago

00:27:04.240 who was that who was it was obama yeah huh yeah his second term like the tail end

00:27:10.340 and he tried to win my heart by donating blood to get me a 31 flavors ice cream cone did it work

00:27:21.460 yes it did work

00:27:25.340 oh okay i thought um how long have you been single i guess my whole life well i mean

00:27:43.360 no so you've never been married correct but when i say uh single i mean it in the sense of like

00:27:51.360 uh you've had relationships yes yeah um you describe yourself as a seasoned dater

00:27:58.720 yes we will we'll get into that okay um what about you so i am in a relationship been in once for two

00:28:07.520 and a half years um and my longest relationship was five years all right five-year relationship who

00:28:14.420 broke up with who he broke up with me okay why what did you do uh we just grew apart to be honest

00:28:20.540 and i feel like we weren't giving our best selves in the relationship so he just

00:28:23.600 cut it we were engaged too so that was yeah yeah that was crazy one but it was for the best good

00:28:31.300 times good times all right what about you uh i am single my longest relationship was six years

00:28:38.600 it ended mutually and i'm currently single i've been officially single since like last summer

00:28:44.680 i was dating pretty exclusively uh so would you say like nine months or so sure you've been single

00:28:52.380 okay no guys in the picture none nobody zero zero phone's dry phone's dry are you on any dating apps

00:29:01.260 i am not i was for a very long time but not anymore okay all right what about you um my last

00:29:07.960 relationship end up when pandemic start and i was with him for almost five years and yeah and we

00:29:16.880 were about to move together when that happened so it was kind of shocking for me but now i'm perfect so

00:29:22.200 i think it was my best decision ever uh so longest relationship was five years five years yeah and

00:29:27.800 then you're single currently correct yeah and before that i had another relationship for four years

00:29:32.120 okay the uh five-year relationship did you end it i ended up yeah and then the four-year relationship

00:29:37.380 i also ended up okay and you've been single for how long five years five years okay uh has there been

00:29:45.220 in that five-year period though has there been some a rebound not at all nothing in have you dated

00:29:53.260 any men in los angeles um i try but as she said they ghosted me uh some of those so now i'm just

00:30:01.980 focused in my career and in myself has she said so yeah so yeah i don't want to invest time right

00:30:08.020 now in something if i know that i'm not 100 there right now because actually i'm more focused in

00:30:14.820 myself okay cool that's everybody's relationship status we'll get into some of that um just really

00:30:20.540 quickly is anybody here currently on the dating app i haven't deleted bumble yet you still use it

00:30:26.820 no it's not active it's just exist on my phone okay um i don't know i don't know if this is a dating

00:30:34.880 app or not but on my phone right when i go to no what do you what do you want when i go to my facebook

00:30:43.920 right it's got a little heart right so i hit on the little heart and i'm going oh my god i've got

00:30:51.180 all these weirdos hitting on me the married man facebook dating not not the spot uh yeah i don't

00:30:58.920 think you should get on uh farmers only or oh well there's tinder there's tinder there's hinge there's

00:31:04.520 bumble uh there's all these apps anybody in the chat you know maybe somebody will find we'll find

00:31:11.000 you some love tonight on the show somebody watching uh all right um here so i need to get up for a

00:31:17.760 moment but why don't you tell us uh tell us so you described that you were a seasoned dater uh it's

00:31:25.640 going to take me a minute or two to get that figured out so just go into it tell us tell us

00:31:29.060 about your seasoned dating or maybe the story that you shared in the thing seasoned dating just means

00:31:36.860 that you've you've dated for years and you haven't cracked the code because oh my gosh it feels like

00:31:46.720 the impossible dream it really does and i know that there's people that actually fall in love

00:31:55.740 even at my age and older because i've seen them and i've never seen them happier one of my friends

00:32:04.180 tony lives right here in ventura he met a girl that lived in his neighborhood and he started calling

00:32:13.440 her while she was married and she was miserably married and she divorced him moved to ventura they

00:32:20.160 got a classic little 69 volkswagen bus and one of those duffy boats so they hang out at the beach and

00:32:28.040 the bus camping and they cruise around and they're little and they're so happy it's so fun to see them

00:32:34.680 because it gives me hope you know who's another one that just got me oh this other guy this other guy

00:32:41.500 he's loaded he's filthy rich lives in florida and he's always at mar-a-lago and he married he's 80

00:32:49.760 years old but he's like trump or he's like really cool doesn't look it super stylish met a woman that's 0.86

00:32:56.700 75 that looks like his freaking twin and they travel in their motorhome everywhere he was over in

00:33:04.340 in africa doing a hotter balloon tour and i was talking to him on facebook as he's like scanning

00:33:12.200 everything but i'm going it happens it may happen later you know are you always like searching for

00:33:18.220 love no i i wasn't even searching when the last few have come up to me i'm going this is a nightmare

00:33:25.880 you know i just had a dude that looked at my i was walking into staples last week and the guy

00:33:32.960 walks up to me and he goes oh look at your nails and i go right on corvette red and he looks at my

00:33:38.520 face and he goes you're really beautiful and i go you are my favorite person and then he just kept

00:33:45.400 walking with me and i'm thinking okay this is weird because normally guys um if they like you

00:33:53.180 they're kind of like a little bit more skittish they don't tell you like you're beautiful you know

00:33:58.440 it doesn't happen like that and i walk in i'm thinking i think it's the opposite i feel like

00:34:02.480 if they're like like you a lot they're shyer yes you know that's what i'm saying like go up to you

00:34:06.920 like yes unless they're like super confident but no in my opinion those are the married ones and i

00:34:12.360 thought to that to myself as i was going in the store and he was following me and wanted my phone

00:34:16.740 number i'm thinking dude you were too confident you know and i'm going oh i'm starting to like

00:34:22.940 back away because i didn't really observe my surroundings and i thought how did he like spot me

00:34:29.620 in an empty parking lot what what was it that signals that i was giving off and sure enough

00:34:35.600 i talked to him oh yeah he's divorced i'm going i don't buy this story i'm separated i said who do you

00:34:43.640 live with he said oh my mom and my kids and you know we're separated i said you're married dude

00:34:50.560 you're married be you know that is so wrong to do i'm sorry i i put it all over facebook i was so 0.98

00:34:57.440 pissed off and then all the married guys are going married guys are horny too and i hate all of you 0.94

00:35:03.620 i just hate all of you what happened to the faithful ones are there is there there have to be 0.99

00:35:10.080 some of them somewhere we're hoping do you want to be married i've wanted to be married my whole

00:35:16.380 life but you know what i feel extremely blessed that i found out who the person was before i got

00:35:24.280 married because i would have been heartbroken and some girls just look for a wedding they think god 1.00

00:35:31.700 if i can have my wedding and then they have no clue what they're in for i had so many girlfriends

00:35:37.220 at the age of 20 to 25 to get married to be divorced by 25 and on their second marriage and

00:35:46.980 i've been it shattered them it shattered their whole being because they thought that this was it

00:35:53.580 and i just went wow why do you think you're not married like do you think that it's the guys that

00:35:58.620 you're choosing or is it something that you're doing you think it's your fault kai bach i think you're

00:36:05.440 the gifted 20 subs go ahead i think you get what you get in life you know because i don't feel that

00:36:12.060 you can really choose a man you know i didn't wait did you just hang on hang on did you just use the

00:36:17.960 life as like a box of chocolates quote no you never know what you're gonna get well i did say

00:36:22.660 you know i did say you never know what you're gonna get yeah and it's a forest gum quote and look

00:36:29.120 at what happened to forest you know he ended up on to be a multi-billionaire hanging on for jenny

00:36:35.240 you know just hanging on for jenny didn't she have hiv yes yeah and jenny's point in the world

00:36:42.720 you know i mean it's like that guy was in love um we all should be so lucky all right we'll come

00:36:49.060 back to that in in a moment uh really quick i do want to thank someone uh it doesn't show who i

00:36:55.000 know i got figured out in stream labs total thank you i think you bought a a hoodie or a sweater

00:37:00.200 on our uh that's what's it called on the whatever.com wait no shop.whatever.com someone bought a

00:37:08.640 uh a one of our hoodies thank you man and on my mom on this thank you for the membership appreciate

00:37:14.680 it all right so we're gonna get into uh some of the pre-show notes here and uh let's see where do we

00:37:20.340 begin you know holly we're gonna come back to uh to some of your stuff but uh no kids right anybody

00:37:26.380 here have kids no kids anybody kids kids okay uh you know what i'm gonna start with chloe chloe

00:37:34.000 what happens you what did you write in your notes here why don't you tell us

00:37:40.760 i don't remember what my notes were uh you pass out when um i the only thing i remember is that

00:37:50.960 i didn't really circle anything because no no not the not the not this and the messages on instagram

00:37:57.140 oh um like what i wanted to talk about on the podcast

00:38:02.760 yeah um so basically i'm like nervous to say but i'm just gonna say go ahead i've never really

00:38:16.280 talked about it ever not even to like like most of my girlfriends um but do you guys know what like

00:38:24.840 celiac diseases um so i'm basically gluten-free ever since i was um younger and i can't really like

00:38:34.060 absorb like vitamins good so i get really dizzy easily and um so this is so embarrassing but

00:38:45.000 um during sex like i tend to like pass out every single time and i'm i've been to like many doctors

00:38:56.580 and like no one really knows why and like i've been on different medications but nothing like works

00:39:03.580 for me and um i can pass out from anywhere from like one minute to like 10 minutes long

00:39:10.460 um wait so is it when you orgasm or like no it could be very it doesn't even have to be like 0.84

00:39:21.880 super intense like if someone's like eating me out or fingering me or having sex like i just pass out 0.98

00:39:29.920 this only happens during sex no fingering no no well any does it happen you're on a treadmill 0.97

00:39:38.080 no not no not exercise i was gonna say that i did dance for like my whole life i never had any 0.62

00:39:44.520 like problems with passing out it's just um the sex

00:39:49.820 so you don't pass out under any other circumstances no

00:39:54.100 i think it's psychological um some of my doctors said that it could be like a trauma response

00:40:01.260 to the feeling of like that feeling but i don't think that's it i think i don't know what's wrong 0.95

00:40:08.860 with me you know what andrew you know what this reminds me of he has penis lepsy 0.99

00:40:14.140 what is that like epilepsy but with like penis so andrew that that woman that you were debating with 1.00

00:40:24.840 uh when you were here in person uh she would say that if someone was if she was dating a guy 0.95

00:40:32.860 and this is like a yeah is it is it great it's it's like are you asking if it's great though she

00:40:38.560 would say it's like essay technically i don't think that's definitely not yeah so is it well would

00:40:44.300 it be like so if you're having sex with a guy and he passed out is it is it essay then

00:40:50.460 because you're like technically unconscious i mean no because i have like told them before i have to

00:40:59.280 like warn them because i don't want them to be like that you know feel bad or like i'm being really

00:41:05.500 are there yeah well kenzie would certainly say it is but question for you uh are there any because of

00:41:12.980 your condition and it is a condition yeah are there any uh things that you can't

00:41:20.400 do like because i could imagine there's just certain scenarios where it could be dangerous 0.96

00:41:25.900 yeah you know so i really like like certain positions and shit well yeah so in the shower 0.99

00:41:32.320 or bathtub standing up yeah standing up can't do that or outside somewhere like i've had shower sex 0.99

00:41:40.680 with my boyfriend but i like it is it could be bad like but he just holds me i guess i don't know 0.96

00:41:47.760 and are you out for how long so they say anywhere from like one minute to like 10 minutes long but

00:41:56.040 for me i don't feel the time at all it's just like whenever i pass out to whenever i wake up it's

00:42:02.480 like severance i has anybody seen that yeah yeah no uh i'm sorry i didn't catch at the very beginning

00:42:08.660 because there was a bit of technical difficulties um did you say that you have an of f

00:42:13.760 um yeah i do of course yeah yeah so um and it does seem to be mighty convenient that you happen

00:42:22.740 to have a condition which doesn't affect you in any way shape or form throughout the entire rest of

00:42:28.020 your life except for this one thing which happens to be sex related no it's super bizarre celiac does

00:42:34.020 affect other things too um so i can't like eat any gluten at all and yeah yeah yeah no i'm very

00:42:41.440 familiar with celiac disease i understand how it works right i've never heard of celiac pass out

00:42:46.040 sex disease before but uh you know there's a there's new conditions i hear about all the time

00:42:51.300 it's just awful convenient though that this one thing that has to do with the one thing tied to

00:42:58.000 your profession right happens to affect that but no other real aspect of your life except you have to

00:43:03.420 eat a clean diet well it's very real and i have to deal with it every single time i have sex and 0.63

00:43:10.100 it's really affected like my relationships so i understand why you think maybe i'm lying about it

00:43:18.960 but i'm i'm not can i ask a question don't you do corn so isn't that like you pass out on camera

00:43:27.540 um no i i just film like me okay okay but um i have thought about maybe filming it for people that

00:43:38.940 would be interested in it but it's just there we go it's just very there we go you thought about

00:43:45.500 maybe making some content related to this it's quite this shtick huh i've never talked about a girl 0.97

00:43:51.740 has sex and passes out she can't take penis because she passes out awful convenient that you're going to 1.00

00:43:57.360 turn this into content isn't it almost like it's calculated and possibly not quite true just saying 0.98

00:44:05.200 just pointing it out um i appreciate your opinion but it really is real and it really affected my

00:44:13.060 relationship before because um one of the reasons why me and him broke up is because um you know on

00:44:22.480 snapchat like you have like the um um like thing that you put a password in to see your private

00:44:29.520 camera roll on snapchat so um i don't know i i don't remember why but we were arguing and i wanted

00:44:38.760 to see what was in his like snapchat camera roll i thought it was going to be like porn or other girls

00:44:44.320 like um so i was arguing with him and he finally opened it and it was like videos of me um passed

00:44:52.540 out and i had no idea that he ever um recorded me and this was way before i was doing OF so a couple

00:45:02.420 questions for you so uh you said you've seen you've been to doctors about this yeah okay how many

00:45:08.620 different doctors um probably like four have you seen a psychologist no psychiatrist no so what kind

00:45:16.120 of doctors do you go to like just your general your general doctor your general doctor okay urgent care

00:45:22.520 have you and you've been given a diagnosis or no um they always say it's either like a trigger from

00:45:29.140 trauma um or it's um the celiac because i have like um i can't absorb vitamins and that can make

00:45:39.080 me dizzy but i don't like i don't have issues anywhere else so okay uh and you said it happens every single

00:45:47.880 time yeah okay probably trauma related yeah it sounds like you're disassociating it's my yeah that's my

00:45:56.920 diagnosis yeah it could be um you also have quite uh quite a bit of a high-pitched voice um when the

00:46:06.560 the doctors say it's trauma related was there trauma um yeah i lost my virginity in a bad way i'm not

00:46:15.640 gonna like say why but that's probably why i have that problem yeah i don't want you to have to get

00:46:22.500 into it that sort of conversation can be really sensitive may i ask at what age though um i was 16

00:46:29.100 okay was there anything like earlier on no no any like traumatic stuff like from you my family was

00:46:39.700 great um my mom was very um protective over me so i didn't want to lose my virginity at all until i

00:46:47.820 was married but um when that happened to me when i was 16 i just kind of felt like i should take my

00:46:55.100 own sexuality and i think that's one of the reasons why i do only fans there was this uh old show i used

00:47:01.300 to listen to as a radio show called love line with adam carolla and dr drew and uh one of their

00:47:08.000 hypotheses was uh people who have experienced this applied to both men and women but more so to women

00:47:14.820 people who have experienced uh sexual trauma especially in a young age uh tend to have certain

00:47:22.160 uh well almost always have uh negative ramifications as they're older but one of the manifestations of

00:47:31.460 uh early uh trauma is high-pitched voice so women with really high-pitched voices it's there's high 1.00

00:47:39.020 likelihood of i never knew that that's really interesting my dad he's straight but he has

00:47:44.720 such a high-pitched voice like he honestly sounds like a woman like on the phone they always think 1.00

00:47:50.260 that he's a girl all right maybe it's it could be genetic then so if you're in a fight with your

00:47:58.280 boyfriend and he just like rubs you there does that end the fight because you just pass out you're just

00:48:04.400 like you're just out like a light and then like that's just is that just the end of the fight

00:48:08.920 altogether it's like i just don't want to fight about this anymore you know what i mean so he does the

00:48:13.360 trump thing and grabs her by the you know and then are you just out like a light is it you know within

00:48:18.760 seconds you just just done um well i've never experienced that before but it would work i would

00:48:28.340 shut up so so what i'm gathering here is that your boyfriend for all future possible fights that you may 0.88

00:48:37.420 get into has a fail-safe mechanism to end every single fight yeah i mean even if that like wasn't 0.93

00:48:45.140 like if i was just a normal girl and that didn't happen to me i feel like most girls would shut up 0.65

00:48:50.500 if they're having an argument and then their man has sex with them so yeah it would work 0.97

00:48:56.120 well i mean no there's no guarantee that they would shut up right there's only a guarantee though 0.85

00:49:01.940 that you would shut up right that would be the guarantee yeah yeah okay um i think it's like a

00:49:10.500 built-in it's like a built-in off switch go ahead i think the like important question is like doing

00:49:16.980 only fans are you like happy with it given the sa background um i didn't ever think i was gonna do

00:49:24.580 only fans and like i said my first manager he really like pushed me to do only fans but now that

00:49:31.940 i'm making so much money it's just like i can't really stop doing it i i like doing it because i

00:49:39.180 can like do cosplay and stuff and like i like taking videos of myself um but it's really just i make so

00:49:48.200 much money now we're gonna move it on but you said another crazy story you've been around one of the

00:49:52.920 richest men in the world and you had a weird slash demonic experience that you can talk about uh who

00:49:58.500 who yeah um jeff bezos shut up come on well actually his son 0.59

00:50:06.600 does who's jeff bezos has a son i don't know um yeah he does have a son i'm not gonna um

00:50:16.180 so was it jeff bezos or was it his son it was his son but um he invited me to jeff

00:50:22.780 bezos estate in um los angeles and it's like their main house um it's one of the most like

00:50:30.420 expensive houses in america and um this is like this october and it was like the best night of my

00:50:39.080 life but this is preston bezos uh yeah okay it was october you said mm-hmm okay um yeah during

00:50:51.960 halloween um i was like i met him through one of my actor friends and um we went to a party

00:51:01.300 together a chrome hearts party and then he invited me to go to his house after and um it was really

00:51:09.960 really cool um and like the gates open and like a rolls royce was just like waiting with a chauffeur

00:51:16.520 and i got in and it was like this huge estate it literally took like 15 minutes to just like get to

00:51:22.660 the house from like the front gate okay um so what happened um because you said it was a weird demonic

00:51:31.100 experience so well i'm not very religious but i just had this like really like eerie like feeling

00:51:40.140 in my heart the whole time and they had like really strange like statues everywhere like there was this

00:51:47.060 really big like red statue um in the middle of a fountain and it looked like a demon and it was like

00:51:53.760 eight feet tall and like the whole time i was there i just felt like very very nervous and like

00:52:01.300 overwhelmed with like bad energy but it was very cool experience but it it was weird wait was this

00:52:08.800 bohemian grove i don't know what that is maybe i'm just okay um now this uh where did you say this

00:52:17.000 happened um los angeles at their main house because preston preston bezos lives in new york not in well

00:52:25.240 yeah also his stepson lives in new york but they obviously come to the main house okay so they were

00:52:34.120 when was this october you said in la during halloween they i thought well i mean they probably have no

00:52:42.500 shortage of money to spend on houses but i thought their main house was in like seattle no their biggest

00:52:48.660 and most expensive houses here okay well i'll know the details uh so there was creepy statues was that it

00:52:57.160 it was just the feeling of like um i mean a lot of people say that rich and famous people um maybe

00:53:06.180 have like a deal with the devil and i never really believed that until that night okay i'm just i'm

00:53:12.260 serious and being honest um but was there anything else weird you said there was the statues and then

00:53:18.740 there was a fountain or something or i mean the whole house was weird it had um dinosaurs like huge t-rex

00:53:26.220 like when you walk that sounds dope it was it sounds cool it was cool it really it really was cool but 0.87

00:53:32.000 a lot of you don't fuck with dinosaurs i love dinosaurs jurassic park no it was cool yeah okay 0.85

00:53:38.480 um anything saying that i just i just cursed you know just did a cursory exam this was last year 0.97

00:53:47.320 last this last october yeah last october okay because this is saying that he was at princeton at the time

00:53:54.000 in october i definitely was with him i don't know where you're getting that information i'm just

00:53:59.600 i'm look i believe you right i'm just looking at the cursory information right what did you guys do

00:54:05.220 while you were there um so we were partying together the whole time for like halloween for like a week

00:54:12.840 um i went to like all of the parties with him um and some of his other friends and when we went to

00:54:20.120 the house like we were just drinking and um just hanging out and he like gave like a small tour of

00:54:29.220 the house and yeah that's basically it did you try to baby trap him um no but um no

00:54:39.320 okay oh it sounds like you're gonna give us a he made you pass out story

00:54:45.240 close to it i mean i think he's really cute but i have like a boyfriend so i was trying to be like

00:54:53.720 respectful

00:54:54.380 uh okay um have you been around any other like any saudi people or

00:55:05.220 saudi yeah like dubai or anything like that um one time um like six months ago in charlotte um i met

00:55:16.620 this guy he was from dubai and his family was very rich um owned like a big liquor company and um he

00:55:25.780 texted me on instagram and he offered me like seven grand to go out with him um to one of the clubs in

00:55:33.480 charlotte and i went there with one of my best friends and literally we didn't do anything but

00:55:39.040 have like a normal night and i literally talked to my best friend the whole time and he gave

00:55:44.000 um actually each of us seven thousand dollars in cash but that's my only exchange with a dubai guy

00:55:50.380 seven thousand just nothing yeah no literally just to make an appearance

00:55:58.380 life on easy mode um cool all right congrats on the thousand uh okay i gotta do a quick read here

00:56:05.080 also i want to do uh ivermectin this indian tech support how may i help you yo my girlfriend is

00:56:10.380 super effing annoying and won't stop nagging have you tried turning her on off again how do i do that 0.85

00:56:16.960 literally okay thank you ivermectin cures cancer appreciate that uh thank you thank you

00:56:23.860 uh i think he's talking about talking about you andrew did make a good point about uh that'd be

00:56:28.920 a good way to just end an argument is just yeah have your girlfriend pass out built-in factory reset 1.00

00:56:36.300 right it's like yep just a built-in yeah built-in factory oh kind of i guess there's a big benefit

00:56:43.140 too right it's like how could a guy ever be bad at sex right like you you can't remember it right it's

00:56:50.640 like how could a guy ever even be bad at it yeah all right we have uh let's see here another one

00:56:57.900 ivermectin cures cancer chair two hey doc i pass out every time i have carnal relations it's celiac

00:57:03.840 disease yeah dr nasus that shiz is a medical term we call roofiac disease okay chair two but i'm on

00:57:11.300 of doctor uh that too okay thank you uh ivermectin appreciate it and then also guys just a couple

00:57:19.760 shout shout outs here uh venmo cash app whatever pod 100 of your contribution goes towards the show

00:57:25.160 youtube takes 30 stream labs takes like three to four percent uh thomas thank you for the five on

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00:57:34.420 it matt thank you thank you and uh guys if you're enjoying the stream so far like the video tts is 100

00:57:39.580 reed is a hundred all right guys so um was there like weird like anything else weird at that party

00:57:50.200 with with bezos it wasn't a party it was literally like only four of us oh okay oh okay yeah it was

00:57:57.180 very like intimate it was so bezos was there jeff bezos he wasn't there but it was his house have you

00:58:02.680 met him no i never met him but only both of his sons i see okay um so they're just weird statues but

00:58:12.300 they were fine the sons were cool right yeah really cool like they didn't start like doing some 0.95

00:58:17.120 like child sacrifice ritual like some fucking mayan shit you know no it was just a feeling of 0.98

00:58:24.940 like demonic energy you felt it i do i did do you feel demonic energy right now no like in here 0.99

00:58:31.740 no what kind of energy is it like how do you feel demonic energy there but not doing of

00:58:36.540 like what um i think of can be positive and fun you think satan wants you to do of

00:58:44.320 you think demons are like god you should really stop doing that

00:58:50.000 like honestly i mean i think god loves everyone and that really doesn't answer my question sure god

00:59:00.260 pose adolf hitler i get it but the question is is like you're worried about demonic how do you feel

00:59:05.740 demonic energy around a bunch of statues at some rich guy's house you don't feel any demonic energy

00:59:10.440 doing of that's bizarre to me i mean i guess sometimes it can feel bad like i wouldn't say demonic

00:59:18.980 though okay okay all right um and then i think final thing for your notes here um do you have any plastic surgery

00:59:28.220 uh no 1.00

00:59:29.560 you're a fucking liar 1.00

00:59:36.460 okay what do you come on what do you have um okay fine it's just my boobs but i don't like saying that 1.00

00:59:42.880 they're fake because i love them and they're real to me i mean they're on my body but it's just my 0.53

00:59:49.320 boobs okay and like bbl or like any sort of jenner kardashian hip thing or what do they do what is that

00:59:57.300 thing bbl yeah but like is bbl the same as like when they put stuff like it's not the back of the butt 0.66

01:00:04.320 it's like the side of the i mean usually it's a bbl or you could get implants maybe do you have that

01:00:10.520 no but i kind of want to get like a skinny bbl okay yeah but no not right now all right cool all

01:00:18.780 right uh let's see here we're gonna get into you know we have a couple reacts i want to do

01:00:23.880 while we do hmm let me think here actually you know what do one more note

01:00:33.440 um before we get into the reaction i'll do some more of the show notes so

01:00:39.380 uh i want to go to lauren lauren you said you were dating yourself

01:00:43.520 yeah i mean that's what i tell guys when i don't want to talk to them

01:00:49.080 to be honest they're like hey you have a boyfriend i'm like i'm dating myself

01:00:52.640 like cool um in your notes to us you described yourself as corporate

01:00:57.820 oh yeah what does that mean um i am i work in health care technology

01:01:02.280 okay like cubicle like i can type really fast got it you said you're latina and german

01:01:08.920 yeah okay but all american all right you're bilingual in what languages spanish

01:01:14.580 and english spanish okay you describe yourself as conservative

01:01:17.660 yeah um interesting uh do you uh i'm trying to remember

01:01:25.340 you said you're published chemist and author uh when you said you said you wrote the book right

01:01:33.380 yeah but you're self-published right yeah it's like the king uh direct publishing whatever okay

01:01:40.060 so i could like through an editor yeah but like when i think of published author

01:01:44.340 like i could go publish yeah everyone could yeah absolutely it was like hey i should like if you

01:01:50.680 know people claim they're a model it's like yeah someone took an iphone photo of you no but i mean i

01:01:56.220 did get the chemistry one published yeah no yeah yeah that was actually cooler in my opinion

01:02:00.620 um sure uh you said that uh you describe yourself as bipolar yes um so i am bipolar my company is crazy

01:02:10.320 good my book is called crazy good it's available on amazon it's not that great probably because it's

01:02:16.520 just self-published you know i'm just kidding are you but there's different there's bipolar one

01:02:22.140 bipolar two yes i am bipolar one well so explain that what is so for those of you that don't know

01:02:27.700 bipolar disorder is a mood disorder where you can fluctuate from very lows into very highs and

01:02:33.800 depending if you have bipolar one or bipolar two the difference is that bipolar one you go to full

01:02:39.220 mania which can be very destructive and then bipolar two you do like more like hypomania so women 0.85

01:02:46.600 normally have more depressive episodes when they have bipolar disorder but i am blessed to have not

01:02:52.420 really blessed but i have more manic episodes and so my book is really more like a little

01:02:57.700 memoir that kind of compiles some of those really insane moments of my life and kind of a little

01:03:04.300 perspective on it do you take medication every day multiple medications yes okay and how uh actually

01:03:12.280 really quick for the whole panel does anybody else here have bipolar bpd apd aspd anybody here take any

01:03:22.620 other medication for what would be considered this mental illness hide it it's anybody depression

01:03:30.180 none of that okay all right and uh let's see um

01:03:36.620 do you go to therapy for it or not therapy too much i used to but they're kind of annoying sometimes

01:03:44.860 i think that a lot of therapists are just breeding narcissists sure uh you said a question for you on this

01:03:51.580 and maybe the rest of the panel can weigh in do you think or actually before i do that uh in a

01:03:56.540 relationship how does your bipolar manifest itself if it does um so i'm very loyal i've never cheated on

01:04:02.780 anyone never done any of that but my first my five-year relationship um ended when i was diagnosed

01:04:08.440 so it was very very terrible because i didn't know what bipolar disorder was and i literally lost my mind

01:04:15.760 doing research in a laboratory and then it was it was really intense you can read about it in my book

01:04:22.760 anyways um so he broke up with me then and i think i also told you a little bit on my little notes that

01:04:30.540 at one point i gave uh an ex ninety thousand dollars so you know some of the symptoms you know

01:04:36.520 people will have like a cancer and i'll be like oh you have a tumor my my symptom is i just spend all my

01:04:41.760 money okay that's really fine uh question for you and i guess the rest of the panel uh do you think

01:04:47.460 it's wrong for a man to not want to date you or another woman because she is bipolar or suffers

01:04:52.620 from well let's just keep it the bipolar i guess i you know i could if it's unmanaged like yeah don't

01:05:00.040 date someone that's unmanaged yeah but let's just say like just a blanket don't want to date somebody

01:05:04.480 who's bipolar there's people i've had this argument with a geneticist where he was actually saying that

01:05:10.760 you needed to you know like eugenics get rid of people with mental disorders okay i'm not really

01:05:16.460 talking about that but well no because if you don't want to be with them you don't want to reproduce

01:05:20.060 with them and so you don't continue the bloodline of so you think it's eugenics for a guy to not want

01:05:24.960 to date somebody who has bipolar disorder no no there's people that believe that i'm just saying

01:05:29.840 like if if that's how you feel like that's you can do that like okay yeah but i do think like

01:05:37.500 yeah you think it's wrong though like do you think it's unfair or uh i don't know no not really

01:05:44.360 i mean everyone decides what they want to do and i do believe that unmanaged and people that are not

01:05:50.400 accountable for their mental illness they are menace to society most of the time sure so uh you 0.96

01:05:57.580 described yourself as opinionated on what um most things most things everything okay we'll get into

01:06:02.860 it tonight then yeah so going to the story you said you gave uh-huh ninety thousand dollars yeah

01:06:08.700 to a boyfriend uh-huh was that the five year no no no how long were you guys dating um we were living

01:06:16.160 together we were we were together i think a total of nine months but um yeah so that was interesting

01:06:23.180 um it was an accident kind of but he told he had a company and he was a ceo so he was like if you give

01:06:29.720 me your money then i'll put it into my business and i'll make more money and it'll be fun and i said

01:06:35.140 okay so then i just wired him 90k so he like scammed you huh well we actually had a promissory note so

01:06:41.240 then i got to sue him oh okay yeah so wait but was it an investment in the company no he actually

01:06:50.680 didn't put it in the company i think what he did and i can't prove this but we went on like very

01:06:54.800 extravagant like trips i think he was actually paying for stuff to love bomb me with my money

01:07:02.420 i'm pretty sure that's what happened um but i we had some awesome trips man like mexico city

01:07:08.240 sedona atlantic city dc you know it was fun so but i mean i get that he didn't use it for the business

01:07:17.240 but the nature of the arrangement between the two of you was you were essentially investing

01:07:22.840 investing in his business is that that was but he didn't put in his business but that was the idea

01:07:27.540 was essentially was there a written agreement or um it was just a promissory note that i was letting

01:07:31.960 him borrow 90k what did the what did the note say it said that he could that i was giving him 90k and

01:07:38.140 that i would once i moved out if i moved out he had to give it to me 30 days after i moved out

01:07:43.500 and he ended up over a course of uh maybe six or seven months ended up giving me like 85 percent of it back

01:07:52.360 before before or after the lawsuit um that was during the lawsuit because he wasn't going to

01:07:59.100 give it back to me unless i got him with the lawyer so did you get all of it back almost 85 percent

01:08:04.840 about oh okay so you did get a judgment against him yeah i mean yeah i had a promissory note so it

01:08:11.420 was just well right but okay so you had the promissory note but he wasn't paying it so then you

01:08:17.740 had to go to court to file a lawsuit no no he started paying it but he just started paying it

01:08:21.680 really small chunks and so then the lawyer was saying that because he was still making the attempt

01:08:26.780 to pay it like he couldn't really like go further with it so i don't know i paid a bunch of lawyer

01:08:33.660 fees so did you file a lawsuit i got the lawyer to i serve him is that the word i don't know

01:08:38.560 so a lawsuit was filed yeah okay uh-huh was it so you you dismissed it then what do you mean by

01:08:49.920 dismissed well you filed the lawsuit because he wasn't paying you then he started paying you yeah

01:08:55.740 so did you uh you can like dismiss a case yeah i it wasn't we didn't go to court like we were

01:09:02.660 talking he was talking to my lawyer through it and paying me so he paid most of it back okay yeah it

01:09:07.820 wasn't just a gift you didn't gift him 90 000 yeah but he definitely lied about a lot of things and

01:09:14.800 then unfortunately since i i got really sick during that time as well which is the reason that he got

01:09:21.240 the money um and so then even when he gave it back to me i did some really careless things and i gave

01:09:27.040 30 000 to an orphanage in nigeria so that was so 30 000 nigeria yeah i don't know man was it

01:09:36.580 was it an actual orphanage in nigeria i don't i i don't know the answer it wasn't one of those kings

01:09:43.200 it was it was yeah it was kind of wild um so yeah come be my queen okay um and uh trying to think here

01:09:55.700 was it a nigerian prince or something probably i don't even really remember um because when you go

01:10:02.220 like so into mania like you actually forget stuff like you kind of black out because of trauma like

01:10:09.840 your brain's like i can't handle this and so it's kind of it's kind of crazy you uh also wrote in your

01:10:16.260 notes here you wanted to speak about cultural differences in relationships yes yeah so were you

01:10:21.440 dating a nigerian no i was dating a mongolian yeah just is that the only one that pertained to

01:10:28.920 cultural differences no actually it's more so for me because i'm bicultural um so i was actually

01:10:34.000 raised mexican i lived in mexico for a little bit um i do speak spanish i feel weird just speaking

01:10:40.260 spanish but i know you speak spanish but um and so i think it's interesting because in cultural

01:10:47.500 like culturally there's differences in like what the gender roles are supposed to be like 1.00

01:10:52.480 and i came from a very like traditional like mexican there the the wife is at home and the

01:11:01.120 the um the dad is the breadwinner and so i just think that also kind of played out in some of my

01:11:07.040 relationships when like they expected something specific out of a relationship just because of

01:11:11.680 their culture so did like the mongolian what oh i don't know huh like what like what like the

01:11:19.840 mongolian catholic patriarchy from the mexican perspective right so they have a strong patriarchal

01:11:27.480 society because they had it's informed deeply by catholicism yep so it's it's very patriarchal i get

01:11:33.860 that but mongolians are really patriarchal too so i'm like it's like what's so what's the thing

01:11:40.280 you're pointing to here well i'm just saying i think that's interesting i wanted to talk about

01:11:43.700 it like what is everyone's experiences with different cultures and how did they clash because

01:11:47.720 that was just kind of what i wanted to talk about in a sense i don't know

01:11:51.660 yeah what were yours what were my what my

01:11:57.000 my cultural differences

01:12:00.240 yeah these experiences that you're talking about that you want to talk about you know um well i mean

01:12:08.380 just in terms of like the culture like it just kind of the basis of culture determines you know

01:12:16.440 how you perceive the world and how like your mate and everything like that so um for me i've seen

01:12:22.880 like i don't have like a specific thing on it and just you know i don't know i don't have like

01:12:29.160 some juicy sorry okay then i'll move it on yeah you said uh dating is difficult because women 1.00

01:12:33.680 enter the workforce what do you mean um i think that men enjoy providing because it's kind of like

01:12:43.340 a masculine thing that happens to man i think they like providing i think that when the women join the 0.99

01:12:50.040 workforce there is now like a competition with men and i think that that demasculinizes men and i also

01:12:59.640 think that it makes the dating pool of high value men to be smaller because they're getting like

01:13:04.740 pushed out by like high achieving women and then also you get women which sometimes i do this because

01:13:11.160 i do like i have a career and all that stuff where you kind of just you're like oh i'm the boss but i

01:13:17.520 don't want to be the boss and i think that's maybe the cultural problem with me is that i want to be 0.90

01:13:22.860 like traditional mexican but then at my like but how i live my life is like i run shit you know and 0.73

01:13:30.480 so maybe that's what i was trying to get at okay anybody else want to weigh in on that yeah i 0.50

01:13:37.020 somewhat agree to that in in many circumstances in terms of like you're independent more and it's not

01:13:43.900 like you want to be because you're forced into it probably but it's funny because like you know like

01:13:49.220 your culture like you said mexican culture it's like men provide and women like but is that like

01:13:55.220 your upbringing wise yes did you did you not have like a father figure there no no my parents have

01:13:59.720 been married 40 years thankfully so like so you being overachieving is that just a you thing or like

01:14:05.480 yeah yeah and i mean my sister and my mom are both um homemakers and um i would love to do that but

01:14:12.780 i i just i got forced into working the other thing that happened when women entered the workforce is 1.00

01:14:18.920 that wages didn't go up because there was a larger supply of workers so yeah we should just go back to

01:14:28.500 cooking but the thing is because um because i am a mexican woman in my core like i do love cooking and

01:14:34.120 like if someone comes over i you know i host and i would love to just make sandwiches every day and

01:14:38.900 tend to some plants no i kind of agree why don't you why don't you move to mexico i mean i it's nice

01:14:46.180 you know i love mexico i do citizenship like i i love mexico i mean it seems like that would solve

01:14:53.840 your issue right i don't think i have that big of an issue oh i mean it sounded like you're saying

01:15:00.300 that there's an issue where you feel like uh the men who are around you are demasculine or they're

01:15:05.920 not they don't have feelings of masculinity because um because you're like an overachieving

01:15:12.160 you know working girl or something no not me specifically i think just as a high level

01:15:16.400 like concept like what do y'all think have you i think um are you in california did you say um i live

01:15:23.100 in texas right now well texas you're gonna find some manly men you know traditional guys you know

01:15:30.080 get with the patriots those dudes have balls all right the the guys that skip around here in

01:15:37.580 california it's grim seriously it's none of this especially right now it's not uh

01:15:46.960 it's not i got the same problem because i have my own business you know have my whole life but the

01:15:54.800 thing is there are manly men out there that appreciate it and they want to be a man and you

01:16:00.240 feel sexier with men that pay things that do things that take the man role and you just calm yourself

01:16:06.640 down a little bit let them talk let them shine be their cheerleader and screw your career don't even 1.00

01:16:14.280 talk about it don't say how much money you have in the bank it's they don't need to know that's top

01:16:20.600 secret yeah i don't think men care how successful we are like i think women have adopted like when

01:16:27.020 we go into dating we're like we're trying to be like oh i've accomplished this and i've done this

01:16:30.900 and i've done that they don't care exactly they don't care they want to be the winner they want

01:16:35.400 to know that they're safe with you emotionally and i feel like if we show that like oh we're like

01:16:41.280 so bad and we do all these things and we're so independent and then it's so aggressive and it's so

01:16:45.700 masculine and it's like we can be that in our business but like they want to feel safe that

01:16:51.180 we're not going to like do that to them like on a daily basis what's effeminate yeah yeah like you

01:16:57.140 can have all those things sexy exactly i dated this guy and we broke up and at the end he was like okay

01:17:04.160 go miss independent woman like that was like his biggest insult to me and he was masculine too but

01:17:09.600 that was like a big push the secure guys don't care they're gonna be happy for you but i want i would

01:17:14.100 love to like just tend to my animals and you know feed people and make everything pretty but then

01:17:19.880 you just do that no well i need money well you don't tell people what to do you play the mystery

01:17:27.480 with the man you don't let them know you don't need to pump your own ego random you don't yeah

01:17:32.500 you just yeah you go sweetheart how can i rock your world that's all they want to know do you feel

01:17:37.740 like you've been the provider in majority of your relationships in the past oh no um yeah my last

01:17:43.520 relationship uh he was 10 years younger than me and i was his sugar mama 100 percent i think that's

01:17:49.700 the problem like you're dating younger men i don't know that's the only younger men i've ever been with

01:17:53.900 and i went from like ceo he took me out of the job force i was like doing that and then all of a sudden i

01:18:00.300 went to 10 years younger so did your 10 or the younger boyfriend you had did he feel emasculated 0.99

01:18:06.720 the fact that you were the breadwinner do you feel i think he liked it what a pussy yeah yeah yeah 1.00

01:18:13.820 i don't know i think well it was like i actually really like taking care of people too like i give 0.99

01:18:20.600 people gifts i give everyone a little present when do you get to be taken care of yeah i know i i mean

01:18:25.900 i take care of myself too which is i mean what are you guys doing to deserve to get taken care of

01:18:30.360 that's the question well if you be a good girlfriend i feel like it's like a mutual

01:18:34.340 give and take what does that mean though a good girlfriend is like um being able to like i wake up

01:18:39.920 every morning and not like not like thinking this first thing but when you wake up you generally want

01:18:45.740 to do the best for your partner and you think about ways to make them happy and ways that you

01:18:50.680 can just take care of them and i feel like a lot of men these days they don't really think that

01:18:56.920 perhaps you know not not like actively at least like if you do ask a guy like um what do you like

01:19:02.360 about me um are they going to say the things you do for them or the or who you are as like a person

01:19:07.060 but in terms of like um the masculinity thing um it does like build when you are the one doing

01:19:13.780 everything and you want someone to take care of you and stuff which is very valid but at the same time

01:19:18.820 like you want to give them the opportunity to i feel like too a lot of times like we take care of

01:19:24.780 things to the point where like we don't give them the opportunity sometimes well i i take care of

01:19:29.220 people too much and that's when i forget about what do you take care of like what do you take

01:19:33.340 care of that they're not getting the opportunity to take care of are you fixing the apartment like

01:19:37.460 what are you doing what are you doing what men do that like nowadays like how much men can 0.99

01:19:41.760 oh they don't do that women don't do shit when it comes to building they don't do anything 1.00

01:19:45.860 that's because men and women have like different kind of roles they do we're equal in many senses but 0.99

01:19:51.720 we're just like we're feminine masculinity there's just two different like sectors to that i feel

01:19:56.480 like like um i think yeah men should be manly men and women should be feminine and i think that's how

01:20:02.380 like a good relationship is there's just a balance of two you know there's just different roles i feel

01:20:07.200 like like um why do most men want a woman like as like as a wife like genuinely want a woman they want

01:20:14.580 someone who can make them feel safe like you said take care of them and also um i don't just do the

01:20:20.180 things that they can't really do for themselves like a lot of times in cultural differences

01:20:24.400 especially like for masculinity like macho what's it called like when the mexican macho machismo 0.99

01:20:29.280 machismo like they they are like heavily in that mindset and sometimes they need like a feminine 1.00

01:20:34.740 energy and it's just there's different roles and i i agree with you that what do women do to deserve 0.97

01:20:40.780 a masculine man and that's like why relationships work when there's just two when there's two people 0.89

01:20:46.460 working the way i like give myself to partner is by knowing their preferences like i like to know

01:20:52.640 like how they like their eggs made like i and i love to cook i love to cook um and so that's actually

01:20:59.060 like how one of my love languages is is to like understand like everything you hate and everything

01:21:04.040 you like and just cater to you and at all moments consideration is the purest form of love

01:21:09.980 yeah it's just the little things that you take note of that make them feel like they're being taken

01:21:14.280 care of but everyone despite gender have different preferences because of the way they're raised and

01:21:20.400 like different things they go through in life makes them need different things like for us since we have

01:21:25.080 to grow up like taking care of things we do want someone who can take care of us you know and it's not

01:21:29.380 like i have to always ask you for things but it's just like a good person observes you when they love

01:21:34.940 you they observe you they know you enough to be like oh i don't have to like ask her do you want

01:21:40.140 me to clean the house like if it's dirty you should probably like do it too honey can i get some money

01:21:45.160 so i can hire somebody to clean the house oh yeah like i just like just certain things i feel and

01:21:50.180 like there's rich people who like hire people to do it if they have a big house valid but if you have

01:21:55.400 a small house and it's just like it's not necessary there's different things like that i feel like it's

01:21:59.700 i get cleaning ladies because they're become my friends if you're supporting you're supporting

01:22:04.140 you know like yeah they're my friends when i moved from california my cleaning lady and i cried

01:22:10.560 together yeah you build relationships yeah yeah but yeah that's what i think about like male and

01:22:15.840 females and things that don't work out typically like i grew up and i don't think i've ever gotten 1.00

01:22:20.700 men guys my age like ask me out and it's because like i grew up and i had to like work i started

01:22:27.860 working around 15 and i had that grind and i start i stopped socializing with people a lot because i

01:22:33.420 focused on work and i didn't really have friends i never really partied or anything

01:22:37.020 and people see that like you have that energy and they don't really go to you because they're not

01:22:42.260 ready for like commitment of course and then or whatever you're on there they want to go do other

01:22:46.760 things when they're young you know what i mean i feel like i got tricked by modern feminism

01:22:50.340 and they were like you should work really hard and just do your career and i did it and i did it and

01:22:56.240 i'm here and i'm like wait i agree and like if you want a man who's like stable and has money

01:23:00.180 you're probably like a gold digger like when i was young i was like okay it's like shallow to think

01:23:05.040 these things but now like after my first relationship i'm like it's it's honestly

01:23:09.140 important for a man to have drive because if i have drive and then they don't it's like 0.94

01:23:13.860 yeah i can't be a babysitter and take care of like myself and like you so i am not gonna wear the

01:23:19.960 pants i'd rather be alone yeah truly and they don't even need to be rich they just need to be like

01:23:26.280 achieving you know to an extent i was a hustler from the beginning yeah and guys had nothing to

01:23:31.900 offer nor did they want you did they want to work they didn't want to do anything it's like they just

01:23:37.960 don't think and how am i gonna own a home by myself if i don't have a partner uh-huh and my sisters that

01:23:45.080 were married just said keep working keep doing it yeah and then i'd meet guys that would go i gotta

01:23:51.140 take you down a peg or two and i told you don't actually like like them like them or what no i

01:23:56.560 liked him and i told my sister he just said he's got to take me down a peg or two she goes that's not

01:24:02.040 good and i'm going this dude kept circling my life to see how much better off i was he'd come over to 0.98

01:24:10.140 check out to see what i'd done to my place and i'm thinking dude i could buy or sell you loser 0.88

01:24:16.320 and look what you've done yeah i wouldn't even like associate with those people hello hello i'm 0.69

01:24:22.500 good why he kept circling around and i'd say over next over yeah try not to uh bang on the table 0.77

01:24:31.020 please oh sorry we have a message coming through anal skywalker donated two hundred dollars 0.98

01:24:38.020 these girls are so delusion oh they're delusion around more times than a yellow eye 1.00

01:24:43.700 you know ladies these days expect to be treated like a queen but have taken more loads than a 1.00

01:24:49.340 washing machine like that's wild to say that's some shakespeare shakespeare you know like when 0.99

01:24:55.460 i before i came on this podcast people were like oh my god they do what a comment oh we don't shit 0.97

01:25:00.740 on women but it's wild yeah it's like wild to say this i feel like men who say this never had a 0.81

01:25:06.740 good women because they're not good men i want to hear i want to see a profile you will attract good 1.00

01:25:11.520 women or like you would have the standard to have good women but if you're like a man who just takes 1.00

01:25:15.660 what they get that that's just what you're gonna get that's really bizarre and self-contradictory

01:25:20.140 so it seems to me like men who say well i have standards and i'm able to spot when that's good

01:25:25.620 then like why would they hang on hang on hang on let me finish yeah i didn't interrupt your prattle at

01:25:29.580 all oh so when when i think of a guy can make a determination very quickly uh based on what

01:25:37.160 women are saying what their value is that that's the ultimate sign of security i don't know like 1.00

01:25:42.000 your statement here self-contradictory ah they've just never had a good woman it's like no i think

01:25:46.560 probably they have had good women and that is where they are making the judgment and standard for

01:25:51.240 women who are not good right that makes way more sense to me no that's valid of course that's valid 1.00

01:25:56.420 but what they're saying straight up is assuming who we are i was gonna say because they said like

01:26:01.500 they've been ran through more than a washing machine like i have a washing machine or through

01:26:04.720 a yellow light so that is just an assumption like how do you know that can we see their profile picture

01:26:09.400 well okay hang on hang on i think that that's fair i think that it's fair for you to say like

01:26:14.220 how would you ever be able to ascertain this right right however i think you would have to agree with me

01:26:20.140 that people the reason stereotypes exist is because a lot of times they're true

01:26:24.920 so let's take for instance chair two do you think people might have a preconceived notion

01:26:30.680 that perhaps chair two might be oh i don't know something akin to perhaps a sex worker or something

01:26:36.940 like that just by looking at her i think the odds are pretty high that they would do you think that

01:26:43.160 they would be being unreasonable or insane or in some way unjust for making that determination i don't

01:26:50.020 think so i think it's still unjust based on how based on how women or women carry themselves just 0.83

01:26:54.900 like with men you can tell a lot about the confidence of a man by how he carries himself

01:26:59.040 and you can tell a lot about how a woman is by the way she dresses and by the way she presents herself 0.97

01:27:04.120 right agreed and a lot of times oh for example that man um he's like assuming all women just because

01:27:11.840 of like one particular subgroup of women is like kind of in a sense being stereotypical and like

01:27:17.300 not racist but it's just like you're assuming a whole thing i feel like to be

01:27:20.740 just a decent person wouldn't assume a whole subgroup based on just only fans or like corn people you

01:27:27.900 know there's just so much variety what are you talking about like yeah listen well why would you

01:27:33.440 like the reason that we make these kind of presuppositions when we're meeting people it's the

01:27:39.200 defense mechanism that's built into us for survival but why are you defending like the reason the reason

01:27:44.220 that we have to make and ascertain judgments about people within seconds is what keeps you alive for

01:27:49.880 instance if i'm walking down the street and a guy has a crowbar in his hand a black ski mask on i'm

01:27:54.760 probably gonna avoid him right or am i judging the entire group of people with crowbars and black ski

01:28:00.300 masks when i do that yeah i don't know probably but you know what i probably should hey i probably

01:28:06.000 should it's probably smart to do so it's like no i i think i think it's fine to kind of make some

01:28:12.120 presuppositions about people as far as a survival mechanism because uh that's how we live that's

01:28:18.260 how we operate we have to operate that way yeah i guess it's just different between men and women 1.00

01:28:22.520 because for me i never assume what people do obviously you can make assumptions but to directly

01:28:28.180 correlate that's just i don't think i mean for play with a crowbar then yeah but if we're just a

01:28:33.920 woman dressed like like normal then you're just assuming things that's like that's inappropriate as 0.50

01:28:39.020 well i feel like but one thing that's kind of interesting is if someone says something and

01:28:42.560 it's not true then you don't get offended by it yeah i mean i'm not offended but it's just like you

01:28:46.660 know you know like if someone's like hey you're a washer machine yeah all of us like okay yeah cool

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01:30:16.600 all right uh you know what here while we do this we're gonna get into our first react i think it's

01:30:22.000 maybe topical uh just off the conversation we just did we're gonna uh do the muhammad ali uh video

01:30:28.740 reaction so if you could get that pulled up and then uh guys if you're enjoying the stream kindly

01:30:35.380 like the video and hide the tts thing there in the corner all right so uh this is an interview muhammad

01:30:42.200 ali did and we're going to react to it so pay attention and uh go ahead and play it

01:30:47.940 scoffs okay what's wrong with with mini skirts what's wrong with with hot pants i mean we'll see 0.79

01:30:55.400 wait wait wait pause pause pause pause pause pause pause pause pause it uh hit cc there in the corner

01:31:00.500 on youtube let's put on closed captioning um just started from the beginning it's a little low

01:31:06.900 what's wrong with with mini skirts what's wrong with with hot pants i mean well see we we this is

01:31:12.180 a european design thing and but righteous people you go to saudi arabia tell a woman to put on men's 0.99

01:31:18.020 skirt go to uh zaire africa have the women put on short dresses they'd be fine they're locked up go to 0.98

01:31:25.600 uh pakistan go to go to all throughout is black islamic muslim countries number one i have a wife and

01:31:33.780 she's walking around the skirt up to here and then what's happening well why do i want everybody to

01:31:38.100 see her what's the man i mean people looking and weak and they're lusting for all kind of freaks and

01:31:42.820 and no good people on the streets while i want my wife she can't bend over because the panties show 1.00

01:31:47.140 off the wind blow and my heart shows the behind cows and animals and mules human beings don't walk 0.87

01:31:52.900 and out savages walking around with the behinds out and my wife's behind ain't for every man to look at 1.00

01:31:58.260 you understand so it makes a lot of sense so how can i protect my woman if i'm walking down the street 0.94

01:32:02.820 she's half naked some saddest run up and grab her hell i shouldn't have put out there if i got 1.00

01:32:07.220 merchandise i'm gonna sell i put them put in the window for you to see so if i want my wife why 1.00

01:32:12.100 i don't want anybody to see my wife what's private what's mine everybody looking at her what's me what's

01:32:16.820 wrong with it how can you have a wife of somebody you love anything god made precious he nature hides it

01:32:23.460 you cannot find diamonds easy you have to dig and dig and dig me gotta work to clean them you cannot

01:32:28.740 you cannot find listen you cannot find gold everything god made valuable he made it hard to

01:32:34.660 get pearls rules and ain't my all you have to dig and have time you don't strike everything god

01:32:41.380 created that was valuable he made it hard to get to ain't my woman more important than some diamonds 0.99

01:32:46.420 and some oil and some gold this guy honestly why should she walk around all nude in all of these

01:32:52.580 design clothes her breasts is out she's on the beach wearing clothes that show more than her panties 1.00

01:32:57.380 when she go to bed that's right people don't just might as well come out with a brazier on and her 1.00

01:33:02.500 panties she'd be more covered up than she do in the european style with just something covering up 1.00

01:33:07.140 her nipple and just a little old g-string over and she's walking out on the beach naked these are 1.00

01:33:13.060 savages how about my daughter my wife and my woman walking around for her amanda oh look how 1.00

01:33:18.820 i do boy if i could get to her and what i want that for she's mine what you mean what's wrong

01:33:24.340 with walking around okay you had a cure you had a really strong reaction to that oh it's triggering 0.81

01:33:30.900 you but you did that it's fucking triggering what what's what's your reaction there he just looks 0.99

01:33:36.740 like an insecure little bitch that can't handle a baddie wait hold on you know who that is though 1.00

01:33:41.300 right muhammad ali now i do apparently world like championship boxer he's a little bitch i don't give a 1.00

01:33:47.300 fuck who he is he's awesome um so but why why does that i guess upset you well it's like if you're 1.00

01:33:53.140 with a beautiful woman other people look like who gives a fuck yeah my girl's hot hype her up gas her 1.00

01:33:59.300 up yeah but wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait okay who here agrees with her oh no i said i 1.00

01:34:07.380 agree a little bit with the video you agree with him what about you um i don't agree with him um but i had

01:34:13.540 a question like you you agree with what he's saying to an extent right i agree that like

01:34:21.380 if a woman's beautiful people are gonna look at her if she's modest or not like in in general so if 1.00

01:34:26.980 you're beautiful like why do you have to overly show it and i personally like to feel like protected

01:34:32.740 by my man and so i wouldn't dress scandalously with a man personally i feel like you're dressed like a

01:34:39.140 little scandalous i mean obviously i'm very scandalous too but like you have really short

01:34:44.900 shorts on and your boobs are out well he was also talking about marriage and like being in a

01:34:49.860 committed relationship and i think that that's like a huge difference i i agree with that she's

01:34:54.020 in a relationship with herself after all so yeah so you can wear whatever you want i mean if

01:35:01.300 i like to dress sexy it makes me happy i don't do it to get attention i do it because

01:35:05.460 it makes me feel good about myself and i feel like my partner should be celebrating me if i'm happy

01:35:11.220 whatever makes me happy and if i like to dress like that it is what it is i think whatever makes

01:35:18.100 you happy i think we're in that hold on hold on can i can i have you scoot your microphone to the edge

01:35:22.580 of the table like kind of pull it um here let's go around the table get people's reactions i'm all for

01:35:28.500 mohammed ali what he said i don't want a kanye west but that uh parades his wife out naked in front 0.98

01:35:36.900 it's like what how humiliating for her as though she's just trash i love the protectiveness of a 1.00

01:35:44.900 man that he loves he wants to cherish her i think it's great i love your reaction yeah i don't agree 0.69

01:35:52.100 with him not wanting his person to wear a bit not to not wear a bikini at the beach like it's the beach

01:35:57.540 but i do understand why he wouldn't want his wife showing certain intimate parts of her body like

01:36:02.980 in public because that's his wife but that also comes with understanding your person before you

01:36:06.980 get married what about you yeah i would say the same thing i think because he's talking about

01:36:11.140 being in a committed relationship but if i like when you're single and doing whatever i don't think

01:36:14.580 that's that big of a deal but i think it is a red flag when someone's in a relationship and then

01:36:18.980 their partner is dressed a certain way it kind of shows that there's like an opening in the

01:36:22.500 relationship and maybe it's not as solid in my opinion but i do think anyone should be able to

01:36:28.260 wear whatever they want but in that case it would kind of be like a red flag okay your thoughts i'm

01:36:33.540 like 50 50 uh what he was saying because i think you we are independent i mean you as a woman or as a

01:36:40.900 guy you have your rights to dress up as you want and no one has the right to tell you how you should go

01:36:47.380 out from your house even if it's your boyfriend your husband your daughter your son doesn't matter

01:36:52.660 so i think i understand his point of view and i do believe there are a lot of women outside 0.70

01:36:59.620 thinking the way how he is thinking and he will find that girl i mean he will find it because we

01:37:03.700 are so different but i think at the same time he has to respect if his or her partner doesn't want

01:37:09.460 to dress up how he wanted to it's fine i mean we need to respect each other i think so

01:37:14.660 how about Kanye West yeah but i think in that case she likes it she wanted to she's doing it

01:37:22.500 so why is that like this question although i don't know yeah that's like we don't know if he wants to

01:37:26.340 do it yeah i don't know about that she did that many times so wait so just question for you really

01:37:33.620 quick and then i know andrew wants to weigh in but you said that a boyfriend or husband should not

01:37:38.580 be able to tell their girlfriend or wife how to dress yeah okay but so are you saying that it's pretty

01:37:44.500 much there's no boundaries or there's no uh influence that someone can have in a relationship

01:37:51.060 like you'd be you wouldn't i mean there's a different dynamic here when it comes to like

01:37:54.820 more traditional relationships if there's a exactly uh submissive dynamic where can a woman dictate to 1.00

01:38:00.900 a man what what to do but you think a man and his his girlfriend or wife's about to go out wearing

01:38:07.860 like lingerie and he's like i don't want you to wear that that's crazy you don't think he can dictate

01:38:12.660 that to her they can have the discussion but he has no right to say what he wants what she wants 0.90

01:38:17.860 to wear okay but how about this so i guess he can't force her to do it but he can also say okay

01:38:24.420 well this relationship's over they should have the same moral code the same moral code wait so and also

01:38:34.580 to you like if your boyfriend was wearing like something totally inappropriate to go out to say

01:38:40.660 like a dinner like a family dinner and he wanted to wear i mean it's kind of different between men and

01:38:45.060 women just because of what we're allowed to but it just wasn't he wasn't dressed well enough he's not 0.96

01:38:51.060 like his balls aren't hanging out or some shit but i don't know whatever uh he's wearing like shorts and 0.98

01:38:56.020 a tank top you wouldn't say anything to your you're not wearing that to the dinner you wouldn't say anything 0.99

01:39:01.060 i've been there i've been in that situation and i'd say i said everything but at the end it's up to him i

01:39:06.900 cannot say anything i will go out with him anyways i cannot say okay we are broke we we break up right

01:39:11.860 now or you are not going with me i mean so you're saying so you're you're saying this was the extent

01:39:16.980 of the conversation hey boyfriend can you change into something else and he said no and that was the

01:39:21.780 end of the conversation we go out anyways but does the conversation end there or are you like

01:39:27.540 like you really can't wear that uh i will not keep pushing the other person to change or to wear

01:39:34.100 whatever i want because i think everyone should decide what you want to wear and how people and

01:39:39.460 how you want to be um watching by the other people like no i want to dress up like this and i want

01:39:45.140 people watch me with this so i think yeah what if your boyfriend or husband wanted to wear a dress

01:39:50.580 a pink dress out with you somewhere would you live your best life have a ball 1.00

01:39:57.620 okay um you know what uh before i have andrew way in here do you have any final any other thoughts on

01:40:02.820 this i think she does okay i do okay careful first i think it's good to mention that there's a big

01:40:10.900 cultural difference in terms of clothing and style between america and like everywhere else in the

01:40:16.260 world yeah i think it's very valid uh but like yeah he has different traditions rooted in him

01:40:20.660 though of course sure and it's also from that it's probably from the 70s or 80s yeah of course and then

01:40:25.380 i think it's very valid for him to think that but of course he's talking about what he likes and i

01:40:30.740 think it's also valid as a mother as like um um a wife to not wear i mean miniskirt is like it's 0.98

01:40:38.420 kind of not necessary in my opinion and i think it is important to discuss those things like i wouldn't go

01:40:44.260 out i always ask my boyfriend from his opinion for what i wear it's because like i want to look good

01:40:50.420 for him of course i want to look good in general for myself but he is like my boyfriend you know

01:40:54.900 and i do do it for him too but um i think what he said is valid to many extents it's just um

01:41:02.660 yeah many extents i think it's the way you go about it too because it's one thing to communicate 0.96

01:41:06.340 hey like you wearing this makes me uncomfortable versus yes take this shit over now like you know 0.93

01:41:10.340 what i'm saying just have respect like if he doesn't want me to wear something because like 0.97

01:41:14.340 this and there's just occasions you wear certain things the beach in california yeah yeah yeah but

01:41:18.980 then like if you're in the streets wearing a bikini then it's like uh no can i say something

01:41:22.740 because um literally like my whole instagram is just me in a bikini so i i really like personally

01:41:30.660 showing off my body because i'm very confident in myself and like i think that that's like what's

01:41:37.460 most beautiful about myself and like how i express myself is with like costumes and

01:41:43.700 very like provocative clothes and it just makes me feel really pretty and for some reason this is

01:41:50.820 probably like my own issue but anytime like i'm very conservative and like completely covered up

01:41:56.900 i literally feel so ugly and i'm not sure why i'm like that but i really do like feel so ugly like if i'm

01:42:06.740 not like sure and then going back to you uh you said i think you said you think men are insecure is

01:42:12.340 that well to me it's like when you're being controlling controlling okay don't tell your

01:42:17.540 girl what to wear you can voice your concern how it makes you feel like it makes me feel uncomfortable

01:42:22.820 for you to wear that and she'll get to decide how she acts according to what his feelings so do you 0.73

01:42:29.540 believe in like 50 50 relationships if it works for you i'm not saying it's right or wrong if it

01:42:35.860 works for you it works yeah what about you uh i've been in different scenarios like i've been the

01:42:42.660 provider but i've also been the girl that's been taken care of i've had i've been on both ends of the

01:42:47.940 spectrum okay but what about um i mean do you in terms of decision making in a relationship you

01:42:55.540 want it to be 50 50 do you want a guy who's a leader what do you you like what's the dynamic that

01:43:02.340 you prefer i mean i like when the man takes the lead but i also like it when he gives me an opportunity

01:43:07.220 to lead for certain situations it just depends i'm sorry why you say when he gives me the lead

01:43:13.460 like the opportunities like he doesn't he doesn't have to give you like well like sometimes like

01:43:18.100 my boyfriend be like like i'll he will plan a date night and then he'll be like you want me to plan

01:43:25.460 it or do you want to take the reins on it like yes go ahead go ahead go ahead oh that that's

01:43:33.780 that's all i had to say okay we have a quick i have a quick video on that pull it up then andrew's

01:43:38.660 chomping at the bit to get in go ahead play it go ahead i got away with everything under the last

01:43:46.260 boss and it wasn't good for me at all so i want guidance that's good i want leadership but don't just

01:43:52.820 like boss me around you know like lead me lead me when i'm in the mood to be led

01:44:03.060 yeah so i mean i don't think it's mood it's more like circumstances but it's like you said you

01:44:07.700 wanted a guy who's a leader but how's a guy supposed to turn it on turn it off like i mean

01:44:13.940 that's usually a hundred percent you guys can't really pick and choose like you either want a

01:44:19.220 leader or you can have a little soy boy who's looking to you yeah what do you oh i don't know

01:44:23.220 what i want to eat whatever you want babe but like even like embers had like a counselor you

01:44:27.780 know i mean embers what is that emperors like oh emperors just like they just have like you just

01:44:32.660 talk about things like that's what relationships are like and there's certain things that again

01:44:37.460 different roles different things girl it's got to be give and take yeah does there honestly like

01:44:43.140 i'm can be so pushy and intense sometimes that when a guy's like no i'm like someone did that

01:44:50.180 like and i like that and that's weird right like i love strong because there's guys that just won't 0.98

01:44:56.580 say anything and i'm like if you agree with everything i say i know you're full of shit uh 0.90

01:45:00.340 andrew you wanted to weigh in on this yeah so uh you said um this was chair three you'd said 0.99

01:45:09.460 you know you just can't handle a bad right he can't handle a baddie right can't handle a baddie

01:45:15.700 but it's really funny because he actually is answering to the criticisms which a lot of the

01:45:21.060 table have offered uh this evening towards men and he's uh he's offering basically exactly what it is

01:45:27.300 that you want it's not good enough so here's what he actually said there women i don't know why but

01:45:31.700 when when men speak especially on topics like this women just tune them out and seem to hear what they 0.95

01:45:36.020 want to hear but here's what he actually said what he actually said was if you put all of that on display

01:45:42.660 if you're putting everything out on display for other people right then obviously you must want

01:45:47.860 other people to see it he says things like gold diamonds things like this they're really super hard to

01:45:54.020 define and so when a man finds something like that he doesn't want to share it because it's his he

01:45:58.580 doesn't want to share it with anybody he doesn't want other people to touch it he doesn't put it out

01:46:02.580 on display he doesn't want it stolen from him he doesn't want it taken from him he doesn't want it

01:46:07.300 looked at by other people he doesn't want it fondled he doesn't want it up manhandled he doesn't want

01:46:11.700 it messed with right he wants it all to himself because it's his it's his diamond it's his gold it's that

01:46:18.660 that and he says i fought tooth and nail to get it because those things which are

01:46:22.500 diamonds are the hardest things in the whole world to find they're the hardest things in the

01:46:26.180 world to get and it takes a lot of work to get one so when you get one you don't want to share it

01:46:30.080 with anybody right so his criticism is why would you if a man has you and values you that much

01:46:37.280 betray him by doing that to him that's his criticism not a single one of you responded 0.98

01:46:42.520 to the criticism because you didn't even fucking listen you didn't even fucking listen to him well 0.96

01:46:47.220 first of all diamond rings are like on people's hands all the time people share like you're not 0.99

01:46:51.520 even gonna but i'm just give me a break oh first of all the actual criticism yeah and the actual

01:46:58.260 criticism go ahead wait repeat the criticism one more time so i can really dive in no just repeat

01:47:02.720 it one more time no go ahead and just repeat it instead of like always no just go ahead and just

01:47:08.440 say one more time but like i think all of us here here's the reader's digest okay go ahead man finds

01:47:13.540 most valuable thing on planet earth does not want to share it does not want to share it because he's

01:47:18.800 showing how much he values it by refusing to share it right thing that's valuable though says i want

01:47:24.500 to be shared that shows man thing that's valuable doesn't value him yeah get it now yeah i simple

01:47:30.120 enough okay if you value something he'll want the best for whatever he values he would this is a

01:47:37.780 person not an object that we're talking about too so if the object is opinionated i think someone who

01:47:43.780 values them would also listen that's why it's it's two in a relationship i agree to what he said

01:47:49.460 in terms of being promiscuous and stuff but again it takes two and i think that both opinions matter

01:47:56.240 if each other respect there's respect between each other there's going to be conversation if he's dating

01:48:01.440 someone or being with somebody who won't listen to him conversation and just conversation and just like

01:48:07.840 conversation what what conversation needs to be had when you say you're the most valuable thing on

01:48:13.660 earth to me so therefore i have to stay hidden valuable thing on okay to me yes so please don't

01:48:19.240 betray that yeah by putting yourself in the hands of other men but how is that putting in the hands of

01:48:24.360 other men if you're just because what else are you displaying it for you guys always cope and say i just 1.00

01:48:29.500 dress like a skank so that other women will think i'm pretty stop lying it's bullshit it's bullshit lies 1.00

01:48:34.840 every man knows it's bullshit lies you put yourselves on display because you want the adoration of men 1.00

01:48:40.640 we want that that's why you do it yes it is yes it is why do you always think it's about men that we 0.98

01:48:45.720 want to give it to because here's the thing i believe 100 and you can dispute this i want to

01:48:50.800 hear it sounds i believe 100 if all men died tomorrow there wasn't a single man left there was a

01:48:55.900 a man wiped out virus right you're all gone i don't think any of you would dress like that i

01:49:01.060 do you know about women gyms like i yeah i love clothes i think the one thing about being a woman 1.00

01:49:08.140 that is really cool that i like learn to love is dressing up it is really really fun and if you

01:49:14.000 guys all died i would still dress up even better man matter of fact i might go out naked if it's all

01:49:19.300 just women you know what i mean it's just like we like to dress up yeah in the morning please in the 0.86

01:49:25.160 morning when you got up to go to the store you wouldn't spend three hours in front of the mirror

01:49:29.180 yeah because i have a schedule and a tight schedule if i had all the time in the world

01:49:34.140 to play dress up i would it's such cope it's such cope when women claim like she says chair two says 1.00

01:49:40.540 i dress in bikinis all day in my instagram but that's because the only way i feel good about it

01:49:46.900 and that's you think that that's for other women right yeah that's like for myself though because

01:49:52.000 that's what i mean i think i'm like i look good and i feel pretty that's what i was saying is like

01:49:57.760 it's about myself you keep bringing her up because she's like she doesn't understand i love the video

01:50:03.040 of the dad when his daughter goes out she chopped off her pants to wear hot pants so he went in the

01:50:10.740 kitchen and he chopped his pants off so he's wearing hot pants yeah and people are going what the hell is 0.53

01:50:17.380 he doing no that's valid she got the point did she look like a complete pooch yeah i agree you know 1.00

01:50:25.120 there's again circumstances i just don't understand how a specific outfit equals i'm sharing my woman

01:50:33.020 with the world like it doesn't compute in my brain no no no no no no no no the thing is that men are

01:50:37.940 really right that actually shouldn't hang on you're right that actually shouldn't compute

01:50:41.420 because it misses the point entirely it's not about i don't want my woman to go out because uh in in 0.99

01:50:49.520 these clothes because it's sharing her with the world it's about the betrayal that she would even

01:50:53.900 want to how many hard-ons do women give men just walking by looking like that well calm down lady i'm 0.99

01:51:02.180 almost done so what he's referencing there is he's saying why would a person who i value this much

01:51:10.720 i found gold you're gold and i'm going to treat you like you're precious in all ways to me by never

01:51:16.360 putting you on display by putting you under lock and key from all dangers you're as precious as

01:51:21.300 diamonds and rubies why would you betray that by going and putting yourself on display for other

01:51:27.000 men that's his i just don't understand how it's betrayal if if she if that's just how she likes to

01:51:32.620 dress because you're getting a man hard okay men look with their eyes how many hard-ons do you give a

01:51:39.720 man when you're exposed walking down the street it's not it's not about just you it's not always

01:51:45.860 about you it's not always about how you feel right and that it's also it's also the idea here is

01:51:52.320 imagine for a second that all capacity you had for caring about somebody else was imbued in one other

01:51:59.220 human being and that human being appeared like they wanted to share themselves with others

01:52:04.580 wouldn't that feel like the ultimate betrayal to you no no well first of all you keep saying then

01:52:12.720 it's like reasoning with a 10 year old well you keep saying that if i can't even reason with you

01:52:18.320 right and that's what communication is you're taking an unprincipled position hang on one at a time

01:52:23.420 let her finish right she doesn't need your help you don't have to insert right so anyway uh there 0.52

01:52:29.160 it it's impossible to actually reason with you on this then if if i ask you the question you imbued

01:52:35.120 all of your love into one person and that one person wanted to share themselves with other people

01:52:40.640 that wouldn't feel like a betrayal to you how does that even make sense i think if you get in a

01:52:45.040 relationship with someone who dresses like that constantly then it shouldn't be betrayal to you

01:52:49.740 so it kind of you and you met them like if you met them and that's who they are then that's who

01:52:53.740 they are and it's kind of on you if you're trying to change somebody like whether or not you can

01:52:57.680 accept it or not i mean all of my friends hang on but hang on he addresses this criticism why do you

01:53:02.280 keep interrupting though but he addresses this criticism so he's saying wait a second you find

01:53:09.060 this woman she's one of the ones that's not doing this other behavior she's not dressing like this 1.00

01:53:14.280 she's not dressing like that right she's not putting herself on display for other people 0.57

01:53:18.700 but then why if you did have her would you ever want her to even if she wanted to of course you

01:53:24.620 don't of course not yeah i think we're talking about two different types of women wait i can i 1.00

01:53:29.160 mean i would even address that so even in the situation where okay she's dressing that way when

01:53:35.080 she's single i think there is an expectation obviously when people are single they're going to 0.99

01:53:39.680 be doing single behavior so prior to dating a guy could have no problem with a woman necessarily

01:53:45.560 engaging in what he considered to be single behavior in this case advertising yourself

01:53:51.140 by dressing revealing but once you've started dating once you're in a relationship once you're

01:53:56.380 married he now wanted her to act in a way that he thought was consistent and commensurate with being

01:54:03.240 in a relationship and here's the reality that a lot of you guys just don't like to acknowledge men and

01:54:09.140 women flirt differently so men will slide into your dms women don't really do those sort of i'm not 0.97

01:54:17.220 saying some women will slide into dms will slide into a dms will approach women you will put yourselves

01:54:23.480 in positions to be approached so if you go to the club you're not running up on 10 20 different dudes

01:54:30.000 in the night hey what's up can i get can i get your number no but you're putting yourself in a position

01:54:35.380 dressed as attractively as possible to garner the attention of men now i know you guys dress up for

01:54:42.400 other reasons whatever but you're putting yourselves nevertheless in said position to be approached and

01:54:48.240 this applies to online how you portray yourself online so if you're posting revealing photos online

01:54:52.840 you know you don't slide into a dude's dm but you post a thirst trap guys are dming you you go out

01:54:58.140 to the bar and club you're dressed revealing whatever it is maybe you don't even want that guys are

01:55:02.560 going to come up to you so that's the difference but here's the interesting thing we don't put any

01:55:08.060 controls on women's single conduct so for example if i was in a relationship would you all agree

01:55:14.120 that it would be essentially cheating if i'm dating a girl i'm in a relationship with her for me to go up

01:55:19.500 to a woman and flirt yeah 100 sure and so but the behaviors in which women elicit male attention 1.00

01:55:30.080 in a relationship men this is all new shit instagram girls have been dressing provocatively for 40 50 0.98

01:55:39.460 years maybe men don't clamp down on your single behaviors because it's all new it's all new but it's 0.99

01:55:46.640 pretty clear like if a woman you'd step to a dude you approach a guy that's cheating i step to a girl

01:55:52.080 that's cheating but y'all don't step to dudes to begin with you don't approach men to begin with

01:55:57.340 you put yourselves in the position to be approached that's your single girl behavior and you continue 0.97

01:56:02.780 that in the relationship so men we want reciprocity but it's not it's not perfectly there's not perfect

01:56:09.420 symmetry in the ways that we act so you go to the club dressed revealing that's what you do when

01:56:16.740 you're single that's how you get attention when you're single we have to stop our behaviors 0.98

01:56:21.540 stepping to a girl approaching a girl but you guys don't i think those boundaries should just

01:56:28.020 just be communicated because some guys don't care if their girl dresses all you know like don't disagree

01:56:32.560 at all you know so i think that should be communicated before a serious relationship takes place

01:56:36.340 yeah sure but i would make the argument that a man who doesn't care doesn't care about you

01:56:42.060 that would be my argument that i would make i would make the argument that unless if a man if a man

01:56:48.060 doesn't care if you go out and you advertise all the goods all the time he doesn't really give a

01:56:51.560 shit about you because the things that i care about they're i keep them i keep them close i keep 0.89

01:56:56.280 them under lock and key i keep them guarded i don't let anybody hear them right i also think you 0.99

01:57:01.280 know your partner so if you're dating someone who's clearly dressing up for like male attention

01:57:10.120 and other male attention or if you're dating someone who's just confident with themselves

01:57:13.860 and is wearing something because they feel like they look nice you should know the difference between

01:57:17.900 those two partners yeah but here's well here's the thing people can come so people lie to themselves

01:57:25.300 a lot right women and men both women are not the only ones who lie to themselves uh at all right men

01:57:32.320 lie to themselves often too especially when it comes to relationships and oftentimes we'll live

01:57:37.040 under a self-delusion right that these are not problematic behaviors and things like this even

01:57:41.560 though they actually are so ultimately i'm just saying i think it's a deluded take if a man that you're

01:57:46.860 with so there's two things right if a man you're with is willing to share you with another man he doesn't

01:57:50.820 give a shit about you right i think anybody would universally agree if a man lets another man sleep 0.89

01:57:55.820 with you he doesn't care about you but i would take it one step further and say that if a man is 0.99

01:58:01.100 allowing you to flaunt your goods to other men that's basically doing the exact same thing it's 1.00

01:58:06.600 advertising that you're available to sleep with that's the point right so how can you really care

01:58:10.620 about you i don't really believe that they could i don't think that they could well i do think one of

01:58:15.440 the biggest issues we have right now too with dating is that like we don't give enough time to get to

01:58:19.940 know someone so your your hypothetical situation could be a relationship that's been like six

01:58:25.200 months and these people don't even know each other anyway so there's like no trust you guys haven't

01:58:30.340 been through shit with each other and then it's like all of a sudden you're jealous over this person

01:58:34.100 that you just met like five minutes ago and you're in a relationship with them and there's like no trust 0.97

01:58:39.440 because there's been no time yeah i mean i guess but still ultimately if you're saying i'm in a

01:58:47.160 relationship i just don't think i don't see how you think a man values you if he doesn't give a 0.98

01:58:52.900 shit if you dress half naked and go to a club they don't care about you then they just don't care 0.98

01:58:56.780 and even if they themselves believe that they do it's just self-delusion right things men care about 0.99

01:59:03.080 they guard with their lives and they don't share them they don't easily share them but men don't

01:59:08.500 care about us like that right now because they don't know us well enough no no it's not that it's that

01:59:14.260 they don't they don't care about most of you guys because that's how most of you guys act so

01:59:19.120 what's to care about right they think again you're they think you're always advertising you're always

01:59:24.260 open for business and so they think you're always open for business it's like you can never truly be

01:59:29.880 that that piece of gold that i found that ruby i have that really rare earth mineral that's only for

01:59:37.660 me because you're still open for business you could be somebody else's that's how they that's how they

01:59:42.520 have you had that earth mineral in your life have you had a woman like that that you feel that way

01:59:47.460 about her and how long did you know her you mean my wife yeah how long did you know her before

01:59:53.200 before you felt that way uh from dating her yeah from meeting her to dating her to being together

02:00:00.460 for us how many years for us trust was built very quickly but you know what i was actually really

02:00:05.680 what's quickly hang on hang on i was i was actually very fortunate i don't remember you're talking

02:00:10.400 about like 16 years ago i'm saying like that's why you feel this way i was fortunate i was fortunate

02:00:16.400 in this take right so my wife saw me as that piece of gold saw me as that piece of platinum right

02:00:23.540 i was not to be advertised i was not to be like i was the hidden kept secret the nobody's coming near

02:00:31.100 you no nobody's gonna get near you period right now i'm an ugly old man now but i used to be handsome

02:00:37.360 and strong right so the thing is it's like she didn't want nobody coming near me right and that's

02:00:43.680 one of the ways she showed me how how valuable i really was to her and it's like and did you see

02:00:49.300 her value in doing that immediately or how long did it take there's no the second that behavior starts 0.99

02:00:55.540 the other person at least understands how much you value them yeah i just think immediately that would

02:01:00.780 be day one day one if a person said look uh i respect you too much uh or have enough self-respect

02:01:07.980 for myself to allow myself to be seen in public with a half-naked harlot um i think that they that 0.90

02:01:14.060 is they're telling you something right um i have like two wait wait hold on you wanted to come in

02:01:19.760 i'm gonna just say this like as a dj both jade and i we like to wear sexy outfits the guy i'm currently

02:01:26.980 seeing her boyfriend like they love seeing us flourish and thrive and be in our rock star era

02:01:35.120 and we make sure it's known that these are our men like kiss them hold their hand make them feel

02:01:41.160 secure we're going home together at the end of the night we're getting drinks together so i don't know

02:01:47.300 i just if it works it works for you and that that should be discussed between both parties well how

02:01:54.800 about this um and and you know what i even understand i understand the take i understand

02:02:01.240 the take of saying look there are certain things that i want certain needs that i have uh that you

02:02:07.320 know if you're not interested in reciprocity here i'm just not interested in a relationship i get that

02:02:11.840 i'm just telling you i think it's ultimately somewhat beside the point i'm saying that i don't 0.95

02:02:16.920 think men can really value you or really do value you if they don't give a shit how provocatively 0.97

02:02:23.860 you're dressed when you go out with your girlfriends or you go to the club or you have these types of 0.90

02:02:28.340 pictures on instagram i don't believe that they really do i think that um i think it would be a

02:02:33.880 really hard sell because i just know how men behave when they really care about something and when they

02:02:39.220 do man you can't get near it you can't get near it um can i say something um i think that you're

02:02:45.740 really old and i think that the younger generation is like a little bit different and like i date 0.99

02:02:51.880 younger guys and no don't interrupt me please hell will freeze over before i'll be lectured by a hooker 1.00

02:02:58.940 well i'm not a hooker freeze over before i will be that's very rude i'm not a hooker like only 1.00

02:03:05.260 fans you're a prostitute lady no i'm not a prostitute you're are you on only fans selling your butthole 1.00

02:03:11.180 picks for 50 cents that doesn't discount her opinion though uh yeah well i'm not gonna get 1.00

02:03:15.980 and honestly i think it's really weird that you have a wife and you're saying those things about me 0.75

02:03:21.820 like why are you worried about my body so much about relationship advice from a prostitute 0.81

02:03:27.980 why would i care about you so you can get a different perspective ever ever why do i ever

02:03:32.380 care i'm talking about normal people in normal relationships i mean i actually have a rebuttal to

02:03:37.260 this so uh you say younger people they move a certain way the reality is gen z it's actually way

02:03:45.660 more conservative and gen z men are leaning way more conservative than previous generations so this idea 0.55

02:03:51.900 that uh younger generations like when i was younger yeah people like girls were dressing 1.00

02:03:57.260 revealing like it's not it's not a new thing well you trust me that it's a new thing it's the last

02:04:01.900 40 years you just said that that people yeah i would say since like the 1970s uh it's been progressively

02:04:09.580 more and more socially acceptable to dress revealing i agree and i think all of my friends are the same age

02:04:14.380 as me and we all dress sexy yeah we're not disputing that women dress revealing of wanting to part 0.99

02:04:23.100 men's money from their wallet in exchange for your flesh do you realize the distinction they're giving

02:04:29.820 it to her yeah in exchange for her flesh so do you understand how biased that ultimately will end up 0.99

02:04:37.100 being when it comes to the idea of relationships even before i did that even contending with this

02:04:42.220 i dress sexy too yeah because you're incentivizing men through your instagram to go to your of and give

02:04:48.780 you money i i just said before i ever did instagram or only fans i i dress sexy too even in high school

02:04:55.260 yeah it's not just sex workers who are involved in who dress revealing yeah but that's what he just 0.93

02:05:00.620 called me a hooker and a prostitute which i'm not okay well that's another listen i'm going to just

02:05:06.220 tell you because i'm not ever going to lie to you right um definitionally only fans work is 0.84

02:05:12.380 prostitution you may not like that but that's exactly what it is that's here is there much difference

02:05:17.740 between that like professional football players and baseball players that like

02:05:22.460 use their bodies and then they're no good later there's yeah there's a there's a big difference

02:05:27.580 i dated a guy with what's it called crt from football yeah there's a big he's messed up forever

02:05:32.540 in his brain like he'll never be the same from getting tackled yeah but it's he sacrificed his

02:05:39.340 body and his brain for the job and you know what kind of similar there's less likelihood for those

02:05:45.260 injuries than a construction worker should men not work construction so the thing is is like

02:05:49.420 when you're even when you're looking at trying to make the sports comparison which has always been a

02:05:53.260 terrible comparison that men will utilize their bodies in a professional status which may lead to

02:05:58.060 risk right almost all functions of men's jobs are that way an electrician a construction worker yeah my

02:06:04.460 whole family does construction all of these jobs are extremely high risk but necessary to society

02:06:11.180 when it comes to sports is necessary to society how is there how is there an equivalency to sports 0.98

02:06:16.620 entertainment to selling asshole picks for for five dollars i think it's that men are jealous that 1.00

02:06:22.540 they can't do it like oh no they can do any woman on the planet any woman on the planet with anything 1.00

02:06:29.580 any disability anything can make money off of an only fans with the right attitude and consistency

02:06:35.660 because of the way that men fetishize women i'm sorry making on average what are they making on

02:06:41.740 average on only fans women i don't know what they're making hundred bucks a month on average 1.00

02:06:46.700 that's because they're not if they're not consistent enough i'm sure that's a lie you gotta know the

02:06:50.780 numbers on this but it's like because there's elite there's like with every profession there's elite

02:06:55.500 levels which make a ton of money and they're extremely but if anyone who wasn't elite and was consistent

02:07:00.140 they could be a millionaire again too just posting and posting and finding the right demographic

02:07:03.980 no that's not true and we have all the evidence in the world it's because men it's like there's 0.53

02:07:09.180 no they're not satiated who do it the evidence is all against you there's tens of thousands of

02:07:15.420 women who are very consistent with their of and it never goes oh anywhere ever i mean literally all

02:07:21.180 of my friends are making like a million dollars a month but it's really not true yeah that's not

02:07:26.380 all your friends wait wait or something all your friends are making a million dollars a month

02:07:30.940 a month not they make 12 million dollars that's what you just said how much of my friends are

02:07:37.100 making a lot i don't want to say how much is it a million dollars a month no not yet but it should

02:07:43.100 be like that's how many of your friends are making a million dollars a month i have like four or

02:07:47.100 five friends that are making over here come 180 000 irs agents i'm sure they can ask a question

02:07:56.780 i mean do you guys not know like sophie rain she made 42 million dollars yeah there yes there are

02:08:01.980 that's also it's not fake it's not fake i think it is i think it is no it's not what about um the

02:08:08.220 girl that was on this podcast nala she made over 18 million dollars on only fans yeah she's she claims 0.98

02:08:16.460 she's broke and being audited by the irs now she's broke because she stopped doing only fans and now 0.99

02:08:21.420 she's a christian and she well no it's because she was moved out of that industry due to aging

02:08:25.980 and due to the fact that well i have the same manager as her and she made 18 million dollars 1.00

02:08:31.260 on only fans can i yeah we're not nobody nobody is disputing but he said i'm making a hundred dollars

02:08:37.020 a month he's he said that the average you just did the meme here's the meme i say on average right

02:08:43.980 women are five foot six and you go i'm five foot seven you literally that's literally the me you just 1.00

02:08:49.980 did it right on on average women are five foot six and you say that's not true i'm five foot seven 1.00

02:08:55.420 do you realize how absurd that is right i said on average woman making on only fans did i say

02:09:01.260 anything about you then say anything about how much you make on only fans specific women are going 1.00

02:09:06.620 to be able to make a lot of money on only fans right it has nothing to do with you has to do with

02:09:11.660 what they're on average making what are they on average making about 100 bucks a month well you're

02:09:15.820 such a hater on only fans but you're looking up on safari like how what's the average i just think

02:09:20.940 that's weird well oh knowing stats for an industry that i'm opposed to is weird that's weird with big

02:09:28.460 big political opinions like that it's no wonder you do of right yes of course you're going to do

02:09:34.460 oppositional research on things that you have disagreements with why wouldn't you do that well

02:09:39.100 how is that even weird that makes no sense can i ask a question about only fans do you

02:09:46.060 think there's any type of like spiritual or metaphysical impact that like when people see

02:09:52.380 your images or any videos they like have this like tension like do you think that impacts you

02:09:58.220 on a spiritual world like in the spiritual realm um i mean i'm very spiritual and i believe in a lot

02:10:05.100 about like energy and i think it is kind of weird to like give your energy out to so many people

02:10:10.860 and um sometimes i think about how many guys like see me um naked but um i honestly like really like

02:10:20.460 the attention and like you guys can judge me for that but like that's how i feel loved and like that's

02:10:27.020 how i feel pretty like just what do you think of crystal energy um i'm not there's like a there's

02:10:32.860 a big thing with gen z this is a really strange thing strange phenomenon i don't understand them so

02:10:38.460 maybe you could be like energy specialist can elucidate what is the deal with the crystals

02:10:43.100 um i'm not super into crystals i'm more into like manifestation but why do we have crystals here

02:10:53.020 yeah i don't know well crystals are really cool maybe it's a way for you to like

02:10:57.900 prism your ears like which crystal color would you pick if you had to pick a color this one

02:11:02.700 because this one's that would be the color crystal okay yeah there's strange going on with these

02:11:09.020 crystals i don't know what the deal is i i think they do stuff they have healing energy depending

02:11:13.660 on what you use them for i think i have a crystal in my pocket right now you know what color is the

02:11:19.500 crystal in your pocket my crystal in my pocket is blue tiger's eye it's a little one it's a little

02:11:25.340 one just a little baby you carry a crystal yes i also carry a crystal i love crystals you carry a

02:11:31.980 crystal too well yeah i think every color is the crystal you carry these crystals i have that one the

02:11:36.300 pink one these crystals have atoms all the atoms vibrate depending on like exactly and so like it

02:11:43.100 does stuff and even if you don't if you don't believe the science the fact that you think it

02:11:47.580 might do something then it's a placebo effect and therefore it works anyways so we're good

02:11:52.140 how many of you guys have crystals that you carry with you by a show of hands i don't carry

02:11:58.140 how many of you have crystals at home

02:11:59.740 all of you are going in the crystals every one of you all of them in the crystals every one of you

02:12:08.620 is going in the crystal in the crystals in the crystals you know i have um i do have a question

02:12:14.300 on this it was nice it's nice of you it's very convenient that they brought their own crystal to go

02:12:19.020 into though that is interesting it's very very sweet um i guess going to you on this uh or the whole

02:12:26.220 panel really uh what do you guys think about when a guy's in a relationship liking another girl's 0.90

02:12:31.660 instagram post i don't give a fuck don't care i don't care i don't care i don't like it it depends 0.96

02:12:37.420 on how you interact with it like it depends on who it is following he's following a bunch of like 0.98

02:12:42.060 chicks hotter than you um i care because i'm an instagram model and i feel like i'm like pretty

02:12:48.940 enough to just like have you interested in me and my boyfriend and actually all of my exes they 0.69

02:12:54.860 never followed a single girl because i just think they really they have never i literally on and

02:13:01.580 they want to do that word okay cool so you guys are fine with it though like boy boyfriends just

02:13:09.340 on his phone looking at i don't like it and my boyfriend doesn't do that okay what about this uh

02:13:14.460 your boyfriend like watching porn um i don't like him watching porn because i do only fans and i feel 0.75

02:13:21.260 like he could be looking at my porn so wait you don't want him looking at your stuff no i want 0.95

02:13:27.100 i want him to only look at me not another girl doing the same thing that i'm doing if that makes

02:13:32.540 sense oh that's really controlling and insecure insecure i guess what about you okay um i don't

02:13:36.940 really my i don't really care for it and but i know he wouldn't anyways oh sorry i i i don't really

02:13:43.260 care for it like it is not a big deal but um particularly my man would wouldn't do that

02:13:48.540 no preference no preference but it's just what about you i i don't care he can like whatever

02:13:53.980 he wants i'm like i'm not going to trip over you double tapping on a photo no what about watching uh 0.99

02:13:59.340 corn i don't care either like so if i'm not around you you need a jerk one off one time have a ball 1.00

02:14:05.580 go for it no he's like but maybe what if it has an impact on the relationship somehow he's masturbating 0.99

02:14:10.220 and he doesn't have as much sexual interest in you i mean that would obviously be different

02:14:15.900 for that specific scenario like we'd have to have a conversation about it what about you i think

02:14:21.980 corn is really toxic um i was introduced to corn a little too early i think and i just think it's i

02:14:29.260 don't know i don't like it and if someone if i'm dating someone and they watch corn i just don't want

02:14:34.140 to know about it sure what about you i care i'd prefer you not to yeah oh it's kind of controlling i

02:14:40.460 mean if it might sound controlling but i personally it's like if you're looking at other videos that

02:14:44.220 like aren't us what are you doing like i agree personal thing yeah i used to not care but i care

02:14:50.380 now because i stopped watching it a couple years ago and now i feel like it kind of does something

02:14:54.460 to you mentally to like have that image constantly and like unrealistic expectations okay and yeah and

02:15:00.460 you're getting like hard and coming to like another girl like a face or like coochie or body like 0.90

02:15:06.860 i i literally think that's cheating and i mean you're making my case for me then you're making

02:15:12.220 muhammad ali's case for him muhammad ali's case is like when you're half naked walking around what

02:15:17.660 do you think the men are thinking of do you think that they're thinking that oh she sure seems like 1.00

02:15:22.060 a really nice swell person i don't think that that's what they're thinking about i think they're

02:15:27.100 thinking other things that are perhaps more nefarious and it brings different imagery well that's like

02:15:32.940 like them i don't know i don't control other people's thoughts or bodies like even though you

02:15:39.340 might think that because of how i dress hold on by the way if anybody needs any water just like

02:15:46.140 gesture to felicity and she can get some for you uh what do you think uh i think we are free so if you

02:15:53.100 have a very healthy relationship you shouldn't care what the other person do when it's not with you

02:15:59.020 of course talking about trust is completely different topic but we are talking about corn

02:16:03.340 so i think that is okay all right we have uh ogle here with the big gifted 50 memberships ogle you're

02:16:11.580 a legend dude thank you so much man thank you ogle guys w's in the chat for ogle for hooking it up with

02:16:17.420 50 whatever memberships thank you so much man appreciate it uh i'm going to read a couple of

02:16:21.260 the chats then we're going to finish up on this topic zeus actually having clear boundaries is the

02:16:26.300 opposite of being insecure dressing like a hold on where is it do i have a button for this

02:16:31.580 and whatever dressing like a hoe is nothing to be celebrated shaking my head christ is risen 0.98

02:16:36.220 uh that is an interesting thing because maybe a guy he's insecure of losing the relationship so

02:16:42.620 in a situation where you're crossing a boundary of his he doesn't even want to bring it up or he

02:16:49.900 doesn't want to tell you no ever like don't you want a guy to tell you no i don't think maybe not

02:16:57.660 all the time all the time but yeah but like it's easier to be told to tell you no wouldn't you want

02:17:02.940 him to tell you no instead of just being a doormat and letting you yeah you know i think that's kind

02:17:07.980 of insecure to not be able to say it because they're scared to say it because they're scared

02:17:11.580 you're gonna leave you know i don't think i should i think they should be able to voice it again a

02:17:15.420 healthy relationship you're communicating if you're dating someone who's dressing like that and

02:17:19.340 doesn't care drop them like okay easy we have mika collie uh what's here what's more important than

02:17:28.940 happiness ladies if you think it's nothing you definitely don't qualify to be a wife righteousness 1.00

02:17:34.540 right righteousness will always be more important than happiness will ever be

02:17:38.700 grapists are happy when they grape thieves when they steal etc english okay uh mika collie

02:17:48.380 thank you for the super chat appreciate it uh and then zeus thank you for the super chat also we have

02:17:53.980 a message or no we had shop.whatever.com here we had someone someone is it always going to be a someone

02:18:02.380 uh thank you for it looks like you bought a hoodie man thank you so much for that uh appreciate

02:18:08.620 it and uh yeah that's shop.whatever.com if you guys want to get yourself a whatever

02:18:15.100 hoodie or some sort of other merch uh you know what we're gonna jump into actually there's one

02:18:20.620 other thing i think on this uh the chat was they wanted to see your instagram they wasn't mine yes

02:18:29.500 so i'll pull it up but before you do scroll down a little bit just scroll down to where the photos are

02:18:34.380 okay oh god and then we'll go the window tab okay perfect just like that and then scroll down so you

02:18:40.860 do like djing and you like host parties or uh scroll down let's see what we got okay all right keep

02:18:48.540 going do you do you go to raves too and stuff uh not too often but trying to go out more trying to

02:18:55.900 okay how many raves do you think you've been to i'm only like four or five four or five okay

02:19:00.780 were you at coachella i was last weekend okay nice uh let's see keep going there was one in

02:19:07.100 particular i think i saw that was interesting okay all right there it is all right no it's not keep it

02:19:14.940 no no sorry i didn't mean keep going keep going uh okay i don't see nothing too nothing too wild you know

02:19:24.460 i don't know okay keep going blast it down keep going oh wait 0.97

02:19:37.820 okay all right keep going keep going god damn how many photos do you have holy 0.99

02:19:43.420 shit yeah she's famous a thousand you know what is that is over a thousand who knows what are you 0.99

02:19:51.100 looking for i saw like a rave photo or something that that caught my eye but maybe we just you know 0.99

02:20:01.820 what man you put you post oh there's a little okay there's a little oh wait wait stop there 0.96

02:20:07.180 the one with the christmas tree son god damn bro that's looking down main street there's a christmas 0.96

02:20:14.620 tree over it wait question so if your boyfriend your boyfriend was like 0.99

02:20:20.620 99 of these are good but can you take down like 10 of these go for it i do it you do it i do it you do

02:20:27.100 it okay all right that's not asking there you go come what if he was like he wants you to take down 20

02:20:33.660 it doesn't really matter what if he wants you to go private no i will not go private oh i will not go

02:20:41.260 private wait okay question on this perfect guy perfect guy everything loyal good looking you love

02:20:51.820 his personality all all the characteristics you look for in a guy but

02:20:55.740 wants you to make your instagram private not doing it just to be you won't make your instagram

02:21:05.260 private for the perfect guy it's my career on the line i love to dj and i need to be public wait

02:21:11.500 question though do you want do you want kids i do want kids do you want to get married one day

02:21:16.220 of course i do he's got a five carat diamond in his hand if you had to pick and i'll open this

02:21:23.020 question to the whole panel perfect career or perfect man what do you pick

02:21:34.860 perfect career because my perfect man will support my dreams oh okay all right um well

02:21:41.020 here we'll go around the table what do you pick uh i pick perfect i pick perfect man because my goal

02:21:47.020 is to have a family i'm working hard now because i need to and if i don't find a perfect man

02:21:52.940 i can rely on myself but i would say perfect man um i would say perfect man i really want to stop

02:21:58.860 doing only fans and just get supported by like a guy that loves me so um definitely perfect man

02:22:06.460 perfect man okay i would say the man because a career just kind of doesn't really live longer than a

02:22:15.820 career what about you you know he doesn't even have to be perfect okay i mean i just want a strong

02:22:24.700 man that works has a career and he's like pretty much like moses in the bible you know oh sorry he's

02:22:33.900 like moses in the bible moses in the bible yeah i like strong men okay dig them so man over career

02:22:41.180 yeah okay he doesn't have to be perfect i agree with t my perfect man would support my career like

02:22:47.260 you take music away from me i just won't be happy like it's music it's i don't know you're not the

02:22:51.740 perfect man for me if you don't support my dreams period maybe if i had a different job my answer

02:22:56.940 would be different i think if i had a different job for sure but this is something that i'm like

02:23:01.580 passionate about it's like deep rooted within me yeah you know what i mean um well

02:23:11.900 okay next i i mean i've made the mistake of putting all of my worth into my career and also

02:23:18.540 all of my worth into a man and both of those doesn't work out because my industry kind of

02:23:22.860 fell apart and then relationships fall apart so what industry uh film so we had strikes after

02:23:29.180 strikes and coving and all that stuff and i thought i was badass and then we weren't working

02:23:33.580 a lot so i had to have a new identity outside of work and um so i don't like putting all that into

02:23:40.460 work and i don't like putting into into another person so it's hard to pick if i had to pick

02:23:44.940 i have to career i gotta pick career but pick career perfect career okay what is the perfect career

02:23:49.980 for you look like uh just working on my movies i like creating characters and like heading departments

02:23:57.340 and working as a team with production you want kids i do not want kids but i do want to be married

02:24:04.460 you do want to get married yeah all right what about you um i choose career because perfect man

02:24:10.700 doesn't exist and also perfect woman doesn't exist either so i i i don't believe in the perfect

02:24:17.340 relationship i think you have ups and downs all the time so i would hold on you could just say well

02:24:22.620 the perfect career doesn't exist either no the perfect girl doesn't exist no i i know that that's

02:24:28.380 what you said but if you're being like well in reality the perfect man doesn't exist well okay in 0.97

02:24:32.940 reality the perfect career doesn't exist because there's always going to be like some bullshit like 0.84

02:24:37.260 even if you're like at the top of your field there's going to be like certain things about a

02:24:40.700 career that are just kind of annoying or whatever i understand but i do believe that is

02:24:46.220 i think we have better luck finding the perfect career that a perfect man so okay let me uh let me

02:24:53.100 ask a follow-up on this go ahead and we can just do this via show of hands um for those of you who

02:25:00.060 would select a career over perfect man real quick again just raise your hand yeah the perfect career

02:25:08.060 over the perfect man okay um and then let me ask you a question uh let's say that you selected over

02:25:14.620 the perfect man for what you considered to be the perfect career would you raise your hand again

02:25:19.420 if i asked you do you think in 20 years that you'll be happier or less happy you raise your

02:25:25.100 hand again if you think you would be more happy with that selection in 20 years i don't understand

02:25:31.020 that question in 20 years we would stick with our same answer is that what you're saying yeah yeah i think

02:25:37.420 so yeah yeah yeah yeah i wonder wait actually really quick ogle here sent in another i forgot

02:25:44.540 to thank him for it yo ogle thank you for the 100 total now gifted 50 whatever rememberships thank you

02:25:50.860 so much man appreciate it and uh i wonder if we change you be remembered would you be remembered

02:25:57.260 do you think in 20 years for your career yes yes you remembered it you you think so or do you think

02:26:03.900 you'd be remembered in 20 years if you had kids yeah yes wait who here thinks in 20 years time wait

02:26:12.300 i don't know if this is the best framing that because if you're still doing your career i don't

02:26:17.660 know if this is gonna make sense who here i don't know i don't know i actually don't even understand

02:26:22.540 this like i worked in the private sector my entire life okay and there was tons of people i suppose who

02:26:30.300 had an impact on me but they came and went and i never forgot i never remembered them at all and

02:26:35.980 most people never remember them at all nobody makes their mark uh on their on their career they're

02:26:41.980 forgotten they're gone they're genetic dead ends right well my name's in credits you become immortal

02:26:49.660 through reproduction that's immortality for humanity but your kids are never like you unless there's a lot

02:26:56.060 of people that have kids that just can't stand them and it's sad i was gonna say unless you're in

02:27:02.860 music you know is it true that there's uh families where there's always going to be contention with

02:27:08.140 the children of course sure but the truth of the matter is is that most of the time that is not the case

02:27:14.220 that that parents don't resent their children don't hate their children or even have bad relationships

02:27:18.780 with them that's an anti-natalist talking point truth is most people have pretty good relationships

02:27:22.860 with their kids especially as their kids get older that's the truth that's what i would love that i

02:27:28.380 think that's the ideal but i've lived life you can be immortalized you are immortalized through

02:27:34.140 reproduction you're not immortalized i know too many people honestly honestly i feel the exact opposite

02:27:40.940 of that i know too many people that are battling with their children make the impact on the world tell me

02:27:46.140 i think that a lot of people don't like for the people who don't even let her answer let her answer

02:27:50.300 what are you going to do that's going to make for me on the world yeah yeah making movies i make

02:27:54.620 movies okay what movie i create characters impact on the world we're gonna see i've done a few of them

02:28:00.380 but it's like i mean the one that you did that gave you a bigger impact on the world that have been

02:28:04.780 having a children a child would have done well what if the child's like like shoots up a school or 0.94

02:28:10.940 something like i don't know that he sucks like most of some of the movies do suck but some of them are 0.81

02:28:16.220 really good exactly but it is immortalized like it's in an art form what i do what i do is arts and 0.93

02:28:23.500 i think that we are here to create art and i think that we're here to tell our stories and part of what

02:28:28.060 i do is i create a story and like movies you know people want to see themselves reflected back in that

02:28:33.980 and then you feel connected to other people and it's like you could have a kid told you there was a

02:28:39.100 thing which would reflect you 100 why are you so pro kids including including your own dna well why 0.51

02:28:47.180 are you so pro uh anti-natalism career why is it that you think that making shitty movies is going

02:28:53.020 to be better than procreation i bet you if you're if you're one of the best and brightest that's really

02:28:58.460 going to have the impact on the world why don't you take that best and bright energy into raising the

02:29:03.260 next generation of children because then my life isn't about me you're asking me to not make my life

02:29:08.540 about me you're putting it into a kid who may or may not be a good person and i like kids don't get

02:29:13.980 me wrong i'm not over here saying that i hate it first yeah you're gonna try your best but there's

02:29:19.180 no guarantee for that yeah but i mean that's that's the thing right it's like why have any people then

02:29:25.740 because some of them are going to be bad there's plenty of people who enjoy having kids and i would

02:29:29.420 leave it up to them yeah so it's i just i just out of curiosity if you really are so wise and you're

02:29:37.020 going to be so impactful on the world yeah right then why wouldn't you want your dna to replicate

02:29:43.260 knowing that you're going to be raising the next of the best and brightest generation to have an

02:29:47.580 impact on the world because i may not be able to do the impact if i'm like you know spending a bunch

02:29:52.460 of time being a mom if i was to be a mom i would quit everything and be a mom so i don't want to be a

02:29:57.340 mom that's terrible that's awful i mean you could you would quit everything to have the next to raise the

02:30:02.940 kid yeah because you can't trust other people to do it which is why i choose not to do it because

02:30:07.580 i don't want to give that up yeah so it's all about you me yeah thank god my life is about me for sure

02:30:15.260 and then do you you do realize though that you become a reproductive dead end yeah this is my

02:30:20.140 last life this is my last time doing this yeah this is the it's the it's a reproductive complete dead 0.52

02:30:26.060 in but that's it's such a it's such a weird thing you're saying because you're worried about

02:30:31.020 what your legacy is going to be when you're dead like you're going to be dead so who cares no no

02:30:37.100 listen that's okay like you're worried about when i die like are people going to remember me and it's 0.93

02:30:41.820 like you're dead who cares the extension of your logic then why doesn't everybody on earth just put 0.99

02:30:47.260 a pistol to their head and pull the trigger then because they'll all be dead who cares no because we 0.99

02:30:51.660 have purpose we're here we're here to make art oh we have purpose yes the purpose is to make art 0.99

02:30:56.300 you're missing the plot you have it backwards so that we need to have children so the next no no

02:31:02.860 i'm sure you're an artist did you used to paint or draw or write or sing when you were younger

02:31:07.500 like come on yes you are yes you are what did you love to do when you were younger bring it back

02:31:14.300 you have some instrument in your closet or some song you wrote down or something like that

02:31:18.540 i'm an artist you're an artist we're all artists see bring it back you messed up and had kids 0.99

02:31:23.260 instead of making art that's your fault that's the dumbest thing that i've ever heard so i just 0.99

02:31:29.100 want to make sure we got this clear you you say i'm going to be a reproductive dead end who cares 0.98

02:31:33.500 because after all i'll be dead but using the extension of that logic like who cares if everybody

02:31:37.260 dies and has no kids then uh i mean we're we are all gonna die but like i think if you're talking

02:31:44.380 about all of us died and had no kids who cares because we're all dead yeah i mean we don't need

02:31:50.220 to really make any more people we don't need to make any more people i think we're good but you

02:31:54.940 don't need to make any more people this could be the last generation ever totally fine yeah we could

02:32:00.300 just start over oh okay good times good times hey chat uh i'm gonna send a message in the chat but

02:32:11.260 i'm getting some reports that for the third week in a row stream labs is not working uh tts is not

02:32:17.420 really working uh if you guys can you don't have to but i think this would be the most helpful

02:32:22.540 uh streamlabs.com whatever just send in see if you can send in even just one dollar

02:32:27.900 um i i don't know what's going on maybe some of them will come through maybe some of them won't

02:32:33.980 not sure what's going on it's really weird uh so if that doesn't work i'm going to switch

02:32:39.180 everything over to super chats so it's just going to be through youtube super chats because that

02:32:43.180 seems to work you can also do it through venmo which i'll i need to do a couple shout oops what

02:32:47.900 the heck just happened i'm going to do a couple shout outs here venmo cash app it's whatever pod

02:32:53.100 if tts isn't working we can also do it through their venmo cash app whatever pod on both uh the

02:32:58.780 the quero think for the 10 on cash app colin think for the 10 on cash app he says love the show

02:33:05.420 thank you so much man appreciate it and then i see the big is he still watching james sexton

02:33:11.020 oh oh james you know what james i'm gonna sue you i'm gonna sue you for breaking my heart because 0.90

02:33:18.300 we've been trying to get you on the show for so long james you're you're here you're you're coming

02:33:23.180 to california you know what james flake on huberman flake on huberman flake on who what else you got

02:33:30.060 uh you got uh i don't know what black bradley martin who you got you you got uh what's he going

02:33:36.220 on um now brian it's you you can't put me in the position of the defense between two friends right

02:33:47.660 but mr sexton has been doing the lord's work all over the country for the last year especially with

02:33:54.780 his sit down interviews and he's been kicking ass oh he's doing great he's doing great i have to uh 0.90

02:33:59.660 you know my uh my proverbial hats off to him yeah uh really him who james sexton yeah yeah no james

02:34:07.580 james is a friend of the show james is a friend he's a friend of the show wow he actually consulted

02:34:13.020 with me i was going through a rico case uh and you know a very serious rico case in new york city

02:34:19.980 you know and he he he got me out of some some shit so um james sexton james 0.87

02:34:27.820 i'm going to sue you i'm going to file a small claims action in california it's meritless it's 0.93

02:34:34.540 going to be completely meritless but i'm going to sue you james i'm going to serve you when you're 0.96

02:34:37.820 in california watch out my process server he's coming for you james and what what is the cause

02:34:42.940 of action you might ask uh emotional distress james intentional infliction of emotional distress

02:34:50.860 for for not being able to make it on the podcast james you broke you've broken my heart i i've you

02:34:59.260 know i have damages are you threatening one of the best lawyers around with lawfare right that's

02:35:04.300 exactly what i'm gonna do i've got damages james emotional what the fuck what yeah it's you know i'm gonna 0.91

02:35:13.740 sue him for uh for 350 about 350 okay um cat says stream labs is working thank you for that but james

02:35:26.460 yo good to see you in the chat man thank you for the soup chat uh you know um and uh we'll get we'll

02:35:31.260 get them on eventually guys it's been a work in progress and um yeah anyways okay where where were

02:35:38.860 we uh james thank you for the soup chat let me check in on some of these messages coming through

02:35:42.780 so some some people are saying that stream labs is working because i got jay here that came in clean

02:35:48.620 thank you jay lewis that came in uh we have fifi saying just testing so that that works let me check

02:35:58.540 minimum tip for recent events let me change that

02:36:02.860 one sec guys just making sure our stream labs is working okay it's uh it's frustrating because for

02:36:08.460 the past three weeks it just has not been really working okay we have coastal operators so that's

02:36:14.940 so weird sons of liberty that's oh it's not displaying sons of liberty sent in a one dollar

02:36:21.260 coastal sent in six six dollars ninety cents cat one dollar so is it coming through sorry guys it's just

02:36:28.700 like i i kind of might have to switch it over to super chats i don't know we'll let it go for a

02:36:33.820 little longer and if it's just not working then i'll have to switch it over uh guys like the

02:36:38.300 video please also if you can pull up twitch guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever twitch.tv

02:36:43.180 slash whatever drop us a follow and a prime sub if you have one and then what else is there oh yeah

02:36:50.300 check if you have a prime sub available guys and then one sec here uh oh we got to do here you know

02:36:56.540 what we're gonna do this ask everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of one to ten

02:37:01.340 you can't pick seven starting with you go ahead i was just gonna pick seven can't pick seven can't

02:37:08.220 pick seven and a half word um an eight okay eight okay um i would say 6.9

02:37:18.220 i don't have a number um beauty's in the eye of the beholder pick you had to pick you know i need

02:37:27.340 a curve a major curve because i'm older i'm not younger you know i just had a guy tell me i was

02:37:34.540 beautiful so it's like just i'll go with him throw something out there for us i don't know what he

02:37:40.300 what his number chart is how do you see yourself i'll say five because i like the number what about

02:37:45.980 you uh seven and a half seven and a half okay ten ten okay what about you eight i get myself a five

02:37:53.340 andrew what about you i mean obviously i'm a tenant just looking james sexton since you're still in the

02:38:01.500 chat what do you rate yourself on a scale of one to ten is james are you single because we got some

02:38:07.740 single ladies here and i might you know i could he's uh he's he's quite happily married oh right

02:38:14.700 we're the single one sorry me sexton uh you said but while i have him pulled up you can't scare a 0.99

02:38:21.580 prostitute with a dick brother see you in court atlas sending you love wow to to you and wilson you 1.00

02:38:27.980 two are always home team you can't scare a prostitute 1.00

02:38:31.020 unless she passes out i don't know if he was here for that part um but uh james sexton what

02:38:42.380 do you rate yourself on the scale of one to ten james sexton coming in with a big super chat thank

02:38:46.540 you so much man really appreciate it good to see you in the stream you know what also uh i'm also going

02:38:52.300 for treble damages mr sexton uh treble damages and a restraining order and an injunction and uh i'm

02:39:04.620 what's the other thing uh what's the thing where uh there's a term for it i'm gonna compel you i'm

02:39:12.940 actually gonna legally compel you to come on the podcast it's called shit there's a legal term james 0.75

02:39:19.980 sexton you're my attorney help me out here what's the legal term for when the court no what the 0.61

02:39:27.020 what summit summit no it's uh the court can have you take an action and there's a legal term for it

02:39:41.500 damn it gotta brush up on my my legal stuff okay james sexton thank you very much thank you

02:39:49.500 thank you thank you oh he's oh my goodness he's back in the chat i'm a three but an 11 when i'm 0.97

02:39:55.420 standing up on my wallet james sexton hold on let me play something for you james sexton

02:40:01.420 erroneous erroneous james sexton you're you're a handsome man i give you a solid

02:40:09.420 you're you're you're you're an eight especially if you you show your your sleeves your tattoos

02:40:15.260 with your little vest on not little vest it's a regular sized vest you're a handsome guy james

02:40:22.220 very handsome guy i'm sure back in law school where did you go to law school by the way you went to

02:40:28.860 uh you know like the one that in better call saw where he went to like america samoa where did you get

02:40:34.940 the term the term is specific performance specific performance that's it was on the tip of my tongue

02:40:40.460 i will i'm going for specific performance james i'm going to go to judge be like listen

02:40:48.700 you know look actually you know what james he says fordham law by the way he said what

02:40:54.220 oh fordham fordham law okay you know look james

02:40:59.900 i i relied detrimental reliance you know i i scheduled

02:41:06.220 um my producer to to be here on the day that you were gonna uh so detrimental reliance james i've

02:41:14.860 got you backs against the wall you're on your back foot it's coming james it's coming it's coming

02:41:21.100 the lawsuit's coming um the the girls are not enjoying the legal prattle so i'm gonna the bromance 1.00

02:41:28.540 is great yeah yeah you're really good yes we love that yes and so if any of you guys

02:41:36.220 anyone from new york look if anybody's watching you live in new york and you need an attorney james

02:41:43.980 sexton is your guy attorney at law esquire he's one of the best he no excuse me i'm sorry let me

02:41:52.460 retract that statement he is the best attorney in new york city he also practices occasionally

02:41:59.100 in the bahamas and in utah and idaho i'm not sure about those last two but okay good good talk guys

02:42:09.260 good talk that was great

02:42:11.500 all right very much

02:42:14.460 hang on i i did want to throw this in brian oh yes did want me to relay uh free prenups for the entire

02:42:21.820 panel oh my god thank you really that's very generous free prenups yeah i think he's trying

02:42:28.780 to say that on behalf of your future husbands but you know i could be wrong he just said free prenups

02:42:33.660 for the whole free free prenups and you know what james spice it up a little bit uh can we do a buy

02:42:40.060 one get one free for something maybe uh restraining order so if you got two guys stalking you he'll

02:42:49.260 he'll do it for the price of one okay in the state of new york

02:42:57.580 okay good talk uh so let's see here where were we oh rating uh so we had you're the 10 only 10.

02:43:09.500 how's that going great good i'm happy for you yeah i'm the best i've ever looked now question though

02:43:17.100 on the whole 10 thing can you tell me a girl who you think is a 10. another that's not you

02:43:26.060 yeah wait you mean like a famous person or just like anybody yeah throw you know throughout uh yeah

02:43:35.980 i'm trying to think of i mean charlie's fair is a 10.

02:43:38.780 megan fox sure is she a 10. yeah 1.00

02:43:47.100 i'm saying by my own standards and myself like i yeah i'm a 10 for sure

02:43:56.380 you disagree

02:44:00.140 uh what sorry what do you disagree wait question also you had a bunch of girls here we got some 1.00

02:44:08.140 sevens eights whatever do you think like do you because you're the 10 you said you're the 10 you

02:44:13.020 gave yourself the highest rating here besides andrew do you think you're the most attractive gal at the

02:44:18.780 table um i think attraction is like i think i'm very attractive and i think attraction just depends

02:44:25.660 it's like different for everyone but i also think that confidence is a huge part of it and i think

02:44:32.620 that on paper someone can look like the most beautiful woman and you can see that they'll like

02:44:36.620 crumble and have no confidence and i think that that plays like a really big role in it

02:44:41.500 i think if we're talking about westernized standards of beauty it's like yeah i'm a size 14 like i'm

02:44:45.660 bigger than like other women or whatever you can say all kinds of things i have tattoos i have

02:44:49.740 naturally gray hair i'm a little weird but like that's that's natural that's natural but yeah so

02:44:54.780 it's like i think it's kind of cool it is cool so you think i'm a 10 calm down i mean you said you

02:45:00.620 well hold on i mean if we're going if there's other factors other factors you said you have a

02:45:06.060 sociology eye contact with me i think i make you nervous

02:45:11.980 okay uh you said hold on you have a sociology degree though i do uh-huh wouldn't i mean what's

02:45:18.620 wrong with that sociology i mean in 2011 my entire degree was on tumblr within three years so like it

02:45:25.100 was a whole waste of time like i'll i'll tell you that but speaking of we have cat here with a gifted 0.99

02:45:30.940 50 memberships thank you cat really appreciate it thank you thank you thank you cat guys w's in

02:45:35.420 the chat for cat for the hookup thank you um okay um and wait i have a question for you i mean you you

02:45:46.780 think i okay what do you rate me on a scale of one to ten you yes looks looks it would be higher if

02:45:55.260 your confidence level was higher higher if confidence level yeah i'm probably right there

02:46:00.460 with you with your six but if you if you you know a little bit more than like i would give you a higher

02:46:06.540 number like eight or something so uh six you said lack of eye contact says something i'm not i'm not

02:46:17.420 gonna turn my head you're so nervous i'm not nervous at all no it's just it's just the way the cameras are

02:46:22.780 set up yeah i don't look i don't turn and look to people during the show um well i mean i can prove

02:46:28.700 it though because in your pre-show instructions since i've heard him like 50 000 times it literally

02:46:33.900 he said he told us to look out of the corner of our eye can i finish yes you can you're literally told

02:46:40.940 please don't turn your head to look and make eye contact with other guests instead look at the

02:46:44.780 cameras i know i've heard it a million times so that's how i can prove this is it true did that did

02:46:49.420 we say that okay i'm wrong she's wrong see boom confidence i'm good with that yeah boom there

02:46:54.940 lawyer james saxton new york city attorney of law esquire uh okay so wait oh so six and ten so

02:47:05.420 you'd be just to be clear like you would be doing me a favor like you would be settling for me

02:47:11.900 i wouldn't say settle it's kind of but do we have to be the same number to be together

02:47:16.620 no you don't have to but somebody would be settling i want to be the hot one is that okay

02:47:25.100 it's okay for you to want that okay all right just want to make sure we're on the same page

02:47:29.260 that that you would be doing me a favor yeah you know it would be a lot of favors going on okay

02:47:34.620 a lot of settling so a lot of settling okay cool got it and then you know what uh going around the

02:47:39.180 table uh or wait can you tell me a guy who you think his tendon looks

02:47:45.420 i think an example like maybe a famous guy or something uh only because this is not a flex but

02:47:52.220 it's just like on my mind because i worked with justin herbert and um he's a very handsome man so

02:47:57.500 who the fuck is that guy justin herbert he's on the rams can we can we get a google on justin herbert 0.93

02:48:05.980 please while you're doing that also um james did throw in that he would do bogo uh orders of 0.99

02:48:12.220 protection for everybody except the girl in the bunny ears he said he feels like she may already

02:48:17.180 have a few against her uh but that's just a gut feeling and what does that mean

02:48:25.340 uh but i guess he feels like it there's a possibility you have some protection orders against you

02:48:30.940 speaking of uh he brian your lawyer game is getting strong you're hired if you move to new

02:48:36.620 york city you know james much like kim kardashian did an apprenticeship and she skipped law school 0.53

02:48:42.620 i think you you know you want to take me under the wing don't have to go to law school

02:48:47.900 i'll uh take me under the wing harvey specter mike ross well hang on even better brian recently we

02:48:55.260 shot a bunch of bimbos into space and now they're astronauts so i mean i feel like all you gotta 1.00

02:48:59.660 do is walk into a court and you're a lawyer bro and i think that's how it works but uh apparently

02:49:05.020 that is the thing though like most people go to law school and maybe it was more so the case like

02:49:10.140 way back way back but you could also do apprenticeship under an attorney but it's really rare it's super

02:49:16.700 rare now but i guess kim kardashian did it so uh you guys will see me uh in the mail room of james

02:49:24.700 sexton's law office for the next three years and um being paid how much you gonna pay me that james

02:49:33.980 okay what is that what is that black thing on the table can you remove that was that a hair tie

02:49:39.820 yeah keep that to yourself please keep it okay uh okay did we get cat here oh this is the guy okay

02:49:46.860 justin herbert okay so um how old is he so embarrassing i don't know he's like 20 something

02:49:54.620 i worked with him one time you guys he's a wait he's a actor he's a football player wait here type

02:50:01.660 in at the top justin herbert salary and then switch to web let's go okay now hit all

02:50:08.140 50 average annual salary is 52.5 million this is the highest in nfl wait really what is he a

02:50:17.580 quarterback yes so wait just to be clear

02:50:23.260 36 right i'm 36 yes do you like is that do you think justin herbert like that's your league uh yeah

02:50:31.740 highest paid nfl quarterback handsome looking guy is he how tall is he tall guy probably six six i

02:50:39.420 think okay six six six six highest paid nfl quarterback uh good looking guy athlete professional

02:50:47.820 athlete fit uh he's signed to the loss wait hold it wait hold on pull that back up it's not just hold

02:50:56.380 on pull it back up no no just pull it up f11 please scroll down scroll down hold on pause two he has a 218

02:51:12.540 million guarantee how much do you make how much do i make yeah

02:51:20.300 not that so just to be clear

02:51:28.300 uh wait wait do you but i'm not a man i'm not gonna support do you even make one percent of that

02:51:34.460 i don't know probably not math like that i don't think anybody here at the table makes

02:51:39.020 wait is this is this about looks or like yeah because i thought it's like about looks but it's

02:51:42.620 the whole package no no we're talking about looks babe like looks yes 10 and a 10 perfect match

02:51:50.620 i want to ask the ladies do you think be honest 1.00

02:51:58.060 is that a fair is that the looks match justin herbert amanda 0.76

02:52:08.140 fucking rave going on outside 0.82

02:52:12.460 wow crickets hello is anybody gonna i gotta see them side by side well you know what hold on you know what 0.99

02:52:19.900 i'm a 10 google a photo of you sure young anna de armas google it image you know what i think that this 0.90

02:52:37.020 is is or you know we could do young megan fox

02:52:41.020 why young she looks great now

02:52:50.780 uh you know she's gorgeous scroll down scroll down i mean so she's a bit old in some of these you know 1.00

02:52:58.780 but uh i'll accept it i'll allow it is that fair you think for me you think that guy you know for me

02:53:08.380 i can you think that's fair oh no wait hold on why is it so easy for y'all to be like no way brian

02:53:14.380 it's out of your league out of your league but when it comes to a woman 0.94

02:53:19.820 mm-hmm why can't you why can't you just be like you know what sweetie you know what sweetie

02:53:27.500 you're so beautiful i'm fine with anybody disagreeing i'm just easier you know you know

02:53:31.900 what sweetie you're very i think you're very beautiful i think you could do it but

02:53:37.100 he might be a bit outside your league why can't you say that to a woman 1.00

02:53:40.300 hmm oh we can't i think you can but i asked and y'all were silent y'all were

02:53:48.220 nothing because she's pretty he's good looking oh oh you're you're you're you're good oh you know

02:53:56.140 but she's like gorgeous like okay yeah i think you guys look good together

02:54:03.180 damn this is crazy wait okay i'm gonna just say it i'm gonna just say it you guys can 0.70

02:54:07.740 if you're upset you can tell me why can't average women just admit that they're average looking 1.00

02:54:18.940 i mean they can i don't think i'm average looking

02:54:24.860 beauty's in the eye of the what makes you what makes you above average looking when somebody tells

02:54:31.980 you you're beautiful yeah no but what makes you above average looking when somebody

02:54:36.940 tells you you're beautiful i'm asking her are you asking me yeah i i mean i think i'm just

02:54:41.260 beautiful i have a beautiful face i have big lips i have nice eyes i'm like like sexy but also kind

02:54:47.260 of like your mom at the same time like it's like this like weird thing with men that like they want

02:54:51.900 to tell me everything but then they also have fantasies about me it's like kind of this like

02:54:55.660 perfect in between you know what i like it i like it have you seen x-men i can see look if a guy's

02:55:02.940 got a thing for rogue you're good you're locked in and they do i see that angle but that's the

02:55:10.940 angle that's fine can we google a picture of rogue from x-men did i get the right x-man it is right

02:55:18.380 that's the correct expert yeah just google it really quick so we just have a point of reference

02:55:22.460 oh anna what's her name who played rogue anna what's her i don't know pull it up

02:55:28.220 anna nicole smith definitely not that beautiful scroll down yeah okay see so pretty rogue she has 1.00

02:55:36.860 yeah but yeah or storm storm you could do like that's good drug addicts uh ended her own life 1.00

02:55:43.820 anna nicole smith definitely eight previous well that's not the pretty i'm talking about i'm talking

02:55:49.340 about when she was on her way up and she was looking beautiful she was trying to grift a guy out of

02:55:56.060 millions of dollars well he was willing oh yeah so that makes it okay do unethical things well

02:56:02.700 because he dug her he thought she was great look at she was a single mom she needed to support her 0.98

02:56:08.140 last laugh didn't he no nobody got the last laugh nobody got the money not even the son jones donated

02:56:15.740 two hundred dollars death seven is cruella delusional oh i love cruella delusional mike jones

02:56:24.060 feeling that wait is this is this the mike jones is this the mike jones um i forgot if i pull this

02:56:32.300 up again i forgot if i did it but yo mike jones sorry for the delay on the tts we were just kind of

02:56:37.100 in the middle of it thank you for that be mike jones i think it is the mike jones the rapper probably

02:56:42.860 yo cat thank you again for that we have one message one chat coming through i'm gonna get pulled up here

02:56:47.340 real quick real quick jurek he says everyone can create but not everyone oh i did it twice my bad

02:56:55.580 jurek says everyone can create but not everyone can be an artist chair seven we are we all are not

02:57:03.260 artists only some of us a very low number unfortunately we're all artists that's so sad you're an artist i

02:57:10.300 support you and your art so then i guess there's nothing exceptional about being an artist if

02:57:19.900 everybody does it you guys all just want to win just well i mean that's the kid that would be the case

02:57:25.180 right there would be nothing exceptional about being an artist because we're all artists

02:57:31.020 we're all exceptional is this like everybody gets an award thing well if everyone's exceptional then

02:57:35.340 nobody's exceptional right wait what would exceptional mean then it wouldn't mean anything

02:57:39.820 i have a question why is everyone an artist do you like what's like you know no i just i have a

02:57:45.660 theory about just like life that we're here to create art like we we're here to make art art is

02:57:51.340 infinite it's one of the things that's infinite music is infinite and that kind of thing and like we're

02:57:55.180 here to express ourselves because we need to leave a mark on what it's like to be human because one

02:58:01.820 day we're going to die and we're going to be spiritual except with children except with children

02:58:05.660 then the continuation you can have them we're not kids are fine i don't hate kids no no no earlier

02:58:11.180 you said i know i said i don't want them if humanity came to an end it's okay it's time for a reset

02:58:16.780 anyway that's not what you said i'm i'm i just think if we stopped it'd be fine wait question so

02:58:23.660 then no more humanity so then no more artists well maybe we'd reincarnate on a different planet

02:58:29.420 instead of earth because this one's not doing too good are we doing mormon rules now no no well

02:58:36.140 are we doing alien reincarnation rules i don't well how do rules work here we don't know the rules just

02:58:43.340 just follow your heart i'm pretty sure that i'm pretty sure we do know that if we don't have kids

02:58:47.820 there's not going to be any more humans i'm pretty confident that we can agree on that rule i think we

02:58:51.980 could agree though that that's not a problem like people it's not a problem still having them

02:58:58.300 people are not stopping like they're still going have you looked at the the reproduction rate in

02:59:03.820 the united states under replacement level significantly and it's going to continue to go

02:59:08.860 down that's also because of financial insecurity though elon's doing his best

02:59:15.020 has nothing to do with finances listen i'll prove it to you the poorest people on planet earth have the

02:59:19.260 most kids so it can't be about finances must be about something else yeah i wouldn't have kids if i'm

02:59:25.580 poor though you know i know it's like jam preference wise like yeah right right but i'm

02:59:31.180 just saying the poorest people have the problem is like protection issue off of this topic but men

02:59:35.660 don't want to have kids i've been challenged with that my whole life really because i i just heard

02:59:42.540 the answers at the table of the women and they're saying they don't want to have kids i don't know

02:59:46.220 know what you're talking about i'm speaking for myself that most of the men that i've been dating

02:59:53.340 they never wanted kids and it's like i don't know if it's a california thing or what have you

02:59:59.580 most of them are weak they want the woman to support them unfortunately they're not manly men and

03:00:06.860 thank god things are changing because of charlie kirk yes thank you i think they don't want to have

03:00:13.420 kids if it's like w charlie kirk all of my boyfriends like for some reason really wanted to have kids

03:00:22.380 with me like my boyfriend right now wants me to get pregnant really bad but i'm just not ready he's

03:00:28.300 trying to trap you don't do it she's not ready um okay here we go see see there's that anti-natalist

03:00:34.140 rhetoric you see she he's trying to trap you you're trying to take her off the market you can

03:00:38.460 have kids later the problem with that is what it's it's like you're like crabs controlling the

03:00:45.020 bucket lady you're the crabs in the bucket lady wait what does that mean what's controlling they're 0.95

03:00:49.420 about to achieve success they're about to have kids and have the happily ever after and you just

03:00:53.340 put your little pincers up and pull them right back down no she just said that she doesn't want 1.00

03:00:56.860 the kid and that they're trying to push it on her i mean i definitely want to have kids in the

03:01:01.900 future but i'm 18 like i don't want kids right now are you actually 18 yeah okay yeah maybe five years

03:01:10.300 ago okay i don't know i was just good talk uh okay so oh wait okay so hold on guys guys guys guys

03:01:22.300 so moving off of the looks thing sort of she wants that that nfl player 1.00

03:01:32.460 52 million dollars a year six foot six professional athlete massive amounts of status massive amounts

03:01:39.580 of success keep going fit good looking guy whatever it is genuinely do you think

03:01:48.300 that's a good match like a fit not sorry not a good match a fair match

03:01:56.940 that's how you meet the person how is it

03:02:00.460 i mean if if she said didn't you see you work with them well yeah i worked with him but if

03:02:04.860 i mean if i was to use like real life examples all of my exes are hot like i don't know why you get

03:02:09.580 like like you seem shocked but like yeah every guy i've been with is like very attractive were they

03:02:14.540 all like multi multi multi millionaires we weren't talking about money babe we're talking about looks 0.56

03:02:19.340 yeah but rewind the tape i was like okay moving off a bit about looks in total the total package

03:02:25.980 and i listed the things that don't have anything to do with looks and i was like is that a fair

03:02:31.660 proposition is that a fair match um so i'm moving off of looks and it's just the total package total

03:02:38.220 package right well i don't need to make that you so yours i don't need to make that amount of money to

03:02:42.540 be on the same sure what you're saying but does that make a man attractive if he makes 50 million

03:02:47.900 dollars a year makes him attractive yes women are attracted to that looks but someone with that

03:02:52.060 amount of money is going to have access to way more women so it's like yeah the that could be 1.00

03:02:58.140 likelihood of someone like that settling down might be less but is it impossible absolutely not

03:03:04.220 yes i agree it's not impossible but it's improbable do you agree with that um i don't know we'll

03:03:09.260 see you in like five years i'll let you know when i have like my rich hot husband and i'll come back 0.97

03:03:12.460 here and let you know and maybe faster actually now that i'm also but the thing is you don't want

03:03:17.740 kids so the men who are geared towards this isn't always they already have kids so they don't bother

03:03:25.500 me about it because that's why me and my ex broke up was because he wanted kids and i didn't yeah i get

03:03:29.820 that you don't want to have kids but i would argue one component if you're looking to get a successful

03:03:34.460 man a lot of men they do want a family they do want kids and they are successful in furtherance

03:03:41.740 of being able to provide for a family now there are men there are men who want to be rich just for

03:03:48.780 the sake of being rich and the material goods that that can confer upon them and it being rich frees

03:03:54.860 you in many ways but i think a big motivation for a lot of men is the ability to provide for a wife and

03:04:02.220 for kids so this idea that you're like well and you know we'll see in five years when i'm with my

03:04:06.620 super rich person i'm like well the light because you don't want kids i actually think it's less

03:04:11.180 likely that you're going to end up with a high earner because high earners probably one of the big

03:04:15.580 motivations for that is wanting to have kids i i would say i hear you and i understand where you're

03:04:21.580 coming from and you're probably right in a lot of senses my demographic is divorced has kids

03:04:29.020 kids sure and second marriage but i'm a little confused vibes but so you said you want a guy who

03:04:36.300 already has kids yeah but okay so is your is your objection to having kids you don't actually want

03:04:42.860 to bury i don't want to i have no desire to be pregnant but okay you do want to have kids yeah i

03:04:49.260 would like to have kids around yeah i could be stepmom okay this is a distinction that makes things a bit

03:04:53.420 more clear um so okay that that changes things a little bit but in any case i'd like to ask the

03:04:58.380 panel again i don't know why y'all are quiet here do you think it's a fair match yes yes period what is

03:05:07.900 what i think it's a fair okay the nfl guy who makes 50 million dollars a year who's six foot six

03:05:14.220 super attractive bunch of status i think he would rather be with like a 21 year old okay but is it a

03:05:19.340 a fair match yes or no question i would say no fair match um no but i think you're really beautiful

03:05:25.900 thank you fair match um i think it just depends on what you want like what you okay but externally

03:05:32.940 looking at it sure maybe he wants her um sure i would is it like a fair no only if he wants like kids

03:05:40.460 like with her then it's like definitely not fair like you said he's he has money so if he wants kids

03:05:45.580 and she doesn't then it's definitely not a good match and not fair it's just what he wants wait

03:05:49.660 hold on oh my god okay i have some follow-up on this what do you think no because she doesn't want 1.00

03:05:54.940 kids okay but i don't think you got okay hold on forget the kid part okay just on the basis it's

03:06:03.900 not gonna work she doesn't make the kind of cash she does she does he doesn't care about money he

03:06:09.820 doesn't care about money uh if he doesn't care about money then like why is it like a thing like

03:06:14.620 because i'm not saying that oh well if you're a man who makes 50 million dollars a year you can

03:06:19.900 only date women who make 50 million dollars a year what i'm trying to point out by saying 0.81

03:06:24.460 he makes 50 million dollars a year that makes him way more attractive to a much larger pool of other

03:06:31.420 women bingo that makes him really really attractive that means he can get a certain caliber and 0.98

03:06:37.100 quality of women that maybe wouldn't be open to him if he worked in walmart and was making 1.00

03:06:42.140 40 000 a year yeah so given this given this do you think that it's a fair match exclude the whole

03:06:51.340 kid component let's just remove that like you just you said money is not a factor but then you said

03:06:57.020 if he worked at walmart like that's literally finances and he just wants to know if it's fair

03:07:02.380 like i'm saying that a guy who makes 50 million dollars a year doesn't care how much money you

03:07:09.660 make then we're just talking about looks then yeah well yes normally no but what i'm saying is okay

03:07:17.180 given given the totality of all the traits that make him attractive his looks his status his money

03:07:23.980 whatever it is and all the things that make her attractive whatever those things are is that

03:07:29.340 fair if we're basing it on that i would say no no okay can i give you an illustration i just read

03:07:35.180 about sure on the story sex in the city one of the people's comments was carrie's chasing big

03:07:42.300 throughout the whole series right and big finally marries her but when he dies he gives his money to his

03:07:50.700 first wife who's uh the model the french model because she was his caliber carrie was never 1.00

03:07:59.100 his caliber he she was like a second choice person okay i'm just saying is it fair no fair for me it's

03:08:10.140 fair what do you mean for you it's fair what do you mean why for you is why you use that word fair

03:08:17.740 that would make me think about like why use that why isn't fair let me make it super simple have you

03:08:24.540 guys ever seen a girl and you're like i can't believe she's with him and the thought process

03:08:31.260 there for you guys is she's way more attractive than him she's way whatever all the characteristics 0.99

03:08:37.580 is maybe you have a female friend who's like she's so great she's got her career she's so beautiful 0.89

03:08:42.940 but she's with this bum has that never crossed through any of your minds it's happened ever okay 0.97

03:08:48.620 so why are you able to make determinations as to wow this girl here up here guy down here girl here

03:08:57.580 guy down here but when it comes to my god i can't believe i have to explain this girl girl down here

03:09:04.380 guy up here you're like no that's impossible a guy can never settle y'all are delusional i think what

03:09:09.820 it is is because we're all girls at the table so we all know how it is like being jumped up judged

03:09:13.740 off looks and everything so i think everyone's just trying not to be mean i think that's what it

03:09:17.740 is like everyone's just trying to be i actually agree with that you know and i thought we're not

03:09:21.420 talking about right again i think i think that what happens when you get a bunch of women together 0.99

03:09:26.540 is they don't want to tell the truth to each other right like for instance i i just i'm just going to

03:09:32.540 point this out we can run a quick social experiment if you'd like right and i'll and i'll prove it okay

03:09:39.180 all of you close your eyes close your eyes by everyone close your eyes don't open them okay raise

03:09:47.580 your hand if you think you're the best looking woman at the table

03:09:53.580 okay hand down all right open your eyes now you to the chair i was just speaking to this would be

03:10:02.220 um what yeah yep yep i'm sorry usually i write down the names i was a little late to the broadcast

03:10:07.820 please forgive me for that it's okay who do you think raised their hand only one woman did 0.99

03:10:11.660 why do you think it was her because she rated herself a 10 is she 1.00

03:10:23.900 i think the prettiest girl in the room is jade oh thank you i mean

03:10:28.380 no stop um is she is she no to my like scale of what a 10 is compared to a one is no but

03:10:44.060 you are a very beautiful woman oh she said she was oh she said she was hey i i this is my belief

03:10:52.060 about myself let us have the engagement let us have the engagement but when she said she was a 10 0.96

03:10:57.100 you didn't interject yourself right it's exactly because of that right you wanted to be nice yeah

03:11:02.460 you wanted to be nice yeah but it just it doesn't actually reflect reality and that's often the point

03:11:08.700 we come into in these shows right is what reflects reality and what doesn't and it's like very

03:11:13.340 quickly we can ascertain um just through a couple of very quick social experiments that

03:11:19.580 what is said on these panels versus what is actually being thought to very very very different things

03:11:26.620 so a reality is subjective though yeah you know that's really funny that you say that um

03:11:33.980 when you say reality is subjective is everything subjective most a lot of it is i mean there's

03:11:40.060 like cultural standards of things but for the most part we're having this conversation right now or is

03:11:44.780 that objective what was that we're having a conversation right now is that subjective we're

03:11:50.620 having a conversation right now yes are we all perceiving it differently yes yeah but is it objective

03:11:55.740 that we're having one um yeah we're having one oh is that objective or subjective

03:12:03.180 well my the way that i'm perceiving it is subjective but it's objective that we're having one okay so

03:12:09.340 there are objective truths then there are objective truths but like in when we're talking about like

03:12:16.300 rating and opinions it's just different okay so if somebody said this isn't a tree and it was a tree

03:12:21.340 they would be wrong right that's like a whole other like philosophical conversation but

03:12:27.100 i mean there is an objective reality yeah and then there's interpretations conversation right now

03:12:34.860 would they be wrong if they said that we're not or we are we're not they would be wrong they would be

03:12:41.020 wrong okay then it sounds like uh we have some objective standards that we can point to i don't

03:12:45.500 know why you think beauty is any different for instance uh you would agree with me that humanity has to

03:12:51.660 produce in order to survive you would agree that that's true right yeah yeah yeah okay so we would

03:12:57.980 agree that that's true but in order to produce you have to have young fertile females to reproduce with 0.99

03:13:03.740 you agree that that's also true right yes okay so if that's true then it stands to complete reason

03:13:10.060 that men would be attracted to young fertile females because that would lead to reproduction right 0.82

03:13:15.980 uh you could say that like like a majority maybe what you're talking about like yeah you could say

03:13:22.860 well nothing's not i'm not going to say anything's in a monolith but it does make sense that the men

03:13:28.540 would be attracted to young fertile females if we wanted to have you know children right that makes 1.00

03:13:32.700 sense doesn't it sure yeah sure so then that would mean that when we're talking about things men are

03:13:38.140 attracted to which would be the things that led to reproduction hang on hang on hang on don't need

03:13:42.460 the sisterhood just yet you can chime in a second but that would mean then that if it is the case

03:13:48.620 that um that men are looking for younger women to reproduce with because that's the primary edict 1.00

03:13:56.380 that beauty would be at least somewhat objective because we'd be you looking for youthful features

03:14:00.860 right what would the beautiful features be well let's think about it for a second all of the things

03:14:06.380 that women enhance themselves with let's see full lips rosy cheeks perky breasts voluptuous 1.00

03:14:12.300 hips hourglass like shapes right all of the things that you do cybernetic enhancements

03:14:18.460 in order to accommodate all seem to be alluding towards a youthful appearance for the purpose of

03:14:24.060 attractiveness right i would say that i also want to make note that i'm talking to like two white guys

03:14:30.300 and like none of my exes are white and so like you're talking about like that standard of beauty

03:14:35.260 also like so which one of your exes would do you think would disagree on a youthful women hot 1.00

03:14:44.780 i mean if they're not creepy like if it just depends like how is that creepy it just said

03:14:50.780 there's a biological reason for it why would that be creepy i think if someone is it's if someone is at

03:14:55.580 a certain age and they're constantly seeking like somebody incredibly younger than them constantly then

03:15:00.700 that just kind of says something about them where they are mentally but it just depends oh i'm sorry

03:15:05.340 do you think you think people can help who they're attracted to then so like homosexuals for instance 1.00

03:15:10.540 can help who they're attracted to right i mean i don't know anything about that because i'm not

03:15:15.740 yeah so can can you can you help who you're attracted to um i mean i do like yeah i'm drawn to

03:15:23.580 what i'm drawn to i guess you could say that oh okay so then if it's a biological function for

03:15:28.380 reproduction that's what make man horny that's what make woman horny but that you can't see that 0.79

03:15:32.860 that's for every man you're saying that every man is attracted to really young women that's not true

03:15:38.380 i have so many men in my life who talk about being attracted to women of different ages and races and

03:15:43.580 sizes what's the purpose of sex men wanting to get our pleasure and reproduction no no no it's for

03:15:51.420 the reason biology would make it pleasurable and a pleasure-seeking activity is because it leads

03:15:58.220 to what well you're talking to somebody for instance let's say every woman had a thorn bush 0.99

03:16:05.100 in her vagina do you think that men would be more or less likely to have sex with them 1.00

03:16:09.180 they would want they'll have sex with anything can you answer my question if every woman on planet earth 1.00

03:16:14.940 had a thorn bush in their vagina and it would cut a man's penis to ribbons men will have sex with 1.00

03:16:21.980 anything let me request like they would give it a shot not talking so i can ask the question would 1.00

03:16:29.100 men be more or less likely to have sex with them less likely less likely less okay great so why because

03:16:36.300 it's not as pleasurable makes total sense to me so this infers to me then that the reason this is a

03:16:42.140 pleasure-seeking activity is because it leads to reproductive ends thus the human species continuing

03:16:47.740 the primary edict of evolution right so that's the case then men are supposed to be attracted 0.97

03:16:53.500 to youthful looking women aren't they well that's not really true in my age bracket 1.00

03:17:00.140 without the sisterhood no i mean i just it feels like you're just like spewing off like you know 0.99

03:17:06.140 like statistics on stuff and it's like yeah give me a counter argument youthful women make man penis 1.00

03:17:12.780 hard therefore man want have sex with youthful women because that leads to reproduction can you 1.00

03:17:17.500 give me a counter argument yeah the ones that have had hysterectomies and vasectomies like they still

03:17:24.540 want sex and it doesn't reproduce anything man that argument is like men will fetishize anything it's not

03:17:32.140 just you let me respond to your argument that makes less sense than her argument do you think through

03:17:38.540 all of human history men had x-ray vision and could tell if you had a uterus or not no of course not

03:17:45.980 so what they did was they ascertained fertility based around what youthful appearance perky boobies 1.00

03:17:53.900 right voluptuous right this i agree with that appearances so that's the whole point right but

03:17:59.180 i'm still saying that different age brackets it changes and they're still as horny as they were 0.79

03:18:05.740 when they were younger i agree with yeah and if those horny men could select for youthful women 0.99

03:18:12.940 wouldn't they well wouldn't youth i mean women uh if we're talking about sex go after younger men 1.00

03:18:20.540 because they're because younger men have better quality seamen right able to reproduce more so

03:18:26.700 they're more attracted to them right makes sense right why not yeah but i'm sorry so then how could

03:18:34.220 it be creepy to say then i think older men are attracted to younger women when that's a basic

03:18:40.380 biological fun of course they are it makes total sense yeah i can't wait for it to hear it go ahead

03:18:45.740 yeah you're talking about something very instinctively and savage like we are animals or something and

03:18:51.180 actually we are humans we are yeah but we are civilized and we have emotions and what does that

03:18:57.820 have to do with what you're attracted to yeah i know but we need to separate things one thing is

03:19:03.500 what you want to have sex because of this species and you want to reproduce yourself and everything 0.96

03:19:09.340 and that is very instinctively and savage which animals have but we are humans and we have emotions

03:19:14.860 and we love people and we are very sensitive so it's not only about how age how like that argument

03:19:22.940 falls flat too and here's why yes it's true you can develop deep emotional connections with people

03:19:27.900 but usually you're attracted to them first usually when you're dating you're attracted to those people

03:19:35.180 if you're not attracted to them you're never going to date thus never having an emotional connection yeah

03:19:40.060 i understand you're going hang on so if you're going for what you're attracted to

03:19:44.300 right most men are going to be attracted towards youthful looking women most would you like the 0.85

03:19:49.340 statistics on this this was there's more statistical data to back up men being attracted to youthful

03:19:55.500 women than almost any other type of data set i can point to i disagree totally disagree based on what 0.98

03:20:03.260 i can't wait to hear the argument i think if you like someone uh it happened to me many times

03:20:09.260 that i really like someone and i thought he was so hot and he's so good in bed and everything

03:20:13.980 but after talk to him like one hour or two that disappeared completely so i was attached i i realized

03:20:21.020 what i really like and what i'm attached to somebody to pick has a partner or i don't know what company

03:20:26.780 the mind like have you heard about uh being attracted to the mind or to the way of thinking

03:20:32.220 that the other person it's not only physical everything you're holding a self-contradictory

03:20:36.860 position there's so many times there's guys who i think they're hot and i them and then find out

03:20:42.300 later that no i didn't say that no i didn't say that i didn't say i say i like someone and i

03:20:47.660 quit no i didn't say that i say i like someone what does good in bed mean i feel attracted to

03:20:53.180 but after i realized what is really attractive is the way how they think i can test this i can test

03:20:58.140 this really quick yeah i got it i got it so here let me ask you a question okay you have a selection

03:21:03.660 between two different men okay one man is 56 and makes the exact same amount of money as a man who's

03:21:09.180 26 and their personality is about equal the 26 year old though much more attractive than the 56 year

03:21:14.620 old who would you select for 50 all my boyfriends are 50 something why my ex-boyfriends for the 50

03:21:22.140 something year old for experience six year old hang on hang on oh okay if they had the same exact traits

03:21:27.660 and made the exact same money why would you go for the 50 year old i feel more loved by people that

03:21:34.860 have more experience in relationships so i think if 55 or somebody old will be better for me because

03:21:41.740 i feel like i'm very mature and i like to have very like conversations and talk about life and future

03:21:47.980 and everything and yeah but in the hypothetical the 26 year old has the exact same traits as the 56 year

03:21:54.780 old but you're saying the 56 year old meaning he has the exact same emotional maturity long walks on

03:22:01.260 the beach whatever those emotional needs are tell me then why it would be that you would select for the

03:22:06.700 less attractive mate why most of the time i felt bored with people that is younger than me at the end so

03:22:13.980 i i don't i don't find nothing in common with people that is younger so all my friends

03:22:19.260 i'll have my age or they are older listening they have the exact same traits 100 100 100 they're the

03:22:26.460 same intelligence make the same amount of money they give you the same emotional attention they

03:22:31.180 have the same exact traits give me a single reason why you would select for the less attractive one

03:22:36.380 and you're less likely to be a widow if they're younger than you that makes no sense why would you

03:22:41.180 select for the less attractive one if all the traits were equalized that's that makes no sense

03:22:45.900 i think that if you want to make this about age they should like be both good looking you know

03:22:51.180 but you're saying one's ugly one's this i want to completely down i want to test this out though really

03:22:55.660 quick with you um how tall was your last boyfriend how tall how tall height uh like uh five nine

03:23:05.500 well you guys use centimeters in argentina right yeah i'm from argentina okay uh what about you your

03:23:10.780 boyfriend how tall was he yeah five nine five nine uh you're in a relationship how tall is your 0.98

03:23:15.740 boyfriend five seven damn right what the fuck uh how into the mic into the mic you guys speak into 0.97

03:23:22.140 the mic six five what about you six two okay uh your current guy you're seeing how tall is he six 0.99

03:23:29.020 two six two um my current boyfriend six three six three i think five nine five nine okay so we

03:23:35.100 got a little bit of mixed bags here but it's interesting to me that here on the panel we've got a

03:23:39.980 cross section of different women here and like three or four of them you guys are dating men who

03:23:44.540 are in the top three percentile of height six two six three etc so it's like y'all say you say for

03:23:51.020 example well you know we we've grown past just caring about looks and other things matter but like

03:23:57.660 women care about height a man's height has nothing to do with his character or how good of a person 0.88

03:24:03.340 he'll be in a relationship really anything but women seem to care quite a bit about height so that's 0.99

03:24:08.780 that's always interesting to me it does affect some things like the relationships among other

03:24:14.140 men in the their social status in a sense uh yeah sure i i don't like they say that like for every 0.98

03:24:21.340 inch taller than you are like the more likely you are to be ceo or something stupid yes i agree that 0.93

03:24:26.540 being tall as a man confers upon it certain social benefits just like pretty privilege for example 0.99

03:24:32.140 there's like a high privilege but i'm just saying that that kind of impact your like the way you like

03:24:35.740 little man syndrome versus you know like a big dude that's just like really chill you know so i

03:24:41.340 think that it can impact the way that you function yeah i wouldn't i wouldn't even i wouldn't even

03:24:46.220 dispute that but this idea that when what she's talking about is oh but you know we've we've evolved

03:24:52.860 past all these things but you would agree that there are short men who have those same traits as the

03:24:59.740 tall men the confidence they're really successful they could be just as capable of protecting you

03:25:05.420 even better like a five foot nine mma fighter is going to be able to protect you better than

03:25:10.300 a six foot two lanky guy but a lot of women have this evolutionary evolutionary biological uh you you 1.00

03:25:18.620 can't even really articulate why it's just it's just a thing inside she confirms it doesn't she confirm

03:25:23.820 it by saying it's because uh even inside of pack hierarchy of men that taller men uh are treated

03:25:31.420 differently than shorter men so thus giving a preference to that which means social status

03:25:35.980 which means better for mating and reproduction like you're making isn't she making that point for you in

03:25:41.020 a way is she i think she is yeah i think you're making i think you're making his point for him right like

03:25:50.460 when you when it comes to so everything the biological edict for everything is to reproduce

03:25:56.700 or it dies off right so that's the overriding drive of humanity is this edict so you wonder why sex

03:26:04.380 is so popular it's because sex is associated with one function which is reproduction so men and women

03:26:10.540 well they really like having sex both of them really enjoy it an awful lot it's a very pleasurable

03:26:15.740 activity and it's made biologically to be as pleasurable as possible to ensure reproduction

03:26:21.740 that's what it's trying to ensure that the the species continues right this is like the primary edict

03:26:28.620 of all things which are alive so if that's the case why would men select for non-youthful women um may

03:26:35.420 i ask you something yeah um like how old are you and how old is your wife i'm 65 and she's 70.

03:26:45.740 she's 70 okay um so you're not attracted to your wife what would that have to do with anyone do you

03:26:54.140 understand the whole time you've been saying he's not 65 by the way oh well i believe it

03:27:02.540 so so how old is your wife well i mean how old are you really i'm 18 i mean everyone always told me that

03:27:12.460 i look older but i am 18 i'm almost i'll tell you what i'll be honest about my age when you are

03:27:19.420 okay well okay all right so like what i mean you you came out of high school and you were able to

03:27:27.340 like pay for the boob job and all the plastic surgery yourself and this and that like come 1.00

03:27:31.180 i just got older than 18. no i'm not i literally can show you my id if you want you have it with me i'm

03:27:38.460 not i have it on my phone yeah brian will check it yeah i'll check you want to step up i'll check

03:27:42.700 it right now yeah yeah check it sure excuse me i have my passport and my id i will two forms of id

03:27:49.420 are acceptable i will accept the two forms of id the two forms of id will be accepted so guys tts

03:27:57.420 stream labs has been really weird it's kind of funky so i'm going to switch guys we're doing everything

03:28:01.980 on youtube today we're going to do everything on youtube from here on out uh i'm just going to say

03:28:06.060 it's going to be we'll do super chats uh uh 99 and up for read and you can't really do tts with it so um

03:28:15.580 super chat 99 up for read stream labs is busted so we're just going to do that uh let me see if i can

03:28:24.380 do that oh i have to go i have to go back there eh hold on boys uh here while that's going on

03:28:30.140 i might you have it yeah okay i'm coming back all right boys pray for me okay go ahead uh tell us

03:28:38.140 your story which one give us a juicy one uh so uh we're talking about that the height thing i think

03:28:50.620 it's really who uh who approaches you because i'm thinking the dude that said he was beautiful was

03:28:57.500 probably an inch shorter than me you know and i'm thinking you know why you've got a great eyesight so

03:29:04.620 i think i like you you know the problem was i knew with him because he was so forceful of saying oh

03:29:13.260 you're beautiful you're this and it's like nobody does that a guy that likes you doesn't do that and

03:29:19.980 sure enough the guy was married i was furious and i posted it on my facebook i'm going why are they

03:29:27.180 all married and all the guys are going because married men are horny too that's all i would get 1.00

03:29:34.620 i'm going you're all dirt bags wait so how old are you me me yeah um so okay fine you guys call me i'm 0.99

03:29:45.020 19. oh yeah she she's 2005. i should have asked her 100 right and you lied like you've been doing 0.94

03:29:54.700 most of the night and i've been catching in them all night listen okay well i'm like i've been at

03:29:59.180 the social media i've been at this a long long time i know when people are bullshitting me i know when 0.99

03:30:04.940 they're bullshitting well i'm 19 i'm sorry you're a liar you're a liar sorry how dare you i'm sorry how 0.99

03:30:16.540 dare you lie to me how dare you lie very upset called out you know what here you have a pun we're 1.00

03:30:25.340 gonna give you a punishment we're gonna give you a punishment for your your dastardly and evil lie 0.98

03:30:30.620 you got to take the bunny ears off okay fine and you have to wear this for the next 10 minutes 0.90

03:30:36.140 all right put that on and you got to spin the little thing on the top okay all right put it on

03:30:42.060 all right now spin spin the little helicopter on the top i like this yeah oh and you have to take

03:30:46.700 off your little glove things too i'll spin it for you see see we lay down the law here at the whatever 1.00

03:30:54.140 podcast if you lie on our show you have to wear the helicopter closer to 20 or closer to 18 she's

03:31:03.100 like 19 and 10 months or something like that so she's almost 20 almost 20 so almost 20 she's almost

03:31:08.220 20. and and isn't it and let me ask you this just be honest with me right isn't it the case

03:31:13.820 that the reason you fibbed about your age is because you think that it'll sell more tickets to your own

03:31:18.140 my manager is the one that put 18 in my bio so i was just going along your manager is gonna yeah 0.98

03:31:25.420 he's gonna kill me he's gonna kill you spin the helicopter maybe he'll redeem you i can't even 0.97

03:31:30.700 find the helicopter spin it somebody can you help can you help her help her out get that get it spinning 0.99

03:31:36.940 but now that we're being honest with each other right uh i'll tell you my real age i'm 41 right my wife

03:31:43.980 is three years older than me so uh the thing is is like uh even if it is the case though that uh

03:31:50.700 generally speaking for me i don't have a high attraction level for women who are in their 20s 0.94

03:31:55.740 or 30s or whatever uh that is still not reflective of the case for most men i've also successfully

03:32:03.180 reproduced multiple times i want different things out of life um you know but when it comes

03:32:08.780 to attraction with baseline attraction it makes complete sense to me why it would be

03:32:13.340 that men across all age groups are attracted to youthful looking women because the thing which

03:32:18.460 would drive attraction would be reproduction makes complete sense i agree with you i also

03:32:25.020 think it's interesting that as soon as you meet someone within like two seconds you actually already

03:32:29.420 have your opinions based off of them like in a blink of an eye and so the way you look and your

03:32:34.220 appearance is really important to people especially men because they're more visual than women 1.00

03:32:39.740 oh there it is okay i guess it is working i don't know it's called glue dot net nine hundred and

03:32:46.460 ninety nine dollars pop champagne thank you both big w for andrew catching chair two in the line

03:32:53.100 champagne for everyone who's of age and she has to edge with that and hang on the truth

03:32:59.500 shall set you free now you're not old enough to drink the champagne yet but we will have a drink on your

03:33:05.420 beer okay yes uh can somebody get the can you get the ball for us oh let's go i know yeah wild it's

03:33:15.340 about time about time and if if any uh you know we do have crystal bottles if anybody else wants to

03:33:24.860 one ethereum one ethereum so apparently maybe the credit card works on stream labs but paypal's not

03:33:31.740 working i have no idea what's going on it's been three weeks stream labs just been totally scuffed

03:33:36.140 uh no i'll open it i'll open it wait what are you no let me do it let me do it wait let me do everything

03:33:43.180 which one is it okay yeah yeah let me do it uh while we're doing while i'm waiting on that yo ogle guys

03:33:53.500 w's in the chat for ogle here w's on the chat for ogle he uh is a legend and a scholar and hold on

03:34:01.740 he's a brave and a decent man he's a pioneer that's true uh i'm gonna send in here let me

03:34:07.500 let these come through ogle underscore glue dot net donated two hundred dollars just testing stream

03:34:15.260 labs again also chair seven's reality is subjective comment is spewing post-modernist drivel sociology

03:34:22.620 degree by the way wasting my time

03:34:27.740 pop them bottles

03:34:31.580 oh it's almost there anticipation what um what type of sociology did you get a degree in

03:34:38.060 no um my my emphasis is in gender and sexuality

03:34:45.900 basket weaving checks out that's why i do hair now oh lord cosmetologist

03:34:58.780 uh thank you gloctavius thank you ogle um wait your it was what your emphasis in what gender and

03:35:06.700 sexuality i thought you said degenerate sexuality i was like what i mean same thing actually same

03:35:12.860 thing basically the same thing anybody i will admit that it's a useless degree pretty much like you 0.93

03:35:17.900 guys got me on that all right who wants champagne uh champagne you're too young champagne champagne

03:35:24.700 champagne no thank you so one two three four five okay all right ogle appreciate it we have can uh

03:35:34.300 can i have you read this go ahead read it perfect panel for this cue one said men told

03:35:41.580 her they don't care if she goes out almost nude another said men told her they prefer older women 0.95

03:35:48.700 why do you assume that saying something makes it true

03:35:54.380 anybody respond yo inquisitor zeal thank you man anybody want to weigh in on that yeah i mean i didn't

03:35:59.500 say that it wasn't for her oh for me okay thank you yeah i wasn't saying that my man doesn't care

03:36:05.180 i'm saying there's men out there who don't care my man does in fact care so incorrect keep it there's

03:36:11.100 one for her there's going to be one for her okay while while he's pouring just to just inquire about

03:36:16.940 this do you think that if your man didn't care right would that make you feel a certain way would

03:36:23.260 that make you feel less valued my man likes how i dress and like yeah i understand that hang on

03:36:32.300 let me finish the combo though with her and then i promise we'll get we'll die back over to that okay

03:36:37.340 i feel like yeah if you didn't care about anything i did like the way i dress the way i carry myself

03:36:42.300 yeah i'd feel like like damn do you care about me at all there would that thought would cross my mind

03:36:47.100 for sure so like a little bit of controlling is okay then yeah i mean i do want my man to lead and 0.61

03:36:52.220 and do the whole thing you know i'm saying a little bit controlling right a little bit i want

03:36:56.780 my man to have boundaries so it's like a little bit controlling is that is having a boundary boundary

03:37:02.060 controlling though like we all have boundaries listen okay so i'll give you i'll give you like a

03:37:06.540 big olive branch here i don't think so i think that that having boundaries is not the same as

03:37:12.700 being controlling but i think that they're often conflated as being the same thing yeah it was very

03:37:17.740 controlling because he had boundaries about how he wanted his woman to dress

03:37:21.580 i think that it's a completely fair boundary to have but my question what i'm really driving at is

03:37:27.580 don't you kind of want him to care don't you kind of want him to be like ah no nobody gets to see this

03:37:32.780 but me nobody really gets to bask in this but me this is mine it's not for anybody else and you all can 0.99

03:37:39.260 go fuck yourself like isn't don't you kind of like want that a little bit yeah where's your 1.00

03:37:44.940 fucking manners hold on okay hold on these these people are crazy okay we they can't they can't wait 1.00

03:37:50.300 for the cheers uh cheers to ogle cheers to ogle salute i got the shot here cheers cheers cheers cheers 0.99

03:37:59.020 thank you oh my god thank you so you kind of thank you appreciate you you kind of want him to be like

03:38:08.700 that right yeah just again the way you communicate that yeah yeah so so wouldn't it be like uh probably

03:38:17.100 the most masculine thing then to tell your woman don't go out dressed like that you're not to be

03:38:24.060 shared you're not to be ogled hang on hang on you're not to be uh gawked at you're not for them

03:38:31.660 you're for me isn't that kind of like the most masculine thing a man could ever say to a woman

03:38:38.300 i don't know if it's the most masculine thing but again when i go out there though

03:38:42.300 is it at least up there is it at least a very masculine thing to say

03:38:48.380 i think it's a controlling thing to say yeah no let her answer um yeah i don't think it's the

03:38:53.820 most masculine thing to say i think there's so many other things that prove and show your

03:38:57.420 masculinity i don't think you telling me i don't want you wearing that is the most masculine thing

03:39:01.340 you can say i think it's not even though well i'm sorry just in the context of that

03:39:07.740 i'm not saying it's the most masculine thing a man could ever do it's like it's not on par with 0.96

03:39:12.300 i don't know running into a burning plane saving 50 fucking women in distress or some 0.95

03:39:16.540 shit like that whatever that is i'm just saying in the context of this is there really anything 0.98

03:39:22.060 more masculine than him saying you're not to be shared i think a girl can say that too though yeah 0.99

03:39:30.620 yeah i think well hang on i think so that's fair that's fair if a woman says hey i don't want you to 1.00

03:39:35.260 flirt i don't want you to be around women i don't want them ogling you you're you're you know uh i don't 0.72

03:39:41.020 want to share i think that that's completely i think my um personally like my relationship wait

03:39:45.740 sorry you're still under punishment in order to be freed from punishment you need to read

03:39:49.900 uh the first 10 pages of green eggs and ham by okay dr seuss

03:39:56.380 go ahead oh my try to be quick though okay read it into the mic okay um

03:40:01.500 um i am sam i am sam i am sam sam

03:40:12.940 um that sam i am that sam i am i do not like that sam i am do you like green eggs and ham i'm not

03:40:20.940 really a good reader i do not like them sam i am i do not like green eggs and ham more one more one

03:40:28.460 more page okay wait do you like them here or there okay great thank you give it back uh

03:40:37.420 can i say what i was going to say now yeah sure but take the hat off and but don't put your ears

03:40:42.140 back on okay well it's easter oh that's explains it oh the way happy easter to the entire panel for

03:40:49.740 those of you who are happy easter even for those of you who are filthy heathens and are not uh still

03:40:57.580 happy easter to you as well um oh i was gonna say you keep saying like i'm being shared because

03:41:04.940 i wear reveal revealing clothes but um i'm very very loyal to my men and um i definitely do not sleep

03:41:13.820 with anyone other than my man so i don't think i'm being shared and i've never ever had sex with 0.55

03:41:19.980 any um guy that i'm not in a relationship with yeah i understand uh and i understand the argument

03:41:26.940 and i'll go ahead and steal man if that just means i'm going to give you the argument back that you

03:41:30.220 just gave me that's okay which is like look maybe i dress promiscuously and things like this especially

03:41:35.660 for work but i am not out there cheating on a person i'm in a relationship with right i'm not

03:41:41.420 actually taking the peen and the g or anything like that right uh i'm i'm being loyal but but

03:41:47.580 but here's the thing right that really doesn't contend with the ultimate argument which is being

03:41:53.740 made here which is that if a man really values you he doesn't want to share any of you with 0.90

03:42:00.620 fucking anybody he just wants you all to himself you're his right ultimately that's what they want 0.85

03:42:09.020 if they found that this is what i'll leave you saying anyway if i find that piece of gold it's 1.00

03:42:13.900 for me and me alone and i'm only so hang on so if the man says to you if your boyfriend told you

03:42:22.380 in other words to stop dressing promiscuously yes or no would you yeah i would and if he didn't want

03:42:30.060 me to wear this like today on the podcast i wouldn't i'm very like how much do you think

03:42:34.780 if a man like that really values you i think he loves me very much and he's watching right now and

03:42:40.220 he approved of my outfit i showed him before and he liked it what kind of man who values you would let

03:42:46.060 you show all of the goods to i don't think i'm showing all the purposes of monetary collection imagine

03:42:54.380 if i said i value my wife as i prostituted her out to other people do you think i would really value 0.98

03:43:02.140 her i mean i think he values me and i think he really likes he doesn't give a flying fuck about 0.99

03:43:09.180 you and he can't because a man who would allow his woman to be prostituted to other men can't value 0.98

03:43:16.860 them they don't even understand what value means that's not value okay i guess i'm just

03:43:23.420 unlovable then and that's okay you see you know what's funny that's actually that's actually

03:43:29.260 objectification that's actually you're really mean like i'm literally gonna cry i'm always accused

03:43:35.660 of being this insane right-wing conservative who thinks women are objects it's so funny because the

03:43:42.220 opposite is true it's like here you're actually an object literally utilized for the purpose of 0.99

03:43:48.460 monetary gain for a man who doesn't give a fuck about sharing it with other men how is that a man 0.67

03:43:54.860 yeah i think that's how i think he um he could value her for sure but it's just he's not a man like 0.99

03:44:00.780 he's just lacking those you know traditional man values but he could no no values unethical scumbaggery 1.00

03:44:09.340 yeah piece of shit piece of human garbage you don't share your fucking woman you don't share 1.00

03:44:15.180 her also i just want to say i don't i don't think you're unlovable i just want to say that i think 1.00

03:44:20.700 there's a better man out there for you no because she said 0.93

03:44:26.860 let them hear the effects of it no that's fine but i don't want her to think getting money somehow in

03:44:33.100 this arrangement a guarantee it somehow your man's getting money off of the back of your prostitution

03:44:39.260 guarantee it no he doesn't guarantee yeah he benefits somehow he has no way he goes go expose 0.99

03:44:44.700 your your titties to thousands of men on the internet uh and he cares about you yeah 0.97

03:44:50.060 right by the way i'll tell you what if i'm wrong right now if i'm wrong right this second 0.99

03:44:56.540 the women on the panel raise your hand if i am incorrect and her man values her while she exposes 0.99

03:45:03.100 herself to the men of the internet go ahead tell me i'm wrong again i think he could

03:45:08.620 value her but like you said he doesn't have manly values in general i need to wrap up on this so

03:45:24.620 all right you have a final point though or all good that's it that was the final point the reason not a

03:45:31.500 single person raise their hand on this panel is because i'm absolutely one thousand percent correct

03:45:37.740 go ahead oh i i misunderstood the question but i think he values her they have the same values

03:45:42.700 like you like they're in alignment yeah like that he shows his body off

03:45:49.020 we got other people to get to though so if your man if your man lady uh said go ahead and show your 0.92

03:45:55.500 boobs to thousands of men on the internet so that you can make more money you think he values you i just 0.95

03:45:59.900 want to i just want to yes or me yeah but i don't do her line of work yeah my question you'll change

03:46:06.060 your mind you consider that a man who values you when you find the guy in my morals with the person

03:46:10.700 that i am dating it would not be in alignment but she is in alignment with the man that she's they

03:46:16.460 have they have the same values so that's why he values her we're different good it's good for thee

03:46:21.900 but not for me exactly yeah exactly yes yes individual very much you're what we like to call a 0.99

03:46:29.020 hypocrite it's hypocritical 100 hypocritical you know it's wrong you've admitted it's wrong you 0.99

03:46:34.380 admit it if it happened to you you would consider it devaluing but me and her are two different 1.00

03:46:37.980 people in two different lines of work yeah whatever i mean if it was all only fans girls sitting here

03:46:43.260 yeah really different okay whatever i mean look i'm not i'm not here to like petition on her behalf 0.61

03:46:51.820 right it's stupid for a woman to do this on behalf of a man she's as much fault as him but don't 0.99

03:46:57.180 blow smoke up my ass and tell me that a man cares about a woman who exposes herself to half the 1.00

03:47:02.060 internet uh and then says i green light this outfit when you go on the whatever podcast 1.00

03:47:07.260 yeah fucking right tell me he cares about her go ahead lie to me that's like britney spears dad 1.00

03:47:14.460 loving her i mean he messed her up so bad that the woman's in her 40s a lost soul on the internet 0.99

03:47:23.340 dancing for whomever she looks like she's insane and it's like her family made all that money off 1.00

03:47:30.540 of her how tragic she is insane she's been through a lot yeah poor girl and it's shameful it was her

03:47:38.700 family that did it yeah well this isn't a poor girl in question here this wasn't a man victimizing her

03:47:45.420 this woman's making her own decision strong empowered woman and you guys can't even really say that she's

03:47:52.220 doing anything wrong because it's just subjective right it's just it seems happy if it's good for

03:47:56.940 them it's good for them even though it's not good for me it's like you guys enable this behavior

03:48:02.140 while at the same time decrying it as victimization it's like there's no victims here right you're doing 1.00

03:48:08.700 it yourself it's just like it's pure stupidity and i i can't fathom why people would be this 1.00

03:48:15.900 stupid and pretend like muhammad ali said right if i have a piece of gold i ain't sharing it but 1.00

03:48:22.460 if the piece of gold wants to be shared is it really a piece of gold that's the question 0.99

03:48:26.700 well i have a question how long do you want to do only fans i don't really care to have the

03:48:31.820 only fans bad conversation i don't find it particularly interesting at all but answer the

03:48:36.380 question um i definitely don't want to do only fans forever and i really want to like change when

03:48:43.260 i'm older and like become like not showing my body off i'm just like having fun when i'm young

03:48:50.060 and i will change and i want to get married and have kids why why why do people set a target date

03:48:55.980 like just stop you just stop all right we have some super chats lucas he says i'm utterly amazed

03:49:02.380 with these women today that when presented with a deluge of unassailable and fully settled scientific 1.00

03:49:07.580 research relating to human hard wiring and impulses spanning over 200 000 years the response is

03:49:14.460 simply nope i just disagree that is from lucas but he continues bottom line here whether you like

03:49:23.420 it or not when researched men on average when polled even as young as 13 years old through 90 years old

03:49:29.820 are most attracted to a 23 year old on average give or take doesn't mean he can get the 23 year old but he

03:49:35.980 still prefers her it's from lucas about uh men having a preference for younger women thank you for

03:49:42.380 that lucas uh cat thank you for the soup chat leave britney alone and then uh i love britney

03:49:49.820 scrubber thank you for the uh super chat we'll leave that up for just a moment uh appreciate the uh

03:49:54.380 super chats guys so apparently through uh you can try to keep you can uh we still have stream labs up

03:49:59.740 some are still trickling through but apparently um stream labs is having some issues you can try it

03:50:07.020 if it doesn't work head on over to youtube just submit it as a super chat or you can also do it

03:50:12.060 through venmo cash app that is uh whatever pod on both and then coax thank you for the ten dollars on

03:50:20.620 cash app jake thank you for the ten on cash app and daniel weston thank you for the ten dollars on

03:50:27.020 cash app appreciate it guys thank you thank you and let me see where we're at here okay super chat

03:50:31.980 hundred dollars for reads tts you can try through stream lar stream larbs stream labs but some people

03:50:39.260 are reporting stream labs isn't working so just go ahead and say how much champagne have you had right

03:50:43.580 what's that how much champagne oh i'm a i'm a lightweight i'm a lightweight so i had

03:50:50.460 i don't know i probably like this much was in the cup i don't know if people can see that but

03:50:56.460 uh i just drank from the bottle thank you guys appreciate it okay already slurring my words here

03:51:01.900 uh oh we didn't finish up on the uh ask everyone to write their own looks on a scale of one to ten

03:51:06.380 uh so going around the table sort of related to this do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years

03:51:12.380 time better looking in 10 years time starting with you you're 24 better looking at in 10 years time

03:51:16.700 at 34 i'm asian so i mean i'm asian so i think i'll probably i did get better looking as i got older

03:51:23.180 i noticed okay uh 20 years time 44 20 years oh 44 i don't know i don't think so damn 44 but better 0.52

03:51:30.300 looking 34 or 24 oh um um i don't know pretty i think right now i'm pretty right now okay you're

03:51:36.940 you're 20 well i'm 19 well 19 almost 20 okay you're 19 better looking in 10 years time at 29 um

03:51:46.380 yes i think i'll be um prettier 29 okay then now okay uh let's do 20 years time better looking at

03:51:55.980 39 than 19 for you oh me yeah 20 years in 20 years 20 years so 39 um

03:52:02.780 um no probably not okay you're 30 better looking in 10 years time at 40 i think i'll look just as

03:52:10.540 good in 10 and not as good in 20 okay so better at 40 than now at 30 but not at 50 versus now at 30

03:52:18.220 and then if we go back 10 years you're 30 now were you better looking at 20 or better looking now i'm

03:52:23.500 better looking now better looking now okay so better looking at 40 okay uh you're 36 better looking in 10

03:52:30.700 years time at 46 it depends on how rich i am uh let's just assume you don't have access to plastic

03:52:39.340 surgery um well i i i fundamentally believe that younger is better like looking so now yeah so i

03:52:49.740 deteriorating after this okay and then going back 10 years time uh 26 versus 36 better looking now or at 26

03:52:56.220 um probably 26 yeah okay uh and then you are 62 i'm 62 so 20 years i'll be happy if i'm even here

03:53:09.900 um but i do know in my life experience that um i was wearing glasses at like 53 and ended up getting laser

03:53:18.620 surgery so i actually look better at 62 than i did at 52 um uh so 62 versus 72 better looking at 72 or 62

03:53:34.300 i'll be happy if i'm here it's no i understand yeah but um just looks wise uh i just know that when i got

03:53:41.740 the laser surgery i looked a hundred times better than i did um i i don't believe in facelifts so i

03:53:49.580 can already tell my skin tagging and it's like whatever it's life i rather have joy and you know

03:53:57.740 i'm not into botox and that crap yeah but that that's fine but better looking in 10 years time at 72.

03:54:05.020 i don't know i you know i'm surprised that i look better than i did at 53.

03:54:09.420 okay so here we'll go backwards then you're 62 now were you better looking at 52 or now at 62

03:54:15.100 at 62 i'm better looking than i was let's go back let's go back 20 years 42 versus 62 better

03:54:20.380 looking 62 42 i looked fabulous i was dynamite dynamite okay and then i assume like going further

03:54:29.500 back 32 22 better looking then um in my early 20s i was dynamite in my 28 like

03:54:39.020 32 32 i had some rough years probably with the stuff going on in my life you know um when's the

03:54:46.220 peak i guess when was when do you feel was like your peak looks wise 42 i looked i was off the charts

03:54:55.660 at 42 gangbusters at 42 yeah okay okay so uh what about you you are uh 32 better looking in 10 years

03:55:06.460 time at 42 i might look better in 10 years yeah i'm gonna just say yes 20 years time 52 probably not

03:55:14.940 no okay and you're 32 were you better looking at 22 versus now at 32 now for sure uh uh better looking

03:55:21.500 now yeah i'm better looking now all right and then uh you're 36 better looking in 10 years time at 46

03:55:26.700 i think i'll look better okay uh 20 years time 56 versus 36 probably not okay and then going back 10

03:55:34.540 years 26 versus 36 better i look better now than i did at 26 better at 36 versus 26 okay and then uh

03:55:41.900 you're 36 better looking in 10 years time at 46 i think i'll be much better in 10 years because i

03:55:47.180 already much better now than i was in my 20s so i think it's gonna be the same and then uh 20 years

03:55:53.100 time 56 versus 36 i will be awesome will you be better looking yeah i think so then 36 okay 30 years

03:56:00.620 time 66 versus 36 better looking uh maybe 50 50 but not that better than i'm right now but would you say

03:56:08.540 about the same no no no i'm better right now oh better right now yeah okay not in my 60s sure and then uh

03:56:15.260 36 going back 10 years 36 versus 26 better looking now or 26 yeah i told you i'm better

03:56:22.460 now that i was in my 20s so i'm better now better looking now yeah okay uh if we were to ask men this

03:56:29.420 question do you think there would be a difference different like you guys think you're better looking

03:56:33.740 10 20 30 years whatever do you think it changes if we were to ask men no i think so i don't yeah change

03:56:39.580 you don't think so you think men would agree like you are better looking now at 36 and you'll be

03:56:44.540 wait question do you think you'll be better looking at 46 versus when you were 26 why i assume

03:56:50.140 so yeah i will be better in my 46 yeah no plastic surgery no botox nothing anything and you think

03:56:56.300 you're going to look better in 20 years yeah how how is that possible because if you wanted to you can

03:57:03.020 if you're doing like plastic surgery you just do a sport and you eat healthy and you can do it there

03:57:09.420 is like an inevitable process called aging i know that thing yeah yeah aging yeah i know but i think

03:57:16.300 it depends on your spirit and your attitude so yeah i feel now younger than i was in my 20s

03:57:23.180 so stop feeling this is off physical looks yeah we're talking about okay oh no okay no because i

03:57:28.780 feel like more like confident and like in my body oh okay i was talking about that oh sorry yeah you

03:57:35.100 just had that energy for you you're like for you to talk again i missed you that was good it was good

03:57:41.900 keep it up keep it keep it going but i'm just saying like they're like talking about objective truth

03:57:46.860 there is obviously a subjective component to every type of thing um but there is an objective truth

03:57:52.540 that entropy exists that we're all decaying we're all aging and there's not really in like the standard

03:57:59.580 of beauty objectively tends to be not wrinkly people not old cells like you know what i mean

03:58:10.220 and so that's why i asked well if you can get me a facelift and a bunch of stuff and sure uh here we

03:58:15.740 you know what we actually have aged we've used the power of ai to age advance all of you

03:58:20.860 oh really we're going to do a segment where we do a comparison so do you have that ready to go

03:58:27.420 i'm so excited okay oh wow is that 150 yeah what how many years is that okay okay wait so is it 10

03:58:39.100 and 20 what is the age difference well look it's not exact but i mean that's like that's like that's

03:58:45.340 like 90 yeah it still looks great that's like 90 that's like that's like 60 or 70. you know what's

03:58:53.900 weird though middle is like 70. you know it's kind of weird what's that in the middle you look more

03:58:58.940 asian but then on the far right you look more white the eyes the eyes it's the eyes 0.93

03:59:04.460 the eyes always look eyes it's always the eyes you know yeah um next

03:59:13.500 wait can you oh my gosh oh no oh my gosh

03:59:18.780 808 the second picture is 10 years from now it's definitely not

03:59:23.180 wait we're gonna pull it back up this is a crazy algorithm you got going the middle one is not 29

03:59:27.340 years old that's like 70. that's like 100 years old well that's the progression that's the progression

03:59:32.460 they were just mad at you for lying so they made yours work yeah

03:59:37.020 can you make it uh control mouse wheel make it just a bit bigger oh thank you so much

03:59:42.300 last one is like 90 80. i mean okay ready a hundred

03:59:46.460 that's like 100. oh my god oh that's pretty nice that's not bad nice

03:59:53.980 lord have mercy she goes that's not bad it's kind of nice

03:59:59.100 yeah ain't no way oh my god come on like that's the second one is like 60. oh god no

04:00:06.380 second one that's no i've seen like people in 50s like that's their they don't look like she's not 1.00

04:00:12.380 gonna be like that in her face no that's like to be fair you should see my mom her mom is she is 0.99

04:00:17.180 her mom single my mom is single she's fine as fuck her mom is a baddie for sure yeah she's she's 1.00

04:00:23.740 fine as hell yeah oh you want to see a picture oh no i'll just can you set us up or oh oh 1.00

04:00:31.260 you want your mom oh anyways oh my god uh okay next okay let's see me wait hold on let me switch

04:00:43.020 it here ready yeah that's like 90. i swear people don't look like that at like 60. hold on let me pull

04:00:53.340 it up you look like you bake the best cookies it's just hilarious oh my god they're doing the blondes 1.00

04:01:01.260 dirty oh my god all right uh switch it oh no is it ready all right you ready wait i don't know how

04:01:13.100 this one's gonna turn out i can't wait i can't wait am i alive oh my god i'm alive 0.99

04:01:20.380 what the fuck what the i'm alive 0.97

04:01:27.340 it just made you oh my god why are you so red like you would be the sweetest woman ever is there a 0.99

04:01:32.300 difference between number two and number three yeah yeah there's a huge difference a little bit

04:01:37.340 extra ankles okay uh all right moving on over all right black don't crack switch

04:01:43.820 yeah you're gonna be fine i'm scared oh god oh you look great

04:01:55.260 you ready oh here it is oh no nice beautiful oh yeah you look so cute okay you look like you work at

04:02:02.380 the cafeteria in the high school right anybody else get that okay oh my god next

04:02:13.820 we have

04:02:17.180 that's not bad

04:02:20.540 my grandma

04:02:21.180 no last one don't hate it

04:02:26.220 no it's not bad it's not bad i'm not bad at it

04:02:30.060 next good for you

04:02:32.940 oh no

04:02:36.460 what a change i look like my mom

04:02:38.540 oh yeah it's my mom oh now i know it's actually cute though i think they kind of did you dirty in

04:02:45.100 the first photo though i don't know like you have they give you gray hair yeah the first photo is 0.94

04:02:51.740 already old yeah what the fuck yeah they're like the same the girls with the same picture 0.96

04:02:59.340 oh all right there it is wait did it not do you that was pretty rough yeah what's your yeah 1.00

04:03:05.980 oh they're doing they're doing just wait for it just wait for it oh

04:03:11.260 next okay all right you used like an old used an old photo here oh wait put me back here put me

04:03:19.740 back let me see mine again put it back by the way guys we're doing super chats mostly on youtube if 0.94

04:03:26.860 it works on streamlabs streamlabs.com slash whatever you can do it but okay all right i used an old ass 0.80

04:03:32.780 photo um all right i'll accept it i'll accept it i'll accept it uh look like uh andrew let's see

04:03:43.340 andrew boom that looks so real yeah this looks really real all right that's because he's 65 yeah

04:03:54.060 no that's recent it was like from a year ago or something uh okay now we have another segment

04:03:58.860 we're going to do where we've gender swapped all of you so oh my gosh so you guys are going to tell

04:04:08.540 us if you would date the male version of you okay okay all right smash or pass that's what we're doing

04:04:15.580 basically yes got you all right uh pull you got it oh yeah

04:04:22.940 now can you um put a do uh actually doesn't even look like me put put us do left corner

04:04:33.900 sources i'm gonna lie with the facial hair sources hit left corner put the eyeball

04:04:39.660 and then hide the other one so scroll down right corner hide that one yeah we'll do that and make it

04:04:45.580 uh zoom it out just a tad uh yeah perfect yep okay that's good uh so would you date the male version

04:04:53.100 of you no maybe the one with the mustache but like it's like wait hide that red thing so you

04:04:58.860 wait wait okay so hold on don't don't here follow my lead okay on the blue on the blue on the outside of

04:05:07.100 obs you gotta click okay yeah just click no the blue that's the black just below there click there click

04:05:17.580 no the the dark blue click a little higher there you go okay that's how you clear that um all right next

04:05:27.020 yikes whoever um pass yeah for sure you look like xqc i don't know if you know who that is

04:05:40.620 you don't know xqc he's a twitch streamer or he's a streamer really yeah yeah no so you wouldn't take the

04:05:48.300 male version of you the middle one is not that bad but still no you prefer the middle over the

04:05:54.380 like black hair on guys oh okay all right what if he had black hair would that would you date him

04:06:01.260 yeah and like tattoos yeah why not okay all right next

04:06:08.380 would you date hard pass i don't date asian guys oh

04:06:12.940 why why is that huh what you don't date asian guys why is that into them i just don't find them 0.99

04:06:19.260 attractive i find them emotionally unavailable i just i i don't really connect emotionally

04:06:27.180 from experience we got we got three asian women at the table right asian asian half asian i'm mexican 0.99

04:06:35.500 oops yeah uh you know whenever sometimes the latinas can be confusing um

04:06:41.100 um are you uh filipina vietnamese vietnamese and you're part chinese okay uh is there like what

04:06:51.020 about you're vietnamese uh-huh like there's no like kevin wins that you're just

04:06:58.300 you can ask her she's she's seen every dude i've dated never an asian guy it's funny i'm the one who

04:07:02.700 ended up dating an asian guy yeah how was that are you currently dating an asian guy yeah yeah oh

04:07:08.540 okay yeah okay so like if you were to date an asian guy though what like if i had to pick probably a

04:07:16.220 filipino guy filipino i like simps i'm a simpy girl you like simps i i'm i'm simp queen i'm like

04:07:25.580 so filipino guys they're more simpy or yeah oh okay i find that they can be okay good all right

04:07:33.660 do you date asian guys um uh not really because i don't really like my own race sometimes they're 0.70

04:07:43.260 very rude they're very rude i mean traditionally like rude i yeah they're chinese people are very 1.00

04:07:49.580 rude oh and um yeah unless they're like a good person i would but i do i never never i mean a lot

04:07:57.340 to save face like as far as social shame goes they will lie yeah they're very like they're rude and

04:08:05.180 i had bad experiences with just chinese adults in general they're just not the best like mainland 1.00

04:08:11.340 china um or yeah mainland and then like it kind of like rubs on to you like like going further you

04:08:17.820 just have impressions like yeah i'd rather not like my first boyfriend was a filipino but then okay so you

04:08:23.100 did date with like an asian but it's not like my race so but i wouldn't right again he's asian but

04:08:29.260 he's not chinese got it okay was he was full filipino correct and then have you dated any asian guys at

04:08:35.020 all i had dated one filipino one filipino guy but he doesn't even look filipino he looks mexican

04:08:40.060 mexican yeah uh like i don't know black kind of with like some european dark skin like full-on beard

04:08:50.780 sure it yeah it didn't look filipino at all wait curious what uh so what race is your current

04:08:56.220 boyfriend he's a mexican mexican what about you all right he's half colombian half mexican and do you

04:09:02.860 have a type like you prefer latino guys black guys i don't have a type so you've dated black guys latino

04:09:08.620 guys white guys buff skinny fat short tall you name it conservative what do you mean by because 0.90

04:09:15.980 define what's what's your mega trump voter um i i have dated someone like we were talking but not my 0.88

04:09:25.900 boyfriend all right yeah uh okay so uh oh wait we were doing this oh he's kind of this honestly 1.00

04:09:32.940 yeah he's kind of cute you're kind of cute yeah jade would you fuck me would you fuck me or what 1.00

04:09:40.940 i mean now what do you mean what do you mean mate watch out oh shit uh let's keep it there though 1.00

04:09:50.940 you look so sweet that's a good looking with the beard looking guy you know good smile good for you 0.97

04:09:57.980 if you ever transition i guess yeah yeah all right next oh my god oh

04:10:06.940 would you date the male version of you

04:10:09.180 he kind of looks like you in a way maybe it's the hairstyle

04:10:13.180 he looks sweet he looks sweet would you would date him no but he looks sweet he's sweet but

04:10:20.380 wouldn't um yeah i don't know oh facial hair makes a difference yeah he looks like he'd be like five

04:10:28.460 two um yeah sure i'll date him okay yeah give it a shot all right yeah here we go here we go

04:10:44.540 oh crack up let me look at this dude hold on let me look at this dude i've been looking for you my whole life

04:10:52.380 he's so would you uh would you date the male version of you the furthest one yeah i think he's hot

04:11:09.420 okay look at him doesn't he look like just a little cutie pie wholesome little boy yeah

04:11:14.380 awesome bb would you date jack black

04:11:20.700 jack black you give me jack black energy me yeah jack black's kind of fun isn't he in that 0.54

04:11:27.340 in the school of rock no no but in the school of rock man i loved i loved him in that okay um all right

04:11:36.460 next all right oh what's good daddy what's good daddy daddy that's like prince or something wait

04:11:48.380 no not prince no this prince that was prince i'd for sure smash 0.92

04:11:55.180 he's cute he looks look he looks like my brother damn you bought his own does your brother have that

04:12:01.580 down well yeah is that like that's like a what is it called a pompa pompadour or something he he 0.75

04:12:08.540 like grew his hair out more so but it looks too much like my brother like that's weird i cannot

04:12:12.940 bestie you find his bug i could never y'all can have him y'all got it oh god whoops uh okay uh next

04:12:25.340 whoa

04:12:31.580 would you date the male version of you no oh 0.99

04:12:39.020 shit i feel like that's not even bad he's like he's not that bad honestly he looks like my brother 0.99

04:12:45.340 that's why i would not date him i think he's handsome he is handsome yeah he looks like an artist too yeah 0.97

04:12:54.060 yeah he looks like yeah very accomplished yeah very accomplished artist um he's artist looks like

04:13:03.900 does modern art or something the guy in the middle is it absolutely not

04:13:08.780 the person's never good like yeah yeah it's always you gotta get the facial hair yeah okay uh next

04:13:15.580 next she's excited oh wow i think i like it so much i like it so much i think it's hot yeah he's

04:13:28.620 really good i like it both last year yeah honestly all right yeah all right here we go

04:13:35.900 adorable you ready felicity all right what's that oh there's not one for okay she left here she

04:13:44.780 caught a break here saved by the bell oh okay all right nice oh wow uh not maybe the one on the

04:13:52.940 left but definitely not on the not yeah they made me look special that's what a tan

04:13:58.620 make it bigger control mouse wheel up all right the one on the left is really bad 0.95

04:14:05.100 is like good like like bad and she's a baddie yeah she's a bad yeah any bisexual women at the table 1.00

04:14:11.820 no no but she's really pretty all right and then we have next that's andrew no way wow who is oh

04:14:19.980 that's young andrew that's young oh yeah young andrew what a handsome fella that young andrew was

04:14:28.060 and still is he's still handsome you know he looks more distinguished now and just as handsome and

04:14:34.620 with a beard and he he has with yeah yeah okay all right good andrew would you date the female 0.66

04:14:45.580 version of you if you were uh single okay pull up real quick the female version of me and i'll give 1.00

04:14:52.220 you the commentary real quick sure all right better be funny as fuck okay so well of course it's gonna 0.94

04:14:57.580 be funny because i'm not a woman so let's let's start with young andrew on the far left okay obviously 0.97

04:15:05.420 the female version of young andrew is way better looking than any chick on this panel but then when 1.00

04:15:10.300 we move to 41 year old andrew i feel like i could do better than that i feel like i could do better than

04:15:16.860 that at this stage in my life honestly we love the confidence

04:15:24.540 that's great you feel that way i don't just feel that way but i mean it is factually true

04:15:30.700 like did you see the picture of young andrew you wouldn't happen i think there's parts that are

04:15:34.700 subjective here we'll take a chapel i don't think you wouldn't have a chance in hell how old were you

04:15:43.340 then how old are you oh he's beautiful beautiful angled chin you wouldn't have a prayer cope harder

04:15:51.020 lady you could never you could you know i want to ask the 10 i want to ask the 10 at the table what do

04:15:56.460 you rate young andrew on the scale of one to ten he's a babe oh andrew look at that you found your

04:16:03.100 looks match here for sure uh yeah okay good talk all right we gotta get through there's a lot to get

04:16:09.500 through so i'm gonna try to get through it quick uh so we did this you know what we're gonna get into

04:16:14.780 the questionnaire gonna get into the questionnaire uh let's see do you have any disagreements with the 0.97

04:16:19.980 show or hosts to which lauren says brian should eat pussy that's cool um i've heard you say on other 1.00

04:16:28.060 ones that you don't so i was like that's yeah why is that why is that fucked up because like because 1.00

04:16:36.060 what it's awesome what's awesome kind of lingmese is that what they call it oral oral sex yeah yeah uh 1.00

04:16:46.140 yeah okay yeah i just prefer not to do it it's like just a sexual boundary to dirty no i don't i 0.99

04:16:53.340 it's not like i'm grossed out by vaginas or anything just sexual boundary okay yeah yeah yeah 1.00

04:17:01.420 um yeah can you like go more in depth about that like why did you have like a bad experience 0.87

04:17:07.820 uh yeah sure i'll give you a couple reasons so one they've actually there's some studies on this so

04:17:11.820 uh men who uh go down on women are at a greater risk of throat cancer throat and neck cancers uh

04:17:20.940 yeah because of hpv because uh a lot of women high high high body counts and uh so there was a famous 1.00

04:17:29.820 actor i'm his name is evading me it doesn't really matter michael douglas yes uh he had throat cancer

04:17:35.980 so yes going down on women uh increases your chance quite substantially of getting throat cancer 1.00

04:17:43.260 if you doubt me you can google the research and um does the same applies when you a woman sucking dick 1.00

04:17:51.740 uh sure i i'm sure that it increases women's risks but i think that the risks are more pronounced 0.99

04:17:59.020 in men and i think it's just because i do think it's the case that uh certain stds just because of

04:18:07.100 physiology and anatomy women are more prone if they are exposed to an std of contracting it 1.00

04:18:15.500 uh it's just kind of the reality of that also the thing is definitely definitely at least my

04:18:21.900 prescriptive advice for men you shouldn't be doing that unless well you just shouldn't do it but you

04:18:27.660 shouldn't be doing that unless you know a hundred percent certainty that that girl's loyal to you 0.94

04:18:35.260 and you're in a relationship with her if you're going down on a girl and it's like a one night stand 0.80

04:18:39.820 or like it's a casual hookup and you guys aren't exclusive there's just again physiological differences

04:18:46.380 between men and women so if a girl goes excuse me if a guy goes down on on a woman y'all could still 0.98

04:18:53.100 have another man's seed inside of you and he's going down and that's disgusting whereas like as 0.99

04:19:00.940 a man like if we can have sex shower and all your juices they're they're gone from us but if a guy's 1.00

04:19:08.780 blasting inside you that lingers for a little bit that lingers for a minute it could be leaking out 0.98

04:19:17.260 hours even days it can leak out a day or two later so you won't eat out your wife you're like 0.99

04:19:22.060 future wife like period sexual boundary and i just don't look i'm a i'm a fan of labia i like i'm a 0.98

04:19:28.060 i only date women with ginormous giant labia i'm looking i'm looking for the one is that like a joke 1.00

04:19:36.060 guinness world record holder i need the guinness world record holder of labia for me to be that's 0.98

04:19:41.180 satisfied huh that's your fetish i don't think it's a fetish i mean it's like women who like men 0.99

04:19:46.140 with big peens that's what is labia like the lips the pussy lips oh the bigger the better i'm looking 1.00

04:19:54.620 for guinness world record status fucking labia okay i will not settle for less but then you're not 1.00

04:20:01.740 going to eat you're not going to eat her out but you like it so no you just want to look at it he 1.00

04:20:07.020 he wants to visual yes i want to look at it and then for sex there there's benefits okay

04:20:13.820 the main reason because biggest lady is gonna have other options have a lot of partners well 1.00

04:20:18.380 it's a couple things so that's one of the reasons they the throat cancer risk number two uh there's

04:20:26.140 look even if you're dating a girl she says oh i'm not seeing anybody else blah blah whatever it is 0.92

04:20:31.340 she could be fucking somebody else i'm not saying all women move like this but a lot of women are 1.00

04:20:36.860 but what about the wife thing though she did ask about the wife thing would you do that with your 1.00

04:20:40.940 wife uh no but and i don't even with your wife what if she's a virgin cancer from the wife what about

04:20:47.660 her but still no on that but hold on wait what was it so the question oh okay so the throat cancer

04:20:55.980 the wait wait the throat cancer the ick factor we'll get to that the throat cancer the what's it

04:21:06.060 called uh oh the ick factor of like okay do a lot of young uh do do a lot of women move in a shady 1.00

04:21:14.700 kind of way by sleeping with multiple men at the same time yes absolutely so i don't want to be in a

04:21:20.620 position where i'm dealing with a girl and i'm gonna go like go down on a girl and she's got 1.00

04:21:27.340 another dude's seat in her can't do it so that's just boom even a relationship she could be cheating 1.00

04:21:32.540 whatever it is and then third and third i just neck problems don't enjoy it you know it kind of hurts

04:21:38.380 my neck so and just genuinely are you like seeing women who are only like that or like you what do you

04:21:43.260 mean like that just like are hooking up with people or do you know them enough and then you hook up

04:21:48.140 even in a relationship it's not my preference yeah hasn't really been an issue so there's

04:21:54.460 definitely women out there that don't like it or they're whatever but okay so you were getting to

04:21:59.980 the yeah yeah yeah so hold on really quick let me just shout this person dr brian medical doctor

04:22:04.380 thank you that's natalia by the way uh thank you for the gifted 28 memberships appreciate it thank

04:22:09.100 you thank you natalia you're a legend w's in chat for her uh you know what andrew guys okay 0.94

04:22:14.220 okay andrew earmuffs so you were talking about eating ass i'm bad so first off no for me uh 0.98

04:22:22.780 but here's the thing guys here's what you got to know a lot of you girls out here be eating ass 1.00

04:22:28.060 you're letting dudes eat your ass here's the crazy thing it's kind of the reverse so apparently it's the 0.99

04:22:35.900 reverse so instead of the fear being if you go down on somebody there's a risk of you getting like 1.00

04:22:43.100 throat cancer if you go down on somebody and eat ass you could uh and you're the receiving individual 0.98

04:22:51.100 in that situation that can give you colorectal or rectal cancer anal cancer because the mouth the 0.99

04:22:59.340 bacteria in the mouth is you're introducing that into the anus the anus okay yeah that you can look

04:23:09.980 this up i'm not i believe look it up i'm telling you but look it up it's dangerous to receive

04:23:17.260 okay tossing salad if you get your salad tossed trust me look this up okay but the microplastics

04:23:23.820 are going to get you before that does like you know i don't i don't know if anything there's so 0.92

04:23:30.140 many random poisonous things he's gonna get you before eating shit i'm not sure about that but 0.94

04:23:36.700 the thing is is like brian makes a good good point here right it's like don't eat 0.99

04:23:41.260 shit that's probably like it's not that terrible idea it's probably a terrible idea to eat shit 0.98

04:23:45.660 literally um but brian back to this you're married and your wife is like it's our anniversary honey it's 0.99

04:23:53.420 our anniversary brian and we've been married for five great years and i've given you a wonderful 0.98

04:23:59.820 life and two children which is just you know which is just like my vagina are you saying no to her brian 1.00

04:24:08.940 wait andrew if i answer this you have to answer it too um yes i'm saying no yes he doesn't trust you 0.96

04:24:17.660 know what tell you what andrew tell you what this is what i'm willing to do this when i'm at the

04:24:22.540 stage of life where i'm already fucked up like i've already got i'm dying i'm like a 0.99

04:24:28.460 i'm on a fucking hospice i'll eat some pussy in hospice as a final goodbye to my loving and cherished 0.99

04:24:35.500 wife literally the the doctor's like okay he calls her up he's like i don't think he's he's got a few 1.00

04:24:45.580 hours you gotta be here he's pumping fucking morphine into me i will go down on a woman then that's it 0.99

04:24:52.220 i'm already gonna die but fucking she's gonna be like maybe the gardener's been in my 30s or 40s 1.00

04:24:58.940 and i'm gonna do it no in hospice though yes hospice i'll eat some pussy fine i'll eat some 1.00

04:25:04.380 pussy i'll also maybe try some drugs i'm about to die anyways fuck it maybe try some drugs i'll try 1.00

04:25:10.620 some drugs too fuck it i'll do i don't i've never done like any drugs really so yeah fuck it why not 1.00

04:25:17.100 let's try some i don't know cocaine or something but that might take you out no heroin at that age 1.00

04:25:22.780 i'll i'll give the shot but no andrew the thing is with the the tossing salad thing it's not well 0.95

04:25:30.860 okay yeah eating shit that's no that's not it no no no but it's not it's not even the bad thing 0.97

04:25:36.620 isn't for the person doing the act it's the person receiving the that's what gives the the the mouth has 1.00

04:25:44.540 all this nasty bacteria bruv and you're introducing it into the anus and then people be getting anal 0.99

04:25:51.420 cancer right i don't think i don't i don't think you need to convince people to not eat your i want 0.98

04:25:55.580 to see your browser history that's like the foot no no i do think i do think modern degenerate society 0.99

04:26:02.220 that perhaps there are people who just absolutely demand to eat your shit i think that it is very 0.99

04:26:08.220 prudent for men to not allow women to literally eat their shit i think that that's probably pretty 0.99

04:26:14.220 prudent like i don't think there's going to be a lot of objection here you know yeah gentlemen 1.00

04:26:19.820 if you want to live and you don't want anal cancer you can't let a girl toss your salad you sickos 1.00

04:26:27.180 okay yeah fucking psychopath cat thank you for the super chat appreciate it do we have oh my goodness 1.00

04:26:33.580 uh oh speaking of which guys super chats 99 where were we i forgot oh is that fair is that reasonable 0.98

04:26:39.740 look if here's what's weird though i feel like a lot of girls will shame a guy if he doesn't go 0.98

04:26:44.780 go down on women they're like what the fuck this guy is he gay what is he gay i wouldn't think he's 0.99

04:26:52.060 gay it's just like if you're expecting head like how come you're not gonna you know return the favor 1.00

04:26:57.020 it must be really good and bad wait a second wait a second that's not really fair right 0.96

04:27:01.660 i mean is this for play hang on there's perhaps all sorts of sexual preferences that you might

04:27:07.100 have that your partner doesn't and that doesn't make your partner bad because they have those sexual

04:27:12.540 preferences you do not and perhaps perhaps like an example maybe there's a position you don't really

04:27:18.540 like that your partner does is deny them that doesn't mean that you're doing something bad by saying

04:27:24.220 i only want to receive head and not uh give it back in fact in the reverse i actually hear this 0.99

04:27:30.380 complaint more from men than i do women like oh i'll go down on her but this chick will not suck it 1.00

04:27:36.940 you know no matter what she just refuses to give head like that's that's the more common complaint 1.00

04:27:44.620 right that's a breakup you can't you can't be in that that's like if they're in a relationship

04:27:48.540 or like you can't be in a situation like that as a guy that's ridiculous yeah the reverse is okay though

04:27:53.500 um so anyways uh where were we uh it's not a double standard it's just a standard i agree i agree i

04:28:01.180 think that is a double standard what's the double standard like he's saying that girls need to get 0.95

04:28:07.340 low jobs here but let me give you an example let's say that you were a woman who just loved to lick a 1.00

04:28:15.660 man's armpit like that was your favorite thing i know i know how absurd but only when only when he 0.99

04:28:24.380 just came out of the gym and it was like it smelled like dirty socks that was the only time you wanted 0.99

04:28:30.620 to lick his armpit and you just demanded it you're like honey it's just this is the thing licking your 0.99

04:28:36.060 armpit just does it for me are you saying that somehow like uh you know he needs to reciprocate and lick your 1.00

04:28:43.900 armpit no but no no no okay i don't know where you get this stuff from armpit i'm just saying i'm 0.99

04:28:56.780 just saying you can have something that you're way into sexually your partner isn't right and that 0.99

04:29:02.620 doesn't mean yeah but when there's like an exact like there's an exact like match like oral sex oral 1.00

04:29:09.340 sex what okay so what about this yeah armpit lick armpit lick wait so what what about somehow 0.99

04:29:16.300 that's okay but the other isn't right it's like uh you just just evaluate it through a logical prism 0.99

04:29:22.780 are they really being hypocritical by saying i don't like this act doing it to you but i like the act

04:29:28.060 when it's done to me that's not a hypocrisy it's not hypocrisy but it's still

04:29:33.740 like is a double standard i would say no it's not really a double standard it's just a single

04:29:40.460 standard it's saying i like this act done to me but do not like doing this act to you

04:29:45.740 that's just a standard right what's the double standard okay i'll agree with you on that at that 0.98

04:29:51.980 point what about this what about this so the guy doesn't want to give oral sex 1.00

04:29:56.380 it's just his sexual boundary but the girl she uh let's say she likes to give it but because he 0.95

04:30:05.900 won't give it to her she's like you know what i like to give it you want it but i'm not going to

04:30:11.420 give it now do you think that that's fair no like she's pulling back from doing so he doesn't want to

04:30:17.580 do it and it's a tit for tat so it's basically like okay you won't do this then i won't do that 0.99

04:30:21.660 even though i have no i have no boundaries whatsoever when it comes to giving oral sex 1.00

04:30:27.180 you won't give me oral sex so i won't give you oral sex even though you want it but you won't 1.00

04:30:31.660 give it to me so i think she's dissatisfied yeah that needs to be like a bigger conversation 0.99

04:30:38.060 you're not come other ways they shouldn't be together at that point then in my opinion sexually

04:30:43.180 like that's like some resentment that you're taking to bed which is not good okay now we got to drop the 0.76

04:30:47.580 big hammer we got to drop the big hammer on brian okay all right all else equal brian yeah perfect 0.65

04:30:55.420 woman adores you fat wallet loves you to death does everything that you can ever want and gorgeous 1.00

04:31:02.060 and gorgeous hang on but brian she comes to you one night and she's like listen i i s the p right and

04:31:09.180 the p in the in the g no problem whatever you want i'll do but just you know this one thing i need

04:31:16.380 you to l the p okay and i'm just totally sexually dissatisfied if you don't 0.97

04:31:24.380 fake brian brian are you gonna are you gonna l the b are you gonna do it she's the perfect she's 0.99

04:31:30.940 perfect oh she's perfect she's the diamond fat wallet 10 no hpv cold no no throat cancer is there

04:31:40.220 throat cancer or no throat cancer yeah bro she's clean she's a gym broad she's at the gym

04:31:45.740 you have a vaccine is it just once i gotta do it once or you know no no she wanted she you know 0.96

04:31:51.660 she did she's not asking for his regular she s the p you know like once a week

04:31:57.340 perfect though perfect perfection you know look the perfect woman is uh is a rare diamond yeah 1.00

04:32:05.020 fuck it why not but you gotta understand good job look i'm willing to make sacrifices for the 0.98

04:32:13.900 perfect woman standard though for brian like the perfect woman for brian well it it isn't any of you 0.99

04:32:20.620 sitting at the table let's put it that way but the perfect woman if you okay i think that's a big 0.93

04:32:26.140 concession yeah look the perfect woman yeah you got to do it for the perfect woman can you describe

04:32:34.700 your perfect woman what do you mean like tell me about her tell me about her yeah what would your

04:32:41.580 perfect woman be like that's difficult and look like it's difficult but you're already committing to 0.68

04:32:48.300 looking her pee and you don't even know what she looks like now hold on perfect woman for like 1.00

04:32:56.860 there's different perfect women like there's the this is gonna sound terrible but there's like just 1.00

04:33:03.020 pure sexual desire perfect woman and then there's like the woman that you want to have kids with 1.00

04:33:10.140 give us both because pure sexual desire that's like she's short have kids with she's tall 1.00

04:33:20.940 and well-built you know warrior children type shit so it's like i'm in this 0.99

04:33:27.900 up place where it's like she's four eleven but i kind of want a six foot three woman 1.00

04:33:35.900 you know yeah it's all about eugenics get it gonna give me warrior sons you know yeah i totally get that

04:33:42.780 give that then like i'm six foot one i'm six foot one but like if i can get with like a six three six

04:33:48.860 four woman who's just still beautiful right yeah but six like sexually don't get me wrong i'm still 0.98

04:33:57.580 exciting proposition very exciting proposition still but peak sexual experience would be 0.56

04:34:04.620 this chick's like four foot ten four foot ten short short short women petite 1.00

04:34:16.300 uh and i would say this is oh my god this is this gonna get me in trouble

04:34:20.940 wasion wasion huh huh what you might you gotta finish it now you're in it now wasion oh my god

04:34:29.660 wait i'm not gonna say wait never mind oh no no no you gotta finish now nope you can't edge your

04:34:36.220 audience bro i'm not doing it i'm not saying what i'm about to say i'm not saying oh boy i came all

04:34:42.940 the way from houston to hear everything i feel like four foot ten keep going

04:34:47.260 shame just go ahead no i feel like i'm it i can't say it i thought like why why can't you say it

04:34:56.460 it was like let's be open let's talk let's have a great time are you just why can't you say that i'm

04:35:03.020 not gonna say it why that just makes it weird you should say it i can't say it if you're not gonna say

04:35:09.180 at least tell us why i can't say it okay boo okay here can you make a sound like i will i will ask a

04:35:19.660 hypothetical situation uh question to the panel and you hold on hold on and you guys can make your

04:35:24.940 inferences is it wrong to prefer to have children with somebody of your own race no

04:35:32.140 is it wrong okay that's it that was my question is it wrong no

04:35:41.900 is that the big reveal wait wait wait a second this is coming together for me tell me if i'm crazy

04:35:47.420 here brian but are you saying it and you can correct this if i'm wrong are you saying that you would

04:35:53.660 prefer a white woman who has asian characteristics including her being tiny is that what you're saying no 1.00

04:36:02.140 oh well then i guess you better clarify no i don't know what you're talking about 1.00

04:36:06.220 so you want a tiny white girl damn no no tricks are wasted on you this is ridiculous 0.99

04:36:13.260 i'm just saying asking i'm not saying i'm asking is it like let's say you know how about this a guy 1.00

04:36:22.140 uh uh a black guy he likes to have sex with white women but he's like you know what i want my children 1.00

04:36:31.340 to be black so i'm more sexually attracted to white women but when it comes to having children 1.00

04:36:39.580 i want them to be black so i'm gonna have children with a black woman you know what i mean 1.00

04:36:45.740 i don't know what you mean not yet so wait wait wait no no no i don't know what you what what do you mean 0.98

04:36:52.700 what you know with them what say it huh eugenics how's that eugenics yeah how's it not selective

04:37:00.940 reading right you're really talking about reading perfect world brian's harem his main squeeze is a 0.89

04:37:07.260 white chick but all the babies are coming from black women no bro that was an example i wasn't that 0.92

04:37:13.340 wasn't my preference i was giving you an example let me get you caught up to speed i feel like he's 0.99

04:37:19.500 like i would want to be with an asian but i want to have babies with a white person is that what 0.98

04:37:24.300 you're saying i didn't say that you said that i know i'm asking if that's what you said or i didn't

04:37:29.660 say that you said that i didn't say that but do you agree with that i didn't i'm not agreeing or

04:37:34.700 disagreeing but but you're agreeing that's kind of sort of yeah that is eugenics by the way how's that

04:37:44.460 you is that you yes it is because you're you're trying to decide the genes of your offspring to

04:37:50.780 be certain ways you eugenics is like isn't that like on a society level not like individual mating

04:37:57.500 choices like dogs breeding dogs is eugenics like yeah but that's that's external breeding exactly

04:38:04.220 dogs who are being bred specifically to breed out certain genes is different than mating preference

04:38:11.100 selection because if the dogs will have to breed out their own genes they would breed with whatever

04:38:16.780 female was available to breed with as many times as possible right uh okay so you want your offsprings 1.00

04:38:23.740 to be white he never he did not say that or deny that i didn't say that yeah i didn't say that i think

04:38:31.580 he wants to change the topic um yeah yeah but i mean honestly that's no different than when i hear

04:38:37.660 um kind of black liberation people say that they want their children to be black

04:38:43.900 why is that problematic it's not but when he doesn't want to talk about it it's like is it

04:38:47.740 something that is a problem well he doesn't want to talk about it because there's a huge amount of

04:38:53.340 judgment which is set down on especially white people or anglicans if you want to put it that way

04:39:00.460 or anglo people who say i want my children to look like me they get an inordinate amount of judgment

04:39:06.620 for saying that even though there's nothing wrong with saying that if japanese people say i want my

04:39:11.580 children to be japanese nobody would say anything about it if scandinavian people say i want my

04:39:16.140 children to be scandinavian nobody will say anything about it but suddenly if you're in america and you 0.86

04:39:21.180 say hey i want my kids to look like me you're public enemy number one i think that's silly also white 0.91

04:39:27.420 people are kind of a minority in the world stop yeah they are well they are global they are globally 0.97

04:39:36.140 white people if you compare them to uh the different races so the asians uh blacks i guess they i don't 1.00

04:39:44.300 know what the categorization native is that the categorization so that would encompass like certain

04:39:49.420 uh like south american countries i guess white people are a minority do you have the statistics on that

04:39:56.060 i'm just curious i mean we could google here google uh world but like aren't mexicans considered white

04:40:01.820 technically uh if they're of spanish if they're of spanish ancestry but they're considered mestizos

04:40:09.260 like i'm half mexican she's mexican over here but i'm saying like when they're not black they're not 0.99

04:40:13.820 like they're white like they're categorized do you think that's because the culture is mainly like from

04:40:18.620 other yes they consider them to be a race no they're saying now that it's not which is kind of weird

04:40:23.900 because i feel like when we when we were in like high school it was like check a box and it was like

04:40:29.660 like latino hispanic and now that box has kind of disappeared and it says white on a lot of things

04:40:35.020 well actually you make a valid point i don't consider myself to be white yeah it is true that in order to

04:40:42.780 fluff how many of the white population there is in the u.s that the census has uh re-evaluated to try to

04:40:51.020 include more people who definitely are not uh what you would traditionally consider quote white

04:40:57.260 into that category box to expand how many whites there are that is true like i'm not going to deny 0.96

04:41:03.660 you have it but but that's what's going on right that's actually what is going on is we're trying to

04:41:09.420 block the numbers race breakdown uh i've i looked it up recently um anyways doesn't matter that's the

04:41:22.060 stats minority whites are a minority in this world we're a minority look and ultimately look if i end

04:41:29.980 up if i you didn't want to say the other stuff but you say that white are minority are they really

04:41:34.860 minority yes white people white people are a global minority yes okay there's more black people

04:41:43.020 there's more asian people yeah yeah there's a boatload of he wants to preserve an endangered species 1.00

04:41:48.060 good for you that's beautiful it is beautiful and look if i meet a fantastic person of any race

04:41:57.180 and we get along yeah we can have kids but isn't it but here's the thing isn't it silly anyway

04:42:04.220 if you think about it when you look at all of the dating polls that come up most people tend to

04:42:09.580 date within the racial demographic that seems to be who they're the most attracted to so i don't

04:42:14.860 i don't even know why this is a controversial take anyway

04:42:20.780 is it controversial i feel like nobody yeah i don't think it's controversial

04:42:25.740 support you i definitely do not date within my race that's for sure well what is your middle

04:42:31.820 eastern i'm vietnamese vietnamese and what that's it that's it i'm a hundred percent

04:42:39.900 vietnamese i'm serious nothing else do you speak vietnamese not at all i don't speak a lick of it

04:42:45.580 i speak english only english only america america america america

04:42:55.420 okay good talk uh we have some tts coming through we got boom is the audio can you check the audio

04:43:02.460 pickles donated two hundred dollars

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04:43:22.780 in as a super chat we're going to do a hundred dollar up reads chef dill pickles thank you for

04:43:27.340 the tts appreciate it uh here we go we have another message coming in ivermectin cures cancer

04:43:33.340 says brian let's say you have the perfect burrito it's a 9.5 out of 10 easy best one of your life

04:43:39.260 only thing is you got an enema it's straight up the brian would you put the b in the b b in the b

04:43:45.500 uh thank you for the message uh no thank you ivermectin appreciate it that was thoughtful and

04:43:51.500 thought-provoking i uh appreciate it okay good talk what would you want the minimum yearly income

04:43:56.620 to be for your future husband go ahead like um 45 50k okay what about you um a million

04:44:03.980 per year yeah okay what about you i i know i wrote 250 but that's a lie i would say like

04:44:09.900 a hundred thousand you said that's a 250k is what i'd prefer but the lowest i'd go is a hundred

04:44:15.500 i think you wrote minimum 200 000 oh nice okay okay nice so one million for you 200 000 for you

04:44:22.140 you wrote what i said enough to do cool stuff quality life okay yeah what about you what we

04:44:30.300 would like it to into the mic what we like it to be or the minimum the minimum so it's like okay

04:44:37.020 here's the uh if i'm gonna date a guy settle down with him like here's the minimum i'd want him to

04:44:41.660 make it would be fabulous if he made half a million no no it's like what's the minimum so it's like

04:44:48.540 okay would you date a guy who makes zero i want somebody established that brings something to the

04:44:54.540 table i don't know what that is give me a number give me a number i want somebody that's retired

04:44:58.940 that's wealthy give me a number somebody that's got five million in the bank okay five million wait 0.67

04:45:05.020 hold on wait million is the minimum for you lady i want him no i want somebody that's already 1.00

04:45:11.020 established so what's the minimum lowest you'd go that he doesn't have to worry about an income coming

04:45:16.540 in god's name are you bringing to the table for a millionaire um i happen to have money to bring

04:45:23.100 to the table hello i'm established what you got established with what

04:45:28.540 i don't want to announce on the on here what here how about kids you have any no i don't have any

04:45:36.540 kids no kids you know so you don't have so you don't have any children no right yeah what have you

04:45:41.340 established yourself with that that where you deserve a millionaire i own property um i'm vested

04:45:48.780 uh i do you have five million in retirement in savings no i don't have a blankie on because

04:45:57.020 you're so cold like what are you bringing to the table here

04:46:02.700 that's a good jordan peterson look at you i'm established get over yourself i own property in

04:46:10.700 my early 20s get over yourself andrew who are you who are you you gonna you talking i'm 62 years 0.99

04:46:21.180 old god bless you if you don't have something by that age at 62 fucking years old you should be a 0.98

04:46:28.940 little bit more emotionally mature to understand that there isn't a whole hell of a lot you're 0.99

04:46:32.860 bringing to the table you're a bit overweight hey right you're a bit snarky i rebuke what the 0.98

04:46:37.580 fuck are you bringing to the table it's just preferences there to take you up on this offer 0.99

04:46:44.060 lady i rebuke i just went out with one don't worry this is his favorite argument with people 1.00

04:46:49.980 you went out with a 401k you're so mean oh my gosh you're smoking rock what do i bring to the

04:46:59.020 table my sparkly personality disagrees with me what is this woman bringing in that's going to incentivize 1.00

04:47:05.980 a millionaire you tell me ladies there's a lot of people that are millionaires out there millionaires

04:47:10.940 are nothing if i was 65 you're the first person i would okay so i have a question i would because

04:47:18.620 you have assets and everything like that what is the minimum like what do you well that's what i'm

04:47:22.780 just saying i want somebody that's established okay i don't know what that means but i'd like them to

04:47:29.180 be retired okay and i'd like to go travel with them i happen to have a lot of friends in this age

04:47:36.060 bracket that i'm in that are doing that i don't want somebody that's working at ralph's market because

04:47:42.620 he's got nothing to bring to the table i would like them to have at least what i have i'm not i'm not

04:47:50.700 asking for the most that that was the question but yeah at least what you have yeah at least

04:47:55.420 that was the question yeah it'd be nice yeah okay there i don't want some guy thinking i'm gonna

04:48:00.860 support him millions to the table what was that are you bringing millions to the table

04:48:08.540 i'm not gonna announce it on the this show why because it's nobody's gonna happen somebody 0.96

04:48:14.300 gonna come drain your assets who's a fucking yeah there's a lot yeah are you there's a lot that 0.99

04:48:20.300 are out there yes there are come on lady you ain't a multi-millionaire you ain't you ain't gonna 1.00

04:48:25.900 incentivize multi-millionaires to come in come on like be honest with me wait how do you know 0.99

04:48:31.900 i've been honest do you want photos of the last dude i just went out with you're ridiculous i don't 0.95

04:48:39.260 believe you you could just be i have photos i can show you he owns a corporation god bless you 0.94

04:48:47.820 and you got a ring on your finger from this guy no i didn't get a ring on i went out with him

04:48:53.020 yeah you went out with a guy yeah millionaires date women they and then they bone them they do it all

04:48:57.260 the time doesn't mean that you're bringing to the table the thing which would incentivize the millionaire

04:49:02.460 to take you all around the world well funny i've had that happen a few times have you how dare you 1.00

04:49:09.420 you how dare you you have no standards you're pathetic i have no fucking i wish you were here 1.00

04:49:19.180 you are pathetic you hate women you have a small mind you don't know men whatsoever and what men want 1.00

04:49:31.820 there's plenty of older women that older men chase you're smoking rock you got brain damage 1.00

04:49:40.940 no older no older man wants you look at you you're a lump of shit you're flabby you're 1.00

04:49:45.900 how dare you how dare you i have photos i can show you 1.00

04:49:51.980 that's right no ring because you are what you are don't fucking lie to me well i'm not lying to you 1.00

04:50:02.860 i step away for one minute nothing how dare you how fucking dare you what is real look at yourself 1.00

04:50:11.740 in the mirror you're overweight hey so what hey be nice there's chubby chasers out there loser 0.99

04:50:18.300 there's there's chubby chasers out there you know what and i love chubby chasers i like 0.62

04:50:26.780 i like somebody who's strong men as somebody who's chubby andrew i want you to apologize 0.95

04:50:32.700 to the chubby people at the table you're overweight drank turpentine and piss on well you're not my 1.00

04:50:38.700 type either dude there are chubby chasers they're chubby chasers okay you're not my type either 0.99

04:50:45.260 lady lady lady relax relax oh lay down yes buckle it what do you add to this conversation nothing 0.99

04:50:53.260 loser god 0.96

04:50:57.980 wait is it is it like this let's try hang on this could go in your favor is it like this 0.99

04:51:01.900 or like this you will freak out if you saw the hot dude that i was with for the last you would

04:51:07.980 four months the last four months you would freak out balls deep hottest guy you've ever seen you

04:51:14.220 would freak out hottest guy ever oh you and andrew you would you would freak out andrew if you saw the

04:51:23.180 stud you would freak out if you saw the stud she was with you put some respect put some 1.00

04:51:29.980 fucking respect on my girl's dad gave me multiple orgasms at 62 years old can you believe it 1.00

04:51:40.380 andrew you put some respect on that put some respect on my yeah you probably can't even get your 1.00

04:51:45.180 wife off oh my god andrew is that true you wish you were single loser you wish you were single 0.99

04:51:53.580 would you like to talk to my wife bring her down bring bring her down let's do it we're gonna 1.00

04:51:59.580 laugh at her bring her on we feel so bad for her that she settled for your ass i can't believe she 1.00

04:52:07.740 did that she's settled for her out here girl that's pathetic she's probably banging on the walls to get 1.00

04:52:14.460 out she's been summoned i'll bring her down summon her summon her summon her summon her 0.99

04:52:21.580 god summon her i'm the nice one i'm the nice oh you're the nice one you're evil you have no 0.99

04:52:27.580 class no dude you have no 0.97

04:52:33.980 well here let's does your head spin around get ready hold on everyone here it goes 1.00

04:52:39.340 oh i hate women i hate women i hate women i hate women i hate women stop spurning out lady let me just 0.99

04:52:44.780 say my piece and then i'll bring the wife down you can yell at her so if i'm wrong if i'm way out of 1.00

04:52:51.260 line to the women on the panel you tell me that this woman here right is going to incentivize 1.00

04:52:58.540 multi-millionaires look look at her have you looked at multi-millionaires lie to me tell me i'm wrong 1.00

04:53:07.660 i mean you i've got my phone somebody honestly look andrew if i could if i could come to the defense of

04:53:14.300 holly she oh he's stepping away if i could come to the defense of holly i mean i honestly think once

04:53:20.860 jeff bezos is done with that latina woman you're next in line no i don't i would never touch that 1.00

04:53:26.540 dude with the 10 foot pole but mike lindell i did and i got photos so get me the photo guy get where's 0.54

04:53:34.220 my camera i got photos you had carnal knowledge with mike lindell i'm not telling you the intimate

04:53:40.620 details i apologize i got that was too much i got proof and that's what you want i got proof you had 0.81

04:53:47.260 sexual intercourse with i'm not telling you my personal life okay did you give him a bj 0.79

04:53:55.500 i'm not telling you did you did he take you i don't kiss and tell did he take you for where's my 0.84

04:54:01.660 phone where's my phone i believe you i believe you my phone i believe you you don't don't worry

04:54:07.660 about it somebody took my phone in that back there can somebody bring don't worry about the

04:54:11.260 phone we can't we can't bring photos we i believe you don't know i want to show photos you wanted

04:54:16.540 her age i got photos no let's make it good these guys are hot hot man oh the loser left because he 0.91

04:54:25.580 can't he's can't he's coming he's coming back he's summoning the the wife we're gonna have to say

04:54:30.620 sorry to his wife because she's in so here let me uh get everybody's answers on this before we get

04:54:35.500 into that so uh bare minimum income uh 130 my phone hold on we can't do the phones we can't do the

04:54:41.340 phones so my bare minimum is 130k what about you 300 300 uh dollars 300 000 300 000 a year a year

04:54:55.820 is the bare minimum yeah how much do you make i make like 150 so you need double

04:55:02.220 hold on hang on hang on brian what about you she didn't say she bagged she didn't say she bagged

04:55:07.820 mike lindell did she she didn't hello guy she the pillow guy yes you bagged my pillow guy she hey

04:55:14.940 that's a that's a get that's a come up wait we can't hear you andrew

04:55:22.300 give me my oh lady i can't wait for you my wife's coming down she's uh hey that's that's a that's a 1.00

04:55:31.900 big like that was a big w for her what about you minimum 100 000 100 000 my can't dell stick his 1.00

04:55:38.620 dick in your mouth hey uh andrew puts up hey be a be a little come on andrew be a little respectful 1.00

04:55:43.500 you have no coups come on come on bb you have no coups come on andrew be a be a little respectful 0.97

04:55:50.860 be a little respectful for for holly okay you know pull a little respect on her name okay

04:55:55.420 okay all right i'm sorry i'm dying i'm dying here uh rachel's gonna go up one side of this boulder 0.99

04:56:01.980 and down the other from mr jimmy thank you for the canadian 100 uh okay thank you cat appreciate it

04:56:08.380 uh we gotta get let me hide this one sec guys guys read is a hundred uh wait so hold on did you

04:56:17.420 you said 40 to 50k you said one mil yeah and you said 100 000 no you said 200 000. okay that's what

04:56:24.860 my preferred but like for minimum if like i just didn't answer the question right oh minimum 100 000. 0.99

04:56:31.660 you need some claritin or something that would be nice honestly yeah the fuck uh what did you say 0.90

04:56:41.020 i i said enough which is what to have quality life which is what give us a number um 0.99

04:56:48.940 it depends on how much i'm making too because it'd be combined if we're married

04:56:53.260 okay i'm thinking i'm thinking um i don't know 100 100 000 okay and then you said sorry 130k

04:56:59.900 130 and then 300 for you here we're gonna do something called oh really quick hold on uh

04:57:07.340 oh my god 300 sorry freaking pens uh here pull up that thing really quick just on the race thing

04:57:13.820 since because it came up all right so here's the breakdown oh put this on the other side so you're

04:57:18.380 going to do uh here are sources right right corner and then hide left corner

04:57:25.580 people of the global majority uh or isn't that offensive oriental okay whatever uh asian 2.1

04:57:35.820 billion indian 1.6 billion black 1.4 billion arab plus other so that includes non-white hispanic 1.1

04:57:43.500 billion white 1 billion and dropping from this website so that's from there maybe there's like some

04:57:49.100 variants or whatever um and then the other thing uh okay so oh we got rachel so uh really cool uh

04:57:56.940 go ahead hello hi rachel hi hey brian long time no see glad to be back on sorry everybody i had some uh

04:58:09.660 some health issues i had to conquer but i'm doing much better so good to see you good to see you glad

04:58:14.620 to hear you're feeling better uh take it away rachel go ahead well i heard i was summoned by large marge

04:58:20.700 over here she seems pretty upset about something so uh you guys want to let me know like what what the

04:58:27.340 problem is anybody um basically she wants oh the minimum income of the significant other to be five 1.00

04:58:39.420 million five million five million tired in retirement and then your hubby says

04:58:46.380 a lot of things and well see this is the thing he asked what she brought to the table right

04:58:53.820 correct she didn't really have anything so he said well you know why would what makes you think

04:58:59.580 you're gonna bag a millionaire when millionaires can basically have their pick of anyone and she got 1.00

04:59:04.700 really upset and and you know threw some insults at him first and the thing about andrew is if you do

04:59:09.500 that well he's gonna give right back to you so the moral of the story is if you can't dish it out you

04:59:15.020 know if you can't take it don't dish it out i guess but i mean are we gonna pretend it's not kind of

04:59:20.780 delusional for i mean she just spent the whole beginning of the show telling us that she has never

04:59:26.460 gotten proposed to she hasn't been able to get married and i never said that you're lying you said 0.99

04:59:33.820 you're slain you're lying no you're ugly and you're lying it's oozing out of your pores okay well did you 1.00

04:59:43.100 not say that you have no couth and what you say means nothing okay you started off nasty and vulgar 1.00

04:59:55.100 no i have not been married have i been proposed to yes but it's really none of your business

05:00:01.580 didn't you tell well i didn't tell anybody anything listen marge you came on the podcast 0.97

05:00:07.340 you're rude i'm no longer speaking to you you're ugly i'll speak to the rest of the panel she came 1.00

05:00:13.580 on here to talk about her dating life and she spent her whole intro explaining how she's only ever 0.99

05:00:19.180 been able to get guys who wanted her to pay the bills and they were just losers and they were 0.98

05:00:23.500 pieces of they had nothing going for them they didn't bring anything to the table they were lazy

05:00:28.060 in my early 20s yeah these are the kind of men that you've been getting in my early 20s

05:00:36.220 okay well where's the millionaire asking to marry you that's what we're asking that's not an insult

05:00:43.660 it's not most of us don't marry millionaires so it's delusional for you to think like oh yeah i just

05:00:50.700 i totally deserve that like why i went out with them for four months well first of all i thought

05:00:57.340 you weren't going to talk to me anymore so that was a lie but i'm glad that you're willing to chat 0.97

05:01:01.580 because it's not worth it you're a loser you have no clue a little bit of a reality check here it's 0.96

05:01:07.740 it's a reality check time and i got some for the other a few of the other ones too if they want 0.98

05:01:12.620 reality checks but it's just very entitled to sit there as you are and say i deserve this and when

05:01:19.580 andrew very correctly i said i wanted somebody established you obviously have no standards 0.98

05:01:27.900 because you married that loser you're probably begging to get out you think so yeah i do because 0.98

05:01:35.820 you're on this show how pathetic that's the best you can do with your life this is you're also on the 0.99

05:01:43.260 show ma'am um i'm very happy i've been with andrew a long time we are notorious then why are you foaming 0.98

05:01:49.820 at the mouth i'm not foaming at the mouth yes ma'am you are as red as your skirt i'm not i'm not the 0.73

05:01:58.940 kind of person that you can sit here and uh you know do this gaslighting and tell me i'm the one who's

05:02:03.740 angry you're the one who asked for me you wanted me to come i don't remember ever asking for you

05:02:09.260 i couldn't believe that he was even married but now when i see what you look like i understand it's 0.98

05:02:15.820 pathetic marge nobody believes that you're gonna sit here and tell me that i'm ugly okay again with 0.98

05:02:22.540 the gaslighting nobody believes this you're projecting okay what you're you're upset so 1.00

05:02:27.020 you're saying i'm upset you're not blessed you know with the most good look so you're projecting that

05:02:34.060 onto me you're upset so you're saying i'm upset listen let's deal in reality here and just say

05:02:41.020 andrew asked a fair question which is when you say i want someone established i want him to travel the

05:02:46.220 world with me i want him to bring something to the table what the hell i've already i've already

05:02:50.140 traveled the world i've already done all the above if i may why can't i have what i have what's the

05:02:56.780 problem with that i'll i'll explain it to you and this might help you you said he needs to bring

05:03:02.540 something to the table yes and andrew and andrew said what do you bring to the table and you said i

05:03:07.740 am the table i am the table i don't remember saying i am the table i said i'm established i said i'm

05:03:17.820 established most people in their 60s are established we don't need to yell i have many friends that are 0.68

05:03:27.820 established why would a millionaire give a shit about that we're asking what you because most 0.71

05:03:33.980 my friends are millionaires millionaires are not that that uh we have billionaires i didn't say 0.98

05:03:41.500 billionaires i said millionaires there's a lot of people that i know that are millionaires so that

05:03:50.700 those standards aren't that off the charts you do you understand that you knowing millionaires has

05:03:56.780 nothing to do with any of them wanting to marry you so what we're asking once again

05:04:01.820 why would a millionaire want to marry you that was never really the question because of my um winning

05:04:07.500 personality uh they enjoy my company um we happen to have things in common they like to share time with

05:04:16.540 me there's how has that worked out for you so far how's that worked out so far i'm still single

05:04:22.060 yeah i know and what's your point my point is your standards are delusional you aren't understanding

05:04:31.340 like my standards are not delusional i'm having a good time well that's not what you said the whole

05:04:39.100 first part of the i said in my early 20s okay when because i own property in my early 20s and it was

05:04:49.020 difficult because no one at that time guys did not work they were living at home with their mom and

05:04:57.180 dad is really i'm i feel the millionaires being attracted right now as we speak well just because 0.98

05:05:03.260 you can't get a millionaire and you're pathetic because you're with that loser sorry your standards 0.99

05:05:09.580 are so low but you're married hallelujah the loser married you like that's a victory tell me why you 1.00

05:05:18.780 think andrew's a loser but listen to him speak 0.99

05:05:24.620 i think he's hilarious and he married you he's one of the top entertainers on the internet so sure he's 1.00

05:05:30.860 very fun to be around he's very entertaining yeah he is okay girl with your ass hanging out 0.98

05:05:38.460 sitting there shaking your head don't don't start because you don't want any of this i promise you if 0.99

05:05:43.420 i have to sit here and listen to your baby routine for like any any amount of time at all i'm gonna go 0.94

05:05:49.260 nuclear because i've been having to listen to it all night and it's so irritating you don't talk like 1.00

05:05:53.580 that everything about you is fake and phony the tears are phony the tits are phony put your ass away 1.00

05:05:59.260 and stop with the smirk okay we already caught you lying you're full of you're just here to sell 1.00

05:06:04.380 your ass so you can put the smirk away now march back to this get over yourself like this is a 1.00

05:06:09.900 put-down session stand up turn around let's see your fat ass and the dimples in it and all your 1.00

05:06:16.620 cellulite let's see your saggy look at this she can't even wear decent clothes she's so pathetic 1.00

05:06:23.500 get a new bra get a facelift use some botox and get a better attitude ugly troll 1.00

05:06:35.020 okay that hurts my ears let's not do that yeah let's not i'm just look i've been on the show 0.91

05:06:40.140 myself and when i was asked to rate myself i said i thought i was a five i think i'm average looking

05:06:45.980 i have i'm at a healthy i said i was a five you loser i said i was a five

05:06:51.980 okay let's lower the volume a little bit yeah yeah you can say the same exact thing just lower

05:06:57.660 the volume so if i'm a five do you think you're a five no i'm a 10 compared to you

05:07:08.540 okay there's more of that delusion we were talking about so i'm at a healthy weight i'm not

05:07:13.260 overweight yes i'm in my sweats but i was it's it's what you're scuzzy you foam at the mouth you're 1.00

05:07:19.740 ugly you married a loser get over yes you're just talking not fair yeah you're nasty you have no couth 1.00

05:07:27.180 you're just a loser just get off the screen you don't add anything to this conference all you do 1.00

05:07:32.940 is put down put down put down put down you're an asshole we be friends come on now i'm not an 1.00

05:07:40.300 asshole i'm asking fair questions you are so mean to me why she's jealous wait wait hold on wait 1.00

05:07:48.460 something oh my god something is happening 0.99

05:07:54.300 look look you asked for me i was upstairs doing dishes oh go go if i asked for you go away because 0.99

05:08:08.460 you're ugly and i can't see looking at you go away go away go guys guys let's stop the insults both of 0.97

05:08:15.100 you just stop the insults why don't you here this is what i want say something nice about each other 1.00

05:08:20.220 one thing that's nice about each other just i'm so glad you were so desperate you married your loser 0.99

05:08:26.460 of a husband because there's no victory in very merry damn come on holly come on what say let's see 1.00

05:08:32.220 your ring size let's see how big of a diamond oh is that pathetic is that he didn't even give you a 0.99

05:08:40.780 ring how pathetic is that no that's my ring this is oh that's a little gold band you have a little gold 0.97

05:08:47.900 band how charming here do you want to hold up your your nails and you guys can compare yeah first 0.90

05:08:53.820 of all you don't have a ring at all but second of all i love this ring because andrew gave me this

05:08:58.860 ring when neither of us had anything well you still don't because he's blown away that i do that's not

05:09:05.260 true marge if you knew how much andrew made right now you would cry so he could buy me any ring that i

05:09:11.740 wanted now i don't want a new ring i want this ring oh you're trying to save face you're trying 0.97

05:09:17.580 to save face hey hush your hush your fat hog mouth hey guys be nice come on look guys 0.95

05:09:24.220 guys calm down while i tell this charming story everyone wants to hear about the ring nobody wants 0.99

05:09:29.260 to hear your sad pathetic story how long did you have to somebody send brian money to mute her mic

05:09:35.500 so i can tell my charming story anyway andrew bought me this ring when he only had a few hundred 0.99

05:09:40.140 bucks and then he still only has a few hundred bucks look at the poor loser you can only wear

05:09:45.820 sweats crucible chat the reason why you're alone he's a brokie is you have no clue what's going on 0.94

05:09:52.860 you have no clue because i only i wanted the man not the ring okay ah well you you scored you 0.99

05:10:01.500 you scored you got married to a loser that can only give you a gold band look i want you to say 0.97

05:10:10.140 something nice to rachel rachel i want you to say something nice to holly okay she doesn't have to 0.98

05:10:16.540 say anything nice to me she's showing the whole world what kind of personality she has that's going 1.00

05:10:21.340 to attract millionaires this is the person that's what every millionaire wants there ladies and 1.00

05:10:26.140 gentlemen what's so pathetic or there's many millionaires out there millionaires isn't even 0.64

05:10:32.300 that much money can we stop and move on please yeah i want to like draining not that much this is 0.97

05:10:37.820 exhausting easy so i'm oh you don't like it no this is exhausting i just have a i you're just 0.99

05:10:43.900 energized right now i'm kind of digging it to be honest but i wish it was i wish i don't fuck with 0.96

05:10:48.220 bullying and it's going back and forth and now i'm fucking irritated can we just please move on 0.98

05:10:51.980 do you want to get in on this it's not bullying she asked me to come down bullied me i never said 0.88

05:10:57.100 anything bad about her large marge when you first got on and i think that's what set her off to be 0.52

05:11:01.980 honest i mean she's no better she's talking too both of you i'm she asked can an eye for an eye

05:11:08.300 makes the world go blind can we please move on i got i'm over it i gotta move things on i gotta move

05:11:13.580 things on this is boring and redundant final thought rachel you want a final thought

05:11:19.420 yeah uh chair two is a fake everything about her is phony uh she's totally making up this 0.99

05:11:26.860 whole percent with the little baby voice that's a fake voice it's fake tears fake age fake tits 1.00

05:11:32.860 everything's fake chair three is a masculine pain in the ass chair four is delulu chair five we have 1.00

05:11:39.580 already been over chair six seems nice and she's pretty chair seven absolutely delusional feminist 1.00

05:11:45.500 total post-modernist goofball thinks she's really hot when she's not uh she's just kind of

05:11:53.660 argentina i don't have much to say about her what do you mean there you go thank you for your feedback

05:11:59.420 i like received back go ahead that's you have a wonderful personality you came in hot i actually do

05:12:07.580 i'm pretty fun congrats on that entertaining lady i was not ready ah that was good talk your 0.98

05:12:16.700 shit girl do you want the nice wilson back yeah bring bring bring mr wilson bring mr wilson back wow 0.98

05:12:23.340 that was uh all right brian all right good to have you rachel appreciate it good to see you good to see 0.97

05:12:28.940 yeah let me let me let these soup chats come in uh please raise andrew's volume we can't hear him

05:12:35.180 but over the ladies casual germ oh i these are below the threshold i'll just pull them up there really

05:12:40.700 quick uh so selena gornez boost andrew's audio is much quieter that's weird um i'll look into that in

05:12:46.300 just a moment mike jones chairs one two five and seven are delusional

05:12:51.660 okay i mean they all are but those ones more w andrew w brian w rachel thank you mike jones

05:13:01.660 much appreciated appreciate it thank you thank you we have mr jimmy thank you for the membership

05:13:06.300 appreciate it uh just gerald thank you for the twenty dollar soup chat appreciate it mike jones

05:13:11.660 thank you for the twenty dollar soup chat appreciate it man uh turn up rachel's mic she's cooking that's 0.83

05:13:17.180 weird i don't know why it's uh low seth thank you man mr jimmy keep seething okay thank you

05:13:22.700 miss uh mr jimmy and thank you seth for those soup chats guys soup chats are hundred dollars and up

05:13:28.380 for full reads guys like the video if you're enjoying the stream go to twitch.tv slash whatever

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05:13:38.380 think it's a i don't know if it's sub a prime whatever uh oh here can you do this mary at the very top

05:13:44.460 of the screen you're gonna see something uh so if you go out of f11 in the window tab over here you're

05:13:51.660 gonna see at the the favorites bar there's something called calculator do you see it

05:13:57.580 yeah click that and then we're gonna go that real quick we're gonna do just one for the sake of time

05:14:02.140 because we don't have time you have it just

05:14:15.740 you have it okay all right scroll down okay so this is for you we're gonna find you your perfect guy uh

05:14:23.980 what's the age range that you would date holly into the mic if you can

05:14:30.140 um into that into the mic please kindly into the mic i would be happy uh

05:14:37.260 at least 55. so from what age to what age though so we can do um i am 55 to 70 but i mean i can't even

05:14:46.460 you know that's just saying i don't know if that's sure exclude hit exclude married

05:14:51.500 okay uh race white black asian or any race um i would like white but i'm you know

05:15:05.740 still look we got to move through this quick so i just need i just need quick answers here minimum

05:15:10.060 height uh i would like 5 10. okay do you want to exclude obese men or are you fine dating a guy who's

05:15:17.740 obese obese obese obese if he's chubby that's obese obese obese well i don't know obi is it

05:15:24.460 morbally it's just obese uh what what is obese five foot ten uh

05:15:34.940 wait a man who's five foot ten is considered overweight it's he's obese if he's 209 pounds or more

05:15:41.740 well 209 pounds is fine okay so don't exclude obese i guess um minimum income is it 500 000

05:15:53.660 or i i this is yearly income that is retired is what i want someone that's established and retired

05:16:02.860 you give a number 500

05:16:04.060 if they retire they don't have income i'd like them to maybe have their home paid for

05:16:10.300 that they've got some money in the bank no i just max it yeah okay

05:16:19.340 so probability 0.029 of men fall into that range

05:16:34.060 okay it it's pretty interesting it's pretty interesting hey brian can we just point out that

05:16:41.580 when rachel stood up and did the like topsy-turve that she was half the size of large and in charge 1.00

05:16:47.980 march i just i just wanted to point that out that's all ivermectin curses cancer says i understand

05:16:54.140 why chair five needs a millionaire someone's got to pay for the amount of food she clearly eats and 1.00

05:16:58.780 the doctor's pills for diabetes also brian is this chair two show or yours man up on the chair two

05:17:06.060 show i mean i was maybe this is in reference i was away from the table for about five minutes so

05:17:12.460 i don't know if i missed something there but thank you for the message man appreciate it

05:17:15.900 uh okay we have uh b here thank you for the membership appreciate it uh rachel says that's the

05:17:23.660 first time i ever cooked a lunch lady okay uh fry baxter thank you for the super chat man i do

05:17:29.740 appreciate your super chat okay guys if you want get it in super chats 99 we need to blast through all

05:17:34.780 the other notes here pretty quickly so uh how tall are you and what's the minimum height of a man you

05:17:39.660 would date um five four i don't really have a preference on height okay so you date a guy who's

05:17:45.820 like your height yeah okay what about you um i'm five seven and probably like five eleven okay you wrote

05:17:53.900 six foot but sure what about you i'm five four and minimum five ten okay what about you five seven and

05:18:01.260 five ten what about you you got you got it's just please into the mic five nine and five nine what about

05:18:09.260 you five six and five seven next five five and five seven i'm five eight so probably my tall yeah how tall

05:18:17.980 i am or maybe five nine okay got it uh and then hold on one sec here in the notes um

05:18:29.660 minimum i mean i won't linger on this too long you said you want a guy who makes one million dollars

05:18:34.940 two two two two hundred thousand dollars that's the preferred but minimum i'll do is 100 okay and

05:18:41.980 then you said 150 and then you said 300 000 yeah i said 130 but or 130 and you said that 300 000

05:18:50.860 so just do you think you'll get that for for you me yeah you think you'll get a guy who

05:18:58.460 yeah that's your minimum yeah lots of people in my industry make them lots of people in the

05:19:03.260 entertainment most people in the entertainment industry are not making 300 000 like do you date

05:19:10.540 crew cast what do you date well like myself as a crew member i make what i told you that i make and

05:19:16.140 that's like on a year that's like not as awesome have you ever made 300 000 i have not

05:19:23.500 okay i mean pretty sure most crew are not making 300 000 a year in hollywood you're wrong about that

05:19:33.260 so what percentage of crew full-time crew workers on hollywood film are making 300 000 a year

05:19:39.980 if you go like let's say it's like when things are like super busy and you go from like a tv show

05:19:45.500 to a tv show to a tv show or to a movie like you you're making like 75 an hour and then you're getting

05:19:53.260 time and a half and then you're getting like ot and then you're getting travel and then it's like it's

05:19:58.220 it's very possible to make that i think you're underestimating that i'm under i'm underestimating

05:20:04.380 it i understand it's possible but i mean have you dated somebody who's made that much um i don't ask

05:20:10.540 too much about people's incomes but i mean probably not so wait you've never dated somebody who makes

05:20:17.420 300 000 a year i don't ask i don't i don't i don't ask yeah you might not know precisely how much

05:20:25.180 they make i would say that i have yes like i don't ask that question but if i'm dating someone

05:20:30.940 in my industry who is very busy then i would assume yes that they make that amount of money yes

05:20:35.260 but have i asked no do i know what do you know what his job is that the guy who you think was

05:20:39.340 making that much money what was his like job title or whatever i don't want to get into that you don't

05:20:45.580 need to say what films you could just say he was a boom he was a boom operator i don't know just say what

05:20:51.180 what no it's too small for me to even say that okay yeah okay it's just like if you haven't dated

05:20:57.340 a guy who makes 300 000 in your entire life and now at 36 you're like okay i'm gonna i comfortably

05:21:05.100 support myself in los angeles so if i was going to decide to marry someone they would have to make

05:21:12.140 more money than me like just for me to even consider doing that so like move in and how all that stuff

05:21:17.500 because like right now i support myself so like so you wouldn't date a guy who makes just as much

05:21:23.820 as you 150 000 um i mean i guess i would but it'd be nicer if he made more yeah i get it but the

05:21:32.380 question is the minimum not the i guess i wouldn't say no like i wouldn't say no i i okay if we are 0.94

05:21:39.660 going minimum i'll say like 100 000 um but ideally three damn y'all y'all got kind of delusional

05:21:50.060 standards not really yeah you got you guys got delusional standards 300 000 that puts him nearly 0.92

05:21:56.780 in the one percent of men are you a one percent woman i've met more men that make that i think you 0.93

05:22:04.780 guys are just in like shitty industries like i know a lot of people who make that amount of money

05:22:09.420 like i i think you're you're just in like a different arena like i have a whole group of

05:22:14.460 friends who make that amount of money i'm literally in your industry hang on brian she's right you are in

05:22:20.060 a different arena it's called reality i'm in a reality of that that's like normal for people who

05:22:26.060 work in my industry for you to just know people who make that kind of money that's just lies and

05:22:30.860 bullshit that okay we have this look we have the stats we we have all the stats in the world okay 0.92

05:22:37.500 that's okay the average height of a woman is five five right so it's is it what is it five four go 1.00

05:22:43.340 ahead okay five four but like i don't see that many five four women that's average height like the 1.00

05:22:49.660 average is usually not the thing that you see all over the place like it's just they take these two

05:22:54.860 numbers and bring them together wait are you just hang on that's that's a ridiculous criticism

05:23:00.060 women wear heels and they wear things which okay besides the boy i'm surrounded by people who 0.94

05:23:04.860 make over a hundred thousand and three hundred thousand dollars a year i'm sorry that you guys

05:23:11.500 sure let's just go with that but where's the millionaire with the ring

05:23:19.100 are you asking me yeah my millionaire with the ring yeah oh he's around here somewhere he's in my dms

05:23:25.580 after this watch i'll let you guys know i'll tell you i'll tell you what i'll make you know

05:23:31.420 you're both invited to the wedding i'll make a million dollar bet with you that at the end of 0.86

05:23:36.700 this year you ain't fucking got a ring on your finger from no millionaire uh i don't have a million 0.96

05:23:42.220 dollars so i'll bet you 500 on that though you ain't got 500k to bet just five five hundred dollars 0.97

05:23:48.860 regular ass dollars no i mean if we're gonna really lower the stakes i guess okay mike jones 0.67

05:23:55.260 says the only people that could even possibly make that much money are directors cinematographers and

05:23:59.820 a select few camera operators the cast does too but that's not chair seven's claim about half of

05:24:05.820 hollywood crew qualifies for food stamps by the way i yeah i mean if you're working if it's like

05:24:11.100 directors cinematographers uh music super like top tier music supervisors like yes but you're being

05:24:19.020 kind of vague as to like the kinds of projects you're working on most people in hollywood are not

05:24:25.180 making 300 000 like crew crew members are not making 300 000 a year you guys should try only fans that's

05:24:33.740 great unless you're dealing with like major major like triple a films like james cameron avatar these people

05:24:40.540 are not making 300 on like b-level films are you working are you doing um tv or film i have an imdb

05:24:50.140 are you doing tv or film i do both but are you working on like triple a uh major motion pictures

05:24:57.420 movies answer the question i don't i'm not gonna look it up i work on big projects yes have you have

05:25:02.620 you worked with tarantino no have you worked with spielberg no have you worked with i have done a marvel

05:25:09.340 movie like uh what's what's the uh who did the departed um what's his name starts with s or

05:25:16.460 something anybody i just think you don't understand my industry babe like it's common i'm very i'm

05:25:23.260 familiar with the entertainment industry yeah there's a lot of jobs and a lot of people that

05:25:27.100 are doing just fine i'm kind of surprised that you think that 300k is a lot thank you a lot thank you

05:25:32.940 300 000 is a lot that gets you close to the one percent that's more than like what you're making

05:25:38.460 as like an like whatever you do i'm not talking about me i could be making a billion dollars and

05:25:43.900 also be able to recognize okay somebody who's making 300 000 a year that's approaching the one

05:25:49.340 percent of men okay but she's just saying that she's around that's her friends or that's her group of

05:25:54.860 people that she's around but she she's yet to actually like when i asked her well have you dated

05:26:01.020 a guy who even makes that much and she's like well i don't really know she looks like she would be around 1.00

05:26:05.500 people like that i don't know what do you mean she looks like she i mean i were like i'm around

05:26:11.900 people who make that money like i don't know like what is okay just because okay let's say you worked on

05:26:17.980 uh like a triple a film and leonardo dicaprio leonardo dicaprio is there brad pitt's there

05:26:24.460 uh it's tarantino the direct whatever it is just because you're around them doesn't mean you're dating

05:26:29.100 them yeah i have never dated any of those people you just mentioned but yeah they're not the only

05:26:36.860 people in yes i know that arena that would be doing well yeah i don't disagree okay i think if you

05:26:45.100 just look at the statistics about like how many people in the world make 300k you would be able

05:26:49.340 to see that it is a lot of money like um okay we have brandon here uh thank you for the he bought

05:26:57.340 something shopped out whatever.com thank you for the uh looks like you got a t-shirt brian and andrew

05:27:02.220 y'all have changed the culture we wouldn't have trump without whatever okay all right i'll take the

05:27:06.140 credit sure thank you brandon appreciate it uh we have a chat 100 it was due to whatever podcast 0.71

05:27:11.660 100 it was definitely me um wait uh we already read that asshole react large marge probably do a 1.00

05:27:17.820 little research about who she is talking to before publicly embarrassing herself as far as lindell 0.99

05:27:21.900 was the teeth in or out how rude your audience has no couth no couth marge no couth you 0.93

05:27:34.380 quit calling me uh quit uh calling me marge large marge ugly limpless peter all right you guys both 0.96

05:27:44.060 of you guys all right pump the brakes both of you guys stop both of you stop both of you stop well 0.97

05:27:48.780 how rude to invite someone on your show and then say bad stuff i'm not how rude you're so rude yes okay

05:27:59.820 cool you're rude we get it you're rude you invite someone to be on your show and then you cut them

05:28:06.220 down forget it just drop it just drop it you guys had your thing you guys had your beef drop it i'm

05:28:11.580 moving it on just drop it just drop it all right drop it with the teeth in or out look andrew the whole

05:28:18.860 just both of y'all drop it drop it it's over you guys had your little exchange it's done all right

05:28:26.620 okay come on andrew dude i just i gotta know are your teeth in or out i can't tell my teeth are

05:28:35.420 in they're in they're in they're in how about yours yeah you'll never know all right would you

05:28:42.300 rather cross paths with a random man or a random bear on the hike what about you go ahead none you

05:28:47.980 have to if you had to pick one though i would say a man i'm pretty covered up every time i hike i

05:28:54.060 don't think i'll be in i put none but if i went down to it i cannot fight off a bear i can't okay

05:29:02.700 so you pick a man yes okay what about you i mean i wrote down bear because i just think it was like

05:29:09.100 funny but like probably a man but it depends on like what kind of man like men can be really scary so

05:29:15.820 it's just random i'll just i said bear random man man random man random man man man too okay that makes

05:29:30.460 this pretty easy then we're gonna skip off of that uh i did actually think of one though if uh whatever

05:29:36.540 not this panel okay we're gonna get into the uh questionnaire here why don't we start with uh oh one

05:29:44.060 question who here's a feminist just show of hands is anybody a feminist nobody not i mean not even 1.00

05:29:53.100 sociology over here support the rights of women you know okay no feminist though yeah all right uh so 0.86

05:30:00.220 hold on uh let's get into it then i want to get to the exciting stuff uh here you know what we're

05:30:05.260 gonna start with ava did i say it right it's eva eva sorry uh you wrote uh you know what i'll just

05:30:14.700 do in an order so it's simple you said a man dating a transgender woman is straight i mean yeah i mean

05:30:19.740 like she's technically a girl you know and you know if he likes her for being a girl he's straight you know

05:30:30.460 what actually just going around the table what is a woman um biologically or like 1.00

05:30:43.660 aura or like you know biologically it's someone with a vagina and um in terms of like other things 1.00

05:30:50.380 it's just femininity there's a reason why people are gay and are because it's not because they literally 0.95

05:30:56.940 want a vagina it's because they are probably like feminine what a girl entails without periods and 1.00

05:31:03.580 all that stuff but like yeah they like probably like to do girly things and i think yeah yeah 0.99

05:31:15.740 oh yeah what is sorry i'll repeat the question what is a woman um someone with a vagina okay 1.00

05:31:21.740 someone someone someone with a uterus and a vagina someone that has chromosomes of a woman 1.00

05:31:32.780 yeah uh the x chromosome born with the x chromosome someone who identifies as a woman 0.99

05:31:40.540 uh uterus vagina woman um wait wait hang on just real quick you do know xx and xy so men are also born 0.98

05:31:53.740 with the x chromosome it's just xy xy isn't xy a male yes i thought just x chromosome though i thought x was 0.98

05:32:06.700 a female yeah yeah xx oh it's two x's it's not just one yeah okay i thought it was uh just one go ahead

05:32:15.180 go ahead go ahead um someone that identifies has a woman the same as she said wait who who said that

05:32:23.980 oh you said a woman is someone who identifies as a woman is that what you said okay yeah so that's

05:32:28.300 your position too okay can you define a woman without using the word woman though 0.99

05:32:37.900 so am i a woman if i identify as a woman no no why not i you just said a woman is a woman who a woman

05:32:46.860 is a woman is someone who identifies as a woman if you feel you are a woman you are no no no i don't

05:32:52.140 feel like i'm a woman but i'm choosing to identify as a woman but you don't present as a woman so

05:32:56.220 biology and science don't lie i'm sorry okay um but so going to yours you said the man dating a

05:33:02.860 transgender woman is straight yeah if he sees him as a woman yeah i don't think it would be straight

05:33:07.740 though i mean it's just beliefs i think fix it if he's sorry if he sees her as a woman and like 0.92

05:33:15.500 originally she presented herself as a woman and you know maybe he doesn't care what if there's a penis 1.00

05:33:20.780 if there's a penis yeah um hmm i don't know it's a little sus but if he would it be straight um if 0.98

05:33:29.340 he likes her as a woman yeah even so if he was giving you know if your best friend said he was 1.00

05:33:35.260 going to go home and suck his girlfriend's dick would he be straight you know what it would be sus 1.00

05:33:39.660 but i would be like yo if you see what does that mean that means like this little like borderline 1.00

05:33:45.020 doesn't sus mean hang on doesn't mean i don't believe you it's but it's just not what i believe

05:33:50.540 it i'm gonna take their word why would they lie if they if they believe that they're dating a woman 0.99

05:33:55.340 then they're dating a woman to me you know a man says to you i'm gonna go home and suck my woman's 1.00

05:34:00.300 dick okay that's a little sus but you're not sure if it's straight or not dude if if he sees her as a 1.00

05:34:06.620 woman then that's his perspective sucking her correct you know there's guys who can suck a dick and 1.00

05:34:13.420 still be straight i do believe that you know like i do believe that yeah you'd be surprised you'd be 1.00

05:34:19.900 surprised you'd be surprised they could still be straight i think if they're gay i think if they're 0.88

05:34:25.100 gay they fall in love with men you know what i mean oh but i'm just saying that's my that's my opinion 1.00

05:34:30.380 that's my opinion if they hang on hang on hang on so men who suck men's dicks are also straight 1.00

05:34:37.660 god damn maybe like if they if they say they like women and they think they like women and they 1.00

05:34:43.580 know they like women i don't know they tell me they're like i'm giving a hundred dollars so that 0.98

05:34:46.540 you can wear the dunce cap whatever but i think that if they see the whatever the person is as a

05:34:53.260 woman then it's a girl you know i'm saying i have no place to say anything else yeah i mean how would 0.99

05:34:58.860 you know except that they're you know sucking a dick yo by all means please i don't it's sleeping 0.99

05:35:04.700 girl because may i say something yeah yes go ahead hang on i just want you to tell me true or false 1.00

05:35:11.180 okay sometimes straight men go home and suck their wife's dick true or false i don't know 1.00

05:35:19.660 this no no no no no no true or false the only answer is true or false sometimes straight men go home 1.00

05:35:27.580 and suck their wife's dick true or false i don't know um you don't know yeah you don't know i'm 1.00

05:35:35.100 respectful of other people's choices and if they want to see their partner as a woman and they're a 1.00

05:35:40.540 man and then i guess it's straight like i don't okay okay so then i'll ask again true or false

05:35:46.220 this is not a true or false question one more time true or false not a true or false question yeah

05:35:51.420 that's all it is is true i'll tell you what i'll make a deal with you okay ask me any question which 1.00

05:35:56.620 is true or false and i'll answer with true or false if you do the same okay would you suck a dick 0.99

05:36:02.620 to save your wife's life what's false now my question to you true or by the way that wasn't 0.99

05:36:09.980 a true or false i know i just wanted to ask you true or false okay true or false men go home sometimes 1.00

05:36:18.620 and suck their wives dicks i mean yeah true it could be possible true it could be possible 1.00

05:36:24.940 wait wait wait stop stop stop hold on just put your mouth hold on hold on hold on we're not gonna do 1.00

05:36:30.860 that wait sorry what what happened i said obama does it oh stop please stop like that's such a tired 0.94

05:36:39.820 like oh michelle's a man please like let it like stop that's so ugly are you gonna let it trashy that's 0.99

05:36:45.420 how do you feel about that that it's just so stupid it's kind of like back in the day when 0.99

05:36:48.460 people used to call sierra a man for whatever the fucking reason and everyone just kind of ran with 0.99

05:36:51.980 it we're like lady yeah and it's like i'm not even the proper term is pansexual you like 0.98

05:36:58.060 people all humans look i i agree michelle obama is not trans just a really ugly woman that's fair 1.00

05:37:03.580 like but back to this but back to this i just can you just say true or false without any qualifier

05:37:09.660 like i did but like why do i have to say true or false like it's not a valid question i did it for

05:37:14.380 you i literally did it for you oh but i didn't say i'm gonna do it for you i don't have to reciprocate

05:37:19.580 we'll do this again we'll see if you're actually good oh my god okay ask me a true or false 1.00

05:37:23.740 question i'll say final thing go ahead final thing okay if you suck dick for to save your wife 1.00

05:37:31.180 are you are that's not true you are gay you are gay you are gay okay have that yes okay hang on 1.00

05:37:37.740 hang on true you are if you suck dick to save your wife's life you're gay 1.00

05:37:43.100 wow that's true now since i answered true okay okay i'm ready yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes 1.00

05:37:49.340 i so man goes home to suck wife's okay dick right yes true or false that's his wife true or false 1.00

05:37:57.580 true if he says this is his wife i'm gonna respect it okay yeah we got ogle here thank you 1.00

05:38:06.300 ogle lunders call glue dot net donated two hundred dollars thank you thank you ogle appreciate

05:38:10.540 now that we know chair two isn't 18 will she refund all the people on if she defrauded 0.86

05:38:15.980 she and her manager should look up fraudulent misrepresentation and consider returning the cash

05:38:21.100 proactively i mean i'm 19 but i understand

05:38:28.220 ogle we're gonna get james sexton on the case he's gonna he's just gonna you're gonna get a

05:38:34.780 not a subpoena you're gonna get served a lawsuit boom big sass energy i'm an individual that meets

05:38:40.540 all monetary and physical standards of all these women the only ones i'd even consider 1.00

05:38:44.860 dating are the black gal and the argentinian marge lol size 14 lol o f lol 0.75

05:38:50.300 all right thank you big sass energy appreciate it we have antenna boy w chloe yumi i don't usually

05:39:01.420 watch the show but i was shocked to peek in and see you massive fan oh i love you thank you all right

05:39:07.740 you can blow a kiss into this camera here go for it i love you all right thank you antenna boy appreciate

05:39:13.100 it man okay guys super chats 100 and up try to do it through stream labs sometimes it works

05:39:17.420 sometimes it doesn't streamlabs.com whatever uh moving on to the next thing it was from our good

05:39:23.900 friend evelyn evelyn the statement men are not physically stronger than women you circled that

05:39:29.900 so you think what no because i think there are women that they are stronger than the men and we can

05:39:38.540 see that in sports even so i don't believe that that is true well i agree with you that there are

05:39:44.060 some women who are stronger than some men but generally speaking are men stronger than women

05:39:51.260 for most of the uh physical work yes

05:39:53.820 as opposed to what do you mean i don't know like carry heavy stuff i don't know like yes all sports

05:40:03.020 almost all sports in almost all sports men are do better than women uh so do you disagree or agree

05:40:11.580 i disagree well okay everyone is different and the talent is not because you are a woman or

05:40:17.340 a boy so well here's the thing though is if you look at world record holders so you have for example

05:40:24.860 15 year old high school boys who uh are faster than or whatever the sport is than olympic world record

05:40:36.300 holders so and you have for example you you like soccer or football you're from argentina okay 15

05:40:44.460 are you disagree you disagree or oh no no oh you're doing a weird thing yeah um so okay you have 15

05:40:52.860 year old high school boys who like dominate and crush like professional female soccer teams

05:41:01.260 how do you explain that testosterone i'm not asking you i'm asking her can you repeat the question

05:41:08.940 15 year old high school boys when they play against professional level

05:41:17.180 female uh football players soccer players okay the 15 year old high school boys destroy them really yes

05:41:25.420 i don't believe you but if you say so it's fine okay here um i can i can actually pull this up for

05:41:30.540 you and give you the exact teams uh where this happened but it is in fact the case that they took pro

05:41:38.300 soccer athletes who were female put them against a high school soccer team and they lost not only mildly

05:41:45.420 but badly and here i'll give you the names this is high school soccer team

05:41:54.060 male takes on pro female soccer team

05:42:00.700 um

05:42:01.100 um one second here i'll pull it up brian i'll just uh make so that i make sure that you have the

05:42:07.980 uh the right ones but this video went viral by the way of them doing this and it was completely

05:42:12.860 humiliating to the women they lost by every single metric you could conceive of and they were pros against

05:42:20.220 a high school soccer team

05:42:30.540 okay thanks for looking for me uh fc dallas u15 boys academy u.s women's national team they won five to two

05:42:38.940 completely decimated

05:42:44.700 just saying

05:42:48.540 why does it need to close

05:42:53.420 uh here i'll pull up the actual article here uh wait one sec here while you do you have the

05:43:00.940 other one pulled up that i sent you yeah but i also sent this so let's do the soccer one first

05:43:05.900 then we'll do the other one really quick okay get that pulled up nope

05:43:15.660 all right pull that up

05:43:20.140 oh there's gonna be a bunch of ad

05:43:22.140 yeah uh so this is

05:43:34.700 by the way

05:43:35.340 hold on hold on oh my god hold on 0.99

05:43:37.420 i was just saying yeah u.s 15 means under 15.

05:43:40.220 yeah scroll up scroll up scroll up

05:43:42.700 make it bigger mouse wheel make it bigger

05:43:45.180 uh the so the u.s women's national team which mind you didn't they win the women's world cup

05:43:55.100 or something so the dallas under 15 boys squad beat the u.s women's national team in a scrimmage

05:44:02.940 and then pull up the other one the boys versus women

05:44:05.500 u15 means under 15 yes we were 15 years we showed it we showed it we showed it um

05:44:18.780 so this is the overall medal count so this is comparing if you look under where it says boys

05:44:24.300 versus women it says male high school at male high school athletes versus female olympians so if

05:44:31.100 you put high school boys and you put them in the olympics against women in the olympics 0.99

05:44:38.540 the boys the high school boys will steal all those medals where it says overall medal count

05:44:45.100 they'll take all those medals from women scroll down here let me hide the soup chat thing scroll down

05:44:52.220 we're gonna do track and field we won't show everything but scroll down scroll down scroll down

05:44:55.740 right no no no up up up stay right there this is gonna resort it 0.77

05:45:01.420 so if you put high school boys against olympic elite level women athletes the men in the 100 meter uh

05:45:10.380 dash or whatever and in the 200 meters boys take the top eight places over women so as a woman or

05:45:21.100 excuse me as a man actually wait just scroll down actually let's see the other ones this is 400 meters 800 meters

05:45:31.100 it's gonna resort it so blue is boys red is women they again they take all the medals they take the top

05:45:38.780 eight places for 400 800 meters scroll down

05:45:41.180 so to be clear

05:45:48.540 uh okay so the 5000 meters actually the women do a little better 400 meter hurdles the men do better

05:45:54.780 just scroll down we're gonna skip through some of these scroll down just scroll down let's get to

05:45:58.940 swimming long jump here we can do long jump

05:46:04.940 okay the men take most of it scroll down to the let's do the pole vault high jump i think we get the

05:46:10.940 point yeah yeah i'll do one more i just want to show you the swimming okay the men take all of it

05:46:16.140 scroll down are we getting yeah sometimes you got to be thorough scroll down just scroll down

05:46:19.980 scroll down swimming here's the swimming majority of us wait for the swimming that okay here's the

05:46:25.420 swimming okay all right you got high school boys who are just who yes yes we get it but but i don't

05:46:32.540 know she's convinced are you convinced and now that you show me the proof yeah okay that was easy moving

05:46:38.220 it on the information thank you of course you're just well i just gotta ask you though if you so i want

05:46:44.140 to believe that you're not a delusional woman can't you just look around you in society and see for

05:46:51.740 yourself that it's not even close like when you think about all the electricians and movers and

05:46:57.580 construction workers and mechanics and everybody who makes the world work with your own eyeballs

05:47:05.580 they're clearly not women like clearly not women right like that's just clearly true to you isn't

05:47:13.900 it i know but maybe at some point is something like cultural because for years like women been 1.00

05:47:21.260 doing like different type of work and men been doing different type of work and of course if they

05:47:26.460 are stronger than women as they say actually i love this argument i think it's a great one 0.99

05:47:32.620 so if you're primitive if you're a primitive man and a primitive woman and survival is the thing that

05:47:38.620 you're after then wouldn't you associate jobs with the people who are the best at those jobs in order

05:47:45.260 to have the best survival rate so very clearly then if men are the hunters and women are the gatherers

05:47:53.340 what have we established i think we all get that biologically males are stronger uh it's not just

05:48:04.380 stronger uh what else why are they just in the capacity for these things and women are not 1.00

05:48:11.100 it can't just have to do with strength because there are women who you can argue are stronger than 1.00

05:48:16.540 some men and they still don't go into these fields there must be something else which is compelling

05:48:21.660 there what is it well i've seen some women in the fields but yeah it's just harder work yeah 1.00

05:48:27.660 it's basically not like if you look at linemen electrical linemen there's basically no women at all

05:48:33.020 like basically none and even the ones who are considered electrical linemen don't actually go

05:48:39.500 out and build power poles they just don't exist in this field at all do you want women to do that 1.00

05:48:47.900 want yeah like the point you're making is that you want women to do it i would happily if you wanted

05:48:54.620 to i would be happy to exchange where women did all of the most horrific jobs in society while i 1.00

05:49:01.900 kicked my feet up and said look at my tits and i got whatever i wanted that seems like a way better 1.00

05:49:06.860 deal to me yeah then the bigger there's there's just man and women stuff yeah just just what society 0.98

05:49:13.740 is i mean i don't know am i crazy doesn't it seem like a way better deal like how upset would you be

05:49:19.900 if you were objectified for your body and basically didn't have to do but i thought you like how mad would

05:49:25.420 you be about that i think i would trade male privilege for female privilege so if you i'll do

05:49:33.900 that trade if you can be born again would you choose to be a woman like genuinely would you 0.90

05:49:38.380 no i'm saying if i could stay your life but would you choose to be a woman like with everything you 0.95

05:49:43.500 yeah but i've asked this too the problem is when you make yeah yeah so the problem with this is when

05:49:48.140 you make an ontological argument like would you choose your state of being yes i don't know what the

05:49:53.820 state of being but you think it's easier and you think it's my own i can only observe correct so

05:50:00.220 from an observational standpoint it is very clear to me that women have life on easy mode in comparison

05:50:06.140 to men and that women often will demonize men as though that is not the case which is just 0.72

05:50:12.460 fucking absurd it's very clear that they do yes i think men and women both have a heart in just

05:50:17.660 different ways but women don't have a heart in any ways that's your point of view but if you think 1.00

05:50:24.140 if you think being if you think being a woman is very easy yes from your perspective would you just

05:50:30.700 if you could choose i'm actually willing to listen to a counter-argument tell me what can you answer

05:50:36.060 that question first though yeah what are women's hardships what are women's hardships what can you

05:50:43.260 answer that question i asked first can you answer that question i asked first though would you be

05:50:48.300 what's the question you asked i'll answer and then you answer promise promise okay so if you know

05:50:53.980 like for certain that being a woman is that much easier would you choose it what would you want to be

05:50:59.820 born a man well sure sure from like from the the logical spectrum no just like course you really

05:51:06.300 want to be a logical spectrum i would take all things just which are female privilege and hand them 1.00

05:51:11.260 to men yes no not handing would you be reborn as a female if you could choose like if it's so easy

05:51:17.820 would you again that's you're asking a question which i have no frame of reference to answer because

05:51:22.540 it's ontological you're asking but you're literally saying being a female is easier so i'm asking you

05:51:28.780 so would you want to be a female like if you could be reborn that these are two different 0.52

05:51:34.060 questions well i'm asking you this one and i'm asking you're asking you have to be silent enough

05:51:39.740 for me to answer the question you ask okay but it's just a yes or no question like you say true

05:51:43.740 or false yes or no it's not okay okay i'll tell you what uh yes if i had the understanding no just

05:51:50.220 yes or no just yes or no because you think okay so okay hang on so yes or no would you get 1.00

05:51:56.220 fucked up the vagina with razor wire to save your nephew i'm just but you you're for your 1.00

05:52:01.100 forest no i asked you first the vagina with razor wire to save your nephew yes or no you see the 1.00

05:52:06.540 point you're counter arguing my question why don't you answer mine lady man man man just say yes or no 0.99

05:52:13.580 it's a simple yes or no answer my answer mine yeah but you said you brought it in with a theory

05:52:19.100 like what does the okay okay so you would be you would want to be reborn as a woman okay thank you

05:52:27.580 answer my question okay correct would you rather would you would you yes yes okay would you get 1.00

05:52:33.180 fucked up your vagina with razor wire to save your nephew um to save my i don't really care for my 1.00

05:52:38.940 family like that because i'm not yes or no but if i had to get fucked yes or no okay yes a hundred 1.00

05:52:44.540 fucking percent okay yes shut up with this okay what why does that it has nothing to do with each 0.99

05:52:50.060 other you're just asking an irrelevant question that when you have okay if you have a loaded if you 0.99

05:52:54.780 have a loaded yes or no okay correct i can only answer though from the the status of what is ontology

05:53:01.660 but if you load it then i can load it back yeah i i didn't say you can't here's another one

05:53:07.260 okay here's another one all right all right would you would you go back in time to kill

05:53:13.660 where's the gong hang on and save six million jews okay if you knew it would lead to the eradication 1.00

05:53:20.060 of eight million asians uh boring do i have to choose boring but why do i have to yes yes or no 1.00

05:53:25.980 so why are you forcing me to change the channel like this is not boring i don't even i'm not boring

05:53:33.500 i'm literally asking you a question and you're asking me one for what point thank you for answering

05:53:37.900 the fact okay go ahead go ahead again because i promise so i'm gonna have to answer and make a

05:53:42.060 choice back in time and kill adolf hitler knowing it would save six million jews if it led to the 0.87

05:53:46.860 eradication of eight million asians would you do it yes oh perhaps i don't yes no no that's not 1.00

05:53:53.340 yes i will kill my asian race yes yes preferably like north korea maybe like then they wouldn't be 1.00

05:54:01.500 like preferably those asians you know like so yes so now you now now maybe you understand what 1.00

05:54:06.140 a loaded question no i don't because you for a fact say that women have it easier and you're like 0.99

05:54:11.900 yeah i would rather they do have tits and like take pictures and you already said that as a woman 1.00

05:54:16.940 that's not like right and for you to be a woman and do that wait he said that yes no never happened 0.99

05:54:23.260 but i'm just you're you literally say it's easier to just take pictures and like live an easy life

05:54:27.660 so okay then if you were a woman would you be doing that though yeah it is easier but again 0.95

05:54:33.020 and yeah you you think about the only fans girls who do it but what about the girls that aren't

05:54:37.100 doing it you know like yeah i'm just you're talking about them yeah what about them yeah i'm just they're

05:54:42.620 not doing it and you don't see you guys always talk about the worst things okay but anyways how many

05:54:48.060 more questions do you have yeah i'm ready to go home we need to like wrap this up yeah we got

05:54:52.620 more okay well let's get it going okay i mean what time is it it's time to go home it's time

05:54:59.180 how many more questions do we have eight minutes left no we're going longer because y'all took forever

05:55:04.620 to get through all this stuff no no no you let the whole argument with them continue for very very long

05:55:10.700 time yeah that was like a yelling match for 10 minutes is like ridiculous like longer like anyway

05:55:16.540 what are the questions okay so how about we stop them at a conversation we'll get through all the

05:55:20.220 questions and then once we're done with everything then we can wrap the show okay so uh we can this

05:55:25.820 is an interesting convo perhaps time permitting we'll get back to it but i'm going to continue on

05:55:29.900 with the questionnaire going to you you said uh so for number 19 men are not the primary victims of war

05:55:39.260 to which you agree so who are the primary victims of war i think about everything like in terms of like

05:55:44.620 grape on women like not just if if you're talking about them doing the fighting i do they i do think 1.00

05:55:50.620 they are like of course yeah but it's about war yeah but then like i'm talking about like everything

05:55:55.260 about war like the rape of war the fighting let's use great oh sorry use sa or grape sorry the the

05:56:00.940 grape of war and i think it in that perspective but if you're talking about who fought and stuff okay

05:56:05.900 let me ask you a question then do you so you're saying that like everyone's somewhat affected but the

05:56:11.980 main well how do you differentiate when it comes to i guess uh the impact or suffering so yeah do you

05:56:18.620 think for example like do you make the following trade i guess uh-huh uh if you can prevent one

05:56:25.980 woman from being graped it's worth killing a thousand men do you take that trade no i can't because that's 0.99

05:56:32.540 i mean that's something i can't even choose from like i i personally yeah i know you don't have

05:56:36.460 that yeah of course yeah but um no that's okay so in war yeah overwhelmingly

05:56:41.820 and if you can look at historical wars world war ii world war but i say hold on hold on stop stop

05:56:46.300 interrupting okay sorry if you look at world war ii world war one yeah these are the most documented

05:56:50.540 historical events ever okay so we know pretty well when it comes to military casualties deaths and then

05:56:57.820 also crimes against women can you i don't know why you're doing this i'm just i want you to chill out

05:57:01.740 i'm so excited to talk about this okay okay so we know that something like 20 million men died or

05:57:07.500 something like that and then there were civilian casualties so and yes women absolutely were graped 1.00

05:57:12.860 in during world war ii world war one we don't know the precise numbers it definitely wasn't 20 million

05:57:18.060 do you think that 20 million male deaths here i'll just be charitable five million women were graped

05:57:23.500 20 million men that's probably not even the actual numbers but just to throw that number okay

05:57:28.220 20 million men dead which is worse um do i have to pick or do i get to like talk on like

05:57:35.100 why i chose that exactly pick and then you can tell me why okay what am i picking on again

05:57:39.740 i'm picking which is worse 20 million men who die or five million women who get graved i don't i'm not

05:57:46.220 sure only because i think men like they go to war of course some of them don't want to but they do

05:57:50.780 fight for a cause and they feel proud to like fight for their country or i'm just saying like

05:57:56.540 maybe majority and i think like grape is very grape or essay oh sorry i said great it didn't sound like

05:58:03.260 it but okay okay just say yes okay i'll just say essay go ahead essay is very um like it's not chosen

05:58:09.420 at all i would say i would you know what the draft is i'm sorry you know you heard about comfort women

05:58:14.380 right during war and all that stuff yeah and it's just like that like men yeah i agree bad essay bad

05:58:21.020 comfort women bad yes and i just think that war in general of course like i think that who chooses

05:58:26.940 war like is it men or women like who chooses yeah sure uh i'm just saying like i sure absolutely

05:58:32.220 yeah there's don't make me choose between it's just bad period and if you're talking if you're

05:58:36.620 gonna ask a question you gotta let me answer the question you can't just ask you can't just uh

05:58:40.700 okay yes what's it called uh go over it like like every time you guys do here you guys do that

05:58:46.060 quite often yeah i'm the host so but it's just okay so you get to do whatever you want i guess okay

05:58:50.220 well yeah i'm the host i'm going to interrupt people i'm going to move things along so

05:58:55.660 your your whole argument is that uh women don't have a say well most men you think like 18 year old

05:59:01.420 men want to go to war of course i said i i don't think a lot of people go to war it's not an argument

05:59:05.820 it's just like my thought process throughout most of human history like most men were conscripted

05:59:10.380 into war yeah of course i don't think that they want to go to war but yeah so where do you

05:59:14.700 where's your trade-off though when it comes to like the greater suffering or the greater loss

05:59:18.620 uh i think both have about this if you could uh if you could prevent one woman from being 0.98

05:59:23.500 raped i already said no kill 100 men i already said 10 men all right um no i guess i can't one

05:59:31.340 for 10 is just it's hard i can't choose that don't make me choose that i just think everyone what about

05:59:36.620 from a from a justice perspective would you why do i have to pick like specific it's just testing the

05:59:42.860 logic so would you got it would you uh send a hundred innocent men to jail uh-huh to save one

05:59:51.340 innocent woman or something no would you send one a hundred innocent men to jail if it meant one 0.97

05:59:56.140 actual uh grapist serial grapist i was convicted okay yeah it's just not fair it's just okay i'm just

06:00:05.100 confused though so if we're doing a comparison when it comes to war yes the prompt is so you said men are

06:00:10.860 not the primary victims of war yeah so how could it possibly be the case if there's 20 million men

06:00:16.460 who die and only you know x amount we don't have the exact numbers just my emotional thought on it

06:00:21.980 in terms of logical thought on whether or not i would choose to save one women over a hundred

06:00:26.620 innocent men then that's something i i'm logically making a sense of okay so our men so are men the

06:00:33.500 primary but this is my opinion and i think that i just say no because there's just so many things

06:00:38.220 i don't yeah but are men the primary victims of war i can't i well then if not men who just people

06:00:43.820 it's just war it is everybody okay if the question is uh is it is it women it's just both genders yes

06:00:50.620 i understand that both men and women can be and are victims of war okay let me ask you let me make it

06:00:57.340 super simple okay uh a woman who's pregnant okay that must be really difficult for the husband to 0.99

06:01:03.100 witness the pains of pregnancy that his wife is experiencing okay who is the primary sufferer 1.00

06:01:11.260 of pregnancy the woman or the husband physically the woman psychologically both it's just both 0.83

06:01:19.500 why would it be psychologically both do the other women here agree psychologically it's more difficult 1.00

06:01:25.180 for the husband to go through a pregnancy than it is for the woman to go through the pregnancy 0.99

06:01:28.700 i respectfully disagree actually actually actually i'll just i'll just agree i'll just concede on

06:01:34.140 this point say you're right it's possible that psychologically the husband goes through a worse

06:01:38.700 time than the woman it feels bad when you can't do anything about hang on hang on let me finish okay

06:01:44.060 in some cases it could be the case that a husband psychologically goes through more than the woman

06:01:49.820 but do you think overall that the woman is the primary victim of the pregnancy or the husband even if he

06:01:56.140 goes through yeah definitely somehow more more psychological damage yes of course because

06:02:00.620 physically and mentally yes okay got it so then brian's asking that that exact same question

06:02:05.580 okay physically and mentally i understand who is the primary victim of war i understand the actual

06:02:10.060 question being asked please i i say both i sorry i'm sorry how about this here i'll give you another

06:02:14.860 scenario okay okay uh a boyfriend is there's a boyfriend girlfriend right they're dating each other 0.53

06:02:20.540 the girlfriend is great okay okay that is something really difficult as someone who you care about

06:02:27.340 and love to see see them have to go through that that's a terrible thing awful crime it's going to have

06:02:33.340 ramifications on the relationship you feel for them you have empathy for them they've they've been

06:02:38.220 perhaps physically violently physically assaulted the emotional trauma that's going to entail in that

06:02:42.860 who's the primary victim of the woman who was great or the boyfriend so you would acknowledge you would

06:02:51.020 acknowledge that the boyfriend that's got to be very traumatic as a boyfriend yeah to to go through

06:02:55.740 that is it as traumatic as the woman who was great um i'm gonna say no and so why can't you say that about

06:03:03.980 men and war when it's clear that men are overwhelmingly the ones who die in war the ones who are injured in

06:03:10.860 war the ones who are involved in war okay um because like i said it's just both it's physical and

06:03:16.380 psychological women are getting essayed and they can't really they um were they even allowed to go 0.99

06:03:22.060 to war at that time and i'm just saying men can fight for a cause at that time i don't know i watch

06:03:27.020 movies i don't know much about war in general but and that's just my opinion about this okay okay uh

06:03:32.860 children or women primary victims of war um no i just say both just people were i just yeah

06:03:40.540 yeah but the prime what is the word primary i guess primary do you want to talk about like

06:03:44.620 number wise yeah you're talking about number can you just answer my question yeah in terms of numbers

06:03:49.260 yeah primary just answer my question majority majority can you just answer my question majority

06:03:54.700 can i at least ask the question yeah you just yeah go ahead what does the word primary mean majority

06:04:02.380 okay so primary victim of war okay women or children

06:04:07.500 oh between like women or children like choosing between yes oh um i i don't know the the stats

06:04:19.100 children i don't know the primary victim of war majority yes men men or children okay um

06:04:26.380 again like i need if you're if you want to talk about numbers which i can really talk about if you show me

06:04:30.780 me two numbers men more men than children then i was a primarily men simple if you want to show

06:04:38.380 stats about women and men then yeah primarily got it so what stats like death just like just death i

06:04:44.300 don't know whatever you guys want to put numbers on because no we're asking i'm asking you okay

06:04:49.020 be death um is that the metric we're using just anything involved because it's war it could be

06:04:55.420 death it could be anything plus psychology plus psychological damage yeah just everything primary

06:04:59.980 victim meaning the majority of the victims yes men or women um if you want to give me numbers i can

06:05:06.300 point it out but i don't know them like how about just give us your intuition and tell us why you have

06:05:10.780 that intuition uh intuition on why intuition on which one like why if you had to guess so let's pretend

06:05:18.300 for a second you're in an alien ship and they put a gun to your head and say you have to decide right

06:05:23.820 now i don't know who's the primary victim of war men or women based on psychology and physical death

06:05:30.620 who would you choose even if you didn't have the stats all right i would say men because they were

06:05:35.820 the fighters and of course they were the ones in the front lines so why did you say that at the

06:05:41.580 beginning like that it was women i didn't say it was women i just said i just didn't agree okay i just

06:05:48.380 think that everyone like men women children whatever like they're all like um you know i don't think

06:05:53.500 look yeah when it comes to war when it comes to war children are victims women are victims that's

06:06:00.460 how i saw but primary victims of war primary would indicate like the most the first this sort of

06:06:07.900 thing okay then i would say men then i'm gonna move it on then okay uh let's see you say male

06:06:14.780 privilege exists we sort of talked about that yeah and i think female privilege exists too you know 1.00

06:06:20.300 it's just two sides teresa you also said male privilege exists i think both exist okay both

06:06:26.700 male and female holly you said male privilege exists okay okay uh jade you said male privilege 0.55

06:06:35.340 exists yeah and you think and you think men are more privileged in society than women yes okay amanda you

06:06:43.980 said male privilege exists and let's see if there's anything else here uh okay i mean i actually i

06:06:52.940 dispute that men are more privileged than women and i don't even really like this whole male privilege

06:06:59.180 thing because i think you need to look at the totality of somebody's circumstance

06:07:02.700 so a male there are perhaps male privileges but i believe privilege has to be analyzed by the

06:07:11.580 totality of somebody's circumstance so for example a uh say a five-year-old boy but he has terminal

06:07:19.100 cancer does he have male privilege is he privileged over this is sort of intersectional does a five-year-old

06:07:28.700 boy with terminal cancer is he more privileged than a woman who doesn't who's perfectly healthy no no

06:07:36.300 right so we have to look at the totality of circumstances on the individual level and so

06:07:41.980 this idea that and frankly i can't even think of and also male privilege has to be analyzed in comparison

06:07:49.020 to female privilege because to indicate based on solely on your gender okay it confers privilege 1.00

06:07:56.780 it would in comparison to what men are privileged for example if we say men are privileged because

06:08:04.940 they get ten dollars a year and women don't this is just i'm making something up men are privileged

06:08:09.820 because the government says you know what men you're so special you each get a ten dollar a year check

06:08:15.660 that women don't get but they also have a corresponding duty and say that duty is as men we can force you to 0.98

06:08:25.500 go to war and you can die you can get ptsd you can get maimed you can get your arm blown off you can 0.89

06:08:32.380 get your leg blown off you can get trench foot you can get you can die all the bad things that are 0.89

06:08:37.340 entailed with war would we say that in totality knowing that men can be drafted would we say that

06:08:44.220 well men do get that ten dollars a year that women don't is it a male privilege

06:08:50.300 i think privilege is subjective is what is subjective how would it be so it would be like

06:08:59.660 any type of privilege like what is a privilege but i guess the point i'm trying to make is in totality

06:09:05.660 i don't think we could say that well yes men do get paid ten dollars a year by the government

06:09:10.060 women don't that's a privilege but they also have to go to war and die and women don't so in totality 1.00

06:09:17.980 where is the total male privilege and that's what we have to do when we're talking about privilege is

06:09:25.340 compared to what and what is the totality of circumstances i agree yep 100 i always think

06:09:32.780 that environmental factors you know and just like how you're oh go please i i'm just uh i think when i

06:09:39.500 read privilege it made for some reason i thought um men uh represent strength and so they're the um

06:09:50.540 maybe priorities a better word yeah okay anyway sure um so jade you said men are more privileged in

06:09:57.980 society than women uh i don't know if there's someone else who said that i think oh wait uh yeah i think

06:10:05.020 that was just you jade i'll open it up to the whole panel though can anybody here tell me uh when it

06:10:11.580 comes to grievances so male grievances female grievances can any of you state a singular female

06:10:18.140 grievance that even approaches forced military conscription childbirth that's a choice most of the time no i

06:10:28.780 i thought you said grievances isn't that a grievance how would that well how would that be

06:10:36.620 like i i think i understand um what you're saying is like that's something women have to deal with men 0.63

06:10:43.420 don't they just have to do that they don't have a choice that couldn't be but that could be a

06:10:49.500 grievance it's not like we could do something about that right

06:10:52.620 well you're saying that a man has to go to war and in order to repopulate the earth the woman has 0.96

06:11:03.100 to give birth yeah but they're not compelled to give birth right nobody's forcing them the government

06:11:09.180 doesn't force women like there's not a draft for women okay like you need to have kids i mean if we 0.95

06:11:15.900 were like physically stronger i feel like it would be the same but we're like drastically not that's the

06:11:21.340 thing biologically we are not stronger yeah but i'm just asking yeah so it's just like if they're

06:11:25.660 drafted to if we are doing something that they well they have to do but wouldn't that say that

06:11:31.420 that just because we're stronger we should do this thing well it's just it does not make sense like

06:11:37.020 if we're just going to hang on i agree if that if that makes sense to you then just because you can

06:11:42.380 have children you should i mean yeah i guess it's what you have to do yes i want to have children you

06:11:48.940 know if people don't so so then so then you should have children because yeah i want to yeah and i

06:11:54.300 want to but then you know so wait no you should so it's actually immoral if you don't is um no but

06:12:02.220 it's not immoral that's why there's like deserters you know like it's they just you gave for me a thing

06:12:07.420 you should do which isn't a moral claim sorry something i should do that is is a moral what is

06:12:13.260 they should claim that is not moral you should do what which isn't a moral claim

06:12:20.540 can you give me an example a more what should i do that is more unless yeah that isn't moral

06:12:27.900 that isn't moral that i should do that isn't moral shouldn't shouldn't that i shouldn't do

06:12:33.580 what shouldn't what should not andrew do which is immoral

06:12:41.580 i don't know i'm sorry you don't know yeah so when you say when you say should that's an ought

06:12:47.420 claim like you ought do a thing those are moral claims hang on hang on those are moral claims

06:12:53.660 you're making a moral claim so if you say men are stronger therefore they should do thing 0.83

06:12:58.460 i think that means you're saying it's immoral if they don't do thing so is it immoral if you don't

06:13:03.900 give birth well they're capable of doing hang on let her answer please yeah okay

06:13:11.500 is it immoral is it immoral if you don't give birth no but it's not immoral if you don't go to

06:13:15.500 war like i'm not gonna be then it's not a should claim then why should i go to war okay you don't have

06:13:19.580 to go to war well then it's absurd to say that because we're stronger we should do that then oh you don't

06:13:25.100 have to but it's just more logical to put yeah but you said to me that okay i take it back you should

06:13:30.620 okay my apologies i that's like that that makes no sense right that makes no sense correct so so then

06:13:37.900 here's my question to you okay should women who can give birth uh oh i said no because i don't know 1.00

06:13:45.500 yeah yeah correct then should men who can protect you protect you no unless they want to no yeah right

06:13:51.500 so unless they want you know we have a compelled draft right um i didn't yeah sure yeah i didn't

06:13:58.220 okay so if men are compelled to that society where they don't want to okay right then you would have

06:14:05.260 to say that that's immoral right of course it is immoral okay so then if people attack the nation and

06:14:11.660 they want to like carry you off as uh i don't know booty let's say they want to carry you off as literal

06:14:17.500 treasure and then take you back to their home country and like uh i don't know essay you a 0.96

06:14:22.220 million times and cut off your head should men protect you from that protect myself okay off 0.99

06:14:27.180 myself before that you're gonna fucking i'll off myself before that happens let me ask you a question 1.00

06:14:31.820 okay let me ask you a question okay little miss gonna protect herself okay can you just walk me 0.99

06:14:36.860 through how you load a semi-automatic pistol i don't know how you're gonna protect yourself

06:14:43.020 do if i have to off myself to protect myself i will how do you people i'm not gonna expect

06:14:49.580 anyone to protect me unless they but then if that ever happens i rather off myself andrew your audio

06:14:55.180 is muted i'd rather off myself than like to have that happen and that's how i'm gonna protect myself

06:15:00.060 then i'm not gonna ask anybody who doesn't want to to do it if you know like that's what that's my

06:15:05.660 opinion andrew hello can you speak you got muted or something i don't know what happened

06:15:16.620 i i don't know if it's on our end

06:15:21.980 can you hear us andrew thumbs up if you can hear us yeah i can hear you now oh we can hear you okay

06:15:26.620 so can you just walk me through then uh gonna protect yourself how do you load a revolver

06:15:30.860 and you know you know you know i after this podcast i might just learn it but right now i

06:15:35.900 don't know do it now oh of course not but you know you know now that you think about it maybe

06:15:40.460 yourself maybe i just will yeah correct yeah maybe yeah correct yeah yeah so so let me just get this

06:15:49.340 right i just want to make sure i get your position right all right wait we gotta make it quick

06:15:53.100 hang on it's immoral for you to draft men that's bad but on the other hand i completely and totally

06:16:00.060 and reliant on male security for my existence but don't worry i can actually protect myself

06:16:05.420 but can't even load a firearm and that's not i have that right no is that right no it's not right

06:16:10.300 no that's not i think it's immoral to only are you gonna use karate are you gonna karate your way 0.99

06:16:15.340 out of you know maybe i'll learn that too fuck man honestly like you just i don't know what you're 0.99

06:16:22.140 trying to get at uh so going to teresa here teresa you said that women do not have equal rights to men 0.99

06:16:28.140 in the usa and that women are oppressed in the usa um what rights do men have that women don't

06:16:38.060 well the abortion thing for example like some states some women don't get to 1.00

06:16:46.380 have an abortion if they choose to what if you get raped you're you're forced to have the baby 0.82

06:16:49.820 try to use essay or grape if you can please um okay besides that is there anything else no that

06:16:58.220 was just the reason i circled it because it made me think of that okay um so and then amanda you also

06:17:05.020 said that women do not have equal rights to men in the usa uh why is that yeah that was the same because 1.00

06:17:10.940 of abortion rights and anything else besides abortion though or just abortion uh that was that's the main

06:17:17.180 thing yeah and then you said women are oppressed why are they oppressed or is it also abortion also 1.00

06:17:23.260 abortion okay so it's not clear to me at least when it comes to equal rights because the question

06:17:32.300 or the statement is women do not have equal rights to men in the united states men don't have any

06:17:38.060 reproductive rights so wouldn't actually just an outright complete abortion ban create equality between

06:17:46.380 men and women

06:18:04.220 so you're saying ban all abortions and then it's even that's well equal rights yeah so currently men have

06:18:13.580 no rights when it comes to reproduction so it's not clear to me if there's an inequality that exists

06:18:22.060 between men and women when it comes to abortion men can't uh men can't abort a woman's child they 0.65

06:18:31.420 can't prevent an abortion so for this reason it's not clear to me if it's an inequality of rights between

06:18:37.900 men and women you might you could say it's an exclusively female issue sort of you could say that i hear

06:18:45.420 what you're saying it's just not fair in my opinion well you guys all of you i i hope you all have a

06:18:53.020 wonderful evening i have to get out of here tonight it is my job to be a provocateur and make sure that i get

06:18:59.980 the other side of all of the arguments i hope you don't hold that against me because i do it really

06:19:06.220 well um but i did enjoy meeting all of you and i have conversations like this all over the world

06:19:11.980 brian we'll send a raid over thank you your way thanks for having us on this evening thank you andrew

06:19:17.740 hope you have a good night thank you for tuning in uh okay in the sources tab hide the discord

06:19:22.380 hide discord there and then we'll do it center zoom too hide it there

06:19:28.780 all right okay all right andrew has left the house here so you guys can just bully me i guess um

06:19:36.620 so but you said it's not fair i don't think it's fair

06:19:42.300 i think it's kind of unfair for some men who want to keep the baby and then they have an abortion anyways

06:19:50.380 like i think that there is some type of inequality in that um personal opinion or what about the man

06:19:56.620 who doesn't want the kid but the woman keeps it and she baby traps him and he's on the hook for child 0.66

06:20:00.540 support for yeah 18 to 21 years it's like it takes two to tango you know what do you mean like you

06:20:06.860 made a baby together so are you pro-choice or pro-life um i am pro i don't know like when i was younger i

06:20:15.260 got tricked by the feminists be like abortion everyone loves abortion and stuff but then 1.00

06:20:19.900 i've never had one i would never want to have one i think that people should have them if it makes

06:20:26.380 sense for them what does that mean like

06:20:31.980 okay here 19 year old girl gets pregnant she's not financially ready she doesn't want to have the 0.99

06:20:37.100 the kid uh can she get an abortion yes yeah if she if she wants to absolutely okay so you're pro-choice

06:20:45.820 um you're pro-choice okay categorically you're pro-choice there's no way around it why is it though you

06:20:51.340 say if a man knocks up a woman yeah and maybe she baby traps him she oh i'm on birth control i don't want

06:21:00.300 a kid she lies who or whatever she doesn't lie she accidentally gets pregnant he his intention 0.75

06:21:05.660 though was not to have a kid he doesn't want the responsibility he doesn't want to be a father he

06:21:10.700 doesn't want to pay child support for to him you say takes two to tango tough luck enjoy paying 0.92

06:21:18.140 getting financially fucked and paying child support for 18 20 years whatever it is why do you say that to 0.95

06:21:23.820 the man but there's no responsibility when it comes to the female component of this 1.00

06:21:30.220 no responsibility in terms what you it seems like you're a little more flexible if a woman gets 1.00

06:21:35.340 pregnant and you're like uh she's not financially ready okay go ahead get the abortion i just think 0.95

06:21:40.300 that people are going to do it anyways and it's like their karma and like everything has a wait what's

06:21:45.900 karma what yeah so like if some 19 year old wants to have an abortion like i think she should be able 1.00

06:21:51.740 to do what she wants to do okay should a 19 should a 19 year old man should 19 year old man who doesn't

06:21:58.620 want to have a kid should he be free of having to pay child support huh um no he should just wear a

06:22:06.540 condom i don't know oh okay so just to be clear to men keep your legs closed to women 0.99

06:22:12.060 fuck around and you can have an abortion no just have an iud what but you do realize there are unwanted 1.00

06:22:18.860 pregnancies yes okay but women can escape the responsibility men can't agreed yeah yeah that's 1.00

06:22:25.180 wrong that that's more unfair to me i think it is unfair i agree yeah it is it is unfair but why are 0.91

06:22:30.700 you prescriptive why are you saying okay tough luck man sucks to be you you should have thought about 0.99

06:22:36.860 that before having sex you should have kept your legs closed it's funny how pro-choice women all of a 1.00

06:22:42.780 sudden when the woman wants to keep the kid and then the guy doesn't want to be a father you 0.95

06:22:47.580 become bronze age pro-lifers and you're like shouldn't have done that should have kept your 0.59

06:22:52.460 legs closed why is that wait so is your like thing about like having abortions is because of males 0.95

06:23:01.340 don't want to have the kids basically they shouldn't have to pay child support and all that stuff is that

06:23:06.380 the main like that's no i mean i'm making a uh internal critique of her position so my my position

06:23:13.900 though in any state where abortion is uh is legal i think men should be able to escape 1.00

06:23:19.980 uh any parental responsibility and any child support responsibility you agree but it's never

06:23:24.860 gonna fucking happen yeah i agree but it'll never happen i think that's way better than like being 0.83

06:23:29.020 like you can't more that's way better like just like okay if she wants to have the kid and take 1.00

06:23:34.060 responsibility then the guy should there should be a thing where he doesn't have to pay child support

06:23:38.220 but then but there's no liberals there's nobody advocating for this it's not liberals who advocate

06:23:45.340 for it that would be fair though that would be equal but where are all these equal democrats and

06:23:50.300 liberals advocating for it's there's a specific term it's called legal paternal surrender so men can be

06:23:56.220 like yeah that's way safer than abortion then because right but abortion is legal in in left-leaning

06:24:02.220 government yeah they should they should definitely do that instead of like forcing people to abort you

06:24:06.460 know just like because because it is the girls like getting i'm just gonna say my my biological

06:24:12.860 dad left me and my mom didn't ask my biological dad for a penny he's never paid child support

06:24:17.340 not all women i know but i i get it some women they're not going to go after child support 0.99

06:24:22.380 but if they do there's nothing the man can do about it then yeah then yeah there should be

06:24:28.460 okay uh let's see here we're gonna do here we have a message coming through

06:24:33.500 uh is there anything else though like any right that a man has that a woman doesn't i can't think 0.99

06:24:39.740 of anything i think there's equal rights showing their nipples sure i actually agree with that um 0.99

06:24:45.340 i actually agree with that but i don't really think that that's uh so funny it's true yeah but i'm

06:24:54.140 looking for something with a bit more gravitas like you know that's not that's fair doesn't really seem

06:24:59.180 like the pressing issue you know uh we have hack the planet brian you're a legend for hosting the

06:25:04.460 show andrew this question is free oh sorry man he left um i just can't get behind the idea of a sky

06:25:09.820 daddy being real what should i read to change my mind through reason and logic uh so here's what you

06:25:15.260 here's what we can do what's a sky daddy god um if you send me a dm on instagram i'll save this

06:25:21.660 message for next time we have andrew on send me a message on instagram just copy and paste it that

06:25:26.620 message i'll ask him next time i don't want you to feel like we screwed you over but he did have to

06:25:31.180 leave before we could get to it super chats are 100 and up guys like the video demo cash app whatever

06:25:35.980 pod uh let's see daniel think for the 10 brandon think for the 10 vaquero think for the 10 appreciate

06:25:41.500 it guys uh let's see here okay i'm gonna blast through these i think we only should hopefully have

06:25:47.020 a few more uh so going to you you said minorities can't be racist towards white people

06:25:52.940 why is that i don't know i just i just don't think there's a need for any racism to be honest

06:25:58.780 sir there's what there's no need for it i just don't i think everyone has a heart in some aspects

06:26:04.380 of life and there's no need for more just stuff like that what do you mean i think it's just it's

06:26:11.020 just like yes so your question is uh minorities can't attack white people right is that is that was

06:26:16.940 that the no minorities can't be racist towards white so for example a black person can't be racist

06:26:22.460 towards yeah that's because i feel like just racism is just no go altogether regardless of

06:26:27.900 white black or something like that but so i'm i agree with you racism racism is bad yeah but can

06:26:36.060 white people experience racism of course they can can a minority be racist towards a white person i mean

06:26:44.220 they can but it's not right oh perhaps i maybe the wording here so um

06:26:53.260 so that it's minorities can't be racist towards white people yeah they can't i just feel like nobody

06:26:58.940 should be racist to anybody i i think what you're saying like like yeah it's wrong like they shouldn't

06:27:06.620 you know but he's saying like like can they yes or no yeah anybody can do anything but i think nobody's just

06:27:13.340 just leave things okay but because here you said that might that for example like a black person

06:27:20.300 can't be racist towards white people yeah i just wait so i'm yes or no yes they can't be racist wait so

06:27:29.420 they can't be racist i mean like towards yeah i think that um it's not good to for anybody to be

06:27:37.820 racist whether how do you define can't okay are you saying like like no can't as in like they should

06:27:45.580 it like i don't think it's it's i don't think they're like no it's not should it's can they can

06:27:51.900 they i mean yeah anybody can do anything i don't get it no i'm not saying

06:27:55.340 what he's saying what he's saying is at the majority uh that because of racists or different

06:28:07.100 races are supposedly the minority that um white people uh can't be um a racist are you that that's

06:28:19.260 not what i'm saying it's a yes or no question no look wait so i think by definition go ahead no you

06:28:28.380 go ahead go ahead it's about the question like by definition i think um i just i sorry go ahead

06:28:33.660 go ahead people of color can be prejudiced against like white people but i think by but racist because

06:28:41.500 racism is systematic and um there's not a whole system that oppresses white people the way that

06:28:48.460 there's a whole system that oppresses people of color so i think the way that you're wording it

06:28:52.940 can they be racist no because there's no systematic support but can they be prejudice yes if we're

06:28:59.820 talking about definitions i don't know that's what i think it's if she's not understanding the question

06:29:05.820 though and also i'm you didn't really indicate that on your own questionnaire but well i didn't

06:29:11.900 because i knew what you were doing with that but like what was i doing with it um

06:29:17.900 well i think the gotcha is like oh like you can't be like be racist i like like there's prejudices

06:29:24.140 this is like off language like what's the definition of racism what's the uh what's the definite what's

06:29:32.380 your definition of racism um like being discriminatory against somebody for the color of their race

06:29:38.780 or the color of their skin well you said there's a systemic but i i'm pretty sure based off of the

06:29:45.020 definition of racism that it has something to do with like systematic oppression and that's why you

06:29:50.460 have to be careful with the way that you're wording that well no mine mine would just be either like a

06:29:56.540 hatred or prejudice towards a racial group okay that's my definition but some people say there's a

06:30:02.700 different one yeah well the the different one that i hear from wokies is racism equals prejudice

06:30:08.620 plus power so for example under this definition white people cannot experience racism i disagree

06:30:16.220 with this definition can't experience racism from uh minorities blacks latinos asians because the

06:30:22.700 system doesn't support that that's where that comes from by the way kat thank you for the gifted

06:30:28.300 50 memberships appreciate it it's not popping up on my stream labs for some reason um but so

06:30:34.460 okay i'm just this is my sociology degree at work but is that your definition but it doesn't have to

06:30:40.380 be systemic to be like racism is not only systemic racism is how you interact with someone and there

06:30:46.060 can be a systemic component to it um but like it's being prejudiced against someone's race just like

06:30:53.340 sexism so by that definition anyone can be racist towards anyone because you know i i mean i didn't i

06:31:00.620 i feel like this is like a dicey question because i do think that like yeah anyone that's a different

06:31:05.020 color can have like racism against someone of another color but in definition i think it does play into

06:31:11.900 yeah but i mean if it depends if you attribute a definition for example uh amanda people named amanda are

06:31:18.540 racist that's not a definition no racism is people uh prejudice towards a racial group or

06:31:30.300 hatred towards a racial group and also anybody who's named amanda is also racist by that definition

06:31:36.460 you would be a racist right but that wouldn't be a definition that's such a weird hypothetical

06:31:43.580 that would never be a definition but we can okay so there's but the definition you're suggesting

06:31:50.620 racism equals prejudice plus power why why would we divert from the established and accepted

06:31:59.660 definition of racism which is just purely prejudice like racism itself has to do with power but

06:32:06.940 prejudice does not and i think that's the difference wait so you're saying racism has to do with power

06:32:13.020 well i want to know the definition of it because i don't know well there's different definitions

06:32:16.860 okay well i think the most the most historically accepted version of a definition of racism

06:32:24.140 is simply hatred or prejudice towards a racial group yeah and there's no component of power or

06:32:32.060 systemic power or oppression or anything like that okay then based off that then like yeah anybody can

06:32:37.820 be right but people are trying to change the definition to racism must in order for something to be

06:32:44.220 racist it must include a component of power what does google say huh what does google say yeah let's

06:32:49.740 look sure i'll google it uh definition of racism prejudice discrimination or antagonism by an individual

06:32:59.260 community or institution against a person or people on the basis of their membership in a particular

06:33:04.220 racial or ethnic group so that's racism and i've heard from like super uh this prejudice plus power

06:33:14.300 definition but anyways uh just gonna move it on then let's see if there's anything else here we have

06:33:22.860 men should pay for first dates why because if you're okay i feel like if a man is asking a girl 0.96

06:33:29.980 out and you're asking me out why aren't you gonna pay for the first date you're trying to take me out

06:33:36.460 like if i say someone hey girl like let's go out i'm gonna treat them you know it's just one of those

06:33:41.900 things okay um jade you said you would not date a police officer yeah just because like the domestic

06:33:51.820 violence statistics with that like just certain professions i just try to steer clear from stuff

06:33:57.260 like that okay like the trauma that they deal with and they bring it home it is what do you think about

06:34:01.980 men not wanting to date sex workers you think that's fair yeah i think that's fair okay because

06:34:06.380 everyone has their boundary like their sexual boundary sure they're you know all right going

06:34:10.940 here uh men should pay on first dates i feel like almost everybody said yes to this everybody said yes

06:34:18.700 men should pay for first dates wow even amanda here the liberal feminist you guys really just made all 1.00

06:34:25.740 that up made what up am i coming off as liberal feminist what are did you vote who did you vote for 0.98

06:34:31.500 i'm that's nobody's okay did you vote for trump that's nobody's business

06:34:40.060 uh okay why should men pay for first dates personally if they don't i don't respect them

06:34:47.340 you don't respect them no uh okay why should anybody on the same like token like if i'm really trying to

06:34:56.060 not go fast like i don't want them to pay for too much like paying for dinner okay but like getting

06:35:01.660 you a big gift or a big something like i don't like to accept that because i feel like it's just a

06:35:07.980 little too much teresa why should men pay for first dates same thing as jade said if if you're asking me 0.99

06:35:14.860 out on a date like and you're trying to take me out you should pay for it if i ask jade jade let's go to

06:35:21.820 dinner i'm gonna pay for it or i'm gonna get you a drink or whatever like yeah how many of all the

06:35:28.220 first dates you've ever been on how many of them were initiated by you i don't initiate first dates

06:35:34.780 isn't that convenient that's kind of convenient though uh men should pay because men ask me out i never ask 0.97

06:35:42.140 men out but but so like i would agree here i would agree with whoever asks should pay under the following

06:35:53.420 conditions if men and women asked each other out 50 50 percent of the time that would make sense to me

06:36:01.420 okay well sometimes women ask sometimes men ask but women don't ask men out

06:36:06.780 yeah i yes i agree with you 99 of the time they don't while we test this out uh of the two guys

06:36:16.460 you've dated did you ask like did you make the first move or did they i don't know because i don't just

06:36:21.500 date i have to like how did you meet them just friends just uh okay did they ask for your number

06:36:25.740 did you ask for theirs i didn't ask for anyone's number just mutuals meeting well i mean eventually

06:36:30.620 one of you got each other you got his number we didn't ask for a date we kind of like oh sorry

06:36:36.300 we didn't i didn't ask i would say i was the one who like initiated relationship i told him like not

06:36:42.620 the relationship oh the dating dating is the relationship to me well are you the first date

06:36:47.100 are you in a relationship no okay or no i never just go on dates i have friendships and then if i trust i

06:36:55.180 and if friendship going out okay that's i pay for my meal he pays for his i didn't my boyfriend

06:37:01.420 didn't pay for my meal unless until we were like official official and when we were official official

06:37:05.980 okay okay okay okay but so who initiated somebody has to typically initiate typically

06:37:15.260 i would say i was the one who initiated um relationship like dating dating and then we were

06:37:21.660 official and then when we were official of course he would like pay for me because he and i'm in that

06:37:27.500 because i don't let people pay for me i'm like a you know i don't like to owe people things unless

06:37:31.820 we have a solid relationship you know so we were officially dating boyfriend girlfriend and yeah by

06:37:38.540 that standard he's already like taking care of me to an extent what about you of the guys you've dated

06:37:44.380 did you ask them out or did they ask you out um i've never asked um a guy out on the first date

06:37:50.620 um and they've always paid for me okay guys always paid all right what about you oh well you said

06:37:56.700 you've never asked a guy out i i asked my homeboys to go out no no i'm saying like first date first yeah

06:38:02.780 no yeah never holly this one just happened i i didn't even realize i was asking him out uh i said

06:38:13.420 because of the circumstance that he had cancer i said you know what we should go out and just celebrate

06:38:19.260 the season but you said you're a season dater of all the first dates you've ever been on uh

06:38:24.780 nine ninety percent of the time the guy asked you out 100 of the time he was the one who asked you

06:38:29.340 out what what's the breakdown i'm just talking about this last instance because i don't i don't

06:38:35.260 i don't ask men out yeah no that's what i'm looking i'm just saying but he thought that i asked him

06:38:41.340 out because he sat there at dinner going telling everybody she asked me out she asked me out and i looked

06:38:46.460 at him but like if you just look at all the men you've you've dated whatever over the majority of

06:38:52.540 the time overwhelmingly they ask you out correct okay yeah every single time almost i'm that was

06:38:58.300 the only for instance that happened that i i said we should go do something i wasn't even looking at

06:39:04.060 it as a date okay what about you yes yes what oh sorry yes they've asked me out or they've been

06:39:10.060 the one to ask me out you've never asked a guy out ever paid for a first date no okay what about you

06:39:15.420 i've never asked a guy out on a first date never never asked a guy out or never you've never paid

06:39:19.740 on the first date no okay what about you um i asked many times guys to go out and they asked me too

06:39:26.380 and i also pay the first date i think it's 50 50 all the time even when you already have a family or

06:39:32.380 something serious so i think it's i i was the only one who didn't mark that one i think okay oh were you

06:39:38.460 maybe yeah i didn't oh wow man doesn't pay for me the first no you did oh no sorry you're right you're

06:39:43.820 right i got i got my numbers mixed up uh but i'm what's the re why should men pay why because they're

06:39:50.780 the pursuers they're the ones that are doing the chivalry there's the one they're the ones trying to

06:39:57.180 win your heart they're the ones that give the ring and say want to get married yeah but so just

06:40:02.780 show of hands from all the women should men pay for first dates 0.98

06:40:10.460 yes yes yes yes yes yes yes only one here

06:40:15.980 but you answered why why should men pay for first dates just quick answer why oh oh no i was just

06:40:22.780 curious what you thought i'll weigh in but i just want to get your answers first why should men pay

06:40:27.020 oh i just said if they're the one they're the one pursuing then yeah they asked her but like

06:40:32.700 chivalry being traditional okay yeah why should men pay i love being submissive and i like like

06:40:39.180 dominant men so i think guys that take care of you financially are very dominant and manly okay what

06:40:45.980 about you into the chivalry oh chivalry traditional yeah chivalry traditional okay yeah tradition

06:40:52.780 tradition i want my man to take the lead yeah to take the lead on things take the lead chivalry

06:40:59.020 traditional the point that i wanted to make really quick is even though he was saying that i asked him

06:41:05.580 out he's the one that paid so even if you did he paid um so here's my confusion i heard tradition

06:41:15.100 chivalry nice thing to do want him to take the lead why is it okay like do you guys think it's sexist

06:41:21.980 to say this that men should pay for dates i would say yeah but oh yes it is yeah like

06:41:28.460 i intrusively think these things i'm like damn like that's that was pretty sexist i think to say

06:41:32.860 should is like putting rules on things and it's like just like should is like anyone could do 0.79

06:41:37.260 whatever they want but do i prefer that yes yeah but that's a should do whatever you want that is

06:41:41.900 do i prefer that yes i'm not putting rules on society but baked into that is a should

06:41:48.780 it's a should my expectation of the person that i'm dating is that yes

06:41:53.420 right but what somebody else does is their business yeah sure that's totally fine we can

06:41:57.580 acknowledge that there are women out there who are fine paying 50 50 on a first date don't dispute it 1.00

06:42:02.780 at all but baked into it is a should so then but y'all don't really like it when we start saying

06:42:08.860 women should do x really women women should be women should dress modestly i agree to in certain you 1.00

06:42:16.940 don't agree i just think that there's but hold on so she was talking you're talking about chivalry and

06:42:22.140 tradition you had when muhammad ali was saying women should not uh should dress modestly basically

06:42:29.900 you had a really big reaction to that he was saying women should

06:42:34.060 dress this way they shouldn't have all their parts out you had a bit you said that's controlling

06:42:39.660 insecure but so then why should i guess why is it okay for women to say men should do this men

06:42:49.020 should do the xyz it's just not everyone just has preferences it's just i'm i haven't asked a guy

06:42:55.660 on the first date if you're asking me out like take me out then pay for it because you're the one

06:43:00.860 asking me you don't ask though if there's a if there's a dynamic in the world where women just 1.00

06:43:07.260 refuse to ask men which is the case women don't ask men you're in a very privileged position you can 0.96

06:43:13.820 just pick among the men who choose you who well it's not that they choose you they make themselves

06:43:19.420 available to be picked so it's kind of like to me it's just very confusing i think it's just some

06:43:28.060 things are just how it works just nothing prevent is anything prevent any of you from sliding into a

06:43:33.180 guy's dm who you like anything preventing you from going up to a man being like hey i think you're

06:43:38.460 attractive you want to go out sometime attractive i don't think i've ever just i've been minding my own

06:43:43.020 business working doing me and if love comes my way it comes my way type i don't really go pursue

06:43:47.900 things because it's just not what i want i think men but they want to pursue love you got to

06:43:52.300 want to pursue love and they will ask guys out but you got to understand you say well oh it's just

06:43:57.100 you know if men you want your dates paid for just wait until the girl asks you oh no men can't wait 0.99

06:44:03.100 like if if men did what y'all did which is just the thing is like we have multiple we have multiple

06:44:09.420 women here who are in their 30s who have never even asked a guy out they've always been asked out

06:44:15.180 that's a that's a long time to have that amount of experience and never once thought

06:44:19.580 hmm the thing that men have to do all the time the burden that men have all the time maybe i could

06:44:25.420 do that once yeah but it's but never but i won't it's because men are men are hunters we would

06:44:32.140 okay so what are women if we just show up you know and and like if it's so easy you guys lose 0.94

06:44:38.380 interest and that also is just like no it's not true it's not true but i also do believe that the

06:44:43.740 way a relationship starts is how it continues and if i was initiating something with someone

06:44:49.340 then that's going to be how the relationship continues and i don't want that uh you don't

06:44:53.900 want that no okay so go ahead um i will say this like once i've fallen for someone i'm happy to take

06:45:02.940 them out on a nice date and plan something oh yeah sure when women are well established into the 1.00

06:45:07.500 relationship and the guy's already paid for the first few dates i don't dispute that women open up 1.00

06:45:12.700 a little bit and they'll you know maybe they'll take the guy out yeah i'm talking about initially

06:45:18.300 what do women do during what do women do during the initial stages to move things forward they flirt what 1.00

06:45:28.780 do women do during the initial stages to move things forward i get to know what do you want us 1.00

06:45:35.900 to do like you don't do anything y'all do y'all y'all don't we provide emotional support we like

06:45:42.540 really on the first date yes men look good when you're on a date with a good looking woman yeah you 0.89

06:45:47.660 guys give a fuck about your friends think of you yes you don't yes you do no we don't let me ask you 0.98

06:45:53.180 a question if you could be dealing you're dealing with a guy do you think he'd rather go out to dinner 1.00

06:45:58.460 with you or just have you come over immediately and fuck if we're dating it depends on the situation 0.97

06:46:04.220 you you meet the guy and he's like do you think he'd rather go out on a nice date with you 0.99

06:46:10.460 and be seen and oh my god all these other people that i'll never see again they see me with this hot 0.93

06:46:16.860 chick or would they prefer for you to just come over nobody sees it and then you have sex with him 1.00

06:46:22.380 if he just wants to have sex then it's gonna just be that but not necessarily he could want a 0.99

06:46:27.660 relationship relationship then he's going to want to go through that process to get to know

06:46:31.740 someone no not really it depends on what they want yeah what's up um i mean i think i disagree

06:46:38.860 with your opinion because like i said like when we first started like that guy from dubai like he

06:46:45.900 paid me seven grand to just like make an appearance and i think that that's different though how is

06:46:52.780 that difference he wanted to be seen those i mean when you're dealing with that level of wealth uh

06:46:59.820 that's not like genuine uh that's not genuine dating dynamics and it wasn't a date like you

06:47:06.860 literally just wanted to go to the club with me yeah that's something entirely different oh okay that's

06:47:13.900 something entirely different and some men enjoy the company of women 0.88

06:47:17.180 like enjoy having a conversation with us and like getting to know there are men who enjoy that 0.80

06:47:24.300 like to say like oh just come over and have sex it's like yeah that's part of it but like

06:47:28.300 i know men that want to go slower in that sense because they enjoy getting to know women so it just

06:47:32.940 depends on who it is yeah that's true but this idea that men want to go on a date with you so that

06:47:39.020 they can be seen with you yes that's not that's not maybe that's how y'all y'all think i think they

06:47:45.580 like the comparison like if someone's masculine and you're with someone who's feminine and like

06:47:49.420 you dress nice and like like like the like the the way it complements a man's masculinity there are 0.96

06:47:54.860 many i don't give a fuck hold on i don't give a fuck what some strangers who i'm never gonna see again 0.99

06:48:02.860 think about me oh i'm at some fucking restaurant there's a bunch of other people at the restaurant 0.99

06:48:07.180 and they may first off they don't give a fuck about who i'm on it they don't care like have you 0.99

06:48:12.380 ever been to a restaurant and you're like wow i'm really invested in that person sitting all the way

06:48:16.380 over there and they're really has that ever crossed your mind there's couples that don't catch your eye

06:48:22.300 and you feel like they look nice okay sure you could acknowledge that somebody is good looking or

06:48:25.500 attractive but are you particularly invested in that other person so why is a per i don't care what

06:48:32.060 other people think they don't care they don't care about me either why should i care

06:48:37.180 there are people there are men who care yeah that's weird do you want to date or not want

06:48:41.740 to date huh why do you go on a date or do you just not want to go on your last date i feel like at the

06:48:50.060 end of the day people are just trying to get laid and everyone has different standards of what they

06:48:54.460 would like before they get laid sure but again i'm just confused okay look you said chivalry

06:49:01.020 should should women dress modestly if they can just however they want okay so men shouldn't pay 0.99

06:49:11.100 for first dates but i kind of just want to know and you should go 50 50 on all the rest of your first

06:49:15.900 dates you should insist no no i want to pay for this and not just an empty gesture you should insist

06:49:22.700 that you have 50 50 sure you like it i love it yeah but you're not going to do it you're not going to do

06:49:28.860 it what's up oh i'm just curious like when you take girls out on a date is it like you are you guys

06:49:34.220 get to know each other first already or is it like a stranger on a date and do you like want to pay or

06:49:39.580 do you not want to pay like how do you yeah sure i mean i've had different periods of my life i don't

06:49:44.220 think right my this specific period right now would be a good example but uh like perhaps prior to when i

06:49:49.820 started this podcast and i was meeting people on dating apps or meeting people organically um

06:49:57.180 i would uh it was yeah i think a guy knows like you would probably know right when like oh i'm not

06:50:03.340 i'm not a great example though because my previous so now if i'm dating a girl i'm paying why is that

06:50:09.340 it's just the one it's the most optimal thing and it's just but like that's the dynamic because men with

06:50:13.900 money don't worry about these things but it's just like if you don't like a girl but but before 0.97

06:50:18.780 but before i had a principle where i was like okay i'm meeting these girls on dating apps 0.95

06:50:25.020 i'll know who they're dealing with so my new standard is i'm only going to be extending this

06:50:32.380 if she's only dealing with me yeah i'm not paying a first date for a girl who's got a sneaky link and 0.99

06:50:39.260 she's talking to 10 different dudes but i've been for example i was on a date this was a couple years

06:50:45.100 ago date with this girl met her on a dating app she tells me on the date i'm i'm i got five dates 0.94

06:50:51.580 planned yeah then you know like okay i mean why the fuck am i gonna pay for a girl that's dealing with 1.00

06:50:57.260 other dudes and other dudes yeah it's a wrap i don't want to deal with women who are dealing with 1.00

06:51:02.380 other men if i know that you're just dealing with me yeah then i'll then i'm prepared to step into

06:51:07.980 my world but you want to right but i don't even want to i don't want to date i don't want anything

06:51:12.300 to do like i you guys might think i'm crazy she could be the hottest girl ever yeah you guys might

06:51:17.580 call me crazy she could be the hottest girl ever if she's sexually involved with another man i don't 1.00

06:51:22.700 want i don't want anything she can be begging to have sex with me that's not she could be begging 1.00

06:51:27.260 to have sex with me the hottest girl in the world if she fucked a guy last night don't want 1.00

06:51:31.340 anything to do with her that's valid you have self-respect for yourself don't want anything i 0.99

06:51:36.060 I want even a guy has a choice is the thing like if you don't have to pay of course maybe a girl 1.00

06:51:40.980 would be like oh my god you have to pay but you know the conversation the flow whether or not

06:51:45.480 you're going to pay for a woman based on how she's acting and who she is you don't have to pay 1.00

06:51:50.560 sure but then you get to decline but it's just if you genuinely like a girl you would want to pay

06:51:54.920 that's just a gesture for you right yeah sure just because that's that's all because if guys

06:51:59.920 are paying for girls that are doing that it's like yeah I think it's the most optimum thing 1.00

06:52:05.360 for men to do yeah but if we're having a conversation if we're just like looking at it

06:52:10.100 with a bird's eye view yes um women aren't traditional women don't uphold any of their 1.00

06:52:17.600 own duties when it comes to chivalry so we're not expecting women to be chivalrous towards us 0.99

06:52:23.020 but should you have a low body count should you dress modestly should you be traditional yes so

06:52:30.080 y'all are modern women but you want men to be traditional we have a sex worker here she says 0.97

06:52:36.140 she wants guys she's submissive that's great cook clean whatever really like the label sex worker 1.00

06:52:41.440 that makes me sound like a prostitute which I do not think I am only fans girls are sex workers 1.00

06:52:45.940 I mean I'm not saying I'm not saying that you're on the street offering up pussy for $50 to me like 1.00

06:52:52.000 sex worker is really vulgar but it is within the umbrella of sex work I'm not calling you a 1.00

06:52:58.240 prostitute I'm calling you a sex worker okay well your other guy called me a prostitute well he has 1.00

06:53:03.400 a different position on this um but look how just one thing how can it be like y'all want men to be 1.00

06:53:12.960 traditional where are the traditional women but you are dating the women who don't have I'm not asking 1.00

06:53:18.460 where there are church they're at um at charlie kirk meetings I'm talking there's a thousand classy

06:53:26.960 younger women no no no no hold on I'm not literally it was a it was a rhetorical question

06:53:32.980 I'm not literally asking where are they geographically located I'm saying you have

06:53:38.480 liberal the most liberal progressive feminist women who still demand at men act traditionally

06:53:47.080 pay for dates do all this stuff and y'all are modern women why should men be traditional

06:53:53.340 when y'all are modern explain it um I would say I'm pretty traditional and therefore sure but what

06:53:59.740 about her so she's posting thirst traps on instagram she dresses revealing okay I'm not going to make a

06:54:04.420 criticism of that okay but it is what it is that is not traditional yeah and it's not traditional

06:54:09.480 then why should you demand traditional treatment from men um I mean she maybe she doesn't demand it 1.00

06:54:15.400 but look that she just has men who want to do that for her she manifests it so we're not asking like

06:54:21.400 men to do it but it's just like you know if she likes that's just like how so I agree with you

06:54:26.600 that women because men do what works and so paying for your meal that's better than going 50 50 like 1.00

06:54:33.740 that's just optically better I agree with you that men still do this shit men will still be traditional 0.99

06:54:39.600 because women respond to it and women still want it despite all the feminist programming that all of 1.00

06:54:46.140 y'all have received all the feminism all the liberalism all all of modernity you want to live

06:54:51.720 your you want to be the most modern women possible but you still because it's in it's the natural order 1.00

06:54:59.560 of things you like men to be traditional you like it you respond to it even on an intellectual level 0.99

06:55:05.560 you're like nah I don't care about that shit if a guy pays if a guy's a leader if a guy's assertive 0.97

06:55:10.280 if he's a lead all these all these positive traditional masculine characteristics you still 0.99

06:55:15.260 want it but you're not holding up your end of the bargain now you still get it because men are pressed 1.00

06:55:20.100 for pussy men still want to fuck you but when it comes to commitment and relationship like relationship 1.00

06:55:26.440 long-term commitment men start to like just keep you around for sex yeah and I agree that women 1.00

06:55:32.460 should if they want those things then they should be but what they but I know I get men still give it to 0.67

06:55:39.200 you you could be look we've had literal prostitutes on the show they're like I want men to pay and 1.00

06:55:43.940 they still do a reason like you select people with only fans you select hold on wait wait raise your

06:55:49.200 hand if you have only fans here oh yeah of course not but you still raise your hand if you have only

06:55:52.440 fans here so one two three four five six seven women who don't have only fans we got only one so 1.00

06:55:59.260 how would it be me selecting the majority of our guests don't have only fans yeah that's valid but

06:56:03.840 I'm just saying like you do select a couple just to have them on and then you guys do like to talk

06:56:08.700 about it and you that was one of the first conversations make an actual argument though

06:56:13.620 what is it it's not an argument it's just like just an observation it is something easy to talk

06:56:17.420 about and easy and something that should be talked about because it's no but well she if she's in the

06:56:22.080 minority of the group of us that's here for what she does for work and this example that you're giving

06:56:27.180 is using someone who is an only fans then like that kind of goes against what it is you're trying

06:56:32.180 to do anyway well so I'll address that let me address that so categorically that's not what

06:56:38.460 I'm doing at all I'm just pointing to the most obvious I think the one of the least traditional 0.93

06:56:44.260 things a woman could do is sex work if you're a prostitute and you want to go marry some super 1.00

06:56:50.760 trad guy maybe you get it maybe you don't I don't think that's a fair deal though but my greater point 0.96

06:56:57.920 is is that and by the way the criticisms if you miss some of them it's not just women who do only 0.99

06:57:04.460 fans and I acknowledge there's only one woman who does only fans here it was she dresses revealing 1.00

06:57:09.200 is anybody here a virgin

06:57:10.700 no so it's like when how about this should women be virgins I was a virgin for a long time

06:57:23.420 I held the record I had friends sleeping around in junior high truly

06:57:29.860 uh yeah I know that that that happens I think it's better than sleeping around unless you like

06:57:36.680 you really like somebody and like love them but it's just you know everyone's just different you

06:57:41.320 got like so much things on the internet influencing young people who are easily influenced like I don't

06:57:46.820 I don't know how you got into only fans and you want to quit but you see the money like you think

06:57:51.460 it's easy like it's just um I really want I'm sorry go ahead I really wanted to say that you know

06:57:57.980 you're kind of saying like you can be either traditional or um modern and I think that you

06:58:05.040 can do both I mean like traditional it's like all of us should be virgins because we're not married so

06:58:12.700 it's like you guys are all modern in a sense maybe you have like I think it's a mixture because I'm

06:58:19.180 not fully like modern I definitely have like I um I don't know no so look I'll agree with you there

06:58:28.100 so I don't think it's a it's 100 black or white when it comes to being traditional uh so like I'm not

06:58:35.740 a hundred percent all the way on the traditional side myself right but I think it's more so to do

06:58:42.240 with women's entitlement and expectations of men's behavior so you want your cake and to eat it too 0.99

06:58:49.360 it's like you dress revealing promiscuous involved in sex work you are boss babes career oriented 0.98

06:59:01.640 all these things but you you you want men to uphold to their traditional gender roles so it'd be fair 0.96

06:59:11.380 to me if it's like okay a woman she's just modern woman she's like yeah the guy can just not really 0.93

06:59:15.580 lead me and we can be 50 50 on decisions and in the relationship and I'll pick where to have lunch

06:59:20.700 and we'll split the bills 50 50 exactly isn't that like a very modern take

06:59:27.360 well what I'm saying is if you're if you're a woman like it's just weird you you guys want to 0.70

06:59:35.820 make demands of men be traditional be a leader take initiative I never made any demands on men

06:59:41.500 I just attract like guys that want to pay for me and the only thing that I said the whole podcast that

06:59:48.320 was a demand of a man was if you ask me on a date that you should pay so

06:59:54.340 I don't make demands on men okay so if you're on a date with a guy and he the check comes the waiter

07:00:02.620 comes with the check he says two two checks is there gonna be a second date um yeah it possibly

07:00:09.580 could I would definitely not cut him off just because he did that I wouldn't I have enough money

07:00:15.280 to pay for it and if I really like him I totally would go on another date I just never experienced

07:00:21.120 that but it would not be okay like it sure yeah so look many of you women you've just completely 1.00

07:00:28.760 forsaken abandoned and cast aside any and all of your traditional gender roles yet with the with

07:00:37.060 quite a bit of entitlement you expect men to adhere to our traditional gender roles

07:00:41.580 if men are to be chivalrous what are women to be or to do

07:00:48.360 one man at a time yeah okay I mean isn't that what it is it's all about but but what do men get

07:01:00.660 well what do men get in return for being chivalrous aren't you starting to build a foundation on a

07:01:07.600 relationship when you go out I don't know a woman that wants to spend time with the man that she's 0.99

07:01:14.220 not interested in and you'll you'll find that out within the first day and I also think that if you

07:01:22.260 get to know somebody over the phone or whatever first you can you can eliminate 90 percent of your

07:01:30.440 compatibility to even see if you want to go to lunch yeah but that's not really addressing my

07:01:37.520 argument what do men get for being chivalrous they get a feminine energy yeah okay but how about 1.00

07:01:45.960 can a man be a loving and caring partner without being chivalrous no because he's the leader of

07:01:51.240 the relationship he's the one that asked to get married sure but what about you I don't I don't think

07:01:56.620 so so men need to do xyz on top of all these sort of mutual expectations so I'm sure like we don't

07:02:06.400 have to do it like we should want to do it okay women should want to be modest virgins that cook 1.00

07:02:13.880 and clean and are submissive and defer to men's leadership and you'll find them but there are

07:02:22.680 women that are like hold on but should women be okay let me ask you should men be leaders 1.00

07:02:26.980 show of hands yes men should be leaders yes okay should women be followers if they don't lead 0.91

07:02:35.560 wait hold on hold on men should be leaders women should be followers so to you my question is if

07:02:44.360 you're in a relationship with a guy and he says I don't like how you're dressing I love you babe but I

07:02:49.740 don't like how you dress I want you to change I want to stay with you but I need you to stop

07:02:55.240 posting these photos on Instagram I want you to dress more modestly you don't gotta wear a burka 1.00

07:03:00.380 but maybe you know don't dress like that if I'm in a committed relationship I've been in that

07:03:05.800 situation and I've that's happened so yeah well the guy said it but did you change I did it's just

07:03:12.400 the right guy like obviously did you argue with him for like three months about it no I didn't argue

07:03:17.840 so instantly you're just like you know what babe it's just respect for your partner I didn't say

07:03:22.460 that you're right I said I may not agree but if it makes you feel respected I'll do it

07:03:28.120 I don't think it's like that big of a deal or like it doesn't change you as a person if like

07:03:33.460 you have clothes on or like less clothes it's not that big of a difference of like who you are

07:03:39.020 and like I said like you said like um I've been in this situation before I did OnlyFans where a guy

07:03:44.800 did not want me to dress um like provocative or post online and I didn't and I didn't have a

07:03:51.940 problem with that I had a guy that wanted me to just wear dresses I couldn't wear pants and I did

07:03:57.780 it and you know what it was fun uh it's 12 o'clock yeah well we're gonna try to get this I'm pretty

07:04:05.800 much almost hopefully almost wrapped up I'm done with the questionnaire there's a few more notes

07:04:09.880 and then we'll get this all wrapped up here uh I think I'm I mean do you think women should be 0.97

07:04:16.600 submissive they want a traditional man they want to okay yeah it's like if they want to they want a

07:04:22.880 traditional man like you said it's a vice versa if you want a traditional man you pretty much you're

07:04:26.620 oh if you want a submissive man pretty much you're probably a submissive well you know what's

07:04:30.660 interesting on this is that so women were submissive to their husbands but all of you have 0.57

07:04:36.160 essentially traded that to be submissive to an employer well yeah I have to work yeah no one

07:04:40.760 yeah but I think an employer is going to ask way more of you I agree than your husband yeah like

07:04:48.080 I work because I need money to and I'm not going to expect a man to like do it for me unless like

07:04:54.020 I'm married to them and stuff so are you mind just not going to work like what exactly I think we

07:04:58.940 need to play the bow video Mary can you play the bow video it's one of the tabs it's one of the

07:05:02.920 earlier tabs it's the the Asian woman who bows it's my ex-girlfriend it's it's in you have it

07:05:11.300 we're gonna end for that we'll just do window tab we don't need to do video on it you have it

07:05:16.820 all right hold on let me hide this so this is actually your ex-girlfriend this is my ex-girlfriend

07:05:22.080 yeah um all right go ahead play it uh boom so this is my expectation she has to greet me with a bow 0.99

07:05:29.760 at the when I get home disrespectful you just threw that oh you know no that's okay this is just like

07:05:35.900 you gotta watch the rest though you missed the other thing that I threw so I just got home from

07:05:40.820 a like a long day of podcasting and you know it was rough she's just here beer ready to go meal ready

07:05:48.040 to go the the tomatoes are just were disgusting though I had to scold her just just tomatoes just like 1.00

07:05:54.080 that and then play it one more time play just the bow you did not date this person boom did you see 0.99

07:06:03.280 the fucking bow that's that's my expectation I think so when I get home to my spot yeah I need a girl 1.00

07:06:10.400 and she can be white it's not just an Asian thing like she could be Latina she could be black 1.00

07:06:14.740 would you bow to your man would you do that yeah I do that okay I don't do it that's kind of racist

07:06:22.100 what do you mean never mind I just I mean I do things I wait for him at the door I mean when I

07:06:26.860 wasn't working a lot and I had all the time in the world I cooked all the time for him and it's

07:06:31.460 generally things I like to do I wait for him when he gets home and he's all and he gets happy and

07:06:35.520 that makes me happy you know what I mean would you bow yeah yeah I would love to okay yeah I mean

07:06:41.660 really it's just a gesture I'm not gonna like be on my knees but like you know okay why not um okay

07:06:47.400 yeah I would would you hit a bow I'm into humor I think it'd be hysterical yeah my man honestly

07:06:53.220 does it too okay what about you I don't bow but I do kiss him when he comes home yeah like just but

07:06:57.820 if he wanted to bow would you do it that'd be kind of weird because he's Korean you know 1.00

07:07:02.020 translate very well I feel would you hit a bow no no why not no you don't think it's like funny

07:07:09.640 into the mic into the mic it's funny no I'm not doing that why not because I'm not doing that

07:07:13.920 that's like humiliating why is it why is that humiliating because why would you want me to do

07:07:17.860 that respect it shows respect so many other things that I could do for you you want me to bow

07:07:24.000 yeah he wants you to do that how's it disrespectful well he like does wait let me ask you a question

07:07:28.920 let me ask you a question um you know that whole this is a chivalry thing do you want the man to walk

07:07:33.800 on the uh closer to the street when you walk outside yeah so you walk closer to the I walk on the

07:07:40.260 I always get confused inside outside what is it but you want him to walk closer to where the cars

07:07:44.940 are the outside why explain it to me to protect me in case of what we get attacked attacked why

07:07:53.400 would you being like an assailant or a car or something okay so but the car could be you're

07:07:58.760 not being attacked but the car the driver loses control he's closer to it he can do what react

07:08:05.280 but he can take the hit from the car while saving you protecting you yeah wow so just to be clear

07:08:12.440 and wait show of hands the other women do you want as a act of chivalry a show of chivalry for 1.00

07:08:19.620 the guy to walk closer to the where the cars are uh on the sidewalk when you're walking with him

07:08:25.020 i don't expect it but it's nice when people do it right yeah but you do realize the entailment of

07:08:33.060 this is essentially saying i want a guy and would you want on the first date a guy to do that yeah

07:08:38.740 for sure okay so the entailment here is you want a guy to literally die for you you want men to die

07:08:46.260 for you but you won't do a completely benign you're so effortless how's it extreme how's it

07:08:52.980 extreme no no you're the extreme one you're the extreme one the being on the like the probability

07:08:58.300 that like something like that is actually going to happen like let's get real it's because if we

07:09:03.020 go back to tradition and stuff and you want to feel safe around someone and also i was raised by my

07:09:07.580 dad and he used to open the door for me all the time and i have brothers and i don't take out the 0.59

07:09:11.540 trash and there's certain shit i don't do as a woman and it just is what it is but this is what i'm 0.86

07:09:15.800 getting to and that doesn't have to be the case for everybody else but i grew up with a strong 0.98

07:09:20.100 male presence and they do things for me because i'm a woman and i like it what do men get

07:09:27.420 they get kisses after doing what do men get out of this arrangement don't you like feeling useful

07:09:35.360 what do yes what do men get from women they get love nurture our attention men get so much

07:09:43.320 power from being around women but what do you do what do women do what do women do why you need 1.00

07:09:50.580 to get something in return why you don't need why you can't you just give yourself why can't women 1.00

07:09:55.280 just give themselves why do you need men to pay for first dates why do you need men to be 0.95

07:09:58.220 protectors why do you need men to be provided why can't you just be happy with a 5'4 guy who lives 0.97

07:10:03.800 in his mom's basement and eats doritos all day that's cool why can't i can chill what i you guys

07:10:12.080 what do men get out of the arrangement love a safe space they give that back to you no but they get

07:10:19.940 what they want like they're in a relationship for a reason they can leave if they don't want to be

07:10:23.500 there you know sure i know but i'm analyzing this from a bird's eye view yeah but privilege is

07:10:29.200 invisible to those who have it so in this case what do men get if they have to sacrifice potentially

07:10:37.120 sacrifice their life for you well i'm giving what do men i'm spending really so have do you have any

07:10:43.260 kids if he's ready i don't get this argument well women one day down the road potentially will have 1.00

07:10:48.860 children how many of no woman here has any children you guys have collectively probably dealt

07:10:55.680 with hundreds of men in total maybe you didn't sleep with all of them children you've dated

07:11:00.240 hundreds of men you haven't produced one child you received the benefits of male providing and

07:11:07.160 male protection none of you have given a single man a child so this idea that well one day the women 1.00

07:11:13.140 will get okay i've dated women no is that like obviously you're gonna have a children down the line

07:11:18.760 but it's just are you guys ready for it yeah but this idea okay look this idea that men should pay for

07:11:23.100 first dates men should do chivalry men should do tradition because women have children uh not 1.00

07:11:28.260 you dated all these men who did the providing and paying for dates you didn't give them a child

07:11:33.060 so this idea that men should pay for first dates because child you didn't give the man a child

07:11:39.040 but you're so we didn't receive the benefit i doubt most men are ready for children like that right

07:11:44.520 away you give them sure yeah like you said you're not having a you didn't have a child with your

07:11:48.380 wife right i mean not wife your girlfriend but you got all the other benefits you came home and 0.97

07:11:51.980 you're tired she cooked for you she waited for you she gave you that apartment i took that was 1.00

07:11:56.940 all me yeah but that was all that's why you deserve a girl i took care of it and you got a 1.00

07:12:01.440 traditional woman because you were did the traditional i had to dump her because she had 1.00

07:12:05.220 fake titties but that's another conversation that's like so irrelevant right now i don't really like 0.99

07:12:09.300 that's the point like you i like you i like natural women okay natural body supremacist 1.00

07:12:15.080 we're talking about the roles right now you had you provided you did what you did what do men get

07:12:20.800 did you not get what you wanted out of her of your that was more traditional dynamic that's exactly

07:12:26.740 that was a traditional dynamic that's because she gave me the bow she doesn't want to do the bow 0.99

07:12:31.580 i'm arguing with her i'm arguing you won't do that you got what you want out of your girlfriend

07:12:39.800 and that's because you provided what you needed she could have done more by the way okay then you

07:12:44.560 could have discussed her you could have discussed that with her that she could have done more you

07:12:47.640 could have done that with her i just kind of want i'm just saying a man who does what he does will

07:12:52.300 get a woman who does otherwise men who seek women who can't do it for them then leave but don't 0.78

07:12:57.880 you realize how ridiculous it is for her to say i want a man to all of y'all to say i want a man to 0.86

07:13:03.080 walk closer to the street in case hold on in case let me finish in case a car comes tumbling barreling 0.91

07:13:09.400 towards me so that the man dies and the woman survives because men are that's not drama that's

07:13:14.720 what you said i would push my man out of the way also walking on the outside is like just like okay

07:13:20.620 we're gonna walk anyway right so let's say you'd pick that one but like i want her to walk 1.00

07:13:25.200 i want the woman the woman should walk closer to the cars so that i'm protected okay that's what 1.00

07:13:31.700 you want man she should die and also with the bullet i think a woman should take the bullet instead of 1.00

07:13:36.360 me okay then you will find a woman you're gonna find your dream girl i believe in you the woman 1.00

07:13:41.200 should take the bullet okay she's out there she's gonna take bullets for you the point is if you want 1.00

07:13:47.200 a woman to do those things you'll be that man yes sigma male grind okay but do you not agree 0.99

07:13:53.700 that you got what you want can you not stroke the crystal please it's very stops i'm moving

07:13:58.360 out of here okay you are getting sidetracked you molested my crystal i want you to apologize 0.95

07:14:05.940 look look that crystal deep in the eyes i am not can you please just answer apologize to the crystal

07:14:11.620 no you want to apologize to becky you got out you got apologize to becky becky no that's the

07:14:16.720 name of the crystal i'm not gonna apologize to a dumb crystal that was a crime but go ahead okay

07:14:20.800 but i'm just saying you got what you wanted out because you were a man who did what he needed to 0.89

07:14:24.320 do did you not get what you wanted out of your girlfriend did she not do what you wanted to do 1.00

07:14:28.740 she literally could have done more okay she could have done but she did that's the thing you she did i

07:14:33.620 don't know why you guys broke up maybe lack of communication whatever but the point is you got

07:14:37.460 what you wanted and you were the man who like provided what she needed that's a good dynamic

07:14:42.040 that's right but people lack that because that's cool on things stay with the wrong people i can

07:14:46.040 sure people can get what they want exactly but i'm telling you this girl's saying this she's saying

07:14:49.920 the bow is crazy that's the bow is crazy you're crazy you want a guy you want a guy to walk in the 0.52

07:14:56.580 you want a guy to walk closer to the cars yeah so he dies absolutely so i don't look at it like that 0.99

07:15:03.240 i look at it okay you want a guy to take a bullet for you um like he jumps in front like

07:15:08.380 my argentinian friend here jumps in front of the way i want him to be smart enough to do that 0.88

07:15:15.380 all right let's move on it's 12 yeah are we going home no we're almost done though yeah look it's it's

07:15:21.980 not my fault though she's been talking way too much absolutely evelyn's been just you've been yapping 1.00

07:15:28.620 way too much tonight can you just shut up a little bit can you just be quiet that's everything no 0.85

07:15:33.820 yeah almost there's a few more things okay a few more things um i'm trying to remember 0.70

07:15:38.520 more champagne at least for something we said 11 tequila shots look i'm getting there

07:15:43.740 i'm getting there i'm getting there don't worry i don't like it just wait just wait calm your calm

07:15:50.860 down calm down so okay here we go i'm finishing up the show notes folks uh let's see here

07:15:58.580 why do men yeah why do men automatically have duties towards women while women yeah women 1.00

07:16:03.500 don't have any duties in society women don't have duties women don't have duties they don't 1.00

07:16:09.820 make me a sandwich which yeah what the fuck oh okay here a couple final things here uh wait guys 0.99

07:16:20.220 can you test out in stream labs 30 dollar roast session can you get somebody to test out the 30 0.98

07:16:24.660 dollar tts we'll let it come through as a roast uh do you think roasted now probably uh do you guys

07:16:30.120 think men are insecure teresa you think men who care about body counts are insecure why is that

07:16:34.860 the past the past is the past and that shouldn't affect like okay your interaction or relationship

07:16:43.640 with a and then amanda you also said men are insecure if they care about a woman's body count

07:16:48.020 yes they did okay cool so what is your body count starting with you five five that's in your

07:16:59.060 business wait i thought body count didn't matter i mean i'm not about to say it on here

07:17:03.700 do you want to do a range is it over is it between like 50 and 100 no

07:17:08.420 it's kind of insecure of you to not share your body count i'm not sharing that on here it's very

07:17:14.980 controlling what's your body count i'm a virgin zero i've never i've never been with a woman

07:17:20.780 uh body count i don't want to share that i thought it doesn't i thought it doesn't matter yeah give us

07:17:27.600 a range give us a range five to ten five to ten yeah 1.00

07:17:31.740 you're a fucking liar you're a fucking liar okay body count i'm 24 and i had two 24 and two okay 1.00

07:17:42.700 body count i don't know range i don't really know you forgot yeah no i i really don't care so i 1.00

07:17:51.840 really don't count so i really don't know all right hey hey chill bro hey chill uh so you forgot

07:18:04.700 i just i don't know i don't know the answer well for example if it was like three you'd be like okay

07:18:09.760 there was bob and definitely not three and bartholomew bartholomew okay so is it over 50

07:18:16.760 um maybe yeah over 100 no definitely not i don't think so by the way i'm not gonna like

07:18:24.700 insult you judge you um no yeah okay i mean i was single i'm gonna keep a blank face to all your

07:18:30.700 answers what's that i was i was single for a very long time and all i have to say is i'm very blessed 0.97

07:18:35.800 that i get to have sex when i want to have sex you what i'm very blessed that i've gotten to have 0.66

07:18:42.940 sex when i want to have sex like so all the time well you can interpret it as you'd like okay uh 0.97

07:18:49.400 body count i'll never tell never that's nobody's business we're homies right no we're not holly we 0.99

07:18:59.340 had a good no and you know what holly anybody that i go out with into the mic holly my dear that

07:19:06.480 asked me yes i'm never telling i feel like do you want to do range do you want to do range

07:19:13.060 no why not absolutely is it over a hundred i had this guy convinced i was a virgin and it was

07:19:20.360 bitching lied no i didn't lie he kept guessing and then he's started guessing that i was a virgin 0.64

07:19:26.700 and i'm going this is just entertainment to watch him twist and turn and try and figure out 0.97

07:19:33.880 sure uh when how old were you when you lost your virginity i am never gonna tell wait come on that's 0.82

07:19:42.340 fair it's none of your business here i'll tell you i was 17 when i lost my virginity wow 0.96

07:19:46.720 chill out chill out lady come on yeah less than 10

07:19:52.900 ah maybe because you don't want to save it yeah no uh six six wait so you're not going to share

07:20:00.460 no why not because i don't want to okay well whatever it is multiply it by three and that's 0.78

07:20:05.760 the real number for everybody y'all liars come on you got some liars here uh that's crazy uh hold on 1.00

07:20:12.860 you're a fucking liar you're a fucking liar 1.00

07:20:16.420 y'all want traditional men but y'all got double triple digit body counts 1.00

07:20:24.060 let's not say all that's not true all of you that's the hard thing about the podcast that you

07:20:28.800 say all it's just like every time it's just like oh but you know you say all not not all of you yes

07:20:34.940 but it's just probably most of you you just have such a big bone to pick with women yeah

07:20:40.380 like you just get so fiery i don't know i just i would love to understand where all this passion

07:20:46.460 comes from this isn't really i'm not this isn't really passion you want to see passion trust me

07:20:51.580 there's been moments of passion okay i'm just saying what's you guys are lying about your body

07:20:56.220 count why do you feel that way well people you're not revealing it no i really don't know i really

07:21:02.780 don't know right which means you lost count no what about you which means it's high like i don't

07:21:07.780 reveal no it's like how many people have you kissed like you're in your life how many people

07:21:10.860 have you kissed so well you would know yeah sure tell me how many people you kissed oh i mean i

07:21:15.240 could say i'm not going to say the number but i could yeah i could say it's over this much okay and

07:21:20.460 then let's move on bro chill out it's not your podcast stop being a little bossy bossy i have a

07:21:28.140 waiting for me like literally oh my gosh i feel bad i've been up since three god and i have to

07:21:33.140 work at six we've got we've got a group here of people who stay up late partying i do not party

07:21:39.140 it's 24 you're 24 it's 12 oh my god it's past midnight i've never been up past midnight before

07:21:48.000 i'm gonna turn into the yeah i'm worried about my boyfriend he has to drive

07:21:51.440 be patient my dear patience is a virtue here give us a range give us a guess a guess of what

07:22:00.560 body count for me yeah well chamberlain um the thing it gets kind of crazy and i hate to talk about

07:22:05.980 this but so when you're manic you you literally another really awful symptom is that you get very

07:22:11.840 promiscuous when you're manic i've heard and then also like you literally like i black there's like 0.59

07:22:16.880 months of my life that i just don't remember so it's like i really don't know like i'm not

07:22:20.900 you forgot some but of the ones you remember you know i won't hold you to the forgotten ones

07:22:27.560 because you were a man like orgasm doesn't really count right oh my god like that's like a real 0.93

07:22:32.940 thing though i think intercourse just counts yeah i agree with you on that if what if you if you just 0.88

07:22:38.000 have like sexual relations it was it just counts like oh yeah i don't think you have the orgasm for 0.60

07:22:43.340 just for a second just to see how it feels just the tip that's a body yeah i really no i really 0.99

07:22:48.480 don't know like yeah we will both like how many shits have you taken in your life you know like 0.99

07:22:53.240 damn you don't know you could probably calculate it you don't count like it's like okay how many 1.00

07:22:57.920 days have i been live let's just say it's one per day and it's okay well easy fucking maths 1.00

07:23:03.340 quick maths stop it get some help all right you guys get some help

07:23:12.160 based thor donated 30 dollars all right so this is working five large marge 62 just give up already 0.81

07:23:20.020 as kevin samuels says goodwill slash salvation army chair seven if you're a 10 tenths why do you wear

07:23:26.620 makeup then confidence of mid girls i've never been on the whatever podcast what are you talking about

07:23:32.480 chair one is when i pass by the podcast chair one dressy tank top take your makeup off guys take

07:23:40.160 your makeup off we do this as a segment at the end of the show really no way really everybody take

07:23:46.420 your makeup off i'm down i'm okay take it off you're gonna take it off teresa i'm so ready

07:23:51.040 i'm so ready teresa's a legend i need to go to bed and like take my makeup off why am i the legend

07:23:56.220 what i do you're a legend i don't know okay take it accept the compliment thank you i think i think

07:24:03.900 this person is taking me for another age girl i've never been on the whatever yeah crack the door open 0.88

07:24:08.940 uh thank you for the the message there all right there once you guys are done i want you guys to

07:24:14.860 hold it up to the camera so we see the damage wow this is so funny uh all right guys let's see

07:24:23.900 okay i'm just gonna blast through these notes oh my god i'm gonna have to do a quick

07:24:29.600 uh cultural differences yeah because you said you were single your entire 20s living in san diego

07:24:38.060 and you were working in the cannabis and nightclub industry yeah while holding your single your

07:24:42.900 entire 20s and you're 36 now well i got it was like single like 21 to like 28 or 27 something like

07:24:52.000 that all right hold hold it up are you guys done hold it up this side hold it up hold it no they're

07:24:57.280 still working okay we'll come to this side hold it up okay oh boy i mean you guys left a little bit 0.98

07:25:05.300 of the makeup on that's not really fair oh wow that wow red lipstick wow that's uh that's damn that

07:25:14.100 whoa cool congrats guys that's you've got uh yeah well yeah i mean i was a little wild in my 20s 0.93

07:25:21.300 i'm not gonna lie yeah what are you gonna do and i also had a corporate ever had a threesome

07:25:26.180 no foursome i've had more than a foursome no no no i'm i'm like you know just good at the basics

07:25:32.780 that's that's cool uh so you said you think men have the capacity to love more than women

07:25:38.520 you're a masculine man advocate yeah eva ava whatever it is calm down calm your calm calm

07:25:45.260 she's sleepy

07:25:45.900 but yeah i do think that when men fall in love they fall in love harder than women are capable

07:25:55.520 of falling in love you said you think men are better fit for corporate leadership yeah yeah i have

07:26:00.600 a whole theory do the girls here agree are men better leaders i guess so yeah because we are

07:26:04.880 emotionally like different throughout the month wow that's really sexist it's not it's me personally

07:26:09.820 as a male feminist i think women are great leaders that's just how it is wow i can't believe 0.82

07:26:15.920 i can't believe i'm at a table i can't believe i'm at a table with all these misogynists 0.98

07:26:22.080 so you are a misogynist this is disgusting you're right as a male feminist yeah women are just as 1.00

07:26:29.580 good leaders as men it's despicable that you would even say that you're right i want you to look deep 0.99

07:26:34.020 into this camp right here yes apologize to women apologize to random people no apologize to women

07:26:38.940 they're not right women say sorry to women it's a joke guys chill like wow yeah well here's what's 0.87

07:26:44.620 crazy though y'all women i already said it god damn i'm repeating myself y'all want when it comes to 1.00

07:26:50.220 dating you want leaders but you don't want to be followers uh that's not true that's true i think 0.98

07:26:55.140 we all said that we would be okay yeah so i'll please just say but she doesn't want to bow okay

07:27:00.060 just one person oh my goodness okay i'll tell you why i think that men are better corporate leaders

07:27:07.760 real quick sure okay so men know when they're not the leader so they function in hierarchies like way

07:27:15.360 better they know the alpha okay i fall in line where women think that they're all the queens i don't 1.00

07:27:20.720 think so like they don't they don't like to like fall like they don't like to follow people you said

07:27:27.000 you think women are powerful and need more to take the responsibility to the species seriously 1.00

07:27:32.120 yeah but i need to get up just super quick but don't you yeah um so i think you know there's this

07:27:40.620 thing and his name is god and god's like i'm going to create two two entities that are going to you

07:27:45.580 know continue the species forever and then they're like who are we going to give the responsibility to

07:27:50.900 to carry the species and they're like the woman so inherently the woman is very powerful like we

07:27:56.660 and i think that a lot of women like think that there's like male privilege and all these things but

07:28:02.240 in a really fundamental like concept we are very powerful like we wars are started because of women

07:28:08.240 um like we or have the responsibility for the species and i mean sex appeal you know that's

07:28:17.860 that's power like even when you go to a strip club i feel like that's a very powerful place in a lot of

07:28:23.120 ways like you you have people that work so hard for their money and then they just give it to a woman 1.00

07:28:28.940 because they're pretty because they're just sitting there you know like that's a type of power and i think

07:28:32.740 i get sad when i see a lot of like younger women um that don't even realize that they have this power 1.00

07:28:40.240 and i think that that's not good so wars were fought for women too like yeah yeah it's like they 1.00

07:28:46.580 would go to war and and like also like we need to be nice to men i think like modern feminism is very 1.00

07:28:53.160 toxic and um like men are really good they've done a lot of really good things like everything around us

07:28:59.360 that's like crazy good is literally was orchestrated by men and i do think that they are better

07:29:05.960 leaders we have a lot of things that are really good for us like we are empathetic you know we're

07:29:11.460 not going to sit there and tell everyone like when andrew was saying why are you not saying that

07:29:15.880 someone's blah blah blah rating or whatever it's like yeah we have emotions we're you know emotionally

07:29:22.440 intelligent and stuff like that but i do think that women have a lot of power and in like the toxic 1.00

07:29:27.780 femininity they try to take that away that was beautiful i didn't hear any of it because i was

07:29:34.720 gone but it sounded like that little end part was thanks really good uh okay you said there's four

07:29:42.300 categories of men you want to date you must put each guy in one of those categories yeah so bro we're

07:29:47.840 getting through all the notes we're getting through all the notes everybody sent in notes that's the

07:29:52.040 fair rule to do we got it look it's not my fault you guys it's not my fault you guys were so amazing

07:29:58.700 you guys were so amazing so good that we're going long because you guys are just have you know so

07:30:06.300 the the crux of that is essentially every type of relationship has to do with expectations are you

07:30:11.060 finding the photo of the pillow guy oh you want to see it not really we're allowed to have our phones 0.99

07:30:15.460 no i don't know where she got that she snuck that shit why why didn't anybody tell me she snuck that 0.98

07:30:21.220 shit here okay but nobody else here showed after the show though we can't display okay we can't 0.99

07:30:27.660 display anything on stream um okay uh what really quick four categories tell me what they are um so 0.98

07:30:32.900 there's fuck boy lover boyfriend husband and each one of them has like expectations that you need to 0.90

07:30:40.500 understand and as long as you understand those expectations then you can function and not get 0.99

07:30:46.580 hurt same thing for women i guess right are you are you like role-playing the gynecologist office 0.91

07:30:52.280 right now or what's going on because i'm because that that was a crazy spread with your legs right 1.00

07:30:57.040 that was like i'm just sitting close-legged do you need to go to the obgyn or what's up no i'm okay 0.97

07:31:02.440 i'm just tired and i feel comfortable she's trying to get comfortable right now i feel fucking 0.98

07:31:07.160 delusional right now i'm so tired yeah like i just want to go this is a struggle session this is a 0.91

07:31:12.020 struggle session okay and this is where champions are fucking made boys this is where champions are 0.96

07:31:17.000 fucking made hold on let me play i just want to talk to my man i thought talking stage but whatever 0.99

07:31:25.260 listen this is this is the hold on pep talk here okay this is the hold on this is chill out this is 1.00

07:31:32.020 the fucking final inning boys ladies ladies this is the okay uh uh gentle ladies this is the fucking 1.00

07:31:39.320 final inning here this is where champions are made this is where this is where legends are made okay 0.99

07:31:45.800 this is what it's all come down to this moment right here i feel like i'm in those like shows right

07:31:51.520 here right now this is this is the championship rounds 12 p.m past midnight this is the championship

07:31:59.100 rounds this is this is iron sharpens iron i get it iron sharpens iron and together we will come out 0.99

07:32:07.180 of this stronger sexier more slay or whatever the fuck you guys say slay queen you just want us around 0.99

07:32:15.520 you don't want to oh no i want to trust me i want to lay down and ice my back um so uh yeah i have 0.99

07:32:22.400 going to you final note from you you said you uh you think y'all are too smart for many of these

07:32:26.360 girls i want to come on the show to show different sides of women yeah i mean i think that i mean 0.99

07:32:31.460 you know i'm not that i'm not that smart you know smart oh yeah i don't think i don't know i just

07:32:38.040 think that it's good to have different types of perspectives on here yeah did i get it right

07:32:42.560 well yeah eva eva yes okay eva eva yes what's wrong go ahead you were even listening to her i was

07:32:50.660 listening um i don't know i just uh i was happy to come on here to try to you know talk on thank you

07:32:58.400 for coming appreciate it moving to jay nicolay yes did i say right you did you're welcome uh you

07:33:07.000 describe yourself on instagram as a party princess what does that mean well because i'm a dj and a

07:33:12.220 producer you know i curate the vibes i curate you know the atmosphere so i am a party princess

07:33:17.060 and i'm gonna make sure you have a great time get in the game look at me look at me deep in my 1.00

07:33:23.380 eyes teresa get in the game you're the goat teresa you're the fucking goat you're the goat 1.00

07:33:33.400 okay i want you to say that you're the goat i'm the goat there you go thank you teresa that's great 1.00

07:33:40.920 uh jay nicolay yeah am i saying when it comes to modern dating you honestly wish the conversation

07:33:49.060 about 50 50 would just cease to exist lol in the current state of our economy dating is not a one

07:33:53.800 size fits all type of situation so what works for some will not always work for others and that's

07:33:58.480 completely okay so when you say wish the conversation about 50 50 would just cease to exist

07:34:02.720 do you i say that because like in favor of it or like i personally i'm not like a 50 50 person like

07:34:11.280 across the board like some people like go half on every bill like every single thing like i'm

07:34:15.340 that's just not what i partake in um and i just feel like online you go online and people ask like oh

07:34:21.640 should 50 50 be a thing but it's like you're asking like millions of people it's like what works for you

07:34:26.920 will not work for others and that's completely okay because people get entire deep arguments and deep

07:34:31.360 dives about why 50 50 is good and why 50 50 is bad but it's like you're not even the same tax bracket

07:34:36.320 why are you arguing with this person okay amanda moving to amanda's notes here on your instagram my

07:34:44.420 goodness here i'm gonna just put it in the chat because i don't even know what the hell this this

07:34:48.400 is her instagram lads this is her not not your instagram but your bio oh yeah this 27 degree

07:34:58.080 sagittarius zero degrees taurus 29 degrees aquarius astrology expert guided messages lamb in wolf's

07:35:04.920 clothing yes so you're a sheep i'm a lamb in wolf's clothing yes but the saying is a wolf in sheep's

07:35:16.480 clothing no i look like maybe i wouldn't be very into god and like wait you are christian i'm not

07:35:25.000 christian you which god do you believe in i believe in mine which is what is his name which

07:35:31.400 is my god god which but i go to church and i read the bible which church do you go to um i'll go to

07:35:39.400 christian churches sometimes but i don't consider myself christian but i do pray to jesus uh yeah i

07:35:45.880 have to do jesus is that your god my god is god jesus is not god jesus is jesus lord but like god is god

07:35:58.200 andrew would love this um okay andrew's the the the religion guy um i don't get the what is the

07:36:05.820 sagittarius aquarius stuff what is that um it's just my birth chart because i'm also an astrologer

07:36:10.520 and i read tarot cards so that's like my other business you want a snickers you're not yourself

07:36:16.440 when you're hungry you want you want a snickers what do you need snickers bar snap into a slim gym

07:36:20.920 you want to snap into a slim gym what you need can we get her a popsicle can we get her an applesauce 1.00

07:36:26.200 no i insist we just want to wrap it up dude we just want to wrap it up no i'm really okay

07:36:31.000 oh my god you guys just cannot this is why the wage gap this is why the wage gap exists because you

07:36:37.560 you said 11. oh no it will be from 4 to 11 you know or it sometimes goes later oh yeah did i say

07:36:45.480 that you're not a man of your word no if it says yes may go later like two hours over is like insane

07:36:53.000 hey so that's that's that's how it is or wait can i have it somebody wants it she wants it

07:36:59.400 wait you want it hey give it to her give one to her i think no you you take that one you work on that

07:37:04.840 one okay so you do you need some food i can get you some food i mean we've been needing food i think

07:37:11.320 she wants a popsicle too though yeah i get her yeah can we get her some applesauce get her some

07:37:18.200 applesauce if you want what i want i want my boyfriend on here another one i want one too

07:37:23.400 how many got in there break it out we might be able to should we get the boy no chat yes he's so funny

07:37:29.400 he's so great he has a great sense of humor and he has a lot of things oh but you guys want to go home

07:37:34.440 though yes please that's really i'm not sleeping wow i'm trying to get these people out of here and

07:37:38.680 you're trying to like get your boyfriend she's getting a second wind in here yeah i'm sorry he's

07:37:42.360 like such a good person came on but it's just i'm sure he's wonderful yeah yeah i'm sorry i got oh my

07:37:47.640 it's just look is it past your bedtime it's past your bed look my dog this is again this is why the wage

07:37:53.480 gap exists this is because men we're gonna be at 3 a.m you know what i don't care if my boyfriend

07:38:00.040 wasn't waiting for me one we have to drive to santa cruz to like me and my family members it was

07:38:04.280 up on the world which is why i'm going you know if you keep asking me it's gonna if you just let me

07:38:08.200 get through it just let me get through it let me get through it i feel it's gonna be quick i feel

07:38:11.800 it's gonna be quick if you guys just let me get through it sounds good i feel it's gonna be

07:38:17.160 tell us how you really feel listen this is the final inning okay let's go this is

07:38:21.000 say that it's the final countdown theresa the show please theresa baby girl boo theresa you're the

07:38:29.400 goat hang in there sorry i should never we're we're in this together okay we can do this okay so we're

07:38:36.200 in this let's let's finish your notes yeah come on whoa please you have a great voice theresa

07:38:43.160 please please oh my god hold on okay amanda you said you met a guy on hinge during the pandemic

07:38:50.280 you ended up selling everything in your apartment and driving to new york with him

07:38:53.960 yeah but then what happened uh we split when we got there

07:39:01.000 oh wait wrong one my bad damn so you like who broke up with who i broke up with him i left him 0.98

07:39:10.680 in the airbnb and then i got my own apartment damn damn oops why i'm just not compatible 0.98

07:39:20.040 she said i'm a savage you're not compatible but did you find that out on the card how long was the 0.98

07:39:27.640 drive to new york it ended up being like 21 days because we like stayed in certain states for like

07:39:33.480 a long period oh you okay so you can't you went from california then yeah from california okay so that

07:39:38.920 so was it the trip that just yes absolutely i think that's fair you know because yeah until

07:39:44.120 you've traveled with somebody oh you don't know them exactly like you got to travel with somebody

07:39:48.440 first because they could be cool in doses but you try you spend like oh that and then waiting in line

07:39:55.720 for security at the airport all of that you got to see you got to put them through the the crucible or

07:40:01.400 whatever i don't even think that makes sense you said men being more connected to their friends

07:40:05.400 than their significant others so like men are gay is that what you're saying no i feel like

07:40:09.320 they um because sometimes they like and they'll want to spend more quality time with their friends

07:40:14.360 it can be not all of them but i have been in situations with i was dating men and it's like

07:40:19.560 they're like oh i'm gonna go like hang out with my guy friend like so excited and then it's like when

07:40:23.560 it comes to me they're like oh i'm depressed i see you said that you don't think people give

07:40:30.920 dating enough time they move on before they get to know someone yeah have you had that experience where

07:40:35.800 you had the most amazing night with a charming young mullet older mullet having 1.00

07:40:47.080 boom mic operator never actually i won't say never that's so she did have sex with a boom 0.99

07:40:53.720 operator um it she did she told me about it before the show um but then so that does that happen to 0.64

07:41:01.160 you a lot like you have sex and then they stop talking to you um i mean it's been a while since

07:41:08.440 i've like randomly dated like that i'm gonna be honest with you like maybe like a few years ago 0.93

07:41:12.120 how long you've been celibate uh i don't know since last summer oh okay so your last your boyfriend or whatever

07:41:18.920 oh no just never mind uh okay that's it for amanda going to eve

07:41:31.080 uh oh eve you have a thousand instagram posts on instagram more more than a thousand i wrote a note

07:41:37.160 here i don't know why if a girl has more than a thousand instagram posts she's probably insane 1.00

07:41:41.560 who said that i just made that up right now is it true are you insane are you crazy 0.99

07:41:45.800 i didn't say that you know these are argentinian women yeah it's okay if you're insane they're 1.00

07:41:49.320 very one thousand posts is nothing i know people that have ten thousand or five thousand like i had

07:41:55.480 three thousand before i deleted the half let me ask you girls a question if you see a guy's instagram

07:41:59.640 and he's got like a thousand posts and he's got he's posting quotes and a bunch of selfies

07:42:08.760 then it's not your type but is he is that a little you're a little scared then no i would prefer

07:42:14.600 for them for them to not have social media if possible okay uh you said the you have social

07:42:19.800 media though yeah and you post quotes yeah i have my my poetry okay uh eve you said the craziest one

07:42:26.360 that you remember is you met this guy he brought his mom yeah that's true to the first date what

07:42:34.280 what ate no way so you're uh 36 when uh how old was he how old were you when this date took place we

07:42:41.640 had the same age we met at the university so when was this though how old were you um it was like

07:42:48.440 seven years ago or some so you're 29 yeah kind of and he was like 29 30 no sorry before like 26

07:42:56.520 okay so okay but still 26 i mean i don't think there's any age where it's like okay adult for an

07:43:02.920 adult to bring their mom to a date that's weird but it was weird and the worst was that she was the

07:43:08.040 center of attention of the night she was so cool oh yeah cool you liked her at the end you know at 1.00

07:43:16.120 the beginning i was so in shock because i didn't expect him to come with his mom but at the end of

07:43:21.160 the night he was so she was so cool and i i like him we end up i mean we date like few times she came

07:43:29.240 a few times after again uh and after i never see him again i just saw his mom a few times we we

07:43:37.160 party together and it was so much fun yeah and then i've never see her again too so but it was fun

07:43:45.560 so you that was it though was their second second date we had a few dates but after the mom come or no

07:43:52.840 yeah a few of some yeah the mom came yeah i see yo cat thank you for the hundred dollar

07:43:57.400 soup chat no roast but i just wanted to drag this out longer thank you cat for the soup chat

07:44:02.120 michael knight bring the boyfriend in michael wants to see this is he a chat is he a legend

07:44:08.120 is he a is he a chad a giga is he a giga chad okay uh michael knight thank you for the soup chat

07:44:15.240 appreciate it uh okay guys if you want hundred dollar reads uh so okay the mom on the first date that's

07:44:21.880 crazy yeah um wow was he was it in the us or was no this was in argentina yeah okay uh you said if the

07:44:32.120 age difference counts when it comes to dating are you talking about age gaps or no like age like uh

07:44:38.120 someone has you are 30 and the other person has 60 or vice versa so that type of difference oh like a

07:44:44.920 big gap yeah big difference i mean i was trying to date teresa's mom earlier in the conversation so i

07:44:50.280 mean yeah that that offer is still on the table yeah good ain't no way you're being my stepdad

07:44:59.800 that's crazy i would be a great stepdad teresa go to your room you're grounded you're 0.99

07:45:08.360 fucking grounded i could ground you okay oh god go to the room go to the room do your dishes 0.99

07:45:17.720 stop posting okay uh okay all right uh so that's it for eve's notes we have eva 0.99

07:45:29.880 that's what i say eva eva you know you know what i actually you want to hear a funny story you're

07:45:35.640 gonna like this you know how some people's names girls are so checked out the girls are so checked 0.92

07:45:42.200 out okay uh i'm with you right here thank you i appreciate it you're enjoying it okay so i here's 0.93

07:45:48.200 the story of how i lost my dream girl i fucked it up i fucked up you fumbled your dream i fumbled my 1.00

07:45:56.040 dream girl how here's how so you know how some people have names that could be pronounced two different 0.96

07:46:02.520 ways for example i don't want to say the actual name but should i say it hey bro how about this

07:46:12.200 i'll change a little bit so t-a-r-a tara or tara which one is it i don't know it could be pronounced

07:46:21.400 you know how there's names like there's no defined way to necessarily but it's got two potential

07:46:25.800 pronouns can anybody think of a name that has two potential and yeah there's there's like three for

07:46:31.560 those andrea andrea andrea there's a lot so let's just say yeah andrea so i was dating it that's not

07:46:39.640 the name but and we just had sex for the first time and i i was i was no no here's the thing i was 0.55

07:46:51.080 like hey um i knew that i didn't like call her gertrude i knew her name was a n d r e a i knew

07:47:02.440 that was it yeah i just forgot the pronunciation so i

07:47:10.040 so i i asked her it's about 10 minutes after we had sex for the first time we're laying in bed

07:47:15.720 and i was like hey listen um how do you pronounce your your name is it andrea or andrea like i i said

07:47:24.040 it i didn't i wasn't like oh your name's stephanie your name's is it becky or why are you asking her

07:47:29.720 this are you guys like dating for the first time oh he's dating for the first time what do you mean 0.99

07:47:33.880 because you say you asking her how to pronounce her felicity's tired too what you say god damn bro 0.98

07:47:38.760 huh you like asked her name after we just had sex for the first time but you guys like knew each other 0.98

07:47:44.520 right it was like the second or third date you didn't know how to pronounce your name no hello

07:47:51.880 i've i've been struggling with yours the entire night so dream girl and she's up she gets upset

07:47:59.160 she's like wow you were just inside of me and you don't remember my name and then and then i never saw

07:48:07.080 her again like i text her i was like hey let's hang out and she's like you know the other night

07:48:14.520 when you forgot how to pronounce i didn't forget her name forgot how to pronounce it fumbled

07:48:21.880 fumbled and i'll just say this i'll say this she was the mouth that got away 0.91

07:48:30.040 oh my god you can't ruin things with the right person so if it didn't work out then that wasn't

07:48:35.320 meant to be so what would you have done differently if that happened again just never say her name

07:48:43.080 ever i'll just from it that's the thing maybe you i'm sure there's been relationships where the dude

07:48:50.120 or the girl doesn't know the dude's name and it's too it's gone to the hey you guys have had that where

07:48:54.280 you've like it could it's not even dating it could be a friend or somebody yeah you never and now it's

07:48:59.160 too you've known the person too long it's too weird like their friend says it or something yeah what i do

07:49:06.040 is i'm like i'll i'll have a friend and i'm gonna be like okay i'm gonna introduce you i'm gonna be

07:49:11.000 like oh hey or no no i can't do it i'll be like hey introduce yourself so that they tell me tell you

07:49:17.640 the name so how do you spell your name let me put it in my phone how do you spell it but the pronunciation

07:49:23.160 you would have still been screwed but yeah i fumbled yeah it's very it was really upsetting how did you 0.56

07:49:27.560 recover did you like at least he made this podcast he never yeah that's right that's

07:49:33.160 that's a good point amanda that's what started this podcast i lost the love of my life because

07:49:38.360 i i fucked up her name and i was like you know what i'm just gonna argue with women for eight 1.00

07:49:43.800 hours a week yeah we all have to suffer i love it i fucking love it boys um but yeah so um but no i 0.97

07:49:52.200 think i probably have been in a situation where i dated a girl and i just i just didn't know her 0.79

07:49:58.440 name and then i just called her babe for like six months i swear i called her babe for six months 1.00

07:50:07.320 yeah yeah it was bad it was okay uh so ava uh you're good

07:50:16.520 you said you wanted do women have it easier than men why or why not did we talk about that i

07:50:22.040 think we talked about that yeah we talked about that we talked about that what do you think though

07:50:25.640 yeah i just said no i think everyone has okay uh you also said do you think women are hated more

07:50:30.600 online than men so like cyber bullying or that kind of thing like hey you know like the whole only

07:50:36.280 fans is easier money so that's why i think why would that i don't think that's hateful i think it is

07:50:40.360 hateful because it's easy money for them because i get hated on that for a lot

07:50:45.160 yeah but most women aren't doing of so you said of course but like of course i'm just saying online 1.00

07:50:54.520 you know online only fans i don't know that's it

07:51:01.640 i would i don't know i can i don't think i could definitively state whether men or women are hated

07:51:06.520 more online but i actually probably think that uh men are hated more but we'll have to have that

07:51:13.240 conversation another time you said your boyfriend has a crazy backstory as well and you guys kind

07:51:18.600 of trauma bonded on it as friends before being in a relationship you told him you could never date

07:51:24.520 him because of his current financial status but when an influencer reached out to you invited you to

07:51:30.920 texas you went after breaking up with your ex you realized personality is just more important

07:51:36.760 than a lot of your needs needs as in a man who's financially secure and has a job and some

07:51:42.120 substance is just much more important so wait your boyfriend like did he originally like hey i'm

07:51:47.960 interested in something more with you and then you're like nah you're broke but then um he didn't

07:51:53.960 have to say it like you kind of know as a girl like if a guy's interested in you and we're hanging out a

07:51:58.520 lot and um yeah i really liked him as a person but because of my first boyfriend um i didn't know i

07:52:04.680 was like my first boyfriend around i was 18 we dated for two years i didn't know like of course you

07:52:09.560 learn a lot from your first boyfriend right first relationship in general and from that i like took

07:52:13.880 away a lot of things and i had like okay this and this definitely yes definitely no but then i do

07:52:18.680 realize that personality just matters the most and if he's a good person with good morals and

07:52:23.800 can we get chloe another popsicle please if she needs another popsicle you guys want him on 1.00

07:52:28.680 huh maybe he'll feel better but wait okay so you guys trauma bonded um you said that talked a lot

07:52:37.240 there's i by the way i'd have chat gpt clean up the email you sent me but it's okay you said that

07:52:43.400 i won't read all of it honestly just for the sake of time but you said you used to be really flirty

07:52:48.040 when you were younger around 14 to 16 correct i think were you on dating apps no not at all it was um

07:52:53.240 i was in new york at the time i didn't have much like family love or anything and i played a lot of

07:52:59.640 sports and i think when you you overcompensate for things you lack in childhood i think i didn't get

07:53:05.320 love of course as in a child and i feel like a lot of times nothing a lot of times like i think a lot

07:53:13.720 of times when you're younger um that's kind of what happens to girls what's going on

07:53:19.000 huh but yeah um yeah that's like i think that's something a lot of like i don't know girls go 1.00

07:53:25.880 through when they're younger they just so you're like leading guys on is what you're saying yeah i

07:53:29.240 was like 14. uh you met your first boyfriend at the gym when you were 18 you weren't physically

07:53:34.520 you weren't physically attracted to him at first but you think you were grateful for the attention

07:53:38.840 and the support you loved him as a person and that's why you dated him at the time you're doing

07:53:43.240 everything on your motorcycle grocery okay so um i wouldn't say attention and maybe i wrote that but i

07:53:47.960 don't mean that i just um i appreciated all the support i didn't have any friends um i started

07:53:52.280 working young and then i just didn't socialize and him um he was a really good guy he initiated a lot

07:53:57.640 of talks and um like i said probably trauma bonding a little too but then um anyways he's a good person

07:54:03.960 i wasn't attracted to him but i dated him and then i fell in love with like who he was as a person until

07:54:08.440 more things just you know you get to know someone and then you lose that kind of traction okay you said

07:54:13.960 that but here's where it went wrong uh he was a bit older than you and little things started to give

07:54:20.200 you the ick he asked you for 20 for gas correct splitting bills not paying people back yes uh when

07:54:26.600 he first met he wanted to study nursing but he was he didn't follow through yes um and i okay so about

07:54:32.680 that um yeah that's the thing i mentioned earlier when you're younger like um i thought it was wrong to

07:54:37.960 he was i was 19 18 he was 26 27 and i did not understand i thought it was bad to feel like

07:54:46.360 like oh my god he's asking me for 20 bucks and i'm like i thought it was wrong to feel weird about

07:54:50.360 it but it's just like he is older if he was my age asking 20 bucks i would like gladly do it but i think

07:54:56.040 i couldn't understand why i felt this way given that he was older but now like you know i think about

07:55:00.200 it after the relationship i dissected certain things certain eggs and i'm like okay this and that

07:55:03.960 okay and there was something else here one sec uh you said that you you're not someone who yells or

07:55:13.080 gets angry easily but he brought out a deep sadness in you yeah and you kept dating him you felt guilt

07:55:19.080 tripped you deleted instagram for him you struggled with self-confidence he made you feel slutty for 0.71

07:55:25.000 posting photos yeah he would just make me feel bad like if i take selfies and i think a lot of my

07:55:29.640 self-consciousness came from that like i wouldn't like fix my hair if i was in the female's 1.00

07:55:33.640 restroom or something like that just things like that and um yeah because i you realize

07:55:39.480 like you're not supposed to be in this relationship with somebody if it brings out the worst in you

07:55:43.080 and i think it did i never yell but i think like certain did you yell at him um um not at him but

07:55:48.600 just the situation and then i was like wow i never yell like that and it came out so i'm like okay this

07:55:54.200 needs to like this probably is not good but then you know things happen yeah you said you found yourself

07:55:59.320 crying almost every month time passed your attraction to him faded yes and then you got

07:56:04.520 the ick more and more yeah you met your current boyfriend he was in debt he still is doesn't have

07:56:09.400 it didn't have a job at first i told him i was gonna say all this yeah uh you said you were like no way

07:56:15.240 i'm not going through this again but you ended up dating him anyway because personality matters more 1.00

07:56:19.640 does um and then after you broke up with your ex you randomly decided to meet a guy from out of

07:56:24.440 state that i'd connected with on instagram your wait your current boyfriend drove you to the

07:56:30.840 airport to meet the other guy yeah we were friends at the time and we weren't seeing each other who

07:56:35.560 who was this guy in texas uh it's just um someone from instagram famous no actor no musician no

07:56:42.600 content it's just influence influencer guy yeah it's just a content fitness guy content creator but um

07:56:48.600 okay uh no we didn't do anything like that but i just wanted to do something spontaneous i never do

07:56:53.240 anything at the time did your now current boyfriend know that he was driving you to the airport i told

07:57:01.320 him everything so that you could go see another guy yes and then we talk about that too we gotta

07:57:07.320 bring him up oh my god guys should we bring him up i can only do like another 10 minutes wait who

07:57:12.840 who here is gonna stay we're i we're close better but you guys don't have to stay but i think like

07:57:20.680 he's waiting for me does he even want to i think what he's isn't your boyfriend here too

07:57:26.440 no that's my manager he's good at talking and everything and we have a lot of like conversations

07:57:31.240 about relationships like this with each other okay i think he'll like coming up but i don't

07:57:35.160 want to drag it on for anybody let me chat do you want the boyfriend to come up or no

07:57:41.080 let me ask the chat let me see what they say while i'm waiting for them to say that i'm going to let

07:57:44.440 these two come through we're not uh chat we probably won't have time for a recession but

07:57:49.640 based thor donated thirty dollars thank you man you all thought you was safe

07:57:54.520 chair one has a resting enthusiastic hand job face what the

07:57:58.360 two had more fingers in her than a rat ordered guy's nose 1.00

07:58:02.600 chair three you sound slash look like a man chair for deporter call eyes 0.94

07:58:08.360 she is the most feminine woman i've ever seen how dare you that is chas bono in chair five 1.00

07:58:14.680 no tomfoolery wait chair four he said to me to get deported yeah wait why i'm i'm half mexican but

07:58:21.880 i'm also why oh okay all right chas bono that's interesting all right so finishing up then with the

07:58:27.800 notes since it seems like it's a no-go for the boyfriend oh some it's mixed it's like yes no yes no yes

07:58:35.240 no we have a soup chat here bring up the boyfriend uh bring him out come on who here wants i'll let

07:58:44.760 the panel decide who here wants the boyfriend to come up it's one okay well that's a no that's a

07:58:49.560 no then all right that's a no all right uh let's see the trip taught you a lot you realize that even

07:58:55.800 if someone has their life together it doesn't mean anything if they don't have the values or personality

07:58:59.320 you need when you came did you do anything with it did you kiss did you kiss him yes we did kiss

07:59:05.480 but we didn't do anything nothing else we want details i didn't do anything else

07:59:11.960 current boyfriend drives female crush to the how how far was the drive to the airport 0.79

07:59:18.520 10 minutes okay if he drove you like an hour that's dagger in the heart i don't think he liked

07:59:29.560 me that much at that time you know when you're first bro he he was he he liked you yeah he likes

07:59:34.440 me but like not enough like now you know men are different when they're older like they know what

07:59:39.080 they want and he knows like i don't want to drag this on but he's not a simp you know i think i

07:59:48.280 but that's like that's kind of brutal it's it is brutal but then um like i said we were friends i

07:59:53.800 didn't i came back from the trip and i told him i actually think this and this and i actually like

07:59:57.880 you and this trip did teach me that like it doesn't matter like just because like you are you don't have

08:00:03.160 a job whatever or whatever then i it doesn't really matter as much and he's changed a lot and on his

08:00:07.240 own i don't have to force him to do anything he does it on his did you pay for the flight to texas

08:00:12.280 of course you paid for the flight to texas the the guy who was he wasn't flying you out no it's just a

08:00:18.760 trip and i met all his friends like the influencer friends i was just starting social media too so i

08:00:22.920 thought it was i don't have friends but like the trip was it was clear he was interested in you

08:00:28.120 right yeah i would say so but it's just like you know

08:00:30.920 you didn't do anything and you kissed yeah i was just kissing it was okay fondling no no fondling

08:00:39.800 okay maybe hey yeah oh my god what's it what's your boyfriend's name alex alex he knows everything

08:00:46.600 i told him everything you didn't tell us everything oh yeah you just said kissing you said just there

08:00:52.120 was fondling if my boyfriend's like there's fondling for me what else could alex what else could she be 1.00

08:00:56.920 lying about alex i have another asian woman here for you we have theresa she's vietnamese 1.00

08:01:05.880 she's not wajian though so i don't know if you got a thing for wajian i treat my boyfriend very well

08:01:09.800 is he watching right now you think i don't know he's probably tired waiting i have wait alex hold

08:01:16.200 on i have lovely i have holly is also available holly are you interested in alex alex is a great man he

08:01:24.440 would never do that um excuse you holly's a catch yes don't be rude to holly i agree i don't be rude

08:01:30.440 to holly she's a great catch i agree but i said why are you saying he would never do that because

08:01:36.600 he loves me oh you meant cheating yeah i thought you meant like he would never no no that's really

08:01:42.280 can you apologize to holly i think you assume that and you should apologize to holly i don't even

08:01:46.680 i think you should apologize no i think alex i also have some other you're single yeah amanda's 0.99

08:01:53.320 single i've got a lovely argentinian woman here who's a lawyer and yeah pursuing acting i would 0.99

08:02:00.600 really like him to be on here just to talk but again i don't want is he going to beat me up you

08:02:05.240 think i just want to see you didn't do anything wrong i think i was pretty different you're doing

08:02:11.400 your job and you didn't do anything wrong he was not going to beat you up i've been nice tonight i

08:02:15.160 think for the most part do i have it too i've been nice looks good it's good it looks good get your

08:02:19.720 friend that bitched me out and called me martha or whatever oh my goodness yeah let's not let's not

08:02:25.240 get that energy again he's gone he's oh he's gone trust me i got the bunny rachel's definitely meaner 1.00

08:02:31.960 than him i was like dang so uh you said after your past relationship you're much clearer on what you

08:02:37.720 want and what you don't want correct you used to feel bad for wanting a man who could take care of

08:02:43.160 you okay uh random thoughts you think could be it's okay i'll just leave it there i mean everything 0.92

08:02:48.600 god damn uh do women okay we did that masculine versus feminine energy you you said you lean toward 0.97

08:02:54.280 traditional values you said you think men should be masculine women should be feminine or at least 0.99

08:02:58.760 relationships work best when there's a balance between the two some women are more dominant 1.00

08:03:03.880 are you more dominant um no have you ever pegged alex whoa no made him wear an apron alex tell him

08:03:11.720 to make you a sandwich you don't have to do it alex if you're watching alex if she puts it out there

08:03:16.840 i know a lot of gen z people they're doing the pegging thing don't do it um i don't think a woman can 1.00

08:03:22.600 respect a man i agree after she's doggy styled him and pegged him has anybody here pegged a guy amanda

08:03:31.880 i just get that vibe you give i'm not i've been giving pegging men vibes no they want me to but

08:03:42.440 i haven't done it see but you date men who want it it was like so actually in one situation it was

08:03:51.000 on a dating app and it was the first thing he said to me he led with it he led with it wait tell me

08:03:57.080 what's pegging it's when a woman wears a strap-on and she enters a man's a noose with the strap on 0.98

08:04:07.080 holy yeah teresa over there has experience what what i didn't say anything 0.99

08:04:14.360 where did that come from are we concluding are you do you have covid oh you're a little you're a little

08:04:21.640 congested i am congested it's stuffy in here i'm gonna be wrong is it is it the bird flu see he's

08:04:28.920 just coming to life right now i mean this is his witching hour and it's like hey this is i'm getting

08:04:39.480 a second wind okay i'm gonna wrap it up hold on just come wrapping it up any second now

08:04:46.120 teresa is fine all right so finishing up your notes um eva eva did i say right 0.99

08:04:54.840 fuck god damn bro uh okay you weren't attracted to your first boyfriend wait what 0.99

08:05:02.440 you were like a whole novel this is therapy i didn't know like we were oh wait i already did 1.00

08:05:07.640 that i already did that my bad no healing i don't know what he's doing uh something about being

08:05:12.360 traditional yeah you you said you lean towards being traditional totally fine preference your

08:05:17.160 some women are more dominant that's totally fine but your preference is masculine men you think that

08:05:21.320 preference preference comes from your up upbringing and the kind of stability you lacked growing up

08:05:27.640 your parents separated or other other stuff okay uh you said a lot of people struggle in

08:05:33.720 relationships because they don't have a healthy one with themselves first many don't even know what

08:05:37.800 they truly want social media makes everything harder everything so available overly sexualized

08:05:42.360 and it's easier than ever to cheat emotionally or physically okay uh and that's why you like

08:05:47.800 your current boyfriend he's not perfect no one's perfect i think alex is perfect put some respect

08:05:52.920 on this put some respect on alex's name i want you to look into the camera this camera say alex

08:05:58.360 you're perfect alex you're perfect except for what except sometimes your fart really stinks whoa what the 0.88

08:06:06.040 okay i guess that's valid um you said he has so many values you admire things you consider deeply

08:06:10.440 masculine and rare okay going to holly oh and that wait we have lady t we have holly and that's it

08:06:19.720 so we got two more and then we're done so we're right on we're we're at the finish line folks at the

08:06:24.600 finish line holly 62 never married seasoned dater you're a seasoned dater

08:06:29.880 yeah holly are you gonna come back on the show you're you're a character we need you back i have

08:06:37.400 so many stories i can't even tell you i love it um so here's what we're gonna do uh we'll do your

08:06:43.400 notes but i'm sure there's a lot of other stuff to get into you said you were done with dating

08:06:49.240 coffee dates sucked you were encouraged by friends to get out there you put up a dating a profile on

08:06:55.640 facebook is it the facebook date no no no it was like some dating site this is years ago years ago 0.76

08:07:03.160 it was like when there were like the tapes i don't you know how people there was zeusk there was uh

08:07:09.240 zeus this was years ago match or whatever um okay you put up a profile within seconds you had hits

08:07:18.600 you don't need a hundred hundreds of those dates you just wanted one person to love this man asked you

08:07:23.640 to do a zoom call you thought beautiful no coffee date you said let's cut to the chase when zoom

08:07:30.200 opened up the smile on his face was huge and he asked you to lunch immediately you met him for lunch

08:07:35.560 and you guys had a marathon date till 9 pm you were by the la museum amongst the light lights display he

08:07:42.040 kept kissing you it was very romantic you told him you had to go you had a lot of work to finish he

08:07:49.000 didn't think you liked him you just had work to do he took you everywhere disneyland hot air ballooning

08:07:54.920 sailing trump rally uh he tosses you his credit card and told you to plan a trip he wanted to make

08:08:04.200 sure to see the mississippi and his sister in memphis you traveled through nine states you love white

08:08:08.600 water rafting so when in the smoky mountains we took a rafting trip great adventure right not so much

08:08:13.640 while rafting the wild river you were challenged to stay in the boat and not fall out into the

08:08:18.520 rapids everyone needs to paddle the guide asked you for his name and you called him by your old

08:08:23.080 boyfriend's name by accident fumble the guy the guide kept calling him by the old boyfriend's name

08:08:29.640 and all hell broke loose you would not believe what happened next

08:08:32.520 what happened next oh my god he took umbrage on it and i couldn't apologize to him enough guys she's 1.00

08:08:44.520 got a good vocabulary here umbridge and well done well done holly i like it oh and to the point i was

08:08:52.120 crying because i was asking for forgiveness and i go i don't know how to make this up to you

08:08:57.560 and he just took it to another to video me when i'm driving um and i said i don't know how else to

08:09:04.280 say i'm sorry to you so i'm thinking that we patched it up because i said we can just go fly home now

08:09:11.000 and he's going no no so we still had a bunch of states to go through and i thought things were going

08:09:17.320 well you know i thought we mended it in the whole bit so as the last night um comes up or the next the

08:09:25.240 morning as we're going to the airport we were down in new orleans and they've got this long ramp you've

08:09:31.240 got to run down it's like a mile and uh he had put my suitcase in the car and i hadn't bought anything

08:09:39.720 on the trip so my suitcase isn't gonna weigh anymore and we're kind of late and we get up to the

08:09:45.640 luggage place and the woman's going your um bag is like seven pounds over and i went i looked at 1.00

08:09:53.080 him i go how can it be did you put something in here and i go how can it be seven pounds over i

08:09:58.200 didn't buy anything and he's looking at me he's acting kind of squirrely and i'm thinking

08:10:03.560 what's going on and she goes well just put your stuff in his and i said

08:10:08.680 you know let me use the suitcase and i'll just put stuff in here and i go god i open it up and i go

08:10:14.120 everything's wet did you put a bottle of water in here and he's like playing dumb no no i switch

08:10:21.800 my clothes we get on the plane what huh we get on the plane and uh by the time i get home um

08:10:33.880 he's already left and i'm opening up my suitcase

08:10:39.160 what do you think happened there was a dildo in it in the suitcase my suitcase was heavier by seven pounds

08:10:48.680 i put nothing in it drugs he put drug he put cocaine he was a coke he was a drug smuggler 0.98

08:10:56.760 worse sex toys come on you guys it's heavier guns it was wet what i threw it in his 0.99

08:11:05.720 was it animals i'm thinking everything's patched up 0.99

08:11:11.560 it's wet okay can you just say it yes just tell us he peed in my suitcase i was gonna say that but

08:11:22.120 i didn't think that that was a thing let's go let's go uh cat by the way says alex is in chat and wants

08:11:29.720 to come in yes how does cat know alex how do you tell if somebody's in the chat he's in the chat

08:11:38.200 apparently but maybe it could be a fake i don't know um okay so uh final note for you you said you

08:11:44.840 still have overwhelming sadness from it and you're so glad you found out before getting married then

08:11:51.320 after stay tuned yeah i mean it's like oh he's in your suitcase it's a prank it's just a prank bro

08:11:58.840 if that's the beginning i mean what could happen yeah i'm just going i'm i'm floored that's like how

08:12:07.400 disgusting that's a big flatter man is that pounds worth seven pounds worth i don't know what else he

08:12:13.880 did i don't know i i'm just saying you know i'm probably guessing at seven pounds but it was over

08:12:21.080 and you're going i didn't buy anything what's wrong what happened and is that like the last thing you

08:12:27.160 would ever think somebody would do that's trashy it's scary it's i mean that's just that's just scary

08:12:36.040 as far as i'm concerned and i kept going like just because i accidentally called him by the wrong

08:12:43.480 name i'm going i how many times did i say i was sorry how many times did i think i and it sent me

08:12:54.200 it sent me in just a spiral for months because it's like crazy yeah and and then the worst part

08:13:02.760 is tell us the worst part i had three girlfriends i had three girlfriends that i was talking to

08:13:09.800 telling him because i was so excited oh we're going hot air ballooning we're going to disneyland

08:13:14.680 and they're like getting jealous and pissed off at me and when when i got home and found out what he did

08:13:21.320 they're going holly what'd you do and i'm going i feel like i'm humiliated you know how do i even tell

08:13:29.640 him you know i once urinated um on a woman's belongings oh my god why that's when she knew

08:13:40.920 that i was the one

08:13:43.080 when you're single

08:13:49.320 okay okay cool final notes holly we're gonna get you back we're gonna have hear more of your stories

08:13:54.840 okay holly uh lady continues just the final person the final person lady lady t is that 1.00

08:14:03.960 my dj name oh theresa okay uh one time you dated the guy you met on hinge and within the first 30

08:14:12.280 minutes of your date he created a family plan on uber to add you so you can so you never had to pay

08:14:18.440 for your own uber since you didn't have a car after two weeks of seeing each other he ghosted you

08:14:23.240 but continued to pay for your ubers he cut cut you off the plan after you took a 500 uber to vegas 0.94

08:14:32.680 from la to meet your mom yep damn that's brutal brutal uh when you say he ghosted you what does that 0.95

08:14:43.800 mean though like he went from texting me all day every day uh just sit up sorry straight if you can 0.98

08:14:51.480 yeah yeah you're good so we went from being in constant communication to crickets wouldn't say

08:14:56.600 a word tried checking in tried calling nothing but he was still paying for my ubers

08:15:03.160 i missed my bus to see my mom i'm like you know what this will get his attention so i ordered a 500 0.87

08:15:10.920 uber to vegas to meet my mom and then he called me he's like you're not going to fucking vegas i'm like 0.99

08:15:16.920 too late uh do you still have the final text messages between you guys no like what is just

08:15:26.920 what does ghosting mean i guess i don't know it means you don't so like you would text him and he

08:15:32.440 just didn't reply exactly but was it just once or did you double or triple text uh i did once

08:15:39.400 waited a couple days tried again waited a week tried again that's a ghost yeah yeah that's a ghost okay

08:15:44.840 damn fine that's a so you made it to vegas though i did but then he cut you off that's fine yeah you

08:15:51.320 said being intentional you're big on dating with intention not rushing into labels but also not 0.97

08:15:55.640 entertaining situationships that go nowhere you want connection chemistry and clarity uh no comments

08:16:01.080 from me on that you said dating now is wild but not hopeless if you communicate clearly and don't

08:16:05.400 play games you really stand out like being honest is almost a superpower these days some men act like

08:16:11.880 they're the prize we are they wanted to be chased courted and emotionally baby like women 1.00

08:16:18.280 it's giving role reversal but with none of the softness or reciprocity

08:16:27.960 yeah like bedtime that's my bedtime

08:16:30.360 yeah yeah that's a bedtime sound uh it's giving so role reversal so what are men's roles oh we

08:16:37.960 already been okay i guess we already talked about what are women do how about this what are women's 0.97

08:16:43.000 roles give me give me a women no no just for her what are women's roles to eat bonbons sit there 1.00

08:16:49.400 just for her have the pool boy fan just for just for dj dj theresa i think as my role my role as a

08:16:59.960 woman is to make sure my man feels nurtured he feels respected he feels taken care of he's he feels

08:17:05.560 considered he feels supported um anything i can do to make his life easier um okay yeah okay i'm like

08:17:15.240 really cold here close the door this is the last thing um uh okay we yeah we already talked about

08:17:24.680 it it was just the whole traditional argument yeah want traditional men aren't traditional women

08:17:30.200 um because you're like boss babe right boss babe nightlife party girl rave girl posting thirst traps

08:17:37.320 revealing photos traditional are you traditional woman do you want the traditional man um you said why

08:17:43.480 should or why should guys okay uh i guess final thing on that not a rhetorical question why should

08:17:51.000 men be traditional for modern women any final i asked it before i didn't really get a response why

08:17:57.160 okay they give me a that's it all right uh let's see here i think we're pretty much all done so uh

08:18:04.280 cha thank for the super chat appreciate it man uh unfortunately it's late we won't be able to do a

08:18:09.080 roast session here because you know the girls really wanted to stay for a roast session but 1.00

08:18:14.840 it's too late and stream labs is being whack so okay guys so here's what we're going to do if you

08:18:20.040 guys can let me see if there's any final shout outs no if you can like the video please would

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08:18:55.080 guys like the video like the video please and then let me double check make sure we're all get on the

08:18:59.240 chats okay so that was an interesting show i want to end it by seeing by doing a call to action i'd like

08:19:07.080 to end the show by saying if we can't use this moment can't use this as a moment as an opportunity to

08:19:12.760 give you a call to action chloe you're 19 you're well you said you were 18 but you're 19 would you

08:19:20.440 consider stopping sex work entirely i don't do sex work okay do only fans would you consider stopping 0.83

08:19:30.520 only fans and posting nude content and making new content and talking your boyfriend on camera

08:19:39.480 you have to buy it would you consider stopping that stopping only fans

08:19:43.000 tonight and what do i get for doing that your soul i think i have a great soul already

08:19:55.000 give me something else please don't molest my crystal put put the crystal down put it put it down okay

08:20:03.880 thank you

08:20:06.840 i mean that's it that i tried i tried i tried i tried you know that's all i really have to say to

08:20:11.400 know because you're young you can get out of you can get out of it like you you're still young

08:20:17.480 you can get out of it i actually can but wait you can't no actually never mind wait what the 0.99

08:20:22.600 fuck no i i can i can i wait did she say can't no i can well you have a are you talking like you have a 0.98

08:20:31.560 contract bro there's no con okay people have employment contracts all the time you can't 1.00

08:20:41.320 be forced to do work right people break break contracts all the time sometimes there's

08:20:47.240 penalties but nothing would compel you nothing can force you to do the work that's true yeah

08:20:54.440 so i get that you might have some sort of contract and maybe i don't know what the details of our

08:20:59.720 james sexton can help you out with it but um so now um no i'm not gonna quit tonight but

08:21:07.000 i will quit in the future when i have a husband oh boy or a good boyfriend all i'm saying you're

08:21:13.480 still young still young you can get out of it yeah it's not too late um but anyways i tried my best 0.98

08:21:19.400 okay so gg hold on let me wait where the fuck gg well played to the panel i want to say last call 0.94

08:21:28.040 hit the like button please on your way out thank you for tuning in tonight you could have been anywhere 0.96

08:21:31.720 in the world but you're here with me i appreciate that thank you to everyone who super chats donates

08:21:36.440 and supports the show we will be live again i'm wondering if we have any debates scheduled not

08:21:41.720 this week uh we will be live again sunday at 5 p.m pacific any girls who want to be on the show you 1.00

08:21:46.120 can dm out whatever on instagram if you can make it to santa barbara let me just double check we have

08:21:52.200 this yo joy thank you for the prime sub appreciate it and then

08:22:01.320 okay let me double check make sure everything's all good here i kind of want to wait until teresa's

08:22:08.360 back she went to the bathroom but we're just gonna oh quick teresa before we wrap come wave goodbye to 0.99

08:22:13.720 the we're wrapping the show quick bye okay hold on one sec uh oh just uh any final thoughts from

08:22:23.640 anybody or no um well um i love what i do and no one's forcing me to do this i just want to make that

08:22:31.800 i think people maybe thought you were being trafficked no but you just have a contract

08:22:36.440 i yeah i do only fans it's my um thing that i choose to do so don't want to get in trouble

08:22:44.120 that definitely does not sound suspicious at all i'm serious no i i i want to do only fans right now

08:22:55.960 that's very convincing anyways she loves only fans whatever okay okay guys uh oh seven's in the

08:23:02.360 chat oh so am i what am i forgetting nothing i think i'm forgetting something your boyfriend really

08:23:07.880 killing me right do you want do you want your boyfriend to come all right guys oh seven's in

08:23:12.840 the chat uh we'll see you guys next time good night guys good night oh seven's in the chat

Whatever Podcast - April 21, 2025

ALL HELL BREAKS LOOSE？! 62 Year Old vs. Andrew⧸Rachel! He Brought His MOM On A Date？! ｜ Dating Talk #239

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