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00:04:34.260 age occupation where you're from and education go ahead my name is taylor moore i'm 25 i'm a full-time

00:04:42.720 jiu-jitsu athlete and youtuber and i also graduated from ucla with a degree in sociology and music

00:04:49.380 industry and i'm from vista california i currently live in vista california i'm from lancaster california

00:04:56.060 but you pretty much always lived in california yeah okay got it and you you said music industry

00:05:03.340 what is that um it's basically like music business and marketing and stuff like that

00:05:08.520 got it okay cool and sociology what what is what is that what is soch what is that like the study of

00:05:16.240 people in the world and specialized topics my specialization there was like deviant sociology like

00:05:21.280 deviant yeah sociology well that's like what i was focusing on in my coursework what is that

00:05:27.680 um like if somebody's doing something abnormal like mental disorders or if somebody like um like

00:05:34.640 is up to something out of the ordinary that's what i was so like psychopathy yeah somebody's a psychopath

00:05:40.600 a sociopath would it encompass mental illnesses like borderline personality disorder bipolar or is that

00:05:47.760 not considered deviant um it's more so that's more a question for like a psychologist sociologist

00:05:53.340 or like studying like the overall trends of society so criminality would that be a component okay

00:05:58.260 what about um are you do you have deviant psychology no you're not deviant no okay all right what about you

00:06:09.400 hi i'm carly rose oh wait sorry i didn't mean to interrupt what belt are you in brazilian jiu-jitsu

00:06:16.480 i'm a purple belt purple belt okay so if anybody of you get out of line she's gonna choke she's gonna

00:06:22.500 choke you guys out so they would have to sign a waiver before the choke out yeah i'm not going to

00:06:28.300 jail you can always defend me though like self-defense you know huh like if somebody's like

00:06:32.320 trying to attack me or felicity like you can come to our defense is that in the was that in no it wasn't

00:06:38.960 in the release but you can you can do it so this was your verbal release you can defend us you can

00:06:46.280 like if uh carly over here tries to put us in like a arm bar or some shit you can sure okay you can get

00:06:53.240 her um go ahead okay i'm carly rose i'm 26 years old i'm from los angeles and um as far as what i do

00:07:02.740 i'm a model and an actress and occupation yeah model actress sorry education i i didn't go to

00:07:10.880 college but i graduated high school three years early so i could start working and i just became

00:07:16.060 an entrepreneur for the most part i worked hard most of the jobs i did and then became an entrepreneur

00:07:21.240 marketing business um so i got a marketing you graduated high school early yeah three years early

00:07:26.780 were you like emancipated early no i wasn't emancipated yeah i just started to work early

00:07:33.140 as early as possible yeah and do you have your degree um i don't have a degree but i have

00:07:39.280 certificates for different things um i'm becoming a notary i just waiting for the final packet in the

00:07:44.460 mail okay are you currently in college or anything no but i have a lot of different things that i do

00:07:50.240 like i said modeling and acting so that's what keeps me busy you do content creation too yes i'm an

00:07:55.240 influencer okay do you do adult content no no have you ever done adult content okay all right uh cool

00:08:02.820 what about you oh my name is samantha i'm 29 i'm from tucson arizona i do only fans and i graduated

00:08:12.360 from nau with psychology bachelor's in psychology bachelor's of science or arts arts arts okay and

00:08:20.660 you're you said you're from arizona 29 and you do only fans is that correct also you any other kind

00:08:27.280 of sex work stripping escorting anything like that um i was a stripper for a while for a while okay yeah

00:08:32.420 probably from i stopped like a year and a half ago two years ago now okay got it what about you

00:08:39.200 um my name is mari um 27 i'm from tucson i live in phoenix right now um i dance though so i'm a dancer

00:08:51.700 and i didn't go to college no i did graduate high school didn't go to college sure and uh you're from

00:08:59.100 arizona you said yeah okay got it and you for work you do what i'm a dancer dancer only fans no i used to

00:09:07.180 for a little bit but i had took some time off i just need to get it back on going okay all right

00:09:12.780 what about you hi i'm lily fiore i'm 35 years old and i do only fans i own my limited company

00:09:21.760 um that does only fans and i do content creation and youtube and i didn't really finish university

00:09:29.660 but i studied uh mark business and marketing but because i was working and studying just was

00:09:37.000 impossible for me to finish uh where are you from oh sorry yeah i am italian but i live in england

00:09:43.140 how long have you been living in england i've been living in england for 13 years 13 years wow

00:09:49.520 what part london i live near manchester manchester what part of italy are you from modena city of

00:09:55.880 modena that's where they make uh balsamic yes that's right yeah because that that's what they put

00:10:02.080 on trade the trader joe's balsamic vinegar madena okay i don't think that's like the real one you

00:10:07.600 have here probably not probably you know what they i think they import it they probably import it

00:10:12.260 i would have to try to see probably uh and so what brings you to the u.s oh i well you say i'm on

00:10:19.240 vacation because when i say i'm on holiday they don't understand um so yeah i'm on vacation

00:10:23.900 visiting u.s for the first time okay and uh i'm trying to think you said you didn't finish

00:10:32.160 college or university is that correct okay all right got it what about you um my name is mckinley

00:10:39.040 i'm 18 and i am a student and i major in communications um i also play soccer and i'm an expo

00:10:48.080 and i live in north county what's expo it's like a food runner and a hostess got it okay

00:10:53.820 in soccer what position do you play are you a striker i can play anything but i don't know if

00:10:59.300 you know by number but i play 7 8 7 11 9 and 10 i'm playing defense right now which is like

00:11:06.020 completely different all right okay cool uh and you play are you in you're in university now yeah i'm

00:11:12.920 i'm at mira costa but it's a community college but i'm trying to um transfer you play uh soccer

00:11:18.600 for the college though right yeah i do okay cool is that a division one uh or no it's different for

00:11:23.240 the the jc's it's uh yeah i'm pretty sure all jc's are d3 it's their own division yeah okay cool

00:11:30.060 are you planning to transfer to for you yeah i don't really know what i want to do yet and so

00:11:34.860 that's why i'm majoring in communications because it's super broad it's like business except i'm not

00:11:38.480 good at math okay cool what about you hola soy ruby um i am 27 and i live here in santa barbara

00:11:47.600 i uh do uh like amazon private labeling e-commerce listing management and that's me okay and uh where

00:12:00.320 are you from um originally from mexico okay when did you move to the u.s when i was a child okay got

00:12:06.920 it's and you've always lived in santa barbara or other parts of california i've always been living

00:12:11.180 in santa barbara county so i haven't left santa barbara county okay got it and education any

00:12:17.420 schooling yes um i go to the community college here in santa barbara city college uh majoring in

00:12:24.120 communications okay you have any other degrees like associates degrees or anything like that um i have

00:12:30.440 like um in accounting to like accounting and communication you have an associate's degree in

00:12:35.700 accounting yeah okay got it uh have you kind of just been like working this whole time or yeah i've

00:12:41.820 just been working um i think i stopped going to school um and then just focused on work and then

00:12:49.440 um recently i went back to school i want to get my communications degree okay all right very cool

00:12:56.880 felicity what about you my name is felicity i just turned 19 on friday um thank you it's all downhill

00:13:04.820 i'm from santa barbara and i no longer have a job i just quit so i could be a full-time student in

00:13:11.640 business rock and roll and then my caucasian go ahead jim bob hello i am jim bob oh am i echoing or

00:13:24.560 you guys sorry i can hear you my name okay my name is jim bob um i'm a cartoonist and i run a youtube

00:13:32.060 made by jim bob and my instagram is made by jim bob um i i do commentary on various topics including

00:13:39.320 feminism uh theology pop some politics uh and uh you know i try to make it humorous and i'm from

00:13:47.100 colorado and i'm 44 all right you look younger than 44 you could pass for 37

00:13:54.560 all right there you go uh so okay you're from uh colorado sweet do you have a degree from a

00:14:03.640 university or anything like that a degree uh i have a i'm a metal i have a metalsmithing degree

00:14:10.200 metalsmithing okay yeah i'm a jewelry making goldsmith platinum smith uh that's a trade school

00:14:16.440 degree and the other degree i have is basically an associates in art which is essentially uh toilet

00:14:22.900 paper checks out with the metalsmithing you're uh do you make swords and shit or what do you do

00:14:31.080 uh no i make uh i make basically jewelry so i am jewelry i've made yeah oh you make jewelry okay

00:14:39.100 metalsmithing okay interesting oh that would be a blacksmith i guess can you blacksmith

00:14:44.820 um not blacks i could i could learn blacksmithing easily okay that's just larger scale metalsmithing

00:14:52.700 so the same same principles different metal got it okay cool uh before i have every go around once

00:14:59.380 more there's a couple people that bought some stuff from our merch store so we got og rider bought a

00:15:04.380 i assume a hoodie thank you so much man appreciate he says love from london og thank you man appreciate

00:15:09.460 it and then kai baka here uh sent in also donation thank you for the i think you bought the t-shirt

00:15:14.860 kai baka thank you so much for uh getting that t-shirt really appreciate it and then uh quickly

00:15:20.500 via venmo or notes via the cash app thomas sent in seven thank you so much thomas and elmer sent in

00:15:26.680 about three dollars thank you elmer appreciate it man thank you thank you all right guys so going around

00:15:31.340 the table once more what is your current relationship status if you're single how long have you been

00:15:36.540 single and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in starting with you go ahead can you

00:15:41.160 repeat the question please yeah so current relationship status if you're single how long

00:15:46.320 have you been single longest relationship so i'm currently in a relationship okay and i my longest

00:15:54.100 relationship was six years and i've been with my current partner for almost two years okay

00:16:00.260 two years so long as six years when was that the six year one that ended uh two and a half years

00:16:08.860 ago okay who broke up with who i broke up with him why i was it started when we were in high school so

00:16:19.540 we just kind of grew apart and grew up in different ways was he better at jujitsu than you no he didn't

00:16:25.080 do jujitsu oh okay have you ever um gotten to a scuffle with a romantic partner no never okay so

00:16:33.420 you've never had to like you know put somebody in some shit your current boyfriend does he do jujitsu

00:16:38.280 yeah he's also a professional jujitsu athlete is he a black belt no okay is purple brown he competes at

00:16:45.540 a high level well purple brown which one oh yeah well he's a purple belt but he competes against black

00:16:50.700 belts oh i see okay got it no gi gi all no gi i don't like gis you don't like you okay yeah

00:16:57.360 why is that i'm just curious why it seems like people have a stronger preference towards no gi is

00:17:02.520 it just it's different right i feel like it has more real world application um and i also don't

00:17:08.920 like the feeling of the gi against my skin and i don't like these are like 100 bucks a pop and you

00:17:14.260 need like 20 of them oh shit okay makes sense checks out okay and uh you said your last the

00:17:21.660 six-year relationship ended two and a half years ago but you've currently been in your current

00:17:25.720 relationship for two years so what was the period of time between the breakup of your six-year

00:17:29.760 relationship and meeting your current boyfriend i met him um like six months after i broke up with my

00:17:37.560 ex and then we started dating very quickly after we met okay so you didn't like know him

00:17:43.140 when you were dating no okay got it pretty not bad rebound though six months

00:17:50.240 all right there's a little bit more than that i guess it was like probably closer to three years

00:17:54.800 that i broke with my ex got it and how did you guys meet um i met my now boyfriend at a jiu-jitsu

00:18:01.220 tournament all right nice there you go there you go what about you um so i'm single okay and i've been

00:18:09.180 single not that long i actually just broke up with my boyfriend i guess at the time

00:18:16.120 what was yesterday yesterday was yesterday the fashion show no friday wait you broke up with your

00:18:22.960 boyfriend on friday night okay yeah what happened um oh a lot of things yeah uh so yeah it's just it

00:18:34.640 was very interesting we just weren't compatible who broke up with you i broke up with him but he

00:18:39.000 was spreading rumors that he broke up with me first like he was saying he told other girls he broke up

00:18:43.840 with me and uh he didn't tell me that but he was telling other people that so i made it official

00:18:50.260 we was telling people that before you guys broke up correct oh yeah that's how long were you guys

00:18:56.840 together not long it was very very short yeah we we didn't even i would say like a couple months no

00:19:04.220 like weeks like maybe a week a week or two is a typical la relationship okay yeah oh and so it's

00:19:11.740 like it's not even real doesn't even yeah a couple weeks okay yeah uh so okay longest relationship

00:19:18.820 longest relationship was five fully five years fully and then seven off and on with the same person

00:19:25.880 so five years all together it was like my first real boyfriend uh who broke up with who there

00:19:33.360 um so since it was off and on it was like so i don't know the first time we just it's almost amicable

00:19:42.440 like we just fell apart in different ways honestly and then kept trying to redo it okay and uh

00:19:52.320 you said it was on again off again how many times was it on and off more times than i can remember

00:20:00.540 honestly because uh well i guess less than 10 yeah okay yeah uh so you're currently single are there any

00:20:07.160 guys in the picture uh well i mean i i feel like there's opportunities you know like i'm not

00:20:13.780 actively like seeing anybody but you know do you have a roster i mean i wouldn't call it around call

00:20:21.380 it a line more than a roster okay that's funny all right have well you said you broke up with your

00:20:28.080 boyfriend friday yeah

00:20:30.120 have you been on a date since no okay yeah all right so i'll just say three days i guess you're

00:20:38.800 working what about you um i am single i would say i'm single other people might say their relationship

00:20:46.860 with me but i say i'm single okay that's messy and uh my longest relationship um probably like

00:20:54.180 three years on and off all right and then uh how long have you been single for

00:21:00.100 like two years two years how many guys are currently in the picture two two guys how long

00:21:09.720 have you been seeing these two guys um one for like seven months and the other for like

00:21:15.880 three months or so but the seven month one is really toxic he's really really toxic so it's on

00:21:22.140 off okay do they know about each other no are they watching the live no no

00:21:29.820 they don't even know like what this is yeah okay and um what's the so i wouldn't too i don't know if

00:21:40.920 that would be a roster but have you ever had a roster yeah i mean there's a definitely like i don't

00:21:46.500 know how to explain this you you're saying there's you so you have the seven month guy and the three

00:21:50.360 month guy but then you have some more you got side hose yeah for sure the show the show oh show

00:21:58.400 um how many side hose do you have currently like two but i don't really like i just like to talk to

00:22:04.840 them i don't really actively like hook up with all of them if that's what you're gonna ask next i

00:22:08.500 feel like you're getting there so you said you have two side hose yeah okay two so you're kind

00:22:16.480 of talking to four people at the same time kind of what's the biggest the roster has ever been

00:22:21.340 like five or six six i guess but that's just when you're just like dating you know like you're just

00:22:27.640 going on dates and some of them last for like a couple weeks you talk to them some last for like

00:22:31.000 a couple months but nothing like too serious i guess okay all right uh

00:22:38.040 what about you um i'm single um i've been single for five years um my longest relationship

00:22:50.960 is two years on and off it wasn't like great but you know whatever history i guess you know works

00:23:00.100 itself out sometimes um so you've been single for five years yeah is there a guy currently in the

00:23:06.380 picture yeah well not like yeah but like yeah okay um so yeah there's a guy in the picture or can you

00:23:18.340 clarify yeah like yeah there's someone around right are you sleeping with him yeah okay how long have

00:23:26.180 you been dating him oh we're not dating okay well how long have you spent time with him i guess

00:23:30.360 like have you known him for like years years yeah and have you been hooking up for years yeah him

00:23:38.640 and like i don't know just sometimes like it's cool not it's cool but i feel like as you get older

00:23:43.620 like you can come to mutual agreements with people to have open or relationships i guess i don't know

00:23:52.280 okay so you guys have like an open arrangement basically um yeah because he kind of does whatever

00:23:58.220 i do whatever you know what i mean like it's cool when you're at a mutual understanding with people

00:24:03.120 sure uh do you you don't currently have a roster though yeah there's people there too oh okay

00:24:10.100 that you're like there's he's like oh yeah so there's some that you're just talking to maybe

00:24:18.380 oh they're cool no like they um like um vacation you know what i mean like if i need help with stuff

00:24:25.300 there for me like mentally um emotionally you know like sometimes if one person isn't understanding

00:24:31.500 you someone else might that's why when people ask like oh do you have a type i don't really have a

00:24:36.080 type because it's like when it comes down to it i feel like you're closing yourself off if you have

00:24:40.660 a type you know what i mean you're not you could say this my type this one i'm sticking with this what

00:24:45.100 i'm going to be you know whatever and then someone else completely is not really your type and

00:24:51.460 you're vibing with them more okay and uh so how's the roster looking right now how many people are

00:24:59.600 are in the picture in some way i don't know it looks like you know like i don't know tell me

00:25:07.720 that's what i'm trying to compare it to like five you don't need to give me the exact number five

00:25:12.680 so yeah no way no they're cool it's cool maybe like four three sometimes three and five you know

00:25:19.380 between three and five it's cool some somewhere between three and five and what's the biggest

00:25:23.420 the roster has ever been oh only like five six you max out at six okay i know i'm like i don't know

00:25:33.380 just because it's kind of cool sometimes if you think of it like um well one person won't do another

00:25:39.520 person will you know what do you mean if you don't want to hang out and go to dinner today or you

00:25:44.820 don't want to go to this movie with me you don't want to do this today someone else will want to do

00:25:48.200 with me do you uh anybody else here have a roster any other you're gonna have to clarify what a

00:25:55.440 roster is oh like multiple guys you're dating multiple guys basically okay yeah no so question

00:26:01.360 for you um do you have like one guy who's really good in bed one guy who's got money one guy who's

00:26:09.320 funny and like you enjoy spending time with him like is that when you say you have they i guess they

00:26:14.920 fill different needs is that kind of what you're talking about um no because when you kind of hold

00:26:19.940 yourself different you expect the same from all the same people but in different types of ways if

00:26:25.000 that makes sense like i'm not gonna say oh this person he fucks me good but he does nothing nothing

00:26:30.340 nothing because i feel like that don't really do anything for anyone you know and then it's the

00:26:35.020 same thing oh he has money but he doesn't pick up the phone he doesn't this he doesn't that he

00:26:38.980 doesn't you know what i mean you're just looking at for different places so if you're looking for

00:26:43.100 someone who has multiple in them sometimes it's kind of like i just like you and i just like you

00:26:49.000 and sometimes we hang out better doing different sure things i guess got it that's why the multiples

00:26:54.020 got to stick around you know going to carly have you ever had a roster like i said i wouldn't call

00:26:59.320 it a roster i'd call it more of like a line i have a lot of people a lot of people who yeah literally

00:27:05.440 me and my best friend love this line thank you next thank you next have you ever had a roster

00:27:11.560 no okay all right uh what about your relationship status i'm single for about two years um my

00:27:20.020 longest relationship was about six and a half years six years and i don't have a roster

00:27:26.820 and yeah in your six and a half year relationship who broke up with who

00:27:32.740 it was kind of like a mutual breakup because we kind of stayed friends um so yeah we still we're

00:27:41.120 still friends to this day so that's good you stayed friends with him okay and you've been single for

00:27:45.640 three years two like almost two yeah two years is there any guy in the picture currently no guys in

00:27:52.620 the picture no guys in the picture so you've been celibate for two years yes well my job helps so

00:27:59.440 oh you do uh okay got it got it okay i mean just solo but sure yeah oh well have you had

00:28:12.140 intercourse with a man in the past two years three years um i don't think i'm sure i'm just like i'm

00:28:20.500 sure she has i don't know some people be celibate for long extended years you know she's like solo

00:28:28.520 that was so good solo i know that's right like um with my ex-boyfriend yes for a video just because

00:28:38.100 i still trust him oh you do content with them but yeah got it okay okay what about you um i'm single

00:28:48.540 i've actually never been in a relationship but i was kind of involved with someone for like a year

00:28:52.640 but um we're still friends so it's like we ended things back i want to say like june of last year

00:28:57.940 june of last year but he's like he was one of my really good friends brother and they're actually

00:29:02.540 they actually came with me up here but oh just to yeah it was um yeah so my good friend lives with

00:29:08.660 me and then it's he's best friends with the older brother wait is your your friend girl or guy

00:29:13.520 it's a guy okay got it yeah and have you guys had the thing who your friend the one you live with

00:29:21.460 oh the one that i lived with no you said you came up with a friend yeah i came up with a friend i was

00:29:26.140 involved with one of them for like a year but we're still really good friends but not wait so you came

00:29:30.800 up with two guys three oh you're here with three guys yep have you and you had a thing with one of

00:29:36.020 them yeah and you had another thing with another one of them no oh just one of them lives with me

00:29:40.940 and like my family no that's what you said the one like no i did not have a thing with the one

00:29:45.100 that lived with me right okay his brother right i see um and so the one you had a thing with that's

00:29:52.120 the one that lasted about a year yeah about a year okay but you wouldn't consider it a relationship

00:29:57.520 yeah no i mean i guess you consider it like i guess we're dating but we're in high school and

00:30:04.020 like we never went on dates he never asked me to be his girlfriend we didn't even go to prom

00:30:08.760 together so i would not consider him what was the i guess the nature of your guys's uh relationship

00:30:15.720 what do you mean what would you guys do um well we just hang out a lot um he was like i don't know

00:30:22.420 like i would kiss him but we never slept together anything oh okay so but you guys would um like how

00:30:29.320 frequently i guess would you guys hang out well he's he's actually my neighbor so we'd hang out like

00:30:34.000 all the time oh all the time yeah okay so you guys kissed and that's it that's it and did did

00:30:39.780 he try more or like um i mean he was open to it but like i just you weren't feeling it yeah no it

00:30:47.320 wasn't that i wasn't feeling it just i i just don't want to lose my virginity yet okay you're a virgin

00:30:53.340 yes i am nice oh you're currently yeah i am oh okay there you go yeah no a lot of people actually

00:30:59.220 whenever i tell people that like just whoever i'm friends with they actually don't believe me because

00:31:02.820 i'm friends with like a lot of boys so like i don't know i guess because i'm friends with a lot

00:31:07.000 of guys they think because i'm hanging out with guys i'm sleeping with them but that's how i grew

00:31:10.960 up too yeah exactly it's uh it's okay people can think what they want and have you there's that one

00:31:16.800 guy who you were sort of seeing but not really or whatever yeah uh have have you been i guess

00:31:22.160 romantic with anybody else um yeah i guess there was one other guy so i've only ever kissed two guys

00:31:28.740 and the first guy um i went to prom with him and then it was like my sophomore prom and like at the

00:31:35.500 prom after party he like tried to kiss me i didn't really want to kiss him and then after he kissed

00:31:40.860 me he like hit me with his teeth and i was so embarrassed i was like this is terrible like i'm never

00:31:44.340 kissing you again and then i'm walking away and he calls me a different name and i come to find out

00:31:49.680 later that that was actually his girlfriend and she knew about me and they're still together oh no

00:31:53.700 nice yeah god love it that's awesome um it was terrible are you currently is there any guys in

00:32:01.520 the picture currently or um no i mean i'm single so like i'll like flirt with guys sometimes but not

00:32:07.800 really gotcha and are you uh are you waiting until marriage waiting for the right one i don't know

00:32:14.800 you don't know i feel like i've waited i mean i guess i haven't waited that long because i'm only 18

00:32:18.900 but i just think that it's like as i get older i think i'll just want to hang on to it more

00:32:24.100 that's good um and uh but do you like is it are you religious i guess or no um not really i mean

00:32:33.360 my parents were both very religious and i'm trying to like come back around to like religion but

00:32:38.000 that's not that's not why they're christian yeah they're christian okay that's not why though

00:32:43.120 maybe waiting for the right guy yeah and i've just found like a lot of guys that i'll

00:32:48.780 end up liking um and then they'll know i'm like a virgin they'll like want to sleep with me and so

00:32:53.380 it's like okay and then i'll tell them like i don't want to do that and then all of a sudden

00:32:56.680 they're gone and then they weren't worth it in the first place right right what do you tell them like

00:33:01.000 are you um are you saying i'm waiting for love i'm waiting for is there something specific you're

00:33:07.640 waiting for no i will i just don't want to just sleep with someone i barely know okay or i like see

00:33:14.260 myself long term with you want the time to be right yeah i guess are you waiting for love

00:33:20.500 no i'm not like waiting for anything specifically but sure like i people ask me i just say i don't

00:33:27.120 know i'm just not okay all right cool and uh question you said you have a bunch of male friends

00:33:34.100 do you have female friends yeah i do i just don't have as many i had a brother growing up and i was

00:33:40.280 really close with my brother's friends and so i've just over time i hung out with them a lot in

00:33:45.300 high school of your uh of your female friends uh have they lost their virginity yeah yeah okay so

00:33:53.740 you're kind of the lone wolf on that okay do you find just curious that your female friends have

00:34:00.720 ever like tried to do like a peer pressure not like insane pressure but have they ever pressured

00:34:07.460 you or made fun of you for uh no most of my female friends um they're like a lot of my friends are

00:34:13.720 older than me so they're always just like yeah stay like that like you're just a baby like a lot of

00:34:17.960 them are actually really happy for me and like they're like it's a good thing like they a lot of

00:34:21.580 them like wish that they didn't lose it as early as they did and so i'm feeling that right now

00:34:26.520 you're feeling that yeah well i don't know i feel better who else feels that who else feels that on the

00:34:32.680 and the panel tonight those what that they should have waited yeah i would have loved to wait longer

00:34:36.820 raise your hands show of hands

00:34:39.820 i'm happy for her

00:34:44.060 cool uh all right and uh what about you ruby um i'm single i've been single for um

00:34:55.660 year and a half longest relationship was three years um it was mutual um he just moved to another

00:35:04.720 state um didn't believe in marriage that's okay okay um oh wait he didn't believe in marriage or you

00:35:13.560 didn't believe in marriage he didn't believe in marriage okay so you wanted to get married

00:35:16.640 and he didn't yeah and um i kind of knew that starting the relationship i just i guess i just didn't

00:35:23.720 expect for it to last as long as it did um i just kind of entered that relationship without

00:35:29.420 expectations and um before i knew it i mean he asked me to move with him out of state and i was

00:35:37.420 open to it but i just wasn't open to leaving my family and my friends for something that's uncertain

00:35:44.920 and so i um did you did he tell you going in like hey i don't want to get married

00:35:52.640 um like a it's not something you say you know it's i guess it's something that

00:36:00.480 i guess well this was a conversation that we had as our relationship progressed it it was it the the

00:36:08.460 topic did come up okay got a question about on that what's the purpose of forming a relationship

00:36:16.640 with a man if the future is not ultimately to be married and to have children what what else would

00:36:23.220 it be no that's that's a great question um i think i was just not thinking i really wasn't thinking about

00:36:30.140 the future like i said i when i answered that relationship i didn't have any expectations you

00:36:35.940 know i was ignorant you know i was in a younger i didn't know i i guess i just at that age when i'm

00:36:44.580 like i think i was like 22 i wasn't thinking about marriage like i had never had a relationship

00:36:50.620 that um you know when you're in high school and you're dating you never think like oh this is the

00:36:56.580 person well at least i didn't i i didn't you know i just thought like oh he's my boyfriend my brain

00:37:01.680 just didn't see was he like past that was he your only relationship no no he was um i want to say he

00:37:08.660 was my third or fourth yeah so like marriage is like a deal breaker for you they don't want now

00:37:14.220 it is now that i'm like aware of it i i guess that i just wasn't paying attention i don't know

00:37:19.660 um to me it was just like oh i have a boyfriend and that's it that's it okay you know i didn't think

00:37:25.560 i wasn't thinking long term at all it's just i started thinking long term as our relationship

00:37:32.200 started getting young you're like 22 i don't think a lot of 22 unless you're growing up with that

00:37:36.780 yeah are really aware of that being a thing so i feel like as you get older then you kind of

00:37:40.620 realize what you want right yeah so that's where my mindset was at at that time okay felicity what

00:37:47.240 about you i'm in a relationship it's my longest relationship two years all right jim bob what about

00:37:55.260 you uh coming up on 10 years with my wife and uh we have children so um rock and roll that's the

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00:38:32.940 and uh okay we're all caught up there so i'm gonna get into some of our uh show notes here that i wanted

00:38:41.160 to do so where should we begin uh why don't we start with one sec guys uh oh taylor you know what i'll

00:38:53.220 ask you a question about uh dating and brazilian jiu-jitsu so tom brady was dating uh giselle or

00:39:01.480 bunchen or something i don't know what what is it she's supermodel yeah and she started getting like

00:39:08.300 mma or jiu-jitsu classes with like i think private instruction with this jiu-jitsu guy

00:39:13.660 and a lot of people believe that the downfall of the relationship i mean perhaps there i assume

00:39:20.460 there were other factors she was rolling around getting choked out by this you know authoritative

00:39:29.120 jiu-jitsu teacher they're touching each other they're they're you know all that stuff have you

00:39:35.560 ever have you personally seen a girl go in to jiu-jitsu and she's got some like computer engineer

00:39:42.460 boyfriend and then she leaves with like a fucking black belt or some shit you know have you seen

00:39:50.060 that shit it definitely happens it happens um but i feel like if a woman is going to be loyal to you

00:39:56.060 she's going to be loyal no matter what i feel like it's just a matter of like if your person is already

00:40:02.320 tempted by other things and there's already flaws in your relationship then of course they're going to

00:40:06.480 stray but i feel like if you guys already have a strong relationship then your girl doing brazilian

00:40:10.300 jiu-jitsu isn't like the problem you hear girls and it's a sport don't do any sport like yeah if you

00:40:15.420 think that if you think of jiu-jitsu as like smexual or anything like that then it's it seemed like if

00:40:21.360 you view it that way in the first place then uh then it's like well why do men do it with men

00:40:25.780 uh is also the question so it just kind of begs that question but uh the sport itself isn't the

00:40:31.900 problem it's the individuals so there's a sentiment online that's like if you're dating a girl

00:40:38.400 you can't let her do jiu-jitsu you can't let her do it because she's going to want to fuck the

00:40:45.840 the fucking instructor or some other practitioner wouldn't she just be like in a relationship with

00:40:52.180 them if that's what she wanted to do what do you mean like okay so if you're worried about her

00:40:56.880 wanting to like fuck her instructor wouldn't she just do that why would she be with you

00:41:02.540 well the temptation is there she has the access i don't know i feel like cheaters are going to cheat

00:41:08.240 regardless and so it's yeah i mean sort of but i think there's a component of if you put two people

00:41:14.640 in a situation you can like that that sort of thing can mean like bonding it can escalate but

00:41:21.480 it could be with any sport it could be with any sport like any instructor any type anything because

00:41:26.780 it's like you're teaching someone there are women are into learning there are specific activities

00:41:31.740 and venues that if you're involved in i think it can lead to infidelity for example i would say

00:41:40.260 somebody like if you're dating a woman who works in nightlife i think that there's a higher probability

00:41:46.760 i'm not saying it's a guarantee i think there's a higher probability for infidelity there's alcohol

00:41:52.020 involved there's you know that that whole environment um there's guys who are going to

00:41:58.680 be hitting on her i think in that environment infidelity there's a higher probability

00:42:03.700 no i mean not necessarily as long as that person has strict boundaries yeah i i agree with you i'm

00:42:10.740 speaking i'm not saying every single woman who's right right who works in nightlife is going to cheat

00:42:15.660 i'm saying there's a higher probability but i feel like with law enforcement there's a higher

00:42:19.860 probability of people cheating on their spouse they say salesmen do it too like especially in

00:42:24.960 law enforcement they say salesmen have a high probability on the road all the time airplane

00:42:31.920 uh rappers actors the uh steward actors are big too but i think to brian's point the question is is

00:42:42.480 there a line you draw for inappropriate behavior and appropriate behavior insofar as relationships

00:42:47.900 between men and women when you are in a relationship there is but it's just kind of what you're willing

00:42:53.380 to put up with because different women and different men are willing to put up with yeah it's all down

00:42:57.240 to preference and boundary you know what i mean because what you're gonna deal with someone else

00:43:00.880 isn't i don't think a sport should be yeah i don't think a sport's a deal hold on hold on

00:43:05.500 no but let's say she she wasn't doing it but she wants to get into it is it fair for the man to say

00:43:17.080 i don't want you to do that i mean maybe you could be like could you have a female trainer like if

00:43:21.600 you're that worried you could just like become a trainer learn it i mean most jujitsu places

00:43:25.780 it's not segregated like that there's not segregated classes it'd be nice if it was usually a women's

00:43:32.220 class at most jujitsu gyms but i but in general but generally speaking like i mean sure but like

00:43:40.060 the majority of the classes are uh are mixed i would assume they'd be segregated just because

00:43:45.600 no they're not there's such a difference in strength so there's other women there and maybe

00:43:51.440 like they'll be your part partner i feel like interesting oh yeah like a sparring partner i've

00:43:55.560 seen that well how about this do you guys know acro yoga

00:43:58.640 no have you guys seen that yes acro yoga yeah do you do acro yoga oh my god this guy's gonna steal

00:44:06.560 your girl oh my goodness quentin if i had a girlfriend there's no way no way i'm letting

00:44:12.580 my girl do acro can we um quentin can you google acro yoga so you're in the air doing yoga right google

00:44:19.060 it because i don't know if everybody who's watching or they know no yeah i thought it so it's like a

00:44:24.160 huge leg oh is it the guy like and he'll throw them in the air so he'll use his legs to lift

00:44:28.700 yeah i know what you're talking about i'm sorry bro if you're in a relationship i know plenty of

00:44:32.480 that's like basically foreplay well i mean there's it just depends on what the boundaries of your

00:44:38.220 relationship are but um yeah just do windows show us in windows tab is it f11 i mean i can understand

00:44:46.660 the yoga but oh this guy well this guy's not really i mean i've seen some studs yeah go but

00:44:52.780 sure i'm not scared of this guy but go ahead just so they know if i was a man i wouldn't mind

00:44:57.640 pause pause pause pause pause pause pause pause pause pause pause pause wait pause

00:45:02.660 um so this is you today honey this is flying on edgar we're talking about like the buff ones that

00:45:12.120 are all hot yeah i think i'm still not letting i'm still not letting my girl do it but i've seen

00:45:19.660 some crazy ones where like more intermingled right yeah i think it's fair as a guy in a relationship

00:45:27.500 hold on hold on i think it's fair as a guy in a relationship to be like nah you can't do that

00:45:33.280 i'm not letting you go do acro yoga with a dude okay well vice versa right you walked in on that if

00:45:39.400 you walked in on that i mean that you know that would be a headline for me you know i'd be in the

00:45:43.380 headlines if i walked in on that yeah you'd murder jim bob you'd murder somebody would you murder your

00:45:49.600 wife wait i don't know but i would be in the headlines i won't say specifically but if you walked

00:45:54.900 in a room and and your wife is doing the you know flying in the sky with a dude i mean it's intimate

00:46:01.600 this is what this is what it is it's intimacy it's not even like sexual like kind of thing like

00:46:06.560 cheating you think of cheating it's intimate if you make it possibly say that it's not intimate right

00:46:12.120 i mean you have to make it that way it's like people go on dancing with the stars dancing is

00:46:15.640 intimate but there there's a lot of people on dancing with the stars that are married

00:46:19.440 and as long as you just your spouse has to be okay with it how long i'm not sure i watched that

00:46:26.080 when i was a kid but type of thing and he really married it's all up to the people you're in

00:46:31.380 relationship with i also have to just sorry no i interrupt you i'm sorry it's okay um yeah i just

00:46:37.340 private chat it's okay go ahead go ahead um just like to your sentiment that you were saying that um

00:46:42.160 if you if a man is in a relationship and has an objection with his uh partner doing jujitsu um

00:46:48.140 i don't necessarily believe that that has i think that if you're a man who has an objection

00:46:54.560 with your partner doing jujitsu then maybe just go do jujitsu with her like you can just be a part

00:46:58.820 of the sport in that i don't think that you should necessarily dictate her behavior i think that you

00:47:02.900 can dictate your behavior around it like if she really wants to do jujitsu and learn self-defense

00:47:07.320 then i could understand that as a man you might want to just go with her um but i don't think that

00:47:11.600 it's like but i think that as you get into the community you'll realize how um non-sexual the

00:47:16.820 sport is in the first place i think it's only sexual yeah i'm not just to be clear i'm not like

00:47:21.000 downplaying the martial arts component of jujitsu it's a legitimate martial arts practice it's extremely

00:47:28.860 effective um but there's a component of i'm not by doing this i don't think we're sexualizing it

00:47:37.720 it's just look at what happened to tom brady tom brady uh good looking rich best nfl quarterback ever

00:47:45.700 status and he can't hold on to his chick do you know if he's a great person yeah he's probably cool

00:47:51.900 guys guys one at a time please but if tom brady can't hold on to like literally one of the he's

00:48:04.160 like a 0.0001 top tier guy if he can't hold on to his chick and she she did jujitsu well i'm banning

00:48:13.920 my girl from doing jujitsu but that's tom brady don't because tom brady's not into it he's like

00:48:19.660 you know what we're not doing jujitsu no more it's not the thing you're like my shorty's not going to

00:48:24.460 jujitsu i said something about it's not being not sexual but i think you're speaking from a female

00:48:30.800 if anything what if like she could protect you i'm not saying like i'm not doubting you ever

00:48:36.900 i don't know if i would be with a man i'm not my protection right are you guys saying that a man

00:48:42.820 wrestling with a with a woman in this case jujitsu they're probably fit probably in good shape that

00:48:48.260 the man uh won't um examine the woman if you will uh if they're that close if they're rolling around

00:48:55.500 with their bodies and stuff you think it's not sexual from the female perspective but

00:48:59.380 it's kind of naive to think a man uh having his impulses uh having a woman right in front of

00:49:06.060 him to wrestle with on the ground in all sorts of positions um you know isn't going to have some

00:49:10.980 thoughts about that that's i think what what brian and i are saying like we would know what the man is

00:49:16.860 thinking in that environment and that's why we wouldn't want uh to put our our woman in that

00:49:21.540 environment right to an extent so that you know everybody has intrusive thoughts so sometimes you

00:49:26.320 can have them and make them go away i will agree with that i think that um men and women are wired

00:49:32.460 differently and while we may not see it as wrong from our perspective we don't know exactly how the

00:49:39.140 male mind works and but one thing we do know for sure is that they're very physical so it might not

00:49:46.400 trigger something for us but it might trigger something for them very look driven yeah

00:49:50.800 like based on that video is it is jujitsu that intimate because i mean their faces were like

00:49:58.680 jujitsu is a lot worse oh no that was acro yeah they're like yeah jujitsu like you like touch each

00:50:05.580 other like that or yeah you're belly to belly yeah i mean i have no idea legs wrapped around each other

00:50:12.440 like crotch inches away from somebody's face it's like a triangle at times at times well for the

00:50:18.720 triangle you know but you're also doing that to people of your same gender and men are doing it to

00:50:23.300 men women are doing it to women and like vice versa like it all goes um you i understand that people

00:50:28.360 are saying that men are wired differently but um you can't really you can't maintain those thoughts

00:50:35.060 while somebody's trying to choke you and break your arms um that's just so i believe that if somebody was

00:50:40.120 um having those intrusive thoughts they would very quickly be interrupted by the actual sport itself

00:50:45.440 because if either of you guys are um actually doing the sport at all um that's gonna very quickly be

00:50:52.140 interrupted by like a submission like i trust my partner completely to roll with women and i don't

00:50:57.180 have a problem with that that's good yes he's also he also does jujitsu and i don't mind him rolling

00:51:03.160 with women yeah i will say that trust is a big deal in a relationship like it's a must if there's no

00:51:08.160 trust is there a relationship really i agree i trust my partner completely and i would never

00:51:13.320 expect that type of behavior from him so uh and i would hope he would never expect that from me

00:51:17.780 right i had no idea was that which which one of you would have a negative reaction if you were in

00:51:23.780 jujitsu and then your your husband or your or your boyfriend said no i don't want you doing that

00:51:28.820 i think i would just have sorry i would have a negative reaction just because i don't know he's

00:51:37.760 telling me i guess if it was my husband to be different but he's my boyfriend if i could make

00:51:41.880 money some kind of way doing it or i don't know i personally wouldn't even want to grapple with a

00:51:47.720 guy because it doesn't make any sense to me though so i wouldn't do it in the first place i mean the

00:51:52.380 thing is if you're in a if you're going to jujitsu class regularly like you're probably going to

00:51:56.540 like be practicing or rolling with with guys it's different if it's like an instructor but i don't i

00:52:02.020 feel like if they're teaching it's going to be another student probably yeah then i wouldn't prefer to do

00:52:06.200 that in general just because of my own preferences just as i wouldn't want my boyfriend doing it

00:52:11.120 honestly with a woman either yeah and i'll say if a guy's doing jujitsu and he's taking it seriously

00:52:16.840 to want to improve i think he would want to practice with someone in that same same yeah same level it

00:52:24.740 wouldn't make sense for him it's like weight it's weight class but i mean i mean yeah but like exactly

00:52:30.580 it's weight class so he would find i would assume the logical thing to do is to find someone in the

00:52:35.920 weight class in that same gender i agree you know i think it's very easy it doesn't really give you

00:52:40.840 an excuse to like oh i'm practicing jujitsu so i'm that's why i have a female partner um you know

00:52:46.880 because you can easily select a male partner i agree right that that's that's an option yeah it's an

00:52:52.320 option conversely like um if you're a woman in jujitsu um like an example of like my boyfriend say if

00:52:59.300 he's very skilled and i trust him completely and i'll even recommend that like women roll with him

00:53:04.360 because i know he's safe and i know he's not going to like do anything weird or think about them in

00:53:08.500 that way and i know he can show them new moves and stuff like that so if like i just rolled with

00:53:13.580 that woman and they're just like oh who else is safe and there's not a partner available to them i'm

00:53:17.380 just like oh yeah grab grab my boyfriend so i think if you're talking to a girl and you meet her

00:53:25.320 and she's already involved in jujitsu i think it's going to be a harder sell to say stop but if you've

00:53:31.060 already been you've been dating her for six months a year whatever and then she's like i want to start

00:53:35.740 i think you have far more leverage in that situation to be like don't don't like it don't do it it's

00:53:42.680 okay this idea but i'm curious who here kind of piggybacking off of jim bob's point who here

00:53:49.080 because i know some of you don't currently do jujitsu but if you had a boyfriend and he said

00:53:54.740 you're considering it and he said no uh would you have an issue with that i think you raised your hand

00:53:59.660 i would probably have an issue with that yeah an issue with that okay uh and so what would that

00:54:04.660 be a breakup for you um i mean i wouldn't break up with someone over that i mean i would just do the

00:54:10.840 jujitsu if i wanted to do it and it's like if it's a problem to you that much like i guess

00:54:15.100 it's a problem to you sure so i think i mean i think the guy's position would essentially be

00:54:22.700 well you can go do it but we're not dating anymore it was nice to know you

00:54:26.260 yeah that's typically how it goes me doing like jujitsu and obviously my like going into it i

00:54:32.140 wouldn't be seeing it as like a sexual thing and like if it was a problem for him um if like the

00:54:37.300 relationship was only if he had to break up with me because i'm doing jujitsu then i wouldn't i don't

00:54:42.680 know that's on him is there anything a guy can tell you not to do that you would not do um i mean

00:54:49.200 like when i was involved with that one guy i was talking about he didn't love that i like went out

00:54:55.300 a lot but i still went out i just want to go out as frequently like i'm i don't know i'm still gonna

00:55:02.360 live my life regardless it's all about a preference game but so question though um it seems like at

00:55:10.840 least with that guy wasn't super serious you say you never had a boyfriend so i mean you didn't have

00:55:16.080 the title when you get the title though one of if let's say this is the perfect guy by the way

00:55:22.060 perfect guy but he has conditions one of these conditions is don't want you to go out anymore

00:55:27.620 do you accept the condition or is the relationship over um it'd probably be over because if he didn't

00:55:31.760 want me to go out he wouldn't be the perfect guy for me could you compromise yeah i mean i could

00:55:35.880 totally compromise but if you're gonna it's never gonna be the perfect guy if he's like you cannot go

00:55:40.460 yeah yeah so to be clear yeah i'll explain differently so when i say perfect guy it's

00:55:45.200 perfect but this so it's like perfect but he doesn't like okay so what is your sense of what

00:55:52.700 perfect means he's like insanely attractive he could have all the characteristics that you

00:55:59.240 prefer or have a strong interest in he could be rich he could be all the things so perfect guy

00:56:05.420 like question for you do you think you'll end up with a perfect guy um i don't know i don't think

00:56:10.820 everyone's like perfect exactly so i think it just perfection is extremely rare right uh most people

00:56:16.800 are going to end up like for example an average person is going to end up with an average person

00:56:20.960 right and it might you might have good fit with each other but there are going to be some things that

00:56:25.920 are less than ideal less than perfect about a person but people make these sort of trade-offs in

00:56:31.000 relationships where it's like well you know they've got like a pokemon car collection or like

00:56:35.160 other you know maybe they mildly annoy me in this one way but i still love them and they're great

00:56:39.960 whatever um people are rarely like 100 perfect right but so just to be clear you're not willing

00:56:45.300 to sacrifice going out for the perfect guy well it depends how old i am and also it i guess okay well

00:56:52.760 i don't know it has to do with a trust thing too because i don't i don't drink or smoke and obviously

00:56:58.460 i'm not intimate with a ton of people and so what would realistically be the problem like i'm just

00:57:04.240 going out having fun with my friends and i'm normally the driver a lot so it's like what are

00:57:08.860 you saying sorry you should be allowed to go out with your friends i mean that's fine as you go out

00:57:12.800 with your friends though do you mean what because go out with your friends could mean you guys go get

00:57:19.380 brunch or you go to the club and you guys are drinking and there's a bunch of other men i personally

00:57:26.300 don't drink either so yeah yeah but if you did drink but if you did drink i used to drink and i

00:57:33.960 used to you know party with my ex-boyfriend and i don't know i i let him go out and do whatever he

00:57:39.920 wanted to do really like i didn't i trusted that he wouldn't cheat on me and i probably wouldn't go

00:57:44.200 the question brian is pointing to for chair what one do six um is that is there a threshold at which

00:57:52.960 the man you're with even if they're not your husband yet you'll actually honor the obligation

00:57:58.140 to the relationship over your preferences to do whatever right because there's this sort of rebellious

00:58:03.580 uh feminist spirit that you're sort of uh showing here is that ultimately in the end it's

00:58:10.160 whatever you want in the end and i'm wondering we're asking at what point guys stop no go ahead

00:58:17.880 for yourself at what point like when is it when is because you said i'm young it depends on who i am

00:58:23.760 so what but the thing is what are you 25 me i'm 18 yeah oh you're 18 okay yeah you are young so in

00:58:31.680 the instance where you meet a man and like brian said he's perfect and the only imperfection you find

00:58:37.060 is that he kind of he wants to settle down he wants he sees you as the mother of his children he sees

00:58:42.800 you as his wife his long-term thing and you see this for him as well but the only thing is you just

00:58:47.760 want to do a little eat pray love on the weekends and and you know potentially be pursued by other young

00:58:54.000 men we're asking no if i'm in a relationship i don't want to be pursued by other people well i'm

00:58:59.420 saying that you will be okay you'll be putting yourself in the situation we're asking you at what

00:59:04.980 point do you abandon your preferences and your wants to honor and uh follow the obligations of

00:59:11.240 the relationship um i think compromise is key i don't think it should be one way or the other i think

00:59:15.720 there should be a medium what you're saying but what is it for you though that's what brian well like

00:59:21.640 i said i went out less i would go out with him like when i was like involved with someone i didn't

00:59:26.360 go out as much i would go out with him i'd update him all the time i text him frequently but if like

00:59:31.720 the end point is that i'm okay you cannot go out at all it probably wouldn't be the right person for

00:59:36.160 me because i'm really social i like to go out and it's like i'm not doing i'm obviously not doing

00:59:40.820 anything i'm not intimate with a ton of people i'm not drinking so it's i just don't really think it's

00:59:46.300 my problem yeah here i i got a question or jim bob did you have a follow-up or no no go ahead okay um

00:59:52.640 so if we're looking at the perfect guy okay um so this perfect guy he could whatever that perfect

01:00:03.020 guy looks like to you at least from my perspective having had quite a bit of dating experience uh

01:00:09.180 finding somebody who's compatible and who's remarkable who's exceptional i mean perfect goes

01:00:16.620 even beyond exceptional and remarkable is exceedingly rare it's it's exceptionally rare it in fact perfect

01:00:24.620 doesn't even exist so i would make all sorts of uh i guess i don't know if sacrifices is the right word

01:00:34.460 i would make maybe concessions even i would make plentiful concessions and sacrifices for the perfect

01:00:42.420 woman but like you just okay hold on i don't go out to bars and clubs you're not willing to make that

01:00:52.900 trade-off to me i mean hey that's that's you i guess i'm seeing it as like you're saying this is my

01:00:57.780 perfect person and i think my perfect person would be okay with that but does the perfect person make

01:01:04.060 you stop doing everything you need to do in your life okay do you like um could you do you like ice

01:01:10.260 cream yeah i like ice okay question for the perfect guy you could never it's not okay it's not something

01:01:18.440 that the guy is imposing upon you in the hypothetical scenario you are delivered the perfect guy on a

01:01:24.740 silver platter but in order to do that you have you have to grant to the universe that you won't

01:01:30.900 participate in certain behaviors would you give up eating ice cream for the perfect guy i mean i don't

01:01:39.160 think i should have to live my life around someone else even if they're just granted i just granted

01:01:42.980 i know but even if they're the perfect person for me they're not good that no but the perfect guy

01:01:47.380 he's not imposing this through his will on you the universe is saying i'm giving you a trade

01:01:53.400 so it's not it it's a hypothetical of course it makes sense so the universe is presenting to you

01:01:59.560 a scenario here's a perfect guy but you can no longer eat ice cream okay so he's not the one who's

01:02:07.120 enforcing does he let her go out huh is he the perfect guy does he let her go out well first

01:02:11.640 answer the ice cream one i probably wouldn't want to give up ice cream i really like ice cream

01:02:16.960 bro you guys are insane

01:02:18.580 so you get your fun in you have your ice cream parties

01:02:29.100 like if this is someone she also said she also said i don't want to give up anything i want for

01:02:34.400 someone else right well what do you think motherhood's going to be okay you keep saying

01:02:38.120 motherhood i didn't say okay what i meant was i'm not going to change how i am because someone i want

01:02:42.820 to pursue doesn't like how i am i'm just not the right person for them it's all about preference

01:02:46.340 so it's like if i'm not the right person for someone i'm not no no hold on a second not everybody

01:02:50.140 wants kids but no but this is nonsense you have this view that when you meet someone the perfect

01:02:57.720 matches that every in which way that you are should be good enough what if it's the case that

01:03:02.760 the man who you meet helps you and what if it's the case that you help that man and his flaws and

01:03:08.820 you help each other to start with this approach it's super naive okay i'm granting you some charity

01:03:14.460 because you're 18 but it's very naive to go into relationships and looking at this paradigm through

01:03:19.340 the lens of i am who i am uh nobody i meet could ever contribute to me in a positive way by me

01:03:26.060 filtering out some of the bad things that i like okay um i understand what you're saying and i'm

01:03:33.180 not saying that i don't have room to grow and change and i think other people could help me grow

01:03:36.720 and like change but if it's something that i enjoy doing i'm probably not the right person for them

01:03:43.020 if they want me to stop doing something so if i'm talking about soccer if they don't want me to play

01:03:47.000 soccer anymore probably not the right person for them just how i see it from what i think in a

01:03:53.280 relationship also it's when to me um it's putting that person as uh giving them a priority and i

01:04:02.100 expect the same from them so if they want me to stop doing something and i trust that person and

01:04:08.160 that's what makes them part of that um makes them a perfect person is because i trust their judgment i

01:04:13.200 trust their initiative if they ask me to stop to do something i would want to understand why that where

01:04:20.380 that is coming from and if it's something that makes sense for both of us and it's not coming

01:04:25.660 out of insecurity then yes i would comply i would comply if it's something that's going to make us

01:04:31.100 grow together if it's going to make us move forward let's swap it for a second you you you ladies have

01:04:37.000 probably met many of men who stay up until 3 a.m um playing video games or something like that oh yeah

01:04:42.360 yeah i used to date a video gamer right right so if you thought that um maybe giving your opinion

01:04:49.180 about that that said you know you know i don't think this is actually good for you and because

01:04:54.260 it's not good for you it's not good for us let's say let's say hypothetically i don't i'm not even

01:04:58.860 saying i agree with this i'm just saying from your perspective wouldn't it be reasonable and and

01:05:04.040 justified from your position to say something and say you know what even though you like staying up

01:05:09.680 until 3 a.m um what sucks is that we don't have good mornings together you know we don't have coffee

01:05:15.560 together and talk and do all these other things that are bonding you're up late playing video games

01:05:20.500 and it's actually to the detriment of the next day would he if he said to you well i'm just doing what

01:05:26.580 i love and if you don't love if you don't accept me staying up until 3 a.m playing video games then

01:05:32.220 honey i ain't right for you i don't yes you can try i actually do agree with that statement if

01:05:37.820 that man truly just wants to be up at 3 a.m playing video games and that's like

01:05:42.020 who he believes that he is as a person then you guys aren't right for each other i don't think

01:05:45.920 it's like necessarily your place to change right that person exactly but i also think it's not

01:05:49.960 necessarily the gaming it's not necessarily you can ask it's not necessarily the gaming that's the

01:05:55.120 problem it's the effects of the gaming so there's a problem from the gaming so it's them not waking up

01:05:59.860 and having a good morning what would the problem of me going out be because i'm not drinking i'm not

01:06:04.840 being intimate with anyone i'm literally just having fun with my friends and being dd uh it just

01:06:09.700 increases uh your likelihood of being in a dangerous situation i'd like to add on to that

01:06:14.480 though what what are the potential ramifications jim bob said well it increases the chances of you being

01:06:20.320 in this situation do you want a guy who's a leader yeah do you want a guy who can protect you

01:06:25.120 yeah okay so you want a guy who's a leader you want a guy who can protect you part of men protecting

01:06:30.740 women is we don't through our leadership we don't want you guys to be put in potentially dangerous

01:06:37.480 situations okay so we know that women get roofied at parties and bars and clubs we know that there's

01:06:43.720 a higher likelihood of her being assaulted in some kind of way whether physically or otherwise

01:06:47.580 so people get shot at the store nowadays yeah i mean i was bro hold up just to be clear i've been

01:06:53.380 to trader joe's a fuck ton i've never seen a fight break down i was hold on hold on let me address

01:06:58.240 her thing i've been to trader joe's a bunch i've never seen a fight break out ever to

01:07:02.580 i've been in the store many times i've seen fights every time i've been out and i don't go out anymore

01:07:07.900 every time i've been out somebody's getting knocked the fuck out every single time i'm going

01:07:14.580 no here in santa barbara you go the bars downtown you go party at the college there's multiple fights

01:07:21.180 you can listen i mean i never do this but if you want listen to the police scanner people are

01:07:25.860 getting knocked out all this stuff people are going into fights a security guard he told me

01:07:30.160 all about the bars but i've also worked in bars been in bars you know you just have to keep your

01:07:34.840 words about you why are there bouncers in bars why do bars have you ever seen a bouncer at a trader

01:07:38.760 joe's i mean i've seen security guards i'm from la there's security guards everywhere i i don't see

01:07:44.140 security guards that i mean if you're in a dangerous area but like here in santa barbara you go to

01:07:49.540 trader joe's there's not a security la there is you go to a bar or nightclub there's a security

01:07:55.120 there's bouncers there's security all over the place and the trader joe's the ones in milk bus

01:07:59.560 the grocery stores in milk bus they have like a security guard yeah but i think that's like a

01:08:03.360 homeless problem well milk bus is kind of a little sketchy area but to your point like going out i'd be

01:08:10.000 in danger so yesterday i got off of work and it was broad daylight and i'm i work by the beach and i

01:08:15.200 went to go see my friends who were also at the beach and i was parallel parking and some guy came

01:08:19.560 up to my window and was trying to open my door and was kissing my window and like being gross and

01:08:24.140 being creepy that happens everywhere sure i'm not am i as a woman no but so then with your logic would

01:08:29.660 it be okay so after work i have to go straight home because i can't put myself in danger like

01:08:33.360 you can be no you're making a face but you said that going it's true though as a woman we're subjected

01:08:38.780 to it 24 7 wait a second do you think that the maybe the chances increase at night uh for your

01:08:46.180 danger as opposed to just citing this one anecdotal thing during the day that may have happened yeah i

01:08:50.780 mean they can increase at night but also if you're i don't know being responsible when you're going out

01:08:55.860 your chances are probably just as high as they are during the day etc no they're they're not they are

01:09:02.460 as a woman you have to put yourself on a woman's perspective just like how you say we need to put

01:09:06.620 ours in a our mind in a man's perspective when doing jiu-jitsu right you know what is he thinking

01:09:11.440 about what's a woman thinking about we can't walk down the street with our headphones in even in broad

01:09:16.400 daylight i'm constantly looking around constantly observant lock my car as soon as i get in it i

01:09:20.540 don't care if i'm sitting in my driveway because of how much i've been such up to it just the other

01:09:24.660 day super simple question super simple question is it like pretty much anywhere in the world

01:09:29.780 anywhere in the world is it safer at night or during the day

01:09:33.840 say about day yeah day is a bit safer but it can still happen daytime safe yes i agree that

01:09:40.040 crime can happen at any time of the day i agree with you but night time is typically worse and when

01:09:46.720 it comes to environments where there's alcohol and there's potentially guys who are trying to who

01:09:51.520 knows what they're trying to do that's what you're a smart enough woman to assess the situation

01:09:56.100 and as long as you're not you know getting you know shot at or something it's different it's

01:10:02.140 something you can control you can get yourself out of situation don't put yourself you can be in a

01:10:06.380 nightclub and still not put yourself in a bad situation right figure out how to get out giving

01:10:09.880 you the male perspective on one of the reasons why from in terms of our lens of wanting to be

01:10:17.200 protectors which you guys allege you want that with would be within the purview of leadership and

01:10:22.860 protection we don't want you putting yourselves in these sorts of dangerous environments so that's one

01:10:28.120 of the things but also as it relates to leadership if we're saying i don't want you to do this

01:10:34.280 are you a good so in order for there to be a leader there has to be a follower i've done a lot

01:10:40.580 of things for guys that say oh i don't want you to do this i don't want you to do that when it comes

01:10:43.700 to going out my job requires a lot of going out actually there's a lot of things i need to do

01:10:48.140 as an actress when it comes to going out afterwards or being involved in film festivals or meeting up at

01:10:53.800 bars for different things like that but talent rises to the top i don't care fucking oh you're

01:10:59.940 gonna go to the bars no like i do have to go out a lot networking there's a lot of networking is a

01:11:06.240 component it's hosted at a lot of venues that are clubs a lot of times if you're genuinely talented

01:11:11.140 you'll rise to the top yeah and then you also there's things like i've just been asked to not

01:11:17.820 to do a lot of things in relationships but even in music videos you know you get too close to the

01:11:21.260 guys or something when i was in a relationship there was a guy who didn't want me to be next to

01:11:25.520 the guy at all or have any physical contact and there's been a lot of times where i've been

01:11:30.180 submissive and it still doesn't work out because he's so insecure no matter what i did even if i was

01:11:35.080 just now i'm just in the music video getting my picture taken whatever he can make up anything

01:11:39.740 there's times where guys just ask you to do so much and then keep asking for more and more are you

01:11:45.780 saying the guys the guy that you were with was feeling insecure um because you were on a music

01:11:51.540 video right yeah i was in a music video and i was next to the guy you know we basically were a couple

01:11:56.940 in the music video is what it was like i wasn't like twerking or anything we were just in the music

01:12:02.420 video as a couple and then he saw it he said oh i'm not okay with that i'm not comfortable with it

01:12:07.340 and i said okay well then i i won't do that anymore like i won't i won't be next i won't have any

01:12:13.520 physical contact with guys in the music video from now on like actress or something is that like

01:12:18.240 your ideal situation for you right and i'm and i'm comfortable not signing certain contracts saying

01:12:23.320 that oh you have to have physical contact or anything like that because i think it protects us

01:12:27.360 both mutually in the relationship i wouldn't go on screen and be fully nude for example because

01:12:33.160 that's not something i would like either or you know have an intimate scene yeah i wouldn't

01:12:39.160 if i'm in a relationship with somebody i'm not going to go and kiss someone on screen

01:12:42.680 and i would sign a contract saying that i'm not going to be intimate with anyone

01:12:46.580 oh so going back to the leadership thing y'all want a guy who's a leader but you're not prepared

01:12:54.520 to be followers so stop demanding leaders if you're not prepared to follow and part of following means

01:13:00.280 you got to follow his lead but i feel like a leader sorry so a leader go ahead a leader doesn't

01:13:07.760 like command you it doesn't order you around that's not the definition of a leader a leader

01:13:13.560 guides it doesn't order you there's a difference you know and i'm of course a leader can tell you

01:13:20.660 what to do no no no but that's guiding that's not ordering you know like sit down oh that's a

01:13:25.700 that's a guidance counselor it's okay to have conversations i'm sorry yeah but you guys that's a

01:13:31.280 guidance counselor that's not a leader that's a guy there's difference between you waiting for her

01:13:35.320 sorry is he paying all of her bills she's in right he's paying all of her bills and doing all that for

01:13:39.440 her he's providing everything right he's leading and providing if he is hold on if he is what does

01:13:44.500 he get in return if he's doing i like i said i'm fine with doing certain things for a guy when he

01:13:52.360 is doing a lot for me as well and showing that he cares to me it's okay yeah i'm okay with doing

01:13:58.820 certain things for them i've i've like i said i've laid down a lot of my um career opportunities

01:14:05.500 you know things that could there's things that can enhance your career they don't have to torque

01:14:10.580 on screen or whatever but you know being even in physical contact you can't he didn't want me to put

01:14:15.160 my arm around anybody and taking pictures like things like that there's there's extremes i'm guiding

01:14:19.840 you not to go to the club okay okay i mean i'm dating club promoters i don't understand

01:14:27.540 bro bro stop she brought up a specific it's not all about you we're speaking in generalities here

01:14:33.220 i get you're involved in the nightlife whatever we're speaking in generalities in her case

01:14:38.220 she doesn't have any work relation to going out to bars and clubs so her career is not going to suffer

01:14:44.660 right so i'm speaking in generalities when i'm making these statements like but i also uh definition

01:14:52.840 like brian the definition of leader is a person who leads or commands a group organization or country

01:14:58.500 which would include an individual so literal the word command is in the definition of leadership but

01:15:03.940 um that's the difference between men and women a man would include command uh point direction lead

01:15:10.360 uh and a woman would use the word guidance you know like like if brian uh and i were like in a

01:15:17.940 discussion and there was like a a disagreement and he was like i command this you know you're you're

01:15:23.900 on this show i command that you do this and i go and i go well can't you guide me it wouldn't work

01:15:29.740 this is not leadership so so men actually can't be leaders of families they can't be fathers they

01:15:34.620 can't even be leaders of organizations um or anything else without commanding but you the the feminist

01:15:40.820 view is that they have to lead in a passive feminine way so they're kind of like a chick leader

01:15:46.840 like can you oh i want them i want a strong man who leads and provides but i want them to be

01:15:51.140 a chick leader i want them to lead in a in a feminine way this is you're not going to get the

01:15:55.740 kind of men you're just going to get a bunch of feminine men if if that's leadership to you

01:16:00.160 one thing that i would also like to add about this part is like at at 18 i might have agreed with that

01:16:08.280 because i was like the exact same way like i also wasn't up to any of that stuff but um i still

01:16:14.100 wanted to go out and i would have said the exact same things but like now at 25 it's like i don't

01:16:18.900 even have the desire to like go out to clubs and bars like that like that just doesn't even

01:16:22.940 sound exciting or fun to me like i like the only time i even really want to drink is like

01:16:29.300 of course there's some exceptions but like i just want to like stay at home and have like wine and

01:16:33.740 watch anime yeah no i totally get that that's why um like earlier i was saying it's all about

01:16:38.520 preference and like so i um 25 your preference now is to like stay in and like so i'm totally

01:16:44.760 agreeing with you like i probably just wouldn't want to be with someone that doesn't want me to

01:16:47.860 go out now i mean further down the line yeah i'd probably be more open to not going out but i'm

01:16:52.100 still young and i don't want to put my life like on hold for someone else yeah and i understand that

01:16:57.140 it's just like how how he was saying in the example of like if you have the perfect man would you

01:17:01.760 still want to go to bars and clubs it's like what there's realistically you there's a ton of ways

01:17:06.300 you can spend time with like your female friends or even like any other thing without going to a

01:17:10.800 bar or club like i personally don't really want to go spend time with my girls at a club we can do

01:17:15.300 literally anything else like even if we're going to like some type of lounge or something like that

01:17:18.480 like there's so many other things that you can do besides go to a club because clubs are where men

01:17:22.800 go to pick up women so why would i then insert myself into an environment where all the men are there

01:17:27.440 to pick up women if i'm a woman who isn't able to be picked up yeah so to me the only way i would

01:17:32.420 want to be at like a club club is with my boyfriend but like there's a ton of things i can just go do

01:17:37.560 with my girls i'm not saying i don't go out with my girls and stuff i'm just saying that like

01:17:40.520 clubs specifically i just don't see a reason that a girl in a committed relationship should be at the

01:17:45.460 club yeah i get that like i've had different perspectives throughout my life too that's hard

01:17:50.800 to interrupt you keep going back to preference too like right let's ask a different question are do

01:17:55.680 you have any obligations right now that would supersede your preferences what do you mean

01:18:01.320 do you have any obligations right now in your life that you have that that they come over your

01:18:08.340 preferences that they actually trump your preferences well i feel like i i do things that i want to do

01:18:14.620 i'm i'm confused at your question i guess is there anything that you do that you don't prefer to do

01:18:21.020 but you're obligated to do um yeah i guess like school but in goal in goal i want to be in school

01:18:27.320 so okay i don't know if that really question is like ultimately are you obligated to go to school

01:18:33.760 yeah you are you could you like if you said i mean i could quit school if i wanted to but right if you

01:18:40.180 prefer right okay so is there anything that you can think of in your lifetime even even looking far in

01:18:46.260 the future where your obligation to do something would trump your preference to not do it i don't

01:18:53.640 know i don't i'm not thinking that hard about motherhood are there things perhaps in your future

01:18:59.740 as a mother uh god willing that um you'll have to do things that are bound to your obligations and not

01:19:05.460 your preferences yeah but i think when i have kids i'll be ready to have kids and i'll want to have

01:19:10.720 kids so it'll ultimately all be things i'll want to do for my kids right but there are things you

01:19:17.060 don't want to do that you have to to your kids and for your kids too that's what i'm pointing to is

01:19:21.680 that ultimately obligations are the things that this generation has really lost you guys are just

01:19:27.760 driven by wants and desires and preferences and purely materialistic bullshit and then when you're put

01:19:33.280 on the spot uh asked like well do you want to find a man of your dreams you say yeah yeah i want

01:19:39.000 it to be this this and this high quality high income this this and this not that any of you've

01:19:43.060 gotten to that point on this panel yet but when we ask you in return what do you bring to the table

01:19:47.520 you never say i'll give you children i will stay at home and mother your children into great people

01:19:52.880 you say you say you just get me i'm good enough i have a you know i'm a graduate in sociology or some

01:19:58.580 shit and that's what we're asking you constantly what do you guys give in return for the men that

01:20:03.780 you're trying to find if they fulfill their obligations as men in your perfect world what

01:20:08.720 are you doing are you asking me or is that like everyone any of you i mean really any of you

01:20:13.260 loving environment

01:20:14.860 like a home like beautiful i don't know i feel like women are homemakers people are going to be

01:20:21.900 mad at me for it but women are homemakers that's what they used to do that's what they're supposed to

01:20:26.020 do they say that a house isn't a home without a wife they say that it takes a wife to make the

01:20:30.840 home what is a man supposed to do he's supposed to go provide for his family be a provider take

01:20:35.820 care of his whole family while the woman is at home taking care of her family taking care of her

01:20:40.640 house take because everything is hers it might be from the man but everything's the woman's you

01:20:47.120 know she takes care of the kid she takes care of the house she takes care of the food she takes care

01:20:51.000 of the laundry you don't know where your clothes are you're asking your wife you don't know where

01:20:54.180 your socks are you're asking your wife you don't know where something is you're calling your wife

01:20:58.600 i guess she brings in uh nurturing yeah it's like it's like more how they say too it's like um

01:21:06.100 dads are more aggressive they're more tough love and how moms are more nurturing like you said

01:21:11.380 nurturing you know like a woman's touch is really more what it is a lot of men don't want to say

01:21:15.520 that they need women they don't they say don't that but men do need women you know like i said

01:21:21.080 people are gonna be mad but i say behind every great man is a woman so it sounds like most of

01:21:27.500 you agree and understand the descriptive reality of men and women ultimately what their obligations

01:21:32.460 and duties and what they're good at uh are the question i have is what is this waste of time

01:21:38.440 between 22 years old and 35 figuring it out what is what is it you're doing um you know

01:21:46.540 some of us are healing you know some of us are healing yeah you know you're figuring it out

01:21:53.700 stage you don't really know until you go through it so yeah like sometimes some people too it's

01:21:57.800 like you could be with someone and you could think you're fully 100 ready you're there 100 ready but

01:22:02.300 you don't even know what ready is what are you you're ready for what though

01:22:05.440 what exactly are you ready for you're ready to get a house you're ready to get a business you're ready to

01:22:11.420 fully shift focus you're ready to start a family you're ready to do what exactly when you say you're

01:22:17.460 ready when you are 22 ready at 22 do you feel any of you guys here 18 19 20 21 22 25 do you feel

01:22:24.800 you're ready to take on any of that responsibility by yourself or with someone who you see yourself

01:22:30.620 with i did yes yeah i did when i was younger but just not motherhood i don't want to be a mother

01:22:35.500 different you know i have a lot of people they want kids they don't want kids some people they

01:22:39.880 don't even see themselves getting houses they want to live high-rise houses they want to live

01:22:44.180 penthouses they want to live traveling you know what i mean everyone's just kind of different in

01:22:49.100 in their own way you know i'd like to chime in with that like for me all i've i've always known

01:22:54.800 that i wanted to be a wife and at first i was like i don't want i at first i used to think that i didn't

01:23:00.080 want kids and then i realized like when i found the right person i realized that all i wanted to do

01:23:05.120 was like be a wife and mother and right now i like to settle down because that's what you know

01:23:09.100 because that's what's comfortable that's what you are raised to think you're supposed to get married

01:23:13.840 you're supposed to and most people do you know like you want to get married you want someone

01:23:17.200 there for you you want the everyone does you know you could say you don't be you know whatever

01:23:22.640 but to each his own but in the end that is why wouldn't you want to get married you know why

01:23:27.760 wouldn't you want to be with your person and like yeah that's the question that he was asking like

01:23:34.080 what's the wasted time between 22 and 30 for a lot of women and i'm personally saying that i don't think

01:23:39.480 that like for me personally i know that uh we might be speaking in generalities but i'm just

01:23:43.960 answering for me personally because that's all that i can like me personally i've always known

01:23:47.920 that i just wanted to be a wife and be a mother and um i've always known that i'm dating to marry

01:23:54.020 and like me personally i just don't i wouldn't entertain a man that i didn't think would be suitable

01:23:59.800 to be my potential husband nor would i enter a relationship with a man or any type of like

01:24:04.020 involvement with a man that i don't think is possible to be my future husband so i don't

01:24:09.560 think that i'm wasting time between 22 and 30 i like i feel like i'm exactly where i should be right

01:24:16.200 now uh do you really quick before you have your follow-up jim bob uh jj comes in here with a great

01:24:24.120 super chat go ahead and play the clip put it on a video all right go ahead and play it

01:24:28.800 with everything under the last boss and it wasn't good for me at all so i want guidance i want

01:24:37.340 leadership but don't just like boss me around you know like lead lead me when i'm in the mood

01:24:46.440 to be led to be led okay that's ridiculous but um yeah that's uh that's crazy um and then uh jim bob

01:24:56.560 do you have a follow-up on that i just wanted to frame it as like uh the the leverage that women

01:25:02.880 have um in you know it's still uh in disparity to men's force you know uh men dominate for a reason

01:25:11.820 but the the thing that women do have is their fertility and they what they do have is uh they

01:25:17.360 can offer a man uh what no other uh person could offer no other man could offer which is motherhood

01:25:24.180 which is being the spouse which is running the household which is for a society uh it's a

01:25:29.620 microcosm of the society the thing that women leverage is the ability to be the the bearers of

01:25:35.640 children for the next generation not only that but to raise them and it just seems that this whole like

01:25:40.220 i'm chasing my dreams i'm healing i'm i'm learning i'm this i'm that and it's like the thing you guys

01:25:47.180 are good at you actually do naturally so there's nothing to really learn other than to just follow

01:25:54.660 through with what you're natured to do well there and it's a super powerful position and it's like

01:26:00.360 for some reason you believe this lie that not you guys in particular maybe some of you but there is

01:26:05.900 this general generational lie accepted that uh being in the home and being a mother and being submissive

01:26:12.100 to a husband is somehow degrading or it's not it's not what it is i i should be out there uh running a

01:26:19.080 company you've been lied to and the sad part is that you waste your your fertile years chasing a dream

01:26:26.920 to mimic a man and you just become a weak man that's all you become i see you shaking your head

01:26:32.620 yeah i see you shaking your head what's your response uh i just don't believe that you know a

01:26:38.000 woman has to be a mother that's not something that has to be done i personally if if i get into

01:26:45.480 relationship that's one of the first thing i start with actually i want to know that the guy doesn't

01:26:49.080 want children because i know that i do not want children that's not my preference that's not something

01:26:54.720 i see myself doing but i do believe it's a very admirable thing a woman being a mother is super

01:26:59.760 admirable not many people can do it and i also personally don't think i would want to do it or think i can do

01:27:05.860 it so i know it's better for me in the long run to not do that and as long as the guy's okay with it

01:27:12.540 then that's fine okay so if you don't bring to the table being a mother um you do understand that

01:27:19.980 you are basically reducing the the pool of men that you're going to end up being with you know

01:27:26.680 for a long term right not everyone wants to be a dad yeah not everyone exactly i just pick i i start

01:27:32.500 i'm okay if you take everyone who wants to be a dad and everyone who doesn't want to be a dad

01:27:39.080 right if you don't want kids you're only dealing with the dad the people who don't want to be dads

01:27:44.480 right that's less people right less men to choose from right and that's okay okay okay you're okay but

01:27:51.060 the thing is what is your relationship long term if it's not a family what is it it's still a family

01:27:58.900 you you two are considered a family just because you're not having children your families let's

01:28:03.220 say you get married of course you know your husband and wife your families are now intertwined that's

01:28:08.380 that's a whole family right there just because you're not having children doesn't mean you're not

01:28:12.440 a family well that's a that's a really weird thing to say your family as soon as you're married

01:28:17.340 i'm asking what what is the what is the purpose of of the why would being together relationship that

01:28:23.020 yeah being solidified i guess it would be a partnership because what would you say

01:28:27.640 to the couples that can't have children so i i think at least me and jim bob here we're not

01:28:36.700 disputing that there are certain couples they can't have children we're not disputing that there are women

01:28:41.700 out there who don't want children there are men out there who don't want children if you want to

01:28:45.640 partner up with them that's fine i'm i'll know about you jim bob i don't really think there's

01:28:51.800 anything to dispute there but what jim bob i think is getting at is of the women who do want to have

01:28:58.620 children that's kind of where we're coming at and then but even then even the women who don't want

01:29:04.220 to have children like do you want to get married i do want to get married yeah because so so that adds

01:29:11.340 another layer why like i just to be clear i think you cannot get married and have a long stay with

01:29:18.300 somebody for your entire life being a be monogamous you can even have kids with them but you don't want

01:29:23.060 to have kids so why do you want to get married that's very traditional but you don't strike me

01:29:27.580 as someone who's particularly traditional right well i did grow up by i was raised kind of you know

01:29:32.340 i was in a religious household and things like that so um i don't consider myself religious i just

01:29:38.060 consider myself having a relationship with god if i had to fall under something it'd be like

01:29:41.840 non-denominational christian you know that kind of thing but um i definitely do believe in the

01:29:48.440 principles of marriage itself and which which are what well it's it's the union of two people

01:29:55.180 you know and that's it's a solidifying your bond to the world to yourselves um under god in my opinion

01:30:02.220 too you know so doesn't god also say quentin help me out what is it fruitful be be fruitful or

01:30:10.020 something i don't know right that's why i'm also not religious because i but so you're being very

01:30:14.840 convenient and you're picking and choosing you're you're cherry picking i wouldn't say it's cherry

01:30:18.360 picking because you how is it not cherry picking to understand the dynamics but you're you're rejecting

01:30:23.460 this one component of religion but this like so you're like oh marriage benefits me because it

01:30:30.020 provides me security in the relationship and there's other benefits too but also rejecting other

01:30:37.240 components that doesn't make sense really i know that in my life if i i'm not called to have

01:30:46.040 children i don't think that and in the beginning it said that and so with the bible in the beginning

01:30:51.660 it did say you know be fruitful and multiply there was also no people on the earth you kind of have to

01:30:55.540 think about that when it was stating that verse it did say that in the beginning i mean we have a

01:31:01.180 we're having a population collapse i mean well are you about to say that uh we're overpopulated

01:31:07.380 i'm not saying that no i'm just saying that wait what what's the reason you want kids over

01:31:12.980 population or no the reason i don't want kids is because i don't see myself as being fit to be a

01:31:18.940 mother nor do i see it in my future like i don't are you fit to be a wife yes yes i can definitely

01:31:27.060 be a great what do you feel the differences the difference between wife you have a whole child

01:31:32.280 with like the difference between wife and mother i know but it's the same thing like it's just kind

01:31:35.980 of i i think earlier when i had mentioned you know like about you're helping your husband with

01:31:43.760 kids and whatnot it's kind of the same thing you're helping each other you're expecting your person to

01:31:48.840 be like grown but you also want to kind of mold them to help them right well when i'm in a relationship

01:31:54.920 like if i'm in if i'm married i don't see him as my child he's my partner so there's a whole big

01:32:01.800 difference between having a husband and a child and if you have a child you're you're a mother not a

01:32:08.120 wife you're a wife and a mother is there a difference between a partner and a husband

01:32:12.400 uh a piece of paper and a ring i mean are you equal in in uh duties i don't know your duties are

01:32:22.140 different you're equal as people yeah i agree you're equal in value as people but if your duties

01:32:28.220 aren't equal uh if if your duty if his duty is to protect you and provide for you what's your

01:32:36.080 duty that you're bringing your emotional support to the man you know with what he's doing so you're a

01:32:42.760 backbone for him and he can come to you with different things and your your love in the relationship

01:32:49.760 what's that so it sounds like a mom um so the thing is it's not a mom the if he brings the

01:32:57.180 bacon home and protects you and provides the home and the house and everything else and that's if

01:33:01.680 that's the agreement as a husband okay what's yours is supportive but if he can do that without you

01:33:08.040 what's your obligation if he can do that without we can all do things without each other and if the

01:33:12.420 obligation in the relationship is for him to just be the breadwinner and that's what he wants to do

01:33:16.800 and he wants to provide for me and maybe the way i am that's great if we're both agreeing that i'm

01:33:22.820 going to work as well that's also great um i have no problem with an equal dynamic relationship like

01:33:30.200 that as well so it sounds like if he's bringing if his obligation is to protect and provide um your

01:33:38.440 obligation is just to support him vocally like you know what is what is how is this equal

01:33:46.320 there's just different roles so if you're if the guy's providing like you said a woman brings a

01:33:54.340 lot to the table when it comes to being loving and caring and i guess stable cleaning yeah keeping

01:33:59.580 the house in order right if that's yeah that she that's typically what that's my natural thing

01:34:05.460 honestly when i'm in an environment even when i'm dating a guy i'll tend to want to do that for him

01:34:10.400 honestly that's something i enjoy i enjoy cooking i enjoy cleaning i enjoy doing something nice for him

01:34:15.860 to make his life easier honestly if he's working all day i'm naturally going to want to do things for

01:34:21.240 him honestly i think they're trying to like compare the motherly and nurturing to your husband compared

01:34:26.620 to being a mother mother even though because you do motherly and nurturing things for your man

01:34:30.620 naturally right which would be considered like motherly like doing their laundry cooking for them

01:34:36.080 clean up after them because i mean that's what moms do essentially i just don't i think that's what

01:34:40.860 i understand what you're saying like like it's like kind of like the natural as a woman like your

01:34:44.940 instinct to take care right doesn't always mean you want to take care of a child no exactly i don't

01:34:49.120 want to take care it's where my selfishness does come in because it is part of what my my job my

01:34:54.820 lifestyle does not support having children i love to travel personally and that'll take a big cut on

01:34:59.860 what i'm able to do and where i'm able to go so it's important to me to have that not limited

01:35:05.560 how's that not going to have how's that not going to impact a husband then he has to fly with you to

01:35:10.420 go on your auditions um if he'd like to you know it's not like let's say i'm dating a pilot i don't

01:35:16.060 have to fly with him everywhere he goes i'm asking you if you think it's unrealistic to be a mother and

01:35:22.160 like a homemaker based on what your choice of career or what you think is going to happen in your

01:35:26.780 future i just don't understand if if being the homemaker uh even without children isn't in the cards

01:35:33.760 it's not uh conducive to your your preferences and your lifestyle how is having a husband

01:35:39.560 conducive at all that lifestyle as long as they're okay with my lifestyle just like i'd be okay with

01:35:46.740 what they do i don't understand like are you trying i'm confused i feel like it feels like you're trying

01:35:52.740 to convince her to like want to have kids i feel like some people just don't want to have kids and

01:35:56.940 that's just how it is i don't know why there has to be like you know you know reason just some and i

01:36:02.440 think it's the right thing to do it's more selfless if anything if i don't think i'm prepared

01:36:06.140 or willing to i've already i've already this ship has sailed in my mind for you having kids

01:36:11.160 unless something drastic changes in your spirituality i believe um but the thing is

01:36:15.960 i'm just pointing to the pragmatism of your view right now which is well i think i could be a wife

01:36:21.940 and we ask what a wife is and you list a bunch of things that wives do in the house that but then

01:36:26.920 you say my lifestyle it really isn't conducive to that and so if it's not conducive to um the

01:36:33.320 complementary traits and behaviors to your man i'm asking you what is this relationship if you're

01:36:39.480 flying around the u.s doing who knows what like who knows what you mean working a marriage who knows

01:36:46.580 what relating to work whatever it is wow i don't care what it is i'm asking or i mean leisurely travel

01:36:54.060 yeah i mean i would i would hope that my partner would want to travel with me that would be the

01:36:58.560 goal i would want a travel buddy like when i see myself having a husband here it is here it is yes

01:37:03.480 my husband would be my travel buddy he would want to go with me totally cucked just a puppy dog a lap

01:37:08.700 dog that's your idea no because he has the same ideals going into a relationship guess what we

01:37:14.120 label i i don't know about everybody but i know when i go into a ship these are what i this is what i

01:37:18.940 like to do this is who i am and usually i get oh my god i love to travel too and so why can't we

01:37:24.560 travel together why can't we do those things together aren't you traveling for your job

01:37:29.320 sometimes yeah but i love to travel in general that's one of my things that i do for fun so your

01:37:35.940 ideal man is to follow you around on a plane no because if we're together we're deciding the trips

01:37:42.760 together if that's a hobby i do we can pick the trips together and go on them together because they

01:37:48.100 also like to travel these are things you talk about in the beginner relationship do you want

01:37:51.200 kids yes or no you kind of get these things out of the way so you don't waste your time actually

01:37:55.340 wasting your time would be around on a plane what go ahead you're not setting yourself up to win i'm

01:38:01.040 just saying but a relationship isn't straight up like you are because if you go over the preferences

01:38:05.300 in the beginning you're setting yourself up to win if you know exactly what you want both of you

01:38:09.980 how is it winning to wind up with a man who abandons his duties and interests to follow you around

01:38:15.440 why is he abandoning you know literally he can do whatever he wants to do as if he's working

01:38:21.380 you know whatever he does at his job great and then we're going to travel together what's wrong

01:38:27.960 with that what's wrong he has to follow her around whatever she's just saying like look if i'm traveling

01:38:32.600 he can come with me like that's yeah i'm gonna go to new zealand she's not saying he wants to not

01:38:37.620 work at all she's not saying she doesn't want to call her it's just i can cook when i'm home i don't

01:38:42.500 mind cook i'm actually a great cook he says what you're saying like a cook right that's not what

01:38:46.920 you said she wants a cook that's not what you're trying to say what is that i couldn't tell which

01:38:51.880 word it was what is it what is it a cook no what happened is she listed some what is that that

01:38:57.800 would be a cook what is that what is keeping a home it sounds like in your situation there's no

01:39:03.860 actual home it's almost like well there's locations and then then you you can your relationship

01:39:09.700 to locations but there's nothing that's that's grounded right if you're if you're living in a

01:39:14.900 home together you have a home and yes you can travel together and if i'm going to go travel by

01:39:19.260 myself that's also fine too and as should he if that's what he likes to do if that's something we're

01:39:24.880 mutually interested in i think for some people traveling so much where you're not at home what

01:39:29.780 is your relationship i don't understand oh my god i think for some people long distance

01:39:34.540 relationships also don't exist in your mind in your opinion that's not a thing long term

01:39:38.620 long distance because if you're not together right that's what you're saying you can't be in a long

01:39:43.060 distance relationship that's a fantasy a long truckers pilots anybody who goes military god

01:39:48.300 forbid you go overseas right no no pilots come home a lot of times the same day or the second day

01:39:53.480 i know many pilots who do not do that oh wow you know an exception for the most part pilots come home

01:40:00.020 they they stay a couple that even that is too stressful for people that's that's a stretch but

01:40:05.240 you're actually arguing well no this is a fan this is an amazing uh opportunity to find a man

01:40:10.520 who is basically going to say yes to uh you sort of gallivanting around right so who is this man it's not

01:40:17.780 a man who wants to settle down so you're actually reducing your options to men who don't want to

01:40:22.800 settle down and you're going to be surprised that you wind up alone and not famous and not an

01:40:28.040 actress and wow i'm not famous on an actress because i want to what because i don't want kids

01:40:36.720 and don't want to so what does that even mean well i'm saying that you're setting you're setting yourself

01:40:42.440 up based on your preferences i believe that you have a a somewhat and i don't mean this

01:40:48.300 condescendingly a delusional view of what what you think is going to happen or what you think is

01:40:53.480 possible in a workable relationship it sounds like you're not willing to sacrifice a damn

01:40:57.940 thing about your preferences that's absolutely not true i've sacrificed so many things about what i do

01:41:02.300 um in the relationship before and it still got me nowhere because people take advantage of that

01:41:07.540 actually but anyway yeah so as far as i see it i stayed out what i like in the beginning of

01:41:13.720 the dates and things like that and we get when we're first starting to talk that's where i state

01:41:18.760 what i'd like in relationship and if they're on the same track then we can move on and continue

01:41:23.940 and that's how it goes that's how you're not wasting your time but but if jim bob is saying

01:41:28.760 x things are good in a really like x things are good to do in a relationship and you say

01:41:34.800 i tried x things in a specific relationship and that relationship didn't work out that isn't

01:41:41.720 necessarily evidence that x things it was many relationships actually i tried to do a lot of

01:41:47.240 submissive things i i was very submissive there's even a previous so so what i would say that is

01:41:54.080 a woman could be acting perfectly perfectly in terms of her own conduct although i think this is

01:41:59.360 probably typically oops excuse me this is probably typically rare uh but you are attracted to a certain

01:42:05.100 type of guy like if you you say you've had all these relationships and what the guy's a dickhead

01:42:09.920 um cheats on you i have been cheated on like many times yeah so there's probably something in terms

01:42:16.880 of your selection that oh i know i know i need to work on the selection but i well yeah but i also

01:42:23.340 think i've been lied to you know because i i if i state what i like and they're not okay with that later

01:42:29.640 on that's i've had a lot of people where i've said okay i don't want this like i i don't want kids

01:42:34.480 and then they're okay with that right and but where i say well i like to travel or i'm a model

01:42:39.120 actress my job entails this guys will change up like like you're saying and say oh i actually

01:42:44.120 don't want you to do this or that jim bob do you have any final thoughts on this because i do got

01:42:47.680 to move it on to something else it's just that this and it's just what brian said is that your

01:42:52.480 preferences are minimizing your selection that's all and that's fine maybe your preferences will

01:42:58.600 change which is fine and we're just pointing out uh like if you follow these down there is going

01:43:03.980 to be maybe a moment for you and this is just an invitation uh is that maybe um the the vision

01:43:10.100 you have for your future that's completely driven by just your preferences you might want to look at

01:43:15.620 potentially altering that uh to expand um the selection that you might be exposed to

01:43:21.240 that's up to you i'm just saying it's like i'm just saying that this the reality is you have a

01:43:27.840 minimized selection and that's okay the minimized section is fine i just need to find the the right

01:43:33.980 that's the right one the one who will flow with me and i'll flow with them all right we have lucas

01:43:41.700 here with the soup chat let's dispense with the gaslighting shaming tactics and empty platitudes

01:43:47.700 about trust refraining from certain activities as a married person is a matter of etiquette and respect

01:43:53.160 i just asked my wife if she'd be cool with me going to the playboy mansion every weekend

01:43:57.820 she said are you nuts so to you would you be okay with your husband boyfriend whatever going to the

01:44:05.800 playboy mansion every weekend me yeah um i don't know probably not but playboy mansion is like

01:44:13.560 that's what do you mean he's going to the playboy mansion that's a lot different than like going out

01:44:18.060 to a party with my friends i'm just confused at how those are i don't know i mean the girls can

01:44:22.640 only get with hef the girls can only get with hef so that's also true i'd probably just be more

01:44:30.760 curious can i go to playboy mansion too sometimes uh well i mean hefner is no longer alive yeah i'm

01:44:36.780 pretty sure i'm pretty sure it's not really a worrisome it's changed a lot pretty sure in the

01:44:40.900 history of the playboy mansion other men who have gone to playboy mansion parties have

01:44:44.660 slept with if i'm going out i'd probably honestly want my boyfriend there like i probably i mean i'd

01:44:52.720 want to go out my friends but say he doesn't want to go out and he's like i don't want you to go out

01:44:55.920 either i mean if it's like oh tonight i don't want you to go out like i want to hang out with you

01:44:59.900 tonight yeah i'd probably stay but if it's like oh i never want you it's just blanket he doesn't want

01:45:04.000 you to go out to bars and clubs like ever again yeah well if i'm older and i'm ready to settle down

01:45:09.460 that'd be fine but really even but it sounded like earlier even if you were ready to settle

01:45:15.680 down you wouldn't want to be with a man who would be i guess in your frame of view controlling like

01:45:20.880 that no i just think it has to do with like my age like if i'm ready to settle down i'm ready to

01:45:25.920 settle down i think right now i wouldn't want to be with someone that would like tell me not to go

01:45:29.940 out because i'm still 18 like i still want to experience life my whole life doesn't like

01:45:33.460 revolve around like relationships i mean friendships but i'm not like i don't know

01:45:39.560 i feel like if i want to go out and experience life that's what i want to do you're going out but

01:45:43.300 you're not like trying to be pursued that's not the reason you're going out yeah no that's not why

01:45:46.860 lucas do you women actually really believe that any busy affluent high caliber good-looking man would

01:45:53.980 spend even five seconds negotiating boundaries with you if you don't fall in line with his values

01:45:59.060 and expectations there are 50 other girls waiting to replace you female pride and entitlement shaking

01:46:06.640 my head oh this is lucas giga chat is streamlabs not working man $100 in the chat lucas what's up

01:46:13.460 what's up with you lucas that guy's dropped handsome guy there handsome guy uh i'll probably just pretend

01:46:21.960 but uh yo thank you for the uh super chat lucas he does raise a good point like but i think you guys

01:46:28.060 say the same thing about men like you really think like a man is going um as a woman like

01:46:33.880 personally speaking i have standards you know and if this person doesn't meet my standards i have

01:46:42.140 absolutely uh no trouble with like letting them go you know it's okay that we don't agree and we

01:46:48.580 don't have to agree nor am i going to force that person to agree or meet my standards but i i think

01:46:54.740 there's a differential here because the the standards and look there's differences in what

01:46:59.800 i'm about to say but this is just a generalization so there's a lot of beautiful women men have like

01:47:06.180 very i think fairly narrow standards and what in terms of what they're looking for men are generally

01:47:11.200 speaking looking for more than just physical beauty but like there's a lot of very attractive

01:47:16.440 women out there i'd say there's more attractive women than there are attractive men and i'm saying

01:47:21.640 that not necessarily by the that's true yeah well okay from from from the horse's mouth i guess but

01:47:28.840 from a bird's eye view but that's in terms of women's assessment of men i actually think that

01:47:36.020 there's there's a greater proportion of good men that that women don't agree with me in terms of their

01:47:42.860 assessment of good men but it doesn't really matter what i think ultimately women are the deciders

01:47:49.500 when it comes to who they end up dating so women think there's there's a shortage of good quality

01:47:57.260 men out there and there's there's a higher proportion of like the the baseline for men to be attracted

01:48:05.520 to women is far lower than the baseline for women to be attracted to men like it takes a lot for y'all

01:48:11.120 to be attracted to a guy i don't think or it takes more for me yeah it is it is true to me and i'm

01:48:16.960 not attracted to everybody off the bat at all into the mic sorry if i like someone like i feel like

01:48:22.940 it's pretty easy if i flow with you and i have good conversation like i like you but it doesn't

01:48:26.460 necessarily mean i want to like settle down and date that person wait why is that confusing so of all

01:48:33.100 the men you encounter what percent of them would you consider uh date date worthy i'm not saying

01:48:40.000 like a lot of y'all will go on a date just for the fuck of it like you're you're not sure yet if you're

01:48:45.580 actually going to be interested in the guy i'm saying when i say date i mean this is a guy who you

01:48:50.880 would want to be in a relationship with who you are like you're attracted to the guy what percentage

01:48:57.480 of men are you attracted to and would want to be in a relationship with low like out of just have

01:49:03.680 you been on a dating app how many of the guys do you swipe yes on a dating app for um in life they

01:49:08.380 never i've never had a dating app okay yeah no let's start sure but let's start it on dating apps so

01:49:13.720 for you and i can open up to the rest of the panel yeah who here's been on a dating app just show of

01:49:17.300 hands yes never been on no never i don't need one okay um when you're swiping what percentage of

01:49:25.140 men are you swiping yes for 10 yeah it's pretty low it's pretty low but if you had five percent

01:49:31.060 ten percent we should do it we should bust out bumble right now that's a good but what five

01:49:35.960 percent ten percent yeah five to ten okay what about you um i don't really know i don't really

01:49:41.520 always check like the new people i'll only see like the ones that like my account so i don't know

01:49:46.340 like part of the selection is just so low like i can tell by looking at your profile um that you just

01:49:52.560 want to date around you know not just women want to date around but men also just want to date around

01:49:57.460 so i can tell you know and i would like to think that i i can tell when a man is just like just looking

01:50:04.460 for a hookup you know yeah i also sorry and also in the conversations that we have i get a clearer

01:50:10.200 understanding oh this man just wants to like hook up and this man just wants to like um actually

01:50:16.880 you know want to get to know me so it's not sorry go ahead what percent sorry sorry to interrupt uh

01:50:23.020 what percent uh of people of men do you think who are on tinder and these kind of swipe machines

01:50:28.620 um want to just hook up at least in contrast oh like literally probably all of them the mother of

01:50:34.560 your children high percent right right it's really high right which what makes our pool small so like

01:50:40.780 it makes sense that we swipe right right well so i would say on the five to ten percent it's okay

01:50:47.500 you're participating in something that's counterintuitive to your own standards

01:50:51.160 how do you mean you don't want to you you ultimately want to find someone who what do they call him a

01:50:58.820 fuck boy or something like that i'm too old for this shit um they you're trying to find someone

01:51:03.440 serious ultimately that's respectable that has a stable um has a good job uh potentially a father

01:51:10.140 material husband material ultimately i mean let's just face it that's i will say that dating apps

01:51:14.680 isn't the best isn't the best way to look for it a high value or an ideal man um i would say it's

01:51:22.920 probably the worst meeting organically is always better and how many of you single are still on

01:51:28.380 those apps um i'm only on it like it doesn't sound so bad but just like when i'm bored i'll just swipe

01:51:33.520 on it like i never i don't think i'd ever want to go on a date with anyone from a dating app

01:51:36.820 it's that's a terrible thing to say but it's true like so why are you even on it i don't know

01:51:42.080 like it's like it's kind of like fun it's oh you get validation because all the guys are

01:51:45.700 giving you attention yep that's exactly why i mean that's probably it no that that is if you admit

01:51:50.960 that it's if you admit that it's counterintuitive and you're not going to find the man that you

01:51:55.840 actually value uh on there where are these men do you think oh they're they're at work yeah they're

01:52:02.380 at work they're working they're put a holding value and we're just like the female that they

01:52:07.540 value at home see it's it's hard to find someone a woman can be at work too because they're always

01:52:16.620 traveling they're always at work um and especially if they're family oriented then they're spending

01:52:21.760 time with family if the if the if the girl or the female you know she's high value she too is

01:52:28.140 spending time with her family she's too is focusing on her career wait what what makes a high value

01:52:32.240 woman um i think someone who has um high principles and morals values um to me that's that's what it is

01:52:42.080 um i i i i am um i don't i wouldn't say i'm religious but i would say that i do have a relationship

01:52:49.120 with god and i think just learning about him has taught me so much sorry who's him um god okay

01:53:01.140 um just learning about him and just really reading the bible and understanding the tremendous love

01:53:07.560 that he has for all of his children has really put things into perspective yeah do you think like

01:53:13.240 body count would depict who is a high caliber woman and who isn't i i do i think um yeah can you repeat

01:53:20.980 the question sorry if high body count um has to do with like high value um gosh you know it does matter

01:53:29.880 i think it does matter but at the same time i i also do think that god came to this um world to renew

01:53:38.740 and restore and you know his grace and mercy is big and bountiful and even though you may have a

01:53:45.900 history of like a high body count if you come to him in god's eyes yeah no yeah definitely i think

01:53:52.020 they're talking about your husband right okay keep going you're yeah it's like in god's eyes yes of

01:53:58.440 course you can be redeemed and then it's something you have to right when you ask for forgiveness and

01:54:03.200 redemption it changes you it does and then you really changes you it really does and you have to

01:54:08.260 be in it though you know you don't just keep going back it's a lifestyle yeah it's a lifestyle it's a

01:54:13.640 dedication it's a relationship that you nurture every single day and when it comes to a man you know i

01:54:19.340 would i've never met a high value man that doesn't want that wants a woman that's ran through i guess

01:54:25.300 would be the yeah yeah no it does matter low mileage is i don't know i've met a lot of high

01:54:34.220 value men that want the hose i don't know i i would also argue that past behavior is kind of a good

01:54:41.240 indicator of future behavior like if it's i understand for some people they like have made

01:54:46.600 a mistake once or twice but to in order to have a high body count you have to have made that mistake

01:54:52.640 like a dozen times for it to be high so i don't think that when you're saying high body count it's

01:54:58.260 like somebody who made a mistake once or twice you're getting to these high numbers so this is

01:55:03.360 an indicator of like a repeated thing that you consistently do some people have to like really

01:55:07.920 have to repeat their mistakes over and over and over again and would they not repeat them during

01:55:13.300 marriage i don't know well i think they're more likely do you think women are more likely to

01:55:18.420 repeat those mistakes if they're told every day from every angle of society that that's empowering

01:55:23.560 to be promiscuous i think that's what's wrong with society like yeah really um trying to uh you know

01:55:31.360 i don't i don't know promote sex yeah like yeah like promote yeah promote sex that's to me that's

01:55:38.280 really damaging not only for women but for men because though women may be putting that content out

01:55:44.980 there you know the customers are the men you know like it it's not it's not one without the other

01:55:51.300 they're both equally responsible for nurturing and building this type of society now we've been

01:55:57.420 insensitized to it i will see it as normal and so would you would be willing to shame people that you

01:56:03.320 knew for i would never shame anyone no i that's not that's not my point that's not my position

01:56:09.680 i'm not i'm not that's not my position to shame anyone that's your first of all like that shaming

01:56:15.740 does not come from god that does he doesn't he doesn't do that right condemnation does not come

01:56:21.820 from god to make you righteous exactly but he no righteous judgment righteous judgment judgment not

01:56:28.520 shame right that there's different shame comes from sin your child if you if you correct your child

01:56:34.960 right for something they did and they feel shame even if you corrected them and it ended in them

01:56:41.020 feeling shame you still correct them even if they feel shame it i would say um if you're correcting

01:56:47.560 them you are disciplining them and it comes from a place of love and understanding so if you're

01:56:53.140 disciplining i asked i asked it very hold on a second i asked a very specific question if you come from

01:56:58.940 love right if you are guiding and not commanding uh if you say if you correct and discipline if it

01:57:06.500 just so happens that your child or whoever you're disciplining feels shame it doesn't negate the

01:57:12.320 correction right i think the shame came from the action not the discipline right i agree yeah so you're

01:57:17.500 not going to answer or i didn't ask where it came from i said do you still correct people's behavior

01:57:22.060 even if it ends in an outcome where they feel shame i can't control how they will feel so if they

01:57:28.480 feel shame i know but i know oh let me finish um if i correct them and they feel shame that's that's

01:57:37.540 them like i can't control how you feel after you've been corrected but i will great so i'll reframe so

01:57:44.240 i'll reframe the question okay do you do you think it's a good idea to correct women who are uh following

01:57:49.700 suit with a high promiscuity count how how would you correct a woman tell them that they're doing

01:57:56.840 something damaging to themselves i think they already know that and no no you can't just think

01:58:02.260 they already know that because what are we in a society that most women think it's empowering

01:58:06.220 because of feminism exactly they can lead by power what about leading by example i for example don't

01:58:12.700 do only fans or anything like that that and i've been peer pressured many times in the industry to do

01:58:17.780 certain things like sex work sex work but it's not something that i would like to do want to do

01:58:23.900 or morally align with so yeah i think that's where it comes from you know you're able to i'm saying

01:58:31.720 that the i'm not asking what you guys think you you could do or not do or what you think is right or

01:58:36.540 wrong i'm saying that we as humans in society men and women have an obligation to correct other people

01:58:44.380 in our society but the thing is everyone's so afraid afraid to correct people that degeneracy ends up

01:58:50.520 being some sort of like virtuous heroic thing and everyone's championing it now we're in a basically

01:58:55.460 a disaster uh culturally it's you can societally we're in a disaster not only are women thinking

01:59:02.560 that sell uh you know promiscuity now they're even to men they can have sex well they're making so much

01:59:07.800 money doing it because of the men who want to contribute to it hold on hold on a second if the men

01:59:14.680 want that and they can't get it for instance if ai takes over all the only fans right in the next two

01:59:21.920 years totally fake women right if those men still do that that's an act against them right but what

01:59:28.420 what will women do right to compete with that for those of you selling your bodies online right

01:59:34.100 what are you going to do when when that kind of takes the place because what we're what i'm saying

01:59:39.320 and many people like me are saying you women have been sold a lie but the partial truth to the lie

01:59:46.500 is that the leverage you have is your sex is your virtue your virginity and your ability to be mothers

01:59:52.420 for for families and what happened is feminism told you pussy power your power is the pussy and and that's

01:59:59.180 true actually it's true it's just that they've inverted and they've twisted it couldn't use it that's

02:00:04.640 your power well no it's disempowering you've been lied to you think it's freedom it's not you're

02:00:10.220 literally destroying not only your connections to people but you're destroying your value economically

02:00:15.780 out on the field i it's completely destroyed i understand and agree with that i think for the

02:00:22.420 purpose of like when you originally raised the question about like righteous judgment and whose

02:00:26.680 right it is to judge like just because like i personally don't partake in those activities either but i

02:00:31.580 also don't judge other women um just because i like i have my own opinions about like what i want to do

02:00:38.180 for my body and like what i would want for my future daughters but that doesn't mean that i'm necessarily

02:00:42.340 looking down on other women for it and i also feel like it's kind of it's kind of like skill-based

02:00:48.440 matchmaking in terms of men it's like if you're a man and you don't want to be with a woman who's done

02:00:53.460 only fans or has done certain things then you as a man can just choose to not date women who do that

02:00:57.720 i don't think that it needs to be a matter of like shame or or like i don't need to police other

02:01:05.040 women's bodies this is this is absurd if you're going to have a future where you're going to be

02:01:10.240 a mother god willing and i hope you will i think you'll make a great mother just based on what you've

02:01:14.000 said tonight is that as soon as your your um your daughters turn 18 and let's say their friends tell

02:01:22.080 them selling your body on only fans is empowering and they start believing their friends are you not

02:01:27.620 going to come in and judge the action we're not talking about judging the heart we're talking

02:01:32.000 about judging the action and coming in as a mother and saying no that's not empowering that

02:01:37.020 woman's wrong that's the wrong thing to do is that a judgment i think that we're kind of not talking

02:01:42.980 about individuals versus generalities i would police my daughter about that because that is my

02:01:47.420 individual i'm talking about on a larger societal scale of me policing women as a whole is what i'm

02:01:54.240 saying that i don't want to do i would discipline my child and my daughter if that's what she decided

02:01:58.500 to do i would not be in favor of that behavior as a mother um but i can't i can't enforce my values

02:02:05.320 onto other individual women state them but you can't enforce yeah i can state i can tell them i can just

02:02:10.540 make the statement that that's not what i want to do that's not what i wish for other women and that's

02:02:13.860 not what i wish for an i statement versus a you statement but i'm not going to be like hey you don't

02:02:18.240 make it only fans that's not my business let's do it let's let's say you have a best friend and

02:02:22.640 you both have kids at the same time and they both end up being uh girls right and at 18 they're still

02:02:28.040 friends the one friend your friend's daughter gets into this starts influencing your daughter

02:02:33.280 you end up talking to the mother do you tell if you have the chance do you try to correct out of

02:02:39.400 love correct that mother and say i think they're doing the wrong thing i think you should correct this

02:02:44.140 yes i would but that's on an individual level rather than a societal level what is a society made of

02:02:49.480 uh people i understand that you're going to a society that's made out of like a larger scale

02:02:53.640 and i understand that i'm just saying that like for for me i would tell the the mother and like the

02:02:58.820 at that point i would imagine that i would view this girl as like my niece and my familiar person

02:03:02.540 that i need to like make sure that she doesn't go down the wrong path um but i don't think that

02:03:06.580 the yes and i i feel like the average woman doesn't need to hear my condemnation for her only fans

02:03:12.860 she already knows hold on if it's good if it's good at the micro level of the family and the

02:03:17.620 extended family which is your community and people you look at as even if they're not blood related

02:03:22.220 you look at as your cousins and your and your friends and your aunts and all these things

02:03:26.080 if that's true at that level and you think that's good how could you say it's uh not something that you

02:03:32.340 ought to do uh each phase out you know what i mean like you zoom out uh the collective the city now

02:03:38.380 the state now the country how could it possibly be a bad thing to step in as women because this is

02:03:45.380 what's missing men are starting to understand this hold on a second men are starting to understand

02:03:49.480 women are misled and men have been following each other misled men misled women men are starting to

02:03:56.760 correct now because why because they're realizing that they want a high value woman and that's a

02:04:01.320 mother mother and and a wife and women some of you are actually finding out a high value man is

02:04:07.320 actually the father and the protector and the provider the of the house right and so if this is

02:04:12.740 happening i'm not sure what you could possibly say uh would be good about just removing yourself

02:04:19.520 from the participation of pointing and saying maybe that's not good for you

02:04:23.700 um i'm just gonna say like how you're saying how it's different for her to say it to like aunts and

02:04:29.620 nieces and whatever um those are people that value that opinion she could say that to someone that

02:04:34.860 she doesn't know and they're gonna be like okay well fuck you because you don't agree with me i can make

02:04:38.520 that point because i can make that point because i'm the only one on here right that does well you

02:04:43.300 do only fans too right we both do that but i mean like respectfully whatever she says wouldn't matter

02:04:48.260 to me yeah exactly it's not it's not to me that and that was the point that i was making as well

02:04:52.280 like i'm not gonna tell you not to have your only right it's just rude okay so it doesn't matter to

02:04:57.200 you right now therefore anyone you say that to it won't impact are you kidding me i just feel like

02:05:02.580 it's just just carrying that burden of you feeling like you have to tell every girl you meet not to

02:05:06.600 do only fans or not to do sex work or not to do with this with their body would be just waste of

02:05:12.060 your time honestly you can do other stuff better jim bob final thought on this i'm just saying i'm

02:05:17.480 not saying you go out with no i know what you're trying to say i know what you're trying to say

02:05:20.660 i just feel like with you i think i'll give you a point here is that you do want some relatedness to

02:05:26.260 be able to say these things i agree with that but the hypothetical i'm pointing to isn't walking up to

02:05:31.400 strangers in doing this i'm saying that if you have the opportunity to promote to promote this

02:05:36.420 or let's say the opposite of promoting only fans and promiscuity and all this feminism basically on

02:05:43.080 net balance is trash like will you call it out if you could and i think the answer is yes i'm not

02:05:48.660 saying i'm asking what could possibly be bad about uh fighting against lies i understand to young

02:05:56.320 women i understand what you're saying and i i actually do do that on my platform is i talk about

02:06:01.060 how like you don't have to like show your body to um to be empowered and i don't personally do any of

02:06:08.440 like explicit or adult content or anything like that um and i do say that on my platform because

02:06:14.240 i know that a bunch of little girls watch my content um a lot of young women watch my jiu-jitsu

02:06:19.240 content and i want to be a good example but i don't necessarily i don't make my entire platform

02:06:23.840 about like crusading against only fans i just lead by example about like saying that that's not what i

02:06:28.300 want to do and people often ask me like where's the link where's the link and i'm like that's not

02:06:32.580 something that i ever want to do and i make sure to lead from the front by just not having one and

02:06:36.280 saying that in my comment sections like i've never done adult content and i never intend on doing

02:06:40.500 adult content and i don't believe that that's a good example but i'm not i'm not banging you down

02:06:45.040 the doors if only fans women right exactly someone approached you and i'll let brian you move on

02:06:49.840 after this i see you want to go on to the next thing um what if someone dms you and says i'm

02:06:54.560 doing this um should i do it i'd say no i'd say please do everything else that you could possibly

02:07:01.120 do first absolutely again those are that's someone that would value her opinion yeah and how do you

02:07:08.100 develop valuing someone's opinion right by leading by example too by leading by example yep that's the

02:07:13.620 biggest thing here yeah i'm not saying there's anything wrong with it i'm just saying with your

02:07:16.480 example you would i'm saying it would only matter if someone values your opinion with positive

02:07:21.040 positive uh female expression or wherever you want to call it she said you can counter it just by not

02:07:26.660 having one i'm just i'm just saying that like for women to actually promote uh wholesomeness uh true

02:07:35.100 femininity right motherhood they don't we're oversaturated in the opposite and i don't know if you

02:07:40.640 you women understand this that the ratio of the shit you see that is about uh liberation

02:07:46.460 of women versus the images you see of powerful mothers right mothering their children is just so

02:07:51.320 desperate desperate right now and that's what i'm saying is that we need more of women demonstrating

02:07:56.660 and showing motherhood but how do you do that without advocating to women to do that we can't

02:08:01.320 just expect them to just just you know not not they in other words they need to be pulled out of

02:08:07.780 their feminist paradigm it needs to be completely demolished okay that's that's my position like

02:08:12.520 like you said um society is built by people by individuals so i think that the biggest

02:08:16.880 the biggest um difference you can make is you being the difference if you're the difference you're

02:08:23.620 already working towards towards that yeah all right uh someone's sent in oh no he bought something on

02:08:31.220 shop.whatever.com looks like he bought a uh hoodie thank you so much man appreciate it

02:08:36.720 seven as sev zazer i'm sorry i don't know how to say your name you don't understand the difference

02:08:42.200 in men and women you're going clubbing and marketing yourself would compare to your boyfriend going out

02:08:47.420 and talking to other women but not having sex with them you want to respond to that really quick

02:08:52.860 are they saying there's something wrong with my boyfriend like going and talking on their girls

02:08:56.840 i'm confused well like if he's not flirting i guess well i'm not flirting with other guys so that's

02:09:01.700 not why she's going out she's not going out to market herself well i mean there's a difference

02:09:05.760 between how men and women operate so for example women aren't like for example a guy goes to a bar

02:09:11.460 club he might approach 10 different women that night and shoot a shot with 10 different women women

02:09:15.880 don't go out to bars and clubs and shoot their shot if they are interested in meeting a guy they'll

02:09:20.840 just go to the bar and club and they'll typically just put themselves in a position to be approached

02:09:25.580 now i'm not again speaking in general excuse me generalities here do some women approach guys sure

02:09:32.300 it's super rare most women don't do it most women don't have to do it because men just do it

02:09:37.840 yes de facto but because of this differential so once you get into a relationship we all agree here

02:09:44.460 that neither the man or the woman should be like approaching or sliding it into a dm we both agree

02:09:51.160 that would be wrong for the woman to do wrong for the man to do but this is the paradigm in

02:09:55.380 which men uh flirt is they take the initiative they approach they send the dm whatever it is

02:10:03.900 but we don't really clamp down on women's means of getting men once they're in a relationship

02:10:11.020 and so the way women sort of market themselves or advertise themselves is to go out to bars and clubs

02:10:18.960 put yourself in a position to be approached and then additionally for example if you're posting thirst

02:10:24.520 traps on instagram a woman's not going to slide into a dude's dms but she's going to be posting thirst

02:10:29.940 traps and then solicit soliciting essentially men to dm her personally i don't go to the bars or the

02:10:36.680 clubs to meet anyone because i've always been told by my grandpa and my father that those are

02:10:41.420 horrible places to meet men the men you meet there are not going to be high value men typically

02:10:46.800 and speaking in generalities you just to be clear just for the sake of this conversation

02:10:52.040 because otherwise we're going to get in this trap of always going to you with your exception to the

02:10:58.180 rule thing i'm specifically addressing her point about she wants to go to the club she's i get that

02:11:03.140 there's women stated she's not marketing herself though yeah it doesn't matter okay you don't

02:11:07.780 understand if you're a woman and you go you're just worried about her being approached

02:11:11.720 and it's if you if you're a woman and you go to the bar or club you are putting yourself in a

02:11:17.840 position to be approached i guess i view the world differently because i go to the store i go anywhere

02:11:23.040 and i'm constantly approached so um the solipsism is crazy it's always me me me like with you you

02:11:29.980 you're not seeing the bigger picture here of it's other people's experiences in the same shoes it's

02:11:34.540 the same it's literally most yeah i guess yeah i agree but the difference is like i don't think it's

02:11:39.960 first of all uh i think the likelihood of a girl being approached like so just to be clear every

02:11:45.380 single time y'all every single time you guys go out to trader joe's every time you get approached

02:11:52.100 three times honestly yes yes absolutely i was just out you guys i'm not even kidding i'm not kidding i

02:11:58.520 could post up i could i'm not kidding you guys aren't bad yeah i could that's crazy i could post up at

02:12:04.120 trader joe's you i could post up at trader joe's and maybe i might see some people saying something

02:12:10.260 here or there but most people they go whether you're a man or a woman you go you do your shopping

02:12:14.660 have you been a woman in los angeles at all i have eyeballs and i can see what's happening have you been

02:12:19.720 a woman in los angeles have you been in a big city i mean they're even in small cities i get

02:12:23.860 approached constantly so i think many women get approached constantly as well it's not just me so to be

02:12:31.460 clear you're you're prepared to make the statement every single time you go out to do grocery shopping

02:12:36.020 three guys in that grocery store approach you really i wouldn't say every single time but

02:12:41.260 off the not even just in the grocery store on the way i can be in my car and it's the most annoying

02:12:46.740 thing in the whole world because in the car men will stare at women literally oh wow okay that's

02:12:52.460 wow great shifting the goalposts there so it went from well you want me to not be me so i'm just i'm

02:12:58.600 literally just it can't be about me right so i don't know i've been you literally made it about

02:13:03.480 you about how you get stared at when i'm sorry being stared at have you maybe they just look in

02:13:10.280 your direction the hollering it starts with the staring and then they start if you even god forbid

02:13:15.360 look their way um they'll start to instigate something okay look i'll make it super simple

02:13:20.800 nobody's disputing that women get approached at the grocery store that's not in dispute however

02:13:28.180 if i were to compare if you were a betting woman and you had to bet your life savings on

02:13:33.840 what's a greater likelihood is is a woman more likely to go uh get finger banged at trader joe's

02:13:42.560 or on the patio of some fucking nightclub because trust me i've seen women getting finger banged

02:13:48.720 that's the fucking word i'm using these chicks be getting fucking finger banged at the club and

02:13:56.340 shit they're going to parties they're fucking dudes like in the bathroom at the fucking club

02:14:01.760 it happens wait she see no just because girls are doing it doesn't mean i'm doing it yeah i know

02:14:07.860 i know it's the environment i guess it's all about intention too i guess when i said i'm going

02:14:14.420 out you guys think that i'm like going to the club like i'm barely 18 like there's like one

02:14:18.460 college parties right um college parties are worse well i'm also at a community or i'm at a

02:14:24.660 community college i'm at a community college wait i can't say that college would be worse

02:14:28.440 college parties are worse than they are so i am at a community college so i will say like people

02:14:33.640 at community colleges like are not as eager to make friends so there's not as many parties

02:14:37.600 so but i will say like when i say going out i guess i could mean like my two best friends had a birthday

02:14:43.080 the other day and it was just our closest friends there and that's going out i wasn't looking for

02:14:47.080 anyone i was just i was with my friends out yeah i think like a dinner with your girlfriends i don't

02:14:52.040 think that's a big deal that's not what i was talking about it wasn't a dinner it was it was not a

02:14:56.280 dinner where did you when you okay were your friends drinking yeah my friends were drinking

02:15:00.920 okay where was it a party yeah it was their birthday party hold on just to be clear when you say birthday

02:15:07.560 party so you went did you go out to a restaurant no no it was at my friend's house they're twins

02:15:14.280 that's why i'm saying but so were they throwing a party yeah it was a party but it wasn't like a ton

02:15:19.640 of people i didn't know it was like all my friends like it was like were there um i want to say

02:15:24.220 there was like 40 because it was like they have an older sister her friends were there that's a

02:15:27.020 party that's right no i get that but i'm not going there looking for anyone i'm just having a good

02:15:31.580 time with my friends we have a question for you are so the only thing you've ever done with the

02:15:34.780 guys kiss them yeah like make out yeah like with tongue yeah yo bales thank you for the gifted

02:15:41.340 memberships all right um irl bales thank you for the gifted 20 we have a tts coming through them

02:15:48.060 i'm gonna let the rest of the chats come through one sec guys thank you man gloctavius gloctavius what the hell

02:15:54.940 oh wow wow wow thank you that was really good that was good he got a hundred dollars i know

02:16:10.220 i like it he paid a hundred dollars did he work right all right uh we have a bunch of chats coming

02:16:15.420 in we have lucas um one sec again why the hell would a high caliber affluent man

02:16:23.820 financial entangle and jeopardize half his wealth to marry you if you're not willing to have kids

02:16:29.660 what do you offer that a friends with benefits doesn't and he goes on to continue just a moment

02:16:34.220 before i have you give your response he says if anything given that you're both depreciating

02:16:39.900 assets a friends with benefits can be swapped out for a younger and newer model once fully

02:16:45.340 amortized and depreciated okay some financial terms there thank you lucas um lucas is bored

02:16:53.180 so nasty quick response to lucas if you'd like lucas are you gonna trade out your wife for a

02:17:01.740 younger woman when she gets too old for you right leonardo dicaprio so dude he's dating someone

02:17:06.540 that's like an 06 isn't that crazy no one over 25 what do you mean leonardo oh no they just said

02:17:11.660 leonardo dicaprio yeah why is that crazy oh he's dating someone that's like no he's dating someone

02:17:15.980 that's in 06 and like i'm in 06 and like he could totally be my dad like that's just crazy wait why

02:17:20.300 is that crazy because that's so creepy that is like that's like how what's her name bonnie blue is

02:17:24.940 like oh i want like barely legals that's so creepy that's like borderline i mean bonnie blue is a

02:17:29.340 little different because she's like trying to she's like yeah doing it's like shock value no but i

02:17:33.580 just think that like old people going after young people i think high volume men are also not ran

02:17:37.580 through is it her is it her fertility absolutely uh leonardo is supposed to go for an old bag that's

02:17:43.900 you know has a how many sex partners i don't know i feel like if he was a value he'd have kids right

02:17:49.020 now i wouldn't want to be with him no i'm just saying you're just saying creepy doesn't really do

02:17:53.820 anything well i think that if you're high value you would probably have kids by the time you're

02:17:57.420 52. hold on a second hold on a second high value for women is fertility that's the only value of

02:18:03.980 women is that what i'm clarifying high value high value would include fertility and for men to look

02:18:09.580 at women the ones who are fertile will be younger and you're just saying it's creepy and yet at the

02:18:15.260 same time what makes leonardo high value what because he has money like is that his only value like

02:18:21.820 i'm so confused i don't know he's pretty talented i mean yeah he's talented but i mean i wouldn't mess

02:18:28.140 i also agree that you shouldn't be ran through as a man you should want if you're looking to settle

02:18:32.780 down that's what you're also looking to do he's not looking to settle down he's made that clear

02:18:36.780 he's just going through going through i agree with that i think he's actually correct but we're not

02:18:42.060 talking about whether or not he wants to settle down we're talking about what is it that men are coded

02:18:47.020 basically a program to look at for the first and foremost thing that we're looking at from a female

02:18:53.420 it's it's appropriate with them and to procreate with them they need to be fertile so uh younger

02:19:00.220 women 20 whatever you finding it creepy that a 50 year old is pursuing a 20 year old well let's change

02:19:06.620 the situation let's say leon leonardo ducapri had a had an epiphany he said oh my god i've wasted my

02:19:12.540 whole life i need to be a father i want to be a father i moved to be a father and they and he meets

02:19:17.980 a young woman who's willing to be a mother is it still creepy um if she's like if he wants to have

02:19:23.580 children i don't think that he would necessarily want to have children with an 18 year old if he

02:19:27.420 probably be looking for someone a little bit older answer hypotheticals i said if it's the case

02:19:32.140 i did answer your hypothetical no leonardo ducaprio i didn't ask what you think leonardo

02:19:37.500 leonardo ducapri was thinking i'm saying then he might not find a high value woman let him finish

02:19:41.980 let him finish if he says if he says i want to be a father now i've wasted all my years i've made

02:19:48.700 horrors of all these women i want a family and he meets a woman who's 20 and she wants to be a mother

02:19:55.740 is it still creepy if that's the context um no i was saying it was creepy that he was dating an 18

02:20:01.660 year old and he does not want to settle down that's what i was saying you're making the hypothetical and

02:20:05.180 like making me answer completely different questions not what i was saying that's fine but here's but

02:20:10.620 here's the thing if if it's only creepy because of the intentions how is it not creepy for people

02:20:15.900 to just bang each other with no intention to settle down why are you asking me that i never said that

02:20:21.900 wasn't creepy that's your standard no i know but any like no but that's your standard don't you have

02:20:27.340 i mean you lead a little bit uh liberal don't you in far insofar as women when did she say that

02:20:33.020 no when did she say that i could be wrong she never once said i'm i'm liberal or lean that way

02:20:38.940 and all of the views she's expressed have been relatively conservative yeah they actually really

02:20:43.180 have yeah i mean relatively from what i've said and i was wondering if she going out doesn't make

02:20:51.180 liberation liberation above something else here wait what do you mean sorry i'm confused do you

02:20:57.260 do you value female liberation like for instance i'll ask you a harder hypothetical is it more valuable

02:21:02.940 to you that women are fully liberated in their rights and expression than uh to be constrained by

02:21:09.740 societal pressures to be mothers um i guess it depends on what their end goal is if someone wants to be a

02:21:18.300 mother it's that's probably liberating to them i mean i want to be a mom eventually i don't want to be

02:21:22.540 a mom now but i think it'd be very liberating for me to eventually be a mom but if someone um like she

02:21:27.980 doesn't want to have kids it's probably very liberating to not have kids and do stuff that makes

02:21:32.140 her happy right so happiness uh what the woman wants to make her happy above any sort of obligations for

02:21:41.260 society why wouldn't you want to be happy wait i'm confused like i'm coding here if she holds

02:21:48.300 traditional positions or is partial to understanding traditional positions so happiness equals feminists

02:21:53.340 is what you're saying it's the case if it's the case that you're a female and you value your own

02:22:00.140 freedom and liberation to be happy and you want you think first and foremost that women should be

02:22:05.900 happy right which is totally like arbitrary by the way over i'd love to know why do you want your

02:22:11.340 wife to be happy to make his woman is your wife happy do you want your wife to be happy yeah do you

02:22:15.740 no i'm asking you a question i'm asking you a question do you want your wife to be happy

02:22:19.740 this is why women can't think rationally i think you should answer her question why can't you answer

02:22:23.580 my question you're still doing it i heard five questions she asked you want your wife to be happy

02:22:29.020 do you want your wife to be happy my wife's happiness doesn't trump her obligation to be a mother

02:22:34.300 wow i mean she's a mother now i mean yeah i understand what you're saying you know she should

02:22:40.220 be a mother but if that's just that's an insane statement to say that you do not care about your

02:22:45.660 wife's happiness all went silent because you can't answer to this question if your obligations uh trump

02:22:51.660 your wants and desires to be happy you you go all silent right it depends on what your obligation is

02:22:57.340 yeah why to society if you were a mother and you did something that didn't uh provide happiness to

02:23:04.620 you but it actually served the purpose of being a good mother to your children would you still do it

02:23:09.500 i think if you want to be a mother taking care of your kids makes you happy even if there's hard

02:23:14.380 moments i mean i'm sure that there's always hard moments and you're assuming like again what about

02:23:20.140 the people who don't want to be mothers and the people who have agreed that they also don't want

02:23:23.980 kids like a husband can also not want kids you're only going off of that dynamic where it's like

02:23:28.940 the man the woman have to have children it's so caveman it's caveman to want to have children do

02:23:34.860 you know that it's caveman to like to presume that it's the only thing in this world that needs to

02:23:39.980 happen and that we're society there's just more we're so much more to a woman than children

02:23:45.500 this lady just said like the main thing that needs to happen for society to exist is procreation

02:23:52.140 that's so caveman that's that's not what she said she was just saying that life shouldn't only

02:23:57.740 matter is that very that's not very feminist of you you need to talk for her i don't mind that

02:24:02.140 she's actually not heard what she's saying for another woman

02:24:06.700 i am jim bob your favorite i would just also argue that um you said that your wife's happiness does not

02:24:12.380 supersede for her her bill her obligations as a mother she's chosen to be a mother so she's then

02:24:19.180 chosen to prioritize her family first and foremost some people have not chosen to be mothers and are

02:24:23.580 still prioritizing that and if you have not yet chosen to be a mother or never will then it's not

02:24:29.260 it doesn't quite get in the same vein to prioritize being a mother if you never want to be a mother

02:24:33.900 it's not you're just mad that it's not agreeing with you it's that's not irrelevant to what you're

02:24:38.620 saying it's not irrelevant exactly exactly all she said is some women don't want to be mothers right

02:24:46.460 so they don't want to do that that's her preference right i'm saying once you're a mother

02:24:50.380 once you're a mother is it isn't it the case that you're going to prioritize your obligation to be

02:24:55.180 a mother over your temporary preferences and and standard for happiness yes and that's why you

02:25:00.380 should wait until you're ready to be a mother in order to become a mother that's all you have to

02:25:03.180 say is yes and that could be next topic right clock that

02:25:06.380 um brian people in whatever chat are saying my audio is low uh i just boosted it

02:25:19.100 wait stop the talking as you can't hear it uh i just boosted it so hopefully that helps a little

02:25:25.260 bit um here i'm gonna let some of these chats come through but i do want to come back to

02:25:29.580 uh something in just a bit but we have lucas again for whoever guys stop stop stop for whomever

02:25:37.900 in the chat claiming that i'm a womanizer well i'm not maybe 20 years ago now i'm married as you saw

02:25:44.380 in the super chat chair seven you are correct i agree for that matter i hold myself where he says

02:25:50.060 continued uh these came in about 30 minutes ago or so i'm called to a rigidly higher duty of virtue

02:25:57.580 competence and excuse me integrity as a husband as a fellow orthodox christian a cradle one at that

02:26:06.060 i suspect both jim bob and andrew fully appreciate that standard all right lucas thank you for that

02:26:12.540 and then there's a couple of super chats i need to uh let through here we have one from lucas well if

02:26:17.980 nothing else the young men watching this are getting real-time tutorial of the type of women

02:26:21.580 not to start a family with oh shit shots fired uh really a leader doesn't issue

02:26:27.420 orders rather you have a incessant nagging conversations with him try telling george

02:26:34.460 patten that and that's a good uh i'm really curious what he does for his work i think he's

02:26:39.980 an attorney i think he's an attorney right in new york city i think zulu niner says

02:26:47.740 if you should be expected to submit and dedicate themselves as a woman then that should be an

02:26:51.980 expectation for a man too in my opinion so if a man is in the mental concept of you can be replaced

02:26:58.220 then how are you any better i know that's right zulu yeah i agree with that and again i don't think

02:27:03.980 men don't submit high value men are not ran through as well no you can't have two leaders

02:27:09.100 in a relationship i don't think that's what the person was saying i think they were talking about

02:27:12.140 the mental concept of being replaced for something better i don't think they're talking about

02:27:16.060 submission i think it was like that specific aspect of the sentence sure yeah about like

02:27:20.620 viewing people in partners that's interchangeable replaceable yeah when you be when you um marry you

02:27:26.700 become one so when you become one that means you are the leader together for the family for your

02:27:33.340 relationship you're not the leader to get no you're not the leader together right yes yes when you

02:27:37.420 marry no no you're not both equal leaders that's not even true legally you can't have 50 of ownership

02:27:43.420 or direction over anything uh from a christian perspective which you were sort of larping as

02:27:48.220 before red shirt you were like oh you get married and god my thing is to god well no we're both to be

02:27:53.740 submissive to god but if you're talking about christianity it's hierarchical and patriarchal that

02:27:58.140 means there's a high priest called jesus christ and beneath that there are men right and so men actually

02:28:03.340 lead the family the man is the head of the family and the woman is the neck they work together but

02:28:08.540 they're not they're not equal partners okay they're not equal leaders you know billy blob shut it

02:28:13.660 down but but like without without a neck there's no head right no right so it's again it's exactly

02:28:22.460 there's not one without the other just because like if a man's a leader there has to be someone to

02:28:29.820 lead right yeah but they have to follow right do women have to follow and they also have input

02:28:35.980 in the situation do women follow yes or no yes no men don't follow women if a man wants a woman

02:28:43.100 that's a leader that's definitely a thing but keep that energy keep that energy you better initiate you

02:28:49.820 better go 50 50 on the first dates yeah don't expect him to protect you guys want don't expect him to

02:28:54.620 protect you don't expect him to make decisions oh what do you want to eat oh whatever you want you

02:28:59.180 if you want a man who's going to be a leader you got to be a follower otherwise go deal with the soy

02:29:03.580 boys right but you can't be demanding a man be a leader and holding to his traditional gender roles

02:29:10.140 and you're a modern woman i don't think anybody's saying that or at least yeah we're not yeah we're

02:29:14.940 not we're not saying that at all but okay here let me think of a example here um what's a good one oh

02:29:22.700 okay you're dating uh do you want to like have a career what what's your yeah i don't really know what

02:29:28.300 i want to do right now i'm just focused on soccer but honestly i would be okay with being a stay-at-home

02:29:33.340 mom i'm not gonna lie same that's the truth i would love to stay at home and take care of my kids

02:29:38.380 and cook and clean i like cleaning i would love to do that too maker i think that i wouldn't mind

02:29:44.860 having a career either i don't really know what i want i am 18 what if you were but so yeah you're

02:29:49.580 young so you're still kind of figuring out what your potential interest could be you're still you

02:29:54.140 you know working your way through school whatnot so you're not exactly dead set on that but you do

02:29:58.300 you do say you could see yourself oh it's hard because you said i'd like to be a stay-at-home mom

02:30:03.020 so there are women this example i would give would be like oh i don't want to be stay-at-home mom

02:30:07.420 not even well not necessarily but there are women who are who would say for example uh i want to

02:30:12.860 prioritize my career and my career you know whatever perhaps it's in a creative field or something

02:30:19.160 yeah i really want to keep working and i ask well let's say you met met a guy who could support you

02:30:24.960 and you didn't have to work but he was like his standard was in order for you to be with me i want

02:30:30.960 you to stop working and i'm gonna take care of everything there are women who will say no i'm

02:30:34.860 gonna keep working well yeah because some people enjoy working and so it's like if if you know if

02:30:38.820 that's what they value over the being a stay-at-home mom that's what they value and it again it all comes

02:30:43.380 down to preference yeah and sure but that wouldn't be submissive that wouldn't be following his lead

02:30:50.280 i guess i don't understand what you're saying i'm following a lead would mean that if you had a

02:30:56.500 preference if you had a proclivity toward like going out or doing this or that and um you were in a

02:31:02.980 relationship where let's say you were married um let's add children being that you want to have

02:31:07.380 children i love that um is that uh what brian is saying is that following the following the leader

02:31:12.760 might include abandoning some preferences so that's why we asked you early on uh chair seven or uh what's

02:31:19.580 your name my name is mac or mckinley whichever is easier early on we got into well what's the threshold

02:31:26.620 where you start to abandon your preferences um if you think that you want to have children i would ask

02:31:31.860 you how many could you see yourself having um i don't know why i've always just thought about

02:31:37.260 having three kids but then sometimes i'll go back and be like actually i don't know if i want to have

02:31:41.780 any but that's not because i don't want to have kids that's more because of like i'm scared to have

02:31:46.940 kids like just with like how society is but i do want to have kids and if i did i'd want three

02:31:51.560 okay cool well let's follow your preference happiness standard for a second okay would you do

02:31:58.200 you think you'd be happier as a mother with more energy or less um what do you mean like just in

02:32:05.100 general more energy if having energy well no i probably won't have as much energy but i'm a

02:32:10.280 pretty high energy person so well the question is would you rather have more energy as a mother of

02:32:16.880 three or less more energy okay if you think you want to have three children and you want to have

02:32:23.400 more energy than less wouldn't it follow that you might prioritize having children earlier than later

02:32:29.020 um yeah doesn't mean she has but i'm 18 so i don't want to have kids right now okay hold on

02:32:35.440 hold on i want to say something when you're done is right now or more important than the long-term

02:32:39.960 choice of having children and and filling out the vision of your life that that you say you want here

02:32:45.300 on this podcast right now yeah before i want to build a family and a relationship i want to make

02:32:50.300 sure i'm happy with my life because i don't think it would be good no i don't think it would be good

02:32:55.360 for me to have kids if i was unhappy i don't think i would be a good mother so i want to be

02:32:59.300 content with no hold on no you hold on i'm answering your question what if what if your determination of

02:33:07.080 what makes you happy is given by a standard without children and your standard for happy i don't even

02:33:11.900 think it's just about being happy it's about being ready hold on pink shirt what if your standard that

02:33:17.660 you're using is completely closed to just being single right now and so your evaluation of what makes

02:33:23.500 you happy could fundamentally change i certainly and maybe people in the chat or maybe anyone else

02:33:28.300 who's had children when you hold your child for the first time i promise you the things you think

02:33:35.400 are your preferences and the things you thought made you happy i'm telling you if not fully fade away

02:33:41.720 or partially fade away and that's why i asked the question it seems like to be fair do you admit that

02:33:46.320 you're judging your standard for happiness from a pre-child position and you couldn't possibly imagine

02:33:52.360 judging happiness from a post-child position do you think i would be more happy right now if i had

02:33:58.580 a child i live at home and i am a hostess do you think i would be more happy that's a genuine question

02:34:04.400 do i think you'd be happier with a child well if you had a child you would be with a man who uh who

02:34:11.300 you thought who you thought was going to be a good husband right you'd be married um well that wasn't

02:34:16.260 my question i was asking about if i had no your question's loaded with i wouldn't advocate for

02:34:21.380 you just having a child i would advocate for you first of all being married to the church and that

02:34:26.820 the person you're married with is sufficient to have children with i'm not saying that's easy to

02:34:30.940 just snap your fingers okay just don't get me wrong i don't think at 18 you could just do this i'm not

02:34:35.380 saying no i understand most people like you're like let's use a example sure sure i'm talking to

02:34:41.180 her for a second can you maybe not make it about you for a split second okay good example here though

02:34:47.680 yeah if if you did have a child from your own standard wouldn't you have already married the

02:34:54.220 person from your own yeah no i totally would already be married that's what i'm saying okay

02:34:59.260 so if you're already married and you have children you're in love you found the man of your dreams

02:35:03.440 you have settled down i what i'm pointing to is just an invitation for you mac is to understand that

02:35:08.280 maybe the thing that you think is readiness now is judging from a standard that that you only have

02:35:15.920 access to now and the standard for happiness and fulfillment fundamentally changes after you find

02:35:22.800 that man and after you have the children that's all i'm asking you to know i think maybe if i was

02:35:27.700 with someone that i see myself getting married to and being a great father i would maybe more

02:35:33.920 be more open having kids i still think i'd want to be a little bit older than i am now

02:35:38.520 um i'd probably want to beat teen pregnancy and i'd want to you know do things that i enjoy first like

02:35:44.940 i'd want to i love playing soccer like i could not imagine not playing soccer um and so i wouldn't want

02:35:50.700 to give that up to be a mom right now i think in the future you know eventually i'm not always going

02:35:55.220 to want to play soccer i'm not always going to want to be in school i'm not always going to want

02:35:58.520 to go out but when i'm ready i'm going to be open to give all that up to have a kid but i also think

02:36:04.680 that you can say that readiness to anything like you never know what you're ready for until you're

02:36:08.560 doing it that could apply to anything not just kids correct that's why i don't really use it

02:36:12.780 myself didn't think i was ready to have a child and it turns out i was yeah i thought 100 percent

02:36:18.300 not though i like like fully if you heard me speak as a person you don't have kids dude

02:36:23.700 well i'm glad that i'm glad that you had kids i'm glad that it was something that makes you happy

02:36:28.680 how many kids do you have three three are they older younger you said you've been with your wife

02:36:35.180 for 10 years 20 they're younger oh how was it back to back yeah every two years which is pretty ideal

02:36:43.540 i think i was gonna say do you feel like you did it better like that with having your kids two years

02:36:47.800 apart do you feel like that was more better for what you wanted to work out for you guys were

02:36:52.920 after one were you like oh yeah we're gonna have more did it kind of break your seal i still want

02:36:57.320 more so yeah how old how old's your youngest right now uh three oh so barely okay so see you're right

02:37:05.720 there of course you want another one that's why yeah you're on that time i think everyone should

02:37:10.560 just go for it right i think the i think people were healthier um when women were having children

02:37:15.900 earlier i do understand modernity and the kind of culture we're living in now maybe it's not it

02:37:21.400 doesn't occur as workable it's harder maybe to do it it's harder to live a traditional lifestyle

02:37:26.020 it's hard to live a christian lifestyle but the thing is like there's no alternative you know the

02:37:31.340 only alternative for women i i and this is where i kind of feel bad for women is that you guys really

02:37:36.620 do waste the the the most important maybe 10 15 years of your life which is ultimately going to be

02:37:44.040 the cornerstone and the bedrock the foundation of the rest of your life your legacy which is your

02:37:48.820 children and your family ultimately the op the and so you're in a harder position in a way

02:37:53.380 men have are in a harder position because we need our brute force we need to protect you we're called

02:37:58.460 to die sometimes for it you're called to be motherhoods but you do have a time frame that men don't have

02:38:04.840 and i feel like women have been in sort of denial about it and now they're starting to sort of like

02:38:11.080 face the facts where they're like well maybe feminism sold us a bunch of shit where i can own a

02:38:16.980 mustang and a pink fucking blender uh and i have a dog but ultimately you wake up at 42 with wine

02:38:24.120 stained teeth alone hoping to be invited to a wedding so you can talk to a fucking groomsman

02:38:29.200 i will say um wait actually pause um i don't think i'm wasting my time i don't necessarily know if it's

02:38:36.600 always wasting my time because like i mean personally i view myself as a high value woman so

02:38:41.360 i'm like i don't think i've met any high value guys that i would want to have kids with so i don't

02:38:45.800 know if i'm wasting my time i i just think that i'm just not jumping the gun yeah i was gonna say

02:38:51.240 in order for us to settle down you know maybe final thought you guys uh the men also waste their

02:39:00.860 their um 10 15 years partying around you know sleeping around that's that's totally valid i

02:39:08.440 i i have like a strong will i will not date anyone in their 20s because i know that men usually are in a

02:39:15.560 stage of their life when they're trying to figure themselves out when they're partying when they're

02:39:19.880 not ready to um be loyal so maybe we are ready when we're like 19 or 20 but the men available

02:39:26.580 aren't statistically true until he has a career until he has a career like how you can't expect us to

02:39:33.100 settle down with like the first guy we meet but this guy still lives with his parents i think the i think

02:39:38.480 the bigger problem is that i think children need to work earlier i think everyone needs to work

02:39:43.240 earlier and grow up faster we're we're in a we're in this like a long state of uh neoteny neoteny is

02:39:50.180 like basically this frozen state of childhood and i think modernity and technology i i don't have a

02:39:56.840 blame on this it's just that it's allowed us so much just resting room to not do anything because we

02:40:02.800 can eat we can order amazon prime wings delivered with a fucking drone right we're not pressured to

02:40:08.840 develop right we have to force our own development right and now and this is why this is why i'm so

02:40:14.220 stern on this is that you have to activate your own development you have to actually take part in it

02:40:19.500 you can't just sit and wait and be like well i'm gonna see what happens maybe if i find the right

02:40:23.420 good maybe you have to like figure it out like and women have a shorter time to figure it out you

02:40:28.420 know and and so this is why i stress it this is like uh i might be harsh harsh but this is like

02:40:34.000 i'm trying to reach people and and men are a part of this you know they really are a part of it young

02:40:39.780 men who just want to get laid and stuff they're they're leaders right and so they're leading women

02:40:43.880 to value giving their body away well if they're leaders they're not doing a great job because you

02:40:52.200 know like you said if a man is the head of a household you know they're supposed to lead

02:40:57.120 where are these leaders these leaders are being driven by lust they are being driven by their

02:41:04.140 fleshly desires they're not prepared to be a father figure they're not prepared to be a leader

02:41:10.080 and but if they are hold on if they are are the women prepared to follow i like i said personally yes

02:41:17.460 you guys are like no i just want to do i just want to go to tuscany let me go to tuscany just want

02:41:23.360 you're like i want to write a book i always wanted to release a poem you know you got all

02:41:28.240 these fucking i got i just got a ukulele i just bought one you know i want to do a youtube channel

02:41:32.920 like and the men the men who actually figure this out earlier and there are more and more younger men

02:41:37.840 by the way figuring this out it's still low percent uh where it needs to be but um they are going oh

02:41:42.780 shit i got i need to find the woman and i need to make her a mother and and and i'm going to be the

02:41:47.640 man of the family and they look out to the the feet the the fucking vast sea of destruction

02:41:52.900 and they just see chicks just mouthing off i'm a i don't need a man they're all drunk on the street

02:41:59.320 fucking talk to her i feel like this is your generation i'd also like no i feel like that matters

02:42:05.000 a lot about like where you're living too i don't know maybe that's just my opinion i feel like if

02:42:09.240 you're in a city you're probably you know those two people are going to have a hard time finding

02:42:13.020 each other because there is a lot of people that are just bullshitting around but i don't know if

02:42:17.720 you're maybe if you're in like a more traditional city like a little cute little countryside i gotta

02:42:23.120 move it on guys i gotta move it on okay uh okay let me get this pulled up uh okay uh no it's one

02:42:31.940 two three four five six okay shots fired that's so mean all right zulu niner where does the separation

02:42:38.320 where does the separation of church and state come into place my religion doesn't believe what

02:42:48.360 you do my wife is a partner to me and an equal to me in decisions if she wants i flex if i want

02:42:54.000 she flexes that is equality well zulu what is your religion uh that would be helpful to know what it is

02:43:00.100 um but uh jim bob is an orthodox christian so my he could are obviously explain this better than i

02:43:09.140 could but my understanding is christianity is patriarchal and the man is the leader of the

02:43:15.700 household in a christian biblical marriage so um but anyways uh here i actually wanted to get to a

02:43:22.520 couple things here really quick uh are you guys high you two you know well not okay like earlier

02:43:29.520 i was just i made a note like yeah we were when we got here yes and then yeah earlier it's wearing

02:43:36.920 off but yeah now it's wearing off but it's just more like i don't know we're kind of really listening

02:43:41.860 to what you guys are saying okay what's his name jilly bob jimmy bob okay jim bob he referred me as

02:43:52.580 stretcher just my name is ruby okay right and i'm carly yeah okay ruby shirt not ruby she looks

02:43:59.360 like a ruby i'm kidding ruby i'm kidding all right thanks uh billy bob i mean what's jim bob

02:44:07.440 it's jim bob jim bob i'm sorry are you also under the influence i see you no yeah yeah of one beer

02:44:15.180 that's yeah right no no no no no in the last three hours you're telling me you had one you

02:44:21.580 were sipping one beer okay oh one i got this in like 10 minutes ago i wasn't sipping i was sipping

02:44:28.100 this this is this is water equally disposed exposed all right i wish i started earlier though

02:44:34.920 i was done on the panel tonight all right gauge thanks for the membership uh so going to you mac

02:44:40.480 i had a question for you so just i want to touch on the age gap thing really quick yeah because we

02:44:44.900 kind of shift off of it uh we were talking about leonardo dicaprio you said it was creepy why is it

02:44:50.640 creepy um because he's 52 and every time his like girlfriends get a little bit older they get he gets

02:44:58.000 a new girlfriend who's even younger and to your guys's point you guys were saying you know maybe

02:45:02.280 something changed and he wanted to have kids and like but obviously that's not what he's looking for

02:45:08.120 he's just sleeping with young people and so i just think it's a little bit creepy you know at

02:45:12.480 his yeah are age gaps in general creepy um depends so like how about the 30 year old dating a 20 year

02:45:17.420 old um that's not creepy to me no i think if you if they're on the same like if it okay so if it if

02:45:24.280 it is i understand you know a 30 year old cannot like literally be the mother or father of a 10

02:45:30.960 like a 20 year old unless they had someone can be like your parents that's kind of right that's weird

02:45:35.740 but there is like 13 and just to be clear when it comes to the 12 there's 15 yeah so when it comes

02:45:43.320 to the age gap thing though uh do you have the same energy for women who date younger men yes and

02:45:49.540 is it just as equally creepy yes okay so it's not you don't have a double standard with it no okay

02:45:55.700 why is it creepy though uh you've stated more for women i think it's dating this age but why is it

02:46:01.460 creepy uh normally when i feel like it's for women it's normally like they they need to feel

02:46:06.160 young and so it's like i just still think it's weird like you're date someone your age that's the

02:46:10.880 same maturity level especially as a woman like i don't know if you're a lot older and you're dating

02:46:14.920 a guy that's a lot younger they're probably very immature desperate and so it's just it's just

02:46:19.680 odd well who's that woman who's well it doesn't really matter what about men dating younger

02:46:25.140 what's your diagnosis there um i think it's kind of the same thing you want to be younger but i

02:46:30.200 also think it's just like a look thing i think guys are attracted a lot like well i guess women

02:46:34.980 it could be the same way i still do you think men care a lot about physical attractiveness

02:46:38.800 yes absolutely when do you think so i know women have a different opinion on this yeah the male gaze

02:46:44.160 female gaze but as it pertains to the male gaze what uh do men find younger women more attractive

02:46:51.540 yeah and do men uh do looks matter a lot to men um yeah i would say um i would say someone with

02:47:01.580 like a healthy mentality i say looks better than in by looks first yeah but then eventually as the

02:47:09.480 as the relationship progresses again if this man is like mentally like healthy yeah you know looks

02:47:16.260 matter only to an extent because if you're beautiful but nasty on the inside it makes you

02:47:20.560 it makes absolutely no difference like but but and i and i do think it's shallow of the man

02:47:26.960 if he likes a woman that's beautiful despite of her being ugly you know if she if he knows that she's

02:47:33.420 like a nasty like woman inside but beautiful on the outside i think that yeah but attraction has

02:47:39.100 to come first so yeah yeah i do think that like both men and women yeah yeah i agree so if you're

02:47:48.100 like really good looking but you're a piece of shit okay cool but like if you're good looking and you're

02:47:52.460 a good person or you're like average looking and you're a good person or you're ugly and a good

02:47:56.380 person i'm pretty sure that guy who's good looking and he's a good person is going to out compete the

02:48:01.180 other men yep just like the the woman who's a good person and attractive is going to probably

02:48:07.820 out compete like the average looking or ugly woman who's also a good person yes people care

02:48:12.540 about looks yeah so where did that's how we all agree with that yeah but yeah but she's trying to

02:48:17.660 rebut my argument as it relates to age gaps yeah you you're like presenting like a counter what did i

02:48:24.540 say that was like yeah well i don't then why did you it wasn't well you're introducing i'm we're talking

02:48:29.480 about age gaps so are you just like dittoing you're just you you asked me um if i think it's

02:48:38.200 because like older men think that the younger girls are attractive you asked us that and then she was

02:48:42.660 saying yeah but she's also saying it she was just saying it's also yeah personality matters but like

02:48:46.880 let's get back to the actual conversation well i think with age gaps like i tend to date guys like

02:48:52.060 one of them i'm dating is 46 the other one's in his 50s i'm 29 but when i was your age i could have

02:48:57.860 might think that's a little weird but now i just feel like i'm so close to a child it's a little

02:49:02.380 weird kind of but at the same time it's like i am a child like you're an adult technically well yeah

02:49:08.040 but i'm still i still have an adolescent mind that's true right you can't even rent a car till

02:49:14.920 you're 25 i didn't turn 18 and all of a sudden i'm like i'm an adult i'm gonna act i mean you are

02:49:19.640 legally yes i am legally an adult but your brain's not fully developed you're 25 but your brain is

02:49:25.340 closer i'm still a teenager your brain is closer to that of an adult than it is to a 10 year old

02:49:30.560 wait i did not say that my brain you said you're you said your brain is adolescent yeah sorry what i

02:49:36.480 meant is that i'm still gonna i would say it's more like naive maybe maybe more juvenile yeah juvenile

02:49:41.320 that's a good word i don't know i'm just saying that just because i turned 18 doesn't mean that

02:49:44.480 all of a sudden yeah sure you can still be immature at 18 that's exactly what i'm saying you can still

02:49:49.120 be immature at 30 yeah and 40 and 50 that's just why i was saying it's probably a little bit

02:49:54.320 more creepy because more people my age wait so if it's just if the ick factor the creep factor is

02:49:59.540 just dating somebody who's immature what's creepier than a 35 year old dating a 20 year old that wasn't

02:50:07.280 the only factor sure but a 35 year old who's dating a 20 year old who's like remarkably mature

02:50:13.580 and emotionally intelligent and all that stuff versus a 40 year old who's super immature which

02:50:21.260 what's creepier i don't think there's anything creepy between the age gap you just described okay

02:50:25.720 i'm pretty sure it's just case by case i think she thinks it's creepy so i think it's case by case and

02:50:30.840 i think in a broad way like you were saying in a blanket term not an exception it's creepier but if

02:50:37.320 it's okay here's a single exception they're really mature maybe it's not as creepy in that exception

02:50:43.120 like but what's actually creepy about i think she's saying if you're old enough to be my dad um yeah so if

02:50:49.640 it's a younger woman and she's like basically any other teenager like still acting like a teenager

02:50:55.080 and he's 52 and okay how about this i'm 35 i'm 35 you didn't even let me finish okay finish go ahead

02:51:01.160 okay so if he's 52 and he acts like an adult and he acts like a 52 year old and he's going after

02:51:06.580 someone that acts like a teenager and their lives are completely different your priorities are different

02:51:10.220 that is creepy this could be your daughter that is creepy i agree i agree what what is creepy about it

02:51:16.100 are you saying that it her age or no i'm saying i'm saying the mindset the age all of it okay so

02:51:24.840 what is the minimum age gap that you would say is acceptable um because you're look it's really easy

02:51:31.840 to like do these sort of uh arguments where we're just okay we're gonna pick like a 70 year old dating

02:51:37.660 like a girl who just turned 18 right i think it's much easier for you to forward your position on that

02:51:42.300 but like give me the minimum like uh is 30 and 20 is that unacceptable no i said earlier that that

02:51:48.900 probably wouldn't be as unacceptable because i feel but it's still no no it's no it's acceptable

02:51:53.640 that's acceptable sure there you go wait wait wait what if you uh mac what if you're 18 you said you

02:51:58.860 have like a you know like the the mind of a child right now um and mind of a teenager that's what i

02:52:04.040 meant yeah well let's let's say you wait 10 years and you're and you're um let's say you're 30

02:52:09.160 something 35 and you didn't you just didn't develop that much you're still sort of childish

02:52:13.380 and and a 50 year old wants to potentially make you the mother of his children his wife is it still

02:52:19.340 creepy if if your development didn't actually go that far maybe two percent three percent in advance

02:52:25.820 so i guess what i thought was creepy is that it's just someone that's barely legal you know they don't

02:52:30.340 have a lot of experience in life they're immature it's not necessarily the immaturity i mean

02:52:35.380 like so say your daughter do you have any daughters

02:52:39.200 fine yes okay so say you have a daughter she's barely 18 right and you're i guess say you're

02:52:47.960 you're 52 say you're the same age as the person she's dating is that you wouldn't think it would

02:52:51.780 be creepy if she brought home your co-worker your friend no no not just on non-face value no like

02:52:57.600 for instance you would be okay with your 18 year old daughter just brought her friend let me

02:53:01.440 fucking answer shut up for a second whoa so wow you better calm down shut up you can't answer

02:53:08.340 a question then bark yeah you guys if you're gonna ask him a question if you're gonna we're doing it

02:53:12.500 to me like literally yeah but i'm the host so i have like a bit more leeway i have a bit more leeway

02:53:16.720 to interrupt and stuff but look if you guys are gonna ask him a question let me answer go ahead

02:53:20.620 so if the value i'm gonna judge the man by his values so if the if the man is in the church

02:53:28.620 um if if uh i would only look at that from a view not from creepy but from uh logistics of

02:53:35.160 fatherhood that's the only way i would look at it if they had the value that would be really the

02:53:39.980 deal breaker if if they shared my theology if they were in my church uh that would be a deal breaker

02:53:45.480 um the only argument i would have it wouldn't be a creepy argument because that's really not an

02:53:49.400 argument that's just an argument from incredulity that's just like saying icky therefore wrong

02:53:53.960 that's not an argument that's you know and so the only uh reason i would i would present to

02:53:59.540 advocate away from it if i did advocate away from it would be practicality that is to say

02:54:04.300 it's not that it's creepy it might be the case that the 50 year old man uh marrying the 18 year old man

02:54:11.360 may may at some age uh not be able to fulfill his duties as a husband or a father in in a shorter

02:54:17.760 period of time and so it's ideal that they're closer in age but it's not because it's creepy does that

02:54:22.980 make sense okay so you won't be okay with your daughter 18 years old right she brings home a guy

02:54:28.360 your age at the time that's fine and then you're just gonna pin it on me i mean i just told you

02:54:34.440 what do you have what do you have i understand i understand i just literally told you the whole

02:54:38.880 entire hypothetical did you just not listen i understand your hypothetical i guess yeah i

02:54:44.120 guess i understand i guess it would just have to be i guess creepy is just based on your opinion

02:54:48.140 that's all it is i mean like i'm not saying that no i'm not saying that just because something i

02:54:53.080 think something's creepy it's wrong it might be right in someone else's situation i can just still

02:54:56.980 think it's creepy also i also jim bob what do you what do you think about this argument so for example

02:55:04.380 um and it's it is an interesting argument like well what would you prefer or want for your own

02:55:09.320 daughter and it's like i think the i think a father could even say well yeah i think i might

02:55:16.100 even have like a slight preference towards uh a woman dating a man you know within a couple years

02:55:23.200 of her maybe he's like three four years older but that doesn't necessarily even if you have that

02:55:29.000 preference that doesn't mean that you're you're precluded from being okay with her dating somebody a

02:55:34.480 bit older in the same way for example as this uh you might say it would be your preference uh or

02:55:41.200 it would be more ideal for your daughter to date somebody who's a billionaire but you would also be

02:55:46.920 okay with her dating a millionaire or even a guy who makes a hundred thousand dollars a year or even

02:55:53.040 seventy thousand dollars a year whatever it is so just because there could be a preference or leaning

02:55:57.860 towards yeah i could see like okay if she finds a fantastic guy who's like a year older than her or the

02:56:03.680 same age that could be optimum in the sense of like okay like if there's a big age gap here's

02:56:09.280 potential one potential downfall he could maybe like pass away a little sooner than would otherwise

02:56:13.980 be ideal but you know people can die at any point but does that track for you at all it makes sense

02:56:20.100 it makes sense it's just that it's interesting these hypotheticals always come down to like sort of

02:56:25.080 like what you want to eat off a menu essentially reduced preferences and i'm pointing out to something

02:56:29.700 larger which is very important uh in all of these conversations is that what is your world view

02:56:35.540 what and for my my view an orthodox christian perspective is is the filter for which i'm i'm determining

02:56:43.240 my answers to all of these things so without the world view without the world view all you have is

02:56:49.520 just what i think off the menu and i'm saying that's not working anymore that didn't work for women

02:56:54.440 and feminism that doesn't work for utilitarian progressives that doesn't work for atheists

02:56:59.340 what i'm pointing to is that ultimately you need a paradigm in a world view and and honestly in

02:57:05.220 modernity today uh everybody a lot of people are just without it it's a it's sad but uh you'll i'll play

02:57:10.720 my own violin music on even it's sad that people are judging their ethics from their own personal

02:57:16.480 preferences and that's ultimately all that's happening here i mean i'm it's it's it's toast cooked yep

02:57:24.340 uh we have someone who bought a t-shirt thank you someone who bought a t-shirt appreciate it

02:57:28.460 appreciate it we have a soup chat too john veliquet all should seek god before mate you're made in his

02:57:34.340 image and likeness where's your word before you speak it well jesus christ is living word of the

02:57:39.260 father so jesus christ is the perfect expression of all who the father is and only he reveals the

02:57:45.420 father yo john thank you so much for the soup chat man really appreciate it thank you thank you

02:57:48.860 all right guys we're gonna get into i'm gonna wait until she's back before i get into this

02:57:54.040 but hmm where do we go where do we go from you know what i'm gonna do some of the pre-show notes

02:57:59.020 before we get into uh that one hypothetical brian i want to ask the lady something really

02:58:04.760 kind of interesting would you rather have um um really small sharp teeth all of them are really

02:58:14.560 small and sharp or no eyebrows oh i had no eyebrows teeth yeah yeah i'd want better teeth you can draw

02:58:21.020 raise your hand no eyebrows oh sharp teeth

02:58:28.360 okay that's all brian thank you okay perfect perfect all right we're gonna get into uh some

02:58:36.860 of the things here uh sam sam that's your name sam's sam's sammy okay uh you have a tattoo that

02:58:46.920 i couldn't quite make out curiosity curiosity often leads to trouble okay are you constantly

02:58:53.000 curious and getting i got that when i was like 17 okay so it's like curiosity kills the cat it's

02:58:59.520 just there now okay uh here we're gonna do let's do this stifler ask everyone to rate their own looks

02:59:05.860 on a scale of one to ten you can't pick seven starting with you go ahead rate your own looks uh your

02:59:11.320 mic needs to be tilted down can i be skipped because i'm like chewing can uh just answer the

02:59:16.040 question and it's just a one word i'm sorry um they said i can't pick seven wait can you just tilt

02:59:21.720 your mic down okay um if i could pick seven i would pick seven but since i can't pick seven i'm going to

02:59:30.980 say eight okay i mean who doesn't want to say 10 i don't know you can say yeah okay yeah yeah 10

02:59:41.780 i would say like 8.75 8.75 okay 12

02:59:45.700 she said she broke the scale that's what she said so 10

02:59:51.620 and a half yeah nine nine nine and a half uh okay um i think looks are in the eye of the beholder

03:00:01.200 but i would say like if i can't say seven i'm going to say six no okay i think you're a 10

03:00:06.800 oh thank you what about you eight eight six i get myself a five jim bob what about you

03:00:14.200 six point seven six point seven okay so let's explore we have a 10 a 10 i'm just gonna give

03:00:24.700 you a 10 because not well because you gave yourself 12 and 9 9.5 yeah 9.5 okay

03:00:32.080 he's all psyched he said what the there's someone for everyone so i guess why what makes you guys

03:00:47.320 tens i guess i think i look good who uh do either of you have any plastic surgery

03:00:54.720 what do you have i have a bbl bbl any like fillers or anything like lip fillers lip fillers

03:01:02.020 what about you any plastic surgery um yeah i have um i have a bbl i did my boobs i did

03:01:08.900 i did lipo all over lipo okay i have lipo all over i have my boobs i have my butt and i have my lips

03:01:15.920 okay we're and just to be clear were you uh were you a 10

03:01:19.420 oh no before the work okay so what were you before the work oh seven seven what about you

03:01:25.780 were you a i've been a thick seven forever thick seven forever you know i would say like yeah like

03:01:31.540 a six seven six seven but now that you but once you do it like you just feel like your ego just

03:01:37.860 you feel like like the confidence it is because a lot of people are like oh why would you want to

03:01:43.260 do that why would you want to do that like i want to do it for myself because i wanted to feel

03:01:46.540 better i felt doing that for myself would make me feel better that's why i said at 12 i think

03:01:52.280 does it make you feel i'm sorry i'm just gonna say does it make you feel better in your eyes or

03:01:57.800 like for a man like because i feel like most women would get their i don't know i've been single for

03:02:01.900 five years and i've had work done for five years so it don't really oh yeah that's okay and question

03:02:07.380 does your answer change if it goes from what you rate yourself to uh how men how you think men would

03:02:14.740 rate you do you think they would rate you 10 yeah okay i would hope they rate me like a nine

03:02:21.540 cool nine yeah so just to be clear i'll kind of clarify the question a little bit so i think

03:02:26.460 the same so i think that there are men out there who who would rate like you look at any woman there's

03:02:33.740 maybe a singular guy out there who would give them a 10 right i'm saying if you had a thousand men in a

03:02:39.300 room a thousand men in a room looking at the average the general uh a thousand men what would

03:02:45.580 be the average rating they give you a thousand men to the average rating yeah so i think that's

03:02:51.740 in person i i'm honestly still would say a 10 i do still 10 okay eight okay

03:02:58.580 and in person i think i think i would get a seven just because i feel like my type me in general i'm

03:03:06.680 not everyone's type like half those men could be like hell nah and the other half of the men could

03:03:11.740 be like oh yeah she's perfect you know what i mean like i'm this is my type what about you i would hope

03:03:17.560 they say a nine but i feel like if they got to know my age the the the rate will drop i didn't expect

03:03:25.200 you to be i think you said you're 35 you know because like people like jim um jim bob jim bob

03:03:31.800 uh-huh obviously they will oh like yeah okay yeah yeah so that thing right wait you're saying

03:03:38.080 her rating would she looks amazing because i think she's just like wow she looks so beautiful

03:03:42.820 yeah and she's even older than i expected when she said her age it shocked me

03:03:46.640 yeah yeah i mean you can still be attractive no yeah i completely agree i just think that i would

03:03:52.060 i mean she's even i feel like damn that's even crazier yeah but i mean i think if i think if

03:03:57.580 you maybe i mean look people glow up differently or whatever but if you were next to your 20 year

03:04:05.200 old self probably a lot of guys are picking i look so i mean unless you were like obese or something

03:04:11.040 oh yeah can i just demonstrate how meaningless this is uh uh what's the chair uh one two three or

03:04:17.360 is someone missing is someone missing no one between no okay three uh after the pink shirt

03:04:23.440 you said you're a 10 i didn't say that correct i said 8.75 oh oh sorry i'm sorry because i was

03:04:30.660 gonna take someone who said they were 10 did the next girl say she was a 10 with the butt lifts

03:04:34.840 yeah so so can you name someone who's like super famous that's a 10

03:04:41.800 can i name someone like a woman yeah a woman who's super famous who's a 10 in your eyes

03:04:48.780 oh woman who like i look up to or because i don't really just name a girl that you think is a 10

03:04:54.940 oh someone who i think is hot

03:04:56.980 any actress an actress or singer i don't know i'm not really good with like i could show you a picture

03:05:06.020 do you know you like megan foxes you know a lot of people use and hathaway

03:05:10.000 i think saweetie's a 10. who like saweetie i don't know uh what's her name uh justin bieber

03:05:17.400 hayley bieber is super pretty i think you know i like a model you guys know who emily marico is

03:05:23.380 on tiktok what did you say yeah i do know who that is

03:05:25.140 but but this is why i ask is like i wanted a reference because if you brought up a picture of

03:05:40.980 the person you referred to some sort of like a victoria's secret model let's say the arrow was 90s

03:05:46.900 not now um you were you're basically saying you're equivalent to them on the scale of of hotness right

03:05:54.420 in my own head yeah in your own head well at least you admit it's in your own head you know

03:05:59.120 what would you rate yourself i would rate myself i think i'm a 10 i think i'm a 12 you know what i

03:06:07.400 mean and in other people's eyes i said to you to someone else again with like the thousand people

03:06:11.920 to someone else they could be like oh she is not my cup of tea oh she's too much oh she's this oh

03:06:16.520 she's that oh she you know what i mean but i i think i'm a solid 12. jim bob why did you rate

03:06:22.440 yourself so low i mean you're a father i would you say you're a leader i mean yeah we're talking

03:06:27.480 about looks we're talking about looks i think it's just superficial looks oh we're just talking oh

03:06:31.180 we're just talking peter dicklage are you kidding me i have no idea who that is yeah i don't know

03:06:36.100 who that is game of thrones too oh i'm not yeah isn't that low self-esteem i mean no it's descriptively

03:06:44.040 true look at these shoulders you kidding me i would need to see you in person he is a dwarf

03:06:49.100 i couldn't even jump kick you wait how tall are you uh he's like five five ten oh no that's it

03:06:57.040 doesn't matter if that's really i also okay no go ahead i personally have no work done this is my

03:07:02.080 natural hair color so i think that finds value in that when it comes to looks who finds value in

03:07:08.740 that i don't know i got dark brown big beautiful curly voluptuous hair everyone knows something they

03:07:13.160 love my hair i wear this because what it don't matter the color your hair natural not because a

03:07:17.240 man could love you with nothing he could love you exactly how you are perfect you know what i mean

03:07:21.300 beautiful this of course this is my hair what are you talking about i was

03:07:27.300 that came right up her she bought it but like in general like like completely two different

03:07:33.960 she has blonde hair blue eyes petite itty bitty completely different woman than how i am you know

03:07:38.480 what i mean she could be 100 someone they love her and they're looking at me like i'm crazy and then

03:07:44.060 it could be the same thing with men with me they could look at me and be like oh yeah she's she's my

03:07:49.000 type she's this she's that and looking at her and being like oh i wouldn't she's not my for

03:07:52.840 everyone it's just different you know what i mean everyone has different like she said in the eye

03:07:56.880 of the beholder it's kind of to each his own you know yeah i don't like that i don't like that

03:08:00.420 view i like i like i want to go back to the the the world where there were standards for beautiful

03:08:06.280 architecture beautiful art beautiful humans yeah but those people were naked we were fucking goblins

03:08:10.980 when we were goblins those people were naked what no i have okay pound it um okay i don't know um

03:08:20.600 there's a super chat to ferry chair one is only what the fuck okay thank you to ferry uwu thank you for

03:08:26.320 the soup chat appreciate it uh wait so did they all give uh like a woman who they thought was a

03:08:31.280 10 did you give a woman um i named a few actually uh tell us a guy who you think is a 10

03:08:37.980 jake gyllenhaal jake gyllenhaal okay any other 10 10 men well like anthony edwards

03:08:45.300 any other 10 guys taylor lautner dylan o'brien taylor lautner yeah

03:08:50.820 dylan o'brien i'm sure there's dylan o'brien oh my gosh tyler posey too though i mean dylan o'brien

03:08:57.400 oh dame damon ian solar homer or however you say his last name so dame another one from the

03:09:02.640 vampire diaries and paul wesley right yeah okay i know who i don't know who dave chapelle is

03:09:08.340 okay um so wait just to just to be clear so you said wait jake let's just start with jake

03:09:15.000 gyllenhaal okay yeah so do you do you think uh that's a that's a matchup good fair match like you

03:09:24.180 and jake gyllenhaal yeah who's jake gyllenhaal to be charitable to be hold on to be charitable

03:09:30.000 guys guys chill to be charitable we are talking just about looks right so jake gyllenhaal also has

03:09:39.100 status right uh total package do you still think that's a fair matchup absolutely and i'm working

03:09:46.340 my way to the top as well right now wait like he went and you're 29 no i'm 26 oh sorry i got i got

03:09:56.460 you okay you're 26 you're working your way up to the top of success in my career yes and a model

03:10:04.640 i do runway shows right so currently though you're not

03:10:09.700 at the top of the modeling world status between a male and a woman doesn't need to be the same

03:10:16.980 right sorry to be fair there are people in wheelchairs who do runway shows so that doesn't

03:10:21.840 say anything okay well to be fair a man and a woman's status don't have to be the same to be

03:10:26.840 a matchup uh okay yeah sure but it's true but yeah okay you don't have to have the same status just

03:10:36.040 like that's like saying what's that world famous soccer player's name i'm gonna go ahead and grant

03:10:39.900 it i agree with you yeah you know what isn't his wife like a waitress or something like totally agree

03:10:45.460 with you yeah totally agree they don't have the same status at all but of the things she was a

03:10:49.800 waitress or something of the things of the things that men find important do you think like and jake

03:10:59.360 jillenhall is offering all this to women do you think you're on jake jillenhall's level yes

03:11:05.200 like i don't i don't understand how i wouldn't be on the the status i'm not i'm not the same status as

03:11:15.640 him in the world i know you're not yeah that's fine men don't care about right exactly men don't

03:11:20.280 care everybody kindly shut the fuck up briefly the discipline when it comes to other people talking

03:11:25.760 while other people are talking has been fucking atrocious you guys please just be quiet she's

03:11:31.200 talking you guys were talking you guys were talking stop kindly just stop don't interrupt her

03:11:36.540 don't interrupt me one person at a time please go ahead okay where were we though

03:11:43.340 so we're talking about how my status yes men don't care about status when it comes to women

03:11:49.340 typically it's not something that is looked at if they have a high status so just because our

03:11:55.320 statuses are different doesn't mean that i don't have like a shot with him right like if we were in

03:12:00.500 the same room together and he was attracted to me i think that's all it takes if you were in the same

03:12:06.340 room with him and if he was attracted to right if he's attracted me and then we find mutual interest we

03:12:10.600 start talking that's all it takes to spark a connection with anybody doesn't matter what

03:12:15.380 playing field you're on in terms of status so here's the problem is why you know what i'll just

03:12:22.260 ask it super simply okay why can't average women like why why don't average women want average men

03:12:30.820 why do you think i'm average i'm not even average you don't even know i in la i'm i'm not a huge deal

03:12:37.400 but i'm somewhat i thought you were about to say in la okay and online yeah like i have a presence

03:12:43.480 so it's not like i'm necessarily present there's nothing wrong with average like even if i go ahead

03:12:49.060 and grant but i'm not i'm also not average looking i've never been average even if i go ahead and

03:12:53.660 grant that you're like slightly above average if i give you like a six that's not jake jake jillenhall

03:13:01.180 level and that's not you're not jake jillenhall so i know i gave myself a five okay and let's if he

03:13:09.260 rates me on here hey rate me jake jillenhall but the the issue is right is when women have an over

03:13:16.020 inflated sense of how attractive they are they're gonna curve guys who are actually on their level

03:13:22.080 so my view is is why do average looking women not want to date average looking men why can't

03:13:30.580 average women average looking women or just average women in general just be like hey i'm an average

03:13:36.360 gal it would be fair for me to pair off with an average guy i'll even go ahead and grant i'll give

03:13:43.600 you you're you're above average so that could be like a dated medium ready guys already that could be a

03:13:49.440 six or seven and i always get to hold them out of their leg jake jillenhall you know there's there's

03:13:54.620 the totality the amalgamation of all the things that make him uh you know an attractive guy he's

03:14:01.220 i think he's probably pretty good looking dude he's got probably yeah he's a good looking he's very

03:14:06.980 good looking i don't know if he's like that roadhouse movie he's absolutely a 10 did anybody here see

03:14:11.740 roadhouse destruction on on patrick swayze's legacy so i don't know if he's

03:14:19.220 yeah 10 out of 10 in looks better he's probably an eight or a nine he's very he's a very good

03:14:23.920 looking guy i don't know if he's a 10 but in any case why do you deserve jake jillenhall

03:14:29.460 what do you mean why do i deserve him well you said you're a 10 you said he's a 10 you think you

03:14:37.080 guys would be a fair match if if we're good together we're good together it's not about deserving

03:14:43.960 yeah but so if you're like okay i'm holding if you're like i'm holding out for a certain

03:14:50.060 caliber of guy i never said i was holding out but okay you're a 10 don't you want to date a guy

03:14:55.640 who's a 10 i've dated a lot of medium ready guys and you're the only one who's told me oh

03:14:59.420 you know why would like what are you even saying everyone else that i've i've dated guys below my

03:15:04.800 caliber or you know and that's always been called out by the people i know people around me my

03:15:10.520 influencing online oh they why are we even with them they're not even on your level so that's

03:15:15.420 typically what i hear and is that your own assessment of the men you've dated that they're

03:15:18.440 not on your level sometimes sometimes they are but they're also you know it just depends whether

03:15:23.360 it works out or not yeah so i think again i think you have basically there's a couple things going on

03:15:28.860 here one women have short-term limited sexual access to men who are more attractive than them and

03:15:34.060 then two you have your own girlfriends and society at large basically gassing you up saying

03:15:40.320 you know this this goes back to disney this goes back to childhood this goes back to your mom and

03:15:45.480 your parents oh my god you're so beautiful you're the most beautiful girl ever okay cool that's your

03:15:48.460 parents saying that shit but and society gases you up too it's crazy it's not crazy it's facts so

03:15:54.120 society is gassing up women look you can go to and men too i've been gassed up by yes absolutely

03:16:00.340 no i'm saying i've been gassed up by men yes men will gas you up too but if you go to a girl's

03:16:06.240 instagram page we can test this out super easy we could probably pull up any of y'all's instagram

03:16:10.600 page and you post a photo and it's just a view or whatever there's going to be like 20 30 40 50

03:16:18.180 different girls i mean oh my god slay queen you're you're beautiful you're you're perfect you're

03:16:23.020 whatever the compliments women give each other so you got other women you got your peer group you got

03:16:27.820 your friend group gassing you up saying that you're beautiful and attractive and you start

03:16:31.160 buying into that and hey i think it's i don't think people should be insulting people in their

03:16:37.260 instagram posts or in their comment section but i also don't think we should be lying to people

03:16:42.460 just because you're seeing the comments doesn't mean i get a tons of tons of dms from guys it's not

03:16:47.420 just on the comment thing a lot of guys are too scared to comment i don't dispute at all that you get

03:16:52.360 a bunch of romantic and sexual attention from men i'm not going to dispute that at all so you think

03:16:57.360 like the people that are commenting under girls pictures are lying to them when they're like you

03:17:01.720 look so good if they think they're going to have a chance to have sex with you they will tell you

03:17:06.120 i'm talking about girls commenting this naive i'm talking about girls commenting not guys oh girls

03:17:11.420 yeah oh well do you think lizzo's beautiful i think she's pretty oh it's in the eye

03:17:18.800 i feel like now she's like not that bad whenever her prime bad before is lizzo i'd have to see her

03:17:29.400 honestly because i lizzo is like a i'll give her like i know she's a rapper right picture of lizzo

03:17:34.080 wait don't do her dirty though don't do her dirty i'm not i've never been attracted to a lot of hair

03:17:38.420 modifications or like look at all the images i don't know so you said you think wait before

03:17:44.540 we pull it up though give her like a five out of ten okay now she's she's pretty average okay

03:17:50.800 it's crazy you said beautiful i mean like okay what you don't what's wrong with her look at her

03:17:57.520 these are terrible pictures of her look no in the second one she's not like at all how i thought she

03:18:02.080 would look oh wow these are evil good the second how is this either this is what this is okay she

03:18:07.180 lost weight i'm talking about in these pictures right here well because some of the pictures are

03:18:11.120 like they're bad pictures of her bro but some of them are like no but some of the pictures of her

03:18:16.400 were bad pictures some of them are bad pictures no some of the pictures i do think she has some

03:18:21.540 9-11 it's like what are you talking about a bad picture it's literally an accurate

03:18:26.480 representation what's a good picture of her a lie i don't think she's the ones where she's like

03:18:30.640 posing and she's like ready for the picture i mean pretty in herself like great pictures

03:18:35.940 that's just real life some of the pictures she was kind of it was like yeah weird angles yeah

03:18:41.900 she is obese well yeah she's fucking obese right and that's not i don't think i do not think being

03:18:50.600 unhealthy is attractive it's something that typically goes along with being obese look look look

03:18:56.120 re-comparing us to lism on the victor scale that's it why are you guys why do you guys have to fight

03:19:01.200 so hard to develop an objective truth about beauty and health and standards you guys are all delusional

03:19:07.580 okay so why am i delusional okay so you because you're like oh i'm a 10 we got girls on here who

03:19:14.640 think they're a 10 you think that you know pink shirt thinks she's a 10 she thinks she's up to par

03:19:19.480 with like the the famous ripped actors what is causing this delusion forget whether or not it's

03:19:25.800 delusional it's all the audience already knows it what is causing the delusion maybe you know what

03:19:32.140 jim bob i've got the answer let me tell you what's causing the mass amounts of delusion so here's what

03:19:38.420 it is i kind of already went over it but i'll give the bullet points really quick one society and

03:19:45.360 other women are gassing up other women oh you're so beautiful women y'all will gas each other up i

03:19:51.480 said the instagram comments and you'll say to a girl's face she's so pretty and then behind her

03:19:56.400 face you'll be like she's an ugly skin who do you think's a 10 who how does that matter it just does

03:20:01.720 as a woman anybody in this world the 10 i don't think there's 10s i think there's like nines and

03:20:05.560 then there's like nines that's where it is guys there's nines who fit your preferences

03:20:09.980 well we can get to that but i would like to make my point there's no 10s nines only

03:20:15.460 yeah that's where it lies yeah i think i think generally speaking there's no 10s looks wise

03:20:20.580 there's nines so none of us here could possibly fit his ideal standards oh well hold on i didn't say

03:20:25.900 that i could make assess someone can be attractive or very attractive and not be a 10 or even a 9 like

03:20:33.360 eight seven that's hey good for you guys but there is men out there right that believe in 10s too

03:20:39.120 right just like we do uh sure there you go sure okay fine just for the sake of the argument sure

03:20:46.200 i believe there are 10s out there there's no 10s at this table if that's helpful to you to you

03:20:50.280 oh man no not just i'm gonna just say objectively well i guess it wouldn't be objective yeah it's

03:20:54.500 not because we've yeah so how about this fine subjectively there's no 10s at this table

03:20:58.600 the chat's gonna go crazy you know chat's gonna be like yeah there's no nines at this table

03:21:04.980 and there's no 10s none of them in any case look none of them so here here's my diagnosis jim bob

03:21:09.960 society in uh instagram comment section girls being gassed up by their friends their family

03:21:18.800 and society that's one you have a culture that doesn't really check women in any sort of way

03:21:24.280 when it comes to their own looks you mean the red pill culture that wants to tear them down

03:21:27.780 that wants to what just hold on let me honesty just honesty so the other component here is so

03:21:34.520 women women get rejected on the back end men get rejected on the front end so if i step to a girl

03:21:40.620 that's out of my league i get an instant rejection if i step to a girl who's outside my league i don't

03:21:46.140 get a date i don't get a number i don't get a conversation i don't get a kiss i don't get sex

03:21:50.500 now let's flip it well that's a rewind but fuck it whatever let's flip it it as a woman if you make

03:22:00.840 yourself available to a guy who's outside of your league you don't get rejected you get a one-night

03:22:08.680 stand friends with benefits situationship maybe you'll even keep you around for a couple weeks

03:22:14.460 couple months you're not going to get commitment though because men if you it doesn't even necessarily

03:22:20.480 have to be you making the first move but if you are dealing with or step to a guy because a guy

03:22:25.840 will shoot a shot with a girl he has no intention of ever taking her seriously in a long-term

03:22:31.360 relationship and i can see the i can see the gear spinning and because you know it's true no actually

03:22:37.440 i just don't think it's worth responding to at all because there's no changing your mind you're

03:22:41.500 stuck in your view here repeat back what i just said i'm okay yeah you're just not even paying

03:22:45.920 attention no i am okay what did i just say you're saying that there's no like a guy will give a girl

03:22:52.080 attention but he won't pursue her as a wife or anything or a further relationship and if she if

03:23:00.060 she's not in his league according to you do you think do you think leagues exist because you say that

03:23:06.800 as if i'm like i'm just saying something that is so preposterous and absurd to be able to categorize

03:23:13.860 people in leagues i mean it's all based off of a superficial aspect that you're going off of so

03:23:20.120 super super okay so you don't care about looks at all no i do you'll date a guy who's four foot

03:23:25.320 11 who's like the ugliest motherfucker ever i do care about looks okay so then why are you making a

03:23:32.400 criticism of superficiality everyone cares about looks there's an initial attraction you should be

03:23:37.220 attracted to your partner okay you don't think classes exist though i mean i mean to add on to that

03:23:43.240 brian is like uh you have looks like let's say someone looked just like a nut like a nine let's

03:23:48.420 say let's say that and then you start talking to them and you realize they're from bumfuck minnesota

03:23:53.920 and they cheat they chase the uh shrimp platter around a party like a little poor person there's

03:24:00.120 this other aspect of society where where we can't deny our class i don't admit i don't say i'm high

03:24:07.280 class i'm i'm pretty much my my 6.7 meets my class too i would say pink shirt um you come from low

03:24:15.120 class just the way you talk so even if you dolled yourself up then you met jake jill and my entire

03:24:21.520 life they would be like they'd be like you're you're you don't you have a very limited amount of

03:24:26.140 vocabulary you're you're you're you're not you're not well mannered necessarily like there's all these

03:24:31.680 it's not an insult i promise you because i'm not either it's not an insult because i've never heard

03:24:36.260 that in my entire life so that's okay oh well i guess that makes it true actually actually proves

03:24:41.680 brian's point is that people literally fluff you up and when when i asked brian what do you think's

03:24:47.580 causing this mass delusion i would say it's online shit because you ladies mostly you post your shit

03:24:53.540 and then you get all these responses fluffing you out right blowing you out you think you're like

03:24:58.540 you know you know your your existence is is is better or or more valuable than it actually is

03:25:04.480 and then you start believing it right i'm we're saying we're actually trying to draw you back to

03:25:09.540 reality for your own good and you're fighting it you're like no let me keep my delusion

03:25:13.260 do you think your approach is proactive hold on let's not i'm not going to do the tone police thing

03:25:20.440 but so yeah so just to finish off of my point here is so as women you guys can deal with men

03:25:27.540 like a 19 20 year old girl who is in college can deal with like an nfl player nba player famous

03:25:33.540 musician famous actor case in point we were talking about him earlier leonardo dicaprio he's dealing

03:25:38.840 with like i mean granted he's dealing with like supermodels and stuff so like there's some equivalence

03:25:43.540 there but like he's like in terms of his level he's dealing with like a a totally there's such a

03:25:51.260 differential in terms of who he's dealing with on the socioeconomic and status front and granted men

03:25:57.160 don't really care about that but the the thing is is that so you guys as women you got you guys you

03:26:03.080 women you can deal with men outside of your league but they won't give you commitment and so what ends

03:26:09.220 up happening if you start sleeping with these dudes and who doesn't want to get the best that they can

03:26:14.480 get i get it you're gonna try to lock down that really attractive hyper successful high status guy

03:26:20.980 you're gonna try to lock him down you're probably not gonna get it because you're dealing outside of

03:26:24.760 your league you think women should like if you're not in my league i should just give you the chance

03:26:29.680 the whole time right it's the opposite no you should deal vice versa just everybody has to stay in the

03:26:34.100 same league that's all you're saying yeah i'll answer your question i think you should try to be

03:26:37.520 in your league and that could be like plus or minus one point it could be plus or my it can be plus or

03:26:44.620 minus one point i think that's a fair you know i don't think you have to be honest and that's how you

03:26:49.840 have to be honest like if you're gonna if brian's saying you have to be in your league it's actually

03:26:53.080 better he's actually giving you good advice know the reality you're in right but just to just to

03:26:59.680 finish my point here so when it comes to the league thing again like as men we okay i'll paint it like

03:27:06.220 this as women you can spend your 20s hooking up with really attractive guys and chasing after them

03:27:11.220 but they're not going to give you commitment and so what ends up happening is basically once you

03:27:16.940 you're like oh shit gotta settle gotta settle whatever a lot of women think they're settling but

03:27:21.640 no it's actually you're doing a comparison game you're like i had this limited level of access

03:27:27.460 to these certain specific men outside of my league throughout my 20s and they gave me sex but they

03:27:33.640 didn't give me a commitment maybe they kept me in a situationship maybe they even dated me for six

03:27:37.640 months nine months whatever but i didn't get long-term a commitment from them then when you

03:27:41.560 get into your late 20s and 30s you're going to be like oh okay here the guys who are actually willing

03:27:46.200 to be monogamous who are actually willing to commit to me i think they're below me and maybe you

03:27:50.740 settle for them maybe you don't and if you don't you're perpetually chasing after those

03:27:54.740 men outside of your league and the the pattern is going to repeat but if you do settle even though

03:28:00.120 you're really ending up with your equivalent you're going to feel like resentful that like

03:28:04.300 because you genuinely don't think like okay this guy's on my level you're like damn i'm settling for

03:28:09.320 this guy you're not going to treat him as well you're probably going to get divorced one two three

03:28:13.280 years later so this is a trap that a lot of women fall into men can't fall into this because it just

03:28:18.380 doesn't really happen like that again if men step to a woman outside their league instant rejection

03:28:23.420 women aren't going to entertain true it is that's so not true i've dated men underneath my but see

03:28:28.980 that's what you think you you think that you think that they're outside of your league in terms of

03:28:34.320 your league i mean it could be the case i'm not look it's not like a hundred percent a woman has

03:28:41.800 never dated a guy below her league that's not what i'm saying i'm saying generally just said it

03:28:47.740 couldn't happen a second ago i'm just saying let me ask you a question do humans have 10 fingers

03:28:53.300 yes are some humans born with 11 fingers i think so yeah yeah it's it's a birth defect essentially

03:29:00.400 so me saying that humans have 10 fingers that wouldn't necessarily be like i would acknowledge

03:29:06.360 yes some humans are born with 11 fingers that's not it's it's when you're speaking in generalities

03:29:12.160 just a second ago you said you can't though men can't yeah that's what you said yes humans have

03:29:18.180 10 fingers but you just said men can't always like to argue the like exception to the rule or whatever

03:29:25.040 um yeah so when i say i think yes as a general as a general rule yes i think the average men can't

03:29:35.600 date outside of their league an average woman if she was so inclined average woman she could fuck

03:29:42.920 six dudes a day if she wanted to average men can't literally cannot do that now we're talking about

03:29:49.760 fucking are we still sticking to like superficially yeah are we still or are we talking about it like

03:29:55.720 because and yeah women can definitely get more men than men can get women okay so this would

03:30:01.740 this would further bolster my point how so

03:30:07.360 what do you mean how so how does that bolster your point that if if women have more optionality

03:30:17.600 when it comes to men if it's easy for yeah it is i can get higher lower in between i can get almost

03:30:24.540 anything i want you're saying you could get higher although you say you're a 10 so that's a bit

03:30:29.200 confusing but uh men can't men can't okay instead of that instead of higher okay most fine if you

03:30:36.800 don't like the term can't vast vast vast majority of men can't get women outside their league

03:30:42.940 point blank period point blank period now because again i'll explain it again

03:30:50.080 here's the difference if a girl wants to have a one-night stand but she's otherwise not really

03:30:58.120 inclined to have a casual sexual encounter if a girl's gonna break her rule like you over there

03:31:03.160 you're a virgin right like it's super unlikely that you're gonna have a one-night stand right

03:31:07.000 but if it was like the most fucking would you be more likely to do it if it was like the most

03:31:14.400 gorgeous handsome beautiful man you've ever seen no but you'd be more likely to do it than if it was

03:31:20.860 like a cave troll yeah i guess yeah yeah okay so women operate that way you're gonna break your rule

03:31:32.140 well i did not say i'd break my rule i said and you weren't the good person to go to this women who

03:31:37.880 aren't otherwise super inclined to short-term casual sex if you're gonna do it you're gonna optimize

03:31:45.080 prioritize prioritize for a really really attractive guy men work the opposite if we're looking for

03:31:50.680 short-term casual sex we're gonna be like okay we just want the the quickest easiest thing we can

03:31:55.800 get so if she's less attractive we'll do it yeah it makes sense yeah so man has the second chair

03:32:02.520 oh go ahead brian sorry yeah so men can work the opposite way additionally here's a question if i can

03:32:09.200 sleep with a girl i'm high i have high levels of confidence i can get her into a long-term monogamous

03:32:15.900 relationship if y'all can sleep with a man you know one uh pretty quick whatever well i mean you guys can

03:32:23.380 do that of the men that you can have sex with that you know you can have sex with and that you'd maybe

03:32:29.240 want to have sex with do you know with certainty with certainty and high levels of confidence that you

03:32:35.020 can get them into a long-term monogamous relationship to me sleeping with a man doesn't

03:32:39.440 equal being in a relationship like it doesn't answer my question so it doesn't get you further

03:32:43.940 in my opinion like when i if i were to just put out it doesn't mean that actually i see it as less

03:32:50.500 of a relationship you know i mean like if you're going to put out quickly or all the time then why

03:32:56.680 would he want to be in a relationship with you if you're already putting out i mean that's the whole

03:33:00.380 point right the chase well it's not so much work for something too it's not necessarily the quickness

03:33:05.340 or rapidity with which you have sex with the person but if you're able to have sex with them

03:33:10.780 i think when it comes to men if we're able to have sex with a girl there's a higher probability at

03:33:17.600 least for me my confidence level when it comes to get being able to get that specific woman into a

03:33:22.460 relationship i'm pretty confident i can get it makes sense her into a relationship yeah it's not

03:33:27.060 clear to me that maybe i can frame it this way the majority of women that i can sleep with

03:33:33.800 i can get into i can get them into a relationship with me the majority of men that you guys can sleep

03:33:40.280 with it's not clear to me if you can with certainty get those men into a relationship does that make

03:33:46.560 sense yeah okay um are you so tens though

03:33:55.060 yeah didn't change based off of your perspective okay i'm gonna do some super chats but

03:34:03.640 jake jillen oh my god we have jake jillen hall in the chat that's crazy

03:34:07.300 you are not a 10 put the lingerie in the closet wear clothes that fit do something with that hair mop

03:34:13.880 learn how to apply lipstick laser off that book on your arms and maybe a seven wait i want to see

03:34:21.400 what this person looks like oh it's a bible verse okay wait what's that i want to know what this person

03:34:26.620 actually looks like i know obviously it's uh jakey jakey boy um uh here i'm gonna let uh these need to

03:34:37.300 be pulled up like when somebody else is talking but um you know what we need to do uh shit i got

03:34:43.920 wait until she's back for this segment uh so 10 i said 8.7 no you said 10 no i don't you really

03:34:52.940 didn't like you guys keep saying that no you said 10 no she didn't she didn't no didn't you say 8.7

03:34:58.660 to 8.75 is what i said yeah she did she keeps saying that over and over again didn't you say

03:35:03.100 that when we asked if we had a thousand men in a room you said 8.72 yeah i thought you said 10

03:35:10.540 no she said 10 and she said 10 you didn't say 10 no rewind she keeps saying no i think she's

03:35:16.180 yeah yo chat did she say did she say 10 they're gonna come for me what was the thing where i wanted

03:35:23.220 to end the stream what was when i said i want to end the stream what was said she said something

03:35:27.620 right do you remember felicity all right perfect um let me see hold on guys uh here we have to do

03:35:37.620 oh i'll do a couple shout outs guys if you want to get a super uh stream labs message in

03:35:42.080 read is 100 tts is 200 venmo cash app whatever pod i'm going to read a couple

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03:36:08.200 to buy some merch would appreciate it guys okay so uh i'll just ask the question one more time

03:36:17.080 why can't average women just say they're average and be interested in average men

03:36:25.940 that's not how the world works i don't know

03:36:29.740 you're asking people to answer a very broad state um quentin are you single

03:36:35.820 um yes okay so here's what i want to do quentin stand up

03:36:42.520 you can stay there though you're you're my guinea pig for this uh rate rate quentin

03:36:51.080 i'm not doing that rate him like looks wise yeah i think he's a 10 oh shit boom perfect match what

03:36:59.580 about i'm just i do i noticed him when i walked in the room i thought you're very attractive

03:37:05.020 i would give him like a nine nine what are you reading i would give him a 10 i think he's really

03:37:11.060 attractive maybe a bit too high for me though too tall too tall oh shit okay you're good you're

03:37:16.740 good um you can see okay well that didn't work at all

03:37:20.900 it's true you picture a really hot

03:37:24.360 to be fair quentin's a very handsome man i don't know what he's doing over there

03:37:27.840 he's very handsome man i did not think that through

03:37:30.740 i did not think that because you don't see it on the same level like i think you have

03:37:35.440 different eyes and everybody

03:37:36.680 considering uh

03:37:37.900 like um if it's the case for women that even if they think they are a 10 like pink shirt uh number

03:37:45.720 two there um if harley if harley rose if you my name harley harley harley carley c-a-r-l-i

03:37:54.220 that's fine um harley so um if you were to find the right man and let's say there were six

03:38:01.980 the looks really wouldn't matter because like if it's the case you would end up if the best thing

03:38:07.180 for you would to end up with a six male uh you would do it right if the best thing for me to for you

03:38:15.200 repeat it repeat it if the best thing for you the best outcome

03:38:19.060 is for you to end up marrying settling down let's say or whatever it is to you uh with this with a

03:38:25.960 seven a six or seven if that were the case what is the what is the leverage of you thinking you're

03:38:32.780 a 10 anyway it's not about leverage it's just the fact that i i do and then um so why is that the

03:38:41.340 best outcome for me to end up with someone that's like a seven i'm saying could it be the case because

03:38:46.280 you said you dated people lower than you so if you dated it could be the case you know isn't it

03:38:50.760 possible hold on let me ask a question isn't it logically possible practically possible for you to

03:38:55.360 end up with someone lower than you if that's yeah but it's not really something i'd want to do

03:39:02.460 but it's possible so do you think you deserve someone equal to you in as you're saying you're a

03:39:09.500 10 right so you do you think that you're deserving of a 10 you've earned it you did i think i'm

03:39:15.720 deserving of it yeah you're deserving because you think you're a 10 okay and so what is it if a if a

03:39:24.260 male is a 10 and they have all this other stuff they're bringing to the table and you think you're a

03:39:29.680 10 what is it you're actually bringing to the table to the um the uh corresponding 10 male that

03:39:36.120 you're in a partnership with we're both 10s that's i don't understand what you're saying so

03:39:42.160 we're both 10s so you're both 10s okay if he's a 10 obviously you're not going to date a 10 or marry

03:39:48.340 a 10 who doesn't have a job right those exist there's like some pretty right and i also have a

03:39:52.480 job yeah no there's there's really hot bums out there but i'm not dating a bum yeah well you won't

03:39:59.260 marry a bum right even they're a 10 right right cool so what else in addition to being a 10 do they

03:40:06.280 have to have to meet your criteria for for be uh for them acquiring you to be a good person to be

03:40:15.000 you know a like you're saying homeless people aren't good people terrible just terrible i met in a

03:40:21.080 relationship i met a good person in a relationship so what based off of like how you're able to treat

03:40:28.680 me you know with risk with love and caring and kindness that kind of thing to be loving so there

03:40:34.540 are 10 okay so there are 10 they have no job or income but they're really nice to you do you are you

03:40:39.740 accepting them no because we're also not on the same level i have a job and income why would i

03:40:45.060 accept anybody below that what's their income need to be they're a 10 okay look at carly joe or

03:40:51.860 whatever your name is carly carly yeah you don't have to your fake name is it's not fake

03:40:56.800 thank you you have a 10 a 10 you have a 10 visually a 10 jake gyllenhaal fucking ripped abs

03:41:04.040 shoulder quads bigger shoulders than me not hard to beat right they they make a lot of money now

03:41:10.420 right and they're nice too that's great okay so how much money how much money do they need to make

03:41:15.080 i don't have an exact number of how much money someone has to make it just if we're going to be

03:41:19.960 equal right for both 10s and there you go they can make more you know they can make you just said

03:41:25.180 they can't be jobless so they obviously there's a threshold of what they have to make if they if

03:41:29.300 they can't be homeless or and jobless right enough to provide for themselves and me if need be

03:41:34.160 okay so they provide for themselves they live in a studio apartment that's kind of run down

03:41:40.640 they're providing for themselves they feed themselves they have a job they're at 10

03:41:44.360 are they up to par with you are you going to accept them as as uh as a potential mate for life

03:41:50.480 um i i have been in these situations where i date like guys that you know they're at 10 looks wise

03:41:58.200 you know and they again have the apartment and i don't know i've picked i have picked guys like that

03:42:03.820 but they also usually don't have the same goals as i do even they're they're not driven it shows a lack

03:42:09.520 of drive it doesn't show that if they don't have the same drive i do that's not possible because i've

03:42:17.100 tried that and they just end up being very bummy if you don't have yeah i don't know the guys that

03:42:23.580 the guys i see are gonna go up you know what i mean i understand he needs drive he needs to be a 10

03:42:29.840 he needs to have a job he can't be homeless and he has to uh basically there is an income level but

03:42:35.820 you just can't name it that's fair enough i'm not expecting you to be like super detailed about the

03:42:40.740 the threshold but maybe generally speaking can you name a threshold of income that

03:42:45.120 maybe either you toward him being worthy of your presence um it's not necessarily worthy of my

03:42:54.120 presence it's just on terms of like being a husband and willing to showing who he is as a man i guess

03:43:01.980 is what it is i still don't know 100 grand 50 grand is 50 well 50 grand is like bare minimum you

03:43:10.940 could be a waiter and make 50 grand a year jim baba i want to let you do it but there's like a there's

03:43:18.900 a lot to get through um but right i'll abandon it it's not going anywhere so go ahead uh really quick

03:43:25.180 i'll just pull up chef's super chat chair one kind of looks like an old homeboy thank you chef

03:43:28.800 appreciate it man uh okay so let me let this chat come through uh sayer wizard again you girls don't

03:43:35.540 know how men think you're either in the f only box or relationship box most girls are in the f box if

03:43:41.440 not where's your ring f box is not a win for you hope you realize that yeah that's kind of what i was

03:43:47.060 trying to get to uh wizard thank you for the uh message man really appreciate it thank you thank you

03:43:51.500 and uh okay and so uh i guess i'm gonna be quick on this one going around the table do you think

03:43:59.140 you'll be better looking in 10 years time probably not okay what about you i wouldn't say better no

03:44:06.200 uh just as good looking 10 years time at 36 versus 26 i think i'll still look good yeah but every

03:44:12.400 yeah that's not the question though do you think you'll be uh just as good looking

03:44:15.360 no okay uh you're 29 do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time at 39 no and then

03:44:24.000 you're 29 were you better looking at 19 or better looking now at 29 oh no okay you're 27 better

03:44:28.860 looking in 10 years time at 37 yeah there's people who are just listening audio can you speak

03:44:35.220 no okay i don't think i would be better looking in 10 years time but i am better looking than 10 years

03:44:43.100 to go okay so better looking now 35 versus when you were 25 you're 18 will you be better looking

03:44:48.440 in 10 years time at uh 28 i think so okay 20 years time 38 no into the mic please no okay uh you're 27

03:44:57.440 will you be better looking in 10 years time at 37 i don't think so okay uh and then all right

03:45:03.000 that's pretty much it felicity's done this whole bunch we're gonna pull up the age advance thing

03:45:06.940 uh if you can get those going uh all right so uh you have that pulled up for the first one

03:45:14.720 all right all right and i'll i'll be switching back and forth so uh window

03:45:21.940 so this is you uh wow they fucked your eyes up pretty bad that's you older uh let's do next

03:45:31.480 i'm not ready for the terrible picture oh god

03:45:35.260 okay the horrible picture next oh oh my god you look like my tia it doesn't even i'm scared

03:45:45.200 i'm scared they don't look like my tia oh my gosh the filter is brutal not everybody ages this way

03:45:51.660 people just so you know next i know it's just a filter what that's terrible gosh this is why

03:45:57.980 people on the internet feel terrible about themselves all right next

03:46:00.600 next

03:46:05.820 wait when did they take these photos i will say

03:46:10.280 remember when he did that oh okay okay next i know you do i just want to say oh my god yikes

03:46:18.260 that was bad all right yeah they'll do me they'll do next okay

03:46:24.480 god damn what the fuck you look like you would be like a sweet grandfather

03:46:33.060 next oh shit what the fuck dude that looks like something from

03:46:40.400 wait yo he looks just giving lord of the rings who's that actor you look just like that no i know

03:46:45.960 what actor you're talking about but i don't know the name he doesn't just like the actor

03:46:49.480 ian mckelland thank you thank you uh oh and then now um now what we're gonna do

03:46:58.360 is the gender swap once she's back i guess so silly i've done that before uh yo jaco thank you for

03:47:06.140 the soup chat man appreciate appreciate it find a rich guy okay thank you jaco appreciate the soup

03:47:11.180 chat uh and then we have flory uh thank you for the that's from flory there it is thank you for

03:47:21.320 the soup chat guys just a reminder read is 100 you get to finish read threshold is 100 tts is 200

03:47:27.820 uh let's pull up the gender swap and we're gonna have people react to that it should be probably the

03:47:32.980 next thing i guess yeah you can so what i want you to think oh can you uh control mouse wheel down

03:47:41.620 on these just to make them a little smaller it should be like one or two point yeah that's perfect

03:47:44.840 uh would you date your your male self if you're single you know um well i'm in a relationship if you're

03:47:53.180 single yeah uh if i were single um that looks too much like my dad um so no got it okay what about

03:48:02.640 you oh sorry um what the wow it's also a terrible picture uh i mean actually to be like you're gonna

03:48:13.800 see the the ai massively fucks up people yours actually is the hair like usually the hair gets

03:48:21.840 all fucked up the hair's not that bad they're kind of attractive so this is the male version of you

03:48:26.160 question but i also think that's a terrible picture of myself all the way to the next

03:48:31.800 i just don't think that's a good picture of me at all i mean i didn't think mine was a good

03:48:37.920 picture either but they made you know i thought you looked good in your picture oh i mean it's

03:48:41.960 everyone critiques them looks like you i think you look really pretty in your picture thanks yeah i

03:48:46.620 wasn't a fan of the picture but that's okay but i think they did a good job go back go to the yeah

03:48:51.120 so would you date the male version of you i mean it would be like dating my twin so no

03:48:57.660 but that's like you that's like your equivalent that's not true because that's like saying i would

03:49:05.120 date my twin brother no yes it is if they look just like you that's not the same thing having the

03:49:13.380 same scale and looking the same is completely different what is your picture what does her picture

03:49:17.320 look like i'm wait i have a question for you uh carly if if you didn't have breakfast this morning

03:49:25.260 how would you feel i didn't have breakfast so what's the point of that nice nicely done oh boy

03:49:34.180 so so it's this is a a test to see if you can engage with a hypothetical

03:49:41.700 which you you failed the test you can't engage with hypotheticals okay so i just don't like them

03:49:50.920 actually answer that makes sense because i've never liked hypotheticals i hate them i think they're

03:49:55.140 stupid i i like examples i don't necessarily like imaginary things so the the correct response would be

03:50:03.860 i would be if i didn't have breakfast this morning i would be hungry okay i've heard that before yeah

03:50:10.100 the response shouldn't be but hold on i did eat breakfast or i didn't okay so i don't like

03:50:16.200 hypotheticals yeah not everybody has to like them okay let's see all right okay i'm next next

03:50:25.320 what the fuck oh i did so see that you know who you look like you know who you look like you look

03:50:32.320 like you look like you look like no you look like bobby leslie's man he's ugly as hell

03:50:39.620 next oh yeah our eyes closed that's such a picture that's valid though i mean you were stoned

03:50:55.320 see the hair's all fucked up too holy shit peter pen okay next oh yeah

03:51:06.920 there you go would you date would you date your male self can i see that again yeah i'll pull it up

03:51:13.340 um that's about that looks armenian though it doesn't even look like you anymore yeah i maybe

03:51:21.180 yeah maybe yeah but i think i would i was gonna say no but i think the ai made me good yeah

03:51:28.320 yeah it's not even a pretty uh pretty handsome you look like the hair is kind of the hair is all

03:51:34.880 fucked up kind of yeah i see that yeah uh next maybe joe jonas that looks exactly like my brother

03:51:41.900 like yeah i don't like that that looks like my brother my brother has long hair and like that

03:51:47.280 looks like my brother if he had short hair are you so excited no because that's like that's like

03:51:51.260 all right next oh that looks wow i look like my father wow i really do i see it now

03:52:04.500 yeah that's what my dad looks like you look like you would be a kind man

03:52:07.680 he looks kind yeah well she's kind you look like you work at a verizon store

03:52:14.960 is that a bad thing like no i see that no but like the secondary not like the main verizon store

03:52:21.520 you're such a dude bag all the time why

03:52:24.000 yeah that's pretty cool wait why is that just be cool when i look at you your name's ruby right

03:52:30.300 yeah and i love how you wear all the red so yeah it's so cute you look like a little ruby

03:52:34.480 oh thank you oh you guys put that together what the fuck okay uh next oh no actually wait i look

03:52:44.620 like jack frost you kind of look this is probably this is the same exact thing last time yeah right

03:52:50.400 same exact dude no usually it gives the bang or wait is this the same one as last time oh that's

03:52:56.420 the pink shirt that's not this almost oh it's it is the one from last time i guess okay next

03:53:01.940 oh my god what was it he's such a nice lady that second one is that vinnie dude oh that's you

03:53:09.980 a trustworthy lady i look like goth like some depressed version yes that second picture right

03:53:17.920 there number two that is a good mom right there that's like a trustworthy that is nice does it

03:53:23.020 look like it

03:53:23.760 oh no that does that does not look like a mom that is a mom who makes every soccer soccer practice

03:53:34.180 oh no she kind of looks like a slut to be honest it's like a serial killer looks like a fucking

03:53:37.800 just kidding just kidding if you're a girl would you be a slut is that what you said

03:53:41.980 no no if i would wait what the fuck i don't want to talk about if i was a chick but no i would not

03:53:49.660 be a slut if i will if i was a woman would not be a slut i would i would be uh a high caliber woman

03:53:58.940 i don't know you ready to pop out seven kids a whole base body right excuse me how would you spend

03:54:03.640 if you were a woman how was your how would your average day go yeah how would my average day go

03:54:10.360 yeah what are you up to as a woman like what would you do i would just enjoy sandwiches i would enjoy

03:54:16.700 the vast amounts of female privilege that i enjoy and just walk around and have people pay things

03:54:24.180 for me because i'm a woman brian you do look like no i'm talking about an actual day in your life

03:54:28.820 like what kind of woman would you be huh yeah what kind of actually i'm asking about an actual

03:54:32.800 day in your life like what kind of woman would you be like would you be a nurse would you work

03:54:36.000 at a grocery store uh would you like what would i would be a soccer player probably so you live in

03:54:42.240 hypotheticals is that was that like a i don't know i was just curious i don't know i don't know

03:54:49.040 what kind of donkey would you be good enough for professional if you were an elephant

03:54:53.420 it's funny it's funny if you were a zebra but you know god forbid i would go through the sahara's

03:55:00.480 of africa wherever zebras live and i would eat lots of grass like right it would be great

03:55:05.880 if you were a platypus i could do this what kind of platypus would you be

03:55:11.060 i don't know if you were a hedgehog i would enjoy the privileges of being a man

03:55:16.100 here carly if you were because you're wearing pink if you're a flamingo what kind of go ahead

03:55:24.660 do the flamingo she's like i would never be a flamingo you're standing on one leg

03:55:28.780 uh okay uh do we have a oh we have a next we have a next right

03:55:33.840 lord farquhar what the fuck the middle one's giving lord farquhar from shrek

03:55:43.340 it looks like a man you're out of here nice definitely looks like uh never mind i'm not

03:55:47.500 gonna say it wait

03:55:48.220 that's hilarious uh mac knows what i'm saying uh oh we have a chat here um are those are those it

03:55:58.840 quentin are those all can you uh you just close um just close those out make sure to keep those

03:56:04.100 other tabs open though oh um okay so we're gonna try to blast through as much of the notes as we can

03:56:08.820 here just for uh wait again you girls don't know oh okay i already read that chat cool cool cool

03:56:14.140 uh we're gonna get into the questionnaire what would you want the minimum yearly income to be for your

03:56:19.240 future husband um whatever the cost of living in the area that we decide to live in is um i guessed in

03:56:27.040 like like in california that's around 80k so i would hope for that what about you

03:56:31.420 um we're just trying to put numbers on things still so

03:56:37.140 uh just yeah above poverty like not like i guess it's hard to describe because yeah like she said

03:56:47.560 it's based on location so depending on where you're at and how much money you make if you stay in socal

03:56:52.620 middle to upper class of like whatever the middle and upper class numbers would be

03:56:58.360 number 200k 300k sure 200k okay what about you i put 150k what about you um 250

03:57:06.000 okay all right i put like what is the minimum that it would require if he was single to live on

03:57:14.540 depending on the city sure um i have no concept of money to be honest so i put a hundred thousand

03:57:20.880 dollars a hundred thousand dollar minimum okay yes what about it for you um i think it'd be the

03:57:28.040 same enough to sustain a family well you wrote six figures here so what is what is six figures

03:57:33.200 well six figures a hundred thousand yeah okay so that's the minimum okay all right uh so i think

03:57:39.740 that's fair like especially in california especially in um santa barbara that's how much you cost

03:57:44.580 some prices a hundred thousand used to be around um so you put 250k you put 150k you i think you said

03:57:51.440 what 2k or 200k i mean that puts i think one percent is 450 to be in the one percent it's over

03:58:01.420 450 000 a year so in the country or worldwide that's in the united states to make more than

03:58:09.860 400 to be in the one percent you need to make over 450 000 a year uh this might it might actually

03:58:18.560 be a bit more because of some of the recent inflation that number could be a couple years old

03:58:24.120 but uh yeah because i thought it was like 40k i'm just and i'm just saying that because i i'm taking

03:58:31.560 like a finance class and we talked about this what the average one percent is and it's like 40k

03:58:35.840 i thought that was like a worldwide that would put you in in for the entire world

03:58:41.800 oh making 40 000 a year you can do that as a waiter yeah that's you think only one percent of

03:58:51.700 people in the u.s make 40k um oh what's that wait what do you mean

03:59:01.640 yeah he can't hear oh i think he's just talking to his chat oh yeah yeah sorry visually that's

03:59:12.140 very misleading no it's all good it's all good my mouth better no it's all good um okay uh i mean

03:59:18.640 you know you are 10 you are 8.75 i only gave that number because that's how much i would make a year

03:59:25.660 or more you know they want a guy who makes a lot of money you know oh boy he's all since you're a 10

03:59:32.600 dude this whole time he's been like

03:59:34.960 all right it's you know it's a lot of money you guys want a guy

03:59:42.120 it's just because like you know you can do it yourself money's a lot of money uh how tall are you

03:59:47.520 and what's the minimum height of a man you would date um i'm five four and a half and i don't care

03:59:53.060 how tall a guy is okay what about you i'm five three and i've dated somebody the same height as

04:00:00.220 me so i guess there wasn't a minimum now i do i do prefer taller guys because i wear a lot of heels

04:00:04.980 so just somebody taller than me i would say like minimum five seven at this point

04:00:11.280 okay just because keep up with the heels um i'm five six and the minimum of height would be like

04:00:18.600 five ten what about you um i'm five foot and maybe like five seven five eight what about you

04:00:26.680 yeah same five foot five one you um five six five seven and you um i'm five foot and i think i put

04:00:34.900 down five five okay uh i'm gonna just move on to the next just for sake of time would you rather cross

04:00:39.640 paths with a man or a bear in the forest depends on the man and depends on the bear so it's a it's

04:00:45.240 random bear random man okay is it so you don't pick so you might get lucky with a good man or you

04:00:52.500 might get lucky because i am a professional athlete i think that even if the man uh did attack me then

04:00:59.220 i would stand a better shot at being able to defend myself against that man than that bear but also the

04:01:03.660 bear could just leave me alone and the man could attack me so yeah and the bear could attack you and

04:01:08.980 the man could leave you alone yeah exactly so okay so which do you pick if you have to pick one

04:01:13.400 i would say i guess man this time okay what about you well one time especially funny it's a quick

04:01:20.880 story quick i was on oh it's funny i was on a boat full of lesbians they were you know

04:01:26.420 i was on a boat we were all friends it's fine and uh it was just ironic because they asked me oh what

04:01:34.080 do you think some we saw a bear i'm from the world where bears live so um we see a bear we're like oh

04:01:40.340 my god there's a bear and then they asked me aren't you scared of seeing bears in the woods when you

04:01:43.740 walk around blah blah what are you most scared of in the woods and i literally said seeing a man so

04:01:48.920 not a bear i'd rather see a bear any day come across them all the time okay so what wait wait

04:01:55.200 well hold on hold on a second if you saw a bear would you if you saw a bear in the woods

04:01:59.820 which i have rather see the moment you see a bear and you're afraid a bear that that looks like

04:02:05.680 it's going to attack you would you rather see another bear or a man why does it look like it we

04:02:10.640 weren't talking about looks like it's going to attack you we just said would you rather see a bear

04:02:13.880 oh if it's a bear it could attack you right it could it so could a man you don't know if it's going

04:02:19.640 to or not if there was a bear would you rather see an would you rather have another bear there

04:02:25.680 or a man another bear bear i've i've had i've been around many bears i'm just going to let the

04:02:32.100 rest of the girls around on this i'd rather be around a man you pick man okay what about you

04:02:37.500 bear bear i would pick a man what about you a man okay what about you just a bear bear okay

04:02:45.140 okay so bear bear bear bear uh really quick uh before we get into the bear thing we'll linger on it

04:02:52.140 well briefly um can you pull up uh quentin can you pull up that bear article so apparently guys

04:02:59.480 there was a black bear sighting in santa barbara in santa barbara it was on the college campus black

04:03:08.360 bear sighting in galita and ucsb that's university of california santa barbara that's super close

04:03:14.120 prompt to learn alerts and warnings local residents have been spotting a black bear throughout galita

04:03:19.320 neighborhoods and uc santa barbara and then scroll down just a bit scroll down we're gonna skip that

04:03:25.000 video skip that video we're gonna play that video though if you can press play on it so uh could you

04:03:31.340 go full screen on that one so you're just gonna yeah that little full screen symbol oh shit damn that's

04:03:37.760 crazy that's on the university campus just a black bear chilling so i could be a teen it was probably so

04:03:44.100 just kicking it yeah and then and then escape out of that and then just hit escape and then uh scroll

04:03:51.480 down a little bit let's see if there's anything else black uh keep scrolling they're more scared

04:03:56.960 of us than we are of them that's why i said that's pretty much it uh so really quick we only have a few

04:04:03.680 minutes to give to this specific topic uh for those who picked bear that's you you and uh you ruby

04:04:10.780 why do you pick bear why don't you pick men quick answers if you can actually let's start with ruby

04:04:15.200 first ruby why don't you go first um i i'm very weak so i think it would if it would be um if i would

04:04:23.020 run into a man like i would feel very defenseless and vulnerable and if it's my time to go being

04:04:29.820 you know eaten by a bear i guess i'd rather be eaten by a bear than like running into danger with

04:04:35.780 like a man like it's okay you know make it quick okay what about you um i said bear because you

04:04:42.540 could scare it off like with bears i guess you could probably scare off a man too i guess i mean

04:04:48.260 yeah but you got to work really hard to scare them off you know what i mean hold your nails up to the

04:04:52.300 camera they don't leave hold your nails up they don't leave easy even with these oh no that shit

04:04:56.240 could scare somebody away don't leave easy okay why do you pick bear i just feel personally more

04:05:01.680 comfortable alone with a bear than a man i don't know so and i've been around bears in many situations

04:05:07.900 like that and i've walked in the woods where i've come across like let's just say i'm walking hiking

04:05:12.740 a trail and i come across a man i don't know i'm immediately more on guard than i am with a bear

04:05:16.800 because i i feel much less threatened by a wild animal honestly than i do a man i don't know

04:05:24.040 so alone yeah so in a setting where i'm all alone yeah so for the women who picked bear is the

04:05:30.200 assessment the analysis here you're doing a risk assessment and you're thinking okay the random

04:05:35.400 man could do nothing the random bear could do nothing uh or the man could have bad intentions

04:05:39.900 and the bear could you know he could kill me the the man could try to essay me and the bear would just

04:05:45.420 kill me um is that kind of your assessment there like okay the guy could essay you basically that's

04:05:51.620 my assessment that's your assessment what about you um yeah uh okay what about you

04:05:59.120 that the guy would like is that is that the fear basically yeah the fear of that and i again i know

04:06:07.300 i'm putting myself into my own shoes but i literally have been around so many bears that they don't scare

04:06:12.340 me at all okay so um i guess just to ask bluntly what percentage of men do you think are inclined

04:06:21.500 towards like essaying women we'll start with you ruby i'm sorry repeat the question what percentage

04:06:29.100 of men do you think are inclined to essay women or kill them i guess i don't know yeah just give me

04:06:36.980 it doesn't have you don't have to be precise it could be uh and and if it's off by a few percentage

04:06:42.660 10 20 30 40 50 majority i'm just based on my but i feel like i'm in a bubble especially since i'm here

04:06:49.320 in santa barbara i feel like i live in paradise let's just talk united states united well i haven't

04:06:54.860 been to a lot of the yeah that that's fine i haven't been to certain places and so i wouldn't

04:07:00.880 know how to put a number on that it's kind of hard to put a number on something like that i think seven

04:07:05.720 percent seven percent for you i wouldn't know what number no i think i don't have to grab the

04:07:11.000 i'd probably say like 60 percent that's like a little bit wait wait hold on hold on sir repeat

04:07:16.360 it sorry no repeat no repeat it oh i'd say 60 60 60 okay what do you think i'm surrounded by like

04:07:23.120 really good people i it's hard for me to like imagine so you you just think like santa barbara

04:07:28.900 is hold on hold on guys stop stop stop you think santa barbara is this enclave of like really good

04:07:35.200 guys but you step outside santa barbara and it's like grape central no no no no that's not what i'm

04:07:39.900 saying at all i'm just saying i don't know any better i don't know what to compare it with since

04:07:44.120 i've been always like in a very safe space i don't know what do the feminists tell you i don't really

04:07:48.960 listen to them i don't know if you've been hearing my answers i'm not really that pro-modern feminism

04:07:53.620 i think it's i mean we could probably make a case that for the opposite but so if you just had to

04:07:59.980 throw a number on it um 20 20 okay and then what about you i just don't know

04:08:09.780 why you want us to give numbers like why what's the point of it why would the reasonings for my

04:08:17.460 asking the question because i don't have a number i can't i can't honestly give a number i don't want

04:08:22.400 to just spew out crap like i don't know how many men would be i'd have to see the statistics it doesn't

04:08:29.980 have to be accurate what do you feel what do i feel um there's a lot of i don't i don't know the

04:08:39.680 percentage how many men would want to do that but i just feel like it could be as a woman we're placed

04:08:45.920 in a i was placed in a position you know to be on high alert and that's how i grew up so

04:08:52.220 i'm always ready to think that anybody could do anything at any time so i don't know

04:08:59.420 do you want to just throw out 30 40 50 50

04:09:05.560 um maybe like the whole population of the u.s right that's what we're going to base this off of

04:09:13.760 maybe like 10 okay sure so 10 ruby did ruby you give a percent i said 20 20 what did you give 7

04:09:26.020 and then you said 60 for something i have i have no idea like that was just a random number

04:09:30.640 but why why did your intuition bring you to 60 percent um i don't know i feel like people

04:09:38.820 underestimate a lot i don't know it's like where you don't know if you're always sitting next to a

04:09:42.960 murderer i don't know you told me to give you a number i just gave you a number i just guessed

04:09:45.860 i don't know i mean within like within did well i just thought maybe more than half i don't know

04:09:53.220 so you think 60 percent of men are grapists no you asked like who would think about that like

04:09:58.860 you you asked how many percentage of men we thought would think about it

04:10:02.100 wait hold on that's what i thought i definitely didn't say would think about it i said well i thought

04:10:08.120 you might like thought about it like doing it to someone my bad sorry i wouldn't even say

04:10:12.940 60 percent of men have thought about okay um okay what percent if you had to assign a percentage

04:10:22.320 well i don't know if you're just walking it back because you're like 60 but that's ridiculous but

04:10:26.180 no i'm not i just didn't i just don't know okay then throw out the number for like what percentage

04:10:31.500 of men do you think would be inclined in this situation of being and they they're in the forest

04:10:36.720 alone with a woman what percentage of men would grape a woman i don't know i'll say 20 i don't

04:10:43.100 know 20 i don't know okay i mean i'm just curious if this changes anything for you uh well i'll wait

04:10:50.000 till she's back on the bear conversation but um are you going to compare statistics what do you mean

04:10:57.300 like um how what the percentages of being attacked by a man by a bear versus how many well here's the

04:11:04.300 thing is is the well let me ask you do you think that uh it would be fair to compare

04:11:12.020 all the bear attacks in the usa and compare and say there's more uh essays and there's more like

04:11:21.840 men who are violent towards women or who murder women than there are bear attacks do you think

04:11:26.420 that that's a fair comparison you're the one who asks the question we just answered it you're the

04:11:30.620 one making the comparison like the question that was written there you know we didn't word that

04:11:36.560 question you're the one making the comparison so repeat your question well i didn't ask a question

04:11:41.380 she asked if you were gonna compare the statistics of like how many people get

04:11:46.100 griped and how many people have been attacked by bears so i mean i would i would say one and i don't

04:11:51.340 think the statistics here would necessarily no pun intended bear out so i think per capita is

04:11:59.520 important here the amount of most people are not encountering bears nearly at the same frequency

04:12:06.280 as they're encountering men and so i think that you have to do an analysis of per encounter right

04:12:14.160 but even beyond that i think it's interesting to say i'd rather be it's sort of emblematic of the

04:12:22.160 degree of feminism and sort of casual misandry misandry man hatred that permeates society so to say

04:12:33.500 i'd rather be with a i'd rather encounter a wild animal dangerous their their bears are apex predators

04:12:42.120 than with a random man seems to be a uh rather i i mean i would just paint it as sexist

04:12:51.440 i think it's a sexist position what just one last thing just pause it oh go ahead yeah just one last

04:13:00.040 thing so i guess my final question on this is as follows do you guys think it would be racist

04:13:07.620 if the question was changed as follows would you rather cross paths with a black person or a bear

04:13:14.900 in the forest and if somebody picked bear instead of black person would they be a racist

04:13:19.980 i feel like black person because you're just saying person can you scoot your mic to the edge of the

04:13:28.040 table please you're just saying person right not woman yeah black person so it could be a black woman

04:13:34.580 it could be a black woman it could be a black man but they pick the bear regard well i mean

04:13:40.880 yeah black person i think the fact that you pulled in race yeah into the question makes it racist yes

04:13:47.140 wait what what do you mean wait hold on hold on how does that make it racist the same way it makes

04:13:52.440 it sexist like when you make it we don't know if it's a man or a woman it's a boy ah i see so just to

04:13:58.360 be clear you'd pick the black woman over the black man again it's making it like it's making it

04:14:04.660 okay cool so i get it you guys are sexist just admit you're sexist though but hold on about being

04:14:09.400 sexist about being scared okay i know i i actually love this point so but really quick before i get

04:14:16.840 to that how is it right so are you saying me just even asking the question i'm racist is that what

04:14:23.260 you're saying or i'm not i'm saying it makes the question racist like how would the question

04:14:27.580 we didn't wait but so then so then when you ask so why are we bringing gender into this so just to

04:14:34.240 be clear what then if using your own logic if the question itself is racist to say i would rather if

04:14:42.820 they well you're you're not even pointing to the answer of it you're just saying the question in and

04:14:47.560 of itself is racist so then surely following your logic it would be sexist yes to even ask the

04:14:55.440 question do you pick the man or the bear yes sexist is that fair you're saying if it makes it sexist

04:15:03.280 is it sexist uh-huh to me i mean following your own logic if it's racist to just put in black person

04:15:10.400 in place of uh man it it must also then be sexist no because um because what men are usually known to

04:15:20.140 be like more aggressive you know they're strong you sure you want to go down this okay so do you

04:15:25.020 want to play a statistics game am i wrong to say that men are usually like typically stronger like

04:15:29.900 physically statistically men get assaulted more than women right statistically yes so yes men are more

04:15:37.240 likely to be victims of violent crime but not yeah not by men or by women how would that how would

04:15:44.560 it matter because if it's um because if it's a if it's a man is being attacked by a man you know

04:15:51.660 that kind of confirms that there are being violent towards each other i'll go i'll just go ahead and

04:15:55.920 grant uh just for the sake of this argument i'll go ahead and grant that uh yeah men are um men as

04:16:03.960 compared to women are fuck it i'll just grant it more likely to um be uh let's suffer to go what's

04:16:13.440 that all right oh to um be violent sure yeah what's her point well that's that's that's the only reason

04:16:23.100 why i would choose a bear yeah but so let me ask you a question if statistics indicated and i'm not

04:16:28.800 i'm not going to make this claim but this isn't necessarily my position but if there were statistics

04:16:35.140 to back up that certain racial groups were more or less violent than other racial groups then what

04:16:40.480 would actually be racist about uh you know a white person or a latino or a asian person saying i'd pick

04:16:48.720 the bear over the black person now my position would be it would be racist to pick the bear over the

04:16:55.580 black person okay i understand your point but so is it racist

04:17:04.460 is it racist to pick the bear if you pick a bear so the question is would you rather cross paths with

04:17:11.920 a black person or a bear in the forest black person and you pick bear

04:17:18.000 does that is that racist it's just a weird question i feel like yeah i sure i agree go i'm gonna go

04:17:29.500 i'm not gonna argue with with you whether it's weird or not i'll go ahead and grant it's a super

04:17:33.780 weird question answer the question no why i'm just curious though why is it so easy for you to just

04:17:39.340 instantly bear if it's a man but if we change it i don't know if it's a man or a woman

04:17:44.680 it's a black person so yeah and a black person could be a woman right so you would be taking yeah

04:17:52.660 and a man could be totally harmless or like there's a 0.0001 chance he could be a serial killer

04:18:00.620 but you still pick bear yeah we have flawed logic it's based off of society actually and i was

04:18:08.860 i was raised in a military household take it take it next question thank you for conceding the

04:18:15.760 argument then um it's just interesting like i i would say if you pick bear over black person

04:18:23.420 that makes you a racist i would say if you pick bear over man that makes you a sexist

04:18:28.900 selfish so bad so this is what i want hold on i have two questions asking the racist brother

04:18:37.320 yeah go ahead i have two quick hypotheticals here go ahead let's change let's change this uh the

04:18:43.120 environment if you walk into an elevator would you rather be in an elevator with a wild bear

04:18:48.940 or a random man okay i would choose a man the man's gonna be in the elevator anyways you're not

04:18:56.380 gonna find a bear in an elevator it's gonna be happening anyways i ask you you have a choice

04:19:02.280 you either get in the elevator with a bear a wild bear or a man which you're actually looking at as

04:19:08.300 wild right you're just just as wild as the bear in this case right what do you choose in the elevator

04:19:12.980 scenario so the man's wild you just said the bear is just a wild i'm saying you guys are treating men

04:19:21.020 as wild in the bear man hypothetical so i agree men are dangerous bears are dangerous so now i'm just

04:19:28.040 changing the environment and seeing what you guys say if you guys could just kindly engage with the

04:19:33.700 hypothetical okay because it's in such a choice proximity um i would choose i would in that instance

04:19:40.460 i would choose a man yeah a man yeah but the man could just as well violate you right i know

04:19:47.040 the for the women who chose the bear isn't it the case that trapped in an elevator that's a perfect time

04:19:52.600 to yeah i would still choose the bear i never change my answer you get in the elevator or the bear

04:19:58.860 instead of a random man the bear cool okay cool so every time a man actually steps into an elevator

04:20:05.700 it's the case let's let's just grant let's just grant it that men are dangerous let's just grant it

04:20:11.280 that you have every reason to uh be fearful of men random collective individual at that level okay

04:20:19.560 now i want to ask you guys a question do any one of you ladies oppose the patriarchy

04:20:27.400 like like find that you you hold a position that we should take it down

04:20:32.220 what the reason i'm connecting these is if it if it's the case is that because men are leaders

04:20:40.780 in the hold on hold on a second if it's the case that you take the bear the bear of the man you're

04:20:46.820 admitting that men are dominant violent aggressive and scary basically that you should watch out that

04:20:54.620 you should avoid them basically if that's the case isn't it aren't you conceding that that reality

04:21:00.360 descriptively is dominated by men

04:21:02.940 i mean would you argue otherwise

04:21:08.420 no i wouldn't argue otherwise i'm just one your concession that if it's the case that that reality

04:21:15.560 descriptively is dominated by men such that you would even choose the bear over the man

04:21:20.960 how could you possibly any one of you take a position of feminism or or or or questioning

04:21:27.140 um the patriarchy if if in fact you're so afraid of men that you would choose a wild beast who's

04:21:34.840 basically designed to eat your body parts one by one not no i'm not designed to eat humans i will say

04:21:42.600 that i'm giving you know my answer based on like the worst circumstances meaning like uh if i'm like in

04:21:49.900 the wild and then there's like a strange dangerous man that's what i'm comparing in my mind if i would

04:21:56.240 encounter myself with a stranger a man dangerous and aggressive versus a wild bear

04:22:03.360 then you know i'd weigh my options more the bear because i'll just stay still

04:22:07.240 you know yeah but here's the thing if you encountered a man who you thought was aggressive

04:22:12.600 and was going to harm you and you asked another question would you choose a bear or another

04:22:17.960 additional man who was good would you choose the good man if i had to if you're telling me if i have

04:22:23.960 to choose a wild bear versus a good man hands down like a good man well that's well that's the that's

04:22:30.540 where it all breaks down because if i simply change the location of the hypothetical to an elevator

04:22:35.580 suddenly everyone on the panel chooses except for pink here because she's delusional chooses the man

04:22:41.520 why because it's more likely the case that uh you take elevators every day in your ordinary life

04:22:48.140 that's an that's an opportunity for every male that you ever thought was horrible to violate you on

04:22:53.280 the elevator yet you would still choose a bear in the instance where the where the where the

04:22:58.700 hypothetical and the probability is very unlikely that a random man would attack you an elevator you

04:23:04.180 would still choose the bear only one of you chose not as unlikely as the bear being in the elevator

04:23:08.300 now i'm wondering what's the difference between in the woods bear man versus in the elevator bear man

04:23:15.520 repeat it what's the difference between bear in the woods such that you choose the bear

04:23:29.680 but you choose the man in the elevator what's the difference between the bear in the woods versus

04:23:35.780 a man in the elevator what's the difference between the two hypotheticals what's the what's

04:23:40.700 the threshold break what's the symmetry breaker between choosing the bear it doesn't apply to you

04:23:46.060 because you fucking chose the bear in the elevator no no no one else on the panel chose the bear in the

04:23:50.740 elevator but they chose the man so for anyone who chose the man in the hypothetical in the in uh who

04:23:57.360 chose the bear in the hypothetical in the woods over the man and you chose the man over the bear in the

04:24:03.200 in the elevator what's the difference why did that change your answer are you talking to me

04:24:09.720 okay i don't know who you're talking to no i'm not talking to pink because you chose bear for both

04:24:16.600 i'm talking to anybody who chose air in the woods but chose a man in the elevator who who chose that

04:24:23.820 is anyone did anyone choose that on the panel you don't even remember you guys don't even fucking

04:24:29.800 remember all right i wasn't listening they uh checked out yeah um but question so do you guys think and

04:24:41.440 final thing on the bear thing um because of women and i acknowledge that women have had maybe majority

04:24:48.380 of women all women even have had bad experiences with men don't dispute it at all there are bad men

04:24:53.080 out there men do bad things totally granted um but do you think though it's fair for women based off of

04:25:01.300 their bad experiences with men what they've heard from other women whatever it is what society is telling

04:25:06.220 them do you think it's fair that they pick bear over men because of their own experiences or the

04:25:12.740 experiences of other women i would argue that it's fair because they're not actively like impeding men

04:25:19.700 from any type of thing they're just changing their own behavior to protect themselves against like

04:25:24.260 having the same experience again so it's not like it's a matter of sexism against men in which they

04:25:29.940 can't get jobs or interact in which way they're just choosing to take a different path okay well uh let's do

04:25:35.280 a little thought experiment then let me ask this let's say there's a white person who either

04:25:40.540 themselves or has known people who have been assaulted by a black person they also see news

04:25:47.740 stories and belong to online groups and their tiktok algorithm feeds them stories about black on white

04:25:54.200 crime because of their safety concerns they're scared of black people they believe all black people

04:26:00.760 have the capacity for violence or assault of some kind etc etc would you say that this is a racist

04:26:06.820 position to hold it's an ignorant one yeah ah then surely it must be if it's racist surely the position

04:26:16.080 and should we fight against racism we should always fight race racism bad okay sex sexism bad

04:26:24.060 ah so why are we doing all this coping for women as it relates to their sexism towards men so how a

04:26:31.840 woman feels about her safety is just sexist to you right how we've been raised in the world and how

04:26:38.120 we view safety i think if you're painting with a broad but broad brush that you would rather be in the

04:26:45.120 forest with a wild animal than with random men and knowing that the majority hold on knowing that the

04:26:49.960 majority of men are good men who would never lay a finger on bears bears majority of bears are good

04:26:56.400 too wait what just bears are good that doesn't even hold on bears are good bears just have instinct

04:27:03.020 not to kill people a bear wasn't born you're thinking they're gonna kill people they're thinking

04:27:07.880 they're gonna kill fish how would that relate to my art anyway so how about you contend with the

04:27:12.380 actual argument here so again if i'm saying it's racist though but i'm also saying it would be

04:27:20.520 racist to pick bear over black person i think that that would be racist but you guys won't concede

04:27:26.780 that it's sexist to pick bear just say you're sexist okay i mean or you just have a double standard

04:27:38.200 you it how is it not true it's just not this is cognitive dissonance exhibit a so if it is i'm

04:27:47.320 just literally using your same logic if a white person has fears over their safety just like you

04:27:54.020 said when it comes to women over their safety and let's see i mean can a woman be irrational can a

04:28:01.380 white person be irrational could this fear be irrational perhaps it must if it is sexist

04:28:08.100 it surely then too must or excuse me if it is racist it surely must then too be sexist

04:28:14.020 do you disagree i don't believe that it's sexist no you don't okay so hold on is it

04:28:24.440 is it racist the picking the bear over the black person i'm not answering it you're not answering it

04:28:32.640 because you know the answer reveals no it's just it's not right it's not it's i'm not doing that

04:28:37.660 it's just blow it's it's uh so just to be clear it's okay it's okay to make this analysis of men

04:28:44.760 but when it comes to race not okay i'm not going to touch that topic no i'm not asking you to be

04:28:50.600 because i'm not i'm sure no but i'm sure you would agree like would you pick you're saying a person

04:28:55.280 and you're not saying a man you're saying a person a black person that's why i don't know

04:28:59.440 justification of sexism towards men this is great this is wonderful so me personally if i was given

04:29:05.400 the option between a black person and a bear i'm picking the black person i'd much i'd prefer to be

04:29:10.180 whether it's a man whether it's a woman right because you're a man you've never had to feel

04:29:14.300 the way a woman feels about being alone with a man she doesn't know i've been the victim of a

04:29:20.320 violent crime so i know yeah i'm fine making this determination even if i wasn't the victim of

04:29:24.940 a violent crime we're not talking about violent crime we're talking about sexual abuse in this

04:29:28.320 case yeah men can also be victims of sa right so wait have you ever had um have you ever um

04:29:38.880 are you pro-choice or pro-life um i'm pro-choice so a woman who's never had an abortion can she have

04:29:46.380 a position on abortion a woman who's never had one a woman who's never been pregnant never had

04:29:51.620 an abortion is she allowed to have an opinion on abortion yes okay cool so i'm a man uh i'm allowed

04:29:56.840 to have an opinion on something right regardless of my gender huh and i'm a woman we're all allowed

04:30:01.360 to have opinions period on anything yeah but you just tried to dismiss my opinion because i'm a man

04:30:06.460 in what way the way you just did you said well you don't know how it is to be uh and then you

04:30:14.720 goalpost shifted and i was like i've actually been victim of a violent crime before but then

04:30:18.560 oh well i was talking about sa okay well so just because like so in order to have a position or

04:30:25.120 opinion on something you must have gone through said dilemma like i think starving children in

04:30:30.460 africa that's a bad thing uh i think that that helps when you've been through it yeah i mean i've

04:30:36.260 been hungry but i haven't been a starving child in africa i think starving children in africa is a bad

04:30:40.300 thing am i not allowed to think that women in this country and almost in the world have had that

04:30:45.920 happen to them so some form of sexual essay sure i'll go i mean there's disputes as to the incidence

04:30:52.920 rate of that crime i'll go ahead and grant it for the sake of the conversation so what does that have

04:30:58.060 to do with the argument at hand that every woman i've talked to has been through that including myself

04:31:03.860 you know what here i'll even grant a hundred every single woman has been brutally uh gang graped

04:31:10.860 how would that what does that have to do with the argument at hand bad thing happened to woman okay

04:31:17.000 cool i get it what does that have to do with the argument at hand i'm still not answering the the

04:31:25.040 question about the bear person you don't want to answer it because it would reveal you're just

04:31:31.940 blatant man-hating and sexism it's not man-hating it literally is man-hating is crazy how is that

04:31:38.720 everybody everybody at this table but you know okay you're a man-hater i'll reframe it again if i

04:31:44.540 pick bear over black person does that mean that i hate black people would that would that point towards

04:31:49.120 racism or hatred of black people no no well you know what it might not point towards hatred but you

04:31:55.720 would agree that it's racist i would agree that it's racist okay but i do think that she's just saying

04:32:00.420 that you can't really speak on what women feel because you're not a woman that's what she's

04:32:03.780 saying she's not saying that because why do i need a uterus to have an opinion on something just like

04:32:08.920 we don't understand your what you go through it's like trying to see we're not men you're trying to

04:32:12.840 get us to view your head just earlier with the jiu-jitsu men view this way you don't know how men think

04:32:18.500 okay you don't know how women think men and women think differently doesn't make you sexist

04:32:25.080 but it kind of does then you're sexist too how would that be sexist your whole podcast is sexist

04:32:33.840 why is it sexist you literally come on here you literally come on here to try to get provoke women

04:32:40.420 on purpose with all these questions i'm happy to get into that no that's totally fine i'm happy to

04:32:45.660 dive into that can you define sexism for me though first we only got like hold on

04:32:51.300 what minutes of what stop no we got more time than that we're going late to have like double

04:32:59.740 standards based on sex yeah i didn't ask you how do you define sexism sexism is to be like mistreated

04:33:06.840 in the workplace honestly like if you're not getting the same rights as a man i think that's sexist

04:33:12.660 okay so your definition okay i see so sexism can only impact women like you can't be sexist towards

04:33:18.860 men is what you're saying you can but but what it's not in terms of safety reality like it's it's

04:33:29.280 different than men are men are more likely to be victims of violent crime so men okay but you know

04:33:33.600 you're talking about violent crime so we're not talking about essay safety we're also not talking

04:33:37.920 about essay it's well also it's kind of convenient if the definition of grape makes it impossible for

04:33:44.200 it to be something that can happen to a man it's not impossible uh yeah based off the definition

04:33:51.440 depending on the framing yeah it can be impossible for it to be something that can be done to a man

04:33:56.360 so of course it's going to affect the statistics that feminists feminists espouse if it can't be

04:34:03.140 actually something that's done to a man what do you mean of course a man can be gripped

04:34:07.940 there are specific jurisdictions where based on the definition of the actual crime of rape

04:34:14.640 is impossible for a man to be victim of the crime a woman can't grip for you can make some arguments

04:34:21.260 strong uh stronger arguments as it pertains to like if a man grapes another man but like specifically uh

04:34:27.600 there are jurisdictions where like a woman could not legally like definitionally if that then that's

04:34:33.440 wrong it it's absolutely impossible well then that's wrong it doesn't just because that's how

04:34:37.980 it is doesn't mean it's not that goes ahead and that's wrong all the stat all the stats related to

04:34:42.720 that doesn't just because something is the way it is doesn't make it right so it should definitely

04:34:49.460 be illegal for a woman to do that to a man absolutely that should be a crime so it is a crime

04:34:54.280 whether they like to say it or not yeah but it's not categorized as grape it's categorized as like a

04:34:58.680 essay so that's wrong okay so anyways how do you define sexism i mean that's a great example

04:35:07.580 that's what's a what do you mean what's a great example it's if it

04:35:12.300 graping a man by a woman i'm not looking for examples of sexism i'm looking for your definition of sexism

04:35:18.800 to be discriminatory towards a man like well i would say it can apply to men

04:35:28.380 or women obviously so you had to be discriminatory okay you said this podcast is sexist how do you

04:35:35.620 define sexism i mean you come on here to tear apart a lot of things that women believe in themselves

04:35:42.160 about like so you think it's sexist to tell a woman that she's like not a 10 for example

04:35:47.460 it's sexist to say that not every like there's no 10s in this world that wouldn't be that wouldn't

04:35:52.720 be set i could say if if that was like a blanket i guess i wouldn't be sexist that would be like

04:35:56.720 i mean i would say that i think sexism is just men and women but treating someone unfairly based on

04:36:02.460 being sexist male or okay okay let's say let's take that definition treating people unfairly based

04:36:08.960 on their sex so that applies to men and women so do you do you agree that um you hold a view that

04:36:15.780 we should acknowledge and defend and enforce the violation of rights

04:36:20.040 yes yes anyone does anyone disagree with the statement we should acknowledge

04:36:28.900 and defend and enforce the violation of rights yes we should okay we should okay so in order to do that

04:36:38.180 isn't it isn't it the case that that relies wholly on the collective of men to do that that that

04:36:44.620 couldn't happen with the collective of women so you're saying women can't change things in the world

04:36:52.080 that's right collectively yes when it comes to force and enforcement you couldn't collectively get a group

04:36:59.120 of women to enforce or remove rights but a collective of men could do it right

04:37:05.780 it's sexist to say that yeah that's a sexist thing to say that women couldn't change

04:37:12.260 well it's descriptively true that you as women rely on collectively men to defend and enforce the

04:37:21.280 violation of rights that's like saying rosa parks did nothing wait what i'm just like women can

04:37:29.780 change what what i just literally reset my nintendo um isn't it the case that the let's so let's take

04:37:39.420 it simple okay rights themselves the violation of rights requires an enforcement arm right so if you

04:37:46.180 violate someone's rights a group of men with muscle and guns come in and take you away correct and let's

04:37:52.020 make it simple with crayons right okay group of men taking you with guns what i'm mumbling out

04:38:01.040 i said okay okay so if that's the case the appeal to rights itself supposes a discriminatory expectation

04:38:13.800 and obligation for men collectively that doesn't apply to women so to believe in rights and to advocate

04:38:20.180 for rights women's rights the fact that you rely wholly on a collective of men to enforce those

04:38:26.000 rights and and the violation of such is sexist you're discriminatory toward men to do that for you

04:38:32.160 because why because you guys can't do it yourself collectively are you sexist what makes you say that

04:38:38.860 what makes you say that what makes you what makes i say that what what kind of question is that

04:38:44.340 what what what the fuck what kind of question is that the way you talk to women is also degrading

04:38:49.300 like you're all you're talking to us yeah tone policing i mean it's just tone policing but oh so

04:38:54.660 you literally address nothing i said none of what i said just went through your little brain is there

04:38:59.800 anyone on the panel who understands what i just said sometimes it's hard and you're just being rude to

04:39:04.160 understand with that tone of voice tone policing anyone that's the question uh chair one do you

04:39:09.220 understand what i just said yes can you give it back to me because i i honestly think no one else

04:39:15.700 on the panel can i'm sorry but go ahead i do believe that other women on this panel could give it back

04:39:21.840 to you but since you asked me and will you're saying that in order to have power there needs to be

04:39:26.400 enforcing arms so that women need men to enforce their rights otherwise the rest of men will proceed

04:39:31.880 to take them away and vice versa that women don't have that systemic ability so um so women need men in

04:39:38.880 order to give them the rights because they cannot form like all women cannot overpower all men

04:39:43.900 beautiful is that discriminatory i'm not making a judgment about the discrimination by the way i'm

04:39:49.220 just asking you is that discriminatory no that's not discriminatory that's just based in facts

04:39:53.720 it's just based in fact so the fact is that there is a a delineation a clear distinction between men

04:40:03.620 and women in regards to what they are how they are what they're capable of and and for for people to

04:40:10.720 even claim sexism either way right there's no way of escaping this problem that men and women are

04:40:17.600 different even if you point to some sort of weird exception to the rule for the most part i don't think i

04:40:24.460 could have put it better myself than chair one she gave it back perfectly descriptively it's the case

04:40:30.180 that women rely on men and assume the obligation of collective men to protect their rights but they

04:40:37.020 don't assume that for women now why how is it related to the bear thing it is related because

04:40:42.660 brian you know as but as as high effort as he tried to do with you guys he dropped drew out this this

04:40:49.220 problem this double standard you guys have with the bear and another statistical element of race uh and

04:40:56.380 crime you guys couldn't engage with it so we're going to skip to the male female thing is it sexist

04:41:02.480 to assume and and expect protection of from men is it sexist to assume that and expect it for men but

04:41:12.260 you don't expect it from women just silence just dead just like a it's like a fucking it's like a book

04:41:22.400 it's like a it's like a meditation retreat right now

04:41:26.100 i mean i i think the way it has to be taken is they're just essentially conceding the point if

04:41:34.920 they're not willing to forward an actual argument or counter argument then they're just going to have

04:41:39.740 to cede the point uh but i will uh i do want to kind of get a little further into this so you said

04:41:46.240 the podcast is sexist we kind of went back and forth on the definition definition of sexism

04:41:52.740 why don't you articulate how the podcast is sexist

04:41:56.460 just it seems just like typical red pill yeah what is that give me an example

04:42:16.180 of that just like guys attacking women like yeah give me a specific give me an example

04:42:20.500 like shutting us down things like that like you you it's your argument or nothing like there's no

04:42:27.720 winning for us no matter what we say we're challenging your worldview do you think challenging

04:42:31.900 wait it's almost it's challenging is fine but it's like to challenge a woman is to be sexist it's one

04:42:37.540 thing to challenge like an opinion or a viewpoint it's another thing to have your mind set in stone

04:42:42.620 that where you can't change it usually when you go into an argument or debate your one person is

04:42:46.880 willing to change their mind at some point or at least be open to hearing a new point of view

04:42:52.360 that wouldn't make you sexist if you go into an argument refusing to changing your mind

04:42:57.260 you most people go into a position close-minded like i'm just okay sure fine they can't i'll go ahead

04:43:04.540 and agree that it could be closed-minded okay sure then we'll just say it is a closed-minded then yeah

04:43:10.220 it's a great goalpost shift but i'm still waiting to hear an example of how the podcast is sexist i

04:43:15.660 tried to give you one but it's not it's not good enough that was my that was my what would so how

04:43:21.020 is it sexist that was my input right there what i just said that we challenge your worldview it's not

04:43:28.280 challenging the worldview we literally you just when we go into something it feels like because we're

04:43:32.480 you you know we're all women we're saying you're saying something we're saying something

04:43:37.320 sorry go ahead yeah and you just you don't want your we wouldn't be able to have your

04:43:44.660 mind changed at all by any of us right it's only your way or the highway so i feel like that's a

04:43:51.120 little sexist how would that be sexist because you won't allow a woman to show you anything new

04:43:55.980 hold on so about how they feel like if it was a man in your position espousing the exact same

04:44:02.660 hold on hold on if it was a guy sitting there espousing the exact same viewpoints i would

04:44:07.820 challenge them all the same but i can put myself in your shoes you won't put yourself in our shoes

04:44:12.500 yes i can the same argument that you haven't conceded you you know you told me how would you

04:44:17.160 feel you know if like you know when you're grappling you see your girl grappling with a guy right

04:44:22.040 in your in your head you're saying guys think a certain way and they're firing off in their brain

04:44:27.840 it's all close and sexual and they're getting sexual intrusion thoughts right so that's how men

04:44:33.000 perceive it right you perceive it as well a man is just going to think all these impulsive thoughts

04:44:37.720 and um as a woman opinion how would that be sexist but go ahead right no it's a and then then i'm saying

04:44:45.160 as a woman i think the same way about running into a man like you do i think oh he could do this he

04:44:50.780 could do that and then you think the same way as oh well this and that could happen it's the

04:44:55.140 probability whereas like if you go into a nightclub and you're saying a woman's going to get hit on

04:44:59.800 equivalence it's not really it's not because if you go into you don't feel as comfortable one-on-one

04:45:05.220 with a man alone as a woman and just like you wouldn't want your girl in the club because all

04:45:09.360 these things could happen it's the same kind of concept you're like saying that we're not allowed

04:45:13.800 to have these opinions and feelings it's not sexist to have these opinions and feelings just like you

04:45:19.780 have as a man these opinions and feelings about other men in the in the club like and about women

04:45:25.880 so when a woman goes in your your dynamic is that she can't handle being hit on by all these people

04:45:34.560 so um sorry i mean it's it's not a it's not an equivalent this preference and also i listed out

04:45:44.500 multiple other reasons as to why it's an issue for me but i don't see that that mapping on one-to-one

04:45:51.500 i i do in any case you're saying there's a double standard that exists i haven't yet heard an actual

04:46:00.260 example of how the show or how i or how jim bob is sexist you can say we're mean you can say we're

04:46:08.920 jerks you can say we're closed-minded okay then we'll we'll go with clothes okay so you're walking

04:46:13.520 back to sexist okay all right it's ridiculous but um and i just want you to know that i think

04:46:21.820 you're sexist okay so there you have it folks there you have it um i need to read it read these chats

04:46:29.160 here um let's see lucas their protestations notwithstanding the entire panel is nothing

04:46:35.060 more than a cadre of men hating feminism unfortunately for them the only byproduct of

04:46:39.720 this dogmatic man hatred is to foment to which he responds real and actual misogyny which if you

04:46:47.300 haven't noticed is becoming more and more prevalent but hey keep on spouting off your

04:46:51.320 feminist vapid prattle you sow the wind you reap the whirlwind oh my goodness shakespeare

04:46:58.520 god dang lucas that was beautiful that was beautiful oh rachel wilson if i was making the

04:47:08.060 same argument as jim bob you would you wouldn't call them sexist he is objectively right you

04:47:12.800 objectively are tarted that's from rachel wilson yikes good times good talk good talk okay um thank

04:47:20.340 you rachel w uh here uh rachel gets the pass on the uh chair to brian and jim bob are factually

04:47:25.940 correct and logical there are rules to debate you have failed to make a coherent argument they are

04:47:30.760 correct just stick to being cute you're not cut out for thinking do you want to respond to a real

04:47:35.740 woman profile no that's uh rachel we've had her on the show that's rachel wilson oh i guess okay

04:47:40.780 yeah i'm sorry i'm sorry rachel wilson she's says you're not cut out for the thing okay don't even

04:47:47.080 that's hilarious yeah she said you're cute funny um yeah i mean she can think whatever she wants

04:47:52.420 i'll ever send a hundred yes send more money

04:47:57.020 if a bear came into the studio i would 100% respond back to me christopher makes a good

04:48:02.940 point here debates and arguments are not meant to change the interlocutors minds usually it's for

04:48:08.280 the audience so yeah anyways um okay that was that was an interesting exchange um sorry jim bob did

04:48:16.660 you were you saying something or i'm not sure if he was like trying to get my i was asking my chad

04:48:21.180 who's gonna pay for my brain injury it's a good one it's a good yeah i think i think the women here

04:48:28.680 should step up we got a lot of boss babes here so the boss babes should step up and pay for his

04:48:35.600 such the you're such a gaslighter um the way you say that

04:48:38.680 what do you want to talk about like that like that was so oh i loved it that was it was so great i was so

04:48:58.180 what do you want to talk about whatever's next on the list let's do it what do you tell us what do you

04:49:02.640 want to talk about um whatever's next on the list like i don't know that was just boring like she

04:49:07.720 wants some male leadership to come in she doesn't she wants the man to come in she can't she can't

04:49:12.960 offer up oh i'd like to talk about this what's i'm literally looks to the man okay okay that's

04:49:18.280 fine i get it i get it okay based housewife over here wants the man to do all the work

04:49:23.360 okay fine base submissive housewife over here okay great all right that's a compliment

04:49:36.060 is it or is being called the housewife sexist

04:49:40.640 good talk okay uh i don't know if there's anything in the question there's by the way chat there's some

04:49:48.440 really good pre-show notes that we got to get to but i kind of want to just get through the

04:49:52.080 questionnaire honestly though i feel like none of you are gonna hold on wait i might have some

04:49:57.020 opinions about some of the things that i saw in the questionnaire i mean you only have a few

04:50:00.120 agrees on here so um let me just okay so here i'm gonna do uh samantha you agree men are not

04:50:10.460 physically stronger than women i put not i put agreed for that yeah i'm sorry were you two stones

04:50:16.860 that they are all right um okay so i guess that was so i just saw you circle that and i was all

04:50:24.440 okay uh you also said a man dating a transgender woman is straight i feel like did they get the

04:50:33.080 surgery did they get the surgery i'll go ahead and grant that the trans woman has a neo vagina

04:50:38.680 well then it's a girl right since it has a vagina no technically that's not that's not pussy

04:50:44.540 that's not pussy that's a wound that's like you couldn't open a hole in my armpit and calling it a

04:50:50.500 vagina you couldn't stick your dick in it wait so if i just drilled a hole into my armpit is that a

04:50:55.560 vagina maybe if it's on your penis and just so if i drilled a hole right here that makes it a

04:51:00.600 vagina drill it inside and make it into somebody who then yeah sick you're so sick you're welcome

04:51:06.900 i mean that's that's not i'm sorry that's not pussy next question that's not pussy it ain't pussy

04:51:13.220 oh no sometimes they'd be like pussy's pussy like i don't know and sometimes they're like

04:51:18.640 reconstruction reconstructive vagina surgery looks pretty good i don't know are you just googling

04:51:24.440 like no i've seen it when i've seen it when you like look at plastic surgery you know there's like

04:51:28.100 that shit ain't pussy i've not encountered it in real life but i can what if what if okay what if

04:51:34.640 what if the what if the trans didn't tell you they like oh that's a sex crime for sure that's a

04:51:40.440 fucking sex crime maybe you might not just know you don't know tell somebody huh don't be a player

04:51:44.860 hater look if i look if i implant a bunch of fake muscles am i a bodybuilder yeah you're hot too

04:51:50.180 i just think about how you guys vote and it's like you can't oh my god now we're talking about

04:52:17.840 voting oh shit here we go with the who did you vote for no i oh she's 18 i didn't i wasn't 18

04:52:26.240 um who would you have voted for i don't follow politics no i don't she she's a kamala voter kid

04:52:33.000 right okay that's all right really it's a powerful woman it's okay to not say those things

04:52:39.440 okay good talk um honestly there's really nothing you guys are no offense boring you got

04:52:49.840 for the question the bear question was pretty boring

04:52:52.400 i would have rather been dragged by the bear this is this is uh really interesting we have tweets uh so

04:53:02.120 uh quentin we're gonna pull off the tweets from your twitter

04:53:07.720 no

04:53:09.480 and i gotta be honest it's fucked up

04:53:15.080 wait that's so fun but here's what we're gonna do when i pull it up our twitter's funny it's all

04:53:21.600 for jokes nothing serious when when we pull it up you gotta read it okay you're gonna read the

04:53:26.720 so did you hear what max said um you're gonna read it in the void like not just that's what i

04:53:40.000 said i have to read it in the voice of how in that energy in that energy let's go um you got it hopefully

04:53:46.880 hopefully the the tweets okay perfect here goes

04:53:53.520 go ahead read it oh yeah it said men are supposed to be providers i don't know what the

04:53:57.760 fuck wrong with these new ones say men like i don't know what the fuck so

04:54:01.600 don't worry guys it heats up it heats up a little bit i want to start with this one though because

04:54:06.800 wait um question for the panel is it okay to say men should men should be x men should be

04:54:16.000 providers men should be is that okay yeah is it also okay to say women should yeah yep yeah women

04:54:23.600 should make me a sandwich is that okay yep i'm making it oh my god

04:54:32.320 opinions are good um i'm making a blt we need we need you on the ones and twos but uh we need you on

04:54:39.760 the ones and twos but you should get a little webcam for when he wants to chime in um they have it on

04:54:44.560 the other but because we run so women should cook women should clean women should be submissive

04:54:51.280 women should be virgins we got a version just an opinion should have could have would have kept but

04:54:57.920 i can't definitely bar gone bar been gone there with everybody but are you are you okay with all

04:55:03.120 those yeah you guys are okay with all those yes yes just because you have an opinion doesn't mean

04:55:06.800 i have to agree with it you could say should like it's just an opinion but but it's interesting

04:55:11.200 women are like across the board seem really fine with shoulds as it pertains to men but the moment

04:55:17.280 you start putting shoulds on women you might just also said we're okay with it yeah yeah

04:55:21.760 none of us even yeah i just said i don't have to agree with your opinion but you could still have

04:55:28.880 it like you can still have your opinion why are you saying you don't necessarily agree so what do you

04:55:34.720 agree with then that you can have an opinion that's okay no but are you agreeing with my opinion

04:55:40.960 what what was your opinion that women should make you sandwiches women should cook if the man is

04:55:45.600 providing right women should be submissive and women should be virgins or like low body count

04:55:51.840 non-promiscuous this is based off of the man is also in the same like he's in his role too sure i'll

04:55:56.800 go ahead and say it has to go both ways yes yeah yes yes absolutely okay but like so he's gonna

04:56:02.480 want to argue so bad he wants to argue so bad he's gonna turn up a little bit

04:56:11.440 hold on hold on really quick really quick uh so all of so men should pay on first dates number three

04:56:17.680 taylor you say you agree carly you agree samantha you agree uh marie you agree men should pay on first

04:56:24.000 dates lily you didn't circle anything i disagree with that you disagree with everything okay that's

04:56:29.200 fine uh mac you did not say men should pay for first dates ruby you said whoever whoever asked the

04:56:35.440 person on the date oh my goodness okay i disagree with that well she also so i've never been on a

04:56:41.840 date so she also said she only has brothers so are y'all traditional women no not traditional not

04:56:50.720 traditional maybe you're traditional yeah i feel like i'm i'm pretty kind of feminist well i'm like

04:56:55.600 modern traditional i feel like well i am like i have like opinions are those all the tweets you

04:57:02.400 had for her no we got more we got more but really quick i do want to briefly and jim bob i'll let you

04:57:07.360 come in just a sec i want to briefly address that like well whoever asked should pay let's do an

04:57:11.920 experiment uh going around the table uh of all the like first dates or hangouts it doesn't have to be

04:57:17.120 like a date but the first dates first hangout you've had with a guy um and let's assume maybe it

04:57:23.680 was this would imply there was food or a restaurant or some sort of activity who paid for it starting

04:57:30.640 with you ruby um on a date or sorry um who asked for it excuse me who asked for the first date or the

04:57:36.960 first hangout typically it's the guy who asked for the first for your experience in my experience based

04:57:42.080 on my experience it's the guy who asked have you and um have you asked guys out no you've never

04:57:47.760 asked a guy out how many first dates have you been on um 10 20 30 40 50 not 50 not probably 100 not

04:57:57.040 30 is that a compliment sure yeah i thought it was um just because you're on dates doesn't mean you

04:58:05.120 so i don't know maybe didn't say that okay 10 and all 10 of those dates the guy asked yeah what

04:58:11.120 about you so you've been on um i was literally on one date and it was with the one that i said had

04:58:16.000 the girlfriend yeah okay and i paid for my ice cream okay fair enough uh what about you i think man

04:58:24.240 don't have to pay on the first day no but so of all the first dates you've been on uh who asked for

04:58:30.320 the date you were usually the man usually sometimes i did maybe once or you've done it a couple times

04:58:35.440 what about you um usually the guy yes have you ever asked a guy out yeah okay what about you um both

04:58:45.200 ways i've asked 50 50 i've asked guys out for on a date and they've asked me out on a date yeah i

04:58:50.080 acknowledge that women ask are you asking about on first dates first dates oh like who asked or who paid

04:58:55.440 no who's who's doing the asking generally oh generally a guys generally the guy what about you

04:59:00.880 guys have you have you ever asked a guy out no on a date how many first dates have you been on

04:59:05.680 um quite a few probably like dozens yeah i've been on a lot of dates yeah yeah that's fine i'm not

04:59:13.040 judging i'm not implying that you've slept with them you know yeah exactly like probably the minority

04:59:17.920 of first dates you've been on you've slept them what the minority the minority have i slept

04:59:25.360 with them on first dates i'm sorry did you say i have or haven't i'm saying it's never mind doesn't

04:59:30.880 matter uh what about you never asked a guy on a date never asked a guy on a date no you've been

04:59:35.600 asked out a whole bunch i'm imagining yeah okay so this whoever asks should pay thing conveniently

04:59:42.240 ignores the fact women don't ask men out men have to be the initiators men are the ones who are

04:59:48.480 initiating men have to ask women out men have to make the first move granted occasionally women will ask

04:59:54.320 but most men's experience is they have to be the asker they overwhelmingly don't get asked out

05:00:00.080 so it's kind of just convenient i would agree whoever i should pay would make sense if men and

05:00:07.440 women asked each other out at similar frequencies yeah that makes sense but when i was like in kind

05:00:14.800 of in that like relationship ish thing i whenever i would like ask to go out i would i would pay for him

05:00:19.920 okay really i would w for him i guess i guess yeah he's 18 and looks like a very sweet girl she looks

05:00:29.680 like she would definitely pay for something uh jim bob let you in here in just a sec clean i feel like

05:00:35.600 donated 200 brian you gotta start doing iq tests for your panel what is the speed of gravity what get

05:00:44.480 wetter as it dries both easy answers i haven't been around flying a lot stuck in manhattan tonight

05:00:52.320 yo clay and thank you for the tts man really appreciate it good to see you in the chat that's uh

05:00:56.000 yeah what what gets wait what is the speed of gravity anybody light speed i don't know light speed

05:01:04.240 i have no idea what i have no clue gravity is light speed i don't know wait what is it can you tell

05:01:10.160 me yeah what is it anybody anyone wait can you tell me we don't know any guessers any guessers at

05:01:16.880 the table i don't know gravity had speed what gets wetter as it dries

05:01:23.360 but i'm gonna be honest i don't know this i don't know let me think about it though i didn't

05:01:28.240 really think about it what gets wetter clouds as it dries maybe damn bro that's some abstract

05:01:35.520 i'm would you make it on the would you make it on your own podcast i'm just too low iq okay i gotta

05:01:40.400 kick myself off the podcast what gets wetter as it dries pussy wait what sorry i didn't say that never

05:01:50.640 that'd be some weird but what gets wetter as it dries does anybody know that's like

05:01:56.880 is it like something that is it like a sponge like something that like

05:01:59.600 clean here with a sponge i don't know i'm like trying to i don't know like that'd be clouds

05:02:03.760 no definitely not that's a trick jim bob do you know the answer what gets wetter as it dries

05:02:10.000 wait ask him to google it

05:02:13.360 okay that's just like saying it's right as yeah as it dries this guy probably feels so smart for

05:02:19.200 saying that to us like yeah he's probably like okay that's so weird damn that's crazy

05:02:23.600 here i'll read lucas's really quick i know he's chair two you're weak sniveling and putrid i engage

05:02:29.600 in adversarial negotiations with female attorneys daily and yes i am an attorney oh my god this fight

05:02:35.760 fucking giga chat here attorney he's a brave and a decent man he's a pioneer toughen up buttercup

05:02:41.600 the world is not obligated to coddle your world view do you want to respond to do i look like i'm

05:02:48.560 crying toughen up a little bit yes inside in internally internally okay just kidding you look

05:02:56.880 very thousand dollars tonight you're very stoic tonight i know lucas has dropped a lot of money

05:03:01.440 bob i know you wanted to jump in there on something a couple minutes ago well there was two things i was

05:03:06.000 interested in more of cardi b minus his tweets but also i wanted to ask a question about the asking

05:03:13.520 men out versus women asking uh or men asking women yeah do you guys think it's more attractive from

05:03:18.720 women's perspective that men men take risks and it is from attractive from a man's perspective that

05:03:25.120 women take risks

05:03:29.280 no they don't want jim bob they don't want the towel they don't want the smoke they know you're

05:03:39.200 i answered it too early and then i didn't hear the rest like whatever crayons like they're like

05:03:44.000 a crayon board okay oh you mean a chalkboard more attractive to risk takers than men or somebody put

05:03:50.880 that on risk takers i would have loved it yeah i'm more attracted to risk takers than men are attracted

05:03:58.320 to female risk takers sure yeah so it makes sense that um men being leaders that they would be the ones

05:04:04.560 taking the risk being that their their attractiveness rests on them risking failing in front of people

05:04:12.160 right uh asking a woman out whereas it's not the same in reverse so it's not like this equalized thing

05:04:17.680 where it could be either way well i'm fine with women asking men out too well it just so happens to be

05:04:23.440 the case that the the the normal the normal typical interaction is that the man takes the risk right

05:04:30.480 yeah it smells i wouldn't say it's so much as a risk i would just say it's like

05:04:36.320 that's how i was raised just doesn't seem like it's a risk it's a risk you you can actually i mean

05:04:43.680 back in my she's cool you would actually you would actually risk walking up to a girl and asking them

05:04:50.240 out and being rejected publicly in front of people okay like that was the risk right okay but we wouldn't

05:04:56.160 expect that in reverse right as because the attraction of the woman to the man uh who's

05:05:02.480 taking the risk is not reciprocated equally uh a man is not attracted when a woman takes a risk we're

05:05:08.320 not like oh she's such a man that would just be a gay dude right so that i just wanted to make sure

05:05:15.040 that the panel understood that the descriptive reality it makes sense that men are the ones who are

05:05:19.600 actually approaching the women courting the women that it's actually descriptively accurate and proper

05:05:26.080 that they do that um as opposed to the reverse it kind of doesn't make sense for the woman to

05:05:31.040 to engage with the man as if they are the man right we're distracted we're really distracted right

05:05:37.440 now so what what happened yeah what happened over there sorry jim bob freaking felicity here just

05:05:43.040 doesn't matter i think the same response just like there was a violently attacked me it's ridiculous

05:05:49.680 wait what are you looking for can we see the next tweet

05:05:52.400 i like that damn felicity what the fuck wait what'd she do what happened go yo go buy some

05:06:01.520 octopus felicity you're on you're gonna eat an entire octopus or something okay or squid or whatever

05:06:05.600 uh sorry jim bob i don't know these you you know what it is jim bob you're so you're you're super

05:06:11.680 saiyan right now oh he's not super saiyan they're they're stuck back in the fucking uh the the saiyan

05:06:18.800 saga dude you're fucking you're you're not just like you're giving him too much credit the namek

05:06:23.840 glazing the namek saga wait was it is it called the namek no bro you're in the majin boo saga you're

05:06:29.440 in the boo saga and you're like when you got tanks when you're like super saiyan level three and

05:06:34.560 shit go or not wait go tanks yeah go tanks fucking uh trunks and goten combined and

05:06:40.960 shit and fucking these chicks are stuck no bro it's it's even before the saiyan saga it's

05:06:46.800 they're fucking raddits they're on some raddits fucking level shit i don't know he's being hella

05:06:51.600 rude right now guys he's being rude all right no they're on some fucking saiyan

05:06:58.160 saga chow su y'all on some chow su shit you're boo when he's over here like boo hungry that's you

05:07:05.600 and you guys are on some fucking chow su oh let me let me jump on napa and fucking self-destruct wait

05:07:10.880 let's and he's fucking see that he doesn't have a cut on him napa fucking the dragon self-destruct

05:07:17.280 fucking on napa oh nothing happens and then those little zarbon fucking things you guys are on some

05:07:23.520 zarbon fucking bullshit zarbon this guy's operating at fucking super saiyan level four

05:07:31.040 from dbz db dragon ball gt which isn't canon

05:07:37.360 dragon ball gt and yeah we all know it is technically happens in dragon ball z because they went back and

05:07:42.800 they're like damn this was dog shit fuck gt let's forget about gt with the like the weird red and the

05:07:50.400 the fucking she knows what i'm talking about no i don't she's laughing because she has no idea

05:07:54.400 what you're talking about i'm just saying i'm like the only one i was like do i look like i'm

05:07:59.840 watching dragon i do like anime i just wasn't a dragon ball z fan jim bob is just operating his

05:08:05.200 power level is hold on me okay his power level is like blinding is that what you're trying to say

05:08:10.720 i guess we're not so intelligence is based off of dragon ball z you know yes that's crazy i don't

05:08:16.160 i don't i don't know it like makes sense that you watch anime look let me explain this shit right

05:08:20.480 okay look oh hold on here put it all right wait that's so corny

05:08:29.360 fucking wait your power level is pretty good you know uh like power level five power level five

05:08:35.680 five five five five get the hell out of here i would argue what did i do what did i do are we

05:08:41.680 talking like physically or mentally and then hold on i would argue i'm the strongest physically at

05:08:46.640 this table no no i don't like i mean mental power oh okay i don't want to talk it's like uh but but

05:08:51.200 here's the thing it's kind of like um and jim bob over here though he's like god where the

05:08:56.960 fuck sorry guys what the fuck damn am i that's a dub that wow this is really embarrassing good where

05:09:04.160 the fuck is it bro you broke it it's the headset for me she was like i got the egg

05:09:14.640 oh here it's over nine thousand that was like ten seconds it took way too long it would have landed

05:09:20.000 earlier down here boys are you gonna wear that the rest of the time you have to know yeah i'm gonna

05:09:24.640 wait you know what really cool you should wear that when you argue with you put on the the hat put

05:09:29.680 that on uh you carly can you wear that hat why do i have to wear that because it would really bring

05:09:35.200 out the color of your eyes yeah don't put it on no hey guys zip it put it on no carly you're gonna

05:09:42.320 get clipped you're gonna get clipped oh thank god that's not even a clip nobody's gonna clip

05:09:51.440 spin the helicopter spin the helicopter i tried i tried to help you by saying don't put the

05:09:56.160 hat on you put the hat on so it happened for you whatever this is not a clip worthy moment okay

05:10:01.040 trust me nobody would clip this all right boys clip that shit look all i'm saying is

05:10:07.040 jim bob here it's over can i flip it y'all can't compete y'all some y'all some

05:10:14.000 fucking chow zoo zar bomb motherfuckers and this guy is on some fucking vegeta

05:10:20.160 some fucking gatling gun what are these made up words what are you talking about you don't know about

05:10:25.520 this how do you not know about dragon ball z this is like should be taught in fucking schools bro

05:10:30.400 how are you how do you not know like hello like hello your iq tests are based off of dragon ball

05:10:38.240 that's right i administer in fact before i go on a date with the chick i'm like tell me uh how i i

05:10:44.400 ask them questions about dragon ball this is the happiest are you into pokemon i wouldn't be able to

05:10:48.880 answer this is a high point for you one do you play pokemon no no no answer okay

05:10:59.360 some like somebody flicked the hat i don't think i want to flick it anymore i feel like i'm doing

05:11:04.800 something against women's rights there you go i felt bad now it's gone on for too long yeah but um

05:11:15.840 um i'm sorry jim bob whoa that's really weird no you have to keep it on the rest of the show no

05:11:20.320 just kidding pass it to facility wow oh we have clane here again here we go uh boom one sec oh we

05:11:31.280 gotta do the tweets let's do the tweets okay we'll get to the tweets oh yeah it didn't look as bad

05:11:34.880 claim donated two hundred dollars should have been more precise dot earth gravity is 32 feet

05:11:41.840 per second per second dot but relativity would argue speed of light and if the towel gets wet

05:11:47.920 array it dries gonna try to stay for the roast oh yeah you know what we will be doing the roast we

05:11:54.480 will be doing the uh row session what is that oh it's coming oh no pepper your angus ladies pepper

05:12:01.360 your angus um okay let's do the tweets and the tweet we're gonna blast room because we got a lot

05:12:05.840 so get ready to read how many you need some water are you parched drink some water actually i'll get

05:12:11.360 you some water actually you ready yeah that looks great yeah okay uh let's uh what the

05:12:21.360 fuck read it wait don't oh uh say ninja say yeah that's why it's there okay go ahead read it into

05:12:28.000 the mic i'm the only one here do it quick though it says ninjas will be fucking you and be like this

05:12:33.360 my pussy first of all my man will kill you that was funny so yeah oh it's a joke yeah or i mean do you

05:12:46.000 like you do have i mean like multiple men i think it's funny like i think i don't know i think it's

05:12:52.960 funny it's like guys be like oh this my pussy and then like i don't know guys guys think it's funny

05:13:02.240 like oh this is my pussy but like my boyfriend will kill you if he found out i was here

05:13:05.760 yeah she belongs to the streets does he follow you on twitter yeah you said what does he follow

05:13:13.600 you on twitter no but i know you guys look at my stuff oh but my twitter my instagram i know you're

05:13:18.480 not a natural beauty but i think with the right clothes the right look you could be very striking

05:13:24.480 it's right there okay cool uh next oh wait read this god damn bro what the fun um men are liars

05:13:35.920 that's really sexist of you how dare you next next read it i miss my man who was never my man for

05:13:44.240 real next um when your man's friends start hitting you up is when you know it's ov next um

05:13:57.520 what god damn bro let's i don't want to see if you guys got the rear the good tweet there's

05:14:03.040 there's some real good ones down there that is i miss my man but he's mad because i get when he's

05:14:08.160 so he could stay mad i don't know put your glasses back on please you're lucky better like that man

05:14:23.200 told me he's surprised and i haven't talked to him since are men or women

05:14:28.800 you didn't see the two men that's why i was like which ones are they bring them out

05:14:45.840 but that was for my twitter twitter's crazy i like twitter honestly i'm on twitter a lot it's

05:14:50.960 the same thing as all my social media platforms if i had twitter i would follow you just for this

05:15:02.000 next if i had a twitter i would follow you just for this i think i'm funny read it oh man i thought

05:15:10.080 i did i thought i took that down it sounds like you bad luck it says i thought i took it down

05:15:19.360 okay one more game let's see wait every man you've been with has been shot oh this is gonna get the

05:15:24.720 comment was the best part i'm all this is gonna get real deep yeah no um my son's dad had got killed

05:15:31.680 in a shooting yes and then this guy i was with i was with him yeah that's what i was like this is

05:15:36.560 gonna get deep and then i was with this guy and he got shot i was with him he got shot six times

05:15:41.600 but he made it wait where do you live in arizona oh my god were they getting like shot before like

05:15:48.880 are they getting she has a kardashian curse are you saying i know i didn't want to say it but i was

05:15:53.440 like girl are you cursing they've been they've been in any shit before i'm all no why

05:15:59.920 like i was trying to deduce before i said those words i was like no girl no they weren't

05:16:04.880 or like are you shooting them i couldn't know that i was about to ask that i was like where

05:16:10.080 are you are you no i should have shot the other guy the one who got shot six times i should have

05:16:14.960 shot him you got shot six times yeah he survived that were you fucking 50 cent but no man don't

05:16:21.280 put that you know what he's not getting no clout off wait you don't wait yeah oh he's not getting no

05:16:26.400 clout off me no no no he's not getting no clout off me but my son's dad did hold on

05:16:31.600 one second two hundred dollars the brotherhood was always greater than the sisterhood

05:16:37.760 you see the brotherhood acts on what is right the sisterhood however acts on what feels good

05:16:44.560 time to disband ladies all right men hate it when women laugh sometimes thank you god

05:16:50.160 they were just like oh no good job you did it 200 to a bunch of dudes i hope you your dick is hard

05:16:57.920 as hell right now thank you so much that was definitely not in response to the girls uh laughing

05:17:05.120 but uh yeah um let's uh are you able to grab the uh the next one yeah or i'll let these uh guys

05:17:13.600 remind her really quick read is 100 tts is 200 you can do venmo cash app if you want 100

05:17:19.920 percent of your contribution to go to the whatever podcast mind you apparently i just learned this new

05:17:24.320 update for those who weren't here at the beginning youtube uh excuse me apple if you donate through

05:17:29.680 the youtube app through uh an iphone or ipad or some other ios device apple takes 30 and then youtube

05:17:39.600 takes 30 that's 51 because it's 30 of the remaining 51 of the original amount

05:17:54.480 some just some math for you guys just some math that's okay i don't know so you can do

05:18:00.000 a venmo cash app whatever pod if you want 100 of your patronage to go also guys like the video twitch.tv

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05:18:10.000 shop to whatever.com thank you thank you thank you uh you ready to go ready to go for the next tweets

05:18:20.400 okay next or sorry go read it bro just please read it quick though it said it said this man just had

05:18:27.920 my whole foot in his mouth get the on he was trying to talk about me like we weren't just

05:18:32.560 having sex and he had my foot in his mouth next i want to call my man right now but i can't because

05:18:40.720 he's in prison he really is that that's crazy okay my home girl be barking at men in the club that

05:18:51.200 be having me dead for real say there's a fine guy walking past one of my friends should be like

05:18:55.520 oh like literally barking wait you know what's crazy she'll start barking and then like it gets

05:19:03.520 attention and it's like it's dumb it's so dumb but like it's funny what do you think about that oh

05:19:09.280 oh no i just i just thought she meant like barking as in like uh like go away

05:19:16.720 no like literally barking like the family guy like trying to get out a guy but not not in a

05:19:23.360 barking i don't think i would ever give a man the satisfaction of barking he'll think about that

05:19:30.720 forever i don't know if i want to be argumentative i would just be like wow all the women all the

05:19:36.240 women here just laughed at a man being cat-called

05:19:43.040 okay when was the last time i thought she would just imagine like i didn't think it was

05:19:47.760 cat-calling that's so good i was like is it just funny

05:19:54.480 like that's dumb but that's dumb but imagine that happening imagine like you're just walking

05:19:58.800 and someone's like i think i would think it's funny speaking would you like it or not ryan you know

05:20:03.520 if somebody would laugh you would probably smile you'd be like this bitch just fucking barked at

05:20:06.800 me i'd either think it was funny or like totally insane like a good nice or you like i would not

05:20:13.920 appreciate a bark yeah but you would see the little grin right there you see yeah you're like a little

05:20:19.360 weird and out of pocket you'd tell your homie this bitch barked at me last night i'd be like you'd be

05:20:24.400 like i'd say what the fuck but i don't know so this girl the other day she barked at yamcha level

05:20:30.720 they're what just yamcha shit everybody's the tao i know

05:20:35.600 fucking tn some fucking chow su shit okay all right uh next

05:20:44.240 oh you okay uh men used to come with offerings from women now they come with nothing to offer

05:20:50.640 that's crazy you want a guy who makes what 150k 200k what did you say

05:20:56.320 only you said 250k that's only 250 000 only 250 only 250 that's a lot of money

05:21:04.880 in a year money to you in a year huh it's a lot of money to you it's it doesn't matter whether it's

05:21:11.040 a lot i just want to know hypothetically is that a lot of money to you

05:21:17.200 even if i made millions of dollars a year 250 000 what you do is a lot

05:21:23.600 it's a lot so but uh it's just how much should we lower our expectations

05:21:30.160 you know what i mean like you're like that's a lot that's a lot i don't think that's a lot like i

05:21:34.000 don't feel that i don't i mean it is you know what i mean like it is but i don't really honestly feel

05:21:39.360 think that i will i almost want to like it would have to be legit i would pay you 250 000

05:21:45.920 dollars if you ended up with a dude who makes 250 000 a year okay what ring you got but it can't

05:21:52.560 have to be married but what if i don't want to get married the seeking arrangements you need the ring

05:21:56.560 well what if we don't want that oh well too bad sucks to be good all right uh you know what though

05:22:02.240 look to answer your question how much do women have to lower their standards

05:22:06.240 you don't you don't you don't lower your standards you don't think you need to

05:22:09.040 a metric they gotta lower their standards y'all y'all be from the back bring in the least and

05:22:14.400 asking for the most what i think i'm high value girl i should have a high value man everything

05:22:19.680 i mean lose the bangs and then we can talk but um she has bangs too yeah lose the

05:22:26.640 i love my bangs you know what you're fired um but anyways damn not the second time

05:22:31.920 yeah put that thing back on it's hot when you put it on did you break them

05:22:37.920 i broke the shit i love you all right just okay come i know you're getting a little excited i know

05:22:42.400 i am i love when you talk super sane and all that what the

05:22:45.680 she's got some like kink or something for this i do um first off

05:22:50.480 you can't you can't afford me you can't afford me

05:22:54.640 i thought you'd go for girls lower than you and you're lower class

05:22:57.760 that's what you like so you're saying i should go for you if you want are you plotting on brian right

05:23:01.440 now she's just getting weird in the studio boys

05:23:06.080 what the

05:23:06.400 what the fuck

05:23:07.360 oh the wall

05:23:08.240 you just said wait no earlier you were talking about men taking risks she just took a risk

05:23:12.720 and that's how you're gonna

05:23:13.360 yeah she took a risk she's always

05:23:15.920 that was such a risk

05:23:16.960 and she's on and shot her down like this is so many people

05:23:21.120 she took that risk

05:23:22.160 yeah she just shot her shot

05:23:24.320 wow this is why women don't take risks

05:23:26.880 oh look at this what happens god damn what the hell you want to talk to my 30 year old man

05:23:32.400 it's like some fucking hens clocking in here holy

05:23:34.480 no she took a risk one person at a time please god damn

05:23:38.320 look what i'm trying to say is there's hoflation hoflation hoflation

05:23:41.920 hoflation you know what i'm talking about she knows what i'm talking about

05:23:44.640 she sees that shit in the streets i'm with

05:23:46.640 all the hoflation in the streets son so look what's that here's hoflation

05:23:49.920 hold i'll read that wait your turn lady okay so check it out

05:23:53.280 put your glasses back on you know what put your

05:23:55.760 what do you want i don't know

05:23:59.120 he wants you to be stoned again oh if we could smoke in here it would have been lit if i i have

05:24:04.240 my baby can't do it though i can't do it to you i'm sorry thank you for sharing that was beautiful

05:24:08.800 um so anyways so hoflation women be expecting the most but be bringing the less it's fucking hoflation

05:24:16.720 boys guys right quentin you don't like the hose chat you don't like the hose

05:24:20.960 huh chat if you like holes put fours even if it's for a fun time

05:24:26.080 even if it's for a fun good time one night literally that's that's great oh

05:24:33.280 that's what they're saying emotional damage the red hair dummy is what gonorrhea looks

05:24:37.520 like under a microscope oh the skunk next

05:24:44.400 you laugh too hard at that brian what the

05:24:45.840 fuck's wrong with you brian

05:24:48.640 you know me in real life you know me in real life you couldn't even give 200

05:25:00.960 not even a 400 and they only get 30 of it you know what this means though so he emotional damage

05:25:07.680 is he saying you sent this in so if it's 99 cents for super chats it typically means you sent it in

05:25:13.760 via uh uh ios ios excuse me so you sent it on an apple tell send another message and it can be it

05:25:20.720 doesn't have to be 100 uh you sent it in on the iphone did you send it in as an iphone or on an ipad

05:25:28.560 because what happens if it's 99 cents that that typically indicates you did it on iphone or ipad on

05:25:35.200 ios youtube i don't know if you missed this part youtube no sorry apple takes 30 percent

05:25:41.120 apple takes 30 percent then youtube comes in takes another 30 percent you're given 30

05:25:46.800 dollars good job doofus how dare you how dare you wear the hat wear the hat

05:25:52.800 send it on cash app send that shit on cash

05:25:55.520 let's call you're a lot of 99.99

05:25:59.120 thank you obviously you can't listen to directions

05:26:01.440 that made me laugh one of the rare brian laughing moments so thank you that was good

05:26:05.360 um pepe la pew oh okay good talk um that's not cute what you don't know pepe la pew

05:26:15.120 sorry okay so where were oh the tweets okay all right go ahead my goodness

05:26:24.240 you gotta read it when sexy says she likes her mom better in jail because he's safer i felt that

05:26:30.400 oh my gosh um when my man don't worry about it next when when my man was in jail i felt

05:26:35.360 better that he was over there sure than in the streets this is why i wouldn't let my man out

05:26:39.760 the house men are so stupid wow how could you say that like that like i did that's racist

05:26:47.440 i'm all just like i did next

05:26:49.360 no i ain't shitting they still a man in the house dumb

05:27:00.320 that was good that was a good one

05:27:01.840 oh yeah have him read them

05:27:06.320 okay oh my god

05:27:07.360 next one next uh next

05:27:09.680 no this man probably been a damn bitch in your coochie in the nose

05:27:13.360 what the fuck does that even mean your coochie andrew nose oh good yeah both yeah what does that

05:27:21.440 mean next all right she's gone

05:27:25.920 i'll pick me men are the worst yes next the worst is i don't even know what a pick me what is a pick me

05:27:33.840 man um um billy bob stuff

05:27:42.240 because like imagine when you're on top and a guy's laying his legs

05:27:50.160 you're famous on twitter men are really men are really bust wide open while you're on top that's

05:27:54.960 what it is if you think of it if you think of it when you're on top of them look at their legs when

05:27:59.360 they're i'm behind they're just like laying there like that's fucking disgusting

05:28:07.040 right or wrong i'm not lying

05:28:10.880 that's how it is

05:28:12.480 they'd be like thrown

05:28:14.960 all these two

05:28:17.040 my twitter's already on there it's the same thing on instagram

05:28:21.680 okay next next one you have a lot of tweets

05:28:24.640 we should have started with this i did i told this guy i was in chicago and he was like okay

05:28:42.400 i'll call you later and he ended up coming to chicago but i was in atlanta so

05:28:47.200 gotcha oh that was just he was like he dropped the location he's like i'm in chicago like what

05:28:54.800 the fuck well i was like okay well i just got to atlanta like it was just like a big thing wait

05:29:00.240 is it still the same one yeah that's correct wait i'm over there i'm you're in atlanta that's from

05:29:04.720 2021 why why did you lie to him he was trying to that's what we do we lie we lie to men

05:29:11.040 no because he asked me he asked me where i was and i told him that i was in chicago because that's

05:29:16.880 where it's cool he knows people in chicago but then he went out to chicago yeah he went to chicago

05:29:22.560 and i was in atlanta so i lied but it would have been okay if i was in chicago but i wasn't in

05:29:28.480 chicago this is beautiful this is like a whole segment called translating ghetto tweets what you

05:29:33.600 have to say i mean you're right we should do it more often that was better than the bear

05:29:37.040 this is like so much more fun i know the chat is

05:29:44.400 wait so hold on yeah i know you know what i should we haven't even got to the real good ones

05:29:50.240 yet either i'm gonna do this to a girl i'm gonna be like yo what's up i'm in la and then i'm gonna

05:29:55.200 have her meet fly out to i didn't tell him to come to oh i didn't gotcha bitch i'm in fucking miami

05:30:00.880 oh i didn't tell him to come to chicago i literally did not he just came oh how you like

05:30:05.520 that he just came he literally he was like oh he came what the fuck no he literally get your mind

05:30:11.120 out of the gutter i swear because he asked me what's a tweet sound like when you just go to like

05:30:17.440 ikea one day like what does that sound like just got a snack just got a snack from ikea because they

05:30:24.560 got a bakery right there i live in phoenix i live in phoenix arizona they have they have the ikea that has

05:30:29.920 like the bakery it's pretty good all right uh let's see what next oh oh shit omg make me laugh

05:30:39.520 or something i started laughing when you showed her tweets like you went through your whole like

05:30:43.680 anime thing not a giggle i didn't get that part either it's true

05:30:50.880 because you suck he definitely sucks

05:31:00.480 that's great love it um wait so wait what did it say or what the hey jim bob read that

05:31:12.960 shit is wayne brady gonna have the choker that's funny you should start jujitsu so you can be more

05:31:29.680 effective at it yeah my son's in jiu-jitsu he loves it i have it next oh that's great we got uh

05:31:39.040 i hate a bitch don't listen i'm a bitch that don't listen that's a bar right there i hate

05:31:44.400 a bitch that don't listen but i'm a bitch that don't listen let's take this one word at a time

05:31:49.040 right there it says motherfuckers hate a bitch that don't listen but i'm a

05:31:52.560 bitch that don't listen like because i don't listen like i just so they do my own thing they

05:31:57.360 do they hate you for good reason i can see that they do i can see that it's understandable okay checks

05:32:01.920 out checks out yeah next

05:32:11.520 are you lucky because you know i hate bitches with kids what what kind of statement is that

05:32:16.880 wait you have no no i do i have a kid but it's because this guy he came up to me he came up to

05:32:23.040 me at my work and he got you pregnant no no no no he came up to me and he was literally telling the

05:32:28.640 story of how you got the no no he was like um i like you you're beautiful this isn't that whatever

05:32:35.360 whatever and then we're going back and forth he's like you have kids and i was like yeah i have one

05:32:39.520 he's like oh man i hate a bitch with kids that's right that's funny like it's dumb but like i think

05:32:49.600 he's like because like we're like back and forth you know haha i think what do you say

05:32:55.840 you don't say nothing you go put on twitter like you go put on twitter it's like what imagine we're

05:33:02.880 vibing by me i hate i hate bitches with kids like what all right i don't know if i would like even if

05:33:09.360 i were single i don't think i would date a man with kids like you said what i don't think i would

05:33:13.120 date a man with kids if i were single well yeah because you don't but you don't have kids so like

05:33:17.040 it's different you have that like option even if i had kids i wouldn't date a man with kids so yeah

05:33:20.720 i wouldn't date a man with kids either this is like i could have 12 and i don't want you to have one

05:33:28.560 destroying the eardrums of my entire audience um jay eakin you know he's he's an og so i'm

05:33:37.040 gonna read this ten dollars super chat listen jay you can't threaten something like this okay so

05:33:42.640 we're gonna need a champagne pop from you if you're gonna invoke if you invoke champagne pop

05:33:48.800 in a super chat you have to do a champagne

05:33:50.800 what's that three hundred dollars three hundred dollars we need a champagne

05:33:54.080 for two hundred and ninety dollars short buddy uh so jay thank you thank you appreciate it good

05:33:59.840 to see you in the chat it's been a minute yo lauren thank you for the membership appreciate it

05:34:02.960 tweets from the streets with jim bob i'd love it wait that's a good segment that's a good

05:34:07.200 segment that would be good that would be good

05:34:15.600 tweets from the streets what the

05:34:20.240 read it no for real uh i don't care i ain't going because i'm not going i hate dick that's uncut

05:34:27.120 what i'm sorry i'm sorry you got an uncut dick i'm sorry are you body shady who here on the track

05:34:33.120 of uncut dick what would they leave what what would they leave in the comments below

05:34:39.840 i like i'm circumcised but for me it's solidarity what the

05:34:43.920 why is that because like why i didn't want to know that i want to do that oh i'm american

05:34:52.240 i'm just i i got solidarity like i'm i'm against circumcision i'm against circumcision

05:34:59.360 i'm against that next tweet i don't know just because like i think that shit like

05:35:05.920 and me personally as somebody i have a i have a genitalia preference i prefer women with large labia

05:35:11.520 why that's your that's your like no isn't that your um why you oh my god he's talking

05:35:17.680 what is it called here brian's talking about the large labia again here he goes he's going to talk

05:35:23.040 about the audis and the wizard sleeve and the rvs and that's why they call you rb queen i only

05:35:29.200 date yes i only date women with large labia the bigger you check it first you're like let me look

05:35:36.720 that's what i do look i won't date it like she's got to have a large labia if she doesn't

05:35:41.360 have an audi i'm outie well what made you come to that conclusion are they just better it like

05:35:46.880 grips you better an audi good job he said you done did it you done you done did it yo illa

05:35:57.040 whatever uh thank you for the gifted five whatever memberships you're a fucking legend thank you so

05:36:01.840 much man uh okay let's let's read it i need to cry baby ass sensitive ass ninja because i do what are

05:36:10.720 you calling my phone a million times for told you i was busy

05:36:18.880 next oh

05:36:22.000 with my white folks then they go to my ghetto ass what the uh try to say it one more time redo it

05:36:27.600 redo it you didn't say right again i'd be trying here i'll be trying to have my kid with the white

05:36:32.960 folks then there go my ghetto ass i should i do the next one yeah let's see what does that even

05:36:40.480 mean though i'd be trying to have my kid with that i put my i like i pulled my kid from the ghetto and

05:36:45.920 i put him with like white people oh i thought you're trying to like fuck a white guy and get pregnant

05:36:51.840 i took him from the ghetto and i put him with the white folks but they look at me like oh

05:36:56.000 fucking ghetto ass mom you know what i mean but yeah what am i gonna do you know like you gotta

05:37:01.360 start somewhere you gotta start you know you gotta start somewhere you know you gotta start somewhere

05:37:04.640 i can't stay in the ghetto forever okay uh you gotta do white piece

05:37:10.320 i do like i live in phoenix so i live in phoenix and on the west speak of the devil and literally speak

05:37:15.520 of the devil uh you know we got a goodness well jay eckin donated one thousand dollars

05:37:23.280 pop champagne only cause i'm found my brother dude jay you're a fucking legend

05:37:30.240 i don't know what jace rub it in their face pop pop do it again yeah do it again do it again i want

05:37:40.400 to see you bought four bottles actually um are you able to uh quentin can you grab one from the

05:37:44.800 refrigerator it's uh at the bottom level it's um is prosecco champagne and no

05:37:53.360 so prosecco is from italy and champagne's from france and sparkling wine is from america

05:38:02.400 is that sparkling wine is not technically champagne but it is the yeah yeah it's just the region where

05:38:08.160 it comes from that's how it gets the name no i'll take that one yes the white one and then can you

05:38:12.640 put the other one just back in the uh oh we're spraying it yo jay guys i need w's in the chat

05:38:20.080 for big jay giga chat jay thank you jay thank you jay not the little one donation here don't mess with

05:38:28.640 jay not the little one let him know he's big daddy jay with a big bottle my youtube also wow it looks

05:38:34.320 like our bellies quentin that was good thank you let me see all right pop the champagne online what are

05:38:40.880 you gonna do there wait quentin have you ever had you don't drink at all no have you have you ever

05:38:46.320 drink yeah okay if if somebody popped a ball of cristal would you drink it it's like one of the

05:38:52.800 it's one of the most expensive bottles of champagne if it was the best sure it's like

05:38:59.360 but like in a classy way right like there's a glass yeah

05:39:02.000 is that what that is oh my god it's so much fun that country's under all right oh hello you gotta

05:39:14.400 open it i got it it's coming oh wait it's gonna next oh my god yeah i don't want that oh that was

05:39:20.960 that was anti-climatic but uh yo jay you're a fucking legend sir thank you thank you uh wait hold

05:39:27.440 on so we have everybody here is over uh except you nope oh do you champagne no champagne thanks

05:39:36.560 champagne champagne i'm the one who got the bottle popped of course i would like a glass wait

05:39:42.640 cheers cheers to that billy bob it was for you too

05:39:50.160 billy bob hey first first of all sorry super saiyan bob my bad

05:39:57.760 super saiyan bob actually jim jim bob

05:40:00.160 i would like to make a proposal jim bob

05:40:11.440 may i state your real name may i state it sure yeah his real name is james oh okay james i think we

05:40:19.280 need to rebrand as your godfather oh is it because of billy bob we kept saying no one can keep up with

05:40:28.320 two words as your confidant and consigliere are you italian it's like a billion are you italian

05:40:37.040 as your consigliere jim bob listen up okay we gotta change the name yeah we do we got it

05:40:47.040 well you gotta listen jim bob i mean james we gotta you gotta go with james we can't do jim bob like billy

05:40:53.840 jim bob no we don't remember two names is a lot it's too much the leader of one one what do you

05:40:59.840 think what do you think should we change to james or what where did it come from like the nickname yeah

05:41:06.000 what's the origin oh just uh i don't actually don't even know it's just kind of like champagne

05:41:10.720 it's just like uh i actually can't remember when someone started calling me jim bob you guys saw that video

05:41:15.600 kodak i just ran with you yeah sam said she wants a full class

05:41:25.600 she said she wants a full class all the way to the top who sam oh sam oh boy okay i don't know if

05:41:31.280 there'll be enough for that but what the no no jay's trying to get us drunk say it into the mic though

05:41:39.360 say that again into the jay's trying to get us drunk i said brian's trying to get me drunk wow that's

05:41:43.120 crazy she took another risk these down for me that's what he hates when i do that pass it down

05:41:47.760 yo jay thank you so much for the champagne pop appreciate it uh that's for uh here being tens

05:41:55.680 thank you thank you so much thanks jay thank you daddy wait is this i'm just gonna drink from the bottle

05:42:05.120 uh okay oh gangster let me see let me see drink that shit yeah yeah yeah i'm gonna pour it out for a

05:42:12.880 homie what the fuck brian you got a couple of them you can't say that for my dead homies oh my god

05:42:21.760 okay um oh uh cheers too much to all the cash ghetto hood rap we're all tens we're all baddies

05:42:33.360 real bad bitch to being on the panel and sticking it out to billy bob and brian yeah billy bob

05:42:38.720 cheers okay okay next what a gangster jay aiken what a legend sir all right jay

05:42:55.680 okay uh next if you can pull it up for me let's see

05:43:06.480 i hate my life i don't know how to do regular makeup just home makeup i said this on my way over

05:43:10.960 here so i don't know that's what i'm about to tell you so i don't know how to do like uh like i don't

05:43:17.760 know how to do a light beat i don't know how to do like half-assed makeup no no i just put all this

05:43:23.120 shit on every time like there's no in between either i'm wearing no makeup or this and that's

05:43:28.880 my biggest downfall though oh my god who the hell cares me you asked sorry sorry sorry i care too

05:43:39.280 um yeah just home makeup because it only looks good in the dark you know

05:43:45.120 yeah

05:43:48.640 i told five different guys today was my birthday september 14th

05:43:54.080 my birthday's in january

05:43:58.560 by the way jay says jay says chair forward not a trance strumpet i don't know what yeah yeah yeah

05:44:05.120 jay you can't even you can't even oh what the oh is he your type sorry he's a handsome guy

05:44:10.960 i don't know would you yo jay wait apparently i'm not his type

05:44:15.760 if i set you up are you're single right he said you're single let me set you up it

05:44:20.320 but actually what is a strumpet no strumpet is not a hoe he said not a chance though is it

05:44:28.080 sort of i don't know what does it mean if you're the one that gave me it means a promiscuous woman

05:44:33.280 uh-oh a woman oh you had it right thank you daddy we love that i guess that was right um next

05:44:43.440 i don't know how y'all just be kissing i hate kissing honestly i'd be kissing and get the party

05:44:47.680 started but that's it this feels like a shot that's so funny i just sometimes like i don't like to just

05:44:56.080 because um guys and girls randomly kiss at bars and shit nasty and people's mouths go through a lot

05:45:05.360 so it's kind of gross i really only kiss my man does it yeah um um that's about it like i really

05:45:11.920 only kiss my man and the rest like i don't i don't kiss them she was the mouth that got away you know

05:45:18.800 i actually you know what's i i kind of agree with you on this that's what i feel like kissing isn't

05:45:24.160 really it sounds crazy but you're only gonna kiss your girlfriend you're not gonna kiss someone you're

05:45:28.080 like i mean yes but like not like like i don't know i just i'm not into like like long extended

05:45:35.680 like a 15 minute make out session i hate i hate or it's like if you think about it like when you're

05:45:43.920 making out with someone and just oh my god me literally i'm like oh please that's fucking you

05:45:54.080 have to be into making out you have to be feeling it because it's not like i hate making out feel

05:45:58.560 but you got to be feeling it you gotta be not like stick your tongue in my mouth um rslb sends

05:46:03.520 in an australian 100 super chat thank you so much man for chairs two five and seven out of astin

05:46:09.200 martin ferrari what austin martin astin does he pronounce it astin wouldn't it be austin martin

05:46:17.200 astin i gotta wait anyways uh ferrari lamborghini or mclaren which would you choose and why

05:46:27.040 i'd probably do a mclaren that's chairs two five and seven two five seven which do you pick

05:46:36.320 i feel like lamborghini okay i'm not into cars but ferrari from yeah yeah i'm not into cars either um

05:46:43.920 i wouldn't know what the difference is i just know that they're all really nice cars

05:46:50.880 yo thank you for the soup chat rslb thank you um oh from australia from australia thank you

05:46:55.600 i like the question she loves that dude she loves that you love it because you want me to get you

05:47:00.000 set up with him i can arrange i've never been to australia but i heard they got spiders big ones

05:47:05.520 they got crazy bugs in australia i heard there's a lot of venomous most poisonous

05:47:09.040 shit over here in australia that's crazy wait what were we talking about uh the things the

05:47:13.920 windows oh my what the fuck holy shit bro what the fuck that's gonna get you all chubbed up

05:47:22.880 quentin are you able to just close out all the tweets just just oh perfect

05:47:27.200 what am i forgetting yeah yeah we're gonna do a tiktok so we got now we're getting to your tiktok

05:47:34.320 we're gonna do and you guys are gonna oh this is gonna be so good so good so good my tiktok's not

05:47:41.520 serious uh just like those tweets just like instagram is not real put it uh oh my god i think this is

05:47:48.480 where i'm talking about i lie about everything quiet quiet in the in the studio go ahead honestly i love

05:47:58.880 lying like sometimes i'm single and people ask sometimes i'm in a relationship

05:48:05.520 is the audio maxed sometimes you're gay sometimes i'm 30 sometimes i'm 25 is it is it maxed quentin no

05:48:14.320 that's weird um that's crazy okay what the fuck uh all right you can uh tab over get the next one

05:48:24.000 open and have it just uh full screen ready to go we have a super chat here from not bird man hey

05:48:29.920 bird man thank you for your super chat yikes oh by the way you know what hold on really quick

05:48:35.120 we're going to do the first of all

05:48:42.400 bro first of all look at your profile picture you want your dick sucked or something

05:48:46.320 oh shit are you gonna like what do you is that what you want to do let them talk to you that way

05:48:50.640 no no he only gave ten dollars anyways like what is he really like so you're saying he has to send

05:48:54.720 in that you only got three dollars of that you're trying to work your time like you only got three

05:48:57.760 dollars before before we move on can you take down one of those guitars and do uh like a uh like a

05:49:07.360 quick uh ghetto tribute or something sexy red anthem please i see rick

05:49:14.240 guys we're doing a row session we're going to do a 30 dollar tts for the rest uh oh here it goes

05:49:24.800 bro why are you dropping it yeah go for it go for it oh big sexy blood loader hose bounce that

05:49:32.080 ass touch them toes i got it for you oh god oh god dude born by the river i tried to get my boy out

05:49:40.320 little white folks it's still ghetto

05:49:47.760 keep going jimbo that's good keep going keep going

05:49:51.840 going jimbo can you bring up some tweets can you bring up our tweet

05:49:57.280 come on improv this

05:49:59.920 it's okay if you do it's uh what is the ghetto anthem let's go it's like control it's control shift

05:50:08.080 all right jimbo read the read it you gotta do it in a country tone wait what the

05:50:14.320 wait hey we can't that's what you get don't say that don't say it yeah i won't say it

05:50:24.960 no we can't even show it we can't show it next one oh oh you can't show that one yeah it's like

05:50:29.920 tos tos you know what's tos jimbo just didn't improvise improvise jimbo you got it he said here

05:50:38.000 we go which one is it bring them out bring them we need more we need more 805 in that

05:50:41.680 bitch more base aren't all the tweets gone more base okay i got one i got one for you i got one for

05:50:48.640 you wait wait wait hold on a second 2022 that's how you know i worked really hard to get my kid out

05:50:54.800 i'm all 2022 we were like they're trying to have my kid with the white folks

05:51:02.160 yeah they don't want to get old ass they know i'm still ghetto

05:51:10.240 oh my gosh oh are we okay you you have it

05:51:14.000 y'all i hate my life i don't know how to do regular makeup i just know home makeup

05:51:24.880 yeah you do sing it louder sing it louder for us in the back please

05:51:30.400 one more make sure you moan moan a little bit go

05:51:32.480 i was raised as a home

05:51:38.400 i'm the i-lib that's really all i know yeah yeah

05:51:44.960 did i mention i hate oh my god oh my god let me read that one yeah yeah what now that was

05:51:52.560 yes make sure and follow me on instagram oh my god my audience's ears are yeah go follow me and uh

05:52:00.800 me and cardi be mine make sure i follow billy i also want you guys to go follow me

05:52:06.240 oh my gosh you're so funny uh okay so wait guys we're doing the roast tts has now been set to 30 30

05:52:13.920 dollar tts get it in cheap ass motherfuckers i know you got 30 dollars and if you want to get your

05:52:18.400 roasting boys oh say it say with your chest my head's already on fire let's get it you've been

05:52:23.040 holding back this entire time get it in get it in 30 dollars if you stayed on here this long you made

05:52:28.640 it damn that was some gangster shit jim bob that was hot that was it was hot that was hot that was

05:52:34.960 fire it was fire no it was fire uh sorry guys i'm trying to do oh dang hold on sorry dang it

05:52:44.000 it bruh sorry i'm doing the i'm changing the tts here and i got it all messed up now i got it it's

05:52:51.200 all messed up uh so tell us what mac what do you want to talk about since you just are so can we do

05:52:56.720 asmr you asked and that's all i've been thinking about since you asked me the first time like what

05:53:04.240 have you guys seen that video of kodak when he says champagne champagne you guys haven't

05:53:08.480 i'd love it i'd love that for you well we should look up the video of kodak thank you though it's

05:53:16.640 not dragon ball z so he doesn't care hey you wanted to be saying she knew all the dragon ball z

05:53:22.640 shit she knows all the dragon ball z shit she was right here and you're completely ignoring my

05:53:26.640 bitch he didn't care about me because i'm over here like looking at him that's right curved um so anyways

05:53:32.880 that's the one time the one time that's true the one time for the one time so hard so hard

05:53:38.000 heartbreak oh wait we have the first one sons of liberty son of liberty hold on let me i

05:53:44.640 fucked it up already uh sorry i didn't change the settings and stream labs one sec let me re-trigger

05:53:53.200 that boom here it is i've got two i'll let two come through then we'll get back to the stuff oh what

05:53:58.320 the fuck sons of library donated twenty nine dollars and ninety nine cents men listen to tom

05:54:05.120 like us old school ever heard of him brian yeah he lives you have him on he lives i believe he lives

05:54:11.840 in santa barbara w jim bop i'll answer that after this one comes in claim donated thirty dollars

05:54:19.360 diabetes tuesday adams share three should definitely wear more makeup ghetto poison ivy chair four has said

05:54:27.600 nothing of substance lucky most of your only vans are also blind or desperate i bet you're gonna

05:54:33.760 subscribe after though you guys already know like uh so sons of liberty to answer your thing uh i've

05:54:40.880 reached out to tom likus a whole bunch like a couple different times reached out to the ways in which you

05:54:46.720 can reach out email i think i dm'd him on something or whatever uh didn't get a response back i think he's

05:54:53.200 like semi-retired or something he still kind of does show but yeah he's located in like northern

05:54:58.400 santa barbara county and it'd be dope to have him on he's the og basically but uh yeah so if anybody has

05:55:05.600 contact with tom likus and speaking of contacts with somebody guys my twitter account my ex has been

05:55:12.080 scuffed for over a month and there's this weird thing going on i won't get into the details here but my

05:55:18.480 twitter account's all bugged and fucked up if anybody watching has a contact at x at twitter

05:55:25.680 hook it up if anybody knows anybody who works at x who can help me out with my problem because it's

05:55:30.800 how did you have a problem but you saw all my stuff perfectly fine

05:55:35.280 anyways it's not it's not related to like being able to see stuff on twitter it's just my account

05:55:40.880 issue uh luke lewis says louis donated thirty dollars chair three and four you're gonna throw

05:55:49.120 it at brian tonight or not yeah is brian going to catch it send a champagne bottle louis

05:55:56.560 that way we can get a drink and maybe it could happen thirty dollars far right green top black

05:56:08.080 pants with the gorgeous girls 20 tenths 20 out of 10 thank you i'm at taylor and more on youtube and

05:56:15.360 i'm a professional athlete and jiu-jitsu fighter so please watch my jiu-jitsu and she plays the cello

05:56:20.400 uh i don't play the cello i'm just on i do jiu-jitsu online and i want you guys to watch it

05:56:25.760 at taylor and more okay all right uh okay uh let's do the tick tock reacts the audio is kind

05:56:31.280 of low on it so uh but let's pull up pull up the next one uh go ahead and play oh wait hold on

05:56:38.320 i'm gonna put it on this one time wait wait pause pause pause uh can you rewind it and put it on the

05:56:42.960 video tab i'm just remembering about this one time i fell asleep first and this dude was in my house

05:56:52.640 that he must have been going through like my pantry and shit because oh my god he like woke me up like

05:56:57.120 was shaking me woke me up and he was like did you make someone else fucking tacos and i was like oh my

05:57:02.080 god sam oh yeah and he was like did you make someone else fucking tacos i was like no i made enchiladas

05:57:08.480 like bro that motherfucker woke me up at 6 a.m talking about did i make someone else food

05:57:24.880 it was very toxic very toxic day it's annoying uh next we'll get the next

05:57:30.480 so um what's the measurement that they use for the lip filler i don't know should we ask ask a

05:57:40.000 plastic surgeon but but like isn't it like cc's you don't like it oh no it's milliliters oh it's

05:57:45.840 milliliters what is it cc's or boobs oh that's for the titties okay my bad i don't know i don't know

05:57:52.080 about all that stuff um but you do because you said it frank he's wanted to gaslight

05:57:58.560 he's all he's back to the future to your favorite from the trilogy

05:58:02.800 love your own i like them all i like them all oh thank you good work king thank you

05:58:07.200 304 yo frank thank you so much for the message my name is my donated thirty dollars chair three and

05:58:14.880 four oh yeah no just no tame ones i got that in my other hair too ruby 10. dude they're making you

05:58:21.280 all your money right now you're welcome like even for coming over here yeah you're welcome yeah you're

05:58:26.640 i got you up a thousand i don't think that was you that was just really you don't are you joking

05:58:31.120 that's just jay being how often does that happen to you like every time get the

05:58:35.600 fuck you know he sends us a bottle once a show not every okay but like oh all right you're welcome

05:58:41.280 oh on the shows with the bitches maybe i mean we we get crystal maybe yeah like every other show

05:58:46.160 probably on average we'll see this is a slow sometimes we'll get two or three pops so you

05:58:53.120 guys are slacking actually oh wow if we weren't here you wouldn't have had it's because you didn't

05:58:58.240 show we can have a clap off here yeah but you gotta put my shit in the bottom i know they wanted to see

05:59:05.120 that like that would have gotten so many pops people up every submission what my jiu-jitsu highlights

05:59:11.680 oh your jiu-jitsu yeah yeah that's gonna get champagne it is they're gonna be like damn that's

05:59:16.960 a baddie and she can beat people up yes yes yes if somebody sends in we can do a clap off 30.

05:59:29.280 if somebody sends in 200 we'll look at her jiu-jitsu stuff um please be nice to me and send

05:59:33.600 in 200 the guy who called her 20 out of ten send it to them on cash let's do the tick tocks

05:59:37.520 por favor next go ahead pull it up

05:59:40.160 wait uh so it said uh wait play play that you got caught having five boyfriends okay mute the audio

05:59:58.720 though okay okay i'm just trying to see what the pov you got caught do you have five boyfriends

06:00:04.400 not anymore

06:00:08.880 what the

06:00:09.360 oh my gosh you're hilarious

06:00:13.520 yo me uh

06:00:14.800 also the guy know in that video the ob-gyn

06:00:19.600 next

06:00:19.920 bro so my nails are so tell me why tell me why i was gonna hang out with this dude i've been talking

06:00:28.800 to right and we had a plan i was gonna go over to his house we're gonna go to a bar okay together

06:00:36.080 i drive 40 minutes to his house and i'm texting him the whole time the whole day the

06:00:41.040 whole night i'm texting him texting him we have an agreement tell me why i get to his house and he's

06:00:45.920 like hey you want to run a walgreens um to get some shampoo the door is open and go inside

06:00:52.080 i go outside and i'm waiting like 30 minutes and i'm like where are you because the walgreens

06:00:56.480 down the street and then i look up the walgreens and it says closed so i'm like are you alive like

06:01:01.200 are you okay he's like yeah then he tells me that he's at a bar

06:01:09.280 he's at a bar

06:01:09.920 he had me waiting there at his house while he was at a bar

06:01:16.880 best believe i left so fast uh just i don't know next whatever

06:01:21.440 i was like i don't know why i showed you him

06:01:23.760 there's another one there's like a couple others oh yeah let's do next let's do next

06:01:29.360 let's see the next get it pulled up whenever you have it

06:01:31.680 my instagrams are better my instagram videos are way better

06:01:35.440 can you switch it to video though i'm not able to do

06:01:40.160 we listen and we don't judge okay so i was once dating this dude i was super in love with him

06:01:45.680 right and he was going through a hard time so i got a town home for us for him and his kids

06:01:50.800 so he can move in with me during that time i was going to go on vacation with my mom for a week and

06:01:55.520 i told him hey i put you on the lease so you can get the keys in you don't have to worry about me

06:02:00.160 being there i paid everything already while i was on vacation he went and took a video of him

06:02:06.240 doing the do with a different girl i don't know this girl at all and recorded on his phone i came

06:02:11.840 back and i went through his phone i kicked him out and then he went back to live with his ex

06:02:17.280 two weeks later his ex and him got into a domestic violence dispute because she caught him texting me

06:02:22.880 and started beating him up the cops got called and he got taken so um i bailed him out of jail

06:02:29.040 no it gets worse he came back with me and maybe a couple days later he took my car while i was

06:02:37.840 sleeping to go get by a different girl and recorded it and i went through his phone and found it

06:02:46.880 girl and i still took him back we listen and we don't that's my last relationship that's why i've

06:02:53.360 been single for like two and a half years maybe three and a half now is this the same guy who went

06:02:58.320 through your pantry for the no no no no oh man that was one of the five boyfriends that's like one of

06:03:03.680 the ones on my roster right now yeah he's he's observant right i was scared he woke me up it's horrible

06:03:11.840 we listen we listen and oh god we listen and

06:03:24.240 hell yeah

06:03:32.160 oh my god this is a really crazy one guys

06:03:54.080 what are you wearing what is this i know billy bob's not talking about what i'm wearing

06:03:59.440 read it read it read it um when i was 16 when i was 16 my mom kicked me out because her husband

06:04:06.880 made her choose me or him so i was on my own got pregnant my mom's boyfriend was best friends

06:04:11.840 with my mom and told her my mom then told me to get an abortion i could move back home instead

06:04:17.440 so i got the abortion three days later she kicked me out because her husband didn't like me that's

06:04:20.560 what all that says i'm so sorry no don't be sorry it was like before though like

06:04:26.080 whatever it was fine i'm sorry did that happen to you we listen and we don't judge

06:04:34.720 what's the next one honestly i love lying on camera

06:04:47.280 they're trying to roast me no one has even sent in a roast

06:04:51.280 i'm remembering about this yeah they are they're just like asking questions

06:04:57.360 i feel too bad to roast her

06:05:02.800 what was i wearing a miniskirt

06:05:06.400 hey it looked like to like like a sublime concert we listen and we don't judge um so one time i was on

06:05:13.440 an on and off again relationship with this one dude and i met this other dude who lived in nashville

06:05:18.240 he came down here and i was partying and i was like texting him on and off and after like six

06:05:24.080 months he was like let me fly you out here so i made my boyfriend at the time drop me up at the

06:05:31.360 airport so that way i can go meet this dude in nashville and then i made him pick me up from the

06:05:36.720 airport and i told him that i was with my friend mariah so the whole time um i was sending pictures and

06:05:43.920 stuff i had my friend mariah like go to bars and send me pics as if like i was with her off guard

06:05:49.760 pics um then i tagged her and all my stuff on my stories that's dedicated that was on a girl's trip

06:05:59.440 i didn't get caught that's great we listen and we don't judge

06:06:05.040 i'm judging

06:06:08.320 all true that's fucked up bro it's only

06:06:11.680 fucked up if it's a girl doing it just to be clear you so you were dating a guy is this a fair

06:06:18.400 recap you're dating a guy that guy drove you to the airport he was not shit though so it's not like i

06:06:23.200 just was like it was your boyfriend hold on so here's the recap your boyfriend drove you to the

06:06:29.760 airport so you could get flown out by another guy and then you fucked that other guy multiple times and

06:06:36.080 then when that boyfriend was checking in on you you said you were there with your girlfriend

06:06:41.920 not not her oh different maria her name was mariah oh mariah okay yep but he cheated on me

06:06:48.720 he's the one where she got out of jail i built him out of jail and he still did me dirty so

06:06:52.640 yeah oh my god i mean still though it's kind of what would you do leave huh

06:06:57.600 okay i had to get her lick back i'm gonna let some roast come through

06:07:11.600 who cares donated thirty dollars none of you at the tables are tens when you were rating yourself

06:07:17.680 those who think they are tens are delulu oh my god i wouldn't even touch you with a ten foot

06:07:22.400 you couldn't even afford a hundred dollar super chat or annoying and threes yeah that's why you

06:07:26.720 couldn't say it earlier you can wait for thirty dollars who cares literally who cares 30 donated

06:07:31.920 thirty dollars jeff five is by far the quietest and the prettiest on the panel she lives up to

06:07:38.000 the standard where women should be seen and not heard like unlike send her thirty dollars too

06:07:44.400 we're on a podcast subscribe to her only fans yeah yes yeah you might have forgot the part where she

06:07:52.800 as in only fans no subscribe to it randy donated thirty dollars what's up randy claim it's ironic for

06:08:00.960 you to question panel iq while asking the speed of gravity actually asking about the acceleration

06:08:07.120 of gravity on earth which is 9.8 meters per second per second also the answer is a towel

06:08:15.440 damn is this some super chatter on super chatter crime here yeah let's go randy i like that this is

06:08:20.800 some there's some there's some beef in there yo randy you gotta be you guys put some respect

06:08:25.840 on my boy clane's name man that's crazy mellow underscorn over donated thirty dollars chair

06:08:33.600 three looks like the worst version of the it clown good luck with the drug addicts

06:08:38.320 who does who okay well did you even say anything about drugs appreciate it

06:08:45.200 daryl underscore frank carson five hundred and twelve donated thirty dollars shout out to jim

06:08:51.360 bob aka amini andrew i love your content and the fact you don't take it easy on these three hundred and

06:08:57.840 fours chair two is possibly a six on a good day number nine on this chair five is an eight

06:09:04.800 midnight is it many claim donated thirty dollars yeah this is watching a discussion in futility

06:09:13.200 can any of you define that word the word is futility do you want to define futility

06:09:20.960 i don't know who you pointed to justin martin's donated thirty dollars thank you jim bob got an

06:09:26.160 aquatic themed song for chairs three and four something a little fishy about them too is all i'm saying

06:09:32.640 would you like it though what the fuck ask him

06:09:38.560 okay that's that's beautiful thank you for that uh intel thank you for the membership man appreciate

06:09:44.160 it we got intel jim bob is goat status please keep bringing him on yo intel thank you for the big 50

06:09:50.640 dollar soup chat uh we have nat attack how long will it take for strumpets to realize hey look it's a

06:09:56.640 woman maybe you know it could be a poser but i don't believe her that looks uh filler and fake

06:10:02.880 lashes actually ages them by 10 years yo everybody's like you know you got all these these dudes you

06:10:10.160 know we got listen we got some based women who also watch the show so yeah any women who are watching

06:10:15.600 right now if you're watching on twitch watching on youtube let's put some let's put some i don't

06:10:20.800 even know what we're gonna put dancing put put put put some if you're a woman who's watching put put

06:10:28.080 some um put some pickles pickle emojis put the crown emoji put the princess emoji that pickle shit put

06:10:35.520 the princess thank thank you whatever women whatever enjoyers thank you thank you uh what did the leper

06:10:43.760 say to the oh that's or what did the leper say to the prostitute keep the tip yeah i read that

06:10:50.560 earlier on let's read their limbs fall off yeah sounds like john velquette thank you for that

06:10:55.920 i appreciate it reminder guys tts is 30 if you want to get a roast in we're doing a 30 dollar

06:11:03.360 roast session okay we need to get through the notes here guys we got we got show notes we still need to

06:11:07.520 get to so show notes that's right i'm still awake what do you want to talk about what do you want

06:11:17.920 to talk about feminism and how it's terrible for society what do you want to talk about who you

06:11:21.680 want you want to tell us who you voted for no i don't

06:11:27.040 what what do you want to tell us about nothing i'm just like ready to eat just ready to eat yeah

06:11:34.800 i leave it's been like i'm gonna get in and out i'm gonna get in and out yeah i'm actually gonna

06:11:39.760 do that too this is why the wage gap exists because women are just incapable of putting in the days of

06:11:45.360 hard work wow it's hard unpaid work anyways well okay so anyways sam uh we were wait crazy dating

06:11:57.280 stories you were a dancer for five years so that comes with a crazy dating life you would like to talk

06:12:02.640 on the dating life of being a sex worker we already talked about that uh you have a sugar daddy right

06:12:09.840 currently or you've had sugar daddies yeah okay how many sugar daddies do you have um

06:12:17.440 right now i have two nice wait have you ever been on seeking arrangements yeah when i was like 18

06:12:22.400 grown i was burnt out definitely seeking is like a joke now i mean you could still find some good ones

06:12:27.360 no i'm not gonna go on i was just wondering i asked her and she's been on seeking arrangements

06:12:31.120 uh you worked at a press at a prison excuse me yeah were you dirty no i was dating one of the um

06:12:39.920 inmates and then even inates no i had the one of the um like the gang unit the supervisor i was

06:12:46.160 he's my boyfriend so he was on my ass extra hard every day everywhere i went so that's cool um oh

06:12:51.920 going to marie here her name was marie marie sorry i apologize um you said crazy and dating only go

06:13:00.000 together for me who said that you did when bro in the dm's lady oh yeah yeah damn my stomach i'm

06:13:11.280 hungry too my stomach's like well just because like grumbling just because i feel like i'm a crazy lady

06:13:17.600 you know what i mean i'm a crazy lady men get mad at me i get mad at them you saw my twitter

06:13:22.400 uh you also wrote all i

06:13:28.160 fuck with is gangsters and strippers yeah that's my bio if you guys don't know it's a song it's a song

06:13:33.840 by too short um it's called gangsters and strippers all i fuck with is all i fuck with is gangsters and

06:13:40.480 strippers it's it's it's a song by too short it's like one of my favorite two short songs that

06:13:45.760 album's my favorite back here going to mac you say you haven't had a boyfriend yet we talked about

06:13:51.120 that you said your hot take would probably be that there's no specific rules to dating you know

06:13:55.680 everyone has their opinions about how relationships and dates should go down but you think dating is

06:14:00.080 just a preference game yep okay uh another one would probably be that dating apps have made people

06:14:05.840 disposable in the dating world yep because then it's like oh okay well they're pissing me off onto the

06:14:12.000 next not me though i don't i don't go on dates with people on dating apps but i don't know i was

06:14:16.800 trying to think of hot takes i didn't really have any okay uh take never mind actually no what is it

06:14:24.480 i decided not to share that okay you want to deport people what well wait wait what no i didn't say

06:14:33.440 any of that huh no oh sorry i thought okay never mind hot take i guess i don't know uh ruby going to

06:14:40.720 ruby here you said you had a boyfriend he was successful smart he was afraid of commitment so

06:14:44.880 you left the relationship no matter of money no no amount of money can make you stay emotional and

06:14:50.640 mental health are more precious and priceless yes you said corn only fans models are damaging society

06:14:58.080 but men are at equal fault a woman may sell herself but a man buys it's a it's a successful

06:15:04.800 business because of the high demand primarily of men both genders need to come together and fix what

06:15:09.600 they both broke uh so you were saying something about of models are damaging society we got oh

06:15:17.200 number one number two and then did you used to be a stripper i still am still are okay so kind of

06:15:23.760 involved in sex work do you want to say something to the sex workers at the table um i just think it's

06:15:31.040 i think you guys just have so much value and you guys have so much more to offer than your body

06:15:35.840 that's that's where i offer my creativity to my fans and like company and chatting and

06:15:48.480 just like creativity yeah what secret what do you think it's you don't think it's like hard to be

06:15:52.480 creative to keep people intrigued and engaged there's so many wait wait wait a second hold on

06:15:57.920 hold on a second what are you selling are you selling folds of your body dreams holes and folds how is that

06:16:03.280 creative i'm selling dreams i'm interested in the the middle chair what's what are you creating

06:16:08.800 me content yeah um like movies like she's a she's a jim bob hold on i gotta come to the her defense

06:16:18.560 she's a real steven spielberg over here she's a martin she's a real quentin tarantino okay she's a real

06:16:24.960 i don't get it either martin scorsese okay okay just kidding i don't know but i've i just want to

06:16:31.120 make sure i usually like you know what she does i take movies that are like real movies and i make

06:16:39.040 them into adult movies and i play different characters parodies yeah she does make movies yeah

06:16:45.200 i make parties like i did die hard i did snow white i did csi miami coming out you're like let's do star

06:16:51.600 wars you said it's coming out tomorrow i know that's right do it say it louder i mean a lot of

06:16:56.800 genius yeah promoted billy bob stop you're gaslighting right now what do you mean you don't even

06:17:03.440 mean it though what's the creative part though the creative part you have to stay creative and only

06:17:09.680 fans and in corn too all the characters in my movie and i record myself and i so you steal so you

06:17:16.320 steal from original works of art and you pervert it and you call that creativity how do i steal it i

06:17:22.560 make a parody of it you take parody someone worked to make something and then you pervert it with

06:17:27.920 pornography yeah basically that and i put my creativity into taking a normal movie and everybody

06:17:35.920 want an ice cream that's amazing wow and anybody can do that i don't think anybody can do that they're

06:17:41.920 like they're like they're rainbow they're like fresh i mean you haven't watched them so i won't watch

06:17:49.360 them they're trash or do you want one yeah i'll go yeah i won't watch them how can you say they're trash

06:17:57.840 get the out of here what what i don't think anyone who doesn't really have like a background in

06:18:04.080 uh so let me get this other people hold on other people do put in the time to write direct and

06:18:12.400 produce a movie yeah i do the same take their idea and then include dicks and butts yeah sex that's

06:18:18.720 all you do you have great work yeah that's what that's so creative wow you should be real proud of

06:18:25.360 yourself this is some italian on italian crime here this is crazy unbelievable this is crazy bro um

06:18:43.120 wait so uh hold on we'll get back to your notes ruby because ruby you had some thoughts on that but

06:18:48.080 i'm gonna let there's a bunch of chats coming through 30 tts how about this claim donated 30

06:18:55.840 or how about innuendo not in your rendo which is what some of you are used to which is also 32

06:19:03.360 feet per second per second in freedom units and i answered that with 200 didn't wait for 30

06:19:12.960 hi bradford donated 30 dollars share two stop acting like you're above this you try to act intellectual

06:19:21.120 but you're checking your hair every three seconds try thinking

06:19:28.000 rachel wilson donated 30 oh rachel thank you shares two three and four combined

06:19:33.520 iq is lower than the age of leonardo dicaprio's latest girlfriend

06:19:40.240 w w's in the chat for rachel wilson florianne pasha donated 30

06:19:46.000 share two three four your pride is based on compliments men give when they see m so they can

06:19:51.840 disappear faster your only contribution to society is an open door and even that's a public health

06:19:58.160 risk pasty george donated 30 many of these women on the panel will end up aging out alone and with

06:20:08.320 cats they will end up posting videos online saying how they regret their choices and the delusional

06:20:14.400 views that led them there claim donated 30 dollars no thank you an acceleration is due to gravity within

06:20:23.120 the gravity pull of the planet or any planet acceleration changes acceleration changes as we exit gravitational

06:20:31.520 pulls of celestial bodies who cares donated thirty dollars you aren't worth more than thirty dollars

06:20:40.240 that's why i didn't send a two hundred dollars that's why i didn't send a two hundred dollars super chat

06:20:44.640 like i said damn i wouldn't even touch you with a ten foot pole sounds broke i can smell the brook here

06:20:54.720 your xd donated thirty dollars the only thing you offer to them is your crotch your chest and your

06:21:01.120 butthole what the it's not art it's not creative it's just smut sorry but it will never be anything

06:21:07.680 more than your chest and your butthole my chest is worth like 15k where did it come where did the

06:21:13.600 term gaslighting come from any one of you have an idea for a dictionary

06:21:21.680 oh it came from gaslighting came from from euphoria pasty george donated thirty dollars

06:21:28.000 a lot of men in the chat would agree that chair two is nothing extraordinary but she's not unattractive

06:21:33.520 either she's made it best and a dime a dozen do you want to respond to the mid accusations

06:21:40.640 i don't agree with it what the fuck and nor would it nor would do you want to respond to the

06:21:47.200 never heard anybody say do you want to respond to the allegations against you

06:21:50.560 sure i don't agree with it do you want to respond yeah i don't agree with it stop

06:21:56.000 i'm not mid you're an asshole

06:22:01.520 i'm not what am i doing i'm just saying do you want to respond to the mid

06:22:06.240 i'm a gentleman i'm a feminist i'm as i'm giving her

06:22:10.240 not and um i'm a feminist i'm not mid and you know you're probably just sad because you can't get

06:22:17.280 it with me if i saw you in real life you i wouldn't want you what wait who wrote that was

06:22:22.640 it pasty george who wrote that pasty george you're just

06:22:29.200 he's a flop

06:22:29.760 i got them it's uh it's normally how i take it walmart they don't make them anymore though sadly okay

06:22:46.320 thank you name taken name taken donated thirty dollars rest assured share three uh subscribers

06:22:53.920 don't watch your content because of your creativity they're only there to bust so long as you succeed

06:23:00.080 in making them do that they are happy that's good though as long as they're watching all right uh we

06:23:07.600 have some super chats i'm gonna read or maybe felicity can you read these um really quick flory

06:23:13.040 thank for the this is 40 euros thank you flory chair two three four your pride is based on

06:23:20.160 compliments men give you when they can i say that word just yeah keep going so they can disappear

06:23:26.400 faster your only contribution to society is an open door and this one was already public health risk

06:23:34.880 chair five if someone spray painted a peen and balls on an airplane is that art

06:23:40.080 it's probably yeah to each his own um it's like yeah

06:23:47.280 shout out from tuscaloosa alabama tuscaloosa it's okay tuscaloosa alabama trump is coming here in a few

06:23:53.760 days for common sense comments comments sorry i misread that comments i think jim bob is drastically

06:24:01.200 underestimated in debate sorry your computer is that kind of i want to see him more did you vote brian if

06:24:07.840 so who did you vote for on the last election i voted for trump uh aaron chambers thank you by the

06:24:15.680 way aaron chambers you the 49.99 that means you did you send it from an iphone you sent it from an iphone

06:24:23.840 you sent it from ios apple this is a new thing apple takes 30 percent then youtube takes 30 percent of

06:24:32.320 what's left you're giving i so if you send in if you sent in 100 i would end up with 49

06:24:41.360 you're giving more than 50 away to apple and youtube if you're using youtube super chats through ios try

06:24:48.080 if you guys can look thankful but try to do it through stream labs that way they're just not taking

06:24:53.280 this brutal cut it's ridiculous that they're taking more than 50 of a super chat um if you're doing it

06:24:59.360 through uh ios yo peaceful patron thank you for the super chat appreciate it thank you thank you we

06:25:04.880 have some more that are coming in through stream labs speaking of hold on let me get these pulled

06:25:11.600 boom based robert mugavi robert underscore mugavi donated 29 and 99 cents the privilege of these women

06:25:20.880 are crazy nothing special on this panel below mid send them to my country where bullying is allowed

06:25:28.400 life on easy mode for below average things yo otis driftwood donated 30 dollars

06:25:36.560 kidneys for degenerates plastic surgery is for uglies chair three four lose some weight don't find it

06:25:44.960 when the bear assay you and then eats you alive will you rethink the choice then jbw brian w

06:25:51.440 i'm gonna go get lipo again i'm not gonna go to the gym yo oh this good to see you in the chat man

06:25:55.200 appreciate the message uh okay so going back to ruby's notes uh did you have more thoughts on the

06:26:02.160 like the of stuff no like i said i i just think you are beautiful and you have a lot of value and you

06:26:10.160 have more to offer than your body that's all i mean only fans is like my is what really like almost

06:26:22.800 saved me from being broke and not doing anything with my life and i feel valued in what i do do you

06:26:30.640 hold more value than we do because you do you hold more value than we do because you don't do onlyfans

06:26:37.600 um yes or no that's a good question i'm not it's not anything crazy i'm just asking like personally

06:26:44.560 you don't have onlyfans you don't have onlyfans you don't have onlyfans you don't do you feel like you

06:26:48.560 hold more value because you don't do onlyfans i think we all have equal value it's just that i'm

06:26:55.120 because you have a little bit more value because you don't have onlyfans no no no no i think we all

06:27:00.240 have the same value and because i acknowledge that we have value i'm just able more reserve that's

06:27:10.080 it would you say she's more value she's more valuable to other women and neither young girls

06:27:16.400 no i mean she hope obviously she holds more value in her head just like the other girls here

06:27:23.520 they hold more value because they don't do onlyfans because they're not sure regardless of what she

06:27:28.880 thinks no i mean to each his own i feel she said not to each his own no no no no that's

06:27:33.520 bullshit to each his own is how you get a society to fucking implode to each his own no what she's

06:27:40.000 saying is that she acting out in the world uh provides better quality and value to other human

06:27:47.520 beings including women as an example of being a woman than women who sell pornography and sell their

06:27:53.200 folds and holds online okay and she's right she does okay yeah okay that's it all right yeah all right

06:28:03.360 uh ruby i saw something on your instagram about like the the trinity or something oh yeah

06:28:08.640 yeah yeah what about it so but you're like questioning the trinity or no no no um so for

06:28:16.560 me it was um i grew up in a very religious like background like borderline culty um and you know my

06:28:24.720 parents were able to get away from that um and i always guys stop talking i always believed in in

06:28:32.160 god but i just didn't really understand what the trinity was so that's when i really started

06:28:40.000 reading into it just to get a better understanding because when you're reading the bible you know it

06:28:43.840 talks about jesus and talks about god and it talks about the holy spirit and i kind of did my own

06:28:49.680 research to try to understand the trinity better and i just put that information onto a post to

06:28:55.200 maybe help out anybody else who is trying to understand what the trinity is we're not going

06:29:00.960 to get into into that okay um yo on screen with levine thank you for the super chat uh we're going

06:29:07.680 to do the tts is still active but we're going to do some more notes here going to carly how many more

06:29:13.040 notes we got more notes chill out ladies god damn you know what here's the here's the crazy thing with

06:29:18.720 y'all if some of y'all just answered questions and just you know answered the question oh my god we

06:29:25.680 wouldn't be here for so long but it's on you no it's on you you guys take forever to answer a

06:29:30.800 fucking question no let me uh take five seconds to move my mouth to the mic and then oh can you

06:29:35.920 repeat the question i wasn't sorry i wasn't paying attention repeat the question that's on you you guys

06:29:40.240 just take forever to fucking answer questions and okay bring it up bring out the other bottle of

06:29:46.400 champagne too the fuck okay so carly your notes in your i think this is in your instagram bio you

06:29:53.840 say god is love are you christian um so yeah as i said earlier i consider myself having a relationship

06:30:01.120 with god and if i have to label it yeah i'd be non-denominational christian non-denominational

06:30:07.040 christian okay um so do you go to church or yeah i do which one um it's in redlands it's called truth

06:30:18.880 and triumph oh wow okay non-denomin okay uh i guess my question though is like so uh you don't do sex work

06:30:26.240 but i looked at your instagram and it's pretty immodest and look i don't really have much skin in the game but

06:30:34.720 isn't a component of christianity isn't there like i said i have a relationship with god i never said

06:30:41.280 like i had to be labeled as a religious person if you went what does that i don't understand what

06:30:47.280 that means though you go to church you go to church you claim to be christian but also let me just

06:30:54.960 disregard scripture i'm not disregarding it it's not it's i have a relationship with god there's a

06:31:00.960 difference it's not like i'm saying you know i'll ask i'm gonna defer to jim bob really quick but jim

06:31:06.080 bob uh just for the sake of time we can't be on that for too long jim bob is there a component of

06:31:11.440 christianity where either through scripture or bible verses uh there is a component of like you should be

06:31:19.120 dressed modestly or be modest yeah modesty is definitely a part of christianity but if you're

06:31:25.440 non-denominational don't uh non-denominational and you're just making it up on the fly she's

06:31:30.240 basically saying she has a customizable christianity where she believes generally in god and she goes to

06:31:36.960 a i do believe in god and i pray every day hold on your relationship with god is the thing that you

06:31:43.600 use as a shield so you can do these other things so when people question you and say are you being

06:31:48.400 christian you get to say well i have a relationship with god it's totally ambiguous you can't actually tell

06:31:53.600 me my relationship with god therefore i can do all of these things that's not why that's not why i say

06:31:58.160 that i say that because religion has such a strong title to it that it's miscued and i don't want to

06:32:04.240 be i'm actually just not a forceful person i feel like that's where when you say oh i'm a christian

06:32:09.440 it means like and when you're talking about god i actually do enjoy talking about god and i like

06:32:15.760 you know being able to bring people closer to god in the ways that i can and being helped and prayed

06:32:20.160 for and feel loved so when it comes to god he's not forceful and i just like to take that dynamic

06:32:27.280 out of the whole thing because religion can be seen as scary to most people because they've grown

06:32:33.680 up in environments that are religions not forceful um it can be like even in the bible it talks about how

06:32:42.400 you shouldn't be religious you should have a relationship with god it literally says that

06:32:47.440 you should you don't need to be religious that trades into a phariseum thought like it's the

06:32:53.760 it becomes so if if someone does something evil and we make what is evil illegal don't we use force

06:33:01.200 to put people in jail when they do something illegal that is also immoral so are you saying i'm just god's

06:33:09.600 not forceful that's all i have to say about um that's it so so you're saying don't use force to be godly

06:33:17.120 but also uh we should arrest people by using force who do evil things correct the only time they use

06:33:24.560 force is if it's necessary so if it's necessary to they tried in all the ways not to like how you're

06:33:32.560 trained on the i guess an officer is to de-escalate it the best way you can without using like physical

06:33:40.560 force or anything you know it's it starts with talking first and if it needs to be

06:33:46.880 negotiating yeah so so when someone um so someone is walking around indecently a man is walking around

06:33:54.400 indecently in front of children the best the best way is to take a negotiative action and be like let's

06:34:00.640 talk to this guy as opposed to use force to literally remove him from the street

06:34:05.760 right well you can always try to get the person to go away first and then an officer's not gonna

06:34:12.640 shoot them for can you pull up the juliette stuff really quick i just want to get that out

06:34:17.120 we'll come right back to it i'm sorry i just have to do it right now if you can get that pulled up

06:34:22.720 full f-11 okay so we got this girl right f-11 oh no ah okay it's scuffed um no it's gonna get

06:34:31.280 i'll scuff just leave it okay but window time okay so we had this girl who's gonna be on the

06:34:38.080 show today and so she flaked for april 20th my car's not starting 3 p.m by the way i have to get

06:34:43.600 it towed there is no way i'm making it okay you're wanting to reschedule so that's april 20th then we

06:34:47.920 reschedule it for today april 27th she says yes but then 3 45 mind you are we have a 4 p.m meet time

06:34:54.160 so last week april 20th she flaked at freaking an hour before the show which she was coming from

06:35:01.200 la she would have known sooner then she sends me this like cryptic vague 3 45 15 minutes before me

06:35:09.200 time well i tried also the pay is just not incentive enough it's low for the amount of work and i was

06:35:14.160 like huh what do you mean and then she just goes to me doesn't respond and then um also uh oh this

06:35:21.760 these are her pre-show notes it would have been good because living in a patriarchal world blah blah

06:35:26.720 blah and she's talking about got to be very giving in a relationship enthusiastic acting genuine but go

06:35:32.160 back to the other one if you can go back the opposite way so three four this is the rudest this is one of

06:35:37.840 the top rude things i've dealt with well i tried also the pay is just not incentive enough it's low for

06:35:43.600 the amount of work so it's like how are you gonna text somebody when you've we've already rescheduled

06:35:47.920 you you already flaked last minute how are you gonna send me a text 15 minutes before the show

06:35:53.680 saying well i tried the fuck does that mean you're her friend right what what was the excuse she gave

06:35:59.600 you her car yeah her car her car not starting yeah what what does that mean that that so that's what

06:36:07.600 happened the first time here put put it on a different tab if you can but so she said her her car

06:36:13.440 didn't start again uh we haven't been talking but you guys were like aren't you guys friends yeah

06:36:24.320 yeah that's fine um but what do you mean yeah we're friends but we don't talk all the time

06:36:32.800 i know but like she was like hey can i bring my friend carly i was like yeah okay

06:36:37.360 right yeah but but you drove here so why didn't she just carpool with you

06:36:42.240 because we're not we're not really talking right now wait so she didn't show up because you came

06:36:48.720 no i don't think that's it i think she would have definitely showed up still what do you mean you're

06:36:52.240 not talking we're just not talking right now it's like we're going through some stuff as friends

06:36:57.840 but she wanted to bring you like just a few days ago yes things happen in friendship especially female

06:37:05.200 once but i don't know this is why we okay hold on i was going to make a wage gap thing but um

06:37:13.520 so i'm just confused though so what did she did she text you at all like okay so she was going

06:37:20.880 through like a medical emergency thing right before um we stopped talking and then because she i was on it i

06:37:29.760 on it i was out and emergency there's not there's not a medical are you just making up a lie for no

06:37:36.080 i'm literally i was out all day you can you can go it's probably not up but she was on her story she

06:37:41.360 was like oh i'm dealing with a medical emergency right now she she fainted on the floor i don't

06:37:46.640 see a story i just see her at a fashion show yesterday right and oh medical emergency but

06:37:52.320 here's me at a fashion it was i'm looking at her story right now she's at a a few days ago she

06:37:57.360 really did have i have a few days ago but last night she was at the fashion show right yeah i'm

06:38:04.000 not talking so she's good now i haven't talked to her in a while like what's her medical thing

06:38:08.960 she got a bitch itis her medical thing was she had period cramps or something or too much blood or

06:38:14.320 passed out another perfect argument for the wage gap oh i'm gonna just no show a gig for the second

06:38:21.040 time because period the fuck well that was a i was a while ago so then what's the medical emergency

06:38:27.760 she was dealing with which prevented her from coming nothing tonight that was not okay so she's

06:38:32.640 just like a scumbag who just flakes on people

06:38:40.640 what this is called this is called i i know you guys as women you just want to move through you just

06:38:47.600 want to move through life and fuck people over and just have no regard for other people's times

06:38:53.760 and businesses guys quiet back there you want to just move that way without any accountability

06:38:59.680 but it's crazy to me that somebody she flaked an hour before the show last time she flaked 15

06:39:06.800 minutes before the show today if you're driving from la you know at least two hours before me time

06:39:13.440 if you're coming or not you know fuck that yeah she's a scumbag no your friend is a scumbag

06:39:21.440 uh well i'm not ever gonna say that she's not a scumbag yeah i'm sorry she's a flake but she's not

06:39:27.600 a yeah that makes you a scumbag in your yeah in my yes in my eyes that makes you a scumbag you flake

06:39:33.920 and then i'm i'm like okay we can reschedule you i accept it and then to just 15 minutes before the

06:39:40.080 show look if you're gonna cancel give me notice tell me give me an hour two hours three hours four

06:39:46.400 hours to 24 hours 48 hours let me know ahead of time i just think it's real scumbag behavior

06:39:52.720 if if you know you're not coming you tell the person as soon as you know if you leave if you're

06:39:59.840 living in uh uh la that's what i do i don't do that if you're living in la and you gotta be two hours

06:40:05.600 away you know you know two hours beforehand i'm just not coming i'm fully aware yeah so your friend's

06:40:12.160 a scumbag just saying super scummy should we pull up her instagram and put her on blast yo chat should

06:40:20.320 we i don't know don't pull it up yet i'll ask the chat what they want listen chat this is what i'm

06:40:26.240 dealing with i'm just dealing yeah she's shut up that's how i feel this girl didn't want to come

06:40:32.880 on my podcast if somebody doesn't want to come on the podcast what i'm trying to point out if somebody

06:40:39.120 doesn't want to come on the podcast fine but do so in a professional and respectful way that's

06:40:45.040 respectful of everybody else's time and my time give me advance notice this person i didn't know they were

06:40:50.240 gonna be here what how would that matter it was her friend how would that matter before and the last

06:40:56.080 time she's like an hour before uh i'm getting mixed they're saying yes do it it would have been nine

06:41:04.000 people that's not even number i don't think she's like she doesn't watch it huh you work here

06:41:13.600 what i was saying like she you probably sitting here because the other girl wasn't maybe or do you

06:41:18.000 like coming here all the time chat you want to pull it up i'm here every Sunday like you like

06:41:22.320 come on the show not like as a panelist every time or i was asking if it's oh she's asking if you're

06:41:28.240 filling in yeah the spot uh so nor i mean typically if there's an open spot then uh felicity felicity

06:41:38.160 will take the spot otherwise she's like sitting in the back yeah so yeah we were down we had a couple

06:41:44.800 flakes today uh then why are you pressing her huh then why are you pressing her friend what

06:41:52.400 then why are you pressing her friend i don't even understand if a couple people like

06:42:00.880 bagged off yeah sure are you worried about well so because she gave me the least amount of notice

06:42:07.520 so the other girls uh how many girls did you plan to have in total some something like 11 or 12 or

06:42:15.200 something i i overbook anticipating people are gonna flake but we're down like felicity shouldn't

06:42:21.600 be on the panel it should be her friend juliette who's a scumbag felicity what do what do people call

06:42:28.240 you the fuck that's my name felicity i know but what do people call you like do you have a nickname

06:42:33.120 that's they call her felicity what the i'm just asking because people might you think my

06:42:37.600 name is moddy you think i walk around oh my birth certificate is moddy no but it's more easier for

06:42:42.960 people to say moddy that's why i'm asking that's why i'm asking that's why i'm asking if you have a

06:42:48.560 nickname you know what i mean because like i do like your name for 19 30 tts

06:42:54.080 into a movie in the 40s that is gaslight yo clay and thanks so much man appreciate it we have

06:42:59.600 more coming through pasty george donated 30 i'm missing out on dating a future cat lady who will

06:43:07.600 post weekly crying videos online about men not marrying her or staying in a long-term relationship

06:43:13.360 with her pass i have self-respect and dignity

06:43:19.360 mellow underscore over donated 30 share two i see you stopped checking your hair

06:43:25.920 so what good comes from feminism happier families happier women why are to checking your hair

06:43:32.400 except you want men to spurt to you what have you said you haven't been here at all then

06:43:39.600 chair one can you do us a favor and stop you pursuing the mic for us thanks

06:43:45.520 how do you try to find her women eat with those big bunnies pumped up bike tie lips

06:43:50.000 oh looks like a monkey's bunnies on your face yeah i do need to get my lips dissolved

06:43:58.640 word okay uh we have some more coming through thank you oh sorry randy mic trigger twice i don't know

06:44:05.520 randy donated thirty dollars claim you already conceded the turdum by asking the speed of gravity when

06:44:12.400 gravity is not a speed but an acceleration now they're just agreeing money doesn't make you smart

06:44:20.000 argue more you already lost yo thank you man claim donated thirty dollars

06:44:26.320 recession we need to glow rachel wilson need more of her type on this planet not these delusional

06:44:32.640 meat sex with nothing to offer damn he didn't even spell delusional right nice pasty george donated

06:44:40.800 thirty dollars to chair two you were going to come on the show with your friend but now you do not

06:44:46.880 talk to her anymore i smell the bullshit i can prove it i mean we it's not like we don't talk

06:44:52.560 anymore but we haven't been talking it's it's like we're going through some stuff it's common

06:45:00.400 i mean i think to have this is dating what do you mean dating like you guys

06:45:06.080 no what she's literally just my friend and we're having friend issues and our whole friend but it

06:45:13.920 was thursday so you reached out on thursday about joining on the show and then so in the

06:45:20.000 thursday friday saturday in like a three-day period it was before that too we were already

06:45:24.400 having problems we were having collapsed we were having problems since like

06:45:30.080 last weekend actually we were having problems since the last weekend well honestly it's probably

06:45:35.040 good that you and your friend are having problems because your friend's a scumbag so

06:45:39.360 yeah just saying major scumbag so it's probably good like honestly tell us what's going on i'm

06:45:47.040 gonna side with you oh god spill spill the tea oh no spill the tea i'll side with you on your beef

06:45:54.880 with juliet really sensitive okay juliet no say what did she do she fucked your boyfriend oh god no

06:46:02.560 no no she wouldn't do something like that she stole your adderall she stole your adderall

06:46:08.960 i'm not pressing her i'm pressing juliet no i i do not i do not do any substances um i don't do any

06:46:14.480 substances of any kind she she she she stole a gig she fucking stole a gig didn't she no no she's not

06:46:20.160 a bad she's not a bad person she just has uh she deals with issues like she actually has autism guys so

06:46:26.640 she actually deals with like that kind of stuff and like adhd and all kinds of things that i just can't

06:46:30.960 handle all the time so um she you know i have autism and i still show up to appointments yeah

06:46:39.200 exactly so there's things that i'm a man of my word like if i'm gonna do something i'm gonna do it

06:46:44.160 right same so i'm i show up too what do you mean well not for you but i mean like yeah you know

06:46:50.400 i also when i say something i do it so i i that's something we also have a problem

06:46:55.680 okay you know what i'll give carly credit because her friend bailed and she still came you're a

06:47:02.480 gangster oh thank you you're a you're a g you're a real you're real g okay all right let's i'm gonna

06:47:08.400 move off of that oh wait you know what we got more chats uh i didn't even know if she sorry i just want

06:47:12.880 to say one thing i was still gonna come to because i since we're not talking i was fully ready for her

06:47:19.040 to just magically appear here too and i was like oh oh okay i don't know how that would have worked

06:47:23.760 out apparently you were not in the loop um so we have this pasty george donated thirty dollars

06:47:32.160 to chair two your friend bailing out at the last minute for the show is an entitled scumbag

06:47:37.600 anyone who does that is an entitled scumbag appreciate it stop doing that please sorry my bad

06:47:45.200 damn bro this is like one this is a feral panel bro y'all feral tonight

06:47:51.920 based for donated thirty dollars seven hours and four y'all are the typical arizona ghetto phoenix

06:47:58.880 three of fours copy and paste of the same modern chick only fans mindset boss babe delusion high

06:48:06.240 body count zero accountability what's your guys body count say it on three one two three

06:48:10.960 a thousand wait hold on speaking of speaking of body count uh do you guys think uh do you guys

06:48:17.840 think body count matters yes yes yes samantha you said men are insecure if they care about body count

06:48:23.360 uh just going around the table what's everybody's body count starting with felicity two uh let's go to

06:48:30.480 let's go to you

06:48:35.120 is that part of your autism right there i said it i said it what is it a million no what come on for

06:48:41.360 realsies i think maybe like honestly probably like 60. huh wait what

06:48:51.280 no that's cool i'm not judging i'm not judging but you said 60 i just want to make sure okay i respect

06:48:57.440 i thank you for sharing um 60 though right yeah okay what about you

06:49:08.720 how come when i said a thousand i was wrong ruby liked that one she didn't hurt her left

06:49:12.480 what is it

06:49:16.400 i don't know sorry why are we getting wipes out you got everybody who's taking their makeup off we

06:49:21.440 do a segment called makeup removal um body count body count like a hundred over a hundred okay what

06:49:27.360 about you carly this is crazy is that real wait what's yours can i i have like my face wash i got

06:49:35.040 like just take your makeup off everybody sorry i'm gonna make it take your makeup off what do you

06:49:39.840 well i'm not yeah i'm not gonna force you guys to do it but just do it to be good sports um body

06:49:43.360 count brother but don't complain about the show being long when you guys can't just answer

06:49:47.760 i'm sorry i'm still thinking about um six okay six low i can count on one hand and i still have

06:49:56.240 fingers left but out of respect for my future husband i'm not gonna talk about sexual specifics

06:50:00.480 with another man okay zero body count um i can't disclose it because i have my funds paying for

06:50:08.320 this information what shut the fuck up come on bro that's crazy i just made a number up because

06:50:24.640 you asked me to talk oh so it's higher no it was just i'm just making it doesn't matter so it's like

06:50:30.800 a hundred girl this isn't real it's the internet this isn't real it's the internet ruby i declined

06:50:39.520 to answer sorry uh do you want to do a range a what like a you don't have to say the actual number but

06:50:45.040 like a range is it 10 to 20 or something like that she said like one to three

06:50:49.360 do you want to do a range i don't felicity or felicity you already did it right okay uh well

06:50:59.360 good talk uh here we got some more

06:51:10.080 you're getting caught up on the wrong issue true money does not denote intelligence

06:51:15.200 good job on chair one for catching the misspelling

06:51:20.880 justin martin's donated thirty dollars brian when's jim bob coming in person to fight chair one

06:51:27.840 should be a good match up yo i would first respectfully i would demolish him what the

06:51:33.840 well if we were playing by the rules of jiu-jitsu but i would just like literally i would just kill

06:51:40.640 you no whatever rules like it could be mma for you you can come to my gym and sign a waiver

06:51:46.240 whatever for you however you want to do it yeah however rules you want to do it no literally just

06:51:50.960 come sign the waiver you can do whatever you want but i'll do what i want uh-oh

06:51:55.520 she is a purple belt she's a purple like just do whatever you want like i don't care if you punch

06:51:59.840 but you can come through and sign a waiver and i'll whatever rolls out wait you actually want to

06:52:03.440 everyone with her jim bob so you're willing to die you would not kill me well that's what you're

06:52:10.720 saying but are you willing to are you willing to that's the insane thing uh you should be more

06:52:14.960 worried about me than i should be worried about you i understand you're talking but are you willing

06:52:19.120 to die you're you're silly i'm a professional and you don't do jujitsu i know but we're not doing

06:52:25.760 jujitsu oh wait you guys want to do a street fight i'm gonna do you give mma wait is this a

06:52:32.160 street fight or what is this i thought you guys were all no rules no rules but you're bringing a gun

06:52:38.160 oh no rules okay all right i i said you can punch and stuff like that's fine i'm not gonna punch you

06:52:44.400 i'm just gonna choke you out what the hell that's what they do that's what they teach you that's what

06:52:48.480 i know something my son i have my son in jujitsu that's what they teach you they literally it's real

06:52:53.760 shit yo me i'm all just no i have my son in jujitsu yeah it's real shit he's like no rules i'm like

06:53:00.400 okay even if you punch that's what it's like it's literally like they literally teach you like for

06:53:06.000 real i looked up the definition of mid and it had your busted picture i don't i'm not into dumb

06:53:10.720 shit and i second that one of chair fours in chillard and chair four locks like taming rdb what a

06:53:16.720 hater fucking hater dude josh donated thirty dollars kind of funny how pink chick would

06:53:23.360 rather be with a bear in a forest than a man but also desires to be in dark hot sweaty nightclubs

06:53:29.920 filled with random men all around this is an interesting point josh this is an interesting

06:53:34.480 point josh they're like oh i would rather uh i would rather a bear but y'all will have like a

06:53:41.680 one night stand with a random dude um i don't know i do not do one night put that on the ground

06:53:47.280 the oh did everybody take you guys not gonna do the makeup thing no i don't have one night

06:53:53.680 right me neither yeah it's disgusting if i pay if i pay you two dollars two dollars will you do

06:54:00.480 take the makeup off you know how much makeup's worth he said two dollars i got two dollars bills

06:54:07.120 here oh that's so hot are those worth anything that's hot you know how much this is worth

06:54:12.640 question two dollars are they the good ones let me see that little number

06:54:17.920 sometimes they're worth way more uh here i gotta read some super chats uh okay we have david thank

06:54:24.320 you for the super flaky people are the worst 100 good to see in the chat david uh 10 of women are

06:54:29.360 punctual they're the true time yeah uh we have john veliquet in the bible it is the fool who hates

06:54:34.720 correction we all have plenty to be shamed of the shame and conviction of spirit should cause us to

06:54:39.360 change and jesus christ is the exemplar and lord john thank you for the super chat man really appreciate

06:54:44.560 it good to see you all right uh 30 tts i think we're almost done with all the pre-show notes oh my

06:54:49.520 god hopefully gonna get this wrapped up within the next 10 10 minutes or so uh let's see we were

06:54:54.640 talking about your notes you guys were having a back and forth uh i guess on stuff on if you wanted to

06:55:00.240 continue it or just move it along back and forth the way uh jim bob you were having a back and forth

06:55:05.360 with carly yes um do you want to continue that or just should we just oh no i just want to ask you

06:55:12.320 one thing uh chair one have you ever been taking your little chin yes what'd she say i'll be fine

06:55:18.400 if you punch me in my chin yes have you by a man who punched you full force in the little in the

06:55:23.680 little chin yes that happened yes a little chin and did you get knocked out no i can take a punch

06:55:32.640 and even if you punched me i would get up and jujitsu you i would choke you out she would i can take a

06:55:37.280 punch i'm a professional athlete and i would i would win that match no matter what you're doing to

06:55:41.600 me are we actually gonna do this i'll hope you have you have you been have you went to an mma gym

06:55:48.080 have you went to a jiu-jitsu gym have you ever have you ever yeah

06:55:54.640 my little chin i'm a professional athlete he's like you're a little realistically

06:55:59.680 it's different it's different honestly so even okay so my son he's been in jiu-jitsu two years

06:56:03.840 she's been in her whole life it's very different almost four years that's what so if you know

06:56:08.800 anyone but in general if you know it's very like i used to it's very it's very real they

06:56:13.600 take it very serious it's very real because you train because you're putting your whole body into

06:56:17.440 it mma fighters who literally are in like ufc and whatnot i don't even know what you're talking

06:56:22.000 what are you talking about what are you talking about what are you talking about what are you

06:56:24.960 talking about okay jitsu brother uh all right we have uh pat pasty here we go pasty george donated

06:56:31.520 thirty dollars chair one you would be demolished by a man with no rules and fist to bone

06:56:37.280 stop with your delusion you might as well say that you could take on a wild bear you guys should

06:56:42.960 watch her youtube um watch her highlights i'm a professional athlete and jim bob can come to uh

06:56:48.880 uh i'm five four and a half wait plug your youtube yeah um taylor and more on youtube i'm a professional

06:56:54.880 jiu-jitsu athlete and he can come to my gym and sign the waiver where did this animosity all of a sudden

06:56:59.520 come from you don't want to listen but it's a jiu-jitsu thing you don't want to listen but it's a

06:57:04.480 jiu-jitsu mma thing because they're literally professionally trained to whoop your ass lady

06:57:10.000 no brother i don't want to literally that's why because they she knows that's what like you guys

06:57:15.600 aren't getting it she knows that's why she's like come on let's do it because you're 130 right

06:57:20.400 i'm 135 yeah okay i'm five four and a half and then who what was the size and the weight of the

06:57:27.280 person the man who punched you in the little chin i've literally had jiu-jitsu i had a jiu-jitsu match

06:57:32.400 against a trans athlete who's over 200 pounds and i won that match i've done the absolute division

06:57:38.080 yes it was on fox news wow so the man so who's the man who punched you in the face you said i

06:57:44.560 didn't say your jiu-jitsu uh competition i said you said you were punched in the face in your little

06:57:49.120 chinny chin chin by a man i said i asked you how how much did that man weigh about 180.

06:57:55.200 at many quite a quite a few i've done mma sparring

06:58:02.240 sparring yeah oh sparring oh sparring okay okay now i understand what you think where your delusion

06:58:08.160 comes from uh no you can come to the gym i would love for the whatever podcast to host that no come

06:58:14.000 to the gym come to the gym you can punch me all you want promise i won't cry if you win that's fine

06:58:19.040 come to the gym you can punch i won't punch you yeah you can punch me in the face and i will double

06:58:24.240 like you clear onto the mat and win that match and if she wins no it can be however you want it

06:58:30.880 however you want it i will double like you clear onto the mat and then or i will guillotine you yeah

06:58:36.720 however you want to do it uh-oh however you want you'll you'll take a full punch from yes

06:58:44.880 we will we will shake hands and then we will go at it and i will get up and you will be on

06:58:50.080 the ground unconscious she did not come to play she's very confident she's because she's confident

06:58:57.200 you can punch that's fine but i don't think you're even gonna land it that's the thing you don't have

06:59:02.800 to even show up to the i've had she'll catch you on one or multiple absolute matches about people

06:59:07.600 who are over 200 pounds here's what i'll do have you ever been knocked out cold what the

06:59:12.400 fuck bro you can try it you can try i told you to come to the gym oh damn she she wants to

06:59:18.080 i told you to come to the gym i don't want to talk about it i don't want to talk anymore i want you to

06:59:22.560 come to the gym little judge i want you to come to the gym i don't want to talk about it this is

06:59:27.040 tiny timmy what the fuck come to the gym i don't want to talk about it you come you sign waiver you

06:59:31.440 come you show you sign waiver i asked you a simple question just saying you sign waiver

06:59:36.360 you sound like you sound like the cubans out of my club vip we go to vip i know i'm like i don't

06:59:42.140 want to talk about it i want you to keep asking i want you to show up sign waiver shake hands

06:59:47.680 such a simple question like no no one has succeeded question guys guys have you ever

06:59:52.600 been knocked out cold have you ever been choked out cold because you can if you show up to the

06:59:56.980 gym you can oh you can it can happen again for you too come to the gym it can happen again come to

07:00:04.860 the gym the question come to the gym and it will happen okay guys guys guys hold on hold on hold

07:00:09.040 on so she can't answer your question here i will we can talk behind the scenes and if you guys want

07:00:14.240 to get it arranged we'll do it but just for the sake of time i'm gonna move it on but that's taylor and

07:00:18.960 more uh youtube watch my highlights mother donated 30 dollars ladies please help my son brian

07:00:26.960 he won't pay for dates i'm already working on the gift i'm already working on the gift

07:00:41.040 the deluded confidence of women who do martial arts is honestly pretty exhausting i'm not just a woman

07:00:49.220 who randomly trains i'm a full-time professional athlete so it's a little bit different i don't do

07:00:53.800 you anything else other than train reap what you so donated 30 thank you chair one's arrogance will

07:01:00.260 be her downfall even if an average size athletic male punched her with all his strength in the face

07:01:06.140 he would break her face men are soft on her in the gym for this reason

07:01:10.520 gracie oh gracie thank you donated 30 dollars you were the best but you were the worst as sick as it

07:01:19.860 sounds i loved you first i was a joyful it is what it is a habit to kick the age-old curse i tend to

07:01:28.520 laugh whenever i'm sad i stare arm wrestle on stream but thank you david uh brady harvey bra i'm a three

07:01:34.920 stripe white belt and don't get subbed by the female brown belts well i did hear something like

07:01:40.800 like so an untrained guy is gonna get smashed by um like a girl who's like maybe purple belt and up

07:01:50.460 maybe blue belt and up but like a guy who's a blue belt is gonna smash even female black belts

07:01:56.660 depends on the size but for sure i mean i i don't know that's maybe it's a bit off but that's what

07:02:01.900 i've heard um we have emotional damage here but brady think for the 50 fucking bitch chair four seems to

07:02:07.520 know so much about jujitsu she talks about going to a gym but her body looks like she ate a gym

07:02:12.040 chair four has no business talking about physical activity other than opening her mouth for for deer

07:02:19.880 food that's crazy emotional damage those are my two favorite things that's crazy thank you for the

07:02:23.400 super chat though uh thank you thank you thank you for the super chat guys appreciate it i thought

07:02:27.480 you said you were gonna make it $30 tts guys $30 tts um okay let's see oh my damn y'all are crazy

07:02:34.480 hold on sign these nuts this is crazy sign these nuts donated $30 these 304s are delusional as

07:02:42.080 fuck y'all ain't doing shit and would get knocked the fuck out you know y'all will get y'all asses beat

07:02:48.400 stop the damn cap who are you talking to here learn how to check out my highlights please

07:02:53.960 pasty george donated $30 share one i checked your videos you would get demolished by a man with no

07:03:02.100 rules and fist to bone those guys were taking it easy on you and it shows in the videos

07:03:08.260 stop the delusion what guys in my videos are you talking about i have my jujitsu highlights against

07:03:14.100 women and in my and i had it um i won a match against a 200 pounds trans individual

07:03:21.700 she said i wasn't even looking until okay guys literally no stop i swear i wasn't

07:03:28.420 i did not watch it i was just thinking

07:03:30.100 donated $30 hyenas in chair three and four constant hyena laughing is extremely frustrating

07:03:37.300 pure audio torture both here to try which they flaked salute to brian and jim wink wink at felicity

07:03:46.180 how do i take my eyes off you who felicity

07:03:54.740 all right by the way quentin um we're probably gonna get this wrapped up soon but um if you want

07:03:59.220 we'll do we'll do for you quentin hard stop at 12 30 if you need to get out of here just fyi for you

07:04:04.100 quentin if you need to uh i know you might have stuff going on um so that's like 10 minutes um

07:04:09.220 um uh let's see i think oh final notes here for our home girl

07:04:19.060 carly wow i knew you were i was like waiting for the c to come out uh carly you you write guys really

07:04:28.180 just want to f these days and will love bomb you so hard to get it it's crazy how far they'll actually

07:04:34.100 go but sleep with them or don't that's all the same outcome based off of my experience and others

07:04:40.900 can any guy out there wait till marriage are you waiting till marriage if the right guy came along

07:04:48.500 and wanted to do it too if he wanted to wait till marriage yeah if we yeah but you would also hit

07:04:53.780 on first date like jake gyllenhaal jake gyllenhaal's like trying to smash boom i i said earlier i don't

07:05:00.660 do one night stands okay on the second date jake gyllenhaal's trying to smash you're smashing bruv

07:05:06.500 ruby's smashing you see how she's celibate ruby to me it's not about it's not about sex in the

07:05:15.540 relationship that's not or dating isn't about that i don't know what you're saying that's not what i was

07:05:19.780 asking i was just would you try to see if i would hit it no that's not that's not the way so jake

07:05:25.460 gyllenhaal tries to hit on the second date but you know if you don't smash he's just he's gone

07:05:31.300 forever you don't smash that's not that shouldn't be the reason to stay so no so the word is no for

07:05:39.300 you wants to smash you just let it go but you're not a virgin i mean i don't know you said your body

07:05:44.580 counts like what 10 or something or six is he pursuing a relationship with me sure but he wants

07:05:49.700 to smash on the second date and does it mean we're going to get into a relationship i've already talked

07:05:54.580 about it like i i usually relationship but i don't even i don't even like to date like i don't like

07:05:59.300 to smash guys before we're in a relationship she doesn't do hypotheticals remember you want to

07:06:04.580 know yeah carnal knowledge she doesn't like smash we'll say carnal knowledge i don't like to have

07:06:10.900 yeah i don't like to have sex while we're dating i want to like be in a relationship first

07:06:17.140 that's ideal to be in a relationship but why can any guy out there wait till marriage

07:06:21.860 would you have waited till marriage if you wouldn't have got it going yeah that's all over

07:06:28.500 the place um you said when a guy asks you what you bring to the table instead of wanting to provide

07:06:32.980 maybe he should just date a man

07:06:37.620 right because if he wants me to provide then maybe he should date a provider

07:06:42.100 command what wait so if a guy asks a woman what they bring to the table

07:06:53.540 when men ask what women bring to the table they're not talking about money they're not talking about

07:06:57.860 resources or finances sometimes they are because i got asked would you treat me by a guy like oh

07:07:03.460 were you gonna treat me are you gonna take me out so that's what it was in reference to he's a male

07:07:09.940 model oh okay i'm sure that fashion show that's where i met him but what do women bring to the

07:07:17.220 table we talked about it earlier emotional support yeah neck to the head but don't men bring emotional

07:07:23.540 support too in a way they let me ask this let me ask this so the thing that men bring that women don't

07:07:32.020 bring is protect protecting and providing right like those are the things you would maybe like leadership

07:07:38.500 whatever so what are the things that women uniquely bring to the table that men don't or can't

07:07:52.260 the portal of life the fuck yeah i i don't i don't uh want to have children yeah that's but

07:08:00.980 what do women uniquely bring in the same way that men are providers protectors leaders

07:08:07.140 caregivers caregivers nurturers we do a lot in terms of being there for the man like they

07:08:12.820 say what's an example behind every great man there's a good woman give me an example of what

07:08:17.460 it means to give me an example of caregiving or nurturing well if you like you said the man's

07:08:23.780 providing and taking care of the woman she's going to be at home cooking cleaning we already talked about

07:08:29.940 it and he's out here on his own mind so cooking and cleaning okay you'll do that yeah i mean cooking

07:08:38.580 cleaning but you're you're like someone you can talk to emotionally in the relationship and that

07:08:43.780 would go the other way you can add a lot of different aspects like women and men think

07:08:47.380 different so he can use like that to his advantage too what oh she got she got the vein popping

07:08:53.460 the mic's kind of blocking it but i'm sorry ma'am i'm you didn't give me chop you didn't ma'am you

07:09:00.180 didn't give me chopsticks at my table can i have some chopsticks oh there they are

07:09:05.620 oh okay all right i think that's pretty much it for all the notes let me just double check here

07:09:09.860 make sure we got through everything uh yeah i think we got through pretty much everything we did

07:09:15.940 uh is juliet an escort what oh here is she an escort no julia oh i don't know oh no okay never mind um

07:09:29.060 the page man that would have been good she wanted to talk about the patriarchy

07:09:33.140 uh that would have been good okay so we did ruby okay yeah we did we uh were there any other reacts

07:09:40.180 quentin that we were supposed to pull up or i think we got through everything right sweet wait

07:09:45.860 it okay uh so we have this chat guys final call guys it's gonna be a final call on the tts

07:09:54.100 donated 30 dollars final call chair one there's no doubt that you can win jujitsu matches because

07:09:59.940 there are rules however in real fights with no rules you would get hurt or worse final call

07:10:08.340 final call on the tts if anybody wants to get the last one in any final thoughts from any of the

07:10:13.220 the ten list before i wrap this up speak yeah i wanted to know if uh if you've ever been bitten in

07:10:18.980 the larynx watch wow i'm sorry that i hurt your feelings enough for you to ask me if i've ever been

07:10:30.580 bitten in the larynx yeah have you ever been bitten in the larynx no no you can't bite you can't buy

07:10:37.380 if we're gonna have a match that's the rule i don't care if you punch me because i don't even think

07:10:40.740 you're gonna land i think i would just double like you um but no biting allowed um i am gonna

07:10:46.420 set that rule you can't bite me you can show up to the gym but if you bite me um then i i'm gonna

07:10:52.180 have to break your arm if you bite me so if you bite me i will break your arm and those are my rules

07:10:58.980 even if you tap i'll break your arm if you've bitten me but not if i bite your arm what i'll definitely

07:11:05.860 break it if you bite me all right okay i'll get all your fingers off any final thoughts from any of

07:11:15.380 the other uh panelists speak now oh yeah oh hold up show us the damage on the hold it up hold it up

07:11:24.580 oh god damn i felt a bit oily oh you took it well

07:11:34.660 she almost got me

07:11:35.700 that's funny he's all wow

07:11:39.860 almost got me uh

07:11:43.300 all right uh if there's any others that are coming through i'll let them come through but i'll kind of

07:11:47.540 get through the outro here okay so i'd like to end the show by seeing if we can't use this as a moment

07:11:52.180 as an opportunity to give a call to action to you to you and to you would you guys consider stopping

07:11:58.500 sex work entirely tonight no no why okay i tried that's it that's it i tried okay that's all the

07:12:06.420 effort i'm putting into that so uh okay we talked about my guys also just want to remind you i get the

07:12:14.500 most beautiful women on the most beautiful women on my show we had a 10 a nine point something a 12 or

07:12:21.140 15. shut the shut the fuck up i am i am are you you know what i'm not playing none of this fake

07:12:29.220 shit talking about no no no fake ass earlier what did he say first of all none of you are

07:12:35.060 fantastic he said 10s don't exist yeah he said 10s don't exist i know but look we can't be 10s

07:12:41.460 i'm just saying i get the most beautiful women on the panel like i am a i should start a modeling

07:12:48.260 agency with the amount of beautiful women that are just coming through my studio

07:12:55.460 like thank you for being just like i feel the aura from all of you you guys so evil i literally am a

07:13:01.780 model what's that you dm you left a comment on my pose to me i'm not talking about you you're hating

07:13:06.820 on me what do you mean you said that no earlier how am i hating none of us are 10s yeah he's being

07:13:12.500 sarcastic he's being sarcastic right now he still means it he still means it yeah i guess wait i'm

07:13:16.820 confused what i think he called himself a four they don't understand okay i think they do i

07:13:22.020 might be a four today i feel like i'm a little he's not the most beautiful glorious i'm a little

07:13:27.380 i'm a little blurry holy looking women wait so what nothing i was just saying you're evil because

07:13:32.420 you're hating but but it's not hating bro it's not what is it what is it what is it it's not

07:13:36.980 hating to be honest right now i don't need to he's guiding you he's guiding me he's guiding me

07:13:42.820 i'm guiding you with the with the crystals and the taurus what is behind what's with this yeah

07:13:51.220 make sure the energy is legit you believe in that not really yeah i know he didn't you didn't just

07:13:56.980 come across as this i'm not a crystal how much did you pay for each one like 25 brand are you a

07:14:01.620 taurus where'd you get them 10 bucks i don't know um so let me guys let me wrap the show come on guys

07:14:07.460 let me wrap the show oh now um wait shit what was that what was the thing sorry guys what was

07:14:12.500 the thing it's uh 12 30 oh my god it's 12 30 you said my name is mac and uh i go out to the bars

07:14:20.100 and clubs and i don't go to bars it's past my bedtime i'm okay i go to college parties and i uh

07:14:26.020 drink white claws okay i don't drink white claws are good she doesn't drink i don't drink

07:14:30.340 on everything i drink i believe that she doesn't drink it's like white claws tastes like my name

07:14:35.300 is mac okay so anyways wait what damn what was the thing are you really autistic yes i had you

07:14:42.260 you haven't detected i just don't want to be rude i think i haven't detected the levels of autism here

07:14:46.580 oh yeah i think that's why i trained jujitsu wait what i think that i was making a joke that i

07:14:52.340 think that oh that's why you do jujitsu because you have autism i was i don't know but you don't

07:14:56.820 actually think i think wow jim bob threatening you there i know yeah stop that really hurt you

07:15:02.900 i'm sorry jim bob what no this is a black power fist sorry no i'll um no tell your wife i'm sorry

07:15:12.180 hearing chair one claiming to beat a man in no rules fight is like hearing a man saying that he

07:15:17.620 could take on a wild bear i'm specifically talking about jim bob though oh what is a woman that's what

07:15:23.700 i wanted to ask what is a woman what is a woman somebody with xx chromosomes who is born a woman

07:15:29.460 who identifies as a woman right now the fuck okay yeah i'm gonna piggyback off of that if you were born

07:15:37.140 at birth a woman if you're born a female at birth you're a woman okay a woman yeah what is someone

07:15:44.740 oh what is a woman yeah someone with ass and tits and pussy but earlier weren't you like i never said

07:15:51.060 none of that okay that was the medical yeah that's quick quick quick quick oh my god answer

07:15:58.180 the question holy shit bad bitches i don't know i need to get quentin some in and out

07:16:02.420 bitches i want some quentin the fucking taranty oh go ahead xx chromosome okay what is a woman

07:16:11.780 what taylor said no what what you said okay biologically a woman i don't know yeah identifies

07:16:17.540 a woman based um wait oh wait identifies as a woman i don't know like she at birth yes at birth

07:16:30.900 person who is born with xx chromosome all right there it is folks there it is that's what a woman

07:16:35.700 is good job good job i'm so proud of all of you thank you so gg appreciate it well played to the

07:16:40.900 panel last call hit the like button please on your way out you could have been anywhere in the world but

07:16:46.340 you're here with me i appreciate that thank you to everyone who super chats donates and supports the

07:16:52.420 show i want to give a big shout out to my boy back there quentin on the ones and twos w's in the chat

07:16:58.500 for quentin guys we will be live again sunday at or wait are we doing a debate oh we might be doing a

07:17:04.660 debate i think that's on saturday wait yeah we're actually i think we're doing a debate on saturday

07:17:11.700 wait i think saturday but anyways dating talk will be back sunday 5 p.m pacific thank you to

07:17:17.860 everyone who super chats donates and supports the show thank you guys so much any girls who want to

07:17:21.780 be on the show you can dm out whatever on instagram if you can make it to santa barbara

07:17:24.820 uh oh sevens in the chat let me just double check oh sorry two more chats came through

07:17:29.220 gonna let these through guys

07:17:30.260 just two three donated fifty dollars share one w nba players are pro athletes too but have no

07:17:41.300 chance against street players chair five deporting prostitutes like you is real creativity what

07:17:48.580 the hell

07:17:54.500 justin martin's donated thirty dollars i'm so happy right now you gotta make this fight happen brian

07:18:02.100 consider it payback for making us listen to these delusional harpies week after week

07:18:08.020 i'm waiting will do will do okay so uh let me just double check make sure we're all good on

07:18:13.380 everything i think everything looks good we're good to go um and that was final thoughts

07:18:18.500 from everybody just want to double check this was fun can you set up the match as my final

07:18:24.580 thoughts yeah i'll be there yeah i'll fight any you bitches you don't have to do anything quentin

07:18:30.580 i'll just yeah you're fine no you're all good all good thank you uh so okay guys wait sorry one

07:18:36.100 let me just double check no we're good okay oh seven's in the chat oh seven's in the chat

07:18:41.540 good night guys i hope you guys have a good night and we will see you guys i believe saturday for

07:18:46.580 debate sunday for the next dating talk good night guys

Whatever Podcast - April 28, 2025

Perfect ＂10＂ WILL NOT Settle For LESS Than Jake Gyllenhaal？! SUPER FERAL PANEL？! ｜ Dating Talk #240

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