Whatever Podcast - She Called Him FAT？! If Men SHOULD Take A Bullet For Her, What SHOULD Women Do？!

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00:03:19.680 the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age occupation where you're from in

00:03:28.080 education go ahead hello my name is reagan gallegos i'm from boise idaho i'm a landscaper

00:03:35.280 and um high school diploma age i nailed it all 29 29 and you said sir you're a landscaper i am i started

00:03:45.560 my own company three years ago what kind of is it a specific kind of everything in the landscaping

00:03:51.820 what's that i stay in the beds so i don't touch the lawns no mow and blow i'll do any pruning i call

00:03:58.880 myself a pruning princess and i'll trim any small trees oh my god that's the third time a laptop came

00:04:07.460 out of nowhere okay um i put the can i'm mexican

00:04:12.520 okay uh all right cool what about you my name is christina jones i'm 40 years old i am an actress

00:04:25.440 model and hairstylist from wisconsin and i went to martin's college of cosmetology

00:04:33.300 are you actually 40 yes okay you look you actually uh look younger than than 40 uh and you said my age

00:04:42.880 range i play is definitely not 40. take that off you said uh you're from where again sorry wisconsin

00:04:50.920 wisconsin fond de lak wisconsin there you go and did you get a degree in anything or

00:04:57.640 cosmetology cosmetology and uh real estate okay real estate agent too what about you my name is

00:05:04.160 lily kate i'm 23 i'm from the woodlands texas and i am a business owner of a small social media

00:05:12.100 management company i also do content creation and influencing even though i don't like that term that

00:05:17.820 much okay all right and any college or university oh no i was homeschooled though homeschooled okay

00:05:26.040 what about you my name is lily and i'm 20 years old uh now an international school international

00:05:36.140 student in ucsb and this is my first quarter here okay and uh where are you from china china what part

00:05:44.620 of china uh like the south of china okay that's to shanghai have you heard of that before near near

00:05:52.340 shanghai yes gotcha okay and uh what are you studying at university um because i study engineering

00:06:00.900 in my own university but here i study statistics statistics okay got it and uh you said it's like

00:06:09.020 an international school program how long are you planning to be here um i plan to be here for

00:06:16.380 two quarters but i'm not sure about how long i can stay here oh why why do you say that um because

00:06:24.360 actually i'm junior now i had to prepare for my master degree for some preparations yeah okay

00:06:32.460 and uh so you got here when did you get here like uh oh uh last month i think okay so you've only been

00:06:42.620 here for a month yes is it your first time in the u.s yes okay and your english is pretty good

00:06:49.660 did you study english in china yes like when i was three years old i began to start it got it okay

00:07:01.620 and uh so you're and you're planning to be here you said for a couple months basically

00:07:07.460 yes okay got it okay cool what about you hi my name is savannah craven entow i'm 23 years old

00:07:16.920 and i'm a full-time pro-life activist and i make youtube videos i went to college for musical theater

00:07:23.880 in new york city which is where i still live all right and are you from new york city no i was born

00:07:30.520 dc but grew up in south carolina got it okay welcome what about you um my name is roxy and i'm from

00:07:39.300 beijing china and um i'm a exchange student too uh my major is journalism and communication

00:07:49.820 okay how old are you uh 21 21 got it and uh you said you're from beijing yeah china got it

00:07:58.560 and uh or how long have you been here uh one month one month okay did you guys know each other

00:08:05.500 oh yeah okay so you came together yeah sort of okay gotcha and uh okay you're from beijing

00:08:12.920 you're here for you've been here and is it your first time in the united states yes okay cool all

00:08:18.840 right what about you my name is taina i'm 33 i'm from jersey city in jersey um and i'm i'm almost done with

00:08:28.000 my bachelor's at john jay but you know i'm a mom so trying to balance the two your uh bachelor's in

00:08:34.880 what uh bachelor's in english major law minor i'm a paralegal so paralegal okay very cool what about

00:08:41.840 you my name is callie i am a mother and i also run a pro-life pro-adoption organization called talk

00:08:49.060 about adoption age um i'll be 40 actually this august okay where are you from or virginia virginia

00:08:59.140 okay all right welcome what about you my name is nadia i am 30 years old i'm from jersey city

00:09:06.460 i am a server a live stream tiktok host and also an rbt registered behavioral tech i have some college

00:09:16.020 and um certified a cda okay cool um my name is jim bob um i'm a youtuber over at made by jim bob.com

00:09:26.020 i'm also a satirical cartoonist you can find my comic books at made by jim bob.com savage memes volume

00:09:32.980 three four and five and uh do we have those books yeah we do no no no i gave them they should be at your

00:09:39.940 house brian they're right there okay um and uh most people don't know this about me that i um i went to

00:09:46.980 school for metalsmithing so i i became uh an expert goldsmith platinum smith and silversmith but i quit

00:09:54.020 all of that to make funny jokes all right rock and roll well welcome everybody we're gonna go around

00:10:01.540 the table once more so what is your current relationship status if you're single how long

00:10:08.340 have you been single and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in go ahead

00:10:12.980 i've been single for like a year now and my longest relationship was four years one year longest

00:10:20.660 relationship four years uh was that the one that ended a year ago correct okay who broke up with who

00:10:27.700 i broke up with him why where do i begin uh uh political reasons and we just basically were not

00:10:41.940 going the right direction in life we want different things um i couldn't even spend my first two

00:10:49.220 christmases with his family because i was unvaccinated you were unvaccinated so i was not allowed in the house

00:10:57.860 what were the political or the you said political reasons

00:11:04.580 i'm red he's blue

00:11:09.220 it was a discussion that his family would only talk about political things and it was just draining

00:11:16.260 and i'm sorry i'm from a mexican family that just wants to love and not talk about that kind of stuff so

00:11:22.740 okay there was just some tension sure okay um yeah that sounds good um

00:11:32.420 what about you uh scroll back up mary scroll up on that go ahead

00:11:39.780 i've been single

00:11:40.900 technically like 16 years my longest relationship was three years and single for 16 years it's a long

00:11:50.900 story longest three years who broke uh was that the the three-year one was that the one that ended 16

00:11:56.980 years ago that one ended 17 17 years ago

00:12:02.900 okay uh so you've not had a boyfriend in the past 16 years

00:12:10.740 not officially no not officially i've dated yeah what's the longest period of time in the 16 years

00:12:17.860 that you've uh seen a guy like you saw so i went eight and a half years without dating at all

00:12:24.660 and i was abstinent you're abstinent for eight years eight and a half celibate yeah uh when was that

00:12:34.180 held from from what age to what age that was 24 to 33 24 to 33 okay uh why

00:12:47.060 well um i got sober january 6 2010 um so before that prior to that um i had just bad relationships i

00:13:05.300 didn't want to i wanted to just be alone and then i met someone in sobriety but he couldn't stay clean

00:13:14.260 so i waited for him for eight and a half years okay um got it mary you can fix that so if you

00:13:24.100 sorry guys we've got a technical issue you see where it says scenes on the on the border uh no

00:13:34.180 on the border i'll just go but i'll just go fix it um okay can you tell us the story

00:13:39.140 which which i mean which part the juiciest um yeah i mean uh i met someone in uh na narcotics

00:13:51.060 anonymous i had six months clean when he came in and uh i was like a love at first sight situation

00:14:00.420 uh he couldn't stay clean in and out of jail but i loved him i wanted to wait for him

00:14:05.460 hopefully he could get it together and uh that did not happen so six and a half years ago i started

00:14:14.740 dating again and then uh for the last six and a half i would people don't i maybe the longest i've

00:14:24.820 seen someone is maybe like two months okay um so

00:14:37.060 how about recently though has there are there any guys in the picture

00:14:43.060 as of very recently yes

00:14:45.060 okay how many guys are in the picture one oh just one okay have you ever had a roster no

00:14:54.900 have you ever had a roster no never no never no

00:15:00.820 too messy what about you currently single my last relationship ended a month ago

00:15:06.980 um my longest relationship was four years and um it was with my neighbor back home super sweet

00:15:16.900 but his parents didn't like me so it wasn't gonna work

00:15:20.660 was that the one that ended the month ago no no that was um someone else okay broken off engagement

00:15:27.380 uh so the most recent relationship how long were you dating him we dated for nine months and then

00:15:34.900 got engaged after after nine months and then we were engaged for three i see okay yeah uh who broke

00:15:41.940 up with who he took the ring from my bathroom he took the ring from your bathroom yep okay

00:15:50.180 uh and then the four-year relationship who broke up with who i left him you left him okay all right

00:15:58.340 what about you uh i'm actually now in my first relationship okay for like um three months i thought

00:16:08.260 and it was the longest relationship yeah okay and is he uh is he here in the us no he's in china yes

00:16:20.500 uh we are the same college and we are in the same badminton school team so i just know him from the

00:16:29.540 from the game okay and you said it's your first ever relationship yes okay how did you guys meet was

00:16:36.900 there was it a dating app in person or uh just in person yeah on the badminton team uh yeah it's a badminton

00:16:44.260 okay are you are you good at badminton maybe i just can't say that because we lose the game

00:16:53.620 oh zed donated 200 oh thank you very cool panel tonight thank you very much appreciate it thank you

00:17:00.180 z uh all right uh okay what about you i'm happily married for four months and my longest relationship

00:17:10.260 relationship is the one that i'm in now how long have you guys been together yes since march 2023

00:17:17.140 okay so uh just over two years yes all right rock and roll what about you i have been single for

00:17:25.460 one years and my um longest relationship um is one year one year okay and uh who broke up with who

00:17:36.660 uh i broke up with him you broke up with him okay and have you done uh have you dated at all here in

00:17:45.700 the united states um no no okay uh have uh well you said you've only been here for what one one month

00:17:54.980 yeah one month okay so maybe you've been busy with uh school would you uh like do you have a preference

00:18:03.700 for like would you date while you're here or do you feel like it's not worth your time i'm sorry uh how do

00:18:10.900 i frame this uh um no but is it because you're like you're only here for a short period and you're working

00:18:22.740 on uh school or is it because you don't like american men um uh how to say um um i'm busy at school

00:18:37.300 busy with school okay that's a nice answer all right have you ever been on a dating app um no no okay

00:18:44.740 and uh have you gone to like any parties oh yeah yeah okay because uh utsp it's a big uh you know

00:18:56.820 uh party school um i went to party with you party with okay and do you get like do you get approached

00:19:06.420 when you go out to the parties um you guys hit on you they uh come up they come up and flirt do men

00:19:17.620 talk to you say they talk to you as uh friends of mine just take us to the party okay got it okay

00:19:26.420 um all right what about you i've been in a relationship for three years um i mean we're

00:19:33.060 definitely going to get married it's just a matter of like figuring a bunch of things out

00:19:36.980 you know until we can do that longest relationship five years five years who broke up with who i broke

00:19:43.860 up with him okay what about you i have been married for probably eight going on 19 years i think 18 years

00:19:53.140 total okay that's crazy because you look 18 yeah you're blowing my mind we met we met in college

00:20:01.780 so yeah a happy relationship all right what about you um so i'm in a relationship um we're about to

00:20:08.900 make five years um my longest relationship is five years so this one uh there was another one

00:20:15.780 baby so does that really count i don't know but who broke up with who another one the other one um

00:20:21.220 it was mutual it really it was okay all right it was mutual jim bob what about you i've been with my

00:20:28.500 wife for nine years what's up meg bob a lot of people in uh marriage is relationships at this

00:20:36.420 table so okay cool so uh let's see we have a do we have chats uh okay oh uh okay i'll read it um

00:20:45.700 chef dylan what i would like to know what the lovely oriental ladies think of the chinese communist party

00:20:51.300 okay don't be nice um do you i don't know if you guys want to answer this you don't have to

00:20:58.500 freaking chef dylan chinese communist party

00:21:02.180 um you can say no comment i'm not sure about how what's the communist party what's that

00:21:13.540 oh wait what's that

00:21:15.620 no that's not the question yeah well kind of i guess it's kind of skip okay all right thank you

00:21:28.820 chef i read it there you go uh okay oh and then this is below the threshold oh yeah you got punched

00:21:36.420 unfortunately we can't we can't show it because like youtube doesn't like assaults but uh what

00:21:42.340 happened do you want to tell us what happened sure so i was out doing work for an awesome

00:21:48.100 organization called live action we're talking about the d fund planned parenthood efforts because right

00:21:53.460 now planned parenthood which is america's largest abortion provider takes nearly 700 million dollars

00:21:58.660 of our taxpayer money and even people that are pro-abortion you know really don't want to be

00:22:04.580 forced to pay for other people's abortions and yeah it was like any other conversation with

00:22:09.300 somebody who supports planned parenthood we were just talking she was very much in support of

00:22:13.700 planned parenthood and she said something really outrageous uh which i think even pro-choicers and

00:22:22.100 pro-abortion people would think is crazy she said that we should kill babies in foster care and that's like

00:22:28.180 better than them being born and that is an argument that a lot of pro-aborts use to defend abortion

00:22:34.660 and i simply just repeated back what she said to me after she was kind of going on this long

00:22:40.180 rant about like you know how she doesn't like the police and bringing up elon trump things that don't

00:22:45.540 have anything to do with what we were talking about and i was like well you know i'm not the one who

00:22:50.260 decided to kill babies or said that it would be okay to kill babies and in foster care and kill

00:22:54.980 children that have been abused and she said that's not the point and then she punched me in the face once

00:23:00.580 with her fist and then twice or another time with her phone which broke open my face and i had to go

00:23:07.060 to the hospital and get stitches good times yeah it's really fun fun experience yes all right so i'm

00:23:15.300 gonna get into the uh pre-show notes here so where do we begin uh uh you know what savannah we'll just

00:23:25.060 start with you you respectfully disagree with the host on marriage and religion uh what do you mean

00:23:31.460 are these interconnected or are they separate yes so i believe in marriage because i'm a christian

00:23:39.060 i believe that marriage is created by god and yeah it's i mean it's the most beautiful thing i think

00:23:47.060 that two people can do because it's man and woman being brought together and becoming one person and

00:23:54.900 it's beautiful um you know having children within marriage is something that i want to do one day

00:24:01.460 and i believe i'm a catholic and catholic christian because i know that jesus died on the cross for

00:24:08.900 our sins he paid the ultimate price um so that we could have the chance to live forever with him in

00:24:14.500 heaven and there is more proof for christianity than any other religion that's been created what's your

00:24:23.060 specific disagreement though my specific disagreement well i'm not totally sure about your opinion on

00:24:33.300 religion actually uh i mean

00:24:39.940 why don't you relate the disagreement to marriage though what is your disagreement

00:24:45.620 do you believe in marriage because i'm not sure how they got that i disagree with you on there i

00:24:50.020 don't know who put that in there yeah i respectfully it says i respectfully disagree with the host

00:24:55.940 on marriage and religion um but okay uh yeah i mean i understand the religious arguments for marriage

00:25:04.820 but from a secular perspective and there are even warnings that you could give to

00:25:11.620 somebody who's christian or who's of another religion there are certain risks uh typically to the breadwinner

00:25:18.420 which is typically the man although sometimes the woman can be the breadwinner but there's some

00:25:23.300 differences there too uh essentially marriage my view is uh divorce at least the divorce component of

00:25:31.700 marriage is financially quite harmful to men uh disproportionately uh i don't really see the point

00:25:40.740 of marriage outside of religion and maybe that might you might actually agree with me what would be the

00:25:46.260 point of getting married if you're not religious yeah because i don't really think it is a marriage if

00:25:52.020 you're not religious it's just like you're signing a paper okay you know joining two people together like

00:25:57.780 legally well then i would just this then i would just i i guess advise even religious men even christian

00:26:05.060 men although the religion uh would compel one to uh maybe not compels not the right word uh marriage is

00:26:14.180 obviously strongly encouraged uh that there are still risks even for uh religious uh religious men

00:26:21.540 when it comes to getting married and these risks should be weighed when making such a decision

00:26:27.540 so the financial component and also even if you are christian the uh the religion doesn't oversee

00:26:36.340 the marriage the state does so in the event of a divorce uh well i guess you're catholic do you believe

00:26:41.940 in divorce no okay so so i'm a little bit different than protestants there right okay so you you're

00:26:48.660 like i'm not kidding you're married right you have to take it really really seriously you have to make

00:26:54.180 sure that this is really something that you want because you're literally going into it forever like

00:26:59.300 literally to death do us part and willing to go through the ups and downs and there are a lot

00:27:06.420 you know you've been married for nine years i'm sure you've been through a lot already i mean

00:27:10.740 my husband is from a different country he moved here so that we could be together and get married

00:27:14.740 like wait where's he from india india yes it's not like a green card marriage is it it's not no no

00:27:23.140 it's like a 90 day fiance situation like well we got married on the k-1 visa which you do get it's 90

00:27:29.140 days to get married once you get the visa as her maid of honor in her wedding i can certify he actually

00:27:34.740 does love her and i made sure of that beforehand husband is awesome but something i want to say too

00:27:42.500 from a secular point of view marriage is an institution it is the most basic political

00:27:47.700 institution and if people can't revere an institution and keep it institutionalized then

00:27:54.340 the whole society is going to fall apart around it and so that's from you know a non-religious point

00:27:59.220 of view why marriage is actually so important it's one union you become one person and that's a good

00:28:05.300 thing because then a country can have structure around that not only children can be reared properly

00:28:11.460 and well but then you can actually have reverence for whatever form of government you have but you

00:28:16.980 would i was going to push back on that a little because the context for marriage as savannah said from a

00:28:23.460 christian lens uh visualize it like this uh two people are inside of a circle and at the center of

00:28:29.380 the circle is christ and so when you move closer to christ you get closer to the circle closer together

00:28:35.060 right but from a secular view you're actually marrying each other's preferences and so now there's two dots

00:28:41.460 in in the circle and none of them are are christ or or the faith so what happens with a secular marriage

00:28:47.220 is you're basically you know the cliche till death do us part well a secular marriage is is basically

00:28:53.620 till our preferences change do we part and that's why it really has even if you borrowed the general

00:28:59.620 foundation and said oh this is this is like uh in reverence to the state and the structure of

00:29:05.140 society descriptively i kind of agree with that that structure is better than none but if you have

00:29:10.340 a structure and it has no foundation or context it's really just a structure on sand and i think secular

00:29:15.780 marriage is basically yeah and as a reformed baptist i fully agree with the you know you have to have

00:29:21.060 jesus is the at the center of marriage because there's no other way you can get through anything

00:29:25.860 if you don't but you know from the state's point of view or someone else's secular point of view i mean

00:29:31.620 it is an institution and it's commonly described especially in like conservative founding philosophies

00:29:37.540 and such as the basic fundamental institution and so you know just another way to think about it

00:29:42.420 but but i agree with you it's it's become something that we just like expect you know that people kind

00:29:48.500 of do the the main difference here is if we ask if if you guys asked us do we have an obligation to

00:29:54.500 stay married the answer is yes if you ask a secularist if they have an obligation they don't right

00:30:00.500 right right so it's like okay like you can borrow the the christian paradigm and sort of try to

00:30:06.900 swap it on to a secular framework but if there's no obligation it's like it's kind of like good luck

00:30:13.460 uh you're kind of they're kind of like playing it's like larping it's like live action role playing

00:30:17.700 christianity and it's like you know i do agree somewhat descriptively that like structure for

00:30:24.020 children is better than no structure but it's like what's the what's the structure derivative of

00:30:31.460 if it's not christianity i'm not i've never gotten an answer in all my years of debating yeah

00:30:38.660 with bringing up children it's better if children have parents that are married yeah

00:30:43.620 just statistically yes well there's a strong bond um of course from like if you're saying you know

00:30:51.540 there's a little girl that the that the parents have she can look to her parents and and you know

00:30:56.980 her father to who would be a good person for her to look to marry one day as somebody who grew up

00:31:02.420 without my father in the home just like many many children and especially minority children in america

00:31:08.740 today have the same experience it is and even president obama has talked about fatherlessness

00:31:15.300 within the black community uh just how it's more likely for the daughter to grow up and be with men that

00:31:22.580 don't want to marry her have children outside of marriage and we know the effects of that

00:31:27.540 and just men like little boys going into gangs turning to drug use if you don't have a strong

00:31:34.420 mother and father figure in the home like it just isn't a positive for children i mean even for boys

00:31:40.420 it doesn't even have to be as as extreme as like doing or selling drugs it could be like they don't

00:31:44.820 have a healthy example of what a relationship is so they're going to see mom trying to date going

00:31:48.740 through guys or mom not dating at all and they have no point of reference of how to treat a woman

00:31:53.300 and or even to be in a relationship and to be your best person your best self so you can be that for

00:31:57.460 another person they have no point of reference it's also a marriage um inside a house from a christian

00:32:02.500 lens is reflective of the hierarchy of the of the society so there's a natural hierarchy feminism

00:32:09.380 fights against this hierarchy but you can't without borrowing from the dudes ultimately and so to add

00:32:15.780 on to what she said is that um when you're when you're married and your bond is to christ or the

00:32:22.020 church and you're an extension of it um even we uh teaching our kids very early that they are the

00:32:29.380 fruits of the of the marriage but if you're not fruits of the marriage what are you fruits of just

00:32:34.580 an act right just like an act that's either sterile or not whoops we had a baby like there's no context

00:32:41.220 for it it's just strict like nature right that's the context is you're you're an effect of nature

00:32:47.380 like can you imagine teaching your kids they're just merely the effect of nature and nothing else

00:32:51.700 i mean no wonder they act like animals well and then families that have a strong father who is christian

00:32:57.380 in the home typically you'll get children who are also in that same religion in single mother

00:33:02.260 households the difference between having a father who practices the religion and just a mother who

00:33:06.740 practices religion is like 40 points um so you will typically not have children who go into the

00:33:12.340 faith if they live in a single mother household um but if they live in a single father household and

00:33:18.340 he practices christianity they will likely be in the faith and then obviously the odds are even higher

00:33:22.900 if both parents are in the religion so for the perpetuation of a strong and stable faith

00:33:28.660 households must be held together can i uh i mean absent religion though can anybody present to me any

00:33:39.540 compelling and convincing arguments why uh i or other men should get married

00:33:47.380 like i just feel like it's manly to dedicate yourself to one woman and yes i know that that's not a popular

00:33:56.580 uh opinion yeah do you need marriage to dedicate yourself to one woman no but i think that it's

00:34:04.340 it's more likely since it's like a stronger bond i feel like when you're you marry someone i mean just by

00:34:11.540 experience that you just become closer to each other and there's a different level of dedication

00:34:18.340 that's like oh i if you know tomorrow i decide to just leave it's not like i can just walk out the door

00:34:23.540 it would be a long process i mean if even if you could always make the argument okay if you want to

00:34:27.940 have kids continue your legacy it's always better to be married but even if somebody if a man like

00:34:31.860 doesn't want kids okay but when you're old and 80 and you need somebody to wipe your butt like do

00:34:37.220 you want to be doing that alone do you want to be in a nursing home having a stranger just letting

00:34:40.820 you sit in it all day or do you want someone who loves you who's going to be there and help

00:34:44.020 take care of you yeah you don't need marriage for that though

00:34:45.540 it just always i feel like it gives it more of like it's a one foot in one foot out we were just

00:34:52.660 having this conversation the other day it's like having one foot in and one foot out like you need

00:34:55.860 some sort of commitment if for me i'm like if you're not committing to be married you know or if

00:35:02.660 it's not a goal you know for you in your relationship it's it's kind of like you can

00:35:06.260 bounce whenever you want and that doesn't really give stability i mean people get divorced all the time

00:35:11.700 right but it's a much lengthier process and again i mean i was raised catholic you're staying

00:35:15.780 together under because it's a little more complicated not to say that you stay together

00:35:21.620 because it's more complicated but it kind of gives you more time to also evaluate the relationship or

00:35:25.860 evaluate yourself is that what you really want to do if you choose to you know more power to you

00:35:30.580 that's your decision but i mean i feel like it also it's not an easy way out because people also

00:35:36.500 like the easy way out they like the convenience it's kind of easy unfortunately

00:35:40.740 it's easy to just leave someone if you're not committed yeah yeah but so i guess all the

00:35:47.460 things you guys have listed though so you have somebody uh somebody there in old age you have a

00:35:54.020 family you have children you can have all of these outside of marriage so i could stay with the same

00:36:00.980 woman for my all my life we could have multiple kids we're also assuming every guy is a good partner

00:36:08.020 too what's that we're also assuming every guy will be a good partner so i mean not not everybody i

00:36:13.940 feel like i mean we have so many people what are the race what's the ratio of like women to men in

00:36:17.940 this country i don't know three women to one man or yeah and not every minute man want to get married

00:36:24.100 three women it's it's about i don't know what it is three women but i feel like women are correct

00:36:28.740 me if i'm wrong i would say brian there if you're not converting to christianity um then you're right

00:36:36.020 there would be no ultimate reason because the context for marriage can't just be the kind of

00:36:42.340 outcomes because like brian said you could produce all those outcomes without the marriage so it really

00:36:47.780 brings into the question well what is a marriage and from my perspective my faith is you're you're

00:36:52.660 actually marrying to a body uh it's there's a third there's a third aspect to it it's not just

00:36:58.340 to each other and so without that the question is well you know why should you convert to christianity

00:37:04.740 is a question before why should you get married and so um if you were exploring that brian i would start

00:37:10.500 with should i consider uh christianity as a practice as a life then that would give you your context for

00:37:18.740 marriage but otherwise you'd be right without the context it's kind of a useless question like why

00:37:23.300 would you get married there is no there would be no use or purpose or or there's not even an ontology

00:37:29.540 of marriage from that perspective okay uh let's see i guess uh who here is uh because we christianity

00:37:38.820 has come up a little bit who here is christian just show of hands yeah christian uh

00:37:44.260 uh okay yeah i think it's just curious uh let's see here uh jim bob under uh christianity

00:37:57.140 are are uh wives should they be submissive to their husbands yeah it's uh kind of view it like this um

00:38:05.140 the husband is the head and the wife is the neck and so you need the neck it's a component of the body

00:38:12.580 um and uh the marriage is an extension of the of the body which is the church so everything has a

00:38:19.460 hierarchy and when you say women should be submissive to men it's a duty difference it's not a value

00:38:26.340 difference it just naturally even in nature it's a there's a discrepancy between male and female

00:38:33.700 as uh the debate yesterday if you saw it that um men are geared towards certain uh duties and

00:38:39.540 behaviors and women are geared toward others and that could actually uh kind of inform you

00:38:45.460 what the duties could be so the problem with the term is submissive has been largely in the last 100

00:38:51.220 years been uh railed into women's head and now men that it's a bad thing but the problem is uh under

00:38:59.140 christianity uh the man is also to be submissive to someone higher and so this is one thing i push back

00:39:06.820 with people who are sort of like red pill they're like they borrow a christian lens to say women

00:39:11.860 should be submissive but if they don't see how being submissive from his perspective is uh a virtue

00:39:20.100 why would they follow you yeah so you're the god you're the pope you're the you're the master well

00:39:25.620 who's your master and so um it's not it's not a a riddle to me why women are taking it that way they're

00:39:33.540 they're like why would i why would i submit to you and it's like it's because i'm strong right

00:39:38.420 well no that's not a good enough reason because i'm rich still not even a good enough reason so

00:39:43.540 yeah from a christian view it's a good question because if you ask the same question from a

00:39:47.620 different view without a christian lens i'm not sure there's a good answer why women should submit to

00:39:52.660 men yeah we have a message here from lucas it's regrettable but secular marriage is no longer a

00:39:58.980 manageable risk for men approximately 50 of marriages end in divorce approximately 80 of

00:40:06.580 divorces are initiated by women approximately 85 of alimony is paid from from men to women same with

00:40:15.060 child support men are mostly and he looks like he has a follow-up here uh so i'll wait for that to come

00:40:23.380 through um but uh i guess going back to the submissive thing um would you guys consider those

00:40:33.780 of you who are married or in relationships those of you are christian uh would you or will you be or

00:40:40.100 are you submissive to your husband or boyfriend or whatever yes absolutely okay and it's in any any

00:40:47.860 situation you know it doesn't matter who's making more money what situation you're in um you know if

00:40:52.980 he's sick and you're healthy like he is the head of the household and near the neck just like jim bob

00:40:58.500 said i would agree with that case for you oh well since i'm single i guess you know right now um when

00:41:05.700 you get a boyfriend or married or yeah i mean the dating process is for figuring out if they can be a good

00:41:12.500 leader to you and they actually are submitted to the lord um you know in my recent relationship the

00:41:17.220 hierarchy was you know god him me of course and then he stepped right out and then it was you know

00:41:23.940 the hierarchy remains still god myself um and so you know we we weren't married and we aren't um and so

00:41:30.900 you know that's just something we had to figure out but um you know my um dedication to the lord does

00:41:38.180 not change what based on the relationship i'm in and if the husband is not submitted to the lord then

00:41:44.020 you know he steps out of line my direct line is still to the lord because he's the ultimate

00:41:48.180 authority sure well uh you guys over here i i was gonna say you made a difference between secular

00:41:53.460 submission and biblical submission and so for me being married as long as i have we do biblical submission

00:41:59.460 and um i do want to mention paul did say before the submission towards the wife towards the husband

00:42:06.740 he did say we are to submit to one another under christ he did lay that foundation do you know

00:42:13.220 what i'm saying right but it's uh the are you saying that it's like no i'm saying i agree with

00:42:18.660 i'm just saying secular submission and biblical submission are two totally different things

00:42:22.980 right yeah i don't even know what how would we even define yeah like to me a secular secular

00:42:28.180 submission would be a set of uh manipulations that either could do yeah right that's all it would be

00:42:34.020 which is why i feel like this whole feminist idea like derived what it would have derived from it was

00:42:38.820 like well it it was it was already doomed from the start there was no basis in the in the relationship

00:42:44.980 if you're only submitting to the man it's just like an ego stroke so like yeah no it's not gonna work and

00:42:49.140 then you're gonna have women acting out but that's not how it's supposed to be well and then feminists

00:42:53.220 always assume that submission means subjugation and that she's gonna be a slave and i always tell

00:42:59.300 feminists that's not what it means it means yielding it means yielding to his leadership

00:43:03.940 and yielding to the things that he wants to do and that is a really edifying thing for a woman's heart

00:43:09.940 it's so healthy it's so good when it's done in the right way and so feminists though they really like to

00:43:14.820 come after specifically savannah and i because we're we always say like it's not subjectivity it's not

00:43:23.380 beating a woman into subordination that's not what the bible talks about and if feminists actually

00:43:27.540 wanted to read the bible and actually look at what it says then they figure out really quickly

00:43:32.580 that eve's curse from the beginning has been she wanted to dominate over her husband obviously the

00:43:37.620 pains and childbirth part and that's very easy to understand but she's always wanted to dominate and

00:43:42.100 control over her husband and feminism is really the institutionalization of eve's curse and that's why

00:43:47.220 i'm against it yeah and uh i have a question for you savannah related to this so you're married

00:43:53.140 uh you do quite a bit of social advocacy when it comes to your anti-abortion stuff maybe you do some

00:44:00.900 political stuff too or yes if your husband asked you to stop your social media stuff and stop your advocacy

00:44:12.180 would you it would have to be a conversation as to why what if he oh sorry go ahead yes if it were if it

00:44:21.700 was like causing issues in our marriage then obviously yes because that's what's more important to me

00:44:29.060 but as we are both catholic christians and we're called to speak out and you know against abortion

00:44:36.180 because it's the intentional ending of an innocent human life that's made in the image of god

00:44:41.780 it would kind of make a question like well is he disagreeing with what god is telling us to do and

00:44:48.660 what we're supposed to be no let's assume yeah let's assume he he's on board with uh with the

00:44:57.060 message he's not he's not pro-choice or anything right but he just makes a determination he's like

00:45:04.180 you know what i just don't want you out there on social media like that uh just don't want you to do

00:45:10.740 it yeah what do you okay so you'd stop it's actually something that i asked yeah i would

00:45:17.380 it's actually something that i asked him about before we got married like because obviously i was

00:45:22.340 already making political pro-life content before and i was just kind of like what do you think about

00:45:27.460 this because i i really eventually want to take this to the next level and that's what i recently

00:45:32.340 kicked off my youtube channel and i was like this is what i want to do this is what i feel called to

00:45:37.620 do like how do you feel about it and it was definitely something that he thought about

00:45:40.820 because there are a lot of risks that go into it obviously you can see i got punched in the face like

00:45:44.660 it's not exactly um safe all of the time it's not fun a lot of the time going into these big crowds and

00:45:52.020 getting screamed at and called names and i know that he he's very protective and he doesn't want to see

00:45:58.100 me get hurt and so he wouldn't want to put me in a situation where that might happen just as a guy

00:46:05.060 so just a point of clarification uh you said there would have to be a conversation about it

00:46:10.900 uh well i would want to know why like i would say yes okay but can i know why okay okay i don't really

00:46:19.380 think i have any pushback there uh i maybe the situation could be you got attacked he could be like

00:46:26.740 yeah your safety i don't want my wife getting beat up on the street so there's also another element there

00:46:34.180 that probably god willing will be on the horizon is once you have children the thing you're weighing

00:46:40.260 ultimately uh within a christian paradigm is uh can you fulfill your duties at home as a mother

00:46:47.940 even if what you're doing is like super amazing and you know pro-christian and everything and that

00:46:53.220 seems like if you're already in a christian paradigm it's like a no-brainer anyway like you'd be like

00:46:57.380 you choose your kid over potentially getting punched in the face just with the the potential

00:47:02.740 uh that you could change one woman's mind from from doing what that what she's doing but uh that ends

00:47:09.620 up coming first so some people don't see it that way though they they go well no you know i'm a boss

00:47:15.700 babe you know i'm a christian boss babe and you're like yeah but does that mean abandoning your duties

00:47:23.140 and you're well yeah if i'm a boss god made me a boss babe and they basically take this approach and

00:47:28.340 then the marriage suffers and if there's children uh they would suffer as well from that view and that's

00:47:34.500 why with us on this podcast especially we ask people who are proposed uh you know who say they're

00:47:40.100 christian but then really it comes out later that they're really just kind of feminists like

00:47:45.220 undercover where they really just want to win and and be the center of attention and so you know yeah

00:47:51.700 it's always a fair question to ask yeah we had a conversation after christine donated two hundred

00:47:57.700 dollars ladies let me give you some game to counter brian just say that you are christian and trick

00:48:04.820 them into signing the paperwork and feel free to divorce and take half his stuff later easy game

00:48:12.900 thank you christine that's christine that's funny no we're not gonna do that

00:48:18.500 yeah my husband i mean i i said to my husband because i mean he's going out there with me as

00:48:23.620 well he's my cameraman he saw everything that went down when i got attacked and i i asked him i was

00:48:29.460 like you know are you just going out there with me and recording me because you support me and you're

00:48:34.980 like loving what i'm doing or do you really feel called to do this because i don't want you to just

00:48:42.020 feel upset every time we go out and just like nervous and he told me no i'm actually starting to

00:48:46.260 feel like called to doing this which is like my dream i'm so glad that he is feeling called to

00:48:51.300 speak out against the pre-born and against you know the gender idol the gender ideology stuff that's

00:48:56.100 going on in our country and just the attack on children in general because it's a lot it's like

00:49:01.540 i said it's not always fun so i'm glad that he supports me in that but again if you know i was asking

00:49:06.580 him that that question because i was like if this is making you upset for me to do and it's stressing

00:49:12.100 you out like wait a second your husband saw this and that woman who hit you still has her hands

00:49:19.140 yeah so i mean if you can watch the video like you see him like go after her and you know obviously

00:49:26.580 he's not going to put his hands on a woman because in the western world that doesn't go very well even

00:49:30.820 if she's in the right in you know she's in the wrong and so my husband reacted to the situation better

00:49:37.220 than i think anybody could have because of course there was just so much built-up anger and rage the

00:49:41.300 woman was a lot bigger than me and a lot bigger than him as well and my husband goes to the gym

00:49:46.100 every single day like has huge muscles are you sure are you sure it wasn't a man well she did say

00:49:51.620 suck my dick like as she was walking away i thought i should and i mean that and then somebody somebody

00:49:58.420 called her brian rivers the other day her name is brianna rivers and i'm like maybe something's

00:50:03.460 starting to happen but yeah i feel like the suck my dick is just like a bronx saying that's just like

00:50:09.540 yeah now it's a common thing for girls to say as soon as you explain the situation

00:50:14.340 it's all right uh okay lucas he sent this one in i read it earlier he continued relegated to

00:50:21.700 weekend dad since men are still the primary breadwinners men forfeit 50 of their hard-earned

00:50:28.180 wealth it's unfortunate but a secular marriage contract is easier to break than a cell phone contract

00:50:34.180 and women are incentivized to pursue divorce divorce oh he's got another continued wow you got another

00:50:41.620 continued thank you lucas thou this is the original if anybody uh missed it he said 80 of divorces are

00:50:49.300 initiated by women lucas appreciated that i oh there it is for rather capricious reasons ironically enough

00:50:58.020 my skepticism of marriage today comes as a married man myself albeit both devout greek orthodox wow that

00:51:06.900 was well well written lucas uh he's married himself lucas and he's uh aren't you a lawyer you're a lawyer

00:51:16.500 right i want to know what he does because he does this often yeah i think he's an attorney and he's a

00:51:21.620 handsome guy right look at that all right thank you lucas appreciate it we have a message here from

00:51:27.380 desert joe he says the institution of marriage for men in modernity is akin to jumping out of an

00:51:34.260 airplane with a parachute that has a 50 chance of opening successfully and was packed by someone

00:51:40.180 you thought loved you damn oh my goodness hurt you great uh is there anybody here who doesn't want to

00:51:48.580 get married anybody based okay yes you do anybody here who doesn't want kids me don't want kids don't

00:52:01.780 want kids don't want kids why is that because actually if you have if you have a kid you will have more

00:52:08.180 responsibility for for for for them and you have the responsible responsibility to educate them and help

00:52:17.380 them to be a good guy and uh if you are not or like we said before maybe divorce or doing something

00:52:30.580 with your husband then they go up bad express to your kids yeah okay why for you i certainly hold the idea

00:52:41.780 that um look after a baby is very um hard it's too hard for me and um i think i don't have enough time

00:52:58.500 money to uh um give give give the baby um best uh education or um

00:53:09.220 um something like that yeah i have a follow-up question to your answers was it pushed on you

00:53:17.140 guys being from china that having children was like a negative or that because i know that my husband's

00:53:23.700 from india and everybody says you know have children but no more than two and like china's had the two

00:53:29.940 child laws in the past is did your parents tell you that you know having kids is a big burden or like a big

00:53:37.060 weight on you or actually it's virus from people to people yes because uh i know some of my classmates

00:53:43.860 they they they have the dream they hold the dream to be in a marriage and have a kid but uh you know

00:53:51.940 there's um it's just something some people like me and also my mom tell me that he uh she told me that

00:54:00.580 uh i'm lucky to have you but actually you don't have to have a baby or being in a marriage with

00:54:08.420 yourself because you are the best hat of yourself yeah what about you did your parents tell you that

00:54:17.220 having kids was going to be hard or not really um because um i think um education in china china

00:54:31.540 is really hard uh as for me um my uh undergraduate university is not very famous but i still spent my

00:54:42.980 um um i spent three years uh to uh how to say uh chinese gaoka uh i think it's really really hard

00:54:55.460 uh i don't think i i can give my baby um um best education i don't want uh see my baby um

00:55:07.460 um um spend a hard time uh asking ask me um okay

00:55:18.100 okay if you had a husband would you want to have a kid

00:55:24.980 maybe so you don't want to be a single mom um yeah right yeah but it may be if you had a husband

00:55:32.340 who was helping you would want to have a child

00:55:37.540 or you would be open to it maybe maybe i would yeah it sounds like uh and this is something obviously

00:55:46.420 present here in the west is the i would call it propaganda not that there isn't a realistic

00:55:53.780 uh focus and concern when you do have kids and when you're trying to prepare but as everyone knows

00:55:59.300 even if you thought you were prepared you're still not prepared um but we're pretty much bombarded

00:56:04.740 constantly with uh baby means you're a slave a baby means your life's over baby means everything that

00:56:11.540 you liked is over this is just hammered in to american culture through uh through every facet of of

00:56:19.220 communication and so it's interesting to see from your perspective from another country how much of that

00:56:26.180 is there um it's probably less at this point honestly we got it bad over here yeah considering how

00:56:32.820 top heavy china's population is i imagine there would be a lot more pro baby propaganda but it sounds like

00:56:38.980 maybe not but you said i don't remember which one of you said one of you said um i don't want that

00:56:45.300 responsibility of having a baby is that who said that i said that why would you not want to take on

00:56:53.780 something so amazing um because actually if your kid is good oh that's fine that's fine i appreciate that

00:57:03.140 but but but what if he's had something wrong or done something wrong and you will get upset and you

00:57:11.060 will think oh god how do i have a kid like um to do that because i make i make you i had you and i

00:57:25.540 like put my heart on you but why you don't like oh you're you're afraid to have a little ship kid

00:57:31.940 yeah well they are at some point i mean they go through a phase so um if you're ever considering

00:57:39.780 having kids just know there will be a phase where you'll go through that but that's just a phase but

00:57:45.780 you're gonna love them so much still because you made them and yeah have you ever talked to a mom

00:57:52.660 about how her life changed when she first saw her newborn baby i'll tell you right now

00:57:57.220 oh it was literally the best moment of my life like i yeah i don't even know how to explain it

00:58:05.540 it's like there's the cliche saying like you don't even know what you were doing before you had kids i

00:58:09.940 truly cannot tell you like the purpose or direction like my life was going in because i i always had

00:58:16.180 like dreams like and goals like i've always been very goal oriented and school and work and career and

00:58:21.620 all of that but that doesn't fill your soul the way the love of a child does at the it's like

00:58:29.140 everybody loves their dog and their pet every day you go home after work you know they're gonna love

00:58:32.900 you no matter what it's that times a million with your kid and it's just don't don't tell those dog

00:58:38.820 parents that they'll open your face i love animals too like i've had pets my whole life but

00:58:44.580 there really is not it's like they came from you yeah well i also think like on a psychology point

00:58:51.060 of view like we are happier as human beings when we're being selfless because the moment we are

00:58:57.060 selfish and just thinking about ourself is actually when we become more depressed and us women were

00:59:05.540 literally made to be nurturers lovers caregivers like we just have that natural talent like a lot of times

00:59:12.980 like what your wife knows things before you do she's on top of that like we have that sixth sense

00:59:18.660 like we are meant we are programmed for that if i could just chime in on that real quick as someone

00:59:24.740 i don't have any children just yet but um i've been a nanny for years and you know whether i was in

00:59:30.580 a classroom teaching or i'm with kids it didn't matter the age they made me so happy um teaching even

00:59:36.980 crying i'll take the tantrums it was great honestly it made me stronger but kids just do something

00:59:42.820 for you where it's just like wow like you remember why life can be so beautiful i think it's just

00:59:48.180 because they're so pure and innocent just like the dog mom or the cat and give it more love and the

00:59:56.100 more you love you more love you put into your kids the better they're gonna turn out they're gonna make

01:00:00.500 mistakes look at us we make mistakes i could tell you so many i made as a young girl but it gives you

01:00:06.420 more hope in the world with so much ugly crap having every happening everywhere you look at your kid you

01:00:10.980 see such pureness happiness such love and it just gives you more oomph to get through the next day

01:00:16.340 well you have a chance to make the next generation beautiful and stronger because they definitely

01:00:21.540 have been trying to mess with us yes and we're to the point where we're waking up and we're over it

01:00:27.460 question for you two though so i mean you're both young you're both 20 or uh 20 and 21 is that so do you

01:00:34.980 think maybe when you're a bit older your viewpoint might change or are you pretty set in not having

01:00:41.060 kids um from but now i will say that i won't change my mind of that i know i love kids because i have a

01:00:53.060 little brother yeah i love him so much but but actually i won't have my own kids because i'm afraid if if i

01:01:02.820 have a kid so my love of him will become the first one you're an engineer right you're gonna be an

01:01:09.940 engineer so you're afraid to take on the biggest engineering project of your life because um maybe

01:01:17.300 like that yeah because i i have to i have to be in my goal have to just be in my dream and i'm afraid if

01:01:30.740 i have kids so he will become the first or she will become the first i'm afraid of that yeah and then

01:01:37.140 what about you as she said maybe i will change my mind when i have a husband or when i get in a

01:01:48.100 relation romantic relationship can i say something real quick as a nurse who goes into homes like

01:01:54.900 it's really sad when i go into homes and those older people do not have children so it's you're

01:02:00.980 gonna you're gonna eventually like as you age you're gonna see you know that difference because

01:02:06.500 when i go into homes i help the older population you know that don't have kids it's really really sad

01:02:12.260 compared to when i go into homes and they do have children i'm so happy you said that because my mom

01:02:17.300 actually just passed away in march and to be there with her through that whole entire process has

01:02:22.980 inspired me to want to be a death doula okay and just the fact that i was like able to stay the

01:02:28.660 night with her be with her in her last moments and i'm sure she appreciated that you know like yeah

01:02:34.500 are your are your parents married yes and they're still together yes what about you are your parents

01:02:40.260 they're they're married yeah and do you have any siblings or oh uh do you have a brother or sister

01:02:46.340 you had you said one younger brother yes okay so you're you're the oldest child

01:02:52.980 um actually not oh you have an older brother yes i have an older brother because my parents like he

01:03:02.180 is the son of my father and my father got twice marriage and but but we are good yeah because we

01:03:10.660 played all of the time okay and you said you're from china right yes okay so was that was the two was

01:03:17.860 that where the two kid or the one kid implementation was just dropped where now you can have as many

01:03:23.940 kids as you you want in china did y'all hear about that like um but now our country just encourage us to

01:03:32.180 have more kids okay yeah can i ask you what a death doula is uh think about like a birth doula who a woman

01:03:40.420 that's there to basically help help that process it's the same thing it's a woman that's there to

01:03:46.580 help that person pass to the next phase i love that because i lost my mom two years ago so that would

01:03:51.860 have been very handy yeah and by help you don't mean like a pillow right i'm just checking

01:03:59.220 getting back into the notes i'm going to go to nadia uh that who's nadia right over here oh hello

01:04:09.700 you're hiding uh you wrote you're a bisexual and you've had years of dating both genders yes yes

01:04:16.900 uh is anybody else here bisexual or a lesbian

01:04:20.580 okay so there are two genders we're just we're putting that out clear on that uh yeah

01:04:35.700 so you uh you said you were in a five-year relationship and you're currently there's a

01:04:41.380 previous one and you are you dating a man or a woman um so at the moment i'm dating a man that's

01:04:46.260 the one that's going on five years the other five-year relationship was with the woman okay

01:04:50.900 uh do you do you have a preference for one or the other you know like you prefer men or women at the

01:04:57.700 moment um i would definitely say men that definitely had to do with a lot of you know growth and stuff

01:05:02.740 like that and just uh preferences i didn't know that i had before but at the moment men for sure okay

01:05:08.900 got it uh you said you wanted to speak on gender roles and expectations in relationships oh yes yes

01:05:15.940 so what oh the juicy stuff i love it um well yeah i mean i as someone who was dating a woman for

01:05:24.420 years um and yes i was the more masculine one if we're just wondering it wasn't always like this

01:05:30.820 um no yes yeah she'll tell you uh my sister is it always like that like there's one masculine one

01:05:38.740 feminine you know i would say nine times out of ten um i think there is but also i will say from where

01:05:44.980 i'm at because you know all different parts of the world there's so many different types of people

01:05:48.100 and um i would say where i'm at uh new york new jersey it's usually like that you have the one

01:05:53.300 feminine one masculine but i also with years of you know dating um women and not dating men now that

01:06:00.020 i'm with the man i'm just like okay got it like it's not only i'm like it's not really supposed to be

01:06:04.580 like that but i have seen like feminine uh feminine feminine or mask even master mask that's happened

01:06:09.380 right i've dabbled oh yeah oh but it's a thing who pays on the date if you let me tell you i was

01:06:17.780 going broke so i would say um can i tell you all the questions you guys are gonna have for her i've

01:06:22.660 grown up asking her so i can understand she's still studying me think that is like if you guys are women

01:06:29.300 and you want to be with a woman like why is one trying to look like or i mean correct me if i'm wrong

01:06:36.180 but why is one looking like a man or trying to look like a man oh yeah okay so i can't speak for

01:06:41.700 all of us right but um for me initially i felt as if i had to take on that masculine role right so that

01:06:49.780 that was also a lot of trauma response too so for being real and diving deep into things

01:06:53.860 um a lot of it was i felt like i had to be that man set that good male example so even if that means

01:06:58.740 you know you're playing the part you're playing dress up like for me that's what it was and um i wasn't

01:07:03.460 able to be like in my feminine energy and you know as soft as i wanted to be um don't get me wrong

01:07:08.020 still super masculine with that that was uh that was the thing now i'm a little bit more feminine

01:07:13.540 um yeah were you playing that role before you met your or was that after is that a discussion y'all had

01:07:20.100 you know um oh wait with my current um no with before the the woman like did y'all discuss who was

01:07:28.020 going to be more masculine yes yeah honestly honestly i don't know that was a very natural

01:07:34.660 situation watching it unfold um if we're being honest my father definitely raised me to be the

01:07:39.300 little son uh you know little boy um she was the girly girl i was not um but also i still again to

01:07:45.860 this day i'm super tomboy i think i just pushed it a little bit more because i felt like that was

01:07:49.780 what was right it was comfortable and you know at a young age i was like high school when this was

01:07:54.100 happening um easily impressionable everybody was like the pad everyone could do it you know what

01:07:58.100 i mean and i would just like to point out like again this circles back to our topic about like

01:08:03.060 marriages and things circling back to christ because like our mom raised us very catholic in the church

01:08:09.140 god is everything and our father was atheist probably still is so granted they were married till her dying

01:08:16.740 day but that was also very confusing and affected us a lot in our decision making growing up our

01:08:23.460 personalities especially partners that we've chosen you know i'm not the without father of my kids

01:08:28.660 they we were together for five years that didn't work out for various reasons but um the person i'm

01:08:35.140 with now for the last three years i mean he's wonderful he's like best dad in the world like

01:08:39.940 you know their dad is still around but stepdad for sure the the whole um acting out the traits of

01:08:46.260 the opposite sex is really interesting because if you look at uh men homosexual who are attracted to

01:08:52.820 the same sex they start to to almost present a caricature of a woman that even women don't

01:08:59.940 even sound like that it's like it's like a woman that's cast in like a tv show that's over the top

01:09:05.780 but then um you know with the hand waving and the lisping and all that like what's the equivalent for

01:09:11.700 lesbians so first with the fashion so it's the look right you gotta sell it um like young m.a yeah

01:09:29.860 hello goodbye you look like rosie the ripeter you're all like you're all like let's go to the

01:09:33.780 bar the snapback was a thing it was a thing um we didn't sag the pants because that's not white tank top

01:09:40.820 um yeah what that's the tattoo show in i'm like yeah like oh rolled up no no jordans jordans jordans

01:09:47.620 it was jordans it was nikes yes kept it cute kept cute she would have she would have not my sister

01:09:54.100 um but also it's just a matter of like uh everything again it goes back to um wanting

01:09:58.340 that male presence in your life to be that good example so i'm like okay what would a good man do

01:10:03.700 walk on this side of the street pay for the dinners you know somebody looks at you crazy i'm just like

01:10:08.980 what's up we got issues you know what i mean and again sometimes that didn't put me in the best

01:10:13.620 positions in life and um you know but that's part of learning right you said something really

01:10:18.260 interesting when you were saying i was pretending to be the masculine type you said it was a trauma

01:10:23.620 response yes yes so you in your masculine energy that was a trauma response yes yes because um i

01:10:29.780 saw it as again um when i was growing up as my sister explained like our father figure and stuff

01:10:35.380 um i feel like love him but uh there are a lot of things that i feel um he didn't protect us in ways

01:10:41.780 that he had to you know what i'm saying and we didn't get the best version of him that we could have

01:10:45.780 so in moments where i felt like i needed it the most when life is hard high school you know you're

01:10:49.700 going through all these like life changes i was just like all right um i'll just do what i think

01:10:53.940 i need to do and also you know there's a lot of that codependency in that relationship too because

01:10:58.900 she kind of had a male figure that wasn't the best at the moment and we're both trying to figure it out

01:11:03.620 but yeah i think that's really what it was not to say that it wasn't real the feelings weren't real

01:11:07.700 i think it's just i wasn't being real to myself it's really interesting though because feminism

01:11:12.180 obviously pushes women in a masculine direction it argues that they should prioritize masculine things

01:11:19.620 but on the flip side of the coin feminism also waits for a woman to be hurt by a man then it

01:11:25.380 jumps in the picture and promises everything so a lot of times i'll go to colleges and i'll talk to

01:11:30.180 these girls and i'll say we've all had bad experiences with men in our lives every single

01:11:34.820 guys have had bad experiences with men but feminism waits at your doorstep and promises you the world to

01:11:41.140 heal you from that trauma and it just seeps in at the wrong moment and that's why i find feminism is

01:11:46.580 so predatory on women who may not have had good father figures or have had traumatic relationships

01:11:51.940 or you know women who grew up with a development of an attachment style trauma if they were had an

01:11:58.580 anxious attachment develop because they were abandoned or avoidant attachment develop because they were

01:12:03.540 also probably abandoned a lot of times girls with trauma will end up as feminists and it's you know and

01:12:10.180 then be presenting as masculine because it's literally a predatory ideology i yeah there's

01:12:15.300 also um they used to study it more um they just coincidentally kind of stopped putting in the

01:12:21.300 spotlight but like early uh abuse emotional abuse sexual abuse uh used to be studied with uh both uh

01:12:28.260 men and women homosexuality and they're just kind of like no i was born this way they kind of skipped

01:12:33.700 that aspect and they're like no i'm gonna just skip to i'm born this way which doesn't make any

01:12:38.260 sense still to this day because you can you imagine the doctor like raising the child and being like

01:12:42.820 it's gay it's like it doesn't make sense uh there's a lot more to these stories and but because it's

01:12:49.460 been sold as like i agree with you that that sort of reaction it's sold as empowerment you're you're

01:12:55.380 gonna be a feminist and a lesbian and then they just jump right into the role but um it's like that

01:13:01.620 that's why i wanted to ask you um not that you could know this but if would you suspect there are

01:13:08.100 other women who went through kind of similar uh thing as you and they are essentially doing a kind

01:13:14.740 of role-playing not that you would confront them directly you know that might not go well but but

01:13:20.740 can you tell can you you think you could tell oh 100 there's people that um either like i've worked

01:13:26.500 with in the past um just a friend of a friend and usually those people are the one that are telling

01:13:31.940 me their life story immediately um and just through that if you you know i'm a friend believer all you

01:13:36.420 got to do is listen to somebody for a few seconds to really get an understanding of who they are

01:13:39.940 and because i've been through it um they're talking and i'm just like yeah so i would definitely say

01:13:44.260 it's a thing you know just from what they say um how they act about certain things even bringing

01:13:48.100 certain things up could be touchy they get defensive and i'm just like yeah that that's all trauma

01:13:53.140 would you say that women who are feminine are also healed or healthy um honestly i would like to

01:14:00.580 lean towards that because i would say i've been in relationships with others male or female that

01:14:06.580 i just felt like i always had to be on guard i had to be the lead and it was just it was too much

01:14:10.900 and i'm like this is not natural um then going into relationship where i'm like oh like this is

01:14:15.060 actually great i like being able to just do my job and be a woman because like that's what i am

01:14:19.860 and it just it is healing so i would definitely like to side with that and yeah so yeah and like

01:14:24.420 the trauma can put you like as a woman it can put you like one of two ways you either have that kind

01:14:29.620 of response where you dabble like sexually with like the opposite sex or you're in the other

01:14:35.620 category where you dabble sexually with the same sex but now everybody gets it because you think that

01:14:41.140 you're in your feminist power you can just take control of your sexuality and give it to everybody

01:14:46.500 like i i subscribed to that when i was younger and it didn't do anything for me i had to like

01:14:52.500 literally give my life back to christ and like remember my roots that's one of the work that's

01:14:56.660 the one of the most egregious uh from the feminist ideology is like it takes what's leverage for women

01:15:03.140 your sex your virginity your chastity um your virtue and it flips it and says no that is your power

01:15:10.020 right and when a christian says yeah that's partly is your power um but it says give it away basically

01:15:16.260 give it away like here you go like free and again there's a long process here you go back to the 60s

01:15:22.020 there's a dedicated movement toward uh psychedelics free love concentrated effort to get that to happen

01:15:29.220 and lo and behold just a couple you know decade or two later the the foundation of the home starts to

01:15:36.420 wither away and then women are like i'm not having kids like i'm not going to be a slave to the

01:15:41.140 kitchen meanwhile if you just kind of it could be the case that the the truest form of feminism is

01:15:48.260 being a homemaker what what if that was a form of feminism if you if you watched the debate yesterday

01:15:53.220 i asked oliver that i said is it possible that being a homemaker is is the best feminism right could

01:15:59.940 it be redefined as like the best expression of women and he couldn't he couldn't combat it it just

01:16:05.540 happens to be the case like you said that like there's like there's this like feminism produces

01:16:11.300 a bunch of uh weak uh men impersonators they're not even strong men impersonators they're weak men

01:16:18.260 impersonators and it's just not it's it's i think it's uh god willing it's starting to fall apart now

01:16:23.460 the other silly thing that feminism does is it makes women hold two completely contradictory ideas

01:16:29.060 in their mind at the same time and specifically relating to how they view sex it's either

01:16:34.420 super casual and i relate to it the same way that a guy does and it doesn't affect me at all or on the

01:16:40.260 other extreme don't look at me the wrong way because your sex is going to take you to court

01:16:45.060 and so if someone and feminism is full of these i'm writing a book right now called 100 ways feminism

01:16:49.860 is a failure and it's gonna be good it's gonna be fun um we're we go through a little bit of the

01:16:54.980 history of feminism and uncover you know all the dirtiness because most people don't even know that

01:16:59.380 the suffragette was like equivalent to blm in the amount of damage that they did to society

01:17:04.500 like physical arson bombings everything um but we also go through every single major contradiction

01:17:10.820 that feminism holds at the same time starting from i'm a woman also there's no definition of a woman

01:17:17.860 sex is not important at all and totally casual and also i'm going to meet to you at the first

01:17:23.060 opportunity that i can we go through a bunch of other stuff as well but that's how feminism controls

01:17:27.780 women it literally makes them crazy because you cannot have two separate ideas in your mind at

01:17:34.020 the same time because you're going to be split between them and someone's just going to be able

01:17:37.940 to come in and insert the whatever they think the truth is on you make sure to make sure to add in the

01:17:42.180 book the early contradiction of the suffragettes uh physically and uh basically any way possible

01:17:49.140 shutting down what was the majority of women coming out to say we don't want we don't want to vote

01:17:53.140 they're like no no you can't you can't do a preliminary vote against uh your own vote they

01:17:58.820 like shut it down yes which is a contradiction that's a huge part of it and also you know it's

01:18:02.420 funny you have rosie on your um your shirt and you know what's funny about rosie she worked for

01:18:09.540 five or six days in the metal factory and then decided it was too hard it was too dangerous and

01:18:14.180 she left she became a cellist after that and it's funny because you'll always see girls on instagram

01:18:19.540 like feminist girls talking about oh i don't want to simp i don't want a guy that's just going to

01:18:23.860 like submit to everything i say but then in the same tone they're like i don't i will not submit i

01:18:28.340 will not like what do you want then you don't even know speaking of submission speaking of submission

01:18:33.620 i have a video i want to show you guys uh this is a video of i took of my uh we're broken up ex-girlfriend

01:18:47.700 this is my expectation in a relationship go ahead and uh play it all right so uh

01:18:56.100 boom she's got to bow okay she's got to bow she picked something up too right oh i threw my slippers

01:19:02.180 off okay and i got you know i it was a long long podcast i get home she's got my food ready

01:19:10.820 she's got my food ready she gets me the beer as she should this is my expectation uh i had to

01:19:19.940 scold her those tomatoes are disgusting i don't know why she did that and then get ready to play it

01:19:26.260 again play it again just the beginning part pause it you see the bow you see how deep the bow is do you

01:19:34.020 see the i have a question would a curtsy work for you no i i mean that's kind of masculine if you want

01:19:43.140 to yeah no it's if you want to curtsy i'll accept it but going around the table would you bow

01:19:51.620 for your boyfriend i would curtsy you would no but he says i want you to bow yes i would

01:20:02.420 absolutely not absolutely not okay we'll come back to that what about you i'd have to

01:20:06.740 ask why because that's not a western european culture thing but i'd probably curtsy as a former

01:20:12.820 ballerina also i will ask for why the reason wait you'll ask for a while yeah for for what

01:20:27.300 do they uh here we'll do uh do they bow is there is there bowing in china no no definitely

01:20:36.580 not no no korea it's korea they they definitely bow to older older generations but in china they

01:20:43.060 don't know no no no there's no bad no bowing no bad no not in china no about in like certain parts

01:20:50.580 of china oh no no definitely not maybe maybe in asian they would do that okay yeah all right but not

01:20:58.660 now we just bow to him just to show respect yeah like okay here's i don't see what's i mean

01:21:04.180 i mean yeah like if that makes him feel good like why not what about you no yeah you wouldn't do it

01:21:14.740 i won't damn that's crazy okay all right i'm gonna flip in and say let's bow to god together

01:21:21.220 instead yeah that feels better i'm gonna say no

01:21:24.100 uh so would you bow though or no what if he bows to god and you're behind him and you bow that makes

01:21:34.580 more sense yeah but like i don't know that was uncomfortable i think it's funny like my husband

01:21:41.540 and i joke all the time yeah it would be a funny joke i'd be like okay seriously like he would find

01:21:47.140 that weird but um yeah that was funny that was a good yeah yeah but would you uh

01:22:00.180 i really gotta think about this because i'll submit to my man but like

01:22:05.700 bowing yes bowing i know i get it i'm just i don't know i'm torn like i'm not trolling can you

01:22:12.020 come back or can i just like that's really deep he's gonna think about it wait what did you say

01:22:17.140 because i'll make him a sandwich i said it you know would you bow while you're me you are kind

01:22:23.860 of bowing when you're making a sandwich it's a long bow i mean if you're at the table especially if it's

01:22:27.940 about him i mean yeah i'm bending over to serve him at the table to get everything so that count that

01:22:31.940 yeah count that no he specifically wants a bow at the door with the slippers i'll bring his slippers to

01:22:38.900 the door i'm not bowing at the door but i'll totally bring his slippers to the door will you

01:22:42.580 put the slippers on you're submissive i thought you were submissive i know but i'm not a slave like

01:22:48.100 that's when the things start getting complicated like why would that make you a slave i also just

01:22:53.060 don't like feet wait what my man knows like we do we talk about this all the time what does that

01:22:59.300 have to do with the bow no he said put his slippers on his feet that's why okay just stick to this

01:23:03.940 okay you don't touch your man's the bow for guys guys guys sorry y'all are all y'all are all over

01:23:10.340 the place that's a great moment get the feet shit out of here forget forget the feet shit would you hit

01:23:16.660 the bow you you said boyfriend so i would definitely say absolutely not not my husband yes but husband

01:23:23.700 yes but then you have to ask why is he asking that right for he wants a demonstration of respect

01:23:32.020 because he feels like he hasn't been getting it from you lately what have you done my husband

01:23:38.820 would never ask that right right but what does he do question for you uh if you didn't have breakfast

01:23:46.340 this morning how would you feel me yeah if i didn't have breakfast this how would you feel yeah if i

01:23:54.020 didn't have breakfast this morning how would i feel do you want me to repeat it again yes i'm just

01:23:58.740 wondering why you're asking that question just answer the question she hasn't been online i'd

01:24:03.940 probably feel hungry okay we'll accept it it's to test if you can engage with a hypothetical oh okay

01:24:11.780 gotcha so if you were to say but i did have breakfast this morning it means you can't engage with a

01:24:17.940 okay okay but so i yeah so i get that your boyfriend or uh wait no you're married right yeah i get your

01:24:25.940 husband he would never ask this but like if he did would you i would probably laugh and do it

01:24:32.980 right that would be because he would he would probably okay be asking because he's trying to

01:24:37.540 be funny or something i don't know what about you oh i'm like okay because i'm like a little like

01:24:42.180 jokey jokes um i feel like if he said that and laughed i would do it but if he was being so serious

01:24:50.020 looked me in my eye and was like i need you to bow i would still laugh no thank you wait i have a

01:24:55.220 i have a follow-up question for you back when you were uh role-playing as a man

01:25:01.380 if you asked your girlfriend at the time to bow for you and you did you said in a low voice like

01:25:06.660 you used to do like lola would she do it um the type of woman that she was um it was almost the

01:25:17.460 same like she would she would do it would laugh but um wouldn't she wouldn't take offense she would

01:25:22.100 do it and laugh oh yeah interesting yeah i think the way you ask is really the way the way yeah not

01:25:29.060 tell us how you would ask the way he would ask like oh i'd show her the video oh oh this is what i

01:25:35.140 want okay wait do that so my man showed me the video and was like do this no thank you look i

01:25:41.940 think i think it's uh i think it's a playful thing especially in the context of like a more

01:25:47.700 like a western culture uh it i don't think you'd mess well it could be a serious thing but

01:25:55.620 because some of those things like you know i mean we're latino women we were raised like you

01:25:59.620 feed your man when he comes home like all of that so in in reality like we do do that just not as

01:26:04.500 frantically but yeah you know we serve him i think the frantic adds but if he needs if he needs a

01:26:12.260 physical sign of your submission doesn't that mean he's like super low iq and can't see the other

01:26:18.580 things that you're doing and offering to him i mean if he if you're making him food and he's like

01:26:23.140 that's not enough of what uh you said uh like sign of your submission like what would be a

01:26:30.420 uh an example well like if you were to make a decision and you maybe disagreed with it then

01:26:35.220 the woman would yield to that and say you know i may disagree but i respect your headship of the

01:26:40.820 house and i'm going to allow you you know or not allow you that's so bad but like i'm going to yield

01:26:45.940 to your leadership here but the idea here is that the bow is completely pointless really like it doesn't

01:26:52.260 serve any purpose but she's willing to do it regardless yeah i'd be willing to yeah curtsy

01:26:58.020 because it's a lot more feminine to do that but um i don't know i just yeah it's kind of silly i

01:27:03.140 have a question yeah what if every time not that there's a lot of times this happens but like um

01:27:08.500 every time um you did yield to him where you kind of disagreed and you yielded anyway if only at that

01:27:15.140 point did you do a curtsy like only in that instance every time like it was like it was like

01:27:21.700 custom it was like a tradition in the home where it was like okay um i don't agree with you i'm

01:27:26.900 yielding you're the man of the house i i gave you my opinion but you're the leader and then and then you

01:27:32.420 go yeah i mean sure right for sure um i would also totally do it at the front of the door if he

01:27:40.020 came home you know because it brings up a bigger bigger question um just about general cultural

01:27:46.660 traditions that america really has none you know we have fast food and consumerism is our new tradition

01:27:52.180 but when you look at i think the bowing thing is become so contentious is because especially i think

01:27:58.500 in the west uh you associate it with worship and it makes sense because every visual you've ever

01:28:03.620 seen a bowing means worship but bowing could mean veneration respect and it's just interesting to

01:28:09.380 watch uh people generally in this uh generation they have like a visceral reaction to it you had

01:28:15.380 a visceral reaction because it's like you almost like a trauma response you tap back into the old

01:28:19.380 feminine ways like the whole feminine mindset i don't mean like technical i'm seeing i'm saying like the

01:28:24.660 the knee-jerk reaction rather oh yeah it's like don't tell me that's what you're saying i'm saying

01:28:31.300 similar to her trauma response the way she responds that would be like my knee-jerk reaction to like

01:28:35.860 what because you know you you associate that with like slavery and all these like horrible things

01:28:40.180 but i'm saying what you would normally associate with it because of the way society pushes you to

01:28:44.580 think and pushes you in this box but if it's coming from like a just you know the more like

01:28:49.460 respectful or whatever way you just put it that would make more sense to me you know like

01:28:53.620 yeah okay so just a recap here show of hands who will do the bow who won't uh show of hands if you

01:29:00.740 will do the bow yes yes i guess that no so wait no no no no no if it's a boyfriend no okay so for

01:29:10.020 those of you who said wait sorry if it what you said boyfriend yeah boyfriend okay oh that's an

01:29:15.460 interesting okay i can go that route bees in the chat if you're gonna bow bees in the chat

01:29:21.620 and i will say in reality like because i've been married for a while most men when they get home they

01:29:26.980 want food so they're not going to ask for you to bow to them right you know you're going to want to

01:29:31.700 have food for them when they get home from a long day so like for example she's she's been in a

01:29:35.700 relationship for three years you think yes to the husband but no if it's a boyfriend well i haven't

01:29:41.300 dated i've never dated that long like my husband is the longest man i've dated so i don't know what

01:29:46.020 would you do it for your husband or no yeah probably but he would just i mean he wouldn't ask that but i

01:29:52.260 would laugh and do it right she'd laugh and do it okay i would think he was being funny so those of

01:29:56.820 you who said no to the bow uh who those of you do you want a man to open your car door like say he's

01:30:06.340 picking you up for a date do you want him to open the car door for you can i say something i would

01:30:12.340 want him to want to open the car door for me does that make sense like if he feels pressured that

01:30:18.580 he has to open the car door then i don't want him to open the car door for me but i would want him

01:30:24.500 to want to do that so okay you want okay that's a yes what about you um i honestly don't care if he

01:30:32.180 opens the car door for me i know that i can raise some eyebrows but um it doesn't bother me what about

01:30:35.860 you um i mean i would like it would be nice but it's not a make or break and wait are you yes on the

01:30:41.220 bow bow or were you a partial she said i think now i am it was no no no only for my man though okay

01:30:50.260 but um yeah do you want the guy to do like those gestures open the car door for you um i don't care

01:30:57.060 about this you don't care okay yeah definitely yes yes you want it what about you 50 50. okay

01:31:06.100 yeah you half want it it's not like a requirement okay um how about this you know uh walking down

01:31:17.780 the sidewalk the man walks that's you want you want the man to be walking closer to where the cars are

01:31:25.060 do you want that yes yeah do you want that or maybe i don't know if this is a thing in china maybe

01:31:31.140 it doesn't matter yeah yeah oh do you understand um i i didn't hear oh yeah so uh i don't know if

01:31:40.420 this is something that uh is the case in china but uh it is considered uh a nice gesture or chivalry

01:31:48.660 when walking uh say there's the street with cars you're walking down the sidewalk the man would be

01:31:55.860 closer to the the road oh oh i i don't don't care okay you guys over here yeah it's not make or break

01:32:05.140 but i would like it you'd like it okay my husband did oh wait actually i'm sorry i was still thinking

01:32:10.500 about the car door my man never lets me walk on the side of the cars by the way he never yeah okay yeah

01:32:15.620 you got me okay that one yes i i want especially in new york because people like abduct people in

01:32:21.860 the street so many crazy things happen they punch you in the face oh my god don't roll your eyes

01:32:26.980 because in new york the thing that thing is very common you maybe not out here but so many things

01:32:33.220 happen have you been abducted it doesn't even have to be abducted a car could run onto the sidewalk

01:32:37.220 which happens all the time in new york city like anything could happen so my man always walks on the

01:32:41.780 side of the street um okay and then final question uh let's see open doors uh what about like paying

01:32:52.100 for first dates you want a guy to pay for first dates yes yes yeah actually i'll do one more uh do you

01:33:05.780 think should a man be willing should your boyfriend be willing to boyfriend or husband willing to take

01:33:12.660 a bullet for you i think you should be willing to take a bullet for each other okay um the same to

01:33:22.180 each other each other okay if he's not you're with the wrong guy yeah yeah and that's that sacrificial

01:33:27.940 love so in protection so yes yeah same okay so i ask all these questions because especially the

01:33:39.540 walking closer to the uh street one y'all won't do a bow but you want a guy to put himself in

01:33:50.900 danger you want a guy to potentially be closer so in the event of a car he gets run over and

01:34:01.060 paralyzed but you won't hit a bow i'm sorry the expectation on on me as a man is you have to be

01:34:09.460 willing to die for me yeah you better hit a bow like that's crazy you know that's why i kind of

01:34:16.420 changed my mind because when you put it into perspective it is really like a small ask for

01:34:19.620 like such a oh it's so small yeah it's so small i went to musical theater school we bowed all the

01:34:25.300 time to like people that hate us judging us but the pushback though on the like well maybe for your

01:34:33.700 husband but boyfriends but it's like well you would have expectations even maybe on the first date you

01:34:39.860 want the guy to pay for the first date you'd want him to maybe open your car door you'd still even on

01:34:44.500 the first date want him to walk uh closer to the road so you're talking about more like honor

01:34:50.660 in a sense like you know i mean that's what i see kind of yeah well it's like like it's like an

01:34:56.740 obligation because you're for a man to protect the woman and if that's embedded in them they're not

01:35:01.780 going to have a problem but brian makes a good point like you said you want someone to pay for your

01:35:06.260 first date right so what kind of date would it have to be uh for him in exchange for paying just

01:35:14.260 ask you to bow after the dinner to him after he signs the check he's like oh big tip too would you

01:35:20.900 bow for an expensive dinner no because i can buy my own expensive dinner oh so then okay so but the

01:35:28.740 the reason you want him to pay for the first dinner is why is why i just think it's more

01:35:38.180 traditional i mean i guess like you like the tradition of that like that it's like uh the

01:35:45.380 man is i used to not uh i used to pay for my own but i actually did change my mind on that yeah

01:35:53.380 because i i'm not like i'm not feminist but i'm i'm right in the middle of all these topics yeah

01:35:59.780 i'm very independent and i think in my story are you an independent boss babe i am yeah you seem like

01:36:08.420 you you're in a i don't mean this like insulting that you're like in a survivor kind of mode person

01:36:16.260 yep where you're like you're like i'm not going to expect anything from a man based on everything that

01:36:21.540 i know from your experience yep and so why not train myself to exist without that and if i get

01:36:28.500 into the situation uh case in point you haven't been dating for a long time or whatever if you get into

01:36:35.060 the situation it you might become sort of dependent on the man and resort back to that traditional

01:36:40.660 thing and maybe get like burned from it is that does that is that accurate yes so that you're like

01:36:48.020 you're like this built up armor chick and then like if you get into a situation where let's say you

01:36:54.580 fall in love with a man and it ends up being a sort of um traditional setting and you end up liking it

01:37:00.340 you're gonna fight it all the way right yeah this is interesting you bring this i just had this

01:37:08.180 conversation this morning um yeah pretty pretty much i feel like i i've only the guy that i was

01:37:21.220 with for three years we lived together when we split up he took care of everything i was going to school

01:37:25.860 he was paying for everything he ended up cheating when i found out i left but i was homeless i didn't

01:37:31.300 have my own money i made a vow from that point forward i would never depend on a man and i never have

01:37:37.300 i've never depend on anybody parents nothing i'm completely self-made so you know when we're

01:37:45.060 talking about bowing i think a lot of times with modern dating a lot of men um have taken on a feminine

01:37:54.660 role so if we're talking about if we're talking about the bible and marriage there's different there's

01:38:02.820 different types of marriages like you said you spoke it well so if a man is to protect and provide

01:38:11.140 and he is serving god that's different i'm not coming home to bow to you when i made just as much

01:38:20.180 money or more money at my job no i mean that's fair enough point if there's no context for the hierarchy

01:38:28.500 like if it's not reflective of something you're just getting sort of like a tough guy red pillar not to

01:38:33.780 not to throw shade at red pillars but they're descriptively right about the situation it's just

01:38:39.060 that the expectation for men who want to be this masculine role but they don't actually have a

01:38:44.580 foundation for their tradition then why would you submit anyway wait i actually have pushback on this

01:38:51.380 though so i mean uh you're saying okay well if the guy you guys are making the same amount

01:38:57.060 why would you submit even if you're making the same amount though you're going to have one directional

01:39:02.420 uh traditional expectations of him regardless of the amount that's made so for example you probably

01:39:07.940 want a guy who's a leader who takes initiative and who will protect you and so a guy can do all of

01:39:14.980 these even if you guys are making the same amount of money or even if you are making more than him

01:39:22.420 isn't that kind of like when it comes to men like masculine men isn't that naturally what

01:39:27.700 they want to do anyways yeah just like females they naturally want to do certain things don't men

01:39:32.420 naturally well they expect whether they want to or not brian's saying and i think just to get

01:39:36.820 clarity on you are you saying you don't expect you don't expect men to do anything for you

01:39:43.860 i'm a little bit of a different case um the only relationships i've been in were not good ones

01:39:50.100 so i don't have i've never been with a great man that was a leader that i could trust that i felt safe

01:39:56.420 with that's not my story right so um you know and especially i just had my 40th birthday so i'm

01:40:04.340 thinking a lot about these things like the kid thing obviously i'm running out of time i don't

01:40:11.380 want a kid for the sake of having a kid but i could if i found the right man that i want to have a

01:40:17.460 family with but my experiences with men are very negative so i automatically have trauma responses come

01:40:25.940 out what's the likelihood that the right man who wants to settle down and has uh want to have kids with

01:40:31.620 you holds a traditional uh system of thinking and we'll expect that played out in the in the

01:40:38.340 relationship what are the chances that that's the kind of man that would choose me uh not choose you

01:40:44.500 but like if there was a man out there who is likely going to want children and and a family isn't it

01:40:51.700 more likely that they're going to hold a traditional mindset yeah right so that's why brian's asking like

01:40:59.620 you have you pick and choose where you want the tradition to come in like chivalry and paying

01:41:04.500 for dinner and and we're asking well what's the what's the trade-off if you're not uh what's equal

01:41:11.060 to that for the woman i get what you're saying from that from that view so just recently um i went on a

01:41:17.620 few dates with a nigerian man and very traditional but his his idea do you do it sorry go ahead

01:41:27.220 his his you're like it sounds just like him you're like no do we so the i think the problem is a lot of

01:41:39.300 men mistake tradition with power and they mistake money for power so a lot of times men will if

01:41:50.260 they're taking care of you financially or whatever like this was a conversation i had on the date with

01:41:54.580 him that i would never have to do anything he would take care of everything but if i wanted to go out

01:42:00.980 with my friends on a friday night and he said he didn't want me to that i just can't go and i can't

01:42:05.540 ask questions i'm not the type to be controlled w good for him controlled why is it controlling

01:42:15.780 because you're telling me what to do and you're you're not married to him so

01:42:20.180 not for me there's no commitment what even if there even if there is no marriage commitment

01:42:27.700 or contract yeah obviously if you're not married there's no marriage commitment right well there's

01:42:31.540 no be committed to somebody and be in a relationship with them what yeah well in it coming from a

01:42:36.340 christian standpoint there is no commitment okay so just to be clear you uh you said you've been

01:42:42.020 married for 18 years okay and how long were you before you got married how long were you dating him

01:42:47.060 two years okay so just to be clear if you were if you slept with somebody else

01:42:51.860 during that two-year period it wouldn't have been cheating because there wasn't commitment

01:42:55.540 no it would have been but i thought that hold on but you just said there there can't be

01:42:59.540 commitment absent marriage well you were speaking of her situation she was not married to

01:43:04.100 right you're you weren't married to him

01:43:09.380 but so

01:43:10.580 well marriage it between is between a man and a woman and that's a commitment that's what i was

01:43:17.220 referring to and so if she's not committed to her partner then it's it's almost like confusing

01:43:25.460 you know and like she should she's her own person in a sense so okay so like anybody who's in a

01:43:32.020 relationship but they're not married they can just sleep with other people then that's pretty much

01:43:36.340 what they do but there's also a difference what they do when they're married people are in

01:43:40.020 relationships all the time and they're not happening no but there's also a difference

01:43:44.500 between being in a relationship and dating white like courting somebody like in that situation where

01:43:49.380 you're saying you know you go out on a date with a guy whatever he's courting you he's showing you

01:43:53.860 the value though that you would have as his wife he's showing you like in other ways like

01:43:58.260 that he will take care of you like these are you make the face but these are traditional things

01:44:02.100 like it's true like he's courting so yeah i want to ask you but okay it's this all stemmed from

01:44:12.020 you were dating this guy how long were you dating him the nigerian man yeah we went on like three

01:44:17.620 dates okay i mean oh i was i was thinking y'all were cohabiting yeah it might be a little soon

01:44:22.820 okay yeah no i i was i was asking questions like this from jump oh so i don't i don't guys don't

01:44:31.220 usually last long with me because i i figure out who people are very quickly do you think it's a

01:44:35.620 possibility that a good man could love you well enough to where you'd put your guard down and

01:44:40.660 allow him yes what would he have to do to showcase that he is loving trustworthy etc to make you put

01:44:47.780 your guard down consistency that is the number one when people ask me all the time why are you still

01:44:53.220 single why are you still single i have not found a man that i am also interested in that has been

01:45:00.820 consistent so what does that mean what do you mean consistent consistent consistently show up

01:45:06.660 consistently text me consistently plan dates consistently be a good person consistently have

01:45:13.220 integrity consistency consistently show up as the same person day in and day out are you consistent

01:45:19.300 yeah how you show up for a partner very much how so well i haven't had a partner well like when you

01:45:25.860 did have a partner i i can't answer that because i wasn't sober i haven't been in a relationship since

01:45:31.780 i've been sober wait oh okay you said you did date a guy for three years but i wasn't sober that was

01:45:36.980 before i got clean what what uh what was your poison uh alcohol and drugs opiates opiates okay

01:45:46.180 do you i mean everything but if i'd choose do you feel like the area you live in also contributes to

01:45:52.420 like the dating pool like i know you said you live in hollywood and like if from what i hear like it's

01:45:56.260 hard to date in hollywood well i'm also from fond du lac wisconsin that's a town of 30 000 people

01:46:02.900 so then i moved to milwaukee wisconsin that's bigger but also very segregated that was a big reason why i left

01:46:11.700 left so i have not been in yes i have not necessarily been in positions to find great men today

01:46:29.140 maybe you should go to another country because i mean i'm just telling you like the traditional is

01:46:35.380 like there is no traditionalism here like guys are so feminine they i mean even if they make a lot of

01:46:41.140 money they still feel like the woman should contribute just as much financially a hundred

01:46:45.300 percent agree and but also like do all this and a hundred percent agree and so like yeah i tell

01:46:50.420 people like my friends who are like you know girl i just like cannot find someone even at like

01:46:54.180 these conservative events that we go to i'm like girl maybe try going out of the country

01:46:59.860 it's not that much of a priority for me

01:47:03.060 where are you where are you like finding like where did you find your past boyfriends

01:47:08.420 like how'd you meet them she had one right no i had four serious relationships but you were

01:47:15.780 on meth or wait what was it i was not on meth oh my god what's something

01:47:21.780 is like heroin oxycontin oh okay downers yeah downers are those worse than meth

01:47:28.340 i mean they're two totally different things or wait worse in different ways meth will have longer

01:47:36.100 term psychosis but opiates have a greater risk of killing you yeah got it okay you could die from

01:47:42.180 withdrawals of alcohol and heroin so look i want you can't from heroin i want to bring it to this

01:47:48.340 you can't bring it back to the bullet thing me and jim bob probably disagree on this but uh should men

01:47:54.980 be willing to sacrifice their life for their girlfriend or wife yeah i don't think so i don't

01:48:01.140 think they should do it anyone disagree you don't think so no why why wouldn't you oh there's plenty

01:48:09.300 of reasons so let's say in the example she has we have kids together well i'm gonna be better suited

01:48:16.340 to financially provide for the kids and then uh what's the other reason oh like single dads are

01:48:24.100 better so than single moms so do you think you'll find a wife with that kind of mind state why would

01:48:30.340 that why would that well yeah if that's even your goal right if that's even your goal right yeah but

01:48:37.700 like if you were in a situation where you knew like like if you put yourself in front of your wife

01:48:43.380 that you were going to block her from being hurt or killed i would you do it i would use her as a

01:48:49.460 shield a meat shield well this is no i can't believe that this is like the feminine man oh yeah

01:48:57.780 this assumes this assumes you know the outcome though so like the question ends up being um

01:49:03.380 is there anyone any relationship you'd be willing to risk that you might get hurt or even death but you

01:49:09.060 don't know you're going to that you would actually take the risk it could be even saving someone's life

01:49:14.180 and not in a situation where you're even getting shot like uh swimming out uh you know 50 yards to

01:49:19.780 save someone yeah brian would you do it for your mother uh would i do it for my mother i would i'd be

01:49:27.860 more likely to do it for my mother than my uh my girlfriend or wife i don't know if you called her a

01:49:35.140 flush of meat would your dad have felt that way about your mom oh my dad my dad would probably take

01:49:43.140 the bullet but uh i just why are we so uh i just weird like why why should men sacrifice their life

01:49:50.740 for women why i have like make an actual argument for why okay i i will after this question okay so

01:49:57.860 what's the order for you like wife mom kids uh it's probably like children children parents

01:50:05.700 because you think should it be should it be wife children i feel like it should be wife children

01:50:13.940 mom no it should be children so you sacrifice your life for it should be children should be wife

01:50:20.820 or sorry children you had it right sorry no children mom or dad wife so your wife is on

01:50:29.220 the bottom the woman that you decided to like dedicate your life to that will be there longer

01:50:34.020 than your mom will and create god willing right i can't get the woman who gave you your children

01:50:39.220 i'm a family guy i got a lot of my my mom and dad your wife is your family hold on so when you get

01:50:49.220 married you're you're your mom and dad are no longer your immediate family it's your it's your

01:50:53.780 wife and your kids yeah i understand that but uh oh what the fuck is and it's wife and kids because

01:51:01.700 your kids will grow up and have their own lives right here we go okay it's that no it's the hold

01:51:07.860 on gh5r yeah you got to leave that up okay um all right sorry what were you saying so like

01:51:18.340 when you get married your parents and like your brother and sister are no longer your immediate

01:51:22.500 family it's your you've created your own yeah i can just get another wife bro i don't imagine that

01:51:29.860 you follow christ i can't get i can't hold on i can't get another uh mom or dad uh-huh

01:51:37.700 well hopefully you would say that you your wife is irreplaceable because you pick such a great one

01:51:42.820 like that oh yeah i would suck for a couple weeks because you agree that like dating finding good

01:51:46.980 women is hard right i think here's my thing is maybe i shouldn't troll on this

01:51:54.340 but i think you know the funeral reception i should be i should be back on tinder

01:52:04.260 yeah i'm surprised you think like that you said you're you you had you grew up with a married

01:52:08.980 mother and father and you said your father would yeah sure i'm just you said your father would take

01:52:14.820 a bullet for your your mom right probably okay but why would he do that i think the question that's just

01:52:20.260 like the romantic yeah he'd probably do it um why just because my dad would do doesn't mean i

01:52:28.500 have to do it though what trauma have you not worked through brian do you feel like your dad set

01:52:34.500 the example for the husband you should be why would there be like uh trauma like a trauma indication

01:52:40.980 if i'm not willing to die for a woman what woman really hurt you yeah why would that

01:52:44.740 that i don't how does that compute do you think the fact that they chose let me go ahead uh because

01:52:53.140 right now it sounds like you don't care about that nuclear family and that you're okay with destroying

01:52:58.180 it and that you can handle it all on your own being that single father well hold on the scenario is

01:53:03.380 either i die or the woman dies wow okay why is that a wow that's literally the hypothetical so uh

01:53:12.180 why would it i mean it would tear apart so you're just saying that women are you gotta let me you

01:53:17.460 gotta stop interrupting uh it would tear apart the family either way if one of us died so what so

01:53:24.500 you're just saying we're replaceable correct well that's what you're saying about men

01:53:32.420 and yes you are thank you well he's i mean in the instance but someone dies both are both ultimately

01:53:41.700 get replaced in either scenario right eventually with time right so would that be something that

01:53:46.740 you'd be proud to tell your kids yeah i pushed mom in front of me just so that i could live longer is

01:53:52.980 that something you'd be proud of oh yeah i would tell my kids i'd be like why is it like make an actual

01:54:00.500 argument why the man should die they hate this well you said earlier you you mentioned that's that's kind of

01:54:09.300 feminine like didn't you say that when he like i see that more like a feminine behavior that is you

01:54:14.260 know wait hold on let me ask you a question let me ask you guys a question you're saying it's a

01:54:18.660 feminine behavior i see it a little bit more so like that yeah so because i would think a man would want

01:54:24.500 to do something like that especially to his if he's a christian man and he's married i would say

01:54:31.380 programmed and brainwashed and society has deemed men as the disposable sex okay we send you to war

01:54:40.740 you die we don't really care if there's like a terrorist attack they're like this many women and

01:54:45.860 children died but they kind of don't care that there's more men that died so there's all these kinds of

01:54:51.060 uh societal uh narratives as to the disposability of the male sex so i've yet to actually hear a

01:54:59.540 compelling argument for why men should die over women can i ask you a question can i ask you a

01:55:06.180 question yeah go ahead are you are you christian no okay i have uh positive sentiments towards

01:55:12.660 christianity yeah so that's the answer yeah that's the whole answer you could be secular and still be like

01:55:18.020 a simp no but what you said earlier when you were talking about marriage you were saying that that

01:55:26.500 the men suffer through the divorce and the men pay yeah that would also happen to a christian guy but

01:55:34.180 no i know but i'm i'm leading into something else because so so you have more of a i'm more masculine

01:55:42.100 you're more feminine it's not gonna work between us but go ahead no it never would um i would have

01:55:48.020 to take a bullet but there's nothing wrong with that that's that's your view why is it why is it uh

01:55:59.060 feminine to not want to die why is that no no that's literally what you said why is that feminine

01:56:04.740 no so the reason i asked if you were christian because a lot of what you were saying like the bible i've

01:56:10.660 never really studied the bible i believe in god i'm i'm more yeah go ahead you know so in the bible

01:56:18.420 it talks about the man protecting and providing it talks about whatever you give a woman she will

01:56:23.220 multiply like these are all things in the bible so if you're christian you're gonna and a man you're

01:56:29.620 going to take that bullet you are going to protect and provide you're going to make different choices

01:56:35.460 then your actual scripture uh well well there is but uh without getting into like scripture

01:56:41.460 the there is like a certain paradigm of men leading with sacrifice the question is what kinds of

01:56:49.620 sacrifice that are you willing to commit for uh you know from that position like like from a from that

01:56:56.100 position do does a man have the obligation within the christian paradigm to be the first to uh dead

01:57:04.420 you know basically volunteer himself to sacrifice and i think going to war is kind of like that so

01:57:09.940 i guess a better question for you andrew or sorry um brian and anyone else listening who's

01:57:14.740 kind of like going up brian might have a point is um what is there any could you be compelled to fight

01:57:23.540 um to like fight pick up arms and actually fight with the risk of death like could it would

01:57:29.540 it be an invasion would it be um you mean a town at the town level uh just yeah picking up and being

01:57:35.860 in a war like that would be the question is like is there is there a scenario where you would actually

01:57:41.540 risk death to go to to go to war if it's local or foreign what do you so like but with with draft

01:57:49.540 i would be forced right yeah without the draft that you would actually feel compelled yeah you would be

01:57:54.660 compelled to risk death for a reason bigger than your own uh you know current state of affairs uh

01:58:03.860 i mean most warfare is uh kind of

01:58:09.300 bullshit so i mean i don't know i agree that most wars i don't think it would be like for example like

01:58:14.420 uh a draft dodger during the vietnam war like i don't have any like okay why were we in vietnam that

01:58:21.540 was no i understand it but i guess it comes down to is there ever a justified uh war i guess in some

01:58:28.900 sense that you could imagine and if there was a justified war is there anything situation that

01:58:34.660 could alien invasion alien invasion they're gonna fucking kill us all okay kill us all i will i'll

01:58:41.140 step up okay i'll step up but if the u.s government in further or the u.s government and all these uh

01:58:49.140 these uh like raytheon and right oh they they just want to make money right by having young i agree

01:58:56.420 without all that no i understand so the question is if you were with someone and let's say you were in

01:59:01.460 love with the the woman let's say you had kids and and uh and a wife and the aliens came yeah and they

01:59:06.740 had to choose the government came and they were like who's who's gonna be fighting you wouldn't you

01:59:11.860 would send your wife or would you step up um uh so oh i have a choice whether it's me or her

01:59:20.980 she's still going to my alien all right all right sending her right all right so you only step okay

01:59:25.940 so you only step in if yeah but but that's weird in the instance where you don't have a wife why are

01:59:31.940 you still going you have a choice not to go oh i have a choice to not yeah because that's the that's

01:59:36.180 the hypothetical is there any scenario where uh you would actually voluntarily step in and risk

01:59:42.180 your life to fight you said aliens but now i just added that you have a wife i i thought the scenario

01:59:46.980 was if i don't fight the world is lost oh it's just young you so it has to be it has to be on you

01:59:56.420 yeah pretty much uh you can make a graphic novel whatever graphic i want to bring it back over here

02:00:02.100 though uh i've still yet to hear a compelling reason for uh why well i will say in the bible

02:00:08.100 if you're a christian paul says make a secular argument okay i would say because men are not as

02:00:14.420 emotional as women women are very emotional and we can become unstable good let's send those emotional

02:00:21.700 women to the front line so i just feel like also too psychology wise men are more the risk takers

02:00:30.100 women are not so i just feel like they we don't want risk takers in the military okay we should

02:00:36.500 throw the women have the women uh yeah but look okay here i'll give this example i'll give two examples

02:00:43.700 actually first off in chess you lose if you sacrifice the king to save the queen you can't do that actually

02:00:53.060 technically like you can't put the king into sorry what do you can't you can't put the king into check

02:00:58.820 you can't move him there you actually can't do that technically what do you mean technically so

02:01:03.700 like like a chess piece you cannot move the king into a place where he'll be in check you're not

02:01:09.380 allowed to do that but i'm sorry wait but someone could like mistakenly no but yeah you like with

02:01:15.700 actual rules you're not allowed to move there you're only in the threat position you can't be in the

02:01:20.260 active so someone someone can move into you know put you into check and then you have to move out of it

02:01:27.140 you can't stay in it once you're in check and you also cannot actively move the king into check

02:01:32.020 yeah but no but your analogy kind of still works in your favor because the queen will sacrifice

02:01:36.900 herself before the king in the game though so yeah the queen will sacrifice herself but also the queen

02:01:43.620 in this context is like way more powerful than the king like the king can only move one space at a

02:01:50.740 time the queen can move that's true it's not reflective of reality no not at all chess is a lie

02:01:54.740 it's just an analogy chess is a feminist propaganda machine oh my god let's run with that i have a

02:02:00.820 question were you would you be mad if you were on the titanic and they were like women and children

02:02:05.540 first oh he would jump in there he'd be like that one guy that like fell off the one guy that pretended

02:02:14.740 it was his kid he probably right it would totally be him i'm getting oh yeah this brain's consistent

02:02:20.180 i'm getting on the lifeboat he's consistent well okay so here look but but you guys want to say oh

02:02:26.180 it's it's a weak man who wouldn't sacrifice his life for a woman he's very feminine he's kind of a coward

02:02:32.740 but like if you look at certain historical figures throughout time genghis khan this guy had like

02:02:40.660 dozens maybe hundreds of wives and concubines genghis khan if if he was presented with a scenario

02:02:51.140 where he had to die for one of his wives you think he's dying genghis khan is going to be like you know

02:02:58.820 what i have 30 wives but i'm going to sacrifice one of them or i'm going to sacrifice myself for one of

02:03:07.700 them i mean if you have 30 wives like that's totally different right but what i'm saying is

02:03:13.940 this idea that oh my god you wouldn't sacrifice you wouldn't sacrifice your life for a woman that's

02:03:20.980 like beta i'm like genghis khan this guy's the alphaest dude of to ever have alphaed you know

02:03:29.540 i don't think that i think he oh this guy i'm sorry if you look at the genetic lineage of uh

02:03:35.620 uh bro that guy he fucked so you define masculinity by how many genes you

02:03:42.340 produce and how many children it could be a component of it but i mean like decide so what

02:03:46.980 are you waiting for it's time to get going get started well girls won't be with them

02:03:50.900 but america exactly they would want to miss shields

02:03:55.780 look it's just it's it look i i've yet to actually hear a compelling reason why men should

02:04:02.740 sacrifice their life why they should take the bullet have you had answer the question on a

02:04:08.580 first date have you told a woman that and how did how does she react have you told i would sacrifice

02:04:14.180 you that's his opening line well i'm wondering because if masculinity is defined by how many kids

02:04:20.980 you have you got to at least get past the first date hopefully yeah well i think uh it's kind of

02:04:27.460 interesting though so basically your uh your metric for which you would date a man is he must die for

02:04:35.300 me no i'm asking you is your metric that you date a woman her being okay with her dying for you

02:04:42.740 oh she doesn't have to die for me but i'm definitely not dying for her

02:04:47.060 okay at least it's fair i don't think men should be willing to die for any woman i think it should just

02:04:54.020 be his one woman like if a woman's walking down the street like he doesn't even know her yeah like

02:05:00.100 and she walks into traffic i'm not going to run out into traffic even your wife i mean if i fall

02:05:06.180 into traffic or something like yeah i expect my husband to like at least try to get me out of

02:05:10.820 that situation look just to be clear i would absolutely protect my wife but you might get hit

02:05:18.340 up to a point up to a point though i'm not gonna die so like if a burglar like comes into your house

02:05:26.660 into your bedroom he's gonna die like i'm gonna kill him what if he finds your wife first what if

02:05:31.300 you're in the bedroom and she's in the kitchen he goes to the kitchen first like are you willing to

02:05:35.700 run into the kitchen and like i'm gonna take out my gun okay he's gonna get some lead great okay

02:05:41.140 if you're outnumbered are you gonna stand in front of her and use your lead or are you gonna stand behind

02:05:45.140 no what if you're outnumbered like which one are you gonna do what if you're outnumbered what if

02:05:51.300 there are multiple i'm gonna get him i'm gonna get him in my sights and i'm like get get the

02:05:58.500 out the way lady he's gonna get shot lady when your wife is standing in front of you and has no

02:06:06.500 weapon of her own because she's just like making dinner i'm actually getting a bow to you

02:06:10.500 she's getting ready to bow and she doesn't have her gun on her what the fuck she's preparing her

02:06:20.740 best bow making dinner preparing her best bow is that what you said i actually think if you're

02:06:27.700 confronted with the moment like that not the kitchen scenario but a scenario where you were

02:06:33.540 going to take i really think deep down something in your biology would probably step in the way

02:06:38.100 and and push her out of the way i feel like i know i really think so luckily i have overcame

02:06:44.420 i've transcended your instinct i've transcended hold on but in handgun practice there's like this rule

02:06:50.900 that you're only going to be 50 if you're actually really good as good at with accuracy with the gun

02:06:56.980 in a moment of stress and so i think your biology would actually kick in and you'd push her out of the

02:07:01.780 way and if you took a bullet in the meantime you'd be like well that stinks but i i think it's a

02:07:06.900 biological thing i think you you want to say that you would mentally override your initial reaction

02:07:12.180 but i don't think men are wired that way you also don't fully know when you're in a full you don't

02:07:19.540 have full knowledge of if you're going to die or get hurt a lot of times you're just kind of guessing

02:07:23.460 and reacting to that but he does make a good point because ultimately from a secular position uh there

02:07:30.500 isn't a good answer to this question no yeah there's not so there's only a pragmatic utility and brian's

02:07:35.540 holding the pragmatic utility position and you can't really defeat it unless you insert

02:07:41.300 a theological view i would argue particularly a christian view which he doesn't hold so in

02:07:46.100 in this instance he's not married anyway because he has no reason to do that either

02:07:50.420 so i mean yeah why would you do why would you die to defend uh a woman the status of which you'll never

02:07:57.540 have as a wife because you don't the value that part first so it's like yeah it's all downstream from

02:08:03.700 like oh it's just a human um i can get another human and you know it's like that it's like a pez

02:08:10.100 dispenser related to this related to this just curious uh who here's a virgin

02:08:17.220 anybody a virgin never had sex i don't know if they have a different word never had virgin never no

02:08:24.180 sex yeah born against either no sex you've had sex no sex okay we got two virgins uh

02:08:34.900 if men should be willing to sacrifice their life for their girlfriend or wife whatever should women be

02:08:42.980 virgins wait what wait just to be clear just to be clear so here's your argument uh not a virgin

02:08:50.980 not a virgin you're married i don't know if you were a virgin i wasn't okay i have kids

02:08:59.460 you're married were you uh a virgin okay mine was a joke so just to be clear just to be clear

02:09:07.460 traditional gender roles men should be willing to die but women not virgins so explain to me

02:09:16.100 why and i think in comparison even if the woman is a virgin uh that's wonderful that's great but i

02:09:26.260 don't think that's anywhere comparable to the the sacrifice of giving your life

02:09:33.940 why why is that a fair trade-off

02:09:35.620 like you guys can't even bring virginity i mean they they can but

02:09:43.940 but you want men to die for you but you're not virgins explain it

02:09:51.460 so you only have value if you're a virgin

02:09:55.060 i just want to make sure i'm clear yeah

02:09:56.580 gotcha bitch

02:10:01.060 well yeah well another way of asking what he's asking is what's equivalent to that then because

02:10:06.180 he's just putting it out there like what if men valued uh virginity virtue uh from their women they

02:10:12.020 wanted a society that women actually you know not only valued that but tried to actually actualize it

02:10:18.980 the same way they're expecting men to actualize sacrifice to the to death war etc so if it's not

02:10:25.780 virginity i think virginity is actually a pretty good uh uh one to present but if it's not that

02:10:31.460 what else would it what what's something comparable then i think it also changes if you have kids so i

02:10:37.940 mean but what's comparable though to that because let's say let's say a bunch of women said yes we

02:10:42.980 expect men to potentially die be on this side of the road maybe they get hit by the car first they

02:10:48.100 open the car door for us they go to war they keep society thriving they do all the grunt work

02:10:53.140 if you asked all the men and then let's say it was like 95 men said what do you want in return and

02:10:59.940 we say we want you to value your virginity virginity what would be if it wasn't virginity what else would

02:11:06.100 it be like you know what i melt healing brian from his sickness feeling

02:11:12.820 yeah i think i mean i understand the point you're trying to make and like for someone like me for

02:11:17.220 instance who has children obviously i can't get it back right and i love my children i wouldn't trade

02:11:22.020 them for the world but i also now in hindsight if i could have waited to marriage i would have

02:11:28.500 totally but what would your argument be to like let's say i put a should claim on women and i say

02:11:34.980 women should be virgins what would your rebuttal be to that then the women who aren't virgins have

02:11:39.540 no business dating you or trying to no i'm just saying well you would make a should claim as to all men

02:11:45.940 should be willing to uh sacrifice their life for their wife can we agree both huh can we agree both

02:11:52.820 all women before marriage should be virgins and men should but they're not well the thing is too that's

02:11:58.660 like something we can't take back and it's something that like i feel like at a young age it was like

02:12:04.980 hyped and whatnot um we're just going through a whole bunch of programming like they're wanting us to be

02:12:11.300 confused to be promiscuous to engage in partying and keep us distracted at a low vibration and it

02:12:19.140 sucks because i think we could agree that we would wait for our husband but unfortunately that's

02:12:25.300 something we can't get back and i feel like now like in terms of me and my relationship like okay i can't

02:12:30.100 offer him virginity but i can offer him a bow loyalty and um that was a good one um but also you know

02:12:38.660 knowing that no other man is ever going to touch my body i'm not going to do things to try to entice

02:12:43.060 men to even want to be near me you know i mean i'm never going to be provoking men's attention or

02:12:48.420 anything like that that's the best that we can do for women who aren't virgins and you know if

02:12:53.060 if a man is willing to accept that great you know sounds like modesty the question is um

02:12:58.900 why why don't the men in our culture why haven't we earned the modesty before the marriage you know what

02:13:06.180 i mean because it's like there's this trend where it's like yeah you you find you found the man of

02:13:11.060 your dreams you both let's be honest both wish you could erase a lot of your past uh but now you're

02:13:18.180 you want to you know kind of settle into the modesty position for your husband but it's interesting that

02:13:22.820 it's kind of at the tail end and it's not at the at the beginning it would make more sense that women

02:13:28.260 were modest for their potential husbands but that plays into how you're raised and like your life

02:13:34.980 experiences that you have you know again like i was subscribed growing up like i subscribed to the

02:13:40.260 whole feminist independent woman all yada yada all that jazz but growing up having children having a

02:13:45.700 children is a big thing to like to shift your mindset because it really puts perspective you

02:13:50.820 know priorities into place and it puts into perspective choices that you made things you

02:13:54.500 would have done differently so like hindsight is 20 20 like i totally would have changed a lot of

02:13:59.700 the things i did as a teenager knowing if i would have known what i knew now well i think we could

02:14:03.860 all agree that uh descriptively at least in the us and some other countries that the movement away

02:14:09.860 from traditional values particularly christian ones um and the pursuit of feminism and liberation and

02:14:17.860 the women get targeted like clearly like men already have a sense of individualism just because of our

02:14:24.180 nature we're not out to find that's why there's no men there there are some men's groups that we laugh at

02:14:29.220 them they're not like fighting for their liberation it's never reversed so you're always hearing from

02:14:34.180 the women we want this and you're basically asking the men for it um but i mean in the last hundred

02:14:40.740 years i mean this has really messed up women's mindsets because they're they're attributing value

02:14:46.820 to something that doesn't give them a return that they ultimately want but they don't know they want

02:14:51.140 it until they're older and then they're suddenly like oh shit you know what i want well it turns out the

02:14:55.700 thing you wanted all along um you could have had and you didn't need to sacrifice uh all that you

02:15:02.020 didn't need promiscuity you didn't need practice with sex you didn't need any of these things but

02:15:06.260 yeah you're the women are taught this and taught you can just be just like a man burp have you seen

02:15:12.100 like female comedians they literally act like just gross male comedians like the the ones they're

02:15:18.420 impersonating aren't even funny male comedians but that's like a microcosm of what i'm looking at is

02:15:24.340 there's this like effort to have women um go out there and be like sloppy because men can be it's

02:15:32.340 like is that really a good fight to show up in public and like you know you look like you're in

02:15:36.820 your total pajamas and you're like liberation you're like what are we doing that's a big thing

02:15:42.020 wrote a book called fat is feminist and the whole premise of her book is that male beauty standards are

02:15:48.180 too restrictive and we should rebel women should rebel against them by being fat yeah this was in

02:15:54.020 the 60s or 70s when it was published and so when feminists tell you like oh it's not an it's an act

02:16:00.660 of rebellion like they really mean everything they also say one of the one of the other contradictions

02:16:05.540 of feminism is men's beauty standards are too high and impossible and men will screw everything that

02:16:12.420 moves and i'm like you which one is it is it that they're too selective or that they'll do anything

02:16:17.380 it's they'll have sex with anything it's also very funny that they put it on men because like

02:16:23.300 if we didn't have like social media magazines like things in front of our faces showing us what we would

02:16:28.260 like again men don't care like they they really wouldn't have these kinds of preferences it's really

02:16:33.860 media the world society that pushes those kinds of things on us and we want to

02:16:38.660 blame men because you know like it's just the easiest thing they're right in front of us what's

02:16:43.540 you know but that's not realistic it's not men don't have an obligation to protect us from our own

02:16:48.660 emotions right i used to think that and then i learned that really quickly i would literally told

02:16:53.380 my boyfriend one time i was like i feel like you should just protect me from my emotions and as soon

02:16:57.060 as it came out i was like no that is not your job that's not a healthy the best we can do is like

02:17:02.900 it's essentially equivalent to go to your room like go over there for like 20 minutes until the

02:17:08.260 the the thing is over basically but that's the best we can do well it has to start with destroying

02:17:13.220 the nuclear family and the first thing is messing up the women's mindset telling them to compete with

02:17:18.740 men and getting them out of the house and then confusing them with this feminist movement and

02:17:24.020 now they've moved to attacking kids and saying that you um are actually in the wrong body you're in the

02:17:30.260 wrong body yeah i love this panel today i swear i really because so anyways uh here we have some

02:17:37.540 chats coming through lucas says the queen may be the most powerful versatile chess piece but the game

02:17:44.740 ends when the king is taken or checkmated more importantly the queen can be replaced if a pawn is

02:17:50.340 moved that's true across the board this is exactly what i'm talking about lucas always very spot on

02:18:00.260 we have some super chats too we have uh perception music this is for jim bob's underwear itches thank

02:18:08.100 you okay wow okay nice 100 for that love it we have emotional damage none of the women in america

02:18:14.580 is a woman worth marrying okay my advice for men is to have fun with these hoes wow that's all that

02:18:21.380 emotional damage i was just gonna say that's the name i'm working for you the grammar everything

02:18:26.500 about this is if you are looking to get married go overseas and get a woman who has her priorities

02:18:31.300 right and value motherhood you okay wow they didn't hear me talking about motherhood earlier thank

02:18:37.380 you emotional damage lucas wait did i just hear the good old feline who hurt you shaming trope oh it was

02:18:42.500 this is probably like the most i've ever gotten the who hurt you

02:18:48.580 did actually come from the reformed drug addict oh okay have you any idea how revolting that is

02:18:54.580 stop it doesn't work you come across as super manipulative bad faith instant rejection

02:19:01.060 boom thank you lucas for the soup chat appreciate i don't know why i care what your opinion is

02:19:06.820 because look how handsome he is he's got a wife that's not what's your type

02:19:12.020 do you like black guys i like black did i say it first they're strong enough to handle me oh

02:19:21.860 they're strong enough to handle you what does that mean

02:19:25.300 they're not so sensitive like that they're not sensitive first of all everybody has baggage

02:19:30.660 everybody has baggage i was just talking about this i the longer you live the more baggage you have

02:19:34.980 i have baggage you have baggage you have you have baggage our life is a series of things that have

02:19:41.700 happened that have formed the way we view the world yeah that's a fact so it's a fact yeah so

02:19:49.220 yeah i wasn't insulting you when i said that like what who who hurt you who hurt me people hurt me

02:19:55.620 people hurt everyone you know hurt people hurt people like obviously someone hurt you because

02:20:00.820 you felt the need to try to make me feel bad which ain't gonna work um but um that's right yeah

02:20:09.060 everything everything we go through forms our our views and that's why everybody has different views

02:20:13.700 because everybody has a different life beautiful i love that for you it's a fact this is gonna sound

02:20:21.220 really bad but like actually i shouldn't say it um now you have to yeah you can't do that come on

02:20:31.860 are you blushing he's red

02:20:36.580 this is gonna sound really bad or is it i don't know

02:20:40.500 do we have tissues yeah sometimes you can look at somebody

02:20:44.180 never mind i'm not gonna say this i feel like you have to come on i can't say it i feel like we

02:20:51.060 all raise your hand if you want brian to say it i think we all have thick enough skin we're all here

02:20:55.380 we're having a conversation

02:20:58.740 wow should i say it should i say it chat he was gonna say he could look at me and tell that i like

02:21:03.540 black guys yeah that's what you were gonna say i knew that's what you're gonna say oh but didn't

02:21:08.260 he did yeah i don't think there's anything wrong with that because it's just like a stereotype

02:21:15.700 you already had mentioned that you were with a nigerian man yeah and i mean respectfully you're

02:21:19.940 like a gorgeous white woman who i mean you're wearing cheetah print you definitely like black

02:21:23.780 guys and the more we pay attention to things like that i like black people all my friends are black

02:21:29.460 everybody in my life is black are you black no it's a preference i don't think i'm

02:21:33.860 wait do you like do you like cheetah because cheetahs are in africa no i don't even what

02:21:41.220 i'm just wondering if there's a correlation but i also feel like we shouldn't pay attention to crap

02:21:45.620 like that like who cares what skin color you are the more you pay attention the more people are going

02:21:49.940 to pay into these divides and feed into it because like who cares like really

02:21:56.900 okay i'll just say it or maybe no wait no i already said it for you

02:22:00.500 it's like you can you can look at somebody and you can kind of guess if they would date

02:22:14.260 somebody else yeah sure no no i know like okay this is gonna sound

02:22:19.060 everybody can tell what if you went around the table and guess all of our types then oh well hold

02:22:23.220 them you're good at it good and can or not i'm not saying i'm not saying i can like look at somebody

02:22:29.940 and like know with certainty the type of person they go for but i do think that there's just like

02:22:36.180 a certain subset of white woman i agree and you're you're just like i think they prefer to date black men

02:22:46.580 no and i can tell i can tell by i don't even need to speak to them i'm just like yeah she

02:22:54.580 she does that wait can i ask you can i ask you do you get disproportionately more attention from

02:23:01.620 black men than i i prefer black men but i mean every race has been i don't every race it's not like

02:23:09.140 interested it's not an obvious it's not like i only get black men that approach me

02:23:14.340 no but i've tested this out it's one time

02:23:26.340 you can no but you you're right you can tell i think a lot of people can look at me and

02:23:30.820 i feel like for the most part like call me spicy mayo like

02:23:37.380 you look like an mba wife i think that's just what it is thank you you're welcome

02:23:40.900 i mean i feel like i feel like because for the most part like generally you can't sit make you

02:23:49.140 know specific statements blanket statements about everybody but from my experience most black men you

02:23:55.620 are very dominant strong like strong type of guys i'm not saying anything bad about white guys don't

02:24:01.780 try to go there i'm not saying y'all can't be but this is about she's about no not at all i'm just

02:24:08.420 saying that a strong personality it would make sense that she's going for that strong but again

02:24:14.180 it's not to say that you can't find that in white people because

02:24:16.500 how is it not racist i don't know what she said because hold on can you just repeat what you said

02:24:27.620 you if you're talking about a white person people can't be racist to white people okay so

02:24:32.660 hold on hold on before we have people jump in does anybody agree with her first no oh you agree

02:24:40.340 to a certain degree okay let me let me say the to a certain degree systematically speaking you can't

02:24:46.500 um um wait systematically okay like think about it like this yeah uh white people when have white

02:24:53.540 people been oppressed so absurd the word slave comes from the slavic people that's where the word

02:25:00.260 slave comes from white people were the first people to be enslaved and white people there's

02:25:04.740 way more white people that have been enslaved in history than black people hands down okay so you're

02:25:09.060 saying like like like jewish people slavic um yeah anybody who's considered white or lighter skinned

02:25:14.820 there's been way more white people enslaved than black people ever okay well then i would say oh yeah

02:25:20.580 and when we think about you know why were black people enslaved who sold them to americans who their own

02:25:28.420 people who still has slavery yeah africa still has slavery today exactly and so technically slavery

02:25:34.500 is not a skin color it applies to people plus plus i want to i want to verify i want to i wanted to just

02:25:39.300 clarify something is that uh enslaving people uh it doesn't have to be about race like you can

02:25:45.940 enslave a bunch of dwarves it wouldn't be racist yeah black people weren't enslaved because they're

02:25:50.500 black so we're available right that sounds horrible what is race what is racism is it isn't

02:25:57.220 someone define it because they keep changing the definition where you think your race is superior

02:26:01.700 to another or inferior yes you can like say your your own race is inferior yes but if i say so in

02:26:07.860 your like i'm addressing this question to you if i say like i hate white people is that racist

02:26:13.940 i think it's prejudice if i say i hate black people is that racist

02:26:17.540 i think it depends on what race you're i mean i somebody bring up the definition of racism well

02:26:25.620 it's thinking that your race is superior to someone or that you're based on race or that somebody else's

02:26:31.140 race you know is superior because race is to yours for whatever reason that's all it is

02:26:37.540 because like prejudice is like racism is prejudice against race right so i mean you can say it's prejudice

02:26:43.460 but it's like it's still racism because you're saying like well i hate all black people or i hate

02:26:48.500 all i actually would make even a further distinction there i think you could be prejudice against all

02:26:53.140 sorts of people and it not be a fully racist position like yeah because we can prejudge based on

02:27:00.260 particulars that we gather to generalities and you can prejudge for a variety of reason and and that's

02:27:07.460 actually a form of us uh navigating the world in a lot of senses like anyone have kids here i mean

02:27:14.660 the things they come home and say based in school is is like yeah you know it's it would be seen as

02:27:20.180 taboo but yet they're just describing a generality and so the racism thing has really gotten out of

02:27:26.660 control because the strictest form of racism would just be this assumption that there's superiority or

02:27:32.660 inferiority only based on race not based on a collection of behaviors even right just race

02:27:39.700 alone just the distinction race but because of that uh that distinction that definition has changed

02:27:46.660 so much in the last hundred years uh people think that any sort of judgment about any race that's

02:27:52.660 negative is racism but that's not the case like you can just not like uh things about people's culture

02:27:59.140 right like i just don't like it i don't like it i don't prefer that culture how could that possibly

02:28:04.420 be racist so when you say white people can't be racist that's why it was a great question from you

02:28:10.500 when you say i don't like you know i hate white people is that racist she says no if you say i hate

02:28:14.900 black people is it racist you're about to say yes but you caught yourself and you said wait a second

02:28:18.980 there's an inconsistency here yeah and i feel youtube video on this like asking people can you know

02:28:24.980 black people be racist or can only white people be racist and most of them were saying like yeah

02:28:29.540 it's because you know racism is because you're in a position of power it's like yeah no you can just

02:28:34.820 hate people like people just hated jews because they're jewish yeah and it was nothing about like

02:28:40.020 yeah i'm so sorry you're fine i feel like it was really interesting when you said like it was prejudice

02:28:46.740 for white people but then you know it'd be racist and i feel like that comes into play because

02:28:51.540 i feel like in this country specifically because of our history with racism and how horribly you know

02:28:55.940 black people were treated back you know in all those times i feel like in today's age a lot of white

02:29:00.900 people feel guilty about everything that happened that the guilt kind of comes into play so you won't

02:29:07.220 accept that you can have white racism against white people because it almost feels like you're

02:29:13.060 going against black people almost like you're right let's have you actually state your position

02:29:17.460 i mean the only reason i mean white people aren't suppressed like black people are and different

02:29:23.540 suppressed i'm oppressed are i mean i mean with dei recently where like these companies and these

02:29:29.780 schools i'm left-handed are literally making sure that they bring in a certain amount of black people

02:29:35.060 a certain amount of asian people like people from other countries and not letting white people in

02:29:42.900 i mean we've seen that that i know that at fordham university which is in new york city they had a

02:29:48.580 whole issue with that in the past few years where they were purposely making sure to like give

02:29:54.100 scholarships to a certain number of black students just because they wanted their university to be more

02:29:59.860 diverse and it's like you should be judged on how well you do in school to get into a school

02:30:05.620 especially like fordham it's very expensive it's very prestigious it's a private school like not just

02:30:11.940 because you want to make your school more diverse like that is racism right there to me i believe dei

02:30:16.820 is racist can you give an example of the black people in america right now being which is oppressed

02:30:22.820 suppressed oppressed so i mean white people have more advantages like in the law or just like

02:30:31.860 socially in general socially economically can you give an example

02:30:36.180 is it that more white families choose to stay together no it's i mean it's poverty look at most

02:30:45.940 of the black neighborhoods it's poverty it's the crime it's what causes poverty why is there so much

02:30:51.620 crime in black neighborhoods because they're not given the same advantages white people are given no

02:30:57.060 it's because like lily was saying that these families are not together and when you know your parents don't

02:31:02.980 stay together you're more likely to get involved in crime and the reason that these neighborhoods

02:31:07.140 these black and minority neighborhoods are more police it's because you know black men are what

02:31:11.860 are they like 13 population maybe maybe less than that six percent of the population something like

02:31:17.060 that yet they commit over 50 of the murders in this country like of course they're going to be more

02:31:21.540 policed in those areas where there's more crime and i think up to 70 of black children are born

02:31:26.900 without a father in the home as well and we know from our previous discussion that that is one of the

02:31:31.780 biggest determining factors for uh the success of a person and a community because before the civil

02:31:38.660 rights act and the welfare state was built the black community was thriving i mean the uncle tom movies

02:31:43.140 literally talk about how how these communities were so great and they were based around the church and

02:31:49.540 most families were staying together they owned more businesses too right yeah like per capita um and so

02:31:55.540 what we what you guys what your position is is that we as white people have privileges but what we're

02:32:02.980 saying is our parents just made different and i would argue sometimes better choices like is it a

02:32:09.460 privilege is it a privilege given to someone if they decide to keep their family together like a father

02:32:15.540 is it a privilege that's given to me from someone else if i stay in my family as the father and another

02:32:22.420 family uh in another family they leave because that's an action like she just said all of the

02:32:27.940 statistics around fatherless homes are the correlate is so massive for these kind of instances crime uh

02:32:34.980 mental illness uh drug abuse every there's so many things and so when you say well it's a privilege

02:32:41.860 well what if it's the case that your culture and your ideology actually provides the privilege what if i

02:32:47.380 granted you that white people are privileged but it's not given by some power isn't it possible to

02:32:54.820 generate your own privilege can't you generate your own privilege i mean you can i mean every

02:33:01.700 situation is different yeah that's what i'm saying like how do you delineate the privileges that are

02:33:06.500 that are a fruit of the ideology and the culture and the practices and the choices from the ones that

02:33:12.020 are sort of granted from this invisible arm of power that's like you're white i mean have you been to

02:33:16.740 the south like the like like some of these places are super poor um they're not privileged right like

02:33:23.220 what's his name uh theo vaughn was like i'm not privileged i had to share a plum with my black friend

02:33:27.940 right we're like look at this plum we're sharing it's like this experience of being privileged is even

02:33:33.700 it's not even uh predominant everywhere there's white people it just happens to be particular types of

02:33:40.260 families who have uh who have basically uh established generational wealth yeah how can

02:33:47.140 you establish generational wealth if the father is gone yeah and i also think that it's sad to

02:33:54.340 think that a child having two parents is like a privilege because that's just something that

02:33:59.140 a child deserves should just that should just come with yeah you know you being a child it shouldn't be

02:34:04.820 something that's like oh my gosh you're so lucky that you have two parents like it's sad that we've come to

02:34:09.460 that you know there's so many um mess you know uh divided families and separated families that when

02:34:15.140 i see somebody that has two parents i'm like oh that's they're so lucky it shouldn't be that way

02:34:19.700 yeah i mean i think at the end of the day white people are more privileged and like how well in many

02:34:30.660 ways but you don't have to worry about driving when black look at how many black men have been killed by

02:34:36.980 the police for doing absolutely nothing what situation are you referring to give us can you

02:34:42.660 give us a couple he wasn't he was doing absolutely nothing well not enough to get murdered he was

02:34:47.780 high on fentanyl so that's what killed him the autopsy actually says he overdosed yeah yeah yeah he was

02:34:54.260 screaming i can't breathe before they even put him on the ground i don't know i didn't watch the video

02:34:58.660 yeah and i mean that's the whole i mean you really should because this is not a dig at you at all i

02:35:04.980 promise i feel like that's the biggest problem with everything people are not willing to do the deep

02:35:11.540 dives and really check their sources of where they're getting the information because like you

02:35:16.660 said back in the day before there were programs like welfare and medicaid and all that other stuff

02:35:22.660 black people did do better because they had more of a drive to because there was more of a reason to when

02:35:27.300 you give and it's not a dig on black people at all my father's black and puerto rican my mother's

02:35:31.140 puerto rican like i'm mixed so but it's not it's just about people if you're going to always give

02:35:37.140 people an out then the wrong people are going to take it it's not saying that black people are the

02:35:41.060 wrong people don't ever take it that way it can be white puerto rican asian anybody because if you go

02:35:46.820 to new york city you got all kinds of people on government programs that are just willing to pass down

02:35:52.740 their section eight or their food stamps to the next family member and that has absolutely nothing

02:35:57.300 to do with their color race religion whatever that has not that it's just about who's really willing

02:36:03.780 to do the work and in today's day and age not many people are and that goes into doing something as

02:36:09.140 small as doing research as to why things are the way they are do you think that uh women can be sexist

02:36:14.020 towards men yes that's for you do i think women can be sexist towards men yeah like kind of in the

02:36:24.180 same way that you don't think uh like white people can experience racism like a black person couldn't be

02:36:30.580 racist i don't think white people can necessarily experience racism this day and age because there is

02:36:37.140 more privilege there's more right more is given to white people yeah do you think men are more privileged

02:36:42.580 than women well if you want to get technical i mean they are technically paid more i mean right

02:36:51.300 across the board aren't men but they also have to go to war and die for us no the way that the gender

02:36:56.180 pay gap started to exist was they took all the median earnings between all men and all the median earnings

02:37:01.380 between women and they basically matched them up and said oh well look there's obviously a difference

02:37:07.140 but the problem is if you take the lowest paying jobs early childhood education um caretaking nannying

02:37:14.420 etc those are like 98 percent women dominated if you take the five most lucrative professions

02:37:21.460 pharmaceutical science rocket scientists etc etc then you find that those are heavily male dominated so of

02:37:28.900 course when you factor in personal choices which feminists never want to do you get this what they call the

02:37:34.500 wage gap and then they blame it on men taking that away from women and they blame it on men the

02:37:39.620 patriarchy which no feminist can ever define they blame it on men um because it's more comfortable

02:37:44.740 anymore so if women were to make so much less than men then why aren't companies just only employing

02:37:51.780 women so that they can save money

02:37:53.780 i don't know i don't really but i love that you also don't try to act like you know like i love that

02:38:04.020 you're real about it i don't i don't know all i know is that i'm passionate about like i don't know

02:38:10.740 everything about history during black history month i sat down with one of my best friends and she told me

02:38:15.540 a lot of information that i did not know was i embarrassed for being white absolutely how do you know

02:38:20.980 it was true though you shouldn't be embarrassed for being white just because some white people

02:38:25.620 have done bad things like some black okay but some black people have done horrible things and it sucks

02:38:30.580 like with bringing up the george floyd thing is it the left screams the names of drug addicts and

02:38:36.900 people who have tried to great people or who have great people and like george floyd who held a gun to

02:38:42.340 a pregnant woman's stomach like this was not a good man they try to make him out like he was a good

02:38:48.420 father that he was dedicated to his girlfriend or his wife or whatever he was not he was a drug

02:38:54.100 addicted piece of crap basically that did not deserve to die i am not saying what the policeman did

02:39:00.660 was right or whatever but that knee on his neck did not kill him he was dying of fentanyl overdose but

02:39:07.940 then look what happens is that you hear part of a story you just read the headline and it blows up and

02:39:14.180 we made statues of this man like we were marching the streets these people yeah burnt down cities

02:39:21.140 for like over a hundred days yeah my salon was looted that's disgusting they were literally burning

02:39:28.420 down black owned businesses oh i know yet they want to scream black lives matter i agree they want to

02:39:32.820 scream black lives matter yet they support an organization which is just the abortion industrial

02:39:37.700 complex that kills over 400 000 black babies every single year but i'm not talking about george floyd there's

02:39:43.300 many situations black men and women that have been killed for no reason other than being black

02:39:49.380 so but but who wait just so just a question for you though so you're saying all the names that

02:39:56.180 everybody's just curious trayvon martin so like hold on let's okay so let's use george let's use george

02:40:03.460 floyd for an example right uh let's just go ahead and grant that sure let's say it was murder like

02:40:09.380 let's say i don't think it was but let's say it was right uh what evidence from the video or anything

02:40:15.620 else would actually point that he did it because he was black so like if bad thing happened to black

02:40:21.780 person does it mean like bad thing happened to black person equals racism or can bad things happen to

02:40:29.300 uh anybody and it doesn't like bad thing happened to woman bad thing happened to black person doesn't mean

02:40:35.300 it's sexism doesn't mean it's racism yeah right so i get that george floyd was black but what

02:40:42.020 specifically would indicate that it was because he was black that he was murdered i'm not saying there

02:40:48.500 is anything to indicate but some of the other situations where black people have been killed

02:40:53.780 for no reason they didn't do anything yeah that's not okay i mean that's we can all agree with that

02:41:00.580 george floyd was not he did not die and he was not arrested because he was black no they burned down

02:41:07.380 cities and screamed black lives matter and put him at the top of that i mean i don't i don't agree with

02:41:13.220 all you know that that that was crazy like the amount of damage that was done over that i don't agree

02:41:18.260 but so question to you then yeah i i was asking you previously uh can women be sexist towards men

02:41:24.820 can women be sexist towards men right sure okay so how do i want to approach this um well it's

02:41:40.580 interesting you bring up the police killings or police brutality because the rate of uh if we do

02:41:46.900 a comparison thing so you might say for example or tell me if this is your position uh black people as

02:41:52.900 compared to white people experience more police misconduct police killings and police brutality

02:41:58.980 in my opinion yes what if i told you that the uh the difference between uh black uh black black and

02:42:09.620 white people this is five times higher but uh the difference between men and women so men are

02:42:17.620 uh much more likely to be victims of police misconduct police killings okay police brutality than women

02:42:24.900 are sure the the rate is far greater than the discrepancy the difference between black and white

02:42:32.020 so would you then say that this is evidence of sexism in the police force systemic sexism in police

02:42:37.620 forces uh against men i guess if you want to frame it like that sure so men men are oppressed i think

02:42:46.180 they definitely are sure okay there you go all right we let me read a couple chats here uh let's see we

02:42:53.060 have lucas chair two perhaps it's true that we all have some level of baggage but that provides you

02:43:01.060 with license to project your baggage vis-a-vis good word lucas ad hominem insults onto others rest assured

02:43:09.220 i'm unimpressed with and then he continues with your i'm too strong to handle veneer it's nothing

02:43:18.340 more than the house of cards stop with abrasiveness trust me as a new york city attorney i can sling it

02:43:24.100 back at you by orders of magnitude damn okay it's personal now you want to respond to that

02:43:30.180 i can't take a i i'm not phased by it oh phased by what by any like i'm not offended i don't really

02:43:42.260 i mean i don't really care you're the one sitting there watching me uh men should get

02:43:47.220 i think no not men nobody nobody can say anything that's going to offend me because i know exactly who

02:43:52.500 i am okay i i think uh what do you think about me and i'm going to tell you if you if you went to a

02:44:01.220 certain if if you were caught doing a certain thing that wasn't necessarily right or illegal

02:44:09.380 like oh what was that one guy that was marching down the street with uh a handgun during that thing

02:44:15.540 and they arrested him that was a black dude he would have been shot down oh kyle riddenhouse yeah

02:44:20.580 he was marching down the street with a gun but he looked like a cub scout thank you he has the

02:44:25.780 right i mean he looks like a boy a little bit have a gun it's what he looks like yeah he's like yeah

02:44:30.740 look at that little guy he was also being chased by two guys who turned out to be pedophiles yeah and

02:44:36.900 he i mean do you believe in the second amendment like he should be able to walk around with a gun

02:44:42.420 because he needs to protect himself and if he wouldn't have been able to protect himself he

02:44:45.940 probably would have been killed that day but then he went and killed a bunch of people he didn't just

02:44:51.700 go out and kill people he was protecting himself yeah self-defense good times okay so what do you have

02:45:00.180 to say about the austin metcalf situation have you heard about that where uh camarello anthony he murdered

02:45:07.620 this white kid he so carmelo is black and he murdered this white kid austin metcalf at a

02:45:12.500 track meet by stabbing him in the heart and killed him because he wouldn't austin would not get out of

02:45:18.580 his seat okay and he this carmelo anthony the kid that killed austin metcalf has raised over five

02:45:26.420 hundred thousand dollars on give send go after murdering did you hear his parents also bought

02:45:33.220 a house yeah but guess what there's been no marching in the street by white people

02:45:38.340 burning down buildings screaming white lives matter like why aren't we using the same energy

02:45:42.980 as like the george floyd situation and think about just think about if it would have been opposite if

02:45:47.860 a white kid went up to carmelo and was like you need to get out of my seat and he said no and he's

02:45:53.860 stabbed him to death imagine where our country would no totally just like what happened uh earlier this

02:45:58.740 week when this woman was calling this kid with autism the n-word and they've raised like five hundred

02:46:05.380 thousand dollars for her yeah that's also wrong but that's not equivalent to murdering someone

02:46:09.540 i mean she's just she just called him a name should she have done that no but it's not the same

02:46:13.700 situation i think it's also stupid that she's raising money and i've seen the very racist like

02:46:17.940 donation comments like but also in carmelo's who actually he murdered someone and he should be in

02:46:23.540 prison because he murdered somebody yeah um there you know there's comments of people donating

02:46:28.980 saying kill all whites no that's crazy like it's this racism on both sides but like oh yeah

02:46:33.780 people comparing the situation when she called a kid a word okay whatever that's not okay you

02:46:39.060 shouldn't kill excuse me you shouldn't call little kids you know bad names but that's it's not like she

02:46:43.140 stabbed him sure wait you said there's racism on both sides so people can be racist against white

02:46:48.580 people i feel like they can be prejudice i don't feel like black people are can be racist when they are

02:46:59.380 the more oppressed so is it is your definition of raises racism let's pull it up but statistically

02:47:04.420 they're not power but statistically they're not more oppressed i mean when we think of who kills the

02:47:10.740 most black people black people okay like who leaves like which which families are most broken apart

02:47:18.420 and don't marry like men don't marry their wives it's black people yeah so like it's i think you know

02:47:24.580 i'm brown my dad is black like i'm mixed i would say that it's the fault of our own community and

02:47:30.260 instead of fixing it we decided to just go and blame it on white people because it's so easy to

02:47:34.580 do that it's easy to blame all of your problems and your stupid decisions on other people because

02:47:38.980 you don't have to take responsibility so you're half black half white yeah okay and my dad was also

02:47:44.740 not in the mix didn't marry my mom like obviously you know they had me out of wet lock so like i mean

02:47:50.100 those both that's actually a good question if she's half um how do you apply the rule can she

02:47:55.620 well i'm gonna be half racist during no no during this this discussion that i had with my friend during

02:48:01.060 black history month because i want to educate myself more um she was saying that if a mixed child if it is

02:48:10.180 raised by the white woman will be way raised more white so then they could be racist

02:48:17.460 i have a question what does it mean i don't rate your education i think that is almost a

02:48:22.180 racist statement is it the same because what do you mean like raise white raise black your beliefs

02:48:27.460 everybody how can someone what are my white beliefs you're saying you're you're not defending your

02:48:32.900 black side at all when did i say that you're you're talking about how i'm just talking about facts

02:48:38.980 the statistics and the facts i i'm i'm very grateful to be mixed that's amazing but i can tell you as my

02:48:46.660 experience of being a mixed woman yeah who grew up and like yes was raised by my mom like i don't

02:48:54.660 you know i've always been told i don't sound black you don't act black which i think is just like

02:48:58.580 prejudice or racist statements because like what does that even mean that yeah but i can tell you

02:49:03.140 i have received more racism from the black community than i ever have from the white community

02:49:08.020 agree because i don't fit into the black community i have a question here do you believe in reparations

02:49:16.020 should black people be paid reparations

02:49:21.140 damn you're such a racist no or yes wait can i have five dollars how much did she get

02:49:27.780 should i just get half of what a fully black person should

02:49:30.500 you don't want to give them reparations for slavery because my ancestors maybe were in sleep

02:49:39.460 but i'm not really sure wait so yes or no no i don't know i've never thought of it okay

02:49:47.380 that's a big part of the black lives matter movement or whatever you were doing

02:49:51.540 because do you go i think you could maybe give her a couple of bucks yeah

02:49:55.860 yeah you could give her some like a dollar help me get back to my five bucks where i'm staying

02:50:00.340 we should ask the chinese women uh what they think about all this are there black people in china

02:50:08.100 her face said it all that's a good question like yeah are there are there black people in

02:50:14.340 uh maybe in those big cities big cities i was gonna say like big cities i don't think i mean maybe

02:50:21.220 this sounds about i don't think that's like the first place a black person would choose to go

02:50:25.700 on vacation i'm sorry i mean uh okay i just want to add one more thing you said she's not

02:50:36.500 defending her half black persona there's your split personality now there's a white you and a black i

02:50:42.260 know but just i would say you're both i would say it's the opposite she the first the first step

02:50:48.500 toward loving black people is listing the facts and facing the truth and then you could actually work

02:50:54.260 on something but coddling and saying uh scapegoat blame scapegoat we'll give you more money uh blame

02:51:00.820 other you know let's figure it out she's saying no let's look at the stats let's look at what's

02:51:06.260 going on let's look what's causing it and instead of blaming people are you willing to fix it if they

02:51:12.020 say no if fixing it means doing it yourself if that's the answer you can't be helped i'm sorry and

02:51:19.140 and to go to take it even a step further i feel like the whole race argument in itself is a

02:51:24.100 distraction i feel like it's something that government and high the people in control use

02:51:30.180 to pin us against each other because it's easier to do the crappy things they want to do to us if they

02:51:36.500 keep us fighting and against each other and keep paying attention to that crap like oh do you prefer to

02:51:41.540 date white guys you prefer to date black guys who cares i want a good man i do want to move it on a

02:51:46.020 bit but uh i want to uh the the two women from uh china can you guys tell us how dating works

02:51:56.100 in china how dating works how it where is it diff well you guys haven't dated here so but like how does it work

02:52:05.300 um i found an interesting thing because people here just stay first and know each other better it's

02:52:15.860 am i right yeah for the most part yeah but in china maybe oh maybe i have a friend and she's my friend

02:52:26.340 of my friend and oh i i see wow this guy is a little cute and i should test him maybe i can

02:52:34.260 and be friends with him first and then date so no swipe culture swipe left swipe right do you guys

02:52:43.540 use that a lot i heard no because actually someone use that but we you don't those are for the lower

02:52:51.700 class people um that's weird so that's weird why are you so weird i'm just wondering if is it a class

02:53:01.220 thing like because the thing is like if your culture is get to know people you know maybe maybe

02:53:07.300 there's a class issue there i i'm i think classism is a real thing that you can't deny exists in any culture

02:53:14.020 like so i'm just wondering is there is there differences in who uses apps and who doesn't use apps

02:53:20.660 okay actually most uh in my mind just just in my mind most people like about 17 percent

02:53:30.900 they they do swipe the data for sex you know oh okay is it true that um prostitution is not

02:53:41.380 considered cheating in china or is that japan i think that's does that does it bleed over though

02:53:47.940 um oh actually it's not no yeah wait prostitution is not cheating or oh i think it doesn't bleed

02:54:01.780 over like oh okay yeah selling yourself like somebody a man pays you to have sex with him uh is that a

02:54:09.700 thing is not what it is i mean i'm sure it's a thing actually in those uh in those countries like uh

02:54:20.420 like indonesia and thailand or something but yeah but um but actually it's not

02:54:31.780 not so so so it's illegal here oh it's already illegal and we we couldn't i know it's we have we

02:54:40.660 have things like this but uh we can see it in the real life they just they just how to say that

02:54:51.300 like behind us yeah yeah in the shadows okay uh let's see here we are going to once she's back

02:55:01.460 from back there we're going to get into our next question so uh but while we're waiting for her

02:55:08.900 we have uh taina taina taina sorry it's okay you said that uh from the episodes you've seen so far

02:55:20.500 the girls are usually young confused and lack any form of opinion on real issues these are the same

02:55:26.820 girls who claim to be feminist with such strong views on equality and don't believe in gender roles

02:55:32.020 recently you saw an episode with two girls talking about how they agree with submission but

02:55:34.820 because they were much more vocal with their opinions the host called the masculine it drove

02:55:38.740 you nuts you finally see two women who understand the role women play in a relationship and vocalized

02:55:43.860 it and they were referred to as masculine so confused can you specify uh like what episode it was

02:55:50.580 i can't even remember because that was a few weeks ago actually that was like the end of march when i

02:55:54.660 speak you're like hiding behind the mic yeah yeah that was like the end of march when i reached out

02:56:01.220 about the show but um okay but i still agree with what i said like every time i watch i mean i still

02:56:06.180 see a lot of the same granted this has been a very different experience you know yeah but um i feel

02:56:11.140 like you know maturity comes with age and if you if i would have been on this show at that age i would

02:56:16.500 sound totally different i probably would have sounded more similar to the girls that i see

02:56:20.420 uh stifler says ask everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of one to ten you can't pick seven

02:56:32.020 starting with you go ahead five five okay what about you six six five six six girls what's up i'm an eight

02:56:51.300 five six point five jim bob six point nine

02:56:56.180 i give myself a five that's pretty this is honestly low self-esteem group here

02:57:06.900 we're humble it's like pretty reasonable you wanted to say 10 though be honest no okay i mean

02:57:15.540 what it depends on the day it depends on how i'm feeling internally and everybody's beautiful in their

02:57:22.660 own way like i look like the girl that dates the black guys i'm the one that they want in the

02:57:28.580 music videos i'm the curvy girl so society society yeah the doors that open for me they think i'm a

02:57:36.180 eight to ten i think we should i don't think i'm an eight to ten i think we should celebrate that no one

02:57:40.420 said everyone's a ten yeah i mean yeah i was about to say nobody's a ten nobody's in the eye of the

02:57:48.420 beholder yeah i can look at her and think you're gorgeous and somebody else could think that you're

02:57:53.300 not i think you're beautiful i think every woman in this i don't think i mean i i don't think women

02:57:59.220 should be putting each other down yeah but i think we should hold each other accountable that sure

02:58:06.100 girl accountability yes y'all heard of white kia oh my gosh right here holding each other accountable

02:58:13.780 like being realistic it's it's not just people think that holding each other accountable means

02:58:18.180 like you have to shit on the next person no like you can be honest and not be rude or mean yeah just

02:58:22.660 be honest how do you approach this is for any of you how do you approach a friend of yours who's a

02:58:27.940 female who might not know it but maybe needs your confronting her on let's say her health and her weight

02:58:35.860 how do you approach that oh so no go right ahead you got it oh um i go to the heart issue i i immediately

02:58:46.980 go and i say do you feel good about yourself honestly i'm not gonna weigh my opinion usually if

02:58:53.380 we can get her to a place where she's able to be vulnerable she'll say not really and i'll say okay

02:58:58.500 what's going on there what emotionally is going on to stop you from being better so it's it is about

02:59:05.060 approaching them in a way that they feel like safe enough to open up to you and i know that's like

02:59:10.820 such liberal language i'm using but it really is i mean with emotional issues like that you have to

02:59:17.300 have them trust you first and then you also have to know that they're not going to just turn around

02:59:22.900 and bite you um if you do bring it up you know so it it the person has to have generally the humility

02:59:29.780 to be approachable you were gonna um for me i feel like um personally i'm going through my health

02:59:37.140 journey um i've dropped some weight and that all comes from me wanting to just feel better and all

02:59:41.860 that so um i actually do have a friend who um i've had to have this conversation with and it was very

02:59:47.940 much before i don't want her to feel like i'm attacking her it was very much i use myself as an

02:59:52.980 example i'm like you know since i've been eating better since i've been working out implementing this

02:59:56.580 this is that and third i feel so much better you know and then i feel like well when i brought it

03:00:02.180 up she was very much like oh yeah you know um i want to do this i'm like yeah it's more of a i

03:00:06.740 want to motivate you if you're my best friend if you're my friend it's more like all right cool so

03:00:10.580 when do you have time during the week um let's do this let's go work out let's do this um hold

03:00:14.820 it accountable accountable of like what we ate for the day you know um and it ultimately close off with

03:00:20.180 you know i love you this is not coming from a hurtful place is very much i want better for us

03:00:24.580 creating an environment where they can feel loved even when they fall short who here would

03:00:30.900 call uh obesity beautiful

03:00:42.980 oh going around the table do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time better looking i'm

03:00:49.140 in my prime in your prime so that's a no what about you you're 40 better looking at 50. i'll have my

03:00:55.380 first mini facelift by then so i'll probably be all the same about the same at 50. okay fair oh uh

03:01:01.940 actually wait going back to you oh gosh if we go back 10 years are you better looking now at 29 than

03:01:10.580 you were at 19. i think so i was way too skinny too you're too skinny yeah i really was okay uh and

03:01:19.220 then you're 40 were you better looking at 30. no i'm better looking now better looking now and then

03:01:23.300 with about 20. better looking at 20. better looking now okay you're uh 23 better looking in 10 years

03:01:29.860 time who is asking society or my husband maybe in 10 years uh let's just say society why not um

03:01:38.500 if i take care of myself then i could look equally as good okay what about 20 years time in 20 years

03:01:44.820 yeah um same answer if i take care of myself well but probably with a downward trend okay all right uh

03:01:54.420 you're 20 do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time at 30. well i would like to say

03:02:02.340 i'm good i'm better now but if 10 years passed and i would like to say uh i was uh i'm better at

03:02:11.700 that time so it depends on the time i'm in now yeah i'm always good now you're good now yes

03:02:19.620 but will you be better more attractive more attractive better looking better looking uh

03:02:31.860 maybe but but actually depends on my own thing about that yeah because i'm better now but if if i was

03:02:41.220 uh if i am 30 now i would like to say i'm better when i went when i am 30. okay yeah all right well

03:02:52.740 in the next 10 years i'll probably have a kid or two things might get a little saggy stretch out a

03:02:58.340 little bit so i would say it probably would look better now than in 10 years but sure what about you

03:03:05.140 uh i would say i think i'm look i'm better looking now you'll be better okay what about you

03:03:14.260 10 years so you're 33 better looking yeah i'll be 43 no you age but i don't i'm not gonna be a dog

03:03:23.060 but i you know you you age so you're gonna it's not gonna and then uh you're 33 were you better

03:03:28.100 looking at 23 or better looking now hmm i mean society would probably say then

03:03:35.220 but personally i feel like as a woman i feel like after i had kids and i grew up i feel like i like

03:03:41.780 how my body changed sure more okay uh you're 40 better looking in 10 years time at 50 i mean it's

03:03:49.460 obvious that we we're all gonna age i mean physically if you're looking at it from a secular stance

03:03:55.060 obviously i'm not going to be better looking than i am like right now so okay yeah and then uh

03:04:01.540 better looking now 40 or versus 30. probably 30. and then 20. better at 20 or 30. um 20 i tanned a lot

03:04:12.740 so i was like really orange so i would say yeah okay sure what about you um you're 30. better looking

03:04:21.380 in 10 years at 40. i would like to say yes only because looking back on my mother she ate it up

03:04:26.740 all right at 40 she's that woman a model okay 20 years time 50. 20 no it's a wrap at 20 20 more years

03:04:35.620 and then uh at 30 uh going back 10 years better looking at 20 or better looking now at 30. no now

03:04:43.380 30. now at 30. okay we have some uh we used ai artificial intelligence to age advance all of you

03:04:51.540 and if i look like a dog i'm going to be a liar

03:05:00.420 you ready it depends on the photo

03:05:02.180 the second one doesn't look that bad

03:05:27.060 all right let's do uh go next

03:05:32.420 no that's not what i mean there's no what is she 100 in that last one that's crazy yeah

03:05:37.940 that would never wait okay you'll probably look like the second one at like 80. that's crazy

03:05:43.620 why did your face shrink

03:05:45.460 oh god can you make them a little bigger just control mouse wheel in on those can you go back

03:05:57.540 to that brian for a second yeah i wanted to ask her in the middle one would you be okay looking like

03:06:03.940 that or would you force surgery i would do surgery really why i think she's cute you look really

03:06:10.020 yeah yeah yeah but you don't understand that i'm in the entertainment industry it's very hard wait

03:06:16.420 do you do sex work no have you ever done sex no oh okay no i've never been a sugar baby i've never

03:06:22.900 sold anything for sex in my life no but i live in hollywood it's a very different life especially

03:06:29.220 moving there from the midwest like have you had any uh plastic surgery i have botox or yep what what

03:06:36.020 how many cc what is it cc's yeah milliliters what do they use i don't know i just had preventative

03:06:40.820 they use breast implants it's units yeah how many units of botox have you had i don't know i get

03:06:47.860 preventative botox wait preventative yeah it's small it's microtox preventative that's the whole

03:06:53.940 point of getting it young micro what to prevent the aging microtox microtax tox tasks talks talks

03:07:02.500 t-o-x but in acting this is my problem with actors getting it uh stuff with their faces like

03:07:09.780 there is a point where you can't properly emote like in acting you have to be able to make an ugly

03:07:15.940 face actually that's why you have to find the right objector it's not you're not supposed to be

03:07:20.020 frozen because that will happen yeah nicole kidman looks pretty frozen if you go to the wrong

03:07:26.580 person you will yeah raise your eyebrows i'm not frozen at all

03:07:34.180 yeah so you still have nice smile lines yeah yeah i'm not frozen you have to i've picked

03:07:40.580 my people well and i've nice i know what i'm looking for

03:07:44.740 oh really wait that is so not oh lord help me no one would want to do that i still want casserole

03:07:53.700 from that woman you'll get it i'll bring it to the church function green bean casserole it is

03:07:59.540 at least i look happy yeah me after my 10 kids so i'll be honest

03:08:04.820 holy shit oh my god 10 holy shits okay you're better than me all right

03:08:11.780 fuck all right the next one's not gonna be accurate because like asians don't age yeah

03:08:18.420 like you're gonna look like this for the rest of your life yeah

03:08:23.300 that's true they have to alter this program for wait hold on at 95 she's gonna be the middle one

03:08:28.180 but she's gonna be white right that's what i'm saying yeah you look you're she's white you look

03:08:33.940 white yeah you're gonna do that to you too the last one you look like a white lady whoever did this ai

03:08:40.980 oh my god i need to have my team they need to do it different we got to change it change it up a

03:08:46.180 little bit it's too it's too exaggerated i think yeah right oh gosh next you look really oh no yeah

03:08:53.460 that's a fact hold on we're being haunted by an ai ghost that's white

03:09:07.140 you look like your name would change you have a lot of blush yeah a lot of blush on and the way

03:09:11.860 they match the top of the hair with the horrendous that won't even wait but the middle one is actually

03:09:17.620 i would trust the middle one i feel like is accurate the middle one is what you will look like

03:09:21.140 at 85. the middle one you look like the middle one you look like a very nice but the last one

03:09:25.700 i'm pushing a hundred and are you ready all right uh let's see

03:09:34.820 the middle one is so cute the third is a fluke

03:09:37.620 i don't know the middle one is so cute i love the like they just they just put it on a different

03:09:44.180 oh my god i'm scared

03:09:49.300 i'm gonna look like a dog in the last one

03:09:52.980 let's do uh next

03:09:55.380 ideal soccer mom vibe i love how we all look so happy and like

03:09:59.380 yes my grandmother don't even look like that that's crazy happy no wait no that's awesome you

03:10:06.900 look really you look really good yes i'm gonna hold myself accountable here

03:10:15.380 the beanie i don't even think i'm gonna get that old like even today people don't even get that old

03:10:20.820 anymore yes they don't not really what are you talking about because when i was doing long-term care

03:10:27.060 i mean a lot of people now we're dying a lot younger like maybe 65 70. it's true

03:10:33.860 i mean that right there would be like a hundred the third lady smokes two packs a day yeah

03:10:40.820 not drinking water never used moisturizer

03:10:43.700 can i will say the asians that are taking care of

03:10:49.140 monthly prep me for that hold on no you look so cute

03:10:52.020 like i love the middle yes the second one i'm still eating up a little bit

03:10:59.220 all right that's funny let's uh let's do next

03:11:04.740 you look like did they do you brian spent all the time

03:11:09.060 i feel like the middle one

03:11:10.660 the middle one looks good the one on the end it's like the old angry old man yelling at the kids

03:11:15.700 on his yard get off my lawn all right next whoa

03:11:24.660 i don't know about that not accurate

03:11:27.540 wow damn the middle of the last one all right it's the same

03:11:31.460 this is like 20 this is like 10 this is a 10 year old yeah

03:11:48.900 yeah aging's a bitch right yeah do you think you'll still be doing the podcast when you look

03:11:53.300 like third one no i think it'd be pretty entertaining crazy all right uh wait uh is there a next or

03:12:04.180 this is the last one of these okay oh and then the next thing we have is we changed your gender

03:12:14.740 you're gonna tell me if you would date the male version of you

03:12:19.620 okay no i know some of you are in relationships hypothetical if you were single all right uh go

03:12:28.180 ahead and uh pull it up

03:12:31.540 not bad that looks just like my brother

03:12:36.260 no way you look like you're in the military can you zoom it out right

03:12:40.500 and a boy band at the same time you have a beard though oh my god no

03:12:44.500 all right uh let's see next

03:12:58.900 if i liked white boys yes okay

03:13:01.460 can we put a wait yeah wait wait wait put a black filter on

03:13:05.220 somebody make this make him black let's see yes do somebody do the ai thing yeah i'd be interested

03:13:17.860 wait but would you date yourself oh my god no i only date white boys no oh i see okay all right

03:13:23.140 uh okay we would never have to fight over yeah i know ready

03:13:25.940 oh i'm so nervous next oh oh my gosh not bad honestly he looks like a super happy guy

03:13:36.340 he looks like a science communicator looks a little feminine the mail go back go back go back

03:13:41.940 so i actually have worked with someone kind of like that

03:13:45.060 and it's giving that guy that guy likes men no definitely yeah and yeah probably not two two

03:13:53.700 wait i want to know hey

03:13:56.820 hi yeah hey sisters yeah i don't think so not chiseled yeah

03:14:04.500 all right we'll do the next one uh wow oh my god it's like a japanese boy

03:14:13.060 would you date the male version of you uh maybe the second one but definitely not

03:14:22.420 the third one you don't really have facial hair you don't like facial hair sorry like asian people

03:14:27.460 don't really have facial hair not just just my my son a bit yeah no beard okay cool uh next

03:14:35.700 oh no no no no not happening not bad look he looks like a jerk

03:14:43.540 typical light skin

03:14:45.780 i would date you

03:14:46.580 good curly hair though i like the curly hair

03:14:58.180 you know who it looks like on the end russell wilson with hair you know the football players

03:15:02.820 is that your boyfriend you see this guy right here would you date this guy oh my god you see him

03:15:18.580 i can't really see him he's a black guy i think he has a nice look yeah he's black

03:15:22.580 he's not the only criteria i'm sure she looks for yeah uh all right next

03:15:34.740 still cute would you uh would you date him probably yes

03:15:42.660 i'm scared what but do you prefer the middle you prefer the middle yeah the middle okay got it

03:15:54.020 all right uh let's do next oh hell no absolutely not he's definitely not strange

03:16:04.260 that's for sure not strange it's a hard no hard no

03:16:11.780 that's cute that's cute she's into you he's got some real sugar in him

03:16:17.060 he's got sugar in his tank for sure the last one

03:16:21.540 i've never heard that

03:16:23.860 now you have like sassy i knew a guy who looks like that would you date him no definitely my husband

03:16:29.700 is german and he's like really tall and like yeah no all right let's see i looked horrible

03:16:37.380 that's not bad that's not bad at all everybody says i just i see like i see younger dad so i

03:16:43.380 i see my father last one so when he was yeah i'm gonna have to say no i'm not saying i can't

03:16:48.660 get women better now now me of course of course all right uh let's do next wow

03:16:56.020 that's like wow you look really good okay that maybe when i was younger that would be the crazy

03:17:01.540 girl that you what the fuck that ends it all ends really no you you actually look so toxic but

03:17:07.140 gorgeous like that's not fair that you got the makeup filter right and like look at your how

03:17:12.420 they made your outfit it's crazy all right next

03:17:15.780 they did the aaron carter yeah all right let's uh definitely can write why are there so many

03:17:33.780 oh you look emo on the right scary you look like a transgender on the right but on the left is nice

03:17:40.420 thank you i appreciate it on the left it's kind of giving like young amanda bines i look like uh

03:17:47.620 yeah yeah i was thinking right yeah marilyn manson yeah yeah on the right wait why did you change like

03:17:53.540 skin tones different lighting okay uh the middle one on the left though that's like pta all-star

03:18:00.180 mom she's everywhere very american soccer mom vibes what's that mean the wojack the

03:18:06.100 no the wojack yeah the white jack yeah you're the white jack were there any more did we get the black

03:18:10.900 ai can you check check the discord we have the black ai ship clip it and chip it all right uh let's see

03:18:20.020 here uh uh getting back to the show notes though while we're waiting on that we have lily

03:18:28.900 that's you just like looking around uh you dated jojo siwa's brother for a while lol what's the story

03:18:40.500 i started doing youtube videos when i was 16 17 18 and i grew a channel and i was at this conference

03:18:48.020 called playlist live met her older brother and he is like a male version of her and we fake dated for a

03:18:56.660 year um i fell in love with my neighbor back home did not want to keep him around really nice family

03:19:05.220 but i kind of broke it off with him because i felt like i was leading him on um it's so crazy

03:19:12.420 one year before she came out as gay and i'm very glad that i didn't continue a relationship with him

03:19:19.220 because i would have had to make a very public tough decision because i'm not going to be associated

03:19:23.620 with people who support gay marriage and things like that um especially as vocal as the family is

03:19:29.860 now i mean her hair is like friggin like but did you see she also said she she's not gay

03:19:35.060 oh really yeah that reality tv show yeah on the show yeah she was like i'm not anymore i thought that

03:19:40.580 i'm whatever the hell wait when you said a fake relationship not like a contractual no entertainment

03:19:45.780 no no it was just for social media and for videos because i had a policy with myself i'd gone out of a kind

03:19:50.580 of weird high school situation ship and i was like well i need to know the person for a year before i

03:19:55.940 date them and i told him that and he was so sweet he said i'll be here when you're ready to decide and

03:20:01.060 then through that year we would make content you know surprising my girlfriend in vegas surprising

03:20:05.460 my boyfriend blah blah all that kind of stuff and it was really sweet and it was really fun um but yeah

03:20:10.420 it wasn't it wasn't ever real um and then it kind of got up to the time where i was supposed to make

03:20:14.980 my decision and um yeah didn't didn't want to continue when that ends do you tell the audiences

03:20:20.740 it wasn't real or how does that work no we just let it fade away um oh we're not we're not together

03:20:25.060 any more different lifestyles and then actually two months after i had made that decision covet

03:20:29.220 happened and so i was back home in texas and so it was kind of a series of decisions that put me into

03:20:35.380 conservative politics as well i'd always been christian always been conservative and the guy that i i

03:20:40.020 ended up choosing over the brother was um i was thinking to myself what life could this neighbor

03:20:46.420 guy give me and it'll be family church community homeschooling our kids all the things that i wanted

03:20:52.020 and i think the relationship with jojo siwa's brother was one of you know very sparkly reality tv shows

03:20:59.060 you'd get everything materially you'd ever want but i knew at like i don't even know how old i was

03:21:04.100 18 17 18 that that just wasn't the right lifestyle for me so that's why i chose to leave that whole world

03:21:09.780 and through that transition from doing youtube lifestyle content to doing um conservative

03:21:16.100 politics i actually lost like hundreds of thousands of followers um over time and i'm only it took about

03:21:21.780 two and a half years to really filter them all out and then i i'm on tick tock account number five i

03:21:26.660 think um just because it keeps getting banned so yeah it's a one thing about my story it's kind of fun

03:21:33.860 the family was very good to me though i have nothing really bad to say about them they're very very

03:21:38.580 generous people okay nice um you had a uh oh this is another one that's interesting you had a

03:21:46.420 i think a video about taking a guy's last name uh what's your position on that i don't know which

03:21:52.980 video you're talking about but i'm very much in support of taking men's last names um probably the

03:21:58.580 video you're talking about is me acting like a feminist with that blue hair filter saying i'm not

03:22:03.860 going to take my husband's last name i'm going to keep my maiden name and then the real me comes back

03:22:08.180 and goes oh so your father's last name and then the feminists say no no i'm going to keep my mom's

03:22:13.940 maiden name and i'm like oh so your grandfather's last name and there's really just no way you can get

03:22:18.660 away from men's last names unless you just change it completely so okay uh let's see you also

03:22:26.420 uh oh i think this was a tweet of yours don't girl boss your life away before realizing feminism

03:22:34.660 is a scam what does that mean it means don't fall for the lie that you need to give your

03:22:40.100 most beautiful fertile exciting years of your life to a corporation that deems you as completely

03:22:44.980 replaceable um before you realize that the whole idea behind feminism is not only to get a doubly

03:22:51.780 taxable population but to funnel women out of the home so that they the government can have

03:22:56.980 more control over your children that's what it means yeah right cool uh guys a couple announcements

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03:24:28.340 callie you write you have many unique dating stories to begin with your first serious boyfriend got you

03:24:33.620 pregnant as a very young teen yep when i was 15 um he got me pregnant and basically long story short i

03:24:40.340 ended up walking into an abortion center and i was going to choose abortion but i ended up choosing

03:24:45.300 adoption somebody outside the abortion center uh told me about the option of open adoption so okay

03:24:52.100 yep um you're but you're not with him right the guy no no no that's um how old was he

03:25:01.380 i think he was like 17 at the time okay so you guys were like high school yeah okay yeah uh let's see

03:25:07.620 see you said uh for some reason your notes didn't pop up for me properly uh you said women why women

03:25:17.300 and men should stop settling what do you mean i basically i'm i feel like today like in our dating

03:25:25.700 culture you know i feel like women are not just settling but men are too um and that can be for a lot

03:25:32.660 of reasons i don't remember saying that though oh okay yeah um you also wrote you appreciate that

03:25:38.260 the host often remains neutral on many topics do i uh which creates space for discussion however there

03:25:44.500 are times he seems very biased especially in conversations about women's roles faith or

03:25:50.820 parenting i'd welcome a healthy debate on those areas uh were there were there any specific

03:25:56.180 disagreements you had or uh you're you're you said you weren't a christian right i didn't know like

03:26:02.020 i didn't know that so okay yeah probably the meat shield thing yeah probably the meat shield which by

03:26:07.700 the way can you get in a meat shield emoji for the chat it offends the vegans yeah yeah i think uh

03:26:16.740 i didn't really i don't think i got a good answer from anybody by the way on that one

03:26:21.300 why should men die anyways whatever all right put them to the slaughter totally cool uh all right

03:26:31.620 uh were there any other things that you wanted to touch on or um not that i can think of okay well

03:26:37.700 i can come back if i would love to touch on the topic of abortion but i think everyone here probably

03:26:43.940 well most people here maybe agree with you i don't know is everybody here pro-life no there's

03:26:49.700 probably one or two or i had to change into yeah pro-choice or if uh here we'll do this time

03:26:56.980 permitting if there's time at the end we can touch on that uh okay reagan oh boy all right let's see

03:27:05.220 what do you have to say here uh did you wait i'm trying to see the notes for some reason okay you're

03:27:14.980 catholic are you waiting until marriage to have cardinal knowledge that was a joke oh

03:27:25.300 that you're catholic i thought you were saying for the dues so i was joking with you that i was a virgin

03:27:34.100 no but you could not be a virgin and still be like well now i want to wait until marriage

03:27:41.140 i mean like sounds like a no yeah uh you said you went on a date with a transgender

03:27:50.500 you didn't even say woman you just said a trans

03:27:53.380 a transgender so was it a transgender woman or a transgender man so it was a man to a woman i met

03:28:03.140 so it was a it was a transgender woman yes okay so are you by oh my god no i didn't realize it was a

03:28:09.060 date until i was in it so i befriended them at this rave i could tell that they were kind of like by

03:28:16.260 themselves no one was really engaging with them me being reagan i went up commented that i love their

03:28:22.340 chemical romance sweater and we just hung out all night and then we added each other on instagram

03:28:28.340 and then we met up for drinks and then i finally had that aha moment where i was like oh this person's

03:28:35.940 into me and thinks like because i'm very friendly that they probably thought i was flirting um so yeah

03:28:43.140 that was very eye-opening for me because of my uh political stance a lot of people

03:28:50.500 back home think i hate transgender people and that i have a thing against immigrants or whatever

03:28:58.820 when i do you no not at all like i you don't have a thing against immigrants do you have a thing for

03:29:05.780 immigrants yeah maybe so do i are you no no i was born in boise adaho wait so but okay you're on this

03:29:16.740 date with a trans so it's a transgender woman yeah and so then i ended up just asking a lot of questions

03:29:23.140 because like for me i think that's a little crazy and whatnot to just want to completely change your

03:29:29.780 gender so i was just asking them about it they were really open-minded they were willing to ask all

03:29:35.780 my questions and then yeah we left it at at that i haven't seen them since but we're still friends

03:29:44.580 okay it wasn't like a full-fledged relationship no no no they were transgender yeah okay are there

03:29:52.340 transgenders in china lady boys lady boys well that's that's thailand that's thailand i thought

03:29:59.940 that was the philippines maybe maybe have bots yeah um it's very um it's not it's not common not

03:30:10.100 common okay got it okay uh you said also uh for you you don't use dating apps anymore because the one

03:30:19.300 time the one time you use tinder you went on a date with a uh grapist uh essay or so you refuse to

03:30:27.380 use them anymore damn that's okay was that in their bio or was it in the bio how did you find out

03:30:35.540 you're getting catfished a lot you don't even know um so um are we dating the same guy he actually brought

03:30:43.620 up the post about him essaying women and i was like wait what and then i looked into it and he has

03:30:50.260 multiple things in another state so i ran real quick good for you wait he has like cases yeah so

03:30:58.820 he assaulted women in other states and i should have known it was a red flag when he's like i hate cops

03:31:04.340 blah blah blah here's all my trauma and i'm like what what was his bio oh boy i like it when they call

03:31:11.780 me big papa and you were like yep and you matched him that's the one he was a tie boy that hunted so

03:31:20.340 i was like i got my strong dominant man and i was like oh no not the right kind

03:31:27.060 huh wow that's a lot you can't make this was he a white it was a white guy you said yeah i said i

03:31:34.340 only like yeah you only like okay makes sense uh okay good times big papa though that's kind of

03:31:40.420 weird i'm a white guy were you going on a date just to give him a chance like just yeah because

03:31:45.220 i canceled on him before and then um during the day he's like yeah i thought you canceled and stopped

03:31:52.500 talking to me because of my post on are we dating the same guy and i was like what so i went to the

03:31:58.180 bathroom looked and i was like yeah when you canceled that was your gut instinct

03:32:02.980 stick to your gut instinct exactly yeah did you go back to the date like did you escape or

03:32:08.740 he drove me there oh god i had to get dropped off

03:32:13.860 call him on a lift yeah that's probably when he gets them it's like when he's taking them home

03:32:17.860 maybe takes them home which home oh apparently we we have the uh

03:32:28.100 the ai oh yeah okay we'll wait we are gonna wait for the black version of ourselves

03:32:34.500 we're gonna wait for that but uh hmm you know what we might we could potentially do is your friend still

03:32:41.060 no she went back to la oh she drew um i was gonna say we could like tag team her in oh she has some

03:32:49.300 stories she lives in la yeah she lives in la she's part of the music industry she like throws festivals

03:32:57.140 but song shows we can have her just come on a different panel she's amazing yeah she'd be fine it

03:33:02.260 just we did we weren't it was kind of like last minute so we just weren't able to

03:33:06.260 get her a seat on the panel uh greeb thanks for the soup chat sar is this south african is brian okay

03:33:15.220 i'm dying but not for his wife

03:33:21.620 right i'm not give her the sinus infection i have a question for you brian is this the like rare time

03:33:29.060 that like you have women on here that are a little bit like the same when it comes to topics and

03:33:35.220 agreement it's a pretty tame panel yeah i was not expecting this okay right yeah i've literally

03:33:41.700 been watching every sunday for the last like month or so and i am so shocked that there are so many

03:33:46.420 like like-minded women yeah well it's it's uh you know sometimes with the the bookings it just works

03:33:53.220 out that way that and it's refreshing too it's a bit more conservative or leans a bit more uh

03:33:58.180 you know progressive or whatever so so maybe we should pop up you guys could just argue just argue

03:34:04.740 with me if you guys want just argue with me on something i don't know you said start debating you

03:34:09.780 on something yeah you can argue with me about arguing okay yeah i'll i'll uh do devil's advocate

03:34:17.540 question i think how about uh i'm trying to think what's what's a good one uh well the the okay women

03:34:22.900 should bow we talked about that men should not have to die for their girlfriend or whatever

03:34:30.820 uh yeah were you raised in a christian household like how did how did that work out how was that

03:34:36.180 dynamic with religion in your home no i just no no not raised that way makes sense

03:34:43.060 why we all feel so differently then what's a hot take i don't know uh

03:34:46.260 uh women should do laundry on the first date for a guy you said on the first date first date

03:34:54.340 she comes over and she does your laundry well that's just not safe right here's something

03:34:59.940 something i saw on instagram right this guy she's if she's fine go what she's she's looking at me

03:35:06.980 like what the fuck she's like i'm never doing that oh you want to do it i'm doing that never

03:35:13.380 doing that for a guy ever ever wait you won't do a guy's laundry ever never never

03:35:21.860 what um why why is that um he can do it by himself yeah what if you're like home all day and he's

03:35:32.180 working would you do his laundry if he asked you to

03:35:36.580 ask me to maybe i would like to say pay for me but like what if you're already doing your laundry

03:35:45.860 and like he just just his stuff is just there like just throw it in mixed in are you just gonna

03:35:50.420 separate his from yours and just wash yours yeah um but um actually is that the question on we live

03:35:58.900 together why would we have to live together i have a question for you is there anything in your

03:36:06.660 life that you enjoy doing for other people doing for other people anything anything that's a lot of

03:36:14.660 things um like pay for them for free and uh oh she she's a sugar mama sugar mama yeah

03:36:25.860 you know what this is i'm not pretty sure about that what's up so you know like how women there's a

03:36:32.020 uh they'll have a sugar daddy so the oh i know that i believe it i know that but like a sugar mama

03:36:41.060 opposite opposite so like the woman she's she's you want to be an engineer right yeah yeah so she's

03:36:47.700 gonna make a lot of money because she's smart oh you're gonna have a guy folding your clothes

03:36:51.780 basically yes would you pay a cleaner to do your husband or your friend's laundry whatever like

03:36:57.940 um maybe because uh i would like to say i would be busy all the time so maybe just pay for the

03:37:04.660 cleaning she's a busy girl oh no yeah wow good times uh there's like a bow to plan well we'll never

03:37:15.140 i think women should cook for their guy on the first date yeah i don't want my husband

03:37:22.500 he doesn't know how to separate it like i like and it doesn't matter if you do it at either your house

03:37:26.660 parents house a neutral location or his i think she should do that actually that takes a lot of

03:37:33.140 trust though like most first dates are in a neutral position location so i wonder what kind of culture

03:37:39.460 you'd have to be in i guess i assume that they already have gotten past the yeah they know each

03:37:43.780 other reasonably well to be able to hold a conversation because he's sitting at the counter

03:37:47.700 she's cooking right if she would have went to that guy's house for to cook for him on the first date

03:37:52.180 i don't know how that would have gone but i think that's a very interesting point maybe not the first

03:37:57.620 date he's not a criminal maybe not the first date but that's a really interesting idea for a date in

03:38:02.500 general just to get an idea like okay if we take this all the way what am i getting out of but come

03:38:06.820 on like if you're if it's a competitive dating pool and the guy is a you know high achieving guy comes from

03:38:12.100 a good family imagine he goes home to his mom and he's like wow i've dated all these girls not one

03:38:17.460 of them ever mentioned cooking and this one actually wanted to cook for me on the first date i mean that

03:38:22.420 sets you apart because dating is very competitive you gotta wait to a man's heart is food they should

03:38:26.900 have a they should have like a new app that's only for traditionalists and it's just cooking clean

03:38:32.180 and then like you just swipe they have christian dating apps and conservative

03:38:36.180 they're just infiltrated by people who just want to be influencers that and yeah

03:38:43.700 but that is honestly the best thing to do my first date with my man that i've been now

03:38:49.460 for years i cooked for him and then after that he was i didn't know him we were friends for years

03:38:55.300 but yeah no he wasn't a criminal and he's a great guy like great guy yeah no 100 so and after that he

03:39:01.140 told me i think it's like two hours into the date we already ate we're watching the movie he's like

03:39:05.220 yeah you're stuck with me he was like you can cook

03:39:09.780 i mean that you should do that let's pull up the ai stuff

03:39:16.020 all right

03:39:16.420 what okay that's an indian that's literally my husband your eyes went cross what'd you date your

03:39:23.300 husband the eyes went cross henry if you're watching this is you

03:39:28.820 oh my god that's so funny that is not a black guy that is an indian man

03:39:35.620 you need to make wait put his like he's from like bengali oh wait is that him yes yes to him yes

03:39:46.980 the last guy was from bangladesh or something yeah i don't know that's just a random picture of

03:39:51.220 someone is that the thing you face matched it with i have no way they just she panicked

03:39:56.980 they just put it on

03:39:59.140 let's see here uh i think i actually went through all my notes uh is there any uh topics anybody

03:40:11.460 wants to hit on it's just something i thought about i saw this thing on instagram it was this

03:40:17.060 guy in miami and he's like viral i don't know what for i guess his like views that his personal

03:40:23.220 views but he was walking down the street and he it was a black guy and he had these two white girls

03:40:27.940 on a leash and i don't care what color you are that is crazy yeah like insanity what was the

03:40:35.620 intention of them being on a leash i don't know i i just saw a bunch of guys in the comments like yeah

03:40:40.020 i think it's just like a con clearly he's not he doesn't push christian values doing things like

03:40:46.980 that so again it always comes down to like the value thing but like that actually brings up a

03:40:51.700 a different uh topic on public indecency and whether or not anyone here has uh let's say

03:41:01.380 a knowable threshold of when you should actually use force to remove people from the public and then

03:41:08.100 like a lot of people are like oh but they're all consenting adults yeah but doesn't make it okay like

03:41:11.940 it's they're consenting because they're mentally screwed up like to do that is like weird that's crazy and

03:41:17.700 i i would make that illegal if i could and then there were people saying oh that's a fetish that's

03:41:23.540 a kink but kinks and all that stuff is for the bedroom it's not for the street where there are

03:41:26.900 children and like impressionable minds like seeing that crap like leave that behind closed doors if

03:41:30.740 you want to do that at home that's not my business but like when and then if people are like oh well

03:41:34.740 it's still not your business in the street you're making it everyone's business when you're displaying

03:41:37.860 it for everybody to see and especially if i'm walking down the street with my kids i gotta explain to my

03:41:41.380 kids what the hell they're looking at yeah and that should never have to be a responsibility that

03:41:46.100 i have to take on because they are doing something that's completely terrible in the public eye like

03:41:53.780 so yeah there were women and men defending it i'm like what is this like what have we come to

03:41:58.740 uh in china are there certain things you're not allowed to do in public like out in the opening

03:42:05.540 out out on the street it's illegal any anything like that yeah illegal yeah

03:42:13.620 yeah and then if it was the other way around you know if everybody wants to make it like a racial

03:42:16.980 thing it was a white guy walking to black girls forget it we'd be burning down buildings and towns

03:42:20.420 like yeah i just don't understand why it's okay for the and not for me like yeah uh anyone have any

03:42:28.020 really embarrassing uh date dating experience like the most awkward uh horrifying not well you have a

03:42:35.140 horrifying date but that's yes that's not as comical anyone have like a just a really embarrassing uh

03:42:42.180 dating experience yes she does let's hear it start now um well i've definitely been put in a position

03:42:52.420 where um i thought i was talking to just this one person and it was just us and that's it and um

03:42:58.980 i've had a girlfriend pull up on a date yeah i've had that actually with a woman and with a man

03:43:05.140 um yeah so that no it was completely embarrassing and it's i wouldn't say like i was embarrassed but

03:43:09.860 it wasn't so much that i'm like oh i should feel ashamed but scenes were made um like uh one time um

03:43:17.380 i was hanging out with this one guy and um we were at a restaurant that i didn't know he was taking his

03:43:23.140 uh girlfriend to didn't know he had a girlfriend um she pulled up and it was quite the scene she kind of

03:43:29.940 like uh you know like a magic trick how you like try to like take the linen off the table she was

03:43:35.220 that wasn't her purpose she just wanted to make the mess but she just like pulled that linen everything

03:43:39.700 went flying like my food was on me yeah and i was just like oh okay then i had to get like an uber

03:43:44.740 go home so that was fun that was fun and that was at an early age so i kind of didn't really know how

03:43:50.180 to deal with it um and i went home and i cried in uber wow wow how old were you sad um that was i

03:43:56.980 want to say i was 20 or 21. oh yeah no but just there's a bunch of things that actually happened

03:44:03.380 you know like a lot of embarrassing things did he own up to it and be like oh yeah i was cheating

03:44:08.020 oh my gosh this guy really he flipped it he really tried to make this girl seem like she was insane

03:44:12.500 he's like that's not my girl that's not my girlfriend i'm telling me he's like i don't know

03:44:15.620 who this is i'm like no woman will come up to this table and just you know and start this whole scene

03:44:21.540 make herself look crazy in front of a bunch of people um you're not together you know uh so that

03:44:27.940 that was fun yeah uh i have a it's gonna sound like a weird question but would you ladies rather

03:44:35.140 have no lips or no eyebrows but you can't draw them on it's no eyebrows no eyebrows no eyebrows

03:44:45.620 let's say no eyebrows okay yeah eyebrows i want to kiss my man okay what about you it's a tough one

03:44:51.540 isn't it can i get your half black too since well i'm just saying doja cat looked hot so yeah doja

03:44:59.700 cat wait what yeah i mean i probably could just like cover that area but i don't know i feel like

03:45:04.740 i have a really expressive face because of my eyebrows yeah that's true yeah no lips no eyebrows no

03:45:10.100 lips which one oh no eyebrows okay okay okay i have a i have a harder one now you either have really

03:45:20.660 really hairy ears and you can't shave them they're just you you ladies just have really hairy ears

03:45:27.300 or you have teeth and all of them are like really narrow and sharp no the ears oh god

03:45:32.580 your ears where do you get these things just just driving and yeah because my hair everybody looks

03:45:39.700 at is your smile yeah and my hair can grow and i can just cover the ears yeah like my hair already

03:45:45.620 covers my ears so they might as well just cheating though i'm thinking like they have to be seen they

03:45:51.460 have to be out and about yeah i don't know i might have to go with the teeth rot because i can keep my

03:45:57.940 mouth closed i don't want everybody looking at me with these bushes on the side of my head like

03:46:02.500 it's a tough choice i will never smile yeah no well we could just mask it again

03:46:09.940 and i wasn't even for it in that sense i would be

03:46:13.860 um i wanted to ask you have you ever seen anybody doing like plastic surgery and you know

03:46:20.980 what not to do like there's like a debt like you're like no not that oh yeah like like how do

03:46:28.260 you know when that's going to happen or not though so i mean i've done a lot of research in the plastic

03:46:36.340 surgery kind of realm actually one of the girls at my salon like i've hooked her up with the guy

03:46:41.380 that's going to do her facelift like i just i'm interested in all of that so i do it's just doing your

03:46:46.820 research on the doctor a lot of research seeing their work reading reviews uh there's plastic

03:46:55.380 surgery communities you can join one of my best friends is a consultant and she has yeah

03:47:01.220 so that's what i need to be because i'm yeah yeah i love the plastic surgery community so but why are

03:47:06.740 some of the famous people obviously doing the wrong thing that's a great question and i bring that up

03:47:12.980 because i'm here and i can't even afford a facelift with the guy i would like a facelift with in 10

03:47:18.180 years but these celebrities are making horrible choices i know

03:47:27.380 you think it's like a marketing thing like they get deals and like i i think they just don't do their

03:47:32.660 research you know like it's it's anything you have to go to someone that's really skilled at it like

03:47:40.260 me like i am an expert at hair color like you go to a different colorist your hair is going to look

03:47:45.700 different than if you come to me you know what i mean like some people are just better at what they

03:47:50.180 do some places i feel like also have like deals where like you know when a celebrity goes to a club

03:47:56.500 they're getting free bottles free sections and all that like if you go to a doctor because of your

03:48:00.100 status and you're following and all of that they may do the procedure for little to no fee if you

03:48:05.460 promote their business so some people might just be enticed to that too so there is a famous i'm not

03:48:11.380 going to mention his name but a famous plastic surgeon in new york that did demi moore's facelift

03:48:16.820 and that's when she got botched and then another man fixed it and did an amazing job

03:48:22.100 but after that man did her facelift he you do not see him anymore he yeah like there's a big

03:48:28.980 place in new york do they have uh plastic surgery a lot in in china yes they do yeah they do uh like

03:48:38.660 one of my classmates in high school maybe not one like three or four they they do this and one of my

03:48:48.820 classmates in college he did that do they do it um uh to look like another ethnicity like um for

03:48:58.740 instance in korea they there's a trend to make yourself look more like a white a european person

03:49:04.500 does china have that trend you try to look more like a white european person yes yes we have yes

03:49:11.700 we have so no butt injections or implants nobody's doing that out there right that's like an american

03:49:18.820 maybe not usual yeah but most of us want to look more white yeah do you have any plastic surgery no

03:49:28.100 no do you have plastic surgery no are there any health benefits to getting injections at all

03:49:34.660 no by the way guys tts is we're going to do a roast session tts is lowered to 20 20 tts

03:49:42.100 roast session i'm going to pull up a few things so get the roast in we have walker

03:49:47.220 oh walker donated 29.99 that's items one total 29.99 msg birthday present for myself salute to

03:50:00.900 whatever uh walker thank you yeah that that was he bought something at shop.whatever.com if you guys

03:50:09.780 want to get some merch thank you for that all right we have lucas the big lucas donated 100

03:50:17.300 thank you man search for i'm baffled here if you end up marrying a high earning man who works 12 to 14

03:50:24.820 hours slash day to provide and affords you the opportunity to be a zarm you're telling me that

03:50:30.100 you won't do his laundry wow that's to you that's for you yes but he earns a lot right yeah but maybe i

03:50:40.900 could do it better do what better do my job and earns and it's like higher banking what if he refuses

03:50:50.180 to do his laundry he refuses to wash his clothes and fold them he just says no

03:50:56.420 no he refused to do his laundry by himself yeah like he just leaves it at home everywhere

03:51:03.780 he just says fuck you i'm not doing this what would you do then

03:51:08.900 um i would like to say i'm not doing anything about that because he could

03:51:14.100 find the cleaning for himself and others i would i i won't be at home be at home with him because

03:51:22.340 because um actually he if someone don't do laundry themselves really really

03:51:34.340 would you do the dishes for him

03:51:39.060 oh that's that's fine that's fine well dishes are fine dishes are so much worse oh my gosh like the food

03:51:45.620 particles is this like a cultural thing like is that this thing just in china like none of the women

03:51:51.220 really do the the their husband's laundry or is this just a personal preference no just just my

03:51:56.260 personal oh okay okay um actually um also often women steal those laundries yeah and this is often

03:52:05.220 often women's wait question for those of you who went into the bow

03:52:09.540 would you bow if you could get the perfect man or would you bow for the perfect man yes of course yes okay

03:52:24.500 perfect man would you bow for him perfect perfect yeah i would do that okay what about you

03:52:31.540 yeah yes okay my husband's a perfect man so okay were you a no bow i changed my mind because i'm

03:52:43.540 thinking about my man specifically i changed my mind because i'm thinking about my man specifically so

03:52:47.940 like for me he is perfect so sure um love my man love you baby but no i'm still a no i'm still a no

03:52:56.180 wait you're you've been in a relationship for five years your uh current boyfriend he asks you to bow

03:53:04.340 you won't do it no so what if the ultimatum is do it or we're breaking up it's crazy that it would get

03:53:13.140 to that extent in my eyes so if you feel so moved as to do so then i wish you the best but so just to

03:53:19.300 be clear for your fight you wouldn't for your five year relationship you wouldn't do the bow to save

03:53:27.140 it okay okay i'm gonna ask him why do you need me to bow why is it so me bowing would make or break

03:53:33.460 our relationship and i think i'm good also this is he just wants it this is what he says he's just i

03:53:39.060 just want you to do it couldn't he ask you why is it so important for you not to okay that's a good

03:53:44.900 that's a good well i think it's also like we can go back to the whole me being masculine and i have

03:53:50.500 certain views that you know i feel like just will never change and i just think bowing is ridiculous

03:53:56.660 i i'm not doing that i'll i'll put my my life on the line i think maybe it's a little bit of that

03:54:02.660 right um also i just feel like that is ridiculous you know why am i bowing to my man i will hug you

03:54:08.980 i will kiss you i will tell you i love you she said yeah i would do that and it she said i would

03:54:14.100 just make it fun isn't it interesting that her context for it could be empowering and fun and

03:54:19.940 yours is like it's impossible to reframe the context to be uh fun or or empowering it has to be

03:54:27.060 this is a beauty this is not not that you said abuse but like like this is uh humiliating i'm less

03:54:32.500 than uh i wouldn't say all that like oh i feel less than i just really see it as why why is that make

03:54:40.020 or break i just feel like there's plenty of things that i've asked my man to do and he's just like

03:54:44.420 yeah that's just not me and i've respected it you know cool not a problem it's not gonna make or

03:54:48.980 break i'm not gonna put an ultimatum if you don't do this then it's not do you ask nobody do you ask

03:54:54.420 him to put the seat back down no does he bow the seat he does what he wants you know what i'm saying

03:55:03.620 in the sense that there's i'm not gonna nitpick small things and i feel if he nitpicks something like

03:55:08.900 you need me to bow like i cook for you i clean for you um you don't have to think about your next

03:55:13.540 meal you know i love you to that why can i just see what it would look like for you to bow to me

03:55:18.100 that's way more work not to me if i want to do it for my man i'm not gonna do it at all

03:55:24.020 cooking and cleaning and like doing all that stuff is like way more work than bowing it is yeah so like

03:55:29.380 why is why is like i just i'm i think i'm just hung up on the look of it and call me prideful call me

03:55:35.620 what you want i just think that's like what he said though he said he would he would many of you

03:55:41.300 expected and i'm totally fine with it is the man standing closer to the disaster potential area of

03:55:47.780 of a street that's like potentially paralyzed dead you know your insides losing a leg and that's like

03:55:55.140 that's like a big bow that's like a that's like 30 i think that's equivalent to like a whole year of

03:56:00.260 bowing just straight like a whole subscription so wait what about the bowing is so wrong i just find

03:56:08.180 it unnecessary and i see it i'm like okay i will hug you i will love you i won't like kissing is

03:56:13.620 unnecessary i like why would you use that which kissing is unnecessary i wouldn't say that no i

03:56:18.980 wouldn't say that i wouldn't say that would you get down and like tie his shoes while he's standing up

03:56:23.220 see but that but here's the difference what if he said bowed no gotcha i'll get you now um

03:56:31.460 i think it's more of um like i see shoes untied i don't want you to fall on your face okay let me

03:56:37.380 let me do that for you you know that's these are acts of love bowing is not an act of love it is if

03:56:42.420 he loves it what's the difference between a hug and a bow a hug that is such a mutual thing it's just

03:56:48.340 loving it's very endearing about what do i get off of about his satisfaction yes it's he feels respect

03:56:55.300 cool but the way i see it something let's say what's equivalent for a woman um bowing i'm not

03:57:01.380 i'm not talking about okay opening the door like yeah okay but i'm also not pressed if he doesn't

03:57:06.020 open the door for me you seem more concerned about why he's asking you to bow right again it could be a

03:57:13.460 pride thing yeah right like why are you asking me in the first place but also as somebody who knows you

03:57:17.860 like you're a very sensible person so that realization you just had about her is exactly

03:57:23.860 that it's not that she's like insubordinate or like not willing to do things for her partner

03:57:29.860 she's just very like logical about things like i think it's an association i think there's an

03:57:34.100 association to what bowing is let's imagine there's a society where every uh every hug that you imagined

03:57:41.700 happened was actually a bow and then someone asked would you hug your husband you're like hell no like

03:57:46.500 that's a sign of that's like uh like i'm i'm submitting this is terrible i'm never gonna hug

03:57:51.940 my husband it what's weird is that it's just a movement of gesture it's just it's a it's literally

03:57:58.420 how about this would you kiss his hand if you want like this

03:58:02.020 no no no yeah no i'm not doing that isn't that why do i need to kiss each other when they saw each

03:58:12.740 other driving and like we'll be holding hands out of nowhere like i'll kiss you're talking about

03:58:18.260 i'm thinking like you know like my lady like my queen like what's the mic oh yeah um honestly uh so you're

03:58:26.740 saying what uh in another world wait here here if let's say you broke up with your current boyfriend

03:58:34.180 is your current boyfriend the perfect guy yeah he's perfect for me yes 100 so just be okay well

03:58:40.500 i guess i don't even need to ask it then so for the perfect guy to keep the perfect guy

03:58:45.620 you're unwilling to do something that takes i you do you have back problems like why won't you well

03:58:51.860 actually it takes three seconds and it's again um is there harm what's no i just see it as it's

03:59:02.260 pointless it's pointless to me just like there's certain things that um i've asked him to do right

03:59:07.460 do you ask him to open up the pickle jar nope is there anything that you ask of him

03:59:14.340 a good person no like what do you mean like anything that's equally pointless and equally

03:59:19.460 pointless he's trying to get to any anything that's equally pointless that you've ever asked him to

03:59:23.700 do um and nothing coming to mind that i feel like everything i ask of him is intentional i wouldn't

03:59:29.700 want you to to do anything does he pay um do you guys live together no you guys wait you guys have

03:59:36.260 been dating for five years bro we where's the ring bro where's the ring do you know there are plans

03:59:43.860 to get there are plans to get married but um i think it's also a matter of i want to wait but

03:59:49.220 in a christian household do you want him to get on his knees and say will you marry me

03:59:56.740 is that not about oh my god i'm not gonna press i would never press a man if he's not

04:00:03.140 on his knee i don't care no what if he's just like he's he's got the ring oh i love the light

04:00:10.500 ryan just in case brian needs someone he has this and he's just like he doesn't get down on one knee

04:00:16.900 he just like he just just what if he just like chucks it at you he's like i got this you want to put it

04:00:22.260 on um no it's not my style so is that is going to like a man um on one knee professing us love is

04:00:32.420 that necessary going down on one do you know you could stand up it doesn't make a difference for any

04:00:38.340 is the engagement moment even the ring and everything presentation is it necessary

04:00:44.900 sure no it's not necessary it's not necessary okay so what about it is not necessary uh you can

04:00:49.540 just say hey do you want to get contractually married at a boring courthouse that's sterile and

04:00:54.020 dead uh you can just do that sterile to me you just do that to me this is uh i feel like regardless

04:01:04.180 i don't take things uh how do i say so serious so again if you propose to me great you know i'm not

04:01:10.900 going to nitpick how you do it and which timing and and down on one knee you love me that much and

04:01:16.820 you're proposing thank you do you see what brian just did though like if he threw this at you

04:01:20.900 it was like this at somebody yeah yeah just throw it yeah someone catch the ring yeah yeah

04:01:27.460 catch the ring someone catch the ring all right i'll throw it over here let's go just be like

04:01:30.660 better be a good throw there you go got it kobe and say that thanks

04:01:38.340 again you don't get it back sorry okay can i can i ask you a question

04:01:42.500 y'all have been together for five years right is there a reason why y'all haven't gotten married

04:01:47.780 well no marriage is definitely something that's going to happen for us i think it's just more so

04:01:52.980 um to get to be super transparent um as my sister uh stated earlier our mother did pass um i want to

04:01:59.700 say like two years ago and um there were reasons that's the way like you know i wanted my mom to see

04:02:04.740 us get married but then she got bedridden and you know um there's a lot of things that when it's played

04:02:09.380 life life always happens you know what i'm saying and that doesn't mean that you can't get married uh

04:02:13.220 to your partner yeah i think it's just more of right now there's priorities

04:02:20.260 there's priorities aligned and if right now marriage is not the priority it's more of me working on

04:02:24.740 myself him working on himself and being the best versions for each other you know and there's also

04:02:29.220 that whole like my sister's on the journey more than i am but um i need to work on my spiritual

04:02:34.020 journey you know i'm saying i need to do all these things and until i get that i'm not my best version

04:02:39.060 to get married wait you can do that when you're married spiritual i'm not sure what that means

04:02:43.860 to me that's a meaningless term no offense it's just like so vague and it's like yeah is there is

04:02:49.060 your boyfriend have any sort of theological uh foundation or structures um it's very um i want

04:02:58.820 to say generic not to be like um anyhow but uh he believes in a higher power for sure you know

04:03:05.220 what i'm saying he grew up in a household where uh mom you know is always talking about the

04:03:09.940 importance of god and stuff like that but to sit there and say it's something that he actively um

04:03:15.300 practices no okay because the reason i asked i was wondering if your boyfriend if your boyfriend

04:03:21.940 leans more traditional even if he has this ambiguous spiritual sort of lens like does he

04:03:28.260 is he like is he traditional in a sense does he yeah no 100 that's why you know i love that he was

04:03:37.060 raised in the household that he was because even though he's not you know super religious the values

04:03:41.460 are still there you know um earlier when we were talking about um you know would you risk your life

04:03:46.340 for your wife this is the type of man that he's risking his life for any woman uh or child he sees

04:03:51.300 he's somebody's ending he's there you know i'm saying he would never want to see me get hurt

04:03:55.060 um he doesn't want to see me cry you hear that brian her boyfriend's not meat shielding people

04:04:00.340 no yeah brian so uh she was saying her boy her boyfriend is is like uh a sacrificial type where

04:04:08.820 he'll he'll uh risk his body for something yeah yeah it's about kids uh women like he's just the type

04:04:16.340 if and that doesn't earn you a bow no no but it's crazy that the whole like uh boyfriend

04:04:24.980 husband must be willing to die but i can't do a harmless effortless 15 degree motion again i just

04:04:36.340 see it as pointless and the man i'm with wouldn't even ask me to do that so it's not something that's

04:04:41.380 weighing heavy on me uh who when you guys go out for dates like go out to dinner does he pay

04:04:47.060 we both will pay like uh sometimes he'll no sometimes he'll pay sometimes i'll pay sometimes

04:04:51.220 we'll go half it's not anything too crazy that i'm pressed about what but i don't understand so

04:04:57.140 i'm just going to go ahead and grant you that it's pointless it's 100 pointless so

04:05:04.740 it is that is that would be pointless too well what's what are you saying pointless him

04:05:10.820 wanting the bow yeah i find it pointless yeah but do you just because something's pointless is like

04:05:16.500 that would be enough reason to not do a thing because pointless um not in all there might be

04:05:24.340 small things that like okay if he wants to watch like an anime that are like some marvel show that

04:05:30.580 i'm just like this point i don't really like this i'm gonna watch it though because that's something

04:05:34.500 that he likes to do it will give us time to bond together and moments like that yeah that makes you

04:05:38.580 feel happy or sometimes even you want me to watch you play video games i think that's incredibly

04:05:42.500 pointless but i do it because it makes you happy i think that's even harder than that's crazy oh my

04:05:47.140 gosh i could never sit through an anime like that's not all of them are terrible some of them are really

04:05:52.740 like so i can't really wait wait you're torturing yourself through him playing video games right

04:05:58.340 and you're like okay fine yeah i love you but that's what's crazy is that the the gesture of this

04:06:05.540 like literally 0.5 seconds it is like so like how long is a video game session

04:06:09.940 call it a project yeah but in the video game session you know like i'm new christian catholic

04:06:14.980 oh catholic and again i'm still working on this religious journey so don't don't send me asking

04:06:18.980 me to what is the women are to obey their husbands or what wives are to obey she's not there yet

04:06:25.380 she's catholic but remember she also said like i'm a lot further in my journey of growing up and

04:06:32.020 realizing the truth and the bullshit that i was fed my entire life by society and all that other stuff

04:06:37.220 she's on her way finding herself through that too so i feel like we also don't need to what is

04:06:42.980 there to find uh scripture is clear okay just because you read something doesn't mean it clicks

04:06:48.260 immediately wait what what is there to question i don't understand it's not a matter of questioning

04:06:52.740 um i'm not saying that i i'm speaking about me i'm saying i never we're speaking about her though

04:06:57.700 okay well again you you can have somebody read something you can have somebody experience but until

04:07:03.780 they're ready to see it in whatever way what do you mean what what do you not understand like the

04:07:08.020 whole thing they're ready like if it's god's word i don't understand how it's like well it could be

04:07:14.420 god's word but but regardless again until you have a full understanding of something you can wrap your

04:07:20.180 head around up to the point you're like okay i get it what's there to wrap her husband boyfriend's

04:07:24.500 husband says i want you to do the bow boom you do it what what is there to when catholicism there is no

04:07:31.380 boyfriend it's just yeah sure yeah husband but yeah i mean do you go to mass uh yeah no okay it's

04:07:37.860 more of right now because you can hear the word every single week how long look at that what if

04:07:42.980 your boyfriend what if your boyfriend was like get rid of those yeah oh that's that's a good one

04:07:48.020 i don't like i don't like the nails that's fine you get rid of them but you won't do the bowel

04:07:52.740 movement that sounded wrong can you get her how do you how do these nails how do you and they're

04:07:59.220 pressed on by the way so it's not like the end of the world how do you wipe

04:08:06.180 it takes some time and you use it's like a glove you gotta be very careful strategic toilet paper um

04:08:14.980 you need baby wipes so you should invest in a bum gun which is what they have in a lot of

04:08:20.580 parts of asia it's much more it's much cleaner and it literally you can buy it on like shein or

04:08:25.540 amazon for like five dollars and it's a sprayer no but yeah the day is one thing but the sprayer

04:08:31.220 you can control it more because it's like a mini shower head and the bidets in my experience they're

04:08:36.980 really really like pressure and that's not really great for a girl but isn't the pressure necessary

04:08:44.900 though even though it's like but with the spray you can control the pressure by how hard you press

04:08:49.460 down but the pressure is necessary for sure yeah but yeah every every bathroom even like the dingiest

04:08:57.540 ones in india when i was there they all have them and then there's just like a little piece of

04:09:03.300 twenty dollars this happened in canada as well after the signing of treaties the canadian

04:09:09.220 government made the indian act and forcibly relocated indigenous peoples to small lands called

04:09:14.980 reservations

04:09:23.220 the question is meant as the male version of the ship test it's meant to assess female entitlement

04:09:29.300 pride and combativeness while simultaneously you expect men to count

04:09:34.660 it wait what that is oh wait this is out of order hold on he might as well spell it the right way

04:09:41.860 oh shit um one sec see my word of choice yeah that's my favorite word yeah the master chef

04:09:47.700 donated twenty dollars chair two george floyd died from dot meth fentanyl and fluid in the lungs from

04:09:54.660 covid also other wrangled video footage of siobhan had his knee on the shoulder not his neck if you can talk

04:10:02.260 you can be you can breathe thank you for that thank you pseudomaster chef

04:10:08.740 you pseudomaster chef coastal operator donated twenty dollars brian here's another twenty dollars

04:10:17.620 invested in someday quill or burritos i'm not your dad thank you coastal operator i appreciate it thank you

04:10:24.180 thank you

04:10:26.580 reap what they so donated twenty dollars the ai aging program loses credibility when doing asians without

04:10:33.780 context now it would be realistic if the first pick lasted till they were 60 the second pick was 60

04:10:40.500 and a half and the third pick would be 61.

04:10:43.060 sons of liberty donated 19 dollars and 99 cents minus racist chair two this was a based panel thank

04:10:52.980 you savannah please tell me you pressed charges w jim bop yes absolutely good pasty george donated 20

04:11:01.940 dollars just as women have more privileges than men in first world countries so do caucasian men have

04:11:08.820 more favoritism than non-caucasians and there's a reason for that yes i'm going back into it

04:11:15.300 um wait just the other life donated 20 dollars share one four share two three share three five

04:11:26.180 share four six share five four oh they're rating us six share seven four share eight three share nine five

04:11:35.860 three three oh my god

04:11:37.540 fuck you

04:11:38.420 and i can imagine i don't know

04:11:42.500 they want a man to die for them provide be a leader and basically act how they want

04:11:48.580 but when it comes to buying they draw the line take a bullet for you smiley face emoji

04:11:55.700 that's a good point that is a uh good point uh yeah oh wait we have this one this is the

04:12:02.980 continuation from pasty george donated twenty dollars we all know about the segregation of

04:12:09.060 blacks to the hoods aka projects moreover caucasians would deliberately make housing prices more

04:12:16.580 expensive for non-caucasians to keep them out cont what selena gone is 23.45 great panel savannah is

04:12:28.740 the goat chair eight being 40 is crazy she looks 20s still chair three is the pinnacle of what most

04:12:35.780 men want in a woman great values that's nice thank you selena don't do that all the time i

04:12:42.660 should probably know that well donated twenty dollars thank you well can everyone on the panel

04:12:47.380 try to say tucker tucker three times as fast as you can no no i think it's trying to get you to say

04:12:54.420 the n-word or something it's not no it's a meme from my stream okay it's actually tucker tickler

04:13:00.660 lulu donated twenty dollars for chair five your thoughts on chair two saying black people get

04:13:07.300 murdered for no reason do you think she's just a complete child or just dikmatized by the bbc

04:13:13.940 oh my gosh wow i don't think she's a retard no i would not say that i think that just the media has

04:13:22.100 taken over so much of what people consume and i don't fault you at that and i know that you like

04:13:29.460 are more open like you're open to learning more and you're very like open to have conversation which

04:13:34.900 is rare yeah i'm not right about everything and there's a lot of different sides like yeah just

04:13:41.220 like when white people go into black neighborhoods and then they spike everything up and then black

04:13:45.860 you know there's there's like i don't know what that is you don't know what that is what are you

04:13:50.420 talking about when like gentrification wait when you when white culture beautifies no when crappy

04:13:57.300 culture's um aesthetics is that what you're talking about no like when like when what when

04:14:02.820 no people buy up property and then make it nice yes exactly that's horrific what is wrong with that

04:14:09.300 that's forcing the people out of their yeah well if they can't if they can't keep it beautiful and

04:14:14.900 someone has the right and the ability to buy it and make it nice why shouldn't they make it nice

04:14:19.940 it's so stance like gentrification it's like keep it crappy that's their culture that makes no

04:14:25.300 sense that's kind of like the ebonics thing where it's like they can't they're not learning to speak

04:14:30.100 properly let's just call it their culture right but the the the thing is is that most of the money in

04:14:36.260 america is from white men yeah thank you you're welcome yeah but it also drives other drives the

04:14:46.180 economy drives other less fortunate people out of their homes well no they like again she's half

04:14:52.980 black okay talk to her half black side right now she's gonna yeah have you transformed okay

04:15:00.500 who's responsible they ultimately who's responsible for their own generation of their skills and their

04:15:06.100 income you you are right well depends on are you it's a i'm not necessarily no no no you made it on

04:15:15.780 your own right no no you've had tough circumstances right i have that right really tough yeah you

04:15:21.300 overcame them yeah did you do it because you're white and you have red hair no right you did it

04:15:27.780 because you're a strong individual and you're you persevere you're an independent all right is this

04:15:35.860 like rachel do you want to be rachel dolezal or do you wish you were black no okay but if you could

04:15:43.940 change would you why would she want to be underprivileged why would i want to be literally

04:15:49.620 you just said it no blacks are underprivileged the reason i asked this no the reason i asked is

04:15:56.900 if i said you've had a rough time at it you've overcome addiction and all this this is glorious

04:16:02.820 right but you would never imagine you overcame your drug addiction and got on your feet and then you you

04:16:08.980 you busted ass and you made it happen and you lived a good life imagine someone came along and

04:16:13.700 said well that only happened because you're white toots what would you say to them i think i've had

04:16:19.700 certain privileges because i'm white do you think ultimately it's all given because you're white okay

04:16:24.740 so what percent would you attribute there's not i see both sides what percent would you attribute to

04:16:29.300 your uh willing your ability to overcome circumstances terrible circumstances what what would you attribute

04:16:36.660 to your just your pure skin color just your skin color

04:16:44.500 pretty little yeah like like how much give it a number like just we won't hold you to it just

04:16:49.220 give it a percent 15 that's pretty low right yeah okay so why would you not use the same standard

04:16:54.500 you're using for yourself for black people that you also think are in situations that might be even

04:17:00.660 better off than what you've overcome correct oh yeah okay not all so people are living in poverty

04:17:06.580 this is what's so horrific about it is like you're actually infantilizing them and making them that's

04:17:13.140 the true racism is that you think people are so helpless that you actually train people to look at

04:17:19.620 people as helpless and then you're surprised that they act helpless it's not at all what i'm doing so are

04:17:26.260 they less than are they is it harder for them to overcome tribulations if they grew up in certain

04:17:34.180 communities yeah that's what they know it's a vicious cycle not having a father turning to drugs get

04:17:40.100 murdered i grew up like let's just think about every like famous person or every very successful

04:17:46.500 person most of them came from a really really shitty situation like their dad was abusive they grew up in

04:17:53.060 the projects but they didn't use where they came from as an excuse and why they couldn't work hard

04:18:00.180 i think if i'm living in a really crappy neighborhood and i'm driven out because a

04:18:04.900 white man or just a rich man buys up a place that would just motivate me to work hard so that

04:18:10.420 i wouldn't be have to for yeah i'm not talking about the whole black community when did i say that

04:18:15.060 anyways we just have black people no i'm not talking about the whole community

04:18:18.660 everybody everybody's different canadian dollars yeah yeah yeah you know like i will bow for you

04:18:25.060 every day i have no idea who this is wait why 27 61 thank you you gotta look her up i guess

04:18:34.740 uh canadians fried in me uh okay let's see we had pasty george oh speaking of canada pasty george

04:18:42.580 donated twenty dollars this happened in canada as well after the signing of treaties the canadian

04:18:49.140 government made the indian act and forcibly relocated indigenous peoples to small lands called

04:18:54.900 reservations cunt

04:18:58.820 pasty george donated twenty dollars and then the residential schools happened a lot of children were

04:19:05.540 taken and forced to attend those schools a lot of children never made it back home some due to

04:19:11.620 sickness others to homicide that's something my friend and i talked about pasty george donated

04:19:17.940 twenty dollars you had to be tough in the res and any sign of weakness made you a target

04:19:23.940 drinking and eventually drugs became the norm on a lot of reservations cont

04:19:30.340 stop calling lucas donated twenty dollars it's not the bopa say the question is meant as the male

04:19:37.380 version of a ship test it's meant to assess female entitlement pride and combativeness while

04:19:43.860 simultaneously you expect men to cont

04:19:48.580 so funny lucas donated twenty dollars traditional gender roles duties and obligations without question

04:19:56.020 or equivocation you can't cherry pick gender duties that benefit you and reject those that otherwise

04:20:02.100 impose a duty slash burden on you love lucas great job uh well done lucas you have a response to that

04:20:09.460 miss i won't bow for the perfect man i'll well i'm not dating lucas i really don't care what lucas

04:20:14.100 gotta say so i would do some crazy shit for the perfect woman not the bullet yeah

04:20:18.340 i'll do some pointless you know i'll bow for i'd be willing to bow for the perfect woman so i don't

04:20:29.780 even disagree i was in the chat in your life oh go ahead we're dying for a perfect woman what's that

04:20:35.940 no he said no no that says no point what about losing uh i don't know like a piece of your ear

04:20:41.860 like mike tyson has to yeah yeah yeah for the perfect woman mike tyson can bite off

04:20:58.740 what the fuck okay jokes i'm kidding it's a joke okay uh let's see we have cream creamy what the

04:21:06.100 cream seagull donated twenty dollars and one cent thank you man have been watching the pod for a

04:21:11.140 few months now and can't get enough first time donno here and just wanted to thank brixen and

04:21:17.540 and andrew for doing what they do what up god bless uh thank you so much appreciate it thank you

04:21:24.420 thank you we have lulu thank you lulu donated twenty dollars brian would you rather have carnal knowledge

04:21:31.780 with the lights on with chair one or chair rates you have to pick one two three go uh what the

04:21:39.540 fuck i have to pick so chair one or chair eight well she's uh married so i don't like to step on

04:21:48.740 toes so i guess i have to i have to go with uh chair why did why is it between chair one or chair

04:21:55.060 okay um thank you patty patty donated twenty dollars brixen did the hot sauce from the burritos

04:22:04.500 mess up your voice hope you feel better man thank you lily hit me up patty d wants someone shooting

04:22:12.500 no shot i'm flattered what are you looking for in a guy because maybe what what info do you want from

04:22:22.020 patty d to assess if he's worthy of going on a date with you or protesting an abortion clinic with

04:22:31.460 you it might be so boring is that a romantic first date for a pro-lifer to if go protest a guy if i

04:22:39.060 wasn't married and a guy was like do you want to go sidewalk council with me like that's it's in the

04:22:44.420 bag all right if you're watching that's that's a good first date if you're like it's a conservative

04:22:51.940 the basics though i mean are you christian but more specifically are you reformed baptist that's

04:22:59.300 important to me or presbyterian i'll take a presbyterian you'll take what about an orthodox

04:23:03.700 christian okay there you go all right um yeah are you ready to be a husband like do you do you want a

04:23:11.540 wife or are you ready to be a husband there's a big difference there for me um the other thing that

04:23:15.700 i know i need is emotional availability not that you have to protect all me from my emotions or you

04:23:22.120 have to make me emotionally happy every single day but just don't like get mad at me if i do have

04:23:29.580 feelings and that you uh want to affirm that i'm loved regardless of what we're going through that's

04:23:36.460 kind of it my standards are a little bit low right now i'm gonna be honest it's not even low

04:23:42.680 yeah 2003 donated 19 dollars and 50 cents w-based mixed girl chair two is lost blue commie is

04:23:53.080 adorable and would like to make it although not a christian l flower shirts on men q who's the

04:24:00.800 better decision makers should women vote oh hey uh jim bob it it said l l flower shirts on men

04:24:12.620 yeah yeah who's flower l like loss oh oh okay yeah because you're wearing a flower

04:24:21.800 i'll rip that guy's face off wow uh so blue do you want to respond to blue commie is adorable

04:24:31.380 he's calling you a communist but cute but he's also calling you an adorable mom oh thank you i i have to

04:24:43.240 say that but but it's it's that question that i have to be a mom or not no he's just saying you

04:24:51.800 would make a good mom he sees it and what kind of mom super mom yeah one that folds laundry one

04:24:58.000 that does laundry and dishes

04:24:59.580 he's not interested wait i actually have a question don't you think it's a good idea

04:25:06.620 do you think it's a good idea for someone like you're an intelligent woman who's intelligent

04:25:17.980 enough to be an engineer isn't it's a wouldn't it be a good thing for society to reproduce your

04:25:24.880 your genes and like let's say your intelligence was passed down to children wouldn't it be a good

04:25:31.760 thing to multiply yourself yes that's a good thing

04:25:35.540 okay all right so would that make you change your mind it would be uh no if you knew your kid was

04:25:44.300 going to be just like you would you change your mind no because i know i know uh all the parts of me

04:25:52.980 and also all my weakness so i won't let that happen to my child yeah but from the mistakes you've made

04:26:01.740 couldn't you instill them not going through it by sharing the experiences you've been through

04:26:06.560 actually my daily life uh i just a little bit couldn't stand the mistake i made myself

04:26:18.220 so okay all right we have more chats coming through just the other life donated 20 dollars

04:26:24.680 thank you so nobody wants detroit neighborhood homes for cheap white people comes there and make it nice

04:26:30.980 put gates to keep nice lives nice on cheap and now they are bad wdf chair to wake up

04:26:39.440 are you white

04:26:45.260 okay thank you

04:26:49.060 their pseudomaster chef donated 19 dollars and 99 cents

04:26:54.680 the white privilege people speak of is garbage

04:26:57.580 i wonder where mine is when i'm carrying 10 foot sheets or drywall up the steps

04:27:03.220 there's only advantages such as having two parents that made smart choic

04:27:08.620 well put pseudomaster chef chief thank you for that appreciate it

04:27:14.580 uh what oh boy

04:27:17.820 that's that's crazy can we get the panel to rate their queefs in the following category

04:27:24.620 that's one noise generated two vibrations felt three smell i am a big fan of this stream god bless

04:27:33.660 what thank you selena gone is donated 23 dollars and 45 cents

04:27:41.880 the soft bigotry of low expectations chair two is a racist and can't even see it

04:27:47.940 wow you're such a racist that's crazy

04:27:52.500 walker donated 19 dollars and 99 cents

04:27:56.040 thank you walker 35 17 year relationship one child son 12 worked 50 plus hour while she went to school

04:28:05.960 now she's breadwinner and let me sit back and hang out with my son long con

04:28:11.400 thank you wait one of these is in chinese i don't know if i should play it

04:28:17.320 play it translate yeah yeah translate okay i it might say boyfriend it's an ex-boyfriend it might

04:28:24.840 say something really bad it might say something offensive but uh okay fuck it whatever uh if it is

04:28:31.160 something bad you can tell us but all right the rosetta stone donated 20 dollars one shang how

04:28:39.320 i wonder if cats are popular pets in china when is felicity going to start being the official

04:28:52.440 whatever uber driver what what did it translate at the end or wait you know what i can change the voice

04:29:00.600 to a chinese voice oh that's better and maybe it will have an accent it will

04:29:06.040 i only heard about the first sentence good night we're going to do this here let me try it let me

04:29:13.160 try it again one sec we're going to do let's try this the rosetta stone donated 20

04:29:20.840 i wonder if cats are popular pets in china when is felicity going to start in the official whatever

04:29:39.480 opera driver is it uh because because he doesn't post the sentence he just posts the

04:29:49.400 how she spares of the chinese sentence but he doesn't write down the chinese center so we can't

04:29:55.240 figure out that oh it's not written properly it needs some times maybe wow that was uh maybe he used

04:30:01.720 google dodge so rosetta stone that was a fail yeah rosetta stone like come on isn't that what you're

04:30:07.240 supposed to do let's see we have uh coastal operator here thank you coastal operator donated 20

04:30:16.440 i'm not a big fancy lawyer can't damn they're so aggressive it's so aggressive damn the first time

04:30:24.920 you started hearing that i think it's the first time they started doing it it's pretty funny they should

04:30:29.800 keep doing it but apparently lucas thank you coastal operator congrats to him

04:30:36.760 all right we have some from pasty george thank you pasty george

04:30:43.640 pasty george donated 20 dollars this dysfunctional upbringing from past trauma affected generation to

04:30:50.680 generation until recently where a lot of reese's are now alcohol and drug free however the views on

04:30:57.720 first nations were set cont pasty george donated 20 dollars so the hoods and first nations reservations

04:31:07.960 were similar and due to the crimes brought on by drugs and alcohol the views on blacks and fn people

04:31:13.960 were also comparable because of segregation cont damn bro chill pasty george donated 20 dollars just as

04:31:22.920 the black communities the black communities in america are trying to make it in life first nations

04:31:27.480 are trying to as well but the walls of prejudice and racial profiling are sometimes rigid to overcome

04:31:33.880 cont thank you george appreciate it it's a huge donated 20 dollars jim bob do you own a normal shirt brian

04:31:42.280 size him up for a hoodie let him borrow a flannel no i'm not boring like brian

04:31:47.240 you know i want to add some flair and color it's good for the show selena gone is donated 23

04:31:54.280 and 45 cents i'd take the bullets and walk on the traffic side of the street for chair three

04:32:00.600 where do i sign up are you are you a woman i think it's a man but selena as a man yeah i'm sure

04:32:07.640 using his wife's account um i guess dm me

04:32:17.320 just the other life donated 20 dollars chair four just went plus three points on attraction

04:32:23.240 level in my eyes for her being aware of people around her and letting other pass behind her

04:32:28.120 it's rare to see women notice people trying to squeeze behind them wow thank you

04:32:37.640 inquisitor zeal donated 20 i spent three hours listening audio only while working finally pulled

04:32:45.640 up the video i mean we're part black despite sounding like one crazy yeah you want to respond to that

04:32:55.880 they think you're a black woman a sassy one whatever floats your boat i mean i i'm sorry to

04:33:01.560 disappoint can you guys ai her make her okay what do you what is it new jersey or new jersey okay

04:33:07.880 yeah we're very close to the bronx very close to the bronx yeah probably throw a rock my parents are

04:33:13.720 from the brooks we have patty here

04:33:18.840 patty donated 20 dollars lily i would love to go with you to convince others to walk for life

04:33:25.720 i am a cradle catholic serve in the military and all i've ever wanted was to be okay

04:33:33.720 i don't know how to respond yeah send a picture

04:33:39.320 yeah could you imagine i'm sorry my dad would never let me convert

04:33:44.440 you don't have to you you don't have to convert to get married in the catholic church

04:33:47.560 two dollars chair four and six only five years till shang nu chair nine no ring after five years

04:33:55.560 equals he is not serious about you what is shang nu what does that mean i don't know

04:34:04.840 chair nine do you want to respond do you want to respond uh well i mean i get people's

04:34:11.640 interpretation of stuff but um i feel like he's serious and that's all that i need so

04:34:17.560 and i can vouch for the relationship you know as i'm there i'm sorry it doesn't meet your standards

04:34:24.680 but if i knew who he was i would slide into his dms and be like just ask for a bow

04:34:31.240 well going home we're probably gonna walk into that going oh yeah

04:34:34.200 i'm gonna get home my man's gonna be like where's my bow

04:34:38.120 and my man's gonna laugh so in chinese leftover woman oh leftover woman shang nu yes

04:34:45.560 yes yes yes uh is that that's a what is that that's like a lonely older woman who didn't get

04:34:51.880 married yes yes so is that gonna be you can be me yeah maybe she's like yes

04:35:01.240 maybe things go well you sound really awful about that do you want that to happen uh because i'm not

04:35:07.720 sure whether if i will be married or not because i'm fine to be myself okay we have i'm the jazz

04:35:16.520 13 of the population 50 of crime is false those numbers are based off arrest and not convictions

04:35:23.880 it's funny how black folks commit all these crimes but are exonerated at a 50 rate rate and 70 rate for

04:35:30.760 non-violent crimes okay thank you for the well i said six percent that's actually not true six

04:35:35.160 percent and it's fifty percent of the murders not just fifty percent of the crime no look up the

04:35:39.560 convictions it's still uh disparate so all right guys if you want get a tts in we are doing twenty

04:35:46.920 dollar roast session we have some more coming in we have uh let's see oh coastal operator sim tax

04:35:57.640 coastal operator donated twenty dollars thank you coast brian i'm seeing a lot of simping and no

04:36:03.240 sim tax being paid yo patty the simp iris patty here's what we're gonna do you do a champagne pop

04:36:10.520 patty i will uh i will get you set up with i'll get you on a date with lily but you got to do champagne

04:36:17.800 pop for you have to send a picture first looks are important yeah all right we have oh here we go

04:36:28.200 chair underscore one underscore simp donated twenty dollars i'm switching to chair underscore three

04:36:34.200 underscore simp what does that mean well chair one chair three so he's simping instead of simp

04:36:40.520 normally he simps for chair one he's simping for you oh yeah wow

04:36:48.760 guys you're really building up my self-esteem after

04:36:50.920 oh jay simpson oj simpson hope everyone has had a great weekend chair two you're not fooling

04:36:59.080 anybody we all know it stank what that's so mean

04:37:03.480 damn my vagina he's saying my vagina jackson donated twenty dollars chair three presbyterian pca

04:37:13.000 biblical divorce mixed black slash white two beautiful girls eight sixths want to have a

04:37:19.960 big family in the backyard table like parental show what say you arrogant voice

04:37:25.800 divorce was he saying that the presbyterian church allows his allows divorce uh i'm not sure

04:37:33.640 i don't know i'm not presbyterian and there are lots of sects of um presbyterianism and

04:37:39.720 they've had a lot of splits recently i think he's hitting on you oh okay he says want to have a big

04:37:44.920 family in the backyard i do i want to have ten you said you marry a presbyterian yeah yeah yeah

04:37:50.280 yeah but i don't believe in divorce though it doesn't exist you want to have ten kids yeah

04:37:54.360 how old are you 23 thanks do you literally want to birth them all yeah of course i know so many

04:37:59.880 families that have between eight to ten so i have five siblings a woman figure to figuratively

04:38:04.280 are you like adoption yes oh um i don't know if i'm called to adoption i'll see in the future

04:38:11.000 that's like a decision my husband i will make but um yeah like growing up in a community where it was

04:38:17.000 normal to have seven eight nine i know families with like 11 kids it's so awesome would you adopt if

04:38:22.600 your husband said we want to adopt and you didn't want to adopt yeah yes oh my god you're gonna get

04:38:29.000 more tts now wait question i have a question for you jim bob yes sir let's say you got a christian

04:38:38.520 woman gets married and she's fully capable of having children the husband's fully capable of having

04:38:44.120 children the wife she wants to have biological kids the husband it's like no we're gonna adopt and

04:38:54.360 i'm not going to give you children is that i would uh kind of this is uh i know this might sound like

04:39:03.960 a cop-out but um i would talk to my priest okay i think that's fair what do you think the priest would

04:39:13.080 say i'm not actually sure because like uh sometimes people their lot in life what they're capable of or not

04:39:23.480 capable of will direct their christian obligation to certain directions and the attachment for it to

04:39:29.960 be looking like a certain way for instance tons of people who can't have kids it doesn't follow that

04:39:35.400 just because the christian telos is to have children it doesn't mean the only way you can live a christian

04:39:41.960 life is with children so that's something to to sort of explore with the priest but the you know the

04:39:48.600 priest is basically an office seat holder to explore the the christian paradigm so i feel like

04:39:54.600 that's also a conversation like what would you say say do the uh hypothetical again it's my wife who

04:40:00.520 wants kids right i would go biological yeah i would just i don't even know if i could root it in

04:40:17.320 something other than um like a preference even maybe to just want your own blood you know multiply a

04:40:28.200 conversation you should have before getting married like committing your whole life to

04:40:32.760 someone without knowing what life commitments they also want outside of a marriage like that's something

04:40:37.560 what if he changes his mind and now they're married and under this world view like divorce

04:40:44.680 would divorce be acceptable under the circumstance or no oh no i don't think no divorce is uh the last

04:40:52.760 thing you you want to happen okay oh but like the woman wants biological children yeah i think they

04:41:00.680 should shame the man i think the man should be shamed yeah yeah i think so there you go shaming works

04:41:06.280 public shame rare hasty george donated twenty dollars while there are blacks and fn people who commit

04:41:12.920 crimes there are those who don't and because of that the favoritism between caucasians all right pasty

04:41:19.560 thank you thank you for that can i ask what fn means uh first nation i'm assuming for like uh

04:41:27.080 uh we got uh there's gonna be a fight they're fighting over you 45 cents paddy back off or fight me

04:41:36.200 also i'm paying my sim taxes hence the extra 3.45 it's supposed to be 304 but okay i'll accept it

04:41:44.120 winner pops the bottle lucas donated 20 thank you lucas appreciate it

04:41:48.360 that coastal operator perhaps i'm now a big fancy lawyer although i would say that's debatable

04:41:54.680 one thing is for sure however not too long ago i was nothing more than a grunt

04:42:00.920 thank you for that man appreciate it we have okay i'll do this one for david brian rocking silence of

04:42:06.040 the lambs buffalo bill voice tonight

04:42:10.520 rubs the lotion on the skin or it gets the hose again i don't know uh all right thank you for that

04:42:16.040 vincent devetches thank you for the australian 40 imagine in the 1920s men had a movement and

04:42:22.920 didn't fulfill their obligation to be the enforcement arm what would society look like

04:42:31.320 he's talking about like world war ii i'm assuming or no in in the 1920s so world war one was already

04:42:36.520 finished by then because world war one was 1914 to 1918 so i don't know what war you're talking about

04:42:47.880 i don't think there's anyone on this panel who's arguing against that

04:42:51.560 men are primarily and necessarily the force arm to keep society going

04:42:56.360 i think we should send the women to do all the fighting i think i think women in war like

04:43:04.200 can you imagine flipping it and just be like okay men don't do any of this stuff women have to do all

04:43:10.040 the enforcement policing and go to war like just chicks fighting each other in war yeah i think we

04:43:16.200 should send felicity honestly to to like ukraine sniper she's like a sniper she's a sniper yeah

04:43:23.960 we're gonna send everybody sending mary over there she's mary yeah she's gone it would just get

04:43:29.480 nuclear really quickly if we had a bunch of women yeah no one would be killing there'd be nukes

04:43:34.440 they'd be like can we talk about this yeah and then if they couldn't figure something out it'd be

04:43:39.080 immediately ironically they resolve by hugging each other uh we have gracie here with some poetry or

04:43:45.560 something gracie underscore abrams donated twenty dollars you were the best you were the worst

04:43:52.360 as sick as it sounds i loved you first i was a d it is what it is a habit to kick the age-old curse

04:44:00.920 i tend to laugh whenever i'm sad i stare at the crash cunt

04:44:07.080 rude

04:44:15.560 sure i'll do it i'll do it no no that's it can i kick it instead what would you would

04:44:25.320 no no because world ending world hunger you're until the next meal is needed so like what is it

04:44:31.560 perpetual world hunger let's say it's perpetual perpetual yeah i'd do it look some i don't think

04:44:38.200 so sometimes the the world needs men to punch babies who are willing to make sacrifices if brian was

04:44:48.680 willing to die for something i'd punch the baby it would be like a pact if brian didn't need the

04:44:55.400 woman as the meat shields yeah yeah if brian abandons meat shields i'll punch the baby i don't know

04:45:02.120 that doesn't make much sense but it doesn't at all but and is it is it your baby or actually an ugly

04:45:08.760 baby redhead baby no offense i just actually redhead babies are just they have no souls we know

04:45:16.120 would you would you punt would you punt punt is lifting and no i think no it's kicking it's

04:45:23.000 kicking it's kicking yeah but it's like a specific yeah it's a specific it's like really specific can't

04:45:27.560 the ball just be placed on the mound no no no that's not a punt a punt is you hold it

04:45:32.760 you kind of throw it in the air i'm gonna fact check you here but it was oh no that's true that's

04:45:37.320 true in nfl it's on a thing okay fair enough i'm thinking like soccer dropped then kicked before it

04:45:44.440 hits the ground so drop kick let's just say drop kick i'll punt baby just roundhouse kick while you're

04:45:49.640 with jim bob would you punt a baby to eradicate feminism

04:45:58.440 wow how many only if it was a female baby no i i don't no no i i still wouldn't do it i still

04:46:06.600 wouldn't do it i think what if it was baby hitler no because baby baby hitler even if he was born

04:46:13.960 with a mustache he deserves the free will to become hitler you can't remove the free will

04:46:21.400 you gotta let him you gotta let little you got a little you gotta let him you gotta let him grow up

04:46:29.000 would you have let hitler into art school nobody should go to art so that should have been a red

04:46:34.120 flag well so so for those who don't know he was a painter before and he tried to get into art school

04:46:38.920 and he kept getting rejected he was like you know what i'm just gonna kill and then he went to

04:46:42.280 politics yeah he lost it after that yep yikes that was good yeah what about uh he's trying to find

04:46:50.520 one would you would you punt any baby a chihuahua any animal any animal yes any animal the cutest little

04:47:00.920 animal even a chameleon a little gentle chameleon would you rather punch a chameleon a nice one too

04:47:07.720 wait would you rather punt a uh a golden retriever puppy right in the face or or a bait a human baby

04:47:18.200 in the right puppy yeah stop looking at me anyway they're always looking at you asking for things

04:47:22.440 with their eyes just wait you just get away from me pump the human no never the human the humans made

04:47:28.040 in the image of god okay the rest you treat with some level of kindness but never equal never equal

04:47:33.640 is there a religion in china is there is it is there christian is there is there religion i think

04:47:41.560 it's manufacturing it's manufacturing

04:47:46.440 oh you mean the punch the puppies no no is there religion yeah religion like believe believe in god

04:47:53.960 like what's like what's the religion what's the dominant religion

04:48:00.600 there's lots of them like booties um jesus and others and some yeah so there's christianity

04:48:12.520 if you had to punt a baby but everybody becomes christian would you wouldn't do it no that's a

04:48:22.120 no it's a violation of free will yeah the punting the baby it's count it's antithetical to christianity

04:48:28.680 you can't force mechanically force a belief that's like uh it just doesn't work it's you can't you can

04:48:35.720 you can you can enforce um behaviors with law but you can't force the belief i would never i'd keep

04:48:43.160 that baby hitler alive recipe to myself would you two oh my god hunt a baby if there was never an

04:48:52.040 abortion again oh like hunting a baby is kind of like part of what happens in an abortion but it's

04:49:00.360 one singular punt and then like there's like 70 million abortions or something like their autonomy

04:49:07.560 which is what we're all about but they are like really good at taking falls and stuff i feel like

04:49:15.320 it could recover my cousin went down a flight of like that's actually a good point stairs and was

04:49:20.600 fine no no better better analogy is the baby because no babies have like six months okay are their skulls

04:49:28.680 like fully formed then no no but they can sit up you can kick it in the torso so the baby won't survive

04:49:35.560 feel really brutal this is the only way to do this the question is would you abort a baby if it ended

04:49:42.840 all abortions oh no no that's a no that's a free will it's a no no yeah damn you can never go

04:49:49.560 utilitarian by the way stop killing with killing yeah yes like interesting okay we have more chats

04:49:58.840 coming through uh oh soon sons of liberty donated 19 i'm flattered paddy i'll fight you both chair

04:50:11.960 three is mine this is an auction you're gonna be married by the end of this year i already know it

04:50:20.120 she needs pictures though this is kind of unfair yeah yeah send your submissions you can dm me at

04:50:25.640 it's lily kate sons of liberty we need a simp tax and i'm still waiting for the other sim taxes we

04:50:32.600 need the champagne pop we need a champagne pop here at the end of the show for you know uh let's see

04:50:38.520 uh let's see uh lucas here thank you man lucas donated twenty dollars call it a hunch but it

04:50:59.560 looks like pasty george is heavily immersed in ibram x kendy's works of fiction

04:51:04.120 thank you lucas w's in the chat for lucas some of these statements whatever podcast

04:51:11.480 i mean like twenty dollars bricks and i got you with a champagne once i get my bonus in the upcoming

04:51:17.480 weeks thank you patty lily don't pay any minds to the rest of the tomfoolery let me or bricks and

04:51:23.560 know where to reach you and make it happen smile well i have to cook for you i guess this could be

04:51:28.040 the the dude she went on a date on though just so you know yeah well so we have to perform

04:51:32.600 we have to perform a background check before i invite you over for me to cook for you

04:51:37.960 background check oh uh thank you patty this one's for jim bob justin martin donated twenty dollars

04:51:47.240 jim bob what would jordan peterson think about the baby punting dilemma

04:51:52.440 well it depends on how ugly the baby is you know it's like let's say the baby has red hair and

04:51:58.360 freckles it's like fuck it why not give it a kick and a toss but hold on a second it's not that

04:52:05.000 simple depends on what you mean by punt you gotta clean your room first it's like it's like if one

04:52:11.800 punt can save the world would i do it wow this is really good it's like yeah the answer is no i can't

04:52:20.360 answer the question i'm sorry wow i really embody really good i was waiting for the tears i was

04:52:28.600 trying jack underscore m donated twenty dollars jim bob would you could you punt a bear yeah the one

04:52:38.120 the feminists try to be friendly with i would fight a bear yeah oh my god can i just say how much that

04:52:44.760 question irks me when every girl says bear like you want an animal that could potentially rip your

04:52:51.800 face i actually changed my position a little bit on it because i grew up in the in the catskill mountains

04:52:57.560 and i've encountered many bears and they're really frantic and they kind of run away i think they chose

04:53:03.000 the wrong animal i would say a mountain liar lion or a cougar or something yeah or change the location i

04:53:09.320 always try to constrain it to like an elevator like how many times have you women been in an elevator

04:53:14.520 with a man stranger just countless right yeah now would you choose the man or a bear in that in

04:53:20.680 that instance still a man still the man right yeah but that's why it's like a i don't know who chose

04:53:26.280 the who originated that anyway no idea that's a good question now i want to look it up but i do agree

04:53:30.840 with the cougar because i've been stalked by one before and it's the most terrifying thing like they say

04:53:36.520 don't run from it oh my god my what was her name okay no it wasn't another accidental date i live in

04:53:43.960 i have them buy me drinks does anybody want a popsicle

04:53:56.120 popsicle red flag popsicle eating it on camera is going to trigger a lot

04:54:00.120 yeah a lot of super chats coming in yeah yeah so pam is like yes spyro donated 20 dollars it's been a

04:54:09.720 minute since i've seen you buddy if it would solve all problems in the world but burritos would

04:54:15.160 magically disappear and never return oh look how disturbed yeah i would do it i would do it i can

04:54:26.760 i'll sacrifice the burritos got paste this pasty

04:54:32.040 send these in french you canadian guy before colonization the women in many fn tribes were

04:54:37.160 subservient to the men but the men were respectful and humble to their women important decisions were

04:54:43.320 often left to the men can't

04:54:48.200 oh can't okay keep getting triggered that they're calling me a we have lucas lucas donated 20

04:54:59.000 the punting slasher bought in a baby hypothetical is much like the trolley hypothetical not good answer

04:55:05.320 yeah it is it's no there's no good answer yeah lucas we need thank you lucas lucas we need some

04:55:12.840 background on on you lucas what kind of attorney are you like it's giving pi but i don't know

04:55:21.320 yeah and then we need the story of how you met your how you met your wife uh okay we have chair this

04:55:28.120 this is for chair three oh my goodness chair three oh you don't have a mind oh

04:55:35.800 five you're a racist against your own kind you should be ashamed of yourself next time bringing

04:55:43.320 a real black woman wow do you want to do you want to respond to that they're saying you're not a real

04:55:48.600 yeah that's what they always say when their opinion is challenged that i'm not a real black woman why

04:55:53.240 because i don't have the same opinions as most black women do they call you like an uncle tom or

04:55:57.560 yeah but uncle tom actually died while saving other slaves from slavery so that's actually a

04:56:03.560 compliment but they don't even know the people i want to see savannah and candace owens on here

04:56:10.520 can i tell you that that episode is what inspired me to want to come here

04:56:14.200 just candace just want to point out that that person's name was yo mama

04:56:19.560 well okay by the way about me not having a mind of my own like sorry i don't subscribe to an

04:56:25.560 ideology that feels like it owns me just because i'm a woman

04:56:30.440 oh snap go off the auction will continue

04:56:38.280 oh no okay more selena you need to start paying a sim tax there you go oh wait

04:56:43.560 oh wait it is donated 23 dollars and four cents maybe bring it boys we're going to ruin

04:56:51.240 she's mine side note we're going to ruin this girl with all this simping you guys need to stop

04:56:58.040 i'm boosting the sit did you hear the voice crack i'm boosting the sim tax it's going to be 69

04:57:05.880 you guys if you're going to simp you got to send in a 69 tts we have spyro here this is for you

04:57:13.000 spyro donated 20 jim bob how would peterson psychoanalyze brian's burrito eating disorder

04:57:21.000 also how would wes watson view brian's burrito eating disorder look i've been watching the forever

04:57:27.560 podcast for several years now even though even when it was shit and now i've come to realize brian's

04:57:34.280 attachment to burritos is plays into his want and need to be part of back into the womb where it's

04:57:40.840 nice and warm and contained and so every time he bites into a burrito he's remembering a past

04:57:47.640 time before his own birth you know

04:57:53.880 that was good what was the second part of that question that yeah i don't even know uh oh wait we

04:57:59.000 have this one here uh wait one sec we got i'm gonna change it to chinese for this one where is this

04:58:07.400 oh whoops is that a stone again it is rosetta stone

04:58:11.560 the rosetta stone donated

04:58:13.560 i don't think chinese script is supported but we'll know now

04:58:34.120 um you know mind uh oh so so you guys don't know don't know what he was saying about that

04:58:45.880 he was just uh tell me to not be a shenny oh an old lady an old maid the leftover yeah

04:58:55.560 uh-huh all right we got this one oh wait i need to change it back

04:58:59.080 damn it

04:59:01.080 sorry i'll i'll play that i'll play it again i'll play it again with the appropriate uh

04:59:21.560 okay i wonder why they changed it to a woman for the transition for chinese

04:59:28.200 baby wants things donated twenty dollars come at me and you'll catch these baby hands can't

04:59:35.800 can't is there more uh oh we have a baby who ends things that's hilarious bet

04:59:43.320 oh my word i guess i'm back on the market that's pressure here i'll replay this pasty

04:59:54.760 pasty george our resident woke woke guy pasty george donated twenty dollars fn women ensured the

05:00:02.520 camps were taken care of and the children looked after while the men hunted and taught the young men

05:00:08.040 both understood their roles and duties and had no issues doing them at all

05:00:14.280 doctrine underscore matters donated twenty dollars chair five you said we don't stop killing with

05:00:20.440 killing you realize that's the direct end of our military and the end of any force doctrine trying

05:00:25.960 to stop killing chair five lucky man chair three keeps smiling that's so nice gmd jim donated

05:00:34.520 twenty dollars thank you jim chair three not sure what you mean by you do not believe in divorce

05:00:41.240 divorce is allowed in christianity in cases of adultery i had to let two go for that the second

05:00:48.120 one was a real cunt is that for all christian denominations what for it should there are exceptions

05:00:56.200 infidelity is that divorce is allowed um i don't know about every single okay position you would

05:01:03.880 have to talk to um i think it's case by case you'd have to explore what the situation

05:01:11.000 and what i say when i when i when i mean when i say i don't believe in divorce it's literally just like

05:01:15.960 not something that exists in my direct family um it's something that you know two of my siblings are

05:01:21.640 married and you know when our families were like merging you know my parents were like okay like

05:01:27.160 how do you feel about divorce and it just it doesn't ever it's never going to be used as leverage

05:01:32.920 in an argument it's never going to be used as a threat in our household like with my family um so

05:01:37.720 when i say i don't believe in it like in a very practical sense in my life it does not exist like

05:01:43.000 obviously it is it exists as a concept and there it's like a secular distinction it's a legal

05:01:48.200 distinction you're just saying it's not an option for you yeah totally yeah okay all right those are

05:01:54.280 some super chats that came in thank you guys he's asking about that it is below the threshold guys if

05:01:59.480 you can send it through stream labs not through super chats but we have uh ar15 mama thank you 15

05:02:06.920 mama donated 20 ladies remember for future reference please don't make claims you can't back up

05:02:13.880 stop stop spouting mainstream media's bs headlines do your own research like chair five does she's based af

05:02:25.080 coastal operator donated twenty dollars brian play a smoke detector beep ceiling cricket

05:02:31.400 slash hood cricket we need to confirm how black chair five really is like uh the smoke detector have

05:02:40.840 you have you heard about that yeah uh is it true that someone in the capital plays that whenever

05:02:46.840 jasmine crockett starts talking screaming that's funny hilarious well see this is like what i'm

05:02:51.480 talking about like all these stereotypes that are just like so ghetto and negative like not all black

05:02:55.800 people are like that it's just like really sad that everybody thinks that there's like a certain

05:02:59.400 way that black women should speak and that should act and yeah it's just like i don't like what the

05:03:05.800 definition the current definition of black culture is which is like cardi b culture jasmine crockett

05:03:11.240 culture that is exactly what a half white woman would say you were raised white yeah you need to ask

05:03:19.960 which side of you is talking right now i agree with everything you just said

05:03:26.520 would you like to walk back killing doesn't stop killing wait i missed that oh they're challenging you

05:03:32.920 on killing doesn't stop killing i understand his point but force can stop killing without killing so

05:03:40.360 i don't know if the contention in the super chat is also accurate everywhere a school whatever you

05:03:46.760 referred to it as is not equivalent to an innocent unborn baby be self-defense basically

05:03:54.760 lucas donated twenty dollars thank you lucas commercial real estate attorney dot now

05:03:59.480 partner to one thousand four hundred attorney firm met wife through my fellow greek law school

05:04:05.320 classmate when i got burned out by the nyc happy hour slash young professional dating scene

05:04:12.680 yeah i heard new york dating in new york city is kind of brutal so thank you lucas appreciate it

05:04:20.200 demon slayer donated twenty dollars black man white man or bear which would you prefer to see in

05:04:27.320 deep woods if you were lost on a hiking trail tomorrow i feel like most serial killers are white

05:04:34.520 men do they exist anymore though i wonder if you have like serial killers it's weird not to put on my

05:04:43.880 tinfoil hat i wish you had the music for it but it's like do you have it it's like they don't exist

05:04:50.440 anymore serial killers like they had they had their play and now they're gone and you're like what the

05:04:55.320 hell is that i know what are true crime podcasts are you kind of upset are you upset by that that

05:04:58.920 there's no more i'm just saying like dang maybe it was some sort of cia project yeah that don't get

05:05:05.240 away with it anymore i do consider that aspect too middle-aged white women will have nothing to listen

05:05:10.280 to no more true oh yeah yeah so to the answer to the question uh a a black man white man totally random

05:05:18.440 or the bear in the middle of the woods what do you choose is the intention for them to help us

05:05:23.880 get unlost or is is it it's just no no you don't even know first glance you don't even know what's

05:05:29.640 going to happen you have no idea you're just in the woods you just like like uh spawning like it like

05:05:36.040 in a video game there's a spawn just right in front of you what do you choose considering all else

05:05:42.040 equal he's probably hunting hunting yeah i was actually just gonna say that yeah nigerian prince

05:05:49.080 oh my god i know one i could set you up actually uh are we getting actual

05:05:55.160 preps not even getting i know one yeah oh my gosh that's amazing black man we know

05:05:58.680 i mean anybody but but a bear anything but a bear yeah i would say anybody but a bear however

05:06:05.240 wait yeah no no i drank some of it and i i felt i was like i can't do this so i apologize for uh

05:06:15.960 wasting it but i didn't know it was that insane dude you didn't see the war i i saw i thought it

05:06:20.600 was like a novelty what is that who who did that to you who who sent that to you wait no that that

05:06:27.640 would that would kill somebody what is that this beer would kill somebody if you drank all right so

05:06:32.200 this uh this company sent me uh it's it's the world's strongest beer and the alcohol by volume

05:06:42.760 content it's 67.5 so that's stronger than vodka it's like everclear i did i had a swig though i had

05:06:49.960 a big swig still and it's a beer gross i should probably i was like this is crazy so this they sent

05:06:56.520 it to me and i was like do you drink no no and i knew no one else was gonna no one else was gonna

05:07:01.640 drink it does have a warning label yeah can you thought it was a joke okay so anything but a bear

05:07:09.160 you can't choose a panda bear yes but still anything except for beer anything but a bear

05:07:18.600 choosing a white man nice man yeah white man okay i don't care what color the man is i don't

05:07:23.640 want a bear okay yeah no bear for me no bear yeah it's not a bear for me just a lot of barrier

05:07:28.600 did anybody pick bear i would pick a bear i don't want to talk to anyone in the woods

05:07:36.200 spyro donated 20 the second impression was wes watson making fun of brian's burrito eating disorder

05:07:43.960 making me pay twice you guys know how to grift over they did on purpose yeah oh anyway okay

05:07:50.040 wes watson making training brian how are you gonna get yourself together brian you're gonna eat

05:07:56.280 these burritos all your whole damn life you expect to find a woman in your dreams that's pretty good

05:08:03.880 that was really good well he did yell at me right in my face oh that's right it's burned into my soul

05:08:09.000 i remember that yeah yeah you told me to shave my arms 69 donated 20 dollars why does jim bob sound

05:08:17.320 like the little white bat from movie anastasia when doing the peterson voice dimitri i think was his

05:08:23.240 name i can't think of what that is you need to watch that with your kids have you ever seen the musical

05:08:31.240 oh were they clean with the on broadway with the music no that's no that's fantasia yeah

05:08:37.160 i think she was like russian or something little fairies that fly around because they're drinking

05:08:41.080 absinthe oh okay next george donated 20 dollars if christians truly believed in free will then the

05:08:50.760 residential schools and the forced assimilation and abuses by priests and nuns would never have happened

05:08:56.920 i am fn kree btw wait what that doesn't make any sense that doesn't make any sense if if christians

05:09:02.760 really believed in free will then the act of evil men would never happen that doesn't make

05:09:08.760 punch yourself in the throat like wow she wasted money on what a waste operator donated 20 lucas is also

05:09:17.720 well-versed in bird law he once proved a blinding at a wedding was due to a rare bird living in an old

05:09:23.800 man's hat and also he has normal sized hands lucas if you're still watching do you want to respond to

05:09:30.760 these allegations one shot to 17 donated 20 dollars sup jb but how would ben shapiro and jp discuss the

05:09:40.120 baby punting dilemma also since no one is simping for a vach's chair when i live in meridian id lmk if you

05:09:47.320 ever want to grab sushi sometimes well well it's a really good question i mean the the the question

05:09:54.360 is what ethnicity and what religion is the baby that that determines what is their stance on israel

05:09:59.640 if it's a baby that doesn't stand for israel punt it in the head if it is maybe question the the whole

05:10:04.520 entire hypothetical i don't know you got to look at the facts oh what the hell uh okay we have

05:10:11.240 are yo daddy who left 90 20. uh okay we have uh habib jackson

05:10:27.800 habib jackson donated 20 dollars just wanted to say hi

05:10:33.720 why'd you skip over the last one huh oh she's up from the table but i'll i'll pull it up

05:10:39.480 let's go

05:10:43.160 selena gornez donated 69.69 cents the m's are going to be full after tonight boys i'm

05:10:50.920 open to it let the competition begin simps yo selena gornez thank you so much for the uh

05:10:56.760 big 69 tts donated twenty dollars thank you for chair nine would you rather be in a forest alone

05:11:03.000 with a bad role vote to your man i got it thank you all right he'll get the bow then fine all right

05:11:10.680 now we have a bow situation there we go all right we have uh

05:11:18.520 vincent de vetches clarification i meant instead of a feminism movement there is a masculist movement

05:11:24.440 also do you think the gender movement should be scrapped completely or is binary gender still important

05:11:30.840 uh i think there's only binary gender um and i also don't know what a masculine movement is like

05:11:40.600 from my perspective like mid-tau oh that yeah yeah mig tau i think is is uh kind of a silly uh view but um

05:11:51.960 anything that's a feminist movement is basically permitted by a by by men it's just like a permission

05:11:59.080 so i'm not sure what he's actually pointing to in that question okay we have id bro you don't

05:12:05.240 end violins with violins agreed except for one instance christ put to death to death by death

05:12:15.320 put death to death by death okay thank you id bro for that question ladies have you all heard of the

05:12:22.200 phrase pick me girl if so define it and thoughts on it also have you all heard of the phrase skip me girl

05:12:28.440 it's basically a counter to pick me girl anybody know what a pit oh i've been called that all the

05:12:34.280 time it means that you're a girl who posts social as far as i know post social media content to get

05:12:42.840 attention from men specifically right-leaning social media content so you can get a right-wing chat guy

05:12:49.800 it can be more broad than that too because like where we live in the east coast it's like if you're a

05:12:54.280 pick me girl it's like the desperate girl that will do whatever she can to please a guy even if

05:12:59.080 he's not like if he's cheating and he has five other girls she's like no i'll do anything to get

05:13:03.400 him to pick me like that's also another version of that yeah oh and i would sorry to interrupt but

05:13:09.560 also my interpretation is um that girl that's putting another girl down because there's like

05:13:15.160 men around just like you know no matter her view is just like oh yeah or like you know start talking

05:13:20.120 crap about her or whatever in front of men just because she wants that girl wants to be perceived

05:13:24.600 as the best female in the room that just sounds so toxic and gross right yeah no it's terrible yeah

05:13:32.120 all right we have uh pasty george

05:13:36.200 pasty george donated twenty dollars on one remember those nuns and priests were supposed to be all holy

05:13:42.920 and such but they still abused countless fn children and worse so jim bob and chair five

05:13:49.640 throat punch yourselves don't do it you've already rachel will send you it at twenty dollars

05:13:56.120 jim bob please grace us with an impression of andrew summing up his opinion of each guest on the panel

05:14:03.160 well looks like chair one here um maybe trusting internet dating a little too much just a little too much

05:14:12.920 um chair two um i actually had you wrong i thought i thought maybe you'd been maybe you had an only

05:14:20.840 fans you know i don't know it's a judgment but uh after all you seem pretty open uh chair three

05:14:29.160 i think you might be i thought maybe it might be a covert feminist covert feminist right here but it

05:14:36.040 turns out not as much i maybe on a future panel when i'm here i can push back on maybe your

05:14:42.600 theology a little bit maybe that's not for jim bob to do here today i can't go through all the way

05:14:48.200 with that voice sorry what theology oh i mean like when you get into like um the different churches

05:14:57.480 the authoritative stance of different like can women be uh no yeah that could come up like what's

05:15:02.440 the place of women in a church is there a true church but that's you know most of the time that's

05:15:07.800 outside of the bounds of this okay this podcast we got lucas here lucas donated twenty dollars thank

05:15:15.080 you lucas lord law my meager intellectual capacity fails me here not sure what my buddy coastal operator

05:15:22.440 is getting at he'll have to enlighten me yo lucas really appreciate uh the message man thank you so much

05:15:30.760 all right uh we have oh no we're good there uh oh do you guys think do you guys think a woman's past

05:15:40.280 shouldn't matter it does matter okay a lot what do you think

05:15:49.080 it depends what do you mean sexual past past yeah sexual past oh yeah it matters okay doesn't matter

05:15:57.160 it doesn't matter it matters it matters

05:16:04.520 matters yeah i think it does too yeah it definitely matters okay uh we always do the segment uh so going

05:16:13.880 around the table what is your body count virgin come on what what is uh it's obviously not true five

05:16:23.800 obviously i'm not answering that do you want to give us a range no

05:16:31.800 do you want to give us an over under over 100 under 20 i'm not answering it

05:16:42.840 want to okay can i guess well i guess uh sure uh it's over 100 that's hilarious

05:16:50.680 it's funny because it's true no it's not you should speak into the mic wow you seem really

05:16:57.560 defensive about this no can you tilt your mic down and speak into the mic please uh no i'm not

05:17:04.280 defensive at all you've just been coming at me all night have i oh yeah i'll throw it back what

05:17:10.440 how did i come at you what did i come at you about yeah about the black men dating how i look like i

05:17:15.160 date let black men why is that why is that coming that's not coming at you it is why why would i can

05:17:21.240 i can see the undertone what's the undertone you're not stupid what i mean i might be you might be i could

05:17:30.120 be what what's the undertone i don't understand i think you're the one who's being racist now

05:17:36.760 are are you saying that you're fat what what what are you even talking about oh did i just misread

05:17:47.800 that completely i'm so confused because you i thought you were trying to say that like black

05:17:53.240 men have a have a type i'm not fat i know but you might be suggesting that i was saying i'm voluptuous

05:18:03.960 i'm not fat i didn't say i didn't say that i thought you were saying that no not at all of

05:18:10.680 course it just got real weird yeah i'll make it weird all night baby i'll make it weird all night

05:18:20.280 no but that's where you were going with it no i wasn't no because you're like oh he

05:18:27.640 that is that's not where she was going with i did not get that at all yo chad is that not where

05:18:33.160 she's okay so you you know which okay i i didn't get that maybe it's not getting you seem defended by it

05:18:46.200 offended by what

05:18:48.920 no you're you you were the one trying to make a joke before oh i can tell she likes black dudes you

05:18:54.600 were the one like it's just it's a stereotypical yeah you were just trying to be funny and whatever

05:19:01.400 did it land or not no it didn't land it's whatever was it a joke though i don't know if it was a joke

05:19:07.320 i think i was just being no it's stereotypical because the way i look the way you look yeah

05:19:13.720 because that's why you judge me on that that's why i look like i like black men because of the way i look

05:19:19.640 but it was but if it was right because the way she looks or because she said she

05:19:25.800 had a nigerian boyfriend and you just like assume with that that she was she dates black guys no i

05:19:30.680 think it was definitely after oh it was definitely after yeah what was it about her that made you

05:19:35.640 think that you know it's it's this ethereal thing that i can't point it's just you know you it's a

05:19:45.320 feeling mm-hmm because she got a nice butt it's a it's a feeling a nice butt on my boobs

05:19:53.480 no it's not about the boobs it's about let's face it it's about the cheetah print it's really

05:19:58.360 wild the africa reference so stereotypical but what's wrong with stereotypes though i mean a lot

05:20:04.680 of times they're accurate sometimes they're off sometimes they're not yeah but but that's the

05:20:08.680 thing it's like you can stereotype people i mean yeah sure stereotype me yeah stereotype everybody

05:20:15.080 in this room yeah there's nothing wrong with it it's not a judgment when do stereotypes

05:20:20.360 that's true it's like i don't because like like if you had a look at me and be like oh you date

05:20:26.280 white women a black woman would never date you whoa well he was asking i disagree i feel like a

05:20:32.120 black woman would date you would but that doesn't mean he's into though the question is no yeah but i'm

05:20:38.040 just yeah what's the old what's the term for old maid she's saying she's saying though it's not even

05:20:48.200 the type of women like i just the black women just across the board no not across the board they

05:20:53.880 wouldn't they wouldn't so i don't even even if i wanted to mostly black women yeah mostly not all

05:20:58.280 not all why do you think they wouldn't date you the black women wait i didn't say that that's what

05:21:03.640 she said oh i think that oh that's weird because i was agreeing with her

05:21:10.280 i was like

05:21:12.360 let me face time some of my girls

05:21:19.560 i love your hair i don't know i don't think uh typically black women like white guys that's not

05:21:26.120 true again typically no they well it depends it depends on where they were raised how they were

05:21:33.880 raised everything has goes back to where you were raised how you were raised and how much money you

05:21:39.000 have black white blue green i don't care that's what it goes down to yeah but they've done polls and

05:21:44.280 they for example like black women have a much stronger preference of uh intra is it intra interracial

05:21:52.920 dating like they'd much more prefer to date another black man whereas like you look at certain other

05:21:58.680 race and sex demographics they like have more openness to dating outside their race that's a lot

05:22:04.920 with with uh lots of parts of the world though that don't want to mix their race because like

05:22:09.480 eventually if everybody mixes a race you know it could be a race everyone turns gray yeah yeah that's how

05:22:15.320 basically how they see it like when i was walking around with you know i when i went to india i was

05:22:21.160 just dating my now husband and the looks that we were getting like not only do people there not

05:22:27.160 like show affection in public like holding hands hugging there was people asking to take photos of

05:22:32.040 us because they said they've never seen yeah like do they have that in china did they um look down on and

05:22:39.160 say no to uh cross uh racial dating um dating outside you dating a white person or a black person or

05:22:51.560 do they they they want to keep it chinese and chinese right mostly yeah mostly yeah i rarely ever see

05:23:01.320 somebody who's like immigrated from an asian country like marry somebody who's not asian maybe that's just

05:23:07.800 my experience but i feel like maybe if you're an asian american and you're born here i feel like most asian american

05:23:14.280 like white women will marry a white man that's just what i see in new york i feel like age also has

05:23:21.080 something to do with it because i noticed like okay like looking at me you would never think that i'm

05:23:24.840 part black i am um my boyfriend he's black a lot of people don't assume that uh but who knows some

05:23:32.760 people see it some people don't but regardless what i'm saying is like i've noticed when i go out with my

05:23:37.080 man i don't know if he's noticed it but i definitely do like i get more looks from like

05:23:41.480 younger black women than i do older black women because i feel like older black women see more of

05:23:48.120 the value in like looking beyond the color and the younger women are just more of like keep it in our

05:23:53.240 own and i don't understand why quite frankly well they're like they're competitive time uh period maybe

05:23:58.840 like they're like they're being competitive like actually there's something i saw i i could be

05:24:03.800 wrong about this uh the way i'm framing this but it was that when a black woman dates a white man or

05:24:11.560 someone outside of their race it's seen as like oh go you yeah but if it's reversed it's like oh well

05:24:17.080 i can speak to that yeah so what do you think that is is it just because the man

05:24:22.120 ends up being the thing that you're really going after maybe or

05:24:25.080 good question um i mean i definitely i definitely think she has something to say

05:24:34.760 y'all yeah like you keep trying to shut me down i guess what that was jim bob

05:24:38.840 i wish i didn't black men was not my preference i wish i whoa what the fuck yeah because it's hard

05:24:50.600 being a white woman dating a black man is hard why and anybody that says it because you get so

05:24:55.480 much pushback from the black so much pushback they don't want like so it is possible to be

05:25:01.560 racist against white people you know how much pushback i've gotten from like just black men

05:25:06.440 on the street while we're why this is in new york of course but like like we don't experience this

05:25:10.760 other places but this black man threw a piece of chicken at my husband and then looked at me and

05:25:17.080 said why the f would you be with an indian n-word yikes yeah and i'm just like wow wow

05:25:24.280 what kind of chicken was that it was like a rotisserie

05:25:29.000 no just like part of it it comes down to black love all right anyways uh

05:25:33.800 does it matter the type of chicken

05:25:35.960 twenty dollars okay jim bob do jordan peterson give him the panel look at this now she's going

05:25:41.320 to keep coming i love it well i've you know giving people advice has gotten me into a lot of trouble

05:25:49.400 you know it's like maybe i don't have all the answers maybe how long is it going to take you

05:25:54.840 guys to understand that if you see a grown man crying on on television maybe you shouldn't listen to

05:26:00.760 them it's really good you know oh it's like it's like i just want i want people to find the order

05:26:11.000 in their life you know and it's like you've got to organize your life to match the inner workings of

05:26:17.800 your brain you know you know it's like

05:26:26.280 and scene and scene yeah and cut

05:26:29.880 that's interesting you said you wish you didn't have the preference because of like

05:26:34.840 the hardship of it it's hard so wait you just like get harassed or something or no but like

05:26:40.920 like first of all there is you know black love is a thing black people want to stay with black

05:26:48.920 people a lot of it because of slavery what white people have done to them like different economic

05:26:55.240 things like that's a thing right for some odd reason in the community it is more acceptable for a

05:27:02.200 black woman to date a white man than it is for a black man to date a white woman a lot of it comes down

05:27:08.040 to because of economics and and you know when the black man makes it and he's a football player then

05:27:15.640 he gets the white woman because then when he gets some money we look at him because there is such a

05:27:21.240 divide i would you know it would be interesting to see if um black men who marry white women do they

05:27:29.560 stay with them familially like as the husband uh in contrast to when they marry a black woman or

05:27:37.800 don't marry or have kids with a black woman uh woman because you know the the stats is that they

05:27:42.280 leave like the the the man leaves that's the stats i mean but what would the stats look like i don't

05:27:47.560 know the stats but like the i wonder if the stats change with other races i think you could be right

05:27:53.640 i think black women are one of the most disrespected people and i love black women i'm gonna sit here and

05:28:00.040 say i love black women you know like they are it's hard i think they're um that they're they're the

05:28:06.520 most disrespectful i think they're disrespectful i think they're masculine and i think that that's

05:28:11.720 a stereotype it's just it's true like it's the black female culture it's loud and like aggressive

05:28:18.600 it's a one it's one sector of it it's not all of them of course it's not all of them that was my train

05:28:24.760 of thought where i was from no it's a lot of it though it's a lot of the culture here in in the

05:28:29.960 west it's like i don't need no man you know i'm gonna shake my ass anywhere i want like i was in

05:28:36.120 miami just a couple of weeks ago and almost every young group of black women were either yelling

05:28:43.000 screaming twerking dressed incredibly inappropriate and this is just my experience yeah when i see a

05:28:49.800 group of white girls on the beach they weren't doing any of that why are they so loud why are

05:28:54.760 they so aggressive that's one that's one you know just that's just like saying like yeah it's a lot

05:29:03.240 of them i know but it's a lot of them it's and look at all of the rappers look at the black women who

05:29:09.240 are in hollywood this is a difference though this is a difference white people will appropriately

05:29:15.080 categorize white trash and not say that's just they want that out elevated they don't say defend

05:29:22.600 white trash right because it's their culture uh we're allowed to do that we're allowed to go no

05:29:28.200 elevate yourselves a little get it together like this is you know you know get some decency we can do

05:29:33.720 that to each other but if you try to do that you know if you're saying what's parallel to that is

05:29:38.680 like ghetto culture what the moment you try to do that you're like no you're you're like you're racist

05:29:44.040 like you you're trying to correct their culture this is their culture well no people like her are

05:29:48.280 rejecting that that's the that should be the culture you shouldn't that is a culture yeah

05:29:53.240 we can be so much better than that like exactly and if you think about like why do all these very

05:29:57.000 successful like football players and basketball players why did why do they always end up with a

05:30:01.480 white woman because those white women aren't acting so aggressive and loud and obnoxious it's not

05:30:07.800 because they're racist it's not because they only like white women it's just because

05:30:11.240 just less likely to be so aggressive and ridiculous and i don't know a lot of a lot of

05:30:16.920 the things they say is white women are easy to push over that's one of the things you mean more

05:30:21.560 traditional and submissive yeah and then and then this culture she's referring to is this masculine

05:30:28.680 loud defense like sort of combative nature that that just kind of comes out and you're like you call

05:30:34.280 that strong black woman it's like that's not doing them any favors the bible said that the bible

05:30:39.880 calls i'm just saying a quarrelson woman quarrels quarrels or reviling wife and that's just that's not

05:30:45.640 good for a marriage at all i mean we've all torn relationships apart with our words and we should

05:30:50.040 never encourage women to go with that so true but i think it is this that stereotype of black women

05:30:56.440 that makes it hard for a lot of them because the women that i yeah they need to stop because

05:31:01.080 they're making it seem like all black women are like that which is not true no it's not true

05:31:05.800 anyways thank you selena gorena imagine share three ends up with one of these guys

05:31:12.280 to their kids how they met it was really romantic actually he paid 23 dollars and four cents to talk

05:31:18.840 to me and simped harder and better yeah there was a girl you had on a couple weeks ago who actually

05:31:24.600 started dating one of the people that is true yeah or come on lucas it's an always sunny reference charlie

05:31:32.120 tells everyone he's a lawyer when they call him out he claims his focus is mostly just bird

05:31:37.720 law good show yeah good show thank you coastal we have rachel wilson oh god he's putting me to task

05:31:45.640 rachel wilson donated 20 dollars chair two i missed the middle of the show so i don't know if they

05:31:51.640 already told you but you were an addict hanging out with addicts it's not men who are the problem it's

05:31:57.560 you you want to respond to that what are you even talking about i've been clean for 15 years

05:32:03.480 and she's been celibate for i was celibate for eight and a half years

05:32:09.720 yeah i'm not celibate now but i was w jimbob goat emoji

05:32:15.240 thank you intel wild thank you rachel wilson oh this is for you demographic is funny that's the one i

05:32:21.560 i want to know what it is donated 20 dollars is it just me or does chair six look like an asian

05:32:29.480 sydney sweeney nice shirt jim bop that's funny wait what yeah who's sydney sweeney yeah who is

05:32:35.960 the actress i've never heard me for you i've never watched oh i can see the eyes a little bit it's

05:32:41.640 like uh yeah oh yeah here mary can you google she has like um she doesn't have very deep eye

05:32:47.880 sockets yeah it's like uh i mean sad puppy take it as a compliment i have

05:32:55.160 wow shit just got real chair two went from being okay with being decimated on topics tonight to

05:33:01.960 projecting all that internal frustration onto brian in one fell swoop then brian threw gas on that fire

05:33:09.080 do you want to tell me how you really feel i don't care enough you should care more it hurts my

05:33:15.480 feelings just get it all out there just get it out tell me how you feel i really don't care i was

05:33:23.080 asked to be on this show i didn't ask to be on the show wait okay do you want to do you want to get

05:33:29.720 i did come i should have watched the show before i came though yeah what oh why is that i didn't know

05:33:35.400 what was this yeah what is this just a bunch of people debating topics like about like spending

05:33:43.480 money to like insult people that's nobody insults it's it's funny to me i'm entertained yeah but what

05:33:50.600 is this what do you mean by this the whole thing i thought this was just a podcast i thought i was

05:33:57.240 being interviewed it it is a podcast it's a dating talk panel yeah it's a top we're talking about way

05:34:04.200 more than dating yeah sometimes it gets into other topics sometimes related you know that's the

05:34:11.160 nature of conversations you're talking about one thing leads to somewhere else yeah but so what what's

05:34:17.240 your objection objection to what oh you know i should have watched the show before what do you mean like

05:34:24.760 what determination have you made about the show that you should have watched beforehand i mean it just

05:34:30.840 wouldn't have been for me it's not for you should go on the fresh and fit that would be more your oh

05:34:39.080 my god what's fresh and fit a joke it's a joke oh it's a fresh and fit you're on this cool one are

05:34:46.120 you calling me fat because i mean look at you baby you're about 40 pounds overweight i'm i am chubby but

05:34:52.520 like fresh and fit is is literally a name of a podcast oh okay you took that really personal

05:34:59.960 fresh and fit i mean i would assume what it's what it sounds like no it's a dating it's a dating

05:35:04.360 podcast similar to this this chick's out of pot you're out of pocket lady i am you're you're kind of

05:35:10.760 uh you're a little upset no i'm really not oh okay yeah that's fine oh you don't want to see me

05:35:17.080 should we go to weight watchers together what do you think i don't need to lose weight well i mean

05:35:23.320 we could probably both stand to lose a couple i'm 145 pounds and i'm 5 4 i'm you're not yes can we get

05:35:30.440 a scale you want to see my waist my waist is no i'm okay please don't show me that uh yeah 28 inches

05:35:36.360 honey honey oh all of it's here and here it's there 145 i weigh 145 pounds when's the last time

05:35:44.520 you weighed yourself this morning i'll tell you i'm 5 4 what do you think there

05:35:52.920 i weigh 145 pounds you weighed yourself this morning yeah the scale broken could be one i mean

05:35:59.640 145 to 148 i fluctuate yeah fluctuations you eat you know there's yeah uh intel wild here has some

05:36:09.080 words for you though intel wild donated 20 dollars i mean honestly i really don't care because

05:36:23.320 i mean the people that i surround myself they love the way that i look and like i said i have a small

05:36:28.360 waist it's not like i'm i'm curvy i'm not fat it's kind of a big deal we can we can weigh me right now

05:36:35.160 okay unfortunately i don't have a scale yeah we literally can sorry okay we have olav here

05:36:43.240 all i've donated twenty dollars wait black women ain't into white dudes say what nah i think the

05:36:50.840 opposite is true actually brian gets the brown sugar okay isn't brown

05:36:58.920 but he donated 19 and 99 cents always blaming the white men white men ended worldwide slavery

05:37:07.880 you do know african tribes conquered other african tribes and sold them or traded to the world

05:37:14.040 roots was an admitted fiction oh thank you sons of liberty appreciate it pasty george here again

05:37:21.800 pasty george donated twenty dollars in canada some black men and women are rude disrespectful and

05:37:28.680 aggressive however some are kind respectful and hard-working the same is for fn people and caucasian

05:37:36.200 canadians cunt selena gone is donated 23 dollars and four cents notice how some people spend money to

05:37:45.880 insult and others spend it to simp the problem is you chair two chair three isn't getting roasted

05:37:52.440 she's about to get my yearly salary and lifelong commitment did you just propose to me you straight

05:37:58.920 up ask me to marry you salary yes wow you want to respond to that one no he's saying the problem is

05:38:06.840 you okay okay i want to ask you about the proposal what would it take in proposal form for you to say

05:38:14.920 yes without a photo oh love is blind vibes wow what would have to show up on that screen

05:38:22.920 absent a photo for you to say yes an entire resume and a personal manifesto in a good way of their

05:38:35.080 philosophy of life okay it'd have to be pretty in depth though my dad has almost eight degrees we take

05:38:42.920 into intelligence very seriously in our family so um you would also have to probably get on a couple

05:38:50.840 phone calls with my dad oh wow what the fuck bro hey why chill out dude she's just winked at me

05:39:01.080 she's got you in her sights i'm too pale i'm too pale for you okay while it is true that nuns and

05:39:06.360 priests in many different religions abused kids pasty do you want to you want to just is it you want to

05:39:13.320 tell us something uh not that you were abused well that's that came out really weird uh first nations

05:39:19.160 children it was fn children that died en masse at the negligence and homicide by priests and nuns

05:39:25.240 more so than caucasian children in both canada and america facts pasty george what pasty george what

05:39:31.800 first nations tribe do you belong to are you are there navajos and canada i don't know thank you

05:39:41.080 tell us what first nation okay one shot thank you man jb the baby punting dilemma isn't complete

05:39:47.480 until don petite has graced us with nasa's wisdom also chair two it's not the way you look per se it's

05:39:52.520 because you're wearing leopard print unitard

05:39:59.960 there's nothing wrong with wearing animal print okay uh timmy has heart australian 30 thank you man

05:40:08.360 chimmy blop prop tompkin oh my god bro that's ridiculous i can try it chimmy blobby prop tompkin

05:40:16.760 blob is bomble widget grimy bimble plop plop womby skibby wibby gabby whammy bam bam

05:40:24.520 tanny bobler thanks for your time is that is that tweets from the streets could be

05:40:31.800 excuse me uh let's see we have uh uh wait uh new show segment oh still operator donated 20

05:40:47.160 new show segment the way in like the guess the weight carnival game but without the carnies brian

05:40:53.880 give chair two a snickers she's clearly hungry you're not yourself when you're hungry you want do you

05:41:00.360 want a a cupcake or i was promised a popsicle oh do you still you want uh felicity can you grab her

05:41:07.000 it's really sad you want some chocolate milk no i'm good you want you want some applesauce

05:41:16.760 would you want to do you want a muffin do you want to fight

05:41:18.840 i do want to fight do you fight me or i do usually i don't agree i just throw hands oh

05:41:28.520 shit you shouldn't do that i know see i should have watched this first i can get you in jail i know

05:41:34.760 yeah it's not worth it trust no i'm not going to would would you grapple with jim bob no he

05:41:41.080 hasn't irritated me really i feel like i've been pretty tame tonight to be honest

05:41:49.480 i've seen you get a little hotter so you know yeah well he's also sick so you're not

05:41:54.760 that sinus infection is true i used to get those they're no joke they suck uh jb peltier

05:42:01.000 donated 20 dollars quick drama farming brian acting like a catty little girl i hey i'm not i'm not

05:42:12.040 no that's see everyone gets roasted that is ridiculous

05:42:17.800 okay can somebody roast me yes please roast savannah

05:42:21.400 instead of punching me in the face to end world hunger we can just start forcing chair two to

05:42:29.960 share her food and achieve almost the same result

05:42:35.480 what is wrong but y'all i know i look good as yes i look good as

05:42:42.520 fuck you're beautiful you're like i know

05:42:44.680 bitch 28 inch waist booty on

05:42:51.720 that's where the 145 is

05:42:57.000 they were waiting for that that's why

05:42:58.200 they were just waiting for the body

05:43:01.240 nobody can tell me

05:43:03.400 the rooms i get in i have to look disgusting

05:43:06.040 so i think we need a crystal pop for that

05:43:09.720 yeah that's just what they're waiting for

05:43:14.120 nobody can tell me i don't look good nobody can tell me i don't look good

05:43:17.640 and you can break i don't i don't care i was 166 pounds i lost weight

05:43:23.000 no i'm not who keeps pressing those those buttons that's crazy um okay

05:43:31.080 is there anything else you want to share with us

05:43:32.680 anything you want to get off your chest no

05:43:36.840 okay good talk uh we have lucas here lucas donated 20 at coastal operator got it we'll

05:43:45.400 check it out never watched the show we'll brush up on the treatises restatements

05:43:50.920 porn books and perhaps even take a cly on bird law promise to be ready next time

05:43:58.440 i like it thank you lucas thank you thank you

05:44:00.680 far ted donated twenty dollars question for the ladies your toilet paper roll over or under

05:44:07.880 if you say under you're wrong chair five keep up the good work

05:44:15.080 yeah over toilet paper over is definitely more aesthetically pleasing i broke up with a girl once

05:44:19.880 because she no kidding she fucked up the toilet paper yeah what's up though for you it the toilet

05:44:26.600 paper has to go over not under how long were you guys together three years over yeah that's her

05:44:31.880 reaction to that are you sure that wasn't the straw that broke the camel's back no it was perfect up

05:44:37.000 until then and then i just she fucked up had to had to get she had to go i think maybe you shouldn't get

05:44:45.080 married or have kids right not everybody should get married or have kids yeah she had to go i had to

05:44:53.400 break up with her right away what did she do was it just the toilet paper yeah that's what i just asked

05:44:59.800 and she just kept doing it or was it like well it's just one and done one and done yeah i gotta respect

05:45:05.800 your rigor i'm not sharp once the toilet paper fucker upper always a toilet paper fucker upper

05:45:12.120 have you ever been in love oh yeah i loved her oh but if you fuck up the toilet paper

05:45:18.840 you're fucking ladies take notes that's so funny i love you but

05:45:24.200 uh hey hey be nice to my home girl number two is a stupid fat three hundred and four joyful

05:45:33.240 you know i have a question for you are you my caucasian huh huh are you my my caucasian i don't

05:45:43.960 know what you're talking about are you my caucasian i don't know what you're saying are you my caucasian

05:45:53.960 i'm not getting it just yes or no i'm not answering because i don't know what you're saying

05:45:59.400 are you my caucasian like watch like are you my caucasian well i i don't know what that means

05:46:07.720 it's like my brethren like it's my bro yeah oh yes are you my caucasian yeah okay fine yeah

05:46:13.160 you know how like do i have to explain it well you're latina so i don't know if i can ask you

05:46:18.840 i know exactly what he's saying oh i didn't know yeah i know now i know what you're saying are you

05:46:26.520 my caucasian no you're not my you're my caucasoid jim bob are you are you my caucasian

05:46:32.840 oh we got one for chair uh jason donated twenty dollars and sixty nine cents thank you just

05:46:45.320 hopped in hope you're well brian i just wanted to point out the asian cutie in the middle smile

05:46:51.640 hello this is so much cheaper than the tick tock dance competition aka strip club scene lmao

05:46:57.480 he likes you all right uh felicity admirer donated twenty dollars jb what you go back

05:47:11.320 in time to abort hitler if given a time machine today salute brain running show sick wink wink at

05:47:18.120 felicity q2 brain which is the first whatever episode for andrew and is he coming back yeah he's

05:47:24.920 no he's coming back he's just been busy with travel and stuff we're gonna have him probably

05:47:28.200 in like two weeks or something uh do you want to respond to oh yeah no i would i would uh take

05:47:32.600 care of baby hitler feed him rock him to bed play him some music um do all the things you should do

05:47:38.520 with the baby give him all the love he needs with his little mustache his little baby mustache all

05:47:43.480 right selena gone is donated twenty three dollars and four cents oh i already sent a dm and bought the

05:47:51.800 ring we're getting married this fall we'll work out the details later also where did all my simp

05:47:59.320 competition go they drop out of the race already i think you're winning selena jorge donated twenty

05:48:05.960 dollars thank you pasty i'm fn creed my people are peaceful and pacifist they were among the first

05:48:12.280 tribes responsible for initiating canada's first welfare food system for the early settlers during the winters

05:48:18.760 cunt wow i think that's i mean the pacifist thing isn't like necessarily an advantage that's probably

05:48:25.400 why you guys are dwindling

05:48:28.120 hmm interesting yeah it was a hard election minish cap king donated twenty dollars

05:48:34.680 not enough attention is being paid to chair four she is way too perfect to be here i live in phoenix

05:48:41.240 arizona let's go for hot pot sometime because she's not korean hot pot also you you have like a

05:48:51.480 boyfriend or yeah committed sorry she's not available sorry she's doing your laundry bro

05:48:59.240 and she won't do your laundry

05:49:01.880 mike jones donated twenty dollars chair two you don't look good chair three don't accept a sim wow you're

05:49:10.120 right okay you're right you gotta fight for it it's your opinion different strokes different folks

05:49:16.920 coastal operator donated twenty dollars toilet paper goes under so when you fold it assuming you're

05:49:23.560 right-handed the soft side is facing out wait yes there is a soft side go feel brian's tp if you

05:49:31.720 don't believe me is all toilet paper on the right side i didn't know that there was an off side

05:49:36.440 to be mine is on my left where it's printed like if you're right here

05:49:41.880 selena gone is donated twenty three dollars and four cents i don't think chair two looks bad but

05:49:48.360 sitting next to chair three isn't doing her any favors it's like a short guy standing next to a

05:49:54.600 really tall guy it's quite the discrepancy that's someone's that's someone's opinion though that

05:50:00.680 doesn't hurt my feelings you guys have two totally different body types no literally heights and like

05:50:05.640 the angle of the camera well not only that i mean the people that i'm more attracted to would pick

05:50:11.480 me any day over her it's a matter of wow she's not beautiful but like she's not what are you trying

05:50:17.560 to say you're saying black men i'm like me i'm saying like me i'm saying that everybody has a

05:50:24.600 preference she might be right yeah i mean everybody has a everybody has zero four donated twenty dollars

05:50:32.440 at lucas can confirm with costal always sunny is epic thank you ryan sorry you're sick get well

05:50:39.400 thank you at chair two oink oink what the fuck damn they're going to the roast sessions

05:50:47.640 six two they're picking on you to get a reaction and because it's a very agreeable panel i know for it

05:50:54.120 don't give a reaction have some fun you're perfectly fine and look great i know thank you

05:50:59.960 daddy so i i really don't care i mean they're acting like she's like lizzo like she is nowhere

05:51:09.080 and it's offensive for the women in this panel that weigh more than me one total 29.99

05:51:15.320 which one are those i'm not going to feed into what you want oh no it just seems kind of

05:51:20.040 sus a little bit that you're just you know you're you're calling out no i'm not i ain't calling

05:51:27.960 anybody can you point to the ones who you think no because i know you want me to do so bad i don't

05:51:36.040 care i don't care but just point you want me to do so bad but chill out bro chill uh okay i guess that's

05:51:44.040 that's a no all right thank you justin thank you 20 appreciate it from the sound of your voice brian

05:51:51.640 it seems as though you finally found your dream burrito you still need to chew though

05:51:58.600 is that poetic yeah do you lift me yeah i've done crossfit weightlifting i've been doing kickboxing

05:52:08.040 gonna double show us the double bicep oh okay that's right wait we can't see your

05:52:18.520 wait you you have armpit hair i get waxed so i have an appointment bro

05:52:25.400 here lift that show it show it on camera no shame oh my goodness wait pull that pull it down i thought

05:52:31.000 you were a liberal what it's because of my lesbian haircut i thought you were too

05:52:35.960 you do the bangs are giving daddy no 100 my mom before she passed she saw me get this haircut and

05:52:42.600 she's like oh my god here's my lesbian daughter and i'm like okay that's hilarious and then i wear

05:52:48.120 rainbow and people think i'm queer so wow good times good times can't even wear rainbow anymore no i

05:52:55.560 can't you know what we need to the rain a rainbow is is dope we need to take it back take that

05:53:02.600 shit back yeah i agree yeah we can't my son looks at a rainbow and people are like oh yeah like a

05:53:07.240 rainbow is this like beautiful thing it's god's promise it yeah it's beautiful well and actually

05:53:12.840 we gotta take that shit back very interesting too a technical rainbow has the color indigo in it

05:53:17.640 and the lgbtq flag doesn't and so we know it's just a distortion of something god created

05:53:23.640 wait it doesn't yeah oh my gosh i have a tattoo on my back with it though

05:53:28.360 tramp i knew it yeah technically it should have indigo okay wait did i read this one here we go

05:53:37.240 it's simp for chair three o'clock the romanian orthodox romanian orthodox entered the chat oh

05:53:42.200 never tried that type out all right we have uh here we have lay saying what each chair looks like

05:53:50.360 one cult survivor two discount slutty a devil survivor is really funny though that's three

05:53:57.160 raised as a toddle in tiara that's kind of funny five candace no ways okay six gina seven seven

05:54:07.880 tonight boring jim bob dressed like a flaming boring brian rage master bader okay thank you i

05:54:13.640 appreciate it thank you thank you i'll fight that guy why am i always a candace owens like i love

05:54:19.480 candace owens because you enunciate insult it's not she is literally i mean wonderful i love her

05:54:27.000 love her so much all right but she made the swear this is selena gone is donated 23 dollars and four

05:54:34.040 cents whoa whoa i said you don't look bad chair two chill there's just a bad seating arrangement

05:54:41.160 happening i know i didn't go off on you so what would they pick the city and arrangement to be

05:54:46.600 that's a good question i don't know do you shave your legs or no do you want to see them i got a

05:54:53.720 tattoo wait do you have you don't shave your legs no at all i don't i don't really want to i'll just

05:55:01.400 take your word for it i had to get one little patch saved for my tattoo that i got so i just have like

05:55:07.400 one hair when's the last time you shaved uh for my brother's wedding last september it takes too much

05:55:13.880 work so i will tell a guy how long have you wait a second what did you wear to the wedding i had to

05:55:20.280 wear a dress wait i know but like a dress is long why would you need to shave your legs for that uh

05:55:26.280 because it like came to my ankles and i oh did you do like opposite hair socks like where there's no

05:55:32.840 hair in it and like okay we're getting really personal so i used to wear capris for my first job

05:55:38.760 so i used to only shave like the lower section so it's really hairy right there and rest of it's

05:55:43.480 not hairy at all oh it's like the reverse because it grows in like thicker and okay so you don't need

05:55:51.240 a tattoo you just shave the image that you want into your hairy legs intel wild i can't i can't

05:55:58.760 intel wild if you want to send another one in i can't pull that one up uh let's see we have pasty

05:56:04.440 george here man this guy pasty george 20 my people were too friendly and hospitable which was our

05:56:11.640 downfall however the elders insisted that we have to help the settlers and that change would come no

05:56:17.560 matter what this this guy's making me want to finish the job right whoever gave that boring comment

05:56:25.560 that guy is like killing me it's like stop whining jason donated twenty dollars and 69 cents

05:56:32.840 i just want to know what you all think about what's going on with pokemon cards right now

05:56:38.600 i have no idea and thanks for the time in the discussing its smile hook me jason get me a charizard

05:56:45.240 give me a holographic charizard uh pasty george are you are you drunk right now pasty george pasty

05:56:52.760 george are you are you a little tipsy yeah because lily doesn't like alcohol so i don't drink at all

05:56:58.680 ever sweet i'm so lame and boring uh any final thoughts from any of the panelists on anything

05:57:07.560 speak now you got something what you got i know you're all doing the no i'm hot

05:57:14.040 you're hot hot as a bitch in here hot as a bitch in here

05:57:19.320 all this money coming and you think you could afford a van

05:57:21.400 yeah it's i'm i'm a starving college student i'm just making it they're looking rough for college

05:57:28.680 yeah i know it's it's tough you know wait can you guys just roast each other can we just do that for

05:57:34.040 a few minutes i think she did i meant like i'm operating at like 10 right now because i'm sick so

05:57:40.840 i still want to see it though i think if i was at 100 if i was at 100 i'd i'd go

05:57:46.280 uh bar for bar with her but isn't that i don't know okay bar for bar i guess i don't know that's

05:57:53.880 so right now you don't think you can handle it donated 20 dollars seating arrangement remove chair

05:58:00.120 two everyone else can stay the same thank you truth i think he likes you definitely yeah you know

05:58:06.680 when you're like little and boys pick on you yeah that's a good riley underscore forbes donated 20

05:58:12.760 dollars great panel chair three you mentioned the past engagement if you're comfortable sharing

05:58:19.800 what led to that chapter closing no i'm sorry i'm not not at liberty to share just out of respect for

05:58:26.280 him yeah that's fun uh we have b-boys forever chair six looks dangerous

05:58:33.720 i think she has a knife watch out i mean if we're going for stereotypes in puerto rican puerto

05:58:37.800 ricans usually are the ones that are told they have knives no i know but she's not puerto rican

05:58:45.560 no i know i'm saying she said she looks like she has a knife and i'm saying well it's a

05:58:49.960 wrong stereotype oh he got so you're saying if anyone had it at the table with you right like

05:58:54.440 stereotypically i would have been the one have you ever stabbed somebody

05:58:57.720 no she's like no no i didn't think you'd ask me that

05:59:06.120 oh uh let's see uh oh wait here we go

05:59:12.200 oh boy okay that's crazy rachel wilson donated 20 dollars here's 20 bucks can you buy pasty george a

05:59:18.920 small pot oh my god that's rachel oh boy uh how do you say your name again

05:59:27.320 oh roxy selena oh roxy donated 23 dollars and four cents brixen can't afford air conditioning

05:59:34.920 he spends all his money on burritos has this been left out all right thank you uh selena

05:59:40.200 the gornos it's true it is true uh oh going to roxy then your notes uh let's see one sec uh

05:59:52.680 you said you broke up with an ex-boyfriend it was in their sophomore year of high school

05:59:58.360 and he chased after you and cursed at you for two years until you graduated from high school so what

06:00:04.680 happened um um i um i know him uh when i was um 15 16 15 uh i can't remember uh and uh we are uh not in

06:00:27.080 the same class uh um um i don't know how to say um it say it in chinese like what you said he was

06:00:39.560 insulting you um oh me so horny me love you long time sorry sorry sorry sorry mary why did you play

06:00:59.640 that that was mary of course um so he was saying bad words to you um no not really treat uh he just

06:01:15.640 he cursed at you that's what you wrote you said yeah he cursed at you yeah

06:01:22.040 so what was he saying

06:01:23.240 shing shing shing new what is it shing new are you fighting um no uh hey just um

06:01:38.760 okay i knew that yeah because uh i saw he his boyfriend has a friend is a girl and uh what was that about

06:01:51.240 and uh and uh uh the girl broke up with her uh the boy broke up with her and then

06:02:01.320 just two weeks later the boy just um being a new relationship with a friend of the with a friend of

06:02:10.200 her the best friend of her

06:02:11.640 uh and then they they just made something bad to her and even those uh who didn't know her they were

06:02:27.400 talked to her like bad words and um saying what did they say what is that to you i don't know how to

06:02:38.760 say english but um it's not very bad but it's hurt me okay all right

06:02:49.720 reagan fan donated twenty dollars chair one deserves more recognition she has such a warm and

06:02:56.200 positive energy always smiling and always happy her attitude is uplifting and her natural beauty shines

06:03:03.800 through effortlessly wow there you go reagan fan all right we have pasty george pasty george donated

06:03:12.840 twenty dollars are you drinking though have you been drinking history shows that whenever an advanced

06:03:18.200 civilization comes into contact with one that is not as advanced the advanced one always wins

06:03:24.200 also caucasian diseases did the part two lol bro we won

06:03:35.160 good times intel wild i can't pull this one up man but if you send in a 10 because there's two we had

06:03:41.800 to skip over uh have me you can send it in for 10 that's the threshold for me to actually even be able to see it

06:03:48.600 i'll read something else for you but i can't pull this one up uh let's see we have

06:03:55.880 mistake theorist thought i could smell bacon it's hot uh thank you for that mistake appreciate it

06:04:00.920 hey cat thank you for the uh membership appreciate it thank you thank you uh guys if you want 20 tts

06:04:07.320 get them in we're gonna get this wrapped up here pretty soon uh once again any final thoughts from

06:04:11.720 any of the panelists before we get this wrapped up here shortly yeah i just had one thing i noticed that

06:04:17.080 when particularly chinese people move here or come here they change their names to something

06:04:22.920 more american to assimilate yes like is there your name roxy doesn't translate to roxy in in uh chinese

06:04:32.920 right i think it's because uh white people don't know how to pronounce i know yeah it makes sense

06:04:39.480 white people or well well americans americans well well hold on a second i was the reason i'm

06:04:45.880 pointing to this is you know there's this like this view that like um people look at resumes like

06:04:53.320 employers and they look at a name and there's this trend that says like if it's a black name they're like

06:04:59.640 like that but i just think it's interesting because the chinese who move here if they were to submit a

06:05:05.240 resume they have names like cindy and roxy and luann and it's clearly not their names but

06:05:11.560 it kind of makes sense it would maybe get them in the door and i'm wondering like uh when when

06:05:18.520 uh black people hold on to these names like that are maybe more difficult to say or just hard to um

06:05:26.280 to practice i don't even know what it would be it would be like some wild theme where you're like

06:05:31.800 i don't know how to i don't know how to pronounce it um why is it that the the chinese are totally fine

06:05:39.080 changing their names to assimilate to the culture to match like european culture but the blacks that

06:05:46.120 are already here don't attempt to uh change their names they make it more you know um individual to

06:05:55.320 them to their culture and they then they're like it's not fair that you're not uh you know choosing

06:06:00.760 us based on our names to me it makes sense it's like a practical approach you would want to

06:06:05.720 assimilate to the culture right but are you asking them i'm asking well no for these two it makes sense

06:06:13.160 it's more of like an open panel like you know isn't it reasonable to have a society that sort of

06:06:19.000 assimilates and and normalizes names for functionality i mean i think but the thing is is like

06:06:25.720 uh are you saying like names that sound black yeah if it's like i think they can be pronounced by

06:06:35.240 most people but yeah yeah i'm saying like is the judgment totally invalid though

06:06:41.000 to look at a name and be like i'm not dealing with that practically just practically

06:06:47.880 i think it is i think it's a valid thing to look at and go i'm just not gonna

06:06:52.440 oh no that's a hot take jimbabwe that's a hot take yeah because like my name is very puerto

06:06:56.760 rican taina rivera like it doesn't get any more puerto rican than that so it's like should i change

06:07:01.560 my name to sally johnson because i want to get literally i mean like i mean it depends how how

06:07:08.280 crazy the name is though that's what i'm saying is like there must be a threshold where it's just

06:07:13.080 like it's too much like where it's reasonable to go ah i'm not dealing with that but at a certain

06:07:18.200 point is it like the sticky part would be like are you also asking somebody to like give up like

06:07:23.880 to sacrifice their culture in small on other ways like because maybe that's where it's sticky like it

06:07:30.360 is it's a it's a touchy topic but if you move to a place is there any obligation to assimilate

06:07:37.320 and if you're in a place do you have any obligation to culturally but i don't think my name would

06:07:41.560 determine whether i assimilated with the cultural norms and practices and all those other things i don't

06:07:46.440 think my name would affect how well i pick up the culture wherever i am not not your ability to

06:07:51.320 pick it up it's like if they didn't change their names and they stayed here like someone looks at

06:07:56.760 the name and it's like you know they can't understand it at all like you know what i mean it's like

06:08:02.520 shouldn't they shouldn't they alter shouldn't they alter their name a little

06:08:08.040 no it's their name i don't think so i mean i maybe i'm donated one hundred dollars thank you

06:08:13.800 yo thank you cat clip it and ship it cat you are my caucasian thank you cat appreciate it thank you

06:08:22.520 thank you thank you for the big hundred dollar uh donation thank you we have uh j nico coming in

06:08:29.240 here in just a moment shniko zero four donated twenty dollars what's the price to mute pasty jaw oh

06:08:37.160 boy permanently yeah this guy's taking over the show man uh all right can you uh crack the door mary

06:08:47.240 sorry let me michigan christian donated twenty dollars i think i saw chair two with a walking

06:08:54.280 stick on the forest moon of endor in that exact unit art yub yub chair three is totally dateable

06:09:01.480 who is the better decision makers men or women should women vote oh i have a hot take about that

06:09:10.520 i don't think everybody should be given the ability to vote i think if you are active military or

06:09:16.040 veteran you own property not an apartment you're not renting you like actually own the land that the

06:09:22.680 house is on um that you are not on welfare or if you're married then you should be able to vote

06:09:30.920 you got to qualify for like maybe one or two of those so if that disqualifies college students

06:09:36.840 oh well if it disqualifies some women oh well if it disqualifies people on welfare oh well

06:09:42.840 you don't have skin in the game in the same way that you don't want hawk to it a vote oh gosh no

06:09:49.080 where did she go after the crypto crash oh she's hiding having a rough time pasty george donated 20

06:09:56.520 as jim bought the descendants of oligarchies one like george carlin said canada and america are one

06:10:03.480 big coast-to-coast shopping mall now did your family win no yeah people yeah but i wouldn't wake up dude

06:10:11.880 yeah but dude i wouldn't have won if i was sitting around doing smoke signals either

06:10:18.680 intel wild i can't read this one um you can send in the 10 and i'll read but you gotta make it a bit

06:10:27.560 more i'm sorry and i you know we got there's just certain considerations

06:10:32.200 all i've donated 20 dollars chair one deserves more respect she doesn't need to shave she's good

06:10:40.680 enough being how god created her also pasty joe i colonized your mom oh shit all right thank you

06:10:49.080 a laugh appreciate it intel bro this is number four intel i can't pull it up i don't know if he's trolling

06:10:59.320 me intel sorry i can't pull this one up be nice okay uh one shot to 17 donated 20

06:11:10.360 jb don pettett's arguing with pasty george about why smallpox was needed for not doing it i'm not

06:11:17.800 doing it sorry

06:11:19.240 george simmerman donated 20 just donated my entire 401k to shiloh hendrix oh crazy uh nice

06:11:32.440 george simmerman that's crazy uh any from from the panelists any other uh final things any of you want

06:11:40.520 to touch on

06:11:46.840 okay all right uh okay if anybody wants to get in any tts as you can but we're gonna start winding this

06:11:55.080 down here let me just double check a couple things uh was is there anything else we had to do that i'm

06:12:01.000 forgetting the body count the bear uh oh i'm curious for uh for the two women here from china uh just

06:12:12.600 curious what your parents do for work my parents are engineering too yeah they're both both of them

06:12:19.480 both of them are engineers what kind of engineering um for estate or something like house

06:12:30.120 uh like personal house not for country or something oh architect oh okay

06:12:38.520 company stuff company stuff both your parents yeah okay so they're like business people

06:12:46.520 um probably um almost um okay all right there it is uh here

06:12:56.360 christopher scott donated 20 dollars i'm with jim bob if i moved to another country x a spanish-speaking

06:13:04.040 country to assimilate i would change my name to christopher

06:13:09.080 wow thank you christopher for the tts all right uh let's see here if there's anything else we need to

06:13:15.160 uh touch on but i think we're pretty much all done really nothing else okay it's gonna be a

06:13:21.160 short show real quick not that i care or i don't know if anybody else wants to answer but the body

06:13:27.080 count question you you stopped that chair too uh i don't know if you want to go around oh i just found

06:13:32.200 that funny i'm like you really just stopped at her like gave it up thank you for catching i got you

06:13:36.040 that's what i'm here for appreciate it he's sick he doesn't have his wild oregano

06:13:39.800 no worries it's it's true body count regrettably two okay

06:13:51.160 because i have lost sorry i was just saying well i she said she's a virgin already

06:13:56.280 so a body count means how many people you've had sex with uh zero

06:14:02.360 zero zero i am not sharing at least one okay would you want to do a range or no respect i'm

06:14:12.360 all right what about what about you zero yeah okay i'm with her too your husband give us a range

06:14:20.360 give us a range at least one i like her all right what about you i'm not sharing that no i'm married

06:14:28.920 so now i'm not sharing that oh i'm sorry to bring it up then ladies my bad my bad

06:14:34.120 i was like what my bad um well so we're including the men and women do you want this

06:14:39.880 it's like no you want me to decipher like yeah break it down okay i'm like how many men how many

06:14:44.040 women you can't have sex with a woman next time next time um we'll talk about it but um no let's

06:14:51.160 talk about it now i'm like well you know our my version yes you can but um with women uh four women

06:14:59.160 and four men actually so eight in total jimbab what's your body count i'm not telling anybody

06:15:06.440 multiplied by a married man all right all right there you go uh we have a few more chats coming

06:15:13.080 through here let's see oh that's weird wait yeah that should be oh demon slayer donated twenty

06:15:25.960 dollars gtfo mexico had two genocides before whites even showed up olmex killed mayans

06:15:33.800 aztecs killed mayans stop the bs beaners what about the incas forgetting about them uh yeah there

06:15:43.880 it is anybody seen apocalypto good yes good movie you'll like it i don't own a tv actually

06:15:52.760 i watch you through my phone on youtube i don't like to be distracted i have three cats one dog

06:16:01.720 and i own my own landscape company so i stay really busy wait did she answer the body count

06:16:08.040 did you answer the body count what what did you say i said virgin no

06:16:14.840 did she she said five i said five all right uh okay this is for savannah

06:16:21.160 eric vigilant donated 19 and 99 cents savannah this one if for you because you asked i hope you like

06:16:30.920 it good morning pineapple looking very good very nice signed your husband of the brahmin cast india

06:16:38.040 number one sir india never what

06:16:41.560 liz thank you for the gifted five subs appreciate it

06:16:50.440 thank you lizzie thank you selena gone is donated 23 and four cents jb is sort of right on the name

06:16:57.960 thing if it makes life easier when assimilating you should do it if people are gonna see shenequa and

06:17:04.600 not hire her cause they think she's combative it's wrong thank you selena can i just add one more

06:17:12.440 20.69 cents middle asian cutie i hope you're still studying like your asian parents told you to

06:17:21.000 you seem like a kind person you deserve an equally kind man btw accent is cute smile we need more chinese

06:17:29.960 virgins okay thank you jason appreciate it uh go ahead oh i was gonna say it's a pretty accessible

06:17:39.400 argument to say people who move to a country should adopt and assimilate to the language itself

06:17:46.040 i guess it's cleaner to say their their names themselves are part of the language so like it's

06:17:52.280 kind of like a follow from that if you should learn the language then uh you're changing language

06:17:58.200 uh you're changing your language and how you speak in the place you are so your name would be

06:18:04.280 included in the language that's why so what would your name be if you went to china yes uh chimpop

06:18:10.920 chimpop what's what's that is there james in china what's james james james james so it's james

06:18:21.560 it's just with an just james yeah yeah my name stays the same privilege we have steve here thank

06:18:29.240 you for the australian 20 men those who offend easily a little brutal honesty is a good thing

06:18:33.960 a society unwilling to offend may be comfortable but it won't be excellent thank you steve appreciate

06:18:39.960 that well put richie ricardo i'm not one to bag on that what the fuck uh an addict but can the whale

06:18:47.160 stand up again what the hell bro the waves are great are great for my jet ski

06:18:54.680 chair two how much wood could a woodchuck chuck jim bob is the shit

06:19:03.160 okay richie thank you thank you for that super chat all right intel i will let this one come through

06:19:08.360 uh oh god okay intel wild donated 20 crazy bro chair number two is very unattractive obese not very

06:19:20.280 smart and a race trader oh actually i don't know why i let that one come through that was probably still

06:19:24.920 bad but okay i really honestly i'm not offended so donated 21 brian have the panel read this my

06:19:33.880 coochie's harry alpha kenny body i don't know that seems like a bait for a slur or something that's

06:19:43.080 terrible what

06:19:48.520 what it's like my coochie is something i didn't get to finish reading but just reading my coochie

06:19:52.440 was hilarious like what is wrong oh i see ball can donated twenty dollars traditional values but

06:20:02.120 like to do snow off my girl tartas and do the dirty after is that a deal breaker

06:20:10.280 uh probably like to show off my girl

06:20:15.560 uh richie i'm not going to pull this one up it's a bit racist so we're not going to pull that one up

06:20:20.920 richie uh racist toward who don't worry about it don't worry about not you

06:20:30.680 uh we're gonna do i'm gonna do get this twitch raid going uh

06:20:36.920 i think women should take the bullet to be honest i think

06:20:39.640 you know i want my five foot tall five foot four woman to just dive in front of the bullet

06:20:52.840 good luck

06:20:55.320 you're welcome i hope you find that if she did what would be her reward

06:21:01.400 what would be her yeah like how would you thank her for her bravery oh she's

06:21:06.120 find her replacement oh she's dead she doesn't need a thank you would you give her a proper

06:21:11.080 funeral no he's he's already looking actually i have a question for you brian brian yeah if

06:21:16.920 if there was a humanoid robot you know like westworld level yeah would you just end up

06:21:24.520 getting one of those in the end like like if you had the choice like if it was like all pragmatic

06:21:31.320 and utility if if there was a woman looking uh humanoid that was convincing enough to you

06:21:37.720 would you just take the robot over the actual person they can't have children yeah i know that's

06:21:48.360 why i'm asking you because you don't want children i didn't say that oh i thought you'd no really no

06:21:53.800 i want oh okay you do want kids i want kids uh i mean if it's just like a girlfriend they could adopt

06:22:00.520 okay i guess i didn't realize you actually do want kids yeah i thought it was like a either or

06:22:05.800 whatever they could adopt right i'd like kids but you don't want to get married okay if i don't have

06:22:11.880 kids it's not a big i'm not going to be too upset about it but okay let's say you don't have kids and

06:22:18.440 you reach a point so what's what's the the other options so it's like it's a real companion a person

06:22:24.600 a human a real woman or but she's just like a modern like 10 body count yeah yeah like oh here

06:22:32.200 here i'll make it stricter okay so it's a woman who's pretty much perfect but she just cannot seem

06:22:37.480 to put the toilet paper on correctly and then the other thing is a humanoid who's not a real person

06:22:43.000 and can do it can got that but she's perfect well she's not she's not a human no she doesn't have

06:22:49.400 big labia oh that that too maybe the robot does not the woman does right i'd probably take the human

06:22:57.720 then i'll take the human you said the human has the big labia yeah but she doesn't put the toilet

06:23:02.680 paper on the way you like it oh my god bro you guys are taking that too seriously uh yeah i'll take the

06:23:08.120 human but it's like bring me the robot bro just take a look at it and just check it out what man

06:23:17.800 is gonna be like you know well i guess this would make more sense if it was just a comparison between

06:23:22.440 two real humans like what man's like oh she listens she does everything that i ask of her and you know

06:23:32.120 i'm gonna go find some disagreeable woman who complains a lot give me the robot i'll take

06:23:40.360 the robot yeah but what if the complaining somehow even though you don't like it like adds value and

06:23:47.560 then you just don't know it adds how does complaining add value well i mean like like um challenging

06:23:55.480 i don't want to be challenged you don't want to be challenged do you want to be challenged do you

06:24:00.040 you want to quarrel some and nagging not quarrelsome i think challenging is different like one that

06:24:04.360 holds you accountable one that calls you out on your ish yeah like you know like go to i would what

06:24:09.800 ish i'm what if i guess you could make mistakes obviously what if someone perfect what if someone

06:24:16.200 what if the woman better encouraged you to like keep your health and the robot just just didn't do it

06:24:22.120 the robot could do that too no if it just didn't it couldn't do that uh little things like health like

06:24:28.680 your well-being your mental well-being um i don't know the little thing chat gpt is pretty good

06:24:35.800 that that that is so toxic what are you talking about it's just like porn it's just as toxic wait

06:24:41.800 what are you talking about chat what is it gpt yeah y'all californians are like all on this

06:24:48.680 shit i just found out about this do you even know what chat gpt no and i'm not gonna download it on my

06:24:54.040 phone it's so creepy my friend was showing me because i was in long beach and she's like have

06:24:58.840 a conversation with it and i was like i don't like this so don't you think it'd be your robot

06:25:04.360 wife or whatever you want to call it would be just as toxic as porn because it's basically feeding all

06:25:10.280 your nasty desires and giving you that easy reward instead of a woman like you said holding you

06:25:17.320 accountable i don't know if you were dating a guy and he asked you to shave your

06:25:21.720 leg hair and armpits would you do it i'd tell him do it for me you want it done do it my ex did

06:25:29.480 what if he's like no what what if he's like no i'm not gonna do that but i want you to shave your

06:25:36.280 armpits and leg hair i get waxed i don't own a razor i will never do that again would you wax so you'd

06:25:42.680 get waxed i do it just when i feel like it so what was your question it ends up being like do

06:25:49.800 you value a who or a what like an object like there's a who that comes with all these things

06:25:55.720 that you don't like but a bunch of things you do like but then there's a what who comes with all the

06:26:00.600 things you like but it's not a who it's a what it's just an object so do you value the object over the

06:26:06.440 who it depends in comparison to what so two watts i think a lot of women would pick a robot too no

06:26:16.520 is that true oh my god no no for what things do you think never women have a lot of complaints about

06:26:23.000 men y'all i love men i love men like don't get me wrong they seriously do all the nasty jobs i would

06:26:31.320 not do i see arborists i see firemen and those are like some masculine men and i'm just like

06:26:36.440 overheating like i am wait is there any woman is there any woman on the panel who if i said the

06:26:41.720 same thing uh would pick the rope a robot if it did everything no never you'd take the flawed man what

06:26:49.080 about you engineer i see you i see you contemplating would you take the robot it's man it's like a man but

06:26:57.480 it's not a man and it does everything you want and but maybe i have a robot to do my job or do the

06:27:09.240 cleaning laundry laundry do cook but i'm not gonna let her to let him to be my boyfriend oh yeah so

06:27:18.280 the robot's gonna do your man's laundry yeah yes right so it'll be a female robot

06:27:26.760 question for you jim bob yeah if you have a choice between uh and let's assume like children isn't

06:27:32.600 necessarily a component of this a woman with bpd or a robot which do you pick what is a bipolar

06:27:42.600 borderline personality or to be with like if if i was just like and i only it was like

06:27:48.040 uh a companion like like romantic companion yeah oh i'd take the the nut job you'd you take a nut

06:27:55.400 job totally yeah over like a perfect robot absolutely you can't cuddle with a robot a warm body at night

06:28:02.600 well it would be yeah yeah that's my favorite time of day when i'm jumping around with my man and just

06:28:07.400 cuddle watch tv be together yeah you could do that with a robot it's not a warm body that's comfortable

06:28:11.800 it's like a hard thing that's like we're assuming no he's saying it's like uh the west world yeah

06:28:19.000 it's like so it's like pretty if you didn't know it was a robot you would think it's that's what we're

06:28:24.120 talking about like that level well i feel like it's just soulless and like if you believe in a higher

06:28:30.680 power spiritual at all like that is not gonna fill your human need and you're just gonna basically like

06:28:38.440 i said earlier you're just gonna get everything met but it's not gonna give you that gratification

06:28:43.960 that you want and just like i don't know fill your soul

06:28:50.520 you could play the crickets it's fine

06:28:55.000 all right uh here i'm gonna let these come through oh whoops not sure what happened there we have lucas

06:29:02.120 lucas donated twenty dollars thank you lucas jim bob not with you on the name change

06:29:08.040 as per greek orthodox tradition i'm named after a greek orthodox saint and also my paternal grandfather

06:29:15.640 not changing that thank you oh that's below the threshold but something about my name my saint

06:29:22.760 names my the name of my my name though so it's like donated twenty dollars bricks and if they aim

06:29:29.160 for your head and the women is five feet four inches or four feet eleven inches you're gonna have

06:29:34.040 to make sure to pick her up so she can take the bullet

06:29:40.040 it's a good point thank you george donated twenty dollars thank you george

06:29:44.600 caucasian blaming and i understand that today's generation has nothing to do with the past

06:29:50.200 however we must never forget the past sins in order to avoid repeating them

06:29:55.160 cunt oh man how dare you demon slayer donated twenty dollars you're french you came here to

06:30:01.880 talk about our women what when france is a literal african slum i take offense b i like q but fix your

06:30:09.160 own hood i mean look i was born in france but i'm intel why i'm american first dollars please bring

06:30:16.120 back jim bob brian 100 emoji yeah thank you intel appreciate it man thank you thank you

06:30:21.720 uh wait oh there it is big sass energy donated twenty dollars all desired looks being equal robot also has

06:30:33.800 reproductive capabilities human who challenges you and has its own sentience or robot who will adapt to

06:30:40.920 you and your desires etc panel human anybody pick robot

06:30:51.320 just you i guess so i guess so yeah i wonder if uh but if it's like what would be a example of a bad

06:31:00.040 man bad man i don't know if we should go to the extent of he's abusive you know or something just

06:31:08.120 like perpetually annoying like forever your whole life because men don't really nag that's right and

06:31:13.880 quarrel i guess that i mean they could or like a cheater oh like a perpetual cheater yeah that

06:31:20.600 would be a good one yeah uh all right we have selena here selena gone is donated twenty three dollars

06:31:28.040 and four cents i love men unless they're short fat poor ugly weak or has standards you're taking the

06:31:36.920 robot rolling on the floor laughing emoji not true thank you kat thank you for the uh super

06:31:45.480 chat go to sleep george thank you kat speaking of while i understand that orthodox churches derived from

06:31:51.560 christianity i do not have any contempt for orthodox beliefs it's the main christianity i have contempt for

06:31:57.800 especially the vatican okay how much for the champagne tonight uh it's

06:32:07.000 it's normally a thousand do you want to pop one i'll give you five minutes to do it otherwise uh

06:32:11.080 we're gonna wrap it has to be through streamlab streamlabs.com slash whatever to send another

06:32:16.040 soup chat let me know if you're gonna do it though because we do have to get this wrapped up here pretty

06:32:20.360 soon uh thank you pasty for the message say v thank you for the super chat appreciate it all right uh

06:32:28.920 okay i don't know if i'm gonna wait wait did this one oh yeah i already did these ones

06:32:40.360 damn i shouldn't have told him five minutes uh

06:32:42.520 uh jim bob two minutes two minutes i'll give him two minutes

06:32:52.200 i'm dying i think i'm dying jim bob

06:32:57.480 if you're not going to die for someone else you'll just die for yourself

06:33:02.760 i'm dead who's taking over the podcast

06:33:05.480 andrew nobody nobody he'll be free for all

06:33:12.280 i'll uh who's

06:33:13.960 these two

06:33:16.280 which ones these two oh yeah kiki and yeah that'd be good i don't think uh okay

06:33:23.960 savey do you want to get one in yes or no let me know otherwise this is getting grabbed well i'll

06:33:29.320 just start saying my outro but i'll give you a bit all right so gg where is it oh my god sorry

06:33:36.680 guys gg well played to the panel last call hit the like button please on your way out you could

06:33:44.200 have been anywhere in the world but you're here with me i appreciate that thank you to everyone who

06:33:47.240 super chats donates and supports the show we will be live again uh sunday with another dating talk

06:33:53.560 5 p.m pacific any girls who want to be on the show you can dm at whatever

06:33:56.600 on instagram if you can make it to santa barbara let's get some oh sevens in the chat please oh

06:34:02.840 sevens in the chat we have uh this one here from b boys boys for eva donated 22

06:34:11.240 didn't you see that jessex went for the knife y'all in danger wtf wrong with you all

06:34:19.960 i don't have

06:34:21.160 have you you you don't have a knife i don't have how do you say knife in chinese oh yeah no how do

06:34:31.240 you say it

06:34:34.680 dow okay oh we have uh uh oh intel intel i can't read it bro

06:34:45.080 it can you read some of it it says chair two is a total blank that's all i'm gonna read

06:34:57.080 total babe yeah okay

06:35:01.480 i love it how people are keep trying to get my reaction

06:35:03.640 here i'm gonna do a twitch raid guys uh thank you guys for watching on twitch also a big thank you

06:35:15.960 to the panel you guys were really cool a little different uh show tonight probably good because

06:35:22.200 i was sick and operating at like 10 so thank you guys it was a good show who should i raid on twitch

06:35:29.160 uh we're gonna raid i'm gonna send you guys to grayson he's playing world of warcraft thank you

06:35:38.600 guys for watching over there on twitch gonna get this wrapped up here all right gonna send the raid

06:35:43.320 out in 10 seconds looks like he's playing is it season of discovery or no he's playing okay he's playing

06:35:52.680 world of warcraft classic thank you guys for watching on twitch gonna send you over raid now

06:35:58.760 all right that should be sent john thank you for the super chat john appreciate it all right we have

06:36:06.920 like the video um let's see what else do we have no i think oh no that's it okay

06:36:15.800 oh seven's in the chat good night guys i hope you guys have a good night oh seven's in the chat

06:36:21.320 we will see you guys on sunday good night

Whatever Podcast - May 05, 2025

She Called Him FAT？! If Men SHOULD Take A Bullet For Her, What SHOULD Women Do？! ｜ Dating Talk #241

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