Whatever Podcast - Brian DEBATES Perfect 10 Boss Babe On If Women Have Duties To Men？! ｜ Dating Talk #254

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00:05:13.520 Discord. Okay. Disclaimer, the views expressed by the guests do not necessarily reflect the

00:05:18.940 views of the whatever channel. Without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce

00:05:24.840 themselves. So please tell us your name, age, occupation, where you're from, and education.

00:05:29.340 Go ahead. Hi, my name is Ellie. I'm 18 years old. I'm from San Diego, and I'm a student.

00:05:35.980 Okay. Where are you studying at? High school. You're still in high school. I'm still in high

00:05:40.880 school. Okay. You're a super senior? Okay. Well, I was put into school late, so it's not totally

00:05:47.360 my fault. I still am pretty stupid, though. So you're going into your senior year? There's 0.99

00:05:53.340 a little bit of a correspondence, yes. I am going into my senior year. Okay. And, okay,

00:06:00.320 are you planning to go to college after? Yes, I am. Okay. And you were recently featured on

00:06:05.320 Fish Tank. That I was. Explain that to some of the viewers who don't know what that is.

00:06:09.820 Fish Tank, it's a 24-7 live streamed show where we do some challenges in order to win a grand

00:06:19.680 prize. And a lot like this, we get sent TTS. We get sent what are called fish toys, which

00:06:27.260 are kind of like your champagne poppers or whatever, where they can silence us by putting

00:06:32.720 a bag over our heads or, like, I don't know, stealing our beds or mattresses. Lots of fun

00:06:39.240 stuff. Maybe we should introduce something like that, too. If anybody sends in... Some punishments.

00:06:43.540 If anybody sends in a $200 TTS in the next five minutes, you get to select who... Who...

00:06:51.420 Wait. What? Oh, no.

00:06:54.020 Where... For a period of 10 minutes, where's a... You get the dunce hat, and it has a helicopter

00:06:59.920 on top, and it spins. So, you know, if anybody... You want to see Ellie, wear the dunce hat for

00:07:06.520 10 minutes. Oh, my God. Send in the TTS. Okay. Specify who you want, though. So, okay. And when

00:07:13.400 was that? When was Fish Tank? It was a couple weeks ago. It aired July 13th. July 13th.

00:07:20.020 No, June 13th. Yeah. Okay. And is there somebody who wins it, or how does that work? Well...

00:07:24.900 Is there a winner? Yes. There usually is a winner, but our season kind of got cut short.

00:07:30.100 I won't go into too much on why. Oh. Yeah. Is it, like, TOS, or...?

00:07:35.440 Kind of. Yeah. Okay. Vaguely. All right. We don't have to get into it, then. Okay. Cool.

00:07:44.100 Did you enjoy it, though? Was it a good experience? I had a blast. Yeah. Okay. Sounds fun.

00:07:48.560 Rock and roll. Rock and roll. All right. What about you? I'm Audrey. I'm 23. I do a bunch

00:07:55.320 of stuff for work, makeup, prosthetic stuff. Right now, I'm not in school, but planning to

00:07:59.780 be a mortician at one point in my life. T. Yeah. Sorry. 23, you said? 23. 23. Yes.

00:08:08.440 The right age. Planning to be a mortician? Yeah. I went to school for it, and I, like, really

00:08:11.960 wanted to do it. But then life happened, and I was taking care of my mom. So, I want to

00:08:17.140 do some type of education thing, and that is what I have always wanted to do. So, hopefully

00:08:22.140 at one point, I'll be doing your grandma's makeup. Do you know how to do all people?

00:08:24.980 I, not yet, but I will. Oh, okay. You're still figuring that out, I guess. Okay. Cool.

00:08:32.860 And so, are you in college or anything like that? Not right now, but mortician school coming

00:08:37.460 up. Okay. Gotcha. All right. What about you? Hi. I'm Mika. I'm 27. I came here from Vegas.

00:08:45.200 I'm a registered behavior technician. Okay. And I have my bachelor's in psychology from

00:08:51.940 NLV. I might get my master's this year. I don't know. Okay. Educated queen. Yes. We

00:08:57.840 love it. All right. And do you do content creation, too, or? Yeah. I used to, just for

00:09:05.020 fun. Just for fun. You know. It's art. What were you doing? What? What were you doing

00:09:10.540 for content? Mostly, like, fashion, makeup. Yeah. Just being silly. I mean, you also did what?

00:09:16.980 Yeah. We, let's not talk about it right now. It's still linked. You still have it linked

00:09:23.780 everywhere. Well, you know, just, yeah. I don't know. You don't know what? It's up there.

00:09:30.500 I take it down sometimes. I'm very, like, a wishy-washy person. So, you're not currently

00:09:35.640 actively doing it, is what you're saying? Sometimes. When's the last time you posted?

00:09:42.040 Um, I actually haven't posted. It's just, like, when people DM me. Well, you send

00:09:47.240 them, what, like, what is it called? Paper, paper views or whatever? Yeah. Okay. When's

00:09:51.520 the last time you did a paper view? Oh, no. Yeah. I haven't done a paper view in, like,

00:09:53.840 a year. Maybe. So, people message you and you talk to them for free? No. It depends.

00:10:03.260 Okay. Yeah. Should, you want to elaborate a little bit, or? I just don't know what I'm

00:10:08.680 doing. So, that's it. What do you mean? In life. In life? In general, yeah. I don't.

00:10:15.480 I'm like Barbie. I have 50 careers, and I'm trying to figure out what I'm trying to

00:10:19.820 focus on right now. So, yeah. Understood. Okay. Um, you, uh, I, I saw in one of them

00:10:27.380 that you described yourself as, hold on. Oh, gosh. Cool. Cool. You said it. You, hold

00:10:38.480 on one sec. Let me get it. God, he's searching. So, yeah. Okay. You have the bachelor's in

00:10:44.040 psychology. You were or are a behavioral therapist. Uh-huh. Uh, I saw on a TikTok of you being

00:10:52.080 walked on a leash in public? Yeah. Okay. I'd love that for you. It's like a music video.

00:10:58.000 It's art to me. Oh, okay. You described yourself as a pet girl. That, okay. Who loves, wait,

00:11:05.260 who loves head pats. Yeah. And there's something else, but I'm not going to say that. Um, so,

00:11:10.280 do you identify as a dog? Oh, my God. What? Like a, yes. You know how people, like, identify

00:11:15.460 as an animal or whatever? Okay. Yeah. So, um, sometimes, but that's, like, a mental illness.

00:11:24.060 It's, like, a dissociative identity disorder. Yeah. But, so, are you? A furry? Yeah. I guess.

00:11:34.180 I like, I like cat ears, but I don't have a suit. It's too expensive, and it's not my alley.

00:11:39.480 Yeah. I forgot my cat ears. So, you're, what is a, okay, but a pet girl is what? What's a pet

00:11:43.400 girl? You, you don't want to be, like, someone's pet taken care of, you know, fed. It's like

00:11:48.640 a sub-dom thing. Yeah. It's like a sub-dom thing. Right, but is it, like, are you role-playing

00:11:53.420 as an animal? No, not really, but, like, I have, like, this tip. But you were locked on

00:11:58.500 a leash. But that's not, I wasn't wearing cat ears or a tail or anything. And also, the

00:12:04.160 leash wasn't around the neck. It was, like, around your waist. How did you find that harness?

00:12:07.780 I think it was on your TikTok or something. The harness. Did I have, like, five? Yeah, it was

00:12:11.200 on your TikTok. All right, well, I hope it blows up. He does research before. Okay,

00:12:15.640 cool. All right, well, have you ever, like, walked on all fours on the leash? No, not that

00:12:23.440 much. It's just, like, a little bit, you know. Okay. All right. Don't kink shame. I wasn't

00:12:31.180 kink shaming. I'm not an animal. Good to know. What about you? Okay. My name

00:12:37.200 is Jillian. I am 23. I'm from Dallas. I'm a waitress, and I also go to school for psychology

00:12:43.280 at UNT, and I graduate next semester. You're getting your bachelor's in arts, bachelor's

00:12:49.080 in science. What are you getting? Bachelor's in science for psychology. All right, rock and

00:12:53.220 roll. What about you? Hi, my name is Luna. I'm 19. I'm from Los Angeles, and I am a second

00:12:59.620 year psychology student at UC Santa Barbara. All right, welcome. And what part of L.A. are

00:13:05.580 you from? Like Culver City. Culver City. Got it. Okay, cool. And this is, so you're going

00:13:11.360 into your second year or third year? Yes, my second year. Second year at UCSB. You said

00:13:15.740 studying psychology. Yes. Rock and roll. What about you? Hey, I'm Renez. I think I'm probably

00:13:22.960 the oldest one here. Prefer not to say my age. You look great. Wait, do you prefer not to say

00:13:30.620 your age because you think you're the oldest one here? Or even if there was somebody older

00:13:34.840 than you here, you would still prefer to not say your age? So I prefer not to say

00:13:40.660 my age only because I don't love giving dates if I don't have to. Well, we don't need like

00:13:49.000 you were born. Yeah. You know, October 15th in 1973. We don't need that. Just how old 0.65

00:13:58.280 you are? Older. Okay. Anyway, so I'm a spiritual wellness entrepreneur. So I was... If I'm older

00:14:11.560 than you? Do you think I'm older than you? How old are you? I don't know. I mean, we're

00:14:17.880 probably maybe close to age. I'm just curious, like if you go on a date with somebody, do you

00:14:21.740 not tell them your age? No. Yeah. I mean, obviously I disclose once I feel like I want to spend

00:14:31.120 time with this person. No, but like, are you on any dating apps, for example? No. Okay.

00:14:35.840 How do you typically meet people? Out and about. Okay. So if somebody came up to you and they

00:14:41.800 start chatting you up or whatever, and they're like, oh, how old are you? You'd be like, eh,

00:14:45.380 I'm not, don't know you well enough, not comfortable enough sharing that information. Oh yeah, totally.

00:14:52.020 You wouldn't tell them? No.

00:14:56.220 Do you want to give us a range? Like, were you alive during the... You look so good. So like,

00:15:00.280 no matter how old you are, it's going to be a range. Was Reagan president while you were alive?

00:15:05.400 Yes. Yes.

00:15:08.840 First term? First term or second term?

00:15:12.960 Wait, how many terms did Reagan do?

00:15:15.340 Oh my gosh.

00:15:18.000 Were you born in the 70s?

00:15:27.520 I grew up in the 80s.

00:15:30.280 All right.

00:15:32.480 You're in your 40s.

00:15:35.420 Are you in your 40s?

00:15:37.040 Are you in your 40s?

00:15:39.120 All right, there we go.

00:15:40.320 Whatever.

00:15:41.100 I'll accept it.

00:15:43.320 I'll accept it.

00:15:44.180 49.

00:15:44.860 All right, what about you?

00:15:46.520 Hi, my name is Pilar.

00:15:48.020 I am 21.

00:15:49.120 I am a MMA fighter from Arkansas, and I'm pursuing a bachelor's degree in health and wellness and

00:15:55.040 then minoring in exercise science at University of Arkansas in Little Rock.

00:15:59.460 Gotcha.

00:16:00.040 Sorry, I was still just wrapping my head around the previous unknown.

00:16:05.960 You said 21, right?

00:16:07.560 Yes.

00:16:07.920 Okay.

00:16:08.780 All right.

00:16:09.260 And you do MMA?

00:16:10.180 Mm-hmm.

00:16:10.860 Have you had any professional fights?

00:16:12.640 I'm an amateur right now.

00:16:13.680 Amateur?

00:16:14.160 Okay.

00:16:14.320 Yeah.

00:16:14.740 How many fights have you had?

00:16:16.060 I've had four, and I am undefeated.

00:16:18.420 Undefeated.

00:16:18.920 That's late.

00:16:19.500 That is everything.

00:16:21.500 Thank you.

00:16:22.020 And what's your, do you have like a specific martial art that you specialize in?

00:16:27.180 I'm pretty much all around.

00:16:29.060 My coach has really just coached me to be an all-around fighter because it's called mixed

00:16:34.320 martial arts.

00:16:35.660 So, I mean, I don't like when people are like, oh, you're just a striker.

00:16:39.760 You're just a ground girl. 0.97

00:16:41.660 No, I can do stand-up.

00:16:43.980 I can go to the ground.

00:16:45.360 Yeah.

00:16:45.660 Just whatever.

00:16:46.200 And you know how like a lot of fighters have a foundation and like either they came from

00:16:49.660 wrestling or they came from jiu-jitsu.

00:16:51.540 I actually didn't come from anything.

00:16:52.640 I came from just regular sports and I kind of just put myself into it.

00:16:57.300 Do you have a belt in jiu-jitsu?

00:16:58.900 Yes, I am a purple belt.

00:17:00.200 Purple belt.

00:17:00.360 I just got it like a month ago.

00:17:03.060 Sweet.

00:17:03.760 Yeah.

00:17:04.080 And you compete in jiu-jitsu also?

00:17:06.000 Uh-huh.

00:17:06.300 Sometimes.

00:17:07.260 Gotcha.

00:17:07.920 No gi, gi? 0.77

00:17:08.780 No gi and gi. 0.99

00:17:10.120 Okay.

00:17:10.680 Very cool.

00:17:11.340 Very cool.

00:17:12.520 All right.

00:17:13.120 Um, have you, uh, how do you typically, you know, defeat your opponents?

00:17:20.200 Is it decision, knockout, TKO, submission?

00:17:24.580 Well, on my debut, like my first ever fight, I got a knockout, which I was pretty proud of.

00:17:31.720 Okay.

00:17:31.940 And I've done some kickboxing matches, which went to decision.

00:17:35.300 All the judges scored for my corner.

00:17:37.340 And then my last fight, um, I got a submission.

00:17:42.380 I got a rear naked choke.

00:17:44.180 I don't know if y'all know what that is.

00:17:45.300 It's just like, you choke, you choke.

00:17:47.880 So I got that my last fight.

00:17:51.040 Nice.

00:17:51.820 Wow. 1.00

00:17:52.520 Good shit. 1.00

00:17:53.260 Okay. 1.00

00:17:53.760 Felicity, what about you?

00:17:54.620 My name is Felicity.

00:17:55.720 I'm 19 from Santa Barbara and I work for the whatever podcast.

00:18:00.900 All right.

00:18:01.620 School or anything or?

00:18:03.100 Uh, yeah, I'm studying business.

00:18:05.620 And what's your nickname?

00:18:08.920 Felicity?

00:18:09.800 Taylor Drift?

00:18:10.580 Yeah.

00:18:10.820 Taylor Drift.

00:18:11.520 All right.

00:18:11.800 All right.

00:18:13.260 Um, it's, it got reposted recently.

00:18:15.700 I saw it.

00:18:16.060 Yeah.

00:18:16.500 I've been getting a lot of followers from that.

00:18:18.980 All right.

00:18:19.580 Cool.

00:18:19.940 Well, welcome everybody.

00:18:20.880 We've got a good show in store.

00:18:22.120 We're going to go around the, actually, wait, we got to do, uh, the, the discord hookup.

00:18:25.820 All right, guys.

00:18:26.560 So it's discord.gg slash whatever.

00:18:28.280 We're going to gift, uh, you know, yep.

00:18:31.500 All right.

00:18:32.060 So let's see here.

00:18:33.120 Uh, you know what?

00:18:35.200 Uh, scroll up, scroll up.

00:18:38.680 Uh, marriage causes divorce. 1.00

00:18:41.480 Okay.

00:18:43.580 All right.

00:18:45.020 Oh, this is not too many people joined, so, uh.

00:18:48.020 Technically, I guess.

00:18:50.300 Uh, okay.

00:18:50.940 Give it to, um, hmm, hmm, interesting, interesting.

00:19:04.640 You know what?

00:19:05.360 We're going to give it to, scroll back up.

00:19:09.300 Marriage causes divorce.

00:19:10.580 Congratulations on your gifted role.

00:19:15.080 Nope.

00:19:15.700 Nope.

00:19:16.340 Add role.

00:19:16.940 Thank you.

00:19:17.420 Yep.

00:19:18.040 Uh, soldier.

00:19:19.200 Or, sorry, recruit.

00:19:20.080 Yeah.

00:19:21.160 All right.

00:19:21.800 Welcome to the discord, man.

00:19:22.720 Appreciate it.

00:19:23.260 Okay.

00:19:23.420 So going around the table once more, what's your current relationship status?

00:19:27.300 Are you single, talking stage, relationship, whatever?

00:19:30.120 If you're single, how long have you been single?

00:19:31.840 And what's the longest relationship you've ever been in?

00:19:34.080 Go ahead.

00:19:34.300 I am single, and I have never not been single.

00:19:38.640 Okay.

00:19:39.200 Oh.

00:19:40.040 Sorry, my brain just didn't register.

00:19:42.740 Uh, so you've never had the boyfriend?

00:19:44.920 Okay.

00:19:45.900 Have you ever had anything with a guy?

00:19:49.240 Um, I mean, I've had crushes, if that counts.

00:19:52.120 But, like, I mean, if you count, I don't like calling them talking stages if I've, like, texted.

00:19:59.860 But, like, I know I've never been on a date.

00:20:02.240 I've never held hands.

00:20:03.200 I'm pretty, like...

00:20:04.640 Kiss?

00:20:05.240 No.

00:20:05.520 That's so cute.

00:20:06.160 No kiss?

00:20:06.660 No kiss.

00:20:07.320 Wow, okay.

00:20:08.700 Cool.

00:20:10.920 Um, are you about me?

00:20:11.880 Oh, um, well, I guess just...

00:20:13.260 You're looking at me like it was my turn, so...

00:20:15.700 Um, are you looking for anything right now?

00:20:17.760 Just trying to finish up high school, I guess?

00:20:19.480 Um, I mean, my guardians would like me to focus staunchly on school, which is understandable.

00:20:26.100 Um, but I mean, love is in the air, right?

00:20:28.900 It's all around us.

00:20:30.420 I think I want to date for marriage, seriously.

00:20:35.340 Yes.

00:20:35.520 Okay.

00:20:35.740 And if that comes along the way, then so be it.

00:20:39.760 You mentioned guardians, so are you adopted?

00:20:42.000 No, my sister is my guardian.

00:20:44.880 Okay.

00:20:45.760 Yeah.

00:20:46.240 Um, but I heard guardians plural.

00:20:48.780 Do you have another guardian?

00:20:49.960 Well, I mean, her and her partner, but...

00:20:53.120 Okay.

00:20:53.920 Yeah.

00:20:54.200 What's the story there?

00:20:56.560 Well, my mom is a homeless meth addict, and I got removed from her when I was, like, 13.

00:21:03.380 Okay.

00:21:03.920 And my dad lives in Hawaii, working, so...

00:21:07.320 You've met him, though?

00:21:08.340 Of course, yes.

00:21:09.180 I'm not completely fatherless.

00:21:11.480 What, uh, was the home intact originally?

00:21:16.920 Like, were your parents married?

00:21:18.280 Yes, they were.

00:21:19.020 Okay.

00:21:19.280 Um, and they got divorced at what age?

00:21:25.420 They got divorced.

00:21:25.980 Sorry, Aya.

00:21:26.780 Yeah, it's all good.

00:21:27.480 It was a little bit vague.

00:21:29.020 Um, yeah, they were...

00:21:31.120 They had it pretty rough for a while, and then they split up when I was, like, eight, and my mom had custody of me, but then she did some silly stuff, and I wound up with my sister.

00:21:42.520 When you say silly stuff, you mean what?

00:21:44.380 I mean drug abuse. 0.94

00:21:46.160 Okay.

00:21:46.540 You said meth.

00:21:47.740 Yes.

00:21:48.200 Methamphetamine.

00:21:48.720 Methamphetamine.

00:21:48.980 Anything else?

00:21:50.120 Not that I know of.

00:21:51.040 Just the...

00:21:52.340 Had she been using even in your childhood, or was that, like, a new development?

00:21:57.420 It was, like, a resurfacing development.

00:21:59.640 She, like, had some run-ins, apparently, when she was, like, a teenager, but then...

00:22:04.360 So she had some problems when she was younger?

00:22:06.340 Yeah.

00:22:06.660 Then she sounds like she got sober, but then she fell back into addiction?

00:22:10.720 Mm-hmm.

00:22:11.360 Okay.

00:22:11.780 And your dad, was he a user, or no?

00:22:13.460 No, he was not.

00:22:14.180 Not a user.

00:22:14.820 Dad's a great guy.

00:22:15.660 They're both great people.

00:22:16.660 Okay, so they split up.

00:22:17.780 And you said you had one older sister?

00:22:20.180 Yes.

00:22:20.760 Okay.

00:22:21.000 Half-sister.

00:22:21.900 And any other siblings, or that's it?

00:22:23.800 That's it.

00:22:24.460 Okay.

00:22:25.320 So you live with your sister.

00:22:27.600 Yes.

00:22:27.880 How old is she? 0.98

00:22:28.840 32.

00:22:29.480 Oh, 32.

00:22:30.960 It's quite a gap.

00:22:32.360 15 and a half years.

00:22:33.840 How old were your parents when they had you?

00:22:36.960 When they had me?

00:22:37.880 Yeah.

00:22:38.000 My mom was 30. 0.99

00:22:38.960 I'm not sure how old my dad was.

00:22:42.220 Okay.

00:22:42.420 So your mom had your sister when she was, like, 18, then?

00:22:45.040 Yeah.

00:22:45.440 Okay.

00:22:46.800 Okay.

00:22:48.020 Teenage pregnancy.

00:22:49.460 Are you trying to follow in your mother's footsteps?

00:22:51.980 I'm probably not trying to, unless I want to end up in a box on the side of the road.

00:22:57.800 If that's my five-year plan, then maybe I'll follow in her footsteps, but it's not looking

00:23:01.500 like that right now.

00:23:02.980 Gotcha.

00:23:03.580 Okay.

00:23:03.880 So you have, you live with your sister and her partner.

00:23:08.540 Yes.

00:23:09.860 Husband.

00:23:10.480 Oh, okay.

00:23:11.860 Sorry. 0.60

00:23:12.360 Maybe it's like a lesbian relationship. 1.00

00:23:13.800 No.

00:23:14.260 I feel like sometimes when people say partner, they might mean-

00:23:16.100 God, no.

00:23:16.120 She's very trad.

00:23:17.020 Okay.

00:23:18.140 Very trad.

00:23:19.120 So, okay.

00:23:19.680 Never dated anybody.

00:23:21.180 Never had a first kiss.

00:23:22.200 Never held hands.

00:23:22.780 No.

00:23:23.760 You said you want to wait till marriage, or you're marriage-minded?

00:23:29.860 I mean, I haven't really put that much thought into it, just because it hasn't been, like,

00:23:33.200 put in front of me too much, but I'm feeling like I want to wait till marriage.

00:23:37.500 I think, like, that's a pretty valued thing to me, personally.

00:23:42.140 Are you Christian?

00:23:43.520 I'm vaguely religious, so, like, I'm afraid of eternal damnation, but-

00:23:49.280 So, which religion are you vaguely associated with?

00:23:53.640 Probably Christianity. 0.99

00:23:54.880 I mean, that's the Korean thing, so-

00:23:56.780 You're Korean?

00:23:57.380 Yeah.

00:23:57.680 Okay.

00:23:58.640 Full?

00:23:59.300 No, half.

00:24:00.080 Half.

00:24:00.520 Is your-

00:24:01.140 My mom's Korean.

00:24:02.640 Dad's-

00:24:03.360 Vietnamese.

00:24:04.720 Okay.

00:24:05.020 Gotcha.

00:24:05.940 What about you?

00:24:07.800 I'm single right now and not looking to be anything else.

00:24:12.920 At all.

00:24:13.420 Gotcha.

00:24:14.940 Can I just-

00:24:15.680 I forgot to do this before the show.

00:24:17.180 Can I have you just tilt your mic down just a tad?

00:24:20.040 So, you're single, not looking for anything.

00:24:22.440 No.

00:24:22.880 You recently got out of a relationship, though.

00:24:24.680 Is that right?

00:24:25.160 Yeah.

00:24:25.600 Still traumatized.

00:24:26.780 It was like a three and a half year relationship, something like that?

00:24:29.720 Yeah.

00:24:30.200 It was, like, the craziest whirlwind.

00:24:32.280 Love him.

00:24:33.000 Love you.

00:24:33.500 But, like, good guy.

00:24:35.580 Really good guy.

00:24:36.360 Just, like, so insecure.

00:24:37.800 So jealous.

00:24:38.540 Never let me do anything.

00:24:39.640 He was. 0.92

00:24:40.420 So insane. 0.81

00:24:41.480 Like, yeah.

00:24:42.420 Because I'm not jealous at all.

00:24:43.940 Like, at all.

00:24:44.780 I've never been jealous.

00:24:47.200 So, it just didn't mix.

00:24:48.860 Like, he wanted me to yell at him.

00:24:50.200 He wanted me to be like, why did that girl stare at you?

00:24:52.780 Like, I'm just not like that, you know?

00:24:54.300 And he was too much.

00:24:55.900 So, we didn't match.

00:24:58.500 You guys would go out into public together and he would hope that you would scold him

00:25:05.400 for looking for the other one?

00:25:06.300 Like, we would, like, yeah.

00:25:08.100 And I'm very talkative and a flirty person naturally.

00:25:10.540 Like, so I felt like I couldn't even be myself.

00:25:12.400 Like, if I was talking to other men.

00:25:13.960 And even women. 0.63

00:25:14.660 Because I like women. 1.00

00:25:15.360 And even women, he was, like, a girl would compliment my makeup and he's like, oh, you're 0.57

00:25:19.100 trying to do something with her.

00:25:19.700 I'm like, what the heck? 0.99

00:25:20.540 Like, they're not, everyone's gay, you know? 0.97

00:25:22.640 So, like, it was that level of, like, every single person he thought I was trying to flirt

00:25:27.180 with.

00:25:28.040 And you said it was a sexless relationship.

00:25:30.560 Okay.

00:25:31.120 Yes, it was.

00:25:31.880 That's what you wrote.

00:25:33.040 Yes, we talked about it.

00:25:34.020 I had talked about it last time.

00:25:35.660 Yeah, just new people, you know?

00:25:37.520 Yes.

00:25:37.800 Yes.

00:25:38.440 It wasn't workable, so we didn't.

00:25:41.240 I was in love with him.

00:25:42.320 What can I say?

00:25:43.520 I don't want to talk about it anymore because I felt bad.

00:25:45.680 He, it didn't work because it wasn't big enough to use, you know? 0.99

00:25:49.500 So, and I fell in love with him before I found out his penis. 1.00

00:25:52.700 The penis. 1.00

00:25:53.240 Yes, the penis. 1.00

00:25:54.340 Was. 0.99

00:25:54.620 But it's all, that doesn't.

00:25:55.600 Not the appropriate size.

00:25:56.620 Yes.

00:25:58.080 But I was like, and I like. 0.99

00:25:59.340 Are you sure it was the penis? 0.99

00:26:00.780 Yes, and he keeps saying it's because I'm fat. 0.99

00:26:03.160 It's not because I'm fat.

00:26:04.040 I didn't say that.

00:26:04.800 You said it.

00:26:05.820 You said it last time.

00:26:07.280 You literally, he went like this. 0.98

00:26:08.560 He said, do you have to go like this to have sex? 0.94

00:26:10.380 I did not. 0.98

00:26:11.160 Yeah, you did.

00:26:12.200 I didn't say that.

00:26:12.900 Yes, you did.

00:26:13.480 Oh, you didn't say it, but you fit.

00:26:14.920 Yes.

00:26:15.500 I was.

00:26:16.840 Motion.

00:26:17.120 Uh, uh, uh, uh.

00:26:18.280 Mm-hmm.

00:26:19.060 He did say that.

00:26:20.240 Rewatch the clip.

00:26:21.060 Fake news.

00:26:21.980 Not fake news.

00:26:22.640 Fake news.

00:26:23.080 Disavow.

00:26:23.360 It's okay, though. 1.00

00:26:24.520 Fat people have sex. 1.00

00:26:25.860 Here, um, using this, uh. 1.00

00:26:28.300 Oh, my God.

00:26:29.880 Brian.

00:26:30.600 Can you show us?

00:26:31.520 You need to stop.

00:26:32.780 Just.

00:26:33.520 If I do it, can we stop talking?

00:26:34.620 If I do this, we'll stop talking about it right after.

00:26:36.180 Yes, 100%.

00:26:37.500 Okay.

00:26:38.360 Yeah.

00:26:40.320 Like that.

00:26:40.880 Well, hold it so we can see the number.

00:26:43.600 Three.

00:26:44.180 Hold it.

00:26:45.060 Three.

00:26:45.740 Three.

00:26:46.400 Yes.

00:26:47.420 And an introvert.

00:26:48.380 We're not going to.

00:26:49.100 I don't want to go into detail, actually.

00:26:52.580 All right.

00:26:52.860 He's a great guy.

00:26:54.040 Amazing guy.

00:26:55.200 Best guy I've ever met.

00:26:56.360 You know, it's below average, but.

00:26:59.740 Yes.

00:26:59.940 Maybe there were.

00:27:01.360 No.

00:27:02.440 No.

00:27:02.880 You can't.

00:27:03.400 Even if you're skinny, what are you going to do with that?

00:27:05.360 Was he a skinny guy?

00:27:06.260 Was he skinny?

00:27:06.740 No.

00:27:06.980 It was.

00:27:07.440 That's what I'm saying.

00:27:08.140 Even if he had a schlong, it probably wouldn't have worked either way. 0.58

00:27:10.900 Like I said, two fatzos don't work together. 1.00

00:27:14.040 Yeah.

00:27:14.340 But no. 0.99

00:27:15.860 Like even if you're skinny, three inches is not going to be shit. 0.99

00:27:18.360 He was a bigger guy? 0.99

00:27:19.600 He was big.

00:27:20.000 He was big.

00:27:20.700 Yes.

00:27:21.140 Like he.

00:27:21.800 Yes.

00:27:22.560 He was big.

00:27:23.240 We were like.

00:27:23.920 I was.

00:27:24.280 He was bigger than me at the time.

00:27:25.680 He's probably like.

00:27:26.520 He was probably like.

00:27:28.040 I don't know.

00:27:28.380 He was big.

00:27:29.040 Yeah.

00:27:29.720 He was big. 1.00

00:27:30.860 Damn. 1.00

00:27:31.340 Yeah. 1.00

00:27:32.140 And I can. 0.98

00:27:32.720 You can't date a fat person when you're fat. 0.59

00:27:34.740 It just doesn't physically work. 0.84

00:27:36.320 Okay.

00:27:36.780 So.

00:27:37.340 So do you just date like skinny guys?

00:27:39.720 Skinny, buff, sexy men.

00:27:41.220 Yes.

00:27:41.420 That's my type.

00:27:41.800 And do you find.

00:27:43.020 Do they.

00:27:45.680 Do they.

00:27:47.640 What?

00:27:48.680 Have you ever encountered a feeder is what I'm trying to ask.

00:27:51.160 Yeah.

00:27:51.380 I told you about that last time.

00:27:53.180 Yes.

00:27:54.280 Yes.

00:27:54.740 The feeder.

00:27:55.200 What's your question about that?

00:27:56.740 Have I ever.

00:27:57.440 Yes.

00:27:57.780 I have.

00:27:58.340 So you just.

00:27:59.380 What would he do?

00:28:00.080 Just bring you food?

00:28:01.160 No.

00:28:01.500 I don't date.

00:28:02.260 Because that's the thing.

00:28:02.780 Like there's.

00:28:03.400 I'm just fat because I'm fat.

00:28:04.740 You know what I mean?

00:28:05.120 I'm not like one of those fat people, which I love.

00:28:06.940 Love you all.

00:28:07.460 But there's things called like feeders and feederism and stuff like that, which like men 1.00

00:28:11.420 are sexually attracted to making women fat. 0.98

00:28:13.740 Like there's even a thing called death feederism, which it's like they want them to die. 1.00

00:28:17.540 They want them to be so fat that they can't take care of themselves. 1.00

00:28:20.400 They can't wipe their ass. 1.00

00:28:21.420 Like they want to take care of them. 1.00

00:28:22.840 It's like a thing. 0.99

00:28:23.960 So if you're in that relationship, get the fuck out. 0.99

00:28:26.500 Okay. 1.00

00:28:26.880 Because that is crazy.

00:28:27.820 So I don't support that because I mean, I support everyone's fetishes, but when it comes

00:28:32.260 to like met, like that is just ridiculous to like want to make someone not be able to

00:28:35.780 move.

00:28:36.200 Like that's crazy. 1.00

00:28:37.200 You're a bad person. 0.99

00:28:37.840 I think I dated a feeder once. 0.99

00:28:39.260 Like she was trying to get me fat. 1.00

00:28:40.320 She was trying to get you fat? 1.00

00:28:40.880 Yeah.

00:28:41.480 That's actually blame like about 10, 15 pounds on her. 1.00

00:28:44.100 Well, that's my ex-boyfriend, the one, he wasn't a feeder, but I mean, he was like, 1.00

00:28:48.100 he wanted me to be bigger because he wanted no one to want me.

00:28:51.320 So like I did gain most of my weight in that relationship because he was fat.

00:28:54.220 It was like two alcoholics living together. 0.98

00:28:56.220 Don't date a fat person if you're fat. 0.99

00:28:58.280 Don't. 0.99

00:28:59.180 It's bad.

00:29:00.440 Yeah.

00:29:01.440 I'm just putting a warning out there for my fellow fats. 1.00

00:29:07.000 Yeah.

00:29:07.500 That's a bit of a situation when there's two fat people.

00:29:14.460 Yes.

00:29:15.920 And then all you do is like, you both are into that.

00:29:18.900 So then you do that, like you go out and buy food and then he would like bring me food

00:29:22.060 all the time.

00:29:22.540 And like, that was like our activity.

00:29:24.220 And I didn't think, cause I was so madly in love.

00:29:26.120 I'm like, Oh, who cares?

00:29:27.600 Like it's just, you don't kind of like realize like food is like, also it's your health.

00:29:30.720 Like, you know what I mean?

00:29:31.140 I wasn't even like putting two together.

00:29:32.300 I was like, Oh, who cares?

00:29:33.420 Like I'm in love.

00:29:34.060 This man loves me. 1.00

00:29:34.740 Like who cares if I'm fat as fuck? 1.00

00:29:36.020 Like it's a problem. 1.00

00:29:37.780 Like, you know what I mean?

00:29:38.280 Like you have to realize it's about your health too.

00:29:40.340 It's not just about like the way you look and if a man will date you, you know?

00:29:43.320 Do you think a lot of guys low key want, like they, they have a thing for, for rotund women? 0.92

00:29:54.320 You're allowed to say fat.

00:29:55.620 It's not offensive.

00:29:56.580 Um, and are you saying, do people have a type for that?

00:29:59.540 Absolutely. 0.74

00:30:00.320 You know how like some guys are down low, like they're gay. 0.79

00:30:03.840 It's not down.

00:30:04.620 Are there some guys who on the DL just have a thing for, for Rubenesque. 0.98

00:30:13.560 Fat people. 0.92

00:30:14.400 Yes. 0.97

00:30:14.500 Um, yes. 0.97

00:30:16.740 I just came back from the Vegas bashes, which is like, it's a literally a bash for fat people.

00:30:21.440 Like it's called a BBW bash and I, um, they use my photos to promote them and stuff.

00:30:25.880 So that's actually what I do for work too.

00:30:27.720 But, and it's like the men there are like 10 out of 10.

00:30:31.320 Like people don't understand fat girls can get whoever they want when they like in that 1.00

00:30:34.660 realm.

00:30:34.940 Like there's people who are famous in my DMS, rappers, whatever.

00:30:38.280 Like people don't understand.

00:30:39.580 It's like a huge thing.

00:30:40.940 They might be insecure about it, which is understood like because of the way the world is like people

00:30:45.720 hate fat people and that's just what it is.

00:30:47.540 But lots of people are proud. 0.98

00:30:48.960 Like we'll hold my hand in public.

00:30:49.980 Won't care.

00:30:50.860 You know, you said rappers, uh, you've got some rappers.

00:30:55.200 I don't drop names though, but my DMS are crazy.

00:30:57.980 Yes.

00:30:58.460 Are they prominent?

00:30:59.260 Any?

00:30:59.640 Yeah.

00:31:00.000 Prominent.

00:31:00.540 I have over, over.

00:31:03.440 Kendrick.

00:31:04.000 Not like Kendrick, but like 3 million followers and above.

00:31:07.300 Like.

00:31:07.460 Okay.

00:31:07.920 Pretty.

00:31:08.620 Top 40.

00:31:10.240 Yeah.

00:31:10.560 On the charts.

00:31:11.320 For sure.

00:31:12.080 One of them like is really popping right now.

00:31:14.000 Yeah.

00:31:14.580 I don't say names.

00:31:15.440 Young Gravy.

00:31:16.300 Yeah.

00:31:16.540 He was, had a little thing with the Chloe.

00:31:18.820 I know.

00:31:19.220 I saw that.

00:31:20.320 Yeah.

00:31:20.460 But Chloe and me are not on the same.

00:31:21.840 If he likes Chloe, he doesn't like me.

00:31:23.560 She's like.

00:31:24.060 Never say never.

00:31:24.740 Well, that's true.

00:31:25.660 Because there's a lot of people who are just like into women, you know?

00:31:28.360 Yeah.

00:31:28.900 So like.

00:31:29.400 Yeah.

00:31:29.600 There's people who like me and they just like me because I'm a good person and whatever.

00:31:33.300 But yeah. 0.85

00:31:34.860 You don't have to have a fat fetish to date a fat girl. 0.72

00:31:37.100 Like sometimes you just fall in love, you know? 0.93

00:31:39.420 And are you, are you trying to like lose weight?

00:31:42.540 So I, I was even bigger than that.

00:31:44.200 Like I gained a lot of weight in that relationship and I lost, I lost it.

00:31:47.600 I lost like 70 pounds.

00:31:49.160 Yeah.

00:31:49.300 I was bigger than this.

00:31:50.000 And then I have maintained it because I'm going to do a TV show for a weight loss.

00:31:55.080 So they kind of want me to stay fat, which so I'm just like maintaining, but like exercising

00:31:59.020 a lot so I can still do stuff.

00:32:00.560 But yeah, I'm like very mobile and all that stuff.

00:32:04.440 I'm just fat, you know?

00:32:05.420 Got it. 1.00

00:32:05.960 I do shit all the time. 1.00

00:32:07.220 Sweet. 1.00

00:32:07.840 What about you?

00:32:09.680 I'm in a relationship and the longest I've dated is four years.

00:32:14.580 Okay.

00:32:15.600 How long have you been in the current relationship?

00:32:17.760 Three.

00:32:19.120 Three years?

00:32:19.800 Sorry.

00:32:19.980 Three years?

00:32:20.240 Yeah.

00:32:20.440 Okay.

00:32:23.320 When we had reached, been talking for a year or two, finally got you on, you were in a

00:32:29.240 relationship when you were initially reached out.

00:32:31.100 I'm assuming it's the same one, the same guy.

00:32:32.980 Yeah.

00:32:33.480 Okay.

00:32:34.040 The four-year relationship who broke up with who?

00:32:37.260 Before my relationship?

00:32:38.640 The four-year.

00:32:40.060 You said you had a four-year.

00:32:41.620 Who broke up with you?

00:32:42.300 I guess I moved, I mean, I broke up because I had to move to Vegas and we just didn't work

00:32:47.740 out.

00:32:48.240 Okay.

00:32:49.000 Rock and roll.

00:32:49.580 Hold on.

00:32:50.080 We have a chat coming through here from Jacob.

00:32:51.820 Thank you, man.

00:32:52.220 Jacob Joseph donated $199.

00:32:55.780 Appreciate it, man.

00:32:56.320 To Brian and the entire panel, would you rather fight a naked man or fight a man naked?

00:33:01.880 And would you rather fight a naked woman or fight a woman naked? 1.00

00:33:05.600 Oh, I get it. 0.96

00:33:06.980 Okay.

00:33:07.320 I get it. 0.89

00:33:07.620 And would you rather fight a naked woman or fight a woman naked? 1.00

00:33:12.100 That's such a stupid question. 1.00

00:33:12.120 Ugh. 1.00

00:33:12.880 I would want them to be clothed.

00:33:16.460 And you naked?

00:33:17.820 Yeah, because we got a jujitsu girl over here. 1.00

00:33:20.440 You know, if they got a collar on, like you can do, you know, you can start pulling on 1.00

00:33:25.060 the collar a little bit, do some fucking judo shit, some fuck, you know, there's some chokes 1.00

00:33:29.660 you can do with certain, you know, so she knows, she knows what I'm talking about. 1.00

00:33:32.760 So you're naked.

00:33:33.600 There's better pants.

00:33:34.020 It's easier, easier, you know, when you ever seen guys either posturing a fight or they

00:33:39.160 do end up fighting and they take their shirt off, they do it for a reason because the shirt 0.98

00:33:43.100 can be grabbed on to either create leverage or you can pull that shit over them in some 0.98

00:33:47.700 way. 0.99

00:33:48.020 So yeah, it's better to be the naked person.

00:33:50.920 Maybe I should let you guys answer that before, but so going around the table really quick,

00:33:55.820 would you rather, you guys answer the woman one.

00:34:01.440 So would you rather fight a naked woman or fight a woman naked? 0.99

00:34:05.380 In both scenarios, I think I would want the other person to be naked just because I'd

00:34:10.060 be so embarrassed.

00:34:11.300 I think if I was naked, I'd be more worried about being naked than fighting.

00:34:15.060 Right.

00:34:15.360 And also I'd just accept my fate.

00:34:17.160 I'd like curl up.

00:34:17.660 That's a good point.

00:34:18.560 Protect the neck.

00:34:19.420 I'm assuming this is happening in a vacuum where there's nobody else around.

00:34:24.780 No, I'm imagining this is on the street.

00:34:26.480 Like on the street.

00:34:27.220 Yeah. 1.00

00:34:27.760 Okay, now I'm rethinking my shit. 0.99

00:34:28.920 And it could be judo girl that knows no gi. 1.00

00:34:31.700 So now the lapels don't even matter.

00:34:33.580 Right.

00:34:34.040 Like it's all come in late.

00:34:35.900 What do you pick?

00:34:38.460 I don't know.

00:34:39.300 I would rather be clothed than like.

00:34:41.220 Clothed?

00:34:41.420 Yeah, I want to be clothed.

00:34:42.560 Clothed?

00:34:42.920 I'd rather be naked. 0.92

00:34:43.920 You want to be naked? 0.94

00:34:44.580 Yeah, I'd be freeing. 0.65

00:34:45.840 Like animalistic.

00:34:46.720 There you go.

00:34:47.180 Let it out.

00:34:48.420 I think I'd rather be clothed.

00:34:50.060 Rather be clothed?

00:34:50.860 What about you?

00:34:51.560 I think I'd rather be naked.

00:34:53.180 I think it's the safest.

00:34:55.320 Into the mic?

00:34:56.160 Sorry.

00:34:56.960 Safest is to be naked.

00:34:58.580 Okay.

00:34:59.500 Clothed.

00:35:00.020 Sweet.

00:35:00.380 Thank you, Jacob, for that riveting question.

00:35:04.220 Okay.

00:35:05.020 We were, I think we've finished up with you.

00:35:07.880 What about you?

00:35:08.740 Relationships?

00:35:09.180 I am in a relationship.

00:35:10.660 Okay.

00:35:10.860 How long?

00:35:11.140 It's pretty new.

00:35:11.820 Like two months.

00:35:12.780 Two months.

00:35:13.180 Okay.

00:35:13.380 And my longest relationship was like three, four years.

00:35:16.720 Okay.

00:35:17.040 When did that end?

00:35:17.780 Um, like, like November, October, November of last year.

00:35:27.580 Okay.

00:35:28.780 How long have you known your current boyfriend?

00:35:31.320 Uh, since like March.

00:35:34.900 How did you guys meet?

00:35:35.880 We worked together.

00:35:37.680 Uh, where?

00:35:38.580 We are both servers.

00:35:40.020 Okay.

00:35:40.660 Gotcha.

00:35:41.040 We're waiters.

00:35:41.380 Yeah.

00:35:41.520 All right.

00:35:42.120 Cool.

00:35:42.940 What about you?

00:35:43.840 Um, I'm currently single.

00:35:46.840 Yeah.

00:35:47.280 All right.

00:35:47.700 How long have you been single for?

00:35:49.580 Uh, probably since senior year.

00:35:53.620 So, uh, a year?

00:35:58.160 Wait, hold on.

00:35:58.940 Like two years, technically.

00:36:03.020 So you have had a relationship though?

00:36:05.140 Yes.

00:36:05.480 Okay.

00:36:05.880 How long did that last?

00:36:07.520 Uh, probably like six months.

00:36:10.620 Six months.

00:36:11.120 So that was in high school?

00:36:12.140 Yeah.

00:36:12.620 Okay.

00:36:13.220 Been single two years.

00:36:15.780 Did you go to like prom together or?

00:36:19.120 No.

00:36:19.700 So he was actually a year younger than me.

00:36:22.740 Okay.

00:36:23.280 And, um, I actually didn't end up going to my prom.

00:36:28.300 I went to another school's prom.

00:36:31.220 As, as a date for somebody else or?

00:36:33.400 I went as friends with someone.

00:36:35.500 Oh, you went, you went with friends.

00:36:36.360 Okay.

00:36:36.880 Yeah.

00:36:38.000 Was it, you went as friends with, with a guy or just like a group of girls?

00:36:41.800 With a guy.

00:36:43.860 Oh.

00:36:45.780 Did he think it was as friends?

00:36:47.940 No.

00:36:48.580 He knew the, um, he knew the guy that I was going with.

00:36:51.800 They played volleyball against each other.

00:36:53.980 Ooh.

00:36:55.600 Wait.

00:36:56.000 And it was our rival school.

00:36:58.780 Wait, this was when you were dating your high school boyfriend?

00:37:01.620 Yeah.

00:37:02.120 Wait, you went to, while you were dating a guy, you went to prom with another guy.

00:37:05.700 With another guy.

00:37:07.060 Oh my God.

00:37:08.100 I promise you it's not that bad.

00:37:10.160 I've known the other guy since I was like seven.

00:37:14.020 The guy you went to prom with?

00:37:15.140 Yes.

00:37:15.680 Okay.

00:37:16.040 You guys are friends, basically.

00:37:17.360 Yeah.

00:37:17.680 We're like really close friends.

00:37:20.140 Is he secretly crushing on you though?

00:37:23.140 Or was he?

00:37:24.320 I would hope not.

00:37:26.380 Um, his behavior at prom didn't really seem like it, so.

00:37:30.640 Okay.

00:37:31.120 So just friendly.

00:37:32.340 Yeah.

00:37:33.240 Okay.

00:37:34.380 Uh, in any case, you've been, uh, single for two years.

00:37:38.400 Who broke up with who in the six month relationship?

00:37:40.940 Um, I think it was more mutual because I was moving away and he would still be in high school.

00:37:47.740 And I feel like.

00:37:48.780 Go ahead.

00:37:49.080 Sorry.

00:37:49.820 I feel like coming into college in a relationship can be a little difficult because I feel like

00:37:56.400 in your freshman year, it's best to kind of branch out and meet new people.

00:38:01.380 And some boyfriends can find that like difficult because if you're meeting like other people

00:38:09.000 that are guys, it's a little awkward.

00:38:11.120 Um, so you guys broke up at the end of your senior year?

00:38:16.440 Yes.

00:38:17.160 Okay.

00:38:17.620 Because you were going off to college.

00:38:20.240 Um, are you in a sorority?

00:38:21.840 I am not.

00:38:22.780 Not in a sorority.

00:38:23.620 Okay.

00:38:24.260 Are you planning to join a sorority?

00:38:26.080 Um, I might rush.

00:38:28.020 I actually have a bet going on with my friend.

00:38:30.920 Um, because I told him about the idea of rushing and he's in a frat.

00:38:34.340 So he thought it would be good for me, but I honestly, like no hate if anyone's in a 0.81

00:38:40.280 sorority, but I find them kind of useless. 0.99

00:38:43.560 Maybe fraternities are one thing, but sororities, I feel like you can still get into any party.

00:38:49.000 You can meet all new people.

00:38:51.320 Um, but it's kind of different if you're in a frat cause it's like, you can't get into

00:38:55.260 other parties and the networking is better.

00:38:57.360 Got it.

00:38:58.220 Okay.

00:38:59.200 And so you had, you just had finished up your, uh, freshman year at UCSB and number one party

00:39:06.480 school in the United States.

00:39:08.300 Uh, did you see any guys during this time, you know, go on dates or any casual, anything

00:39:14.220 like that?

00:39:14.680 I had a few little, like almost dating situations.

00:39:20.680 Okay.

00:39:21.600 Um, I came in here and I didn't really know anyone that was going here cause no one

00:39:27.340 one from my high school went to SB.

00:39:30.580 Um, but there's this one guy, he's, he was a third year, which probably would have been

00:39:37.200 my first red flag, honestly.

00:39:39.460 Why is that?

00:39:41.260 A third year hitting on a freshman is a little, I find that a little alarming, but I feel like

00:39:48.660 once you're in college, the age gap doesn't necessarily matter as much, but he was really

00:39:54.160 gray.

00:39:54.620 We went on a lot of dates, but he kind of expected me to like be a stay at home mom and

00:40:03.620 to cook and clean for him.

00:40:05.400 And when I brought up the fact that I wanted to work and I wanted to like make my own money

00:40:09.860 and be independent to myself, he kind of shot that idea down and he was like, no, like I'll

00:40:17.220 take care of you, which is great, but it just wasn't my thing.

00:40:21.820 And he is also in a fraternity.

00:40:26.420 Um, so he was actually getting with other girls while we were dating who are also freshmen.

00:40:33.960 And yeah.

00:40:36.780 Okay.

00:40:37.660 Um, so you said that he wanted you to like, you guys weren't living together though.

00:40:47.760 No, but I would spend some nights like at his house.

00:40:52.020 Did you live at the frat house?

00:40:53.480 Yes.

00:40:54.200 Which is a horrible place.

00:40:55.800 If you guys are anywhere near frat man, never stay there. 0.99

00:41:00.980 I promise you it is disgusting.

00:41:04.080 Literally one of the worst housing situations I've ever been in.

00:41:07.620 How many, cause oftentimes they just pack people into the rooms.

00:41:11.080 Did he have a bunch of roommates?

00:41:12.780 Uh, he only had one and he would go home every weekend to see his girlfriend.

00:41:17.320 So.

00:41:17.600 Okay.

00:41:18.080 Gotcha.

00:41:18.380 But so it sounded like he wanted like a kind of a traditional dynamic with you.

00:41:26.100 So what were some of the things again that he wanted?

00:41:28.660 Can you repeat those?

00:41:29.540 He expected me to just be there for him to cook and clean and to just support him and whatever.

00:41:37.200 But I grew up really independent and I always wanted to like make my own money and like have

00:41:43.920 my own life, but he really wanted me to just literally be attached to his hip and be with

00:41:49.640 him everywhere.

00:41:51.400 Oh, so he wanted to hang out all the time.

00:41:54.460 Yeah.

00:41:54.920 And so was there an expectation that like you clean his room and stuff?

00:42:00.280 I mean.

00:42:00.700 Oh, yes.

00:42:01.780 Um, so you cleaned his frat room.

00:42:05.200 I, oh, I have actually cleaned his room a few times cause he would be like, oh, the boys

00:42:12.080 are playing like die right now or like tails.

00:42:14.700 Like I gotta go.

00:42:16.040 Like it's brotherhood event.

00:42:17.600 And I was like, okay, cool.

00:42:18.820 Like I'm going to go home.

00:42:20.600 And he was like, he was like, oh yeah, but like really quick.

00:42:22.780 Can you just like pick up?

00:42:23.820 Like the boys might come in here.

00:42:25.720 Cause his room was necessarily what we would call the chum room, which is just the room

00:42:30.460 where all the frat brothers would be in and they just talk and they like hang out in

00:42:34.540 there.

00:42:34.800 Um, I don't know why I did it.

00:42:38.460 I probably shouldn't have, but yeah, it was a really interesting decision made by me.

00:42:46.440 How many times would you, do you think you cleaned his room?

00:42:49.620 Probably like three or four times.

00:42:51.700 Okay.

00:42:52.100 And you, would you cook for him?

00:42:54.100 No, I would never step foot in there.

00:42:56.980 In the frat kitchen.

00:42:58.120 In the frat kitchen.

00:42:59.240 It's like dirty pans, dishes all over the sink, rotting food.

00:43:03.020 It was nice.

00:43:04.500 Yeah.

00:43:04.980 Okay.

00:43:05.880 Uh, but I mean, you both are pretty young.

00:43:09.300 You said he was talking about wanting you to stay home and have kids, but I assume that

00:43:13.260 would be down the road, right?

00:43:15.320 Yes.

00:43:15.760 But since he was older, he wanted to kind of like, like kind of fit by whatever I'm on.

00:43:24.680 So he was like, Oh, I'll move to LA, get a job there.

00:43:27.340 Like, so when you come home, like we can be together and like stay in touch and whatever.

00:43:33.960 Cause he's from San Diego.

00:43:35.540 Okay.

00:43:36.180 Gotcha.

00:43:36.940 And what were the other, I guess, traditional things that he wanted?

00:43:41.140 Um, he was super big on social media.

00:43:45.820 So he kind of expected me to like post him and like kind of make it known that I'm with

00:43:51.800 him, um, which was fine.

00:43:54.040 And he would ask me like, if I went anywhere that wasn't my class, he'd be like, where are

00:43:58.800 you?

00:43:59.060 Who are you with?

00:44:00.800 Um, just kind of like, what are you doing?

00:44:03.080 And I have a lot of guy friends, which might be a huge issue, but I thought it went both

00:44:11.860 ways.

00:44:12.300 I respected him because since he's in a frat, he has a lot of sorority friends.

00:44:16.960 So I was like, yeah, like you can have your girlfriends and I can have my guy friends.

00:44:21.680 I was more than happy to introduce them to each other.

00:44:26.200 They actually got along pretty well.

00:44:29.140 Like, even though we don't really talk anymore, like he still hangs out.

00:44:33.080 With them a lot.

00:44:34.020 So.

00:44:35.320 Okay.

00:44:36.100 And how long were you seeing him again?

00:44:38.600 Um, it really wasn't.

00:44:40.040 Okay.

00:44:40.300 So we went out for three months and then we stopped talking and we started talking again

00:44:45.900 for another two months and then I ended it.

00:44:50.960 And then that was it.

00:44:51.860 And that was it.

00:44:53.600 Okay.

00:44:54.100 And you said he cheated on you.

00:44:56.560 Yes.

00:44:57.000 Which I found out after we broke up because a lot of the girls, a lot of his sorority friends

00:45:02.380 actually told me.

00:45:04.060 And they'll be like, oh wait, I don't want to name drop.

00:45:06.460 But yeah.

00:45:06.820 Yeah.

00:45:06.900 They don't have to say that.

00:45:07.540 Oh, like I saw that like you and him were always together.

00:45:10.700 Like were you guys ever a thing?

00:45:11.740 And I was like, yeah.

00:45:12.480 And then they'll be like, oh yeah, like blah, blah, blah got with him too.

00:45:16.140 And then it was just kind of a long list.

00:45:19.360 And it was really funny because it would be the nights that I was either back home or nights

00:45:26.280 where I didn't swing by his frat.

00:45:29.160 And it was really interesting because they would have like a family party, which is like

00:45:35.600 your sister sorority and the brother fraternity could get together and they would have their

00:45:40.820 own thing before opening it up to everyone else.

00:45:43.800 So it'd be those nights that he had cheated on me.

00:45:47.700 I mean, were you guys official boyfriend, girlfriend?

00:45:52.000 We, well, I was aware that we were exclusive, but apparently not.

00:45:58.760 But did you call him like, were you boyfriend, girlfriend or?

00:46:02.160 Um, we never really put labels on anything, but it was borderline boyfriend, girlfriend.

00:46:09.660 Like we went out and we would be seen together.

00:46:12.940 Did, did either of you say you love each other?

00:46:16.320 Yes.

00:46:17.020 Okay.

00:46:17.200 You both said that to each other.

00:46:18.500 Yeah.

00:46:18.940 And you said that there was an understanding that you guys were exclusive.

00:46:22.220 So there was, was there an actual conversation?

00:46:25.700 Like essentially saying we're exclusive?

00:46:29.380 Yeah.

00:46:29.720 So we had that conversation.

00:46:32.160 We both really wanted to date and it was good.

00:46:35.580 And then that's when all like, after that, the whole traditional thing started and that's

00:46:41.160 when he got like really serious and try to like lock me down kind of.

00:46:45.880 Okay.

00:46:46.900 Yeah.

00:46:48.120 Would he ever get upset?

00:46:49.380 Like, cause I mean, a lot of people, especially freshman year, they like to go out party on

00:46:53.200 the weekends, Thursday, Friday, Saturday.

00:46:55.140 Yeah.

00:46:55.640 Would he ever be upset or jealous when you went out?

00:46:58.900 Like, yeah.

00:46:59.920 So since we, I lived in the dorms my first year, obviously, and he lived in a fraternity

00:47:05.300 house, I would obviously be going home with like my friends and majority of my friends

00:47:10.680 are guys and he kind of would take it the wrong way, but we all lived in the same dorm and

00:47:16.200 they've been over at his, he's been over at mine while they're there.

00:47:20.340 Like I thought it was like a mutual, like, I'm not interested in Luna, like kind of vibe,

00:47:28.240 but other times you'd be like, Oh, who are you with?

00:47:32.020 And I would be like, Oh, I'm with like my friends, like my guy friends.

00:47:35.160 And he'd be like, no, you're not like, I know you're not.

00:47:37.200 And yeah.

00:47:39.460 Okay.

00:47:41.320 And then you said the way you grew up, it was like, I'm trying to recall exactly what

00:47:47.840 you said, because he, I think what you're trying to get at was he wanted this traditional

00:47:52.440 dynamic, but you weren't really raised that way.

00:47:55.760 Is that fair to say?

00:47:57.340 I grew up really independent, so I'm adopted from Taiwan and my adoptive parents have a

00:48:07.140 son, like their blood child.

00:48:09.900 And growing up, I always, he's actually watching this really funny.

00:48:14.140 He actually, we grew up and I've always felt that they favored him more than me just because

00:48:19.320 it was their blood child.

00:48:20.400 I mean, they would spend like thousands of dollars for his club and like his club soccer and all

00:48:26.220 the like gear and everything.

00:48:28.160 And whenever I had asked, cause I also played like club lacrosse, whenever I had asked, they

00:48:33.900 would be like, no, we can't go to these tournaments cause your brother has something or we can't

00:48:39.000 get that for you.

00:48:40.440 And it was just a lot of unfairness.

00:48:44.520 And some days, like when I was 10, they would actually leave me at home cause he would have

00:48:51.360 early tournaments all the way, like in Silver Lake and they would leave early and I would

00:48:56.200 not want to get up.

00:48:58.440 So they would leave me and I would just wake up to an empty house.

00:49:01.980 So I've always like cooked for myself and I've like cleaned my room and like kind of took

00:49:07.600 care of everything and like all the pets and stuff.

00:49:11.060 So it was just you and your brother?

00:49:13.200 Yeah, just me and my brother.

00:49:14.280 No other siblings?

00:49:15.240 I do have a half sister.

00:49:17.340 Half sister, half blood.

00:49:18.940 Half blood.

00:49:19.640 So she was also adopted?

00:49:21.540 Yes, but she was adopted by another family in Orange County. 0.92

00:49:26.420 Okay.

00:49:27.100 Gotcha.

00:49:27.920 All right.

00:49:29.820 And your brother, he's older or younger than you?

00:49:32.000 He is older by two months and five days.

00:49:34.720 Okay.

00:49:35.360 Got it.

00:49:36.520 All right.

00:49:38.760 Cool.

00:49:40.300 And any other prospects or guys you dated?

00:49:44.100 Are there any guys in the picture currently?

00:49:46.240 Currently?

00:49:46.940 No, there is not.

00:49:47.840 And I am happy that way.

00:49:49.380 No summer fling, nothing like that?

00:49:51.080 Yeah, no.

00:49:51.880 Cool.

00:49:52.380 What about you?

00:49:53.960 Single.

00:49:56.040 How long have you been single for?

00:49:59.080 Three years.

00:50:01.520 Yeah, like three years.

00:50:02.700 All right.

00:50:03.100 Longest relationship?

00:50:04.600 11 years.

00:50:06.220 All right.

00:50:06.680 Were you married?

00:50:07.720 No, never married.

00:50:08.620 Never married?

00:50:09.620 Okay.

00:50:09.880 Any children?

00:50:10.740 Nope.

00:50:10.940 No children.

00:50:11.680 Okay.

00:50:12.820 The 11-year relationship, who broke up with who?

00:50:15.400 I broke up with him.

00:50:16.960 Okay.

00:50:17.300 Why is that?

00:50:18.680 We just spent so many years together, and we eventually just grew apart.

00:50:25.960 He didn't want to support my dreams, and so it was just a hard no.

00:50:31.820 What do you mean by he didn't want to support your dreams?

00:50:34.920 What were your dreams, and what was the support that you required?

00:50:39.380 So, yeah, I guess when I would talk about where I wanted to go and what I wanted to do with, you know, my future, he really just didn't, he didn't want to support me having such like lofty dreams.

00:50:55.720 Um, so it just, it wasn't fitting into his idea of a future partner.

00:51:05.560 Um, okay.

00:51:06.320 What were your dreams?

00:51:07.060 Uh, just to, like, to build my own empire and not to be underneath, um, his thumb.

00:51:14.640 What do you mean by underneath his thumb?

00:51:16.680 Um, like, I guess being in a relationship for so long with someone, they have these expectations that they want you to, um, you know, either be at home or maybe just, they want to have more time with you.

00:51:33.400 So, I think that's how it felt, and I wanted to pursue dreams.

00:51:37.360 I wanted to be, um, I wanted to just be able to do whatever I wanted to do, and.

00:51:43.700 You wanted to be able to do whatever you wanted to do.

00:51:46.360 Yeah.

00:51:47.160 Which was what?

00:51:48.100 Which, like, um, well, I, I mentioned that I was a spiritual wellness entrepreneur, so I have a couple different businesses, and, um, part of that is picking up and going on, like, road shows.

00:52:03.400 Um, like, just packing up, being able to, um, hit the road whenever I want, and that was a problem.

00:52:12.060 How, uh, how so?

00:52:13.480 Like, just you'd be gone for periods of time, or?

00:52:15.860 Yeah.

00:52:16.620 Uh, I'd be gone, um, not available for him, and just not available.

00:52:22.460 Okay.

00:52:22.820 Was, you guys were dating in California?

00:52:24.880 Yeah.

00:52:25.240 This was, okay.

00:52:26.360 Uh, were you guys living together?

00:52:28.520 No.

00:52:28.940 So, we lived together for maybe seven years.

00:52:32.240 Mm-hmm.

00:52:32.560 We broke up, and then got back together, and then broke up.

00:52:37.320 So, initially, you were living together, broke up, moved out, got back together, but when you got back together, not living together.

00:52:44.840 Is that fair?

00:52:46.060 Yeah.

00:52:46.120 Yeah, we got back together, and we did not live together.

00:52:48.080 What was the reason for the original breakup?

00:52:50.240 Um, I believe, I think, I was just going a different way.

00:52:57.620 Again, like, I was on a different path, and it just was, it was a non-alignment kind of thing.

00:53:04.620 Mm-hmm, and I think we just tried again, because we'd have been in each other's life for so long, and, um, I helped raise his kids.

00:53:14.340 And so, yeah, I think there was, like, a, maybe we should give this another shot kind of deal, but ultimately, it just wasn't.

00:53:21.360 How many kids did he have?

00:53:22.720 Two.

00:53:23.300 Two, okay.

00:53:25.140 So, you were, like, kind of stepmom a little bit, or?

00:53:29.140 Yeah, for a while.

00:53:30.140 Okay.

00:53:31.400 Uh, when you say he wasn't supporting your thing, you said you wanted to go out on the road to, uh, travel to different places to, for your business.

00:53:41.020 When you say he wasn't supportive, like, was he not, were you, was there an expectation he helped pay for this?

00:53:47.840 No.

00:53:48.360 Is that what you're talking about?

00:53:49.560 No, no, not at all.

00:53:50.800 I've always made my own money.

00:53:52.180 I've never asked for money from him at all.

00:53:56.040 So, it was more supportive on the side of, um, hey, this is, you know, this is what I want to do.

00:54:02.740 Like, this is, this is where I want to go with my future.

00:54:05.540 Like, are you okay with that?

00:54:08.620 And it was, like, eh, not really okay with it, so.

00:54:13.280 Okay.

00:54:14.100 Yeah.

00:54:17.000 All right.

00:54:18.520 So, uh, you said you've been single for three years.

00:54:21.780 Is this the, uh, the guy that you've ended things with three years ago?

00:54:30.840 Yeah.

00:54:31.880 So, I mean, I've dated, but, and then it took a really long break just from dating, like a year and a half.

00:54:37.320 I didn't date after I left that relationship and then started dating and just.

00:54:43.360 So, if he, if he was here, he would say, uh, you know, you said he wasn't supportive of your business, your journey, whatever.

00:54:53.120 Um, what do you think he would say?

00:54:57.180 Um, I think.

00:54:58.640 Like, would he disagree with you, or?

00:55:00.480 I think he would say that I probably didn't want to accept his support in some sort of way.

00:55:07.080 He, yeah, I think that's what his take would be about it.

00:55:11.060 Wait, you didn't want to accept his support?

00:55:14.360 Yeah.

00:55:15.720 Like, he would say, oh, I was, I was there for you, or I, I'd support you, but then it, I don't, I don't think he was, he wasn't there emotionally for support.

00:55:25.800 Um, but I think we just have different views about it, so.

00:55:30.980 Okay.

00:55:31.700 Um, you're, you describe yourself as a spiritual advisor.

00:55:37.280 Uh, you do soul alignment consultations.

00:55:40.180 Can you explain what a spiritual advisor is?

00:55:42.360 Yeah.

00:55:42.720 So, uh, I guess I jumped into spirituality about 12 years ago and, um, I came from a very corporate technical background.

00:55:51.160 So, I lived in Silicon Valley for many years and then transitioned out of Silicon Valley years ago and started, um, spiritual wellness coaching for the last three or four years.

00:56:06.040 Um, so some of my clients come from corporate where they just want a transition.

00:56:11.080 They want out.

00:56:11.840 They want, um, they're just looking for a way out.

00:56:14.740 They're looking for something new.

00:56:16.120 Wait, can't they just quit?

00:56:19.200 What?

00:56:19.680 Not everyone can just quit.

00:56:21.960 Um, but, but I mean, looking for, so, okay, they are corporate drones.

00:56:26.760 They're looking for a way out.

00:56:29.400 Do you need to go to a, like a therapist to, for that?

00:56:35.660 Um, I personally, I'm not a therapist.

00:56:38.640 Um, so I guide, yeah.

00:56:41.360 Like, how do I quit?

00:56:42.880 Isn't it just like, just quit your job?

00:56:45.000 Isn't, isn't that the extent of.

00:56:46.780 Okay, you, you, you, okay.

00:56:51.080 People want to leave their corporate jobs.

00:56:52.920 What do you, what do you tell them?

00:56:54.740 Um, don't leave your corporate job without a plan in place.

00:56:58.440 Well, wouldn't, so that's like, you'd be advising them for financial, like from a financial, like a spiritual plan?

00:57:09.280 Because you say you're a spiritual advisor.

00:57:10.640 So what spiritual advice would you, uh, impart on somebody who's looking to quit their corporate job?

00:57:17.360 So that comes in when we go through, um, different tools to utilize, to get them to know themselves on a deeper level.

00:57:27.580 So what happens is a lot of people just don't understand their gifts.

00:57:32.940 And so they're looking for a way out, but they don't know what they're truly gifted at.

00:57:37.960 And that's where I come in.

00:57:39.660 Okay.

00:57:40.860 So can you give us a, like a example of like a success story, I guess, or.

00:57:48.060 Oh, yeah.

00:57:48.980 Um, so, I mean, I work with, so I'm, I'm, I'm an energy healer as well.

00:57:55.340 So.

00:57:55.680 Like Reiki?

00:57:56.780 Yeah, Reiki.

00:57:57.720 Reiki.

00:57:58.400 Reiki.

00:57:58.920 Reiki.

00:57:59.400 Reiki.

00:57:59.800 Reiki.

00:58:00.940 Is there other forms of energy healing or.

00:58:03.760 Yes.

00:58:05.320 What, what other, are, uh, do you have to go to school for that or how do you become a, uh, whatever that is?

00:58:11.900 Yeah.

00:58:12.620 You said an energy healer?

00:58:14.080 Yeah.

00:58:15.000 Okay.

00:58:15.520 What's that?

00:58:16.200 Um, well, I do Reiki.

00:58:18.140 I'm a Reiki master.

00:58:19.140 So.

00:58:19.780 Master.

00:58:20.780 Reiki master that you do get certified for that.

00:58:23.040 Yeah.

00:58:23.100 How do you, how long do you have to study that to become a master?

00:58:26.480 Um, you can probably knock it out in like a couple months.

00:58:30.940 To become a master?

00:58:32.320 Yeah.

00:58:33.320 An energy master.

00:58:35.360 Well.

00:58:35.700 Do you, can you take online classes for that?

00:58:37.760 Is it like an online school?

00:58:38.880 I, I, I took mine in person.

00:58:42.320 There's a, is there a school here in Santa Barbara or?

00:58:45.300 Um, yeah.

00:58:45.920 There's practitioners here that do certify you.

00:58:47.380 And they, well, how much does it cost to become a certified?

00:58:50.820 Maybe, did you get 1500 or something?

00:58:55.620 1500?

00:58:56.520 Okay.

00:58:56.720 Yeah.

00:58:58.220 And you're, you're a master?

00:58:59.940 There's different levels.

00:59:01.560 What's after master?

00:59:03.120 Um, so there's like different levels within the master.

00:59:05.740 So I'm like at the lower level of.

00:59:08.480 You're like super saying level one.

00:59:10.320 Okay.

00:59:10.660 So there's like three levels overall, but, um, what level are you at?

00:59:16.080 So Reiki, so there's like regular Reiki and then there's a Reiki master.

00:59:19.300 You've done extra hours.

00:59:20.740 And then like within the Reiki master system, there's a couple different levels.

00:59:24.500 So just depending on how long you've been doing it.

00:59:27.020 Yeah.

00:59:27.040 But where, which level are you at?

00:59:28.180 I just come in at like the, like the bottom of the Reiki master.

00:59:32.280 Yeah.

00:59:32.540 The bottom level.

00:59:33.780 Yeah.

00:59:34.040 I would say I've only been doing it for like three, two years.

00:59:36.640 Can you demonstrate some Reiki on her?

00:59:39.680 What about, what about Luna?

00:59:41.740 I don't touch anyone.

00:59:43.360 Yeah.

00:59:43.640 Yeah.

00:59:43.840 But don't you wave your hands around?

00:59:45.860 Yeah, exactly.

00:59:48.180 Can you do it to Luna?

00:59:49.580 Well, I mean, it would be like, I don't touch her physically, but like my hands go over here.

00:59:55.440 Do you feel that Luna?

00:59:56.660 Yes.

00:59:57.120 I feel the energy.

00:59:58.480 Wait, do a demonstration.

00:59:59.760 Do a demonstration.

01:00:00.540 Oh my goodness.

01:00:01.780 Yeah. 0.56

01:00:01.960 So I would put hands like around the neck right here, like this, on the head. 0.99

01:00:07.560 Is Wayne Brady going to have the choker bitch? 1.00

01:00:10.480 Damn, that's crazy. 1.00

01:00:11.760 Okay. 1.00

01:00:12.280 Cool.

01:00:12.820 Did you, did you, do you feel better now, Luna?

01:00:14.820 Yeah.

01:00:15.480 She was actually dealing with severe depression, but now I think she's cured.

01:00:19.500 So thank you for that.

01:00:20.720 You're welcome, Luna.

01:00:21.400 Thank you.

01:00:22.500 Okay.

01:00:23.040 So you're a Reiki.

01:00:24.420 How do you say Reiki?

01:00:25.600 Reiki.

01:00:26.240 Reiki.

01:00:26.780 Yeah.

01:00:27.080 Like Reiki.

01:00:27.760 Okay.

01:00:28.200 Yes.

01:00:28.820 You're a master.

01:00:29.700 Um, what do you say to people who, um, don't believe in that sort of thing?

01:00:39.560 They don't think it works.

01:00:41.700 What do you say to them?

01:00:42.760 I'm not saying that.

01:00:43.840 I don't think you, I'm not saying that.

01:00:45.480 What do you say to those people that do say that it's, I'm not saying this, but like the 0.99

01:00:49.300 people that say it's bullshit. 0.97

01:00:50.860 What do you say to those people? 0.99

01:00:52.140 I'm not saying that.

01:00:53.100 They say that.

01:00:53.880 Oh my gosh.

01:00:54.560 He said that four times.

01:00:56.140 I think he is saying that.

01:00:57.320 What do you say to those people who say that?

01:01:00.380 That it doesn't work.

01:01:01.340 I would, I mean, I would just say like, you believe in, you know, there's people that believe

01:01:06.160 in God.

01:01:06.720 There's people that believe in energy.

01:01:08.360 So if you believe in any of those things, then it's the same thing.

01:01:14.540 Uh, it's the same.

01:01:15.180 You believe in something that you cannot see.

01:01:17.300 It's like the same thing as God, like the Christian God. 0.93

01:01:21.060 Like take it, take God in general.

01:01:24.060 You don't see God, do you?

01:01:26.300 You don't see a person, a person sitting at the table with us.

01:01:30.840 You don't see God in a, in a, in a physical form.

01:01:33.540 So, uh, sure.

01:01:35.820 I guess.

01:01:36.320 Yeah.

01:01:37.000 Same thing.

01:01:37.660 Break is, it's all energy.

01:01:39.920 What do you think?

01:01:40.540 I have a couple of crystals here.

01:01:41.700 I don't know if you noticed them.

01:01:42.540 I did notice.

01:01:43.040 Have you, have you felt any energy from the crystals?

01:01:46.980 No, I have not.

01:01:48.180 Do you, you don't believe in crystals?

01:01:49.440 I do believe in crystals a lot.

01:01:51.340 So you're saying my crystals are fraudulent.

01:01:55.080 No, I'm saying I personally.

01:01:57.400 I have two here.

01:01:59.300 And then this one here.

01:02:01.140 Oh, I can't see.

01:02:02.000 These are actually defensive ward crystals and they protect against, um, demons, witches,

01:02:10.960 e-girls, um, embalming women who study embalming negative entities. 0.98

01:02:19.440 Does that make me a bad person?

01:02:21.920 Uh, no, but it does defend against.

01:02:24.620 Okay.

01:02:25.040 Yeah.

01:02:25.420 Um, okay.

01:02:26.060 So spiritual advising.

01:02:28.420 Can you explain that a little bit?

01:02:30.940 It's just coaching.

01:02:32.140 Coaching.

01:02:32.720 Yep.

01:02:32.900 How much do you charge for that?

01:02:34.800 Like a session?

01:02:36.020 Uh, it depends what you're looking for, but like, like what's your most expensive package?

01:02:39.660 Like if they're wanting it all, how much are you charging for that?

01:02:42.280 Yeah.

01:02:42.440 Like I do 12 week transformation packages that like, I, that's what I prefer.

01:02:46.500 And those are, um, 1,100 and 111.

01:02:50.060 Wow.

01:02:51.100 Make that money girl. 1.00

01:02:52.360 Yep.

01:02:52.820 Yep.

01:02:53.160 I support it.

01:02:54.520 I charge $999 for my, I'm undercutting you by the way, uh, for my spiritual consulting

01:03:01.560 practice.

01:03:02.060 If anybody wants, uh, my, to, to procure my services for spiritual consulting, I will do

01:03:09.020 so, uh, $999.

01:03:14.280 Okay.

01:03:14.820 Um, all right.

01:03:15.560 That's cool.

01:03:16.220 Um, you've been single for three years.

01:03:18.200 Have there been any guys in the picture in the past three years?

01:03:20.360 Yeah.

01:03:20.880 I mean, there's been a lot of dating, but, um, I would say nothing that I've really would

01:03:26.840 like to entertain for long-term benefits.

01:03:31.840 Okay.

01:03:32.240 Uh, so you, maybe a couple months or something you saw some people or, um, yeah, off and on.

01:03:39.020 But right, I mean, right now, no, I'm not seeing anyone in particular that is, yeah,

01:03:46.880 special.

01:03:47.360 Do you believe in manifestation?

01:03:49.360 Oh, yes.

01:03:51.360 Manifest?

01:03:52.040 Oh, yeah. 0.96

01:03:52.660 Are you a manifestation baddie? 0.91

01:03:56.320 Well, yes, I am. 0.93

01:03:58.500 All right.

01:03:58.960 That's cool.

01:04:00.360 Um, what is manifestation?

01:04:02.880 What's that?

01:04:04.580 Um, it's, I mean, to put it easily digestible.

01:04:08.820 It's, it's really intention.

01:04:13.700 Intention?

01:04:14.360 Yeah.

01:04:14.760 Comes down to intention.

01:04:18.760 Can I manifest?

01:04:20.160 Can I manifest right now?

01:04:21.840 Like, how do I do that?

01:04:22.940 Yeah, you can manifest right now.

01:04:24.800 Yeah.

01:04:24.940 Get into the existence.

01:04:29.060 What do you want?

01:04:29.900 Uh, what do I want?

01:04:33.060 I want somebody to send a champagne pop.

01:04:35.500 I want to manifest a champagne pop for the show.

01:04:38.700 So, I don't know if somebody wants to, you know, no, no, no.

01:04:43.240 It's not that I'm manifesting it.

01:04:45.540 So.

01:04:48.400 Okay.

01:04:48.840 All right.

01:04:49.220 That's cool.

01:04:49.860 Um, all right.

01:04:51.940 How much is a champagne pop?

01:04:52.900 Can you manifest anything?

01:04:54.640 Absolutely.

01:04:55.380 Absolutely.

01:04:56.200 Like, can I manifest?

01:04:58.720 Uh.

01:05:00.460 Oh, what?

01:05:01.060 Oh, God.

01:05:01.640 Wait a minute.

01:05:03.600 Like, anything?

01:05:05.180 You can manifest anything?

01:05:07.680 If you have an imagination and you can actually visualize it, yes, you can manifest it.

01:05:13.280 All your thoughts.

01:05:14.940 Like, if I just wanted a meteor right now.

01:05:19.220 Oh, my gosh.

01:05:19.720 Oh, my God.

01:05:20.040 To just, I'm sorry, asteroid, to just come barreling through the studio.

01:05:26.280 Yep.

01:05:27.300 But, but not, like, a really small one.

01:05:30.280 So, it just, it just kind of gave Nick, like, a, just got Nick's hair.

01:05:38.360 Like, it just scalped him.

01:05:40.860 But he still lives.

01:05:42.380 Could I?

01:05:43.280 Do you think I could manifest that?

01:05:45.300 Well, I'm taking it so literal.

01:05:46.900 What do you mean?

01:05:47.220 There are laws.

01:05:48.480 There's laws.

01:05:48.860 In the manifestation world that, you know, you can't, you cannot manifest things that are

01:05:53.120 going to actually hurt other people.

01:05:54.980 So, that would be.

01:05:55.660 I think that would be an upgrade for Nick.

01:05:57.020 A very.

01:05:57.360 I don't know what you're talking about.

01:05:59.020 That would be, right, Nick?

01:06:00.300 That would be kind of dope.

01:06:01.600 Probably.

01:06:02.240 Probably.

01:06:02.820 Um, okay.

01:06:03.420 What about, I want, fine.

01:06:05.940 I won't hurt Nick.

01:06:07.220 I want a, uh, a bald eagle to fly into the studio.

01:06:13.080 You know, with a duffel bag full of hard drives, full of Bitcoin and cash.

01:06:21.460 Preferably $5 million in cash, in $2 bills.

01:06:25.960 How do I manifest that?

01:06:29.300 You guys don't get any, by the way.

01:06:32.820 It's just for me.

01:06:34.480 Very selfish manifest.

01:06:35.960 Is that raining?

01:06:36.760 Selfishly?

01:06:37.620 I selfishly manifest.

01:06:39.440 How do I do that?

01:06:40.240 Oh, that's so, like, I don't think I can even drop secrets on that because if you're

01:06:44.000 not going to share, then I'm not going to share what it would take.

01:06:47.860 Rude.

01:06:48.320 Yeah.

01:06:48.580 Well, okay.

01:06:50.840 Well, I'm not going to share my manifestation techniques with you, too, then.

01:06:57.240 Oh, my God.

01:06:58.340 He's gatekeeping.

01:06:59.420 Gatekeeping.

01:07:00.140 Okay.

01:07:00.720 Um, FPS.

01:07:03.280 Yo, chat.

01:07:03.780 Is the FPS kind of scuffed?

01:07:04.920 But my producer, Nick, says he's had his eye on the manifestation, or the FPS.

01:07:11.900 Can we manifest some good FPS for the stream boys?

01:07:16.020 We need some, but chat, uh, has the FPS.

01:07:20.320 So, does it look jumpy if I go like this?

01:07:22.860 Is it a little, I kind of see it.

01:07:24.640 Does it look a little jumpy a little bit?

01:07:28.220 I don't know.

01:07:28.740 What about this angle?

01:07:30.100 This is clean.

01:07:31.220 That's clean.

01:07:31.940 But here, looks a little jumpy, doesn't it?

01:07:35.900 What does the chat say, Nick?

01:07:37.220 Is the FPS scuffed?

01:07:39.420 Um.

01:07:40.180 Choppy?

01:07:41.180 Yeah, choppy.

01:07:42.420 Choppy.

01:07:42.900 Maybe we have to, well, we'll keep an eye on it, Nick.

01:07:45.300 Can you tell me in, like, five minutes if it's still scuffed?

01:07:48.760 All right.

01:07:49.000 That's cool.

01:07:49.540 Uh, relationship status for you?

01:07:53.240 You?

01:07:53.820 Oh, sorry.

01:07:54.200 Yeah, moving on.

01:07:54.720 Moving on.

01:07:55.060 I'm single.

01:07:56.280 Okay.

01:07:56.580 How long have you been single?

01:07:57.580 Um, since 2021.

01:08:00.900 Four years?

01:08:01.740 Yeah.

01:08:01.940 Four years.

01:08:02.720 Longest relationship?

01:08:04.760 Y'all gonna laugh.

01:08:06.020 Two days.

01:08:06.940 Oh, my God.

01:08:07.200 In my only relationship.

01:08:08.920 All right.

01:08:09.200 I don't even count that as a relationship.

01:08:10.840 What happened there?

01:08:11.480 What's the story?

01:08:12.160 Um, so, I was a freshman in the same college I'm going to, and, um, kind of dated a wrestler

01:08:18.700 at my college, and I told my coach about it.

01:08:21.780 He was happy for me, but he was like, if you, you know, want to pursue MMA, you're not,

01:08:26.900 you don't really need a boyfriend at the time, because I told my coach I want MMA to be

01:08:31.160 my career, which it is now, and it was like, I think, four or five months before my first

01:08:37.120 ever fight, so I was pretty focused on my fight, and my coach was like, that's going to

01:08:41.080 be a distraction.

01:08:42.460 And so, my coach kind of told me to end things, and he understood.

01:08:46.220 So, I ended things after two days, and, um, I'm here now.

01:08:53.440 So.

01:08:54.840 All right.

01:08:55.560 Cool.

01:08:56.340 Um, and now it's your only, like, anything?

01:08:59.840 Yeah.

01:09:00.180 Basically?

01:09:00.820 Mm-hmm.

01:09:00.940 You're also a Christian, correct?

01:09:02.480 Mm-hmm.

01:09:03.240 Okay.

01:09:03.600 So, you're waiting until marriage?

01:09:04.980 Mm-hmm.

01:09:05.360 Okay.

01:09:06.740 Have you had, like, a first kiss?

01:09:08.680 Yeah.

01:09:09.220 Okay, you've had that.

01:09:10.160 Ellie's the, okay, I guess the, she's still trying to make it happen. 1.00

01:09:13.760 Um, you, um, you also wrote here, uh, yeah, so you broke up with him, your coach told you

01:09:23.740 you need to focus on MMA.

01:09:25.260 Mm-hmm.

01:09:26.040 Uh, but, so you're Christian, right?

01:09:27.920 Yeah.

01:09:28.680 Uh, what denomination of Christianity are you?

01:09:31.900 Um, we're, well, I actually go to a non-denominational church.

01:09:35.220 I grew up in a, okay, non-denominational church.

01:09:38.480 I don't really, like, I call myself a Christ follower, but if y'all hung out with me, I'm

01:09:44.900 not a, like, judgmental Christian.

01:09:47.260 What does that mean?

01:09:48.300 Um, so, the Christians I've been around, some of them, not all of them, are very judgmental.

01:09:55.000 They'll tell you, oh, you don't need to wear this, you don't need to eat this, like,

01:09:58.800 all religious stuff.

01:09:59.860 But, if you have a relationship with God, um, you don't really need a set denomination,

01:10:08.240 really, because there's Catholics, there's Mormons, there's all these different denominations.

01:10:14.380 But, I feel like if you just have that authentic relationship with God, you shouldn't have to

01:10:19.220 put a label on what you are.

01:10:23.320 Okay.

01:10:23.800 Uh, chat, what is the, is this called, um, Sola Scriptura?

01:10:29.840 Is that what that's called?

01:10:30.760 Where they just, uh, so do you, um, you don't, you don't go to church then?

01:10:35.880 I do go to church.

01:10:36.960 Oh, okay.

01:10:37.520 It's a non-denominational church, though?

01:10:39.040 Mm-hmm.

01:10:39.880 Okay.

01:10:40.760 Can, I'm, uh, a little curious here.

01:10:45.920 Yeah.

01:10:46.140 So, the church you go to, there's no, like, biblical prescriptions that they advise?

01:10:52.120 Um, there are some, like, they'll talk about fasting, like, they talk in New Testament and

01:10:58.900 Old Testament stuff.

01:11:00.100 They talk about fasting, praying, um, the apostles, Jesus, resurrection, all that stuff.

01:11:08.640 But, um, it, my church is not the pushy type of church.

01:11:12.720 Like, we're like, come as you are, and they're very welcoming, and say if somebody, like,

01:11:19.780 everybody sins, but say if somebody really sinful, just got off the streets, came into

01:11:24.720 our church, our church is not going to be like, oh, you can't be here.

01:11:27.880 Like, we're going to show you the love like Jesus would show you, basically.

01:11:32.460 But you're saying there's certain, uh, religious doctrines or Christian doctrines that you would

01:11:39.240 not adhere to?

01:11:40.180 Like, it's kind of up to you to pick and choose which, uh.

01:11:44.780 Like, I know Catholics, I think they pray to Mary.

01:11:47.380 I, I, I'm not a Catholic.

01:11:48.940 I don't.

01:11:49.360 I pray to God.

01:11:50.140 Well, you mentioned something about the way you dress.

01:11:52.280 Oh, yes, yes.

01:11:53.140 Right.

01:11:53.460 So, you, you'll dress revealing, is what you're saying?

01:11:58.940 Um, not, not too revealing.

01:12:01.380 I mean, I'll wear crop tops, and I'll wear, like, a tank top, but I know some, like.

01:12:07.140 Sure.

01:12:07.980 You know.

01:12:09.020 Uh, question, do you believe in, uh, when you're married, do you believe that wives 1.00

01:12:14.460 should be submissive to their husbands from a Christian worldview? 0.61

01:12:18.060 Mm-hmm.

01:12:18.540 Yes.

01:12:19.140 Okay.

01:12:19.740 So, if your husband said, hey, I don't want you doing MMA anymore, would you quit?

01:12:25.240 Um, I don't think I would date a guy that wouldn't want me to do my career, but, um, I think I'll

01:12:34.120 be retired when I get married, so that wouldn't be a problem.

01:12:37.360 Um, I would just, I don't know, that would probably be a big argument for me.

01:12:42.600 But is it possible that you could be married while you're still actively?

01:12:48.180 No.

01:12:49.600 So, okay, so you would just on your own opt to retire?

01:12:53.480 Yeah.

01:12:53.800 Okay.

01:12:57.680 But say you met a guy, like, today, and then you get married a year from now.

01:13:03.320 And he tells me to quit MMA.

01:13:05.160 Right.

01:13:05.520 Well, how long do you want to be doing MMA?

01:13:07.180 Um, until I get to the UFC, and...

01:13:11.260 Because most people have careers into...

01:13:13.540 Their 30s.

01:13:14.320 Late 20s, yeah.

01:13:14.860 ...into their 30s in the UFC, so, I mean, you could be...

01:13:17.980 I could be there for a long time.

01:13:19.060 Like, who's that, the woman who's had a...

01:13:23.920 She'd recent, like, within the past year or two was defeated, but she was super... 0.95

01:13:29.400 Do you know who I'm talking about?

01:13:30.420 Was she blonde-headed? 1.00

01:13:31.440 No, she's Brazilian. 1.00

01:13:32.840 I'm pretty sure.

01:13:32.900 Was it Amanda Nunes?

01:13:34.220 I think Amanda Nunes.

01:13:35.360 Yeah.

01:13:35.500 Uh, she's 37. 1.00

01:13:37.560 Mm-hmm.

01:13:37.800 She is still competing, apparently, I guess.

01:13:40.820 Mm-hmm.

01:13:41.360 So, I mean, could you see yourself competing into your mid to late 30s in the UFC?

01:13:46.460 Probably not.

01:13:47.480 I would...

01:13:47.900 I'd want to retire by 30.

01:13:50.220 Okay.

01:13:50.480 Um, because, like, with the sponsorships I have now, like, I'm making pretty good money.

01:13:55.400 Mm-hmm.

01:13:55.840 And once I, like, break into the UFC, there's more opportunities and endorsements and all that

01:14:00.700 stuff.

01:14:01.000 And I feel like if you do your money right and make it work for you, you can retire from

01:14:07.360 a good standpoint, like, at 30.

01:14:09.660 But I would still kind of work, like, do seminars, travel, but not fight.

01:14:15.700 Okay.

01:14:16.060 Because it does take a toll on your body.

01:14:17.680 Do you want to have kids?

01:14:19.280 Um, as of right now, no.

01:14:21.260 Don't want kids?

01:14:22.220 No.

01:14:22.680 Well, not now, but could you see yourself down the road?

01:14:25.000 I really don't think so.

01:14:26.220 You don't think so?

01:14:26.840 No.

01:14:27.780 Okay.

01:14:28.900 All right.

01:14:29.540 Let's say you get married at 25, though, and your husband says, eh, I just want you

01:14:32.580 to quit doing MMA.

01:14:33.880 Do you do it?

01:14:35.320 No.

01:14:38.220 No.

01:14:38.660 Okay.

01:14:39.140 Well, that's it.

01:14:39.740 Go ahead, Felicity.

01:14:41.400 Single.

01:14:41.940 I've been single for two months.

01:14:44.060 My longest relationship was two years.

01:14:46.760 Single for two months?

01:14:48.360 I don't know.

01:14:48.760 It's just on again, off again with you, with the guy, right?

01:14:52.240 No.

01:14:53.720 I have no idea.

01:14:55.840 Okay.

01:14:56.120 All right.

01:14:57.500 Cool.

01:14:57.920 We have a soup chat here from Josh Brooks, or Streamlabs message, and he says, you know

01:15:06.540 what, Ellie, you get to read these.

01:15:07.900 Go ahead, Ellie.

01:15:08.340 Read it.

01:15:09.060 I have an all-important question for the panel, Brian.

01:15:11.880 Most embarrassing dating or carnal knowledge stories.

01:15:16.140 Embarrassing for either person, something that really stuck with you.

01:15:19.080 Did you adopt cat?

01:15:20.540 Question mark?

01:15:21.000 Oh, yeah.

01:15:22.900 I have.

01:15:24.280 Do we still have the photos, Nick?

01:15:25.700 I'm going to see if we have the photos.

01:15:27.200 April.

01:15:27.800 Yeah.

01:15:28.000 Can I read that again?

01:15:28.840 I, like, did not understand that.

01:15:30.440 Oh, so, I mean, just pose to the panel, most embarrassing dating story or hookup story,

01:15:35.520 I guess.

01:15:35.840 Anybody have an embarrassing dating or hookup story?

01:15:40.840 I have one, but.

01:15:42.380 Yeah.

01:15:42.620 Go ahead.

01:15:42.860 I was making out with this guy in high school, like, on his bunk bed, and it was dark, and

01:15:51.220 we were, like, getting into it and having a good time, and then I, like, looked, like,

01:15:54.880 went like this, and I see that there was blood all over his face, and I was, like, and then

01:15:59.100 I looked in the mirror, and I saw there was blood all over my face.

01:16:01.400 I got a bloody nose, and I, my first bloody nose I've ever gotten in my life, ever.

01:16:06.660 I've never, and I still have never gotten one since then, and it was, like, it was a carry

01:16:11.120 in there.

01:16:11.420 Did you end up staying with that guy for a while?

01:16:13.400 Yeah, he, you know, it was nice, because, like, he was one of those guys that, like,

01:16:16.320 didn't care, and also he was, like, a freak, like, weird freak, so, like, he was.

01:16:19.660 Well, then you know it was, like, serendipitous.

01:16:21.120 He was meant to be.

01:16:21.880 Oh, yeah.

01:16:22.980 Yes.

01:16:23.640 Blood brothers.

01:16:24.180 Blood brothers.

01:16:25.080 Blood brown. 0.61

01:16:25.840 Blood brown. 0.61

01:16:27.340 Yeah.

01:16:28.360 He must have been making out, like, hard.

01:16:30.600 No, I think it's because I was, like, I was, like, on top, you know, like, and I was,

01:16:33.540 like, down for a long time, so maybe the gravity just, I don't know what happened.

01:16:38.180 Was it winter?

01:16:39.440 Could it be dry?

01:16:40.000 Maybe it was dry.

01:16:41.000 I don't know, but it was, what's crazy is how we didn't notice or taste the blood, like,

01:16:46.040 it was everywhere.

01:16:47.580 Like, I go up, and it's everywhere.

01:16:49.460 It was bad, so that was pretty bad and embarrassing.

01:16:53.040 That's better than what I thought you were going to say.

01:16:54.880 Yeah.

01:16:55.220 When you said blood.

01:16:56.220 Oh, that has not happened to me, thank God, but no.

01:17:00.560 I have one like that, speaking of blood, but that kind of blood, actually.

01:17:03.780 Okay, so I'm bi, so I was with a woman at the time, and we were drinking, we were drinking

01:17:08.460 a lot, and I remember we were, like, at her house, just in her room, getting things started,

01:17:12.840 you know, and she goes down there, starts munching, and I was like, ooh, like, I'm really wet

01:17:19.220 right now.

01:17:19.780 Oh! 0.60

01:17:19.940 And then she pulls her face away, it's, like, covered in blood, and I remember being

01:17:24.480 like, oh no, like, I did not know I started, and then she was just like, went back in,

01:17:29.980 went back in for it, and I was like, okay, whatever, whatever feels right, you know, I

01:17:34.240 loved it, but, like, yeah, 10 minutes later, she got sick, and, you know, I felt really

01:17:38.300 embarrassed, because I was like, maybe it's because of me, but I think it was just because

01:17:40.760 she was drinking, I don't know, you know.

01:17:42.200 Also, maybe it's just because it's blood.

01:17:43.640 That, too, that, too.

01:17:44.480 Like, why did you go back in?

01:17:45.640 If I thought too hard about it, I'd probably also get sick, so I was like, but it was kind

01:17:49.480 of embarrassing, but fun, nonetheless.

01:17:52.080 You guys care about that?

01:17:54.000 Guys?

01:17:54.360 Every guy that I've met, they tell me they don't care about that.

01:17:58.000 I don't think they do.

01:17:58.380 Having sex, no, like, I feel like I've never had an issue, like, every guy I've been with,

01:18:02.060 they've never had, like, they just put a towel down, but I'm not letting you eat my cooter, 0.98

01:18:05.700 where I'm like, what the heck, like, that's just insane, that's insane.

01:18:09.120 I mean, I'm not saying, like, love that she did that for you, but I'm not gonna let

01:18:12.080 someone, like, you know what I mean, that's weird, but.

01:18:13.760 And, like, if I knew, if I knew, like, if it was on accident, it happened, and they're,

01:18:17.200 like, go on, you know, but.

01:18:18.080 I knew, and I let her keep doing it.

01:18:19.600 I was like, if you're enjoying that, I'm enjoying it, too.

01:18:22.220 Go right on ahead.

01:18:22.800 No, yeah, if they're saying yes, I guess that's fine.

01:18:25.200 They're the freak ones.

01:18:26.780 That was pretty freaky.

01:18:27.840 Yeah, I think I'm with you.

01:18:28.740 I wouldn't, if I knew, I was, it was that time, it'd just be, yeah, let's pass on that,

01:18:35.040 but, like, sex, fine, but, like, not going down.

01:18:37.300 Because it's fine, like, you take a shower, and it's, like, totally fine.

01:18:39.960 Like, it doesn't even get messy unless, like, you're, it's, like, really bad,

01:18:43.760 doesn't it smell?

01:18:47.100 It depends, no.

01:18:48.900 Like, if you shower, well, yeah, that's what I'm saying, if they're down there with their 0.99

01:18:53.540 nose, but if they're just having sex with, 1.00

01:18:55.260 The fuck are you saying? 1.00

01:18:57.320 If they're down on sex on our period, would you have sex with someone on their period? 1.00

01:19:01.020 Be honest, don't be honest.

01:19:03.160 Generally, no, it's not my preference to do that. 0.97

01:19:04.900 Your girlfriend, you're dating your girlfriend for two years, and you wouldn't have sex with her?

01:19:08.880 I've been dating her for two years. 1.00

01:19:10.340 We've done fucked already hundreds of times. 1.00

01:19:11.900 We don't have to fuck every day. 1.00

01:19:15.320 See, that's the thing. 0.97

01:19:16.240 I feel like if you're a boyfriend, like, that's, like, I feel like...

01:19:19.500 No, the argument would be the reverse. 0.95

01:19:23.280 If you're in a relationship with a girl, there's no need to then go and have sex on her period. 1.00

01:19:27.780 But girls are hornier on their period. 1.00

01:19:29.740 Okay, cool.

01:19:31.580 That's great.

01:19:32.420 Congrats.

01:19:32.820 But so, I can see the potential argument if, like, there's a guy who's inclined to have a, like, a casual encounter, and that's the only opportunity to do it.

01:19:42.740 A guy might be more willing to do it under those circumstances, but...

01:19:46.380 Why?

01:19:48.460 No, I think it's fine if you don't want to, if you're, like, grossed up.

01:19:52.260 But I feel like if I'm dating someone for, like, ten years, and every time I'm on my period, they say no, like, I wouldn't like that.

01:20:00.060 Like, I feel like it's...

01:20:00.660 Why?

01:20:01.160 What's wrong with that?

01:20:02.000 I just...

01:20:02.400 I'm saying that's my preference.

01:20:03.960 Oh, okay.

01:20:04.060 You wouldn't like that.

01:20:04.320 No, because I'm saying, like, yeah, like, you're on your period, it depends on, like, three to seven days or whatever.

01:20:10.020 That's a long period of time, and if you're horny, and your girlfriend... 0.78

01:20:12.760 Here, let's test this out. 1.00

01:20:13.720 If a dude bled out of his dick, would you want to fuck him for once, you know, a couple days out of the month? 1.00

01:20:21.440 Would you, you know, maybe just be like, you know what, maybe we don't have sex when your dick's bleeding, you know? 1.00

01:20:28.800 You know? 1.00

01:20:30.020 Would you...

01:20:30.860 See, but I wouldn't like it, that's the thing.

01:20:32.200 It's a preference, obviously. 1.00

01:20:33.560 Like, he's depositing his dick blood into you. 0.99

01:20:37.700 But at that point, we're, like, he's depositing other stuff, we're, like, in a relationship. 0.99

01:20:41.420 Like, what's the same thing?

01:20:42.140 Yeah, the other stuff's fine. 0.96

01:20:43.520 Dick blood, maybe not. 0.95

01:20:44.420 That's what I'm saying. 0.98

01:20:44.940 You don't need to every time, but I'm saying, like, your girlfriend comes up to you and is, like, I need it right now.

01:20:48.780 Like, if you said no, that's, like, I would be...

01:20:50.660 My feelings would be hurt.

01:20:51.460 My boyfriend, my long-term boyfriend.

01:20:53.700 I hope you feel better by tomorrow.

01:20:56.400 That's great.

01:20:57.440 Okay.

01:20:58.020 Your feelings are hurt.

01:20:58.880 Yeah, that's okay.

01:20:59.640 Okay. 1.00

01:21:00.180 You don't need to fuck the blood. 1.00

01:21:01.100 It's okay. 1.00

01:21:02.540 Who here...

01:21:03.300 So, who asked that?

01:21:04.760 Was that you?

01:21:05.620 No, I was saying I got a bloody nose while I was making out with someone.

01:21:09.160 And then she said she had a bloody coochie while she was making out with someone. 1.00

01:21:12.840 And then she asked the question.

01:21:14.800 Yes.

01:21:14.960 I mean, isn't there, like, this comedian, Ali Wong?

01:21:18.160 She has this joke about how she was seeing this guy.

01:21:21.500 And she... 1.00

01:21:22.920 But she told him, hey, I'm on my period. 0.99

01:21:26.000 And he said, well, I guess we're going to have to make a fucking mess, aren't we? 0.97

01:21:31.220 Oh, I love that energy. 0.97

01:21:32.360 And she said that was the most romantic thing she's ever heard.

01:21:34.180 Yes.

01:21:34.440 Like, that girl... 0.99

01:21:35.220 That's what I'm saying.

01:21:35.920 Like, wouldn't you rather a girl be like, oh, my God. 1.00

01:21:37.740 Like, that would make them so horny instead of, like, you being like, ugh, babe. 0.99

01:21:41.080 Like, you're bleeding. 0.61

01:21:41.360 Or she could be horny another day. 1.00

01:21:42.760 Oh, my fucking God. 1.00

01:21:43.500 What? 1.00

01:21:44.000 Okay.

01:21:44.380 I guess that's true.

01:21:45.120 But, like, a girl doesn't like that. 1.00

01:21:46.340 Like, a girl wants, like, you to be so into them that you would fuck them no matter what. 1.00

01:21:50.240 I think a lot of girls get it. 1.00

01:21:52.080 They're like, okay, we don't have to have sex during the period.

01:21:53.740 Yeah.

01:21:54.240 During the period.

01:21:54.580 I get that, too.

01:21:55.380 But, yeah.

01:21:57.300 That's one thing.

01:21:57.820 You just made the claim.

01:21:59.720 Like, the girl, she thought that was hot.

01:22:01.320 She said, I'm going to make a mess.

01:22:02.200 Yeah, she said that.

01:22:03.120 She said that.

01:22:05.420 I don't know.

01:22:05.920 There's other women here. 1.00

01:22:06.860 Are you guys down with the period sex? 0.97

01:22:10.080 Or do you prefer to not have sex when you're on your period? 0.97

01:22:13.020 It's interesting.

01:22:14.880 Yeah, that's not helpful.

01:22:16.160 It's not preferable.

01:22:17.980 Not at all.

01:22:18.780 But if you're.

01:22:20.020 And it just depends on, like, if this has been a long-term boyfriend.

01:22:23.420 Like, sure.

01:22:24.260 If it's someone new, no, thanks.

01:22:25.660 I'd probably, you know, I'd wait.

01:22:27.100 I'd wait a while.

01:22:28.380 Like, don't introduce that right away, I suppose, is my take on it.

01:22:32.020 I wouldn't.

01:22:32.740 But at that point, like, once you've been dating somebody for a while,

01:22:37.560 you're not pressed to have sex. 0.60

01:22:41.040 So then it's like, well, we might as well have sex when all the factors are as optimal as possible.

01:22:49.020 What?

01:22:50.200 Okay.

01:22:51.540 I've never ran into a man that wouldn't be okay with it, ever.

01:22:55.580 That's just the truth.

01:22:57.220 Unless I'm hooking up with them.

01:22:58.240 That could just be the.

01:22:59.180 Okay.

01:22:59.700 Well.

01:22:59.840 What?

01:23:00.340 Say it.

01:23:00.760 Nothing.

01:23:01.140 Don't worry about it.

01:23:01.660 Say it.

01:23:02.380 No, you're good.

01:23:02.840 That could just be what?

01:23:03.480 The men that I'm talking to?

01:23:04.700 Yeah, that's what I was going to say.

01:23:05.920 I have all my girlfriends, same thing.

01:23:07.960 Like, that's a turn off to them.

01:23:08.980 If you're dating someone, like, we're just talking.

01:23:11.740 It's one thing.

01:23:12.140 But if you're my boyfriend, we're talking about boyfriend.

01:23:14.540 Boyfriend's different.

01:23:15.320 What about it?

01:23:16.360 Okay.

01:23:16.800 That's just your opinion. 0.99

01:23:18.520 I'm having sex on my period. 1.00

01:23:19.600 I don't give a fuck. 1.00

01:23:20.420 You know? 0.99

01:23:21.080 What if he doesn't want to?

01:23:22.160 Are you going to be all pouty about it?

01:23:24.340 I'm just going to go in my room with my buzz buzz, and I guess I'll be okay then, too.

01:23:27.820 But, like, I mean, I'm going to be a little.

01:23:29.880 Wait. 0.99

01:23:30.120 Do you even want to masturbate when you're on your period? 0.99

01:23:32.000 If you take a shower, like, an actual shower, like, you're good for a couple, like, you know what I mean? 0.97

01:23:37.200 Like, obviously, it's not, like, and if it's a light day, like.

01:23:40.420 Can you tilt your mic or just scoot your mic that way?

01:23:42.940 Yes, sir.

01:23:43.460 Thank you.

01:23:44.220 All right.

01:23:44.480 That's cool.

01:23:45.060 Anyways, off of the blood combo, I guess.

01:23:48.840 Oh, Nick, we forgot to do the fire thing.

01:23:52.340 Yeah, let's pull it up.

01:23:53.340 By the way, guys, I meant to mention this at the beginning of the stream.

01:23:56.140 Guys, there's a freaking fire miles away from our studio.

01:24:01.340 There's been some issues with the internet connectivity.

01:24:04.960 Oftentimes, when there's fire, fires, it impacts, you know, there's sometimes rolling blackouts, this sort of thing.

01:24:12.400 So, if you guys note, right by the monitor here, right by, can I, Santa Barbara, it just shows Santa Barbara.

01:24:20.140 Yeah, yeah, right there.

01:24:21.160 That's where we're at.

01:24:22.140 The fires are just up north a little bit, so 40,000 acres.

01:24:27.900 The Gifford fire, my goodness, guys.

01:24:30.100 So, there's haze, there's smoke.

01:24:32.780 We, you know, I want you guys to be thankful of this panel.

01:24:37.440 We are all sacrificing, doing major sacrifices to put the show on.

01:24:43.840 Some of these women might not even survive the fire. 1.00

01:24:47.420 We're, we're going to keep streaming until the fire is literally outside our windows and engulfing the entire building.

01:24:55.000 Okay.

01:24:55.680 You can see the smoke.

01:24:56.660 All gas, no brakes.

01:24:58.180 Yeah, you can.

01:25:00.640 Yeah.

01:25:01.240 It's hazy.

01:25:01.900 Anyways.

01:25:02.260 And then there was also a tsunami a couple days ago, too, which was deeply, you know, it had a huge impact on the podcast.

01:25:11.360 There was the tsunami here in California.

01:25:14.380 So, you know, us here at the whatever podcast, we, the show must go on.

01:25:20.300 Must go on.

01:25:21.220 Okay, good talk, guys.

01:25:22.260 So, no.

01:25:26.440 Anybody have some, any disagreements?

01:25:28.420 I know some of you aren't super familiar with the show, but some of you have seen the show before.

01:25:32.660 Anybody have any disagreements?

01:25:33.920 Why don't we just jump into those?

01:25:35.360 Anybody?

01:25:36.320 With me, with the show, something I've said?

01:25:41.620 No?

01:25:42.000 Do I have to prompt you?

01:25:42.920 Okay.

01:25:43.640 Prompt us.

01:25:44.400 I will prompt.

01:25:47.480 Let's see.

01:25:48.120 Who did we?

01:25:52.060 Jillian, you disagree.

01:25:54.020 You write that you're moderately liberal and emotionally inclined.

01:25:57.900 Not sure what that means.

01:25:59.300 So, you tend to default towards supporting individualistic rights.

01:26:03.420 And you say you think sometimes people on the show can be quite closed-minded.

01:26:07.420 Why don't you, I guess, explain that?

01:26:09.240 Okay.

01:26:09.620 When I said people on the show can be closed-minded, I didn't only mean, like, you.

01:26:13.020 I meant just, like, everybody.

01:26:14.080 Sometimes when I hear opinions, it just means, like, I hear people and they're, like, so, like, stuck in one opinion.

01:26:19.840 I feel like I'm very much able to, like, listen to a lot of opinions and I can see both sides a lot of the time.

01:26:25.080 Okay.

01:26:26.060 I just say moderately liberal, but I would say more, like, moderate.

01:26:29.820 And I only say emotionally inclined because a lot of people put, like, I don't know, more tolerant people in a liberal category.

01:26:36.280 When I don't think necessarily I'm either one.

01:26:38.140 I'm just more tolerant, I'd say.

01:26:39.740 Okay.

01:26:40.880 What are the, when you say you support individualistic rights, what are you talking about?

01:26:48.120 Like, like, the trans debate, like, LGBTQ.

01:26:52.760 Like, even if I might not agree with everything personally, I'm still going to respect everybody's decisions and opinions.

01:27:00.860 Okay.

01:27:01.300 Is there anything specifically that you've heard on the show that maybe I've said that you disagree with?

01:27:07.600 Um, I guess not that I would say necessarily disagree with.

01:27:11.540 I've heard y'all talk about the trans debate a couple times.

01:27:13.720 Uh, me and my boyfriend were watching a, a couple of clips the other day and y'all were talking about, like, how, uh, carnal knowledge, if it was, like, a trans woman or, like, a trans man, like, does that make it, like, gay or straight?

01:27:28.940 And, like, I feel like some of them, like, I agreed with some of them, but also, like, I was, like, debating with him about it, because if you look like a man and you're presenting as a man, and let's say you're a straight man, but you're getting into it with, like, a trans man, so they were born a woman, but they present as a man, I would think you're a little bit, a little bit gay if you're, like, presenting as a man going for another man, even if they, like, were born a woman.

01:27:55.760 Does that make sense?

01:27:57.340 Wait, hold on.

01:27:58.200 So you're saying that they were born female, but they become, they're a transgender man.

01:28:04.180 Yes, so they were born female, and then they, like, transitioned to be a male, even though they have female anatomy, but if you're a man going for someone who presents as a man, that makes you kind of gay, even if they have female anatomy.

01:28:17.500 Okay, so then, by extension, a man who, or wait, hold on, a man who goes for a trans man?

01:28:26.080 Yeah.

01:28:26.440 That's usually not the framing for the argument.

01:28:28.120 The framing for the argument is a cis, I hate this term, cis man who dates a transgender woman. 0.99

01:28:38.460 That's gay. 1.00

01:28:39.380 Well, yeah, because they have male anatomy, potentially, but if it's a transgender man, they were born a woman, so they have female anatomy, which a lot of people would argue is, like, straight relationship, because they have female anatomy, but they look like a man. 0.76

01:28:56.140 So if you're a man dating someone who looks like a man, I would think you're a little bit gay, even though you're going for someone who has female anatomy, when some people would argue that's straight.

01:29:05.780 Oh, okay, I see.

01:29:06.640 So they, okay.

01:29:07.220 Wait, is it post-op? 1.00

01:29:11.540 So it's a female who has, like, a penis added. 1.00

01:29:15.560 Right. 1.00

01:29:16.620 Yeah, that would, I feel like, would make you even more gay. 1.00

01:29:18.880 Or do they still have a vagina? 1.00

01:29:18.920 Like, even if they still have a vagina, if you, like, are appearing as a man, like, let's say you have, like, facial hair, and, like, you look like you, but you have, like, a vagina, like, I would think they're a little bit gay. 1.00

01:29:28.260 I feel like they are gay. 1.00

01:29:29.400 Like, they don't even date those people. 1.00

01:29:31.180 Well, it's only because they argue that they're straight because they still have a vagina. 1.00

01:29:34.520 So they're like, I have a penis, and they have a vagina, so it's straight. 1.00

01:29:36.780 I mean, I see what you're saying. 0.99

01:29:37.620 That's typically not how the argument is framed, but I'm happy to engage with that.

01:29:40.880 So I would say that, so the actual act of having sex with that person, that wouldn't, I don't think that would be categorized strictly as a homosexual act. 0.96

01:29:55.520 You're saying the woman still has an intact, or the trans man has an intact vagina. 0.98

01:30:00.740 Okay, yeah, in this scenario, sure. 0.98

01:30:02.140 Right, so there would be some questions as to his sexuality, because he finds this masculine appearance attractive.

01:30:15.580 The specific act itself, I wouldn't categorize it as a homosexual act.

01:30:21.480 Right.

01:30:22.840 Is this person hypothetically also attracted to just straight-up men also?

01:30:28.340 I don't know, maybe, if they're attracted to straight-up men also, then they're just gay. 0.88

01:30:33.560 Right.

01:30:35.640 Yeah, so I mean, I would say that... 0.96

01:30:37.480 Gay is gay. 0.99

01:30:38.380 I would say that this... 1.00

01:30:39.980 It wouldn't fall strictly under the definition of homosexuality, because if they're aware that this person has a vagina, then... 1.00

01:30:51.240 I would, I mean, it would be pansexual. 0.91

01:30:53.480 I would not call that strictly straight, though.

01:30:56.660 Right.

01:30:56.900 But typically, my preferred framing for this is a man, so for example, me, dating a transgender woman, so somebody who was born male...

01:31:06.540 Okay. 0.99

01:31:07.180 ...and, well, they remain male, and whether they have a penis or a vagina, like the, it's not a vagina, but... 0.99

01:31:15.560 Would you think that that's straight, or would you think that that's gay? 0.99

01:31:18.940 So the other person appears feminine? 0.77

01:31:20.720 Uh, yeah, sure.

01:31:22.520 But they have...

01:31:23.100 But they have...

01:31:23.120 It's born male, and I'll even go ahead and grant that it has the... I'm not going to call it a vagina, because it's not a vagina, but it's post-operative. 0.98

01:31:31.740 I would say that's straight, then. 0.98

01:31:33.860 Yeah, how would it be straight?

01:31:35.080 Well, because they appear female, and, like, they don't have any male anatomy at that point anymore.

01:31:39.760 Like, I would say it's straight with a few extra steps. I wouldn't say it's, like, 100% straight.

01:31:44.360 Yeah, but have they... Well, I guess the easiest way to put this, what is straight short for?

01:31:51.140 Man and woman.

01:31:54.300 Like, straight, like, male... 0.68

01:31:55.800 It's straight for... Would you say it's straight for heterosexual? 0.92

01:32:00.260 Straight for heterosexual? 0.72

01:32:01.740 Straight is short-form slang for heterosexual.

01:32:05.700 Oh.

01:32:06.960 Yeah, yeah.

01:32:07.900 So heterosexual refers to the other sex or the opposite sex. 0.91

01:32:12.320 Right.

01:32:12.760 Right.

01:32:13.500 So a transgender woman is not the opposite sex.

01:32:19.180 A transgender woman is still male. 0.99

01:32:22.480 Biologically, absolutely, yes.

01:32:24.220 Right.

01:32:24.860 And so when we're talking about sexuality, we're referring to the sex in which you're attracted to,

01:32:30.020 not the gender identity in which you're attracted to.

01:32:33.160 Okay.

01:32:33.420 So if a man is engaging... 0.55

01:32:38.200 If a male is engaging in a sexual act with a male, definitionally, that would be a homosexual act. 0.97

01:32:45.220 That would be gay. 1.00

01:32:45.860 It would not be straight. 0.98

01:32:47.000 Right.

01:32:47.280 Even if their gender identity is that of a female.

01:32:51.280 Yeah, I can see what you're saying.

01:32:52.280 Because, yeah, biologically, if they're still a male, then that would be homosexual. 0.98

01:32:55.140 Yeah, it's two males having sex.

01:32:56.500 But if they, like, look female and they have no male parts, you're not doing technically anything homosexual besides just messing with someone who has different chromosomes than you? 0.70

01:33:04.820 You, no, it still definitionally would be a homosexual act. 0.78

01:33:09.840 Well, what, okay, how about this?

01:33:11.360 What about...

01:33:12.260 Why do we care?

01:33:13.660 I'm so serious.

01:33:14.460 I mean, there's a whole bunch of reasons why somebody could care.

01:33:17.440 For example, if there's, like...

01:33:18.880 Oh, there we go.

01:33:19.320 Well, if it becomes this cultural norm where, essentially, like, oh, yeah, that's 100% a woman, then, okay, I don't need to disclose to a potential partner that I'm actually male. 0.95

01:33:32.860 Well, or even going further, I actually have a penis, but I fully exterior... 0.88

01:33:37.500 To my exterior, I look like a woman. 1.00

01:33:41.040 So you can bamboozle...

01:33:42.540 They have to tell them if they...

01:33:44.220 What do you mean?

01:33:45.220 There's literally a push in this movement to basically...

01:33:47.720 No, absolutely.

01:33:48.140 So there's...

01:33:48.740 That's the thing I'm saying.

01:33:49.700 Like, in the last...

01:33:50.540 That's what I also wanted to mention is because in the last episode that I was in, there was the guy...

01:33:55.180 I don't know his name, but the religious...

01:33:57.400 He's homophobic, all the things.

01:33:58.760 And I didn't argue the topic with him because I feel like I didn't want to give it the time of day with him because he was so educated in the topic.

01:34:07.300 But I feel like it's more, like, a respect thing.

01:34:09.760 Like, these people are humans at the end of the day.

01:34:11.620 Like, when it comes to, like, our kids, leave our kids alone. 0.78

01:34:14.040 Like, kids should not be transitioning at frickin' five. 1.00

01:34:16.660 Absolutely not. 0.84

01:34:17.620 But if an adult wants to be trans... 0.99

01:34:19.320 I don't care.

01:34:20.160 Like, let them live.

01:34:20.840 Like, that's my thing.

01:34:21.460 I respect people and their opinions and their beliefs.

01:34:24.020 And I feel like if a person wants to live as a woman and I'm going to respect them as that, I'm going to call them that.

01:34:29.300 They're trying to take my womanhood, right, because they want to be a woman. 1.00

01:34:32.600 That's different.

01:34:33.240 Like, when they're trying to change us...

01:34:35.300 What was it?

01:34:35.820 Birth people or something?

01:34:37.160 Like, no, I'm a woman.

01:34:38.160 You know, like, if it's that case, like, I understand.

01:34:41.060 It's like people are taking it too far.

01:34:43.220 But also there's a level of just respecting a human as a human.

01:34:46.780 Like, this is what they want.

01:34:48.040 And it's a real thing.

01:34:49.480 It's a studied thing.

01:34:50.440 Like, the they, thems, all those things.

01:34:52.800 Yes, different.

01:34:53.280 Yeah, I acknowledge that this is a phenomenon.

01:34:56.420 Like, there are transgender people.

01:34:58.420 Nobody is denying that this is a phenomenon.

01:35:02.320 However, I think we should get back.

01:35:04.420 Like, you're trying to obfuscate a little bit away from the conversation at hand.

01:35:08.760 So do you think it's, because you're referencing, well, we should show these people respect.

01:35:12.740 Okay, has anything I've just said demonstrated a lack of respect for transgender people?

01:35:18.620 See, I think we have different opinions.

01:35:19.800 Like, I think you're not calling them a woman is disrespectful, in my opinion.

01:35:22.760 Why would that be disrespectful?

01:35:24.140 That's what I'm saying.

01:35:24.620 In my, I think, if a, like, okay, maybe that's the thing.

01:35:27.600 Like, a woman, like, down to the biology of it, like, obviously inside they're not, like, and I understand that. 0.62

01:35:33.320 Oh.

01:35:33.420 But if, hang on.

01:35:34.040 Whoa, that's really transphobic of you.

01:35:35.420 No, that's not.

01:35:36.240 It's not, because I feel like it's transphobic.

01:35:38.460 Hang on.

01:35:38.900 Let me finish my point.

01:35:39.380 Wait, your position is the same as mine, then.

01:35:41.280 No, listen.

01:35:42.300 No, because you don't, you're, you, like, are against them.

01:35:44.800 Like, aren't you against them?

01:35:45.880 Like, you don't, like.

01:35:46.200 How am I, what have I said that's against them?

01:35:47.460 That's what I'm saying.

01:35:47.980 Like, well, that's what I'm asking.

01:35:49.240 I'm saying, like, do you, would, if someone was sitting at the table, would you call them

01:35:52.840 a man instead of, like, would you say sir or call them their other name or would you

01:35:57.500 call them ma'am or her?

01:35:59.760 That's the thing.

01:36:00.140 It's about respect.

01:36:01.000 It's not about, like, at the end of the day, yes.

01:36:02.940 I would use their, I honestly, I would just use their name.

01:36:05.460 Yeah.

01:36:06.140 I would use their name, but if they were to ask me, hey, Brian, what do you think my

01:36:11.720 pronouns are?

01:36:12.620 What do you think my gender is?

01:36:14.340 What do you think my sex is?

01:36:16.300 I would not lie to them on that if they overtly asked me that question, but to at least the

01:36:21.800 extent to which I'm prepared to extend politeness would be to use, I'll use their female name. 0.97

01:36:30.360 So if they change their name to Becky, I'll go ahead and call them Becky. 0.68

01:36:34.480 I'm not going to use their, like, they legally change their name or whatever.

01:36:37.580 I'll use that name, but I'm not going to ever say that that's a she when it's a male.

01:36:45.680 Yeah, and I understand that point of view.

01:36:47.080 It's more like, because I.

01:36:48.680 To be clear, what just happened there?

01:36:51.800 Okay, hold on.

01:36:53.340 To be clear, I would specifically avoid having to use pronouns, and I would just say, instead 0.99

01:36:59.180 of saying she wants that, I would say Becky wants that.

01:37:02.620 That's the level of respect I'm willing to give.

01:37:05.900 I think that that's fair.

01:37:07.160 But now you're asking me to change my worldview to accommodate what, in my perspective, is a

01:37:13.000 mental illness.

01:37:13.660 Okay.

01:37:15.400 See, that's the thing.

01:37:16.080 I'm not even, like, it doesn't mean it is, like, I feel like it is a mental thing, too.

01:37:20.240 Like, but it's a study thing that, like, it's like, there's so many cases of it that it's

01:37:23.860 an actual thing that people feel.

01:37:25.360 Yeah, there's a lot of cases.

01:37:26.380 There's intersex people.

01:37:26.680 What about intersex people?

01:37:27.320 There's a lot of cases of schizophrenia.

01:37:29.780 I understand.

01:37:30.340 And it's a really documented thing, just because, hold on, and it's documented.

01:37:34.640 It's really well documented, and there's treatment for schizophrenia.

01:37:37.720 We don't affirm schizophrenics in their delusional beliefs.

01:37:43.520 So you think, because, so schizophrenia is one thing, but, like, just because a person

01:37:47.240 wants to be, like, that's, they feel so uncomfortable.

01:37:49.740 And then, what if, like, you say it's a mental illness, right?

01:37:52.240 And to fix this mental illness, to make them feel better, they want to wear girl clothes 1.00

01:37:56.700 and be Becky, that's not okay?

01:37:59.200 Why can't, like, if that's their antidote and their depression medication to them.

01:38:02.980 So adults are free to dress as they like.

01:38:06.320 I'm not proposing laws that should ban, like, as a man, if you want to wear a dress,

01:38:12.240 you have that freedom.

01:38:14.920 I'm not proposing laws to prevent men from wearing dresses.

01:38:19.400 However, at what point do I need to participate in your delusion?

01:38:29.380 I guess, the other thing, I don't want to admit.

01:38:31.740 I support, I don't think it's delusion.

01:38:34.140 I believe in trans people.

01:38:36.160 I think there's, it's gotten deluded.

01:38:38.480 I believe it exists.

01:38:39.160 I understand what you're saying.

01:38:39.900 I know.

01:38:40.380 I get what you're saying.

01:38:41.060 But I'm saying I think they deserve to be, I think that is respectful in that if they

01:38:45.740 think they're a woman and they want to say that they're she, I'm going to respect that. 1.00

01:38:49.560 And I also respect your opinion.

01:38:50.940 That's fine.

01:38:51.400 But I think everyone deserves respect and to live their life how they want.

01:38:54.360 So we can have a separate conversation about, like, sort of generalized trans acceptance.

01:38:59.080 But I want to bring it back to the original thing, which was dating, right?

01:39:03.340 So, okay.

01:39:04.360 Do you think that transgender people should disclose? 1.00

01:39:07.540 Yeah.

01:39:07.800 I think if they're going to be in a full-on relationship, especially if they don't have,

01:39:12.920 like, I think in general they should.

01:39:14.500 Like, I think that they should.

01:39:15.620 But I don't think if they're just starting to talk to someone, like, they don't need to

01:39:18.280 right away.

01:39:18.660 But if they're going to be in a relationship, yeah, they need to.

01:39:21.700 Same thing, I don't think it's transphobic not to date a transgender woman.

01:39:24.480 I think it's, same thing, I don't think it's fatphobic to not want to date a fat person.

01:39:27.600 It's just a type and a thing that you like.

01:39:30.160 It doesn't mean you're a horrible person because of it or whatever.

01:39:32.240 Like, that's what I'm saying, there's a respect level.

01:39:35.340 Like, you can have your own opinions and respect people at the same time.

01:39:37.520 Sure, let's do this.

01:39:38.280 What is a woman? 1.00

01:39:40.000 You know, I hate that question.

01:39:42.800 Oh.

01:39:43.500 A woman is, like, a woman is someone who was born with a cooter, I guess. 1.00

01:39:47.980 But I'm saying if they want to, I'm going to respect that.

01:39:51.340 You know what I mean?

01:39:51.780 There's a definition and there's also a respect level.

01:39:54.300 Like, I'm not going to argue on that.

01:39:56.680 But are you respecting the biology?

01:39:59.240 I always have said, that's what I'm saying, I always, like, even if I respect them, like,

01:40:03.200 I'm not going to pretend, like, obviously they were born that way.

01:40:05.760 And the inside, like, that's who they are.

01:40:07.940 But I'm not going to, like, I just respect everyone and what they want to do.

01:40:11.740 And also because I have friends who, like, are that and, like, who have transitioned during

01:40:15.180 school, like, literally came back after winter break completely different.

01:40:18.900 And it was, like, and it was when we were in middle school.

01:40:21.100 Like, before it was, like, a whole thing.

01:40:22.620 Like, now it's, like, taught in school.

01:40:24.300 And I think that's not okay.

01:40:25.100 Like, I'm not for the kids transitioning, kids learning at that age, people being able 0.77

01:40:30.040 to get on hormone.

01:40:30.860 No.

01:40:31.140 Like, after you're a certain age, like, 18 or whatever, like, you can physically do

01:40:34.860 stuff.

01:40:35.060 It's the same thing.

01:40:35.380 I wouldn't let a kid get a breast implant. 1.00

01:40:38.340 Like, what do you mean? 0.88

01:40:38.920 Like, you're not going to let, I just don't think that's ridiculous.

01:40:41.300 Do you think, do you think, what about puberty blockers?

01:40:44.580 Can they have puberty blockers?

01:40:45.160 I don't, I think.

01:40:46.460 Wait, hold on.

01:40:47.000 But that's what the transgender advocates say. 1.00

01:40:49.700 That's gender affirming care. 1.00

01:40:51.220 And they need to take puberty blockers prior to starting puberty.

01:40:54.800 Are puberty blockers reversible?

01:40:56.320 Nope.

01:40:57.260 Yeah, then I wouldn't agree with it.

01:40:58.160 They claim it is so that they, like, in furtherance of putting kids on puberty blockers.

01:41:03.760 But it's, puberty is absolutely not reversible.

01:41:06.640 Because I feel like a lot of the things, like, you know, same thing, like, you don't learn

01:41:09.760 who you are, what you want exactly.

01:41:11.540 I think the people who are transgender, like, they do know it younger, too.

01:41:15.240 But I feel like you need to experience lots of things in life to fully know what you want.

01:41:18.960 Like, some trans people don't want this operation or this operation.

01:41:22.480 You don't even know that until you're older.

01:41:23.940 So, like, why would you?

01:41:24.920 But you do realize that the transgender ideology and movement is making a massive push for,

01:41:31.640 And I don't think that's...

01:41:32.480 Hold on.

01:41:32.980 For allowing, and this is really the only time you can take puberty blockers.

01:41:37.740 So these people saying, well, you can make that decision when you're 18.

01:41:40.520 I mean, you've already pretty much gone through most of puberty or all of puberty.

01:41:44.920 So puberty blockers are typically for, I don't know the exact age when typically they get started.

01:41:49.420 I think it's maybe 11, 12, 13, 14.

01:41:51.780 Around there, that's what they're...

01:41:54.840 And they're saying, yes, this is good.

01:41:56.440 This is gender-affirming care.

01:41:58.220 Are you in favor of that?

01:41:59.940 No.

01:42:01.020 Okay.

01:42:01.460 Well, that, I mean, you're kind of in contravention of the mainstream.

01:42:06.220 Hold on, hold on.

01:42:06.920 You got to let me finish talking.

01:42:07.920 Yes, sir.

01:42:08.320 You're in contravention of the mainstream gender ideology talking points as it relates 0.75

01:42:15.280 to transgenderism.

01:42:17.040 Yeah, that's what I'm...

01:42:17.620 Like, this is something that they're genuinely...

01:42:19.460 This isn't, like, fringe transgender stuff.

01:42:22.020 It's mainstream transgender stuff letting kids take puberty blockers. 0.90

01:42:26.480 Yeah.

01:42:26.840 That's what I'm saying.

01:42:27.460 You can agree with some and not agree with others.

01:42:29.520 Yeah, to agree with that one specifically.

01:42:30.900 Yeah, I don't.

01:42:31.720 I don't think a child...

01:42:32.580 Okay, so you're against, like, the mainstream.

01:42:34.500 You're not...

01:42:35.300 You're against, like, mainstream gender-affirming care.

01:42:37.720 I'm okay...

01:42:38.140 Yes, I'm okay with a kid...

01:42:39.760 Like, if a kid wants...

01:42:40.520 If my son came to me...

01:42:41.780 Wait, you're okay with kids getting it?

01:42:44.140 Listen, listen. 0.80

01:42:45.040 So if my kid wants to wear a freaking skirt, like, I'm not going to be upset. 0.87

01:42:49.420 Like, it's like... 0.87

01:42:49.620 I'm talking about gender.

01:42:50.640 Hang on.

01:42:51.340 I'm saying there's lines to it.

01:42:52.860 Like, if you want to present yourself feminine, I'm not going to tell my kid that's... 0.96

01:42:57.240 Whatever they want to do, I'm going to let them do that.

01:42:58.840 If they want to change something about their physical selves when they're a child, like,

01:43:04.320 puberty blockers, surgeries, none of that, to me, is okay.

01:43:07.600 I think once you're an adult, or once you're, like, old enough, or, like, they were in therapy

01:43:11.260 for years and years and years, and then, like, doctors were...

01:43:14.560 Like, if they were younger and were saying it since they were younger, like, they need

01:43:18.260 to have, like, a therapist to talk to, and they, like, realize that their entire life

01:43:21.900 they felt that way, then they could do some type of surgery, but...

01:43:24.680 But, okay, so how about this?

01:43:25.680 You said you're not cool with the puberty blockers, but if you wanted to socially transition,

01:43:32.500 so they wanted to dress up, like, say you had a son, wanted to dress up like a girl, how

01:43:39.260 much would you give any pushback?

01:43:41.160 Yeah, I would make sure, like, yeah, I mean, I feel like you should talk to them, they should

01:43:44.380 go to a therapist.

01:43:45.620 Really?

01:43:46.760 Yes, I think if your kid wants to transition, like, you should... 1.00

01:43:49.840 Okay, so you have one...

01:43:51.460 The kid just goes, hey, mommy, um, I, I think I'm a girl, I want to wear a dress.

01:43:56.660 You, I would, I would...

01:43:58.020 Do they go to the therapist first, or do you just let them...

01:44:00.140 No, I would probably talk to them, and no, I would not let them dress like that right

01:44:04.320 away, it would have to be an on, like, going thing, like, every day they're asking me,

01:44:07.920 hey, I want to wear this, I want to wear this, I want to wear...

01:44:09.920 Then I would let them, if that's going to make them happy, but I'm not going to be like,

01:44:12.800 oh, you want to wear a skirt, you're allowed to wear a skirt. 1.00

01:44:14.520 No, if they want to, and they're coming to me and crying to me, like, I want to, like,

01:44:17.920 I'm not going to tell my kid they can't dye their hair, or do something, because...

01:44:21.260 Yeah, you can, you're the parent.

01:44:22.400 No, I'm saying, my, as a, what I'm worried about is if my kid's a good person, not if 0.99

01:44:26.760 they have pink fucking hair, I don't care. 1.00

01:44:28.240 Yeah, but as a parent, you still have that authority over your children to be like... 1.00

01:44:31.720 And we're talking about me, this is me, right?

01:44:32.780 Okay, that's fine, fine, you can let your 13-year-old dye their hair, that's fine.

01:44:35.800 Yeah, why, who cares?

01:44:37.120 Okay, but you're going to send them to therapy.

01:44:39.600 At one point, if they were coming to me often?

01:44:41.200 Are you going to, see, I, okay, I think you would just...

01:44:43.920 I can answer your questions.

01:44:44.660 Yeah, yeah, that's fine, but I guess the issue is, they're going to go to a therapist

01:44:48.480 who's been indoctrinated in this sort of thought, and then the therapist is going to affirm their

01:44:55.460 identity as a trans child, and of course the therapist is going to be like, well, I think

01:45:00.120 that this is the right thing to do.

01:45:01.880 Sometimes kids are just, have a phase, or they're confused.

01:45:05.200 I don't, honestly, if I was a parent, who knows, maybe your kid ends up this way, you

01:45:12.060 can wait to do anything until you're 18, but until then, no, you're not going to do 0.99

01:45:19.040 any of that shit. 0.98

01:45:19.880 Yeah, I'm talking about, like, if they were coming to me for multiple years, and it got 0.98

01:45:23.140 to a point that I felt like I wasn't educated enough to be able to talk to them about...

01:45:27.240 This is why you've got to homeschool your kids, I think.

01:45:30.720 I'm just saying what I would do, like, I wouldn't...

01:45:32.340 You're just going to get indoctrinated at the public schools in California.

01:45:34.800 Yeah, I think it's ridiculous what's happening in the schools right now, like, they're literally,

01:45:37.020 like, making kids feel like that's what they are.

01:45:39.540 Like, they're, like, you know, a kid goes to a teacher and is, like, I'm transgender.

01:45:42.540 They say, yes, you are.

01:45:43.740 No, they're not. 0.97

01:45:44.520 Like, that's ridiculous. 0.96

01:45:45.780 I think that is ridiculous. 0.97

01:45:46.640 There's points of it that are just too far, and they've taken it too far. 0.91

01:45:51.100 Like, they're...

01:45:51.540 Because it does seem sometimes this manifests out of, like, a social component where they

01:46:00.880 see something or they hear something, and then it sparks, like, an idea in their head.

01:46:05.740 I think a lot of people have the experience, many people who don't even end up being transgender

01:46:11.320 or anything, really, when they're older, have an experience of feeling uncomfortable

01:46:14.820 in their bodies when they're younger, especially when they're going through puberty.

01:46:19.120 There's all sorts of discomforts, and going to school is kind of weird, and, you know,

01:46:23.360 how to navigate friends, and, you know, you're starting to kind of get into dating and this

01:46:28.500 sort of stuff.

01:46:28.980 And then, ultimately, though, you have these feelings, and then oftentimes they pass, but

01:46:35.740 if you get going down the pipeline, you're potentially going to end up somewhere with

01:46:40.500 a full-fledged set of beliefs that were kind of implanted in you by authority figures at

01:46:46.200 the school, potentially parents who are not really aware of some of the things that are

01:46:50.960 going on, going to a therapist.

01:46:52.800 Just, why does a 13-year-old need therapy?

01:46:57.020 No, that's what I'm saying.

01:46:57.820 It's like, at that point, I think you're missed.

01:46:59.360 Like, it would be, I would be talking to them first, telling them, like, no, like, this

01:47:03.360 is what, and then if they came, if, yes, if they came, if they came to me from school and

01:47:06.920 said, mommy, I'm a girl, I'm not going to say you are a girl, like, because they're 0.99

01:47:10.600 learning that from school.

01:47:11.460 But if they were coming to me every single day, crying to me, couldn't go to sleep, like,

01:47:15.620 if that's who they felt, then I'd be like, okay, this is a little bit more serious.

01:47:18.300 I would talk, like, talk to them more, and then if they got to a point where I felt like

01:47:22.520 I needed help, like, I would go, and even I would go to maybe a family therapist, like,

01:47:25.660 where I'm sitting in there with them, talking to them, like, maybe get them actual help

01:47:28.620 to, like, either talk to them and, like, be like, why do you feel this way?

01:47:31.180 Not that you feel this way and you need to be this way.

01:47:33.600 It's more like, why do you feel this way?

01:47:35.020 Is it because your friends are telling you?

01:47:36.420 It's like, that's what I'm saying.

01:47:37.520 Instead of, like, shaming them for this feeling, it's more like putting that feeling to the side

01:47:41.600 and making sure that they, like, just feel loved and that they're, like, it's okay.

01:47:45.420 Like, but if they're saying that they want to wear pink shoes, that's a different thing.

01:47:49.160 Like, it's one thing to present yourself more feminine and wanting to be actually a female,

01:47:54.140 you know?

01:47:55.080 They're two different things.

01:47:57.900 Okay.

01:47:58.720 So, you take your potentially trans. 0.94

01:48:01.800 Actually, you know, the other thing I think is the kids that used to be goth, they're the

01:48:07.640 ones that are trans now.

01:48:09.140 I think part of it, look, there's genuinely trans people or whatever.

01:48:11.920 I think there's just people who, throughout, like, there's different time periods where

01:48:16.740 people participate in subcultures and these sorts of things.

01:48:21.440 And, like, the trans thing, that's, like, the new subculture. 0.98

01:48:24.940 Like, the goth kids from 20 years ago in the early 2000s and the late 90s, they would have

01:48:30.760 been trans.

01:48:33.220 They would have been trans. 0.92

01:48:34.240 Like, it's just, there's always going to be, like, a cohort of kids that are just, like,

01:48:38.660 kind of on the, not the outskirts, but.

01:48:42.640 Well, I think it has a lot to do with environment.

01:48:44.220 Where did you grow up?

01:48:45.020 Are you big city?

01:48:46.120 Are you small town?

01:48:47.120 Because if you go small town, you're most likely not going to have these, you know,

01:48:52.900 issues with school systems and having been programmed in an environment like that.

01:48:59.960 So, again, this is, like, you can put someone in an environment and that is going to shift

01:49:06.420 them and shift their beliefs.

01:49:08.360 So, you have to look at the environment where they're at.

01:49:11.460 For sure.

01:49:12.820 Was there any other disagreement that you had besides the trans thing?

01:49:16.220 Is it still straight for you?

01:49:17.660 That's, it's still straight?

01:49:20.080 Honestly, even then, I didn't even really disagree with you.

01:49:22.060 Like, I see what you're saying.

01:49:23.420 It was just, like, I feel like I'm more tolerant of it.

01:49:25.480 Because if someone tells me their pronouns, I'm going to respect it, whether I agree or not. 0.97

01:49:28.860 Just because I want to make them feel happy.

01:49:34.840 Like, I don't want to be disrespectful and, like, make them go home and be like, oh, that 0.90

01:49:39.440 sucks. 0.98

01:49:39.780 Like, I hate myself. 1.00

01:49:40.940 Like, I would rather just play along. 0.69

01:49:43.720 If I saw some dude holding hands, walking down the street with clearly a trans woman, 1.00

01:49:52.460 like, fucking broader shoulders than me, fucking Adam's apple, all this shit, I'm not going 1.00

01:49:57.120 to say anything. 1.00

01:49:58.180 I'm not going to sneer.

01:49:59.460 I'm just, okay, cool.

01:50:00.840 There's a trans couple or whatever.

01:50:02.240 Well, I won't say anything either, but.

01:50:03.680 But, like, in my head, I'm like, well, okay, it's a dude and a trans woman.

01:50:08.660 It's not straight.

01:50:09.580 But I'm not going to say anything.

01:50:10.940 I'm not going to do anything.

01:50:12.880 But, like, I'll say that.

01:50:13.600 But, like, if I'm having a conversation with somebody, like, two hours later, like, I'm

01:50:17.860 with, you know, I don't know, my friend, be like, yeah, that's not straight.

01:50:22.080 If we were, we probably wouldn't even talk about it.

01:50:24.720 But if we're looking at it from a bird's eye view level of, like, okay, let's just have

01:50:28.180 a conversation about what that is.

01:50:30.260 No, I would say that that's not straight.

01:50:31.680 Right.

01:50:33.180 Okay.

01:50:33.660 That's fine.

01:50:34.360 Yeah.

01:50:34.960 But I'm not, like, chasing down trans people in the street. 1.00

01:50:38.200 Like, your fucking pronouns are definitely, like, no, I don't give a shit. 1.00

01:50:42.880 I'm not going to go bother a trans person. 1.00

01:50:44.720 But, like, if we're sitting here at a table having the discussion, yeah, I'll tell you

01:50:48.560 the truth.

01:50:49.880 Oh, yeah.

01:50:50.560 Okay.

01:50:51.540 Yeah.

01:50:51.760 I just don't see how it could ever be straight.

01:50:54.320 Like, I don't see how it could be straight.

01:50:56.620 Like, okay.

01:50:57.580 Pansexual people is, like, more who dance. 1.00

01:50:58.940 Let me ask you this.

01:50:59.600 If you somehow saw, I don't know, somebody left their apartment window open and you saw 0.98

01:51:05.760 what looked to be, you saw two penises. 0.97

01:51:10.300 That's all you saw. 1.00

01:51:10.920 There were two penises and one of them was sucking the other penises. 1.00

01:51:14.860 Yes. 1.00

01:51:15.860 You would assume that that's, would you say that that was gay? 0.95

01:51:20.140 I would assume that's gay, yeah. 0.51

01:51:21.220 But then, after you see that and you've made a determination, like, whoa, that's definitely 0.98

01:51:25.780 gay. 0.97

01:51:26.060 And then they shout out the bedroom window. 0.91

01:51:28.700 So, BTW, Becky, I identify as a woman.

01:51:33.560 Do you now revise your assessment of what you just saw and categorize it as a heterosexual

01:51:39.860 act?

01:51:40.680 No.

01:51:41.600 Okay.

01:51:42.080 All right.

01:51:42.280 Good talk.

01:51:43.940 All right.

01:51:44.960 We have a super chat here.

01:51:46.660 Go ahead.

01:51:46.900 Pull it up, Nick.

01:51:47.580 Ellie, read this.

01:51:48.640 Chair, two out of 2.5, you're suggesting it's good to proliferate and normalize this ideology

01:51:54.180 while complaining about the direct effects on children caused by the ideology.

01:51:58.160 You're reducing children's expected lifespans for, quote, tolerance, acceptance, and happiness.

01:52:03.500 Thank you, Penmaker, for the soup chat.

01:52:05.000 Do you want to respond to that super quickly?

01:52:08.060 Yeah, that's why I would make sure that my kid is put in the right direction.

01:52:12.140 And I think that I'm just trying to make sure they're happy.

01:52:14.940 But you're allowed to have your opinion.

01:52:17.000 I think saying yes that they're a man or woman right when they come, that's wrong. 0.99

01:52:21.820 I think trying to take care of the problems, what you should do as a parent, and do whatever

01:52:25.080 you can to fix it.

01:52:26.980 Okay.

01:52:27.720 We have Josh Brooks.

01:52:29.000 Can you read this one?

01:52:31.320 Let's stir it up.

01:52:32.220 In your opinion, how do you think that the experiencing trauma in any aspect can and does

01:52:36.820 change arousal pathways?

01:52:38.720 What types of traumatic events would correlate with this?

01:52:41.580 Oh, with what kinks? 1.00

01:52:43.440 What's that?

01:52:44.540 Oh, anybody want to weigh in on this?

01:52:47.020 Anybody?

01:52:47.360 I feel like if you have a traumatic S.A. as a child, sometimes that in turn will, say

01:52:56.020 if you're a guy and you have a traumatic experience with another guy when you're a child, I feel

01:53:03.040 like sometimes guys will either go with other guys when they're older and have kinks with

01:53:10.440 other guys sometimes because they're turned on by that because they experienced that when

01:53:14.100 they were younger and vice versa for females. 0.71

01:53:16.860 But that's not always the case, in my opinion.

01:53:21.040 Or they are homophobic because of it.

01:53:23.320 Yeah, because they experienced that when they were a kid.

01:53:27.260 I've noticed that more with just from anecdotal evidence, like sexual aversions, not so much

01:53:33.700 kinks, but being deterred away from certain things because of experiences you've had in

01:53:37.580 your childhood or your formative years, I guess.

01:53:40.260 Mm-hmm.

01:53:41.040 I don't know.

01:53:41.600 Mm-hmm.

01:53:42.180 All right.

01:53:42.600 Cool.

01:53:42.840 Thank you, Josh Brooks.

01:53:43.520 Appreciate the message.

01:53:44.520 All right.

01:53:44.720 We're going to jump into Stifler Ask.

01:53:48.920 Ask everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of one to ten. 1.00

01:53:52.240 That's fucking stupid. 1.00

01:53:52.980 You can't pick seven. 1.00

01:53:54.760 Own looks on a scale of one to ten.

01:53:56.680 You can't pick seven. 1.00

01:53:57.720 Since you said it was stupid, you get to go first. 1.00

01:53:59.660 You did that last time. 1.00

01:54:01.740 I'm not partaking because I think this segment's stupid. 1.00

01:54:03.980 You got to partake. 1.00

01:54:04.580 No, I don't.

01:54:05.380 Yeah, you do. 1.00

01:54:05.720 Um, I'm a ten, bitch. 1.00

01:54:08.320 That's high. 1.00

01:54:09.020 Clip that.

01:54:09.780 All right. 1.00

01:54:10.200 The fat bitch says she's a ten. 1.00

01:54:11.460 Going to Ellie. 1.00

01:54:12.320 What about you?

01:54:12.960 What do you rate?

01:54:13.760 I think I'm a hard four.

01:54:17.860 Oh, my God.

01:54:18.280 A hard four?

01:54:19.260 Yeah, like a high four.

01:54:20.300 You are very pretty.

01:54:21.580 You're not a four. 0.92

01:54:22.800 What about you?

01:54:23.660 Five.

01:54:24.180 Five and a half.

01:54:25.660 Oh, my God.

01:54:26.560 I was going to say, like, right now, like an eight.

01:54:28.560 Okay.

01:54:28.980 What about you?

01:54:29.940 Um, I'd probably say, like, around a six.

01:54:32.820 Okay.

01:54:33.800 I'm going ten.

01:54:35.540 Ten.

01:54:35.940 Why would I not?

01:54:37.200 All right.

01:54:38.060 Self-confidence.

01:54:38.480 I'd say solid four or five.

01:54:40.260 Oh, my God.

01:54:41.400 Felicity?

01:54:42.500 What about you?

01:54:43.240 Well, uh, there's, we have two very confident, oh, sorry, I'm a five.

01:54:47.780 Uh, we have two very confident women at the table here. 1.00

01:54:51.280 Uh, you know, look. 1.00

01:54:54.380 This segment's so stupid. 0.99

01:54:58.100 Sorry, there's a. 0.99

01:54:58.720 You guys, I'm sorry, you guys are not tens.

01:55:03.080 That's okay.

01:55:03.800 You guys are, come on.

01:55:05.300 Come on.

01:55:05.840 Neither of you are tens.

01:55:06.920 See, like, why do you want to do that?

01:55:09.400 Like, what do you get out of this, Brian?

01:55:11.060 By making this poor woman say she's a. 1.00

01:55:13.880 No, it's just.

01:55:14.000 I didn't make her do anything.

01:55:15.180 No, that's what I'm saying.

01:55:15.720 I am not talking to me, don't worry.

01:55:17.160 No, I know, babe, but, like, you have to ask, you answer the question, and then you

01:55:19.540 have to think about it and be like, I'm a four.

01:55:20.740 You're not a four. 0.92

01:55:21.240 Like, I really.

01:55:22.260 No, I had that predetermined.

01:55:23.420 My car right over here, I was like, let me think real hard.

01:55:25.520 See, that's what I'm saying.

01:55:26.600 You wanted to.

01:55:27.320 What's up?

01:55:27.780 You wanted to win?

01:55:28.380 Um, I just feel like we should also just respect their confidence.

01:55:32.360 I feel like the number you give yourself.

01:55:34.240 I'm a confidence disrespecter.

01:55:36.960 I can sense that, yeah.

01:55:39.040 Yeah, but I feel like it also just depends in the moment, like, what you're wearing, how

01:55:45.260 you feel.

01:55:46.360 Or are we rating holistically?

01:55:48.660 Like, natural beauty or?

01:55:50.300 Just looks.

01:55:51.140 Just looks.

01:55:51.820 It's like, well, looks.

01:55:53.060 That's what I said right now.

01:55:53.400 Looks can be optics, too.

01:55:55.160 And maybe, maybe you're, like, looking real good on this show based off what you say.

01:55:59.980 And that can be looks.

01:56:02.200 Keep going, though.

01:56:02.900 You had more?

01:56:03.320 Um, I just feel like, like Ellie had said, it's completely based off the day and your,

01:56:10.960 how you're dressed, whether you've done your makeup or not.

01:56:13.720 Like, honestly, if, like, when I'm going to bed, like, if I take off my lashes and all

01:56:18.620 my makeup, I don't necessarily feel like a 10.

01:56:21.920 I would be like, okay, well, this is, yes, this is my natural beauty, but this is not,

01:56:27.560 like, what I would call my peak.

01:56:29.720 Um, so you've, you have felt like a 10 before.

01:56:34.840 Yes.

01:56:36.360 Okay.

01:56:37.200 But right now you said you, you feel like a six.

01:56:39.580 Yeah.

01:56:40.020 Okay.

01:56:40.320 What, what could you do?

01:56:41.880 Like, if you had more time, I guess, to put on makeup or do you have fake lashes right

01:56:47.060 now?

01:56:47.260 Yeah, I do.

01:56:47.760 You have them on right now?

01:56:48.720 Yeah.

01:56:48.840 Okay.

01:56:49.020 So those are already there.

01:56:50.180 Is there, like, anything you could do in 30 minutes to up, up it a little bit?

01:56:54.620 Or not really?

01:56:55.620 Honestly, yeah.

01:56:56.380 Like, I kind of ran over here and I only did, like, blush and concealer and it's, but

01:57:01.640 if I were to do a full face, I probably would feel a lot better confidence wise.

01:57:06.420 Okay.

01:57:07.260 Um, so to the two 10s at the table, here's what I'd like. 0.98

01:57:10.660 Uh, so here's what we're going to do.

01:57:12.860 Can you tell me a woman who's like a celebrity who you think is a 10? 1.00

01:57:19.780 That's the thing.

01:57:20.440 Like, I don't even know.

01:57:22.220 I don't know.

01:57:22.460 We'll start with you since you like to take forever to get to the point.

01:57:25.800 Uh, just tell us a female celebrity who you think is a 10. 1.00

01:57:28.820 I don't know names like that.

01:57:30.300 Megan Fox.

01:57:31.340 Megan Fox.

01:57:32.140 Maybe young Megan Fox. 1.00

01:57:33.720 That's a good one.

01:57:34.040 I don't know.

01:57:35.280 When she was in the Transformers movies or something.

01:57:38.300 I don't know.

01:57:38.580 Yeah.

01:57:39.060 Megan Fox.

01:57:39.820 Okay.

01:57:40.400 I would say Megan Fox.

01:57:41.440 She's a... 0.94

01:57:41.880 Megan Fox.

01:57:42.720 You agree with Megan Fox?

01:57:44.500 She's like a 10. 1.00

01:57:45.540 Okay.

01:57:46.720 So, to be clear, Megan Fox 10, you 10, you 10.

01:57:52.560 So, just your...

01:57:53.360 I'm in Megan Fox 10.

01:57:53.820 The entailment of your position is, you guys are prepared to say that you're just as attractive

01:57:58.540 as Megan Fox?

01:58:00.140 Okay.

01:58:00.700 That wasn't the question.

01:58:02.720 Well, you said you're a 10.

01:58:05.580 You said you're a 10.

01:58:06.720 You said Megan Fox is a 10.

01:58:08.260 I know you guys look differently.

01:58:09.660 There's no dispute there.

01:58:10.960 But you're just as attractive as Megan Fox. 1.00

01:58:14.640 That's not what I said.

01:58:16.000 That's not what I said.

01:58:17.080 Well, hold on.

01:58:18.160 If...

01:58:18.360 I...

01:58:19.540 Logically, that would follow.

01:58:22.880 I know.

01:58:23.480 But you...

01:58:23.920 That's what I'm saying.

01:58:24.520 You answered that question.

01:58:25.480 Like, the last time I answered it.

01:58:26.540 Like, you were saying, oh, if you're a 10, then that means I'm like...

01:58:30.040 If I was going after you, that means I'm like sacrificing or whatever.

01:58:32.980 What did you say earlier?

01:58:33.660 Like, I'm not saying...

01:58:34.520 No, I asked...

01:58:34.720 Here, rate me.

01:58:35.840 What do you rate me on a scale of 1 to 10?

01:58:38.200 I'm not gonna...

01:58:38.780 I don't like rating people.

01:58:40.020 You won't hurt my feelings.

01:58:41.060 Go ahead.

01:58:41.860 I don't want to rate you.

01:58:42.920 What did...

01:58:43.220 Did she rate...

01:58:43.780 What did she rate me before?

01:58:44.560 I rated you like a 6 last time, but that's because you rate everyone else.

01:58:47.840 Like, what size...

01:58:48.160 I don't rate people.

01:58:49.060 No, unless people ask me.

01:58:50.600 Then you rate...

01:58:51.100 I won't.

01:58:51.620 Yes.

01:58:51.740 Otherwise, I don't...

01:58:52.460 I'm not gonna give you a number.

01:58:53.640 Okay.

01:58:54.180 But I will...

01:58:54.900 I will say that...

01:58:56.720 I will...

01:58:57.620 Say you're not a 10.

01:58:58.740 Say you're not a 10.

01:58:59.580 Yeah.

01:58:59.960 Or not a...

01:59:00.440 Like, that thing...

01:59:01.160 I don't think...

01:59:01.700 Like, I'm not saying that I'm as attractive as me.

01:59:03.760 Like, it's...

01:59:04.160 I don't even want to put a number on...

01:59:05.280 I don't think women should put a number on their attractiveness. 1.00

01:59:08.300 But then, I guess the logical conclusion of you're a 10, I'm a 6, from your perspective

01:59:12.680 is that you would be settling for me.

01:59:16.300 That's what you said.

01:59:17.140 That's what I'm saying.

01:59:18.120 Right.

01:59:18.300 But that's your...

01:59:18.980 That would have to be your position.

01:59:20.560 That's what I'm saying.

01:59:21.400 You're...

01:59:21.720 It's deeper.

01:59:22.360 It's not as deep.

01:59:23.400 Like...

01:59:23.620 Right.

01:59:23.640 I...

01:59:23.960 Okay.

01:59:24.180 Hold on.

01:59:24.660 I get that there's other components to what makes somebody attractive in totality.

01:59:28.980 Like, there's personality.

01:59:30.420 There's other factors.

01:59:31.540 But just on the looks component, the looks paradigm, that is sort of your position, essentially,

01:59:37.120 is that at least looks-wise, you would be settling for me.

01:59:40.400 Yeah. 0.95

01:59:40.620 Like I said last time, I said I was a 10 just to piss off them, because it's funny, a fat 0.92

01:59:44.020 girl saying they're a 10. 0.88

01:59:44.900 Well, I think that's your genuine position.

01:59:46.700 You think I'm...

01:59:47.080 I think I'm a 10.

01:59:47.720 Like...

01:59:48.040 That's what you think.

01:59:48.500 Like I said last time, I think that...

01:59:50.480 Like I said, I can also...

01:59:52.100 Okay, I think if you're in a room with your guy friends, and you're like, oh, that girl

01:59:55.300 like I talked to, she's like a 7 or whatever. 0.74

01:59:57.320 Like, I think in social...

01:59:58.560 Like, that's...

01:59:59.100 Like, obviously, you're going to rate them.

02:00:00.700 Like, if they asked you how attractive were they, you're going to be like, oh, they were

02:00:03.980 a 7.

02:00:04.540 I'm saying in this format, like making women have to, like, think of what they are, I 0.97

02:00:08.660 just don't like that.

02:00:09.160 Yeah.

02:00:09.640 I ranked myself, too.

02:00:11.300 And that's fine.

02:00:11.720 I'm saying I don't like it, so that's why I say I'm a 10, because I want to opt out of the

02:00:14.580 conversation, because I don't like a woman having to think and put a number on their 1.00

02:00:17.980 self-value and their looks.

02:00:19.660 I just don't like that.

02:00:20.480 But I think it's okay to use a rating system if you're, like, a modeling agent trying to

02:00:24.780 find a sexy person on Vogue.

02:00:26.280 Like, it's okay.

02:00:27.720 Yeah.

02:00:27.920 I mean, well, so it's a dating podcast, so there is a reason why this is asked.

02:00:31.180 And it actually has really practical applications when it comes to dating.

02:00:36.340 So if you're moving through the dating world with a sort of, let's say...

02:00:42.240 I mean, fine.

02:00:42.740 I'll just say delusional perspective on your own attractiveness and your own self-assessment.

02:00:48.600 I guess that's cool that you're confident.

02:00:51.340 Although I would argue the confident position would just be, like, being able to make a reasonable

02:00:57.300 self-determination as to where you stand in comparison to other people.

02:01:01.620 So I think that's actually more confident than just being, like, yeah, I'm, like...

02:01:07.840 I don't know.

02:01:08.360 I know.

02:01:08.600 I agree.

02:01:08.980 I agree.

02:01:09.520 I think it's confident to, like, be able to be realistic as well.

02:01:12.480 But I'm just saying I don't, like...

02:01:14.780 When we go around the table, it makes me sad when a girl, like, has to be, like, I'm a...

02:01:17.600 Like, that makes me so sad.

02:01:18.700 Why would that make you sad?

02:01:19.620 Because that's what I'm saying.

02:01:20.720 Don't you see in my perspective, too?

02:01:22.120 Like, having...

02:01:22.900 Like, that's what I'm saying.

02:01:23.480 Like, having a woman have to be, like, wow, in this life, I'm a four. 1.00

02:01:26.720 Like, she's not a four. 0.64

02:01:27.840 Like, for her to feel that way...

02:01:29.040 I think she underrated herself, but...

02:01:30.800 Okay, but that's what I'm saying.

02:01:31.360 Like, even having to, like...

02:01:32.420 They're going to have to...

02:01:33.380 Because it's live, and they're, like, worried what they're going to say.

02:01:36.440 They're going to obviously say I'm lower than what they feel.

02:01:39.060 No, not all the time.

02:01:40.100 Some people...

02:01:40.120 I'm saying most girls will.

02:01:41.820 No.

02:01:42.320 Every time I'm watching the show, these girls... 1.00

02:01:44.040 I think women tend to overrate themselves on the show. 1.00

02:01:48.560 Sometimes women do underrate themselves, too. 1.00

02:01:52.180 But frequently...

02:01:53.260 Are you saying if they don't give themselves a 10, they're underrating themselves?

02:01:57.860 Sorry, say it again?

02:02:00.060 If they don't give them a 10...

02:02:00.640 Well, because you're saying all these girls underrate themselves. 1.00

02:02:02.840 But are you saying if the girl doesn't just immediately knee-jerk give herself a 10, are 0.96

02:02:08.140 you saying that that would be underrating herself? 0.57

02:02:09.360 I really don't think everyone is, like...

02:02:11.480 Like, if we're talking realistic, it's like not everyone's a 10.

02:02:14.240 You know what I mean?

02:02:14.600 But, like, you're allowed to think you're a 10.

02:02:16.440 Like, why don't you want a girl to think that, like, about themselves? 0.98

02:02:18.780 Like, that's what pisses me off more is, like, if a girl thinks they're a 10, I'm not

02:02:22.640 going to argue with that with them.

02:02:23.500 They deserve to feel...

02:02:24.800 If they're even DeLulu, if you're DeLulu and you're a 10, and when you're a 1, go off

02:02:29.460 queen.

02:02:29.960 Like, that's what I'm saying. 0.99

02:02:30.900 Like, a woman is allowed to feel however the fuck they want. 1.00

02:02:33.580 And I think in the dating space, even if they think that, like, who cares? 0.99

02:02:37.720 Like, I just...

02:02:38.460 Who cares?

02:02:39.000 Let's live.

02:02:39.820 Oh, sure.

02:02:40.400 I'll...

02:02:40.760 But I'll tell you...

02:02:42.260 You say they should be allowed to do this.

02:02:44.080 I suppose, yes, anybody can think anything, right?

02:02:47.240 But I can tell you the negative manifestations, since we're talking about manifestation.

02:02:53.020 Tell me a guy who you think is a 10.

02:02:57.900 I don't know.

02:02:59.200 Like, Zac Efron in the...

02:03:01.700 Back in the days.

02:03:02.440 I don't really know names like that, but...

02:03:03.600 Okay, Zac Efron, can you give me a guy who's a 10?

02:03:06.620 Oh, God.

02:03:10.700 Maybe, like, Cristian Rinaldi?

02:03:12.740 Rinaldo?

02:03:13.240 The soccer guy?

02:03:14.200 The soccer player.

02:03:14.940 Yes.

02:03:15.260 Okay.

02:03:15.900 So, perfect.

02:03:17.980 He's, I guess, a good-looking guy.

02:03:21.320 He's a professional athlete.

02:03:22.700 He's in really good shape.

02:03:24.020 He's one of the most famous...

02:03:26.360 Isn't he the most followed person on Instagram or something?

02:03:29.400 Super famous, top-tier soccer player, status, rich, all this stuff.

02:03:34.700 Just curious.

02:03:35.980 Do you think, you know, he's a 10, you're a 10.

02:03:39.240 Do you think you could get Cristiano Ronaldo?

02:03:42.460 Yes, you could.

02:03:45.260 Would I want that?

02:03:49.360 I mean, what do you mean, would you?

02:03:51.680 Yeah.

02:03:52.860 Do you?

02:03:53.860 No.

02:03:54.380 You're single.

02:03:55.400 No.

02:03:55.600 So, just to be clear, Cristiano Ronaldo, who meets your criteria for what a 10 is, what about him do you dislike?

02:04:03.220 He's married.

02:04:04.360 Well, okay.

02:04:04.960 Hold on.

02:04:06.160 Assuming he was single.

02:04:09.840 Yeah, maybe.

02:04:10.780 Yeah.

02:04:11.160 I don't know him personally.

02:04:12.720 I would love to get to know him.

02:04:15.300 Assuming his personality was good enough.

02:04:21.020 Would I pursue him?

02:04:26.380 Sure.

02:04:28.560 Possibly.

02:04:29.640 Okay.

02:04:30.220 Possibly, yeah.

02:04:31.200 So, do you think you could get him?

02:04:32.560 Hmm.

02:04:34.200 I guess I wouldn't.

02:04:34.640 Let's say he was single.

02:04:35.420 Like, let's say you wanted him.

02:04:38.040 Whatever the determinations are for what you want in a guy.

02:04:42.360 And he was single.

02:04:44.260 Do you think you could get him?

02:04:46.320 I mean, that's, it's a really hard question, just because I don't know him.

02:04:56.400 And it takes, like.

02:04:57.080 Let's assume you were able to meet him, though.

02:04:59.280 And I got to like him and his personality, and it's someone that I think I would, could

02:05:05.880 see myself with, then I would.

02:05:09.360 So, let's assume it's caked into the, baked into the hypothetical, that you're attracted

02:05:16.020 to him, and the other components are there for, the other criteria is there for what it

02:05:24.380 would take for you to be willing to date him.

02:05:27.400 The question is, then, do you think, assuming you wanted him, that you could get him?

02:05:37.600 Hmm.

02:05:39.360 Probably not.

02:05:42.000 Why is that?

02:05:43.440 Um, I just, that's not my world.

02:05:47.380 I didn't, I'm not, I'm not out there.

02:05:49.780 I'm not in the.

02:05:50.700 Let's assume you met him.

02:05:52.160 You had an opportunity to meet him.

02:05:54.600 Could you get him?

02:05:58.380 I think that's an unrealistic question to ask me if I could get someone.

02:06:01.960 He lives on the planet.

02:06:03.940 I mean.

02:06:04.680 Yeah, but without, you're asking a question that I don't, we don't know each other.

02:06:09.020 If I, if I, you're, you're asking solely based on what I see from a physical perspective,

02:06:16.320 which is not everything.

02:06:19.480 Okay.

02:06:19.960 Here, let's bake this into the hypothetical then, too.

02:06:22.640 You know, he responds to his Instagram DMs.

02:06:26.900 Do you think if you slid into his DMs that you could get him?

02:06:31.160 I, no, I wouldn't be that person sliding into his DMs.

02:06:35.400 No.

02:06:35.880 Mm-hmm.

02:06:37.800 Okay.

02:06:38.680 He was here in Santa Barbara and you ran into him.

02:06:44.880 Do you think you could get him?

02:06:45.920 Again, if, if I could get to know this guy, maybe.

02:06:56.000 I don't know.

02:06:56.780 You're asking a question that I feel is it takes time to get to know someone.

02:07:00.820 I don't know if I would like him.

02:07:02.400 It's baked in that he meets your other criteria for personality.

02:07:07.840 So, it's assumed that you, you like him.

02:07:13.280 You talk to him.

02:07:15.440 Could you get him, though?

02:07:16.900 Isn't that, I mean, this would also depend on if he has reciprocal feelings towards me.

02:07:30.980 So, it's not just me.

02:07:32.840 Do you think he would have those reciprocal feelings?

02:07:35.420 I have no idea.

02:07:35.740 That would, that would be like such a question you would have to ask him.

02:07:39.860 Why would, why would you assume that I would know that?

02:07:43.260 Because it's a, it's a hypothetical.

02:07:44.840 Well, then, anything is hypothetical, right?

02:07:49.980 Right, but I'm asking you a specific hypothetical.

02:07:53.200 Hypothetically, yeah.

02:07:54.800 Yeah, hypothetically speaking, then.

02:07:56.960 Sure, I could get him.

02:08:02.100 Okay.

02:08:05.840 All right.

02:08:11.980 What's up, Nick?

02:08:13.540 The right camera got slightly.

02:08:15.820 When she got up?

02:08:17.080 Yeah.

02:08:18.500 Mine?

02:08:19.140 Yeah.

02:08:19.800 Oh, it looks okay.

02:08:21.060 I think it's fine.

02:08:21.660 Yeah, it's not too bad.

02:08:22.440 Yeah, it looks okay.

02:08:24.560 All right.

02:08:27.000 So, okay.

02:08:27.840 Rinaldo, Zac Efron.

02:08:29.840 Yeah, look.

02:08:31.180 So, I guess the, the reason why I say it does have this impact is,

02:08:37.300 you're going to be chasing after a certain caliber of guy if you can't make a self-assessment about your own position.

02:08:49.180 So, essentially, and this is where, because as a guy, I could be delusional, but I get slapped in the face immediately.

02:08:58.160 Now, not literally, but I get slapped in the face with reality.

02:09:01.720 So, the difference is, if I step to a girl outside of my league, and I'm assuming I'm pleasant, and I make myself sexually available to her, instant rejection.

02:09:14.760 Instant rejection.

02:09:17.740 A woman who's outside of my league doesn't entertain me for anything. 1.00

02:09:21.980 I don't get a conversation.

02:09:23.560 I don't get a date.

02:09:24.800 I don't get a dinner.

02:09:26.560 I don't get a one-night stand.

02:09:29.160 I don't get strung along for a couple weeks or months in a situationship where she's just using me for sex. 1.00

02:09:34.760 This doesn't happen, even if I'm pleasant and making myself sexually available to her.

02:09:40.280 Women, on the other hand, you can be pleasant and make yourself sexually available to a man outside of your league, 1.00

02:09:50.400 and he will absolutely keep you around for sex. 0.97

02:09:57.160 He'll keep you around for sex. 0.86

02:09:59.120 You're not going to get commitment, so it could just be a one-night stand.

02:10:02.400 It could just be situationship.

02:10:05.240 It could be a friends with benefits, maybe a couple weeks, a couple months.

02:10:08.360 You're not going to get commitment.

02:10:10.040 He's going to be seeing other women.

02:10:13.120 So, this is the differential here.

02:10:16.180 So, when women have not made a determination of where they stand when it comes to dating, 0.99

02:10:22.260 they're going to think, oh, I deserve this caliber of guy.

02:10:26.400 And that caliber of guy will give you short-term sex or short-term something.

02:10:33.260 But if what you want is commitment, you're not going to get it.

02:10:37.780 And then, all the while, you're going to be looking at guys who are actually on your level,

02:10:42.900 and you've now, you've been used to a certain caliber of guy.

02:10:46.740 The guy who's on your level, who you should be matching up with,

02:10:50.540 who, that's the guy who's willing to give you commitment because you're on his level.

02:10:56.400 You're going to think that that guy's below you.

02:10:59.520 So, you're going to ignore him.

02:11:01.860 You're going to ignore the guy who's actually going to give you a relationship.

02:11:05.260 You're going to keep chasing after these super attractive guys. 0.88

02:11:08.220 And it could be attractive, not just looks.

02:11:10.000 It could be socioeconomic.

02:11:11.900 It could be status.

02:11:12.940 It could be wealth.

02:11:15.120 Whatever it is.

02:11:16.600 It could even be personality-driven.

02:11:18.240 You're going to be chasing after these dudes who won't give you commitment. 1.00

02:11:21.360 So, that's why it's important to know where you stand because it's really easy for y'all to go and fuck the hot fuckboy guy. 0.99

02:11:31.660 He's not going to give you commitment. 0.99

02:11:34.020 And then, you're going to curve the guys who are actually on your league, in your level.

02:11:38.580 On your level.

02:11:39.540 That's what you're saying, though.

02:11:40.700 That's exactly what I...

02:11:41.740 Okay, let me ask you guys a question.

02:11:43.420 Hold on.

02:11:43.700 So, I'll paint it like this.

02:11:47.520 If I can sleep with a girl, I have a really high confidence level. 0.95

02:11:50.840 I can get her into a relationship. 0.92

02:11:53.140 Really high confidence.

02:11:54.460 Not all...

02:11:54.920 You know, maybe not all the time.

02:11:56.540 But really confident.

02:11:58.200 Any girl that I can sleep with, I can get her into a relationship. 1.00

02:12:02.400 How confident are you that the guys that you can sleep with want a relationship with you?

02:12:09.640 Well, I think asking me and asking a skinny person is a little bit different because in the fat world, like, I am a higher caliber fat girl.

02:12:19.920 I mean, I take care of myself.

02:12:21.320 I'm always dressed nice.

02:12:24.520 Because in that world, like, there is people who...

02:12:27.340 Fat people who don't take care of themselves and don't do so, obviously. 0.56

02:12:29.540 Like, in that world, like, I'm dating people who are really attractive. 0.80

02:12:34.060 Like, that's what I'm saying.

02:12:35.120 Like, you say that it shouldn't be accessible to me, but it is.

02:12:37.440 Like, that's what I'm saying.

02:12:38.120 Like, am I not supposed to date the hot person just because you don't think I'm, like, a 10?

02:12:42.100 Like, you know what I mean?

02:12:42.660 Like...

02:12:42.860 I mean, if you can get commitment, then go for it.

02:12:44.880 I've dated multiple...

02:12:46.800 That's what...

02:12:47.120 There's so many men who are... 0.60

02:12:48.140 Okay, dating...

02:12:49.140 Okay.

02:12:50.400 You're saying commitment is, like, a ring on the finger, not, like, dating, holding my hand in public kind of stuff?

02:12:54.640 I mean, it could be an exclusive boyfriend-girlfriend situation.

02:12:57.800 The ultimate commitment would be marriage or some other form of, you know, similar sort of commitment.

02:13:03.400 Yeah, I mean, I think it's just that view is a little, I don't know, outreached.

02:13:11.080 Like, I feel like I'm allowed to...

02:13:12.720 If someone thinks I'm hot and they're a 10, like, who cares? 0.95

02:13:15.380 Like, I'm allowed to date them.

02:13:16.700 And that happens very often.

02:13:18.480 Like, there's people who are different attractive levels that date.

02:13:22.300 Like, that's okay.

02:13:23.320 Like, it's okay to date someone who's not as attractive to you.

02:13:25.900 And I don't think that, like, skews your view on, like, your self-worth.

02:13:29.860 Like, I know, like, if I had to tell someone what my number was, I could realistically say that because I'm also, like, not stupid.

02:13:36.700 But I don't think me feeling like I'm a 10 also makes me not be able to, like, realize that this is my league or whatever.

02:13:43.200 Like, I think you're allowed to date out your league, too.

02:13:44.880 Like, if you want the hot Victoria's Secret model, why can't you want that? 0.95

02:13:47.860 Like...

02:13:48.220 Well, there's a difference.

02:13:49.380 And that doesn't skew your...

02:13:50.700 Well, because you're a man?

02:13:51.460 Absolutely.

02:13:51.860 Well, hold on.

02:13:52.220 So, you don't think you...

02:13:53.560 Okay, you genuinely don't think it would skew men's perspective if this dynamic was flipped. 0.99

02:13:59.520 So, for example, let's say it was the case that average-looking men, average guys, could fuck top-tier women. 0.99

02:14:07.540 But those top-tier women only wanted those average guys for sex. 1.00

02:14:11.920 And then those average women were kind of getting pushed out of dating, like, the marketplace a little bit. 0.97

02:14:19.300 The average women, because the average men, on their level, were dating up and just...

02:14:24.880 Well, not...

02:14:25.380 Excuse me.

02:14:25.780 Not dating up.

02:14:26.520 They were getting their sexual needs and they were chasing these really attractive women.

02:14:32.840 You don't think that that would skew?

02:14:34.500 Like, if I could... 0.99

02:14:35.260 For example, if I or other guys or frat guys at UCSB could just run through fucking beautiful model-tier women, 1.00

02:14:43.620 why would they ever get into a relationship with an average girl? 0.99

02:14:48.640 Why?

02:14:49.300 Yeah, I get what you're saying.

02:14:50.600 But I'm saying, why is it a problem?

02:14:52.180 Like, what's your...

02:14:53.000 Like, if they can do that, do that.

02:14:54.980 Like, I don't think they need to think of, like, oh, this is messing up the women's dating and the men's dating. 0.99

02:14:59.500 Like, I don't think that deeply.

02:15:00.900 Like, you're allowed to date whoever you want without it being, like, a statistic.

02:15:04.600 Like, do you know what I'm saying?

02:15:05.700 But so, that's not happening, though.

02:15:09.100 So, the reverse of what I just explained is happening.

02:15:12.840 You have women, typically average women or above average women, who do have access to the most attractive men.

02:15:20.640 And those men are typically, like, just running through girls.

02:15:24.320 They're dating, like, 10 different women at the same time.

02:15:28.080 They've got a roster.

02:15:29.080 And some women move that way, too. 1.00

02:15:31.020 But they're just dating all the other attractive guys also.

02:15:33.780 So, you have, like, a cohort of men who are zeroed out when it comes to dating a little bit.

02:15:39.560 And so, if it was the case that you had average, like, we flipped the roles, average men. 0.99

02:15:44.580 Imagine from the age of 18 to 30, average-looking dudes refused to commit to women and have relationships because they were out-fucking models. 0.99

02:15:54.200 But the models didn't want any. 1.00

02:15:55.680 They just wanted to fuck the guys a couple times. 1.00

02:15:57.900 That's what's happening, but with women. 1.00

02:15:59.980 So, it's like, okay, you would agree, though, if average dudes could just fuck a bunch of hot women but they could never get commitment from them, you would agree that these guys would be far less inclined to, like, go ahead and get into a relationship with, like, their looks equivalent? 0.80

02:16:18.780 No, because I think people, like, even women have, like, times in college that they're, you know, having fun and doing stuff with people out of their league, in their league, whatever. 0.76

02:16:28.840 And then, at one point, the person that they marry is usually, like, someone around their, like, common interest or common whatever.

02:16:34.740 Like, I don't think.

02:16:35.680 That's exactly what's happening.

02:16:37.060 I understand, but I'm saying.

02:16:38.080 That's a terrible thing, though.

02:16:39.080 Yeah, but I'm saying you can't stop it.

02:16:41.400 It's going to keep happening.

02:16:42.720 Like, why? 0.99

02:16:43.280 Like, who cares if someone's fucking someone is a 10 and they're a 5? 0.99

02:16:46.560 Like, I just don't care, and I don't think it's affecting everything else. 0.99

02:16:49.800 Sure, I can.

02:16:50.420 I mean, I think I can tell you why.

02:16:52.380 So, have you ever dated a guy and then he did not measure up to a previous guy you done dealt with?

02:17:01.420 Yes.

02:17:02.800 And did that have an impact on him?

02:17:04.220 I'm talking about looks or everything.

02:17:05.700 It could be anything.

02:17:06.880 Then, yes.

02:17:07.340 But it could also be looks.

02:17:09.080 Okay.

02:17:10.260 Right.

02:17:11.580 And did that have an impact on that relationship?

02:17:16.020 No, because I don't.

02:17:17.060 Really?

02:17:17.600 That's what I'm saying.

02:17:18.300 I think it's, I'm a different person.

02:17:19.560 Like, I just don't think that that's what I'm saying.

02:17:21.200 Like, I don't, if I'm dating a hot person, it doesn't mean I'm not.

02:17:23.940 Like, I would date anyone. 0.96

02:17:25.020 Like, I don't care if they don't have a freaking left arm. 0.99

02:17:26.720 Does somebody else want to fucking weigh in? 1.00

02:17:28.420 Holy fuck. 1.00

02:17:29.480 You're mad that I'm middle ground? 1.00

02:17:32.740 Well, you've been hogging the mic a little bit.

02:17:34.960 You're talking to me.

02:17:36.160 Well, no, this was a generalized question for the panel.

02:17:39.080 Okay, go ahead.

02:17:39.720 The hottest guys, I feel like, though, they, you're, you don't want those guys as a long

02:17:46.440 term because they're the most, they're the ones that tend to have the most trauma and

02:17:51.860 the most baggage.

02:17:53.460 And that's why they end up with other people that are in the same, other women that are in 0.99

02:17:59.640 the same boat as them.

02:18:00.860 Is that your opinion or like, is that a statistic that hot guys have trauma and baggage?

02:18:06.280 It's been my, it's been my personal experience.

02:18:10.740 So the hotter they are, the more baggage they bring to the table.

02:18:13.500 And they could say that about women as well.

02:18:15.660 And I know they do.

02:18:16.580 And that's not fair.

02:18:17.540 But at some point, yeah, the average man will go look for the average woman because he doesn't 0.98

02:18:27.080 want to deal with the hot girls bullshit because that's, they're, they're just average guys 0.98

02:18:32.320 don't have access to hot women. 1.00

02:18:34.400 Yes, they do.

02:18:35.100 No, yes, they do.

02:18:36.480 How so?

02:18:37.060 Explain it to me.

02:18:38.680 Maybe not asked much, but look, I've already.

02:18:43.020 Okay.

02:18:43.320 Here's the differential.

02:18:44.900 Here's the differential.

02:18:46.280 Let me ask you guys a question.

02:18:47.540 Who here has had a, like a one night stand?

02:18:50.420 No shame.

02:18:51.340 Who's had a one night stand?

02:18:52.800 I've had a one night stand.

02:18:53.820 Who's had a one night stand?

02:18:54.960 Isn't one night stand you never talked to him again?

02:18:56.680 Okay.

02:18:56.960 You hooked up with a guy. 0.99

02:18:58.460 Nobody really fucking liars. 0.99

02:19:00.240 Okay. 0.97

02:19:00.920 So anyways, here's, here's, I look, I know some of you haven't, but here's the difference

02:19:06.940 is as a woman, if you are inclined towards having a one night stand, if you're

02:19:13.220 If you are going to break your rules and you are going to be like, yeah, well, I kind

02:19:17.880 of prefer like something a bit more serious, but, oh, he's really hot.

02:19:22.980 I'm going to just hook up with him.

02:19:24.680 Whatever.

02:19:25.700 That's the way women swords tend to lean. 1.00

02:19:28.840 If you are going to have a hookup, he better at least be really hot.

02:19:33.360 Men operate differently. 0.95

02:19:35.060 Men, if we're just having a hookup, men just want to, I mean, obviously you want to get

02:19:42.260 the best, the hottest you can get, but men will go down in order to get said hookup. 1.00

02:19:48.460 Whereas women will be way more selective when it comes to who they're going to hook up with. 1.00

02:19:53.020 So there's even a differential there.

02:19:55.420 Where like men, like average women, average men are not like just constantly able to get

02:20:03.200 access to women outside of their league.

02:20:07.220 Maybe not constantly, but it does happen.

02:20:09.960 It does happen.

02:20:11.000 Absolutely.

02:20:11.580 If you're funny and nice, it'll happen.

02:20:14.120 Okay.

02:20:14.340 But now you're introducing, okay.

02:20:15.900 What percentage of men are funny? 0.97

02:20:18.580 Uh, like what, like, I don't know, maybe like 60%.

02:20:23.320 60%?

02:20:24.880 A lot of men are not funny.

02:20:26.820 Are, are funny or are not funny?

02:20:28.180 Are, are not funny.

02:20:28.960 60% are not funny.

02:20:30.300 No.

02:20:30.600 Okay.

02:20:30.940 60% are funny just because I, okay.

02:20:32.860 Like my sense of, I can find a lot of things funny.

02:20:35.600 The only thing I don't find funny are like overly like racist jokes or overly like homophobic

02:20:39.740 jokes, which I feel like a lot of men rely on for their humor.

02:20:42.040 And that's not funny.

02:20:43.680 Like have more substance.

02:20:46.100 Okay.

02:20:46.460 So men aren't funny because they're just doing homophobic jokes.

02:20:50.640 Is that, well, if they, if that's all they rely on, then yeah, that's not funny.

02:20:54.180 Okay.

02:20:54.220 So then most men aren't funny.

02:20:55.360 Then if you're saying that they all rely on like, I didn't say they all do.

02:20:58.160 I said like, if you do rely on that, you're not funny, but I do feel like a lot of men

02:21:01.700 that I've met don't just rely on that.

02:21:03.300 So that's why I said 60% are funny.

02:21:05.320 I'd say 40% are not funny. 1.00

02:21:07.980 So you would fuck 60% of men. 1.00

02:21:10.240 No, I wouldn't fuck them. 1.00

02:21:12.340 I thought you said if they're funny, they can have sex with hot women. 1.00

02:21:15.720 I said, if you're funny and nice, you have more of a chance than if you're not funny 0.85

02:21:19.640 and nice.

02:21:20.040 Okay.

02:21:20.680 Like, sure.

02:21:21.480 It's good for you to be cute too.

02:21:22.660 But if you're funny and nice, you don't necessarily have to be hot.

02:21:25.500 The hottest thing ever.

02:21:26.660 Like women, a lot of times will go for things. 1.00

02:21:29.440 How much of an edge does that give them if they're funny and nice?

02:21:31.840 Being funny and nice.

02:21:32.740 If they make you laugh, you have your eyes closed.

02:21:34.520 You don't pay them so much attention.

02:21:35.360 Is it true like women are shallow like that? 1.00

02:21:38.320 Because I don't understand it.

02:21:39.440 Like I don't really like guys that are overly attractive.

02:21:43.180 So I'm just wondering, do you guys only go for guys that are like, oh my God, he's so hot?

02:21:48.280 No.

02:21:48.880 That's what I was saying.

02:21:49.600 Like if you're funny and nice, you don't necessarily have to be overly attractive just

02:21:53.520 because you have these other qualities.

02:21:54.920 I feel like men, you have to be attractive to them in some capacity.

02:21:58.480 Yes.

02:21:59.220 Because men are a little bit more shallow.

02:22:01.240 I like a guy that's talented.

02:22:04.400 Anything, any kind of passion.

02:22:06.160 Talented. 0.99

02:22:08.140 Just because he'll dick you down doesn't mean he'll wife you up. 0.98

02:22:11.880 That's the lesson here. 0.98

02:22:12.740 Absolutely.

02:22:13.440 That's the lesson here. 0.99

02:22:15.160 Just because he'll dick you down doesn't mean he'll wife you up. 0.98

02:22:18.480 So that's kind of the main point here. 0.96

02:22:20.820 It's like attractive men, they're going to sleep with women who they don't find commitment 0.93

02:22:28.820 level attractive.

02:22:31.560 So to be clear, attractive men, they will sleep with women who they don't find commitment

02:22:37.860 level attractive.

02:22:39.060 So what does this mean?

02:22:40.480 So I think as women, for you guys, in order to sleep with a guy, he needs to be at least 0.99

02:22:48.520 attractive enough for you to be in a relationship with him.

02:22:51.800 Mm-hmm.

02:22:55.720 So what are you saying?

02:22:56.660 Like, are you saying, like, if you're sleeping with a guy and you think you're going to be,

02:23:01.360 like, committed to him in a relationship or, like, dating material?

02:23:08.020 No.

02:23:08.260 So I'm saying, okay, for whatever.

02:23:10.940 So for my position is, for a one-night stand, women are going to overly prioritize looks, 1.00

02:23:16.800 obviously, like, doesn't make sense. 1.00

02:23:20.060 Oh, he's such a catch, but I'm only going to fuck him once. 1.00

02:23:22.860 Okay. 1.00

02:23:24.780 So when it comes to one-night stands, women will prioritize looks. 1.00

02:23:28.840 But my belief is, in order for a girl to sleep with a guy, he has to be good-looking 0.89

02:23:35.660 enough for her to be in a relationship with him.

02:23:38.700 But men will sleep with women that they aren't attracted enough to to be in a relationship

02:23:48.800 with.

02:23:49.800 Does that make sense?

02:23:51.600 Yeah, but what's your point?

02:23:54.080 Like...

02:23:54.440 This, well, my point would be it ties into the looks rating thing because men are prepared

02:24:00.200 to give you some limited access to them, typically in the form of, like, short-term casual sexual

02:24:07.540 encounters, but they will never give you commitment just on the sole basis of how you look. 0.77

02:24:14.080 They'll be like, eh, I'll have sex with her, but she's not good-looking enough to be in 1.00

02:24:18.320 a relationship with. 0.99

02:24:19.560 Whereas for women, it's, they're like, it's, it's the reverse. 1.00

02:24:26.440 And you're saying, like, it's a bad thing.

02:24:28.000 Like, what, like, if, like, like, why is it a problem, like, that they want to only hook 0.99

02:24:33.760 up with people that they would find dateable, like, because a man will fuck anything, you 0.98

02:24:38.580 know, and that's what you're saying, like... 0.99

02:24:39.820 No, I'm not saying that, that, hold on, I'm not saying whether that's good or bad.

02:24:45.720 I'm just pointing out that this is how men operate.

02:24:52.020 True.

02:24:52.420 So, don't get, like, a lot of y'all will confuse sexual, uh, sexual attraction for romantic

02:25:01.400 intention.

02:25:07.100 So, you'll get it, you'll get it confused, just because, to be clear, just because a 0.99

02:25:11.640 guy wants to fuck you means nothing in terms of him wanting a relationship with you. 0.97

02:25:17.420 And look, I think it's wrong for guys to do this. 1.00

02:25:19.480 Me, personally, my, my perspective is, uh, if you want to sleep with a girl, you should 1.00

02:25:24.560 have an intention of something long-term there.

02:25:27.460 Like, I don't want to just sleep with a girl once, and that's it, and never see her again.

02:25:31.700 I want there to be continuity.

02:25:33.780 But a lot of men don't move, I don't know if it's a lot, but enough men move in such a 0.88

02:25:38.520 way that they might even lie about their long-term intentions to get you into bed.

02:25:43.680 Maybe some of you have experienced this.

02:25:45.380 The guy's like, yeah, I want a relationship with you. 1.00

02:25:48.260 He fucks you once and never talks to you again. 1.00

02:25:50.120 You get ghosted. 1.00

02:25:52.680 I feel like it says more about the man than the woman, like, dating, like, talking to

02:25:57.200 someone who...

02:25:57.660 Right, well, I agree it's wrong to mislead somebody about your long-term intentions in

02:26:02.060 furtherance of getting them to sleep with you.

02:26:03.900 That's 100% wrong.

02:26:06.340 But, you gotta be realistic as women when you approach this.

02:26:10.300 Yes, men do.

02:26:10.900 That is wrong for men to do.

02:26:13.440 But you gotta realize that that is how some men move.

02:26:18.020 Or, a lot of guys might also be upfront with it, too.

02:26:21.940 And you might just be like, well, he's hot, whatever, he'll change his mind.

02:26:25.200 And you'll get caught up in some situation where you want commitment, and he doesn't, 0.98

02:26:28.880 and he told you from the get-go, this is what it is, and you're still like, damn, he's so 0.99

02:26:33.320 fucking hot. 0.99

02:26:33.920 But, now I'm catching feelings, and now I didn't want something, but now I do want 0.98

02:26:38.860 something.

02:26:40.160 And you're never gonna get that commitment.

02:26:42.460 So, basically, this whole segment is just to warn us.

02:26:45.120 To, like, put a warning out, don't date the hot men, because they're not gonna want to 0.99

02:26:48.840 marry you.

02:26:49.760 Is that, like, the point?

02:26:51.360 Well, it's related to the looks thing.

02:26:53.480 Got it.

02:26:54.100 Like, for the rating?

02:26:56.180 Yeah, related to the looks rating.

02:26:57.820 And, I mean, the other component is, it's like, once you're, once you've had a taste

02:27:02.680 of a certain caliber of, and this could go both ways.

02:27:06.760 Hold on, let me play this.

02:27:08.960 Oops, is it gonna play? 1.00

02:27:11.420 Oh, fucking Streamlabs. 1.00

02:27:13.680 Whack as fuck. 1.00

02:27:14.860 There it is. 1.00

02:27:16.160 Fuka donated $200.

02:27:18.640 All of the women need to share a moment where they read something on a dating app that was 1.00

02:27:23.220 funny enough for them to talk to a less attractive male.

02:27:26.500 Even Ellie.

02:27:28.500 Dang, Ellie.

02:27:29.480 Any, anybody?

02:27:30.920 We're not on dating apps.

02:27:32.180 Yeah, we're not on dating apps.

02:27:33.980 Attraction has to be there first.

02:27:36.840 Oh, you have something?

02:27:37.740 Sorry.

02:27:38.760 I'm just gonna kind of throw this out there, and you guys can also, like, jump in.

02:27:44.640 On the topic of looks, since this whole conversation started based off rating our looks, what would

02:27:50.580 be considered conventionally attractive?

02:27:52.980 Like, what would you consider is hot and is not hot?

02:27:56.140 Because I feel like a lot of people have different opinions, and everyone has a certain type,

02:28:01.260 and I feel like that is also based around what, you know, our decision of whether, yeah,

02:28:07.380 he's hot. 0.83

02:28:07.880 I'm gonna have sex with him, or no, he's not really, like, you know, the one that I would 0.99

02:28:15.380 be interested having sex with or having a relationship with. 0.99

02:28:19.580 So you're asking me what a hot guy is? 0.88

02:28:24.040 Is that?

02:28:24.280 Well, it goes both ways through women and men, so I feel like this goes for the entire panel

02:28:30.480 as well.

02:28:31.540 Sure.

02:28:31.880 Let me let this other one play, and then I'll come into it on that.

02:28:34.720 Chef Dill Pickles donated $200.

02:28:37.920 Does someone else want to weigh in?

02:28:40.360 You've been having the mic.

02:28:42.060 No, weigh in with quotes.

02:28:45.520 That's so funny.

02:28:47.160 That actually was not, it was not intentional, to be honest.

02:28:52.080 That, not intentional.

02:28:55.280 Oh my god, boys, can you see the fire in the background?

02:28:57.880 Yeah.

02:28:58.440 Do you see that, boys? 1.00

02:28:59.300 It's the fucking fire, boys. 1.00

02:29:01.060 You see that smoke, that smog? 1.00

02:29:05.080 Rain or shine, tsunami, or catastrophic fire, I will bring, the show must go on, I bring

02:29:11.940 the whatever podcast.

02:29:13.760 So okay, the question is, like, what is beauty?

02:29:16.420 Is that kind of the question, or?

02:29:17.940 Or what would you consider is conventionally attractive?

02:29:22.280 Because I feel like, especially in this day and age, a lot of people have different

02:29:26.720 opinions, and attractiveness is one of those main topics of what you decide you want to

02:29:34.960 further pursue in life, like, romantically-wise, not necessarily, like, career or anything.

02:29:42.220 So yeah, I just wanted to open that up to the panel.

02:29:45.640 What is beauty?

02:29:46.800 Go ahead.

02:29:47.020 Well, I learned, like, for women, beauty is hip-to-waist, or yeah, hip-to-waist ratio. 0.99

02:29:54.120 You need, like, a thin, like, smaller waist than your hips.

02:29:57.400 I forget the number, but yeah, there's, like, a math.

02:30:01.400 And then, like, symmetry is a good indicator.

02:30:04.500 It's, like, health.

02:30:05.940 Basically, fertility is beauty, biologically speaking. 0.98

02:30:10.500 But I don't know about men.

02:30:11.780 I don't know about men's beauty. 0.97

02:30:14.880 Thank you.

02:30:15.720 Personally, I like men that can't dress and have bad hair and are kind of overweight.

02:30:22.320 I don't like the, like, buff, blonde guy type thing, no.

02:30:28.360 They make you feel safe because...

02:30:29.800 I think I'm weird for that.

02:30:31.320 I don't know if anyone else wants to say that.

02:30:31.940 That's not weird.

02:30:32.560 Like, I love...

02:30:33.280 It's, like, it's called, like, ugly hot.

02:30:34.940 You know, when they're, like, hot to you, but they're kind of ugly.

02:30:36.800 Like, I can see it in the face.

02:30:38.340 Yes.

02:30:38.640 But I know, like, they're not...

02:30:40.540 The way they're dressed, their hair, it's all messed up.

02:30:42.700 Yeah, I love that.

02:30:43.380 I kind of like...

02:30:44.120 I think you're capping Felicity.

02:30:45.880 I'm not. 1.00

02:30:46.360 I think you're full of shit. 1.00

02:30:48.280 Why would I lie about that? 1.00

02:30:49.900 Wait, I've never seen your ex-boyfriend...

02:30:52.620 Yo, Mary, is this...

02:30:53.800 Is she describing her ex?

02:30:55.100 Mary's never even seen him.

02:30:56.700 Oh, you haven't seen him?

02:30:58.020 You haven't seen him, no.

02:30:59.480 All right, maybe you can show me a photo.

02:31:01.520 And I can tell you.

02:31:02.560 Well, I made him hot.

02:31:04.700 You made him hot? 1.00

02:31:06.300 But he was...

02:31:07.740 It was a little project for you.

02:31:08.940 I had to redo his closet a little bit.

02:31:12.200 Well, I mean, to your point, I do think that there are certain traits.

02:31:15.680 You mentioned symmetry, for example.

02:31:17.720 I think that typically refers to facial symmetry. 0.98

02:31:20.280 Although I guess your body could be all fucking weird or something. 0.96

02:31:22.920 I don't know. 0.92

02:31:25.360 But, like, health indicators, proportionality, these are consistently preferred across cultures.

02:31:32.420 So, you know, there are certain, like, different beauty standards across cultures, but they still, like, symmetry, health indicators, proportionality, these are still observed cross-culturally.

02:31:43.340 And they're pretty universal.

02:31:44.940 In the same way that, like, what about a sunset or a flower is universally seen as beautiful?

02:31:54.980 Even before there was, you know, communication between different cultures, like, okay, this culture over here, flowers were beautiful.

02:32:03.920 This culture over here, flowers were beautiful.

02:32:05.480 That does point to there being a sort of innate human response to visual harmony and a universal component of beauty.

02:32:16.080 I do think...

02:32:17.480 So, beauty is subjective.

02:32:22.100 It's not strictly subjective, but it is, like, it's not objective in a philosophical sense.

02:32:27.420 But there are objective components to beauty.

02:32:32.120 So, yeah.

02:32:35.640 Fashel.

02:32:37.520 Fashel.

02:32:38.440 All right.

02:32:38.780 Good talk, I guess.

02:32:39.560 I don't know if that answers your question.

02:32:41.280 Well, it also, I kind of want to extend it to male attractiveness as well.

02:32:46.700 Yeah, sure.

02:32:47.260 And I kind of want to hear your opinion on it, just because you are a male yourself.

02:32:51.320 I'm not asking you, like, oh, like, do you think other men are hot?

02:32:54.700 Just, like, as in itself, just kind of one of those, oh, well, you know, most women would prefer taller men, taller, skinnier men. 0.85

02:33:04.380 Sure.

02:33:05.560 Or, like, whether facial hair is attractive or not, all of that.

02:33:09.760 But I just would like to hear your opinion.

02:33:12.920 Yeah, sure.

02:33:13.460 I mean, I'd say, generally speaking, women have a preference for men who are tall, taller men.

02:33:18.640 Uh, can you guys not be whispering back there, please?

02:33:24.660 Um, generally, yeah, men prefer taller women.

02:33:30.100 Or, wait, sorry. 0.99

02:33:31.860 The fucking convo back there threw me off. 1.00

02:33:34.580 Uh, women prefer taller men. 0.99

02:33:36.200 I'd say, typically, uh, women prefer more masculine features in the face, although there is, you know, there's some discrepancy on this.

02:33:46.820 Like, certain more feminine facial features can be deemed attractive by women. 1.00

02:33:52.020 Um, so, typically, like, more, uh, like, sharper features on men tend to be deemed more physically attractive.

02:34:00.260 This is actually funny, I don't know if you guys know about buccal fat removal.

02:34:05.160 So, women project, they, they seem to project what they think is attractive even onto women. 1.00

02:34:13.560 So, they'll take sort of their female gaze in terms of how they look towards men and apply it to women. 1.00

02:34:20.920 So, that's, men actually prefer, like, a more, uh, like, more facial fat. 0.97

02:34:27.540 But women seem to prefer, at least in their preference to other women, prefer, like, the slimmer, like, high cheekbone, like, buccal fat removal or whatever the fuck. 1.00

02:34:38.520 Uh, but it's, from the male perspective, that makes women look worse when they get the, the fat removal in the face. 1.00

02:34:46.980 Um, so, that's kind of an interesting component.

02:34:50.900 But, uh, I don't know, some other things.

02:34:55.160 There's all, there's all kinds of terms.

02:34:57.000 Like, I can't remember all of them.

02:34:58.700 But, uh, in terms of what women find attractive in men.

02:35:03.700 Uh, strong jawline.

02:35:05.820 I think most women typically prefer, you mentioned beard. 0.60

02:35:09.740 I think they actually prefer, generally speaking, clean shaven.

02:35:12.940 I think, or not clean shaven, but they typically prefer against beards.

02:35:18.180 Um, and I think that depends on the age, too, of course.

02:35:21.360 I think older women, as they get a bit older, have a bit more of a preference towards beards.

02:35:27.500 Younger women, stronger preference without beard.

02:35:31.340 Um, I'm trying to think if there's anything else.

02:35:33.140 Dark hair.

02:35:34.580 Women prefer dark hair, I guess. 1.00

02:35:36.940 Possibly.

02:35:37.460 Yeah.

02:35:37.600 I mean, I don't know if it's a massive preference.

02:35:39.420 Like, if a guy has blonde hair, I don't know if it's a huge.

02:35:42.380 There is statistics that, oh, yeah, there are statistics, yeah.

02:35:46.880 I mean, I would say also women have a tendency to prefer, uh, physical strength in the physique. 1.00

02:35:53.780 So, like, a more athletic or muscular build.

02:35:56.100 I'm not talking, like, massive bodybuilder.

02:35:57.920 I think women have a preference against that. 1.00

02:36:00.580 But, generally speaking, women have a strong preference for, uh, some degree of muscularity. 1.00

02:36:06.360 So, there's definitely a preference just in masculine men overall.

02:36:12.880 Like, a masculine man that still does those masculine things.

02:36:15.920 Like, want to take care of her.

02:36:17.420 Want to open car doors.

02:36:18.660 Want to take her out.

02:36:20.580 And I would take a very masculine man who's not as attractive and funny over a super hot guy that is really buff and, you know, physically fit any day.

02:36:36.440 But he's, like, feminine? 0.99

02:36:38.640 Yeah, not as masculine.

02:36:40.040 Yeah, exactly.

02:36:40.900 So.

02:36:41.220 Right, but you would prefer he has that and also be masculine in his demeanor and disposition.

02:36:49.080 Well, yeah, my preference would be that.

02:36:50.940 But I would take, if, like, a very masculine man showed up that was maybe shorter than what I normally would go for, I would still, I would still entertain him because of his masculinity.

02:37:04.880 Because he is a good guy.

02:37:06.140 Because he does those things.

02:37:09.840 Okay.

02:37:10.520 Just mine.

02:37:10.860 That's cool.

02:37:11.020 Yeah.

02:37:12.140 Um, I don't know, man.

02:37:14.740 Anyways, going back to the 10 thing.

02:37:18.160 You know what I mean?

02:37:19.800 You know what I mean?

02:37:21.280 If I was skinny, what would you rate me?

02:37:25.640 Is it just, like, because I feel like me being fat, like, it definitely takes me points down and I understand that.

02:37:32.260 But in the fat world.

02:37:33.560 I don't know.

02:37:34.560 Somebody want to AI her? 0.99

02:37:36.860 Please.

02:37:38.040 Make her whatever.

02:37:39.860 I don't know.

02:37:40.440 Maybe whatever.

02:37:41.960 It's hard to tell.

02:37:42.940 I mean, there's definitely, you know, it has a huge impact on facial attractiveness, too.

02:37:48.180 When you, you know, as you lose weight, face starts to thin out.

02:37:53.960 So, I can't, in my mind's eye, I can't picture it.

02:37:58.040 So, I don't know, come back to me in two years when you're whatever.

02:38:02.140 When I'm whatever.

02:38:02.620 When you're, yeah.

02:38:03.820 Okay.

02:38:04.580 Will do.

02:38:06.080 You're pretty symmetrical.

02:38:08.120 Yeah.

02:38:08.280 She's beautiful.

02:38:09.200 Thank you.

02:38:09.320 She's a 10.

02:38:10.240 I'm an artist.

02:38:11.100 Oh, bro. 1.00

02:38:11.920 What the fuck? 1.00

02:38:12.800 Why can't she say that? 1.00

02:38:14.240 She's beautiful.

02:38:15.440 She's just her own flavor. 0.85

02:38:17.240 I love flavor.

02:38:17.780 See, that's part of the problem, though.

02:38:19.160 The other part of the problem is the female friend's gonna gas up. 1.00

02:38:23.520 No, like, I paint woman. 0.74

02:38:26.340 I honestly think she's really beautiful.

02:38:28.720 Thank you.

02:38:30.820 I'm not ugly.

02:38:31.880 Like, just because I'm fat doesn't mean I'm ugly.

02:38:34.260 And you can think I'm ugly. 0.65

02:38:35.020 That's fine. 0.84

02:38:35.440 That's your opinion.

02:38:36.180 But I'm just saying, like.

02:38:38.200 Well, so there's facial attractiveness.

02:38:40.380 But then, like, I think body is incorporated into somebody's looks and appearance.

02:38:45.800 But typically, I think when we say ugly, we are referring more so to facial attractiveness.

02:38:53.700 But, of course, like, somebody who could have, like, a killer face card, if they're, like, really obese, that's gonna impact their facial attractiveness.

02:39:02.920 Of course.

02:39:03.580 Yeah.

02:39:03.780 I mean, some of these fat girls, though, they, it's not really impacting the face that much, but. 1.00

02:39:09.000 But, like, what if she's hot, but she's a shitty person? 1.00

02:39:12.320 Yeah, that's bad. 0.99

02:39:13.080 That's also bad.

02:39:13.980 That's not hot.

02:39:14.880 Like, for me, that's a, you're not hot.

02:39:16.340 You're not hot.

02:39:17.660 Same thing for a guy.

02:39:18.780 Men's not hot.

02:39:19.400 I agree.

02:39:19.640 Dude, this fire, I'm kind of scared, boys. 0.99

02:39:23.240 You see the fucking smoke? 0.99

02:39:24.720 Yeah. 1.00

02:39:25.160 Boys, chat.

02:39:26.620 The smoke is creeping up on the studio, boys. 1.00

02:39:30.960 That's crazy shit. 0.99

02:39:33.800 Wait, how far is it? 1.00

02:39:35.560 It's, like, a mile away.

02:39:36.840 Bro.

02:39:37.240 No.

02:39:37.500 Oh, wow.

02:39:38.020 It's bad.

02:39:38.400 Yeah.

02:39:38.680 Is it actually?

02:39:39.320 No, I'm just kidding.

02:39:41.440 We're good.

02:39:42.680 I'm out.

02:39:44.280 We're good.

02:39:46.600 But that's part of the prom.

02:39:49.640 Why is that a prom, though?

02:39:50.980 Why is that a prom?

02:39:51.860 Because I don't know.

02:39:52.380 It's not filling my head.

02:39:54.000 What did you rate yourself?

02:39:55.220 I rate myself a six today.

02:39:57.080 I feel kind of dry.

02:39:58.700 Like, I don't know.

02:39:59.340 Dry?

02:40:00.920 Not dry.

02:40:02.200 Dry?

02:40:02.740 Like, I've been vaping.

02:40:04.180 Oh, dry.

02:40:05.420 Not good.

02:40:06.640 Not rehydrated.

02:40:07.560 Yeah.

02:40:07.840 I don't feel, like, a ten today.

02:40:10.020 Remember that clip we pulled up the other day on Twitter, Nick?

02:40:16.100 Here, I'm going to see if I can find it.

02:40:18.000 Like, can I ask you a question?

02:40:20.420 Okay.

02:40:21.020 So, you said she's a ten. 0.97

02:40:22.080 You said she's beautiful, right?

02:40:23.220 Uh-huh.

02:40:23.380 Are you more attractive?

02:40:24.060 If I said that you looked like her, that's a compliment?

02:40:28.940 Yeah.

02:40:29.340 Honestly, yeah.

02:40:30.200 Like, I think her face is prettier than mine.

02:40:33.420 I'm not going to lie.

02:40:34.220 Thank you.

02:40:35.020 What about the body, though?

02:40:36.740 I don't know.

02:40:37.860 We're not talking about body.

02:40:39.320 And it's okay.

02:40:39.860 That's part of looks.

02:40:40.460 No, not really.

02:40:41.400 Oh, my God.

02:40:41.480 This is so annoying.

02:40:42.500 I haven't seen her naked.

02:40:43.760 What if it's like, wow?

02:40:45.280 You know?

02:40:46.020 Like, I don't know.

02:40:46.980 Oh, my God.

02:40:48.320 You.

02:40:48.800 Pull me in.

02:40:49.320 I don't know.

02:40:50.100 She's sitting right next to you.

02:40:52.020 My type changes every day.

02:40:53.820 She's not wearing, like, a.

02:40:56.340 A muumuu?

02:40:57.320 A burka. 0.98

02:40:58.700 Yeah.

02:40:59.340 But even in a burka.

02:41:00.460 I'm fat.

02:41:00.480 It knocks me down points.

02:41:02.360 But she's saying that she thinks I'm a beautiful woman.

02:41:04.040 And that's okay.

02:41:05.040 She's a beautiful woman.

02:41:06.120 Thank you.

02:41:06.200 And I think a fat girl is still beautiful. 1.00

02:41:08.220 That's my opinion.

02:41:08.920 I'm attracted to fat people. 0.66

02:41:10.000 And you're not. 0.89

02:41:10.520 And that's okay.

02:41:10.980 But this is the difference between how, like, women talk and interact with other women versus how men interact with other men.

02:41:18.340 Like, if, like, I've never had, like, I've gained a bit of weight.

02:41:23.340 I've gotten a little chubby.

02:41:25.100 None of my male friends are like, wow, Brian, slay a king.

02:41:28.660 Like, you're so hot.

02:41:30.380 Like, blah, blah.

02:41:30.900 Oh, my God.

02:41:31.540 You're a 10.

02:41:32.140 Oh, my God.

02:41:32.520 Would you like that?

02:41:33.500 No.

02:41:34.120 Why not? 1.00

02:41:34.740 I want them to be like, you fucking fat piece of shit. 1.00

02:41:38.620 Lose some weight. 1.00

02:41:39.540 That's what I don't want. 1.00

02:41:40.300 You think I'm a fat piece of shit? 1.00

02:41:42.460 No, I'm talking about myself. 1.00

02:41:43.860 Okay, but you're talking about I'm fat. 0.96

02:41:45.820 I'm a fat. 0.79

02:41:46.160 No, I'm talking about myself. 0.85

02:41:47.600 I said I gained some weight.

02:41:49.240 I don't want them to gas me up.

02:41:51.100 Be like, oh, no, you're perfect the way you are.

02:41:54.980 No. 0.99

02:41:55.600 Fucking just, you don't got to insult me. 0.99

02:41:58.680 But don't lie to me either. 0.99

02:42:00.700 I feel like it's hurting your friends if you're not telling them the truth.

02:42:03.840 No, I agree if it's in a health way, but what she said right now is not a problem.

02:42:08.340 Like, if she's my real friend and, like, saw, like, how I gained all that weight in the relationship.

02:42:12.200 Like, my friends were like, girl, like, slow it down. 0.91

02:42:15.480 And I was, I knew it was bad, too.

02:42:17.240 And then my friend came to me and was like, hey, health-wise, but if they're like, you're gorgeous, that's not a problem.

02:42:21.700 Like, it's, we can detach the healthiness.

02:42:24.180 Like, I know being fat's not healthy.

02:42:25.560 I'm not one of those fat people.

02:42:26.460 Like, being fat's not healthy.

02:42:27.940 It's obvious.

02:42:28.740 Like, but you can also detach, like, a man thinking I'm attractive.

02:42:32.380 It's a thing.

02:42:33.840 For sure. 0.99

02:42:34.640 I get bitches, Brian. 1.00

02:42:35.880 I get hotter bitches than you do. 1.00

02:42:37.220 Just saying. 1.00

02:42:38.380 Oh.

02:42:39.200 Oh, you're, are you bi? 0.57

02:42:41.000 I'm very bi.

02:42:42.480 Hit my DMs, ladies. 1.00

02:42:45.420 I'm just kidding.

02:42:46.320 What did you say?

02:42:47.760 What's the problem now?

02:42:49.080 Is it a problem that I'm bi, too? 1.00

02:42:51.240 No, just, you said you get hotter bitches than me. 1.00

02:42:54.140 The girls that I pull are crazy. 1.00

02:42:55.860 Just saying. 0.99

02:42:56.560 Like, a girl likes big women, too. 1.00

02:42:59.020 Who here is bi? 0.65

02:42:59.800 Just curious.

02:43:00.340 Any bi?

02:43:01.240 Oh.

02:43:02.380 Um.

02:43:03.340 Just because I might not be her type, and that's okay.

02:43:05.840 Like.

02:43:06.060 What's your type for women? 1.00

02:43:08.220 Um.

02:43:08.540 Honestly, I prefer, like, more masculine women. 1.00

02:43:12.060 Oh, she's kind of masculine.

02:43:13.060 So, like, studs?

02:43:14.280 Not like studs, but, like, I don't know how to explain it.

02:43:17.880 I mean, my energy is that, but.

02:43:19.000 Have you been, have you been with, uh, we'll keep it center for a bit, Nick.

02:43:23.160 Uh, have you been with a woman in that way?

02:43:25.860 I have.

02:43:27.460 Okay.

02:43:28.620 Do you like white girls, black girls, Asian girls? 1.00

02:43:30.960 She was white.

02:43:32.600 Oh, there's been one.

02:43:33.780 There's only been one.

02:43:35.080 White girl. 0.99

02:43:35.760 Yes.

02:43:36.140 And she was masculine.

02:43:37.780 Yes.

02:43:38.440 Like, tomboy masculine, or what are we talking about?

02:43:41.020 Almost, like, always wore, like, the baggier clothes.

02:43:44.960 Okay.

02:43:45.100 Her hair was, like, a lot shorter.

02:43:47.380 Okay.

02:43:48.180 Yeah.

02:43:49.060 And you're bi, too?

02:43:50.120 Mm-hmm.

02:43:50.440 Do you have a type for the ladies? 0.90

02:43:54.480 I would say, like, my personal type is more athletic.

02:43:57.440 Like, everyone I've dated has probably, like, played sports and, like.

02:44:00.400 She's very athletic.

02:44:01.760 I'm extremely athletic.

02:44:03.020 Yes, girl.

02:44:04.080 I actually was.

02:44:04.920 I was, like, I did sports and everything.

02:44:06.480 I did roller derby.

02:44:07.380 Would you, would, are you guys, um, is there, like, tension here?

02:44:11.280 No.

02:44:11.980 Yeah.

02:44:12.760 I'm getting hot and heavy.

02:44:14.160 No, it's, like I said the last time, it's okay because I'm not going on hikes and I'm not

02:44:18.460 going roller skating and stuff like that.

02:44:20.920 So, if a girl doesn't want to date me because I'm not, like, matching their physical.

02:44:24.180 You could, you should try roller skating.

02:44:25.780 No, fat girl down is not, that's a problem. 1.00

02:44:28.160 You can do it.

02:44:29.140 I used to, I played, I did roller derby.

02:44:31.020 I was, like, a roller skater and I don't do that anymore because if you fall when you're

02:44:33.780 fat, it's, like, a problem.

02:44:35.260 But, um, yeah.

02:44:36.720 If you don't like me because our lifestyles don't match up and you're not, like, if you're

02:44:41.320 going on hikes every day, that makes sense, too. 0.99

02:44:42.920 Like, we don't need to, this art is still stupid. 0.97

02:44:47.560 What's that thing from the, there's this meme, something about, wait, what's that? 1.00

02:44:55.660 Better bitches, better, wait, what, does anybody know what I'm talking about? 1.00

02:44:58.940 No. 1.00

02:44:59.720 I'm lost.

02:45:00.440 The Papa John's thing?

02:45:01.580 Papa John's, better ingredients, better.

02:45:03.660 Oh, better, wait, what is that? 0.99

02:45:05.640 Wait, fuck, how does that go? 0.99

02:45:07.400 Better ingredients. 1.00

02:45:08.840 Better, better pizza. 0.96

02:45:10.180 Better pizza, better bitches, better, my clothes better, my shoes better, something 1.00

02:45:15.860 like that. 1.00

02:45:16.580 I don't know, you, you, apparently you get more, more bitches than I do. 1.00

02:45:20.220 I do, and that's just a fact, but it's okay. 0.99

02:45:22.600 Well, a fact? 1.00

02:45:23.780 What the fuck? 0.99

02:45:24.400 You say you only deal with people that are, like, that, I'm, I, every, I deal with all 1.00

02:45:28.760 different types of women. 1.00

02:45:30.880 Just a thing.

02:45:31.960 It's more like, your persona.

02:45:33.700 How does that work?

02:45:35.240 What.

02:45:35.480 What are we asking here? 0.96

02:45:36.860 Like, you know how you said it's hard, like, if you're dating a fat guy. 0.85

02:45:40.640 Uh-huh. 0.99

02:45:40.920 Can it work with a fat woman? 1.00

02:45:42.660 Or is it still fucked up? 1.00

02:45:44.040 Yeah, yeah, with a fat woman it's fine. 1.00

02:45:46.020 Because I don't have a pee-pee to put in the, you know, it's like all manual. 0.99

02:45:50.360 Wouldn't it be harder if it was a chick? 1.00

02:45:53.020 Yeah, obviously it's, yeah.

02:45:53.620 It depends what you're doing.

02:45:54.660 Yeah.

02:45:55.240 Like scissoring? 0.99

02:45:57.280 Or whatever the fuck? 1.00

02:45:57.920 Oh my God. 1.00

02:45:58.860 If I'm just hooking with a, like, I hook, I've hooked up with all different types of

02:46:01.740 women. 0.81

02:46:02.180 So it's, I don't discriminate.

02:46:04.900 If you're hot on my vibe.

02:46:06.560 I'm happy, I'm happy for you.

02:46:07.460 Thank you, I'm happy for myself as well. 0.99

02:46:08.860 So, lesbian sex has saved my life, not kidding. 1.00

02:46:11.800 Maya, have you, you know, I mean. 0.99

02:46:14.200 I do.

02:46:14.460 Yeah.

02:46:14.780 I do know. 1.00

02:46:15.520 I've had a bunch of lesbian sex. 1.00

02:46:17.100 I was talking about my best sister done here. 0.99

02:46:19.080 So I didn't know about that.

02:46:20.180 Yeah.

02:46:20.780 That's cool.

02:46:21.360 All right.

02:46:22.600 Well, oh, question on this.

02:46:24.580 Going around the table.

02:46:26.460 Going around the table.

02:46:27.600 Do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years' time?

02:46:29.860 It's so funny.

02:46:31.260 Into the mic?

02:46:32.480 No, I don't think I'll be hotter in 10 years.

02:46:35.420 Just the same?

02:46:36.580 Or worse?

02:46:37.820 I'll probably be reaching a decline.

02:46:40.060 I think I'll expire, like, 25.

02:46:44.400 She's expiring.

02:46:45.860 I'm already on my way out, honestly.

02:46:47.140 She's at 18.

02:46:49.740 Fertility.

02:46:50.280 Downhill from there.

02:46:51.000 All time low.

02:46:51.960 All time low.

02:46:55.020 Better looking in 10 years, though?

02:46:56.160 Yes.

02:46:56.760 20 years? 1.00

02:46:57.220 I'll be rich as fuck and skinny, so hell yeah. 1.00

02:46:59.880 Okay. 1.00

02:47:00.600 Well, question on that.

02:47:02.240 Assuming you didn't lose any weight, would you be better looking in 10 years?

02:47:05.220 No.

02:47:05.600 Okay.

02:47:06.360 But you do plan to lose weight.

02:47:08.020 What about 43 versus 23, so 20 years?

02:47:10.460 Better looking?

02:47:11.660 Yeah, well, with the science nowadays, I'm going to have lots of money, too, so I can afford

02:47:16.520 whatever surgery I want, so hell yeah.

02:47:18.420 What do you do for work?

02:47:20.120 Well, I'm talking about the future.

02:47:21.760 But you said you're going to have lots of money.

02:47:23.040 How do you know that?

02:47:23.960 I just know.

02:47:25.360 Manifest, right, girl? 0.63

02:47:26.140 That's right.

02:47:26.860 Okay.

02:47:27.260 I'm speaking it into the future.

02:47:30.540 Okay, that's cool.

02:47:31.940 I respect it.

02:47:33.180 By the way, I noticed you're wearing a cross.

02:47:34.800 Are you Christian?

02:47:35.760 No.

02:47:36.660 I respect all religions, though.

02:47:38.960 Why are you wearing a cross?

02:47:40.020 Because I think it's cute.

02:47:41.120 Because I respect it enough that I feel like I can, like, I don't disrespect religion.

02:47:45.480 And I'm not.

02:47:45.800 You should wear a burka. 1.00

02:47:47.480 That's cute, too.

02:47:49.460 That's a good look.

02:47:50.280 I'm just wearing, I got it gifted to me, and I'm wearing it.

02:47:52.620 But I wear crosses.

02:47:53.700 Because I think if you're against that religion, I don't think you should.

02:47:56.720 And I think it's like.

02:47:57.700 Can women wear fezes? 1.00

02:47:59.560 Can a woman wear a fez? 1.00

02:48:00.960 What's that?

02:48:01.240 What's a fez?

02:48:01.800 A fez?

02:48:02.440 Because it's like that red hat with the string and the, you know what I'm talking about?

02:48:05.820 A tassel?

02:48:06.220 With a tassel.

02:48:07.320 If I'm disrespecting you.

02:48:08.160 Clutch. 1.00

02:48:08.720 Fucking Ellie is clutch. 1.00

02:48:10.340 Coming in with the assist there. 1.00

02:48:12.160 Like.

02:48:12.900 Can women wear fezes? 1.00

02:48:14.660 Is that a religious garment?

02:48:15.920 Or is that just.

02:48:16.540 I'm not sure.

02:48:17.220 From like Aladdin like that?

02:48:19.560 Yes.

02:48:20.060 It's from the Disney movie from the 90s.

02:48:22.960 That's the origination of the fez.

02:48:25.180 A fez was. 0.73

02:48:25.720 He did wear a fez, I'm pretty sure, in Aladdin. 0.97

02:48:27.560 Yeah.

02:48:27.780 That's what I thought.

02:48:29.000 Yeah.

02:48:29.480 So.

02:48:30.240 Okay.

02:48:30.620 That's cool.

02:48:32.260 So better looking at 100?

02:48:34.480 No.

02:48:34.900 Okay. 0.64

02:48:35.820 I'm going to be dead by now.

02:48:36.280 When's the peak?

02:48:36.900 When are you in peak?

02:48:38.660 I think my peak's going to be like 30.

02:48:40.600 30?

02:48:41.120 Yeah.

02:48:41.280 I'm going to give myself like three years to lose all the weight, three years to like 0.99

02:48:45.480 get surgeries and all that stuff done, and then we'll be hot as fuck. 0.99

02:48:49.660 Hot as fuck. 1.00

02:48:50.960 Yeah. 1.00

02:48:51.700 Hot as fuck. 1.00

02:48:52.380 I'm so slay queen. 1.00

02:48:53.840 I was skinny.

02:48:54.520 I'm a pretty girl.

02:48:55.720 I was skinny at one point, and I know what I looked like.

02:48:57.520 My eyes glisten. 0.98

02:48:59.260 My nose is cute as fuck. 0.99

02:49:00.500 I have good lips, good teeth. 0.99

02:49:01.920 I'm cute.

02:49:02.520 I don't care what you say.

02:49:03.520 Sorry.

02:49:03.920 Lit.

02:49:04.660 You're lit.

02:49:05.680 Lit.

02:49:06.420 All right.

02:49:06.720 What about you?

02:49:07.200 Better looking in 10 years time?

02:49:08.280 You're 27, 37?

02:49:09.620 29.

02:49:10.700 I'm 29.

02:49:11.440 But in 10 years, oh, you're 29?

02:49:14.000 Yeah.

02:49:14.240 Why did I write 27?

02:49:15.560 Probably from because.

02:49:16.500 I think you might have said 27.

02:49:17.880 The DM from two years ago.

02:49:20.160 Okay.

02:49:20.440 Well, that's fine.

02:49:21.220 You're 29.

02:49:22.120 Better looking in 10 years time at 39?

02:49:24.140 I don't know.

02:49:24.800 Honestly, like when I was 19, I did not think I would look better in 10 years, and I think

02:49:30.520 I kind of like the same.

02:49:33.160 I don't know.

02:49:34.000 I think no.

02:49:35.020 Okay.

02:49:35.340 And then were you better looking 10 years ago at 19?

02:49:39.240 Honestly, no.

02:49:39.940 I didn't know how to dress or do my makeup, so no, not really.

02:49:44.220 Okay.

02:49:44.720 What about you?

02:49:45.200 Better looking in 10 years time?

02:49:46.620 33?

02:49:47.580 I think I could be.

02:49:48.660 Like, if I'm being honest, I, like, don't go to the gym as much as I could, and I don't

02:49:51.660 eat the best.

02:49:52.400 But if I, like, fixed all those things, I definitely could be.

02:49:55.160 But...

02:49:55.560 What about 20 years time?

02:49:57.200 43?

02:49:57.520 No, I feel like it probably goes downhill then.

02:50:00.280 Sure.

02:50:00.560 You're 19.

02:50:01.540 Better looking in 10 years time at 29?

02:50:04.400 You know, I would hope so.

02:50:06.060 I feel like if I kept up everything I'm kind of doing now, I could be.

02:50:10.580 Mm-hmm.

02:50:12.060 Okay.

02:50:13.000 What about 20 years time at 39?

02:50:15.360 Better looking?

02:50:15.780 Yeah.

02:50:18.420 Okay.

02:50:18.920 I would say so.

02:50:21.060 Sure.

02:50:21.900 Cool.

02:50:23.540 Uh, wait.

02:50:25.060 30 years time, 59.

02:50:26.920 No, wait.

02:50:27.360 49.

02:50:28.520 49?

02:50:29.440 Better looking?

02:50:31.620 Probably around the same as I would look if I was 39.

02:50:36.060 So, still better looking.

02:50:36.840 Like, that 10 year would just be, like...

02:50:39.440 Better looking?

02:50:41.220 Than how you look now?

02:50:42.740 Oh, yes.

02:50:44.080 At 49?

02:50:44.620 Yeah.

02:50:45.500 Okay.

02:50:45.800 What about 59?

02:50:46.760 40 years?

02:50:47.940 Oh, okay.

02:50:49.780 Um...

02:50:50.060 59.

02:50:51.180 59?

02:50:52.020 Better looking at 59 or now how you are now?

02:50:54.880 That's, like, lucky pushing.

02:50:56.780 Okay, um...

02:50:57.580 You can manifest it.

02:50:58.940 Yeah, you know what?

02:50:59.780 That's what I'm going to do after this.

02:51:01.320 We're just going to manifest that I look amazing.

02:51:04.520 Okay.

02:51:05.420 When's your peak, you think?

02:51:08.080 Probably sometime in my 20s.

02:51:12.080 Oh, okay.

02:51:13.480 All right.

02:51:14.080 Uh...

02:51:14.840 You're 49?

02:51:17.320 That's what I wrote down here.

02:51:19.120 Not 49, but...

02:51:20.320 Well, I mean, yeah, you should have...

02:51:21.840 Whatever.

02:51:22.620 You should have just said it.

02:51:24.020 Uh...

02:51:24.260 Better looking in 10 years' time?

02:51:26.120 Um...

02:51:28.440 No, I don't...

02:51:29.480 Ooh, look at the sky there.

02:51:30.300 Let's see.

02:51:30.760 Oh, my goodness.

02:51:32.340 Keep going.

02:51:32.800 Uh...

02:51:33.360 Better looking at 59 versus 49?

02:51:35.760 No.

02:51:36.360 I'm...

02:51:36.880 Yeah.

02:51:37.320 Um...

02:51:37.980 No, I don't...

02:51:38.540 Probably not.

02:51:39.040 I mean, I just hope to age gracefully, and...

02:51:41.380 Okay.

02:51:41.760 That's about it.

02:51:42.240 Yeah.

02:51:42.480 Which you are.

02:51:42.900 That's what I can ask at this point.

02:51:45.080 And then, compared to 10 years ago, were you better looking 10 years ago?

02:51:50.140 Uh, I don't...

02:51:50.800 Honestly, I don't think so.

02:51:52.400 Better looking now?

02:51:53.380 I think so.

02:51:54.260 Okay.

02:51:54.660 At...

02:51:55.220 Healthier.

02:51:55.620 Somewhere in your 40s versus somewhere in your 30s?

02:51:57.520 Yeah, I think...

02:51:58.260 Okay, what about 20 years ago?

02:52:00.100 Better looking at some point in your 20s, or better looking now, some point in your 40s?

02:52:05.560 Um...

02:52:06.840 Probably...

02:52:10.400 You know what?

02:52:11.100 I...

02:52:11.580 I think 40s.

02:52:14.540 20s were...

02:52:16.400 I just wasn't healthy, that's all.

02:52:17.880 Not, like, physically, I just, um...

02:52:20.220 There was...

02:52:21.500 Didn't feel good.

02:52:22.540 Didn't mean to do that.

02:52:23.960 Uh, okay.

02:52:25.060 Yeah.

02:52:25.240 Didn't feel good?

02:52:25.800 Nope, didn't.

02:52:26.620 Too much binge drinking?

02:52:28.140 Uh, no, I just worked a lot.

02:52:30.060 I worked a lot of jobs, and so it was just too stressful.

02:52:33.640 Uh, you're 21, will you be better looking in 10 years time, 31?

02:52:36.160 Um, I think so.

02:52:38.360 Um, because... 0.74

02:52:40.160 Black don't crack. 0.88

02:52:41.200 I'm kidding. 0.90

02:52:42.060 But, um, no, I will have, like, a lot of nutritionists, and, um, I'll be going to the

02:52:48.000 gym more, um, so...

02:52:50.520 Okay.

02:52:51.360 Uh, 20 years time, 41, better looking?

02:52:54.140 No.

02:52:54.480 Okay.

02:52:55.120 Felicity, 19, better looking in 10 years time, 29?

02:52:57.760 No.

02:52:59.480 Okay.

02:53:00.040 All right.

02:53:00.900 Well, what we've gone ahead and done is we have put all of you through AI age advancement,

02:53:06.440 and we're going to test and see if you are, in fact, going to look better as all of you

02:53:14.040 age.

02:53:14.720 Oh.

02:53:14.960 But first, before we do that, you know, uh, while the sun is still out, we're going to

02:53:20.160 pause just momentarily, uh, because, you know, I don't want to be looking at pictures of old

02:53:26.080 people while we have such a fantastic sunset here in the background.

02:53:30.060 Oh, my goodness, it is on fire.

02:53:32.200 The sky is on fire.

02:53:33.680 So, what I'm going to do, I'm going to do a couple reminders.

02:53:35.760 We're not going to pull them up, Nick, but I'm just going to remind you guys.

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02:53:55.320 I'm not sure if I said your name right.

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02:54:00.080 Dude, thank you so much, man.

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02:54:34.260 Okay, that's great.

02:54:36.380 Uh, you know, the sun's still really nice.

02:54:38.480 I kind of just want to leave it center here for a bit to capture the beautiful sunset.

02:54:43.320 So, I'm going to get into the show notes, but we will pull up those age advancements

02:54:47.340 here in just a moment.

02:54:49.280 So, let's see.

02:54:50.680 We have Jillian.

02:54:54.020 You said you're particularly passionate about the roles of men versus women in relationships 0.97

02:54:58.540 and what each deserves slash expects.

02:55:03.760 What do men and women deserve? 1.00

02:55:05.820 I guess that was kind of just a general topic.

02:55:08.520 I didn't really know what, like, specifically to put there, but I guess it's just, like,

02:55:12.460 I wanted to talk about, I guess, the roles of, like, what, like, traditional masculinity

02:55:18.040 in relationships versus, like, traditional femininity in relationships, like, women versus 1.00

02:55:23.020 men.

02:55:23.300 Like, I personally believe in, like, traditional masculinity.

02:55:26.000 Like, I want someone to open the door for me, someone to, like, bring me flowers and do

02:55:30.640 those traditionally masculine things.

02:55:31.960 And then I am perfectly content doing the traditionally feminine things. 0.56

02:55:36.300 Which are what?

02:55:37.380 Like, I guess I would say being more submissive.

02:55:39.540 Like, I would stay home and not work if that was offered to me.

02:55:43.500 Yeah, that's not being submissive.

02:55:45.640 I feel like that's, like, traditionally, like, a woman, like, a traditional women's role.

02:55:49.900 Yeah, but a woman could stay home and take care of the household and be an argumentative, 1.00

02:55:54.940 quarrelsome bitch. 1.00

02:55:55.780 Well, I don't plan on being an argumentative, quarrelsome bitch. 1.00

02:55:59.120 But so what does being submissive mean to you? 0.99

02:56:01.560 To me, I guess, like, so, for example, like, if my husband, like, paid all the bills and

02:56:06.360 did everything for me, I would, like, do laundry.

02:56:09.380 I would, like, make him food.

02:56:10.600 If he told me he, like, didn't like me doing something, depending on what it is, I would

02:56:13.680 listen to him.

02:56:14.900 Depending on what it is?

02:56:15.820 Depending on what it is.

02:56:16.560 Like, I'm not going to marry someone that's going to be, like, overly, like, aggressive about

02:56:20.520 that kind of stuff, though.

02:56:21.700 Okay.

02:56:21.960 Like, if he, like, was, like, I don't like you wearing, like, certain types of dresses.

02:56:26.560 I don't even, like, dress that wild.

02:56:28.100 But, like, if it was, like, a modest dress, like, if someone told me they didn't like me

02:56:32.300 wearing this, I probably would tell them to kick rocks.

02:56:37.660 Well, that's not being submissive.

02:56:39.140 Well, yeah, because I wouldn't want to submit to that.

02:56:41.360 What?

02:56:41.760 Oh.

02:56:42.780 Like, I'm picky about being submissive, but if they're, like, reasonable, I will submit

02:56:46.640 to them.

02:56:46.980 Why would it be unreasonable for a guy to want his girlfriend to dress a certain way?

02:56:52.580 Not that, like, it's unreasonable to want someone to dress a certain way, but, like,

02:56:55.760 I feel like this is not overly, like, immodest.

02:56:58.840 So, I feel like if someone, like, I just wouldn't date someone who would think that this

02:57:01.540 is, like, not modest enough, because I don't really feel the need to dress modestly.

02:57:05.800 Can you maybe stand up so they can see the outfit, I guess?

02:57:10.960 The outfit.

02:57:11.780 Okay.

02:57:13.040 So, is it a bra underneath, or?

02:57:17.620 It's a bralette.

02:57:18.420 What?

02:57:18.800 Okay.

02:57:19.040 So, if your boyfriend or whatever was, like, yeah, I don't really feel comfortable with

02:57:23.780 you wearing that, you would do what?

02:57:27.720 It depends.

02:57:28.380 So, if he, like, provided everything for me, then, like, maybe I would maybe listen.

02:57:33.000 Maybe you would.

02:57:34.080 Yeah, maybe.

02:57:35.160 Maybe.

02:57:35.340 I would maybe listen, and I would maybe, like, wear something different.

02:57:38.460 Well, you're currently in a relationship, right?

02:57:40.000 I am.

02:57:40.440 You've been dating him for two months?

02:57:41.540 Yeah.

02:57:42.480 Does he cover everything?

02:57:44.140 Does, like, he wear modest outfits?

02:57:46.600 No.

02:57:47.580 Is your dynamic that which you describe, where he's covering everything?

02:57:50.640 Oh, like, payments?

02:57:51.540 No.

02:57:52.360 Do you guys live together?

02:57:53.280 No.

02:57:53.600 Okay.

02:57:53.920 So, it's pretty early on.

02:57:55.180 Yeah.

02:57:55.340 If he was, though, and he told you, hey, you know, I don't like what you're wearing.

02:58:01.200 Can you wear something else?

02:58:03.540 Would you do it?

02:58:04.740 Um.

02:58:05.560 This outfit, right?

02:58:06.100 Probably right now, no.

02:58:07.460 Because, right.

02:58:08.100 Well, not right now, but, you know, you ran it by him the night before, and he was like,

02:58:12.160 eh, can you wear something else?

02:58:15.120 Well, we've only been together for, if you're asking me, like, hypothetically, like, if this,

02:58:18.560 like, if he did cover everything, then, like, maybe.

02:58:21.520 But, since right now, like, we don't live together, we've only been together for two

02:58:24.240 months, he also dresses, like, pretty, I wouldn't say, like, immodest.

02:58:27.840 He dresses like a strumpet?

02:58:29.260 A strumpet.

02:58:30.380 I mean, he wears, like, jackets with, like, no shirt underneath.

02:58:32.840 So, like, he kind of dresses this way, too.

02:58:35.520 So, I know he has no problem with it.

02:58:36.780 But, that's what I was saying.

02:58:37.360 I probably personally wouldn't date someone who would have a problem with it.

02:58:40.960 Like, I guess I would be more submissive in, like, other ways.

02:58:43.740 Okay.

02:58:44.060 But, you want the guy to be 100% traditional?

02:58:46.840 So, like, in a lot of aspects.

02:58:50.000 I wouldn't say, like, 100% because there are some things that, like.

02:58:54.200 What are some other things you would not submit to, I guess?

02:58:57.460 So, he actually brought up an example to me.

02:58:59.280 I don't know if it was said on this podcast or something else that he watched.

02:59:01.860 But, it was, like, if a husband was to come home and be like, we're moving to this state

02:59:07.080 because my job says so and you have no say about it.

02:59:09.880 I would not just submit to that and be like, okay, let's go.

02:59:13.920 Like, I would probably be like, why are you talking to me like that?

02:59:16.020 Like, you're just going to come in here and tell me we're leaving?

02:59:18.520 Like, you're not even going to talk to me about it?

02:59:20.220 Yeah, we can play the clip you're referencing.

02:59:22.580 I might be quoting it wrong, but this is based off of what he told me.

02:59:25.180 So, I don't know.

02:59:25.960 Yeah, I mean, so, we had a male guest who came on the show who, we'll play the clip.

02:59:31.860 Okay.

02:59:32.600 Let me see if I can find it.

02:59:34.580 I think I know where it is.

02:59:35.900 One sec.

02:59:36.760 I'll reserve my judgment until I see the clip.

02:59:38.380 No, I mean, you were probably pretty spot on with it.

02:59:43.060 Okay.

02:59:45.960 Here, I'll send this private chat.

02:59:49.280 One sec, guys, while we get that going.

02:59:52.240 But, okay, this is assuming, oops, that would have been bad.

02:59:55.260 This is assuming that he's taking care of everything, paying all the bills, and you're not working.

03:00:01.220 So, I told my boyfriend this, too.

03:00:03.100 I was like, if someone came to me, like, respectfully and was like, hey, my job says we need to relocate here for, you know, and, like, I have no say in it, are you okay with that?

03:00:14.200 Like, I would 99% sure be okay with it because I'd be like, yeah, like, if your job needs it, let's go.

03:00:19.340 Like, we'll figure it out.

03:00:20.140 But if he came at me and was like, you have no say in this, we're moving, then I probably would not be okay with it just because you came at me like that.

03:00:26.840 Like, I want you to respect my opinion.

03:00:28.480 And I would probably agree with you to go, but just be respectful about it.

03:00:31.460 So, you want to have the conversation about it?

03:00:33.140 Yeah.

03:00:33.360 Like, I want to know that, like, someone would, like, respect my ideas.

03:00:36.420 Okay.

03:00:36.940 So, when it comes to instances in which you can be submissive, you want to have the conversation first, and then based on the tone and how that conversation goes, you then are the ultimate arbiter of whether you opt to submit or not submit.

03:00:54.060 Is that submitting?

03:00:54.880 Is that a fair characterization of how you view submission?

03:00:59.380 I absolutely see what you're saying.

03:01:00.540 But I guess it's, because I would submit.

03:01:03.060 But it's just, like, I would like to just be respected about it.

03:01:06.540 I don't know.

03:01:07.380 Yeah, Clay, exactly.

03:01:08.160 Well, how about this?

03:01:10.180 Then, like, the traditional guy, what if in each instance where you had an expectation that he'd be a leader or that he'd adhere to his traditional role, he wanted to have a conversation with you about it, and the conversation was essentially, eh, I don't know if I want to do that.

03:01:31.600 I want to check in first and see if I can not do the thing.

03:01:37.100 So, for example, you want a guy to pay for the first date, right?

03:01:40.060 Yes.

03:01:40.220 Can I ask you a question?

03:01:40.900 If you were on a date with a guy and the waiter comes, say you go to dinner, you know, go to a nice dinner.

03:01:48.020 It doesn't have to be a super fancy place, but a nice dinner, whatever.

03:01:50.380 And the waiter comes, and he says, two checks, please.

03:01:53.700 Is there going to be a second date?

03:01:55.400 Probably not, but I wouldn't be disrespectful about it either.

03:01:57.620 Like, I wouldn't look at him and be like, why are you paying?

03:02:00.440 But you would have an expectation that he pay for the bill.

03:02:03.960 Yes, and that's just my personal expectation.

03:02:05.340 Now, let's say he then, within the purview of his traditional gender roles, before him just jumping to that, he says, listen, I'm a traditional chivalrous man, but first I want to have a conversation with you.

03:02:24.340 How do you feel about if we go 50-50 on this?

03:02:29.240 And he wants to have the conversation.

03:02:30.520 I mean, I would honestly respect him for, like, having the conversation first, but I would ultimately be my opinion, I guess, to go through with it.

03:02:38.980 No, but he wants to have the conversation.

03:02:40.940 Okay.

03:02:41.280 Like, he's leaning towards paying for it.

03:02:42.540 But then, so if I tell him, like.

03:02:43.240 But he's like, babe, can we talk about this?

03:02:45.340 So, okay, but if my, like, answer to him saying that is, okay, well, like, why do we need to go 50-50?

03:02:49.920 Like, are you struggling?

03:02:50.900 Like, I don't know.

03:02:51.480 It depends on how much I actually like to talk. 1.00

03:02:52.720 He's just like, you know, I just want, I'm not financially struggling, but you ate the fuck. 1.00

03:03:00.520 You ate the food, you know, you should pay for it. 0.99

03:03:04.540 Well, and if I said, well, I just wouldn't prefer that.

03:03:06.980 Because in, like, my scenario, like, if he was saying, like, we're going to move, and, like, he came to me respectfully about it, and I would agree with him.

03:03:12.500 In this scenario.

03:03:13.120 If you agree with him.

03:03:14.260 But I would agree with him as a thing.

03:03:15.720 Like, if he was like, we have to move for my job.

03:03:17.940 But what if it's somewhere.

03:03:19.280 But he was nice about it.

03:03:19.740 I'd be like, okay.

03:03:21.020 Here's the scenario.

03:03:23.300 You love the guy, whatever.

03:03:25.200 You're submissive.

03:03:26.400 He wants to move somewhere.

03:03:27.660 And the entailment of that is, you have your established friend group.

03:03:31.480 You like where you live.

03:03:32.880 The new place that you're moving to, you will like it less.

03:03:36.560 And all your friends, you lose your friend group that's at least there in person.

03:03:41.600 But he's like, look, in my determination as the leader of the relationship, this is the move financially for us together to do.

03:03:50.820 Okay.

03:03:52.060 You're going to move to North Dakota?

03:03:53.600 Honestly.

03:03:54.020 Well, so is it a known fact that I wouldn't like it there?

03:03:56.680 Like, because you said, like, this is a stipulation that you wouldn't like it.

03:04:00.520 No, I don't think I said that.

03:04:02.640 But I said that you like the current place that you do live, and all your friends live there.

03:04:07.060 Yeah.

03:04:07.380 I can make new friends.

03:04:08.780 I don't mind.

03:04:09.160 Okay.

03:04:09.580 But you're moving to somewhere that you will like less than the place that you currently live.

03:04:14.000 So that's, like, a fact.

03:04:14.840 I would like it less.

03:04:16.520 Let's assume you're living in, where do you live currently?

03:04:20.700 Dallas, Texas.

03:04:21.700 I mean.

03:04:23.300 Hey, you don't hear about Dallas.

03:04:25.160 Weren't there floods there recently?

03:04:26.520 Well, there's fires here.

03:04:28.300 True.

03:04:28.460 I don't know. 1.00

03:04:30.100 You're in fucking Hawaii. 1.00

03:04:32.840 You're in Hawaii. 1.00

03:04:33.620 You're in Hawaii.

03:04:34.960 You're in Hawaii.

03:04:36.780 And then he's like, look, I got to move.

03:04:39.840 We got to move to Montana.

03:04:43.140 Okay.

03:04:43.800 We got to move to Alaska.

03:04:46.200 Yeah.

03:04:47.780 That's a change.

03:04:49.800 It is a change.

03:04:50.520 Absolutely.

03:04:50.860 I guess.

03:04:51.480 At the end of the day, like, yeah, I would go.

03:04:52.880 Because especially if I love this guy.

03:04:54.500 You've been to Alaska?

03:04:55.860 No, but Alaska's really pretty.

03:04:57.640 I've known people who have gone. 0.99

03:04:58.840 I mean, it's cold as fuck in Alaska, son. 0.99

03:05:00.880 That's okay. 0.99

03:05:01.000 I like cold.

03:05:01.800 I'm used to, like, 100-degree weather, and that's too hot for me.

03:05:04.080 Okay.

03:05:04.300 But I would go, considering I really love this man, and I want to build a family with him.

03:05:08.780 Like, I would go.

03:05:09.580 But my only thing is I just want him to, like, tell me.

03:05:11.920 I guess he doesn't even have to ask me.

03:05:13.440 He can just tell me nicely.

03:05:14.640 Like, baby, my job has to have us move here.

03:05:17.420 Like, how do you feel about that?

03:05:18.940 Like, and if you, like, don't like it, tell me why.

03:05:20.660 And, like, maybe there is no choice.

03:05:22.980 But at least he, like, considers my feelings.

03:05:25.380 Okay.

03:05:25.840 So we're going to play the clip in question.

03:05:27.700 Okay.

03:05:28.160 Did I send it?

03:05:29.000 Yeah, but it's the only way that we come up with this one.

03:05:32.080 That's fine.

03:05:33.260 Go ahead.

03:05:34.040 I can't.

03:05:35.180 Go ahead.

03:05:36.220 How do you show respect to your wife?

03:05:37.900 Yeah.

03:05:38.180 Oh, all sorts of ways.

03:05:39.540 I basically give her whatever the hell she wants.

03:05:41.420 I adore her.

03:05:42.060 But here's the thing.

03:05:43.040 The reason that I do this is because if I say this is what ultimately is going to happen,

03:05:47.800 that's the last word in it, and I don't even want to have the conversation, we don't.

03:05:51.120 Now, she may really want to, and I can tell sometimes that she really does, but I don't 0.72

03:05:56.160 fucking care because it's my decision ultimately. 0.91

03:05:58.640 So you don't care about how she feels? 0.99

03:06:00.200 I don't know.

03:06:00.560 I didn't say I didn't care how she feels.

03:06:01.900 I just don't care to have her question my authority autonomy over the marriage.

03:06:06.060 Was there an initial conversation prior to that, or was it just like, we're doing this,

03:06:09.220 don't ask me about it?

03:06:09.640 Depends on the context.

03:06:10.880 Sometimes.

03:06:11.180 I would say more for like bigger decisions in life, not necessarily like little things.

03:06:15.720 Even larger decisions if ultimately, let's say I went home and I said, we're moving to

03:06:20.020 Nevada in three weeks. 0.98

03:06:21.080 Get your bags packed, and I'm not going to have a fucking, I don't want to hear a word 0.99

03:06:24.160 about it. 0.99

03:06:24.900 You're doing it, and that's the way it's going.

03:06:26.760 And you think that's respectful?

03:06:28.080 I think that ultimately it's my choice.

03:06:30.280 And how she shows me respect.

03:06:32.120 Yeah, that's how she shows me respect.

03:06:33.540 Let it play for a little bit.

03:06:34.900 Let it play, let it play.

03:06:35.700 Oh, all sorts of ways.

03:06:37.100 I basically give her whatever the hell she wants.

03:06:38.900 I adore her.

03:06:39.480 But, but, okay, so the reason that in there, I hate that.

03:06:43.320 So that's the clip you disagreed with.

03:06:45.100 Yes.

03:06:45.640 Yeah.

03:06:46.140 Yeah.

03:06:46.680 I still disagree with it.

03:06:48.560 It just, and it's, and literally what he's saying, I guess, like if I was to say I was

03:06:52.080 going to be submissive, what he's saying isn't technically wrong, especially for going by

03:06:54.880 traditional roles.

03:06:55.660 Like the man would have the ultimate say then, I guess, but it's the fact that he's like

03:06:59.940 cussing at in like the sentence and he's being so aggressive about it.

03:07:03.860 You're not going to be aggressive to me.

03:07:05.400 You can be like the leader and you can still be nice and respectful.

03:07:09.480 And like a loving, caring person.

03:07:11.100 But you would, you would acknowledge that when you're relaying something to an outsider,

03:07:15.440 the way that you would actually word that wouldn't necessarily be reflected in how you're

03:07:22.260 wording it in this particular way.

03:07:24.860 You could be right.

03:07:25.580 I'm not in the relationship, so I don't know how he actually talks to her. 1.00

03:07:28.180 But I know he treats her like shit. 0.99

03:07:29.360 If he says that like, okay, hold on. 1.00

03:07:31.000 On the internet.

03:07:31.580 That's a crazy.

03:07:32.720 That's an absurd. 0.99

03:07:34.580 I think he's a horrible, I don't like that man at all. 0.93

03:07:37.760 And the way he was just talking, he's like, yeah, when I get home and I say, we're going 1.00

03:07:40.720 to fucking do this and we're going to fuck, fuck you. 1.00

03:07:43.260 Yeah. 1.00

03:07:43.580 Fuck you. 1.00

03:07:44.060 And I hope she gets out. 1.00

03:07:44.840 I'm sorry.

03:07:45.140 I hate him. 0.98

03:07:46.040 I hate him. 1.00

03:07:46.620 I disagree. 0.57

03:07:47.880 I like that guy.

03:07:49.300 That's why if you like him, but I'm saying like, I think the way he talks and he, the

03:07:53.300 way he acts about women, like it's so degrading.

03:07:55.820 Like the, he thinks that he can say and tell us what to do and all this, that's, it should

03:07:59.200 be a partnership when you're in a relationship.

03:08:00.860 It's okay to have a dominant man.

03:08:02.340 Like Brian, do you agree with the way he talked?

03:08:05.600 I like how he said in the first, he made it known.

03:08:09.060 He said, I give my wife everything she needs.

03:08:12.160 I wouldn't.

03:08:13.220 He says he adores her.

03:08:14.300 And by the way, I've seen them together.

03:08:16.680 I've had his wife, Rachel on the show.

03:08:19.720 I've heard them talking.

03:08:21.140 He treats her wonderfully.

03:08:23.020 Okay.

03:08:24.120 When he's having that conversation though, right there, he's taking on a tone that's more

03:08:30.120 directed towards the person he's talking to.

03:08:32.580 That's doesn't necessarily imply that that's how that's going to go when they're actually

03:08:38.280 in person.

03:08:39.700 But even then I can tell you from firsthand seeing them, he treats her fantastically.

03:08:45.480 And I'm glad they're happy.

03:08:46.680 I'm saying, I don't like that man.

03:08:48.140 If he, she's happy, good for her.

03:08:49.980 But the way that you got to fix your mic, can you strain your mic up and like tilt it

03:08:53.780 down a little bit?

03:08:56.540 All right.

03:08:57.140 I don't think that's fair though, to go in on an attack on him when he's not here, you

03:09:00.540 know?

03:09:01.120 I don't care.

03:09:02.020 At least his sister is Victoria's secret.

03:09:03.900 You have a, is that true?

03:09:05.900 In a previous life?

03:09:07.260 Yes.

03:09:07.800 What do you mean a previous life?

03:09:08.960 Well, that's like her ex vocation.

03:09:11.360 That's your actual, wait, you said you had a half, wait.

03:09:14.180 Half sister.

03:09:15.360 Half sister.

03:09:15.700 She's an ex model. 1.00

03:09:17.260 Oh, cool.

03:09:18.700 I guess.

03:09:19.140 Congrats.

03:09:19.760 You were going to say.

03:09:21.240 Yeah.

03:09:22.060 Congrats.

03:09:23.820 That is so funny.

03:09:25.640 Okay.

03:09:25.980 Just had to make it known real quick.

03:09:28.260 Oh yeah.

03:09:28.620 You guys do kind of look alike a bit, I guess.

03:09:30.780 Don't.

03:09:30.880 Oh, that's cool.

03:09:32.400 Congrats.

03:09:33.500 So what were we talking about?

03:09:35.500 Oh, well, okay.

03:09:36.420 This was your prompt.

03:09:37.760 We were talking about.

03:09:39.300 Just like submission versus leadership.

03:09:41.120 Roles in relationships, what each deserves and expects.

03:09:45.060 Yeah.

03:09:45.620 Okay.

03:09:47.900 I feel like I laid it out.

03:09:49.700 Ellie, do you want to weigh in on this?

03:09:51.280 Weigh in on what?

03:09:52.420 What we were talking about.

03:09:54.960 Man, it's all blurring together.

03:09:56.320 Or, okay, wait, about expectations from like submission or whatever?

03:10:03.980 Yeah.

03:10:05.060 Okay.

03:10:05.720 Well, referring to like the clip we just saw, I mean, if it was predetermined that that's

03:10:12.880 how they are happy to conduct with each other, then I don't see any problem with it.

03:10:17.660 And clearly if they're still together, then I mean, yeah.

03:10:21.560 Say if they, I don't know how long, say if they have like a 20 year going relationship,

03:10:26.320 if that's working for them, that's great for them.

03:10:29.460 I mean.

03:10:29.720 It's more my opinion on him is more deeply in the things he said on the show, not to his

03:10:33.740 wife.

03:10:33.900 If they have a lovely relationship, then I believe that.

03:10:36.480 If she's happy, I believe that.

03:10:37.720 But I think she could definitely be with another man that could treat her better. 0.70

03:10:41.100 That's my opinion.

03:10:41.700 Because I don't think he's a good, I don't think he's a good person.

03:10:44.900 And that's just my opinion.

03:10:45.280 But do you know him like personally?

03:10:46.840 No, that's what I'm saying.

03:10:48.000 Like I don't, I'm not like going to, from what I've seen, I don't like that behavior.

03:10:52.920 I don't like the way he speaks.

03:10:53.840 I don't like the way he talks to people.

03:10:55.280 He, when, when the girl was on a podcast, even though she was crazy, like she was making,

03:10:59.520 he was making fun of her the way he was, she was talking.

03:11:01.780 She had a speech impediment. 1.00

03:11:02.780 Like the way he talks up to like, it's okay to call her a crazy bitch because she was a 1.00

03:11:06.680 crazy bitch, but to make fun of her like speech impediment, you're gross. 1.00

03:11:09.620 Like that's, there's things you don't do. 1.00

03:11:11.220 And he always crosses that line in my opinion.

03:11:13.440 That's just how I feel.

03:11:14.240 I don't think, I think he always crosses the line and I don't like that.

03:11:17.340 I think he's just rude.

03:11:20.080 I met Andrew and he is a lot nicer in person than you see in the clips, I would say.

03:11:28.080 Then why wouldn't he portray himself?

03:11:29.040 Like that's what I'm saying.

03:11:29.660 Why doesn't he, why does he choose that?

03:11:31.920 Like what does he choose the villain role?

03:11:33.480 What's the reason that he's doing this?

03:11:35.840 Yeah.

03:11:36.240 I just don't understand why he chooses that role.

03:11:38.220 Like when, if he is a good person, be a good person.

03:11:40.660 That's what you don't, you're not a good person.

03:11:41.900 If you make fun of someone's speech impediment, I don't care. 0.99

03:11:43.640 She was crazy. 0.96

03:11:44.220 She was in the wrong.

03:11:45.440 She was in the wrong, but like, that doesn't mean what he did was okay.

03:11:50.560 Like it's just not okay.

03:11:51.580 And he does a lot of things that are not okay in my opinion.

03:11:53.520 I think being rude to people, even if you don't disagree, if you disagree with them is just

03:11:57.700 like, I'm giving that energy to him because that's the way he talks to other people.

03:12:01.020 So that's what I'm saying.

03:12:02.140 But I don't know the man in person.

03:12:04.080 I don't want to.

03:12:04.920 I agree.

03:12:05.040 I think it's kind to attack someone for a condition they have or something.

03:12:09.600 He said, you sound deaf. 0.99

03:12:11.080 You sound, like being literally so rude, like, and disgusting. 0.99

03:12:14.320 Like, I hate, that is so rude. 0.99

03:12:17.160 Like, deaf people sound like that because they can't hear themselves. 1.00

03:12:19.980 And you're going to make, so it's not only he was making fun of her speech impediment,

03:12:23.880 he's making fun of deaf people and being literally like, he was doing this with his hands, being 0.98

03:12:27.640 like, you sound deaf, like, so disgusting. 0.99

03:12:30.780 Like, you're a grown man with children. 1.00

03:12:32.680 Like, grow up.

03:12:33.260 Sorry.

03:12:33.960 That's just how I feel.

03:12:36.840 Grown adult.

03:12:40.020 Yeah.

03:12:42.280 And it's okay if you guys, but I, that's just my opinion.

03:12:44.660 I don't, I'm not okay with people bullying like that.

03:12:47.040 I'm not okay with making fun of someone for, if he cussed her out, I wouldn't have cared.

03:12:51.340 Like, you're allowed to be angry with a person, but you're, the lines that he crosses are

03:12:55.500 so far off. 0.96

03:12:57.160 Like, it's just ridiculous. 0.84

03:12:58.980 And why would you choose that as a career? 0.97

03:13:00.620 Like, to be an act like that, like, why is he choosing that?

03:13:03.280 You know what I mean?

03:13:03.600 You could be a good person and have good debates and faithful conversations.

03:13:07.600 Instead of that, he's trying to piss people off.

03:13:09.300 And always is like, define that. 1.00

03:13:11.400 Define, like, always trying to make girls look stupid. 1.00

03:13:13.260 It's like, why do you want to do that? 1.00

03:13:14.380 Why do you want a girl to look like an idiot? 1.00

03:13:16.420 Just because they're not as educated as you. 1.00

03:13:18.000 And you're going to use your education as this, like, thing that, like, I just don't

03:13:21.760 want to give.

03:13:22.280 But I think, like, when he says define that, he kind of gets them in, like, if you're going

03:13:27.300 to talk about a topic, you better know, like, you better know yourself.

03:13:31.120 Also, I think you can talk about a topic and not know the exact definition of a word.

03:13:35.180 Like, you can know what the word means, right?

03:13:37.740 Like, you know, if someone doesn't know the deep-rooted doesn't mean they don't know

03:13:41.220 that word in that context, in the way that they're speaking.

03:13:44.000 And to stop someone and be able to be, like, and try to catch them in, like, oh, you're 1.00

03:13:47.800 an idiot kind of thing, I don't like that. 1.00

03:13:49.420 I'm not going to ask Brian if he knows a word, a big word that he's using, because I assume 0.99

03:13:53.620 that he knows, because he's using it in a sentence that makes sense.

03:13:56.580 So, I assume he knows the definition. 0.99

03:13:58.040 And who gives a fuck if he doesn't know it? 0.98

03:13:59.800 He's using it correctly, so move on. 0.95

03:14:03.300 I would love to see you and Andrew interact.

03:14:06.660 I love the personality.

03:14:08.560 You're just, like, you don't care.

03:14:10.460 I'm not scared of, come on, Andrew.

03:14:11.920 Andrew, bring me, I'm not kidding, I'll come on.

03:14:14.700 And Andrew's similar, he'll lay it out.

03:14:16.860 Yeah.

03:14:17.820 Call me fat in person, Andrew. 0.98

03:14:20.000 Did he call you fat? 0.87

03:14:21.180 No, I'm just saying, I feel like he would say that. 1.00

03:14:22.980 He's like, you're not 10 because you're a fat cow. 0.99

03:14:25.140 That's what he would say. 1.00

03:14:25.780 Oh, wow.

03:14:27.060 Wow, so I heard a lot of, I was, I stepped away briefly.

03:14:31.600 You obviously got to monologue there a bit uncontested, but I did hear everything that

03:14:37.400 you said, so I think I'd like to provide at least some degree of defense here.

03:14:43.360 For starters, I think you, originally you made statements about his relationship with

03:14:49.900 Rachel.

03:14:50.940 First off, I think it's a completely egregious thing to say that you hope that she gets away

03:14:56.580 with him with the implication that he's somehow abusive to her.

03:15:00.000 This is categorically not the case.

03:15:01.920 He treats her wonderfully.

03:15:02.940 Unfortunately, she, she even said like, will come to his defense frequently all the time.

03:15:08.440 She's very happy in the marriage.

03:15:09.960 So it doesn't need you to like, be like, oh, you should leave him.

03:15:14.260 You should get out of the relationship.

03:15:16.200 She herself admits she's, they have kids together.

03:15:19.240 They've been married for a very long time.

03:15:21.220 Nah, but it's very, it's kind of a gross thing to tell a wife that she should leave her husband. 0.94

03:15:26.200 You don't know the dynamics of their relationship.

03:15:28.260 I get that he's ideal, ideologically opposed to you and disagrees with you on a great many

03:15:33.820 things, but I do think it's kind of, uh, in pretty bad taste to tell a wife to leave her

03:15:40.600 husband under the implication that he's abusive.

03:15:43.740 I can tell you as somebody who knows, who's known Andrew for a long time, who's seen them

03:15:48.860 interact, never, he praises Rachel all the time.

03:15:54.280 I didn't say that.

03:15:54.620 It's completely inappropriate to tell her with the implication that he's abusive to tell

03:15:59.120 her.

03:15:59.700 You did.

03:16:00.160 You said, I hope she gets away from him.

03:16:02.500 And in what way is that abusive? 1.00

03:16:03.820 I mean, he's an asshole. 1.00

03:16:04.720 The implication. 1.00

03:16:05.800 Okay.

03:16:06.120 Well, oh, he likes pineapple on his pizza.

03:16:09.220 So she should divorce him.

03:16:10.480 Oh my gosh.

03:16:10.940 I literally moved away from her.

03:16:12.200 After I made that comment, I moved away from it real quickly.

03:16:14.080 Did I not?

03:16:14.400 I said, if she's happy, I said, if she's happy, then I'm happy for her.

03:16:18.640 I think there's a man there.

03:16:20.600 She, if it was a different life, I think she could be happier in a different relationship. 0.98

03:16:23.860 I think the way that he acts is not the type, if she's happy in that marriage, good for her.

03:16:28.840 And I didn't say he's abusive.

03:16:29.880 You also mischaracterized.

03:16:31.940 Then the other thing I heard when I was back there is you went on to mischaracterize his

03:16:36.280 interaction when you said he was mocking a woman by calling her, her death and doing

03:16:41.580 some certain gestures.

03:16:42.540 You conveniently left out the part where prior to his mocking of her, she went ahead and

03:16:50.500 was mocking.

03:16:51.900 I think he was actually coming to my defense.

03:16:54.100 Even she was mocking me saying what are you saying?

03:16:58.760 Oh man.

03:16:58.940 It was honestly, I don't commit to memory. 1.00

03:17:00.560 All the stupid shit women say on the show, but she was definitely unprompted coming for 1.00

03:17:07.260 me. 1.00

03:17:07.880 And then Andrew's my homie.

03:17:09.720 So he's like, in essence, well, F you.

03:17:13.340 And then he started mocking her.

03:17:15.280 So I think it's fair game as somebody.

03:17:17.500 If she's going to mock him or she's going to mock his friend, me, that he's going to

03:17:23.620 be like, you can get the smoke now.

03:17:25.720 And he gave her the smoke.

03:17:27.700 I, you're saying everything the opposite. 0.98

03:17:29.920 I literally said she deserved, that girl was crazy. 1.00

03:17:32.880 She deserves some smoke. 0.98

03:17:34.220 What I'm saying is what he said.

03:17:35.920 She didn't make fun. 1.00

03:17:37.120 What did she, she didn't make any fun of you with stuff like what he did.

03:17:40.260 He was involving the deaf community, community, pretending. 0.82

03:17:42.920 The deaf community.

03:17:44.020 Are you not hearing what I'm saying?

03:17:45.280 He's making fun of her speech.

03:17:47.540 That is a physical thing that she cannot control.

03:17:49.180 Not her look, not her weird hair or whatever.

03:17:52.000 Like you, she, she came at me first. 1.00

03:17:54.820 So it wasn't unprompted.

03:17:56.300 And she deserved some smoke.

03:17:56.840 Yeah, but it wasn't unprompted. 1.00

03:17:58.140 It wasn't just like Andrew out of the blue, just to be a jerk, started saying some shit 1.00

03:18:03.040 to her. 1.00

03:18:03.580 She was being fucking obnoxious to the point we had to kick her off the show. 1.00

03:18:07.180 Yes. 0.99

03:18:07.540 So you're being, you're doing this disingenuous thing where you're leaving out critical context

03:18:12.120 that attempts to paint him in a really bad light without focusing in on what she did

03:18:17.460 to contribute to getting some smoke back.

03:18:19.880 How I literally said, literally said.

03:18:21.960 What did you say? 0.95

03:18:22.560 That she was, did I not say she was crazy and that she deserved some type of. 0.92

03:18:26.060 Just now? 0.96

03:18:26.940 No, earlier.

03:18:28.120 Really?

03:18:28.340 I literally, did I not say it?

03:18:30.460 She did say it to me.

03:18:31.000 I literally said she deserves some type of smoke. 1.00

03:18:33.200 That girl was crazy. 1.00

03:18:33.980 She was rude. 1.00

03:18:34.800 She did something bad.

03:18:35.340 Okay, I missed that part.

03:18:36.120 Yes.

03:18:36.340 I missed that part.

03:18:36.960 And I didn't say he was abusive.

03:18:38.220 You're saying all this stuff that I didn't say, babe.

03:18:40.140 So he, I don't think he's a good person.

03:18:42.560 If they're in a good marriage, that's great for him.

03:18:44.560 I hope she's happy.

03:18:45.920 Period on that.

03:18:46.920 The girl deserves some smoke. 1.00

03:18:48.420 She, he could have cussed her out.

03:18:49.600 He could have done whatever. 0.50

03:18:50.740 Making fun of someone's speech impediment, saying that you sound like a deaf, Brian thinks

03:18:55.400 it's funny, sounds like a deaf. 0.73

03:18:56.960 It was a little funny. 0.97

03:18:57.860 Okay, maybe it's a little ha ha funny in the moment, but like, it's not fucking funny. 0.95

03:19:01.420 Like, that's not funny to make fun of the way that deaf people speak because they can't 1.00

03:19:05.320 hear themselves because they're fucking deaf. 1.00

03:19:06.500 That's not funny. 1.00

03:19:07.600 That's not funny.

03:19:08.280 And if you agree with that, that's great.

03:19:09.340 Look, I have empathy and sympathy for people who are deaf.

03:19:12.380 I wouldn't advocate for making fun of somebody on that basis.

03:19:15.840 That's what he did.

03:19:16.280 But he was doing a generalized mocking of her voice.

03:19:21.280 And this is something that people do all the time.

03:19:23.760 People mock people's voices.

03:19:25.080 People do that.

03:19:25.560 It wasn't like how.

03:19:26.080 People do that with me.

03:19:26.940 They think I have an accent.

03:19:28.560 I'm hard to talk.

03:19:30.500 Oh my God.

03:19:30.800 It's so different.

03:19:31.700 If something, because I'm loud and I'm talking, if someone was mocking me, it's one thing.

03:19:35.100 Nobody.

03:19:35.320 She has a speech impediment.

03:19:37.220 Something is wrong with her voice.

03:19:39.340 She was born with it.

03:19:40.380 You don't make fun of something like that.

03:19:42.100 You can make fun of the way she dresses or whatever. 0.99

03:19:45.160 She went on to make fun of men with small penises. 1.00

03:19:47.860 Have you ever made fun of a man with a small penis? 1.00

03:19:50.440 You didn't fuck your boyfriend because of his small penis. 1.00

03:19:53.860 I dated him for three and a half years. 1.00

03:19:55.620 I didn't make fun of him.

03:19:56.440 I just.

03:19:56.880 What are you talking about?

03:19:57.700 I don't know.

03:19:58.100 Some of the gestures you were making were a little offensive.

03:20:00.540 It's a fact.

03:20:00.680 Hold on. 0.99

03:20:01.120 Were a little offensive to the small penis community. 0.99

03:20:04.100 It's a fact. 0.99

03:20:05.280 The small penis community was offended. 0.99

03:20:07.860 Okay. 1.00

03:20:08.060 If he was on the table and said, oh, were you born with that speech impediment?

03:20:11.700 Isn't that what it talked about?

03:20:12.740 It's one thing.

03:20:13.200 He was mocking.

03:20:14.120 You're probably arguing about something. 0.99

03:20:15.020 Have you ever made fun of somebody with a small penis? 1.00

03:20:18.380 Have you ever said, I bet that guy's compensating for his small. 0.99

03:20:22.100 No, I haven't really. 1.00

03:20:23.520 Penis. 1.00

03:20:24.420 Really? 0.99

03:20:24.960 I dated someone. 0.99

03:20:26.260 Never made fun of a small penis? 0.99

03:20:27.660 You're talking. 0.99

03:20:28.440 Never made fun of a.

03:20:29.420 Yes.

03:20:30.020 I'm.

03:20:31.540 I've not made fun of.

03:20:33.040 No.

03:20:33.560 I've like talked about like.

03:20:37.760 Didn't Priscilla try to fight Andrew?

03:20:41.060 Yeah.

03:20:41.680 She tried to.

03:20:42.440 She got it.

03:20:43.100 Right?

03:20:43.560 Yeah.

03:20:43.980 Yeah.

03:20:44.200 After the.

03:20:45.100 After she was making fun of him.

03:20:46.720 Yeah.

03:20:47.180 Okay.

03:20:48.500 I have.

03:20:49.740 Why would I make fun of him and then not date someone?

03:20:51.640 And I dated them for three and a half years because I didn't care.

03:20:54.060 I'm not.

03:20:54.480 You're talking to the wrong person.

03:20:55.660 I'm not judgmental like that.

03:20:56.880 I don't care.

03:20:57.480 If I love you, I love you.

03:20:58.360 Sure.

03:20:59.000 Whatever you say.

03:21:00.100 Okay, sir.

03:21:00.660 Whatever you say.

03:21:01.840 I'm just saying, you know, look.

03:21:04.280 Me personally.

03:21:06.760 I, you know, Andrew is sometimes abrasive.

03:21:12.080 But sometimes you got to give a bit of leeway when you're dealing with a crazy person.

03:21:20.000 You know what I mean?

03:21:21.480 Yeah.

03:21:22.300 I would not have used those words.

03:21:25.800 I don't know why I'm doing the Trump thing.

03:21:27.260 I would not have used those words myself.

03:21:29.500 Uh, but, you know, sometimes in the heat of the moment, you know, look, sometimes a girl 0.99

03:21:35.540 and in the heat of the moment, she was really disrespectful to the small penis community. 1.00

03:21:40.000 She was like, you little dick motherfuckers. 1.00

03:21:43.000 Is that your impression of her? 1.00

03:21:45.000 That was good.

03:21:45.220 Sorry.

03:21:45.740 You.

03:21:46.300 Wait.

03:21:46.480 Oh my God.

03:21:47.060 Stop it. 1.00

03:21:47.780 It was like, you little dick. 1.00

03:21:52.420 What? 1.00

03:21:52.680 She has this, she has this, uh, what is it?

03:21:54.660 A lisp.

03:21:55.160 Lisp.

03:21:56.300 And I think it's very cute.

03:21:57.540 I think your lisp is cute, babe.

03:21:59.360 It makes you mew.

03:22:00.000 You can, you can have a lisp.

03:22:01.620 It makes you mew.

03:22:02.600 Yeah.

03:22:03.280 People who are, who are good of hearing, uh, can have a lisp.

03:22:08.380 Sometimes I lisp. 0.97

03:22:09.800 A lot of gay people lisp. 1.00

03:22:11.220 It's okay to have a lisp. 0.98

03:22:13.460 You've never heard about the gay lisp? 0.92

03:22:14.900 Yeah. 0.99

03:22:15.660 The gay lingos. 1.00

03:22:16.760 All right. 1.00

03:22:17.100 That's crazy, man.

03:22:18.180 That's crazy.

03:22:18.900 Anyways, look, look, you know, um, see, why is it crazy for me to feel that way?

03:22:25.040 Not crazy that he did that.

03:22:26.320 Do you know what I mean?

03:22:26.860 Like, it's okay.

03:22:27.820 Like, you're like, it's so crazy.

03:22:29.080 It's not crazy.

03:22:29.880 I have an opinion on it.

03:22:30.780 Oh my God. 1.00

03:22:31.260 Fucking bring it to the, uh, the, the deaf people then cancel Andrew. 1.00

03:22:35.560 If you're so upset about it, send an email, send an email, go to HR. 0.99

03:22:40.680 I'll go to HR. 0.98

03:22:41.360 Uh, if you want to complain, Andrew's fucking 10 months ago said some insensitive joke 1.00

03:22:46.220 when some chick was losing her fucking mind. 1.00

03:22:49.620 Okay. 1.00

03:22:50.040 Go to, I didn't even make it a big deal.

03:22:52.160 You can't like, I, we were having a conversation among the girlies and then you came back to 1.00

03:22:56.080 like, I was disrespecting him, which I'm not.

03:22:57.540 You were disrespecting him.

03:22:58.380 Oh, him.

03:22:58.820 Yes.

03:22:59.140 But not his relationship.

03:22:59.660 Yeah.

03:22:59.820 It's also not fair to like, you know, he's not here.

03:23:01.880 He can't defend himself.

03:23:02.480 That's why I'm not saying, I'm not going to say, literally I had a notebook with notes

03:23:05.720 for him and then I closed and said, he's not here.

03:23:07.680 So I'm not going to speak, but you asked the question.

03:23:09.080 So I'm going to answer and that's okay.

03:23:11.760 But if he's on and you want me to come on, I will speak my mind to him.

03:23:15.100 I am.

03:23:15.460 I'm not afraid of no man.

03:23:16.980 Okay.

03:23:17.120 We'll have him on.

03:23:18.040 We're going to invite me.

03:23:19.580 In person soon.

03:23:20.160 Invite me.

03:23:20.720 All right.

03:23:21.220 Well, Hey, you, you know, you actually originally wanted to be on with him, but then, you know,

03:23:25.820 you weren't able to make it that day.

03:23:27.640 He was on that day.

03:23:29.000 Well, the original day you were going to come, he was going to be on that day.

03:23:31.840 Well, I had my car broke down.

03:23:33.180 It's okay.

03:23:33.660 It's I get it.

03:23:34.260 Stuff happens.

03:23:34.920 It wasn't meant to be.

03:23:35.720 But where were we?

03:23:37.620 Oh, we got to do once she's back from the table or we will do the, oh, the video here. 0.97

03:23:42.940 We can do the video while she's gone.

03:23:44.780 All right.

03:23:45.300 So this is this great video that is relevant.

03:23:49.500 Go ahead.

03:23:50.220 Video tab it.

03:23:53.300 Go ahead.

03:23:53.880 Play.

03:23:54.040 Okay.

03:23:54.280 I want you to rate this woman on a scale of one to 10.

03:23:57.580 Oh, nine or 10 easily.

03:23:59.700 She's stunning.

03:24:00.600 Okay.

03:24:01.180 Be honest.

03:24:02.000 Drop dead gorgeous.

03:24:03.460 Well, what if I told you that you look like her?

03:24:07.100 Oh.

03:24:08.040 So you think I'm that?

03:24:09.920 Okay.

03:24:10.400 I want you to rate this.

03:24:11.720 All right.

03:24:12.340 Wow.

03:24:12.960 That's.

03:24:17.900 Wait.

03:24:18.380 Is the audio muted?

03:24:20.680 It's all good.

03:24:22.380 All good.

03:24:23.860 All good in the neighborhood.

03:24:26.220 All right.

03:24:27.560 She's back.

03:24:28.300 So we're going to get right into it, guys.

03:24:30.200 AI age advancements.

03:24:33.020 Here we go.

03:24:34.360 Here we go.

03:24:36.660 You got it?

03:24:37.160 All right.

03:24:41.220 Hold on.

03:24:41.840 I'll do it.

03:24:42.680 Yep.

03:24:43.920 Whoa.

03:24:44.200 Yo.

03:24:45.620 Oh, wow.

03:24:46.860 Thank you.

03:24:47.440 Wait.

03:24:48.160 Go ahead.

03:24:48.620 You can. 0.96

03:24:49.000 You're slaying.

03:24:53.140 What can I say?

03:24:54.320 The adrenochrome did not work.

03:24:56.100 No.

03:24:58.000 All right.

03:24:59.780 Next.

03:25:00.220 You have to make me skinny for it to be realistic.

03:25:04.000 I mean. 0.95

03:25:04.600 She's a baddie. 1.00

03:25:06.180 Emaciate her. 1.00

03:25:07.500 Emaciate her. 1.00

03:25:09.180 It's crazy. 0.94

03:25:11.600 Crazy work.

03:25:13.280 I think I'm hotter.

03:25:14.180 All right.

03:25:14.340 Next.

03:25:14.640 Oh, wait.

03:25:17.100 Actually, you're such a cute grandma.

03:25:19.300 Do you bake cookies?

03:25:20.560 No.

03:25:20.780 I literally should bake cookies.

03:25:22.360 I don't.

03:25:23.320 Next.

03:25:24.140 Oh.

03:25:24.480 I'm scared.

03:25:25.240 Oh, you look good.

03:25:26.760 Oh, you look cute.

03:25:27.660 Oh.

03:25:28.580 You look cute.

03:25:30.040 I look like my grandma.

03:25:31.040 I'll give it that.

03:25:31.520 Oh, I don't even want to go.

03:25:34.460 You're going to look good, girl.

03:25:35.300 My grandma's dead, though.

03:25:37.340 Next.

03:25:39.240 Oh, my God.

03:25:44.660 Oh, wow.

03:25:45.660 Yeah.

03:25:46.120 That's really something.

03:25:48.020 It's a milf.

03:25:49.080 Oh, I agree to disagree on that.

03:25:51.960 Oh, okay.

03:25:52.980 Okay.

03:25:53.500 You don't have to keep it.

03:25:53.920 No, the middle picture is cute.

03:25:55.260 You don't have to keep it up.

03:25:56.160 The middle picture is cute. 0.99

03:25:57.160 Oh, damn. 0.99

03:25:58.300 All right. 1.00

03:25:58.900 Next.

03:25:59.140 Okay, you can stop.

03:26:00.980 Oh, me.

03:26:01.520 Oh, my God.

03:26:02.040 That was fast.

03:26:03.800 That's so sad.

03:26:05.100 Oh, my God.

03:26:06.360 It looks so cute.

03:26:08.120 Okay.

03:26:09.880 Next.

03:26:10.680 Oh, I thought that was me.

03:26:11.840 I was like, oh, me.

03:26:14.480 Oh, you missed it.

03:26:15.560 Okay, there it is.

03:26:16.540 It doesn't even look real.

03:26:17.960 Yeah, it doesn't look real.

03:26:18.900 It is.

03:26:19.220 I always look the hair.

03:26:21.220 Oh, my gosh.

03:26:22.900 All right.

03:26:23.480 Next.

03:26:25.700 All right.

03:26:26.180 Not bad.

03:26:26.900 Not bad, Felicity.

03:26:28.420 Usually it does you pretty dirty.

03:26:29.680 He aged gracefully.

03:26:30.920 Not the worst.

03:26:31.120 Yeah, very gracefully.

03:26:32.560 Not the worst.

03:26:34.220 Wait, Felicity, can you show us your forehead?

03:26:38.800 I've already done that before.

03:26:40.240 Have you?

03:26:40.780 Yeah.

03:26:41.220 Do you have a juicy forehead?

03:26:42.160 We're good.

03:26:42.680 I love a good forehead.

03:26:43.380 It's juicy.

03:26:44.580 All right.

03:26:44.900 Next.

03:26:46.760 Oh, yeah.

03:26:47.640 You look like Santa.

03:26:48.360 You look like Santa.

03:26:48.440 Kind of adorable.

03:26:49.820 Very much Santa.

03:26:51.040 The last one.

03:26:51.720 Nice.

03:26:52.340 Great.

03:26:52.860 Love it.

03:26:53.480 The first picture looks edited a little bit.

03:26:55.900 Yeah, that first picture looks wild.

03:26:56.800 Well, they edit all the first photos.

03:26:59.040 Oh.

03:26:59.440 Oh.

03:26:59.720 Yeah.

03:26:59.840 They run it through like a something or other.

03:27:02.000 I don't know.

03:27:02.220 All right.

03:27:03.860 There you go.

03:27:04.480 Okay. 1.00

03:27:05.320 Damn, bro. 1.00

03:27:07.120 All right. 1.00

03:27:07.880 I could get a roll in a movie or something.

03:27:10.460 All right.

03:27:11.260 And now we've gender swapped all of you. 0.98

03:27:14.360 Oh.

03:27:14.580 We've made you all, we've made you all mess.

03:27:17.500 We're going to read about this one?

03:27:18.640 This is going to be fun.

03:27:19.200 I think we're going to read this one.

03:27:19.800 So the question will be, would you date the male version of you?

03:27:26.200 And what do you rate the male version of you?

03:27:29.580 Let's see.

03:27:30.540 All right.

03:27:32.840 Ooh.

03:27:34.000 Okay.

03:27:35.740 Can I see it again, please?

03:27:37.720 Yes.

03:27:39.640 This actually looks very similar to my uncle.

03:27:42.440 So I'm like conflicted on saying that, but he's a pretty good looking guy.

03:27:46.420 My opposite sex.

03:27:48.220 I think I'd rate him like, maybe like a six.

03:27:51.780 So two points above my current self.

03:27:53.840 Into the mic.

03:27:54.700 Into the mic.

03:27:54.820 Oh, yeah.

03:27:55.580 Closer to the mic.

03:27:56.500 It's okay.

03:27:57.100 Yeah.

03:27:57.660 Two points above my baseline.

03:28:01.880 Should I say why?

03:28:02.660 So more attractive.

03:28:04.900 Yes.

03:28:05.540 So he's a six?

03:28:07.000 Yeah.

03:28:07.780 Okay.

03:28:10.100 All right.

03:28:10.460 Do you prefer beard or no beard?

03:28:13.180 Um, I think, I think beard.

03:28:17.060 Yeah.

03:28:17.160 You think beard.

03:28:17.780 All right.

03:28:19.120 Next.

03:28:22.080 Oh my God.

03:28:23.720 Pull that man up.

03:28:24.920 Oh my God.

03:28:25.280 He's fine.

03:28:26.240 That's kind of spot on.

03:28:28.100 Spot on.

03:28:28.920 That kind of looks like my brother a little bit.

03:28:30.400 No, well, not really.

03:28:31.360 I mean.

03:28:31.780 So would you date your, uh, this guy?

03:28:35.320 Either or not.

03:28:35.800 Um, yeah, I would date.

03:28:37.980 I date every type of male.

03:28:39.460 It doesn't matter if you're mid or hot.

03:28:41.240 I date all.

03:28:41.860 What about Donald Trump?

03:28:42.740 Would you date him?

03:28:43.280 Absolutely. 1.00

03:28:43.660 Fuck not. 1.00

03:28:44.620 Okay. 1.00

03:28:45.460 Um, and what do you rate him in terms of looks?

03:28:52.000 He's like an average Joe.

03:28:53.680 He's definitely cuter in the, in the right one, in the middle one.

03:28:56.640 He needs a beard for sure.

03:28:57.840 Um, without the beard, like maybe like a four or something that with the beard, like

03:29:02.280 five, six, seven, whatever.

03:29:04.440 I think he's cute.

03:29:05.020 All right.

03:29:05.380 Cool.

03:29:05.940 Next.

03:29:07.840 Ooh.

03:29:10.760 All right.

03:29:11.440 There you go.

03:29:12.440 Would you date the male version of you?

03:29:15.020 Um, not with, no, nah.

03:29:19.480 If you're single, of course.

03:29:21.040 Well, oh my God.

03:29:23.720 Um, I was going to say that kind of looks like my boyfriend's hair, but, um, oh my God.

03:29:33.340 It's kind of freaking me out.

03:29:35.100 Uh, yeah, I don't know.

03:29:37.960 You can pull the supers in between, by the way.

03:29:39.920 Um, okay.

03:29:41.980 Next.

03:29:43.980 Ooh.

03:29:45.020 Ooh.

03:29:46.180 Ooh.

03:29:47.180 Wait, can I see you one more time?

03:29:49.460 Just kind of need to look.

03:29:50.460 You'll have to, uh, no, I would, I would not date that man.

03:29:55.720 You look scary.

03:29:56.640 I look, I look scary.

03:29:57.980 Like I would, I would run away from him on the street.

03:30:00.240 But that's, that's you.

03:30:01.540 I know.

03:30:02.060 If you were a man.

03:30:02.600 I look better as a woman.

03:30:03.760 I'll stay that way.

03:30:04.500 All right.

03:30:04.520 There you go.

03:30:04.920 Uh, I would rate it.

03:30:06.040 If you were to transition, you would be scared.

03:30:08.420 I would be scared.

03:30:09.580 You would be scared.

03:30:10.080 I don't think I would make a pretty man.

03:30:11.580 That's for sure.

03:30:12.440 All right.

03:30:12.840 Um, I give that man like a two.

03:30:16.300 Two?

03:30:16.820 Two.

03:30:17.180 Two.

03:30:17.440 Or three.

03:30:18.520 I just.

03:30:18.960 Okay.

03:30:19.300 He's not my type.

03:30:19.980 He's on my type.

03:30:21.160 Oh no.

03:30:22.020 Oh wait.

03:30:24.080 No.

03:30:25.020 That middle picture looks good.

03:30:27.060 Absolutely not.

03:30:28.320 Absolutely not.

03:30:29.220 I'm sorry.

03:30:29.660 That is horrifying.

03:30:30.260 He's not bad looking.

03:30:31.680 Middle picture.

03:30:32.760 That is, you know, but.

03:30:37.740 He's not even bad looking.

03:30:39.800 You wouldn't.

03:30:40.580 I am so good off that.

03:30:42.180 Thank you though.

03:30:43.280 For that.

03:30:43.580 You wouldn't.

03:30:44.200 No.

03:30:44.560 Insight.

03:30:45.000 If you had to pick one beard or no beard.

03:30:47.140 So I, like, in general, not attracted to men with facial hair.

03:30:52.480 Okay.

03:30:53.420 Um, but yeah, either or, just both.

03:30:56.820 No.

03:30:58.420 I'm sorry.

03:30:59.260 You can feel free to switch to the next one.

03:31:06.080 I need to switch.

03:31:06.800 What, what do you rate them?

03:31:08.460 Um, like a good four.

03:31:10.860 Okay.

03:31:11.480 All right.

03:31:12.040 I feel like everyone else on this panel has other opinions.

03:31:15.840 All right.

03:31:17.200 Uh, let's go ahead and go next.

03:31:21.460 Oh.

03:31:22.940 The orange hair.

03:31:23.940 The orange hair.

03:31:24.800 Well, I assume the hair was an orange.

03:31:27.340 The AI just got scuffed, I guess.

03:31:29.460 Uh, would you date him?

03:31:31.100 Would not date him, no.

03:31:32.820 Nope.

03:31:33.740 Oh.

03:31:35.120 Okay.

03:31:35.760 What, why, what's wrong with him?

03:31:37.280 The ears.

03:31:37.800 He's just not my type.

03:31:39.320 The ears.

03:31:39.620 Yeah, the ears.

03:31:40.520 I don't know what, like, I don't know.

03:31:42.500 One looks like one larger than the other.

03:31:44.960 What's wrong?

03:31:45.620 Hey, sometimes, you know.

03:31:48.940 Okay.

03:31:49.540 All right.

03:31:49.940 Nope.

03:31:50.120 What do you rate him?

03:31:50.980 If you had to rate him.

03:31:52.560 He's like a three.

03:31:53.860 A three?

03:31:55.160 We're coming from the ten to the three.

03:31:57.300 Holy moly.

03:31:58.980 All right.

03:31:59.580 Next.

03:32:00.700 Oh, gosh.

03:32:01.660 Oh.

03:32:04.660 He looks like our old security guard. 0.98

03:32:06.960 That's so disgusting. 0.98

03:32:08.520 Oh, my back. 0.99

03:32:09.280 He looks like.

03:32:09.820 Not my back.

03:32:11.080 Looks a little bit.

03:32:12.660 A little.

03:32:13.800 Oh, my God.

03:32:14.440 Like the hair.

03:32:15.240 That's a zero for me.

03:32:16.560 Zero?

03:32:17.140 That's a zero?

03:32:17.780 Zero.

03:32:18.360 That's not a bad looking guy. 0.87

03:32:20.600 By the way, look at his, he's black, but he has. 0.74

03:32:24.700 The hair of a white man.

03:32:26.140 I know.

03:32:27.180 Yeah.

03:32:28.020 No cur...

03:32:28.740 You know.

03:32:29.140 And some blush.

03:32:30.860 Looks good.

03:32:32.000 He's like from a 90s boy band or something.

03:32:35.920 Mm-mm. 0.99

03:32:36.680 Like Sugar Ray or some shit. 1.00

03:32:38.060 Hard pass. 0.99

03:32:39.280 Hard pass.

03:32:39.980 All right.

03:32:40.760 Okay.

03:32:41.660 I'm excited to see this one.

03:32:42.580 What do you rate him?

03:32:43.140 Zero?

03:32:43.540 You said zero?

03:32:44.020 Yeah, I said zero.

03:32:45.020 Really?

03:32:45.200 Zero.

03:32:45.800 You wouldn't date this guy?

03:32:47.300 Um, not my type, but no.

03:32:50.240 You prefer white guys?

03:32:52.060 Um, foreigners, white guys. 0.92

03:32:54.320 Yeah. 0.93

03:32:55.220 Oh, you don't date, you date black guys? 1.00

03:32:57.280 I've, I've never dated a black guy, but I've like talked to them.

03:33:01.260 I see.

03:33:01.940 Yeah.

03:33:03.020 Word.

03:33:03.760 Okay.

03:33:04.520 All right.

03:33:05.740 All right.

03:33:07.420 Next.

03:33:09.700 Oh.

03:33:10.820 Yikes.

03:33:11.680 He kind of looks like a Disney Channel guy.

03:33:13.460 Yeah.

03:33:13.840 I see it.

03:33:14.540 Would, Felicity, would you date some.

03:33:19.720 Just go to the next one, please.

03:33:21.960 Yeah, I want to see Brian.

03:33:23.940 This is so bad.

03:33:24.880 Why is his neck and his face the same, like, size?

03:33:28.020 Yeah, I was going to say, does he have a big neck?

03:33:30.800 I think he's a thick neck.

03:33:31.960 This is so bad.

03:33:32.380 Yeah, the neck is thick.

03:33:35.000 No, Felicity?

03:33:36.460 No?

03:33:36.820 What do you rate him?

03:33:37.640 What do you rate him?

03:33:38.400 Um, he looks kind of deformed.

03:33:41.520 I mean, perfect.

03:33:42.440 Don't you like the deformed ones? 1.00

03:33:45.580 I thought you liked the weird-looking dudes.

03:33:47.760 Not that type of weird.

03:33:49.820 He's too skinny.

03:33:51.180 Oh.

03:33:51.880 All right.

03:33:52.380 Plump him up a little bit, somebody.

03:33:54.280 All right.

03:33:54.680 Next.

03:33:56.100 Oh.

03:33:56.280 Oh.

03:33:57.800 Your tea, Brian.

03:33:59.420 For real.

03:34:00.540 Start that transition right now.

03:34:01.660 Especially that bob.

03:34:02.460 That bob.

03:34:03.220 That bob. 1.00

03:34:03.440 That bitch over here. 1.00

03:34:05.340 How old were you in the first one? 0.99

03:34:07.240 Uh, I think that was like, I don't know, seven years ago or something.

03:34:11.140 Oh.

03:34:11.820 Six, seven years ago.

03:34:13.300 You don't look bad without a beard, actually. 0.97

03:34:15.220 She looks like the crazy girl from you. 0.97

03:34:16.680 Oh, you want to see young Brian? 0.99

03:34:18.320 Oh.

03:34:18.920 Do we have young Brian?

03:34:20.560 Oh, I don't know if we have that photo anymore, but we have my Instagram.

03:34:23.600 You can pull up my Instagram.

03:34:24.600 We'll just scroll to the bottom.

03:34:25.560 This is Brian's favorite.

03:34:26.860 This is Felicity's favorite segment.

03:34:29.820 She's just, it's kind of weird.

03:34:32.100 I have to like move away.

03:34:33.580 It's kind of awkward.

03:34:37.060 Sorry.

03:34:38.360 Yeah, start at the bottom.

03:34:41.220 Started at the bottom.

03:34:42.740 All right.

03:34:43.120 All right.

03:34:43.920 The young Brian, you know, uh, you know, okay, there I am.

03:34:48.620 And that's like 20, 19, or?

03:34:50.400 Oh, this is old.

03:34:51.460 Some of these are old.

03:34:52.600 Um.

03:34:54.220 Like that soccer jersey one, how old are you in that?

03:34:56.540 I think I, wait, go down to the, you can click it, I guess.

03:35:00.200 Don't look at the date because that's, that's off.

03:35:04.580 This is from, um, 2015, I think, 2015, 2016.

03:35:10.440 So like 10 years ago, you can exile that.

03:35:13.700 Yeah. 0.99

03:35:14.160 Aging's a bitch, guys. 1.00

03:35:15.460 Uh, exile that. 1.00

03:35:17.480 Up.

03:35:20.040 Uh, yeah.

03:35:21.240 Up, up, up.

03:35:23.380 Yeah.

03:35:23.800 All right.

03:35:24.100 There you go.

03:35:24.520 Young Brian.

03:35:25.440 So you, up, keep going.

03:35:27.040 Oh, I should start posting some photos.

03:35:28.340 Oh, the cat.

03:35:28.920 I forgot the cat photos.

03:35:30.780 What happened to this Brian?

03:35:32.260 Like your old, old. 0.56

03:35:33.720 Oh.

03:35:35.480 Not looks, but I'm saying that's like the Brian I grew up on.

03:35:38.660 Can I ask you a question?

03:35:39.840 Yeah.

03:35:41.240 Why, why did you choose this route and not like keeping your other videos going?

03:35:46.680 Like what was your, what's the motivation?

03:35:49.640 Uh, I mean, I was just kind of looking to transition to something a bit more different, I guess.

03:35:55.380 Yeah.

03:35:55.780 Um, and why did you choose this specifically, like podcasting and this type of like.

03:35:59.780 Oh, I mean, I've always had opinions on dating and relationships and this sort of thing.

03:36:04.980 And I was fully entrenched in like online dating.

03:36:10.520 I was on the dating apps back then.

03:36:12.040 I'm not on dating apps anymore.

03:36:13.640 And I had like really strong opinions when it came to like what I saw going on when it came to dating.

03:36:20.080 And I sort of saw the transition because, I mean, Tinder first came out in like 2012, really early on.

03:36:26.620 So I was, I'm 36 now.

03:36:30.040 And so it came out when I was like 23.

03:36:33.560 Um, but even like early days of online dating was a bit different, still pretty D gen, but like so much has changed when it comes to dating.

03:36:43.580 Um, really different dynamic from when I was like 18, 19, 20 to how it is now.

03:36:50.100 And that's just, you know, obviously I was in college then, but looking at like how dating is for college people now, like guys and girls that are in college, there's a lot that's different.

03:37:02.860 So.

03:37:05.060 Yeah. 1.00

03:37:05.540 So I, I saw that shit firsthand. 0.99

03:37:08.980 I'd done dealt with some crazy experiences when, when I was out there dating, especially on the dating apps. 1.00

03:37:14.760 Mm hmm. 0.99

03:37:16.240 And I was like, yeah, I got opinions on this shit. 1.00

03:37:18.160 Let's talk about it. 0.99

03:37:19.780 Makes sense.

03:37:20.900 The show.

03:37:21.640 For sure.

03:37:22.340 I think you should definitely do some type of create, like, I feel like the videos I've watched in the past, like not everyone has a mind like that.

03:37:28.440 And you should use that skill.

03:37:29.820 Like some people are good at something like that's like what you're good at, like coming up with ideas and stuff.

03:37:33.140 Like you should definitely do some type of outlook of some type of thing like that.

03:37:36.620 Like, so I don't know.

03:37:38.580 I feel like that's what you're good at too.

03:37:39.720 Like this is good for a career as well, I guess.

03:37:42.280 But I'm saying like, don't lose that.

03:37:44.420 Oh, thank you.

03:37:45.720 Creativeness.

03:37:46.280 Thank you.

03:37:46.960 Thank you for.

03:37:47.740 Because not everyone's skilled at that.

03:37:48.680 Well, I'm just giving you a compliment. 0.99

03:37:50.800 Goddamn. 0.98

03:37:51.560 I'm saying that like you're very skilled and I coming up with ideas and stuff like that is a skill. 0.99

03:37:56.240 Oh yeah.

03:37:56.260 I still have like, I have a notepad that was filled with hundreds of ideas, but I was like, no, I'm going to do this. 0.99

03:38:03.600 Shit. 0.99

03:38:04.000 Can you get me a paper towel? 0.99

03:38:07.060 Oh, were we, was there something else we were going to pull up, Nick?

03:38:11.960 All right.

03:38:16.940 All right.

03:38:17.440 Hold on.

03:38:17.980 I'm going to, I've spilled, spilled rip.

03:38:23.160 Sorry, guys.

03:38:23.880 Kind of make sure I don't scuff my stream deck.

03:38:26.300 Okay.

03:38:26.520 We're all good.

03:38:28.420 No, it's okay.

03:38:30.200 Oh yeah.

03:38:30.720 Let's do Bumble.

03:38:31.400 That'll be a fun segment.

03:38:32.300 All right.

03:38:32.520 So guys, who here has never been on the dating app?

03:38:37.460 Never, never.

03:38:38.720 Everybody else.

03:38:40.000 Dating app.

03:38:40.720 You've been, what have you been on?

03:38:41.980 Farmers only?

03:38:42.820 No.

03:38:43.980 That's crazy.

03:38:45.920 I don't know.

03:38:46.320 You guys see, you see the vision?

03:38:48.260 I see it.

03:38:49.740 No, just Tinder and Hinge.

03:38:52.020 Mm-hmm.

03:38:54.140 Are you on there right now?

03:38:55.580 No.

03:38:56.540 I deleted that. 1.00

03:38:57.480 She deleted that shit. 1.00

03:38:59.280 Good. 1.00

03:38:59.760 Good for you. 1.00

03:39:00.400 Shit. 1.00

03:39:01.240 So what we're going to do, one at a time, you each have 20 swipes. 1.00

03:39:06.400 We're going to show you.

03:39:08.020 Do you remember all the settings from way back then, Nick?

03:39:10.500 Is it like the settings?

03:39:13.160 You know what I'm talking about?

03:39:14.040 Like the filters?

03:39:14.640 Yeah, we have to do the age for everyone.

03:39:16.720 Put us in, put us, can you change location?

03:39:20.680 No, it just gives you the amount of audio.

03:39:23.140 Just do like blast, put it max, max distance.

03:39:26.700 Are you sure you can't change location?

03:39:28.240 Can you change your location?

03:39:36.040 There should be a way.

03:39:37.520 But what are the filters you want to set?

03:39:39.040 Why don't we do 18 to, or no, let's do, let's do 20 to, we have a 29-year-old.

03:39:49.400 Yeah.

03:39:50.320 It's a pretty young panel.

03:39:52.400 So we're going to do 20 to, we can change it, right?

03:39:57.200 Did we used to change the age filter?

03:40:01.760 Okay, so Ellie, what's the age range of guys you would date?

03:40:05.640 18 to like 25.

03:40:07.320 18 to 25, okay.

03:40:09.580 Can you get that going?

03:40:15.320 And you, were you able to change the location?

03:40:21.680 You probably have to go into your settings to change it?

03:40:24.600 Yeah.

03:40:25.260 See if you can.

03:40:25.840 If not, no worries.

03:40:27.500 While he's doing that, I want to remind everybody that Cherry, is that your name?

03:40:41.120 No, it's my like, I went viral for a video, like video, and then I became that.

03:40:46.340 So I had to like stick with that. 0.99

03:40:47.180 I think it's a stupid name too. 0.98

03:40:48.760 It was just an Instagram account I had, and then it became me. 1.00

03:40:51.980 What city do you want?

03:40:55.640 City?

03:40:56.400 Yeah.

03:40:57.680 You can change it?

03:41:01.200 Why don't you put us, I don't know.

03:41:05.000 I feel like we should not be in California if we're doing this.

03:41:09.600 Chat, what do you think?

03:41:10.460 What city should we put the girls in for this? 1.00

03:41:14.440 New York?

03:41:14.980 Should we just do New York City? 0.99

03:41:16.380 But then it's going to be a bunch of fucking hipster creative. 0.99

03:41:20.080 Miami? 0.99

03:41:21.760 Like kind of a mix.

03:41:25.400 Miami?

03:41:26.260 Or like San Diego. 1.00

03:41:27.380 It's going to be some fucking scammers. 0.99

03:41:32.180 Maybe Texas could be good, because I feel like Texas kind of has no. 1.00

03:41:35.860 Close to home.

03:41:37.080 Why would you do that?

03:41:37.900 No, let's not do Dallas.

03:41:39.160 Let's do Austin.

03:41:40.520 Can you do Austin, Texas?

03:41:42.120 Yes.

03:41:42.920 That seems fair.

03:41:45.280 It's like not totally soy, but also not totally like Dallas.

03:41:53.700 Thanks.

03:41:55.880 You got it?

03:41:58.800 While we're doing that, Ellie, can you read this one from Priscilla?

03:42:02.440 Sure. 1.00

03:42:02.740 Oh, wait, fuck, hold on. 1.00

03:42:04.420 Priscilla. 1.00

03:42:05.160 Priscilla.

03:42:05.440 Priscilla?

03:42:08.440 Chair two.

03:42:09.580 It's clearly what I thought it.

03:42:12.340 A mythanthewist, big back, with a fatitude, loose-cooty energy. 1.00

03:42:17.320 Small penis can only fit in your belly button. 1.00

03:42:21.080 Stop hogging the mic, and let others waste in. 1.00

03:42:25.060 You did a good job with that one.

03:42:28.660 You have it ready to go, Nick?

03:42:30.180 Actually, it's not going to go.

03:42:31.440 Okay, that's fine.

03:42:32.080 Just make it 100.

03:42:34.480 100 miles?

03:42:35.280 All right, it's a possibility y'all might see somebody you know.

03:42:39.960 We'll see.

03:42:40.520 Oh, gosh.

03:42:41.560 What?

03:42:42.900 So it's 18 to 25?

03:42:44.740 Correct.

03:42:45.260 All right, sweet.

03:42:46.080 Oh, that doesn't really mean.

03:42:48.320 You're going to...

03:42:49.460 How did we do it?

03:42:50.360 Like, was it swipe...

03:42:51.440 Do we just...

03:42:52.340 Swipe yes?

03:42:53.660 Swipe yes or swipe no?

03:42:56.640 Exactly.

03:42:57.520 Okay.

03:42:58.140 Yeah, go ahead.

03:42:58.760 Pull it up, Nick.

03:43:01.140 Yeah, window tab.

03:43:02.100 Make us bigger.

03:43:03.560 Are we allowed to look at the whole profile?

03:43:04.740 I swear this guy looks familiar.

03:43:06.740 We're talking about just looks.

03:43:09.300 No, just the photo.

03:43:11.100 Just the first photo.

03:43:12.140 That's all you get.

03:43:13.000 Yes.

03:43:13.920 Yes?

03:43:14.400 Okay.

03:43:17.040 Yes.

03:43:17.840 Okay.

03:43:19.120 Are you counting, Nick, by the way?

03:43:20.400 Oh, I can't do this one, but I'm going to assume it's the brown one, so no. 0.98

03:43:25.200 I'm just saying that.

03:43:27.640 Yeah.

03:43:28.160 And you do no on all of them, right, Nick, if I recall?

03:43:31.840 I can barely...

03:43:32.740 I mean, the profile looks...

03:43:33.820 Like, you're just swiping no, even though they...

03:43:35.680 Yeah, yeah.

03:43:36.040 Okay.

03:43:38.700 Sure.

03:43:39.280 Yes.

03:43:39.860 Okay.

03:43:42.640 This one's a gamble, so no.

03:43:46.100 No.

03:43:46.780 Oh, all of us said no.

03:43:48.460 Okay.

03:43:50.400 All right.

03:43:51.040 Keep going.

03:43:53.200 Some of these photos are really like...

03:43:54.540 You can't even see their faces.

03:43:56.320 Where's your face?

03:43:57.640 Where are your clothes?

03:43:59.240 Where are your clothes?

03:44:01.140 He looks mischievous.

03:44:02.880 Mischievous?

03:44:03.560 Yes.

03:44:06.080 He looks mischievous in a bad way.

03:44:10.100 Oh.

03:44:10.540 Studious.

03:44:11.220 Yes.

03:44:11.620 Oh, my God.

03:44:12.000 I know that kid.

03:44:14.300 This one, he kind of looks like...

03:44:15.540 What's his name from The Punisher?

03:44:17.520 You know the actor I'm talking about?

03:44:18.740 The main character?

03:44:19.440 Oh.

03:44:19.700 Um, yes.

03:44:20.400 And also in The Walking Dead.

03:44:21.500 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

03:44:22.280 What's his name?

03:44:24.060 Great guy.

03:44:24.800 I like him.

03:44:25.640 I know who you're talking about.

03:44:26.320 He's, like, also against naps, just like David Goggins is.

03:44:29.940 Wait, he's against naps?

03:44:31.260 I don't know who you're talking about.

03:44:31.340 Yeah, like, napping.

03:44:32.600 Oh.

03:44:32.940 Like, naps are for the birds.

03:44:33.860 I'm also against naps.

03:44:35.320 It's a waste of time.

03:44:36.800 So, yes.

03:44:37.780 Naps give me anxiety.

03:44:39.100 I love naps.

03:44:39.520 No.

03:44:40.240 Where are you listening?

03:44:40.780 Mingyu?

03:44:43.740 Cheeky.

03:44:44.760 Yes.

03:44:45.880 Okay.

03:44:46.240 Yes.

03:44:48.780 Are you sure?

03:44:49.260 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

03:44:49.740 Go ahead.

03:44:50.820 Aw.

03:44:51.700 Yes.

03:44:53.300 Are you counting, Nick?

03:44:55.300 How many are we at?

03:44:56.340 Oh, yes. 0.99

03:44:57.180 Fucking Parker. 0.99

03:44:59.800 What is this photo? 0.99

03:45:01.160 12 out of 20.

03:45:03.080 Okay.

03:45:03.520 That's pretty generous.

03:45:05.720 Let's do for, what's your age range that you would date?

03:45:09.060 Like, 22 to, like, 30.

03:45:12.320 22 to 30.

03:45:13.800 Okay.

03:45:14.140 Go ahead.

03:45:14.420 Put that in.

03:45:16.280 Like, 21 to 30.

03:45:17.820 Word.

03:45:18.760 Word.

03:45:21.480 John Bernthal?

03:45:23.020 Yes.

03:45:23.720 That's it.

03:45:24.540 Is that his name?

03:45:26.940 Oh, Wolf of Wall Street also?

03:45:29.040 Okay.

03:45:29.540 Go ahead.

03:45:29.820 Okay.

03:45:31.160 No.

03:45:33.520 Really?

03:45:34.480 Sorry.

03:45:35.400 No, he was quick with it.

03:45:36.880 What?

03:45:37.040 He's just not my, he's attractive.

03:45:38.460 He's just not my type.

03:45:39.380 Why is that a problem?

03:45:40.280 Okay.

03:45:40.820 All right.

03:45:40.960 He's like, you can be, you can be, I can say this man's hot, but that's not my type.

03:45:44.520 All right.

03:45:44.540 I won't say anything.

03:45:45.100 All right.

03:45:45.420 So that's a no.

03:45:46.140 Keep going.

03:45:48.040 Which one is it?

03:45:50.960 Yeah.

03:45:51.420 Why not?

03:45:52.220 He looks like he could be a fun guy.

03:45:53.900 Yeah.

03:45:54.340 All right.

03:45:57.860 Sure.

03:46:00.400 No.

03:46:01.160 I just don't like, no.

03:46:04.520 It's a picture.

03:46:05.600 Can you click just on the white to see if it will clear that pop up?

03:46:09.800 Just click somewhere.

03:46:11.140 No, just click on the white part.

03:46:13.260 Just the, no, no, no.

03:46:14.300 Just, okay.

03:46:15.420 There we go.

03:46:15.800 It's cleared.

03:46:17.340 Go ahead.

03:46:17.560 I would say, sure.

03:46:19.920 Yes.

03:46:20.200 Okay.

03:46:22.400 No.

03:46:24.520 No.

03:46:25.420 Can't see him.

03:46:26.000 He's attractive, but no.

03:46:29.320 He's just not my type.

03:46:30.600 No.

03:46:32.120 Rip, Brian.

03:46:34.720 Yeah.

03:46:37.120 I can't see.

03:46:38.100 No.

03:46:38.320 No.

03:46:40.220 No.

03:46:42.760 No.

03:46:45.540 No.

03:46:48.980 Yeah.

03:46:49.520 I think I know him.

03:46:50.640 He's cute.

03:46:51.240 Oh, my God.

03:46:53.860 Red phone.

03:46:54.740 Red phone.

03:46:55.220 Yeah.

03:46:55.540 No.

03:46:56.280 No.

03:46:56.480 In case you.

03:46:57.280 I can't have a red phone.

03:46:59.840 Yeah.

03:47:01.000 I like he's on the water.

03:47:02.880 Uh, no.

03:47:04.400 He's too dapper for me.

03:47:06.300 Uh, yes.

03:47:07.100 He looks fun.

03:47:07.980 I kind of like, he's like, oh.

03:47:10.240 Seven out of 20.

03:47:11.640 Seven out of 20.

03:47:13.020 Okay.

03:47:13.640 All right.

03:47:15.180 A little picky there.

03:47:16.420 A little picky.

03:47:17.820 Well, I think they're attractive men.

03:47:19.220 They're just not, and especially, it depends on what their, the photo is, too.

03:47:22.460 Like, that tells a lot.

03:47:23.200 Age range?

03:47:23.800 20.

03:47:24.260 Or should we skip the relationship girls? 0.83

03:47:26.540 Okay.

03:47:26.860 Yeah.

03:47:27.280 I mean.

03:47:28.440 Or if they feel comfortable.

03:47:29.900 I mean, if you're comfortable doing it, we can do it.

03:47:31.520 No, I don't want to do it.

03:47:32.560 You want to skip or do it?

03:47:33.440 Can you bring your mic to the edge of the table?

03:47:35.760 Absolutely.

03:47:36.700 Um.

03:47:37.040 Very edge.

03:47:37.580 Very edge.

03:47:38.060 Very edge.

03:47:38.580 Yeah.

03:47:38.720 Got you.

03:47:39.020 Perfect.

03:47:39.760 Do you want to do this?

03:47:40.920 I feel like my boyfriend wouldn't mind.

03:47:42.220 He knows.

03:47:42.700 Okay.

03:47:43.160 He knows it.

03:47:43.500 Age range of guys you would date?

03:47:45.700 Uh, to like 24 to like 30, I guess.

03:47:50.680 All right.

03:47:51.280 24 to 30.

03:47:55.000 Uh, JJ, thank you for the soup chat.

03:47:56.640 Appreciate it, man.

03:47:57.280 Thank you.

03:47:58.160 Go ahead.

03:47:59.400 No.

03:48:02.680 No.

03:48:05.040 How is he back?

03:48:06.120 Didn't we see him?

03:48:06.840 Yeah.

03:48:07.400 Uh, no.

03:48:08.560 I can't see his face.

03:48:12.320 But he looks in good shape.

03:48:14.820 I'll say, yeah.

03:48:17.000 No.

03:48:19.860 No.

03:48:22.980 Click on the white to see if he's clear.

03:48:24.700 President of the legalist convention?

03:48:26.380 He was.

03:48:27.500 Uh, no.

03:48:31.100 No.

03:48:35.000 Job.

03:48:35.400 Does it say job?

03:48:38.100 I can't even read that from here.

03:48:39.580 Job is college.

03:48:40.680 Job is college.

03:48:41.980 Uh, if we're just going based off of looks.

03:48:45.020 Sure.

03:48:45.380 Yeah.

03:48:45.800 Is he an umpire? 1.00

03:48:46.840 What the fuck? 1.00

03:48:47.640 Yeah. 1.00

03:48:47.980 He's a catcher.

03:48:48.740 No.

03:48:51.480 Oh, yeah.

03:48:52.080 He looks like a sweet guy.

03:48:54.400 No.

03:48:56.520 No.

03:48:58.680 No.

03:48:59.720 Nice shaved leg, dude.

03:49:00.900 No.

03:49:03.040 I can't see him, so no.

03:49:06.340 No.

03:49:07.220 Really?

03:49:07.940 Andre?

03:49:08.500 No.

03:49:09.080 Okay.

03:49:09.360 No.

03:49:09.800 Really?

03:49:10.800 I'm picky.

03:49:11.500 I'm sorry.

03:49:13.580 Uh, I'm assuming it's the dude on the ground with the kid.

03:49:15.500 No.

03:49:16.720 Super family oriented.

03:49:18.140 Two out of 20?

03:49:19.000 Wow.

03:49:19.200 10% son.

03:49:20.560 10%.

03:49:20.640 Oh, I have a quick question.

03:49:22.840 On Bumble, is it just one photo?

03:49:25.700 There's more, but just for the sake of the activity.

03:49:30.060 Okay.

03:49:30.300 We're just doing the first photo.

03:49:31.860 Okay, cool.

03:49:33.220 Uh, let's do like 18 to 23.

03:49:37.040 18 to 23.

03:49:38.460 Wait, I thought you said it was weird that you were like dating a guy who was a junior.

03:49:42.220 Well, like when I was on Tinder, like that's literally the minimum you could go.

03:49:46.880 It's not necessarily who I would pick, but that's, I don't know if it's different from

03:49:50.660 Bumble.

03:49:50.840 Oh, they wouldn't let you do?

03:49:51.700 They don't let me do like just like 18 to 20.

03:49:55.300 You know?

03:49:55.580 Wouldn't he be 20 though?

03:49:56.920 How old was he?

03:49:57.940 Uh, he just turned 21.

03:50:00.720 Oh, okay.

03:50:01.500 All right.

03:50:03.060 Uh, so you have it?

03:50:06.540 No.

03:50:08.160 It started off strong.

03:50:09.980 No.

03:50:12.100 No.

03:50:13.440 Really?

03:50:13.960 Oh, no.

03:50:17.480 Thank you.

03:50:18.820 No.

03:50:20.640 No.

03:50:21.820 Yeah.

03:50:24.780 No.

03:50:26.360 Did you see his hat?

03:50:27.760 No.

03:50:28.360 Naughty.

03:50:29.100 Oh, no.

03:50:31.900 No.

03:50:32.420 I don't like the way he spelled his name either.

03:50:38.420 Um, no.

03:50:39.580 Sorry.

03:50:41.160 No.

03:50:41.800 No.

03:50:45.320 What is that?

03:50:47.120 No.

03:50:49.220 No.

03:50:52.000 No.

03:50:54.020 No.

03:50:54.580 No.

03:50:56.460 No.

03:50:56.900 No.

03:50:57.380 What are you doing here?

03:50:59.420 No.

03:51:02.040 Oh, no.

03:51:02.380 Is he crying?

03:51:04.620 I don't know what's going on, but that's.

03:51:07.820 All right.

03:51:07.840 Go ahead.

03:51:08.140 No, thank you.

03:51:10.280 No.

03:51:11.120 That's 20.

03:51:11.660 One out of five percent. 1.00

03:51:14.960 Damn. 1.00

03:51:16.540 Luna is brutal. 1.00

03:51:18.000 I'm sorry.

03:51:19.800 All right.

03:51:20.580 Uh, let's go here.

03:51:22.680 Uh, age range of guys you would date?

03:51:24.440 Um, 30.

03:51:25.820 Into the mic.

03:51:26.840 36 to 44.

03:51:31.700 36 to 44.

03:51:33.540 Yeah.

03:51:35.260 Okay.

03:51:39.360 Yeah.

03:51:41.660 Yeah.

03:51:43.700 Nope.

03:51:44.960 Chad.

03:51:45.920 What a Chad.

03:51:49.820 Yeah.

03:51:51.900 No.

03:51:53.960 No.

03:51:57.460 No.

03:51:59.600 No.

03:52:01.840 No.

03:52:04.600 No.

03:52:06.780 No.

03:52:09.500 No.

03:52:11.660 No.

03:52:15.100 Yeah.

03:52:17.500 No.

03:52:19.600 No.

03:52:21.720 No.

03:52:24.120 No.

03:52:26.080 No.

03:52:28.380 No.

03:52:30.380 Cute doggy.

03:52:31.160 That was three?

03:52:32.040 Yeah.

03:52:32.400 She said, okay.

03:52:33.400 All right.

03:52:33.840 That's how, what is that?

03:52:34.900 15 percent?

03:52:37.120 Is that 15 percent?

03:52:38.360 The math?

03:52:40.900 Yeah.

03:52:41.120 Yeah.

03:52:41.600 Sure.

03:52:42.640 Yeah.

03:52:43.020 Because if one percent is five.

03:52:44.380 That's five.

03:52:47.440 Rock and roll.

03:52:50.520 Next.

03:52:51.380 Age?

03:52:51.800 Um, 21 to 25.

03:52:54.580 21 to 25.

03:52:56.320 Okay.

03:52:58.220 21 to 25.

03:52:59.480 No.

03:53:02.080 No.

03:53:04.540 No.

03:53:06.400 Yes.

03:53:08.160 No.

03:53:10.160 No.

03:53:11.860 No.

03:53:13.760 No.

03:53:15.560 No.

03:53:16.960 No.

03:53:18.960 No.

03:53:20.700 No.

03:53:22.280 No.

03:53:23.140 yes no no no no no yes no

03:53:39.660 15 all right felicity we'll do it for felicity

03:53:45.840 19 to 27 19 to 27

03:53:53.700 no no no i can't even see him no

03:54:04.440 um sure yeah no for both of those guys yeah it's a hard lawyer

03:54:13.160 yes yes no no i don't know which one is which um no we'll skip group photos no

03:54:29.900 no no no no yes

03:54:39.280 yes to either i thought it was one on the left okay uh no

03:54:47.040 no these boys no 1.00

03:54:51.040 damn y'all fucking picky as fuck y'all picky 1.00

03:54:57.220 where'd you get those glasses from i have 1.00

03:55:00.740 a compartment next to me full of all kinds of

03:55:04.380 gadgets and doodads and various props for usage 0.62

03:55:11.640 he's silly do you want one do you want to wear something

03:55:15.220 i mean what do you have uh let me take a look hold on 0.98

03:55:19.500 let's see what i have here

03:55:20.860 are those baby

03:55:22.940 i do have an asian baby

03:55:26.700 so you can let's see your mothering nurturing ability okay can we see yeah 0.97

03:55:32.960 okay okay that's okay that's good that's good for for l over here i have um a black baby

03:55:43.720 oh my di baby so um let's see yes assess your nurturing abilities 0.97

03:55:48.740 and i already missed out do you have a fat baby um i do not have a fat baby in frame or 0.90

03:55:58.580 yes does it not consent to that it it signs a talent it signs an appearance release 1.00

03:56:04.340 damn y'all picky though what the fuck that's crazy guys on dating apps 0.99

03:56:10.420 i saw some good looking decent looking guys on there and y'all just like nope 1.00

03:56:15.540 if half of them we could see their face left

03:56:18.500 and girls went deeper into that like it's like also like what's in the background like

03:56:24.180 the way that they're like if they're they look weird or like they're in a weird environment

03:56:27.780 this girl was like he's on the water 0.97

03:56:29.540 no uh somebody over here was like he's he's on the water he's aquatic

03:56:34.740 the what the skiing pictures skiing pictures okay i actually have a date with one of those guys

03:56:44.180 tomorrow you you have a date i'm serious yeah that is awkward don't tell us which one

03:56:53.380 was it one of the guys that you picked on like uh that i said yes to yeah oh

03:56:58.500 what's that the guy with the tattoos um no oh no okay that's cool that's cool all right

03:57:08.260 we're gonna get into the pre-show notes here actually no we're just gonna do the questionnaire

03:57:11.140 then we'll do pre-show notes um oh we didn't have you sign one do one but uh

03:57:19.860 how about this luna if there's any of these topics that you want to jump in on yeah as they

03:57:24.820 come up just feel free to jump in on it uh so going around the table or you know what here

03:57:29.780 why don't we do did y'all give me

03:57:37.940 where do i want to start um actually you guys don't disagree with much so

03:57:42.820 rene how do you say your name renez okay uh you agree with the following statement men are not the

03:57:50.980 primary victims of war that beckons the question who are the primary victims of war are they women

03:57:59.140 well i think it can be translated back into like a relationship with a woman

03:58:05.780 so if a man goes to war you're talking about like legit war right

03:58:10.340 yes yeah okay so yeah i think that that plays an effect on them and like their whole

03:58:16.180 how they actually are a changed person from coming back from something like that which

03:58:22.260 affects their relationship so yeah if they're in a marriage or if they have a girlfriend then yeah

03:58:26.980 she's gonna absorb some of that so but so she would be the primary victim it's not a victim it's it's just

03:58:36.740 more like she she's what she's just affected by it i i don't dispute this at all but the the

03:58:45.780 prompt is men are not the primary victims of war you circled it indicating you agree with the statement

03:58:54.980 yeah well so i'm saying well this is what i'm clear well

03:58:59.700 sure i guess it would be the person serving

03:59:03.940 and is that sort of men or well i think it does it say yeah it says it references a man first

03:59:11.140 right yeah so i don't disagree with you that like a guy who saw horrific things at war could come

03:59:20.180 back and could be suffering from like ptsd or how that could have an impact on his girlfriend that's

03:59:28.100 not in dispute the question is though who's the primary victims who's the primary victim of war is

03:59:35.380 it men or is it women

03:59:42.580 i mean yeah if he's fighting war she yes i would say him but i don't know i guess this is a bigger

03:59:49.220 question as well like how many other people are affected by war in general but if we're saying if

03:59:56.980 this we're just talking about one person going to battle then i would say yes well i'm look it's not

04:00:05.540 on the individual level it's more so the collective level so oh if we're looking at

04:00:12.500 gender as a collective are there more men like the primary victims of war are they men as a collective

04:00:19.300 or women as a collective who's the primary victim i would say men okay got it so okay i mean there's

04:00:30.660 not if that's your position then there's not much really to push back on there um

04:00:40.260 although how about let's bring it to the individualistic level so the man went to war

04:00:46.740 maybe he got an injury or he has ptsd and that has a really negative impact on his relationship

04:00:53.540 with his girlfriend or wife who is the primary uh i mean i guess i'll still frame it from primary

04:01:02.020 victim of war in that circumstance is it the wife or is it still the uh the man on the individual level

04:01:12.580 i would say both

04:01:19.620 okay so then using your logic

04:01:24.180 then could you say that when a woman goes through pregnancy

04:01:29.060 uh you know the woman obviously that can be come with certain side effects 1.00

04:01:35.300 the actual pregnancy itself giving birth is can be quite painful

04:01:38.660 and the husband's there in the waiting room with her and she grabs his hand and squeezes it really

04:01:45.700 tightly and it's hard for him to see her giving birth like that's a that's stressful

04:01:53.940 who would you say they're both equally i'm not going to use the term victim here but i'm going to use the

04:02:00.260 term suffering uh do are both the men and the woman suffering equally

04:02:09.220 no who's the primary sufferer of pregnancy i would say the woman physically

04:02:17.940 is going through more suffering physical pain he might be having emotional pain but hers is on the

04:02:25.380 physical level okay but you would agree that oftentimes in war men do suffer physically

04:02:32.980 yeah okay so so so on the individualistic level you would probably say in this instance the man's

04:02:44.180 still probably the victim of war more so than the wife who deals with the trauma that he's experienced 0.95

04:02:50.020 more so than the wife like okay he saw some crazy shit maybe he got an injury whatever he has ptsd 0.97

04:03:04.420 and that's that's introduced issues into the relationship but who's the primary victim 0.98

04:03:12.820 of war this is such an easy question the answer i'm literally a military kid and like yeah we got

04:03:21.140 affected by my dad but we didn't get as much like he saw crazy things over there like in the middle east

04:03:27.380 so somebody trying to argue saying that like the girls at home get like most of the primary victim

04:03:34.580 that's not that's not the case because i know what my dad went through it's awesome i'm taking the

04:03:39.140 babies back by the way i'm cps i didn't feel like i really sticked for this one my baby what's his name

04:03:45.700 i'm happy what's her name tbd here you go felicity that's your future oh you can have my baby girl

04:03:51.620 oh oh can you not grab the baby by the head oh my god oh no that's crazy i'm calling cps it's a 0.99

04:04:00.740 fucking doll well still i'm calling cps yeah 1.00

04:04:07.940 don't make me open up one of these windows and drop the baby 1.00

04:04:11.780 onto the harsh streets okay uh thoughts any further thoughts on further thoughts no i don't but so

04:04:22.580 i guess to finalize what's your position are women the primary victims of war

04:04:26.980 no men are if they are the ones that are serving no okay all right nothing else to push back on there

04:04:35.380 uh let's see anybody um here let me just throw women are just as physically strong as men does 1.00

04:04:41.780 anybody agree with that no no nobody okay uh damn y'all okay uh women are oppressed in the united states 1.00

04:04:53.300 um i feel like it could it's a little worse as well in other countries i think we're getting to that 0.98

04:05:09.940 point especially with trump in rule and in power um i feel like with the whole like my body my choice

04:05:20.820 movement going on and all of that it definitely did bring down the like individuality and power

04:05:30.340 that women did have prior if we are letting men have control over our bodies 0.99

04:05:40.180 okay um so you do think women are oppressed in the usa and it relates to abortion as just so i

04:05:46.980 understand your position yes i would use abortion as one of my examples okay all right and then for

04:05:55.380 you um you said women are oppressed in the usa why is that yeah well i've seen it in corporate um

04:06:03.300 i was in corporate tech for a very long time and it was very apparent the way that women were treated 1.00

04:06:10.260 versus men um pay way pay range um so i've seen it what do you mean the pay range the pay range for

04:06:19.380 a man versus a woman doing the same work doing the same exact work you know it's interesting you

04:06:24.740 mentioned tech companies uh at google they actually did an internal audit and they actually found that

04:06:31.060 they were overpaying the women so would this point to anti-male sexism in tech companies

04:06:42.180 like was that is that just immediately just sexism towards men no i'd say that it's just it's a it's a

04:06:50.260 known fact um but what's a known fact that yeah okay uh i mean the gender wage gap has been debunked 0.80

04:07:00.900 but um do you want to explain to me i guess what the gender wage gap is 1.00

04:07:08.260 you mean overall are we talking like what is it what does that mean that there's a wage gap that a woman 1.00

04:07:14.740 and a man could be hired for the same exact position having the same exact qualifications

04:07:20.820 and the man is being paid more than the woman 1.00

04:07:27.380 okay i mean there's since the 60s there's been laws against this and if you can prove that this

04:07:32.740 is actually the case as a woman you can bring a lawsuit against your employer and be uh financially rewarded

04:07:40.500 for doing so uh i guess what what do you what is the wage gap though some people throw out different

04:07:50.100 numbers they say it's 25 cents men make 25 cents more women earn 80 cents to every dollar a man makes

04:07:59.060 what what is the number that you know of i honestly don't know it statistic wise it is right now

04:08:06.820 um gotcha um i've also been there's a wage gap oh you me yeah um i don't know like specifically what

04:08:18.500 the thing is but i do think that like in places people women get paid less than men i don't think

04:08:24.260 it's like as great as everyone talks about it as like it is but i think there's definitely bosses who

04:08:30.020 are wanting to pay the men more like i think that it happens for sure and i think it could happen to

04:08:35.540 men too like if a woman's running it like i think it happens everywhere so mm-hmm yeah so i mean they 1.00

04:08:41.700 did an analysis on the wage gap so there's there's a couple different things there's the earnings gap

04:08:47.460 and then there's the gender wage gap there's controlled and uncontrolled so if you control for 0.88

04:08:53.780 everything because what the the gender wage gap does is it doesn't take into account any variables it 1.00

04:09:01.940 literally just compares all the money that the women make and all the money that the men make 0.82

04:09:07.700 and doesn't take into account hours worked doesn't take into account geographical location doesn't take

04:09:14.100 into account the fact that men are more likely to work overtime to work more hours they're more likely

04:09:19.860 to relocate they're more likely to work hazard pay they're more likely to happen to pay or excuse me

04:09:25.780 work jobs that are higher paid they're more likely to work dangerous and dirty jobs that also tend to be

04:09:31.540 uh less desirable and in and end up paying more because of that so for example i mean there's a lot

04:09:40.100 of other sorts of gaps there's the male death gap so men are way more likely to die on the job so i mean i'm

04:09:47.780 sure all of you would if there's a risk of you dying working a job you'd probably want to be

04:09:55.140 compensated the in a way that was commensurate with the risk that you were undertaking by working

04:10:00.900 a job where there's a risk of injury or death most women were comfortable air conditioned office jobs 1.00

04:10:07.060 whereas there's a much higher proportion of men who are involved in these certain fields where they're

04:10:12.020 literally working it's either dangerous or it's dirty or in some way well yeah so but the gender 0.99

04:10:19.460 wage gap that feminists like to purport doesn't factor in all these variables that actually when you 1.00

04:10:26.180 start to control for all the variables the wage gap shrinks to one cent women earn 99 cents to every 0.97

04:10:36.340 dollar man makes oh there's other factors too like men are more likely to uh negotiate pay men go into

04:10:43.540 different fields this sort of thing but the big one that i always like to point to well hold on let me

04:10:49.380 just divert really quick uh who here thinks men should pay on for first dates raise your hands should men 0.98

04:10:56.340 pay on first dates ellie i think it depends on into the mic into the mic i think it depends on who asks who

04:11:03.780 on the day have you ever asked a guy out on a date no i haven't have you been asked out on a date

04:11:08.740 yes would there be an expectation if you did accept if i did accept that he should pay i would i would

04:11:15.220 probably expect that it would be compensated yes compensated yes comped i like that term

04:11:23.460 okay um what about you i agree if they're asking if i'm asking i should pay if they're asking they should

04:11:29.780 pay because they're the ones how many first dates have you been on a good amount like maybe what

04:11:35.780 proportion do you ask and what well i date women as well so i ask a lot because if yeah just talking

04:11:41.540 about men um oh like probably like i don't know like 30 of the time i'm asking okay maybe what about

04:11:49.620 you um should men pay for the first date i i don't think so i don't want to be pressured and also

04:11:56.020 i just want to be equal how many first dates have you been on a few uh did you always go 50 50 no

04:12:04.020 the guy the guy paid yeah oh well okay but i changed my mind because like i'm a better person now

04:12:12.820 okay but all the first dates you've been on the guy paid for the date mostly yeah and you used to

04:12:17.140 believe previously that the guy should pay for the day yeah but that's changed okay what about you

04:12:22.020 i do believe they should pay for the first date and do you ask guys out for first dates no have you

04:12:26.500 ever asked a guy on a first date no how many first dates have you been on quite a few yeah ballpark

04:12:31.300 more than 20 30 40 50 i would say more than like 20 more than 25 25 and not one of them you asked

04:12:38.900 them out on no and the guy paid for all of them yes okay in your current relationship on subsequent

04:12:44.980 dates does he also pay for all other dates too yeah okay and other guys you've dated in the past

04:12:50.180 beyond the first date they also pay for subsequent dates also yes generally okay uh luna how many

04:12:56.340 first dates have you been on um quite a few quite a few what's that name um 10 20 30 40 50 like in

04:13:03.780 like between like 10 to 15 10 to 15 and will you go out to dinner you'll grab pizza what do you do

04:13:11.060 typically um it honestly depends on the type of person i am going out with like for example

04:13:17.220 the guy that wanted more traditional stuff he always took me out to like really fancy restaurants

04:13:23.300 um where like the minimum of the check was like about 300 and as great as that is to be treated with

04:13:34.340 such like i would say like bougie-ness i would also rather had appreciated something a little more

04:13:41.620 simpler because i feel like when men take you out on really nice states they kind of hold

04:13:48.500 this like upper hand on you that they're spending all this money on you and taking you out to this

04:13:54.260 really nice place so you kind of have to like owe them something not necessarily all the time but that

04:14:00.500 is what majority of men think um a lot of my first dates i like like especially for a first date

04:14:07.700 i like to keep it more mellow like i've been to like go into in and out or like chick-fil-a like

04:14:16.100 something really easy in which that we would go like 50 50 or just pay whatever we had

04:14:24.980 okay so have you ever asked a guy out yes okay but mostly they ask you out yes and

04:14:32.820 they pay uh yes unless and you have a preference i sometimes offer and you have a preference for

04:14:39.860 them to pay uh not necessarily i do that's why i said i like to offer majority of the time like

04:14:46.260 if it's not too big and fancy i like to offer and i like to keep it even just in case like what if that

04:14:52.980 first date is also our last date like i'd rather them you know have like kind of a fair ground between

04:15:00.020 that relationship and not have it where they paid for a really big expensive date and they

04:15:06.900 got really nothing out of it and then they get mad at you or upset that like you kind of use them for

04:15:12.660 their money or whatever sure okay what about you should men pay for first dates absolutely absolutely

04:15:19.220 okay um how many first dates have you been on probably over 40 40. did you ask out any of the

04:15:27.300 guys for any of those dates no they always asked you out yeah okay did they uh and overwhelmingly they

04:15:32.980 paid for the first date yeah if a guy you went out with a guy and he asked for two checks would there

04:15:38.180 be a second date no okay so you want guys to pay for first dates uh yep yep what about you no not at

04:15:45.380 all i don't think they should you don't think men should pay for first days no okay uh have you ever

04:15:50.660 been on a first date yes how many first dates have you been on um about five or six okay and did the

04:15:56.500 guy pay for those or was it always um all the guys paid i've paid for i think two and then the rest

04:16:03.780 the rest were paid for fully okay all right uh so tying this back in to and relaying this to

04:16:14.260 the wage gap i think the wage gap could actually be explained away by women's own sexist dating 1.00

04:16:23.860 preferences how could it well you're shaking your head but how could it not be the case if there's

04:16:30.500 a greater pressure like i i listed a whole bunch of reasons for why the supposed gender earnings gap

04:16:37.540 could exist but even kind of ignoring all those and just looking at the the intergender dynamics

04:16:44.740 between men and women if women had a stated preference like a strong preference and it doesn't

04:16:49.780 have to be all women but let's say it's even half of women are like hey i want a guy who's a provider

04:16:55.380 i want a guy who can pay for dates that places a disproportionate one directional pressure on men that 1.00

04:17:02.900 doesn't that doesn't exist in the reverse that doesn't exist from men to women so and i think

04:17:11.060 we can all agree here that i think both men and women are really motivated when it comes to dating and

04:17:16.820 finding your person finding a partner finding a boyfriend girlfriend husband wife whatever it is

04:17:23.780 i think in some ways men can oftentimes be even more motivated in some ways but as it relates

04:17:30.980 specifically to this even assuming that the motivation to find your person is up is pretty

04:17:36.180 much equal there is this component of asymmetry when it comes to preferences i don't believe that there's

04:17:44.660 symmetry in expectations preferences standards etc so if women have an asymmetrical standard which is 1.00

04:17:53.300 men should pay for first dates wouldn't this create a pressure on men to earn more money 1.00

04:18:01.620 like if the man has to be the provider the man has to pay for first dates that creates a pressure on men

04:18:08.260 to perform and to achieve and to make money and to try to be rich or whatever that doesn't exist towards

04:18:16.100 women so the wage gap can if it even exists be entirely explained by all of y'all's 0.97

04:18:25.460 preferences we could also say it's more expensive to be a woman and that like 1.00

04:18:30.580 we deserve more money because we have to do a b c and d to make men happy you know what i mean like

04:18:34.900 our hair and our nails and all that stuff like i think that's a preference wait wait do women do 1.00

04:18:40.740 that for themselves or do they do it for men i know i have wait do women wear makeup for themselves or

04:18:45.540 they do it for men because you like to pick and choose hold on y'all women like to pick and choose 1.00

04:18:50.020 when it's convenient now for you to say oh we wear makeup for you guys but then you guys switch it up i'm 0.99

04:18:57.380 saying you'll switch it up and say no we do that shit for ourselves we do i'm saying there's men who 1.00

04:19:02.740 want their woman to look like that i'm saying if they want their men don't give a fuck about nails 1.00

04:19:07.460 not all i'm saying okay name maybe nails but they want their woman to keep their you don't want your 1.00

04:19:11.620 woman to get their hair done and keep their looks going and all that stuff like it can get a haircut 1.00

04:19:15.780 she doesn't need to get the fucking bullshit color she doesn't gotta do no 1.00

04:19:20.180 bullshit color in it some highlight color she can just for natural hair color i'm telling you uh 1.00

04:19:26.020 whether she has dark hair light hair uh humans have been procreating for thousands of years before 0.99

04:19:31.460 the invention of hair dye uh trust me you can you can find a a partner you can find a mate you can find 1.00

04:19:38.020 a boyfriend you can get some dick doesn't matter you can be bald and get some dick 1.00

04:19:42.260 yeah i think if a guy has those expectations then it's different bro all that shit i'm telling you 1.00

04:19:49.620 i'm like groom have good grooming take good care of yourself have your hygiene good but all this extra 0.99

04:19:56.820 shit that's that's you guys guys are simple we don't we don't care about that shit really 0.99

04:20:05.460 that might be you but a lot of guys do i know a lot of guys like natural girls i know that there's a 0.99

04:20:11.220 yes natural is a thing but i mean i do think that there's people like that there's never been a

04:20:16.100 time where i'm like oh damn she's naturally a brunette but she's actually a blonde i didn't want 1.00

04:20:22.100 to fuck her but now i want to fuck her like i that's never been a thought process it's a little 1.00

04:20:28.820 different but like keeping your nails done and you're you're like yeah the fake nails or nail polish 1.00

04:20:34.260 guys don't give a fuck about that yeah guys don't care now don't have like nasty nails have good 1.00

04:20:40.100 hygiene but that would apply to men too i don't think y'all want to date a guy with like nasty 1.00

04:20:45.860 fucking nails and shit but guys don't care about that all right but you're getting away from my 0.99

04:20:52.580 point a little bit here which is in order to date men have to be bringing something financially 1.00

04:20:59.700 at least a little bit we have to at least be able to pay for the date

04:21:03.380 that in and of itself and there's other financial burdens like women's general preference for a 1.00

04:21:10.260 provider like let's say it's less than 50 let's say 30 of women want to be stay-at-home moms they 1.00

04:21:17.940 don't want to work so they're going to be looking to a man to be able to fully financially provide 0.92

04:21:23.300 it's not all women but 30 of women is a fuck ton of women enough to create a mating pressure on men 1.00

04:21:31.780 that again asymmetrical does not apply the reverse most men i can't move in the dating marketplace and 0.84

04:21:39.700 have ever have an expectation that women are going to initiate that women are going to be paying for 0.90

04:21:44.660 dates that women are going to be doing providing that they're going to be okay with me wanting to be 1.00

04:21:49.140 a stay at a stay-at-home boyfriend and she's providing everything is there things that you

04:21:55.620 are looking like that's the thing like maybe in a woman's that's what they're looking for but it's 0.91

04:21:59.780 the same thing men are looking for certain things too i think they're more like we're like oh we want

04:22:04.100 a man who takes care of us oh oh god like you know i mean like above men they like very picky on looks

04:22:08.900 and like what's on the outside i feel like you know i mean like we're like we want a man who takes care

04:22:12.820 of us like to be a provider and husband i feel like also you want a wife that cooks you dinner and fold

04:22:18.260 your clothes sometimes like i i don't i think a girl who sometimes right sometimes all the time

04:22:24.580 okay that's the thing if you i think that's okay if you want your wife to fold your clothes but you 1.00

04:22:28.740 need to be providing for her you don't want your yeah yeah so that's right it should be an equal

04:22:33.140 we're having a conversation about the wage gap and i'm saying the it the two things really can't be

04:22:39.940 true at the same time women can't say i want a guy who earns more than me i'm a guy to provide i want

04:22:46.020 a guy to pay for dates etc etc etc but also women should be paid equally it literally those two 0.73

04:22:53.380 things do not do not mesh they literally cannot mesh you're saying that are you saying that you're

04:23:02.740 putting a price tag on women who's let's say they are stay-at-home moms and they do that route that's 1.00

04:23:11.140 not that's not worth anything in terms of like a monetary did i say that no i'm that i'm asking

04:23:17.940 okay what are you asking that's what i'm asking you is do you think it do you think that there's

04:23:21.540 not a monetary type like amount that equates to a woman choosing to be the nurturer to choosing to

04:23:30.260 carry babies choosing to be a mom like all of that all of that comes with like maybe it's not you know

04:23:38.340 the whatever he makes a million dollars a year that maybe it's not exactly a one for one but are

04:23:44.500 you putting a price tag on that for a woman i don't see how that pertains to the conversation at hand

04:23:50.980 but i suppose i'll engage with your question it doesn't really pertain it's sort of off in the

04:23:58.180 distance something else that's not really related to the wage gap conversation it's totally a wage gap

04:24:02.660 conversation how is it if a woman if a woman is deciding not to work and be a stay-at-home mom

04:24:09.860 then yeah she you're removing her from making money 1.00

04:24:18.900 okay what so and well no you're but what's the argument what you're you're bringing it back to

04:24:29.220 a wage gap and you're it just it feels like you're not giving any credit to the women that

04:24:37.220 actually want it that are giving up say their careers to stay home to take care of him to do

04:24:42.740 the dinners to do all of that wouldn't that mean the men do need to make more money i mean in that

04:24:48.420 scenario like they're they need to provide yeah so it's like two separate conversations so

04:24:56.100 i mean yeah if a woman gives up her career yeah i guess i acknowledge that a woman would give up her

04:25:02.980 career to be a stay-at-home mom but i'm more so arguing from the perspective of you guys are claiming

04:25:10.100 that there's a gender wage gap and i'm saying well there's a whole bunch of reasons for why that is

04:25:15.460 not due to sexism well i would argue it's due to women's sexism 1.00

04:25:26.820 how how would it not be a sexist statement to be like i think okay is it sexist for a guy to say

04:25:33.060 i think a woman should cook and clean is that a sexist statement i know i don't think so well 0.92

04:25:41.300 they were like i'm gonna make like i don't think if they but i think a woman should do x is that 1.00

04:25:48.660 sexist no no no no a woman should make me a sandwich see that we're talking about in like 0.99

04:25:56.660 in a relationship like if he's like in this relationship she should do these things like

04:26:00.740 this is what i don't think that's sexist but like in that tone like being like go make me a sandwich

04:26:05.700 that's a little you know what i mean like if it's like a equal back and forth it's okay that you're

04:26:09.540 both asking for stuff you know but okay if holding women to traditional gender roles is a form of 0.99

04:26:17.460 sexism then holding men to traditional gender roles must also be a form of sexism yeah but i didn't say

04:26:24.980 it was sexism i said it's not right but so the the argument here is uh the gender wage gap women earn

04:26:32.340 less money because of sexism and i'm prepared to agree with you but it's because women have a sexist 1.00

04:26:40.100 uh traditional gender expectation on men that men be providers and men pay for dates oh you're saying

04:26:47.060 it's sexist to make that like that that we think that you're saying and it's not sexist so i mean

04:26:53.700 people have different sense of sexism i personally am fine with traditional gender dynamics but if you're

04:26:59.540 going as women going to uh disregard and kind of throw away your traditional gender roles

04:27:06.900 why can't men throw away theirs you can okay yeah then why do all these women who are probably 1.00

04:27:13.220 we have a lot of women who are still uh who i would categorize as progressive and liberal and 1.00

04:27:19.140 feminist and believe in equality why do you want men to pay for first dates like how do you 1.00

04:27:24.020 believe women should be paid the same but also believe men should pay for first dates like why

04:27:32.100 like it's well do you think it's okay like if a guy took you on a date like didn't tell you where

04:27:35.620 you're going and then you get to the date and the bill is 300 and then he's like it's a great red herring

04:27:40.100 i love the red herring doesn't answer my question at all so i said that i don't mind paying i if i

04:27:48.420 think if the person asks you should pay if i ask you should pay like i'm not paying for a date that

04:27:53.540 wasn't my back to my question back to my question okay so why is it like how do we reconcile women 0.99

04:28:00.820 saying men and women should be paid equally but men should still pay for me socially yeah it's a

04:28:07.620 double-edged sword it doesn't make sense i understand what you're saying like i get that but i think a

04:28:12.100 woman's allowed to want a guy to date and want a guy to be a provider like i think you're allowed to 1.00

04:28:17.060 want these things and then you just date but that fits in that but so how is a guy supposed to

04:28:22.820 provide without getting paid more without getting paid more yeah i agree i agree i think if if you

04:28:30.340 want a man to do those things then he like they need to be in a job and it's also not even that

04:28:37.140 men are being paid more the other component is just if if you double the labor pool

04:28:44.900 so if before you know um there was still female participation in in jobs uh but essentially you 1.00

04:28:53.220 had what happened 50s 60s 70s the labor pool doubled okay wages are going to stagnate

04:29:02.820 and now in the past you could support a family on one income you could support a family and the income

04:29:10.900 didn't even necessarily have to be all that high you could work as you know a certain wage of job

04:29:18.900 now even sometimes two people who are you know i'm trying to think of like a wage range

04:29:26.020 you have to be an exceptionally high earner to support a family on one income

04:29:41.140 i'm just saying i didn't put that i don't know how you reconcile women should be paid equally

04:29:45.780 but men should pay for first aids men should be providers i agree how can we provide if we've

04:29:52.820 i if you double the labor pool that's going to start causing a lot of look i'm not saying that

04:29:59.860 women shouldn't work that's not what i'm saying but i'm saying one of the downstream effects 1.00

04:30:04.580 of feminism and having women enter the workforce again i'm i'm in favor of women working but when 0.91

04:30:11.300 it comes to dating if we're gonna move society in a progressive direction there can't be a continued

04:30:17.940 expectation that men are going to even economically or financially even be able to provide that which

04:30:24.580 existed in the 1950s when we've done away with the 1950s expectation that men are going to be the

04:30:32.420 dominant participants in the labor pool so you're saying the views should change based off the what

04:30:39.780 today's world is like like i'm just saying if you're going to be feminist you can't be feminist

04:30:44.980 until the check comes you gotta pony up you gotta pay half the bill why are you shaking your head

04:30:51.780 tell me why absolutely not sorry that's why i go back to saying masculine men masculine men will always

04:30:59.060 pick up that tab no matter what they have no problem picking up that tab and they will actually

04:31:05.140 never let a woman pay for it especially if it's your okay i love this yes he will not let her pull 1.00

04:31:10.980 out her wallet okay ever so what do men owe to women nothing what what do you mean that you're saying

04:31:19.620 a masculine man would never let a woman pay so he has some degree of there's a female driven expectation 0.91

04:31:27.220 on men i'm saying there's a certain caliber of man that exists out there that what does he get in

04:31:37.380 return for being a masculine man to be in the presence of a woman a woman but shouldn't he okay so what do

04:31:44.500 women have to do you know what is a woman's duty you're saying a man has a duty to pay for first 1.00

04:31:52.820 dates yeah to be a provider to be a masculine all these things what do women have to do 1.00

04:32:01.140 show up be a woman be the woman show up that like what if i said you understand what it is such a

04:32:08.260 privilege it is to even be okay to have a very yeah yeah no yes go ahead go ahead yes i do i do believe

04:32:16.500 that yeah on both on both spectrum like on the both on the man and the woman's side it is a privilege

04:32:23.380 to have a strong loving nurturing woman in your life and i will tell you that the ways that we provide

04:32:32.820 for a man even though it is not monetary you cannot put a price tag on that what do you do tell me what

04:32:41.620 you do you say i'm talking about like i'm talking about emotional availability i'm talking about

04:32:52.260 providing like a place of peace of wellness of um i mean there's a lot that women do that 1.00

04:33:02.900 you it's not just directly related to a dollar

04:33:06.340 doesn't equate to monetary okay so should women be submissive if they want to if that's the role 1.00

04:33:15.220 that they want to play okay well then why can't i say the same thing about men if that's the role

04:33:20.660 they want to play okay that's not the okay sure okay so i guess here's the two paradigms we can agree

04:33:29.220 that there's all kinds of different different people there's uh men who are more or less masculine

04:33:36.340 but that masculine guy who's a leader who's going to pay for first dates what does that guy deserve

04:33:44.980 from a woman in the same way that she's getting the things that you listed that would be a fair 0.77

04:33:52.180 expectation for the woman to have well i think if he's going into it looking for a long-term partner

04:33:59.620 versus we're not talking just like hookups okay yeah sure okay so if we're if we're looking at it

04:34:05.700 from the long game then i don't see a reason as to why a man would not want to show up in that capacity

04:34:16.180 for a woman by being the provider by being the first to throw a credit card down or whatever it 1.00

04:34:23.620 is for a first date like show her that you have the ability to take care of her and if you can't do

04:34:31.060 that on date one then you probably shouldn't be dating like don't even don't don't come to the table

04:34:36.980 unless you can be able to throw that card down i agree i think you know also coincidingly

04:34:45.060 women should be prepared to be submissive right away and you know what if if she comes back to 1.00

04:34:50.900 your place on the first date she should fold your laundry she should fold your laundry she should clean 1.00

04:34:56.740 your house uh she should do all that but let me ask you this um do you ever want to get married

04:35:03.860 you no not traditional not traditionally so not in a um like in a church or anything like that

04:35:10.980 like a but you wanted the the state you want to state no i don't want to state marriage

04:35:17.460 oh okay and just curious why not uh i don't want to be tied to legal system yeah i just don't okay so

04:35:26.020 don't want to be tied to a legal system yeah okay who here wants to get married just show of hands really 1.00

04:35:29.540 quick yes maybe show fans show fans yes yes yes yes okay uh wait really quick let's do this show of

04:35:38.980 hands again just uh who wants guys to pay for the first date show of hands raise my luna didn't you 0.99

04:35:44.660 no i thought okay uh really it was just it was just you and you and you three who wanted i thought there

04:35:58.260 was more of you wanted yeah that's men duh i asked men on dates all the time oh my you said it was 30 70

04:36:05.860 so men ask you more yeah because i'm not asking unless i really want to go on a date with them

04:36:09.620 that's right but you get you get asked out more by men yeah this idea of whoever i should pay

04:36:16.260 would make sense if there was somewhat approaching similar rates of men and women asking each other

04:36:24.100 help so if even if it was 60 40 men asked out a little bit more i could be like i could get behind

04:36:30.580 the okay whoever i should pay it's like 95 it might even be 99 to one that's the differential

04:36:39.780 between how many times the rate at which men initiate first dates versus the rate women initiate

04:36:46.260 first dates in that opposite direction do you think they should split the bill or do you think that we

04:36:50.820 should pay the bill like if he if you ask someone on a date are you splitting the bill are you wanting

04:36:56.260 them to like what's the argument you know i mean like if a girl if you're not paying are you splitting 0.99

04:37:00.980 or you want them to pay what do you mean what do you mean what do i mean you're saying we're not

04:37:05.300 allowed to have a guy want to like he asked me on a date i wanted to pay the the date if that's not

04:37:10.740 how it's going do you think we should split it or do you think we should be the one offering to pay

04:37:14.420 because they asked us look i'm fine with guys who are asking paying for for first dates what i'm what

04:37:20.980 i'm contending with is the argument of whoever asks should be the one to pay but it conveniently ignores

04:37:28.660 that men are overwhelmingly the initiators so as women you you have this sort of benefit where 0.94

04:37:34.660 you can move through life and like never ever ask a guy out and you'll have plenty of guys constant flow 0.99

04:37:41.700 most men if they never asked a girl out they're that's the end of their fucking bloodline 0.97

04:37:49.060 like most men are not getting asked out by women it is what it is so i'm saying to just wave away to 0.99

04:37:58.020 hand wave away oh well whoever i should pay again it just ignores this kind of intergender dynamic where

04:38:04.980 men are overwhelmingly the initiators so it's like not factoring in that component of it

04:38:10.100 so de facto you should just say men should pay because men are the initiators i mean that's

04:38:17.940 de facto what it is yeah but getting back to this uh who i guess going to you it's kind of complicated

04:38:25.780 because you don't want to get married um

04:38:28.500 yeah i don't know if this question is really going to land then but um would you if you did get

04:38:37.700 married but it wasn't through the state but i guess name changes our legal name changes would you change

04:38:44.580 your last name to his last name no

04:38:51.780 okay um

04:38:54.820 why i'm just what so any uh what about you you said you want men to pay for first dates you want to get 0.93

04:39:00.980 married one day will you take your husband's last name yes okay i don't know if they're what about

04:39:06.260 some other people not wanting to i don't know okay well it's just weird because you want men to adhere

04:39:12.420 to their traditional gender roles but you don't seem to want to adhere to your traditional gender

04:39:17.460 roles of a name change yeah that traditionally like when a woman gets married she's gonna take 1.00

04:39:25.220 the husband's last name traditionally yes if i'm not wanting to get married in a traditional sense in

04:39:33.940 the court system and then by i mean legally i do not have to um if i'm open to the conversation

04:39:42.340 of having that with my partner and if it's a big deal then we will have that and you know i

04:39:49.700 wouldn't mind saying okay like yeah i would change but all right do you think uh let's say

04:39:57.780 a woman is living with a guy and he's being a provider taking care of everything should she cook for

04:40:04.420 him yeah like that's something she should do

04:40:13.220 it's something that i would do okay should she do his laundry sure should she clean the house 0.95

04:40:24.100 yeah i think it would be like just her she just does that 0.99

04:40:26.980 shit co i think it would be a co-partner kind of thing like hey you do this i'll do that or 0.97

04:40:35.700 yeah i think some responsibilities should be shared uh i mean maybe those that are a bit more like

04:40:41.620 physically demanding possibly but like what like just cleaning generally is not super physically demanding i

04:40:50.180 think cleaning fine like the like the bathroom she 100 cleans the bathroom every time all the time 1.00

04:40:59.860 every day not every day i'm just exaggerating all the time all the time every time i don't know say

04:41:07.780 it's once a week whatever she cleans the bathroom that's her that's what she does are you in favor of 0.99

04:41:12.900 this cool yeah never sometimes he does it um i mean if he wants to let him do it no but he doesn't

04:41:21.540 want to okay then you'll do it the whole time every time every time okay the bow video oh sure we can

04:41:30.020 do the bow video good suggestion nick bow bow bow

04:41:32.900 yes yeah boom so this is a video i took my ex-girlfriend um well i i um this was after a long long

04:41:51.540 podcast episode come back to my apartment um she had my dinner ready this is kind of my expectation

04:41:57.220 um i do need the bow immediately as i come through the door she has to crack open my beer for me 1.00

04:42:04.020 um i had to scold her for those tomatoes i'm not a fan of tomatoes

04:42:08.340 so i actually dumped her after this dinner because she 1.00

04:42:11.460 i don't eat tomatoes like that and then let's just play the bow again really quick

04:42:18.020 boom huge bow do you see the depth amazing great technique hands kind of submissive base

04:42:25.460 submissive housewife um ex-girlfriend did have to dump her though she was uh kind of crazy also 1.00

04:42:31.220 you saw you see the eyes at the end yeah crazy shit she did all of that and still she did all 1.00

04:42:36.260 done yeah you know look you know yep sometimes the bow is not even doing it uh so do you guys think uh 0.99

04:42:43.140 i don't know would you bow for your man going around the table starting with you yes i would

04:42:47.460 okay are we gonna get a demo right now can you show us about not to me just in general

04:42:50.740 in general can we see about sitting down right now well stand up let's see about the full picture

04:42:55.220 yeah we need the the full the full all right okay oh this is really demeaning no this no

04:43:06.020 the camera's right here you can yeah no you're good no where you were was good where you were

04:43:11.380 okay go for it all right well done fantastic well done ellie well done good job w ellie in the chat

04:43:23.300 um would you bow for your boyfriend no i mean if he's if he's paying all of my bills and taking

04:43:29.700 care of me full force and that's like our subdom thing was it to the bow yeah that's what i'm saying

04:43:34.500 because bow bow bow i'll bow bow bow for ellie's definitely on board with the bow yeah i love that 0.99

04:43:41.700 for you all right would you bow for your boyfriend yeah i have and i kiss his feet too okay w's in the

04:43:47.300 chat i mean that's kind of no no not like that just like that you know like when you bow

04:43:54.100 not like sucking his toes you know i mean i could get behind i i'm not about like the the feet kissing 0.97

04:43:59.860 thing though but like not just the bow but the get on the ground and then bow yes sign me up 0.68

04:44:07.860 for that what about you would you hit a bow for your boyfriend i've actually had this conversation

04:44:12.660 with him because he showed me this video and i said yes your boyfriend watches the podcast he does

04:44:18.820 yeah and so you did you do it i did great but it was kind of like it's not a joke but it's kind

04:44:23.700 of a joke because right now like i wouldn't do it right now because he doesn't provide for me

04:44:27.620 but i told him that if he did wow wow she it you can't see see the vision for i see the vision

04:44:35.460 that's why i did it the first time right there right now but maybe down the road i did it one time

04:44:40.340 and i was like i was like i'm not doing it anymore besides this one time i was like that's just a

04:44:44.260 vision into what its potential would you hit a bow for your boyfriend um probably yeah all right it's

04:44:51.860 almost out of like respect because especially in asian cultures you do bow out of respect and it's

04:44:59.460 like the lower you go the more you respect them so like in like chinese marriages like the bride and

04:45:05.780 the groom will like see who can like bow the lowest i have seen that before yeah okay would you bow for

04:45:12.260 your boyfriend uh if he bowed for me i'd bow for him nope one directional what why does he have to

04:45:18.500 bow no only one person bows no yeah you wouldn't bow for him no wait question would you bow for the

04:45:26.420 perfect guy would i bow for the perfect perfect guy he doesn't bow back but you just bow for him

04:45:32.820 no unless it was in a funny context and we were just being humorous he every time he comes home from

04:45:38.260 work he just wants you to three seconds just hit a bow no perfect guy though everything is perfect

04:45:45.140 dude i do some for the perfect woman i do a lot for the perfect woman we know i do a lot

04:45:55.620 you would rather a woman bow to you than come in and be like hi sweetie like you want them to be like 1.00

04:46:00.740 yes sir like that's like i get it i don't know she can do the hi sweetie and then with coupled with a 1.00

04:46:09.860 bow yeah it's okay yeah all right what about you would you bow for your boyfriend whatever

04:46:16.980 long-term boyfriend like probably not should be not a first date especially they don't pay

04:46:24.580 no i feel like if i don't know you that well like all right i don't know felicity only my husband yes

04:46:33.140 all right uh look i'm just saying i'm gonna put you ladies on some game here 1.00

04:46:38.100 i know y'all modern boss babes but i'm telling you 1.00

04:46:45.380 first time you're at the guy's house as soon as you walk through the door

04:46:51.220 act like you're on a mission be like where's the laundry room and make your way clean up after him

04:47:00.020 clean his house maybe bathroom can be the second date okay sometimes bathrooms a little dirtier

04:47:04.660 laundry first date maybe tidy up the kitchen a little bit he's got some dishes in there clean

04:47:10.420 the dishes put them in the dishwasher whatever you might say damn i'd never do i never degrade myself 0.99

04:47:16.420 like that you do that shit for a guy he's gonna be like who's this okay man come to them i'm oh i've 0.99

04:47:24.020 never had this before this is i can't i gotta hold on and that guy who he's gonna give you some some 0.99

04:47:31.220 brownie points for not for not a lot of effort like at least the bow that's no effort that's no

04:47:37.700 effort yeah it's no no when you go to a guy's house you should do his laundry i think if you want a top

04:47:43.460 shelf guy you should be briefing yourself before you even get to the house looking up floor plans

04:47:48.660 so that you can be aligned to the laundry room yes and to the kitchen i love that yeah it's all

04:47:54.660 about that's good see that's the effort that i'm talking about it's it's the thought that counts

04:48:01.860 you know okay she she's putting in the effort 0.97

04:48:10.740 do you also like sneak in break into his house when he's not there

04:48:15.460 so you can even know where the cleaning supplies are exactly yeah yeah i get that from you ellie

04:48:22.020 that you seem like that kind of girl okay that's cool um anybody else thoughts opinions feelings

04:48:30.100 i'm telling you look first time you're at a guy's house i'm telling you you know how people like to

04:48:35.780 assert dominance you're asserting your subservience oh i thought you're about to say that you like to

04:48:41.860 urinate on the wall no i have like this is my territory no i thought you were territorial or 0.99

04:48:48.420 some shit well i'm not like a bear so i wouldn't like go pee on everything unless you know that's 0.96

04:48:55.300 he was into that guy wanted if he was into that if he was yeah i mean yeah so far i've been practicing 0.99

04:49:00.980 my piss retention so that i can like stay at this table for as long as possible without having to take 0.69

04:49:05.300 my bathroom break we have had women urinate yeah i'm just kidding like they hold it in and 1.00

04:49:15.460 a little trickles out and seeps into the that's happened though mary that's what i'm talking about

04:49:21.620 that's happened here what did y'all change the chairs yeah yeah we wiped we wiped the chairs

04:49:28.100 why this is a secret yeah that's soaked and marinated yeah well don't worry about it i'm a

04:49:35.860 little worried uh so anyways what do you guys think though in favor of the bow wait you wouldn't do it

04:49:41.940 for the perfect man if he's gonna do it from like i said it has to be reciprocal yeah if he's gonna bow

04:49:47.700 wait what why reciprocal because are you gonna reciprocally pay for the date we're talking about a

04:49:54.820 bow that's the logic wait wait but think about this think about this right a bow boom three seconds

04:50:02.020 no effort super easy zero effort easy i mean if you got low back just a little slight out i got back

04:50:09.620 problems myself so you know but what what you're asking for for a guy to pay for the date now look

04:50:17.940 when you become older you tend to become a bit you know you earn more money but we got some girls here 1.00

04:50:22.340 we got 18 19 21 19 23 23 you could be dating a guy who makes 20 an hour let's assume a guy takes you

04:50:35.700 to a decent place it's not super fancy he's not gonna spend a thousand bucks but he spends a hundred

04:50:40.020 bucks on the dinner between the two of you you know that's a drink or two appetizer main course dessert

04:50:47.300 it's realistic a guy who's taking you to a a mid-tier place is gonna spend a hundred bucks

04:50:54.020 if he works and makes twenty dollars an hour and i'm just factoring in hit your portion let's say

04:50:59.860 your portion of the meal is fifty bucks right hundred dollars total you're asking the dude to work two

04:51:05.380 and a half hours to take you on a date two and a half hours let's say he's a i don't know he digs

04:51:12.340 ditches let's say he he works he works a uh a construction job he's out in the heat he's sweating 0.68

04:51:20.580 he's getting dirty he's he's breaking his back so that he could take you on a date and if the date is

04:51:28.020 a hundred bucks like i said your portion 50 that's two and a half hours of him working so when women 1.00

04:51:33.860 say the guy should pay for the first date the entailment of that is if assuming it depends on how

04:51:38.660 much he makes if he works and makes twenty dollars an hour you have to work two and a half hours to

04:51:45.460 take me out that's what you're saying is women when you say men should pay for first dates i don't think 1.00

04:51:51.540 it's that big of an ask then just hit the bow that's it i'll pay that bit i'll pay the bill you got to hit

04:51:59.140 the bow no respect bow is bills a hug is dinner like i'm not yeah i'm not bowing or whatever like

04:52:08.340 a bow is crazy like i will bow to a man if he's taking care of me fully if that's like if it's a 0.96

04:52:12.900 respectful bow like if he's like bow to me bitch like i'm not bowing to the him you know what he's 1.00

04:52:16.740 like in my culture like how she was saying it is a cultural thing i went to a wedding that they 0.97

04:52:20.580 literally were bowing like if it's a cultural thing and i'm dating someone in that culture and he's like

04:52:24.580 this is what a woman in my culture does to show my of course but if it's in a disrespectful manner 1.00

04:52:30.740 no it's of course respectful then she should want to do that shit i like this guy so much i'm gonna do 0.99

04:52:36.820 that shit if it's gonna make him like me more do that shit and that's but that's weird like wait 0.99

04:52:44.180 question who here wants a guy to open the car door the guy should open the car door bow and open the 1.00

04:52:50.580 car door open the car door what about walk closer to uh the road side the street side where the cars

04:53:00.340 are yeah should he yes this is these are the sidewalk negotiables these are the sidewalk rule who cares 0.98

04:53:06.740 about that like who cares pay attention to this shit honestly my mom was like if he doesn't all right 1.00

04:53:13.140 do that like there's some people who've noticed little things like that you were gonna say something 0.98

04:53:16.740 though i i just said those are non-negotiables those are things non-negotiable those are things

04:53:21.380 that a man should just be doing they should just do without question without question without 0.70

04:53:25.620 question these are duties oh my god yeah it's what these are duties that men have the man open the car 0.99

04:53:32.020 door the observe the sidewalk rule in case a fucking car comes barreling down at you and you're on the 0.98

04:53:40.020 first date with a chick who's done gone on 10 other dates in the past month i'm supposed to 1.00

04:53:46.180 sacrifice my life for a girl who done fucked a guy the night before what the 1.00

04:53:50.740 fuck are you kidding me bro this is crazy talk y'all want to be modern women but you want men to be 1.00

04:53:58.100 these fucking 1940s bachelors oh well i'm gonna i will uh late i'm gonna protect you and i'm gonna walk 1.00

04:54:06.260 on the inside of the road so if a fucking car comes barreling down i he oh my god babe oh felicity 0.99

04:54:13.780 get out of the way pushes her out of the way oh my god oh i'm dead and then literally the next 0.99

04:54:19.300 day oh felicity oh my god she's so sad and then she's she's on a date with fucking bartholomew or 1.00

04:54:24.980 some shit bro she's dating she's dating cornelius or some shit but you wouldn't even and i just died 0.99

04:54:33.060 to protect her the fucking day before and she's getting dicked down by fucking 1.00

04:54:39.140 she's getting fucking dicked down by some other dude she's getting dick she's getting dick from 1.00

04:54:43.380 somebody else but you're i gave my life that's true these are very slim things when you're asking 1.00

04:54:50.100 for a bow every single day yes okay what is it bow down it's a bow down like to a royalty that's no 0.99

04:54:56.100 that's about unless it's a respectful thing in a king and queen shit bro look 0.98

04:55:04.100 i'm just saying wait you were saying that bare minimum or something like men or what was the term 0.98

04:55:09.140 that you used yeah for like opening the car door non-negotiable non-negotiable thank you ellie w 0.96

04:55:18.020 what did they call you on fish tank leonard or some shit oh leonard ellie that was leonard my name 0.60

04:55:22.820 on the stoics leonard oh i don't know yeah just scoot in just a bit what do you think is a non-negotiable 0.95

04:55:28.900 for a woman you tell me laundry you're cooking no uh you tell me but i want to let's talk first

04:55:35.620 dates though because you're asking you're only wait i have a question though i have a question

04:55:39.300 you said these things for men are non-negotiable sidewalk rule open the car door pay for the date 1.00

04:55:46.180 okay those are a couple of non-negotiables what are the non-negotiables for women 0.98

04:55:52.580 i don't know what are they let's talk about it you know you you tell us you tell us

04:55:56.020 yes on a first date sure

04:56:02.820 i mean women don't have to do again they don't do anything not true what is it but but how easy 1.00

04:56:10.980 was it for you to say men should do xyz non-negotiable your little boy if you don't do that

04:56:18.100 you little boy soy boys ain't gonna hold the door open open the car door pay for the date oh these 0.94

04:56:24.660 little soy boys over here and then but i'm just asking okay what what are women's non-negotiables 1.00

04:56:33.940 it's nothing it's nothing

04:56:37.860 it's a raw deal for us boy we have on non-negotiables for the men and y'all

04:56:44.740 nothing but you just show you i am the table what do you bring to the table i am the table

04:56:49.940 no don't even go there what do i bring to the table that's your your female perspective 1.00

04:56:55.380 woman rule the world what do you bring to the table i am the table that's what she's saying 1.00

04:57:00.740 i'm at what are the non-negotiables for women what's on the table 1.00

04:57:05.540 what are they i'm asking you why don't we ask you i'm telling i told you but mine were but why is it so

04:57:11.940 easy for women to say men should do this but then you can't say women should do this not true what

04:57:18.500 should women do then you tell me y'all are the women you tell me what women should do 0.97

04:57:23.780 i think we all have differences because like that's what i'm saying you date women that's 0.96

04:57:27.860 why we're asking you it's like we're saying this because we date that person you know what i mean like

04:57:33.060 also it depends on the relationship with their dominor like i date women too and i'm more dominant

04:57:36.740 when i date women submissive when i date men so i feel like i would fill that role with a woman

04:57:40.740 like i would be opening the car door and for that like that's how i want to date a woman but for a 1.00

04:57:45.940 man i like to be more submissive so it's like different it's different for everyone word

04:57:53.060 word but in general i think women like if guys are paying for the first dates opening car doors doing 1.00

04:57:58.740 all this stuff for you the least you can do help them around around the house apartment wherever he is

04:58:04.980 i think that's the least you could do especially if women aren't sleeping and hooking up on the first 1.00

04:58:10.180 day like if i got taken on a date and they paid 300 at a steakhouse and then they called me being

04:58:15.060 like hey i need help packing i'm gonna help them pack like but it's more like if they pay for a date

04:58:19.780 and then they're like okay now i need to go do my laundry like that's like i feel like it's a

04:58:23.140 district it's like you need to have more of a relationship before you can like ask that like

04:58:26.980 it but i would be okay with helping them once they did that you know it's like i don't know that's

04:58:31.300 weird weird conversation what do you think is a non-negotiable for what you say what do you think

04:58:37.540 because you're a man and you have non-negotiables so what are they bow uh defer to my leadership so a

04:58:48.260 lot of women want a leader they find this as an attractive trait in a relationship y'all want a 1.00

04:58:55.300 leader but you don't want to follow in order for a guy to be an effective leader you can't be dealing

04:59:03.460 with like a rambunctious non-cooperative person like leadership can only exist within the dynamic of

04:59:14.100 willingness to follow women don't want to follow but it's weird because

04:59:19.140 nick you remember that clip from the office you know what i'm talking about

04:59:23.620 here i'll pull up the i'll find it but uh the office leadership what what's that ryan yeah i think

04:59:33.700 that's his name all right let's see if that finds it i'm gonna send it to you private chat all right

04:59:38.500 private chat boom there it is found it easy peasy pull that up video tab it we're gonna watch this

04:59:45.300 telling y'all want a leader you don't want to follow means being submissive being cooperative

04:59:53.620 i got away with everything under the last boss and it wasn't good for me at all so i want guidance

05:00:00.820 i want leadership but don't just like boss me around you know like lead me lead me when i'm in the mood

05:00:11.380 to be led

05:00:14.900 that's dating right now that's dating 0.88

05:00:16.900 i doesn't think that's like you can't even argue because there's scales of everything like there's

05:00:24.900 like i always said my dream relationship would be like like if i did like a lawyer or a doctor

05:00:28.980 or whatever like if i was going to his little like doctor lawyer meetings and everything i would let

05:00:32.980 all his friends think that he's in charge like i'm okay with like all his friends being like

05:00:38.020 giving him that dominance like giving like with his friends over and we're there like i'll help him

05:00:43.780 serve him like whatever like i'm okay with that but also when doors are closed and me and him are

05:00:47.700 just alone like he shouldn't treat me like all i am is to serve you know what i mean like i can

05:00:51.540 play the part when it's needed you want to peg him what what in the world did everyone hear that

05:00:57.220 i don't know just you said behind closed doors i mean i'm down i guess i don't know like if that's

05:01:02.100 what if they're paying bills you know i don't know they're both bad situations but this idea that

05:01:08.820 okay in in public you will you will fall into that role but privately you're just going to be

05:01:15.140 quarrelsome and annoying no that's not what i said i'm saying i i'm okay to play it more like if they

05:01:20.420 like being like the yes sir no sir whatever like if they're paying my bills and stuff i'm okay with

05:01:24.660 that but also when i'm at home like i don't want them to be talking to me exactly how they would to

05:01:28.980 their friends like at home like i want them to treat me more like they're a person not like this woman 0.99

05:01:33.220 you know what i mean like i feel like in front of their friends they want it to be more like a role

05:01:37.060 thing and i'm okay with playing that they're bringing the bread and they're that role in their

05:01:41.700 job you know if they're like the top ceo or whatever like that's okay like yeah so i guess if

05:01:47.220 the traditional role for men is to be providers and protectors then that would mean the traditional

05:01:53.860 role like the duty for women would be to have children okay like that's the traditional role 1.00

05:02:03.300 if we're talking like more so not necessarily on the individualistic level but on the like broader

05:02:13.380 the broader societal level like that would be the duty to society is to have children

05:02:19.380 right

05:02:23.940 but i guess more on an individualistic one-on-one relationship

05:02:28.820 absent children the role would be to bow defer to his leadership

05:02:39.860 show to show him deference be submissive be feminine and bring him peace

05:02:46.980 a partner that's it that's not it that is what you just described well yeah but i mean there's

05:02:53.300 what is being a good partner well you just described okay well fine then anything that's

05:02:59.780 positive can be a being a good partner i guess

05:03:04.980 brian i need to go well what i had a concussion my head hurts when did you have a few weeks ago

05:03:13.620 oh yeah well we didn't even get through your notes yeah i didn't know it was gonna be this long

05:03:18.420 uh well do you want to stay and we can finish up your notes really quick sure okay uh okay um let's

05:03:26.500 see uh we're gonna here i'm gonna get right to it i had one final point here really quick

05:03:33.780 so you wouldn't bow for the perfect man i would not bow for the perfect man no the perfect man the

05:03:40.660 entailment here could be he's a trillionaire super hot fucking amazing but all you have to do to get 0.75

05:03:49.460 him aside from just being you and all your other positive characteristics and traits you just have 0.93

05:03:55.220 to bow that's it if he would bow i would bow no no no he okay then it's a no but no the entailment

05:04:00.500 if he's not gonna do he won't that doesn't i it doesn't make sense but just to be clear he's a

05:04:05.220 trillionaire who cares who cares i don't i'm a trillionaire your life

05:04:13.300 and bark you never have to work this is like thousand year dynasty levels of wealth uh you

05:04:24.820 never have to work a day again in your life your everything is taken care of you don't even you're

05:04:30.260 not even gonna have to cook and clean for him he has servants on he's got servants for the 0.77

05:04:35.060 servants oh all you have to do is bow you don't do it you mean bow every day once sure once a day

05:04:44.660 no i'm sorry can i ask you questions if if there was a job that paid you a million dollars and you

05:04:51.940 were a greeter at the front of a restaurant and for some reason this restaurant was like

05:04:56.180 really really stupid with their finances and you part of this greeting procedure at the restaurant 0.81

05:05:01.540 is to greet each and every single guest that comes to the restaurant you just have to do like 1.00

05:05:05.620 a bow and they'll pay you a million dollars would you do it would i be a professional bow or yeah for

05:05:12.340 a restaurant for a million or it could be a greeter at the front of like a walmart or something

05:05:18.900 like it's i know it's a bit like silly or whatever but yeah it's totally out of the question i mean it's

05:05:23.140 it's it's and it's a million dollars would you do it no you yeah i wouldn't do it i would so you'll 0.83

05:05:31.780 wave your hands around people doing reiki and shit for for one hour and you charge like a couple hundred 0.79

05:05:38.260 bucks but you won't be paid you won't you won't get paid a a million dollar salary to bout okay i mean 0.93

05:05:46.100 yeah i don't really get it but her opinion yeah yeah what i would wouldn't get her ground

05:05:54.340 would you do it for 10 million no it's not it you wouldn't by the way a bow is not like

05:06:01.300 a degrading thing to do in a in any capacity but certainly in like a work capacity if like

05:06:06.980 the job was like oh you just have to do a little bow as you greet the people that come in

05:06:10.740 you wouldn't do that that's not the job for me then no that's not what i'm looking to do in this

05:06:17.140 life so pass what that's okay yeah i mean it's just a pass it's just a pass

05:06:23.780 every situation money is not important to you like that but you have these values i would quit this 0.88

05:06:29.300 fucking podcast if i could get paid 10 million dollars to just bow to people at the front door 0.94

05:06:37.220 but i feel like it's not about the money for her it's just about her like inner morals and what 0.99

05:06:42.820 she believes make them make the moral argument for why it would be immoral to bow it's an ego thing

05:06:51.940 if it was any other motion like maybe a handshake when you're greeting them would that be different

05:06:55.700 would you do that for 10 million dollars no because i'm not like okay this is about what uh

05:07:01.140 what i'm supposed to this is about like just purpose having purpose in life and my purpose

05:07:07.220 isn't to shake someone's hand for money isn't to bow to someone for money so this is purpose your 0.95

05:07:12.660 purpose is to like sell snake oil to fucking i'm sorry that's her purpose though that's the thing 1.00

05:07:18.820 like you're taking it deeper than like if that if she doesn't want to bow to someone because that's 0.98

05:07:22.500 what money is money is important to me so i'm bowing okay it's not important to her and that's not

05:07:27.780 her worth so she doesn't want to do it and that's okay so beautiful yeah thanks i i i appreciate it

05:07:34.500 i mean if that's not just if she don't want to do it then that's her life yeah it may yes i understand

05:07:39.540 it's ridiculous to you i would be i'm like girl 10 million no judgment no judgment if you want to

05:07:44.340 bow like go for it go for it not financially smart i agree with that but i think i think it's like

05:07:52.740 you must be really happy with what you're doing right now and i love that for you then

05:07:55.620 love that i love it i'm so happy that you love that that's crazy he's 10 million dollars dude

05:08:03.380 that's like you could work for a year and be good and then do your purposeful work for 0.58

05:08:08.740 fucking free or something wait 10 million a year yeah it's 10 million in a year oh wow you work for 0.96

05:08:14.100 one year you're set bow bow bow bow who wouldn't do that you wouldn't do it for a year just to set 1.00

05:08:20.820 yourself up with 10 million no no my life's purpose of for i can't pause it for a fucking year 0.98

05:08:28.900 to create generational wealth i don't understand the logic but yeah but who cares 0.99

05:08:34.100 as long as she's happy with what she wants to do that is her decision bro okay if she had like a sick 0.99

05:08:40.180 family member that was like and needed 10 million to survive and then she wouldn't do it then i'll be 0.55

05:08:44.100 like okay i'm judging because like she he needs it but if he if she is happy and taking care of 0.95

05:08:48.100 herself and doesn't want the 10 million give the fuck i would be thinking i would be thinking bigger 1.00

05:08:53.060 picture like okay let's say you have this side this passion that you want to do and it's really 0.97

05:08:59.380 not about the money it's like in my mind i would just be like thinking about it logically and analytically

05:09:05.620 okay i can't do it for a year but for that year i'm gonna go ahead and set myself up that i can do 0.84

05:09:12.020 that thing more or i can invest in that thing and start like a fucking business and i have all this 0.97

05:09:19.940 i have the slush fund of 10 million dollars to fulfill my dream of making this thing bigger 0.93

05:09:26.820 absolutely with these resources that i'm gaining through the i don't know that's just i wouldn't

05:09:33.780 do what's you don't have a job

05:09:35.860 i have many i have many jobs actually no but i mean like do you have like a normal job i know you

05:09:44.660 do you have a couple hustles and stuff do you have like a main gig what's your main gig no that

05:09:49.860 is my that's my world yes i make money that's how i make money the reiki it's not no it's not just reiki

05:09:58.020 okay oh my gosh all right i'll leave it i mean i'll leave it there i'm just saying let the girl

05:10:05.540 be happy i know i feel like you should just drop it because we got a girl with a concussion that's 0.84

05:10:10.660 got a headache yeah all right yeah he's like sitting here staring in front of us this is

05:10:16.180 this is why the wage gap exists okay so anyways so anyways uh okay we'll get into your notes uh you say

05:10:24.180 that you when you initially reached out to us you have a complex relationship what does that mean

05:10:29.860 into the mic um we were just on and off all the time we didn't respect each other and okay we're

05:10:41.380 we're in therapy now so it's good now couples therapy um well i'm in therapy and i bring i bring him

05:10:47.780 and it helps you're in therapy for what um issues mental issues i have a personality disorder bpd yeah

05:10:59.380 okay is it pretty severe that's what my therapist said yeah okay uh you said in your notes you consider

05:11:06.500 yourself an anarchist yeah i kind of do i mean i just i just prefer that um there be no rulers

05:11:15.780 um no rulers um no rulers like you know like dolphins they just swim in the ocean anywhere

05:11:25.780 they want they don't need a passport but those are animals we're talking about also like don't they

05:11:33.140 grape oh yeah yeah okay okay i wasn't going in that direction i mean yes i agree in law and order but we

05:11:41.780 did exist back then without governments that's without wait hold on there's always been yeah yeah

05:11:48.260 that's true wait wait wait but throughout all of human history there's always been hierarchies

05:11:54.180 there might not have been like formal establishments of government i mean there's been established

05:11:58.980 governments for like long thousands millennia long periods of time

05:12:04.660 no i believe like sorry i believe in like a hierarchy i just think like what you said our

05:12:12.100 civilization is too big and i so what should it be i don't know i feel like we should focus on more

05:12:20.500 like communities communities uh so i guess would people would there still be companies or corporations

05:12:28.260 in an an anarchy like selling products i notice you're wearing like glitter and makeup and you

05:12:34.340 have like your teeth are like bejeweled so there's like an industry and a corporation that produces the

05:12:40.340 things that you're wearing on your face yeah okay so you under an anarchy would there still be corporations

05:12:46.420 um we would be bartering and making things so there wouldn't be like massive multinational

05:12:52.820 corporations probably you'd be like sticks and you want to go back to sticks in the woods

05:12:58.420 um what do you what level of civilization would you like to go back to me yeah i honestly do want

05:13:05.300 to go back in time just to see it no like to live out the rest of your life you know like

05:13:11.220 bronze age iron age stone age i'm gonna be honest pre-industrial

05:13:15.780 pre-industrial yeah go ahead be honest i i i decided my political beliefs like 15 years ago

05:13:24.340 and i haven't really changed or thought about them so yeah i i don't really think about politics that

05:13:30.260 much wait so you became an anarchist 15 years ago when you were 14 yeah pretty yeah yeah okay but i i guess

05:13:37.700 you said you don't i'm not really political these are well it's not political oh this isn't a

05:13:46.340 political conversation okay this is like the structure of society okay like political i'd be

05:13:52.500 okay there's republicans they're democrats whatever this is like more foundational um

05:13:58.180 i guess as an anarchist though um how you you said you're against government right kind of okay so

05:14:07.060 let's say there's and you're i noticed you're wearing makeup right so you realize there's like

05:14:11.860 quite a bit of industry when it comes to producing makeup i mean i guess you can do so like you could 0.88

05:14:17.460 rub some dirt on your face or something or like put some berries on your face or some shit but the global 0.74

05:14:24.660 makeup industry is like a massive infrastructure there's massive infrastructure systems etc okay so 0.97

05:14:32.420 let's say one of these companies in order to out compete other competitors wants to just dump the

05:14:38.980 the toxic sludge remnants from the makeup production process into an ocean that people are not ocean a

05:14:46.740 river that people drink from what entity would you appeal to to stop a company or corporation from dumping

05:14:55.460 toxic sludge into a river um parks and recreation which would be a government entity but you're an

05:15:05.540 anarchist so how do you reconcile that i don't know but also don't you think like dumping toxic sludge

05:15:12.820 into rivers bad yes how do we stop that though why are we dumping it in the river because humans are

05:15:21.140 selfish and greedy and they'll cut corners to save or make money yeah so should we maybe have like a

05:15:29.860 government body that can enforce laws that prevents corporations from dumping toxic materials into the

05:15:35.860 river yeah so maybe you want to rethink the energy thing yeah right i hate with that one

05:15:41.860 i mean just you know pollution environment my no my thing about it was just like um

05:15:52.580 maybe misunderstood it but like law enforcement like really not good yeah not good not okay question for

05:16:00.740 you somebody murders your boyfriend who do you appeal to who do you go to to get justice well yeah in

05:16:09.780 that situation probably the police will help but in a lot of situations they haven't helped so that's

05:16:14.580 why okay well look i'll be charitable and grant that uh the police force isn't perfect they make

05:16:20.260 mistakes there's police misconduct police brutality police killings unjustified this definitely happens

05:16:27.460 but as a general principle wouldn't you agree that we need some form of law enforcement

05:16:32.180 for society to function yeah i just think it could be a lot better that's all oh sure yeah

05:16:39.540 yeah absolutely there's ways that all sorts of uh industries or you know government bodies or

05:16:46.020 whatever can be can be better i think it could be a lot better and also like

05:16:52.180 because i couldn't ask for help you know that's why i got those views like okay i have to be independent

05:16:58.980 can't really depend on other people but yeah it's not really is there anything else related to the

05:17:05.700 anarchy that no i don't think you'd bring the cops yeah the cops and you don't like government okay

05:17:11.620 look there's valid criticisms of government i mean absolutely but i think you do need some sort of

05:17:18.260 uh you need some sort of authoritative body to make sure that we have some checks and balances when it

05:17:26.180 comes to individuals or group like for example individuals so criminals or even groups of people can

05:17:33.620 form criminal organizations or you have legitimate corporations who do commit uh well at least what

05:17:40.340 are crimes like they can pollute they can do all sorts of terrible things and somebody needs to keep

05:17:47.860 these people in check or groups in check okay a couple other things you wrote here in your notes

05:17:56.180 you said you were once traditional but the man that you're currently with pushes you to be

05:18:00.100 egalitarian in terms of living together yeah do you pay all the bills no it's like 50 50 50. okay

05:18:07.780 well yeah so he you used to be traditional but then he made you 50 50. yeah he's like why okay w him

05:18:15.460 yeah yeah honestly just kidding well i mean i guess if it works out for you i guess but you used to be trad

05:18:22.020 yeah so you didn't but he kind of imposed his but what's more wait what's question for the panel

05:18:28.660 what's more feminist she used to be traditional and that's what she used to want but the man the evil 1.00

05:18:36.500 patriarchy imposed his will on her and now she has to pay 50 50 of everything or what's more feminist 1.00

05:18:45.540 is it more feminist that he's funny brian he imposed his will on her well can i say one thing he also

05:18:52.100 does a lot like he does the laundry like washes dishes helps me out he bows to oh

05:18:59.300 i don't even know what my laundry room looks like anymore at this point because he has so many 0.88

05:19:03.460 bitches doing laundry room so i'm kidding just kidding um okay uh your other notes you said you 1.00

05:19:10.180 had three stalkers and one broke through your window at night i'm so sorry girl yep nice 0.98

05:19:17.140 gotta love those stalkers the dating apps they're all from the dating apps

05:19:23.060 that's why i don't have dating apps it's very dangerous uh and did you date these guys yeah you

05:19:29.700 said most of them were addicted to cocaine in the whole relationship and you never knew yeah

05:19:35.380 does that apply to your current no no well i mean well i would never know

05:19:39.780 i hope not i hope not i didn't know before i don't know

05:19:47.380 okay uh you said that two times you got your phone stolen by different people and one broke the phone

05:19:54.100 yeah like guys you were seeing those were the stalkers yeah oh okay you were in a polygamous 0.81

05:19:58.340 relationship with what you later discovered was a pimp for two weeks oh my god what girl your life

05:20:05.460 is crazy yeah crazy are you okay i don't no i'm not i'm not i'm all right

05:20:16.420 uh what was the story there he was he did he try to pimp you well yeah we went to like this big

05:20:22.500 mansion party and he's in a billionaire's house and he's like oh my look at my girl like she's

05:20:29.940 getting all this money like nudging me and i'm like oh that's what you want me to do and so i left yeah

05:20:39.380 okay um you also wrote that you went over to this witchy girl's house

05:20:43.540 and she showed you a vial of her period blood oh my god i love these facts about you

05:20:49.780 you didn't see it as a red flag i didn't see it so wait you're by i was now i'm straight now i'm

05:21:00.900 straight okay yeah that's kind of i guess kind of weird i guess i'm fluid i guess you said two

05:21:08.100 different people vandalized your car because you told them to leave you alone yeah oh my god

05:21:13.220 good times uh you said you're you're moving to vegas soon boyfriend and i live there we

05:21:20.820 you live in vegas oh cool okay wait hold on moving to vegas soon your boyfriend in new york

05:21:27.140 knew about it for three years you're moving in a few months and his response was to put a shotgun in

05:21:33.860 his what a hug mouth yeah i'm like oh my god these aren't even these aren't even the bad things

05:21:40.820 it gets worse yeah i don't know but i like block it out so i can't even remember honestly

05:21:48.500 i'll say i understand now yeah oh he took a photo and he sent you a selfie yeah and so i called the

05:21:54.180 cops because i thought he did something and then the SWAT team came and then he got sent to a psych

05:21:59.540 ward and he's this is the current boyfriend no that's my ex oh thank god thank god i was gonna

05:22:06.500 ask that yikes okay you also wrote that modern dating will give you permanent irreversible

05:22:13.540 psychological damage that's true i see it yes uh okay uh you also wrote that you don't believe in

05:22:22.820 marriage um okay i agree with you on there on that i guess and i was starting to be a marriage

05:22:29.780 and family therapist that's why i don't believe it anymore because i learned too much oh uh you do

05:22:37.060 you used to do of did you do any other kind of sex work like stripping escorting sugar daddy um

05:22:45.220 yeah like camming a little bit no escorting though no um you did do show of hands who here's 0.98

05:22:52.420 who's had the sugar daddy i'm not gonna lie luna no sugar daddy no no sugar daddy not ellie not

05:22:59.380 didn't give him sugar but you there's there's sugar daddies that you don't need to give him sugar rock

05:23:03.700 and roll just give me money uh and then yeah we went over the pet girl thing kind of you love head

05:23:09.860 pats apparently i don't know i just want to be coddled coddled i understand you i kind of get

05:23:17.940 nurtured i guess i'm missing that um you wrote here that on your socials you lied about your age

05:23:27.540 yeah i used to because it helped with the of stuff or whatever yeah did you go older or younger

05:23:35.060 i would do younger okay yeah like how old would you say uh 21 was yeah no yeah okay

05:23:44.660 and then you never aged just 21 every year well yeah i just stopped posting i was like i can't do

05:23:49.300 this anymore like that's what they all do you said you don't plan on meeting your submissives 0.57

05:23:54.900 so it doesn't matter i don't know what that i don't you don't plan on meeting your submissives 1.00

05:24:00.260 well what was the question i don't i don't know i don't you wrote like here's here's the full chain

05:24:06.340 uh i don't feel you don't feel bad as so many only fans pictures are so photoshopped and such a lie

05:24:12.500 uh related to you lying about your age you said if men can be women and identify as burritos

05:24:19.060 that's me uh just kidding i too will partake in this madness haha i don't plan on meeting my

05:24:26.580 submissive so it doesn't matter i'm not sure oh like i could lie on the internet it's not like i'm

05:24:31.220 meeting them like i'm not selling them i see what you're saying okay i'm just i'm just pixels online

05:24:36.660 so she's just pixels online okay uh let's see here a couple questions for you on the quick on the

05:24:44.980 questionnaire how tall are you minimum height of a man you would date um i'm five ten and three

05:24:50.660 quarters and i would date minimum like six foot but i've dated shorter but i didn't really like it

05:24:56.820 okay gotcha uh let's see if there's anything else um oh uh really quick question for the whole panel

05:25:06.740 and i'll relate it back to you uh do you think a woman's past should not matter 0.99

05:25:15.140 going around the table starting with you i think it should matter um within a reason

05:25:20.740 um especially if not especially but if you have done sex work before i think that your partner should

05:25:29.060 have a right to know maybe because they have like certain issues with i don't know security and their

05:25:35.540 partner or whatever then they'd want to i don't know have somebody that's more modest i guess

05:25:43.220 sure what about you i think it matters but you can't judge someone if you've done the same thing

05:25:48.100 so if you've 100 people you can't judge your girlfriend for 100 people that's how i feel

05:25:53.620 okay i don't really understand the question uh like body count one example would be but i mean it

05:25:59.380 could relate to other things too like if she was involved in sex work or whatever oh well it's the past

05:26:04.260 it shouldn't matter um but as it relates i guess mostly the body count should a woman's 0.98

05:26:10.740 past matter not really okay what do you think i think it depends like for me personally i care like

05:26:17.460 about like a man's past that matters to me so mine would matter too okay sure what about you what do you

05:26:24.660 think luna i think it matters just because everything you've done in your past kind of

05:26:30.820 relays back in like lessons and how you act like your past kind of pushes you to either change or

05:26:37.140 whether stay the same so okay what about you uh yeah i think full transparency so i can make a

05:26:44.500 a full transparency okay what about you i totally agree all right well uh going around the table what

05:26:50.580 uh is your body count starting with felicity two zero

05:26:58.740 yeah i don't think yeah i don't really feel comfortable saying that

05:27:02.100 ballpark hey what don't i thought you were trying to escape 0.98

05:27:06.020 now i just got my fucking fat ass on this small chair is like uh do you want to do a range ballpark 0.99

05:27:11.060 it uh ballpark 22 30 okay uh one nine one yeah okay what about you nine nine okay that's for my 0.99

05:27:23.780 boyfriend's no ballpark you want to do a ballpark you want to do a range me yeah uh yeah like nine

05:27:31.380 like nine did you lose track yeah it's more than nine yeah hey uh you gotta tell come on you gotta be

05:27:40.180 on give us a uh give us a ballpark all right into the mic

05:27:47.780 well okay let me be real like be real like after surgery like i've had surgeries on my body you're

05:27:54.900 trans no no oh my god i thought really i don't know the way you framed that i thought you were

05:28:01.940 trying to say you were transition no no no no no but like okay like i didn't have sex for a while i

05:28:08.820 was like a like a born again virgin like celibate so like i started my body count again after that

05:28:15.620 because yeah wait so but you want the whole body count yeah what was it yeah like like less than 25

05:28:27.940 less than 25 okay when you you said there was a born again virgin phase yeah what age were you when

05:28:37.140 you became a born again virgin 25 okay and you're now 29 so wait did you tell your now boyfriend that 0.51

05:28:44.500 you were a virgin no like i have not had sex for a long time like okay i had surgery like no one's 0.99

05:28:54.180 touched me like i feel like a brand new person what what surgeries have you had done i have my boobs 0.95

05:28:59.060 and unfortunately labiaplasty yeah it makes me cry every day why because they amputated it all

05:29:06.340 it's like gone r.i.p it's sad it wasn't like that yeah hashtag hashtag big labia matter yeah 0.85

05:29:16.660 fucking what about big areola do they matter um uh i they're fine i people are born how they're born 0.96

05:29:27.220 and you should just be happy you should just enjoy your partner for how they look and 0.99

05:29:32.020 i'll be ceo of that one congrats on that i guess i mean look i'll be ceo but yeah oh my god you got

05:29:42.500 the labiaplasty yeah you and you regret it uh every day i cry every day why because they like i just

05:29:50.260 like has it changed the sensation yes but i just wanted like a little bit gone because like one of

05:29:55.380 the labia was really small and the other one was like longer and like it bothered me so i wanted

05:30:00.420 more symmetrical but he just hacked it all down and he yeah both sides to the nups there's like

05:30:06.900 nothing and now now it's just a slit a slit yeah it's really it looks like no i'm not gonna say

05:30:12.900 it looks like hulk hogan homer simpson homer simpson

05:30:16.100 it's still enjoyable for you it's okay but it's not as good the sensation's gone and also like 0.96

05:30:23.780 the labia lubricates your vag so i have to use like a loop i'm hey this is what i'm doing this is 0.80

05:30:30.180 see i'm i'm against the labiaplasty me too you should be a spokesperson okay yeah spokesperson for the 0.96

05:30:39.460 i've we've had a couple girls come on say they got the labiaplasty man it's sad man it's sad

05:30:44.580 uh a cat dies for every woman don't say that yep it's true he said it's true it's true that is

05:30:55.540 a fact wow um and can i ask what was the motivation like did you have an ex that gave you flack have

05:31:05.140 you heard have you heard insensitive jokes made by dudes like what what was it my ex just was like i

05:31:14.020 like innies and i was like really like self-conscious after that that's um yeah it's usually what guys

05:31:21.860 say that that's why i got surgeries here and there um but also like i i do want to be perfect i mean 0.98

05:31:30.900 everyone does so yeah damn anybody here ever felt self-conscious about their penis size 0.99

05:31:40.020 very i'm so self-conscious mine's so small my penis size is it what wait hold on can you repeat 1.00

05:31:49.620 that question you heard it right babe you heard it right yeah oh all these luna i know you're kind 0.99

05:31:56.260 of like the odd one out all these women are trans you didn't know that no oh we thought that's the 1.00

05:32:02.900 point of the pocket nick i told you to get a trans girl dude what the fuck are you kidding me nick 0.98

05:32:09.620 i'm just joking these are all as far as i know maybe somebody's bamboozling me these are genuine 0.98

05:32:16.820 homegrown i have a peener women okay has anybody ever here been shamed though for the for you know how

05:32:25.380 you are no no ever anybody experienced that no there's a cute kitty cat it might be fab but it's

05:32:32.340 cute yeah there's a lot of shaming language though they roasty that's only well beef

05:32:38.740 curtains wizard sleeve wizard sleeve arby's meat curtains roast beef very offensive i it pisses me off

05:32:51.300 i'm offended it pisses me off people should not be talking this way

05:32:57.460 look i don't think we should shame men or women for their genitalia or anything about their body

05:33:02.580 really yep i agree

05:33:07.940 except

05:33:11.540 well i was gonna say we should shame people to not get plastic surgery yeah and so this would mean if

05:33:20.340 nobody got plastic surgery you can never shame them for it i think we should be appreciative of how

05:33:26.180 people are uh naturally without the interventions of plastic surgery who here has plastic surgery

05:33:36.260 do you you have plastic surgery you have plastic surgery early girl girl her tatas 0.94

05:33:44.180 so that is a very personal question how's that that's not personal yeah it is just why is it

05:33:52.660 personal why is that personal it's silicone silicone silicone my dear my dear you don't have plastic surgery 1.00

05:34:04.980 you're a liar 0.98

05:34:06.100 what does she have plastic surgery on 1.00

05:34:14.420 really oh okay what do you mean really really yeah really do you brian really really she can just

05:34:22.340 have natural jinga jingas jingas jingas jingas jingas jingas jingas jingas jingas

05:34:27.940 i don't know what's called pg so you don't have plastic surgery i'm saying that's just a question i'm not

05:34:34.500 willing to answer that's all and you can move on from it you could just said my piece 0.98

05:34:43.300 why why would you be uncomfortable admitting you have fake titties i don't understand that 0.98

05:34:48.580 i just they're jinger jingers jingas jingas not titties 0.98

05:34:53.620 yeah of course yes all right all right whatever i'm not gonna press it but it's just kind of

05:34:57.540 whatever uh wait felicity i need to stay for a bit because i need to get up here in a moment um

05:35:02.260 okay so anything else you wanted anything else no thank you so much for having me

05:35:09.060 or do you want to just sit there for the rest of the show my heart hurts so bad well how about this

05:35:13.300 do you want to wait how long uh we are going to try to wrap this one up on the earlier side tonight

05:35:18.900 we have tylenol oh yeah and we have ibuprofen yeah i forgot and do you want to sit on the couch for a

05:35:24.100 couple minutes just to okay okay let's do that oh what a gent oh so nice hey i have i get headaches

05:35:31.540 too because i got uh like neck injury that that bothers me all right let me read some chats and

05:35:37.060 then i need to get up for a sec then felicity you're gonna take over for a moment while i get up okay

05:35:42.900 these are uh ellie can you read this for me okay get control of your discord we all left high schoolers

05:35:50.580 are a new low for you also there is no wage gap it is all made up by feminists 1.00

05:35:57.380 andrew wilson is a grifter all right i don't know who this is i'll look into who this is

05:36:02.420 bro this is one of the reasons i didn't want to do a discord is because uh it kind of devolves into 0.98

05:36:09.860 drama uh typically not drama that you've caused just people start fucking bickering and fighting and 0.96

05:36:17.620 they can't work this out on their own um i'm not look i've received some messages that there's some 0.60

05:36:25.140 disputes or whatever going on i think it's really inconsiderate to send this message and there was 0.96

05:36:32.420 some drama that went down last sunday can you guys address this shit not while i'm doing my live stream 0.79

05:36:41.540 like it's just bring this to me on a tuesday a wednesday not while i'm trying to do my stream

05:36:49.620 uh i don't know what kind of weird coalition is on the discord that like okay we're going to

05:36:55.380 collectively i don't know the details of what's going on guys i'm busy dealing with other stuff

05:37:01.620 the like interpersonal drama that you guys are engaging in on the discord

05:37:05.700 somebody needs to give me time to process all that because there's multiple parties

05:37:12.420 um it's something i'm looking into but the drama that's on the discord is and the specific drama 0.91

05:37:21.780 has been very low priority i have other shit i'm working on other shit i'm dealing with 0.93

05:37:27.780 uh if you guys want to leave okay i mean

05:37:31.300 it seems like there's a bit of coalition building which is kind of seems a little like

05:37:38.180 i don't know whatever why don't you guys more clearly address the issues don't do it while i'm

05:37:45.220 streaming that's i don't know that's kind of weird i guess but okay see you guys uh master monkey man

05:37:51.620 can you read this one a kleptoparasite is an animal that deliberately steals resources and food from

05:37:56.980 another they retain hosts by seeking them emotionally or economically dependent

05:38:02.420 examples include seagulls and human women oh there we go monkey man 34. master monkey man

05:38:14.180 these are they spent a hundred dollars to answer those two questions you spent a hundred dollars just

05:38:18.500 oh wait did we oh body count though we didn't finish body count body count um it's not anyone's

05:38:24.500 business but my partner's but i am sexually active and i like to have sex ballpark yet 0.99

05:38:30.020 i don't who gives a fuck if you want i think everyone deserves to 0.99

05:38:34.740 to fuck and love and have connections and it be a slot how many guys are you currently not having sex 1.00

05:38:40.500 with i'm only having sex with women right now women okay got it ellie what about you body count 1.00

05:38:45.780 zero word okay uh read this one for us ellie ryan here's a hundred dollars to help you find your 0.99

05:38:55.700 dream elephant ear labia l chair number three uh withered withered thank you for that man i do

05:39:02.580 appreciate it thank you appreciate it um okay uh christopher scott thank you for the super chat

05:39:10.500 man if you can read this one too so you get to tell us how to be masculine men but when we say

05:39:16.340 what feminine women are you'll lose your mind give me a effing break 1.00

05:39:24.100 what do you think about that i feel like that's kind of directed at you a little bit just a tad

05:39:29.540 uh um when is it i mean be more specific about you know what what are we what are we saying about

05:39:40.820 feminine donation to specify yes like a champagne pop more clarifying details please all right

05:39:48.660 christopher if you want to send in a clarifying message it would be appreciated thank you brother

05:39:54.980 thank you thank you uh guys really quick if you're enjoying the stream read 100 tts 200 venmo cash

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05:40:25.380 and then discord.gg slash whatever and then like the video please thank you guys appreciate it

05:40:33.860 um yeah man it's look really quick just final thought on the discord thing i know most viewers

05:40:39.060 have no idea what this is this is like involving maybe a dozen people um i think it's fair if you guys

05:40:46.420 have like if there's certain issues in the discord like maybe there's uh you have criticisms of

05:40:53.060 maybe how things are being moderated that's perfectly fair those things can be addressed

05:40:58.100 but those things are going to take time i'm not going to make an instantaneous decision especially

05:41:02.180 when most of this was just brought to my attention like a week ago i'm not going to address it instantly

05:41:07.620 i'm going to get people's perspective i'm not really getting clear-cut feedback from people on it

05:41:13.140 and also i do think it's fair for me to point out it's kind of it's very unfair to be started like

05:41:20.100 creating this kind of drama while i'm live on the show obviously i cannot like address the specific

05:41:29.380 like issue while i'm doing the live stream have some consideration as supporters that i'm not going to

05:41:38.340 be able to like read your dms and investigate on a show day like that's not going to happen guys

05:41:46.340 so bring it to me on a tuesday bring it to me on a tuesday and i'll look into it i've been attentive

05:41:53.780 with it in the past before but it's not going to happen on a sunday when i'm in the middle of a show 0.58

05:42:00.900 just saying so and honestly i think you guys could talk this shit out amongst yourselves i'm telling 0.96

05:42:07.380 you it's like some high school fucking drama or give me something actionable that you want me to do 0.99

05:42:14.980 tell me what you want me to do and i'll see if it's reasonable and i'll do it but if you're not coming 0.99

05:42:20.580 to me like if you're telling me some shit about some shits going on in another discord and you want 0.97

05:42:25.540 me to be an intermediary between two people who are bickering on another discord what am i supposed 0.99

05:42:32.340 to do so either figure it out between yourselves talk to each other or come to me with what you

05:42:41.220 think actionably i can do anyways back to the show um like the video if you're enjoying the stream

05:42:48.580 thank you and oh join the discord of course well guys we've recently had an exodus of people from

05:42:56.500 the discord we're clearly going to need to replace our numbers because they're i think uh you know 0.95

05:43:02.180 a couple people left the discord so you should join it pull it up pull that shit up 0.92

05:43:09.380 pull it up the discord join the discord let's see it pull it up hello 0.62

05:43:18.580 uh and then why don't you go to here scroll up scroll up no no no uh on the sidebar yeah

05:43:29.380 uh let's do behind the scenes guys there we post a bunch of behind the scenes

05:43:35.220 and uh oh yeah that's funny so kylie brewer said she was trapped felt trapped but she left 0.99

05:43:43.780 multiple anyways whatever she was on for a debate she's a fucking weirdo 1.00

05:43:46.900 uh anyways we're going to get back into the pre-show notes i need to get up momentarily 0.99

05:43:54.100 uh i'm trying to think if there's anything else that i need to touch on really quick

05:43:58.660 really for the perfect guy you wouldn't bow that's crazy

05:44:03.780 i think you just need to accept her

05:44:05.620 um that's crazy that's to you yeah everyone's over it

05:44:13.860 and that's okay that you think it's crazy but not crazy to her yeah and i love that for her yeah

05:44:20.340 but here i guess here's the perspective it's it's like i want the guy to pay for a first date

05:44:25.540 that costs x man has to work x amount of hours to pay for that first date

05:44:32.420 but i won't do something like completely benign and arbitrary that takes like no effort doesn't

05:44:38.020 cost any money takes three seconds just like but that might cost her something inside we don't know 0.99

05:44:43.300 inside you think men want to do work some do yes well bro men do it as a means to an end like if we

05:44:54.260 lived in like some utopian society where there was

05:45:02.420 do a different topic it's so okay you're stressing yourself out yeah

05:45:05.700 how about this um has anybody here ever moved shifty when it comes to dating like you've done 0.99

05:45:14.820 some grimy shit like you've done some grimy shit nobody luna you've done some grimy 0.99

05:45:22.180 seems like it oh it seemed like you were about to say never mind i got that totally wrong 0.99

05:45:28.900 question for the panel what years were world war one oh world war one yeah smile faded real fast oh my

05:45:36.260 gosh man i only remember up to world war ii with uh what was that 1935 right and well that was going

05:45:44.740 to be my next question what years were world war ii what nobody will go one by one 1935 to

05:45:52.180 1940 right okay what about you yeah like 19 sorry not years just years doesn't have to be 0.93

05:46:00.260 fucking march like 1920 something to 40 i don't know for world war one i don't fucking know i don't 0.97

05:46:07.540 care and then dates for world war ii i literally don't know and i don't care oh guess guess i don't 0.98

05:46:14.580 know i just guess throw it out there fucking i just 2000 when was it no just guess that 0.98

05:46:22.580 just guess fucking 1930 and 1940 and then 1940 and 1950 love it what about you uh history is never 0.96

05:46:29.220 my strong suit but i'll say 1909 to like 1915 for world one 1909 to 1915 something like that 0.90

05:46:37.460 world war ii world war ii 19 29 to like 1936 cool what about you oh i honestly have no idea and

05:46:46.740 it's kind of so embarrassing my mom's a history teacher it's embarrassing you do not know a random

05:46:51.700 fact no i feel like it's one of those things that everyone should kind of like know just guess

05:46:56.660 because everyone learns um oh god world war one 1908 to like 1915 okay and then world war ii

05:47:11.940 is or what i think would be like 19 27 to like 1932

05:47:20.660 okay what about you i legit don't know if i were to guess world war one would be

05:47:29.140 around the 30s and maybe world war two around the early 50s

05:47:36.260 uh what about you um world war one like 1935 36 and then world war ii 19 like 42.

05:47:45.300 to when to when oh when to when 1942 to 1951 okay well felicity

05:47:58.340 just guess guess guess like 1910s world i know world war ii was definitely before 1942

05:48:04.740 my grandpa talks about that all the time i don't know like all right i'll tell i'll give you guys

05:48:09.620 the dates world war one 1914 1918 world war ii 1939 1945 i said i said 30 to 40 and i said that

05:48:20.580 way off wait let me just double check that oh yeah okay i was right okay boom

05:48:28.020 all right and i can name all the presidents and who gives a 0.98

05:48:30.260 fuck that i know that like why do you who cares you can name all the presidents every single one 0.97

05:48:34.820 yeah i'm really impressed how about this name ready are you ready no i'm not okay name three 0.99

05:48:44.500 countries go three countries brazil uh korea and um uruguay was that one of them cuba zimbabwe

05:48:56.340 and um madagascar three countries spain italy greece three countries morocco japan

05:49:04.820 belize belize three countries um australia argentina u.s

05:49:15.300 next panama uruguay did you say uruguay yeah oh paraguay and no no repeats brazil sorry

05:49:23.220 canada no repeats uh usa i thought you did poland ukraine okay uh name three continents

05:49:31.780 i don't like this because i don't think it's a it's like name three what i got felicity's gonna

05:49:40.980 take over yeah i don't know what this segment like i don't like the idea of like trying to make

05:49:45.460 something europe asia i'm not i'm not gonna keep going because guys i don't i don't care about that

05:49:52.420 yeah no washington adams jefferson mass okay i have a question what would you want the yearly the

05:50:00.580 minimum yearly income to be for your future husband oh 100 grand annual yeah yeah what would you want

05:50:08.580 ellie uh like 80k okay like 100 grand i said minimum for husband minimum yeah uh probably like 1.00

05:50:16.900 like say 70 80 i would say like 80 to 100 what about you yeah like a 150 minimum where do you live

05:50:26.980 california yeah it's expensive there wait what part yeah it is santa vibra okay okay that's fine then

05:50:33.380 like 70k okay um pretty normal answers how tall are you and what's the minimum height of a man you would

05:50:42.260 date i think i'm 5 7 i don't know i could get fact checked with the measuring tape but i think i mean

05:50:54.100 i don't know if this is hypergamous but if peter dinklage went up to me and wanted to be my husband

05:51:03.060 then i'd be like of course but like baseline i think probably like my same height or maybe an inch

05:51:09.540 shorter who's peter dinklage he's a little person he plays in uh game of thrones he's very short

05:51:16.020 oh he's in the back person little person little person isn't he on um game of thrones he's like

05:51:21.620 tyrian i love that interesting what about you um i'm 5 11 and 5 11 or above just 5 11 i am 5 11

05:51:31.860 okay i'm like 5 11 yep 5 11 thank god if i was short and fat oh no so at least a long

05:51:39.140 and what is this i have to say i love the popsicle thing i love that who wants popsicle i do wait are

05:51:46.820 they flavored what flavor rainbow rainbow flavor that is rainbow sure yeah i want a gay popsicle 0.74

05:51:54.020 please okay what about you uh i'm like 5 4 uh i don't really have a height requirement but maybe like

05:52:00.820 5 7 or 8 would be nice would you date someone shorter than you i would think about it it's not

05:52:06.500 like something that would like immediately turn me off if they have like every other good quality

05:52:09.700 then sure like how much shorter same thing peter dinklage came up to me really yes i love him

05:52:18.020 i love him he's so good and he can sing and he can sing you guys just see brian's face right now

05:52:23.460 peter dinklage he can sing and i would go for him they want to date tiny people

05:52:27.860 okay but like just just him though just just him no other tiny people i i don't know i haven't met

05:52:37.780 any other tiny people but like if they're like super cool then shoot okay so if you did meet a cool

05:52:42.820 tiny person you would maybe and if they can like treat me right then sure okay um i'm 5 9 but i think

05:52:51.460 the shortest i'd go is probably like 5 7 5 8 okay but you're 5 9 yeah

05:52:59.780 these are good uh yeah okay so you would date someone shorter than you yeah okay what about you

05:53:06.420 um 5 4 and i'd probably go 5 8 okay i'm 5 10 um and i only say this because my dad is 6 7 so i'm like

05:53:17.300 i want a guy like 6 2 and above because if i brought a short guy home my dad would be like

05:53:24.500 they'd be like intimidated by your dad yeah so i need somebody pretty tall tall sons

05:53:31.540 okay um would you rather cross paths with a random man or a random bear on a hike random random 0.99

05:53:41.140 random man okay what about you the fucking random man okay random man random man random man random 0.99

05:53:48.980 man random man oh my god thank god i but you said last time right i didn't say bear absolutely not 0.99

05:53:55.780 no because i think that's ridiculous because polar bears black bear like they're thank you babe

05:54:00.900 they're missing it to somebody is this man or who's who's one there's like three of us that need

05:54:04.980 one um okay thank you because if we're talking about a random man like the that's like they're

05:54:12.580 we're talking about them being like essaying you or killing you but a bear random no i know that's

05:54:18.260 what i'm saying i'm saying the what the woman would be scared of of the man is doing those two things

05:54:21.860 and i feel like not all men are doing that there is a percentage but all bears are going to kill you

05:54:27.860 so if you're a woman and choose the bit and choose the man and so i mean the bear that's crazy okay you

05:54:34.100 guys all said man that was easy do you guys think men are more superficial than women

05:54:43.780 um like when it comes to dating in specifics um i'm sorry okay the water um oh thank you

05:54:52.100 i don't know i feel like both can be very very superficial i don't know well you circled oh that

05:55:01.540 you do think they are oh okay well yeah i guess they can be more superficial when it comes to like

05:55:08.660 one night stands and stuff like they definitely you mean like based on looks based on looks i feel like

05:55:15.860 women usually take into account more aspects about personality than men do yeah popsicles i don't 1.00

05:55:24.260 know this is i guess i've ever i know i guess only three people get them oh god oh oh oh me

05:55:31.700 three more do you want one no thank you they're talking about how good they are i know i'm like i'm

05:55:36.180 telling you i'm sorry i'm like eating it in front of your face are they different flavors each thing or

05:55:42.820 is it um yeah oh like i don't know if i think men or women are more superficial wait what was the

05:55:50.660 question that was the question it says our men are more superficial than women and you circled that

05:55:56.340 they are maybe i was just projecting what do you think what do you think oh sorry um name again oh my

05:56:07.860 god my name my jerry my name my name is audrey i do plus size modeling and and social media stuff

05:56:16.580 and i went i had a viral video i mean a spam account and i put cherry as it was cherry moonshine

05:56:22.340 i went viral on that and it kind of stuck and now all my fans call me that so it's like i kind of have

05:56:26.180 to go but it's very stripperish and very porn story but who cares i love it um so my name is audrey

05:56:32.580 but what was the question men are more superficial than women do you agree um i think so a little

05:56:38.740 bit i think well oh this is so chaotic um i think popsicles was a bad decision thank you wait what 0.99

05:56:48.500 the fuck these are so good i told you you guys i'm sorry i apologize it's okay um i think women 0.99

05:56:55.140 sometimes are then more than men for sure i feel like like superficial by themselves or in like general 0.99

05:57:00.420 like like i guess towards the man um no i don't i think i think men are superficial towards women

05:57:08.340 too like i think both can are capable i don't think more than other like a man won't come it to a woman

05:57:16.100 that he doesn't find attractive enough yeah but is it the same for women i really don't think i don't

05:57:22.260 i think women like i feel like i've seen i don't know in public like that's another thing when he's

05:57:26.900 saying like when i see married couples like gorgeous women with like ugly men like don't 0.95

05:57:31.380 you see that way more often i feel like i don't know that's why i feel like i see that way more

05:57:35.780 often i don't know oh my god

05:57:41.860 someone said would you rather run into a bear or chair too because she would eat you yes i would and 0.92

05:57:46.340 i'll sit on you too well what would you be scared you tell him i'll crush you and eat you hey don't 1.00

05:57:54.260 fucking slurp 1.00

05:57:58.020 don't if you're gonna do that don't slurp on the fucking oh my god i was doing it 1.00

05:58:03.620 god damn that's fucking gross oh my gosh i was doing it oh my gosh brian 1.00

05:58:07.860 you hear that shit loud and clear yes they're really mad right now probably they are mad 1.00

05:58:12.420 okay so what were you saying um i don't actually know i i got yelled at so i don't remember 0.99

05:58:26.900 i don't know either honestly i really don't know what i think about this question i don't know

05:58:30.740 what do you think um i feel like men are more superficial but like um i i i feel like women

05:58:40.340 don't really get the opportunity to be superficial because guys don't really like

05:58:44.260 take care of themselves as much that make sense like i don't agree with that okay well i have seen

05:58:52.900 some pretty musty guys but i've seen some musty women i feel like it's pretty equal but girls we 0.66

05:59:01.220 like to dress up and stuff guys they don't really most of them that's what i'm trying to say yeah like

05:59:05.300 yeah but like you're saying we don't have the option to be superficial no i think we do have

05:59:12.580 the option i just feel like not as much as guys like everyone here is so beautiful like women are

05:59:20.020 just i don't know so they're magical yeah i don't i really know how to explain what i'm thinking right

05:59:26.660 now do you like medium ugly guys i heard someone say that earlier um kind of yeah i guess okay

05:59:36.260 so then you're not you wouldn't call yourself superficial yeah yeah okay what about you 0.90

05:59:45.620 with my experience i feel like a lot of men tend to be more superficial like i have seen a lot more 0.91

05:59:51.300 women date ugly dudes than dudes date uglier women like objectively compared to them 1.00

05:59:57.460 i think women we have the ability to dress ourselves up like you saw the gender swap things 1.00

06:00:06.820 you liked your picture true so i mean maybe if they had some makeup and like

06:00:12.900 or like if men get a decent haircut yeah half the time they like glow up a haircut haircut is like

06:00:18.500 their makeup wavelength of makeup and sometimes facial hair i don't really like facial hair i don't

06:00:24.180 even like facial it's too it's too much too much it's scratchy and you're kissing them and stuff

06:00:29.220 it's like i like a mustache you like a mustache okay i like a little mustache a little one but like a

06:00:35.220 a curly q one is crazy i didn't like i didn't like it before what changed your mind my ex-boyfriend

06:00:44.100 get a little mustache i liked it what was my question oh men are more superficial than women 0.50

06:00:49.700 what do you think um i think it definitely depends i think women are given more of an opportunity to 1.00

06:00:55.860 be more superficial with like access to makeup and like we get to do our nails and dress up and

06:01:03.780 you know kind of be able to show off ourselves in the best way men are actually able to too but i think

06:01:14.180 if you were to like offer a man makeup or something or like i don't know why some men think 0.99

06:01:18.900 that skincare is like gay they think clean your ass is gay yeah no my brother had the worst acne 0.99

06:01:27.380 and me and my mom were like oh here's like a bunch of skincare stuff and he's like no that's gay 0.99

06:01:32.500 well a lot of men the ones that i've met they don't even wash their face and their skin is like

06:01:38.180 that's my brother my brother doesn't even wash his face with water and it's like clear it's never get 0.89

06:01:45.060 that shit wet no okay it's dry he avoids the water actually like i was like do you even like when 0.96

06:01:51.540 you wake up like splash him what he's like no it's like poreless flawless like the best skin i've ever 0.99

06:01:56.900 seen in my life oh i'm very jealous let's be nice i think it's our makeup that breaks us out it's our

06:02:02.580 makeup and all the other products that we have yeah what do you think you think men are more superficial

06:02:07.780 than women i think that women are more superficial i honestly like we we harshly judge men on like the 0.99

06:02:17.620 dumbest shit ever and sometimes we can just be a little like a little rough um because i think we know 0.99

06:02:26.980 what we what it feels like for us to be very beautiful and sensual and we do the practices that 1.00

06:02:36.180 that they don't so i don't know i think we could be a bit harsh on them when it comes to that in

06:02:42.660 what ways like looks like i mean have you ever not gone out with a guy because like maybe he had like

06:02:50.500 i don't know weird like something weird on his skin or something or like bad skin or like um

06:02:57.380 i don't know like hair like maybe he had a bit of hair on his back or and it was and you're just like

06:03:02.340 no like that's a hard no no pass i think i don't know we're so we're so quick to judge

06:03:08.660 for like those little things i i told i said earlier i like weird guys so no

06:03:18.260 what about you um sometimes i feel like it's 50 50 but i'm leaning more towards women being superficial

06:03:25.620 i wouldn't say that i'm more superficial but i guess women collectively but i don't know because

06:03:34.500 a man like won't look at you if he doesn't find you attractive i'm saying all day and i'll go all

06:03:40.580 day oh what what does yours say it says remember to say please and thank you with a little man oh

06:03:54.020 there's messages oh mine just says positivity that one's cute mine just says spread a sunny outlook on

06:04:00.100 life i love they're usually jokes oh there is a man on it wait what the hell there's a little

06:04:06.580 man on the bottom oh he's wearing a bow tie and glasses oh my god it's so cute bye that's funny

06:04:15.780 all right um let's see we have a chat coming in here from uh okay

06:04:25.940 this is for you ellie if you want to read it ellie you're too young for a show like this

06:04:29.620 i should be on i am seething with jealousy i tried crashing the stream via phone call but you

06:04:34.820 didn't pick up also landlack says you're a fake cell chud do you know that rings some bells from fish

06:04:42.580 tank okay what's a fake cell a fake cell is someone who is posing to be a uh incel which i never claimed to

06:04:52.820 be oh why are they calling are they calling you a fake cell yeah they're calling me a fake cell

06:04:59.540 even though i've already said that i'm not a cell of any kind hey guys here's what we're gonna do

06:05:05.140 uh we're gonna do 69 tts we're gonna lower the tts if you guys want to get a roast in or something

06:05:10.260 so 69 tts sorry didn't mean to cut you off there i don't know if you want to finish your thought on the

06:05:15.380 fake cell um yeah they made me like say this a million times but i'm not an incel because girls 1.00

06:05:22.020 can't be incels but i am true a vocelle because i'm you're a voluntarily yes celibate well yeah until 0.97

06:05:29.540 i get married but are you actually waiting until marriage yes okay but who knows i could get raped 0.92

06:05:37.060 i don't know oh my god it's kind of funny well not not funny oh no wait hold on how am i the bad 0.85

06:05:47.220 guy now it's just like because it's not a joke i don't know i oh my god she didn't even smile 0.87

06:05:55.220 yeah she meant it it was funny in the sense that that came out of fucking left field

06:06:00.340 not that she would be essayed that would obviously not be funny uh guys though tts 69 69 tts if you 0.81

06:06:11.220 want to get a little message in there it is 69 tts get it in boys get it in because we i think this is

06:06:17.780 gonna be an earlier show tonight gonna try to wrap it up wrap it up soon hey chill out felicity what the 0.91

06:06:24.260 fuck i want to go to in and out me too i literally was just thinking about that oh my goodness yeah 0.81

06:06:32.020 maybe if we will do lol i haven't had in and out in so long i've been thank you for sharing i've never 0.98

06:06:36.020 been in and out are you serious i'm from arkansas okay well now you're in california you guys all have

06:06:40.580 to go get in and out animal style wait have you i don't even know i was about to ask ellie if she's 1.00

06:06:45.540 ever had in and out but she lives in san diego so many answer she lives in like oklahoma or some 0.54

06:06:54.420 shit where where is uh fish tank based um is that in cali or where is it uh east coast oh is it like 0.63

06:07:02.500 super secret it's not super secret i'm not asking for like a city just is it what state is it in 0.92

06:07:07.460 long island rhode island oh rhode island okay i didn't know to the extent like how secretive they

06:07:14.980 want to keep it so okay that's cool uh guys 69 tts get it in get it in boys get it in uh i'm trying

06:07:25.140 to think if there's anything else um there's a couple more show notes we need to go over there's

06:07:28.500 the questionnaires no bear nobody picked nobody okay nobody picked bear did you do the income yep

06:07:35.940 uh we'll do that really quick felicity do you want to ask them the income question i already

06:07:46.100 asked that oh you did they gave they did the income yeah oh okay rock and roll all right we'll get in

06:07:51.940 we'll dive into some pre-show notes then like i said guys tts is set to 69 if you want to get one in so

06:07:58.980 blasting through these we did you feeling okay you feel a little better a little better all right

06:08:06.580 that's good uh jillian uh okay you said plenty of dating stories one that sticks out the most most

06:08:16.980 recent included your ex who you were on and off again with for about two years a couple weeks back

06:08:21.860 you're seeing a different guy and your ex tracked your location followed you to where you guys had gone

06:08:27.620 came out confronting us and then the dude you were with ended up fighting the ex or whatever

06:08:34.500 yeah busted his lip pretty good and your ex was mad and broke his windshield in retaliation

06:08:39.300 so filed a police report and got fired from his job yeah rock and roll elaborate on that story

06:08:47.300 it's pretty straightforward i'm not gonna lie but yeah um it was before i had met my current

06:08:52.260 boyfriend obviously and i was talking to this other dude and he was over at my house and we were kind

06:08:57.380 of just hanging out in my garage and my ex pulled up to my garage like drove past my house and like

06:09:02.900 came back and then got out of his car came into the garage while we were sitting there and just

06:09:08.260 threw down with this other dude and the other dude took jujitsu so he like

06:09:13.220 threw him around and then my ex like head butted him in the face and that's why he like busted his lip

06:09:18.100 and then they broke a piece of furniture and then yeah uh i guess he left and smashed the guy's

06:09:23.060 windshield whoa yeah good times i ended up i love that it was kind of sad oh you you paid for it well

06:09:30.260 yeah because i felt bad because i like i was like talking to this dude but we weren't like a thing

06:09:34.980 so i was like i feel bad that your windshield got smashed here let me pay for it wait so you're

06:09:40.420 you were off with your ex though when this happened yeah because you said it was on and off yeah we were

06:09:45.060 yeah we were off how long had it been off a couple months at that point but we were like

06:09:51.780 kind of talking again but we weren't like together at that point you were talking again but you were

06:09:57.300 seeing another guy not like seeing seeing like we said the guy were you wait so this is your current

06:10:06.100 boyfriend because you said you've been in a relationship or is this somebody else this is

06:10:09.620 somebody else this is before i met my current boyfriend oh i was like shortly talking to this

06:10:16.580 one dude for like a month and it like did not last and like i said we were just talking like okay so

06:10:22.020 you were on a date with the new guy i wouldn't call it a date like we were just we were hanging no we

06:10:28.500 were not we were hanging out okay that's all it was and you just got jealous yeah uh 0.65

06:10:34.420 uh uh okay and um yeah so you fucked up the dude's car you said i fucked up no the the x oh yes he 0.99

06:10:45.860 fucked up the guy who you're with yes and then he that's a bitch move dude you don't you don't 1.00

06:10:51.700 fuck somebody's car like yeah all right um we talked your other notes we already did going to you 1.00

06:10:59.300 you said you've never had a boyfriend oh no we we did this already yeah you want to talk about 0.99

06:11:04.740 purity and dating dating to marry financial aspects of dating anything there you wanted to touch on um

06:11:12.740 oops sorry what is like everybody like when you get married or if you don't want to get married

06:11:19.380 like have a long-term boyfriend um what is the financial aspect of like do you want him to pay for

06:11:26.740 all the bills or are you gonna go 50 50 that's what i was wondering because me personally i would

06:11:33.700 want him to pay for everything if i'm you know providing what i need you know yeah that makes sense

06:11:42.100 no i've been over talking so i need it going down the line sure yeah yes babe that's a good idea okay

06:11:50.660 okay personally i know this is not like the right fit for everybody but i think it's nice to be able

06:11:59.300 to be subservient to somebody and have them in return like i don't know for give you everything you

06:12:07.060 require in terms of like having a family and stuff and supporting you through motherhood if that's what

06:12:13.300 you so choose i was looking for my pen but yeah i think if i'm going to are you trolling no if i'm

06:12:23.140 going to be a genuine position if i'm going to be a homemaker then i think it's reasonable to think

06:12:29.300 that your husband should you know finance i agree i think if you're doing all this stuff for him he

06:12:40.340 should be helping you pay bills and stuff but in my world like i don't need someone who's a 1.00

06:12:45.140 millionaire because i'm going to be a millionaire myself so i can financially take care of myself

06:12:48.740 but as long as why can i can i not be a millionaire i believe you could be one

06:12:54.500 i what do you mean could be one oh whatever whatever you are one could be one i think you

06:12:59.780 could be a billionaire too oh a billionaire i believe in you brian why don't you believe in

06:13:05.780 me oh that has a ring to it brian the billionaire exactly bb b b b b b b b b b b b b b b b b b

06:13:14.260 um i mean realistically i i mean maybe it could happen but probably not you don't even know me like

06:13:22.340 that no i'm talking about myself oh okay yeah i don't that's why you can't manifest because you

06:13:26.660 don't believe it yes okay that's the most retarded thing i've ever thought oh my god 0.97

06:13:30.820 bro it's you okay you know what's interesting how many millions of people believe in this 0.99

06:13:37.380 manifestation bullshit how many billion how many billionaires are there if this manifestation 0.99

06:13:43.940 shit actually worked wouldn't you just manifest yourself into becoming a billionaire you're taking 1.00

06:13:49.540 it so deeply checkmate this shit doesn't work like you didn't manifest what you have right now like 1.00

06:13:55.300 your career you're like this is this is your dream right you must have talked i should be offended at 0.99

06:14:00.500 the suggestion that manifestation is the result of my success i didn't say that i said my hard work

06:14:07.060 yes and diligence but and hustle is my not not because i put out into the ether happy vibes and

06:14:15.620 good feelings hard work is the result and the precipitating factor of my success love that for you 1.00

06:14:24.260 yeah no good vibes fuck that shit it's not about good vibes it's like that's some hippie 1.00

06:14:29.620 fucking new age bullshit hear me out work hard work hard have a bit of luck right place right time 1.00

06:14:39.140 that's success that's what i'm saying like i i believe in it because i've everything i've spoken 1.00

06:14:43.380 into i have like i've like i'm really starting a life for myself now and i moved to vegas and all these

06:14:48.660 things are happening like i came from a very abusive home and lots of bad things and i feel

06:14:54.260 like i literally wrote down my dreams every day and spoke them into existence i didn't work honestly

06:14:58.980 like the things that i got i like got on accident i didn't like work hard for them unless it was the

06:15:03.940 things i had to work hard for but like the things that i wanted and like dreamed for like they came

06:15:08.100 true true and i don't i just say it's true because it's happened to me like so like the dreams that i

06:15:13.620 wanted i spoke into existence i wrote them down i put them in my notebook and then now i'm starting to get all

06:15:18.020 those things so i don't know if it's a co-dink-a-dink or if it's manifest station i agree with brian on

06:15:24.260 this one because like for me being an mma fighter i can't just write down oh i'm gonna knock a girl 0.92

06:15:29.780 out like i have to put in so much work to do that and then i'm a christian as well so manifestation to

06:15:37.300 me is kind of new age like you said um i think if you manifestation is like the new age prayer tactic

06:15:44.980 that's what i'm saying so isn't it manifestation like the same thing like speaking to a god or

06:15:48.500 speaking to a spirit or whatever like if it's speaking to the world you know it's like if you're

06:15:52.740 you believe in god isn't it the same thing like kind of manifesting to god in a way like someone

06:15:57.540 out there listening some some being or something like why is like believing in god not foo-foo i

06:16:04.660 don't think it is i'm saying like and then being a manifester is like i feel like all of it's foo-foo like

06:16:08.980 the fact that we're on a earth that is floating and we're all living like all of that it to me is

06:16:13.940 so unbelievable that anything can be real in my reality like god can be real manifest anything can

06:16:19.780 be real in my because we don't see that stuff and so just question for you uh parents who have a child

06:16:25.620 who has terminal cancer the only thing that they're doing wrong is they're not manifesting

06:16:29.940 enough you're taking it literal i'm not saying i'm talking about even these manifestation people

06:16:35.140 believe that you can cure illnesses i don't manifestation i don't think i think it's

06:16:39.700 more like okay so you pick and choose when you can manifest i'm saying you're taking it so little

06:16:44.660 and like being upset like why does it matter if a girl a delulu girl wants to be like i want to be

06:16:48.740 rich and i want to have this and like that's manifesting and then that's talking and if they

06:16:52.740 believe it then that it will come true that's what i'm saying like if they believe it so much that

06:16:56.500 they'll start like doing things that will bring them into that light maybe because truth should be

06:17:01.540 elevated above like but it's not hurting anyone who cares like if they're like if they're just

06:17:08.340 everyday writing down in their notebook like if i'm having a conversation on a conversational

06:17:14.580 podcast i'm gonna be like yeah i think that's kind of bullshit yeah that's but like i don't like 0.77

06:17:20.580 forum post and oh my god these manifestors these pieces i don't give i don't think about it

06:17:27.140 any more than i have to outside of it coming up on this podcast okay but i can tell you just 0.98

06:17:33.620 from my perspective yeah that's it's bullshit it's bullshit and that's okay that you feel that way it's 0.98

06:17:38.900 not that i feel that way i know that no that's okay that you know that that's very close-minded 0.99

06:17:44.340 why is it how's it close-minded you're not even opening up to the possibilities that something could

06:17:48.820 exist without you having already to have it physically manifest sorry go ahead go ahead

06:17:56.420 you're not you're not even allowing yourself to open up your mind about things appearing from

06:18:04.500 nothing so you think if it's if i can't see it i can't believe it um there's just there's there's no

06:18:15.300 rigorous proof that this thing actually being able to manifest actually exists i mean i'll be a little

06:18:21.460 bit charitable and say that having a positive mindset can yield you certain benefits in life 0.99

06:18:27.860 but the actual this idea that i like have you seen the secret you know that's fucking bullshit oh i uh 0.97

06:18:36.100 i used to get bills all the time and then i uh uh pause the the the law of attraction i manifested no 0.97

06:18:44.340 more bills coming to me and then the bills just stopped i didn't even pay the bills they just 0.99

06:18:48.740 stopped the bill stopped coming it's like the fucking dumbest bullshit ever oh i manifested a 1.00

06:18:55.940 parking spot motherfucker you did not man anybody who's seen the secret knows exactly what i'm talking 1.00

06:19:01.300 about yeah oh i thought that there would be an open parking spot and i manifested that shit it's like 1.00

06:19:07.380 no there happened to be an open parking spot so if someone says i prayed on this i prayed on this to 0.97

06:19:13.620 happen you're talking i'm secular so your appeal to religion is not going to work on me although i

06:19:20.020 think no that's why i'm asking i'm saying i have positive sentiments towards religion but okay make

06:19:24.100 your religious argument well it's not i'm saying if someone was saying i prayed on this to happen and

06:19:28.420 then it happened would you tell them that they're crazy that it came through prayer prayer

06:19:33.220 uh if they prayed on something like what's the difference like give me an example of something that

06:19:37.860 happened like a sick dying child and they pray over their child and the child is miraculously healed

06:19:44.020 and the doctors don't know what happened like you can't just say oh that prayer doesn't work i would

06:19:49.940 i would say that maybe they prayed but as somebody who's secular i would not be ready to say that due to

06:19:57.780 their prayer that was the causative effect yeah what the the reason for this miraculous healing or whatever

06:20:08.820 right you don't believe in miraculous healings at all well it depends what we mean by miraculous but i

06:20:16.020 wouldn't link it necessarily to uh well okay some people use the miraculous in different ways

06:20:26.740 they might mean it to mean literally a miracle occurred or they could use it more figuratively like

06:20:32.660 pointing towards that but there was just a low probability that that would be the outcome

06:20:39.060 and they're using it more in a figurative sense so i mean i don't know but like if my

06:20:46.820 child had cancer i would not resort to prayer to address their cancer i would bring them to

06:20:55.940 i would seek out appropriate medical intervention to address their illness

06:21:02.820 okay so do you want to direct it at the christian though she can answer this better than i can

06:21:06.900 like yeah so like yeah do you feel like a prayer like because i feel like people pray for lots of

06:21:12.340 things like oh i pray that my daughter gets into a certain college but what if the daughter's

06:21:16.820 manifesting that they go to this college like what's the difference between praying on it and

06:21:20.500 manifesting that's what i want to know like what do you think is the difference like do you think

06:21:23.620 praying that your daughter goes to college like do you think that answer can be answered by god

06:21:28.580 but manifesting can't one question though before she answers it do you do you believe in manifestation

06:21:35.140 i believe in some regards i think that you can't manifest

06:21:37.300 then by extension do you believe in prayer i i believe i believe in every i respect everything

06:21:42.980 believe in everything i really think that there's like possibility of every way of life

06:21:47.700 because this world is so fucking crazy that i believe in it like why why you're allowed to 0.97

06:21:53.300 say whatever opinion and then i say something and he goes oh my god and what i'm saying is so 0.94

06:21:57.940 realistic and the fact that you can't grasp what i'm saying is so realistic i'm literally like

06:22:02.900 i respect you i respect you i've been sold a lie what is the lie a lie what is the lie we live on a

06:22:09.380 spinning planet that is floating in the world can you explain that no it's science is explain no

06:22:14.420 that's why i'm saying science is their science explanation there's science there is an explanation

06:22:19.620 i i mean i'm not uh like an uh astronomer or whatever i'm saying how it started like we know

06:22:25.780 that this is happening and even the science behind it doesn't make like that doesn't make sense like

06:22:29.780 what the yeah but i can't fly you can't i can't fly so there are some things that are not within

06:22:36.580 the possibility of like physics or math or just biological reality yes but religion and and prayer

06:22:46.420 and manifest like what that's not like manifesting that you can become a bird that's mental illness

06:22:51.380 okay but manifesting and writing down in your journal as a like just being like human human like some

06:22:57.540 flight like you flap your arms yeah that's a mental illness if you think that man like there's 0.89

06:23:03.220 things that manifestation like and i feel like it's for the person too like to constantly be thinking

06:23:07.700 about it and speaking it's like they're gonna make that happen because they're always it's always on

06:23:11.380 their mind like i feel like it's a tool to use to get where you want even if you don't believe in it

06:23:16.180 full-heartedly like that bro hollywood is full of optimistic people that wanted to be

06:23:21.620 rock stars and movie stars and actors actresses all these industries i'm telling you people people

06:23:29.460 had the most the highest level of optimism and they'd work at mcdonald's or they're a server or they're

06:23:38.900 doing xyz not everybody's gonna make it and when you start telling generations of people oh you're

06:23:46.580 gonna everybody's gonna be a fucking rock star everybody's gonna be no there are gonna be 0.99

06:23:51.780 people most people are gonna work some bullshit job they're not gonna have some fucking crazy at 0.99

06:23:58.820 least as portrayed i think you can have like a great life but it's gonna be within the confines 0.99

06:24:05.060 the the rail guards of like a more modest existence but when you have people saying oh well with through

06:24:12.020 manifestation we're going to have people living everybody can be a rock star and a billionaire 0.75

06:24:18.020 and famous and all this shit you're teaching people to be uh disappointed in what's inevitably 0.99

06:24:23.620 gonna happen not everybody can be a fucking rock star not everyone wants to be a rock star 0.98

06:24:31.060 uh i think if or famous or an actress or an actor you you think the guys who've been working 30 years 0.98

06:24:37.300 making pizzas like that's their end goal that's like yes this is my ultimate uh you know

06:24:47.860 some people don't believe in themselves like some people don't have like that's what i'm saying they

06:24:51.140 use the tool as like why is that a problem for a girl to like believe in this thing that's hurting 0.98

06:24:55.860 no one and being like you have to be delulu sometimes to get what you want it's not a problem

06:25:00.500 it's not that's what i'm saying it's not issue to like it's not hurting anyone for someone to think

06:25:04.100 that there's an energy out there that's pointing them in the right direction that's what i'm saying

06:25:07.860 like you're shaming this thing or saying that it's so fake whatever like who cares like it's helping

06:25:12.820 people reach their dreams and it's it's one thing to be like this is like telling someone this is real

06:25:17.460 and this is and whatever but if don't tell someone else it's not real to them because it is i disagree

06:25:22.420 i think well i think it's perfectly fine to pursue your dream but you should do so realistically and

06:25:29.380 and that's such a sad way to live though like why no you can still you can still make a good

06:25:35.140 faith effort to pursue that like higher calling or whatever whether that's to be famous whether

06:25:40.420 that's success in business but i think approaching it realistically is i think will actually make you

06:25:49.780 work harder to actually make said thing happen if you're living in delulu land and you feel like 0.92

06:25:57.220 this thing is owed to me it's going to come to me i don't believe that you're going to take the

06:26:02.900 requisite steps to achieve said goal if you're just like well i'm just going to manifest and it's just

06:26:08.260 going to come to me you're not going to take the appropriate action unless you just believe that

06:26:12.820 everything in life just comes to you it just gets served on a silver platter but as somebody who's

06:26:17.780 hustled and grinded i can tell you trust me you're going to be hustling and grinding if you look some

06:26:23.620 people have it easy sometimes they just get lucky something comes to them but i'm telling you if you

06:26:28.820 actually want to succeed i think it's far better to come from a place of hmm this is not owed to me 0.86

06:26:35.620 but i want it and i'm gonna get it through my action not because the fucking universe owes it to me 0.99

06:26:41.540 because i'm putting out fucking energy but because i'm gonna work for it that's what's gonna get you 0.99

06:26:47.140 there not this bullshit of oh the fuck put out the good vibes no if you actually want to achieve 0.99

06:26:53.620 that dream come at it with the right mindset of i'm gonna work so i can get it i agree you need to 0.99

06:27:01.220 have both i'm saying yes like you have of course have to work for what you get but like at the same

06:27:06.020 time you're allowed to have those like it doesn't like get in the way of it of each other unless you

06:27:11.380 let it unless these people are like that all they believe in is manifesting that like they don't

06:27:14.660 don't have to work they're sitting on their couch and they're like i don't have to do 0.98

06:27:16.980 shit because the manifesting god is going to bring it to me of course like that's crazy but a girl 1.00

06:27:21.700 just being like a hard worker and being like please like can i get out of this can i do this can i have 0.99

06:27:26.820 this like that's not an issue manifest girls right now i always was under the impression that

06:27:32.820 manifestation requires you have to do the work but i have a question yes i have a question

06:27:39.460 wait if it requires you to do the work why manifest like what because it's part of an

06:27:43.380 aligned action you can't just say something and expect you have to move in action you have to

06:27:48.740 create action for something to be brought to you is the point of manifesting well just do the work 0.99

06:27:53.220 and don't manifest it's the fuck you're not like looking at it in a different lens like i don't 0.98

06:28:00.020 think you truly understand the definition of manifestation that's the problem all right here 0.99

06:28:04.020 i'm gonna let some chats come through uh oh boy wait let me just

06:28:06.900 uh is this hold on

06:28:16.900 uh liquid brain i can't pull it up but uh i'll read it because there's a couple words i just gotta be 1.00

06:28:25.140 careful tos ellie it's seth fuck these stupid strumpets and the uh rotund woman 1.00

06:28:37.460 put these geniuses 200 iq geniuses in their place winky face featuring never dies md tv baby 1.00

06:28:49.300 that's a fellow contestant on the show oh okay yeah seth yeah okay thank you seth appreciate it brother

06:28:57.140 sweet guy all right cool sons of liberty donated 69 dollars b i almost drowned from a bad wipeout in

06:29:06.580 nicaragua lost my hearing for a month what's one of the scariest maybe even deadliest wipeouts you've 1.00

06:29:14.100 experienced panel would you date a surfer okay show of hands would you date a surfer show of hands would you

06:29:21.540 date a surfer i have i have uh my worst wipeout it was like uh double overhead at ring con

06:29:31.940 and my leash snapped and i had to like i mean it wasn't that bad uh but there you know like

06:29:40.020 like got held under a little bit and then uh almost drowned but wasn't that bad but almost drowned

06:29:48.740 but i mean like it wasn't whatever um manifest me

06:29:52.260 that was funny like stop like i literally told you you're a funny man you can't even laugh at one

06:30:01.940 of my jokes i have you know people i i have a uh very high threshold for what i find funny

06:30:10.260 i think it's because i watch too much stand-up comedy and it's like

06:30:16.020 do you think matt rife is funny matt rife

06:30:20.340 uh well i got beef yeah i got beef against him because he he said very uh uh not nice things

06:30:26.740 about large labia so oh yeah i did hear about that so i don't think his but but to be fair i

06:30:33.620 don't think his humor is really my my kind i'm more like i like dave chapelle i like old school bill

06:30:39.300 burr now he's fucking kind of woke whatever um dave chapelle uh what else who's some good comedians 0.94

06:30:47.620 kevin hart no no you don't know uh mitch headberg uh one of these mitch headberg 0.95

06:30:54.020 uh one of these other guys who passed away forgot his name oh patrice o'neill of course can't go 0.97

06:30:59.140 anyways whatever you guys don't know what the fuck i'm talking about um 0.89

06:31:02.660 base trinaut donated 69 dollars thank you man appreciate it what you think about 0.84

06:31:08.820 thank you dude thank you thank you appreciate it brother

06:31:15.380 we have another one coming in here patty d oh it's gonna just be a read i might have you read this

06:31:19.940 ellie once it comes in give it a sec

06:31:26.740 had he donated 100 nevermind manifestation is literally an alternative form of prayer

06:31:33.380 people are just attracted to it because it sounds mysterious and because there are no consequences like

06:31:39.140 traditional christianity consequences thank you patty appreciate it man thank you thank you

06:31:45.700 our yay donated 69 this is our yay i sent you the land lake message you've officially made it bigger

06:31:57.380 than any previous fish and i am happy for you i just don't get how you got here you have no dating

06:32:04.340 i asked the same exact thing rea but thank you for keeping me in your prayers

06:32:11.700 also wait didn't you say actually no i'm not um question who here has tattoos me

06:32:19.060 show of hands tattoos you have tattoos tattoos tattoos tattoos no tattoos tattoos tattoos tattoos 0.98

06:32:26.180 should we do a tattoo chin i can't show mine they're like on my ass okay i have my whole thighs 0.99

06:32:34.180 blast i'm good never mind change my mind change my mind uh okay guys if you want get it in 69 tts 0.98

06:32:42.420 i think we finished pretty much all the notes you said that monogamy though in your notes is not natural

06:32:47.300 why is that i mean you read um well well yeah it's your position if you want to just i just like

06:32:58.180 it's from what i learned in anthropology it's a it's a fact that i learned that i want to talk about

06:33:04.900 that you don't want to talk about no i do want to talk about okay um so like my professor was saying that

06:33:13.140 males genitalia is shaped that way like on purpose um to scoop out yeah we get it come from like another 0.83

06:33:24.020 dude um yeah like that's just how we were built um which makes me question like why are we built like 0.76

06:33:32.820 that why are you built like that yeah i i don't know i i like to look into nature when i ask questions

06:33:42.180 um but yeah that's why i think monogamy might not be natural and um they're like we have all these

06:33:52.340 laws i don't know i i don't know i just yeah but were you actually asking why we were built like that

06:34:00.740 yeah i can probably guess because of evolution that you would want for posterity your bloodline to

06:34:09.860 continue so by eradicating the other sperm you'd be impregnating with your own you know allowing your 0.91

06:34:17.780 kids to prosper so like so it's like a survival thing you well yeah the continuation of their bloodline

06:34:24.420 okay that's that's a good answer

06:34:28.900 so awkward all right what is do you believe in monogamy um are you monogamous with your boyfriend

06:34:36.900 well yeah i'm monogamous but i used to be polygamous and when i introduced myself to him

06:34:41.620 i told him like i'm naturally polygamous but i'll do monogamy

06:34:46.820 monogamy okay um so you're saying monogamy is a social construct yes like an innate yeah biological

06:34:57.220 i mean if even if we were just i'm not even certain on that but even if we granted

06:35:03.060 that yeah there it's not like some innate thing biologically or evolutionarily so

06:35:10.180 i'm just like i've been thinking about this because like

06:35:13.940 i don't know the divorce rate is so high like why like you know maybe we're doing something wrong 0.71

06:35:22.820 with monogamy i don't know why would why would that be evidence of something wrong with monogamy just

06:35:32.100 like couldn't that be something else going on culturally societally that could impact divorce rates

06:35:39.220 how many people have been cheated on in here

06:35:46.100 yeah like okay i don't know like why why would they cheat on you if we're supposed to be monogamous 0.99

06:35:54.020 i don't know bad people well maybe we're naturally not supposed to be with one person

06:35:59.060 forever maybe we're supposed to you know spread our genes some animals are with their mate for

06:36:05.140 life like swans yeah like they don't go with they don't go to the other pond to get another

06:36:09.460 one you know our closest relative the bonobo they are like polygamous pretty much like 1.00

06:36:17.060 fucking sluts like those fucking bonobos i've never cheated on anyone she knows it 1.00

06:36:24.260 do you have a problem with sluts i have a problem with bonobo sluts let the sluts be sluts 1.00

06:36:29.140 i think people that cheat have a lack of self-control absolutely and they're lustful and it's gross 1.00

06:36:35.140 yeah it's a more problem within themselves yeah i hate them i feel very strongly about that okay

06:36:41.300 anybody else want to weigh in do you think monogamy not the natural order of things what do you think

06:36:47.700 about genghis khan w what do i think about yes w genghis khan i mean besides like the killing and 0.86

06:36:55.860 shit yeah i don't know what to think about i think i might be related to him that's all i can see the 0.51

06:37:02.420 mongoloid features in you wait does she have blue on her a little bit i'm russian okay um these questions 0.96

06:37:16.020 all right what do you think about genghis khan i think he was pretty cool um

06:37:23.860 i mean how what's the percentage of people he's like related to or like how many lives he had i'm

06:37:31.220 saying that's a conquest if i had ever seen one and he really like he's really salt of the earth

06:37:37.380 i feel when i hear genghis khan i'm like that guy's dope if if you uh ellie if you could go back would

06:37:43.220 you be one of his concubines one of his many wives i don't know how they had it set up there i mean it 0.98

06:37:49.460 could be really rough shit being a concubine hey maybe there's some benefits too oh yeah i mean i don't 0.98

06:37:57.940 know all the names of them so there's not that much notoriety to being a genghis khan wife yeah 0.99

06:38:02.580 but he probably gives you food from time to time you know that's a really good point it was rough back 0.96

06:38:08.100 what year was this it was rough well then oh wasn't it uh shit when was that i don't know 0.73

06:38:15.940 bc that's a great point it was 2001 we'd all be hashtag blessed to be a genghis khan wife was it 0.67

06:38:23.860 before the year 1000 i actually i was it before the year 1000

06:38:32.660 i don't know mongol congress i don't know gengh khan like that i won 13th and that was gonna be my

06:38:38.740 second guess 13th and 14th centuries my second guess those centuries sound pretty rough so who uh

06:38:46.740 that's cool for security i would be we have a chat here for you i yay donated 69 landlake says he

06:38:56.420 hates you i think he means it i kind of hate you too you were supposed to answer my call and put me 0.94

06:39:03.700 on speakerphone so i could crash the show i'm so sorry i don't have my phone i wasn't allowed it it 0.81

06:39:09.940 it was confiscated good times uh let's see here uh okay i think you know what chat we're gonna lower

06:39:22.340 the tts we're gonna do a 29 roast session we're gonna just get into the roast session we'll do

06:39:28.900 let the roast session go then we're gonna get this wrapped up all right roast session boys

06:39:33.460 this 29 tts get it in if you want get it in if you any final thoughts from any of the panelists

06:39:41.620 speak now forever hold your peace brian do you believe in the placebo effect

06:39:47.140 oh uh is it dating related i don't know i feel like we should okay yeah never mind

06:39:52.180 uh sure yeah sure it's a thing why well it's just kind of like tied to a manifestation

06:39:59.620 like i don't know like if you if they give you sugar pill and and it heals you and there's nothing

06:40:05.540 there that's kind of like manifestation but that's just the placebo effect and it's real

06:40:11.380 um i would have to i i'm obviously familiar with the placebo effect i'd want to look more into it um

06:40:19.940 like i'm pretty sure for example um

06:40:23.060 um the way that it like for example uh the sugar pill would not cure cancer yeah i mean look i don't

06:40:31.620 know whatever yeah we gotta look more into it uh oh we have some chats coming through here uh

06:40:37.780 marshy marsh donated 69 dollars roast time chair one moulin two butter beans three period blood vial no

06:40:45.780 roast needed four white chick from hustle and flow five mooshu from moulin six retaliation 1.00

06:40:51.300 it's a female wow wow okay that was interesting that was a good one 1.00

06:41:06.020 uh okay oh we have one more coming sweet

06:41:11.140 this is black cut zero donated 69 dollars so you want to go back 800 years sweet

06:41:21.300 is that that's you oh i mean i like my creature comforts of the year 2025 so if i had the choice

06:41:30.020 i think i'd stay okay good times good times hold on i'm getting this all set there it is shift

06:41:38.180 jet donated 29 dollars the fridge is speaking more than the snacks has she tried manifesting weight loss 0.99

06:41:45.300 oh boy i have it hasn't worked so i guess man if it doesn't work by the way guys felicity's been

06:41:52.500 gone for the past two weeks so you need to roast her she's missed a couple roast sessions so 1.00

06:41:58.260 get it in if you want to get a roast in uh let's see yeah pretty much makeup oh hmm i'm wondering if

06:42:06.260 there's anything toasty to finalize the show on like i need to do uh how about this uh who here

06:42:11.940 thinks a man should be willing to die for his girlfriend like take the bullet fine wife we can 1.00

06:42:21.140 do wife whatever personal preference yeah like do you think wait can you fix the oh i'll have one my

06:42:28.420 staff fix it um no don't worry about it it's all good thoughts opinions you say husband did you say

06:42:38.020 uh i mean it could be girlfriend it could be whatever

06:42:40.980 i would take a bullet so i think we should both oh girlfriend okay girlfriend yes wife yes and

06:42:51.780 likewise yeah wife and husband should want to take a non-fatal for both of us then yeah yeah you could 1.00

06:42:57.780 die life partner type shit well yeah there's too many factors you probably will die if you're shot 1.00

06:43:05.540 then you're in love with someone you should want to like take like i would want to take a bullet for 1.00

06:43:08.580 the person like my love when you say those vows till death do us part yeah i mean i'm down for that

06:43:13.780 yeah only wife and husband though i don't think yeah yeah i wonder if till death do us part so like

06:43:24.180 what if they're a stalker though and they like like you only agreed to be with them both like not in heaven

06:43:31.460 because like i could see myself dating a chick and and she's like trying to hit me up in heaven when 1.00

06:43:38.900 we're both dead and i'd be like nah bitch i said till death do us part so we parted ways so 1.00

06:43:46.740 fuck you and heaven gonna hit on some i'm gonna hit on these heaven you would marry someone that you're 1.00

06:43:53.940 you're telling me you would marry someone the your wife would die like then straight enough you 1.00

06:43:59.140 would marry someone death do us part yeah hang on the vows till death yeah and then i gave you my 0.95

06:44:05.060 life i'm hang on i'm reading out for you babe um you're doing that and then your wife tragically 1.00

06:44:10.900 dies too soon my love of my life dies then when you reach her in heaven you say fuck you 1.00

06:44:15.700 bitch i'm fucking the hookers that's what you say that's less than you're going to hell i think that's what 1.00

06:44:19.780 that's basically what you said instead of like going to your wife and being like i missed you 1.00

06:44:23.060 baby a monogamous relationship until heaven with um yeah and there's like some baddies in heaven

06:44:31.540 wait i thought you don't do the religion thing so why do you believe in heaven maybe there's heaven

06:44:35.620 or whatever oh you only believe what you want to believe right oh only little pieces of it oh okay

06:44:42.980 i love that i'm just saying look i said till death do us part

06:44:48.740 i didn't say anything about heaven absolutely you just said heaven what are you talking about

06:44:56.340 come on i mean bro i mean i didn't say we would be together in heaven he's just playing around with

06:45:04.980 semantics no she's playing around with semantics she's calling out for cherry picking but she's been 1.00

06:45:10.580 cherry picking this whole time oh oh oh felicity oh shooting shots no it's not to be mean it's

06:45:18.500 i'm just i'm just being honest would any of you date a guy who had a gay voice but he was 0.99

06:45:24.100 definitely straight check the shit i'll help you out here's a demo oh my god ellie you are so cute 0.99

06:45:36.020 oh my god he's a really great guy right great guy definitely straight to like definitely straight on 0.99

06:45:42.900 hrt for me oh no he's just he speaks gay okay what if i wanted to like i don't know like him 0.83

06:45:52.580 no she hasn't even had a kiss i'd be like dude i like need to like i don't know strangle you a 0.98

06:46:02.420 little bit so that your vocal cords get a little more scratched up so you sound a little more manly 0.94

06:46:06.900 it's effective strategy or like i can hire you to like choke him out for a few minutes

06:46:12.420 and that could change things i don't know if that works really no people have actually tried

06:46:16.740 people have actually tried to hire me to like fight people for them and i don't want you to fight

06:46:22.180 him i don't want to watch you fight so bad wait question do you think you could beat up every 0.53

06:46:27.380 girl here pull it up you should pull up one of my fights it's only a minute long like my debut 1.00

06:46:32.820 i used to be a bouncer do you think you could beat her up i used to be a bouncer wait do you think 1.00

06:46:36.180 you could beat me up yes you could beat me up in the way not beat up but like submit yes yeah like

06:46:42.180 no get it she's on my back i'm done i'd bow down to you before and just be like wait no no but if you

06:46:49.460 guys were in a fight for realsies i don't know i was a bouncer so i do know how to fight i only i only

06:46:54.660 train with guys like i'm training with guys 170 plus like i can pick water i'm picking guys up

06:47:01.540 like i'm i'm actually handling their body weight so yeah yes um can you tell us how much you weigh 0.97

06:47:09.220 that's not your business sorry but a big as fuck yeah you can see me i mean it's not a secret but 0.96

06:47:14.580 i'm so sorry um because she was saying she could big you like she can't pick me up yes i can i'm 0.99

06:47:21.380 telling you i can no i'm not lying i'm not lying wait i'll know if we no no she needs her give me that

06:47:29.780 thank you just fill up the oh oh my gosh but if she gets me to the floor or gets on my back and 1.00

06:47:38.420 chokes me like she's winning like i i'm not like unless i like sock her in the face and knock her 1.00

06:47:43.460 out like my overhand's pretty strong but so is my right hand i mean i'm telling you pull up my debut

06:47:48.900 yeah i want to see your face it's only like a minute nine dollars seat six has crazy expectations

06:47:56.180 and has not said anything substantial on what are you seat six uh yeah that's why you're 40 plus

06:48:02.660 without a husband or kids think about what you expect versus bring do you want to respond to that oh gosh

06:48:09.460 come on give a response a little rebuttal oh the the fact of not having a husband and kids is

06:48:20.020 because i that was a conscious choice that i made not because i didn't have several opportunities in

06:48:26.500 this lifetime to pursue that it's a very personal choice on why i chose to go a different route

06:48:31.860 hey girl oh my gosh based thor donated 30 dollars obby's removed the roast beef from the menu but i

06:48:45.220 ain't tripping i've been having roast beef every day since my wife had the kids now i'm just playing 0.99

06:48:51.460 i don't go down there that's ski as hell hashtag blm it's gay as hell to eat cooter that's gay as hell 0.99

06:48:58.180 all right your xd donated 30 dollars it's interesting with all of the age gap arguments 0.99

06:49:07.860 on the show in the past that one of the more rational guests in a while is a girl in high school

06:49:12.740 yet 40 year old believes in brain-led manifestation

06:49:21.140 okay next

06:49:28.180 wait what vector donated 30 dollars thank you man brian why not get taylor swift on the pod and

06:49:36.580 have her tell everyone she's felicity felicity could then be decked out in anime clothes and 1.00

06:49:42.180 be a standing prop miss the props where is gustavo 0.90

06:49:49.540 uh damn gustavo has been gone for like a year plus at this point um 0.93

06:49:53.300 he's i think he died in a terrible train accident just kidding he's alive no he's just got a 0.99

06:50:02.420 different job base i tried to give him back though

06:50:07.540 100 bucks if she can pick her up nah you gotta pay more if you want to see that's 0.97

06:50:12.020 fucking 20 day entertainment uh well first off i don't even would you be willing to 0.98

06:50:17.700 no i'm not gonna hurt the girl she cannot pick me i mean i love you for thinking that but i'm big 0.99

06:50:22.820 girl so i'm not gonna let her hurt her back because she's gonna be a professional mma fighter 1.00

06:50:28.100 i don't want to ruin her career

06:50:31.620 rock and roll guys get a roast in

06:50:36.100 uh cool thank you for that

06:50:39.300 uh

06:50:39.460 top troy thank you for the 10 on venmo thank you man you're 0.85

06:50:43.140 fucking legend sir appreciate it twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a follow 0.91

06:50:48.260 like the video 30 tts we have our boy here coming in lost haveris donated 29 0.97

06:50:57.380 let's all manifest some logic today class 0.73

06:51:00.740 jessix you old hag pull the stick out your flowers to the fridge put the cookie down 1.00

06:51:06.180 all right thank you lost avarice appreciate it man appreciate it uh let's see uh um 0.93

06:51:23.700 i think the final thing i want to discuss i mean should we do the bullet convo oh do we we could do

06:51:31.940 makeup too i guess yeah let's do makeup uh put it center zoom all right so we have a segment on the

06:51:42.020 show where everybody removes their makeup

06:51:48.180 congratulations take the makeup off take it off enjoy enjoy and then you're going to hold it up to

06:51:56.180 the monitor so we can see the girl the before you're gonna you're gonna do it oh she's waiting

06:52:06.260 all right all right hook it up you're gonna do it no but i'm gonna say i was gonna think

06:52:11.860 next time if i do go on again i'll bring my actual makeup remover stuff and do it she's

06:52:15.540 bougie no you can i cannot remove this makeup with that stuff like my stuff's what like really

06:52:20.500 waterproof what do you mean this is some primo no this is like the dollar store i got the honest

06:52:25.540 wipes over here like i need coconut oil and like like this is like waterproof he's so funny

06:52:32.260 next time i will because i'm not afraid to be with no makeup i just want to look like a raccoon

06:52:38.180 hold it up hold it up hold on let me look here hold it up spread him wait what the 0.87

06:52:44.740 fuck oh spread the the makeup wipe all right honestly i think some of y'all ain't done y'all got 0.91

06:52:52.180 y'all need one more y'all need one more one more 0.99

06:53:02.820 uh nick you can pull up the super it's below the threshold uh if you want guys the we're just doing

06:53:09.140 tts through streamlabs.com slash whatever super chats don't trigger tts streamlabs.com

06:53:14.260 slash whatever uh 30 tts um mary remember the the thing we're gonna do at the outro

06:53:30.020 yeah you're gonna do that right away guys stay stick around for the end of the stream because

06:53:34.740 we're gonna be doing something really cool during the outro screen something new

06:53:38.900 uh i don't know maybe it'll be interesting uh it's only like 30 seconds so be sure to stay tuned

06:53:44.980 until the very end of the show a little cool thing there uh we're not wrapping quite yet but you know

06:53:53.700 in momentarily

06:53:54.820 so do any of you want to speaketh on any topics

06:54:06.980 before we wrap

06:54:08.980 topics you're about the tea up brian yeah we covered it last uh last show i'm pretty sure or was it the

06:54:14.900 show before i think it was two shows it was yeah you were gone rude uh it was two shows ago i think

06:54:22.100 we covered it i uh i'm also starting my own app i'm starting a an app i didn't know what the

06:54:29.860 big app was and i got it i thought i thought it was like tea on everyone and i saw it was only men

06:54:37.060 i was like looking myself up on there seeing if anyone posted about me i was like what did you uh

06:54:40.900 take the makeup off and you want to do that i'm not taking you don't want to take it off not all of it

06:54:46.340 okay good talk um uh final thing here uh do you think it's beta beta if a guy's not willing to die

06:55:02.500 for his girl

06:55:07.300 what do you think

06:55:07.860 no like he's not willing to he he's letting you sacrifice yourself so he can survive

06:55:19.780 again we're talking like husband life well you don't want to get married so just right so it'd be

06:55:24.340 like yeah my guy yeah um i don't i don't think no he should because i would do the same for him

06:55:31.780 oh you do the same yeah okay so all right i hate it when they say that i would do the same

06:55:39.060 it's like damn i can't all right i guess that's fair i guess that's fair if you're willing to do

06:55:43.940 for them then it's kind of fair if you want them to do for you like i feel like you shouldn't kill 0.93

06:55:46.980 yourself for someone who doesn't want to do it for yourself you know juice 69 donated 30 dollars

06:55:53.220 thank you five is flawless chair two needs to find a nice little comment there's a little nice

06:55:59.780 comment for uh for luna there thank you juice what about my nice comment that was a really nice

06:56:05.060 comment what species of animal what did you not hear what they said no what'd they say they said

06:56:11.940 i need a chair two needs to find a husband at the zoo oh my god that's so funny probably the elephants 1.00

06:56:20.980 or like the rhinoceroses oh my gosh what other fat animals are there gorilla hippos oh my god i like 0.62

06:56:29.940 them chunky whales at a zoo rhino like right now sea world oh yeah i've counted all all um

06:56:38.420 all right guys final call final call on the roast final call on the tts i'm tired final call early

06:56:44.260 show tonight early show tonight get it final call guys if you want to get one in 30 tts if you want to

06:56:49.380 do a roast you can roast me roast felicity roast is there anything we're missing nick that we uh

06:56:57.620 uh there was really quick this article i'll just pull it up i'll go over it 30 seconds yeah um

06:57:06.100 so i don't know if you guys know the movember movement it's been going on for i don't know over

06:57:11.300 10 years or something i think it's been infiltrated by feminists or something and they've redirected a lot of 1.00

06:57:18.340 the apparently i just skimmed the article so pull it up so movember rips off men's health dollars 0.88

06:57:27.220 feminist takeover uh scroll down i'll just read a little bit of it it was a great idea charity 1.00

06:57:33.140 started by a couple of ozzy blokes persuaded men to grow mustaches to support the prostate cancer

06:57:37.940 foundation 20 years later movember has grown from that small group of men

06:57:42.020 uh sporting hairy upper lips to become the major male health charity in the world 0.52

06:57:47.940 every november in country after country blokes blah blah oh my god i can't just get to the point uh

06:57:57.300 little do that do they know that this huge enterprise run by a feminist and supported by mainly female 1.00

06:58:03.060 staff is increasingly committed to diverting men's health dollars away from real male health concerns

06:58:09.460 towards woke projects promoting anti-male ideology if you guys want to read the rest of it

06:58:14.980 it's there on that i guess what was that sub stack or whatever uh basically you know that november's coming

06:58:20.100 up whatever uh there's a lot of fundraising for certain male causes but they're like i guess diverting

06:58:26.180 money away from more traditional places that they used to put it to

06:58:32.340 like i think it or pull the article back up really quick there's one point that was really interesting scroll down

06:58:36.980 um um where is it six i saw something like uh scroll down

06:58:45.860 the leadership is 70 percent female scroll down damn there's something i saw that like scroll keep going 0.82

06:58:52.660 keep going down scroll down scroll down wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait go up just a bit 0.94

06:59:01.220 um

06:59:05.380 um they then turned around in that wait

06:59:11.700 they then turned around and announced 160 million for women's health and zero for men in the budget mind

06:59:18.580 you this is like an organization that's always been geared towards advocacy for men

06:59:24.180 so scroll down a little bit oh right okay so three and four on the lives involve men but 60 percent of

06:59:34.500 people helped are women uh so i mean i think it's great to help women in that capacity but

06:59:44.020 i mean it's a men's advocacy organization or at least it purported to be uh you can read the whole

06:59:50.660 thing though it's sub stack kind of fucking bullshit so if you've supported november in the 0.98

06:59:57.940 past i'd recommend you not because it's i mean look you want to go support a woman's 0.98

07:00:05.140 charity go for it but that was specifically advertised as a male charity and they're clearly not

07:00:11.940 uh holding up to that promise so anyways just wanted to weigh in on that we have some two more

07:00:16.980 chats coming through then we're going to get wrapped up nice felicity's back who donated 30 0.99

07:00:21.780 she can become a millionaire if she sells that's just stupid like that's not even funny 1.00

07:00:28.980 because fast i'm stupid lame 1.00

07:00:33.380 all right 69 donated 30 i think they're talking about me though elifton large seal maybe blue whale 0.63

07:00:40.500 oh okay what it's okay hold on let me see if that's weird uh not sure why i did that there it is

07:01:04.180 this trinaut donated 29 thanks bam there too you're so beautiful and plus size personality

07:01:11.700 sweet feminine and funny thank you sized heart thank you hon

07:01:20.180 oh um oh not everyone hates the fats

07:01:24.180 your xd donated 30 dollars in other news women ruin everything they touch 1.00

07:01:32.020 to give you guys perspective this would be like if men infiltrated women's breast cancer

07:01:39.140 um fundraising charity or whatever and then they're like they became the majority in the company and

07:01:46.820 they're like you know what all this money that we are getting on the backs of the goodwill of

07:01:51.380 women's breast cancer we're going to divert it to men's prostate cancer research like that's kind of 0.97

07:01:59.140 why it's kind of scummy you know it's scummy uh look we should pursue all kinds of cancer cancers that

07:02:06.740 affect women cancers that affect men but uh it is pretty scummy to

07:02:11.380 uh

07:02:14.660 like

07:02:15.140 and advertise yourselves as hey we're doing male advocacy and then be like no we're just going to

07:02:20.180 send out and donate all this money to men

07:02:24.820 i agree okay all right um i think yeah we're all done okay cool so i want to say gg or i'd like to end

07:02:35.940 this another nobody here does or you do of right yeah i guess all right you should just quit that 0.66

07:02:42.180 shit anyways uh gg gg well played to the panel last call hit the like button please on your way out also 0.98

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