Whatever Podcast - Brian Made Her PUKE？! Reformed HØE？! Woke Girl Came To DESTROY Brian In A DEBATE？! ｜ Dating Talk 277

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00:05:24.000 Uh, go ahead. Hi, my name is Courtney King. I'm 25 years old. I'm a full-time UGC creator.

00:05:32.740 What were the other places? Uh, where are you from? I'm from Florida. Um, but I'm currently

00:05:39.160 moving to LA. All right. And, uh, any college? Yes. I'm in nursing school through Valencia

00:05:45.340 College. Anything before that? Like college before that? No. Okay. So you just started nursing

00:05:52.140 school? Yeah. Okay. Got it. Uh, how long you been doing that? Like a year and a half now. Do you

00:05:57.220 have to do like your general? That's what I'm like. I'm not in the actual nursing school yet. I just

00:06:02.580 finished my prerequisites. You're going to go to nursing school? Yeah. Okay. Well, you just finished

00:06:07.300 your prereqs. Yeah. What were your prereqs? Anatomy and Physiology 1, Anatomy and Physiology 2.

00:06:12.940 What about you? What's up? What's up? My name is Lada Cardwell-Mims. Um, I'm a music artist.

00:06:18.540 Age? Originally, I'm 18. Okay. I'm originally from Russia, St. Petersburg, and I currently live in Los

00:06:25.680 Angeles, California. All right. When did you move to the United States? Uh, two years ago. Okay. And

00:06:32.940 what's the story? What's the story there? Just moved from Russia. Honestly, I was just pursuing a

00:06:39.620 music career. Okay. So that's my main point. But I used to live in Tucson, Arizona, but living in LA was

00:06:46.700 always my dream. So I could just finally made it here. Now, did you move with your family or

00:06:53.620 what's the story? No, solo, just alone. You moved at 16? I moved, uh, to Arizona with my family

00:07:02.860 when I was 16. And then I moved to LA alone when I was 17. I see. But the move to the United States,

00:07:09.600 you did come with your family. Yeah. So your mom, your dad, siblings? Yeah. Yeah. Um, my mom

00:07:16.880 and my dad and my brother. Okay. Gotcha. Um, and, uh, is that a, I thought we were not on good

00:07:29.400 terms with Russia. I didn't know an entire Russian family could move to the United States. So what is

00:07:36.980 the, do you guys have, did you come here legally? Do you have visas? What's the? Yeah. Um, so, okay.

00:07:47.000 I'm honestly only partially Russian because I was born in Russia. Okay. I lived my whole life there

00:07:52.320 till I was 16, but, uh, my dad is from Kentucky. It's kind of weird. So your dad's American. Yeah. 0.99

00:08:00.420 And your mom's Russian. Yeah. Does your dad have dual citizenship in Russia? No, I do. Okay. You

00:08:08.700 were born in Russia. Yeah. Okay. Your dad born in the United States. Yeah. Okay. So you have dual

00:08:17.440 citizenship in the United States. Yeah. You're okay. So was there like a immigration process or

00:08:27.040 what? I just, well, I'm not for you. I mean, I guess your entire family kind of, I mean, was there

00:08:32.940 an immigration process? I, did you, I get, I don't know if you had to apply for visas or yeah, well,

00:08:38.440 no, I had to put like two passports since a kid. So I didn't really have to worry about anything.

00:08:44.620 Um, right. But your mother not being a citizen of the United States. Oh, that, that was, that

00:08:50.180 was hard, but we got over it first. Like, yeah, that was a little more difficult. Okay. Got

00:08:57.280 it. All right. Um, so you speak Russian, English, any other languages? Um, just those two. I'm

00:09:05.720 trying to get to Spanish, but I'm not there. Okay. All right. And, uh, are you in college

00:09:10.920 right now? I don't go to school now. Okay. Got it. What about you? I'm Jamie Erickson. I

00:09:17.580 am 21 years old. I do OnlyFans. Um, I live in Florida. I was born in Connecticut though,

00:09:26.840 school. And I don't go to college. Any college? Not at all. Just, I was homeschooled.

00:09:35.180 Um, uh, for most of your life, all of your life? I was in public school for all of school until high

00:09:41.840 school. And then I was homeschooled for high school. That was about it. Okay. Gotcha. What

00:09:48.000 about you? Hi, my name is Elisa Truskinov. I am 28 and I grew up in Jersey. I am a script

00:09:56.820 supervisor in film and TV. New Jersey. Yeah. Not the country. Wait, is Jersey a, is Jersey

00:10:05.720 a country? Isn't there a country named Jersey? Hold on. I think so. Wait. No, I'm not from

00:10:12.120 Jordan. Jersey country. I'm not from the country. I'm from this. Well, I grew up in the state of New

00:10:18.500 Jersey. We just don't say the new part. It's not a country. It's like a territory of the, uh, of

00:10:25.220 England, the British crown. I don't fucking know. Anyways, 0.98

00:10:30.140 uh, it's an Island controlled by the UK. Thank you, Chad. I got confused there. Uh, so you're from

00:10:37.840 New Jersey. Yeah. I grew up there and I went to NYU Tisch for film and TV a few years ago.

00:10:47.100 Okay. And, uh, let's see. You, uh, what did you get your degree in? In film and TV.

00:10:55.200 Bachelor's? Bachelor's. Yeah. Okay. But that, and you graduated quite a few years ago. Yeah. 2019.

00:11:01.620 Okay. Gotcha. What about you? Hi, I'm Tabitha Chang. I'm 28.

00:11:07.220 I'm currently a stay at home mom of two. Um, I do have about three years of college

00:11:14.300 at CSU Monterey Bay with kinesiology being my degree on that. And then I got a business certificate

00:11:22.300 last year. Um, but otherwise. And where are you from? We're, we live in Fresno now. I'm originally

00:11:28.860 from the Bay area. Okay. Kind of. What about you? Hi, my name is Katie. Um, I'm 26, about to be

00:11:36.920 27. My birthday's in a few days. Um, I am a full-time model actress and content creator.

00:11:43.620 I do UGC work. Um, and I went to some college originally from Texas, just moved to LA about

00:11:51.200 a month ago. All right. Uh, some people in the chat for both of you are asking what UGC

00:11:57.000 content is. Do you want to? Yeah. Um, so it's user generated content. So basically for instance,

00:12:02.160 like I have a contract with a, uh, car dealership and Hawthorne and I make all of their content

00:12:08.480 for Instagram and that's a month to month ordeal or brands will send, uh, they'll pay for you

00:12:14.880 to post stuff on your Instagram or just create content for them to utilize for advertising.

00:12:20.400 So, or advertisements or whatever. User generated content. So it's more authentic advertising

00:12:27.040 basically. Okay. So like if I don't know, some, uh, bidet company wants to, you would be like,

00:12:38.200 wow, this bidet is so amazing. Yeah. Kind of. Yeah. Kind of. You could. Yeah. It cleans really well

00:12:44.340 or it doesn't. My booty hole feels great after this amazing bidet. Like you got to make it like

00:12:50.080 super viral and I got to give it some, uh, some charisma. What about you? Um, my name's Ava

00:12:57.040 Madsen. I'm from Austin, Texas, and I went to the university of Idaho for kinesiology. I plan on going

00:13:03.320 back in the fall for business marketing and I do sales. All right. Age 20, 20. And sorry,

00:13:10.800 you're from where again, Texas, you said, or I live in Austin, Texas right now, but I'm originally

00:13:15.660 from Boise, Idaho, Idaho. Okay. Nice. All right. What about you? Uh, my name is Levi. I'm 25 years

00:13:24.140 old. I currently work in the car business with my family and I went to university of Miami and studied

00:13:31.460 biology. When did you graduate from there? 2023. Okay. So two years ago, three years ago. Uh,

00:13:38.280 wait, and you said for work though, you sell cars. Is that kind of do a little bit of everything?

00:13:44.220 Like I said, it's a family owned business. That's my work for my parents. So in terms of the degree

00:13:49.140 that you got in bio, you have a bachelor's in bachelor's of science. Wait, you could do either.

00:13:55.720 I have a bachelor of arts in biology. Okay. Uh, what did you have a sense of what you wanted to do with

00:14:02.220 that or? Um, medical school. Is that still on the table or? It is. Okay. Um, have you applied to any

00:14:11.340 medical schools? Have you taken the MCAT? No. So when I started, I wasn't really exactly sure what

00:14:18.800 route I wanted to take. It kind of just was, I knew I was interested in science, so I chose something I

00:14:24.760 was thought would be interesting and fun to learn about. And eventually it kind of just after I

00:14:31.200 graduated, of course I set myself on medical school. So in the meantime, between then and now I've been

00:14:37.020 adding up the prerequisites I didn't take in undergrad. So like biochemistry, physics, I did

00:14:42.060 take organic chemistry. Uh, and then let's say, uh, after med school, do you have a sense of

00:14:49.040 what kind of medical discipline you'd like to go into? Surgery. Any specific kind? Orthopedic or brain

00:14:57.260 surgery? I liked plastics a lot. Um, or on. So plastic surgery? Yeah. Oh, okay. Uh, so like

00:15:05.700 fake titties and shit? No. More so like, uh, reconstructive. Reconstructive. Okay. Like the 1.00

00:15:11.400 good kind of plastic surgery. Although I mean, don't, um, I'm actually curious, are there plastic

00:15:18.600 surgeons that refuse to do the cosmetic plastic surgeries? I don't know. And they're like, you

00:15:27.840 know what? I'm not, I'm not going to give some fucking blonde, some fucking fake titties, but 1.00

00:15:32.100 I will like, if somebody's half his face gets blown off, I'll do that. You know? Um, I don't 1.00

00:15:37.380 know. I guess, I mean, it's definitely up to the surgeon, of course. I mean, what, what surgeries

00:15:42.360 they will and won't perform? Okay. What about you? Hi, I'm Anya. I'm 31 years old. I'm from

00:15:49.100 Connecticut, but I was born in the Philippines. I work in human resources, but, um, my degree

00:15:55.120 is in human development, family science, and I have a minor in psychology. Um, shout out

00:16:00.400 to the discord gang. Shout out, whatever discord gang, discord.gg slash whatever. All right.

00:16:06.900 Going around the table, uh, once more, we're going to have everybody, uh, share their relationship

00:16:12.300 status. And, uh, so if you're single, how long have you been single and longest relationship

00:16:18.120 you've ever been in? If you're, I am in a relationship. I was with the same guy for seven

00:16:25.060 years. We just recently got back together. Okay. So should we just say seven years then?

00:16:32.460 Sure. He had a few girlfriends in between there, but how long were you guys split up? Like a

00:16:36.600 year. One year. Okay. So you, you guys met in high school or, um, I was 11 and he was

00:16:43.940 18 when we met, but it wasn't like that until I was 18. Yes. It wasn't like that until I

00:16:52.640 was 18, but I had a crush on him. Uh, was it, was it like a family friend or something?

00:16:58.300 Yeah. My best friend's brother. What do you guys think that's a bit of a yikes? I don't

00:17:06.580 know. I don't know. Super yikes. I don't know. That is a bit of a yikes. I mean, obviously

00:17:12.180 you guys didn't, you were, you started dating when you turned 18. Well, technically I was

00:17:16.800 17, but almost 18, like really so close in New York at the time. Okay. There's no Romeo

00:17:24.720 and Juliet law there. I don't think it was. Well, it's not even that, but I mean, I know

00:17:27.820 certain, isn't the federal, uh, isn't at the federal level, the age of consent is 18, 18.

00:17:35.760 I know some States it's like lower. It's still kind of like, that's still kind of, I don't

00:17:40.520 know. Um, so who made the move? Actually me. Um, I was obsessed with him. Did you have

00:17:49.780 like pictures of him in your room? I wish no, like a poster on the wall. No.

00:17:54.980 Um, I was just obsessed with him. I would visit my best friend's house a lot and he

00:17:59.740 would always be there. I called him hot brother. Um, cause my best friend has one hot brother

00:18:05.660 and one ugly brother or well, sorry, sorry, Kyrie. Um, but yeah, I made the mood first.

00:18:13.680 I, uh, got his Snapchat. I told him that I would guzzle a bucket of his juices and then he added

00:18:20.580 me on Snapchat. What? Whoa, wait, wait, wait, hold on. I didn't use the word juices though.

00:18:26.720 Is that like reverse grooming? Yes. How old were you? You said sperm or cum or something?

00:18:34.000 Yeah. At, at 17. Yeah. And he's 25. He said, wait, he was eight years older. Wait, hold on. 0.99

00:18:43.500 He was 18 when I was 11. Okay. Seven years older. So he's 24.

00:18:52.920 Yikes. It's a bit of a yikes. I'm going to be honest. A little bit. Um, but okay. So then

00:18:58.340 you start dating at. And you were in New York. Yeah. You were in New York. I moved him down to

00:19:06.620 Florida with my family though. You moved him down. Was he homeless? Well, his mom kicked him out and

00:19:12.540 he was kind of like in between. So I guess, yeah, kind of. Okay. Uh, well, I guess. How does your

00:19:21.400 family feel about this? Oh, they love him. They love him so much. He's actually a really good guy.

00:19:28.020 I understand. It sounds crazy, but hold on. So when you say you moved him to Florida, what do you

00:19:33.280 mean? Um, well, he was kind of down. He didn't have a job. But had you already been dating or was

00:19:40.520 this at the very forefront of the relationship? So this is literally like a week into it,

00:19:44.180 week or two. Okay. Yeah. Cause New York. And I don't know if there's like some overarching

00:19:49.920 like federal law or whatever, New York, the age of consent is 17 years old. However,

00:19:55.940 the age of consent in Florida is 18 years old. And then further, it sounds like there were some,

00:20:00.900 uh, digital exchanges, which across the board, uh, is illegal. Yes. That is probably a little,

00:20:10.860 yeah, I think that's, it doesn't matter. You know, if you're sending like explicit content

00:20:17.540 under the age of 18, that's major yikes. Okay. Um, but, and you're currently still in a relationship

00:20:24.420 with this guy. So I left him for a while. I just recently took him back. Were you guys on and off

00:20:31.180 again more than once? No. Oh wait. Um, for one month in like the beginning of our relationship,

00:20:37.020 we broke up cause he cheated and then I got back together with him and I kind of, yeah,

00:20:42.640 cheated a lot. How many women did he cheat? He effed one of my best friends and then there were like

00:20:50.220 probably 10 other random ones. That's awesome. And you, did you cheat too? Oh yeah. Afterwards.

00:20:57.760 Oh yeah. Like after he cheated. Yeah. After he cheated, I like made it my mission before your

00:21:03.760 mission. Yeah. I made it my mission to cheat on him, which is so stupid. What a waste of time.

00:21:09.080 Um, but before that, no, I was a good girl. I cheated on my boyfriends that weren't him before that,

00:21:14.760 but not on him. Um, well, what else do you want to know? Wait, he's 32 now. Yeah. I had a question.

00:21:24.540 And you're, he, you said his mom kicked him out. How did that? Why? Oh, um, he has a baby mother

00:21:32.260 that isn't me and he left her and his mom didn't like that. Did he leave her for you? Um,

00:21:42.660 we started talking after they broke up, but they were still kind of like, she was still living in

00:21:49.600 his mom's house with him. So it was, uh, it was an interesting situation.

00:21:57.200 Okay. Um, uh, did anybody want to weigh in on the, uh, I wouldn't even call an age gap because

00:22:05.000 you're a minor technically. That's a different territory. Um, do you guys think a bit yikes?

00:22:11.800 Oh yeah. Super, super yikes. Super. Or not that bad or fine. I think, uh, after a certain age,

00:22:24.720 an age gap doesn't matter. But prior to that, it's, I'm, I'm speaking of this specific one,

00:22:31.920 17. So she's not technically an adult. She's a minor and with a 24 year old, I think 24.

00:22:38.480 Well, I would say it's a, it's a little, it's a little yikes, but you guys have stuck it through

00:22:44.620 this whole time. So no more, no more. I have a question. I don't think there's, well, I don't

00:22:49.380 think there's currently like your current age gap. That's fine. That's no problem. That's not an

00:22:54.300 issue. Although it is a bit conf, look, I think it's yikes, but you were the pursuer. Oh yeah. Uh,

00:23:03.420 so that adds another layer to the, the whole thing. Um, okay. Wow. Can I ask my question?

00:23:11.400 Yeah. Do you, do you have a monogamy problem? Are you, do you like, or do you prefer like a

00:23:17.020 polygamous relationship? Because if you guys are just like cheating on each other all the time,

00:23:20.700 no, I actually really don't like cheating. I was doing it purely in revenge. I wouldn't do that now.

00:23:26.020 Um, but when I was younger, it was a good idea to me to make him feel the way that he made me feel.

00:23:34.040 Um, but I am monogamous, I think for myself. I would say in your wedding speech, um, from a gallon

00:23:42.980 of your juice to saying, I do, I love you, you know, make sure to include that. I don't know how my

00:23:48.760 grandparents would like that. Yeah. That, that initial message you sent him was that, uh,

00:23:56.020 repeated again. Sorry. Um, I will guzzle a bucket of your cum. And was that your opening line? Yes.

00:24:04.080 And it wasn't a message. It was like an audio. Like my best friend was on the phone

00:24:07.760 and I said it on speaker to him. Like on a call, not like a voice recording. No,

00:24:13.740 it was live. Yeah. Call live stream. Were you, were you sober? Yeah, I was sober.

00:24:19.400 And it was, had you, I mean, you were like family friends or whatever. Like he was the friend of

00:24:25.380 your brother, right? Or what? No, he's, uh, my best friend's brother. He's your, okay. So your

00:24:31.660 best friend is a girl. My best friend's a boy, Kyle. Um, we grew up together. How old is your best

00:24:37.560 Kyle? Same exact age as me. And you were crushing on the much older brother? Yeah. Not the best

00:24:44.400 friend who's your same age. Yeah. I've always been like that though. I like older guys.

00:24:49.300 At 11. I think that makes it so much weirder that he knew you as a kid and then. Oh yeah,

00:24:56.740 I know. I think it's a big yikes. I think that's weird. Like. I think it's very yikes for him,

00:25:03.100 but for you to be like, I don't know if it was like growing up, like at your age 17,

00:25:09.860 saying that to him, you knew what you were doing. Like you knew your intentions, but for him to be

00:25:16.340 at his age, that's very yikes for him, but it's still like a very poor situation to be in.

00:25:25.820 Age doesn't matter to know like right from wrong. So at 11, that's kind of insane. Especially like

00:25:33.140 the whole cheating aspect, like morality, that's terrible. Yeah. Well, she didn't have those thoughts

00:25:38.780 at 11. At 11, I didn't say that. I said it when I was 17. At 11, it was a simple crush. Okay. Well,

00:25:43.420 cheating no matter the age is morality insane. My follow-up though is, so this was the brother of

00:25:49.960 your male best friend. Yes. And then how did this phone call, like had you not spoken to him for a

00:25:58.740 period of time? I had seen him in person a couple of times, but then I found out him and his girlfriend

00:26:04.540 broke up. So I just went full force ahead. Okay. So his girlfriend broke up, like how long had they

00:26:12.640 been dating? Like four years, four years. And then when you say, okay, so I guess two questions,

00:26:20.380 uh, prior to the phone call, when was the last time you had had any contact with the guy?

00:26:27.720 Um, maybe like two years it had been since I've seen him or talk to him or talk to him. Yeah. No,

00:26:36.600 no, like texting. No, nothing. I didn't have, this was like a, Hey, haven't spoken to you in

00:26:41.620 two years. Haven't seen you in two years, completely almost sounds like spontaneous, impromptu phone

00:26:47.820 conversation. And then, uh, house, how soon after the breakup with his four year girlfriend did this

00:26:56.620 phone call take place? The day of? Like a week. A week after. And your opening line was what again?

00:27:04.400 I'm going to guzzle a bucket of your cum. Hold on. What? Uh, excuse me? Not like, uh, Oh, Hey Jeff, 1.00

00:27:19.060 how's it going? How's it, how's it been? Like that was your first thing you said. I just kind of say

00:27:25.080 what comes to my brain. And that was what came. What was your best friend's reaction?

00:27:31.340 I don't think it was much of a reaction. I'm kind of like that a lot. Well, not like sexual like that,

00:27:35.200 but just like, he didn't have any problem at all with his older brother and someone who he's grown

00:27:41.740 up with known since he was a little kid. Like, no, he actually encouraged it. Cause then with your

00:27:46.860 parents in your life, both my parents in my life. Yes. They're both doctors. Do you think he's the one?

00:27:52.220 Um, I don't know if I believe in the one. I think so many people. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. But we have three

00:28:03.120 kids together. So we have three children together. That's why I got back with him in the first place.

00:28:09.900 Hold on. You have three kids. Three boys.

00:28:18.660 Uh, three boys. What are the names? Stefan, Jeremiah, and Leo.

00:28:25.820 Cute. Are you? Hold on. Date of birth?

00:28:30.000 Of them? Uh, just the years. Oh, 2019, 2020, and 2023.

00:28:35.300 Three. Hmm. How old are you again? I don't believe you. 25. I don't believe you. I think

00:28:44.640 you're trolling. I swear. Uh, do you have photos of them on your phone? I do. Yeah.

00:28:50.420 Okay. Yo, chat. Do you think she's lying? I think this is a troll. I think it's, I think

00:28:55.760 we're getting trolled right now. Um, so you have three kids. Yes. You're his second baby

00:29:05.460 mama? Yeah. He has one. But you don't think you're like a homewrecker? Um, a little bit.

00:29:12.180 I did feel, I've processed how horrible I handled things when I was 17 towards his baby mother,

00:29:19.140 and I have apologized since then. Um, homewrecker, I wouldn't consider it because I didn't have

00:29:26.020 any contact with him before they broke up, but it was a week after, so that is pretty

00:29:31.380 shitty, you know? And are you afraid it's gonna happen to you? It has happened to me like

00:29:35.780 20 times over. Is he white? He's black. So wait, you were how old when you had the first 0.95

00:29:43.860 kid or when you got like? I was 18. And you got pregnant also 18? I think I had just turned

00:29:53.060 18. I had him in, uh, March of 2019, my first baby. Um, my birthday is July. So 2019, I turned

00:30:02.360 19 in July. So I was 18 when I had him. I might've been 17 when I got pregnant with him. I'm not

00:30:09.120 sure. Did the other baby mama have the kids around the same time you had your kids? Like

00:30:16.240 was it close together or even at the same time? Her, um, her daughter was three or four. Has

00:30:23.360 he had any other kids with any other women since then? No, not that I know of. Have you ever

00:30:30.760 been married? No. Uh, in your pre-show notes, it says you left your husband. Oh, I just call

00:30:38.340 him that. I left my, we were engaged. It was fiance at 17. Yeah. You said you left him

00:30:46.140 for another man after you cheated on him for years. Yeah. And you've cheated since. Yes. 0.85

00:30:52.200 Well, not on him and been a horrible girlfriend in every type of way. Yes. And your kids are

00:30:58.700 going to see that. I think in order to better yourself, you have to be bad at whatever you're

00:31:06.320 doing. So I think by me being a shitty girlfriend, it built me to where I can make myself into 0.92

00:31:13.380 a good girlfriend. Uh-huh. You speak as if like you're okay with your actions. I don't 0.96

00:31:18.920 think I'm okay or I'm not okay with my actions. I just don't want to hide my actions because

00:31:23.560 people's past are important. What do you do now that is different than what you used to

00:31:27.740 do? Like what do you do better now than what you used to do? I don't cheat. Um, that's pretty

00:31:34.560 much the only problem I had before really. So you like cater to your boyfriend or anything?

00:31:39.180 Like what do you do besides just being there? I cook and clean, I guess, if that's what you're

00:31:45.100 talking about. I mean, hold on. He also cheated on you. So it's like, it's not a one sided

00:31:49.260 thing. Like how has he improved? He cheated on me so many times. I don't, I'm honestly not

00:31:55.220 even sure if he has improved. I'm kind of just giving him the benefit of the doubt. Um, it's

00:32:01.560 a sticky situation when you have children together and I feel like that influenced me

00:32:07.300 to take him back a lot. Um, were the other two, um, I hate to use the word accidents or

00:32:15.340 intentional? So the first two were accidents. I had an IUD in, um, and it migrated. So I

00:32:24.660 got pregnant. Wow. And then my most recent baby, my two year old, he was not an accident.

00:32:29.660 He was planned. Do you think I'm just a little, sorry. I'm just a little confused. Cause I thought

00:32:34.500 Brian just said in your thing, it said you still cheat to this day. No, it said that

00:32:41.420 I thought I've cheated. Yeah. You wrote, you've cheated since. Yeah. Not to this day. So how are,

00:32:48.880 how does that make you a better person still though? Now, if you have cheated since though,

00:32:53.780 because I didn't learn from that time cheating on him. So it took me two relationships after that

00:33:01.440 where I cheated on them to realize that's really fucked up and I shouldn't be doing that. Just 0.87

00:33:08.020 here, uh, here, here, here's what I want to do just so I'm not lingering on this too long.

00:33:13.000 You guys, you guys talk about this for two minutes here, get up, show me the photos. Okay.

00:33:20.700 Are my kids? Yeah. Okay. Let's verify. What I want to know is the root of the cheating. Like

00:33:27.660 cheating just doesn't happen. There's a root. So I don't know. Yeah. Just being like a terrible

00:33:32.920 person. What do you mean? If you're with someone you truly love, then you just have no desire to

00:33:36.780 want to cheat. Like you just have no desire for anyone else. Honestly, something might make sense.

00:33:42.060 I'm trying to put two plus two together. So if she was born in July, is that cancer? Because if

00:33:47.720 that's cancer, that's cancer. I don't do any of those. It has to do with cheating on your

00:33:51.700 partner. Yeah. That's a morality problem. You need to go on. I feel like that's, that's

00:33:56.240 cancer. I think with the reverse grooming, there's already something like. It has nothing

00:34:01.400 to do with. I think the age and the maturity are like, sorry, but it doesn't have anything

00:34:06.920 to do with being groomed. You can be assaulted. You can be groomed and you can still be a good

00:34:11.720 person. Oh yeah. 11 year old is attracted to an 18 year old. Usually when that is the case,

00:34:16.380 that means there was some sort of like. I had crushes on older guys. In early childhood,

00:34:20.420 whether that be physical, sexual, emotional. I think it's normal to like see someone like,

00:34:24.400 oh, they're attractive when you're younger. Cause like we're used to like that, but it's

00:34:28.620 pursuing it later. That person knows you as a child. That's creepy. There's definitely a morality line.

00:34:35.960 It doesn't have to be abuse either. Cause some people are just messed up in their heads.

00:34:39.460 Okay. But at that point, like that's mental. What if they met like well into her twenties,

00:34:44.940 you guys still would do the math and you're like, oh, technically if you guys met.

00:34:49.020 They don't know her as a child. Yeah. You meet somebody as a 20 year old. No,

00:34:52.600 I'm not saying it's right, but I'm saying like at a certain point, we kind of no longer worry about

00:34:58.480 the age gap. And it's like, I put it this way. We have a legal age limit for that in this country. 0.87

00:35:04.680 It's 18. You know what I mean? So it's just a little different when you know someone at an

00:35:09.820 adolescent age, prepubescent age. And then you, there's just, it's just a line. I think you should

00:35:16.320 have been a little bit more cautious with her, with knowing that she. Well, everyone around her

00:35:22.180 seems to approve of it, family included. So maybe she has daddy issues. She said her parents are both

00:35:29.160 doctors. I mean, that doesn't mean she doesn't have daddy issues, but it doesn't seem like her 0.99

00:35:33.320 parents are like losers or something. It seems like they provided her. It seems like they provided 0.96

00:35:39.320 her. I mean, it's not like you had a lack of resources. I have a question for you. Yes. Do

00:35:46.820 you think that you guys will ever actually repair your trust to each other and be loyal to each other

00:35:51.420 fully? I will never trust him as for his trust for me. I really, how can you have love when you have

00:35:59.320 no trust? Um, it's more like a familial love, like, uh, like he's been around so long that I've

00:36:11.220 developed, like, would you say that it's more of like a comfort thing? Yeah, absolutely. Probably

00:36:16.100 used to him. Like, so what is the point in living your life in comfortability? Like that's just seems

00:36:23.180 off. Um, you just, you're just going to be miserable. I'm not miserable though. I, I've been 0.92

00:36:32.360 cheated on by other people since then as well. And I'm just not really as worried as I used to be

00:36:39.480 when I was a teenager. Do you think that you're setting a good example for your children by staying

00:36:43.780 with a man that's consistently cheated on you and shown that he doesn't respect you? Do you think

00:36:47.720 that your boys will grow up respecting women if they've seen the way that his father treats their

00:36:52.380 mother? I think they will respect women based on what they see from their father. But what they've

00:37:01.580 seen has been cheating and it's been consistent throughout your entire relationship. They don't

00:37:05.880 know any of that. Not yet, but they're, they will come to that age where they will understand that.

00:37:10.560 Eventually. And then all of their roots will be laid down. They're not going to just one day be like,

00:37:17.400 oh, my mom, I'm finding out my mom got cheated on. Better go disrespect women. 1.00

00:37:23.340 Well, it's the fact that they see that he cheated on you and you decided to stay. So they're like,

00:37:27.980 oh, if I go cheat on my girlfriend, then maybe they'll stay.

00:37:31.340 Maybe. Well, yeah. And then that's their, that might, that's terrible. Why would you want to raise

00:37:35.740 people like that? Yo, Jay, thank you for the, um, merch purchase. Also, Dane, thank you for the 10 on

00:37:40.160 Venmo. Craig, thank you for the 20 on cash app. So I did verify, uh, you know, it wasn't,

00:37:47.240 you know, it wasn't some FBI verification, but, uh, it's either the most elaborate troll ever,

00:37:53.880 but she has photos with her and her children that are dated on the phone into like 2023, 2022.

00:38:01.720 2022. So I have to rule out that she generated these photos in like AI or chat GPT. It's possible

00:38:09.360 you can do some things with the like XF data or whatever to change the date of photos. So it's

00:38:15.760 either the most elaborate troll ever, but I'm going to go ahead. And I mean, based off what she showed

00:38:20.060 me on her phone, she showed me photos of the, you know, the, the kids are legit there. She does have

00:38:26.440 a black boyfriend, mixed race kids. I mean, this is either the most elaborate shit ever. So I'm, 1.00

00:38:33.520 it's legit. She's just brutally honest. So I, I mean, I'll congratulate her for, for that. It did

00:38:39.720 come off like a troll though. I do have to say, but I did verify it and it is, uh, to my knowledge,

00:38:46.520 legitimate. So, okay. Wow. That's quite a story. Um, off to a good start. I'd say anyways,

00:38:54.580 we'll come back to some of that stuff later. We're going to get the rest of the, uh, relationship

00:38:58.780 statuses, uh, relationship status. I'm single for life, but I mean, okay. I had a lot of like very

00:39:08.340 short term relationships, but I never, I mean, I am fairly young, I gotta say, but so I kind of didn't

00:39:16.160 have time to actually like be with someone for like a long, like five years or whatever. But I just

00:39:22.380 feel like I had like all of my relationships were three months, four months, two months, and

00:39:28.000 I've never, or maybe the person never managed to keep me. I never managed to keep a person around

00:39:36.260 me. I don't know why. They never managed to keep you or you never managed to keep them? That's what

00:39:40.660 I'm trying to find out. I don't know. Yeah. Well, you said you've had many short term. Is that what you

00:39:45.320 said? Yeah. Short term. What's the longest period of time that you've been with somebody?

00:39:51.460 Okay. I need a moment to think. Um, probably four months. Four months. And you're currently single?

00:40:01.740 Yeah. Or is there a guy in the picture?

00:40:04.960 There's like three guys in the picture. Three guys? Okay. No. Hey, we-

00:40:09.160 I'm very double-sided for this because I was just-

00:40:11.320 We appreciate the honesty. You said, okay, so three guys in the picture. Uh, what does,

00:40:16.340 what does that mean? Um, okay. Um, three guys in the picture.

00:40:23.420 One of them is currently in New York, but he likes me a lot more than I like him.

00:40:30.820 And he wants to like, he's, he was trying to move to LA to be around me because he was like,

00:40:37.660 oh, I like LA. Let me move to you or stuff like that. But I was like, um, don't be so serious

00:40:43.580 because I don't like you. And I had like false. Wait, wait, wait. You said, what? You said,

00:40:50.160 you don't like, you said, I don't like you to him. Yeah. I, okay. So I had a sense of feeling that

00:40:56.400 I did like him, but then I think that was the first time we met, but that was like last year.

00:41:03.140 Yeah. And we met for only one day and we like, because I don't live in New York. We just, I flew

00:41:08.460 there. He flew you there? No, I flew there to meet him or for something else for something else. I

00:41:14.320 think it was just a second. How did you guys meet? I just needed a place to stay. No, but how did you

00:41:19.820 meet like on a dating app or yeah? Dating update. Yeah. Hinge? No, it's like, um, Raya tender. No. Oh,

00:41:28.260 I don't use tender. Russian. I don't think. Yeah. It's like a, yeah. Telegram. Telegram.

00:41:34.140 Exactly. So he's Russian. Yeah. Oh, it's like a Russian dating app for spies. Um, creepy. So wait, 0.97

00:41:43.280 okay. So there's three guys in the picture though. Yeah. Three. Is it more four or five? How big is

00:41:49.740 a roster? How about that? Huge. Huge. Okay. Uh, what is, I mean, it's just like, I feel

00:41:58.560 like a lot of mixed signals. Like I, I, yeah. I mean, look, you, you just, you're new in

00:42:06.460 LA young. You're a actress model singer. I, okay. My main thing is a music artist. A lot

00:42:12.880 of people see me as a model. So I model like a little bit. Okay. Do these guys know that

00:42:18.240 they're on a roster? Are you honest with them? No, they, I think she's honest with

00:42:24.200 us though. And that's what matters, you know, screw the guy, but she's being honest

00:42:28.640 with us. That's what matters here. Um, so how big is the roster? 10 guys? Um, I have

00:42:34.320 to count, but okay. Are they going to watch this? Hold on. They might.

00:42:48.240 Probably like at least eight. Okay. At least eight. And then there's three that are in the

00:42:55.900 picture. Like the main picture, not the background. Okay. And are you're like, you're hooking up

00:43:01.780 with them? Well, the three, I wouldn't say it's like that serious. I mean, I can't, well,

00:43:10.220 I'm not saying it's serious, but you're, you are hooking up. Well, okay. Yeah. Having

00:43:14.660 sex. Honestly, no. With two of them? No. One of them? No. So you're not having sex with

00:43:25.940 anybody? No. But you have three guys in the picture and the roster of it. So what you're

00:43:32.600 just doing what then? I, I think, okay. Because I think I mentioned the mixed signals. Like

00:43:39.940 I think I like someone and then I start to speak to them and then I'm like, okay, no. And

00:43:46.320 then I move on to the next person. I'm also noticing something that I don't like about them

00:43:52.200 and I just can't stop. Like, I, I just have to stop. And, but they're already like into

00:43:58.820 me and I can't like get rid of them. What do you mean you can't get rid of them? Oh, uh,

00:44:05.760 Hey, Hey, it was, uh, it was really nice to meet you, but you know, I, I'm just not sure

00:44:10.240 if it's the right fit. Uh, I hope you, I wish you the best in what you're looking for.

00:44:15.400 That's it. That's all you have to say. I think I'm too insecure to like actually go

00:44:18.740 out like that and be like, Hey, you know what? Okay. All of this, it doesn't matter to me,

00:44:24.440 you know, like, bye. I can't, I like, I don't know. You don't say that, but you say, well,

00:44:27.760 that essentially what I say, Hey, listen, it was really nice meeting you. You seem like a great

00:44:31.640 person, but I don't, I just don't think it's the right fit. Um, I wish you good luck in what

00:44:35.940 you're looking for. That's in essence. That's what I, I would say. Like when I was like 14,

00:44:43.560 that's what I was. So you were more mature at 14 than you are currently. So what do you just

00:44:49.580 keep them? You string them along now, 14 communication. Hey, the Russians, you give 0.99

00:44:56.920 communication, the Americans, you string them along in your Russian honey, honeypot essentially. 0.77

00:45:03.680 Um, but okay. So, uh, the three guys who are in the picture, are any of them living in LA?

00:45:09.960 Oh yeah. Okay. And how long have they been in the picture for? Um, one of them has been in the

00:45:17.720 picture for two years. The other one has been in the picture for like half a year, maybe like six

00:45:26.900 months. Yeah. And the third one's been in the picture for three, three years. Which one's the

00:45:34.660 New York guy? The New York guy is the one that has been in the picture for a year. Wait, so you said

00:45:39.720 one year, half a year and three years? Yeah. And you all met them on dating apps? No, actually no.

00:45:47.600 How old are the guys? Um, I don't know. Hold on. I think one of them was, how old is he? Okay.

00:45:55.820 The one from New York is 23. They're not watching this. Okay. Um, the one from LA, also 23. And the

00:46:07.780 one who, who's the, who's known me for three years is, uh, 31. And how old are you again?

00:46:18.020 She's 18. Okay. So at 15, geez. Oh my God. Yikes. Uh, how did, but you were living in Arizona

00:46:24.880 three years ago, correct? Yeah. So then how,

00:46:27.980 how did a 20 at the time, I suppose he would have been what? 28. How does a 28 year old mean a 15 year

00:46:38.080 old living with her Russian parents in Arizona as a new immigrant?

00:46:42.200 Actually very weird. Okay. I was living in Arizona, but I used to fly to LA just to, I was trying to

00:46:50.740 like get, probably like get into the industry. So I was like flying back and forth. I mean,

00:46:55.980 Tucson's kind of close in like an hour flight. Yeah. It's a short flight. So just like do gigs here,

00:47:00.760 fly back and forth, um, work in LA and then fly back to Arizona, then work in LA and fly back to

00:47:06.740 Arizona. And we kind of met through, I think it was like an acting gig. Okay. Yeah. And so wait,

00:47:17.240 and just remind me, there's a one year guy, a six month guy and a three year guy. Yeah. Okay. And you

00:47:26.560 haven't had sex with any of them? No, I, I, no, I stay away from people kind of. Wait, 0.93

00:47:34.220 so yes, you have had sex with them. No, no. I'm, I'm like avoidant. Like I avoidant. Yeah. Like 0.97

00:47:41.160 so you've been, how often would you say you see these guys? Um, do you live with one of them?

00:47:49.740 No, not anymore. You were living with one in LA. I used to live with one in LA and one in New York.

00:47:57.780 So they would, the New York guy would fly you out. No, he wouldn't fly me out, but I would just say it

00:48:02.900 would be convenient because I would have a place to stay. So you would pay for your own flights

00:48:06.660 out to New York, unless you had a gig and the company paid for it. Yeah. Okay. So,

00:48:14.360 um, I'm trying to get a, a read on this. So you've had, not to mention the other men on your roster,

00:48:26.380 some of which I assume have come and gone. So at other points, maybe you had different men on the

00:48:30.820 roster, but currently the roster stands at eight. There's three guys in the picture. You've been

00:48:35.140 with three, uh, well, one of them for six months, one of them for a year, one of them for three

00:48:40.080 years. Uh, and you haven't had sex with any of them. Uh, what are they, what exactly, I guess,

00:48:50.940 what are they getting out of the relationship? I, I'm trying to, I don't know. Like, I, I guess I'm

00:48:59.180 just a nice person to be around. Yeah. But I mean, I mean, look, you're an attractive gal and I mean, 0.90

00:49:05.260 you seem pleasant, although, uh, pleasantness kind of dissipates quite quickly. If your attention is

00:49:14.460 shared, unless they're cucks, which I'm going to assume is the case because no man who's, I mean,

00:49:20.900 well, it's actually can be quite shocking what men are when they have forsaken all standards will do,

00:49:30.480 but, uh, no man should really be tolerating and dating a girl for this period of time.

00:49:36.840 And she's not exclusive to him. Hey, you're not having sex. That's okay. But you're not exclusive.

00:49:41.780 What are these guys even getting? They're just paying for your shit. 1.00

00:49:46.620 Um, well, honestly, it's more like, I don't know, for me, they feel like friends and they take it 1.00

00:49:54.900 like too serious because I just think everyone takes me too serious, but I can't be serious. I just,

00:50:01.280 I just can't make myself be serious with someone. I feel like I'm focused more on like, I don't know,

00:50:07.280 career, music. And I can't like force my whole attention on a person and like on a guy. Like

00:50:14.340 he's like, Oh, you know, like, let's do this, do that. I'm like, I, I don't know. I cannot.

00:50:20.140 Do you feel like it's more entertainment for all parties? Like you're just kind of hanging out,

00:50:26.120 you're just like, whatever, and not an actual relationship? Or are these like actual

00:50:32.040 relationships? Do these guys think that they're in an actual relationship with you?

00:50:37.180 I, okay. They think they are in their actual relationship, but I don't trust them.

00:50:44.440 So you didn't necessarily establish what they're going to get out of this at the start. Like you

00:50:50.640 say at this, when you meet them, you're like, Hey, I'm not interested in this or that. I'm just

00:50:55.700 trying to do me or whatever. Have you like ever had that conversation? I never stated that because

00:51:03.700 I'm not clear with myself or like, I can't scan myself and say, okay, you know, like I, I know

00:51:08.400 that I'm not going to be paying attention to you. So bye. That's also not an option because I never

00:51:13.980 know. Maybe someone comes around and I like feel something and I'm like, wow, okay, let's date.

00:51:19.920 Are they aware that you're dating other men? No. So wait, wait, hold on. Are you telling them that

00:51:28.540 you're boyfriend, girlfriend to the guys, the three guys or whatever? Yeah. I mean, two, two of them.

00:51:40.260 Do you guys kiss? Do you guys do anything? We kiss. Yeah. We kiss. I do want to say there are men

00:51:46.200 out there that are open to a polygamist relationship and you can be honest with them

00:51:51.900 and just have that if that's what you want instead of lying. Because in general, I think that like we

00:51:59.940 attract who we are. And so you're only going to keep attracting people that are also like probably

00:52:04.820 lying to you about something. And at the end of the day, it can end up putting you in a bad space.

00:52:10.680 Honestly, that made sense. I have to think about that because I, I think I just have like huge

00:52:20.280 trust issues. Like I cannot, like I can have a person like around me, but I could never let them

00:52:26.440 like actually, I don't know, like if they want to have sex with me, it's a, it's a whole different

00:52:32.480 thing. Like I'm going to look at them from a different aspect and I'm going to probably like

00:52:39.060 give them time or just wait. I mean, do you have, do you have sex with any of these guys? 0.91

00:52:45.780 Not recently. I mean, no. Well, okay. So there's the three guys. Have you, maybe you're not having

00:52:53.520 sex with them currently, which is curious, but have you had sex with them at some point? 0.93

00:52:59.060 Not with those. Not with the three, but then men who are transient on your roster, 0.65

00:53:06.080 you have had sex with? Yeah. So just to be clear, the men who are, seem most serious about you, 0.94

00:53:16.000 who have been with you despite your divided attention for six months, one year, three years,

00:53:21.900 they don't get sex, but there are men who just get it instantly or quick. Is that mine?

00:53:30.860 Honestly? Yeah. Oh, okay. Yeah. That sounds like, like, have you had a, like with a, have you had a

00:53:35.900 hookup with like a hot dude or something? Yeah. Hookups in LA with hot guys, celebrities? Yeah.

00:53:42.360 Okay. Honestly, no, not, not in like, I had one in Vegas, but not in. With a celebrity or just a guy

00:53:53.560 who was hot? He's not so much of a, well, maybe like a partial celebrity. I don't know how to like

00:54:01.360 think of it. Athlete, musician, actor, YouTuber, creator, musician, musician, rapper. Kind of. Yeah.

00:54:09.240 Yeah. Hold on. Let me play this. Sorry for the delay, Matt. And then we'll get right back into it.

00:54:13.680 Metro Matt donated $200. FBI and CIA rubbing their hands together watching this show.

00:54:20.660 Chair 2, how have you only lived in the U.S. two years but known someone for three?

00:54:25.700 Brian, call ice on this trollop.

00:54:28.760 Wait, so just for the timeline, as a reminder, you moved to the United States when you were 16?

00:54:34.900 16. Um.

00:54:35.980 So you've been here for?

00:54:36.960 Let's do the math. So I'm 18, but my birthday is in three, two and a half months, so I'm almost 19.

00:54:45.400 Hold on. That means I made a mistake in my, all right, I moved. Okay, let's be clear, everyone.

00:54:52.120 What year did you move to the United States?

00:54:56.100 2023.

00:54:58.080 2023. Okay.

00:54:59.440 It was September-ish.

00:55:01.120 Okay. Uh, yeah.

00:55:07.100 And the New York guy is the three-year guy?

00:55:10.140 No.

00:55:10.760 Or, wait, I don't know.

00:55:13.880 So, okay, wait, hold on. September 2023?

00:55:16.440 Is this, like, legit? Or are you just making this shit up? 1.00

00:55:19.740 Okay. Um. 1.00

00:55:25.220 A lot to keep up with.

00:55:26.520 That's a lot of details.

00:55:29.080 Um.

00:55:31.460 I'm just shocked that

00:55:32.840 these guys you allege have been dating you for a year, three years, six months,

00:55:43.400 that they, are you, uh, have you told them that you're a virgin?

00:55:51.540 Uh, uh, I'm not a virgin.

00:55:53.880 No, but have you told them that? Like, you know?

00:55:57.780 No. Oh, honestly? No. Probably not.

00:56:01.280 Oh, okay. 1.00

00:56:04.800 Damn. Okay. All right. Uh, well, uh, I'll have some further thoughts on that in a moment, 1.00

00:56:10.340 but first I want to let everybody else introduce their, or share their relationship status.

00:56:15.900 What about you?

00:56:16.940 I'm single.

00:56:18.820 For how long?

00:56:19.660 Um.

00:56:21.120 For about two years now.

00:56:23.480 Longest relationship?

00:56:25.040 Was two years, about.

00:56:27.240 You broke up with who?

00:56:29.020 Um.

00:56:30.200 We were, like, on and off in those two years.

00:56:33.420 So, um, the ultimate, like, off period was done by me, though.

00:56:38.320 Gotcha. All right.

00:56:39.360 So, you've been single for two years. Any guys in the picture?

00:56:42.580 Um.

00:56:43.740 Talking to?

00:56:45.520 Situationship?

00:56:46.300 Yeah, there's one.

00:56:47.600 One guy? Talking stage?

00:56:49.420 Kind of.

00:56:50.060 Situationship?

00:56:50.320 Talking stage-ish.

00:56:51.640 Like, in the very beginning.

00:56:52.980 How long?

00:56:54.060 Like, literally very beginning. Like, a week-ish.

00:56:56.980 You've been talking to him for one week?

00:56:58.740 We've been talking for more than a week as friends,

00:57:01.620 but we've been, like, talking to be more than friends for a week.

00:57:05.940 Gotcha. What about you?

00:57:07.400 Um, I am single soon seven months now.

00:57:13.460 Okay. Longest relationship?

00:57:15.220 A year.

00:57:16.140 Is that the one that ended seven months ago?

00:57:18.140 Yeah.

00:57:18.640 Who broke up with who?

00:57:19.720 He did. He broke up with me.

00:57:21.460 Why's that?

00:57:21.880 Um, he said that it was a distance thing.

00:57:27.600 We were a long-distance relationship.

00:57:29.400 Okay.

00:57:29.660 He lived in, he lives in Massachusetts.

00:57:31.760 I live in Jersey, and he couldn't, he didn't have enough patience to wait for me to save up a little bit more so that I could move to Massachusetts with him.

00:57:43.560 Uh-huh.

00:57:44.040 And, uh, there were, I think, like, us being freelancers in the film and TV industry, it's being tough right now.

00:57:52.320 I, I think he kind of took his frustrations out of struggling with work out on our relationship, and, um, he just didn't want to step out of his comfort zone.

00:58:04.620 All right. Gotcha.

00:58:05.800 Uh, you've been single for seven months.

00:58:07.500 Any guys in the picture in any capacity?

00:58:10.540 Uh, not, not really.

00:58:12.220 It's been a little tough, uh, just because I'm, I'm trying to move on.

00:58:17.300 Have you had a rebound?

00:58:19.540 Yeah.

00:58:20.740 Okay.

00:58:21.360 Is he in the picture?

00:58:22.480 No.

00:58:23.360 Okay.

00:58:24.000 Yeah, I made it clear from the get-go that I'm not looking for anything.

00:58:28.420 Gotcha.

00:58:28.800 What about you?

00:58:30.280 Um, I'm married.

00:58:31.940 We've been married for two years, together for three.

00:58:34.980 How many kids?

00:58:35.900 Two.

00:58:37.020 Both with him?

00:58:37.880 Yes.

00:58:38.300 Okay.

00:58:38.700 We have a 20-month-old and an 8-month-old.

00:58:41.180 Gotcha.

00:58:41.500 What about you?

00:58:43.160 I am single, as a Pringle, and, um, I've been single for almost two years.

00:58:51.180 Longest relationship?

00:58:52.760 Um, two and a half years.

00:58:55.340 Is that the one that ended two years ago?

00:58:57.260 No, it was my first ever relationship, was two and a half years.

00:59:00.460 How long was the relationship two years ago?

00:59:03.680 Eight months.

00:59:04.880 Eight months.

00:59:05.260 Who broke up with who?

00:59:06.140 I broke up with him.

00:59:07.080 Longest relationship, who broke up with who?

00:59:09.560 Uh, I think I broke up with him as well.

00:59:11.340 I was really young.

00:59:12.460 Okay.

00:59:13.400 Uh, you've been single for two years.

00:59:15.140 Any guys in the picture since or in that time period?

00:59:18.760 Uh, I've gone on dates.

00:59:19.820 I've kind of chit-chatted, hung out with guys, um, short fling, seeing if it works.

00:59:27.900 Um, I was with a guy not really in a full-on relationship, um, whenever, I was living in

00:59:35.440 Southeast Asia and we split and ended up, we knew it wasn't going to be a relationship

00:59:39.800 relationship because we were both, uh, expats in Bali and then we were splitting, going

00:59:45.740 our separate ways.

00:59:46.800 But we hung out, really liked each other and it was really good.

00:59:49.300 And then I recently was talking to someone for about a month or so and we went on a very

00:59:56.960 long date and then come to find out it just personality wise and kind of what we wanted

01:00:02.000 out of life just didn't mesh.

01:00:04.180 Uh, give us the quick story.

01:00:05.200 When you say very long date, what do you mean?

01:00:07.480 Uh, it was an 11 day long date.

01:00:11.260 Hold on.

01:00:12.100 What?

01:00:12.580 11 days?

01:00:13.460 11 days.

01:00:14.160 So you didn't leave each other for 11 days?

01:00:16.500 Yeah.

01:00:16.960 I ended up spending, uh, Thanksgiving with his family and also his dad's birthday with

01:00:22.820 him and his family.

01:00:23.980 Okay.

01:00:24.780 Uh, and you look at his house all this time.

01:00:29.120 No, we, so, okay.

01:00:30.500 So he still lives at home with his parents.

01:00:32.640 Um, and.

01:00:33.840 And, uh, yeah, he's a couple of years older than me.

01:00:38.540 Um, but we got a hotel like Airbnb situation and we stayed there.

01:00:44.200 I, this was on my tour from, I was driving from Texas to LA, just moved to LA and I stopped

01:00:51.340 in Vegas to visit him and we were supposed to just go on a date and then it was okay.

01:00:56.220 Three days.

01:00:56.920 And then it was five days.

01:00:58.660 And then it was just kept on adding and adding and adding.

01:01:02.220 Um, and I didn't have anywhere to go for Thanksgiving.

01:01:04.600 I was going to spend Thanksgiving by myself.

01:01:06.220 So we just extended for me to spend Thanksgiving with his family.

01:01:10.720 And, um, basically at the end of it, um, yeah, I just didn't, I didn't feel the, oh my God,

01:01:17.760 I'm obsessed to see you like I did whenever we were talking over the phone and I'd met

01:01:21.640 him before several times.

01:01:23.060 He had hired me as a photographer that I worked with and I'm friends with a sister and it's

01:01:27.400 very kind of complex, but, um.

01:01:30.360 Wait, you, so when you first were speaking to him on the phone, you guys met on the dating

01:01:34.460 app or something or.

01:01:35.560 No, no.

01:01:36.120 So he, so I've known him and his sister, his sister is a model and a makeup artist and

01:01:39.860 he's a photographer.

01:01:40.840 Okay.

01:01:41.120 So like industry, you work together.

01:01:42.640 Yeah.

01:01:42.980 We met on a shoot about three years ago and then he'd hired me whenever I toured LA and

01:01:48.560 then I met him again on another shoot that his sister was doing my hair and makeup for.

01:01:54.340 Okay.

01:01:54.840 Um, and he was there shooting and learning from the photographer that was shooting us.

01:01:58.900 And, um, we just like seemed to really click in that moment.

01:02:01.800 But whenever we spent 11 days together, we were not clicking, not clicking.

01:02:08.000 Well, um, hold on.

01:02:11.020 You said when you spoke to him on the phone, you, at that point in that moment, you, you

01:02:15.640 felt obsessed.

01:02:17.020 Yeah.

01:02:17.520 So we were, uh, so, okay, let me back up a little bit, give you some more details here.

01:02:22.180 So we, October 6th, I had my shoot, right?

01:02:25.460 Yes.

01:02:25.740 I talk with my hands.

01:02:26.700 I cannot sit on my hands and talk.

01:02:28.460 She does the bird claw. 0.96

01:02:29.700 The bird claw.

01:02:30.240 I love it.

01:02:30.880 The hen peck thing. 0.98

01:02:31.800 Um, my mom makes fun of me for doing that as well.

01:02:34.880 So, um, I'll have to let her know that someone else did that.

01:02:38.420 W mom.

01:02:39.920 Yeah.

01:02:40.340 So October 6th, um, we saw each other at a shoot again and we had been just kind of like

01:02:45.620 chit chatty back and forth on Instagram a little bit.

01:02:48.020 And he's really funny.

01:02:49.540 He's a super, super funny guy.

01:02:50.740 And we have the same sense of humor.

01:02:51.880 And so I was joking with him about like, okay, you have to make me laugh all day on set.

01:02:56.080 And so then we were giggly all day on set.

01:02:59.260 And then I was like, I think I have a crush on you.

01:03:01.440 And he was like, yeah, I'm smitten.

01:03:02.840 The feelings mutual.

01:03:03.760 You said that in person?

01:03:04.960 No, I said that after I left.

01:03:06.200 I sent him a message.

01:03:07.100 Oh, you texted him.

01:03:07.580 I did.

01:03:08.080 Yeah.

01:03:09.060 And, um, I was like, okay, but I'm really good friends with your sister.

01:03:11.840 I have to ask your sister first if like, this is okay.

01:03:14.880 If we go on a date.

01:03:16.000 And so I texted her and she was like, oh my gosh, I ship you two.

01:03:18.600 Absolutely.

01:03:18.920 Because I know that if you end up not really liking him or something that you'll tell him

01:03:23.180 and be honest.

01:03:24.220 So I'm, I'm a very transparent person and she knows that.

01:03:27.100 Um, okay.

01:03:28.280 So you spoke on the phone.

01:03:29.540 So for a month before we got to, we scheduled out our date a month ahead.

01:03:33.840 And so we were just talking on the phone until I got to Vegas.

01:03:36.720 How often would you talk on the phone?

01:03:38.020 Every day, all day long.

01:03:39.040 Oh my God.

01:03:39.720 Yikes.

01:03:40.200 Every day, all day long.

01:03:41.340 And so we thought it was a really good match because of this.

01:03:44.400 Ew.

01:03:44.600 That's so, I'm sorry.

01:03:45.620 Sorry, sorry.

01:03:47.660 Every, you guys talked on the phone?

01:03:49.840 Uh, texted and spoke on the phone.

01:03:51.440 Yeah.

01:03:51.640 Mostly texted.

01:03:52.200 Well, you texted and how often would you like multiple texts per day?

01:03:55.120 Yeah.

01:03:56.900 How often would you speak on, or how long would you speak on the phone for?

01:04:00.120 Um, sometimes just a couple minutes and sometimes like an hour or two, depending.

01:04:05.420 Every day for a month?

01:04:06.620 No, we didn't talk on the phone, physically pick up the phone and call every day.

01:04:10.680 I don't have time for that.

01:04:12.100 Okay.

01:04:12.400 But you did have, you'd, didn't you say you spoke on the phone every day?

01:04:17.620 Uh, my bad.

01:04:18.880 Let me rephrase it.

01:04:19.660 We texted.

01:04:20.580 You texted and called.

01:04:21.860 And sometimes called.

01:04:23.740 Okay.

01:04:23.880 So you called a couple of times.

01:04:25.060 Yeah.

01:04:25.280 I called a couple of times.

01:04:26.000 Okay.

01:04:26.620 We did a FaceTime call.

01:04:28.200 Um, yeah.

01:04:28.900 And we were both like super excited and we seemed like it was going to be great.

01:04:31.520 We also wrote letters to each other, physical letters to each other, which was adorable

01:04:34.880 because I made a joke about.

01:04:36.600 Like emails or actual. 1.00

01:04:37.940 No, actual handwritten mail that shit. 1.00

01:04:40.380 Did you do cursive? 1.00

01:04:42.000 Um.

01:04:42.560 Do they still teach cursive?

01:04:43.640 I don't think so.

01:04:44.560 They don't, I don't think they still teach it, but yes.

01:04:46.280 Does anybody here know how to write cursive?

01:04:47.840 I do.

01:04:48.300 Yeah.

01:04:48.520 Yeah.

01:04:48.840 Yeah.

01:04:48.960 I thought they, didn't they get rid of it?

01:04:50.560 I don't know.

01:04:51.100 They did.

01:04:51.560 I know how to write cursive.

01:04:52.740 All right.

01:04:53.560 But.

01:04:53.800 So, okay.

01:04:54.360 You wrote letters.

01:04:55.360 Wow.

01:04:55.680 That's a lot.

01:04:56.580 Hold on.

01:04:56.920 I have to play in the noise for this.

01:04:58.320 I don't know, man.

01:04:59.160 That sounds like a lot of work.

01:05:02.160 It was a lot of work and we were both very excited.

01:05:05.020 Can I ask the panel a question really quick and I'll let you finish your story, but I don't

01:05:08.860 know if this makes me a terrible person.

01:05:11.360 I could be smitten.

01:05:14.520 I could be head over heels with a girl. 0.92

01:05:17.320 I don't think I'd even want to talk to her as frequently.

01:05:19.540 Like I could, this could be like the girl of my dreams and I'd still be like, ah, get

01:05:25.000 away from me a little bit.

01:05:25.820 You know, I don't know if that makes me a bad person, but like I need a bit of space.

01:05:31.100 Like even if I really liked the girl, like I'm not going to be all up on her like that.

01:05:35.960 Like, I don't know.

01:05:37.440 I don't know.

01:05:38.200 My husband and I, when we started talking, we really only talked like every third day.

01:05:42.540 Good.

01:05:43.080 Like we just, I'm horrible at answering and texting and you know.

01:05:49.540 We just would talk every third day.

01:05:52.420 We didn't have to talk every single day.

01:05:53.680 I like the girl to respond immediately to me, but she needs to give me 72 hours. 0.99

01:05:59.040 That's the dynamic that I like.

01:06:01.180 I don't think you can expect a woman to simp for you, but also like only text them once 1.00

01:06:06.040 every three days.

01:06:07.580 Oh, you can definitely.

01:06:08.740 A simpy woman is going to obsess with you, right? 1.00

01:06:11.920 She can obsess. 1.00

01:06:12.720 That's frequent.

01:06:13.800 At a safe distance.

01:06:15.680 Then it's not obsessed.

01:06:17.120 Well, no, no, no.

01:06:18.000 I don't want like stock or obsessed, but I want like, oh yeah, I got you.

01:06:23.920 Like it's okay.

01:06:24.980 Yeah.

01:06:25.580 That's what I want.

01:06:26.320 But anyway, sorry, not to make it about me, but your story, your story.

01:06:31.500 Uh, okay.

01:06:32.420 So then you go on the, you, you meet them and then 11 days, 11 days.

01:06:37.580 Yeah.

01:06:38.620 Um, so it was a lot.

01:06:40.360 And I think what happened was there was just a lot of buildup to this.

01:06:43.520 There was a lot of excitement for whatever reason.

01:06:46.180 Like I love his family.

01:06:47.040 I love his sister.

01:06:47.680 So there was a lot of, you know, daydreaming going on.

01:06:50.760 And I'm, I'm a romantic and I watch a lot of Hallmark movies.

01:06:54.620 Um, Oh, you saw me, you saw me going for the screen deck.

01:07:01.400 Go for it.

01:07:02.040 I don't know what I was going to play.

01:07:03.540 I love him too.

01:07:04.460 It's okay.

01:07:04.980 Uh, okay.

01:07:05.680 Continue.

01:07:06.140 I didn't find it in time.

01:07:07.380 Um, so yeah, I think that there was just a way too much.

01:07:10.460 And we both agree.

01:07:11.160 Like we talked about it.

01:07:12.060 There's way too much buildup.

01:07:13.340 And in person, like he, I guess I'm typically that way.

01:07:18.300 I'm typically don't text me so much.

01:07:20.380 Don't text me all the time.

01:07:21.220 I don't have time for this.

01:07:22.300 I'm not going to text you every day, all day long.

01:07:24.280 And I did with him.

01:07:25.260 So I thought that was a good sign, but in person, I'm not really like that in person.

01:07:29.920 I'm very much like, okay, don't you have something else to go do?

01:07:34.060 Because I do.

01:07:35.460 And, um, so he, he didn't have something else to go do.

01:07:39.800 And I was kind of like, nah.

01:07:42.020 And then he was like, no.

01:07:43.800 And I was like, nah.

01:07:44.740 And he didn't really like that because he actually is like that, um, wants to be that

01:07:51.660 close and a little bit more.

01:07:54.440 He wants to, yeah.

01:07:56.020 And I'm days in a row at the beginning.

01:07:57.860 It was, it was a lot.

01:07:59.220 It really was a lot.

01:08:00.180 And I'm like spending Thanksgiving with his family, but his family was really sweet.

01:08:03.860 And like, yeah, there was just, it was, you had to meet the parents.

01:08:07.740 That should be like three years in meeting the parents.

01:08:10.640 I don't want to meet your parents.

01:08:12.220 Until we have kids.

01:08:14.420 We can have kids.

01:08:15.480 Then I can meet your parents.

01:08:16.300 I want, that needs to be delayed as long as possible.

01:08:19.220 I had kids a few months in.

01:08:21.060 Good for you.

01:08:22.840 My kind of girl.

01:08:23.860 But, uh, look, that's okay.

01:08:26.720 But it seems like you were the one who needed a bit of space.

01:08:29.300 And then this was just overwhelming.

01:08:31.200 The 11 days.

01:08:32.820 I mean, but you guys were having fun.

01:08:34.620 Like, I mean, hooking up, I'm assuming. 0.63

01:08:36.960 Uh, yeah, we did have sex twice.

01:08:38.960 And then. 0.87

01:08:39.360 Oh my.

01:08:40.360 Only twice?

01:08:41.260 Yeah.

01:08:41.580 In 11 days?

01:08:42.500 Yeah.

01:08:42.740 Only twice.

01:08:43.080 Like, like you weren't feeling it?

01:08:45.740 He wasn't?

01:08:46.140 What was going on?

01:08:46.840 Um, more me.

01:08:48.620 More I wasn't feeling it.

01:08:50.280 Um, I'm.

01:08:50.940 What's the breakdown?

01:08:51.920 The breakdown is.

01:08:52.900 Day one?

01:08:53.640 Sex? 0.93

01:08:54.340 We did.

01:08:54.980 We did.

01:08:55.540 Which I think was a bad idea.

01:08:57.020 Looking back.

01:08:57.780 That's totally fine.

01:08:58.500 I'm fine with that.

01:08:59.040 Well, no, I think it was a bad idea for our dynamic.

01:09:01.280 Because what we should have done is have more conversation.

01:09:04.280 Because I think.

01:09:04.740 You guys were.

01:09:05.020 You guys hung out for 11 days.

01:09:06.620 I know.

01:09:06.940 I know.

01:09:07.640 But day one, we should have had more conversation.

01:09:09.900 Because what ended up happening is day, like, two and a half.

01:09:12.620 Like, two and a half days in.

01:09:14.180 We, like, could not have a conversation in person.

01:09:17.000 And we were driving.

01:09:17.920 I needed more skin care products.

01:09:19.660 And we found a place that was carrying it.

01:09:21.300 So, he was driving me to the med spa where they had my skin care.

01:09:24.980 And I just started breaking down crying. 0.99

01:09:26.560 And I was like, what the fuck is going on? 0.99

01:09:28.780 Like, what is going on here? 0.99

01:09:29.840 We're not having a conversation.

01:09:31.380 Like, I feel like I've been here for, you know, two and a half days already.

01:09:34.540 And, like, we're not really connecting.

01:09:36.240 And, like, I don't.

01:09:37.860 Like, we're sitting at coffee.

01:09:38.880 And it's just kind of like, tee-hee-ha.

01:09:41.140 Like, we can talk work.

01:09:42.280 But, like, getting into the personal nitty-gritty just wasn't happening.

01:09:45.700 It was really weird.

01:09:46.620 Maybe your expectations were too high because of all the communicating and all the kind of obsession beforehand.

01:09:52.620 That's exactly what happened.

01:09:54.080 Yes.

01:09:54.720 Hold on.

01:09:55.340 So, okay.

01:09:56.880 When it happens on day one, don't you feel like it's not going to be real after that?

01:10:03.160 Because...

01:10:03.440 Fake news.

01:10:04.580 Fake news.

01:10:05.220 Fake news.

01:10:06.340 What do you mean?

01:10:07.920 The sex.

01:10:08.640 If you hook up to a thing. 0.95

01:10:09.400 The sex happens on the first day.

01:10:10.840 Like, that's a bad sign.

01:10:13.000 I think that's a bad sign.

01:10:14.100 Yeah.

01:10:14.420 I don't necessarily think so.

01:10:17.580 Because we knew each other for so long.

01:10:20.720 And we'd been talking for about a month by the time I got there.

01:10:24.720 And I think if you're two consenting adults and, you know, you're decently stable in the head, you understand that, like, okay, you can do that.

01:10:32.560 And it doesn't mean that there's going to be any repercussions as whenever I was dating and I was younger than, like, sex off the bat, yes.

01:10:39.460 Or, like, first night, first day that I meet you.

01:10:41.540 Like, yeah, I don't think that's necessarily going to go anywhere.

01:10:44.620 But that's not always the case.

01:10:46.520 My friends Savannah and Dylan, shout out, you guys.

01:10:49.520 Love y'all.

01:10:49.940 Um, they pretty much did that.

01:10:53.300 And, um, they've been together two and a half years and they're about to buy a house together.

01:10:57.620 So, okay, first day you guys hook up.

01:10:59.960 And then when was, you said it happened twice.

01:11:02.080 When was the second time?

01:11:04.080 I think maybe four or five days after that we did again.

01:11:09.560 You spent 11 days together?

01:11:15.680 Yeah.

01:11:15.880 I don't know.

01:11:16.240 I feel like you got to, that.

01:11:18.220 Okay.

01:11:18.600 But so the second day y'all were driving in the car and it was silent.

01:11:23.320 There was silence and you didn't like it.

01:11:25.240 Well, I think that's fine.

01:11:26.680 That's fine.

01:11:27.460 Silence is fine.

01:11:27.900 I'm focused on the road.

01:11:29.320 Let me drive.

01:11:29.980 No, no, no, no.

01:11:30.260 It wasn't, it wasn't that.

01:11:31.460 It wasn't that we were silent while driving.

01:11:33.680 It was that at dinner, uh, while we were hanging out in the apartment while we were driving,

01:11:38.740 while we were sitting and having coffee, all of these things, like the conversation just

01:11:42.580 was not flowing naturally.

01:11:44.940 And that tells me that something's off or also what I broke down is he was extremely

01:11:50.220 nervous.

01:11:50.600 I'm not a nervous person.

01:11:52.400 And so I think that that kind of that personality difference wasn't meshing very well.

01:11:59.620 And I was like, what's the problem here?

01:12:03.100 Like, let's just have a conversation.

01:12:04.720 Like what?

01:12:05.520 It was just weird.

01:12:06.640 It was like, we were sitting there and it was, the silence was awkward.

01:12:09.020 It was not comfortable.

01:12:11.300 But did he, did he agree with your assessment?

01:12:14.540 Like when you brought up, Hey, there's a problem.

01:12:19.720 Did, was he like, Oh no, I think everything's fine.

01:12:22.940 No, he agreed.

01:12:23.980 Oh, he agreed.

01:12:24.560 We were on the same page.

01:12:25.740 We were on the same page.

01:12:26.360 And that was the second day you guys had that convo?

01:12:28.460 Two and a half days.

01:12:29.240 You guys got cut your losses 11 days.

01:12:30.720 Then you proceeded to hang out for another nine days.

01:12:32.960 You got to cut your losses.

01:12:34.240 The hotel was already booked or the Airbnb or whatever.

01:12:38.900 It was a Palms in Vegas.

01:12:40.760 So it's like the hotel, Airbnb apartment thing.

01:12:44.500 Wait, you booked 11 days?

01:12:48.420 Yeah.

01:12:49.520 I think that's an impulsive move.

01:12:52.100 Impulsive.

01:12:53.020 Yeah.

01:12:53.420 I think the, you know, 48 hours, the first, like maybe, you know, there was some distance,

01:13:00.700 right between you two during the 11 days.

01:13:03.340 Well, like you guys didn't live in the same city, right?

01:13:06.460 No, there was a lot.

01:13:07.420 Yeah.

01:13:07.660 So I was living in Texas and then my tour from Texas to LA, cause I drove was a month, nearly

01:13:14.800 a month long.

01:13:16.140 Okay.

01:13:16.540 So I stopped in other major cities, um, and booked work with clients and stuff for like

01:13:21.300 the last time that I was going to be there for a while.

01:13:23.180 And then drove to, yeah, I think you got to, for that first one, that first one, like if

01:13:30.840 you guys are in different cities, 11 days, that's a, that's a commitment.

01:13:34.780 That's a lot.

01:13:35.720 I think 48 hours is good for a first time.

01:13:38.260 That's what we were planning to begin with.

01:13:40.340 Second time, 72.

01:13:41.440 And then if it's really good, then maybe you can go for a week, 11 days on the first

01:13:46.660 go though, too much.

01:13:48.200 It wasn't, it wasn't the initial plan, but it's what happened.

01:13:51.920 And I, I think in the end it was good because we realized that after 11 days, we still were

01:13:56.940 like not really clicking the way that we should have been.

01:14:00.760 Um, so we were able to kind of end it after that.

01:14:04.460 I did go on, um, I, uh, a client flew me to Vegas for work, for booking.

01:14:11.440 And we went on one more date, a second date, a regular date.

01:14:14.400 I told him the regular date this time, just like go out to dinner, like normal people.

01:14:18.120 And he agreed.

01:14:19.520 And he took me to a really nice spot and we had a delicious dinner and then still it was

01:14:24.240 kind of the same.

01:14:24.920 So we decided that we're just not going to go on another date.

01:14:27.680 After the, this was a separate trip after the 11 days in a row.

01:14:33.280 Was there no chemistry in the bedroom also?

01:14:36.080 Not really.

01:14:38.440 I have a question actually.

01:14:39.860 Was he more talkative like the first day before you had sex or was it just silent as

01:14:45.800 well?

01:14:46.740 He was more talkative in general over the phone.

01:14:51.820 Oh.

01:14:52.840 And in person he's, he was a lot more quiet.

01:14:56.020 Some people are like, yeah.

01:14:57.720 Okay.

01:14:59.000 Relationship status?

01:15:00.360 Single.

01:15:01.500 Longest relationship?

01:15:02.420 Oh, I think it was like a year and a half coming on two years.

01:15:07.480 Year and a half.

01:15:09.300 How long have you been single for?

01:15:15.180 We broke up of June, 2024.

01:15:19.360 Year, a year and a half ago then?

01:15:21.160 Yeah.

01:15:21.520 I've had like talking stages since then, but they've all failed.

01:15:26.340 They've all failed.

01:15:27.160 Is there currently a talking stage situation ship?

01:15:30.280 Anything in the picture?

01:15:31.500 Nope.

01:15:32.620 When's the most recent there's been anything in the picture?

01:15:37.280 Like a week ago it ended.

01:15:41.340 How long were you seeing that guy?

01:15:44.200 So we were talking, we were just like texting back and forth for a couple weeks and then

01:15:50.200 I actually saw him in Utah and he decided that I wasn't what he wanted because I wasn't

01:15:58.580 a member of the LDS church.

01:16:01.440 Oh, okay.

01:16:02.040 You're a Mormon, although you don't like that term anymore.

01:16:05.680 Is that correct?

01:16:06.640 I'm sorry?

01:16:07.580 Mormon.

01:16:08.040 It doesn't matter.

01:16:08.600 I heard they don't like the Mormon term anymore.

01:16:12.640 They prefer Latter Day.

01:16:16.480 Latter Day Saints.

01:16:17.700 Yeah.

01:16:17.900 Okay.

01:16:18.360 So you're a member of the church?

01:16:20.700 Not currently, no.

01:16:22.120 Oh, you got excommunicated?

01:16:26.220 No.

01:16:26.820 No, I've never joined.

01:16:28.320 Oh, wait.

01:16:29.060 Hold on.

01:16:29.600 I'm just Christian.

01:16:31.800 Wait, am I misunderstanding here?

01:16:34.040 He didn't want to date me because I was an active member of the church.

01:16:38.140 Oh, I'm sorry.

01:16:39.260 I misunderstood.

01:16:40.640 I thought you were the, okay, I apologize.

01:16:42.760 That's what he said.

01:16:43.480 Actually, he texted me.

01:16:45.080 He didn't want to date you.

01:16:46.340 He was Mormon.

01:16:47.440 Yeah.

01:16:48.000 And he didn't want to date you because you weren't Mormon.

01:16:49.800 Okay.

01:16:50.160 I understand.

01:16:50.980 Well, I think, I don't think it was that reason.

01:16:53.180 I don't think he was like completely honest with me maybe because he first started with,

01:16:58.300 I just don't miss you.

01:17:00.620 And so maybe he just didn't.

01:17:02.200 Had you guys hooked up?

01:17:03.480 No.

01:17:04.140 Nothing?

01:17:04.780 No.

01:17:05.860 Oh, okay.

01:17:08.760 All right.

01:17:09.540 But that's the most recent thing anyways.

01:17:13.180 Yeah.

01:17:13.400 This Mormon dude. 0.96

01:17:14.860 Mm-hmm.

01:17:16.160 All right.

01:17:16.740 You said you were in a two-year relationship.

01:17:19.800 You're a Christian though, right?

01:17:21.180 Yes.

01:17:21.540 What denomination?

01:17:22.740 Non-denominational.

01:17:24.000 Non-denominational.

01:17:25.560 Okay.

01:17:26.540 How does your Christianity inform your relationship pursuits?

01:17:30.560 Every, in every aspect possible.

01:17:32.700 Are you waiting until marriage?

01:17:33.760 Yes.

01:17:34.340 Are you a virgin?

01:17:35.860 I don't want to talk about my body on a podcast.

01:17:40.380 You don't want, well, it's not about your body necessarily.

01:17:42.860 It would be past behavior, but I'll take that as a no then.

01:17:46.320 Okay, that's.

01:17:47.720 You are waiting until marriage then?

01:17:49.220 Yes.

01:17:49.560 How long have you been waiting until marriage for?

01:17:51.500 Or for?

01:17:52.360 This isn't, I'm sorry, but this is not something that I.

01:17:56.600 Yeah, this is just one circumstance that I don't want to talk about.

01:17:59.900 Because as a godly woman, I don't think that talking about my body like that on a podcast is glorifying God in any way.

01:18:08.000 Well, it would be the truth, right?

01:18:09.440 Isn't speaking the truth glorifying God?

01:18:12.720 Yeah, in an aspect.

01:18:13.940 But when it comes to, I mean, we, in the Bible, it talks about how our bodies are temples.

01:18:18.560 And so you shouldn't be, like, I just shouldn't be talking about that for hundreds of thousands of people to hear.

01:18:25.360 Well, I don't think that there would be any actual Christian, I understand, like, by the way, you don't have to share if you don't want to.

01:18:32.200 But I don't think there's anything, biblically speaking, or that would preclude or prevent a Christian woman, aside from her own preference, of course, which is valid.

01:18:43.160 But there's no Christian component to not sharing that.

01:18:50.340 Just want to be clear on that.

01:18:51.640 I think it's completely inappropriate and unclassy for a woman to talk about their, people, like, people they've had sex with, if they're a virgin or not. 1.00

01:18:59.380 I don't think it matters.

01:19:00.180 I think it's super inappropriate.

01:19:04.540 How do you feel about being here?

01:19:06.820 How do I feel about being here?

01:19:07.860 Yeah.

01:19:08.800 In what way?

01:19:09.400 I mean, like, what's your point, like, from what you stated, because that's like, I mean, we speak a lot about that.

01:19:15.940 I was just like, I think she was like, did you know what you were going, going, going into signing up for this?

01:19:21.840 Yeah, it doesn't make me uncomfortable with you guys talking about it.

01:19:23.900 Okay.

01:19:24.560 Cool.

01:19:24.840 If that's what you mean.

01:19:25.480 Yeah.

01:19:25.740 No.

01:19:27.060 Yeah.

01:19:27.240 I mean, you obviously you, if you don't have, by the way, you don't have to like speak about specific sex acts.

01:19:33.080 But I don't think, for example, even on a podcast, even in public, a Christian woman saying whether or not she's a virgin and leaving at that, I don't need to know sexual graphic details, but just simply stating whether you're a virgin or not. 0.67

01:19:51.080 I don't think that this would be in any sort at all in contravention of Christian ethics or Christian morality.

01:19:58.760 But do you think it is?

01:20:00.380 I do.

01:20:01.260 Yeah.

01:20:01.500 Because I think that when it comes to your body talking about if you're a virgin or not, or if you're waiting for marriage or not, I think that's completely between you and God and your husband or wife, not between you and everybody else on this planet.

01:20:17.360 Okay.

01:20:17.840 Um, so is this something you would discuss with a boyfriend then who might be asking these questions from you?

01:20:22.440 Yes, but not hundreds of thousands of people.

01:20:25.060 Well, not even a boyfriend.

01:20:26.660 Would you, let's say you were going to go on a date with a guy.

01:20:30.060 Would you tell him if he asked?

01:20:33.440 I mean, if it's a pressing matter, then, then yes.

01:20:36.700 But I wouldn't say that I'm going on dates with men that are asking me those questions.

01:20:41.640 Hold on.

01:20:42.080 You're waiting until marriage.

01:20:43.540 Wouldn't it be perfectly within, from your own worldview and your own Christian belief set, for a Christian man to desire to date a virgin woman?

01:20:53.400 What would actually be wrong from your perspective then for a Christian man to ask a Christian woman whether or not she's a virgin if that's a metric that he cares about for religious reasons?

01:21:05.480 I don't think it's wrong at all.

01:21:07.700 That's not what I meant by that.

01:21:09.060 Well, but you seem to have some sort of objection to a Christian man asking a Christian woman.

01:21:15.860 And I think it's a completely valid if you're a Christian man or even a Christian woman could have the same standard as a Christian woman.

01:21:23.380 I only, uh, you only want to date a man who's a virgin, who's, who's chaste, whatever.

01:21:30.700 Nothing wrong with asking that question, but you seem to object to it.

01:21:33.760 So you would willingly, uh, withhold that information from a guy, a Christian man who wants to date you?

01:21:41.140 No, I just said no, I wouldn't.

01:21:42.440 If they asked me the question, then I would respond.

01:21:45.380 First date?

01:21:46.780 I mean, sure, if they asked on the first date.

01:21:48.500 I've just never had that happen to me before, so I'm not...

01:21:50.720 It didn't happen with the, the one that ended a week ago, the Mormon guy, he never asked?

01:21:54.420 No, he never asked.

01:21:56.740 I think if you were a virgin, it would be different because I feel like you would want to go, just from my perspective,

01:22:04.760 I think you would want to push that, oh, you should wait till marriage and this is, you can still be Christian and wait till marriage. 0.96

01:22:13.040 You don't have to have sex.

01:22:14.260 It's kind of giving that you aren't a virgin.

01:22:16.040 So I feel like you kind of said your answer in that.

01:22:20.380 She, yeah.

01:22:21.540 Do you want to respond to that?

01:22:22.460 Could just be a situation thing, like depending on the environment that she's in is whether or not she wants to divulge such information.

01:22:30.460 Yeah, I think we understand that she doesn't want to share it publicly.

01:22:33.220 That's totally fine.

01:22:34.460 I don't have an issue with her preference not wanting to share.

01:22:37.700 I think my, my angle of conversation here is more so there's not actually anything in scripture, biblically, or within Christian ethics or virtue or whatever,

01:22:51.440 that would prevent, it might be your preference, but there's nothing that actually would prevent like a Christian woman coming onto a public platform and saying, 1.00

01:23:04.640 I'm a virgin, I'm not a virgin.

01:23:06.880 I don't think that that's like, you mentioned your body's a temple or whatever.

01:23:10.380 I'm not sure specifically what you're referencing there, but there wouldn't be a contradiction.

01:23:14.960 Like you wouldn't be more or less of a Christian if you revealed your status as a virgin or not.

01:23:21.980 Correct me if I'm wrong, Brian, but I think what you're trying to say is that there's nothing sinful about divulging that information.

01:23:27.880 Correct.

01:23:28.360 Essentially, yes.

01:23:29.200 Do you think it's sinful to, to share that?

01:23:33.280 I mean, you don't, yeah.

01:23:36.160 I wouldn't say necessarily sinful.

01:23:39.220 I, like I said, I just think it's extremely inappropriate and very unclassy for a woman to talk about such vulgar things. 1.00

01:23:47.560 So like shameful.

01:23:49.220 So like you.

01:23:50.180 Well, I don't think.

01:23:51.160 I wouldn't say shame either.

01:23:52.260 Cause that's the same thing as basically.

01:23:55.300 Not so much.

01:23:56.220 I don't think it's vulgar.

01:23:57.560 You're not asking your weight.

01:23:58.420 It's an inappropriate thing.

01:23:59.480 It's not sinful, but it's like an uncomfortable question.

01:24:02.080 No, it's very different than weight.

01:24:04.340 I just feel like as a woman that's very Christian and like I hold that godly woman over my head, like that title.

01:24:14.400 I shouldn't be talking about my body in that way for people to like then.

01:24:21.880 But that doesn't mean you're disrespecting your body or yourself by discussing.

01:24:26.360 It's just a matter of comfort and how you, how confident you are in yourself.

01:24:30.820 I'm not saying what you're, how you're feeling about this is wrong, but it's like everyone who spoke prior to you, we have no shame.

01:24:40.140 But that's because we're comfortable speaking about it.

01:24:44.880 It doesn't mean it's sinful or anything like that, but there's a difference. 0.99

01:24:47.980 The term you used, vulgar, I think if you were speaking about like specific sex acts or like oral sex or what you did, it like whatever, her fucking opening line to the, her now husband with three kids or whatever. 0.99

01:25:03.120 Uh, not husband, boyfriend, um, that a bit vulgar, but I think like a Christian woman who sat here and said, you know, um, I'm not a virgin, but I am waiting until marriage. 0.99

01:25:13.660 I wouldn't put that, I wouldn't be like, Whoa, that was really vulgar.

01:25:17.820 What you just said.

01:25:18.660 Now I understand people can have their preference and be like, as a Christian, I'd rather not share certain details about my life.

01:25:24.540 I think that that's okay.

01:25:26.100 My primary, uh, back and forth with you is just, I guess I contend with your categorization of it being vulgar or something that is perhaps unbecoming of a Christian woman to say, I don't think it would be unbecoming of a Christian woman to simply say, and again, I'm totally fine with you not sharing it, but this is a bit of a separate side conversation.

01:25:48.880 If a Christian woman came on the show and is like, you know, I am waiting for marriage, but, um, I am not a virgin and left it at that. 0.99

01:25:56.900 I don't know if I would be like, I can't imagine Christians or being up in arms about it or viewing that as a vulgar thing to say.

01:26:05.780 I do have a question for you.

01:26:08.800 Well, let's let her respond and then you can ask your question.

01:26:12.320 No, I totally understand where you're coming from with that.

01:26:14.660 It's just the way I think, I mean, I think of it as like, if my grandma is watching this, she's like a saint.

01:26:23.080 She's very extremely Christian, very classy.

01:26:25.420 Like these are things that I wouldn't even talk about my family with.

01:26:28.840 Sure.

01:26:29.420 Um, and then you said you're non-denominational.

01:26:31.960 Um, is it, do you go to church?

01:26:34.800 I do.

01:26:35.680 Is the church non-denominational that you go to?

01:26:38.640 Um, it's kind of complicated.

01:26:42.000 I haven't really talked about this with my family yet, but this morning I went to the LDS church.

01:26:49.220 Wait, but.

01:26:49.820 It's Sunday.

01:26:50.560 Okay.

01:26:50.920 So, so the guy you were seeing a week ago or whatever, he didn't want to be with you because you weren't LDS.

01:26:59.780 Right.

01:27:00.300 But you are actively going to an LDS church.

01:27:04.040 Right.

01:27:04.340 I, I didn't disclose that information to him because I didn't want him to think that I was converting for him, if that makes sense.

01:27:11.320 So.

01:27:11.540 You were already considering.

01:27:12.660 Yeah.

01:27:13.340 Beforehand.

01:27:13.940 Okay.

01:27:14.260 But so prior to starting to go to an LDS church, were you going to a non-denominational church?

01:27:22.760 Yes.

01:27:23.760 Okay.

01:27:24.760 All right.

01:27:25.260 Um, so, but you, so you are converting to LDS.

01:27:32.500 Do I have that correct?

01:27:34.520 Yes.

01:27:35.920 Okay.

01:27:37.900 Uh, one quick question.

01:27:39.440 Can, can women be priests or pastors? 1.00

01:27:42.340 Absolutely not.

01:27:43.480 Okay.

01:27:43.880 You had a question for?

01:27:45.640 Honestly, you partially kind of answered my question, but I wanted to ask you if you, like, how much do you care about other people's opinions?

01:27:54.940 Like, you said you don't feel comfortable because a lot of people are watching.

01:27:58.700 Like, how do you think you care a lot about people's opinion, like outsiders, like people you don't know?

01:28:05.180 I wouldn't say I care about what other people think of me.

01:28:07.840 I more care about how I hold myself and how I care of myself.

01:28:11.780 Relationship status?

01:28:13.340 I'm in a relationship about a year and a half now.

01:28:16.860 Longest relationship?

01:28:18.300 About two years.

01:28:19.820 All right.

01:28:20.760 Uh, what about you?

01:28:22.440 I'm married.

01:28:23.340 Been married for over four years.

01:28:25.200 A little bit over.

01:28:26.240 Any kids?

01:28:27.220 No.

01:28:27.740 Do you plan to have kids?

01:28:28.720 Yeah.

01:28:29.360 Okay.

01:28:30.280 All right.

01:28:30.900 That's everybody's relationship status.

01:28:33.300 We have one chat here I'm going to let come through.

01:28:34.820 Then I have a few follow-up questions.

01:28:36.340 Then we are going to get into some segments.

01:28:39.160 All right.

01:28:39.780 We have Cha.

01:28:40.800 I'm going to have, can I have you read these?

01:28:43.780 Into the mic.

01:28:44.680 Into the mic.

01:28:45.200 Oh, it's going to get juicy.

01:28:46.760 Cha XD donated $100.

01:28:49.240 This, Brian, is what we call a chronic manipulator.

01:28:52.560 She's saying all these things manipulators say.

01:28:55.260 For anyone who thinks deportations are about race, this is proof it's not.

01:29:01.400 Deport her.

01:29:02.040 So this is, this came in while you were speaking, chair two.

01:29:06.080 So that's, do you want to respond to Cha?

01:29:08.640 Can I, I did not focus on that.

01:29:10.500 Oh my God.

01:29:11.160 All right.

01:29:11.580 I wasn't focusing.

01:29:12.840 He's saying you should be deported.

01:29:14.080 Deported. 0.89

01:29:15.240 He, he called you a chronic manipulator and he thinks you should be deported.

01:29:21.720 That's so funny.

01:29:22.400 Cha, do you want to, why, why do you want her deported?

01:29:25.720 Do you want to provide, provide clarification on why is it about the manipulation or whatever?

01:29:30.900 But, um, do you want to respond to the manipulation of allegations?

01:29:35.120 I already have allegations on me.

01:29:36.880 Okay. 0.99

01:29:37.260 Oh shit. 1.00

01:29:37.820 Crazy. 1.00

01:29:38.340 Do you want to respond? 0.85

01:29:39.800 Okay.

01:29:40.220 Hold on.

01:29:41.060 Um, how do I, let's see.

01:29:44.160 Can I read the message again? 0.95

01:29:46.900 I'm just, I just, I have to like, actually, that's fucking insane. 0.94

01:29:51.400 Deeply. 0.95

01:29:51.920 That's a yellow card for you. 1.00

01:29:53.440 Fucking yellow carded. 0.99

01:29:54.820 She read it and then I pulled it up a second time. 0.99

01:29:57.620 You got to be paying.

01:29:58.200 And you said I wasn't paying attention.

01:30:00.180 Okay.

01:30:00.660 How are you not?

01:30:01.640 Deport me. 1.00

01:30:02.120 Holy shit. 1.00

01:30:02.640 Let me just confirm this with myself. 0.99

01:30:04.080 He wants me to, to be deported because I manipulate guys.

01:30:09.440 That seems to be the case.

01:30:11.800 Okay.

01:30:12.340 Well, okay.

01:30:12.940 Mm-hmm, mm-hmm, mm-hmm, mm-hmm, mm-hmm, fun.

01:30:16.440 So, honestly, okay, how I would respond to that, I don't think that's appropriate.

01:30:21.900 Like, how do you, you don't have any control over my life.

01:30:28.660 Like, I don't, and the sense that I'm controlling people also is not true.

01:30:35.540 Like, manipulation is all a mind game.

01:30:38.960 Like, everything's in your brain.

01:30:40.020 You can control your own brain.

01:30:41.200 You can not hang out with me if you want not.

01:30:44.040 You call two guys, you're, like, you said that you're a girlfriend to two guys.

01:30:47.840 You said you call yourself a girlfriend to two of these three guys, I think.

01:30:53.140 I don't think that's grounds for, or for deportation.

01:30:55.820 Oh, no, not for deportation.

01:30:56.620 This is just talking about your, your manipulation tactics that are affecting other people.

01:31:00.840 Do any of these guys who you're seeing, do they pay your bills?

01:31:04.360 No.

01:31:04.780 Oh.

01:31:05.260 Do they give you gifts?

01:31:07.700 No.

01:31:08.080 Do they send you money?

01:31:09.080 No.

01:31:11.020 I don't trust people.

01:31:12.140 Like, seriously, okay, my finances.

01:31:13.240 What does trusting people have to do with that?

01:31:14.880 I think it's past experience.

01:31:19.540 Like, I don't trust people because past experience.

01:31:22.320 Can you elaborate on that?

01:31:23.660 You've said that, like, 50 times.

01:31:25.140 What, what don't you trust other people when you're the one that's manipulating other men?

01:31:29.160 And you're the one that's lying.

01:31:30.220 And you're the one that's cheating. 0.80

01:31:31.320 And you're the one that's being deceptive.

01:31:32.500 Like, causing the, the trust issues for other people.

01:31:35.640 Maybe, um, if I kind of, like, dig deep in, like, my own psychological issues, I don't know. 0.95

01:31:44.760 Maybe it's me being, like, cheated on before when I was younger that made me kind of, like, a shitty person.

01:31:54.580 I'm not a shitty person, though.

01:31:56.080 Was it Vlad?

01:31:57.280 No.

01:31:57.680 Because you were, you were living in Russia until you were 15.

01:32:00.440 So back in, you know, 15 high school in Russia or whatever, uh, frickin' Vlad or, I don't know.

01:32:08.580 I don't think it was Vlad.

01:32:10.960 Or Vitaly.

01:32:11.940 Or Pyotr.

01:32:14.680 Pyotr. 0.62

01:32:15.380 No.

01:32:15.700 How do you say, how do you say Pyotr in Russian?

01:32:17.840 Pyotr. 0.62

01:32:18.680 Oh, you, yeah, you're also.

01:32:20.280 Is she?

01:32:21.900 She's, she speaks Russian, right?

01:32:23.900 Cool, cool, cool, cool, cool.

01:32:25.080 All right, so you got cheated on, and then, yeah.

01:32:27.940 So you're gonna take it out on other guys.

01:32:29.780 What happened to you in the past, instead of working on yourself?

01:32:31.980 Um, okay.

01:32:33.460 I'm, I'm, I'm trying, okay?

01:32:35.600 I'm working on myself.

01:32:36.500 All right, uh.

01:32:38.560 But yeah, that's still not a point to deport me, like, uh-uh, you're not doing that.

01:32:42.860 Uh, you're a singer, can you, for 15 seconds, can we hear you sing something?

01:32:47.500 Yeah, I can sing one of my new singles, uh, honestly.

01:32:50.780 Yeah, I have Spotify, Apple Music, et cetera.

01:32:53.860 My artist name is me, it's just me.

01:32:57.100 Um, I can sing Call Me Please, it's my, one of my new songs.

01:33:01.840 All right, y'all ready?

01:33:04.040 Oh, yeah.

01:33:05.420 Call me please, I need to speak right now.

01:33:10.420 Don't wanna show me love, just gotta be around.

01:33:15.840 Na, na, na, call me please, na, na, na, na, na, na.

01:33:21.900 Don't have to show me love, baby, just be around.

01:33:28.220 All right, there it is.

01:33:29.400 There is the singing.

01:33:30.760 Thank you very much for that, appreciate it.

01:33:33.520 Really quick, just because we have, uh, we have one person from outside the United States.

01:33:38.540 Anybody here born outside the United States?

01:33:41.700 I'm in Philippines.

01:33:43.200 Israel.

01:33:44.060 Israel, Russia. 0.59

01:33:45.840 Uh, and anybody, how about your parents?

01:33:48.260 Were they born outside the United States?

01:33:50.980 No.

01:33:51.780 Any, like, nationality, like, are you Puerto Rican or something?

01:33:56.620 I'm Italian. 1.00

01:33:57.840 Oh, fuck. 1.00

01:33:59.280 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:34:02.320 Italian, all right. 1.00

01:34:03.940 Oh, no, shit, it's, you know, with the Italians, sometimes you can't always tell. 1.00

01:34:07.200 Can't. 1.00

01:34:07.720 All right.

01:34:08.500 So, okay, I have a question for the, for, okay, we got Russia, we got Israel, and we got the Philippines.

01:34:13.480 All right.

01:34:15.840 So, imagine a completely neutral hypothetical situation where neither the United States or the country of your origin is the aggressor.

01:34:29.360 Neither has done anything unethical.

01:34:31.080 There's no moral dimension.

01:34:33.760 Just a conflict that exists.

01:34:35.760 In that value-neutral scenario, to which country is your allegiance?

01:34:44.060 So, starting with you, the United States or Russia?

01:34:48.160 Unfortunately, the United States.

01:34:50.600 Fortunately or unfortunately?

01:34:52.260 Let's see.

01:34:53.640 Well, probably unfortunately.

01:34:55.540 Why is that unfortunate?

01:34:56.600 Because that makes me kind of, like, like, fake because I was, I was brought up in that country.

01:35:01.980 You have dual citizenship.

01:35:02.720 How does that make you fake?

01:35:05.120 Because I was born in Russia.

01:35:06.680 But I.

01:35:07.140 You have citizenship in the United States of America as well.

01:35:10.580 Yeah.

01:35:11.060 So, how does that make you fake?

01:35:12.920 I feel fake because I was brought up in Russia, but I would pick United States over Russia.

01:35:19.220 Because I.

01:35:19.480 Do you have, oh, well, you do have citizenship here.

01:35:22.520 Yeah.

01:35:23.160 Oh, okay.

01:35:24.140 All right.

01:35:24.940 What about you?

01:35:26.120 Israel or the United States?

01:35:27.960 Israel.

01:35:29.500 I have dual citizenship.

01:35:30.600 Why are you here?

01:35:31.440 You were born there?

01:35:32.680 I was born there.

01:35:34.500 And then when did you move to the United States?

01:35:36.420 When I was a baby.

01:35:38.520 How old?

01:35:39.100 So, wait, wait.

01:35:39.840 Hold on.

01:35:40.100 Yes, I am.

01:35:40.460 Hold on.

01:35:42.100 You are how old?

01:35:43.500 I'm 28.

01:35:44.360 28.

01:35:44.700 Of your 28 years, how much of that time has been spent in the United States?

01:35:49.700 Majority of it.

01:35:51.480 How much?

01:35:53.760 26 and a half, I'd say.

01:35:56.280 Like living here, yeah.

01:35:58.900 And just so, can you explain why you pick Israel over the United States?

01:36:04.560 My family's there.

01:36:06.740 I spent a lot of my childhood there.

01:36:10.380 You, no, you spent most of your childhood here.

01:36:13.200 I spent summers in Israel.

01:36:15.420 I live in the U.S. after I moved from Israel, but I visited, and I would go there for long

01:36:24.900 periods of time.

01:36:27.600 So, childhood spent, like, where did you spend your childhood?

01:36:31.220 You know, like summer camp, you go visit your grandparents in another state.

01:36:34.980 Like, I would go visit my family there.

01:36:38.000 Well, in the, the summer is one season.

01:36:41.740 That's a couple months.

01:36:43.540 Right.

01:36:43.960 It sounds like you said 26 and a half of your 28 years you spent living in the United States.

01:36:50.300 Great.

01:36:50.600 Most of your childhood.

01:36:51.600 My physical address was...

01:36:54.180 Well, not just your physical address, your, where you were actively living.

01:37:00.140 Mm-hmm.

01:37:00.500 So, I don't understand this physical address component of the conversation.

01:37:05.060 I'm not understanding your question either, sorry.

01:37:07.280 But why are you saying you're, were you also living in the United States while having a physical

01:37:13.340 address in the United States?

01:37:15.160 Yes.

01:37:16.060 So, I don't understand why you would say physical address.

01:37:20.860 Well, because I live in the U.S. after we moved here, we've lived here.

01:37:26.340 Yeah.

01:37:26.560 And then, during the summers, my parents would send us to live with my grandparents and be

01:37:32.800 there for, like, a month, two months at a time.

01:37:36.620 If your allegiance is to Israel, why don't you live there? 0.91

01:37:39.660 Why do you live here?

01:37:40.840 Work.

01:37:42.160 So, you want to reap the benefits of the United States, but you won't back them in the case

01:37:47.260 of war.

01:37:47.400 I never said that.

01:37:48.380 You did.

01:37:48.880 You said that Israel is where your allegiance was.

01:37:50.780 I never said I wouldn't back them.

01:37:51.260 Even if you didn't say that, you are currently reaping the benefits of being in America.

01:37:54.820 Like, the clothes you're wearing, the place you're living, it's all because America's

01:37:58.480 provided this for you, and you're still going to say Israel.

01:38:01.560 Wait, hold on.

01:38:02.280 I, just to be charitable, people in Israel also have clothes.

01:38:06.940 No, but the things that you have here, like, you're living your life here.

01:38:10.680 Everything that you're, you're, like, doing here is, like, or getting here is because of

01:38:15.340 America.

01:38:15.720 America, and, but you're, America's given you so much, basically, as I'm saying, and

01:38:21.280 you're still going to choose Israel.

01:38:22.900 Yes.

01:38:23.560 Can you not work in Israel?

01:38:25.980 I would need to, I think I can.

01:38:29.100 I have dual citizenship, so I can if I wanted to.

01:38:31.400 And you were born there?

01:38:32.060 Then why don't you go work there?

01:38:33.260 Wait, were you born in Israel?

01:38:33.780 Because I'm choosing not to.

01:38:34.940 Were you born there?

01:38:35.720 You're choosing not to because you know that your life in America is not there.

01:38:39.520 Were you born here or there?

01:38:41.340 I was born in Israel, in Netanyahu.

01:38:43.060 Okay, you were born there.

01:38:44.120 Yeah.

01:38:44.320 Okay, um, huh, that's interesting.

01:38:51.380 Okay, um, yeah, I mean, hmm.

01:38:56.360 I think it's just, I'm not ashamed of where I'm from and what my background is, and I appreciate

01:39:06.440 what the U.S. has done for my family.

01:39:10.620 There was a choice with moving here, um, and I'm not, uh, what's the word, ignoring the

01:39:21.140 opportunities that, uh, my family was provided coming here.

01:39:26.400 Um, but I am choosing right now to stay in the U.S. for work.

01:39:35.020 And I know that the, let's say, film and TV in Israel, they've got some pretty good shows.

01:39:42.820 So if I wanted to, I could, in theory, but I'm choosing to stay here right now.

01:39:47.000 I'm, um...

01:39:47.180 Because you make more money, and you have maybe better work schedule, you have better work

01:39:53.160 opportunities.

01:39:54.260 Um, I'm not sure necessarily.

01:39:57.440 I'm a freelancer in film and TV, and right now work in the U.S. is actually really bad.

01:40:03.240 Um, a lot of productions are moving out of the country, too, because it costs less crew

01:40:08.440 permits, all that.

01:40:10.540 Um, so it's just, honestly, it's a whole lot of figuring out whether or not I'm going to

01:40:17.260 try to continue making a career here or go elsewhere where productions are going.

01:40:26.080 Hold on.

01:40:26.600 So what's the problem with living in Israel?

01:40:29.300 There's no problem.

01:40:30.180 I'm just...

01:40:30.940 Then why don't you live there?

01:40:32.420 Similar to why you chose to go to the LDS church.

01:40:35.700 It's a choice.

01:40:36.620 Okay.

01:40:37.480 I mean, sure, yeah, but you weren't born here, and if you're going to side with Israel 0.93

01:40:42.460 in conflict with America, then why would you live in America if you wouldn't side?

01:40:46.020 He just said there's no conflict.

01:40:48.100 Okay, wait, wait.

01:40:49.160 There's clearly conflict with Israel right now.

01:40:51.320 And his question, there was no conflict, though.

01:40:53.760 No, I said a conflict exists, but there's not an aggressor necessarily.

01:41:00.100 One side isn't necessarily being a bully.

01:41:02.680 It's a morally neutral hypothetical situation.

01:41:06.220 So it'd be very, like, for example, even a U.S. citizen, let's say we were just like,

01:41:10.280 you know what, we kind of just want Cancun.

01:41:14.240 And we're going to invade the entirety of Mexico so we can take all their resources. 1.00

01:41:18.580 I think U.S. citizens could come to some, like, reasonable objection to be like, hey,

01:41:23.640 we're the aggressors here.

01:41:24.640 This is a war of, you know, this is a war of, what's the right word?

01:41:29.540 It's blanking on me.

01:41:30.700 Like, conquest.

01:41:31.560 But there's another thing when you're just after the spoils of war, basically.

01:41:36.760 So I think, but in a situation where we just make it completely neutral, that can take away

01:41:43.520 some of the objections a citizen might otherwise have.

01:41:47.760 Also, just to be clear, I think when it comes to, in terms of your political allegiance or

01:41:52.420 loyalty, this doesn't mean that you can't still have, you know, family ties, you couldn't still,

01:42:00.080 you know, care about the culture of the other country or whatever.

01:42:04.660 But it is kind of interesting when citizens of the United States who have lived here for most

01:42:13.080 of their life have an allegiance that supersedes their allegiance to the United States.

01:42:20.980 I think you can have a dual allegiance in the sense that removing a conflict between the

01:42:27.220 United States and Israel, let's say Israel had a conflict with, I don't know, Egypt or something.

01:42:35.120 I don't know, whatever.

01:42:36.080 You could be like, well, in this case, I definitely side with Israel over, you know, Egypt, of course. 0.96

01:42:40.820 I think my answer was primarily just that I am, I'm proud of where I'm from, and I don't

01:42:50.120 hide it.

01:42:51.700 Are you proud of being also an American, though?

01:42:55.780 I mean, there.

01:42:59.000 Sounds like a no.

01:43:01.460 It's a, it's a hard question because, and I've had this discussion many times.

01:43:08.480 Um, we moved here, but I wasn't necessarily raised in a American way.

01:43:19.380 Um, my education is American.

01:43:21.820 I speak English, but at home, it's not necessarily, like, I still kind of grew up with a background,

01:43:30.540 like a Russian, a Russian and Jewish background.

01:43:33.980 All right, hold on, uh, can I ask you something?

01:43:36.280 So, you said, I mean, you said it, like, twice, I think, or three times, you said you're

01:43:41.640 not ashamed of where you're from.

01:43:44.060 So, by a person not choosing the country of her, his origin, over the country they're living

01:43:52.320 in, is that, you consider that being ashamed?

01:43:55.360 No, no, not at all.

01:43:57.980 Like, when you said you picked the U.S., unfortunately, I don't think that's an unfortunate, uh, decision,

01:44:05.920 you know?

01:44:06.680 Um, but I think...

01:44:09.360 Okay.

01:44:11.160 Darius underscore Monk donated $200.

01:44:14.840 Questions to Chair One.

01:44:16.480 One.

01:44:17.260 How is it your parents love him if they know he cheats on you?

01:44:21.120 Two.

01:44:21.800 Is he around?

01:44:23.280 Are he present father?

01:44:24.860 If so, in what capacity?

01:44:27.300 Three.

01:44:28.100 Are you ethnically bunnies? 0.93

01:44:30.160 Chef or go home? 0.99

01:44:31.300 It meant bunnies should be Jewish. 1.00

01:44:33.000 I don't know why Streamlabs does that, but...

01:44:35.140 No, I am not ethnically Jewish.

01:44:37.480 I just have a big nose, like, one.

01:44:39.820 Um, what...

01:44:41.580 Oh, boy.

01:44:42.980 You do not have a big nose.

01:44:44.740 It's, like, the same shape.

01:44:46.160 All right, continue on with your answer, please.

01:44:48.000 I forgot what the beginning of the question said.

01:44:50.040 Oh, how do they love him?

01:44:52.160 Um, they have spent multiple years getting to know him and understanding that just because

01:45:00.180 somebody makes horrible, horrible decisions doesn't mean that they are concrete, a terrible

01:45:07.200 person for the rest of their life, and people can grow and change.

01:45:10.120 And they've seen me grow and change, and I've also cheated on him, admitted it was wrong,

01:45:15.540 and then worked towards why I did it and not ever doing it again.

01:45:21.760 So how many times that happened?

01:45:24.040 Which, like...

01:45:25.120 Which one?

01:45:26.160 Trusting a person after they did a mistake.

01:45:28.560 Super.

01:45:30.740 Um...

01:45:31.540 Super, Mary.

01:45:32.280 The first time he cheated, I got over it, and the first couple times he cheated, I stayed.

01:45:43.220 Um, I don't know.

01:45:45.900 I just...

01:45:46.780 I haven't trusted him since the beginning.

01:45:49.840 So I don't...

01:45:51.560 I don't know.

01:45:52.100 I think the other part of that question was asking about your dad.

01:45:55.020 Like, is he present in your life?

01:45:56.620 Was he a good influence?

01:45:57.260 Oh, I think it was...

01:45:58.380 It was about my dad or about him, my boyfriend as a father?

01:46:02.620 I think it was about the baby daddy.

01:46:03.060 I think it asked if he was present in his children's lives.

01:46:05.960 During the one year, it was more of visits and phone calls, because he didn't live with

01:46:11.340 me for when we were separated.

01:46:12.680 But now he's fully present.

01:46:13.920 We live together.

01:46:15.140 It's pretty much back to normal.

01:46:16.980 Okay.

01:46:17.420 Uh, going to you.

01:46:18.500 You're from the Philippines.

01:46:19.800 Mm-hmm.

01:46:19.940 Born in the Philippines.

01:46:21.000 That's right.

01:46:21.780 Uh, did you immigrate here, or...?

01:46:24.040 Yeah, when I was eight years old.

01:46:25.420 Okay.

01:46:25.680 Did you have citizenship?

01:46:27.260 Uh, in America.

01:46:28.360 Not in Philippines anymore.

01:46:30.520 Okay.

01:46:30.900 But you went through, like, a naturalization process?

01:46:34.120 Okay.

01:46:34.840 Uh, where do your loyalties lie?

01:46:38.420 America all the way.

01:46:40.800 All right.

01:46:41.300 There you have it, folks.

01:46:42.380 There you have it.

01:46:43.060 I also actually happen to not have been born in the United States.

01:46:48.060 I was born in, uh, Europe.

01:46:50.760 I was born in France.

01:46:52.560 And then I...

01:46:53.140 My mom, although I do have dual citizenship, because my mom's American.

01:46:56.340 Uh, so it's not like I'm an immigrant or whatever.

01:46:59.720 I moved to the United States when I was five.

01:47:02.440 And although it would pain me dearly if the United States and France were to...

01:47:07.040 Even though they're allies, I mean, hypothetically, if they were to enter into some military conflict,

01:47:12.220 my loyalties, even though I lived there for the first five years of my life, uh, basically consecutively,

01:47:18.340 uh, my loyalties, undeniably, are to America first.

01:47:23.720 And, uh, of course, I wouldn't want there to be a conflict between France.

01:47:28.660 I have family in France.

01:47:29.720 I care about them very much.

01:47:30.940 I have some cultural roots in France.

01:47:34.200 And I wish good things for France.

01:47:37.120 There's some pretty bad things happening in France related to politics and basically the

01:47:44.380 country's being taken over.

01:47:46.340 And, um, I, I would wish to see a return to, uh, a better state of affairs in France.

01:47:55.040 Uh, uh, but, uh, in any case, if there were my, my primary loyalty, my first loyalty is

01:48:03.280 to the United States.

01:48:05.240 I have a question.

01:48:06.300 How much of your upbringing was, uh, of French?

01:48:11.260 French was my first language.

01:48:13.060 I certainly lived there for longer and for most of my childhood, as you would say, longer

01:48:17.960 than, uh, you spent in, uh, your country of origin.

01:48:21.720 Um, my, my dad's first.

01:48:25.040 My, my dad's French.

01:48:26.780 I have dual citizenship.

01:48:28.780 My, uh, my dad's, he's started speaking French a bit more, but he would still speak French,

01:48:34.240 uh, at home sometimes.

01:48:36.180 And, um, I've visited France since.

01:48:41.460 Uh, but, um, yeah, I mean.

01:48:47.880 This is merely like for anybody who's not from here, how much curiosity, how much of your,

01:48:54.400 of their upbringing has been, um, U.S.-based American versus where they're from.

01:49:01.540 I think that's what's cool about America is that we, you can embrace like where your family

01:49:07.680 actually came from, but you should still kind of back the country that you live in, you know,

01:49:13.920 because you get to reap the rewards of practicing your religion and embracing you came from Israel.

01:49:20.740 That's fantastic.

01:49:21.740 You know, you guys got to come here and feel that, but, you know, you live here.

01:49:27.260 I have a question.

01:49:28.280 If a war were to start, would you go back to Israel?

01:49:32.560 Um, well, it's, it's been, it's been considered.

01:49:38.720 Yeah.

01:49:39.240 Okay.

01:49:40.440 So are you only, like, the only thing you like about America is the workforce, basically?

01:49:46.920 No, there's, there's many things I like about the U.S.

01:49:49.780 I just, the question was to pick one or the other and I can't say I, I'm happy to live here

01:50:01.760 and I'm happy to be where I'm from and I'm just, there's no disrespect towards what I was

01:50:11.620 able to achieve and, and use here.

01:50:15.920 Okay.

01:50:16.220 What do you not like about America?

01:50:19.720 Do I not?

01:50:20.500 I never said I didn't like the U.S.

01:50:22.800 I mean, maybe like something specific or small.

01:50:26.180 I think, um, I don't, well, I mean, again, to be charitable to her, uh, I don't think you

01:50:31.640 have to dislike America.

01:50:34.320 I don't think her position necessarily entails that she dislikes.

01:50:39.140 Well, I, I mean, I think even like warm blooded patriot, American patriots can be like,

01:50:44.660 I dislike X, Y, Z about America. 0.85

01:50:47.020 You know, it's interesting actually, just to bring it back to the point of this podcast,

01:50:50.320 which is dating.

01:50:51.500 Um, I, what was interesting to me when I've seen this in experience with, uh, when it comes

01:50:56.760 to dating or going out on dates with guys is that what I've noticed is American guys aren't 0.98

01:51:05.880 too, um, they don't really feel comfortable about talking about their feelings and they like

01:51:12.620 to beat around the bush and me with like being when my parents are from Russia, being with

01:51:18.940 a Russian background, being very blunt and just getting to the point of what's on your 1.00

01:51:22.940 mind.

01:51:23.440 I think it's, uh, it's been interesting to kind of figure out a dynamic of understanding

01:51:28.980 how one person is, is comfortable speaking about what's on their mind versus not.

01:51:36.780 Um, which is what was a problem with my, my ex as well.

01:51:40.520 It's the other way around.

01:51:42.060 I was very, I'm a very blunt person.

01:51:43.980 That's how I picture it.

01:51:45.860 Uh, all right.

01:51:46.760 Well, moving, moving off of, uh, that topic.

01:51:50.240 Um, but yeah, just, I guess final, I don't know if I already mentioned this, but, um, I

01:51:56.600 think you can having a primary, having allegiance to the United States isn't a rejection of like

01:52:03.300 a past origin or a past, like you're, uh, another culture.

01:52:07.900 Like for example, if you, if you came here and you're Mexican and you're legal, you're

01:52:12.320 a legal, uh, immigrant, I think your allegiance should be to the United States just as an example

01:52:18.040 using Mexico.

01:52:19.040 But that doesn't mean you have to reject your heritage.

01:52:22.020 You have to reject your culture. 1.00

01:52:23.960 I do think you should assimilate, but you know, you can be like, you can still have family.

01:52:28.780 You can go back and visit.

01:52:29.860 It's not like you have to be like a belligerent or aggressive towards your past nation or culture,

01:52:37.540 but I do think that there should be a primary allegiance, uh, that does exist.

01:52:44.720 But anyways, moving it on to, uh, okay.

01:52:48.360 I think I had a question for you, something about all these guys you're dating.

01:52:52.300 I don't know.

01:52:52.940 Um, uh, you know what, we're going to do something a little different here.

01:52:57.140 So oftentimes I, I ask people to what disagreements they have with me, but I actually, I just want

01:53:04.720 to show you, um, show the, the prompt list, but show the graphic image and I'm going to

01:53:11.240 redo this.

01:53:11.780 I had chat GPT generated, but it went to, it kind of is shitty.

01:53:15.540 I need to redo it.

01:53:16.280 I did it like last minute last night.

01:53:18.000 So I just have a notepad that we're going to do.

01:53:19.880 I'm going to show you guys a list of all my positions and show the infographic first. 0.99

01:53:27.860 Just, I don't know for, for fuck it, whatever. 0.97

01:53:30.040 So I don't know, chat GPT generated this. 0.99

01:53:32.420 Uh, so you can take a quick gander, scroll all the way down.

01:53:35.460 Why not? 0.84

01:53:36.260 Chat GPT fucked it up though. 0.99

01:53:38.760 They totally fucked it up. 0.98

01:53:39.960 Anyways, whatever. 0.92

01:53:40.920 Um, chat GPT did this.

01:53:42.940 Now just show us the list.

01:53:44.920 Show us the list.

01:53:46.140 All right.

01:53:46.620 All right.

01:53:49.880 And as I read these, I want you guys to tell me if there's anything here you disagree with.

01:53:57.680 So one body count matters to these are my positions.

01:54:02.240 Past matters.

01:54:03.240 Three women cannot be in cell involuntarily celibate.

01:54:07.420 So maybe let really quick, just on three.

01:54:09.940 I don't think women can be fem cells. 1.00

01:54:11.980 I don't think women can be involuntarily celibate. 0.99

01:54:14.540 Any objections from anybody you, you object?

01:54:18.140 Okay.

01:54:18.300 Why is that? 0.99

01:54:18.760 Well, I mean, I've met women that just, they're like, they're ugly. 1.00

01:54:26.700 Okay. 0.98

01:54:26.900 No, stereotypically like homeschooled, like children and that are, that don't have any social skills.

01:54:32.820 Don't get out.

01:54:33.920 Their parents don't teach them about that sort of stuff.

01:54:35.400 Like, I feel like they're involuntarily celibate, if that makes sense.

01:54:38.400 Women or men? 0.99

01:54:39.100 I mean, both.

01:54:40.520 It goes both ways.

01:54:41.480 I do agree that it's like primarily men, but there are definitely women that I have met

01:54:47.160 that have zero idea about, like, sex or any of that.

01:54:51.160 Involuntarily celibate is not having sex.

01:54:55.560 So, involuntarily, so that would essentially mean, despite reasonable efforts to try to get

01:55:05.920 sex, you just, here's how I would put it, access denied.

01:55:11.820 That's what I would consider being involuntarily celibate. 0.70

01:55:17.200 Like, if you're a recluse and you don't go out and you're not, I mean, with technology, now

01:55:22.240 you're a man, you can stay inside 24 hours a day, get on the dating app, you can still

01:55:26.820 make an effort to get laid.

01:55:28.220 But of course, if you're not actually making some degree of effort to get laid, I still

01:55:32.380 wouldn't, I wouldn't even categorize a man as an incel under those circumstances.

01:55:36.200 You need to have taken some reasonable steps and attempts to get laid and been rejected 0.83

01:55:41.640 before you could fairly be categorized as involuntarily celibate.

01:55:45.620 Because there would have been no actual means with which you could have gotten laid.

01:55:50.980 In this case, just because, two things on this.

01:55:54.380 So, a woman who is, like, socially retarded or whatever, I also, first off, I think, even

01:56:02.240 in that circumstance, I would do a comparison. 0.93

01:56:06.420 Men who are socially retarded are really, really off-putting to women. 1.00

01:56:10.180 Women who are socially retarded might be off-putting to men, but a lot of them are going to be like, 1.00

01:56:15.060 oh, she's just kind of quirky or whatever, and men will still have sex with them. 1.00

01:56:20.840 So, this idea that women who are, like, socially retarded or whatever, I kind of reject that, 0.96

01:56:27.780 I think.

01:56:28.640 Also, women are going to have massive hesitations just even being in the presence of somebody 1.00

01:56:34.800 who's, like, a male who's socially awkward, because then you're going to, like, it's going

01:56:38.500 to trigger your safety thing. 0.99

01:56:40.160 Whereas, while men can be in danger by being in the presence of, like, fucking unhinged 0.99

01:56:45.480 women or whatever, typically, in terms of social awkwardness, men have, while women can definitely 0.99

01:56:52.620 be violent and can definitely be abusive and can definitely kill men, I think it's fair

01:56:58.740 to say men are less concerned with that component.

01:57:04.440 So, also, I think when women are, like, autistic or whatever, men are way more forgiving of,

01:57:12.700 like, social, I mean, social retardation, basically, than, like, women are really, like, if you're 1.00

01:57:21.120 a neurotypical woman, and you're dealing, like, yo, you're not dealing with, like, a guy who's 1.00

01:57:28.320 fucking autistic, but a dude will definitely fuck an autistic chick, for sure. 1.00

01:57:34.140 For sure. 1.00

01:57:34.940 They'll fuck anything. 1.00

01:57:36.160 This is true. 1.00

01:57:36.680 There's porn for everything.

01:57:37.260 This is true. 0.77

01:57:38.140 Like, it's really off-putting as a woman. 1.00

01:57:40.280 Like, if a guy's socially dumb as fuck, like, yeah, you... 1.00

01:57:43.220 Oh, yeah, no, socially awkward is... 1.00

01:57:45.040 Yeah, women won't deal with that, generally speaking. 1.00

01:57:47.380 Yeah.

01:57:47.760 But do you have more?

01:57:49.020 No, I agree.

01:57:51.120 I wasn't aware of the, like, access denied part of it, or, like, we were trying to do

01:57:56.760 it.

01:57:57.960 Yeah, I mean, my view, I guess my view is access denied is different than, well, wait, what

01:58:05.920 is it? 0.98

01:58:08.540 Shit, I'm trying to remember what the... 1.00

01:58:11.580 I think even if you're not taught about sex, like, our natural biological being will tell 1.00

01:58:16.720 us to have sex. 0.88

01:58:18.020 The urges are still there, and we still understand that this goes in here, and something happens.

01:58:23.660 Well, what if you're, like, what if you're, like, 14, 15, you're a virgin, and you get

01:58:30.720 into, like, this car accident, and you, like, lose the ability of your legs, you become brain

01:58:35.380 damaged, that's, like, involuntarily, like...

01:58:38.020 Okay, but this is, like, a...

01:58:39.260 That's, like, a 0.3% rarity.

01:58:42.300 You know what, I will actually engage with you on this, so, um, I think, hold on, I'm

01:58:50.660 just looking up something really quick.

01:58:53.480 How did you come up with that?

01:58:54.740 How did you come up with that?

01:58:55.840 I can come up with a lot of things.

01:59:00.800 I'm not gonna ask.

01:59:02.000 I don't know, even if you're paralyzed from, like, the legs down, any girl, you just download 1.00

01:59:06.340 it, or swipe right to everything.

01:59:07.940 There will be someone.

01:59:08.920 I mean, yes, you can.

01:59:10.340 So, I'll answer your question, and the thing I was gonna finish up on there, so, denying

01:59:14.660 access is different than access denied. 0.99

01:59:18.700 So, women will deny access, like, guys will be, like, want some dick? 1.00

01:59:23.540 Nah, I'm good. 1.00

01:59:24.380 Nah, you're not a fem cell. 1.00

01:59:25.860 But, if you're a person, and you're, like, trying to get laid, and you're just not, then

01:59:33.460 you can be involuntarily celibate.

01:59:34.980 And, uh, in your case, so, a woman who, uh, is a quadriplegic, even, because you said

01:59:41.520 just lose their legs, I'm gonna go all the way quad, quadriplegic, full disabled, yeah, 1.00

01:59:48.100 she can get laid. 1.00

01:59:50.160 She can get laid. 1.00

01:59:51.280 You know what?

01:59:51.660 I kind of believe that.

01:59:52.900 Okay, look, if she's, like, uh, let's say she's, like, uh, average looking, and she's 0.99

01:59:59.780 a quadriplegic, she can go on Tinder, be like, I'm a quadriplegic, I'm in a wheelchair,

02:00:04.980 she can get laid that night. 1.00

02:00:07.560 Some guys will love that shit. 1.00

02:00:09.220 Yeah, no, I, yeah. 1.00

02:00:10.520 She will.

02:00:11.040 Aren't you in the OnlyFans industry?

02:00:12.840 Yeah, no, I am, and I did, just thinking about it, now there is a girl who is a quadriplegic

02:00:17.360 who does OnlyFans, I think, so.

02:00:19.320 Wow.

02:00:19.560 I think, great.

02:00:20.980 Yeah, I know.

02:00:21.560 Oh my god.

02:00:22.660 Yeah.

02:00:23.020 It complicates, it complicates things, obviously, and it probably closes the door, like, but

02:00:29.220 it closes the door.

02:00:30.620 But it opens a lot of new ones.

02:00:32.440 That is true.

02:00:33.160 There are gonna, there are gonna be some guys who are actually, like, into that.

02:00:37.860 Uh, they're into, it's a little curious, I would say, but, uh, not to say that somebody

02:00:47.920 who's disabled isn't deserving of love, or even just sex or a relationship, but, um, there 0.98

02:00:54.460 could be, like, a guy who has a king for that, there could be some, a little, I would be a

02:01:02.300 little suspect by it, not, but, not inherently, like, you could just be, like, whatever, you

02:01:07.260 know?

02:01:07.620 I mean, to each their own.

02:01:09.800 Yeah.

02:01:10.320 You know, the movies where it's, like, the ugly girl can't get a guy, no matter how much, 1.00

02:01:16.160 how big of a crush she has on someone, until she, like, gets a makeover, and then she's 0.95

02:01:21.480 no longer celibate, basically.

02:01:26.640 So that's, like, involuntary celibacy is going off of, like, could be based off of,

02:01:32.040 of, looks, or, well, I mean, I think, so, I mean, I would agree with you insofar as

02:01:40.140 becoming more attractive physically, whether you're a man or a woman, is going to increase

02:01:46.540 your, uh, sexual and romantic success and prospects, but I'm prepared to say that I think

02:01:54.220 even really unattractive women, without even attempting to make efforts to improve their 1.00

02:01:58.580 physical appearance, although it would be good for them, I'm very confident that, I

02:02:04.380 mean, just to make it super easy, within, like, a month they could get laid, and it's

02:02:08.300 probably, like, I think a really unattractive woman could download, uh, Tinder or Hinge 1.00

02:02:13.780 or, you know, go to a bar or club, that would maybe complicate, uh, not complicate, but that

02:02:19.480 could take a bit longer if she was trying to do it in person.

02:02:21.380 But if she downloads the dating app, almost any woman, even if she's obscenely unattractive, 1.00

02:02:26.760 uh, within a couple days, I want to say, could get laid super easily.

02:02:31.780 So I guess my thoughts are leaning more towards women can't necessarily be involuntarily celibate.

02:02:38.220 I'm just still trying to understand that question of itself.

02:02:43.620 Yeah, I think they can be voluntarily celibate.

02:02:45.520 Like, they can be vol cells, so it's like, you are waiting, I mean, basically, I think

02:02:52.860 that there's confusion, but I think it's, uh, a woman is, like, not finding the caliber

02:02:58.440 of guy that she would want to have sex with, but I think this idea that she couldn't find

02:03:05.020 a guy of, I'm not even saying she has to, like, the woman has to go and find some, like, 1.00

02:03:12.280 fucking, who, who's that guy from the Disney movie, the, with the hunchback, the hunchback? 0.98

02:03:17.660 Like, I don't know, she doesn't have to date, like, a hunchback or something. 1.00

02:03:20.800 I think, I think almost any woman can find a man of, I mean, sometimes women have an overestimated

02:03:28.780 sense of their own attractiveness.

02:03:30.600 Any woman could find a guy who's pretty much her equivalent in terms of looks and have sex 1.00

02:03:36.680 with him, right, if that's, uh, yeah, if she wanted to, so, or, I mean, but here's the thing,

02:03:44.880 right, I think, I wouldn't hold that standard even to an incel, like, incels will even say,

02:03:51.980 oh, you know, I'm, say, the incel's average looking, and he's like, I can't get with average

02:03:57.240 women, I'd be like, well, you got to go one or two points down, they'll say, uh, I, even 1.00

02:04:03.100 if I go down, like, even if I try to date a girl who's, like, less attractive, uh, than

02:04:09.980 I am, they still, they still can't get it, so, uh, yeah, women, I don't, I personally 1.00

02:04:17.560 don't think, now, is it logically possible that a woman could be involuntarily celibate?

02:04:23.500 It's logically possible, but, like, I can't imagine a scenario where, uh, she hops on it,

02:04:31.420 like, there would be geographic limitations, I don't know if she lived in, I don't know

02:04:37.020 where she would have to live, I mean, maybe, like, Antarctica, and there's, like, 30 people

02:04:41.780 there, and, like, there's not, but if she moved to, like, a reasonably populated area,

02:04:50.500 like, I, there's no woman, there's no woman in a major city, or even a medium population 0.99

02:04:56.180 city who could not get laid, that's my position, any disagreements, I don't know?

02:05:01.940 What about, you know, incel men who, uh, probably, who, like, kind of, like, get escorts, which

02:05:08.420 is, you know, common enough, doesn't count?

02:05:10.460 Yeah, that wouldn't, that wouldn't count, there would have to be, uh, the, the procure, procurement

02:05:17.520 of the sex cannot be financially, a financial transaction, because that would, I would agree 1.00

02:05:24.880 with you that even a guy who's an incel, they could just get an escort, like.

02:05:30.320 So then incelship doesn't exist?

02:05:33.480 No, because, uh, because while the sex has to be, um.

02:05:44.580 It's consensual.

02:05:45.580 Mutually desired?

02:05:47.500 Mutually desired.

02:05:48.720 The, look, the woman. 1.00

02:05:49.500 The woman wants it, because she's getting paid for it. 1.00

02:05:51.640 Yeah, but it wouldn't.

02:05:52.200 She wants the money, she doesn't want the man, that's different.

02:05:54.760 Yeah, the, the, the, the threshold has to be, uh, not, a non-financial transaction, essentially.

02:06:05.520 But it removes the involuntary part of the incel, like, word, it has to be renamed then,

02:06:11.120 because it's not involuntary.

02:06:12.340 Well, it is, well, hold on.

02:06:14.140 Um, yeah, I mean, baked into the, the idea of the term involuntary, uh, I think there's

02:06:27.400 a, there's a understanding that we're not talking about, uh, prostitution, because under

02:06:32.900 that framework, of course, any man could get laid.

02:06:36.120 We're talking about, they can't find a girl who will voluntarily have sex with them. 0.98

02:06:44.940 These, do you, let me ask it this way. 0.99

02:06:46.920 Would these women who are prostitutes voluntarily have sex with them absent payment of money? 1.00

02:06:53.720 No. 1.00

02:06:55.320 No.

02:06:55.380 Like, for example, I'm confident I could even present an offer to a woman who's not even 0.99

02:07:01.360 a prostitute who wouldn't otherwise have sex with me. 0.97

02:07:05.340 But if I offered her a billion dollars, there are women who aren't prostitutes who would 1.00

02:07:09.940 definitely prostitute themselves for a billion dollars. 0.97

02:07:13.340 So, under this dynamic, yes, if the, the, well, in this case, prostitutes, prostitute themselves 0.75

02:07:20.680 for far less than that.

02:07:21.980 Uh, yes, with, if you introduce like this other incentive structure, but the, uh, the incentive

02:07:28.320 structure would be, uh, they have, they have their own desire, uh, to have sex with you absent

02:07:36.900 financial compensation.

02:07:38.620 I guess this goes in favor with how you think of this question, women not being able, not 0.99

02:07:44.660 being involuntarily celibate, is that whenever I would read about, um, a man being in, in

02:07:52.000 cell, I, my thoughts is like, but isn't there someone for everybody?

02:07:56.620 But then again, maybe my thoughts, my question of that is because I'm a woman who like, I've

02:08:05.540 always wondered about that.

02:08:06.860 I'm like, isn't there someone for everybody?

02:08:08.560 I always wanted that.

02:08:10.180 Uh, I guess the opinion differs.

02:08:12.600 Yeah, no, that happens.

02:08:14.240 Yeah.

02:08:15.080 Now, regarding celibacy.

02:08:17.780 No, I don't really believe in that.

02:08:19.140 There's always, I think that's a woman thing. 1.00

02:08:21.240 That's what I'm saying.

02:08:22.200 Like, it's in favor of what you're saying.

02:08:25.000 That woman can't be involuntarily celibate. 1.00

02:08:28.180 My opinion is that there can be, that you can find someone who's interested in you.

02:08:35.280 Uh.

02:08:36.140 Do you get that?

02:08:36.860 Yeah, I think it's, I, yeah, I, I guess that's possible.

02:08:44.020 But what, okay.

02:08:45.960 I'm just saying, I'm, I'm understanding your question a little bit better now.

02:08:50.760 Okay.

02:08:51.360 As perspective of female perspective. 1.00

02:08:54.780 Well, you, no, you were saying that there's somebody for everybody.

02:08:58.020 In regards of interest, not necessarily like a forever partner.

02:09:02.100 It's like, it's like the question, I never understood the incel part.

02:09:08.200 Um.

02:09:08.600 So the involuntary is like, so the involuntary is not something that I understand.

02:09:14.300 What do you mean?

02:09:14.900 It's not something you understand.

02:09:16.260 Involuntary celibacy.

02:09:19.220 I didn't really get that question because I guess I just never.

02:09:22.860 I think it's like, so just hypothetically, if you go to a club with intent to find somebody

02:09:28.760 to hook up with that night and you don't, that's involuntary.

02:09:32.360 I think there, you know, like you tried and it didn't work and if it continues to happen,

02:09:37.780 then it's just not, you know, that's involuntary because you are attempting, but it's not happening.

02:09:42.900 I think there'd have to, yes, there'd have to be a bit of a pattern.

02:09:46.040 Yeah.

02:09:46.400 Like if a guy goes out to a club once and he doesn't get laid, I don't think he's involuntarily

02:09:50.460 celibate.

02:09:50.940 But if he tried for like extended period of time and he's been like, he's a virgin and

02:09:56.740 he's whatever, uh, then we can start making a determination as to their, uh, them being

02:10:01.940 involuntarily celibate.

02:10:04.120 But, uh, yeah, I mean the, I think the easiest test would simply be, I mean, you could be super

02:10:10.080 blunt about it.

02:10:10.860 You could basically just have, you go out, you go out into the street.

02:10:14.680 I think a woman who had like a sign around her neck, like she doesn't have to speak just 1.00

02:10:19.200 like a sign, a cardboard sign holding it. 0.98

02:10:21.320 This would be super pathetic for a man or a woman to do. 0.99

02:10:24.620 Uh, hi, I'm making myself available for sex. 0.99

02:10:27.420 I think if the, I think almost any woman did that, it might be really awkward and uncomfortable, 0.99

02:10:34.000 but she would get guys to come up to her.

02:10:37.020 Obviously the, the modern way to do this is just on the dating app.

02:10:40.620 But basically you don't have to do, do this really embarrassing public humiliation ritual,

02:10:45.500 basically.

02:10:45.960 But, uh, a woman, but even in public, a woman did that, there would definitely be guys 1.00

02:10:51.340 look at, Oh, like guys would actually do that.

02:10:58.520 But if a guy had like a sign, like no girls are, girls are not going to go unless he's 0.99

02:11:05.520 like fucking some male model, super hot dude, maybe. 0.98

02:11:10.000 But like you, you have an average looking girl do that versus an average looking guy do 1.00

02:11:14.560 that.

02:11:15.220 It's going to be very different.

02:11:16.860 Um, let's pull it back up, Mary.

02:11:19.840 All right.

02:11:20.460 Here's more, uh, of my positions.

02:11:24.220 I think men put in more effort when it comes to dating.

02:11:26.740 Dating is harder for men.

02:11:28.400 Uh, a woman's career money. 1.00

02:11:32.100 Somebody say something.

02:11:33.200 If you see something you, or hear something you disagree with.

02:11:36.380 I don't think body count matters.

02:11:38.540 Don't think body count matters.

02:11:40.100 Uh, maybe we'll come to that a little bit later.

02:11:42.480 Why don't we do, uh, uh, um, I disagree with seven should be drafted.

02:11:52.860 Yeah.

02:11:53.120 Women should be drafted. 1.00

02:11:53.940 Scroll down, Mary. 0.93

02:11:54.800 I would die. 0.90

02:11:56.480 Women. 0.99

02:11:56.940 Uh, yes, I think women should be drafted. 1.00

02:11:59.420 Uh, I don't like feminism. 1.00

02:12:02.300 Uh, I think women have equal rights to men, arguably more rights.

02:12:06.740 I think women are more privileged in totality. 1.00

02:12:09.580 Women are not oppressed in the USA.

02:12:11.460 Men are more oppressed than women. 0.97

02:12:14.000 People of color can be racist towards white people. 0.79

02:12:16.060 Women can be sexist towards men. 0.99

02:12:17.600 Men are physically stronger than women. 0.98

02:12:19.300 Nothing.

02:12:20.040 Men are the primary victims.

02:12:21.100 The women should be drafted thing, I think. 1.00

02:12:23.320 All right.

02:12:23.760 I disagree with that too.

02:12:25.320 I think that if you put me in the war, you don't want me fighting for your team.

02:12:29.900 I'm going to run around and like, hey girl, like I'm not going to like shoot people.

02:12:33.880 Yeah.

02:12:34.040 I agree that men are better soldiers than women. 1.00

02:12:36.300 I still think women should be drafted. 1.00

02:12:38.680 When you say drafted, do you mean specifically like to go out onto battle or like there are different

02:12:44.980 categories that you can be enlisted into, you know, like intelligence and things like that.

02:12:50.260 Yeah.

02:12:50.380 That's a fair question.

02:12:51.140 I think bare minimum, uh, you know, obviously in the military, there's not, you know, frontline.

02:12:56.980 Well, there's more than just frontline combat roles.

02:12:59.720 There's support roles.

02:13:00.740 There's cooks.

02:13:01.820 There's people who do vehicle repair.

02:13:03.900 There's people who are pencil pushers who handle paperwork, who, you know, all kinds of

02:13:09.080 different things.

02:13:09.580 Basically almost any job you see in the civilian world, you'll see in basically the military

02:13:14.340 world to some degree.

02:13:16.040 Uh, so bare minimum, yes, they should be, they can be drafted and they have to go to

02:13:20.860 bootcamp and all that.

02:13:23.120 But, uh, in terms of their actual, uh, role in the military, they can have a support role.

02:13:29.800 However, I would go beyond that.

02:13:31.460 And I'm fine with them being in combat.

02:13:35.020 I think they're worse in combat, but I'm okay with it.

02:13:38.680 So you want weaker people to be defending the country for the sake of equality? 0.99

02:13:44.760 Um, well, obviously look, you know, we're not equal.

02:13:48.580 Look, I'm saying this.

02:13:50.000 I think I, I do think men are better soldiers.

02:13:53.180 Men are better soldiers.

02:13:54.760 Men are physically stronger.

02:13:56.720 Uh, however, you know, look, the, the United States military is also very advanced.

02:14:01.180 I think we probably could have had women do the Venezuela thing. 1.00

02:14:06.100 Like we probably could have let them do it, you know, like with our tech and shit, they 0.99

02:14:10.740 probably could have been okay. 0.98

02:14:11.820 Hold on.

02:14:12.900 Not, they wouldn't have done as good of a job, you know, but they could have done it.

02:14:16.500 Uh, I want to mention that at the point where they got Maduro, he was at his safe door or

02:14:21.360 whatever was big and metallic and they had to pry it open while he was trying to close

02:14:24.640 it.

02:14:24.940 You think women could pry that metal door from Maduro? 0.98

02:14:28.560 Well, I don't know the specifics of it, but, um, I'm assuming they use tools, whether the

02:14:32.840 women are strong enough to even use the tools or not. 1.00

02:14:34.780 Exactly.

02:14:35.340 They're not because they're weak.

02:14:36.400 Well, look, maybe the woman could have, uh, maybe the, you send in two men to do the prying 1.00

02:14:40.700 of the door, but the, the women could have probably done the Venezuela Maduro thing. 1.00

02:14:45.780 What I find interesting is there are women that do volunteer to do these things. 0.99

02:14:51.780 And I actually disagree with you.

02:14:54.000 I don't think women are all that weak. 1.00

02:14:55.620 I think that we put ourself in a box of being weak, but women are not weak. 1.00

02:14:59.040 Women are weak. 1.00

02:14:59.800 If they were put in the same standards of testing, fine, but also on a moral level, I 0.99

02:15:04.440 don't think women should be put into battle. 1.00

02:15:07.060 Women have to try way harder to be as strong as men. 1.00

02:15:10.160 That's exactly what it is.

02:15:11.340 Mentally, physically, every aspect, women are weaker than men and it's just a fact. 1.00

02:15:16.060 But that's because we're-

02:15:16.620 I don't know about mentally.

02:15:17.520 I think that's-

02:15:18.260 I don't think mentally, yeah.

02:15:18.940 I don't think mentally, but physically-

02:15:20.180 Physically, totally agree.

02:15:21.360 But mentally-

02:15:21.820 Physically, yeah.

02:15:22.320 Biologically, like your body, yeah.

02:15:22.820 Mentally, 100%.

02:15:23.940 We are very emotional creatures compared to men, which is why we shouldn't be-

02:15:27.880 They're not good with decision-making because of their emotions.

02:15:30.460 And we need men who are much more logical, straight thinkers to be in our wars and our battles.

02:15:35.920 Even for paperwork, they're more meticulous with that in all the ways that, you know, war.

02:15:41.240 I think it just depends on your mindset.

02:15:43.500 If you have a weak mindset, that's what it is.

02:15:46.380 If you're a weak-minded woman, that's how it is. 1.00

02:15:49.540 If you're a strong-minded woman, you're a strong-minded woman, so- 0.55

02:15:53.640 Well, I think, look, I'll say this in terms-

02:15:56.120 So their physical strength, I think it's completely unassailable.

02:16:00.380 Men are physically stronger than women. 0.98

02:16:02.860 This is undeniable.

02:16:05.880 The mental strength or weakness, I'm not prepared to bite the bullet on that just because I think

02:16:11.480 it's a much harder position to defend.

02:16:15.120 So I won't bite the bullet on that.

02:16:16.840 I think people can make their arguments on that.

02:16:18.500 But in terms of physical strength, you would acknowledge that men are physically stronger

02:16:23.240 than women. 0.99

02:16:24.280 Biologically, yes.

02:16:25.080 But that does not necessarily directly correlate to the fact that women are weak to what you 1.00

02:16:29.940 were saying is women are weak. 1.00

02:16:31.280 And I think you said the same thing, which I point, which to me personally says a lot

02:16:36.000 about your own personal oppression and background of whatever your parents taught you or your

02:16:40.140 religion.

02:16:40.620 And I say that having been and grew up a Christian woman and having been in an evangelical church

02:16:45.600 is it's very oppressive to speaking to women are weaker and women shouldn't be in power 1.00

02:16:52.080 or in leadership because we're emotional or because whatever, when actually not all of

02:16:57.740 us are emotional.

02:16:58.660 And every single one of us in this room can, we have the full ability and capability to control

02:17:04.280 our own emotions.

02:17:05.040 Every single woman in politics has made a fool of themselves publicly on platforms, everything. 1.00

02:17:13.160 And it's like, they have literally just proved themselves to not be fit for those leadership 0.97

02:17:18.680 roles.

02:17:19.420 Women do not belong in politics. 1.00

02:17:21.060 They don't belong in leadership roles. 0.98

02:17:22.860 They should not be leaving this country whatsoever.

02:17:25.460 Hasn't every man also embarrassed themselves at one point in political roles as well?

02:17:31.080 Yeah, but they still handle it better logically because women automatically turn, I mean, the 1.00

02:17:35.780 best, the best like example I can come up with is Marjorie Greene who blew up, she's Republican. 1.00

02:17:41.140 She blew up on X over men saying that, oh, you should get in the kitchen and make your own 1.00

02:17:46.140 damn dinner and then clean up after yourself. 1.00

02:17:48.120 That's a fully great example of her losing her crap when men don't do that. 1.00

02:17:53.760 What about Caroline Levitt or Kaylee McKinnon, who have been like extremely vocal and just, I mean, 0.99

02:18:01.600 badasses to be quite frank.

02:18:03.200 I think that they say exactly what they think.

02:18:05.620 I love Caroline Levitt, but I don't think she's a leader.

02:18:06.960 She's not a leader. 0.99

02:18:07.600 She's a representative. 0.78

02:18:08.720 She's representing.

02:18:09.860 She speaks for the men.

02:18:12.560 The men tell them what to say.

02:18:14.260 So there's a difference when men are telling you what to say and then thinking for yourself

02:18:17.800 when you're literally a representative of Georgia, like of an entire state.

02:18:22.740 Honestly, hold on, guys.

02:18:23.400 So I can agree on one thing.

02:18:25.900 So if women can be drafted, then it should be okay then for a man to watch over the kids, 1.00

02:18:33.120 feed the kids, like do that. 0.98

02:18:35.440 Because if a woman does get drafted, like who's going to be doing the other side? 1.00

02:18:39.220 I don't think women should be drafted. 1.00

02:18:40.560 I don't think women should be drafted. 1.00

02:18:41.300 I don't think men should be like doing all that.

02:18:42.840 Because that's like another side because there is another job to do.

02:18:47.040 And that's like watching, for instance, there's a family.

02:18:50.220 In the same way, women should be taking care of their family, 1.00

02:18:52.720 not going to the military.

02:18:53.680 If you have a family, you should be with your kids and providing dinner and teaching them

02:18:59.440 and not handing them over to government systems to be taken care of. 0.97

02:19:02.840 It's ridiculous. 0.60

02:19:03.340 And the reason like women getting drafted has been brought up is because of this dating 1.00

02:19:06.760 culture and the fact that family is not a priority for women anymore. 1.00

02:19:11.120 Yeah.

02:19:11.620 So if a woman does get drafted, then like, okay, then a man has to watch the family.

02:19:16.720 Well, if you both have kids, if a woman and a man have kids in the relationship,

02:19:22.140 only one should get drafted and that should be the man.

02:19:26.100 So what would happen with like your scenario, just to use you as an example,

02:19:30.680 what would happen with your scenario?

02:19:31.700 You guys aren't married.

02:19:32.760 No.

02:19:33.520 It doesn't matter that you're not married.

02:19:35.380 They could draft you both.

02:19:36.360 They don't care.

02:19:37.560 Yeah.

02:19:38.180 Like there is that.

02:19:41.660 Well, she would be, they're not married.

02:19:44.200 She would be considered a single mother and therefore single mothers should not be able 1.00

02:19:48.380 to be drafted because she would need to be taking care of her kids. 1.00

02:19:52.020 It's impossible.

02:19:52.960 You wouldn't be drafted.

02:19:53.920 Yeah, that's what I would think.

02:19:55.960 I wouldn't think they would take like a mom away from her kids if she's the only one watching 1.00

02:20:02.040 and providing for the kids, like on paper at least.

02:20:05.660 Okay.

02:20:06.160 Yeah.

02:20:07.380 I don't think women should be drafted though. 1.00

02:20:09.420 Agreed.

02:20:10.240 Especially not me. 0.99

02:20:11.120 Yeah, that's like the most retarded statement I've ever heard in my life. 1.00

02:20:13.600 I think women, I think women. 1.00

02:20:15.080 You missed it, Brian.

02:20:16.060 So if a woman is drafted, should the guys stay home and take care of the kids? 1.00

02:20:18.860 Hold on, let her finish. 0.99

02:20:19.540 I think that it should be like an organ donor.

02:20:24.440 If you want to be able to be drafted, you, once you're like 18, you can let the U.S. know,

02:20:32.320 whoever know, like, yeah, like I give permission to be drafted if it ever gets down to that point.

02:20:37.060 As just a woman or both men and women?

02:20:39.140 As just a woman. 0.51

02:20:40.880 But men don't have a choice.

02:20:42.500 What was the thing that I missed or whatever?

02:20:44.380 I mean, I guess not.

02:20:45.000 If women are drafted, then who's going to take care of the kids? 1.00

02:20:47.760 Is it going to be the men?

02:20:49.240 Yeah, the birth rate is at an all-time low.

02:20:53.260 Most women are waiting until like their really late 20s or 30s to have kids. 1.00

02:20:57.520 We're below replacement level.

02:20:59.660 So if you're saying that women are having some duty to take care of the kids, where? 1.00

02:21:05.100 They're not.

02:21:06.120 Women are not holding up their end of the deal in society. 1.00

02:21:09.220 Okay, women are the ones who are going to be responsible for regenerating the population. 1.00

02:21:14.040 If some of the men die in war, women aren't getting married. 1.00

02:21:17.960 They're not getting pregnant. 1.00

02:21:19.060 They're not having kids or they're delaying it until their fucking 30s. 1.00

02:21:22.800 So this idea that, well, the equal trade-off here is, well, when the men go to war and die 0.99

02:21:28.160 and protect the nation, the women are going to do their duty and have kids. 0.99

02:21:32.660 Women, by and large, are not holding up their end of the deal. 1.00

02:21:36.540 Well, furthermore, women have accepted equality, and I would point out that men have a government-sanctioned,

02:21:45.560 a government-forced duty to the country.

02:21:48.780 Women don't have an actual duty to have kids. 1.00

02:21:53.480 I think women do have a duty to have kids. 1.00

02:21:55.660 They don't.

02:21:56.260 I disagree.

02:21:56.700 They do.

02:21:57.000 It's our purpose.

02:21:57.460 Yes, our purpose is to bear children and have families.

02:22:00.540 Purpose is different.

02:22:01.420 So, for example, the United States government, or let's actually, we have some two Russian

02:22:05.820 women here. 1.00

02:22:06.360 I sort of, well, one Russian.

02:22:08.120 So in the Ukraine-Russia conflict, I'm sure she's going to love this.

02:22:13.220 Oh, no.

02:22:13.580 So in Ukraine, they had a shortage.

02:22:18.040 Well, I don't know if shortage is the right word, but they would abduct men in the streets.

02:22:22.700 It's the military police would abduct men, and who knows where they ended up a few weeks 0.98

02:22:28.340 or months later, probably on the front line dead, fucking getting droned or whatever. 0.97

02:22:33.020 So can you tell me a country where the government or the military is abducting 18 to 30-year-old 0.99

02:22:44.180 women and, like, forcing them to get pregnant? 1.00

02:22:46.260 Has that ever happened?

02:22:50.880 Honestly, for some reason, that rings a bell, but I don't know what country.

02:22:54.300 Like, some country was, like, below in population.

02:22:56.280 When I'm speaking of duty, is it the case that if a woman so chooses, she can go through 0.85

02:23:03.320 her whole life and never have kids? 0.98

02:23:05.540 Yes.

02:23:05.980 She doesn't have a duty, then.

02:23:07.200 There's a moral and biological duty.

02:23:10.000 I don't think it's you're morally obligated to put a baby.

02:23:15.700 Didn't you grow up evangelical?

02:23:16.720 Yeah, that's separate.

02:23:18.720 No, I didn't say I grew up.

02:23:19.940 I said I grew up Christian, and I went to an evangelistic church on my own.

02:23:24.380 So you grew up Christian?

02:23:25.160 I did.

02:23:25.820 In the Bible, it states that women were created for the sake of man and man not for the sake 0.82

02:23:30.060 of women, and that women's purpose is to bear children. 0.99

02:23:33.260 Are there women who are atheists?

02:23:35.480 I mean, yeah, of course, but my point is she grew up Christian.

02:23:38.720 America will prioritize. 0.71

02:23:39.880 Are you Christian?

02:23:40.900 Um, I would consider myself Christian, but more spiritually based, but I don't want to

02:23:47.280 have kids.

02:23:47.720 I don't want to get pregnant. 1.00

02:23:48.800 I don't want to put my body through that.

02:23:50.760 And I think I'm allowed to be Christian and also not get pregnant if I don't want to, because 0.94

02:23:56.740 it is my choice if I want to get pregnant or not.

02:23:59.880 Well, sure.

02:24:00.380 I was into years of ancestry and just going to cut it off with you. 0.93

02:24:03.860 I'm the youngest of eight children.

02:24:05.620 They'll be okay.

02:24:07.160 You're like, that'll be fine.

02:24:08.700 There's plenty of babies.

02:24:09.860 I'm an aunt of eight.

02:24:11.140 There's plenty of children.

02:24:12.300 I don't know the, uh, I'm, I don't really know that I'm not, uh, I have pro-Christian

02:24:18.620 sentiment, but I'm, I'm not a Christian.

02:24:21.340 Um, is there a Christian obligation to have children?

02:24:30.960 I don't know.

02:24:32.060 Is there?

02:24:33.220 I believe that there is.

02:24:34.980 There might be.

02:24:35.700 Because God calls for us to make disciples and making disciples is.

02:24:39.480 Be fruitful and multiply or something?

02:24:40.560 Is that the.

02:24:41.040 Be fruitful and multiply.

02:24:41.900 But what if they can't have children?

02:24:43.720 Well, that would be different, right?

02:24:45.060 Yeah.

02:24:45.500 Yeah.

02:24:45.960 There have been stories in the Bible where women can't have children and they're called

02:24:49.080 for different things.

02:24:50.100 But I think if you're able to have children and you're choosing not to, that's selfish

02:24:54.160 for the women that can't have children, but want to. 1.00

02:24:56.360 Didn't you also believe though, that it was also like a Christian thing to not say how

02:25:01.660 many, like your body count and like your, how many people you've slept with and all that

02:25:07.200 stuff and all that.

02:25:09.360 But under the guise of a marriage, it's different because marriage is sacred.

02:25:14.280 Marriage is sacred and children are sacred and should be protected.

02:25:18.080 So.

02:25:18.280 I just think everyone should have a choice.

02:25:20.400 Like going, like being drafted should be a choice for men and having kids should be 0.94

02:25:25.400 a choice for men.

02:25:26.140 Like everything should be a choice. 1.00

02:25:30.000 I have, what shit. 1.00

02:25:32.140 Is it. 1.00

02:25:32.840 Something about if you're a Christian, is it a, uh, is it a sin to be a Christian and choose

02:25:42.920 not to have kids?

02:25:44.540 No.

02:25:44.800 Like, is it a sin?

02:25:46.520 I don't know.

02:25:47.700 It's not in the commandments, but you are ignoring his will.

02:25:51.440 Is it a sin chat?

02:25:52.660 Is it a sin?

02:25:54.060 Like, of course we have to acknowledge some women can't be pregnant, can't get pregnant, 0.84

02:25:58.380 but assuming that the woman doesn't have fertility issues, is it a sin to choose actively to 0.86

02:26:06.280 not, you know, make a determination that you never have kids?

02:26:10.760 Is it a sin?

02:26:11.940 If you're a Christian, I don't know. 1.00

02:26:13.460 I'm asking people in the chat are saying, no, it's not a sin.

02:26:17.820 Is it then some, some, wait, yes.

02:26:23.060 God said, be fruitful and multiply.

02:26:24.720 It's not a sin, but is it not acting in accordance with Christianity?

02:26:31.380 It's like, you're not, you're not being sinful, but you're also not obeying God's

02:26:35.700 path for you, which is then you are still straying from the father.

02:26:39.780 What if having children is not my path?

02:26:43.000 What if, for instance, fostering children is my path to protect the children that are

02:26:48.160 in bad foster situations?

02:26:50.200 Adoption.

02:26:50.460 What if adoption, right?

02:26:52.880 But what if I don't want to because of my own medical situations that would make it

02:26:57.740 very difficult?

02:26:58.780 Or what if I simply don't want to put my body through that?

02:27:02.680 What if I'm worried?

02:27:03.860 I'm hearing a lot of I, I, I, my body, me, what I want.

02:27:08.460 That sounds incredibly selfish.

02:27:10.680 Thank you.

02:27:11.040 Wait, is it, wait, really quick.

02:27:12.400 Is it selfish then in your case, would it be selfish asking you to, if say she has a medical

02:27:19.800 history of a lot of cancer or, um, schizophrenia or basically things that are just not good

02:27:27.100 to pass on to a child?

02:27:28.040 Is it selfish to, to not have kids if you carry those like genetic, um, predispositions?

02:27:34.260 Yeah, because you're never, you're not going to know unless you have children.

02:27:39.640 If those things get passed.

02:27:41.100 Let's, uh, let's go back to the draft though.

02:27:43.660 What was the thing about the draft?

02:27:46.120 Something about the draft?

02:27:47.480 Taking care of kids?

02:27:48.060 Taking tests.

02:27:48.740 I don't know.

02:27:49.000 What, what was the draft?

02:27:50.100 Somebody was saying, I think women should get drafted. 1.00

02:27:53.500 That's ridiculous. 0.99

02:27:54.160 Maybe women should get drafted because then more women would get pregnant trying to not 1.00

02:27:57.840 go into more.

02:27:58.760 All right.

02:27:59.000 Essentially what I said.

02:28:00.680 Yeah.

02:28:00.880 I think you were like, oh wait, um, so I, I can agree that if women can be drafted, then 0.99

02:28:08.520 women, like, then men should watch the family. 1.00

02:28:11.100 So like, if yes, then yes.

02:28:13.240 So like, if a woman goes away to war, like who's going to watch the family, then it has 0.99

02:28:17.260 to be the guy.

02:28:17.860 He has to know how to feed the family, uh, put them to sleep, everything, all of that.

02:28:22.360 He has to essentially, uh, perform the duties of her while she's gone.

02:28:28.780 But women are just so much better at it than men are. 1.00

02:28:32.680 Yeah, but this assumes, hold on, but this assumes that there is an existing family and

02:28:39.340 children.

02:28:40.960 Most likely.

02:28:41.860 I mean, in how many are getting married at like in their late twenties and not have putting

02:28:46.780 off having children into their late twenties and thirties.

02:28:49.980 Most conscripted, uh, most, uh, conscripted soldiers, it's like 18 to, I don't know, 22,

02:28:57.480 23, 24.

02:28:59.080 Well, okay.

02:28:59.840 If a woman gets drafted at 18 or 20 and she, I don't know where she ends up, she never gets 0.99

02:29:07.960 the opportunity to have a kid or make birth.

02:29:11.620 So just like men here, do you think women should be allowed to vote? 1.00

02:29:15.920 Yeah.

02:29:18.100 Okay.

02:29:18.480 Then they should be drafted.

02:29:19.520 End of discussion.

02:29:21.520 I don't.

02:29:23.280 Drafting, uh, and being voted, that's different things.

02:29:26.680 Yeah, they, they are different things, but in order for a man to be able to vote, he too,

02:29:30.880 he has to be subject to military conscription to be able to vote in the United States.

02:29:37.860 So if you want equality, I mean, you should probably just take it across the board.

02:29:42.560 Brian, do you think women should vote? 0.98

02:29:44.100 Uh, well, it's an interesting question.

02:29:48.360 Uh, so I'll answer it like this.

02:29:50.520 I'm, I think we should kind of do away with universal suffrage.

02:29:53.880 So that means we would take back voting from both men and women, uh, to degree.

02:29:59.620 I think there, there are criteria, which would allow you to be able to vote.

02:30:03.780 One of those could be through military service and we would allow both men and women to volunteer

02:30:09.080 for this.

02:30:09.600 You could also have a civil service.

02:30:11.980 Uh, so I wouldn't gender it.

02:30:14.240 I would just say, uh, I don't think a lot.

02:30:17.360 I think a lot of people shouldn't be voting both men and women.

02:30:21.700 Uh, so you can also maybe get the right to vote through having, uh, some sort of stake

02:30:26.660 in the country.

02:30:27.360 Maybe after you have two or three children, maybe if you are a landowner, a homeowner,

02:30:33.740 maybe you can get a stake then, but just anybody having the right to vote, I think is kind of

02:30:39.120 a mistake. 1.00

02:30:40.520 I think it's a massive mistake and, uh, it's led to a lot of stupid shit. 1.00

02:30:46.780 And so I, so to be clear, I'm, I'd be in favor of taking away the right to vote from both 1.00

02:30:52.980 men and women.

02:30:55.680 I'm, I don't think universal suffrage was a good idea.

02:30:59.640 Uh, now, uh, there was two parts to this, but it's kind of evading me what my second part

02:31:07.060 was.

02:31:07.440 Um, uh, an intelligence test. 0.79

02:31:13.740 You could, cause you have a lot of like low IQ, low, uh, like low, low intelligence voters.

02:31:23.860 Um, you could do that, but I don't know if that'd be my first go-to.

02:31:29.180 Uh, yeah.

02:31:31.260 I have a personal question for you.

02:31:34.280 Uh, you say you've been married for four years now.

02:31:36.860 Yep.

02:31:37.440 You're 31.

02:31:38.340 Yep.

02:31:39.040 You want kids.

02:31:40.100 Mm-hmm.

02:31:41.220 Where, what, what's with the, we have an apartment right now.

02:31:45.580 We need a bigger place.

02:31:46.860 Okay.

02:31:47.320 That's really it.

02:31:48.240 I understand.

02:31:48.740 Yeah.

02:31:48.900 Um, so in terms of like women voting though, um, I do think, I think it's just realistically 0.98

02:31:57.840 speaking, uh, you're not going to be able to like, that's an, I think that's an untenable

02:32:03.520 position.

02:32:04.240 People who want to take away women's right to vote.

02:32:06.620 Um, you know, I've heard arguments for it, but I think it's politically untenable.

02:32:11.300 I do think though that women currently, as it currently stands, have a privilege over 1.00

02:32:17.800 men when it comes to voting.

02:32:19.240 Because in order for men to have the right to vote, they have to be subject to forced 0.99

02:32:23.600 military conscription.

02:32:25.040 Women have no such obligation or duty. 1.00

02:32:27.380 I think at the very least for the time being, we need to equalize that.

02:32:31.500 Women should have some sort of, uh, civil or military duty, uh, to the state to, uh, and 1.00

02:32:38.360 that should be changed.

02:32:39.320 But getting rid of women's right to vote, I'd say no, but I am in favor of walking back 1.00

02:32:45.580 universal suffrage for both men and women.

02:32:49.500 Yeah.

02:32:50.100 Do you think an army of women is going to win? 1.00

02:32:52.860 No, I don't care though.

02:32:54.000 You guys voted for equality.

02:32:55.880 So here are the fruits of the equality that you so desperately demand.

02:33:01.620 I don't think women should vote personally. 1.00

02:33:04.900 And my argument for that is because we have the choice to not be drafted.

02:33:09.040 And if we're not going to lay down our life for this country, then we shouldn't be voting

02:33:14.080 for this country, period.

02:33:15.640 I also don't think that women, I mean, all of, I could ask all of you guys this question

02:33:20.960 and ask you if you are involved in politics or if you know anything about the governmental

02:33:25.560 system of the United States.

02:33:28.140 Honestly, I'm trying not to involve myself.

02:33:30.400 Like I stay away from politics.

02:33:32.280 Did you vote in the 2025 election?

02:33:34.760 No, I don't vote.

02:33:35.620 I'm not planning to vote.

02:33:36.660 I'm not old enough to vote.

02:33:37.560 And I'm never probably going to vote.

02:33:39.120 Like I don't really care.

02:33:41.060 Anybody else?

02:33:42.840 I am a little bit ignorant on the last couple years of politics because I had a really bad 0.84

02:33:48.860 alcoholism, stabbed myself and then went to jail.

02:33:51.420 So I was kind of out for a little bit.

02:33:54.060 Wow.

02:33:54.340 Did you vote?

02:33:55.700 No, I wasn't around.

02:33:57.360 Did anybody here vote?

02:33:58.740 Me?

02:33:58.860 I voted.

02:33:59.300 I wasn't around.

02:34:00.420 And I'm pretty political in my mindset and my knowledge about it, I think.

02:34:05.820 Do you think women should vote? 1.00

02:34:07.120 I think everyone should go through an intelligence test, men and women, and then maybe you can

02:34:13.080 have the right to vote.

02:34:15.180 I agree with Brian's take on it.

02:34:17.740 I don't know exactly what would be the prerequisites for, you know, becoming...

02:34:23.340 Closer to the mic.

02:34:24.680 Sorry.

02:34:25.760 I don't know what exactly the prerequisites would be, but I definitely don't think every

02:34:29.940 single person in this country has the intelligence to understand fully what they are voting for.

02:34:37.120 I also don't think dual citizens should be able to vote because you got to be locked 1.00

02:34:43.300 in in America, I think, to be able to have a say in American politics.

02:34:47.300 And if you're split, it's just not it.

02:34:50.060 I think you should be living in America for at least 10 years after the age of 18 to be 1.00

02:35:04.300 able to vote, in my opinion, but involved.

02:35:07.740 Probably the only thing I'll agree with you on this evening, but yes, I agree.

02:35:16.500 I think that you should actually know what you're talking about before you vote, which

02:35:20.240 is personally, I don't stay up to date on a lot of politics because it is very stressful.

02:35:24.460 And so, therefore, I don't vote because I'm not going to make a decision on something or

02:35:31.420 speak on something that I'm not fully informed of.

02:35:34.380 You didn't vote?

02:35:34.800 I also wasn't in the country, so...

02:35:37.220 Wait, you're held 26?

02:35:38.700 Yeah.

02:35:40.160 So, you voted...

02:35:42.460 You could have voted for the past two elections?

02:35:45.580 Mm-hmm.

02:35:46.320 You didn't vote for either, though?

02:35:47.620 No.

02:35:47.960 Oh, okay.

02:35:49.520 Yeah.

02:35:50.100 I mean, in terms of the woman's vote, though, it is the case that if only women voted, for 1.00

02:35:58.420 example, and men didn't, you'd basically have Democrat rule for the next 100 years. 1.00

02:36:04.720 And if only men voted, you would only have Republican rule or conservative rule for the

02:36:10.580 next 100 years.

02:36:11.580 And I do think it is the case that when women are voting, they typically vote for what feels 1.00

02:36:19.460 good, not what is necessarily best for the country.

02:36:23.440 Women are the pushers of political correctness. 1.00

02:36:27.700 They're the pushers of what feels good, what seems good, what seems like the nice, warm,

02:36:34.620 cuddly thing to do.

02:36:35.880 Basically, let in a bunch of immigrants.

02:36:38.880 Oh, it's the nice thing.

02:36:39.940 They're coming here for a better life.

02:36:41.500 Oh, my God.

02:36:43.360 Women overwhelmingly vote for this. 1.00

02:36:45.300 They support this.

02:36:46.180 And so, you could point to the enfranchisement of women for, honestly, a lot of the issues 0.66

02:36:53.300 in the country currently.

02:36:56.420 I think women voting is literally the burden of our economic infrastructure in all of America. 1.00

02:37:03.040 I think we're responsible for it.

02:37:04.600 Because otherwise, we wouldn't be overrun by immigrants, and our taxes wouldn't be the 1.00

02:37:10.040 way that they are.

02:37:11.060 America wouldn't be the way that it is.

02:37:13.520 It would probably be better.

02:37:16.460 Does anybody have any thoughts there?

02:37:17.880 Did you vote?

02:37:19.120 I'm just wondering, did you?

02:37:20.460 I'm not going to comment on that.

02:37:21.620 I think if you didn't vote, you honestly can't talk about politics in any way, shape, or

02:37:27.120 form.

02:37:27.360 Because you had the opportunity to make a difference in this country, and you chose not

02:37:30.920 to.

02:37:32.540 I can't make a difference from Moscow, Idaho.

02:37:35.500 Every single person in America thinks that their vote doesn't matter.

02:37:39.040 And that's exactly why we had the least amount of votes this past election.

02:37:42.500 And we've had in a really, really long time.

02:37:44.460 Do you think it's because people didn't...

02:37:46.260 Sorry, I didn't mean to cut you off.

02:37:47.520 Do you think it's because of that, or do you think it's because the candidates this

02:37:51.180 time just were not the best on either side?

02:37:55.260 I think it's both, for sure.

02:37:56.780 But I think that every single person thinks that they can't make a difference, and that's

02:38:00.180 why they don't go out and vote.

02:38:01.600 But it's your constitutional right to choose.

02:38:05.020 And when you choose not to, how can you have an opinion on anything?

02:38:08.380 You had the choice, you had the opportunity to make a difference, and you chose not to.

02:38:12.900 And your mindset is exactly what's wrong with this country, and it's exactly what's

02:38:16.400 wrong with the youth.

02:38:17.080 And it's exactly why nobody's voting.

02:38:19.000 And it's exactly why people keep coming into power, and everybody talks about it, and everybody's

02:38:23.360 pissed off about it.

02:38:24.580 But you didn't do anything when you had the chance to do it.

02:38:28.380 So how can you speak on something when you chose not to?

02:38:32.540 I think I never said that women don't have free will to talk about politics. 1.00

02:38:36.360 I think women can absolutely talk about politics, but I don't think they should be involved 1.00

02:38:39.500 in them.

02:38:40.720 But talking about them is kind of being involved, right?

02:38:43.580 Exactly.

02:38:44.520 Yeah.

02:38:44.880 Yeah.

02:38:45.140 No, it's not.

02:38:46.800 Because if you're physically involved in politics by voting, that's completely different rather

02:38:51.380 than sitting around a table talking about politics with a bunch of girls.

02:38:56.040 Because we're not doing anything for the country right now, are we?

02:38:58.800 We're not protesting.

02:39:00.120 We're not pleading.

02:39:01.920 We're not trying to run a bill.

02:39:04.880 Like, we're not doing anything.

02:39:08.820 We're just talking.

02:39:09.940 You know, I was thinking about something.

02:39:12.140 I saw a tweet, and I reposted it a day or two ago.

02:39:16.100 I think if we were importing millions upon millions of ABGs, Asian baby girls, boba girls, 1.00

02:39:22.740 or whatever, like, if we were importing, like, 18 to 29-year-old, like, Southeast Asian women, 1.00

02:39:32.040 Japanese, Korean, Chinese, Vietnamese women into this country, instead of, like, Indian men,

02:39:40.500 Latin American men. 0.98

02:39:41.400 Uh, I'm pretty sure women would immediately put on fucking SS uniforms and immediately want to put a stop to, um... 1.00

02:39:54.400 Shout out to Asmengol for this one. 0.99

02:39:56.220 Uh, the women would put on an SS uniform and immediately want a complete halting of immigration into this country. 1.00

02:40:05.520 If we were importing 18 to 29-year-old women... 1.00

02:40:11.660 Wait, why?

02:40:13.740 Because it would be sexual competition.

02:40:16.640 Oh.

02:40:17.480 If we're importing, like, women who are just, like, way better looking and, like, way more feminine 0.99

02:40:23.040 than the, like, stock of women that we have in the United States, 1.00

02:40:26.800 yeah, women would be, like, furious and up in arms 1.00

02:40:29.280 because you'd start losing your, like, leverage in the dating marketplace.

02:40:34.660 But because it's like, you know, we're importing men, whatever, you know, you guys are fine with it, whatever.

02:40:40.720 No, I feel like I'm always competing with Latinas, not the Asians. 0.95

02:40:44.860 Well, it could be Latinas, too.

02:40:46.280 It could be Latinas, too, I guess, but, um...

02:40:50.180 Yeah.

02:40:51.240 Nothing is stopping any woman from being high quality. 0.86

02:40:55.300 No matter the race.

02:40:58.420 Uh, sure, yeah.

02:40:59.840 Sure.

02:41:00.700 I just think, like, if the demographics of who the, uh, either legal or illegal immigrants shifted,

02:41:08.920 and, like, these women would be way more desirable than American women, 1.00

02:41:14.680 bro, I mean, we have a whole movement, passport bros, who leave, who travel, spend a bunch of money 0.80

02:41:20.980 to go to a different country because the quality of the women in these other countries 1.00

02:41:25.880 is just better than the quality of American women. 1.00

02:41:28.800 So it's like, yeah, the women would be completely up in arms. 0.99

02:41:32.320 White women would be the most anti-immigrant demographic that fucking ever existed 1.00

02:41:38.960 if we were just importing a bunch of, like, hot 18 to 29-year-old Latin American women, 1.00

02:41:48.540 Eastern European women, even Western European women, Asian women.

02:41:54.180 Y'all would, y'all would not like that.

02:41:57.940 Yeah.

02:41:59.600 No?

02:42:00.440 No?

02:42:01.300 Nothing?

02:42:01.700 Nothing for that?

02:42:02.660 I wouldn't care.

02:42:04.320 I would be...

02:42:04.340 I don't know.

02:42:05.380 It depends on the scale.

02:42:07.400 If they're stealing my man...

02:42:09.300 They're taking the men...

02:42:10.500 Ban immigration! 1.00

02:42:11.580 Get them bitches out! 1.00

02:42:12.220 Hold on, isn't it? 0.99

02:42:12.800 Those of you who are single, uh, do you guys feel like there's an abundance of, like,

02:42:17.360 high quality men currently?

02:42:19.540 Not in the U.S. 0.99

02:42:21.760 In Europe, yeah.

02:42:23.400 If there's an abundance of high quality men, why aren't you dating them?

02:42:27.960 I think there's a...

02:42:28.880 At least...

02:42:29.240 Well, I think from the women's lens and perspective, I think women think that there's a scarcity 1.00

02:42:36.320 of high quality men.

02:42:38.380 I don't think so.

02:42:39.640 I think that there's...

02:42:40.920 I think it's all perspective, just like everything else in life.

02:42:43.680 And so, me personally, I want someone that I feel that connection with.

02:42:51.600 I want someone that I get along with.

02:42:52.880 I want someone that I share morals with.

02:42:54.980 Mm-hmm.

02:42:55.300 Um, that we have the same drive and ambition and wants in life.

02:43:02.000 You know, I think that...

02:43:03.260 Sure.

02:43:03.680 There's plenty of men that have money.

02:43:06.200 There's plenty of men that are good.

02:43:08.360 I don't believe that all men are bad.

02:43:09.980 I don't believe that most men are bad.

02:43:11.840 And that's a lot coming from me, if you know my background and my story.

02:43:17.320 Um, I think that there are a lot of good, high quality men out there that maybe just

02:43:22.620 haven't really applied themselves the way that they could.

02:43:27.120 And they need someone that will support them or push them or whatever.

02:43:31.260 Um, but I, I mean, there's plenty of men with money that are kind, that are generous,

02:43:35.960 that are whatever.

02:43:38.080 I don't think all men are bad.

02:43:39.300 What do you offer that makes a man want to push himself though?

02:43:41.840 Um, that's a great question.

02:43:45.960 I mean, I think it just depends.

02:43:47.620 Um, for me and my past relationships, what I've been told that I offered that made a

02:43:52.980 man want to do more, um, for himself is inspiration and support.

02:43:58.780 Um, you know, and being there 100% for him and supporting him through whatever he wants

02:44:03.940 to do and whatever he wants in life.

02:44:05.780 I think that is being a true partner.

02:44:08.560 Um, and I may not want kids in that.

02:44:12.620 I will say that is for medical reasons.

02:44:15.340 Um, so I'm, I'm RH negative and I've already had, I had a miscarriage with my ex-husband

02:44:21.320 and RH negative means that my.

02:44:23.880 Previously married.

02:44:24.780 Yes.

02:44:25.460 Um, what's RH negative?

02:44:27.180 RH negative is, um, so you're either, everyone's either RH negative or RH positive.

02:44:32.240 If you're RH negative and you have a miscarriage, then you're more likely to have more miscarriages.

02:44:36.840 Whenever you're RH negative and you have a baby that's RH positive or your partner's RH positive,

02:44:41.860 your body creates antibodies to kill a fetus.

02:44:45.700 And because of that, plus other things, um, like I have a seizure disorder, I have an extreme

02:44:52.540 phobia of needles.

02:44:53.280 I only have a seizure when I'm around needles and you cannot have a seizure while you're

02:44:59.640 trying to give birth. 0.68

02:45:00.660 Well, every time that I'm, you know, if I'm giving blood or whatever, you have to give

02:45:04.960 blood all the time.

02:45:06.020 Whenever I had my miscarriage, I had to go give blood all the time.

02:45:08.960 I had a seizure every single time.

02:45:10.480 Um, that impairs blood or cause you have to get your, um, HCG levels or HGC or whatever

02:45:17.400 levels checked.

02:45:18.300 Whenever you got the triggering event for your seizures was giving blood.

02:45:22.840 Yes.

02:45:23.280 Since I was little.

02:45:24.420 So I pass out and I have a grand mal seizure.

02:45:27.320 Um, this has happened since I was seven years old and I've also had seizures outside of that,

02:45:32.180 but that's the primary thing that I deal with.

02:45:34.020 Well, look, I think for medical reasons, not wanting to have children is, uh, is valid, 1.00

02:45:38.100 but, um, so, um, my, my point that I was circling back to is that even though that's not possible

02:45:48.760 for me, something that I have discussed with my past partners is adoption is fostering because

02:45:55.220 I'm someone that has the heart to do that, which is why I brought that point to you two

02:45:59.080 ladies that just because I don't feel comfortable getting physically pregnant because it could 1.00

02:46:04.380 actually kill me does not mean that my, you know, God's path for me is not meaningful.

02:46:14.580 Doesn't mean that I'm not meant to do something right.

02:46:18.120 Be that type of person or whatever.

02:46:21.040 And I think for you ladies to sit here and say that women's duty is to get pregnant and have 1.00

02:46:26.680 children is putting a box around women that have special circumstances and you may not even be

02:46:34.840 realizing it, but even if it was simply my choice that I just don't want to, but I have a heart for

02:46:40.920 something else that a lot of people don't have a heart for.

02:46:44.260 I think that that's something special.

02:46:46.380 I do think that's a kind of like a personal condition because I don't know how often that

02:46:52.560 happens that someone's like HR negative.

02:46:55.040 What does this have to do with the ABGs though?

02:46:57.840 Oh my God.

02:46:59.680 What does that have to do with the ABGs?

02:47:01.100 I don't think anyone was really interested in the ABGs.

02:47:03.000 I think they were very interested.

02:47:04.280 I think you guys just don't want to acknowledge the fact that y'all women would be like the most

02:47:09.080 anti-immigration people ever if the demographic of illegal and legal immigrants

02:47:14.460 weren't men, but they were like 18 to 29 year old women.

02:47:20.500 And no, no, no.

02:47:20.980 The conversation was, so I think my position is we were talking about, is there an abundance

02:47:27.280 of high quality men out there?

02:47:28.980 Now I think most men are good men.

02:47:31.940 I guess it depends what we're talking about when we say high quality, but I do think a lot

02:47:37.960 of women, I don't know if it's most women, a lot of women do feel, where are all the good 0.98

02:47:42.660 men, where did all the good men go?

02:47:45.080 Maybe this is just from their framing their lens of they're not acknowledging the, all

02:47:51.180 these good men that do actually exist because maybe they're chasing after a really top tier

02:47:55.720 level of men.

02:47:57.400 But I do think it's a common gripe I hear from women of where are all the good men? 1.00

02:48:02.260 Um, there's a lacking of, you know, uh, there's a lacking of high quality men.

02:48:09.580 And so my position is as it relates to the, if we were to import like tens of millions of

02:48:15.800 Latin American, Eastern European and Asian women, uh, of, uh, childbearing age, like, you 0.98

02:48:24.320 know, 18 to 30 or whatever.

02:48:25.800 I think a lot of women have an issue with it because I think a lot of women acknowledge 1.00

02:48:31.240 that there's a shortage, let's say of possible partners of possible, uh, high caliber, high

02:48:38.160 quality men.

02:48:38.920 And this would massively increase, uh, it would create a lot of competition.

02:48:44.740 And I think most men, American men would probably appraise, uh, women from Latin America, women

02:48:51.720 from Eastern Europe, women from Asia as higher quality partners, perhaps both, maybe not even

02:48:57.960 necessarily even looks, but in terms of their values, in terms of their personality, in terms

02:49:03.200 of their femininity, uh, I would argue Western women, American women are the most masculine, 1.00

02:49:09.440 uh, most masculine women to have ever existed in human history. 0.64

02:49:14.840 Uh, you can think feminism, you can think equality, you can think boss babe culture, you can think 1.00

02:49:19.680 degenerate rap music, all this shit, by the way, red flag. 1.00

02:49:23.100 If a woman likes rap music, sure. 1.00

02:49:24.660 Raise your hands. 1.00

02:49:25.280 If you like rap music, you fucking did. 0.99

02:49:27.200 Yeah. 0.99

02:49:27.620 D gen, D gen, D gen, D gen, D gen, just any, uh, I mean, I'll give you some leeway if it's

02:49:34.660 like, you know, you listen to some, uh, you know, good, like nineties, early two thousands

02:49:39.600 rap. 1.00

02:49:40.300 But if you're listening to this fucking dog shit mumble, I don't even understand what the 1.00

02:49:44.680 fuck they're saying rap. 1.00

02:49:46.160 And they're talking about, I mean, to be fair, rap in the nineties, there were also 1.00

02:49:49.500 talking about fight fucking killing cops and I'm going to fuck a bitch and, uh, I got 1.00

02:49:54.220 all this money and, uh, I'm a thug and I'm going to fucking pop a cap in your ass. 1.00

02:49:59.020 Bullshit fucking degenerate music. 1.00

02:50:01.380 Uh, yeah, I think that's like really low class. 1.00

02:50:04.560 Um, I don't know.

02:50:06.780 I don't know.

02:50:07.500 You disagree.

02:50:08.240 I think it's, I think a woman, I think it's a red flag if a woman listens to rap music. 1.00

02:50:12.080 I just noticed that, um, in Europe, men seem to be more in tune with their feelings and

02:50:19.740 willing to be more open.

02:50:21.360 So, uh, the quality of men in the U S that's just like the idea of always having an option,

02:50:28.280 not being ready, not knowing what they want.

02:50:31.100 And it's like, you're sitting in front of them telling you, Hey, like what, what we've

02:50:36.260 been seeing each other for months now, what is it that you want?

02:50:39.460 Oh, I'm just not ready.

02:50:40.920 Like I've, he's just not into you.

02:50:42.980 Well, yeah, but it's like what 40 years old, you still don't know what you want.

02:50:48.080 I think he's just not that into you or he's just not serious.

02:50:51.240 I think American men just don't know what they want and they want an easy choice.

02:50:55.420 You could say that about European men also.

02:50:57.280 No, I think they pretty, they know what they want. 0.99

02:50:59.600 Well, I think as a person, no, they don't wait, wait, there's massive, like if you look

02:51:03.220 at, for example, Sweden or the Scandinavian countries, like promiscuity is rampant in

02:51:08.700 these countries.

02:51:09.540 Sure.

02:51:11.100 But I'm just saying what I've noticed in American men is they want an easy choice.

02:51:15.840 They don't want you to have an opinion or thoughts.

02:51:18.920 I'm not saying like they just want, you can get your tens of millions of ABGs, whoever you

02:51:25.640 want, and the men will come and take them because great. 1.00

02:51:29.700 We have all these options.

02:51:31.200 How would you feel if we had a bunch of like beautiful, like men who check off everything

02:51:37.340 that they, that we want come to the U S do you, will you suddenly be against immigration?

02:51:42.200 Well, I will say yes to him against immigration. 0.90

02:51:45.580 Well, so I, I suppose my position wouldn't, wouldn't really change, but I don't know if this

02:51:52.900 is going to either come across as racist or gay, maybe, whatever, look, I'll be honest.

02:51:59.140 So I know I don't think it would necessarily come across as racist.

02:52:02.120 I'll say this of the immigrants that do come here.

02:52:06.860 Uh, many of them, by the way, I look, I want to say something.

02:52:11.460 Uh, I'm not in favor of illegal immigration from South America, Latin America.

02:52:16.120 I like Mexicans. 0.98

02:52:17.580 Mexicans are fucking cool. 0.98

02:52:18.800 However, I don't think we should allow them to legally immigrate here. 1.00

02:52:22.900 I will say this though.

02:52:24.220 If we were like, had a bunch of immigrants, uh, from European countries, culturally, they're 1.00

02:52:30.720 much more aligned with the, uh, with American culture.

02:52:35.460 There would be easier assimilation, especially if they're coming from, uh, nations that speak 0.95

02:52:40.380 English.

02:52:41.240 Uh, so yes, I, I do actually, if you're asking me, would I be more in favor?

02:52:46.500 Or I guess technically I would be more in favor of immigrants from Western European countries

02:52:54.320 because culturally it's either easier for them to assimilate to our culture.

02:52:59.000 Sometimes there's a shared language, English.

02:53:01.540 Um, and in fact, many European countries, many of them do speak English.

02:53:05.440 You look at Scandinavia, you look at the Netherlands, uh, they're, they're all basically fluent in

02:53:10.800 English.

02:53:11.180 Whereas you have like a Mexican immigrant who comes here, sometimes they stay here and 1.00

02:53:15.600 they, they've been here for 30 years and they still don't know how to speak English.

02:53:19.060 So, uh, yeah, I guess, um, I probably would be more in favor of allowing for like legal

02:53:25.220 immigration.

02:53:25.860 Well, I guess even if it's like, we're granting, there's going to be some level of illegal

02:53:30.340 immigration.

02:53:30.800 I guess I'd be more in favor of a legal, I'm not in favor of illegal immigration, but I suppose

02:53:36.320 the illegal immigration would be better if it did happen from what, uh, European countries.

02:53:42.420 All right.

02:53:42.640 So how do you feel about like people like me, like immigrants from Russia or Ukraine?

02:53:49.300 Well, uh, what do you mean?

02:53:52.500 Like are they in favor?

02:53:54.900 Like, are you good with them being in the country?

02:53:57.960 How do you feel about them?

02:53:59.700 Uh, well, I mean, there's, there's a couple, there's a bit of nuance to this because currently

02:54:03.560 the United States is, uh, in terms of nations were in conflict with Russia.

02:54:12.340 So the, uh, there, I mean, that's another thing.

02:54:17.060 That's kind of why people are leaving.

02:54:18.640 But overall, I think, um, what do I think about legal Russian immigrants?

02:54:23.600 I'm, uh, I suppose I'm fine with that.

02:54:26.620 Yeah.

02:54:27.260 Although truth be told, I'm really not a big fan of immigration period, whether it's legal 1.00

02:54:32.840 or, uh, illegal, legal or illegal.

02:54:36.620 Uh, I think we should probably limit it quite a bit.

02:54:40.280 Um, so yeah.

02:54:43.660 So you don't want to take it away altogether.

02:54:46.540 If you're going to come here and you're going to assimilate and you're bringing value to the 0.96

02:54:50.460 United States and you're not going to be on welfare, fuck yeah, you can come to the United 0.99

02:54:54.880 States. 0.92

02:54:56.280 But a lot of these immigrants, even from some European countries, right?

02:54:59.860 A lot of them end up on welfare.

02:55:01.940 A lot of them end up, uh, needing government assistance.

02:55:05.100 And I find, I think that that's a net negative to the United States.

02:55:08.940 Honestly, there, I can agree because I, like, I came to this country to build myself as an

02:55:15.340 artist to be like, to perform, to create something, music and dancing.

02:55:21.240 I think like if a person has an initial goal, they want to pursue here and they can pursue

02:55:28.700 it here rather than there. 0.98

02:55:31.120 That's like an awesome, like, fuck yeah. 0.97

02:55:34.040 Like move here. 1.00

02:55:35.060 Do your thing. 1.00

02:55:36.380 I mean, I don't really, honestly, I say fuck that. 0.99

02:55:40.720 I don't, I don't give a shit about, no offense to you, like congratulations for your performance 0.99

02:55:46.020 art or whatever. 0.96

02:55:47.900 Um, I'm fine with bringing over Russian scientists, Russian physicists, Russian engineers, highly

02:55:57.860 intelligent people that are going to, uh, you know, the creative, I don't, I don't really 0.56

02:56:02.320 give a fuck about importing artists.

02:56:04.700 I don't care if you're, if you're going to actually, how about, or, you know, if you're 1.00

02:56:10.920 a Russian cancer researcher, fuck yeah, come here. 1.00

02:56:14.340 You're a fucking singer. 1.00

02:56:15.740 No offense to you. 1.00

02:56:16.740 Don't give a fuck. 1.00

02:56:17.860 That shouldn't be justification to grant you citizenship. 1.00

02:56:21.080 Uh, to, to.

02:56:22.320 Now that's not why you were granted citizenship, but like, yeah, I don't, nah.

02:56:26.740 My father studied to be an engineer in the Soviet Union, but when he came to the U.S., he couldn't

02:56:33.900 necessarily get a job as an engineer here because they didn't, uh, recognize his education.

02:56:41.360 Yeah, that does happen.

02:56:42.940 So he unfortunately did not, he now has a very good job that he worked his ass off for,

02:56:49.600 but it's not an engineering job.

02:56:51.480 So when it came to my brother and me, my brother is now actually working as an engineer.

02:56:58.300 He got his education as an engineer, got his job as an engineer, but, and I'm not saying

02:57:03.620 immigrants should stay on welfare through and through, you know, you come here, you have 1.00

02:57:07.940 some doctors do come here and unfortunately cannot get the job that they studied their whole

02:57:14.700 life for.

02:57:15.720 And there's, there's a difference in, in that.

02:57:18.880 Yeah, that's honestly true.

02:57:20.420 I saw that, like I witnessed that actually happened a couple of times.

02:57:25.240 My, my sister-in-law's, uh, cousin is, uh, I don't remember what exactly in the medical

02:57:32.380 field she does, but she was a very good doctor and she had, and she unfortunately could not 0.99

02:57:37.480 work as one in the U.S.

02:57:40.800 Well, I, there's different accreditation processes.

02:57:44.240 I'm not really super familiar with that.

02:57:45.900 I mean, I would also just amend my statement here, uh, while I did say I'm in favor of,

02:57:51.980 you know, let's say you're some superstar physicist, engineer, you're in STEM in a foreign country.

02:57:57.960 I, I would love to bring, uh, people's intelligence to the United States so long as it doesn't misplace,

02:58:05.520 uh, American citizens who are also in these fields.

02:58:09.720 So if we had, you know, if we have a limited amount of jobs in physics, uh, uh, I'm trying

02:58:16.460 to think of, well, physics, engineering, uh, engineer, uh, what are, I don't know, what

02:58:23.360 are some of the other examples?

02:58:24.580 Uh, if it's not displacing American citizens, uh, by bringing them in and it's just bolstering

02:58:32.900 our, our base of, uh, our, our ability, I don't know.

02:58:39.940 I don't know the right phrasing, but, uh, then yeah, I'm fine with it.

02:58:44.380 I think that people shouldn't immigrate to America unless they're willing to serve in 1.00

02:58:47.960 the military.

02:58:48.460 And I think if they come here, they should serve in the military personally.

02:58:52.660 Not that I, I don't disagree with that.

02:58:54.680 Um, but what about age wise, depending on when you come to the country, you know, is there

02:59:01.920 an age limit to what you just said?

02:59:03.800 No, I don't think that people should immigrate to America if you're not from here.

02:59:07.820 That wasn't what you said.

02:59:09.000 You were talking about, um, army.

02:59:11.100 Like if you move to the U S then you should join, you know, I'm just asking my specific question

02:59:16.560 is age wise.

02:59:18.400 Like, do you have an age limit to when?

02:59:20.440 So like if your parents immigrated here with you, is that your point?

02:59:26.160 No, I was simply asking whoever your question, like if you immigrate and you're, let's say

02:59:32.020 in your forties, should you still go into the army?

02:59:35.200 Fifties, sixties.

02:59:37.780 I don't think I would agree with that.

02:59:39.480 I don't think so.

02:59:39.980 I don't think, uh, well, I also, I don't know if I, I don't know if I would be in favor

02:59:47.520 of like having, uh, France has something called the French foreign legion where you can basically,

02:59:53.440 you can come from anywhere.

02:59:54.960 And if you agree to serve in the French foreign legion, uh, you can, that would be your pathway

03:00:01.520 to becoming a French citizen.

03:00:03.740 Uh, I don't really like that.

03:00:06.200 I don't think I like that for the United States.

03:00:09.380 I think we've taken a lot of people.

03:00:12.640 I think we got to keep, I don't know.

03:00:17.000 We got enough problems as it is.

03:00:19.980 Let's just keep America, America for a little bit, fix some of our problems. 0.85

03:00:24.720 Then we can maybe revisit, uh, allowing all these, uh, other people to come here.

03:00:30.960 Well, that's my whole point is I'm not for immigration by any means whatsoever.

03:00:36.200 And it's the whole problem with America to this day.

03:00:40.100 I think that if you want to come to this country, then you should be willing to fight for it rather

03:00:45.020 than come to this country, live here and oppose it. 0.50

03:00:47.940 Yeah.

03:00:48.420 But I wouldn't be open.

03:00:49.620 Like, I don't think that there should be some, uh, United States military program.

03:00:54.880 That's like, Hey, come join this military group and we'll give you citizenship.

03:01:00.420 I don't know if I like that.

03:01:02.700 Uh, I think we can call upon our existing citizenry to provide, uh, the defense of the United States.

03:01:13.060 I don't think we need foreigners to do that. 1.00

03:01:15.140 Okay.

03:01:15.720 Honestly, one more thing.

03:01:18.480 There is a difference between immigration.

03:01:21.960 I mean, immigrants and migrants.

03:01:24.240 So like immigrate and completely like migrate.

03:01:26.880 Does someone know the difference between those two?

03:01:28.780 Between what?

03:01:29.920 Immigration and migration.

03:01:32.680 Because I'm pretty sure that immigration is when a person comes to a country for a couple of years, 0.77

03:01:38.580 just maybe like escaping a war or pursuing something for like school and then they go back.

03:01:44.580 But migration is when they move and they're willing to live the rest of their life in that other country. 0.98

03:01:52.020 And that's a very big difference.

03:01:55.840 Okay.

03:01:57.280 Is there a point?

03:01:58.700 There is a point because all of the stuff with the war, with the skills, being like scientists, doctors,

03:02:06.320 there's some people who are immigrants, they didn't want to end up here.

03:02:11.080 They were just escaping a war.

03:02:14.620 What?

03:02:15.680 I think you're talking about asylum seekers, not immigrants.

03:02:18.560 Or refugees. 1.00

03:02:19.480 Yeah, refugees. 0.50

03:02:20.420 Fleeing persecution.

03:02:22.100 Maybe.

03:02:23.380 Is that what you mean?

03:02:24.500 Yeah, I don't.

03:02:25.020 So there's no war in Canada.

03:02:29.040 There's no war in Mexico.

03:02:31.960 Those are the only two countries that border the United States.

03:02:34.480 There's no reason. 1.00

03:02:36.640 Why the fuck are Somalians coming here? 1.00

03:02:39.720 That's a fucking another continent. 1.00

03:02:42.580 We're Indians. 1.00

03:02:44.080 They're economic migrants.

03:02:47.380 And I just...

03:02:51.120 Asylum... 0.96

03:02:52.020 Asylum seeker to the United States?

03:02:55.560 From where? 1.00

03:02:57.700 Canada's not doing some stupid shit. 1.00

03:03:01.440 You could argue there's some conflict in Mexico, but nothing that would warrant a Mexican to seek asylum. 1.00

03:03:09.400 And the international rules as it relates to asylum seeking, you don't...

03:03:14.340 You have to stop at the first country that'll take you.

03:03:17.520 So there's plenty of countries in Latin America...

03:03:20.400 Well, I mean, Mexico would be the clear choice here. 0.98

03:03:22.780 You have all these people coming from South America.

03:03:25.300 They need to stop in Mexico if they're actually seeking asylum. 0.79

03:03:29.820 Or perhaps even some prior country.

03:03:33.440 I don't know exactly the specific details.

03:03:35.640 I don't know if it'd be Costa Rica.

03:03:36.900 I don't know if it'd be Panama.

03:03:38.940 I'm not entirely sure.

03:03:40.840 Maybe if you're...

03:03:41.480 I don't...

03:03:42.160 I'm not super familiar with the exact thing here.

03:03:46.560 But I don't know who comes to the United States.

03:03:48.780 How are you coming to the U.S. for asylum?

03:03:51.200 I would say that's...

03:03:54.500 What about people from Ukraine?

03:03:57.100 That's not what you mean to do.

03:03:58.320 I mean, you can go west into Europe.

03:04:01.180 Some countries aren't that welcome to people coming there.

03:04:06.300 Why should America be if all other countries aren't?

03:04:11.380 So where would they go, for instance?

03:04:14.140 It's not our problem.

03:04:16.080 I mean, I don't know.

03:04:17.180 Why can't we help the...

03:04:18.420 I would actually be in favor of helping these countries develop.

03:04:27.080 Don't you think we've poured enough money into other countries, though?

03:04:30.020 Like, why not actually help our own country that's billions of dollars in debt because of other countries?

03:04:36.700 Well, sure.

03:04:37.280 I mean, look, if the trade-off, though...

03:04:39.820 If the trade-off is through, you know, helping these countries build up their infrastructure or whatever, and perhaps we can even get a return on investment, that would limit immigration, which has an economic cost to the United States taxpayer.

03:04:58.940 If the economic trade-off makes sense, then why not do it?

03:05:06.500 Like, if we can invest in this country, if we can spend a million dollars in some Latin American country and develop it to the point that X amount of people would be less likely to immigrate, illegally immigrate to the United States, and through there, if they would have otherwise illegally immigrated, this would cost us $5 million.

03:05:27.660 I think that the trade-off is clear.

03:05:30.520 I mean, sure, we've done it before, like, helping with the liberation of France, and there didn't turn out to be complete degenerates, but we've tried with other countries, like the Middle East, and, I mean, it has blown up in our face time after time.

03:05:47.660 I mean, we've pulled out of that country, what, four times now?

03:05:50.060 Afghanistan?

03:05:51.700 Yeah.

03:05:51.960 Yeah, but there wasn't really, like, Afghanistan, people from Afghanistan did not really have a great pathway to illegally immigrating to the United States.

03:06:03.640 I agree with you that the intervention, the United States intervention in much of the Middle East was a complete failure militarily and economically, and had a massive, has created massive burden on the taxpayer.

03:06:16.920 But I don't know if that's really related to immigration necessarily.

03:06:22.060 Well, most of the immigration here are becoming Middle Eastern, so I would argue that it is. 1.00

03:06:30.300 I don't know if that's because of U.S. intervention in the Middle East.

03:06:34.180 No, I don't think it is, but I'm, like, my point is you guys are talking about how we shouldn't be, or we should be, like, helping countries become, you know, democracies or whatever, and we've tried that, and it failed.

03:06:48.980 The U.S. military intervention in Afghanistan, I think that's a little different than what I'm talking about here.

03:06:57.880 I think if even corporations want to go into these countries and they want to get a return on investment or something, they think it would be beneficial.

03:07:06.360 Or even if it's, you know, the United States government is giving guidance, why not, and if we think it's going to have some downstream positive effect for the United States, either through a diminishing of immigration or perhaps economic benefit, then I think I'm fine with it. 0.98

03:07:24.820 I don't think we should be necessarily doing fucking regime change shit. 0.95

03:07:31.720 Okay, so you're not talking about, like, governmental aid. 0.99

03:07:35.900 You're talking about, like, just strictly economic, like, infrastructure, like if we were to bring Micron to, like, Europe.

03:07:42.680 Is that what you mean?

03:07:43.600 Like, investing in the country in that way? 0.99

03:07:45.580 Look, if we can have a—I don't know the precise specifics, but a lot of these fucking countries don't know how to, like, run proper infrastructure. 0.92

03:07:54.220 How can we get them up to speed so they can be self-sustaining and they can have a quality of life for their citizenry that is good? 0.58

03:08:03.380 So, yeah, I think it's okay to help out other nations, you know, increase their development index or whatever.

03:08:13.160 If we come—I think that's totally fine.

03:08:15.920 I don't think we should be, like, having fucking wars in these countries and, like, spending a ton of money.

03:08:22.120 But I think that there are government programs that can bolster—if we do want to see, for example, a decrease in immigration from these countries, 0.89

03:08:30.020 maybe there's things that we can do to put in place so that these countries can develop.

03:08:36.500 And I think one of the ways you can do that is through assistance with infrastructure and making these countries, like, good places to live.

03:08:43.100 That way, people don't want to leave these countries.

03:08:46.100 They want to stay in their countries. 1.00

03:08:51.440 How do we do that, though?

03:08:53.420 Bro, I don't want to—you're getting into the weeds here. 0.98

03:08:56.960 I don't fucking care. 0.96

03:08:58.640 And I honestly don't know. 0.97

03:09:02.440 I'm not interested in having—like, is that really what you want to talk about?

03:09:06.680 I'm just asking.

03:09:07.540 I wanted this to be a general—this thought right here is a very general conversation.

03:09:12.420 You want to get into, like, how we can better the infrastructure in Peru?

03:09:16.620 I don't—what?

03:09:18.000 No, my point is just saying, like, how are we supposed to do that other than influencing these countries?

03:09:23.080 That's why I'm saying we shouldn't get involved, because we're already a great influence.

03:09:27.300 And if they can't, like, follow, then what's the point?

03:09:35.300 What do you mean?

03:09:35.880 Like, if we're the lead country in the entire world, right?

03:09:41.220 Like, economically.

03:09:42.740 If we're leading by influence and other countries can't follow and see what we're doing and say, oh, they're doing so great, why don't we try to establish this in our own country?

03:09:53.340 Or, like, in our own country, then how are we supposed to force them to do that if they can't just follow by example?

03:09:58.460 It's not about forcing them to do that, but you can guide people.

03:10:03.540 You can give them, you know, steps for how to set up their infrastructure and so forth.

03:10:11.720 You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink it.

03:10:15.020 True.

03:10:15.700 True.

03:10:16.020 I think he's talking about the general preference of us as a country being able to help.

03:10:22.280 And because we're able to help, we can.

03:10:25.220 But at the same time, we don't really owe anything to other countries.

03:10:29.140 I don't know.

03:10:31.460 So it is a preference.

03:10:32.560 I think a duty is any task that even though an individual may morally and or ethically disagree with doing, they are still obligated to perform to the best of their ability.

03:10:51.560 I think an example for men would be the selective service.

03:10:54.860 What example of that do you women have? 1.00

03:10:57.140 Yeah, so this goes back to our conversation about we're talking about duties, we're talking about voting, and I think men have duties.

03:11:05.540 I don't think women have duties. 1.00

03:11:07.780 And so this puts women in a privileged position in society, and ultimately women have a right basically granted to them completely for free. 1.00

03:11:19.680 And then men have a voting right, but it comes with strings attached. 0.92

03:11:28.920 So do women have any duties? 1.00

03:11:33.520 Yeah.

03:11:35.880 Not like lawful ones.

03:11:37.100 Like you said, you can't force women to get pregnant.

03:11:39.000 But like I said earlier, there is a duty to have a family.

03:11:43.400 I know like there are certain medical conditions, but just why I'm all for adoption, I'm all for fostering.

03:11:48.920 But I think in general, family, like making, that is a duty for, you know, for women.

03:11:56.280 I agree with that.

03:11:57.260 I mean, that's what I do.

03:11:58.540 I raise my kids.

03:12:00.040 I watch them.

03:12:00.700 My husband provides everything else.

03:12:02.360 My job is to serve him and be there for him, do everything that I can to make his life easier to provide for us.

03:12:09.260 And I think a lot of men would definitely expect their wives or their girlfriends to provide.

03:12:15.520 I mean, they cook, they clean, they are going to child rear, take care of them. 0.61

03:12:20.520 I mean, I would essentially argue that that would be in line with what they're talking about.

03:12:25.980 Well, almost bringing it back to the conversation of voluntary versus involuntary.

03:12:33.640 So all these things you guys are describing is voluntary.

03:12:36.600 A woman can go through life in the United States and the government wouldn't force her to get married. 1.00

03:12:44.960 The government can't force her to have children. 1.00

03:12:47.480 You might argue that there's social pressure, although I really, I think it's even in the opposite direction today.

03:12:54.660 Meanwhile, the United States government can call upon U.S. male, U.S. citizen males and force them into the military if they wanted to.

03:13:08.140 So I think men have a duty to this country in order to be able to vote.

03:13:11.960 Men have a duty.

03:13:14.060 Men have to register with the Selective Service.

03:13:16.300 If they don't, there's all kinds of consequences.

03:13:18.400 There's no corresponding, like, equivalent thing for women. 1.00

03:13:24.040 There isn't.

03:13:25.180 There really isn't anything women have except, I mean, there's something both men and women need to do, and that's jury duty. 1.00

03:13:34.260 But that's, like, nothing.

03:13:35.540 Men go to war.

03:13:37.300 They get drafted.

03:13:38.260 Women, everything else is something that we ultimately have a choice on. 1.00

03:13:44.760 Like, morally, we have a choice if we want to have children for a man.

03:13:48.040 We have a choice if we want to cook for a man, if we want to clean for a man. 0.97

03:13:53.520 I can agree with that.

03:13:54.480 So.

03:13:59.060 So are we, I don't know, do we agree women don't have duties?

03:14:03.820 I agree that we don't have, I agree that we don't have lawful legal duties.

03:14:09.640 Yeah.

03:14:10.380 Your thoughts?

03:14:11.140 Yeah, I mean, I agree we don't have lawful duties.

03:14:16.140 But men do.

03:14:17.200 Yeah.

03:14:17.700 So are women in a privileged position? 1.00

03:14:20.860 Absolutely.

03:14:22.400 In certain ways, we do have privileges over than men, but in certain ways, men have more privileges than us.

03:14:28.920 Like what?

03:14:30.360 Like being able to walk down the street at 12 o'clock at night and not feel like you're going to get raped or murdered.

03:14:35.820 Yes, exactly.

03:14:36.500 You're putting your feelings about men, like so you're going to, your fear, you're putting it on men. 0.98

03:14:41.980 Well, actually, yes, no, I can say I do disagree with that because there are, men can just as much get raped as a woman can. 0.96

03:14:50.460 I'm not saying that at all.

03:14:51.120 Men can be scared walking alone at night.

03:14:53.800 It all just depends on how a man feels.

03:14:56.060 Two things on your point.

03:14:58.500 So I think men are more likely to be victims of violent crime.

03:15:02.920 So maybe even if it is the case that women feel more fear, the actual statistics show that men are more likely to be victims of violent crime.

03:15:14.280 Also, this idea that men are just like completely oblivious to potential threats if they're walking in a, you know, down the street late at night.

03:15:23.840 Uh, I, I, I don't actually believe that I myself have to take precautions as a man.

03:15:32.000 Uh, if you're walking in an area, uh, there's not much one man can do against two men, against three men, against four men.

03:15:41.660 Uh, so this, I, also there are men, even if it's one man, if there are men who are stronger than other men.

03:15:49.180 So if that man's stronger than me or he has a weapon or whatever it is, um, doesn't really change anything, but men are more likely to be victims of violent crime.

03:15:58.300 And then I think the other thing though, uh, assuming you're walking in, let's say a public area, um, perhaps there might be like if it's totally barren and there's just no people around.

03:16:09.080 I actually think women are afforded quite a bit of privilege and protection if they're walking in a public area alone versus a man who's walking in the public area alone.

03:16:18.200 The way I know this is because, uh, while this isn't universe, this isn't necessarily always the case.

03:16:25.980 I think as a woman, if you're walking and say, it's a kind of a crowded area here in the United States and like some random guy comes up to you and starts like beating you up.

03:16:36.480 And there's other men around who don't know that guy and don't know you.

03:16:42.460 There are definitely men who will intervene on your behalf, who don't know you, who don't owe you anything, who will protect you, who will step in, who will white knight for you.

03:16:51.960 If I'm walking down the street completely alone, I don't know any of these other people in the street and some random guy starts whooping on me and beating me up.

03:17:01.660 There's no men, no men are going to intervene on my behalf as some sort of virtuous.

03:17:08.360 There's far less likely some, some virtuous man is going to save me. 0.99

03:17:14.360 No, I'm going to get my ass whooped and that's going to be it. 0.99

03:17:17.180 So you women, you have male bodyguards by proxy. 1.00

03:17:21.900 You have male bodyguards when, if you're out in public who don't know you and men will see, like, I don't know.

03:17:32.060 Does it, I don't know if somebody disagrees with me on this, but it is, this is a phenomenon that exists.

03:17:38.620 Because if, if a group of men sees a woman getting attacked by, like, one dude, you can look at a lot of these videos, like, the men are instantly going to, like, these men are like, whoa, that girl's getting beat up. 0.99

03:17:53.220 What the fuck? 0.99

03:17:53.860 You never hit a woman? 1.00

03:17:54.880 Boom, boom, boom. 1.00

03:17:55.400 And then that guy's going to get, he might get fucking killed. 1.00

03:17:58.620 He's going to get curb stomped. 1.00

03:17:59.860 He's going to get kicked in the skull when he's fucking knocked out. 1.00

03:18:02.560 And look, if he, if a random man attacks a woman or a man, I think randomly, I think you probably should get fucking kicked in the head a few times. 1.00

03:18:11.780 But I do think this is a privilege that women have. 1.00

03:18:16.220 So you actually, when you women are walking alone in public, I think you're protected. 1.00

03:18:25.300 Does that, I don't know if you guys agree.

03:18:27.100 Do you disagree?

03:18:28.340 Do you disagree?

03:18:29.640 I agree with that.

03:18:31.080 I agree.

03:18:31.520 I actually genuinely feel relatively safe in public, in daylight.

03:18:38.560 If I'm walking alone, I think it's, just like any man, actually a friend of mine was walking alone.

03:18:44.500 He was in Cape Town and he got pepper sprayed in his mouth and the side of his head and they tried to steal his phone.

03:18:50.440 I think the only difference there is, like, he, being a man of strength and not, like, intoxicated of any sort, he was able to fight them off.

03:18:59.820 And I think the difference here would be, like, a woman may be less likely to fight them off if she's not trained in something or goes to the gym or whatever.

03:19:10.500 So I think that's the only difference in privilege between man and woman or the obvious that we see.

03:19:16.380 A woman typically doesn't, or isn't able to hold as much power in, like, a boardroom or in position of power. 1.00

03:19:25.180 They're typically not as respected.

03:19:26.840 And I think, and you can correct me if I'm wrong on this, you can look it up.

03:19:32.540 I'm not sure.

03:19:32.940 I haven't looked at the stats on it.

03:19:33.960 But in, like, medical doctors, men typically get paid more than women, even still.

03:19:40.880 That's because men go into, in the medical field, men go into higher paying disciplines.

03:19:46.000 Honestly, because we brought all of this up, I don't want to argue with anyone, but what's going around, like, on social media,

03:19:53.500 and what I see pretty often is that women argue that having a period every month is, like, a downgrade. 1.00

03:20:03.000 Like, we don't have a privilege because we have a period every month.

03:20:06.700 I don't personally have an opinion on it, but how do you guys feel about the fact that, oh, we are equal because we have our struggle,

03:20:13.860 which is having a period every month, which men don't have.

03:20:17.000 I think struggle is a blessing because it allows us to have children.

03:20:21.300 I think women aren't equal in the workforce for several reasons. 1.00

03:20:24.320 Firstly, women don't ask for raises as much as men. 0.99

03:20:27.880 Secondly, women with family planning and such, they're more likely to take time off compared to men. 0.84

03:20:34.000 And, yeah, those are the two main points there.

03:20:37.340 But if you're family planning, then shouldn't you be earning the same amount so that you can also save up to support your family?

03:20:44.380 Do you think a company is going to care about that?

03:20:47.060 I think a company is going to care about its profitables, which I think men are more likely to give it.

03:20:51.800 You may be correct, but...

03:20:54.120 Women should be drafted. 1.00

03:20:56.420 No. 1.00

03:20:56.960 Fuck, maybe we should be drafted. 1.00

03:20:58.540 No, women should be drafted. 1.00

03:21:00.660 Like, the strong ones.

03:21:02.660 Well, I'm strong, too, of course.

03:21:04.140 Like, everybody's a certain amount of strong, but, like, the big, like...

03:21:07.740 I would not be able to kill somebody.

03:21:10.220 Yeah, you can be in the kitchen or something. 0.75

03:21:12.260 Oh, yeah, I would cook. That's fine.

03:21:13.620 Yeah, you can cook, I guess.

03:21:15.400 Yeah.

03:21:15.520 Mm-hmm.

03:21:15.800 In the military kitchen.

03:21:17.980 Sleigh.

03:21:19.200 Yeah.

03:21:19.760 Well, I think, look, if women have had the right to vote for over 100 years, the women have... 0.94

03:21:27.580 The 19th Amendment was what?

03:21:31.360 It was passed in...

03:21:32.120 Was it 1918?

03:21:33.720 19, 19, 19.

03:21:34.260 19, 18, and then ratified in 1920.

03:21:37.540 I don't know.

03:21:37.920 I always get confused with, like, well, it was passed, but then it was ratified.

03:21:41.460 They got the right to vote in 1920.

03:21:43.980 And women have had over... 1.00

03:21:46.560 Huh?

03:21:47.140 It was ratified.

03:21:47.860 Ratified in 19...

03:21:49.360 When did it pass?

03:21:50.400 Was it before then?

03:21:51.240 I don't know.

03:21:51.480 It doesn't really matter.

03:21:52.480 It was ratified in 1920.

03:21:54.440 Women have had the right to vote for over 100 years, but in order for men to vote, they 1.00

03:21:58.680 had to be subject to military conscription.

03:22:00.960 Women still, after 100 years, equality, boss babe, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

03:22:04.360 Still not equal, I think, ultimately, look, we got to finally make a decision on this.

03:22:12.600 Either we draft women, or, or, look, I think we got to draft women. 0.92

03:22:20.980 Women, you can keep the votes, but we got to draft you, you know? 1.00

03:22:25.280 Or, in order to make things equal, I guess it wouldn't be equal.

03:22:29.760 I guess you got to take away the right to vote.

03:22:32.300 If only men can be drafted, I think you got to take away the right to vote. 0.73

03:22:37.480 If we keep it as it is, I'm in favor of women voting, but you got to be drafted. 1.00

03:22:43.020 I think if you want to be a woman, and you want your right to vote, you should be drafted. 1.00

03:22:49.180 But if you're not going to vote, if you don't want to get drafted, you shouldn't be able

03:22:54.000 to vote.

03:22:55.660 It's the most basic thing I've heard you say.

03:22:58.980 Let's see here.

03:22:59.720 Let's get into, oh boy.

03:23:02.760 Oh, here's a fun segment.

03:23:05.180 I don't know if it's going to work tonight, but we'll see.

03:23:07.540 You're the only one who does OnlyFans, right?

03:23:09.360 Nobody else here has done sex work or stripping or anything?

03:23:12.720 No OnlyFans? 0.88

03:23:13.520 Oh, I did stripping too.

03:23:14.880 Oh, you did stripping too?

03:23:15.860 Yeah.

03:23:16.500 Okay, well, I'll try it with everybody, but I usually, it's more so directed at women 0.99

03:23:20.900 who do OF, but anybody can do it too.

03:23:23.020 Anybody here have cash on them?

03:23:25.760 You got cash?

03:23:26.640 You got cash?

03:23:28.120 You got cash?

03:23:29.080 No.

03:23:29.320 No cash?

03:23:29.860 No cash?

03:23:30.740 Wait, on person or like in my wallet?

03:23:32.940 Like in your purse, not on you right now, but you have, you have cash on, you got cash

03:23:37.120 on you?

03:23:37.420 Yes.

03:23:37.560 Cash?

03:23:38.280 You got rubles?

03:23:39.120 What do you got?

03:23:39.920 You have any Russian, no Russian dollars?

03:23:42.280 You got cash?

03:23:43.180 You don't got cash?

03:23:43.980 I don't bring anything.

03:23:45.060 I accept.

03:23:45.760 All right.

03:23:46.100 So look, even if you're not like doing OnlyFans or doing any other kind of sex work, I do think

03:23:51.680 even non-sex work or women, you guys have simps.

03:23:55.920 You guys have men who will just send you money. 0.97

03:23:58.060 Yeah.

03:23:58.160 I don't know.

03:23:58.420 Maybe you were on a dating app and you were like, put your Venmo in there.

03:24:01.700 Some, I've heard women who, I wouldn't categorize this as sex work, but women on a dating app, 1.00

03:24:06.620 this happened, I don't know if they allow this anymore, but women like long time ago 1.00

03:24:09.920 would put like their cash app or Venmo in a dating app and be like, Venmo me for a surprise 0.94

03:24:14.820 or some bullshit. 0.69

03:24:15.820 And a lot of these men would send them cash money. 0.99

03:24:19.040 Even if you're not on a dating app, I've heard stories from women. 1.00

03:24:21.520 Oh, this guy just paid me money for existing, I guess.

03:24:26.560 So as a novelty, as a fun little thing, you can say this one time I simped for a dude,

03:24:32.620 I gave him money.

03:24:33.620 Uh, yeah, if, uh, I, I am accepting, I actually not just accepting, I demand cash payment.

03:24:41.500 I demand, so will you give me your cash?

03:24:44.600 Can I have your, can I have your cash?

03:24:46.380 Here, I'll, oh, look, first taker, how much is this?

03:24:51.020 Ooh, this is a donation from both me and my husband because we're big fans.

03:24:54.220 Your husband is also gifting me.

03:24:56.720 Okay.

03:24:56.980 So it's a dual gift.

03:24:58.240 Uh, well, thank you very much.

03:24:59.580 I appreciate that.

03:25:00.480 Thank you.

03:25:00.920 You are simp number one for tonight.

03:25:02.560 Uh, thank you.

03:25:03.700 Appreciate it.

03:25:04.140 Appreciate it.

03:25:04.580 Uh, will you, I accept Venmo, Cash, Abzell, PayPal.

03:25:10.300 Anybody want, you have cash on you?

03:25:11.840 What's the point of this?

03:25:12.860 The point is, is as a fun Uno reverse role reversal, one time in your life, you can be

03:25:19.360 like, look, I would never do this, but just cause for funsies on the whatever podcast,

03:25:23.960 I will simp for a man and just give him cash. 0.99

03:25:28.440 I'll just give him money.

03:25:29.620 Oh, my, my, oh, look at that.

03:25:31.800 Uh, my, oh, another one.

03:25:34.240 Okay.

03:25:34.560 Keep it coming. 1.00

03:25:35.300 Oh, shit. 0.99

03:25:35.880 Uh, I just got 25 from my employee. 0.98

03:25:39.060 So, which I guess we'll be returned to her in a roundabout way, but, um, thank you.

03:25:46.220 Uh, so it's like, cause y'all women get simped over men just will give you money. 1.00

03:25:52.160 Yeah.

03:25:52.640 And this is like, just give me money.

03:25:55.500 I think that women do. 1.00

03:25:57.660 I've never been sent money one time.

03:26:00.120 But do it for, not like, cause you genuinely mean it, but just for the funsies.

03:26:04.380 I used to be friends with a girl who, uh, I called her simp queen because it's not that

03:26:10.800 the guys gave her money.

03:26:12.220 It's just, they would get her any, they would drive hours long just to bring her boba or 0.93

03:26:18.340 food.

03:26:18.820 They would get her gifts.

03:26:20.020 They would give her this or that and that, and she'd just do her cute little voice and 1.00

03:26:24.440 giggle and be like, I don't know.

03:26:25.900 They just, they're my friends.

03:26:27.040 And I'm like, you're a simp queen. 1.00

03:26:29.340 And she's like, don't call me that. 0.73

03:26:30.960 I'm not a simp queen.

03:26:31.880 I'm like, I don't know what to tell you.

03:26:33.360 So who wants to give me cash?

03:26:35.240 I don't.

03:26:36.300 What value are you providing for the transaction right now?

03:26:39.420 The same value that women are providing when they're just getting money. 1.00

03:26:43.040 Yeah. 1.00

03:26:43.260 But those weird men are going to go jerk off. 1.00

03:26:45.920 Doesn't matter whether I'm sitting there doing nothing sexual. 0.99

03:26:48.960 Well, it doesn't, it does not have to be a sexual thing.

03:26:53.300 It can just be a tribute.

03:26:55.840 For what?

03:26:56.740 I'm sure that there would be plenty of women that would be willing to give you cash. 1.00

03:27:00.400 Just none at this table.

03:27:01.820 Why?

03:27:02.600 I didn't.

03:27:04.500 Other than you who is married.

03:27:06.780 So I got it.

03:27:07.380 I made a little money tonight.

03:27:08.400 What can I say?

03:27:09.240 All right.

03:27:09.580 Moving on to the next topic.

03:27:10.760 We're going to do, um, no takers, unfortunately, unfortunate, unfortunate, you know, it is what

03:27:17.100 it is.

03:27:17.700 Uh, Stifler, ask everyone to rate their own looks, face, body total on a scale of zero

03:27:22.680 to 10.

03:27:23.100 You can't pick seven starting with you.

03:27:24.640 I think this is messed up because I want to pick seven so bad because I genuinely think

03:27:29.120 that, but I wrote 6.5 just to sway more towards the lower end because of the beauty

03:27:37.020 standards these days.

03:27:38.020 Well, let's do, um, face, body total.

03:27:41.000 Oh, like each?

03:27:42.140 Yeah.

03:27:42.520 Um, I think my face, I can't say seven for any of them.

03:27:50.200 Nope.

03:27:52.120 We'll allow 0.5s though.

03:27:53.980 How about that?

03:27:55.120 Okay.

03:27:56.340 Um, I think my face is a 6.5.

03:28:06.780 Okay.

03:28:08.020 I think my body is, I have.

03:28:12.680 Think about your answers while she's pondering.

03:28:16.100 Um, I think, I don't know.

03:28:20.320 It's so subjective.

03:28:21.080 I think for myself, I like my body.

03:28:25.140 I would say, I can't say seven.

03:28:28.560 Another 6.5, 6.5 total.

03:28:30.680 Okay.

03:28:33.600 So, you?

03:28:35.920 Honestly, okay.

03:28:37.400 I'm starting with my face, right?

03:28:38.980 Yeah.

03:28:39.340 Face, body total.

03:28:41.040 Face, I'll say 100 out of 10.

03:28:43.300 Ah.

03:28:43.920 100 out of, can you speak a little louder for us, please?

03:28:47.440 Yeah.

03:28:47.720 I would say my face is 100 out of 10 on a scale of 10 out of 10.

03:28:53.060 So, 10, I guess.

03:28:54.240 Body?

03:28:55.180 My body?

03:28:56.480 Well, I'll say like, okay, 9.9 out of 10 because I missed the gym one time this week.

03:29:03.860 Like, if you didn't miss the gym, what would it be?

03:29:07.320 It would be 10 out of 10.

03:29:08.440 Okay.

03:29:08.680 So, total 10.

03:29:10.000 Because I got a, I can't miss the gym.

03:29:11.460 What's total?

03:29:13.700 Looks?

03:29:14.340 Total 10.

03:29:15.960 My look today.

03:29:18.100 Oh.

03:29:19.160 In general.

03:29:20.400 I would say, okay, no.

03:29:21.880 Probably, yeah, 10 out of 10.

03:29:23.440 Okay.

03:29:23.800 What about you?

03:29:26.660 Face, 4.

03:29:28.540 Face, 4.

03:29:29.580 Body, 4.

03:29:30.800 Total, 6. 0.98

03:29:32.360 That makes zero fucking sense. 0.96

03:29:33.920 I don't know. 0.98

03:29:34.260 But, okay.

03:29:36.880 Okay.

03:29:38.000 Total looks.

03:29:39.980 What is the other factor then?

03:29:42.540 I don't know.

03:29:43.760 Maybe then I'll do, I'll do, I'll do 2, 4, and 6 then.

03:29:48.520 I don't know.

03:29:48.840 Because it would look like, it would work like this.

03:29:51.060 The math, right?

03:29:51.780 The total would be inferred from the face and body.

03:29:54.720 So, if you said, like, face, 4, body, 6, that would be, like, 5, basically.

03:30:00.000 You could view it like that.

03:30:01.640 Although, it would depend if you value face or body more.

03:30:05.560 So, it could vary.

03:30:07.180 But, there's, I don't think you can go 4 face, 4 body, 6 total.

03:30:11.360 I don't understand how that would work.

03:30:14.020 Okay.

03:30:14.420 Well, then, I'll do 3 face, 3 body, 6 total.

03:30:20.740 Does that make sense?

03:30:21.240 That even, that's even worse.

03:30:23.120 That still makes less sense.

03:30:24.260 Maybe she means, like, her personality is, like, a 10 out of 10.

03:30:26.060 No, but it's just looks.

03:30:27.400 So, total looks.

03:30:28.480 Okay.

03:30:28.860 Well, then, the total will just ultimately be a 6.

03:30:33.600 Okay.

03:30:33.980 But, face, 4, body, 4.

03:30:36.020 Yeah.

03:30:36.360 Okay.

03:30:36.960 What about you?

03:30:39.420 I'd like to say, 6 for face, 8 for body.

03:30:45.340 Okay.

03:30:47.080 Okay.

03:30:47.720 6 face, 8 body, 7 total?

03:30:51.560 Sure.

03:30:52.240 But, I can't say 7, so 8.

03:30:55.680 8 total.

03:30:56.360 7.5.

03:30:57.500 All right.

03:30:57.900 What about you?

03:30:58.680 I'd say, 5 for face and 4 for body.

03:31:01.740 So, 4 and a half total.

03:31:03.140 Okay.

03:31:03.900 What about you?

03:31:04.860 I'm going to go 10s all the way around.

03:31:06.600 Yeah, she has an amazing body, actually. 1.00

03:31:08.260 I'm going to go 10s all the way around.

03:31:10.400 Okay.

03:31:13.200 Say, 4, everything.

03:31:16.760 4, 4, 4?

03:31:18.040 Yeah.

03:31:18.700 If you guys can, just say 4 face, 4 body, 4 total.

03:31:22.840 I'd probably say my face, since we can't say 7, like, 7.5.

03:31:27.880 We'll do this.

03:31:28.940 Do 8 or 6.5?

03:31:34.680 Okay.

03:31:35.120 I'll say 8 for my face and 9 for my body because of my back problems and totally 0.5.

03:31:42.940 Wait, 9 because of your back problems?

03:31:46.340 It was a joke.

03:31:47.740 I don't get it, though.

03:31:49.900 Okay.

03:31:52.860 This is a bad...

03:31:54.880 I'm sorry.

03:31:56.120 I'm just...

03:31:57.020 You know us men, we're not very humorous.

03:31:59.780 Right.

03:32:00.260 Can someone explain the joke to me?

03:32:02.140 Because I'm guessing that she has your back hurts often.

03:32:05.720 Is that the problem?

03:32:06.860 Yes.

03:32:07.300 It's the thing that drops you from a 10 to a 9 is your back.

03:32:10.000 If I was a 10 out of 10, my body would be perfect.

03:32:12.220 It would work 100% of the time.

03:32:13.760 Oh.

03:32:14.320 Oh, that's funny, actually.

03:32:15.560 I see.

03:32:17.680 He's slow.

03:32:19.220 You get a downgrade from 10.

03:32:21.400 If it wasn't for your back problems, you would be a 10.

03:32:23.840 Yeah, I like my body.

03:32:25.460 Okay.

03:32:26.340 And then total?

03:32:29.120 I guess that would average to like a 9, 8.5, 9.

03:32:32.640 Okay.

03:32:32.960 Well, just 9, 8.5, I guess.

03:32:36.640 All right.

03:32:37.100 What about you?

03:32:38.420 Five face, five body, five total.

03:32:41.200 Five, five, five.

03:32:42.040 All right.

03:32:42.780 I give myself 4.5, 4.5, 4.5.

03:32:45.440 Okay.

03:32:47.860 So my attention draws to the 10.

03:32:54.300 The 10.

03:32:59.660 I would stand by Katie's 10 because we've known each other for a little bit, and she literally

03:33:05.360 works out.

03:33:06.440 And if you've seen her photos, she's got a 10 out of 10 body. 1.00

03:33:11.980 Is she?

03:33:13.060 She does.

03:33:13.720 She's wearing all black, and I try not to. 0.99

03:33:16.980 I don't like stare at.

03:33:18.440 Oh, but you ask us to rate our bodies.

03:33:20.440 Go ahead, stare.

03:33:21.300 You might as well.

03:33:23.180 Okay.

03:33:25.100 All right.

03:33:28.840 Thank you, Queen.

03:33:30.440 Got you.

03:33:32.540 Okay.

03:33:33.960 Can you guys tell me, for the two women who are 10s, can you tell me a male, maybe like 0.98

03:33:42.580 an actor, or a celebrity, somebody who we could Google, a man who you think is a 10?

03:33:48.800 Oh, I, oh my gosh.

03:33:49.980 Okay.

03:33:50.280 Sway Lee.

03:33:51.760 Who's that?

03:33:52.600 It's a rapper.

03:33:53.920 Sway Lee.

03:33:54.200 Is that that little skinny guy who sings in, girl, what are you talking about?

03:34:00.640 Tung.

03:34:00.920 That name sounds familiar from like 15 years ago.

03:34:05.740 You're going to go on your DJ thing now.

03:34:06.640 That's like the, that challenge that was on Vine where they like paused.

03:34:10.680 For you.

03:34:15.700 Take a moment.

03:34:16.460 I just don't really pay attention to celebrities all that much, but my, my forever celebrity

03:34:22.220 crush is the rock.

03:34:24.860 The rock.

03:34:26.020 Okay. 0.98

03:34:26.360 You guys are giving me some fucking weird answers to this. 0.98

03:34:29.640 That's a good answer. 0.98

03:34:30.740 That's all I got.

03:34:32.000 It's so intriguing.

03:34:32.540 I think everybody knows what the rock looks like.

03:34:34.160 Why don't you pull up Sway Lee? 0.99

03:34:35.460 What the fuck? 1.00

03:34:36.760 This is your looks crush? 1.00

03:34:41.580 Girl.

03:34:42.020 Scroll down.

03:34:46.120 I'm sorry.

03:34:46.520 That's all you can laugh.

03:34:49.780 This is a male 10 to you.

03:34:51.920 Just question that you said you're like dating three guys.

03:34:56.760 Are they black?

03:34:59.020 No.

03:34:59.940 Oh, okay.

03:35:01.860 Okay.

03:35:02.740 And so Sway, that guy's a 10 for you.

03:35:06.940 Yeah.

03:35:08.260 Are you just like a fan of his music or is that actually like you think he's really

03:35:12.000 physically attractive?

03:35:13.360 I just think he's attractive.

03:35:15.320 Like 10?

03:35:17.600 Yeah.

03:35:17.940 So he, okay.

03:35:20.820 I have actually, Chad, I have no idea what to do with that one.

03:35:24.500 What about a girl?

03:35:25.280 I feel so judged right now.

03:35:26.160 What about a girl who you think is a 10? 0.77

03:35:29.180 Like a female celebrity? 1.00

03:35:32.780 Let me think.

03:35:36.640 A girl that I think is a 10.

03:35:39.580 That's a celebrity.

03:35:42.000 What about for you?

03:35:43.900 Angelina Jolie all the way.

03:35:45.340 Oh, yeah.

03:35:45.680 Angelina Jolie.

03:35:46.320 Okay.

03:35:46.600 For you?

03:35:47.340 What about for you?

03:35:50.700 I can't think of anyone.

03:35:52.140 I don't know.

03:35:53.540 Are there any like Russian celebs or something you can think of?

03:35:58.040 There's a lot of beautiful Russian.

03:35:59.520 A lot of Russian women are very beautiful typically. 1.00

03:36:03.620 Okay.

03:36:04.040 Pull up Angelina Jolie, I guess.

03:36:05.440 So Angelina Jolie, she's a 10. 0.99

03:36:07.380 Let's do young.

03:36:08.620 She's old now.

03:36:09.400 Let's do young Angelina. 0.67

03:36:10.780 Yeah.

03:36:11.240 In her prime.

03:36:16.420 Scroll up.

03:36:17.300 Scroll up.

03:36:18.060 Scroll up.

03:36:18.660 To the very top.

03:36:22.280 Okay.

03:36:22.860 That's.

03:36:23.720 Why don't we do the.

03:36:26.180 Is that.

03:36:26.820 Wait, wait, wait.

03:36:27.340 Scroll up.

03:36:27.900 Scroll up.

03:36:28.360 Scroll up.

03:36:30.420 The yearbook photo.

03:36:32.720 Is that AI or is that real?

03:36:34.340 It looks AI.

03:36:34.980 I don't think that's real.

03:36:35.800 That one looks AI, the yearbook one.

03:36:40.120 Here.

03:36:40.700 Scroll down.

03:36:46.080 How about the.

03:36:49.520 How about the one where with a blue.

03:36:51.580 She's wearing a backpack.

03:36:52.940 Click on that one.

03:36:55.640 All right.

03:36:56.460 Now on the image, right click on it and do open in new tab.

03:37:01.220 At the very top.

03:37:04.580 All right.

03:37:05.080 Show us the image.

03:37:09.800 So she's a 10.

03:37:11.840 I think so.

03:37:12.680 I think she's stunning.

03:37:13.720 Okay.

03:37:14.960 Do you have it?

03:37:21.460 Wait, hold on.

03:37:22.380 No, no, no.

03:37:25.240 Was it open image in new tab?

03:37:27.120 Yeah.

03:37:29.360 That's weird.

03:37:30.040 I don't know why that.

03:37:31.200 Okay.

03:37:31.540 Whatever.

03:37:31.880 It doesn't matter.

03:37:32.380 We see.

03:37:33.820 You might have done like open link in new tab.

03:37:36.580 I don't know.

03:37:37.920 I couldn't see.

03:37:39.960 Anyways, pull it back up. 0.75

03:37:41.460 Is there a way to make it bigger?

03:37:45.980 There should be a way to like isolate just the photo.

03:37:49.460 Just pull it up.

03:37:52.100 Okay.

03:37:52.480 That works, I guess.

03:37:54.120 All right.

03:37:54.960 Angelina Jolie.

03:37:55.640 I don't know if this, no, it's not AI.

03:37:57.980 2020 is when this was posted on Facebook.

03:38:01.560 Okay.

03:38:02.040 So she's a 10.

03:38:03.060 You're a 10.

03:38:05.460 Would you guys, would you say you're like equivalent looks to her?

03:38:10.380 Well, I don't.

03:38:12.060 In terms of beauty?

03:38:13.380 Yeah, I think so.

03:38:14.280 I think she has a very unique classic look and I think I have a very unique classic look.

03:38:18.900 We don't look the same.

03:38:20.700 Yeah, you guys do look different, but.

03:38:22.320 Yeah, I do think that we have the same level of beauty.

03:38:26.040 I'm kind of known for my, my classic beauty and my classic look, so.

03:38:31.140 Like silent film actress?

03:38:34.780 Yeah, actually.

03:38:35.700 Sometimes, yeah.

03:38:38.500 You have like a girl next door vibe.

03:38:40.460 That's kind of like.

03:38:41.140 I get that all the time.

03:38:42.660 Yeah.

03:38:42.880 I do think of anyone here, I would say you're the most beautiful looks wise.

03:38:48.480 You're so sweet.

03:38:49.480 I think you're stunning.

03:38:50.960 Thank you.

03:38:51.440 You're sweet.

03:38:54.660 Okay.

03:38:58.380 Interesting.

03:38:58.900 Do you think if you were to use words to describe your physical appearance, like what would you use?

03:39:16.400 Adjectives, I guess.

03:39:18.220 Some of the things that I already said.

03:39:20.080 I have a classic look.

03:39:21.780 I have a very unique look.

03:39:23.460 It tends to get me a lot of work and a lot of bookings.

03:39:28.520 All natural.

03:39:30.060 Very fit.

03:39:30.680 Very in shape.

03:39:32.460 Always in the gym.

03:39:35.400 Yeah.

03:39:41.760 If going around the table, if.

03:39:43.860 Say a hundred thousand men were to rate you.

03:39:49.900 Let's just.

03:39:50.600 We won't do face body.

03:39:51.600 We'll just do your average total rating or whatever.

03:39:55.300 Do you think that the rating would be the same?

03:39:57.360 Would it be lower?

03:39:58.200 Would it be higher?

03:39:59.420 Or what do you think it would be?

03:40:02.100 I'm answering if it would be lower or higher.

03:40:04.340 I'm getting a rating.

03:40:05.520 Yeah.

03:40:05.720 So you rated yourself 6.5.

03:40:07.480 Do you think if a hundred thousand men, their average rating.

03:40:10.640 Do you think they would rate you 6.5?

03:40:15.060 Would they rate you higher or lower?

03:40:16.580 I think probably 6.5.

03:40:18.320 Okay.

03:40:18.700 What about you?

03:40:19.360 What do you think?

03:40:19.860 You rated yourself a 10 across the board, basically.

03:40:23.000 Do you think the hundred thousand men would rate you.

03:40:26.240 Well, you can't go higher than the 10, but.

03:40:28.740 10 or would they rate you lower?

03:40:32.200 Maybe a little lower because of my personality.

03:40:35.180 Well, no, it wouldn't be personality.

03:40:36.720 It'd just be looks.

03:40:37.760 They're just doing an assessment on looks.

03:40:39.440 Also, why would they rate you lower?

03:40:41.460 Because it's for your personality.

03:40:44.400 I mean, there's probably a subject matter there that we can get into, but that's another

03:40:49.380 conversation.

03:40:50.720 I just.

03:40:51.220 Okay.

03:40:52.860 I would say probably at least 10 or nine.

03:40:56.080 Yeah.

03:40:56.620 Somewhere there.

03:40:57.380 Maybe a little lower because I.

03:40:59.720 I think I have like my self-esteem is a little too high.

03:41:03.900 It's too high.

03:41:05.020 A little bit.

03:41:05.700 Well, there's no dispute from me on that one.

03:41:08.040 But what about you?

03:41:09.440 I was a six, right?

03:41:12.060 You said four, four, six.

03:41:13.940 Oh.

03:41:14.620 Yeah.

03:41:14.920 Into the mic, please.

03:41:16.180 Probably lower.

03:41:18.380 Okay.

03:41:18.880 Okay.

03:41:20.100 My average was a seven.

03:41:22.860 Yeah.

03:41:23.940 I'd say.

03:41:24.700 Six face, eight body.

03:41:26.500 Six.

03:41:26.800 Yeah.

03:41:27.140 So I'd say maybe seven or a six would be my average.

03:41:30.460 Five, a hundred thousand men were to rate me.

03:41:34.540 Okay.

03:41:34.840 What about you?

03:41:35.540 What do you think?

03:41:36.280 I think mine would say the same.

03:41:37.520 Like, what did I say?

03:41:38.240 Four and a half.

03:41:39.120 Yeah.

03:41:39.360 Four and a half was your total.

03:41:41.040 What about you?

03:41:42.300 I think eight.

03:41:44.120 Eight.

03:41:44.640 Okay.

03:41:45.200 Interesting.

03:41:45.760 All right.

03:41:46.020 What about you?

03:41:47.060 Maybe a five.

03:41:48.580 Okay.

03:41:48.980 But you said you gave yourself four, four, four.

03:41:51.020 Yeah.

03:41:51.380 Okay.

03:41:51.660 What about you?

03:41:53.620 Probably a little lower.

03:41:56.320 So what?

03:41:58.040 Maybe like a 6.5, seven.

03:42:00.280 Okay.

03:42:00.560 What about you?

03:42:01.480 I think they'd rate me the same as a five.

03:42:03.540 Same as a five.

03:42:04.420 All right.

03:42:05.800 Why is it for you?

03:42:06.860 You say you're a 10, 10, 10.

03:42:08.720 Why would the men, why do you think the men would rate you an eight?

03:42:11.920 This is a fantastic question, Brian.

03:42:13.700 Thank you so much for asking.

03:42:15.520 Yeah.

03:42:15.720 With our current, I'm going to call it an epidemic.

03:42:21.620 Epidemic.

03:42:22.300 Epidemic of lots of plastic surgery.

03:42:25.320 There is a new kind of look on or a new social expectation of what they expect a woman to look like that is not necessarily natural.

03:42:37.640 So I'm rating myself on a scale of what I believe is beautiful.

03:42:41.780 And I do believe that I'm a 10 full wholeheartedly because why would I downgrade myself?

03:42:47.340 And all of you ladies should think that you're a 10 as well. 1.00

03:42:49.540 So two things there I want to respond to.

03:42:52.720 Do you think all women should view themselves as a 10? 0.76

03:42:55.840 I do.

03:42:56.180 I do think all women should have that confidence.

03:42:57.640 Do you agree with her?

03:42:58.520 Other 10?

03:42:59.620 I think that yes, if they actually work on themselves.

03:43:04.500 Like she's always in the gym.

03:43:05.740 I'm always in the gym.

03:43:06.500 I feel like we resonate there.

03:43:07.540 So like if they actually work towards being one, like I don't like encourage Botox or anything.

03:43:16.340 I don't like.

03:43:17.760 Are all women 10s? 0.95

03:43:19.760 I think in their own way, everyone is beautiful.

03:43:22.160 Yeah.

03:43:22.640 I do think so.

03:43:23.540 I think everyone can be a 10.

03:43:25.880 Everyone can be a 10?

03:43:27.380 How would they achieve this?

03:43:29.920 Wait, didn't you say that there was an issue with plastic surgery?

03:43:33.580 I mean, you.

03:43:35.300 So I don't, I don't personally agree with completely changing your face in the way that you look for a lot of different reasons.

03:43:43.360 But, you know, I think if you want one thing here, one thing there.

03:43:45.620 But it's really shifted and changed the outlook of what beauty is.

03:43:51.080 I'm sorry.

03:43:51.720 Am I boring you?

03:43:53.100 No, I was just yawning.

03:43:53.740 Just kidding.

03:43:54.400 Yeah, and so therefore there is a different expectation.

03:44:01.100 That's why I rated myself or said that men might rate me lower is because, you know, I don't have like a boob job, right?

03:44:08.340 So I don't have like double Ds.

03:44:10.180 I have my natural like Bs or whatever they are.

03:44:13.340 Okay.

03:44:14.340 Well, I mean, hold on.

03:44:16.440 I'm really quick on the all 10s thing.

03:44:17.920 So all women are 10s? 1.00

03:44:21.360 I think so.

03:44:22.020 Are all men 10s? 0.62

03:44:24.400 I think so.

03:44:27.660 You know, that's a really good point.

03:44:29.020 I think in their own way, all men can be 10s.

03:44:34.080 Yeah.

03:44:34.500 Wow, that's really.

03:44:37.240 How come you're willing to give women the like, yes, girls slay, you're all 10s, the confidence.

03:44:43.260 But for men, you're like, eh, maybe they can reach 10 level.

03:44:47.740 Because I love women and I want to support women.

03:44:51.620 So men don't need support? 0.99

03:44:52.620 Men do need support.

03:44:53.700 I never said that.

03:44:54.960 But you can support women and support men.

03:44:57.260 Yeah, I do.

03:44:58.560 I love men.

03:44:59.340 But she does point something out where you were quicker to say, yes, all women are 10s. 0.96

03:45:06.460 But there seemed to be hesitation when we were trying to do the same appraisal of men.

03:45:11.280 I mean, just because I don't find every man attractive, right?

03:45:16.660 You find all women attractive? 0.72

03:45:19.140 I find a lot of women. 1.00

03:45:20.400 Most women attractive, yeah. 1.00

03:45:21.700 Can I ask you something?

03:45:22.740 Yeah.

03:45:22.920 So would you say that that should be like men should do, should say the same thing towards men?

03:45:30.020 Like a man should say, oh, all men are 10 out of 10. 0.92

03:45:32.980 And women should say, oh, all women have 10 out of 10. 1.00

03:45:35.680 But if a woman is speaking about a guy, then she can say like, yeah, I don't know. 0.99

03:45:41.000 So because you are supporting girls, then men are supporting men.

03:45:45.440 I think that's valid.

03:45:46.300 I think that's valid.

03:45:47.140 Yeah.

03:45:47.560 Do you think all women are 10s? 0.98

03:45:48.860 And if, I said like, if they work towards being one, like if they work on themselves, then I guess they could be.

03:45:59.960 Maybe, yeah.

03:46:01.000 But should, how about this?

03:46:02.180 Well, there's two different questions.

03:46:03.780 Do you think all women are 10s? 0.98

03:46:05.300 Or do you think all women should say they're 10s? 0.98

03:46:07.800 A little bit different.

03:46:08.760 But do you think all men are 10s?

03:46:13.320 It can be.

03:46:14.180 I have the same answer for both of them, for both women and men.

03:46:19.220 They can be 10s.

03:46:22.260 You're saying that they have, everyone has 10 potential as long as everyone works towards that 10.

03:46:27.660 Yeah.

03:46:28.280 So you think, you think that everyone can be a 10, even like someone with like deformities, they can be 10.

03:46:37.820 Oh, girl.

03:46:39.360 If they work on themselves.

03:46:41.440 Just talking about going to the gym.

03:46:44.920 Like, you work on your body.

03:46:46.360 No, we're talking about like the 10 potential.

03:46:47.620 Yeah, you do realize that like facial attractiveness is absolutely massive.

03:46:51.940 And there's very little that you can do to improve that.

03:46:54.800 Even oftentimes getting plastic surgery, you still can't, there's a limit to what you can do.

03:47:00.340 I was going to say that you can go to the gym as often.

03:47:03.780 You can fix your body.

03:47:05.480 Fix your body.

03:47:06.300 I just do changes to your body by going to the gym and working out.

03:47:10.080 I go to the gym as much as I do.

03:47:11.780 But you can't change your face unless you do your surgeries.

03:47:16.080 Right.

03:47:16.580 But the attractiveness is collective.

03:47:18.700 So I agree that most people do have the capacity to, although, I mean, there's even genetic components to, well, your muscle insertions and like some people have an easier time, at least especially with men, putting on muscle.

03:47:37.320 Like some men just don't have like good muscle insertions and their chest is going to look all fucking retarded and their, you know, biceps are not going to look right and their triceps and their shoulders, all these things. 0.99

03:47:50.420 Right. 0.77

03:47:50.680 So, I mean, you can get fit, but even then there's some degree of genetic limitation.

03:47:58.440 I don't think anybody is a 10.

03:48:00.800 Nobody.

03:48:02.460 Well, I mean, you're, you're a woman of God, right?

03:48:06.000 I think the only thing that person that can be considered a 10, if you look at it this way, would be Jesus, right?

03:48:17.600 Because he was made to be a 10.

03:48:20.800 Nobody else.

03:48:21.360 We don't know what Jesus looks like.

03:48:23.460 We're all made in God's image.

03:48:25.060 Not like that.

03:48:25.720 But like in this way, like if created that way, God was created to be like the perfect image.

03:48:35.000 Whether it's like personality, like everything wise, it's just, that's created to be the perfect image.

03:48:44.380 And for looks wise, this aspect of it, if you're doing it this way, let's say, let's say, I don't know, for me, I rate myself for my looks a four.

03:48:57.840 But, I don't know, like my, my nose, I think my nose is very big.

03:49:05.500 I think my hair is beautiful.

03:49:08.220 It's just, it's about like your.

03:49:10.260 What does that have to do with Jesus?

03:49:12.320 It has to do with the fact that like he thinks that I'm perfect.

03:49:17.140 I think that like we shouldn't rate people personally because I do agree with you.

03:49:24.920 We are all created in God's image, which is perfect.

03:49:28.080 I don't think that we should view people as options because when we're rating their looks, we're looking at them as an option.

03:49:33.860 I think we should see them as reflections of God's grace.

03:49:36.520 Oh my God, this is so incoherent. 0.99

03:49:39.200 Even fucking the most virtuous, godly, the most Christian woman you could ever find would still have a looks preference. 1.00

03:49:49.060 This is completely horse shit, dog shit, bullshit. 1.00

03:49:52.000 Even religious women are going to look at a guy and like decide to date him, perhaps on a variety of things. 1.00

03:49:59.560 But they're definitely like this idea that really Christian women are just like going to give the super ugly guy a chance because he's super Christian. 1.00

03:50:07.140 Nah, it's fucking coping bullshit. 1.00

03:50:09.140 Like even religious women care about looks. 1.00

03:50:11.720 Let's get that. 1.00

03:50:12.780 That's bullshit. 0.99

03:50:13.760 What I'm trying to say is the only person or thing that will see you as a 10 is God. 1.00

03:50:20.200 No other human will see you as a 10.

03:50:22.480 Well, I mean, a human could see a woman. 0.98

03:50:25.140 I mean, yeah, another human could see you as a 10 if you really love them that much.

03:50:30.020 But I mean, it's very rare for another human to see you as a perfect 10 out of 10 because everybody truly has their flaws.

03:50:37.880 If you really look at somebody that deeply, if you look at yourself that deeply in the mirror, you're going to see your own flaws that you don't like, that you want to change.

03:50:46.680 But you will eventually, if you have the right mindset, learn to love them and accept them.

03:50:53.440 It's not to fully say that you don't accept your flaws.

03:50:56.020 I know I'm average, but it doesn't mean I'm not pretty.

03:50:59.620 I think that I am beautiful.

03:51:00.680 I think I am pretty.

03:51:01.560 And I'm going to tell my children that too.

03:51:03.220 But based on who the most attractive woman in the world is, do I have any comparison to her? 0.85

03:51:09.100 Absolutely not.

03:51:10.480 And it's just the reality of that.

03:51:11.640 And that's fine.

03:51:12.200 It's nothing bad about that.

03:51:13.360 It's just the reality of it.

03:51:14.400 I just think it's inevitable of us to see a person and to rate them and be like, oh, he's this.

03:51:21.500 He's a 10 out of 10.

03:51:22.200 He's not a 10 out of 10.

03:51:23.700 It's kind of like, I feel like it's a reaction that happens in the brain.

03:51:27.660 Because he, I think he said, I completely agree with the fact that we don't even control, like that happens in our brain.

03:51:38.360 That we decide like, oh, this person is attractive to me.

03:51:40.560 He's a 10 out of 10.

03:51:41.480 This person is not attractive to me.

03:51:43.000 He's like a 4 out of 10.

03:51:45.000 So at this point, like I can agree with you.

03:51:46.900 I don't think every woman is a 10 out of 10 looks wise. 1.00

03:51:53.580 I don't think every man is a 10 out of 10 looks wise.

03:51:57.300 But that's, I find, there are some guys who I find attractive that if I tell my friend, I think that guy's cute.

03:52:05.760 They'll look at him and be like, really?

03:52:07.360 Him?

03:52:08.100 And I'm like, something about him makes me attracted to you.

03:52:11.020 But I'm not calling him a 10 out of 10.

03:52:14.000 Liam Hemsworth is a 10 out of 10.

03:52:15.680 Oh, yeah.

03:52:16.900 Yeah.

03:52:18.600 Yeah, I don't know.

03:52:20.320 I guess, I don't know.

03:52:23.520 I do think that there was some overrating by some of the women at the table here.

03:52:29.600 And you were saying something about, what was it?

03:52:36.620 There was an issue?

03:52:38.680 I'm trying to remember what you were saying.

03:52:40.460 You were like, well, now something about, what was it?

03:52:44.140 Was it the hair with the back?

03:52:47.240 No, no, no, no.

03:52:48.220 No, that's not what I was talking about.

03:52:50.760 Okay.

03:52:51.220 Well, I'm going to do the segment where I give you guys my rating.

03:52:56.400 All right.

03:52:57.000 So look, I'm not going to be, even if I had disagreements with you, I'm going to be fair.

03:53:01.120 I'm not going to intentionally rate you super low because I don't even think I've had really any super strong disagreements with anybody tonight.

03:53:09.880 It's been mostly pretty tame.

03:53:12.200 I'll be fair.

03:53:12.880 I'll give you some positive characteristics you have.

03:53:15.140 I'll give you maybe a negative or two characteristics you have.

03:53:18.960 And I will give you, by the way, to be clear, it's on a scale of zero to 10.

03:53:24.740 Almost, I don't really think there are any women who are 10s.

03:53:28.120 I don't think there really are any women who are zeros. 1.00

03:53:32.340 That would mean you have, there's absolutely nothing redeeming or 10 just, I don't think exists, right?

03:53:38.260 Maybe AI can make a 10.

03:53:40.160 Maybe, even then, who knows?

03:53:44.160 But five is average.

03:53:46.940 Okay.

03:53:47.080 So to be clear, five is average.

03:53:48.580 Just want to, and five is not, doesn't mean you're ugly if you're five.

03:53:52.120 It means you're average.

03:53:54.660 A lot of people will find average attractive.

03:53:58.980 Okay.

03:54:00.320 You gave yourself a 6.5.

03:54:02.760 Do you have a lip filler?

03:54:04.100 No.

03:54:04.580 Have you had a lip flip?

03:54:06.200 No.

03:54:06.660 Can you turn that way?

03:54:09.240 Not that much?

03:54:10.040 A little, turn that way a little bit?

03:54:12.220 Not too much, though.

03:54:13.200 Too much.

03:54:13.640 There we go.

03:54:14.360 Sorry.

03:54:15.080 Okay.

03:54:17.220 Okay, you can look straight.

03:54:18.280 That's fine.

03:54:18.980 Thank you.

03:54:19.880 Thank you.

03:54:20.500 All right.

03:54:22.020 Hmm.

03:54:24.080 And I'm not going to be doing body because otherwise, whatever.

03:54:27.040 I'll just give you face ratings.

03:54:28.280 I'll give you guys face ratings, I guess.

03:54:31.880 Hmm.

03:54:36.360 I, sometimes with the negatives, I don't want to go to, like, the most obvious ones.

03:54:39.740 The most obvious one because I feel like people are already aware of their own insecurities.

03:54:43.900 But, um, how about this?

03:54:47.320 I'll rate each of you, but I can give you the sugar-coated version, or I could give you

03:54:55.260 just the full-blown, just completely honest.

03:54:57.880 Honestly, I'll go for full-blown.

03:54:58.400 Go ahead.

03:54:58.700 Not pulling any punches.

03:55:00.360 Do we get to rate you back?

03:55:02.320 Oh, I should, uh, I mean, if you want to.

03:55:04.620 Yeah.

03:55:04.820 That would be a fair, I think we each can give you our own ratings of yourself.

03:55:09.040 Yeah, if you want to.

03:55:09.300 Yeah, I think that's pretty cool.

03:55:10.240 I should also, I guess I'll start with me a little bit.

03:55:12.480 So I already gave myself 4.5, 4.5, 4.5.

03:55:15.480 Uh, positive.

03:55:16.840 Blue eyes, tall, 6'1".

03:55:18.800 Uh, decent facial symmetry.

03:55:21.060 Uh, I do good eye area, although lower eye area, kind of weak, um, need to lose weight.

03:55:28.160 I'm fat, dad bod, uh, big nose, uh, somewhat unbalanced facial thirds, definitely work on

03:55:38.040 skin clarity.

03:55:40.180 And yeah, so those are some negatives for me.

03:55:43.340 Um, trying to think what else, uh, weak upper lip, I guess you could say.

03:55:50.100 Oh my God.

03:55:50.600 That's a new one.

03:55:51.540 Weak upper lip, but I mean, I'm white, so.

03:55:53.160 Me too.

03:55:53.740 A lot of white people have not the strongest lips, I guess. 0.93

03:55:56.480 Uh, so, okay. 0.93

03:55:57.140 That's, those are my negatives for the, for that reason.

03:55:59.200 I give myself a 4.5.

03:56:01.080 Honestly, if I don't lose weight soon, I think I'll probably end up downgrading to 4, 4, 4

03:56:05.000 across the board.

03:56:06.140 Uh, need to lose weight for body and face though, because when you're gaining weight, you get,

03:56:11.140 uh, facial chubbiness start. 0.98

03:56:13.760 I don't know if the jowls are fully fuck. 0.97

03:56:16.160 You know, I don't know. 0.99

03:56:16.960 The jowls will be there maybe one day.

03:56:19.140 I got to lose some weight though, boys. 0.99

03:56:20.260 I'm fucking fat right now. 0.98

03:56:21.280 So that's my primary thing. 0.99

03:56:22.920 Um, don't worry.

03:56:23.640 I won't be that harsh with you guys though.

03:56:25.420 Oh my God.

03:56:26.300 I can be, yeah, yeah.

03:56:27.920 I can be harsh with me, but, but I'll give you, I won't be that harsh with you guys.

03:56:31.720 Um, okay.

03:56:32.720 Uh, okay.

03:56:34.620 So you wanted the brutal thing.

03:56:36.300 Go ahead.

03:56:36.820 All right.

03:56:37.100 So I would say, uh, uh, uh, as somebody who myself, I have a big nose, I can pretty, I

03:56:42.520 can narrow into people's noses.

03:56:44.100 So turn that way again.

03:56:45.940 Uh, you know, the nose is not, the nose isn't too bad, but it, it, there is a bit of a bump.

03:56:53.280 You have a mid nose.

03:56:54.000 And it's crooked.

03:56:54.820 If you look, you do have, it is a bit of a bulbous tip.

03:56:57.820 There's sagging in the tip a little bit.

03:56:59.940 Um, so I think noses have a like pretty massive impact.

03:57:05.280 Oh yeah.

03:57:05.840 Facial aesthetics. 0.99

03:57:06.800 And I say this as somebody, my nose is big and bulb and all that shit. 0.99

03:57:12.180 So I, I get it. 0.93

03:57:13.840 Um, I would say overall good facial harmony, good facial symmetry.

03:57:18.560 You have nice eyebrows.

03:57:19.900 Although I don't know if you like pencil them in a little bit, you have good, uh, above average

03:57:27.000 to near striking blue eyes.

03:57:29.140 You have, uh, uh, you're from the side, the side profile.

03:57:35.600 Uh, so in the audience, it's not the best.

03:57:41.860 Uh, lips, I want to say a slightly, perhaps slightly above average for a white woman. 0.97

03:57:48.520 Should I get filler?

03:57:49.560 No, don't get filler.

03:57:50.400 I really want.

03:57:51.300 I think filler looks no offense to any women here who have it. 1.00

03:57:56.380 I just got mine.

03:57:57.800 I'm not offended by that.

03:58:00.060 Do you have lip filler or lip flip?

03:58:02.980 Yeah.

03:58:03.240 Uh, yeah.

03:58:05.600 Uh, what is it?

03:58:07.640 I know you have it.

03:58:08.680 I know you have it.

03:58:10.600 Um, no, her, uh, can you turn your, to the side more?

03:58:18.400 I don't think you have lip filler.

03:58:19.840 No.

03:58:20.640 Turn to the side.

03:58:22.060 No, I don't think you have lip filler.

03:58:23.320 Uh, yeah, no lip filler.

03:58:25.040 I think, um, even though it, I guess, achieves the, the fullness, it looks weird.

03:58:31.580 It, you can tell like, and if you can tell it creates an uncanny valley, I don't recommend

03:58:36.480 it for you.

03:58:36.920 I think, uh, even if you have really thin lip, I don't, I think the lip filler makes

03:58:41.940 it worse.

03:58:42.360 This is, but this is my own aesthetic perspective.

03:58:44.360 Um, also in person versus Instagram.

03:58:48.860 So I think lip filler, if we're getting front profile, I think that that will, that can be

03:58:55.340 deceiving. 0.99

03:58:55.740 But as soon as you turn your head to the side, we can see that shit. 1.00

03:58:59.020 But even from the front, sometimes you can tell the lip filler aesthetically. 0.97

03:59:02.760 I actually think even if you have really thin lips, it's not, it's a negative.

03:59:07.020 It's still negative.

03:59:07.920 Don't get the lip filler.

03:59:09.220 You rated yourself a 6.5.

03:59:12.560 Um, I'd probably give you a 5.5 or 6, somewhere around that region.

03:59:18.820 Chat, chat, now's your time.

03:59:20.640 If you want to also provide a rating, I think six is, would probably be a fair rating, maybe

03:59:28.740 a 5.5.

03:59:30.300 Um, you, okay.

03:59:32.760 All right.

03:59:33.460 You gave yourself 10, 10, 10 across the board.

03:59:36.540 Very confident answer.

03:59:38.740 Uh, let's see here.

03:59:39.900 You are wearing quite a bit of makeup and you're wearing fake lashes, which is going to have,

03:59:44.940 which maybe we can do this again at the end of the show when we offer to let everybody

03:59:49.480 take off their makeup.

03:59:51.240 So when a woman's wearing a lot of makeup and I know you're wearing makeup too, but it's 0.84

03:59:55.900 not quite as much as she's wearing.

03:59:58.340 It does make the face rating a little bit difficult.

04:00:00.900 Uh, but I can try to go off other things that makeup doesn't have as much of an impact

04:00:07.220 for, uh, but make, there's quite, you're quite a substantial amount of makeup in the eye

04:00:12.760 area, which can change massively the, uh, appraisal of facial attractiveness.

04:00:19.240 Um, let's see here.

04:00:22.260 Uh, you have good eyebrows.

04:00:24.640 Uh, you have above average to near striking blue eyes.

04:00:30.320 Uh, turn.

04:00:31.520 Can you turn that way?

04:00:32.340 Do not have blue eyes.

04:00:34.460 I, uh, you, I, I like the aesthetics of your nose.

04:00:38.200 Some, uh, looks maxers would say it's maybe slightly, slightly on the big side, but I actually

04:00:46.460 think the shape is quite nice and you know, there's not a bump, but it is slightly, I think

04:00:53.980 it's a great nose, but some looks maxer types might be like, Oh, it's a bit, whatever.

04:00:59.820 Um, you have quite strong above average lips.

04:01:04.880 Um, good facial harmony, good facial symmetry.

04:01:09.920 Uh, uh, with the makeup, I'm assuming maybe some skin clarity issues, perhaps.

04:01:15.840 Maybe, maybe I'm not sure though.

04:01:17.580 It's a bit hard to tell.

04:01:19.200 Um, um, um, I actually, this is my own preference, but some people, uh, I actually find like the

04:01:31.240 chubbier cheeks.

04:01:32.160 I think it's actually a plus some looks maxers would be like your, uh, cheeks are a little 0.88

04:01:39.400 chubby, but I actually think it's a positive, not, not negative.

04:01:42.240 Um, um, what else?

04:01:46.820 Uh, good facial thirds.

04:01:50.980 Hmm.

04:01:52.960 I have dimples.

04:01:54.800 Your interpupillary distance is a little bit off.

04:02:01.700 Uh, turn to the side.

04:02:03.600 Sorry.

04:02:05.060 You could have a bit, uh, slight, perhaps a bit.

04:02:12.240 Your lower third facial third is perhaps a little bit weak.

04:02:16.760 Um, your facial thirds are a little bit off, but otherwise, uh, overall pretty strong.

04:02:24.740 The makeup is going to skew this a little bit.

04:02:27.240 Chat, if you want to give your rating now, uh, I want to say 6.5, perhaps a seven.

04:02:37.460 Um, okay.

04:02:41.000 I mean, you can be honest, but my eyes are not blue, by the way.

04:02:44.720 Are what?

04:02:45.400 They're green.

04:02:45.660 My eyes are not blue.

04:02:46.720 No, they're not even green.

04:02:48.200 Um, well, it's a little hard for me to tell, but they are what?

04:02:53.040 Blue?

04:02:53.520 Gray?

04:02:53.780 I have heterochromia, uh, which means that my eyes are a different color.

04:02:58.700 One of my eyes is green and my other eye is, uh, hazel green.

04:03:04.020 So it's half brown.

04:03:05.720 Well, you are, the distance is a bit far, but your eyes are light, excuse me, light in any

04:03:11.320 case.

04:03:11.940 Um, so, uh, yeah.

04:03:17.780 Chat?

04:03:18.180 I don't know.

04:03:23.100 There, there are chats a little bit all over the place on this one.

04:03:26.420 Um, but I would say 6.5 or 7, but you are wearing a lot of makeup.

04:03:29.920 So it's hard to fully give an assessment.

04:03:32.140 Some people might say that's a bit high.

04:03:33.620 Some people might say that's a bit low.

04:03:35.480 Uh, for you, you said 4.4.6.

04:03:38.660 Um, I'm actually fine with her rating.

04:03:42.060 I think 4.4.4 is, I don't know about the six thing or whatever.

04:03:45.240 I think 4.4.4 is a fair rating.

04:03:48.180 Um, you're not wearing any makeup though.

04:03:52.260 So makeup will change somebody's appraisal of, uh, attractiveness.

04:03:57.100 Oh, I need to give you another negative.

04:03:58.960 Sorry here.

04:03:59.580 I just noticed.

04:04:00.960 You were thinking on it.

04:04:02.240 Dwelling.

04:04:03.240 Yeah.

04:04:03.660 I'd say slight under eye weakness in your under eye area.

04:04:07.120 I know that's my like biggest insecurity.

04:04:10.020 Uh, for you, you also, because I know you have a bit of weakness in your under eye area,

04:04:14.620 although for your phenotype, I think you actually have really nice, uh, brown eyes.

04:04:19.760 Uh, you have a nice eye area, nice lips, no lip filler, right?

04:04:23.940 Yeah.

04:04:24.400 Strong lips.

04:04:25.720 Um, I mean, you and me were, do you want the, you can be brutally honest.

04:04:31.860 I've heard.

04:04:32.780 All right.

04:04:32.800 You and me, look, uh, you're in better shape than I am, but we both, you know, we got to

04:04:36.780 hit those Olympic.

04:04:37.620 We got to hit, we got to hit the weight watchers.

04:04:39.820 I'm going to raw dog my diet though. 0.99

04:04:41.420 I'm the fuck Olympic, but look, we, we got to both lose a little weight. 0.98

04:04:44.540 And I think, um, you could definitely improve quite substantially if you thin down on your 0.99

04:04:48.460 face a little bit, probably in the body too.

04:04:50.660 But, um, and I say this as somebody, I need to lose weight. 1.00

04:04:54.360 I'm a fucking fat ass. 0.99

04:04:56.020 Uh, so, you know, but, uh, I think, uh, you can see pretty massive gains in aesthetics. 1.00

04:05:03.200 Um, but yeah, but I agree with your assessment.

04:05:08.260 I think that's pretty accurate.

04:05:09.620 Thank you.

04:05:10.600 Uh, okay.

04:05:11.620 You, you said you were six face and then eight, eight, eight body, but I'm not going to do

04:05:17.780 body.

04:05:18.460 Okay.

04:05:19.060 Uh, let's see here.

04:05:20.180 Lip filler.

04:05:20.960 I, that's just an aesthetic for me.

04:05:23.060 So I, that would downgrade you in my book.

04:05:25.180 I just got them done.

04:05:27.000 So thank you for noticing.

04:05:28.700 Yeah.

04:05:29.460 Uh, can you turn your face to the side, other side?

04:05:33.920 Okay.

04:05:35.540 Uh, you have a strong, like strong Ramis, good lower third.

04:05:43.200 You can look straight now.

04:05:44.600 There are fancy words.

04:05:45.540 Have you had a nose job?

04:05:46.700 No, no nose job.

04:05:47.920 Okay.

04:05:48.160 Cannot afford.

04:05:48.940 No, but I don't want to.

04:05:50.480 Uh, nice.

04:05:52.060 You are wearing a good amount of eye makeup.

04:05:54.260 To be fair.

04:05:55.320 I thought the instructions told us to put on makeup.

04:05:59.380 No, the instructions say to be makeup ready.

04:06:01.260 So that means don't come to the studio.

04:06:03.740 We don't have time to give you 20.

04:06:05.600 Oh, I misunderstood.

04:06:06.780 Yeah.

04:06:06.920 It says be makeup ready.

04:06:08.100 So that means don't, you can't, we don't have time for you to put on, spend 20 minutes

04:06:12.160 in the bathroom upon arrival, putting on makeup.

04:06:14.800 Uh, I did my makeup in the Plains bathroom.

04:06:17.260 No, no, no.

04:06:17.640 Yeah.

04:06:18.360 We're fine with women wearing makeup to the podcast. 1.00

04:06:21.360 Um, but I don't think there's not specific instructions to, to wear makeup, but we say

04:06:27.900 be makeup ready in the sense.

04:06:29.960 Don't be spending 20 hours putting on makeup, 20 minutes putting on makeup in the bathroom.

04:06:34.600 Okay.

04:06:35.000 Uh, let's see blue eyes, green, green.

04:06:38.960 Sorry, it's a little far.

04:06:39.820 So it's a bit hard to tell.

04:06:41.240 Uh, okay.

04:06:42.320 Uh, eye color is good.

04:06:44.560 Uh, nose good.

04:06:46.540 Eyebrow is good.

04:06:48.060 Uh, you have a bit of, uh, I would say your facial lower third is a bit weak.

04:06:56.060 So that basically just means like the, I don't know how to describe it exactly.

04:07:01.420 You'll just have to Google it after.

04:07:03.440 Yeah, I, I'm, I do.

04:07:04.660 Cause you're using these terms that I'm like, what do you mean?

04:07:07.340 Uh, nice, nice teeth.

04:07:09.840 Yeah.

04:07:10.000 Basically you're the lower portion of, uh, yeah.

04:07:14.860 Yeah.

04:07:15.180 I, I, I'd agree with that.

04:07:16.680 Yeah.

04:07:17.560 And, uh, nice smile, I suppose.

04:07:21.600 Um, thank you.

04:07:24.480 Uh, you're a bit pale.

04:07:26.300 I pride myself in being very pale.

04:07:29.300 I'm, I'm gonna, you gave yourself a six face. 0.99

04:07:33.080 I think I'd give you, uh, five, maybe a five, 5.5.

04:07:39.580 I'll take it.

04:07:40.460 Thank you.

04:07:41.100 Average to maybe a bit above average facial aesthetics.

04:07:46.240 Uh, I'd say, uh, you, uh, let's see, you gave yourself a five face average.

04:07:54.160 Um, Hmm.

04:07:56.060 Um, I don't think you're far off, but, uh, what's your like background or you like German

04:08:05.680 or Swiss or something or German and Italian and Italian, uh, strong blue eyes.

04:08:11.580 Your eyes are a bit bloodshot though.

04:08:14.320 Uh, I don't know if that's just normal.

04:08:15.580 I think I have something in them.

04:08:16.560 Can, oh, scoot to the, Mary, you need to keep an eye on that.

04:08:19.320 I think I have something in it and it really hurts actually.

04:08:22.200 Oh, okay.

04:08:22.320 Uh, like, so the, obviously people have different phenotypes and they'll like, all feet, all 0.98

04:08:28.820 phenotypes can be attractive by the way, just to be clear.

04:08:31.740 Um, uh, but there are, you're going to have to rate differently, you know, based on these

04:08:36.200 sorts of things.

04:08:36.760 But, um, so I'm not, when I say like you can have striking dark eyes or striking, uh, brown

04:08:43.880 eyes, for example, it's not just because you have blue eyes, but, um, good blue eyes, no

04:08:49.520 lip filler, right?

04:08:50.200 No, uh, your, your upper lip is actually stronger than your lower lip.

04:08:55.200 So typically you want the lower lip to be a little bit bigger than the upper lip.

04:08:58.920 You want a full, uh, full, is this autistic at this point? 1.00

04:09:02.580 I don't even know.

04:09:03.320 Uh, you, you want, you want both full upper lip and lower lip. 1.00

04:09:08.700 Uh, so the ratio is a bit off, but good, good.

04:09:14.000 Uh, very, can you turn your face that way?

04:09:17.080 Strong nose, strong nose.

04:09:19.340 Uh, maybe even almost too much on the small side, ever so slightly, ever so slightly.

04:09:26.740 That's better than on it being too much on the big side.

04:09:29.700 Uh, strong nose, strong eyes, strong eyebrows.

04:09:33.560 Um, uh, you know, it's, uh, hmm.

04:09:45.140 How old are you again?

04:09:46.520 28.

04:09:47.260 28.

04:09:47.600 Uh, you've aged, I actually think you've aged pretty well, uh, to be honest.

04:09:53.280 Thank you.

04:09:53.820 Uh, I, I want to say 5.5, maybe 6.

04:09:58.280 So I think you underrated your facial attractiveness.

04:10:00.780 All right.

04:10:01.400 Um, a little bit.

04:10:02.240 Okay.

04:10:02.420 We've got Miss 10 over here.

04:10:03.460 Can I have you just scoot to the table a little bit?

04:10:05.300 All right.

04:10:05.700 We've got the most beautiful woman at the table of all. 0.89

04:10:07.620 I guess besides a court, well, according to themselves.

04:10:10.140 We've got the 10 out of 10 here.

04:10:11.940 Okay.

04:10:12.420 So, uh, let's see.

04:10:14.660 You do have, uh, the, I referenced like the silent film era.

04:10:19.860 You do have like that sort of like way, way back Hollywood aesthetic to you.

04:10:26.040 Uh, the, the sort of, uh, striking brown eyes.

04:10:32.420 Uh, so you have a strong, strong eyes, strong brown eyes.

04:10:36.120 Um, do you have a slight lazy eye?

04:10:41.980 I think so.

04:10:43.180 Yeah.

04:10:43.600 It's something I've had to like try and control before.

04:10:45.940 Okay.

04:10:46.240 If I like get too tired.

04:10:48.400 It's slightly.

04:10:49.180 I, that wouldn't have a major.

04:10:50.860 It's very minor though.

04:10:52.240 Very minor.

04:10:52.900 So I don't think, do you want the full blown?

04:10:56.160 No punches.

04:10:56.860 Well, all right.

04:10:57.600 I'm, I always try to be somewhat nice though.

04:10:59.940 Um, let's see here.

04:11:02.040 Uh, very striking eyes.

04:11:05.020 Very striking eyes.

04:11:07.840 Um, your lower thirds a bit weak.

04:11:11.520 I don't know if you're over lining with your lipstick a little bit.

04:11:14.420 No lip filler, right?

04:11:15.560 No lip filler.

04:11:16.760 Uh, slightly above average lips.

04:11:19.920 I want to say I would give you like the lips are a bit on above average side.

04:11:25.200 Um, can you turn that way?

04:11:30.260 Uh, a bit of an indent on the chin, which I think typically for female attract, 0.98

04:11:34.940 I think also it's not the best for male males, but, um, I think typically going to be assessed

04:11:43.340 as worse when seen in women.

04:11:46.040 Uh, obviously as somebody who has a big nose, you probably know, uh, I would say probably

04:11:51.960 in terms of a fly point out, uh, the nose, right?

04:11:55.200 So you have a bit of, my nose makes a lot of money, a lot of money.

04:12:00.460 Okay.

04:12:00.900 Yeah.

04:12:01.080 I mean, I know the, some of the models, they like the alien look or whatever.

04:12:04.320 Um, the catwalk girls are, I'm not saying you look like an alien, but sometimes the, 0.88

04:12:08.620 I think that is a compliment.

04:12:09.920 The, the high fashion aesthetic.

04:12:12.080 What are you doing there?

04:12:13.400 Uh, the high fashion, uh, by the way, it shouldn't be there like for, put it on another tab if

04:12:19.800 you can.

04:12:20.240 Okay.

04:12:20.980 We shouldn't be showing that.

04:12:23.220 Um, so, uh, I, I would say probably the nose is going to throw off the facial harmony

04:12:30.700 of your face.

04:12:32.180 Uh, again, I say this as somebody who it, it fucks up the facial harmony of my face. 0.51

04:12:37.600 I have a big nose. 0.58

04:12:38.380 I've got a hump, uh, it's big, it's bulbous.

04:12:41.680 Um, so I would say you also have the same, uh, kind of the, some of the same detriment

04:12:48.220 there as it relates to the nose.

04:12:50.320 Um, what else you're, uh, I think you're lower, you have good jaw, but your lower third, I think

04:13:00.760 is, uh, a little bit weak.

04:13:05.640 What does that mean for all of us that are confused about the lower third?

04:13:08.960 So in terms of facial proportions, um, like for example, you, it's not exact, but you'd

04:13:14.240 kind of want, uh, it's not exact, but so like facial thirds.

04:13:20.140 So basically from your chin to the bottom of your nose, or some people might say the lips

04:13:25.620 and then lips to the, uh, basically the center eye or low eye and then eye to forehead.

04:13:32.480 So you have unequal facial thirds.

04:13:34.900 So I think your bottom, uh, third, basically the area, the area, the area between your bottom

04:13:42.320 lip and your chin is a bit on the small side proportionally.

04:13:45.540 So the proportions are, uh, slightly weak, I would say in that dimension, uh, good eyebrows.

04:13:53.820 So, um, uh, so, okay, uh, the rating, the rating, let's see here, uh, you gave yourself

04:14:07.180 a 10 in terms of facial attractiveness.

04:14:09.580 Uh, I think I would give you, um, hmm, I think some people are going to criticize me

04:14:19.280 for this, but I would give you, uh, it's, it's actually a bit hard.

04:14:25.440 I think I would give you a six or 6.5, probably leaning to 6.5, but some people might say I'm

04:14:34.600 overrating you a little bit.

04:14:37.400 Um, so yeah.

04:14:41.660 Thank you so much.

04:14:42.600 You're welcome.

04:14:43.220 All right.

04:14:43.520 You, uh, okay.

04:14:45.800 What did you give yourself a four, four, four, four across the board?

04:14:49.480 Um, uh, okay.

04:14:51.900 Well, I'll just kind of, my immediate, without like getting into the analysis breakdown, my

04:14:55.880 immediate knee jerk reaction is, um, I think you actually have like pretty strong potential.

04:15:03.820 Uh, I think you have a solid base.

04:15:07.020 I think you maybe underrated yourself a little bit, although you face the same problem that

04:15:11.440 I have is we both need to, uh, gain a, or it's not gain.

04:15:16.140 Gain.

04:15:16.380 Um, I think, uh, lose weight, lose weight, uh, a little bit.

04:15:22.720 I think it's impacting your facial aesthetics a little bit.

04:15:25.600 Uh, I think you'd actually be, uh, you might actually, if you lost a bit of weight, you might

04:15:33.160 actually have the most aesthetic face at the table.

04:15:36.140 Uh, you have striking, striking eyes, although you are wearing the, is that just mascara or

04:15:43.320 do you have the extent?

04:15:44.920 I have extensions.

04:15:45.900 You are wearing extensions.

04:15:47.060 Okay.

04:15:48.160 Um, let's see here.

04:15:51.000 Uh, can you turn that way?

04:15:53.780 Nose slight, slightly weak nose, slightly weak nose.

04:15:59.620 You have the lip filler disavow, um, not becoming of a Christian woman, I guess. 0.97

04:16:05.340 Uh, just, uh, do a straight face for me, not smiling.

04:16:08.920 Um, I can't now.

04:16:11.040 Okay.

04:16:11.800 I'll try.

04:16:13.980 Um, hmm.

04:16:16.300 I think the primary thing for you would be, uh, I think you could, you could ascend though.

04:16:23.420 If you lost weight, I think you could, you could potentially be, uh, in terms of facial

04:16:30.080 aesthetics, you could be pretty damn good.

04:16:32.000 I think, I don't know.

04:16:34.520 Um, I agree.

04:16:37.340 I think you have a really beautiful face.

04:16:39.180 You're welcome.

04:16:40.060 I think, uh, yeah.

04:16:41.420 So me and you, we're going to hit the gym.

04:16:43.760 We're going to hit weight watchers.

04:16:45.020 Oh my God.

04:16:46.120 Wait, watch it.

04:16:47.500 I have my sorts of fitness trainer.

04:16:50.220 So I actually have very like low body fat in terms of working out.

04:16:55.880 I'm just, I'm extremely solid.

04:16:58.940 Like everything is very solid.

04:17:00.920 I normally wouldn't ask this, but are you comfortable standing up?

04:17:04.180 Yeah, absolutely.

04:17:04.960 We'll do an assessment.

04:17:06.420 Can I move the mic really quick?

04:17:07.360 Yeah, that's fine.

04:17:08.620 Okay.

04:17:12.360 Okay.

04:17:13.200 Oh wait, literally.

04:17:14.040 Yeah, I can see it in your arms.

04:17:16.580 It's hard for me to do an assessment here.

04:17:18.300 You're wearing all black.

04:17:19.560 You're wearing baggy pants.

04:17:22.380 Um, I can pull up my Instagram if needed for my gym pictures.

04:17:26.280 Uh, I mean, you know, but I agree.

04:17:31.320 Have you done body composition?

04:17:33.300 What do you mean by that?

04:17:34.320 Or what were they tell you your body?

04:17:36.160 So I understand that you're, you're athletic and muscular, but I mean, no, I agree with you.

04:17:41.140 I do think I need to lose weight, especially my face.

04:17:43.240 Oh, okay.

04:17:43.780 So wait, what do we, I'm not disagreeing with you at all.

04:17:45.680 What are we debating on then?

04:17:46.960 Well, I'm just saying that I do hit the gym.

04:17:48.520 That was my point.

04:17:49.920 Uh, well, yeah, you could be a, a weightlifter as a woman, but still be fat. 1.00

04:17:54.320 I'm not saying you're fat by the way, but what I'm saying is, is that, um, just because you

04:18:01.760 go to the gym and strength train as a woman doesn't mean that in terms of maximum, like 1.00

04:18:08.580 looks maxing yourself, uh, you, you have to be a certain body fat percentage to maximize

04:18:18.400 body attractiveness and facial attractiveness.

04:18:21.760 Yeah.

04:18:22.020 I could definitely lose mass in a lot of places.

04:18:24.100 So I agree.

04:18:25.800 Okay, cool.

04:18:27.000 Um, in terms of rating, what did you give yourself?

04:18:31.300 Did you say four, four, four?

04:18:33.720 Okay.

04:18:34.120 Well, I kind of have to give you a rating where you're at, you're at currently.

04:18:38.180 Uh, I, I actually think you could probably maybe get to six or seven if you were like

04:18:43.080 maximized, uh, in terms of like losing some of the, uh, the weight a little bit.

04:18:51.420 I think you underrated yourself though.

04:18:53.020 You gave yourself a four.

04:18:54.160 I honestly, probably in terms of facial attractiveness, uh, I think five for now.

04:19:00.460 And then if you were to lose weight, you'd probably could get into six or seven, I think.

04:19:08.280 Okay.

04:19:09.200 Okay.

04:19:09.860 Uh, all right.

04:19:10.580 We have the eight here who's returning to the table.

04:19:13.880 I need to blast through this.

04:19:15.100 I'm taking way too long to do all these.

04:19:16.880 Um, okay.

04:19:17.600 The eight, um, I'm just gonna look in the TV actually.

04:19:22.040 Can you look at the camera?

04:19:24.220 Actually, it's better if I see you in person.

04:19:25.620 That's not fair because the camera changes shape.

04:19:28.480 Uh, let's see.

04:19:30.460 Um, can you turn that way?

04:19:38.440 Uh, strong nose, uh, turn back.

04:19:43.900 You have slight negative canthal tilts for your eyes.

04:19:47.600 You have a nice eye color, but the negative canthal tilt will overall probably create a negative,

04:19:53.680 slightly negative overall assessment of the eye area.

04:19:57.300 Uh, nice lips.

04:19:58.860 You have a weak, lower third.

04:20:01.880 Um, and, uh, what's going on back there?

04:20:11.680 Uh, you gave yourself this eight.

04:20:17.100 I, I think I'd give you, uh, a six.

04:20:27.400 Hey, don't, don't shoot the messenger here, okay?

04:20:30.340 Oh, uh, okay.

04:20:32.220 That's like the best rating that he's given to the whole table.

04:20:36.540 Is it?

04:20:37.000 No.

04:20:37.560 No, what did I give you?

04:20:38.360 Wait, you gave her a 6.5.

04:20:40.280 I forgot.

04:20:40.820 You gave me a 7.

04:20:41.940 I think you gave Katie.

04:20:42.740 Oh, yeah, you did get a 7.

04:20:46.640 Okay.

04:20:47.240 And then you?

04:20:47.800 Um, I think I'd give you, um...

04:20:58.800 Uh, I think I'd give you a 4.5.

04:21:08.280 Okay.

04:21:08.840 Yeah, so you overrated yourself a little bit.

04:21:10.960 I think you gave yourself a 5 average.

04:21:13.400 I don't think, you know, I'm just saying you're, I think generally I'd say you're average looking.

04:21:17.560 Okay.

04:21:17.740 Uh, but I think 4.5.

04:21:21.760 And that's it.

04:21:23.040 Boom.

04:21:23.540 Well, for that segment, anyway.

04:21:24.780 Wait, you didn't even say anything nice or mean about me.

04:21:26.540 Oh, sorry.

04:21:27.280 Um, okay.

04:21:27.840 Aw.

04:21:28.420 Like, nice and nice.

04:21:29.540 It moves me harder.

04:21:31.720 Aw.

04:21:33.300 Um.

04:21:36.400 I just want to move on.

04:21:37.940 I don't know.

04:21:38.160 It's fine.

04:21:38.660 It's fine.

04:21:39.120 You can move on.

04:21:40.000 I've been, I already took way too long for this segment, so, um, I don't know.

04:21:43.740 You wanted to rate me?

04:21:44.500 Go ahead. 0.98

04:21:45.000 I'll, you can be brutal. 0.96

04:21:46.480 That's fine. 0.71

04:21:46.980 If you want.

04:21:47.740 I feel some of you will be vindictive, though, for, to get revenge or whatever.

04:21:51.760 No, no, no.

04:21:53.400 Not vindictive.

04:21:54.620 Um, but I do agree with the fact that you just mostly around the face, because I can't

04:22:00.220 tell if I was just seeing from your sweater, but I'd give you a 4.

04:22:05.260 Okay.

04:22:05.700 With the hopes that you lose a little bit in the cheeks.

04:22:07.800 Yeah.

04:22:08.440 The jowls are coming in.

04:22:09.620 Yeah.

04:22:09.880 Pretty much anything y'all could say, I already know.

04:22:12.300 Like, I already know all my deficits.

04:22:14.020 That's the thing.

04:22:14.120 I was like, so that's why I wasn't vindictive, so.

04:22:16.580 Yeah, I get it.

04:22:17.480 I get it.

04:22:18.460 Yeah.

04:22:18.900 Gotta lose some weight.

04:22:20.340 Are you insecure about those things?

04:22:22.260 Or just, you just notice them as, like, fact?

04:22:26.460 Uh, am I insecure?

04:22:28.680 Uh.

04:22:30.000 About looks, like, specifically?

04:22:31.540 My own?

04:22:32.280 Yeah.

04:22:32.700 Yeah.

04:22:34.000 Hmm.

04:22:34.480 Um, am I insecure?

04:22:37.160 It feels more like he's aware of that.

04:22:39.340 Like, he's aware of what's going on.

04:22:42.180 Uh.

04:22:42.520 I think I'm secure, but I acknowledge the flaws.

04:22:47.620 Yeah.

04:22:48.080 Yeah.

04:22:48.540 Yeah.

04:22:48.940 I'd say I'm.

04:22:50.640 Real.

04:22:51.820 Yeah.

04:22:52.480 Just being real.

04:22:53.340 Yeah.

04:22:53.860 Yeah.

04:22:54.440 Yep.

04:22:54.720 Uh, that was fun.

04:22:58.300 I hope I didn't hurt anybody's feelings, but.

04:23:00.540 No.

04:23:01.120 No.

04:23:01.800 Chat, was I, yo, chat, what do you think?

04:23:03.720 Was I, was I generous?

04:23:07.580 Was I kind of spot on?

04:23:08.900 Wait, why can't we see the chat?

04:23:12.200 Because that would be a really bad idea.

04:23:14.500 Oh, no.

04:23:15.960 That would be a bad idea.

04:23:18.840 I saw one of them, and they called me a mud lover.

04:23:21.080 What does that mean?

04:23:22.500 I don't see.

04:23:22.940 I saw that.

04:23:23.300 Uh, yeah.

04:23:24.300 I'm not gonna go there, but, um, it's a bit racial, so I'm not really gonna.

04:23:29.440 Oh, my God.

04:23:30.960 Go there, but I'm sure you can figure out what they, what they mean.

04:23:33.520 You probably shouldn't read that, though, to be honest.

04:23:35.740 But I could, like.

04:23:36.640 Like, it, I mean.

04:23:40.720 A mud lover is so mean. 1.00

04:23:42.980 Well, I didn't say that on my phone. 0.98

04:23:43.880 Your fans are quite opinionated and, uh, racist.

04:23:49.500 How is that racist? 0.62

04:23:50.260 Well, I, I mean. 0.97

04:23:51.380 To call somebody a mud lover who's dating a black guy? 0.97

04:23:54.120 That might be a bit objectionable. 0.96

04:23:55.340 We're not really gonna linger on that topic.

04:23:57.480 But, uh, just because one person in the chat.

04:24:00.500 By the way, like, any live chat you go to.

04:24:02.760 Yeah.

04:24:02.920 People are going to be saying certain things.

04:24:05.220 And now, congratulations, you've just invoked them to say it, even if they don't even give 0.99

04:24:09.360 a fuck. 0.98

04:24:10.140 But, um, I, I don't think because one or two or even a handful of people are saying things 0.99

04:24:15.420 in the chat that that would be, like, emblematic of the, you were saying the chat is racist

04:24:22.420 in general.

04:24:23.480 Uh, no, I didn't say in general.

04:24:25.740 But one can assume that that's what I meant.

04:24:27.980 But from the comments that made it through is, uh, they were just quite interesting at

04:24:33.780 Oh.

04:24:34.120 I'm not offended by any of them.

04:24:35.680 I hope no one is either in this group.

04:24:37.320 I'm offended by mud lover. 1.00

04:24:38.660 My children are half black. 0.99

04:24:40.060 That's messed up. 0.52

04:24:40.360 Let's, let's just, I feel like the platforms are probably gonna have an issue with that term.

04:24:44.400 So why don't we just avoid saying it?

04:24:45.840 Yeah, my bad.

04:24:46.920 Yeah, it's okay.

04:24:47.620 It's okay.

04:24:48.200 I would say just don't take anything personally.

04:24:50.140 I, I didn't put it up.

04:24:51.300 Somebody super chatted it.

04:24:52.540 And to be fair to super chatters, even if we don't agree with the words they're saying

04:24:56.280 or whatever, um, whatever.

04:24:59.220 Yeah.

04:24:59.460 No, I'm fine.

04:25:00.120 Everyone's fine with their own pain.

04:25:02.260 Uh, let's see.

04:25:03.860 We're moving on to, uh, let's see here.

04:25:10.740 Somebody was saying something about, uh, oh, the vibe.

04:25:14.100 Eh, I don't know if I want to.

04:25:15.840 Um, something that, uh, you were saying with that guy who you'd spent like 11 days with

04:25:26.200 in a row, which is crazy.

04:25:30.060 Uh, I mean, but you acknowledge that that was not a really ideal situation.

04:25:35.060 No, I'm not saying you're crazy.

04:25:36.340 That's just like a crazy scenario, at least in the sense that I would not want to spend

04:25:45.840 like, I don't know, you, eh, I don't know.

04:25:51.260 Maybe if she's a really great, even then though, it's like.

04:25:56.020 But not like right off the bat, like just met and like.

04:25:59.840 It's too much, right?

04:26:01.760 You know, but anyways.

04:26:02.360 No, that's the thing.

04:26:02.900 We hadn't just met.

04:26:03.900 We'd known each other.

04:26:04.660 We've known each other for like three years.

04:26:06.080 But knowing each other is not like being next to each other.

04:26:09.140 That's very true.

04:26:10.120 Yeah.

04:26:10.320 Yeah.

04:26:10.680 Yeah.

04:26:10.800 But I mean, it was very overwhelming.

04:26:12.300 Yeah.

04:26:12.460 And we both realized my social battery was just.

04:26:16.060 Yeah.

04:26:16.420 That's kind of what happened to me.

04:26:17.580 I literally at one point was like, I looked at him and I was like, you, I need me time.

04:26:23.040 I need you to go over there.

04:26:24.300 Please sit over there.

04:26:26.220 Uh, Tabitha, we're going to go to some of your notes here really quick.

04:26:29.460 Um, just curious.

04:26:31.160 Can I say your last name or do you prefer not?

04:26:33.540 No, that's fine.

04:26:34.460 Okay.

04:26:34.740 I was just curious.

04:26:35.380 Your last name is Chang.

04:26:37.240 Yes.

04:26:40.020 My husband was adopted.

04:26:42.340 By Asian parents?

04:26:44.080 Yeah.

04:26:44.840 Hispanic, Asian.

04:26:46.080 That carries the name Chang.

04:26:46.800 Oh, because your husband's white, isn't he? 0.95

04:26:48.260 Yeah.

04:26:48.660 Yeah.

04:26:48.880 Yeah.

04:26:49.060 Because I was thinking, well, maybe your husband's.

04:26:50.900 I looked at your Instagram and your husband's white.

04:26:52.740 So I was like, where did the Chang come from? 0.96

04:26:55.020 Yeah.

04:26:55.180 It's really funny.

04:26:55.900 Every time we go somewhere or check into a hotel, everyone's like, you are not what we

04:26:59.940 were expecting.

04:27:01.880 So, wow.

04:27:02.680 That's interesting.

04:27:03.280 Your, your white husband was adopted by Asian parent.

04:27:08.460 Well, one, I guess.

04:27:10.160 Yeah.

04:27:11.380 Hispanic, Asian, whatever.

04:27:12.760 Um, okay.

04:27:14.180 Let's, um, you disagree bowing to your spouse.

04:27:19.040 You disagree with that.

04:27:20.100 That's what you're disagreeing.

04:27:20.800 I know you've gone a lot into that.

04:27:22.260 It's just, to me, bowing is more of a cultural thing.

04:27:25.900 Half my family's Thai.

04:27:27.860 Um, you know, every time I meet one of them or meet someone new in that culture, when

04:27:33.320 I was in Thailand, you, you bow as respect to me, it's more cultural than it is to my

04:27:39.400 husband, you know?

04:27:40.980 Okay.

04:27:41.640 Um, is anybody here familiar with the bow segment?

04:27:45.920 No.

04:27:46.620 Um, I saw like a clip of it or something, but what does that even mean?

04:27:50.560 Like bowing?

04:27:51.200 Maybe I should, I'll wait until everybody's like back from the table or whatever before

04:27:55.820 we play it.

04:27:56.580 So I'm going to just put that on pause just momentarily.

04:27:59.780 The bow segment.

04:28:00.660 Let me just write down bow and then we'll get into it as soon as everybody's returned.

04:28:05.660 Uh, here.

04:28:06.500 Does anybody else have a different disagreement that we can get into while we're waiting for

04:28:11.240 that?

04:28:12.300 Bowing.

04:28:12.980 Oh, that was you.

04:28:13.740 No, no, no, no, uh, you disagree with me on marriage.

04:28:20.200 Is that correct?

04:28:21.280 Only because I don't, why don't, or I kind of know the answer, but explain again, why

04:28:25.440 are you against marriage for yourself?

04:28:29.080 For myself?

04:28:31.160 Uh, yeah.

04:28:33.460 I mean, primarily the potential financial consequences of divorce.

04:28:37.940 That would be, that's kind of my primary thing.

04:28:40.380 Um, then just pick the right woman who you will stay with. 1.00

04:28:45.340 This is such a terrible argument, but okay.

04:28:47.860 Yeah.

04:28:48.440 This is such a, okay.

04:28:49.440 So of the people who do get married, uh, we do know that, uh, I believe it's the majority

04:28:54.980 of marriages end in divorce.

04:28:57.120 So, uh.

04:28:58.200 I think it's 50% of marriages end in divorce.

04:29:00.720 I think it's more than that now.

04:29:02.160 It might be.

04:29:02.520 Well, there, look, I'm going to be charitable and I, so, okay.

04:29:06.460 But first time divorce or first time marriages, the likelihood of divorce is lower among them,

04:29:14.200 although it's still strikingly high.

04:29:16.900 So what ends up kind of skewing, again, I'm going to be fair and charitable.

04:29:20.280 What ends up skewing these divorce statistics is people who've been married two, three, four

04:29:24.960 times.

04:29:25.580 These people are way, like if you marry a second time, you're way more likely to get divorced, 0.81

04:29:30.520 married a third time, way more likely to get divorced.

04:29:32.860 First time marriages have a better success rate.

04:29:35.200 However, I find it still, I don't know if it's over 50, it might be 30, 40, who knows?

04:29:41.340 I still don't think that this is an acceptable risk that I'm willing to take.

04:29:46.620 So if somebody, if I was going to go skydiving and somebody told me there was even a 3% chance

04:29:51.540 of my parachute not working, there's not a chance in hell I'm going to go skydiving.

04:29:56.360 In this case, as relates to even first time marriages, I think it's 30%, 40%, maybe somebody

04:30:02.920 in the chat can tell me what the actual number is.

04:30:06.000 It's really high.

04:30:07.660 So you say, find a really good woman. 0.59

04:30:11.160 Do you think that the people who are getting married and who do end up getting divorced,

04:30:15.700 do you think going into that marriage, they, they're thinking, this is not the person for

04:30:21.560 me.

04:30:21.840 This is not a person I love.

04:30:23.200 This is not the right person.

04:30:24.800 No, they're probably thinking in that moment, this is the person for me.

04:30:29.060 This is the right person.

04:30:30.080 I love this person.

04:30:31.640 So we know things change.

04:30:33.440 So is your thing just not wanting to get married because you don't want to get divorced or because

04:30:38.960 you don't want to get divorced and have things taken from you from the divorce, like money?

04:30:45.560 Well, yeah.

04:30:47.860 So if you get married, that, that is, uh, basically creates a contract, right?

04:30:54.000 Uh, so in these circumstances, yeah, there would be financial risks involved.

04:30:59.280 Prenup.

04:31:00.660 It doesn't matter.

04:31:01.640 But what if you can, you can't have a prenup signed of like, or written out of like, she

04:31:08.360 takes nothing that was yours that like, isn't that possible?

04:31:11.980 Well, there's a couple of things, especially I'm in trouble with the kind of dynamic I would

04:31:15.920 be looking for.

04:31:16.720 So I'll explain a bit about what I'd be looking for in terms of a dynamic.

04:31:21.180 Uh, I'm doing, I, I, I don't really reveal specifics, but let's just say I'm doing, uh,

04:31:28.140 very well financially.

04:31:29.200 And in the type of relationship dynamic I would want, uh, I would be desirous of, uh,

04:31:36.540 well, it's, I'm not a hundred percent opposed to dating a woman who has a job or career or

04:31:42.240 makes her own money.

04:31:42.840 I just don't care.

04:31:44.780 So like I'll date a girl who works at Chick-fil-A. 0.95

04:31:48.300 I'll date a girl who works, who doesn't even have a job. 1.00

04:31:52.440 Uh, her income, her job, her career don't matter to me.

04:31:56.800 I'm prepared to fully financially take care of everything.

04:32:00.040 However, if I get married, this would put me in a bit of a precarious position.

04:32:04.080 Now, the issue that I have isn't necessarily a man woman issue.

04:32:08.400 It's a breadwinner issue.

04:32:09.640 So whoever's the breadwinner, uh, that gives the other person, the relationship, massive

04:32:14.320 amounts of leverage in the event of a divorce.

04:32:17.720 So I don't know the specifics, but my understanding is if you're like the primary breadwinner and

04:32:22.620 a divorce is initiated, not even factoring in, uh, what you might have to pay them.

04:32:28.940 Um, you also, the divorce process is quite expensive.

04:32:32.500 So you have to pay for your lawyer and you have to pay for their lawyer.

04:32:36.040 So it's not just, Oh, they're going to, your wife wants a divorce.

04:32:40.480 She's going to have to take care of the law. 0.99

04:32:41.940 No, you have to pay for her lawyer.

04:32:44.700 If you're in a situation like mine, perhaps, um, what if the woman earns more than you? 1.00

04:32:51.260 So then you don't have to worry about that.

04:32:52.840 Oh, if she's a billionaire, you best believe she's getting proposed to trust. 0.58

04:32:57.180 Then I'm fine with marriage.

04:32:59.400 Then I'm totally fine with marriage.

04:33:01.840 And then there's definitely no prenup there.

04:33:04.420 However, although a woman who's a billionaire is probably going to be financially savvy enough. 1.00

04:33:09.560 Uh, of course I would never leave a woman who's a billionaire and I'd never divorce her.

04:33:13.840 You said no prenup, but what if she wants you to sign the prenup?

04:33:17.780 Then would you not marry her?

04:33:20.460 Hold on.

04:33:21.260 So hold on.

04:33:22.180 I'm going to do what women do. 1.00

04:33:24.140 It's going to be a complete rule of, Oh, you don't love me?

04:33:27.180 Oh, this is, hold on.

04:33:28.360 This is, this is for life.

04:33:30.840 But what if, what if, okay.

04:33:32.820 What if you are in your case?

04:33:35.580 What if you're the rich man and you found the woman and she does everything for you?

04:33:41.420 She cooks for you, cleans for you. 0.96

04:33:42.920 And you bring her this prenup and you, why would I bring her a prenup?

04:33:48.460 I'm not getting married.

04:33:49.380 No, but if let's say you, let's say you actually like want to marry this woman and you bring 0.87

04:33:57.460 her this prenup and she doesn't throw a fit and she's like, okay, I'll sign it because

04:34:01.320 she actually loves you that much.

04:34:03.360 Like that rare possibility that happens.

04:34:07.540 And she's not like, Oh my God, you don't love me.

04:34:10.880 Like, do you think that can happen or do you not believe that can happen?

04:34:17.180 That she would want that she would, that she would want to marry you and sign the prenup.

04:34:22.160 Oh yeah, sure.

04:34:23.360 It's logically possible that a woman who would otherwise be interested in me and I would be

04:34:28.700 interested in her.

04:34:29.560 She has a deal breaker, which is marriage. 0.88

04:34:31.680 Like I, she really wants to get married.

04:34:34.700 Um, that's probably not going to work out because I'm steadfast and stubborn on this.

04:34:40.960 Uh, it is possible that there could be a woman so remarkable, so attractive, so possessing

04:34:48.420 all the things that I care about that I would, it is possible I could be willing to get married.

04:34:56.140 If she were to sign a prenup?

04:34:57.900 No, no, no.

04:34:58.560 I, even if she, if she's all those characteristics, um, what's going on?

04:35:06.200 Oh, okay.

04:35:07.060 Gotcha.

04:35:07.940 Um, it's possible, but, uh, I just wouldn't, I don't see the point of it.

04:35:16.520 She can just defer to me.

04:35:18.420 Um, I mean, cause I would date a submissive woman. 1.00

04:35:23.220 I mean, if she loves, and if she's submissive, she's going to defer to me on this.

04:35:26.720 If she loves, if she loves you that much, I mean, I do agree with you.

04:35:30.220 She wouldn't need to get married to you too. 0.98

04:35:32.580 Right.

04:35:33.020 So, yeah.

04:35:34.120 Well, I mean, I just, I ultimately just think, um, you could try to frame the leverage both

04:35:41.320 ways.

04:35:42.000 It's like, well, she won't stay with you if you don't get married.

04:35:45.340 Well, okay.

04:35:45.680 I won't stay with her if we don't get married.

04:35:47.160 Yeah.

04:35:48.420 But in terms of the economic risk of marriage, um, whoever the breadwinner is, uh, and a

04:35:54.700 woman could be the breadwinner. 1.00

04:35:55.740 So women can also encounter this. 0.97

04:35:58.060 Uh, although there's a couple differences here.

04:36:01.000 I think, uh, women feel way more entitled to men's money than the reverse. 1.00

04:36:06.620 So even if the woman's like wealthy, to be fair, like there are women who ends up paying 1.00

04:36:11.200 alimony and do this. 0.79

04:36:12.300 Men are far less likely to, uh, go after child support.

04:36:15.960 Men are less likely to go after alimony men.

04:36:18.480 Men, um, to be clear, men do go after these things, but men are much more likely to be

04:36:23.560 like, we're done.

04:36:24.820 Don't want anything to do with you.

04:36:26.520 I don't feel entitled to anything.

04:36:28.180 You're the breadwinner, whatever.

04:36:29.420 We're done.

04:36:30.480 Wipe your hands clean.

04:36:31.600 In women, they have an entitlement. 1.00

04:36:36.380 They feel entitled to his money.

04:36:39.120 Not all women, but they, it's more common among women. 1.00

04:36:43.400 That's true.

04:36:44.200 But also, even regardless of what you, you think, once you get lawyers involved and you're

04:36:50.200 going to need lawyers for marriage for, uh, excuse me, you're going to need, uh, lawyers

04:36:54.760 for the divorce process. 0.65

04:36:56.980 But you could be the most well-intentioned man or woman dating a breadwinner or whatever

04:37:02.200 you get, you're a lawyer in the picture who has a financial incentive because, you know,

04:37:07.140 based on the settlement of whatever, uh, I think they can get some, you know, extra portion.

04:37:12.760 Uh, lawyers are very convincing.

04:37:15.940 Lawyers are practiced in the art of influence and persuasion.

04:37:19.200 Even if you're a good intentioned woman, even if you're a good intentioned man, is your 0.98

04:37:24.420 lawyer and lawyers are convincing. 0.99

04:37:26.980 You put a naive woman in front of a fucking high powered divorce attorney and you think, 0.99

04:37:34.220 and she's no longer under the influence of her husband. 1.00

04:37:37.720 Now she's under the influence of her divorce attorney. 1.00

04:37:41.420 A naive woman, it's her first divorce is going to get completely fucking bulldozed by an attorney. 1.00

04:37:49.140 The attorney is like, whoa, whoa, whoa, hold on. 0.99

04:37:51.460 You're entitled to this.

04:37:52.680 He needs to give you X, Y, Z.

04:37:54.200 Even the good intentioned woman who's like inclined to be like, wipe her hands clean. 1.00

04:38:00.700 Nah, she's going to get, the lawyer is going to be like, nah, we're going to get you money. 0.99

04:38:05.980 Oh, think about, you know, think about X, Y, Z.

04:38:09.100 She'll be persuaded.

04:38:10.020 She'll be convinced.

04:38:10.760 So it's, it's a difficult situation.

04:38:13.860 Not always, because if I was in that position, I would not be convinced.

04:38:17.720 I wouldn't be persuaded.

04:38:19.940 Okay.

04:38:20.360 Well, you might say that.

04:38:21.440 And then circumstances, even brother, there's women will, will tell their husbands. 1.00

04:38:26.460 I would never go after you for alimony.

04:38:28.340 I would never go after you for child support.

04:38:30.180 She gets pregnant. 0.91

04:38:30.940 Boom.

04:38:31.460 18 years, child support.

04:38:32.480 Do you just have trust issues?

04:38:35.320 Why would it have anything to do with trust issues?

04:38:37.500 I don't understand.

04:38:38.900 I actually strongly believe that.

04:38:40.360 Who hurt you?

04:38:41.400 Weak argument.

04:38:42.720 Weak argument.

04:38:44.060 No.

04:38:44.540 Well, to me, it just sounds like you're not even totally against marriage.

04:38:46.900 You just need the right circumstances or someone who's financially just equal to you, I guess.

04:38:52.180 Uh, I suppose.

04:38:54.060 Um, but I mean, if, um, I, well, look, I, here's what I believe.

04:38:59.340 I can be with someone, all the things that you can have in marriage.

04:39:03.420 Yeah.

04:39:03.980 I can have that absent marriage.

04:39:07.360 I can stay with you forever.

04:39:08.960 We can have kids.

04:39:10.040 We can live together.

04:39:11.160 We can have a family.

04:39:12.240 We can love each other.

04:39:13.440 We can care about each other.

04:39:15.260 Um, I can do an advanced healthcare directive.

04:39:18.340 There's some marriage confers some benefits, but I don't think those benefits, oh, tax

04:39:24.900 purposes, blah, blah, blah, whatever, uh, healthcare circumstances.

04:39:29.160 There are some circumstances, like if you were to die and, you know, related to your

04:39:33.580 estate and how money flows after you die, but then I'm dead. 0.99

04:39:37.560 Who gives, well, I shouldn't say who gives a fuck. 0.99

04:39:40.280 Obviously you want, you know, people have wills and for a reason you want your money to go to 0.99

04:39:44.860 the right people, whatever.

04:39:45.820 Um, but, uh, I think those are really minimal compared to the, the risk of what happens

04:39:53.360 in divorce.

04:39:54.320 It seemed like you wanted to come in on something.

04:39:56.580 Yeah.

04:39:56.860 I was wondering if you had ever thought about, okay, well, I guess I should proposition this

04:40:01.540 to you.

04:40:02.060 Sure.

04:40:02.480 I know, um, I will, I know a couple that is a very, very wealthy man, um, multi, multi,

04:40:09.680 multimillionaire.

04:40:10.360 And him and his wife actually, well, they've been together 25 years.

04:40:15.500 They have two kids and come to find out they're not actually married.

04:40:18.140 They have a contract that they renew every year.

04:40:21.360 They not, they're not legally married.

04:40:23.080 They just renew whatever contract and they have different terms that they discuss and

04:40:27.660 go over every year.

04:40:29.080 And so it's almost like more romantic because they're like forcing to commit and like come

04:40:36.520 together every year and say, okay, like, do we still want to do this basically?

04:40:39.360 And then they both have an out if they want out.

04:40:43.040 Uh, and the guy's the breadwinner, the guy's the wealthy one.

04:40:47.580 Yeah.

04:40:48.140 Yeah.

04:40:48.360 Yeah.

04:40:49.440 Yeah.

04:40:49.660 This, I mean, I'm assuming the contract is, she's not getting nothing, right?

04:40:55.180 I mean, I'm sure she's getting.

04:40:56.660 No, I mean, she, I mean, she had his, his kids.

04:40:59.180 Um, he wanted like two kids.

04:41:00.900 That was a part of it.

04:41:01.740 And then obviously like they live together, they still live in the same place, but they

04:41:06.720 haven't actually like been together in years except to make their children.

04:41:10.940 And that's it.

04:41:11.980 It's very interesting, but you could do something like that, you know, a little contract or whatever.

04:41:17.580 That's it's, it's in essence, basically a marriage like the, in terms of the legal ramifications,

04:41:24.200 I don't know the details of their, whatever they have.

04:41:26.860 I don't know the full details, but just an idea for you.

04:41:28.740 No, I wouldn't have a contract with who I'm with.

04:41:31.060 No.

04:41:31.300 I wouldn't do, no.

04:41:32.740 Well, that would only benefit her, wouldn't it?

04:41:34.780 How would it benefit me?

04:41:36.380 I don't know.

04:41:38.080 Honestly, because I don't know what their, I don't know what their terms look like.

04:41:41.360 Well, I mean, I'm, what I would infer is if she leaves, he pays her money.

04:41:49.200 What other contract would there, he's the breadwinner.

04:41:51.780 He's the rich one.

04:41:54.300 If she leaves or he leaves, she gets money in either scenario.

04:41:58.360 I'm assuming.

04:42:00.120 Maybe.

04:42:00.780 Yeah.

04:42:00.940 I wouldn't do that.

04:42:01.740 No, no, no.

04:42:03.100 You don't want to be with me.

04:42:03.840 If she really cared about the person and she hasn't been working for years.

04:42:06.580 I will, if, if, if we split and maybe it's my decision, maybe even if it's her decision,

04:42:14.340 I would perhaps voluntarily support her, voluntarily.

04:42:20.320 Until she gets on her feet, if.

04:42:22.500 Perhaps.

04:42:23.480 Perhaps.

04:42:24.260 Perhaps.

04:42:25.180 If things otherwise.

04:42:32.460 Hmm.

04:42:33.840 If I left her and we had kids and she didn't work, I would volunteer, I leave her and she's 1.00

04:42:43.880 not doing anything wrong.

04:42:44.940 I voluntarily leave her.

04:42:46.800 I can't imagine why I would, but, uh, under these circumstances, I would feel comfortable

04:42:53.000 voluntarily helping her out.

04:42:55.120 But as soon as you introduce a contract, oh, she, she, she cheated on me. 1.00

04:42:58.680 Now I got to pay her alimony.

04:42:59.940 What?

04:43:01.960 That's what marriage is. 0.94

04:43:03.160 You get married.

04:43:04.140 Your wife cheats on you.

04:43:05.160 You got to pay her $10,000 a month.

04:43:07.980 Nah, I'm okay with that.

04:43:09.180 I'm not going to get married.

04:43:11.900 Okay.

04:43:12.660 Thank you.

04:43:12.880 But I can be with a woman for my entire life.

04:43:14.900 I can have kids with a woman. 1.00

04:43:15.920 So it's just a legal thing.

04:43:19.760 Yeah.

04:43:20.060 It's primary.

04:43:20.800 It's primarily legal.

04:43:22.600 I just don't see, there's no point to it.

04:43:24.780 Yeah.

04:43:25.220 What's the point?

04:43:26.240 Would you like have a wedding, but not sign a legal document?

04:43:30.080 So then like you come together and agree for life.

04:43:32.760 Yeah.

04:43:32.900 Let's say I, I, I mean, I'm not sure if a Christian woman would date me given my current

04:43:39.120 belief.

04:43:39.580 I say, I don't believe yet, which means I'm leaving room open for there being the possibility

04:43:45.840 of a development of belief.

04:43:47.940 Um, if I, uh, a Christian woman who was fantastic and I liked her, she liked me, um, and to satisfy 0.93

04:43:59.760 something for her, she wanted to get married like in a church and this had no legal ramifications.

04:44:06.200 Sure.

04:44:08.120 I don't really like the wedding though.

04:44:10.540 Yeah.

04:44:11.560 It's not for everyone.

04:44:13.240 It's a waste of money.

04:44:14.660 Yeah.

04:44:15.140 We did a really, really small one.

04:44:16.620 It was great.

04:44:17.000 Look, if it's small, I think that's the way to do it.

04:44:19.820 If it's small and a mod, like modest expenditure, then yeah, sure.

04:44:27.500 But some extravagant wedding and it's like, I would think to myself, Hmm, this is one day

04:44:34.140 we can spend that money.

04:44:39.040 We can get, do something for our kids, our kids, future, our future, travel, a car.

04:44:45.240 Like I'm not going to, you know, I don't know.

04:44:50.320 These people who spend 50,000, a hundred thousand more on a wedding, that money can be better

04:44:55.960 spent elsewhere. 1.00

04:44:56.880 I'd rather put into fucking crypto than spend that shit on a wedding. 1.00

04:45:01.700 Yeah. 1.00

04:45:01.980 I don't know.

04:45:03.740 I don't know.

04:45:04.640 Do you have more thoughts?

04:45:05.600 This is your one that you disagreed with.

04:45:07.540 I mean, to me, you, like, it's what I said, like you, you're down, I guess, for marriage

04:45:11.960 as long as the circumstances were right.

04:45:13.520 So I guess like, all right, that's good enough for me.

04:45:16.920 Well, I mean, the hypothetical would be like, either she's, I don't know, perfect, which

04:45:24.720 doesn't exist, or she's like way wealthier than I am, then you best believe I want to

04:45:31.400 get married.

04:45:31.660 Way wealthier?

04:45:32.060 Like way wealthier.

04:45:33.100 Not even equal.

04:45:33.740 I don't know.

04:45:33.760 She's a billionaire.

04:45:35.020 Not even like if she earned equal to you.

04:45:37.820 What would be equal to you?

04:45:39.760 He doesn't want to give it another.

04:45:40.460 I still think that there would be, even if we earn the same amount of money, I still

04:45:47.460 think that there can be financial consequences because you still get the lawyers involved

04:45:52.380 and then unwinding the divorce process.

04:45:59.300 I don't know.

04:46:00.380 Then you'd still fight, there'd still be stuff to fight about and I don't know.

04:46:06.380 It would be, even if you make the same amount of money, it would still be expensive to get

04:46:11.660 a divorce.

04:46:12.280 So how much more?

04:46:13.960 Like, don't tell me a number.

04:46:15.300 Tell me a percentage more.

04:46:17.320 I don't know.

04:46:17.860 10% more?

04:46:20.140 I just don't see the point though.

04:46:22.020 I don't see the point.

04:46:23.720 But you just said you were down for it if those circumstances were correct.

04:46:27.680 Oh yeah, if she's a billionaire, yeah, we can get married.

04:46:29.780 Billionaire is so over the top.

04:46:31.780 Hey, Mackenzie Bezos, what's up?

04:46:33.440 Is there no less reasonable number for you?

04:46:36.100 She's old, but I'll... 0.91

04:46:37.520 So that was a billion dollars.

04:46:39.560 Exactly.

04:46:40.120 I'll still get with her.

04:46:41.020 I'm just saying.

04:46:42.420 She's kind of a babe. 0.79

04:46:44.080 Yeah.

04:46:44.460 A little bit.

04:46:45.380 Guilf.

04:46:45.920 Can't believe.

04:46:46.520 Honestly, I'm not going to lie.

04:46:49.220 Like, the replacement?

04:46:52.300 I mean, look, who knows the...

04:46:53.700 Like, just looks-wise though, I don't know.

04:46:57.180 I don't like the plastic thing, you know?

04:46:59.140 She's a bit plastic.

04:47:00.060 Do you guys know who I'm talking about?

04:47:03.220 The...

04:47:03.540 What?

04:47:04.540 Sanchez?

04:47:05.260 What's her name?

04:47:06.280 Lauren Sanchez.

04:47:07.440 Lauren Sanchez, I think.

04:47:08.800 Is that her name?

04:47:10.060 I have no idea what her name is.

04:47:12.020 His new wife is what I know her name is. 0.75

04:47:12.960 She's too plastic, and she's got a history, and... 0.78

04:47:16.600 Apparently, she's really smart.

04:47:18.420 Oh, wow.

04:47:19.540 But who cares about that? 1.00

04:47:21.060 Oh my god, she's so smart, I really want to fuck her. 1.00

04:47:25.400 Do you think men care about that? 1.00

04:47:28.060 I guess not.

04:47:28.780 I mean, for their wife.

04:47:30.200 Their wife.

04:47:30.540 Let me clarify.

04:47:31.440 It would be nice if they cared a little bit about it.

04:47:34.300 In terms of your attractiveness, it doesn't matter.

04:47:38.600 You don't think intelligence...

04:47:39.120 No, I get that.

04:47:40.320 You don't think intelligence makes a woman more attractive? 1.00

04:47:44.460 No.

04:47:45.320 Really?

04:47:45.700 I don't.

04:47:46.220 You don't think if you can have like a conversation?

04:47:47.900 Well, to be clear, I think intelligence is a positive trait, and in terms of for the benefit

04:47:57.900 of your children, because I think intelligence to some degree is genetic, it would confer benefits

04:48:05.700 to the children.

04:48:06.620 It is a positive trait, but like in terms of that raw, like...

04:48:12.780 No.

04:48:15.560 I think whatever she did to get Jeff Bezos was very smart.

04:48:19.720 Who?

04:48:20.440 Lauren Sanchez.

04:48:21.240 Lauren Sanchez.

04:48:21.980 Well, the first wife or the second one? 0.96

04:48:23.000 The second one.

04:48:23.820 The current one.

04:48:24.900 What she did?

04:48:26.040 Yeah, however way she... 1.00

04:48:27.260 Breaking up a marriage, that's really classic. 0.76

04:48:28.940 Yeah, whatever she did.

04:48:30.540 You're not even for marriages.

04:48:33.840 Well, yeah, but I don't think you should be like breaking up a marriage, or a relationship

04:48:39.220 for that matter.

04:48:39.780 She's strategic.

04:48:40.560 I never said I was for it.

04:48:42.100 I just said she's strategic.

04:48:46.080 Okay, but I mean, yeah, I just don't really care about that, to be honest.

04:48:55.200 I mean, I said on my pre-notes, I don't think I can convince you, so, but I still think...

04:49:00.720 No, no, I'm responding to like the intelligence thing.

04:49:03.440 I disagree with that.

04:49:05.000 No, men don't care. 1.00

04:49:06.140 Men don't care. 1.00

04:49:06.740 I think they might not think they care, but biologically, they want their children to

04:49:13.280 be smart.

04:49:14.060 Yeah, I said that.

04:49:14.600 Yeah, so I think attraction in itself is kind of like, the whole point of it is to have...

04:49:18.740 Well, here, let me propose a question to the women on the panel. 1.00

04:49:25.560 If a man had a choice between a woman who was 10 out of 10, but had a slightly below average 0.92

04:49:34.080 IQ, not like retarded, but like below average, so what's the average? 1.00

04:49:39.300 100, is it?

04:49:40.220 100?

04:49:41.400 What's the average?

04:49:42.220 I don't know.

04:49:43.240 Let's just say, I mean, I could even say like she has an average IQ, but she's a 10. 1.00

04:49:49.240 Or, he can date like a fucking Mensa, genius woman who's like a 6 out of 10, or maybe even 1.00

04:50:01.520 a 7 out of 10. 0.99

04:50:06.500 99% of men are taken...

04:50:10.020 Well, I don't know.

04:50:10.740 I don't want to give an answer.

04:50:12.000 What do you guys think?

04:50:12.800 Starting with you.

04:50:13.320 The first one.

04:50:13.620 Into the mic.

04:50:14.120 I definitely think men will choose the more attractive woman than the, like the less one 1.00

04:50:20.620 with the smarter, simply because, well, actually what I think men look for is like a female 1.00

04:50:25.120 best friend.

04:50:25.680 I think most relationships work best.

04:50:28.060 Best friend.

04:50:28.880 With like, my husband's my best friend, and I don't know, like, if you're, when I think

04:50:35.240 about it that way, like in terms of attractiveness versus intelligence, I mean, you have, you can

04:50:42.720 have below average best friends, and that's like intelligence, that's fine.

04:50:46.260 But like, so in that case, well, then yeah, that attractiveness is the most important because

04:50:49.640 that's your partner.

04:50:53.120 With the drastic difference with what you said, I think yes, men would definitely choose like 1.00

04:50:58.560 the slightly below average intelligence 10 out of 10, for sure.

04:51:05.340 Yeah, I agree.

04:51:06.940 Definitely looks over intelligence.

04:51:10.680 I also agree.

04:51:12.720 I agree with that.

04:51:14.440 I think a man feels, I agree, but because I think a man sometimes does not like to be

04:51:20.640 one-upped when it comes to knowing something.

04:51:25.900 They want to be the caretaker.

04:51:27.380 They want to know everything.

04:51:28.900 And sometimes when, it starts off with attractiveness, and then once the woman opens her mouth, sometimes 0.97

04:51:34.320 they're like, actually, I don't know about all that. 1.00

04:51:36.620 Well, I think you can be so stupid, you're a liability. 1.00

04:51:40.920 Yeah, that can happen, too. 1.00

04:51:41.580 Like there are women who are like, even if they're really beautiful, I don't even know 1.00

04:51:46.340 if it's necessarily about intelligence, but it's also would be about, like vanity or, I'm

04:52:00.960 not quite sure how to describe it, actually.

04:52:02.620 I'll continue.

04:52:05.440 Probably the 10 out of 10.

04:52:06.960 What do you think?

04:52:08.340 I would also say, yeah, I agree on the, they would pick the 10 out of 10.

04:52:13.080 Hello.

04:52:13.860 In your example, I do agree.

04:52:16.780 I'm going to give you a counter example, though. 0.99

04:52:19.780 If there were two 10 out of 10 looks, and one was stupid, or one was below average IQ, 0.99

04:52:28.300 and one was intelligent, I do feel he would pick the one that's more intelligent. 1.00

04:52:34.520 I think I would generally agree.

04:52:36.360 Yeah.

04:52:36.600 Yeah. 1.00

04:52:36.800 So if you have like two women who are equivalent looks, one's stupid, one's intelligent. 1.00

04:52:42.320 Yes. 1.00

04:52:43.500 Yes.

04:52:43.900 I tend to agree.

04:52:45.740 I would tend to agree.

04:52:47.000 Really quick on your thing, though.

04:52:48.480 You said that the guy doesn't want to be like, but I also think this goes the other way, too.

04:52:56.440 Men are okay dating women who are less intelligent than them. 0.99

04:53:00.420 Ooh. 0.58

04:53:01.000 I think it's real tough for a woman to date a guy who's less intelligent than them.

04:53:05.220 I can agree with that.

04:53:06.060 So it kind of goes like both ways a little bit.

04:53:08.920 Yeah.

04:53:09.140 So it starts off with a level of attractiveness, and then you get to know the person.

04:53:17.460 Yeah.

04:53:17.740 But I think, though, for your example that you gave, I do sometimes think intelligence, it

04:53:26.140 depends what we mean by intelligence, but sometimes intelligence isn't always a good thing.

04:53:33.580 That might seem, like, so I tend to generally agree, but I also think there, it depends.

04:53:40.980 Can I rephrase your question, or a question involving this? 1.00

04:53:45.220 Do you think that stupidity makes women less attractive? 1.00

04:53:48.620 Stupidity? 1.00

04:53:51.900 Stupidity? 1.00

04:53:53.160 I guess it depends what we mean, like, how stupid, depends what we mean by stupidity. 1.00

04:53:57.080 Just like a total dumb blonde ditzy, doesn't know common sense. 1.00

04:54:01.660 I think some people might actually find that endearing. 1.00

04:54:04.800 Aw. 0.99

04:54:05.240 But I think it depends on the scope and the scale of how intelligent or how stupid or what 1.00

04:54:17.400 are the liabilities here. 0.97

04:54:18.480 Because I think, for example, I think highly intelligent people sometimes, perhaps through

04:54:25.900 no fault of their own, open themselves to mental illness in ways that somebody who is, let's

04:54:32.100 say, simple, doesn't have the same level of existential dread and...

04:54:43.480 Uh, I'm trying to think how I would best frame this.

04:54:47.040 I think sometimes very intelligent people, uh, how do I, there's, there's a psychological

04:54:56.800 term for this, but I don't know what it, it's evading me.

04:55:01.840 Like, you know, this idea of torture genius, like somebody who's so intelligent, who's, but

04:55:07.540 sometimes when you're highly intelligent, you can be a bit in your head.

04:55:10.800 Overthinking.

04:55:11.840 You can be a bit in your head.

04:55:13.040 Like, what do they say?

04:55:14.080 Like, um, uh, man, there's this great saying, like, uh, I mean, it's like, you're not able

04:55:21.900 to communicate with anyone because you're too smart.

04:55:25.500 I'm trying to think what it is though. 0.86

04:55:28.300 Like along the lines of ignorance is bliss.

04:55:31.300 A little bit, a little bit.

04:55:33.380 Um, like, uh, but I'm trying to, there's a specific term for it.

04:55:39.880 I do think sometimes highly, highly intelligent people.

04:55:43.120 Well, I think really intelligent people.

04:55:48.360 Gotta be alone.

04:55:49.360 I think really smart, high IQ, intelligent people can sometimes be inflicted with self

04:55:55.400 doubt. 0.99

04:55:56.880 Whereas I think like dumb people are so fucking confident sometimes that, that 0.99

04:56:03.120 there's something that they're not to say that highly intelligent people can't be confident, 0.99

04:56:08.720 but I think that people who air more on like, perhaps who have lower intelligence, that there

04:56:17.700 can be more confident in themselves.

04:56:21.760 Whereas somebody who's highly intelligent is more likely to be very introspective, not to

04:56:26.720 say they're introverted, but they're, they're more likely to be introspective and be more

04:56:31.320 perhaps thoughtful.

04:56:32.320 And that can be a good thing, but it can also be like, like, I don't know.

04:56:37.880 You can be anxious or you can be like, think everything overthinker and these sorts of

04:56:42.240 things.

04:56:42.840 So yeah, sometimes it's like, I don't know. 0.98

04:56:46.740 So, and some of y'all really intelligent women, you're just neurotic. 1.00

04:56:49.760 Like, like, you're just like, fucking upper, like, analyzing shit. 1.00

04:56:55.600 Oh my God. 1.00

04:56:56.620 Whereas like a simple woman, you know, she's just a little simple, you know, she looks past 1.00

04:57:01.200 everything. 0.97

04:57:01.400 She's not like fucking overanalyzing them. 0.98

04:57:04.080 Oh my God. 0.98

04:57:05.820 I don't know.

04:57:06.460 Some of y'all smart women got anxiety.

04:57:08.500 Hey, this is what it is.

04:57:10.400 I don't know.

04:57:10.800 Chat, what do you think?

04:57:11.560 Chat, what do you think? 1.00

04:57:12.740 Am I kind of onto something or am I full of shit? 1.00

04:57:15.900 Full of shit. 1.00

04:57:16.680 I'm full of shit. 1.00

04:57:18.520 I don't think so. 1.00

04:57:19.860 I think so.

04:57:20.940 I'm trying to gauge what your type is.

04:57:24.040 Right.

04:57:24.280 Cause you want submissive, but. 0.99

04:57:26.920 Big labia. 0.99

04:57:27.520 I'm so for. 0.97

04:57:28.360 Okay.

04:57:28.640 Besides that, but not everyone can see that until, you know.

04:57:32.160 Yeah.

04:57:32.580 I only date women with giant. 0.95

04:57:34.420 Looks don't matter. 0.69

04:57:35.420 Is that like something you walk up and you're like, yes, I can tell you have one. 0.97

04:57:39.040 I don't even want to be like jumping to bed with her and she's got like small labia. 1.00

04:57:42.220 Is it just a fucking deal killer? 0.99

04:57:44.740 No, it's not. 0.99

04:57:45.640 It's not, it's not a deal breaker, but, um, uh, look, innies are nice.

04:57:51.620 Innies are great. 1.00

04:57:52.600 Okay.

04:57:53.180 What does that even mean?

04:57:54.600 An innie or an outie?

04:57:55.740 How do you like differentiate?

04:57:56.040 I don't know.

04:57:56.500 Cover your.

04:57:57.420 I don't know.

04:57:57.800 Wear the earmuff.

04:57:59.020 It's like roast beef versus like a sandwich.

04:58:00.280 Hey, no roast beef.

04:58:01.120 No roast beef.

04:58:01.340 I don't even understand.

04:58:02.560 Don't.

04:58:02.840 Let's not use those terms.

04:58:03.880 We got a.

04:58:04.720 Butterfly wings.

04:58:05.620 How about that?

04:58:07.040 Butterfly wings.

04:58:08.240 They're beautiful.

04:58:08.840 Personality and outward looks that we can all see not what we would see if we were.

04:58:12.540 Like what, what, what's your type?

04:58:16.320 Um, what's my type?

04:58:18.320 Uh, I mean, good looking is, is good.

04:58:21.800 What is good looking for you?

04:58:23.720 Oh.

04:58:24.140 Cause you, there was a question you asked, like, what's my height and what's the minimum

04:58:27.440 height that I would date a guy?

04:58:28.680 I, I gave my answer.

04:58:30.140 What's your height?

04:58:30.840 I don't really care.

04:58:31.720 Okay.

04:58:32.020 She can be sure.

04:58:33.100 Um, cause you're six one.

04:58:34.540 So it doesn't.

04:58:35.560 Well, no, but I'm saying like, I think overall men don't care all that much about height.

04:58:42.340 They definitely care way less than women do. 1.00

04:58:44.860 Uh, but there are some men who might be like, oh, I wouldn't date a girl taller than me.

04:58:48.500 I'm like, no, I don't care.

04:58:49.620 In fact, I think that would be, uh, I mean, in terms of like for your kids, then yeah, that's

04:58:57.260 a benefit for your kids.

04:58:58.340 They'll be taller.

04:58:59.540 Like I, so I would date a woman taller than me and I wouldn't have some sort of like insecurity

04:59:03.240 like, oh, she's taller than me.

04:59:06.200 Oh, I feel insecure.

04:59:07.520 I don't care.

04:59:08.600 I don't know how, I don't know if a taller woman than you would be necessarily super submissive. 1.00

04:59:14.280 That's like an Amazonian woman right there. 1.00

04:59:17.180 She'd be like, I don't think you're completely wrong.

04:59:25.300 Like, I think, um, in terms of physicality, like sure, there is a component of like, if

04:59:32.040 the guy is more like physically dominant, for example, then, uh, that can confer some

04:59:37.240 ability to be submissive.

04:59:39.020 But a woman could be submissive, uh, to a man who's, I guess, smaller than her actually.

04:59:45.320 Um, but I, I think you're onto something there, but I don't think it's, I've been telling you

04:59:49.080 throughout our conversation, I've been trying to gauge like what kind of like person you

04:59:53.740 would be into, so I'm getting submissive.

04:59:56.140 She has to be a simp. 1.00

04:59:56.780 You mentioned ABG. 0.95

04:59:57.920 Large labia, large labia, uh, attractive, simp, uh, and she has to, oh, we have to do 0.99

05:00:06.360 the battle video here.

05:00:06.540 You like your thirds to be perfect.

05:00:08.560 Oh, I don't care.

05:00:09.300 Messages only every three days.

05:00:10.760 Look, if she's attractive, if she's attractive, she's attractive. 0.86

05:00:14.460 I'm also aware that, and look, I think we have to look at the totality, right?

05:00:19.860 So, um, like I'm an average, average, or I guess technically below average looking guy. 0.96

05:00:24.600 So like, I'm not like holding out for some fucking supermodel. 0.74

05:00:29.100 I realized that I, you know, that's probably not on the cards for me. 0.97

05:00:32.760 Although, Hey, you know, I'm not going to turn one down.

05:00:35.600 Let's just say, um, but, uh, submissive, simp, um, pleasant, do you, acts of service

05:00:49.140 is big.

05:00:49.600 She has to do acts of service.

05:00:51.220 Yeah.

05:00:52.200 Uh, and also guys, remember she has to respond right away, but he can respond.

05:00:58.240 Oh, I'm joking.

05:00:58.980 I was joking.

05:00:59.740 I was joking a little bit about that, but, um, pleasant.

05:01:05.600 Like, I, I, I cannot do the like toxic, bratty, sarcastic, um, high friction, high conflict

05:01:17.080 stuff.

05:01:18.200 I won't tolerate it.

05:01:20.080 Um, so that's going to be a major issue.

05:01:24.520 Um, some women think it's like cute to be like, to be clear when I say sarcastic, like 1.00

05:01:30.140 if you're making a joke and it's a bit sarcastic, like that's not an issue.

05:01:33.020 But if you're being like sarcastic in a way that's like, uh, uh, rich retributive, that's

05:01:40.660 sort of like, I don't know, like you being passive aggressive.

05:01:45.180 No, I don't tolerate that.

05:01:47.160 I don't tolerate disrespect.

05:01:49.620 So that's going to be a major, I mean, it's not, it's not going to be a major issue.

05:01:53.100 I'm just not going to date you.

05:01:54.100 Um, so I, I can't do high conflict, high friction relationships.

05:01:58.500 So somebody who's going to be, who's going to be in peace, who's going to defer to my,

05:02:02.380 who's going to defer to me, peace, submissive.

05:02:07.520 Um, a yes woman.

05:02:12.080 No, it's not the yes woman necessarily.

05:02:17.120 Well, it depends what you mean by yes woman.

05:02:19.960 Yes to anything you say.

05:02:22.900 But she has to, well, ideally yes, but she actually has to not just yes, but secretly not

05:02:30.240 like it.

05:02:31.280 She has, no, she has to like actually be on board.

05:02:38.980 Yeah. 0.99

05:02:39.320 Like I don't want a girl who's like doing shit, uh, like she's obsessed with making you 1.00

05:02:43.780 happy. 0.99

05:02:43.960 What's the word?

05:02:44.720 So like, oh yes.

05:02:45.940 No, no.

05:02:46.240 What's the word for, for somebody who does something like, oh, begrudging. 0.99

05:02:50.280 Nah, like, like for example, a blow job. 0.99

05:02:53.080 I don't want a begrudging blow job. 1.00

05:02:55.440 Like, okay, she's doing the chore blow job. 1.00

05:02:57.760 No, she has to be like, she needs to suck the dick. 1.00

05:03:01.580 A woman who wants to suck the dick. 1.00

05:03:03.360 Like I don't want, I don't want a, a, a chore blow job is, I guess, you know, she, she 1.00

05:03:07.980 needs the dick. 1.00

05:03:09.960 What if she does that? 1.00

05:03:11.180 Not because she loves the dick, but because she just wants to make you happy. 1.00

05:03:14.800 Yeah. 1.00

05:03:15.100 Well, that's part of it.

05:03:16.120 That's, look, look, that's, that's fair.

05:03:18.460 I'll accept that.

05:03:19.340 I'll accept that.

05:03:20.040 You know?

05:03:20.640 Do you want kids?

05:03:22.320 You ask us a lot about it.

05:03:23.780 I'm wondering if you want a family.

05:03:25.280 Do I want kids?

05:03:26.400 Do you want a family?

05:03:27.000 Yes.

05:03:27.400 But like, I would keep her around as like a concubine, you know? 1.00

05:03:30.780 Her specific?

05:03:31.580 Yeah.

05:03:31.800 Like her, like she could be, you know, she could be like my mistress and like, I would, I would,

05:03:37.360 you know, take care of the, you know, she'd help with the chores in the house and she'd 1.00

05:03:41.520 help raise the kids or whatever.

05:03:42.800 She'd be like, it's not quite polygamy, but I'd keep her on the side. 1.00

05:03:46.440 And so I've like, you know, like for, for her, like if a woman doesn't want kids, you

05:03:51.500 know, we can, you know, we'll see.

05:03:54.700 But I think, yes, I would want kids.

05:03:58.400 Sorry, I didn't mean to make things awkward there.

05:04:01.120 Wait, what was I, the begrudging?

05:04:03.220 Oh yeah. 0.96

05:04:03.640 So look, I'm a simple guy, um, large labia. 0.92

05:04:07.260 It's not a deal breaker though. 0.70

05:04:08.320 So I don't know.

05:04:08.660 She has to be obsessed with you.

05:04:10.260 Oh, simp.

05:04:11.580 Okay.

05:04:12.200 Simp, submissive.

05:04:15.260 That's kind of it.

05:04:16.200 I mean, yeah, just be a simp and submissive.

05:04:19.520 What are you guys's like?

05:04:21.380 I got to get up.

05:04:21.840 You guys talk about that though.

05:04:25.260 What was your question?

05:04:26.280 Yeah.

05:04:26.440 What are your guys's like ideal types?

05:04:28.560 Like in a man, like on paper, if he's perfect, but this is what.

05:04:32.220 Start out of my man.

05:04:34.440 Yeah.

05:04:34.780 Like I can't think of anything.

05:04:35.940 Cause like, I'm so like single focused on my man.

05:04:39.860 Like I can't think of anything.

05:04:40.780 What attracted you to your husband?

05:04:43.360 He's incredibly traditional.

05:04:45.520 He, he's Russian.

05:04:47.040 So he's very traditional.

05:04:48.860 He takes care of me.

05:04:49.800 He paid for my trip here.

05:04:50.960 Like he just said, go have fun.

05:04:52.740 Like, so he, and I like worship him.

05:04:55.680 I am a simp for him.

05:04:56.820 Like, I'm like, he needs, he wants to wake me up at 3am so I can make him a sandwich.

05:05:00.760 I will do that.

05:05:02.380 Like, so that's like me with him.

05:05:04.020 And he's like, and in turn, he takes care of me.

05:05:07.240 So it's really a balance.

05:05:08.880 So I, I love the dynamic because we understand each other's rules that we are not equal,

05:05:13.220 but this is what he does.

05:05:14.300 And this is what I do.

05:05:15.040 And we just had that understanding and we mesh really well.

05:05:20.160 Um, my man is just like, just everything that you can imagine, like a man's man, like he's

05:05:26.720 assertive, um, but without being like overbearing, but he leads me, he guides me.

05:05:32.860 Um, and then, you know, just in general, he, he knew who he was without anyone else.

05:05:41.460 And he just was confident and sexy and just like everything.

05:05:48.560 So everything that like you imagine your little girl, like it was like manifested into this

05:05:54.720 person.

05:05:55.540 Oh, that's great.

05:05:56.340 So I feel like once you find that person, like that's, you know, you know what I mean? 0.99

05:06:01.140 Everybody always is like, Oh, when you know, you know, and it sounds so cliche and stupid, 0.96

05:06:04.060 but like, I've never felt like this before. 0.85

05:06:07.180 And like when, again, when you like meet that person and you feel these things that you've

05:06:10.900 never felt before, they just, it just changes like who you are.

05:06:14.900 You like want to be better yourself for that person.

05:06:18.160 I agree.

05:06:18.720 I feel like as long as a man is not like being feminine himself, like he's acting like a 0.99

05:06:27.840 girl, that's like completely throws me off.

05:06:31.140 Like I cannot deal with a person if they're like that.

05:06:37.000 I, um, just on paper, I would love somebody who respects me and is kind to me and takes good

05:06:47.340 care my kids, like provides.

05:06:51.700 What about like genetic preferences?

05:06:56.220 Do you guys have those?

05:06:58.580 Um, yeah.

05:07:04.740 Yeah.

05:07:05.500 I like mixed guys.

05:07:07.660 Oh, okay.

05:07:08.620 Well, I mean, sure.

05:07:09.520 Yeah.

05:07:09.840 Race.

05:07:10.280 But I was also talking about like eye color, hair color.

05:07:13.020 I love a short King.

05:07:14.900 I love a short King.

05:07:16.520 Oh my God.

05:07:16.960 Every man I've ever been with has been either my exact height or shorter than me.

05:07:21.080 I've dated one taller guy.

05:07:22.320 I don't like it that we weren't at eye level.

05:07:24.640 What's wrong?

05:07:25.980 Wait, is your man now at eye level or is he?

05:07:29.380 A little less.

05:07:30.220 He's shorter than you?

05:07:31.200 A little less.

05:07:31.920 Yeah.

05:07:32.020 I mean, she's tall.

05:07:33.360 I don't know what it is.

05:07:34.380 I get the controversy.

05:07:36.180 Tall men are better to some people, whatever.

05:07:38.460 Like they want to look up.

05:07:39.520 I don't get it for myself.

05:07:40.960 I just, I love a short King.

05:07:42.420 The protection thing.

05:07:43.380 I like men that look like they can throw me through drywall.

05:07:46.160 I say the same thing.

05:07:47.600 Yeah.

05:07:48.040 Like big, masculine.

05:07:49.880 Yeah.

05:07:50.100 But my man carries a gun.

05:07:52.880 Okay.

05:07:53.460 So do I.

05:07:54.760 So he could protect me.

05:07:57.560 He doesn't have to be the biggest, strongest, scariest person to protect me.

05:08:03.540 Sure.

05:08:04.720 Yeah.

05:08:05.900 But I actually do think, and I strongly believe that a woman should be able to completely

05:08:11.440 provide for herself, make her own finances, be able to support herself without a man.

05:08:19.260 You should be able to, but when you find that person that wants to do it, it's an incredible

05:08:24.380 feeling.

05:08:25.500 Like it's absolutely amazing.

05:08:27.520 When we got pregnant with our first, it was like my husband just went into high gear and

05:08:31.640 was like, nope, I'm on it.

05:08:33.720 We've got this.

05:08:34.360 And it was just the most amazing feeling that he wanted to protect us and provide for us.

05:08:39.440 And we have exceptional kids because I get to be home with them.

05:08:43.280 It's, it's kind of a crazy, amazing feeling.

05:08:46.920 Honestly, that probably does not resonate with me because whenever someone was trying and

05:08:52.960 maybe like trying to take care of me, I'm like, like, oh, well, you're so young.

05:08:56.720 Yeah, that's the feminism. 1.00

05:08:58.000 That's the feminism. 1.00

05:08:59.440 Brainwashing. 0.98

05:09:00.060 You've been brainwashed.

05:09:01.380 Like I'm able to do all those things.

05:09:03.020 I have done all those things.

05:09:04.100 I've done everything on my own, but it was just this feeling when he took over, it was

05:09:08.360 like, whoa, I get this one focus now.

05:09:11.680 That's my focus is my children now.

05:09:14.600 Wait, isn't it like more traditional in Russia though?

05:09:17.400 Also, by the way, not concubine. 0.99

05:09:18.780 I think that's like a sex worker. 1.00

05:09:21.940 Yeah. 1.00

05:09:23.560 Mistress, mistress though, you know? 0.67

05:09:25.760 You know?

05:09:25.960 Not the first time I've been asked, offered that.

05:09:33.320 Yeah.

05:09:33.760 Yeah.

05:09:34.060 I had a guy on, we weren't even on a date or anything.

05:09:37.000 I was meeting him for a work thing and we were discussing something about work and he

05:09:41.320 just brought it up randomly.

05:09:42.500 He was like, so I'm looking for a wife. 0.74

05:09:44.780 And I was like, okay.

05:09:47.540 Where are you going with this?

05:09:49.560 What's happening?

05:09:50.300 And then he, you know, I mentioned the thing where I don't want to have kids, whatever.

05:09:54.140 Went through my whole explanation and he was like, well, so you fit into this other category

05:09:58.120 and basically was like, you could be my mistress and I'll pay for you and support you and everything.

05:10:02.100 And I was like, no, no, you want the, yeah.

05:10:07.340 Yeah.

05:10:07.800 I was like, that doesn't sound fun.

05:10:09.240 Thank you.

05:10:09.600 Yeah, I mean, I would say that, I mean, I definitely do want kids, but if I, you know, whatever,

05:10:18.320 if it didn't happen, then I'd be like, I'd be okay.

05:10:24.220 If it didn't happen, I'd be fine with it.

05:10:26.240 But I definitely want seven kids.

05:10:29.800 Do you not think that?

05:10:31.320 Seven sons. 1.00

05:10:32.200 I need a fucking soldiers. 1.00

05:10:34.540 I need, I need, I need a gang. 1.00

05:10:37.460 I need a clan.

05:10:38.780 Clan's a good word.

05:10:39.460 Football team.

05:10:39.720 What if your sons one day or daughters one day ask why you're not married to their mommy?

05:10:45.620 Aww.

05:10:46.420 What if they ask that?

05:10:48.320 Yeah, well, their friends have mommies and daddies that are married. 0.99

05:10:50.980 I mean, what if they ask, why aren't you married to my mommy? 1.00

05:10:54.780 I'd be like, well, that other couple over there, she's fucking cheating on her husband. 1.00

05:11:02.600 But you have a mistress. 1.00

05:11:03.620 Say that to a six-year-old.

05:11:04.260 But you have a mistress.

05:11:05.660 I think the important part is.

05:11:07.260 Look, I'm fine with monogamy, but I'm just saying, you know.

05:11:09.840 Look, look, I'll say this.

05:11:11.460 I think removing religion from the conversation, right? 0.56

05:11:16.120 I think if you were to ask most guys, ooh, that actually reminds me.

05:11:21.040 I want to do this new segment that we've never done.

05:11:23.700 One sec.

05:11:25.200 I think if you ask most men, see, I'm, pretend, look at it like this, and this will be the

05:11:30.940 next segment.

05:11:31.520 I'm Big Brother Brian. 1.00

05:11:34.380 I, guys want to fuck you. 1.00

05:11:37.640 And they're not going to be honest with you. 1.00

05:11:39.680 I've got a podcast where, honestly, the more honest I am, the better.

05:11:43.700 Most men are not going to be honest about what they really think.

05:11:48.780 And, well, especially not only that, even if in a one-on-one setting, but especially

05:11:52.520 publicly, most men, things are changing a little bit, but most men can't be fully honest

05:11:59.180 about, well, a lot of things, whether it's politics, whether it's dating, because there

05:12:05.060 are pretty severe social ramifications, to be honest.

05:12:09.240 Politically, it's changing a little bit.

05:12:11.500 And culture war is kind of changing.

05:12:15.800 But I've got this podcast.

05:12:18.400 I've already, like, the ship has sailed.

05:12:20.980 Like, I've already said all the, not all the controversial things, a lot of controversial

05:12:24.820 things, you know, so I don't really have too much to hold back.

05:12:30.700 But the point I was going to make was, I think if most men are honest, and they were dating

05:12:37.420 a woman, and that woman would be loyal to them and love them and nothing would change,

05:12:42.560 and that woman was okay with him seeing other women, he would do it.

05:12:50.400 Like, if she was fine with it, and she was loyal, she stayed loyal to him, like she was

05:12:55.840 exclusive to him, but he could go out and sleep with other women, if most men are really

05:13:01.140 being honest, and it wouldn't bother the woman, they'd be like, yeah, absolutely.

05:13:05.880 So you just want your cake and eat it too?

05:13:08.660 Well, I mean, you have to understand, I'm not speaking prescriptively.

05:13:11.980 I'm not saying what should be, I'm saying what is, I'm speaking descriptively.

05:13:18.000 It is the case that I think if you ask most women, most men, if your girlfriend, your wife

05:13:26.480 was totally cool with you sleeping with other women, so that the man could satisfy some base

05:13:33.200 evo-psych evolutionary urge to have variety, yeah, they would do it.

05:13:38.880 What if you do it together, like threesomes?

05:13:43.400 I think, yes, that's an option.

05:13:47.680 I think that's an option.

05:13:52.180 I don't know.

05:13:53.600 There's many women who are into that, so. 1.00

05:13:56.980 Sure.

05:13:58.160 But I am just saying, I think most men, I think you'd have to, it's hard to say.

05:14:04.560 I think, I don't know if, I think we would have to exclude Christian men, perhaps.

05:14:11.360 Maybe even Christian men would be fine with it. 0.99

05:14:13.120 I don't know.

05:14:14.440 I'm not sure.

05:14:15.600 I mean, it is in contradiction to Christianity, though, because Christianity calls for biblical

05:14:22.800 marriage, and that would be monogamy, right? 0.85

05:14:25.800 But in terms of their desire, that's another question.

05:14:33.640 You've met a lot of Christian men.

05:14:35.500 You're saying, like, for example, Charlie Kirk, you're saying that, like, he would, like,

05:14:40.180 in his most base desire, that's totally what he would want to, like, and, like, Matt Walsh,

05:14:43.700 Michael Knows, like, all these other Christian conservatives, like, that deep down inside,

05:14:47.920 this is really what they would do.

05:14:49.820 Well, I don't think, so, because we're highly intelligent creatures, humans, I don't think

05:14:54.800 we are beholden to our base evo, evolutionary psychology, biological drives.

05:15:03.200 We're not beholden to them.

05:15:04.160 We're not slaves to them.

05:15:05.780 But this idea that through the social construction of marriage, that this completely diminishes

05:15:14.080 a man's physical or sexual attraction to other women, I mean, I just, it doesn't, of course,

05:15:26.980 men can be loyal, men are loyal, but this idea that, you know, if there was a, you know,

05:15:34.180 if it was, for example, women were just totally fine with it. 1.00

05:15:38.660 But, um, I think most men would, yeah.

05:15:45.260 I mean, I think most men would do anything to have their cake and eat it too, and to have

05:15:52.580 multiple women at once. 0.75

05:15:54.580 Well, I mean, I think this also applies to women, and we actually do, we do see this played 0.96

05:15:58.640 out quite a bit, so I think typically what you'll see happen, and this is actually an

05:16:02.600 evolutionary strategy, so what women do, you don't like it when I talk about what men do, 1.00

05:16:08.660 or what men might want to do.

05:16:11.080 So women would want to get impregnated by, like, the most, uh, if it was totally up to

05:16:16.680 them, women would want to get impregnated by the most fit, and I don't necessarily mean, 0.88

05:16:21.940 uh, necessarily, like, you bodybuild or whatever, like, women would want to get impregnated by 1.00

05:16:29.600 the most dominant, the most physically attractive, the largest, and the most, so that would somewhat

05:16:34.640 relate to, um, uh, you know, physical size or whatever, and then you have, uh, knowing

05:16:44.820 that that guy who's, who's the most physically, uh, fit, and I use fit, fitness in an evolutionary

05:16:52.360 context, uh, and then they find another guy who's not the father to take care of, to be,

05:16:58.640 like, the good, dutiful husband who's going to do the dishes. I think that that's women's 1.00

05:17:06.000 evolutionary strategy, but that does not fly. That doesn't fly. I have a question. Yeah.

05:17:13.160 Who do you think is more, who do you think is going to cheat first, like, a woman? I don't know. 0.97

05:17:22.060 Emotionally, women, physically, men. I'm not sure if that's true. Women are also really good at 0.99

05:17:27.500 hiding it. What is emotional cheating? When you're, like, catching feelings for another guy,

05:17:31.840 even though you're with your partner. But that's inevitable. I mean, like, your feelings.

05:17:36.080 Thanks. Wait, wait, wait. Really quick before we move off, before we move off of this. So I do

05:17:41.440 think it's the case that basically you'll have, women will have this sort of mating strategy where 1.00

05:17:48.340 it's like, y'all get pregnant by some hot dude, whatever. I mean, here's the thing, right? Is

05:17:55.420 the ideal thing would be find the most fit man. And again, I'm not using like, he's, he could,

05:18:03.560 it could be, he's like fucking Chad in the face or whatever that too. Um, you find the most fit man 0.98

05:18:10.120 to mate with, to have children with, but knowing that that guy has so much sexual options, he's

05:18:15.540 never going to be like the father. He's not going to commit to you because he has so many sexual

05:18:20.720 options. He's going to impregnate all these women. Why would he commit to you? Why would he invest 0.77

05:18:25.800 resources into you? But he'll give you the seed. So that would confer the most benefits for your

05:18:31.760 children, but, uh, well benefits in terms of, uh, fitness, but you also need to balance that with,

05:18:39.360 well, you also need the resources of a man to better be able for your own safety and security

05:18:44.920 and to be able to, uh, uh, in the most efficient and best way possible, raise your children.

05:18:53.940 So that would be the other side of it.

05:18:56.600 You know, when I would, whenever I would start talking to a guy, I actually would tell him,

05:19:05.820 I'm like, if you want to see other people while we're seeing, this is not like us officially dating.

05:19:12.980 I'm like, I don't want to know about it. Don't just, you do you, I do my thing. And it's like,

05:19:18.920 until we become official, you're not tied to me. But I myself don't know if I would necessarily,

05:19:26.940 I might feel a little guilty. So like, I've always asked myself this question, would I allow

05:19:32.440 my, my, my boyfriend to see other women and me myself just stay with my guy? Or if he's doing it,

05:19:42.960 then so can I. I mean, that's kind of respectful of each other. If you're like, okay, I don't want

05:19:48.960 to know if it happens. Yeah. I just, I'm like, don't ask, don't tell type. But are you exclusive

05:19:53.740 to him? That's where, that's where I'm stuck. Like, would I be like, if I, if I genuinely love

05:20:00.540 the guy, like, do I feel satisfied enough to just be with him? Or do I need my needs to be,

05:20:06.760 met by other people? It's just like a, it's a question that I myself have thought of.

05:20:14.060 So it's. Well, I think there, there's a, maybe a evolutionary basis for a bit of a difference

05:20:20.180 here. So I think, look, I think promiscuity is bad in both men and women. So I don't think men or

05:20:28.560 women should be promiscuous. I think the ideal scenario is you find somebody when you're still 1.00

05:20:33.520 relatively young, you stay with them, you have kids with them if you can, or if you're inclined

05:20:38.420 to, but I think sleeping around high body counts, promiscuity, uh, I think it's bad on the individual

05:20:45.600 level. And I think it's really bad on the societal level. Like it's bad for society. And so for both

05:20:52.840 men and women, although I think it's a bit worse for in women, to be honest, maybe you call that a

05:20:56.800 double standard, but like in terms of the acceptability of like a man having multiple

05:21:03.960 women and you still being exclusive to him, I think in some ways, um, we've seen this as a

05:21:11.640 phenomenon that is more common, like in history than the reverse. So like Kings would have, I don't

05:21:19.540 know, some fucking warlord, whatever, we'll have multiple women. And I think that like, that's a sign 0.99

05:21:27.300 of like, good for him. Uh, hold on. I shouldn't say that, but I should say that, um, you see it more

05:21:34.300 often in history. Uh, however, the reverse is not quite as common and is like kind of gross, not gonna

05:21:43.460 lie. It's like frowned upon if it's the reverse. Well, I think part of it has to do with the, the, uh,

05:21:50.800 the children, like the paternity. So for example, prior to the 1980s, when DNA testing became a thing,

05:21:59.080 if I had 10 wives and let's just grant in the hypothetical that they're all loyal to me, right?

05:22:07.140 If I have 10 wives, we know who each of the mother is for all the children. And we know who,

05:22:13.340 I'm the father. We know who the father is for all the children. If a woman has 10 husbands, 0.95

05:22:19.160 who the fuck is the father? Who's the father? You don't, you can't know. So I think there's like, 1.00

05:22:26.140 for that reason, men are more invested in the, uh, loyalty of, because you don't want to be like,

05:22:37.020 let's say you get bamboozled and like, I'm dating a girl. I'm married to a girl. Meanwhile,

05:22:41.460 by the way, girls are, when it comes to cheating, you don't know that shit. Um, I mean, unless you're, 1.00

05:22:49.960 I mean, you can obviously girls get discovered cheating, of course, but women are typically a 1.00

05:22:55.420 little fucking clever about that shit. Um, what was I saying? Oh, um, okay. You're married to a woman. 1.00

05:23:02.860 She's cheating. Uh, she gets pregnant by the other guy. That's one of the biggest L's a guy can take 1.00

05:23:11.420 is thinking the kid is his thinking he's reproduced, thinking that's his lineage,

05:23:16.520 thinking that's his blood, pouring resources into a man, uh, a woman who isn't loyal to you

05:23:24.400 and pouring resources into a kid who isn't yours. Biggest L a guy can take that women can never 0.99

05:23:32.520 experience that. Cause if you get pregnant, you know, the kid's yours, right? So I think men are 0.63

05:23:37.660 just way more invested in female loyalty than the reverse because the ultimate manifestation and 0.98

05:23:43.400 like you go, you know, ultimately you have kids with somebody. Again, I understand some people don't

05:23:48.520 want kids. That's fine. So I think that's why female promiscuity and female disloyalty is more 1.00

05:23:56.060 negatively appraised. Just saying, I don't know, whatever. You had something? Um, I think so. I,

05:24:07.420 um, why, well, I kind of already answered that. My questions fleeted out of my brain, actually.

05:24:18.520 Um, so. Oh, okay. Well, um, I, we, okay. We have to do the bow. We have to do some of the looks

05:24:23.880 stuff and then we have to do really quick though, since I brought it up big brother, Brian. So I'm

05:24:29.480 here. Maybe you've had something bouncing around your head either today or last week or last month

05:24:35.660 or last year, whatever it is. I will give you an unfiltered raw advice. I'll give you, it can be

05:24:41.820 dating advice. Maybe it's just a question you have. Maybe it's like, I don't know. It can be anything.

05:24:45.720 It could be dating. It could be relationships. It could be sex, whatever, anything you've always

05:24:49.560 been curious about. And you want the answer from a guy who's not trying to have sex with you 0.93

05:24:56.440 because men lie. If they're trying to have sex with you, like they'll placate and, you know, 0.99

05:25:04.300 you know, I have a question. Sure. Why don't men just tell you that they just want to have sex 0.99

05:25:12.060 with you and they're not interested in a relationship with you? Like, why can't you 0.91

05:25:15.180 just be like transparent about that? That's a good question. That's a good question. Because

05:25:17.660 some women would be like, all right, cool. Like that's fine. Cause earlier you told me that 1.00

05:25:22.580 they're just not interested in me like that. When I said the same thing basically. Yeah. So yeah,

05:25:29.000 yeah, no, it's a, it's a good question. I'll answer it. Uh, well, let me ask you this one

05:25:32.200 question and I'll give you some feedback, I guess. Um, in terms of what you're looking for,

05:25:38.060 like currently, um, if a guy, uh, who you otherwise were attracted to, but he just said

05:25:44.820 politely, he was like, look, um, I think you're attractive, but I just want to sleep with you

05:25:50.900 tonight and never speak to you again. And maybe you'd want to change the language there. So

05:25:55.300 that's maybe a little, just give it more charitable language, but that's the essence of what he's

05:26:01.540 getting at. Would you go for it? Probably not, but I would appreciate the honesty, you know,

05:26:08.400 but also, um, now what about this? What if a guy said something like, well, look, I don't want to

05:26:14.720 one night stand, but listen, um, uh, I'd have sex with you like 10 times, but then I'll probably 0.99

05:26:21.740 tire. No, that's a bit rude. That's a bit rude, but, um, that's the essence. Like you could make it 0.99

05:26:29.760 as flowery as you would like, but you said the guy should be honest, right? So the guy's like,

05:26:33.960 look, um, I see myself having sex with you 10 times and about 10 times. Would you go for that? 0.98

05:26:41.500 No. Okay. See, so they're afraid of being rejected, but a woman might, I might say no, 1.00

05:26:48.580 but someone else might say yes. But so look, and I, one thing on this, I think men,

05:26:55.120 well, I think a couple of, I think a lot of things, uh, I don't think men should lie about

05:27:01.440 their intentions. I think that that's wrong. So, and then I don't think you can argue to the

05:27:06.420 contrary. If a man in, in furtherance of just getting sex from you says, Hey, I'm looking for

05:27:15.260 something serious. I want a girlfriend. Um, I, you know, I'm have serious intentions with you for

05:27:22.280 you. And then he sleeps with you and it was a lie. Like, I think it's just be clear. One caveat,

05:27:30.000 a man could have those intentions with you. And then like, he sleeps with you and either there's

05:27:34.840 a lack of sexual compatibility or after sleeping with you. Um, I don't know. You, you, it could be

05:27:42.200 that or just your behavior. He's like, Oh, Whoa. Okay. There's new information. I don't like her 0.98

05:27:48.760 anymore. Like that can happen. But if it's clear, like the guy's clearly going into it with no lying,

05:27:56.560 be like, yes, of course I want a long-term relationship with you. He's being deceptive.

05:28:00.700 He's lying. That's wrong. Mention into it. Right. Um, but you're asking why they do it. Well,

05:28:08.020 they do it because they want to sleep with you. And I, I think, uh, it's, I don't think it's a

05:28:15.720 crime, but it's definitely, I think it's probably, uh, morally and ethically wrong, um, to mislead

05:28:24.120 somebody insofar as would you sleep with them had their true intentions been known? Well, uh, if the

05:28:33.100 answer is no, then they've bamboozled you, which is wrong. Uh, but they do it because, uh, yeah,

05:28:40.240 they're trying to have sex with you and that's wrong, but that's why they do it. 1.00

05:28:45.520 They're trying to play it safe. So they don't want you to say no beforehand. Like, because if you find

05:28:52.540 out you, you, he did just ask and you did just say, no, I would not do it if I knew it was just a

05:29:00.040 one nice time. Yeah. I mean, I also think that it's, um, I like, like I said, I mean, I might say

05:29:08.160 no, but someone else might say yes. Right. So I think I always, I don't know. Me personally,

05:29:12.960 I think transparency and honesty is the best policy always. Um, yeah. And look, I do think there are

05:29:18.780 negotiated friends with benefits dynamics that do occur. I don't think all men are doing this

05:29:25.100 misleading thing. Perhaps a lot are though. Um, but, uh, a common thing that men say that isn't

05:29:32.860 technically a lie, right? Is we'll see where it goes, which could be at the end of the night.

05:29:38.380 It could be 10 years from now, but you never know. Would that change your answer? If the answer you

05:29:43.600 got was, we'll see where it goes. I don't know. I feel like I've gotten that answer before. Um,

05:29:51.240 I ask a lot of questions on a first date. I've kind of like interrogate the person, which maybe

05:29:56.560 doesn't always come off great, but I would rather get all the bad shit out on the table and sort, 0.98

05:30:02.480 sort through that before we even go on a second date personally. Um, and so I think the, the, 0.96

05:30:08.880 we'll see where it goes for me. I've been, I've accepted that, but then it's usually,

05:30:14.520 um, you're not gonna get anything from me until we're like months in. Have you ever like had a

05:30:22.920 casual thing like a fling or? Yeah. Yeah. But I mean, also I think people also have this experience

05:30:29.100 and I don't know if you've had this experience, um, of the long-term relationships I've had,

05:30:34.260 I've had, and I've had multiple long-term relationships, like one year, five years,

05:30:38.800 two years. Um, it wasn't like, let's wait three months to have sex of my long-term relationships.

05:30:45.360 And I have very positive things to say about almost all my exes, except one. I don't say,

05:30:52.260 well, anyways, um, it wasn't, yeah, let's wait three months to have sex. It was like first,

05:30:58.620 second or third date. We had sex and I liked her. She liked me. We continued, continued seeing each

05:31:03.780 other. So, I mean, have you had that experience where it's like you meet a guy, you guys,

05:31:08.800 had sex early, pretty early on. And then you guys liked each other and became boyfriend,

05:31:15.260 girlfriend down the road. I have the person I'm thinking of in particular though, which is really

05:31:19.720 interesting. We were together for a year and a half. It was, but it was also me, um, meh and

05:31:25.940 awesome all at the same time. Um, yeah, we did, we had sex early on and we were together for a year

05:31:32.640 and a half, but he early on told me that it was just going to be a casual thing. And I was okay with

05:31:38.580 that with him whenever it started. Cause it kind of, the relationship started off like that. And

05:31:43.120 then all of a sudden he was at my door every single night and then it slowly kind of turned

05:31:47.480 into a relationship. And then kind of the way that ended, I think kind of like soured me for doing

05:31:53.420 that again. Um, because he basically ended up moving in with me and then I was like supporting him

05:32:02.980 kind of so. Yeah. Maybe another reason why men will do that again. I don't think it's right,

05:32:09.940 but I think, so I think, uh, men, when it comes to just casual sex, they will, men will fuck down. 0.99

05:32:20.200 Um, so what I mean by this is for men, let's say if a lower attractiveness to be sexually 0.99

05:32:29.400 competitive, uh, well either, I mean, uh, how do I frame this correctly? Uh, they might have to feign

05:32:37.600 romantic or long-term interest because like for a woman, let's say a woman just wants a one night 0.99

05:32:44.320 stand. I think women, when it comes to women can sleep outside their league, they typically can't 1.00

05:32:50.960 get relationships out of their league, but women can sleep outside their league. So women, let's say 1.00

05:32:56.880 a woman who's not otherwise that interested in a short-term thing, casual sex, a one night stand,

05:33:04.320 she's going to break that rule. If the, as the guy becomes more attractive. So a girl who's like, 1.00

05:33:11.380 doesn't really, wouldn't do a one night stand or wouldn't do friends with benefits. If the guy's

05:33:15.580 really attractive outside of her league and he's offering her the one night stand, offering her,

05:33:21.920 uh, friends with benefits, uh, she might bite on that, but like, whereas for, well, the difference

05:33:30.640 is for men, when men seek out casual sex, they'll go way down. Like for men, if it's just casual sex, 0.67

05:33:38.260 you basically have to be willing and this is going to sound bad. You got to just have a hold.

05:33:45.400 Uh, I mean, obviously look, the guy, look, obviously as a guy, even if you just want casual

05:33:49.120 sex, you'd want to maximize for the most attractive woman you can get, but men are willing to go

05:33:54.460 down. They'll go down. Like, so for example, I'll frame it like this. This is the best way I can frame 0.89

05:34:00.720 it. A guy, uh, well, how about this for you? Women hide it for you. Women in order for you to have sex 1.00

05:34:12.080 with a man, uh, in terms of his looks, his attractiveness in order for you to have sex with 0.83

05:34:17.840 him, he has to be at least good looking enough that you would be in a relationship with him.

05:34:23.720 Right. Yeah. Whereas for men, men will have sex with women that in terms of their, the woman's 0.99

05:34:33.300 attractiveness, he would be like on the sole basis of her looks, I would never consider being in a 1.00

05:34:38.740 relationship with her, but I would have sex with her. So this is, this is the big difference here. 0.99

05:34:45.960 This is the big dilemma. And so, uh, this causes a quite a few issues, but yeah.

05:34:55.440 Follow up question. Yeah. Sure.

05:34:58.360 Brother Brian. Yeah. Um, big brother, big brother, brother Brian. Um, so how would you go about like

05:35:06.040 filtering this then as a woman? Yeah. Uh, if you were a woman, how would you do this? 1.00

05:35:11.720 Yeah, that's a good question. And I, I actually acknowledge that women are kind of in, in a bind, 1.00

05:35:19.980 in a bind because, uh, Hmm.

05:35:27.680 Because on one hand, if you're dealing with a really high, like a, a high tier guy, uh, he has no shortage,

05:35:37.900 shortage of sexual options and you're going to be less competitive. Uh, if you're pursuing,

05:35:45.020 well, not pursuing, but if, if you're interested in him and you're like holding back sex and like 0.55

05:35:51.660 women who are just as attractive as you or more attractive than you are giving him sex, 1.00

05:35:56.640 you're like deprioritized in terms of his rotation, in terms of what he wants.

05:36:01.880 So, but on the other hand, uh, if you do give the guy sex too soon and then he like, what happens? 0.52

05:36:11.580 He goes. So I think women are been a bit of a bind. I actually don't know what the solution is 1.00

05:36:16.780 absent a complete return. I mean, there isn't a good solution currently because on, on one hand,

05:36:26.300 I think if you withhold, withhold, withhold a lot of guys who might otherwise get into a relationship

05:36:32.500 with you, um, they're going to be like, ah, man, whatever. I'm not gonna too much work,

05:36:37.440 but he might otherwise end up your boyfriend if you did give him sex, but you're holding back, 0.97

05:36:41.980 holding back, holding back. He's like, ah, I want sex. I'll find a girl who will give me sex. 0.99

05:36:48.500 And then maybe she'll be my girlfriend. Uh, but you also have to balance that with, 1.00

05:36:53.280 you don't want to get played. You don't want to get used just for sex. 0.93

05:36:58.540 I think knowing like a background, like let's say you, you saw a Christian man, right? Or you, 0.88

05:37:03.600 the likelihood that this person is just, you know, in it for the sex is lowered. So, you know,

05:37:12.000 maybe lean there from personal experience and disagree. I don't think they were very Christian.

05:37:17.080 Yeah. Uh, I mean, I think there's a lot of, I think there's a lot of like lukewarm Christians who 1.00

05:37:25.080 engage in premarital sex all the time who want to have sex. There's Christian women who have Bible 1.00

05:37:32.300 verses in their Instagram who actually, I don't know if I'm not going to share any detail, but, um,

05:37:41.880 look, sometimes people are LARPing a little bit as Christians. So even if you do, I mean, 0.94

05:37:49.480 I think it's better than like, you're going to have probably a better shot with a Christian guy than 1.00

05:37:54.340 with like a lib liberal guy, atheist guy. But, but, uh, yeah, I don't, I actually don't know the

05:38:04.140 solution. The solution would have to be complete structural and societal upheaval. And you'd need

05:38:14.440 to have a return to, uh, no sex before marriage. And all women would have to enforce this because 0.99

05:38:23.360 if men only get sex within the confines of marriage, men will only pursue women. I mean,

05:38:34.620 there's some, look, I'll, there's some guys who will wait fucking years for pussy. I'm going to be 1.00

05:38:40.120 honest, but, um, that's kind of pathetic, but, um, in the sense that they just played the long game 0.96

05:38:48.900 dip. I think you would need to basically, in order to this sort of paradox, I guess that you're 0.69

05:38:57.080 presenting, we have to completely return to like universal, no sex until marriage because a man 0.96

05:39:05.620 wouldn't pursue a woman unless he had long-term interest in her because I mean, what else? But I

05:39:14.940 don't think that's going to happen. The cat's out of the bag. So I guess we're just fucked.

05:39:22.140 I don't have a solution. I think that's it. But, um, I think a good starting point you could, 0.99

05:39:29.060 I don't know, like, look, I'll also share my perspective though. Um, so, but to achieve what

05:39:38.580 you want to achieve, probably like, yes, we're going to wait to have sex. But from my perspective,

05:39:46.100 I actually like, I'll actually pass on women who don't want to have sex. Like just being honest, 1.00

05:39:52.260 I'll just pass. Like she doesn't, it depends a little bit though. Um, like if she's a virgin,

05:40:00.880 we can wait a little bit, but if she's like had sex before and like, I think the new guy doesn't

05:40:10.480 want different treatment. Like if I would feel a type of way, kind of like with her situation,

05:40:16.600 remember in the beginning of the show, you were saying there's these guys you, you hook up with,

05:40:22.480 have sex with quickly, right? Yeah. You've had that experience. Maybe it's the first date, 0.80

05:40:27.720 second date, third date, third time hanging out, whatever. We don't have to use date,

05:40:31.420 but first time, second time, third time hanging out, you fuck them. Meanwhile, you got guys you've 1.00

05:40:38.920 been dating. You're an interesting case. Just to be fair. You got a dude you've been seeing for six

05:40:45.880 months, a year, three years, whatever the fuck. And you haven't slept with him. Like I'd feel it. 0.99

05:40:51.580 I'd feel raw about that. Like I'm dating a, I'm dating a girl here. Here's the scenario.

05:40:57.720 Uh, I would pass on this girl. Not, not, I'll give you a hypothetical girl when I say I'll pass on 0.97

05:41:05.560 this girl. Uh, I meet a girl. I like her. I think she's attractive and maybe the second date, 0.92

05:41:15.180 third date, whatever, trying to move things forward, move things forward. And she's like,

05:41:19.140 Oh, um, I want to wait. And then maybe I might like, but if I knew that three, two months ago,

05:41:29.360 she had a one night stand, I'd be like, hold on, what's going on here? Like, I want something long 0.96

05:41:38.300 term with you because I'm not, I'm not interested, at least from my own perspective. She might not,

05:41:41.920 she might not, she might not believe me. She might not know, but I, one night stands are worthless to

05:41:47.460 me. Like I have no interest in it. I want continuity with a girl. Like it's useless to 0.99

05:41:53.500 me to just fuck a girl once. That's stupid. Like I believe I want something longterm with a girl. 1.00

05:41:59.880 So, but I also don't have any, like we can have sex quick. Like I'm fine with that.

05:42:06.440 Uh, where was I? Sorry. I'm losing my train of thought a little bit here.

05:42:10.900 Uh, I feel like, Oh yeah. Yeah. So I would feel a bit bent out of shape if like, Hey,

05:42:16.780 I'm interested in being with you. Um, you want to wait, but that's not a standard that you held

05:42:24.280 other men to. Yeah. Yeah. I would be like, I'd be pretty raw about that.

05:42:33.360 I think that's a personal thing, but I just, the thing of me, I just get a lot of mixed signals.

05:42:40.840 Like, I don't really know. Like what they're gay. The guys you're dating are gay. No, they 1.00

05:42:47.000 don't want to have sex with you. I just get mixed feelings. Like one day I kind of liked the person 0.93

05:42:52.600 I'm like attracted to them. And then the next time I'm like, okay, you know what?

05:42:57.680 I don't really like this person at all. And it's just, for instance, the guy, like I knew

05:43:03.200 for a year, the time we just met, like last year, I thought I liked him. And now this year

05:43:09.960 we met again and we literally meet once a year, which doesn't make any sense to me. I realized

05:43:15.680 that, you know, I actually don't have any feelings. And I was like, you know what?

05:43:23.040 I'm just gonna, I'm not gonna say anything essentially, just like breaking it, it off

05:43:29.740 absolutely. But I'm just gonna, just gonna like space out a little bit. Just, you know,

05:43:35.920 like, well, okay. I guess there's this phenomenon though, where, uh, I guess I was kind of balancing

05:43:44.040 the, the, I don't know if this is the right term, but like the female position versus the 1.00

05:43:51.680 male position. So for, in your case, like probably what's most advantageous to you would be to

05:43:59.680 wait. Uh, it might mean you might otherwise miss out on the guy who, you know, even if you do have

05:44:06.500 sex with him would otherwise would be in a relationship with you. But I also, I'm just

05:44:11.080 sharing my perspective, something that's analogous to your situation. Uh, I don't really believe in

05:44:17.440 waiting. I'm not saying it has to be the, like the first time we hang out, but if, uh, if I know a

05:44:26.280 girl I'm dealing with, like she, the last guy she dated her previous boyfriend, she hooked up with 0.78

05:44:32.540 him on the first or second date and you want to make me wait three months. I'm gonna be like,

05:44:36.460 I don't think she's all that interested. I don't think she has that desire. I feel it's a raw deal.

05:44:40.520 It's kind of like, I guess, let me ask you women this. Uh, and women do this a lot, by the way, 1.00

05:44:46.460 this is like a really consistent thing women do where you will have, and look, it's life's not fair, 0.99

05:44:52.900 right? Different people get different treatment. It is what it is. Um, how would you feel though?

05:44:59.820 If, uh, how's the best framing for this? Well, what's interesting is this sometimes with this,

05:45:05.960 this, uh, waiting for sex thing, you women will say, Oh, that guy wasn't serious. 1.00

05:45:12.500 So I gave him pussy right away. Like he was just for fun. Like I wasn't like, he was a jerk. He was an 1.00

05:45:19.620 asshole. Wait, so hold on. You reward, you reward the guy who we would argue was the least deserving 1.00

05:45:29.880 of sex. But now here, I'm the guy you want a long-term relationship with. Shouldn't, shouldn't

05:45:36.920 the guy that you want the long-term relationship with be the guy that you reward sexually?

05:45:42.300 Honestly, no, I, it's the thing. I don't really want a long-term relationship in general. Like I

05:45:49.460 don't, I don't like, it's the phenomenon I'm talking about here is that women will have one 1.00

05:45:58.060 night stands. Women will have friends with benefits. Uh, women will have, uh, you know, casual 0.98

05:46:03.620 sex and then they'll say, Oh, that guy, he was just casual. He was, um, uh, he was just for fun. 0.91

05:46:12.000 It wasn't, it wasn't anything serious. I don't, I didn't care about him, but I really care about

05:46:16.960 you. The guy who I want to have a long-term relationship with, we have to wait three months

05:46:21.620 and it seems so completely backwards. Like you shouldn't have given sex to this guy who was a 0.97

05:46:28.100 jerk or a dick or who you knew who, who was a fuck boy. I get that he was exciting and hot and 1.00

05:46:32.960 attractive, but, uh, you gave him sex. And here I am the guy who's prepared to give you commitment, 0.96

05:46:38.540 prepared to do all the things that like, uh, he wasn't it's, it's just, uh, this interesting

05:46:45.680 dynamic. It'd be the example I like to give is, um, imagine like a man who had a reputation

05:46:53.280 of spending. I know some women don't care that much about like gift giving or whatever, 1.00

05:46:58.740 or providing, but I think most women care about providing. So imagine a man who had a reputation 0.79

05:47:03.680 for spending obscene amounts of money on women. He had like no long-term interest in, but he just

05:47:10.300 wanted to fuck them. But then when he dates you, he says he won't spend a dime on you until you prove 1.00

05:47:17.440 yourself to him. Actually, I do see something. So from the, first of all, like starting with the

05:47:24.400 woman who does that, for instance, not, not me, but just a woman who would do that, like 0.72

05:47:29.680 hook up with a guy right away, but then he has to wait three months. That person who has to wait

05:47:35.760 three months, maybe she is studying him like as a person, because if they hooked up one day,

05:47:42.920 they might never meet again. So they might not know each other in future life. But in this instant,

05:47:48.420 if you want to like actually study a person, find out about what's his habits, what does he do? What

05:47:54.160 is he like, what are his intentions? If you're actually interested in like a long-term relationships.

05:48:00.920 So that way I would say those three months would be her essentially studying the person or him

05:48:09.860 studying her. Well, I mean, I just, okay. How about this? So the girls that I just see as just pure 0.98

05:48:18.220 fuck, let's assume that's the case. I don't like one night stands, but let's just say I was into that, 1.00

05:48:23.620 that I, that's just sex. I just want to fuck her once. I did all the extra shit. I bought her 1.00

05:48:31.100 flowers. I got her gifts. I took her out to a fancy dinner. And then when I come along and meet you,

05:48:37.880 the girl who I claim that I want something serious with, I want a relationship. I want to be boyfriend,

05:48:43.600 girlfriend. I take you to McDonald's and I never give you gifts. Wouldn't you as a woman be like, 1.00

05:48:49.300 hold on, I'm your, I'm your girlfriend. I should get the gifts, the trips, the vacation,

05:48:57.860 the nice dinner. You gave that to some fucking hoe. You gave that to a hoe and I'm your fucking 1.00

05:49:04.280 girlfriend. You women would be pissed. And I'm trying to say, that's kind of like, I don't know. 1.00

05:49:10.460 That's how I feel that. I think that's how men feel about this. I'm the guy here who wants to be your

05:49:15.500 boyfriend. And you want to, you want to give it away to fuck boy, the fuck boy. You want to give 1.00

05:49:22.120 it away to Sway Lee who just wants to fuck you and use you and who's got 20 other dudes, right? 1.00

05:49:29.200 Let me ask you a question. Would you fuck Sway Lee right away? You're 10. That's fucking crazy. 1.00

05:49:35.140 Would you fuck Sway Lee? Yeah. Okay. Do you think Sway Lee, be honest, Sway Lee, a fucking, 1.00

05:49:42.020 I don't think I've listened to this. Do you think the rapper Sway Lee is going to, wants to be your 0.98

05:49:48.860 boyfriend, girlfriend with you? I have to ask you. I think so. Okay. Do you think, look, I mean,

05:49:57.400 look, you're, you're an attractive gal, maybe, who knows? But like, I think these rappers,

05:50:01.380 they're kind of known for getting around a little bit. Like maybe that's only, you think, but, but like,

05:50:06.960 so, so Sway Lee, right? Right. Oh, wait, fuck. I lost. Oh my God. I had something so good, but I

05:50:13.920 just lost it. Um, it's okay. I need it. Shit. It was so good. It'll come back. Okay. Wait, wait,

05:50:20.380 wait. So I was asking, would you have sex with Sway Lee? Fuck. Oh my God. I lost it. I'm retarded. 0.99

05:50:27.020 Damn it. It's okay. Um, you wouldn't have sex quick with Sway Lee. What were you saying before 1.00

05:50:34.040 that? Well, you asked if he would get into a long-term relationship with me or not.

05:50:42.360 Yeah. Yeah. I don't think, I don't think he would. Well, maybe that's, you said because they're

05:50:47.800 rappers, they usually not, that's biased opinion. So you think that, you think Chris, you think a

05:50:54.360 girl like goes to fuck Chris Brown? Like she has, she's has an expectation. He's going to be loyal. 1.00

05:51:01.360 You think girls fuck rappers and athletes? Like they, they know what the deal is. They know what, 1.00

05:51:06.760 they know what the deal is. You never know though. Okay. You never know. Oh my God. I had such a

05:51:11.960 fucking good point. I hate myself. Oh my God. I'm, it was so good and I've completely lost it. 1.00

05:51:17.720 It was something about Sway, Sway Lee. And I was going to do some 0.99

05:51:20.920 damn, what was it? It's sorry. I could have a moment of silence. 0.96

05:51:27.800 I actually think you make a very good point though, to that, to that whole thing. Like,

05:51:37.620 cause I've done, I will say I've been that girl. I've done both. I've, I've withheld enough not

05:51:41.560 for extended periods of time. And actually to your point, kind of to study the person. And so maybe I

05:51:48.480 should really rethink my strategy here. I don't know. What if like, now I'm thinking of this,

05:51:57.620 like what if the girl, she's like, or guy, and it's like this in the beginning, they're hooking

05:52:04.020 up with these people and they're going on these one night stands. And then they meet this person

05:52:11.380 and they're like, after, no, let me backtrack. They go on these one night stands and then, then they're

05:52:17.700 like, wow, maybe I shouldn't be doing this. Maybe I should be trying to meet the right person. And they

05:52:24.820 meet this person. They're like, okay, I'm going to make them wait. What if it's like that?

05:52:30.680 Uh, so I think it is fair to have a, a change of approach so long as it's genuine. Uh, but I think that

05:52:39.000 it would be frustrating as a guy to encounter, for example, like, let's say I meet a girl and

05:52:44.700 I like her and she likes me and she makes me wait. And then I find out, uh, Oh, a week before

05:52:51.320 she met me, she fucked Sway Lee. And like, for example, I would be incredibly frustrated if I was 0.99

05:52:59.040 dating her, for example, and she's like, well, Brian, uh, you're a swell guy. And we're gonna,

05:53:04.240 uh, uh, we're, I don't know. I'm going to investigate you and, uh, we're gonna, we're

05:53:09.420 gonna wait six months and I'm going to feel you out. And, and then, uh, we can, you're

05:53:14.380 going to have to invest all this time and energy and take me on a date, take me on dates and

05:53:18.880 do all X, Y, Z and do all the cute boyfriend. Oh, you want to go, uh, fucking, uh, we go, um, 0.98

05:53:26.400 ice skating and all the fucking, Oh my God. Yeah. I'm going to ask. And then, and then 1.00

05:53:32.840 I find out, hold on Sway Lee. She fucks Sway Lee in the fucking an hour. She's, she's 1.00

05:53:39.900 some groupie backstage. It's a complete asynchronous. I don't even know what the fuck I'm trying to

05:53:49.900 say. Asynchronous. Something, whatever. Figure it out. And, uh, it would just be so off putting. 0.97

05:53:56.100 And I think a lot of women will move that way though. They'll be like, it would, I don't 1.00

05:54:01.220 know. It's fucked up. Y'all fucked up. That's crazy shit. I mean, y'all be, y'all be given 1.00

05:54:10.360 the guy, like, look, ultimately the point is I would say to you Sway Lee, I saw a photo

05:54:18.340 that. I don't know that fucking guy. This guy is probably for not very deserve. I don't 0.99

05:54:23.960 know if deserving is the right word here. This guy doesn't want to be your commit to

05:54:28.280 you. You're going to give him some pussy for, for, for nothing. You just, I don't know. 1.00

05:54:34.740 That's crazy. By the way, you can do better. Come on. What the fuck you weirdo. What's going

05:54:38.880 on in Russia? Y'all Russians are fucking, uh, there's not enough black guys in Russia. What 1.00

05:54:43.880 the fuck? She's, she sees one black guy, one, she sees one black dude and like all 1.00

05:54:50.380 she, she hasn't, she's never seen for 15 years. She lived in Russia and never saw a

05:54:54.320 black person. The first black guy she sees, she's going to fuck him. Right. It's crazy, 1.00

05:54:59.440 bro. Anyways, look, you could do way better by the way. Maybe try, you could try, um, I

05:55:05.180 don't know who's like, uh, chopper or something. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, someone of substance,

05:55:09.820 it's not like a finger. King Vaughn, King Vaughn is attractive. Look. King Vaughn is dead,

05:55:15.340 but he's attractive. Idris Elba. Talking about like on an attractiveness level, King Vaughn

05:55:22.760 is attractive. But like, imagine that, right? You're some, like, let's say you're some, like

05:55:27.400 a good guy and you see this striking Russian lady and you don't know that like the week before 1.00

05:55:33.540 she fucks Sway Lee, like, and like Sway Lee, like he's in, he's in his like fucking dressing 1.00

05:55:39.300 room or whatever before the show. And like, he's got a lot, he'd like some chicks like sucked 1.00

05:55:43.720 his dick right before. And then like Sway Lee comes on and he's off, he's fucking off of 1.00

05:55:48.920 the, what is it? The, the, the, the scissor or what do they call it? That's sorry. I'm a 0.97

05:55:54.660 fucking gen, I'm millennial. Uh, the lean. Yeah. The lean. Purple drink. Sway Lee's is off 1.00

05:56:01.080 the fucking lean. And he like with like a partially flaccid penis has sex with you because 1.00

05:56:06.880 he's on drugs. Right? So you can't even get fully erect. He like fucks you. And he's like, 1.00

05:56:11.780 get the fuck out bitch. And then that was, and then I have to be, I have to show up on 1.00

05:56:17.680 the night in shining armor. I have to show up with my chivalry and my horse and come and

05:56:24.060 I have to do all the fucking lame fucking simp boyfriend shit. And I got to wait three months 1.00

05:56:30.120 and then I found out y'all fuck Sway Lee. I did all this shit. I did all this shit. 1.00

05:56:38.000 Oh my gosh. I thought this woman was my, she was my, uh, she was my, what's the right term? 1.00

05:56:46.360 My diamond, my flower. And she fucked Sway Lee. I got to do all this shit. It's like, again, 0.99

05:56:53.920 I'll, I'll repeat the other one. Imagine a guy who he's like, I love you, babe. You're

05:57:00.180 the one I want to be with you. This, I could see this go in the distance. I, you're, you

05:57:05.700 could be the future wife of, uh, or mother of my kids. Like, I love you. Da, da, da, da,

05:57:10.680 da. And, uh, but then you find out, uh, but by the way, he never takes you on dates. He

05:57:17.600 doesn't give you gifts, whatever your love languages. I don't know. He doesn't seem all

05:57:22.620 that emotionally intelligent, blah, blah, blah, whatever. But then you find out he was

05:57:26.840 whatever the, your love language, whatever the things that you would want a guy to do, 0.96

05:57:30.500 he didn't really do much of them, but he did all of it just so he could hit some hood rat 1.00

05:57:37.040 once. Like imagine I'm just some fucking strumpet, you know, some, look, we got some classy women 1.00

05:57:43.380 here, very classy, right? Imagine some guy who's like, Oh yes, my dear, I'm going to 0.99

05:57:48.560 make love to you. Wow. No, that's sorry. That's was so cringe. I apologize. He's like, Oh my

05:57:55.580 dear, my dear. And then, you know, you find out that you like, he fuck some, like he, he 1.00

05:58:03.900 did all this shit. He, he got gifts and he spent money and he took some, some, some hood 1.00

05:58:08.540 rat to fuck in Hawaii. And like you, he never, Oh my, wouldn't you be upset? Okay. 0.99

05:58:15.800 Okay. No. So I actually, what's funny is that the guy that I was with for a year and a half,

05:58:21.220 that was like kind of the situation. I don't know what he did with his past relationships,

05:58:24.800 but, um, yeah, we never went on any dates or anything and he didn't really like, um,

05:58:31.280 recognize me as his partner for a really long time. But I was like, I'm going to do something

05:58:36.640 different. I really like you. I'm going to commit to you. And, you know, we're going

05:58:40.200 to, in my head, do the thing and I'm going to be exclusive with you. And like, we were

05:58:45.400 exclusive with each other, but there was none of that exchange. And ultimately like the dynamic

05:58:49.520 was fine. But at the end of the day, the reason we broke up is because he literally a

05:58:54.100 year and a half later after moving in with me, looked at me and said, yeah, I don't take

05:59:00.980 you seriously. And I was like, then why the fuck are you here? Like, what are you doing? 0.98

05:59:05.060 Why are you here? And then we broke up and then he was like, I, you're the woman that

05:59:08.440 I want to have my babies and you should be, oh, so happy. And I was like, this doesn't

05:59:12.420 make any sense. This is so confusing. So yeah, I mean, upset is how I did feel. So that's

05:59:21.040 valid.

05:59:22.220 Yeah. It's like, I don't know the guy who's like, oh, this could be the mother of my

05:59:26.540 children or this is, could be the girl I spend the rest of my life with. And he like, doesn't

05:59:31.420 do any of this nice shit for you. But then like the chick that he claims, he doesn't 0.99

05:59:35.660 really, whatever. She was just for fun. He did all this shit. Uh, we have some chats

05:59:40.420 coming through. I'm going to have you read this one. Okay. All right. Then we got blast

05:59:43.840 through a bunch of them. Should I read the name as well? Yeah. Ethan Williams, three, six,

05:59:48.300 nine, four donated a hundred dollars. Brian love the podcast. Um, keep up the good work

05:59:54.520 for the panel. Into the mic, into the mic. Oh, I'm sorry. Keep up the good work for the

05:59:58.080 panel. Is a guy with an ankle monitor slash felony, a turn off or a turn? Where was it?

06:00:04.000 Turn on. Doesn't matter what the felony is. So, okay. Would you, how about this? Would, uh,

06:00:09.060 maybe we can just do show of hands. Would you date a guy with a ankle monitor? Sorry. Like

06:00:15.700 on the house arrest? Yes. Is your current boyfriend? What did he do? Uh, well, he just got the ankle

06:00:23.700 monitor while I was already with him. Cause like you meet him, you meet him. You're single. You

06:00:28.640 meet him and he, you see the ankle monitor, which means he's like, you know, I'd probably

06:00:35.360 have some followup questions, but I feel like even if he has hands, do you guys want to show

06:00:39.940 your, was it just you? Just you? You would do it. You would do it. Okay. Only if it's tax fraud.

06:00:45.320 Only if it's tax fraud. There it is. All right. Um, here, read this one.

06:00:48.440 Oh, Minnesota. For 100th time on show, men only marry a wealthy woman, abolish marriage

06:00:55.400 and community property. It will fix dating. Let the gold dig go way of the dodo bird. Any

06:01:02.580 heiress out there, I'm available. No prenup. Yo, David. Good to see you, man. I haven't seen

06:01:07.180 you in a while. Uh, good to see you, man. Uh, yeah, I think that's a, that's a solution.

06:01:12.520 That's a solution. Also, I'm with you on the heiress thing. Yeah. Where's all these wealthy 1.00

06:01:17.120 women sliding into my DMs? You know, it's crazy, you know, not that I really care about 1.00

06:01:21.580 that, but you know, I don't really care about the money, you know? Okay. I have a question,

06:01:27.580 but are we still on like the same topic, the big brother, big bro. Yeah. We'll do one more

06:01:31.620 then we'll move it on. Okay. Do you think that someone who cheats on somebody can change and

06:01:38.960 not cheat in the future? Yeah. Logically, it's possible. Uh, but I think it's valid to

06:01:48.800 obviously end a relationship over cheating. Oh yeah, for sure. But I think, I think you can

06:01:53.400 forgive the person. Uh, me personally, it's an instant breakup. Like I would instantly break

06:02:03.160 up with her. Yeah. But, uh, I, and I wouldn't advise men to accept infidelity. Um, would you

06:02:12.300 advise women to accept it? No, I, well, I would say this, I would leave it up to your own preferences. 0.99

06:02:19.100 Um, as a woman, if you can forgive the man, that's fine. If you want to break up with him,

06:02:25.280 that's totally fine too. Um, but, uh, I, here's a difference. Okay. This is going to get me in some

06:02:32.640 hot water with you guys. Go ahead. I think, and when I say, I think, I mean, I know,

06:02:39.400 I believe this is going to sound bad, but whatever, I'll just, whatever. All right. Uh,

06:02:46.800 I think if a woman cheats, she can't love you anymore. I, I think that that is more an indictment 0.98

06:02:59.200 of the state of the relationship. I think if a man cheats here, I'll frame it like this. If a man

06:03:07.100 cheats, he can still love his woman. If a woman cheats, she does not love her man. 0.85

06:03:13.680 Do you think it would be different if the woman was cheating after the man had originally cheated 0.86

06:03:23.240 and she was just like, Oh, I'm going to get back at you. Do you think she can still love him then?

06:03:27.080 Or is it just, by the way, I'm, I, I'm speaking a bit in generalities. So I mean, like, is it

06:03:32.640 possible a woman could cheat and still be in love with? Yes. But I think more often than not, I think

06:03:39.400 that, uh, a man can cheat and Hey, by the way, he's a piece of shit for it. You shouldn't cheat. 1.00

06:03:44.780 It's wrong. But I think a man can cheat and still be in love with his girl. I don't know if that's

06:03:54.180 the case the other way around quite as often, but so, uh, what's the question? Can, um, can a woman 1.00

06:04:01.320 cheat in revenge and then, uh, yeah. Do you think she can still love the man if she's cheating in 0.94

06:04:07.980 revenge? Look for reconciliation, forgiveness is possible. Uh, I mean, I just think that's an L

06:04:19.300 though. No, it's an L for the woman to cheat. If he cheats either end the relationship or stay with 1.00

06:04:28.760 him, but cheating back, that just seems like an L for you. It is. It's totally an L for me. I think

06:04:36.460 you up to your count. Yeah, exactly. Well, like I should, no, I've never cheated like that. I mean,

06:04:42.080 it would be, it's, it's, it'll be hurtful to the guy. Like the guy doesn't want you to be sleeping

06:04:52.140 with other men, obviously. So your goal there is to hurt the man. So that's the, uh, that's the,

06:05:01.320 oh my God, bro. I think I have Alzheimer's and fucking dementia here. What is the fucking, 0.99

06:05:05.100 what is the word for catharsis? I don't know if that's the right word. Can you explain catharsis? 0.99

06:05:12.920 Like it would be people do relax and emotional release. People have a drive for revenge. Right.

06:05:21.320 And so there'd be a catharsis and getting revenge. Like, yeah, I guess like an impulse, like, and also

06:05:28.000 you, you also there's an impulse. You want to hurt the person that hurt you. Right. Yeah. So I

06:05:34.020 understand that impulse, but ultimately in terms of your standing, I just, just fucking some dudes. 0.99

06:05:41.840 I just, that seems like, yeah, it's like a double-edged sword. Like, okay, he's going to be hurt. 0.99

06:05:46.500 But like, that's just an L for the girl. Yeah. It's an L for the girl. Yeah, I agree. Yeah. It's 0.99

06:05:55.220 almost like, for example, like if this is kind of niche, but I've heard women say they fucked a guy 1.00

06:06:02.020 to get revenge on him. Like it was a hate fuck. And I'm like. On the guy she's fucking? No, no, 1.00

06:06:07.780 no. Like she's, say she's single. Okay. And there's a guy that she really doesn't like. And

06:06:13.020 she's like, I'll show him. I'll fuck him. I'm like, where are you meeting these women? 1.00

06:06:19.320 I'm like, that's not a W for you. Like you gave him a W kind of. Unless she has an STD or something.

06:06:24.600 Unless she had herpes. Yeah. But I'm like, that's not the win you think it is. That's

06:06:30.500 an L. How is that a win at all? You gotta explain. What the fuck? Maybe you girls can tell 1.00

06:06:36.020 me. Like what's it? Like a spite fuck? I don't know. You know what I mean? No? I would

06:06:41.540 never fuck somebody to spite them. It's a blessing. You know what I mean? A spite fuck? Who's done 0.99

06:06:45.920 a spite fuck? You must have like a really like problem. You spite fucked? She raised her hand 1.00

06:06:51.900 everything. Oh. I don't know. I've heard, I've heard girls say this. It's a spite fuck. Multiple? 1.00

06:06:58.340 Multiple. No, just, I don't know. Multiple girls? How about pity fuck? Was she like, like, 1.00

06:07:04.840 like maybe, how about this? It could be like, uh, I don't know if this would even be like,

06:07:10.000 how about this? She slept with him and then assuming that she thought that the guy had a long-term 1.00

06:07:17.820 interest in him, but she wanted to play with his mind. She fucked him once and then discarded him. 1.00

06:07:23.700 Oh, okay. That makes a little bit more sense. So like the guy's kind of all like bummed out 1.00

06:07:28.120 because he didn't get the girl. Like, well, he slept with her, but he didn't keep her. But I mean,

06:07:32.460 he fucked her. It's a win either way. He still kind of won. Yeah. Like still hit. Still hit. 1.00

06:07:37.320 Still hit. Literally. So, I don't know. This is, I don't know. Wait, what did we have next?

06:07:43.040 Marry the bow? All right. Yeah. Let's do the bow. So, okay. Somebody, you were asking me what I

06:07:49.120 wanted a woman. I took a video. I actually, I'm very autistic about when I'm dating women. Uh, 0.92

06:07:54.800 so I actually, of a girl I used to date knowing that I would eventually break up with her. I took

06:08:00.860 a video of her doing what I want her to do so I could show my future girlfriends get in line, 1.00

06:08:10.300 like get, get with the program. Oh my. This isn't like, not like a line, like a,

06:08:15.260 a line of people, like get in line, get it with the program. So it's like an instruction video,

06:08:23.240 you know, because I think sometimes women do better with, um, you know, like a visual aid. 1.00

06:08:30.860 Sometimes just saying the words isn't enough. You have to show them. You have to demonstrate.

06:08:35.360 So, okay, go ahead. Play the video. This is my ex-girlfriend. Uh, I show this to all future

06:08:39.740 girlfriends. That's so crazy. Huge bow. You see the depth, submissive hand posture. She has to bow. 1.00

06:08:47.180 As soon as I walk through the door after a long podcast recording session, I need a bow.

06:08:53.480 Is this a skit? This is a hundred percent real, of course. So she has to have my dinner ready,

06:09:00.200 dinner ready. Of course I'm taking care of everything, my apartment, whatever. She has to

06:09:04.080 have my dinner ready, has to crack open a beer for me. And, um, even mix up your noodles. Look

06:09:11.520 does that too. Get ready to play one more time. Nope. Pull it back up. She could have mixed the 0.97

06:09:14.820 noodles a little better. Pull it back up and then play. Just play. Boom. Nice. The bow. The bow's

06:09:23.800 the big thing. All that other shit, whatever. That's bare minimum, bare minimum. The bow. She's 1.00

06:09:30.340 got a bow. Cultural appropriation. Oh, the bow. Who had the decision? Was you the bow? Yeah. You had the

06:09:35.040 disagreement with the bow. Okay. We'll do, we'll get into that. Uh, yeah. So I, I believe in cultural

06:09:39.160 appropriation. You know what? Fuck that. I believe in cultural reinvigoration. I don't

06:09:48.860 think that's the right word. I would need an elaboration. What? So historically, you know,

06:09:55.140 you might say, well, that's a Asian thing. The bowing thing. That's Asian culture. Back 1.00

06:10:00.460 in the day in Western culture, I am realiving. Am I just reliving? Is something wrong with

06:10:10.380 me? Re-Renaissance? Hello? Renaissance? No. Uh, what, what, what's the thing with a 0.99

06:10:19.160 phoenix? We need a time with rebirth? Rebirth? Rebirth? Reincarnate? Rebirth? What do phoenixes

06:10:25.760 do? Rise from the ashes? The bow was part of Western culture historically. I'm bringing it

06:10:33.480 back. Revive. Revive? Revive. I'm reviving. That's like in every video game. It's not even

06:10:38.300 cultural appropriation. I'm just, cultural revival. Cultural revival. Okay. So yes, I expect

06:10:44.740 she happened to be Asian. What about curtsy? She happened to be Asian. She has to be Asian, 0.81

06:10:49.520 I think. Nah, I don't like curtsy. I don't like a curtsy. What does it signify, like, culturally?

06:10:55.240 Oh, I don't know, culturally, but, uh, it, it's a show of respect. Oh, okay. It's a show

06:11:02.740 of respect. And in today's day and age, you know, it's, it's, it's often kind of hard to

06:11:08.120 meet a woman who will respect you on that level. Do you not believe that, uh, do you not believe

06:11:18.580 that a woman can respect you without bowing to you? She can, but it's better if she bows. 1.00

06:11:26.060 It's just his preference. I get it. What's that song from, is it Panic at the Disco?

06:11:32.920 Lying is the most fun a girl can have without taking off her clothes, but it's better if she does. 1.00

06:11:41.660 I have no idea what you're talking about. I don't know. Whatever. I don't know. I'm forgetting.

06:11:45.740 Look, I'm just saying, I'm just saying, I, so who, who would anybody who would bow for a man? 0.98

06:11:51.860 Yeah. You would bow, bow, no, bow, you would bow, bow. Uh. Just the bow. Just, just, just the bow.

06:11:58.580 I don't see the big deal. That's the thing. Like, if. Yeah, it's nothing. All right, will you bow back?

06:12:03.680 Women were to getting on their knees to, you shouldn't have to, and then you can find somebody 1.00

06:12:09.000 else who doesn't, who doesn't want that. I think I, I bow emotionally to a man. I don't

06:12:13.960 know if I would bow physically to a man. Do you get on your knees and do whatever? That's

06:12:18.500 the same. I would do anything for a man. Would you do it? You have a valid point. If he,

06:12:22.640 my husband asked to like try, I would try it, but if it. Reluctant. It would be a reluctant

06:12:28.220 bow. If it didn't really work out, then I would hope that he would be willing to find another

06:12:32.560 way. Wait, quick callback. It's not begrudging blowjob. I mean, it could be, but it's reluctant.

06:12:38.600 That's so long ago. Reluctant. Also bad. Sorry, continue. I didn't.

06:12:42.720 Oh my God. So old. I feel like only if I wanted to like bow, like if someone's making

06:12:51.640 me bow, I'm like, no. Yes. So I agree with you. I don't like, this, this isn't some like

06:12:57.180 domination thing where like, I've got, you know how like you got to break a horse. I

06:13:03.460 don't want to do, no, you want to do it. That's, you want to do all this shit. That's how it 1.00

06:13:10.380 should be. You know, it's like with a blowjob, like it's like the woman, like it's bad. Look 1.00

06:13:16.620 if she does it and you know, she does it. Well, no, I don't want it out of obligation or duty.

06:13:23.180 You should, you need the dick. Yeah. You need the dick. Like you need to suck the dick. All 1.00

06:13:29.560 right. Really quick though. Or, or even for sex. It's not like, well, I guess I'm going

06:13:33.960 through the motions that is expected to me in a relationship. No, like you need my dick in and 1.00

06:13:40.780 around your vagina. Like you need the dick. You need the dick. Not just you want the dick. You 1.00

06:13:45.860 need the dick. You said head, not vagina. I got to clarify. I got to make, I got to keep things 1.00

06:13:52.860 clear. Like, I don't know y'all look if the girl, look, I'm the girl's got to have some enthusiasm

06:13:59.140 about it. Like if the girl's on the fence, like fish, like the girl doesn't even have

06:14:06.820 to do much, but she's got to, whatever it is that we're doing, she's got to want, like

06:14:10.600 she got to be enthusiastic. Consent. I think maybe like the ladies that are like married 1.00

06:14:17.280 and long-term committed relationships here can relate to this. Cause you were like, yes,

06:14:22.440 I'll do that. But you're also mentioned that you're super obsessed with your husband, which

06:14:26.640 is beautiful. So you'll do anything. So like maybe, and you as well, maybe you guys can relate

06:14:32.700 to that, but I don't know. I've never, I've never ever been in a, with a man that made me want to

06:14:39.420 bow to him. A lot of times I'm like, does the guy bow back? Is that, I would never allow, I would

06:14:45.660 never allow my man to bow to me. I would never allow that. Absolutely not. I have a question.

06:14:51.600 Is it about the bow? Yeah, kind of. Can I have my man tip his little hat? Cause that's

06:14:57.060 an old cultural thing. Like a fucking fedora. Yeah. Like a little, like a little, my lady, 1.00

06:15:05.320 madam. Nah. No. That's lame. That's lame. Of course not. Do we need like a time machine

06:15:13.200 at this point? Because we're going back, back, back in history. But it's culturally respecting

06:15:17.320 people. I mean, I think the equivalent of that is men opening the doors for you. Yeah.

06:15:21.760 Men like doing shivers acts for you. I agree. Fedoras are gay. Nobody wears hats anyway, 1.00

06:15:25.560 you know. If men are wearing fedoras these days, they're probably a little fruity. Okay.

06:15:29.420 Yeah. All right. So big bro Brian. I was going to say big bro. I don't know. Look, so wait,

06:15:34.220 who would bow for the man? No? No bow? I really think it's dependent. Like if a man like was. 0.97

06:15:40.320 If he asked you? I think if he was a manly man assertive enough and I was like, oh my God, yes.

06:15:48.800 And he was, I don't know. I've never really met a man that just made me, I don't know, all like

06:15:54.720 that level of submissive. I want to be, but I've never met that guy. Yeah. He has yet to show up

06:16:01.740 within my existence. So who knows? Maybe. I don't know. If I was with, if I was with a man and like,

06:16:09.300 I, cause if I was with him, I would want to be with him. I would want to do those things for him.

06:16:14.580 I would want to be submissive to him. I would want to make him happy and do anything I can to

06:16:20.020 satisfy and please him. So. Yeah. Meeting your man on top of the, in front of the door with just

06:16:27.240 lingerie is more submissive than just bowing to him. Did you not say that? No, because I think you

06:16:35.660 could, I think the bow is more submissive because like women wearing lingerie, they just 1.00

06:16:42.940 go out into public basically wearing lingerie. No, like just to meet you. Like, you know what I

06:16:48.940 mean? Like, I mean, that would be sexy. I don't know if it would be, but to submit like, you know,

06:16:53.280 like also who cares about a lingerie? I mean, if he wants me naked 300 times, you think, oh my God,

06:16:58.980 she's in a lingerie. I'm so. What if she bows to you a hundred times? It's the hundred and first

06:17:03.040 maybe a maid outfit. If she's in a maid outfit, then we can talk, but a lingerie, that's so vanilla.

06:17:08.960 Oh my God. Lingerie. Okay. Then change it to the maid outfit. Go wear a maid outfit or maybe, 1.00

06:17:14.520 I don't know what else. What's another outfit she could wear? What if he wants me to like greet

06:17:17.920 him at the door and like a maid outfit and bow to him? Like that would be like perfect. 0.99

06:17:22.840 Mega. That's good. Go for it. You should do it. Look, I'm just saying maybe the women, 1.00

06:17:26.720 you should just give it a shot. Try it. I've done it. I prefer my husband to come in and give

06:17:33.380 me a kiss and I have his laundry done. I have dinner ready. I have everything ready, but I'd

06:17:39.000 rather come home and feel like a connection as opposed to like my superior. And I guess that's

06:17:47.880 where I have that disconnect with the bow is to me. It's a respect. It's like a superior thing as

06:17:52.480 opposed to like, I'm fine with her thinking I'm the superior. Do you not think your man is superior

06:17:58.700 to you? Oh no, he is. I mean, he's my, he's the breadwinner. He's like the caretaker for the house

06:18:04.920 and everything. It's just, I also want our kids to see us connect because eventually it's just going

06:18:11.840 to be the two of us again. I got to, we got to stay connected for us. You know what I mean?

06:18:16.920 So I think the dynamic of the race, the relationship goes beyond the bow. So let's say your kids see

06:18:22.920 the bow. They're not just going to see that. They're also going to see like the way mommy and

06:18:26.260 daddy talk to each other. It's like, it's not just, it's just one small aspect. Yeah. And I see the

06:18:32.280 point of it. Like, it's not that I like totally disagree with it. It's more probably just not for me.

06:18:39.060 Curious. Yeah. It's odd. I know. Hey, look, it is, uh, definitely culturally peculiar. Yeah. Uh,

06:18:47.200 perhaps in and of itself, it's a bit peculiar. Well, I don't think so, but I see how other people

06:18:52.380 would see it that way. I did remember something else I disagreed with you on too, though. Yeah.

06:18:56.280 But I'm also like, not an, like in some ways I'm very normal, but in other ways I'm,

06:19:02.740 I go about things a special way. I'm special. I'm special. Honestly, about that, about that.

06:19:11.080 I'm a special guy. I think I have my witnesses, but you said that she does not have to be Asian, 0.99

06:19:16.620 but then I have witnesses that you did mention Asians and that if we were importing, um, like

06:19:23.340 young Asian women, then that would be a very good plus. And then the lady in the video also was Asian. 1.00

06:19:30.000 So that's, I do think that she has to be Asian for you. No. So, well, okay. So, um, like you've 1.00

06:19:38.080 seen episodes or something or no, but where were you pulling the, you heard, you heard something

06:19:44.320 like you said, you said ABG before. Well, yeah, no, I did say that, but was there something like

06:19:49.820 from a previous episode that you honestly or no, I might've, yeah, I think like from one of the ones

06:19:57.880 I saw, I was kind of getting at that. So I mean, I like it. I like Asian women. I like white women. 1.00

06:20:03.160 I like Latino women. Um, yeah. But I think it's, it's still like 99% that she has to be Asian. No, 1.00

06:20:11.900 no, no. No. I mean, look, I, uh, 80, 89. No, I honestly, I probably have like a, don't get me wrong.

06:20:21.560 I think Asian women are very attractive. I think, uh, there can, I mean, it depends a little 1.00

06:20:26.760 bit. There can be certain general personality traits or alignments that manifests itself more

06:20:35.000 so in Asian women, uh, whether they're like Asian or Asian American, even, uh, more so than like 1.00

06:20:42.900 your typical white woman, I guess. But I'd say my preference is more, is actually more towards white 1.00

06:20:49.560 women. But that's not to say that I don't find Asian women also very attractive, uh, Latina women 1.00

06:20:56.160 also quite attractive. Uh, also Italians who you have mistaken as Latina women, Italians are also 0.99

06:21:04.960 attractive. Just want to clear, break the ice. Good talk. Um, but, uh, I don't know. Uh, white, Asian, 0.99

06:21:17.300 um, I think, uh, yeah, they're all good. Latina. Would you say that, um, Asian girls have 1.00

06:21:26.900 more of like the education of your preference? So like education, I mean, they are more probably

06:21:34.780 more willing to, I don't know, bow. Yeah. So yeah, it could, yeah, I think it could be the

06:21:41.560 case. Or, I mean, Asian American women are pretty much white women. Like they're, I mean, it depends, 1.00

06:21:51.160 like, are their parents first generation immigrants? Like, uh, I'm just thinking for some reason,

06:22:00.000 I don't see a Latina bowing to anyone. Like, I don't either. I mean, I'll just say this. I've had 1.00

06:22:08.240 white, Asian, and Latina women. Bow to you. Hit the bow. Hit the bow. But you made them, 1.00

06:22:14.260 you probably had to like ask her a couple of times.

06:22:18.960 Hmm. Well, it's hard because I'm in this kind of unique position where, uh, I don't know, for the

06:22:24.140 past three, four years or whatever, since I started the podcast, uh, my dating circumstances

06:22:28.880 are kind of unique. So like girls come to me. I'm not saying that's a brag. That's just,

06:22:35.400 I have no, I, I mean, just, I mean, I've shot my shot with girls in that time period too, but, um,

06:22:43.420 most men can't source from women coming to them, uh, because of my somewhat peculiar circumstances of 0.99

06:22:50.480 being out there on the internet and girls do come to me and just like, you guys have had that shit 0.98

06:22:56.000 on lock for a long time and it's way better. Like, it's just way better to be the, I don't know if 0.98

06:23:02.620 chooser is the right word, but like you just have, I, you won't like the framing of this, but you have

06:23:09.520 more leverage. If the person's coming to you, you can dictate the terms. You want to be with me?

06:23:15.680 Here's how it's going to be. But if I match with a girl on Tinder,

06:23:23.700 I'm not getting the bow. I might be able to get the bow, but probably not getting the bow. Like

06:23:30.840 if I match with a girl on Tinder or like I approach some girl at a bar club, it's going to be, 0.99

06:23:35.980 I don't have the leverage there. Maybe down in the relationship.

06:23:39.260 Will you bow for your billionaire girlfriend?

06:23:41.240 I was just going to say. Yeah, sure. Yeah. In a maid outfit? Billionaire.

06:23:48.900 No, that'd be humiliation. I wouldn't do that. Actually, wait, would I wear a dress?

06:23:55.880 For like a fucking billionaire? Fuck. Hold on. Let me think about this. 1.00

06:23:59.560 How far are you going to be?

06:24:00.480 I'm really against like humiliating. Hold on. I'm really against like humiliation or degradation

06:24:05.100 stuff in either direction. Like if I'm dating a girl, like, I don't know. Y'all are into some crazy

06:24:10.660 shit. Like girls, y'all want to be, you guys want to be spit on and called fucking whores 1.00

06:24:14.760 and sluts and like, I don't know, all this crazy shit. Um, and I, I am not into either 1.00

06:24:22.860 direction degradation. Like certainly for me, like that's a hundred percent no go. Um,

06:24:28.320 it's kind of boring. I wear a fucking dress. That's boring. What? 1.00

06:24:31.340 What the fuck? Damn, what the fuck are you equal? Damn, these 18 year old girls, they 1.00

06:24:35.940 want to fucking be degraded and shit. That's crazy. No, it's just like boring. If you said 1.00

06:24:41.300 they're both equal, like they both like, I don't know, like respect each other all the

06:24:47.660 time. And they're like, I don't know. Oh, I'll roast a girl. Like my girlfriend, I'll 1.00

06:24:52.140 playfully roast her. I might call her retarded if she does something retarded, but like, it's 1.00

06:24:58.340 never, like, it's never with, uh, like a malicious intent or, well, it's not even malicious,

06:25:03.760 but like, I don't want to degrade a girl, especially in the bedroom. Even if she wants 1.00

06:25:09.300 it though. Okay. So here I'll give, I'll give a caveat here. So I believe actually this

06:25:15.320 isn't somebody notes, somebody's notes that we'll get to. Uh, I do believe that. Okay.

06:25:22.900 So for example, um, say this, I'm not sadistic, right. In terms of like BDSM or

06:25:29.400 whatever. Okay. If, damn, this girl, this girl's, you should, okay. Send us your BDSM 1.00

06:25:36.380 test score or whatever. Um, but, uh, if a girl wants, uh, is turned on by like choking or 1.00

06:25:48.920 some pain, I think even though it does nothing for like, it wouldn't be something I seek out.

06:25:55.120 It doesn't do anything inherently for me to be sadist. So she's a masochist. Uh, I have 0.63

06:26:01.460 no interest in being a sadist or whatever. Um, there are, I think in furtherance of, for

06:26:07.560 the sake of the pleasure of your partner, there are some things I think, even if you're not

06:26:12.220 into it for them, uh, I think you can do it. And if it turns them on, that can be to some

06:26:17.480 degree pleasing to yourself, right? If it's exciting for them, turns them on. I think part

06:26:22.500 of being in a relationship would be, um, maybe it doesn't do something for you, but you love

06:26:28.240 them and it does something for them within reason though. Like I'm never going to draw

06:26:32.300 blood from my partner. I'm not going to cut my partner. So I'm not going to do gunplay

06:26:37.060 with my partner. I'm not going to do knife play with my partner. I'm not going to, she wants

06:26:41.460 to be tied up. Sure. Uh, that can actually be a bit fun, I guess. Um, but like she, I don't know,

06:26:47.760 she wants to be like hit hard. No abuse. No, won't do it. I don't care if it's her kink, 1.00

06:26:54.900 if it's her turn on, uh, there's some guys or, uh, there, there's some, uh, guardrails that

06:27:03.740 I just, even if she wants it, I won't do it. Even if she consents, I won't do it.

06:27:08.980 Um, it's kind of a liability too, especially like if a guy, especially as a guy, like if you're a

06:27:16.160 nobody, you're some dude and some chick wants to do CNC. I mean, Oh, well, hold on.

06:27:21.340 That's why it's called CNC though. What is that? If you're a guy who has anything going on in his

06:27:26.260 life under no circumstance, should you ever do CNC? Even if you have a contract, even if like, uh,

06:27:33.340 you have it on video, she's saying, yes, I want to do CNC under no circumstance. Should you ever do

06:27:39.800 it? Or should you do rough, like really rough shit with a girl? You have way too much to lose as a 1.00

06:27:45.480 guy. Now, if you're some fucking nobody bomb, you still shouldn't do CNC, but like rough stuff, 0.99

06:27:50.760 I guess you can do, but it's just a massive liability for men to, um, placate women's. 1.00

06:27:56.420 I don't want to kink shame, but like placate your sort of demented sexual fetishes and kinks. 1.00

06:28:03.840 What is CNC? Consensual non-consent. Oh, so like fake rape. Yeah. Oh, sorry. 0.94

06:28:11.700 It's okay. Um, it's yeah. So I think, uh, I think they're just at least, I don't know.

06:28:20.660 You said if they have preference, that's okay. But what if their preference are just very weird?

06:28:28.440 Like what? Oh my gosh. Like feet? Like what? What's your, what's your thing? Oh,

06:28:32.840 ew. Oh no. Okay, hold on. I just, I just remember. Do you have a thing? No, no, no, no. It's okay.

06:28:36.920 I just remember something. This is a safe space. I just remember something. I had this one guy,

06:28:42.120 but that was like back in Russia and we literally just met and he was like, can you like kiss me in my

06:28:49.340 ear? And I was like, I was like, what? Like in the ear? Yeah. Yeah. Like kiss my ear. Like actually

06:28:55.560 in the ear. Yeah. Cause I, the, the ear lobe is fine. The ear lobe's fine. Like actually in the

06:29:01.800 ear. I was like, what? And he was like, yeah, that's like my thing. I was like, um, I was like

06:29:09.600 with your tongue. Yeah. Oh, and he would like repeatedly say that. I was like, I mean, was there earwax?

06:29:18.260 Oh, like if there's a, if there was a taste, I was like, that's the only, I was like, now

06:29:29.260 I'm thinking about it. I don't know why I just thought of it, but it was just so weird. Like

06:29:33.440 who has that? Did you do it? Girl. Did you do it as wild? It's okay. I've done it too. She

06:29:40.500 so did it. She so did it. But you won't bow? You'll stick your tongue in his ear, but 0.94

06:29:46.900 not bow? What the fuck? 1.00

06:29:49.220 All right. Um, here, let's, we need a blast. Oh, let's do, well, I got to wait until everybody's 1.00

06:29:57.640 back to do the, we got to do like the images and then we're going to do, I'm going to do

06:30:02.880 some of the show notes. Okay. Levi's gone. Enya, uh, Enya going to your notes. Uh, you married

06:30:07.860 your husband after, damn man, we, we just got into so much. Yeah. Uh, you married your 1.00

06:30:18.640 husband after only three months. That's right. Been together five years going strong. Almost.

06:30:23.240 A little over four. Yeah. Oh, what? Oh, my notes are all, wait. A little over four. It's

06:30:33.560 been four since December. Damn. I had more notes for you, but they didn't get saved. I 1.00

06:30:38.200 don't know why. Didn't, didn't you have, aren't you describe yourself as like a reformed hoe? 0.98

06:30:43.040 I, yeah. What, how so? I used to be a liberal feminist whore and no, no. And then I converted 1.00

06:30:50.400 like slowly towards a more conservative. When you say whore, like what were you doing? Like 0.99

06:30:56.340 fucking around, like, like, you know, like dick hopping. Like I was really. Cock carousel. Yeah. 1.00

06:31:05.120 It was bad. Do not do that. You guys are so gay. Why do you think you did that? Because 1.00

06:31:10.560 I like, I grew up in the culture of like feminism and the culture of like, this is okay. You're

06:31:17.320 free body, you know, like go for it. And obviously I went to a liberal college. So like everyone

06:31:23.060 around me was doing it. Not an excuse. Cause it's like my decisions, you know, I make my

06:31:27.200 decisions. No one else does. So you gotta like take these into consideration. But yeah, like

06:31:32.280 you, I was doing that just to, because everyone else was, you know. For a second. Okay. Okay.

06:31:37.260 I get the fact that you were probably like young, but you said you converted. How was it?

06:31:41.740 No, no. I'm not converted. How was there a conversion? No, I said like I, around 2020, especially

06:31:46.740 around like the, the BLM stuff. Like I, I really had like a lot more time to like reflect, you

06:31:52.660 know, look at other sources. And like a little later, like that was the, when I met my husband.

06:31:56.980 So like I moved in with him and I, I just got a little bit more separate from all those

06:32:01.100 like liberal influences. And I just had time to like really self reflect and, you know,

06:32:06.860 look, look at like other things because a lot of what I was seeing was my own liberal ideas.

06:32:13.400 I didn't really even know what I was defending. Like, what was I like believing in? What was

06:32:17.980 I acting under morally? Okay. So there was a whole like reflection process that took a long

06:32:24.380 time. Then, you know. So you had a wild college phase. Yeah. You said you went wild in college. It

06:32:30.980 was part of your journey. Yep. Journey. Sure. And you're a reformed hoe. You made mistakes. You made 1.00

06:32:39.560 bad decisions. You take responsibility for those actions. And let's see, you, you said that you lost

06:32:50.960 your virginity before your first kiss. Totally true. How old were you? 19. Okay. And then what's

06:32:58.200 the quick story there? So the guy that I was talking to, like, I, I just went right from like,

06:33:05.500 you know, living a very like Filipino, like don't do anything. Like I was very like shut in. 1.00

06:33:11.560 Catholic. Yeah. Yeah. And so I, when I got to college, I just went crazy because I finally had

06:33:16.360 freedom that like a couple months later, like, you know, like, all right, like I'm going to have sex

06:33:21.380 because that's like, you know, what I just did. And then the guy though, he was like, I don't really

06:33:27.200 kiss girls who are not my girlfriend. So we had like, we had set up a rule not to kiss and I accepted 0.87

06:33:34.700 that. And then like a couple months later, like that's when I had my first kiss with a different

06:33:40.120 guy, a different guy. But that guy, did you continue seeing him like hooking up with him?

06:33:45.220 I only hooked up with him. So I hooked up with him a couple of times throughout college. And then

06:33:51.240 like once after, cause it was like, just like throughout years, but only a total, I think of

06:33:56.460 like three times, four times. That's kind of, is that a bit of a W for the guy? I don't know.

06:34:03.820 Sure. Like, I feel like that would be a, I was hitting a lot of L that's like a achievement.

06:34:10.780 Try to have sex with a girl without kissing her. Oh no, that's actually kind of normal. 0.99

06:34:16.740 Really? Yeah. Like, yeah. If you're like not into the person I've heard multiple times,

06:34:23.160 like we didn't even kiss, but we were fucking, I've heard it from a couple of my friends.

06:34:28.620 Well, I think it can be, maybe this might be normal. You kiss initially, but then you 0.93

06:34:33.980 kind of not, don't kiss as much. Yeah. I would feel disrespected. Disrespected. Well, how

06:34:41.100 can you, well, I guess you would have to be a missionary to kiss, but a lot of people don't 0.79

06:34:46.060 like that. Well, even working up to like foreplay or whatever, but. Yeah. But how are you going

06:34:50.720 to kiss somebody when there's stuff in your mouth? Okay. All right. Um, I don't know.

06:34:57.800 I think, uh, by the way, is it a deal breaker if a guy won't go down on you? No. Is it a

06:35:06.620 deal breaker? Probably. Yeah. I mean, probably not. Into the mic. I'd ask some questions might

06:35:16.680 be a deal breaker. Okay. No. Long term, possibly. I'd be like, why? What's wrong? Interesting.

06:35:26.540 Okay. What about you? Okay. What about you? Into the mic, please. If they want you to give

06:35:35.100 them like fellatio, then I assume that, um, you would probably be receiving it. And if 0.99

06:35:42.120 not, then yeah, that would be a deal breaker. Not a deal breaker. But if the guy didn't want

06:35:48.120 it, would it not be a deal breaker? Yeah. I mean, I think if it's like mutual, then I

06:35:52.160 can respect that. I mean, I think it's, I think it's, we're not going to linger on this

06:35:57.840 topic too long just for sake of time, but, and I've also explained my position a whole

06:36:01.820 bunch, but. Yeah. Yeah. That's kind of like good on our brains right now. I don't know.

06:36:07.340 I think it's, uh, I don't think it has to be tit for tat. I don't think it has to be tit

06:36:17.180 for tat, but occasional tat. Oh, I mean, do you eat puss? Damn. Uh, so, oh boy, I don't 0.97

06:36:28.520 even want to, my explanations always take so long here. Let me just read my notes on

06:36:32.840 it. Cause I don't even want to linger too long. It's just a yes or no question. Uh, hold on.

06:36:38.820 So, okay, look, I'll just be honest. So look, I actually highly value pleasing women and women

06:36:47.160 women's pleasure. I'll do anything. I'll do anything for love, but I won't do that. I

06:36:54.940 won't do that. Um, but like, look, I want the girl to come first. I want her to come multiple 0.99

06:37:00.640 times. I want her to come. I want her to enjoy it, but oral sex. I don't, it's, you might think 1.00

06:37:08.640 why he likes big labia. That doesn't make any sense. I just, it's not a really my thing.

06:37:13.380 Okay. I think that's fine. Maybe on Valentine's day after our 10 year anniversary. Why 10 year

06:37:24.620 anniversary? I'll do it once and then never again. I'll blow her mind and she'll, she'll 0.99

06:37:29.720 be, she'll be looking forward to it on our 10 year anniversary. And then she'll be thinking

06:37:34.600 about it for the rest of our time together. I have so many questions. Uh, I'll narrow it

06:37:39.860 down to one, which is just why, like you just don't like it. Like you're not good at

06:37:45.620 it. Like it's submissive of you to go down. So I'm just read off my notes. Otherwise I'm

06:37:52.260 going to meander way too much. Okay. So I'm not grossed out by pussy. Love pussy. The bigger, 1.00

06:37:58.100 the bigger the pussy, the better. Well, the labia anyways, not, not like looser, but the pussy 1.00

06:38:04.140 lips. I love pussy. Big fan. Uh, so okay. Not grossed out by pussy. That's one. I'm not 1.00

06:38:11.620 scared of pussy either. Some people think I'm scared of the pussy, not scared of the pussy. 1.00

06:38:15.740 Hold on. How do I call it like pussy phobia? Pussy phobia. Uh, okay. So I'm going to break 1.00

06:38:21.720 down my seven arguments. I'm going to try to do them as quick as possible. Uh, oral sex 0.86

06:38:25.920 is the leading risk factor for throat cancer in men. What the fuck? Men are four times as likely 1.00

06:38:31.920 as women to develop throat cancer. Uh, Michael Douglas, famous actor, motherfucker, got throat 0.99

06:38:37.520 cancer. That dude was eating a bunch of pussy in the seventies and eighties, maybe nineties 1.00

06:38:42.680 too. Um, so boundaries, boundaries, number two, reason number two boundaries, men are allowed 1.00

06:38:49.060 to have sexual boundaries just like women are. Um, and yeah, um, I think that's perfectly reasonable

06:39:00.260 boundary to have women can, if a woman doesn't want to do it, that that's fine. It's better 1.00

06:39:05.060 if she does, but, um, boundaries, boundaries. Uh, I also think this isn't so much a reason,

06:39:12.500 but it's just something I like to point out hypocrisy. I think there's a clear double standard

06:39:16.860 in terms of how sexual boundaries are respected depending on the gender. I think if, uh, you

06:39:23.420 guys, well, actually you guys were, I don't know, maybe deep inside your head, you're like, 0.86

06:39:27.520 this guy's gay. Um, I've had times where women just dogpile me. Cause I, I say, I don't do 1.00

06:39:33.700 it. Actually. I had some girl who was on the show previously. She saw a clip. She's, she

06:39:38.300 saw a recent podcast where this topic came up and she got all butthurt about it. I'm not,

06:39:44.040 this is not a girl I'm dating or whatever. She was like, eat it. DM to me, eat it. And I 0.95

06:39:49.980 was like, imagine I was like thinking, I was like, she would probably be really upset if 0.99

06:39:53.860 like some girl was like, Hey, listen, um, I just don't really enjoy doing oral sex. 1.00

06:39:58.960 She'd be like, Whoa, that's really like some dude DM to her like suck dick. I feel like 1.00

06:40:05.300 there's a bit of a double standard there. I think if a woman was sitting here and she's 1.00

06:40:09.720 like, yeah, I don't suck. Well, she was going about it as diplomatically and politely as I 0.85

06:40:14.960 was. She was like, I don't, she said she didn't suck dick. You'd be like, yes, queen. Oh my 1.00

06:40:19.720 God. I'm so, you're so cute or whatever the girls do. Um, you'd be like, yes, queen slay 1.00

06:40:25.900 queen. Um, but I think you guys would be super bent out of shape if you like overheard some 0.99

06:40:31.120 frat dudes having a conversation like, yo, if she doesn't suck dick, she's not worth dating. 1.00

06:40:37.220 She's probably a lesbian. You'd be like, Oh my God, that's so immature. So there's hypocrisy 1.00

06:40:43.660 on this. There's hypocrisy. Um, let's see. Oh, other STD risk. So the throat cancer thing

06:40:49.780 that's HPV, but you can get other, uh, STDs, uh, you know, doing that, doing that thing.

06:40:57.140 And, um, I think the dating landscape, no offense, you know, obviously this is a very classy panel

06:41:03.140 we have here, but, uh, look, I think the dating landscape, there are, there are definitely

06:41:07.660 good women, great women out there who don't move like this, but you don't always know. 1.00

06:41:13.180 Um, so I think, and this applies both ways, right? As a woman, you can also, you know, 0.96

06:41:20.200 be proceed with caution. I think people are fucking multiple people at the same time or 0.99

06:41:28.240 in rapid, uh, concurrence. I don't know if that'd be the right word, rapid succession one 0.98

06:41:33.800 after the other. Oh, you fucked Billy Bob on Tuesday. Didn't work out with him. You're 0.99

06:41:38.760 back on Tinder. You're back at the club. You meet some new guy. You're fucking him three

06:41:42.560 days later, a week later. So there's STD risk. And look, I think a lot of women move. I think 1.00

06:41:48.900 y'all be dealing with either multiple men or a lot of men, whatever it is, the STD risk. It's

06:41:56.640 just kind of gross. But even if there's no STDs, I just think it's gross.

06:42:03.880 No, sorry. Let me, let me, there shouldn't have been a period there. I just think it's gross. If,

06:42:10.920 if, even if we exclude the STD component, if she's dating multiple dudes and sleeping with 0.95

06:42:18.620 multiple dudes, I know not all women do that, but either you've recently fucked a guy or you, 1.00

06:42:25.460 you're like simultaneous, you're fucking multiple dudes. Not saying all women move that like that. 1.00

06:42:30.780 It, that is disgusting. Like I'm going to make me get angry. Please stop. 0.96

06:42:35.960 Oh my God. You just clutch your pearls. What the fuck? You're right. It is. It is. You know what?

06:42:43.840 She's actually, hold on. I take that back. You're backing up my point. It is so fucking disgusting. 0.98

06:42:48.280 The fuck? It makes me gag. 1.00

06:42:50.760 Oh my God, dude. I'm not even kidding. I'm sorry.

06:42:53.460 Oh my God. 0.99

06:42:53.980 Damn. 1.00

06:42:55.000 That's, that's a girl wouldn't survive in jail. 1.00

06:42:58.120 Dang.

06:42:58.660 Someone was like, oh, okay.

06:43:00.140 Let's put it this way. I don't expect it.

06:43:02.640 She doesn't like, she doesn't like the pussy eating of this. I don't know. 1.00

06:43:04.740 She like imagined it in her brain. She like envisioned it.

06:43:08.040 She's definitely not a lesbian. 1.00

06:43:09.400 She's actually like throwing up. 0.99

06:43:12.440 Oh, I hope she's okay.

06:43:13.840 She actually, wait, this is a whatever podcast.

06:43:28.820 No, go help her. 0.60

06:43:30.140 No, don't Mary. Don't stop. Just fucking work your job. 1.00

06:43:33.980 She's fine. She's fine. She's be okay. Don't worry. 1.00

06:43:36.960 That, by the way, that's a first. I think that might be an achievement also.

06:43:40.800 First, first time I made a woman. 0.98

06:43:43.840 I made a woman vomit. 1.00

06:43:44.700 I made a woman vomit. 1.00

06:43:46.660 Wait, wait, hold on. Let me put in the title. Let me put in the title. You know, sometimes women rage quit from the show. Women walk off the show. That is the first time I've actually made a woman vomit. 1.00

06:43:57.120 I don't know. Whatever. Hey, pop a bottle of champagne, please.

06:44:00.940 Her body rejected you. 1.00

06:44:03.460 Her body rejected pussy eating. 1.00

06:44:04.880 Wow, that's crazy. I'm just describing. And that's a woman. I'm describing pussy eating. And that's, oh my, she must really not like. 1.00

06:44:13.200 No, you must have, like, a good description.

06:44:15.480 But, but, but, but like, so you can understand. Like, she's backing up my point. Like, she's fucking puking. I'm just talking about eating pussy. She's fucking yakking in the bathroom. And you guys want me to eat some pussy? 1.00

06:44:27.000 Really? And she's throwing up just, we're talking about it. 1.00

06:44:29.980 Can I go help her?

06:44:31.560 And we get her water.

06:44:32.340 She's good. Oh my God, what the fuck? 1.00

06:44:33.400 I feel bad. She's probably embarrassed. 1.00

06:44:35.760 She's fine.

06:44:36.820 I don't, she probably does.

06:44:38.140 All right, well, whatever. She used it up. 1.00

06:44:40.500 Yo, chat.

06:44:41.200 I actually have a trophy ready just for this. Um, this is, uh, for the, I've been waiting for this. The final, finally, after nearly 300 shows, I, I was so just disgusting. I made a woman vomit. So, um, let me just play this sound right now. 0.91

06:45:07.480 No.

06:45:08.580 Woohoo! 1.00

06:45:09.800 Grumps me, boys!

06:45:12.160 Boom! 0.99

06:45:13.360 Ninja!

06:45:15.520 Woohoo! 1.00

06:45:17.760 All right, what the hell? 0.96

06:45:19.100 Oh boy.

06:45:19.840 That's a new one, though, that we've never had.

06:45:22.780 A pattern?

06:45:23.080 Have we had a woman? Not, was it because of what I was saying, or was it just?

06:45:28.740 I, I, she's gotten up a couple of times to, like, get air.

06:45:31.840 I think it was one.

06:45:34.000 Are you okay?

06:45:37.060 Yeah, I'm okay.

06:45:37.600 Yes.

06:45:43.120 Do you need some, okay, do you need some water, or do you want to have some water?

06:45:46.800 Do you need a bag, like, at the table, just in case?

06:45:50.180 If we're going to keep talking about it, I might have to.

06:45:53.660 Is it because, do you, like, visualize?

06:45:56.220 No, I mean, to be fair, I wasn't, I've kind of just been, like, my stomach's been turning

06:46:01.500 the past couple, stomach has been turning the past, like, hour or so, and then you just,

06:46:06.400 like, yeah.

06:46:08.100 Just kind of just get out.

06:46:09.100 I have that effect on women. 1.00

06:46:11.760 Just make them vomit. 0.99

06:46:13.020 Oh, no. 0.89

06:46:13.760 It's good.

06:46:14.720 Okay, well.

06:46:16.660 Impressive.

06:46:17.020 I do have, I think I can leave it.

06:46:25.300 Thank you for your answers.

06:46:26.500 There were two more points, but I'll just say that, look, I'll put it very delicately.

06:46:32.980 I think if you're inclined to do that, wait until you're in a relationship and you know

06:46:40.300 the girl's exclusive to you.

06:46:42.420 I don't think you should do that on, like, a one-night stand, or if you don't know where

06:46:51.880 she's been at.

06:46:53.440 Mm-hmm.

06:46:54.380 Mm-hmm.

06:46:54.620 You know what I mean?

06:46:55.560 Yeah.

06:46:56.040 Yep, yep, yep.

06:46:56.680 I think the boundaries thing was really just enough, like, if you don't want to do it.

06:47:01.080 W, based.

06:47:03.760 That's all you need, is the boundaries.

06:47:05.200 Okay.

06:47:06.060 How did we get to that?

06:47:08.560 I don't remember. 0.99

06:47:10.160 You are so perverted. 0.99

06:47:11.340 That's crazy. 1.00

06:47:12.040 Just wanting to talk about the girl's sex. 0.72

06:47:13.840 I was just curious about your reason why.

06:47:15.940 That was not me.

06:47:17.520 You cannot pin what you do on me and her.

06:47:18.360 That was all your fault.

06:47:19.980 This entire night, I just wanted to talk about sexual defense.

06:47:24.000 I just wanted to know why.

06:47:26.100 Just curious.

06:47:28.180 Was she even here when I was talking about the ears?

06:47:31.080 Oh, no.

06:47:32.280 Don't talk about that again.

06:47:33.460 No, she was getting water.

06:47:34.660 Okay, bless.

06:47:35.460 She was getting water.

06:47:36.980 Okay, moving on.

06:47:38.340 Different topic, different topic, fun topic, funsies.

06:47:43.060 Let's see here.

06:47:44.040 We were...

06:47:45.480 Okay, I think that's mostly it for you, Enya.

06:47:50.720 Yeah, yeah.

06:47:51.500 We'll get to it later.

06:47:54.540 Oh, the no kiss thing.

06:47:56.240 Or, like, the no kiss.

06:47:57.140 And I thought it was an achievement.

06:47:58.120 Yeah, that...

06:48:00.660 Because I feel like most...

06:48:01.480 That's how do you go straight to sex? 0.97

06:48:06.380 Like, you can do it.

06:48:07.040 There's other kinds of foreplay.

06:48:08.620 Well, sure.

06:48:09.180 But I feel like there's an escalation.

06:48:11.500 You know?

06:48:11.780 It's like kiss and then, you know...

06:48:16.580 Kissing doesn't also have to be lip to lip.

06:48:19.480 What if you're in a rush?

06:48:21.180 Yeah.

06:48:21.560 It's a quickie.

06:48:22.540 But, like, first time?

06:48:24.140 Oh, yeah.

06:48:24.380 Like, it's one thing...

06:48:25.060 Okay, this is your boyfriend you've been dating for six months.

06:48:27.320 Sure, quickie.

06:48:28.240 First time?

06:48:29.020 Do you want to...

06:48:29.500 I don't want it to be a quickie the first time.

06:48:33.060 Like, you gotta, you know, take your time with it.

06:48:36.680 Okay.

06:48:37.820 Let's see.

06:48:38.720 You're also...

06:48:41.060 Okay.

06:48:43.800 Tabitha.

06:48:45.540 Stay-at-home mom.

06:48:46.380 Two beautiful girls.

06:48:47.940 You said your early 20s were definitely relationships and lots of hookups.

06:48:51.340 You're not proud of.

06:48:52.980 Yeah.

06:48:53.520 So, actually, same with...

06:48:54.900 Yes, yes, yes.

06:48:55.280 And, yeah, I came from a super, like, feminist, liberal, like, do what you want, explore, like, da-da-da.

06:49:01.360 But, looking back at it, I was so depressed.

06:49:05.200 Yes.

06:49:05.400 And just...

06:49:06.000 Felt empty. 1.00

06:49:06.880 Felt like shit all the time. 0.99

06:49:09.520 And part of it was when I finally got rid of my birth control. 0.99

06:49:12.960 That, like, flipped a screw in my head and was like, oh, I feel like me again.

06:49:18.440 And when I started, like, getting therapy, so I think people hooking up and stuff need serious therapy.

06:49:26.100 Oh.

06:49:26.880 What's going on?

06:49:27.640 Has this...

06:49:28.360 Wait.

06:49:29.840 Mary, how long has this been...

06:49:31.680 No, not long.

06:49:32.320 Like, just now.

06:49:34.120 Oh, bro.

06:49:34.840 She tripped something.

06:49:37.780 I'm watching online.

06:49:39.180 Wait, chat.

06:49:41.560 We're having a technical difficulty.

06:49:43.500 In the chat, tell me, is the screen frozen?

06:49:49.200 Is this frozen when I go here?

06:49:51.380 Is it frozen?

06:49:53.120 Is it frozen, chat?

06:49:56.080 Is it frozen?

06:50:02.520 Yes.

06:50:03.440 No.

06:50:04.580 I'm seeing a lot of yeses.

06:50:05.980 Is it frozen?

06:50:07.220 Oh, my God.

06:50:07.920 That's...

06:50:09.000 Okay, give me a sec.

06:50:10.340 I'm going to go...

06:50:10.900 Oh, I can't even put it on center zoom, I guess.

06:50:14.360 Hold on.

06:50:14.860 I'm going to try to troubleshoot this, guys.

06:50:17.360 That's kind of annoying.

06:50:18.380 All right.

06:50:18.600 Well, talk amongst yourselves. 0.99

06:50:22.600 Not about oral sex, I guess. 0.99

06:50:25.700 Or risk. 0.99

06:50:29.660 Yeah.

06:50:30.200 Well, you and I were really similar, apparently.

06:50:33.120 And I think a lot of, like, people who actually, like, women who go from liberalism to conservatism,

06:50:38.880 go, like, for women, go through a very similar path. 1.00

06:50:43.040 It took, like, starting to be honest with myself about what do I actually want?

06:50:48.880 What does a relationship actually mean to me?

06:50:50.740 Because I let go of some, like, really good relationships because I was so lost and didn't know what it actually meant to be in one.

06:50:57.280 Because I didn't have a good relationship to look at growing up.

06:51:00.420 Yes.

06:51:00.880 You know?

06:51:01.400 And I grew up fatherless because my father died.

06:51:04.200 So, I really think that also, like, really affected, like, just how I viewed, like, men, relationships.

06:51:09.780 And I didn't have, like, a strong male figure.

06:51:12.260 And I think that's really important.

06:51:14.080 So, Tabitha, did you have, like, a similar, like, relationship with your father?

06:51:19.360 Where are you kind of...

06:51:19.920 My parents divorced when I was really young.

06:51:24.640 They both have kind of their own issues.

06:51:27.040 I would leave it at that because it's not my place to really put out their laundry.

06:51:31.560 But I had a great stepdad.

06:51:35.400 He was definitely there.

06:51:36.560 But it was different, you know?

06:51:38.360 My mom always worked. 0.62

06:51:40.040 She was never there.

06:51:41.320 I didn't have a good, like, feminine role model to look up to.

06:51:44.440 My masculine role models were very different.

06:51:50.960 It was just interesting to grow up in that scenario and not have that, like, solid foundation to, like, strive for.

06:51:58.860 And when I started being honest about it and when I met my husband, it was...

06:52:04.160 I was honest off the bat.

06:52:05.540 I was like, this is what I want.

06:52:06.800 This is what I'm looking for.

06:52:07.660 We're either going to do it or I don't even want to see you again.

06:52:10.440 That's crazy.

06:52:11.380 Okay.

06:52:11.780 Because usually...

06:52:13.320 Sometimes people have, like, an opposite kind of, like, outcome from what you had.

06:52:21.260 Like, an opposite result.

06:52:22.240 Because they had a bad relationship.

06:52:24.100 Well, not bad, but, like, kind of, like, a strange relationship with their parents.

06:52:28.700 They would kind of latch on to the same habits of also being kind of, like, indifferent or kind of being, like, having a strange relationship.

06:52:38.980 But it seems with you, because they did not have, like, a very strong relationship, that made you want one.

06:52:47.640 I wanted it, but it took me a long time to figure it out.

06:52:51.340 And I should have gotten therapy and help ways earlier than I did.

06:52:56.460 But once I started therapy, I did workshops and worked on myself a ton to get to that point.

06:53:03.180 So many people do therapy.

06:53:07.280 I just...

06:53:08.040 Yeah.

06:53:08.980 I think with the hand you were dealt, you're a very strong girl.

06:53:12.060 Thank you.

06:53:12.540 You're welcome.

06:53:13.480 Yeah.

06:53:13.780 I agree.

06:53:14.680 Just hoping that I braise my girls a little bit differently.

06:53:19.360 That's my hope.

06:53:20.840 That's nice.

06:53:22.200 Yeah.

06:53:23.340 What do you guys think about therapy in general?

06:53:26.080 Because I know it wasn't around for a long while before, and people still had relationships, people still had, like, abusive parents, abusive relationships, and there was no therapy to help.

06:53:38.640 I'm not pro-therapy at all, actually, because not all therapy.

06:53:42.520 There are some good therapists, but I think most therapy just really affirms delusions, you know, depending on what they are.

06:53:50.520 Like, especially, like, you know, like, oh, like, my boyfriend, like, is being, you know, toxic or whatever.

06:53:56.760 Like, and they're just immediately encouraging, like, breaking up.

06:54:00.180 I just don't think therapy, like, therapists understand a full picture enough to really give solid and sound advice to anyone.

06:54:07.340 I think it became too easy to become a therapist the last few years.

06:54:10.940 So it took me, like, five or six to find someone that made me cry every single time we got together.

06:54:18.460 And it was that therapist that actually helped.

06:54:21.600 Everyone else was like, oh, well, how are you feeling today?

06:54:24.320 And I'm like, I don't know.

06:54:26.540 Finishing up some of the notes here for Levi.

06:54:29.720 That's your name, right?

06:54:30.400 Levi?

06:54:31.220 Okay.

06:54:31.800 You said, oh, boy, hey, it's in your notes.

06:54:34.760 I hope it doesn't trigger anything.

06:54:36.020 Man, you were dating for about three months asked you to give him a rim job while you were about to sleep together.

06:54:42.680 And then you ordered an Uber and left, never to be seen again.

06:54:47.080 Yeah.

06:54:48.000 That was a very traumatizing experience because I'd never, like, been put in that position before.

06:54:54.840 Nobody had ever, like, asked for that.

06:54:56.980 And I was immediately, like, I thought he was, like, gay because I was like, why do you want, like, that done to you?

06:55:03.160 I mean, I get I'm a girl and I literally had to talk to, like, people about it because it was, like, it was, like, psychologically messing up my head.

06:55:11.400 Wait, is this a guy you, oh, no, sorry, you were dating him for three months.

06:55:15.880 So this is what, this wasn't, like, the first time.

06:55:18.060 No, we had already, like, been intimate many times before.

06:55:21.700 And so at this point I was, it was just so shocking that, that I was asked to do that.

06:55:27.920 And then you never talked to him?

06:55:29.380 No, I literally ghosted him after that.

06:55:30.940 Besides that, did you like the guy?

06:55:32.860 Yeah, I really liked him.

06:55:33.840 Like, he was otherwise a good guy?

06:55:35.660 Yeah, he was, like, a good guy.

06:55:37.520 But, um, what's up?

06:55:39.120 And, like, otherwise, like, the sex was normal, nothing, like, weird?

06:55:42.680 Yeah, no, nothing.

06:55:43.580 It was, like, literally vanilla, like, nothing out of the ordinary.

06:55:47.680 What did he ask you to do?

06:55:49.540 A rim job.

06:55:50.220 Rim job.

06:55:50.720 It's eating the booty.

06:55:51.940 Salad tossing. 1.00

06:55:52.940 Yeah, well, a man's G spot is in his ass. 1.00

06:55:57.300 So that. 1.00

06:55:57.780 I know that.

06:55:58.260 Yeah, that could be why.

06:55:59.700 And maybe he was just getting to the point of, like, feeling comfortable enough to you

06:56:03.520 to where he could be, like, okay, like, maybe she'd be willing to give it a shot.

06:56:09.920 It was, yeah.

06:56:10.900 I mean, I, I can't say I don't feel, like, bad because, obviously, he felt, like, comfortable

06:56:16.500 enough to ask me for that.

06:56:17.720 But at the same time, I don't, I just, like you said, Brian, you have, you have boundaries.

06:56:23.160 And it was just something I wasn't willing to.

06:56:25.840 So, yeah, I mean, I, I think that's, like, by the way, that specific thing, like, anything

06:56:31.840 to do with, you know, um.

06:56:36.040 The back door for that?

06:56:37.060 Yeah, it's, like, that's, like.

06:56:39.640 That's questionable to me.

06:56:40.700 That's, like, could be a health risk or whatever.

06:56:43.280 So.

06:56:43.420 Thank you.

06:56:44.120 Thank you.

06:56:44.320 It's, like, can, yeah, that can be gross.

06:56:45.780 So, that's totally reasonable, uh, boundary to have.

06:56:50.180 Um, you're, it's absolutely not wrong at all for you to not want to do it.

06:56:55.360 But, um, I don't know if he's, I don't think he's in the wrong for asking for it.

06:57:02.540 Hey, I, I don't want that.

06:57:04.580 I, some guys are into it, whatever.

06:57:06.360 I personally don't want that done.

06:57:08.500 Also, by the way, this is something interesting.

06:57:10.800 Um, receiving, I know it's a little bit gross to talk about, but receiving that, um, it's

06:57:18.920 actually, the mouth has a lot of.

06:57:21.500 The mouth is actually, like, kind of gross.

06:57:26.680 Mm-hmm.

06:57:26.980 Like, there's a lot of bacteria in there.

06:57:29.600 And actually, it's more unsafe.

06:57:36.880 I'm good, I'm good.

06:57:38.900 I'm okay.

06:57:39.600 I'm just saying, like, you can get, like, somebody doing that to you can trans, like, 0.99

06:57:45.120 can fuck up your, uh... 0.99

06:57:47.840 Your microbiome? 0.99

06:57:48.840 Microbiome.

06:57:49.520 If somebody tosses a salad.

06:57:51.340 So, um, but, uh, yeah, I don't know.

06:57:56.260 I don't think he's, hey, it's not my thing, but I don't, I don't know if, look, the guy's

06:58:01.360 into it.

06:58:03.440 Is it gay? 0.99

06:58:05.320 Um, it, I want to say no, but, uh, it could be.

06:58:16.660 Yeah, yeah.

06:58:17.600 Like, like, obviously, logically, uh, could a, could a man be strictly heterosexual, only 0.92

06:58:25.740 be attracted to women, only want to have sex with women, but want his salad tossed? 0.94

06:58:36.020 Yes, he's, he's not gay. 0.99

06:58:38.500 Yeah.

06:58:38.680 You could, you could also want all those things and have all those things and, and you

06:58:45.160 could be, you could be gay, but you could be heterosexual if you want a woman to do

06:58:52.240 that, I guess.

06:58:53.900 Um, but, uh, yeah, I don't know.

06:58:59.140 You said it was traumatizing, though.

06:59:01.120 What, like, did he, like, so did the conversation was like, hey, listen, uh, would you be willing

06:59:06.000 to do this?

06:59:06.500 And that was it?

06:59:07.220 Like, he, was he pushy with it?

06:59:10.200 No. 0.99

06:59:10.440 Did he, like, show you the butthole? 0.99

06:59:11.800 No, no, no. 1.00

06:59:13.460 That shit would be crazy. 0.99

06:59:13.980 We were, we were literally just, like, kissing, like, and, um, he, like, tried to make it, 1.00

06:59:19.380 like, I guess, sexy and, like, whisper in my ear, oh, girl, no, no, it was.

06:59:26.140 Can, can you repeat it?

06:59:27.400 Can you repeat it?

06:59:30.880 He's just, like.

06:59:31.880 What did he say?

06:59:32.480 What did he say? 1.00

06:59:33.520 He was, like, eat my ass. 1.00

06:59:35.260 I was, like, I was, like, what? 1.00

06:59:39.180 I thought I misheard him.

06:59:42.280 And he repeated it exactly the same way.

06:59:44.960 And I was, like, I gotta go.

06:59:49.640 I don't feel comfortable.

06:59:50.640 I was, like, I'm sorry.

06:59:51.740 I don't, I'm not comfortable.

06:59:52.980 So he was confident about it.

06:59:54.800 He was, like.

06:59:55.520 Yes, that was, that's what I, that's what I mean when I was, like, it was just, like.

06:59:58.740 But do you want a guy to be, like, self-conscious about it?

07:00:00.760 No.

07:00:00.940 He should text that first.

07:00:01.580 Like, I don't know what else you, like.

07:00:02.800 That's, like.

07:00:03.340 Not mid-sex.

07:00:04.360 Yeah.

07:00:04.640 You said he would, like, ask.

07:00:05.920 But, no, he didn't ask.

07:00:06.940 He was actually, like.

07:00:07.780 He literally, like, told me.

07:00:09.100 That's what, that's what else I was, like.

07:00:10.500 I was, like, giving a come out.

07:00:12.500 But isn't that, like.

07:00:13.680 Look, isn't that kind of, like, okay. 1.00

07:00:16.560 Please, will you give me a blowjob? 0.99

07:00:18.540 Like, wouldn't you prefer the guy to be, like. 1.00

07:00:21.180 Go down on me.

07:00:22.860 Wouldn't you prefer.

07:00:24.360 I don't know.

07:00:24.740 But, obviously, that, this is different than, you know, a blowie, you know.

07:00:29.080 This is a new thing.

07:00:30.680 You haven't done it before.

07:00:33.140 Never even been asked.

07:00:34.160 But, so, okay.

07:00:35.380 He said it.

07:00:36.560 Because you said you left.

07:00:37.860 You dipped.

07:00:38.360 You were, like, I gotta go.

07:00:39.360 You ordered an Uber and left.

07:00:40.720 Yeah.

07:00:41.060 Like, so, within three minutes, were you gone?

07:00:43.180 Gone in 60 seconds?

07:00:44.560 Yeah.

07:00:44.820 Starring Nicolas Cage.

07:00:45.440 Like, I literally was, like.

07:00:46.660 I was, like.

07:00:47.520 I gotta go.

07:00:48.740 And he was, like.

07:00:49.240 Why? 0.99

07:00:49.720 Oh, damn. 1.00

07:00:50.140 Okay. 1.00

07:00:50.320 This was major for you.

07:00:51.420 It was.

07:00:51.800 This is major.

07:00:52.740 I really liked him before.

07:00:54.780 That was.

07:00:55.280 It was just, like.

07:00:56.240 So, in contrast with, like.

07:00:58.000 My view of how he was.

07:01:00.320 To then, like.

07:01:01.360 To be like that.

07:01:02.320 And I don't mean to kink shame.

07:01:03.480 I really don't.

07:01:04.260 It's just.

07:01:04.940 It was not my.

07:01:06.420 My thing.

07:01:07.080 Yeah.

07:01:07.760 And it was just.

07:01:09.080 Like I said.

07:01:09.540 It was just so.

07:01:10.820 Like 180 from how I had originally viewed him.

07:01:14.360 Yeah.

07:01:14.860 And I, like.

07:01:15.840 I don't know.

07:01:16.440 I just was, like.

07:01:17.080 I don't want to.

07:01:17.700 I don't want to talk to you anymore.

07:01:19.180 And I'm sorry.

07:01:19.900 I just, like.

07:01:20.620 That was how I felt.

07:01:21.620 Do you ever regret your decision? 1.00

07:01:24.420 Fuck no. 1.00

07:01:24.800 Never use. 1.00

07:01:25.640 Now that you're not in your initial shock state, would you do that for somebody ever?

07:01:31.140 No.

07:01:31.680 No?

07:01:32.100 Okay.

07:01:32.620 How about doing that to you?

07:01:33.520 That's respectable.

07:01:34.420 No.

07:01:35.220 I don't.

07:01:35.880 That's not my point.

07:01:36.500 I don't believe.

07:01:37.200 I think.

07:01:37.220 I think boundaries are fine.

07:01:38.440 I don't know if it necessarily had to be.

07:01:41.540 Uh.

07:01:42.460 Like he could have.

07:01:44.200 I mean.

07:01:44.940 I think this would have just come down to communication.

07:01:47.100 He asked for something.

07:01:48.220 You're not comfortable with it.

07:01:49.480 That's totally fine.

07:01:50.320 And who knows how it would have played out.

07:01:52.660 He probably would have been like.

07:01:53.880 Oh.

07:01:54.120 Okay.

07:01:54.440 Didn't know you were into.

07:01:55.200 Like maybe the guy could have just been like.

07:01:56.780 Oh.

07:01:57.540 I don't know.

07:01:57.960 I just thought we could try something out.

07:02:00.400 I mean.

07:02:00.660 Look.

07:02:00.940 I'm.

07:02:02.820 I don't want that done to me.

07:02:05.340 But.

07:02:05.960 Maybe the guy was like.

07:02:06.920 Oh.

07:02:07.160 We can spice things up.

07:02:08.120 We could try something else.

07:02:09.220 And if you were like.

07:02:11.000 Oh.

07:02:11.440 Um.

07:02:12.080 Yeah.

07:02:12.240 I'm not into that.

07:02:13.320 That.

07:02:13.680 Maybe that would have just been.

07:02:15.740 That could have just been the end of it.

07:02:16.900 It was just like a complete turnoff for me.

07:02:19.080 And like.

07:02:19.360 I wanted.

07:02:19.780 You got the ick.

07:02:20.420 I just felt so uncomfortable there.

07:02:21.860 You got the ick.

07:02:22.240 And I was like.

07:02:22.440 Yeah.

07:02:22.620 I got to get out of here.

07:02:23.760 You know though.

07:02:24.460 I.

07:02:24.820 Opening up to the rest of the panel.

07:02:26.220 I was thinking about.

07:02:27.280 I was thinking about this.

07:02:28.200 It's like.

07:02:29.620 What if there's something that you're not really into.

07:02:32.000 But like your partner likes it.

07:02:35.140 What are you willing to do?

07:02:37.420 You know.

07:02:38.420 How low can you go?

07:02:39.980 No.

07:02:40.240 But I was thinking like.

07:02:41.060 There's some things like.

07:02:42.140 I could.

07:02:42.980 I'm trying to think of a.

07:02:44.740 Example I could give.

07:02:46.020 But there are some things that.

07:02:47.520 If.

07:02:47.920 Like I care about my girlfriend.

07:02:49.300 And I love her.

07:02:50.280 And I'm otherwise not like.

07:02:53.400 I'm not into it.

07:02:54.860 But she's into it.

07:02:56.420 And I think it's fair.

07:02:57.740 Like when you're dating somebody.

07:02:58.880 And you're in a relationship.

07:03:00.280 To like.

07:03:02.000 I don't know if compromise is the right word.

07:03:04.240 But to like.

07:03:05.040 Cater.

07:03:05.640 Consider.

07:03:07.200 Your.

07:03:08.380 Boyfriend or girlfriend's wants.

07:03:10.400 And needs.

07:03:11.520 Right.

07:03:11.840 So.

07:03:12.480 There are obviously some things.

07:03:13.680 I'm sure we'd all agree.

07:03:14.820 Like no.

07:03:15.340 Even if they want it.

07:03:16.160 Won't do it.

07:03:16.980 But then there's other things.

07:03:17.980 Where it's like.

07:03:18.420 I wouldn't do it.

07:03:19.300 But.

07:03:20.020 I'm okay.

07:03:20.720 Like.

07:03:21.380 Sure.

07:03:21.940 So I was thinking like.

07:03:25.780 I was like.

07:03:26.720 What if she's into foot stuff. 0.98

07:03:28.440 You know.

07:03:29.080 Like I'm not into foot stuff.

07:03:30.800 But like if she wanted.

07:03:31.780 Like let's say she.

07:03:33.580 By the way.

07:03:34.020 Foot fetishes are way more common with men. 0.77

07:03:35.640 For some reason.

07:03:36.180 But.

07:03:36.320 Yeah.

07:03:36.960 Let's say the girl.

07:03:37.740 I know the science behind this.

07:03:38.880 I know that too.

07:03:39.840 I did hear about something like that.

07:03:41.540 Let's say the girl like. 0.55

07:03:43.440 Wanted to like. 1.00

07:03:46.200 Suck on the toe. 1.00

07:03:47.420 Like my toe. 0.99

07:03:49.860 Like I would never ask a girl to do that. 1.00

07:03:52.400 But she wanted to do it.

07:03:53.880 And like.

07:03:54.920 It gave her massive amounts of sexual gratification.

07:03:59.240 And it's my girlfriend.

07:04:00.520 And I love her.

07:04:02.720 You're like.

07:04:03.200 She. 1.00

07:04:03.540 Fuck it. 1.00

07:04:04.240 No. 1.00

07:04:04.500 I'm not going to be all.

07:04:05.260 No.

07:04:05.760 Look.

07:04:06.160 It's.

07:04:06.420 It might tickle a little bit.

07:04:09.140 But I feel like.

07:04:10.300 Okay.

07:04:11.260 Sure.

07:04:11.960 You want to.

07:04:12.680 If it. 0.99

07:04:13.760 You're going to fucking calm down there. 1.00

07:04:15.300 While you're sucking my. 1.00

07:04:16.380 Like fine. 1.00

07:04:17.340 Okay.

07:04:17.660 I'm okay with that.

07:04:20.280 Yeah. 1.00

07:04:20.680 With you sucking. 1.00

07:04:21.680 Her toe. 1.00

07:04:22.420 Or her sucking your toe. 1.00

07:04:23.660 Her doing mine. 0.97

07:04:24.760 I don't know.

07:04:25.360 With my mouth.

07:04:26.260 I'm kind of.

07:04:27.360 I'm a bit of a germaphobe.

07:04:28.580 I don't know if I would.

07:04:29.500 She wore socks all day.

07:04:30.700 Very protected feet.

07:04:32.320 Socks.

07:04:32.680 Like fresh out of the shower.

07:04:34.260 Yeah.

07:04:34.280 Sure.

07:04:34.980 Fresh out of the shower.

07:04:35.820 Maybe.

07:04:37.620 I feel like feet are just.

07:04:38.980 Can be a little.

07:04:40.760 How about the arches?

07:04:42.760 You know.

07:04:43.120 Like any part of the foot.

07:04:44.160 At all.

07:04:45.140 I don't. 0.99

07:04:46.000 Damn. 1.00

07:04:47.120 Arches. 1.00

07:04:47.660 That's so specific. 0.87

07:04:49.320 Who's sucking on the arches? 1.00

07:04:51.580 I don't know. 0.60

07:04:52.620 Honestly.

07:04:53.080 I don't know.

07:04:53.780 I would have to cross that bridge.

07:04:55.020 When I got there.

07:04:56.100 If she wanted to.

07:04:57.320 Like my toe.

07:04:58.540 Fine.

07:04:58.880 Whatever.

07:04:59.540 I.

07:05:01.040 Sure.

07:05:01.580 Have fun.

07:05:02.540 If it.

07:05:02.760 Hey.

07:05:03.000 If it turns you on.

07:05:04.120 If that's all the foreplay I have to do.

07:05:06.120 I have to just lay there.

07:05:07.020 Okay.

07:05:07.300 Whatever.

07:05:07.680 That's fine.

07:05:08.440 But like.

07:05:09.520 I don't know if I'd want to.

07:05:11.380 Yeah.

07:05:11.700 I don't know.

07:05:12.400 Yeah.

07:05:12.820 I don't know if I would do it.

07:05:13.920 Like kiss.

07:05:14.480 But I think it's okay.

07:05:15.440 Huh?

07:05:15.740 Yeah.

07:05:16.480 I don't know.

07:05:16.920 I think like.

07:05:18.300 If this is the person you care about.

07:05:20.120 And you love them.

07:05:20.840 And.

07:05:22.620 They got a little something.

07:05:24.500 Why.

07:05:24.920 You know.

07:05:25.420 I don't know if we have to be totally.

07:05:28.080 Clutching our pearls.

07:05:28.980 Like.

07:05:29.200 Oh my god.

07:05:29.940 I think you can.

07:05:31.740 You know.

07:05:32.220 Do a little favor.

07:05:34.540 You know. 0.99

07:05:35.040 Throw them a bone. 1.00

07:05:36.060 Would you stick your tongue in her ear? 1.00

07:05:38.940 Ew.

07:05:40.120 I don't know.

07:05:40.860 Your wax is.

07:05:42.220 I don't think so.

07:05:43.820 Toes.

07:05:44.480 I'm sorry.

07:05:45.080 Toes have toe gunk.

07:05:46.520 Sometimes.

07:05:46.700 I know.

07:05:47.200 I know.

07:05:47.660 But earwax as a whole.

07:05:48.760 I'm going to also go off it.

07:05:50.080 If you keep going.

07:05:51.820 Yeah.

07:05:52.220 Anyways.

07:05:52.860 Whatever.

07:05:53.860 I feel like it's so common in men to have fetishes over women.

07:05:58.460 Because I've run into so many.

07:06:00.740 Literally yesterday.

07:06:02.220 My.

07:06:02.360 I posted a story on the cliff.

07:06:04.420 And I had like.

07:06:05.800 My like foot was in the picture.

07:06:07.180 And some guy.

07:06:08.240 Slid up on my Instagram story.

07:06:09.940 Telling me to take my socks off.

07:06:12.580 I just keep running into men with like feet fetishes.

07:06:16.040 It's so weird.

07:06:17.540 Yeah.

07:06:17.660 But you women. 1.00

07:06:21.360 You guys are gooners. 0.99

07:06:23.240 Oh. 0.94

07:06:23.580 Oh yeah. 0.97

07:06:24.080 You guys are gooners. 0.89

07:06:27.240 Elaborate. 0.93

07:06:28.000 Like I saw this clip from a woman. 1.00

07:06:30.220 And she said that like.

07:06:31.860 You know.

07:06:32.460 There's this thing. 1.00

07:06:33.360 This idea that these men are just like fucking sexually depraved. 1.00

07:06:37.260 You don't. 1.00

07:06:37.960 That's the typical man that scratches the surface of the fucking depravity. 1.00

07:06:45.640 Sexual depravity of a lot of women. 1.00

07:06:48.980 I think y'all are deep down. 0.92

07:06:51.340 There's something inside that maybe it hasn't arisen yet.

07:06:58.140 But I think it's risen like that were secretly some like it's your ex.

07:07:03.000 There's I don't know.

07:07:04.000 I think hidden either hidden every woman or just.

07:07:07.080 I don't know.

07:07:07.760 I think some of y'all.

07:07:08.960 I don't know.

07:07:09.340 Well.

07:07:09.720 If you look at some of the stuff that. 0.99

07:07:11.780 Like the romance novels and shit. 0.98

07:07:13.940 Oh yeah. 1.00

07:07:14.220 Y'all into some weird shit. 1.00

07:07:16.140 Weird. 1.00

07:07:16.360 Sometimes it's not hidden for some people.

07:07:18.500 Some people are very open about their freakiness.

07:07:21.560 And like.

07:07:22.420 Actually I think.

07:07:24.260 Like. 0.84

07:07:25.180 In terms of the porn that women watch. 1.00

07:07:29.920 Like the rough shit. 1.00

07:07:31.160 Like you guys are into some crazy shit. 1.00

07:07:33.960 Yeah you are. 1.00

07:07:34.280 Like y'all almost want to get beat up or something.

07:07:36.760 Yeah.

07:07:37.000 Why is that?

07:07:38.260 It's because they're more submissive.

07:07:39.700 I think it's part of them being submissive.

07:07:41.640 I don't know.

07:07:42.020 Anyways whatever.

07:07:42.960 Off of that though.

07:07:44.400 Levi finishing off your notes.

07:07:46.140 You wanted to talk about.

07:07:48.360 Lying about your gender to sleep with someone. 0.97

07:07:50.860 So like trans people. 1.00

07:07:51.620 Yeah I think that's really really messed up.

07:07:56.080 Very wrong.

07:07:57.880 Agreed.

07:07:59.000 Should be.

07:07:59.920 Should tell the person.

07:08:02.300 How do you lie about it?

07:08:04.280 Don't they have.

07:08:04.660 Some girls lie. 1.00

07:08:05.760 Penis? 1.00

07:08:06.220 Girls. 0.99

07:08:07.420 Not always.

07:08:08.620 Oh you mean like after the surgery?

07:08:10.860 I mean.

07:08:11.640 Sometimes they can go in the back door.

07:08:14.140 I guess.

07:08:14.620 And not have to see that at all.

07:08:16.080 But I don't. 0.99

07:08:16.460 Wouldn't they see the balls? 0.99

07:08:17.760 I've never. 0.99

07:08:18.480 I don't know.

07:08:20.180 Levi.

07:08:21.320 You wrote.

07:08:21.980 Hookup culture is ruining men. 0.99

07:08:23.300 Porn is ruining men's sexual relationships with women. 0.98

07:08:25.940 Women are never to blame. 1.00

07:08:26.880 And it's apparently always the man's fault. 0.79

07:08:28.660 Modern feminism is destroying women. 1.00

07:08:30.420 And their ability to form meaningful relationships with men. 0.99

07:08:33.840 A lot of women don't hold other women accountable. 1.00

07:08:35.960 Because they expect all women to be a girl's girl. 0.99

07:08:38.800 Even at times when it's unwarranted.

07:08:42.320 Yeah.

07:08:43.140 Anything you wanted to add to that?

07:08:44.480 Or does that kind of.

07:08:45.820 Kind of was this whole sum up.

07:08:47.180 Okay.

07:08:48.300 Let's see here.

07:08:49.140 We're going to do some things from the questionnaire here.

07:08:52.060 I need to wait until everybody's back here.

07:08:54.020 Why don't we do.

07:08:55.400 Finish up Tabitha then. 1.00

07:08:56.660 While we're waiting for the panel to fully return.

07:09:00.420 You said that you had.

07:09:07.380 Did you talk about the depression in your early 20s?

07:09:09.500 And you're expected to have a career and not focus on family.

07:09:12.680 But now that you're a mother.

07:09:13.980 An amazing husband.

07:09:15.440 You can't believe you didn't know this is all you've wanted.

07:09:18.560 Yep.

07:09:19.200 Did you already kind of get into that?

07:09:20.480 Pretty much.

07:09:21.440 Okay.

07:09:21.660 For the most part.

07:09:23.180 You said can't say you should be treated like a queen. 0.89

07:09:25.480 If you don't treat him like a king.

07:09:27.380 Oh yeah.

07:09:28.220 Yeah.

07:09:28.520 Do you guys agree?

07:09:29.840 Yes.

07:09:30.420 Should a woman treat a man like a king? 1.00

07:09:33.960 Absolutely.

07:09:34.920 I agree.

07:09:35.800 Does that not include the bow?

07:09:38.340 Yeah.

07:09:38.920 Get with the program.

07:09:40.920 Well should men treat women like queens? 0.87

07:09:43.180 Yeah.

07:09:43.540 If they really love them.

07:09:44.840 Well.

07:09:45.600 But don't women expect that like from the get go? 1.00

07:09:49.400 Well what did they do to deserve that?

07:09:51.140 Wait really quick.

07:09:51.840 I guess really quick rewinding to the bow video a little bit.

07:09:55.260 Same topic.

07:09:56.200 I actually think you know what fine.

07:09:57.920 You might say the bow thing is kind of weird.

07:09:59.520 Culturally weird.

07:10:00.800 I think the first time a girl comes over to my house she should do my laundry. 1.00

07:10:06.000 Oh that's the other thing I disagreed with you on.

07:10:07.920 What do you think?

07:10:09.660 Should the woman do laundry? 1.00

07:10:11.460 Like first time going to the guy's house?

07:10:12.840 I say yes.

07:10:13.560 It's not typical.

07:10:14.960 I wouldn't like think of doing it.

07:10:16.600 But it's not like doing a man's laundry isn't culturally weird. 0.88

07:10:20.760 No.

07:10:21.240 Like you would do it in a relationship eventually right?

07:10:23.800 Oh yeah.

07:10:24.180 Yeah I think it should be the first time.

07:10:26.100 I just.

07:10:27.300 Are you asking?

07:10:29.120 No she should just ask me actually.

07:10:31.420 She should ask you.

07:10:32.500 I think you girls need a simp way more. 1.00

07:10:35.140 You got.

07:10:35.860 Like you were asking me earlier. 1.00

07:10:37.660 Why do these guys just want pussy? 1.00

07:10:40.980 You got to make yourself have a competitive edge. 0.99

07:10:45.080 I can actually say I've done that before.

07:10:47.260 I've gone over.

07:10:48.640 The first time I went over to a guy's house I have offered to help him with his laundry.

07:10:52.600 Oh my god the keeper over here.

07:10:53.800 And he actually told me no.

07:10:55.740 Oh well okay.

07:10:57.360 And I was like okay.

07:10:58.280 And he's like no you don't need to do that.

07:10:59.640 And I was like well I'm just trying to help.

07:11:00.980 Your house is kind of messy. 0.99

07:11:03.340 Oh damn. 0.99

07:11:04.300 Nice. 0.99

07:11:05.080 No but I think.

07:11:07.820 I think as women.

07:11:10.980 If you're dealing with a certain caliber of guy.

07:11:13.820 How are you going to set yourself apart?

07:11:16.400 Look. 0.99

07:11:17.200 Sex. 0.96

07:11:19.040 Is not really enough.

07:11:21.020 Although there are. 1.00

07:11:21.840 Look some guys they're just happy to get some pussy. 1.00

07:11:24.060 You know. 1.00

07:11:25.240 I think you guys need to do more.

07:11:29.180 Cook.

07:11:29.760 Clean.

07:11:31.260 Like right away.

07:11:32.760 If you're interested in a guy.

07:11:34.960 What do you do to keep him around?

07:11:37.220 You cook for him.

07:11:38.080 You clean for him.

07:11:39.180 You do what he wants him.

07:11:41.340 You do what he wants you to do.

07:11:43.340 Yes.

07:11:44.300 And.

07:11:44.780 Yeah.

07:11:45.420 Why would you start doing that.

07:11:48.300 Later on.

07:11:49.300 You do that to get him interested.

07:11:51.300 That is exactly.

07:11:52.000 You do that to keep him around.

07:11:53.900 That's exactly what I'm saying.

07:11:56.000 Do that.

07:11:56.780 Because some women will be like. 1.00

07:11:58.680 Some women will. 1.00

07:12:00.140 How do I frame this.

07:12:03.760 They'll be like.

07:12:04.380 Well I'll do it when I'm in a relationship.

07:12:06.160 I'll do it three months in.

07:12:07.260 Six months in.

07:12:08.660 Do that to get him in a relationship.

07:12:11.500 Right.

07:12:12.000 No exactly.

07:12:12.620 That's what I'm trying to argue for.

07:12:14.700 And what.

07:12:15.300 The other interesting thing is.

07:12:16.420 Is women who. 1.00

07:12:17.780 Will have sex with a guy quickly. 1.00

07:12:20.580 It's interesting to me that. 0.99

07:12:22.520 There will be women who will object. 1.00

07:12:24.080 To the bow.

07:12:25.180 Or object to doing the laundry.

07:12:28.180 Like on the first time going to the house.

07:12:30.820 But like. 1.00

07:12:32.440 Y'all will have sex with a man. 1.00

07:12:34.360 Y'all will suck his dick. 1.00

07:12:35.840 You'll let him. 1.00

07:12:37.260 I don't want to be graphic.

07:12:38.240 But you know.

07:12:38.700 All that.

07:12:39.120 All that that entails.

07:12:41.120 You'll take his load.

07:12:42.180 But you won't do his load.

07:12:44.320 Of laundry.

07:12:45.540 Well no.

07:12:46.220 I.

07:12:46.620 I did do all those things.

07:12:48.320 For my ex.

07:12:49.500 I.

07:12:50.280 Tried to be.

07:12:51.460 You know.

07:12:52.080 I tried to cook for him.

07:12:53.140 I tried to.

07:12:54.580 Clean his apartment.

07:12:55.640 I forgot.

07:12:56.460 What.

07:12:57.100 He broke up with you.

07:12:58.400 Or what was the story there?

07:12:59.180 Yeah.

07:12:59.280 He broke up with me.

07:13:00.780 Said the distance thing.

07:13:02.740 He couldn't wait for me to move.

07:13:05.060 Well I mean.

07:13:05.720 So doing these things.

07:13:07.300 So okay.

07:13:10.000 And I was traveling.

07:13:11.240 Doing these things.

07:13:12.940 Will help you.

07:13:14.060 Get the guy.

07:13:15.000 But it's not like some magic bullet.

07:13:17.220 That will guarantee you the guy.

07:13:18.780 In the same way that.

07:13:19.900 You know.

07:13:20.480 Like I don't think.

07:13:22.180 You know.

07:13:22.500 The nice guys.

07:13:23.660 Oh wait.

07:13:24.360 Like.

07:13:25.120 But well actually women don't really like nice guys. 0.98

07:13:26.960 But.

07:13:28.560 Sometimes men think.

07:13:30.620 Well.

07:13:31.340 Women. 0.81

07:13:32.120 So okay.

07:13:32.500 Women will say this. 1.00

07:13:33.680 Women are not. 1.00

07:13:34.740 Then. 1.00

07:13:35.720 Sex vending machines. 0.60

07:13:36.920 Where if you put niceness tokens into them. 0.99

07:13:39.640 They'll give you sex. 1.00

07:13:40.720 Sex. 1.00

07:13:42.000 So. 0.54

07:13:43.040 Men.

07:13:45.360 Well I guess you could.

07:13:46.560 Also.

07:13:46.780 No.

07:13:47.280 Men are not like relationship vending machines. 0.88

07:13:49.840 Where if you put in sex. 0.61

07:13:51.020 Or in this case.

07:13:52.220 Put in niceness.

07:13:53.900 So doing the laundry.

07:13:55.240 That they.

07:13:55.640 That automatically will distribute to you.

07:13:57.820 A relationship.

07:13:58.880 I think it will help your chances though.

07:14:01.760 It will.

07:14:02.100 Like it's never going to be a negative.

07:14:03.740 Right.

07:14:04.280 So these things.

07:14:05.360 And a lot of these things are pretty.

07:14:07.540 Like.

07:14:09.100 I think a lot of guys will be pleasant.

07:14:11.080 Really pleasantly surprised.

07:14:12.880 If you go over to a guy's house.

07:14:15.080 And you.

07:14:15.700 Even if you ask him.

07:14:16.800 And he might even turn you down.

07:14:18.000 You say.

07:14:18.780 Hey.

07:14:20.140 Can I help you with anything around the house?

07:14:22.880 You're not.

07:14:23.540 You're.

07:14:23.900 You're.

07:14:24.220 You're.

07:14:24.420 You're.

07:14:24.780 You're.

07:14:24.900 You're providing value to him.

07:14:26.060 You're like.

07:14:26.760 And he's going to be like.

07:14:27.700 Oh.

07:14:27.900 Whoa.

07:14:28.800 Like.

07:14:29.080 Okay.

07:14:29.380 This girl's helping me out here.

07:14:31.180 Because.

07:14:31.740 I mean.

07:14:33.060 It's not going to hurt.

07:14:34.660 Maybe you might feel like.

07:14:35.780 If it doesn't work out.

07:14:36.560 Oh.

07:14:36.820 I feel like a bit taken advantage of.

07:14:38.420 Maybe.

07:14:38.780 But.

07:14:40.140 So what.

07:14:40.760 What else were you going to do?

07:14:41.900 You guys were going to talk?

07:14:45.000 What else were you going to do?

07:14:46.200 Okay.

07:14:46.540 Well. 1.00

07:14:46.680 Let me do some fucking laundry. 1.00

07:14:47.780 Burn some calories. 1.00

07:14:49.940 Well.

07:14:50.220 But that's what I would think.

07:14:52.280 That we were going to talk.

07:14:53.920 And get to know each other.

07:14:56.080 Why would I do laundry?

07:14:57.160 That's me going away.

07:14:59.220 Well.

07:14:59.420 I mean.

07:14:59.640 It takes like 20 minutes.

07:15:00.980 No.

07:15:01.380 It takes 20.

07:15:02.080 Look.

07:15:02.480 I'm just saying.

07:15:03.400 If you want to do something.

07:15:04.940 That is.

07:15:05.640 Really.

07:15:06.480 Doesn't.

07:15:08.360 I mean.

07:15:08.960 Aside from your effort.

07:15:10.780 Doesn't.

07:15:12.000 You're not spending money.

07:15:13.820 If you want to do something.

07:15:15.180 That you can basically.

07:15:16.180 Just employ instantly.

07:15:18.020 That could give you an edge.

07:15:20.180 Over other prospects.

07:15:21.420 Or could make you more appealing.

07:15:23.200 To the guy.

07:15:24.800 Then.

07:15:25.540 I think.

07:15:26.780 Hey.

07:15:27.360 At least try it.

07:15:28.480 And see.

07:15:28.920 See how it works.

07:15:30.120 But yeah.

07:15:30.760 Laundry.

07:15:31.260 First date.

07:15:32.100 I do have an explanation.

07:15:33.720 For the girls.

07:15:34.300 That like.

07:15:34.960 Start.

07:15:35.600 Three months in.

07:15:36.520 Or like.

07:15:37.440 A month in.

07:15:38.900 Because.

07:15:40.140 Let's say.

07:15:41.860 Like.

07:15:42.180 She starts doing your.

07:15:43.620 Laundry.

07:15:44.120 Right away.

07:15:45.440 Yeah.

07:15:46.120 Love it.

07:15:46.860 She's my wife.

07:15:47.640 No.

07:15:48.460 She's.

07:15:49.140 Really.

07:15:50.620 Wifey. 0.84

07:15:51.300 Not wife. 0.51

07:15:51.600 You could just have your mom over.

07:15:53.780 Instead of a girlfriend. 0.91

07:15:54.720 At that point.

07:15:56.340 Well. 1.00

07:15:56.580 You're not supposed to fuck your mom. 1.00

07:15:57.800 No. 1.00

07:15:58.220 I'm not talking about that.

07:15:59.380 I'm saying like.

07:16:00.060 If she's just taking.

07:16:00.840 If you're just using a person's help.

07:16:03.000 Like.

07:16:03.760 Around the house.

07:16:04.500 That's not.

07:16:05.720 You know.

07:16:06.060 Like.

07:16:07.120 Why.

07:16:07.740 A person.

07:16:08.600 Could start doing it.

07:16:09.520 Three months in.

07:16:10.780 Is that she doesn't feel.

07:16:12.520 Like you're just using her support.

07:16:14.360 You're just using her for help.

07:16:15.980 You're just using her. 0.98

07:16:16.860 Or as you know.

07:16:18.740 Maybe like.

07:16:19.960 Some mom help.

07:16:21.220 You don't have as.

07:16:22.660 Like maybe a single guy.

07:16:24.280 Who can't find time.

07:16:25.880 But I mean.

07:16:26.440 Okay.

07:16:26.680 As the girl.

07:16:27.640 If this is a guy.

07:16:28.540 You want to spend time with.

07:16:30.080 Anyways.

07:16:30.660 And be with anyways.

07:16:31.540 And you find him attractive.

07:16:33.460 And perhaps you're.

07:16:35.200 Trying to.

07:16:36.400 Give yourself a competitive advantage.

07:16:38.280 Or an edge.

07:16:39.340 Over other women. 0.99

07:16:40.660 Or really make yourself.

07:16:42.400 Stand out.

07:16:43.300 As compared to other women. 0.99

07:16:44.580 Because look.

07:16:45.020 There's a lot of beautiful women. 1.00

07:16:46.320 There's a lot of.

07:16:46.720 Attractive women. 1.00

07:16:47.500 There's a lot of women. 1.00

07:16:48.120 Who are willing to give men sex. 1.00

07:16:50.180 What can you do. 0.99

07:16:51.480 That will make you stand out.

07:16:53.000 In the current meta.

07:16:55.240 So in video games.

07:16:56.140 There's this term.

07:16:56.780 Called the meta.

07:16:58.180 So. 1.00

07:16:58.920 Oh fuck. 1.00

07:16:59.580 Hold on. 1.00

07:16:59.860 It's an acronym.

07:17:00.700 Let me google it.

07:17:02.400 Meta.

07:17:03.900 Definition.

07:17:04.860 Wait. 1.00

07:17:05.140 Fuck. 1.00

07:17:05.400 What does it stand for? 1.00

07:17:06.600 Oh my god.

07:17:07.320 Wait.

07:17:07.580 Video games.

07:17:08.620 Sorry.

07:17:09.920 It stands for.

07:17:12.000 Most effective.

07:17:13.580 Tactics.

07:17:14.220 Available.

07:17:15.440 So in video games.

07:17:16.480 For example.

07:17:17.160 Like you'll have a meta.

07:17:18.700 So.

07:17:19.300 I'm trying to think.

07:17:20.200 Like in World of Warcraft Classic.

07:17:22.060 Right. 0.99

07:17:22.520 Let me give you guys some fucking game. 0.99

07:17:25.140 Literally. 1.00

07:17:25.860 No pun.

07:17:26.460 Or.

07:17:26.720 Well.

07:17:27.060 No pun intended.

07:17:28.040 Lower the volume Mary.

07:17:29.900 Put it.

07:17:30.340 I don't know.

07:17:30.740 Forty.

07:17:31.040 All right.

07:17:33.000 So in World of Warcraft Classic.

07:17:34.800 Let's say you're like a PVE raiding guild.

07:17:37.340 Right.

07:17:37.900 And you're speed running.

07:17:39.400 You're going to stack warriors.

07:17:41.260 You're going to maybe have three mages.

07:17:43.020 One warlock.

07:17:44.940 You know.

07:17:45.560 Some priests.

07:17:46.140 Some paladins.

07:17:46.820 For the buffs and stuff.

07:17:47.680 If you're on the lion's side.

07:17:48.940 Right.

07:17:49.220 Nice.

07:17:49.640 You're going to have one rogue.

07:17:51.320 You're going to have one rogue.

07:17:53.100 If you're speed running World of Warcraft.

07:17:55.480 For exposed.

07:17:56.680 Improved.

07:17:57.420 Exposed.

07:17:58.300 Armor.

07:17:59.660 Because you know.

07:18:00.420 You obviously.

07:18:01.060 As the rogue.

07:18:01.760 You know.

07:18:02.380 He's not really there for DPS.

07:18:03.820 He's there for.

07:18:06.500 Don't be rude.

07:18:07.640 He's there to.

07:18:09.720 I'm just so confused.

07:18:10.960 The rogue.

07:18:12.000 In a speed running guild.

07:18:13.260 Is only there for improved exposed armor.

07:18:15.920 You're going to stack a bunch of warriors.

07:18:17.820 And if you're speed running.

07:18:19.260 Right.

07:18:19.400 Because you're not going to bring a bunch of like.

07:18:21.140 Feral druids.

07:18:22.180 You're not going to bring.

07:18:24.360 Boomkins. 0.91

07:18:24.920 You're not going to bring.

07:18:25.680 Ret paladins.

07:18:26.820 You're not going to bring like.

07:18:29.260 Hunters.

07:18:30.040 Maybe you have one hunter.

07:18:31.240 For.

07:18:32.380 What is it?

07:18:34.060 I forgot the.

07:18:35.340 Enrage mechanic.

07:18:36.460 That they do.

07:18:37.620 It's.

07:18:37.940 Trank.

07:18:39.360 Trank shot. 0.98

07:18:40.360 You need trank shot. 0.94

07:18:41.320 Tranquilizing shot. 0.97

07:18:42.180 Yeah.

07:18:42.740 Of course.

07:18:43.220 Of course.

07:18:43.920 I guess.

07:18:45.540 Yeah.

07:18:46.080 You maybe bring one hunter.

07:18:47.820 And that's it.

07:18:49.360 And then.

07:18:50.240 But you mostly stack warriors.

07:18:51.960 If you're going to be speed running.

07:18:53.300 So yeah.

07:18:53.540 You can't bring a bunch of hunters.

07:18:55.040 And ret paladins. 1.00

07:18:56.540 And fucking. 1.00

07:18:59.680 Boomkins. 1.00

07:19:00.260 And druids.

07:19:01.120 And feral druids.

07:19:02.960 And what's all the other.

07:19:05.440 Yeah.

07:19:05.940 So anyways.

07:19:06.420 Um.

07:19:08.720 Meta.

07:19:09.100 Most meta.

07:19:10.080 Most effective tactics available.

07:19:12.020 And look.

07:19:12.480 I'm just saying.

07:19:13.080 I do think that.

07:19:14.680 Uh.

07:19:16.140 Oh.

07:19:16.620 Also you have to think about the.

07:19:17.880 Rate.

07:19:18.020 Rate.

07:19:18.540 Racial. 0.70

07:19:18.980 Right.

07:19:19.260 Like if you're alliance.

07:19:20.880 Uh.

07:19:21.180 You want dwarf.

07:19:22.780 Priests.

07:19:23.420 You don't want human priests. 0.50

07:19:24.420 You want dwarf. 0.70

07:19:25.300 Priests.

07:19:25.660 For fear ward.

07:19:26.580 For fear ward.

07:19:27.500 Of course.

07:19:27.940 Right.

07:19:28.200 You need the fear ward from the dwarf priests. 1.00

07:19:30.660 You probably want human warriors.

07:19:32.340 Uh.

07:19:33.260 Because of the sword skill.

07:19:34.940 The sword skill.

07:19:35.800 Uh.

07:19:36.240 It's a passive racial skill. 0.71

07:19:37.960 You also probably want.

07:19:39.720 Uh.

07:19:40.060 I mean.

07:19:40.380 Probably best in slot for mage.

07:19:42.180 Would be gnome.

07:19:42.940 Because of the.

07:19:43.520 The intellect buff they get.

07:19:45.080 You also probably want.

07:19:47.400 Um.

07:19:48.760 Uh.

07:19:49.180 Yeah.

07:19:49.720 Are you playing video games.

07:19:50.640 While we're doing laundry.

07:19:52.340 I don't play video games.

07:19:53.700 I used to play video games.

07:19:54.780 It sounds like you do.

07:19:56.020 No.

07:19:56.220 I used to play.

07:19:57.020 I used to be a classic Andy.

07:19:59.260 But look.

07:20:00.080 Meta.

07:20:00.720 Most effective tactics available.

07:20:03.220 And a lot of women. 1.00

07:20:05.040 Like a lot of women are basically like. 1.00

07:20:07.640 Casual raiding guilds.

07:20:09.160 When it comes to dating.

07:20:10.400 Like you're not doing all these things.

07:20:11.780 To potentially maximize your.

07:20:13.940 You know.

07:20:14.560 Like if you want to be in molten core.

07:20:16.560 For like.

07:20:16.960 You want to speed through it in 30 minutes.

07:20:19.060 And like the.

07:20:19.660 The.

07:20:20.240 You know.

07:20:21.460 Comparison would be. 1.00

07:20:22.280 You get the guy who's the fucking. 1.00

07:20:24.040 Head over heels for you. 1.00

07:20:25.780 Like the best thing you can do.

07:20:26.840 Is do his laundry.

07:20:27.580 Cook for him.

07:20:28.520 And you know.

07:20:29.340 Do that.

07:20:30.200 And be submissive.

07:20:31.040 And peaceful.

07:20:32.040 And like.

07:20:32.760 You know.

07:20:33.120 Be his girl.

07:20:34.240 Like that.

07:20:34.720 Right.

07:20:35.520 But y'all are just running.

07:20:37.460 Suboptimal raid compositions.

07:20:39.620 You're just like.

07:20:40.480 The.

07:20:40.980 Just.

07:20:41.860 You got.

07:20:42.480 The.

07:20:42.700 You women are not approaching. 0.99

07:20:44.840 This from a min max.

07:20:46.420 Like raiding perspective.

07:20:47.900 Like you're.

07:20:48.660 You guys.

07:20:49.140 If you guys had.

07:20:50.100 World of Warcraft guilds.

07:20:51.700 Like honestly.

07:20:52.320 If you guys did have.

07:20:53.560 World of Warcraft guilds.

07:20:54.420 You guys would be.

07:20:56.020 I don't even know.

07:20:56.980 If you'd get out of.

07:20:57.900 Upper Blackrock Spire.

07:20:59.300 I don't even think.

07:21:00.220 You would get attuned.

07:21:01.160 For.

07:21:01.500 Onyxia.

07:21:02.180 Stop.

07:21:02.800 I don't even think.

07:21:03.740 You would be attuned.

07:21:04.920 For Molten Core.

07:21:06.080 Even if you did.

07:21:07.000 Finally get attuned.

07:21:07.820 For Molten Core.

07:21:08.660 You guys are not.

07:21:09.760 Getting world buffs.

07:21:10.900 You're probably.

07:21:12.020 Wiping on Lucifron.

07:21:13.360 Three times.

07:21:14.360 Have.

07:21:14.880 I don't even know.

07:21:15.520 If you can get to.

07:21:16.540 Magmadar. 0.98

07:21:17.500 It's fucking insane here. 1.00

07:21:19.080 It's completely ridiculous. 1.00

07:21:20.720 I think also. 0.97

07:21:21.900 I mean.

07:21:22.260 You're coming in.

07:21:23.120 You guys are not.

07:21:24.180 Like pre-bis.

07:21:25.300 You're not.

07:21:25.880 You know.

07:21:26.220 You don't have enchants.

07:21:27.280 On any of your armor.

07:21:28.640 You don't have enchants.

07:21:29.440 On your weapons.

07:21:30.460 You don't have consumables.

07:21:31.660 You don't have world buffs.

07:21:32.900 You don't even have.

07:21:33.620 Rallying Cry.

07:21:34.640 Of the Dragon Slayer.

07:21:35.740 You don't have.

07:21:36.380 War Chief.

07:21:36.660 Well.

07:21:36.860 War Chief's Blessing on the Lions.

07:21:38.460 That's a bit more difficult to get.

07:21:39.960 But you don't have.

07:21:40.840 Song Flower.

07:21:42.180 You don't have.

07:21:42.940 The DMF buff.

07:21:44.440 You don't have.

07:21:45.160 Dire Maul buffs. 1.00

07:21:46.260 It's completely fucking ridiculous. 1.00

07:21:48.140 You guys are. 1.00

07:21:49.100 In terms of women. 1.00

07:21:50.460 How y'all are dating.

07:21:51.480 You guys.

07:21:52.080 If you were compared.

07:21:53.380 Like doing some allegory.

07:21:55.100 Is that the right word?

07:21:55.740 If we're doing a comparative analysis.

07:21:58.100 Of how women move in dating. 0.95

07:22:00.760 And like.

07:22:01.260 If we were comparing it.

07:22:02.220 To World of Warcraft.

07:22:03.100 Rating guilds.

07:22:03.980 Again.

07:22:04.460 You guys are.

07:22:05.020 You guys are spending. 1.00

07:22:06.140 Fucking five hours. 1.00

07:22:07.620 In Molten Core. 1.00

07:22:08.740 Wipe after wipe after wipe.

07:22:10.600 Wiping on Lucy.

07:22:12.000 Wiping on Mag.

07:22:13.260 Wiping on Shaz. 1.00

07:22:14.380 Wiping on fuck. 1.00

07:22:16.800 Wiping. 1.00

07:22:18.100 And by the way.

07:22:19.140 When it comes to.

07:22:19.820 When you finally get the Ragnaros kill.

07:22:22.240 You get the.

07:22:23.020 You get the phase two.

07:22:24.600 Or whatever.

07:22:25.300 Like if you're a proper raiding guild.

07:22:26.840 You never get the. 1.00

07:22:28.400 Fuck. 1.00

07:22:28.780 What's it called? 1.00

07:22:29.340 Chat.

07:22:29.640 Chat.

07:22:29.900 Chat.

07:22:30.120 Chat.

07:22:30.280 Chat.

07:22:30.420 Chat.

07:22:30.700 What's it called?

07:22:31.360 When you're fighting Ragnaros.

07:22:32.540 And he does the.

07:22:33.820 He summons like the little suns.

07:22:35.920 What's that called?

07:22:36.640 Chat.

07:22:37.740 Chat.

07:22:38.180 Chat.

07:22:38.320 Chat.

07:22:38.520 What's that called?

07:22:39.060 When you're with Ragnaros.

07:22:41.900 What is it?

07:22:42.540 Chat.

07:22:43.040 Somebody in the chat.

07:22:43.840 Help me.

07:22:44.380 This is a Ragnaros.

07:22:45.560 And you get phase two of.

07:22:47.660 Submerged.

07:22:48.620 Submerged. 1.00

07:22:49.080 You guys are fucking shit up. 1.00

07:22:51.120 No. 1.00

07:22:51.820 No.

07:22:52.520 Honestly. 0.99

07:22:53.060 You should be able to kill Ragnaros before submerge.

07:22:56.400 Even without world buffs. 0.88

07:22:57.880 Like.

07:22:58.280 Even in greens. 1.00

07:22:59.200 You should be able to get the kill without fucking. 1.00

07:23:01.060 A submerge. 1.00

07:23:01.960 That's how you guys are approaching shit. 0.99

07:23:03.780 If I'm. 0.99

07:23:04.400 If I'm in a fight.

07:23:05.360 If I've got a guild.

07:23:06.500 A raiding guild.

07:23:07.160 And we're getting submerged.

07:23:08.820 That's a G quit. 1.00

07:23:10.080 Complete fucking G quit. 0.99

07:23:11.580 I'm joining another raiding guild. 1.00

07:23:13.280 I don't care how toxic it is. 1.00

07:23:14.900 I don't care how bullshit. 1.00

07:23:16.320 If it's fucking loot council. 1.00

07:23:17.640 I don't care. 1.00

07:23:18.140 I am not spending five hours in Molten Core.

07:23:21.280 I'm not spending five hours in Molten Core.

07:23:23.520 I want to be in there one hour max.

07:23:25.620 That's it.

07:23:27.220 I understood all of it.

07:23:29.060 Can I summarize what you're trying to say?

07:23:31.800 Sorry.

07:23:33.520 I've never been more interested in what you're saying.

07:23:36.180 And confused at the same time.

07:23:38.140 I think what he's trying to say is that.

07:23:40.020 You know.

07:23:40.880 Women aren't doing the most things. 1.00

07:23:43.520 To be the most desirable for men.

07:23:46.860 Meta.

07:23:47.620 Who is Ragnaros?

07:23:49.740 Yes.

07:23:50.520 Women are like. 1.00

07:23:51.640 If they were playing World of Warcraft.

07:23:54.040 They would not be min-maxing.

07:23:55.800 They would be completely sub-optimal.

07:23:58.240 Like all the things sub-optimal.

07:24:00.360 You're probably clickers.

07:24:01.820 You're probably not even.

07:24:02.700 You don't even have key binds.

07:24:04.280 You're just.

07:24:04.860 You're literally with your mouse.

07:24:06.800 You're clicking.

07:24:07.620 You're clicking on your abilities.

07:24:09.540 That's how women are moving in the dating landscape. 1.00

07:24:12.700 And I'm just saying.

07:24:13.480 You got to have your key binds set.

07:24:15.440 You got to have your consumables.

07:24:16.740 Your world buffs.

07:24:17.600 You got to come correct.

07:24:19.020 You want to deal with a good guy.

07:24:20.680 You want to get the.

07:24:21.940 You want to land the good guy.

07:24:23.100 You want to get the loot.

07:24:24.640 You want to get the epics.

07:24:26.440 The purples.

07:24:27.260 The legendaries.

07:24:28.380 You got to come correct.

07:24:30.160 You got to do the laundry.

07:24:31.480 You got to bow.

07:24:32.380 You got to cook.

07:24:33.220 You got to clean.

07:24:34.280 You can't be.

07:24:35.100 You can't.

07:24:35.540 And women. 1.00

07:24:36.060 The guys are fucking up. 1.00

07:24:37.220 Okay. 1.00

07:24:40.180 Anyways.

07:24:40.600 Let's blast through the rest of the stuff.

07:24:42.200 I know.

07:24:42.520 This is.

07:24:43.160 All right.

07:24:43.760 I'm so lost.

07:24:45.360 Okay.

07:24:45.760 Also.

07:24:46.060 I think we'll feed you guys later.

07:24:47.420 I need to.

07:24:47.860 Is.

07:24:48.440 Is.

07:24:49.380 Pizza.

07:24:49.900 Should we get pizza?

07:24:51.320 Pizza.

07:24:51.940 Maybe we'll get some pizza.

07:24:52.800 We'll see.

07:24:53.100 Okay.

07:24:53.320 Okay.

07:24:53.640 Let me.

07:24:55.220 What is the minimum.

07:24:56.400 What is the minimum yearly income to be your future husband?

07:25:01.200 What did I put?

07:25:01.780 60,000?

07:25:03.200 Well, you just.

07:25:04.140 60 to 100k?

07:25:05.580 Um.

07:25:06.180 Just repeat it.

07:25:07.140 60 to 100k specifically because I have three children.

07:25:10.760 What about you?

07:25:12.480 What did mine say?

07:25:14.700 Guys.

07:25:15.160 I'm trying to run through this.

07:25:16.140 Uh.

07:25:16.380 What is the.

07:25:16.900 Try to pay attention.

07:25:17.480 What is the minimum yearly income to be your future husband?

07:25:20.760 Mine said 10 mil annually. 1.00

07:25:24.120 Damn. 1.00

07:25:24.720 Wait. 1.00

07:25:25.180 Jamie?

07:25:25.620 Who's Jamie?

07:25:27.060 Oh.

07:25:28.800 Oh.

07:25:29.400 Hold on.

07:25:30.480 It was out of order.

07:25:31.460 Rude.

07:25:32.480 Mary.

07:25:33.000 Rude.

07:25:34.380 Nope.

07:25:35.060 It's okay.

07:25:35.840 Uh.

07:25:36.420 10 million annually.

07:25:40.280 That's your minimum?

07:25:41.420 I am like.

07:25:42.840 Okay.

07:25:44.180 Oh boy.

07:25:44.660 But you're not going to sleep with someone after being with them for three years?

07:25:48.360 But you still.

07:25:49.080 Hold on.

07:25:49.300 If I'm planning to.

07:25:51.460 Okay.

07:25:51.780 Hold on.

07:25:52.940 I have to put this thought together.

07:25:55.640 To make it actually understandable.

07:25:58.420 If I'm planning to be like successful and rich myself.

07:26:02.480 Then my whatever who he's going to be.

07:26:07.020 Partner.

07:26:08.760 Should also.

07:26:10.580 Should also be like successful and rich.

07:26:13.860 So we could not have to depend on each other financially.

07:26:18.300 And not have to be latching on each other.

07:26:21.640 So what you're saying is.

07:26:23.780 You think you're going to be making.

07:26:26.540 I have to be making.

07:26:27.460 Yeah.

07:26:27.860 You.

07:26:28.140 No, no, no.

07:26:28.860 You think you're going to be making.

07:26:30.520 10 million dollars a year annually.

07:26:34.080 Yeah.

07:26:37.680 There's something.

07:26:38.480 You know, I.

07:26:40.660 Maybe I'm a jaded old man.

07:26:43.220 I've seen a lot of battles.

07:26:45.120 Had a lot of wars.

07:26:46.020 And I hate to crush the dreams of ambitions.

07:26:50.740 Of a.

07:26:52.680 Mostly lovely.

07:26:55.180 Young.

07:26:57.220 You've got.

07:26:57.920 You've got the twinkle in your eye.

07:27:01.320 Should I be the guy?

07:27:02.420 Should I be that guy?

07:27:04.420 Anything is possible.

07:27:05.240 She's young.

07:27:05.760 She's 18.

07:27:06.540 I don't know.

07:27:11.680 Do you want the brutal truth?

07:27:14.340 Oh.

07:27:14.800 Take it.

07:27:15.320 Take it.

07:27:16.920 Okay.

07:27:18.160 Unwilling.

07:27:18.820 I mean.

07:27:20.580 All right.

07:27:22.420 You think you'll make 10 million dollars a year?

07:27:26.540 I gotta be.

07:27:28.180 What do you mean you gotta be?

07:27:30.860 Like I have to.

07:27:33.380 I don't know.

07:27:34.640 I.

07:27:35.340 I have to put that.

07:27:37.480 Like manifest that.

07:27:38.820 And make that happen.

07:27:43.780 Do you have a path.

07:27:45.020 To get yourself to that goal?

07:27:47.220 She's a musician.

07:27:48.980 She's a singer. 1.00

07:27:51.200 Okay.

07:27:55.860 I'll let the chat decide.

07:27:57.240 Chat.

07:27:57.560 Do I crush.

07:27:58.800 The spirit.

07:28:00.700 Do I.

07:28:01.120 Oh my god. 1.00

07:28:01.700 I'm such a dick. 1.00

07:28:02.840 Chat. 1.00

07:28:03.540 Do I give her.

07:28:04.660 A bit.

07:28:05.280 A dose of reality.

07:28:06.380 Or do I allow her to continue.

07:28:08.700 In her.

07:28:10.800 Manifestation.

07:28:12.560 Crush.

07:28:14.200 Or is it.

07:28:14.840 You know.

07:28:15.060 It's a bit much.

07:28:15.840 You know.

07:28:16.060 18.

07:28:16.680 It's like.

07:28:17.020 Come on.

07:28:17.360 They got the.

07:28:18.980 The world's an oyster.

07:28:20.440 Is that the saying?

07:28:21.560 What is it?

07:28:21.860 The world is a.

07:28:22.560 The world is your oyster.

07:28:23.700 The world is your oyster.

07:28:24.680 Is it a crush.

07:28:26.900 Do we crush.

07:28:28.100 Grind to dust.

07:28:30.880 Okay.

07:28:31.560 Let her be.

07:28:32.840 Wait.

07:28:33.020 Let her be.

07:28:33.540 Don't hesitate.

07:28:34.300 Be honest.

07:28:34.740 Tell the truth.

07:28:35.280 Okay.

07:28:35.480 Okay.

07:28:35.540 Two angles here.

07:28:39.640 Well I think.

07:28:40.420 If anybody was a betting man.

07:28:42.760 Regardless of the talent.

07:28:44.020 You do or don't possess.

07:28:45.980 To make 10 million dollars a year.

07:28:47.560 Annually.

07:28:48.100 Is like.

07:28:50.100 Insane.

07:28:54.020 Most musicians definitely.

07:28:56.660 Do not make that much money.

07:28:58.120 Unless you're top.

07:28:58.800 Top.

07:28:59.000 Top.

07:28:59.200 Top tier.

07:29:00.980 That's like.

07:29:02.260 Swally.

07:29:03.640 I don't.

07:29:04.020 I doubt.

07:29:05.540 I don't know who that is.

07:29:07.800 I doubt he makes 10 million dollars a year.

07:29:09.460 Oh no.

07:29:10.280 Definitely not.

07:29:10.900 I don't know who that is.

07:29:12.100 Wait.

07:29:12.620 Hold on.

07:29:13.120 It's. 1.00

07:29:13.760 Who the fuck is that guy? 0.99

07:29:15.360 He's not making 10 dollars a year. 1.00

07:29:18.020 Okay.

07:29:19.120 10 dollars a year.

07:29:20.680 Probably not.

07:29:23.820 Look.

07:29:25.860 I know that there's a.

07:29:27.280 A lot of people use auto tune.

07:29:29.960 You can do a lot of manipulation.

07:29:31.520 In the.

07:29:33.000 Audio.

07:29:34.020 But.

07:29:35.540 I heard you're singing.

07:29:39.440 Are you a songwriter too?

07:29:41.580 Yeah.

07:29:42.820 So you write lyrics?

07:29:44.380 Yeah.

07:29:45.960 Well.

07:29:49.020 Oh.

07:29:49.700 I sensed she was nervous while singing.

07:29:56.440 So.

07:29:57.940 Look.

07:29:58.440 Even.

07:29:58.800 Hold on.

07:29:59.580 Let me say this.

07:30:01.200 There's a lot of phenomenal singers out there. 0.89

07:30:03.880 Just because you're an amazing singer.

07:30:05.880 There's a lot of.

07:30:06.800 Women in chorus.

07:30:08.020 And choir.

07:30:08.540 And sopranos.

07:30:09.200 And altos. 1.00

07:30:10.260 Or whatever bullshit. 0.97

07:30:11.680 And they're really amazing singers. 0.99

07:30:13.900 Amazing singers.

07:30:15.220 Yeah.

07:30:15.440 Even if you've got an amazing voice.

07:30:17.980 That isn't enough.

07:30:23.680 I gotta be honest.

07:30:26.400 I don't.

07:30:27.360 Think.

07:30:28.640 You got it.

07:30:31.520 This is American Idol by the way.

07:30:33.340 Mm-hmm.

07:30:34.740 They would have been way worse than that.

07:30:36.300 Okay.

07:30:38.500 Well with that being said.

07:30:44.540 With that being said.

07:30:46.160 We have more to.

07:30:47.800 I.

07:30:48.180 I'm.

07:30:48.760 I can't finish.

07:30:49.760 I've been trying since I freaking throw up.

07:30:51.860 I.

07:30:52.040 I can't.

07:30:53.140 So.

07:30:53.940 I'm.

07:30:54.680 It was great talking to all you ladies.

07:30:57.040 How about really quick.

07:30:58.100 I'll do.

07:30:59.120 Let me finish the minimum income.

07:31:02.060 I'll ask one further question.

07:31:03.200 And if you want.

07:31:03.900 You can.

07:31:04.900 Do you want to take a.

07:31:05.680 Like a breather.

07:31:06.600 You want to take another break.

07:31:07.640 And see how you feel in a bit.

07:31:08.700 I've been taking like 20 breathers.

07:31:10.980 Okay.

07:31:11.340 It's just not.

07:31:11.780 All right.

07:31:12.040 Well let.

07:31:12.540 Here.

07:31:12.780 Let me go around the table on this.

07:31:13.980 I'll ask one other question.

07:31:14.960 And if you really must go.

07:31:16.160 For your.

07:31:17.760 You're not feeling well.

07:31:18.740 Whatever.

07:31:19.040 That's fine.

07:31:19.760 Minimum yearly income.

07:31:22.580 It honestly doesn't matter.

07:31:24.140 But I would.

07:31:24.900 If I have to choose 80 to 100k.

07:31:28.000 I don't really care though.

07:31:30.500 Okay.

07:31:30.840 What about you?

07:31:31.740 I'd say minimum 100k.

07:31:33.740 What about you?

07:31:34.880 100k.

07:31:35.780 What about you?

07:31:36.780 80 plus.

07:31:39.100 Guys.

07:31:39.800 You know it's coming to you.

07:31:41.380 Come on.

07:31:41.700 Let's.

07:31:42.100 100.

07:31:43.320 Okay.

07:31:44.080 I wrote no minimum.

07:31:45.860 No minimum.

07:31:46.640 No minimum.

07:31:47.180 But I put 40k.

07:31:48.440 Just because it's a bare.

07:31:49.160 Bare minimum.

07:31:50.720 Okay.

07:31:51.380 All right.

07:31:51.880 And then here.

07:31:52.920 We'll do this one.

07:31:55.560 Here.

07:31:56.320 Well.

07:31:56.900 Who thinks past should not matter.

07:31:59.140 Body count.

07:31:59.680 Show of hands.

07:32:01.240 Past should not matter.

07:32:02.380 Passion.

07:32:03.500 Were you raising your hand there?

07:32:05.580 Should past not matter?

07:32:07.880 Probably not.

07:32:10.240 Matter in a sense of like what?

07:32:13.160 Like I don't know.

07:32:13.960 Is it insecure for a guy to care about the woman's body count?

07:32:17.640 No.

07:32:18.140 But is it like a deal breaker?

07:32:21.280 Or that man?

07:32:23.780 Okay.

07:32:24.480 Going around the table.

07:32:25.620 Starting with you.

07:32:27.200 Body count.

07:32:27.840 It's in the double digits.

07:32:31.360 Do you want to do a range or?

07:32:33.020 Low double digits.

07:32:34.640 10, 20, 30.

07:32:36.340 It's like.

07:32:37.220 It's like.

07:32:38.340 It's less.

07:32:39.000 Because you said reformed hoe. 1.00

07:32:40.080 All right.

07:32:40.460 I'll say it.

07:32:41.020 It's 20.

07:32:41.720 Okay.

07:32:42.100 Sure.

07:32:44.340 Single digits.

07:32:45.140 Do you want to give a number or give a range?

07:32:47.240 High single digits.

07:32:49.520 7, 8, 9.

07:32:50.720 Like yes.

07:32:51.340 Okay.

07:32:51.520 I honestly don't know.

07:32:55.540 Like when you say you don't know, like did you forget or?

07:33:00.020 I stopped counting at like 50.

07:33:04.540 Okay.

07:33:07.420 When, when was the 50?

07:33:11.880 Like a couple of years ago?

07:33:13.260 Yeah.

07:33:13.520 A couple of years ago.

07:33:14.320 Early 20s.

07:33:15.200 Yeah.

07:33:15.760 Yeah.

07:33:16.400 Anyway.

07:33:17.160 There's a story behind it, but also reformed hoe basically. 0.99

07:33:20.060 Reformed hoe. 1.00

07:33:20.580 Yeah.

07:33:21.240 Reformed hoe. 1.00

07:33:21.880 Okay.

07:33:22.240 But still single.

07:33:23.580 Do you think it might be over a hundred?

07:33:25.760 No, definitely not.

07:33:26.620 So somewhere between 50 and I guess a hundred.

07:33:29.520 Less than a hundred.

07:33:30.340 Definitely less than a hundred.

07:33:31.080 On the lower end.

07:33:31.940 Yeah.

07:33:32.120 Okay.

07:33:33.060 Do you have a list?

07:33:34.240 Did you ever take a, have a list?

07:33:36.400 Like in, well, who here?

07:33:37.940 American Pie inspired me to make a list.

07:33:40.580 I had a list before, but I deleted it.

07:33:41.580 Like on your phone, do you have a list?

07:33:42.700 I deleted it.

07:33:43.480 Okay.

07:33:44.020 I did once upon a time, but I don't know.

07:33:45.720 Not anymore.

07:33:46.280 Body count?

07:33:47.200 I'm not happy, but I think it's around 50.

07:33:48.860 I don't know the exact number.

07:33:50.380 Because you said, did you say reformed hoe too? 1.00

07:33:52.900 Okay.

07:33:53.800 I'm a reformed hoe also. 0.91

07:33:57.120 Brian, what's yours?

07:33:58.620 Hold on.

07:33:59.040 We'll get to that.

07:33:59.560 So you said around 50, right?

07:34:02.600 I think so.

07:34:03.360 Okay.

07:34:03.640 What about you?

07:34:05.020 I think I'm around 55.

07:34:07.180 55?

07:34:08.520 Between 50 and 55.

07:34:09.900 Over 30, under 35.

07:34:11.920 I don't know.

07:34:12.680 Sure.

07:34:14.080 Three.

07:34:14.800 Three.

07:34:15.460 Okay.

07:34:16.400 Nine, but I only, or eight, but I only count.

07:34:19.400 What?

07:34:20.140 Nine, but I only count eight.

07:34:22.440 One was when I was really little.

07:34:24.560 That doesn't count.

07:34:25.580 Yeah.

07:34:25.800 We won't count anything that's consensual.

07:34:29.740 Yeah.

07:34:30.820 Okay.

07:34:31.340 That was it for that question.

07:34:33.040 We have some.

07:34:34.460 What?

07:34:35.140 Yeah, yours.

07:34:36.080 Oh.

07:34:36.640 I'm sure my body counts.

07:34:37.780 But thank you everyone for sharing.

07:34:42.960 Thank you guys.

07:34:43.660 Anything we can do to get you.

07:34:44.760 I'm a virgin.

07:34:45.660 I'm a virgin.

07:34:46.240 I believe you.

07:34:47.400 I'm a virgin.

07:34:48.240 I've never had sex. 0.55

07:34:50.780 I don't know what I'm talking about. 1.00

07:34:52.240 It's all been bullshit this entire show. 1.00

07:34:55.260 All my previous, all bullshit. 1.00

07:34:56.420 You're an incel. 1.00

07:34:57.580 Yeah, I'm an incel.

07:34:58.580 Exactly.

07:34:58.980 I'm a virgin.

07:35:00.240 You know, well, what can I say?

07:35:03.380 Yeah.

07:35:03.960 Does anybody want to be my first or what?

07:35:08.400 Oh, is there anything open that we can order?

07:35:12.620 Okay.

07:35:13.840 Do you think you could grab it?

07:35:15.140 I can grab it.

07:35:15.720 Okay.

07:35:16.200 Yeah, yeah.

07:35:16.520 We'll do that.

07:35:16.980 We'll do that.

07:35:17.420 We'll get.

07:35:17.540 Can I request a.

07:35:18.840 Into the mic.

07:35:19.380 Into the mic.

07:35:20.000 Energy.

07:35:20.840 No.

07:35:21.340 Can I request a salad with chicken?

07:35:23.120 Because I'm allergic to everything on a pizza.

07:35:25.380 Yeah.

07:35:25.880 We're fine with that.

07:35:26.380 Can I double that?

07:35:27.180 Sorry. 1.00

07:35:28.200 Holy fuck. 1.00

07:35:30.280 Mary pays for this. 1.00

07:35:32.340 Yeah.

07:35:32.600 You'll get reimbursed.

07:35:33.500 Okay.

07:35:34.360 Just, yeah.

07:35:34.960 If there's salads, you can get them.

07:35:36.220 What do you want?

07:35:36.640 Salad?

07:35:36.800 Salad with chicken.

07:35:38.160 All right.

07:35:38.520 We'll give them some salads.

07:35:39.520 All right.

07:35:39.780 There it is.

07:35:40.660 Unless you guys.

07:35:41.560 Do you guys want just like plain cheese or no?

07:35:43.640 Can I not have anything?

07:35:44.960 Just save money.

07:35:45.740 I don't need anything.

07:35:46.160 Yeah.

07:35:46.440 I don't need anything either.

07:35:47.540 I mean, a pizza is usually.

07:35:48.460 I want pizza.

07:35:49.860 Okay.

07:35:50.400 We'll get.

07:35:50.700 Wait.

07:35:51.160 Maybe like a small pizza.

07:35:53.060 Wait.

07:35:53.280 So.

07:35:53.960 No?

07:35:54.620 I'm fasting right now.

07:35:55.940 Fasting.

07:35:56.460 No food.

07:35:57.140 No food.

07:35:58.120 No pizza.

07:35:58.280 I'll eat a salad if nobody else wants pizza, but.

07:36:00.500 I want a salad, but not pizza.

07:36:02.280 But I don't want to ask for a salad.

07:36:03.640 We just.

07:36:04.160 Everybody's going to.

07:36:04.700 We're going to get a salad and a pizza, and we're going to figure it out.

07:36:09.560 Perfect.

07:36:10.080 Okay.

07:36:10.360 Perfect.

07:36:10.860 All right.

07:36:11.520 Rock and roll.

07:36:13.020 All right.

07:36:13.760 How tall are you, and what's the minimum height of a man you would date?

07:36:17.340 Me?

07:36:17.740 Oh, I am five foot eight, and five, four, five, three.

07:36:27.300 Okay.

07:36:27.320 What about you?

07:36:28.540 I'm five, seven, so I'm thinking he has to be five, eight, or up.

07:36:36.500 Definitely.

07:36:37.320 Okay.

07:36:37.620 What about you?

07:36:38.280 I'm five, eight.

07:36:39.140 I would prefer for him to be like six feet or over.

07:36:42.520 Okay.

07:36:42.820 What about you?

07:36:43.760 I'm five, five, minimum five, ten.

07:36:47.020 You said five, eleven here, I think, but whatever.

07:36:49.580 Yeah, I decided to give it a ten shot.

07:36:50.920 I'm five, five, probably the same height or higher.

07:36:53.300 My husband's five, ten.

07:36:54.880 I am five, three, minimum five, six, just a little bit taller than me.

07:36:59.880 Okay.

07:37:00.560 I'm five, six, I think, minimum five, seven.

07:37:04.120 I'm five, nine, minimum five, nine.

07:37:07.280 I'm five, one, minimum five, five.

07:37:09.720 All right.

07:37:10.260 Did anybody pick Bear?

07:37:12.080 We're going to just, yeah, I don't think so.

07:37:14.040 Oh, one person did.

07:37:15.300 Katie?

07:37:16.020 Katie?

07:37:16.820 Katie?

07:37:17.140 Katie?

07:37:17.620 Is that you?

07:37:18.280 Yeah.

07:37:19.060 What did I pick?

07:37:19.480 You picked, you picked, you'd rather cross paths with a random bear over a man?

07:37:25.040 Yes.

07:37:25.660 Okay.

07:37:26.640 Well, we don't have time for that, but disavow, disagree.

07:37:31.940 That's fine.

07:37:32.560 Okay, we're going to blast through some of the other notes here.

07:37:39.260 Leda, you said that, or at least you agree, women are just as physically strong as men.

07:37:43.860 First of all, it's Lada.

07:37:45.740 Oh, Lada, okay.

07:37:47.580 Leda, Lada.

07:37:49.720 Yeah.

07:37:50.340 Do you think women are, are women just as physically strong as men? 1.00

07:37:54.140 Not, I don't know, physically, but honestly.

07:37:57.760 Yeah, physically, though, that was the...

07:37:59.700 Yeah, probably, yeah.

07:38:02.860 Women are just as physically strong as men? 0.97

07:38:05.420 Honestly, does it say physically, because I don't...

07:38:08.100 Yeah, yeah, that's what it says.

07:38:14.800 Honestly, at this point, I don't think so.

07:38:18.760 Okay, so maybe you were just mistaken on that, then?

07:38:22.460 Is that fair to say?

07:38:24.200 Probably fair to say, yeah.

07:38:26.500 Okay.

07:38:29.160 All right.

07:38:32.020 You also circle here, men are more privileged in society than women.

07:38:36.280 Just really quick, why do you think that is?

07:38:37.680 Um, because they have more opportunities to, I don't know, I feel like their opinion is

07:38:48.320 more valuable in, like, a society.

07:38:57.500 Men's opinion is more valuable, okay. 0.99

07:39:00.700 I'm not really going to provide much pushback there.

07:39:02.880 You also circled for 18, women do not have equal rights to men in the USA. 0.55

07:39:08.700 Why do you think that?

07:39:11.420 I think it's circling back to the same point that I just think anything that men say is

07:39:18.560 probably more valued.

07:39:20.820 What would that have to do with rights, though?

07:39:24.900 So maybe, yes, societally, culturally, let's go ahead and grant that maybe that might be the

07:39:29.460 case, could be the case, I don't know if I agree, but, uh, I don't know what that would

07:39:34.120 have to do with, like, rights.

07:39:36.360 Right, why is?

07:39:38.360 Like, men don't have a right to be taken more seriously, as granted by the government.

07:39:46.080 Mm-hmm.

07:39:48.380 That's something to think about.

07:39:50.780 Well, on the rights, I'm not really sure, but...

07:39:58.080 Okay, um, I think a few other people, uh, men are more privileged in society than women,

07:40:04.060 also circled on that, uh, Alyssa?

07:40:07.640 Alyssa.

07:40:08.340 Sorry, Alyssa.

07:40:09.420 That's okay.

07:40:10.960 Isn't?

07:40:11.680 Well, okay, um, men are more privileged in society than women, why do you think that?

07:40:15.360 Did I circle that?

07:40:16.240 You did.

07:40:16.840 Oh, my bad.

07:40:17.240 Maybe you're mistaken?

07:40:18.580 I was rushed, but...

07:40:19.600 Okay, Katie?

07:40:20.980 Uh, same thing that I spoke about earlier, just that a lot of times, like, in board rooms

07:40:24.620 and, uh, especially in, like, a medical field, men are typically paid higher or whatever,

07:40:29.060 or paid more attention to.

07:40:31.040 Okay.

07:40:31.600 I have some contentions with that, but I don't, I'm not gonna really, I won't bite on it.

07:40:36.400 Um, in terms of the questionnaire, I don't know if there's really too much else for this.

07:40:41.320 Uh, um, uh, Lada or Leda?

07:40:48.760 Lada.

07:40:49.200 Lada.

07:40:50.100 Uh, you said men should pay on first dates, men should be chivalrous, um, you said you

07:40:56.760 would, uh, you want to keep your last name or hyphenate in marriage?

07:41:01.280 I would say I'd keep my last name, probably.

07:41:05.000 Definitely, yeah.

07:41:05.620 Okay, um, do you, is that, I don't know if it's different in Russia, culturally?

07:41:14.840 Like, do women keep their last names? 1.00

07:41:16.560 No, we don't.

07:41:17.440 I mean, we're not...

07:41:18.380 So you're just, like, a feminist, modern woman? 1.00

07:41:20.300 My mom kept her last name, but that was a personal choice.

07:41:24.780 I meant to circle that one, also.

07:41:26.440 Oh, you want to keep your last name?

07:41:27.880 Um, my, my man actually does, because his last name is, like, affiliated with his family

07:41:34.720 who's in prison, and my last name is King, and he wants my last name, because it's cool.

07:41:40.420 Oh, okay.

07:41:41.500 Yeah.

07:41:42.180 So, yeah.

07:41:43.140 Um, all right.

07:41:46.540 Huh.

07:41:47.580 And, uh, I do notice, though, that for you, you said men should pay on first dates, men should 0.85

07:41:52.520 be chivalrous.

07:41:54.000 Um, what about your kids?

07:41:55.880 Can they have your husband's last name?

07:41:58.780 Yeah, I guess.

07:42:00.220 Okay, just you, you want to keep your last name?

07:42:01.860 All right.

07:42:02.020 I, I guess my, the reason I bring it up is, I think it's, I think in society, what we

07:42:08.200 see happening frequently is you have a lot of women who want the benefits of traditional 1.00

07:42:16.440 chivalrous culture or treatment, but you guys don't want to do anything traditional.

07:42:24.420 So men should be traditional. 0.99

07:42:26.200 Women should be modern. 1.00

07:42:27.160 The man should provide, the man should protect, the man should pay for dates, the man should 0.99

07:42:32.480 be chivalrous, the man should do X, Y, Z.

07:42:35.840 But I won't do, I don't do anything.

07:42:39.220 I won't take his last name.

07:42:40.840 I won't be submissive.

07:42:43.000 I'll wear the pants.

07:42:44.200 I'll call the shots.

07:42:46.640 It seems like a raw deal for men.

07:42:48.120 I think you have a very agreeable group here.

07:42:54.860 I don't know if you guys are agreeable, but.

07:42:56.720 I wasn't sure if you were asking the group or if you were asking one person.

07:43:00.900 It could be, either is fine.

07:43:02.960 Okay.

07:43:03.620 Either is fine.

07:43:04.240 I mean, I agree.

07:43:08.760 I do think that that's kind of a phenomenon that's going on.

07:43:11.160 I think a lot of us personally probably are a bit more submissive to our partners or want

07:43:17.780 to be with a partner.

07:43:20.660 Yeah, but I think that there's nuances to that as well.

07:43:23.140 And we all have our own, maybe we want to be submissive, but we also want to hyphenate

07:43:28.700 our name or last name.

07:43:30.040 Um, so, and I do think that there are a lot of nuances within mixing traditional and modern

07:43:35.500 values.

07:43:36.800 And, um, I think you just got to find the person that aligns with you for that.

07:43:41.780 Yeah.

07:43:42.340 I, it seems though that, uh, look, I, I don't think like when it comes to being traditional,

07:43:47.280 I don't think it has to be an all or nothing thing.

07:43:50.820 I think that tradition can be to some degree a spectrum.

07:43:55.520 I don't think, you know, um, you know, you're okay.

07:44:00.040 Well, if both the men and the woman, woman, they're not virgins, uh, and they had premarital

07:44:06.200 sex, I think you can still have like a really traditional dynamic.

07:44:09.680 Even if you're one or both of you aren't like virgins on your wedding night, you can still

07:44:14.440 have like a really traditional dynamic.

07:44:16.580 That would be perhaps one of the, one of the ways in which you have like an ultimate manifestation

07:44:20.760 of a more traditional, uh, dynamic.

07:44:24.900 But I think my big thing that I see is it seems like, like women are treating it a bit 1.00

07:44:31.900 like a buffet and maybe sometimes men are too, where it's like, okay, as the woman, you want

07:44:40.020 all the benefits of modernity.

07:44:41.460 You want the benefits of tradition and you want to kind of reject the perhaps, uh, downsides

07:44:47.960 of modernity and reject the downsides of tradition.

07:44:53.160 So it's like, okay, if like we're viewing things through a feminist equality lens, if you believe

07:44:59.240 in equality, women should pay, I mean, it should be 50, 50 on dates, but almost, almost all of 1.00

07:45:06.700 you, except for like one or two, you also said men should pay on first dates, men should

07:45:10.880 provide, protect, men should be chivalrous.

07:45:13.140 So it's like, it seems like there is a general idea here that women want to hold on.

07:45:18.380 You want to keep the benefits, reject the downsides.

07:45:22.200 Well, with my ex, we would split whenever we would go out to eat, we would split.

07:45:27.620 And that was my choice.

07:45:28.860 And I had friends like female friends who would scold me for it. 0.92

07:45:33.620 They're like, the man should pay all the time.

07:45:35.920 And I'm like, well, I know his situation of like, both in this industry.

07:45:41.660 And so I'm like, by showing my thoughts were that by us splitting the bill, it's showing

07:45:47.160 me that I'm not like expecting him to always pay when he wants to pay.

07:45:51.320 He'll say, no, I'm paying for this one.

07:45:53.160 Other times it was just like a splitting.

07:45:55.120 I kind of wanted it to be a, an equal thing in regards to pay, uh, for food.

07:46:00.120 But whenever he wanted to do it as himself, he would, but I don't expect him to.

07:46:05.920 So, I mean, I think there's a tendency that I, obviously some women are fine with going 1.00

07:46:14.280 50, 50.

07:46:15.040 Some women are fine splitting the bill. 1.00

07:46:16.660 I would argue that the majority of women, so I'd say over 50% of women want men to pay 0.57

07:46:21.340 for first dates.

07:46:22.120 Uh, I think as a general rule, I think it is fair to say that women definitely prefer 1.00

07:46:26.100 this.

07:46:26.540 Some even demand it.

07:46:27.900 Some would like, it's just a deal breaker if the guy wouldn't.

07:46:32.000 And so I'm not really looking to like, okay, there are, of course there are examples where

07:46:37.900 women go 50, 50, or even there's examples where women will just, they'll pay for the 1.00

07:46:42.620 day.

07:46:42.820 They'll be sent.

07:46:44.160 They'll, they'll pay for the whole thing.

07:46:45.340 I think what I'm trying to get here though, is a sort of more of a general understanding,

07:46:50.000 not like, well, you know, for example, there's this, this idea of, um, well, most men, uh,

07:46:57.440 men are taller than women. 0.99

07:46:58.740 Well, hold on.

07:46:59.740 I know a short guy.

07:47:02.040 I know a tall girl. 1.00

07:47:03.360 It's like, well, sure, of course, but I'm interested in the general principle over like

07:47:08.220 outliers.

07:47:09.940 The general consensus is that the man is, it's expected for the man to pay on the first

07:47:15.320 date.

07:47:16.320 And I, I don't, I don't demand it, but I do kind of expect it on the first date.

07:47:23.180 Oh, wait, you, you expect it.

07:47:25.400 On the first date.

07:47:26.680 Okay.

07:47:27.160 You expect it on the first date.

07:47:28.920 After that, if we're like dating, that's when I no longer assume or expect him to always

07:47:34.820 front the bill.

07:47:36.220 Okay.

07:47:36.620 Uh, I have a question for you, Brian, what do you associate as the negatives or the downsides

07:47:43.580 of tradition?

07:47:44.980 Cause you said they don't, they want the positives, but they don't want the negatives.

07:47:48.420 So what do you, what are you looking at as what women might assume are the negatives of 0.98

07:47:55.980 tradition?

07:47:57.280 Uh, the negatives for, for women or the negatives for men?

07:48:01.100 Uh, I guess both.

07:48:02.960 Yeah, sure.

07:48:03.760 I think, uh, probably the big component would be, um, women. 1.00

07:48:10.320 I don't think all women view that few it like this, but, uh, women don't want to show 1.00

07:48:18.160 deference in their relationships.

07:48:20.320 Women want equal say you want 50 50 in terms of, well, we're partners and we're, and so 1.00

07:48:28.480 from my perspective, from a more traditional dynamic, for example, I'm not, I'm not a mass,

07:48:34.080 I'm not like necessarily a dictator, although don't tempt me with a good time.

07:48:39.420 If, if, uh, I'm like, I want to, I'm open to your input. 0.99

07:48:47.300 I'm not going to just be like, shut the fuck. 1.00

07:48:49.120 No, that's crazy. 1.00

07:48:50.280 You can, you can talk to me.

07:48:52.480 You can communicate with me.

07:48:53.580 You can tell me what's going on.

07:48:54.840 But like, if there's some sort of decision, say there's an impasse and I don't know.

07:49:01.700 Um, I'm like, Hey, I want to move to this place because, and say, I'm taking care of

07:49:07.060 all the money, everything, uh, you're not working.

07:49:09.820 And I'm like, Hey, but you like living in a certain area.

07:49:13.460 And I say, look, for the sake of my business, for the sake of, uh, you know, money, maybe

07:49:20.820 you've got ties and you got friends here and you like it here and the weather's better,

07:49:24.700 whatever it is.

07:49:25.240 But I'm like, no, I've made a determination.

07:49:27.340 I think we got to move.

07:49:29.480 Uh, we can have a convo and I can, you can give me your input.

07:49:32.480 But if at the end of that, I mean, honestly, the best thing would be, you're just like,

07:49:37.120 yes, I'm on board.

07:49:38.120 I trust you, Brian.

07:49:38.960 I trust you'll make the decision that's best for me, best for us, best for our kids,

07:49:43.860 best for our family.

07:49:46.120 If there's an impasse, I think in a relationship, I think the man should be the, uh, tiebreaker,

07:49:51.500 so to speak.

07:49:53.300 So the woman can have input. 1.00

07:49:55.140 The woman can, you know, give her perspective, but I think she should, if the man, if there's

07:50:00.580 a disagreement, the man should be the tiebreaker.

07:50:04.440 The man should have final say.

07:50:08.960 So I think, uh, in terms of being submissive, you would defer to your boyfriend or to your

07:50:26.120 husband and give him because you trust him fully.

07:50:31.500 And maybe it's not the choice you wanted.

07:50:33.780 Now, just to be clear, when it comes to being submissive, that's not, if your boyfriend

07:50:41.120 says, jump off a bridge, you can say, no, you can say, no, if your boyfriend wants to

07:50:46.840 prostitute you out and make you do and will not make you, but he's like, Hey babe, you 0.97

07:50:51.300 know what?

07:50:51.660 We should make some money.

07:50:52.520 You should do only fins.

07:50:54.580 You can say no.

07:50:57.120 If, if it's, if he's asking you to do something that's morally objectionable, women can absolutely

07:51:03.800 say no.

07:51:04.580 A man should only be guiding a woman from a, uh, a moral, uh, a moral high ground, uh, pot. 1.00

07:51:15.100 I don't know what the right terminology here is.

07:51:17.320 It's, but, um, so submission is like, yeah. 0.97

07:51:22.740 If your boyfriend jump off a bridge, start becoming prostitute, of course, no, you're 0.98

07:51:27.280 not going to be submissive and you should break up with the guy. 0.99

07:51:29.620 If your boyfriend wants to prostitute you out so he can make some money on the only fans. 0.51

07:51:34.040 No.

07:51:34.440 And a lot of women actually, that's how they get started in the only fans, their boyfriend. 1.00

07:51:38.560 I mean, most women do that shit just on their own. 1.00

07:51:41.880 But, uh, a lot of these girls, like the boyfriend kind of pushes them into it, you know? 0.99

07:51:46.900 I know a girl like that. 1.00

07:51:47.900 Yeah.

07:51:48.080 Uh, not all the time. 1.00

07:51:49.100 Like a lot of the times the women just do that shit, you know, on their own. 1.00

07:51:52.720 But, uh, yeah, I think, uh, she, she ought to defer to my decision-making. 0.99

07:51:58.640 She ought to defer to my, uh, leadership in the relationship. 0.85

07:52:03.700 I think that takes finding a man that knows how to lead and also makes good decisions.

07:52:08.620 And I think that that's important too.

07:52:10.640 Yeah, sure.

07:52:11.040 Of course.

07:52:11.460 I mean, you should, but I, I would hope that the guy you pick is a man that you can trust

07:52:15.680 and that, you know, does have those positive characteristics.

07:52:22.420 Yeah.

07:52:23.040 I mean, hopefully, but I mean, a lot of women do get stuck in situations that are less ideal 1.00

07:52:28.200 or, you know, they think that he's going to make a good decision and then it ends up there

07:52:31.800 like in the shitter.

07:52:33.180 Yeah.

07:52:33.660 Well, I mean, some of the, some of the negatives too might also be just more general components

07:52:40.020 of being, uh, of deference, of showing deference, of being submissive in a relationship.

07:52:46.240 I think, uh, I mean the last name, for example, I think if you want the guy to marry you, that,

07:52:52.140 that is more traditional than, uh, she should change her last name.

07:52:56.180 Uh, the kids should have the father's last name.

07:52:59.400 Um, I think that, um, I think a man should, uh, the man, like it's best if the woman doesn't 1.00

07:53:08.620 have these behaviors to begin with.

07:53:10.300 But I acknowledge that a lot of society, uh, both men and women have been brainwashed to

07:53:15.560 a degree.

07:53:16.140 They have been culturally and socially conditioned to view things as acceptable.

07:53:21.700 So for example, if I'm in a relationship with a girl, uh, I think on her own without 0.96

07:53:27.740 me having to even lead her, uh, she shouldn't be posting thirst traps.

07:53:32.060 She shouldn't be, uh, she shouldn't be, she should be trying to dress to some degree modestly.

07:53:40.020 She shouldn't be going out to the club with her single girlfriends. 1.00

07:53:43.260 So if I was in a relationship with a girl, I don't, I don't need back talk about, uh, you

07:53:48.760 know, she's like, Oh, Hey, I want to go out with my girlfriends.

07:53:51.440 I get drunk.

07:53:52.360 I want to go on a girl's trip to Miami.

07:53:54.820 Not happening.

07:53:56.320 You want to be single.

07:53:57.500 You can be single.

07:53:58.260 I'm not going to be controlling in that sense.

07:54:00.320 You want to do that.

07:54:02.200 Goodbye.

07:54:03.640 Go be a, go back to the streets. 0.99

07:54:06.800 She belongs to the streets. 0.92

07:54:08.280 You go, you want to do a girl's trip to Miami. 0.99

07:54:11.240 It's over.

07:54:12.380 Well, what if she wants to do a girl's trip in general, but like you or girls are also 0.86

07:54:16.740 like married and then committed relationships.

07:54:19.060 Would that change it?

07:54:20.420 I think there are circumstances that might make that more acceptable.

07:54:23.300 However, I think you're single feet.

07:54:25.280 If a girl's in a relationship, the single female friends are a terrible, 1.00

07:54:30.320 terrible influence.

07:54:31.300 They miss their girlfriend. 1.00

07:54:32.560 They want to keep doing hood rat shit with her. 1.00

07:54:34.600 They want to, they want to, they want their single girlfriend back. 0.99

07:54:38.900 I think single friends can often be like completely catastrophic to a relationship.

07:54:43.940 So, uh, you know, all her other friends are married.

07:54:47.020 I'm, there could be some leeway there.

07:54:49.460 Um, generally speaking though, she's gone, she's going to go to Miami.

07:54:53.280 Do you just not trust that she will not do anything?

07:55:00.300 Like you have, it seems like a little bit of a, like for lack of better words, it just

07:55:05.160 seems like a little bit of trust issues here.

07:55:07.240 You know, like a confidence in your relationship.

07:55:10.080 I don't think it's really necessary.

07:55:11.960 I wouldn't say it has to do with confidence necessarily.

07:55:14.500 I think it's just about as a relationship minded guy, I think in terms of women look 0.98

07:55:21.260 to men to protect and protection isn't just, Oh, there's a home intruder.

07:55:25.820 Oh, there's some guy who's, you know, being an issue or whatever.

07:55:29.920 I think I need to, sometimes you got to protect a woman from herself and women will sometimes 1.00

07:55:39.420 do things that are detrimental to a long-term relationship.

07:55:44.080 Maybe that's because of the social cultural conditioning where, Hey, it's okay to go.

07:55:50.060 Maybe you had a guy, a boyfriend who didn't have boundaries or didn't know to tell you,

07:55:54.600 yeah, I'm not cool with you twerking in a club.

07:55:57.820 I'm not cool with you dressing a certain way.

07:56:00.300 I'm not cool with you moving like you're single because now we're in a relationship, right?

07:56:05.680 You should move like you're in a relationship.

07:56:09.660 And I personally, I think going out to bars and clubs and nightclubs, that is not behavior

07:56:15.440 becoming of a woman who's in a relationship.

07:56:19.380 Why?

07:56:20.200 What about men?

07:56:20.740 Let me ask one thing.

07:56:22.200 Well, let me finish my point really quick here.

07:56:24.080 And I think this comes down to what, when a man gets in a relationship, you, the women,

07:56:30.180 the female expectation on the man is like, you would think it's cheating. 1.00

07:56:34.340 If I approached a girl at a club, right? 0.77

07:56:37.880 Yeah.

07:56:38.680 No, no.

07:56:39.020 If I approached a girl and hit on a girl, would you think that that's cheating?

07:56:41.780 If you're in a relationship, right?

07:56:44.180 Women don't approach men. 1.00

07:56:45.940 So we're not the same.

07:56:48.620 Like if, if, uh, uh, to use a, I guess, analogy with like animals or something like you guys

07:56:57.220 have different, this is gonna sound cringe and autistic.

07:57:00.360 You guys have different, a different tool set.

07:57:03.360 You guys have, uh, you know, maybe an animal has claws and another has horns, right?

07:57:12.580 Uh, you want men to put away their horn. 0.98

07:57:16.020 I should have thought this one through.

07:57:17.960 This is actually, hold on.

07:57:19.420 Let me abandon that. 0.98

07:57:20.360 Cause I can't even think through the fucking analogy. 0.99

07:57:23.100 Scratch that. 0.99

07:57:23.860 What I'm trying to get here is men and women have different mating strategies. 0.89

07:57:28.640 So as men, when we get into a relationship, there's an expectation that we give up our

07:57:34.340 edge.

07:57:35.180 We give up the way that we meet women, which is to be proactive, but women are passive. 1.00

07:57:41.520 You are passive when you're dating.

07:57:43.380 You won't go up to a guy.

07:57:44.960 Okay.

07:57:45.500 Don't give me, well, I know sometimes one time I approached a guy.

07:57:48.840 I get it.

07:57:49.580 Sometimes women do go up to men, but women, you have a passive dating. 1.00

07:57:54.260 You don't go up to the guy.

07:57:56.040 You put yourself in a position to be approached.

07:57:59.080 You go to the club.

07:58:00.060 You knowing the guy will approach you.

07:58:02.660 You go to the club.

07:58:03.940 You go to the bar.

07:58:04.960 Knowing men will approach you.

07:58:06.240 You post the thirst trap photo on Instagram.

07:58:08.820 You don't slide into dudes.

07:58:10.200 DMS.

07:58:11.020 You post the story.

07:58:12.560 You post the Instagram post because you know, guys will DM you.

07:58:17.100 And so we ask men in relationships, you ask men, we got to give up our edge.

07:58:22.040 Of course it would be cheating if we approach a girl, but you still go to the club. 0.99

07:58:26.500 You're still sourcing the entire time we're in a relationship.

07:58:30.780 Oh, I've got a boyfriend, but here's my Instagram.

07:58:33.600 You are still sourcing when you're in a relationship.

07:58:36.980 Now you might not cheat.

07:58:38.120 There is women who can go to the club and they would never think about cheating. 1.00

07:58:41.740 I don't care.

07:58:42.720 There's an appearance of impropriety that I'm not okay with.

07:58:46.540 Also, even removing the component of her willfully cheating in terms of protecting her, women get drugged at the club. 1.00

07:58:58.360 Also, by the way, just to be clear, this could be a, from my perspective, maybe you guys are like, whoa, okay, I date guys who drink and blah, blah, blah.

07:59:04.780 I don't drink.

07:59:06.580 I don't go to the bar.

07:59:08.020 I don't go to the club.

07:59:09.580 I don't go to the party.

07:59:11.200 I don't, I don't do drugs.

07:59:12.580 I don't do any of that.

07:59:14.200 So I would hope, look, if my girl drinks a little bit, not at the club or the bar, but if she's hanging out with me and she wants a bit of wine or whatever. 0.84

07:59:25.240 Although what I've found actually, even if I've dated a girl who, who used to drink, she stops drinking when she's with me.

07:59:33.700 I think, so it could be just a complete mismatch of like respective, I don't know what the right word is.

07:59:41.200 Respective, um, approaches, like values, like life.

07:59:46.620 I'm not in the, I don't go to the club.

07:59:48.160 I don't go to the bar.

07:59:48.760 I don't drink.

07:59:49.320 Like, uh, I value, um, it sounds like sobriety is going to make it sound like she used to be a drug addict or an alcoholic. 1.00

07:59:59.600 Um, I value a woman who does not partake in that stuff. 1.00

08:00:03.820 Right.

08:00:04.640 So I think honestly that, but the type of girl that would be right for me would probably be some girls just don't have an interest. 0.74

08:00:11.060 Like some girls are like, I don't go to the club. 1.00

08:00:13.140 I don't go to the bar. 0.97

08:00:13.720 However, however, though, I think it is conceivable that I could meet a girl who she's going down that path, being a little fucking, and I can fix her. 0.98

08:00:26.800 I can fix her. 0.85

08:00:28.840 But yeah, she's got to, so I think I, to, to finish up on the different, uh, dating strategies, men are proactive.

08:00:37.400 Women are passive. 1.00

08:00:38.340 But I think if I have to give up my proactive approach, women have to give up their passive approach. 1.00

08:00:46.980 And that means you got to cut out the bars and clubs and posting thirst traps on Instagram.

08:00:51.860 By the way, also I hold men to account to men in a relationship should not be liking other girls photos. 0.99

08:00:58.740 They shouldn't be following some fucking Instagram thought, some Instagram model. 0.99

08:01:03.400 Uh, they shouldn't be following any other girls. 1.00

08:01:05.860 Would you go to the club with your girlfriend if she wanted to go, like, let's say every other weekend?

08:01:13.500 So she's not going with her girlfriend, she's going with you. 1.00

08:01:15.460 Fuck no. 1.00

08:01:16.060 She doesn't want to drink. 1.00

08:01:16.680 Let's say she just wants to dance.

08:01:17.900 Oh my God.

08:01:18.980 Go to a dance class.

08:01:20.360 Like, what, like, what are your, there's like no wiggle room?

08:01:23.580 Listen, we need to have seven children.

08:01:26.040 You're going to have seven children.

08:01:27.740 Seven sons.

08:01:28.240 You're going to be barefoot in the kitchen.

08:01:30.720 And I'm going to, everything's going to be taken care of.

08:01:33.180 You're never going to have to work again and we're going to live in a nice house and all

08:01:37.380 your needs, uh, uh, are going to be taken care of.

08:01:40.740 And, uh, we're going to build a dynasty.

08:01:43.680 Our, our children are going to be warriors. 1.00

08:01:46.240 They're going to be, uh, fucking legends. 1.00

08:01:50.220 And, uh, you don't need to worry about the club. 1.00

08:01:52.460 Fuck the club. 1.00

08:01:53.640 Let's focus on dynasty. 1.00

08:01:56.400 Let's focus on legacy. 1.00

08:01:59.380 Fucking, you want to go to the club and fucking dance to Usher? 1.00

08:02:01.980 What the fuck? 1.00

08:02:02.960 Well, what, what if she doesn't want to dance to Usher? 1.00

08:02:06.540 What if she's a ballroom dancer? 1.00

08:02:08.020 And the only place to go is to a dance hall, country dance hall to go swing dancing.

08:02:12.980 Cause swing dancers go there. 1.00

08:02:14.680 I don't like to dance.

08:02:15.720 That's how my husband and I met.

08:02:17.720 I'm not a dancer.

08:02:18.780 I'm a ballroom dancer.

08:02:19.580 I'm not a dancer.

08:02:20.380 So, we're a human area dancer.

08:02:21.940 Focus on the big picture here.

08:02:24.440 Focus on the big picture.

08:02:25.420 It's all about you.

08:02:25.820 We get it.

08:02:26.340 No, it's not.

08:02:26.840 No compromise.

08:02:27.640 Well, it's not about me.

08:02:28.740 It's about family, familia, blood, familia, blood, family.

08:02:36.980 You guys want, you're wasting your time at the bar and the club. 1.00

08:02:41.460 Let's pump out seven sons and build a fucking clan. 1.00

08:02:46.860 You're almost there. 1.00

08:02:47.540 I agree.

08:02:48.460 Get seven daughters. 1.00

08:02:50.660 Well, we can have some daughters too, but build a fucking clan. 1.00

08:02:53.840 And have your eye on the bigger picture. 1.00

08:02:56.640 You want to fucking dance to Sway Lee? 1.00

08:02:58.540 It's a waste of time. 1.00

08:02:59.480 What the fuck? 1.00

08:03:01.020 I think the club is the biggest waste of time, money, energy. 1.00

08:03:05.180 It's only for single people.

08:03:06.620 It's like Tinder in real life.

08:03:07.980 Yes. 1.00

08:03:08.400 There's just groups of people trying to fuck each other. 1.00

08:03:10.880 Like, there's no point. 0.99

08:03:12.380 I think couples can totally go and have a good time and dance.

08:03:15.320 Yeah, maybe together.

08:03:16.420 Yeah, exactly.

08:03:17.000 That's it.

08:03:17.300 If they're both into that.

08:03:18.480 Together, Brian.

08:03:18.660 Go together.

08:03:19.440 When I was working at the strip club, I had a couple come in together and do the strip club. 1.00

08:03:27.600 Very common.

08:03:28.520 Yeah.

08:03:28.700 Nah.

08:03:30.400 Yeah, I mean, that happens, but no, I wouldn't do it.

08:03:33.360 And then going just to the club with your girlfriend, no.

08:03:36.940 Also, I just think it's generally not safe.

08:03:39.820 Is she allowed to go hang out with her girlfriends? 1.00

08:03:43.420 Yeah.

08:03:43.720 You want to get brunch?

08:03:45.100 Go for it. 0.98

08:03:45.580 I'm not like, keep fucking, look, I'm, look, and I'll, my, you guys might think I'm like 0.99

08:03:53.980 super controlling or whatever. 0.99

08:03:55.220 I'm not checking the girl.

08:03:56.300 I don't, I'm not looking at your phone. 0.97

08:03:58.060 I'm not fucking, where are you going? 0.96

08:03:59.940 Where are you? 1.00

08:04:00.860 I don't do that shit. 1.00

08:04:02.000 I don't do that shit. 1.00

08:04:03.140 Right. 0.99

08:04:03.480 But, uh, there's just certain behavior I don't want my girl doing, but yeah, she wants to 0.96

08:04:08.700 go get lunch or dinner with her girlfriends. 1.00

08:04:11.600 That's fine.

08:04:12.380 You can't be at the club though.

08:04:14.120 You can, you want to go to Trader Joe's, go to Trader Joe's.

08:04:17.700 Never go to the club ever again.

08:04:19.560 What if it's like your best friend's bachelor party?

08:04:21.200 Oh my God.

08:04:21.600 That'd be so hot.

08:04:22.560 If some girl came to me, Brian, I, I, I will never go to the club again. 0.99

08:04:29.560 That's how much I respect you.

08:04:31.340 That's a huge win for the guy and it's a win for the girl.

08:04:35.160 I don't think it's disrespectful to want to go dancing.

08:04:38.140 It's disrespectful.

08:04:39.280 It is, but it's not if it's like with your partner.

08:04:42.060 That's like what gets me.

08:04:43.040 It's like you, it's, you can't, it's not even like an activity you want to participate

08:04:47.240 in with her.

08:04:48.480 Like to have, like, it's, it's like hiking.

08:04:50.620 It's like a date.

08:04:51.240 Just go as you're doing something together.

08:04:53.720 It's his boundary.

08:04:55.140 I know, but you know, it just, it's the fact there's no wiggle room.

08:05:00.180 There's no compromising.

08:05:01.380 Like if the girl wanted this at least a little bit, once a month, find a new man. 1.00

08:05:06.480 What are you talking about?

08:05:07.120 Every other week, once a month.

08:05:08.720 You can sit in a corner and she can dance. 1.00

08:05:10.700 Are you addicted to the club?

08:05:12.280 Do you need to go that bad?

08:05:13.240 No, but you know what?

08:05:13.600 My husband and I have a good time dancing together.

08:05:16.520 But he likes that.

08:05:17.800 He doesn't like that.

08:05:18.860 That's the compatibility.

08:05:20.320 Right.

08:05:20.480 I don't like it.

08:05:21.580 I think the club is, I think the club is, I just also, I don't look, if she goes alone,

08:05:31.140 I just don't even if like, look, she'll never cheat on me, whatever.

08:05:34.060 It's just not safe.

08:05:35.920 It's not safe. 0.99

08:05:36.880 She could get fucking something put in her drink or, you know, who knows? 1.00

08:05:40.960 I'm like, I have to consider what are the potential risks. 1.00

08:05:48.600 As her protector too, like you, yeah, I think the club is stupid. 0.98

08:05:53.220 Look, and I also think part of protection, it's not just even like the physical, even, 0.99

08:05:57.700 you know, the, you know, home invasion, but even the club.

08:06:01.260 But also, I think you have to protect a woman's spirit and you have to protect her mind because 0.99

08:06:07.520 there's a lot of bullshit propaganda out there. 0.96

08:06:11.900 And I think both men and women can succumb to propaganda. 0.99

08:06:15.720 And as the man, you have to protect your, your, your wife, your girlfriend, your kids,

08:06:20.560 your family from that propaganda.

08:06:23.080 Are you going to send your kid to public school? 1.00

08:06:25.280 Who knows who the fucking teacher is? 1.00

08:06:27.620 Maybe you should, maybe we're going to homeschool our kids. 1.00

08:06:29.900 I don't know who her, who, who the teacher is. 0.99

08:06:32.840 Are they going to, are they, who knows what they're going to fucking do to the kid? 0.98

08:06:37.160 Who knows? 0.99

08:06:39.300 Who knows?

08:06:40.540 I need to protect and insulate my family from propaganda of the spirit of the mind.

08:06:50.540 Why would you guys want to even go to a club in the first place?

08:06:54.440 Like what's the point?

08:06:55.380 A club, a bar.

08:06:56.240 Or, oh, I, I completely disagreed with that. 1.00

08:06:59.340 You weren't here, but I think clubs are for single people and stupid, so. 1.00

08:07:02.620 But I go with my husband. 0.99

08:07:03.480 Well, even, even single, like what's the point?

08:07:08.020 I kind of agree with that too.

08:07:10.120 Like I don't drink or smoke, so I kind of be like.

08:07:13.740 For the people who do drink, that's usually where it is.

08:07:17.320 It would be like a bar or whatever.

08:07:19.060 Drinking in your house is kind of sad.

08:07:20.400 I mean, sure.

08:07:23.000 Is it like a self-gratification thing?

08:07:25.420 Probably just like, yeah, like a self-gratification thing, like most things.

08:07:29.100 So the only reason I personally go to a club, because I've been sober since I was 17, is I'm

08:07:35.600 a trained ballroom dancer and I swing dance and I do every single partner dance.

08:07:39.440 So I do Latin, I do two-step, I swing, all of that.

08:07:42.760 And a lot of swing dancers go to, not your typical club, but specifically a dance hall

08:07:49.240 or I go to socials.

08:07:50.800 So that would be why I go to a club and I only go every so often, because I'm the only

08:07:55.620 person in my friend group that dances.

08:07:57.700 Do you dance with men?

08:07:59.780 Like there?

08:08:00.460 Yeah.

08:08:00.620 That are not your, oh.

08:08:01.640 Yeah, with the partner dancing.

08:08:03.240 So you go to a social and then swing dancing.

08:08:05.920 Also, you cannot let your wife or girlfriend take jujitsu classes with a private instructor. 1.00

08:08:15.540 You can't, look, you can't let them do this shit. 1.00

08:08:19.000 Tom Brady. 1.00

08:08:20.420 Oh, go take some jujitsu lessons.

08:08:22.600 Oh my God.

08:08:24.180 I will say that.

08:08:25.160 He got his wife cheated on him.

08:08:27.420 Yeah.

08:08:27.840 Now she's pregnant. 1.00

08:08:29.060 Or now she gave birth. 0.98

08:08:29.740 Yeah.

08:08:30.020 Yikes.

08:08:30.340 Um, uh, the, I don't, I haven't really gone to clubs in a while just for like single

08:08:37.800 dancing, whatever.

08:08:38.840 I have musician friends who perform at clubs and I go there to, to support them and listen

08:08:45.860 to their music.

08:08:46.460 And the times that I've gone, I was for the most part sober because I went by myself because

08:08:52.620 I wanted to keep an eye on like my surroundings and who was there.

08:08:56.320 Yeah.

08:08:56.500 I mean, I look there, there's obviously certain different venues.

08:08:59.800 There's different kinds of events.

08:09:02.460 Uh, this is obviously going to play factor.

08:09:04.980 I mean, I think the clear cut thing here that I'm talking about is nightclubs and bars.

08:09:10.700 These are.

08:09:13.540 But you're not wrong about the passive thing, because even when I would go to, to a club,

08:09:20.040 to a marquee or tower or something to watch a musician perform, I would have guys come up

08:09:27.000 to me while I'm just minding my own business and trying to offer me drinks.

08:09:31.620 And, and it's, that's when you phrase it that way, the passive thing, it's like, I, I get

08:09:37.280 that.

08:09:37.860 Do I engage?

08:09:38.820 No.

08:09:40.240 But that's just me.

08:09:41.660 A bar is going to a bar is with a friend.

08:09:43.640 And it's just like, just stepping outside of the apartment and having a drink with a friend

08:09:47.540 at a sit down spot, like facing each other.

08:09:51.300 I think I guess to, uh, final thing on this topic, and then we're pretty close to the end

08:09:57.140 here.

08:09:57.300 I think that we, when it comes to like the king, queen treatment, traditional treatment,

08:10:04.480 et cetera.

08:10:05.060 I think that we teach women how to expect men to treat them.

08:10:10.040 Uh, I don't think we teach women how to treat men.

08:10:13.960 And conversely, we teach men how to treat women, but we don't teach men what to expect from women

08:10:21.460 or to how to expect to be treated by women. 1.00

08:10:25.260 Well, I think that's what feminism did to everyone. 1.00

08:10:30.220 Elf feminism.

08:10:31.040 Like it totally reinvented how women think into being the alpha and they deserve this 1.00

08:10:39.140 and this and this and this, and then they don't have to give anything back.

08:10:41.940 And that's how all of my past relationships ultimately failed.

08:10:47.720 So.

08:10:50.320 Ava?

08:10:51.880 Ava?

08:10:52.820 Ava?

08:10:53.960 Oh, hi.

08:10:56.200 Ava.

08:10:56.680 Uh, you've had pretty terrible dates.

08:10:58.200 Like you've been stood up twice in one night and being left at the theater.

08:11:02.080 So twice, twice in one night.

08:11:04.280 So you had like two dates or?

08:11:05.960 So I had a date set up to the movies.

08:11:08.800 I paid for it and everything.

08:11:09.780 I pre-ordered the tickets and he was supposed to meet me there.

08:11:13.040 He texted and was like, I'm on my way.

08:11:16.220 And I showed up and he ghosted me.

08:11:18.700 Didn't, didn't show up.

08:11:19.860 And so then I like, I went down to Walmart, grabbed my snacks, came in.

08:11:24.040 I was like 30 minutes early and I was going to go watch the movie because I didn't just

08:11:28.900 order these tickets to go home.

08:11:30.420 So I'm sitting there and I get like this message from this other guy.

08:11:35.720 And I was on a dating app for literally a day.

08:11:38.940 It lasted a day.

08:11:39.540 And then I was like, I'm over this because of this experience.

08:11:42.680 But he messaged, asked what I was doing.

08:11:45.280 And I was like, well, funny enough, I got stood up.

08:11:46.980 So I have an extra ticket if you want to come.

08:11:48.600 He was 40 minutes away.

08:11:49.540 And so he was like, yes, I'm going to come.

08:11:52.120 He shows up, he gets his ticket.

08:11:54.260 He comes in, he sits down.

08:11:56.000 He's sitting down from like next to me for maybe like five minutes.

08:11:59.580 And he like looks at me and he's like, I'm going to go run to the concessions.

08:12:02.800 Do you want anything?

08:12:03.800 And I said, no.

08:12:04.640 And then he just like left me there.

08:12:06.440 He never came back. 1.00

08:12:08.380 Damn. 1.00

08:12:09.300 Yeah. 0.99

08:12:09.820 What movie was it?

08:12:10.960 Sorry.

08:12:11.400 I think it was about Predator Badlands.

08:12:14.580 Oh, okay.

08:12:15.400 Yeah.

08:12:15.720 And I actually totally forgot about this, but I had a boyfriend for two days in October.

08:12:23.940 Two days?

08:12:24.880 Two days.

08:12:26.380 Well, I actually offered to stay because I was like, I'll stay with you and I won't go to Texas.

08:12:34.140 And he was like, no, like go to Texas.

08:12:37.880 And I was like, okay, well, because he didn't want me to like make a decision like for because of him,

08:12:44.400 even though I feel like that was, it's totally acceptable to request that of a woman.

08:12:50.400 And he decided that he didn't want to date me because he didn't, his words were, I don't want you to go to Texas for two months.

08:12:59.900 And then somebody else better come along and I have to call and tell you that I found somebody else.

08:13:05.460 And he also told me that he didn't, he wasn't ready to not be single yet and that I just wasn't a good enough option.

08:13:13.920 You also wrote that you don't think that I'm extreme enough.

08:13:19.500 You said you think a lot like Nick Fuentes.

08:13:23.720 Yeah.

08:13:26.060 Okay.

08:13:27.260 Good times.

08:13:28.580 Would you date him?

08:13:30.180 Nick Fuentes?

08:13:30.740 Does he mog?

08:13:34.060 I would, I would actually.

08:13:36.520 You would date Nick?

08:13:37.460 I would.

08:13:38.180 Okay.

08:13:40.020 What is mog?

08:13:41.000 He's, he's, he's got some strong stances.

08:13:43.640 No, I'm.

08:13:44.640 Especially about women. 0.85

08:13:45.760 Yeah, I agree though.

08:13:47.740 I mean, biblically to that standard, everything that he says is very accurate.

08:13:52.260 Okay.

08:13:52.660 Uh, let's see here.

08:13:53.700 Katie?

08:13:55.340 Yes.

08:13:56.240 Yep.

08:13:56.920 Uh, we talked about the 11 day long date.

08:13:59.180 We already talked about that.

08:14:00.180 You dated a guy for, Ooh, this is interesting.

08:14:02.580 Dated a guy for a year and a half that kept you secret because why?

08:14:08.280 Um, so this is, I kind of touched on it already.

08:14:11.500 Um, did you?

08:14:12.300 Yeah.

08:14:12.820 He basically, yeah, he essentially that.

08:14:16.100 So, um, I've, I've been modeling for nearly 15 years and basically he didn't like that.

08:14:20.480 Um, and then come to find out also, um, I am divorced.

08:14:24.120 Um, and he was embarrassed of that as well.

08:14:26.700 And, uh, so I also wrote a book.

08:14:29.700 Um, I'm a domestic violence survivor, rape and assault survivor.

08:14:33.180 And I wrote a book about it.

08:14:34.280 And at the end I talk about victim mentality and how it keeps you from achieving your dreams.

08:14:37.880 Um, and he was extremely embarrassed of that and didn't agree with it and told me that

08:14:41.320 I should burn my book, even though I wrote it to empower women that have gone through

08:14:45.740 these things and men as well that have gone through these things.

08:14:48.520 Um, yeah, and he just, he didn't like it.

08:14:51.500 And it's the same guy that after that told me that he wouldn't take me seriously.

08:14:54.960 And then after we broke up, told me that he has chosen me to have his children and that

08:14:59.860 I should be oh so honored.

08:15:01.640 Um, and I was like, this doesn't make any sense.

08:15:06.400 So.

08:15:07.960 And he hid you for a year and a half.

08:15:09.460 Good times.

08:15:10.580 Yeah.

08:15:10.940 Good times.

08:15:11.760 Nice.

08:15:11.880 Can I add to my dating experience really quick?

08:15:14.840 Is it interesting or?

08:15:15.820 Yeah, so I actually just recently had a date with a guy and we were sitting at the dinner

08:15:21.440 table and he asked me what, um, he, what I was looking for.

08:15:26.820 So I described kind of like what I was looking for in a guy.

08:15:28.900 Let's do this.

08:15:29.920 I feel like salads.

08:15:31.020 Are you fine waiting until after the show?

08:15:32.960 Like we can just put in the refrigerator?

08:15:34.380 That's fine.

08:15:34.820 Are you guys, who else?

08:15:36.160 Can you guys wait?

08:15:36.900 I can just, we're almost done.

08:15:38.440 So does anybody want pizza?

08:15:40.800 Pizza's okay though.

08:15:41.900 Here.

08:15:42.080 Um, sorry, Mary, can you take this?

08:15:43.720 Sorry.

08:15:43.940 Take the salad back.

08:15:44.980 Uh, if anybody wants pizza, I think that's a bit easier at the table.

08:15:49.380 I feel like salads is way too complicated and then we'll give it, we'll divvy, divvy

08:15:55.180 it up a little bit.

08:15:55.840 Okay.

08:15:56.080 Quick.

08:15:57.240 Um, we were sitting at the dinner table.

08:15:59.240 He asked me what I was looking for and a guy.

08:16:00.980 So I told him and he told me that he didn't think he was the guy for me and that I described

08:16:05.460 his best friend.

08:16:06.160 So he proceeded to FaceTime his best friend at the table and try to pass me off.

08:16:10.780 Oh my God.

08:16:12.260 I think that's okay.

08:16:13.160 That's yeah.

08:16:13.620 I think that's okay.

08:16:14.860 No, like it didn't bother me at all.

08:16:16.700 It was just, that was just the craziest thing that had ever happened.

08:16:18.960 It's actually really sweet of him.

08:16:20.620 I don't think that that, he was like, like if, I don't know if I was on a date with a

08:16:24.420 girl, like, yeah, maybe it stings a little bit if she's like, Hey, look, I'm well, I

08:16:28.000 mean, if she's polite about it, I don't know if it's a good match, but I know a girl who 0.96

08:16:31.100 you would like, I mean, better than just a rejection, maybe you're getting a, I don't

08:16:38.280 know.

08:16:38.560 He told me that he was like, I think I'm too much of a degenerate for you for his exact

08:16:43.500 words.

08:16:44.600 I think that's fine.

08:16:45.220 Which I thought was such an interesting thing to say on a date.

08:16:49.400 He was introspective.

08:16:50.900 You know, he knew.

08:16:54.140 Did anybody else want pizza just for now or no?

08:16:58.600 Just one?

08:16:59.400 One.

08:16:59.720 Oh, great.

08:17:00.860 Okay.

08:17:01.480 That was kind of a waste. 0.99

08:17:02.900 Damn, more familiar pizza. 1.00

08:17:04.240 What a waste. 1.00

08:17:05.000 Okay.

08:17:05.240 All right.

08:17:05.500 Well, I guess I should have checked better.

08:17:07.260 It's all good.

08:17:08.260 Okay.

08:17:09.660 Blasting through just a few more.

08:17:13.200 So I know you said that you don't want to ever be pregnant and give birth.

08:17:18.200 What would you do if you did get pregnant though? 0.98

08:17:21.660 Panic.

08:17:22.320 Would you get an abortion? 1.00

08:17:23.220 Full blown panic.

08:17:24.100 Um, I think it would honestly be circumstantial because whenever I got pregnant before with

08:17:31.360 my ex-husband, um, I, we initially, it was kind of his decision.

08:17:36.040 So again, to submitting to a man or whatever, um, he wanted us to get an abortion because

08:17:41.400 he was, uh, he was leaving the country.

08:17:43.580 He got a contract to work overseas.

08:17:45.620 Um, and so it just wasn't a good time.

08:17:47.120 I was still in college.

08:17:48.160 He had just finished college and he was leaving.

08:17:49.980 It didn't make any sense.

08:17:50.820 And then I ended up having, um, a really horrid miscarriage.

08:17:55.380 Um, anyway, do you have more than one miscarriage?

08:17:57.860 No, just the one.

08:17:59.100 Like in total.

08:17:59.980 Yeah.

08:18:00.420 Okay.

08:18:00.660 Just one.

08:18:01.260 All right.

08:18:01.380 Yeah.

08:18:01.700 Are you like, would, or have you thought about like getting sterilized or something?

08:18:06.000 Uh, I have.

08:18:07.280 Um, but would you, or you just take birth control or whatever?

08:18:10.260 Um, I don't take birth control because it, it really messes with your hormones.

08:18:14.900 Um, so I'm just rolling the dice there and I'm just very, I'm very safe.

08:18:18.380 Um, and then I, I track my cycle and all of that.

08:18:21.240 Um, so, um, yeah, but it really messed with more, with my hormones.

08:18:26.320 I was on birth control for like 10 years and it actually, that actually can make you sterile.

08:18:31.160 Jamie, your notes.

08:18:32.540 Uh, okay.

08:18:33.260 You do only fans. 1.00

08:18:34.360 What kind of weird shit do you do? 0.99

08:18:36.240 Um, like closer to the mic, please. 1.00

08:18:38.060 Like what do I post?

08:18:39.000 Like BG content?

08:18:40.040 No, I only do solo content and I would eventually like, if I can do like girl on girl content.

08:18:46.080 GG.

08:18:46.260 Okay.

08:18:46.460 Um, I, I actually don't think there was anything else in your notes, but you, I did notice you

08:18:53.820 have an interesting tattoo.

08:18:55.740 You have a lower back tattoo.

08:18:57.420 Are you, can you show it to the camera?

08:18:59.780 Just, uh, you know, don't, uh, moon us or anything, but, uh, turn more, turn more.

08:19:06.000 Uh, no, no, lift up, no, turn, what do you, it says, okay.

08:19:14.560 It says made, made in heaven.

08:19:16.480 Wait, can you, uh, whatever.

08:19:18.260 They get the idea.

08:19:18.960 Made in heaven.

08:19:19.640 No, we, okay.

08:19:20.980 We got it.

08:19:21.920 Made in heaven.

08:19:23.480 Yeah.

08:19:24.740 What is that?

08:19:25.440 Just curious.

08:19:25.820 What's the backstory?

08:19:26.360 I also have one on my bikini line.

08:19:27.760 I'm okay.

08:19:28.080 That one says eat me.

08:19:31.200 Oh my God.

08:19:32.260 What?

08:19:32.880 Yeah.

08:19:33.280 There's a little heart outline that says eat me in it.

08:19:36.000 She's a surprise.

08:19:37.180 What?

08:19:38.300 What?

08:19:39.060 Boost audio.

08:19:39.780 Um, eat me.

08:19:42.480 Yeah. 1.00

08:19:43.740 Like oral sex. 1.00

08:19:45.100 Yeah. 1.00

08:19:45.520 Is she still here?

08:19:46.260 No.

08:19:46.580 Okay.

08:19:46.780 We're good.

08:19:47.220 Good.

08:19:48.340 All right. 1.00

08:19:48.880 She's going to fucking puke again. 1.00

08:19:51.180 Oh my God, bro. 1.00

08:19:52.060 Okay. 1.00

08:19:52.460 Um, eat me like the insults or oral sex. 1.00

08:19:58.020 Have you guys ever heard that song? 1.00

08:19:59.360 Peaches and eggplants by 21 Savage.

08:20:01.460 She got a tattoo by her bikini line that says eat me. 1.00

08:20:04.320 Who the fuck is that guy? 1.00

08:20:05.900 Oh my God. 1.00

08:20:07.160 I've never heard of like that song.

08:20:08.860 I know it.

08:20:09.740 I don't know.

08:20:10.140 It's a song.

08:20:10.920 And like, I got the heart outline and I was like thinking of that song when I was getting

08:20:14.740 it.

08:20:14.960 So I was like, Oh my God, maybe I'll just get that tattooed.

08:20:17.160 And I was like, okay, period.

08:20:18.560 I once, this was a long time ago and I've revised my, well, sometimes you don't know

08:20:24.740 what a girl's dealing with in terms of tattoos until her clothes are off. 1.00

08:20:29.860 I went on one date with this girl and I think perhaps luckily we didn't end up having

08:20:37.300 sex, but you know, uh, I think we kissed or whatever. 1.00

08:20:40.540 And right above her pussy, she had a tattoo that said YOLO. 1.00

08:20:48.560 Oh gosh. 1.00

08:20:52.140 That's funny.

08:20:53.680 Good thing.

08:20:54.740 I didn't, who knows, but that's not a good, that's a bad sign. 1.00

08:20:59.520 A YOLO tattoo above the pussy. 1.00

08:21:02.160 Oh my God. 1.00

08:21:03.000 I wouldn't do that, but this one's like cute and dainty.

08:21:06.580 But what made in heaven?

08:21:07.600 What does that mean?

08:21:08.200 Made in heaven.

08:21:09.720 It was just a lower back tramp stamp.

08:21:12.520 Made in heaven tattoo.

08:21:14.140 I liked it.

08:21:15.200 Were you made in heaven?

08:21:16.180 Like, is it about you?

08:21:17.940 I mean, it can be. 1.00

08:21:19.720 Is it about your ass? 1.00

08:21:21.100 I mean, just think of it when, I don't know if I can say this, when you're like in that 1.00

08:21:28.500 position and like, you know, you're, and you're staring at the tattoo, like, oh, I mean, I

08:21:39.080 just.

08:21:39.440 Just, I, so you weren't made in heaven, but so when the guy's hitting it doggy style,

08:21:50.360 he sees it.

08:21:52.100 I think, I just thought that the tattoo placement was like good.

08:21:55.860 The tattoo like was good.

08:21:57.480 Like, do you have like a breeding kink or something? 0.99

08:22:00.040 like you want to so what is being made in heaven though like it'd be your child or 0.97

08:22:05.640 no it's like just the body the sexual act i would say it's probably the sexual act like

08:22:11.960 feeling like he's hitting it he's reading it like into the mic he's hitting it he's reading it and

08:22:18.440 he's like made in heaven damn right but he's saying it while he's hitting no he reads the

08:22:23.760 i don't get this made in heaven i don't either so like what if i um like what if here like above 0.99

08:22:30.800 my penis i just like had like this is the best sex of your life i would hope it would be the best 0.99

08:22:37.020 sex of her life well i would hope it would be if you have it tattooed oh there's only one way to 0.99

08:22:42.780 find out i feel like you think it's some loophole or something like well if i have the tattoo it has 0.97

08:22:48.380 to be heaven that's like what if i just what if i'm a premature ejaculator but i'm like this is the 0.76

08:22:53.520 best sex of your life you're manifesting yeah you could i could be manifesting it i could be 0.64

08:23:00.120 manifesting it that's i'm manifesting that i made in heaven i thought it was like a tattoo like you

08:23:05.940 were made in heaven so i was thinking you should get the tattoo revised it should say made in cancun 0.52

08:23:13.180 spring break after backstreet boys concert i will say that they did perform in cancun i think

08:23:23.480 in the late 90s or i will say that depending on tattoos if i can't really and i have some but

08:23:31.580 it's like a certain style if i don't like the type of tattoos you have it'll be hard for me to be with

08:23:36.000 you just because i have to continuously stare at them and it's like you do what you want get what

08:23:41.280 you want but i can't who here has tattoos show fans tattoos you know what i just realized my tattoo i

08:23:48.040 could have proved it to you so much longer ago my tattoo is my son's name my first baby what does it

08:23:53.020 say stephan stephan oh yeah yeah my first son no that's good yeah that's good um no tattoos

08:24:01.500 am i the only one that doesn't i don't have anybody i mean me and every you have a sleeve

08:24:07.880 we're the only ones without tattoos

08:24:09.540 great now i feel bad i was mean to her earlier okay don't listen to me i'm i'm a grumpy old jaded

08:24:17.540 man i don't know don't listen to me don't listen to me i'm yeah now you find out that they don't

08:24:22.640 drink don't smoke don't have tattoos and oh i didn't know about the not drinking and smoking

08:24:27.840 no but i'm just saying uh it's not even that i just uh you know i gotta apologize gotta apologize

08:24:35.560 anyway so uh wait wait oh you wanted an apology no i don't know if i look i don't know if an

08:24:44.080 apology is warranted but i will say look uh i can you want to pursue your dreams pursue your dreams

08:24:51.000 you know you want to do it uh don't listen who what what do i know yeah what do i know i don't know 0.84

08:24:57.000 anything about music i fucking listen to pearl jam well pearl jam is great but i don't listen to 0.96

08:25:03.560 like modern music i don't know who sway lee is obviously i'm not obviously i'm not a cool guy 0.90

08:25:10.860 obviously i'm not in the know you know you know i'm not in the know you know but uh you know listen

08:25:17.160 i will say though in the the one criticism you said that the minimum and i don't know if you're

08:25:23.780 trolling but you because you wrote a smiley face and a heart what is the minimum yearly income to

08:25:30.200 be for your future husband you said 10 million dollars i'm sorry i had to bring i had to bring

08:25:35.160 you down i had to bring you back down a little bit 10 million dollars but you want 10 million

08:25:39.100 because you'll make 10 million yeah so i hear women say this well i'm gonna make this much money 0.99

08:25:44.480 so well of course i want the man who makes uh the same as me or more um but uh yeah it's kind of

08:25:55.120 like if i don't make that amount then i don't expect him to make that amount no but you believe

08:26:02.100 you'll be making that much amount because of the career i mean i'll work on it would you give up your

08:26:10.800 career for the perfect man like your dream to sing would you give it up as a career for the perfect man

08:26:20.440 no so this but here hear me out the perfect man i think sometimes people misunderstand what i mean

08:26:27.700 so perfect so whatever you think perfect would be so perfect looks perfect personality perfect

08:26:36.120 uh loyalty he would never leave you uh perfect money so i guess you would maximize this and say

08:26:44.840 he's a billionaire um you so he makes so much money or he has so much money you never have to work again

08:26:51.580 um perfect perfect best in bed everything that could be perfect treats you the best perfect family

08:26:59.800 perfect uh he'd be the perfect father all these things perfect man do you give it up do you give

08:27:07.080 up your dream for the perfect man no i'd rather be single you'd rather be single well i am hey look

08:27:18.000 people have their pursuits and it is what it is i think though uh i don't think that there's a lot of

08:27:25.020 well i don't think there is anyone who's perfect you're going to make a lot of compromises when it

08:27:31.140 comes to who you ultimately end up with you might end up with the love of your life and you might think

08:27:35.420 they're beautiful and very attractive but i think ultimately there are some things that you know perhaps

08:27:40.400 might not be maximal in all aspects in terms of who you end up with like me for example even though

08:27:45.820 there's a sort of for men men are like i would give up my career for the perfect woman 0.82

08:27:52.220 now you might say well brian you're not steadfast enough you don't have you don't have the mission

08:27:59.740 in you i think i do but i i acknowledge simultaneously that the perfect woman is so rare

08:28:06.620 well not it's not that she's rare she doesn't exist um so for the perfect woman how about this

08:28:17.260 let me ask a question going around the table if you could get i know some of you are in relationships

08:28:22.740 but hypothetically if you could get a man who's 80 percent of all the things that you want

08:28:30.360 but he's missing like the 20 or whatever uh i don't know if i'd frame it as settling but would

08:28:37.280 you accept that that's already what i'm doing good to know would you would you accept that he's 80

08:28:44.620 of all the things that you want well yeah probably uh yes you would take him yeah okay what about you

08:28:52.620 no no i don't think so wouldn't take him yeah what about you yes but also i'm curious what the

08:29:02.940 20 yeah it depends on the 20 yeah that is fair to say that's fair to say um

08:29:07.660 hmm i'm not actually sure how i would frame it but what about you i think it depends as well

08:29:15.640 if it's like if the 20 is just like looks based like height weight eye color genetics whatever

08:29:23.620 then sure but if it's like deal breakers for me like 20 personality too

08:29:29.920 well i feel like personality matters to an extent yeah but not deal breaker okay sure what about you

08:29:39.960 no because it's not my husband oh i mean she's committed i think so i think they've done this

08:29:47.820 as a study actually or they you know they pulled men and women on this question and men jumped at it

08:29:55.040 oh of course 80 that'd be fantastic whereas a higher proportion of women are like no if i can't get 100 1.00

08:30:02.620 i don't want anything i was actually surprised i was surprised for this time mostly you guys said

08:30:09.700 i'm not looking for 100 i'm looking for whatever amount he can give and the rest what he can't give

08:30:17.200 can we find a way to find common ground can i look past those things because not everyone there's

08:30:24.920 no one not everyone's perfect everyone has like their flaws issues whatever so i'm not saying i'm 100

08:30:32.300 either they're things that i do and think and say that you know aren't that make me not even close

08:30:39.720 to 80 percent 10 million dollars though a year you won't settle for less well around that amount

08:30:50.620 it has to be exact okay nine million eight million seven million even if you said one million

08:30:56.280 uh that's a lot of money but so you're saying let's say hypothetically of course we all know

08:31:05.640 you're going to be extremely successful but let's say for whatever reason it doesn't happen and you

08:31:10.360 are a like many actresses and whatever well you're not trying to be an actress i guess uh you end up

08:31:18.700 as a waitress or you know whatever it is you uh work you're a barista if you were let's say you're

08:31:27.820 making i don't know it could be some other job seventy thousand dollars a year would you be fine dating

08:31:33.940 a guy who makes seventy thousand dollars a year i'd probably stay single till i achieve my dreams

08:31:40.980 i have a question for you yeah do you think as you are 18 years old that your aspirations and dreams

08:31:50.180 they might be a little naive i mean i already mentioned that i think that myself seems a little

08:31:58.440 too high and i you think it'll change yeah your opinions your as you grow or do you think this

08:32:04.980 gonna be like your your mindset forever well i think it's gonna lower a little bit as i grow because

08:32:12.240 life experience is gonna hit me someday and then maybe eventually you'll you'll want that 70k man

08:32:17.460 not 70k though not 70k i would rather like if i have to work on myself or i stay single till i

08:32:25.620 actually consider myself worthy of being uh able to hold up something

08:32:31.900 what's the definition of worthy i mean if if i can't support myself i mean 70k supports me but not

08:32:42.780 to the point where i'm glad with how it supports me i guess that just goes back to like what you were

08:32:49.960 saying about those high expectations and the high self-esteem thing you were saying it's okay

08:32:56.780 yeah she's 18 dude well that's why that's why i'm asking like you know to reflect i think maybe

08:33:03.620 this is like a naive thought that you could grow to adjust as you to go on do you what are you like

08:33:11.140 triggering at like what are you pushing at towards me for i'm not trying to trigger i'm just trying

08:33:16.240 just just saying something that you might think about you're telling me to consider to neglect that

08:33:23.140 no i'm saying is i'm trying to get you to reflect if this is what you're thinking now

08:33:27.700 is it really what you think you're gonna think forever when i was 18 i thought that if i couldn't

08:33:32.560 figure out what i wanted to do in college i was going to chop my hair off and move to france okay like 0.77

08:33:36.920 we all have different ideas and expectations you know what i mean so let her figure shit out so why 0.96

08:33:43.240 did you not chop your but wait look i think look we can let her dream however um i don't think

08:33:54.760 there's anything wrong with wanting to pursue a passion or pursue your dream or pursue your career

08:33:59.720 i think my primary objection is is the number well look also my confusion here is if you're making 10

08:34:10.260 million dollars would it really matter all that much like you're making so much money 10 million

08:34:17.980 dollars a year you could date a guy who's technically broke and be totally fine financially then i'm a

08:34:26.440 sugar mommy i'm not a sugar mom but you realize like okay so when you say you want to date a guy who

08:34:31.840 makes 10 million dollars a year a year that's such a small proportion of men a really small amount of men

08:34:38.560 uh it's 0.0001 or something very few men make this much money um i don't even how many how many i i'm

08:34:49.520 not even interested in a percentage how many men here let me just ask gpt um let's just do this how

08:34:57.100 many men in the united oops in the u.s earn 10 million a year i hope they don't give me a percentage

08:35:08.380 let's see uh one sec uh okay so according to irs statistics of income 2080 individual tax returns

08:35:25.660 reported adjusted gross income of 10 million or more 2 000 men and most of those men are probably

08:35:35.620 probably probably probably already in a relationship most likely um married kids old so you probably

08:35:44.700 want a guy i don't know let's say you make by the time you're 30 you're making that much

08:35:49.160 the amount of men like that you would i don't know like do you date older men um like how old or how much

08:35:59.780 older no like 50 no i would not it's okay say you're 30 would you date a guy maybe you date a guy

08:36:06.440 between 30 and 40 if i'm 30 maybe yeah yeah it's just so few men that make that much money so it's a

08:36:14.480 bit unrealistic but then like let's say you don't make that much money the question is what's like

08:36:22.220 what do you reduce your threshold of the man's yearly income to be like a hundred thousand or is

08:36:30.840 that too low a million still a million okay so let's say you're broke let's say you're broke

08:36:36.300 minimum to yearly income to date you if i'm broke minimal income for him how much does he have to make

08:36:45.380 if i'm broke if you're broke if i'm broke then i'm probably single too

08:36:48.920 well i mean you can be broken as a woman and still date but um just for the hypothetical if i would be

08:36:57.060 broke i'm trying to think okay let's say you have you are a barista and you have a studio apartment

08:37:09.080 so you're not broke but you're kind of broke but um what's the minimum yearly income for a man to be

08:37:18.480 your future husband in those circumstances

08:37:21.180 well that's a kind of like a wide range because i don't know where i'm gonna be in

08:37:30.520 you're a barista that's making 20 an hour 0.67

08:37:35.320 how long am i gonna be doing that i mean

08:37:39.680 hey you gave it a shot but my future husband how am i gonna know what i'm gonna be earning in the

08:37:46.980 future if you're a barista at 30 you gotta pack it up oh i'm 30 i'm 30 okay let me lock in

08:37:54.940 i'm already 30 i'm a barista and i have an apartment uh studio apartment yeah well he would probably

08:38:02.500 no i'd probably be single then i don't deserve to have a relationship wait what if i don't make

08:38:14.520 it i don't deserve to wait women don't need to make money to deserve a relationship i i consider that 1.00

08:38:20.800 my opinion okay but

08:38:22.780 i don't i don't think anyone's supposed to like financially like i don't have a job

08:38:34.740 through all of human history

08:38:36.560 let me ask your parents are they still together no they're separated yeah your mom poisoned your

08:38:47.220 father and murdered him who murdered someone are your parents both of them alive yeah okay but

08:38:55.660 they're separated yeah okay oh man that would have been bad uh okay they're they're separated um

08:39:01.820 okay well were they were married okay when they were married was what was the dynamic

08:39:08.360 i mean dynamic was uh was was he paying for was he like the breadwinner i guess and she stayed at

08:39:19.760 home and took care of the kids yeah i mean it's been a it's been a a way people are it's been a dynamic

08:39:27.360 for most of human history it's not when people make it obvious or like pointing it out like oh

08:39:38.340 i'm paying for everything uh you wouldn't you wouldn't want to that dynamic yeah no because

08:39:47.780 it's just shameful but like you said men should pay on first dates and men should be chivalrous and

08:39:52.900 that's just kindness that's just a person being a person okay well look men don't care about your money

08:40:00.440 really it should not it should not it would not prevent you from dating somebody if your money

08:40:08.360 wasn't right i mean clearly you're 18 right i'm assuming you're not making like a bunch of money

08:40:13.880 at 18 probably but a bunch of men probably want to date you you're an attractive girl you live in los angeles 1.00

08:40:21.880 i'd prefer staying single you have like three boyfriends

08:40:29.240 and like 10 eight dudes on your roster who said their boyfriends if they're well they're three guys

08:40:37.700 they've been with you for six months a year three years i don't even know i feel like you're being

08:40:45.940 kind of you're holding something back about this i don't know it's kind of confusing are any of them

08:40:50.380 married or in relationships no do you like cuddle with them

08:40:56.760 no so i'm just i don't know if we fully grasp what exactly is the nature of these because like

08:41:09.200 when i asked you like if there's guys in the picture

08:41:12.620 but that question would imply like it's not just friends

08:41:20.020 i mean it's okay so i don't know from my stand-up point i envision people who have feelings for me

08:41:28.100 like they are in the picture they're talking to me they have feelings for me and you have feelings

08:41:31.520 back i would hope no why do you kiss them you oh she kisses them i don't know yeah yeah yeah i just

08:41:38.960 feel bad oh you mercy kiss i would like i wouldn't go any further than that as i said

08:41:46.000 no no no i would not do that exactly i mean the three-year guy you should at least give him a couple 0.89

08:41:52.460 pity fucks that's a long time it was or a cuddle but i was like no you pity kiss only i only kiss i 0.73

08:42:01.080 said i don't go any further than that hand-holding 0.99

08:42:03.940 if they ask for a hug i'm like it just seems like you're wasting your time do they know that

08:42:10.080 you hate them like literally they're probably in love with her yeah are they in love with you have

08:42:15.220 they said i love you yeah are they like wait all of them yeah have you said i love you back

08:42:19.880 no i can't say i can't lie how are you benefiting and from this in any way good question or then

08:42:27.140 yeah what are you getting out of this yeah i thought she said she gets a place to stay when

08:42:30.780 she's in new york oh my god that's not worth like having like a year long all they do is kiss so

08:42:39.480 the hotel is right no i do you talk about how it costs money exactly well this only costs a kiss

08:42:46.220 maybe well yeah but it's like that seems like a lot of work to save that amount amount of money 0.99

08:42:54.780 like if you're gonna be a gold digger you might as well fucking go all the way like i mean shit 0.99

08:42:59.680 have him rent you an apartment in new york what are you talking about that's not worth it 0.99

08:43:05.640 but okay aren't there guys who live in la that you're seeing yeah like one of them you've been

08:43:11.260 six months a year yeah six what are you getting actually i don't know he's very weird do you want

08:43:19.400 who's in la he's actually very weird like he he's a youtuber no no no he's not um he's also a music

08:43:27.240 artist but he's told me like very weird things like like one day okay we're just talking like

08:43:37.400 friends we're in a friend come like a little friend group and then he just one day he texts me like at

08:43:43.400 3 a.m i was literally sleeping i saw this at 6 a.m when i woke up there's like seven texts all the

08:43:50.780 texts were like this long and they say hey i have like these things for you and these feelings are

08:43:56.640 very strange and let me describe them and they were like and all of that all of that all of that and

08:44:04.420 it summed up as like i still don't know what i'm feeling for you and but i think i just i'm like

08:44:10.740 attracted to you and you my soulmate and you're like i have i can fix her this is crazy you for

08:44:16.760 life and i love you so much and i was like i don't know like what i have to do with a person who has so

08:44:25.860 many like he's literally telling me i love you so much i have like you're my soulmate for life

08:44:32.320 i don't know i feel connected to you or you gotta let this guy down i mean you gotta let him down if

08:44:37.240 you're not feeling it and he's you're just stringing him along i think you gotta let him down

08:44:42.140 i don't know if i might in the future oh i just i mean for even if you approach it from a selfish

08:44:52.560 perspective i mean it takes a lot not a lot but like like he's texting you and you're reading the

08:45:00.600 text it seems like a waste of time for you and it's a waste of time for him you're not into it sound

08:45:06.480 look let me ask you point blank are you into the guy

08:45:09.200 i that's the deal she doesn't know oh my gosh all right maybe you have to figure that out she's 18

08:45:18.800 she'll figure that out oh man that would be so cool with a girl and she's like i don't know how i 0.99

08:45:24.320 feel about you that makes you even more in love if it's toxic i guess but i don't know well he must

08:45:32.880 you know dating is not like doesn't have to be this complicated thing i understand it can be

08:45:38.260 complicated but it's like i like you you like me let's be together why can't that's simple

08:45:46.140 anyways i can fix her you gotta you gotta lose all the dudes and you gotta be wearing a 0.82

08:45:51.760 what is it the babushkas wear what do they wear what are the head covers that the russian women wear 0.90

08:45:56.980 headscarf i'll have you in the kitchen in a headscarf making russian dumplings seven sons 1.00

08:46:04.200 seven sons seven sons you can sing you can sing in the bat in the shower how about that i did that

08:46:10.940 10 years ago what no sing in the shower oh uh okay court you stabbed yourself after getting cheated on

08:46:19.300 yes i did after you got cheated on with your current husband no so this was a different

08:46:27.940 person that cheated on me actually you've been cheated on a lot every relationship

08:46:34.460 except for like do you have a type um

08:46:39.080 i did it makes a lot of sense why i got cheated on a lot my type was broken and needing to be fixed

08:46:47.820 are you also broken and needing to be fixed i was because they're so okay tell us about the

08:46:54.620 stabbing so and reenact it with this pen okay wait wait actually don't do that here reenact it

08:47:04.860 with a fake knife okay where did you stab yourself was it like wait what in the stomach twice you did 0.79

08:47:11.340 like a harikari oh are you like seppuku a seppuku or harikari there's two you can still see 0.83

08:47:20.540 but yeah i stabbed myself two times are you able to zip down just a teeny bit so i think

08:47:25.180 okay we see it it's just those two it's not lower no no it's just those two wow that girl would have 0.97

08:47:31.860 react if she saw that but um so

08:47:35.200 like how here with your hands sometimes i know women can misjudge like the size of 1.00

08:47:44.440 objects but what are we measuring it's like penises or whatever a knife um the knife how big was the

08:47:49.520 knife it was a pretty big knife it was a paring knife so it was like that but it was super paring

08:47:55.220 paring knife paring it's like in a kitchen like the one you cut pair like like the ones

08:47:58.900 the ones that will take the skin off what is that that's a peeling knife no not paring

08:48:06.880 paring knife is like it's it's okay can we no serrated no no no okay whatever you know my

08:48:13.200 parents kept a knife with knife the edge is like um it's like it's long it's the actual blade and

08:48:19.200 then it's like this thick herring i don't fuck with small they're small knives it's not pairs like 0.89

08:48:26.320 that it's smaller than a butter i don't eat pairs so oh i see it okay so it's maybe a couple inches 0.98

08:48:32.500 yeah like your ex yeah yeah yeah okay it's okay look

08:48:37.360 and you uh-huh stabbed yourself full force once or twice it was twice

08:48:45.040 you it was the same sitting setting yes yes once pull out second time yeah in front of him

08:48:54.960 what are you supposed to do with the sepulch he was far away aren't you supposed to like

08:48:59.400 you gotta like go side yeah you're supposed to like god yourself i was very drunk i had relapsed 0.84

08:49:05.860 have you ever stabbed a man no i would never stab anybody did you consider oh man that's crazy i'd 0.58

08:49:15.040 be scared i'd be a little scared to date a woman who did that but um did you ever consider cutting 1.00

08:49:19.500 his dick off no i would never you would do that okay yeah not now in my current life you stabbed 1.00

08:49:27.620 yourself yeah that's the only time i've ever and you're drunk yeah and high or just not high just 1.00

08:49:32.380 drunk off of what uh jose cuervo tequila gold you stabbed yourself while drunk off jose cuervo

08:49:38.580 yeah sponsor me and then did you go to the hospital or oh yeah an ambulance came so did you perforate

08:49:45.460 your stomach lining there is tissue damage but i didn't get to my actual organs because i weighed

08:49:51.860 quite a bit more than i do now you were obese yeah or were you yeah i was like 200 pounds

08:49:58.580 whoa yeah transformation in there thank you less than a year lived quite the life yeah i went to

08:50:06.420 jail after i stabbed myself too because i beat somebody up in the same night after you stabbed

08:50:10.880 yourself no before are you sure it was just tequila yeah tequila well i drank the whole bottle though

08:50:17.340 was this before you beat up a man or a woman um both so there were three battery charges you beat up

08:50:24.760 a couple yes and then also a girl separately so three people yes you beat up three people

08:50:31.200 and then after the you beat them up yeah did you use a weapon when you beat them up or it was just

08:50:37.540 your hands uh just my hands i beat them up pretty bad two of them turned into felony charges everything's

08:50:44.620 dropped now i'm a free innocent girl wait they dropped it um how would you get dropped the felonies

08:50:51.140 got dropped down to miss oh but you got charged but okay i see what you're saying yeah i'm not a felon

08:50:55.660 um well i only got charged with one battery so i'm a free girl but i did spend two months in jail

08:51:02.060 um the fighting happened first and then my neighbor said the police were coming and so i was like okay i'm

08:51:08.880 gonna get arrested i'm just gonna end it all and the whole reason i was fighting in the first place

08:51:15.980 and like fighting those girls was because of the cheating 1.00

08:51:20.400 so oh wait did and drink were those girls the one of them cheating one of them yeah one of them 1.00

08:51:30.880 we're actually friends now and then you beat up the guy who was your boyfriend no i beat up a

08:51:35.620 totally no like a random like like and a random chick yeah like neighbors 0.70

08:51:41.460 were they like trying to intervene or something um no the man just always would be weird towards me 1.00

08:51:49.600 and like try to do stuff so i started yelling at the lady like your husband wants to fuck me 1.00

08:51:55.100 he's always trying to get with me he's knocking on my door like i started yelling and then yeah 0.99

08:52:00.960 was this before or after your first kid this was after i didn't change my life around until the

08:52:10.820 beginning of this year pregnant no no no all my kids were born already when this happened this

08:52:15.920 happened wait at the beginning of this year wait so hold on it was a different guy that made you do

08:52:22.780 the stabbing that you were dating so your current boyfriend yes you already with your current

08:52:29.960 boyfriend those are his three kids yes so this was when you were broken up with him yeah after i left

08:52:35.740 this was after the cheating and the the and then you were dating a different guy you already had

08:52:40.700 three kids and then that other guy cheated on you yeah and then you drunk drank drunk drink 0.98

08:52:49.860 some jose cuero some tequila yeah got all fucked up stabbed yourself well first you beat up three 0.99

08:52:55.920 people was it were they all together or were these like separate completely like all three or two of 0.99

08:53:01.400 them the the one girl was by herself and a couple the cheating girl well the other yeah yeah so you

08:53:08.340 beat her up then a little bit later yeah you beat up yeah the neighbors i was just kind of like

08:53:14.660 running around i was out in my car yeah i was out in my car i'm sure there's some body cam

08:53:21.000 ring whatever were you already drunk when you were beating him up yeah yeah yeah i wouldn't fight

08:53:26.760 not drunk i just turn into a demon when i'm drunk which is why i'm sober now wow that's insane uh

08:53:35.060 that's thank you for sharing that though that's crazy i know that is um have you uh have you ever

08:53:42.720 slashed a guy's tires um no not the tires what have you what did you slash like the inside where the

08:53:51.900 radio is because he could just replace his tires it's harder to replace a radio oh you thought that

08:53:55.780 through yeah yeah um have you ever burned a guy's clothes yes my dad's your dad's yeah he cheated on

08:54:06.140 my mommy wow yeah the loyalty oh boy that was when i was like like a teenager though

08:54:14.100 yeah did you have a chaotic upbringing

08:54:20.380 yeah we were on a reality show called nanny 911 because we were really bad kids oh yeah the king

08:54:29.040 family go watch it anyway um when was this what year oh jesus 2004 i was four but i was okay you

08:54:36.880 should hear me curse i was not it was horrible i was a bad kid oh boy but yeah that's crazy 0.88

08:54:42.280 uh the king family all right we're gonna find that that's crazy holy shit okay uh let's see and then 0.98

08:54:50.540 uh you said you've cheated uh you left your husband wait so your current boyfriend you were married to 0.83

08:54:58.980 him no i put husband because that's just what i call him yeah it's not okay that's right i remember

08:55:03.640 that um okay but you left him you got with another guy that other guy cheated on you you're now back with

08:55:09.400 your husband um you've cheated since you got back with him is that correct no not since i got back

08:55:16.960 with him just like the times since leaving him oh sorry the time since leaving him like the two

08:55:22.220 relationships i had been in i cheated on them so brutally like horrible have you ever gotten std

08:55:28.720 no oh my cheating is never sex by the way what is your cheating um like kissing or just like some 0.99

08:55:35.620 dumb shit like something that's not really yeah yeah i mean it's still cheating but yeah but not 0.99

08:55:41.520 like i wouldn't want to ruin my life like that okay body but your but your boyfriend fiancee slash 1.00

08:55:48.900 husband he's cheated like all the way through oh yeah he's fucked other people but i wouldn't want 0.99

08:55:54.500 to do that because yeah you write uh modern dating is literally fucked it seems like everyone is cheating 0.99

08:55:59.980 or micro cheating uh because you you write it seems like becoming a cheater is way more probable 0.99

08:56:05.080 uh yeah okay uh alissa six months single alisa yeah you got it thank you be pissed off at your 0.78

08:56:16.380 parents or something um isn't it pronounced it's pronounced alisa russian because alisa okay all right

08:56:25.640 i'll try to get it proper uh six months single post one year relationship with a guy you thought

08:56:31.000 you were going to marry that didn't work out sacrificing yeah yeah yeah we can skip that later

08:56:39.760 well i have a question for you actually given like you know you make the decisions a lot with your

08:56:45.960 relationships is um if i was willing to move to a whole nother state where like i did not really i

08:56:55.460 would have to essentially start my life over for him i was willing to do that your life should be

08:57:00.000 your boyfriend's life right right okay thank you you're welcome but asking to move to a town over

08:57:07.960 that's 15 minutes away from where he lives is that asking for too much to be in an apartment that suits

08:57:14.360 both of our needs but you were asking him or he was asking you i was asking considering that i was

08:57:20.940 willing to move several states over if he would be willing to move to a town that's like 15 minutes

08:57:26.860 away from him so that we could be in an apartment that was that catered to both of our needs not

08:57:34.700 necessarily cheaper but had things that both of us needed you know um so he you wanted to move

08:57:43.620 i was willing to move for him to a whole nother state to massachusetts where he lives i wasn't asking

08:57:50.960 what's the question i'm willing to move to another state to massachusetts where he lives but he doesn't

08:57:57.180 want him he didn't want to move to another town in massachusetts 15 like 15 minutes from where he

08:58:03.640 currently lives in massachusetts was that asking for too much well what what was his reasoning to decline

08:58:10.240 he didn't want to be far from the beach because he likes to step outside of his apartment to surf

08:58:16.080 valid 100% valid w boyfriend thank you sorry i'm just no you're fine i'm a i'm a boy's boy i can see

08:58:26.500 that boy's boy gotta have the boys back this whole thing has been a boy's boys conversation uh no i'm a

08:58:32.420 i'm one of the girls sure you i'm a girl's girl yeah it's a safe space okay uh a few things from you

08:58:39.100 we're pretty close here uh dating in the music industry have you dated a i mean kind of what i

08:58:47.840 mentioned before but because i think ava brought up something earlier i kind of remember something else

08:58:57.140 i didn't even mention in the chat so actually hold on let me think about this one of my exes

08:59:06.900 was chinese that was okay that was in the u.s but he was chinese uh his family was oh me so horny 1.00

08:59:16.940 me love you long time sorry sorry sorry sorry all right um so he was chinese um his family was

08:59:24.240 chinese he has a huge family and he was it was just such a weird date i feel okay we had like

08:59:33.360 in total we had like three dates yeah but i think every time it just got even weirder because the

08:59:40.800 first date okay he took me to like some restaurant it wasn't like just like some italian place and i was

08:59:47.480 like okay you know like what's the deal i didn't really like him i just went because i felt bad for

08:59:52.740 him again um and we just spoke and he was a little older and i lied about my age

08:59:59.960 oh wait you were on you were underage well yeah what did you okay what was your age and what did

09:00:07.500 you say your age was i was 16 i think i was 16 how old was he he was like 20 i think but i i like

09:00:19.600 when we were sitting there i thought it would be a red flag for like me to say hey i'm just like 16

09:00:25.220 so i said i was like i was 19 and he believed that i mean i'm just kind of mature so it was

09:00:34.640 believable i had a job you know like it would make sense that i was 19 was it rice gum

09:00:40.440 rice rice gum no he's older than that he said he's an asian guy so okay okay chinese so that was

09:00:50.400 the first like i lied about my age then he dropped me off home and i just felt very bad and i felt very

09:00:55.840 weird but i was like okay i don't know where this is going yet then we have the second date and he

09:01:01.900 decides to invite me to his house and he mentions while we're driving there he's he's mentioning that

09:01:11.240 he has a huge house he has nine brothers and that he has

09:01:17.720 seven snakes at home like pet snakes yeah and eight cats okay and i'm like what because that was

09:01:31.160 like i don't think you would do that on a second date like hey let's go to my house i have seven

09:01:36.960 snakes and nine cats but i went and i was like okay whatever let's go i came to his house and he was

09:01:47.420 like all right sit down and i sat on the sofa and he started cooking for me he would clean for me he

09:01:53.960 would like he i started making like a full-blown meal he made like i don't know i don't know whatever

09:02:00.540 i just felt so awkward i i don't know who cooks for a person especially i know you just said about

09:02:08.240 women being traditional women cleaning women cooking but then here is like the full opposite when 1.00

09:02:16.020 a guy invites me to his place seats me down and starts cooking for me cleaning for me and i just

09:02:25.040 i just felt so i kind of felt out of place i just didn't know what to do it was very awkward and all

09:02:32.960 these snakes being there i'm like i don't like snakes at all and i was it just felt and the place was a

09:02:39.420 mansion because he had nine brothers but for some reason no one was home it was just him

09:02:45.000 and i was like it was a nice place it was a very weird place wait he's a musician no he's not a

09:02:51.920 musician imagine imagine like you know a person from a second date you're sitting on his sofa in a two

09:03:00.360 story like mansion with eight snakes and nine cats and you're like i mean it maybe it's a little

09:03:09.360 peculiar the amount of animals but um i don't know if it's i mean but the only thing that okay and then

09:03:17.800 after he made my meal uh we ate the meal we're sitting talking and then he just like takes me

09:03:25.380 straight to his bedroom i'm like seriously like already well it was only the second date and i was

09:03:34.740 like i kind of like i don't usually do that yeah i mean like have you ever done that only with someone

09:03:43.000 i feel very attracted to like personality wise like oh they're hot as hell but i didn't see that i mean

09:03:51.080 i don't i don't i don't have a like a primary thing for chinese guys i don't know at this point

09:03:59.360 i'm looking back at it and i don't know why i kept like being led on i was like okay let's let's go like

09:04:07.840 okay okay but like right now i would just say okay i'm not interested but he starts like it's he starts

09:04:17.880 doing his thing and then we're like already doing it and i realized that sorry go go ahead continue go

09:04:28.060 ahead you realized or i realized that it's just very he's just very very like throwing me off absolutely

09:04:35.900 i don't know what was either like him cooking for me either him like providing everything either him

09:04:44.240 being like too pleasing like he was like trying to impress me but it wasn't working

09:04:49.740 and i just i think he wasn't using the correct tactics

09:04:53.940 the meta the most yeah what does it stand for most effective most most effective tactics available 0.83

09:05:04.960 his meta was all fucked up wait but so you did sleep with him 0.98

09:05:08.240 i it's like we see we like started and like in the middle it like mid mid all this stuff 0.94

09:05:18.540 he like starts whispering to me and he's he's like oh no what does he say is it in chinese

09:05:26.160 i mean he did have like oh i just can't like look at his eyes and they're like so squinty

09:05:34.460 no

09:05:35.460 no i get it he like pissed off me he's like

09:05:40.420 he pissed off me he's like you're so sexy and i was like and that that's my that's my breaking point

09:05:51.140 wait you don't like when people talk during no it's just with his accent or something

09:05:56.280 oh no you're so sexy oh wait do it again do it again you're so sexy 1.00

09:06:02.600 what the fuck was that was that indian what kind of like roll of the tongue 1.00

09:06:07.720 can i do like a vietnamese accent absolutely not anybody vietnamese 0.99

09:06:11.840 who can do a nail impression who can do an indian one oh yeah yeah do it do it do it 0.96

09:06:18.340 you want a gel nail you want a five dollar for the for the design on your ring finger

09:06:23.940 it was okay it was okay it's okay wait so okay hold on but did you continue seeing the guy the chinese 0.99

09:06:31.460 guy okay no um because so it's a one-time thing honestly after that after that we did

09:06:41.780 meet but it was less you know like i was trying to stay away from you i don't know why i just felt

09:06:47.560 like turned off because of the girl

09:06:52.680 but you had you i don't know how he did it he just wasn't what is it well you uh 0.99

09:07:02.500 it's it you you got turned on like after the sex during the sex no i got turned off i was like 0.98

09:07:08.700 i could not but then you had sex with him anyways no uh the third time we met i think 0.99

09:07:14.620 yeah i didn't mention how many times did you guys hook up uh well we like had sex or just 0.90

09:07:20.440 what uh you said the third time you met up with him just met didn't like do anything because you

09:07:26.640 said the second date he took you to the bedroom showed you the snakes and the cats and his mansion

09:07:33.560 was empty and then so but so it was the second date you guys had sex uh and then the third date

09:07:41.800 you had sex again no the third date um we went like hiking or whatever at like 12 a.m

09:07:49.480 at midnight yeah i have no idea is he on like meth or something he's on china time this guy's gonna 1.00

09:07:57.320 fucking murder you what the fuck i have a question so you said something about not wanting to like 0.99

09:08:02.740 string that guy along this guy so what's so different about not wanting to string him along 1.00

09:08:09.040 but you can string these three guys along uh what i i just this three guys she's currently talking

09:08:16.940 too she's like stringing them along but she just said she didn't want to string this guy along

09:08:21.440 i mean i did for how long i could she did string him along for three times so wait but then it was

09:08:31.180 over three times over i just felt bad because okay yeah and it was over sex like i mean it's still

09:08:36.960 hit still i i i got home i was like okay i'm home and but then i never like responded to him

09:08:46.920 again but he kept calling me or he kept texting me it was like hey if i did something wrong just like

09:08:52.700 you know like we could oh did you ghost him talk about it i kind of did i was very avoided when i

09:08:59.680 was younger i'm trying to work on it and be less avoidant to people just try not to ghost people but

09:09:07.620 it's difficult um you have for an 18 year old you have a lot of lore you do do you know what lore is

09:09:15.000 l-o-r-e lore i have a lot of lore you know what lore is oh you're a man that's a woman term

09:09:21.700 like i think like who like tara yummy don't get me started about world of warcraft lore okay

09:09:27.940 i don't want to hear any more please i'm already so confused yeah i'm not gonna get into it i'm not

09:09:33.280 gonna get into it i'm not actually much flower song and ranger arts or whatever

09:09:37.320 a magnum core the magnums okay so i feel like this is maybe like the third you've got like

09:09:44.400 two seven other crazy stories too probably oh probably like seven oh boy

09:09:49.600 70s 70s oh seven sorry i thought you said d meant no you seven 70 70 stories 70 stories

09:09:59.360 what is you know i had like four car 18 four car accidents i feel like you're 18 you know what

09:10:07.920 how

09:10:09.720 i don't know la la is another beast los angeles is another beast um but weren't you in arizona

09:10:22.120 i was in arizona that wasn't arizona this was in arizona the hiking oh yeah imagine that

09:10:27.740 you had a thick chinese accent imagine the snakes the the heat the hiking and and that would like

09:10:34.660 it being 90 degrees fahrenheit actually that'd be quite pleasant all this sounds lovely i personally

09:10:41.740 love snakes it's a good i love snakes too i mean i never took shrooms but it sounds like a trip

09:10:47.740 you have an interesting story um okay but you said fake dating what does that mean really quickly

09:10:54.780 fake dating yeah fake dating in your notes oh yeah no i just feel like a lot of people

09:11:00.480 so that's what's more about la more about after moving here i realized that some people

09:11:06.100 date each other for opportunities and i i didn't like do that i i'm very against that

09:11:14.020 okay but i just see it happening and i'm like oh you like i see one person that is very much

09:11:22.420 into their partner but their partner just their furdy whatever so like you

09:11:29.380 no i'm just i'm just being sorry for people i'm not that's not they're not giving me opportunities

09:11:39.240 right opportunities i mean people in the industry let's say they date for having an opportunity like

09:11:47.160 oh i'm with this guy he's successful see that's something that resonates because that's that's

09:11:54.500 fake dating that's what i call fake dating oh i need to go are there any we're almost done

09:12:01.020 okay hang tight i swear we're we're at the tail end here like almost done i got you boo like five

09:12:08.660 to ten my luggage is sitting on somebody's front porch right now what what oh wait yeah sorry yeah

09:12:17.480 we're good don't worry we're this this her notes are the last there's like two three other things

09:12:23.780 we're we're at the tail end here i got you okay um really quick really quick look honestly the

09:12:30.400 reason it's not my fault this show goes so long i just think sometimes you guys speak on 0.5 speed

09:12:35.840 so um you wanted to talk about like dating norms between like russia and usa give me the quick

09:12:46.880 quick thing there hold on i'm gonna think fast i'm gonna think fast i just think she said something

09:12:54.580 about people in america not knowing what they want but i think it's the other way around like people

09:13:01.400 sometimes i would see people in russia they're completely lost they're like oh you know i don't

09:13:07.360 know what i'm feeling right now i don't know what i want to do like with my feelings but rather than in

09:13:15.260 the u.s uh a guy kind of knows where he's going with a relationship or where he wants to take it

09:13:24.600 wait so you're saying in the united states men are more uh have more of a direction but in russia

09:13:31.000 no yeah i would say that's true even though she said like the complete opposite i don't know maybe

09:13:37.560 i would disagree with you like based on my own russian husband who was very like he just knew what

09:13:42.080 he wanted well you guys are maybe okay um all right a few more things here uh okay we have to

09:13:49.580 we have to do the mary let's just do the by the way there were different gender swaps did you see

09:13:54.860 that like there were two different batches you didn't catch it okay all right can you get those

09:14:01.880 going while i get those going we'll just do that as a fun segment i don't know but it that doesn't

09:14:09.420 really matter if you can just get the other the other batch of them pulled up well there's age

09:14:15.600 and then gender swap you have one batch of those correct okay get the other batch it's in the same

09:14:22.060 tab you'll see it i'm sure uh okay uh all done with notes um we could do

09:14:29.760 it's always tough when the not everybody's at the table uh we could also do bumble segment but i i

09:14:40.600 think you probably have to get everything like pulled up and stuff right here really quick why

09:14:46.100 don't we just do the bumble segment we're only going to do two girls here we're going to do the 1.00

09:14:50.060 10 and the 10. we'll just do that now okay so wait hold on uh what is the age what is the age range

09:15:01.980 of men you would date i would say 20

09:15:09.100 all right do you know how to change it mary okay 18 to 26 18 to 26 honestly hold on well it depends

09:15:20.640 okay sure that's a fine that's a fine range let's do that okay go ahead all right so we need quick

09:15:28.320 answers you get to see you see one photo hey uh mary put us on gh5 center zoom

09:15:33.120 you gotta hide the other one all right uh just yes or no no

09:15:41.460 quick quick quick quick maybe yeah i don't have to see if it no or yes

09:15:54.380 oh my god too late which one is he uh either let's say the left that's probably the better

09:16:02.820 looking one probably yeah i mean i don't know how long i'm gonna be dating him for don't worry

09:16:08.980 just yes or no yes or no please no but he looks just yes or no yes or no no other commentary 0.55

09:16:14.760 no no no no no yes no no i don't know who is he no hey that was the guy you already had sex with 0.96

09:16:31.940 no no no no they're they're just showing you asian guys now it's crazy i guess no wait he's 1.00

09:16:38.720 mexico yes oh my god we know our type fuck boy i'm like is david the cat no 0.99

09:16:46.040 uh yes no no no yes no he was a kid no um dang it was fast no 0.99

09:17:05.500 uh no i don't know what uh no yes no he's a cowboy or something okay yes

09:17:20.060 no

09:17:22.160 no all right we'll leave it there uh okay you don't even have a normal photo they actually

09:17:29.300 they were pretty generous with some of the men that they showed you there um all right so uh

09:17:34.560 age range of men you would date uh 28 to 40

09:17:39.240 pretty good range all right we'll give you 20 swipes

09:17:44.060 mm-hmm

09:17:48.060 is david the cat

09:17:51.240 yes david

09:17:53.840 okay

09:17:55.780 just yes or no no

09:18:05.280 uh yes

09:18:08.080 no

09:18:10.180 no

09:18:12.120 no

09:18:14.380 no

09:18:16.480 no

09:18:18.540 no

09:18:20.600 no

09:18:22.520 no

09:18:24.660 no

09:18:26.720 if he's the guy on the left

09:18:30.560 yes

09:18:31.000 no

09:18:33.620 yes

09:18:35.920 no

09:18:37.860 no

09:18:40.220 yes

09:18:42.500 oh my god

09:18:43.980 no

09:18:44.360 no

09:18:46.440 no

09:18:48.520 no really

09:18:51.760 no

09:18:52.980 no

09:18:55.780 no

09:18:57.760 yes

09:19:00.360 no

09:19:02.360 no

09:19:04.540 no

09:19:06.380 all right we'll leave it there

09:19:07.820 all right uh not too bad

09:19:10.580 not too bad like on the hot the cute scale

09:19:12.380 you actually prefer cute over hot

09:19:14.040 you understand the hot the cute scale

09:19:15.760 uh okay

09:19:18.000 uh so that's done

09:19:19.440 here we'll do

09:19:20.400 can you start working on the

09:19:22.220 the the other

09:19:23.920 uh

09:19:24.920 batch

09:19:25.700 okay

09:19:26.420 uh

09:19:27.240 we are going to do

09:19:29.100 a rapid fire segment here

09:19:31.400 rapid fires

09:19:34.320 okay so

09:19:35.280 if you guys can just for the sake of time

09:19:37.260 give me quick answers

09:19:38.100 don't try to linger too long

09:19:39.900 as we're going around the table

09:19:41.200 if we are going around the table

09:19:42.280 just try to

09:19:42.740 you know

09:19:43.880 give me give me the answers

09:19:45.500 all right

09:19:46.000 without

09:19:47.700 naming

09:19:50.020 ah whatever it doesn't matter

09:19:51.160 name three countries besides the usa

09:19:52.860 you can't repeat

09:19:53.780 anybody

09:19:54.880 israel

09:19:56.780 mexico

09:19:58.500 spain

09:20:00.400 russia

09:20:01.760 um

09:20:03.000 ukraine

09:20:03.840 africa

09:20:04.680 wait

09:20:06.160 africa

09:20:07.680 that's not a country

09:20:10.580 oh

09:20:10.900 egypt

09:20:12.200 okay

09:20:12.940 germany france

09:20:14.960 uganda

09:20:15.560 wait we don't need that

09:20:19.100 just answer the question please

09:20:20.560 um

09:20:23.800 kane what this

09:20:27.320 okay

09:20:28.060 uh what was canada said

09:20:31.700 mentioned

09:20:32.340 canada kuwait

09:20:35.140 and um

09:20:37.160 italy

09:20:40.620 columbia

09:20:42.140 argentina

09:20:42.820 chile

09:20:43.260 indonesia

09:20:44.340 malaysia

09:20:44.940 thailand

09:20:45.460 united states

09:20:46.880 kenya

09:20:47.300 yemen 0.97

09:20:47.780 lithuania

09:20:49.100 latvia

09:20:49.740 estonia

09:20:50.300 and you're not supposed to say the usa

09:20:52.640 oh

09:20:53.380 okay

09:20:54.080 one more

09:20:54.560 uh nigeria 0.88

09:20:55.420 okay

09:20:55.940 uh how many continents

09:20:57.700 are there

09:20:58.660 seven

09:21:00.080 anybody have a different answer

09:21:02.680 okay

09:21:03.580 name

09:21:04.200 one continent

09:21:05.280 europe

09:21:06.740 oh africa 0.93

09:21:08.700 is

09:21:08.980 africa

09:21:10.540 australia

09:21:14.540 new zealand

09:21:17.620 they're their own continent right

09:21:19.780 what

09:21:21.140 look i will be honest i failed geography

09:21:23.940 new zealand is a continent

09:21:27.060 greenland

09:21:28.740 this is not

09:21:29.660 let's do the oceans

09:21:30.620 sorry

09:21:31.880 am i just being

09:21:33.300 do you want to take another crack

09:21:34.920 no i think that's enough for me

09:21:36.940 it's greenland

09:21:38.020 news

09:21:38.640 no not greenland

09:21:40.140 no no no

09:21:41.120 sub

09:21:42.140 south america

09:21:43.660 oceania

09:21:45.280 that what i was thinking of

09:21:47.100 thank you

09:21:47.800 wait did we just miss

09:21:48.980 just

09:21:49.700 the angles

09:21:51.020 okay

09:21:55.500 uh

09:21:57.200 all right

09:21:57.760 um

09:21:58.380 what

09:22:00.080 two

09:22:00.800 countries

09:22:01.680 border

09:22:03.040 the usa

09:22:05.640 canada

09:22:10.180 and south america

09:22:12.180 so

09:22:14.860 what was your question

09:22:16.320 wait no no helping

09:22:17.360 no helping

09:22:17.760 what are the two countries that border the usa

09:22:20.280 oh countries

09:22:21.620 yeah

09:22:21.960 uh canada and mexico

09:22:23.340 okay

09:22:24.640 how many states

09:22:26.080 in the usa

09:22:26.900 is this 52

09:22:29.320 50

09:22:30.360 52

09:22:34.160 isn't this 52

09:22:36.720 i've only been here for two years okay

09:22:38.560 she's foreign 1.00

09:22:39.320 that's fair uh

09:22:40.520 okay

09:22:40.820 how many states in the usa

09:22:42.520 51

09:22:44.400 how many states in the usa

09:22:46.060 50

09:22:46.940 anybody

09:22:48.060 50

09:22:48.560 how many states

09:22:49.240 i think there's technically 51

09:22:50.700 technically 51

09:22:52.360 it's 50

09:22:52.920 it's 50

09:22:54.000 50 because puerto rico is a territory

09:22:57.300 okay

09:22:58.160 uh

09:22:59.000 what is the capital

09:23:00.480 of

09:23:01.680 the usa

09:23:02.900 the district of columbia

09:23:04.840 washington dc

09:23:06.460 how many stars are on the u.s flag

09:23:08.720 50

09:23:09.400 okay

09:23:12.320 what century

09:23:13.540 are we in

09:23:14.700 i have no clue

09:23:16.560 can you speak into the mic please

09:23:18.020 i have no clue

09:23:18.900 21st

09:23:20.140 21st

09:23:21.200 21st

09:23:22.140 yeah

09:23:23.020 21st

09:23:23.500 okay

09:23:23.960 how many

09:23:25.280 in one

09:23:26.200 dozen

09:23:26.860 that's the question

09:23:29.140 12

09:23:30.740 oh

09:23:31.600 yeah

09:23:32.460 i got confused

09:23:33.460 the way you worded it

09:23:34.720 you wanted

09:23:35.340 how did i word it

09:23:36.460 how many in one dozen

09:23:38.180 like i thought

09:23:39.240 you're like what amount

09:23:40.580 this one

09:23:41.080 i thought you mean like

09:23:42.540 what amount

09:23:43.000 can you speak into the mic

09:23:44.320 what amount is

09:23:45.220 one dozen

09:23:46.120 like i don't know

09:23:47.160 i just i'm a little slow

09:23:48.580 i'll be honest

09:23:49.860 i think the phrasing was fine

09:23:51.280 but okay

09:23:51.800 my brain is slow

09:23:53.320 what year

09:23:53.960 this one i'll give you a tough one

09:23:55.800 somewhat tough

09:23:56.640 what year was the u.s. founded

09:23:58.040 1845

09:24:00.760 okay take a guess

09:24:02.580 we go around

09:24:03.520 we go around

09:24:04.100 take a guess

09:24:05.040 oh

09:24:06.100 um

09:24:07.800 i don't like

09:24:09.100 she said 1845 right 0.89

09:24:14.040 i'm just like dead wrong

09:24:15.580 just throw a guess

09:24:15.920 throw a guess

09:24:16.360 um

09:24:18.020 1907

09:24:19.580 1748

09:24:21.720 i don't know

09:24:23.760 uh

09:24:24.200 wait

09:24:24.580 into the mics

09:24:26.680 please

09:24:27.000 1836

09:24:28.320 i don't know

09:24:29.060 1776

09:24:30.320 1700 something

09:24:32.820 1776

09:24:34.340 1776

09:24:35.420 okay

09:24:36.180 uh

09:24:37.920 who

09:24:38.460 did the u.s. gain

09:24:40.780 its independence

09:24:41.840 from

09:24:42.860 starting with you

09:24:45.740 uh

09:24:47.740 great britain

09:24:48.480 great britain

09:24:50.140 great britain

09:24:50.160 anybody have a different answer

09:24:51.220 okay

09:24:51.780 who was the first president

09:24:53.920 of the united states

09:24:55.060 washington

09:24:55.920 what country

09:24:59.100 is the great wall of china in 0.59

09:25:01.780 i actually don't know

09:25:03.920 guessing china

09:25:05.520 unless that's a trick question

09:25:06.920 wait is it a trick question

09:25:09.840 asia

09:25:11.420 no that's

09:25:12.800 oh sorry

09:25:13.660 asia's the continent

09:25:14.880 oh

09:25:15.560 i just gotta stay silent

09:25:18.900 for a sec

09:25:19.420 i said i'm slow

09:25:20.640 intelligence

09:25:21.640 uh okay

09:25:22.300 how many inches

09:25:23.820 in a foot

09:25:24.840 12

09:25:25.640 oh

09:25:25.940 how many seasons

09:25:27.360 are there

09:25:28.320 four

09:25:29.320 how many days

09:25:31.420 in a year

09:25:31.820 how many letters

09:25:35.220 in the alphabet

09:25:36.360 how many days

09:25:48.640 of the week

09:25:49.440 end with the letter y

09:25:51.380 all of them

09:25:52.580 hey

09:25:52.860 oh sorry

09:25:53.440 hey y'all

09:25:54.140 that wasn't gonna go to you

09:25:55.540 i'm sorry

09:25:56.320 you're appointed to me

09:25:58.020 what's a shape

09:25:59.540 with four sides called

09:26:00.820 technically quadrilateral

09:26:03.480 well

09:26:04.240 technically quadrilateral

09:26:05.280 rectangles

09:26:06.800 rectangles

09:26:06.820 he didn't point at you

09:26:09.420 just saying

09:26:10.000 oh my god

09:26:10.820 uh okay

09:26:11.840 what

09:26:12.420 uh

09:26:14.060 what language

09:26:15.980 do

09:26:16.920 the people

09:26:18.560 in idaho

09:26:19.720 speak

09:26:20.220 english

09:26:22.780 anybody else

09:26:24.780 want to

09:26:25.100 take a guess

09:26:26.080 potatoes

09:26:27.520 idahoian

09:26:29.420 sorry say that

09:26:30.820 idahoian

09:26:31.960 one more time

09:26:32.620 idahoian

09:26:33.660 idahoian

09:26:34.520 idaho

09:26:35.780 udaho

09:26:36.420 udahoian

09:26:38.540 we identify as

09:26:39.480 idahoans 0.90

09:26:40.440 wait you're from

09:26:41.160 idaho

09:26:41.520 yes 1.00

09:26:42.020 what the fuck 1.00

09:26:43.340 do they speak there 1.00

09:26:44.320 uh portuguese

09:26:45.180 of course

09:26:45.840 obviously

09:26:46.400 to the band

09:26:47.500 okay uh

09:26:48.880 what ocean

09:26:50.840 is

09:26:51.980 california next to

09:26:53.840 the

09:26:55.120 pacific

09:26:56.740 am i wrong

09:26:58.080 am i wrong

09:26:59.660 how are you

09:27:00.400 out of yourself

09:27:01.260 that was great

09:27:02.200 you did

09:27:02.820 fantastic

09:27:03.740 uh

09:27:05.480 what

09:27:06.200 ocean

09:27:07.920 is

09:27:09.200 new york

09:27:11.320 next to

09:27:12.500 atlantic

09:27:13.800 well done

09:27:14.940 it's my home

09:27:15.780 what is half of

09:27:17.180 one million

09:27:17.760 five hundred thousand

09:27:19.840 how many years

09:27:21.360 are in a decade

09:27:22.220 ten

09:27:24.480 i think so

09:27:26.220 how many are in a century

09:27:28.840 a hundred

09:27:29.900 if a dozen eggs

09:27:32.780 costs three dollars

09:27:34.760 how much is each egg

09:27:36.560 a dozen eggs cost

09:27:39.340 a dozen eggs cost three dollars

09:27:42.420 how much is each egg

09:27:44.560 i need to write

09:27:50.300 i need to write

09:27:50.940 i can't

09:27:51.260 you

09:27:51.460 you need to write it down

09:27:53.100 yeah

09:27:53.620 you can't brain math it

09:27:55.520 i can't

09:27:56.120 well brain math on paper

09:27:57.700 it's two

09:27:59.480 two point

09:28:00.160 two point

09:28:01.440 twenty five cents

09:28:03.860 it's twenty five cents

09:28:05.360 twenty five cents

09:28:06.400 okay

09:28:06.640 uh what is the closest star

09:28:09.320 to earth

09:28:10.840 um

09:28:13.780 the closest star to earth

09:28:16.420 no help

09:28:17.400 no help

09:28:18.080 what is the closest star

09:28:20.360 to earth

09:28:21.080 it wasn't called

09:28:25.060 like

09:28:25.800 serious

09:28:26.780 um

09:28:30.380 you got this

09:28:34.180 i believe in you

09:28:34.920 what's the name

09:28:39.060 throw out the name

09:28:40.020 of a star

09:28:40.740 you are a star

09:28:44.540 lotta

09:28:45.580 lotta

09:28:46.460 lotta

09:28:47.780 lotta

09:28:48.740 lotta money

09:28:49.500 that's how you gotta remember

09:28:50.420 lotta

09:28:50.980 she's gonna make a lot of money 1.00

09:28:52.020 lotta

09:28:52.980 um

09:28:53.760 is that a nevermind

09:28:55.720 is that a nevermind

09:28:59.140 i was gonna say something

09:29:00.960 just

09:29:01.300 you know how there's like

09:29:04.340 some names like

09:29:05.340 you just

09:29:05.860 like rupert

09:29:06.780 like you wouldn't be able

09:29:08.040 to say that

09:29:08.720 like in the bedroom

09:29:09.600 yeah like

09:29:10.400 oh rupert

09:29:11.240 yeah

09:29:11.620 no 1.00

09:29:12.600 fuck that 1.00

09:29:13.460 like build 1.00

09:29:14.600 who i feel like

09:29:15.200 my head's all over the place

09:29:16.460 um

09:29:17.040 closest star

09:29:19.680 to earth

09:29:20.320 pretty sure the sun

09:29:21.660 is considered a star

09:29:22.940 so the sun

09:29:23.980 good job

09:29:25.420 proud of you

09:29:26.800 you should not

09:29:28.440 have started in only fans

09:29:30.380 because you're so

09:29:31.060 you are really smart

09:29:31.880 you're lying

09:29:32.660 i know seriously

09:29:33.820 so honest

09:29:35.240 you're lying

09:29:37.340 okay um

09:29:39.220 how many

09:29:40.080 oh my god

09:29:40.800 how many

09:29:41.760 how many degrees

09:29:42.840 is a full rotation

09:29:44.020 of a circle

09:29:44.640 for you

09:29:45.440 close to the mic

09:29:47.780 what do you mean

09:29:49.040 how many degrees

09:29:50.200 360

09:29:50.840 yes

09:29:52.760 if you're

09:29:53.780 this one's boring

09:29:54.840 um

09:29:55.480 do you know

09:29:56.820 what year

09:29:57.600 the world of

09:29:58.540 1812 started

09:29:59.660 1812

09:30:02.320 correct

09:30:03.620 why couldn't i have

09:30:06.060 one like that

09:30:06.760 the civil war

09:30:07.500 mine was like

09:30:08.780 when

09:30:09.040 hold on

09:30:09.620 what year

09:30:12.200 the war of 1812

09:30:15.080 started

09:30:15.620 wait repeat

09:30:19.080 congratulations

09:30:21.000 you got it right

09:30:21.760 uh

09:30:22.340 what country

09:30:23.860 is the panama canal in

09:30:25.660 what into the mic

09:30:28.240 into the mic

09:30:28.700 i don't know

09:30:29.780 you want to guess

09:30:30.900 just throw a guess

09:30:31.560 no i don't

09:30:32.060 jupiter

09:30:32.380 jupiter

09:30:33.300 that's not

09:30:33.780 a country

09:30:34.740 brian

09:30:35.440 uh

09:30:36.440 is it in

09:30:37.580 pan

09:30:38.160 is it in

09:30:39.900 is it in

09:30:41.740 sorry

09:30:41.980 egypt

09:30:42.920 egypt

09:30:43.700 is it in

09:30:46.000 can someone else

09:30:46.840 answer the question

09:30:47.880 please

09:30:48.160 jibouti

09:30:48.760 it's in jibouti

09:30:49.840 it's in yuli

09:30:50.480 jibouti 1.00

09:30:50.980 oh shit 1.00

09:30:51.760 okay 1.00

09:30:52.280 oh shit 1.00

09:30:52.840 uh 1.00

09:30:53.380 what country is the

09:30:54.200 panama canal in

09:30:55.320 um

09:30:56.020 i think it's in

09:30:57.540 south

09:30:58.020 and that's a

09:30:59.340 continent

09:30:59.620 um

09:31:00.100 let me

09:31:01.680 think

09:31:02.360 yeah go ahead

09:31:03.320 take your time

09:31:04.020 you got this girl

09:31:06.440 no i don't

09:31:07.620 you got this

09:31:08.580 jordan

09:31:11.740 yes

09:31:13.660 what is

09:31:14.540 what

09:31:14.980 don't say yes

09:31:16.640 what country

09:31:17.560 what country

09:31:18.220 is the panama canal in

09:31:19.720 i was saying egypt

09:31:22.400 egypt

09:31:23.560 okay

09:31:23.980 yeah the

09:31:24.920 the suez

09:31:25.500 the suez

09:31:26.820 um

09:31:28.300 what country

09:31:30.440 is the panama canal in

09:31:32.040 i don't know

09:31:36.540 you just

09:31:36.960 you kind of

09:31:37.560 we didn't hear it

09:31:38.880 i think

09:31:39.140 she did

09:31:40.540 oh okay

09:31:41.440 i missed that

09:31:42.000 i don't know

09:31:44.180 where

09:31:44.900 did

09:31:45.700 the attack

09:31:46.960 on pearl harbor

09:31:48.020 take place

09:31:49.000 hawaii

09:31:50.380 what country

09:31:53.400 did the vietnam war

09:31:55.020 happen in

09:31:56.120 you sure

09:32:01.680 i don't know

09:32:02.800 am i wrong

09:32:04.200 that's when they did like

09:32:06.240 nagasaki in that

09:32:07.400 or was that something

09:32:08.180 different

09:32:08.380 that is where they did

09:32:09.320 nagasaki and hiroshima

09:32:10.960 oh wait

09:32:11.560 no

09:32:12.740 that's a different one 0.99

09:32:14.020 yeah we nuked the shit 0.76

09:32:15.240 out of vietnam

09:32:15.700 vietnam is where

09:32:16.540 we nuked

09:32:17.600 them

09:32:19.480 at nagasaki and hiroshima

09:32:22.640 no

09:32:23.480 famous cities in vietnam

09:32:25.100 no

09:32:25.720 vietnam is where they were all rushing onto the plane in that war right

09:32:29.240 i don't know i

09:32:30.520 that's a blur for me

09:32:31.980 i have no idea

09:32:32.660 what country did the vietnam war happen in

09:32:36.500 vietnam

09:32:37.200 you are correct

09:32:39.120 you win the prize

09:32:40.080 uh how much is a quarter of an hour

09:32:43.340 oh my god

09:32:46.860 how much is a quarter of an hour

09:32:49.540 15 minutes sorry

09:32:52.580 yeah

09:32:53.200 okay

09:32:56.320 all right you got saved by the bell there

09:32:58.800 uh

09:32:59.680 what is

09:33:01.120 34 plus 66

09:33:05.120 34 plus 66

09:33:06.960 that's a hundred

09:33:08.360 yeah

09:33:15.200 a hundred

09:33:15.700 what is

09:33:19.340 7 plus 7 plus 7

09:33:20.760 21

09:33:22.120 what is

09:33:23.880 3 times 3 plus 1

09:33:25.280 7

09:33:27.420 no

09:33:28.680 not 10

09:33:29.400 sorry

09:33:29.860 i did

09:33:30.780 what

09:33:31.320 3 times 3 plus 1

09:33:33.120 3 times 3 plus 1

09:33:34.860 oh okay

09:33:35.320 oh

09:33:35.880 into the mic

09:33:36.700 into the mic

09:33:37.140 10

09:33:37.780 okay we have a chat here from dmax

09:33:40.000 ask the panel where new england is

09:33:44.540 bonus for naming the six states

09:33:46.500 where is new england

09:33:47.340 okay

09:33:48.620 sure you

09:33:49.340 what got

09:33:49.860 it's um

09:33:50.460 up

09:33:50.960 wait

09:33:51.440 into the mic please

09:33:52.320 it's up near canada

09:33:53.560 and um

09:33:55.260 the states

09:33:56.440 new hampshire

09:33:57.180 vermont

09:33:57.840 maine

09:33:58.880 maine

09:33:58.900 connecticut

09:33:59.560 new york

09:34:00.440 and

09:34:01.780 what else

09:34:02.680 was there

09:34:03.500 i know

09:34:04.400 you

09:34:05.180 did so good

09:34:06.700 rhode island

09:34:07.400 nice okay

09:34:09.660 congrats

09:34:10.000 um

09:34:10.680 what is

09:34:11.700 seven

09:34:12.900 minus seven

09:34:13.620 minus seven

09:34:14.280 negative seven

09:34:16.760 seven

09:34:18.180 minus seven

09:34:19.060 minus seven

09:34:20.100 yeah she's right

09:34:22.460 she's right

09:34:23.320 what is a hundred

09:34:24.860 minus sixty six

09:34:25.860 that would be

09:34:28.320 forty four

09:34:30.360 thirty four

09:34:31.940 thirty four

09:34:32.480 hey yeah

09:34:33.280 whoa

09:34:33.680 no help

09:34:34.460 let the girl answer the question 1.00

09:34:36.200 uh what is

09:34:37.320 eight plus eight plus eight

09:34:38.200 twenty four

09:34:40.660 what is three times

09:34:42.560 three times

09:34:42.860 three

09:34:43.080 like

09:34:45.140 like

09:34:45.860 squared

09:34:46.580 is that what you're talking about

09:34:48.300 oh yeah

09:34:49.720 twenty seven

09:34:52.960 nine plus nine plus nine

09:34:55.320 twenty seven

09:34:56.600 nine

09:34:58.680 what is

09:34:59.800 a hundred

09:35:00.320 minus

09:35:00.980 thirty four

09:35:01.800 a hundred

09:35:02.980 minus thirty four

09:35:03.960 six

09:35:04.280 six

09:35:04.680 what is

09:35:07.400 nine minus

09:35:07.880 nine minus

09:35:08.320 nine

09:35:08.620 negative nine

09:35:09.820 if yes

09:35:11.820 is spelled

09:35:12.440 y-e-s 1.00

09:35:13.440 what does

09:35:14.260 sorry

09:35:15.520 that's so old

09:35:17.460 okay all right

09:35:18.140 for

09:35:19.340 for you

09:35:20.040 if you were born

09:35:20.980 ten years ago

09:35:21.840 how old

09:35:23.000 would you be today

09:35:23.880 the age that I am now

09:35:26.760 wait if I was born

09:35:29.580 I was born

09:35:30.340 ten years ago

09:35:31.160 sorry

09:35:31.760 yes I'll repeat it

09:35:33.180 that's fine

09:35:33.600 if you were

09:35:34.380 if you were born

09:35:35.600 ten years ago

09:35:36.440 how old

09:35:37.460 would you be today

09:35:38.300 ten

09:35:39.140 you win the prize

09:35:40.740 congratulations

09:35:41.320 okay

09:35:41.760 how many

09:35:42.560 world wars

09:35:44.180 were there

09:35:45.460 two

09:35:47.500 two

09:35:50.300 probably about to be three

09:35:52.400 but two

09:35:53.420 that might be

09:35:54.280 yeah

09:35:54.440 this is for everybody

09:35:57.200 to answer

09:35:57.800 going around the table

09:35:59.280 what decade

09:36:00.620 was world war one

09:36:02.720 oh my god

09:36:09.020 I literally just

09:36:10.140 answered this

09:36:11.000 um 1.00

09:36:11.840 fuck 1.00

09:36:13.700 the 1.00

09:36:15.140 19

09:36:17.380 am I wrong already

09:36:19.680 19

09:36:20.760 something

09:36:24.260 just throw

09:36:25.800 1910s

09:36:26.880 1920s

09:36:27.480 1930s

09:36:28.100 1940s

09:36:28.820 1950s

09:36:29.760 1910s

09:36:30.980 okay what do you think

09:36:31.780 what

09:36:33.120 what decade was

09:36:34.940 the world war one

09:36:36.320 yeah

09:36:37.240 1940s

09:36:39.700 okay

09:36:39.920 what about you

09:36:40.740 the second one

09:36:41.520 1890

09:36:42.360 1890 okay

09:36:43.860 1910

09:36:45.360 1910

09:36:46.140 1910

09:36:47.020 1890

09:36:48.260 1890

09:36:49.020 1890

09:36:49.360 can I give the exact answer

09:36:50.800 or no

09:36:51.180 here

09:36:52.260 I guess we'll come back to you

09:36:53.620 what do you think

09:36:54.140 the 1910s

09:36:55.200 okay what's your exact answer

09:36:56.660 1914

09:36:57.220 and 1918

09:36:58.080 that is correct

09:37:00.140 what was the primary decade

09:37:01.920 of world war two

09:37:03.060 the

09:37:04.220 1940s

09:37:06.640 1940s

09:37:08.360 1930s

09:37:11.420 1930s

09:37:12.980 1930s

09:37:13.720 sure

09:37:13.840 1940s

09:37:14.780 okay

09:37:15.000 1940s

09:37:16.240 can I give the exact answer

09:37:17.680 the 1940s

09:37:18.700 1939

09:37:19.580 to 1945

09:37:20.380 okay

09:37:21.480 can you name

09:37:23.620 I'll just

09:37:24.980 here I'll just

09:37:25.460 name

09:37:26.160 one allied power

09:37:28.040 one axis power

09:37:29.340 from world war two

09:37:30.260 um

09:37:31.860 allies

09:37:33.180 well that was like

09:37:34.020 us right

09:37:34.820 can I name us

09:37:35.760 United States

09:37:38.300 okay

09:37:39.060 one axis power

09:37:40.340 um

09:37:41.060 uh

09:37:42.480 Germany

09:37:43.980 oh wait

09:37:44.660 from world war what

09:37:45.320 two

09:37:45.600 yeah

09:37:46.060 Germany

09:37:47.000 axis

09:37:48.880 power

09:37:49.840 um

09:37:51.840 that's

09:37:56.680 access

09:37:58.380 um

09:38:00.120 okay

09:38:00.420 that's the

09:38:01.520 axis power

09:38:02.140 is France

09:38:02.700 United States

09:38:06.200 is

09:38:07.480 axis

09:38:07.880 or allied

09:38:08.540 wait

09:38:10.880 didn't you already

09:38:12.360 say United States

09:38:13.300 yeah

09:38:13.540 you can't repeat

09:38:14.040 you gotta just

09:38:14.560 pick a new one

09:38:15.660 you should explain

09:38:17.020 the difference

09:38:17.660 between axis

09:38:18.400 and allied

09:38:18.980 yeah

09:38:20.080 that's okay

09:38:20.700 how about this

09:38:21.260 allies make sense

09:38:21.840 but access

09:38:22.660 doesn't really

09:38:23.560 make sense

09:38:24.120 maybe it's like

09:38:25.360 a different

09:38:25.880 terminology

09:38:26.760 in Russia

09:38:27.520 okay I'll just

09:38:29.960 do one more

09:38:30.360 person

09:38:30.680 one allied

09:38:31.440 power

09:38:31.800 one axis

09:38:32.420 power

09:38:32.780 world war

09:38:33.280 two

09:38:33.500 uh

09:38:34.720 I don't know

09:38:35.480 what that

09:38:35.900 means

09:38:36.220 so I

09:38:36.700 skip

09:38:37.120 how about

09:38:38.460 uh

09:38:38.800 you have

09:38:39.140 this

09:38:39.500 um

09:38:40.080 UK

09:38:40.920 or Britain

09:38:42.060 and Italy

09:38:42.880 for allied

09:38:45.360 or access

09:38:45.820 or

09:38:46.120 Italy

09:38:46.620 for access

09:38:47.260 okay

09:38:47.420 name three

09:38:47.940 Kardashians

09:38:48.680 uh

09:38:50.800 Kim

09:38:51.600 Kardashian

09:38:52.460 hmm

09:38:54.880 Kardashian

09:38:59.660 and

09:39:03.660 Jennifer

09:39:06.580 Kardashian

09:39:10.840 or

09:39:11.360 hold on

09:39:12.520 okay whatever

09:39:13.100 uh

09:39:13.680 here Mary

09:39:14.100 do we have

09:39:14.500 all the

09:39:15.000 like age

09:39:16.080 yeah yeah

09:39:19.740 but you

09:39:20.100 you kept

09:39:20.540 the other

09:39:20.840 ones too

09:39:21.220 right

09:39:21.460 yeah

09:39:22.040 okay

09:39:22.600 so we'll

09:39:23.180 do

09:39:23.480 we have

09:39:24.280 a fun

09:39:24.560 segment

09:39:24.840 here

09:39:25.120 a little

09:39:25.420 intermission

09:39:25.800 a few

09:39:26.080 more

09:39:26.220 questions

09:39:26.560 then we're

09:39:26.860 done

09:39:26.960 uh

09:39:27.780 okay

09:39:28.120 just show

09:39:28.640 of hands

09:39:28.980 who here

09:39:29.520 think

09:39:29.800 uh

09:39:30.280 show of

09:39:30.640 hands

09:39:30.800 who here

09:39:31.220 thinks

09:39:31.480 they'll be

09:39:31.940 uh

09:39:32.640 better looking

09:39:33.220 in 10

09:39:33.580 years

09:39:33.900 better looking

09:39:35.000 show of

09:39:35.320 hands

09:39:35.980 she'd 0.61

09:39:41.320 see my

09:39:41.660 mom

09:39:42.020 she's

09:39:42.660 she's

09:39:43.660 a

09:39:43.920 chick's

09:39:44.460 a

09:39:44.620 milf

09:39:45.100 okay

09:39:46.260 20 years

09:39:47.660 anybody

09:39:48.080 okay whatever

09:39:49.080 all right

09:39:49.660 well we're

09:39:50.120 gonna do

09:39:50.500 we're gonna

09:39:50.800 blast through

09:39:51.240 these super

09:39:51.600 quick

09:39:51.840 we've put

09:39:52.660 you all

09:39:53.080 through

09:39:53.260 AI

09:39:53.600 uh

09:39:54.480 so just

09:39:54.720 so you

09:39:54.960 guys can

09:39:55.300 see

09:39:55.560 we like

09:39:55.980 to show

09:39:56.320 people

09:39:56.720 you know

09:39:57.360 what the

09:39:57.660 future

09:39:57.880 has in

09:39:58.240 store

09:39:58.540 um

09:39:59.660 so we're

09:40:00.440 gonna show

09:40:00.740 you some

09:40:01.240 AI stuff

09:40:01.860 we also

09:40:02.180 gender

09:40:02.560 swapped

09:40:02.880 you

09:40:03.080 so you're

09:40:03.840 gonna

09:40:04.040 answer if

09:40:05.800 you would

09:40:06.060 date the

09:40:06.380 male version

09:40:06.980 of you

09:40:07.620 i have a

09:40:07.980 question

09:40:08.360 where did

09:40:09.840 you get

09:40:10.020 the pictures

09:40:10.460 from here

09:40:12.620 oh just

09:40:13.640 like here

09:40:14.280 all right

09:40:15.900 oh you

09:40:16.720 need to

09:40:16.980 resize

09:40:17.400 these

09:40:18.420 i guess

09:40:19.380 um

09:40:20.000 no right

09:40:21.140 corner

09:40:21.520 huh

09:40:22.080 wait

09:40:22.400 what

09:40:23.340 did i pose

09:40:24.040 for a picture

09:40:24.740 wait can you

09:40:25.140 resize these

09:40:25.960 what the 0.99

09:40:27.420 fuck 0.99

09:40:27.760 did i miss 1.00

09:40:28.620 this

09:40:28.900 wait what

09:40:30.440 this is

09:40:31.540 resize

09:40:32.280 oh

09:40:33.600 oh yeah

09:40:34.060 you can't

09:40:34.460 go bigger

09:40:34.880 yeah we

09:40:38.080 usually have

09:40:38.620 it

09:40:38.820 she low-key 0.60

09:40:41.000 a baddie 0.70

09:40:41.500 though

09:40:41.820 when i'm

09:40:42.940 like a

09:40:43.540 a milf

09:40:44.100 not a gilf 1.00

09:40:44.700 she's not

09:40:45.100 here let's

09:40:45.400 just uh

09:40:45.980 next

09:40:46.460 can you

09:40:48.720 go bigger

09:40:49.120 also a

09:40:50.340 baddie

09:40:50.640 what the 1.00

09:40:51.020 fuck 0.99

09:40:51.300 that's the 1.00

09:40:52.240 future

09:40:52.680 i don't even

09:40:53.880 want to see

09:40:54.680 chick's a 0.91

09:40:55.120 milf

09:40:56.120 huh

09:40:56.340 yeah they

09:40:59.280 have to be

09:40:59.700 resized

09:41:00.360 with the

09:41:01.720 control mouse

09:41:02.400 at least i'm

09:41:02.900 still skinny

09:41:03.500 though

09:41:03.920 next

09:41:04.300 at least

09:41:04.860 you're still

09:41:05.200 skinny

09:41:05.760 you look 0.98

09:41:06.700 like a

09:41:07.520 kai

09:41:07.800 okay next

09:41:08.560 next

09:41:10.080 next

09:41:11.460 next

09:41:12.860 next

09:41:14.740 next

09:41:16.740 next

09:41:16.860 oh boy

09:41:18.520 here we go

09:41:19.000 of course

09:41:19.860 oh no

09:41:20.800 next

09:41:21.300 oh is this

09:41:22.940 the gender

09:41:23.300 swap

09:41:23.560 okay

09:41:24.060 oh my god

09:41:25.040 so quick

09:41:25.660 answer is

09:41:26.080 would you date

09:41:26.680 the male

09:41:26.960 version of

09:41:27.360 you

09:41:27.500 yeah

09:41:29.340 next

09:41:30.600 oh no

09:41:33.020 you wouldn't

09:41:34.080 date the

09:41:34.340 male version

09:41:34.700 of it he's

09:41:35.000 a good

09:41:35.200 looking guy

09:41:35.700 he's looking

09:41:36.460 weird

09:41:36.820 he looks

09:41:38.220 weird

09:41:38.620 i mean maybe

09:41:39.300 you look

09:41:39.700 weird

09:41:39.960 maybe i just

09:41:43.700 know

09:41:44.160 so no you

09:41:44.760 wouldn't date

09:41:45.080 him

09:41:45.240 no

09:41:46.120 okay

09:41:46.460 next

09:41:46.880 go back

09:41:50.100 i mean he

09:41:52.700 looks like

09:41:53.120 a

09:41:53.420 i might

09:41:54.820 i might give

09:41:56.060 him a shot

09:41:56.420 okay

09:41:56.900 next

09:41:57.680 no

09:42:02.680 you guys

09:42:03.660 speak close

09:42:04.100 into the mic

09:42:04.540 please

09:42:04.800 no

09:42:05.160 all right

09:42:06.980 next

09:42:07.720 yeah probably

09:42:11.740 okay

09:42:13.480 next

09:42:14.480 no

09:42:17.120 that picture

09:42:19.780 doesn't look

09:42:20.220 like me

09:42:20.660 yeah that

09:42:21.000 doesn't look

09:42:21.440 like her

09:42:22.020 the one on

09:42:23.420 the left

09:42:23.860 yeah that

09:42:24.560 doesn't look

09:42:24.980 like her

09:42:25.380 that's you

09:42:26.060 see my age

09:42:27.060 it's a weird

09:42:27.500 angle

09:42:27.840 next

09:42:28.400 it's a weird

09:42:29.900 angle

09:42:30.200 oh it wasn't

09:42:32.760 bad

09:42:33.060 would you date

09:42:34.140 the male

09:42:34.360 version of

09:42:34.760 you

09:42:34.920 slap a 1.00

09:42:35.840 mustache

09:42:36.120 on

09:42:36.540 he's cute

09:42:37.340 yeah

09:42:38.640 all right

09:42:39.620 next

09:42:40.200 oh she's

09:42:42.620 well she's

09:42:43.100 gone

09:42:43.280 actually kind

09:42:44.040 of mog's

09:42:44.480 not gonna

09:42:44.760 lie

09:42:44.880 yeah that

09:42:45.760 looked like

09:42:46.060 paul walker

09:42:46.660 no wouldn't

09:42:47.520 date him

09:42:47.820 all right

09:42:48.140 let's see

09:42:48.460 what they

09:42:48.700 did here

09:42:49.140 oh boy

09:42:49.860 next

09:42:50.260 oh yeah

09:42:57.480 she's hot 1.00

09:42:57.980 she's a

09:42:58.740 babe

09:42:58.940 what's that

09:43:00.540 nothing

09:43:01.000 what

09:43:01.640 nothing

09:43:02.120 I said

09:43:03.240 that's not

09:43:04.020 an attractive 0.55

09:43:04.520 photo of you

09:43:05.200 you look

09:43:05.460 very red

09:43:06.140 why

09:43:06.680 I mean I

09:43:07.060 am a bit

09:43:07.480 red

09:43:07.780 are you a

09:43:08.400 robot in

09:43:09.080 that picture

09:43:09.560 um

09:43:11.140 I mean

09:43:11.840 yeah she's

09:43:12.980 she's

09:43:13.320 she's a

09:43:13.660 babe

09:43:13.800 I date

09:43:14.160 her

09:43:14.260 next

09:43:14.660 or do

09:43:15.540 we have

09:43:15.780 the different

09:43:18.100 patch

09:43:18.480 yeah we'll

09:43:19.800 do it

09:43:20.440 all right

09:43:20.980 uh

09:43:22.000 you gotta

09:43:23.180 zoom in

09:43:24.000 on all of

09:43:24.500 these

09:43:24.800 okay

09:43:25.300 aww 0.78

09:43:26.760 wait what

09:43:27.280 is that

09:43:27.600 smile

09:43:28.140 okay

09:43:28.940 next

09:43:29.640 why

09:43:31.800 next

09:43:32.940 oh

09:43:33.500 too

09:43:33.880 too much

09:43:34.580 um

09:43:35.300 okay

09:43:36.100 oh my god

09:43:36.720 why is she

09:43:38.060 crying

09:43:38.340 next

09:43:38.700 why am I

09:43:39.260 crying

09:43:39.720 why are they

09:43:40.200 all

09:43:40.420 you're sad

09:43:44.260 because you're

09:43:44.800 old

09:43:45.020 I look

09:43:45.520 wow

09:43:46.120 wait wait

09:43:48.240 I got

09:43:48.540 I got

09:43:48.980 something for

09:43:49.420 this

09:43:49.640 hold on

09:43:50.120 that's not

09:43:51.900 my

09:43:52.120 that's your

09:43:55.220 future

09:43:55.620 all right

09:43:56.720 I don't

09:43:57.140 I don't

09:43:57.160 I don't

09:43:57.180 know

09:43:57.320 people

09:43:57.640 were

09:43:57.840 liking

09:43:58.080 next

09:43:58.620 you look

09:44:02.120 concerned

09:44:02.660 into the mics

09:44:03.300 if you're

09:44:03.600 going to talk

09:44:04.020 please

09:44:04.420 uh

09:44:05.020 next

09:44:05.420 it's very

09:44:05.860 serious

09:44:06.600 also

09:44:07.740 wait that's

09:44:09.580 cute 0.99

09:44:09.900 you look damn

09:44:11.100 good 0.94

09:44:11.460 next

09:44:11.940 like funky

09:44:12.900 yeah she looks

09:44:14.720 good

09:44:14.980 okay next

09:44:16.520 wow

09:44:19.000 we should have

09:44:19.860 like added some

09:44:20.520 puke or something

09:44:21.160 um

09:44:24.080 you know

09:44:24.880 just like a

09:44:25.320 barf bag or

09:44:25.920 something

09:44:26.180 okay next

09:44:29.340 oh my god

09:44:31.060 whoa

09:44:31.380 you actually

09:44:34.320 look pink

09:44:34.880 all right

09:44:35.780 oh boy

09:44:36.220 I'm worried

09:44:37.280 was that me

09:44:42.200 that's fine

09:44:45.260 that's fine

09:44:45.800 okay

09:44:46.000 would you date

09:44:46.740 your male looks 0.61

09:44:47.340 equivalent

09:44:47.700 that's me

09:44:48.560 I guess that's

09:44:49.080 you

09:44:49.240 it looks like

09:44:50.440 my brother

09:44:51.000 so no

09:44:51.740 these guys

09:44:52.800 are gonna

09:44:53.100 mog all 1.00

09:44:53.760 of you 0.88

09:44:54.040 by the way

09:44:54.560 um

09:44:55.200 it literally

09:44:55.740 looks like

09:44:56.040 my brother

09:44:56.360 that's so

09:44:56.780 weird

09:44:57.080 next

09:44:57.520 what

09:44:59.400 wait who

09:45:01.400 is that 0.99

09:45:01.980 who the fuck 0.99

09:45:02.940 is that 1.00

09:45:03.480 is that

09:45:06.340 supposed to

09:45:06.640 be her

09:45:07.000 I don't even

09:45:08.660 want to see

09:45:09.300 me now 0.99

09:45:09.900 what the fuck 0.99

09:45:10.620 okay next 0.99

09:45:11.480 no

09:45:12.660 no

09:45:13.280 he's stressed

09:45:14.520 out

09:45:14.840 period

09:45:15.460 clock it

09:45:16.360 receding

09:45:16.840 hairline

09:45:17.300 oh that's

09:45:17.740 you

09:45:18.080 yeah

09:45:18.680 me and my

09:45:19.240 receding

09:45:19.580 hairline

09:45:20.220 my glasses

09:45:20.880 period

09:45:21.560 that is

09:45:22.180 uh wow

09:45:23.600 okay

09:45:24.060 I think they

09:45:25.220 age the guys

09:45:26.100 a little bit

09:45:26.600 I don't know

09:45:27.120 uh next 0.99

09:45:28.100 what the fuck 0.99

09:45:30.560 oh my god 1.00

09:45:31.220 wait he kinda

09:45:31.820 he kinda

09:45:32.800 mogs 1.00

09:45:33.280 he kinda does

09:45:34.460 oh my god

09:45:35.360 would you smash 0.98

09:45:36.620 I would 0.98

09:45:37.480 would smash 0.96

09:45:38.240 10 out of 10

09:45:38.920 would smash

09:45:39.280 10 out of 10

09:45:39.960 honestly yeah

09:45:41.120 he's kind of Chad

09:45:42.040 yeah

09:45:42.500 major Chad

09:45:43.420 he looks like

09:45:44.620 one of those

09:45:44.940 with the hair

09:45:45.540 like a

09:45:45.920 facial expression

09:45:46.780 in the beginning

09:45:47.520 it's a little weird

09:45:48.440 like the way

09:45:48.880 because I like

09:45:49.940 he likes expression

09:45:51.280 next

09:45:52.040 he's like why

09:45:53.320 are you looking

09:45:53.700 at me

09:45:54.120 what

09:45:54.740 what

09:45:56.040 who did

09:45:56.740 these bro

09:45:57.340 these are

09:45:57.620 they're all

09:45:59.500 balding too

09:46:00.280 except for you

09:46:00.900 would you

09:46:02.840 would you

09:46:03.440 yeah probably

09:46:04.400 okay next

09:46:05.220 he's kinda fine

09:46:05.800 yeah

09:46:06.140 kinda looks like

09:46:06.900 Tom Brady

09:46:07.440 wait is this you

09:46:08.860 bro

09:46:09.940 I'm so confused

09:46:11.360 on one hand

09:46:12.360 they're like

09:46:13.020 they're way

09:46:14.220 they're all

09:46:15.340 balding

09:46:15.780 but they're 1.00

09:46:16.140 all fucking 0.99

09:46:16.660 mogging 1.00

09:46:17.300 the shit 0.97

09:46:17.700 out of the 1.00

09:46:18.220 girls 0.98

09:46:18.820 no offense

09:46:19.300 okay

09:46:21.100 next

09:46:21.600 oops

09:46:25.280 sorry

09:46:25.600 oh no

09:46:27.340 wait would you

09:46:27.900 this guy's like

09:46:28.680 she's like

09:46:29.680 wait how old are you

09:46:30.260 you're like

09:46:30.600 20 or something

09:46:31.440 20

09:46:31.840 this guy's like

09:46:33.100 in his 40s

09:46:34.000 what are you guys doing

09:46:34.720 what did they do to you 1.00

09:46:35.660 oh shit 1.00

09:46:36.360 it's funny though 0.99

09:46:36.960 these are cool

09:46:37.520 next

09:46:38.120 oh there's not

09:46:40.900 oh

09:46:41.600 oh my god

09:46:43.640 okay

09:46:44.420 that's you

09:46:45.400 that is

09:46:46.180 disturbing

09:46:47.240 is there another one

09:46:50.200 um okay

09:46:51.640 that's it

09:46:52.140 why did they do

09:46:52.720 your skin like that 0.95

09:46:53.480 you don't have bad skin

09:46:54.420 I don't know

09:46:55.320 it's okay

09:46:55.940 I have a question

09:46:57.280 what does

09:46:57.860 what does mogging mean

09:46:59.140 to mog

09:47:00.000 yeah

09:47:00.580 you're better looking

09:47:01.600 than them

09:47:01.920 so it's like

09:47:02.740 a looks maxing term

09:47:03.740 but basically

09:47:04.320 if you mog somebody

09:47:05.280 uh

09:47:06.320 you're better looking

09:47:08.540 than them

09:47:08.940 basically

09:47:09.480 okay

09:47:11.640 maybe I'm too old

09:47:13.040 to really

09:47:13.400 if you go into

09:47:14.820 a Walmart

09:47:15.420 like any average Walmart

09:47:16.980 you're gonna mog 0.86

09:47:17.900 everybody in the Walmart

09:47:18.820 because you look better

09:47:19.720 than them

09:47:20.740 your looks are better

09:47:21.940 than those people there

09:47:22.940 okay

09:47:23.620 exactly

09:47:26.040 okay

09:47:26.420 um

09:47:26.840 here

09:47:27.740 a few dating things

09:47:29.240 do you think

09:47:31.080 your

09:47:31.280 wait hold on

09:47:32.020 um

09:47:32.940 oh do you think

09:47:33.760 your personality

09:47:34.420 in terms of what

09:47:35.560 men want 0.97

09:47:36.200 is average

09:47:36.920 above average

09:47:37.700 or better

09:47:38.280 above average

09:47:40.780 I'm kind of

09:47:41.800 uh

09:47:42.200 below average

09:47:43.040 below average

09:47:44.580 my personality

09:47:45.180 yes

09:47:45.520 unfortunately

09:47:47.080 self-aware

09:47:48.640 she's self-aware

09:47:49.300 I guess

09:47:49.680 I think it's above

09:47:50.480 average

09:47:51.100 above

09:47:51.720 above average

09:47:53.960 personality

09:47:54.320 other than the fact

09:47:55.040 that like

09:47:55.740 I've been a little

09:47:56.180 quiet tonight

09:47:56.800 I don't

09:47:57.200 not that like

09:47:58.240 I mean

09:47:59.860 I don't know

09:48:00.120 what I'm even

09:48:00.500 trying to say

09:48:00.960 there with it

09:48:01.580 I mean

09:48:02.140 I'm an observer

09:48:03.500 I observe

09:48:04.440 but I mean

09:48:05.360 have you ever

09:48:06.400 stabbed somebody

09:48:07.120 no 0.86

09:48:09.120 shot anyone

09:48:10.200 while fencing 0.62

09:48:12.240 yeah

09:48:12.620 it's a long story

09:48:18.240 so I was

09:48:26.060 at um

09:48:27.060 the mental

09:48:27.540 hospital

09:48:28.120 and I

09:48:29.520 tried to

09:48:30.840 um 0.95

09:48:31.260 stab the nurse 1.00

09:48:32.860 with a syringe 1.00

09:48:33.840 I just have

09:48:35.840 intuitions about

09:48:36.640 people

09:48:36.960 you know

09:48:37.280 I just

09:48:37.700 I look at

09:48:39.100 somebody

09:48:39.400 and I just

09:48:39.900 know

09:48:40.400 you should be

09:48:40.780 a psychic

09:48:41.200 I'm like

09:48:42.000 fixed

09:48:42.380 I actually

09:48:42.960 have a lot

09:48:43.640 there's a lot

09:48:44.340 of subject matter

09:48:45.280 coming from you

09:48:46.480 I'm detecting

09:48:47.800 some crazy

09:48:48.500 stuff

09:48:49.780 okay so

09:48:50.560 uh

09:48:51.360 above average

09:48:52.700 average

09:48:53.280 better

09:48:53.960 below average

09:48:54.840 um

09:48:55.780 above average

09:48:57.100 okay

09:48:57.740 average

09:48:58.380 personality

09:48:58.800 I think average

09:49:00.500 I can be combative

09:49:01.140 average

09:49:01.680 average

09:49:02.300 above average

09:49:03.700 sort of related

09:49:04.660 charisma

09:49:05.240 do you think

09:49:05.940 you're charismatic

09:49:06.460 I guess this is

09:49:07.440 more yes or no

09:49:08.320 oh yeah

09:49:08.900 yeah

09:49:09.800 yes

09:49:10.980 no

09:49:12.040 yeah

09:49:12.700 yes

09:49:13.600 yeah

09:49:14.300 yes

09:49:14.920 you

09:49:17.100 you've got

09:49:20.380 charisma

09:49:21.360 and I mean

09:49:24.760 you're nice and all

09:49:25.700 but I don't know

09:49:26.360 if I

09:49:26.660 I don't know

09:49:29.060 if I feel

09:49:29.400 the charisma

09:49:30.980 it takes a second

09:49:31.980 to like

09:49:32.620 it takes a second

09:49:33.620 then again

09:49:34.120 how do you define

09:49:35.100 that's total cope

09:49:36.200 if you have charisma 1.00

09:49:37.400 that shit is apparent 1.00

09:49:38.800 how do you define 1.00

09:49:40.020 charisma

09:49:40.520 I'm sorry

09:49:41.220 yeah like how do you define

09:49:42.520 it

09:49:42.740 people

09:49:42.960 charisma

09:49:43.260 here I'll just google it

09:49:44.460 so there's no disagreement

09:49:45.540 charisma

09:49:46.900 riz

09:49:47.780 say a compelling

09:49:49.760 a compelling personal quality

09:49:51.240 a compelling personal quality

09:49:51.260 of magnetic charm

09:49:53.220 appeal

09:49:53.880 and influence

09:49:54.960 that draws people in

09:49:56.620 aura

09:49:57.220 aura

09:49:58.360 aura

09:49:59.120 aura

09:49:59.860 oh you're a little quiet

09:50:01.060 tonight

09:50:01.400 a little quiet

09:50:02.240 I don't know if I felt

09:50:02.980 the charisma

09:50:03.620 I mean

09:50:05.320 okay

09:50:05.680 I don't know what to say

09:50:07.980 what do you want me to say

09:50:09.380 I'm

09:50:09.700 I want you to say

09:50:10.580 that you're

09:50:11.300 well I mean

09:50:12.940 you don't have to say anything

09:50:13.740 but

09:50:13.960 I think you're

09:50:15.660 who knows

09:50:17.360 what's deep

09:50:17.900 I feel like you've got

09:50:18.920 some skeletons

09:50:19.620 down there

09:50:20.640 you know here

09:50:21.260 I don't know if anybody

09:50:22.300 is like OG

09:50:23.480 there's this

09:50:24.420 and I saw this a long time ago

09:50:25.700 Eddie Murphy

09:50:26.280 had the stand-up comedy special

09:50:27.620 back in the 80s

09:50:28.660 I'm sure none of you

09:50:29.680 have seen it

09:50:30.120 it's called Raw

09:50:31.000 and he said

09:50:32.020 you gotta be careful

09:50:33.100 with the quiet

09:50:33.980 not my

09:50:35.400 I'm gonna say

09:50:36.140 with not my words

09:50:37.320 his words

09:50:37.780 okay I'm just saying

09:50:38.420 what he said

09:50:38.900 you gotta be careful 1.00

09:50:39.800 with the quiet bitches 1.00

09:50:40.800 okay 0.99

09:50:41.500 I'm not saying 1.00

09:50:42.040 you're a bitch 1.00

09:50:42.360 I would never say that 1.00

09:50:43.240 I'm not

09:50:43.620 I'm not a misogynist

09:50:44.720 I'm a feminist 0.92

09:50:45.540 of course

09:50:46.340 I'm just saying

09:50:47.360 it's the quiet girls 1.00

09:50:50.300 you gotta watch out for

09:50:51.360 like they got skeleton

09:50:54.000 they got skeletons

09:50:55.220 in the closet

09:50:55.800 someone told that

09:50:56.960 to me in high school 1.00

09:50:58.000 it's the quiet bitches 1.00

09:50:59.800 you gotta be 1.00

09:51:00.600 watch out for

09:51:01.240 well I mean

09:51:03.200 yeah

09:51:05.720 you do

09:51:06.660 need to watch out

09:51:07.840 but

09:51:08.240 we have very good

09:51:09.380 characteristics

09:51:10.220 like

09:51:11.820 have you ever

09:51:12.360 murdered somebody

09:51:13.080 no I haven't

09:51:14.940 have you ever

09:51:16.940 flambayed 1.00

09:51:17.920 I don't even know

09:51:19.360 what that means

09:51:19.880 flambayed 1.00

09:51:20.560 like

09:51:21.100 flambayed 1.00

09:51:21.740 have you ever flambayed

09:51:22.660 like food

09:51:23.880 actual food

09:51:24.800 I thought that's

09:51:25.480 something else then

09:51:26.180 no it's

09:51:26.760 I don't know English 0.99

09:51:27.940 that sucks 1.00

09:51:29.880 that really sucks 0.98

09:51:31.840 for me 0.92

09:51:32.040 yeah I have flambayed

09:51:32.920 see she gets me

09:51:33.720 she gets me

09:51:34.600 I like this girl

09:51:35.380 flambayed food

09:51:35.540 see my humor

09:51:36.400 goes over people's

09:51:37.220 heads but she gets 0.97

09:51:38.040 she's on the same

09:51:39.460 page

09:51:40.160 good talk

09:51:43.100 charisma

09:51:44.480 I just don't

09:51:46.600 you just

09:51:47.060 you're a little

09:51:47.880 quiet is all

09:51:48.660 you know

09:51:49.100 I love that for you

09:51:50.900 but you're just

09:51:52.060 a little quiet

09:51:52.560 and I feel like

09:51:53.340 you're nice

09:51:53.840 but I

09:51:55.460 didn't detect

09:51:56.800 charisma

09:51:58.600 interesting

09:52:00.040 it's actually

09:52:00.660 what a lot of my

09:52:01.220 friends say that

09:52:01.740 I'm very charismatic

09:52:02.560 I just 0.99

09:52:04.180 am I just a dick 0.99

09:52:05.700 I don't know 0.99

09:52:06.300 look I'm

09:52:07.520 you're entitled

09:52:08.680 to your own opinion

09:52:09.600 thank you for that

09:52:10.400 I appreciate that

09:52:11.480 thank you

09:52:11.920 you're welcome

09:52:12.440 you are so cool

09:52:13.540 we all talked

09:52:14.880 that you were a bit 1.00

09:52:15.460 of a dick 1.00

09:52:15.960 whenever we came in 0.99

09:52:16.920 thank you

09:52:17.300 I did not

09:52:18.560 I gave you a burrito

09:52:19.380 I didn't need that

09:52:20.180 oh I should eat that

09:52:21.280 probably

09:52:21.560 I thought you were 1.00

09:52:22.320 going to be an asshole 1.00

09:52:23.140 and then I realized 1.00

09:52:24.080 that you're actually

09:52:24.640 like kind of a normal

09:52:25.560 person

09:52:26.120 because I've never

09:52:26.780 like watched

09:52:27.440 yeah you're not

09:52:28.640 like a red

09:52:29.140 like not like

09:52:30.360 like I don't know

09:52:31.540 she had a good time

09:52:32.420 I enjoyed

09:52:34.360 yeah I enjoyed

09:52:35.840 my time thoroughly

09:52:36.740 oh rock and roll

09:52:38.040 yeah

09:52:38.480 you also didn't

09:52:39.840 know much about

09:52:40.720 my dating experiences

09:52:42.220 to like ask about

09:52:43.780 you didn't know

09:52:44.880 that I dated a plug

09:52:45.780 when I was 17

09:52:46.600 and moved out

09:52:47.260 of my mom's house

09:52:48.160 and started

09:52:48.920 dealing drugs

09:52:49.900 with him

09:52:50.340 yes

09:52:50.520 you didn't know

09:52:51.860 that he got me

09:52:52.620 hooked on to

09:52:53.440 many drugs

09:52:54.300 when I was dating him

09:52:55.560 you got hooked on

09:52:56.320 yeah I was hooked on

09:52:57.360 to Molly

09:52:57.780 I don't know

09:52:58.120 if being a drug addict

09:52:59.040 gives you charisma

09:52:59.960 but I mean

09:53:00.700 but I'm an ex-drug addict

09:53:02.280 I don't do it anymore

09:53:03.660 I don't know

09:53:03.980 if that gives you charisma

09:53:05.060 it gives me a good past

09:53:06.720 and some good stories

09:53:07.700 to tell

09:53:08.120 a good past

09:53:08.680 or a bad past

09:53:09.500 like an entertaining past

09:53:11.580 she has lore 0.90

09:53:13.400 like a

09:53:14.300 yes

09:53:14.420 I have lore

09:53:15.420 everyone here has lore

09:53:16.700 the lore

09:53:17.340 you should have shared

09:53:18.100 you should have shared

09:53:19.100 yeah but I think

09:53:19.800 you can have lore

09:53:20.460 and be boring

09:53:21.980 I mean

09:53:26.260 depends how you express

09:53:29.640 the lore

09:53:30.180 yeah I don't know

09:53:31.160 what am I supposed to do

09:53:33.940 just say right out

09:53:34.920 oh yeah I mean

09:53:35.600 I dealt drugs

09:53:36.420 with my ex

09:53:37.520 I mean I just did

09:53:39.060 you gotta offer 0.99

09:53:39.680 that shit up 1.00

09:53:40.320 you gotta be up front 1.00

09:53:41.520 with that

09:53:41.900 you gotta

09:53:42.340 you can't wait

09:53:42.920 until the 1.00

09:53:43.400 fucking 1.00

09:53:44.320 deep 1.00

09:53:45.700 deep into the pot

09:53:46.500 you gotta be like

09:53:47.080 listen Brian

09:53:48.120 have you done

09:53:52.840 methamphetamine

09:53:54.060 on accident

09:53:56.220 have you done

09:53:57.320 heroin

09:53:57.700 no

09:53:58.480 have you done

09:53:59.500 cocaine

09:54:00.160 no

09:54:00.780 wow

09:54:02.000 this is kind of

09:54:03.100 a boring drug story

09:54:04.020 I'm a little disappointed

09:54:06.560 I did Molly

09:54:07.520 and acid at once

09:54:08.640 and got so tripped out

09:54:09.860 that the paramedics

09:54:11.540 had to come

09:54:12.220 and 1.00

09:54:12.680 shit 1.00

09:54:13.180 then when they came 0.97

09:54:14.360 I'm sorry

09:54:15.280 no

09:54:15.860 no it's fine

09:54:16.800 it's not a big deal

09:54:18.200 but then

09:54:19.120 no I don't

09:54:20.400 alright

09:54:23.580 you know what

09:54:26.300 I'm wrong

09:54:26.860 about everything

09:54:27.660 tonight

09:54:28.120 this is the most

09:54:29.720 charismatic

09:54:31.360 I'm wrong

09:54:32.920 about everything

09:54:33.520 I'm just

09:54:34.580 you know

09:54:35.060 she's gonna be

09:54:35.820 a superstar

09:54:36.560 10 million

09:54:38.220 you know what

09:54:39.020 in the future

09:54:39.800 I'm gonna be homeless

09:54:41.040 in the streets

09:54:41.780 of Los Angeles

09:54:42.640 and she's gonna be like

09:54:43.880 she's gonna walk 0.97

09:54:44.980 past me

09:54:45.740 and she's gonna

09:54:46.140 recognize me

09:54:46.820 she's gonna be like 1.00

09:54:47.680 fuck you Brian 1.00

09:54:49.560 she's like 1.00

09:54:50.360 fuck you 1.00

09:54:51.520 oh 1.00

09:54:52.180 check this shit out 1.00

09:54:53.580 yeah yeah 1.00

09:54:53.980 and she's gonna be

09:54:54.560 yeah

09:54:55.300 yeah

09:54:56.480 and she's gonna drop 0.81

09:54:57.440 some like Russian 1.00

09:54:58.440 gangster rap shit 1.00

09:55:00.980 hell yeah 1.00

09:55:02.120 can you rap

09:55:02.740 bro

09:55:03.320 I'm not

09:55:05.040 oh yes

09:55:05.940 wait wait

09:55:06.320 please

09:55:06.600 we didn't get a taste

09:55:08.260 of the rap skills

09:55:09.180 can you drop a bar

09:55:10.560 I mean

09:55:13.160 it's more of a singing style

09:55:15.080 it's more of like

09:55:15.740 a melodic rap

09:55:16.840 but your favorite style

09:55:18.920 you do melodic rap

09:55:20.000 yeah

09:55:20.800 I would love to hear some

09:55:22.040 somebody give her a beat 1.00

09:55:26.880 wait maybe not the 0.97

09:55:30.560 not the white girl 0.96

09:55:31.680 hold on

09:55:32.120 get to it

09:55:32.800 what

09:55:33.540 well everyone else is white

09:55:36.660 except for the Italian

09:55:37.980 okay

09:55:38.320 do you think you're average

09:55:41.120 average for what

09:55:42.780 in just

09:55:43.420 in general

09:55:44.380 in general

09:55:46.420 oh my god

09:55:46.980 oh my god

09:55:47.560 no

09:55:48.500 no I think I'm

09:55:49.400 Courtney King

09:55:49.920 and I'm gonna

09:55:50.220 I'm gonna be a star 0.99

09:55:51.300 you're gonna stab somebody 0.99

09:55:52.000 I already did that 0.99

09:55:53.340 oh my god

09:55:54.340 you're so late

09:55:55.140 you were about to say 1.00

09:55:55.720 I was gonna stab you 0.99

09:55:56.640 that's crazy 0.99

09:55:57.620 no I'm Courtney King

09:55:58.740 and I'm a star

09:55:59.520 I don't believe in violence

09:56:00.500 at the whatever podcast

09:56:01.460 oh

09:56:02.080 that's insane

09:56:03.340 okay

09:56:04.280 I'm just gonna skip

09:56:07.740 a bunch of these

09:56:08.260 okay

09:56:09.640 what percentage of men

09:56:10.820 do you think are over

09:56:11.660 six feet

09:56:12.180 not many

09:56:14.540 throw a percent

09:56:15.800 30

09:56:17.520 30

09:56:17.940 34

09:56:20.880 34

09:56:22.740 34

09:56:23.320 okay

09:56:23.680 34

09:56:24.160 I don't know

09:56:24.860 20

09:56:25.300 20

09:56:25.740 I'll say 30

09:56:27.480 percent

09:56:27.940 15

09:56:31.260 I think it's 10 to 15

09:56:33.360 45

09:56:34.240 45 percent

09:56:35.360 I'll say like 18 percent

09:56:37.000 18 percent

09:56:37.800 okay

09:56:38.220 I believe it's maybe

09:56:39.840 15 percent

09:56:41.440 what percent of men

09:56:43.680 make at least

09:56:44.720 one million dollars a year

09:56:46.220 um

09:56:47.860 15

09:56:49.160 I don't know

09:56:50.400 15 percent

09:56:52.220 okay

09:56:52.560 what percent of men

09:56:55.260 make at least

09:56:56.620 one million dollars

09:56:57.500 per year

09:56:57.920 probably 18 percent

09:56:59.960 18 percent

09:57:00.660 okay

09:57:00.960 five

09:57:01.760 five percent

09:57:02.500 okay

09:57:02.940 12 percent

09:57:04.260 12 percent

09:57:05.080 less than 1 percent

09:57:06.280 okay

09:57:06.680 uh

09:57:07.680 5 percent

09:57:08.200 lower

09:57:08.440 5 percent

09:57:09.360 yeah like 0.3 percent

09:57:10.880 less than 1 percent

09:57:12.340 it's less than 1 percent 0.98

09:57:14.580 damn 0.96

09:57:15.080 18 percent 0.99

09:57:16.340 5 to 13

09:57:17.140 well we're in LA

09:57:18.720 everyone talks about

09:57:19.660 how much money they have here

09:57:20.720 what percent

09:57:22.140 of

09:57:23.380 men have yachts

09:57:24.940 men have what

09:57:26.100 yachts

09:57:26.960 oh I thought you said

09:57:27.740 fiance in a weird way

09:57:28.940 um

09:57:29.900 well

09:57:31.540 less than 1 percent

09:57:32.940 if it's

09:57:33.520 probably

09:57:34.540 less than 2 percent

09:57:36.020 probably

09:57:37.320 0.1

09:57:38.360 1 percent

09:57:39.880 less than 1 percent

09:57:41.620 less than 1 percent

09:57:42.920 less than 1

09:57:44.060 less than 1

09:57:44.580 okay

09:57:45.620 are you gonna tell us

09:57:47.760 the answers

09:57:48.380 or

09:57:48.760 it's less than 1 percent

09:57:50.220 okay great

09:57:50.620 I don't know

09:57:51.380 the exact

09:57:51.860 wow

09:57:52.460 uh

09:57:53.700 okay we already talked

09:57:54.680 about roster stuff

09:57:55.620 whatever

09:57:55.940 any just really quick

09:57:56.980 if you want to just

09:57:57.720 throw out

09:57:58.180 what's the biggest

09:57:59.000 the roster's ever been

09:58:00.120 for you

09:58:01.640 at a time

09:58:03.500 at any given time

09:58:05.040 1

09:58:05.520 I don't talk to

09:58:06.100 multiples

09:58:07.220 unless it's cheating

09:58:08.240 unless it's cheating

09:58:09.240 yeah

09:58:09.540 well does that count as a roster

09:58:11.120 or a single

09:58:11.740 I mean what

09:58:12.820 what considers

09:58:13.780 like

09:58:14.340 what's considered

09:58:15.080 a roster

09:58:15.760 whatever you think it is

09:58:17.580 whatever you want it to be

09:58:18.900 I'm saying 3

09:58:20.720 but just talking

09:58:21.820 okay

09:58:22.280 roster

09:58:22.940 1

09:58:23.580 1

09:58:24.020 3

09:58:24.560 3

09:58:24.980 3

09:58:25.780 3

09:58:26.580 um

09:58:28.060 I was

09:58:29.280 okay

09:58:29.900 I was trying to pick

09:58:30.780 between two guys

09:58:31.760 one time

09:58:32.480 but I had only been on

09:58:33.200 like one date

09:58:33.800 with each of them

09:58:34.360 1

09:58:34.640 affirmative

09:58:35.820 uh

09:58:36.540 okay

09:58:36.820 have you ever slept

09:58:38.440 with someone

09:58:39.060 the same day

09:58:39.820 you met them

09:58:40.480 no

09:58:40.980 no

09:58:45.680 yes

09:58:46.640 yes

09:58:47.180 yes

09:58:47.560 yes

09:58:48.220 yes

09:58:49.300 yes

09:58:50.560 I have

09:58:51.580 I know you

09:58:52.540 all view me as

09:58:53.740 a beacon

09:58:55.680 of virtue

09:58:56.740 and

09:58:57.240 chastity

09:58:58.740 holy man

09:58:59.520 but I have

09:59:00.640 I have

09:59:01.760 lore

09:59:02.480 um

09:59:03.240 okay

09:59:03.480 have you

09:59:04.860 what's the quickest

09:59:06.000 you've ever hooked up

09:59:07.020 with a guy

09:59:07.400 and I'll go

09:59:08.140 I'll go first

09:59:08.720 not a guy though

09:59:10.100 wait

09:59:10.640 that sounded

09:59:11.220 I knew it 0.95

09:59:13.800 sounds a little gay 0.87

09:59:15.260 that was a little gay 0.99

09:59:16.460 I'll go first 0.99

09:59:17.300 a little gay 0.97

09:59:18.580 but okay 0.99

09:59:19.420 I'll take the L

09:59:20.200 I'm gonna take the L

09:59:21.080 on that

09:59:21.480 oh my gosh

09:59:22.240 quickest

09:59:22.540 the quickest

09:59:23.340 with a woman

09:59:24.240 with a woman

09:59:25.880 just wanted to clarify

09:59:26.680 not with a guy

09:59:27.640 never been with a man

09:59:28.680 right 0.99

09:59:30.220 would you be gay 0.98

09:59:31.020 would I be gay for pay though 0.99

09:59:32.440 that's the question 0.98

09:59:33.320 for another day

09:59:35.320 uh

09:59:35.720 okay

09:59:36.020 for another day

09:59:37.460 we'll have to

09:59:37.880 uh

09:59:38.280 I think it was probably

09:59:40.640 under an hour

09:59:41.240 was the quickest

09:59:42.280 I slept with a woman 1.00

09:59:43.540 after meeting her

09:59:45.140 for the first time

09:59:45.880 yeah

09:59:46.900 under

09:59:47.580 less than an hour

09:59:48.540 I had a college

09:59:51.220 period

09:59:52.080 same

09:59:53.760 my husband

09:59:55.280 there was a laundry room

09:59:56.280 involved

09:59:57.080 and a beach

10:00:00.260 one time

10:00:01.140 sorry

10:00:01.880 uh

10:00:02.320 okay

10:00:02.520 quickest

10:00:02.920 you have ever slept

10:00:03.540 with someone

10:00:04.080 oh

10:00:06.060 like two weeks

10:00:08.300 two weeks

10:00:09.980 okay

10:00:10.540 what about you

10:00:11.220 I lied on the first one

10:00:12.480 three hours

10:00:13.380 was it a Chinese guy

10:00:14.980 no

10:00:15.420 it was

10:00:16.640 Swae Lee

10:00:17.140 no 1.00

10:00:17.520 did you fuck Swae Lee 1.00

10:00:18.260 did you fuck Swae Lee 1.00

10:00:19.960 not yet 1.00

10:00:23.380 oh shit 0.99

10:00:24.440 not yet 1.00

10:00:25.560 oh shit 1.00

10:00:26.880 she's shooting her shot 1.00

10:00:27.660 probably the guy 1.00

10:00:29.220 I lost my virginity to 0.58

10:00:30.440 and it was after

10:00:31.200 like an hour

10:00:32.100 one hour

10:00:32.980 wait you lost

10:00:33.700 wait hold on

10:00:35.080 rewind

10:00:35.520 I lost my virginity

10:00:38.100 to him

10:00:38.560 yeah

10:00:40.000 after an hour

10:00:41.100 of knowing him

10:00:41.880 I was 15

10:00:42.620 and he was 19

10:00:43.600 whoa

10:00:45.100 okay

10:00:45.380 hold on

10:00:45.740 there's a lot

10:00:46.580 there to unpack

10:00:47.200 unpack a little bit

10:00:48.720 does that

10:00:50.580 would that count

10:00:51.300 like our virginity 0.99

10:00:52.660 damn 1.00

10:00:54.000 yeah 0.99

10:00:55.220 I walked down

10:00:55.880 to his house

10:00:56.340 I added him on snap

10:00:57.580 we figured out

10:00:58.320 we live two minutes

10:00:59.360 away from each other

10:01:00.280 so I was like

10:01:00.940 okay

10:01:01.240 I walked down

10:01:01.880 to his house

10:01:02.420 and we

10:01:02.920 I mean aside

10:01:04.220 from the age thing

10:01:05.040 which is a little

10:01:05.880 iffy

10:01:06.860 I feel like

10:01:08.160 to take a woman's 0.99

10:01:09.580 virginity in like 0.98

10:01:10.360 an hour time

10:01:11.120 that's a big dub 0.98

10:01:12.180 I mean the age shit 0.97

10:01:13.060 that's weird 0.95

10:01:13.540 whatever

10:01:13.940 but like

10:01:15.060 to take a virginity 0.97

10:01:16.700 in one hour 1.00

10:01:17.280 damn 0.99

10:01:18.300 that's crazy 1.00

10:01:18.960 that's an achievement

10:01:19.640 right there

10:01:20.220 yeah and then like 1.00

10:01:21.880 shit 1.00

10:01:22.260 two months later 0.99

10:01:23.140 I saw his mugshot

10:01:24.380 posted online

10:01:25.300 because he robbed

10:01:26.220 the

10:01:26.620 this hotel

10:01:27.820 like nearby

10:01:28.720 it was so weird

10:01:29.800 you picked such

10:01:31.440 a great guy

10:01:32.020 to lose your virginity 0.68

10:01:33.100 to

10:01:33.420 how do you have

10:01:34.140 like boyfriends

10:01:34.940 before that

10:01:35.600 um

10:01:36.620 before that

10:01:37.520 I did have

10:01:38.600 um

10:01:39.060 a boyfriend

10:01:39.760 have you ever

10:01:41.360 made a guy

10:01:41.740 wait to have sex 0.94

10:01:42.980 um 0.95

10:01:44.500 I didn't

10:01:47.220 and that's

10:01:47.980 what I was

10:01:48.960 getting into

10:01:49.520 about like

10:01:50.320 why

10:01:50.700 what if a woman 0.99

10:01:52.040 wait you did

10:01:53.300 or didn't

10:01:53.860 I haven't

10:01:54.580 and that's why

10:01:55.100 I was

10:01:55.460 that's why

10:01:55.980 I was getting

10:01:56.460 into like

10:01:57.000 what if a woman 0.99

10:01:57.680 realizes her past

10:01:59.100 is like wrong

10:01:59.860 and wants to like

10:02:01.660 change that

10:02:03.240 yeah well first

10:02:04.100 delete the only fans

10:02:04.860 then we can talk

10:02:05.560 about you know

10:02:06.260 you want to wait

10:02:06.940 three weeks

10:02:07.680 three months

10:02:08.060 whatever

10:02:08.280 you gotta get rid

10:02:09.500 of the only fans

10:02:10.040 though

10:02:10.220 just delete that 1.00

10:02:11.080 shit 1.00

10:02:11.280 um 1.00

10:02:11.980 but

10:02:12.340 imagine

10:02:16.520 boys

10:02:17.160 chat

10:02:17.540 chat

10:02:17.780 really quick

10:02:18.220 for the boys

10:02:18.800 for the boys

10:02:20.700 you guys

10:02:21.540 you guys can be

10:02:22.280 my boys for a bit

10:02:23.100 imagine

10:02:24.480 just imagine 1.00

10:02:25.400 you got a dick 1.00

10:02:26.040 all the women 1.00

10:02:27.180 at the table

10:02:27.620 just imagine 1.00

10:02:28.080 you got a dick 1.00

10:02:28.820 who here 1.00

10:02:29.420 first off

10:02:30.320 raise your hand

10:02:31.360 if you'd have 1.00

10:02:31.780 a big dick 1.00

10:02:32.280 if you were a guy 1.00

10:02:33.000 would you have 1.00

10:02:33.540 a big dick 1.00

10:02:33.940 you'd have 1.00

10:02:35.240 a big dick 1.00

10:02:35.660 big dick 1.00

10:02:36.100 she doesn't 1.00

10:02:36.500 she's Christian

10:02:37.120 she doesn't

10:02:37.460 talk about

10:02:37.760 I'm Asian

10:02:38.380 it's okay

10:02:39.020 would you have

10:02:39.920 a big banana

10:02:40.420 how about that

10:02:40.940 is that okay

10:02:41.400 big banana

10:02:42.240 cucumber

10:02:43.160 whatever

10:02:43.660 all of you

10:02:44.660 that have 1.00

10:02:44.880 big dicks 0.99

10:02:45.280 I would have 1.00

10:02:46.020 a huge dick 1.00

10:02:46.620 you would have 1.00

10:02:47.760 a huge dick 1.00

10:02:48.160 but I'm not sure 1.00

10:02:48.620 about the rest of you

10:02:49.220 so anyways

10:02:49.600 I'm pretty confident

10:02:50.420 okay

10:02:51.020 so anyways

10:02:53.080 I actually just

10:02:55.500 lost my train of thought

10:02:56.800 but now I'm

10:02:57.320 I just asked you 0.97

10:02:58.340 about dicks 0.82

10:02:58.720 for some reason 0.99

10:02:59.120 oh no okay 1.00

10:03:00.080 do you have a big dick 1.00

10:03:01.140 average 1.00

10:03:02.220 it's average

10:03:02.940 sorry

10:03:03.340 we appreciate your honesty

10:03:04.300 I'm an honest guy 0.97

10:03:05.640 who here has a big labia 1.00

10:03:07.440 I actually think 0.97

10:03:09.960 my labia is decent size

10:03:11.220 honestly 0.63

10:03:12.220 I'm not gonna disclose that

10:03:14.240 I have a big

10:03:15.220 like what do you mean

10:03:16.520 big though

10:03:17.140 like

10:03:17.380 an outie

10:03:17.980 cause some people

10:03:18.760 have like hanging

10:03:19.760 like flaps

10:03:20.520 the inner labia 0.75

10:03:21.280 that you can tie together

10:03:22.440 the outer labia 0.72

10:03:23.060 I don't have that

10:03:24.280 an hour

10:03:24.980 is it two

10:03:26.060 what was the

10:03:27.440 for the boys question

10:03:28.660 I'm getting

10:03:29.360 I'm getting

10:03:29.760 okay

10:03:30.200 you

10:03:31.040 howdy

10:03:31.900 yeah

10:03:33.840 yeah

10:03:34.780 I'm in love

10:03:37.780 okay so anyways

10:03:38.540 wait the

10:03:39.200 for the boys question 1.00

10:03:40.120 wait what the fuck 0.99

10:03:40.960 was the question 1.00

10:03:41.580 wait

10:03:42.280 oh yeah yeah

10:03:44.040 I got it

10:03:44.380 I got it

10:03:44.680 it was related to the

10:03:45.380 losing virginity

10:03:46.700 in one hour thing

10:03:47.460 do you think 1.00

10:03:49.540 wait if you had a dick 1.00

10:03:51.140 and you were a dude 1.00

10:03:52.840 and like

10:03:53.900 you were dating a girl

10:03:54.780 and she was like

10:03:56.440 I wanna wait

10:03:57.000 and then you found out

10:03:58.500 that she lost her virginity 0.95

10:04:00.760 in one hour

10:04:02.340 would you feel a bit

10:04:03.960 like raw deal

10:04:07.980 well I would be very open

10:04:10.100 with him about

10:04:11.020 all of my experiences

10:04:13.480 and like

10:04:13.980 why I lost my virginity

10:04:15.580 and like that soon

10:04:17.180 and why I

10:04:18.040 chose to do it

10:04:19.020 that way

10:04:19.760 yes

10:04:20.420 cause there's a whole

10:04:21.020 back story about it

10:04:22.520 and like

10:04:23.000 it's okay

10:04:23.260 it's just

10:04:24.780 it's not something

10:04:25.480 I have to get into

10:04:26.500 yeah we don't have to do that

10:04:27.580 yeah

10:04:27.800 let's not

10:04:28.300 maybe we shouldn't do that

10:04:29.800 we probably shouldn't

10:04:30.860 but

10:04:31.320 I'm just saying

10:04:32.400 I don't know

10:04:36.360 I would feel

10:04:39.220 if I was like

10:04:40.560 dating a girl

10:04:41.200 you know

10:04:42.160 and

10:04:45.660 it's like

10:04:46.400 the 10th date

10:04:47.740 and we're like

10:04:49.780 she doesn't even 0.53

10:04:50.740 want to take her top off 0.99

10:04:51.940 I wouldn't make her

10:04:52.680 wait that long though

10:04:53.580 thank

10:04:54.020 that's sweet

10:04:55.600 thank you

10:04:56.140 she's a nice girl

10:04:57.860 charismatic

10:04:59.300 if I was on like

10:05:00.740 date

10:05:01.080 if I was on date

10:05:02.440 number 10

10:05:03.240 and she's like

10:05:04.140 I don't know

10:05:04.900 if I want to do

10:05:05.360 and then

10:05:06.180 and then like

10:05:06.920 somehow I find out

10:05:07.860 through the grapevine

10:05:08.780 is that the grapevine

10:05:10.280 yeah

10:05:10.460 is it the grapevine

10:05:11.500 it's not another kind of vine

10:05:13.040 no grapevine

10:05:14.020 perfect

10:05:14.280 it's the grapevine

10:05:14.660 yes

10:05:14.940 just wanted to check

10:05:15.700 awesome

10:05:16.400 I don't want to misspeak here

10:05:17.580 on the whatever podcast

10:05:18.920 you've done enough tonight

10:05:19.740 I'm kidding

10:05:20.580 I might

10:05:23.740 just

10:05:25.100 explode

10:05:27.740 well this is

10:05:30.640 like combustion

10:05:31.760 like if

10:05:32.380 if I'm on date

10:05:33.580 number 10

10:05:34.200 and she's like

10:05:34.740 hey I don't want to

10:05:35.160 take my top off

10:05:35.840 and

10:05:36.560 and then I find out 1.00

10:05:37.680 she fucked 1.00

10:05:38.080 she lost her virginity 1.00

10:05:39.560 in one hour

10:05:40.320 I would be besides

10:05:41.820 I'd be like 0.99

10:05:42.520 what the fuck 1.00

10:05:43.640 virginity stories 0.99

10:05:45.000 are their own

10:05:45.940 thing

10:05:46.820 but you've got to like

10:05:48.080 that's got to be like

10:05:48.860 I lost my virginity

10:05:49.960 on a soccer field

10:05:51.060 like that doesn't mean

10:05:52.160 I'm going to go 0.98

10:05:52.740 like have sex 1.00

10:05:53.680 on a soccer field 0.99

10:05:54.760 with the guy

10:05:55.740 on a 10th date

10:05:56.640 you know

10:05:57.100 like it just happened there

10:05:58.320 was it artificial turf

10:06:00.480 or was it

10:06:01.260 natural grass

10:06:03.660 real grass

10:06:04.340 I touched grass

10:06:05.100 bro

10:06:05.720 whoa 1.00

10:06:06.120 ass to grass 1.00

10:06:07.360 ass to grass 0.99

10:06:08.420 do I have an interesting 0.99

10:06:10.140 losing virginity 0.91

10:06:11.200 hell yeah 0.97

10:06:11.720 anyways

10:06:13.740 I don't know

10:06:14.960 I'm just

10:06:15.200 I think that's interesting

10:06:16.020 okay

10:06:16.300 quickest you've ever

10:06:17.580 hooked up with a guy

10:06:18.260 quickest probably

10:06:19.460 hour hour and a half

10:06:20.860 okay

10:06:21.400 probably a few hours

10:06:22.480 three to five hours

10:06:24.240 three to five

10:06:25.400 less than an hour

10:06:26.780 nothing

10:06:27.140 okay

10:06:27.620 less than an hour

10:06:28.680 okay

10:06:30.280 has anyone here

10:06:31.500 had the threesome

10:06:32.120 show of hands

10:06:32.820 okay

10:06:35.660 four

10:06:36.100 more than the threesome

10:06:37.000 foursome 0.99

10:06:37.520 orgy

10:06:38.540 no

10:06:39.000 oh boy

10:06:40.120 okay

10:06:40.580 wait

10:06:41.500 are you from

10:06:42.460 you said you're from Jersey

10:06:43.440 no

10:06:44.020 I'm from Texas

10:06:44.760 wait who's from Jersey

10:06:45.900 I grew up in Jersey

10:06:46.880 oh

10:06:47.280 because I hear in New York 0.99

10:06:48.900 they got these like crazy sex clubs 0.96

10:06:50.400 or whatever 0.94

10:06:51.240 okay was it guy guy girl

10:06:52.740 or girl girl guy

10:06:54.120 it was technically a full swap

10:06:56.160 and it was my ex's idea

10:06:57.260 like partner swap

10:06:59.020 yeah

10:06:59.580 so it was a foursome

10:07:01.520 all together

10:07:02.080 yeah

10:07:02.400 yeah

10:07:03.580 he was into it

10:07:04.720 I was not

10:07:05.180 but I

10:07:05.680 you know

10:07:05.960 as you say

10:07:07.240 submit to your man

10:07:08.580 no

10:07:09.000 that is not a man

10:07:10.980 that should be leading you

10:07:12.020 yeah

10:07:12.480 well we found that out

10:07:13.500 oh boy

10:07:13.980 okay

10:07:14.560 who here

10:07:16.200 who here has had a hoe phase 0.99

10:07:17.080 I think we kind of

10:07:17.840 asked this maybe

10:07:18.860 okay

10:07:19.580 has anyone here

10:07:20.560 ever hooked up

10:07:21.560 with two guys

10:07:23.160 in a 24 hour period

10:07:25.100 wait

10:07:28.060 can you define

10:07:29.000 why are you looking at me that way

10:07:30.020 huh

10:07:30.440 yes

10:07:31.460 yes

10:07:31.800 yes

10:07:31.980 yes

10:07:32.140 yes

10:07:32.340 what is hooking up

10:07:34.040 consistent

10:07:34.440 sex

10:07:34.800 oh no

10:07:35.480 had sexual

10:07:36.400 carnal knowledge

10:07:37.720 don't tell me

10:07:38.640 P in the V 0.59

10:07:39.200 ew

10:07:40.340 P in the V 0.59

10:07:40.720 no

10:07:41.360 what about three guys

10:07:43.160 in 24 hours

10:07:44.320 I had a phase

10:07:48.620 oh you

10:07:49.220 three guys

10:07:49.740 you're so real

10:07:50.700 I love that

10:07:51.180 four guys

10:07:51.900 five guys

10:07:53.780 great restaurant

10:07:54.560 burgers and fries

10:07:55.480 okay

10:07:56.620 how many

10:07:56.940 how many

10:07:57.860 in a seven day period

10:07:59.000 most guys

10:08:02.520 in a seven day period

10:08:03.380 four

10:08:04.520 four

10:08:05.260 I think three

10:08:06.060 three

10:08:06.440 I don't remember

10:08:08.360 two

10:08:09.420 two in the seven days

10:08:11.040 yeah

10:08:12.320 was that the Chinese guy

10:08:14.740 yeah

10:08:16.020 are you sure

10:08:19.540 that your

10:08:20.440 body count

10:08:21.660 is three

10:08:22.480 it might be four

10:08:27.260 I think it's

10:08:29.160 three or four

10:08:30.100 I seriously

10:08:30.840 I think it's

10:08:31.480 you can't remember

10:08:32.580 it's

10:08:33.120 okay

10:08:35.400 I might have a whole list

10:08:36.360 are you only counting

10:08:37.400 the like

10:08:38.000 Arizona guys

10:08:39.100 no

10:08:39.800 it's okay

10:08:40.480 it's four

10:08:41.020 in total

10:08:41.660 does it count

10:08:42.880 as a body

10:08:43.580 if you don't

10:08:45.800 climax

10:08:46.380 yes

10:08:48.580 that's a great question

10:08:49.600 does it count

10:08:50.400 as a body

10:08:51.180 if you don't

10:08:53.380 remember their

10:08:54.160 first name

10:08:54.960 yes 1.00

10:08:56.520 what the fuck 0.99

10:08:57.140 does it count 0.99

10:08:58.240 as a body

10:08:59.560 if you murdered 1.00

10:09:01.400 them afterwards 1.00

10:09:02.340 no

10:09:03.420 that counts

10:09:03.840 as a double body

10:09:04.700 it counts

10:09:05.400 as two bodies

10:09:06.060 that went too far

10:09:07.080 that went a little far

10:09:08.140 okay

10:09:08.640 are 1.00

10:09:10.360 do men suck 1.00

10:09:11.700 no 1.00

10:09:12.780 no 1.00

10:09:13.340 oh do men suck 1.00

10:09:14.260 yes 1.00

10:09:14.720 do men suck 1.00

10:09:15.120 some 1.00

10:09:15.620 hey 0.97

10:09:16.200 some are gay 0.94

10:09:17.820 Christian by the way 0.94

10:09:18.600 nothing wrong with that

10:09:19.560 I'm kidding

10:09:20.160 uh

10:09:21.320 if you

10:09:21.720 is it

10:09:23.260 okay

10:09:23.480 I think this is

10:09:24.120 this might be our final one

10:09:25.240 oh my goodness

10:09:25.760 hey

10:09:26.700 come on

10:09:27.380 come

10:09:27.780 hey

10:09:28.260 we're almost done

10:09:29.340 hey

10:09:29.580 come

10:09:29.880 almost done

10:09:30.920 hey

10:09:31.240 three cups of coffee

10:09:34.360 okay

10:09:34.600 okay

10:09:36.420 final

10:09:37.420 sort of final question

10:09:39.040 I promise 0.97

10:09:39.940 is it gay 0.88

10:09:41.120 for a man

10:09:41.780 to date a trans woman

10:09:43.100 yes

10:09:44.560 yes

10:09:44.940 I don't know

10:09:46.580 I'm confused

10:09:47.520 there's still a man

10:09:48.760 wait

10:09:49.540 no

10:09:50.840 I'm

10:09:52.080 yeah I'm confused too

10:09:53.040 no it's probably

10:09:54.340 yeah

10:09:54.580 a man

10:09:55.060 so like me

10:09:56.040 if I dated

10:09:57.020 a trans woman

10:09:58.340 so

10:09:58.860 born male

10:09:59.920 still male 1.00

10:10:01.900 they have a vagina now 1.00

10:10:03.240 do 1.00

10:10:04.100 yeah I was gonna say

10:10:05.120 do they have the surgery

10:10:06.220 we could grant

10:10:07.320 that there's the

10:10:08.400 look

10:10:09.300 let's not be insulting

10:10:10.940 to women 0.99

10:10:11.460 that's not pussy 1.00

10:10:14.100 agreed 0.99

10:10:16.700 it's not pussy 1.00

10:10:17.320 agreed 0.99

10:10:18.100 a hole is a hole though

10:10:19.480 whoa

10:10:20.340 okay

10:10:20.720 that's what guys be saying

10:10:21.720 a hole is a hole

10:10:23.260 that is what guys say

10:10:23.980 that

10:10:25.000 not referring to trans people

10:10:26.620 but like 1.00

10:10:27.180 ugly girls 1.00

10:10:28.140 and what not 1.00

10:10:28.920 is it gay 0.88

10:10:31.440 for a man

10:10:33.240 to date a trans woman

10:10:34.240 yep 1.00

10:10:35.580 whether there's a penis 0.99

10:10:36.560 or 0.99

10:10:37.520 whatever

10:10:38.820 that thing

10:10:40.960 in my opinion 0.99

10:10:41.960 it's even more gay 1.00

10:10:43.160 if you suck a dick once 1.00

10:10:43.980 I think that's gay 1.00

10:10:46.040 is it gay 1.00

10:10:46.680 if a guy sucks dick 1.00

10:10:48.180 yeah 1.00

10:10:48.740 just once

10:10:50.520 just one time

10:10:51.600 just one time

10:10:52.320 to experience it 0.81

10:10:53.160 is it gay 0.88

10:10:53.780 yeah 0.98

10:10:54.440 just the tip

10:10:55.180 yeah

10:10:55.600 just the tip

10:10:56.120 just to see how it feels

10:10:57.980 I have a counter

10:10:58.780 question for you

10:10:59.800 actually

10:11:00.140 here we go

10:11:00.960 um

10:11:01.800 you know

10:11:04.440 like is he

10:11:05.120 current

10:11:05.420 I don't know

10:11:06.220 because if you don't

10:11:07.660 consider that gay 0.90

10:11:08.780 then maybe you 0.93

10:11:09.640 wouldn't consider

10:11:10.420 getting with a trans 1.00

10:11:11.640 person gay 0.99

10:11:12.680 but if you do 0.55

10:11:13.720 consider that gay 0.90

10:11:14.780 in the moment 0.89

10:11:15.640 in the moment 0.84

10:11:15.660 it's definitely gay 0.99

10:11:16.660 yeah 0.84

10:11:17.260 so if you were like

10:11:18.100 actively dating a trans woman

10:11:19.440 I would say

10:11:20.000 like

10:11:20.360 but but you

10:11:21.800 you did

10:11:23.020 and then you were like

10:11:23.860 eh not for me 1.00

10:11:24.960 so if you suck dick once 1.00

10:11:28.080 and you don't like it 1.00

10:11:29.300 like with that

10:11:30.880 because that's like

10:11:32.100 kind of the same thing

10:11:33.060 because a trans woman 1.00

10:11:34.020 would have a dick 1.00

10:11:35.280 right 0.99

10:11:35.740 because it's like

10:11:37.080 my point

10:11:38.380 well if like

10:11:39.160 you believe this idea

10:11:39.860 that people are like

10:11:40.600 fluid or whatever

10:11:41.360 in their sexuality

10:11:42.140 then like

10:11:43.300 like okay

10:11:44.520 how about this

10:11:45.160 a guy

10:11:46.000 when he was 20 1.00

10:11:46.900 sucked a dick 1.00

10:11:47.720 by the way 1.00

10:11:48.340 I'm not like

10:11:49.240 making a defense 1.00

10:11:49.860 of dick sucking 1.00

10:11:51.000 okay 1.00

10:11:51.320 but

10:11:51.820 a guy when he was 20 1.00

10:11:53.160 sucked a dick 1.00

10:11:53.800 one time 1.00

10:11:54.660 should I include

10:11:57.520 that he was really

10:11:58.040 whatever

10:11:58.680 it doesn't matter

10:11:59.040 and then

10:11:59.880 he's only had sex 0.96

10:12:01.800 with women 0.81

10:12:02.200 he's now 40

10:12:02.980 and he's only had 0.90

10:12:03.880 sex with women 0.99

10:12:04.500 he's never had the 0.92

10:12:05.600 desire to do it again

10:12:06.660 is he gay 0.95

10:12:08.520 no 0.78

10:12:09.280 a little bit

10:12:10.560 a little bit

10:12:11.320 a little 0.97

10:12:12.080 like a teeny bit gay 0.99

10:12:13.240 there's a drop of gay 1.00

10:12:14.240 I'd say it was like 0.99

10:12:14.960 just experimenting 0.99

10:12:15.800 there's a drop of gay 1.00

10:12:16.680 there's a drop of gay 1.00

10:12:17.620 no 0.99

10:12:18.180 experimenting maybe

10:12:19.020 if you kiss the guy

10:12:20.220 but if you 1.00

10:12:21.060 you put the dick 1.00

10:12:22.000 I have a question 1.00

10:12:22.980 what's the question

10:12:24.620 do you think

10:12:25.740 it would be gay 1.00

10:12:26.620 if a man 0.94

10:12:28.060 were to 1.00

10:12:28.920 fuck a trans man 1.00

10:12:31.380 who has a penis 1.00

10:12:32.680 but was born a woman 1.00

10:12:34.220 originally

10:12:34.920 technically

10:12:36.420 it would not be gay 1.00

10:12:37.460 technically 1.00

10:12:38.680 to have a dick 1.00

10:12:40.240 in your booty 1.00

10:12:40.840 oh sorry 0.98

10:12:41.200 pee pee in your booty 1.00

10:12:42.600 it wouldn't be gay 1.00

10:12:44.200 like you 0.99

10:12:44.740 hooking up 0.99

10:12:45.400 with a trans man

10:12:46.320 I thought you were 1.00

10:12:47.020 fucking the trans man 1.00

10:12:48.500 oh 1.00

10:12:49.240 you're fucking 1.00

10:12:50.220 the trans man 1.00

10:12:50.800 in his ass 1.00

10:12:51.340 though 1.00

10:12:51.460 because he has a dick now 1.00

10:12:52.180 which is a female 1.00

10:12:53.220 you're fucking a female 1.00

10:12:54.240 in the ass 1.00

10:12:54.860 with balls hitting you 1.00

10:12:56.480 they don't do balls 0.99

10:12:58.500 I don't think 0.93

10:12:58.700 they do balls

10:12:59.180 in the bottom surgery

10:13:00.080 no

10:13:00.500 they don't

10:13:01.400 why are you upset

10:13:02.380 by this

10:13:03.500 I'm not upset

10:13:04.340 I'm shocked

10:13:05.060 it doesn't look like

10:13:06.540 you seem disappointed

10:13:06.980 I don't think it's gay 1.00

10:13:08.140 it's a fetish 0.70

10:13:08.820 well

10:13:09.140 I would just

10:13:10.300 I would expect 0.98

10:13:11.280 there to be balls 1.00

10:13:11.900 if you pull a dick out 1.00

10:13:12.720 there's no balls 1.00

10:13:13.340 I'm like what 1.00

10:13:13.840 the fuck is going on 0.99

10:13:14.920 well 1.00

10:13:15.320 it actually look

10:13:17.720 the trans man 0.90

10:13:19.720 it's probably gay 1.00

10:13:24.040 it's probably gay 1.00

10:13:26.140 although it depends 0.97

10:13:29.060 like what we're talking about

10:13:29.960 so if we're defining

10:13:30.860 gay as homosexual 0.99

10:13:32.420 so my position would be 0.99

10:13:34.760 if you're a trans man

10:13:35.840 you're still a

10:13:36.380 you're female

10:13:37.160 your gender identity

10:13:38.880 like the way you portray yourself

10:13:40.920 is masculine 0.74

10:13:41.620 but you're technically

10:13:43.200 still a female 0.61

10:13:43.920 so if I'm looking at

10:13:45.240 what is homosexuality 0.74

10:13:46.640 attraction to the opposite sex 0.57

10:13:48.020 technically it wouldn't be gay 1.00

10:13:51.820 but it's still kind of gay

10:13:52.940 I don't know

10:13:53.520 I think it would be like

10:13:54.820 super gay 0.99

10:13:55.600 I don't know

10:13:56.380 I think anything involving

10:13:57.840 that whole like community

10:13:59.220 if you're dabbling in it 0.97

10:14:00.480 you're gay 1.00

10:14:01.220 like they're all fruity 1.00

10:14:02.780 yeah I mean

10:14:04.640 I'm thinking more just like

10:14:05.800 in terms of a logical

10:14:06.980 labeling

10:14:09.100 perspective

10:14:09.980 okay

10:14:11.580 final question

10:14:12.560 what

10:14:13.840 sort of

10:14:15.280 what is a woman 1.00

10:14:16.080 what is a woman 1.00

10:14:18.080 what is a woman 1.00

10:14:18.800 a woman 0.57

10:14:23.140 has

10:14:24.520 a coochie 1.00

10:14:26.880 and tatas

10:14:28.620 and can have

10:14:29.720 oh

10:14:30.760 that's

10:14:31.420 messed up

10:14:32.360 can have babies

10:14:33.240 wow

10:14:34.160 that's really

10:14:35.080 offensive

10:14:35.360 well because some women 1.00

10:14:36.200 can't have babies 0.90

10:14:37.000 I think you owe her

10:14:39.500 an apology

10:14:40.140 to be honest

10:14:40.880 no

10:14:41.880 that was really offensive 0.59

10:14:42.940 I have a uterus

10:14:44.000 she has a uterus 1.00

10:14:45.160 she can't

10:14:45.720 I kind of think

10:14:47.320 that's an apology

10:14:48.700 right there

10:14:49.120 with all my heart

10:14:50.080 I'm so sorry

10:14:50.840 what is a woman 1.00

10:14:51.300 I'm not offended

10:14:52.200 a person

10:14:54.220 who was born

10:14:55.380 at a female 0.96

10:14:56.620 what is a woman 1.00

10:14:57.480 as a female

10:14:58.080 a person who was born

10:14:59.760 with a uterus 0.87

10:15:00.880 and can reproduce

10:15:02.220 okay

10:15:03.260 we're defining it that way

10:15:04.940 not because I was going to say

10:15:05.860 just creation of life

10:15:07.140 because they birth

10:15:08.960 life

10:15:09.520 no

10:15:09.960 is that

10:15:12.760 or you do want like

10:15:13.660 a actual definition

10:15:15.140 of a woman

10:15:15.660 how long is that audio

10:15:25.460 I've never heard that

10:15:26.380 it's really long

10:15:27.520 I should probably fix that

10:15:28.460 someone with two X chromosomes

10:15:31.080 I second what she says

10:15:34.200 two X chromosomes

10:15:34.740 okay

10:15:34.960 final segment

10:15:36.160 makeup

10:15:36.520 and then we're done

10:15:37.220 who's going to take

10:15:38.640 you're going to take it off

10:15:39.220 take it off

10:15:40.860 wait

10:15:41.780 my mascara

10:15:43.800 has been bothering me

10:15:44.780 so much

10:15:45.420 I literally was going to ask

10:15:46.440 for this

10:15:46.840 like hours

10:15:47.520 who's going to take

10:15:48.480 you're going to take

10:15:48.940 the lashes off

10:15:49.620 or you've got to keep those

10:15:50.340 yeah I'm going to take

10:15:50.760 the lashes off

10:15:51.300 I don't have much of a difference

10:15:52.540 I'm not wearing any

10:15:53.980 nice

10:15:56.000 cool

10:15:58.680 alright

10:16:00.000 and then just

10:16:01.080 save it

10:16:02.440 because you're going to

10:16:03.220 you're going to show

10:16:04.080 you're going to show

10:16:04.760 the stream

10:16:05.240 this is our final thing

10:16:06.640 I'll just do the outro

10:16:08.060 while they're taking off

10:16:09.300 their makeup

10:16:09.840 I'm going to go

10:16:10.500 to the bathroom

10:16:11.240 to do it

10:16:11.780 so that I don't

10:16:12.220 that works

10:16:13.680 okay

10:16:14.040 can I come with you

10:16:15.200 hey one at a time

10:16:16.380 okay

10:16:16.880 or you can just do it

10:16:17.800 in the monitor

10:16:18.220 you can do it here

10:16:20.040 alright so

10:16:21.360 I want to say

10:16:23.380 GG

10:16:23.840 well played

10:16:25.340 oh wait

10:16:26.180 I'm not supposed to say

10:16:26.980 GG

10:16:27.360 well played

10:16:28.260 to the panel

10:16:29.300 guys like the button

10:16:30.580 please on your way out

10:16:31.400 oh my god

10:16:31.840 I was not

10:16:32.380 okay whatever

10:16:33.920 the long stream

10:16:34.500 thank you

10:16:34.940 yo you guys were dope 0.79

10:16:36.480 you guys were really fun

10:16:37.420 I know there were some

10:16:38.000 disagreements

10:16:38.580 I know I was kind of 0.99

10:16:39.240 a dick tonight 0.99

10:16:39.780 but you guys were 0.99

10:16:40.940 really cool

10:16:41.520 thank you for

10:16:42.200 coming on the podcast

10:16:43.240 and

10:16:44.200 thank you guys

10:16:46.100 to those of you

10:16:47.500 who made it to the end

10:16:48.360 without vomiting

10:16:49.160 guys leave a nice comment

10:16:52.040 once the live ends

10:16:53.100 I read them

10:16:53.700 positivity is nice

10:16:54.760 helps the algorithm

10:16:55.840 thank you guys

10:16:57.080 for tuning in tonight

10:16:57.780 you could have been

10:16:58.200 anywhere in the world

10:16:58.940 but you're here with me

10:17:00.840 I appreciate that

10:17:02.620 thank you to everyone

10:17:04.160 who super chats

10:17:05.200 donates

10:17:05.720 and supports

10:17:06.520 the show

10:17:07.240 we're gonna be live

10:17:08.640 again Sunday

10:17:09.300 5pm pacific

10:17:10.280 any girls who wanna

10:17:11.260 be on the show

10:17:11.720 you can DM

10:17:12.220 at whatever

10:17:12.800 on Instagram

10:17:13.480 if you wanna be

10:17:14.540 on the podcast

10:17:15.520 and you can tolerate

10:17:16.520 my obnoxious

10:17:17.640 toxic 0.93

10:17:18.820 whatever

10:17:19.460 whatever

10:17:19.920 07's in the chat

10:17:22.820 07's in the chat

10:17:24.320 we'll just

10:17:24.740 can I have you guys

10:17:26.280 like show the

10:17:27.400 the makeup

10:17:28.280 let's see the damage

10:17:29.520 I love them

10:17:30.400 there's so much

10:17:31.220 see the damage

10:17:32.200 I love them

10:17:33.320 okay it's over here

10:17:34.820 over here

10:17:35.820 wow

10:17:36.240 okay

10:17:37.760 you look more

10:17:39.600 Italian now

10:17:40.320 are you

10:17:40.860 Italian

10:17:41.720 French and Irish

10:17:42.520 French and

10:17:42.940 okay I was wrong

10:17:43.780 okay

10:17:46.200 wow

10:17:47.400 nice

10:17:48.280 that's

10:17:50.040 that was good

10:17:50.840 hold it up

10:17:53.120 hold it up

10:17:54.000 there it is

10:17:58.820 oh and did

10:18:02.000 did you take

10:18:02.360 the lashes off

10:18:03.200 or

10:18:03.400 yeah

10:18:03.740 wait I wanna see

10:18:05.840 did you save them

10:18:06.580 or

10:18:06.860 wait

10:18:07.480 I like your

10:18:08.960 regular lashes

10:18:09.800 does our average

10:18:12.880 change

10:18:13.560 without

10:18:13.840 should I change

10:18:14.740 the looks

10:18:15.300 or anything

10:18:15.620 if you think

10:18:16.920 that it's changed

10:18:17.920 I won't go

10:18:20.020 I won't go through

10:18:20.200 everything but

10:18:21.000 did you take

10:18:21.840 your makeup

10:18:22.200 off

10:18:22.500 yeah

10:18:22.760 okay

10:18:23.460 hello

10:18:25.140 you just had me

10:18:25.940 hold the whole

10:18:26.600 thing up

10:18:27.280 I

10:18:27.940 it probably

10:18:29.040 probably might

10:18:29.920 reduce some scores

10:18:31.060 by like 0.5

10:18:32.080 or

10:18:32.300 or one

10:18:33.160 maybe

10:18:33.700 yeah

10:18:35.940 Mary are we

10:18:37.920 forgetting anything

10:18:38.540 or is that it

10:18:39.100 no no we don't

10:18:40.900 have to do that

10:18:41.560 are we for

10:18:43.280 I know

10:18:43.980 I have not 0.98

10:18:45.400 holy shit 0.96

10:18:46.280 what is going on 1.00

10:18:47.420 with the whatever

10:18:47.860 podcast this is 0.93

10:18:48.780 ridiculous this is 0.59

10:18:49.660 absurd 0.99

10:18:50.200 preposterous 0.99

10:18:51.480 obnoxious 0.81

10:18:52.180 I

10:18:53.080 Mary I swear

10:18:54.000 I'm forgetting

10:18:54.440 something though

10:18:55.100 I'm forgetting

10:18:55.640 something

10:18:56.120 I think we hit

10:18:58.240 everything

10:18:58.640 any final thoughts

10:18:59.720 quick from anybody

10:19:00.840 before we wrap the

10:19:01.560 show

10:19:01.800 thank you so much

10:19:02.620 I love being here

10:19:03.460 thank you

10:19:04.160 oh thank you

10:19:05.060 I appreciate that

10:19:06.020 you're funny

10:19:06.460 should we bow

10:19:07.060 before we leave

10:19:08.020 yes

10:19:08.980 yes you should

10:19:10.340 all bow

10:19:11.040 and you should

10:19:11.540 all do my

10:19:12.740 laundry

10:19:13.080 and you should

10:19:13.820 all clean

10:19:14.660 the studio

10:19:15.280 afterwards

10:19:16.160 good bow

10:19:16.800 I want you all

10:19:17.740 to clean the

10:19:18.100 studio

10:19:18.320 actually I do

10:19:19.240 have some

10:19:20.360 laundry that

10:19:20.920 needs to be

10:19:21.340 done so maybe

10:19:21.980 we'll see what

10:19:22.620 we can do

10:19:23.080 alright guys

10:19:24.000 you guys were

10:19:24.380 so fun

10:19:24.920 you guys were

10:19:25.340 dope

10:19:25.620 I had a good

10:19:26.120 time

10:19:26.400 it was not

10:19:27.140 never got too

10:19:28.140 heated tonight

10:19:28.760 so

10:19:29.140 thanks for having

10:19:30.260 you guys were

10:19:30.740 you guys let me

10:19:31.500 get away with

10:19:32.000 too much

10:19:32.440 by the way

10:19:32.980 you didn't really

10:19:34.000 say anything too

10:19:34.580 crazy though

10:19:35.100 I said some 1.00

10:19:35.620 crazy shit 1.00

10:19:36.080 come on 1.00

10:19:36.440 I said some 1.00

10:19:37.340 crazy shit 1.00

10:19:38.400 you guys let 1.00

10:19:39.160 you guys let me

10:19:39.820 get away with

10:19:40.340 too much

10:19:40.720 I was hoping for

10:19:41.700 I wanted to hear

10:19:42.820 your opinion

10:19:43.440 I don't know

10:19:44.000 I actually think

10:19:45.160 you might look

10:19:46.000 better without

10:19:46.500 the makeup

10:19:46.960 to be honest

10:19:47.740 alright there you go

10:19:48.740 nice little compliment

10:19:49.440 after I crushed

10:19:50.240 her spirit

10:19:50.820 entirely

10:19:51.420 I appreciate it

10:19:53.160 yeah yeah yeah

10:19:53.700 right maybe

10:19:54.480 chat I don't know

10:19:55.320 do I look younger

10:19:57.480 like I probably

10:19:58.680 can't see

10:19:59.260 actually you

10:19:59.960 might

10:20:00.220 you look

10:20:00.900 older

10:20:01.640 more mature

10:20:02.900 not like

10:20:03.560 in a bad way

10:20:05.200 though

10:20:05.340 oh wow

10:20:06.500 you look like

10:20:07.120 a model girl

10:20:07.900 well this is the

10:20:08.500 first time I've

10:20:08.820 seen your face

10:20:09.220 friends like that

10:20:09.840 oh boy

10:20:10.340 okay

10:20:10.780 Mary what are we

10:20:13.240 forgetting

10:20:13.500 that's good

10:20:17.080 guys leave a

10:20:17.820 comment after we

10:20:18.620 wrap the show

10:20:19.240 07's in the

10:20:21.300 chat 07's in the

10:20:22.560 chat

10:20:22.860 goodnight guys

10:20:23.920 and we'll see you

10:20:24.540 next time

10:20:25.000 goodnight

10:20:28.680 goodnight

Whatever Podcast - January 12, 2026

Brian Made Her PUKE？! Reformed HØE？! Woke Girl Came To DESTROY Brian In A DEBATE？! ｜ Dating Talk 277

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