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00:00:00.000 welcome to the whatever dating talk podcast where we try to make sense of the modern dating hellscape

00:00:12.800 thanks for tuning in tonight you could have been anywhere in the world but you're here with me i

00:00:16.500 appreciate that coming to you live from santa barbara california every sunday and tuesday

00:00:20.220 5 p.m pacific i'm your host brian atlas uh i guess kiki's here kiki's here yep um she's a bit shy

00:00:29.180 a few quick announcements before before the show begins uh you guys have heard it a hundred times

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00:00:40.520 youtube soup chats that'd be preferable uh you know we've got donate uh we have twitch

00:00:47.740 we have merch all the links for that shit's in instagram um i'm a little sick tonight guys so

00:00:55.660 um and i for some reason my dropbox fucked up lost all my notes so it's gonna be a scuff scuff

00:01:02.060 stream sorry we're starting late we had people 50 minutes late so it is what it is without further

00:01:05.780 ado we're gonna have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age

00:01:09.420 occupation and location go ahead my name is britney crisp and my age is 32 and i'm located in new

00:01:18.920 hampshire and my occupation is only fans my name is dara i'm 38 years old i'm from brooklyn new york

00:01:25.900 new york and i'm a retired nurse and only fans model my name is lexus morgan i'm 27 i am from miami

00:01:34.340 florida and i am a real estate investor and an only fans model age 27 did i miss that i don't know okay

00:01:42.780 i am the jasmine rose i am a model in new york city i am 26 and yeah hello my name is shayne

00:01:52.360 matthews and i am turning 26 years old tomorrow and i live in studio city california and i'm a christian

00:01:59.320 influencer hi my name is claire i'm 26 years old and i'm a medical assistant and i'm from la

00:02:07.220 hi my name is monica i am 20 years old i am a barista and i am locally from santa barbara

00:02:13.800 hi my name is brie i'm from santa barbara california um i'm 19 years old and i'm a full-time student

00:02:21.320 working at in a restaurant industry hi i'm lexi i'm 23 uh located in the 209 stock demand ticket area

00:02:29.800 and i'm also a barista and we have andrew wilson joining us today andrew yeah my name is andrew

00:02:37.140 wilson host of the one and only crucible one of the fastest if not the fastest growing debate channel

00:02:42.300 on youtube i'm a content creator appreciate you guys having me tonight all right welcome everybody

00:02:48.040 so we're going to go around the table once more what's everybody's current relationship status so

00:02:52.520 are you single talking stage situationship friends with benefits relationship married polycule

00:02:58.600 whatever if you're single how long have you been single what's the longest relationship you've

00:03:02.580 ever been in starting with you go ahead i'm currently single and the longest relationship that i've ever

00:03:08.700 been in was seven and a half years how long have you been single um probably about nine months

00:03:15.820 nine months all right what about you um i've been single for about six months and the longest

00:03:22.180 relationship i've been in was about four years i was almost married was there anything were you

00:03:27.800 engaged or no looking for rings looking for what rings like we're almost at that stage

00:03:34.120 single longest relationship was seven and a half years and i have been single for a year

00:03:42.480 and a half yeah i'm currently in a relationship with the question mark and have been in the

00:03:48.960 relationship for about a month my longest relationship was two and a half years

00:03:52.140 what do you mean question mark um we almost broke up an hour ago so it's okay

00:03:56.520 is he here in san barbara no he's back in new york city he's a model

00:04:00.240 oh you came you uh flew here right yeah okay why did you almost break up an hour ago for um

00:04:07.660 whatever podcast it's just i'm thinking about moving to california so we'll see

00:04:12.500 so you had a semi breakup conversation right before the yeah dating podcast he had to go on set and i

00:04:18.460 had to come on here so he's like we'll talk about it and i'm like okay bye he had to go on set yeah

00:04:22.700 is it ty biggs no oh ty diggs wait he's in new york right yeah i wish okay oh my god

00:04:35.420 yes um i am currently single my last relationship was five months ago and my longest relationship i've

00:04:43.980 ever had was four and a half years um i'm single and um i've been single for about three years now

00:04:55.260 since i came to christ and my longest relationship was about a year to two years a year to two years

00:05:01.480 yeah i'm sorry that's a large gap year and a half and you said you've been single for three years was it

00:05:08.440 mm-hmm okay what about you uh i'm single my longest relationship was a month and i have been

00:05:14.800 single for six years now longest relationship a month yeah but you've been single for six years

00:05:21.520 so you and you're 20 correct yeah so your one month relationship when was middle school 14

00:05:27.700 no it was i was a freshman in high school

00:05:30.780 okay but you were like 14 or something yeah around there okay what about you um i'm currently

00:05:40.380 single and i've been single for 19 years okay so what's the longest period of time you've ever

00:05:48.140 seen a guy dated guy a month one month but it wasn't like dating or anything what was it

00:05:54.860 um talking i guess what does talking mean like talking like every day um when was this how long

00:06:07.620 ago was this was sophomore year in high school okay and not no prospects since like a two-weeker

00:06:15.660 like like like not like no nothing serious nothing serious okay yeah what about you um i've been

00:06:29.360 single for over a year um my longest relationship was five years all right andrew what about you

00:06:36.960 yeah i've been married for uh well over a decade okay cool so good jumping off point is um maybe you've

00:06:50.140 seen the show before maybe you've seen uh clips from andrew over there who's on on the monitor uh

00:06:56.440 maybe some of you aren't super familiar with the show maybe some of you are a good jumping off point

00:07:01.100 we'd like to do is um is there anything that anybody disagrees with that you've heard from me

00:07:06.840 from madison back there she's had some hot takes and then from andrew we'll start there anybody

00:07:13.680 okay that makes my job easy i can i i have something sure um wow that's like starting right

00:07:24.400 off the bat um i think that um the point of the show i i even like in your previous video like you

00:07:34.020 mentioned that the bread and butter of the show is to kind of almost in a way make fun of certain

00:07:39.840 women and there are different wow that's slander i'm going to interrupt you right there i've those

00:07:44.260 words have never exited my mouth so please actually state something correctly that i've said go ahead

00:07:50.420 okay so um just i think watching like the previous um shows i felt like there was a lot of um

00:08:00.580 obviously disagreements as there's a lot of women here and even men but i think there's a lot of like

00:08:07.260 casting stones in a sense um not that the law in the sense that you know doing certain things um are

00:08:16.180 good or bad um like i'm sorry i'm trying to explain i'm like i'm nervous um but like the show tends to

00:08:24.660 like cast stones at certain women and i see the common section too and as a christian i feel like

00:08:30.400 that's not what you know jesus calls us to do we don't cast stones at each other um especially when

00:08:36.160 we have a log in our eye like our own pride and our own sins we're all sick with sin and we all need

00:08:42.500 an antidote okay that sounds like you're making a sounds like you're making a judgment are you making

00:08:48.580 a judgment yeah and i don't think judgment is necessarily bad because we need to be able to

00:08:53.480 judge to um you know see you know somebody's doing something bad or not but what's uh so what's the

00:09:00.720 actual criticism then yeah so the kind of judgment that i'm talking about it stems from like pride and

00:09:06.920 this is something that you know we see christ warning us about um saying oh i fasted two times a week i've

00:09:14.180 you know i pray um thank god i'm not like these tax collectors or these sinners and jesus really

00:09:21.520 comes down hard on the pharisees and i kind of feel like that is where the show tends to go

00:09:27.360 and um i don't think that's the point of christianity the point of christianity is that we all need

00:09:33.560 like a savior

00:09:34.420 i don't i actually don't understand the criticism here so the criticism is that you think that

00:09:43.940 there's too many people who are on the show who are too pious and are virtue signaling yeah i think

00:09:50.300 it's like extreme on like both ends um you know there's on one end a complete lack of morality and

00:09:56.720 relativism so there's no good there's no wrong and then on the other end it's like judging women and

00:10:04.500 making fun of these women uh that come well i don't i don't understand if you if you're a moral

00:10:10.400 relativist and you are arguing with a moral objectivist which you are because you're a

00:10:16.220 christian um that's that's how that's going to sound right in order to demonstrate that somebody's

00:10:22.840 a relativist you have to demonstrate that they would move towards absurd conclusions because they

00:10:27.580 don't have objective morality how else is a christian could you demonstrate that yeah and i actually

00:10:34.020 agree with you i think that the purpose of the law to show them is kind of like going to a doctor's

00:10:41.340 office and saying here is the symptom like we're morally sick and you need a cure and it's not i'm

00:10:47.600 better than you because your sins are worse than mine and after studying some of the videos that i

00:10:53.180 watched on the whatever podcast that's just kind of the conclusion that i came with with the type of

00:10:57.800 language that we use the way that we laugh at each other i don't think would be we would be

00:11:02.900 laughing at each other when we see that you know the wrath of god is like hanging upon us and if

00:11:07.960 we're a christian like we believe in hell and that's god's judgment like it's not a laughing matter

00:11:13.480 about our sins like we're all sick and we all need christ so then to dive into this let us play a game

00:11:21.060 of pretend let us pretend that you are arguing with an actual prostitute who sees nothing wrong with

00:11:28.220 being a prostitute can you explain how you would make an argument grid one motorsports donated one

00:11:33.640 hundred dollars it is my job to cast the stones and make fun of those that deserve it at bull get

00:11:40.660 the rocks we are gonna need a lot thing so exactly that's my point is what this individual said and

00:11:48.860 i'm not okay with that um throwing rocks at women who get the rocks yeah abdul yeah get the right get

00:11:56.860 the rocks

00:11:57.360 so that's that's my point right there and uh andrew did you want to restate your question

00:12:07.660 to her yeah if you're arguing with a woman who's a prostitute you don't agree with prostitution

00:12:13.640 can you explain how you would make such an argument to them well first of all you know

00:12:20.840 because i'm a christian i would say that you know in in in the in the word in the bible like god says

00:12:27.140 that sexual immorality is wrong and yeah but they reject that right and so we would have that

00:12:32.380 conversation but my heart attitude like the heart attitude we're having the conversation they already

00:12:37.300 rejected it yeah sorry can you explain to me how you're going to uh show them the error of their

00:12:43.340 way they reject the bible they think it's a uh 2 000 year old book of lies yeah may i say something

00:12:51.720 okay so um i was actually a prostitute i've been in the adult industry and i was also a dancer and so

00:13:00.380 i had a divine encounter with jesus last year in may and i this is how i presented i was like god of the

00:13:06.780 universe reveal yourself to me and then i started having a series of dreams and visions of jesus christ

00:13:11.980 and you know god sanctifies you the definition of sanctification is the process of becoming more

00:13:18.860 holy sometimes things change overnight sometimes things change gradually you know because everyone's

00:13:25.240 different god has different timing of healing and revealing things in accordance to what you can

00:13:30.720 handle and so that just exhibits his grace and his love and his mercy towards us his mercy

00:13:36.460 but they're going to reject all of that because a relativist and they don't believe you

00:13:40.680 they think you're delusional right and like i said you know like talking to these women and saying hey

00:13:48.340 like this way like we've been there and it's wrong it's sinful and it's against you know um god's goodness

00:13:55.380 it's you know just um staying his glory um but he loves us and he died for us on the cross and he

00:14:02.780 resurrected so that we can be born again and have new life and what righteous muffin is saying in the

00:14:09.740 comment section is that what i'm saying is that we is not what i'm saying is not that we you know

00:14:16.720 devolve into degeneracy that's not what i'm saying because that's why christ came to save us he came to

00:14:22.660 make us a new creation by just believing in him but what i find is that the podcast often is using the

00:14:29.900 law a lot to just condemn condemn condemn and not giving the cure which is christ which law what do

00:14:36.980 you mean like for example like what he was saying like prostitution is wrong like of course like we

00:14:42.300 can say prostitution is wrong all day but we're not presenting the cure to the prostitution which

00:14:49.040 yeah but you have to you have to deconstruct a person's worldview before you can replace it with

00:14:54.680 something else so if you have a person who's a nihilist or a moral relativist don't you first

00:15:00.000 need to disprove that their worldview is correct before you can move into giving them a new purview

00:15:05.240 on that yes i agree with you and i'm not arguing about that i think we're like i don't think you're

00:15:11.720 understanding what i'm saying i'm talking about like the heart i am do you mind if i take a stab at

00:15:17.500 steel manning your position so i think that what your position is is that you think that

00:15:24.060 what's going on when people are having these discussions on this podcast that it's falling

00:15:29.940 short of the glory of christ from your perspective and that everything should be given through that

00:15:34.420 purview my counter to this is to say to you and forgive me is that correct is that what what your

00:15:41.500 what your basic position is um yes okay so if that's the basic position then my counter to this is

00:15:50.840 if you are going to convince somebody you it's generally best and you'll see this in the best

00:15:58.120 christian apologists who've ever existed to meet them where they're at and if you meet them where

00:16:03.040 they're at right you have to deconstruct and destroy their worldview first before it can be replaced with

00:16:09.200 something else and it can look brutal and it can look uncomfortable and it can be not a lot of fun

00:16:14.740 and it can look like there's judgments and things like this but i think that um if that was not what

00:16:21.480 was going on that guys like chase guys like myself we would not be on the podcast because we're able to

00:16:26.800 give uh significant pushback to these other worldviews uh if it comes up that doesn't mean we have to be

00:16:33.240 mean to anybody right but we still do have to provide pushback right don't you think yes and and i

00:16:40.400 absolutely agree with you and andrew i don't know your heart you know you i i agree with you that we

00:16:45.200 need to meet them at their worldview worldview because they're not there there's a lot of people

00:16:48.780 who tell me like the bible is not a credible source for me because i don't believe in the bible and so yes we

00:16:53.720 should absolutely meet them give the evidence but what i'm talking about is something what let's say

00:16:58.540 like righteous um the earlier donation he was like cast the stones on these women like i'm talking about

00:17:05.340 that heart posture i'm not arguing against what you're saying i'm actually agreeing with you but

00:17:10.320 i'm talking about the heart issue behind condemning people what i think is that simply pointing out

00:17:16.340 sometimes to entitled women that they're wrong will give the appearance that you're casting stones when

00:17:21.360 you're not but just pointing out that they're incorrect or what they just said was absurd or even

00:17:26.920 just laughing because they said something so absurd i think that can give the appearance that

00:17:31.880 you're casting stones even though you're not actually directly doing that that's my position

00:17:36.120 on grid one motorsports donated 100 dear we do not default to degeneracy however degeneracy must be

00:17:44.560 shamed god is merciful but as righteous anger when there is sin it is a sin for you to enable bad

00:17:51.080 behavior please do better yeah grid one motorsports thank you for that uh we're not going to linger on that

00:17:56.660 for for for too long but um so it was an interesting conversation i appreciated having it yeah and i

00:18:04.180 mean if i can jump in really quickly on it uh so but you're where that sort of stemmed from was you said

00:18:10.880 that well you thought that i said that it's the bread and butter of the show to what yeah so basically

00:18:19.860 there was a woman on one of the shows and forgive me for not remembering her name but she said oh i didn't

00:18:25.740 know that this was going to be like you versus us like debate i thought it was just going to be like

00:18:30.080 an like us having a conversation not just like you guys you know and then all the insults that were

00:18:36.180 thrown at them and you said well that's like the bread and butter of the show um and so yeah and which

00:18:43.860 which girl was that which episode was that i think it was like two three videos ago um i i'm sorry i

00:18:51.420 don't remember like the title of the video oh i think it was actually a show that andrew was on

00:18:57.220 um was it with the two uh the two black the gobbler yeah it was the gobbler right yeah the gobbler

00:19:06.120 um andrew was there and i think so she came on the show and i think she said something about

00:19:13.740 oh well i thought we were just going to share quirky dating anecdotes and i didn't think that

00:19:20.800 we would be having these sort of heavier discussions and debates and i think i said the debates were

00:19:27.220 bread and butter but um and perhaps she included well i wasn't expecting xyz so i think you mentioned

00:19:35.120 um you know the mocking the women but i've never out of my own mouth ever said that the bread and

00:19:42.540 butter of the whatever podcast is mocking women the bread and butter of the whatever podcast is

00:19:47.280 having is having uh oftentimes adversarial conversations when it comes to dating topics

00:19:54.140 culture doctrinably donated 100 dollars humor is very powerful tool to lower defenses

00:20:00.520 ridicule is beneficial in loosening the grip of evil on an individual it is fine to use humor as long as

00:20:07.380 one is not destroying another's humanity that's a very good observation and i couldn't agree with

00:20:14.920 that super chat more so thank you i think that i do remember this panel as well and uh she was

00:20:22.100 basically complaining that she felt like the conversation was getting too heady she thought

00:20:25.960 it was too it was a little too sophisticated for her and actually we tuned turned the rhetoric back

00:20:31.940 because of that to try again to meet her where she was at so i don't feel like anybody's humanity was

00:20:37.500 being attacked that episode that's for sure and we had some pretty good conversations in that episode

00:20:41.300 in fact and just last thing um so you also mentioned well some of the chatters some of the tts

00:20:49.180 comes through sometimes those can be uh insulting or critical of a guest and uh look i can say this you

00:20:59.180 know the internet is an interesting place people with when it when you have uh when you're anonymous

00:21:05.220 you can uh sort of talk in a way that you wouldn't otherwise talk to somebody if you're face to face

00:21:10.960 with them but uh as a man as an individual i don't know how to be responsible for the words somebody

00:21:16.960 else says because your initial comment was directed towards me but i don't i can't be responsible for

00:21:23.400 by the way shout out i don't know if erico arico tv still in the chat i don't know how to be

00:21:28.120 responsible for what he says i don't know how to be responsible for what grid one says i just know

00:21:32.540 how to be responsible for the words that come out of my mouth so uh i can't really take claim to what

00:21:39.260 anybody else is saying you know yeah thank you for your response um and i'm not saying that you're

00:21:43.980 responsible for what other people do that's why when i'm talking about this i'm talking to everybody

00:21:48.520 including the people on the internet because we're all human beings and this is the calling

00:21:52.860 of the gospels to not hate one another or make fun of one another but to love one another and

00:21:59.260 see that we're all sick and we're in need of a savior so that's the position i'm coming to

00:22:03.280 L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L-L donated $100.

00:22:09.460 Chat, would you rather get a massage from a gay man or surgery from a female doctor?

00:22:15.340 Serious surgery.

00:22:16.920 So basically, would you rather get a massage or die?

00:22:23.220 Show, Andrew.

00:22:27.680 Wait, did you ask me?

00:22:32.340 yeah what do you think what would you prefer i think i think the surgery is happening bro

00:22:37.100 wait you'd rather you'd rather get serious surgery from a female doctor than just a like a massage

00:22:45.240 from a gay guy yeah i think so okay um can i say something sure can i ask why why what

00:22:59.860 why she would rather get surgery than a massage oh you're asking to andrew yeah well it's not that

00:23:06.940 i'd rather get surgery than a massage that wasn't the question the question oh wait maybe we don't

00:23:11.900 go there maybe we don't go there let's not go there uh she's she's looking for something okay um

00:23:17.960 by the way i do want to mention uh on our last show we ended the stream there were a couple

00:23:23.520 uh it was 50 uh stream labs donations that came in we missed them i'm very sorry guys normally we're

00:23:31.260 it's very rare that we miss any uh any uh super chats or stream labs donations i think they came

00:23:39.360 in there at the very end it just slipped my mind uh if it's a shannon lacy and ddr nav 314 i apologize

00:23:47.440 that we missed your chats on the last show um you know what maybe i just read them i'll have uh i'll

00:23:53.420 read them really quick nav just said thank you for fighting the progressive biases and honoring well

00:23:59.340 reasoned discussion appreciate it and then the other one i'll message you shannon i'll message you

00:24:05.500 directly and see if you want to resubmit these uh for another show uh okay so anybody else any

00:24:11.800 disagreements on anything let's just get to the topic okay so i wanted to check in on everybody's

00:24:19.320 relationship status so everybody here is kind of single except for you but you just had a breakup

00:24:25.920 semi-breakup conversation um single single single single single single single single okay

00:24:35.760 so what does being single actually mean um because i mean a lot of you guys are very true

00:24:42.740 you've got some attractive people here at the table i'm sure there's uh you know some guy in

00:24:47.920 the picture maybe multiple guys in the picture so you said you've been single

00:24:51.960 playing live thanks for the gifted uh 20 memberships actually really quick why don't you pull up

00:25:01.700 righteous muffins i'll read this one really quick actually who who here has a good can i have you

00:25:07.880 read it trying to save my voice here if we don't judge others and try to change their way do we just

00:25:13.940 let society devolve into degeneracy how do we ever get people to change their ways do we just love the

00:25:20.020 degeneracy away that might be directed at you if you want to quickly respond to it yeah um that's what i

00:25:26.140 was saying earlier is that what i'm saying is not that we just let people in their sin jesus said

00:25:32.000 called us to repent of our sins and repenting means the greek word is metanoia which is to change

00:25:38.300 your mind from the to believe in christ and the way that we believe christ and get saved and actually

00:25:45.520 start obeying god is not to try to obey the law to get into heaven or to have a relationship with god

00:25:52.820 is to just believe that he did the work for us like he finished it

00:25:57.480 oh sorry did you want to keep going or was there more um yeah that sounds like uh sounds like sola

00:26:09.500 fide to me say that again is that sola fide um by faith alone sola fide um and then the

00:26:22.800 fruits come as a result of the faith genuine faith um people will bear fruit so for example

00:26:29.480 um cheyenne's testimony was that she was working in the industry so was i i encountered jesus i

00:26:36.520 repented of my sins i believed in christ and i got born again and now i am a completely different

00:26:41.440 person and i take no credit for that it's god and god alone for that radical change um he didn't

00:26:47.540 just change one view or two views he changed all of me well this is going to be an interesting

00:26:52.720 round table tonight i can already see okay all right so going back to the single stuff so uh you've

00:27:01.140 been single for nine months uh some guys in the picture though right um a couple couple guys maybe

00:27:10.400 what about right now uh there's a guy that's like long distance i don't i don't know what to say

00:27:14.520 about it but we're just talking okay um and you do you do of right yeah um what kind of content are

00:27:23.060 you making is it solo content bg gg it's like all of it bb g yeah it's like bb g all of that stuff

00:27:33.500 what what's uh have you done any trad traditional adult content like mainstream yeah not yet but

00:27:42.680 browsers wants to work with me but i haven't done mainstream okay uh do you have like a shooting

00:27:49.840 partner that you work with um i did i did it was my ex-boyfriend the one from nine months ago yeah

00:27:58.020 okay why did he dump you um he didn't dump me oh we mutually split up but it just wasn't working

00:28:05.040 for many different reasons not because of what i was doing for a living it was like what he was doing

00:28:09.720 for a living versus what i was doing for a living what was he doing he's a weed grower and i was

00:28:14.240 gonna join him in that i had an intuition it was drug related that's funny it is okay okay um wait

00:28:21.600 actually i have quite a few threads i want to go here just going around the table why did your

00:28:26.260 boyfriend dump you your last boyfriend um i chose to just walk away from the situation it wasn't right

00:28:32.000 for me oh you ended it okay um twice the last two guys i dated i ended why did your boyfriend

00:28:37.220 dump you your last boyfriend i left him what a projection i'll get one jocules donated one hundred

00:28:44.960 dollars daddy brixton long time listener first time donator thank you for the cute christian asian girl

00:28:52.420 i am a 30 and christian from oregon who makes over six figures could i fly you out for a date i can send a

00:29:00.040 pick sorry i i don't know how to respond to that i'm sorry well he's asked he's asked if uh he

00:29:16.760 could fly you out to oregon uh jake what other details do you need to know height do you need

00:29:23.440 to know his height height doesn't matter what if he's like 4 11. hey if that's what god has for me

00:29:29.720 that's fine okay uh just you know i'd like to talk a little bit more of theology and like what

00:29:36.700 your beliefs are um and get to know you where earth wives donated 100 love the show why not ask

00:29:48.460 girls to rate themselves on the wife scale as well as the regular whole scale too many rate themselves

00:29:54.900 as a 10 but it's not the wife scale uh okay well fuck it we'll come back to the single the single

00:30:02.560 relationship stuff real quick uh what do you rate yourself on a scale of one to ten on the wife

00:30:08.760 scale like how zero being not wifey ten being wifey six six ten and ten ten and ten okay nine point

00:30:20.260 nine eight out of ten i'm still healing um i i don't i'm gonna abstain from rating myself um i don't

00:30:31.100 know where i'm at with that i think that's only something god knows and prepares us for so i will

00:30:36.440 abstain from rating you're gonna abstain from your wifey score yeah i'm gonna abstain do you have a

00:30:43.000 self-assessment no okay what about you uh an eight i'll give myself a solid seven i would say five

00:30:54.880 yeah why five because there's things that i need to work on that i feel that can value myself and then

00:31:01.920 i can value my partner okay interesting uh five on the wifey scale andrew what are you on the wifey

00:31:09.540 scale okay i guess i would be a zero but my wife is a 10 on the wife's oh there you go there you go

00:31:16.380 okay uh that was an interesting one i feel like we should almost just jump in immediately to this

00:31:22.780 ask everyone to rate their looks a little early on this one but fuck it i need to stop cursing i don't

00:31:29.840 know when i'm sick i start cursing more um ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten

00:31:35.040 starting with you your looks looks scale one to ten uh i don't know i guess a nine and a half

00:31:43.760 do you want if you want to just say 10 you i'm not conceited i'm not gonna say 10 oh so you're not

00:31:50.280 conceited but okay not really 9.5 okay i can be conceited what about you i think 9.8 9.8 okay

00:31:57.160 7.5 i could be better i can't rate myself of course you can rate yourself i really beauty is in

00:32:04.480 the eye of the beholder so i feel like it just be if i rate myself and how i look looks different to

00:32:11.120 everyone else if i say 10 people say too conceited i'm not scared to be too conceited i love myself

00:32:15.960 but i just can't rate myself it breaks the scale well that doesn't make any sense because you're if

00:32:21.640 you're on your wife scale you put like nine or ten that's also a subjective metric looks isn't a

00:32:29.640 title wife is a title looks as image yeah but they're both a subjective metric so why could you

00:32:35.640 rate yourself with one but not the other that makes no sense i can rate myself for a wife because i know

00:32:40.600 what it takes for me to be a wife to my husband not just being a wife but to my husband so i know what

00:32:46.160 it takes to do the task and how to fulfill it but now are you are you married i've been proposed to

00:32:52.200 five times but i'm not married by choice you're not married have you ever been married no oh and what

00:32:59.020 how do you what like what's your reference point here i know what it takes for me to be a wife and

00:33:05.320 how to fulfill that job but for me well it well is being a wife just you or is it also what your

00:33:12.920 husband thinks of you being a wife is a title that my husband gives me so not just what my

00:33:22.620 husband thinks of me if he thinks i'm the most amazing wife ever calls me a 10 this that and the

00:33:27.200 third and i think i'm a zero i'm still a 10 because of what my husband thinks but asking me to rate

00:33:34.000 myself based on what i think of myself i can't do that i think everything is but you can do it as a

00:33:40.600 wife i don't i don't understand that that makes no sense to me i don't know how you could rate

00:33:44.500 yourself as a wife but not be able to rate your looks that's it's like i mean it's the subjective

00:33:48.800 metric it's like asking how great do you do your job if you work at wendy's i think working yeah i feel

00:33:56.660 like the wendy's workers get self-assessment tests where they answer that question right yeah because

00:34:01.280 they judge themselves based on the task of what they're doing for that job but if you ask them how

00:34:04.840 great do you look in that uniform that you're wearing that you have to wear

00:34:07.500 they're gonna say oh i feel like they could answer that too right maybe but it's more like

00:34:14.800 someone else thinks they look amazing and they think they look like a five do they look amazing

00:34:18.840 or do they look like a five which one is it i think i look great in the pants but the shirt isn't all

00:34:22.820 that great i think my hair looks nice in the top the split over one well i mean but that sounds like

00:34:28.160 you can adequately rate yourself in a wendy's uniform then right like don't you don't you rate yourself

00:34:35.620 for uh how you're dressed or how you look or things like that don't you give yourself a rating

00:34:40.100 and that determines what your fashion sense is to begin with i don't rate myself i think if it looks

00:34:46.860 great it looks great if it doesn't doesn't i take it all yeah but but if it looks great great being high

00:34:52.560 like eight nine or ten and if you think you look great that being high as in eight nine or ten which

00:34:59.460 of those ratings for great would you give yourself well they did say looks like let the girls rate

00:35:04.460 themselves in their looks so are you basing me in an outfit or basing me naked it depends

00:35:08.740 well no i'm not i'm not basing anything it's a self-assessment but i'm saying that clearly you

00:35:15.500 can assess yourself because you do it all the time that's how you know what hairstyle you use what

00:35:20.200 makeup you use what dresses you wear all that right i might assess myself i don't rate it

00:35:24.960 well right but if you were to take that self-assessment and give a rating to it

00:35:30.500 what would you rate it that's the question infinity breaks my sale okay so like 10 yeah i think we just

00:35:38.600 put down a 10 for that go ahead okay um we are fearfully and wonderfully made god is the pot of

00:35:44.280 clay hold on just the broad essence donated 100 dollars all right left to right rating fire crotch

00:35:51.160 five mini torta four large torta three christian asian seven crazy thought christian four chichi negro six

00:35:59.520 to gold bitties seven full sleeve of thought five small bitty of thought four no wives no wives okay

00:36:08.100 wow all right uh i think you were responding go ahead um respond to that yeah oh well no no no just

00:36:22.940 the initial question so uh scripture says we're fearfully and wonderfully made and god doesn't

00:36:29.600 make mistakes he's the potter we're the clay i believe everyone's a 10 out of 10 and your husband

00:36:34.820 or your wife will think so as well because god handpicks them for you every hold on i don't think

00:36:40.540 i've ever heard that one everyone's a 10 out of 10 yeah everyone's a 10 out of 10 yes so

00:36:48.320 there's no when you look at somebody you make no differentiation when it comes to

00:36:56.200 you can't determine between say two people if one is more attractive than the other you cannot make

00:37:02.240 that determination i could see how the world views them but since i'm filled with the holy spirit i see

00:37:08.160 a person's soul instead of their flesh because i'm born again so i have a different lens well use the

00:37:14.080 lens of the world uses i don't want to why not because it's not it's not good i've i've my intimacy and

00:37:28.000 relationship with god is worth more than lowering myself back to where i used to be

00:37:33.300 so you when it comes to dating you have you have no regard for the person's physical appearance no i

00:37:41.060 don't zero not anymore i promise not anymore i've dated fat skinny tall short all races it's the heart

00:37:48.320 yep how tall was your last boyfriend six foot oh that's interesting how tall are you

00:37:57.780 five nine so only 15 of men in this country are six foot or taller maybe it's just happenstance

00:38:06.880 that you ended up with a guy who is a is above average in height but i mean god wanted her to

00:38:14.100 have a six foot tall man i guess okay um right is that i mean this is the thing the the statement

00:38:24.340 you're making is actually absurd that is not a christian ethic to make the determination that

00:38:29.440 you can have preferences for attraction that's ridiculous on its face where on earth did you come

00:38:34.480 up with this other than headcanon that you being a christian means that you can't have preferences

00:38:40.100 for what you're attracted to yeah i understand what you're saying i'm just saying for me

00:38:45.940 i don't have preferences like i know some people might prefer there's nothing wrong with having a

00:38:51.560 preference the way that i've always been even before being a christian i've dated you know

00:38:58.480 asian white tall short my first boyfriend was asian he was five seven that was my first love

00:39:04.540 what are you trying to say about asian people with that statement i was almost trying to say that

00:39:10.620 i it's almost uh okay so let's just make it super easy would you do you want to have children

00:39:19.140 yes okay so would you date a man who could not give you children no okay well then it sounds like

00:39:28.540 you have preferences and that's okay right that's totally fine for you to have that preference isn't

00:39:34.980 it yeah and i can answer that if that's okay so um last year it was so funny like four days

00:39:40.780 before what i'm about to tell you i was like i was praying i was like god i'm okay if you don't give

00:39:46.320 me kids i just want whatever you want for me four days later i had a vision that i had a husband and

00:39:51.380 kids well so that's my go into the asian thing a little bit there because you said i even dated an

00:39:59.540 asian man what do you mean by that well do you think that asian men don't compare to no well that

00:40:06.060 sort of sounds like what you're saying i guess i was using the comparison well for one i'm half asian

00:40:11.100 okay so but but two it was fresh in my mind because i know he's shorter than the six foot man

00:40:18.700 grid one motorsports donated one hundred dollars if everyone you date is a 10 you should be a wife

00:40:25.300 already the amount of delulu is epic i thought i was going to take it easy tonight be chill but i can

00:40:32.280 see we need all the smoke prepare yourselves you have you have invoked his wrath yes you've invoked

00:40:39.880 grid one motorsports wrath watch out um okay so uh the rating thing are you just not wanting to uh

00:40:46.540 do a rating you said everyone's a 10 so i assume you're saying that you're 10 out of 10 okay you're

00:40:52.000 10 out of 10 yes everyone's a 10 yes so if i showed you say a picture of brad pitt when he was young

00:40:57.720 and then a picture of donald trump currently i don't know where you maybe you're a fan of donald trump

00:41:05.400 uh donald how about joe biden because i feel like maybe you lean a bit more conservative am i right

00:41:12.720 conservative is i would say so lean more towards all right who would you say in your view would you

00:41:20.880 prefer dating just based off of their level of attractiveness joe biden or brad pitt when he was

00:41:28.120 young you wouldn't have any preference

00:41:31.620 i've never had age preference i've dated younger than me my age and older just looks just looks

00:41:44.480 without the age joe biden this is like a benjamin button thing because i'm bringing brad brad pitt into

00:41:49.600 this so just assume their age is the same but oh their age is the same button thing sure oh age the

00:41:57.360 same brad pitt young how he looked when he was young he's still attractive guy versus joe biden

00:42:04.240 who's ever a believer that's my answer that's not the question both okay great they're both believers

00:42:09.020 thank you andrew you made it easy for me oh at that point i would just pray and then god will

00:42:18.040 tell me which one i rely on god to tell me oh my god wait wait i have something i have something

00:42:24.960 do you rely on hang on i gotta ask you do you rely on god to tell you if you like uh pepperoni on your

00:42:30.000 pizza or not well we'll come back donated 100 thank you mr monica and brie this is julian gutierrez

00:42:37.860 please give my info to the beautiful asian honey you're right yes the one with the helmet and you can

00:42:43.520 the one with the tattoo i likey uh she's not your type bro oh is this like a friend of yours but i

00:42:52.180 asked a question don't you think that god gave you attraction like that's a gift from god to be

00:42:57.120 attracted to somebody looks wise or looks are a gift from god as well wait do you want to answer

00:43:02.780 that really quick then andrew you had your pepperoni thing yeah yes yes so definitely of course like

00:43:09.100 attraction does aid and you know obviously physical attraction aids you know in the sexual attraction

00:43:16.580 like when you're married you know it's more it's more intimate god gave sex as a gift you know so i

00:43:23.020 would say yes it does but it's not the main thing that's an additive that's a gift outside of what's

00:43:29.340 really important which is the heart of god and following in his will yeah what's what's going on here

00:43:34.900 is something you should assess because the gal who was next to you had a criticism and she's a

00:43:40.400 christian her criticism was about essentially uh falling short of the glory of god is one of the

00:43:47.060 criticisms she has of the show and yet what i'm hearing from you is actually piety signaling this

00:43:51.780 is piety signaling saying it's so over the top ridiculous to make the claim that you have no

00:43:58.540 personal preferences i don't even know where to begin do you like pepperoni on your pizza

00:44:03.020 i actually don't like pepperoni at all great was that did you were you informed of that by a vision

00:44:09.160 from god god made my taste buds so apparently not my not my vision though no just naturally

00:44:15.260 wait wait so your taste buds informed you yeah okay got you so when you are attracted to a person

00:44:24.200 how do you know that that's god telling you that you're attracted to him or if it's you telling

00:44:29.600 you that you're attracted to him because of your own personal preferences right that's that's a

00:44:34.180 really good question so i actually this is one of my prayers you know and i'm just going to be bold

00:44:39.600 and say it one of my prayers is god i surrender my attractions to you and i'll tell you when i first

00:44:43.800 started praying that the way i was attracted to people changed prior to that prior i started surrendering

00:44:51.700 to god i was attracted to like guys that were just not healthy for me and it was also because i

00:44:57.400 wasn't healed the more god heals you the more you're attracted to healthy yeah so did you yield

00:45:05.460 over your taste buds to god as well yes okay so god doesn't want you to eat pepperoni

00:45:11.740 apparently not it doesn't taste good that doesn't sound slightly ridiculous to you

00:45:18.320 no no it's not at all so you yielded your taste buds over to god yes god doesn't want you to eat

00:45:26.820 pepperoni right right if that's not your taste buds that's god doesn't want you to eat pepperoni

00:45:32.100 yeah i'm sure i think god works in everything every little thing yeah like your desires your emotions

00:45:38.120 yeah okay yeah we can come back to this otherwise we're gonna we're gonna bog the panel down with it

00:45:45.240 but what you're saying is ridiculous and i can demonstrate to you why is brian gone we got a few

00:45:51.020 minutes then okay great so the the question becomes right you you are supposed to have your grounding

00:45:58.600 and biblical belief i'm guessing you're some kind of protestant right what kind of denomination aren't

00:46:03.580 you i would say if i had to pick one non-denominational but i believe in both the old and new testament so

00:46:09.420 everything yes non-denominational yes i have a relationship with god yeah so this makes you the

00:46:16.080 interpreter right you're the interpreter of the bible an interpreter would you mind elaborating on

00:46:22.340 that yeah how do you know what you're reading in the bible is true the holy spirit leads me and gives

00:46:27.220 me revelation of wisdom now let's assume for a second somebody's next to you who also claims they

00:46:32.840 have the holy spirit inside of them and that's how they get revelation and you have a disagreement how

00:46:37.400 do you know which one of you is right oh i love i love this i love your question so of course that's

00:46:43.680 happened and and i've had you know conversations that got heated but also like god's really worked

00:46:49.320 in me and and it's okay to disagree you know some people don't agree well it's not okay to disagree

00:46:55.320 only one thing can be right two things can't be right two interpretations can't be right only one can

00:47:01.840 be right how do you know which one's right so so if you're talking about conviction conviction is

00:47:06.640 different than everybody for example i got convicted personally i can't drink at all because if i do

00:47:10.780 i won't just drink one that's my own conviction on drinking another christian could drink a shot

00:47:16.680 and they're done and god they don't feel any conviction from god so conviction that's not

00:47:21.220 answering my question my question again is that if somebody's next to you if the gal who's sitting next

00:47:26.320 to you right now yeah claims that she has a vision from god and interprets a text alternative to how you

00:47:31.980 interpret the text how do you know you're right

00:47:33.880 honestly i wouldn't ask that question i would hear her out and then i would i would ask god i'm

00:47:41.880 like god why did she tell me that are you trying to tell me something it's i think it's to make sure

00:47:47.420 that pride doesn't enter your heart especially as a believer this does not answer the question i'm glad

00:47:51.640 that you would say that how would you know you were right because i trust that god will let me know

00:47:56.980 and that god is always going to so you're always going to be the one who's right then

00:48:01.500 because god's always going to tell you so if somebody if somebody else says that they have

00:48:05.740 the power of the holy spirit inside of them they've experienced the same revelation that you have

00:48:09.860 okay and then whatever it is that you think god says to you you're the interpreter you're going to have

00:48:17.260 the correct interpretation no matter what aren't you for my life for for me i it's not my job to worry

00:48:25.640 about everyone else that's god's job it's my job to control what i can control and what he tells me

00:48:30.980 that's i thought your job was to make disciples of the nation yes and love okay well then you do

00:48:36.740 have to worry about what your neighbor is doing and what everybody else is doing too if you want

00:48:40.420 to make disciples out of them don't you right without judgment but to exhibit the forgiveness

00:48:44.760 and grace of christ which is what she was trying to say earlier and you and you can do those things

00:48:49.020 you're not they're not exclusive to each other right it's a or exclusionary to each other so that

00:48:53.720 the question becomes again how do you know that you're giving them the right interpretation

00:48:57.360 other than because you think so just keep seeking the lord and he'll reveal it that's all i know

00:49:03.720 and what if they reveal it he reveals to somebody else that your interpretation is wrong how do you

00:49:08.860 know you're right honestly it's just it's faith it all boils down to faith faith on the things that

00:49:15.880 are not seen but hoped for that's the definition of faith i just want to let you know that by

00:49:21.020 by this example you're essentially saying that you're the ultimate arbiter of god's word

00:49:25.920 you personally you are the ultimate arbiter of god's word well you have to be because anybody else

00:49:32.260 who has any sort of different revelation than you do about the scripture that you read which is

00:49:36.440 alternative to it you're going to believe your interpretation this means you think that you

00:49:41.000 are the ultimate arbiter of god's word so i have spiritual mothers and fathers from my church that

00:49:47.640 they they mentor me so i don't know everything of course like i'm still going to grow there's so

00:49:52.560 much wisdom that i don't know so i'm not saying that i know everything but i know enough for today

00:49:57.400 that's why god says he gives us our daily bread so someone else's revelation on something could be

00:50:04.380 different than mine but god knows what we need and like you were saying he comes to us where we're at

00:50:08.940 so i'm not saying that i'm jesus i follow jesus i'm a servant of christ but i am not him

00:50:15.080 and if one of those spiritual mothers or fathers inside of your church has a different spiritual

00:50:20.780 revelation than you do when they're interpreting text yeah how do you know that yours or theirs is

00:50:26.400 right we have faith and if you seek god the bible says if you seek god you will find him period that's

00:50:32.720 the answer hold on it takes faith uh so everybody's a 10 amen come on everyone's a 10 i don't know if

00:50:41.960 you actually answered did you ever answer my question about the brad pitt versus no joe biden

00:50:47.420 thing you said if they're both everybody equally attractive just be honest that's like an answer

00:50:54.240 from god then right like whoever you're attracted to like whatever she's not she doesn't feel any

00:50:59.280 physical attraction so i'm asking for anybody because god everybody's equally attractive in her eye

00:51:04.080 everyone's attraction works differently i think we need to note that you said everybody's a 10

00:51:09.120 right yeah because we're all made in the image of god i truly believe that i truly believe that

00:51:15.400 that's my heart yeah

00:51:16.920 but it's like the same way that you know that you don't like pepperoni you would know if you don't

00:51:25.480 like joe biden and you do like donald trump or whatever the comparison he did was so you do have

00:51:30.500 an answer in your head you're just not speaking it would you date somebody who's obese morbidly obese

00:51:35.180 i have before you have before do you would you prefer to date someone who's in good physical

00:51:40.720 health versus who has a fit body versus somebody who's morbidly obese you have no leaning

00:51:47.660 if you're talking about health-wise since our body's a temple yes of course it would

00:51:53.680 you know be probably in a sense a wiser choice if because if someone's actively taking care of

00:52:00.520 themselves but also someone could also be obese and still be taking care of themselves it could be a

00:52:04.680 health condition that they have so you know that's a very open-ended question but i'll just say

00:52:09.360 i've like i said i've been attracted to skinny and and obese so you're saying i mean we're so

00:52:15.120 getting off the rails here but you're saying that somebody could be morbidly obese but be in good

00:52:21.020 health i've i've met some people that conditions and they worked out by virtue of being morbidly obese

00:52:26.880 you are almost definitely you you are not in good health that is a help being morbidly obese is not

00:52:34.640 healthy healthy people on noah's ark to like right like the strong certain animals certain things

00:52:40.100 wouldn't god want you to date a healthy person not an obese person for yourself yes so you think

00:52:45.580 yeah i see what you're saying so um basically i've met a couple people with conditions and they would

00:52:50.680 work out every day they ate actually healthier than me but they were still big because of the conditions

00:52:54.840 they had medically so that's what i'm referring to there's a difference between like someone

00:52:59.520 you know eating a lot and getting you know obese because of their diet strictly and they don't care

00:53:05.100 about their body and there's a difference between someone having a condition and then being obese

00:53:09.060 because and they're doing everything in their power to help themselves and their weight so why would god

00:53:13.700 put a good person in bad health do you think that's okay that's that's a whole thing that's a whole

00:53:19.660 hang on hang on maybe let me try this from a slightly different angle from from your perspective

00:53:25.600 the best that i can i think there's assume for a second that you have preferences but through faith

00:53:31.080 you're able to ignore some of those preferences for maybe things you think are great or good like

00:53:36.700 virtue or personality or things like that right would that be more accurate to say yes i'm definitely

00:53:43.840 attracted to the personality the way someone speaks to me the way their heart is because that's part of

00:53:48.700 their soul yes gotcha okay so you're able to ignore possibly some of the alternative

00:53:54.160 donated one hundred dollars only andrew can take a one to ten rating question and turn it into

00:54:00.500 dressing down all of this woman's beliefs imagine if you had just said a number then thousands of pp

00:54:06.680 wouldn't be questioning your faith rn anyway anyway well i'm not i'm not questioning her faith

00:54:13.240 to be fair uh at all that's not the intent but we're gonna have theological disputes that's gonna

00:54:19.920 happen so yeah but that but that aside uh grid one motorsports donated one hundred dollars god gave

00:54:28.240 you free will for a reason and you seem to be completely ignorant of not only his holy word but

00:54:33.940 also your place in the world you need a new church and you need to take accountability in life

00:54:39.960 so um so back to this if you're able to ignore physical preferences that you might ordinarily have

00:54:49.460 for these other things i think that that's fine and that's a fair argument yeah but you would still

00:54:55.800 admit that you do have some physical preferences well i definitely like feel attraction you know after

00:55:03.900 i like someone's personality i'm like oh wow like your hair is nice your skin's nice yes

00:55:07.720 right that's not the initial i guess i guess if we're just judging on rating just asking you take

00:55:13.180 the preferences for what you would consider physical attraction and only that um and give us the

00:55:20.060 rating that way rather than the alternative of trying to mix the holistic of a person in while i can

00:55:26.600 understand that in some cases a person's personality may make them more or less attractive to you

00:55:31.540 you can also include that metric for yourself in a self-rating system so you can say how attractive

00:55:36.920 you think you are and base all of that on a holistic as well like she was saying beauty is in the eye

00:55:43.520 of beholder everyone's going to think differently and have a different view you're the beholder right

00:55:48.180 now that's why we're asking you what you think about you yeah i gave you my answer and yes okay

00:55:56.620 okay so you're a 10

00:55:59.940 okay i will abstain from rating myself you're gonna abstain why um or you could just engage with the

00:56:12.960 conversation and just answer the question yeah i'm i'm not gonna rate myself i think it's a worldly

00:56:18.720 question and um i agree that it's kind of putting me back in a place where i was beforehand

00:56:25.480 and what place was that like before christ you know when i was um you know doing you know work

00:56:32.660 like olean fans and everything was about my looks and attractiveness and all those things so um

00:56:40.900 yeah i'll abstain thank you okay so

00:56:43.760 you don't care about looks at all in a partner because you refused your are you abstaining because

00:56:50.840 you have an answer to the question but you don't want to share it yeah that's correct oh so well

00:56:56.360 why would you so you do have a self-assessment yes i do oh well why not just share it then

00:57:04.440 because i don't want to

00:57:07.300 okay um do you care about looks in the partner

00:57:17.820 i will abstain from answering bro you've asked to come on a dating podcast why would you abstain from

00:57:26.560 answering such a basic question i'd be happy to answer like other questions i'm comfortable with

00:57:31.340 why would you be uncomfortable answering

00:57:33.560 if you care about physical appearance in a partner i don't know i don't understand at all

00:57:42.660 i'll give you the if you don't want to rate yourself that's fine but

00:57:48.120 you can't even state whether you care about physical attractiveness or not

00:57:54.480 um yeah i just would rather not answer the question i think there's been some

00:58:01.320 other women on here who abstain to answer as well for their personal reasons and i have mine

00:58:06.460 well i don't know one who has abstained from answering whether or not they have a preference of

00:58:11.300 being physically attracted to somebody else i'm not sure i've ever heard that abstain from never

00:58:16.680 heard like brian's like brian says uh it seems perfectly reasonable if you want to abstain from

00:58:21.560 answering that question about yourself uh but i can't actually figure out a single reason why you'd

00:58:28.280 want to abstain from answering whether or not you just physical attraction is something which is

00:58:33.020 important to you or not important to you in a relationship that makes no sense to me

00:58:36.480 i ditto i don't understand um yeah and i'll give my reason for that um which is that you know i'm here

00:58:45.360 to be an ambassador of christ and i don't think i have it you know all in terms of like i'm not a

00:58:52.040 perfect person and i want to make sure that i'm not displaying anything incorrectly so anything that

00:58:57.000 i don't know um in terms of you know whether this is a good way to we're not we're not asking you

00:59:05.500 if this is a perfect person and we're not saying that christians believe that they're perfect people

00:59:10.680 for that's absurd just asking you like like this do you like pickles on your hamburger

00:59:16.560 yeah okay great why are you able to answer that question but not whether or not physical

00:59:22.980 attractiveness is important to you i don't understand because pickles and a hamburger

00:59:27.300 is i mean that's food and we're talking about people and yeah i know well we're just talking

00:59:32.320 about preferences i want to be very careful because you know i think things like physical attractiveness

00:59:37.500 matters in this world um it in negative ways and positive ways and i just want to make sure that

00:59:46.100 i'm not answering really like any questions

00:59:49.220 hey well hang on but i don't i don't understand it's just a preference answer we're just asking

00:59:59.080 for a preference is do you have a preference uh where in other words do you have any kind of

01:00:06.980 preference at all in the opposite sex for attractiveness if you're going to date them

01:00:12.820 or marry them or something like this that is not even a worldly answer that just seems like it's

01:00:17.760 common sense yeah so i i do um i have an answer to this question but um and i'm i don't mind um giving

01:00:27.820 this answer to people close to me um that's not on live stream um i'm even more inclined to not

01:00:34.120 answer because i feel there's a lot of pushback for me just not wanting to answer a question because

01:00:38.920 well it sounds very prideful it's not from my perspective it sounds like you're being very

01:00:43.360 prideful and doing everything that you can in order to piety signal from a basic question like

01:00:49.640 this and now that you understand that it's absurd that you're not answering the pride is that you're

01:00:54.380 doubling down so maybe just uh why not just not be so prideful and just say hey of course i i have

01:01:00.520 some kind of physical preference for a person i would date that seems totally reasonable i don't even

01:01:05.500 know how that could hurt a single soul on planet earth for you to say that i honestly can't yeah

01:01:11.660 so you're accusing me of a very serious sin no no no actually address his question yeah um well no i'm

01:01:19.900 i want to address what he said which is that you know you're saying that i'm very prideful and no i'm

01:01:24.940 saying you're being very prideful right now brian's roth donated 100 these are the most surface level

01:01:31.880 beginner questions too don't tell us you're going to refrain from answering this but later tell us

01:01:37.840 your favorite sex position is upside down pile driver

01:01:41.380 i'm not saying i'm not saying you're a prideful person i'm not making any such accusation at all

01:01:51.560 just saying that right now it seems like the only reason you're being resistant to this to just

01:01:56.480 answering this basic question is because you understand now that it's kind of absurd that

01:02:00.840 you won't and you're doubling down and i don't know what pride is other than that unless you can

01:02:05.140 give me an actual reason a foundational reason either biblical or non-biblical even from a secular

01:02:11.880 prism i'll accept that for why it would possibly be that you would say that you you do or don't have

01:02:17.700 preferences when it comes to physical attractiveness in a relationship that just seems absurd to me

01:02:22.440 cost times donated 107 dollars omg the non-answer so annoying brian andrew please help good night

01:02:34.400 married guy out hey good night married guy have a good night thank you appreciate it uh

01:02:41.380 you two on this question have ate up like 30 minutes of the show you could just like

01:02:49.660 i don't know in what scenario someone who's religious someone who's secular would ever judge

01:02:58.100 you for saying that for you that you care about someone's physical appearance because you have an

01:03:07.980 answer to it you said you had an answer to it you just don't want to reveal it on the podcast

01:03:14.040 um okay so sorry what did you okay so i um i feel very uncomfortable with the fact that you guys are

01:03:26.600 really pushing me to answer a question i've already said that i'm not comfortable answering

01:03:30.420 um there's just some questions i'm sorry that that your comfort level is put in the realm of

01:03:36.600 discomfort but i'm not here to make you comfortable that's not what my purpose is my purpose instead

01:03:42.400 is to dive into your worldview and figure out if uh you know what what what's what what's going on

01:03:49.140 up there as far as an interpersonal how you view interpersonal relationships that's the point of the

01:03:54.020 podcast not to make you comfortable so the question still remains i don't actually understand why you

01:04:00.440 won't answer the question and i wish that you would give us a reason for that i already gave my reason

01:04:06.360 for that and i um because i don't want to i think i think i think you're trying to try a reason

01:04:12.160 grid one motorsports donated one hundred dollars you can be honest you were not expecting the smoke

01:04:18.560 and you do not want any more i will be nice if you are going to be genuine do not worry the

01:04:24.800 patriarchy is here for you and values your existence we have another one coming in in just a moment so i'm

01:04:31.520 going to preempt it um it should be here in just a few seconds it might get uh it might not actually

01:04:40.360 read loose pussy energy donated one hundred dollars fucking cap these religious nut job three hundred and

01:04:49.440 fours cannot stop capping get the fuck out with that bullshit answer or get the fuck out time to frank

01:04:56.860 castle this is sparta hashtag get the rocks hashtag phrenic number eight at eighteen

01:05:04.560 so do you want to give we're not going to push back really any further but do you at least kind

01:05:13.440 of want to explain your refusal like why you're refusing to answer a fairly basic question um i already

01:05:19.740 answered the question earlier and anytime i speak um andrew you know is interrupting me so i can't even

01:05:26.520 get out an answer okay so um i'll i'll just um so i i will you know i'm just gonna leave it there

01:05:36.040 i'm not comfortable answering the questions i will this question and i will not answer further can you

01:05:42.320 tell us that's fine if you don't want to answer the question but can you tell us why

01:05:45.780 i want to make sure that the questions i'm answering are glorifying to god and if there's any doubt in my

01:05:55.320 mind that is not glorifying to god i will abstain from answering okay that is my answer and i i explained

01:06:03.340 this earlier but i think that in some sense um andrew is trying to squeeze out another answer from me

01:06:08.760 and i'm not gonna give a you know any other answer than that okay um you're not gonna give

01:06:18.280 any answers that are not glorifying i just want to note i didn't interrupt you i'll let you let you

01:06:25.420 give your entire answer right for why you won't give an answer i'm sorry can you repeat that oh my god

01:06:32.000 i just want to let you know i didn't interrupt you i gave you all the chance in the world to give your

01:06:36.900 answer just now and i didn't say a word i think i'm a solid five okay yeah i'm gonna make this easy

01:06:45.060 for you guys and i would say i'm a solid eight yeah i would say i'm a five okay okay uh so 9.5

01:06:55.280 9.8 7.5 10 10 8 uh

01:07:00.980 okay first off there's no 10s at the table let me get that out of the way

01:07:08.320 uh and also the 9.5 is 9.8 sorry you guys are also wrong sorry i'm not i'm not even offended at

01:07:18.280 all it's your opinion i don't care i have mine oh we didn't rate ourselves andrew should we rate

01:07:22.200 ourselves or should we abstain or should we abstain from answering the question i'm not saying i'm a

01:07:28.840 four would be glorifying to god i give myself a five i'm a five what are you andrew four okay i'd say

01:07:36.240 that's true oh wow okay she's got smoke for you uh no no i i totally agree just like i agree with

01:07:43.020 brian that in the world that you're a 10 is the same world that clowns are in the government so

01:07:47.660 well wait maybe that is this world i don't know oh there you have it there you have it

01:07:53.000 maybe that is this world um okay where were i'm trying oh we were talking about everyone's

01:07:58.020 relationship status so what's going on oh we're going around uh okay so i'll do this why did

01:08:04.100 your boyfriend break up with you your last relationship yes um it was mutual i can't say

01:08:11.300 who walked away from who but um i think it's obviously he had to do something with um

01:08:15.600 that i started making a lot of money through only fans and um that does make me a little bit

01:08:23.020 more dominating he was not as ambitious as me and i kind of um wanted him to get up and like

01:08:28.580 you know match my energy and um he wasn't you know stimulating my mind and i kind of just got

01:08:35.960 bored i kind of grew out of it it was like i pushed him to like be better and he wasn't listening

01:08:39.900 um but i still like love respect him um so i think it just probably had to do with that we just grew

01:08:45.100 apart because our lives kind of changed and he wasn't moving and i was moving forward what was he doing

01:08:49.640 for work um well i met him as a trainer like a fitness trainer and i told him like okay let's

01:08:56.680 think about a business for you and wait you were the trainer or he was no he was he he was a personal

01:09:02.100 trainer was he working full time um when i first met him correct yes okay and um i was kind of like

01:09:09.620 all right i think that we should just kind of like invest our time into figuring out a business for you

01:09:13.260 like we're together like let's do it was he content continuing doing the career that he was doing

01:09:19.260 when you met him which was personal training i mean i i feel like he was miserable you know he

01:09:24.720 was waking up was he he was he was waking very early and just saying that he wanted out but um

01:09:29.720 and i was you know giving him as much advice as i can and you know i essentially pulled him out of his

01:09:35.800 job and said okay i have i have the household down just let's he was miserable because of his job

01:09:42.020 well you know waking up early not getting enough pay putting a lot of effort not reaching goals

01:09:46.020 because of whatever it was you know logan daily donated 99 and 50 cents i understand that you

01:09:55.300 want to do your best and glorify god however it's coming off as piety signaling i hope you too will

01:10:01.580 continue to search for christ and come home to orthodoxy big t says hi thank you logan appreciate it

01:10:09.260 uh okay but so you do uh so you were when you met him significantly out earning him correct um i start

01:10:18.180 i began to yes like with some time i started making more money how many followers do you have on

01:10:23.140 instagram 5.7 million okay and you do only fans correct yes okay you make six figures a month yes

01:10:32.220 okay how old was he um when i first started dating him 27 were you hoping that he would make as much

01:10:42.620 as you or more no because i mean realistically speaking it's impossible making six figures a

01:10:48.200 month puts you in less than the one percent correct i was just okay so most men are not going to be

01:10:54.700 the vast majority 99 of men are not going to be able to match you financially and that's fine i never

01:10:59.740 needed him to um but you it was an issue for you in the relationship that he wasn't it was an issue

01:11:04.920 that he would wake up at 2 p.m when i gave him all the business ideas and said i can invest into you

01:11:09.440 and as long as you put the work in i'm okay with you know following your dream and it wasn't like he

01:11:15.680 wasn't he just was worrying about the wrong things or you know it was just he wasn't putting the effort

01:11:21.860 towards you know wanting more for himself wow we donated 100 has she never seen

01:11:29.720 this podcast like why go on here if you refuse to answer the most innocent questions they ask

01:11:36.380 i'm answering the other questions any questions i'm not comfortable answering i'm not going to answer

01:11:43.560 and i'm not going to let peer pressure um force me to give an answer that i'm not can i say something

01:11:49.700 to that i do think that this is the beginning of the show and if that just simple question made you

01:11:54.480 uncomfortable i think it's going to get a lot more intense and it's going to take up a lot of time

01:11:57.500 and if you're that sensitive i think that you should be considerate and just kind of just

01:12:01.200 just say a short answer can you just skip me and go forward because there's a lot of people on the

01:12:05.320 table and i mean it could just make a lot of people uncomfortable you know what i mean and it's it's i i get

01:12:10.980 what you believe in and everything but it's like it's it's just it's going on and on and on and you're

01:12:16.500 here on a podcast you're here to speak let other people speak just tell them skip the night to the next

01:12:20.360 person it's just what it's manners it's if you see read the room you see people getting frustrated

01:12:25.040 like read the room correctly yeah you know and i and i i i'm so for like you voicing yourself but

01:12:31.600 just read the room and understand when it's not it's time to just skip over the question because

01:12:35.940 that's yeah how she how she ever going to get all the attention that she wants if uh we're focusing

01:12:40.340 too much on you right um exactly well you keep asking us questions yeah you keep asking us questions

01:12:46.260 asking us questions and we're just responding my answer was very simple i don't want to answer and it

01:12:51.540 was supposed to go to the next person like if there's a bunch of sophistry like

01:12:56.280 just don't answer it's almost like i'm trying to think of an example of a question that i could ask

01:13:04.540 you that you might opt to reject answering and then well then that inspires and then in us

01:13:12.100 wanting to dive into well why the objection to answering an otherwise innocent question i will i think

01:13:20.040 it's respectful because to just move on because i gave my answer and instead of respecting the

01:13:25.260 answer and saying okay she's uncomfortable let's just move on to the next person i'm being grilled

01:13:29.540 and peer pressured into answering well okay let me let me ask you a question or let me frame it like

01:13:35.020 this so what are you only here to represent the christian worldview if it's comfortable because now

01:13:41.280 you have people who are adversarial to your left it looks like from my perspective right so your job

01:13:48.780 is to push back right isn't that your job that's not my job no it's not your job

01:13:54.380 our job is to encourage and not convince we're it's not our job to convince you guys that god does

01:14:01.780 that we're just telling our stories and giving our answers cool so oh we got this uh to the godly

01:14:08.980 woman take no advice from only fans uh blank dumpsters christ is king okay all right uh

01:14:17.720 and that's the kind of stuff i'm talking about like we don't say that to other people and then

01:14:22.120 say christ is king christ is not okay with that kind of behavior yeah that's not godly and on top of

01:14:28.260 that i if i'm not comfortable answering a question i'm sorry but we could have just left it there and so

01:14:32.420 i'm sorry if you felt like wait so question for you is why are you sorry it's not your job to convince

01:14:41.160 her is is the sky blue the sky can be different colors yeah it's when it's the daytime when it's

01:14:51.400 3 p.m in southern california and there's no clouds is the sky blue yeah okay now if you said well i don't

01:15:01.020 feel comfortable answering that question that might prompt me to be like well that's a bit ridiculous

01:15:07.100 why do you refuse to answer such a basic wow i donated 100 you didn't answer my question though

01:15:16.140 have you seen this podcast before what was your purpose coming on if you don't have an answer

01:15:22.020 yeah that's a good question i have seen this podcast before and there's a lot of questions that

01:15:26.880 are appropriate and that i'm comfortable answering and there's other questions like

01:15:30.900 what's your body count that i'm not comfortable answering and i'm not going to be peer pressured

01:15:34.440 into answering something i'm not comfortable talking about i understand brian what you're

01:15:39.000 saying oops sorry i didn't mean to go ahead that was my that was me triggering that on accident

01:15:43.280 um i understand what you're saying that you know if this is this seems like such a basic question to

01:15:48.640 you so why would i you know want to refrain from answering but i gave my answer i gave my answer

01:15:55.360 you can look back in the video and um and then after that i just kept getting um questioned and

01:16:03.400 straw manned by andrew sounds like a lot of work okay uh we're talking about relationships uh

01:16:11.040 why did your last boyfriend dump you he didn't oh you you broke up with him i did okay what about you

01:16:19.780 um i broke up with him yeah

01:16:23.820 is it because he didn't think he was a 10 out of 10 i'll just be really raw with you you're probably

01:16:32.680 going to be shocked i'll be very raw be raw i'm very raw here we go let's let's go um long story short

01:16:40.420 i met him he said he was a believer turns out he was a warlock in hiding and i found out

01:16:48.180 like legit warlock i don't say that like yes who warlock yeah i'm being serious yeah like a level 60

01:16:55.980 warlock was the alliance or horde what do you mean by warlock like did he was it like the alliance or

01:17:01.100 the horde horde yeah i've never heard those words before but i'm assuming yeah like he actually

01:17:06.660 did spells like on the horde side like yes yeah on the horde side he would be either undead

01:17:13.620 or troll or orc he was but alliance side he could be human or he could be known no i get what she's

01:17:21.360 saying so he's like level 60 like was he what spec was he he was in the santa muerta religion the

01:17:27.060 what santa muerta it's like a hispanic witchcraft yeah and then slowly like was he a pumper in

01:17:35.000 nax ramus i'm sorry uh he's making wait i'm sorry that's that was catholic right hold on that's a

01:17:41.120 catholic so he had he had the mixture of the catholicism with his witchcraft yes yes yeah so

01:17:46.580 he was a pumper in nax ramus like 99 parses and shit i don't know what that is i'm sorry

01:17:52.160 like did he i don't know is he more of a pvp guy or pve guy like when he played his warlock

01:17:59.000 i'm sorry i don't know what that means no like you know warcraft logs is that a game like a video

01:18:07.340 well that's a website to track like you know your skill and pv environment like there's molten core

01:18:12.440 bwl nax ramus aq40 like was he a pumper i don't know was he a pumper like did he did he tank

01:18:19.200 like in aq40 did he tank twin emps he okay was he a tank for twin emps you know what aq40 the only

01:18:28.080 thing i can say about that is he literally was in gangs though he told me that later on in the

01:18:32.260 relationship was he like affliction spec or did he like spec into destruction

01:18:35.700 is he playing season of discovery right now probably

01:18:40.640 sod we've had stay safe on the show before he's like he mains warlocks all the time so maybe we

01:18:48.840 can like get them linked up like is he is he in a guild or what's up he's he's not in a place for

01:18:53.740 that he's not in a place for that i don't like i haven't talked to him in a while but what's your

01:19:00.060 main like what do you play i'm so glad i'm not dating donated 100 first timothy 2 12 i do not

01:19:07.160 permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man rather she is to remain quiet if you're

01:19:14.040 such a godly woman just close your rock holster we prefer yes sir do you guys want to respond to that

01:19:20.200 no well um look up uh deborah and esther in the bible and i think that'll answer your uh comment

01:19:27.920 thank you okay oh we have let me read this really quick sean bailey claire tell andrew about your cool

01:19:38.460 orthodox friend um that's my orthodox friend oh sean uh okay that's it all right oh hi sean

01:19:49.680 wait so your last boyfriend jokes aside was a warlock yes yeah okay in the what religion

01:20:00.760 santa morte it's basically demonic so it doesn't matter what you call it but he lied to you and

01:20:07.280 said he was christian yeah and and honestly it was it was it was on my end too it was partially my fault

01:20:13.740 because i didn't sense it because i stopped reading scripture and praying and i i became very like

01:20:18.340 obsessed with him you know and that's why like i'm in a season of singleness right now because like

01:20:22.800 we are just obsessed with each other each other i get all into the guy and then i stop focusing on

01:20:27.340 god so that's my personal story and journey um but here's the turnaround i just want to say yeah

01:20:33.300 um the turnaround of that last month he messaged me after a couple months we didn't talk and he said

01:20:40.220 this is what he said and i believe it because i felt it in the in his voice because we facetimed and

01:20:44.940 he said hey i just i know we're not together i just want to let you know that um i started praying

01:20:50.320 and i had an encounter with god and um someone who used to be a gang member just like me um he

01:20:55.660 actually spoke into my life and he's a christian now and that really convicted me so there's a good

01:20:59.740 turnaround to that but at first yeah that it was terrible because he tried to do all these spells on

01:21:04.980 me like it was a whole thing and um it was really scary but god yeah

01:21:10.400 word okay yep so he's christian now he said so yeah or is it just a ploy to get you back and he's

01:21:26.540 still actually a warlock

01:21:27.840 he's probably still a warlock because he lied to you the first time right yes does he wear like

01:21:34.940 was he dress gothic type he had like he would always wear like a white t-shirt and like jeans

01:21:40.700 and like white tennis shoes and had his hair in a ponytail and a hat wait did you guys have

01:21:46.980 no carnal what's the how's the most polite phrasing carnal did you have carnal knowledge

01:21:56.980 did you guys have carnal knowledge of each other like did we were we sexually intimate

01:22:04.180 p in the v you know i love that you just comment on that i've actually been celibate since last may

01:22:10.420 yep so no yes that's awesome i'm proud of you cheyenne i'm proud of you thank you because it's

01:22:20.680 it was hard it was hard to turn down the warlock i bet it was like he sounds like i mean you guys

01:22:28.960 differed like in your in your like you guys differed in that regard but i feel like once you meet a

01:22:36.140 warlock like how do you turn that down i'm still healing from it

01:22:39.260 so there's no carnal knowledge i need to start using that carnal knowledge

01:22:48.980 by the way has anybody here i i want to do a show recommendation the tutors it's a bit dated

01:22:57.780 guys it came out like 2007 2008 the tutors it's a bit slow compared to uh some more modern shows

01:23:06.040 if you compare it to breaking bad etc moves a little slow but uh the main actor jonathan reese myers is

01:23:13.200 is a powerhouse of an actor and i strongly recommend watching uh that show but i have

01:23:20.080 from that show i've gained a new a new term carnal knowledge

01:23:24.320 thank you for the uh 50 thank you appreciate it man um we have a couple chats coming in but so there

01:23:34.680 was no carnal knowledge with the warlock as in was i tempted sexually like no like you had p in the v

01:23:41.580 no sexual and of course nope okay was there s-ing the d

01:23:47.500 what is that i'm sorry cheyenne matthews i'm surprised i don't know that but no i don't know

01:23:55.380 how do you not know this i don't know okay no i didn't do that no no s-ing the d okay i'm proud of

01:24:01.360 you i'm proud of you you gotta be careful with the warlocks because sometimes you know

01:24:09.360 anyways yeah uh let me read these chats really quick

01:24:14.480 what is everyone's favorite movie including maddie andrew and gustavo please okay go ahead

01:24:22.480 star wars casino oh good i like that's a good movie butterfly effect that's a good one too

01:24:30.640 girl beyond the lights life of pie are you sure you're okay are you sure let me just double

01:24:38.240 i want to check here let's do a little check-in are you comfortable answering this question

01:24:43.920 okay go ahead hacksaw ridge oh okay that's that's a good one uh coralline oh super bad

01:24:53.760 the fault in our stars you guys back here

01:25:03.760 were you jamaican

01:25:07.760 bloody and blood out

01:25:08.880 the fuck i thought this guy was chilean okay um boom book lot okay

01:25:20.560 am i am i not allowed to say that is that no i love it that's a curse word i just love it means

01:25:24.160 fuck it's bad yeah yeah all day sorry like probably the widest person to ever say that word

01:25:31.360 wait what oh mine my favorite that's hard i like the matrix matrix is good

01:25:35.920 hell yeah that's good it's a great one and i like uh

01:25:39.200 shit andrew what about you starship troopers really yeah service guarantee citizenship

01:25:49.760 oh okay all right and then we have nickelodeon here what's the difference between a hard d

01:25:57.120 and a hard joke these holy hoes only find it hard to swallow the joke

01:26:02.400 what

01:26:05.680 sweet thank you nickelodeon good one let me read this one really quick

01:26:14.560 andrew can you read this one can you see this

01:26:16.960 i can see it yeah it says help me here andrew how do we change society when we have cell phones

01:26:22.160 computers and instant gratification around every corner if we don't judge them and show them the

01:26:26.560 fall of their degeneracy for the short-lived happiness just love it away why would you ask

01:26:31.600 me that question does it seem like i'm uh loving it away or does it seem like i try to uh take people

01:26:37.520 on where they're at though he makes a good point he's talking about how technology has enabled the

01:26:42.880 sexual revolution feminism which has led to the current form of degeneracy but i digress i'm not

01:26:47.760 going to die too much into that appreciate the 50 bucks thank you thank you so going around the table

01:26:52.800 continuing uh why did your boyfriend last boyfriend dump you um yeah i broke up with him because um

01:27:02.240 you know this was before christ and we um was he a druid he was he actually did play well

01:27:09.120 shaman um he was a mage main he played mage yeah typically typical anyways you would date a mage

01:27:20.000 life on easy mode being a mage get those portals like to orgrimmar and was he horde or alliance horde

01:27:28.080 yeah aoe farming like life on easy mode anyways so why did you dump him or whatever it's because he was a

01:27:35.840 major no um um just because i think there was a lot of emotional cheating that was going on

01:27:45.840 and emotional cheating yeah and then he had an issue with me being like doing like only fans content

01:27:52.720 and at the time i couldn't see that i'm like well who cares like you know like why does that matter

01:27:58.720 if you know i'm not the one doing anything and i couldn't see that hypocrisy so while in the

01:28:05.280 meantime i was upset with him for following only fans girls and it was just this ridiculous like

01:28:11.040 back and forth and we just couldn't come to a conclusion until um you know i came to christ and

01:28:17.440 i realized like oh my gosh like i was wrong we were both wrong and i reached out to him and reconciled and

01:28:23.200 asked for his forgiveness this is i have a question that's totally unrelated and i forgot if it was

01:28:29.680 cheyenne is it how do you say sheyenne but did you say that we're made in the image of god

01:28:37.760 i'm clear no i know but i forgot which one of you said but did you say that me but do you agree with

01:28:44.160 her that we're made in the yeah okay i have a question for you and it's maybe semi-related to the

01:28:54.160 question you refuse to answer but i noticed that you're wearing color contacts um

01:29:00.960 i don't know biblically if there's anything there when it comes to altering your appearance but

01:29:09.440 you know what i mean you know what i mean what is your question well he's why he's wondering if

01:29:16.640 you if you wear the contact lenses because you think it makes you look better than if you wear glasses

01:29:21.440 um yeah i wear contacts because i think i look better in it than i do glasses that's like a half

01:29:28.880 answer to the previous question wait but it oh go ahead is it coming full circle brian is it coming full

01:29:38.800 circle yeah a little bit what am i on to something here i feel like i'm on to something with the

01:29:52.080 colored contact contacts but i i don't know how to articulate it well so no he's just he's just

01:29:59.440 wondering like clearly clearly you have some some sort of self-rating for how it is that you must look

01:30:09.680 and appear to other people because you yourself think you look better with the contacts than without

01:30:14.800 the contacts so he's just he's just saying like is that is that a glorification of god that you wear

01:30:21.280 contact lenses instead of glasses um well the the point that i was like making when i was coming on

01:30:30.480 when i was talking earlier about um that whether that question glorifies god is that i wasn't sure

01:30:35.680 if it glorified god so i'm gonna stay on the safe side and not answer that question um i have the answers

01:30:42.320 to these questions but i'm going to abstain and i'm not going to entertain any sort of trying to

01:30:48.000 squeeze out an answer from me well in this particular case though um we're just all i'm

01:30:55.520 doing is asking about consistency so if if it is that i'm not answering question a because it's no

01:31:01.920 glorification of god is there a glorification of god in you answering whether or not you wear

01:31:06.800 contact lenses instead of glasses because you think that it makes other people think you're more

01:31:10.880 attractive in some way um i think the way that i see that is like me wearing the color green right

01:31:19.360 now like is that glorifying to god yeah i can do that to the glory of god how what do you mean how

01:31:27.200 can you elaborate yeah how is it glorifying to god that you wear green because you think it makes

01:31:31.680 you look better i think we have free will and we can choose what color to wear and you know i'm not

01:31:36.880 asking about free will i'm asking about how you think that's my answer to your question is that

01:31:41.840 how is that oh okay well how does free will explain how it glorifies god if you wear green

01:31:48.800 um the bible says to do all things to the glory of god and even eating food so i can even ask you

01:31:54.400 like how is eating food you're just asserting the claim you're just reasserting the claim i already

01:31:59.360 know what the claim is yeah i'm asking you how it does this thing yeah so i'm doing it to the glory

01:32:05.280 of god that we have free will and we can choose what colors to wear what foods to eat that's my

01:32:09.600 answer yeah but how does it glorify god for you to wear green without reasserting the claim that it

01:32:17.360 does because it does tell me how it does free will and our ability to choose and that we're not just

01:32:25.680 robots that wear gray or all you know wearing like black and white so that is my answer well free will

01:32:32.960 would assert that you can wear green even if it was not to the glory of god not that you're wearing

01:32:40.800 green because it is a glorification to him i think we can do all things to the glory of god and that's

01:32:46.640 what scripture says yeah i know i'm asking you how the color you wearing the color green would be a

01:32:52.080 glorification of god i'm so glad i'm not that if donated 100 so you too outwardly appear righteous

01:33:02.640 to men but inwardly you are full of hypocrisy and lawlessness matthew 23 28 stop being self-righteous

01:33:10.400 you make the of hoes seem tolerable yeah well anyway um so back to the reason i'm asking this

01:33:19.440 question i'll just give you i'll just give you the answer right the reason i'm asking this question

01:33:23.920 as to how because i think grid one motorsports donated 100 so i obviously missed something

01:33:31.280 here asian of girl has nudes out on the internet but she refused to rate her potential as a wife

01:33:37.120 wow god would love for you to be honest and genuine do better that's correct i'm gonna refuse to rate

01:33:44.160 my potential wife rate and my looks yeah okay so anyway um thank you just just from my perspective

01:33:53.760 uh and i i do love grid one he's good guy but uh from my perspective i'm just trying to figure out

01:33:59.200 how these things how you came to the conclusion that this equates glorification of god you say because

01:34:06.480 i have free will yes you have free will nobody's disputing that but you can use the free will for

01:34:10.640 evil ends as well the question just becomes how is you not wearing glasses and wearing contacts instead

01:34:17.120 because you think it makes you look more attractive to another person is the glorification of god without

01:34:23.200 us making the assertion another assertion can you just tell me how from your world view it does um

01:34:30.160 i'd be happy to maybe have this conversation with you like separately with another individual but on the

01:34:36.960 podcast like i've already explained that i'm not gonna you know go further with the original question

01:34:42.480 and people have expressed here that they're getting frustrated with this constant back and forth so i won't

01:34:48.320 answer anymore i'm not gonna answer anymore i attest to that it's good yeah who cares they just want

01:34:53.520 they just want their attention right we're having a good exchange here it's not a good exchange

01:34:57.520 no it's not that we want our attention we want to hear everyone's answer yeah yeah yeah yeah

01:35:02.000 i've never thought it's ridiculous we're almost done we're almost done we just want to hear

01:35:06.480 everyone answer the questions everything about them i've been on so many podcasts let's go

01:35:11.040 move on we don't want to hear about your why did your boyfriend i broke up with him and i just it

01:35:16.880 was i just wasn't feeling it anymore you weren't feeling it anymore wow it's so easy right to answer boom boom

01:35:24.160 get it over with what do you mean you weren't feeling i just wasn't feeling love for him and

01:35:28.640 like i just didn't want to be in a relationship anymore okay it was a month it was only a month

01:35:34.160 so it wasn't like i was like you know all right yeah it's easy there you go there you go baby yes

01:35:39.840 good girl she's never been in a relationship oh yeah she's never been in a relationship

01:35:42.880 what about you um we just parted ways and it just started to get physical sorry to get

01:35:52.240 oh oh no after you parted ways um or how well that's why i broke up with him oh oh

01:35:58.800 good for you cut that so like immediately once it got physical you immediately broke up with him

01:36:06.880 okay good good uh it occurs to me oftentimes i hear from women saying well why are men scared

01:36:15.200 of commitment why are men scared of commitment men are commitment phobic but when we went around

01:36:20.960 the table here and i asked you sort of how what what the downfall was of your last relationships

01:36:27.120 almost all of you said that you initiated the breakups and it occurs to me that and perhaps we

01:36:32.240 could go around the table really quickly on this more often than not actually just show of hands

01:36:36.160 more often than not in any scenario where you're and it could be early on like a couple dates and

01:36:42.560 you're saying and not really feeling it all the way to long term been dating for years more often

01:36:47.520 than not are you pumping the brakes and ending things long term or short term or is the guy so so

01:36:54.960 show hands more often than not if you're ending it i'm like really like in the middle it's been

01:37:00.960 like super 50 50 for me it's me absolutely always you i wouldn't have wanted to i would have just

01:37:06.320 wanted to fix it same for all your relationships though more often than not are you ending show of

01:37:12.160 hands if you're ending things more often than not okay so it occurs to me then women often complain

01:37:18.080 like i said of men being scared of commitment but if women are overwhelmingly ending relationships

01:37:24.400 and also we have the divorce statistics women are overwhelmingly initiating divorce do men have

01:37:30.320 reason it's not one i don't even think if it's clear to me that men are scared of commitment

01:37:37.280 but maybe they righteously do have a reason to be scared of it because women overwhelmingly end

01:37:42.400 relationships and then secondly um why is it that you guys so desperately want commitment

01:37:49.840 but then when you get it you guys overwhelmingly end said relationships

01:37:54.720 i don't think there was commitment that's why it was ended i think fear that they're going to leave

01:38:01.360 you wait you so you back out yeah oh okay i think women just want commitment from the right person if

01:38:08.720 it's not the right person they're going to end it no but i'm assuming this is like you got commitment

01:38:13.840 right perhaps not in the short terms one but in the long-term relationships i'm assuming you guys had

01:38:18.880 commitment so you're talking about like long-term relationships or like dating like well i mean

01:38:28.640 i'm speaking more more so with long-term relationships okay yeah

01:38:34.560 what's the crickets gotcha bitch is that okay i didn't checkmate i guess i just wasn't in love the

01:38:42.880 one time that i was in a that long-term relationship we're almost married i just didn't want to i wanted

01:38:48.320 to have that like feeling of love and i and i didn't feel like it was right for him okay because

01:38:53.120 i don't want to be selfish and just be like this is great like we're best friends everything's great

01:38:56.560 but i also want better for him i want him to find that girl that's going to be like absolutely obsessed

01:39:01.360 with him and i didn't want to just like do it because my family loved it and he you know what i mean i

01:39:06.320 wanted him to find that well my long-term relationship it ended because we both just

01:39:12.320 grew apart it just it was we were like roommates at one point it just it was no longer a sexual or

01:39:18.720 romantic thing it was like a roommate vibe dead bedroom yes essentially like having sex once a year

01:39:26.560 whose fault was that both of our fault so he had a like a job in the nightlife working at a nightclub

01:39:34.320 and i was an eight to five graphic designer so we had very opposite hours right i see yeah

01:39:40.800 so we just grew apart interesting all right yeah we'll go so we've gotten a bit of a rundown on all

01:39:45.760 of your most recent relationships and uh how they ended to some degree so going back to the question of

01:39:53.040 what does being single actually mean uh you've got some attractive girls at the table i'm sure there's

01:39:59.280 some guys in the dms or you're dating them or you're having sex behind the nightclub but i don't

01:40:06.960 know um i mean i'm single i'm gonna just you're just gonna what mingle when's the last time when's

01:40:15.360 the last time you were on a date with a guy two weeks ago two weeks ago yeah

01:40:19.840 when's the last time you had carnal knowledge of a man

01:40:29.040 i think this is a really great question i don't even know a great question answer

01:40:32.240 wait truthfully today yes can you please explain the term again what do you mean

01:40:38.000 oh oh fuck okay yeah we had sex today two weeks ago oh today yes you had sex today but the last time

01:40:44.080 you went on a date was two weeks two weeks ago and yeah i had sex okay with the guy you went on

01:40:50.240 a date with two weeks ago

01:40:56.000 all her best friends like i know yeah she does a different guy shut

01:41:01.120 yes it was it was a different guy so you went on a so i'm curious yeah i did not have you ever

01:41:05.840 gone on a date with the guy that you had sex with today no i ain't going on a date today with

01:41:11.120 that guy no no have you ever gone on a date with him yes yes i have okay yeah but you don't count

01:41:18.000 like the first date having sexes oh no i don't count that it was just like we had sex it was great

01:41:26.320 and i was like all right see ya did you was it like you went over there today or you spent the night

01:41:31.680 yesterday type last it was like i spent the night like last week oh he's talking about today this

01:41:38.080 morning yeah no i haven't what oh is it shoot yes manuel ferrara who's that wait hold on famous

01:41:45.840 porn star who the fuck is that guy they all know they know who he is all these guys well you already

01:41:51.840 asked me what i do so like oh so it was for work then yeah why are you trying to tell me or make it

01:41:56.480 sound i thought i thought it was more like it was not a date because you don't you i assume you don't

01:41:59.760 consider that like a date i do not not a date but like let's say it was just a civilian

01:42:08.560 or like let's say it wasn't for work but it was still like a co uh someone also in the industry

01:42:13.920 like a one-night stand you guys do you guys off camera you mean you guys like i don't do off camera

01:42:18.480 on camera off camera that's what you mean if i have off camera sex i'm actually going on a date with the

01:42:23.600 guy like if they want to go on a date which sometimes they do and i'm just like all right

01:42:29.040 cool well this is what i do how many um scenes do you do per week i'm not mainstream so i don't really

01:42:36.640 do like okay that many when i travel for work that's when i'm doing scenes like yeah but i'm collabing

01:42:44.160 so okay probably like if i'm out here for like one week i'll do five five scenes with different different

01:42:52.400 men hell yeah okay i see uh all right and then are you aside from the scenes that you're doing for

01:42:59.200 your work are you uh sexually active are you pursuing any men no romantically not really i flirt with

01:43:07.600 people would you guys would you guys date uh like a another guy who's in the no not right now industry

01:43:13.280 okay uh okay so you flirt but no carnal knowledge no not really okay all right do you have a roster

01:43:22.160 currently what's a roster mean like scheduled guys like you have you got multiple guys you're

01:43:28.560 currently entertaining you may or may not be sleeping with oh you're talking about like

01:43:32.320 dating wise like a roster dating wise there's like wait as opposed to sex i thought you i thought you

01:43:37.920 talked about like my work schedule um there's like one or two guys there's one guy okay one and a half

01:43:48.160 any one and a half okay it's really one guy but have you guys had carnal knowledge yeah like could

01:43:58.160 you just say like three years ago three years ago he's a college sweetheart type of deal which

01:44:05.440 which community college was it it was not community college oh oops sorry my bad which one which uh maybe

01:44:11.600 you don't want to say i don't such a comedian champlain college from like it's a it's an art

01:44:17.280 college in vermont all right uh so what about you you got do you have a roster right now i don't have

01:44:23.280 a roster no roster ever had a roster no never had a roster actually i'm a very demisexual person like

01:44:28.560 in my personal life for the last few years i've been through so much with guys i'll be honest this is

01:44:33.840 honesty make the funny noises what is demi demisexual is like i i used to need like a strong

01:44:41.040 connection so i could say used to so now you don't used to now now it doesn't matter no it doesn't

01:44:46.400 matter so now it's like work related so like i said i was a nurse for 13 years i was a neonatal icu

01:44:52.400 nurse i was the good girl that you guys love up until 35 nurses are red flags to be honest okay that's

01:44:57.760 fine that's the red flag for you it's a projection but i was no it's okay what is it like studied red

01:45:03.200 flag were you a travel nurse nope i was a neonatal icu nurse i took care of not that you just you

01:45:08.960 you're never traveled rn rn yeah red flag okay that's your red flag that's not huge red flag for

01:45:16.160 you for is that for society is that like studied is that like what a lot of dudes a lot of dudes who

01:45:22.560 are these a lot of dudes a lot of dudes on your show or just like is it studied in general okay

01:45:27.120 cool in general trust trust okay there's a lot of nurses out there we've all had our our experiences i

01:45:33.440 think nurses are great and we need them in society so i think we should stop saying stuff like that

01:45:36.800 because there's not going to be there's going to be a shortage of nurses soon for people like you

01:45:40.080 that say that and say that nurses are red flags you you think there's going to be a shortage of

01:45:43.760 nurses yes there absolutely is going to be a shortage of my podcast no we get treated like

01:45:48.080 shit in the workplace we don't make enough money because if i made enough money i wouldn't be a

01:45:52.080 porn star on the internet nurses make pretty good money no we don't yeah let's go let's have this

01:45:56.560 debate right now can i ask something yeah sure yeah you said that you wouldn't make money um you

01:46:02.080 wouldn't be doing um porn work i wouldn't if i made more money as a nurse absolutely not never

01:46:07.680 how much were you making um so i live in new york city i live in brooklyn as a single woman i was

01:46:12.240 a nurse for 13 years i started my career at eighty thousand dollars a year so after two full weeks of

01:46:19.120 working the most intensive job handing people are dead babies i had a very stressful job and i love to say

01:46:25.200 this and i love to say what nurses nursing is really like sometimes so i would come home my paycheck would be

01:46:31.680 like eight nine hundred dollars after taxes in new york city so after two weeks of full work

01:46:37.920 stressed out 16 hour days dealing with the most stressful job i was at a breaking point i was 13

01:46:43.520 years in i would have had to work another 33 years as a nurse and i feel like it needs to change in

01:46:48.320 society and we need to just be serious about it and have conversations about it because i wouldn't

01:46:52.960 choose what i'm doing now i wouldn't i so they're i'm sorry i didn't mean to cut you off but

01:46:58.880 i did actually have a study for nurses i thought you might find it interesting um so it is true

01:47:05.600 that nurses do not have more sexual contacts than women not working in their profession point for you

01:47:10.720 right but more often betray their partners up to 25 percent more often and more than other women

01:47:18.160 they have more far more oral sex 70 to 50 percent anal sex 31 to 18 percent they're far more promiscuous

01:47:25.520 across the board okay that's if it's a fact is a fact what i'm what i'm saying is let me go back

01:47:31.600 to what i was saying as a nurse and why i made this this decision to do what i do now so hey you go back

01:47:36.960 to uh to what you were saying i just wanted to thank you for that little clip you had asked if there was

01:47:41.200 a study okay of any kind and yes this actually uh though the research is that's not a red flag that's

01:47:47.280 just the study is that a red infidelity is definitely greater likely yeah infidelity oh you didn't say

01:47:52.000 infidelity you just said we're more likely to have anal sex oral sex no he mentioned okay no no

01:47:57.120 infidelity 25 more likely to step out on the partner i was like graze and adam i've actually

01:48:02.000 never cheated on somebody i'm a nurse right in my life in general yeah but in general i mean in my life

01:48:07.920 i've never cheated on somebody actually and yeah we get we understand you may not have the green

01:48:12.000 we're just looking at why nurses would be a red flag or not okay i i get that it's studied i i get it

01:48:17.520 because everyone i'm not i'm not making a judgment on nurses in terms of their own profession i'm

01:48:21.600 going to come from a number one motorsports donated 100 this panel is kind of scuffed b one must ask

01:48:29.120 at this point what mind and mood altering substances are these folks on guessing it is a long list

01:48:35.280 crazy slash hot matrix in full effect cool okay anyway let's get back to our conversation

01:48:40.560 we're talking about uh actually i'm not really that interested in in nurses and red flags no no

01:48:46.640 just in the explanation of well here's how much you don't want to hear i think people should want to

01:48:50.800 hear about why i decided to fuck on the internet instead of actually taking care of dying and sick

01:48:54.880 children and being a great okay something in society which men would men would consider me a

01:48:59.600 high value woman well i mean when you put it that way okay yes yes i'll let's let's go because

01:49:05.040 you wanted interesting people on this podcast nurses are completely full of themselves you do

01:49:11.440 not have the hardest job in the world the lance corporal getting shot at has the hardest job in

01:49:17.040 the world you're not a victim you're a thought so nurses are thoughts

01:49:23.680 no he's saying you're i think i'm asking question nurses are thoughts you apostrophe re i don't think

01:49:28.800 he's making so i'm a thought okay i'm a thought now but let me go back a few years ago when i was a nurse

01:49:33.120 in an icu i didn't say at the heart one of the hardest jobs it's actually in the goodness book

01:49:36.880 of world records you could look it up nursing school is very challenging i'm a very educated

01:49:40.800 person nursing is the hardest job it's one of the heart it's very hard wait can we nick can you

01:49:45.360 pull up yeah i will hold on nursing school videos on the fucking boat pull up those boat videos

01:49:53.920 wait there's i love how we can't answer my question about why i became a only fan

01:49:57.360 like money and talking nursing is the hardest job what about like underwater um uh so would you be

01:50:04.320 able to handle handle hand somebody they're dying children you think it's hard or not

01:50:08.640 emotionally mentally um physically educationally how do you think it's not hard you to do it

01:50:14.400 it's probably difficult yeah it's probably difficult it's a hard job probably that's another

01:50:18.720 probably all the trauma that you see working that sort of job probably extends into the

01:50:23.840 relationships that you have with men it does which actually you're arguing for my point for why

01:50:28.880 women who are nurses can be a red flag because they're dealing with a lot of trauma in the

01:50:34.000 workplace okay and that's going to have an impact in the relationship so there should be therapy for

01:50:38.480 nurses you can get that on your own time but okay it's not clear to me that the insomnia i actually

01:50:45.520 try to get a sleep study they put me on ambient they a lot of stuff exhibit a exhibit a red flag right

01:50:51.920 i'm a red flag i mean you by your own self-admission you're saying because of my work i'm passionate

01:50:57.440 about what i do because of my work for nurses here are the all the negative consequences that i've

01:51:02.160 encountered in my personal life consequences and a lot of men don't want to date women with that sort

01:51:07.600 of baggage so why would anyone want to be a nurse should should we change this not saying it's a bad job

01:51:14.400 not call nurses red flags it's very triggering to somebody like me where i want to actually take care

01:51:18.800 of people i wanted to do better in life and i wanted to be this person that i wanted to work

01:51:23.360 and make a difference and i i get hit with that my ex-boyfriend one of my boyfriends left me because

01:51:28.880 i would come home and i would cry and i would take my job home and i know you're stressed out or you're

01:51:33.280 like you're this is no i'm weird how can you say hold on wait wait wait just okay wait just just let

01:51:38.560 her finish so you would have a tough day at very tough day and you'd go home to your boyfriend and you'd

01:51:44.800 what cry he'd say i don't want to hear about your job and your day at work because i don't want to

01:51:49.360 take your and i understand that as a person now that's how is that not a red but i was in my early

01:51:53.520 20s how is that not a a undesirable okay it's undesirable uh scenario with a partner yes but i

01:52:01.520 understand that because i wouldn't want to deal with that either sometimes someone coming home

01:52:05.440 then why do you object to me saying you have first-hand experience on this why do you hold on

01:52:09.920 let me finish okay why do you object to me saying it's a red flag when you yourself have

01:52:13.360 first-hand experience are red flags but not all nurses come home and do that

01:52:18.400 well why why risk it what do you mean right why risk what well i mean look he he cited the infidelity

01:52:26.880 he cited the infidelity study okay nursing in general in my understanding is a stressful job

01:52:33.920 a lot of people bring their stress in their workplace back to their home life back to their

01:52:38.400 relationships so good for you you're making more money than somebody who perhaps has a

01:52:44.320 what would you rather a simpler job as a nurse would you rather date me as an only friends girl

01:52:48.080 because i left because of the stress am i more desirable now or as a nurse answer that question

01:52:53.840 oh the oh as a nurse wait what what do you mean you would be more desirable as a nurse to date

01:53:00.160 because it's a red flag the of is worse yeah but the of is so i should have stayed as a nurse to find

01:53:06.560 a man right uh do you hang on i'm trying to answer your question right so here let me answer your

01:53:13.520 question okay yeah yes it would be more desirable to date a nurse over an only fans girl but that does

01:53:20.240 not negate the fact that there would still be red flags associated with nurses why would why would

01:53:26.080 these things exclude each other so doctors to be charitable hang on to be charitable to you you

01:53:30.720 are right i did confirm what you said which it is true that nursing a nursing degree is one of the

01:53:36.880 hardest ranked degrees to get so to be maximum charitable to you you were correct about that

01:53:42.160 but that does not negate whether or not for dating that would be a red flag or not okay would

01:53:47.600 you go on a date with a nurse yeah i've dated nurses and i have first-hand experience having

01:53:53.280 dated nurses also when it comes to specifically i know there's obviously nurses who are kind of

01:53:57.440 geographically locked they don't have plans to move but travel nurses for example i mean if they've had

01:54:02.720 20 previous assignments they've been in a place for three months in my head and i'm i see you on a

01:54:08.720 dating app i'm thinking like that's some flight attendant shit in each new city you fucked a bunch of

01:54:14.480 other dudes and we that's another conversation when it comes to body count but a travel nurse if she's on

01:54:19.280 a dating app she wasn't on a dating app in each one of those cities and she's looking for a short-term

01:54:24.240 thing that means her body count is ramped up that's assuming she gets with just one guy in that city

01:54:29.840 it could be two it could be three it could be a dozen okay so travel nurse is a major so is that

01:54:34.800 a study travel nurses are more promiscuous well simply by virtue sex with more guys in different

01:54:39.760 cities i don't think there's a study but you're like well hold on let me i'll answer let me answer

01:54:44.320 the question the answer is yes well let me answer let me just answer so i just want to know well

01:54:50.000 simply by virtue if you move to a new geographical region every three months versus someone who's

01:54:56.320 locked in one location who's more pro who's more likely to end up in a long-term relationship

01:55:04.480 somebody that's not traveling okay okay so it's not look you could be a travel nurse and be a virgin

01:55:10.720 but just by virtue of you constantly moving you're probably not going to be able to lock down

01:55:16.800 if you're going from new york and i'm moving over travel nursing like if i took a travel nurse job i

01:55:20.960 don't think i'd be looking for a relationship because i don't know you'd just be fucking i wouldn't say

01:55:25.600 i'll be fucking i'd be working you know we work a lot so my days off when i was a nurse no i'm almost

01:55:32.240 40 years old did you ever go to when i was like in my early 20s i don't care i hate clubs have you been

01:55:37.120 on dating apps nope okay what's your body count i don't actually have a little book in my house

01:55:45.360 where i write it down and i'm like today i had sex with this person and it's my body count i don't

01:55:49.920 know but i can say that when before i'm doing what i'm doing right now i probably could have counted

01:55:56.240 in the last three or four years even being on only fans how many people i've had sex with on

01:56:00.400 one hand okay and i've been monogamous on only fans as well laugh at me

01:56:07.600 um well i'm not i'm not i'm not actually laughing no you weren't this guy behind me was i wanted to

01:56:12.080 i wanted to engage with you a little bit on this she called you out there so i don't know i'm so

01:56:16.720 funny i'm being honest like i'm not lying i'm here to be honest yeah so well i mean good that's that's

01:56:22.240 why i want to engage on this with you if you don't mind so no i absolutely want to talk about it yeah

01:56:26.640 i want to talk about yes i want to talk about change the stigma and everything yeah so brian is

01:56:31.680 saying that just by nature of somebody who's in a travel capacity of any kind whether it's male or

01:56:38.000 female and there are studies which back this up but i'm not even sure that you would need them

01:56:43.920 because it kind of just goes to logic that if you're traveling around opportunities come up

01:56:49.360 far more than if you are based in a home and go to a single area for work no there's almost

01:56:55.680 you but you just agreed that logically nurses work three to four days hang on stop stop stop

01:57:01.440 stop you you literally just agreed not more than five minutes ago with brian that it stands to reason

01:57:07.920 that somebody who traveled would have more opportunity for these things than not and now

01:57:12.160 you're changing your answer i changed my mind actually the way it makes sense because when i was

01:57:16.240 a nurse i worked three to four days a week and those three those days that i was off it doesn't

01:57:20.800 matter if i'm in a different city or in my city and if i want to go out and party and hang out and like

01:57:24.800 meet guys doesn't matter if i'm in a different city or in my city it's the same thing yeah but

01:57:29.360 if you're a if you're a person who travels if you're traveling nurse or traveling salesman it

01:57:34.320 wouldn't matter you're going to be introduced to a much wider array for people therefore there's

01:57:39.280 more opportunity for intermingling that's the point have you ever fucked in the hospital never ever

01:57:46.080 i wouldn't actually took a code of ethics as a nurse and we weren't allowed to do specific things

01:57:50.080 and it was very serious laugh about it but i couldn't dress up as a nurse for halloween there's

01:57:55.200 different things you take a code of ethics and you have to actually respect your job in a specific

01:57:59.920 way i didn't take nude photos when i was a nurse i was still on only fans but i just sold specific

01:58:04.400 type of content until i left my job and i respected my profession and i always will

01:58:10.800 okay well i don't think we need to linger too long on the nursing thing but uh you do only fans too correct

01:58:17.920 yeah and i have real estate investment so like i'm an airbnb super host and whatnot

01:58:22.720 can you scoot your mic a little closer um what do you do on of is it solo content pg when i'm in a

01:58:29.040 relationship i do boy girl content okay so it's like if i'm dating someone then i have done boy girl

01:58:38.800 all right i'll use that person and like we can have threesomes together and like i'll collab with

01:58:43.040 like porn star females with whoever guy i'm dating sure but that's pretty much just like okay what

01:58:49.520 i've done uh cheyenne you used to be involved in that life why don't you give us in your pre-show

01:58:56.560 notes you gave us kind of like a little synopsis on your background a little bit if you can

01:59:01.200 unfortunately i think i mentioned this i don't i lost all my notes yeah but so if you can restate

01:59:06.240 kind of your background sure and i didn't know if this was a word that we couldn't use um as

01:59:13.440 like the code of kind of code of conduct in the beginning can we say the p word p-o-r-n i just

01:59:18.160 didn't know if we could say it uh because someone said something about it we just say that okay so we

01:59:24.720 okay i don't work is i don't work adult content okay cool yeah so um i'll just i'll just tell a

01:59:31.280 little bit of of how i grew up so my mother was a madam actually so um and it's pretty rare because

01:59:36.320 she wasn't she's asian you know so usually asians are like you know like goody two shoes but my mom

01:59:40.800 was a rebel for sure um and i grew up in a highly sexualized environment um i started masturbating

01:59:46.960 when i was five years old you know and so um i grew up taking care of my sisters all of our dads are

01:59:52.160 different you know dads were absent and so um i was a dancer i also was in the adult film um and then

02:00:00.720 i also was an escort i had tons of sugar daddies in la new york every state i had a sugar daddy you

02:00:07.600 know so that's um that's i literally like wyoming a lot probably not that one north dakota it's so

02:00:15.920 random no because not the city you said maybe i was exaggerating a bit oh i was exaggerating i'm sorry

02:00:22.240 yes boise no did you have one in boise idaho no i'm from ohio originally though

02:00:29.920 it's close what what do you mean um you grew up in a highly sexualized environment what does that

02:00:35.520 mean yeah i'm not sure we want to go there okay yeah but you said okay your mom had a brothel

02:00:43.920 basically she was a madame yes okay yeah okay okay um so i basically had a very escorted you said you

02:00:54.000 escorted sugar daddies in every city yeah like a lot of cities a lot of cities right um and so

02:01:01.360 that's basically how i built my life when i first moved to la six years ago um when i was 20 i was

02:01:06.480 also um fresh out of divorce of a divorce um i got married for five months got a divorce was traumatized

02:01:12.640 moved out here um so and and i wanted to comment on what you guys were saying too yeah like i'll be

02:01:18.000 honest like yeah a lot of girls have a lot of trauma guys do too we all have trauma and and um

02:01:25.040 when we get in relationships you know like both of the traumas just collide you know and i will admit

02:01:30.640 like i've broken up with every one of my boyfriends and i'll admit that and i'm not proud of that it was

02:01:37.920 due to my own trauma and also i couldn't handle what they were putting on me because of my background

02:01:43.600 because i'm still in the healing process and that's where jesus comes in right like like once

02:01:49.760 you surrender he starts to heal you it doesn't happen overnight but that's like where i'm at and

02:01:54.640 that's why i'm single because i'm not healed yet like fully with certain things that god has to change

02:02:00.880 and morph in the character of my heart in order to have a healthy relationship so you um

02:02:05.360 um you did were you in the mainstream adults industry did you you also did of two or did you

02:02:16.720 it's so it's so funny because before of was a thing i knew about it and i made an account but i never

02:02:22.400 posted but then i sold things on snapchat before of wait so did i don't know if you're did you operate

02:02:31.920 as in the as cheyenne matthews no okay i've had a few aliases few aliases yeah do you share those or

02:02:40.960 no um oh wait that's gonna oh god that's gonna sound like i'm like soliciting to so i can search it

02:02:46.960 for it later that's okay i swear i was just curious if you if like there's uh were you pretty popular

02:02:53.120 when you were doing this like well known in the space i guess no comment okay i think you know

02:03:02.240 well i don't know i haven't seen any of your shit but uh but uh okay uh so you used you said you when

02:03:13.680 did you start escorting oh um man 18 okay yeah and were you stripped did you strip at all yes okay

02:03:26.240 and you uh you were like hustling sugar daddies and shit yes what was the hustle did you have some

02:03:34.560 tricks yes marks yes what's the term everything what's the marks tricks tricks johns

02:03:42.560 honestly like i i used i'll say this too i used to have a different vocabulary like i grew up in like a

02:03:51.200 very you know um ghetto environment you uh you said you're half asian half white are you filipina

02:03:57.760 or what's so technically i have korean and japanese native american and european okay yeah so i speak

02:04:03.600 korean fluently too so thank you grandma yeah um yeah anybody in seoul like you said you had some

02:04:10.720 sugar daddies and no no not there i tried but it didn't work out because i was only there for two

02:04:14.960 weeks and it just okay they were robots sure yeah uh okay so uh you escorted yeah when did you stop

02:04:23.120 escorting um last year may 15th of last year okay yeah uh how many clients over the entire course of

02:04:33.120 your escorting career uh did you have whoo i don't know hundreds for sure hundreds yeah in escorting

02:04:42.160 yeah uh and then how many sugar daddies total do you think you had um um you know it's interesting

02:04:49.600 because like i had one for six years and i cut it off with him last year and um it was you know part of

02:04:57.680 it and this is just the human side you know because we're all human like i was very attached

02:05:03.680 to i didn't love him in a romantic way i was attached because of the attention he gave me

02:05:08.560 and the money with it and i didn't grow up with my dad and so definitely the father wound and the

02:05:13.680 mother wound played a part in the way he treated me and so it was really tough to cut it off with some

02:05:18.480 of the sugar daddies because of that you know and um but i did you know and i've replaced that

02:05:23.840 you know with just every time i feel lonely or if i feel like i get triggered because you know we all

02:05:29.440 have triggers we all have triggers we all have trauma you know and if i get lonely i just start

02:05:33.600 to pray or i'll go into like a fast or read scripture and i'm honestly it just fills me it fills that void

02:05:39.600 it fills that loneliness it fills that depression or anxiety that's trying to seep in again because i used

02:05:44.480 to be depressed for years especially when i had my marriage and when i was um i had a lot of relationships

02:05:51.280 as well yeah okay so uh on the uh what's it called i'm curious i'm always curious about yeah opening

02:06:02.720 this up to the rest of the table yeah who here has had a sugar daddy i currently have three you have

02:06:09.680 three i've had i've only had one one what about you never had never had no well what about these the

02:06:16.080 of the of guys no they're like your daddies they're kind of content they're digital sugar

02:06:20.880 not like digital sugar daddy i've been like the sugar mama what about you me too i've just been

02:06:25.120 the sugar mama i've been the sugar mama too you've been the sugar mama yeah for sure yeah for sure

02:06:30.160 what do you mean you said you so you've had you've had one one like actual one yeah okay you've had

02:06:36.160 three you've had sounds like countless yeah have you had any sugar daddies or is this an abstain

02:06:43.760 no or um like can we define what sugar daddy is it's like one person giving money to yeah like

02:06:50.480 there's an he's giving you money an allowance a specific amount of money that's like excluding

02:06:55.280 like like only fans type of stuff right that doesn't count or it does count well if you have a whale or

02:07:00.720 something and a whale they're kind of similar they're kind of similar i don't consider whales sugar

02:07:06.960 daddies right they're a little bit similar kind of i mean my sugar daddy was literally overseas

02:07:11.760 is digital allowance like to live your life like pay rent like just pay me five hundred dollars

02:07:16.480 here and there no reason for example like sugar i was a well you know okay you show you guys stop

02:07:27.040 go ahead uh so for example like i was like a twitch streamer and obviously twitch doesn't allow that kind

02:07:32.560 of content like per se um and so it's like are you talking about like people who's donating through twitch

02:07:39.200 as well no like somebody where it's more like you have a direct communication line no and okay

02:07:46.320 i have not nope no sugar daddy we're just scammers what's that scammers yeah most of them are

02:07:53.920 yeah i had a guy he sent me a buffalo wild wing check for like five thousand dollars

02:07:58.560 no space yeah yeah i know what you're talking about um wait so coming back coming back to you

02:08:05.680 you said you had one um what what was the arrangement well it was he met me through instagram and he would

02:08:15.520 just send me money and i would kind of like send videos to him and sometimes we would face time and

02:08:21.680 just like i would undress like strip did you ever meet in person nope what kind of privilege like

02:08:27.680 would he would he just send you cash or would he pay for a certain he would send he would just

02:08:33.520 cash at me i'm so glad i'm not dating donated 100 andrew here we go he's chiseled body count low

02:08:42.480 hung like a bull moose rich six feet two inches etc invited you over next to his bed fully loaded

02:08:50.960 armor light ar-15 30 round magazine in a safe your reaction oh red flag i'm with it okay um sounds

02:09:02.080 sexy so you're i think he's asking would you proceed with this man who has a ar-15 let's assume he's

02:09:11.360 a responsible and legal gun owner is he hot hell yeah i mean it's six yeah if he's like responsible

02:09:17.440 yeah you said red flag i need to see what he looks like

02:09:22.960 well the assumption in the is he hot like he's hot you would be super attracted to him i would

02:09:28.080 be yeah is the ar-15 a deal breaker is what he's asking i don't really like guns

02:09:35.680 is it a deal breaker no it's not a deal breaker but i don't i'm not comfortable around it

02:09:42.560 i don't know what if what if what if you were super attracted to him he walked in there was a room

02:09:46.960 he just had a wall filled with the ar-15s you just love them just he thought they were great i don't

02:09:52.320 think it's weird why do you need here well i let's let before we go in let's let the girls answer go

02:09:58.240 ahead if the ar-15 would make me uncomfortable what's the you're attracted to the guy would it

02:10:04.640 be just assume it's a guy you're attracted to but you go to his place and you see that he has

02:10:08.160 a fire like ar-15 fire i'd like him more okay i'm asexual so nothing's going on regardless you're

02:10:16.240 what i'm asexual i mean that's okay let's just you're romantic wait you're asexual hold on but

02:10:22.720 you're sugar daddies with three sugar daddies we have an agreement it's yeah wait she's got three

02:10:28.640 fucking okay you said a whole wall of guns though like is it one gun or a whole wall like i got okay

02:10:34.960 wait so let's just assume you're romantically interested in him do you lose romantic interest

02:10:39.920 because of the guns yeah okay what about you no i i've had situations where they have guns

02:10:47.440 to protect themselves and it makes me feel safe but i've also seen people with guns that i've dated

02:10:52.240 it was for another reason so um i wouldn't be scared um yeah it would depend on like what's the

02:10:58.320 reason so i wouldn't yeah then that's fine uh yeah it's fine yeah i wouldn't care i think i'd be

02:11:05.040 more turned on not gonna lie yeah i still wouldn't care okay so you and you had an issue with it uh

02:11:12.720 why i think it's kind of weird that you need guns multiple guns let me ask you have one gun for

02:11:19.280 protection but why do you need multiple well let's just say it's one one gun that's not a problem for me

02:11:25.120 okay but my dad has a gun it's not a problem but multiple like you said a room full of guns

02:11:29.120 i just it sounded a little weird yeah right well i mean just to extrapolate okay i'm curious as to

02:11:35.200 why one gun is a deal or not a deal breaker but 1 000 guns would be i think it's what's the distinction

02:11:41.200 there it's a hobby at that point and it's a weird hobby for me why is it weird it's weird

02:11:45.520 why do you need a bunch of guns why do you need to be on only fans uh that has nothing to do with guns

02:11:51.440 am i well i mean well if you're asking in an abstract of why does why does a person need

02:11:56.960 x i don't think only fans girls are like collecting guns i don't know what would that have to do with

02:12:03.200 anything i'm very you're asking you're asking in this abstract of why does a person need to do x he

02:12:08.960 doesn't need to do it what's the problem with him doing it it's just something that i wouldn't

02:12:14.000 i wouldn't feel comfortable around a lot of guns if like i just wouldn't yeah what i mean does that

02:12:20.560 is it telling you something about him do you think that it kind of it pushes some some sort of

02:12:25.600 sort of ideologies or an ideological distinction what's the problem so i've been in abusive

02:12:29.840 relationships in the past and steroids guns things like that maybe playing violent video games were a

02:12:37.760 trait of men that kind of had this like violent tendency in my personal life my experience i'm not

02:12:42.720 saying all men that collect guns so for me personally it would be a red flag if i walked

02:12:47.760 into the house and i saw a lot of guns what if he was a cop

02:12:54.560 i still don't know why a cop needs to have a lot of guns at his house well i mean our i guess my my

02:13:01.120 understanding of your kind of pushback here is that abuse abusive men have guns

02:13:06.320 i think it's a little weird that men would collect a room of guns i i think it is why they have lots

02:13:15.040 of value and they go up in value every year it's a great investment

02:13:20.480 so are birkins you think that's a red flag for women to have a lot of expensive bags

02:13:24.720 no those go down in value every year birkins and like chanel bags basically all fashion items

02:13:31.520 uh do chanel bags go down in value ladies all chanel bags no it's usually actually goes up

02:13:36.880 so i think i'm talking in generalities here so generally fashion items are going to go down in

02:13:42.320 value so all guns guns are always all guns go up in value every year yes i still don't want a bunch

02:13:47.600 of guns in my significant other's house i have a niece and nephew i don't want to walk in to i just

02:13:52.800 wouldn't feel comfortable if he has them all locked up he just has a wall of them i said

02:13:57.360 a gun is okay i don't want a wall of guns i would personally feel uncomfortable i'm allowed

02:14:03.840 to feel uncomfortable around a lot of guns it's weird yeah you're allowed to i'm just wondering

02:14:07.520 what the the reasoning for why you feel that way is like it's just an inanimate object it's just kind

02:14:13.120 of it's it's scary to me you see the movies and videos and it's like always in a violent way you're

02:14:17.280 not like hey i'm as long as the safety's on i just wouldn't like want to be around them accidents

02:14:23.280 happen and i'm just very like i just don't i don't i don't like it it makes me uncomfortable

02:14:27.760 if you're in an if you're in an abusive relationship i have been would you right yeah

02:14:32.560 why is it that you wouldn't recommend the one tool which can equalize force between men and women

02:14:37.520 that a woman doesn't get

02:14:41.280 that a woman doesn't get that a man would have no no the only thing which can equalize force between

02:14:47.600 men and women is a gun okay that's it that's the only force equalizer which is even possible but

02:14:53.760 it's not like i own the guns and i have access and keys and i can go in there and use his guns

02:14:58.000 yeah but if you were a person who was abused or has been victim of abuse wouldn't you want to own

02:15:03.360 a gun no i feel very safe in my living situation where i live and i don't feel like i need a gun there

02:15:12.320 yeah i know but for for generally for abuse victims don't you think they'd want to own a gun

02:15:16.240 not all considering it's the only thing that can equalize force between people that have been

02:15:20.640 abused need to have a gun to protect themselves not all i'm sorry say that again so not not i

02:15:26.960 wouldn't feel like a gun i wouldn't want to have a gun on me i wouldn't want to use a gun that could

02:15:31.120 ruin my life just because i was in a situation like i don't i wouldn't how would a gun ruin your life

02:15:37.360 if you if it if it was an argument and it went off in a situation i wouldn't want guns don't go off in

02:15:43.040 arguments what do you mean you can kind of be in an argument and a gun's gonna go off guns don't

02:15:47.360 jump off the shelf because you're in an argument no a gun doesn't make me feel safe a gun does not

02:15:51.040 make me feel safe against a abusive man is that just because you don't know how to use one

02:15:57.520 i just don't want a gun i'm allowed to not want to have a gun in my home yeah you're allowed to i'm

02:16:02.320 just i was just curious i just wanted to dive in a little bit because it seems to me it seems to me that

02:16:07.680 if you were a female and you were concerned because you had been an abuse victim in the past

02:16:13.280 that the one tool which exists which could equalize force between men and women i would think that

02:16:18.560 women would want that

02:16:22.320 do women want that do you guys like you want i would love to learn how to shoot a gun and use it

02:16:26.800 for protection at all times okay anyone else i would smart that's smart by the way that's smart i really

02:16:33.360 want to learn like yeah for safety i have mace next to my door you can't bring mace to a gunfight

02:16:38.640 though i'm not gonna oh i don't think just saying what if someone comes up you're getting robbed

02:16:43.360 yeah like if you're getting robbed you need to protect yourself i don't think there's anything

02:16:46.400 wrong with having i don't think i need a gun to protect myself i don't put myself in situations

02:16:50.240 where i'm a purse pistol i don't go out late at night i live in new york i'm not like walking around

02:16:54.880 coney island late at night with a gun yeah hang on uh hang on real quick i just i just want to make

02:17:00.880 sure that i get this right uh over to the gal um i'm sorry uh in the near the center i can't

02:17:07.840 i can't remember your your name um far into the table on the the uh the far right one of the

02:17:15.520 christian two oh not yeah you yes i'm sorry what's your name again oh yes cheyenne cheyenne okay so i

02:17:23.680 just want to make sure that i have this right but i just got a clip sent over to me that at roughly 52

02:17:29.840 minutes in this is what i'm hearing in anyway when you were asked if you were celibate you said yes

02:17:35.520 since last night oh no last may not last night right no okay okay i was just i was just making i was

02:17:47.840 just making sure yeah okay that's all so anyway yeah back but anyway back to this uh you know on the on

02:17:57.760 the gun discussion um so most of you gals you would say that since this is an equalizer a force

02:18:05.440 equalizer your preference would be to know how to use one and have one yeah yes the only thing is that

02:18:12.560 i heard like an argument that i kind of thought about was that because men are stronger and bigger

02:18:18.240 than us they if we have a weapon they can always like wrestle it out of us and use it against us

02:18:24.240 and but that doesn't really deter me from wanting to have one just to be more trained and um for that

02:18:31.280 purpose i actually started training like bjj um fuck yeah so you know just well well that's the

02:18:37.760 stupidest thing i've ever heard why would you think that uh if a guy could wrestle a gun away from you

02:18:44.080 just dead about the deadliest object you can have that he's not going to have a massive advantage over you

02:18:49.040 if you know brazilian jiu-jitsu because if you know anything about the sport um brazilian jiu-jitsu

02:18:55.600 is is a great way to maneuver um bigger weights um it's not yeah have you also seen how many men

02:19:03.200 with no training go up against women who have brazilian jiu-jitsu training and still overpower them

02:19:08.160 easily yeah so in my brazilian jiu-jitsu class like one of her friends she's a purple belt and she was

02:19:13.600 attacked by two people and she broke all their legs and it was like on the news so yeah that so

02:19:19.280 that never happened you can say that assuming assuming that that's literally that never happened

02:19:24.160 your friend was not attacked by two men you can look at their legs that's absurd okay what is it

02:19:29.120 called i'll look it up right now you can look it up like i'm gonna look it up four foot four foot

02:19:34.800 eleven girl your four foot eleven year old or four foot eleven inch girlfriend did not break a

02:19:42.640 bunch of men's legs when she wasn't eleven though she was jiu-jitsu that's insane i want to see the

02:19:48.960 proof there's a video i'll know what i walked back in on but that sounded that sounded ridiculous

02:19:58.160 it is it is absolutely ridiculous stuff that never happened for 500 yeah i got that never

02:20:04.560 happened for a thousand literally what's the what's the video called it's not a video it was on the

02:20:10.240 news and that was uh that was something that my classmate had said and that was her like close

02:20:15.120 friends so oh okay so it was a friend of a friend of yours said that it was on the news did you actually

02:20:20.400 see it if i can continue what i'm saying um you can yeah but hang on hang on you can but did you

02:20:25.440 yourself actually see it on the news um no no okay so this is uh so a friend of a friend told you this

02:20:33.520 yes and if you look up any youtube video of real life brazilian jiu-jitsu fights um they're there for

02:20:39.920 you to you can look it up right now um yeah i can't it's not the most effective but i mean wait should

02:20:47.040 andrew i got something for this no no hang on hang on i just want to be clear that when you said that

02:20:53.360 you had a friend who broke men's legs with brazilian jiu-jitsu who attacked her that that's actually not

02:21:00.320 true that what's actually true is that you have a friend who told you she had a friend that happened

02:21:05.760 to and it was on the news but you yourself never actually saw it like that i didn't see the news like

02:21:14.720 yes no i didn't see the news as i said before so how do you know that any of this is true

02:21:22.160 because i'm believing in my friend who that person was a very close friend to her and i'm trusting in

02:21:28.560 what she says because i also know the sport and i know how capable um people are it's like

02:21:34.720 sola scriptura for the news now huh so okay well i'm gonna look i'm gonna look to be charitable and

02:21:41.200 see if there's any woman ever who has been attacked who knows brazilian jiu-jitsu who then went and broke

02:21:48.400 the male adversary legs with it but i gotta tell you one motorsports donated 100 as a competitive

02:21:55.680 shooter and instructor ladies get a weapon get trained be safe i do actually have a wall of guns

02:22:03.600 and my wife sleeps like a baby under the protection i provide well poker one wait really quick question

02:22:09.520 for you so and i don't know if andrew already asked this uh in general who's physically stronger

02:22:16.720 men or women men for sure yeah men anyone probably men disagree on this unfortunately i don't know if

02:22:25.920 that's where that conversation was going well brian brian would you say that a news story where a woman

02:22:32.400 who was four foot eleven who knew brazilian jiu-jitsu who was attacked by men and broke their legs would be

02:22:38.160 something that would be pretty easy to find i'm so glad i'm not dating donated one hundred dollars

02:22:47.280 my wife is 110 pounds five feet one inch i'm 5 11 plus 230 pounds and built i could easily beat the

02:22:56.880 absolute breaks out of her without breaking a sweat she carries a pistol though and would shoot me in the

02:23:03.360 chest uh not only that but one of the weaknesses of uh brazilian jiu-jitsu is against multiple

02:23:09.920 attackers because it's a ground sport so i don't even understand the logic of this it seems absurd

02:23:15.680 to me uh but i'll look uh so far just even in a cursory google search i can't find anything about

02:23:22.400 any women anywhere who have ever been assaulted by multiple men who knew brazilian jiu-jitsu who broke

02:23:27.360 their leg wait just letting you know really quickly the story is a 4 11 woman fended off

02:23:32.080 two attackers yeah she was a purple belt she was walking in a park and they came and they attacked

02:23:37.200 her and so she being a purple belt um was able to break their bones so so you have my understanding

02:23:44.720 with jiu-jitsu it goes blue purple brown black i think that's the progression in jiu-jitsu

02:23:53.520 i think oh well uh our good friend gustavo here he does jiu-jitsu how long does it gustavo

02:24:02.160 how many years does it typically take to get a purple belt

02:24:08.160 seven what belt are you

02:24:13.280 no how do you say that in spanish okay no oh exposed um cool cool okay seven years okay so

02:24:20.080 spencer as somebody who practices or excuse me gustavo as somebody who practices uh jiu-jitsu

02:24:28.080 your uh blue belt correct how long have you been doing it how many years

02:24:34.400 five years do you does this story sound plausible to you that a 4 11 purple belt in jiu-jitsu

02:24:41.680 fended off two male attackers and broke both their legs is that the story i don't know if it's both

02:24:48.480 their legs but she subdued them and broke some bones that's what i heard from my some bones

02:24:53.920 multiple bones multiple i think because it occurs to me like i'm not a i'm not a jiu-jitsu expert but

02:24:58.480 for example to break uh to break an arm for example maybe she had them in an arm bar but you can only

02:25:04.000 arm bar one person at a time and that would leave her on her back on the ground exposed to the fists of

02:25:10.720 the second attacker just pummeling the out of her face while she's trying to arm bar this dude

02:25:17.920 so it's the most ridiculous it doesn't sound plausible ever heard it is literally

02:25:24.960 ridiculous and in no way shape or form does it map on to reality at all not even a little bit

02:25:31.440 let's not sure yeah yeah we won't we won't linger too long on on the jiu-jitsu thing i missed probably

02:25:37.760 most of the firearm discussion it was good i had one question maybe androdi went there but um let's

02:25:43.440 say your house was getting invaded you lived with a boyfriend would you prefer and it's being invaded

02:25:48.960 by three men would you prefer him to defend you with his fists or with a firearm in that scenario like

02:25:54.960 i think that the problem was that the way you said it before before you like walked off was like

02:25:59.200 a wall of guns and i was like that sounds a little bit excessive i didn't say a gun or a firearm

02:26:05.120 that i would yeah i have no problem with a gun okay but it was like an excessive amount of guns

02:26:10.480 that's when i said that it sounds a little bit like a red flag for me it's like a little scary

02:26:13.840 and a little weird could i just say something because i voted no as well because honestly having

02:26:18.560 a full wall full of firearms that's kind of that's a red flag you just because you're overcompensating

02:26:24.800 for something if you have i guess that they like in a way like you're saying you collect guns for a

02:26:32.000 specific reason like i wouldn't know why he has all these guns you know like it's also a type of

02:26:38.080 person like if you're a aggressive person i'd be like why do you need these here we're gonna we're

02:26:42.160 gonna read a couple chats here um john ligand bring back gorlock okay thank you i tried honestly i tried

02:26:49.120 uh you guys should spam allie she's tick tock famous spam allie with uh dm saying yo go back

02:26:58.480 on the whatever podcast i've i've tried i don't think she's about it she'd rather

02:27:03.680 or wait actually and uh never mind um could somebody read this one for me you got a good

02:27:09.680 one of you got good diction you want me to sure okay um i couldn't imagine being an only

02:27:15.600 fan only fans influencers father brother or a partner simps need to wake up and spend their

02:27:21.440 money on something meaningful like a hobby the collective delusional feminist ego is crushing

02:27:26.240 culture what are you going to do once good men aren't around where are the good men

02:27:35.520 not dating women who do pornography well that's true actually but some of them the people in the

02:27:40.480 porn industry that are married and have relationships you don't think they're good men and good women

02:27:44.960 and that they've found i'm not sure but i would argue most men they're bad good good men probably

02:27:51.760 most good men explain jesus christ there's like five conversations going on

02:27:57.120 okay okay most good men they're probably number one pick is not to go and date a woman who is

02:28:04.800 currently or in the past did pornographic content i get it oh i get that but i'm saying that you don't

02:28:11.520 think that two people in the adult industry are good people and can find love sure okay sure but

02:28:17.200 i i mean do you do at least acknowledge that simply by virtue of you doing or having done

02:28:23.840 pornographic content there's videos of you guys out there

02:28:26.640 like a lot of men like it's yes i'm not saying you will never be able to find a man but a lot of

02:28:33.840 men are gonna thank you for saying that because they're gonna have issues

02:28:41.600 i think you'll still be able to find men but like it'll be harder in the same way that for example for

02:28:48.000 me yeah me having this simply by virtue of having the podcast yeah closes the door with certain

02:28:52.880 women who might not want to date somebody who has my views or they might not want to date somebody

02:28:57.360 who's just even out there publicly that's true so what if you didn't know but i acknowledge it

02:29:01.760 what if you didn't know a woman had a like closet life before you and she never disclosed that to you

02:29:06.720 would that be like lying because you wouldn't and we're married let's say we're married yes in this

02:29:10.640 listener i'd divorce her immediately you would why instant divorce you have to be up front and

02:29:14.320 honest you need you need you need to disclose that what if she was transgender okay i'm not

02:29:19.040 talking about transgender hold on i said what if she never disclosed wait what if you're i can

02:29:24.400 understand it's a lie and it's like a i get it but what if you were dating somebody and they hit a

02:29:28.240 secret from you like that and you had kids you were in love and this was a great person and she

02:29:33.440 treated you great and she was a great mother to you yeah yeah what would you do let's ask this the

02:29:38.720 other way let's say that you're in love with this woman you absolutely adore her she's great she's

02:29:46.080 been a great wife to you she's been a great mother right and you find out that she lied about the

02:29:51.360 paternity of your kids this is a different question yeah but hang on the logic's going to track for you

02:29:57.440 and i'm going to tie it together for you shortly so why is it do you think that it would be okay for

02:30:02.560 the guy to leave that relationship are you asking me yeah okay about the paternity of a child or their

02:30:10.480 past yeah so yeah so you love the woman okay right she's great she just hid this one thing from you

02:30:16.880 which was the paternity of your kids or kid is that question for me andrew i'm so confused no no

02:30:22.640 that's for her you're asking me what i think that someone else should do or me and yeah i'm asking is

02:30:27.920 it okay for a man to leave then do you think that that's appropriate i think it's okay for anyone to

02:30:33.120 do anything at the point of life if it's not okay for him it's okay i also have friends that have been

02:30:37.120 in that situation that have stayed and i have friends that have stayed so and yeah but but if

02:30:42.880 you're asking brian then why why if you didn't disclose a thing um would you leave then the answer

02:30:49.520 would be entailed in that same one right i get it it's the same thing yeah yeah but a child and

02:30:55.440 someone's past sexually might be a little bit like yes but it's it's hang on it's what a person

02:31:02.480 values that you're hiding that's the problem it's a lie so brian values that you know you're telling

02:31:09.200 the truth about your sexual history and it turned out you were lying about it right that's his value

02:31:14.640 so you would be from your world view it would be totally appropriate for him to leave right

02:31:19.760 i'm saying like it it would be appropriate for him to leave if he wanted to leave if he felt like

02:31:24.560 very like disrespected but i understand that a child is a little bit different than a woman's

02:31:30.480 sexual promiscuously in her past yeah they're different i get it they're different i know

02:31:35.200 every analogy i'll ever bring to you is going to be different from the other thing you're married

02:31:39.200 the reason it's always going to be different from the other thing is because no two things are

02:31:43.200 exactly identical yeah so i'm just giving you a comparison that's it but you're married right

02:31:48.960 not for andrew yeah i'm married okay so how long have you been married for over a decade okay so

02:31:54.720 what if you found out something from like 20 25 years ago that you didn't agree with would you

02:31:59.760 immediately divorce her or would you be like i know this person depends on depends depends on the

02:32:03.840 severity if i found out that she was an only fans girl or something like this before i married her

02:32:09.920 yes that would be an instant divorce so right now instant divorce

02:32:13.120 yeah it would be an instant 25 years before and like before she met you i'm just i'm just asking

02:32:19.680 yes okay the situation yeah and why and but here's the thing why from your world view would

02:32:25.680 that even be problematic i tell guys what it is like i'm i'm i want you to know from the the the

02:32:31.040 first date like hey is this okay for you or if it's not i feel like it's a lie so i get what you're

02:32:35.760 saying it's the personality trait of a person to be able to lie to you about something it's because you

02:32:41.440 don't want your partner to lie to you so whatever it is whatever hard conversation it is let's let's

02:32:45.840 have that conversation from day one and let's figure it out you know yeah yeah no i understand

02:32:51.120 but i'm just i'm all i'm doing is getting pushed back to the idea that if you found out that there

02:32:57.280 was this you know this lie which you can then question the foundations of everything regardless

02:33:03.760 of um you know how you feel about the person now or even how long that person's been great to you

02:33:09.120 why wouldn't she be justified then and ending it's a lie right what if she lied to protect you

02:33:14.000 because she loves you that was well i mean that's not her choice to make is it no it's not her choice

02:33:19.280 but it isn't that nice of her to do a convenient lie to protect me from her past that's awful

02:33:25.600 convenient isn't it how nice of her to lie about her past to protect me that doesn't sound a little

02:33:32.880 absurd to you so you prefer your woman to never have like a no no no answer my question before you

02:33:37.920 answer or ask another one doesn't it sound a little bit convenient to say that she's hiding

02:33:44.400 her past to protect me from it maybe because she loves you it's convenient hiding her sexual history

02:33:52.560 to protect me is because she loves me maybe why would that why would that protect me and not be

02:33:59.120 protecting maybe she thought you were not an open-minded person and she wanted to also like

02:34:03.200 so i could understand myself like my old self like wow this is a great guy and i want to like

02:34:10.000 appease him maybe maybe that and she was like i'm gonna lie about this well that would be her

02:34:14.960 protecting herself not maybe how would it be protecting you okay i get that how like how how

02:34:21.440 would it be protecting the not protecting you maybe she's protecting yourself because you're a great

02:34:25.760 guy and you want to be with you yeah okay maybe i understand that yes okay i said it wrong or like

02:34:30.640 all right moving on moving on moving on uh it does occur to me though that in this scenario that you

02:34:37.440 kind of gave is there something to be said for men prefer uncomfortable truths and women prefer comforting

02:34:46.480 lies or is that kind of the same thing no not totally but i don't prefer like i don't want to be lied to

02:34:58.400 and i don't want to lie to somebody i've been that route when i was younger and more immature and maybe

02:35:02.160 i've lied to a man about who i've been with or situations and right now in my life because i'm older

02:35:07.440 and i realized you know mine's not fun okay well i don't have kids but that was nick not me but

02:35:14.560 all right a couple chats here sorry a couple chats um can you read this one

02:35:21.040 can you read this one brittany what oh i'm christian too sometimes the best ministry is being

02:35:27.200 honest and humble you come off as using faith to avoid confronting your confidence issues

02:35:32.080 pride and regrets you need some blunt friends oh we got another one coming twilliam donated 100

02:35:40.720 good men are everywhere i've had six friends off themselves due to floozy women who abandon their

02:35:46.480 duty because they don't want the work commit to virtue not hedonism j william hey thank you man

02:35:53.280 appreciate your uh tts there thank you for your patronage we have let me pull out the uh oh i'm sorry

02:35:59.200 going yeah screwdriver uh somebody read can you read this sure why not uh brixton great work as

02:36:10.400 always andrew do you think women who've been loose 15 plus bodies can truly repent and be saved alexis

02:36:17.760 are you the girl who went on that miami podcast made out with your friend and talked about eating a

02:36:22.400 guy's dingle okay your your answer that question first and then andrew will respond so you want me to

02:36:27.040 answer this question sure do i think that a woman who's been loose no no no no the question directed

02:36:32.480 at alexis i'm alexis oh i don't know there's ten of you and one of me how about that um he's asking

02:36:39.040 alexis are you the girl yes that was me with my friend most definitely and talked about eating

02:36:44.160 guys single berries yes i eat a guy's ass i do whatever my man wants i'm submissive if he wants

02:36:48.320 me to do this i will do that anything sexually i will do please him that's fucking disgusting

02:36:54.240 who said that that's just like that was nick so yeah so that's 100 i have definitely talked

02:37:00.720 about that i will do i will eat a guy's ass if that's what my man wants there's no lying about

02:37:06.320 i want to go home so you've eaten shit i mean yeah i i've aided my man's ass out for sure that's

02:37:13.280 fucking disgusting okay i mean not to um i'm sure there's a man in this room that has had it done but

02:37:20.160 they just won't admit to it i think that it's actually like um very like being um sexually

02:37:25.360 aware and in tune with uh what feels good in your body and i think that with the right person that you

02:37:29.760 should do that and you know there's nothing wrong with it i think that we're humans that we should

02:37:33.680 experience everything that look let's not linger too long on the fucking right okay salad

02:37:38.640 to answer to the uh yeah i don't know what he he made it seem like if i was like ashamed of that

02:37:43.680 i'm very much open to talk about do the this one yeah i wasn't asking if you were ashamed i just

02:37:51.120 wanted to get clarification um but anyway to answer the question i literally think that serial killers

02:37:57.840 can be redeemed in the eyes of christ i think that uh basically every human being has the capacity for

02:38:04.720 redemption right basically all of them i i the even even even to kind of absurd extents i think

02:38:12.800 i think that people are redeemable all right there you go thank you screwdriver for the question okay

02:38:17.760 i need to try to get through i had a ton of questions that we kind of there were a ton of

02:38:22.000 conversational threads i wanted to touch on we were talking about sugar sugar daddies really quick i think we

02:38:27.200 left off with you um did we yeah i think so so uh you had one sugar daddy what was the i think the

02:38:36.720 question was what was the arrangement there so you would talk to him and he'd just send you money yeah

02:38:41.200 we would facetime and like basically like sext but like never met video no he wanted to be in person

02:38:48.480 what would be like how much would he pay you just to talk i mean he would just send me money like

02:38:54.800 five hundred dollars here five hundred there like he would pay me five hundred dollars for

02:38:58.640 a nude photo back in the day when only fans was like not so well known i was making like

02:39:05.360 so much money off of just like pictures of myself from my like chest down not even showing my face

02:39:12.320 how much from this one one sugar daddy what's the biggest singular payment he ever sent you um two

02:39:19.600 thousand dollars what's in total yeah no i mean like oh what's the total like oh i don't know

02:39:26.720 more than six figures no it was definitely not more than six figures it wasn't even a long estimate

02:39:35.520 more than ten thousand i think it was probably under under ten okay yeah uh no sugar daddies if i

02:39:41.840 recall no sugar daddies you said you currently have three sugar dad or did you have a sugar daddy no i

02:39:46.240 said i was i felt like more like a sugar mama i see okay wait you've you were sugar mama was it with

02:39:51.600 the guy you were dating though like i'd like somebody oh it was the guy you were filming with

02:39:57.600 the the workout guy it's dating so there was another person your mic a little closer to

02:40:03.120 um yeah i was just somebody i was dating it was gonna scoot the mic a little bit an arrangement i guess

02:40:07.120 okay how much were you paying him

02:40:08.720 asking for nick he's looking for a sugar mama nick are you down for a sugar mama i mean are you down

02:40:20.080 are you down he's a virgin though so he's a virgin so like you know you can't like try to get at him

02:40:26.000 like that but like he'll like send you fee pics and shit oh it was a good amount for him it was like

02:40:32.320 i'm actually trying to do an intro here for nick but what if he doesn't qualify don't be dash full

02:40:39.280 wait what doesn't qualify he's a he's a giga chad nick's a fucking giga chad yeah but that's not

02:40:44.880 really considered is he not your type um i haven't even looked at him too well he's tall wait oh

02:40:50.720 oh shit gamer he's going tech you know all right um sorry nick i tried my best i tried my best make

02:41:03.680 you real um okay you have three three sugar daddies into the mic yeah i currently do have three try to

02:41:12.000 scoot into the table it'll be it'll help you out sorry um so you currently have three is that the

02:41:19.200 most you've ever had have you had more before at one time yeah but have you you've had others in

02:41:24.000 the past that are no longer currently your sugar daddy yeah okay and so what is the arrangement

02:41:29.520 there you you just talked to them have you met any of them in person one of them i did meet no two of

02:41:34.400 them i met in person um but one was a pre-organized arrangement the other one just kind of fell into it

02:41:40.000 okay i don't do anything promiscuous or sexual with these sugar daddies it's all mostly conversation

02:41:46.960 probably the most intensive have you kissed any of them once yeah once yeah okay uh how did you meet

02:41:56.240 them seeking.com no i don't use any dating apps they just reach out to me in your instagram bio

02:42:04.800 it says nick can you actually pull it up it says god above all yeah i'm a christian i mean i know you

02:42:13.040 said you're not really doing anything sexual with these guys but no i'm not doing anything sexual it

02:42:18.720 seems like sugar daddy is a little veering into sex work like do you how do you reconcile sort of being

02:42:27.360 adjacent sex work adjacent maybe is it sex work it might be so i don't know but you said you've got

02:42:34.320 god above all in your instagram bio how do you reconcile that there's really nothing to reconcile

02:42:39.440 because i have god above all because god is everything to me and because i'm a christian

02:42:44.720 i'll stand by that the only thing i'll do anything sexual with an arrangement like that i'm not doing

02:42:49.280 it for money but you think like a godly christian man would look at a woman who is uh currently has

02:42:54.640 like three sugar daddies and be like this is somebody who's walking the right path i mean yeah because

02:43:03.840 my boyfriend is christian so he doesn't care your christian boyfriend's cool with you having

02:43:08.320 three sugar daddies i'm not sleeping with them what is in the messages that you exchange with them

02:43:15.520 is there is there any sexual nature to the conversations you're having if they might say

02:43:20.480 oh my gosh i saw your post you look amazing or oh my gosh your butt looks cute that's great he knows

02:43:26.240 it he's confident in himself i'm not gonna go out with anybody who's insecure he's gonna know with

02:43:29.760 himself okay this is my woman she's coming home with me at the end of the night you guys can send

02:43:34.320 her as much money as you want you guys can text or whatever i'm not going to say anything i'm not

02:43:39.120 going to be like oh thanks do you want to see this do you want to see that they can say whatever they

02:43:42.640 want okay what um i'm sorry go ahead brian oh yeah so um so what's that nick oh you can pull up the

02:43:52.720 insta really quick um you can scroll it up a bit or maybe left small yeah left small um so there it is

02:44:02.800 god above all uh i don't know if having sugar daddies contravenes uh your religion but it's

02:44:14.000 yeah it does so uh okay if you don't mind if i dive in yeah just curious when you identify as being a

02:44:21.200 christian uh what would that mean to you what does that mean to be a christian being a christian means

02:44:27.440 that i follow god's statutes and laws and i have a real relationship with him i pray to him i don't

02:44:31.920 just believe he exists i actually am a christian okay so what part of the christian ethic would

02:44:39.520 permit men who are sexually attracted to you and are sending you money for sexual gratification

02:44:45.920 which part of this the christian ethic would reconcile that um the part where they're not

02:44:51.280 sending me money for sexual gratification they say then why are they sending it they're sending it

02:44:56.560 because they saw a freshly new college grad and they said oh my gosh you're a woman with a good

02:45:02.160 head on her shoulders i'm just gonna talk to you every day and i want to send you money and that's

02:45:05.840 basically it and there's no sexual talk whatsoever not from mine not at all no i didn't ask from your

02:45:13.200 end i asked if there's sexual talk whatsoever the most sexual talk is that you look great you look good

02:45:18.400 wow you look great in this and then you don't think yeah and so you don't think that they're sending you

02:45:24.720 the money and telling you how good you look because they themselves are being sexually gratified by this

02:45:29.600 i just want to make sure that that's your actual position on this i mean they're not sending me

02:45:33.760 money because they're being sexually gratified like they don't send me money and say you look great

02:45:38.800 in this outfit i'm going to send you money right now they say oh my gosh i just saw the pictures you

02:45:43.680 took you look amazing we have a conversation at the end of the day and then they just might send

02:45:48.080 me 500 or 600 or whatever they send you 500 or 600 dollars because they just want to see you do well in

02:45:54.480 life yes life why do you think they picked you specifically could you say that again why do you

02:46:03.600 think they picked you specifically to just want to spend their largest on in order to make sure that

02:46:09.360 you had a good life why do you think they picked you in particular i'm not gonna lie

02:46:14.160 i'm not gonna say my looks don't attribute to it but some men with money do just want to talk every

02:46:20.240 day to a woman who's well-dressed well educated they want to go out and they have and they obviously have

02:46:28.160 sexual motivations for right if they have sexual motivation that's not my priority well yeah that's

02:46:34.160 true it's not you responding in a sexual way but if you are in this sense you are promoting that they

02:46:43.040 can live inside of the fantasy of this perceived uh sexual relationship by sending you money and

02:46:50.480 i'd like to know which part of the christian ethic that's okay well do you think that jesus would say

02:46:55.600 oh yeah have sugar daddies it's nice that these guys tell you how great you look and are sexually

02:47:00.000 attracted to you that's wonderful you think that that's like literally you really think that that's

02:47:05.600 within the christian ethic within my relationship with god god knows that my mindset and my spirit

02:47:11.760 is right with the fact that if they're sending me money based on my looks only and because i'm

02:47:15.920 sending them explicit videos or images then that's wrong and i would feel that within my spirit and i'm

02:47:20.880 not judging anybody who does that that's your prerogative but for me personally with my relationship

02:47:24.960 with christ i'm just having a conversation with someone last question then last question for this

02:47:30.400 let's assume for a second that you knew that there were men who murdered people with guns

02:47:37.360 and you never actually participated in any sort of murder you just made their bullets

02:47:42.480 and sent them to them do you think that you're assisting in them participating in murdering

02:47:51.040 making their bullets do i know that they're using it to murder you know that they're using it to

02:47:56.560 murder then you just make their bullets are you helping and participating in that murder it's part

02:48:04.480 of the process i don't understand is that yes basically yeah yeah yes so how are you not doing the

02:48:14.000 exact same thing here in this situation by allowing them to participate in this form of sexual gratification

02:48:22.000 i don't understand that because the same pictures that they compliment me on and the same pictures

02:48:26.720 that they travel wild with their fantasies are the same pictures that are on my instagram they're not

02:48:31.440 getting anything that no one else isn't getting for free they have a choice i'm not forcing them to

02:48:35.600 send money they do it by their own volition yeah but so does the twilliam donated one hundred dollars

02:48:44.240 no man with any self-respect would commit to a woman who chooses desire as a job imagine a man

02:48:50.480 posting videos of his alcoholic or heart drug behavior would that make you allured do better digins

02:48:57.440 yeah so the quite the question just just basically is are you complicit are you complicit just like

02:49:05.120 the bullet maker are you being complicit am i being complicit i'm yes are you being party to this

02:49:11.360 thing that you know is wrong like for instance if somebody else were to come to you if another if a

02:49:15.680 woman came to you and said i'm a christian woman and this guy wants to pay me money specifically

02:49:21.600 because he fantasizes about having a sexual relationship would you advise that she do that

02:49:26.000 mike davis donated one hundred dollars i have no sympathy for a man who wifes a hoe

02:49:32.080 wifing any woman is a mistake all the more so a hoe also brian used this one hundred dollars to

02:49:38.880 replace the mic that assita used i see aids particles from her mouth oh my god good lord anyway i'm just

02:49:47.120 i'm just asking thank you mike davis yeah what was the question yeah yeah i'm just asking excuse me if

02:49:53.760 you're complicit if another christian woman came over and said look i'm i'm trying to walk the path

02:50:00.160 of jesus christ d would you and and said i have some men who want to send me money so that they can

02:50:06.240 fap to pictures of mine would you recommend that she do that i would ask her what are you giving

02:50:12.480 these men that they are sending her money and if she just says i'm just saying good morning and i have

02:50:16.560 friends who have done that i have friends who have men grown men with jobs good paying jobs who literally

02:50:22.800 just get satisfaction from sending a young woman money and if this one's like oh i don't send him

02:50:28.720 any pictures i don't do anything sexually exposed like he just sends me money we just have conversation

02:50:33.520 that's fine what is wrong with that why would jesus hate that well in this particular case by your own

02:50:40.800 admission you said that these men you think are talking to you because they in some form are engaged in

02:50:46.320 fantasy and i never said anything that they're in well no you literally did i asked why are they

02:50:52.240 sending you money and you said a big component of that is how you look of how i look don't you think

02:50:57.680 it's a little ridiculous to say that they're sending you money specifically and not ugly women

02:51:03.440 why would you think that that would be my past because because you just have such a charming

02:51:08.960 personality or could there be maybe other factors there if they are fapping or doing anything with

02:51:17.360 their own two hands that's fine with them i don't think i'm eating in that sense because my pictures

02:51:23.200 are on instagram it's not for something to be paid for it's literally here i'm gonna move it on a little

02:51:28.320 bit here so okay um just just so we have a bit of a sense of the scope of your arrangement um you currently

02:51:36.960 have three right now so what what are they doing they're paying you 500 a couple times a month what

02:51:44.560 are they doing a couple times a month here and there if they're just like how's your day going

02:51:48.720 going i say good morning oh i'm about to get my hair done okay i'll send you 300 oh i want to get my

02:51:52.880 nails done okay i'll send you oh here's a question for you now you've got three of them currently you

02:52:00.080 will you send each of them the same text saying oh i'm gonna go get my nails done

02:52:05.600 and are you sort of anticipating that each one of them is going to send you the 300 for your nails

02:52:12.960 has that ever happened wait tell each of them i'm getting my nails done well for example let's say

02:52:17.920 you have a thousand dollar rent payment a month and you have three sugar daddies if one of those

02:52:23.360 sugar daddies sends you a thousand dollars for your rent payment would you then go to the other two

02:52:28.720 and also say well i have a thousand dollar rent payment so in practice you're getting three

02:52:33.280 thousand dollars and you're i would not do that stop the cap okay um so what what's the biggest one

02:52:41.280 time transaction that you've received from them um from one probably seven hundred seven hundred dollars

02:52:49.920 yeah and then uh so i'm curious for and we'll do we'll go one by one uh what's the total you've

02:52:56.720 received from all three in one month no no like total over the course of your arrangement

02:53:05.920 in like like in a year probably or like a month however long you've been involved with them that's a

02:53:10.880 long number just just so one that one by one so number one gave me ten thousand number two gave me

02:53:17.360 fifty thousand something like that one probably gave me close to maybe in the scope of like a year

02:53:27.120 wow well does it just money or because they give me jewelry sometimes sure factor factor in the fair

02:53:32.560 market factor in the fair market value of the gifts okay i will admit from one i probably got close to

02:53:39.920 like 15k another one i got close to nothing crazy like two bands and then another one

02:53:50.080 probably around like good for you um i love that i don't know like

02:53:57.920 three thousand thirty thirty thousand not thirty thousand oh three thousand like three thousand three

02:54:02.480 thousand five thousand okay life on easy mode um okay so you you said you had quite a few sugar daddies

02:54:12.400 correct is it possible i don't know are you able to scoot into the table or are you locked out yeah

02:54:19.520 all the way so you can get into the mic

02:54:21.360 okay i'm here okay so you did escorting you've had sugar daddies um you said from the escorting you had

02:54:32.880 over like hundreds of clients over the years yes over the years um what just out of curiosity what would

02:54:40.560 you typically uh make from that like with each person yeah for one-time engagement i guess

02:54:51.360 um um i would say on average thousand to 1500 on average some were always higher like 5k some were

02:55:01.440 like a thousand okay yeah what about the sugar daddies so what what's the and it sounded like

02:55:09.520 you had quite a few how many sugar dads do you think you've had dozens hundreds man i i really would

02:55:16.480 say like well i guess sugar daddy in a sense of like just a one-time thing are you including the

02:55:23.840 one-timers too like that i went home with after the club because i've had a lot of those wait you

02:55:29.760 mean after the strip club yes you went home with them wouldn't that be escorting though not sugar daddy

02:55:35.840 okay well i suppose you could have sex with carnal knowledge with the sugar daddies too although it

02:55:42.800 seems to me like a lot of a lot of girls who have sugar daddies actually never end up having sex with

02:55:47.920 them so um so you would would you sleep with your sugar daddies so yeah like the first few years i

02:55:57.520 would sleep with every single one and then it's almost like i started to get convicted slowly because

02:56:04.800 i called myself a christian even a few years ago but i was still dancing right so it was it's been a

02:56:09.760 process it didn't happen like overnight um but uh and and i wanted to say that also for her as well

02:56:16.640 like um you know god convicts us all at different times sometimes his hand weighs heavily upon you

02:56:22.800 in a night sometimes it's slowly because he's a gentle loving father that's how god is you know so

02:56:28.400 i would say to bring it back to the question um you know that there's a lot of grace you know that he

02:56:34.400 showed me and i uh there was times where i would even evangelize in the club like when i started

02:56:39.840 reading scripture and praying i know it sounds crazy but you know god works in mysterious ways

02:56:43.920 you know and i've prayed for people in the club sometimes i wouldn't even like dance for them i

02:56:48.640 just sit and talk with them because these men are hurting you know and i was hurting too that's why i was

02:56:53.280 there so um satan feeds us lies to where two people that are hurting can feed off of each other in a very

02:56:58.480 toxic way and so i would just um you know explain the whole my whole ex lifestyle like that you know

02:57:05.200 whether i was doing videos in the club one-on-one um but but yeah so the question um what was the

02:57:11.440 question again sorry i got you hold on

02:57:20.240 so the question is i'm curious about this kind of the scope of the sugar daddies

02:57:24.480 uh what so let's let me try to be more precise what's the biggest one-time transaction okay that

02:57:30.560 you've ever had

02:57:35.360 and once like a whole night guy just sends you oh ten thousand dollars without seeing him in person

02:57:42.560 just online let's do both oh wow okay um oh man

02:57:50.160 would you consider online people like this is juicy like this is like an interesting question

02:57:54.320 because you know what i'm saying like yeah there's something like is a sugar daddy someone in

02:57:57.360 person or virtually they can be both they could be virtually yeah okay 100 well you're only fans i

02:58:03.360 mean only fans is sort of no but when you have a sugar i feel like a sugar daddy is a physical like

02:58:08.240 you're giving him a relationship because in that case then yeah you know i feel like it would be

02:58:12.720 different for a lot of like that is true answer would be a lot different sure um i'll say

02:58:19.520 i don't remember if it was 7 000 or 8 000 one of those one-time transaction and then what's what's

02:58:25.360 the most in total any individual ever sent you

02:58:33.440 close to 100k over the span of a few years close to 100k what about like the number two number three spot

02:58:39.600 50k 20k something around there do you think from all the just the sugar daddies do you think you've

02:58:48.640 made over a million total

02:58:56.320 oh

02:58:59.120 close my davis donated 100 these hoes cheering on other girls for being hoes is the epitome of

02:59:06.560 misery likes company love that for you you go girl they ain't your friends

02:59:12.480 cheering over our decisions to feel better avt theirs hey mike davis because i have a question

02:59:18.400 about the sugar daddy sugar baby thing wait did you answer the oh like i would say close close

02:59:26.400 what about from escorting oh i was actually factoring that in oh okay yeah okay uh and then

02:59:33.600 you were you dating at this time same time too

02:59:39.120 while you're escorting yes would you disclose to partners that you were escorting no i was lying

02:59:47.200 damn yeah damn

02:59:51.760 can you ever adjust your mic me oh can you scoot your mic that way i think no just the base

02:59:57.760 scoot it that way did you save that money a lot of it that didn't really scoot it scoot it

03:00:02.960 none of us because that's gonna go to my next question but tilt turn it turn the mic towards

03:00:07.680 you your question yeah yeah yeah did you save a lot of that money or blow a lot of that money so

03:00:14.160 because i i didn't have any basis because i you know i was very unstable without god in my life and

03:00:19.840 without following god so i didn't have the fruits of the spirit to steward that money so it all went to

03:00:24.000 traveling um i often supported my family as well so like i understand when you're saying you know you

03:00:28.560 had to do what you had to do because at the time i i thought that like i believed that i was like you know

03:00:32.640 i gotta support my mom my mom was on heroin most of my life as well so i was paying for my sister's

03:00:37.360 schooling um you know my mindset was like i gotta like make sure i'm good my family's good you know

03:00:43.200 and so and i grew up very poor you know so i just felt like i was pressured into it now the skills have

03:00:51.280 been removed and i genuinely see that i just believed the lies of the enemy but god also revealed to me hey

03:00:57.440 that was never your responsibility to take care of them i didn't give that responsibility to and you

03:01:02.880 you said you also did uh you were involved in the adult entertainment industry yes um how many and

03:01:09.680 i'll open this up to some of the other girls how many scenes did you do okay so i actually didn't do

03:01:14.880 that many because i got married shortly after that okay and i met him in the club actually

03:01:19.440 i actually met a lot of my boyfriends in the clubs because i was mostly in the clubs right yeah oh in

03:01:26.160 the strip club okay i thought you meant the club in the club 50 cent okay uh how many scenes have you

03:01:33.920 done with um like 100 with 100 yeah what about you like with different people or all together

03:01:43.520 uh let's say with different people maybe like 10 15 what about what about you maybe 25 okay got it

03:01:53.040 and then moving it over to you you said that you did of in your past correct yeah but it wasn't of it

03:02:01.440 was like patreon but okay same thing yeah and so what kind of content were you were you making um so

03:02:08.320 basically i called it at the time like i was in such a delusion that i was calling it like artistic

03:02:13.680 nudes and i would never actually show like full-blown nudes it'd always be censored um but i would

03:02:20.240 always call it like art and the people around me would say it's art but it's like really just online

03:02:26.160 prostitution i think it's art how's that prostitution if i think that photographers

03:02:32.400 photography seems like art budur yeah that's what i did was like that's art but i don't think that's

03:02:37.920 art i think i was like making money off of like sexual like it's sexual like guys

03:02:43.600 no matter it depends on how you look at it no matter how much like we say that it's not the

03:02:48.800 bodies are the men they are seeing it sexually and they are definitely doing things not all men look

03:02:54.640 at it like sexually though i think what about gay men you think gay men are looking at women and

03:02:59.120 thinking it's sexual i don't think gay men are subscribing to the only fans no but like everyone

03:03:05.280 looks at it like it's art boudoir is art but i don't know was that the extent of what you were

03:03:11.120 doing like there you never posted it was just patreon were you doing uh any sugar daddy stuff

03:03:17.120 okay did you ever one-on-one send any of these like customs i think they're called would you do

03:03:23.680 customs like can you define customs like it's a you're directly messaging with somebody they put in

03:03:29.280 a specific request maybe what you're putting out there on your patreon is did you send out nude photo

03:03:35.600 sets that they requested from you no okay so all the photos that you posted were censored you were

03:03:42.080 nude but it was like censored okay that seems like art i don't think it's art because it's like

03:03:48.560 well you're doing like the ahi you think it's wrong i think we can why why are you laughing over

03:03:54.320 here cheyenne and she was the ahi gal i don't know am i even saying you said it how do i say it

03:04:01.760 a hey go okay cheyenne's the hey go queen hey go queen okay um there you go so it's like what like

03:04:10.960 you're dressing up as video game characters type shit cosplaying um not so much it wasn't really

03:04:17.200 cosplay like no okay she's talking full nude like photography like i think that's really artistic

03:04:23.360 though like were you just like posing and like showing like you're yeah i was showing my body and

03:04:29.120 i do think i think that's i feel like it's the same thing is if your intention is to make a guy come i

03:04:33.920 think it's like whether you're getting gang banged or you're sending him a picture of just your

03:04:38.160 ponytail if you know that this man is getting sexual pleasure from it i feel like it's equally

03:04:42.880 the same i mean i don't really agree it's different in the way that what she's doing is

03:04:49.520 money worth more than your soul two have you actually thought about 10 years into your future

03:04:56.000 three if the men you choose are toxic aren't you the problem just hey just i thank you for your

03:05:02.240 tts just as a general rule though we can only do like one question per a lot per tts so if you want

03:05:08.480 to submit other ones you can but just for the sake of time we only we only allow one question per tts

03:05:14.160 um is money worth more than your soul have you actually thought that pick the best one let's just

03:05:20.880 not the first one maybe the third one if the men you choose are toxic aren't you

03:05:24.640 and no let's do fuck it we'll do the first one is money worth more than your soul

03:05:30.880 yeah i'm just kidding at least she's honest i don't believe like a soul is a thing you can sell

03:05:36.720 or buy like money is in this reality worth a lot and it makes you happy so i think money you believe

03:05:43.600 that a soul exists i believe that energy exists i don't know if it's like it's a lot it's i'm not

03:05:49.840 gonna get into a deep theological debate i believe in a lot of things i don't i don't think it has anything

03:05:53.440 to do with each other no absolutely not no and lucas says what does it profit a man if he gains

03:06:01.120 the whole world but forfeits his soul and that's the number one verse that convicted me i've also

03:06:05.680 had dreams of hell and i've had dreams of heaven so for me i believe my mom's also went to hell and

03:06:11.200 she came back so like i've just had so many supernatural experiences to where i can only believe

03:06:15.600 in the second coming and the forfeiting of soul that she's talking about is eternal burning like

03:06:25.040 i don't think people understand like burning like dying by burning just answer the question

03:06:29.280 just answer the question please the most um is money worth more than no absolutely not yes

03:06:35.440 i agree with you that they kind of like i don't think they correlate really at all i have i do

03:06:44.000 think that like money kind of does buy happiness right i agree i mean yeah yeah yeah if i have money

03:06:50.880 i'm happy yeah seriously you know if nobody told you what a soul was you wouldn't really know what a soul

03:06:57.120 was wait okay so we were i want to touch on the roster thing really quick did we go around on the

03:07:03.120 roster do you have a roster have you had a roster i don't really what do you mean like who i'm like

03:07:08.000 currently entertaining multiple men at the same yeah you already asked me that oh did i did yeah

03:07:12.640 i don't know where we left off or no i don't ask only work related std tested like it's not like a

03:07:18.640 roster outside of that i don't have a roster i wish scoot your mic to the edge of the table go ahead

03:07:26.480 are you talking about currently or in the past both in the past yes but like she said before

03:07:32.800 like about conviction i've been convicted about that and i've been more into being with one person

03:07:38.160 now but there's no conviction about sugar no i don't right now no um sorry what what is the roster

03:07:47.760 dating multiple people at the same time no no i do not um i feel like there's like people you like

03:07:58.240 talk to from hinge and tinder and dating apps and stuff but um right now currently no i don't have

03:08:03.680 a roster but i have before no i don't okay all right i guess that covers the roster thing we did

03:08:12.240 sugar babies all right i'm gonna get into some of the pre-show notes here pretty soon uh question for

03:08:18.480 you two are you guys born again virgins what do you mean by that i don't know did you just claim

03:08:25.760 the title born again virgin like no like if you mean like physical virgin i don't know i think that

03:08:32.560 once you've lost it would you have sex without marriage maybe yeah we're we're celibate we're not

03:08:38.080 having sex because that's what about what about you are you a born again virgin i am yeah i wouldn't

03:08:44.800 say like i don't say like i'm a born again virgin all the time but like i am yes what the hell does

03:08:49.840 that mean okay yeah so like she said not physically but spiritually um it's interesting because when i

03:08:58.400 you know when i was having sex every day because like there was a time where i literally classified

03:09:02.400 myself as like a sex addict you know i was doing it every single day for years and um you know and i

03:09:07.360 gave into it like i was like this is what i want to do this is my life i choose you know and of course

03:09:13.280 there's moments where because you're giving into the flesh so of course you like it you know your

03:09:17.120 flesh likes it we're in the flesh we're human you know and so but now i have peace so when did you

03:09:24.960 when did you convert i've dabbled into a whole lot of religions but i always came back to christianity

03:09:32.640 but i started to surrender fully like really born again last year in may when i decided you haven't

03:09:38.160 had any any sort of sexual activity since that conversion no okay so then when you say born

03:09:45.760 again virgin you just mean that you have abstained from sex since you converted yes okay but you wouldn't

03:09:54.080 say that that's maps on to the material reality and the fact of the matter correct yes okay gotcha so

03:10:02.000 you're you're when you say uh spiritually right you're a virgin this what what what does this

03:10:10.240 actually mean to a partner like a potential suitor if you tell a potential suitor i've slept with 50

03:10:17.040 plus men but i have found faith in jesus christ while they can take the consideration spiritually that

03:10:24.880 it's great that you're christian and have moved down that road shouldn't they still consider your sexual

03:10:30.480 history that's where redemption and forgiveness comes in um because honestly like if i and i'm

03:10:39.200 sure maybe my future husband does have a promiscuous past just like me you know i will have the same

03:10:45.040 grace for him you know i think it comes down to like just grace and forgiving and that's why it's

03:10:49.520 important to be with a believer because if yeah i don't yeah hang on hang on i don't disagree with you

03:10:55.520 that you can find somebody who has a messed up past or has done things in their past or that people

03:11:00.400 can't be redeemed or that people don't make mistakes and deserve to have grace for it i agree with

03:11:05.200 all of those things yeah but to the question even if you make this conversion to christianity

03:11:15.040 shouldn't a partner still consider the body count

03:11:17.680 to understand the trauma to better understand um the the traumatic experiences and the way you used

03:11:31.360 to be and where you've came because it's our testimony because god says that we bring people

03:11:35.760 to christ and the goodness of god brings people back to him so glad i'm not dating donated one hundred

03:11:41.840 dollars hypothetically you have a son he is pure strong smart successful and morally straight he

03:11:50.240 brings home a woman literal mirror image physically emotionally and mentally of yourself your reaction

03:11:57.520 yeah that's a great question what is your reaction well so hypothetically i have to read that again he

03:12:06.080 has pure strong smart so here i'll just put it in the easiest way possible what he's asking is this

03:12:11.840 if your son who's straight laced as can be who you've raised up brought home a woman that had your

03:12:17.600 past would you be a little bit skeptical no no you wouldn't and do you think that that's responsible

03:12:28.400 well if she's considering assuming that she's a christian i i wouldn't judge her at all because

03:12:32.960 that's that's judging that's what i call judging someone yeah but do you have your you have judgment

03:12:38.720 for a reason god also gave you judgment so that you can make judgment calls so discernment is what

03:12:45.200 you're speaking of discernment is way different i'm not speaking of discernment i'm speaking about

03:12:49.600 judgment not just discernment discernment is how you navigate the path judgment is how you call the path

03:12:56.000 so i'm asking you specifically about judgment wouldn't you make if anybody says that there's a

03:13:04.880 flag a red flag for a person's past or something like this they're making a judgment they are making

03:13:10.720 a judgment and so the question becomes don't you think that you would make a judgment with your own

03:13:16.480 child now it doesn't mean you couldn't see past it but wouldn't you say wait a second before you do this

03:13:22.640 think about x y and z wouldn't that be a judgment i would definitely want to meet her but i would

03:13:30.320 also have such a deep understanding because i went through the same thing and i know my heart with god

03:13:36.080 and god knows and he judges the intentions of the heart and god says that he's the only person that's

03:13:40.880 to judge so i i think we disagree with whether a person actually judges and what that means i think

03:13:47.040 that's where the i have a question yeah uh would you prefer him bring someone else home say that

03:13:53.360 she's still with her faith she's still a christian would you prefer that he bring someone else home

03:14:00.080 who's a secularist who's a secular list yeah also so your son comes to you and says i i want to get

03:14:09.680 with this chick who has the same past you do but is not a christian well that's completely different

03:14:16.160 that's a different yeah i know i know it's completely different that's why i'm asking you

03:14:19.600 the question well i'll say this i've dated atheists before you know and and i can't dictate who my son

03:14:28.480 chooses i can educate him i can bring him up in the faith yeah i think you can at 15 or 16 years old

03:14:34.480 oh okay if he's a minor okay i'll use my sister right now my sister's 17 years old and she's speaking

03:14:42.880 to a boy right now and i don't know if he's necessarily christian i don't know his heart

03:14:47.600 um but i've just i i just this is how i you know um am a sister to her i'm just like hey you know

03:14:53.200 i know you guys are snapchatting this is her first guy and i've had many boyfriends so i just like come

03:14:58.080 with a open heart and i'm understanding and i'm just like hey if you ever have any questions if he ever

03:15:02.560 asks you to send nude pictures or if you ever feel weird or like he's abusive or just anything just just

03:15:07.360 know you can talk to me because sometimes we got to hit the floor before we realize hey like this isn't good

03:15:12.320 for me you know and i've hit the floor many times yeah but this doesn't answer my question

03:15:16.800 it really is kind of doing everything but answering my question would you prefer would you prefer that

03:15:24.240 your boy brought home a christian girl yes or isn't that a judgment no how is it not you have to be

03:15:33.840 with like-minded like for example if there's an atheist and an atheist i'm sure they'd want to

03:15:38.080 you know they probably don't want to be with a christian because they're totally what does that have

03:15:41.280 to do with anything i just asked you why would you have the preference that your boy brought home

03:15:46.400 a christian girl if that's not a judgment how is that not a judgment that's how could it even be

03:15:52.800 construed as anything other than a judgment you are judging right then and there that even right now

03:15:58.240 before it's even happened you've made the judgment that you're you and why would you prefer this if you

03:16:04.000 didn't judge this as being particularly better than the alternative yeah i would say it's wisdom and not

03:16:09.680 judgment are you a christian yourself wisdom to judge no no how is that not using wisdom like that

03:16:18.560 to judge that love i think it is judgment but like you said earlier judgment no no hang on let me get

03:16:24.560 back to this yes i agree it's wisdom but it's wisdom telling you to use what

03:16:33.360 it's like god telling us you know it's better to wait till marriage he does that not to tell us what

03:16:37.600 to do but he says i love you so much i don't want you to be with someone and have a soul tie with

03:16:42.320 somebody and be emotionally damaged that wasn't meant for you it's the same making a judgment god's

03:16:47.520 making a judgment he's god he can judge all he wants that's right he's god he can judge all he wants but

03:16:53.120 i'm asking you if that's the case and he's making a judgment in his wisdom how is it that you can determine

03:17:00.160 that this is something that is done from your wisdom but is not a judgment

03:17:07.520 for me i've just dated so many non-christians it doesn't work and it's a part of the main points

03:17:13.920 of the faith is to date another believer you have to be equally yoked right yeah yeah yeah

03:17:20.000 equally i know what that is yeah making a judgment though that's my point

03:17:26.560 it's a perfect awkward silence she just said it's a preference and not a judgment i actually that makes

03:17:33.280 more sense i just don't oh it's a it's a it's a preference well why do you prefer that well i think

03:17:39.280 it gets it's easier it's more god doesn't want you to constantly fight with someone on beliefs

03:17:43.680 if they don't want to believe you that sounds like a judgment it's not a judgment

03:17:49.200 mike davis donated 100 money absolutely buys happiness between money and a female i'm choosing

03:17:56.800 the bread every day whenever a female exited my life so did a problem unless to procreate the md

03:18:03.440 legacy keep me away thank you mike davis thank you mike davis can i ask a question that would be a

03:18:11.840 judgment as well those would all be judgments why don't these podcasts ever have men that are in the

03:18:16.880 adult industry on to kind of get their mindset about why they're in the industry one person but like

03:18:24.640 also in the panel of like what we do sometimes like the other perception like do you guys think

03:18:30.160 that those men are not high value men like do you have a perception perception of that like they're

03:18:35.520 not a good person or is it a yeah i think that uh adult film stars who are males are total

03:18:42.160 fucking scumbags i don't have like a answer on that does that does that like does that answer your

03:18:48.160 question that answers my question like do you think i'm being biased do you think i'm being biased with

03:18:54.160 my application a little bit i don't think he's being men who are porn stars less less good or

03:19:00.160 something because there's a lot of men that are porn stars and there's a lot of men that are in the

03:19:03.440 adult industry you might not know and would it change your if you didn't know that they did that

03:19:08.800 behind closed doors does it change your perception of that person as a person like what if you were

03:19:13.920 best friends with somebody you had no idea oh you mean if i didn't know if i didn't have the requisite

03:19:17.920 knowledge what if you never knew and they were your best friend yeah well sure i mean would it change

03:19:22.160 your knowledge then if you had a great neighbor who always brought you eggs and bacon every

03:19:26.960 morning but you found out they were a serial killer so i'd still be a serial killer like this is yeah

03:19:33.040 would that change your would that change your dynamic you thought he was great until you until

03:19:37.440 you found out he wasn't great i'd still be his friend i found out people like i would be i'd be

03:19:42.800 dexter's friend come on now he's hot but this but think about how what how ridiculous what you're

03:19:48.080 asking me is if you didn't have the prerequisite knowledge that somebody was doing something bad

03:19:52.960 would you make an error in judgment yes just like if you were friends with a serial killer

03:19:58.400 and didn't know he was a serial killer how you have no prerequisite knowledge for for your judgment

03:20:04.960 here right if i found out that my next door neighbor was a serial killer if he was like nice

03:20:11.440 to me and hot and didn't want to kill me i'd still be his friend i'm just saying okay i honestly think

03:20:18.960 it's just because you guys are a lot more interesting entertaining more opinionated to be honest

03:20:24.880 from my i think you're hot but i'm saying like does that make me a bad person like would you not want

03:20:32.400 me around your child like or you think no okay no she's the best babysitter that doesn't make sense

03:20:39.520 um this is not even to be mean you're just asking me i know it's not to be mean i'm just yeah yeah i

03:20:44.400 like to learn i'm just trying to i want to explain my why i would come at it this way okay i think

03:20:52.480 this is this is my opinion that a person who's willing to devalue themselves and debase themselves in

03:20:59.280 that way is experiencing what i would call pre-less and this is an orthodox christian

03:21:05.760 tradition and this means that you're involved in sin to the point where you can't escape it

03:21:11.600 this to me from my purview actually makes you a dangerous human being to have around for

03:21:16.960 prolonged periods of time around people i would care about i would definitely keep you at arm's length

03:21:22.880 that doesn't mean i would be mean to you or cruel to you or say that society should do cruel things

03:21:28.000 to you it just means that from my perspective yes i think arm's length would be the best place

03:21:34.640 what if we repent for our sins and we are able to like you know come back from it

03:21:42.000 repentance is great and that is exactly where i'd like to see everybody okay but that doesn't mean

03:21:46.640 if we do that would you still keep us in arms some holy hang on stop that doesn't mean that just

03:21:52.000 because somebody dumps what they call holy water on your head and i'm not talking about that

03:21:57.280 hang on let me finish and then says you're redeemed that that means i'm going to agree with that

03:22:03.040 at all and i still might keep you at arm's length for a while because christianity requires theosis

03:22:09.200 it's an ongoing process it's not something that's just well i i took the dunk and now i'm ready to go

03:22:15.280 it's an ongoing process so i don't i don't take everybody at their word i agree that just because

03:22:20.560 they got dunked that that means that they're living with the lord you know what i mean it seems a little

03:22:26.160 absurd yeah no i get it i don't think it makes you bad people either there's just obviously when you

03:22:31.280 have children certain actions and behaviors that you want to keep them safe from i truly say that like

03:22:38.000 i'm not a mom i'm almost 40 years old so i've been down this path where i tell my friends like

03:22:43.600 don't start only fans unless you're okay with the decisions you make like i'm okay with maybe being

03:22:49.360 single at this point in my life i'm okay with maybe not having kids maybe that's what i wanted when i

03:22:54.480 was 30 but i have to worry about myself at some point in my life and i'm okay with the decisions i

03:22:58.720 make and i'm having a little bit of fun with it you're super rational to at least so far you seem to

03:23:04.880 be rational and you're willing to have a good rational discussion can i ask you a question

03:23:08.720 i've been kind of wondering you said you don't plan on having kids yeah well it's not that i don't plan

03:23:15.840 on having kids if i had kids i would probably i would want to be a stay-at-home mother i wouldn't

03:23:20.800 want to be on only fans i say that yeah no i i understand that yeah i don't even think that that's

03:23:25.680 hypocritical um at all yeah but but my question is is knowing that this will probably take many of

03:23:32.880 those advantages away from having children with with mate selection this kind of thing

03:23:38.080 you do realize that you could end up becoming a genetic dead end well and isn't that isn't that

03:23:44.800 terrifying to think of that you could literally end up becoming a genetic dead end well i mean you

03:23:50.000 shake your head but you're a lot younger you got to remember that i'm not younger there's a no no

03:23:54.960 the gal next to you she was shaking her head and i'm like you're younger younger women always think

03:23:59.600 that there's time there's there's not as much as what if i don't want to have kids though

03:24:04.400 what's that what if i just don't want to have kids what's really funny i don't want to reproduce

03:24:09.920 myself what happens what happens often with young women and yes there's my studies for this if you

03:24:15.440 want to see them but what often happens with younger women is they think they have a prolonged

03:24:19.120 absence of time they don't even think about it what's interesting though is that once they come to

03:24:24.400 the end of their biological clock you start to see their panic set in must have kids must have kids

03:24:31.200 your body will actually tell you to do this it'll give you overwhelming urges to do this

03:24:36.000 what about just adopting cats you know like right now right now it's easy to be like well i don't even

03:24:41.120 want kids but what always happens on tiktok is there's a woman crying in her face going i can't

03:24:46.880 believe i waited this long and now i can't have kids well that sucks for that girl i'm not like her

03:24:51.600 i hope that's true to myself that's what they said that's what they all say right man i'm 33 i'm

03:24:57.600 not as young as you think i don't know what you thought i was how i'm 33 yeah okay well i don't

03:25:03.200 give a the overwhelming urge may still come over you i doubt it but sometimes i feel like in society

03:25:10.080 there needs to be a conversation where like why are women like choosing to like i don't feel sometimes i

03:25:15.760 always tell men like i don't feel emotionally safe and i've dated so many men in my life that i i kind

03:25:21.440 of just want to worry about myself and like we've worked so hard like i was a nurse struggling

03:25:26.400 for years then i was an influencer instagram and this is kind of like that last ditch effort to like

03:25:32.080 make more money to feel comfort and safe in my life and to support myself so it's not something

03:25:36.720 that like sometimes you guys think that we're bad people or that we're doing this because we want

03:25:41.520 to and we're like these like slutty whores it's also to like provide for ourselves because we're not

03:25:47.840 in this relationship or i i did the feminism feminism sold you a lie well i understand what

03:25:55.280 you're saying but i feel like at this point in my life like i got to figure it out for myself you're

03:25:59.760 looking you're looking for peace that's what you're looking for i'm looking that's what it sounds like

03:26:03.920 you're looking for peace and i've actually found peace and peace itself i found peace through money

03:26:08.480 and that's what it is because if nursing paid me it's it sucks but it's society's norm like if

03:26:14.960 nursing i was trying to say i was trying to say this before if nursing paid me 30 40 50k a month

03:26:21.680 i would run back to nursing tomorrow that's my calling and like thousand dollars a month

03:26:26.800 how many nurses make that much none none no that's what that's insanity but i'm saying doctors don't make

03:26:32.960 that a month attendings like but i'm saying on only fans we can make 10 20 30k i'm just saying

03:26:39.440 like the range nursing i was making like less than four thousand dollars a month and it was very

03:26:45.600 stressful so i feel like yeah but wait no you weren't making less than four thousand dollars a

03:26:50.400 month you said you're working 60 hours a week after taxes i'll be no no no don't tell me that's not

03:26:56.160 even possible do you want me to pull up my a thousand dollars right now what i literally

03:27:01.520 send it to you right now i will show you a pay stub of you working 60 hours a week every week

03:27:07.200 and you you pulled in less than four grand i'll send you a thousand bucks right now okay let's

03:27:11.840 talk later it's 13 i'll be honest i worked for 13 years as a neonatal icu nurse it's 13 shifts a

03:27:17.040 month some weeks were after taxes and the union dues and everything eight hundred dollars my biggest

03:27:22.240 paycheck was eleven hundred dollars i did this for years i was struggling living paycheck to paycheck

03:27:26.720 well then that's not 60 hours a week it's what a nurse's shift is i'm telling you yeah

03:27:32.400 no no no no no you said you were 60 hours a week 12 hour shifts but i'm saying yeah but 12 hour shifts

03:27:38.240 you can work one day a week how many days a week were you working i was working three okay so as a

03:27:43.760 nurse i'm just being so 36 hours can i try to educate you as a nurse my day is like i would wake up at

03:27:49.440 five in the morning i'd get to work at seven i work seven to seven i work nights for four years yeah

03:27:54.720 so i work 12 12 one day a week i'd work the um four days a week as a nurse so you work 13 shifts a

03:28:01.600 month so depending on like how you do your shifts but depending on if you work nights or days i didn't

03:28:06.800 say i work 60 hours a week there were 16 hour days because basically like you you wake up at five in

03:28:12.400 the morning i'm not getting home until like god forbid i want to go to the food store after work or i

03:28:16.480 wanted to go to the gym and try to people always say like you could have a family and do all this

03:28:21.360 stuff and i would see nurses oh my god who the hell well actually now i i don't care a little

03:28:28.000 bit because i just want to know this this is so frustrating i come on all these podcasts and i try

03:28:32.480 to explain like as a i'm listening and as a woman it's like explaining why i made this decision and why

03:28:38.800 a lot of other females and women typically make this decision you guys need to listen to this as a

03:28:44.160 society you made okay you made over 30 bucks an hour i'm guessing i would make i've made over

03:28:50.480 a hundred thousand dollars a year with overtime in new york okay okay but i'm asking you've made

03:28:55.760 over 30 bucks an hour graduating college yes i made over i've made over okay for sure yeah okay

03:29:01.040 then it's actually impossible it's actually impossible for you to have only netted in four

03:29:06.080 thousand dollars a month it's not even a possibility i live in new york city and i pay

03:29:09.440 but if you're talking about your shifts you're talking about your 33 taxes 33 on a hundred

03:29:14.960 thousand dollars a year almost done at 40 hours a week that would not be possible union dues i said

03:29:20.720 union dues i said other things that came out not even with union dues shut the do i have to pull up

03:29:25.680 my paycheck to actually be like this is the problem with men just telling women that they don't know

03:29:30.480 what they're talking about you need to just shut up because i did i lived this for 13 years no you

03:29:36.000 shut up you shut up it's so disgusting and the way you're talking to me right now is disgusting

03:29:41.600 literally i did this for 13 money is worthless in the pockets of professional

03:29:46.400 the west is dying because the family is dying men will refuse it's so disrespectful

03:29:51.120 are you ladies ready to be drafted since men have the freedom to leave

03:29:56.880 why don't you guys put your wings away but why can't i just be honest about my job and as what i

03:30:02.400 went through as a woman and you guys well he's honest about it it's really frustrating but you're

03:30:07.440 saying you're not the first time i've had to go on podcast where you fucking men tell me what i've

03:30:12.160 made as a woman what my worth as a woman is i've been a nurse i'm tired of it laugh about it

03:30:19.120 would you treat your daughter like that what would you treat somebody you know like that

03:30:22.800 well the thing is to make fun of her like let's make fun of nurses somebody they gave up their

03:30:28.160 life and went to school and did all this to take care of people he's questioning your math on the

03:30:32.720 my math i lived in new york city i had a budget my money and i lived paycheck to paycheck it's

03:30:38.560 this is kind of a boring conversation anyways it's boring i'm sorry it's boring to you but it's

03:30:42.960 this is honesty and i'm being honest i came on this podcast to be fucking honest why would i sit here

03:30:48.320 in live and i'm being honest okay i'm gonna get my i'm gonna totally get my paychecks i'm gonna

03:30:52.960 pull them up next time i come we'll get them it's a it's a cool we'll do it i'll show you like how

03:30:58.160 much money i made you didn't like the you didn't like the violence you have to say to me you said that

03:31:02.720 this podcast is not about making fun of a woman and that i put words in your mouth but you're

03:31:07.040 using your stream deck and nick is using his that was definitely nick to call her a b-word to laugh at

03:31:13.040 her like how is who called her i didn't call her well you you guys have a prompt that says

03:31:17.760 you're like insisting this is the kind of money i made and i'm like literally telling i would never

03:31:22.160 tell you you told me your wife you would leave her if she did this in her past wait i said okay

03:31:25.840 hey andrew what what uh what i forgot is she what is this tone policing that she's doing is that what

03:31:32.240 it is is that what that's called no she's speaking up for another one okay that's voicing but the thing

03:31:37.040 is the thing is funny is like look i'm not trying to be me i'm just telling you that based on 60 hours a

03:31:42.320 week i didn't say what you said did i say you did you did 16 hour days i didn't say oh my god

03:31:49.040 our weeks irrelevant all right it's irrelevant but like let's argue about it all day let's just move

03:31:54.000 on yeah what news flash if someone's on the verge of tears you should drop it because then it becomes

03:31:59.440 abusive it becomes oh god she you know stop whining you know what i mean have an adult conversation

03:32:05.600 stop being a whiner she's you know what i mean she's an adult she's chilling she's enjoying it

03:32:12.640 i'm so passionate she's actually more of an adult and more honest than you are i'm so passionate

03:32:18.320 about but you notice how you can only inhale insults you can't be an adult without inhaling

03:32:24.320 insults calling someone stupid you called her stupid stick and stone she was on the well of tears

03:32:29.120 being an adult no she was on the well of tears look you can say the brawnaissance donated 100

03:32:35.840 of course she's going to cry oh how sad you had to earn a degree in the greatest country on earth

03:32:42.640 i'm not crying these women lack accountability and men need to go overseas and marry play hole

03:32:48.480 divers two boys it's frustrating trying to talk to men who are like the reason i came up with this is

03:32:55.200 because at the rate i came up with seventy two hundred dollars a month that's why when you said

03:33:00.560 four thousand even with union dues at 60 hours a week it's thirty three percent taxes i was like no

03:33:05.200 fucking way that can't be like why are we arguing about this it's thirty three percent oh my god who

03:33:09.360 the hell can he cares he cares all right stop we're gonna move on we're gonna move on all right

03:33:15.600 actually we're gonna go back we're going back to the born again virgin thing okay because

03:33:22.160 she wanted to uh hijack the conversation to bring it back to her nursing career so we were initially

03:33:30.560 talking about i i was i was overhearing it i wasn't at the table but how if you had a son

03:33:41.840 and he brought home a girl you would have no who had the same background as you with the

03:33:48.400 prostitution and escorting and doing adult content and working in a strip club yeah uh for your own

03:33:56.880 son so long as she's a christian you would not have any sort of encouragement or suggestions towards

03:34:09.040 him to perhaps pursue a different partner and you're saying she's she's a christian right yes

03:34:19.440 no she's born again what okay she's okay uh if you had if your son showed you like oh i'm talking to

03:34:28.240 these two girls it's very early on and he had one girl that had your background christian and another

03:34:36.320 girl who was also christian but didn't have your background and perhaps let's say let's use the

03:34:41.040 uh extreme she's an actual virgin uh would you have a preference there

03:34:48.720 of course i would always encourage my kids to be with a christian because i've won't

03:34:53.200 both christian okay there's there's not a preference you you wouldn't have any no

03:34:59.280 so what if this woman had adult videos of herself online and whether she's christian or not you know

03:35:08.160 that those videos could perhaps have some negative ramifications on her future on your son's future

03:35:14.160 children uh maybe he's a career man he's a businessman being in a relationship or married

03:35:22.400 to such a woman could have negative impacts on his career let's say perhaps he's in politics for

03:35:28.000 example or he's just a businessman even then is if if you don't mind is that a fact that that does

03:35:35.840 affect politicians if their wife has things like that like lewd content on the internet yes the

03:35:41.040 partner that if if you're partnered with somebody who whose reputation is in disrepute if you choose

03:35:48.720 to marry and partner with them and have children with them by extension yes your partner's reputation

03:35:53.760 while it's not your reputation will have some some impact whether i don't know precisely what the

03:36:01.600 impact might be but you deny that it would have no impact i would say if it did impact what job the

03:36:12.480 husband got then it wasn't in his will to have that job from god that's how i look at it whatever is meant

03:36:19.200 for you will come i truly it's simple that's that's what i believe so if your son has career ambitions

03:36:25.920 and but by partnering

03:36:32.000 thank you natalia your son has specific career ambitions but there's he's presented with the choice

03:36:39.600 of two women and partnering with the woman hey guys don't talk back there partnering with

03:36:46.320 god i fucking lost my train of thought partnering with the woman who has this past yeah

03:36:56.400 i'm sorry i fucking it's okay take your time

03:37:00.800 okay do you okay i'm sorry i lost my fucking train of thought but you see where i'm going with this

03:37:06.880 yeah so like um uh correct me if i'm wrong but uh so are you saying that if there's two people and then

03:37:13.600 one has a past and they're christian and one has a past and they're not which one would i lean more

03:37:17.760 towards if if i would lean more towards somebody yeah i mean it's just i i really don't think in

03:37:27.920 that way and i know the answer you know you would have on that i just kind of sense that like obviously

03:37:33.360 you think you know the less trauma someone has the less that they've done you know explicitly sexually

03:37:39.360 with men that that would be a better option and i see like i see how you would think that and i will

03:37:44.320 admit there is less trauma with that girl for sure okay yeah i get that um i still wouldn't be biased

03:37:50.560 and say well since that girl's a christian too just because she hasn't had a past like me you should

03:37:54.320 pick her i just i wouldn't say that i genuinely wouldn't i would encourage anything i'd be like you

03:38:00.000 know what like you're your own person i'm your mother i've taught you the best i can may the holy

03:38:04.880 spirit lead you you know he can make his own decision may the holy spirit lead yeah your job

03:38:12.640 your job as a mother yeah is to mother your daughter right i just said i've taught him all

03:38:18.640 that he could know he's 18 now he can do make his own decisions what's wrong with that yeah okay yeah

03:38:26.080 they can make their own decisions but you're the guide stone yeah so it's your children are going to

03:38:31.040 call you for advice even past the age of 18 they're going to call for guidance they're going

03:38:35.040 to call for things like this right so if your daughter calls for guidance and says listen mom

03:38:38.960 there's two really handsome guys and they're both really nice to me and they're great one has a

03:38:44.080 christian background was raised by a christian family the other one comes from a broken home and

03:38:48.640 is a secularist yeah which one would you advise that she go with i mean i think any human wants

03:38:56.880 someone who's not as traumatic i mean so obviously someone would be like you know like i want someone

03:39:03.200 who treats me well who's stable all of us want that it's not just a man it's not just a woman all

03:39:07.760 of us want that deep down and so you know we can't cast any judgment on anybody and so it's just it all

03:39:14.880 boils down why can't we can't why can't you cast any judgment on any because it says only god can judge

03:39:19.760 we can't judge okay let's should we get should we get rid of judges in courtrooms can we move on

03:39:24.000 i honestly i want to know the answer should we get rid of judges in courtrooms are they doing

03:39:30.880 satan's work they really don't know just like well wait but they're judging people only god can judge

03:39:38.560 are you judged by your peers judges you know they're that's different that's with crime this is

03:39:46.400 relationships this is free will they're judging relationships it's different to me that's a

03:39:51.120 different category because when you're in the courtroom hey you killed somebody you did this

03:39:55.520 so it's like that makes no sense that's absurd they're still making judgment values so are they

03:39:59.600 doing the work of the devil just because they're a judge would you yeah because they're judging no

03:40:06.080 well then why can't you judge i don't understand why can't you 100 000 plus a year 52 weeks a year

03:40:13.360 minus 33 percent taxes is 67 000 far more than one thousand dollars a week no way around it

03:40:21.920 basic math even an e dollar and a like me can do and send me that one thousand dollars i'm going to

03:40:28.320 come back on and bring that wasn't what it was that wasn't what the agreement was for but yes i came up

03:40:33.920 with something very similar just based on 60 hours but at 100k that actually again that was that was kind

03:40:41.040 of the next word place i was going i didn't i didn't actually understand the math so that's all

03:40:46.240 i wasn't even trying to be mean i just didn't understand that here to bring it back okay so if

03:40:53.200 what if you found out your son brings back two women both christian one of them has her past one of

03:41:00.480 them doesn't she had the the one who has her past has an incurable std would you

03:41:08.000 make a judgment and suggest to your son well despite her being a repented christian woman

03:41:18.560 maybe don't pick the one who has hiv

03:41:24.720 would that be a judgment

03:41:28.240 that's it's it's not a judgment that is a preference but also do you also this raises a

03:41:33.360 question do you think that someone with hiv can't have a healthy relationship do you think they

03:41:38.480 can't have love after hiv so would you advise your son to date a woman who has hiv

03:41:48.960 i mean i wouldn't encourage it no of course not so why is everybody leaving the church andrew why is

03:41:56.240 everybody fleeing from protestantism you don't want your kid to date somebody with hiv just say it's okay to

03:42:02.560 say that i don't want my child to date somebody with hiv instead of making christians look insane

03:42:10.240 and stupid how about just saying the answer which is obvious you don't want your kid to date somebody

03:42:15.920 with hiv i just said that but i would love it if you could please stop with the insults okay i'm not

03:42:22.160 insulting you there was i've been respectful towards you so i deserve that back thank you what did i say

03:42:27.840 that was an insult you keep saying stupid it's not very nice i didn't call you stupid not even what

03:42:33.680 we're saying is stupid that what you said is stupid that doesn't mean you're stupid i'm a smart guy who

03:42:40.320 says stupid things sometimes it doesn't mean i'm stupid now back to this i'm just going to reiterate

03:42:46.480 obviously and clearly can't you just give a single simple direct answer yes you would prefer that your

03:42:51.600 kids uh married christians and yes you would prefer that they didn't have hiv and yes you make

03:42:56.480 judgment calls all the time and that that's okay you're trying to put words in my mouth i said yes

03:43:02.800 i of course i don't prefer my kid to marry someone with hiv of course i don't prefer that i just gave

03:43:07.600 you a clear answer on that so is somebody who's that's a judgment it's not it's a decision this is

03:43:15.760 getting it's like almost semantics a little bit now but it's well well hang on semantics are important

03:43:20.640 oh you're talking about something like judgment i know is that a judgment it's not a judgment it's

03:43:25.760 a decision it's not a judgment but then so why why is that not a judgment to advise your son hey maybe

03:43:33.360 don't date somebody who has hiv versus maybe don't date somebody who was previously involved in

03:43:41.600 prostitution and escorting and adult uh pornographic content why is one a judgment and the other not

03:43:48.960 because it's in the sentence that you said maybe you're just making a decision based on your

03:43:53.520 preference okay it's not a judgment a judgment what i can't i don't think these are undateable with this

03:44:01.200 all right so moving on slightly so okay you're a born again virgin

03:44:05.840 okay but you don't consider yourself a virgin correct physically of course not okay and i think to you too

03:44:12.720 you're not a virgin are you asking me if i'm a virgin or if i count myself as a born again virgin

03:44:19.520 either both i guess yeah i don't count myself as a born again virgin like physically okay but you guys

03:44:26.640 are both uh waiting until marriage yes is that correct yes are you what are you waiting until marriage to

03:44:35.920 have sex i plan on it yes what do you mean you plan on it i plan on waiting until marriage

03:44:41.280 marriage but you're you're not a virgin correct no okay um so i mean that's a hundred percent your

03:44:52.320 choice however my dating recommendation to any men watching uh

03:44:59.360 it that's that's a bad deal that's a raw deal for for men so uh i do not recommend dating women who

03:45:10.240 have previously been promiscule excuse me who have previously been sexually promiscuous

03:45:17.120 that is a judgment because you called i'm fine with but see i'm cool with judgment see what you guys

03:45:25.440 like to point the finger but like women are when it comes to selecting partners you guys are

03:45:30.400 fucking ruthless men ask for very very little from women when it comes to dating but you guys will

03:45:36.480 literally have fucking laundry lists of what you need now just because you guys will say well i don't

03:45:42.400 i'll date an obese person which i think ultimately is cap but the reality is women are incredibly picky

03:45:50.960 women are the much they're they're the more uh sexually selective sex there's an evo psych basis for

03:45:56.560 that there's a biological basis for that so how are you going to tell me about i'm being judgmental

03:46:03.520 but y'all are super judgmental would you date a guy who's shorter than you i have would you okay

03:46:10.160 the guy who you're ultimately going to marry would you would he be shorter than you no you don't care

03:46:16.320 at all i don't how tall is your current guy he's six one he's six one conveniently women always say

03:46:22.640 well i don't really care about height but when you ask them about their past partners and their

03:46:27.120 current partners they're all conveniently six one six two six three six feet he's the first guy

03:46:33.200 i've ever dated that's over six foot i think we care to an extent for sure about height you don't

03:46:38.560 care at all about i do care gotta be honest if i'm completely honest you said shorter you don't

03:46:43.920 care about anything if they're like three four sure why wouldn't you date a dwarf stop why are you

03:46:50.720 laughing that's really rude that you're there are men who are genuinely dwarves why are you laughing

03:46:55.200 that's rude so i'm just giving you guys back what you've been giving me i get it i gave my honest

03:47:04.400 opinion on it why wouldn't you date a dwarf that's a judgment but i would date a dwarf that's really

03:47:11.200 rude of you that you wouldn't date a dwarf i'm like i'm this pious person who i like i am the this paragon

03:47:18.720 of non-judgmentality you would non-judgment you date a dwarf but not only for this girl

03:47:23.280 shit you don't judge i would dwarf is preferable no dwarf is way preferable i don't judge you just

03:47:29.920 said i don't like short women i'm a fan i'm a fan so it says in titus it says in titus for christians

03:47:39.600 to make good judgments upon themselves because if we don't judge at all then we won't make the right

03:47:44.800 decisions and the right discernment they're making a conflation between judging for salvation and

03:47:50.880 making judgments in reality there's a distinction christians we have to make judgments all the time

03:47:57.680 especially about the value of truth we have to so we use a core a mixture of a correspondence theory

03:48:02.720 of truth along with some other theories of truth but things that which corresponds with reality is true

03:48:10.160 truth and so it's it's okay to make judgments it's not okay to make judgments about a person's

03:48:17.840 salvation that's there's the distinction to be made here that's why i don't understand you know like

03:48:23.200 and i hear this all the time you're not allowed to judge because you're that's

03:48:26.880 bullshit i have to make judgments every single day i have to make judgments about whether to turn

03:48:31.360 right or left when i'm on the road you know these are judgment calls so when james says don't judge

03:48:36.800 and there's scripture that says not to judge sinfully because i believe that we need to make

03:48:41.360 judgments to decipher between right and wrong but there's a sinful inclination behind that and i think

03:48:47.680 perhaps i'm not really sure like some of the women are confused like what you mean by judgment like the

03:48:52.720 definitions are not clear for them but um what are your like thoughts on that when the book of james

03:49:00.720 literally says not to judge people in a sinful way because do you believe that we can judge sinfully

03:49:11.360 i don't even understand what the question wait i have a question the question i got a quick question

03:49:16.720 would it be sinful judgment for me to for example when i'm assessing who i would like to date sleep with

03:49:25.680 get into a long-term relationship with mary would it be sinful judgment for me to preclude women

03:49:31.600 who have for example slept with more than 20 men is that sinful judgment i don't think so if it's a

03:49:38.960 preference if you're not looking at that woman and saying gosh she's like oh uh you know whatever

03:49:44.400 like a b-word or like a slander and you weren't thinking i'm better than this woman no like i think

03:49:49.920 it's not a sinful judgment to say i prefer a woman who is more who doesn't have that background can i

03:49:55.600 ask you this question have you slept with more than like 20 women 20 men what 20 women have you

03:50:00.880 ever been with a virgin what have you ever been with a virgin yeah a couple a couple couple couple

03:50:09.360 you're not in a relationship with a virgin i've revealed a couple of details in my body

03:50:13.360 and that's like the closest i've ever gotten to uh uh what's the question well you said oh is it a

03:50:20.960 preference is a judgment if i say i can't sleep with a woman who's been with 20 men but in the bible

03:50:26.320 it says how dare you look at someone's else's you know like a plank in their eye when you have a log in

03:50:31.120 your own i believe we're supposed to make the right judgments based upon that account so by by your logic

03:50:35.920 a man who say for example has slept with 20 women he is therefore obliged to only date women who have

03:50:44.240 also slept with 20 men or more is that the argument that's not the argument he's not obliged to so my

03:50:51.200 position how can he judge them when he's already done well let's say he doesn't judge them but let's

03:50:55.120 just say he has a preference and let's say he slept with a hundred women but he recognizes that there's

03:51:00.960 actually some pretty substantial uh romantic and dating upsides to dating someone who doesn't have

03:51:08.000 a promiscuous past despite his own and i don't think there's anything removing judgment but he

03:51:15.440 despite him having slept with a hundred women perhaps it's a self-reflection on his own behavior

03:51:20.240 he realized promise promiscuous behavior uh is not good it can be a sign of certain past trauma

03:51:26.720 uh it can create trauma the more uh people you've partnered with the more people you've dated

03:51:33.520 i have no objections to somebody man or woman uh although this tends to go more one way than the

03:51:41.200 other i have no objections to a man who slept with 100 women preferring to date a woman with a low body

03:51:45.600 count or virgin whether he can get her or not is another conversation but i don't i think there's

03:51:52.400 nothing wrong with that in the same way that i bet a lot of the women here at this table

03:51:56.800 are not funny at all and find humor in men incredibly attractive perhaps there are women

03:52:03.040 at this table who are not particularly financially well off but find rich men very attractive or perhaps

03:52:09.360 you are attracted to men who are confident but you're lacking confidence so is your position my

03:52:15.840 my view on this is that you need not in order to desire a trait in somebody you need not also possess

03:52:22.960 said trait so i don't object to men the chile 108 donated 100 there is a difference between judgment

03:52:33.920 as in sitting in sentence of someone then there is discernment meaning to choose what is right or wrong

03:52:40.080 for you learn koine greek the understanding is wrong here let me do a couple chats here um

03:52:48.720 we have uh one sec thank you chill 808 appreciate it men we have albert sovereign

03:52:59.040 somebody read this for me do you want to read it me

03:53:01.600 the money the money part is such bs you know men could make the same claim if they were drug dealers

03:53:09.840 i'd be an electron electrician but slinging vent is higher paying male equivalent yes you could

03:53:18.800 warlock the math magician donated 99 dollars 13 shifts a month and four thousand dollars

03:53:25.360 per month implies 25 and 60 cents per hour 33 tax rate implies a gross rate of 39 per hour average pay

03:53:35.360 in ny is 58 dollars per hour your co-workers were making way more than you bro warlock thank you

03:53:43.680 is this her ex-boyfriend is this cheyenne's ex i already asked her she said no you also mentioned

03:53:50.240 this yeah that you dated a spellbinder was that the warlock that was the one okay the warlock we

03:53:56.240 have josh can you read this one what why do i have to keep okay somebody please this is the

03:54:04.400 oregonian messaging i didn't say that right did i again what's going on here i have had a couple of

03:54:12.880 shots how about you have her read it okay this is the oregonian message again oh it's gone

03:54:17.920 shit man why are you asking me again for the cute asian christian i'm down to talk theology with

03:54:23.360 you how about um brian can connect us via instagram we can facetime before i move to flying you out

03:54:31.760 oh we already heard we heard this guy he really wants you i think you need to google him damn so

03:54:37.040 we sent the send the picture slide in her dms do you want to respond all right it's more about

03:54:43.120 he wants she already said her response earlier do you want to respond same exact thing um

03:54:49.200 he sounds like a christian he likes you

03:54:53.120 all right god damn it uh okay someone read this britney your of typer is currently online typing

03:55:10.560 lying to simps who think they're talking to you that's fraud forget repentance you should be charged

03:55:15.680 with a felony and of should be held criminally liable for enabling con artists to defraud people

03:55:23.280 that's hilarious but i think it just says that we're online automatically for the record

03:55:27.600 my shit always says online yeah always like we're not online right now we're not talking

03:55:32.160 case in point brian as i said last show women needs guests laugh and piss on men like

03:55:39.280 me five foot tall we even are human to human i have given up women laugh at the thought of men

03:55:45.520 my height it is a joke to them women are the most judgmental i feel like find some men are get

03:55:51.360 rich you're attracted to who you are like find somebody that works for you it's not like all

03:55:56.480 women i don't know take up surfing dude take up surfing that's all i gotta say man take up surfing

03:56:01.440 or the circus uh okay uh going around the table does body count matter no no i don't give a

03:56:08.640 look it does to a lot of men wait is that the question i'm so confused the mic to the edge of the

03:56:14.800 table does it matter to men if you can just kindly leave it there for me

03:56:20.160 what's the question what i oh i said um it matters to a lot of people these days yes

03:56:26.880 he asked if it matters to you though i i like a guy with a higher body count but there we go

03:56:32.400 that's just you know how about this do you object to men caring about body count um no i think that

03:56:38.880 they have they can have their opinion and if they don't like it whatever yeah welcome wait say that

03:56:43.520 again sorry yeah

03:56:51.120 yes oh boy okay uh what about you oh boy for which question are we answering the one i just asked 30

03:57:00.880 seconds ago we all need to hear it again do we object do i object to to men caring about body

03:57:06.560 count if it's in the past and they're born again they're no longer doing that then no i don't what

03:57:11.120 if they have an std from their they previously slept with 100 people but they're born again and they

03:57:16.000 caught an std no i would not date a man with std that's not what i'm asking would you object to a man

03:57:22.800 choosing to not date a promiscuous woman who happens to have an std from a promiscuous past

03:57:28.000 yeah i think it's okay for him to object okay now what if what if instead of that being a physical

03:57:36.000 trauma like an std that she has she has a mental trauma from that yeah he can object to that

03:57:42.800 absolutely okay but so your your argument is well she slept with 100 men but she's there's absolutely

03:57:49.760 been no trauma from it no then then that would be objectionable that's not what i'm saying please

03:57:57.600 kindly speak into the microphone that's not what i'm saying so what do you because you said you object

03:58:02.240 men can have preferences like if they don't want to be with a woman who's been with 200 men or they

03:58:07.680 don't want to be with a woman who has stds they but okay let's say she doesn't have an std she slept

03:58:12.720 with 200 men in her past but she became born again if he prefers not to have that that's okay

03:58:18.480 that literally that's not what you initially answered the question how i think she misunderstood

03:58:25.040 oh you said so long as she's born again and it's in her past it shouldn't matter i'm pretty sure

03:58:31.280 that's how you're asking like if i would like date a man that has a high sorry i misunderstood the

03:58:37.120 question i'm asking you object to a man having that no preference no okay what about you uh no

03:58:42.160 i'm agree with brie like if he has a you know preference and okay i love you yeah i feel like

03:58:47.680 everyone has their own preferences what about you i agree glad we got this from yeah we got to talk

03:58:56.560 i mean to be fair let me push back a little bit on you guys you know we do give disclosures before

03:59:03.040 the show saying if you have something to say you're welcome to jump in you can do a hand raise

03:59:07.040 and when we do get around to the table asking for your guys's opinions you guys will pretty much

03:59:13.840 just be like yes no so while i understand yes it takes longer to get to the side of the table

03:59:19.600 take a little bit of agency and do reflect that you guys have not made an you haven't made an

03:59:25.040 assertive effort to insert yourself into the conversation

03:59:32.000 they were talking about religion i'm not really big on that so right but you can't be like oh they

03:59:36.560 finally got to me it took so long but when we do get to you you guys don't say anything anyways

03:59:42.080 so okay okay um going back to cheyenne really quick you said that you do object to men caring about

03:59:50.880 that well yes because it shows a lack of grace and like um in corinthians it says love is patient

03:59:58.720 it's kind it doesn't keep record of wrongs that's a huge one and um it doesn't envy it doesn't boast

04:00:04.320 it's not jealous like how is that loving what if i'm looking out for my future children what if she

04:00:08.880 has uh she has adult videos on the internet and i have reason to believe that knowing how

04:00:18.720 pre-teen boys are how teenage boys are my son may very well likely be bullied

04:00:25.040 mm-hmm because of this woman's videos that are out there mm-hmm is that a reasonable objection

04:00:34.400 well then i guess someone like me wouldn't be your type then that's okay

04:00:40.240 that's just well i'm just speaking in general that's what you want i i would say okay

04:00:47.680 for me i'm just speaking from my own experience because that's all i can do

04:00:51.200 um i've it's never been an issue my past has never been an issue with anyone and i'm like her

04:00:57.920 i'm very straight up and that's all i can do you know because i've done like the line that doesn't

04:01:03.600 work you can't take it back yeah so it's like i just believe like when god does bring me that man

04:01:08.240 he's gonna be able to understand he'll love me how i am he'll love every aspect that's reasonable

04:01:14.560 right and nobody's saying that it's not it's totally reasonable to say that um you know you

04:01:20.640 you have a past and there's many people who can look past it i totally understand that right have

04:01:25.440 one myself and so do many others but the question becomes isn't it okay though for christian

04:01:32.480 men who don't have that preference to reject that as a deal breaker yes yes okay

04:01:41.120 okay all right let's oh oh right okay uh going around the table what's everybody's body count

04:01:50.160 starting with madison why do you have to always ask me first that's the way it goes

04:02:00.080 i don't know how about that give us a range how about that 100 over 100 i don't know but you think

04:02:08.720 it's around 100 probably over 100 under okay give or take what about you i never counted it's probably

04:02:15.680 about like 30 to 50 range i have no idea i can't okay sure i'm not a liar i have no idea okay around

04:02:22.880 15 males like 80 females wait please one last time 15 i would say around leave the microphone where it

04:02:30.720 is you don't need to keep oh i just speak loud so i always feel like if i speak too close okay i would

04:02:34.960 say 15 males like 80 females 80 females okay na oh yeah okay here scoot your mic to the edge of the

04:02:46.160 table please we're here no no just go ahead okay i don't know either definitely in the hundreds thank

04:02:53.920 you okay thank thank you let's fucking be honest here guys i'm being honest for real i won't answer

04:03:00.480 yeah right saw that coming okay a zero zero zero i would say about five or six okay

04:03:13.040 five or six okay we're gonna get into some of our pre-show notes here um starting with wait i didn't

04:03:21.680 send any oh right okay starting with alexis morgan that's you right in your pre-show notes you said

04:03:29.280 that you are conservative and traditional yeah you consider yourself traditional yeah at some points

04:03:38.160 okay um i took a review of your twitter and your only well i didn't purchase your only fans but we

04:03:47.600 looked at the front page right right uh your twitter and your instagram we're not going to pull up your

04:03:54.000 instagram because we'll probably get into some sort of trouble for what's on there but right uh

04:04:01.040 is he going for that actually wait hold on it's not that bad i don't think

04:04:04.160 going around the table really quick before i get to that do you consider yourself traditional

04:04:10.080 i just i'm independent no not politics i don't know what the

04:04:14.480 what the fuck is explain what you mean by traditional so they can understand what is that

04:04:19.440 i'm gonna defer to andrew on this one but typically when i think of traditional traditional values

04:04:25.600 modesty so inquisitor zeal donated 100 andrew do you see how much easier it is to just be a zealot

04:04:35.360 yes yes all prostitutes are undateable yes all heretics must burn you don't have to be charitable

04:04:43.040 with their individualist nonsense i think you have to meet people exactly where they're at or at least

04:04:48.640 try to so let me try to give kind of an overview of what i consider traditional to be so traditionalism

04:04:58.560 best described as experiments in history which we know have worked okay that's what it means so when

04:05:06.000 we're talking about experiments in history which have already worked we're basically talking inside of

04:05:11.280 the united states about a bit of modesty and two-parent household uh these types of things that's what

04:05:17.920 we're talking about we're making a reference to traditionalism experiments which we know have worked

04:05:24.000 then yes i am a traditionalist you're a uh aren't you an only fans model well i believe in traditionalism

04:05:33.120 but yes i am my my parents have been married for 40 years so i believe in that do i believe in it for

04:05:41.520 myself maybe not so i guess all right fine untraditional i don't know let's have all the

04:05:48.160 girls answer are you traditional do you consider yourself traditional i wish i could be traditional

04:05:54.800 but right now where i'm in my career i'm like honest with myself and what my my what i do is

04:06:00.160 like an untraditional thing but if i could i would be traditional like yes i came from the same thing

04:06:07.440 britney has like my parents are married my grandparents are married i grew up that way i wish i could have

04:06:12.240 that but i don't have that i have to get up but going around the table if you all want to answer the

04:06:16.560 question yes go on none of them are gonna get the third degree just just the first one that answers

04:06:28.000 of course i would say my friends and family would describe me as traditional everybody who knows me

04:06:32.800 but i can tell for me personally i'm slowly pulling away from that traditional view oh you're moving away

04:06:37.600 from it a little bit i feel like i am a traditional person in my mindset it's just that this generation

04:06:43.600 is having three sugar daddies traditional um in the way i operate with them yes actually because

04:06:49.600 there's no different really than a cousin giving you money and being like here here's for you it's

04:06:57.760 a bit different it's holding it because your cousin giving you money probably isn't engaging in like

04:07:03.040 incestuous lust honestly i don't think they lust after me the way you think like you think it's just

04:07:09.600 why would why would a guy give you money just nothing in this world is free right nothing is

04:07:16.720 but it's not like they're giving me money so you don't think that they have they get to know you

04:07:19.440 don't think they have a romantic interest in you most of them if they do keep it to themselves they

04:07:24.640 tell me that i look good and that's it there's no i don't i mean look i know there's a lot of sims

04:07:31.520 out there i don't i personally don't get it i don't get the whole oh let me just send a girl 500

04:07:36.160 dollars without anything involved right i just don't get it yeah that's weird but okay it happens

04:07:42.000 there's a lot of sims uh yes i'm traditional yes i am um i would have to say i'm not because i'm not

04:07:51.040 like waiting till marriage or anything no okay um i would say i'm traditional

04:07:56.720 so so so if if you are the ones who claim that you're traditional if you're if tradition by my

04:08:05.360 definition is moving back towards experiments which worked right which of those experiments

04:08:11.280 that worked are you calling back to

04:08:17.840 experiments what does that mean can you define social social experiments which worked meaning

04:08:24.800 for instance a nuclear family would be an experiment which worked across generational

04:08:29.520 household being experiment that worked these are sociological distinctions societal distinctions

04:08:35.680 that we can look at and say this society in this place it worked so which of these callbacks are you

04:08:41.920 moving towards for these experiments which you think work as would you say like being housewife

04:08:47.120 and letting a man take his role and like be the head of the household like okay yes i i do believe in

04:08:52.640 that that's you believe in that but what i guess what brian's after here is to determine you can

04:08:59.760 believe that thing is true and that it worked as far as a social norm that doesn't mean you yourself

04:09:06.080 act in accordance with that or move in when when there's someone in my life and that's what we're

04:09:11.520 doing of course well i mean like is eating shit traditional no no i mean that's like but that's the point

04:09:20.560 right that's that i'm sorry to be vulgar but i'm the reason i'm driving the point home is that you

04:09:25.760 understand what it is that i'm talking about right if we're going to give access to a point of

04:09:33.040 these are experiments in society especially american society which worked are you moving towards

04:09:38.960 do we believe in it are we practicing in it is what you're saying right i believe in it i'm not doing

04:09:44.560 what's traditional but i don't feel like what i'm doing is going to keep me from being able to have

04:09:49.440 that traditional experience and life i second that you know i think that they're these podcasters are

04:09:57.600 very much so like saying like you're never going to find a man that's going to respect you or you're

04:10:02.240 going to have the traditional households like i strongly believe that there's somebody for everyone

04:10:06.160 and that i will end up having my let's say unicorn in a sense because you guys always feel that we're

04:10:11.040 never going to find the man that a high value i feel like i get approached very much so by high

04:10:16.560 value men all the time they see my heart they hear my mind and i just i feel like maybe i'm just the

04:10:23.440 i don't know i i just believe i will end up in the traditional you know i don't think after you've had

04:10:31.120 after you've had your fun um i feel like there's a man that would prefer that i had experienced and have

04:10:39.360 done what i've done because there's a lot of men that don't wouldn't want the girl that has an

04:10:43.280 experience and has gone hasn't gone out there and seen what she likes i feel like a lot of the men that

04:10:47.920 i prefer to be around would find it rather interesting and you know different than the normal a normal

04:10:57.040 girl that will bore them that only was with them only and how would they know if they have would have

04:11:03.520 chosen him over everything else i think of when a man is with me he's like she's already experienced

04:11:08.400 everything and she's choosing me because that she's already she knows that she knows what she

04:11:14.800 wants she's had it all so this is why this is why these guys who are red pillars exist as red pillars

04:11:21.040 they actually would use a person like you as a perfect example they would say look you believe

04:11:25.840 in traditionalism and you think that it works to make society work however when enabled with the

04:11:31.200 superpower being able to do whatever the fuck you want with sexuality in order to make a lot of money

04:11:35.680 you will do that instead and then when you can no longer do that suddenly you want to be traditional

04:11:42.960 right this is this is their entire framework for the entirety of their narrative encapsulated in a

04:11:51.360 single person is that not true no i think um no i mean how is that that's what that is what you're doing

04:12:00.800 right not really but i mean aren't you using your sexuality for your own benefit in order to get a

04:12:08.000 lot of money even though you you yourself believe in traditionalism as being the right way and wish that

04:12:13.680 you could be a person who was a traditional woman so aren't you doing exactly what the claim of the red

04:12:18.960 bill is which is that you will use your sexuality while you can as a superpower in order to make a ton of

04:12:24.320 money and then later when you can no longer use that then suddenly you'll become a traditional woman

04:12:30.320 i would be a traditional woman right now i would want to be well then what's stopping you nothing is

04:12:34.880 stopping me i'm choosing to choose this way because this is what right i'm this is the way

04:12:42.320 there is men that are traditional that would encourage you to do this i mean it's a great

04:12:46.640 now there's not any there's a great or traditional would encourage you to do this

04:12:50.800 i think we're just saying that men take traditionalism traditional men take that very

04:12:56.320 very seriously and they live the entirety of their lives off of that so do you think a tradition like

04:13:01.040 a true traditional man would want yeah you i mean i've been approached by them so yeah i maybe not

04:13:11.440 maybe not traditional traditional but that is fine i i find myself like i would want the man who

04:13:17.040 understands it who was like you got your money he's like he encourages it he understands it he

04:13:22.160 he obviously like supportive yeah he's supportive there's no reason like obviously i know i feel that

04:13:27.680 when a man meets me i know that i'm like i have a good heart i have a good mind when he speaks to me

04:13:32.720 it might just be better than a woman who's traditional who did nothing with her life and just

04:13:36.640 sat there waited around for a man to make her her nice house you know what i mean yeah i agree i think

04:13:41.520 a man can be a provider but that doesn't mean that he is fully traditional i guess that's not

04:13:47.600 who cares about the words of this and whatnot in the end of the day it's like there's somebody that

04:13:51.520 out there for everyone and i think these podcasts are very like you're not gonna find a man there's

04:13:55.600 not somebody out there for everyone there well we're not for everyone correct but we're not i'm

04:14:00.400 not here saying like oh every only fans woman won't find a man like that's who's to say that

04:14:05.040 you know what i mean uh i just the statistics literally well they don't say that but they say

04:14:11.600 close to that they say that yes your chances and likelihood the more promiscuous you are to maintain

04:14:17.760 an interpersonal relationship with a man over a long period of time it's odd because drastically

04:14:24.480 decrease it's odd because i have like both friends that are in the industry or are not in the industry

04:14:30.160 and i feel like the ones that are and they're in the relationship are actually happier because they're

04:14:33.840 honest and they're outgoing they're open-minded and they're speaking about sexual desires that

04:14:38.400 normally a tradition but they're not traditional okay well what is so we're non-traditional okay

04:14:44.320 traditional it's just it's a title right okay this is what would be the experiment that worked where

04:14:49.360 two porn stars in history were getting together in in holy matrimony in order to go and promote

04:14:56.640 degeneracy that's of course it's not traditional that's because we love it fangled gadget right this is a

04:15:02.800 brand new i mean porn wasn't even legal in the united states for most of it but everybody was

04:15:07.520 watching it have you ever watched porn you couldn't you couldn't watch it because it wasn't even legal

04:15:15.920 have you ever watched porn honestly okay yeah do you think that woman is disgusting and like the

04:15:22.240 actors in in the in the video you're like wow this man is like because there's such a double standard

04:15:27.280 in society where it's like we put this man on a pedestal like wow i wish i could be him like versus

04:15:33.920 the woman but you think equally both of them are just degenerate in that video when you watch it yeah

04:15:40.480 so why do you watch it yeah you're sinning i mean once upon a time i i myself engaged in plenty of

04:15:46.880 degeneracy and still so at least you can be honest stop stop stop let me answer the question right i'm

04:15:54.640 not above uh myself being a person who has been prone to sin though the point of christianity is

04:16:01.920 not perfection not to say that you're a perfect person it's to always be moving towards theosis

04:16:08.960 being better not for you to say that there's an identification uh distinction there's no

04:16:15.840 identification distinction between us because you say you have watched porn yes that's true but you

04:16:23.360 are a porn star who advocates for it right this second so your argument is so absurd it's like

04:16:30.240 saying a person who was a cocaine addict can't tell people it's bad to do cocaine do you understand how

04:16:35.680 absurd that is i think it's a little different because porn is not killing people yes it doesn't

04:16:40.640 stop there and where on earth did you ever get the idea that it wasn't of course it does how

04:16:45.600 is porn killing people it reads to heavier amounts because they're having sex just because they're

04:16:50.320 masturbating so hard that their heart stops human trafficking do you think human trafficking leads

04:16:56.880 to a better or worse life that's not the same thing do you feel like a drug dealer pornography

04:17:01.920 the pornography industry banks on human trafficking in a big way and always has both sides of the border

04:17:08.880 in fact is a massive problem you think i don't know where you got the idea that pornography doesn't lead to

04:17:13.920 higher rates of drug abuse and mental illness because it does does mental illness lead as a

04:17:18.960 contributing factor to people offing themselves because i think it does i think all of these

04:17:23.920 things are contributing factors to higher rates of i think men are the reason which will lead to

04:17:30.240 early demise to be honest i have a real quick think point i feel like there is a lot of like people that

04:17:35.280 like um go through depression and you're saying all these things about porn stars like falling into this

04:17:40.560 like you know bad headspace i feel like a lot of it has to do with how the public is making them feel

04:17:47.360 about it what you guys are saying about these porn stars and what they're doing and they're just because

04:17:53.760 but it's it's crazy because you guys are watching it and you're pleasuring yourselves to what these

04:17:57.920 points are doing so i feel like if it was just that would actually be a better case for me than for you

04:18:03.120 so you're saying it's the stigma which causes this and yet you yourself may engage in this activity

04:18:09.360 that you think is bad for society which i would say in turn means we need more stigma i don't think

04:18:15.360 it's bad for society i think that people learn through it i think it's sex is healthy i think

04:18:19.840 most of the time some people masturbate and their stress comes like what do they learn from it how to

04:18:24.560 eat shit that what to release there's a lot of benefits there's a lot of that's your fetish

04:18:31.040 there's a lot of benefits to porn you know and i feel like the the the bad stuff that they say that

04:18:37.040 comes from porn is because the world is so like to the cameras and to everyone they're like but porn

04:18:42.400 is bad porn is bad but they all wish they could do it but they just know that people are just talking

04:18:45.920 about violence you realize that am i putting a gun to anyone's head no i'm relieving someone's stress

04:18:50.880 sometimes like porn is healthy for like like marriage and relationships and stuff like that

04:18:55.760 it it keeps somebody from cheating they just go to the bathroom i just my whole thing is i don't

04:19:03.520 feel you can move towards outliers and say that there are some people whose relationships have been

04:19:08.160 vastly improved by pornography and i'm not even disputing that i'm sure that there's truth to that

04:19:13.200 somewhere okay but we do we you know we can look at our society pre-pornography right like this is

04:19:20.240 not a thing which uh we have a massive history of this is a new phenomenon in the west of having

04:19:27.680 unfettered access to pornography and overwhelming every single societal and sociological study

04:19:35.120 overwhelmingly shows that not only is it bad for the women who are engaged in it but it's really bad

04:19:41.040 for the men who become addicted to it rewires their brain quite literally but like anything it's like

04:19:47.520 when you're addicted to cigarettes or when you're addicted to vaping or when you're addicted to

04:19:51.760 just doing anything like playstation everyone has a different fix it's it's life it's you know

04:19:57.280 yeah it's true but yeah how do you feel about gamers make distinctions in society between people who

04:20:02.320 might habitually i think it's beautiful it's like we're reproducing though that's what we're supposed

04:20:06.160 to be doing we're not that's the big problem we're not in fact our birth rates are under replacement

04:20:10.320 rate way below replacement rate and the reason that they're under replacement rate is because

04:20:15.200 women will say well i love tradition but i'm gonna wait until all my fertile years are behind me and

04:20:21.520 then i'll get married when they're in their 30s and that's why the average rate of a woman getting

04:20:26.720 married in the united states is 30 years old i think that it has nothing to do with the woman i think

04:20:31.520 although women say that we want to get married when we're in our 30s we do want to find our prince

04:20:36.000 charming to sweep us off our feet but because it's you know these days and how men are perceiving

04:20:41.040 women and um how they want to live their life first it's actually causing this to happen so

04:20:46.320 women are just saying i'm gonna live my life but ideally when when a woman is a child we are we are

04:20:51.440 hoping to find our prince charming from a child so i think that if we just found our prince charming at

04:20:57.200 19 20 we would be married then so we're just this is something that we're just saying because

04:21:01.200 if you don't find your prince charming at 19 do you think that going into an only fans career

04:21:06.480 for money is going to make you more likely to find that prince charming or less like i don't think

04:21:10.560 that anybody's thinking that i think that they're thinking about survival and i think they're putting

04:21:13.600 their family first i mean i know for my decision was i wanted to thinking about survival that's

04:21:18.080 ridiculous for some it could be different for every thousand dollars a month that's ridiculous most

04:21:23.600 people would be more than pleased to have a 30 an hour job and they would be surviving just

04:21:28.800 fine correct but some people something i do this for survival i always know the second a woman says

04:21:34.640 i do this for survival and then we ask what her paycheck is what do you think most people survive on

04:21:41.040 everything is for different people everyone has different reasons why they joined maybe they got

04:21:44.640 out of a i can't say i can't speak for why she joined only fan i can't speak for i know why i'm i'm

04:21:50.320 i might have all joined it for the same reason because you wanted the money okay and that is fine but

04:21:54.880 maybe some didn't have the parents to tell them hey i mean what do you mean you don't know the

04:21:59.520 reasons then you all know the reasons and it's all i'm saying is there's no that's why there's

04:22:04.400 everyone has different reasons that why they joined and they don't i think as long reason they all do it

04:22:10.160 for money okay and in which which money causes financial freedom i will say my financial freedom

04:22:16.240 has led to my family in cuba having acs like we all have houses like i've done good things with my

04:22:21.280 money i don't think that the girls that are doing that all you had to do in order to get

04:22:24.640 that was prostitute yourself do you think that was a good exchange does your dad say thanks for the ac

04:22:29.440 i'm glad that you prostituted yourself for my ac honestly does your dad say thank you for

04:22:34.720 prostituting yourself so i have air conditioning well that's not that's not spoken about but you

04:22:40.400 could because because born is so it's not spoken about it's not it's not prostitution i mean i

04:22:46.800 you guys in the end of the day it's not in the end of the day i know everyone is saying whatever

04:22:51.680 about porn but i know that it arouses you even though you don't say it i know i know you have

04:22:57.440 seen it at one point in your life so i'm just my whole thing is like just i feel like we shouldn't

04:23:02.640 really stop just trying to put only fans and porn stars down because that is why so so here's the

04:23:08.720 thing it's a good thing i'm not the sum total of just my biology and i have higher reason in that though

04:23:13.440 i can agree that pornography could arouse me there's no doubt that that's true i also had

04:23:18.320 this great thing called the choice to not view it even knowing that it's true so whether it arouses me

04:23:23.360 or not beside the point i don't think that if put to the question if i asked your old man hey all she

04:23:31.040 had to do was prostitute herself for your ac that he would say good on her do you honestly think he'd say

04:23:36.400 that who is it harming it would he say that my dad doesn't give a fuck but he also loves me he just

04:23:46.320 wishes that it's unconditional love whether your child is a killer or that you're gonna love them

04:23:51.040 no matter what you understand that's their decision love i'm not talking about love or whether or not

04:23:56.560 your father loves you i'm sure he loves you very much you're his daughter right i'm not saying anything

04:24:00.640 about whether or not he loves you or cares but if that was the only alternative that's a woman had i'm

04:24:05.280 not saying that that was she makes a lot of money can buy you ac if she prostitutes herself would he be

04:24:10.320 behind that i'm not saying that that's what was my decision or anyone but everyone had different

04:24:16.240 reasons maybe that they were doing something may i've heard of different okay you don't know as

04:24:21.040 many like porn stars and creators as i do i've heard and i've listened to people behind closed doors

04:24:26.240 of why they join and you know some of these people are the nicest people that i've met i will say

04:24:30.880 like i just think you know any of them who have motivation other than money for why they join

04:24:37.120 money is the reason this world is moving money is the reason why there's being

04:24:41.840 men aren't interested in dating women who act like men men go overseas because western women are toxic

04:24:48.160 and act like the men they want to be with we want femininity and you're out perfect except be a

04:24:53.920 masculine man provide for the woman then take her away like that's just simple it's it's not it's not

04:25:00.400 so complicated it's like in the end i just all i'm saying is that i feel like you know these podcasts

04:25:06.480 are always trying to say like that we're not going to find a a high value man the same thing we're just

04:25:11.920 repeating and and i feel like it's bringing down these only fans and porn stars and it's making them

04:25:17.520 more depressed because it's just putting things in other and other men's head like oh that's not a good

04:25:22.080 woman and honestly some of my porn star friends are just they they they care more for me than just

04:25:27.680 like my non-porn star friends like i think that there's some of the nicest open-minded individuals

04:25:32.320 you know so i just feel like we should stop bashing people reconciling this when people hear this right

04:25:37.200 when they're trying to reconcile it in their brain right they're hearing this i do this because i'm a

04:25:43.280 strong empowered woman and it makes me a lot of money and then when pressed on it the very the

04:25:49.440 second they're pressed on it it's no it's because i have a poor poor family in cuba it's like no but

04:25:54.400 aside of that what if what if they found a passion let me finish let me finish i'm almost done you're

04:25:59.600 not doing it because of the poor family in cuba a side effect of you doing it maybe that you can buy ac

04:26:05.520 for a poor family in cuba but your motivation is purely self-interest let's not kid ourselves it's

04:26:12.000 purely self-interest or you wouldn't do it right my last comment is what if i found passion in it what if

04:26:17.680 i have tried different jobs i could tell you like four or five different jobs that you'd be like

04:26:20.800 oh wow i used to code which is why i used to code i used to code i used the life insurance

04:26:25.040 and health insurance agent for any reason other than money and the answer was and that's fine but

04:26:28.560 for some reason right now i have i can retire if i wanted to but i will say i will find i i will kind

04:26:35.360 of find like something's missing like i find the thrill of like creating content like because

04:26:39.760 in the end of the day it's not just like oh we're getting on set and we're doing like a only fans

04:26:43.520 video no it requires marketing it's it requires creativity there's a lot to it you know because

04:26:48.480 if it was just that easy to do it for free that what would you do it for free i used to do it for

04:26:54.480 free just influencing on instagram will we do anything for literally we have 24 hours in the

04:26:59.680 day money just do it would you would you do this big sass energy donated 100 dollars imagine eating

04:27:07.120 dingleberries on video and thinking you have a standing to provide a substantive argument on

04:27:12.320 morality you said that you have a passion for what you do does that include the ass eating

04:27:17.280 um well that's like just like like because you said you have a passion for it right like what if

04:27:20.880 you have a passion well like is that no i have right right no i have a passion for just like i i

04:27:27.360 enjoy the creativity for ass eating just say it it's cool well yeah that's outside of the job i do

04:27:32.560 that in my personal life i love that i good i have always found myself like a more sexual person i do i

04:27:37.760 i am proud i do feel like this job has made me more open to like cooking up with girls prior to

04:27:43.600 only fans i was too shy to tell a girl hey i want to eat your pussy right sorry for the vulgar language

04:27:48.240 but now i feel like i've had a lot of sexual experiences i'm happy um i'm making a lot of

04:27:52.640 money from it not saying that that's the only thing i feel like only fans videos is five percent

04:27:56.640 of what we do and 95 comes down to marketing and showing up and thinking and brain blasting there's

04:28:01.920 there's just so much money because that leads to more money that's why you market it and do all

04:28:06.400 that would you do it for free would you do this podcast for free i'm doing it right now for free

04:28:14.000 like you're getting something out of it clearly like you wouldn't just i mean listen okay this i

04:28:18.080 have one less i have one last comment and i will say even though we don't all see it a lot of these

04:28:24.000 podcasts are thriving because of only fans models sitting at these tables so let's just appreciate this

04:28:29.360 okay the ass eater should go back to eating ass so she can shut her suck hole as a fellow hispanic

04:28:35.520 i know your father would call you a puta and you are an embarrassment to her old man no that's not

04:28:41.520 how they feel i'm sorry i didn't mean this is fun but she made a good point though about your podcast

04:28:48.880 would be boring if we weren't on it it's only fans creators if only fans creators talk about christianity

04:28:54.560 all night like honestly like all right so in the end of the day a lot of these podcasts are thriving

04:29:00.160 because you guys are essentially having a back and forth with what's right and what's wrong if we

04:29:05.040 were not only fans creators we wouldn't be having this conversation and the panel would kind of be

04:29:08.960 boring actually to be honest i mean i think that some of our most interesting and viral moments

04:29:16.880 came from debates with women who were not doing only fans right but they were talking about not

04:29:21.840 doing only fans no and well listen if we can talk about the andrew tate or just like all the other

04:29:27.920 podcasts is that you know talk a lot about only fans and what these porn stars are doing a lot of

04:29:32.560 the money's circling around because of what's going on let's not you're not going to admit it but you

04:29:37.120 know that at the end of the day what's going on i prostitution if it was the bible the bravo like

04:29:42.560 it's the same thing it's been around forever why is it why is it still around at this era like why is it

04:29:48.000 still here if it was truthfully like if there were women who were just like left-leaning who just

04:29:54.080 wanted to come on and debate like about what politics culture worship even dating but you

04:29:58.880 seemed like you were bored when they were talking about god though yeah you were yeah so so then

04:30:03.760 again so so please let me know when you do even tell us no disrespect i'm not even meaning i actually

04:30:10.240 thought the the debates i mean but they were still comparing themselves to prostitution and stuff this

04:30:16.400 this panel would be quiet if we didn't have something to compare to so in the end of the

04:30:20.400 day i think that we should appreciate disagree okay so let me know when hold on let me know when you

04:30:25.280 have four episodes that where there's not one only fans or porn star creating and there's not one

04:30:29.280 topic that has to do with anything of prostitution you do the booking for me get me like woke leftist

04:30:34.240 but it would be a boring panel because in the end of the day this is what's going on in 2024 and

04:30:38.000 it's interesting honestly true i've said it multiple times i actually don't like the

04:30:42.160 porn bad conversation i think it's boring actually because it's like we've had it so

04:30:46.480 many times actually the much more interesting conversations would be had with like woke sjw

04:30:52.560 liberals who aren't involved in sex work and we can still have discussions on body count because

04:30:58.080 they're probably promiscuous anyways uh we could hit all those topics and honestly i'm more interested

04:31:03.360 in uh you ask the same questions like let's say i was a politician and i came on your show would

04:31:07.200 you ask me about my body count like you would ask we always ask the body count question i'm just

04:31:10.400 asking you would ask but that's such a 2024 question that's going around the word body count

04:31:15.520 is just so used on like these like instagram and it's used to me i mean okay let's let's just come

04:31:22.640 down to it i mean this in the like most respectful way in the end of the day you probably fund more to

04:31:27.040 having girls like us on your panel because they're very much interested in this and because we're hot

04:31:31.120 good-looking girls and let's be realistic i wouldn't be here because if it didn't provide any

04:31:35.520 financial benefit correct this is like such a kind of dull meta conversation about the show but

04:31:41.520 i would actually argue i mean if you're talking on the financial aspect what when andrew was having

04:31:46.160 his back and forth with uh with these two over here uh what yeah hold on just let me check the

04:31:55.360 instagram oh cheyenne yeah of course with cheyenne oh my god number five and claire yeah you know

04:32:04.240 oh my god they don't remember their names that's what i mean like if if we're talking about oh well

04:32:09.200 you wouldn't make as much money actually like the majority of the super chats came in when he was

04:32:14.000 debating them so but what were they what were they previously before yeah but we weren't debating about

04:32:19.920 what they were previously we were okay this meta conversation is like because you know that i'm

04:32:24.480 getting somewhere and then no you're not you're actually not no i know well actually your point

04:32:28.880 just got just got wrecked because we were debating theology i didn't ask them any of those questions

04:32:34.800 about their sexual history at all it wasn't even of concern to me we were just debating theology

04:32:39.840 checkmate but you're still part of whatever take the l i'm not taking the l i got the w

04:32:47.920 listen but it's good at least i'm enforcing positivity because i do feel like in the end of

04:32:51.520 the day you're gonna jerk off in the next five years correct to porn we'll give you all a free

04:32:56.160 subscription don't say that face come on i will say listen most of the time that i've gone on to

04:33:01.200 these podcasts andrew are those menthols can i can you give me a cigarette bro i need i need to

04:33:07.200 fucking pass it through there pass it through this year cowboy killing marlboro reds on me yummy

04:33:12.400 all right can i just ask a question to the ladies yes um i was just wondering like you guys are

04:33:18.880 saying you're doing it for the money right well money and different reasons correct i actually

04:33:22.800 have fun like doing it but yeah money um and then i think you said that you would actually prefer not

04:33:29.040 to be doing it so recently like i and originally i preferred to do it for money but i'm actually like

04:33:35.760 enjoying it a little bit like i'm enjoying like exploring my sexuality and kind of like having sex

04:33:40.960 on my own terms and it's safe because i've been in situations where i've had unsafe sex like where i

04:33:46.320 thought maybe i was with a partner or like just casually having sex with somebody and we weren't

04:33:50.480 getting std tested all the time and there were situations in my life where i was like oh my god

04:33:55.040 you're being a jerk like i'm i'm being loyal to you so this situation i kind of feel like i own my

04:33:59.920 sexuality i own who i'm sleeping with we're getting tested we're showing up and we're making some money

04:34:04.640 from it and i'm not sleeping with just anybody and it's kind of like in a weird way an empowering

04:34:10.480 situation maybe it's from my abusive past with men where i feel like i'm in control of what i'm doing

04:34:16.320 and i'm having fun and a lot of people want to can judge that and i completely understand people

04:34:20.880 judging my life for the three of you if you guys found a man that like could financially like you

04:34:26.720 know be stable and could take care of you i wouldn't no i would not i would at the end of the day what

04:34:32.080 if he'd be joining walk away from me like exactly however i would not i also wouldn't have sex then

04:34:38.080 like i would just do my own kind of like like because i made a lot of money just selling extra like it

04:34:42.640 depends on the type of content you're always able to like be a shape shifter on there like

04:34:46.800 last year i was in a relationship with somebody for eight months i didn't make any content it was solo

04:34:51.200 or it was just photos and different things me my income took a little bit of a hit from it but i was

04:34:55.360 okay because i made good financial decisions so like it depends on who i'm dating and what they're

04:34:59.520 comfortable with and i would have that conversation with him what do you guys think about this i don't

04:35:03.200 think uh men should pay for first dates if the woman does only fans how about that they won't

04:35:09.120 know until after they date us a date with you should probably disclose the fact that you know

04:35:13.120 we we'll go on the date and then during the date they'll ask us what we do and then we'll tell them

04:35:17.840 i just had that happen actually yeah what so what if he finds out and he's like he found out 30 minutes

04:35:22.240 i would tell him that i had done porn and then still paid for my date so i'm sure it happens

04:35:27.600 men absolutely just because there's a uh competitive pressure on men so despite women totally uh

04:35:34.320 uh sometimes hold on let me just finish despite a lot of women totally abandoning their traditional

04:35:41.840 roles in the courtship process they still expect and ultimately primarily because of simpson men not

04:35:48.480 having a backbone on this still ultimately ends up receiving traditional treatment from men so you

04:35:54.080 could be a porn star who just fucked five dudes yesterday and a guy's still gonna go ahead and pay

04:35:58.800 for your dinner and treat you like a princess but like i i don't expect that treatment i usually

04:36:04.320 offer to pay for half of the meal good for you and then they usually end up just paying for it anyway

04:36:08.720 which is great on them but i actually always ask if they want to split it so can i ask but y'all

04:36:15.520 y'all are tradition y'all are not traditional women but you want men to be traditional that's i never

04:36:20.160 said that i just want to ask you out yeah you do you ask guys i want to have fun a lot why not yeah

04:36:27.920 do you hey would you like to go out to dinner yeah like yeah but like let's say generally

04:36:32.240 i'll split the bill with you i wouldn't say like oh wow he didn't offer to pay the bill because i

04:36:36.240 asked can you just get your mic that way generally speaking though women are not taking the initiative

04:36:41.120 like that i would i was interested what if we just say we'll split the bill this way huh what if we just

04:36:46.880 say we'll split the bill you'd prefer a guy to pay for you though of course of course who the hell

04:36:50.800 wouldn't but my position like i'll always say do you want to split this bill would you prefer a woman

04:36:55.680 to pay for the day ever yeah it's better for a woman wait wait you you don't always he said it's

04:37:00.240 better for um i feel like i do just because the man expects to and i just want to show him that

04:37:05.120 like my intention is not just to use him for you know just for to pay the meal just to show that

04:37:11.840 like i'm interested in like paying for everything so that's why i say i would there's no question

04:37:15.440 about it if there's a hesitation like i would just do it most of the time like i i just have yeah

04:37:19.760 it's better for the woman sims to be honest she should pay for that oh goodness we're not

04:37:23.520 going to get into that how about it's just like 50 50 whatever goes every situation is different

04:37:28.160 different things for different folks who know what you're like pay in in my purview it's better

04:37:33.840 if the woman simps for you because then she's actually really she's actually into you like

04:37:39.760 super into you right i've been a sugar i've we've both been in a situation yeah but it's also my

04:37:46.000 position that i would i would pay for the date but like if she's like it depends how she goes about

04:37:51.920 it if she's like trying to assert herself and try to be like dominant in the situation then no

04:37:58.320 right but if she's like i like you so much i'm going to be a simp and almost be your slave oh he's

04:38:04.480 a dom sign me up yeah that's that's where it goes where i told you that i i have participated in that

04:38:10.960 before there you i still want to lead though but you can be a simp you like i mean what would you let

04:38:15.840 a woman you want a woman to lead you around like what's that have you ever let a woman pay for the

04:38:20.480 first date one time okay one time yeah she got me a burrito did you sit with her no no we didn't

04:38:28.240 we didn't hook up she was waiting it's probably because you let her pay for the first date no she's

04:38:33.680 she she was waiting for marriage and i told her i told her i 100 respect that but i'm

04:38:38.240 i'm i don't want that okay this is a great topic of conversation then but okay so let's say a woman

04:38:45.280 said i'm waiting for marriage you would absolutely not date her but you have a whole podcast about

04:38:49.440 kind of like i don't really make claims that i'm super traditional in some okay you're not in some

04:38:55.600 aspects i am but uh i don't get that vibe after the podcast i kind of feel like you're open-minded a

04:39:01.280 little bit sure not like other yeah i don't i'm not saying i'm not i never sit here and say i'm a

04:39:06.640 super traditional guy uh wait so the question was i feel like okay because like would you what

04:39:11.360 would you be able to date a woman that's telling you i'm i'm waiting until marriage i'll answer it

04:39:15.600 and we have donated 100 women need to listen to men who challenge them not the ones who tell them

04:39:22.880 whatever they want to hear to get laid wake up men have standards boys have desire andrew is a father

04:39:30.800 figure for culture god okay uh maybe she would have to be she'd have to be exceptional uh and

04:39:42.160 for me to wait until marriage she'd have to be exceptional and like insanely out of my league

04:39:46.080 but then i would question why would a woman out of my league choose me also because you have to answer

04:39:53.120 your so your question you bring up something interesting you ask is aren't you the perpetuator

04:40:01.120 of this situation basically a whore maker yourself right this is the this is the big question uh aren't

04:40:07.920 you by participating in having sex before marriage actually making more women like us who can't find

04:40:14.480 men who refuse to be with women who won't you know wait till marriage essentially this is what your

04:40:21.360 point is right i actually like i do agree when i hear people say like you should wait till you're

04:40:26.880 married to have sex because you don't know any better so if i never had sex before and he was my

04:40:31.760 first partner and we had sex it would be the best sex of my life and i probably wouldn't want to go

04:40:36.240 out and fuck anyone else yes i'm not not only that but think about this that's not reality anymore

04:40:42.080 in society and it just so happens you have to see if you have sexual chemistry with someone it

04:40:46.400 just so happens that people that that's it's a society as a whole like we need to change that

04:40:50.800 picture for kids that are growing up and different things and have different conversations like we're

04:40:54.880 having these now these are great but what i'm saying is like it's traditional values that we're not

04:41:00.480 teaching maybe to the younger generation like for what you're saying because people it's getting it's

04:41:05.360 going to get worse and worse can i ask you guys a question like your own families to push to push back

04:41:10.880 on this real quick uh women are the gatekeepers of sex and reproduction not men but we're horny so it's so

04:41:18.800 it's impossible it's actually an impossible for women for women to make to say it's actually men's

04:41:25.760 fault for making us this way uh it can't actually be men's fault because you're the gatekeepers of

04:41:32.080 sex not men i think it's biologically like when you're growing up and you're you're you're like a

04:41:37.040 young female and you're getting your period at like 11 like i did oh that's i was i couldn't control my my

04:41:43.280 hormone sometimes and like it's you learn things in school but it shit happens and like you you're

04:41:50.560 taught to like it's like a like you demonize sex like as a young kid you're like terrified to

04:41:55.680 understand it or explore and we're not like educated on it so you're thinking it's such a negative

04:42:00.400 dirty no no you're educated on sex in school at a young age and at younger and younger i went to catholic

04:42:07.920 school you think i was educated on sex i've never heard about sex well i don't think maybe you're

04:42:12.720 educated on how to eat a man's ass but yes i think the basics of penis goes in vagina you were

04:42:18.080 educated on yeah excuse me or something on the oh the she said i think you knew how it worked and i

04:42:25.600 think you knew where babies came from did you think but we're not like you're taught right and wrong

04:42:30.400 you're taught like this is wrong sex before marriage is wrong like in a catholic school that's

04:42:35.520 that's a good message okay but but there's like it's so different like in different families like

04:42:40.320 some people are swingers like some people's parents are swingers like you think yeah they

04:42:44.000 shouldn't do that that's bad okay that's your opinion but we shouldn't project on other people

04:42:48.720 what they should why shouldn't we you have one life we do it all the time you have your opinion

04:42:52.000 and we have different things for different votes like everyone has

04:42:58.480 non-stop wait let me let me uh i do want to answer your question though and also can you show me that

04:43:03.280 tattoo which one the forearm one you know the vibes i was looking at that one what can you show

04:43:08.880 to the camera right here you know the vibes what what are the vibes it's like i don't know the vibes

04:43:13.280 it's one of my favorite tattoos and i know it's such a random tattoo i get tattoos for like memories

04:43:17.120 and i used to do art basil events because oh my god who the hell cares exactly he asked he cares so i

04:43:24.320 used to do art basil events and i i'm an artist i paint so i took my only fans money to try to like

04:43:29.840 provide for myself outside of only fans in the beginning and i paid sixty thousand dollars to

04:43:34.960 throw art basil events with my art and this was right before the pandemic hit and it was such a

04:43:39.600 cool event that we had a tattoo artist tattooing there and it was a like a like an ongoing joke

04:43:44.560 we all would say you know the vibes you know the vibe so we all five of us got a matching tattoo so

04:43:49.280 every time i see it i think of the event i think of like a fun time in my life that's what it is

04:43:53.920 is you know the vibes such a random tattoo i know she had a question oh wait i think i was

04:44:03.280 gonna answer your question okay which was would i date a girl who's waiting until marriage uh

04:44:12.800 well i mean the ship has sailed on my end on that so uh what do you mean oh because you're dating a

04:44:18.480 girl that didn't wait no i'm saying i've had sex obviously so but what if you like okay you can meet

04:44:22.960 a girl tomorrow that was like i'm yeah so she'd have to be she'd she'd probably have to be a virgin

04:44:27.360 she'd have to be exceptional for me to even consider it but i also have hesitations when

04:44:31.760 it comes to marriage uh regardless of the quality of my potential uh partner so marriage is probably

04:44:40.320 out of the picture for me uh not to say that i'm just trying to run through a bunch of girls like

04:44:45.440 i actually value being honest though i value long-term relationships like i don't want to sleep with

04:44:49.360 the girl just once if i do sleep with the girl i want there to be continuity i want to continue

04:44:53.120 seeing her uh and it's yeah i mean there's to me there's no point in just sleeping with the girl

04:44:59.280 once and never seeing her again talking to her again like if i sleep with you i want to continue

04:45:05.760 uh seeing you good um and i do prefer long-term relationships but uh when it comes to if she's

04:45:12.560 waiting until marriage uh again she'd have to be so exceptional to one convince me to wait till

04:45:19.280 marriage and then two to even get married you're like here so uh yeah i'm probably uh i'm gonna say

04:45:25.680 no probably not probably not uh but i don't know cheyenne she's born again i know just kidding okay she's

04:45:36.560 sweet she's nice she's nice she's nice who knows maybe i did question yeah okay so for you guys for

04:45:42.240 what you said before if you did have a daughter or like if you have a niece in your family would you

04:45:46.720 teach her the same values that you guys hold now about sex and stuff which are what like how you

04:45:53.360 think about your view on sex like would you want her to be an open yeah i would just be like until

04:45:57.840 you're 18 you're not allowed to fuck anyone um wait is this for daughters like would you teach

04:46:03.520 you're some don't want children right so i don't want children i'm at the age where i'm like almost

04:46:09.280 40 i'm gonna be 39 this month i didn't have that chance to have kids and people always say that to

04:46:13.680 me and it's not like i hate when my fans say like oh you're single or you're not gonna have kids i just

04:46:20.000 didn't meet that person that i wanted to have kids with it's not a choice at that point like years

04:46:24.160 ago it just didn't happen for me so i'm just living my life and i have a niece and like i say all the

04:46:29.760 time my family doesn't know what i do i'm very careful at keeping it secret and that's you're on

04:46:35.520 a podcast right now mine knows they're never gonna find out never gonna where they live in

04:46:40.240 my dad has a flip phone with phone numbers and he doesn't know how to use a phone and my mom is like

04:46:45.600 so and my my alias on instagram i was a nurse for years and nobody knew what i did i had my

04:46:51.200 name and like i was i thought about that kind of stuff and yes i say my niece i'm not gonna hey guess

04:46:56.800 what i do on the internet she's a little kid like no but if ever came up top of the conversation

04:47:01.840 when she's older i would tell my brother like how are we gonna address this and what would you be

04:47:06.320 comfortable with addressing so for the sake of time i want to try to get through a couple notes here and

04:47:11.040 then hopefully we try to wrap things up here pretty soon so i'm gonna start i think i was getting through

04:47:17.200 some of alexa's notes here so oh actually we've got some tweets let's react to some tweets

04:47:24.480 tweets who's tweets wait your tweets okay you said if you were traditional when you asked if you're

04:47:31.600 traditional wait what when you asked if we were traditional what about it can i change my answer

04:47:35.840 real quick uh insulin aspects yes but like yeah insulin aspects yes i am oh because remember i

04:47:43.040 so i'm a virgin but i'm not waiting till marriage because i know yeah i can't wait is that like are you

04:47:48.560 propositioning me right now no no no no no no wait are you both you're both virgins yes

04:47:56.800 i'm being so for real what's your body count you won't answer

04:48:15.520 50 something you won't answer that question but earlier you were on me for not answering a question

04:48:20.080 you have a septum every time every single time literally he he literally respected when you

04:48:29.440 said that you wouldn't say what your body count was he asked you to rate the thing you guys think

04:48:34.560 he said why won't you answer such a basic question no specifically he said that he would respect

04:48:42.320 you saying that you didn't want to say your body count your argument that was specifically over

04:48:47.520 wiping that was it i wasn't making that face andrew i was just like i'm sick as fuck right now great

04:48:54.240 he asked me if the sky was blue and then asked why would i not answer that has nothing to do with

04:48:59.200 body does it but that was the thing that he was asking me about body count it was about you giving

04:49:05.360 yourself a self rating about beauty and your wife and how much he thought you would be a good wife

04:49:12.000 and when it came to body count specifically he said it's okay if you don't disclose that

04:49:18.400 that's why i take notes you want to tell me what it is after the show privately yeah um your body count

04:49:25.200 no okay what about yours you don't tell i don't i don't disclose why it's more than one let's just

04:49:31.680 because you don't know it you don't keep track oh yeah all right i'm here i've had sex at least

04:49:39.280 one time wow one time i know you're so good impressive

04:49:45.600 wait i have a question for you i'm good because i actually have a religious friend and we

04:49:50.080 oh and we actually fight about argue about that's actually a great endorsement i'm going to put that

04:49:54.560 on my you're great at sex thank you i'll put that on my resume he's so good he's on my only oh wait

04:49:59.120 now this is now they're going to be like oh what did they have a fucking rendezvous prior to that

04:50:03.360 great all the time all the fucking all right no we have not had carnal knowledge of each other

04:50:13.040 who you and cheyenne no oh okay nothing you missed the whole thing i don't want to have

04:50:19.280 knowledge with you he had sex with one human he said yeah but the the septum piercing i'm sorry that

04:50:24.720 i feel like it's because she's every time that's like a girl who's just like black fully blasted in

04:50:29.920 tattoos like just super she only has one only one same i don't know i just i'm getting another one

04:50:36.960 but no tattoos it's kind of like you attract what you are and i feel like people like it's kind of

04:50:42.640 like i don't know if i'd be comfortable dating a guy that had no tattoos because of the reasons or

04:50:46.800 why or whatever reason i got them it's kind of like shucks it's not gonna work it's not gonna work

04:50:52.000 for us but you can debut your dick on my only fans you know yikes wait can i ask them my question

04:51:00.320 what was your question so my friend he's religious he's he's very very you know religious he says that

04:51:08.560 if you have sex in any form oral anal that you lose your virginity do you is that true do you guys

04:51:14.880 believe that i guess the question is like what does he mean by virginity if we're talking about the

04:51:19.200 physical like anatomy of our body no oh are you saying you s some d yeah more than once like

04:51:27.760 but in terms of like spiritual yeah like he might be saying that you technically you're a virgin but

04:51:34.080 i haven't had sex you're like half a virgin i know i mean don't people say like anal sex isn't losing

04:51:41.040 oh yeah have you had anal sex no i haven't had anything nothing's going on nothing is why you

04:51:46.000 say that it's going on my butt no it's it's it's wait what i have a very weird view on like religion

04:51:51.520 because i i actually worked in orthodox jewish i've had the taco rubs hospital so like i just i've seen

04:51:56.960 some okay word have you guys heard of that the taco rub yeah go to the tweets yeah we're trying to get

04:52:04.640 some tweets here mr whatever what is that all right we got some tweets here from our dear friend

04:52:10.240 alexis i think these are from alexis morgan okay wait oh make it bigger nick make it way bigger

04:52:17.440 it's yours

04:52:20.080 wait wait mind you mind you i want you to view wait wait come back come back come back i want you to

04:52:27.200 view these tweets from the frame of in her pre-show notes lexus over here our dear friend alexis

04:52:33.520 she said that she's conservative and traditional and she argued as much on the show so let's see her

04:52:41.440 very traditional tweets uh can you and i want you to read these i will okay go ahead

04:52:47.520 the face a man puts on when they the face a man puts on when they made me squirt how does that that was

04:52:55.680 a boyfriend okay next how is that not traditional like we all squirt or like not everyone but

04:53:02.640 it's read read this just read it who was i choking at that time all right it's 2022 choking men while

04:53:09.520 riding them super with greater signs next i love good good night to the mo to the men that moan

04:53:18.000 when eating pussy correct it's like super good night i mean come on next you should want to do it

04:53:23.120 it shout out to the men who aren't afraid to admit that they like their assay i told you

04:53:31.920 men lie about how much they like it done yes i told you you can't say i'm a liar

04:53:38.160 i'm about to do that's disgusting now the question is who am i doing it to i'm doing it to my partner

04:53:44.320 in that time i was in a serious relationship and i'm just tweeting it and i'm wording it in a way

04:53:49.200 hold on hold on that's disgusting i can't believe you said that oh please he's the biggest one that

04:53:53.600 gets his ass eight i'm sorry for the world yes literally he's a cup i think he's like he i i have

04:54:02.400 friends that and just cook with him and i know a lot about that but anyways cool uh next andrew cook

04:54:09.200 andrew cook but yeah i i'm still vouch for all those there's more there's more oh yeah give me them

04:54:13.680 oh here we go

04:54:17.840 i love speaking spanish while i get by a big white cock i like bbw wait what is it bb

04:54:24.960 no it's bwc bwc i do and i am latina word poppy who said the word word nice

04:54:36.880 next same thanks bro that's oh that is men who kiss you after you suck their dick

04:54:43.360 yes because a lot of men don't want to they're they're afraid of the saliva or they're just like

04:54:48.320 very just like germo and it's like dude it's your dick if your dick is dirty then it's like it's my

04:54:52.400 mouth and your dick yeah what if yeah but okay so your argument is basically like let's say the guy

04:54:56.880 blasts in your mouth and he doesn't want to kiss you after he does that he's a loser well i'd spit it in

04:55:01.600 his face like he finishes or he's it's kind of cuck i could under i could understand like when he

04:55:05.920 finishes in my mouth like he doesn't want to like if it's in my mouth correct but like i've had a good

04:55:10.240 night kiss after are we not allowed to respect men's sexual boundaries um well they make us like

04:55:16.480 kiss men kiss them after they go down on us correct well if they're making you are you saying they're

04:55:21.920 forcing you no they're not making us but they will they okay so if you didn't want to after doing

04:55:26.640 that and they're just like they grab you i'm gonna say wait what was the comment you made i heard

04:55:30.960 something about you said it was a little what what bro you literally made a comment about her tweet

04:55:40.480 oh that that's big dick energy to do that no you said it was little what if he doesn't if he doesn't

04:55:47.200 do it oh little bitch i love that no i don't do that shit you don't kiss after head no oh what

04:55:54.000 say that's not right go taste your cum we brush we brush our teeth with it i'm just kidding

04:56:00.640 they'll be they'll be a girl that they'll make you forget that there's even come in her mouth and

04:56:04.480 want to kiss her right after no it's like you're trying to if she's like trying to come at me i'm

04:56:11.440 like come in your face she's going for a kiss you're like i'm like he's like be gone this is so

04:56:21.280 fucking nauseating it's just nauseating i'm sorry you're traditional and married i'm trying to

04:56:28.000 sorry sorry you prude no whether i was married or not let's just say let's say i've just got

04:56:32.800 what's your body count what's your body count zero negative zero here's the thing right men are

04:56:39.040 allowed to have sexual boundaries and no you're allowed to it's it yeah yeah yeah but y'all just

04:56:45.040 shame we're just joking we're joking around we're joking it's just like how you with us but i don't

04:56:51.600 know if you're real it's like you're being serious we're with you how you with us i don't

04:56:55.600 i don't go down on women either you don't oh are you gay oh what i don't like you guys

04:57:03.280 i'm not a fan i'm honestly like not a fan of damn you went from like a solid eight to like a

04:57:08.560 2.1 right now i was like i'd do it and then i was like have you done it before and you're just

04:57:13.680 like nah it's not good for me you just had a bad experience right no not even oh the last time

04:57:18.880 i did was during the bush administration oh my god it's like 2007 2008 you know this is a lie

04:57:28.080 like absolutely wait what's going on back there nick what's going on back there okay

04:57:33.120 i'm like what's going on uh now look let me let me here hear me out okay

04:57:40.480 you mean a bush and the bushes okay like you can come back who knew the last 40 minutes of

04:57:47.920 this podcast would be the funnest now we're talking now we're talking now it's interesting

04:57:52.160 this is late night all right so come on now so i'm very much in favor i if it's if

04:57:59.840 if sometimes you know sometimes you don't always get there but i want my girl to come first every

04:58:06.160 time so so i'll do i'm not trying to like ignore her pleasure i care very much about her pleasure

04:58:11.920 this guy back here is agreeing with me but that's another sexual boundary of mine i don't like to do

04:58:18.720 it but i can tell you i can tell he eats pussy he said yes he eats bro you're gonna get that's a

04:58:24.080 wait that's a that's a fucking court martial bro donated 100 alexis is the modern day example why

04:58:31.280 sodom and gomorrah were destroyed i want to hear the rest of the story yeah i want to hear his

04:58:39.920 i like okay so bring it what i don't do i'll do anything for love but i won't do that you should

04:58:49.840 play that you should play that i don't do that's your theme song but i want her like it's i want

04:58:55.680 her to come multiple times preferably before me wait so how do you do it yeah how do you do that

04:59:01.600 well it depends on the girl do you do you like how you get her there come on oh no i'll never i'll

04:59:08.080 never do that again oh you just you just quoted the song again oh i'll never do that again i'm not

04:59:14.560 sure what you're talking about maybe he just doesn't know anyway i did it a couple regrettably

04:59:22.160 i did it a couple times don't get me wrong i'm a fan of pussy pussy's great it's not like i'm grossed

04:59:26.480 out by pussy yeah your face is real red ever since we jumped into this convo i'm not gonna lie i'm

04:59:30.960 bashful you seem like you're in a way better mood and like you're not sick anymore you have really nice

04:59:38.800 blue eyes what's the i just i just told you i don't eat pussy and you guys are really we're gonna

04:59:44.160 we're gonna show you that you're gonna want to eat your face yeah i want to smile

04:59:50.240 yeah i still feel like absolute though everyone's been sick everyone's been sick like i'm about to die

04:59:56.080 is that why you're being so nice about to die i'm a nurse i got you on one hand i've been more sassy

05:00:01.840 because i'm sick really i feel like you've been really like light tonight she doesn't like me but

05:00:07.040 no wait it's not that i don't like you i'm just i want you to no oh oh no it's not that i don't

05:00:14.240 like you please don't you know misunderstand me like i want us all to see that we're you know morally

05:00:19.600 sick and it's not just casting he's just actually judging one person

05:00:23.680 sick and the cure is jesus and you know he died for your sins my sins and he resurrected to make

05:00:33.120 you born again wait wait hold on let's stick to the vulgar yeah that's i'm so sorry but after

05:00:40.240 hours whatever we did four hours of christ um is it okay if we can leave early because i'm like

05:00:48.880 wait we really we really need your input after dark on the pussy eating topic

05:00:58.000 i'm going to leave wait no no no wait just stay a little bit we're almost i think we're almost

05:01:03.280 finished is this going to be the rest of the podcast no we're going to move on pretty soon

05:01:11.360 the look at the camera the look at the camera

05:01:13.760 tomatoes i might have to leave early wait wait she's i took three times i still have a

05:01:21.440 fucking headache so i am going to try to wrap in like 15 minutes if you think you can power through

05:01:29.840 wait do you want to leave because because they are just talking about the most

05:01:34.000 we're vulgar humans i'll talk sorry are we making you uncomfortable i'm not we're not trying

05:01:39.520 i'm not judging you guys it's just the nature of the topic it's just i don't know like i'm like

05:01:43.440 you need hold on i let me just say something i need to say something the nature of the topic you

05:01:48.320 did all this shit even if i did it i'm a born-again christian and if there's a conviction and i'm not

05:01:54.400 okay with this topic and i'm not judging anybody saying like i'm better than this

05:01:59.040 you gotta work on your constitution a little bit like the nature of the topic you asked you even said

05:02:04.080 it was nauseous yourself like i don't know the thing is is that i'm willing to still engage in the

05:02:10.800 worldview and the reason i'm still willing to engage in the worldview is because as i've told

05:02:15.680 you before your ineffective protestant prattling bullshit doesn't work and what does work is

05:02:22.160 meeting people where they're actually at even if they're fucking dgens um andrew see you're that

05:02:28.800 attitude i am a dgen i need you to stay attitude it's the way you said it i'm a born again chris just

05:02:35.760 shut up your virtue signaling is sickening it's sickening wait that's me to where they're at and

05:02:40.960 actually give some pushback instead of this pathetic oh i just can't handle it give me a break how many

05:02:47.360 did you ride like a hundred dicks and you're worried about them having a conversation about vagina it's

05:02:52.000 ridiculous i think that was cheyenne we are our team for once i thought that was funny i thought

05:02:58.160 that was funny i love you cheyenne you're my um that you're making that i didn't make you're my

05:03:04.000 cheyenne's cool you guys are cool i like that you guys don't judge us and like call us like yeah

05:03:08.960 it's like we're gonna go to hell i feel like bro what the fuck we're all

05:03:15.440 um girl power could we like disclose our religion

05:03:22.640 i love you all in a relationship though would you not have like you wouldn't have a conversation

05:03:29.360 about oral oral sex with a partner you wouldn't of course in a relationship in a marriage but

05:03:35.200 we're talking about outside the context of marriage and i don't know what virtue signaling

05:03:40.080 andrew is talking about i'm feeling like the physical effects of it right now i can't

05:03:45.280 so if the rest of the podcast is going to be about that i mean i'm not gonna

05:03:49.520 you know i might just head out here like are you i just don't want to i don't want to partake in what

05:03:55.440 the conversation well that's awesome go ahead i'll stay in the trenches while the christians flee again

05:04:01.280 what if you just don't comment on it is it like still like i mean i had to listen to the like

05:04:05.600 stuff that i didn't feel so we support yeah me too i'm an atheist and i listen to that we're here

05:04:10.880 we've been talking about this topic for like 10 minutes and like we're just joking around

05:04:13.520 we're just having a little yeah we're being like so light-hearted about it we're not like we're not

05:04:18.160 trying to like make you feel uncomfortable i don't think you guys are making me feel uncomfortable

05:04:21.120 that's not what i'm saying i don't think that's what you're saying no i don't think that you guys are

05:04:25.120 intentionally having this conversation to make me uncomfortable well you feel uncomfortable

05:04:28.640 nevertheless i feel like sex is a gift from god i see it is sex is a gift from god in the sense

05:04:34.800 of marriage you want to talk about this are we gonna have another meta conversation about

05:04:41.840 like for me it's interesting um because like i i feel like i'm a feeler i feel everything so like i

05:04:46.800 feel her and like i um yes very much like i was almost when i saw you earlier i was almost crying

05:04:53.520 i'm like oh my god this meta conversation is so um

05:04:59.680 he's on cough medicine right now let's talk about sex i get horny and cough medicine too i get you

05:05:06.240 yeah not not to shame you anything i'm not trying to like make anyone feel ashamed

05:05:10.480 so so basically like i'm so much woman prattle calm down

05:05:15.360 so i personally don't feel convicted of leaving but if she does i have you know i feel like we should

05:05:20.560 respect that but i personally don't feel convicted so you know because everyone's convictions are

05:05:24.240 different so i feel like we shouldn't pressure her to stay respect what if she wants to leave oh if

05:05:28.960 she wants to leave yeah we're not telling her she can't leave absolutely allowed to no one's telling

05:05:33.200 you not to thank you yeah but i feel you know andrew just attacked me for wanting to leave no he's

05:05:37.520 i don't think he attacked you i gotta be honest i'm gonna try to say this in the nicest way possible

05:05:43.200 like you need to strengthen your constitution a little bit because you've you've been and i'm i'm

05:05:49.440 not saying this to attack you you've been very whiny the entire episode do you agree

05:05:55.680 that i've been and i'm not saying that to attack you but you've been kind of whiny i don't think

05:05:59.120 i've been you've had meta conversations about the podcast and whining about certain things that

05:06:03.920 people say and it's like a little whiny like we're talking about disagreement about oral sex

05:06:10.000 it's like this is a dating podcast these things come up you know what i mean like it's not doesn't

05:06:15.280 mean that we're bad people or we're against christ we're being really light about i think that is

05:06:19.040 just everyone should just probably like look at where they're going and see if like this is like

05:06:22.400 their cup of tea and if like they're going to be put in a uncomfortable situation that they should

05:06:26.240 just not even go there because most of the time mostly people in this in this table that they did

05:06:30.480 want to talk about what you're feeling uncomfortable and you're making this whole like 10 20 minute

05:06:34.240 about how you're not feeling comfortable about it but it's like i had to sit here and like literally like

05:06:38.000 being a negative headspace because you're talking about god and like well i i don't feel comfortable

05:06:42.480 speaking about and it doesn't mean that i don't believe in god or anything like i i believe a lot

05:06:46.000 of things that you're saying but it's just it's not the right time and place like you're here you know

05:06:49.600 what the whatever podcast is and that's it like it's just i just think that maybe for the next time

05:06:54.880 if you're going on a podcast like understand what their like topics are and stuff and like you know and

05:06:59.520 you're such a nice girl and i i love it but it's just like damn i can't tell you i was probably like in a

05:07:03.440 bad headspace for three hours because you wanted to talk about things that i didn't care about talking about religion

05:07:07.600 here i wanted to have a good time and it was just like i felt like it was just like you wanted to

05:07:11.520 like make your points and make your points about it and it was it was it was a little whiny but of

05:07:15.440 course i i respect you and you're such a lovely girl but i think next time just kind of read and

05:07:20.560 just do do your investigation as for where you're showing up you know what i mean like like you don't

05:07:24.960 go to a house music club and if you only like rap you know what i mean because you're gonna have

05:07:28.000 a bad time so you're you just don't do that but this will give you experience for your next podcast

05:07:32.320 yeah you'll have a thicker skin yeah and then you'll know like how to like handle it on your

05:07:36.800 next one just make sure to read the room too because yeah and and you know um i know that we

05:07:42.080 only have like 15 minutes left and i was just thinking okay if this is kind of the rest of the

05:07:45.600 topic i might have nothing to contribute to that and it's not making me comfortable so i just sit there

05:07:51.440 and just wanted to kind of you know if i can leave early i also you know i'm i have like we sat here

05:07:58.240 the whole podcast while you said what you had to say and we're just having like a light-hearted

05:08:02.240 conversation at the end and i understand it might make you uncomfortable but not everybody believes

05:08:06.320 in god and jesus i'm not saying i don't just let her go but we let you say what you had to say you

05:08:11.520 know what i mean i feel like i'm just good rule good rule of thumb in the future if you're going to be

05:08:15.280 in the trenches doing this kind of thing coomers be coomin and djens are degenerate so you should

05:08:21.600 expect that djens are going to say djn shit that's what they do because they're

05:08:25.360 fucking djens like learn this learn this

05:08:31.680 that you want to be ourselves and tuck down tail between the legs and run out of the trenches as

05:08:36.320 fast as possible because the thing is is some of us do want to engage and it is important that

05:08:41.920 this is a part of culture god help us all but it is yeah he does god help us all but it is part of

05:08:48.160 the culture we're bridges and we're enjoying this topic yeah yeah and like if she's uncomfortable

05:08:53.520 and if they believe what they were preaching and then what she was preaching earlier it's like

05:08:57.600 no judgment zone she can't judge me for having my topics she's judging you i think i'm not judging

05:09:03.920 you i'm just saying yeah oh yeah she's not wanting this conversation anymore it's not just the

05:09:08.560 conversation like i have an illness and i'm tired okay let's have after dark whatever after i was just

05:09:15.600 wondering if i would be able to leave early you can but you know if we have 15 minutes left and there's like

05:09:21.840 i mean i can see if there's any notes that i can direct towards you that you twitter pull it up

05:09:27.200 provided what about instagram what about instagram just pull up the links everyone's sweaters and

05:09:32.880 instagrams do not bios i love it read our bios don't do that with me please okay read britney

05:09:38.800 christ's bio don't do that it's probably about plants

05:09:41.440 she always does that her she's like my sister this one but she's not it's okay she's literally

05:09:50.480 me and you're literally you guys are trying to hurt each other yeah i'm sorry no i don't know how i

05:09:54.880 just met her i'm eating my stomach inside my body no i'm trying to find the notes but

05:10:01.920 who said something somebody i don't know if it was cheyenne or claire said something about

05:10:05.680 unconditional love what i might have said that about parents with like a killer child

05:10:11.200 oh yeah i think that was something like that read more bios that was good okay i should put

05:10:17.760 something more bios though i just want to see what they say hold on let's read this um

05:10:24.240 andrew do you want to read this

05:10:28.560 andrew as andrew you've lost your witness christ did not ask the woman at the well to rate herself

05:10:35.680 he offered a new life your words drip of pride berating these sisters in christ forgot you is

05:10:43.280 is so weak well i'll tell you what i need it's true what i need is for people who aren't complete

05:10:48.480 weaklings to actually engage with the d-gens that's what i need what i don't need is these weak-willed

05:10:55.680 right weaklings to come on and try to represent us in the probably the worst time that i've ever seen

05:11:02.480 for degeneracy ever because they're concerned about all the same activities they themselves

05:11:08.480 have done concerned about hearing it again like we don't know that degenerates are going to be

05:11:13.200 degenerates so you know what you can take that super chat and you could shove it up your ass because

05:11:18.160 i'm right and we all know i'm right andrew i have never once heard you preach the gospel this entire

05:11:23.760 podcast you know if you believe that that's why would you preach why would you preach the gospel

05:11:28.800 to people have no understanding of what you're saying they only understand secular values so what

05:11:33.760 you do is you break down their secular values and then you give them a replacement but you don't give

05:11:38.880 the people you're gonna preach to to these degenerate they don't give a

05:11:43.680 shit they don't care you can't reach them that way you think you're better at this than me i've

05:11:49.760 been doing this for years i'm highly skilled at it you know how many dms i get from different people

05:11:54.720 saying holy shit thank you i've never heard this before why your weak ass is about to run out of

05:12:00.160 the room the last 15 the home stretch weak i just want to say he doesn't represent what we believe

05:12:07.680 you're damn right i don't represent i don't represent christ energy i'm kicking you off

05:12:16.240 for brian get the fuck out of here but what is what is your religion like what do you believe in

05:12:24.160 i'm an orthodox christian okay i don't represent orthodoxy i represent my own world view and i make

05:12:32.080 secular arguments so i can break down secularist ideology what kind of christian are you i'm sorry

05:12:38.480 what kind of christian are you um i'm a protest i'm a baptist and you're unorthodox okay he's an

05:12:44.640 orthodox christian yeah orthodox okay all right let's read some chats okay we got can uh somebody read

05:12:52.880 this do you want to read this one i can't see what is that you want me to read it yeah go ahead

05:12:59.040 fuck okay doesn't relieve stress it's isolation 34 year old man with no relationship

05:13:08.880 is that experience experience oh put it back on sorry i don't know always going to

05:13:15.920 fuck to relieve the stress of isolation i found myself sorry in self-harm trap just the five you

05:13:23.840 want it's a lot to unpack someone else uh thank you for the uh thing uh i tried can we talk about

05:13:30.320 like our worst gender experience hold on i gotta but i but i think this is why a lot of these men

05:13:34.960 come to our only fans for like some sort of like pleasure uh destiny i don't know if this is the

05:13:41.280 destiny stephen bunnell a dating podcast what a joke brian's entire mo is find contradictions in

05:13:48.000 the women's life and air out and clown on them with his vitriolic community andrew why do you put

05:13:53.280 logic aside for faith andrew do you think funny if it if it were the destiny then that would be his

05:13:58.800 exact same mo as well as a debater would be to find contradictions in the world view like i do in

05:14:04.480 his when i'm wrecking him in a debate also on top of that to to the previous uh uh chat can you read

05:14:12.800 the end of it real quick brian andrew why do you put logic aside for faith well okay so logic also

05:14:20.080 requires faith that's what's so funny but this aside everything requires faith and what

05:14:28.720 are you in the room right now in god like wait let's not no how how do you know you're in the

05:14:36.400 room right now speaking it's just have faith that that's true i don't know i really don't yeah that's

05:14:44.640 right you don't know you just have faith i get it i doubt it's the i don't think it's the actual

05:14:49.280 destiny i believe you're all in my simulation right now and i created all of you but uh i mean it

05:14:55.680 is do you have faith that that's true sort of yeah i was a catholic i went to catholic

05:15:02.000 let me get through this but you don't want to even go there with me for the whole panel but

05:15:06.160 especially the of ladies god loves you he's just waiting for you to love him thank you i love him

05:15:10.560 thank you thank you thank you appreciate it subscribe i'll be busy tomorrow can you read this one who

05:15:19.680 do not ask me again come on shout out from no you know it's your turn shout out from

05:15:26.400 that alabama area to pro-choice people what would it take you to change your mind on the issue i've

05:15:32.720 noticed biological facts that don't convince you i'm an agonistic prolifer um preparing i can't see

05:15:38.800 this thing um preparing myself to be underwhelmed thank you erin chambers thank you erin chambers

05:15:46.640 appreciate it oh pro-lifers hang on hang on this is like a heavy topic the hashtag i didn't read

05:15:52.000 the hashtag of andrew i love you andrew we love you but i said this is a heavy topic a little bit

05:15:56.640 backwards i said i said andrew i love you hashtag but i meant to say hashtag i love you or whatever

05:16:04.640 i can almost guarantee you by the way that that was not the real destiny i don't think that you

05:16:08.320 would ever send in that he loves you chat asking no no the one before asking about uh you know looking

05:16:14.640 for contradictions in a person's worldview that's kind of what his mo is so uh but that aside to

05:16:21.040 the pro-life question uh what is your guys's view on pro-life pro-choice i think that's what he's

05:16:27.520 getting at first i think that like we should be allowed to abort if we have to like if we're in a

05:16:39.280 situation where we cannot have that child i think that we should be allowed to abort it okay next

05:16:45.680 as a nurse who's actually held babies at 22 weeks i feel like we're not educated on what a fetus

05:16:51.920 looks like at certain weeks because me and my uneducated mind set back in the day maybe would think that

05:16:59.680 that wasn't a life so i believe that if you're going to have an abortion you better have an abortion

05:17:04.080 very early on i don't agree i'm not saying i agree with it but i feel like people need to

05:17:08.800 like educate themselves because i've actually seen what life looks like at certain ages because i

05:17:14.800 that's what i did for a living and i feel like people don't understand or know it so if you actually

05:17:18.880 knew what your baby looked like at this many weeks i feel like a lot of you a lot of women

05:17:24.720 in general would never have an abortion so i at this age in my life i don't you i don't

05:17:30.800 know your pro your life i would for sure have an abortion are you kidding me i'm pro-life up to

05:17:35.600 a certain amount of weeks like if it was maybe like four to six weeks okay do that but after that

05:17:42.960 i feel like people don't understand what if you got like i'm not going to say the word but this is

05:17:48.560 the whole topic like it's a lot yeah it's a big don't don't go there wait really quick going around

05:17:53.440 the table who here's on birth control starting with you oh you are i'm not oh i'm not no i was

05:18:03.520 on it for six years but i got off a few years ago never been on it nope these mic i'm on it congrats

05:18:11.680 i guess expired what does it mean iud there's actually a lot of bad things about it shouldn't

05:18:18.720 be taking it yep true you get cancer later in life there's a lot of studies on it okay i'm trying

05:18:24.000 to think what we had to oh uh i think on we saw something on one of your profiles it says that

05:18:33.120 you're i think it's on your of it says you have a natural bot your natural body what

05:18:37.920 my my body's natural so i only had a breast lift and um like i had really big boobs and i had them

05:18:45.840 reduced and lifted and my body's natural the rest of it no bbl no no any lipo anything on the belly

05:18:53.520 lip filler i've oh i've had my lips oh that's that's not natural is your nose natural my nose is

05:18:58.800 natural dude you have a cute nose yeah but when they say body the body's not really the face

05:19:04.720 what 10 out of 10 nose nose yes my nose yeah why are you being so nice now i'm gonna show my

05:19:11.120 surgeon why are you being so nice now i feel like it's not straight i know i do like it it's

05:19:16.160 it's a i mean i i can recognize because i got a big fucking nose right yeah i didn't even notice

05:19:22.480 it until you just said it i hyper focus these they're laughing because they've been looking at

05:19:26.800 my side profile oh yeah i mean we're looking at you straight on we don't even notice it

05:19:31.760 no i never had my nose done and you're probably getting a mindset and you're like what's what's

05:19:35.520 all that metal in your face right that's what usually i wish guys are like why do you have so

05:19:39.520 much metal in your face you don't need that she's got a she's got great nose genetics i'll say that

05:19:46.080 she's got great nose genetics do you want to have my kid genetics okay i will have your

05:19:51.760 kid here let's just let's blast through those shut up we gotta blast through the tweets but wait you're

05:19:56.800 not natural then if you've had like lip filler and breast augmentation i never said you said

05:20:02.000 body like it depends what you mean like by natural i've had my breasts i'm very honest well i'll

05:20:05.840 argue with you guys a little botox in my lips we can argue next time i'll pull up go on my threads

05:20:10.640 instagram threads definitely don't this is alexis we're not even gonna have her read it just blast

05:20:15.120 through all of them so we can see how traditional she is okay cool next not bad how to cop

05:20:22.560 okay oh my god what i've learned here's darabella all they care about is who's darab is that you

05:20:30.560 no that's that's me that's dira all men care about is sex please don't pull up mine whatever you do

05:20:36.080 yeah i agree you think men only want no no no we care about food they care about sex yeah

05:20:42.480 do you think do you think somebody read that please kick yoko immediately ass eater is uh no you

05:20:55.520 want to go sorry no no i'm sorry i didn't realize you're reading it my bad oh no but nasty i may

05:21:02.640 want to smell the redhead's chair these women are what's wrong with the world zero accountability and

05:21:09.440 this is why men are checking out oh my god she reads like putting her off man finger i didn't do

05:21:15.040 that earlier i didn't do that earlier oh my god i didn't do that earlier there's this meme hey listen

05:21:20.000 man there's this meme where listen girls will post that they they're attracted to like they're

05:21:25.760 sapiosexuals and they're attracted to intelligent men but the men they end up dating or the types of

05:21:30.400 men who read like by hovering their finger over the fucking yeah uh whatever thank you brone

05:21:38.720 sauce say whatever yeah thank you did your breast reduction oh did your breast reduction wait wait

05:21:44.480 wait go back to the what was the i'm unhinged this year that's what heartbreak does oh no i was trying

05:21:48.800 to make a point hold on wait wait pull up the the tweet again pull up the first one from her

05:21:52.800 all they care about so on this okay but could it be that the men that all they want from you is

05:22:04.000 sex could it be that it's because that's all you have to offer no i don't think that's all i have to

05:22:11.040 offer dira bitch dira what i'm just kidding no like a lot of women make that complaint oh man they

05:22:19.280 just want sex it was i was i was i was okay i want massages i was referring to somebody i was

05:22:24.720 kind of seeing somebody in the adult industry we're both we don't both do porn and this was like

05:22:30.560 literally the argument i just felt like tweeting it and i was in an emotional state and i was angry

05:22:34.640 and like we literally do the same thing for a living but it's like a double standard and it's

05:22:38.080 the same and i don't feel like having sex so it was like a conversation like i felt like i could

05:22:43.200 say no and it was yeah yeah whatever okay all right next let's pull up the next one let's get

05:22:50.800 through these so i can can you read it just read it i'm on hinge this year that's what heartbreak

05:22:55.600 does to you never be no put it in her i wanted to i'm gonna hinge this year that's what heartbreak

05:23:00.240 does to you never be a dumb girl for a man never make changes for somebody who's not ready to make

05:23:04.480 changes for you as well i'm healing i'm happy life is really good i would have read it better but okay

05:23:08.720 next i got cheated on there i just want one man no no just here you read it okay i just want one

05:23:15.840 man one dick that is mine and we can create fire content together and focus together until i find

05:23:20.240 a man who's loyal i'm going to stay dating myself i just prefer to be an old-fashioned relationship

05:23:24.160 because i'm loyal well hold on old-fashioned relationship sounds a little bit like you're

05:23:28.880 saying you're kind of traditional and you want an old i haven't done okay i got heartbroken last

05:23:35.600 year i only made like some kind of content and then last year i got my heart wrecked and i decided

05:23:41.840 you know what yeah fuck men and i'm gonna just go fuck everyone and that's what i did and that's

05:23:47.200 what i'm doing right now and i got six years on and off got me nothing so i i'm unhinged and i just

05:23:54.320 want to be on porn stars do it do it what there you go what yes put it wait next one okay next one

05:24:06.560 oh here we go plenty balls plenty balls actually yeah don't put him on here you down what did i say

05:24:15.040 well we'll react to it next time how about that sure next time you come on the next time i come all

05:24:19.360 the way across the country oh yeah you're in new york you want her to come all over gunny what what

05:24:26.480 no not my type excuse me also wait what now react to what wait okay here you got this chat curtis

05:24:38.400 leone can you read this one who me okay brian you're serving 25 years in prison but the

05:24:46.880 the shot caller of a gang says you're his priority newsom says he'll part oh property just um newsom

05:24:53.120 says he'll pardon you if you only fans with uh leila but you have to live in life of aids and herpes

05:25:02.720 that's so terrible terrible terrible terrible sorry terrible

05:25:07.040 late i mean luckily there's great interventions for hiv now i'm gonna

05:25:16.480 25 years and i have to yeah i'm gonna okay bro this is too easy yeah i'm gonna take

05:25:23.760 i guess i have to get with leila i'm getting with leila over being holding some dude's pocket and

05:25:33.840 fucking yeah i i'm taking leila if you give me these terrible scenarios okay i think we're all caught up

05:25:42.480 on everything i believe um there's there's so many notes i wasn't able to get to but i think everyone's

05:25:49.440 tired i think i wouldn't do political stuff oh yeah i have a five hour drive back where where do you

05:25:54.640 where do you live five hour manteca stockton you should sleep here stockton you're from stockton

05:26:00.480 from stockton i was born in the bay area she's from the mean streets of stockton california i like

05:26:08.160 your smiley piercing thank you no i was born in hayward so right next to oakland um and then my mom

05:26:15.360 bought a house and manteca dope that's so cool i got a 10 minute drive i have a question did that

05:26:22.800 hurt oh my god does it she's still on what it does i'm so hungry i'm sorry it's all good it's all

05:26:30.560 good wait brian she has a symptom piercing do you think she's gay i'm not mexican wait no sorry sorry

05:26:35.760 what no wait never mind she said she said her body count is like five or six no never mind that's

05:26:44.080 never mind because no there's people that like you know like girls have symptoms or like other

05:26:48.240 people you guys i'll eat coochie i'll always not a second look what the what she asked

05:26:56.320 what uh well okay for for everyone's sake i think i think uh i think uh i have a bunch of stuff from

05:27:08.480 cheyenne cheyenne i don't know if you want to do a round two after after you know the the brutal this

05:27:16.560 brutal podcast i want to see the tv down tap you no she doesn't have tweets oh but she had a lot of

05:27:21.840 notes that we didn't weren't able to get to you down for round two or anything right now what hold

05:27:28.240 on i don't do that on the first day oh my god no i'm talking like have you come back on the one

05:27:35.520 yeah i would love that i'm actually um i wanted to say this i'm moving back to ohio tomorrow with my

05:27:41.280 mom and it's your birthday wait you're Pisces oh i hate Pisces well what's your sign

05:27:49.120 what's your sign he's an aquarius or a sagittarius for sure i feel like you're a cancer wait when's

05:27:53.760 your birthday stop flirting with me you're an aquarius i flirt with everyone cancer i'm an

05:27:57.760 aquarius what is aries are you a cancer what's your birthday march 31st my death he's an aquarius

05:28:03.600 isn't he oh really oh okay he's either an aquarius or a sagittarius for sure

05:28:09.360 what's your birthday i want to know your birthday what's your birthday i'm saying it on camera

05:28:19.040 i can tell you after the show okay uh oh because you're wait so but you're moving okay

05:28:25.360 you'll be back though right you'll be back i i have a feeling that i'm going to be back

05:28:29.600 because i'm writing my first book do you want andrew to be on that

05:28:32.000 fighty i actually really like andrew tate oh no no not like that just as a personality

05:28:43.520 i like i like this why is he not here what's his up how's your mic facing

05:28:47.760 he should be here he's an AI person okay here i've been there in person we'll have you back

05:28:52.880 why aren't you here now we'll have you back he looks like he looks like he's here if you want

05:28:56.960 but i wish you were here in person i feel like you'd be so much more fun in person he's an AI person

05:29:01.680 he looks like one i know you like want to punch he talks like one too where's that background is

05:29:06.640 that your house i don't i don't want to punch you where are you where are you right now sometimes

05:29:11.040 people want to okay house they're so nice to us at the end so we can put a little word about this

05:29:15.440 he doesn't want to punch you no this wasn't bad because i said i was like i know you don't want to

05:29:19.040 punch me in the face he's like i don't want to punch people were like i'm not that bad

05:29:22.080 i want him to be here in the beginning was scary sorry it's not bad now we know what he likes to

05:29:28.720 talk about i've been on fresh and fit twice s on d d on b p on b oh my god seriously can we get

05:29:36.960 him to be here in person though like can we suck him through the screen and put him in the front of

05:29:43.600 well calm down lady calm down i'm there enough it's okay no you need to be sitting at the head of

05:29:49.200 the table being like they're gonna fly me out of the table shooting off the like shots come on

05:29:56.880 let's go i'm down for that just not i like this guy get him out here right now put him in front of

05:30:02.800 us on the table we'll we'll make it happen we'll get you guys back in person andrew will be like

05:30:08.160 this guy yeah we're gonna get cheyenne you're fun you're fun hug him all y'all it was good i like i

05:30:14.880 like this guy though what's your name gonzo he's got a boyfriend he's got oh sorry girlfriend oh wait

05:30:21.760 is it gonzo gustavo oh sorry oh wait you call him spencer wait just hang on you can you can be honest

05:30:32.160 i taught you spongebob while i was out there his name is spongebob so claire did you have a good time

05:30:36.480 on the podcast well thank you for having me oh my god that was great it was um yeah that's a no

05:30:48.320 yeah just come back i'm i'm gonna wrap wait should i i kind of missed my opportunity to kick her off

05:30:56.160 though oh wow andrew bader quick bear quick i mean i stand by my earlier words i i felt like i

05:31:06.320 led up to that it was a great throw off the whole nine yards i feel like you failed me brian you should

05:31:11.440 have got my back on i'm sorry i'm sorry can i redeem myself wait andrew do it again

05:31:18.880 get the fuck off this show you're weak and weak need and you suck so that's that's my opinion

05:31:26.160 okay i have more respect for the girls on the from my perspective the right side of the table

05:31:31.120 because i at least felt like they were trying to be honest this is trying to trigger you

05:31:36.880 them they're the right side because we're in okay okay i'm not gonna okay okay i'm being a little

05:31:41.120 goblin i'm not really totally sure but i have a question there's a little bit i think i'm being

05:31:46.560 i'm being a goblin i'm i should have i should have taken the the opportunity but now me and her

05:31:51.920 we've claire we've reconciled let's do a fake fight let's do a fake fight we're best friends

05:31:58.480 it would it would just be it would be too goblin-y to just try to bait a kick-off

05:32:04.480 i'm just kidding all right no okay i need some i want to pick her up and hug her and i actually

05:32:08.880 look i want to throw her i try to avoid i avoid she's a very light human and she's beautiful i try to

05:32:14.640 avoid doing i avoid trying to kick people off i just want to throw up in the air and like i should

05:32:20.320 have maybe i should have but okay all right so um okay guys we're gonna wrap up the show uh i want

05:32:27.280 to just say that i don't know if you guys can tell from my voice or what i said at the beginning

05:32:31.440 uh guys i'm sick i want to give a big thank you to uh andrew for coming in and helping me with

05:32:37.200 tonight's show um yeah we wish you're here in flesh no i uh probably would have swung at you i feel

05:32:43.600 like i i feel like crap and i would have not been able to get through this show without having andrew

05:32:51.200 to kind of lean on and have him kind of take up happy uh happy to be here it was very nice to meet

05:32:58.080 all of you uh i hope you don't you don't take any of the kind of back and forth personally i don't um

05:33:05.200 that's my job is to put push back on uh different ideologies i have no ill will towards you

05:33:12.160 whatsoever and it was a pleasure to meet all of you i wish you were here except for the girl in

05:33:16.560 the middle but other than her everybody else we love you yeah stop triggering her we're we're after

05:33:22.480 hours he's fucking around come on andy um but no thank you andrew i really appreciate it because i

05:33:29.360 felt like absolute today and it would have been a mess for me to have done this uh by myself so i'm

05:33:34.240 very uh grateful that you were able to uh do a video call and thank you and also if i was uh i

05:33:39.040 was a little um i was a little tilted at the beginning of the show normally i'm a little more

05:33:43.360 chipper a little more your favorite topic really a little more chipper i don't know i thought you're

05:33:47.280 so i yeah we know i feel like crap so hold on hold on let me just say my thing

05:33:54.560 um normally i'm a little more uh chipper but uh i feel like crap right now so if i was ever kind

05:34:03.200 of if i dug into you guys if i dug into you guys at all uh it's all you really didn't it's all we

05:34:10.320 expected worse we expected worse from you that's for sure okay yeah totally flirting you did really

05:34:16.240 really good thank you thank you thank you okay you are cute i'd smash we need to know a sign though

05:34:23.280 holy well just just so you know uh he did he did call me earlier so i know for sure you

05:34:28.800 you know he's telling the truth he he's been feeling miserable so i thought you did a good

05:34:32.560 job though brian yeah i didn't sleep at all yeah thank you thank you wait you did really well

05:34:37.760 what did you say before though i'd smash i appreciate thank you my dear thank you my dear

05:34:44.240 we all said that we already know your stance you weren't deep enough oh okay oh well i i appreciate

05:34:50.720 we already know your stance i appreciate the the off of my dear but i must politely i must politely

05:34:56.800 turn you down because i just i can't date a woman who's no i get it she said date she said smash who's

05:35:02.880 had carnal knowledge i know i said i said smash not date on okay i i wouldn't even here's here's

05:35:08.960 the crazy thing how would you know if we just what if we just met in a dark alley how what how would

05:35:14.400 you even know this chick's a predator wait you don't even know so you go for virgins he doesn't like

05:35:22.400 yeah he does he said he doesn't you virgin he's just i mean uh predator i mean i'll whatever i don't

05:35:32.160 hold on let me answer her brian brian it's trap

05:35:37.200 what's the trap it's preference it's a trap i mean it's kind of weird trap you know it's a trap

05:35:42.560 no i wouldn't if you had i don't exclusively one woman on this one panel who would you sleep with

05:35:46.880 he'd sleep with i would tell him i i would pick up her why are you pointing no no cheyenne

05:35:54.640 cheyenne or clear no he wouldn't do the middle girl i don't know what the

05:35:59.360 fuck a lot of tension there no i think you like attention i think you like show you look at him

05:36:06.720 her so she's actually cheyenne's a pleasant person she's very attractive but that's what i'm

05:36:10.640 talking about because of her uh past indiscretions unfortunately then you would pick i don't

05:36:15.040 think so if you had to choose choose i don't know oh you'd pick him i'd yes gustavo yes no you'd

05:36:22.720 pick andrew that's who it is you guys are too much you're too much you know what okay all right let's

05:36:28.880 uh you're not enough for too much i love you so much i know no thanks i'd kiss you but you're sick

05:36:40.320 he's like i don't oh my god that's britney i'm taking i had the worst headache like the first

05:36:45.680 hour of the freaking show it was so bad i took three tylenos and it was so bad oh my god who the

05:36:50.880 hell you don't have to care to ask all right okay guys uh thank you again to andrew thank you again

05:36:56.880 to the uh panel love you andrew uh thanks andrew hope to see you in flesh next time let me see if i

05:37:03.120 can just raid somebody on twitch really quick one sec guys but to answer your question i would

05:37:07.280 no i'm almost i'm just trying to raid somebody on twitch uh i would

05:37:15.680 i don't she doesn't no she doesn't have to be a virgin but it's preferable the lower the body

05:37:19.680 count the better uh who's oh there's nobody okay i'm not gonna bother with twitch all right

05:37:26.640 okay guys uh hold on let me do my outro all right guys last call hit the like button please on your

05:37:32.080 way out thank you guys for tuning in um we're gonna be live again sunday at 5 p.m pacific i'm

05:37:38.320 hoping i don't i'm hoping i'm better by then if not i might i don't know we'll have to see but

05:37:43.440 any girls who want to be on the show dm whatever on instagram if you can make it to santa barbara

05:37:47.840 thank you to the panel you guys were wonderful appreciate it oh sevens in the chat oh sevens in

05:37:52.560 the chat all right good night guys thank you

Brian REJECTS Her？! Andrew Wilson FERAL Debate! Born Again Virgins vs. ØF Girls! ｜ Dating Talk #141

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