Brian REJECTS Layla？! FLAKE EXPOSED! ｜ Dating Talk #106
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5 hours and 18 minutes
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197.62132
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385
Summary
In this episode of the Whatever Dating Talk Podcast, we are joined by our first guest, Leila Jenner, a 20-year-old college student who is a born-again christian and a porn star. We talk about what it's like to be in a committed relationship with someone who doesn't want to tell their significant other that they're in a monogamous relationship.
Transcript
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please tell us your name age and occupation go ahead i'm leila jenner i'm 20 and my occupa occupation
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my occupation is just like vibing i guess i don't know i just do everything professional slut
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what was the first part just vibing is that what you said just vibing sorry yeah i'm just i don't know
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like i just do all kinds of things i thought you quit didn't you quit yeah i did so now i'm just
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like you know a slut for you should we talk about that here we'll i'll address leila's
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enthusiasm me and brian are dating and he doesn't want to tell y'all but we are
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very intimate together fake news okay go ahead molly all right um
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hi i'm molly i'm 20 years old and i am a born-again christian
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i'm just kidding um i'm a porn star and i also do only fans you should have picked a different religion
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to say to make that joke about i'm sure it would not have gone over that's it you know what's
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interesting is like you can you can joke about christianity but like if you were to make that
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joke about like muslims yeah that would probably
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jewish people people okay jesus you guys take it easy
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you'd probably uh okay i don't know why whatever okay what about you
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i'm emily i go to cuesta college oh hold on actually before you do that um let me just come back to the
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i don't mind i don't mind a little bit of banter but if you guys are gonna fucking troll i'm just
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gonna kick you off go ahead emily all right i'm emily i go to cuesta college
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hi i'm tiffany i'm 18 wait wait wait sorry hold on emily you're 19 correct
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yeah i'm 19 you're held 22 oh 22 so i thought i heard 32 excuse me go ahead
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hi i'm tiffany i'm 18 i go to ucsb and i'm majoring in political science and minoring in philosophy
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i'm 20 years old and i'm currently traveling right now so unemployed
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hi i'm kelly i am 21 and i am a student at csun
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and i'm studying communications right now and i'm also a style ambassador and
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personal stylist through nordstrom welcome back kelly thank you
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q q pill 30 years old behavioral scientist certified relationship coach youtuber rock and roll okay
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we have q back in the studio um before i get into the relationship status thing there's
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and we're gonna try to get through it a little faster today a couple things to address uh so
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i'm trying to think how i want to tackle this first uh we had a girl it was gonna we had one
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other person who's gonna be on the panel her name is mj uh she requested back in mid-september to
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come be on the show we locked it in a couple days later uh everything confirmed we do a at least in
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my opinion we do a fairly professional thorough pre-show thing we provided quite a
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quite a bit of detail and um she confirmed that she was going to be on the show
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checked in with her two days before checked in with her the day before all confirmed right
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this morning she messages saying oh i didn't know that the bear in mind she requested to be on
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the show she asked to be on the show we'll show you the we'll show the messages um she said that
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she was gonna flake um actually okay fuck whatever fine um well this is her first message i didn't even
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want to like give her fucking i didn't even want to like show her shit so she could conceivably get
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a couple of followers from this but here here you go lady get some cloud i guess um so she reached
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out i love to be on the podcast she lives in la um september 14th so what that's more than two weeks
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ago next one nick and then we have we send out a whole questionnaire right so there's a whole bunch
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of questions we send number six though can you make it to santa barbara california at your own expense
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please note santa barbara is a two-hour drive from los angeles next one nick to number six to which
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she responds yes and then next one uh and then so confirm she says see you then yesterday 3 47 p.m
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so monday see you tomorrow at 4 p.m that's our confirmation nine she hearts it right 9 30 this
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morning hey i'm so sorry but i didn't realize it was a two-hour drive to and back in a five-hour long
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podcast i don't have nine plus hours to commit to this you said you love the podcast bitch like
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in our thing it's in our instagram it says we're in santa barbara every single show we say we're in
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santa barbara in the message i sent to you i said we're in santa barbara it's two hours away
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the day before excuse me the day of in the morning is not if you is not when you tell somebody you're
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not going you're going to bail on a plan that you fucking asked for you degenerate and then so she
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she came to the studio she came to the studio and by the way i i forgot to mention this uh we're
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gonna do a call in a brief call in with destiny so i told her hey destiny's gonna be on the show
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um like i i it's too late for me to get a replacement can you still make it like i have a big guest today
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i don't want to like fuck up the booking because i do like take into consideration okay this person like
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it's not just throw 10 people randomly on the podcast it's hey who would be good with who so i
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try to i like i wouldn't just put 10 conservative people on the panel i'd try to put a little mix so
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there's some thought that goes into this in any case um so we will do a call in with destiny uh it
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might just it might be pretty brief if we can get through to him it's gonna be via discord uh but yeah
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she shows up to the studio because i like i had to be like yo come on don't don't bail she's 40
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minutes late and uh she gets in she's got a fucking attitude uh what did she say you're gonna use my
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views no she was like oh i don't see who i thought i was gonna see here and then we're like i don't even
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know who you're talking who she was talking about and then she's like i just nobody that i that's like
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on my level is here she's like best followers in all of us i think i was like i what did i what
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did i say is that what she said who are you is that what i heard her from in the bathroom say it
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yeah oh yeah i don't have anybody familiar i was like wait who are you kelly can you just get your
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microphone like a little yeah that way yeah um but you guys heard that right like she yeah what did
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you hear she said i thought i was supposed to have at least one person here i'm familiar with
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and then she was like i don't know anybody here and then it's like she asked to be on the show
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like it's just so such entitled behavior in any case we have some tiktoks from her that are
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absolutely degenerate that we might oh my god is she like a shopper she's like one of these
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i don't know whatever um we might if time permitting we might react to it but uh in any case um she was
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what was i gonna say slipped my mind something about her uh no so she she came in she's like oh i
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okay well i'm gonna leave so she drove two hours to come be on the show she requested to be on
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and then just just said okay well i'm not gonna do the show so okay enjoy your enjoy the pch or the
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fucking 101 back to la and rush hour she's like why can't i just call in oh yeah no because destiny's
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gonna call in she's like what why can't i do a call in first off we have you're coming from slow
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right that's two hours both of you came from la that's vegas oh you're from vegas you flew in
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with sarah you two flew in we drove oh how long's the drive from vegas five and a half hours five
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and it's through the desert too yeah i flew here from colorado you flew here from colorado kelly you
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beat in cheeks donated 101 dollars after this episode i will draft up the deposit legalities
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for future guests to come on you need to take it serious and i have serious input on this for you
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you're welcome flakes being blasted isn't doing anything but giving them more clout time is dollar
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no i mean i don't think she's gonna like garner fucking anything from this but uh the point i was
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trying to make here is we have multiple girls that y'all y'all drove way further than la you came from
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la slow that's i think slow's a little further is it what two hours it's like an hour 45 it's about the
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same as la like yeah flew in flew in it's just rude to cancel like she's two hours away i'm like you
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guys live in la right so question for those of you who live in la if you're even if you i know
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obviously if we were in la it'd be much quicker but like isn't it the case if you go anywhere in
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la it's going to take you at least like 30 minutes anyways almost an hour and a half anywhere like
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yeah really like let's say you're like long beach or something let's say you're downtown downtown la
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like courthouse and then you're going to santa monica how would that take what 30 minutes yeah
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i live in the valley though so everything's super far oh you're in the valley too yeah so in any
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case look i'm not going to linger on it for too long but um look it's like she's all she's all
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like oh it's such a grievance to travel two hours it's like with 4 000 followers i know like who are
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you girl i know you got the time i know you got the time so those of you who made it today who were
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on time who took the time out of your schedule to come be here thank you i appreciate it thank you for
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not flaking guys i appreciate that we deal with a lot of flakes so i'm mad at the flakes but i'm
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very appreciative for the people that are people of their word and stick to their commitments so
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thank you guys all right without for the uh i think that's it um we'll maybe react to her shit
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later so we're going to go around the table once more current relationship status are you single
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talking stage situationship friends with benefits relationship married polycule uh sex cult harem
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how long have you been single if you're single longest relationship go ahead
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okay as you know i do have like my husband or whatever and then um i'm kind of like dating
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zirka but like me and brian have like a situationship i would call it like kind of going down right now
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like it's like okay okay should we dress should we dress the layla thing we have a situationship going
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on like you know there's like a lot of tension it's a situation it's a situation but like it's a good
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one i like it okay um here should we pull up the the where do we start do we start at the
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messages or the tweets oh oh what do you uh you might tweet yeah let's do the tweets first and
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then we'll do the messages sometimes i don't know what i tweet oh it could be a lot it was just a
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few don't worry um so this was september 19th i don't know if this was after it was after like
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the day after it was a day after to my do you want to read it actually in your voice to my inbox
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brian is one of the sexiest men i've ever encountered the amazing day i give him gluck
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will be my ultimate performance but no one will see it because i feel like he's an intimate type
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which you are you're totally like intimate like one-on-one i love it next tweet please
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to which i respond i don't date sleep with whores you just fuck the shit out of them
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okay now bear in mind there were other messages this isn't what this wasn't my first knee jerk
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reaction but show the other ones i only want brian's cock his pride makes me incredibly
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specifically horny does brian have a personal social media or do i feel about to shoot my shot
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via podcast socials next which you do my chat is so sweet don't you're not gonna play this
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brian oh my god it's like so cute it's like i'm leaving like fizzies or something okay brian i will
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make you mine look how flustered i make you it's adorable which is you're so cute now it didn't stop
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there leila has has been in my dms now of course i think it's an act right i think it's not an act
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like it's an act but we'll show we'll show them like you just like cancel my feelings like they don't
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matter to you cool let's see the dms i took some screenshots um september 19th do you want to read
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it these are all very true feelings bt dubs good sure why ignore my sincere riz on twitter want you
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so bad prayer emoji and then i say lol you're so full of shit god you're so hot i will literally be
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still a bit for an entire month for you which i did tell you i would stop being a thought for you
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i'll read my answer then okay you can tell me all about it next time we have you on my energy for
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you is too strong i need you asap next save your nonsense for the show i swear to god i'm not
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trolling i'd sign an nda for you like i genuinely think you're one of the hottest guys i've ever met
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like i just want to taste give me a chance what if i'm your soulmate and then i say oh yeah girl run
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that game which is a song lyric from eminem's song superman which if you knew the lyrics okay anyways
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uh next and then you you might oh i think we might have skipped something then i was like i
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invited you on october 3rd with molly because i'd yes bet if you let me hit i'll bring you all the
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views you want babe yes to show no to hit we're in the dms you can drop the act next why why do you
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think why do you think my crush on you is an act i want you so bad i'd literally be wife like this
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is not an act ba for real it's horny it's horny hours just saying because it was like i was so
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horny for you next i said i would destroy candace it's 5 a.m and i still want you tuesday october 3rd
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you down to come back on can you give our destined soulmate relationship a chance oh wait oh here it is
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i said oh what kind of game do i gotta spit for you to give me a shot okay this was sorry this was a bit
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out of out of order but go ahead go ahead the lord put us on the same path i could literally be
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your destined soulmate you're so fine you're like fix it felix but tall and you give me finn from
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adventure time vibes which is so valid you look like fix it like you know like he looks like
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okay i said you know it's true i'll give you time to face the facts but i'll be waiting babe is there
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is there another one nick i just want to make sure we don't tab over into something that we're not
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there's another one another dm okay we'll finish sorry guys we're gonna finish up
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jesus christ oh this is today thank you um oh getting evaluated uh that was um that was
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we're not gonna talk about that but anyways brian i need penis so bad without your cum i have no
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protein would you like to read yours i said we have some whey protein in the studio optimum nutrition
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gold standard 100 way i said can you come on my protein shake is that i think that's it right nick
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no that's it i think that you could have more if you want but what you're so bad at replying
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there's one more oh okay bend me over and call me your good little slut you like when i talk like
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that huh okay bend me over and call me your good little slut i want you so bad daddy brian
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i think brian okay all right we could genuinely fuck the shit out of me yeah we get the idea um
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i have a question what is wrong with you i like you literally make me so horny like you do like you
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literally do give me like like father figure like hot vibes like this girl's you know like i feel like
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you would tell me like good job it's no she's trolling it's no i literally like him to other like
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other people pay her to do this no i don't i don't do this to anyone who have i ever done this to
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who who have i ever been this morning like name one person i don't know you do all kinds of weird
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shit on your social media i've never like been like i actually like you like i would i literally
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have said like i would sign an nda and like never like let people know about our relationship but like
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i actually like actually like you so confirm or deny are you a pathological liar no i just
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genuinely like have a crush on you is that is that how you're can i not like you like do you not
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think you're attractive or something like i have a crush on you okay so here look here's my analysis
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guys of this weird situation one it's an act you don't want to fuck me i'm not gonna fuck you two
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it's an act but you do want to fuck me i'm still not gonna fuck you three it's not an act and you
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do want to fuck me i'm still not gonna fuck you why does everything i do have to be an act like i
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genuinely have feelings for you and i think you're like the nicest guy ever i've laid out the analysis
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like you're such a good guy like any girl would like die to date you like i just am more vocal
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about it like i think you're such a sweet guy like and you're like like you're so sweet to me even
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though when like i'm annoying like you're like so cute about it like i feel like we would fit
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together really well but i mean since you want to be like stubborn and like not give me a chance
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send the nuke the nuke's been sent like i can you like give me a reason like why like i literally
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quit porn like i don't know why like you won't like give me a chance like you won't even let me
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like take you out on a date like you won't even like try it like you have some like stubbornness
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in your head and you're like i won't go on a date with layla because i don't like layla
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it's like just like try it my tweet which it was a bit coarse but i'm not a whore anymore
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i don't do porn anymore but i literally said i would stop being a whore for you and i literally
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stopped porn and you still like are like no not good enough listen you're an attractive woman but
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the fact that you've done porn and it was a hiccup
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it's it's like it is a hundred percent a deal breaker but i said i'm sorry and i literally
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quit being a thought thank you for your apology and like my pussy's like i accept i accept your
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apology for doing porn okay as the like can't you just be a good guy and be like okay i get it it was
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a hiccup like you know like you were going through some shit like you know you did porn whatever but
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like i can put that past this and like we can have a beautiful relationship and just like
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like move on like it was like two months of porn like i didn't even do that many scenes like you
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can ask molly like i could not take dick like that like i had to quit porn yeah it is true yeah like
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we're gonna get to you molly here in just a second okay i'm excited like you know like i literally quit
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porn like i don't like didn't even get that much dick in me i did like two bbc scenes which were like
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both like only in five inches like i'm not a whore like i just genuinely like have burning desire
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for you and i just like want you but like you won't even let me try like you won't even like
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let us go on like one date and just see if you like if you would give me a chance like i would
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stop like i just want like one hundred dollars brian one time with multiple rubbers won't hurt
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i usually support roy's law but this one you'd have to be careful i still think this is an act
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but this is entertainment at its finest how many other women find handsome brian over an eight
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say you will for brian that's so cute no i actually think you're super cheap by the way
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when it comes to the deposit um sorry uh when it comes to the deposit thing she had reached out
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before we implemented the new deposit policy so uh that's going into effect very soon so
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that's just what we're we're going to do for people to who request to be on the show we're going to have
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to uh do a deposit because it's just we're not going to deal with flakes and at least well we'll
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still deal with flakes even if people paid deposit but it should at least eliminate it a little bit
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um yeah it's just not going to happen brian why like because i used to be a whore
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like used to you still are how am i still what do i do you're irredeemable that's like a murderer who
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just murdered seven like a serial murderer who just murdered seven people and then like a week
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later they're like i'm no longer a murderer so you think girls who do porn can't be forgiven
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um not to the point where we want to date them really ever no no why do girls who do porn need
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to be forgiven yeah like why can't you just like first of all she's asking i don't have some i don't
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have like an animosity to women who are in the like who do porn but when it comes to just who i
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choose to associate with romantically i don't want to date somebody who's done porn would you rather me
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like lie to you and say i never did porn i don't hate you i don't have any negative feelings towards
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you besides the fact that you're slightly annoying but you won't be romantic towards me you just like
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want to fuck me and like don't be romantic like i want to like wait but wait so what like you know
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like i want to have like intimacy like i want to be like together like i want to have like a real
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relationship with you it's not it's not possible just because i did i should not even like engage
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on the bullshittery but i just think that like that's just like i mean like i guess i get it
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like whatever it's like your like opinion but like that just kind of sucks like i mean i didn't know
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like completely what i was getting into and i did porn i only did for two months didn't even get that
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much cock in me and like oops now i'm really good at sex like you know like kind of a win-win
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and like i'm not gonna do it anymore and like i literally told you like i would be celibate for
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like a month for you only i would have to put you however long you want in order for me to date you
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i would have to put you through some sort of trial okay like a trial i'll do that for you
00:23:36.300
no this shit would be like intense okay tell me i'll do it i literally will do it no like have you
00:23:42.300
seen the walk of shame by cersei no in game of thrones i haven't like it would be like a
00:23:47.720
humiliation ritual shit i would you would basically like that wait what is it she would
00:23:53.240
love that wait what is it what is it yeah what no no i wouldn't literally do that but like that's
00:23:59.420
the scale of that is the scale of the the uh redemption okay like i'm fine with that like i
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think we could genuinely have like a good relationship like i think we go really well
00:24:10.580
together like yeah i used to be a whore but like i could have lied to you and said i never did porn
00:24:13.720
and like for the virgin period for a period of three years okay you would have to basically do
00:24:20.040
all my chores and we couldn't even have sex for three years i feel like we'd have to do all my no
00:24:25.020
we wouldn't you'd have to do all my chores and at any point in that three years like it could be
00:24:30.140
two years 11 months in i decide i don't want to see you anymore and then i've just you'd be like
00:24:36.560
you'd be like being loyal to me it would just be free maid service basically but you would like
00:24:40.100
be being loyal to me because otherwise like that's loyal to you how no i'd probably see other
00:24:43.920
women no that's not cool you'd have to you can't say that i get to date you and that you can just
00:24:48.620
go like fuck other women no like if we're gonna do it like we need to do it okay anyways i'm kind
00:24:52.020
of bantering here jokes aside no i would not do that and i mean we'll talk about later off camera
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okay yeah we'll talk in any case it's an act so whatever we'll talk about it later tonight
00:25:02.080
whenever it's like apparently not act and also the whole mormon bishop thing that's bullshit
00:25:06.500
also it's that's fucking real i literally she literally knows that i need i think i literally
00:25:11.600
when i got proof yeah yeah we had a scene like the day i got married it's bullshit people message me
00:25:17.740
layla people message me i'm not gonna that's fine they can say that it's fake that's fine people who
00:25:22.060
know you people i'm not gonna expose anything people who know you message me saying she's a
00:25:26.400
fucking liar she lies about everybody knows dude literally it was people message me people message
00:25:32.020
me and say that you're a liar they can say that like i get that it's weird but it's not that
00:25:36.320
weird like i live in la like people have husbands i've been contacted literally by people mormons
00:25:41.200
in utah who want to fuck you up that's fine they can want to fuck me up they're like yo
00:25:47.460
my husband happens to be mormon and that's fine it's blasphemy it's like literally you're blaspheming
00:25:52.760
that's not his fault that he's mormon like he likes god and he likes me but you're lying you're
00:25:56.580
lying about it but it's not like you can ask like people who like mormon bishop married to a
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i'm not a porn star anymore i literally quit porn i did for two months and yeah okay he knows i'm
00:26:07.700
young you're lying you're lying about it i'm literally not you can ask people who actually
00:26:11.860
know me and they will tell you what proof do you have do you have the marriage certificate
00:26:14.960
i can call him call the mormon guy uh you can't well
00:26:19.120
exactly no no no no well california has a wiretapping lot you have to text him
00:26:25.680
asking him for letting him know you're on a show asking for consent to be recorded
00:26:30.160
and then we can call him if you want to call him but it's probably one of her friends who's like a
00:26:35.680
fucking honeypot or some shit wait don't don't show the camera i'm not showing the camera i'm just
00:26:41.500
showing you like this isn't really like mission pics like i can't see first off i'm not gonna
00:26:45.340
review the what you have cool you have a random instagram profile like it's not that weird i don't
00:26:56.460
know why you hate on like every relationship i have and you won't even give me a chance for one
00:26:59.600
all right moving on molly what what's your relationship status please and please don't
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tell me you're dating a mormon bishop um i'm not dating a mormon bishop all right thank you i'm still
00:27:09.660
in the same relationship i was in last time okay um how long has that relationship been i think like
00:27:16.060
six months six months really quick going back to layla you're in a relationship with john zirka
00:27:21.500
um how do you feel about his recent escapades and miami changes people and i don't like miami
00:27:28.700
and when he's in la he's a different person but he's just having some issues right now so but he'll
00:27:34.180
get he'll be fine so you're currently married to to someone since you don't since that's not
00:27:38.700
believable you're in a relationship with john and you're frequently distraught over his
00:27:45.760
uh okay when he's mean obviously i'm gonna be upset i can be upset if like my man is mean to me like
00:27:53.520
that's valid he was being an asshole last night so that's valid too that's cool okay um what about
00:27:59.620
you emily um i'm currently single i've been single for about a month now and my longest relationship
00:28:06.340
was six months you've been single for one month longest relationship six months and let's see uh
00:28:13.580
in that one month time period has there been a rebound any new guys in the picture no but i am
00:28:19.700
going on a date friday so there will did did you meet the guy from did he dm you no no actually
00:28:26.440
because you were on the you were on the show on sunday um and you got it did you get a lot of
00:28:31.700
did it just start wait yeah uh chat i'm gonna piss chat how long has the audio been bad
00:28:47.180
you've been keeping an eye on this right nick has it been bad the entire time
00:28:50.520
chat how long chat how long has the audio been bad
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could they hear me some people are saying it's fine
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oh is it just her wait chat is it just emily is it yeah
00:29:26.980
um yeah i did get a lot of dms from the show but they're mostly just saying that they hope i come
00:29:37.200
um i'm single and i've always been single i've never really had a boyfriend
00:29:51.640
oh really yeah same thing with as her i've never had a boyfriend
00:30:03.820
and um my longest relationship was three years and that was about six months ago
00:30:11.340
i'm in a relationship that i've been in it for about almost two years now and this is my longest one
00:30:24.080
no more side chick i mean not side chick the main chick yeah
00:30:28.300
yeah she still exists but i'm still officially single but we kick it we went out on a nice little date
00:30:39.500
is it that loud in the microphone is it too loud now hello hello testing
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um low uh what's it called some steakhouse uh it's first time i went
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um i don't like girls who party or club or anything like that
00:31:37.960
i don't i don't dispute that but i wouldn't fuck you
00:31:43.980
does it make you uncomfy that anyone can look up your name and see your pussy
00:31:49.260
i i did like performing i just couldn't handle the dick
00:31:56.200
i think i'll be out of la and everything by the time i'm like 26
00:32:00.260
have like a little like maybe put them in like a little like farm
00:32:04.840
worry you like when your children are older that they'll see your
00:32:12.380
no like kim kardashian has her body on the internet and like stuff like that
00:32:18.960
have y'all had like your nudes exposed like before like maybe once in high school or whatever
00:32:23.740
first of all who is watching like 10 year old porn
00:32:29.820
yeah but why are we fantasizing about children watching that
00:32:35.020
kids know how to get on the internet and their friends are smart
00:32:37.420
they know how to look up their friend's mom's name
00:32:39.560
watching the parents who are passing their prejudice onto their children and teaching
00:32:43.960
their children it's okay to bully other kids for what their parents do for work
00:32:47.140
it's just a character like it just shows like their character
00:32:49.680
um it's not a past prejudice i think everybody is on the same page that like
00:32:58.940
oh yeah you're so right you're so right i'm sorry
00:33:01.140
but like you know like in common like no like you know like i think it's like a shows your
00:33:05.160
character as a parent and like i'll never my kids will always know never to judge anyone
00:33:10.740
do you plan on having kids with the guy you're already married to
00:33:15.880
i think i'm i think i'm gonna get my eggs frozen lately because i've been like researching
00:33:19.580
lately and like apparently it's good to get your eggs
00:33:23.380
so you're just gonna have kids with one that one guy you're married to
00:33:26.060
yeah i mean zirka's like my best friend and like i ended up like actually liking having
00:33:29.640
a relationship with him and everything like he'd be fucking up right now and like i genuinely
00:33:33.120
like do like brian i think we'd have like a cute relationship
00:33:44.220
but no i wouldn't have kids with brian just because like i feel like
00:33:47.000
i feel like like like i think brian's hot and everything but like
00:33:57.080
i think getting your eggs frozen i heard like is better when you're young
00:34:00.820
and then like you can like get it inseminated like later so i think i'm like gonna
00:34:12.380
one in the chat if the audio is okay and if it's the same as it normally is
00:34:17.340
um was it i think people are fucking trolling in the chat about the audio
00:34:27.860
i don't know why people are saying it sounds weird it's
00:34:33.400
um here we're going back to relationship status go ahead what is yours
00:34:44.500
i've i've date but i've never like been in a committed relationship
00:34:50.480
what's the longest period of time you've seen a guy
00:35:21.540
uh i'm single i've been single for six months now
00:35:35.980
i said i'm officially single but the main still in the picture
00:35:54.800
no we didn't even finish the girl on the end either
00:41:32.200
i just feel like we're really similar to each other
01:39:11.920
stance yeah that's awkward oh yeah I've seen like
01:42:32.520
I didn't say it like that what you want me to do
01:42:35.760
no I didn't say it like that what did you say how did you say
01:42:38.380
see how I'm talking right now how I keep stuttering that's exactly what I was
01:42:44.340
doing like I literally couldn't get it out he kind of had to tell what I was
01:42:48.500
asking him and he was like he put two and two together oh so when you when guys
01:42:52.960
talk to you what are you gonna you know it was like it was hard for me to get it
01:42:55.840
out but I basically said when other men talk to me like do you want do I have a
01:42:59.880
boyfriend is what I was kind of asking well okay what did you because now
01:43:04.180
that's a little different than what you said before so long ago I can't remember
01:43:07.120
exactly you're like what are we no no but because okay from my perspective if I
01:43:13.440
was a guy and I was hanging out with this girl that I liked but we had not yet
01:43:16.300
had a conversation about exclusivity commitment whatever and then she starts
01:43:22.280
telling me about how she's going off to college and she's saying what should I
01:43:25.960
do when all the dudes are hitting on me I would feel a little bit like you
01:43:30.180
didn't say like that though she said she said a little differently it wasn't that
01:43:33.820
like yeah but cocky but he could take it instead of instead of it being a
01:43:39.740
introduction to the commitment conversation he could be taking it from
01:43:43.900
the opposite way like oh no I get what you're saying that's what I could be you
01:43:49.820
could imagine a guy being kind of upset with what you said in a way like I get
01:43:54.620
you're trying to veer it towards the commitment conversation but you could have
01:43:57.400
just instead of because we don't want to know about other guys that are like
01:44:01.520
hitting on you like it's true I think I think you have to say it like what do
01:44:04.840
you want me to do if like guys ask what we are but that should come after you
01:44:08.360
have the commitment conversation oh what she said right now what should I do if
01:44:11.040
guys ask what you are that's what I kind of said like what should I do if guys
01:44:14.240
ask what we are that's what I'm yeah yeah and then he was like I don't want to
01:44:18.260
tie you down I like what we have and I was like but but his answer make him saying I
01:44:22.980
don't want to tie you down makes it seem as if the way he interpreted it was that
01:44:27.980
you wanted to see these other guys that would be approaching you in college
01:44:33.440
because he's saying I don't want to tie you down maybe I miss I wasn't there
01:44:38.340
yeah no like do you see how he could have perhaps interpreted it like he assumed I
01:44:42.160
just wanted to be like like he was doing a disservice by well he didn't know he and
01:44:47.300
we don't know if this is actual the actual case but maybe he didn't know that
01:44:50.920
you were trying to initiate the commitment conversation and he took it
01:44:55.740
like oh she's saying that she wants this to be open or casual looking back on it
01:45:06.240
do you think that that's no possible I don't because when like after he started
01:45:12.180
crying well that's the other thing that makes me question then he started
01:45:17.020
crying yeah then after we're sitting there and it's literally the awkwardest
01:45:20.580
thing I've ever been through in my life and he's just sitting there with tears
01:45:23.220
coming down his face and he's like so how many relationships have you been in
01:45:26.460
I'm like now you want to ask me after it's been three months and I told you I
01:45:31.280
don't want to see you anymore like he just started asking me about my history and
01:45:35.460
then wait chat hold on chat do you think that this was a miscommunication do you
01:45:42.660
think that this was a miscommunication because like the fact that he said I
01:45:46.800
don't want to what did he say I don't want to tie you down I don't want to tie
01:45:49.660
you down and then he cried when you said you wanted to end things with him see
01:45:53.900
like because if if he was like no I want to keep things kind of cool I like kind of
01:46:00.320
open or whatever you date people I date people but for him to then go on and cry at
01:46:05.660
at least makes me think that he thought you were trying to keep things open
01:46:09.660
instead of actually having a commitment conversation a lot of the chat is
01:46:16.660
definitely saying no I'll never call him I honestly feel like if he was genuinely
01:46:21.660
crying because he wanted a committed relationship with you he should have
01:46:25.660
had the balls to just say that maybe he was just nervous he's like 21 like
01:46:32.660
there's no exception he's a what was he a bit was he like a not feminine no um he's
01:46:44.660
indecisive he had only been in one relationship before a couple months
01:46:50.660
more immature yeah I mean they say men are a little bit behind in women with
01:46:58.660
maturing sometimes I don't know if that's true I've never actually looked
01:47:01.660
into studies but they say that men 21 year old men are so young
01:47:14.660
however old I mean I feel like lately I've been really into 30 year olds
01:47:26.660
see like you're sexy because you're 30 and I bet you're so mature and like I bet like you're so
01:47:29.660
understanding and patient because you've like you've seen things like you know
01:47:34.660
like you've been through more experiences than like a 20 year old
01:47:38.660
he was there when the constitution was being drafted
01:48:04.660
when it comes to the whole commitment conversation
01:48:11.660
you should have that conversation with somebody
01:48:37.660
because like I do fuck other people outside of the relationship
01:48:45.660
should be talked about like in the very beginning
01:49:00.660
and they just expect things from the other person
01:49:24.660
once you guys start hanging out every single day
01:49:29.660
once you're spending that much time with somebody
01:49:47.660
because you're going to place expectations on that person
01:49:50.660
to meet whatever you have going on in your mind
01:49:52.660
and you're naturally going to start to think that
01:50:04.660
and saying I love you and I want to be with you first
01:50:06.660
and if you're spending time consistently together
01:50:11.660
there's actually something called error management theory
01:50:13.660
women will have skepticism as to how committed a guy is to them
01:50:20.660
psychologically in order to keep from feeling played
01:50:26.660
so definitely because that cognitive bias exists
01:50:30.660
what you want the moment that you start to feel it
01:50:40.660
because that tells me what she's about to expect out of me
01:50:42.660
she's going to get jealous when I talk to other women
01:50:48.660
all of these things are going to have behavioral consequences
01:51:18.660
you think three months is about when that should
01:52:30.660
it could be that there's photos of you gargling cock on your twitter
01:53:17.660
no like you know like that gentle in the beginning
01:55:32.660
we actually need men to sim more on the IG girls
01:55:39.660
do your parents know about your guys' professions?
01:56:58.660
so you like confident women who know what they want
01:57:01.660
but like so like a girl coming up to the club being like
01:57:20.660
yeah because a lot of women approach me on some straightforward type shit
02:00:07.660
I genuinely do like the way like that religion raises their children
02:00:32.660
I feel like the people there are very like judgy
02:05:22.660
that's fine it doesn't have to make sense to you
02:05:29.660
I'm just saying that you guys are actually being delusional
02:05:41.660
yeah thank you motorsports for interrupting this shit
02:05:51.660
but are fine posting bikini pics all over for money
02:06:01.660
and I honestly like the attention and I like the dick
02:06:26.660
and not viewing sex as the most intimate pairing of two persons
02:06:38.660
what do you think the ostrichs are supposed to be?
02:07:36.660
I have no idea how that followed from what I said
02:07:39.660
cause you said you don't want to be seen in public with me
02:07:41.660
I think a majority of the men would think it's cool
02:07:54.660
no she'd definitely try to grab your date the first date
02:08:02.660
I would be a little frightened if I was on a date with you
02:08:09.660
what's the most expensive restaurant in Santa Barbara?
02:08:41.660
I'd be kind of scared to go out there with Layla
02:08:47.660
what's a really nice expensive restaurant in Santa Barbara?
02:09:06.660
but what do you like to do besides just get really expensive food?
02:09:15.660
and just like chilling with your like soulmate on the beach
02:09:19.660
have you been to like those like beach like restaurants though?
02:09:25.660
you get to like eat seafood straight from the beach and then go chill there
02:09:31.660
Raven for the record there's actually a marriage tax penalty
02:09:36.660
there's a penalty federally in 15 states have penalties as well
02:09:58.660
so perhaps under those circumstances me and Emily
02:10:02.660
well going back to kind of our previous thing that we were talking about
02:10:04.660
when it came to like when should you have the commitment conversation
02:10:21.660
like because I was thinking to myself like is it
02:10:36.660
I want you to drop all your other dudes right now
02:11:42.660
so you're not that type of girl to like take people's man
02:11:46.660
oh so now you won't hit on Brian since he's my man now?
02:11:48.660
you know what if y'all actually become together I wouldn't
02:11:55.660
if it's like a funny thing like whatever like you know like you can tell when a girl like thinks it's funny
02:11:58.660
but like if it's someone that's like you know like I don't want you to do that love
02:12:15.660
but if it's something in real life and I have control of it
02:12:19.660
but you just said that you like to respect people's relationships
02:12:21.660
I mean I just I mean is there something like what are you trying to get like what would you rather have me do?
02:12:27.660
no I'm just saying that it's just super critical of you to say that you're gonna be respectful of people's relationships
02:12:32.660
but acknowledge the fact that you have married men
02:12:38.660
going to be on a spritzen as an old married dude with a smoking hot wife
02:12:50.660
and fixing the plastic fantastic across from you is not it
02:13:00.660
thank you for your donation there and throughout this night
02:13:07.660
back then we were getting 300 or like 300 viewers in episodes
02:13:27.660
you have like a big like thing for your like your year anniversary
02:13:36.660
yeah we've been doing the podcast for like a year and two months or something
02:13:48.660
actually I kind of want to like I have some more notes but is there anything I want to open up to the panel
02:13:54.660
because maybe some of you who haven't been talking yet
02:13:56.660
just to give you guys an opportunity to come in
02:13:58.660
is there anything dating related that you'd like to get off your chest or a topic that you'd like to speak on
02:14:04.660
and I do want to reserve this or at least start it off with the girls who haven't quite yet had as much of a chance to speak so
02:14:11.660
Sarah I believe Tiffany and Sydney do you guys have anything that
02:14:23.660
she's a master at profiting off the opinions of others which is why she says the things she does
02:14:27.660
also happy national boyfriend day to all the base chats out there
02:14:40.660
you just gotta treat me on national boyfriend day I didn't even know that was a thing
02:14:44.660
right? and y'all got together on national boyfriend day
02:14:49.660
do you know how there's an international women's day?
02:14:54.660
it's not nearly as recognized as international women's day
02:14:57.660
and then I believe it's the UN the United Nations
02:15:27.660
of course they don't have a UN men twitter account
02:15:50.660
but it might have been something along the lines of
02:15:54.660
they were saying how one in five women are homeless
02:16:19.660
10% of journalists that are killed every year are women
02:16:25.660
90% of journalists who are killed in war zones or some shit is men
02:16:31.660
it's also probably just like a more like women run social media team they have
02:16:35.660
let me see if I can find the bullshit fucking UN thing cause that's
02:16:43.660
there was the TTS from motorsports and then you had something Sarah
02:16:49.660
so I feel like it's been generally established with most of the people on the panel that
02:16:54.660
because of what we do for a living being porn stars
02:16:57.660
it's made us like undateable and unworthy to men and being respected by them
02:17:04.660
but my question is if that's what makes us unworthy then what's making you unworthy to men
02:17:10.660
because you don't sound like you're getting respected either
02:17:14.660
she's picked the wrong men but I don't think that that's
02:17:17.660
yeah but that makes it a men's fault then not a woman's fault
02:17:23.660
I never said that those men not wanting to date me was their fault
02:17:29.660
but I mean you can definitely say that it's your fault that you do porn and that you're never gonna get a husband so
02:17:37.660
right but you're saying that men don't respect me because I have nothing to do to gain
02:17:42.660
I didn't do anything to gain respect is that what you're trying to insinuate?
02:17:46.660
that by being a respectable woman I'm doing nothing to gain respect for men
02:17:50.660
by having a normal occupation and job that I'm not doing anything to gain respect
02:17:54.660
well your definition of normal is like totally your own definition
02:17:58.660
is it my own or is it the rest of the world's also and you're the minority of women that thinks the opposite
02:18:07.660
yeah I think the rest of the world definitely thinks that women that have normal jobs that don't sell their body online are respectable
02:18:14.660
did you personally take a poll with the rest of the world?
02:18:18.660
I think they did there was a poll and the poll unanimously stated that you don't wipe up
02:18:33.660
I don't remember being a part of that and I do think that I am part of the world
02:18:41.660
you're also the statistic that wouldn't be included in it though you realize that right?
02:18:49.660
one thousand dollars if you go on a date with Layla
02:19:11.660
you're selling a sexual service which is a date
02:19:27.660
they don't want us to go on a fake podcast date
02:19:31.660
I mean if you want to drop a thousand we'll pop champagne but
02:19:58.660
personally from the things that you've been saying
02:20:07.660
no because you came off very close-minded about it
02:20:23.660
well yes because I don't need to open my mind to something I already have deemed immoral
02:20:26.660
but see I think people like you have an immoral mindset
02:20:29.660
because you judge other peoples based off your own
02:20:32.660
so let me let me ask you a question let me ask you a question do you think the world would be a better place if every young girl did porn
02:20:38.660
I think the world would be a better place if every young girl had the confidence to do what you do
02:20:43.660
I don't think every young girl should do a point.
02:20:48.080
I think it's because some people are great at sports.
02:20:52.380
And you're going to have a chance to hear a great point.
02:21:02.440
In this world, we have people that have talents.
02:21:24.620
And if you're mad that porn stars are good at sex,
02:21:26.740
then you're just jealous that your pussy is inferior.
02:22:00.960
Chat, this girl just said that people don't love pussy.
02:22:05.060
Oh, I'm just saying that she thinks that her pussy is being worshipped, but it's...
02:22:18.940
I'm very happy, but you seem really bothered by it.
02:22:21.240
I could pay to my money for doing what I'm doing, and I'm going to do it more.
02:22:24.680
No, I'm just saying I make as much money as you, and I don't have to pop my pussy open.
02:22:32.060
I'm not judging, but you just said that my pussy is inferior.
02:22:48.500
No matter how experienced you think you are, you just can't.
02:22:56.380
There's a lot of other things that I can do that are better than sucking dick.
02:22:59.500
That's fine, and that's bad, and I'm happy for you.
02:23:00.860
But you do have to say that she can suck dick better than me.
02:23:12.180
So did you guys get into porn because you thought that sex and sucking dick is your talent?
02:23:20.360
Is that the only way that you guys can get men to like you?
02:23:23.620
So what else is good about you guys besides your pussy and your head?
02:23:37.780
I was going to say, because you guys are saying that, but you were questioning her values.
02:23:49.560
So you said people worship your pussy because they pay for it, but I could also pay $10.99
02:23:58.620
It means I'm getting my lick of chicken for a minute, and then they're going to go and
02:24:03.380
Out of all of the food places, you chose chicken, and you chose to pay $10.99 for that chicken.
02:24:08.140
I'd rather have that chicken than see your pussy.
02:24:13.280
Subscribe to that chicken's OnlyFans if that's what your kink is.
02:24:16.060
I just don't think you should be hateful to someone.
02:24:20.140
Your response to what we do for work says way more about you guys and your low-mindedness
02:24:27.900
Being a whore is not immoral, but being judgmental is.
02:24:36.540
You should explain your opinions in a very sweet, understanding way.
02:24:40.120
There's no need to put someone down because you don't agree.
02:24:41.060
I don't need to be understanding about whores and how they make their living.
02:24:59.120
But didn't you both admit that you guys are whores?
02:25:03.400
No one has been hateful to you this entire time.
02:25:05.500
I'm just agreeing with what you guys are saying.
02:25:10.720
I agreed with you guys that you guys are whores.
02:25:16.580
So me agreeing with you guys calling yourselves whores?
02:25:19.980
But I think the way that you speak can be definitely a little bit more respectful.
02:25:25.340
I mean, if you don't think that human beings are respecting people.
02:25:30.300
And I think that Brian can say, I don't agree with what you do.
02:25:32.520
And he says it in a very respectful way versus being like.
02:25:42.340
But I just think, you know, don't put something down because you don't disagree.
02:25:44.240
I just think you guys are getting bothered by it because you know I'm right.
02:25:46.380
I think that's very opposite on who's getting bothered.
02:25:51.600
I'm just agreeing with the fact that you guys called yourself whores.
02:25:55.700
So, did you get into porn because you thought that you had a talent at sucking dick or because
02:26:10.160
So, the reason why people get into porn is obviously going to vary depending on who you
02:26:14.720
For me personally, at the time, I put a lot of pressure on relationships and men and all
02:26:30.640
And, like, in high school, I just put, like, I grew up very, closed off, so I didn't really
02:26:36.200
start talking to other people or dating until high school, really.
02:26:40.500
And I just felt like I put a lot of pressure on it.
02:26:43.220
So, for me personally, I wanted to be able to enjoy sex in a fun way and be able to profit
02:26:49.080
off of it and be able to take that, like, oh, my God, does he like me?
02:26:55.320
And be able to turn it into something fun and enjoy it instead of always stressing about
02:27:04.980
I think I was also really young when I joined, and I thought it was going to be something
02:27:10.340
I enjoyed, and I did enjoy it, but I learned really fast that I wasn't made for porn.
02:27:15.340
I can't take dick, like, Molly can, Molly's a fucking porn star.
02:27:18.540
Like, y'all can hate her all she wants, but she's a fucking porn star.
02:27:24.340
I had to start, if I could finish, please, sorry.
02:27:26.580
I had to start doing it, like, once a week, and then I just, like, couldn't, and then
02:27:36.040
But, you know, for me, I was, like, erotic modeling, as one could say, like, more professionally,
02:27:41.040
just, like, you know, like, professional, like, nudes and stuff, and I was doing that
02:27:43.400
for OnlyFans, and I just, I liked sex, and I knew I was good at it, and I wanted to try
02:27:47.580
And I did like it at first, but it just got, it just got a lot really fast, so I had to
02:27:54.600
Because I just, I was doing OnlyFans, and I, I enjoy performing.
02:28:01.560
You know, I, at first I did camming, and I loved camming.
02:28:04.880
I love talking to my fans, I love being naked, I'm a nudist, I go around the house naked
02:28:10.680
I feel like no one's, no one's born, like, born, maybe not, liking being naked on the
02:28:15.920
I mean, you know, but some people, have you ever been to Vegas?
02:28:19.920
Honestly, like, the exhibitionist kink does exist.
02:28:22.280
I love, like, I love fucking in front of people, especially people that don't know I'm fucking
02:28:28.400
Like, when I did the bang bus, I was looking at this lady, and I did the bang bus.
02:28:32.800
You can't do corn without getting genital herpes, as condoms do not protect from it.
02:28:38.880
If the industry tested for it, there would be no industry.
02:28:42.800
How can you claim your lady parts are superior when they're infected, rancid, and I can smell
02:28:49.500
Okay, so, wait, actually, no, they don't test for HSV.
02:28:53.240
So, first of all, just by a show of hands, who here has either had mono or chicken pox
02:29:03.740
Wait, do they give you the vaccine, or do you just get it?
02:29:10.760
It's required to get a vaccine for it to go to school now, so.
02:29:13.980
Well, I went to school a long time ago, but, so, if you've had chicken pox or if you've
02:29:23.240
So, there's more than eight different strains of the virus, but two of those, being HSV-1
02:29:28.160
and HSV-2, are the ones that will produce sores or blisters, right?
02:29:32.560
So, for me personally, I had HSV when I was a little kid because I used someone's chapstick,
02:29:37.240
and that's how I got cold sores, which is herpes.
02:29:43.140
Well, yeah, but you mentioned that there's different kinds.
02:29:46.200
So, there's the one that's a bit more prevalent, which is the one that manifests itself in cold
02:29:52.620
However, I think the one that people are really, really trying to avoid, and granted,
02:29:57.140
I think also, if you can't, and also you can get, is it HSV-2 that's, oh, fuck.
02:30:07.140
The chick that can only make money selling her only asset on camera does not respect the
02:30:12.000
young lady that adds value to society and no real man values.
02:30:15.860
How good do you think you are in bed when anyone can rent it for $1.99?
02:30:23.380
Actually, on Grid Motorsports, all three of you have OnlyFans?
02:30:39.460
Yeah, I could get a shirt at Ross for what you guys are saying is so much more superior
02:30:44.620
Like, everything that comes out of your mouth shows that your character sucks.
02:30:49.620
No, I just would never, ever speak to someone like that.
02:30:52.960
My character sucks that yours is based on sex, so.
02:30:55.600
I don't use only content by someone selling people on what they do for work.
02:31:02.320
Did you kind of miss the, what was the chicken that they recently got rid of?
02:31:18.960
Oh, the cilantro chicken, like the cilantro lime chicken or something like that?
02:31:46.100
So, you can have HSV1 and HSV2 anywhere on your body.
02:31:50.100
So, you can have HSV2 on your lips and on your genitals as well as HSV1 on your lips and on your genitals.
02:31:56.380
Okay, well, in any case, I think people don't want either of those.
02:32:05.420
Something about it is it can actually be dormant in your body.
02:32:08.420
So, someone that you have possibly kissed, shared any lipstick, straws, anything like that with, that person could have it and they could not know.
02:32:16.340
A lot of people hide it or they don't say anything.
02:32:20.520
So, if you've ever had a cold sore ever in your life or someone else that you've kissed has, there is a chance that you get it.
02:32:28.320
So, okay, there's a high proportion of people who have cold sores.
02:32:33.540
However, that proportion when it comes to genital sores is much lower.
02:32:36.960
So, my understanding is in the industry, you're much more likely to get the cold sores on the genital or the herpes on the genitals.
02:32:46.660
But if you're having unprotected sex in general, which a majority of the population is, that's still a possibility.
02:32:54.040
And even if you are having sex in general and using condoms, it is still possible for you to get herpes.
02:33:00.180
So, unless you're completely celibate, you are at a risk of getting herpes.
02:33:03.660
And even if you're just sharing vapes or straws or anything like that with friends, you are still at a risk of getting herpes.
02:33:10.260
But it's kind of different when you're actually in the industry and literally you know everyone is sleeping with everyone.
02:33:22.900
Okay, we already talked about this previous show.
02:33:33.660
It makes you seven times more likely to get HIV.
02:33:37.100
Litigation, if you don't disclose to partners, rejected by who you disclose with, taking kidney-damaging drugs for life if infected, all porn stars have it, including the ones on the panel.
02:33:51.600
I've never seen that source, nor have I ever heard that from a doctor.
02:33:55.860
So, if you could drop the link to that source, I would love to look into that.
02:33:59.680
Yeah, Jay Butler, I'd actually be very curious to see some of the data on it.
02:34:03.660
I mean, I have heard, I don't know if this is anecdotally, or actually seen studies that, I mean, it's almost common sense, but it makes sense to me that these STDs are more prevalent in the porn industry.
02:34:18.720
So, like I said, with at least just talking about herpes, so cold sores is something that's very common.
02:34:24.040
And like I said, there's really not a difference between HSB1, HSB2, having cold sores, or having genital herpes, because either way, you have herpes.
02:34:36.000
It just manifests itself differently, but I don't see.
02:34:40.360
See, but this is a very interesting use of language to try to downplay herpes.
02:34:46.340
Yeah, but you're saying if you had this as a kid, but you're referencing different strains, and there's two strains in particular, which, to my understanding, I'm not an expert in herpes, are the ones you ought to be most concerned about.
02:34:59.680
And those are the ones that are on the lips and then on the genitals.
02:35:03.200
So, we can talk about the chicken pox and it being within the subclass or class of herpes virus.
02:35:10.480
The reasoning for me mentioning that and putting that in for comparison is simply to show that I feel like it's very common for people to hear genital herpes, like, on your vagina or your penis and think, like, oh, my God, that's disgusting STD.
02:35:27.000
But if you have a cold sore, because, like I said, for me, I got it from someone's chapstick, then it's supposed to be more normal.
02:35:32.620
So, and again, with chicken pox, it's mono, it's still herpes, it's still the herpes simplex virus, but it's just a lot more normalized because one's associated with sex and one's not.
02:35:46.900
I think the point you were trying to make where, like, when people consent to having sex with other people who, like, may or may not have herpes in porn, you're consenting to possibly getting herpes every time you share a straw with someone, share a chapstick, share a vape, all of that.
02:36:01.200
You're putting yourself in the same wheelhouse that porn stars put themselves in every day.
02:36:14.380
If you have cold sores and then you don't have an active cold sore blister, but let's say you suck someone's dick, then you can't give it to them.
02:36:23.180
It cannot be preventative and open sore on your body, so it depends.
02:36:26.380
Yeah, but one's more disgusting, one hurts more, and one is worse.
02:36:31.600
I know people that get extremely excruciatingly painful cold sores and then people that don't get genital outbreaks at all, even though they know that they have it.
02:36:41.260
Well, yeah, because I tend to be open-minded and listen and talk to people.
02:36:47.200
Type 1, HSV1, mostly spreads by oral contact and causes infections in or around the mouth, oral herpes, or cold sores.
02:36:56.540
Most adults are infected with HSV1, type 1 herpes.
02:36:59.800
Type 2 herpes spreads by sexual contact and causes genital herpes.
02:37:05.200
So, again, this is just a very quick summary of what I've seen.
02:37:09.120
Perhaps it could be the case—it sounds like type 1 can cause genital herpes, but it seems like the big one that people really want to try to avoid is type 2, HSV2, which is spread through sexual contact, causes genital herpes.
02:37:22.000
Perhaps it could be—I don't know the severity between HSV1, HSV2.
02:37:26.360
If the severity of HSV2 is worse, and if people who are in the industry are more susceptible to getting HSV2, then—
02:37:36.360
I would definitely say people in the industry are more susceptible to getting HSV2.
02:37:41.000
But that's, one, because, obviously, our job is having unprotected sex with each other.
02:37:46.100
And, two, it's not something that is disclosed or talked about in the way that it should be, which is another reason why I'm trying to bring so much information and enlightenment to herpes in this conversation, because a lot of people just simply don't know what they're talking about.
02:38:04.960
Oh, and Madison—wait, I want to bring something back to Molly here.
02:38:18.760
And Madison whispered into my ear, and she said—and I don't know if—I guess this was from your last appearance.
02:38:24.140
She said that you had difficulty—Madison just left, unfortunately, when I decided to bring this up.
02:38:39.620
Yeah, but, like, I've made other guys come through head really, really fast.
02:38:49.580
Like, some guys, when I fuck them, like, we can go for, like, hours on hours, and some guys can't last 30 seconds.
02:39:12.540
I don't know you, but you'd have to DM me, I guess.
02:39:21.440
Still want to see Layla and Brian on a real date.
02:39:54.280
Honestly, truthfully, I don't think I would even—like jokes aside, I don't think I would
02:40:03.800
Like, honestly, I don't go out like that either.
02:40:06.660
Well, that's what I'm kind of talking about, but just because, like, of what I do living
02:40:10.920
in California, living in, like, a super liberal city, like, I have enemies.
02:40:19.680
And so I am kind of—like, of all my interactions I've had with people in public, 99% of them
02:40:31.060
I had—you know, it's conceivable that I had some chick on the show and her boyfriend—
02:40:37.300
He confronted you in person, like he looked for you?
02:40:41.000
But I'm saying I'm—conceivably, you know, Santa Barbara's a small city.
02:40:48.940
And then I got fucking random dudes stepping to me.
02:40:51.220
We actually had a guy who was a guest on the podcast who is, like, the nicest dude ever,
02:41:11.300
No, he was at a bar or nightclub, and some dudes, like, confronted him about the whatever podcast.
02:41:22.280
He's never said a mean thing to any of the girls on the show, but they were, like,
02:41:25.160
you've been on the podcast, and they stepped—they wanted to fight him.
02:41:28.800
I don't even think that you are disrespectful, though.
02:41:30.080
I don't think you've ever, like, made me genuinely feel disrespected.
02:41:33.280
I mean, I've—I have my moments where I'm kind of—
02:41:36.020
And, like, I think that's, like, battering, but I genuinely don't think that, like,
02:41:38.720
you would ever want to intentionally, like, hurt someone's feelings like that.
02:41:42.660
Not only when it comes to the dating stuff, but I've had on, like, conservative-speaking guests,
02:41:54.260
But I also feel like they don't ever intentionally, like, dig at a woman.
02:41:58.260
No, it's not about that, but just by association, because I associate with conservative political
02:42:02.680
figures living in Santa Barbara, living in California, which is a very liberal area, there
02:42:07.960
are people that, like, if I was in the wrong place, wrong time, oh, that's the conservative
02:42:14.620
Like, have you ever had someone come up to you and be like, I don't like you.
02:42:16.460
Like, I can't believe you say those things online, and you're okay with that?
02:42:19.100
Truthfully, actually, in person, like, 99% of people have been super cool.
02:42:28.840
However, like, it's more just a risk management thing where—
02:42:38.240
Yeah, like, I do have to be cautious about—I do, like, have additional security concerns.
02:42:43.500
Well, you know, like, In-N-Out has, like, that one thing that you can—what's it called?
02:42:46.060
Like, when you order it, like, for the car, and they give you, like, a tray.
02:42:50.920
Like, they'll be like, are you getting in your car?
02:42:52.380
And if you say yes, like, they'll give you a tray just for you to hold in your lap.
02:42:55.400
It's, like, made so you can eat it in your car.
02:42:57.380
Well, anyways, what I was just basically getting at is I'm, like, when it—
02:43:00.640
Aside from the fact that I'm introverted and a bit of a homebody and I don't—
02:43:04.640
So, on top of that, I do have genuine, like, security concerns.
02:43:12.900
In person, everyone's been cool, but I've definitely had, like, threatening messages and shit.
02:43:17.700
But you've never had someone in person be like, you're a fucking, like, piece of poop?
02:43:26.320
I do have genuine, so, like, I actually don't really—I don't really, like, put myself in potentially troubling situations, especially at night.
02:43:37.640
Well, that—I've always kind of been—like, I don't go to bars, I don't go to clubs, I don't party at all, so—
02:43:41.780
But definitely, I can definitely see if I was, like, doing my show and going out clubbing and partying.
02:43:46.820
Or if you were, like, in real life, like, doing this, like, people would definitely be, like—
02:43:51.540
Well, actually, like, Madison has gone out to, like, film some shit in, like, the party area, whatever, like, downtown, the bars, clubs, and then the street parties, the college parties and stuff.
02:44:00.800
Like, if I went out and did that, like, I would probably need security.
02:44:03.920
I forget that this is a college town, I forget that, so you probably have a lot of, like, liberal—
02:44:08.600
Yeah, if I went out to film, like, an on-the-street video, I would need security.
02:44:13.180
What about—do you think you would ever do it, like, in L.A., like, not Santa Barbara?
02:44:23.820
Look, but I kind of—I mean, look, it is what it is.
02:44:26.880
I probably lean a bit more conservative, and I have on super conservative guests, so there
02:44:33.780
is a bit of risk management that we have to do, so—so, yeah, if we're going on a date,
02:44:50.520
Ask every woman on the panel knows every woman all cheat, so ask.
02:45:10.920
See, Tiffany has been hiding her power level this entire—
02:45:16.080
This entire episode, Tiffany is, like, the most based, conservative, and she has some really
02:45:22.760
hot takes, but I'm just waiting for her to, like, reveal her, uh—
02:45:29.300
I have no relationship experience, so I have nothing to add to this conversation.
02:45:37.600
To show, Tiffany, you have to wear the Super Saiyan hair.
02:46:24.620
That's, like, the one I haven't watched in so long.
02:46:28.480
You can have some, like, Jujutsu Kaisen type shit.
02:46:39.560
Here and there, like, I watched—10 years ago, I watched Attack on Titan.
02:46:47.500
And then I watched, like, during the COVID thing, I—oh, shit, I mentioned—I watched
02:46:54.060
the other seasons of it, but otherwise, I don't—anime's cool, but I'm not, like,
02:47:02.520
Oh, well, yeah, that's not an anime, though, but—
02:47:13.980
I don't think it's going to be topped anytime soon.
02:47:15.560
Well, I think if you looked at the earlier, I think House of Dragons is—
02:47:23.200
I think it just grabs your attention quicker, because I never finished Game of Thrones,
02:47:26.320
so I'm actually not the best person to say that, but the House of Dragons, like, made me—the
02:47:36.040
I thought it took me until, like, the third or fourth episode to, like, really fully get
02:47:40.900
I think that House of Dragons kind of—the earlier Game of Thrones, I think the first
02:47:45.180
four seasons, it delved much more into the political maneuvering, which kind of was lost
02:47:53.960
Game of Thrones, and there's all this political movement, and then come the fifth season, it
02:47:58.320
was just like, okay, let's do a bunch of action scenes and just, like, totally destroy,
02:48:03.460
like, like, years of plot building and arc building, fucking Jamie, this whole redemption
02:48:10.060
arc, and then at the—oh, shit, okay, I'm not going to spoil.
02:48:15.280
Did you have more with your thing, because, you know, your thing that you wanted to talk
02:48:21.560
When I was like, is there anything dating-related you want to get off your chest, and you were—
02:48:25.840
Oh, no, you only asked her—me and Q didn't even answer, because you were like,
02:48:29.980
well, why—something along the lines of, why is it that because we do adult content
02:48:35.340
that we're not deserving, or it's harder for us to get married, or is that—
02:48:41.900
Well, she said, why am I more deserving, because I don't do it.
02:48:45.460
But were you directing it just at her, or did you want the guys here to weigh in on the—
02:48:49.360
No, it was kind of just, I felt like—I mean, you totally can weigh in, but I just felt
02:48:58.040
Taking a dig at the—what we do for a living, and equating our job to our worthiness of
02:49:07.520
And I do totally, like, I don't personally agree with you guys' views and opinions on
02:49:14.900
it, and that's okay, but I don't think that it's fair for you to project your opinions
02:49:20.320
on our lifestyle and then, like, gather information that you perceive to be true, and then when
02:49:28.320
we, people actually living that lifestyle, are trying to tell you the truth about it, you
02:49:33.360
shut down what we have to say and tell us that we're just, you know, we don't deserve this,
02:49:45.160
Right, because I specifically remember you saying, what makes me more deserving of—because
02:49:49.160
you said I don't get the respect from the men I mentioned, right?
02:49:53.880
I just used you because you were the one talking about, like, how you were getting
02:49:58.880
So, the reason why I—yeah, you might think I didn't get respect in that situation, but
02:50:05.220
either way, all of those men respect me for the simple fact that I don't put my body
02:50:15.580
The reason he cheated was because he was sick in the head, so—
02:50:17.580
That's very clear that he doesn't respect you, and I'm not saying that you don't
02:50:27.740
So you think just because you're, like, alive and breathing—
02:50:29.740
Just because you're a person, you don't think you're going to get cheated on?
02:50:32.740
No, I think the key is to find a man who doesn't base how he respects you based on
02:50:36.740
what you did in your past or what you do for work.
02:50:38.740
I think your man should base how he respects you based on how you treat him and the relationship
02:50:44.740
Well, I think a lot of men just don't want their girlfriends on the internet.
02:50:53.740
But it's not hooking up with a bunch of other dudes.
02:50:56.740
But it's literally going to sleep with so much for people.
02:50:59.740
People's occupation that they do every single day doesn't matter to the person that wants
02:51:04.740
No, I don't think—I think that when you're looking to date—when you're looking to date
02:51:09.740
and the person you're looking to date happens to be a sex worker, like, you have no right
02:51:14.740
to have an opinion on what they do for work and continue seeing them.
02:51:35.740
So, I'm going to have me and Hugh come in on this.
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So, you're—well, first I just have a question for the three girls here who do adult content.
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So, do you think after—and some of you have been in it from fairly young, but do you think
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your romantic prospects are better now that you do adult content or do you think they're
02:51:58.740
I actually love—I actually have had way better—
02:52:05.740
But I actually—the relationships I have now that I've had ever since I quit porn or whatever,
02:52:10.740
like, it was only in there for, like, two months, but I genuinely love them so much
02:52:15.740
better than when I—the relationships I had before I did porn.
02:52:19.740
But, yeah, I mean, I guess it was good for me in a way.
02:52:23.740
I think doing porn for me—because, like, I'm a very, like, sexual person.
02:52:28.740
I'm very, like, curious about, like, new experiences in life.
02:52:32.740
I think that me doing porn really weeds out a lot of the people that, like, wouldn't,
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you know, be compatible with me simply because I do what I do for work.
02:52:44.740
And I don't appreciate a partner who is going to judge and, like, treat other people
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meanly based on what other people do in their own lives.
02:53:08.740
But I agree with you guys that it is most likely, and if not indeed, much slimmer selection
02:53:14.740
of people that are wanting to be with me because of my profession.
02:53:19.740
But because of my job, I have a lot firmer boundaries and an understanding of what I'm
02:53:29.740
And I have a clearer vision of dating and my expectations with that.
02:53:35.740
And I think that that helps me when I'm talking to potential people to be in relationships
02:53:41.740
with because I know what I'm looking for and I can clearly communicate my boundaries,
02:53:47.740
my feelings, my thought, what I'm looking for, and most people can't do that.
02:53:51.740
I think also, like, our sexuality not being tethered to who we're dating is very empowering
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and, like, frees up a lot of mental space to feel, like, needed or, like, sexually good
02:54:13.740
I don't understand how, like, so, right, we kind of came to the agreement that most men
02:54:21.740
Now, if all of these ones don't want to date porn stars, you're going to get the bottom
02:54:28.740
It's just the smaller portion of men that are okay with it.
02:54:32.740
I think it's okay to call anyone the bottom of the barrel.
02:54:34.740
I think all humans are humans, and, like, if I like one that you don't like, that's okay,
02:54:38.740
but you shouldn't say that they're the bottom of the worst people just because they like me.
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Sorry, just because someone likes me doesn't mean that they're gross or silly.
02:54:44.740
Okay, we don't need to relitigate her choice of words when it came to the bottle of the barrel
02:54:51.740
So is your kind of position that, like, do you object to guys not wanting to date you
02:55:00.740
I don't think, I think most, at least I would hope, most women who are in the adult entertainment
02:55:05.740
industry have some degree of self-awareness, and it's like, yeah, there are going to be
02:55:09.740
men that aren't going to want to date me because of the type of work I do.
02:55:15.740
I was aware of that before getting into the industry that that would be a result of what
02:55:21.740
I do for a living, but like she just said, most men don't want to date me because of what
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I do for work, but even before I did porn, I didn't want to date most men.
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Most men that are out there are not up to my expectations.
02:55:38.740
Well, like I was saying earlier, I'm a person, and just because you guys don't respect me,
02:55:43.740
I would never want to date you guys because you don't have basic respect for other human
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I would want someone that can view someone and respect them despite what they do for
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a living or despite what other people think about them.
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Is it disrespectful to not want to pursue something romantically or sexually with someone
02:56:04.740
No, absolutely not, but I think it's disrespectful to project like eternal loneliness and damnation
02:56:13.740
I don't think anybody here, at least not me, maybe somebody else at the table might have
02:56:21.740
I think that calling our dating pool the bottom of the barrel is definitely-
02:56:32.740
I mean, it's just statistically correct because when we talk about how men don't want to date
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a porn star, that already just lowers your chances of the men that want to marry you.
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I think that's where the resentment comes from.
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But also, like, we are all so unbothered because any man would fuck me too.
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Everything that comes out of your mouth is just about sex.
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Everything that comes out of your mouth is just judgmental.
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Everything that comes out of your mouth is like judgmental.
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Just make a point instead of a generalization and tell her what she actually said that was wrong.
02:57:35.740
You are, though, because we're literally talking about-
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These two men right here have just said they would never date a porn star.
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Now, take that and apply it to the rest of the men in the world that they are not going to also want to date a porn star.
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Your porn star is probably fucking other girls.
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And they probably are never going to marry you.
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Dick is better because I fucked that dick back.
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Leave this degeneracy and experience real loyalty lol.
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Bro, why do people send TTSs when the fucking person walks away?
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Please don't send TTSs directed at a person if they've-
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They're probably typing it and then they get up.
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02:59:26.740
I mean, just my reaction really quick is just like, look, you're free to do, free to do
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porn, but I think you got to understand that I'm not, my personal view is I don't think
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it's impossible for a girl who's been involved in that kind of industry to get a guy to get
02:59:47.740
Well, I think a woman can become a better version of herself, even if they went through
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What about women who've been like sex shopping and stuff?
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Some people, like, I didn't even know what I was getting into when I ran away.
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In the same way that women judge men for a vast list of criteria when it comes to selecting
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them to potentially be a romantic partner, men are also allowed to have-
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No, but it's like, there's always this, like, oh, why do-
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It's always this thing with, like, oh, why are men so judgmental about body count
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Y'all are super fucking judgmental about a myriad of things that matter to you, like
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a guy's height, a guy's success, a guy's penis size, there's a million fucking things that
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But if a man has a preference, that's discrimination.
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So anything that comes to the detriment of women when it comes to the dynamics between
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men and women, if a man has a preference, that's frowned upon.
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Sitting here listening to y'all, y'all have a very deontological view.
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What that means is y'all view shit as right or wrong, fair or unfair.
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We have things that we want our women we don't want them to do.
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Our brains work in a way to where certain things trigger us.
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And the thought of a woman being ramrodded by a whole bunch of dudes, sucking a whole
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bunch of dicks, taking cum on the face, all kind of shit.
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That's not something that we take pride in, in knowing that our woman does.
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It's not a personal opinion because if I run a survey right now, I can find thousands
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of dudes who feel the same way and I'll find more men who feel the way I feel than men
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What I'm saying is I'm painting a picture of what's normal and what's abnormal.
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That's why you're getting all this criticism and judgment.
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I think that's an opinion but it's morally reprehensible.
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Wait, at the end of the day, if you're going to do something, people are going to judge
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So to think you should live in a world where you won't receive any criticism or judgment,
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I would judge a man if he hasn't had enough sex.
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But you're sitting here saying you're being very judgmental and you kept highlighting that.
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No, I'm talking about talking to the girls on the panel.
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You can but that's not going to change it because you're essentially doing what they're
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You're literally just narrating this whole podcast and what it's about.
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You're doing nothing but virtue signaling back and forth.
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And what I'm saying is anything that you choose to do, you have to deal with the consequences
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Fully dealing with the consequences, but I think that you guys just have a fundamental
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opinion in what is, like a fundamentally different opinion in what is morally right
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I feel like you guys personally attack me for the way that I live my life.
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By saying you have a lot of sex, but then you're over here saying, oh, I'm not going
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to be with someone who doesn't have a lot of sex.
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How much your husband or your boyfriend makes because-
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My boyfriend makes definitely well over six figures, so-
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Okay, but you're over here talking about how you are not judging anything, but if a man did
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not make six figures, you probably wouldn't be with him.
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I'm not going to be mean towards someone about my preference, though.
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Why is in your very world that nobody is going to judge you?
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Do you not realize that being a porn star is not the normality today?
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But do you realize that I judge you for the way that you speak to me?
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But I can judge you for the way you're speaking to me, too.
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My point is that I think fundamentally you guys-
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That shows your character more than it shows mine.
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Fundamentally, I think that people on this panel have a different opinion on what morally
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Let's try to move away from the discussion of like, it's veered a little bit away from dating.
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So, yes, there's a dispute about what's morally correct.
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However, if I can try to stick it to what we're- I think the central thing about this conversation is our position is that if you are engaged in creating this kind of adult content, there are going to be men, perhaps a majority of men, that are going to find that unsuitable in a partner and would not pursue you for long-term serious relationship and or marriage.
03:05:41.740
So, we can have a discussion about, well, what's moral and what's not, but ultimately, bringing it back to dating, men do not want to get involved with- generally speaking, I would say most men do not want to get involved with women who are engaged in sex work.
03:05:57.740
No, I agree, and I'm saying I don't want to get involved with those men either, so.
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And then, but I do want to address one of the points you made, and you said that you judge men who are sexually inexperienced.
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Well, saying that, like, I wouldn't pick those men.
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Right, but do you think it's wrong for men to not want to date women who are promiscuous or who have a high body count?
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But I think the key difference, though, is- and I would say it's kind of the norm if women would not want to date a guy who's sexually experienced.
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However, when a guy doesn't want to date a woman who is sexually experienced and proxy for promiscuity, proxy for high body count, proxy for doing adult content,
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that's somehow wrong that we have a preference when it comes to the, when it comes to something that you have that's in your control.
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However, men will, or excuse me, women will disqualify men who can't get laid, who have difficulty developing relationships with women, which to some degree is outside of their control.
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So, you said you don't, you said you don't like men who, they lack sexual experience, but that's outside, that's kind of out of their control to some degree.
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Whereas, if you have a lot of sexual experience, that's 100% in your control.
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So, I would, I would argue it's, it's less fair to judge a man based on that than to judge a woman based on her promiscuity or her body count.
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I don't agree with that because, like, I want, I want the man who is, like, confident enough to go out and be sexually promiscuous
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and, like, learn about his body and learn what he likes and dislikes.
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I don't want to be the person that he, like, learns about himself through.
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I want to come together and, like, already know.
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Wait, so you want a guy who's promiscuous or has a capacity?
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Well, yeah, I want a guy that is, like, sexually there, that's not, like, sexually inadequate.
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Like, I enjoy sex, I'm very horny, and, like, I want a man that, like, is the same way.
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So, if he gave you all of that, you still wouldn't be loyal to him, though.
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But, again, our definitions of loyalty are different because, like, the way I view sex for work, I think that's just work.
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You do realize that you have more sexual experience than the overwhelming majority of them?
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That's why you date porn stars, that's what you said?
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So, your only pool of dating is other porn stars?
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That's my preferred pool of dating, but also, like, my boyfriend, I met him on Tinder.
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Like, we were friends for two years before we started dating, and I approached him.
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Look, when it comes to dating, right, you've got to understand that working in the sex industry is still a scarlet letter and always will be to a self-respecting man.
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Like, literally, I was asking an actual question.
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Anyways, I don't even think they're pushing back all that much on the whole realizing that because you're engaged in this kind of stuff that you are narrowing your pool of potential partners because there are just some men that would not want to pursue you for a romantic or sexual relationship.
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See, like, there's women who, there's definitely a lot of women that don't want to date me because I'm doing this dating podcast.
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But there's also women that would love to date you.
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There's also women that would love to date you.
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Why are you beckoning, why are you gesturing at Layla?
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Oh, he just said there were women because of this podcast that would not love to date him.
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There are definitely some women that do not, maybe they secretly do.
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I'd say it benefits me because a lot of the women who disagree with me end up liking me.
03:10:01.740
But I feel like you're a little, like, I come in sometimes with some, like, ridiculous shit takes, you know?
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And you're a little more level-headed, I think.
03:10:10.740
Well, that's because having conversations like this, you know, studying psychology, you try to understand why people do what they do as opposed to taking a moral stance on what they do.
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But I have clients, so I have to understand them objectively as opposed to telling them, you know, this is good, bad, when it's more healthy, unhealthy, and how effective is this going to be in getting what you want?
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I definitely respect that mindset, though, like, completely.
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Like, that you try to understand before judging.
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He may type in a second grade level, but he's got legendary lore.
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There's a difference between not meeting someone's preferences and openly making someone feel bad because they don't meet your preferences.
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What was the thing you whispered to me earlier, Madison, about the moment?
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Well, I'm doing my first feature dance on the 5th in New York at Sapphires.
03:12:17.740
Well, in response to Wolfgangpack, Wolfgangpack, Wolfgangpack, meeting someone's persons.
03:12:21.740
Well, I mean, obviously, when you've been invited on to a dating podcast where we have heated discussions about a myriad of dating-related topics, like, people are going to voice their stances and opinions, and that's actually encouraged.
03:12:38.740
But I'm not, like, messaging porn stars on Instagram in my private time, being like, you are the downfall of society.
03:12:48.740
Actually, a lot of people message me, though, and they go out their way privately on Instagram to voice their displeasure with my podcast, but...
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And then I have a lot of supporters, too, so...
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I didn't know that people, like, had, like, a disagreement with your stuff until I went on your podcast, and people were like, why would you go on there?
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And I was like, no, he was actually, like, super respectful the entire time.
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What do you reserve for those you are in sincere relationship based on traditional love?
03:13:51.740
What do you reserve for those you are in a sincere relationship based on traditional love?
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I think any guy who's dated me or ones that are dating me openly right now can say, like,
03:14:20.740
When Zerka, like, threw out his arm, like, that, like, actually scared me.
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Like, I felt, like, terrible that I couldn't take care of him.
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You seem like you don't with your little, eh, you know.
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Like, okay, I know you're, like, the whole act thing.
03:14:49.740
But so, if you and me were still dating, you would be involved with other men.
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Like, for example, the way me and Zerka date, like, he does whatever he needs for...
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Like, we kind of, like, you know, it's kind of how you play the game.
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When we were first starting to date, like, and he was here in LA, like, I wasn't fucking any other guy.
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I said, no, whenever I was fucking Zerka, I was only fucking him when he was in LA.
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I'm okay with us being together when he's in LA and he's in Miami.
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Yeah, so when you're in a relationship, when it comes to what you reserve for those you're
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I think I reserve the way I take care of that person.
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Because I give them a lot of love when I do love someone.
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It probably sounds so stupid, but can you define that?
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No, I know you think that, but honestly, me and Zirka argue because we're very alike,
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Let me put myself in your shoes, because if you love me enough to bring it up to me,
03:16:20.740
I don't really reserve anything sexually, because I think that's really weird.
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Like a really weird and perverted way to look at me and like the relationship.
03:16:38.740
Isn't your boyfriend supposed to be like, really, like one of the most important people
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So why wouldn't you want him to have all of you?
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No, he doesn't, because you pop your pussy open for other men.
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Just because I pop my pussy open for other men, a.k.a. go to work.
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Question, when you clock in, is that the first P and the V insertion?
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If you want to be serious about it, like, most of the time, like, call time is, like,
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So, like, is it perverted when other people reserve sex just for their relationship?
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Is that what you're saying, that it's perverted when people reserve stuff for just a relationship?
03:17:42.740
But, like, again, I think you're over-sexualizing my job, which is, I mean, what you're supposed
03:17:50.740
Yeah, that's what you're supposed to do, but when you're talking about, like, the real world
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and, like, taking it back on the scenes and looking at my real life.
03:17:59.740
You're just judging, like, all that's coming at it.
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No, I'm just saying, I'm responding to what you just said.
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I would like to just answer the question rather than be berated with your harsh judgment.
03:18:20.740
My point is, there's nothing that I reserve physically for my boyfriend because I think
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And she said we over-sexualize her job, everybody.
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So, I guess we over-sexualize doing porn for other things.
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But if we're talking about being in a relationship with someone, obviously, my intimacy is reserved
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So, the person that I'm spending my time with, the person that I'm cooking for, having dinner
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with, spending leisurely time with, watching movies, doing the intimate things, obviously,
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those things are reserved to whoever my partner would be.
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He's a medical student and one time he saved me from a swarm of jellyfish while we were
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And Jay Butler asked me to pass this to one of the girls who are in the adult content
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Could one of you wear this Ash Ketchum Pokemon hat?
03:19:51.740
I did a VR scene where I was Iono, the Pokemon trainer.
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They should redo, has there been like a Pokemon themed adult video probably?
03:20:07.740
No, I mean like I was Iono, like the Pokemon trainer.
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Is there anything dating related you'd like to talk about or get off your chest?
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Tiffany, do you want to take the hat off or do you like it?
03:20:51.740
Actually, I think you should go to class and you're...
03:21:01.740
Now, but we've had girls come on the show like they're virgins and...
03:21:10.740
But it's kind of vague in the sense of like they're not really waiting for marriage, but
03:21:17.740
Even if you like meet the right guy, you'll hook up or...
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I just trust in myself and I feel like the first guy I'm going to date is the person I'm
03:21:37.740
But you got to be pretty damn sure like you probably got to be in love.
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Like I would have to meet like all of their family.
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Do you have like kind of a traditional family background or what like...
03:22:07.740
Yeah, I guess Asian people are pretty traditional.
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Have you already had your heart broken by a frat boy at UCSB?
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I was curious because you said you, you know, you waiting or you outstanding.
03:23:25.740
No, we were talking about my type and then you-
03:23:27.740
I know, but I just wanted to know, have you ever even been tempted?
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That's why I said, have you ever been sexually aroused?
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I feel like you do come out like, like you're like so like powerful and it's like comes
03:24:08.740
What, why do you, what was the incident, I guess, that caused you to already not like
03:24:24.740
No, she's like, she's supposed to stay at home.
03:24:26.740
Are you like, you want a guy to just come over and watch Netflix and like watch?
03:24:38.740
I was friends with my boyfriend for two years before we started dating.
03:24:45.740
Well, this thought occurred to me like, so you have a subset of women who say, I want
03:24:56.740
But then it's, but then you also hear women who say that they get mad at the men who are
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their friends for trying to make a move and ruining the friendship.
03:25:10.740
So you have like, I don't know if it's two different groups of women or it's just like, but you
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do have women who say, I want to start off as friends.
03:25:17.740
But I do think some of those same women will also be frustrated when there's men who are
03:25:25.740
So men are listening to your advice saying, Oh, like women will say, Oh, we got to start
03:25:31.740
as friends, got to be friends first, then maybe.
03:25:34.740
And then when your friends, your male friends make a move, all of a sudden you get offended.
03:25:39.740
So it's like, but you've instructed the men to be your friends first, instead of just being
03:25:45.740
Me, me personally, I think it should be romantic from the start there.
03:25:49.740
There, there should not be like a friendship period transit.
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Like it should be romantic from the start or nothing.
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Like once he starts making that time with that person.
03:26:04.740
Well, maybe like friendship with a romantic hue.
03:26:14.740
But would you be upset with this friendship with the romantic hue?
03:26:18.740
If you saw that guy flirting with other women, sleeping with other women, dating other
03:26:31.740
Shouldn't you be happy for your, your friend that they are pursuing?
03:26:36.740
Well, she wants him to focus on only her, right?
03:26:39.740
So all the benefits of a relationship without any of the corresponding, you get, you get his
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attention, you get his protection, you get his, maybe, dude, there's girls, there are
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women who have male friends that will like pay for their shit.
03:26:53.740
It's basically a boyfriend without any of the reciprocated romantic or sexual, like anything.
03:27:01.740
Actually, I feel like girls just kind of like, if they find a guy like that, the, the one
03:27:04.740
that are like, the ones that say, I'm, that get mad about the guy pursuing it to be a romantic
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I think they want to keep the guy around just cause they like the attention sometimes.
03:27:18.740
They'll keep a guy around for sometimes guys will provide benefits that are just in
03:27:21.740
the friend zone, whether that's attention, whether that's here, there, we had a girl
03:27:27.740
Cause like she had a dude in her phone as Uber.
03:27:32.740
So she'll like go out, hang out with these guys.
03:27:35.740
They'll pay for it because you know, want to be good friends with the hopes that eventually
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down the road, what they're doing will elicit a romantic response from her.
03:27:45.740
It's just like, so it's, yeah, that's, I don't think, but just generally speaking, I think
03:27:54.740
If you happen to be friends and develop feelings, that's different.
03:27:57.740
But certainly if you get friend zoned as a guy, it's done.
03:28:10.740
Well, you're going to get friend zone, but don't.
03:28:12.740
If you don't want to be with me, it's nice to meet you.
03:28:20.740
I don't make male friends unless I want to be romantic with them.
03:28:30.740
So let's say a guy, let's say a non frat, emotionally stable college boy steps to you
03:28:36.740
who likes Kanye West also, who has a Kanye tattoo on his buttocks, steps to you and is
03:28:44.740
I actually don't really like guys who are Kanye fans.
03:28:55.740
I mean, okay, so the guys who do like Kanye, there's something wrong with them, but.
03:29:00.740
Well, he can't hate Kanye because I hate everyone who hates Kanye.
03:29:08.740
He has a, I want him to have a neutral point of view of Kanye.
03:29:12.740
But you don't, you don't want him to like Kanye either.
03:29:16.740
So if he's like me, then like that's kind of weird.
03:29:25.740
Let's say he steps to you, Tiffany, and he's like cute boy in class, right?
03:29:32.740
You're kind of leaving the grassy knoll by the outside of the, the you send the whatever.
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I was just, I was just thinking, thinking it through my head.
03:29:50.740
He's just like, hey, Tiffany, listen, just wanted to say, thought you were cute.
03:29:55.740
Wanted to see if you'd like to go out sometime.
03:30:01.740
Well, if I like someone, I do background research on them.
03:30:09.740
No, let's say you're in a class with him and you're kind of like gathering your books after
03:30:12.740
class and he, he approaches you in an affable sort of way.
03:30:18.740
Hey, maybe, maybe he's like, hey, you want to go grab coffee really quick before our next
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class or just like, hey, just thought you're cute.
03:30:24.740
Want to see if you'd like to get some food, grab some coffee sometime.
03:30:35.740
Assuming, assuming that he's like attractive and you would decline just based on the riz?
03:30:44.740
I think if he was a really attractive guy, it would be hard to say no for you.
03:30:48.740
So you would decline, you're attracted to him, but he, he approaches you.
03:30:52.740
He just says, hey, listen, just saw you in class.
03:31:04.740
I feel like that is like the most fucking polite way.
03:31:11.740
But what do you, what would you object to that scenario?
03:31:20.740
Somebody just said yes to a question where I'm trying to solicit more understanding,
03:31:35.740
These are the different messages that men receive from women.
03:31:44.740
So say you, say you sitting somewhere, you go on campus.
03:31:52.740
And a guy just comes to sit down, start talking to you.
03:32:01.740
So you want him to just come up to you and just start talking to you?
03:32:04.740
That would, that would be almost more awkward than in my situation.
03:32:08.740
Cause some random guy just came up to me and started talking to me.
03:32:13.740
Like if you're just having lunch on campus and a guy, a cute guy comes up with like a,
03:32:18.740
I mean, he can have, he can have Riz in the process.
03:32:21.740
Like seat taken, which we, or, you know, like, and make it comfortable to where he's
03:32:25.740
just interacting with you and you don't think too much into it.
03:32:28.740
Like now it's almost like an appointment, like that I have to commit to.
03:32:35.740
Bro, this is like men trying to approach women is like literally a fucking tightrope act.
03:32:44.740
She wouldn't want a guy politely approaching her.
03:32:47.740
Like granted, I think maybe it's the case, like, especially zoom zoomers who are like really
03:32:53.740
young have actually never encountered a guy doing a cold approach like that.
03:33:02.740
Look, I mean, even if you're attracted to him, the scenario I painted, that's just immediately
03:33:22.740
So what's the ideal scenario for you to meet a guy?
03:33:26.740
But don't you feel like if a guy is coming up to you by yourself at the cafeteria, he's
03:33:33.740
Because I know no guy, like no guy is about to come up to a random girl just to be friends
03:33:43.740
She doesn't want a guy to be instantly, which I mean, to me, it's like, what's the difference?
03:33:48.740
But she wants the guy to like, talk to her first, ask her how her day is, and then ask
03:33:56.740
She wants the guy to prove themselves first before she deems them worthy to go out on
03:34:07.740
Well, yeah, maybe she just doesn't want to take the risk of going on the date and then
03:34:13.740
Well, okay, the way I'm thinking with the scenario that I painted is the guy goes up,
03:34:17.740
he's immediately straightforward about his intentions, because like there's some guys
03:34:21.740
that will approach you and talk to you and it's like...
03:34:26.740
They're like asking you questions like, oh, where's the library?
03:34:30.740
And you know, like girls aren't fucking stupid.
03:34:32.740
They know that the pretext is a way to initiate a romantic interaction with you.
03:34:42.740
Me personally, like my approach would be to always be very upfront from the get-go and
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just because if the girl's got a boyfriend, I want to know right away.
03:34:49.740
I don't want to spend 10 minutes talking to a girl and then like keep it friendly and
03:34:53.740
then I ask her out and then she's like, oh, I have a boyfriend.
03:34:57.740
Because a lot of women, if you keep things more casual and friendly, they're not immediately
03:35:04.740
But if you're just straight up, hey, just thought you're cute.
03:35:08.740
Immediately they can give you the boyfriend objection and then it's like, oh, cool.
03:35:19.740
I think that like you're supposed to be straightforward and ask about the date and then during the
03:35:24.740
date is when you have those little conversations.
03:35:27.740
Like if I saw a cute girl in like a place where it's like a moving situation where, let's
03:35:32.740
say I saw a cute girl at Trader Joe's or something, I'm not going to like go and have
03:35:36.740
a 10 minute conversation with her about cucumbers.
03:35:39.740
I'm just going to be like, if she's cute, hey, just saw you.
03:35:46.740
And then based on what she says, if she's kind of into it, I might continue the conversation.
03:36:06.740
That's why her answers are the way they are because she's inexperienced.
03:36:46.740
You were like, oh, you grew up Mormon and then the thing got caught off.
03:36:55.740
I was trying to weave in that you grew up Mormon to the her Mormon bishop.
03:37:04.740
Do you have anything dating related though that you wanted to talk about?
03:37:13.740
It says the whole is greater than the sum of its parts.
03:37:32.740
I feel like he understands women's psyche a lot.
03:37:40.740
Did you just say you think Andrew Tate understands women's psyche?
03:37:47.740
Speaking of Andrew Tate, we have a video to react to that was related to something I think
03:37:50.740
one of you two had said earlier on in the conversation.
03:37:57.740
It's the one where he's talking about like, oh, if she doesn't take dick that well.
03:38:36.740
I forgot which one of you who said it was, but you're saying like, maybe it was you,
03:39:24.740
Have you ever taken that BDSM test.org test, Layla?
03:39:45.740
No, like, you know how there's like breakdowns when it comes to BDSM, like submissive, prey,
03:39:52.740
Well, she's also a brat, but in a BDSM concept.
03:40:05.740
That is such a small portion of the relationship.
03:40:16.740
On average, you might have sex for about an hour a day.
03:40:29.740
I have been taking a cooking class, and I think I've been doing pretty well in it.
03:40:36.740
I learned how to make this like a homemade baked potato soup.
03:40:44.740
I did the whole flour thing, chicken broth, the whole cut up chives.
03:40:58.740
Just to get off the S work for a minute, Swid T.
03:41:00.740
What is the number one deal breaker in a relationship, other than obviously S work and cheating?
03:41:10.740
Why don't we start with Kelly over here, and we'll go around the table.
03:41:14.740
What is the biggest deal breaker in a relationship?
03:41:19.740
Just by knowing someone, or if I'm already in the relationship?
03:41:28.740
So I guess it could be before, it could be during.
03:41:38.740
Or if you're in the same position that you were a whole year ago, and you're not trying
03:41:42.740
to do anything to better yourself, that's unattractive to me.
03:41:45.740
I have kind of a hot take on the whole ambition thing.
03:41:48.740
I think that women claim that they want ambition.
03:42:04.740
They want a man who has reaped the benefits, the tangible benefits of said ambition.
03:42:10.740
If a guy is broke and homeless, yet ambitious, that does nothing for you.
03:42:17.740
So it's not clear to me that women are particularly attracted to ambition.
03:42:23.740
I'm the most fucking ambitious person in Santa Barbara.
03:42:27.740
Chicks aren't, like, banging down the door to like, oh, Brian, you're so ambitious.
03:42:37.740
But if you weren't ambitious, Brian, then that would be a deal breaker.
03:42:48.740
Honestly, mine's probably just like physical attention just because I'm so clingy in a
03:43:15.740
And so people from Texas, they're like, where do you have that accent?
03:43:26.740
You're going to get an accent when you're younger.
03:43:49.740
Wait, Brian, you have a fuzz on your beard right here.
03:43:55.740
Tiffany, red flag, deal breaker, or deal breaker in a relationship?
03:44:02.740
Well, speaking of that, let's go around the table really quick.
03:44:11.740
Liberal, conservative, moderate, apolitical, starting with Layla.
03:44:23.740
I'm a constitutional conservative with progressive values.
03:44:50.740
Someone with her face and landing strip going down, her scalp should be thankful for any advance.
03:44:56.740
Girl with the Pokemon hat is cute AF. I think most dudes would wipe it up.
03:45:27.740
Five head Korean girl is apparently delusional.
03:45:30.740
Someone with her face and landing strip going down her scalp should be thankful for any advance.
03:46:34.740
Brian, there was this BTS that came in earlier like five or ten minutes ago that came in silent.
03:47:12.740
Um, someone that can't communicate their emotions nor can they self-regulate them.
03:47:22.740
Like, if I try and show you something new about like the news or the media and you just
03:47:27.740
like immediately like don't believe me or shut me down, like I'd get turned off immediately.
03:47:32.740
If anybody did that, I wouldn't want to be around them, but specifically a guy.
03:47:34.740
I mean, that's kind of the pot calling the kettle black, but...
03:47:38.740
I mean, you're saying that your deal breaker is someone being judgmental, but you're...
03:47:46.740
In the prospect of like the conspiracy and news, stuff like that.
03:47:57.740
I don't think it makes her close-minded to have an opinion.
03:47:59.740
No, not at all, but when you're judgmental and hateful and you like put your expectations
03:48:05.740
onto other people's lifestyles instead of saying like, wow, there's people that are different
03:48:12.740
Yeah, I mean like there's lots of people that are different.
03:48:18.740
I mean, sorry about that word, but you know, every...
03:48:21.740
The world and we all have a collective conscious that we are...
03:48:25.740
Consensus that we govern on and just because you two don't think that that's fair and...
03:48:28.740
Oh, I don't have the same view of loyalty as you.
03:48:34.740
Oh, everybody else does and you're never going to get away from that.
03:48:42.740
Like he said, being a porn star, being in the sex work, you are a minority of women.
03:48:46.740
You don't represent all women and you need to understand that.
03:48:49.740
And I know you keep saying like it's normal and it probably is because you do live in L.A.
03:49:11.740
We've already litigated the whole sex work stuff.
03:49:21.740
I mean like I kind of agree with like everything that everyone said, but it's also like someone
03:49:24.740
who can't keep themselves like physically fit on their own.
03:49:29.740
Someone who doesn't really care about like working out.
03:49:34.740
It's gross when they don't care about their house.
03:49:47.740
Look, I'm very transparent with people, with my audience.
03:49:54.740
No, dad bods are cute because it doesn't mean that you eat wrong or like don't work out.
03:49:59.740
You just don't have enough to go be like a billed body.
03:50:04.740
The shape of your body doesn't have to be like abs.
03:50:06.740
You just have to like implement the healthy lifestyle.
03:50:10.740
With his in and out cup or in front of his computer.
03:50:18.740
Like one thing I love is like being naked, like on top of each other.
03:50:26.740
But anyways, I think like one of the most important things in like my relationships
03:50:30.740
and why like we don't argue well and why we're so, so like soft spoken with each other
03:50:34.740
is because like just like being able to like forehead on forehead, like naked as fuck,
03:50:39.740
like laying in the sun, like just communicate like that.
03:50:41.740
I think that's so important just to be like like an hour a day, like just to be able to
03:50:45.740
like communicate all your feelings with like no judgment.
03:51:04.740
I want your, what do you think about, and this, I'm going to open this up to the entire
03:51:09.740
This is, this is going to be the most important fucking question I've ever asked this panel.
03:51:13.740
So I want all of your undivided attention, but I'm asking Tiffany first, then it's open
03:51:28.740
I want your thoughts and analysis on collateralized debt obligations and how it inevitably led to
03:52:01.560
There's like A, B, and then AAA and BBB or whatever.
03:52:05.500
And like the A mortgages are the ones where like they're owned by the people who have the best credit.
03:52:14.980
So CDOs are built upon a bunch of like A and B mortgages all like booked up together.
03:52:23.120
And the reason that the CDOs led to the financial crash of the 2000 whatever crisis was because these like banks were giving out CDOs or like creating CDOs.
03:52:35.500
Those that basically had no merit and the mortgages that were making up these CDOs, these people had horrible credit.
03:52:41.720
So once these CDOs fell, like the mortgages fell.
03:53:15.560
I have to say emotional dysregulation or having some form of mental illness.
03:54:00.140
Constantly deleting and recreating their dating profiles.
03:54:10.340
I got to add that shit to the career deal breaker.
03:54:17.660
Chat, chat, chat, chat, chat, chat, chat, chat.
03:54:19.960
Have you ever, those of you on dating apps, in the chat, have you ever matched with, like,
03:54:26.260
I'm telling you, dudes, this is almost worse than, like, travel nurses and flight attendants,
03:54:33.600
A Van Lifer, she's in a crammed car, so what she's going to do, she's going to be on the
03:54:42.740
They're going to match with you on the dating apps.
03:54:46.100
And then, like, but they're fucking the dudes, too, right?
03:54:48.640
So, if the chick's a Van Lifer, and she's gone to multiple cities, the body count is
03:55:00.860
And they're in town for, like, two days, so it's like, what's the fucking point?
03:55:03.360
It's actually something I never thought about, but, like, that's so true.
03:55:11.800
Well, careers, hairstylist, works in HR, flight attendant, travel nurse, any career where
03:55:23.880
But should women, in your opinion, like, would it be smart for me to go date a businessman,
03:55:34.700
I mean, look, if you're a woman and you want, like, to pursue a relationship, someone who's
03:55:41.540
a pilot who's always out of town, that might not be the most ideal situation for you, but
03:55:47.920
But me, personally, I, bro, flight attendants be fucking.
03:55:58.260
It's clear you have, there's no possibility of us pursuing a long-term relationship.
03:56:06.220
Otherwise, there's no, why would you be on a dating app, and you're only in town for three
03:56:12.760
I definitely think, like, especially Tinder, I think Tinder's, like, usually just for sex,
03:56:16.480
whereas, like, maybe, like, something like Hinge is more like dating.
03:56:20.120
Oh, and loudly empathizing with every cause and group on the planet, but treating people
03:56:39.640
I'm not sitting here saying I'm, like, the epitome of masculine.
03:56:48.780
Look, I'm not sitting here saying I'm, like, I'm a fucking super masculine dude.
03:56:54.160
But, uh, I'm more, I'm more like the class clown type of guy.
03:56:58.860
I mean, I don't ever think it's a compliment to call a guy feminine, but.
03:57:04.140
Here, actually, we have a video from Tiffany here that we're going to pull up.
03:57:07.920
Since we're assessing my masculinity, we can assess her femininity.
03:57:46.620
I hate the Red Pill community and how they set a bad image of conservatives.
03:57:53.260
I hate Sneeko, and I hate Pearl Davis even more.
03:57:58.480
It annoys me so much how Sneeko worked with Kanye.
03:58:00.740
As you guys know, Kanye is my identical face when he's my inner child.
03:58:09.300
If you want to hear more about this topic, watch my college college football video.
03:58:35.300
No, you're just like, you're feminine, so I'm just trying to-
03:58:40.160
I'm just repeating the words that just came out of your mouth.
03:59:00.400
Well, I don't follow the whole, like, if you have a list of things, bear in mind, I'm
03:59:06.720
There's a much higher conversational burden on me, so of course I do this preparation because
03:59:12.020
I have a significant conversational burden here.
03:59:26.600
Like, the way you said, I can't, like, see my enigma or something, I feel like that's
03:59:32.880
a very, like, feminine thing, you know what I mean?
03:59:36.300
Now you're changing it to the comment that I made about you that I said you're kind
03:59:49.600
So you're saying, like, commonality, we both hate things?
04:00:00.120
We can bond over our hatred of many, many things.
04:00:03.860
There's nothing, there's no better way to bond than hate bonding.
04:00:22.520
Okay, we'll do the video because of these girls.
04:00:33.160
But is it the case that men are really preoccupied with the skill of your D-S-ing?
04:00:41.660
I don't think so, but Tate has a stance on this.
04:00:48.640
No, you'd think with him being a millionaire, he'd use different red solo cups, but.
04:01:03.600
Don't you feel like you get to a point in your life where you're so mad?
04:01:06.480
Don't you feel like, maybe I'm going to sound like a romantic.
04:01:08.940
Don't you feel like you get to a position in your life where you'd rather have a girl who you truly love,
04:01:12.220
if she truly loves you, and it doesn't matter what you're saying?
04:01:22.820
If you sleep with enough women, just like if you sleep with enough men, there's no fucking move.
04:01:30.080
There's no move that's going to be like, wow, I've never seen this before.
04:01:33.180
I've never seen this before on my mind as well.
04:01:37.380
If you think the way you keep a man happy is to move your pussy in a particular way on top of his dick,
04:01:41.540
as opposed to behave in a way which is respectful to him out in the real world,
04:01:45.600
and for him to know he has you and your loyalty, regardless of what's going to come up,
04:01:50.260
all the problems he's going to come into in his life, then you're wrong.
04:01:52.840
So the whole point of sex is a connection between two people,
04:01:56.220
and I think having a genuine connection between two people is worth more of the sex.
04:01:59.200
So her question was, what can a woman do to truly blow your mind in the bedroom?
04:02:03.600
You'll blow my mind outside of the bedroom in a relationship as a whole.
04:02:09.920
Wouldn't you rather have a girlfriend who truly loves you, who is absolutely loyal to you?
04:02:13.700
Like no matter what happens, she's going to be there for you.
04:02:27.700
When you know she cares about you, wouldn't you be like,
04:02:32.160
because that's actually a quality woman, which is rare in the world today.
04:02:35.100
But I am genuinely uninterested in sleeping with a woman who I don't have a connection with.
04:02:39.100
If a girl said to me, I don't love you at all, I don't feel anything for you at all,
04:02:47.340
The sex act in and of itself is, okay, we've all, have you had sex?
04:02:52.480
Do you really need to fuck somebody who doesn't give a shit about you at all?
04:02:55.400
We live in a world now, right, where we have a lot of narratives which are being broken down
04:02:59.840
And I think it's very, very healthy for men and women to look at sex as an act that happens
04:03:08.080
The idea that I don't like them at all, but as long as they can suck dick this way,
04:03:14.800
If a girl genuinely loves me with all her heart and gives me a fucking terrible blowjob,
04:03:18.920
I'm still going to be like, well, you love me, I love you, it is what it is.
04:03:22.200
Life's more important than blowjobs and fucking blowing your load.
04:03:26.560
And if it's not love, if it's not love, let me tell you something.
04:03:31.860
If it's not love, you shouldn't be fucking them anyway.
04:03:35.820
Just because the model I've told you different, you shouldn't be fucking any man you don't love.
04:03:43.420
No, no, no, because the intimacy, whatever the fuck you say, intimacy, whatever, it's not there, you will feel it.
04:04:02.520
Like the fact that y'all, your Gluck Gluck 9,000 or whatever the fuck is on fire or whatever.
04:04:24.720
Like, yeah, I'm a slut and I really like to fuck, but I also really like to love and support you.
04:04:30.640
But you're right, you're saying that shouldn't be my main ideal to get guys, and I get that.
04:04:33.380
Well, the reason I bring it up is because when we say, well, like, oh, here's kind of the negative consequences.
04:04:39.720
Or negatives of dating someone in the adult industry, you say, well, we fuck really good.
04:04:46.120
First off, I don't think that that makes up for the negative consequences of why you're in the industry that could have a potential impact on a relationship.
04:05:00.700
In the same way that women are attracted to men who are experienced, men are attracted to women who have some degree of sexual purity or innocence who are inexperienced in some way.
04:05:10.840
Because that's psychologically stimulating for men.
04:05:14.120
Because the guys I fuck with, like, they do like how I fuck.
04:05:21.360
I met this guy the other day, and he was like, like, I only really fuck with, like, girls who really like to fuck.
04:05:30.420
Which is just his preference, and I get most guys aren't like that.
04:05:32.000
Do you think that's a guy that is, like, you want to marry?
04:05:36.540
And I honestly have, like, low-key, like, I hate to be a hypocrite, but, like, I low-key, like, understand your view.
04:05:40.820
Because, like, I'm not going to ever marry a slut.
04:05:43.360
Like, I'm very happy with how, like, my stuff, like, went down.
04:05:45.800
Well, you'll probably be disappointed in that partner, though.
04:05:50.840
Because your sexual expectations are probably substantial.
04:05:53.940
But, like, what if he lets me fuck who I want to fuck?
04:05:54.960
And I know that's, like, awful, and you hate that.
04:06:03.300
It might work for you, but it's not going to work for a lot of men.
04:06:08.320
Most men don't want their women, their partners, sleeping with other men.
04:06:17.040
But what we were saying in the first topic was, like, where are we even going?
04:06:24.660
You make it this big argument that, well, because of your experience in the adult entertainment industry,
04:06:31.340
that you are on some god-tier level when it comes to your fucking ability.
04:06:35.640
I don't think I'm better than anyone like that.
04:06:37.340
Bro, you've got to let me fucking finish before interrupting me so I can actually get through my point,
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so you can actually respond to me in an appropriate way.
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So, it's just like, let me finish my sentence so you don't...
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Okay, so, the argument that you guys have been making is because you guys do sex work,
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that immediately translates into you guys being better in the bedroom because you do sex work.
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You guys would probably also agree that if you guys never did sex work and you just had, like,
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one or two or three long-term boyfriends, you would probably be just as good in the bedroom
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than, like, you think the performative factor improved?
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I know for sure my sexual skills have improved the more I have sex because that's just how it works.
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But you need to have sex with different people to experience, like,
04:07:31.920
different things in sexual activities that you've never experienced before.
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One time, I had, like, a girl rub my clit with, like, her knuckles,
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and I didn't know I liked that, and I didn't know that felt good
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And so, like, now that's something I know I like.
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Why can't you have done that with the same person?
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Like, you can experience those things with the same person.
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Because my boyfriend's not a girl, and he's never had that done to him,
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Well, that's what happens when you get comfortable in a relationship,
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But if they don't know to do that, then how would that happen?
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Because you have to learn it about the other person.
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Like, the sex gets better once you keep having sex with the same person.
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You should listen to them, because you're missing a whole...
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Like, I've experienced the monogamous side of it,
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and I've experienced the side of it being in the porn industry.
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And I can fully say that, like, my sexual experience grows,
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and the way that I have sex gets better and better
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Because you're just having sex with different people,
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Yeah, and I don't think there's anything wrong with that,
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because it's my job to have sex with people long-term.
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You're going to have a problem with it when you're 29, 30.
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There's, like, MILFs, and they've done it ever since.
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You need to realize that children are a luxury.
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No, you need to be a good person to have children.
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Porn is not moral, no matter which way you spin it.
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I think MILFs are actually, like, the mothers I have met in porn,
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like, one time I met Corey Chase, the most, like, sweetest lady ever.
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She gave me a scrunchie and a Subway sandwich for the first time I met her.
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Every woman I've ever met in porn has been an amazing woman.
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I'm saying the people that they brought into the house, there were porn stars that I've met.
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And I'm going to tell you, it doesn't positively affect kids.
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But that's your experience that your parents allowed you to have.
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Mothers can, you can be a great mother just because you, it doesn't matter what your job is.
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It doesn't matter if you're a single mother and you're a stripper.
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But maybe both of you don't have a good example.
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I've met people with single mothers who are strippers, and they are the best people, some
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I was going to say because I'm able to ride my dog healthy life.
04:10:47.200
And his mom is a single mother, and she's a stripper.
04:10:50.080
We are now going to enter into the last portion of our show.
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We have a couple more conversational threads, and then we're going to wrap up.
04:11:00.240
So, guys, if you want to get – oh, we also – if you've seen the description, we've
04:11:11.840
So we've lowered the thresholds for – this is for Streamlabs and Superchat.
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20 and up for Read, 69 and up on Streamlabs for TTS.
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And we'll read from Streamlabs, too, if you want to do it through Streamlabs.
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That way we can open it up to a few more people if you want to here at the end.
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Oh, okay, we have something here from our good friend Stifler.
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Ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10.
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You guys are definitely more than what you said.
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So, you're on par with the most beautiful woman.
04:12:28.120
There's no woman who's more beautiful than you?
04:12:39.460
But you asked for my personal opinion on myself.
04:12:43.600
Your physical appearance is based in, like, an external reality.
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Like, because someone looks at you, that's how you look to the external world.
04:12:54.760
How you feel about it inside doesn't – your perception of yourself does not determine how other people see you in the world.
04:13:01.740
Well, I think of it like you can show a staged room to 10 different people.
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And they're all going to have different opinions on if that room looks good or not.
04:13:11.320
The person that staged it is going to think that the room is fucking amazing.
04:13:15.040
But someone else that did not stage the room could be like, I fucking hate the wall color.
04:13:21.720
So, in any case, your own self-perception – because typically, like, at least for, I'd say, a lot of people,
04:13:29.660
they do take into account their assessment of how generally other people might perceive them when it comes to their own physical attractiveness.
04:13:37.600
But for you, your self-perception is that when it comes to your looks, your physical appearance, you consider yourself to be a 10.
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Do you think that all women should view themselves that way, as 10s?
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Like, y'all are – every woman on this cast right now is drop-dead stunning.
04:14:02.300
So, you should see that in yourself and value yourself for what you truly are.
04:14:14.820
So, what do you – do you think all men should be 10s, should view themselves as 10s?
04:14:25.820
So, like, if you think – like, you said that you're a 6, so, like, obviously – and, again, it's subjective.
04:14:31.780
So, if you're thinking, like, what anyone can think, sure.
04:14:35.220
But, like, you as just yourself and an individual, when you're in the bathroom by yourself looking in the mirror, you should look at yourself and think that you're a 10.
04:14:46.560
I mean, you have to look at yourself every fucking day.
04:14:53.240
I mean, I could – okay, so, I have the definition of delusional here.
04:14:56.920
So, delusional is characterized by or holding false beliefs or judgments about external reality that are held despite incontrovertible evidence to the contrary, typically as a symptom of a mental condition.
04:15:10.140
Or having false or unrealistic beliefs or opinions based on or having faulty judgment mistaken.
04:15:15.460
Right, but you're calling me delusional on a question that you ask that's completely subjective.
04:15:19.780
Well, no, I said if I thought I was a 10, that would be delusional.
04:15:29.260
I am not on par with the most beautiful and physically attractive men in the world.
04:15:33.680
That's not me being insecure or having low self-esteem.
04:15:44.820
I'm not upset that I'm – this is my physical representation in this earthly plane.
04:15:53.120
But the question that you asked is completely subjective.
04:15:55.880
So, you're giving a really realist response to a completely subjective question.
04:16:00.160
But there is objectivity when it comes to physical beauty.
04:16:03.060
But, like, you – okay, if we each individually went and rated each other on the panel, we're all going to say different numbers for different people because of our own biases and preferences, correct?
04:16:17.240
But if we lined up 1,000 men and 1,000 women, there would be – you would start seeing patterns.
04:16:23.600
Like, if you had to, like, sort them by most attractive to least attractive, you would see – there could be, like, oh, this person's 972.
04:16:34.760
But you will start seeing general trend towards there is, to some degree, consensus over who's the most attractive and who's the least attractive.
04:16:43.740
But, again, you asked me for my opinion on myself, and I gave that to you.
04:16:47.920
And I feel like when you're rating yourself, like, you are your own best advocate.
04:16:56.140
But, no, it's not because it's, like, physical traits are subjective.
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Like, someone can think that, like, a thicker body is attractive, and someone can think that a thinner body is more attractive.
04:17:11.260
I think I might have a laser pointer somewhere.
04:17:13.260
I would actually – that would actually help me quite a lot.
04:17:28.520
I think the question that you have to ask, Brian, is what would you think the world rates yourself – would rate you as?
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But I think that, you know, I get what you're saying, and I agree with you, but I also think that those two questions ought to kind of be the same thing.
04:17:47.160
Yeah, and what does the world rate you, like she said.
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If you're asking us to see what does everybody else's governance of attractiveness mean to us, then that's a different question.
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If you ask, like, what on average I've been rated by people that have rated me, I would say that I'm anywhere between a 7 and an 8.
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I've had people that do not find me attractive whatsoever and people that think that I'm the most attractive person that they've ever met.
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I was actually going to use it on you so you could be less looking off into the distance.
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So you think people should factor in, like, everybody else's standards with our own to
04:19:14.180
I do think the two questions are, like, they're very much linked because, like, okay, I could
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sit here and think that I have a million dollars in my bank account, but if the bank
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institution says I have $100, however I feel about it or not, there's just, like, I only
04:19:38.380
Yeah, but your face – your body is something that is also tangible.
04:19:41.780
But everyone has different opinions on what is top-tier attractiveness.
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And so there could be some, like – some people have different things that they prefer.
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But I mean, I think when we're talking about the peak levels of physical attractiveness,
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like, if we're talking about that upper – like, tens, for example, someone who's
04:19:58.600
a ten, we are talking about, like, the pinnacle of beauty.
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But what I'm saying is everyone else's pinnacle of beauty is subjective to them.
04:20:09.400
So if you're asking us to rate ourselves, every single person's, like, standards of beauty
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So, like, when we rate ourselves, we have individual standards of beauty that nobody else
04:20:25.000
And, like, you can't really compare a viewing perspective of it, like, towards someone
04:20:33.880
Well, it's very convenient that it happens to be the case that for a lot of people, and
04:20:38.420
it seems to be more so women than men, that they seem to hold themselves to being tens.
04:20:52.240
That seems like a self-esteem issue for men, yeah.
04:20:56.620
Like, we can't sit here and be like, I'm a fucking ten.
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Like, you have, and also I think it's because both men and also women gas up other women.
04:21:05.720
Look at a girl's Instagram profile, even, like, a girl who's not on social media.
04:21:09.400
A girl who's, like, just some regular college girl who's an average-looking girl.
04:21:13.820
All her friends are in her fucking thing saying, you're a slay queen, you're beautiful.
04:21:22.140
Like, you know what's actually interesting, one of the differences between men and women
04:21:25.940
is that men will, like, kind of, like, mess with each other in person and then praise
04:21:30.660
each other in private, and I think it's the opposite.
04:21:33.200
Men will, women will praise other women publicly and then talk shit about them in private.
04:21:40.160
So, yeah, I just think women are gassing up other women.
04:21:49.160
A lot of simps are going to gas up a lot of women.
04:21:52.000
Plus, the amount of sexual attention that an average woman can get is fucking insane.
04:21:56.180
So, of course, a lot of women think they're tens because a lot of men want to fuck them.
04:21:59.400
Doesn't mean they want to be in a relationship, though.
04:22:04.300
Well, look, you take, like, an average girl, put her on Tinder, she has the equivalent sexual optionality
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as a top-tier male celebrity, professional athlete, musician, actor.
04:22:15.500
Average girl has the equivalent sexual pull of, like, it's insane.
04:22:22.360
Again, it seems like men are the horndogs here.
04:22:28.080
Layla, can you, if you're just going to be checked out, just go sit on the couch.
04:22:32.660
I'm just, like, looking at my fingers while I'm listening.
04:22:37.540
Like, the way you're describing it, saying that, like, men are simps and, like, a woman
04:22:42.260
has the sexual pull of, like, an average woman has the sexual pull of, like, any actress or
04:22:47.760
Of top, an average woman has the equivalent sexual optionality of a famous movie star,
04:22:54.500
So, you're saying that men, back to the supply and demand, men are demanding the sex from
04:23:03.280
And they are so horny that, like, they would fuck the average woman.
04:23:08.700
But, like, they're so horny for that that they create the supply.
04:23:12.260
Because women, obviously, if they're going to benefit, like, if they can benefit from
04:23:16.480
these simps and these men, like, fawning over them, they're going to.
04:23:19.000
Yeah, but don't confuse sexual attention for relationship attention and marriage attention.
04:23:24.040
Just because a guy wants to sleep with you doesn't mean that he wants to pursue anything else.
04:23:27.080
I think it goes into marriage attention as well.
04:23:33.020
So, you think every single man that has ever had sex with you wants to marry you?
04:23:38.360
Like, women view sex as commitment, whereas men view it as the opposite.
04:23:45.160
Like, no, a man will have sex with you, but he'll commit to you way later once he realizes
04:23:50.180
A woman will have sex with a man in hopes he's going to make her his girlfriend.
04:23:54.000
But, see, that's what I think is so empowering about porn is I have enough fun sex in my
04:23:59.200
life that I don't need to get my value from a man who, like, may or may not marry me one
04:24:06.300
And that goes back into what they were arguing with you about earlier where you were just
04:24:09.680
so confused about leaving that to one person and you were like, that's perverted to have
04:24:14.960
to leave intimacy to one person when it's, like, you literally said it was perverted to
04:24:21.620
I think it's perverted, no, I said it's perverted to look at my body to say that, oh, there's
04:24:27.860
Oh, that your job was, um, you said it was wrong to over-sexualize what you do for work,
04:24:31.940
Yeah, I, well, I think when you're looking at me as a person and taking myself out of
04:24:39.300
No, but I'm saying, do you see the logical fallacy?
04:24:41.780
You're wanting to not over-sexualize something you do literally for work.
04:24:45.740
No, she's just logically saying, treat me like a human.
04:24:48.400
I just, I wanted to ask, because I keep hearing this get brought up, so I wanted to, like,
04:24:52.480
play devil's advocate, but I keep hearing the word marriage getting thrown out there
04:24:55.920
and, like, how your value, not value, but, like, all of this has to do whether or not
04:25:05.160
Why is that the basis of the conversation when most marriages these days end in divorce?
04:25:10.600
That seems like a very feeble line to base people's worth on.
04:25:16.500
I'll tell you why right now, because all three of you said you wanted to be married
04:25:22.760
Like, I'm saying you guys don't want to have to have multiple baby daddies.
04:25:26.340
I actually don't want kids, nor do I want to get married.
04:25:45.020
Tonight, the slash prawn girls has been a bunch of circular arguments of them trying to defend
04:25:52.060
Shockingly, Layla has been the least horrid just needed.
04:26:00.300
And I thank you for saying I'm at least horrid, and I can agree that I am pretty needy, so.
04:26:07.220
Yeah, Grid One Motorsports, I am probably, I mean, I'm...
04:26:13.740
His comment was essentially just about, Sunday's panel's awesome.
04:26:22.740
Again, I've said this last show, I'm attempting to phase out bringing on women who do OnlyFans
04:26:27.520
and who are in the adult entertainment industry.
04:26:37.140
Not you guys, but, like, most of the women that have caused us major headaches on the show
04:26:42.060
were women in the adult entertainment industry.
04:26:48.800
I don't want to paint with a broad brush, but it has been repeated patterns of typically women
04:26:54.820
who are in the adult industry are the ones that cause us the biggest fucking headaches,
04:26:58.740
the ones that flake, the ones that are rude, the ones that no-show, the ones that...
04:27:06.420
Layla is checked out, contemplating how much her Valtrex prescription is going to cost.
04:27:21.000
Once it happens, it's every time you're stressed, sleep-deprived, etch.
04:27:34.520
Yeah, we're probably going to attempt to phase it out.
04:27:46.340
Wait, so, okay, you brought something up, and then the TTS came in.
04:27:58.620
I mean, I'm open to a partnership, and I've had partnerships before, but I don't...
04:28:15.260
I'm not going to say I've had a serious boyfriend.
04:28:17.460
That's why I said I've never had a boyfriend, but I've dated.
04:28:24.680
Dating isn't just going out on dates and hanging out with them.
04:28:32.540
I haven't worked in a few months just because I've been moving and doing personal stuff,
04:28:38.860
Like, of men that I've been dating in my personal life.
04:28:42.240
Going out on dates, getting to know them, like seeing...
04:28:45.420
So, of the three men that you've been dating, how many dates have you been on with each?
04:28:50.420
So, one guy, I've been seeing him for like four months.
04:29:00.660
Another guy, it was a lot more recent, like two months maybe.
04:29:05.560
And then another guy, probably like three or four months, and we've gone out maybe five
04:29:13.900
And you're not hooking up with any of these dudes?
04:29:20.620
But with my job, like obviously, a lot of men just tend to jump to sexualizing me.
04:29:26.840
So, I want, if a man is truly interested in me, I want to see that with him taking me
04:29:31.800
out on dates and getting to know me as a person outside of my job and wanting to have sex with
04:29:38.060
Don't you guys think it's unfair for you to say that it's unfair for a man to sexualize
04:29:42.900
you guys when your occupation is literally titled sex work?
04:29:46.680
Like, I think if a man's brain is that small that he can't wrap his head around, like work
04:29:57.300
You're the one that took something that's real life, intimate, and loving and turned it
04:30:04.680
As of the last maybe 40 years, the rest of humanity treated it as something intimate and loving
04:30:11.420
Now you've turned it into a career and something for you to make money off of.
04:30:14.020
So yeah, there's no...it makes sense that you're completely desensitized and you're never
04:30:34.940
One of them you've been seeing for four months.
04:30:40.300
Another was four months, and you've seen them a couple times or something.
04:30:42.820
And you've not hooked up with any of these three guys.
04:30:46.440
First off, that's a big fucking L for the guy you've been seeing for four months and
04:31:07.800
Um, I usually date guys when they're, like, 30s.
04:31:21.100
They're genuinely, like, romantic pursuits for you, not just...
04:31:30.920
I don't know who this four months hanging out one time a week thing is.
04:31:41.500
If you don't want to have sex with him, 100% your call.
04:31:44.280
But, like, from a guy's perspective, that's a big fucking L to be dating a girl that long
04:31:49.240
who's dating two other men at the same time, who's shooting porn, and she doesn't want
04:31:55.560
to be sexually open with you, that's a fucking L.
04:32:04.540
She does want to be sexually open, but with the right person, with the right intimacy.
04:32:08.600
And she's, like, literally taking her relationship so seriously.
04:32:28.420
Four months, this guy takes her out on a date once a week.
04:32:32.580
I think it should have developed to the point where the other guys...
04:32:43.420
No, I think she's, like, taking her dating and her relationships at us really seriously.
04:32:57.980
You talk to multiple different people at once and see who you connect with.
04:33:03.280
And I've, like, it's been explained to these people, like, they're aware that it's not exclusive.
04:33:08.620
We're just getting to know each other and, like, figuring out...
04:33:20.260
So, and I've been dealing with moving and, like, all this other stuff.
04:33:23.480
So, like, yeah, to carve out two hours to go to dinner with someone once a week, like,
04:33:40.780
Um, sort of, but I shut it down pretty quickly.
04:33:43.540
I mean, if you're so busy throughout your week...
04:33:46.740
And then you only have two hours to go and spend with them, and you're making time...
04:33:50.380
You're making that time to go see him every week,
04:33:53.360
shouldn't you care a little bit more about that person since you have no time in the world?
04:33:56.960
It's definitely not that I don't care about them, but I feel like we had a conversation.
04:34:04.360
She is stringing them along, and they are allowing themselves to be taken.
04:34:08.780
This is how attention-starved men are in today's society.
04:34:12.100
Guys, have some better standards for yourselves, and stop simping for these 304s.
04:34:18.320
Okay, but if I went and fucked all these guys, or just fucked that one, the four-month guy,
04:34:24.600
So it's like, I'm taking it slow and communicating with these people.
04:34:30.980
I mean, I think, hasn't that ship sailed when you started doing porn?
04:34:36.020
I've been doing porn for almost four years, and dating is...
04:34:41.880
The not being a slut thing, the ship has sailed on that a little bit.
04:34:46.740
I'm not going to show up to a porn set with my parents, right, and expect them to, like,
04:34:50.740
fall in love with every person that I'm shooting a porno with, right?
04:34:53.580
But when I'm dating in my personal life, as me, not just as, like, my persona of Sarah Ryder,
04:35:00.740
Okay, the production company pays you 500 bucks.
04:35:12.720
For that, you'll have sex right away with a man who doesn't care about you, but a guy
04:35:16.700
who's actually romantically interested in you, who's paying for dates, who's been dating
04:35:20.220
you for four months, makes the time to see you at least once a week, he's still waiting?
04:35:26.300
And you say you don't have all this time for him, then how are you entertaining all
04:35:30.620
Yeah, you have two other guys that you see, too.
04:35:32.380
Like, if you don't have all this time, maybe you should just focus on...
04:35:42.000
You probably had movers help you, too, I'm assuming.
04:35:44.000
Actually, no, I've been doing it all by myself.
04:35:47.040
And I'm furnishing a 2,000-square-foot house all on my own, so it does take some time.
04:35:52.960
I'm just saying, you're acting like, I fucking have all this shit.
04:35:55.420
But this experience of you moving is not unique to you.
04:36:00.200
Why is it such a burden on how you treat other...
04:36:04.600
You guys are automatically putting my dating into a negative light, but I literally said
04:36:15.420
They're consenting just as much as I am to be a part of the relationship.
04:36:17.960
No, no, no, but you're winning because you're getting the male attention.
04:36:26.540
He's giving you his protection, and you're not...
04:36:30.160
Yeah, but these people are getting to know me on an intimate level.
04:36:32.560
When I go to work, I'm not going and divulging all my, like, secrets about myself and the
04:36:38.040
things that are, like, make me a human being, but when I'm seeing someone romantically, just
04:36:43.160
like any other person would when they're dating, you're telling them more things than
04:36:48.800
Is he, like, got just a normal corporate-type job, or what?
04:36:52.560
So then what do you bring to the table for him?
04:37:02.540
But I never said that pussy is all that I bring to a relationship.
04:37:07.120
No, hey, but she's not even bringing pussy in a relationship.
04:37:11.740
That's not even what she's bringing at all, so what really, like...
04:37:17.860
And you've answered it asking me, what do I bring to the table?
04:37:40.120
Oh, you mean John Zerka, who's in Miami, who just had the most degenerate...
04:37:58.780
To me, it's just, like, it's interesting that you're very open sexually when you are being
04:38:06.120
But when it comes to a romantic relationship, you, like...
04:38:11.240
It's funny, because these two girls said, well, because I'm in the adult entertainment industry,
04:38:18.700
Yet, for you, you're in the adult entertainment industry, and the value that they said they
04:38:23.120
bring, you don't bring that value to a relationship, a.k.a. sex.
04:38:27.360
Because, to be fair, a lot of what has been said, in my opinion, from, like, Layla, is...
04:38:36.600
I'm not saying, like, oh, I'm a porn star, so, like, my biggest asset is that I have a
04:38:41.400
fucking vagina and that I have sex with people.
04:38:44.360
That is just, like, the ruse that's been put up and, like, what feeds you guys and, like,
04:38:52.580
But then when I humanize myself and date, like, a normal fucking person, like, oh, my God,
04:38:57.880
now I bring nothing to the table because it's not pussy?
04:39:00.280
That's not what I'm saying, but it's just, it's interesting to me that you are, look,
04:39:07.440
again, you're told, if you, obviously, you know, consent, you are 100% free to not, like,
04:39:14.340
want to sleep with somebody, and it should be on your terms.
04:39:19.120
And I just, the way, I guess a lot of men feel, will feel a certain type of way about
04:39:24.760
Like, for example, if I met a girl, not that I would pursue a girl, but in this way, but
04:39:29.180
if I found out that she had previously had 100 one-night stands, and then she finally
04:39:34.420
meets me, and then she says, we're going to wait until marriage to have sex, and then to
04:39:40.160
add, to add the cherry on top, she had all kinds of crazy sex with all those guys, but
04:39:44.920
with me, just missionary, it's kind of like, I don't know that there's an analogy for this,
04:39:50.520
but it's like, you have provided this value for all the previous men, but then now you
04:39:56.300
finally met me, and it feels like you are not, ah, fuck, I don't know how to articulate
04:40:06.940
In any case, for me, look, if I, if I encountered a girl who had a high body count, not that I
04:40:12.460
would even really want to pursue her, but, ah, and she was like, oh, I want to wait till
04:40:20.800
I'm not going to pressure you to have sex, but I'm just, I'm moving on, so, um, I don't
04:40:25.920
know, that's just, it's just interesting to me that, I'm more curious from, like, the guy's
04:40:31.820
perspective, like, what are they, like, I assume they're not waiting for marriage, like,
04:40:41.480
And neither am I, I'm not waiting for marriage either, but, like, I want to get to know them
04:40:49.840
Yeah, but we're both seeing other people, and like I said, we both have very demanding
04:40:53.840
jobs, like, he works from, like, three in the morning to, like, four in the afternoon.
04:40:57.700
How many dates, how many dates have you gone on with this guy?
04:41:07.480
Yeah, I mean, no, not all in public, like, we did have some, like, home dates, but.
04:41:12.560
So, that's, like, a good, 10 dates is, like, a good amount of time to get to know someone
04:41:16.620
and decide whether or not you want to be with that person, because I know after 10 dates,
04:41:20.340
I would not be wanting to, if I'm wasting 10 dates on a guy, I will, I like that guy.
04:41:25.220
I'm not going on 10 dates with no guy that I just want to, that's a lot of dates.
04:41:29.660
I can't even think of 10 places to go on dates right now, so, like, at the top of my head.
04:41:33.320
So, 10 dates, that's a lot of time and effort to be putting into somebody.
04:41:36.980
So, why are you going to waste your time taking somebody out on 10 dates if you're not serious about them?
04:41:41.960
I mean, it definitely might seem like a waste of time to you, but for me personally, like I said,
04:41:46.240
I didn't really start dating or anything like that until high school, so I'm only 22.
04:41:50.960
I'm just trying to figure myself out what I'm looking for in a relationship, in a partner, and things like that.
04:41:56.840
I'm even still figuring myself out as just an individual, so, by-
04:42:04.580
No, but just by going on dates, that's how I'm figuring that out.
04:42:08.120
And yes, 10 dates, I take him seriously as a person.
04:42:13.200
That's why I, you know, have this open dialogue and conversation and, you know, communication with this person.
04:42:20.160
It's not like I'm telling him, like, oh, yeah, we're dating, and then I'm seeing these other people behind his back.
04:42:27.880
I'm just trying to wrap my head around, like, when it comes to your standard to having sex.
04:42:32.700
If it's on camera, and if you get paid for it, you don't have to have any connection or know anything about the guy.
04:42:39.320
They just, some stud goes in, like, they, you probably don't even, do you know who you're going to shoot with beforehand?
04:42:46.280
It's some stud, whatever, and then you get some money, it's shot on camera, you'll fuck him right away.
04:42:53.040
Like, whereas for the men who you're romantically pursuing, it's let's wait four months and go on 10 dates.
04:42:59.200
It's just like, look, you're free to do what you want because that's your human right, but you've slept with a bunch of dudes without demanding exclusivity or marriage,
04:43:06.340
and now the guy you maybe actually like comes along, and you want to pretend like you always had moral or morals and high standards,
04:43:16.000
and you make him wait when he knows what you're doing.
04:43:19.380
I mean, if, yeah, you're giving sex a value when you gave it no value before when you were doing it for your career,
04:43:25.200
and now all of a sudden this guy has to do these things to attain it.
04:43:28.020
Like, that makes no sense when you're letting strangers get it for free.
04:43:31.540
You're getting paid, but they're not paying you.
04:43:33.920
They're getting, they're getting, they're getting paid to have sex with you.
04:43:37.540
And just again, yeah, they're getting paid too.
04:43:39.360
Just again, like, this, this is not ever about, like, a guy feeling entitled to something,
04:43:44.380
but it's just the way that it might make a guy feel.
04:43:47.080
So again, it's totally, look, if you've slept with a hundred guys, not, not even doing adult entertainment,
04:43:52.360
and you slept with a hundred guys on the one night stand, and then one guy finally comes along,
04:43:58.220
and you're like, you're going to have to wait till marriage, that's your call,
04:44:02.640
but a guy's going to feel like, here's an, here's an analogy, right?
04:44:08.920
It, it's kind of like going to McDonald's while everyone else eating there paid one dollar for a cheeseburger,
04:44:15.700
and then the clerk looks at you and says, it's a thousand dollars for you, sir.
04:44:23.440
Like, it, it, again, it's a hundred percent your call.
04:44:31.000
Well then, like, answer me this though, if, let's say I went on this first date with him,
04:44:35.200
and I had sex with him, just off the rip, why would he value me anymore,
04:44:39.400
and how would I know that he was deserving of having sex with me, and that intimacy?
04:44:45.660
Like, when you're at, like, obviously y'all have never been on a porn set,
04:44:51.200
Everyone's professional, you know, you're not taking these people out afterwards.
04:44:55.580
You're doing a job, and you're being kind and professional to each other, and, you know,
04:45:01.780
But when I'm going out with someone, pursuing them in a dating aspect, like,
04:45:05.080
I want to get to know them as a human, and I want them to get to know me, you know,
04:45:11.740
So, like, yes, I can go and get paid to have sex for work, and, like, become acquaintances,
04:45:16.180
and, like, like, Molly and I are great friends, uh, and we've had sex before for work,
04:45:20.140
but, like, for someone that I'm pursuing to take seriously for this partnership or this marriage,
04:45:25.580
so you, I don't, a hundred, I don't totally disagree with you.
04:45:30.520
Typically, I will raise this argument more so with, for example, women not in the adult
04:45:35.240
entertainment industry who engage in having casual sex, have had a lot of previous past
04:45:40.620
sexual partners very casually, a bunch of one-night stands, and they have two different
04:45:46.780
So what you'll see is you'll have, like, and I don't like this terminology, but let's just,
04:45:51.520
just for the simplicity of the conversation, if you're a alpha male, you get no-strings-attached
04:45:59.780
If you're a beta provider male, where the woman sees you as a potential long-term partner,
04:46:06.300
uh, she then withholds sex as a bargaining chip, uh, meanwhile, the beta guy is providing
04:46:13.280
significantly more resources compared to the alpha or friends with benefits guy.
04:46:17.220
I don't, I don't like using that terminology, but just for the simplicity of the conversation.
04:46:23.260
So my issue would be, like, for example, if I met a girl and, like, last week she had
04:46:27.880
a one-night stand and then the last, let's say she had four nights, four one-night stands
04:46:34.080
in the past three, uh, past month, and then she's going on a date with me, and then she's
04:46:45.120
I'm not gonna, there's not gonna be, like, a pressure or anything.
04:46:47.740
However, I'm going to feel like, she's just like, she's, she's not that interested in me,
04:46:55.460
and honestly, she's probably just, like, using, I don't like it if a, if a woman is using sex
04:47:03.660
Like, I'd want a girl to have genuine interest in having sex with me, so.
04:47:08.680
Well, it's definitely not a bargaining chip, and I don't think that in my personal relationships
04:47:16.060
Like, you know, obviously, I do have sex for work, so there's a lot more that goes into
04:47:20.040
It's not just some, like, random one-night stand hookup, or, you know, we get tested, we
04:47:25.820
have, like, extensive boundary and consent talks.
04:47:29.900
Like, there's, like, a whole thing to it, right?
04:47:31.360
So, if I'm gonna have someone, I mean, have sex with someone in my personal life, they
04:47:35.520
also need to, for my safety, the safety of my coworkers, and for them as well, have those
04:47:42.360
And, on top of that, I do have herpes, and that's something that I obviously want to tell
04:47:47.100
someone ahead of time before doing anything sexual with them.
04:47:50.380
I want them to have all the knowledge and have-
04:47:58.340
Have you told the guy who you've been dating for four months?
04:48:05.080
I want those people to be able to know, have the information about herpes, and be able
04:48:09.860
to make an informed decision on what, if they would like to or not, because-
04:48:18.120
Well, I know for a fact that I, like I said earlier, I got cold sores, HSV-1, on my lips
04:48:25.380
Like, when I was a little, I was in, like, kindergarten.
04:48:27.280
I do think I got it on my vagina because of the porn industry, because of how little
04:48:36.780
You know, because we don't test for it, but people don't tell you that, you know, and
04:48:42.880
I don't have an active outbreak, we're shooting this scene, your agents don't tell you, directors
04:48:47.480
don't tell you, and when you're young and inexperienced and you don't know the right
04:48:53.180
And for me personally, I thought I just had a rip or a cut or something, and a director
04:48:57.640
actually looked and was like, oh, you have a herpes outbreak, and I had no idea.
04:49:02.240
Does that, can you still be in the industry if you have, like-
04:49:09.060
So, yes, so they don't test, so the reason why they don't test-
04:49:12.360
It's not even that, like, even if you don't test, but like, you said a director saw, and
04:49:17.860
like, so it's not just you were not disclosing, they know.
04:49:22.740
Do you disclose to the people you shoot with that-
04:49:29.480
It's like, see, I know, it's like a really weird thing, right?
04:49:34.260
I don't think that's criminal, it's something that-
04:49:38.580
I'm just saying that, like, you accept when you get in the industry, though, like, you
04:49:44.860
So you're saying that they're taking that, like, they already know when they get into
04:49:48.580
No, no, no, I still think that, like, people have a responsibility to make people aware
04:49:55.480
Like, I had a scene with a performer, and they canceled the same day because they had an
04:49:58.940
active outbreak, and like, no harm, no foul, and I work with them again when the outbreak
04:50:03.140
Honestly, it's kind of, like, amazing to me, though, that there are people in the industry,
04:50:08.800
like, once, shouldn't you just be out-excised of the industry if you have-
04:50:14.520
Like, isn't- if you have HIV, right, you're done, right?
04:50:22.720
It would destroy the industry, that's why they don't do it.
04:50:26.160
So, with herpes, it's not always sexually transmitted.
04:50:28.820
Like, I had said with the thing about the ChapStick, I had that since I was a child,
04:50:38.840
So, because it's not something that is inherently sexually transmitted, like-
04:50:49.000
You had type 2 herpes on your vaginas from sex.
04:50:51.300
Yeah, but I had herpes before I ever had it on my neck.
04:50:53.420
But you would have never gotten it to get on your genitals.
04:51:01.800
What about having unprotected sex with a child who has herpes?
04:51:04.940
You're saying you can give yourself type 2 herpes on your vagina from your mouth?
04:51:08.380
No, but you can give yourself HSV1 on your genitals.
04:51:11.240
Is the argument that you're saying, because there are other vectors with which you can get herpes,
04:51:20.280
No, so the reason why the industry doesn't test for it is because when they were deciding whether or not they were going to test for HSV,
04:51:27.260
one, the testing is hard, and it's not wildly accurate.
04:51:35.600
But if you don't have an active outbreak, a lot of places won't even test you.
04:51:38.920
But you've, okay, you're telling me that you confirmed, I don't know, did you take a test?
04:51:47.620
Because, I mean, it's pretty, like, the outbreak, whatever.
04:51:53.820
Molly says that she was about to do a scene with a guy who knows he has it, who had an outbreak, so he canceled the scene.
04:52:01.800
It's shocking to me that you would continue working in the adult industry, risking other men and women.
04:52:08.640
But, but, so, when did you, you became, you got herpes, how far into the industry?
04:52:22.500
Yeah, I started right before COVID, though, so it was, like, I started in January, and then COVID happened in March, and then I would say I found out maybe around July or August.
04:52:32.120
So, in the six-month period after starting adult work, you got genital herpes.
04:52:39.720
And you've, but you've continued working for a period, another period of three and a half years, right?
04:52:45.000
You said you've been working a total of four years.
04:52:47.720
I mean, so it's just, in the industry, if you have a confirmed case, that doesn't bar you from shooting?
04:52:56.300
It's, people don't shoot when they have active outbreaks, but like I was saying, the reason why they didn't add in HSV testing is because it's, the tests aren't necessarily accurate, and if they did that, they would have to separate.
04:53:28.300
Do you not have like, aside from, do you not have a concern about continuing to spread this disease?
04:53:34.860
Well, I would never work with an active outbreak, a blister.
04:53:38.420
But, but aren't, but okay, but before like a full-blown outbreak, there's like a pre, it's like pre.
04:53:51.780
For me personally, I can tell when I'm going to get an outbreak and I just won't work, but.
04:53:57.900
I mean, within six months of starting in the industry, you got it.
04:54:03.400
So it's clear that the women or the men in this industry are not like, even if you're not having sex during an active outbreak, you are.
04:54:13.380
Or, there is a very low chance that it is transmissible, yes.
04:54:17.760
You got it within six months of working in the industry.
04:54:21.440
And you think that's low and you're taking that chance to give it to other people without disclosing them?
04:54:33.100
So it's just right to just give people a disease?
04:54:51.000
I am not a lawyer, but for the record, knowing you have an STD slash STI and not informing a
04:54:56.820
partner about it and then proceeding to have sex with them anyway is considered sexual battery.
04:55:01.820
Please seek California Penal Code section 243.4a.
04:55:08.460
So congratulations, you've committed sexual battery, and you're not going to convince anybody
04:55:12.260
else that it's your, oh, but according to me, according to me, but when I do it, no,
04:55:19.860
Wait, do you not disclose to, let's say you're not having an outbreak, do you tell the people
04:55:25.340
that you're working with that you have herpes, you say?
04:55:36.120
It means you disclose the information without the other party asking.
04:55:41.340
There are multiple court cases involving million dollar settlements for genital herpes transmissions
04:55:49.540
Seventy percent of cases spread through asymptomatic viral shedding.
04:55:59.880
I've taken the herpes test, and I don't have herpes, so.
04:56:02.920
I took it right out, and I got it out of porn, so.
04:56:11.940
Going back to the respect, there are two kinds of respect.
04:56:16.240
Layla seems sweet and candid, which is worth something.
04:56:20.060
But respect for someone like Emily is a different kind of respect,
04:56:23.520
and this one factors more into choosing partners.
04:56:29.680
Let me do, we'll continue on briefly on this thread,
04:56:32.680
and then we're going to have to wrap up here pretty soon.
04:56:34.840
I do need to pull up a couple of our chats here because they're about to fall off.
04:56:51.560
He is tall enough to fuck your crush and your mother.
04:57:02.900
Can I take you on a date since Brian is throwing away the opportunity?
04:57:06.260
If yes, what's your email so I can send the proposal?
04:57:08.580
My email is leilajinnerbusiness at gmail.com for all business inquiries.
04:57:16.240
To the devil worshippers that are judging people.
04:57:19.320
Jesus, a real Christian, was friends with a prostitute.
04:57:22.120
A real Christian would be their friend and help them in ways that they can.
04:57:26.440
Only if they want to get out of the industry, then help them with that.
04:57:35.540
And there was a TTS from Bon and Curtis Leon about 60 minutes ago that didn't trigger.
04:58:01.660
Layla, sometimes if there's a curse word in the thing, it won't trigger the.
04:58:23.960
Going back to the respect, there are two kinds of respect.
04:58:30.060
Normally, I just listen to the podcast and really do not care to comment.
04:58:32.960
The input tonight was just a wild hair sort of thing.
04:58:35.720
Contrasting the last panel versus this one is quite shocking.
04:58:38.460
Look forward to seeing Stay Safe and something else in the near future, I believe.
04:58:48.140
So let me know if we read this or it came in as TTS.
04:58:51.600
I think what you're describing, Brian, is a simp.
04:58:55.680
Guys can't be friends to women they are attracted to.
04:59:03.020
This came in a while ago, so I don't know if it's not related to our current conversation.
04:59:09.820
And then you said there was another one from – who did he say was the other one?
04:59:45.580
You kind of remind me of Lon – that's so sweet.
04:59:49.680
I appreciate and understand the pod, but don't need to blow up.
04:59:54.200
The three po's just – the three po's just ask or pull the chat.
05:00:07.520
I appreciate and understand the pod, but don't need to blow up.
05:00:17.920
I'm going to try to make it through to December without a break, but I don't know.
05:00:24.900
CDO's weren't what caused the financial crisis.
05:00:27.700
Take those out of the industry, and it was a drop in the bucket.
05:00:31.340
What caused the crisis was a lack of liquidity at the banks, hence capital requirements now.
05:00:44.240
Emily, judging Molly and Layla all night, LMAO.
05:00:47.800
I don't agree with what they say, but your judgmental attitude is ugly AF.
05:00:53.440
No wonder your boyfriend didn't want to commit.
05:00:56.740
Emily, do you have a response to David Moncada dropping the 23 euro?
05:01:05.360
When you're in a relationship, would you say you're kind of argumentative with partners?
05:01:14.760
No, I only get like this with, I guess, my mother.
05:01:22.820
Who was the one earlier saying something about their pussy being better?
05:01:28.300
Your pussy is better than Kelly's pussy, I think.
05:01:30.920
I'm just saying, I'm more sexually experienced.
05:01:34.420
Because she could have had sex a million times with her boyfriend.
05:01:37.780
You're more sexually experienced, but are you better in bed?
05:01:43.240
I think so, and I would show everyone right here on this table if they wanted to see it.
05:01:46.300
We will definitely need to disinfect the table.
05:02:01.480
I was going to say, I just learned how to squirters.
05:02:19.960
You can't really learn unless you're just like doing the fake p-shirt.
05:02:23.400
Well, it's like, you know, some guys can't make a girl squirt.
05:02:35.740
Have you had any other experiences with squirters?
05:02:55.200
Women who squirt typically are multi-orgasmic and come like insanely...
05:03:08.740
Yeah, women who genuinely squirt, women who genuinely squirt,
05:03:12.800
at least in my experience, like multi-orgasmic and can come like...
05:03:54.840
I ate steak really weirdly in front of him, and he made fun of me for it.
05:03:57.660
Why did somebody tell me that you're friends with benefits with Destiny?
05:03:59.860
I read that comment, though, and I was like, who the hell...
05:04:03.560
Like, we didn't even stream when we went out to lunch, and I didn't, like, post it,
05:04:08.400
Last question, or maybe second to last question.
05:04:37.140
Honestly, after the last podcast, I really sat down and thought about it, and I think I
05:04:44.180
I did, too, and I really sat down and thought, and I thought about, like, everyone that was
05:04:54.460
Yeah, I really sat down and thought, because I love giving head, and, well, do you consider
05:05:02.580
Well, then I'm going to have to sit down and calculate again, because I've given quite
05:05:24.820
So, guys, the average penis size is about, say, five to six inches.
05:05:44.760
Like, so, five inches times 100, five times, that's 500 inches.
05:06:02.420
Sorry, 42, well, it's 41.6666, 42 feet of dick.
05:06:10.040
And then, hold on, let me just do a little more.